Can your penis become too acustomed to your hand to such a degree its hard to ejaculate during sex?
967034
be happy. some guys come too fast.
1036416
It's not easy but is possible, first, Practice man, practice. This is how I do it. Try masturbating several times (start with 3 sessions per say) afer you come don't stop touching yourself (be extremely gentle, remember it becomes insanely sensitive) be gentle and do it slow, It will take a few minutes to grow back but the trick is by practicing you'll reduce that flacid time even more. Also everytime you pee try cutting the stream all the way from satrt to finish, (Pee and cut, pee and cut) this will reinforce your pelvic muscles that move the prostate and the uretra in your penis, it'll make you be able to control whever you want to come (Most of the time). Another trick to keep it big after ejaculation is to stay stand or on your knees vertically so it'll keep the blood a little longer in your penis during the "flacid recovery time". remember Use it or lose it if you want to konw how it works, then, you have tolearn how to use it. Exercise.\n\nIt will make you amazingly good in bed, trust me, they won't know what to do but to scream and go crazy about you.
278356
it depends  do you have a larger than average penis? if thats the case most overly large ones do not get completely hard, for this you can try a c*ck ring found at any adult store, if its not the case try to not stimulate to much and then see if you get harder, with absense of stimulus, also check with your doctor
866027
Ejaculation of this type is an obvious anomaly.\n\nPossibly hormones out of wack on account of stress or past pattern of excess sexual stimulation.\n\nYour system likely debilitated. Get busy see your GP, may need an endocrinologist evaluate your situation.
904982
Depends on how you do it.  A quickie 30 second hand job to just ejaculate does nothing for you; if you are actually sexually pleasing yourself, and spend 20-30 minutes on the overall act, you not only exercise your arm, but also other muscles depending on how into yourself you are.  If you are able to bring about very intense orgasms during masterbation, this tightens up many muscles, especially the abs, pecs and legs.    \nCertainly there is no negative affect on your fitness, other than if you just hand jerk with one arm, it might get a little more muscular than the other.   Ejaculating regularly, whether solo or with a partner, does maintain the health of your sexual apparatus.
982543
Did you practise holding back when you masturbated growing up. Basically every time I masturbated growing up I'm practising holding back and recognizing the feeling of getting close then backing off. Its just slowing down or slightly changing your rhythm. Its a practise thing. Also pulling out (if slowing down doesn't help) and tapping your glans (tip) against your wife's vagina will stop you from climaxing if you are getting close. (the part facing away from your belly button) Other ways to help prevent climax. Wear a condom. Masturbate relatively often or have sex more often. I have a much harder time holding back if I haven't ejaculated in a while. Experiment with your body in this regard. They also have creams that supposedly delay climax. I've never tried them so I don't know how effective they are. The solution is in here. Good luck.
360094
Do you have a problem with premature ejaculation? If so, there are lotions that take away some of the sensation in your penis. You need to apply it a while before so it has absorbed or you will numb her also. You should be able to find it in the condom/personal lubricant section of a good pharmacy.
574275
Your brain is sending a signal of arousal to your penis.  Blood is then rushed to that area, making it hard.  It just means that you are healthy.  In the long run, you may be less susceptible to prostate cancer, impotence (erectile dysfunction).
80087
Ejaculate is made of more than just sperm, and men who don't produce sperm can still produce ejaculate, so that isn't the problem.\n\nThe fluid in the semen is produced by the prostate gland, and ejaculation is accomplished when the fluid is expelled by muscular contractions.  It isn't likely that the fluid isn't being produced either.\n\nBehaviorally, difficulty ejaculating during intercourse might be due to an excess of m@sturbation (I can't believe the profanity filter blocks that out -- how childish).  There isn't anything wrong with that, it's just slightly inconvenient.  I've heard from sex therapists that this is pretty common, and he can be retrained to ejaculate during intercourse (though, I'm not going to offer any advice on how to do that, since I'm not an expert).
