Husband wont stop groping me..?
963672
You could try, "fighting fire, with fire", by doing the same things to him in a very annoying way to let him see what it's like. What you're doing is NOT working, so give it a try. What do you have to lose? Every time he comes around, grab at his crotch...not in a sexy way, but in an aggressive way. He'll get the message!
302721
Try to ignore him.  Don't give him any attention, especially when he's trying hard to annoy you, act like you're unbothered.  Eventually he'll get tired of trying and leave you alone.  If he gets physical with you, take action.  Be serious and look him in the eye and tell him not to touch you again.  If it continues, report him to the police (or your parents/principle, depending on how old you are).
77047
He's probably just really tired. Not that I can quite compare with my boyfriend to a husband, but I kinda, well, "bullied" him into it (ok maybe bullied isn't the right word... persuaded?) after awhile things started to go downhill. It caused a tear in our relationship, a big tear. (which is now fixed...) My suggestion would be to maybe go to an adult store for some purchases to relieve the itch. And maybe set up for a romantic night with your husband with warming aromatic oils to give him a body massage, make him a nice dinner beforehand, fix his favorite meal, romance him up and maybe he'll open up a little more. Also consider sitting down to a chat later on. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you!
517201
I wouldn't!  He should respect the fact that it is your body and you do not want hair on your armpits.  The fact that he is forcing you to do so by threatening to not talk to you shows he has a control issue, he wants to feel in control of you and your relationship together.  Dont let him!
853014
Victoria  You are describing almost all guys that want you to put out for them, sweet as can be and prepared to wait  until they realize that you are serious and that you are waiting for a band on your finger a license in your album and a husband in your bed before you cross that threshold  of adult sexual relations .\nQuite frankly I say cut him loose and see  what comes , If he loves you as he says then he will wait and respect your decision . but to me it sounds like he wants your body and that is that . jerk yes  but only a human jerk .
569515
Forget subtlety.  Tell him outright you don't like it and if it happens again you will tell your husband.  He doesn't sound like much of a friend to your husband, and hubby would probably be better off without this jerk for a friend.\n\nProtect your marriage, protect eachother.
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
1105967
is ur man abusing u????
441173
If it bothers you, especially the slapping thing, at minimum, make your objections known to him, tell him it must stop now and documant doing so in writing.  Another alternative would be to file a sexual harrasment complaint.  What he is doing is just as wrong as when a heterosexual male does the same thing to a femal employee or co-worker.
779479
Love is about a two way lane, u get respect u give respect. In order, for you to respect other people , in this instance your husband you need to first respect urself. Man in their own ways, tend to subject women to sccumb to such ways, as they know the weaker sex usually gives in. But be firm, tell him gently you are uncomfortable. He has to love you and your self dignity beyond just your body alone...he has got to realise that his actions will get him nowhere but trouble. I guess, maybe you need to help him out, as it looks like he may have an addiction, so maybe proper counselling may help him get thru this. If you outright reject him, he may in worse situations seek attention elsewhere which may further strain your relationship. You need to handle this with care. Just try to indulge in doing other things together sometimes, and when he brings up x-rated stuff, tease him instead, yet maintain your stand. A healthy relationship, includes good sex relationship, but it should be the be all and end all of it.
916720
Sweetie, just because he isn't physically abusing you doesn't mean he's not still abusing you.  He's traded in the fists for emotional abuse.  That's what he's doing when he tells you he hates you and other hurtful things.  You need to get out of that relationship as soon as you can.  get yourself into some counseling so you understand why you chose to be with an abuser, and move on.  I understand completely where you're coming from, I've been there.  Since I've gone to counseling and stuff, I've come to understand myself so much better.  You will, too.  When you do, it will help you choose a different type of guy.....one that won't abuse you.  I've finally found my Mr. Right, and you will, too.  You just need to get out of this relationship.  Email me if you want to talk some more.  I'm a good listener :)
498473
This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
350927
No, he's suffering from "inconsideration". He gets his and it's done for him. If you hadn't said "husband" i would have suggested you drop him like a bad habit. But since you're married, sit him down and in a non-accusatory tone tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him you'd like to enjoy sex too. Tell him Men are like ovens, they heat up quick. Women are like crock pots, the take some time to heat up. He needs to be attentive to your needs. He needs to give you a little foreplay. He needs to find out what you like and enjoy and then give it to you. Or you might want to consider not "giving it" to him until he gets a clue. Good luck.
1057103
Candles and Hip Hop help me.\n15 yrs of marraige (Awesome sex still)\nLay on your back eagle spr and let him arouse you for 10 min.\nDo not let your wrists or ankles come off that bed no matter what (close your eyes during ), There is something about not seeing it but feeling it .Than let him do it fast & hard Not Slow and Easy!\nOnly when he is playing with you.\nGood Luck!
335244
Get out while you can.  If he's already controlling and possessive -- it's only going to get worse.  Find yourself a better man!
1181850
With all honesty, he sounds like a perv. But this question isn't about that, so in my opinion is sit him down and ask him if he respects you. His answer is key to your relationship, cause if he doesn't then it should end it right then and there. After asking him that ask him why when you take his hand away for your boob, that it somehow finds its way back again and again. Make sure you have a serious look on your face and have a serious tone, so that he knows that you dislike that stuff happening. Tell him that you are a lady and if he respects you then he will not let it happen ever again. But here is another key part, if you let it happen again, then you do not respect yourself, and don't expect him to either. But I give you my best wishes and thoughts.
544421
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.