how come all of a sudden is he messing w/ my friends?
968384
he's just trying to make you jealous.  i would tell him it's not working and that it is just making you doubt the relationship.  if he doesn't stop after that then move on.
702356
Some people are just weird, maybe he needed some time away from people. If he doesn't seem to be the reclusive type then I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Friends shouldn't be like that and if it happens again casually bring it up. Another thing is how close are you guys? New friends, old friends, etc...\nThe talking like normal might be a cover b/c ppl don't like fessing up to screwing up
656836
Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
413142
I'd call him and ask him to start telling you the way he really feels and if it doesn't feel right to him to go with all your friends then just tell u. He probably didn't want to hurt your feelings and didn't want to say anything. U have to make it OK to open up to you and let him know that he can tell how he feels when he doesn't want or like something u suggest. He might of felt you were going to ignore him when u are with your friends.
866981
Ok so he flirts with you but he is dating someone else. I'm sorry but this guy may be sweet and all that but he sounds like a player. A guy who is with someone else shouldn't be flirting with someone else. That's just not approiacate. next time he flirts with you, you just need to tell him he needs to stop because he is dating your friend and it's not right.
804544
wow... hes just joking around. if its a guy. coz that sounds rly rly messed up!!!
745222
He might have just wanted to tell you that there were girls there incase you hear it from someone else. If that happens you'd start to question why didn't he tell you about it and wonder if he's hidding something. He's just trying to play it safe and be honest with you by keeping you updated about all the things that are happening.
1150675
if it's more than one person independently telling you then he is probably cheating.\n\nlook at the character of the people telling you and decide if they would want to hurt you; or keep you from hurt
961097
His true intentions have been revealed.  Why do you want to be friends with such an immature person?  \n\nCut contact with him.
796623
I wouldn't freak out about it. Trust what he told you. That he wasn't interested in anyone but YOU. That is how trouble and hurt feelings get started, people talking smack. However, your so called *friend* never should have went to his house, knowing this is your *love* interest. I would casually mention to him that you were told she was there and then ask if everything is OK? If he acts normal to you, and smiles and says yes, perhaps even gives a small run down of why she was there, then your cool. If he offers nothing and is not acting his usual self towards you, then you know something is up. If that is the case, drop your friend, she will do it to you again with someone else. If he is normal with you and nothing has changed and all goes well. I would call my friend, let her know how *uncool* it is she did that, and then I would keep her at a distance and not be *as close* as you once were. I hope this helped some. Blessed be
1179860
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
507885
Return it back to him. No stranger is foolish, and if u cant reason out why he is doing it, then he may be dangerous....Stay away from things u cant understand...
863473
try talking to him and be honest. If it ends the friendship, then he was obviously just playing at being a friend while his mind was working in a different direction.
964623
If he did love you he wouldn't have been "messing with some other girls"! You're right in that you can't or shouldn't allow your friends tell you what to do. However, if they are true and good friends, you should at least heed what they say. They have your best interest at heart and may be able to look objectively at the situation whereas you may be blinded by your feelings of love. Bottom line is.....if he was messing around, that's the type of person he is and it would likely happen again (just maybe he's get smarter about it and you wouldn't catch him)! Thank your lucky stars you found out now. It may hurt but it's probably best in the long run. You're prince charming is probably still out there somewhere. Keep looking. Good Luck.
356113
There's a whole world out there, you and your friend don't need the trouble this guy could/will cause.  His behavior is truer than his words.  Treat yourself better than that and get a new boyfriend who is really sincere.
1085253
Why don't you go out with you man with his friends. You can find this out for yourself. Or ask were he's going then show up unexpectly. Or on the other can, why can't you just trust him that he's doing the right thing. Good luck hun