I like a guy, but so do one of my friends . . .?
965658
flirt a little, if nothing happens, ask him. But if your friend seriously likes him, you have to choose; keep a friend and lose this guy you might not keep forever anyway or lose a friend and have the guy but lose him later on((not saying you will lose him, but its a big possibility))
140755
You might want him but he wants your friend.  If you are really into this guy, tell your friend, she should understand.  If it's just a simple crush, let your friend have him. He's not the last guy in the world.
532828
This kinda thing happened to me a few days ago too...i don't know, if you like him (like-like) then you should make your move and tell him that you like him too. But if you'd rather wanna be friends with him, just tell him. When he told me that he likes me, i just told him that there's a line between being just friends and more than friends, and i'd like to stay just friends with him. And luckily, he understood and is okay with it.
1129641
If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.
741859
For the moment forget about your own friend.  You said you " only think of the guy as a friend and but he's okay "...based on that alone why would you choose to go out on a date with him.  You don't have an interest in any potential relationship developing with him so based on that alone...don't accept his invitation for a date.  Now, in addition to that, your friend really likes him, so to add that factor in...certainly don't accept the date.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
361666
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
132737
Tell your friend that you like him and hopefully she will be nice and not push you out of the conversation. Does he know that you like him? If not, you won't know if he likes you if you don't tell him. If he only likes you for a friend it just means that someone better will come along later. Good luck :o)
427041
of course!! its not worth it to lose friends over a guy.i like a guy and so do all my friends. i actually dream about him all the time too. my friends know that, but were still friends. i was kind of mad when my friends first told me they liked him too because i told them i did first, but i am over it. you should do the same
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
614813
IN ORDER TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION, YOU MUST EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN FRIENDS? ARE THE TWO OF YOU INVOLVED IN A SUPPORTIVE HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP?  IF THE ANSWER IS YES TO ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS, THEN BOTH \nYOU AND YOUR FRIEND NEED TO MAKE THIS GUY OFF LIMITS. \nNO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR LIKE THIS GUY, IF YOU CONTINUE SEEING HIM KNOWING BOTH YOU AND YOUR FRIEND BOTH LIKE HIM, YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE YOUR FRIEND. GUYS COME AND GO, BUT A TRUE BLUE GIRLFRIEND IS HARD TO FIND.
234269
You could try some friendly flirting to get a feel if the friend is into you, or if they think of you as just a friend.brother figure.\n\nIf your friend likes you then all you have to do is make a move. I like my guy friend, and I'd love it if he made a move on me. But if it was another friend I wasn't into, then no amount of seduction, planning or plotting could make me interested.\n\nSo it's just a matter of finding out if your friend is attracted to you or not.
884070
if he likes you go with him. If your friends is really good friends they`d understand && be happy for you .
240556
hun, if you like him then go out with him. Do you. If they are your true friends the will accept your relationship. Dont give up on what you want because your friends dont want you to go out with him. Its your life and you only live it once. Good luck.
139129
mayb u should talk to him about it, but if he likes your friend you can't do anything but your friend can.