Can you ladies and gents help me with trying to understand this guy?
953836
Asking him was the best thing you could do.\nBut dont you think its best to satisfy yourself before him?\nI mean do not wait for him, if he doesn't make a move then simply move on to someone who will.\nIts all about self satisfaction, or you'll be stressed forever!!!!\nGOOD LUCK
1078660
sorry im not a guy but generally it could be one of wo thingseither he wants you and is to scare to say guys are like bug puppy dogs they need nurturing...or he wants you to set him up...aski him if he wants you toi set him up and if he says no you know he probably means he wants you...worth a try babe x
466311
two things...it's ok to want to have your own experience with this guy, but don't be blind by all the signals you're getting. Danger signs are invented by those who have already been in danger zone and luckily lived to tell. You sound like you're obsessed with this fellow and want to make him 'yours' by all means. \n\nfirst have casual communication with him and be well aware of how he treats other people around him, don't be silly to think he'll treat you differently just because he someday may tell you he loves you/likes you... this guy sounds like a sweet-talker , a charmer, maybe that's why he has so many women around him.....\n\nAnd that he kissed you and now is talking a bit more to you doesn't necessarily mean he's falling in love with you. Maybe he's just interested in sex...and from how ur describing him that seems to be more the case.\n\nDon't be blind...tbere ARE other men out there
29618
Guys are just as hard as women to understand, First of all his maturity(not age) is a big determination, then talk to him and you should find out whata your lookin for. Just don't play him unless he plays you because both sexes do that.
34386
THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL HAVE AN IDEA TO THIS QUESTION IS IF YOU STARVE THIS GUY (NO SEX) AND WATCH HIM EVOLVE IN TO WHAT HIS INTENTIONS ARE. KEEP A GOOD WATCH AND PAY ATTENTION TO HIS DEMEANOR.
53604
Well if hes always looking at you obviously he must be intersted in something....if you havent talked to him yet go ahead and make convo with him the next time you see him. as you guys are gettin to know eachother youll be able to tell the difference if he wants sumthing more....GOOD LUCK!
638685
The truth.\n\nDon't get cutesy on this guy. Speak from the heart the positive attributes of this person.
661532
One day sit here down and ask her what she means.  The worst thing you can do is assume.  She might see you as a lover or as a bother figure.  Ask her if you are the type of man that she would be interested in.  When she answers your question take it from there.
655095
Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....
207167
Bsically, this guy is completley abusing your feelings for him. He wants a no strings attached relationship because this means he can do whatever he wants, whenever he wants and he does not have to make any real effort with you or show you any commitment. He just wants a bit of fun. Now if you're ok with this, theres nothing worng with it but as you have taken time to come on here and ask this question, I'm guessing your feelings for this guy are pretty strong and that you wouldn't be ok with that kind of situation. If you really like him, this will end in tears. You must respect yourself and realise that you deserve much more than his.
1055890
Well a lot depends on the type of personality he has in my opinion as far as how things will go next. From the way you explain things it definately sounds like he is interested. The question really becomes is he arrogant, confident, shy, intimidated... etc. These things will predict how he next acts. \n\nI for one am a more shy type of guy, and easily intimidated by women I don't know well. I guess I lack a certain confidence level. So, in my case, it might take me longer to use that number until I felt assured Iw ouldn't be making an idiot of myself.\n\nMy friend however if much more confident to the level of being slightly arrogent. He would have no problem calling you, but would need to fit you in his schedule. Seeing that you would be around each other at work often, there would be no need to call to maintain your intetest, just to make the date.\n\nWell I hope this helps... just my opinion...
555235
Maybe he was a little shy & timid.If he had to look around then he is definitely trying to hide his feelings.He may have changed the subject for another reason-he wants you to know that he was interested but pretends to be nonchalant about the question itself...as if it was just an innocent question that anybody would ask.Indeed he's interested,in my opinion...perhaps he wants you to chase or make the next move because like most people he isn't use to rejection.I've been wrong many times b4...but that's just my 2 cents!
924168
I think the fact that he's talking to you is a fair indication that he's interested. I would just mention, discreetly, that your 'in between' boyfriends at the moment, and see if he takes the bait! Have a good day!
632766
Does he make eye contact with you when you interact?\n\nDo you catch him looking at you when your not interacting (remember people, especially guys, like to look at people and objects they find attractive)?\n\nDoes he caress things like his hands or stuff he picks up while interacting with you? \n\nDo you feel like hes attentive when he listens to you?\n\nDoes he position his body towards you when you talk?\n\nHow often does he smile?\n\nDoes he appear comfortable when you touch him and/or does he use oppurtunities to touch you?\n\nDoes he lean forward when he interacts with you (personally I conciously hold back on this so as not to show intrest to early when dating or approaching someone so maybe he knows this)?\n\nDoes he remain calm, and even welcome you, when you violate his privacy bubble (24 inch radius minimum around a person)? \n\nHeres a fun one that doesn't always work but: occasionaly do something very simple like look at your watch, if he does likewise it could be a good sign.  People subconciously mimic (sometimes) others their intrested in.\n(you can also mimic his body language to make him feel more comfortable with you, just don't make it to obvious)\n\nCongrads you've just completed into to body language\n\nBest of luck....
451437
There are two possibilities I can see:\n\n1. The guy is shy and conservative\n2. He is just being friendly and don't get wrong.\n\nEven if it is the second possibility, that does not mean that he does not like/love you. You should talk with him.
890621
That could be his way of flirting with you, joking around and messing around with you. Mess around with him, have fun with him, work your magic. He'll soon relise that you like him. When the time comes drop hints on how you really feel about him. Good luck. ROCK ON!!
453952
Well there are some guys out there with completely no hope. It sounds like to me that he's just a super friendly guy and somewhat of a flirt. If you really think that theres something there then talk to him about it and maybe you'll get a hook up. Good luck