i want to stop premature ejaculation, how do i train myself? any drugs to stop it and what are these drugs?
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Slow down or stop periodically, and use your mind.
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Don't mast urbate so much. Go a few days without ejaculating, then do it and more semen will come out.
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One thing my guy tried was right when he felt he was going to ejaculate, he would tell me to move to a different activity or position. That way, it gave him a few seconds to relax, and then he would have to take more time to get it to be erect again. Also, you don't necessarily need a girl to help practice; that's one advantage of masturbation. There are also alot of books on this that most regular book stores carry (sex, masturbation, erections/orgasms, etc). Or look online for sites about it as well. Plus, if that's the only reason women are with you is for sex, then forget them. You sound mature, and you don't need people like that who are only going to use you. Well, I hope that helped.
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A great movie to watch that will be very helpful!\nhttp://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8271947477140788534&q=men%27s+health&hl=en\n\n\n\nOriginal Article:http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/premature-ejaculation/DS00578 \n \nPremature ejaculation\nIntroduction\nMany men occasionally ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like during sexual intercourse. As long as it happens infrequently, it's probably not cause for concern. However, if you regularly ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish — usually, before intercourse begins or shortly afterward — you may have a condition known as premature ejaculation.\nPremature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction. In the United States, premature ejaculation affects about one in five men ages 18 to 59. Although the problem is often assumed to be psychological, biology also may play a role.\nIn some cases, premature ejaculation is a secondary problem related to erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate.\nNumerous treatments, often used in combination, are available to improve premature ejaculation.\nSigns and symptoms\nThere's no medical standard for how long it should take a man to ejaculate. The primary sign of premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs before both partners wish in the majority of sexual encounters, causing distress for one or both partners. The problem can occur in all sexual situations, including masturbation, or may only occur during sexual encounters with another person.\nDoctors often classify premature ejaculation as either primary or secondary:\n·Primary premature ejaculation. You have primary premature ejaculation if you've experienced the problem for as long as you've been sexually active.\n·Secondary premature ejaculation. You have secondary premature ejaculation if you developed the condition after having had previous, satisfying sexual relationships without ejaculatory problems.\nCauses\nPremature ejaculation is considered a psychological problem in some cases. Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences, especially those in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered, may establish a lifelong pattern. If you grew up in a family that considered sex dirty or sinful, you may also have developed guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters.\nHowever, biological factors also may cause premature ejaculation. Some studies comparing men who experience premature ejaculation with those who don't have found differences between the two groups in certain hormone levels and in the sensitivity of their genitalia.\nRisk factors\nVarious factors can increase your risk of premature ejaculation, including:\n·Impotence. You may be at increased risk of premature ejaculation if you occasionally or consistently experience impotence. Fear of losing your erection may cause you to rush through sexual encounters.\n·Health problems. If you have a medical concern that causes you to feel anxious during sex, such as a heart problem, you may have an increased likelihood of hurrying to ejaculate.\n·Stress. Emotional or mental strain in any area of your life can play a role in premature ejaculation, often limiting your ability to relax and focus during sexual encounters.\n·Certain medications. Rarely, drugs that influence the action of chemical messengers in the brain (psychotropics) may cause premature ejaculation.\nWhen to seek medical advice\nTalk with your doctor if you ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish during most sexual encounters. The problem is common, and although you may feel you should be able to fix it on your own, you may need medical treatment to achieve and sustain a satisfying sex life.\nScreening and diagnosis\nDoctors diagnose premature ejaculation based on a detailed interview about your sexual history.
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It takes some practice but it's not that difficult. You have to learn to go to the point where you feel the ejaculation is close and then take a short break...let the sensation subside...and then continue. It takes your partner's cooperation because she has to stop thrusting (moving) when you tell her to. Masturbation is a great way to practice when you are alone, probably the best way. You can also jack off a couple of hours before you have intercourse. That should definitely make the second ejaculation take longer!
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The best way to do this is to allow yourself to nearly go to the point of ejaculation, then stop what you are doing. To keep your lady satisfied you can go back to a bit of for play, kiss her, go down on her, caress her body with you lips and tongue, then start again.  repeat for as many times as you can - would suggest a minimum of three.  When you finally allow yourself to go all the way, the ejaculation is more and harder than on other occasions.  Also as you have been so attentive to your lady, her appreciation of you might go up as well! \n\nGood luck
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Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual dysfunction in men and exact cause of PE is unknown. Premature ejaculation can be cured by practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods can also help you in delaying ejaculation. You may practice techniques like Masters and Johnson Method, Simulation Technique or Squeeze Technique to exercise greater control over your performance. In addition, keeping a check over the alcohol intake and illegal drug usage is also helpful.
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I'm not trying to joke but you could practice by masterbating (sp?).  This way you "may" be able to control yourself for a longer period of time.
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I heard this from a doctor on a sex show a long time ago. You basically masturbate until right before you are going to ejaculate, and you immediately stop. Keep doing that. It will increase your endurance and you will be able to last longer in bed. Yes, it definitely works.
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I've heard old rumors from people in a similar situation that zinc and lecithin increase ejaculatory volume. zinc you have to be careful with when taking, not too much, but supplementing in general can help. lecithin is not as much of a big deal to take. \n\ngood luck!
