My sister wrote a suicide note.?
958186
Her doctor may need to review the medications she is on. Sometimes depression medications increase the desire for suicide in teenagers. Try to be there for her, and just be her friend and don't judge her.
952189
Awwww, I feel so bad for you.  I think you send her a heartfelt email and tell her how you feel.  Although I'm pretty sure she knows this but tell her the same things you told us.  Tell her that you have no friends, you have no one to talk to, you confided in her and now she will not speak or respond to you, tell her you miss her and that she's like a big sister to you.  Tell her how much she has made a difference in your life.  I'm pretty sure this should get her attention.  Don't be rude to her, that's probably the reason why she's distanced herself from you in the first place.  My guess is that you've done it before.  Tell her that you are not giving up on her or the friendship and keep trying your best to reach her.  Be honest.  Tell her exactly how you feel.  Hopefully I was able to capture your feelings because it was obvious to me that you really care for her and really miss her.  And if that's the case, she needs to know.
921238
First of all, listen to the mystic man!  He is absolutely right.  Thoughts of suicide are frequent in times of desperation and anger.  It isn't a way out, it's a way into something that you know nothing about.  It feels like you are saying to the people who have failed you, "See!  Look what you finally did!!  Don't you feel terrible about the way you made my life so unhappy?"  It's a feeling like you will get the last word.  It won't be viewed that way by your friends and family.  They will say things like, "We did the best we could, we can't help it if he/she went crazy and did something like this.  He / she must have  been on drugs or in the wrong crowd."  Then you will never have your chance to prove them wrong!!    \n\nBe strong for now, we never know why we are put through the things that we are put through.  Later in life, maybe you can help some one in a position like yourself.  You can overcome what is going on now.  DO NOT let them win by breaking who you really are.  I am e-mailable, feel free to e-mail me if you wish, I just hate to see some one give up when you haven't really even started your life yet.   \n Please call one of the hotlines if you think you are in need to that one of the other people listed for you.  Just do not do anything rash that you will regret.  You may have a great future waiting for you!!   Most strong people who are very successful are that way for a reason.  You would be surprised at the people who over came the past and went on to have a life filled with success and happiness.
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It's sounds like she has a pretty rough life.  Maybe it's a good thing her dad picked her up.  I know you miss her but she knows where to find you.  Maybe when things calm down little she will get in touch with you.  Keep trying her e-mail address you might get lucky.  I'm so sorry you are going through this pain, I wish I could just say the right thing to make it better but I can't.  Just remember the bonds of friendship are not easily broken she'll think of you and get in touch with you.  Just pray that she is in a better situation now.  I know if you are her friend you ultimately want the best for her.\n\nDon't forget to pray for her tonight I'll pray for you, best wishes Hun.  : (\n\nDon't cut yourself it won't take away the pain.
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I feel so sorry for you. I hate those situations.  She probably wont listen.....so write her a detailed letter.  See what happens and go from there.  At least you'll feel better if you put your thoughts down on paper.  Good Luck!
951423
You are not accountable for her actions...\n\ncall her parentals and let them know what she is thinking on doing...that way you have a clean conscience...most people that say they are going to kill themselves just do it and don't bother telling anyone...so i think your safe...avoid all her calls and let her move on...\n\nshe is telling you this so she can continue to manipulate the situation...tell her good bye and mean it...put your damn foot down...
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Having had an abortion myself, years ago, I hope that your Sister was counseled before she went through with it.  No one counseled me back then so I didn't know what to expect.  Initially I was "fine" and relieved on the way home, but the more I thought about it, the worse I became.  All these years later, it's left an emotional scar that only other women who have had the same procedure done, can and do understand.  I still remember the date the abortion took place, the name of the Doctor, what the room looked like, what my due-date would have been, and how old my child would be right now.  Each holiday after the abortion took on a new feeling and a new meaning within me.   Each holiday would have been my child's "first holiday".  Each day became harder and harder for me.  Still, to this day, I can't look at a pregnant woman - it hurts too much.  Please be there for your Sister and to listen to her.  She may even have suicidal feelings - this is a very common occurrence as well as trying to get pregnant again to "replace her first child".  While she may look the same on the outside, please remember that she's now different on the inside.
