Should I go out with this new kid ?
962157
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
904762
ask him.DO YOU WANT TO GO OUT?
18030
We 're not bestfriends anymore when feel bored with seeing one another, or one of us become colder with us. I know that hurts. But let your friend go if he finds the new one better. And you, I must say that trying to be friends with the new kid is a good way, but what if that kid reject you? In my own opinion, I think you should learn the way of being independent from a person, dont be like "I am lonely without him", because you should be able to have more than 1 friends :) Well, it takes time to get thru, but the one who leaves you to go is not a BEST friend, just a normal friend, so just keep a normal relationship (dont break it though).
688994
No, your both better off moving on. If you have kids try to work something out that works for both of you.\n\nThen email me...your kind of cute!  >:-}
73868
Just do it.  Do you really think you are the only one out there dating that has been married for a while and had children?  Your not, so move on.  Go out to a local club/ bar/ hangout and start there first.  Your not looking to find another spouse on your night out, you are just looking for someone to hang out with and go on a few dates with.  It'll be fun!
640628
Your "boyfried" has other, much more serious, things to be doing and taking responsibility for right now.  At 18 he's an adult with a family of his own - why would you even consider dating him?!  Is this what you want for your own life - a guy who has a baby to you then is off to the next 15 year old?  I doubt this will remain a friendship - if it does encourage him to support the baby and it's mother as he should.  Get YOUR priorities in order!!  You deserve much better!  Figure out what you want from life, work hard in school to get it, and stay focused.  Boys at this stage will mess up your goals much more than help them!  Good luck to you and God bless you.
1018116
It depends if your son wants you to go with him. If you are the type of parent who is also a close friend with your child, then there likely won't be any problem. But if you're just asking because you want to be sure of his well-being while he is there, and you want to be able to watch over him, then no, you shouldn't go with him. \n\nYou need to take into consideration the type of relationship the two of you share and if that will work in his favor while he is there or against it.\n\nIf your son wants someone to go with him because he has never gone before, maybe he should ask a friend to go, someone his age so he won't feel completely alone while he's there. Straight friends often go with their gay friends in order to be supportive and it would likely not be frowned on by the people in the club.\n\nThe best way to find decent places for him to go would be to contact people in the gay community and ask them. Try looking up a local PFLAG group or one of the associations linked with GLSEN.
605351
Bro go out. Your daughter will be fine. You seem like a great dad! dating doesnt hurt. Leave your daughter with someone you trust. Do it before you looks fade, and your old n gray sayin I wish I wouldve.
830759
not at all\nthere's not much of a difference\ngood luck\nmake sure her parents are ok with her going out with someone to start with\nonce the air is cleared about this, everything will go smoothly
391552
Next weekend,call up someone to watch your child.Then call your friends and say "we're going out"Then go out and have a good time.Yes you have a child,but you are a human being with needs and you need to have fun to.SO who cares what others think,go for it.
405683
if you and this guy are in a relationship, i thimk it's awesome that he steps up and plays with your child.  If your not planing a long term relationship with this guy then he might get attached and be heartbroken.
289498
If you really like this person just tell them because you will need to find someone who wants to be with you and you child. The one who can do this is the one you should hold one too. If they ask why you have not told them tell them that you wanted to make sure that they were ready to hear it before you made a commitment to them.
167684
You are in for it. If he spends lots of time with the baby and its not alone. (at his ex's place without you) THen he's probably doing something with her and you. SO if your not into that, you have a lot of thinking to do. Its better to love and lost and never loved at all. (men in black)
506175
Ask Him Out... Younger Guys Are Crazy About Older Girls... I Say... Do It Do It.... or At Least Talk To The Kid... Go Out There And Say... Hey Mann... I Like You... Will You Go Out With Me? Yeah Do It Kick Love In The Butt He'll Probably Say Yes!
1031676
Wow thats a tough one,  best might just to be totaly upfront and not beat around the bush (bad choice of words there) .   Just ask him.  makes me wonder how you are going to do it though,  like big stringe or what.......lot of emotional issues too.  any decent guy is going to have feelings about his child and that could be sticky.  Beings you have already picked him I'm sure he's a decent guy.  Best of luck to you.
1156093
it honestly sounds as if he wants you and his kids to get to know each other and maybe even bond which would mean he wants to move to the next level with you but as a parent he needs to make sure his kids are ok with you  if you really like this guy and want to be serious with him this is a really good thing  \nhowever it almost sounds as if the kids are his "baggage" in your eyes   you need to decide if you want to be a part of a ready made family  and if not maybe you should move on   because to a real parent the kids will always be first priority   can you handle that?
3592
Sorry, it doesn't sound good.\n\nI would investigate his ties on the east coast..\n\nOf course, he could also have no idea of how to invite you with the kid, and is generally insensitive.  He should have waited for the video of got a sitter so you both could go.