What does a guy mean when he says he had to take a cold shower after seeing you?
965820
He wants in your pants real bad.  Maybe you are being a prick tease.
624740
It could mean that, or it could mean that he was standing up to you b/c no woman should be hit by any man.  Those who hit women are just trying to boost their ego.  And your ex knows it.  He was setting him straight.
312784
Sounds like double standards to me. That means you really need to talk. if after that, and he is still giving you mixed messages like that, I'd say take a break. But im leaning more towards the break. Doesn't seem that promising.
218718
When I became very ill, I lost my hair and didn't think he could ever look at me and think I was beautiful. I came home and he had made a bath for me. There were candles and he had put choclates on my pillow. He bathed me because I was to tired to do it for myself. He dried me because I could not lift my arms. Then he loved me, because he said I was still the most beautiful woman in the world to him.
651518
He probably just passed you a cold or something like that.\n\nWhat you're describing doesn't sound like an STD.\n\nJust go take some DayQuil.
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
476170
Because you froze he thought you didn't want to. Lots of things will be going through his mind so he was probly unsure wot to think. Now yourve said yes he will be happy, but i guess unsure wot to do! its not everyday this happens, so prehaps he doesn't know what to do next! try and spend a weekend away together, just you too. He can't escape so you will have plenty of time to talk and errr....well wot eva else you choose to do!!
284197
Do you like him to do sexual things to YOU? Sounds like you're doing all the "work", which means it doesn't feel like "play".\n\nWhat I'm trying to say is, if it feels good and you're parting on good terms, I don't see a problem.\n\nUNLESS YOU DON'T WANT TO. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO, SAY NO. SEXUAL ABUSE IS A CRIME. He could lose custody of those two kids and go to jail. \n\nMaybe that will have the effect of a cold shower...
513449
A lot of people say that. I say it all the time. When I say it it usually means I'm confused and I need some time to think. Well if he's keeping you a secret maybe he's not man enough to admit that he likes you or something. If his friend has a crush on you and he wants to take a break maybe he doesn't want his friend to find out about you two.
649038
Jeez, it could mean a lot of things.  What part of you was she looking at?  \n\nYour face?  \n\nMaybe she does think you're hot.  Maybe you look just like somebody she knows, or she was trying to decide if she knew you from the past.  Maybe you had something smudged on your face or stuck in your teeth.\n\nLower?\n\nMaybe she couldn't believe you were wearing that shirt/jacket/harness/whatever with those pants, or that your fly was down.\n\nWhat were the two of you doing when it happened?  Did you just let a door slam in her face, or bump into her and not apologize?\n\nAs you can see, even if you did give more detail, there's no way to tell for sure what the girl was thinking except to ask the girl in question.  If it ever happens again (with that girl or any other in whom you might have potential interest), simply ask her, "Is there something I can help you with?"  That's a very polite, unassuming and yet effective way to handle it.  You don't really want to assume that she thinks you're hot if, say, she's only debating whether to tell you that you have spinach in your teeth.  ; )
169399
It just means he cant right then probably because he either has a girlfriend or he doesnt have time for a girlfriend .  But he does mean it when he says hell go soem other time with u, so just sick in there.
845580
"he's thinking of getting together again."\n\nYeah, right.  I'll tell you what he's thinking.  He's thinking of getting his body together with your body for anywhere from ten seconds to ninety minutes, then he's going to dump you again.\n\nNone of those break-up / make-up, break-up / make-up relationships work.   What happens is that one of the individuals keeps the whole sick thing going while he or she is looking for something better.\n\nHope this helps.
678630
Guys like the idea of a chase. They like to do the chasing and they like to be chased. Maybe he wanted to see how you reacted to the situation so he could make a better assumption of your feelings for him. Guys do stupid stuff to find out what the girl is thinking in her head. You know that girls are different creatures from a different planet and their brain procedures are very differnet from men. he probably A. wantd to see if you'd say something or B. you're over analysing something stupid
264360
Talk it out, dude. That's the only way to get things right. But hey, be careful in doing so. It might be too much to ask but believe me, you'll need ounces of patience and tons of prudent speech as this maybe a sensitive ish. He probably needs to shower more often so he wouldn't have to do that again. Good luck! =)
42964
it vould mean a lot  of thing s men are hard to understand so trust me don't try to figure them out, he might wantt to be freinds or it just means he is breakking up with you or it means that he just wants to hang
925180
It either means \n\na) you looked hot\nb) you looked weird\nc) he wasn't looking at you\nd) he's interested in you\ne) you're freaking out over nothing
1180677
yes..... I suppose you could just be honest or take him into the shower... either way... there will be some issue down the road... if you tell him, he will feel self conscious and uncomfortable , if you take him into the shower... what about the next time and the time after that? always in the shower? if you want a long term relationship with him you do have to find some way to tell him , or suggest he shower  before sex , because you always do and it always makes you feel fresher... hint hint...lol....... and if you have no interest in ever seeing him again.. make an excuse  that your sinuses are blocked and have to pass on the oral, or  fake a  cramp in your leg, ....take a rain check and run like hell... don't look back......lol..