Should I give him another chance?
969074
it sounds like you need to grow up
141608
If you really love him and you are sure in your heart he won't cheat again there is no reason not to give him another chance.  We are all human and make mistakes.  The key though is has he really changed, and can you truely forgive him.  If either of these isn't possible then move on.  If they are, then give it a try and be careful with your heart.
121104
Go for it... You already missed one chance... You don't get a second chance everyday!!!
561544
just give him 1 chance
962157
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
524214
That's really bad, but maybe he learned his lesson.  Maybe you should give him one more chance.  Make sure he knows that you will leave him if it happens again.
1101875
Yes i sure would and i would give him another chance.. I would date and hit on him big time lol.... This is not stupid at all. You also can go to http://www.marriagetoday.org that is a great site and also http://www.crown.org and they are a great help for finances and things like that.... Hope this helps you some and i hope and pray that someday you and your ex can reconcile your differences and rekindle your love and marry again! I love it!!! You go girl:) I am so happy for you and for him... Wish more people were like this. We all could learn from you!
179052
Absolutly. Go see him, rekindle the fire. See how things play out...
286975
It doesn't sound like you want him so it would be WRONG to go back to him.\n\nAlso it didn't work out the first time, so it probably wont work this time.
613015
Do you still have feelings for him? If you do try him out again if not tell him frankly that you would rather stay friends if he cant handle that then shame on it all.
197270
always give a second chance.  you might not want him doing something, but you have to remember, he is his own person with his own interests.  as long as its not cheating, give him a second chance!
495411
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
783959
take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing
580918
I think the real question is do you really want him back?  You obviously showed that you care for him but apparently that (by what you said) really didn't seem to matter.  The fact that he had a kid with someone else is another thing.  Being as if you could trust him even after that.  You supported the hell out of him multiple times.  If I were him I'd be all for you, weather he sees that or not.  If you really love him, I'd give him one more chance.  He might see how important you are, but likewise he might not.\n\nThis matter is really more dependent on how you feel about busting your butt for him and him just leaving you hanging.  If you truly love him and think it could work, got for it and give him one more shot.  If you feel doubtful in any way I'd just say forget it.  You seem like a kindhearted person, love should naturally find its way to you.
657495
give the man a chance ok?
400530
If he's just looking for an excuse, why would you want to get another chance.....let him go. He's obviously not being honest about it.