Why should my boyfriend have to go to jail? She started it?
969033
He has got to take it like a man and just let her beat on him for a while. If not, then its off to jail he goes. Here is a tip for the next time, DON'T TOUCH HER!!
218620
You could be charged with obstruction of justice. Hindering a police investigation. Resisting a public officer. Contributing to the deliquency of a minor.  Accessory to assault on a minor.  Accessory to kidnapping. Withholding information.  It all depends on the jurisdiction and if you are found out. Bad business if you ask me. The girl should turn herself in and hope for the best.  Few jurisdictions would excuse the statutory rape charges, so the (boyfriend) is pretty much up the creek without a paddle if charges are pressed.
509972
Just call it a bad answer, but I'd kill him. Then again I'm in a bad mood, soooooo. I suppose she should break up with him, no girl deserves to be beaten. And you, being the guy, have to take responsibility and see her once in a while. You know, like spring breaks and stuff.
1064050
What did she do?\n\nRehab should come first before jail...\n\nJeez...
736932
Sounds to me as if she is the one losing control. Throwing things..??....like a 2 year old temper fit....commit her to a mental ward, call the cops, do whatever to make her grow up but darn sure don't go to jail over someone resorting to foolish infantile antics. I detest men who hit women but I don't know how men put up with some of these awful controlling dictator wives, sounds like her parents should have beat her or done something, you aren't dealing with a civilized adult.
44685
You are looking at time in jail or huber.  What you did what just plain stupid and you should know better.  No one is going to give you any pity at all for this.  Especially not a judge.  You continue to do the crime, now you get to do the time.  Enjoy.  You brought this on yourself.
866684
Honey, you should stay away from this person.  He has already been in and out of jail.  He is a repeat offender and that should mean something to you.  You have your own problems, getting with him will only give you MORE problems.  There are plenty of guys out there who do not have troubled pasts or futures for that matter, get one of those.  The fact that "he always ends up saying my life is too messed up to be with anyone right now", is a brush off and you know it.  He's not interested.  Stop chasing him only because you can't have him and stay away from the bad boys.  I know they seem dangerous and exciting and they are but; BAD BOYS = BAD RELATIONSHIP = BAD LIFE.  Set the bar higher and have some respect for yourself.
474780
Stupid mistake?\nI think his parents should go to jail too , fucking bastards\n\nA legal proccess will take much more time, it will take much more sweat and emotional distress but its your responsobility to yourself and to society to put a criminal behind bars\n\nIf he is free he can do it again, to your neighboor or sister or friend.\nApologized for raping you?  ohh yeah sorry about that,my bad\n\nIf you let him go its not only dangerous for society its dangerous for you , if you know of a man that hurt you on purpose and you dont hurt him back , your dooming yourself into a position of a woman who is inferior to men and will fear men for the rest of her life, you need to get your honor back, get your pride back , get your life back\nif you treat yourself like a nobody thats what you will be\n\nHow can you even think of not going through with this?\nYou said he raped you , maybe your using the wrong word\nmaybe he just fuc*ed you?\n\nYoung man with great future my ass , he is a godamn criminal  and he is dangerous. bright future? wtf? he is going to do it again ,and  next time he might even kill her\n\nAnd yeah , if you take the money , thats just what YOU are worth $7000, i think your worth more , \nyour worth around...well....atleast 5 years in prison.
302982
if your girlfriend is afraid of this creep don't you let him get to you too.  He is threatening you, go to the police and tell them.  If it comes to it press charges,  Get a restaining order and then slap him in jail if he violates it.  Keep a journal of all threats and bad comments he makes to you with the dates that he does them use this to help you get a restraining order.\n\nAs for your girlfriend  if she will not help herself, you cannot help her, no one can.  If the police are there and she lies and says everythign is OK  no one can help her.  She must want to get away from this creep or no one else can do anything for her.\n\nDon't let this jerk start bullying you.  Stand up to him and put him in jail if he so much as touches you. Don't play cause he won't.
986531
More than likely the charges are being pressed by the District Attorney on behalf of the People of whatever jurisdiction you are in.  Therefore it doesn't matter what your nephew wants to do, it looks like your boyfriend may get his probation revoked and spend some time away. He needs to get some anger management therapy and you need to get a new boyfriend before you end up in the hospital.
468886
Hi\n\n    I know this is not what you may want to hear, first of all you said your boyfriend is locked up. He should be happy that you are even sticking by his side while being locked up because as far as I can see what can he do for you while he is locked up. On the other hand if you really love him and want to stick by him totally understandable that is a choice only you can make. I would I advice you to just talk to him and tell him how he makes you feel when he accuse you of things that are not true. If he understands then great if not I would say this realationship is maybe not for you if trust can not be found. I hope I helped!
550732
he's in jail now what can he do for you while he's in there. you need to think whats best for you & ecspecially this child. i know a couple guys that did the same thing to their girl so they had support while they were in jail than once they were out it was like screw you. You deserve better good luck!!
347265
The "he's a liar" chick above me is an idiot. SHE'S not too judgemental, huh? Hehe. Of course everyone in jail is the DEVIL! (I'm being sarcastic). \n\nJail makes you think about things that you would normally take for granted: ie; your freedom, your hobbies, the people you love, and so on. I have a feeling he's never wanted to admit he loves you, because that usually overcomplicates things to an unnecessary extent. But now that he's incarcerated, he's had time to understand what life is like without you, and time to reflect on how important your relationship really is. As a result, he's finally come to the conclusion that he does love you, and he wants you to know it in case you two should ever be permanentley separated for some god-forsaken reason. I've been in his shoes before.\n\nOh yeah, and the guy who said "look to see if his pupils expand" is also on his own planet. Where the hell did THAT come from? Look, if his pupils expand, he's on acid. If they don't, he's not. And that's that.
280657
hell no . . . unless it is to beat the daylights out of her . . . then you should go to jail.
107562
It's the same as everywhere; you or your b/f hurt her, you go to jail unless it's self defense and you'd better be able to prove it. I'm a former police officer and if you attacked her, I would arrest you. What you need to do is to talk to the girl's parents. She sounds obsessive and that can be dangerous. You need to document every offense, possibly video tape her doing it or recording her with a hidden tape recorder, which, in Texas, you can legally do as long as one party in the conversation is aware that it's being taped, i.e. you or your boyfriend talking to her. If she shows up at your home, call the police. If her parents refuse to put a stop to it, go to the school principal if you are all in the same school and if need be, the police but do not lay a hand on her unless she attacks you. Where do you think sympathy might lie in a court of law? With you and your b/f who are older, or what they would consider a child misbehaving? Right or wrong, sympathy will be on her side because of her age. You both have to be the mature ones in this case. Don't try to solve it on your own. Do tell her when you speak to her that you are going to call the police or go to her parents and if that doesn't work, do as I instructed. It's the safesty way for anyone. There is no excuse for violence unless you are protecting yourself or someone else from a physical threat. Good luck.
439542
why is he going to jail?? is it some kind of drug thing or violence.. It all depends on you and do you want to wait for him. how long is he going way for? \nmy friend waited 17 months had a jail house wedding and they werent even together a year when he got out and now they are divorced \njust ask you self if its worth you time
673912
It is his lack of respect and love for himself, do not blame yourself! you deserve better than that so I think that an ultimatum is in need her for this dilema.....please put your foot down, life is too short to suffer in self imposed prisons, you have a choice here so act like it, ok sweetie? \nmuch love to you