Should i leave my new boyfriend for the past 2 months for the guy i went wit a while ago???
967831
IF HE WAS YOURE EX THERES A RESON WHY HE MAINTAIN THAT TITLE. IF HE WASNT THEN HE WOULD BE A PRESENT. REALIZE WHAT YOURE HEART WANTS. IF YOU BROKE UP ONCE WHAT ARE THE CHANCES THAT YOU WANT BREAK UP AGAIN. ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT, BECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONE THAT GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE REACTION. .....GOOD LUCK
439997
Been there done that--both options.  Choose what you have.  What you had before didn't last for a reason.  It may feel thrilling but that sure as hell doesn't last.  You call him an ex-mess for a reason and the guy you are with deserves more respect than that.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
1129520
I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
740771
i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.
1101672
Well, I was about to answer your last question and it sounds like you're not sure about what you want.  You have a new BF yet you still love the old one...this will not work out and not only will you continue to get hurt you will likely hurt the new BF as well.  You have to make a decision and stick to it: either let new BF go to try and pursue old one, OR move on and learn to live without old BF...good luck.
526306
break it off and find someone new
566938
that depends does he luv u 2? if so, go 4 it. if not move on and find someone else.don't hold on 2 something that is not gonna benefit u.cause it will only hurt u n the end.
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
664254
FIND SOMEONE NEW FIRST BEFORE YOU DUMP HIM SO IT WONT HURT THAT BAD.
259392
You can think of him, but do you still love him badly? Because you shouldn't as you're already in another relationship. It's not right not being loyal to your present bf. If you really want to find him, and you succeed, just be friends. Thrust me, things will get uglier if you go overboard.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
669059
Are you sure this new guys isn't really after you for your body??  It certainly can't be for your brains...or at least your spelling and writing ability.  I just love needy, weak chicks who can't live a second without a man in their lives.  If man #2 didn't show up, you'd still be happy with man #1.  You said nothing that he had done wrong.  You should break up with #1 and stay away from #2 for a least a month so you really know what you want.
865831
You should give him the same exact respect you would want him to give you...but I have a feeling you have already gone beyond where that line is with you.\nSit down with him.  Tell him how much he has meant to you, but that you have changed and he doesn't mean that anymore.  Be honest, the worst thing you can do to yourself is lie.\nI would caution you on one thing though-the new relationship is always going to seem exciting-at first.  Then it becomes just another relationship.  Don't keep the current guy hanging on while you find that out.  Since you betrayed his feelings, it is better for him if you move out now and be honest with him.\nI am not judging you harsly, it just sounds that way.  I have been on  BOTH sides of this arguement so I know what you are feeling and I know what he is going to go through.  \nJust be a good person about it, as good as you can anyway.
471700
STAY WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, GIRL!!!!  You should totally stay with a guy that you know is good.  You don't know this other guy, and just because kissing him felt good, that doesn't mean that it was right.  What if you end up dumping your BF, and going with this guy and finding out that he's not the right guy?  I mean, all this is up to you, but I would definitely stay with your first man.  Just try to forget the new guy.  Spend more time with your current BF.  You might regret dumping him, so forget the new guy.  Stay with the old.
751020
I am not sure you want to know what you  should  do...because You know you have to move on and you still think about him might break up with his current gf?\nwhy do you want to be the second choice while there are many who can make you feel real love...Just delete and ignore him and try to forget about him..past has passed ..so live in present..you'll find the right one i promise!
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.