I like this guy and he broke up w/ his GF and i dont no if i should ask him out cuz i dont want him to quit?
955136
Depending on how long him and his ex have been going together depends on how much time you need to wait until you let your crush on him progress.  Just take you time and try and be there for him as a friend.
77142
Yes it is a bad idea especially if he likes you. He needs to make a decision to break-up with his current girlfriend and get with you, or to work it out with his girl and leave you alone. And think about how you would feel if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this too you, not with you. \nAnd not to sound rude but if he likes you soooo much, why is he with her instead of you? Just know that if he liked you so much he would be with YOU and you would not have to ask this question.
853656
No, I don't think it's the guy's job at all. If you want to be with him, you should ask him out :)
1038264
wait til he gets rid of his girlfriend first, cause if you get to involved now your relationship won't flow right, get to know him more he may seem like mr. right but obviously he might not be so cool, since he's having those kind of conversations with you and he has a girlfriend, but if he is the one you won't have to worry about knowing what to do, it'll come to you natuarally, but just be patient, don't get too excited yet ya feel me.
1154646
first he is an ex. second he's got a gf...you must be pretty desperate to even think about getting back  with him.....the world is overly populated...move on and find someone better!!
1179860
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!
657944
I've been in your shoes and I've been in the opposite side of your shoes. Clearly, like previously stated, this man does not know what he wants. Do you really think it's possible for a man to break up with you and change all those feelings of romance into friendship in just three days?!? He's just lonely and trying to fill the void (platoniclly, sexually, who knows), and he's probably unaware that your heart is at stake. If you want to be "friends" with someone after you've dated them, break up for real, cut contact, go about your life normally again, see other people, wait AT LEAST 3 months (maybe more), then see how you feel. A few years ago I had a gf and we went back and forth with the break-up/friend thing, and looking back it was such a waste of time. We ended up breaking up for good and we don't talk anymore. Now life is good. I have found another great girl and I don't need to be friends with my ex. After two years we've never done the break-up back and forth thing.\n\nGo after the one you love, don't waste your time and energy trying to decide if this confused guy is for you - he's obviously not. Your heart, future, family, etc. is too valuable.
1033480
Well maybe this "other girl" he likes is you. Some men give complicated signals like that. And I honestly think your friendship is over since you like him in romance way. So you have nothing to lose. You can not live all your life wondering what would happen if you have asked. So I think you should stand for what you want and ask him out. If he wants you too then it is alright but if he does not I still think your friendship will not be over. Cause you were dating before too and after break up you are still friends. I think everything will be fine just ask him. Good luck.
627680
There's pretty much nothing you can do.  If the guy you like, already has a girlfriend, then I suggest you move on and find someone else to like who doesn't have a girlfriend.  Trying to break them up or doing anything of that nature would be mean spirited.  Just remember not to do anything you wouldn't want done to you.  Good luck!
524350
Ask him out although your friend may be crushed. If you break up then she can ask out.Or the three of you could date each other
1175071
For your own sake it is best to let time pass by, try to find other people to hang out with date, but don't give up... I mean does this guy show interest in you, does he try not to be as sensual towards his girlfriend when you are around?  I need more to work with but I would be glad to help you, email me if you have any more questions, I would just wait it out...You don't want to screw up a friendship but I mean you also need to worry about if they did break up and you two got together how would it affect your friendship?\n\nJust think about it.
751020
I am not sure you want to know what you  should  do...because You know you have to move on and you still think about him might break up with his current gf?\nwhy do you want to be the second choice while there are many who can make you feel real love...Just delete and ignore him and try to forget about him..past has passed ..so live in present..you'll find the right one i promise!
682258
You should not mess with him since he has a girlfriend. If he really cared about you that much he would have respect for the two of you and end his currrent relationship. Don't be the side chick and fall for his bulls***. It seems that this is just lust for him and not love. Though it could be a start for love. To be on the safe side just tell him you want to remain friends and see what happens.
955064
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
938407
Really hard to say. A lot depends on what's up with his girlfriend. Was she at the Dance? Did they break up? Did they show up with separate dates? Did they Dance together? it really depends on all that. You probably missed a great opportunity, you should have asked him for a dance that nite.  You should ask him what is going on with his girlfriend and go from there.
43612
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
724821
Maybe you shouldn't said that you like being single\nthats what might have put him off asking you out\nor maybe he is giving you some space to get over you ex...unless your already over him...but if u really like him and want to go out with him then ask him\nhe doesn't have to ask you\nmaybe hes just nervous that you'll say no...