i pushed him to break up with me but now i am really missing him.what should i do now?
969268
You should've thought about it better. Now you'll have to suffer, unless he loves you.
17529
Hun, I'm so sorry. I think you have to let go. I know you don't want to hear this. But he has to make his own mistakes. Stay strong......keep your dignity. If he comes back.....you will feel that you did the right thing and he will need to prove himself again. Just be strong and don't stop being you.
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
354099
You really don't have much choice. He broke up with you, so now it is time to move on with your life. Don't see this as a negative thing, instead see it as the chance to develop new relationships. You sound young, so this probably wasn't the right one for you anyway. Love and respect yourself and know that you deserve better. Don't rush into a new relationship right away, because we usually make the wrong choice on the rebound. Enjoy being free and wait for that special guy to come along. He will be worth waiting for! Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
769771
Everyone keeps telling you it's hard, it hurts...but I wanna say it is an good opportunity for you to take an emotional break. Just take off from the bad relationship you had before. Now focusing on yourself, do anything make yoruself happy. Beatify yourself, dress up, workout, study, go to the beach, meet friends...Many things you can do to make the world starts to spin for you not him any more. When you can't keep your mind off him, just give it a break and do things that you feel most relaxed and your attention can be carried away the easieast. Soonner or later, you will realize you don't need him in your life to make yourself feel better, look prettier, and being appreciated more by people.
865546
yeah my guy and i just had a fight..and I am so devasted..I love him soo much..but then again he is an as*hole...if you feel like you need time..then take time..but if you feel like you can move on with someone else then go out with friends and make new friends..usually after a break up..I like to take time for myself and get back to me...good luck\nps..if you still love him then call him and try to work things out
1053662
Why did you break up in the first place? How long have you known each other? How long has it been since you broke up?  Do you want him back?  These are all questions you should be asking yourself.  Then perhaps you'll know if it's right for you to pursue him again or to just forget him and move on. :)
1160507
he wanted to break up with you sooner, but he didn't want to hurt your feelings.  and when you found out, he was just being immature and wanted to turn the tables on you instead of confronting you and telling you that he wants to see other people.  forget about him...sign up on the same site and start talking to guys...or go out and do it, what ever your forte is.
706831
I have felt like this so many times!  It sounds like you guys are spending too much time together. Maybe spending less time together would help.  So when you are apart you miss him and then it seems like a treat to get to see him.  Then when you finally get to see him it will be exciting.  If this feeling continues maybe you should think about the fact that maybe you really don't miss him, you just miss having someone around.
1059036
It always hurt when you breakup with a person you still care about.  However, you had very good reasons for leaving him.  A relationship cannot be based on lies and certainly not with all that fighting you were doing.  Evidently he has moved on...  I know it won't be as easy for you to do the same, but give yourself time.  Don't let him see how much you are hurting...  If it makes him feel better telling everyone that he left you...let it be.  Bottom line, you know the truth.  As time passes, hopefully some of the hurt and pain will lessen.  Good luck and take care!
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
607064
Get over him.  Get out.  Good riddance.  There was a reason your broke up in the first place.  Remember that.
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
513038
my boyfriend just broke up with me the best thing to do is think of something else
904269
seriously? i know, you know what you should do...but alright...i'll push you some more..\n\nyou have to break it with him otherwise your relationship will all be based on lies which is not good...one of the many purpose of having a boyfriend is to make you happy and not to make you miserable!...so think about it..
383907
Find a support group. Your close friends, family or your bestfriend. Do things for YOU to make you feel that you don't need him. \n\nI don't know what happened between you two, but what matters most is how to make yourself happy.\n\n If he left, then I don't think he saw the best in you to stay! You deserve better!