Is my babe cheating?(i'm 15, just lost my virginity and need help!!!!)?
971079
He's not cheating on you yet, but It seem that he got what he wanted which is sex...
385129
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
610497
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
42210
i was 18, we were together 4 years. hun, your body is not ready to have sex yet. and you know what, you can only lose your virginity once. it never comes back, you never have a second chance. if you have sex with this guy, i GUARANTEE you he will break up with you shortly afterwards. then, when you are older you meet the one, you get serious. you cannot lie and say you are a virgin, cause once you have sex he'll be able to tell. a man will respect you so much more if you hold out (in the long run). it's hard to tell whose the one to lose your virginity too the only way to make sure is to make them wait, and wait and wait. it will be worth it. i started dating my fiance at your age and made him wait 4 years. he has even told me if i would have given it up easy he wouldn't have respected me and we wouldn't still be together. people may pick on you but that's normal in school. i guarentee you these people picking on you are gonna end up with a std or pregnant before you get out of high school! another thing to look at... you start at 14.  even if  you have sex with people after 6 months to a year cause you feel so strong about them. now that doesn't work out because guys at this age are all about the sex and having it with as many girls as possible. that is 1 to 2 people a year you have sex with. no big deal to you now but imagine when your 25, 30! hun just do your self a favor, put your head in those books, become a strong independant woman and worry about the sex later. the emotional part of sex lasts longer. it takes minutes to lose your virginity and it may be something you regret the rest of your life.\nI am 21! i'm not old, just seen all my friends make the wrong decision and had to listen to them bitch about it all the time.
1143241
Be responsible. Think clearly. You should study the consequences surrounding sex. I know you're a minor, but that doesn't stop kids from doing the deed, so if you feel that you must -- which is not advised, do your research man. Make sure you aren't passing anything along to her, or that you aren't going to get her pregnant and put both of your lives on hold. Make sure that you know what can happen as a result of doing anything beyond kissing and hugging. It leads to sex, which is what I'm thinking you might want to experience. Trust me, it can wait. You will not die and of course you may be picked on by the fellas who have done so, but some of them will even be lying about it. Your girlfriend won't be ready, I can tell already, she is still getting around the stage of getting to know you, you've been dating for a month. That's why there are different types of diseases out there because people don't fully know the people they're dealing with, shoot, there are 30 year olds that don't even know their spouses. But in any case, I wish you luck and hope that you will consider waiting to experiment sexually, because if not you may deeply regret it later on in life, and also by waiting you won't freak your girlfriend out either.
642907
once a cheat, always a cheat.  it sounds like this relationship is bound to bring you a life full of pain and sorrow. run while you can.  remember how much fun it was when you were in a new, good, fun, loving relationship (probably in the very beginning) focus on how much fun new relationships are. get out of this one and get one that is more promising. i am speaking from experience. my first real boyfriend (19 years ago) would CONSTANTLY break up with me and go out with my friends... he would always come back to me and i thought that was love (i was only 15) long story short, i ended up pregnant at 17. i married this man right after i graduated. when i was 3 months pregnant with out second child 3 years later he came home one day to tell me he had another girl pregnant too... PLEASE TAKE MY ADVISE: I REALLY WANT TO HELP!
254545
If he truly loves you he will not care one bit if you tell him the truth- it is too risky to be in this situation. Please stay a virgin!! I got pregnant when I was only 16 and if I woukd have been a smart girl like you and thought things over my life would be much better right now.If you decide to go through with this just be sure you have condoms and talk to your mother!! it is much more embarrassing to tell about that have not yet happened than when something does happen.
1160363
So I take it you're a teen. Sweetheart why are you worried about something so adult. You have plenty of time to worry about a cheating female. Now you need to be more into your school work. Girls as well as boys are just like buses, another comes in thirty minutes. Don't develope migraines and high blood pressure before your time cause believe me that's what worrying will do to you. My children are adults and I'm going to tell you just what I told them. Until you are  married don't worry about what the next person does. It's hard I know especially when you do have feelings and you care, but who do you care about most them or self? When you can answer that question honestly you won't have the worry you thought you had.
719185
That must be really confusing for you; after all, if she is not a virgin and you have been going out for 4 months, you would wonder.  It could be that she has had a bad experience in the past.  Maybe she has decided that she really wants to get to know you better before becoming intimate.  You havent mentioned your ages...Could this be a factor?  You will have to take her at her word...no means no...however, in time, if you are looking for something else in a relationship, you will need to be candid with her and then move on.  Good luck.
