what do you think of a guy who go out with his girl  and he tells his friends.?
956725
Anyone who really appreciated you and was looking for a long term serious possibility with you might consider telling his friends things like: how much fun you were, where he took you to dinner and/or movie, things that made him enjoy your company more than expected etc.  If he gave his buddies details of your intimacy the first night, he will probably trade you off soon, or his buddies will think you are fair game for them also since they already know what you might do for them also...RUN RUN RUN
215966
As a guy, I guess I would want you to tell me how you really feel about me and then if he reciprocates your feelings, then tell him how you feel about the other girls slobbering after him.  Meanwhile, I would question who my 'friends' really are.
479545
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
459085
guys have friends that are girls \nget over it,
326054
Well, if your ex cheated on you, then it shouldn't matter who you date. Even if it is his friend. Hard part about that, is you won't be able to hang out with him when he makes plans with your ex. So there will be a bit of drama more so between the guys, but I also think it's silly to keep things locked up. I hate hiding things, so I would tell the new guy that he should speak up. I dunno, it always sucks being in those kinds of situations. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.
79758
No!!  Its never rite to go out with a friend's boyfriend (or girlfriend) even after they break up.  I don't know the extent of u guy's argument, but if u are really good friends, u will 4get that u even fought and be backl to normal.  But if u go out with her boyfriend, i don't think ur relationship will heal as fast if at all.  "Lovers come and go, but friendships are 4ever."
377509
Tell only your true friend that you know wont get you in trouble by telling them. if you already dont trust them then you shouldnt tell those friends. if you plan on continueing the relationship with this boy then you are going to need there help in this situation but if you dont have a chance of breaking him up with his girlfriend then you need to keep it to yourself so no one finds out and you get a bad name.
495652
WELL, IT IS NEVER GOOD TO KEEP SECREST FROM YOUR GUY, IT IS A BOMB JUST WAITING TO EXPLODE. YOU SHOULD TELL HIM. BETTER YET IT REALLY ISN'T APPROPRIATE FOR YOU TO BE HANGING OUT WITH OTHER MEN AND TAKING THINGS FROM THEM WHETHER YOU ARE BEING A GOOD GIRL OR NOT. WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF THE TABLES WERE REVERSED. IF YOU SAY YOU WOULDN'T MIND OR CARE THEN YOU DO NOT LOVE THIS MAN. I BELIEVE THE ONLY FRIENDS COUPLES SHOULD HAVE ARE FRIENDS THEY BOTH HANG OUT WITH. YOUR FRIENDS BECOME HIS AND HIS YOURS. SAVE YOU HOTNESS FOR YOUR GUY AND GIVE HIM THE CHANCE TO GIVE YOU THE THINGS THESE OTHER GUYS ARE OFFERING. DON'T BE NIEVE, THOSE GUYS ARE AFTER ONE THING, AND YOU HAVE TO KNOW THAT. DON'T PLAY GAMES WITH THEM OR YOUR GUY CAUSE YOU MIGHT END UP LOOSING HIM.I THINK IT IS STILL CHEATING MAYBE NOT IN ACTION, BUT IN THOUGHT AND THAT IS JUST AS BAD WHEN IT IS DELIBERATE.HAVING FEELINGS LIKE THIS MEANS YOU ARE IMMATURE AND NOT READY FOR A STEADY RELATIONSHIP. SORRY THE TRUTH HURTS.
1084741
go out with other girls but do not tell your gf - I do it all the time
274350
I agree those are what most people think, and the main one is Why? I think it comes down to, did I do something wrong, why did he/she do it? If your friends or family know about it and don't tell you I feel that's a huge betrayal. They either don't want to get involved but I think it's wrong for them not to, because then you look like a bigger fool when everyone around you knows but you. Both sexes need to be honest if they're cheating because it catches up  with them in the long run anyways. JMO
32694
well the big questions is.. do you like the other girl? and you guys should get things straight, you, that guy, the girl, and the other girl, all come out clean to each other and things might change.
322475
Sounds kinda fishy, i'd think he already did something with this chick and even more so if you said he said she was a slut and all this crap and now all of a sudden he is friends with her and hasn't told you when they went out ??  They go to lunch once in a while and he claimed she used to wear slutty outfits ?  Sounds like they have the flirting down and maybe something more.  Do some investigating, you can never be too sure, these women know how to get what they want and they.  If I were you I would talk to my husband about your insecurities and tell her he would not like it if it was the other way around and to pls quit the friendship with her, because believe me if it hasn't happened yet it is well on its way.
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
172241
Seems to me that she wants you herself. I think that you should not tell her. It's any of her business, unless you want her to know. Why would you sit and discuss the way you please your girl in bed? Thats invading privacy. Maybe she wants to join. If i was your girlfriend, and she asked you that, your friend would have some problems with me. That is disrespectful. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING. Respect your girl.
368806
I wouldnt because they were your friends before you met this girl plus if your friend says luv ya that is different than say i love you.Plus if your g/f really likes she would understand
923661
This is a very touchy situation and should be handled delicately. Easily, both ends of this scenario can be seen. If you tell her, you'll probably lose him as a friend and she'll either be in denial and/or be mad at you. If you don't tell her, and she finds out anyway (which she will eventually) then finds out that you knew--you'll lose her as a friend. There are endless possabilities as to how it will play out--tell or don't tell--for either. If you truly think that he'll never do anything like cheating again, and they're happy, then that's great. But if he is the type that could cheat again, maybe her knowing now would save her more heart ache and pain down the road...\n\nYou mentioned that he said it was over with the girl, right? Now, did you beleive him when he told you this? You know him, was he being honest about it? Do you see this guy 'checking out' and flirting with women often?  Do you think that he would cheat on her again, period?  Ask yourself these questions, and it should help in your decision.  But, since none of 'us online people' truly know your friends, it would be extremely hard for us to answer the question for you. You are the one who knows them both personally, and it's up to you to sit down and evaluate the situation, taking the people themselves into account. We all have our opinions, and anyone answering this will give you theirs. (that's why we're here I guess--answer truthfully to the best of our abilities and all that) \n\nBest of luck to you, and remember that whatever decision you  make will be the right one!!