In a boyfriend-girlfriend relation,?
968671
it depends on if there is more to the relationship that sexual activity. if the couple is interested in each others thoughts and likes their personality and cares for them then sure it could lead to a commited relationship. but if sexual activity is all the relationship is about then i would have to say no. you cant truely care for someone if the only thing you know about them is how good they kiss.
551931
spend some time with the boyfriend..even if you can't stand him. by you spending time with him and getting in his good graces, he'll feel less intimidated about you spending time with his girlfriend. be open with thim that you're not looking to cause trouble..he may respect you for that.
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
659968
I don't mind to have this friend but I would not force him or myself to have further step. It doesn't mean I don't want. I prefer to come naturely. If it's time that we want to be together, I think both of us would have the same feeling. No need to think that he should be my boyfriend/friend. Just relax and enjoy the relationship in this moment.
109182
This one is easy for me.  Simply make your opinion made.  One thing I am wondering is how long they have been in the relationship.  They might be going through the "honeymoon" stage.  It usually dies down in time.  Have patience.
163019
Well it all depends. Some people meet each other, are friends for a couple of months and one day they start feeling something else...they casually go out together, they kiss and they realize there´s some romance happening, the feelings are mutual and they don´t need to tell each other to become boyfriend-girlfriend because they already know they are. Some other people go on dates and then they go steady just like the other fella said. But some people are old fashioned...if you are and if she is maybe you´d like to ask her to be your girlfriend...It is up to you and the way both of you feel for each other
426917
You need to look at it in 2 streams of Thinking. The first stream is the words and actions that you both use to be in the relationship to develop it. You both have to interact with each other to form a communication that helps to develop a relationship. This is the core value of any relationship. The key that puts your relationship together is in essence the words you will use talk to your girlfriend, and intern how she will talk to you. The sounds that come out of both of your mouths are determining how your relationship is developing. This is a crucial understanding to getting to the bottom of answering your question. The words you use to talk to her should be questioned by you. Are you being responsible in how you talk to her and are you being responsible in questioning how her words enter your mind? Do you just react to things she says? Or do you Think first and make sure that what she is saying to you is based on what she is thinking at the moment. There is a movie playing in her mind at that time when her mouth is opening to talk to you, just like it is in your mind. Never take for granted that how you both behave or as to how you both use your body language is true. She could one day say to you that “I don’t want to talk”, you could intern react to this and say “Why, how will we ever fix this. I love you and I want to make this work”. Should you even say that? The point here is that what ever she is feeling at that moment in her life is based on feelings that are going on in her mind, her environment. What she rather here you says is that “OK, I understand, I will call you back later when it’s a good Time, I love you”. The difference between this way of reacting is that you are both making sure that you “understand” each other and treat each other as intelligent persons. Understanding of each other can only happen if you actually do it. Every word that is used by both of you is very powerful. “I hate you” can have a lasting impact on anyone. People are very fragile creatures and this fragility is all based on how we think the sounds of words are impacting us. How we create thoughts in our heads about how we presume a person is thinking about us. When we don’t understand the power of Thoughts is when we live like everyone else reacting to our egos, winning battles of words. We have a hard time figuring out how to communicate with each other’s way of thinking because we don’t take the time to understand what each persons needs are. We didn’t know that to speak you only have to move your mouth and not wait for the right set of emotional states to develop. This is very true when we can’t talk to our parents about personal issues. We don’t know how to approach them. And this is the very reason we have trouble working out relationships. We learned to act from other people’s way of thinking because we didn’t know any better.\n\nThe second stream is very basic in that when you have children and your child comes running through the door after school and tells you “Daddy, I learned what One plus One is, its Two!” How will you react? Will you say “That’s fantastic son! I am so proud of you” or should you be saying “That’s fantastic son! I am so proud of you! I want you to tell me why does one plus one equal Two. I want to know how you Think my son.”. If you understand how to work with relationships now with your girlfriend, it will benefit you as a father, both of you.
