Why do "straight" girls act like lesbians with their friends in clubs/bars?
966866
Because they know it turns guys on. They like the attention. It's the same reason they go to these clubs half dressed. It's to be looked at and noticed.
1004169
I think it is partly the fact that the wome feel safe with them.  Thay know that the gay guy is not mentally undressing her as they talk.  Aslo there is a bit a a common ground they share (at least the straight girls and gay guys).  They can talk about the other guys they like.
948020
LOL  Boy do I know this one...Trying to figure it out.... I think, we tend to exude a confidence that most straight women do not...That is what they observe and is what they gravitate to.... satistics show most of us fancy the same sex at some degree..I think these women who have the curiousity bug unfortuanetly see us as play toys with no regards to our emotions.. This is where we need to take care...     So girls, Becareful!
192622
I have seen obvious butch lesbians in gentlemen's clubs. I've seen many more average to very good looking young women, usually in small groups of two to five, in the clubs. I've even seen small groups of young women enough times to recognize them as apparent regulars. (I would tend to assume they are bi-sexual, but who am I to say?) I have seen a good number of couples. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman admiring other women and wanting to watch them strip. I feel safe in assuming that there has been more than one case of a female customer going home and trying out what she has seen on her husband or boyfriend, or both. I see young women buying lap dances nearly every weekend.\n\nIf you go to a club for whatever reason, just remember, the dancers are women not all that different from yourself. Ask questions, learn the rules, and above all else, treat the dancers with respect. They are not prostitutes. Well, maybe a few out of thousands are, but even they are human beings with feelings.\n\nDo not be like the young woman I observed a couple of weeks ago, who sat at the tip rail and didn't want to tip. When Calli spoke to her about it after her performance had ended, the woman gave Calli a bunch of lip about how she didn't know tipping at the rail was mandatory, even though the D.J. had been continually reminding the customers the whole time the woman was in the club, then threw a dollar bill at Calli's feet. Calli picked up the dollar, dropped it into the women's lap, and told her she didn't need her one dollar. What really amazed me was that several young men began to applaude Calli, as did I. (I was amazed because of the fact that so many immature, thoughtless young men think, "Oh, she's a stripper, so she has to be just a slutty whore! Therefore, we can treat her any crappy way we choose.) I spoke with Calli about the incident a bit later, and she told me that she had told the woman, "I don't need your money. I've already made plenty of money tonight. However, I should think that as a woman, you would have more respect for me. I'm working hard to entertain you as well as everybody else in the club."\n\nDuring one of Nicki Hunter's feature performances, this same thoughtless young woman leaned over the stage, picked up the two DVDs Nicki had laying there, kept one and gave one to her girlfriend. A minute later, Nicki turned around and asked, "Where are the movies?" Without any hesitation, I pointed at the woman and said, "Right there Nicki." Nicki retreived her DVDs and told the woman, "If you want one of my movies, come see me after the show, and I'll sell you one." Trust me, when Nicki tossed the DVDs to a couple of lucky customers, said customers were not either of those two women!\n\nDo not for one minute think that stripping is an easy job. If you do, try it sometime. For one thing, you will use muscles you didn't even know you had! For another thing, it is a tough job being nice to people who are looking down their noses at you, especially the ones who don't even have enough class to take a shower and change clothes before going to the club and expecting the ladies to sell them lap dances! Yes, it happens. I myself have had to change seats or walk away for some cretin who reeked of every sort of bad body odor known to mankind. I've even known of guys passing gas in the clubs without so much as an excuse me!
326487
they are just women who enjoy women more than men, not becoz men are no good. I mean, guys, do you like women becoz men are no good? it is the same for lesbians, they are straight men's best friends.
580209
Court a lesbian and leave your friend alone! You are the reason that gays and lesbians have a hard time wanting to come out to their friends because they don't want them thinking that they are automatically going to be attracted to them.
21311
It's called "Girls Night Out"...if they just hang out at one of their homes, that girl is obliged to be the "Hostess"... at a bar, they are all free from that kind of responsibility and can just drink,gossip, dance and guy watch without worrying about cleaning up or overstaying their welcome or bothering the neighbors (or their husbands/housemates/children)
384315
If the girls are together, therefore lesbian, they will not want to be with a guy, you bloody dumb sh*t.
580469
Being attractive does not depend on being lesbian or straight. I know pretty straight girls and pretty lesbians. The reason why you think there are more pretty straight girls is ecaue since, numerically, there are more straight girls, statistically, there are more pretty straight girls BUT there are more ugly straight girls than lesbians too. There are less ugly lesbians than ugly straights and less pretty lesbians than pretty straights just because there are less lesbians in the first place.\nDon't worry you'll find the pretty lesbians too...\nGod luck!;)
67703
Because they enjoy being seduced. I think girls also play the same game.
958185
They seem to be hotter to you because they are unattainable, you always want something more if you know you can't have it.\nOne time to straight female coworkers wanted me to take them to a gay bar that I frequented. While we were there, I noticed how much they commented on the looks of the gay men and asked them about it. One of the girls responded "It's like window shopping, you like to look at things that you can't have."
805762
Do they have to be lesbians?  Because most lesbians are, indeed, as you say, 'pretty well over the male body'.  Not to say that there aren't lesbians who sleep with men- I know there's a whole queer renaissance of kinky lesbians and gay men who love to get it on together and call it gay sex (because they're both gay)- but it's a small niche.\n\nIf it's not the fact that they're lesbians, but just that 'lesbian look' (boyish but pretty), so to speak, well, there are a lot of bisexual girls of that nature, and straight ones, too.  I bet you could find yourself one.  Good luck!
232858
this is what gets me woundering about gay/ lesbians...if a guy is gay he says he dont like woman....but he dresses and tries to look like a woman....then there are lesbians says i cant stand men but the get the short hair cuts and dress like a man work out like a man and try to be like a man...so if someone dont like the oposite sex why do they try so hard to be just like them.... i do agree with you its just nasty.....my comment on the subject,,,
536194
did you try going into a lesbian bar?  plenty of bi women also go to places like that.
1150010
We just go out to have fun and let loose! Not all the time, but sometimes I'll wear a nicer shirt, I'll do my hair nicer and put on a little more makeup, but I don't try to show up the other girls. They're my best friends, after all! I just try to look my best and they try to look theirs. Sometimes we go out just to talk about how stupid men are or to enjoy something we all have in common.
792905
When I came out, I had many of the same problems. I'm a lesbian, and the "piece of meat" feeling is the same for us, not as bad, because women don't work like that, but still there. I got alot of apologies, and still do 10 yrs later, about past jokes and "that's so gay" comments. I think that people do that as a way to make themselves feel better about themselves and the stupid things that they say. Not that they wont continue to say them, just not to you. \n\nThe gay bar, lol. Oh my god, the first time I went to the dyke bar was traumatizing. I felt so alone, and I was alone, which didn't help. Had not one gay friend.I felt like everyone was staring at me. I worried wether or not I looked like a lesbian.  But unlike straight bars, alot of people took me under their wing and the feeling in a gay bar is alot more comfortable. There definitely is an expectation of the way we look and act in the gay community, I think it is one of the things that we do to make ourselves better than the straight community. But, you should act however you feel comfortable, people will love you regardless. Welcome newbie, may your new gay life be fabulous!
963084
Most do because they tend to feel that they're sexually inadequate. That's how my girl's ex-bf felt when my girl realized that she wasn't really in love with him, and that she was in love with me. He's still bitter about the fact that he lost his girl to a lesbian, but that's life. People switch teams all the time, especially when they're not happy with the their members.