Why doesnt my girlfriend ever say "I Love You"?
968228
How long have you been with her? And why don't you ask her, you should, if it's been a while, she may not be feeling the same way about you and doesn't know what to say or, she is insecure about the relationship. Let her know your feelings on this, communication is the key!
440236
Maybe it's NOT her. Maybe it is you. Your girlfriend sounds like a sweet young lady. And your probably talking about yourself in this question switching all around on her. What you need to do is pay your girlfriend a visit and let her know how much you LOVE her. But, if you ARE talking about your girlfriend(which I doubt :-)), the reason she is probably being a little controlling cause she misses you and wants you to pay her more attention. She probably feel like she is losing you and just a little afraid that she probably is. Who knows. But take my advice and pay her a little visit.
213321
Write her love letters, call her sometimes, keep things light and simple. It's hard when people can't show each other their feelings, but physical aspects of a relationship aren't everything. If you know you're around people you trust to keep it quiet, do little things like hold hands. I know it will be hard, but if you love her like you say you do, it's worth it :) good luck!
847162
Nothing says I love you! Like a diamond ring. Next Case.\n\nAlthough, I would never tell a girl I loved her first. That is normally something a female will say before a male. If not in those words, very close.
1003262
i never believe it when my boyfriends tells me they love me. because half the time boys dont know what is the meaning of 'love' and just tells us girls they love us because they think we want to hear it, or we like hearing it. \n\nif someone really truely loves another, they will show it not say it.
117739
it might just be a chemical love. I had that back in the day once haha but you should wait awhile before you tell her and give it some time to see if it is really love.
183661
Sorry, but,... didn't you say you LOVE her?  hint hint\n\nSince you love her??, perhaps you could consider communicating with her (lovingly) your feelings of being fulfilled or the lack thereof.  By the way, you can leave out the "wanting a boyfriend" part.  Maybe YOU could initiate different things in your relationship to enhance "the setting", "the mood" of it all.  What concerns me the most is that if the relationship you have with your girlfriend is coming down to being based on whether or not she's "fulfilling" you, then ALL the reasons you're in this relationship need to be examined.  That would be the fair thing to do,...for BOTH of you.  When you see a RED FLAG waving, pay attention.  Getting a boyfriend "to fulfill you", probably wouldn't be the wisest thing to do.  Take care.
617725
Let me tell you a little bit about my own experience: \n     I tell my girlfriend all the time, very sincerely and sweetly, that i love her.  I do spontaneous things, like buying flowers or candy or some other gift, for no reason at all.  And i sometimes just hang out with her, with no obligations or intentions; just hanging out to be with her.  Yet, she sometimes gets insecure, and doubts me.  It has never been because of something that i have done, just that that is how she is.  Lately, because of this, i have been sensing those things, and i have found myself being emotionally hurt by her, and the little things that she has been doing.........  I love her more than you could imagine, but because of her doubts and insecurities, i have been getting hurt, and i now have doubts as to whether the relationship is fit to survive.  \n     In your case, if he has done nothing to bring about these feelings, then you should probably have no worries.  Innocent until proven guilty.  I know, from personal experience, that it starts to hurt when you signifigant other doubts you and your motives/intentions when you say "i love you."  It is extremely painful because you say those words to someone, expressing what you truly feel inside (not in all cases mind you), and then you are essentially "slapped" in the face when that person questions you.  If your boyfriend is seemingly sweet and sincere, then he probably really means it.  if he respects you as a person, and is supportive of you, then i would say that he probably means it.  Good luck to you, and i hope that i have helped.
1102664
She is a smart girl, comfortable with herself, and not wiling to lie to make you feel better.  You should respect and appreciate that.  Now you know that when she does say "I love you" she means it.  You should feel lucky to have one of the rare girls that are not obsessive and drunk with the need for love.
1092962
If I read that correctly, it sounds like you said "I love you" to her and she did not immediately reply. You called her on it and she said that she says it all the time but did not say it just then. Is that correct? If so, then your apology should probably be that you were forcing a conversation when she already expressed that she was very tired and you are aware that she loves you too.
571473
well practice your answer. then maybe when you try to tell her you love her. then you could doing it without being shy about it. you just don't know what love is......
93596
If you don't feel the love, maybe she doesn't.  Communication is always best, so talk to her.  Sometimes actions speak louder than words, i.e., do the two of you truly enjoy each other's company?
795402
I have gone through the same problem as you, my boyfriend sometimes sweet talks to me and other times he doesn't, but i'm the same to him. In this way i feel that when we do tell each other that we love each other it is always special. I don't know but it makes the relationship more exciting. I just love my boyfriend and he loves me, sometimes we don't need to say "I love you"  to now that we love each other, just by the looking into our eyes, or the things that we do for each other, we know that we do. You should talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel.  Good luck!
71770
When you truly love someone, I think it is worth the risk that they may not say it back to you. \n\nIt might make you more comfortable if you put that out there by telling him that you are not expecting him to say it back to you, but that you just wanted him to know how you feel. I told my boyfriend this 7 months before he said it to me. I made sure that he knew that I wanted him to say it in his own time and not feel that he had to say it back, or be uncomfortable if he was not at the same level. Then, just be patient. When he does tell you, you will know that it is truly meant from the heart. \n\nAnd who knows? He just may be waiting to know how you feel because he is just as shy as you!\n\nGood luck!
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
188867
you just do and if you love her tell her and when u do if she is scared shes not sure if she says she loves you to (for the 1st time) fast and uncaring she doesnt but if she says it slow and loveingly she does
563892
I say..she loves you dearly but she doesn t know huw much she is gonna miss you when you will break up with her.\n\nPlease trust me.because I used to treat my boyfriend the way your girlfriend is doing now...;\nOne day I told him that I do love him,\nanother I doubt if he loved me...\nand so on\n\nwell I always loved him but when he left me,my heart started to beat faster and faster for him...;and I cried,and I begged and I am dying but it s too late\n\nso please don t do that to your girlfriend...let her be grown up..let this love grow inside of hear heart for you...then a day will come that she is gonna kiss you proudly in the public...just give her this chance for receiving your love and care.\n\ndon t leave her because she will get hurt,just the way I am hurt and still feel a pain in my heart