Should I get a divorce before this go's too far?
953071
Tell your mother in law she needs to get a tonguectomy.  LOL\n\n\nYour mother in law is always telling you what to do, but are doing what she tells you?  It's very simple.  The two of you together need to tell her to keep her nose out of your personal affairs, and if she can't manage to do that then she will be out of your lives for good.  The choice will be hers to make.
31697
Depends on lots of things.  Pre=nups, etc.  Do you have an attorney?  If not, you'll need one eventually.
972023
I think your relationship is already messed up.\nIt is not to late for an annulment!
589075
Maybe get engaged.  Have you lived with this guy yet?  Man alot of factors go into this.  I wouldn't get married yet.  Anymore I would say you should live with someone before getting married.  That sounds crazy to some but i think if you had to live together for a year before getting married the divorce rate would go way down.
843685
if you can get along and be pleasant until then, it would probably be more enjoyable for your children. after all who wants the wonderful present of divorce for christmas? if you can make it a month ish i would say go for it.
32476
Yeah, you probably will if you are trusting enough to ask complete strangers for relationship advice online. Good luck with that divorce too.
426346
it is not too late. marriage is something that you are supposed to stick with through thick and thin. a divorce will affect you child in many ways unnoticeable to both you and your husband. my advice is to talk to him and put the divorce on hold, and both of you should take a step to seeing a marital counselor and work it out for the better of your child. that is what is most important.
319321
Yes!  Your first priority should be to your kids.  They aren't safe with your husband and you need to get them away now.  Call legal aid or see if you make payments to a lawyer.  Or see if in your state you can file on your own.  Make sure you have proof of whatever accusations you are going to bring up in court.  Document everything, it will help you later on.  Also depending on the ages of the kids, I would ask for supervised visitation due to him still talking to the perp.
1161155
Are you a man? If the answer is yes, then kiss your house goodbye.\nAnd if you're worried about a divorce already, even before your married, I'd re-consider the whole marriage thing. Seems neither of you are ready for this sort of commitment...
720743
dont get married then...you will just end up in divorce court...and you may bring a little kid into all that
640422
Stay together for the kids.\n\nPrepare for your divorce the day the last child graduates from college. Whether you want a divorce or not, she is going to want one.\n\nGet some on the side, while waiting for the divorce. Just be certain to cover your tracks for your time. Only use money that she does know about.  \n\nI have been there and done that.\n\nCounselors are a dime a dozen. You will know within five minutes whose side the counselor is on. Personally, it was a waste of $1,000 for her and me.
223278
NO NO NO!! don't u DARE get a divorce. its called work out ur problems, no matter what life gives u, easy or hard, u have to work to get it. You married ur spouse because u loved ur spouse, (hopefully maried em because u loved em). u have to work it ALL out, EVERYBODY has relationship problems, married or not. So work it out.
628658
i would think that would depend largely on if she is able to get out and get a job herself. if she is able to then she probably won't get half your pay for life. just up untill the end of the divorce.
351636
file for divorce and have it get served to him. the courts might make you perticipate in marriage counselling if you don't have good cause
1056923
I would go to a lawyer and try to overturn the prenup.  It's a shame that he wouldn't even compensate you for you time in the marriage.
704185
It sounds like you're already doing the right things - you have moved out, you have initiated divorce proceedings.  Go through with the divorce, and then look to the future.
763342
before you go the divorce route like everyone is doing lately have you tried to work it out. if you did then i think he wants to have his cake and eat it too. but at the same time he is doing what he wants r you? you both have to give a 100%. try counseling!