relationship issues...what do you think?
952822
Gee that kind of makes the daughter the boss of his life. Guess I would sure he gets it and if he chooses to let his daughter "run" his life you may want to rethink your involvement with him. :o(
883558
Everyone questions their relationship from time to time. The ones who act on it are unfaithful, those who do not act on it, end up being frustrated and lonely. Where do you turn???? It is one of life's problems that we must deal with everyday. It is very normal to second, third, or even multiple guess important decisions. As far as for what I have experienced, there is not enough paper in the world to hold that story. Good luck and I hope you make the right choice for you.
792891
He shouldn't have to deal with it.  He needs to move out.\nI lived like that.  And the effects in the future are horrible.\nKeeping a relationship will be difficult.
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
440039
emotionally dilemma for him..\n\nget a grip and don't rush things...let him settle his matters with his wife first...before you proceed with your relationship..
881779
I think the girl has issues, and her boyfriend really needs to know what is going on, and decide if he wants to stay involved with her.\n\nBut, essentially, she is just determined to be that way, by the sounds of things. The only person who can make or break the relationship is her boyfriend. If you were to get involved, it could get very very messy. Even though you want to see people do the right thing, you need to be careful you don't interfere too much.\n\n'Bloody hell' is dead right. If she's not ready to be in a serious committed relationship, she should not be in one.
668353
sit down and talk it out... explain to him the pros and cons of the issue and see whats good for both of you...
464444
first how bad was it??? don't know the details, but weigh the pros and cons of the relationship. if there are more cons get out and don't look back. more pro's proceed, but with caution.
604100
How was the rest of the relationship?  There's much more to a marriage than not cheating.  Did you appreciate her or take her for granted?  Love on her or hit on her?  Listen to her or ignore her?  Care if you made her happy or content because you were?  Many things can make a relationship go astray.  Step back and take a look thru her eyes.  \nAnd then there are those that just don't appreciate a good think or know when they have one.  Which one does this describe?
983796
It isn't unacceptable. Some people have issues, that's all. You will have to decide which relationship is more important and which one you want in your life and work accordingly.
394297
I think there might be some mental disturbance. Both of you need to see doctors, it happens sometimes in such relationships, as you would admit its kinda different then normal. More over are you sure you are completely healthy?
681956
He definitely has issues that he needs to resolve. Only he knows why he's stalling.  And obviously unable to make a decision.  Thus in your shoes, I would request that he get back to you, once he resolves his issues.  Simple as that.\nPlease dont tell me how much you love him. There's no need for you to be dragged into his prior relationship by your confusion.  And how can you tell if he loves you, since he's unable to disconnect from his prior. If that is how he shows his love, I would be very concerned. You can be in for further heartache and confusion.  WHY torture yourself?
914066
have ya tried sitting him down and telling him the truth ? about how you feel about him ,etc.. and discuss Honestly and openly what went wrong in the past with your relationship with him ...what you like to see different if you two are to have another relationship together ...
865829
When will we ever reach a stage where these things will stop bothering us? Why are we still hung up on race? When you are dating this guy, why does the thought that it could be a bad thing even occur to you? No its not bad if both party in a relationship are mature enough & sensible about it. But now that you have posted this question, sit back & think if you really are confortable with status quo!
1005109
Ask yourself if you can trust her. If you can't, regardless of if she is truly being honest or not, then how can you have a healthy relationship? It sounds like there have been issues with trust with her in the past, and games to make each other jealous. Is that the kind of relationship you want to have?
164852
if you really love each other no it isnt time to end it. Me and My gf are going through a simuliar phase. Fights are expected in a realtionship. There are two people involved and two different views. SO you can expect fights. Me and My gf usually have at least one fight everyday. Manly this is my fault because I am under a lot of stress due to being so far in debt and working so many hours. I take a lot of it out on her although I dont mean to. My gf is going through the stage of life where she is making a lot of deciesions ( whatever that means I am not sure just what some mutual friends have told me) Therefore she gets upset at me alot. LOL But before the night is over we make sure everything is fine between us.   Good Luck I hop everything works out/
419274
Well it really depends on how bad it is & how long it's been.  If the relationship is terrible with constant fighting and it has been going on for a long time, theres really no turning back other than counceling.\n\nIf the issues just started, however big or small there is still a chance to repair the relationship.  Now if it is bad, is it bad for you or your partner?  Do you benefit from eachother?  \n\nIf it's worth it to you, stick it out, only for yourself.