617725
Let me tell you a little bit about my own experience: \n     I tell my girlfriend all the time, very sincerely and sweetly, that i love her.  I do spontaneous things, like buying flowers or candy or some other gift, for no reason at all.  And i sometimes just hang out with her, with no obligations or intentions; just hanging out to be with her.  Yet, she sometimes gets insecure, and doubts me.  It has never been because of something that i have done, just that that is how she is.  Lately, because of this, i have been sensing those things, and i have found myself being emotionally hurt by her, and the little things that she has been doing.........  I love her more than you could imagine, but because of her doubts and insecurities, i have been getting hurt, and i now have doubts as to whether the relationship is fit to survive.  \n     In your case, if he has done nothing to bring about these feelings, then you should probably have no worries.  Innocent until proven guilty.  I know, from personal experience, that it starts to hurt when you signifigant other doubts you and your motives/intentions when you say "i love you."  It is extremely painful because you say those words to someone, expressing what you truly feel inside (not in all cases mind you), and then you are essentially "slapped" in the face when that person questions you.  If your boyfriend is seemingly sweet and sincere, then he probably really means it.  if he respects you as a person, and is supportive of you, then i would say that he probably means it.  Good luck to you, and i hope that i have helped.
717700
you need to comfront him/her about it. you dont have to acuse them of anything, you just need to ask. if your relationship is strong enough it will all work out.
896059
Hello:\n\nOne of the hardest things I have ever had to realize is that loving someone isn't enough to make a relationship work. \n\nI was in a long term relationship with a guy, whom I was in love with. The only problem was that he was insanely jealous, and I am a little too trusting. He would assume I was cheating on him, if I had a conversation with a guy friend (a guy friend that I had been friends with long before I met my boyfriend). And if I saw him chatting with a random girl I would just assume they were chatting, and nothing more. I should also say that I have never cheated on a boyfriend, much less cheated on this guy. \n\nEventually he started to push the limits more and more when it came to making me jealous, so much so that he started making out with a girl at a party we had gone to together. Even though afterwards he told me that it didn't mean anything, but that he wanted me to feel jealous, it was too hurt to try to make the relationship work. \n\nWe had a long talk and learned that we had spent so much time trying to hurt each other, that we didn't have anytime to enjoy each other. Obviously our relationship was disfunctional, and I'm happy to say we are both in relationship and are successful and we are still friends with one another.\n\nThe relationship I have now is fantastic. But we still do have problems. The best thing I have done in this relationship is that we face issues head on. But we both know how we each deal with stress. When I am stressed I like to be left alone, where as he likes to be distracted and just take a break from it all. We are able to recognize when we are stressed, and how we can help the other one deal with the problem. \n\nI would suggest that you wait it out. You've been in a relationship that has been successful for so long. Wait until he has started school and starts feeling comfortable there. But be supportive and if he doesn't want to talk to you about his feelings - just let him know that you are there for him if he ever needs to talk or a distraction. \n\nI hope this helps and good luck!
725400
If you and your boyfriend know what you want out of your relationship it shouldnt matter. Make sure what happend in their relationship dosent affect yours and as long as you keep your distance from her its ok.
831985
Girlfriend that is a sign of affection to you, he wants to be more than friends now he wants you for himself, girl go on and get that kiss and make it a good one! LOL
7010
well if in the five months that this has been going on it seems that you havent spent to much time with her and all of a sudden she wants to move in and has a boyfriend. RED FLAG, if you like chaos then go ahead.
1112359
If the relationship is going to have a future be honest. It's something taht should be said, but not until you have established a trusting relationship.
1102090
I think most relationships are that way for both sexes.  I think it's healthy.  In the beginning everything is new and wonderful and you want to discover new things about each other and do things together.  But after a while, one person feels they're neglecting their friends or have a job that suddenly needs a lot of attention, or a need to come up for air and do their own thing.  Unfortunately, this need for air isn't always in-sync w/ your partner.  One will pull away first and the other person feels hurt because the attention has shifted to something else.  \n\nAgain, this is healthy.  When one partner needs to come up for air, it's a good time to get back to your life.  Do your own thing, get together w/ your friends, focus on work, etc....  That way you're not hounding him for more time and you don't sound like a nag or a clingy girlfriend.  This also allows you to show him you're independent and you don't need him to make you happy. Plus, when you're busy doing your own thing he may start to miss you and you'll have more stuff to talk about other than the daily grind of life.  \n\nIt is hard to detach yourself from your boyfriend, but it allows the relationship to grow.  Have faith and eventually his need for separation will blow over.
541435
What does your boyfriend think about this??
866147
We have to start explore being in relationship. I hope you are made for each other. Good luck.