Should I feel like I am made to give my hubby oral sex?
963331
It's nice that he likes to do it to you but if you don't like doing it to him then he shouldn't make you.
926594
could be you are just excited about something new.  this would be the time to try something new with your spouse and spice up your sex life.  good luck
269705
I'm in the same boat as you!  Actually my husband and I just had a detailed conversation about this last night. He says that it makes him feel dirty and he doesn't think it is normal.  He is also gentle and caring and loving and not that I don't appreciate all those great qualities about him,sometimes I'd like for him to do something totally unexpected and out of his norm.  After the talking though,he seems set in his ways and isn't willing to even try. I suppose I could offer you the same advice and TALK to him and see what his point of view is. You could also try getting some mild toys and start out slow and see where that gets you?  Sorry,can't be of more help,but I think everyone has their own mindset and that's a hard one to change ,especially if they are adamant about their viewpoint.  Good luck though!  I'll put you on my watch list and maybe learn something too!!  ZOYA.\n\nEDIT: To Dklyde:  That is a very good question!!\nHowever we now have 3 children and that takes precedence over my sexual needs when it comes to the thought of leaving.
985682
I think it just means that you are wanting a little spice in your sexual relationship with your husband. Things may be getting a little on the rutine side of things and you just want a little spice to make it feel as naughty as it did before. I would go out and get a new nighty or a wig and do something with yourself really off the wall........... something that would make him feel as though he is with another side of YOU. It will excite him and you will get the 'spice' you are looking for.\n\nWhen you are with a man for the first time, his touch is all tingly and makes your skin feel all crawly inside, in a good way. When you change up your sex with a partner you have been with for a long time, it does the same thing and gives you the same 'new' feeling. I hope this has helped.......... :) Blessed be.............
1063599
Trust me, this is so normal and I actually feel like this all the time.  I love giving my BF oral sex. Just the thought of tasting him right now makes me quiver.  I also think that it has a lot to do with me making him feel as good as I do.  To know that he's 6 years older than me and I've given him the best oral sex in his life makes me overwhelmed.  I actually thought that I was the only one who felt like this, Thanks girl you made me feel a lot better
229139
Don't be concerned you are adjusting to married life, and it is normal to have a slow down in sexual desire, just keep it fun...spontanous and romantic!! Surprise him...impress him....tease him.....
377094
I think that you should initiate sex with your husband! Turn him on!...Then get on! And if that doesn't work than ask him straight out" Why don't you want to make love to me?"Good luck!
690542
Aww come on dude, a woman needs to feel loved (love not sex)I am always there for my wife, I talk to her, I listen, sometimes she only wants to talk out a problem and does not want me to provide the answer. I take my share of cleaning the house (I work full time to provide the best for her as well).\nShe says she feels warm and contented when with me. I spend as much time as possible with her.\n\nI know what you are worried about, if you get everything else right, then sex will never be a problem, for me it is awesome.
668788
Dont beat yourself up. You told him not to continue with the sexual comments. You didnt meet him. \nWere you looking for friendship or were you looking for an extramarital relationship when you started speaking to him?\n\nThe problem lies more in your relationship with your husband, rather than how some guy you never met made you feel. \n\nWe all have a need to be loved, feel wanted, and ofcourse physical needs. Wanting to feel wanted is human nature, not a weakness of character. Lack of that feeling can make us feel depressed. \n\nI suggest you work on your relationship with your husband. Even if it doesnt work out in the long run, you'll be free to date and wont feel like you do right now.
809991
although sex is pleasurable....continue to do what you wanna do! if you guys are comfortable without sex then so be it! just continue being happy in your marriage! don't let other people tell you about YOUR marriage! YOU and HIM are married not everyone else, so their comments on YOUR MARRIAGE shouldn't matter.
329142
I like giving better...I love watching my man get so crazy just because of what I'm doing with my mouth...and if I can get him that crazy with my mouth then I know when I give him more with my body...he'll go mental....it's soo hot...getting is just ok...I'm not fussy on it...never have been...it feels weird to me...and facial hair completely screws things up for me!!! LOL...
661504
I would imagine (because that's all a guy can do) that we feel the same way about satisfying our partner as a woman does; self-satisfaction that we could make her feel VERY good.  \n\nAs to being told what to do, that really depends on the mood of the moment.  Am I in a kinda selfish mood where I want the satisfaction? Or is it her turn?  In the case of the former, mo directions needed!  In the latter, guidance--explicit guidance would be quite helpful (for both of us) and a refreshing change.  Being able to 'read' your partner is one thing, but actually being able to know what exactly they want?  Come on, nobody's a mindreader!
237403
First of all, your self esteem shouldn't be achieved or sustained by male attention. You should know that you are attractive and sexy simply by being you. If you don't feel that way, then you need to find out some good ways to achieve that feeling. Maybe working out, or going to the salon and getting some pampering or simply buying an outfit you really like. \n  But if you feel like your husband has taken you for granted and you need some compliments to make you feel appreciated, then you should find a way to communicate that to him. I know when I feel that way with my husband, I tend to get sarcastic and call myself the house-troll/slave. But usually, I"ll ask for what I need from him. Because I know that I don't fall all over him the way I used to either and its easy to get caught up in life and forget that other's need to be appreciated and wanted.\n   Your husband loves you and may not be as sensitive to your needs for compliments. But I'm sure there are many ways he shows how much he cares for you that perhaps are more substantial?  And if not, don't be afraid to ask for what you need. But going to another person(online or not) to get warm words to make you feel good is not going to help your marriage....\nI've also found a good BJ never hurt in the obtaining compliment/adoration department >>:)
404438
Not if its disgusting to you. And he shouldn't expect it of you. However, if you are willing to try it and then decide you don't like it, then at least you gave it an honest effort. If he insists, however, then you may have a problem. No one should pressure you into doing something you are not completely willing to do. Not even your husband.
529266
well, for a little while and then let him get involved.  Not just sit there and watch you go to town and make yourself orgasm.  When I'm going down on my wife, she will sometimes push my head away and do it herself for a while.  It"s hot, but then I want to finish what I started.
193780
Yes I would in a heart beat.  I am a woman and I have needs. It isn't like I don't already know what I taste like from kissing my man after he does it.  So yes I would.
1137962
i think thats awesome!! talk about spicen it up! wish my hubby would be cool with that!!!