568184
sounds like your upset with yourself for throwing your virginity away. take it for the lesson it is. don't give it away because you're curious
299796
It's certainly something you will remember. She could also teach you a thing or two. It's not that bad. I doubt they have STD's because they use condoms. I am sick of hearing you should have your first time with someone 'special'. Tell me out of all those people, who actually stays with that person for the rest of their lives? Not many at all. After they break up they can remember their first time was with that asshole who broke their heart. Fun! Lose your virginity in a way you will remember fondly ie. with a chick just because she's hot, or your suggestion, a prostitute. I lost my virginity at 15 and am 20 now, and my first time don't mean s-h-i-t compared to other sexual experiences. Do something fun!
831043
Yes! For sure! Love knows no age limit. But if you are the 15 year old girl, you best be careful. Make sure that You are safe, and the guy is not using or abusing you. Only stay in the relationship and make the commitment if you think it is true love. And don't kid yourself if you know that the relationship isn't going anyway, or worse still, if it is abusive. \n\nJust make sure that you know what your doing. Don't have sex if you don't want to. Don't do it just to please him. Don't do things just because he forces you. And probably you should discuss it nicely with your parents too. Also, if your having sex with him, it better be protected sex and safe, unless you want to have a baby. And if you do want a baby, you better be sure that the both of you will be able to suport it. But I am getting a bit side tracked here aren't I?\n\nIf you are the 15 year old girl in the relationship, I wish you good luck!\n\nP/S: Here's a nice movie you might like to watch, it's so moving: Mum at 16
13718
First of all, if you're that worried about this you're probably not mature enough to have sex yet.  Secondly, if he tells you he's a virgin and insists on it and whatever just believe him.  I don't understand how someone can "look like a virgin."  We were all virgins at some point.  Lastly, it's really easy to find out about sexual things from movies, books, the internet, magazines, friends and so on and so on.  Knowing about sex doesn't mean you have it all the time.  Just don't worry so much and enjoy being a friggin teenager.
556380
Listen to yourself on this one.  You know what will make you happy.  And you should not be doing those things until you can handle the full weight of responsibility they can bring.  Be yourself and hope that you can be OK with the out come.    If you asking the question you are not ready to loose your virginity, just a little hit.
254872
Like everyone said...he's not worth much if he "knocked you up".  Take it from a mother (me) who had her 15 year old get pregnant (she is now 18 and my grandson is 2) it's going to be rough and since he committed statuary rape, she's right to try and keep you guys apart.  If she's going to be helping out, listen to her, don't make your life harder any more than you already have.  If he truly loves you he'll wait the two years for you to turn 18 and of legal age.
1056727
Time will heal all of this.  Maybe even have a talk with your dad, and apologize to him for this.  Eventually they'll start to trust you again, if you don't mess up again.  Just remember, the stuff you do to your parents, may happen to you with your own kids.  Also, parents aren't dumb.  History repeats itself...they know all the tricks, because they've either heard of it, or have done it themselves.  Not alot of teens realize that when they are caught in a lie, it actually hurts the parent's feelings too.  The best advice that I can tell you is that you should never act in any way that would either hurt your parent's feelings or embarrass them.  That way your trust will be built up, and they won't worry about you as much.  If your dad would tell you to be in at 10:00, then be in for 9:30.  It'll go a long way with him.  Your dad was only concerned about your welfare. cause there are too many pervs out.  You messed that up and now you're paying the price.  If something would have happened to you, it would have really hurt your dad.....think of it like that.  It's obvious to me that he loves you.  And since you're so young....how about some advice about sex?   Love can wait 5 years, lust can't wait 5 minutes.  If you have to "prove" your love by having sex, then the guy isn't worth it, and remember you don't have to prove anything.  Another thing...if you're still a virgin, girls at school may tease you about being a virgin.  That's ok.  Tell them this...."I can be like you anytime I want, but you can never again be like me".  I wish you the best of luck..and please be careful.  Have a good day....
907238
It does sound like you could be pregnant. Take one of many HPT to be sure.\n\nYou could always have lost your virginity, especially if you don't remember it. Do you or anyone there know who the father could be?\n\nFirst--see if you're pregnant. Honestly it sounds like you could be. Stop drinking and taking drugs. Go to a doctor. If you're not pregnant, look into birth control. \n\nSecond--figure out what the best course is for you. I don't know how old you are, so you may or may not be on your parent's insurence plan. Tell them if you are pregnant or they will find a surprise. \n\nThird--find this boy. He needs to know that he may be a father.