so...(no offense but) is being nervous when trying to speak to a fine female a turn off to the fine female?
962442
I can't speak for all women, but me personally, It was more of a turn on... something about the shy smile, and being worried enough to care about the impression you're making, intrigued me, made me want to know more. I am speaking from personal experience, my hubby of 20 yrs. now. But I was always very "turned off" by brash over-confident males.
817380
I use to have this problem, but now I dont. Basicially all u have to do is go up to them with respect, but at the some time be funny. Women love a guy that makes them laugh! Be confindent! Dont be afraid! Rebuke your fear! Look for something on them to start a conversation. Women also love compliments! Look at it this way. If u dont talk to her, u have o% success. But if u do, your success just increased! 50% is better than 0%! Dont be afraid!
1041255
I don't mind girls who "talks" as much as I mind a girl with horrible grammar. I don't think it's "importent" but rather I think it's "important" to know about the real issues that bother (not bothers) her.
872733
Certainly not a turn-off.  Intimidating maybe, but that's not the same thing.
224424
I hear ya. They all say they don't but they do. I was talking to a female friend because I've been having trouble in the dating department and she told me the same thing. Don't rush things but make sure you show her you're interested when I asked her how I was supposed to do that she only told me to shut up. \n\nI think if you find someone who that kind of crap doesn't matter when the both of you can just be into each other and not worry about whether you're calling to soon or if you should wait that's when you've got something. \n\nGenerally women want what they think they can't have... that's why if you act slightly disinterested they are more intrigued then if you just come out and say the stuff that's on your mind. \n\nGirls aren't the only ones who do it guys do it to. It sucks but that's just  the way it is.
306050
Rejection, nervousness, worried about saying something wrong.
258813
are you nervous? maybe the women you are talking to, sense that, women like men with confidence. relax and be yourself, talk about things you know wont offend any one, ask open-ended questions to keep the conversation going and look at her in the face not at her boobs!
169920
I understand if you say you get nervous. But if you think you are shy, you aren't ready to propose her. You should be more comfortable talking to her whatever you want.
17565
as a woman, i usually try to make conversation with guys that i am interested for future relationship, whatever it might be.\n\nso if the gurl that you are talking with is touchy with you; you know the touch in the arm or if you are in a club and she leans in really close to talk (lips ALMOST touching your ear) that means you have a shot with her. \n\nnow if she is just being polite and not interested in you. then the conversation that you are trying to have most likely going to be just one way, and that way is you. so if she is looking around the room instead of you. then move on. there are lots of women out there that will be interested in you.\n\nso dont waste your time on a woman, move on to another. good luck out there. hope i helped. =P
184857
ARE YOU CONFIDENT? YOU CAN BE ALL OF THE ABOVE BUT IF YOUR NOT CONFIDENT GIRLS WILL BE TURNED OFF BY IT. THEY WANT A MAN WITH CONFIDENCE IN WHAT HE HAS TO OFFER A GIRL.
617832
We're not hard at all. It's just because boys get all nervous and act stupid in front of us. First impressions are very important to girls. So basically when you talk to a girl, just be natural. Not like natural as in a cool dudish way (that's just way too fake), but just be yourself. And if you get nervous, don't try to hide it. Cause the more you hide it, the more stupid things you say, and the girl will end up getting pissed. So yeah, don't hide it, and the girl will think it's really cute that you're nervous and will feel moved by your attempt to talk to her.
185999
Oh.. u sound sweet. Listen, if some guy is to shy to approach a girl, then i think that the guydoesn't like here that much
516112
Nope. Skinny, rail-thin skeletons of girls turn me off. I'm afraid that I'm going to break them if I hug them too strongly. Beyond that, size matters very little to me. I'm much more attracted to a girl who is on the heavier side but that can carry on an intelligent conversation and who has a sense of humor than a beauty queen who can barely spell her name.
386440
Good question!  I don't like too cool.  I've learned to avoid disinterested women.  I'm not wasting time on someone who is like they don't really care one way or the other.  Too obsessive can be scary because I'm independent and don't want someone who has to have my attention 24/7.  Frequently calling can be a problem (more than twice a day  just to see what's up is creepy), but call to show interest or for making arrangements.  Calls over 30 minutes that are just to get to know me would drive me off. Get to the point, get some info, make plans and leave the endless conversations for the date.
95037
I think it's funny you asked girls to answer. In a way you have already started a convorsation with me and i'm a girl.\nWhen intruducing your self be like hey i'm _____. Be really calm when guys are nervous it puts a weird tention everywhere. Just ask whats going on and dont be freaked out that your talking to a girl. we like calm people that are comfortable with themselves. it makes us more comforatable. hope that helps. good luck
1015534
When I like a girl, I get all goofy around her. Not weird, but more silly. I guess its just my way of getting a little closer to her to gage her potential response if I were to ask her out. I may joke, too, but never in a mean way. I want her to say yes, after all.
409443
Yes!!!! Look Being shy is alright.. but not being tooo shy.. because then a girl would get confused.. she wouldn;'t know  how you feel around her.. you need more confidence in yourself so you can talk to girls.. ask ur self these questions.. Why am i scared to talk to girls??? And you will get ur answer.. \nAnd remember.. Girl's wont go for tooo shyy guys.. so be aware.. good luck.. it will take time.. but u can IMPROVE!!! be Bold n go talk to girls!! datz all  ican say...