Is he falling out of love with me?
952595
Yes, he probably has someone else - sorry
28236
If you get the feeling he doesnt love you anymore, then I would let him go and see if he returns.  If its meant to be he will.  For now, I think you should move on.  You dont deserve to stand on the side line.
634176
Guy's always stop. It doesn't necessarily means he doesnt' love you anymore or isn't romantic, he's just comforted in teh relationship to believe he shoudln't have to do all that shet anymore to prove anything to you. If it bothers you that much, tell him. Take him out to dinner. Unless he's falling out of love with you, well then....shitty.
65969
look if he says that he fell out of love with you then just move on its not gone help to waiste time on him hes worthless
333806
i understand your situation, maybe he just wants to go away? let him go.You cant hold on to a person for too long.He's told u it hurts, and you say you love him.So why keep hurting him?If both of u'll think it should end or has ended ,let it be amicable.Healing will take time , but it will happen
888118
He may say that he doesn't love you anymore -- but it's probably because he's hurting, too. I'm sure he still cares about you -- he just doesn't want a relationship anymore. And that's hard. But.. even though it may not seem like it now.. you WILL get over him, and you WILL find someone better than you could ever imagine! It just takes time. In the meantime, do something for YOU.. go shopping or hang out with friends. It always helps.:)
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
644567
Maybe he's at a lost point in his life \n\nI think the best that you can really do is just let him go\n\non the plus side 4 and 1/2 years and he loves you \nHe'll be back..Don't worry to much. Just keeep close friends around
204826
A guys usually says what he means. There is no hidden meaning whatsoever. If he says that he doesn't love you no more, he means it. Don't let him play you.
967455
If you love him, then you're not using him. If you juist have him around because he's caring and generous then you are. I don't think he's so afriad of losing you as he is a sweet natured man who loves you and appreciate you enough to treat you like a queen. How lucky you are!!
227257
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
534939
I think you're best letting this one go. He obviously isn't in for the "long haul" and if he gets bored with you that easy, then he's just not the one for you.  Yes, the "love rush" wears off in ANY relationship, but if there isn't a friendship and caring left that makes him want to stay, then let him go. I'm sorry this happened to you, but you are better off honey. Find someone who will always love you.
270540
It sounds as if he is getting comfortable, and he may be a person who is scared of or doesn't want a commitment. Have you voiced your sentiments to him of how badly it makes you feel when he doesn't call? If not, that may be the turning point. You will probably get a better feel of his intentions by his reaction to the conversation. Beyond that, I would definitely not give him your "heart" until you absolutely know what he wants out of the relationship. Good Luck!\n\nLilD
502623
Sounds to me like you need a break, at least for awhile. You need to re-assess where you're headed in this relationship, and whether or not , that's where you WANT it to go. Take a while off, and get away from him.....see if you really want to continue....or not!
1096958
Sounds to me like you're both ready to move on. It happens sometimes. I assume you are young because you mentioned your 'class'. Now is the perfect time to move on as you are leaving for a period of time anyhow. If you aren't showing him affection (for any reason) anymore, then you don't love him anymore either. You may still care for him a great deal and you may miss what you once had, but you don't 'love' him anyone. Yes....it's time to break-up and move on. Good luck on your travels!
350327
well since you didnt include much information i can only guess to why you feel you are losing him. you probably are. maybe your relationship is stuck in a rut. By this i mean maybe you have been through all the fights and spontanious moments and need to spicin things up again. Make things more interesting. If you and him have been together for a long time you might be alittle bored with eachother and like i said need to try some new things. Try being honest with him.
529388
it could be and it also could be he wants to move on but does not know how to tell you.  If he is not into the relationship end it before you get hurt