What should you do if you are not ready for marriage but your girlfriend insists that you should...?
953994
you are not selfish and don't be pushed into it, if you're not ready then it isn't right for you or her. be honest with her tell her she's the only one for you and you love her but just not ready for that big of a commitment. she wouldn't like being pushed into making a big decision like that either and lets face it if you have to force someone into a commitment then that says an awful lot about your self esteem and trust issues. wait until you are both ready, your marriage will be better for it.
523316
If you are not ready, or everything is going too fast, sit down with them and explain how you feel. If this is too hard to do, then you are not with the right person. If the person loves you he/she will understand and wait or slow down. If an argument starts, then you are not with the right person.
993034
if he told you he wasn't ready for marriage then he was very mature to inform you of such. trying to apply pressure to him to make him do something never works. i would advise you both sit down if possible and talk things out
1050721
If the girl is unsure, then she should ask the man. If she is still unsure, then most likely the marriage is not meant to be.
239596
Consider that if you stay with her and get married a year or two down the road, you are going to be henpecked. Sooo...if you want to be happy, leave and find someone who respects you more than she does.
327149
Well, I honestly don't think you're prepared for marriage, because if there's room for suspicion or doubt, then it's not true love. If you honestly wanted to marry him, you would do the best you could to tell him you were sorry, and weren't really thinking. Then I would give yourselves more time to grow closer together until you have no doubt that you, and ONLY you, are the one he wants to be with for the rest of his life.
653278
Break It off.  If you are unsure and she won't wait then you should break it off.  It is not good to go into a marriage unsure of your feelings.  If your to-be wife won't respect your feelings then maybe she isn't the right person for you.  Better to end it now then find out in six months what you already knew.
218488
I am not married, but I wouldn't stay married out of convenience. Instead, I would try to make the marriage work. I would try to identify exactly which of my needs (and my partner's needs) are not being met and how to fix them. I take marriage vows extremely seriously. I would never tell someone I would be with them until death do us part, for better or worse, unless I truly meant it.
495797
maybe,that girl you proposed is not yet ready...
527143
well, are you married? b/c you shouldn't have sex until you're married. also you sound doubtful. and if you don't know if you're ready to have sex, you're not.
638347
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you've realized you are not ready to jump into a relationship. We all miss-judge and make mistakes, he should understand that you were confused. I think he would appreciate your sincerity.
154557
what do you mean by "you are not satisfied"? If you have doubts about getting married , then postpone it and talk with your girl. If you are having concerns whether your fiancee is the right woman for you i would say thats a major issue and you definitively discover which are your feelings and what makes you really happy. Good luck
337275
Well you have to talk to him and find out why he is not ready to get married. If he gives you some bogus reason then maybe you should look to move on. When you first met him and you talked about futures did he even mention marriage if not, or if he was opposed to it back then, then you are in a situation that you already knew you would be in. if not, then you really need to find out why he is not ready!
960553
You should treat everyone with respect. \n\nYou may not be ready for marriage yet, but he may be.  Have you considered whether he might be the right husband for you?\n\nIf you decide he is, don't let him get away.
1176928
Your girlfriend is saying that ultimately she don't see herself settling (get married) with someone outside of her race. You must decide if you are willing to tolerate someone with such views, AND if you must judge her level of seriousness about the topic and whether she can be swayed to look beyond your skin tone. \n\nRegardless of how much we love someone it is important to realize that there is nothing that we can do if they are not willing to work at making the relationship last.
981752
Don't get married if you're not ready!  You don't have to be married to raise a child.\n\nAlso, I think you should seriously sit down and talk to your boyfriend about going home.  You're young, you're having your first child, and you need to be around your family.\n\nI really hope everything works out for you.
892303
That you are not ready. If he can not accept that then you need to move on.