A guy i've had a crush on for a while, knows i like him, and i asked him out, and he said no because....?
954641
Corner him in private and ask him what the deal is with his behavior.
602067
It means he wants to ask you out but is afraid of rejection. If you say that you would say yes, then he will ask you out. If you say you would not go out with him, then he knows not to ask you. Basically he's asking you out, without asking you out first.
1060904
hes probably feeling the same way as you, confused.  thats why he was trying to beat around the bush, figure out if you were interested in someone else.  but when it comes to figuring out things like this, guys dont sometimes pick up on things so you probably have to be straigtforward with him.  before i starting dating my now hubby, i think we always sorta had a crush on eachother, but were friends for about 5 years.  anyway he had asked me questions like this, and even tips on how to get a girl to like her.  and i just wanted to scream at him that i already did, bc i knew he was meaning me, he was just trying to get it out of me, cause guys actually do seem to be shy on the subject.  i wouldnt think of your situation as good or bad.  you should try going out again, if your still interested. but this time let him know
722643
Either way he's gonna know u like him, so why don't u just tease and say I have a crush u in a cute joking like way, if he rejects it then  u can say u were just teasing.
281149
i was the same way you are. i liked this guy and i wanted to ask him out. i was afraid to because i was afraid of being rejected.the thing is girls arnt the only ones afriad of rejection. guys are also afraid of rejection.for all you know it he could like you back but is afriad that you dont like him, so he is afraid that you will reject him.just go for it. ask him out, you two could actually end up together at the end.rejection is going to happen to you eventually wether its rejection from a job,college, etc. so why not get over the fear and ask him. you only live once so make the best of it and take chances.
801889
well i think no because the boy said no and he might say no again if u ask him out
387505
Well, it seems to me that you got your answer when he said he knew but didn't want to get into a relationship with you, did I miss something there? The you said he turned you down, so what is there to figure out? But for your own sake, I will say this, you need to have more confidence in yourself. I sense low self esteem from you, and if I can see it then I'm sure the guy does to. There are other fish in the sea, you just have to be confident in the bait you use to lure him. Good Luck!
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
876384
Wow, so many possibilities here.\n\n1) He didn't think he wanted to date, but realized you could be that special someone for him.\n\n2) He said that as a reinforcement to himself to avoid getting hurt.  He really does want one but didn't want to be shot down.\n\n3) He was trying to be sure to keep himself open for just the right girl.\n\nThose are my top 3 bets.  :-)  Regardless, it doesn't matter (much) what and why he said what he said.  What matters is whether YOU feel that you would like to date him.
433335
It seems to me that he was sending out signals that he wants to be more than friends with you.  When you didn't respond, he felt like you weren't interested in him.  In my opinion, you should talk to him.  Explain why it isn't practical for you to date right now.  If he's a true friend he'll understand.  Who knows, maybe you can leave the door open for a more meaningful relationship in the future.\n\nGood Luck!
1003587
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
746900
Sweety, just talk to the guy you rejected before this Jonthan geek, tell him what you told me now, and see what he says. If he still likes you you will know by his reaction.
1150993
I know right!!!, And i asked the other day my crush if he liked me back he said no!, i mean....i have a wonderful personailty!!!!, that is what counts, not my looks!
364963
He has already told you he wasn't asking you out for his personal reasons.The reason will probably still be there .He may be going to see someone he is long distance relationship with .Let it go because he may be just seeing if you'll be waiting for him to ask . Even if he does ask , he didn't for a REASON at first and sounds like head games.
654774
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
886404
first of all your not that smart if u reject a guy who u like. second u must ask him out since he already made the first move, its all your fault that u two are not together, no offence. If he already asked u out he problay has feeling for u. I would know since it takes me one or 2 months to get over a girl who rejected me. Just ask him out and see what happens. good luck to the both of u