Should I feel ashamed for being a virgin?
957651
Uh no I think you are a person in need of some confidence and My ex hubsand was a virgin at age 35 until he met me ! what I liked about him is that he was sweet and didn't try to hard and had some confidence no matter what women like men that are confident and not sucidal or depress get some mental help too while your at it ! HUGS
549491
yes i am still a virgin. and i'm intending to stay this way until marriage ^_^
393929
If you're a virgin, you will experience some pain.  Hopefully, you will stay a virgin till your wedding night and let this intiment event take place during the special time it was meant for.  Never feel pressured to lose your virginity.  Be proud of it and be different.  Once you lose it, it's gone forever.
144766
yes. because even though you get the feel of what it will be like you still have never slept with a guy and that is the definition of loosing your virginity and besides it may not hurt as bad if you have already played around and playing with your self is safer than sex because you cant get pregnate and you cant get a disease.
1008848
To all you virgins out there?   \n\nTHANKS  for NOTHING!
1152756
never do until you really ready .... virginity is a big value in your live ... look to your future first ...there is few people out there i consider them winners . be one until you have the  one that care about you than care for sex first . god bless you .
464925
still a virgin at age 27
492972
I think maybe you are being very general in saying that it seems that way......I know alot of young women who take great pride in being virgins (my 19 year old daughter being one), and I wish I would have stayed a virgin for a bit longer (my first sexual experience was at a very young age). I'm very proud to know that young women are staying virgins until they are old enough to decide what is truly best for them. Take care dear, and does it matter what others think??????
439776
if you didnt have sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin. No doctor needed thats the answer :) xx
235129
well i have not have it till now\n\ni am still a virgin
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
182325
I'm still a virgin and proud of it
684312
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 24, I was 25.\nIt's all about meeting the right person at the right time- don't lose it just for the sake of it.
303886
Only shallow people give this more than a second thought.  Who cares how many people you have/have not slept with.  Lets face it, you can never win anyway.  If you sleep with people you get called a whore/man whore and get a reputation of being untrustworthy, dirty and fickle.  If you do wait and are a virgin, you get called frigid, there is huge pressure on when will be your first time.  If you leave it long enough it can become a social stigma.  Just look at the film 40 year old virgin.  \n\nBasically your damned if you do and damned if you don't.  so just forget about it.
532210
I was 19, and it wasn't the best thing ever. In fact thinking about it, it was awful. Given the chance again, I would wait to find someone who 100% respects you and that you would feel honoured to give your virginity to.\n\nGood luck :)
789304
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.