Is it fair for my boyfriend to get jealous and upset when I email innocently with an ex?
964321
I don't think it's right. I mean would you RALLY be ok with him e-mailing his ex? Aren't you scared old memories may come back he wants her again?\nThat's how he feels....\nHe may trust YOU but who knows what your ex wants, that's why your boyfriend doesn't trust guys (my hubby doesn't either). Maybe he's just scared you'll go back to him....\nJust let him go and write other friends, no exes...
356911
I think u should expect for her to feel a little jealousy about it.  Just make sure u talk to her and let her know you absolutely have no feelings for your ex whatsoever!  Relationships are about trust, so let her know she can trust you!
631289
if he asks u 2 open his emails, it means he's not hiding anything.\njust ask him casually wat that pic is doing in his inbox \nim sure there's no big deal!\n\nits just that there r so many flirty bitches who like 2 mess up somebody else's relationships
739542
you need to bring it up, because if it hruts yo uand he doesnt knowthat it was an honest mistake it just may keep happening. i think the best thing to do it to sit him down and tell him thats your not being jealous and you understand how much they mean to you. yo ujust felt kinda bad that you had plans and they were broken, and yo uwere uncomfortable with her making it just so he goes you trust him, but you dont want to make him uncomfortable so you seem jealous. but the best relationship is based on trust and honesty and if he knows how you feel, hopefully it wont happen agian. let me knowif you need anything
1060702
yeah like he said you should ask him first before making assumptions ....you need to apologize and hope next time keep your jealousy under control...otherwise you will drive him away wihtout the help of other women!!
929390
If he only sent you an email he is probably with his ex, either way it means he does not care that much about you...he has your number, he can call you (right?) and the fact that he did not defend you over his ex, when she was obviously in the wrong, shows he either does not care that much about you, and might still have feelings for his ex, more so than he does for you..I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am just trying to give you the best advice, which is to realize (which it sounds like you already have) that this guy does not truly care about you and the best thing for you to for yourself is to just forget about him and move on, as hurtful as it may be. You could email him back demanding an explanantion, and telling him how hurt you are, but it wouldn't make much of a difference.
193651
You know if it's emotional cheating or not...are you looking forward to talking to your ex?  It could be an indication theres an issue with your current relationship....
186709
WHOA! You should defintaly try to explain yourself again and make her understand. I would be furiuos if my girlfriend stayed at her Exs for a week. Thats totally uncalled for and you have every right to be pissed. I mean theyre Exs for a reason right? Yea man thats definatly not cool, and if she insists on keeping contact with the Ex then maybe theres still some latent feelings towards him. If she doesnt get it, then tell her that her still talking with him is directly effecting your relationship and could possibly be the downfall of it as well. Godd luck with that man.
40327
NOT a good idea...if you are wanting to check his email...then there has been some doubts about something...your instincts about whatever it is may be right,although if you really want to find out just ask him...cause after you look at his emails, how are you going to ask him about what you found???....then comes there becomes a trust issue w/you and your boyfriend...you might want to keep your eye on him
946342
No. I think what you should do is email them and tell them nicely that they have hurt your feelings. That'll make them feel bad and guilty and they might even apologise to you.
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
1070157
If she can't keep her emails straight...I would believe she is pulling one over on you.  And no matter what the relationship, not sure I would advertise I slept with every guy I've dated.  Good luck!!
75186
Sounds to me like you are in this relationship just to "have a boyfriend" As it turns out a bf/gf won't solve your problems instead (as you can see) they bring new or different ones. \n\nIf all you enjoy about this guy are his e-mails, letters, or long distance phone calls then just leave it at that. You don't have to put up with all the crappy stuff from this so-called relationship.\n\nA pen-pal may do just fine!
1071380
My boyfriend is a bit on the ( why you gotta go there) jealous side... it just tells me that he really wants me and dont want to lose me....
1074165
You were suspicious to begin with, hence you "checked" his email.  Now your suspicions are confirmed.  I would call a marsvenus coach to find out a) what to do and b) how can you regain your trust in this or any man.  You cannot have a healthy relationship where there is no trust.  Time for you to address all your past relationships and childhood wounds to determine why you were suspicious in the first place--was it his behaviour or your problem that drove you to check the email?
304117
hmmm... go ahead. If you dont care about your boyfriend being jealous.
1186709
It sounds cool to me.  I have multiple ex bfs in my phone and I would never cheat on a guy even if I was unhappy with the relationship.  Unfortunately sometimes ex contact is necessary.  Don't fret.