How Do I Tell My Grandma??
957552
I don't think your giving your grandma enough credit, I have a feeling she will believe you.  Sit her down and say "grandma, I really need to talk" that will let her know you are serious and theen just let it all out.  Tell her exactly what you just told us and tell her you think you need proffessional help.  To be honest, I think she will be happy that you came to this conclusion yourself before it got out of hand.  Good luck with everything!
273129
Plan some cooperative games, like passing the parcel, musical chairs, chinese whispers, etc. That way, everyone will be involved, so noone will feel left out. And if your grandmother doesn't want to participate in the game, she can be a sort of a judge. You can also do this:-\nSit in a circle, and everyone tells five qualities that the one opposite to him/her has. That way, you can get to know each other very well.
64596
WEll first off your granfather is prabably just being protective, I would know my dad is like that. Anyways just plain straight out tell him. Write him a letter e-mail,anything. If you do do that make sure to have some good reasons and keep poping up the question why can't you just let me be with him? make him understand you truely love this guy.
396885
come onn.. tell her.. its the 3 hardest words to say... but u can do it
801187
If you love her, tell her.\n\nIf you owe her any apologies, apologize.\n\nIf you want to know anything, ask her.\n\nTake solace in the fact that you have the opportunity so few have been given.  My mother and I had a "falling out" over ten years ago.  During that whole time we never spoke or communicated in any way.  Four weeks ago she died in a car wreck.\n\nUse this chance for all it's worth.
857594
Tell grandma to relax and let someone else chew up the air for a while. She's your grandma, she's older and deserves courtesy, but she isn't made of glass so she won't break and she knows better than anyone when she's overstepping the boundaries, unless of course, she's been running amok for so long she doesn't recognize them anymore. In which case, point them out.  Say to her "This is my wife, she is here because she enjoys your company, I am going to do some chores for you and I expect to get her back in the same cheerful mood I am leaving her with you.  Got it Grandma?" and then smile, wink or kiss her on the top of the head or the cheek, so that she knows you love her, but that you aren't letting her blacken you or your wife's mood.  Give your wife a flag to waive if you have to, but bring grandma down to earth once in a while.  Leave if you have to, in the middle of your chores or your wife's visit, if she doesn't heed your warning. \n\nExpect from  your grandma the same as you would from anyone else.\n\nEverybody loves to run amok, older people, young people, we all do what we want until someone tells us no. Say no.
70965
call a relative .. grandma is best and have them contact your mother to tell her that .. her daughter? .. needs her or whatever the situation is .. tell the relative to tell your mother .. if you cannot stay with him because of abuse or something you need to contact an authority .. tell a relative what's going on and that you need to get out of the house
629012
I agree with naNa, that would be the best way to hint... or tell her that her feet stink, okay im a little blunt. =S Thats what i would do.
926303
There's no easy way.  You just have to be straight and to the point.  There are no magic words that will make it easier on either of you.  Just make sure the kid are with grandparents or a trusted friend for the night so that they do not have to hear anything that is said.
1072709
My Grandma passed away 6 yrs ago on the 6th of July.......her Bday is June 30th......every yr since she has left.....I go to her gravesite....bring her fresh flowers & just sit for an hr or so....although some people would say I am bonkers.....I talk....I tell her everything....even though I know she is with me on a daily basis....& sees all that is going on....I still do this....it makes me feel like she is really there.....even though I walk away crying...& missing her even more....I know that it something we enjoyed together.....my Grandma was a VERY special woman....I miss her everyday & sometimes just break down & cry whenever I think of her.....I just thank god she was able to meet my daughter before she went....my son was 2 & my daughter was 1 when it happened.....Honey, I know it is hard when it is a Parent.....she was like a mom to me.....just go spend some time with him....pray & remember every good time....even remember the bad times.....just celebrate him.....GOD BLESS YOU in your time of need....
496580
Tell her.  Wouldnt you want to know if it was you?  She will thank you later.
75571
At a future family get-to-gether, tell everyone all at once (except for her) how wonderful she is.  Compliment her to others and make sure she sees it.  It'll mean a lot.
30891
Be honest.  Hopefully she will respect your honesty.  Remember that she is your mother and you can tell her anything.  Just tell her.  Trust and open communication between you and your parents are the most important things you can have with them.
1056822
arrange for craziest outing with her..which she never forget's for her whole life.. try to be simple..don't be showy..and try to  listen  her...and talk less ..and always admire her..but in a limit...and in the last do  tell her ...in a nice and decent way..
523820
Think about your grandmother, not about you - I know it's a difficult time.\n\nShe has had a long life, she has known love, had a child, maybe more than one, she has what sounds like at least one grand child who's a good person (you). \n\nIt's time to let her go. If she's had a major stroke, she will be quite damaged if it happens again and they resusitate her. You wouldn't want to see her like that. Sign the DNR and go hold her hand. Do one last thing for her. I'm sorry for your troubles, truly.
710298
Simply tell him that his Grandmother would be proud.  I don't think that will upset him and it will remind him that even thought she is dead, she will never be truly gone.
281001
whoever is closest too you and mean the most to you tell them first......bear in mind go gentle when you tell them...as when you do they will never ever forget that time and day.......but you need to tell those you love at least first........it will be easier for you too. and you can also talk it over with loved ones too. \ngoodluck, \nmay god be with you,\njp