Who comes 1st?? Friends or Boyfriends??
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this is a quote \n        friends are forever \n         boys are wat eva\n          when worst comes to worst my girls come first!!
507855
Boyfriend - Watch movies.\nFriends - Shoulder Lean & Dance our Faces off.
529201
Well that is a tough question - if you are serious with someone - no one should come between you. However, just because you are with someone does not mean that you should not have your own friends - actually you should still maintain your own friends because even in a relationship that it rock solid - you need down time or personal time. You still need to be you. However, you should not put them before your man or girl. \nHope that helps
930916
If I'm not mistaken - a boyfriend is a friend who is a boy.  A husband is a man that you are married to.
1025428
Always, I have that issue or as i introduce my new intrest to my friends... he ends up dating one of them and not me... thats happened way to much...i understand your pain *hugs*
110648
You have to ask yourself why he cares if they have a boyfriend or not, really I can only see one reason why he would ask that - well if a guy asks me if I have a boyfriend I can only assume that he wants to find out if the coast is clear for him to make a move.  Sorry, I wish I was wrong
500135
friends...\n hah ha ha hah
1005938
Well, I think that being friends first should be the base to any relationship. If you were to persue the relationship over time with said person and it did, as you say, fall apart, then you still have that basic foundation of friendship to fall back on. A lot of people dont even have that. When they break they destroy one another, I think if you have a solid foundation of friendship then you will be close enough to know whats going on far in advance of anything getting really messy... But there are no guarantees in life, I know that much, but I also know that once you have a good friend you can never erase them or replace them. they are part of you for life!!
6118
You should be friends with yourself first.  Don't feel like you need a boyfriend to be a whole person.
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definately tell your boyfriend how you feel. tell him that you would like to hang out with the friend and the kids and be included in the activities. Tell him your concerns. \n\nHe might just say that maybe he does have feelings for him, but it's not like anything would happen because the other guy is straight. of course this still hurts alot, if not worse.\n\nMaybe you could find a friend of your own. If your attention is all the sudden on someone else other than your boyfriend, it might get his attention, plus you will be happier because you won't be thinking about it the whole time. Your friend wouldn't have to be another guy, it could be a girlfriend. I definately suggest not to make it more than just friends though, because that would most likely be out of spite and just hurt you and your boyfriend way more. \n\ntell your boyfriend how you feel, see what he does. just play it cool. make some new friends. best of luck hun!!
929133
Yes, but they have to be on board aswell.    In college i had a great friend with benifits and we would call each other for booty calls all the time.We were good friends that tried to date, but knew that it could not work, we did however enjoy the physical with each other.   The funny thing is that i would call him over, then make him leave right after and he was totally cool with that.  After i started seeing someone seriously we ended the sexual part but remained friends.  I am now married with a child and he is friends with my husband and i.  My husband knows about the relationship also.  I kept things very open.
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I think time and space are important right after a break up....at least a few months.  Trying to be friends right away typically makes it seems like dating again almost, or at least in my situations.  Then when one person starts dating someone else or decides it's not a good idea, it's like a 2nd break up all over again.  It sucks because if one person wants to be friends and the other does not, post break up, that's that.  You have to accept that the person may not want you to be in his/her life for a while...as much as it sucks, you must not be selfish and just move on
610507
They can. I have a guy and girl b/f's. The guy and I have been friend for almost 8 years. He's my friend. And that's all he is. I love him, but not like that.
687650
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
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Funny you asked this question.  This is a constant issue with me.  I have male friends that my boyfriend is a little jelous of but trust me, they could never replace him.  My bf has female friends that I'm not threatened by anymore, but there was a time.  As far as my boyfriend and I, I say that opposite sex friends are perfectly alright as long as the couple knows where to draw the line and the "friends" and couple know not to cross it.
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The most important part of a boyfriend is the FRIEND part. Hang around people you like.  Hang around guys who have qualities you like.  Learn to talk.  Learn how to open up a little.  How to joke, tease, and maybe even flirt a little.... just dont overdo it or you will seem desperate.
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Calling your male friend boyfriend is gay if you are a male, so is friend unless you are defending them. Homey is more appropriate, so is Potna.