Is it my fault he hit me??
968790
?There is no excuse of hitting a woman.  Regardless if that is my best guy I would hit him back.
730161
I think you are both in the wrong here. He was a jerk, and you overreacted. While you do have every right to be upset here, I don't think this is as big of an issue as you are making it out to be. \n\nSit down and have yet another talk with him. Do not let your temper get the better of you. Calmly explain that you feel that what he did was an intimate act, reserved for couples. Not something to be done for a casual friend, especially since you sat there watching the whole thing. Remind him that he even admitted he wouldn't want a guy doing the same for you. After you've said how you feel, then apologize for loosing your temper like that. You wanted to express your feelings, and things got out of control.\nIf he can't see your point of view, and apologize in return, then maybe it's time he spent a few nights on the couch while you take the bed.
8891
Depends on who they were and why they slapped you. If it was some guy you never met before, ask him why the hell he hit you. if it was your best bud jokin around, hit him back just not to hard. If it was your girl friend, you better find out you did wrong.
1047167
You said this just started and for no apparent reason. Maybe it is just that you have no clue to the reasoning behind it. I am not saying he is justified in treating you like crap or doing things in front of the children that he shouldn't but there has to be a reason for it. Have you tried asking him what is going on. Maybe something has happened and for what ever reason he can't or doesn't know how to share this with you so in turn his actions is a result of what ever is really bothering him. You have made it clear you won't put up with this so stress this to him again that if he can't share with you what is going on you can't try to help him with it but that he isn't going to take it out on you either. He needs to make the choice as to what to do and then you can choose what to do based on how he feels. I really feel for you hun as something happened to my ex husband and he thought he would become physical with me until I told him he would die before he hit me again and of course the final results was I left. I couldn't fix something that I had no clue as to what was going on and I was not going to be hit on or abused in any other way either. I hope he comes around before you leave him but do what is best for you and the children hun!!.
873260
he is basicly blaming u for all his mistakes, not once does he say "i am sorry for what i did" with out blaming u for his actions. this dude is messed up. he is still holding alot of resentment toward u.\nis he bi-polar because he is all over the place.
1159780
Only if he tries to hit you first.  Never take the first swing.  It is only self defense if he swings first.  Otherwise, you are the aggressor.
1143822
Do not apologize.  If he text messaged you after the accident, chances are the damage wasn't that bad.  Sounds like he's trying to manipulate you and make you feel guilty for something he's doing.  He has already gotten you to text him after you resolved not to.  This guy is just messin' with you and it will get worse.  You take care and watch out.
733391
Yes.  There is never a good reason to beat him up.  Always allow for explanation.  If you can't accept his explanation, get rid of him.
752974
He want's you to be what you were before you argued, but he's not sure how to do that. I don't know who was wrong becasue you didn't write anything here, but I suspect he may think that you owe him a sincere apology.\n\nJust a theory. If you were wrong somehow, it's a bigger person to be able to say you are sorry.
1147204
well lets see did u do anything that would make him mad, is there a possiblilty he might have felt u hurt his trust?? Think about it!!
1097304
It sounds like maybe he bruised it...it could be from too much sex...or maybe some girl got ticked at him and kicked him in the crotch!! Either way...if it doesnt get better...he needs to see a doctor.
712054
There is no such thing as being found "innocent".  A verdict of "not guilty" does not mean innocent.\n\nYou should have filed assault charges the day he attacked you.  That would have given you leverage as you both would have been arrested and charged ... not just you.\n\nYou got into a stupid confrontation that resulted in a fight, and now you are paying dearly for it.  The second he hit you, your wife should have called 911 and said the neighbor attacked you.  He's 69.  You could have subdued him instead of beating him up, and his butt would have been arrested, not yours. \n\nRather than learn your lesson you want to spend more money to sue.  Good luck with that.
920171
Sounds as if you may have cracked a rib.  Yes it would probably be good to see a doctor.  Also consider the cops and a restraining order.  If a fight with your b/f means getting physically beaten, I'd say find a new b/f and tell this one to get lost.
141158
Be honest n explain your situation. Still he didn't understand means it is not your fault.Give him time to think.
624740
It could mean that, or it could mean that he was standing up to you b/c no woman should be hit by any man.  Those who hit women are just trying to boost their ego.  And your ex knows it.  He was setting him straight.
279976
well did u do something to make him mad? u should DEFINTALY talk to him! good luck! =)
562556
Drop him now! Report him to the authorities. There is *NO* justification for violence, if you don't kick him away now you will regret this for the rest of your life.\n\nI can't overstate this: THROW HIM AWAY LIKE GARBAGE. NOW!