lying face-to-face or spooning.........?
954451
Both....for both.  Whether sleeping or engaged in 'other' activities.. :)
492944
I've been married for almost 18 years and I get into bed every single night of my life and thank God for whoever came up with the notion of sharing a bed with the one you love! It's one of the most intimate and trusting things you can do with another person - and yes, I'm still talking about just sharing the bed! If I can't sleep it's never because my husband is in the bed with me. If anything, having him there helps me to relax. Or maybe that's just because I'm still so in love with him :0)
499580
Depends on the circumstances. My husband and I have an 18 month old so as soon as our son falls asleep (nap times included) I normally let him know that little monster is tucked away.  Some days I'm more subtle, like a few soft kisses after I've turned off the T.V.  Others I'm more direct, like walking into our bedroom in something sexy or maybe nothing at all.  Fortunately my husband loves making love as much as I do, so it doesn't take much for him to get the hint.
54925
Well for one thing be honest and upfront about it. Say something! I was in the same situation once before.  I just told them how I felt them and that made them feel comfortable enough to let me know that they were feeling the same. Just don't hide it.  I will come back to haunt in the future.  Believe me when I say it.
978220
depends on what you mean by "eating"...hug x
225819
I can't speak for everyone but it's nice to be held/cuddled for a while.Maybe ask if thirsty and offer to get drink etc.Or take a shower together.Never just get up and leave the room and not say anything!
257276
He didn't look you in the eyes as much.  He will clear his throat or touch his head/face/nose or ear when he is lying to you.  Just ask him to be honest and let him know that it is ok if it doesn't work out.  No one wants to be in a relationship where the other isn't putting in 110% on both sides??  Do they?
912252
My hubby did that for the longest time too.  I finally told him we needed counseling.  Now after nearly 10 years together we can sit down and talk about it.  We've made it a priority to never go to sleep with each other angry.  I've also been more verbal about why I am upset etc.  Some guys think that if they hug you etc then woman are okay. It has taken us some time but we are closer than when we first said our vows.  If both of you go to counseling together and separately you can learn how to talk to one another.  Don't make the mistake of assuming or thinking he should know how you feel.  Communication is not always easy but you are right to say it is important.  You need to ask him why he doesn't talk to you about it.  You shouldn't shun your emotions either.  Just talk to him whether he wants to hear or not.  Tell him how you feel but try not to make him feel cornered.  It's hard when you are newly married isn't it?  It all boils down to both of you not understanding the other.  It can be that way in all relationships.  I hope you guys work things out and seek counseling of some kind.  Good luck and congratulations.
328485
Well you are in a pickle, aren't you?  Hope they are in different towns.  Try to keep them apart as much as possible.  Other than that I would say you are in deep poo poo if they find out.
1002697
Be honest with her. She will probably find out anyways. Things always have a way of slipping out or she will eventually notice the way the two of you are when you are around together.  Think of it this way.  Ask yourself this question, if it was reversed, what would you want?  Would you rather know? And why?
202825
mac, your comment about talking vs. listening is very interesting... i usually look away when i'm talking to someone, but i maintain eye contact when i'm listening.  i can picture myself doing it every day, but i never even thought about it before.  i don't particularly like to be eyeballed ("you lookin' at me, son?") but as long as the personal space remains roomy enough, i don't feel invaded.  \n\ni guess it depends on the nature of the relationship and the conversation. (ok mac, here's the 'gray area cop-out' part of the show)  i'd be less inclined to be upset by a workmate not maintaining eye contact when discussing the next food order than i would a significant other looking away every time we spoke.  for informational or informal conversations, i believe eye contact is not necessary. for an important or emotional conversation, eye contact sends just as much information as the words themselves.
1142942
OH BOY. THIS IS NOT GOOD. BUT WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE? WOULD YOU CONSIDER TELLING HER THE TRUTH, OR SIT WITH IT? WOULD YOU BREAK IT OFF AND LEAVE THE SITUATION ALONE? IS THIS A LOVE THING? MY BEST ADVICE WOULD BE TO COME CLEAN ABOUT IT ALL. SORRY, I HATE GUILT.
911251
delicately, very delicately.\n\nif you love eachother than you should be open and honest if there's a problem\n\ngood luck
460877
Move from online personas to the phone... just tell him one night while you're chatting online that you'd like to hear his voice as he's cracking jokes - makes it more personal. Then from there, you two should be able to slowly move from the phone to in person without too much awkwardness.\n\nSome relationships don't survive the online to face-to-face move... but friendship will always remain if you keep at it. Best of luck!
617448
Be careful about sleeping with someone you work with. If it doesn't work out, it will become very awkward for both of you. I'd say date awhile as friends first, and hold off on the sleeping together until you're both ready to make a long-term commitment.
409826
face-to-face normally....but sometimes will do it through email or cell phone too...just depends!
405849
nmaking out includes feeling each other up