I decked someone that made sexual advances towards me after giving him two warnings to stop was I wrong?
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"Im not againts [sic] hitting people that are gay..." \n\nYeah, we get that.\n\n"But I gave him two warnings to stop, and its not like I could go anywhere since I was stuck in the car. Was I wrong to deck him for not stopping?" \n\nWould you have hit this person if it were a woman? Or would you have found a less violent way of affirming your personal space? Somewhere, you got the idea that it's acceptable to resolve your disagreements through physical violence. Big man you are.\n\n"Do you think that he was trying to hit on me?" \n\nI don't know. Maybe he just has extremely poor boundaries. People who can't keep their hands to themselves are obnoxious.\n\n"What would you have done in that situation?"\n\nI would have removed his hand and I would have given him a piece of my mind from the start. I also would have stopped making out with the girl because, not only did watching you feel her up seem to encourage him to feel you up, it's also rather gauche to make out in mixed company.
349243
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
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If he was your supervisor, you did the best thing.\nBut it's possible he was only interested in you, and flirting with you that way. Although you could risk approaching him, and asking him his motive, with out\nsounding hostile (even if it's a different guy, instead).\nI some times flirt by watching girls, harmlessly. Unfortunately, that's all I do.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
270518
Is your daughter aware that you are doing this/\nIt seems to me that you are trying to cause trouble for the por guy and that you should mind your own f______ business.
276835
If you told him that then he was properly warned.  He knew the game ahead of time and broke the rules.  Just tell him you aren't interested and that you two won't be sleeping together again.
1097050
I think we kinda told each other off. He has restraining order on me now.
818205
Yes, it is very disrespectful, intrusive and offensive for a guy to do that. First of all, I must explain that if a guy touch a girl's hand or put hands on a girl's shoulder on the 1st date is already considered very offensive, intrusive and disrespectful, not to even mention touching, feeling or fondling the girl's breasts. He must have taken you as a loose lady and was testing the water if you cld have allow him to do something further. Pls stop seeing this guy at once as he can be a danger or threat to you. What if you see him the next time and he tries something funny on you again and if you resists or retaliates, will he try to rape you? You never know! Unless you're into some kinky fun or open-minded enough, then I guess I can't offer you anymore advices. Think about it carefully and seriously. You don't want to be ended up hurt, don't you? It's your life, choose it and live it! You've the freedom and choice to allow him to do something further or stop everything at once. I just want you to know that I'm concern for your well-being. I just hope you didn't give him the wrong signals like wrong body languages when you're out with him. This can be likely 1 of the reasons he mistook you as an easy target to have fun with. Take care!
725720
yea u were wrong but u were provoked. i can't believe i'm sayin this but he's wrong. news flash toots, your guy is either cheatin on u or no longer interested in u and this was a convenient way for him to get rid of u. it's one of those 2 things, i guarantee it. good luck. be happy it's only 7 months invested b4 u found out what an @ss he is.
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NO ***WARNING BELLS***  NO ***WARNING BELLS*** NO\n\nThere are certain people that you are supposed to be able to trust.  If this man is "inappropriately" touching you, think of what he might be doing to other women who go to see him.  Think of what he might be doing to your daughter or other people's daughters.  If this man is inappropriate in his behavior or touching, you NEED to report him.
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Sexual abuse hmm.. there are alot of diff.percautions I can list. Try being forceful and saying NO very harshly if you've done that and they persist then it can be considered rape depending on what they are doing.Here are 4 warning signs they are a space invader,they seem distracted,he wants you alone, he wants you wasted.
615456
I'd say it was a little late for giving you mixed signals. You shouldn't feel weird, you should be pissed for him playing his silly little games.
8924
Although I kind of agree with Tom up there, I have to say that the last statement was a bit harsh. Anyway, I'll say that "No!” you didn’t cheat but you’re skating mighty close. The fact that you didn't go into it with the exact intentions of doing anything wrong, you did stay into it after it became rather steamy. You should ask yourself that if your "live-in boyfriend" were to be in a similar incident what would you say and if you do something that you feel that you can't share with him ask yourself why. I'm sure you'll get the answer you’re looking for. So from now on leave the massages to little Korean women in small boutiques.
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You were not wrong - that's your personal space & if you didn't feel like letting her do that for you, then it's your business. If she was flirting that was a pretty blatant way to tell you what she was interested in. Also, if she was truly interested in you she would have attempted to continue a conversation with you. But no, you don't have to let someone do something that personal for you if you do not wish to.
18243
Take courage and confront him.  Ask him to explain exactly what he meant by those comments, or tell him that you will be forced to report him for sexual harrassment.  Under no circumstances do you report him without first asking him to explain (as it MIGHT be possible the comments were misunderstood... he might just be a poor joker)!
195134
He's not a pervert - he's a jerk. You should not tolerate disrespectful behavior like that. By denying the obvious when you confronted him showed that he does not respect your intelligence either! Give him the heave-ho!
882661
stop mixing your signals be clear about your intentions at all times ....think of it this way I'm sure you would not like it if some one yanks your chain.