Invited her to an event, she seems interested, how should i proceed... write back, ETC PLEASE HELP?
962704
"Don't worry honey, everything is taken care of.  I'd really like to see you so I hope you'll be there."   Doesn't that sound better?  You write like you're writing to a guy friend.
966054
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
583293
There are all levels of interest - she seems to be interested in expanding her social boundaries ... it sounds like she wants to know and interact with a lot of people.  Including you but not exclusively you.  She also sounds like she was proceeding toward getting to know you better, otherwise she would not have suggested the two of you go shopping together (although I am not sure a lot of guys want to go shopping with a girl right off the bat....if ever at all!)  There is a big difference between walking around a Mall with lots of people around and sitting down to a one-on-one dinner.  The former is a great deal less intimate and less intimidating.  The latter is a committed step toward getting to know someone and could possibly be awkward if there hasn't been any groundwork done beforehand between the two at the dinner table.  People reach emotional levels at different rates - you clearly have sped too fast toward a level she had not reached.  It may be too late to backtrack.  It may not - the only way you will know is to message her and, if she answers, then continue that correspondence - at HER rate, not yours.  Don't overwhelm her with messages if she does not answer.  If she doesn't respond, then you will know that this is not "to be" and move on.
754176
she would be lucky to go out with you...so go for it\noh by the way, i emailed u
981089
I know this is not a dating site, but you do end up meeting people here regardless. If you wanna keep contacting her, persevere. Be honest and open and hopefully she will eventually believe you just wanna be friends. (posting this question could probably earn you a few Brownie points with her too) Good luck!
533019
Maybe she really is interested. Hang in there and see where it goes. You might be surprised. Have a little faith in yourself.
165355
it depends on what you did, give her a lil time...if it isent sucha HUGE deal she'l come around ..after all you are her friend.......but what could help is if your going out with a couple a freidns make sure to msg or call her inviting her to come....it will riminder her that you still want her as a friend and you want her company
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I think it's soo sweet that you want to make sure this is a special move for her. It sounds like she is definitely interested, so almost anything you do will be seen as fantastic to her. I know if it was me, I would just want you to put some thought into it-maybe surprise show up with a single rose, or a night when you surprise her with a movie you rented for her, and then just ask her after she responds to your arrival. Just tell her," we've been spending so much time together, and I really enjoy your company, and I want to only enjoy your company-I think we should be official". Something of this nature.\nThis is so so cute, good luck, I'm sure she'll accept, and make sure to keep up this attitude of wanting to "wow" her during your relationship, b/c that will mean a lot to her. I wish I had a guy doing this for me right now!
226355
what does it matter? just hang out with her, and since she initiated the whole thing, she'll probably tell you what she wants. if not, see what happens and if things go well as her out on a date. let her know it's going to be a date, and if she says yes then she's interested. just relax and don't sweat the details. let whatever happens happen.
565539
ask her to go do something with some friends at first, to break the ice. or if you wanna be bold, just straight up ask her, i would suggest if you just want to ask her 1 on 1, to just start a conversation and ask her if she want to (do whatever you had planned) on what ever night you want, and then add to it before the date, make it special
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Dont be shy just call her and say you wanna hang out, then ask her what shes in the mood for like a bigger group party thing or a smaller group meet at the pub or if shes in the mood to just go grab a movie or something. Its not like shes going to come out and ask you well why do you want to hang out with me and what are your intentions??? lol if you know her pretty well shes probably just going to say well i was planning on doing this do you want to join me or shes going to say i dont have anything planned what sounds good to you?.... eather way you dont really lose :)
104536
You have your answer, but don't want to admit it.  Save your dignity & move on.  If she's interested, she'll seek you out.
842313
If you are truly attracted to her, then at 8 tonight (if she hasn't contacted you by then) send her a text that says "Hey sexy/gorgeous/sweetie (something of that nature.) I was wondering, what are you doing tomorrow night? Would you like to go out again?"\n\nOr something like that. I'm sure you know how those things go. But anyway, you say that so you have a reason to get ahold of her WITHOUT seeming impatient or desperate. If she's really attracted to you, she should reply shortly and probably accept your invitation to go out again. \n\nGood luck with this - have fun!
347384
Re-Evaluate. You just said she "has not showed it". What make you think she is interested.
694244
I think you ought to take her out on a really fun date.  Wait a while until you both are feeling comfortable and laughing and have done something enjoyable.  \n\nThen, tell her that you have something that you'd like to talk to her about, something on the serious side.  Tell her what you've just told all of us.  Ask her what she thinks about that, if she might be interested.  \n\nMaybe she'll agree or just want to be friends.  But, if you don't try, you'll just continue to be in knots.  If you don't ask, you'll never know.  If you do, something wonderful might happen...or might not.  That's the risk you'll have to take.  \n\nIf you let yourself be paralyzed with fear, you'll just stay stuck and that's a miserable place to be, or you wouldn't have written for responses from us--you're already in that space.  \n\nTry. .
411893
thats a tough one. see when someone is that needy they do not see that they actually are chasing away the people they want to befriend. any kind of nice will leave the opening for more ,well are you free next week? i would just say you think she's really nice but you don't really have much in common and your time is limited.
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"If you're not busy this weekend, maybe we could go to a movie" -\n\nIf you're uncomfortable asking, you'd probably feel better if you give her an out, like "if you're not busy". That way she can say, "oh, jeez, I'm sorry but I'm going to be busy this weekend." You could then say, "Okay, well, maybe some other time." How she responds will let you know if she's interested.