what does it mean to be a swinger?
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it is couples having relations with other couples ....
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That means you are desiring for a relationship.  It also means that somehow you need companion and you may be lonely now.
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you can check out a swingers club,you would be suprised at the people that are members. doctors lawyers all kinds of people
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ITS MEANS DIFFERENT FOR ALL PERSON.\n\nFOR SOMEONE ITS FUN.\nFOR SOMEONE ITS WORKOUT\nFOR SOMEONE ITS JOB.
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hooking up can mean meeting for sex...but down here in the huge town of amarillo(being sarcastic) it can also mean hook up to meet for a drink or a date, but it probably has an alterior meaning if a guys says, "yeah, then we can hook up for a date."  but if he says "yeah, they we can hook up and get a drink," he probably doesn't mean anything by it, just trying to sound cool...if someone told me, hey, "Bill and Jessica hooked up,"  that to me would mean they had sex.  Oh and thanks for the help on the gym question...liked your answer.  Take the headphones out once in a while!  ;-p
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Dating: Of a couple, to be in the early stages of a relationship where they go out on dates to find out what each other is like, as a prelude to actually being a fully fledged couple.\n\nDo whatever you like doing. Go watch a movie, go have dinner, take a walk in the park, go to a fair, etc.
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My wife and I have an extremely happy marriage.\n\nSwinging is not a "legal" method to cheat.\n\nSwingers have the ability to:\na) separate sex from love  and\nb) openly communicate their wishes, desires and fantasies to their partner.\n\nThere are as many types of swinging as there are swingers, some are exhibitionistic and like to have sexual play strictly between themslevs but like the added thrill of others watching.\n\nSome are voyeurs, and fit nicely with the aforementioned group.\n\nSome have special "friends with benefits" who they not only participate in sexual play with, but also go to movies, and dinner, vacations, play cards, have bar-b-ques, etc.\n\nSome have what might oddly be termed "monogamous" relationships with a third or another couple with whom they play exclusively.\n\nCertainly there is a percentage of the culture that are "serial swingers". My wife and I refer to them as the "notch on a bedpost crowd" who seemingly play with anyone and everyone, they are definitely in the minority.\n\nSwinging has dramatically improved our marriage for a couple of reasons - first, it absolutely requires honest, open discussions and conversations, and anytime a couple improves their ability to communicate with their spouse it will help the marriage. Second, we do not worry about affairs and cheating, there is no need for it, if one of us is attracted to someone else, we simply talk about it and decide as a couple whether we will pursue an opportunity to play with that person/people. Third, our sex lives have improved for a multitude of reasons or sex with each other is better and more frequent now.\n\nFeel free to contact me with questions you may have and I would also recommend that following sites for more information on the lifestyle and culture.\n\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com\nhttp://www.theswingersforum.com\nhttp://www.swingersboard.com
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Relationship: \nPros: Stability, security, deeper understanding, deeper connection, lower yield of STDs\nCons: Monotony, routine\n\nNo Strings Attached:\nPros: Spontaneous, changing, new experiences\nCons: Monotony, routine, Higher Chance of STDs, Higher Chance of unwanted pregnancy, leads to inability to commit\n\nPeople are people. If you can sleep around and that's what you want, go for it, but there are consequences. If someone gets their feelings hurt and its not you, who cares? \n\nBut if you aren't able to find sex exciting and fun with just one person, it doesn't mean you need to get another partner, it just means you aren't very good at it.
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i am the side of your wife my wife and i are swingers and love it we share photos on line we also play on cam it has made our sex life better we wanted some spice in our marrried life we love eachother vary munch it is not for eveyone but sit down and talk to her if your marriged is good then it will be fun if you have some problems then you should not try it good luck          dm
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In my opinion you go with of course. That's what your guys' purpose IS to eachother, to keep eachother company through all the little events, and be the kind of company that is enjoyed the most amongst all others. And then have all the added benefits in the bedroom :) That simply put is my definition of being "with" somebody at least.
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Yes, it shows maturity between the both of you.  Explain to him that you "love him" but are not "in love" with him.  If you can live in the same housa as this man, then by all means, encourage him to seek swingers.  But without you.  Let go of any anger.  It only destroys..your mind, body, and spirit. Don't resent past happenings if you like yourself. Your past experience help made you who you are today. No regrets. I hope I was of help
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Either he doesn't mean it or he's a swinger. A woman would have to decide what she wants, but if she wants a monogomous relationship, then I'd say she should end the relationship with this man, because he isn't going to say she can sleep around and then not do it himself.
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It means a person has sex often with many various partners.
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i love swinging! it is so much fun!...no i don't know why but i thought i would tell you that =D
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Being in a relationship is a commitment not only in terms of the relationship and to that person but also in terms of time and a life style change.  Maybe a guy just isn't ready to change his life or commit to just one person at this stage in his life.
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i think that it means, if you already have someone(relationship) then why would you need someone else.  how bout this quote, "why go out for burgers, when you have steak at home"  ponder that:)
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why do you need a swingers club get in touch