he yelled at me ? hes never done that before.did i really deserve it?
959421
first of all hes too old for you. grow up girl, you got more important things for you to worry about like graduating school first.
900043
YOUR DEFENCE SHOULD BE BASED ON THIS STATEMENT-YOUR HONOUR-I LASHED OUT IN THE HONEST BELEIF THAT I WAS ABOUT TO BE ATTACKED. I WAS A LONE FEMALE THIS IS ALL THE DEFENCE I HAVE TO OFFER!!. you will be fine-trust me.
982243
I don't think this is the whole story. You lost me at the part when you had this huge fight. What triggered it? If you can't identify that, you are asking for trouble. Also the guy drinks, which brings up another problem you're better without. Sorry, but this whole thing sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Good luck.
638309
its not you its him.. he has major issues.. he doesnt think to much of himself so he has to feel like better by belittling you..I think you are much better than having to deal with this jerk.. get rid of him before he totally destroys mentally and physically all your self esteem.. this guy needs some major growing up and a good kick s###t kicking.. he is nothing but a worthless bully.. send him to the curb find someone healthy
763688
honestly, just to see if he could!  and to see if you'd react the way he thought you would.  I know this doesn't make any sense, but that's probably what he was trying to do.\nIf he does it again, totally ignore it.  don't look at him, glare at him, nothing.  that will deflate his ego faster than anything you could say or do to him!\nand don't let this get you down, he's the one who was being a jerk.\nbest wishes to you.
491934
What you are experiencing is verbal abuse, and you need to get out of this situation immediately. To answer your question, yes, it really hurts when people accuse you of something you're not guilty of......but they can ONLY do it , if you allow it to continue.....you sound like a nice person, your self-esteem is a little low(understandable), and you need to get out of the situation you're in, DO NOT continue to let him abuse you! Good Luck!!
730161
I think you are both in the wrong here. He was a jerk, and you overreacted. While you do have every right to be upset here, I don't think this is as big of an issue as you are making it out to be. \n\nSit down and have yet another talk with him. Do not let your temper get the better of you. Calmly explain that you feel that what he did was an intimate act, reserved for couples. Not something to be done for a casual friend, especially since you sat there watching the whole thing. Remind him that he even admitted he wouldn't want a guy doing the same for you. After you've said how you feel, then apologize for loosing your temper like that. You wanted to express your feelings, and things got out of control.\nIf he can't see your point of view, and apologize in return, then maybe it's time he spent a few nights on the couch while you take the bed.
875658
THE SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME!!\n\nBACK OFF---HE'S NOT WHAT YOU NEED
645193
to piss you off. that is what happened to me and i got into a fight.
973893
I agree with Bobounump youv'e probably caused him enough upset. And you need to be careful that getting revenge doesn't start taking over your life.
231465
Sounds like you need a hug. When do you feel the most rage? What sets if off? The fact that you are asking for help is a good sign. Please, seek professional help so you don't hurt anyone ESPECIALLY yourself. Seek out that hug for me.
1147204
well lets see did u do anything that would make him mad, is there a possiblilty he might have felt u hurt his trust?? Think about it!!
415518
YOU NEED TO LEAVE ASAP, HE IS FULL OF CRAP.  IT MAY HAVE STARTED OUT AS INNOCENT TALK BUT YOU CAN ALMOST BET THAT HE HAS GONE FARTHER WITH IT.  GOOD LUCK
609435
I'm sorry he did this to you. Next time, be wary of the mood you're usually in, the messages you deliver to him, and the way you LISTEN
818012
Depending on how much you bugged him, he is probably waiting for you to give him a call.  But it's probably better to see him in person.  That way you can apologize for how you behaved in person.  Remember that people aren't always perfect and if you want something done a specific way, it is best sometimes...well to just do it yourself.
580462
NO! that was completely and totally uncalled for.  His brother had no right to yell at you, and your bf should have done something about it.  If he isn't going to tell his brother not to talk to his gf that way, then he isnt showing you the respect you deserve.  You might want to bring this up with him, or see if his brother does it a second time.  If he does, either you or your bf need to take action (you need to break up with him, or he needs to tell his bro off), because yelling and cussing at you is not acceptable!
567385
During the outburst ( I have been there) I was always wondering what the hell did I do? How do I calm him down? I hope he doesn't hit me, or my children. Oh.. God I can't believe he just broke my Mom's vase. Oh.. NO! don't throw the chair. OMG the chair just missed my head. NO NO not my Tiffany lamp. I am bleeding.. what??? I can't take this any more. As I was on my knees crying, picking up the shattered pieces of my life I was thinking what a jack A**. I hate him. I can't believe he is so cruel. Why does he make fun of me. He is such a bully. I wonder what is he really trying to cover up? What did I do or really what did he do. This was just a diversion to get me away from the truth.  I hope some one beats his A** one day.