My Best/Boyfriend Problem!?
955431
if u lyk him.. den GRAB him dnt let him got STEAL by OTHERS..... GO GURLS!! and of coures tell him u lyk HIM!!
364892
Figure out what you want for real. Do you have the habit of moving from one guy to the next? If so, stop and take a few breaths before you get involved next time.\n\nAs for the guys, stay away from his best friend. You never should date a boyfriend's best friend unless the old relationship is long dead. And even then, it can be a sensitive topic.
1172135
Do you have a crush on this best guy friend that's kind of like your brother, even in the slightest? If not then I suggest you relax about it a little. You might want to let them know if they start going out that you love them both, and wish them the best but the second they start having issues you don't want to get involved. Maybe you should also go in to a little more depth with this with your best friend too so she understands. I understand your discomfort with this because when people break up they both seem like jerks and you probably won't want to hear it.
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
109273
Just brake up with him because your friend probably said she didn't care if you to dated in the first place but she really did. Trust me my EX best friend dated my brother and now we now longer talk at all because she began choosing him over me and everybody else and remember bf come and go and true friends are forever. Do yourself and your friend a faver and stop it now before it ends up like we did and stopped being friends all together.
1094956
Do you really need to ask this? If you respect yourself, you will realize that your boyfriend is not worthy of being in a relationship with you, and your best friend is not a real friend. Surround yourself with people that are worthy of your friendship and love.
701636
Tell him the truth.  He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever.  But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road.  BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
792566
YOU ARE RIGHT TO BE MAD. FIND A BOYFRIEND AND A BEST FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TRUST!
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
800954
Forget about it and move on.  Not everything that comes out of someones mouth is meant to come out.  You know, sometimes your mouth moves faster than your brain can censor.  He made a verbal slip-up.  If anyone brings it up again, say:  "OH, I'd forgotten all about that!  I'm sure he meant nothing by it." Then change the subject.\n\nYou don't want to be with him.\nHe doesn't really want to be with you. \nAnd your best friend wants to be with him.\n\nForgive, forget, and move on.  :-)
610878
bf is boyfriend.\n\nI assume you meant "best friend".
558767
Talk with your best friend. Perhaps, neither of you should date him. Never let a guy come between your friendship. Maybe one will give way, perhaps you both give him first dates and let him choose, but make sure the other one of you won't be jealous.
108747
Is your best friend male or female.\n\nIf it's a male and not gay, your boyfriend does not understand your realtionship with your male friend, you need to break it down for him. Make him feel less ensure about you relationship with him.\n\nIf your best friend is a female, he may sincerely not like her attitude of ways. Try to convince him that she does not mean to offend him. That is the way she is with every one unless she is seeing something that you don't. \nPlease tell him not to make you chose between a friend you have known for years and him who you like a lot.\n\nTell him you are only trying to make the two people that you really care about to be able to tolerate each other. \n\nDon't make it a habit of inviting your friend with you all the time. You will give your boyfriend the wrong impression.
613912
Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
65049
i agree with mortgage. its hard if you continue the relationship with that guy. if you really care for your bestfriend, just set him free. but if you care more for the guy, then "YOU GO GIRL"...lol...just kidding...seriously, go find another man.
46638
Aah - that's a sticky situation! I would hope that you have only sent "signals" to one of those guys. And you also need to decide if guy #1 is worth the drama. Because there may be some for a while. But after a couple of weeks I think guy #2 will get over it. He just has to find something else to think about other than you:) Bottom line - if you have strong feelings - go for it and let the best friend know without saying a word that you are unavailable to him. Good luck!\n-GirlShrink