Do you ever feel you are all alone in this world?
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Yes, I think everyone does at some point in their lives. I see you have posted this question several times so I know you are in a really bad place right now.\n\n  I'm very sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your daughter. I can relate to you so well because I have lost two of my own children, a daughter and son both. My daughter was stillborn in 2002 and my son was premature in 2003, he lived for 2 days with the help of machines but died in my arms after they convinced me to unhook the machines. For me, it's the guilt that is eating me alive. What if I had gone to a different doctor? Why didnt I take it easier during the pregnancies? Why in the h*ll did I let them convince me to unhook the machines??!....  I have not been the same since, nothing seems to matter or worth any effort on my part.  You arent really "living",  you're just "existing", right? \n\n  I have found that it helps to talk about it, even if that only means writing out your feelings where no one will ever see it unless you want them to. I have found several support groups for bereved parents online that allow you to post stories, picture, even chat with others about what you're going through; that has helped a lot.No one should have to endure losing their child, that just isnt the way its suppose to be. I wish you the best and if you ever need to talk please know that I am here! Take care of yourself and remember that your daughter is watching over you. I love you too.
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I do experience the same.\nYou and I know perfectly well that the world we now living in is extroverts orientated although 50% of the world's population are introverts.\n\nMost people look for those who are active and social person to have relationship with; most employers hire those who seems to be outgoing and outspoken individruals to fill the emptied position. And in school, most teachers still see an introvert as a problem and try to change it.\n\nWe introverts having experience all that, I still feel good and proud to be an introvert. Because I'm not only know that I am different from others, it's because I know myself, and I know my strengths can be a blessing to most people.\n\nI came to know my special gift (which is still unknown to my parents and siblings) which allows me to reach deep into other's inner world, allow me to have a moment of connection with another person, both introvers and extroverts. And that is unique to me.\n\nI noticed that in this fast rushing world, some of the introverts like me play an important role as a Listener; a Healer; an Empath; an Advocator; and a Guide.\n\nBecause most people go on with their own life, having no acknowledgement of their true self. When comes to making a decision, they may not have an answer for themselves that feel okay with. And as an introvert, I have more advantage in this situation; that I can either help myself or others to choose wisely.\n\nI agreed that we should not try to be an 'extrovert wannabe', that will only make a fool to ourself. We are born introverts, and there is not much that we can change that. To feel good about ourself, we simply just trun inward to look inside our own inner world, and locate the strengths and gift that lay deep within us.
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Well yes for once i do feel like you. And the week that passed i was in the eye of the storm, loosing my cat and watching my puppy die. Since i have no friends either in the country i live the last 3 years, i lost my 2 precious "babies" that kept me some company, altho im only 26 and not bad looking.\n\nIn previous summer i had a horrible incident of panic attack , i could not breathe. I went to Hospital but nothing was organically wrong with me, it was psychologicly caused from anxiety and feeling awful all the time.\n\nSince then, and becouse i hate having panic attacks i try to relax and never let anyone spoil my personal moments.\n\nIn this i want to to point out how much important it is to focus on your life in case you have been focusing on making other ppl's lifes better and neglecting your own. (just in case)\n\nAlso, friends are easily made if you make an effort. I grew up travelling around and i know how hard it is, im not good at it either. But i have learned in practise, if you are happy to make friends, you will at the end! It is natural.\n\nJust dont expect too much from ppl, and always be easy on yourself...especially if u feel bad...take your time, cry or be lazy, dont ponder and dont ask "about the future"\n\nEnjoy your ,even lonely, moments. You are definitaley, NOT ALONE in this.
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i completely understand. i have the same problem. i think you have to be happy. just because there are people around doesn't mean you can't be lonely. like something is missing and you're not quite sure what sometimes. doctors sometimes help but i think it's all something that can be worked on by ourselves it just may take awhile. i'm sure this isn't really an answer but at least you know you're not alone in this aspect :)
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I don't think I've ever felt loved by anyone, I've given up on it. I think in the world we live in presently loves is quickly becoming a lost feeling.
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I thought i was the only one who felt so. I guess there are some things to keep to yourself, some moments you have to be alone....Better find an e-pal for youself, takes some time, but works out.\ntake care,\nbest wishes
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It is incredible, but it has no meaning anynore. No one cares like they used to. Everybody & everything is in a rush & it's a dog eat dog world. Things were different at one time. Today I feel like I have nothing to look forward to. Sad huh....( I could have if only my beloved didn't have to leave)
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When you feel lonely when you are with them.
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SOMETIMES.\n\nTHERE ARE TIMES WHEN I WONDER IF THE WHOLE WORLD WOULD BE EMINSCELY HAPPY IF I WERE TO NEVER HAVE A THOUGHT OF MY OWN, AND THAT THEY COULD JUST PULL MY STRINGS WHENEVERY THAT WANTED.  \n\nIT SUCK WHEN PEOPLE TREAT YOU LIKE YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS DON'T COUNT.
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Honey, I often wondered the same thing...but then I realized that while we all live in our own realties, we are linked by our own human existance.  Things don't dissappear into dark nothingness simply because you have left that area.  How do I know this?  Because I am sitting here in Cleveland right now smoking a cigarette (not gange like you are), living in my own little reality.  Also, I think it is important to realize for yourself that you are just a small fragment of a whole.  You need to get over yourself, and I don't mean that in a snotty way, I mean that you are dealing with your id, which is a common human experience, and one needs to give of their selves in order to conquer his or her feelings of isolation.
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how are you? isn't it funny that although there are millions out there like us, it still feels like we're all alone? hang in there.
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Oh yes. I have always felt different from everyone around me. There has never been anyone who truly "gets" me. I have friends, I have family, but still even when I am with them I feel alone.\nAnd yes left out of things. I've been in situations where it seems I was forgotten. Hearing friends talk about the great time they had doing this or that, and wondering why I wasn't invited.\nI don't know what you wish to know but remember the truly great have always stood alone from the crowd.\nDon't change to fit in, be yourself. Someone will "get" you.
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Oh, gosh, I hope so!! I would feel awfully lonely if it weren't for the thought of another world doing the same things we're doing.  One day a scientist will have his eye in a telescope, and spot the end of another telescope with a huge eye in it lookin back at them!  I'll say... "Told ya so!"
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You are very lonely and bitter, aren't you?
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Some people feel lonely even when they're surrounded by tons of other people.I sort of feel that way too.There can be a million people around you and you feel that no one in that group understands how you feel deep down inside.They think they do but they don't and you can't find anybody to confide in.It's a horrible feeling.
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I think everyone is afraid of being alone
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just think you are "lonely" but not necessarily "alone" \ni know what loneliness and emptiness feel like, especially when i was younger. but what helped me through it was when i finally grew up and realized that the world does not revolve around me. we sometimes feel alone when we feel like we are being ignored... that's how i used to think. but now, i don't care anymore if nobody pays attention to me. you will get more positive feedbacks if you were to help other people in need -- and in return, that actually gets you noticed even more. compared to sulking in your own sadness. so try to go out and help out... it's a wonderful feeling.