I do not want to offend anyone....?
966292
I agree segregate a society and it remains fractured and separated. This only further separates us rather than unites us.  America is supposed to a melting pot in which are differences are celebrated rather than criticized.  As long as people continue to look at our differences rather than our similarities, how are we to be united.
432387
honestly this is a cruel world and your gonna face some ridicule, but who cares? your not doing this for anybody but yourself, you don't want to be around those kind of people anyway buddy, so shine on!
1051117
that is fine... you are not related, and many people wind up doing that, there may be people who don't think it is fine and will ridicule you, but as long as you are ready for that- Good Luck!!!
99992
Yes, I am going to say she would be offended, there are many different ways to approach that. Why would you even have to say it to her in the first place?
1166454
yeh, you should prolly bring it up. that way atleast it will be out in the air, and any tension will be from peoples open opinions, and not from trying to hide it and stuff.
477352
i'd rather not talk about it if u don't mind......
79439
It depends on the person. If you don't know them it's probably not a good idea, they might be offended.
472601
Absolutely.  I agree with the above answer that said that no where are you guaranteed the right to not be offended.  But to take it a step further, why does my doing, or not doing something get taken as an offense.  \nI think there is a serious epidemic outbreak of "Thin Skin," and the only cure is an injection of some good old-fashioned "Get Over It!"
834244
Shhh! Don't speak so loudly, someone might hear you and get offended...
881894
No I try not to get offended\nbut sometimes I do let "my alligator mouth over load my mocking bird butt" from my dad when I was young
146003
No absolutely not, it shouldn't be illegal to offend anyone.  That's freedom of speech.  I think our dialogue should be civil and sensitive, but in a democracy people disagree and are going to get offended.\n\nIf we can't offend anyone then all of a sudden we're living in a fascist state where the "offended" hold all the power over what the rest of us can say and think.
263784
Listion here is what I would do. ou have to act like it doesnt bother you. and make a joke about it and act like it doesn't bother you. If you belive in god just remember only god can judge you
463992
Oooh thats a toughy.  You don't want to offend him.  Maybe try suggesting new things...Or you could just flat out tell him out of the blue (not during sex)
997410
alot of people are offended about it because they think it is something that belongs in the bedroom and in the dark... i personnally don't mind talking about it , infact we had a nice group conversation last night about sex. although i don't mind talking about it, i wouldn't go out and tell every stranger i met things i would or wouldn't do either-- i have to be friends with the person i am talking to.
647765
I'd rather not talk about it...
785189
Don't let them get you down in the first place. \n\nIt's none of your business what people think of you.
883862
I have a lot of sympathy with you. I am one of those BIG MOUTHS at work who will most probably aks : SO WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO?\n\nI do it, not because I am nosy, but simply because I am interested and would not mind other people knowing where I go. I do however understand that some people might (for very good reasons), not want me to know where I go.\n\nShould they therefor say: Well nowhere special, OR something similar, I will realise they do not want to discuss it and will move on. If I do not get the hint, I hope you will say to me: I would prefer not to discuss it.\n\nHope this helps. It is your choice what you share about your life.