What matters more...a guy whos good looking and confident(not cocky)...?
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depends on the girl! and also: depends on HOW GREAT your personality, or HOW GREAT your looks....and then also: tastes differ...so if say, Orlando Bloom would be outside singing me a seranade but turn out to be a real dick i would say NAY thanks, and if someone "ordinary looking" (whatever that is) or Not-So-Hot with a great personality would be doing the same id say YAY!!!.....I've fallen for both....both are appealing in a way; but beauty will never win someone's heart....my best/most intense experiences were with men with a personality that made me go SWOON rather than their looks...in fact: their personalities made their outer appearance really appealing to me (regardless of backhair, chubbiness, beginning baldness etc....) ;-)
1181005
Deffinetly personality. Looks aren't really important to me. I mean, yeah, clearly if he's got a great personality and he looks hot, I mean, yeah, that'd be a great bonus, but as long as he's got a great personality, I'm set.
127125
Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
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Yes I would.If u want a serious relationship or something thats going to last it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like as long as their a good person and their good to me thats all that matters.If I can look into someone's eyes and see he cares thats the best feeling u can get...Way more better than being with someone w/ a great body.Personaility comes first to me and if they got both even better!But if not 1 out of 2 is fine w/ me as long as the 1 is personality.Cuz whats the point of being w/ a good looking guy whose a jerk u know?
886857
Coming from a mans point of view, if he's really into you and respects you it won't matter. also he may be glad you are inexperienced as you wouldn't know if he was any good or not!
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
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Good looking is on the outside.  I'd rather go for a guy who is easy to talk to, so we can talk for the rest of our lives.  It's what's on the inside that's important.  As long as you can look at him at the breakfast table, that's enough
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Definitely a good personality.  Looks are always a plus but it's who the person is inside that makes them special and attractive to you.  Many girls can look hot, but only few can possess that certain personality a guy is searching for.  The beauty factor will naturally go up when it is followed by a glowing personality...something know as the halo effect.
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Self-confidence. If you are confident (or try to be) and don't care about what people would think when you state your opinion, thats an attractive factor. I'm not a guy, but i've been 13 b4!
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Externally I would say a man with nice eyes and a nice smile (dimples make me melt) does it to me everytime.  I love a man that is fit also.  I like a man with define arms to just hold me tight and make me feel protected.  A nice toned stomach and ass.  I don't need a body builder but a man that cares enough about himself to take good care of his body and essential mine!!!\n\nBut all of that isn't so attractive if a guy isn't intelligent.  You can only pretend you like sports for so long then it gets boring.  ALSO a gentleman is VERY SEXY.  A man that will take care of you.  Sometimes you just want someone to take the lead...
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Ofcourse it would be a lot better if the guy is good looking and intelligent...but its not all that counts...A man can be good looking by the way he moves and carry himself...It is confidence that makes you look good even if your nose is in your forehead.....
889678
good personality\nnice smile \nattractive(doesn't apply to all guys)\ngood sense of humour\nnice butt or breast
992614
looks , personaltiy, intelligence, fitness, body... thats about it
659770
Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
676887
personality is sexiest. believe me, it's not a physical thing. trust in your inner beauty
449299
what i look for in a guy is basically someone i can have a good time with.  I go for personality first and he has to be able to make me laugh and smile. no one likes a serious stiff guy. but u have to be careful also that the guy isnt took much of a clown. Looks always come second to me because sure u can have a good time showing off your boyfriend if he's cute but u cant always have a good time with him.