I need a Guys opinion....?
970663
Take it for what it is meant to be: He cares about you. Stop trying to look for something negative in his compliments.
365007
Sleeper_grrl has the right attitude.  If you want a good relationship, then you should be able to talk with the guy.  If you can't talk to a man about what he feels, then he is not someone you want a long term relationship with.
681962
looks like he really likes you. go for him and make sure he does not slip away he sounds like a great guy.
686029
Go for it, girl. Grab the bull by the horns and ask him. In this day and age, we girls do not have to wait for the guy. You might be pleasantly surprised at his answer!!
209287
Just ask him the truth is most guys (unlike women) are straight forward and will answer your question.  It may be a little uncomfortable, but it sounds like it is the best thing for your relationship.
639704
I'm soo old fashion when it comes to relationships. I def. think the guy should make the first move....I dont' feel as though I should be making most of the phone calls or asking him out! If a man is interested in me he would show it. \n(And yall MEN know this:)
357599
The best thing you can do is be honest. tell him that he's a really good guy but not your type. Say ''is it OK if we can still be friends''? If he Say's no just say you understand and move on. It's not like it's the end of the world or anything.
832573
That easy...TELL HIM you'd like to wait awhile.  If he's the right guy, he will be kool about it.  If he's a jerk about it then he just made things VERY easy, LEAVE HIM!\n\nGood luck, there's still a few "good guys" left out there.\n\n:)
1135936
NO, but...discus it with your "now" guy first. "IF" he rather you not then don't. It's about "respect", and if you respect your guy then do what he asks of you. BUT remember he may say yes, he doesn't care, but if you know him well enough you should know that he's saying " please don't".
392592
I would just take it slow.  He still has time to grow and learn about life.  Maybe he really would like to do that with you.  Some guys are more ready than others. Just take it slow so u dont get crushed.   The age thing is not a huge deal.  Really you are not that much older than he is.  He could be serious.  Just realize that he is not established yet.  If you are and are comfortable with that, then go for it!!!!
380101
well it depends on how much you like him.. if you think he is a good enough person despite his good looks you should definitely go for it! dress up, make yourself feel good. dont be afraid to show him who you really are.  guys are soo atracted to confidence. if you show him that you KNOW you're good enough, he'll come after YOU in no time! =)
24234
Most guys would say, "oh, that's lame... you should shoot yourself for even asking it." but the smart guys >like myself< know that's something women would find cute. It might not be something to say on a first glimpse, but to a friend you are trying to up your relationship with, sure!  good line for that
734627
I can sympathize because I fell for an amazing guy friend. The single caveat? He's got a girl friend. Since you guy is free then I would go for it. Touch his arm, try subtle flirting (should work b/c he knows you well enough to know that it's not the usual banter), if that doesn't get a response do the usual flirting routine, wear attractive clothes, a nice perfume, let him see that your into him. DO NOT DO anything different b/c you like him, like don't start acting like a ditz or all lalala bc guys get freaked out if ppl they have relied on start acting strange. Spend time with him alone and see how it goes.
589995
Find somebody worth dating. This guy is more confused than you. He seems worthless. Probably just wants to get laid, to tell you the truth, sorry I'm so blunt. I would move on and leave the guy. (If I were a girl...or whatever...haha)
1178301
i have a question for u. how old are u girls and how old is this guy? If u girls are under 18 and he is 18 or older u should report this guy immediately.\nto answer your question, i would fall into the category of a guy who might think about doing something like that but never actually do it. I'd be too concerned with a)rejection and b) freaking a chick out. u should ask yourself why  you'd wanna give the time of day to a guy who flirts with u, then ask your friend for a hand job. does that sound like the type of guy u want for a BF?
208492
Girl please. Leave his ass alone. You don't need him. It sounds like you're really into him and he isn't feeling you the same way that you're feeling him
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!