Why is it ok to dismiss someone as a "Chav" but not "Chattering Class"?
969993
people ( teachers) are getting mad there days so don't think about that .\nforget about stupid people that i mentioned up there.
913765
Honestly, the fact that you are asking the question in fear of offending only attests to the fact that the chances are slight that you WILL offend someone.  It's not that the Brits are anti-American, it's that they are anti-stupid-American.  They dislike arrogance, and are unused to people pouring out their life's story for anyone who will listen.  They are also very private, unlike American's, and do not appreciate invasive, private questions, i.e. about how much money one makes, etc.  In other words, etiquette that used to be considered commonplace here.  \n\nAnd as for the actual etiquette books, unless you are planning on having a number of parties, or will take tea with the queen, etiquette books are going to be useless.  As long as you can identify when someone else is uncomfortable, and you make an effort to rectify the situation, you will be fine.\n\nIt's very commendable that you are entering into a new culture with every intention to act correctly, and not offend anyone.  Oh, that everyone could feel as you do...
626458
Yes, but just try to avoid them until they calm down. If they have any decency at all they'll apologise to you later. On a more serious note, if they are like that then they shouldn't be in the job role they're in. This is unprofessional and certainly doesn't make you feel that they are approachable. I hope I am not like that to my lot.
392261
There's no need to get in to it with others.\n\nIt's not rude or out of place to say "Sorry, but I'm not interested."\n\nThat's all there is to it.\n\nYou have made your decision - there is no need to have to explain or prove your beliefs.
456135
Because it just shows that you are a respectful person.  It's pretty silly only to "behave" when you know you can get into trouble, dontcha think?  Either, way, students can do whatever they want.  However, why bother not behaving when you can just skip when there's a sub?  Hmm . . .
1083056
Interesting you should ask that.There was a study not too long ago that determined that if a person 'had orders' from a person perceived as a higher up, they would inflict a substantial amount of pain on another human being.It's also human nature to want to remove those that are perceived as different.Culling the herd, as it were.Modern technology just enables us to 'cull the herd' more efficiently.I think that one way towards regaining some semblance of sanity is to educate a person as thoroughly as possible, and teach them that what works for 1 person might not work for another, but they are entitled to a basic level of respect by virtue of being a human.
14793
Is it like trying to carry on an adult conversation with kids interupting?\nLearn to be tolerant, even of those who might be younger, less mature or less educated.  Do not allow their childish manners to throw your mental or emotional balance off.  What does it matter?  If they act like fools, everyone can see that they are acting like fools.  Perhaps if they are ignored, they will go away.  Perhaps if they stay, they will eventually have something worth while to say.\nIt bugs me too.  What a waste of cyber juice.  But I refuse to let them get to me.
1181493
Great point ,I totally agree. \nWhy can we just discuss without insult.\nOviously we are different in ideas and thinking, but we certainly need to control our manners when expressing our view.
786567
I have no religious beliefs but it is my understanding that all the major religions say that we are all equal in the eyes of God. To grant special status to one person or section of a congregation is therefor merely pandering to that person's ego. Of course the dictates of common good manners should apply at all times and to all visitors equally.
1036008
If I'm in the wrong, I definitely say sorry. a stupid thing like pride shouldn't get in the way of someone admitting they were wrong. People have fallen out for years over the person in the wrong refusing to say sorry. It's not worth it.
1105405
I think that chavs are slowly becoming aware that they have been classified into a group- which may not be a good thing! Chavs seem to take great pride in being the bane of British life, typically characterised by socks worn inside trousers, a baseball cap perched on top of a shaven head, numerous gold hoops and bling bling chains bulk bought from Argus store nationwide. And for the chavette (either Trish,Chantelle, or Chardonnay Mercedes)the obligatory item is the screaming baby chav that throws the ready meals out of the pram as fast as his mother can throw in. \n Have a look at www.chavscum.com- it's hilarious.\n I think these people are increasingly taking pride in their commoness, a kind of workers rebellion against the middle class masses. It's scary, they could take over the British empire and become the new ruling class, theres that many of them.
856004
Nobody should undergo diversity training. It smacks of a totalitarian regime and is down right patronising. How dare people think that others need indoctrinating. FREE SPEECH. I don't think you should even post questions like this. Nobody would EVER get me on a diversity course. I don't need patronising by left wing lecturers.
1167221
I think people are bound to say things which they don't really mean down deep inside esp when an arguement is going on.My thought is he did apologize and sometimes that's about all one can do.I have heard actions speak louder than words. As long as the person treats another with respect then I wouldn't hold one arguement over thier head forever.
1135599
Teaching ppl to be sensitive to others is a healthy thing.\n\nUsing terminology that is of a negative tone is detrimental. For example, I can't stand to hear the phrase, "runs like a girl." unless it is actually about someone running I guess. But most of the time it is referring to running away like a coward. That always ticks me off when I believe women have more courage than men when it comes for standing up and fighting for what we believe in at all cost.\n\nWith all that said though, it can be taken to the extreme. And I have no clue what has happen to the phrase, "sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me." \n\nThat teaches us to let negative things bounce off us and that we choose to let somebody's elses opinion of us hurt us or not. We seem to have lost that mentality.\n\nOh yeah I wanted to add a funny story: myself and a friend were talking and she slipped and called someone she knows a damn jew for some financial deal they did. My eyebrows went up.... and she, knowing I am of jewish race, immediately started backtracking. I then said, 'damn Irish drunk' because she is Irish and drinks A LOT. She said ohhh good one and we laughed for I bet half an hour.
862403
u r doing the right thing. if you "talk", your opponent can blame you for distracting him. I find that complete silence is even more irritating to your oppenent because they know you are being quiet on purpose. also, always stand or sit out of the oppenents line of vision. that gives then the creeps because they keep thinking you might bump them accidently, or ever so lightly on purpose. don't do anything that could bother your opponent. it will backfire.
1020164
I think I'm quieter on here, there's no point in abusing people unless they are being offensive or openly criticising another participant. \n\nI also keep my humour on a lower key too because I know someone will tell me to 'stop being dumb and grow up!' (awww, but why? I have to be serious in my job, I've gotta be dumb somewhere!)\n\nHaving said that I've just posted a question asking people about their funniest school memories so do contribute if you have any yourself!
365162
I'm a teacher.  I never have unrealistic rules in my classroom and I try to lead by example.  If I am polite to children and never shout, then I accept the same from them.  I don't usually have disciplinary problems although there is the odd exception.