how to be the woman in a relationship?
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Normally I wouldn't touch this type of question with a 10 foot pole.  To the asker:  you didn't provide any details about why your guy felt "like the woman".  There's a bunch of things that might be affecting that feeling, some of which may be your issues and some of which may be his. We aren't privy to anything like that so nobody here is going to be able to give you very good advice.  If you're both feeling insecure or its a problem but you want to work it out, I suggest couples therapy.  \n\nNow, what prompted me to reply was the first responder to this question, who said that you could "CONTROL a man using.. femininity and submission" yet you would not love/respect a man who allowed you to "DOMINATE" him.  Sorry, sweetheart, but control is a type of domination. You can't have your cake and eat it too.\n\nWe live in a world where gender roles are not clearly defined, and it puts a lot of extra stress on relationships because people have to determine what works for them as individuals and as a couple.  Sometimes our self-identities don't allow us to form a coherent twosome vision with another person, sometimes we can compromise a little.  However, being "feminine" doesn't mean being a backdoor manipulative woman, so I'd throw that concept right out the window (and probably relieve any major stress about being "someone you're not").  Best wishes!
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Get in touch with what you REALLY want in a relationship.\nWrite on a piece of paper what you desire in a relationship.\nBe reasonalbe, don't look for absolute perfection in another.\n\nKnow yourself, your needs and desires.\nUse the Visioning Process to envision what you want most out of your life.\n\nBe very honest and truthful in your relationships, communicate on a high level and really LISTEN to your partner and what their hopes and needs are. \n\nWork on knowing yourself so that you become as completely self aware as possible.\n\nWhen you discover who you are and what you really want, you will find who and what you really really want.\n\nWhen you find it, you will commit out of joy.\n\nGood Luck.
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How you win their affection is how you keep them. If you have to win her with a gimmick, that is the only way you are going to keep her. Sorry, but you need to find out what a woman really wants. This something that unfortunately we often find out too late. Like on our deathbed.\n\nBut, seriously, women want a trusted confidant, a provider, a listener, and a person ready to get his hands dirty doing tasks around the house. Often the best ability is dependability.
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Treat her like a Woman.
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If you want a woman to like you, you have to like yourself first.  Look in the mirror, and decide what good qualities you have.  Those are the qualities that women will pick up on.\n\nWhat qualities about yourself don't you like?  Can you change them?  Do something to feel more positive about yourself in those areas.\n\nIf you're a nice, kind-hearted, caring guy (which I think most women appreciate in a man), that will come across in your personality.  Let a woman get to know the real you.  Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place.\n\nAnd remember, chances are that the woman you're talking to is probably as nervous as you are.  To be confident, you need to love yourself.  Because if you don't love yourself, how can you expect another woman to?\n\nConfidence comes with experience.  Just get out there and start talking to them.  Be yourself, smile, look them in the eye when you talk to them.  Give them compliments, and they'll be all over you.  And then comes the hard part... is this woman worth your time, or you do wanna go on to the next one?
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You need to talk. Women are more emotional, we wanted to be a big part of your life. Not only in your everyday life but most specially during the decision making time. You might think that she's just your girlfriend and just a flower on the wall, or someone to show to your friends. Women wanted to feel special, like we are a big part of your life. Someone you can talk to and discuss with when you have to make a decision.
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if u want the perfect girl u have to be the perfect man they want. buy flowers and not on just specail events anytime if she works ask if u can give her a back rub the way into a girls heart is the smallest things u do to make her feel good show her that ur a man and not a boy good luck with the ladies ur friend miss
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do what she likes.\nbe yourself.\ntreat her with respect (like she is queen.. not TOO much)\nand love her with all your heart.\nSHELL LOVE YOU.\n<3
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Open car doors, pull back her seat when sitting and push her in, let her walk in front when going through doors. Stick to the basics, be a gentleman, and show your class. Thats romantic enough and shows you care, cause she will feel like a queen. Heidi
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Decide on three MOST important qualities that you are looking for in a woman and then often go to places that these type of women are likely to be in. For example, if ur priority is a woman with a beautiful body, you might wanna get a gym membership, if you want a woman who is can appreciate good art and music, go to museums etc. Finally, be sure that the woman u dream of will want to be with u, so make urself THE man by improving where u think ur weakest areas are (the ones that might be stopping u from getting a good woman). And just remember that love hits u and the most unexpected time. Good luck with finding the right one! ;-)
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One does not become "The Man," you must simply -be- "The Man." If you must ask how, you are not being "The Man." \n\nWho wants to be "The Man" anyway? Everything is blamed on "The Man."
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Evaluate the relationship; ask yourself: Is this woman the "one"?  If she is does she see you as the one?  Is it a win-win situation?  Or, are you losing.  Judge this by things that have happened; avoid your personal feelings as much as possible.  Men pay for it; I don't care what anyone says to the contrary.  Women do expect to be treated generously.  Also you use the word "must"; does that mean you can't afford her?  If that's the case then you either have to find a way to support her, or find the strength to leave her if she is not open to compromise.  If your crazy about her, ie. you need her to be the mother of your children, then you may need to take desparate measures.  I think you know what I mean.   The goal is to make her: a. see your intensity b. realize her necessity (to your life) c. understand that you will more than be able meet her needs in the future.  \nHope this helps.
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Never use your feminine wiles to get your way - people wont respect you if you do. \nAlways speak with confidence and look the person directly in the eye when talking to them\n\nIf you set up your own business, then I suggest you start off with an idea and basically work at it from there. It all depends on what you mean by businesswoman?
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Don't try to force anything. If it's meant to be it won't be so hard.  Go with the flow of the relationship and listen to her when she says no. Lots of us men don't realize that when a woman says no she means it. Don't be posessive, be kind to her and see how it goes.
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Love her.\nBe honest.\nBe romantic.\nAlways be around especially when she needs you.\nSurprise her often.\n....\nI can list one million thing, but the most thing is to be you and do these things honestly and directly from the heart.
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By being attentive, respectful, honest, loyal/faithful, and being there when she needs u.  Always try to meet her needs but don't forget yours in the process.  Most importantly, don't forget the communication factor, be open to suggestions and be willing to share them too.
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Honesty, integrity, humor, and being a gentleman at all times.  Treat her like a lady.  When she says no she means no.\n\nYou will find girls will be more receptive to you when you be yourself and be respectful to their wishes.