I AM in SERIOUS NEED OF HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! I cant deal anymore!?
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I have a similar situation in the past.  Not exactly the same but similar.  \n\nI told my man to get his b**t out of bed and help me around the house.  Some days I had to almost drop kick him to get him to help.  \n\nIf he doesn't want to help and his family lives close by, then call and ask them to help you.  It will embarrass him so much that he wont want to stay in bed any more.
1065913
I'm sorry that you are having such a bad time. You deserve better. You would be wise to visit a therapist to see why you are still with this fool. You should also visit an attorney to explore your options. In all likelihood you will be better off without him. Oh and as for God he's always listening. Just pray.
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Go back to your therapist. Also look for a single-mom support group near you or online, (email me if u want!) Trust me girl I know from the bottom of my heart. My ex husband ASKED me for a divorce while i was in school. But I pulled through, we struggle every day but I thank God for my true friends that have held me up. If you are suicidal you definitely need to talk to someone. Biggest thing you can do is make it an absolute priority to take time for yourself. Put the baby to bed a half hour earlier and go take a bath, turn on a workout video, chick-flick, whatever, have a glass of wine, paint your toenails...anything you want as long as its just for YOU. Remember a happy mom makes a happy kid...NOT the other way around.
1002864
I agree with Angelina. You need to speak to a counselor or therapist as soon as possible. If your parents won't take you or cannot afford it, at least find a teen support group.
989495
You should speak to your guidance counselor and get help from outside of the home cause it seems to me that no one wants to pay attention. good luck and get help fast
576674
Please seek for professional help!!!!! You must see a therapist immediately!!! I hope you get well !!! Good luck with your therapy!
348124
I would seek professional help before it gets worse. You are possibly experiencing anxiety, stress or a combination of both.Counseling might help . Good Luck
828566
nah try calling 1800 lifenet to talk. you may need therapy from the doc. try online therapy as an option such as metanoia.org or asktheinternettherapist.com. i'm willing to talk to you at dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. been theer with depression. try beliefnet.com which inspires. try holisticonline.com which helps me to deal with stress. walk and do music. seek therapy. write down your emotions.
629030
u need to find some help b4 u get in a big problem
655330
I'm so sorry you're going through this.  For 17 you sure are mature!  Hun, go to www.na.org  That's the national site for narcotics anonymous.  They have links there and help for family members of addicts.  Don't hesitate to contact them, you'll find the help you need!  If you situation is dangerous then you'll have no option but to call the police or talk to your school principle and get help immediately.  Big hug and much luck!
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I would say,a lot of counseling and possibly some medication to get you threw all this.You will get through it,But you wont ever forget it. Prayer helps too! and I am so very sorry for what you have been through,I have had some of the same experience's as you have.Hang in there.You will survive.We are women hear us roar!!
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I feel for you,  you sound like you are going through a terrible deppresion.   Im glad you are seeing a counsellor.  hope you continue too.   I think you need a prescription from your doctor though to help you through this.  It is so sad all the trama you have been through in such a short time.   I am not preaching but I will definetly say a prayer for you I think you might need help from every angle.   Do you have a spouse or family to talk to?\nCrying is normal but not continuous and sleeping that much is not good for you either.  You are going to have to try very hard to face this and hold yourself up and believe you can do it!\nI have had times like this and you need to get interested in something even if it is on the computer you might be able to reach out to someone else.   Please try to discourage the suicide thoughts I know it is hard but there are people who need you somewhere and that is very final.  I want nothing but the best for you so please keep in touch and let me know how you are making it through your days.       \nLife is Beautiful hon.   keep your head up and spirits higher.
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You should find some adult who is unconnected to your family, School counselor, head teacher, ....\n\nTell them exactly what is going on and ask them to help refer you to the proper agency in your area who can deal with this.\n\nTake action now, or you face being traumatised to the point of lifelong discontentment.  Take action now and take pride in the fact that you had the courage to stand up for your rights.  Take action now and recognise the depth of emotional resilience and strength you have.\n\nDo you see where I'm going with this?\n\nTAKE ACTION NOW - TALK TO SOMEONE
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You could consider counseling. It sounds like you ARE suffering from Depression, and it is effecting your life drastically. please find a therapist to discuss things with, and they can help you start putting the pieces back together. \n\nNo one else has the answers for you, but people can help guide you. In the end, you have to make your own decisions for your life - but not until you have the coping skills to handle stress and depression.
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You need to seek counselling for all of these issues at once. Print off this question that you wrote and take it with you. Then, your therapist can choose which order to deal with what issue in. Good luck. The good news is that if you took the time to ask this question, you are ready for some help. Talking to someone whose objective is great and nothing to be ashamed of.
517883
Oh My God, that is a terrible and sad story. I really wish that I knew what to tell you or at least had some good advise. Being kicked out of my girlfriends house just a few months ago, I can relate to some of what you are going through. You will have hard times and sadness for a long time no doubt. But believe it or not, it does get easier as time goes by. That does not help you right now I know, and for that I am also sorry. There really isnt anything that I can tell you or that anybody can tell you really that will ease your pain and suffering. But for sure you need to keep your head about you and do whatever it takes to get you and your son through this horrible time in your life. I can be your e-mail pal/friend if you want, and again I wish I had some quick-fix remedy. Keep your chin up. (smile)
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It sounds like you are in a Co-Dependant relationship.\n\nThere is nothing you can do for him, only he can fix himself. \n\nWhat you can do is change how you react to his problems.\n\nI suggest you get counceling to find out why you have set yourself up to live with this misery. Get help finding YOUR coping mechanisims. Learn what his triggers are and figure out if YOU can live with them. This situation isn't about him. It is about you and what it does to you. \n\nAlways remember this, if you are not healthy, happy and wise, then what can you have to offer to those you love? Always take care of your mind, body and soul first and what follows is a healthier interaction with those you love.