I met a great guy but I think I scared him off What do I do?
964765
There's really nothing you can do. If you keep calling him, you'll just push him further away and appear desperate, which is an unattractive quality.\n\nNext time, don't "talk" a relationship to death in its early stages. Too much time on the phone is a surefire way to kill romantic sparks. Make a date, hang up the phone and meet in person to see if there is physical chemistry. \n\nIf you just give him some space and stop calling, he may decide to call you again. But that's beyond your control so don't sweat it. Move on, girlfriend!
1155504
If you "just" met him, are you really sure that you love him?\n\nAlso, if he has a girlfriend and isn't ready to break it off with her and be with you, then forget about him. If you tell him you love him, you will scare him off. Wait and see what happens. If he really likes you, he'll come to you.
978048
most guys are afraid of commitment like myself..if you initiate contact i guarentee he will talk to you..just go over to him and sit beside him ask him something as simple as "what are we doing this weekend?" you got to let the comfort roll in you can't force it.just show him you like him and if he doesn't have the confidence to speak to you as a bf i'm sorry but maybe you were better off friends.
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
17505
Well the first approach is simple.....ASK\n\nBut if you are afraid of rejection, you can observe his actions after the date.  If he calls, he likes you. If not, he is not intrested and you should move on.  If your not sure, you can call him and pursue the relationship and see how he reacts.  If you get alot of excuses, he moree than likely is not intrested.\n\nGood luck and keep your chin up!
484776
well first you need to decide if you do or dont like him that way if you dont then just sit him down and tell him ya know hey this was a big misunderstanding and your a great freind but im not ready for that type of relationship with you and im sure hel;; understand because guys bounce back much faster so no worries he will survive
206802
Well if you are scared then that means that you are not ready and you need to wait for the time when you are ready for it. Also try talking to him about it and see how he feels about it and maybe he feels the same way you do. Then again he might not just let him know who you feel. You never know how it might turn out!
13327
Maybe you should give tiny hints and get to know him a little better and get comfortable around him so that you don't lose your breath. I've been in that situation many times.
712660
He was simply a looser- dont let him occupy your thoughts. Learn the lesson and MOVE on. You are better for having known him- cause you wont let another freeloader move in on you again. RIGHT?
409666
I DONT C Y NOT I WONDER WHO THIS GUY IS?  DOES HE KNOW WHAT U LOOK LIKE HAVE U SENT HIM A PIC OF U YET?  TAKE YOUR TIME AND LET THINGS FALL WHERE THAY MAY.  U NEVER KNOW, U MIGHT HAVE YOUR NIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOUR.  AND IF NOT AT LEAST U HAVE MET A GOOD FRIEND.   SOMEONE U CAN TALK TO ANYWAY.
909695
He likes you, but is afraid to tell you. Keep in touch, and see what happens
58929
I have the exact same problem i am so scared to ask him becouse i do not know what he will say. Maybe you should try to talk to him and work your way up. Maybe he likes you to.
653461
Conquer your doubts and fear and ask the guy to hang out.\n\nTalk to him to know about his personality and hobbies.
824236
The best thing to do is not rush anything.  That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation.  Don't smother or be clingy.  Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat.  It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later.  Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal.  Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!"  Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
1168277
Yeah...I would say he was nervous. If you like him, you should be the "outgoing" one and talk to him. Ask him questions so he doesn't have to be nervous and think of what to talk about....(When he gets back.)
12238
Wait a couple of days.  Call him back and tell him  that you totally freaked out and didn't know what to do.  just be honest with him.  guys don't like drama, and stuff like that.  just be up front with him.  I was up front about a guy and we have been together for almost 10 years.  So just wait a couple of days, then call and talk to him.  i mean what is the worse that he can say right?  Good Luck and go get em.
158603
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"