what can i do if i have a crush on someone and my bff has a crush on the same person but my crush like's her
959979
you can't  force someone to love you hon, you will find someone one day that love you and you love god is good believe me
1014542
I understand your problem, my best friend is completly straight and I am bi, when i say he is straight he is. But like you I have  a crush on him and still do,we have and still do go place with each other but I try not to let my self get to close to him. Just be there for her when she needs you but don't cross the line again unless she cross first.
457696
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
534982
find another crush..!
196364
Ask yourself a question. Are you jealous of the crush she has on this guy?  Or is it that you are jealous of the relationship you have with her?  It's hard to share sometimes, isn't it?
261912
It is normal to crush on your best friends boyfriend.  You are around him all the time and you see how good he is with her and you can't help but want the same thing.  Just accept it as a crush and don't act on it.  Eventually it will get easier and hopefully you will find someone for yourself.
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
204588
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.
416826
well don't get in the middle of what the problem is between them let them know that you are there for them both and show your support towards them both that's what friend are for they have the problem with each other don't get in between that just keep your piece and show your support to them both.
1068354
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
1075254
If you're attracted to someone, even if that person is in love with you're friend, you just can't help it! What I think you need to do is see what happens between your friend and the person that you love. If they hit it off, then you should be glad for them, because him being happy should make you happy. However though, before your friend talks to that guy, make sure to tell her that you like him. If she doesn't like him, maybe she can talk to him about you and maybe get you two together!
628291
Okay well first you don't want to look like your breaking in-between them so take a step back and think about things. Don't use things against him that he has done wrong because that looks bad on you. Just sit her down and kind of ease into the question what if. This will give her the idea that you do kinda like her. Then step back and see what happens.If you want to go further just tell her that you lke her, write her a note, tell her that you want to be frineds, but if her and him do not work out that you will be there for her, that you like her in that way, but dont want to interfear with her current relationship.
266100
if you like him then respect his choose to be with the other girl but if you love him starting to be gain his best friend ( someone with talking about his deep problems) & then i wish you luck!
715014
I think you should hang out with both, just at different times, and eventually they might become friends again, you never know, so hang out with both!
393454
its ok cuz their relation isnt good but flirt with the person while the other person isnt lookin if she is your best friend then look good around the person you like the girls have done it to me all the time
549857
Ask her or have one of your friends find out who she likes... if she really likes YOu then she'll dump her current bf to be with you...
219688
That happens alot when you're best friend is of different sex. You hang around every day, you talk all the time, so you start to have a crush. You can like him, but you should be aware that if something does happen between yous, then your friendship may never be the same agian. Though you may be happyily in love forever, if that changes, the friendship could be lost. My best friend is a male, and I never had a crush on him, mainly because I know how he is with woman, so I could never date him. Alot of times, girls wish they could have a guy like their best friend. Just think about what you really want to do, and act on it. You only live once.