I met a guy at happy hour last week. It's been a week & he hasn't called. Next time, should I ignore him?
961974
Yeah, don't look for a commitment in a bar.
436993
We wait 3 standard days before calling so as not to appear despirate and possibly lse your respect. Remember, this note was outside. Anyone could have picked it up. Including the wind. You obviously know he's interested. After the 3 days have passed, walk up to him and ask him what he thinks. Are you two on or not?
199200
Just ask if he wants to out for drinks some time.  If he declines, then he is not interested, if he says maybe, then give him your phone number.  There's really no worst case scenario, so just ask.
667900
i Think you should call the person and ask them politely but firmly why they haven't called you. if they say something like I've been busy or caught up with things, let it slide this once. if this is not the the first time they did this, you should ask them how come they couldn't give me a call at least to see how u were doing. it depends on how long you have been with the person, if its a serious, and other things like that.\n  in my opinion, i address thee problem with them after the 5th day i hadn't heard from them.
401244
Make friends first. Trust me if I had a random guy that I have said hi to once or twice, I wouldn't be likly to say yes as I would if I had known him. But since your on a time crunch take a week. Good Luck!
1029678
maybe you can add him on your ignore list. that way he wont be added on your contacts. \n\nhope this helps.
253289
Im telling you I hate it when this happens!  SOME guys are just soooooo persistent!  I use to bartend and I had one guy who came in every single day just to see if I had kicked my hubby out yet!  He would call the bar and he's send me presents, and tip very very well.  Im really bad at hurting peoples feelings.  I HATE being mean!  cannot help it!  Finally I just had to tell him- ok- here we go- tell him u r lesbian!  lol  Ok maybe not!  lol  I would just tell him- sorry- Im not interested.  Then just kinda avoid him at all costs!!!!  I really do feel for u!  Good luck friend!
855692
I'm not sure if I understand the question. \nAre you saying that you send instant messages to this guy and he doesn't respond and so you want advice on when should you stop messaging him? \nI'd say that if he's ignored more than five messages either he doesn't want to know you or likes keeping you on a string. Either way your friendship is going nowhere. Give up on him and try to meet some new people.\nGood Luck
1141892
Try calling him.\nIf he doesnt respond then move on, because he has.
1026348
take some initiative and call him,let him know you had a fun night and you enjoyed the conversation and all that. He probably didn't know what do to either and didn't want to be too forward or overstep any boundaries.So if you call him I think that would make him more comfortable and it would be easier for him to "make a move" the next time you go out.(hopefully there's a next time) Good Luck!!
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
13457
If you only met her once, are you sure she is your girl friend?  Maybe she hasn't called you because she found a new guy.  Sorry.
812306
Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
282207
I would just wait until he came to you. If he really likes you he would want to know why you are all of a sudden ignoring him,he will then come to you so for the attention he was getting when he was ignoring you.Well thats what i would do.
969784
You teach people how to treat you. If you're ok with being asked out by email and never spoken to, then he's your man. If you think he's playing games or messed up, stop responding to him. I don't know why you'd even care to figure him out- I'd just ignore him.
626067
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!