I have a terrible problem i think my boyfriend is going with my sister my?
963054
Hi sorry to hear how you feel.  Does your sister live reasonably close to you?  If she does, why not pop around to her house and see if your boyfriends car is outside. Did your sister put the phone down because you accused her of being with your boyfriend, if so she would have been hurt.  Your boyfriend's mobile phone may have been out of signal and not turned off.  Speak to him gently, you will be able to see from his eyes and face if he is hiding something.  There is probably a very good reason why this happened last night.  Either way if you talk to your boyfriend hopefully  his explanation  will put your mind at rest.
307131
You know, I just love the way big brothers love their little sisters! Your sis must be upset, so give her a hug, make her a nice hot cup of tea (well, it needn't necessarily be tea- anything comforting will do!), tell her her boyfriend's a jerk, and try and cheer her up. I wouldn't suggest beating him up, because I don't think it's do anyone much good, to be honest! Just be there for your sister and give her a bit of advice. If she breaks up with him, then stick with her and help her meet some nice guys, when she's ready. If however, this guy who made her cry, harasses her in any way if she breaks up with him, then have a man-to-man talk with him and tell him to get lost. Don't worry; she'll be fine! All the best to you both!
829478
Don't feel bad okay, he is a jerk that why your sister brake up with him, if he is your sister boyfriend he should treat you like his own family, maybe your sister and him doesn't have any feeling or relationship again so don't worry a thing.
801902
me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....\n\n"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...\n\nhy im his gal hear ..darling  im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
786870
She received the voice message or saw the text msg.  Your Sis might want to confront you and her boyfriend during the party.\n\nEven worse humiliate you during the party.
894820
This guy sounds like a typical control freak. However, your sister is getting something she needs out of this relationship. If she wasn't...she would have left. The bad news is she sounds like she likes to be controlled...even just a little. It must be hard for your family to sit on the sidelines, and watch your sister go on this crazy roller coaster ride. The decision is hers to make. The only thing you and your family can do is wait for the outcome. \n\n*Do you want me to send Vinny over and take care of him?
954355
I understand what you're going through. And I hope that you will find something, someday that will make it all dissappear.\n\nAs harsh as I may sound, I don't think your sisters reaction is normal. She is being overly zealous. May be she should have herself checked out also. \n\nAlso, do you fight a lot. Is this just mere sibiling rivalry. Have you tried winning her affection?. If this is not the case, i suggest talking to your parents about your sister, and she might want to visit a behaviour consultant.
985130
No, he shouldn't brake up with you over this, but you do need to repair any damage that might have been caused between you and your sister. Sit her down, apologize to her, and ask her if she could give you guys a little more alone time together. I'm assuming she's younger, but she might just be reasonable about this. \nRemember friends will come and go, but she will be your sister forever.
932667
i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off
490121
You should tell your brother that you don't mind helping him but he needs to give you gas money and carry his own bags in he bought it he can carry it! He is taken advantage of you and the more you do the more he wants so stop! tell he you love him but you will not do this anymore he is a grown man! That your his sister not his wife, not his slave.  If he wants you to help by driving him to the store he can pay for gas. And he should be carry his own thing to his apartment maybe you could carry the liter stuff but he should be carry his own things! And he should be buying you dinner or something and thanking you for all your help! Your a good sister but don't let him take advantage of you no more put a stop to it you have your own life!
201295
I think it's fine as long as you keep things separate.\nThe problems may start if you tell "him" "I can't get together with you tonight, am going out with your sister" and vice versa.\nI know of a couple of relationships like this and they never have issues.\nGood Luck.... you only live once
547507
yeah dude thats totally wrong. u will get in trouble if either of them knows the truth than u r a goner man. so try to stop the attraction towards ur girlfriend's sister.
99431
just be there for her and make sure she knows she is not alone she needs to see good in herself and a good friend usually can help i used to be that way untill i found a few really good friends that showed me i belong and i was important i fit in and from then on there was no stopping me of course i still see alot i don't like about myself but i see alot i do like now too your boyfriend should apriciate the fact that you want to help his sis besides if things get real serious in your relatinship it is good to be friends with his family just talk to your boyfriend and don't blow him off but he should understand somtimes a girls night out is what is needed be honest and open all of this could bring you closer together
1019812
honestly. my family is the same way. its not so much that noone dates, its just that to my parents its taboo, and my sister well, shes an idiot. best advice i can give you. she doesnt need to know. believe me. ive been there, and ive done that. she might not get mad... but she might treat you like an idiot or something. there really is no reason she has to know. unless you are dating this boy... she doesnt need to know. even if you were dating him, dont tell her till its serious. but if you feel the need you MUST tell her. just drop it casually, dont make it a big deal, cuz then she will.ask her how her day was... then just say "oh hey, i like this boy", or "oh, guess what? turns out i have a boyfriend now." something casual. if she blows upp, and gets mad, then your gunna have to deal wiht it. because thats what girls do.. they date. and if your sister cant deal wiht that.. then she has some problems. best of luck. hope i helped.
287223
stop trying to convince yourself, ok you did what you did before but still that is your sister. if you want to give him booty go ahead. cause you probably will anyway. you are still sprung girl you gotta shake it off. he is only a man or boy. spend time with yourself get your mind right .go out meet new people.
363922
you are 16 and he is 13...you are still both babies but your sister and friends are jealous.  why can't they be happy for you?  you know your boyfriend's boys are high fiving him every time they see you with him...ignore what other people say and get used to it, it doesn't stop when you get older, believe me.
821881
You are definitely not wrong. Sounds like your sister has some major issues and you have every right not to like her actions and attitude.