help i need advice of this bad person.?
955580
be the bigger person and say nothing, just deal with him. as u get older u will learn that in the workplace its basically the same , there will probably be somebody that u don't like but u have to deal with it, don't let him get the best of u and u will always come out the real winner
362483
I can totally relate to what you are saying. I live with the same type of thing every day, unfortunately the person in question is my boss. Sometimes I think if I let loose one day the consequenses might just be worth it. Horrible, I know, but this kind of person can cause the most severe and aggressive frustration! My advice is to avoid him as much as possible, which is what I do with her, but should you happen to proceed with a physical confrontation I admit I would find it comforting to know that at least someone had some consequence for their constant crap behavior and maybe will think twice about it in the future.
435350
Someone that talks bad about you to others is not a friend! forget him and find true friends. Good luck!
415518
YOU NEED TO LEAVE ASAP, HE IS FULL OF CRAP.  IT MAY HAVE STARTED OUT AS INNOCENT TALK BUT YOU CAN ALMOST BET THAT HE HAS GONE FARTHER WITH IT.  GOOD LUCK
261694
it doesn't sound to good, he sounds like he's a nightmare to live with. my advice is leave him before you get hurt anymore.
673958
You should forgive her BUT speak to her and try and find out way she says nasty things, she probally has deeper problems and is taking her anger out on you
150273
Treat him like a little brother.  If your friends tease you, get new friends!  If they have no compassion for a person who is slow through no fault of his own, they are pretty cruel.
866684
Honey, you should stay away from this person.  He has already been in and out of jail.  He is a repeat offender and that should mean something to you.  You have your own problems, getting with him will only give you MORE problems.  There are plenty of guys out there who do not have troubled pasts or futures for that matter, get one of those.  The fact that "he always ends up saying my life is too messed up to be with anyone right now", is a brush off and you know it.  He's not interested.  Stop chasing him only because you can't have him and stay away from the bad boys.  I know they seem dangerous and exciting and they are but; BAD BOYS = BAD RELATIONSHIP = BAD LIFE.  Set the bar higher and have some respect for yourself.
500810
ohhh thats a tough one hun, you should out smart him. for example when you confront him and he bites your head off come back with something that he has done that he just accused you of. turn the tables, and maybe it will hit him more effectivly and the lawyer that would be your best bet and if maybe you could take out a loan and then make payments.?!?!  that would prob be the wisest route..  because if you are scared about what he might do i would be better safe than sorry!!   -- Good luck with everything!
540609
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.
1108665
file it with the police so theyll have a record of it. if it doesnt stop, get a restraining order or file charges against them so theyll know you`re serious and you`re not going to take their crap. be careful, this kind of thing can escalate and get ugly.stay away from whoever is harrassing you if possible.good luck.
103407
Have enough self respect to remove that person from your life.  Kick it to the curb because deceipt DOES NOT enhance your life and if you believe it will not happen again.....then you're not being honest or truthful to yourself!!
378369
My advice would be to get away from this person as quickly as possible. There are enough things out there to agonize over, don't let another big one like this one tear you up anymore. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not destroyed. If there were kids, then that would be different. Run girl, like the wind. Good Luck
1187406
well give some detail like how is he no good? At least you figured it out in a quick amount of time you didn't waste years I would just tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore it's that's simple, you don't deserve to be treated badly... drop the jerk and find someone that will treat you right.
499025
This is how every serial killer movie starts off isn't it?  I would limit your contact as much as possible till he has his shit together. Try setting a schedule I will call you at X time on X day, and let him know that you are an independent person, and while you will support him he does not own you nor does he control your life. Set Limits! if he flies off the handle hang up on him and don't pick up until you're sure it's not him. Don't be afraid to cut him out of your life completly if you feel the stress is too much.
450624
Start with a restraining order. It should have more details.
815634
Advice?  Easy.  Run back to the guy that has blackened your eyes, broken your nose, and used you as a punching bag for years.  He'll eventually kill you.  Then, he'll go to prison for life, and not endanger some innocent woman.  OR, you can stay away from the jerk, and perhaps build a life where you don't get beat up.  Your choice.