What should I do about my boyfriend? Should I stay and possibly miss out on happiness or should I go?
970900
If you have to ask the question, then you intuition is telling you to go. After a long-term relationshp (and especially as we grow older), many people become fearful of stepping back into the dating world again. However, you are cheating yourself if you stay in a relationship where you are not perfectly happy. There are millions of people in the world, so odds are IN YOUR FAVOR of finding someone better. While you are in that transition phase, work on your own charcter and personal development so that your life will become richer. In that case, you will probably not notice time going by as fast as it does before you meet someone else.
553168
You deserve better.  Dump him and stay single for a while. You will see it's not that bad to be single. Well its better than having your heart broken even more. The right guy will come a long. If you don't leave him, you will never give "the one" a chance to make you happy. And you will be unhappy for the rest of your life. You deserve to be happy, everyone deserves to be happy. Now go out there and find true love!
518304
you need to think about why your staying with your bf if your not in love with him then you should leave, you need to think about the relationship in terms of how you feel forget about the other person for a bit and focus on how you feel. but you need to think if you feel out of love when this new guy come into the picture if so you need to think about what he can actually provide you. and how long you have known him cause if you end it with your bf and go out with him and then break up you may be left with nothing
605784
This is an unhealthy relationship.  You both have got some issues.  He can't trust you and is controlling.  You strayed.  Split up and move on.  Neither of you will be happy if you stay together.  There are millions of people in the world.  Get out there and focus on what makes you happy and you'll find someone who shares that with you.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
882276
Honey!  The ONLY question you need answered is "are you happy?"!!!   You don't sound like it to me.  For your own sake, stop worrying about what he thinks so much and make up your own mind.  He is lucky to have you and you need to show him that!!!!  But most importantly you need to know that in your own heart!!!  Give him a little insite into what he would be missing if you weren't around!!!!  Don't be sooooo available!
959058
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.\n\nHave a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)\n\nIf he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.\n\nIf you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.
211741
one mistake avery girl makes in her life is staying with her boyfriend that doesnt appretiait her, that doesnt care about her and that gives her more crap than she deserves. The only advice I can give you dear is this. Leave him but in the same breath I'll tell you this... You will never be able to appretiate the one that gives you the world or "prince charming"  if you dont go through the as*holes first. Relationships are a life lesson that teaches us to look for the things that mean most to us when we are ready to settle down.
413973
Is it that you don't trust him or you don't trust anyone? If it is just him, then whether you are right or wrong, move on. Without trust, it's doomed. If you have a problem with trust period, then you might as well stay with him and try working on your issues. Otherwise you (not anyone else) will prevent you from ever being happy with anyone.
655035
Just love him the way you feel like he would like to be loved, follow your heart. Try to be considerate in everything you do with your boyfriend. If you think a rational person wouldnt be happy with what you're going to do, then your boyfriend is most likely not gonna like it. Last, be yourself! That's why your boyfriend chose to be with you from the beginning. feel lovely!!
538680
whaz ur final destination? \ndo u expect tht this love will turn out to be a marriage?\nthere are many points which u need to consider..like...ur economy status, society, family conditions and last but not the least how is the guy like?\nin times, we think wht we are thinking and analysing is right and everyone seems to be ununderstandable for u and u think tht they are wrong. but the fact is u know everything but u didnt accpet the reality.. reanalyse urself.\n\nin times , we want to stick to the fantasy world just for our pleasure. perhaps the pleasure satisyf's us mentally, physically and emotionally. \n\nif u are enough matured to understand a relation , then u would have never asked this question. so do analyse the terms of the relation and the ppl around u and ur boyfriend and ofcoursed urself.
274940
Well, I think you should ask for his opinion. Just carry on for a lil while, and if you both find that you cannot bear the circumstance any longer then maybe breaking up is good for both of you. At least you don't have to worry too much about meeting each other and the distance either.\nBut if you two (esp. him) feel that you can still carry on, and that the love is true and strong enough to help you overcome this obstacle, then just stand beside him and fight for it. Happiness just worths its name if it is gained from challenges and hardship. Nothing valuable is easy to get my dear : )\n\nStand firm, and if you two have the same idea, then just go with it, whatever it might be...
508575
If you feel that way then it's not a healthy relationship and you should dump him. Love should make you feel like you'll burst from happiness. If it doesn't feel right it's not. Maybe one or both of you is/are suffering from depression. Maybe he has no respect for you. Is he Physically or verbaly abusive? If he is he won't let you go that easy. There could be lots of reasons for your feelings. You deserve happiness and should keep looking for it. Close this chapter of your life. Move on. Avoid guys like your boyfriend that make you unhappy.
219312
I think you should leave your boss alone and stick with your boyfriend. Why waste time on someone like your boss who will never be able to devote himself to you fully. You will always be second to him. Please wise up and realize that he doesnt really care for because if he did he would be divorced right now. Move on with your life, because it is whats best for all people involved.  Hope you make the right decision.