what should i do if i love a friend and i like him so much.he nos i do i dont no ow he feels how do i find out
971078
geez i kinda have that problem to\nif u find the answer let me know\nbut if i could take a guess on what i/you would do i would come outright and ask him..if u get turned down bleh there's other fish in the sea..if he feels the same way then YAY good 4 u
452444
You should be careful, did this friend show any type of feelings towards you. Don't mess up a good friendship be careful.
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
1181262
yes, I have and honestly unless if he shows some interest of being more than just your friends. If he dont leave it alone, you always fall in love more then once and men come a dime a dozen,,you will get over it.. I am sure that if he does not feel the same and he tells you , you are going to get hurt and ur friendship will never be the same and if you and him do something that may lead you to think that he loves and really he dont then you may mess up ur friendship, and im sure that you rather have him as a friend then not have him at all..just move on and find someone else. Trust me it really isnt that hard, though i am sure that you think it is. but i have been there b4 and i thought that i would never love again,,and boy was i oh so wrong.
164303
i did and i still do. i have never told him.it's so hard to tell whether you like your friend as just a friend or as something more because the line between friendship and lovers is very thin. i always liked him as more than a friend but i settled for friendship rather than nothing. when i am with him, it feels like its just the two of us and the way he looks at me.
681693
well first of all u need to be honest with him. tell him that ur friendship means a lot and u do not wish to ruin it or put him in a compromiseing situation but u have to let him know how u feel and ask how he feels, assure him that u'll respect his decission and if things work out in ur favour work to make it last and if it don't move on be happy for him and try to find ur own happiness.\nhope u get what ur heart desires
616689
You want to know so you can what?  If you dont have love feelings for him like "that" why bother trying to find out?  Surely you wouldn't want to try to get involved in a relationship just because he may be in love with you.  If you dont feel the same, don't TRY to feel the same.  Keep it real.
904576
yaar be confident about ur thing whih will show u right path ..friend may be ur lover  may be in problem which is taking ur lover away from you .plz conferm at right time other wise u will feel regret or it may nnot be ur true love about which u are nnot  sure that ur lover loves you or not ...confirm my friend is it ur true love towards ur lover
801003
There's a very fine line between love and friendship.  If you're going to tell him, you have to be sure that's what you want.  You've got to decide what you value more, your friendship or your feelings for him.  \nIf you really do like him, then I say go for it. Its better to try and fail than to never try and regret it.  Even if he doesn't feel the same about you, what do you have to lose?    Hope that helps and good luck.
528634
hm well u are currently commited to someone that u apparent;y care about so dont just drop him because something doesnt feel right. but as for your friend, if he really likes u that much he should be respectful of the fact that ur in a relationship and if he wants something more he should wait untill u are available.
135120
We have to go for love.  That's the way humans are made.  If this man doesn't love you now, it doesn't mean that he never will.  Obviously he feels something for you since he spends time being with you.....give it some time and you'll know.  \n\nThe friend that cares about you but you only like as a friend - why not just keep him as a friend until such time as you are committed to someone else, at least.
777270
ok hun  i have one of those friends and you should b able ta ask or talk to him about anything so just may b you have more feelings than what ur letting on  good luck
442927
Well, basically, in cases like this there really isn't much to tell because you just gotta go talk to him and speak out on whatever you have to say. I know that you might get that feeling that you don't want to ruin your friendship and everything, but you really want to tell him how you feel. Well, let me tell you something. I have this friend who just blurted his feelings for his friend. He didn't know if she will accept his feelings or not. He wasn't sure exactly what will happen; but deep inside of him he felt that he just had to tell her how he feels. So, he took his chance and stepped up to the girl and admitted his feelings for her. And now, they're happily together. No, they're not in a relationship or anything, but they both know that they're in love with each other. They just want to take time to get to know more about each other. They are willing to wait for the right moment to enter into a relationship. But the good thing about it is that their friendship never changed. They still remained good friends. So, if you two are really good friends, you don't have to be afraid of what will happen to your friendship because friends value their friendship more than anything. You two need to realize that your friendship is far more important than anything else. So, just tell him how you feel, but don't expect anything for that matter. There is that chance that he might have a different reaction, but at least you told him the truth and that will make you feel a lot better. Sometimes, you just gotta take that chance in life. I'm wishing you the best.
236329
you can tell him about your feelings and also clarify that if he does not have such feelings for you, you people can still be good friends.\nAtleast you will feel good that you told him about your feeling.\nCheers !!!!
135856
Tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same way.  There is no harm in asking.  I would rather know now...rather than waiting for years to find out.
1014593
Tell your friend how you really feel about him. Who knows? He might feel the same way. Any kind of relationship starts off as friends and it could develop into something more. It will also give you guys an opportunity to find out how you really feel about each other.
361666
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.