Men: Are you Thankful for your wives or your girlfriends and do you think?
954941
i am thanksful for my wife
949108
I told my husband that I am so thankful for him. He is a wonderful man, and I love him with all of my heart. I told him to do a good job, and please come home safe. I told him about the kids and how big they are getting, and how we had a picnic today instead of the usuall thanksgiving feast because it is always his job to make the turkey, and I have no idea how now that he is gone. I told him the news in the neighborhood, and I told him about the new PX on base. I told him anything that would make him smile.
1154816
yes, i have been faithful to my wives for 22 years, first wife 18 yrs. and second for 3 yrs. The secret.............i try very hard to be a good lover and they always appreciated it and gave in return, so i never had to look elsewhere to be satisfied, i also am not afraid to tell her what i like and i encourage her to tell me the same in return.
530697
im trying to work our your question to answer it properly so excuse me if im wrong here.\nmen who have wives and need to have girlfriends should be worried that they will be found out. its wrong and they should be concentrating on their marriage. sooner or later he will be found out and have to face the consquences, his marriage will probably end as well.
189944
I think I'd make myself even more willing to accept changes in my life when they were logical, practical and oftentimes necessary. It may be a stereotype, but sometimes I get the feeling that women don't accept change in their lives quite as well as men. In particular, I'm thinking of my wife! But actually that balances out our marriage quite well, because I'm always looking for new ideas to make things go easier in life, and sometimes I jump on the latest fad a little too quickly without trying it out a little first. She is more conservative and wants to wait longer before agreeing to make a change in our lives.
492096
ahm...nothing really...but there was this situation about a man who loves his wife that he did everything to keep his wife fit....but to no avail...she was as sloppy as ever..\n\nhe asked for an advice...i think it's really cool for a guy to be concern about his mate, that he'll take an extra step to help her or improve their relationship..
931263
That's an interesting question! I think responsible men should be caring and thoughtful towards their wives/children. They should try to provide a stable home in terms of income, but I believe women should contribute to this, too (working outside the home whenever possible in order to show children, girls in particular, that a woman doesn't have to stay at home). \nMarried men should be mature enough to not spend too much time with the "guys," concentrating more on their families instead. This doesn't mean don't go out and have fun with male friends, just that there should be a balance between that and family time. \nI believe that men need to provide positive role models for their children and demonstrate to their sons that it's ok to show emotions (what some call their "feminine side")...that it's not a sign of weakness. \nNot trying to be the boss, but allowing that the wife has a right to exercise her authority and place as co-head of household. I don't believe in "lording it" over one's family. \nI believe men need to learn to listen, and actually "hear" what is being said to them. Some men talk too much and aren't used to listening. I don't want my husband to "fix" problems for me, just hear me out when I need to talk about them.\nShows of physical affection...hugs, kisses...in front of the kids is also a good habit to have.
954329
You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
98426
is that your wife or gf in your picture? if you have a wife and girlfriend, obviously you don't love either one of them
604100
How was the rest of the relationship?  There's much more to a marriage than not cheating.  Did you appreciate her or take her for granted?  Love on her or hit on her?  Listen to her or ignore her?  Care if you made her happy or content because you were?  Many things can make a relationship go astray.  Step back and take a look thru her eyes.  \nAnd then there are those that just don't appreciate a good think or know when they have one.  Which one does this describe?
882979
please! lol@men taking care of womens emotional needs ..thats what we   have each other for\n\nof course its physical (if you are doing it right; otherwise it is duty)
365776
I think both men & women are God's gift to each other!  They were created for one another!  We compliment eachother, or at least we should!  Yes, we are different, but opposites attract, and that's a beautiful thing!
682422
It makes me feel so very special, loved, and most of all, appreciated, when my husband helps me with dinner AND the dishes, and spends time talking to me about my job. He tells me how proud he is of me, and how lucky he feels to have me as his wife. He makes sure to acknowledge how hard I work, both inside and outside of the home.\n....And of course, I do the same for him!
445411
I don't know about you, but one day I prepare dinner for 2 at my place, pack it in a basket that I bought for pic-nick that has plates an utensils, choose a romantic setting to go to, in my case was a beautiful lake, pack a bottle of wine and took the girl there.\nShe had no idea what I was up to until the last minute and she was so impressed specially for all the work and detail I had spent putting it all together, my answer was it was all worth the trouble, because you make me feel this way, and that was the honest Truth.\nWell we had some great time together after that, I always came up with something different that came from my heart, unfortunately we had other issues that we could never work out and we no longer are together, but it was beautiful while it lasted.
66196
A great day to remember with our spouse/girlfriend/fiancee ... it doesn't necessarily have to have gifts or a great dinner or sex... though those do help!  The main thing is to have some great quality time with us!
943812
Yes, my wife had two affairs, when I discovered the second one, she admitted to the first one.  She ask God's forgiveness and then mine.\n\nGod's was much quicker, mine has taken about four years, but I am feeling the love she has for me and I for her.  Its the trust that has been the hardest thing to rebuild.\n\nMy mantra through all of this has been..."Forgiving is not forgetting...It's remembering with your mind at peace!"\n\nI have found peace.
538569
I'm great friends with my first girlfriend.  My wife was a little bit intimidated by her when they first met (and I deliberately kept a distance because of that) but now they get along great, and I can call her, go see her, etc., without causing any problems.\n\nOf course, if our relationship had been sexual, that might have made a difference in my wife being able to trust me with her.