ok how do i get my ex to talk to me on the phon that i got her?
967887
she's your ex\ndeal with it\nyou cant demand anything from her at this point, as she doesn't play a vital role in your life anymore.\ngive her time, she may come around.\ngive her some space, about a week.\nthen try again with the calling.\ngood luck with hearing her voice
1011174
You obviously really like this girl, and if you want her back you should tell her. The worst she can say is 'no' but if you never ask her you will never know. I really think you should try talking to her. Be completly honest, first of all ask if you can talk to her for a bit and then explain to her your reasons for why you broke up with her and how you have changed your mind and you would like to go out with her again, say things like she has a really good sense of humor and a great personality. Complement her but don't over do it because she will know you are being false. Hopefully she will listen to what you have to say and reconsider going out with you again. If not, don't worry, try and stay friends with her, tell her you want to be friends. Most importantly, tell her how you feel, if you don't, you will never know her response. Good Luck and have a good day xx
482575
Try asking her and see what she says. If she wants to try to talk. But otherwise just don't do or say anything and give her time to cool off. Also try to avoid the balls as best you can.\nLuck
1073526
thats a hard one okay i have been through it so many times and the urge to not pick up the phone is hard.what was the reason you and her broke up?she needed her space,3 years is along time but sometimes people grow apart it happens.this guy i was seeing we broke up and its been 8 months and i still want to call him its hard.i waited for him to call me but he did'nt.just wait and see if she calls you most of the time if you don't call she will wonder why and she will call you .just give it time.if she don't call move on it will take some time but you will get through it good luck
641252
Open Communication here is key. You have to be able to talk to your ex and feel comfortable about talking about everything or anything that is on your mind. \n\nIf your ex holds back in any way shape or form in conversation, then he has other intentions and is probably just using you for sex.
812078
Let her go. She's your ex. The only way she can get over you is to stop talking to you. It's just like quitting smoking. but there are drugs to aid this. Also she needs counseling.
1000982
talk to her personally..
479575
The best cure for that is time. If you want to speed things up try talking with her as little as possible. Also hang out with old friends that you have not seen for a while, friends you do not have in common with your ex and who are fun. They will make you remember how life used to be when she did not exist. It helps to start imagining day to day life without her.
147804
The second best thing to do would be to call her up sometime...just chat, keep things light and fun and let her know you're still open for a good time.  This opens you right up for being an exsex booty call...not a bad place to be and if you play your cards right, you could just let her talk herself into you again.\n\nThe BEST thing to do is reach your hand between your legs and find your scrotum...now give it a good hard squeeze.   Does it hurt?  If so, congratulations, you found your dignity.  Don't call begging any ex for anything no matter what.  You want her back, let her see you in shape, smiling, having a good time, with another girl on your arm.  It will work like a charm...
147474
Why dont you just try calling her and talking. Text messaging is too impersonal.
43839
Say "Good-bye", give a great "Sponge Bob" wave.  \n\nDon't waver from this...unless you want to look foolish.  If your ex wants you back, they'll let you know.  So, you can hold your dignaty and bow out, or you can beg and beg and beg only to be rejected more and more and more.\n\nIt hurts, all I can recomend is find something that makes you happy...Go find happiness.
401135
Ask her, not us, go on get and talk to her!!
757148
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159205
just work it into the conversation somehow, or mention that you have an EX-g/f.
722838
I dont think you should be talking to your EX at all. And the fact that you are sneaking around makes me think you want something from her. There is a reason she is your EX. YOu should quit contacting her. And when your wife finds out I hope she kicks your scandalous a$$!
1001368
DONT CONTACT HER ,DONT CALL , DONT TALK TO FIRENDS ABOUT HER OR THE BREAK UP   ,  ALL HUMANS HAVE A REAL PROBLEM WITH THIS AND YOU CAN BET YOUR LAST DOLLAR SHE WILL CALL ,  ITS TOUGH BUT TURN OFF THE SWITCH AS SHE DOESNT EXIST  IT WILL DRIVE HER CRAZY  SHE WILL CALL OR COME AROUND TO SEE HOW YOUR DOING ,  I PROMISE , IT DOES TAKE TIME BUT IT WORKS     JFB
258533
Thing is talk with her . . . not to chat . . but the next time she called . . . asked her . . . \n\nYou broke up with me . . . telling me that you want to be left alone . . . and not to bug you . . . yet you call me periodically on the way home.  What the f*** is going on?  Until you are able to tell me the truth . . . don't call me again.\n\nDon't worry she will call . . . because you called her out.  But now she will have to explain herself.\n\nDo not give in to her . . . and tell her how it felt when she did all what she did to you.  Odds are she will probably respect you more . . . because you stood up for yourself . . . instead of acting like a p***y . . . you have been.\n\nIn my opinion, take control of the situation . . . and don't let her boss you around . . .