im 16 i think i was taken advantage of by a 21 yr old. how much trouble could he get for touching me etc?
964753
It's your own fault for being stupid and leading him on. It's people like you who end up in serious trouble or dead.
853189
He definetely got in trouble. Maybe you should slip him your number.. wise up girl!
887741
you are obviously to young to have aboy friend especially four years older than you,you wont like most answers you get and thats because were older and understand the consequences of what your doing,you had sex? thats what a man four years older than you wanted from you it wont last much longer and if it does it will be just about the sex i could assure you he defiantely is seeing other females behind your back more to his age,i hope you have protection because getting pregnant is the last thing you need
828468
It clearly states "under 16".\n\nYou are not under 16.\n\nJust make sure you have your ID on you for his sake.
369869
In Ca. if a girl is under 18 it is illegal for a man of any age to touch her physically.
43633
leave him now or, find out the hard way.  He is taking advantage of you because you are young.  Be with someone your own age before you loose your self esteam and self confidence.
159345
well lemme tell u this ur probably beautiful and he probably will admit it, but who cares what ur parents say ur 21 for goodness sakes!!! ur no longer their child but u should also watch out of course lol but i think that if he makes u happy then whats stopping u?
904386
You don't mention your age, or his. Age is really just a number, the level of maturity is what matters. As long as you have stuff in common, get along, and like each other  - that's what's important. Also, don't let him influence you to do anything that you wouldn't do on your own - he may be sexually active, and you may not be ready.
852112
Depending on what state you live in, a romantic relationship with this man could result in jail time for him. If you truly care about him, then keep that in mind. No hanky panky -- and that could even include kissing in some states -- until you are legally old enough for it.\n\nAt your age, take it slow girl and get to know this guy. And keep in mind, there's lotsa fish in the sea, and you've got many many years ahead of you to find the right fish for you. This young man will understand if he truly cares for you, and he won't rush you into any kind of sexual relationship that you aren't ready for yet.\n\nAlso, really think about what you want in a long-term relationship and evaluate this guy against that. Don't look only at how he treats you, look at how he treats others, especially people who he might consider powerless such as waiters. That's a pretty good clue how he will someday treat you when the glamor and romance has worn off.\n\nAs for your friend, only you can tell whether the guy is worth the friendship, but if you want to remain friends with her, you have to be honest with your friend and tell no lies. Lies will make her feel like you aren't her friend and don't have her best interests at heart.
1092075
Please don't screw up your life! You are only 13 , you may be mature but he surely isn't. Probably he want just sex from you and after that he'll dump you! When you'll be 18 you will surely regret this. It will affect your growth also, at 18 you will look like 25 or more!
518724
Hey Me.... I am a mother and would feel very hurt if my child didn't tell me what was up and ran off with a 21 yr old. May I suggest that you sit down and talk with your parents. Yes they may be upset at first, but their your parents and will love you reguardless. Here is something else to think about. When I was your age I was head over hills for a man 7 yr older than me. I dated him for a year and realized that I wasn't in love with him, but liked his company because he listened to me when I thought my parents weren't. When it turn out they were. Then I met this cool guy my age and we dated all through highschool. So if you will take a suggestion from a mom..don't rush into anything take your time, because you never know a cool girl your age may come along that you relate to.
1036841
He could certainly have your 18 year old friend arrested for assault... and that's what he would be arrested for.  After that, with documentation, yeah, your friend could be sued for his actions.
1080586
when i was 21 i was going out with a girl who was 16. we had a great relationship for almost 2 years and if i had a chance to do it all again i would. the only problem was that as she got older and matured we drifted apart but that can happen with any relationship no matter what age you are. give it a try but don't let him use his age and experience to get you to do anything you don't want to. good luck, hope all goes well
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
521178
If you have a sensible head on your shoulders and know how to handle yourself then why not? It may be illegal for him to have sex with you where you come from though and he'll be the one that could get a criminal record if it is! But generally speaking, four years age difference is nothing! Just be very careful, is all I can suggest. Many older men have desires for young girls that are not altogether healthy.\nJust use some good judgment and keep safe!
404076
It really depends. first lets look at this from a legal point of view. It might be against the law in your state for a 16 and 22 year old to be together...as in sexually...as in statutory rape... as in 3 to 9 years jail time. But from another view. It really depends on the people in the relationship. A strain can develop from you two being on different levels, intellectually, mentally, physically, emotionally, experience wise, etc. you don't want to be talking about what happened at lunch at school while he is talking about the latest college parties or work whatever. There may also be a problem if your parents/guardians don't want you dating somebody who is that much older than you. I won't say that 22 is too old for a 16 year old but it may be more work than you should have to commit to as a 16 year old. PS older boys are in to older things(things you may not be ready for.)  what ever you choose BEST WISHES!
1107786
First, you should find out whether it was consensual.  Did the servant want to have sex with him, or did she have sex with him because he asked her to and she was afraid of losing her job?  If she was just afraid to say no to him, you should take steps to protect her.\n\nIf it was consensual sex, you may have to take steps to protect your brother.  Make sure that he is using a condom to protect against AIDS/HIV.  Also, consider whether the relationship may be too intense for him.  A first sexual relationship can be all-consuming, and to have it with a woman that works in your house and is in a different stage in her life- there's no way it will work out between them, and he has no where to go to escape her presence.  Also, how old is this woman?  I think that if it is a consensual relationship, it is predatory and weird for an older woman to have sex with a 16 year old.  In some places in the United States, this would be considered rape, since he's not old enough to make sound decisions about sex.  \n\nOf course, it's your decision.  You don't want to be too controlling and risk that your brother won't confide in you in the future.  But if I were you, I would quietly inform one of my parents, and, without making a big fuss, have them dismiss the woman from your service.