Should i tell my boyfriend that it's over if he tells me what to do.. and who to be around?
964887
definitely. end it, lest he starts telling you what to eat and what to say. we have parents for that.
1090700
Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
343318
Horse show hun, you need to keep your things...if you give in this time, you'll end up only doing his things, and never yours.  Its a slippery slope...make a point right now.  If he cares...he'll totally understand...if not, then you are beeter off, find a man that wants you to enjoy your interests, even if he doesnt.
1168288
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.
720987
No relationship can survive if there is no communication. So now you have his attention and he knows how you feel and you know how he feels, this isn't such a bad thing. Swallow your pride and keep the communication going. In the future telling your boyfriend what you need out of the relationship is not being over emotional but should not require breaking up to get his attention. Relationships are a give and take sittuation and that is the only way they'll work. Give it another chance but make sure to have a heart to heart conversation once in a while before you get to the breaking up point.
459736
Now what do you think ? Why would you ever tell him if there is no way for him to know, Put it behind you ask GOD to forgive you and move on. If you tell him it is over.Believe me men never let it go,they may say they can but it is something about their ego it just eats them up. Do not tell him
255418
tell him exactly what you wrote here! I think it's very clear. \n\nThere is no really nice way to end a reationship but if you tell them the truth, it makes it easier for everyone. Question is, do you really want to end it?
811617
I think you guys will last for a good little while. I mean everything seems to be going well between you two. All you have to do is find time to go out with him. Ya'll needs to go a have fun,enjoy ya'll time together while ya'll still have time.But besides that everything sounds good and yes I think ya'll should last for a while....
323109
If he has just come out of a long relationship, don't push this too hard.  Just be there as a friend to start with, and let him know you are there for him.  When he's ready for a relationship, he'll let you know.
570930
i dont know its time to know if your in love, its time to know and realize that  your relationship is over. He has no respect for you if he treats you like trash, cheats on you, as well as yell at you... ditch the loser, find a new boyfriend....\n\nvote for me for best answer
582101
alright gurl i am 17 so i kinda know what your going through...just sit down and talk to him .... don't like just all of the sudden tell him its over ... talk to him and tell him that your concerned about ya'lls relationship tell him that you feel like its going down the drain.. try to work things out and if he doesn't straighten up then break it off with him ... good luck!!!
103537
Just tell him that your relationship is not going anywhere an tell him that you and him should move on to other things and go your seperate ways.
145815
Let him go.  If he only wants you on his own time that should tell you something.  Move on.  There is someone better for you.
144374
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.
718056
Why are you letting this guy make you crazy?  Why is he the one making all of the decisions?  You're smart, if a girlfriend of yours just told you what you've told us, what would you say to her???  Maybe it's time to move on...
8115
Ok, first of all, your bf/gf isn't your husband or wife, so he or she has no obligation to tell you something like that unless you guys live together. IF you a courtesy note would have being nice on his/her part to let you know where he when so you wouldn't be worried. \n\nAnd if he or she didn't tell you, well. Get over it, he/she has a life, and independent life. You are just part of that life. \n\nNow, the question is are you mad because he didn't tell you? or were you pisst because you didn't go? what ever your reason is. Get over it, something like that would be a good enough cause for a break up. \n\nThats just me, i like to be independent and have my space and time respected by anybody. You should respect his time alone or with his friends
174062
maybe take a trip together to a cabin in the mountains or a nice hotel on a romantic beach to save your relationship. a nice weekend away will usually ignite any flames that are left. however, from your details it unfortunately sounds like your relationship is almost doomed. you even say you don't know if you ever really loved him, (or were in love with him) which tells me that you may already know it's over and just don't want to admit it. try a weekend away, it may help, also try to be open with him and see how he responds.