Does loving Adam make me gay?
970912
dude stop worrying about the small stuff in life. \nthere are other things out there to worry about. \n\nnothing wrong with you loving your friend in a brotherly way.
152004
No, but if he was, I wouldn't love him any less. He's still the same man that he's always been on the inside. Being gay and/or fat does not change a persons heart toward the people that they love. They are just like anyone else. It shouldn't make a difference. He is the only one who has to live his life, not anyone else, so why not just love and accept him the way he is? Even if my own daughter came home and said she was a lesbian tomorrow, I would say, "as long as you're happy, I'm happy."
535936
Yes it is completely normal. Straight guys watch other guys do women but that doesn't make them gay. Your sexual orientation comes down to who you actually prefer being intimate with. Other than that, watch waht turns you on and have fun!
894651
He will only end up hurting himself and others in the long run if he doesn't accept himself for what he is.  God made sexual attraction a very powerfull thing, and to try to bend or mold God's creation is a blasphemy.  I know that you and he have probably been raised to believe that homosexuality is wrong.  I firmly believe now that God made his creation good, so having attraction toward and sex with men is his plan.  Please don't make the mistakes I and others have made by supressing this, allow yourself to enjoy sex the way God created you to.
726815
lol! it's ok, i call my fiance gay on a daily basis!  he's really feminine in tastes, plus he's a theatre person too.  i lovingly refer to him as "my little f*g".
532072
You might feel like you're on a date, but that's just because you're straight.  He doesn't feel that way at all.  I had this one friend and I didn't think that I was leading her on or whatever and she KNEW I was gay, but she said that it was unfair of me to play with her like that and act like I was into her.  I wasn't GIVING her signals or anything though.  If he really wants you, let him come to you, you don't wanna lose a friendship just because you think you could convert him.  Things would just be WEIRD between the two of you.
807401
We both know it is not any kind of sin to be Gay...big deal. Why so many want to stick their nose into my bedroom is beyond me. I have no intentions of scoring with them, why are they so concerned with this issue...very silly waste of energy and time. Straight or Gay, we all go about our lives to do the best we can, whatever that means. Good for you. A sane straight man is not as rare as it would seem, and in fact, most of my friends are straight and could not care less what I do...I ain't doing it with them, nor do I want to. I listen to their stories, they listen to mine, we all laugh. The similarities in the stories are amazing...we all face the same problems, it would seem. \nAnd by the way, misshavenpussy is a liar, is not a real person, is a man in Alberta bashing under many different identities, including kkkwhater, pinkbox, bring on the rage, etc. He has the distinctive job of handling oil pipe....perhaps a substitute for other kinds of "pipe?"  Very pitiful creature, indeed. Good luck
664088
Yeah, pretty much;  If you like Michael than women, and you are a male, then playing with other guys does indeed make you at least bisexual, and maybe even gay.  Im a gal, and no way have I ever been attracted to other women in a sexual way.Yup, admit it, and be careful.  HIV is THE disease among gay men, so look into safe sex to stay well.\nGood luck
436588
If the idea of loving and being loved by another man seems hot to you, you are gay.  I've also noticed that VERY few straight guys ever ask themselves that question.
629864
Well - Im affraid its complicated because I believe that I am Gay Man - I ve only had the occasional one night stand and d ont live with anyone. My earliest memories aged around 9 or 10 tend to suggest I preferred the Boys at school and have done ever since. I am a Christian that is a choice but my sexuality I d ont believe is. As for God he loves us as we are not for who we are.
1136787
It doesn't matter what these other opinionated fools here say.  Doing anal does not make anyone gay.  You have to be careful and use lots of lube and go slow or it is possible to get hurt, just like it is possible to get hurt with oral or with vaginal.  Use protection, because it is easier to get infections during anal.\n\nIf you like it and he likes it, and he's gentle, then it doesn't make any difference what anyone else says or thinks.  But if it hurts and you don't like it and he doesn't listen, then you definitely DO need to dump him.  As long as he cares about your feelings, you should care about his and give it a try.
854872
It started off with a simple movie, a movie about respect for gay people. i asked myself a question: should i be gay or straight? I chose straight. However, as time wen on, i realised i had feelings for men and  realised that it was no choice, no decision of my own. Being gay is not sinful, since love feels right, and we can love, we can care, and we can achieve. I am closeted now and do not know when i will come out, but when i will, i will do it with pride and respect. My love for men, that is my sexuality. My love for people, that is my humanity. I do not hate people who hate me and others like me. Perhaps I shall die for expressing my love, but after all, does love not exist in everyone? For i know, that no matter what, no matter how i change, i will still love. I know my god loves me, and I love him. He cares for everyone, anbd i do not believe a god that created laughter, love, care, could be a spiteful god. \nif anyone wants to talk, i am here for you, no matter whta.
227069
Hahaha!! I'm gay...so here's my answer.\n\nBut first, THANK you for asking a sex question. We need more of them, and we need to absolutely ignore all of these moral-right wing people who are trying to ban sex questions from Yahoo Answers.  And yes, even kids have questions about sex.\n\nAnyway, your bf COULD be gay, but I doubt it.  Just cuz he plucks his eyebrows probably just means he wants to look good.  My dad was also very neat and clean and he's NOT gay (he's just from the military...which makes him super clean).\n\nAs for the anal touching/fingering.  Just tell him.  HEY!  That hurts!!!  More than likely he has seen this in an adult film and because the girl he sees on screen seems to moan with pleasure, he's assuming that you'll like it too.\n\nSome people like it, some don't.  There are even gay people (who everyone assumes likes things in their ass) who HATE anal stuff.  It's just not for everyone.
498233
I've always believed that how you use the thing you have between your legs is your own matter,as long as you don't harm others against their will.So whoever labels gay people just because of their preferences,I'd advice him to make love more often.It calms you down...
1091205
Yes I believe so. I have read up on the topic of whether homosexuality is a choice or whether it is biologically set before you are born. \n\nThis is from the book:\n"Six to eight weeks after conception a male foetus (XY) receives a massive dose of male hormones called androgens...if the male foetus does not receive enough male hormone at the appropriate time... a baby boy may be born with a brain structure that is more feminine than masculine."\n\nSo although it is likely that people like you will be gay, I do believe that you could be straight.\nDon't worry about being different from other guys, because it means you can have some great relationships with women!\n\nxx
533590
Well, I don't understand how a man could be attracted to another man, since I am a heterosexual male (you probably already figured that one out).  But, realizing that the Bible says it is an abomination for a man to lay with another man, and at the same time all sins are equal (a murder = a lie = homosexuality...sins are equal), I tend to have a different view than your average evangelical.  We are all sinners.  We're born into sin, thanks to Grandpa Adam and Granny Eve. So, basically, I say let 'em be.  \n\nCheck out the link I provided.  It may disprove the belief that homosexuality is a choice.  Now, for some people, it is (the "curious" college student willing to try anything because they are drunk), but for others, they are born this way.  Think about the little boy on "Who's The Boss".  He was like 10 years old when the show first came on, and was the most effeminate boy I had ever seen.  You can't "choose" to be  homosexual when you don't even understand what sex is.  He's grown now, and out of the closet.
144303
Figure out what made you question your sexuality first-- Then consult your wife about it. But... your sexuality shouldn't matter if you're already married to who you love. Some people never "come out of the closet" so the fact that you're wondering may be a beautiful thing. There's nothing wrong with being gay-- society just makes it seem like it's the devil's work or something else just as ludicrous. It's something you can't stop-- It's also pretty misunderstood. Hey, put it this way- there are lots of famous people who aren't straight too! =]