Gay Asian men have it the worst?
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Hi I am an asian female and I am sorry that you are being judged for your looks. As an asian female I get the worst brunt of society's hate and judgement as well. \n\nYou seem like a nice , well mannered intelligent person. What I would do, is stop going to those sleezy bars where men blow you off. Those men are not worth your time since they are just probably looking for sex and are superficial. Have you tried to use a personal website where you can specifically ask and look for someone else your age who wants to be in a long term relationship? \n\nThere is nothing wrong with being a gay asian man. All those people that act like that towards you want to have a sense of control and therefore feel like it's okay to be rude and snub you. It is an issue with them and not you.\n\nAs far as those asian men who don't want to date asian men, I think they have self racism and project their feelings of insecurity and sense of insignificance on you. That is why you get blown off by your own race. Don't worry, asian people blow me off too in general for the exact same reason.\n\nYou will find someone with persistance but remember to change your venue. Don't go to bars.. they basically suck and they are a meat market. Look on yahoo personals or post one yourself, you may be pleasantly surprised at a response. If that doesn't work, start looking for asian male gay organizations. I hope this helps, don't let those idiots get you down, you are too good and mature for them!
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Its a curse that some of us have to live with.\nBeing a babe-magnet and exuding effortless masculinity is a burden we have to shoulder in silence.  The pinnacle of the sexual food chain is a lonely place.\n\nI recommend GorgeousguysAnonymous (GA)\nIts a discrete support group thats helped countless guys lead relatively normal lives.
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married men and gay men might be more sensitive then available ones
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I sense  Latent Homosexual tendencies in the askers questions....what he hates/fears in gay men...is something he hates/fears in himself....he should get honest with himself
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Guys are jerks and buttheads. I wonder how they would survive in a world without women. Most women are smarter tan men and if it wasn't for us (and god) they wouldn't be here!!!
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Yes, I have known and had many friends who were gay.  Two of my wife and my best friends in this town are gay.  I am disgusted by their lifestyle and hate what they do, but they are some of the nicest people I know and we laugh all the time with them.
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i certainly don't know about every gay guy, but i went through that and so did some of my gay guy friends. the thing is that gay men feel a special bond with straight girls and there is the whole thing of wanting to be "normal". almost every gay guy goes through a phase in their lives where they are just sick and tired of being tormented and ridiculed for being gay and they just would like to be "normal", whatever that is. so don't be hard on him. it does hurt the girls sometimes and that is not good but the gay guy is hurting too.TTFN.
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they aren't you just sub-consciously find something sexy about gay men ...prob the whole can't have them thing
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Asian woman are very beatiful by all man's standard, but asian man are ugly in most woman's standard. therefore asian man feel shy and inferior when they compare themselves with westners and are uneasy to approach excedingly beatiful women in general.\nBy making youself simple, and not very beatiful or sexy, you will seem more aproachable.
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Well, we asian men are maybe shorter in heigth compared to white men, but were not scared to white men.. pinoy specially are romantic type.. and we don't usually approved divorced, we want married to last..
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If they don't show interest when you approach its because they don't find you attractive. Maybe they just don't find asian men attractive or more likely, its just YOU. Perhaps if you weren't so ignorant they would find you more attractive.
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Dakotah, \n\nYou have a racialist, stereotyped and sexist view of the world. You cannot view all people of the same race as being the same. Also, it seems you view Asian women as submissive, and you assume that the "best wives" are the ones who are submissive to men.\n\nYou have a seriously distorted view of the world, Dakotah.\n\nYou need a reality check!
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playin the black card again?\nthe worst thing you can be in this country is a white middle class heterosexual male. you have to earn evrything. wish i was a black gay disabled immigrant pregnant female.
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No, those are 2 totally opposite ends of the spectrum.  What does being straight or gay have to do with being black, white, asian, or latino?
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Well I'm an Asian woman and I have dated every type of men. White, Pakistani (still Asian though), Chinese, Mexican, and Black. I don't have a problem with any background the man comes from! \n\nFrom personal experiences and from the absolute truth I get out of other Asian women most of these women go out with White men not because they fell in love with them at first sight but because they "looked attractive" and attractive means sharp features that White men have that are highly influence by the media they see every day.\n\nWhat's funny is that if you live in San Francisco, I'll guarantee to you that every part of the city you go, you'll always see an Asian girl with a White guy! Some of them act really stuck up too just because they'll with a White guy?\n\nSome girls I know even point out that White guys treat Asian women better than Asian men, that they have money, and above all you can have beautiful babies with them! But this is American, and the Asian men here are Asian Americans how stupid to assume such things!\n\nIt's really like reverse racism if you think about it. They say Asian men are no good!\n\nWhere I lived before moving to San Francisco, I always saw the Asian guys have girlfriend with no difficulty, but here I see a lot of single Asian guys and not so many other races of women want to give them a chance. How sad! Asian men are statistically more lonely and single than Black women too.\n\nI just wish some of my Asian female counterparts just stop the reverse racism on our men because they don't deserve any more discrimination!\n\nStatistically: There is one Asian woman for every TWO Asian man in America! And Japanese American women marry outside race like 75%! Those are really disturbing numbers, because like I said, many of these Asian men will be bachelors for a long time and some may never marry because of it!   :(\n\nI love all men but I wish more of my sisters gave other men a chance besides White guys!\n\nOh and of all the men I've dated, my favorite was my ex-Chinese boyfriend. He was so funny and really, really, really.....good in the bed! Probably he was so lonely for a long time before he met me! There was nothing small about him either!
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Unusual, yes, most straight guys I know are freaked out by gay men.  I wish I could find a straight man that is comfortable around gay people.  My best friend (whom I live with) is gay and I would love to find a man that would be comfortable with my best friend .
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not all asian's men got small penis...some of them got too big size..