Why do I feel so gay talking about yaoi?
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Well, yaoi is a fantasy created for and by women that is nothing like how actual gay men act.  \n\nBut still, some people just see the two guys and think 'gay' :)
369859
Dude, you know what this means.  You're not an idiot.  You're gay or bi.  If you want to get f*cked in the a$$, you have my permission to go forth and get f*cked.  It seems like you really want it, and it is probably going to make you happy.  Go forth and enjoy the world of gay sex :-)
1131002
You focus mainly in the manly part. You like giving pleasure to others, and if they are the 'forbidden' kind, better, right? You feel you can conquer any man, even if they consider themselves 'straight', that makes you feel strong. Just be careful...
959875
Hi there. I agree... these people answering can show more respect towards u as an individual! Man ppl... it's just a question... ANSWER IT!!! Anways, I read ur question and personally, u maybe have a tendency to lean towards bisexuality... however, since you didnt mention ur age or anything, it might be hormones. I do believe no matter your sexuality, people need to show 'respect' & 'dignity' (as these p-r-i-c-k-s didnt), you need that! It doesnt really matter on ur sexuality, I personally do not think being bi or gay is morally right, but it is a choice ppl make. I hope this helps u and i hope u find out more soon!!!
622467
Honey,\n\nIt's not that you are gay.  Most people use gay as a synonym for quiet (Beta in anthropological terms if you would) and attack bois that they perceive as weaker than themselves, in order to build themselves up.  This reduction of the humanity of other males perceived as weaker than the self dates back to ealier times -- when commonly the males of a victorious army raped the losers, not because they were gay, they weren't -- but rather because it demeaned those raped and clearly demonstrated their dominance (it is the same mentality that prevades prisons).\n\nYou are not picked on because people really think you are bi or gay -- though you happen to be, most of those who call you a faggot would be extremely surprised to discover you are actually homosexual.  You are picked on because you are thought of as weak.\n\nPity those who do this.  The fact that so many males of our species have not evolved past that point is truly pathetic.  Be yourself, and don't worry about hatred of fools.  If you need to talk to someone, email me at believeinyou24@yahoo.com . \n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org
422671
Is it a problem with your sexuality or a problem up in your head. If it's just your sexuality just dare to explore new things such as Homosexuality or if it's a problem in your head then speak to a psycologist or some other person like on a help line. Whatever it is i hope it is just a phase you are going through because we all go through phases in life and yours is probally just one of thise things that might pass over... Good Luck
344685
I think I owuld be slightly worried by that to be honest, he's either very unconfident about his body and manlyhood or is a closet homosexual.... talk to him about it!
625820
it feels good.. a gay person is still a person!  they aren't any different except fo their sexual preference!  one of the things that i've learned about the ppl in the gay community is that they are the most open, caring, compassionate ppl out there!  they don't judge ppl because they know how it feels to be judged!
828569
Dude, really try and get some help.  You clearly have issues that need attending to.  If you're gay or not, this silliness isnt healthy for you.  Not passing judgment, but clearly this is a cry for help.
989617
why do i get the tingling feeling that you are a guy?\nbut giving you the benefit of the doubt, i'm exclusively lesbian. no penis is coming anywhere near me! :)
431004
Golly...you boys certainly do have wild imaginations!  For the record, if all of us women were as homosexual as you think we are/want us to be, we would never have sex with guys, so you should probably get over it.
913527
What does this have to do with being gay?
1081867
At times,  especially when you are younger, you don't have control over an erection. If you don't have feelings for men then I doubt you are gay. Although you may have been embarassed at the time, it doesn't mean anything. You may have been excited or had a rush of adrenaline from a game or practice. When I was 15, I would be sitting in Math class doing algebra and things would "pop up" for no  reason.  It's normal.
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I feel better around gay guys, but I'm a chick so a gay chick would like TOTALLY gross me out, like omgsh that would be so wrong. But I dunno, since I'm a girl I would feel more comfortable around a gay guy. \n  But it's still wrong
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NO it doesnt make you gay , but in all honesty I would try it ! WHats the worst that can happen ? And in all honesty do you want to wonder what you are missing out on ? I personally used to feel the same way . I have kissed girls and fooled around a little bit with them and I know I am not gay , I have a wonderful boyfriend who I love sometimes its just fine to be with a girl !
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If you have any type of sex with men, you are gay.  If you wear women's clothes, you are a sissy but not gay.  Whatever the case, if you're not hurting anyone - DO WHAT THE F*CK YOU WANT AND DONT' WORRY ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE MAY THINK.  free yourself...
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Is this a case of striving for the "easier" option?  From your question it seems like you recognise that you ARE gay but would wish for the "simplicity" of a "normal" life. Fantasy can be all consuming, but that doesn't make it REAL. \n\nI would certainly advocate your seeking counsel - to get at the root of your depression and loss of libido.  I wouldn't go so far as to tell you to look to becoming "straight", however.  Should that be the outcome of your treatment, so be it. \n\nYou are what you are: gay, straight or somewhere in between.  Once you both know and accept yourself (and your sexual orientation), you'll be able to move forward with your life, enjoying the journey into old age.  Moreover, you'll look back at this dreadful time and draw so many positives from it - Pride in having survived, emotional resilience and the tools to not only look at life but LOVE IT & LIVE IT!\n\nMy very best wishes to you, in finding your answers.