I am newly getting to be married. I don't know how to play and act first night.Tell me?
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Congratulations. Take it slow, communicate your actions, use K-Y jelly. Use birthcontrol if your not ready to begin having children. Enjoy the night.
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You're screwed!!\nIf you're the groom.......... forget abt the game or else you'll be divorced the next day\n\nif you're the best man.........you have a chance, if u don't pay so much attention to the groom\n\nif you're just a guest .......... well thats what phones are made 4, emergencies lyk this. \n\n1) either keep phoning in on someone who will be watching\n2) get someone to sms you when something interesting happens\n3) if you have a radio on your phone just tune in from time to time\n\np.s. congradulations to whoever are getting married
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Don't listen to all these people.\nIt is probably a case of cold feet jitters-I went trough that right before my wedding too!\nJust talk to your intended and see how they feel, and just go with your gut. Remember, you can call it off at the altar if you like, but if you cancel now, it's definitely off.
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FIRST !  -Talk to hubby-if you value that relationship \nSecondly -  make arrangments for hubby to bowout during the course of the evening and check into a hotel. Don't make reservations , be spontaneous
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Well \n\n1.You and your new mate can do the $Money dance $ and have guest pin money on your clothes \n\n2. Get a  bunch of toielt paper and have 4 modles and have 2 helpers for each of the 4 modles and have them create wedding dresses out of the toilet paper. Then have them modle the "wedding dresses". the group picks the best dress and the group wins a gift  Basket.\n\n3. Have a local dance group or company perform
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you are married and you cant even figure out how to initiate sex???  oy!
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Good for you 'old coots' and I hope you enjoy the gift certificate.  You'll actually enjoy it.  Cloth napkins, fancy dishes, it's all good.  Just remember your manner...help your new lady with her chair and her coat...and order your most favorite dish.  A country boy like yourself can probably find a good steak on the menu...you can splurge on desserts...and a bottle of wine if you prefer.  Won't it be fun to dine in and not worry about the check.  Be sure to write a thank you note to the person who gave you the gift certificate and you've got the rest of your life to dine at BK.  Jazz up your clothing for the event (no overalls), help your new bride with the door and be whomever you want to be for the evening.  Just be sure you save some energy for the fun you'll have when you return home.  Enjoy....and good luck.
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First of all, buy a dress on sale.  Also, get married in a church. The flowers should be simple. Shop around for bargains.  Instead of a large sit down meal, do a cake and punch reception. You can get a cake from Albertson's or Stater Brothers. They will do an excellent job for a low price.  We had musician friends play at the reception and a friend agreed to MC.  Keep it simple, but elegant.
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My husband and I have established a "date night" (every other Saturday).  We take turns planning the night, but we keep it a secret.  We've also just started "bowling night" and "movie night" (we alternate these on Wednesdays).  It definitely gives us something to look forward to.\n\nThere's a book called "101 Nights of Great Sex" written by Laura Corn.   Once a month we each pick a sealed page, tear it out of the book, and keep it a secret.  We try to follow the scenario throughout the week and we surprise each other.  Some of them are kind of raunchy, but you don't have to follow them exactly (we don't).  Either way, we always fun!!!\n\nGive it a try!!!
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be confident and smile.  be yourself, and learn to have a good conversation.  groom!  look in her eyes - she will melt!  have fun and get out of the house!
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There are so many games you can play.  Card games, loser strips.  Board games, loser strips.  Role play, you be a mistress.  Go out and you act like you are meeting him for the first time.  Sometimes you just have to use your imagination.  Call him from work and talk dirty on the phone.  Now you got me going.  I think I will have fun wit my husbnd tonight.
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Is this it?\n\nA Basket of Candles For (bride and groom’s names)\n\nA basket of candles that come in a pair in all different colors for you two to share. \n\nThe white ones burn first as you begin your new life at home together as husband and wife. \n\nBurn the green pair next and hope no one is thinner after serving the first guests you have over for dinner. \n\nThe dark blue candles are for after your first fight Use them to burn while making up all night. \n\nRed candles set the mood and pave the way for your first married Valentine’s Day. \n\nNow, when your first year of marriage is through, the cream anniversary pair will light for you two. \n\nAnd in time we hope, maybe, just maybe you can light the purple ones on the birth of your baby. \n\nCongratulations (bride and groom’s names) on the start of your forever. May the two of you always be happy together. \n\nAnd burn these candles just the way it is said, but please don’t forget…blow them out before bed!
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no matter how much you plan, organize and control there is something that will not go as expected.\n\nif you are too worried about what is going to go wrong you won't be able to enjoy your day.  the most important thing you should remember is that you are marrying the one you love...bask in the moment, smile and enjoy yourself.  if you can't do that you will only remember the worst that happened.
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Make sure that any monies payable to venders on the day of are paid (with bridal couples $$$), make the first toast,Be appropriate and do not mention any one night stands the groom may have had. Sign the marriage certificate, MAKE SURE THE GROOM EATS PRIOR TO EVENT to prevent passing out!!!!  Make sure that no one in the bridal party gets too trashed. Hold on to the rings, it is also nice to get the other groomsmen out on the dance floor and encourage them to dance with girls, young and old that may be there solo. Trust me...it means the world to them... I will never forget a guy who asked me to dance with him, even though I had a wedding ring on, because my husband could not make it to the wedding. Overall, be classy and have fun. Oh yeah, it is also your job to deliver any gift that the groom may have for his bride on the day of the wedding. Take a picture of her opening it or a video...it will be something they will treasure forever.
