boyfriend and strip club?
959058
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.\n\nHave a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)\n\nIf he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.\n\nIf you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.
116930
talking about what? sex? so you care about them, which means you may or may not be in a relationship. i assume you are not, you would have said my boyfriend was talkin with another chic. lets take it both ways:\n\nnot your boyfriend, but you have the hots for him and he knows it: then he has decided that he is a player and that he can have 2 or 3 chics on a string at all times. but its still his business, this is the time you can either decide to 'be' with him or the time to decide that you are worth more, deserve more and can get better. (thats what i would do)\n\nHe is your boyfriend: assuming he was talking with another chic about hookin up, then why play with him? he obviously doesnt care enough about you to not do it.\n\nI would just confront him, say: look fella, i like you, whats up with talking with suchandsuch chic? you trying to hook up with her? cause if you are, you need to go ahead and do it, just dont lie to me about it, let me know so i can start hunting me another man down
787201
Yes.\nIf I was there...and he paid for me to have one too...then no worries...have at it!\n\nBUT...if you couldn't be there and he had naked women on his lap...I'd be irrate.  \n\nYou're right...the clubs not the problem... (IF it doesn't offend you PERSONALLY as his gf).... The problem is he should have said no way to the lap dances...\n\nHe has some major A** kissing to do...but if you guys really love each other, PLEASE work thru this...And save the splitting up for the larger things...like actual cheating etc.\n\nGood luck hun!!!
449854
tell your boyfriend to buy the 2006 calendar in case he forgot that we're in the 21st century. It's totally cool for you to go clubbing. A club isn't just a hook up place it's also a way for u to unwind through dancing, drinking and chatting with your friends. \n\nAs long as you're not picking up guys or giving them your number or letting them write their number on ur bra, it's totally cool and guilt free to go clubbing. \n\nI don't think that the clubbing is the problem at all. Don't feel guilty to want to have fun. you need to have your alone time too even married girls need alone time and girl times. explain that to him. i think the problem really is his trust. He doesn't trust u enough in a setting wherein there are lots of guys around for u to pick. \n\nYou might be able to resolve this by taking him clubbing once or twice. show him that the club doesnt have to be a threatening place that it's actually fun and can be fun for both of u.
810742
yeah, hes right 4 u, he is soo sewwt. i wish my BF would do that although hes really prude. Anyways...u 2 should go out, u'd be perfect 4 eachother.
151416
Not really knowing your boyfriend, the best general answer I can give is sexual favours. There is not a man on earth who wouldn't like for his SO to put out.
968513
never.....that is foul. If the person you're in a relationship with  wants to have a threesome with you and another man, he doesn't respect/care about you...I wouldn't go with my wife to a male strip club b/c she wouldn't be going in the first place.  Also if a man is willing to do these things he must be bisexual.
500538
I dont mind at all. If a man has it in his mind to cheat, he will do it at the strip bar, sports bar, salad bar, potato bar, mini, bar, where ever he can. Now will he be more likely to do it in a strip bar, I think not, because a stripper is NOT gonna give you ANYTHING unless you come out of pocket and most men with a steady girlfriend, knows she has her eye on the funds lol.\n\nI like it when my man goes to the strip club. He gets himself all worked up and then comes home to me and we have mind blowing sex. And i didnt have to do much work lol.
582255
im in luv with a stripper
1090664
Hey lady, you are like a married woman. This is like a married life. Can't you just accept it? How about the boyfriend who just suddenly appears? How reliable can he be? You may end up loosing both and a lot of money.\n\nYou should not go to your new boyfriend. You should give your  boyfriend a scolding. Maybe threaten to leave him.
402549
what would do it for me, is a striptease.    dancing for your guy is hot.  if my girl would throw me on a chair and just start dancing and stripping for me   with music   i would bust a nut probably before even touched me    yeah i know you can get that a strip club  but for me it would be different with the girl i love
562683
Maybe you should call yourself FilipinaLolita ... seeing as you're a young Filipino, and you're dating a man with a son who you find sexually attractive ... So your boyfriend must be quite a bit older than you. I assume that you're young because you ask questions like "is it OK if my bf sees me naked?" and "What's making out, and is it ok to do it?"
141572
well, the sad truth is that you can't tell your boyfriend who to be friends with.  I understand that you don't like his friend, and that maybe you don't even like who your boyfriend becomes when he is with his friend.  But you can't change him.  You can tell him your concerns and hope that he cares enough for you to stop hanging around with his friend when he is going to strip clubs, but other than that, there really isn't anything that you can do.  Look sweetie, you will learn that you really can't worry about whether or not your man is going to cheat.  If he is, then he is, and if he isn't then you don't need to worry.  but you worrying isn't going to do anything other than make you sick, ya know?  So, just find a way to be happy and comfortable in your relationship.  Be faithful to him and hope that he is doing the same thing.  Trust in your relationship.  This will save you a lot of anguish and pain in the long run.\n\nGood luck!
855437
Strip clubs are not cheating.\n\nLap dances in private rooms might be pushing the boundaries.\nMen like to LOOK, but it doesn't mean they are cheating, it means you are insecure.\n\nNow, if he goes after you express a wish that he doens't - it still isn't cheating, but it is disrespectful - and you can't have a good marriage without mutual respect.
402596
Wow that sounds a lot like my boyfriend....hmmmm, what's goin' on here?\nMy guy likes it when I make him a big dinner and when I wear sexy things....
477047
Forget about the tools.  Do something original for him.  Cook him dinner and than surprise him by taking him to a strip club and buying him a lap dance.  Trust me, you think I'm being perverted or funny, but this would really mean a lot to your bf.  It tells him that you love him enough to do something that you wouldn't normally do and that you trust him.
712754
Is your boyfriend part budgie part man>?\n\nCheap cheap :P