I just read a stat that slim , tall women are more attractive then the large women, i thought was already tru?
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Well it is no surprise to the ladies... and a charming guy would never say so.  Look around and you will see lots of guys like a little meat on them bones...just more to love.
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Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
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I'm only a average size girl but i do have some quite large friends, i think it depends on how they carry themselves, so large girls can be quite beautiful, and i do know a lot of men who like big girls, so its up to the individual i suppose
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its easy to tell since women are more curvaceous than men, men on the other hand are more broad-bonewise then women.\nIf u still meet a gal and a guy who look the same physically i suggest you stay away from then cos one of them just aint right.
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Some women do.  For me a fat man would have to make up for it in other ways- nice features, tall, athletic, strong, intelligent, well-spoken, confident, rich
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Mean have more bulk body mass and women have lean muscle.
623310
confidence, sense of humour, is genuinely a nice person. also, when a man is "less good looking" than a man, the woman might feel she has more power. also, she might have been cheated on in the past, and with a fat man, she might think he wouldn't do that.
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thanks for inviting me to answer your ? i think the best way for me to tell you why i like larger women is to tell you why i dont like skinny women\n\n1) skinny women are shaped like skinny men. straight up and down, no curves, nothing.\n2) skinny girls seem like they feel that they are above it all, that guys should be falling at their feet.3) skinny women seem to be VERY judgemental, especially of other women. seem to feel superior to them all.\n\nin my experience and observation, a woman that has some curves seems to be more content with life, friendlier and more genuine than the skinny people. add to this that they are shaplier, curvier and just in general, healthier looking than a beanpole, i feel its a no brainer to want a heavier women.
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i prefer a girl with a little meat on her. not fat but i'd rather have a fat girl than a really skinny one. paris hilton is a good example of way too skinny to be atractive. you know, no one in hollywood is someone i'd consider my ideal beauty. i like girls with something to them, somwhere between 100-200 lbs. the most important factor is how you carry yourself. i met ugly fat girls with more confidence than skinny pretty girls and i would rather have the ugly girl who was confident about her looks.
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No.  Most women are sexually attractive to other women.
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Well I am 33 and if I weren't already married to a wonderful women, particularly one that fits almost your description to a tee, you're the type I would definitely be interested in. \n\nI never liked overly-skinny girls when I was dating. I found them to be shallow, evacuous and bitchy. Probably because they we're always hungry, lol. I also found that women who had larger features such as the ones you described were more kind and nurturing, loving and very giving in a variety of ways. \n\nContrary to popular belief, large breasts aren't just good for the sexual function, but also for child rearing, and in art history, particularly in the renaissance period, larger breasted women and larger women in general were considered more beautiful and to be a work of art. They give you a richness and texture of soul that thinner and smaller breasted women don't tend to have. Plus thee's a certain nuance or character found in a slightly larger women as compared to smaller women all around. \n\nThat being said, respect yourself and your body and do your best to keep yourself in good shape, for you and your partner. It will have lasting benefits in the long run. \n\nI hope this helps out out a little.
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For me, it depends entirely upon the woman.  I've seen very attractive women in their fifties and sixties, even though my natural inclination is generally toward somewhat younger women (I have, alas, a tendency to be attracted to women younger than I am).  Different women age differently, and take care of themselves differently--and, of course, attraction is a very personal matter.  What appeals to one person might not appeal to another.  And a woman who is *nice* will seem a lot more appealing than a woman who is not.  It depends entirely upon the woman.
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No, that's not true at all. Take a good look at celebrities and you'll see some very short men with average or taller women. It's extremely common. Exuding self-confidence and a sense of humor is FAR more important than height. (...and...everything is JUST the right fit when you're a bit shorter, too...)
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Of  course there r, some thick girls are very attractive, others would be horrible even with a perfect body, but i guess this difference is pretty personal
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I think that men can be attracted to you at first sight.  There are men that prefer big women and would see the immediate attraction.  It is sad to say that people are so quick to judge by the outer cover, but it really happens a lot and doesn't give the real person a chance to shine.
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Stop worrying about it. Girls are a lot less visually oriented than men. If you have a great personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc...who cares if you have a little extra weight?
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Has she tried joining a BBW club?  Big, Beautiful Women is a nationwide network of local clubs which include both the larger ladies AND men who specifically are attracted to them.  Unless she has health concerns or personal desires to lose the weight, she might find a gentleman who really, really ascribes to the "bigger is better" theory, and that adoration could help her to feel better about herself all-around.