i have cheated on my gf few times...an she just cant let it go she asked everyday about thing what should i do
954178
You need to break up. Its never going to be the way it was. There is no trust anymore, and she will always wonder in the back of her mind if your lying, if your cheating again, or if she can believe anything u tell her.  Its hard to trust a person who betrayed you when they were supposed to love u.  I dont think theres anything you can do to fix it except break up and move on.  And honestly .... how can u be mad, there are reactions for every reaction.  Did u really think she was going to be able to forgive u and forget... please.... no. Nobody every forgives and forgets for a cheater. They can forgive... but they can never forget!
314683
I'm sorry as this is very immature of your girlfriend.  She should understand that you can't always be together.  Just explain to her why and she either accepts it or she doesn't.  If she doesn't, it might be time to find someone who is more understanding.
55414
Why are you with her? Get out of that relationship. No one deserves to be cheated on. You deserve someone who will come home to you and only you. Please don't keep hurting yourself. They aren't worth losing your self-esteem and self respect. There is someone out there who can make you so much happier than the person you are with who insists on cheating on you. The only way to help you stop hurting is to get together with a bunch of friends after kicking her to the curb and keep the good times flowing. I am so sorry you have to go through this but once you're done with this relationship you are going to be so much happier. If you feel like she is remorseful about her cheating and says she can change give her one more chance. Lay down the law and say this is the last time you are putting up with it and if it happens again send her packing.
1066795
Well, what did you do to lose her trust?  Try listening to her more, don't wait until she tells you do to something like chores, do them before she has to ask.  Don't sneak around behind her back, be honest of your actions.
367276
asuming of course that ur man cheated, i`m kinda curious about the details of the infidelity, however it is common for a man who cheated to do it again, i know i have! yes i`m am a pig and i don`t deserve my girlfriend, and i know that to be certain... still she wants to be with me, go figure.  I`ve told her every single detail, and had given her a way out u know a choice!  she didn`t want it, i still enjoy a lot of her character and sense of humor and we get along just fine... except for the above.
575416
You can't! You blew it! Time to move on. A woman will forgive, but she will never forget. Neither should you and next time you meet someone you really care about, consider not doing things that will make her not trust you.
424192
I have cheated on past gf . . . but never on my beloved (rest her soul)
395246
it is hard to say until your really put in that situation, but im goin to have to say i wouldnt want to go back to a cheater specially, you have no ties such as marriage, kids, run while you can and find some one that loves you for you!! plus she probably just thinks she can do it again. it was so easy to the last time!!
981595
sorry to hear that both of you started the relationship on deceptive terms.  she's being a hipocrit.  and I know you say you love her, but why would you want to be with someone that has cheated and lies.  trust is the foundation of any relationship, without that you have nothing.  you will be in the relationship always having questions about this that or the other.  to much stress and not being happy.  keep looking for something better.  good luck
686232
Unfortunately, she knows you cheated before. Now, you are climbing a mountain to get back up to a level playing field.\n\nThe ONLY way to get her to believe you is to go out of your way to make her feel secure. She doubts you, so you will have to work overtime to keep her from running away.
1066223
wel i think she lied to you because you she didnt want to hurt you or thought she would loose you.  I don't think thats cheating as you guys only started dating and it was too earlier for her to know where that relationship is going.\n\nI would be gutted tho and know how you feel> It really sucks but what can you do?\nIf you like her and she has been faithful since, forgive and forget and move on with your relationship.  FYI it probably took a lot of courage for her to tell you and i dont hink she did it to spite you!
1003037
you need to talk to her and try to make an effort to spend more time together. find out why she doesn't trust you and try to change. If you really love someone you will be able to talk and work it out..
1081353
Bygones r bygones.\njust let thm go;let them not affect your present.U love her and u say she loves u more.How can she b cheating u whn u say, she confessed about the facts bfore she proposed to u. What really matters honey, is, did she cheat u after u guyz r together? It is difficult to forget the past but if u keep hangin with, it it will only spoil ur present.try to get out of it.U r hurtin urself and the ones who love u.
1135145
Forget her. She's just playing you, and if she does it now with you, she will do it with another when she'll be your girlfriend.\n\nMove on, and find someone you will always be able to count on.
692513
Well we all make mistakes.  Sometimes cheating can be the end of a relationship and sometimes not. That depends on you and what you are willing to stand for.  If you want out of the relationship for other reasons such as seeing the world as you say, then just tell her it's over.  But don't use the cheating factor to support that.  Make it clear that you aren't ending it because of the cheating, unless you are.  In either case, you have every right to move on with your life. Just be honest with her.
676177
it sounds like she takes you for granted. And even though you wont listen to this.. you had nothing to do with her cheating on you. She feels she is missing something. We cant control what someone else does, and contrary to everyones opinion.. it is not a reflection upon us when someone decides to do something for themselves. I am so sorry to hear she did this to you. You do need to sit her down and talk with her. Maybe you guys can work through this, maybe not. But you wont know until you communicate. Good luck :)
996764
baby, you need to open YOUR eyes.  sadly, she'll likely only realize how much you love her when you're not there anymore, when you've moved on for good.  sweet-heart, she's using you for a back-up.  you are feeding and satisfying her hurt ego.  this is not good for you.  I'm sure she doesn't intend to use you because when you've been cheated on you're an emotional mess, but she is.\nmove on, sugar.  this relationship is destructive to you.