date a guy on steroids? girls?
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Nope. Anyone that insecure about their body is not the type of person I would want to date. Kind of like a woman constantly dieting, taking diet pills, and so forth. Both are insecure about their bodies and are, in general, not going to be emotionally stable. Everyone gets upset. It's normal. Taking things that exacerbate that because you feel like you have to look like a glob of muscle and increase the chance of it are really just unnecessary. I don't find weight lifters particularly attractive, anyway. I want a man that has a healthy percentage of muscle and fat for his height and body structure that cares about his health more than how other people think he looks.\n\nTo the young lady below, that's exactly what kind of person it is. A boy. Someone who hasn't matured enough yet to realize that the only steroids that should ever be taken should be carefully dosed and monitored by a doctor for health purposes. Steroid use and abuse has a number of very serious draw backs and because of this, they need to be, as stated, carefully dosed and monitored.
70044
No one is perfect. I don't really have any standard. He just need to not smoking or do drugs (I'm allergic to any kind of smoke), and have to be taller than me. \n\nMoney is important but it's not gonna make me love a guy less or more. In fact, love grows when you are in financial problems and you stay with the guy to help him pull it through. (personal experience)\n\nCar is not at all important, let alone skateboard and scooter (I think guys on skateboard and scooter are immature). MTA works just fine, espcially right now when gas priceand insurance are sky high. \n\nI date to please myself and my date. Both should have a good time while dating. And of course I would want to be a good dater.\n\nI don't know when my next date is. Probably this Valentines. My bf live with me so it's hard to tell when's our date. We went out to eat everynight. Is it dating ? :-)
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They've got to be funny, for one thing. hair can't be too long... that can get gross! he has to be sensitive, of course, not nervous around you, honest, faithful, ummm as far as looks go, not fat; that sounds mean, but if a guy doesn't have the will power to stay off the twinkies, then he probably won't have the will power to be faithful or make some other choices... i like muscular, tall guys, but i also like the skinny funny ones who are just way too much fun to be with! forget skaterboys and jocks... i like tennis guys! and the ones who really don't care about athletics too much... but don't get me wrong, i do fall for jocks sometimes! i just like it when my guy is smarter than he is athletic
97264
Go to a sports bar and pick the big fat guy sitting with other men talking sports.  Date him.  On dates you will end up on his couch watching old football tapes on espn and listening to him talk about football.  You may not find love...but you'll learn football
442979
You answered your own question.  Have you ever seen "Shallow Hal"?  I'm not saying get a 300 lb girlfriend, but some of the "hotties" out there (OK MOST of them) are shallow because they get anyone they want.  Try chatting - it's great for getting to know personalities before looks.  \nThat being said, when it comes to attracting females, there is only ONE way. CONFIDENCE.  It's the most attractive thing about a guy. Borderline cocky- don't take it too far, but nothing is more attractive than a guy who walks tall, talks easily, smiles a lot, and is totally at ease with himself.  Just do some people-watching - you'll see that the confident guys, even if they're not great looking, get the girl every time.
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just like he said..be upfront and open with whom ever you see ( date ) what your thoughts and feelings are about dating and getting serious or not..\na friendship thing..they will want friend with benefits most do..\nbut again that's up to you to work out..\nand I would like to say congrats..\nhave fun'\nsmile\nand GOOD LUCK
659890
Dude listen, get the book "the system". It works, women love cocky and funny guys. If you find yourself interested in someone, treat them as you would your little sister. It drives women crazy!!!!
482645
Believe it or not some guys are not out just for looks. Now I am not going to lie there has to be a physical attraction. However I have dated some drop dead sexy women who have tried to use me as a rug, and I would not allow it so I got rid of them. I have also dated some normal everyday looking women who although were not model material did treat me  the way I prefer.
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Some of them are worth it some not... U will have to meet the guy really good first and make sure is not a trap of him being nice... In everywhere in the world there are guys worth dating and some others that the only thing they would do is hurt you. So it depends on what guys you meet. But if you are going for a short period of time, i dont really recommend dating..
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lol datz funny...b4 i dated my boyfriend i heard a lot of things about him jacking all the time..like non stop...and sortta being a maniac too...but i am the ccomplete opposite :P ...then we started dating but i knew what i was putting myself into so i couldnt really blame anyone(i mean i knew the guy was a bad boy lol)..i just let him know that i know he is really "into it" but i am not that kind of a person, and if he had a prob with that we could remain as good friendz..he understood and now he doesn't rush me into anything ;) sooo.. if your friend/boyfriend is a smart boy he will understand just let him know.\nGoodluck\nTake care
591311
LOVE FAT GUY'S!! GO FOR IT. ASK ONE OUT.
689758
Get a very good looking muscled male to pick you up after work one day.Or just tell him one day you have deformed breasts & have a real complex about them
205509
It depends on the type of guys your dating.  There are some decent guys out there.  Make sure he is family oriented.
108627
would you wanna date the same guys that those girls are with? there are plenty of guys out there who dont fit into the popular catagory who are also looking for dates...why not check them out ? = )
871903
Don't!! Ego is a huge downfall for guys. Don't date him.
318466
Date lots of men and take it really slow with all of them.  They are easier to sort when you see them a few times before getting serious with them.
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it depends on how well u know the guy