I am 22 and I've never been even kissed. What the hell can I do about this?
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Get over this!!\n\nYou're better than to worry about being kissed. So you're 22 and never been kissed. SO? How does that make you less of a person?\n\nThe more you focus on getting a kiss, the more desperate you are going to seem to everyone. You know those friends who always whine about something? Do you know how annoying that is? If you want to chase off a guy FAST, become desperate.\n\nLove life! LIVE life! Don't be so concentrated on what you haven't done. Go skydiving, go on a cruise, LIVE! The more you get out, the more people you're going to meet.
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do you know who you remind me of? ... me! when i was fourteen... i had just the same fears as you, and acted under peer pressure. want to be cool and appreciated, so i did things i regret now. \n\n wait, that's the only thing i can advice you to do. your first kiss should be something for you to remember all your whole entire life. and so should be your first sexual act. guys just want to experience, so don't rush, you might get hurt. but i know you are not really  gonna listen to all those blabla. the only you wanna hear is "do whatever you feel like"  if you choose to do so, ensure that if you get in trouble, you would have someone to lean on. you're 14, and you might get pregnant. isit what you really want? \n\n so yeah, go for your first kiss, but for the sexual things, please please, wait... there's no need to rsh...
69145
Maybe you should consider NOT making out.  But that's not a probable answer.  \n\nI take it you have absolutely no free time on your hands, thus you don't have time to go on a date either...so perhaps you shouldn't have a girlfriend!
724379
okay, i have been in your shoes so i can understand where you are coming from, its not easy dating  a white guy,most times when i and friends go out (they'd stare, smile, wink), they do all that but never approach, 2ndly am still a virgin, am 19 and am in my 3rd year of university..so u know what....take this from me....don't worry..talk to people, being shy can be very good but you need to come out of the cocoon okay (at your own pace) don't mind what everybody says, it's your life.....i saw your pics and your'e a pretty girl so just go with the flow for now......i was also raised to feel the guy had to make the first move,  but you soon realise its a 2 way street (someday your'e gonna feel daring and you'll go for it) just take things easy.....when it comes, it comes..if not go out there and get it (cautiously)......as for having a child like face...watever....it's your face.....if they aren' t impressed by that wow them with your mind.......\nhope this helps......
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I understand your plight. I once felt the same way. It must also be frustrating having everyone say "you're only 13! You have a lot of time!" Well let me tell you I was 13 once and I was frustrated as hell dealing with this problem like you are now. you figure you're not good enough or not as pretty as the next girl. Well let me tell you, the key to conquering these overwhelming feelings is your self esteem. work on building your self esteem. Realize that it should not take a man to make you feel good about yourself. Love and take care of yourself. Everything else will soon fall in place.
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i was 16y/o......yup had turned sweet 16 and never been kissed!...didn't make it the whole way though!  Ended up dating the guy all through hs....good memories but glad i didn't end up w/him.
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Hey stop being silly.So what if you havent kissed a guy yet?? Big Deal ! I think you just being paranoid.There are so many beautiful things to do.Just dont look at all the guys in that way.Wait for your love to arrive.Trust me... first kiss with your love is SO MUCH MORE SPECIAL than with anybody else.And as far as the kiss is concerned if the guy really loves you then he wont care how you kiss...its the amount of heart and love you put in it tht makes it special.\n\nAnd btw, all guys wanna kiss girls !!Guys are alwyas ready to kiss!\n\nchill yaar im 19 and still havent kissed and guess wat?? i dont care.. i dont mind waiting for tht perfect little thing to arrive.Cuz i know for sure it will be special.a first kiss is wat most people cherish forever so its better if its with sum1 yu love right?? you mite think tht im soundin a bit like grown up people but i have realised that its true.and if you fall in love with sum1 REALLY at this age then maybe its hormones so wait.when you are 17 and still love him and picture yourself with him in good and bad times..................HE IS THE ONE!!! GO KISS HIM AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY CHERISH THAT KISS FOREVER.\n\nBest of luck Tamika!!
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Of course it's normal...I didn't have my 1st kiss until I was almost 15...I'm 17 now & never had a boyfriend...\n\nI'm not gonna say I know how you feel 'cause I hate it when ppl say that to me, but don't lose hope\n\nSometimes it can be pretty deppressing, I know, but if you think about it, it's probably just for the best...like they say "The longer the wait, the sweeter the reward" ;)\nKeep that in mind, & whenever u feel upset because of this, think positive...tell yourself that the right person is just waiting for the right time\n\nAs for your parents, be glad that they care enough to talk to you about these things...they only want the best for you & chances are, they know wut they're talking about\n\nGood luck :)
52649
Puh-lease...I've never dated, never kissed anyone, none of that and I'm in college.  Don't worry about the boyfriend stuff.  At some point, God'll bring someone to you who really appreciates you for who you are.  Right now, focus on friendships with guys and girls.  The best husbands are best friends, anyway.  :)
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could be skin tags.If you have never had sex of ANY TYPE.You probably shouldnt worry.May want to have it checked out just to make you feel better.Or type it in and google it for pictures.
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i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
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You haven't experienced enough things yet.  Just take your time and grow up.  No rush!
1137786
Nothing. You're to young. Wait a few years and find someone not related to you.
947229
you my dear are going through the process of growing up. after being a child you have suddenly found the world outside is big and everyone has problems of one sort or another, if your parents won't believe how you are feeling have you another relative you can confide in?as for your first kiss I was 17 when I had mine, and we were married 2 years later which lasted for 35 yrs. till he passed away. you are a very worthwhile person in this world, you seem a very kind and caring person, good luck.
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I know people older than you that never got laid. Why rush. There can only be a first time once. What you have is priceless and you can never go back. Don't throw your treasure away, it's so much better to share it with someone special.
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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 16 (yeah I know it's pretty pathetic).
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whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.