Is he right to decide depending on my image??
958366
That is such a bad reason not to be with someone after all it hasn't stopped him going out with you as mates and doing sexual things. So why would it stop him from going out with you.\n\nI'm sorry to say that he seems to what to have his cake and eat it. he whats you around but doesn't want to commit. \n\nMove on to someone who deserves your attention and put it down to experience.
327138
let him know .he might be cool with it. honesty is the best policy. but if he says no. then sneek.
250264
If you love him, it shouldn't matter what other people think. There will always be some kind of doubt in relationships and that's fine. If you're not sure about the guy then ask yourself, "Can I see myself with this guy for the rest of my life?".
487048
You should hope that the man you are with has chosen you for more than your looks, looks will eventually fade.  If that is all your relationship is about, try to cultivate something more for the long run.  Be beautiful inside not just outside.
656283
That depends entirely on how your relationship with him. Whats sort of committment are you talkin about. If i were in your place i would go on and achieve what i wanted to, if they guy loves me he would wait.
1055615
No, that would show me that you have some brains in your head.  Or tell him that you will return the favor when he shows you the pictures of him and his boyfriend.  =)
1090585
i honestly don't think you should as long as its only pictures he is taking, i mean why don't you tell him that u are uncomfortable with that, if he respects you he will delete them from his fone.\n(i hope you get the response you want! xx)
545891
Don't do it.  You'll cheapen your image in his eyes.  You will set a very bad precedent for yourself and lose respect.  Sounds like a loser anyway.
919268
None of them are the right one for you. If you are in a situaton where you have more than one choice and all choices look equally as good then none are the best one for you.  The best one will stand out from all the rest. He will be the one who is always winning in your eyes even really he is not better in the eyes of others.
182835
I know I am not always that realistic about my self image. I do believe that when we are on our own though, we really do know whether were full of it or good or bad looking etc. If you know deep down that you are a good person (only you really knows) then continue on as usual. Otherwise if you want, try to change a little. I have some friends that we agree to disagree. In other words, we realize there is no compromise but we want to remain friends.
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Not sure who would have a problem with a pic,guess it is their issue to sort out lol\n\nI do however wonder why since you are a MARRIED mom of 4 why it would matter what you look like *shrugs*
1178209
yes,and she wants to look perfect for him. He is my b/f and I haven't found (the stash he says she has), I don't have any,but if I find them or get some,I will post or put them up,only they WON'T be on the net, they will be ON MY WALL, BY MY BED. I won't share him or his pics...ladies, HE'S TAKEN, AND HUGH, he won't be needing your services or help..I'M the onebunny in his life..He's MINE!!!!
694714
Oh get a grip woman!  He stated the guy is a true friend...not that he wants to bang him.  Would you had been bothered if he wasn't gay and had your fiance's picture on his page?  What diff does it really make?  Lets say he did want to bang your fiance...why would that matter?  IF your fiance is not gay NONE of it matters.  Get over it.
240445
the past is the past...for both of you.  the pictures are in the past and should not matter now, to either of you.  and they should not exist any longer because some things in our past we need not be reminded of.... you did the right thing.
358227
Cauese you have your own opinions and would like for them to count for something. If your going to stay married to him you will have to learn to agree to disagree. He sounds like a selfish person who will not allow someone else to have what they believe to be right...C
258564
Id be bothered too!\nIf he wants that pic, he should be able to get it taken...he might want to have it taken for his son, so his son wont forget about his real dad and wont feel neglected.\nBut its a thing between them.\nThe picture should NOT be in YOUR household, insist on that!
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Don't do it FOR HIM. If you want to go Gothic that's fine as long as you are doing it for you, because You want To!  If he truly cares for and about you he will accept you for who you really are. Have Fun :-)