I'm scared ofr my sister...?
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If you seriously suspect cutting, then there may be mental illness involved. You should share your information or suspicions with your mom and dad. If there is mental illness involved, then proper medication and intervention should help.\n\nCertainly, many teenagers go through a period of rebellion. This may manifest itself in hair style, clothing or actions. But cutting is not a sign of healthy rebellion.
821881
You are definitely not wrong. Sounds like your sister has some major issues and you have every right not to like her actions and attitude.
226796
Learn to love her, because you should never hate your family. Be glad your sister is around. Someone decided to kill my sister. I would give almost anything to have her back here with us. Be glad you have her there! Hope this helped you!
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just be frank with ur sister tell her what u feel about that incident and what u reacted , and what u did is becoz u love your sister , and u cant see her in pain , so just go and explain , even if she doent listen , utell her , express everything , through anyway , message , letter ....
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I'm truly sorry. Just make sure to support  ur sisters and be there for them, thats all u can do. I know it must be hard. Just remember thet u wilk all get through this and remember that ur mom is in a better place now.
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Mom???  J/K.  My younger sister threatened my mother like that not too long ago, sister said she was going to move in with me or her dad.  Well, I heard this and told her there was no way in hell I would put up with her crap and if she thought for one second that she would just move in with me she was sadly mistaken.  If your daughter really feels that way, let her move in with sis or dad and see what that's all about.  It sounds to me like it's just a threat, if and when it comes right down to it she's not going to move in with dad or sis.  If that was a viable option, don't you think she would have done it by now?  She's bluffing, call her bluff.  If you want to move to a better area she needs to be adult enough to realize that you are making a decision that will better your life and hers, and at 14 she should be able to wrap her little self-absorbed head around that.  You are still the adult in the relationship, she is the child and that's what she's acting like....a complete child.  Maybe you can try to include her in choosing where you two will live if you want to try to reason with her that is.  Sit down with her and tell her that you know she's upset about moving to a different area but you would really like her to go with you, blah, blah, blah, do the mom thing.  Maybe if you level with her and speak to her like an adult she will realize that you're not doing this to like totally ruin her life and she will come to her senses.  Good luck.  God, I can't wait to have children!  Hasn't anyone figured out how to skip right through those lovely teenage years?  Alcohol, lots and lots of alcohol.  I'm gonna make a great mom someday, don't ya think?
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my sister is mean to me. if you ignore her she will stop trying to bother you because it appears as if you are not bothered. she is only being mean so she can annoy you.\n\nGood Luck.
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I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
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This sounds horrible, I would be livid.  Say something, let your sister know that if she is going to come by she needs to clean up.  Have you discussed this issue w/ your parents b/c all of you may need to confront her about this.  There is nothing worse than a trifling visitor.  But do not keep your feelings about the situation bottled up.  Or beat her at own game, go to her house and mooch off of her.
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You definitely have one of those situations that requires you slap your self in the face immediately!\n\nYour problem reminds me of a saying: "You can't drown in a puddle if you just stand up"\n\nThe reason you haven't said anything up to this point is, you don't want to embarrass your sister (you said it).\n\nThe insanity is: Your letting your sister get away with being rude in order that she doesn't get embarrassed!\nDo you see where I'm going here?\n\nYour sister brought a problem into your home and is making it yours.\n\nYour option is clear, take your sister into the bedroom in private and tell her the truth and, she has two choices only. One: Tell her friend it's time to go. Two: Your sister and her friend need to go.
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I think you should not worry about what your sister does and focus on your style and your life. Getting annoyed with her is a waste of energy.
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I don't see what your problem is!  What is your actual question?  Is it that you think being that "close" with your sister is wrong?  It's not, if you are practicing rescue breathing, it may save your life one day.
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u will know the best y r u afraid of urself.plz,immediately go to a councellor. i think u need councelling.
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don't tell her until you both decide to. blood is thicker than water (sisters can mess you up)!
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my gf oso like that. really scared the hell out of me. the thing is make sure u eat \n& sleep well
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I wonder the same thing. I try not to think about my sister hating me but it is really hard. My sister has caused problems between me & my mother just by doing things like you said: she would pick everything just to hurt you. I have shown my mother proof from my doctor that I am really ill & that I am dying but oh no my sister tells her that I am lying so now my mother refuses to talk to me. She says I made everything up even the letter from my doctor with his signature & the letter was written on letter head paper. Go figure. I made it all up. I wish that I wasn't dying. My sister says that she can't deal with my illness. I passed out one day asked her to take me to the hospital, says she can't deal with me. I don't know why she hates me. and I don't know how to handle it except for focusing on one day at a time. I have my husband and my daughter with me. She even told my husband something that my daughter did at her home, she was grounded for 8 months and then 2 months ago I found out from one of my other sisters that it was all a lie. she wanted to cause problems between my husband & I. She thought he would leave me over it. She has major problems. She has 2 daughters by her 4th husband. but actually the 1st one belongs to his brother but she confided in me not to tell him and I haven't. It has been 7 years and he still does not know. I don't cause her problems why cause me problems. Why can't she just love me? I love her with all my heart. I wish your sister would love you too. Maybe they are having emotional & mental problems and they have focused on us to take it out on so that they can live with it. I wish  you the best of luck in working things out with your sister. I am trying but to no avail.
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I cetainly wouldn't tolerate anyone going thru my things, I'd call her on that one, but as far as playing the big Sister role...she just may think because you are surrounded by brothers, you may want the "sisterly" advice...once you set her straight on the privacy issue, and she continues to "snoop", THEN tell your Bro, he wouldn't want your friends going thru his stuff either....as far as the "big sister" role goes, that probably won't last too long... and she may not either, chances are if she's annoying you this much already, she's probably annoying your other brothers in some way or another as well.....