WHY DO WHITE GIRLS DATING NON WHITES CALL THEMSELF WHITE but CALL THEIR BOYFRIEND AFRICAN AMERICAN OR ASIAN?
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They are free to call themselves whatever they want. I am glad to meet you the official spokeperson for Italians and Greeks.
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"...I just don't think it's proper for a person to date out of his/her race."\n\nbtw, I never said this..."but" cancels out whatever was said before it.  If I were racist, I'd come out and say it.  The above statment was said by many of my family members when my brother (who is white) announced he was dating a Korean girl.  It was also said about me when I was dating a half-Chinese guy.
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Inappropriate, insensitive, and maybe even racist.\n\nI had a similar situation with my aunt.  My boyfriend was just visiting from Kenya.  My aunt asked him "Is it true that African men need sex 7 nights a week?"  Not in a nice way, but in a way that implied she was suspicious that he might cheat on me or force sex on me.\n\nWhen dating people from other cultures, you're unfortunately going to have to put up with a lot of insensitive questions.  Hopefully you and your boyfriend will be able to recognize the insensitivity, get over it or deal with it, and then move on.
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I am, but I'm half-Korean. <3 But actually, I have quite a few "white American" friends who completely agree. It's for the same reason white males like asian girls - sexy and exotic.
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Be ourselves and not allow society to form our opinions or our judgments.  I'm a white girl, but my boyfriend's black.  We're madly in love, and both of our familys accept each of us...because we got to know eachother before making any judgements.  I hear rude stuff all the time, like, "He's a trader," and "Uh-uh, that don't make no sense."  I even get evil glares from white men when we go out...but I don't mind, cuz he's the one that I go home with at night, so that's all that matters.
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Thank god you don't date Asians, or Blacks, but I got some bad news for you Italian girls do date Blacks. I have dated a few of them myself, sorry to blow you out the water like that Gino. As for feeling guilt you don't feel any because your are mentally undeveloped something like a baboon.
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Hmmm, I think this is a falacy.  My boyfriend is Hispanic and I'm Caucasian, and plenty of white guys check me out or hit on me.\n\nMaybe your beauty gap theory is sometimes true, but I definitely don't see it that much to be honest with you.
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Allot of people still think it is odd to date another race.\nHow ever who cares what they think as long as your happy.
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This question has nothing to do with interracial Relationships, because most relationships are interracial. When 2 "White" people get together they are considers the same race but, may come from different backgrounds. No one blinks a eye about that. \nWhen a black man dates a white woman people get up in arms. So many double standards!! It's really just sad. To say that races should mix. You can have black friends but don't have sex because, blah, blah, blah. \n2006 and it sounds like we are still in the 50's. I can't believe it. \nHere is a kick in the *** for you all? What about a gay "interracial" relationship. Two "wrongs" must make it right, huh? How about this question when are people going to stop pointing fingers and assume responsibility for their own actions and beliefs? \nOh' and when I see a mixed couple dating it WARMS MY HEART TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE ARE COMING TOGETHER WITH DEEPER UNDERSTANDING THEN SKIN COLOR OR GENDER!!
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Well I'm white and have 2 children with a Philipino man, not really East Asian but Pacific Islander. Not togrther anymore for now 5 and a half years, huge cultural difference! I dont think I would date another other than my own or hispanic.
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There are Mongoloid Asians (Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Filipino, etc.) and there are Caucasoid Asians (Persians, Arabs, Indians, etc.). Skin color has absolutely nothing to do with race. The term "white" is not meant to be taken literally. Race is more about skull size and bone structure. By definition, Caucasian ("white") people are those whose ancestry originated in not only Europe but North Africa, the Middle East, South Asia as well as much of Central Asia.
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Speaking as a Black female I think there is a very strong double standard in our (African-American) culture.  Black men will date a white female in a New York minute, but cry foul the minute they see us with a white or any other man.  We tend to get hassled more by other Blacks for dating outside of our race.  Also, many (not all) white men are raised to appreciate a more Euro centric standard of beauty (blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, skinny body, small butt, etc); in spite of the "browning" of America this beauty standard still dominates.   Black females don't fit into that particular beauty standard so I think it's hard for some (again some not all!) white men to see our beauty.  I also think it's hard because of the painful past that Black women have with white men.  When white men do approach us, some of us tend to be suspicious of them.  This is just my opinion for why you don't see more  Black females with white males.  If you're really serious about interracial dating, there are websites that are dedicated to this.
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My boyfriend is White, never said he was bad in bed, it's actually White girls who don't like sex with White guys and go running to Black men in groupie packs.\n\nMost of the Black girls I know are just really attracted to Black men, the one's that are attracted to White men still won't date them for moral reasons, i.e, White men are evil, killed the Native Americans, always the most racist, stereotyping, jumping to conclusions, prejudgemental and never giving anyone an equal chance.  My White guy is decent though like Micheal Moore.
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I am a white woman happily married to a Japanese man. You have to judge a person as an individual and not by their race. Some are going to be good, some are going to be butt heads. If you like the guy, go out with him. And who cares what anybody has to say about it. That is their issue, not yours.
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Because white guys like to be sexually attracted to their girlfriends
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white girls black men mostly but lately I have seen an increase in white men who are attracted mostly to black women\ni take it from all your questions about interracial romance you date black women\nI date white men 30 and up no younger so I feel you
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Yes, I actually would. You said that whites should date whites, you didn't say that white was just your preference. If you have to ask if that's racist, then you should already know the answer.