I'am having trouble keeping my house, the more I try to hole on to it , the worst things gets,?
961516
Children dont need the security of material possessions more than they need the security of a parent who loves them.  They would be devestated if you killed yourself and you know what, they would probably blame themselves.  Your kids should be the reason you want to live, want to see them grow up...to be there for them, see them get married and have children.  That is the most important thing in life....its not about money or possessions its about love and learning.  If you kill yourself you will have learnt nothing about what your journey has been for.  You may end your mental pain, but what about the pain and anguish and hurt and guilt you are going to leave behind.   Nothing ever stays the same....you may be having financial difficulties right now, but everything has a solution.  Please dont think your kids are going to be better off without you because they wont.  They love you, the need you.\n\nYou dont know what is around the corner and if you kill yourself you will never know.  There is no coming back.  You cant look down at your funeral and decide to come back when you see how much devestation you have caused to the people who love you.  If you kill yourself your kids will be scarred for life....You dont want that, surely, do you?\n\nPlease, for your kids sake, ring a crisis line right now....see a doctor, get some help.  You will solve nothing by killing yourself...All that will happen is that you will hurt the ones you love the most.  Dont do that to them...Get some help.
839698
As stupid as this might sound look at it this way. Things can't really get worse so they have to get better. I like to believe that you are always where your suppose to be and not necessarily were you want to be. Maybe you were able to determine your destiny before you started living your life and choose this way because it was the better way. Use this situation to figure out what it is you want out of life and do what it takes to make it happen whether it means going to school, accepting a job your not crazy about, moving somewhere else. Take it one day at a time and remember what goes around comes around so do good things so that good things happen to you. Problems are messages and maybe the only way for you to learn this message was to go through these hard times. \nGood luck.
572762
get out more often, dont sit at the puter all day\ngood luck ;P
47864
Be prepare to be called a home wrecker and/or a whore.\nIt sounds to me like you might need professional help.
1049114
I get that a lot but there is very little one can do with inconsiderate people we are forced to live with due to circumstance. What I usually do is avoid these situations as much as I can and hopefully avoid crazy people who might just harm me. I suggest you do the same and hopefully in a year or two you buy you own home with plenty of parking space reserved for you :)
1025615
Actually...you will lose your house. Dont worry...they will get to you eventually.
408942
Go to a shelter. They work with lot of resources on daily basis; if you are willing to help yourself. Good Luck
375096
Wow, that does not sound like an easy problem to deal with.  I suppose you have to do it as gently as possible.  I wish all the luck in doing that.
416961
This is a tough one, I also kind have this fear.\n\nPersonally, I just do the best I can to push it to the back of my mind and do my best to carry on.
966191
hang in there its only till January right around the corner and I know your thankful for having a roof over your head and that your inlaws have opened there house to you. I'm sure there feeling confined and missing there privacy too. Try to continue working this will help be away from the house as much as possible and when you are home try to find a quiet place where you can read a book or even soak in a tub for a bit its only a couple more months in the mean time you enjoy planning and having parties. why not get a pad and pen out and start planning this wonderful party your going to have once you get your new home. take this time to prepare and jot down ideas of what you want with this new house warming party. this should carry you through till January. good luck
933570
If you can afford to get the repairs done, do it and let things go. The time, worry and effort involved in getting anything back at all will probably not be worth it.\n\nTake the money, sign what they ask for and include a clause that they also consider the matter closed and they will take no further action etc..\n\nConcentrate your efforts on reletting the property and keeping it let. Learn a lesson and move on.
249725
Go to the police and tell them what is happening, get a restraining order and have the police escort you to the house to get your stuff, do it now before it's to late, I see so many woman stay and get killed, I'll pray for you, be brave and go tell someone, they'll help you...God bless
920048
try looking at the skirts and blouses last. maybe take a cooking class, joining the theater class. Put yourself in the middle of the fear. things will get better.
660686
I'm sorry to hear of your predicament.  One good thing is that your landlord cannot immediately evict you.  Contact different assistance providers in your area, including the government.  Good luck to you.
1157612
suck it up or leave,\n\nit could be worse you could be homeless
1071396
Good intentions :) My house is the one that road to hell leads up to :)
1101330
Don't feel that way.\nGo to a Christian (not Catholic, they're different) church and ask for help from a pastor.  Pray.  Ask God for strength and help for fixing your home.\nIf you seek Him, He will come to you.