i really treid this a lot but cant gettit!?
968857
just work backwards to find out the logic in it. That way you'll get why it works that way it did
1110527
oh dear.. this has happend to me too. The best thing to do is try your hardest (though challeging) to move ahead with your life. Time to look for new friends! Be confident, and calm. In a month or so, call up your old friend again, maybe by then she will have missed you, and ask to be friends again. If not, well, there are plenty more fish in the pond. It is the cold, hard truth!
173851
just get a hold of ur self and try avoiding it
338376
This worked for me a few years ago... My ( now x girlfriend ) played hard to get... I ended up asking her out at one point... Anyways, play hard to get, and when the time is right ( if God allows it ), the guy will ask you out... TRUST ME... IT WORKS...
785385
I feel your pain!!!  Keep busy and hang with close friends. Honestly the best way to get her out of your head is to find another. Plenty of us females out here that would love to be on there guys mind 24/7. Just keep looking.
812722
I feel your pain.  All you have to do is, go out with an open mind, and not expect anything to really happen, and that is (well so I am told) it will happen.   When you least expect it.  Don't try so hard.  Let it find you.  And it will.  I know, it is harder than just reading these words.  But, I am in the same boat.  Patience is a virtue.  Good Luck, and It will happen.
671208
Be strong.  It's not always your fault.  Don't be so hard on yourself.  You are a loving, generous person, and you have alot to offer.  You are involved with people with whom you are intersted in and, care deeply about and love.  You have thoughts, feelings and desires.  Look deeply within yourself for your answers.  Nothing is easy, and someimes there are no reasons, except that you tried and gave your all, and that what counts.  Don't ever give up but don't ever give-in either.
1186177
Force yourself to do it!  There's no other way.  What hapened that made you lose interest?  You may want to get some help for it.
568554
You could always try I have had a similar experience but it did not work out.  Just remember to take it slow.
9259
Yeah, same thing happened to me. Just give it a while. Things will show up. Sometimes it just takes a little cruising around on the site b4 it kicks in!
580845
i use to have the same problem. just a few months ago i had to change my way of thinking about myself. i started inviting people over to play cards or have a cookout. i went out and would just say anthing that was on my mind. i listened to people so much, that is all they do, they just say whatever is on their mind. i also would tell them stuff that happeded to me, either funny or embarr. and one more thing, sometimes you have to be a friend first. if you are a girl, when you go to another girls house, do her dishes, or fix her something she has never tired before.if you are a guy, then go hunting or fishing together, wash cars together, or see who can pick up a chick first. hope this helps.
1045355
lol well considering WHERE u asked ur question, u didnt make quite a good start!\n\nwell, go out with ur friends more often.. when u wake up in the morning, dont turn ur computer on.. if u have to check email for some important reason or whatever do it from a friend's
399754
Probably cos you spend too much time indoors on surfing the net. Try going out and joining some clubs and groups. Get into group sports etc
552569
The more you focus on getting it, the more likely you won't.\nJust enjoy what you're doing and it might come by itself.\nWell, I assume you know what it takes to get it... So you could possible re-consider some techniques/positions to help you achieve it..
1116610
Don't force it, bro.  Don't even try to put yourself in a situation.  When the time comes, you'll just know.  \n\nSorry, this must seem like lame advice, but trust me, it's better that way.  I'm speaking from experience...
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
557816
Hmmmm... I think that you might want to seek professional help with this problem.  See the thing is confidence isn't something that you can teach.  A professional might be able to help you unwrap why you are not confident to begin with, but I am not sure anybody is going to have a magic pill for you.  Well here goes something.  Dude, the key to sexual prosperity, is rejection.  I know that sounds dumb but listen, every time your faced with an attractive woman, you get tense and lock up why? because you're afraid of being rejected and feeling like a loser right?  Well just decide not to feel that way (easier said than done but it doesn't have to be hard).  Try this exercise, go to a bar, and identify 5 women that you are attracted to, and go and introduce yourself, i promise at least 1 will want to at least TALK to you, and then when you feel a bit more confident with talking you can start romancing.  See love, and dating and courtship is a numbers game, and every time you hear a no that is one less you have to hear till you INEVITABLY get a yes.  There are like a billion people in India right? 500,000,000 women, trust me at least 100,000 will want to talk to you or go out on a date with you.  So never take anything a woman says personally, and welcome rejection, as one less hurdle to your inevitable GUARANTEED success, and you may find that you can talk to women after-all.  Good luck bro, and I hope this helps.  I know it sounds crazy but trust me it works.