Just got broken up with, how to move on?
966772
join a health club and meet some hot buffed sexy muscle men!
903443
I think it is too soon for you both to be in contact with eachother as you say it's too painful right now.  The best thing to do for the moment, until you get your own head sorted is cut all ties.  I know it might be hard but you need to straighten your own head and heart out first and be strong enough before you can be friends with him.  You are not in the right frame of mind now, it is too soon since you broke up, and staying in contact might only cause more pain.  I broke up with my ex in June and we haven't been in touch since.  I know at the start it was very hard as I went from hearing from him everyday to nothing but, now I'm a lot stronger.  I'm happier now that it's over as we weren't right for eachother but if I stayed in contact with him I know I'd probably be still hurting and in the same situation right now.  Time is a great healer and WILL make you stronger.  Just give yourself some "you" time.  Hope it works out for you!
1129279
Go sleep on his doorstep!...haha just kidding (sorry) I'd say keep yourself busy. Especially if he's not trying to contact you. Hang out with your friends, rent movies (not romantic ones), pick up a hobby you used to have, etc. Or do like I do, go dye your hair and get it cut in a new style. It always makes me feel like a million bucks and it's my ritual after a break up. It literally turns you into "a new person" and you feel prepared to face the world.
1013122
hello\nim really sorry for break up\ni dont think you can dump her anymore but you can move on and find some else who cares about you.remember when one door closes another opens!!!\ngood luck
989721
it'll take time to get over someone. let time heal your wounds and go out and have fun with your friends. that always helps. if you have pics of her hanging on your wall,....take em down. put it in a box and just move on. you'll find a much better love as you move on and you may think back on this one day and think "what was i thinkning?".
607064
Get over him.  Get out.  Good riddance.  There was a reason your broke up in the first place.  Remember that.
1094794
I'm not sure how long ago the two of you broke up, or what caused it, but the main thing you need is time. Allow yourself time to get over the break up, to get your life back on track without him. You cant just shrug your shoulders and turn around and forget about him, he has been half your life for more then 3 years. So don't lock yourself up in the house surrounded with his pictures mourning, but don't loose yourself in going out and partying each night either. take it easy. See friends, do fun things,a nd take time to be alone and cry if you need to. You feel whats best for you at the moment. And you know what? One day you will wake up and feel that you are ready to move on. Good luck!
899441
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83228
Try keeping urself busy, if u keeping thinking about the breakup you'll nevr heal, hangout with ur friends, find things that will keep ur mind off the breakup\n\nWho know maybe u'll find someone else. =-)
206232
Ending a relationship hurts.  Just take time for yourself.  Do the things you didn't get to do as often when you were with her.  Try something new.  But definitly don't rush into a new relationship.  It's only been a day, like you said.  It will get better, I promise!
103685
well first of all find your weekness. and work on that and become strong.., good things come to those who wait. I was in a 2 yr relashionship.. and i healed. time does heal all things. Life does get better. tell you the truth.. you'll go with other relashionships.. you just wont last long.. because when that happens.., you start to not want long relashionships since.. the last one failed. Just find things that occupy your time.. and Think about someone that would actually be with you., and Not walk away.. without any feelings at all. you two just werent meant to be.. think of it that way.. that way got me.. keep searching for that one.. even if you dont right away.. I promice you all the same. youll find her. alot of times. if you dont look, she will find you. and i sense that she dumped you.., if she had any heart at all.. She wouldnt have done that. think about that Too. one day you will get over it. i did.
1168935
The best way to get over the break up is to get her out of your life.  The sooner you can do this then the sooner you can move on.  The last thing you want to be hearing about is her tales of 'making out' with other guys.  This just rubs salt in the wounds.  I'm not saying that she wasn't justified in doing this, because you both apparently agreed to do you own thing, but why she would want to tell you I don't know!  Anyway, until you get her completely out of your life then you will never get her out of your head.  So if it definitely looks like she is moving on then you should try to do the same, and as fast as possible.  Out of sight is out of mind as they say.  It will be difficult, but it will be the quickest way to you getting over her.  All the best...
915427
I'm not gonna lie to you, that is a pretty tough thing to deal with at any age.  Just remember that you two broke up for a reason, and that you are better off without her.  But to be perfectly honest, the hurt probably won't go away until you find someone new, so start looking.
140113
my advice. Keep it broken off. dont just forget what happened and why you broke up...it happened for a reason. FInd someone else that you want to be with. Please dont get into the make up/break up cycle. It really sucks!!!
366390
You can tuck your X away in a little area of your heart.  But to fully move on, I believe you need to keep him out of your head. I also believe that you both broke up for a reaon.(or reasons)  However you may be remembering only the good times.  And NONE of the bad.  That is very common.
1170460
Just keep going and move on NOT to go out and hook up with someone just tell ur self it didn't work out for a reason and look toward the future things happen for a reason I am getting over an ugly breakup and i am constantly reminding myself of that..
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!