Why birthday dating girlfriends same match if need help?
961159
wow...i just don't understand what u are asking....it actually hurts my brain...
592056
Find yourself another girl for that month and your current girlfriend she just wants some time to have sex with this guy that's if she haven't already.  Don't let her play with your emotions if she needs time let her go for good.  If she really loved you she wouldn't be asking for time because another guy.  Come on shes obviously a whore.  Don't buy her any gifts and for that whole month don't call her shes gonna realize she lost a great guy that B.I.C.T.H!!!!!!!!!!
225607
I got an idea: why don't you both go to eharmony.com or something like that and go through all the personality tests, etc. and see if they match you two up\n\nhey, you were born a year and a day after me! YAY!
53465
yea i think its a day to show someone u love them anyone a friend a boyfriend girlfriend.  and both should get gifts or think of something but it's not all about the guy giving gifts i think it should be both ways.  now if the guy doesn't want u to get him something still get something.  i say it's wrong when girls just expect gifts and don't wanna give..  thats just a real bitch.
243189
Did you not call him to remind him?? Most men forget birthdays! I dont think they do it on purpose.  I know married men who forget their wives birthdays.  I dont think it is a case of you not being important at all..I think he genuinly forgot.  And yes women are different to men.  Women mark things in diaries..men just dont bother!
928971
It depends what stage of the relationship you are in, if you just started dating, then you can show your love by just being ontime for your dates and showing that you are genuinely interested in her...listed to everything she is saying and respond in a respectful manner. Plus, dont forget her birthday or anniversarys, you may even get her a small gift for a one month anniversary! But, NEVER Overgift someone! it makes them feel guilty and makes you look desparite!
570022
Make another date for them. If won't be your actual birthday but, atleast you will get to hang out with them.
35602
I think a great date is a common interest among two people that best allows them to get to know each other. ANything competitive aloows a little spice, but even something as simple as a walk in the park eating sundaes can be just as spicey, do what comes natural, what best expresses who you are and your likes, the rest will come naturally.
531521
I like the answer above, treat others the way you want to be treated....but hey, your bf suck, if he's bad with dates, why he keep asking what you are going to get for him, he should have forgot his own bday as well! selfish!
255759
Yes why not. But surely enough want to know abt that stranger a bit before dating coz its said that everyone is a stranger first before u met and pass a smile
600935
Why is this in the singles & dating catagory? \n\nI am guessing you do not date that often.
1167424
Definitely, you should let her know she is special no matter whether you are going to be a good match or not. Every girl deserves flowers on a date.
481807
You should just pull her aside by herself and be very honest with her.  If you don't, you are going to have a lot of unnecessary drama and I'm assuming that that's probably the last thing that you need or want on your birthday.  She will probably get her feelings hurt (think about how you would feel) but she will probably appreciate it a lot more coming from you instead of someone else.  Heard of the game telephone?  By the time it gets back to her it may become a situation that is totally blown out of proportion.  If she is a close friend of yours, I do like the idea of going out with her seperately, maybe with a couple other friends without the guy that way you can have the best of both worlds.  Good luck!!!
666780
Thank you "Lady Wyn"...very good answer...I am 42 and my girlfirend just turned 21 and It has nothing at all to do with her age on why we are going out....its all about liking the same stuff....we love the same music, the same books, the same tv shows, the same places to eat....we both love to play pool and love the beach...and in general just enjoy each others company. I have dated women from 18-50 and had a great time with all of them and I don't keep looking for one certian age group....its whoever appeals to me and who I also appeal to...so stop being so shallow!
381696
It depends on the level of relationship you have. From the way you state your question, I am assuming you like her a lot, but maybe that feeling is returned? What makes you think she needs your consent to celebrate her birthday?
477507
if you guys are dating, sure. the girl won't be surprise if you guys are dating, or bg and gf.
575823
Yes. My hubbie's birthday is one day after mine. As i look back, i see that every man I dated more than once was a water sign. We're emotionally compatible, and like each other's music a lot. I can send my husband out to buy furniture and know that I'll like what he gets. And he has the same trust in my taste. It's comfortable.