why doesn't he listen? guys help me out?
957479
take a broom and start smacking on the head our he's just lazy.
498984
hey nice situation. just ask him weather hez interestes in u or not just sit n hav a chat with him. tell ur fellings ask him to listen once. tell him to take time ...if urs is a true love it wud definately succeed\n\nALL THE BEST    !\n\n***  rem LOVE IS BLIND
850663
OMG why don't you watch some TV. and if you have to GET him to do these things whats his problem. Maybe he is just not into you. you cant force some one to love you. i wouldn't want a guy i had to force or a one sided relationship.
148523
Delete the entry.  See if he notices.  Lol, why don't you talk to him and see what's up?  Worse comes to worse, he's the wrong man for you and you need to let him go.  Better you find out when he's just a boyfriend, not a husband.
366708
He isn't worth your time. It sounds like he is too immature for you. And I am sure you can replace him. You go girl.
128983
I had the same problem and it wasnt good. talk to him, let him know what your feelings are. if he still didnt listen then he doesnt care so i will say to leave him and find somebody else.
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
876471
It's not easy, usually us guys tend to think were bothering you, we usually won't call unless we have a reason for it. Just give him a reason to call, borrow something, need help, etc.
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
397278
You need to be clear and direct and consciese in your response to him so that there is little room for him to put some false hope. I really don't understand why guys just are so blinded by love or lust or whatever,Wake up lames and smell the taste of rejection and move on.!!
799366
Just tell him how much it bothers you that he isn't keeping up on his promises, and he needs to start calling you when he says he will.  Let him know you are serious about it.  If he still keeps not doing what he says he will, then yeah you should dump him.
289362
sounds like he cant make up his mind what he wants. sometimes you have to bury the hatchet and ask the hard questions, and if he hides it will not be the first time
158387
Give him a playful hip bump or a light punch to the gut or shoulder.   If that does not work he’s probably not interested.   Ignoring someone works too but only if the guy knows you even exist.  I find ignoring works only if you’re all ready on a talking and friendly basis but it also can be damaging to what ever relationship you have already built with this guy.  So if it’s an all or nothing situation for you then ignore him.
212493
Who needs a relationship that's this difficult? There are better ones out there. I'm not saying he's a bad guy. You two just sound like a bad fit. Find someone who is more in tune with you.
569092
It sounds like you are dumb to listen to your brother.\nCommon sense is needed here, my dear!
491499
Sounds like a fairly new relationship, take it slow. If he isn't calling, maybe he has good reasons. Tell him your bothered by this, try to come to a resolution between the 2 of you. A good relationship needs amazing communication. No hiding things. If this doesn't work, start shopping for a new relationship. Always another bigger better fish.
351538
try to ignore him but not too much. dont show him that you badly need him coz this makes guys take u for granted.