Advice please........?
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its not really something you can think about cause then it kinda just ruins it\nbut its not as scary as it sounds i mean yeah of course its not scary. but dont be scared of doing something wrong, take your time and enjoy it yourself\n\ngood luck♥ im sure hell love it
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Try this.\nHope that helps.\n\nGood Luck.
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I've noticed you've asked basically the same question multiple times.  Clearly you've recognized the problem and want to do something about it.  That's a great start but now you need to actual act, if you haven't already, upon some of the advice you've been given.  \n\nI think nwtobe's response (click on link below in Source(s)) was insightful and very informative.  I surely hope you have taken the next step and actually used some of the resources nwtobe provided.  It's now up to you to follow through, otherwise you have no one else to blame but yourself.  Contact someone now.   \n\nBest of luck and keep your chin up!
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Help with what?????????????
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go out with your friends,  have fun:) your friends are there to give you advice, but you're the only one who can help yourself.....think of the bad things that he did to you.....trust me:)....you can do it\n \nGo girl!
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Advice? There is no advice for dealing with thoughtless idiots.\nDo not even address it! You were wronged, but let it go.
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Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
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Talk to him about it.\n\nBut if you have to ask....
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Just talk to him.  Make it happen.  That's the only way to be in control!
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Ignore them...see what happens. Be too busy with your life to call them all the time. If they really love you, they will chase you. Put yourself in places they will have to see you...by accident of course ;-)  And act like you didn't know they were there. If you catch them staring...look at them, smile and wink, and walk on. I actually pinched a guy on the butt and kept walking once. (yeah, he called) lol But back to your original question, Everyone is different. Some people show love, some people don't know how. People won't always believe what you say, but they will always believe what you do. What do they do? They can tell you all day long they love you, but do they show it? Do they give you the last cookie? It's little things. I didn't know a guy loved me like he did, until it was too late.  He didn't show it, I assumed he didn't. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes. Life goes on. I am happier, He is happier. That's life.
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Yes! I agree totally! Thank you for asking this. The best thing to do would be to do other things. Keep yourself busy!
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Just do it if your comfortable with it. Take things slow and you will soon pick it up. Try to enjoy it ok x
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Try this.\n\nHope it helps.\n\nGood Luck.
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After three years somebody needs to step up to the plate here. If he can't do it and you can't do it consider this. Have a good friend of yours, his or the both of you drop some subtle hints to him. That way it won't be like you said anything to him yourself. Make sure it's someone you can trust completely. Hopefully you can get your answer that way. Good Luck!
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DON'T TRY TO FIGURE OUT ANYTHING. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. FORGET THE SO CALLED WANNA  BE FRIENDS TOO. THIS SOUNDS LIKE A BUNCH OF KID GAMES TELL THEM YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR IT. PICK YOUR FRIENDS LIKE YOU WOULD PICK A APPLE FROM A TREE. EVIDENTLY YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT WOULD MAKE THEM HATE YOU ANYWAY.SO HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH, SMILE, AND LAUGH THAT DUMB SHIT OFF
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talk to him!!\nlet it all out
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I had the same problem with my present boyfriend.  Instead of trying to constantly get through to him (which can annoy the person after a while), just let him know that you are there for him and that he has no reason to keep his guard up.  This should only be told to him once, and whatever happens after that is up to him.  Though it may take a while for him to accept it and open up, it may work.