How can i take my anger out?
962335
writting about how you fell gets your anger out out or pound on something besides your sister and if she dosent know your password she cant cancel it and plusshes your sis. not ur mom she cant ban u
907808
take martial arts like judo and karate and aikido.\nyou will learn to control yourself and your response to situations.\ntruly this is the key. \nothers recommend talk therapy, which might help,\nbut i think you also need to involve your body.\nthere's also something called bioenergetics that helps\nrelease a lot of anger.  you could try it.  kind of expensive.
880863
Are we controling YOUR anger or someone elses? If its you, When you feel a fight coming on. WALK AWAY. Don't yell, scream, hit...Nothing, just walk away. If its somebody else, Same theory applies. When you see the fight brewing. Leave the room. \n & joine ART OF LIVING FOUNDATION COURSES.
758493
Take time off the computer Lol. Thats what you do when something or someone irritates you. Dont stare into it, relax ur eyes from time to time and look around the room.
242019
i was also like you. people say count numbers etc then also you cant but there is a way which i follow see when you get irritated by any thing or any body if they are in front of you, suddenly stop arguing with them and close your eyes and leave the place. and watch the things that you love and which you feel sensitive.hold them and sit in a no one place and watch the surroundings then your mind will not think about your anger imagine lovable things of yourself and inside you create some beautiful things surrounding, nature or god if you are religious, and remember you childhood days and  mischiefs etc try to make a smile on your face. you will forget you anger. i hope you will practice it. bi
212438
Lower your sodium intake on a daily basis. Every time you feel anger beginning to develop try holding your breathe for as long as you can.... it will temporarily restrain anger and help you develop a rational outlook tourd the situation. Take your multi-vitamins... When ever our bodies are under nourished we usually respond to it in a negative way and blame it on the situation at hand. Try weight lifting it definitely helps alot with anger and stress... BIG TIME. The last thing I really want suggest is a supplement called ''Rhodiola extract '' this stuff helped me out dramatically and I have felt much better ever since.
380415
disassociate yourself from the thing that is causing you to be angry with this person. you are not doing yourself any good by being angry, especially if the other person does not care with the emotion your having.
1031976
I think there might be a way to let his anger out, and not hurt anyone. Is he creative? Let him express his anger by painting, drawing, or writing. Is he athletic? He can let go of his boxed up emotions by boxing, swimming, or maybe track.\n\nIt all depends on what his hobbies are. Maybe he might be better off talking about it, or maybe just doing something else I haven't suggested. I'm the same way, but I've taken up writing. \n\nIf you have any questions, feel free to e-mail me.
494802
Have a candle-lit bath, with bubbles and candles, dim the lights and just soak. It's really relaxing, it may sound kiddish but it really works. After light some candles and insence and settle down on the couch and just take deep breathes and maybe watch some soaps or feel-good movies or chick flicks, not anything too dramatic and violent but something that you like and makes you feel good. Another thing is that you should do what you like! whats your hobby? for example, I love horsebackriding, so I might go on a nice peaceful trail in the woods  for an hour to calm down and realize life is a good thing. Or if your a painter, start painting! you could even make crafts, which actually allows you to express your anger on paper and your work, instead of other people and your mind, self confidence and yourself. Go scream on your pillow! if you just feel like screaming, go right ahead. Thats what I do when I'm frustrated angry and confused. It really helps get the stress out. You could bang stuff around scream and shout and tell everybody to just get away from you. We all understand. Or, what I do is put a favourite CD on and sing along like nobody's listening. It helps alot. Or sometimes I call a friend and we talk for hours, and it keeps your mind off things, or you could go to the mall and shop. Shopping cures anything! lol. Something else is to make yourself beautiful, dress up, do your make-up, paint your nails, it keeps you consuntraited and focussed on one thing at a time. You should also spend time with your family or friends. Family and friends really helps in these situations. You should also call up people your might have angered, and say your sorry and for them to forgive you. It will make you feel alot better and less upset. Hope ive given you some ideas, and i hope this day really turns better for you!
252897
i know your very upset and feel like u need revenge but it would be best to just leave him/her because when we do things in our anger we sometimes do things that we will regret and may not be able to take back whatever may happen.
698206
More than likely, someone or something is bothering you that you have been unable to resolve. If you can figure out what that is, you've solved half your problem. Try to find constructive ways to express your anger --- work out, play a sport, write letters to people your angry at (you don't have to necessarily send them or share them). Try to talk to a good friend who will understand if you are moody right now.
192535
Sometimes, when people cant take out anger on the things that they want to, it just comes out in the wrong place.  Useually when people are angry, they refuse to accept the truth.  Just try to give him space and to try to comfort him. Thats all you can do
902849
Find a good counselor and have them set you up with anger management training.  Once you figure out how to control it then you can figure out why you get angry.  Anger is a secondary emotion, so there is a good reason, not as you say.  You just haven't figured out what that reason is yet.\n\nI was angry for a long time as well, and I figured out why and now I have no reason to raise my voice.  I have learned how to listen to my inner self and I know what my triggers are and the more important lesson is that if I act a certain way I will damage the relationships of the ones I love.  GL
285085
When you are angry, close your eyes, take a deep breath and think what is making you angry.
183059
When you find that something is making you upset, just pause and take a deep breath.  Step outside, whetever you have to do to escape the situation for however long you need.  Breathe slowly and deeply, and count in your head.  When you have calmed down enough to think rationally about the situation, come back to it.  Don't rush...sometimes you only need to count to 10, sometimes you might need to count to a jillion.  I'm no expert, but this is what I do.  Hope it helps!
589904
I go away from place place of anger.  Try to find a sitting place, close my eyes, drop my head and relax.  But of course in extreme case, i share my piece of mind with the other person or who ever is available.  After All am a human, one cannot always control his / her anger. :)
761534
First take a deep breath and count to 10 when you feel anger coming on, secondly try and be positive in your outlook on life....it works wonders.also wear a smile more often as a smile is very infectious . good luck hope you make it.