How can a guy who "loves" me lie for months to me?
960406
He used you. Dump him!
1153372
By this point it sound pathalogical, he lies without even thinking about it and if it goes on much longer he could even beging to believe his lies. It will take time to correct this problem but with the right help you and him should be able to make it through it.
630355
If he do this very often wat i can say is he does not love u anymore. he is trying to stay away from u. Or maybe he is really busy, so maybe u try to find out whether he is telling the truth or not. If he lies then the best thing is to leave him. Only An Advise!!!!
790400
girl sometimes you cant sometimes you think he is but hes not......\nmostly he lies alot like lets you go early everyday to go to sleep and he dont or he lets you go to talk to his girlfriends. or he ignores you. but becareful not to assume because there are some good ones out there.
1091644
what you do is move on and find someone else to love and who will love you back. you dont need to be with someone who is deceiving you.
58044
THIS GUY DOSE NOT DESERVE TO BE WITH YOU ANY MORE .CUZ HE IS A LIER SO THE BEST THING FOR YOU IS TO BE A WAY FROM HIM.HOW CAN SOME ONE LOVES YOU GO AND TALK ABOUT PRIVATE THINGS BETWEEN U AND HIM . I THINK HE IS SICK GUY . THANKS
319520
Be honest. You shouldn't pretend to feel something that you don't. Even though you know that it will hurt him, it is better that he knows how things really stand. Maybe you will never love him, then he will feel hurt AND betrayed that you lied to him too. Do you really want to hurt him that way? Plus if you lie to him, how can you be true to yourself. It is so unsatisfying to live a lie. Good luck
957030
maybe he loves you\nmaybe he is so insecure about himself he has to LIE about you and him...\nask him straight out..if he likes or LOVES you and see what he says..\nif it was me..I would do it in front of his friends and then let him see what he is going to say..maybe have a friend or two with you so they can back your story up..\n\ngood luck\n\nsmile
635258
Are you kidding. I would soooo ask him about it, in person to. Not over the internet or the phone, and look at his face when you are asking him. If he takes a long time to asnwer you, he's lying. But you gotta ask him so u know whats going on.
370435
It really depends upon what he lied to you about and if he has always been someone that can't be truthful. How long have you known this man?  Everyone tells some type of lie, it is not just a man thing.
431759
Insecurity. Self esteem problems. He thinks that no one will like him if he isn't "prestigious". Maybe you could boost his morale. Tell him how proud you are of him, for whatever accomplishments you know of...or just a quality about him that you really like.\n\nI wouldn't necessarily consider this to be compulsive lying..such as an habitual liar..as that's usually a psychological disorder that people who suffer from it really can't help, sorta like kleptomania.\n\nAnyway, if you love him and he's important to you, try and fix the behavior by honing in on the good in him so that he doesn't feel the need to get outside approval and validation based on lies. Good luck.
704166
They don't all lie.  There are lots of guys who are honest.  \n\nJust me, but I figure if it's a little thing, then there's no point in lying about it unless the liar is looking for control, amusement, self-aggrandizement, or is just a compulsive liar.  If it's any of those things, how does anyone possibly trust him?  Without trust what kind of real relationship can you have?  Not much of one, for sure.\n\nIf it's a big thing he's lying about, the fact that it's a big thing is all the more reason to tell the truth!\n\nThe issue is much deeper than lying and it's not something you can fix.\n\nThere ARE guys out there who are honest.  As long as women continue to date liars, they'll continue to lie.
699445
the truth is guys always(some) think the grass is greener on the other side ..they will investigate..if it gets them laid then bonus to them..just assume he's lying ..then its not going to hurt as much..I would move on.. a real man who says he loves you means it..and is true only to you, his love(girl)..your job is to keep your man interested in you.pay more attention to his needs...love and be loved..
425808
there is only one way, talk to HIM yourself and he'll answer your question, HE doesn't want to be a secret to anyone.  That's why HE has already sent ways to prove HE loves you.  I'm not goint to tell you which ways because the proof is when you ask and HE leads you to the truth, then you'll know for sure.
145135
Don't get even, that makes you just like him. The best thing to do is just make sure neither of you is actively mad, sit down, and confront him. Make sure you don't yell at him, just let him know that you know that he's lying to you, tell him you wish he'd spend more time with you, and you wish he'd be a little more considerate. If you still care for him and still want to be with him, let him know that too. If he can't handle a calm confrontation like that, you need think about whether or not he's worth spending more time on, considering he's actively lied to you for three years. Please be careful to be calm when you talk to him, and good luck. Also, remember that even though a little lie like this one might seem insignificant, there might be something under it. Even though it's small, if you want to have an open, good relationship, you need to confront the situation, and not have any secrets between you.
1146101
Please don't use the its not you its me line. It is one of the most hurtful things a guy can hear because he knows it is not true. You should explain your feelings to him. You don't have to be excessively nice or mean just tell him the truth.
412961
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.