If he flirts so bad, why doesn't he ask me out?
952261
hey there...he probably is nervous or unsure as to whether you like him or not...before you go leaping into asking him out or anything make sure that you can cope with someone who may be very shy...i know i couldn't it would drive me nuts,lol...but it might be just your cup of tea...think about it though because shyness in a guy can initially seem cute but can often blend into you having to do all the work and that can become tedious...just advice and it depends on you...it may well suit you down to the ground...good luck whatever you decide ;0)
638659
OK, sweetie. you gave him your number FIRST? that takes a lot of balls (pardon the language). guys are that way all the time. it took my current boyfriend ages to decide himself and get the guts to ask me out... but i knew from the start he was into me, so i waited patiently.So do you really see him interested? guys flirt all the time, some of them are even close to seducing their moms. so maybe that's not a real sign. maybe you should ask yourself if he's worth the try. like you said, he's a senior... so if you really like the guy, what are you waiting for??? give it a try, YOU ask him out. either way, if he says no, who cares? he's leaving anyway...
373457
You pretty much rejected him in his eyes.\n\nNow you are wondering why he is shy and does not ask you out again? I mean cmon. It is your turn to make the move, otherwise he will be gone.\n\nGuys are not just commodities that you can use whenever you have nothing else to do. We do notice.
299386
What's the problem? I'm also shy around every girl, but it doesn't keep me from flirting. I just need someone "receptive"... Otherwise, things can get really complicated. Try being more "open" when a guy comes to talk to you, it will help. If he wants to talk to you, it's because he likes you, so it's up to you! Let it happen...
938695
Well just be more of a flirt than what you are being to him and to see if he wants to ask you out he starts to fiddle with his fingers or some object then from there it just takes patience and wait until he thinks the time is right. Also he will stare into your eyes sometimes when he is talking to you.
1078233
I think this guy want to flirt on you, but in a wrong way. Not like his action like grabbing your head, putting his smelly feet on you...A good flirt is like eye contact, smile, soft touch and etc. It should be happy and comfortable.\n\nI think he likes you, but he is not a suitable guy for you. So, you can just ignore him if he still show the bad move on you.\n\nJoyce
362177
well i personaly would not date a big flirt because if u end up getting serious with him he is going to continue to be a flirt, even if its harmless to him, this might lead him to infedelity. i've dated a few guys that were flirts and believ me they all ended up messing around.
163220
i have the same problem.. try talking with him .. flirt a bit and see how he reacts.. that's what i've done.. but still i?m not sure 100%
271128
He's probably a little nervous, and that's quite understandable. Don't push it yet. Make him feel more comfortable, and after a little while, if he doesn't ask you out and you think he still wants to, ask him.
482934
Maybe you are just wishful thinking at this point. If it's acting class, odds are that he is outgoing and is just kidding around and being friendly.\n\nBut you never know, he may ask you out... he may not. But if you're interested in him, why don't you make the first move?
225869
you are never going to know until you find out yourself dont ask someone else to do it!!! if you like him flirt back and you will get somewhere!!! he will proberly flirt back so yea thats it reli
337246
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
835553
Maybe he's just shy.  Just approach him next time and you'll see if he really likes you by how he reacts.
601027
I think he's interested in asking you out, it just hasn't worked out with his schedule yet to be able to do it. Don't give up hope yet. I think he will ask you just as soon as his schedule permits!
710156
If he is too insecure to ask you out after acting like that, and then sending his friends to tell you so you can ask him out, you might look around a bit before committing to a relationship.  Otherwise, just ask him outright if he is wanting to date you.  But the way he has acted so far ought to set off some alarm bells.  Good luck!
888096
Sounds like he does like you. He has a big crush if he is trying to make up lies about your wieght so he can make the guy dislike you! Maybe you should talk to him like'' how are you?'' See what he does.Maybe he will ask you out and the rest is up to you.
905869
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!