how many times should you make love with your spouse?
953870
if youre not gettin any sorry im in the same situation.my husb.works all the time and thats his reason we dont.he says he loves me and would never cheat so i go on that bc i love him.so when it turns into months bf you get any i know how you feel
781091
Excellent question. And to all the doubting ladies in the answers above, this husband gets his wife surprise flowers. Splits the chores at least 50-50 (ha - she doesn't do any yardwork, but I do about a fourth of the laundry, more than half the cooking, and at least half the cleaning). I tell her how beautiful and sexy she is (and she *is*!) Spend time talking to her (when our 3 kids aren't in the way!) and basically everything everyone says I should be doing. We've talked about our sexual desires and it's quite clear that my sexual satisfaction is last on her list of priorities. What she considers good sex is merely adequate "duty" sex to me. I won't complain too much, but it seems like I'm "owed" more than 10 minutes of sex once a week... Not contemplating an affair, but can totally understand where this guy's question is coming from.
136732
As many as you can. my bf and i have sex about 10 times a week.
92667
about as many times they want to. I had sex w/ my wife about 21 times every week(1 each morning, afternoon, night)
26451
First define "normal"!!  I am 35 and he is 47 and we have been together for 6 years, living together for 6 months, and on average I'd say we have sex with each other 4 times a week.  Usually it is weekends 2-3 hour marathons 2-3 times a weekend as well as about twice during the week before saying goodnight!  I have found that too often can sometimes take the fun out of it so when you start seeing signs of sexual "overdose" it's good to refrain for a week or so and don't be afraid to experiment with new positions, places etc in order to keep it alive and fun!
436243
These days, about 2-3 times a year.\n\nI did it much more often when I was younger (I'm 47 now)
316878
Well I can tell ya this it don"t come easy. Married for 14 yrs w/ 2 kids. Ours is whenever we can get separated from the kids for a period of time, and even then Im usual to tired when he wants it or when I seem to want it the kids are around. But to answer your ?, I would have to say 3-4 times amonth, depending on situations. PHB
1050615
Me nor my husband never go more than 3days w/out having sex. So on a weekly average let's say 2 or 3, But on a good week honey we can go evey night and maybe twice a night on some night's. We have a good sex life and that's great, exp. when ur married
533227
It's a good question Helen. My wife and I are doing more sexually than ever before! Alot of it would depend on how much BOTH of you enjoy this new act! If you both enjoy it, you may want to take it another step. If one person wasn't so happy about it, I would sit down together and talk about it. Maybe you could try it one more time or maybe that is as far as it should go and not try it again!\nWe have done quite a few things, if you want to e-mail me I may be able to give you some more help.\nEither way, good luck!
1053110
Eh, I just did it 12 times to test... and I made my wife do it as well... maybe you mean feet or something else? :P
818179
Three is nothing wrong with a little kinky foreplay.  I do what my husband asks, and he likewise, to keep our marriage exciting.  I think you should tell your wife, ask her to play along with you - what have you got to lose?  If she loves you, she wants you to be happy in bed.  Thats the key to keeping yourself from asking the question  "SHould I cheat on my wife?"
977996
Depends on his idea of spice it up.  Both partners should take pride and pleasure in knowing that their spouse/partner is pleased by what ever they are doing.\n\nThe best lover is one whom gives to his/her partner to please them,  without thinking of his/her own needs first.  If you give to give and enjoy doing it,  it will be returned 10 fold.\n\nAll to often both men/women assume they know what their partner wants, needs and likes.  Take that 5 mins and ask, try experiment but most of all listen and pay attention.\n\nBeing a great lover to your partner comes from finding out what they want/need and making sure you give it to them.  Not once,  but everytime.  If you won't,  then rest assured.  Someone else will.
354027
U C that is the problem. U don't need 2 count. U need 2 go with your feelings. How many times a week do U get all weak in the knees for your partner. Don't schedule it just go with the FLOW.
29927
Yes, about 3 to 6 times, and some don't some do it depends on the man. I've gone many rounds with my boyfriend in the sheets. Even if he is a religous prude. And no matter how small!
569156
Average is about 25 min. But several times. It depends on how tired or stressed or relaxed my couple and I are.
1026166
It's perfectly okay, if both of you feel the same way. But, if one of you is feeling deprived, then you are going to have problems. My rule of making sweet sweet love is to not over think it. My wife thinks about everything else first. Our business, house, things that need to be done, cars, money, and many more things. You need to just let go. Sex, or making love, is like a little mini-vacation that you can go on for a few minutes every night if you like, for free! Just let go and enjoy each other. Don't think about how long it's been. Or how quick it was over last time. And most of all if it is over quick wait 15 minutes, and do it all over again it will better the 2nd time I guarantee.
24155
usually a week..hubby had 1   and let me say if your going for this... it inproved our sex life 100%  staying power stamina... wow out of this world.. A week is woth was is to come....