Please help!!!!! My friend has put me in a dilemma.... i need u people's help!!!!!?
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This is an old math riddle.  Mathemeticians and physisists like to refer to absolute zero (Kelvin scale, with no negative numbers), instead of Fahrenheit or Celsius (which are relative to the freezing and boiling points of water at sea-level).  \n\nTechnically, in a relative scale it makes no sense to speak of doubling or halving the temperature.  (If it is 0 degrees (F or C), then doubling or halving would still be 0, which makes no sense.)  \n\nA less scientistic but more human approach is to postulate a base temperature that most people find comfortable.  Let's say it's 70F (21C, 294 Kelvin, 529 Rankine, 17 Reamur).  If today is "cold", it means less than 70F.  E.g., maybe today was 50F.  So it was 20 degrees (F) colder than is comfortable (70 - 50 = 20).  If tomorrow will be "twice as cold," it will be 70 - [2 x (70 - 50)] = 70 - (2 x 20) =  30F.  Quite cold!
616887
That is a very sticky situation. It may work out if you do that.  But it also may end up with them both mad at you for interfering.  I would just be there for both of them and talk it out.  Hopefully with you there listening, they'll work it out on their own.
822425
i don't pick sides, just tell them that they are both your friend, and you are staying out of this argument... so just stay out of it... thats the best advice, don't choose.
770115
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
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talk to both of them, not at the same time.  first try to work things out with the friend thats like a brother.  fix things there before its too late.  then go bacl to your so- called Best friend and talk to her. ask her why she betrayed you. try to work on it. you can still be friends. i just wouldnt trust her as much as you used to
878965
I'm a teen, and have this one friend who thinks he's gonna go out with me in the future, I told him countless times I only do and ever will see him as a friend. He needs to respect your decision. Tell him that a friendship is far more valuable.
1007116
i'm so sorry to hear tht buddy, but i think you know u'r answer..its better to move on...if he was really intrested to maintain the friendship..he would have answerd to you or call u back how much busy he was at tht time....so its pretty clear tht he has changed...as they say..money changes pple...maybe one day he may realise tht he lost a good friend...so buddy...keep moving on.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
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AAhhhh young love, those were the good ole days. Why did they break up in the first place? That should be considered, cause more than likely history will repeat itself and it will happen again. She should back away from both of them and clear her head. It is easy to make wrong choices if you are confused. It's unfair to her and the other person too. As a friend don't try to lead her in any direction, it is not up to you even though you are just trying to help!!!!! It will back fire on you every time and you won't have your friend anymore. Your role as a friend is to  be there when she gets hurt and nurse her soul back to health!  Remember there are so many diseases today, don't rush into anything and if you do make that choice please please use protection!!!!!  When you have daughters of your own, you will give them the same advice!!!I hope your not one of those friends with ulterior motives either...
412058
Go for the one you like the best. But do not lead the other one on. You do not want to cause friction between the two friends.
409860
If you have this sense to reconcile; submit it to G-d. If/when the time is right, your paths will cross. Also, pray for a divine connection. Until then, forgive yourself. Ask G-d to forgive you. And pray blessings on your friend.
128603
If you keep both of them that leaves you with 2 choices. \n\n1) Keep them as far away from each other as possible. or\n\n2) Get them together to resolve their differences. \n\nThis is very risky because in the process you might make things worse. I suggest you first find out what the problem is before you make a decision.
57130
You should talk with your friend about the situation...if you aren't doing anything to provoke the situation then you shouldn't worry but I would definitely encourage you to talk with your friend.
332411
You can't listen to your friend. She may be trying to help, but you have to tell her no. It is your decision...it is your CHOICE. Do what you want. \n\n   To me, your choice sounds very correct. It sounds like you are taking your responsibility. Good job. Go for what you want, not what other want or think.
517242
well talk it over with your friend and if she still has a problem with it tell her tough luck and go for him.
518408
Respect their relationship. Don't interfere in between them whilst their relationship is still ongoing. After all, he is your Friend and you should enforce that point. You just can't go on getting in the middle of their relationship by being the third party. You know that if you do that you will hurt someone's feelings or worse, both of their feelings including yours. So, I suggest that you back off first for the time being. Try looking for someone else. And if things don't work out between the two of them, that;s when you can make a move. But, try not to be to aggressive. Just remember to back away from now. You will need to. I wish you the best.
227086
maybe you just need some time out from your friend, if they have been a good friend you should try and maintain that friendship... be careful about your decision in whether you no longer want the friendship, you could regret it later... like I said time out, you need a break, see how you feel then