During sex i come too quickly, often less than a minute, and it wasn't like that b4.  Any solution?
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You can use some desensitizing creams, found in adult shops, but for me what worked was thinking of other things, making out more (and not rubbing her or me) or just cumming and then lasting more the second time around. After that first cum you can concentrate on her, make her enjoy more, and by the time you are ready again she is hot and willing.
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Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
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Ejaculation of this type is an obvious anomaly.\n\nPossibly hormones out of wack on account of stress or past pattern of excess sexual stimulation.\n\nYour system likely debilitated. Get busy see your GP, may need an endocrinologist evaluate your situation.
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well to be honest it could be one of two things, i am not to judge and dont know u 1: ur not well endowed,sorry  but thats my problem and i have had this happend to me b 4 ur not the only one and 2: not enogh foreplay or to much, just got to take ur time talk to them and tell them how good they are, and remember oral does a great job for orgasms for women, also toys which i have never used might help some,
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well in my experience I can become aroused and quickly finish , but if I hold back at the plateau point and steady myself I can maintain arousal indefinetly and now in fact I sometimes can't orgasm ..so that is frustrating..I have faked orgasms before soley because I was tired from pumping..anyway I would say average guy yes and the more inexperience the shorter the time he will last..good luck with that..you can learn techniques that you can use to help him..
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Sadly about 20 minutes.  I envy your hour and a half but i can see where that would get tiring.  Have you tried having a quickie somewhere where you could get caught?  That should speed him up.
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Do not masterbate so much, its not needed. You need to be able to control when you come/climax, if you masterbate you teach yourself to come/climax with the thought of sex or thoughts of being with a woman. The more you masterbate more difficult it will be control yourself with the real thing. Look at it this way the average guy comes in 3-4 minutes the average woman takes 6-8 minutes your already behind the eight ball. Why decrease the change of pleasing her (the real her that is). The bottom line is the more you do yourself the faster you will come during real sex. If you come to fast she will not be back.\n\nSounds to me that you are a canidate for this site:\n\nhttp://www.herbolove.com/solution/survey...\n\nMasturbation is a part of life and our sexual practices. However, like most things in life, too much of a good thing can be bad. Excessive masturbation can lead to symptoms like stress, fatigue, and memory loss. In extreme cases, sufferers fall into the pitfalls of impotence and hair loss. Any of this sound like you?
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I can only speak from my experience, because for a while I would cum too soon and that was not a good thing if you know what I mean. I tried one of these products and they did deaden the sensation and that helped me complete the act longer and to her pleasure more. The only problem I had was sometimes getting a rash, which made my groin a little sore but not too much, and some itchyness. But it was worth that to have more satisfaction and less embarassment.
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When having intercourse, men generally will climax before women.  When you feel your climaxing too soon, slow down and tightly hold the base of your penis, that will stop the urge to climax. When the urge stops let go of the base, relax and start over.  \n\nIt takes time to fine tune the love making process, but it can and will be done with patience and practice.  Don't be embarrassed, at least you're asking questions and getting answers to help you become a better lover.
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If your question is about finishing too quickly when you are with a girl, there are two easy solutions.\n\nFirst wear a condom, which unless you are in a monogamous relationship with someone you know is healthy and want to have children with you should be doing anyway.  It will make prevent you from feeling as much, and as a result you will be stimulated less, you will take longer to reach orgasm, and will last longer.\n\nThe second is to do what Adam Collrolla refers to as “taking a bullet out of the chamber.”  Masturbate, or Give yourself a bit of that good loving a few hours before you intend to be with your girlfriend, it takes the pressure off, and makes things last longer and makes it more enjoyable for both of you.
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There may be a medical problem and it's always best to see the doctor as early as possible.  But in general, as men age it takes them longer to ejaculate and they don't recover as quickly.\n\nTo shorten the process, you might want to try finishing him with a hand job.  Use a lubricant and he shouldn't complain.
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Hey it happens...men are pretty sexual beings and they are lucky to have the ability to have such immediate responses...sometimes. Try to get him to slow down...spend some more time focusing on you and your body..and giving you pleasure first...then take a minute before letting him do his thing. As a man he is really in tune with the sensation of about to reach climax...get him to realize this and he,,or you can stop it grasping him right behind his testicles and apply some pressure to that area until the sensation subsides. It will take some practice. You need to apply the pressure to the underside of the penis, pushing up and in where the testicles are up against his body. This is an ac-cue pressure point that relieves sexual tension. After trying this a few times in a session your partner should find that he can last longer, and won't loose his erection. Another trick that works, but not as practical is to have him masturbate about 20 min or so before sex then he should have better staying power. Good luck and have fun!!!
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This is called premature ejaculation, and is a very common problem for guys under 40. If you can last at least five minutes, then some of the techniques and advise in the first two articles linked should be able to help you. \n\nHere are links to articles about this topic. The last article, from emedicine, is rather technical.
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Maybe you are waiting too long before having sex.The more you have sex the longer you should be able to go before you ejaculate.As you get older and more experienced you should be able to go longer.Don't worry,a lot of men have this problem,you're not alone.It should get better with time and experience.Good luck.Actually I like jonnyboy's answer.
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If your question is about finishing too quickly when you are with a girl, there are two easy solutions.\n\nFirst wear a condom, which unless you are in a monogamous relationship with someone you know is healthy and want to have children with you should be doing anyway.\n\nThe second is to do what Adam Collrolla refers to as “taking a bullet out of the chamber.”  Give yourself a bit of that good loving a few hours before you intend to be with your girlfriend, it takes the pressure off, and makes things last longer and makes it more enjoyable for both of you.\n\nIf you are talking about something else – you will need to be more specific.
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It depends on how you're trying to make her climax.  Some women respond to different stimulation in different ways.  Ask her what she likes, so you'll know how to get her there faster.
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ok  premature ejaculations  can  be  phyysiologic or pathologic well but in most  common cases its because hes new to it so by time he will hold it longer  there are so  excersise you both can do to  make the impovement  faster like prolonging the foreplay and like u masterbating for him and befor he feels like  ejaculating u should  stop give it a  30 sec  rest  then start again ,,,,,........