Should I end my relationship with a guy who I am in love with that is in a relationship with someone else?
964427
fffff.... I've stayed friends for years and years with guys without becoming bf-gf. you shouldn't fool around wtih him, though, if that is what you are saying by "more." but if you are just saying you are kind of in love with him, then that can go on for years. there is some level of "attraction" between friends as well as lovers/bf's.
709164
I am in a simular situation and if you don't have enough trust in him to believe him, Then you should end it now. True Love is built on trust.
1170636
You aren't really in love then.  You are infatuated. It's that butterflies in the stomache feeling that is most often deplicted in movies as love.\n\nI think you should dump them both and spend sometime figuring yourself out.  \n\nDefinately dump the guy who you've had 'problems' with. You're too young for 'problems' in any relationship.  My guess is that you are too young for a serious relationship anyhow....I mean if you are refering to infatuation as love, then you have a long ways to go before you settle down. \n\nI say get out there, date a lot, and don't get tied down.  Live it up while you have the chance because if you stay tied down now, you may never have another opportunity to experience all these great aspects...\n\nTo me, it sounds like you just like being sought after. I don't think you love either of them, you just like being the object of affection.  \nDon't jerk your boyfriend around, think about if he were doing this to you...\n\nOh by the way, don't misuse the word love...it cheapens the word...and in the eyes of more intelligent men, it cheapens the user. \n\nBe wise! Good luck!
1110831
If you want to stay with Ken as your boyfriend then just back off from the other.  If you want a fling then have it ans see what the out come is.
320746
It sounds like you really already know in your heart what you want and what you need to do.So,do it.Life is to short to be unhappy.You truly are in love with your ex,so that is where you need to be.I know it would be hard to tell the other person in your life,but it needs to be done,and it can be done in a nice manner.Like you just are not ready for a relationship with him,and you would not be fibbing,because you are not ready when you have such strong feelings for your ex.Also,this isn't fair for them nor for you all,and in the long run,it would be much harder to end as the more time that goes by.I say go and follow your heart.Good Luck to you!
153227
wrong or right is up to your real feelings ,problems happen in the relationship but if you feel that you love him so much go quickly to him before another girl take him far from you
851575
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
577364
If you are still in love with him and there is no hope of patching things up. Give yourself time. It may take a while, but eventually things will get better. It's ok to still be in love with someone, but don't obsess about it. Live your life, and when you do find someone else, admire the different wonderful things they have to offer you and vice versa. Good luck!
76891
This is a hard one. If you love both the same, you cant really tell who is your true love. So what I would do in this situation is stay with the one you are with now. If the first one left you before.. he can definatly leave you again.. making the pain that much worse. Besides you are already with one you love. You wont be leaving anyone but continueing with what fate has brought you.
378537
Well, obviously you need to make a choice.\n\nHave you and your current boyfriend really grown together that much if you can have the same feelings for another person almost immediately?\n\nIf not, perhaps you should talk to him about where your relationship is going.
345350
You probably still love him but you have to have confidence and cut the ties. If you don't want to be with him, then don't talk with him. I know it's hard but you have to do what's best for you and not play mind games.
538404
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
422806
no no no dont break up with the one you love.....\nunless its at the end of the road...and you cant sort out the problem.\n\nbut if your reason to break up is about the new girl....thats just WRONG!
1164954
girl, if this guy is the one that has your heart...then you need to honest to the one you're living with. How would you feel if he was the one that wanted to go with some other girl? It's gonna hurt...when you tell him, but you need to honest with him & yourself. There's no easy way to break it to him, without it hurting.\nWhy do live with a guy that you're not in love with? That must be difficult. Best wishes.
814592
If you love him, why would you break up with him? Talk to your friend, tell her that you love this dude and that's just how it is. I know that now-a-days we're all into the "friends before lover" thing, but it's important to do what you'd like to, as well.
107553
Yep..But that kind of LOVE is very heart breaking. I'd stay away from him because if he's not happy, he won't be with her long and then you could let him know how you feel. But if he leaves her for you, all of you will suffer from it. Let him have happiness if you love him,.... even if it's with someone else.   Good Luck*
772870
You have to get your priorities straight.  Do you want to be with him or the other guys.  If you want to go out with someone else, it's better to break it off than to string him along and hurt him.  If you just want him, tell the others to leave you alone.