question about my sexuality...?
959875
Hi there. I agree... these people answering can show more respect towards u as an individual! Man ppl... it's just a question... ANSWER IT!!! Anways, I read ur question and personally, u maybe have a tendency to lean towards bisexuality... however, since you didnt mention ur age or anything, it might be hormones. I do believe no matter your sexuality, people need to show 'respect' & 'dignity' (as these p-r-i-c-k-s didnt), you need that! It doesnt really matter on ur sexuality, I personally do not think being bi or gay is morally right, but it is a choice ppl make. I hope this helps u and i hope u find out more soon!!!
1045749
Uh...yeah....\n\nIt's totally normal to be confused. You could be having gay thoughts but end up being totally straight. Or vice versa
219820
Well, you're right- you shouldn't be worrying about it. You like who you like, you're attracted to whomever you are attracted to. It's confusing to be a teenager- hormones are a crazy thing. \nI think if you are a lesbian, you probably already know the answer to your own question, honey. On the other hand, if you've always found yourself attracted to boys and you've suddenly been exposed to something NEW (porn, I would assume), that doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian and I would caution you NOT to drive yourself insane trying to figure it out. You would certainly NOT be the 1st straight female to be "excited" by those types of images- as there are PLENTY of women who do, who also consider themselves straight.\nIf you have ALWAYS been attracted to other females, perhaps you do have some not-so-straight tendancies. But I wouldn't worry about that TOO much- it's not the end of the world, but it will take some time to get used to it and whether or not you are comfortable enough with it to talk about it to others. \nThe bottom line is to not make too big a deal of it. If you are anxious or nervous about how you feel, my advice would be to stay away from it until you know yourself a little better. Don't add more confusion where it just isn't necessary. Just relax and enjoy being YOURSELF- and finding out who you really are. Your sexual orientation is what it is and you WILL figure it out, probably sooner than you think.  \nIf you think there's anything else I can help you out with, feel free to contact me by clicking on my profile- there's a link you can use to contact any one of us here. Some "answerers" don't have themselves signed up to receive email from others, but mine is set up that way. Best of luck to you!
1087597
I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
1129474
You can't really determine your sexuality untill around the onset of puberty, but when that time comes and you're staring at the same teachers that the opposite gender is.,.. there's a clue that maybe you dont swing the standard way.\nBut let me ask you this, if they cant be born gay, that means you couldnt have been born straight, and was there ever a time when you were thinking hmmm, girls or boys, girls or boys...?
1008081
sweetie, \n\n think long and hard about it, and look at it like this: Do you like chicks? Can you see yourself with one? Would it make you happy? ok now think bout this: Do you like Boys? Can you see yourself with one? Would it make you happy? \n\nnow honestly which idea do you like better? \n\nthere are lots of support groups out there for bisexual, homosexuals and hetrosexuals, that deticate they're time from trained volunteers and peeps that have been there that would be gald to talk to you and help you figure out and be there to support you no matter what decsion you've made, always remember you have to do what your heart tells you, and always be happy and do what will make you happy, then your not failing yourself and you must remember that others are not you and they can't make the desicion for you and they shouldn't influence you, this is something you have to do on your own for yourself. \n\nso be straight, be bi, be gay, just remember most importantly be happy and be you its better in the
941287
You're probably not as confused as you say you are.  Your body knows what it wants, even if your mind is unwilling to accept it.  \n\nI suggest that you avoid sexual relationships with everyone until you've had a chance to form some non-sexual relationships with people who identify as gay, in addition to the relationships you already have with people who identify as straight.\n\nOnce you get to know some gay people, and understand that they are just people, like everyone else, then you might be surprised how your feelings inside change about your own sexual identity.
975260
If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
1050235
Define "normal". Normal is different for everyone. Theres a natural curiousity in this area and  I believe everyone has thought about it at least once whether they admit it or not. Does your friend know how you feel? It may be a phase for you and it may not, only you can decide that. You may be attracted to both males and females. You might benefit from talking to a trusted adult about this. Good luck, growing up is tough, Keep your chin up.
1071250
It's natural to be gay/bi, but that's not an answer I can give you.  A clue, though, is if you really desire making love with the same sex.  Sexual desires are one thing, but true homosexuality is a love thing.  If you love females in that way, you may be gay.  You may be predominantly gay with a slight turn toward the heterosexual (hence, your sexual but not loving attraction to boys).  In the end, however, it is your decision.  I can only offer advice.
849655
Sounds like your a curious person, tolerant of what you don't really understand, and you aren't homophobic. I would hazard a guess that one day you'll end up married, maybe with children. And throughout you're life you may have gay or bisexual male friends who you don't chastise just because of who they are, which would be very good of you. But then again, who knows what the future holds. One thing I do  know is that your curiosity will subside in time. It is very mature to "try" something in a safe environment (looking at "gay" stuff) where no harm can come to you.
8422
I too had those feelings/questions years ago and I now have close relationships with both a guy and a girl...I love them both and each relationship provides me with different needs.  Just be yourself and when you are with a person you love and are physically attracted to, the rest will come naturally.
583786
theres one good way to know if your bi sexual or just bi courious. You have been with men. If you can look at a woman and just wonder what it would be like to be with her and not act on that thought. Your just courious. If you find a lady and actually try something and enjoy what you have then your bi. You are the only one who really could answer this question. It depends on how you feel in side.
1128934
It's a feeling, not something you find out.  Being bi is not a bad thing.  You haven't given up on guys.  I've always had a firm belief that your sexual feelings is your business .  No one else needs to know. \nLet's just say when you know what you want, then tell them.  This could just be a phase you're going through.  You'll also know the best time to tell them.\n\nGood luck
418966
Here are some questions to ask yourself......Are you attracted to both girls and guys?Can you not stop yourself from looking at other girls?Do you look at guys the same way?Are you interesting in the same sex?.......These are all questions that need to be answer before you truly know if you are bi or straight......but for the time being lets call you bi-curious............that is my take on the question
719038
Your still gay. You are just expermenting some bi feelings and there is nothing wrong with that. I think it happends to a lot of gay people. They just don't like to admit this kind of thing. I know I have been there. It seems like other gays don't want to hear it and the same with the opposit sex. Im jost letting you know it normal to have feeling like that. Your still gay and thats ok..
1114533
No!!\nI think you're bisexual and that's why you're asking this stupid question.