WHy is it the hardest thing in the world to let someone go?
969930
i broke up with my bf in october, and it is still so hard for me not to pick up that phone and tell him to come home... he moved everything out and i havent felt like i am at home in my apartment since... its hard for everybody... you just have to let it go for awhile, why don't you call up some friends and go out... you will see, he will be back before you know it.
675670
I dont think it is easy either way. If you are loved you have to put the other persons feelings into consideration and appreciate the love they are giving you. You have to cherish it and make sure not to tarnish it. \n\nAnd if you are the one loving, you have to do the same things. Make sure that you treat them kindly, look out for there feelings as well as your own.
860924
Well, you answered part of the question yourself co-dependency. They are also embarresed confused lonely hurt scared. It is a pattern and until you are comfortable enough and not afraid of what may happen will the other person leave. It takes alot of strength and guts to get out of a abusive relationship because most of these people see themselves as failures already. They need to learn to understand there is help out there and they can survive on there own.
570043
They are very very difficult and it really depends on yuor commitment to each other
276586
it's hard to let someone go that you really like especially when you know they're doing you wrong. but my advice is the only way you'll have peace of mind is to let him go. maybe not so soon but you have to get it in your mind that you deserve better. once you do that you'll feel better, but when you do make that choice be prepared to get over your choice it might be hard depending on how much you liked him.
333806
i understand your situation, maybe he just wants to go away? let him go.You cant hold on to a person for too long.He's told u it hurts, and you say you love him.So why keep hurting him?If both of u'll think it should end or has ended ,let it be amicable.Healing will take time , but it will happen
518299
People find it difficult to leave someone if they truly care about them. My best advice is to be a good friend to her, be there for her. If she realizes that he's bad for her, then support her decision if she wants to break it off. That's all you can do
670001
thats not something someone can answer for you, you need to try to do things that make you happy, and be around your friends, eventually you will be able to let them go, just know they are always with you....
16600
Because they are often manipulated to completely depend on their abuser. Lots of people think that abuse is just physical, it's not, the abuser puts down the victim so much  and isolates them so that they think that they could never make it on their own, and noone else would want them and they have no other options. Also, abuser often controlls money, could threaten to kill victim if she leaves (most victims get killed when trying to leave) hurt victims' children, other family members or pets.
580301
God that is hard. Try going on like this for another year or so and then you just never know...she can leave...just a matter of being a bit older...
285037
there is no way to get over a broken heart besides just letting the person go.
786603
Its ok! I am a Man and it is also hard for men to let go. You are afraid that you will not find someone else. You are also afraid of being intimate with someone new. Its ok! Just know that all the hurtful and tough things that we endure in our life make us who we are and will become!!!!\n\nDump Him!!!
797137
Ever heard yhe old saying that if you love someone and they want to leave you should let them go if it is meant to be they will comeback to you. Try this on your freind and see what happens\nGood luck
596711
Believe in yourself dear...I know how you feel coz I went thru that...you have said so that they are not your friends and I know that letting go is tough...just try to engage in activities that allows u to know more ppl and gradually, u will be able to let go...dun let this ruin ur life! Friends come and go, dun hang on to those who are not worth hanging on...the vast world has friends for you...
689190
If you have no control over the situation, you might just have to face it!\n\nIt's probably one of the hardest things to do in life, but sometimes it has to be done! It takes a strong person to stand up and admit the truth!
608696
In this world we can make so many things happen, but one of them we don't have control over is love. We can't make someone want or love us. Usually if we try we make them go farther away then they were. My suggestion to you would be cool toward this person because most times we want what we can't have.........
1073484
It has been said that the hardest person to know is yourself. There is plenty of logic to that, because a person will NEVER know exactly how he are going to react, or what he is going to do until actually confronted by a given situation.