why i lost contect with my gf?
965329
try re-contecting her.
920910
REMEMBER... For so many years u haf go through so many highs n lows wif her. She's always there 4 u. U should not betray her trust. A ger's heart is like glass, very to be broken. \nThink properly, think carefully.\nTry sitting down wif her to slove ur problems. Should always talk with her.\nNobody can help u. Only u n her can solve this 2gather!
1148212
either she is not intrested in u or is confused. ask her for the last time and if she again says no then move on find a new gf,  u cant wait for her all ur life.
582857
This is coming from someone who has been around the block a time or two. Do not tell you girlfriend. She will find out on her own. Mind your own business and let her work it out for herself. Be there to comfort her and listen to her when and if she chooses to let you know what is going on, but by no means should you advise her what to do, or let her know it is happening. Women have a "gut" feeling about those things, and if it is something she can not work out with her boyfriend, then she is put into an embarrassing position of knowing that you know about it. Keep it to yourself. Keep her confidence and do not discuss it. It is by far the kindest thing you could do for her.  I lost my best girlfriend that way, and I thought I was being loving and kind toward her.
394086
talk to her and find out why. maybe she has had a bad experience that she cant talk to you about. also, see if she will seek some couselling. unless she really doesnt like you, if she isnt willing to get some help then i dont see your relationship going much further. good luck.
591771
Why are you lost? Why don't you know yourself? You just lost someone important in your life, not your life itself pal.\n\nYou are a great guy, strong, full of love, joy, you are an honorable man, you are funny, you are cool, you are a man that can make any girl happy. What happened in the past with your ex is stuff of the past, LET IT GO. If she didn't appreciated all what you offered her, all that good stuff, IT IS HER FAULT, NOT YOURS.\n\nAnd you are wrong, even her cannot do a single thing to you, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU. And why are you going to hang out there for a little while to see what people say? You know yourself, you have been living with your self all your life, you know what kind of man you are, you know where you have your nuts buddy!\n\nPain, lots of pain. Pain might lead you to two things: (1) more pain --> death, or (2) victory. Wars involve pain and death, but pain and death leads to victory to the one that is stronger and smarter; and I think that you are from the side of the strong and smarter ones. How do I know it? Because I don't spend my time writing to losers.\n\nStand up and start walking...
285736
What did you do, if you post that you will get more help. Some times that is just the way it is. When something is in your face all the time you get used to it. It becomes something you think you can do without. The only way to know if you can be without anything, is to lose or let it go for a small period of time. Go the distance, if love is still there it can be rekindled. Spare no expense, use what you know about her. Shock her suprise her, make her feel like the love of your life, it's more than just words, it's action that makes the words. Good luck!
712742
dude.. you need to calm yourself.. \nfirst of all you are wrong for what ever reason because of you the anniv part was cancel.. second of all you need to make up something for exchange for the anniv part that you cancel.. third if you still love her, try to respect her feelings.. maybe she wanted that anniv party so bad that when she know you were late she got very dissapointed.. \n\nbut on top of those three, say no to violence!! dont let your self be beaten up by other people.. \n\nhaving a relationship is about loving each other not torturing each other.. if you feel under stress with this girl, try to give a time break..
603937
If you constantly have to prove yourself you are either messing up alot or she is high maintenance. If its your fault, you might consider just being single until you are really ready to commit to someone. Break it off. You will learn the pains of loss and it will teach you to treat your next gf better. If she is high maintenance and always making you prove your love, than she is insecure and you should dump her. Either way break if off.
731635
look I'm a female so I really don't agree with what your trying to do. If you are no longer sexually attracted to your gf then break it off. she has feelings and for you to cheat on her after 1 1/2 yrs you will be pathetic. she trust you and she knows that something has changed that's why she is trying to get the affection from you or put it back into your relationship. sex isn't everything if you don't have someone you love to share it with. I think you really need to think about what your saying and trying to do. If you think your relationship is done then break it off and leave it at that. But if you just want to have sex u and ur gf should do role playing. It will increase the excitement in your relationship and hopefully stray u away from other interest
220110
Trust has to be earned back.  Believe me, it's not easy when someone you love loses trust in you.  She was hurt that you kept a secret, and I'm sure it hurt you to hurt her.  Just be careful in all you do, be good to her.  If it's the real deal, she'll learn to forgive and all will be well again.
9388
It depends on why it went bad. Was it something you did or was your partner? Eitherway, you have to look at all the reasons why you two are not together. Make a list if you have to of all the good and bad things. Then decide if it is really worth trying to save it.
561366
you have two gfs sounds like you are a non-commiting person, just decide, you are about to hurt one or both, you should have not gotten youself in this predicament.
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
465576
She must have been hurt beofore. Ask her and if yes take it easy with her. If you love her that much you will wait.
160556
a few possibilities might be happening:\n1. She's want u 2 be the she marries, she's taking things slow. Most Relationships started from friends\n2. U'r not right for her... u might wanna improve urself.. physically fit, more intelligent or having better personality. she'll change her mind (dats how i got my gf) =P\n3. U'r not in her priority list... maybe she wanna hava stable career or solve other problems 1st b4 having a relationship.\n4. She might be friendly to everyone. but if u want he badly, better do something about it, but dun Rush.\n5. Other factors dat she might not wanna disclose~ if so, dun find out directly from her.\n\nMy best advice: Learn more bout woman, improve urself in every aspect & have a good heart. =)
1031272
Spend more time with her, and talk to her more, you should be talking a lot anyway because shes your girlfriend, she might be hiding the fact tht shes upset youguys dont talk much.