do you HIT AND CRY or CRY AND HIT????????
953685
lol......... both !\nand lemme guess u will hit and only hit and make others cry !! lol..... u kharuus bhootni !
435450
i would just cry. go out somewhere though. have fun and you will soon forget about it.
876220
Very weepy. Just a bad day that doesn't seem to be getting any better - but there's always tomorrow! \n\nHope you feel better!
1047649
yes and no..... depends on which one you do...
116101
honey, it's okay to cry. it's healthy to show your feelings and emotions. believe or not you are communicating. life throws challenges and it's up to us to decide how we handle it. for me, my best advice is fight back, u can control this. if someone calls u a crybaby, that's selfish on their part. u are telling him how u feel and that counts. if they tell u, u shouldn't be feeling the way you're feeling that selfish for their part. I say show your true feeling, take control of the situation, and be assertive. once you have the "assertion" then u can handle life a lot better.
256347
From my point of view, I wish I had the blessing of being able to cry when I wanted to release my pain.  Crying is a release of emotions and is helpful.
261588
Yes - my ex-husband hit me three times during our marriage.  I was raised in a peaceful houselhold, so the first time he did it it caught me completely by surprise.  However, I realised that I didn't want my young son to think this was the normal way men should treat women, so I divorced him.  He's on his fourth relationship now.\n\nI married again 23 years ago.  When you are a victim of domestic violence (and mine was pretty slight compared to some stories here) it toughens you up not to accept it again, so the first time we had a row and my then fairly new husband raised his hand to hit me, I told him ' if that connects, we disconnect.'  And I meant it - and he knew I did.  We're very happy together now!
101163
i think weeping sometimes can really externalize that held within. and feels better. not sure about full-on crying, its kinda rough, blocks my nose, eyes all puffy, b/p and hr elevate, i think all that drama sometimes only feeds negativity.\n\nawww schneb :-)
240970
Some people use it like I used to. It puts the shock of life back into You. Sounds weird but no other way of putting it. Sadness and anger I vented on  fighting and loving the feeling of hurting another. Getting hurt only enraged me more scarring my loved ones away. The night my wife said she was to leave with my infant daughter, I broke down and cried for the first in nearly 15 years. It felt like a baptism. The water and blood that comes from inside you will change You always. It isn't crazy nor a ploy to  get attention . Everybody changes or is humbled at different times in life. That's how we are unique.
1029115
Upper Cute him or\nSlap him really really really really really really really really really really really really really really Hard til it hurts him!
313331
If you've often been hurt, its automatic.  You have to make a conscious effort not to react in that manner.  It takes time.  I am like that.  \n\nI still snap at my husband at times, and he feels hurt, and I didn't even mean anything by it, and I didn't realize I was harsh till a few minutes later.  \n\nYou gotta decide to be kinder to some people and know who you can trust...and be patient!
1053135
I like to pretend to fight.I usually pick up a stick and start smacking stuff like trees,weeds,ect.......PRETTY WEIRD HUH!!!!!????????
1056889
Men usually hit women when they are angry. Men are not good at expressing their feelings. Oftentimes a physical reaction is the inappropriate means they use. Men who hit will continue to hit without some kind of counseling. Don't wait too long usually during their remorse they offer to do anything. It is the perfect time to offer an ultimatum. Get help or get out! Don't let your guard down though just because he says yes he will. If he stops the counseling before completing it; he will continue to hit. Be very careful and I recommend professional services for both of you. I would be happy to guide you to services. You are right you don't deserve being hit. He has no right and it is extremely inappropriate behavior.
1061817
Yes, \n\nBut you won't be able to control it the way you could if you have a crybaby.  It will  be a constant in and out.  I find it very hard to use it.
47102
absolutly NOT... hitting is primative, tell your child its a bad word that should not be repeated, he/she will understand, they'er alot smater than we give credit
939416
No I don't believe anyone deserves to be hit for any reason. I raised a wonderful child without ever hitting her. She is well adjusted, masters degree, great job, perfect boyfriend,very family oriented, and mentally sound. You do not have to hit children to make them obey. Hitting is just the lazy way of discipline for parents who don't want to take the time to do it right. Have you ever made a mistake at work? A big mistake that caused the company to lose money or get others in trouble. Have you ever spilled anything at work, a drink or your lunch or broke anything? Have you ever lied about being sick or something more serious? So, how would you like it if your boss or co-workers solved the problem by hitting you. If your boss smacked you on the butt a few times, how would you feel? If your co-workers slapped you, kicked you, or hit you with a belt, would you like it? Its the same thing. You should treat a child like you would like to be treated. Realize that everyone makes mistakes and accidents happen. Hitting your child only makes them believe that violence is the answer to problems. Don't raise another violent person. We have enough in the world now.
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lol y shd i cry, i will jump, dance and will laugh out real loud ! :D