Should I FIGHT for him????????????
970802
Have you just asked him.  Ask him how he feels for you than ask how he feels about her.  Then ask if he had to choose who would it be.  if he says he don't know than maybe you should get some space but don't disappear.  If you can't handle his feeling for her than you should give ur self some time. Don't be with a man who loves someone else.  but if he tells you his feeling for you are stronger than his feeling for her than you stay and fight for him.  He seems honest considering he let you both know about each other, so I think he'll be honest about his feelings for the both of you.  You Know, even when people love each other they do grow apart and even though they have nine years he may not be the same man and may actually be the one for you now.
566613
Don't worry about the cause, just get out of the situation. If you're just dating and you fight, then it probably wont get better as the relationship continues. Sorry, but at this point in your lives, he's not the one for you.
1012283
I know this sounds boring, but just be yourself.  If it's meant to happen it will happen.  It's a logic that comes with age and experience, but if he doesn't like you best in the first place, it's not worth it.\n\nYou shouldn't have to fight for a guy's attention... He should be fighting for yours!
1040843
it's your life you should do what your heart really wants if you want him for it! =]\ndon't let anyone tell you want to do..good luck =]
500649
f*ck him up. He is asking for an ass wh!ppin. I don't believe in violence except when it comes to standing up for my lady. If you can't do it. get somebody who can.
581945
No honey, you should move on.  Trust me, life is too short to devote your time to a man/boy that is going to let you down like this.
530465
GOOD for YOU!! I'm proud of you girlfriend! If he doesn't have evident injuries, you should be fine, nevertheless, you can say you were defending yourself.  \n\nGod will give you strength right now, don't forget to pray; everything will be much better once he is out of your life, don't look back.
1090906
Ok, first off you are going to have to prove yourself to him, he is hurt right now.  And therefore you are pretty much just going to have to wait, but make sure that he knows you are there waiting for him.
389809
be honest cause if you wait you will hurt him alot more.  good luck
54650
Yes.  You are fighting now, so staying with him will not make the fighting go away.\n\nYou don't miss him.  You miss what you hoped the relationship would be.  You will find this feeling in a new relationship.  Move on!
835158
do it. it'd be fun and enjoyable!\njust make sure he doens't get all mad at you k?
181586
This is a very complicated situation. It depends, how much do you like this person? Is it a lot? is it enough to get in a serious argument because of this person? If so, well there's only one thing to do, TRY and get the person back-hopefully though this person is going to have enough feelings for you. If you don't think you should fight for this person, well then you should let it be. Because first of all you guys are not dating for a reason, so deliverate that reason, and think about what you're wanting to get from this person, if it's still there than go ahead. You have to be careful though, because this person may not feel the sameway about you, so I would find out how much this person likes me, before I do anything. Because you can try and fight wit all your strengh but if this person doesn't feel anything for you, or not as much as they use to. Then it's all worthless.
1000026
I want to beat him up right now
575288
fight till there's no fight left in you.. and if things don't work out..  walk away proud knowing you did everything possible..and find someone worthy of you.
570564
It doesn't matter if you like each other or not.. you FIGHT!!  Let it go, Honey, and move on.  Life is WAY too short to spend it trying to be with someone you only have fights with..  trust me on this one.. been there, done that.. and it sucks.
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
242240
Na, move on and have fun, he'll soon comin running if he thinks hes going to lose you!