(Guys and Girls Please Answer) How long can you hold out on sex with new guy?
967512
You should hold out until you feel it is right to have sex with him.  If you have sex with him right away becasue you really like him and think he will be with you because you gave into him, there would be a good chance he will dump you because he thinks you sleep around.  If you hold out to long and he leaves you, then he was using you and he isn't worth being with.  You will know in your heart when it's the right time.
574323
There's a lot more issues than whether you're "ready" and how long you can wait.  Contrary to stereotype, not every male is instantly ready for sex at every opportunity.  If you can't grasp this then you're not emotionally ready for sex, or even a serious relationship.  If you as a couple can't discuss this issue openly then the two of you aren't ready for sex.
483578
join the club honey. i'm with a guy that wants us to be friends one week and then friends with benefits the next wekk....well, it really does suck to only be wanted for sex, but at the same time....he aint going anywhere else for it is he. if you're comfiortable in that type of relationship...then go for it
281507
It depends on the guy on how long it takes. If it hurts you, it's not being done right.\nMy ex could take 3 minutes, and sometimes an hour. it all depends.
116357
he could be a really nice guy and like you for who you are. I didn't have  sex with mt girlfriend or pressure her for 2 months. some guys think sex is a more serious thing and want to wait for the right moment.
685397
Don't ever let any guy pressure you into having sex. You will know when the time is right. And if some guy really cares about you he will respect that.
700683
Most women with class and self respect have a time limit to when they will have sex with you, even though she is sending sexy signals , the signals are to let you know that when she is ready she will have sex with you but until then they will play coy and flirt with you like crazy. for me  i have 4 month rule.  and the reason for the 4 month rule is to make sure that the guy is all he says he is. and i will tell them from the beginning that i have a 4 month rule right away it weeds out the get em and hit em guys. and for me and my experiences not many guys last but the true man really do and for those who have waited the wait is well worth it . and that's when i know that i have a pretty decent guy lol
341535
It all depends bro! If the gal is too hot and you've always fantazied about her it might be seconds, if its just for the sake of doing it you might go 15 min or more or less. Basically there is no typical max or min time lines on intercourse.
163070
A a guy, I can tell you all men at first think they just want to have sex with you. But if you allow enough time to pass before this occurs, you and he will know if there can be more to the relationship than that. I would give it several months at least to be more sure he enjoys seeing and knowning more about you, and not just want sex, before you allow things to get physical. In otherwords, time will tell in ways your heart at first can not.
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
1059229
Let me give you a tip that I use all the time. If he said he was going to call you, then you wait for him to call you. Control your hand when you are thinking about reaching for the phone!! It's called self-control. I just used it 20 minutes ago. If you call him it will seem that you are desperate to talk to him. You will get used to this as you get older. A lot of guys say they will call you when they get home but guys get distracted easiliy. So my guy friend wants to help. He wants to know when you guys had sex? When were u guys sexually active  or has it been in the equastion the whole time? Did u guys have sex before or after he said I Love You?
463464
Well it Depends, are you talking about how long until you have sex with your boyfriend?, like in a relationship? if so about 3 to 4 or 5 months, now if your talking about how long to start and finish, than there is no answer for that in Depends on whom you're have sex with.
963948
Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
272706
Have sex 2 weeks after your period (every day or as much as possible during that week)....preferably in the missionary position with man on top....and try not to use the bathroom immediately afterwards.
1067502
Um, that depends on alot of things... Position, skill of partner, level of arousal, drug/alcohol use, length of time since last had sex, etc.\n\nAs a guideline, anywhere between 5 minutes and an hour. But the most common length of time in my experience is around 15 - 25 minutes.
196700
Honey as long as it takes.\nSometimes you can do it all night.\nThere are no time limits on \nhaveing sex. Enjoy
81508
I always told guys "too soon" (atleast my friends told me that). If I had the slightest sexual attraction and thought there was a chance we could end up in bed... Still, I was met with very little rejection. Usually it came out no later the second or third date when we got to the "sharing life stories" part of the dinner conversation :-). I would be like "... ya, last year my boyfriend was dishonest... I'm on Valtrex because he gave me herpes. Valtrex prevents outbreaks and spread...I always use condoms anyway". \nAfter the first year, it became more difficult to tell guys so soon because I was simply used to living with it and, even having been rejected very few times and talked about it alot, it is still stressful to tell a new potential partner!\nI'm currently in a serious relationship, but if I were dating now, I would probably wait longer until things got serious.\nAlso, during the first year of having it, I was in the southern part of the midwest- where people just talk more and tell their life stories more. Out here in a "big city" on the coast-- the culture isn't so narrative and people are different as far as what they tell and when.\nI would do what's comfortable for you and what feels right in the moment with the other person. \nDefinitely tell them before sleeping with them; If they caught it from having sex with you and were NOT informed, then you could be held legally liable (I lost the specific legal references, but there are cases of people being sued for giving their partners herpes).