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Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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Try the drug Citalopram. It is a anti depressant used for mood disorders. It is also used for premature ejaculation unannounced to me. I was taking it because I am a bit off a hot head but, anyway. I had to get off of it because I do not have premature ejaculation problems and it was causing me not to ejaculate. I could have sex for an hour or two and still nothing it got to the point where I would have sex until I was exhausted or until my wife told me to get the hell of off her..lol with no success.. I just couldn't get off. It sounds like this medicine would be perfect for you your hyper sensitive so it would probably give you about 20-30 mins tops before you reached ejaculation. Ask your doc and give it a shot. I could have used this stuff a couple of times when I was single..lol Good Luck hope this helped
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How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation\n\n\nWorried that you don't last long enough during sex? Feel like a “minute man”? Well, you’re not alone – not by a long shot. Premature ejaculation is the number one question we get here – more than penis size, more than pregnancy, more than STDs, more than anything. \n\nAn Army of Minute Men?\nOf course, you would never guess that premature ejaculation (PE) is so common, because nobody ever talks about it. Even if it’s really bugging them, most guys won’t even bring it up with their doctor. The truth is, almost every guy experiences this kind of tool trouble at least once or twice during his sexual career. And many, many more have an ongoing struggle with it. In fact, some statistics say 20 to 30% of all men experience PE. That’s around one in four. Way more guys have trouble with being too quick on the trigger than have a problem getting it up. That’s why we’re going to give you some straight answers on PE and what you can do about it. \n\nHow Long Should I Be Lasting? \nThe term “minute man” pretty much sums it up: if you shoot your wad in a minute or less after penetration, you probably have what would be called premature ejaculation. You might even come before you get it in. Technically, PE means you’re coming sooner than you want to or expect to during sex, you don’t have any control over it, and it’s stressing you out or making you feel bad. If you come in a couple of minutes, but you don’t mind and your girlfriend is cool with it, then there’s not really a problem. But if every sexual encounter climaxes with you saying to your date, “Oops, sorry,” then that qualifies as having a problem with PE. \n\nLet’s Get Real\nOf course, lots of guys have unrealistic expectations about how long they’re supposed to last while fucking, and even how long women want them to last. The guys in porn videos pound away for what looks like hours at a time, but that’s all staged. Like average penis size, stamina in bed is vastly overestimated. In real life, most men don’t really last all that long – some surveys put the average lasting time before ejaculation at about seven minutes, which means a lot of guys actually last less than that. If you’re young and amped up, three to four minutes is more like it. It’s simply not realistic to think that you should be able to fuck like a stallion for half an hour, then climax at will at the exact moment your expertly skilled thrusting brings your partner to a screaming orgasm. Believe us, it just doesn’t happen that way. And as far as what women want, the truth is, most women (60 to 70%) cannot come through fucking alone; even if you could go all night, they’d only get sore. So a few minutes of intercourse is probably enough as long as you can back it up with some other sexual skills like fingering and oral sex. \n\nWhat Causes Premature Ejaculation? \nIf you do have PE, there’s a small chance it’s being caused by a disease or a medication you’re taking, but this is rarely the case. Most of the time there is no clear reason for premature ejaculation, and doctors still aren’t sure what causes the majority of PE cases. Current theories focus on biochemical factors, such as how sensitive your nervous system is, or the role of the neurotransmitter serotonin. We can tell you for a fact what doesn’t cause PE. It is not caused by excessive masturbation, poor sexual technique, lack of willpower or control, or any personal inadequacy on your part. In other words, if you have PE, don’t blame yourself, and don’t worry too much about what’s causing it. Instead, focus on what you can do about it. \n\nProven Techniques for Lasting Longer\nProbably the most effective way of dealing with PE long term, and the treatment most commonly recommended by sexual experts, is using a method like the stop-start or pinch technique to slow down your reaction time once you get turned on. These methods have been devel
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there is about a lot of training and time...\n\nyou must start on fractionate time you pee...\nand splitthe pee more then 150 if you can...\nthen everytime you masturbate or have sex... try to don't get out... close your pennis musscle and hold it... but there before you actualy sense you can have an orgasm... after 2-3 tims... let it go.. and hold you mucle time you have an orgasm... but don't let the fluid go... not so still to don't catch the pleasure...
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If your talking about not ejaculating too soon or sooner then you'd like here's what I've found...  Start with practicing the "edging" technique when your pleasuring yourself.  Work yourself up until you reach the point of cuming then back off.  Do this over and over each time until you absolutely feel like you have to go or bust.  Enough practice at this... and you should be the master between the sheets with your significant other.\n\nRod.
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You might want to exercises the muscle that you use to stop peeing. Just Flew it over and over again you can do it anytime and no one will ever know (That works for distance) But if you want to last try masterbating but stopping before you shoot and wait till the sensation goes away and do it again for as long as you can... I have tried this stuff called Ogoplex if stuff makes you Kum more when you shoot but all the stuff that i have just mentioned have worked for me... Now if only I could make it grow that extra inch?
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If there is a medicine available for premature ejaculation I have never heard of it.  Viagra is all I can think of.