Whats the best way for a non white male to approach a white female,or some tip on how to break the ice.?
967401
Try to stop thinking of her as white and yourself non white.  Then it will be easier to be yourself, and find out if you are a match to eachother.
724379
okay, i have been in your shoes so i can understand where you are coming from, its not easy dating  a white guy,most times when i and friends go out (they'd stare, smile, wink), they do all that but never approach, 2ndly am still a virgin, am 19 and am in my 3rd year of university..so u know what....take this from me....don't worry..talk to people, being shy can be very good but you need to come out of the cocoon okay (at your own pace) don't mind what everybody says, it's your life.....i saw your pics and your'e a pretty girl so just go with the flow for now......i was also raised to feel the guy had to make the first move,  but you soon realise its a 2 way street (someday your'e gonna feel daring and you'll go for it) just take things easy.....when it comes, it comes..if not go out there and get it (cautiously)......as for having a child like face...watever....it's your face.....if they aren' t impressed by that wow them with your mind.......\nhope this helps......
689264
Now this is interesting- I think you should start with some great pick up lines.. not the usual ones but the unusual ones.. like "Is your dad a terrorist... coz you are a bombshell"... or " Is your watch working, for me the time stopped the moment I saw you"\n\nGood pick up lines and then get introduced to each other.. just dont rush into things otherwise it seems that the guy is desperate.\nAnd then when you end your first convo with her ask for her number and after talking to her once or twice ask her out.\n\nPs: Dont be blunt with any stranger coz that might just turn out to be a very wrong choice.
41522
just be yourself.believe me it works.goodluck
106685
Visit Online Personals that cater to those interested in interracial dating.  You can sign up with several different Personal Sites that aren't specifically for interracial dating.  You only need to state your preference and wait for the messages to come in.  Whatever you do dude, be yourself and don't do anything to embarrass yourself. :) My last girlfriend tried to be "black" and she looked a like a fool. Haha Be yourself!
67867
but when she approaches like that most of the us guys will be too stupid/shocked/confused to give the proper answer.\nso i suggest you start a conversation and see how it goes.don't forget about the body language \nhehehhee
214813
approach her civilized and complement but don't try to hard because nice guys finish last. Dont say anything crazy because you will never get her that way. But humor her, make her laugh. that always gets me.
690103
Start off as friends, introduce yourself and work your way up going slowly. Do not try to be really quick or else she might get freaked out. After getting to know each other start calling each toher and chat.
209310
evidently you both love music.Let your first conversation be about music that will break the ice,as you are talking find out other interest you might have in common.Then take it from there,say something funny every now and then to make her laugh that should win her over.GOOD LUCK!
280764
Women are pretty much the same the world over. Talk to her...tell her you've been noticing her and find her attractive.  Ask her if she'd like to go out for dinner one evening (or to a museum, or someplace where you two can talk and get to know each other).  I would suggest NOT going to a movie or a concert only because you won't really get a chance to talk.  If her culture is one of arranged marriages or dating within her particular religion, etc, she will tell you and there's no reason to feel disappointed.  Nothing ventured, nothing gained. (My man pretty much approached in this manner last year.  It worked!  I just gotten engaged!)
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
69623
Just be yourself. Start as freinds just be nice, but not to nice as to be fake. You have two ears and one mouth, listen twice as much as you talk, chicks love to talk. Ask easy questions and really listen, ask other qeustions based on what they talk about and keep listening. Be clean, do not stink. Brush your teeth, no bad breath. Look neat and put together, chicks are into that and notice. Don't just try to jump their bones, be a freind get close, start dating and it will flow. Remember to be a freind. May the force be with you, good luck bro. xoffice.com
388936
All you gotta do is not be so shy.  Step up to him and say, "Hi." to break the ice and then go on from there.
19280
Pickup lines are lame. What you have to do is have an excuse to make someone talk to you.\n\nHere's what you have to do:  Walk into the room with your hands full of 4 drinks (they have to be closed bottles of beer or malt beverages so that you don't look like some creepy guy trying to give some shady drink).  With your hands full, announce to the room:  "Who needs a drink?"\n\nPass out one or two of the drinks to guys nearby to the girl that you want to pick up.  Then, hand the girl a drink, even if she already has one in her hand, say "here, have another."  If she's at all interested, she'll keep the drink, saying thanks or explaining why she likes another brand of beer better, etc. and you can start a conversation.  Open your drink and start chatting.  If she's not interested at all, pass out the last drink that you have in your hand to another person in the room, then "realize" that you have to go get yourself a drink.  It's a great exit strategy if you've made an ass of yourself, non-threatening to the girl, and instead of a cheesy pickup line you have an excuse to start talking to her.
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Sweet dating advice,\n\nFirst this is how I do it.\n\nFirst date you must kiss her to establish a bond on a econic type level this will make the later dates so much easier to deal with.\n\nWhatever you have to do to get at least this type of intamacy from a woman today since their too worldly now to understand anything other than sexuality.
417927
mayb u shd start by sayin hey whts up! n pretty good race isnt it...n thn go ahead with the conversation abt da race..n frm thr on u'll knw urslf..
1102684
ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.