Is it important for a girl to be comfortable with herself...?
966315
Stop talking about your body to him. It's a total turn off. If you have an eating disorder, go see your Doctor. People tend to like you, for you. So stop obsessing with yourself, and be happy. Good Luck ~~~
496625
Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
1101454
Need to change your way of thinking about yourself.  I am sure your partner is not thinking that.  Many women do think that of themselves , hopefully your partner will help you feel more comfortable with yourself and how you look .
1069179
Honestly I think I am an okay girl who can be somewhat of a clutz. LOL I also think of myself as a take charge person who knows what she wants and goes out and gets it. Sometimes I don't think I am the most beautiful girl in the world, but I think that there are many girls out there that feel the same. My husband makes me feel the self confidence to go out and do anything. But yea, you asked for honesty. There it is point blank. :)
494397
First you gotta make her feel comfortable with you she needs to know she can be her self with you, you know make her feel like you are on her level cause most of the time when we are shy its cause we don’t feel like we are gone fit in or capable of approaching people.
376173
Make her feel special, like she matters to you. Don't make her feel like an object or a possession. She has a brain, ask her what she wants to do. Sometime girls like ot do feminine things. Be willing once in a while to go see a chic flic or walk in the park. She doesn't have to rule the relationship but she does need to feel like her opinions matter and like you genuinely care about her health, feelings and ideas. Not just her body!
464088
Dont worry about it, I know that's easy to say but really all the other girls will be worrying about something why not give yourself a break. You should be proud of the fact that you can wear a little dress. Feel beautiful, we all come in different shapes and sizes and I bet you will look great :)
915855
The question is, do you think you're hot?  Only your opinion of yourself matters.  How you feel about yourself is actually projected to others in how you carry yourself and your personality.  I'm not talking about being snobby or stuck up but confident.  You'd be suprised in how attractive a confident person can be to the opposite sex.
114817
i think it depends on how settled and content you are in yourself.  the more stable you are, the more confident you are.
637360
I think you should just believe in your self. Believe that you are comfindent and you will be. Your the only one who says you have no self confidence. I belive you do. So just believe in yourself and this girl thing will be no problem. You never know she may like you to. And this shaking stuff is just nervous. Just say something random. Just say anything to her and you'll get over the whole nerve thing. Well Good luck even if you dont take my advice.
423188
first off how old are you? and the answer is always going to be if you feel ready to do something then go for it never force yourself to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable!
356279
you gotta know the place your in....if your in a place that is caught up in gender roles don't do it because it will be awkward, you will look desperate/easy, or not as feminine......but otherwise definetely, i hate not ever having a clue what girls think, maybe just hint at it...?
599601
You know being a little insecure in the bedroom can be ALOT better than being over confident.  If you don't become paranoid that is.  Pace yourself and awlays imagine what you might be able to do better on, that way you are always wanting to please her, instead of sitting back brimming with arrogence.   However... don't become paranoid... as you will ultimately stress yourself out and risk decreasing stamina and sexual performance.  With your partner telling you that you are the best... take it as a compliment, but dont take it to heart, because god forbid you guys one day spilt, you run the risk of having that one retracted, lol
22165
The media portrays an acceptable girl as perfect.  Models are way too skinny for the most part, and when you see some of the celebrities such as Jessica Simpson with no flaws in her body as it would appear you have to live up to that.\n\nI personally have never felt comfortable with someone who tries to make themselves perfect.  I'm not perfect, and I don't think there's a lot of men who are.  Those who are vain enough to spend that amount of time on themselves are working around a different mental limitation.  But deep down inside I wish I spent yesterday working out so I'd look better today even though I know that would do no good.\n\nSee if you can break the mold and just be healthy and comfortable with yourself.
500449
The important thing is find someone who you feel totally comfortable with.With her,you can be as relax as you are at home.If you find a girl like this,she will become a unseparatabe part of your life.\n\nGood luck!
349540
No...she is what we would make you an "enabler."  You would wind up helping her out and hiding the problem for her...never a good idea...You should try to find a girl that doesn't require such high maintenance.
294939
No, you should be comfortable.  If you are nervous it will hinder your ability to learn.