Why is it whenever I enter a relationship with a guy, he is everything I dream of...then out of the blue he?
952418
Its not you its just the type of guys that you are attracted to.  Sometimes love is so blind that you will put up with a lot of bull because at one point in time in the realtionship you was happy.  If a guy treats you bad leave him alone cause NO woman deserves that.
37276
With your detailed story I feel that your dreams have made the whole story into a love relationship and your faith in God is so high.......Do you really think that God was fulfilling your desire or is it a coincidence.......I wanted to know more details but I think you didn't have space to write more anyways............If God is with you who can be against you..........Just hang on  buddy you will come with flying colours and as you say she isn't so handsome or beautiful then how do you still love her........It is surely a spiritual business. It is a triangle between You, girl and God...........
1036383
Lots of people experience this. Often these kinds of feelings can cause us to act in ways which are not in our best interest.  (e.g. to perpetuate a dysfunctional relationship because we like the way another person makes us feel some of the time.)  Ask yourself: Why is he my *ex*-boyfriend?  Something in the relationship wasn't working for one (or both) of you.  Is there chance that that problem can be overcome and resolved permanently?  Try to look at your own self, and identify ways which you might like to grow as a single person.  You don't actually need this guy, even if it feels like you do.
181355
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
123314
i wouldn't say u dream about going out with him just be yourself and let mother nature take her course. E-mail me at maxxruby@yahoo.com
1037568
YOU NEED TELL him you like him cuz you must like him that much to dream of him trust me i dream like that lots..
1075861
k im not a guy...but this has happened to me too...with 2 guys...and it drove me crazy as well....and i hada choose who was right for me...who loved me back as much as i loved him....and i ended up with the right choice..so now im happy
951422
i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention
862410
he's a professional who trained at making ladies feel comfortable. Sounds like a bit of an unhealthy infatuation. Maybe your next boyfriend should be made aware of your needs, to be treated with dignity and respect.
290774
That is part of being with someone for a long period of time, you will get annoyed with one another, it WILL happen...ask yourself this question - is he still the one you want to see first when you wake up and the last you want to see before you go to sleep? It seems simple, but this might help you figure out if he is ultimately the one for you. Good luck with everything!
1036422
Enjoy your dreams but act normal around him and keep the dreams to yourself. Maybe someday he'll be having dreams about you too! Maybe he is now! If anything is to happen, let him make the first move. Until then, remain friends, in thought as in deed. As in, don't go getting yourself all worked up about him, or we'll see another one of those questions that starts "I'm in love with my best friend, what...". Please, girl, you know the answer to those! So just be cool.
743796
my dream guy is one that will treat a girl right. one that would never cheat on a girl and one that is always there for her when she needs him. my dream guy is not afaid to show how he feels and will always treat a girl right no matter who is looking or whaching my dream guy is a christain one that would never ask me to do something i dont want to one that would never push a girl into anything to quick that is my dream guy
176635
You will find the man of your dreams because you still believing he is in somewhere waiting for you. Good luck!!!!!!
1094971
It's called lust.  Probably one of the things that attracts you is that you feel you can't "get him".  Remember you can't always get what you want.  Try to think of the reason why you feel obsessed with him.  He's probably not all that.  It happens to everyone at least once.  Focus your attention on someone with whom there is a mutual attraction.
590469
when you start getting a feeling where in you hear his name and butterfly runs in your stomach, when you see him and you just wanna see him, when he talks u just wanna listen to him, when he touches you, u let your body as if it was his, when he smiles it really brings happiness to you, when he is with you, you really forget the world and you two together start creating your own world together.. that's when you say that you are in love with the right person.. :)
691394
Every person dreams of being in an ideal relationship were we have all the goody-goody factors but in reality it is not always possible, i'm not trying to be pessimistic but the fact is, to build a strong, fruitful relationship it requires two individuals to walk hand-in-hand (literally)!!..maybe the problem wasn't with you but in what kind of relationship you were in..Firstly, believe in yourself and someday you'll find someone who loves you for who you are, you don't need to be conscience or fake your looks coz at the end its you who has to face the music!!!
45325
i have had dreams like that.  i once had this dream when i was with my ex-boyfriend, in the dream i was getting ready to go out on a date and i was really nervous, but at the same i was so unbelievably happy.  now, unlike you i couldn't really see his face it was blurry or what not, but i knew in my heart that he was hot.  well the other day i was getting ready for a date and all of sudden everything was just like my dream, down to the little details of what i was wearing and things i was thinking of.  so when my date came to the door, of course i was unbelievably happy.  and i knew that he was the guy that i had drempt about, about 1 year before.  i like those kind of dreams.