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why dont you play games like they do in ann summers, heres a few ...............\n\nPass The Parcel\nLike the children’s game, make up a parcel with about five to ten layers, in each layer place a forfeit or book a party, and the game prize can be put into the middle.\n\nYou need to make sure they have some music so you can play this game.\n\n\n\n\nMusical Chairs\nYou might think you need music for this game but you don’t only a set of questions.\n\nIf the ladies answer to the questions you read is yes, she must move one place to the right. If the answer is no she stays where she is.\n\nThis means people will be sitting on each others laps etc.\n\nIt is the first one to sit back down where they started. So make sure you have a long set of question just in case.\n\nIdeas for questions:\n1. Have you kissed a bloke today?\n2. Have you kissed a woman today?\n3. Have you ever tried toe sucking?\n4. Are you into kinky sex?\n5. Have you ever been caught in the act?\n6. Have you ever caught anyone else in the act?\n7. Have you ever tasted edible undies?\n8. Have you had sex in the last week?\n9. Have you had an orgasm in the last week?\n10. Are you interested in a part time job?\n11. Do you own a vibrator?\n12. Do you swallow?\n13. Do you want an Ann Summers Party?\n14. Have you had sex with more than one bloke this year?\n15. Have you ever slept with some one else’s’ partner?\n\nThe questions are endless; you can just make them up.\n\n\n\n\nPop Corn Game\nYou will need a bowl of popcorn, and some straws. It is best to put the girls into two teams, with a straw each and each team with two bowls (one empty and one with popcorn)\n\nThe idea is to transfer the popcorn from one bowl to the other, each girl transferring a piece at a time, so they all have a go. The team that empties there bowl the quickest wins. It is best to have the two bowls per team apart from each other because it makes the game more fun.\n\n\n\n\nMarsh Mallows\nFor this game you will need quite a few marshmallows and two volunteers who like marshmallows, also have a couple of bags handy,for the end.\n\nYou give each lady a marshmallow to place in their mouths, but they are not allowed to eat them, but they have to say either FLUFFY or FUZZY BEARS OR EJACULATION.\n\nThen you give them another marshmallow to put in their mouths and they say it again. The lady that wins is the lady with the most marsh mallows in their mouth, that does not swallow.\n\nThen for the prize give out a certificate to the winner and a little something to both of them.\n\nYou have the bags ready for them to get rid of all the marshmallows.\n\n\n\n\nToilet Rolls\nYou need two empty toilet rolls and a couple of vibrators.\n\nGet four volunteers and give two the toilet rolls and two the vibrators (turned on). Get the ladies with the toilet rolls to hold them between their legs (at the top).\n\nThen blind fold her partner and place the vibrator between her legs.\nThe lady with the toilet roll has the guide (by talking) the vibrator into the toilet roll.\n\nThe couple that does it first, wins. You can also use empty bottles and vibrators.\n\n\n\n\nBots and Chocs\nYou need two milk bottles and two chocolate willies and some thread, enough to tie round a waist and down to the ground.\n\nTie the willy on to the string and tie it round someone’s waist so the willy is dangling at the back.\n\nPlace the milk bottle on the floor in front of them. The then have to guide the Willy into the bottle (with out using hands)\n\nThe first one does it wins.\n\n\n\n\nPlay Dough\nMake some play dough:\n\n6 cups flour\n3 cups salt\n12 teaspoon – cream of tartar\n3 tablespoons oil\nFood colouring\n6 cups boiling water\nMix together and if too wet add more flour.\nKeep in plastic bag\n\nGive every one a piece of play dough, and ask them to design a new vibrator. The best one wins.\n\n\n\n\n+ OR – Game\nGet each lady to draw a line down the middle of a bit of paper and get them to write – sign on one side
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no games,, however\n\nget an attractive bowl ask someone that you trust to pass any say donation while you are doing your slow wedding dance (smile) for you future.\nthis worked for my niece wedding and she and her husband collected well over $1,000.
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unfortunately it is a normal thing for all marriages to go through exactly what you are describing to us here.\nI say unfortunately, because we all have this GRAND idea what it is to have a baby, but when it actually happens and it is JUST like you described, we all flake out and act like you do..Yes even some dads feel the same way..\nyou need a good support unit around you.\nDO you live near any family at all. they NEED to be brought in to help out... at some time in the day tiem for you, so you CAN go to the gym and have some time to yourself..you NEED to work out for your body ..but also for your mind..this way you will met other girls and talk to them..new friendships, others with the same things going on..or just meet people and talk...\nat night..so you and your hubby can do what ever ( wink, wink ) or go and watch the sun go down then go out to eat...or a movie without worrying about the baby..or the baby interrupting you two at those moments..\nPlease listen to me and do what I ask of you..\nnow if you do not have any family near you..you need to find reliable people you can really trust with your baby for the times I suggested to you..and let them take care of her for you so you can get back on track..\nlastly,maybe you should go and talk to you doctor if after you do what I am asking you to do does not do it for you..\nnow really last..you also need to dress up at home..yes dress up at home for you, but more for him...he needs to see you looking GREAT when he is there..makes him hot for you.\ngive him special attention ( you know what I mean ) you know how guys are..they need more attention than girls do....but do not admit it..\nbuy him a flower, give it to him when the baby goes down for a nap..then..well you know what..make him feel so fantastic ..he will start giving you it back..the ball goes round and round..what goes around comes around..even if you have to work a little harder than normal to get him happy..in the long run he will give you more of what you want and need.\nGood Luck\nand God Bless the three of you