why do people fight like husbands and wife?
966958
Marriage is a 'Triple ring'.After marriage The first year husband will tells and wife will obey him.At the second year the wife will tells and husband obey her.But,the third year they too tells and it will heard by the Neighbours.(peoples)
923932
here's what size does not really matter if you love the person you're with & you enjoy the persons'  company and personality .... but when things start to go sour for what ever reason you're fighting , you're in the middle of a breakup, and the person starts to get on your last nerve ..... then the woman starts to attack everything about the man once it can hit home hard enough to hurt, Thats just the way we are as deffensive beings.... We may not be physically as strong as men but our tongues are our greatest weapon...it's just that the size of your manhood unfortunately ends up as a casualty of war.
215697
They SHOULD go hand in hand... but it doesn;t always happen that way. Some people use marriage as a refuge against lonliness and are willing to make the necessary compromises for it.
706459
Why do you fight? What do you fight over?\n\nPerhaps you should be the one to compromise first
224652
My personal opinion is that if 2 people live together they are more willing to work at staying together knowing that they can just walk out of the relationship. You try harder to get the other person because you love them and are willing to sacrifice your all to stay together. When you get married that piece of paper is like a prison cell. You begin to think you own the other person and more likely than not you start telling the other person what to do. This then starts tearing the relationship apart. Some people think once the ring is on the finger you can tell them what to do and when to do it. It doesn't work.
971086
Of course fighting is never right but if you let someone push you around without doing anything they will push you around more and more as time goes by.  You do have to show them that you will not be treated like that.
637902
I learned to take a man's punch (totally different than a woman's, believe you me) when I was in my first serious relationship.  He started beating me like I was a guy while I was pregnant.  The guy was also the biggest bad-@ss around at the time, ironically.  His own mother was terrified of him.  I learned all that while being with him, not before.  After escaping that mess, I married a man who also thought he would teach me a thing or too.  But by then I had learned to dish out what anyone thought they would give me.  \n\nLet's just say that I also had a 'unsatisfactory' childhood, or lack thereof, and homelife.  I learned early on how to survive as well as fight back.  Not surprisingly I got in a lot of fights, guys as well when they thought to lip off, in school and into young adulthood.  I've had to fight for everything in my life, one way or another.  I'm still young...but I've come a long way and learned a lot.  I try not to fight anymore, but I WILL defend myself and if someone else starts it, I WILL end it.  But I don't go around looking for a fight, or trying to start any, or claiming that I'm some bad@ss who can whip the world...believe me, there's always someone out there who is badder.  I'm just not going to take anyone's unneccessary or disrespectful B-S.\n\nNeedless to say, I haven't had anyone actually pick a fight with me in years and really with today's laws and standards I'm glad for it.  I only enjoyed fighting when I was young, dumb, and raving mad at the world.  I had so much rage that I would just snap.  Now that I am older and wiser, it takes a lot to push me to that dark point.  Even when young, I didn't actually enjoy fighting, I was too full of rage to enjoy the fights I was in.  And people who claim to love fighting aren't that mature and also, have never been in a real fight where you are so scared of dying or being beaten so badly that you are fighting for your life, just to survive.  Even in a lot of cases of a real fight, you may be winning but you are still getting beat pretty bad as well; it hurts like hell when you've come up against an equal opponent and it's not only a victory of pride when you've won, but relief to have survived the battle as well.
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well...that's what is happening to me and my friend\ni think that when people fight they get a closer friendship... so i  think that fighting is just normal in friendships!!\n\ni hope that made sense to you!!
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fights can happen with a lot of people. even your best friends. sometimes when two friends are fighting they forget that they're friends and they turn their backs on eachother.whatever the situation is you must learn to forgive and forget\nlosing a friend is very hard and regretful.
308842
They dont always nag their husbands.  If your wife is nagging you your obviously not doing something right.
124167
because they are insecure in the relationship. they feel that it won't take much for another woman to break up the relationship. if it's your wife that's gettin jealous then you need to take some time to reassure her that she's the only woman in your life and you wouldn't dream of leavin her for someone else. and don't just say it either, actually show her with actions. like when you catch a woman starin at you, kiss your wife passionately
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Well, it obviously depends on the people involved.  If they are in the habit of being well-mannered, and are basically liberty-oriented, they can have a very stimulating discussion which is of value to both of them.\n\nThen again, there are those who are sufficiently limited in their vocabulary that when they run out of words, they start to use fists and weapons.
927578
yes it is you are inder stress and you will have fights through out the marriage also. it is a part of being two differnt people and learning how to work together in stress to be one and not 2
606077
Actually, there have been a number of scientific studies (usually based on sailors stranded on deserted islands for long periods of time) that show that men by themselves usually do not really compete with each other if the society is only men with no prospect for women or outside interference of any kind, but instead are usually very cooperative. It is only when women are added into the mix that things start to get messed up. A perfect example is with the mutineers on the HMS Bounty. There were a bunch of guys who were getting along fine, then one of the mutineer's had his woman die on him and he decided someone had to give him another one. Within a few days all but one of them was dead.\n\nThis isn't meant to be chauvinistic, this is just what I have read several times in different sources over the years.
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It's not about IF you fight, it's about HOW you fight. \n\nThere are always going to be dissagreements, you are two different people and you have seperate thoughts. The time of your life right before a wedding can be very stressful, but there are many stressful events in life, you don't want to be duking it out all the time.  But what is most important is the way you fight.\n\nIf you disagree, and both get a little heated holding your own and then make up and let it go.... you are probably fine.  You might want to figure out why you're fighting, if it's communication issues, stuborneness, or temper.  But all of those can learn to be overcome or controlled.\n\nBUT.... if your fighting reduces to name calling, tantrums, wall punching, or hitting then there is a respect issue.  ANd that becomes a problem.  Fights like that are usually the beginning of the end. The issues there go far beyond spats, and will become the walls between you on the way to divorce.\n\nThis is also a good time to evaluate her issues.  Is she starting the fights?  Is it becuase she's not getting her way?  Or is it both your faults?  Is this how she handles stress?  Does she blame you for everything?\n\nMake sure that your sweethearts character is all you thought it would be.  Peoples true self comes out when they are under stress.   \n\nTry and evaluate why you are fighting. If you two are like most couples it's probably working out the communication issues, and every new couple has them.  If you are both mature adults they will work themselves out in time. And you'l be great.  But if there is more to it than that now.... the pressures of marriage, and day to to day life may prove to be more than you bargained for.\n\nGood Luck!  Let us know what happens.
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I am not positive what you are asking.  Are you asking if it is human nature for a woman to want a husband to be social and a man to want a wife to be more of a home-oriented person?  If so...\n\nAbsolutely not. It is true that people who grow up together in groups(we all do--that's what your community is, a group) often have alot in common, but there is still a good deal of variety everywhere.  Also, it should be remembered that what people want and what their group allows or encourages them to do are not always the same.
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I think religious people all have battered wife syndrom. 'He only hits me because he loves me and it was my fault I dropped the plate. I'm so clumsy, I deserved it.'\n\nGod destroys because god is love.