I'm 28. Boyfriend's 42. Financially supportive; not my type. Guy I just met, 22. My type but he may fall deep!
960301
you are a girl - they always go for the money and do the other guy on the side - ah duh
226697
It's fine. My friend has been with her bf for 3.5 years, since she was 18 and he was 26. They're very happy together. But it all depends on the person.
764618
The thought of dating a guy that's younger than me for some reason freaks me out. I'm nearly 19 and I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and he's 23. Our age gap works out wonderfully. I think as long as you have a lot in common and you're at the same/ver similar point in your lives the relationship can work. \n\nThat being said I personally wouldn't date anyone over 25 at my age. I'd be wondering why they were interested in someone so much younger.. It disgusts me when I see a man in his 40's + with some teenage girl. Ugh makes me think he should be castrated.\n\n-Elise
239704
Why is he still single (unmarried) at 43? Why do you always have to start the discussion about moving in together? Why did he make that remark?\n\nI think you are right to wonder about his commitment to the relationship. But don't overreact - take it easy. I may be wrong!
531410
If he's right he'll understand.  I'm a 22 year old christian bloke and you may as well write a big V on my forehead.  Be yourself, don't let anyone change that, and be honest, if he's worth it he'll be fine with that.
790726
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
777105
Kinda have to laugh at that one. I don't even think of late 20's as a age difference. I'm 36, recently dated a 28 yr old. We would occasionally laugh and he'd call me a cradle robber, and i'd call him a silly boy, but it's all in play. As long as you are emotionally responsible, then the conversation should flow naturally. (I'm into 80's music and star wars~~ yes geeky, I know, but typical of the ladies my age....).... Try starting with stuff like that.
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age is nothing but a number, only way its not ok is if it really bothers one of you two, no one else matters, i'm a 26yr old guy dating a 36 yr old woman and there is nothting wrong with it, nor is it wrong to be 26 dating a 19 year old
887647
that's not so much older! i thought you were going to say like 60 or something! i've dated "older" guys and younger guys. i have to say, it depends on the person. i've met 30-32 year olds who are more immature than my 16 year old brother! and then i've met some of the sweetest guys who are just 20 or 21. i think it makes a difference if the guys have sisters/mothers as big parts of their lives. i would much rather date a guy who has sisters or who really respects their mom-it makes a huge difference as to how they treat you! that might sound goofy but trust me! it is so true! good luck with all ages of guys! the one guy who i had the most trouble with by the way, was my own age! ;)
127654
Im 29yrs old and speaking as someone older i have this advice for you. Leave age out of it. Your older than legal age so it is not of concern. How do YOU feel about him? Really. if you love him, see where it leads. make sure he treats you right!! I had a friend who was 19 at the time and married a guy 29. they just had there first child - still very much in love. it depends on the situation. one step at a time. see where it leads and make sure he treats you right.
329367
When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 26... it was fine for awhile but it didn't last.  I say if you feel like you're on the same level maturity wise and he treats you right, go ahead!
575395
as long as she doesn't think you're too old, then no.  When my husband and I met, I was 18 and he was almost 27.  At the time I was impressed with how much more mature he was than the guys my own age.
709700
Hi, I remember when I was your age I thought that a guy 1 year younger was a 'lot younger'. If he's a good person, { and especially if he's cute!}, defiantly go out with him.        ps. some advice for your future, 20 or even more years from now, when you meet a guy 20 years younger than you,  STILL GO FOR IT!!!        pss. Also remember this rule, "once a mistake, twice a habit", when any man shows signs of disrespect, or hurts you in any way, BOUNCE!!! Before you get to attached to him. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache!
918596
um..the 24 year old because he likes your kids and they come first. there is no hope with the 42 year old, he is in a relationship.
896712
The numbers of years difference would not be so bad if you were 33 and he was 48. At 18 you are far too young to be involved with a man that age.... He's lived and you haven't. You have dreams and he should already achieving his... Too many differences to over come. yeah he might treat you very well...but you will come to resent him eventualy and angry for having wasted your time.
83925
Honey, as long as this guy is nice to you, understands about the difficulties such age differences mean, and is basically a good guy then date him, have fun, but don't let him press you to do things you don't want to. I married a man older then myself and have been very happy. It takes longer for men to mature then women so really he is basically your age right about now. So the real question is do you want to date some one who is the same age as you? lol
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The older the man is the better for you because women tend to look older than men especially after giving birth. So dont worry about that guy being 3 years older, in fact up to 10 years older, it still ok but not more than that. Meanwhile, let him make the first move, inviting you out for a first date. Then you see how things will work out. You both have yet to know about each other better than to just plunge deeply into a relationship. You should try and know about his past. He may have certain weaknessess you may not know off. So just go slow and takes things slowly. If hes willed to be with you, he will be, otherwise you just like chasing in the wind. May God Bless you with the will to decide wisely to pursue the relationship with him.