Why is it so hard to find a bi sexual lady? Who is serious and do not play games?
961212
am serious and i have my head on right and am not a player...so what u gon do bout that?
732847
Some people enjoy playing games, others are just confused and don't know what they really want.  Stop wasting your time chasing her, and spend this energy on finding someone who knows what they want, and don't want to play the mind games.  \n\n\nGood Luck...stop wasting your energy on her, there are tons of wonderful women out there, and some of them are looking for someone just like you.
354402
Go online!  Honestly for women that is one of the few places to meet other bi/lesbian women....you can't exactly go up to some chick @ a bar or restaurant and say "hey, you're cute...wanna come home w/ me?"  Lol...go on myspace or yahoo personals or some other dating website...good luck!
1178467
Most women don't know what they want even at an older age. I think most of us go through a period of yes, we do want the type of guy listed above, cute, smart, funny, respectful, but when we get that there just not bad enough. Don't have enough edge, they seem sissy to us. As women mature and grow older then we realize that those bad boys are just well, bad boys and we actually want a commitment from a guy not some loser w/o a job or ambition for anything.   While it's hard on guys, you just have to be patient there's  girl out there that's wanting a nice guy and can't find them and get's stuck w/ losers...hell, i always did. I think sometimes it maybe not so much a sense of false hope just maybe afraid of oh, my gosh what are my friends going to think b/c he's just so nice and this might make them think he's too sissy. I wish you luck in you search. God bless.
1155534
I do it is fun  whem I get a chance  being bi sexual you don't get the chances women get & those women who dislike it to bad ...you'll loose yr. bf.soon enough if you don't .... so get with it
737640
Nope another lady here..  Haven't heard of that.. One.\n\nTo me it sounds just immature girlie's..  Thinking they are cleaver. \nDo what you want to do .. \nDon't worry about the games other people play. \n\nEnjoy life.. and don't stress about the opposite sex.\nSometimes its all very forign to them too.
1099655
im kinda confused about what your sexuality is, are you bi? and you want a bf who is cool with that? well mine is and thats not hard to find.. email me and explin better please....
974137
I think you have just run into a few bad apples.  Guys are guys, gay str8 or bi, basically decent underneath but we all have our faults.\n\nI will say this, some bi guys tend to over compensate, constantly reminding you they could be with a girl (as if you were lucky to be with them), but pettiness ain't exclusive to bi guys, they just got a different weapon to use.
1154357
I'm sure you've come across men who are not this, just as sure as you have come across women who are not regarded as female dogs.  \n\nStop seeing the genitals and start seeing the person.  \nAnd possibly get some new friends and get into counseling
166379
The bisexual women that I know, my wife included, generally stick to the heterosexual thing because it is easier in society, so spotting them can be a little difficult, but there are a good deal of them around.\n\nIn a sense, bisexuals "coming out" to other people is kind like elementary school relationships. It is not as socially acceptable, so it is hidden, like it is with 8 or 9 year olds. I know this sounds insulting, but actually the stakes are greater. In elementary school, all that is at stake is a little embarassment, in the adult world, your livelihood could be at stake.\n\nThey are out there. Who knows, they might be your best friend and only a drink or two away.
1122086
Are you asking cause you are and you're looking for a date or just cause you are curious to if others are?\n\nWell I am.  I am a married women, but I always wanted to experiment with a woman. \n\nI probably don't live near you. But if you are serious there are probalby plenty of woman who feel the same who DO live near you. Look online or in the personals. And if you are straight, but curious, don't feel bad. It is a natural feeling.
825298
wut da fuck is wrong wit yo bi*ch a** you are a dumb ass motha fuka who doesnt even deserve the privellage of having a female companion!!!! Females are sensitive creatures we dont jus want u to hit it and then we leave we like to cuddle to feel like we're loved and appreciated!! you are SCUM!!!! and if u wanna report me go rite ahead BI-ATCH!!!!
1107666
I am not lesbian or bi... I think that one of the possible reasons that people are so down on bi women is that unlike lesbians, it has been considered cool, hot and sexy by mainstream media, even so much so that some girls would claim that they are bi for the extra attention that they could receive from males... On the other hand, the lesbian/gay community has been marginalized to a point where a person that could be seen as a 'fence-sitter' (even if that's not the case) would not be accepted fully by the lesbian/gay community, especially when it is more acceptable to be bi than to be gay. Within the straight community, I think we've seen a media-induced increase of bi-sexual girls, many who return to straightness when the novelty wears off, so a truly bisexual woman would be taken less seriously due to the other girls going through 'a phase'.
444856
Some people are not satisfied with casual sexual encounters and relationships.\n\nI'm a single parent with three kids, and want and need emotional support and intellectual stimulation from a mature adult female, not what I can get from my mates over a pint at the local.\n\nDifferent strokes for different folks.
938363
All women are bisexual.  Most only fantacize.  However, when a woman tells you she is a lesbian, what she means is that she is nuts.  That goes double if she actually lives with a woman.  This means NOTHING as far as if she will have sex with you or not.  However, just because she wants to screw your brains out, you can't assume anything about the other woman unless this interaction unfolds with them both present.  Look at it this way.  In order to succeed elsewise, you have to seduce a complete stranger and then go with her to another location and seduce another complete stranger.  The first one is easier because the fact that you met her usually means she is already inclined.  However, her live in is not.  And both are crazy.  The first one of the pair you meet is likely crazy in a way you already find acceptable and who you are already attracted to.  But, be prepared for horrible surprises about the other one, not to mention interpersonal crap that may be going on (example: they had a fight so now she is punishing her live in by screwing some guy).  Did I mention that "lesbian" is womanese for insane?\n\nIf you want a threesome, it is far better to find a normal girl and work on her and one of her close friends.  Likely, they are halfway there and only need the proper catalyst to make it happen (in other words, you).  However, this is never going to result in a "decent relationship".  What it will do is fall apart in dramatic fashion in a short period of time.  In other words, you do this with acquaintances you are having sex with....never with serious girlfriends.
965421
I don't know about right.  People have told me to put on online personals either looking for male or female, but not to put both.  I guess that's just so people know what you are more into.  I always identify myself as bi if asked.\n\n~Daniel
431016
hey shut up jules, jenny and anniesroad. you keep you're stupid negative opinions about what's gross to yourself. stupid hetero with your "hetero agenda" trying to keep everything conservative.\n\nI'm bi but in a hetero relationship but I'd love to chat just drop me a line @ tethrum@yahoo.com