why cant i have a perfect boyfriend?
957855
it depends on wat is ur definiton of a perfect boy....\nmay be wat ur looking for does not exist or u r not upto thhe standards of ur mr perfect....\nif the standard set by u is too high u need to lower it down..\nbest of luck...
475126
Wanting a boyfriend and NEEDING one are two different things. You should never NEED a boyfriend. You need to be secure in yourself enough to know that you can live your life for you. No other.\n\nWanting a boyfriend is fine. How to get one? Well, just start talking to guys you like. It will work itself out eventually. If you talk to enough guys you like, chances are, one of them will ask you out. From there, don't be needy. If it works out into a committed relationship, great. If not, move on.
894366
you dont say how old you are, but i guess you're young so i would say just be yourself and dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend. when its right you will know and things will just flow with the right person without you having to try hard. So just see how it goes and then you can decide if he is the right guy for you or if you are ready for a relationship. good luck
173958
You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
34659
what u need to do is stop searching so desperetly. if u set ur mind on finding somebody then no matter who u end up with, u wont have a good relationship because the only reason u are with that someone is so that u wont be alone. u gotto have more fun with urself and be happy to be with urself and then the perfect someone will come along... thats what happened to me.
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
114407
For some women, we think the perfect man is the answer to all our problems. Thats why we will never find him. He does not exsist. A perfect anything doesn't exsists. I'm not going to find a man that has EVERY single quality that I'm looking for in a man, he'll have maybe 2 out of 5, but if there is potential I need to run wit it.
9452
Yeah, good friends don't make good boyfriends/girlfriends. Because the ralationship changes. But try reverting your relationship back to a friends state but still keep the benefits of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship going.
682749
The best thing you can do is go out and be around the general public. I know far too many woman who just stay at home all day and cry over why they don't have boyfriends. I keep telling them to go out to the mall, or a bar, or a club, or something, but they never do and the only people they can blame are themselves. So, basically, get out and go to fun places. You can meet a good significant other anywhere.
373131
i am a guy. if you find the right guy we are looking for some one who is kind caring loving and trustworthy.to get a boy friend find some one you like more than a friend. ask them to go hang out at a public place get to know them. if all go's well try a few more dates. if you prove you are loyal and if he is loyal your all set. you now have a good healthy relationship and a boyfriend. don't try to change just be your self some one will love you for who you are. trust me i have had a great relationship for 4 years.
1042075
NO!!! There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone experiences things at different times so don't rush the process. You never know when you get your first boyfriend he may turn out to be the right one. Just be patience and enjoy being you and being single.
732622
Sweet heart, I do not think you should have a boyfriend, you do not need one. You are very very young and you should be having lot's of fun with your friends. Why would you want to have a boyfriend who is only going to give you headaches???! There is enough time for everything in life, when you get a little older you will have a boy friend! When you decide to have one then you will probably stop hanging out with your friends and you will not even get the chance to meet other guy's and become their friends until you actually find the one that is "Perfect" for you!!! HAVE FUN, DO NOT COPY EVERY ONE ELSE, DO NOT GET A BOYFRIEND, BELIEVE ME!!! Good Luck!!!!!
294873
That is definitey wrong.  If you want an exclusive boyfriend then you have to be mature enough to make a decision that you are ready to be with "one person".  Sounds to me like you're still unsure of yourself and maybe afraid of being alone, but if you keep playing around with 3 guys, behind their backs, it's gonna hurt a lot worse than not having a boyfriend at all.  Maybe you should reconsider whether or not you are ready to commit to one person?
345975
hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
972133
Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
367115
maybe some things have happened it your past that make u feel u are not worthy of being happy and giving a guy a chance, you probably havent met the guy that you want to fully be with...it's a click that you feel almost immediately...keep being honest & kind....the right guy will come along and you DO deserve him......
1109303
if you feel that he is the most perfect guy for you, continue with your relationship. but remember - no body's perfect nowadays. but if you like him, then you have to accept all his bad personality. just make sure that you're not too hoping that he is really perfect, so that you will not disappointed if you find that he is not perfect.