is a cheater trustworthy?
960040
If you can, he will cheat on you as well
493983
#!----VERY IMPORTANT.  I know from experience.  If you suspect your guy is cheating, don't...I repeat, don't let him know you are suspcicious.  If you confront him, he will take his measures to hide the cheating to a higher level, and it will be more difficult for you to find the truth.  Cheaters get lazy after a while.  Solid clues will come to the top and you will be able to find out the longer you let him think all is well.  Take advantage of his laziness and carelessness.  It will happen.  Then, when you have solid evidence, throw it in his face and give him all the HE!! he deserves.  Don't commmit a crime though.
717470
I have never cheated. I have had three opportunities but turned them all down. I don't like being dishonest.
1074366
WELL SOME ONE CHEATING  OR FILIRTING
163164
cheater. try learning it.
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*
106665
Trust your intuition, I do. He shows all of the classic signs of a cheater, right down to being defensive. Does he also accuse you of cheating? Usually, the cheater will accuse the faithful one.
852813
Have you been cheatin?\nDo you trust him?\nWhy not?
611031
why, are you cheating?
968483
I think you can trust him to cheat again......
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
609851
It's very hard to fully trust a person after they cheat. Even if you forgive them, it's always in the back of your mind that they did it. However, some people have moved beyond a cheating history and married and lived happily for many years...if you truly believe that he won't cheat again and that you have it in you to marry this man, then you should.
160000
i agree- once a cheater....  if he cheated on his wife and is willing to leave her, is this really the type of person you want to be with!?!?!  seems like a set up for heartbreak!
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
516831
Trust is a big component in a healthy, long lasting relationship.  You have to use your good judgement and from what you know about him now, evaulate if he would be capable of playing you or have cheating tendencies.  Nobody wants to be hurt, but let him know how important it is to you for him to be honest and trustworthy.
358366
i don't agree with it... i never been cheated and i never cheated on sumone... but i do bliv that finding the ONE for us is very hard... we may think that we already find him/her but there is a continuous entering of people who might be the right one... coincidentally, the time that they arrive sumtimes overlaps... we cannot judge a person by committing a single mistake... he/she might cheat but it's not for the purpose of cheating... (well... there are sum cases in which this does not apply... it depends on the person...) but... always see the goodness of a person before judging him/her.... one can always change for the best... ;p
135792
Cheaters do not deserve another chance.  Leave him for someone you can trust.\n\n"He's a very good guy,"?  Wrong.  Good guys don't cheat, honey.