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No there is not. Make sure you don't rub it raw though. this could lead to an infection (Ouch!). Also keep in mind that the more often you do masturbate the less sensitive your penis will be and it may take you a long time to reach orgasm when you have sexual intercourse with that special someone. Maybe it would be wise to use a lubricant like KY Jelly or other water soluble personal lubricant. Don't use Vaseline or baby oil or petroleum products. These can burn and/or cause infection in some cases, especially if you have a cut, open sore or a raw spot. Not to mention if the get inside the opening of your penis.
807503
Believe it or not, this happens a lot.  The foreskin, in your case, is not as "elasticized" as it could be.  For most guys, the foreskin stretches well enough that it allows the penis head to come out... but on some this is not the case.  \n\nOne way to overcome this is to "work" the foreskin, now and then [NOT to the point of discomfurt or hurt - but before that], over the penis to "stretch" it and get the elasticity you want.  Using a good handcream that "moisturizes" will help in your effort.  I'm not saying masturbate, but actually take the time now and then to stretch the foreskin carefully.  You can also stretch it with your fingers [kind of like a balloon end when you want to make it "squeal"...], pulling the skin in opposite directions.\n\nIn any case - do take it easy, and stop if it becomes irritated or uncomfortable.  This will take some time, but ultimately, you should see some success.\n\nIF you do not, you can see your family doctor about it...just broach the subject by saying you are having a "male issue" that you need some doctor advice over...he will understand, trust me.  He is there to help you, not embarrass you.\n\nGood luck man...
509829
It will get increasingly sensitive the more times that you ejaculate.  That is why men need a rest so take a rest and you should be back to normal within two days and better within a day.
366594
Greetings,\n\nMen can.  The reason most men can't is simply because they are either too eager to please themselves, or don't have enough practice.\n\nAfter a man ejaculates he will begin to lose erection, however with stimulus and practice, he can regain his erection and go again.\n\nThe good news is practicing is fun.\n\n-matt
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Just to correct a couple of of bits of misinformation...\n\nED can be physical, psychological or a mix of the two.\nAn erection is best described as a "psychohydraulic experience.."\nIn the case that you describe, if everything functions normally during masturbation, then the issue might be psychological, possibly performance anxiety or some kind of issue with the lady of the moment..\nPerhaps the timing's wrong, or you're trying to rush things...\n\nIt's worth bearing in mind that, during masturbation, it's all about you - your attention is focused solely on your own sensations and enjoyment.  Sex with a partner is a lot more complicated, and it's not just mutual masturbation.\n\nThe best thing to do is to talk frankly with your partner.. presumably she is aware there is a problem... and it's certainly in her interest to get it sorted out, as well as yours.\n\nIt might be that you're not getting the right amount/kind of attention from her that you give yourself...  not enough foreplay...  too fast, too slow, too hard, too soft...  there's a million variables.  \nTry letting her watch you masturbate, so she can see what works, then let her take over... \n\nMost importantly, relax, take your time, and don't let stress get to you... worrying about it is the worst thing you can do.  Relax and enjoy.\n\nHope that helps, and good luck
1129759
Premature ejaculation. That is, if I'm answering your poorly typed question correctly.
103729
when i was younger i did it as much as 8 times in one day.  I am married now and there is no problem.  Your body takes about 16 hrs to produce more sperm so by the 8th time i would orgasam and nothing would come out or just a little clear semen .  S0 you are fine as much as you think you need it just don't do it to hard or it will be hard to ejaculate when you have reall sex.  relax on the grip to make it feel like penatration
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It will take some practice because you need to build up some muscle control down there so give this a try.  When you are pleasuring your self and you feel like you are about to climax stop stroking and squeeze your penis at the base of the shaft and try not to ejaculate.  It will be tough at first but the more you work on this you will be able to work the muscles that will help you control this problem.  It's similar to kegal exercises that women do.