what do you do when you are going to get beaten?
952330
Decide that that is it and seek help from an abuse center if it is physical or emotional abuse. If the "beaten" you are referring to is a parents discipline and it is not abusive, figure out where you stepped out of line and correct it.
825189
Whats done is done. You know better now.  So go and do better. Dont beat yourself up as long as you take the steps to do whats right. You know yourself and just know people make mistakes. You will be fine.
842092
My advice to you is DO NOT give him any money. Hang up the phone when he calls. If he has been beating you notify the police in your dity or town and get a restraining order on him if possible. If you feel threatend by him you might consider going to a women's shelter. You can find numbers for them in your local phone book. Don't let this crazy ruin your life. Do whatever you can to take charge of your life and stay away from him. Men who beat their wives cannot be trusted. Do not believe him when he tells you he will not do it ever again. He will. Get to a women's shelter AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Do not tell your friends or family where you are going just go. These places have all kinds of resources to help you and to get you moving in the right direction. You need to get your life back don't let him ruin you or your life. Please do this for yourself you do not deserve to be treated badly just because you married this guy.Please get help TODAY!\nLL
732934
First, you need an arm.  If you don't have any, your kinda screwed.  Then, you need muscles.  Your kinda screwed without them too.  Get a good grip.  Right when you start, kick your opponent in the nuts.  Works every time.
324701
The "I am going to beat your butt" is an expression used to let you know they are going to physically harm you. Usually it is a smack to the face or head, but it just as easily can be to any part of the body. It can also mean it is going to be several strikes about your body and head.\n\nIf you hear somebody say this to you, I reccomend you run as fast as you can and get away. I also recomend you call the police if somebody is hitting on you. You have a right to be free from abuse, even from your own family.\n\nHowever, if it is your family, be prepared to go to a foster home if you are under eighteen and have your siblings taken too. So, just be sure you don't actually deserve a smack in the head. If it is your parents that is. While I really don't go for the corperal punishment thing for children and young adults I have to admitt I have smacked my own kid upside his head a time or two. Not proud of it, but there you go. Don't mean I don't love him either, in fact, the opposite, I love him very much, but I am not going to be sassed by my son who I provide everything to either.
611747
Have someone slap you. Get a grip.
245358
If that hoe hits you better hit her ass back and don't stop hitting her.You talk to her while whipping her ass and let her know that you have parents that beat your ass ONLY!If you feel like you can't beat her pick something up and beat the piss out of her!
146359
well, what i would do is just laugh and tell them that they r not worth the time ta fight, or just be the bigger person and walk away, or beat their @$$es
145970
You should be proud. The men must be knocking each other out of the way to take you out. NOT!
886450
tell her to be careful and be alert\ntell her the people she must avoid\nlook after her\n\nbut if anything bad happens....its up to you to throw those punches and make him feel the floor and make him taste his own blood...lol....just kidding....but im gonna do it if anything bad happens if i were you
740465
Make a T-shirt that says:\nThe beating will continue till moral improves
253128
Well if he hits you. you shouldn't even need to ask this question you should have respect for yourself and leave him, I know its hard for you but its not healthy for you. Once you get away you will be better off
916357
treat them with politeness and courtesy and take a few deep breaths and try not to knock them out
609531
the best way is stand up to them.... if they hit him then he needs to take the biggest one, walk right up to him and punch him as hard as he can in the nose,,,,,,,,, they might fight but no one will mess with him after...\ni work with kids ( self defense) and there is just so long a kid can take things like that..\n\n \nif he lets it go it will only get worse...
177020
Why would u stay with someone that beats u? For 3 years? Get out and get a restraining order, it will be hard but in the long run it will make you stronger and you will be much happier and safe.
996783
You need to get some self confidence and I don't mean that in an ugly way.  That is all that you need in order to hold your ground.  You need to know that you can keep it together when someone is putting you down and realize that it is just words and like the saying goes, sticks and stones break my bones but words will NEVER hurt me!  Listen to what they have to say and if its something that you did, apologize, then just stand there and take what they have to say with a stone face.  Show no emotion!  Some people will keep doing hurtful things to people because the other person will take it and get upset and hurt.  The person that keeps doing it is usually a sad person themselves and needs someone that is "smaller and weaker" than their own selves to make them fell better.  Remember that the next time it happens and maybe they will stop.  If they don't stop doing it to you, then at least you will have walked away with the self respect and self confidence that is needed to conquer whatever the rest of the world is going to dish out.
999816
get your ass beat and move on...\n\n\nbetter than being scared the rest of your life...\n\nby the way...hurt the one who is the worst the baddest if you can...