Strange Relationship?
953848
Dude you've got it made. I just hope if you guys do go seroius, that you don't run out of sick and twisted things to do to eachother later on in life. You have got to keep that sense of sexual excitement or else, you know, the magic is gone. Go on now, get naked and get nasty. I think it's friggin awesome.
996517
Exactly I am in the same situation, I feel as long as we restrict our relation to platonic, then there is no problem...Its like having some one more than a friend, Its a special relation...THERE IS NO WRONG IN IT... Go ahead....
1112747
the guy i've been dating for the past 3 months i think is my soulmate. We can talk about anything and everything w/o worrying what we are saying to each other. We are both very stubborn but when it comes to arguments neither of us leaves w/o resolving the conflict. I've never felt this way about any other person and he has once but that was b/c the other chick was good in bed. We haven't slept together, and yet he's already talked to his immediate family about a wedding in the next 5-7 years. I wouldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
942389
I'm in the process of finding the same thing with my guy. I honestly dont know but I'll be looking out for answers. Plus to those who always reply with 'ask her/him' thats not always as simple as it sounds.
688528
I call it damned weird.  I would also say that this guy is being played.  He should leave the situation because she's not ready to make up her mind about what she wants.
1160467
Hi there,\nI can somewhat relate to you in a sense that I was in your shoes when my boyfriend (now my husband) was doing the same thing like your wife did.  I think, I forgave him since we're not really together (I was in another state).  Yes, I was grossed out when I heard this and the thought of 2 on 1 is disgusting.  We decided that not to associate with those kind of people, which helps me to cope.  Out of sight, out of mind.   The most important thing about this ordeal is having trust in this person again and make sure that it won't happen again.  Yes, then your can feel more secure and comfortable being with this person again.\nBest wishes,
742868
I had a friend like that, and one day we just acted on it. It was the greatest relationship I ever had. Circumstances beyond our control came between us, but I will never forget how good the times together were. We don't see each other any more, as both of us are married to someone else, but we talk about once a year.\n\nI say go for it. It's going to drive you crazy otherwise.
38457
Yeah, I guess he's a possesive guy - be careful with that, he may not be the guy of your dreams...after all, a relationship is based on trust. Think again.
389987
Be very careful my friend, you could be setting yourself up to be hurt. You may have feelings for this other person, but you need to remember that you "do" have two children to think about. It is belief of many that the truth will set you free, but in this case, it may end in the suffering of the most innocent of all, the kids. Please, consider holding off with this second relationship long enough to realize what you want. I know you want your children in your life, dont jeopardize that for anything. Have a nice day!
61157
Since i've never been unfaithful, i can't speak from experience. But, saying that, my ex-wife was unfaithful to me, alot. I big give away is lack of intimacy. If he doesn't want to touch you, there's something wrong. Strange phone calls that are secretive and at odd times. Does he have a good female "friend" or "mates" he often hangs out with, without you? Can you contact him at ALL times while he's away? Alot of mistrusting females i know check their man's mobile phone for odd calls and texts. Credit card statements for purchases is also a common one. I'm assuming you've talked to him about your concerns and he's denied all. You're still suspicious and don't quite trust him. A private detective could help if you're that concerned. I hope i've helped a little. :)
628508
Wow, your girlfriend is weird!!! Well, I think you should ask her about it or say that you were thinking about it and thanm say you would. After that you will see her answer... Oh yeah, maybe it's stupid for me to ask you, but can you please rate my answer best - I need it BAD
1028354
Yes, but you are aware of a different communication going on.  The one from him to you. Plus, this relationship is different from your others, so it's going to feel different.  The chemistry is there, you just have to learn to understand this new form of communication.  It's different with everyone.  Good luck!!!
116747
It's not completely wrong. But consider this....who has him now? lol they may have the "good OLD times" but you've got the now and the future...when she does this just smile, tell a few story's yourself..never hurt..best of luck
608657
i agree... just keep seeing them both... if its not a serious thing yet, or an exclusive thing...then it isnt cheating...eventually you'll figure out which one is for you..\n\nGood Luck
1005810
Maybe they just like you; enjoy your company. Maybe even be having second thoughts about the relationship? I wouldn't count on that one, but I wouldn't find it unusual that they simply like you and want to maintain some contact. If you are truly concerned, ask them.
771625
omg! I wouldn't call that a relationship. Sorry, my opinion. Sounds like u don't do what pple in relationships do. Find some else.
467698
No, its not wrong. You cannot control who you have feelings for. You have to let that person know how you feel, and see if possibly they are wrestling with the same problem.