i still love him and he loves me...?
964623
If he did love you he wouldn't have been "messing with some other girls"! You're right in that you can't or shouldn't allow your friends tell you what to do. However, if they are true and good friends, you should at least heed what they say. They have your best interest at heart and may be able to look objectively at the situation whereas you may be blinded by your feelings of love. Bottom line is.....if he was messing around, that's the type of person he is and it would likely happen again (just maybe he's get smarter about it and you wouldn't catch him)! Thank your lucky stars you found out now. It may hurt but it's probably best in the long run. You're prince charming is probably still out there somewhere. Keep looking. Good Luck.
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
953178
I'm in 1 too...ask him if he still feels the same way...if he does he will create a time 4 u 2 to b together!!  Tell him how YOU feel
995689
If in doubt, don't.  That's a good rule for every aspect of life. Sounds like you may be having some doubt, just by the way you asked if there's a "test."  The true test is the test of time.  If he and you are able to make it this far, then love will wait. Love doesn't just ...go away.   Let things take their course.  If you truely love him, and he loves you, then things will fall into place on their own.  Best of luck to you!
584443
It sounds like you loved him alot more than he loved you. its a shame that it took 3.5 years for all this to surface because each day you probably loved him more and more. After the 1st time he cheated his love decreased every day. Thats why he continued cheating on you. Yes you did the right thing. The right thing is always hard to do because it is right thing. Now we dont know his side of the story but cheating is cheating.
585515
IF U KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT U TRULY LOVE HIM,THEN U MUST FIND HIM....AND EXPLAIN!IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT..U HAVE NOT LOST NOTHING....BUT IF U FEEL THIS WAY AND NEVER DO NOTHING ABOUT,U WILL WONDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE,IF THERE WAS REALLY SOMETHING THERE,AND THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE!ATLEAST THIS WAY,U DONE ALL U COULD! GOOD LUCK!
491334
just keep loving him...there is no way...its not a game that u have to proove u love...if he understands u is more than enough..if he does understand ur love for him then he's the one for u...otherwise he's a jackass to be blind in ur love...all the best!ill hope for the best fur u.take care.
670337
If you are sure you guys can make it work then go for it. I know that we think things will and all we can do is hope. If you really love him and he reallys loves you then go for it hun. You have to do what is in your heart. Go with what YOU feel. Good luck
474285
You should respect his wishes and get on with your life. That sounds tough, but if he does love you, he'll come back once he realises you've moved on. If he doesn't, it would never have worked anyway...
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
953900
honey its ok to love him...stop trying to deny yourself x
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
130480
of course he loves u!!! he came down for the weekend didnt he? he's never cheated on u has he? u 2 have been together for TWO YEARS havent u? i think that that's ample proof that he loves u!
1066994
He still loves you. What he is saying he just wished both of you could be with him.
822412
I think you always loved him,,,but probably you could not understand and you could not even express.\n\nLaughter and tears go hand in hand.\nU have already wasted precious years...if you think you love each other get back.\n\nHappy Living.
58319
There is truthfully a one in a million chance that he actually loves you. Just cause of your age. Don't let your lonliness blind you. Just be careful! I hope it does work out though. True love isn't something to can find everyday!
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.