I NEED SOME GOOD ADVICE AND BIG TIME HELp!!!!!!!?
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Damn i've been in this same situation, and this might help u out, just go up to her one day and spill a bunch of emotional things on her, like "im sorry i never talk to you and i know u probably think wrong of me and dont like me, but i just wanted you to know that im crazy about you, even though u arent about me, i just wanted you to know that" TRUST ME IT WILL WORK BUDDY, IT WORKED FOR ME, NOW IM GETTING LAID EVERYNIGHT!! LOL
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Go back to your therapist. Also look for a single-mom support group near you or online, (email me if u want!) Trust me girl I know from the bottom of my heart. My ex husband ASKED me for a divorce while i was in school. But I pulled through, we struggle every day but I thank God for my true friends that have held me up. If you are suicidal you definitely need to talk to someone. Biggest thing you can do is make it an absolute priority to take time for yourself. Put the baby to bed a half hour earlier and go take a bath, turn on a workout video, chick-flick, whatever, have a glass of wine, paint your toenails...anything you want as long as its just for YOU. Remember a happy mom makes a happy kid...NOT the other way around.
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Oh dear Lord.  Please tell them right away.  You need sone kind of help.  I have never dealt with this and have no advise, but please get up enough courage to tell her, she can help you.
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If you're having trouble with that, you should get a new boy friend.\n\nHerrre Boy, Cummm here, boy!
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List down the things you think you are good at.  Be proud of them.  List out things you cannot do.  Ask yourself whether you can live without doing these.  Ignore those you dont need to pursue. Pay attention and sharpen those skills that you wish you could develop.  Practice hard.  Dont rely on what others say.  Be good at your own work and have ample faith in yourself.  Whilst at this do not get self centred.  Look around and be sensitive to others needs.  Helping someone who is in real need will surely make you feel good - no great!  Go on - try to come out of your shell as the world outside is beautiful.  Good luck!
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Unfortunately, the only thing that's going to help you is you realizing you need to do something about your current situation. Sitting around reflecting on how sad and pitiful your life is isn't going to change a thing. Start taking a pro-active role in your own life and stop being a victim of circumstances, and your own lack of self-discipline. Get yourself enrolled in a GED class, and follow through to completion. It's a GED, not rocket science.  You can do it if it means anything to you... and it should. Go out and get yourself a job. Stop being picky, or feeling like some certain job is beneath you, and you'll find a job quickly. Get your spending in order. Give yourself a reality check.  Stop spending money you don't have on things that won't do anything for you.... like gambling! People who are happy and successful WORK at it.  It ain't easy! Life isn't easy.  It takes hard work to reap great rewards.  Get moving!
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Talk to her...first you need to be honest with yourself if you your usually a bad kid, acknowledge that and tell her how much it hurts you to see you dissapoint her and therefore want help to change. If your whine alot and complain about the world, and claim everything is everyone else fault (which if you are your probably like nope...not me =)) lol, but if she says you are talk to her about the future and how you're maturing and realized that you have to take control and except responsibilities. If your a pretty decent kid though but I guess she doesn't like your BF I honestly think you should listen to her reasons why whether you think she "knows him", if thier superficial reasons like he's not your race or too poor or some bull like that then your mom's an @-- (sry to say) but therefore has no more credibilty on her opinions of people. If it's because your BF is too old, a dog, something like that, your mom has wisdom and experience and trust me she IS right. I don't really know what you n your mom's problem is so I tried touching on random things, hopefully some of thoserandom thing's hit you and it helped, thanks and I hope you and your mom works things out, a girl no matter how old, can never live without her mother =)
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As well you should!  \n\nNo one can give you a good reason.  You have to do your good reasoning for yourself.  It's your life and your responsibility.\n\nPeople can offer you good counsel.  But you probably have to be more specific to get that kind of help....
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Do it yourself. Don't make excuses. Just do it. Find a way to succeed. That might actually be better because you won't have to try to fit in another person's opinions into how you become successful.\n\nIf you really do need help, or advice, or just need someone older to listen to your ideas/plans to make sure it will help you become successful in terms of what the "outside world" wants, try to change your counselor if you can. Most high schools/middle schools will allow that if you can provide a good reason why you don't appreciate your current counselor, and it can be as basic as not feeling comfortable talking to the person because of personality or value differences.\n\nIf that's not possible, go to a favorite teacher. That's one of the things teachers are supposed to cover -- career advice. At least, that's true in most schools. Teachers aren't just there to help you understand their respective subject, they're there to help you understand life. I've taken advantage of that, and it's helped me more than anything in terms of how I live my life personally and academically.
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Go talk to a professional.  They're trained in such matters and have seen all kinds of problems, so they can offer some good advice.  Self-help stuff is fine if you're looking to make some minor improvements, but if there's stuff that just overwhelms you, it's not a bad thing to admit you need help.\n\nAnd no, Yahoo! Answers is not a good substitute for professional help.
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The best advise you can get is from your mother. Don't be embarrassed. She can help you out.
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Well you seem to be going through alot! I am sorry! I will be praying for you and your friend! I wish I had all the answers -but I don't! Off course you want to help her- she is your friend- but it sounds like she needs help you can't give her! You need to decide do you want live with her! Can you deal with all the drama? Really search yourself- because she is going to need support and a lot of help! I wish you the best! You sound like a really good friend- when she will let you be her friend! A word -- never cheat! No matter what a person says to you! Just not a good plan! You take care- if you like to talk- http://360.yahoo.com/cloeenloe
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so u need help well i have afriend who could help ya!!!\nso answer back
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Do something for someone else.  Not only will it be nice for the other person it will help you get your mind off of your own problems.  \n\nDrinking, shopping and eating are all quick fixes and may help for a while but I think that you need to look for something more long term that will make you happy.  \n\nWhat do you like doing?  What do you love doing?  Things like guitar, writing, chess, gardening, painting.  \n\nTry different things untill you find something you like.  \n\nAlso make yourself goals and try to stick to them.  \n\nTo get more self esteem you should do things that make you proud of yourself rather than external beauty.  \n\nOh and about finding god.  God is great if you truly have faith but dont try to use it as a band aid for your problems.\nGood luck.
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No, never dear! Find a trusted adult or your parents to talk to. Do not think that professional counseling is embarrassing, it can save your life.
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Hey Isah,\n\nI've lost out big before, Sucks.\n\n#1 OK to be sad, but not forever and you usually aren't because of #2\n\n#2 OK to be Mad as he!!. helps move you to get out of being sad and on to #3\n\n#3 OK to get even, now I'm not talking violence or any kind of vindictive behavior, but time to get back into balance.\nSometimes it helps to talk it out with someone who realy cares and will just listen and not try to solve all your problems, don't that get annoying. \n\n#4 Make a plan, Where has all this taken you. What you gonna do now. Now that you know where to go from here...\n\n#5 Take action, nothing like the satisfaction of taking action. This is when you realy start to get over the hump and feel a whole lot better about yourself. Everything else to this point doesn't always feel so great, But here you are now, doing something about it, getting your power back.Send out those resumes, build that savings back when you land your dream job.\n\n#6 Keep going. Dream big because if you never dream, dreams will never come true.
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go out with your friends,  have fun:) your friends are there to give you advice, but you're the only one who can help yourself.....think of the bad things that he did to you.....trust me:)....you can do it\n \nGo girl!