please help i m getting worried about my mum?
958466
50 is typically too old to have a baby,and she had her tubes tied. I doubt that she is pregnant. She may be going through menopause, a lot of the symptoms are similar. Also she may be imagining that she is pregnant. I would go to the doctor with her, to make sure everything is ok physically and mentally.Good luck :)
313641
Please remove the very thought that your mother is goin to die. I know its easily said than done. But if you are sad, naturally your mother will look more sad!!! Make her feel happy by doing what she likes!!! What she loves!!! Do not show the traces of sadness on your face. \nI too am praying for her well being!!!\nRemember one thing, your mother is not going anywhere but just discarding this body and going to another!!! All that matters is the SOUL!!! So, she loves you and so do you!!! She is with you and will be with you!!!
1017119
You can talk to your mom about how you feel about her partner.  Let her know you are worried for her safety as well as your own safety.  You can only let her know how you feel and try to point things out to her - you can't make her see the light or get rid of him.
680425
Is there some way that you could get some anti-smoking pamplets and put them around the house where she could see them?  Possibly from school or a community area.  Also, you might try writing her a heart felt letter or writing a page in your mock (pretend) diary for her to find (maybe accidentally leave it open)  You could say something like: I love my mom but I feel that she is killing herself and she is affecting me.  It feels like I can't breath and I am afraid that I will get cancer from her second hand smoke.  Something like this might help.
467070
Be there for her.  Let her talk and talk and talk.  But don't force it.  If you know any of her anniversaries (eg. this time last year mom and I went on hols, this would've been mums birthday, etc.) then mention them to her.  These are hard days and she'll be comforted that you remembered and realise how tough it is for her.  As time passes her pain will lessen and she'll really appreciate your friendship.\n\nMy mum died and even tho she's no longer with me she's still a big influence in my life.  Your friends mum will always be with her too.\n\nEveryone needs a friend at times like this.  Thank you for looking after your friend.
501097
First, Im sorry that you are going through such a horrific experience. However, Your are comforting your mother in the best way possible. Telling her the truth helps her prepare and say and do the things she needs to before leaving this place. Your honesty will let her lay in peace and your love will keep her alive longer warm and happy!\n\nMy thoughts are are with you and your family! xoxox
906570
Oh Kirk - you need to get out of there as soon as you can.  You deserve better.  There is help and support out there. No one has the right to treat you like that.  Are there any agencies you could contact ? And please contact your mom or another close relative or someone you feel you can trust.  I guess you much feel totally alone and scared and adults have not exactly been a source of trust for you.  Believe me you need to get out.  I wish I could help  I truly do.  I am in Scotland.  I am not surprised that you feel so bad about your life.  IT IS NOT your fault please believe that.  Contact someone and get yourself to safety.
349248
Since you are concerned about her behavior I am led to believe that this is a drastic change. So, yes, you should be concerned. She needs to see a doctor as soon as possible for a complete physical. Be sure to document the changes you have witnessed. Write down everything you can think of before her appt. to make the most of your time with the doctor. Your mom is a lucky lady to have you.
699285
Have you spoken to your brothers maybe they could help you. Try ringing kids help line 1800551800 this is a free call from your home phone and the people are trained counselors which can offer you suggestions of where you could get help.  Maybe your mum would be better staying where she is at least that way she doesn't lose the friends she has and you don't lose yours either.  Good luck I hope kids helpline can help
221367
mothers are pretty tough people, especially when its to do with their children, no matter what age, talk to you mother about it and also get the professional help you need at your own GP or hospital.
920607
Sweetheart, you are really going to need to tell your mom. What is happening to you is not normal and your mom needs to make a doctors appointment......
722758
Try and talk to your mum, Tell her how you feel. If you really cant talk to her then write her a letter or an email. Explain that you are only writing to her because she will not listen when you try to tal to her. I am sure that when she realises how sad you are she will change. Being a teenager is very hard the good thing is it will get better.\nGood luck.
1045776
Hi.. I would suggest that you go to your family doctor and let them know of your concerns.  There might be something wrong with her or it could be her imagination... I work as a LPN on a psychiatric unit  but we only have adults here and I don't have that much experience dealing with children but I think that the first step for you would be to get her to you family DR ASAP. \nI hope that everything works out for you.
392281
Wow, I can only imagine how stressful this must be for you!\n\nI think that the psychiatrist will be able to give you some answers.  If there WAS sexual abuse the Dr. will be able to tell--even is she lies about it.  Psychiatrists are trained to deal w/ these situations.\n\nPlease don't feel that this is your fault.  And please don't let the stress overwhelm you.  \n\nBest wishes.\n\nEDITED TO ADD:  In light of your additional details, I'd definately encourage you to just go ahead and take her to the hospital.  DO NOT feel guilty.  And don't listen to her when she tells you she hates you or that you're a bad mother.  YOU'RE NOT. \n\nOK, straight up talk here:  It takes a **** of a lot of courage to be parent sometimes and this is one of those times.  You need to get help both for her and for yourself.  It will be hard and things will get really rough for a while but you deserve a normal life and she deserves to have the most normal life she can have too.  The longer you wait, the harder it'll be.\n\nTake care.
422660
Ask your mother to sit down with you and talk to her.  Don't say "You", but do say "I feel".  Parents know we make mistakes but be sure to apologize, and be open to listen.    If you're to nervous to talk face to face and you're afraid  your mother will interrupt you and not let you get you point across then try writing her a letter.  Please though drop out "you", because we don't want your mother to feel like she's being attacked!
689573
my heart goes out to you miss.a mothers' love is a blessing.did your mum have or do you have siblings. sometimes when we grieve we feel other family members are less sensitive or caring than they should be. this too makes the grief harder to bear.the memories of your mum will lessen and gently fade away, but never forgotten, the cherished moments will be an everlasting treasure.forever. soon you will be in a new stage a new beginning of love and happiness.sieze the moment miss, and devote your time and enery to this new unlimited life.your mum would wish this for your well-being.totally and absolutely. here is a wee poem it used to hang in my mothers'house,our house.it's called  Today, Yesterday has vanished,we only know today,Tomorrow is a vision,forever on the way.The thrill of daily action,the hopes and glories too.Are crowded in the moments that TODAY will hold for you.  good luck.
882599
There's nothing your Mum can do to normalise her heart rhythm, you should not delay but she should see a Doctor to be checked out.  If she is a diabetic, all the more reason to have it checked.