i have a bf and he gets on my nerves...what should i do?
958487
ummm..leave him.   you needed an asnwer to that?!?!?!?!
555967
These types of questions make me angry, lol.  Just teasing.  What makes me angry, is when my bf gets way to possessive, and asks me to tell him in detail what I was doing.  Grr that makes me so mad because we are both 2 close 2 each other for that type of insecurity
668723
Well if you want the smart answer\n\nTrust your BF enough to handle the situation. \nif he has no interest then he should have no problem telling her to stop bugging him. \n\nNext be nice to her. I know this sounds hard but she may only be doing this to press your butons. as if it's some kind of challenge. when you act polite and sweet she may loose interest in trying to steal your man because she can no longer get on your nerves. \nOnly some one who is insecure with them selves would be upset. have a little faith, and let your BF know you trust him to handle the situation. then watch him sink or swim. =)
329136
No he is not using you maybe he would like to work things out but that's up to you. If this gets on your nerves ask him to stop.
104945
listen, tell this to ur bf and say tht u r hurt by his opinion and plz donot behaved rudely,just be kool and try to more attentive on him and when he will tell bad about ur bro just say if do this kind of things in future u will not able to continu this relationship,be strong and if he really love u then he will stop to say bad thing about ur bro,and if he donot care about ur feelings and understand tht he doesnot love u.i know this opinion is really harsh for u but it is true.
335603
I had the same problem with my present boyfriend.  Instead of trying to constantly get through to him (which can annoy the person after a while), just let him know that you are there for him and that he has no reason to keep his guard up.  This should only be told to him once, and whatever happens after that is up to him.  Though it may take a while for him to accept it and open up, it may work.
995577
He probably doesn't hate you.  He also may be a little jealous, that is his brother and chances are before you came along they probably spent more time hanging out and more time confiding in one another.  I doubt he hates you, however lay off of him a little bit.  Not everyone likes to deal with an annoying little girl.  Learn to calm yourself around his brother and learn that you have to respect his brother, chances are he has made it clear why you annoy him, and as far as that, the easiest way to avoid miscommunication or problems with your bf and his family, is to lay off and give his brother his respect and space.  Good Luck!
941301
Talk to him and try to get him to stop it.  Tell him that it bothers you, not that you don't trust him, just that it bothers you.
758752
hmm.. \nprobably just try to tok to him more.. get more comfortable around him.\nif he senses that you feel uncomfortable around him he might think you don't like him or don't want him around and avoid you or sumthing..\njust try your best to get more comfortable around him
551931
spend some time with the boyfriend..even if you can't stand him. by you spending time with him and getting in his good graces, he'll feel less intimidated about you spending time with his girlfriend. be open with thim that you're not looking to cause trouble..he may respect you for that.
665452
He hates you? He likes little kids? Find a new guy!! You don't want to be in a realtionship with someone who hates you.  You can do better than that.
478441
TELL HIM TO CHILL OUT. IF YOU WANTED A BODYGAURD IT WOULDN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND.
646678
Just listen to your heart. If he makes you happy constantly, that's a good thing, but does he make you mad for good reasons, or is it just terribly hard to get along with him? Talk to him about it. Try to figure out what's going on. Good luck!
859568
well if he is acting rude around you...then you need to get over this guy. it isnt worth it if he treats you this way. also start doing little things by urself then move on to bigger things and you could get out of ur wimpy stage!
547504
Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
583254
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF