Ladies, would you be upset if a man showed up for a date?
958412
I suppose it would depend where the date was.  As long as he was dressed appropriately to the venue I really wouldn't mind.  If it was somewhere special and he hadn't made an effort (particularly if it was a first date) then yes I would feel upset.  All the additional information is really besides the point.  I mean great that you have done well for yourself but that has nothing to do with what you wear to meet me.  \n\nAlso it would depend if he did it to test/trick me because he doesn't trust people to like him for him and not his wealth.  Though I can understand that I would no longer be interested in him.  You are either honest from the start or don't bother.\n\nThe taking a bus part has no impact at all.  I really wouldn't care which mode of transport he takes to meet me as long as he is punctual or at least calls if he is running late.\n\nI like laid back people so that element would not be a problem either.  The alternative being someone who is uptight I will always go for a laid back guy.\n\nHope that answers your question, for me at least.  Can't answer for all the ladies out there but then that would make life far to easy for all the men! ;-)
799015
That would be very unfair if women put ALL men in the same category. Each person is an individual... I have had my years of dating in my past and women and men do not think alike. Woman cry (I still do) and show their feelings more so than a man which does not mean men do not have feelings, most of the time, they don't show it.... My husband now tells me he would rather hold it in than confront me. I am outgoing and verbal, I will say something if it bothers me, definitely considering my husbands feelings, and my husband Mr. Opposite, keeps it to himself....which again, does NOT mean he does not have feelings just that he does not show them........
788627
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
134954
Do guys buy you an outfit for your date with them?  I wouldn't.
711548
Heck no.  In this day and age women DO ask out men they are interested in. Also, if you don't let a man know that you are interested he may be too shy to ask you out.  Let him know how you feel - ask him out. But you have to understand that in asking a man out you may face disappointment if he says no.  If that happens just accept it and move on.
194925
Depends on whether I like the guy or not.  YES- Maybe I like the guy and didn't want to seem too eager...  NO- Maybe I don't like the guy but didn't want to hurt his feelings.  It's the lady's choice.  Why don't you call her back again and ask her?  If she says she's not into you, move on and find another to date.  Good luck!
931489
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824004
You should'nt be upset. its best that you find out before hand that he wants to date others rather than to catch him later.
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
52592
Yes, I would.\n\nIf he was serious about it, it's not my job as his partner to rule his life. It wouldn't make me notably uncomfortable. The only thing that would make me hesitate is if he didn't ever want me to come see him perform. I think it would be fun to watch him now and then and, as long as this new activity isn't shutting me out entirely, I'd be happy to let him take his gear off and get down.\n\nI'd want to know all the details, of course. A club for men? Women? Couples? Bachelorette parties?\n\nHe would also be expected to take me out to dinner once in a while, but that would be true even if he wasn't stripping.
435155
I fail to see why he should be upset.  It seems perfectly reasonable to "check him out".  \n\nThe only thing I can think of is that he was scared of being caught in a lie.  I'd say you're better off without him.
953758
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
873424
Not rude.  I'd be flattered if a guy asked.
747315
Are you asking for presents from a guy so that you will go out with him? That makes you a common whore. Don't do that. If you want to go on the date go and if not then don't go. But do not expect to paid to go. Disgusting.♠
785516
I would be a little annoyed, but I'd move on. I would never date a guy that much older than me. (I'm a senior, luckily.)
80777
Well we shouldn't really judge, but I think if he was that interested he would have called you on fri, sat or sunday.\n\nJust wait to he calls you, why let him have all the attention.
191589
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!