How do i get over her or how do i get her?!?! i love her and i dont know what to do...?
961078
yea thats deep, but she obviously loves this guy, and u have to think about whats best for her, and apparently she thinks this is best, just try and get over her. If it was meant to be between ya'll then it will happen regardless. but i wouldn't tell her because that would make her feel uncomfortbale and maybe get u in a fight with the b/f. there are plenty of other girls that will be just like her. trust me!
248398
Let her go.  If she comes back to you -- then give it a go.\n\nFear is a strong emotion.  You can't find it dude.
1051670
Remember her. Best thing you can do.\n\nLosing anyone close to you is hard... Just remember them. They will live forever in your heart.\n\nIt will hurt a lot at first, when you think of her... but slowly, those hurts will subside, and the smiles will shine through... Remembering the good times you had together... Smile through it all.\n\nGood luck to you hun.\n\n~Becca
103685
well first of all find your weekness. and work on that and become strong.., good things come to those who wait. I was in a 2 yr relashionship.. and i healed. time does heal all things. Life does get better. tell you the truth.. you'll go with other relashionships.. you just wont last long.. because when that happens.., you start to not want long relashionships since.. the last one failed. Just find things that occupy your time.. and Think about someone that would actually be with you., and Not walk away.. without any feelings at all. you two just werent meant to be.. think of it that way.. that way got me.. keep searching for that one.. even if you dont right away.. I promice you all the same. youll find her. alot of times. if you dont look, she will find you. and i sense that she dumped you.., if she had any heart at all.. She wouldnt have done that. think about that Too. one day you will get over it. i did.
126663
Letting go is hard. You need to let yourself heal before you date again because you're on the rebound. The girl that worries sounds like a sweetheart but you need to be honest with her and tell her that you're just not as ready as you thought you were for another relationship. As for getting over this girl, acceptance is the key and the first step toward recovery. I've been there, I know. You have to allow yourself to go through the grief stages, and yes, it's like grieving over a death because it is a death in a way. You'll got through many emotions but it is a necessary path that you must take. This girl does not deserve you and if you have to get mad and hate her, do that if it works for you as long as it doesn't harm anyone. Avoid all contact with her because for now, it's keeping you tied to her. Heal first then perhaps you can be friends. If you feel you need counseling, than get it. There is no shame in it. Another thing you can do is to work out at the gym. It helped me a lot and when you see your body starting to change for the better, you begin to feel better about yourself and more confident. You will get over her, sweetheart but it will take time and effort on your part. God speed and good luck. =)
289669
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
262805
Get over it.  I have been there.  Not worth the pain.\n\nGo out of your way to avoid being where she is, find someone else, and enjoy life.
1139935
ok so i think she is confused she is young and there is alot of preasure on both of u... of course u still have feelings 4 this person.... u know the saying\n\n\nif u love someone /something set it free.. if it comes back to u it was always urs if it don't it never was......\n\nso i say give her time... she may see that she cares 4 u and will come back to u.... if not it's her bad she will be the one missing out on a great guy.... hope everything works out 4 u... keep ur head up =)
696751
find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!
1132144
Anyone that says "forget her" or similar to that obviously doesn't know what it's like to be in love.  So what I suggest to you is, find out how she feels before you make ANY moves.  Sit down and have a serious talk with her.  Other then that there is nothing else you can do.  Communication is the key to a relationship! \ngood luck
120552
The best advice I could give you is to keep your mind busy on anything else but her. Keep yourself active, busy. I know its hard, believe me, I do. It will pass with time.
404756
STOP THINKING ABOUT HER AND HONESTLY SPEAKING U MAY NOT BE READY TO SEE SOMEONE AT THE MOMENT BUT SINCE ITS BEEN 5 MONTHS I WOULD RECOMMEND YOU ATLEAST START TALKING TO SOMEONE THAT REALLY HELPS.GO OUT MORE OFTEN DO THING YOU LIKE TO DO.I KNOW ITS NOT EASY TO GET OVER SOMEONE THAT FAST BUT TIME HEELZ EVERY WOUND.
286176
let her go dude...\nthink about it you can not force her to love you ... and futher more would you want her to be unhappyly w/ you
823056
Give her time to heal right now. Don't pressure her or rush her. Maybe when she's ready to move on she'll give you a chance. But be there as a "friend" for her right now.
756316
You will forever love and think about her.... that is a fact. The thing is that with time and more dating, it will fade.  I hope for your sake that you dont have to see her a lot bc that is just like picking an old scab... not very productive. I would try to avoid her until the pain of losing her at least dulls a little. I think you will find love, but you need to close the chapter of your life that included her first. Give it time... all wounds heal.
235672
Sorry to hear about your pain, but there is absolutely nothing that you can do about now except for learn your lesson and move on.  Now, perhaps when you find a special girl that you fall in love with again, you won't wait to let her know!!\n\nPlease, do NOT tell her now - it would do no good and only stress her out.  That's not fair to either of you.
681676
come on just think again..do u really love her?u cant just leave her suddenly like that then suffer the break up..the most important thing is 2 keep on thinking over and over again about the good things u have 2gether..do u wanna give this up?