Boyfriend question??  I need to know what others think is going through his mind.?
955380
I moved in with a guy after 7 months before.. I think it ruined our relationship.  I will never live with a man until I am married now.  It seems crazy to commit to someone that much when you haven't decided if you like them enough to spend everyday (rest of life) with.  Esentially that is what you are doing.. spending the rest of your life together... so it is putting way to much into the relationship. \n\nI would suggest moving out and still dating.  You can take a baby step backwards.. He might think it is a good idea too.  It might save your realationship.\n\nGood Luck :-)
859093
he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
664575
Me personally?\n\nWell, in all honsesty, what rund through my mind is probably not what u think...\n\nI think about other boys\n\nLol joke\n\nno what i really think about is how warm and cuddly my partner is, how i could stay wrapped in her arms for ever, just feeling her warm skin, kissing her soft lips, holding her neat body and wishing that it will last forever.\n\nIt may sound soppy - but its true.\n\n(I suppose thats why im engaged with a baby on the way :p )
364927
From what you described, I'm 99.9% positive that he has feelings for you. His problem is that he can't make a decision for himself. He's sending you quite a few signals. He's waiting for you to make the first move before breaking it off with his current girlfriend. He's insecure. He doesn't want to be alone. Question is, do you have feelings for him? Do you want to be with a guy that insecure? Remember, the relationship will change once everything is out in the open. Which is more important to you? The friendship or the relationship?
773499
Men aren't the best communicator but they do think alot, and it is very possible that in his mind he is thinking long term, and by saying what he did he wanted you to know how great he thinks you are by letting you know you have the whole package.  You go girl!!
992809
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
746427
You are thinking with your heart and other parts of your body besides your head. Your friends are just looking out. If you are confused there is a reason for it. Sit your friends down and have them tell you why they feel the way they do. They will probably open up your eyes and brain instead of him opening up something else.
1031455
All this dancin' around. Good grief. You'll drive yourself nuts going through all this...and for what? Forget about all this tricky stuff Just let it happen...trust yourself...but not necessarily him. If you find yourself wondering about his wandering eyes...bail.
472436
Sometimes it's hard to tell. You care alot about each other, right? Have you talked ot him about how you feel? How he feels? If you're still unsure after that, tell him you need a little more time to decide. try a year from when you first started going out-get comfortable with sharing your thoughts and insecurities, so then you will be comfortable sharing you life. The key is really communication. Give it a little time after talkign and decide. After all, nos can always be turned into yeses!! He'll undertsand.
988670
Don't be concerned about how he feels.  It sounds like your conscience is trying to tell you something.  Listen to it.  Don't be a home wrecker.
895215
Hopefully the feeling is mutually (meaning your boyfriend loves you). If so, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. If your boyfriend is a mature individual he will not listen to outside sources. If he feels that something may be true than he should come directly to you...go directly to the source. Just remember people are petty. People will do anything and everything to get what they want...especially if they are involved with someone else...you always want what you can't have.
898006
Make up your mind already will ya? You want him when your with him and when he leaves you want him back. I think you need to take a break from men in general and find out who and what you are all about and what you want. When you have established you then men can be in the picture. Write a list of all the good and bad qualities of this guy and give it to him, let him ask what this is for and if you truly want him back explain. Let him know you have been thinking of him and can't imagine what was going through your head before. I think you need to look into yourself for some love and then you can truly give the love he needs. Sorry if this hurts but honey, life is to short for anyone to be playing 'I want you, I don't, I want you again'
8157
hun its not guys.. im going through the same thing with the person i love... it all comes down to thoughts.. thinking is the worse thing in the world... becuz the devil is involved with your thoughts.. (your mind is the devils playground) so he probably missed her.. and wants to change and thinks theres something there.. just like my situation.. the guy came back.. after a year and she thought there was something there.. remember THOUGHT... when people dont follow there emotions.. thts when confusion comes in.. and confusion is everything bad... so i hope this helps you a little bit and if not im me... Epik_Liphe and i can talk to u a bit... but dont believe its 'guys', its just 'him in tht situation' it may not be he dont love you... its tht hes confused... it may not be plain to see.. and he may not say that.. but if its real love.. hes confused... take it easy hun.. try not to get upset..
272037
Sounds like you should just break up with him then.  He is intentionally hurting your feelings by saying that to you..., or maybe he is trying to get some sort or reaction when he says it.  So, next time he says it.., say, I feel the same way.., just to see what he does.  Keep in mind..,there are many fish in the sea.., so you can throw this one back!!!
566977
he probably has some really heavy stuff on his mind right now. if you talked of getting married and starting a family, then he may just be in a place where he has to think. i would say that all you can do is honestly tell him how you feel, not angrily or accusitorily, and give him room.
590855
people speak how they feel at the time, even speak what they sub-consiously think..not realizing it...like in a conversation in an instant without thinking about it your words are being spoken.when your drunk the truth rolls of your tongue easily...like you open up/let you hair down after a few beers...but your bf sounds like he needs your assurance that you only have eyes for him...show him who you are for him
601920
Kudos on ur boyfriends attitude... can't u see what he is doing?  he's got u all worked up, his building much anticipation, and that my friend leads to awesome sex encounters.  SUAE.