somebody asked before... "what would ruin a great relationship?"?
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both are bad but i think finding out your girlfriend Roberta was at once apon a time Robert aka Bobbie would end the relationship pretty fast! lol\n\n:O)
762110
I would end the relationship, and always wonder what other things I did not know about this person. People who do these heinous things can never really be "friends" with anybody, lest their secrets somehow be discovered. I'm sorry for you if you were duped. It is a real betrayal. Don't blame yourself in any way for not knowing. These people are experts at deception and duplicity. Good riddance is about all you can say.
962595
lol interesting point of vew..i would say yes a good relationship shouldn't end because of something like this...unless it was really really irritating you, otherwise...i guess Glade Plug ins would have to do the trick.
747711
i think you know yourself what is going on\n\nconfront him with the facts before he can delete it all\n\nthe internet is now the biggest cause of relationship breakups
909298
This question is often asked on this site.  And it happens to many people.  Below is a careful consideration of what happens and what you have to do to make it better.\n\nYou appear to be in a long term relationship.  Marriage is mostly in the mind anyway, but you used the word cheating,(to me that is betrayal -- the ultimate betrayal) so obviously he/she 'shared'.\n\nLoving relationships are made of Respect, Admiration, Passion and Trust.  With cheaping, this person shared passion ---body and soul -- with someone else---This is the untimate betrayal, and therefore, as you have admitted, the trust is gone.  The other two, obviously have not returned, and as you said, 2 years have passed.  Even with counseling, it is usually more than two years and even with both wishing to repair the relationship.  Since these four things are the things that made a relationship, and these four things are gone, and these four things you have not been able to recover nor repair you have a roommate, sweetie.  And your relationship will not recover until you get some counseling and find out how indeed you can repair that trust so the other stuff can be rebuild....maybe.  Once a betrayal has occured, you have scrambled the egg.  You cannot unscramble it.  You can make other things with a scrambled egg, but it will never, never, never be the same.  It just never is, sorry.  So, advise, which you didn't ask for -- (you asked it things can ever be the same, and of course the answer is NO. )  \n\nGet yourself into counseling, for a few sessions,and see if there is any reason for you and your partner to go on.  You are spending years you can never get back, and you and your partner need to decide if your relationship is repairable. \nHelpful?
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What's the Worst That Could Happen?
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I think that he deserves a chance to know what is wrong with the relationship before you just drop him.\n\nIf you feel it's absolutely neccessary though, tell him straight, and let him know what he's doing wrong so he can have the experience for future relationships.
150566
probably better to ask a marriage counselor : ) it could be lots of things, some which are "fixable", some which aren't.
626027
After what? What would have made you not want to have sex now?
179710
Nope, there isn't.  Both will eventually get hurt, at one time or the other, in the course of the relationship.  Or, it could be that only one could get hurt, sooner or later...
401810
Just what do you want to make right?\nWork that out and ask the question again.\n\nA lot of times people leave one relationship but don't resolve any of their own issues. They know what the other person did wrong, and they know they wern't happy. The problem is unless we ourselves grow and change, we will most likely just repeat the same mistake over again with a new partner.
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How was the rest of the relationship?  There's much more to a marriage than not cheating.  Did you appreciate her or take her for granted?  Love on her or hit on her?  Listen to her or ignore her?  Care if you made her happy or content because you were?  Many things can make a relationship go astray.  Step back and take a look thru her eyes.  \nAnd then there are those that just don't appreciate a good think or know when they have one.  Which one does this describe?
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Well it really depends on how bad it is & how long it's been.  If the relationship is terrible with constant fighting and it has been going on for a long time, theres really no turning back other than counceling.\n\nIf the issues just started, however big or small there is still a chance to repair the relationship.  Now if it is bad, is it bad for you or your partner?  Do you benefit from eachother?  \n\nIf it's worth it to you, stick it out, only for yourself.
165492
Nothing, you already broke up with him...
99903
Lie and cheat...\nThat destroys most relationships real quick...
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it will end your relationship
835628
you have to come on here for an answer??? Leave the relationship behind if it isn't what you want anymore. Move on.