I have the interest of this women of the internet and I'm looking for advice for arranging a date with her?
958310
Seriously, what do you REALLY KNOW about this person? Is that person really a woman? I could put any picture I want on my profile and put down any kind of information and all of it false. In reality that person may be an online preditor. If she is a girl, she may be a minor like on those tv shows that try to capture online preditors. In my honest opinion I say, "Watch your back!" If you decide to go on with this any way, use precautions. Meet during the day at a busy place, possibly with some friends. Seriously.
121240
First of all...that was very thoughtful of you to approach her with a gift on her Birthday (how sweet!). I think that her e-mail's are flirtations back at you and you should proceed with perhaps a lunch invitation and see how things go from there! Good luck! you sound like a really nice and thoughtful guy!
419632
Just keep being who you are and do NOT act like a player. If she is truely interested, she'll keep corresponding with you. Good-Luck!!
638391
Go for it Molly. The phone is the next level. Follow your gut instincts. I met my second wife on line.Best of luck to you.
195998
i would like to talk to woman live
280764
Women are pretty much the same the world over. Talk to her...tell her you've been noticing her and find her attractive.  Ask her if she'd like to go out for dinner one evening (or to a museum, or someplace where you two can talk and get to know each other).  I would suggest NOT going to a movie or a concert only because you won't really get a chance to talk.  If her culture is one of arranged marriages or dating within her particular religion, etc, she will tell you and there's no reason to feel disappointed.  Nothing ventured, nothing gained. (My man pretty much approached in this manner last year.  It worked!  I just gotten engaged!)
282893
The guidelines say that you're not supposed to use this service to "to chat or have discussions with other members." However, assuming she is interested in conversing with you also, I don't see why it is a problem. There is no way to get her contact info without her giving it to you. I would just leave a comment on one of her questions saying that you would like to get to know her better. I am sure she would be flattered, and I think I know who you are talking about! She seems like a nice lady. Good luck!!
1003107
If she is busy working, pick a moment when she isn't "flying" by, and ask her if you could have a quick private word with her. Apologise for interrupting her work and then just tell her that you have been admiring her, and ask if she'd be interested in going on a date with you. Simple as that! Good Luck! Remember...nothing ventured, nothing gained!
893704
Yeah she is interested in finding more about you and seeing whether or not you reciprocate with the same behaviors....... keep doing what your doing be interested in her too but subtlety is key
771866
Ok, you wait for that time when she is by herself, so you and her are not distracted or embarassed by others noticing the potential "hook-up", and you say to her: "Hey, I have been noticing you, Id like to get to know you better as a person, could we get together sometime and get to know eachother ? If you have a BF, than I would never disrespect that, but if you dont, I'd  like to meet, hang out and get to know you. I love a pretty face, and more importantly I always have room for a good friend". Makes you sound classy, not desperate, and that you VALUE her as a person before a potential love bunny ! Women like the man who is in to HER, not her jeans, although there is no doubt in my mind that you have already noticed that ! Dont be like all the other skanks if you really really want to know her, LEAD her to you, dont push her away by letting her think she is only bootie material. She is a young woman, she will know the difference, dont give her all the bullshit others have said to her. Be unique and catch her attention, by the way you speak, move, body language !
402555
I like the internet because it's a great way to meet people I might not have met otherwise.  One thing I like about it (over meeting in person right off the bat) is that there is a little more of a safety margin when you first start chatting on the computer  because you're not actually meeting in person.  My usual approach is to correspond and/or chat online for a little while, maybe talk on teh phone a few times (usually a cell phone) before meeting, and then meeting the person if I feel comfortable with her.  (If I don't feel comfortable with her, there will be no meeting, and might not be anything further than a chat or two online).  The first few dates would probably be in a public place, such as a restaurant.\n\nAs with meeting people the old fashioned way, you run the risk of meeting good and bad people, but the internet gives you that initial safety margin to make a better informed decision.
988438
You sound like an intelligent person and fun to be with... but it would be wise if you get to know someone in person first BEFORE you open up an invitation to have a date with you, don't you agree??\n\nGuess it just goes to show that I'm from the 'old' school... Good luck in your search though!
552264
i would definately date you. send me an email at theinfamous_eric@yahoo.com . more than likely you live far away, but its worth a shot.
43397
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
114323
Be bold and strike a conversation. When some familiarity is in place you may then let her know your interest and feelings towards her. It all depends if she will give you audience and not play hard to get
571251
Why don't you try spending some time with her at work before you ask for a real date? Offer her some small candies when you see her at work. If you leave work at the same time, walk her to the bus stop or her car. See if you can sit with her on lunch break, or try saying hello on coffee break. \n\nIf her reaction to these attentions is positive, then ask her to go somewhere with you after work, instead a more formal date. "On Fridays, I go to Martha's Diner for pie and coffee after work. Do you like pie?" is more likely to get a yes than "Will you go out with me sometime?"
742096
Carefully.\n\nEnter in to some general conversation. Be polite and a gentleman. Try to identify what the two of you may have in common.\n\nThen, with a deep breath...smiles....ask her to join you for lunch.\nLunch is very safe. It is not really a Date..more like having Lunch.\nWe all have to eat.\n\nShould she not accept, no real feelings are hurt...and you save face.\n\nHint: By the time you have approached her, she has already made some observations about you. Women are very observant.\n\nHave a great time at Lunch.