My friends are in a big fight I am caught in the middle what can I do?
964090
OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
302700
This really is common, whether we admit it or not. I have a friend that at times really frusterates me. I just wait a week or so and then by giving the both of us space, we just start pretty much where we left off, and the funny part is that most of the time she doesn't even know I was upset with her, friends just do that. See what causes yall to fight and try to avoid it, if you can't do this then try to talk to her about this, a real friend is there through the thick and the thin!
353421
Just listen, don't say much unless you REALLY need to defend yourself. Wait till they cool down and THEN discuss your opinion. I've found this is the best way to handle this situation. Because after you let them cool down they are MUCH more likely to agree with you.
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
822425
i don't pick sides, just tell them that they are both your friend, and you are staying out of this argument... so just stay out of it... thats the best advice, don't choose.
1044301
Well you could try explaining to them how it makes you feel and how it affects you. You may need to speak with them separately and when they are calm, Tell them how it makes you feel and that it hurts to hear them fighting and arguing as you love them both. It may help calm the disagreements, but it probably will not eliminate them.
976519
just let them two solve their problem than getting between the two of them. you'll be experiencing a lot of trouble if you would do that. maybe you could approach them if you were asked to do so.
1173559
Tell both groups that you don't want to get caught in the middle, and that you don't want to hear it from either side.  You would like to stay friends with both groups, but do not want to take sides.\n If they persist on talking behind their backs to you, then you will break the friendship, even tho you like both groups.
628027
Let the idiots fight it out. No place for a girl to get in the middle.  As nice as it may seem. Leave, fighting doesn't prove anything. Now if one of them stops to come after you because he notices that you left. Then he is obviously the winner.
1045421
Call your friends up and ask them to bring there Best bats and kick some a $$, dont let them pick on you, hope your under 18 so you dont get in 2 much trouble, if you let them bully you they will keep doing it for ever. Stand up for self, or just play ball w/ your friends in the park, go biking to a new destination.
1148385
Be the bigger person and stop the silly war. Learn to "agree to disagree". Grow up
266682
if you have known these people fora long time and this just started happening and you dont just wat to stop being friends, you definately need to bring what they are doing to there attention. let them know how you feel, but be calm about it. dont yell at them or be overly dramatic or just act angry and stuck-up because they might not even realize that they were doing it. i have been in the same situation, and i did talk to my friend about it and she said she was sorry and didnt even realize it and then everything was cool between us. \nalso, try to include YOURSELF in the conversation. if you "but-in" to the conversation, you are showing that you want to be part of there conversation and that you are there and you have something to contribute. if you just dont talk at all, it might be your own fault that they are ingoring you.\ni hope all this helps!
824565
they are too boy crazy. go tell both of them that if they are trying to be mean to each other and like that, then you won't try to get them two back together. you are getting them back because you know how much they like being around each other. so you just go find other friends or you can just give them a chill break.
709090
You should sit your parents down and let them know that having to hear them fight so much hurts you.  By making them aware that they are hurting you it may help get them to stop fighting so much.  Hang in there.
381015
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
982665
I wudn't go on any1's.......Tell them that u love both of them dearly and u wudn't wanna lose any1 of them, but it's there fight and they shud be able to get out of it... Give them time and practice ur statement. GOOD LUCK!!
372404
this is a very hard situation to be in believe me i know how you feel! my two best friends hate eachother too! one is a cheerleader and the other is a music buff and hates cheerleaders! i tell them both that i don't want in the middle of their little cat fights and they actually don't put me in that situation. if you're really their best friend, they won't make you sit through that kind of stuff. mine actually don't have a problem with eachother if i'm around with them both. every now and then i get into conflicts with one saying i'm paying more attention to the other but i just ignore that fact. what can i do, i have more classes with the cheerleader than i do with the music buff. just make sure they know you don't want anything to do with their little fights and they should let you out of their fights. it may take a little while, especially if they get into a huge argument! they might expect you to choose sides, but don't do it. stay strong and stick up for yourself! let them know who's boss in your life lol! i hope this helps and wish you luck!