I always text my ex-boyfriend, he text back, but he never text me first, should I stop texting?
958915
Maybe he hates texting like I do and would rather talk to you.
378771
It's possible. Don't call or email him anymore. If or when he calls or emails play dumb at first, (ex. Him: "Hey this is Jason" You: "Jason?......Oh, yeah," blah blah blah) That will maybe make him think you aren't as clingy as you may have first let on. It is also possible he just hasn't got around to calling you, or maybe he's not the type to check his email everyday, or your email got sent to his junk mail and he never got it. Either way, if he can't call you back then you don't need him anyways! =)
682345
Since he said it's over unless he has been ignoring you and not keeping in touch, I'm afraid he meant what he has said. If however, he's still keeping in touch with you and you are still talking, he is probably having regrets and want you back as well but don't know how to say sorry.
409062
Why are you messaging your ex boyfriend? I think you are creating drama for yourself. So wallow in it, you deserve it.
458887
I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
173120
it looks to me that you want to text him back, if it's going to make you feel better, then go ahead text him. maybe their are reasons why he didn't or wasn't able to text you and  wasn't able to get back to you that soon, and I guess meeting him up and of course talking in person would answer all the questions that's been humming in your mind for quite some time now. Their is nothing wrong in giving him the benefit of the doubt.
812941
you should've never called him back. he should be the one chasing you, not the other way around.\n\nanyway, no worries... do it now... don't call him anymore. sever all forms of communication. he's just wasting your time and causing unnecessary stress. if he does call you, tell him it's over. the reason being he's an a--hole. to disregard your feelings is crossing the line. if he doesn't call you, you needn't call him to tell him it's over. just keep that thought in your mind and try to move on. call some friends, seek comfort from them, try to keep yourself preoccupied so that you wouldn't have him on your mind.\n\nthen if it's finally official, you can go on dating other guys. you deserve someone better.
1077822
oh.. wow.. first talking in any relationship is key.... I guess you guys didnt talk about ground rules: what will and Wont be cool in the relationship. \n\nFriends are friends thats cool if he has little femmes text messaging him, but the queston is, would he be cool if guys were textin you? Its gotta be equal or its not going to work. You both need to talk about this cause if you cant shrug it off you know its only gonna get worst: your going to read one or many of his messages and find some female is just a little too cutsey with him.\n\nBoundaries you guys needed to create some before all of this: now you Have to talk with him: cause this isnt cool...\n\ndont text a chick back...\ndont accuse him of anything\n\nbe specfic in what you dont feel right about and make him picture if you were in the same situation: would it be ok if guys texting you?
254600
he should be still mad at u after 7 months. i mean 'get over it aready!' it should be safe to call him without him hangin the phone up on u but jus to b on the safe side u should ask ur friend to call him first. same thing happened 2 me (only i dumped my ex 4 his best friend) and my ex and i r still talkin up to dis day
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
261763
Don't call him or text him anymore, if he really wants to talk to you he will call you. If he doesn't call or write back move on, because he has.
1184752
wont you call him up and ask him why he havent been calling you. ortherwise move on!!
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
457835
Guys always wait to call - You problem caught him off guard by dialing his digits back.  He Probly wasn't ready for a voice to voice conversation.  You should have text him back - girls are notorious for jumping the gun - however with that said - chill - wait a couple of days and think of something funny and text him - he'll respond - he probly feels awkward too because the conversation didn't go so well.
914934
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!
855692
I'm not sure if I understand the question. \nAre you saying that you send instant messages to this guy and he doesn't respond and so you want advice on when should you stop messaging him? \nI'd say that if he's ignored more than five messages either he doesn't want to know you or likes keeping you on a string. Either way your friendship is going nowhere. Give up on him and try to meet some new people.\nGood Luck
374513
Seems to me that his not interested and he probably waiting for you too stop calling. Why dont you stop calling him and see what happens