my friend need a g/f so pls help him on how approach girls when scared?
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girls go for confident boys.\nif your mate doesnt come across as confident he has no chance.\nhe has to be able to keep a converstaion going or the girls he is after wont be bothered.\nmaybe he should smile and let the girl approach him. but he has to talk to them when they do.
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Make him go out and mingle in friends .Ur friend sounds like an introvert only engrossed in studies .He should have faith in himself and his abilities .He should do some physical activity and try to be good there too .That way his confidence will boost up.\nAnd especially for interview ,he should try out some mock interviews and join some coaching institute for personality development .These institutes are very benefial for removing fear from interviews .\nHe should change his thinking style like Interviewers are also human beings .They are not going to eat him up .And So what if I cant crack this company ,I will give my best shot .Thats it!!
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Talk to him.  He doesn't know you exist because you haven't made it clear.  Guys are very bad at subtle signals, and generally speaking, we're "easy".  Having a girl try to pick up a guy is a heck of an ego boost for us males.
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if you are to scared, write a note to him, give it to a willing friend, and write in it like "meet me after school" or "I really like you, will you go out with me?" ect. or you can talk to one of his friends to do it for you it worked for me ^.^
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Ooh... hopefully he won't... But everyone is afraid, the best thing you can do is talk to him, develop a friendship, and eventually ask if he has a girlfriend. The more you deal with rejection, the less shy you'll be about it. Just think up interesting conversation fodder and small talk, chat it up a bit, make yourself look your best and so on.
837330
Are you the  guy? If so, she talks to you because she needs that to fill a void! Actually meeting the person you chat or talk with is a huge step...she's probably scared!
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if your girlfriend is afraid of this creep don't you let him get to you too.  He is threatening you, go to the police and tell them.  If it comes to it press charges,  Get a restaining order and then slap him in jail if he violates it.  Keep a journal of all threats and bad comments he makes to you with the dates that he does them use this to help you get a restraining order.\n\nAs for your girlfriend  if she will not help herself, you cannot help her, no one can.  If the police are there and she lies and says everythign is OK  no one can help her.  She must want to get away from this creep or no one else can do anything for her.\n\nDon't let this jerk start bullying you.  Stand up to him and put him in jail if he so much as touches you. Don't play cause he won't.
246728
What have you done to her?  May be scared of you because of the way y'all met, with so many predators a girl can't be too careful.
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well..if ur both really shy..then one of u have to b the confident one in a case like this. and since ur the guy..maybe u should make the move. u want to talk to her. walk up to her. girlz arent scary to talk to..it just mite take some confidence in going up to her. best of luck!
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be aggressive, B-E aggressive. Don't flirt with everyone, or else they will think you are a whore. And for gods sakes, buy a guy a drink every once in a while. Why are we afraid to talk to girls?  Maybe it's because we know we are going to pay $10 for your drink, and then get a fake phone number.
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Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
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I believe that must be something that hold back the lady. if she can't overcome the fear factor, I think the lady will never be committed in this relationship. Ask your friend to convince the lady that he is willing to overcome all obstacles together with the lady together. I hope this can work for your friend
688399
sometimes guys have trouble getting up the nerve to talk to girls so if u like him,just go talk to him..
6976
omg that's like an obssesive stalker type i think that u should get ur friend a 'pretend' boyfriend and see if that works and if they ask who it is make up a name and if they wanna meet'em then get a friend or one uv UR family members they don't know and use them if that don't work then just tell somebody cause when a guy wouldn't stop askin me out i told my older bro and he scared the crap outta him cause he has way huge muscels after servin in Afghanistan so just get somebody 2 scare him like a protective family member or her dad cause some dad's don't like it whenever guys ask their daughter out or bother them
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wimp out cuz he is scared of girls
794334
ok, what you need to do is just try and start a conversation with him. i have a friend that has a real fear of talking to guys she really likes. i tell her the same thing just start a random conversation. i am the type of person who can just start talking to any one without being scared.
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Hey:\nI understand just how he feels. I have this friend that "sweet" talks and when I turn around he gets beat up by another girl.\n\nThis is the answer. You hook him up with someone. Tell him how funny, sensitive or sweet he is with another girl to make her go out with him. You'll see how that will change in anything.\n\nAnother is that find a beautiful girl who matches him. Who has a lot in common with him. That would work just fine. \n\nAnother one is that make him go out with a girl that likes HIM. That will help even more.\n\nWhen it doesn't work in one of them, cheer him up.\nWell, nice writing.