should  i  be with him if i love his best friends brother?
961184
No not if your in love with someone else it simply wouldn't be fair
620759
Go ahead and get him..its as legal as it ever can be..\nAS long as you dont want ur brother-in-law for urself i dont see why there should be any problem..\nIf u love him go get him\nInvite me when u two get married...\nBest of luck
717229
There is nothing wrong with loving your best friend and he being another guy. Or are you saying you want to be in a relationship with him? If that is the case then...Is you guy friend gay? You need to decide if your friendship is strong enough to handle that kind of question. If you two are best friends you should know what his sexual orientation is. If you are "best friends" you should be able to tell him anything right...
319221
If you love him enough, you should ask him out. Who cares what his friends think. The decision is up to you though.
696615
as long as your not dating him... you can like his older brother and he can just deal with it.
581696
i know the question is how do you ask the guy out.. but if i were you i would let him make the move.. if he can tell you like him and he likes you too then he will ask you out.. otherwise i wouldnt take the chance of losing him.. if he is close to your family then he must be a really great best friend.. those dont come around very often
332495
Well, it all depends if he finds you attractive and if his best friend is also.  There would be a great chance for the both of you two to work.
1165948
It really isn't as awkward as you think, its not like you dated his brother, sometimes its just a "small world" I would say go for it. If you guys are in love, then why should you have to seperate because everyone else says it is "immoral"  Love conquers all, and if you were meant to be together, then you will be, regardless of anyone elses opinion. Don't let them bring you down, follow your heart! Good luck!
894956
I agree with Rico, you need to think how much you value your friendship and what could be potentially just a shag. If you have real feelings for your pals sister and want something more, you need to find this out from her and talk straight with him.
708857
Well, you should be able to tell whether you have feelings for ted just by being his friend.. if you really like Justin that's a way to do it without hurting either one of them. BUT, life is too short to be with someone while wanting to be with someone else.. and no offense, but you sound young and if that's the case, you shouldn't be serious about just one guy.. play the field...most importantly.. find out who you are and what you want before you make any major decisions...do you even know if ted likes you? just have fun, enjoy life while you can, and don't hurt anyone unless its unavoidable- hope this helped
726762
well, if you are falling for him and he still has the feelings for you then go ahead. The nice thing about your relationship with him is that you two know each other very well due to the friendship you two have shared.
448590
This is a tough one......Ok you said you like your boyfriend but have fallen in love with his/your best friend. If it is love and I mean real love then you should not have to question what you should do. You just need to talk to your best friend one on one and see if it is really what you think it is.
449086
Your brother is going to find out anyway, its inevitable. If he's really your bro's best friends, you're brother WILL find out. You'll just have to figure that out on your own.
517887
it is hard to say exactly how the brother feels about you, but it sounds as though he likes you a little, but mostly just trying to be nice to you & hook you up with his brother. Would i be wrong in assuming that you have an attraction to the brother, & you want him to like you? I think that if that is the case, then it would be wrong. Even if you & his brother broke up it would still be wrong. It would cause too many problems in the family, so if that is the case, drop the crush on the brother, & stick with the boyfriend, Or leave them both alone.
1023767
talk to your best friend about whether or not she would be comfortable with you dating either of them! on one hand, she probably still has feelings for her ex, no matter WHAT she says...on the other, she may feel like you are giving her younger brother more attention than her, and that may cause a rift in your relationship...my true advice, date someone that has no ties to your best friend, or you may risk losing her friendship forever. boys will forever come and go, crushes lose their potency...but a true friend is something to be valued more than a boy toy.
316734
well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
897738
maybe you are making it too obvious you like him, until you are older then your friends brother is off limits leave the guy alone, he already seems nervous and will lost likely be voicing his opinion to his sister.  \nand at the end of the day she will choose her brother over you think about that before trying to get envolved in something which is so complacated trust me your mate wont want you with her brother, cos she will want yous to go out and meet guys together.