does a guy who over-accessorizes his vehicle feel insecure and crave attention OR?
969803
Accessories should be simple and elegant.  That's why my ford F-150 only has a simple string of pearls....understated elegance!
252407
Nope. Cut it out with the "looking cool" think. Looking cool isn't everything in life. You sound overly obsessive. Deep breaths, man. Deep. Breaths.
683218
if a girl is dating you for your car, you're better off without her.  when i'm interested in someone, i don't ask for his bank account info or to see his car.  I'm interested in HIM, not what he has.  Material possessions come and go...maybe one day you'll be really rich, and the next you'll be poor.  You want someone who likes YOU...that's what the whole "for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health" stuff means when people take wedding vows...
554081
Why would you want to change who you are or what you know just to make him feel better about himself?  If its truely a good relationship, he knows you are intelligent and loves that about you.  Now that is not the same thing as making him feel bad or stupid because he might not know something.  I knew more about cars than my ex did, but I never said anything like "You are the man, you are supposed to know this, why are you so stupid?"  You wouldnt want a man to talk to you like that, so why do it to them?  It's a matter of respect...both for yourself and for him.
509108
I think being able to set up boundries is important but most guys love any attention from women but if you look more insecure the more then likely he will be with her.  Men love a confident women.  Until he says enough she will still come around but maybe he is just playing the field and keeping his options open and if it does bother that much then you walk away but try to be friends and keep it simple and take out the drama.
980815
Some guys want to be the center of attention for their girlfriends. Sounds like he needs more than you can give. Self confidence and independence can be intimidating for a guy too, so they may try to reinforce themselves by being controlling. Jealousy is a personal problem, there is a lack of confidence and trust.  I would be careful of this guy, hopefully he's not the violent type.
1170648
Having a job and a car SHOULD be expected but you would be surprised how many single men have neither. I don't consider myself shallow but that really is a requirement I expect from men I date. It doesn't have to be a Benz and you don't have to be sporting a big bankroll but I need to know up front you are not going to expect me to support you and haul your nappy a s s everywhere you need to go. I would never expect someone to do that for me. I have a job and a car and a place of my own. After that personality is the most important thing I look for but most women are stuck on looks after that. Looks aren't everything. Sure there should be a physical attraction but for me that comes more from a good personality and sense of humor than physical attributes. The ugliest guy on they outside becomes gorgeous in my eyes if he can make me feel good and keep me smiling and happy.
387823
U SEEMS TO BE VERY ANGRY AT GIRLS.BUT I DO AGREE WITH YOU ALOT OF GIRLS NOW DAYS ARE VERY MATRIALISTIC WHICH IS NOT A VERY GOOD THINKING.I REALLY DONT CARE ABT WHAT KINDA CAR HE DRIVES.WHAT I CARE ABT IS HOW MUCH RESPECT DOES HE HAVE IN HIS SOCIETY WHAT IS HIS EDUCATION LEVEL IS WHAT IS CULTURE IS WHAT FAMILY VALUES DOES HE CARRY.I MEAN A FREAKIN DRUG DEALER CAN HAVE A BENZ BUT I DONT THINK SO ANY DECENT GIRL WOULD LIKE TO BE WITH HIM.SO MY POINT IS THERE ARE STILL MANY MANY GIRLS OUT THERE WHO MAY UNDERSTAND UR POINT AND WILL GIVE U A CHANCE.GOOD LUCK AND TAKE CARE.
674474
I think it is fine too, is your husband the super possessive type and insecure ??
204326
If your living with the guy then it is a little bit tasteless on his part to bring home these things.\nI dont think your being jealous, I think your being a normal woman that feels that way when their man is checking that crap out.
502087
That he's a man who has a fetish or an obsession.
183690
There's no doubt that he's going to appreciate it.  (As long as he knows it's not from a dude.)\n\nBut, unless he's mature, if they show up when other people are around, he's liable to react badly.  It's a guy thing.
437724
Because you have chosen to like the wrong type of guy. The kind of guy you are referring to is very self centered and uses a car as a focal point for his ego.
112465
Your language implies that you are highly critical of him appreciating other women. Perhaps if you relax and join him in acknowledging and appreciating other women he too will relax and not feel that he has to sneak looks. Your tension indicates a lack of self confidence. As long as his appreciation is mature and he looks at these women as one who looks at a beautiful painting or sculpture then what is there to be concerned about? If he doesn't, then perhaps you can help by directing him and upgrading his level of maturity. My wife often points beautiful women out to me...
335120
You've got a little short-circuit in your head.  Don't worry, we all have them and yours is much better than many others.\n\nEver notice how after a friend or somebody close get's a new car, you start seeing that same model of car everywhere?
212767
I am assuming that you have male friends...and curious if they detect a bit of an uncomfortable vibe from you when you are around...maybe you being uneasy puts off some sort of signal that causes everyone else to be uneasy also...just don't try to hard maybe that's the problem...sometimes over doing the masculine thing causes doubt in everyone...just be yourself...true friends care about you for you...
339175
People Who Have Not Delt With The insecurities, Tend To Take Their Frustration And Uncontrable Surges Of Emotinal Unbalance To People More in Control Of Their Life, Or Who Seem to have Certain Qualties That They Believe They Lack, Thus Being Your Rose Petel Beauty, He May Lack A Certain Confidence, Warmth And Charm, And Posscess Other Unattractive Elments That Make Him Less Appealing To Women\n\nSo To Answer You Question, Don't Think, Visulsie Or Even Suggest Any Realtion Ship To The Word, Thinking Neagtive Thoughts Only Feed You That Information In Other Ways, Hence It may Make YOu Incomfortable With Love Making......Let It Go Miss\n\nYou Can't Help A Wussy Boy