ok bf was on house arrest and disapeared for a week???
965638
They can violate his probation if they want to ( and most likley will)  If so what ever time is left on his probation will be spent in jail.
740052
You sound frustrated. I don't blame you. These things can take a long time if the police can't find\nenough evidence to get a conviction. Avoid this guy \nand make sure the parents in your neighborhood are\nawaare of this guy. If you find any evidence you think will help the police then tell them. Finally,\nbreak all ties with this guy. Just don't let him\ncome to your house anymore. He is innocent until\nproven guilty but that doesn't mean you have to let\nhim back into your life.
439298
If you know where he is it will help, but even if you don't, if you are a wife, (common-law or otherwise) or a relative you can talk to your local police office, explain your concerns, and ask them to do a criminal check on him. This will tell you what the charges are. In my part of the world, a woman can ask police to run a criminal check on her boyfriend or significant other before introducing him to her family (or even afterwards if concerns arise). Smart women are following through on this more and more often, these days.
488076
Was the arrest based on a complaint when you were out in public? It would seem that your home would be private. If you were not in public, you might report this arrest to the ACLU. They are short-staffed, but at least you would be on record. I won't let a cop in my house without a warrant, but it's a little late for that to help you now.
696577
They there bubby! I gave you an answer last month regarding your BF who is in jail and demanding you send him money... I thought by now you would have left him because it sounds like he's having an extra marital affair in there, or he's paying for his drug habit... Quit sending him money now... E-mail me personally and lets talk...Been there and done that scene many times with my significant other and eventually caught him cheating on me so I left him after our 14 year relationship... He kept bothering me and wouldn't find a job and expected me to support him and finance his drug habit, so I went home clear across the State of Alaska, and you now how big our state is... Since then, I've got my life back, a new job and making more money and saving and planning on going on a vacation to meet this guy I met on the internet and hopefully take him home and start my life over again..... I occassionaly miss him and think about him but life goes on.... So I weigh the pros and cons of our past relationship and stop thinking about him and pat myself in the back for taking my life back towards the positive side and don't plan on returning to him... I used to go to the library to use a computer to check my e-mail, but since then I have been able to buy my own computer and alot of other things that I couldn't buy when I was with him..... I look forward to hearing from you Tracer and think positive and things will work out for you.... Otherwise do you have IM/chat so we can talk without having to wait for each others reply? So let's chat and come up with some alternatives to ease your pain.... I have yahoo messenger...
623684
GO TO YOUR STATES CIRCUIT COURT ACCESS SITE , HE WILL BE HELD UNTILL THE COURT DATE SHOWN ON THERE IF HES NOT SENT BACK TO JAIL FOR LONGER OR CALL P.O
468886
Hi\n\n    I know this is not what you may want to hear, first of all you said your boyfriend is locked up. He should be happy that you are even sticking by his side while being locked up because as far as I can see what can he do for you while he is locked up. On the other hand if you really love him and want to stick by him totally understandable that is a choice only you can make. I would I advice you to just talk to him and tell him how he makes you feel when he accuse you of things that are not true. If he understands then great if not I would say this realationship is maybe not for you if trust can not be found. I hope I helped!
18159
There is a wonderful support and information group at http://prisontalk.com\nSomeone there can probably help.\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.
701657
omg, i'm so sorry for you. it made me cry just to think about. at first i thought you were talking about telling your BF that you love him before he dumps you, but then the word 'murdered' just sort of jumped out at me. i've never had anything like that happen to me before, but i can guess how you must feel. i wanted to tell my bf that i love him, but i was scared, and now its too late, and he broke up with me...\n\nI'm really sorry. I hope he rots in jail. Sorry.
647088
How long will he be there? Also ask yourself if your willing to wait a number of years for someone who has broke the law to get where he is now. Not to say you don't love him but he should have gave all these things some thought before getting himself into jail..K
730856
get on their ass and call everyday or next thing you know they'll arrest you for being awol. it happened to my bf.
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
611993
Do you think he's been in an accident? Have you reported him as a missing person?  If he didn't leave you...or you are not separated or anything like that, I would say you need to get the police involved and see if he's been in some sort of accident or something. If you are separated...or something like that, then maybe he's just hiding?? I don't know, that's hard to say.
656225
My best guess is "He got arrested and is in jail"\nor He has a venereal disease and wants to get it cleared up before he contacts you!
173733
is there a reason why you are wearing one?  my guess is that you need to look at yourself and what you did and hold yourself accountable for the wrong you did. once you do that, you can beat house arrest.
382547
He's CRAZY you cant expect him to be logical.  Hes in jail and cant do anything about it, but still has the right to be upset you did something you didnt want him to do.  Get the rest of the $$ and be more responsible next time.
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SINCE HE HAS BEEN THERE OVER 30 DAYS THE LAW SAYS THAT HE HAS LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE THERE NOW YOU CAN DO IT THE QUICK WAY & GET A RESTRAINING ORDER, BUT YOU HAVE TO HAVE REASONS AS TO WHY? YOU CANT SAY THAT HE ISNT ON THE LEASE,HE DONT PAY RENT, ETC........OR YOU CAN GET AN EVICTION NOTICE TO GET HIM OUT THE QUICK WAY IS THE RESRTAINING ORDER.........GL