Question for the married people...?
967489
I'd clean out the garage & get rid of a whole bunch of that junk that's piled up in there.
50206
My husband and I have been married for 29 and one half years.  Some years were great some not so great.  But we hung in there and are more in love today than when we married.  Best wishes.
603765
Being married to my dear husband gives me such a sense of fulfillment and belonging. We have been married almost 20 years and are more in love than ever. It means we can rely on each other no matter what. We have been through some seriously difficult times but have always been there for each other. I don't know what I would do without him. I tell him he is my knight in shining armor. We have our disagreements, but they are much fewer in number now. We complete each other. Our marriage is a blessing from God!
18643
No, but I married my best friend.\n\nI think it's pretty special to have built a very strong friendship before we had any romantic interest in each other.\n\nWe've only been married for a little under 2 years and we are raising 4 children together - 3 of mine from my previous marriage & our baby. I am sure that it is our very strong relationship that helps us get through the difficult times.
218488
I am not married, but I wouldn't stay married out of convenience. Instead, I would try to make the marriage work. I would try to identify exactly which of my needs (and my partner's needs) are not being met and how to fix them. I take marriage vows extremely seriously. I would never tell someone I would be with them until death do us part, for better or worse, unless I truly meant it.
394880
If you married this person for better or worse than please tell me what happened to that vow. Goodness this is stupid to even think about running out on the person you married when they need you the most//////////
208194
I have been married for right at 10 years and have 2 kids. I want it all the time. My husband is another story though. He hardly ever wants it.
101538
Is your husband the jealous type?\n\nBelieve it or not,I've had 2 different guys ask me this one!!
44129
it depends on your relationship, and how long you've been married.  i know people who have been married forever and still do it everyday.  then there are some people who sleep in different rooms, so there is really no answer.  it depends on how much you are willing to sacrifice in order to keep sex interesting and satisfying for both of you.
907924
First of all punkin, congratulations on 15 years of marriage!  I too have been married for 15 years, we make sure to have our date nights, maybe going to dinner or sometimes just for coffee.  We are a Christian couple.  We will watch movies (not x rated ones mind you) but we do watch secular r rated movies, as long as they are not too graphic.  We do share a bottle of wine from time to time, but never in excess.  I hope this helps a little.  God bless.
446028
I am in the same boat as you.  My husband thinks I'm crazy.  I love it.  He would be one of the ones asking, "On average how many times do married couples do it."  I say who cares about average, man... Let's just do it. \n\n To answer your question...  They say it does.  But I'm sure everyone is different.
782011
I too have been married 15 years.....we have 5 kids...yes 5....I am a slow learner and it took a while to find out what was causing it lol. I know what you mean you know each other so well....and you are right all you talk about is the kids, bills, what you have to do around the house before winter hits all that romantic type stuff lol.\nBut you know what...its really just about having you time...not having the kids around, just the two of you. It doesn't really matter what you are doing, where you go...just have couple time. My wife and I go every Sunday for groceries...I know Yea Haa lol but its just the two of us no kids...no dogs...no cats....just us and yes we usually talk about the kids and stuff...but I really look forward to OUR time together.\nJust make time for yourselves\nBest of luck
511911
what would one of the discussions be? sound interessting im not married yet but am engaged would be great to get insight on marriage before tying the knot
37233
Wow. that is a tough one. It depends on your morals and beliefs. Is the marriage strong enough to handle the consequences? I once watched Dr. Phil and he said that is never a good idea. no matter who wants it or how long you've been married. What do you want? sometimes you have to stay true to yourself.
566941
LMAO...ok I just think its funny...I am wondering if we took a poll of all the answerers..I would bet that most of them that said nothing are either still dating or are newlyweds..Just an observation.\n\nAnyhow..with my hubby I love him the way he is..if there was something I could change it would be little things.  The first being that he changes his mind alot..and since I am a planner that is irritating sometimes to me.  Second, that he would be a little more domestic.  meaning that he helped more with cooking, cleaning, kids,...that sort of thing;  and finally, that he had less of a problem with flatulence.  Do I REALLY have to explain the last one???\n\n:-)
1156498
Happened to me. We have been married now for almost 4 yrs and we have 2 kids.
1181298
I'm a male in my second marriage who married a woman who hadn't been married previously and its worked out great. In fact I'm glad the first marriage didn't work and we have been together 20 years and I would marry her again tommorrow. I'm sure your fiance was just meaning the second time around would be best for himself. Communication and genuine friendship is the key and humor is also very important. We often tease each other in a lighthearted manner. Also we have 2 children whom we are very proud of.