1040210
Your sister needs a shrink...\n\nShe may be your sister but she acts like your girlfriend
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If your uncle had given them to him and the cause of death was overdose, then he could have been held responsible, but since your dad shot himself, then only your dad is responsible.  Our family has been through 2 suicides, both with firearms.  It's so HARD.   Whether or not the death certificate states suicide, you will still know in your heart that was what happened.  Only you and your family know the truth, whether or not he was deeply depressed.  If he was, even with all the best help in the world, sometimes people are so lost deep inside they can never find their way back.  You love them so much and YOU can see they have so much to live for, but they can't and nothing you do can make them see.  Please, all of you go for counseling, you will need it and I promise you it will do a world of good for you all.   I am sure your uncle is eaten up with guilt as well.  He made a bad judgment and he is paying for that too.  I wish you some peace, we have been there and my prayers will be with you.  I see a lot of people are saying your dad was selfish.  I don't think he meant to be.  Some people just don't have the strength to keep fighting the demons that assail them each and every day.  Those of us who are mentally well don't understand that, not until you have been there with someone and see a portion of what they go through every day.
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The loss of a parent is devestating.  I lost both of mine, my father as a child and my mother in my 20s.  Your sister is grieving right now, she doesn't need to be "pushed" into anything.  What she needs is your love and support and encouraging words. If she isn't ready to go back to school or feels she won't find a job with her skills suggest she try doing a little volunteer work for a cause that interests her - animals, babies, senior citizens, battered women, homeless people, there are volunteers needed everywhere doing a variety of things!\nIf you can get her interested in volunteering a few hours a week, it will be a start so when she is ready to either go to school or get into the work force she will have something to write on her resumes.
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If you really to die, you should have taken your life already.  Instead, you are writing here and trying to express your frustration in life.  I do not know you in person but from what you wrote, I believe that you need a more rewarding life.  You seem to lack close friends, career....focus on something you like and do something different.  If you do not cherish yourself, nobody will!
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awww, she needs someone to talk to, if her family is not an option, she should call her local crisis hotline and ask for a referral to a mental health professional, she can also talk to a counselor at school but she may be concerned about the confidentiality, she can talk to her medical doctor, she can also talk to someone at her church or if she hasn't one, any local church will do. Cutting oneself maybe a symptom of a serious problem that requires professional help...as far as hating her family but being ready to do anything for her friends well that is called being a teenager *smile* She should also know that drugs are even more dangerous for those who are suffering from depression.
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hi, i am so sorry that you are hurt, but i understand.  hurting your mom is the worst feeling in the world.  the worst.  but the best medicine is free.  don't do any of that writing notes crap, that is really chicken shit.  you hurt her, and you are old enough to own up to your mistakes.  you just march yourself up to her and say mama, i can never tell you how sorry i am, i love you, i need you, and i'm not too proud to say it.  then tell her that you know that your time is coming.  you'll have a mini me someday, and it will come back around.  it's called the circle of life.  lol.  the easiest answers are always the toughest.  god bless
769507
This is unfortunate matter sweety...But please do not get upset with yourself...It's nothing to do with you...Be happy she's in a safe place now where she can get help...All you can do is be there when she needs you...Remember she's not herself now, so just think about the good times...She'll be back to herself soon enough...Be strong for your sister...You're dong a good job =)
1017212
I am sorry for your loss I know it hurts  My best friend of 35 years and I claim to be sisters. I don't think you have any legal standing even though you lost a big part of your life.
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You can accept her. Well she has done what she has done, but she is your sister. She has come back to you that means she requires you. Everyone commits mistake. And she hasn't killed anyone. Its time for everyone in society to get matured. Now here is a chance.
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I wonder the same thing. I try not to think about my sister hating me but it is really hard. My sister has caused problems between me & my mother just by doing things like you said: she would pick everything just to hurt you. I have shown my mother proof from my doctor that I am really ill & that I am dying but oh no my sister tells her that I am lying so now my mother refuses to talk to me. She says I made everything up even the letter from my doctor with his signature & the letter was written on letter head paper. Go figure. I made it all up. I wish that I wasn't dying. My sister says that she can't deal with my illness. I passed out one day asked her to take me to the hospital, says she can't deal with me. I don't know why she hates me. and I don't know how to handle it except for focusing on one day at a time. I have my husband and my daughter with me. She even told my husband something that my daughter did at her home, she was grounded for 8 months and then 2 months ago I found out from one of my other sisters that it was all a lie. she wanted to cause problems between my husband & I. She thought he would leave me over it. She has major problems. She has 2 daughters by her 4th husband. but actually the 1st one belongs to his brother but she confided in me not to tell him and I haven't. It has been 7 years and he still does not know. I don't cause her problems why cause me problems. Why can't she just love me? I love her with all my heart. I wish your sister would love you too. Maybe they are having emotional & mental problems and they have focused on us to take it out on so that they can live with it. I wish  you the best of luck in working things out with your sister. I am trying but to no avail.