Why can someone tell you that they love you for weeks, and the next nothing at all!!?
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it will take you some time to get over this person but you will trust me.  they are obviously emotionally imature.  on some level they likely do love you, just don't really understand what real love is and throw the word around without understanding the reprecussions of what it may do to the person the say it to.  could be a serial commitmentphobe or just an immature person who has no clue what they are doing.   be thankful to be out of it before it has been months or years.
980579
He loves you,cant you people understand that..
820231
Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
858391
You haven't been very specific with your question! You like someone and want to let them know? Go right to them and tell them! They can't read your mind...can they. Forget the little things...\n\nOR if you are already in a relationship with this person, surprise them with little gifts, little notes where they don't expect it, a loving card, and of course an I Love You every day...
397693
chances are if hes telling people that he likes you.... then he still has feelings for you. Hes probly just denaying it to your face because he doesnt think you like him and he doesnt want to get rejected by you again.
57611
someone u love.  it makes it more affective that way.  it shows that you care for that person the same way they care about you.
534070
They start acting distant.  They pick on you.  They are impatient with you.  They try to minimize the significance of your relationship.  It's a hard thing to see because you don't want to face it.  Just start working on being good to yourself and not blaming yourself for their loss.
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"Love" after 2 weeks?  No way can love develop that quick.  \n\nWhen he tells you that, you can reply "thank you" or "I have feelings for you too".
1121556
most likely he is in love with you , and wants to know how you feel befor he tells you i love you
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
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You never will.\n\nWe never truly know if anyone loves us, hates us or exactly how they feel.  We only know what they tell us (which can be a lie) or how they act (which can also be manipulation).\n\nHowever, a good start is when they hang out with you a lot and don't do things to hurt you.  That would probably be an indication they like you.  As to how to know when they love you...the former answer is correct...when they say they do.  But you can never truly know, sadly.
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It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
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Just always be there for him.  It's the best move.  If someone's in love with someone, he usually don't see other people/things.  You can't really force him or attact him to give his attention to you right away.  Just being with him would make him more comfortable with you and hopefully sooner, he may fall for you.
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im sure most people would say that he really doesn't love you and move on or find someone new. but think about this: maybe he's just not very vocal about his feelings. there's a big possibility that he does love you he just prefers to express it in his own way. but if it really bothers you that much that he can't say it, it's probably best that you tell him how you feel.
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Yes you can.... and no, it is not something that happens to everyone because not everyone has been in your shoes.\n\nThis is probably happening to you because you ARE in love with him. Does he know how you feel about him? Do you feel like he needs to know? How does he feel about you?\n\nCould you be feeling this way because you were/are hoping for more? And maybe you feel like more could have been said or done while he was there? \n\nCommunication is the key Hon.\n\nJust a few things to think about
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he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
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Someone's ability to love you is not about you.  It's about them.\n\nGod doesn't love any of us because we're great.  He loves us because He is Love.  It's not about what we deserve or how worthy (or graciously, how unworthy) we are.\n\nOther people will love you because they can.  You have to work on getting to the place where you can let them.  It won't do you or them any good unless you are able to receive it.\n\nI have no idea what D.I.D.W.T.H is, but PTSD sounds likely to me.  \n\nCOUNSELOR, COUNSELOR, COUNSELOR.  I know it seems like we're stuck there, but you need someone to help you.  You deserve someone to help you.  PLEASE, let someone help you.\n\nI've been there.  I'm not there anymore.  There is hope.