Will I ever get her back? (sad story please answer)?
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If she really meant what she said about her promise then you should have no problem at getting her back. But if she doesn't want to get with you now just move on and forget her because that promise that you two made to each other probably didn't mean crap to her.
421852
you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
389668
Been there, This girl after 4 years i almost call her by name to the other girl oh i going to hate that day. But until i guess she love me. Look getting over a loved one we don't we just learn to live with it. Try to pacth things up maybe you can save what ya'll had or still do.
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almost a year since we broke up, but i still think of her every day since then. i cant seem to get her off my mind. may be becasue i am still single. i had the best time ever with her in my life, but i moved away (over seas). over all, i remember good memoreis. she always wishes that i would come back to her, but it wont happen which sucks so bad.
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It kind of depends on what you were not able to compromise on and if you are willing to give it a try her way.  As far as try to get her back start doing little things for her.  It sounds like you still talk and you must have some idea what kind of things she like.  Surprise her make her feel like she is the best part of your life.  Good luck...
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Thats very toughtful of you, you must really care for this little girl. And thats what she needs in her life right now. Theres no way to erase from her life what happened to her, i can tell you that much from experience. Lots of love and  understanding will help a lot. Best  of luck to you and your family.
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Let me start by saying I am truly sorry about your loss. I have never gone through anything that horrible, and I don't know how you can even talk about it this openly. It takes true courage to come out and ask for help. Hopefully you will find it. This is my advice, don't think about it as your fault. If you sent her a letter that said how much you loved her, then clearly she didn't do what she did because of something hateful that you said, because by no means is that at all hateful. If she was an alcoholic and a drug abuser, then that is probably the reason. She might have been drunk, she might have been high, you can never really know for sure, but I know for a fact that she did NOT commit suicide because of you! Now, all you can do is remember all of the good times that you had with her, and forget the bad things. Ask her for your forgiveness. Yes, I know that she's not here anymore, but she will always be with you. So talk to her and make sure that she knows that you love her and miss her with all of your heart. And again, I am deeply sorry for your loss, you have my most deepest sympathy.
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hey bro.. me again..well as i said... been there happened to me..my case similar..though she was living down the street..as for what u v done with not talking to her its the right thing..its difficult otherwise not to think about them 24*7... my x had got engaged and that's y we d broken up.. as far as the family is concerned keep u r distance... don be rude as i can tell that's not gonna be u...be polite... mom likes u huh??? what is this now i have to get my life copyrighted...?lol.. ne ways what i think is send her sis flowers and something but don think u should go there...cause if u do it ll just bring the memories flooding back...\nand we don want that.. what we do want is to forget this girl and find someone better.. though we sometimes feel we don want someone better we want her.. but we don have her... when we r finally over her and moved on we ll look back and smile and laugh... but i know it hurts now... but u r not alone in your pain... and there r many more pain full things... so chill and get busy with other things... be polite but distant... take care...
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Hm...where'd you mess up with her? I'm not sure I understand what exactly happened. Maybe you came on too strong and she's not ready to have a relationship with anyone just yet. How old are you 2? It's something to consider. It sounded like she wanted to be your friend but you pushed it and pushed it and now she wants to stay away from you. Dunno. That's my guess, though.
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forget her. she treated you badly this time, it WILL happen again. you deserve better.
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I'm sorry about your breakup, I know things like this can be hard and no matter what people say, we always want things to come out the way we hope it does. \n\nBut it seems like, almost a year is going by, and no progress.  Do you realize that if you keep trying to get back with someone who doesn't want you, you may miss the one intended for you?  It seems like it's really over between the two of you, and maybe it's time to move on and spend some time recovering from your breakup.  Then get back into the dating field and see what happens.  \n\nI hope you find who you are looking for, because it isn't this other girl.  \n\nGood Luck!\n:)
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Sorry to hear about your pain, but there is absolutely nothing that you can do about now except for learn your lesson and move on.  Now, perhaps when you find a special girl that you fall in love with again, you won't wait to let her know!!\n\nPlease, do NOT tell her now - it would do no good and only stress her out.  That's not fair to either of you.
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well for one did you hand it to her personally? and if so and its been that long without a response then id say your out of luck or quite possibly she misplaced and forgotten about it... maybe you should try talking to her and see what happens... and take it from there on how she reacts
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Five Ways To Win Her Back\n\nAdmit it: You messed up. You said or did something to drive away the most beautiful girl in the world, and now you want her back. But here's the rub: She's moved on, or at least appears to be going on with her life, living and loving it up with guys who happen not to be you. So what do you do to get back into her good graces without completely throwing your pride out of the window? How do you repair the rift and still remain a "man's man"?\nReach Out\n\nYears ago, a guy would have had to stumble through an uncomfortable phone call or write an embarrassing letter to reestablish the lines of communication with his lost love. These days, sending your ex an email is the easiest way to go. It's a quick and modern way to exchange light-hearted communications and your girl won't think you're groveling if you dash off a quick: "How's it going?"\nBe Contrite\n\nI know, I know. Admitting you're wrong is sometimes hard to do, but this simple technique goes a long way in showing a woman that you care. After you've reestablished the lines of communication, drop a few hints. Phrases like: "I'm sorry I said that" or "I didn't mean for that to happen" cause a woman to want to listen more to what you say to her. By the time you swoop in for the kill, she'll be ready. Unless of course you really screwed up ...\nBe Available\n\nIf you followed the methods above, the two of you should at least be on friendly terms. The next way to get her to warm to you is by showing her that you're there. If she needs a ride somewhere, take her; if she's moving, handle the biggest of the boxes; if she's fighting with her mom, listen to her whine about it.\n\nMaking yourself available doesn't mean taking over the role of "girlfriend". It means that when the girl you love has a problem, or needs a shoulder to cry on, it'll be your shoulder she cries on - not some other guy's.\nBe Busy\n\nWait! Didn't I just say to be available? Isn't that a contradiction? Not at all. Even though you're following the rules to get her back, you don't want her to know that you're trying to get her back--not just yet anyway. Go out with your buddies and continue your normal activities. That way, when you speak with her, you'll have funny stories to tell and new things to add to the conversation. If you're waiting by your phone or surfing the 'net checking your email every five seconds, then you'll have no great adventures to impress her with. And then she'll think you're lame.\nBe old-fashioned\n\nYour ex should be on her way to being your "next" again. Once things have progressed and you're sure she likes you again, ask her out. Think hard: what does she like to do? Perhaps your lady doesn't like the usual movie/dinner/clubbing scene--in that case, get creative. If she likes theme parks, rekindle those flames on her favorite roller coaster. If she's a reader, find out when her favorite author is in town and take your ex to see them. Is she a horror film buff? Take her to a film festival or rent the classics and stay in for the night. Make sure you've got her favorite snacks and drinks on hand.\nBe yourself\n\nDespite everything listed above, all a guy really has to get back with his ex is, well, himself. Turn on at full speed whatever you had that made her want you the first time. Remind her of how great things were in the beginning. Mention highlights that give the both of you good feelings. Don't be afraid to let her know that you had some of your best times with her, and that you wouldn't mind having more good times.\n\nWhile you think it might be easier to hold onto your pride, move on and forget about the one who got away, why chance it? Listening to your friends who think you're a big jerk for trying to work things out will just keep you alone, or w
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awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
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Sure, just keep yourself as busy as possible while looking for a replacement. You will probably never really be able to forget her, but you don't want to. Use her to learn from so you don't repeat your mistakes. But, eventually, you WILL GET OVER her--guaranteed. Be patient but keep yourself occupied with positive things.