Sex - give me the courage to do it!!!?
971262
Stop stressing sex is ment to be fun, so jus twait till your comfortable enough with somebody and yo wiull just know its right
251474
If you don't want to, you are not obligated to do so. Sex is a great thing, and it is to be made with the correct person at the correct time. Just tell him that you don't want to; if he's your real friend, he will understand and respect your decision.
267583
Why not just relax...forget about the  sexual side of it and just enjoy the people your hanging out with? Wait for your transition into adulthood is finalized before you start experimenting!
1032800
I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
335685
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
249068
Sex, like so many other things is talked about more than done.  It is natural to be scared.  There are a lot of emotions involved and you need to have everything straight in your head before you leap into this.  Take your time and be choosey with your partner.  My husband told me once that there are two kinds of girls, the one you play around with and the one you want to take home to meet mama.  You me dear are definitely the latter.
555225
talk about sex anytime!! haha
616628
It sounds more like a mental issue than a physical issue. Like many other things, there are no absolute right or wrong. It is your choice. \n\nAsk yourself, "why do I want to do this?" If you're doing it just to fit in, because of pressure, to make someone else happy, or just to lose your virginity you may want to reconsider. If you have sex for these reasons, you may come to regret it. Consider all of your feelings, motives and the consequences of sex before you take that step.\n\nThink about Pregnancy and disease (STIs), which can be two very serious consequences of being sexually active. Make sure both you and your partner are protected. Use condoms.
940156
Just be yourself, and it sounds to me like you are trying to go somewhere that you are not ready to go! Any guy that makes you worry that you will be called an inexperienced  "anything" you should just stay away from. There is something to be said about a young woman who is brave enough not to have casual sex just to be what you call "cool"  You have your whole life ahead of you I hope you think about what you "should do" rather than you "have to do"   My motto in life is if you are unsure of what to do ....dont do anything!
1085949
Have you tried sex???!!!
59355
obtain an erection ????
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
718370
Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!
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All males want it.  If they have never done it before they may be afraid to ask.  The real question is do you really want to do it????  Look at all of the pros and cons and whatever else remember SAFE SEX.  If the thought of AIDS, SYPHILIS, GONORRHEA, CLAP, and all of the other STD's out there don't scare you enough to wait until you really really know your boyfriend then go ahead.  Once you do it, you can't take it back.
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The question tells me you're not ready.  The 'how & where' question is not as important as why? and with whom?  Are you ready to deal with issues of pregnancy/contraception, STD protection, and emotional effect that becoming sexually active.  \n\nTalk with a trusted relative or family friend befor eyou take this next step
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After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex.  Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).\nP.S. Please, please respect yourself.  Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.