My boyfirend lives in a shared house and..........?
957984
well unless you're in a position to put a roof over his head you can't tell him where to live
285573
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
754360
It seems he is using getting close to your daughter as a way to stay in your house (maybe not intentionly) Sit down and talk to him, tell him your not ready to live with him full time. If your ready for try having just stay over at weekends. If he loves you he will understand, but be prepared if this is not what he wants to hear this may break upo the reletionship. First think clearly about what you really want and when you approach him with the subject just be prepared for what your gonna hear in return. \n\nGOOD LUCK!
220763
be honest with him tell him if he smokes pot in your house he is disrespecting (YOU). learn to stand up for yourself., its your home, if you dont want pot there, then he should respect you enough no to do it at your house.bottom line if there is pot he is not welcome in your home, simple and to the point, and dont worry if it hurts his feelings, he needs to show you respect.
173328
you tell him in straight forward manner. You expect rent, utility, and food money. If he disagrees, tell him that it is not your responsibility to take care of him. Treat him like an adult and be firm. If it gets to be two on one then its time to move yourself out.\n\nADDED\n\nif its your house then you can tell then its your way or the highway.
997951
ha ha ha lol. Make him a stay at home dad there is some house arrest for ya!!
498292
All is not well in your home tonight....there is lying and deception going on.....and not by you. He is lying to you, and using you. Tell him to tell the truth, or get out! After he tells you the truth, then you tell him to get out, cause you ain't gonna like what he tells you. Good Luck!
562885
You are so selfish. It's all about money to you. It would be such a convenience to you if could just move in with him, no regard for how he or your kids feel. Maybe he knows this and that is why he is not moving the relationship forward. You need to give the poor guy a break and move away, learn how to deal with life on your own, and then try to get into a healthy relationship...
417031
IF the house is in BOTH of your names, he can try and do whatever he likes but legally he will get in trouble by the courts by keeping you out of your home, that is if you want to be there. If the house is in your name too, go for the house if you can afford it, or ask for the equity in the house.
677063
Make an arrangement with him, that he does the dishes certain days, (and to never assume that you did them. He's jsut being a lazy unreliable kid) and on certain days you will do them. Do that with all the chores, if you want. And if it doesn't do them, its supposed to, no naps or movie watching.
270418
try to find him a place to live....\n\ntake the time to search for the new place when he is nearby\n\nwhen he asks what ur doing tell him that ur looking for his new place\n\nif u know his family call them
131529
Say What? I hope he's living in your dog house. Why are you allowing this dude to crash at your your place without working for 13 years??? Is he disabled? If not, tell him to find a job. Pick your self-esteem off the floor and dump this loser then maybe you'll find someone better.  Good Grief.
1122416
I guess you have already tried talking to him. What does he think is "ridiculous", you wanting him to help? I can only tell you what I would do. I would sit him down and tell him " As long as we BOTH have to work two jobs, I am not going to be the only one taking care of everything around the house. If you want a housewife, then you need to support one. Otherwise, we share the chores just like we share the bills". If he cannot see the logic in that, I would be considering leaving. There is no way I would allow myself to be treated that way.
735259
just tell him that if he doesnt do stuff around the house or get a job. then you will kick out of your house.
900467
I'm divorced, with 2 kids of my own, that live with me, and I'll tell ya, until HE is right with himself, there is NOTHING you can do.  He has to figure out what the deal is himself.  And you may need to find an alternative.
1094543
He should not be bossy and neither should you in this situation. He should be the head of the home though and make all the major decisions and you should be allowed to have input in this too. Compromise is important here. I recommend the book the Power of A Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian to you. It is a great book and they sell it in places like Walmart. Love your husband where he is at and maybe he is bossy because you are.  Try not to be so bossy and let him lead some and see what happens.
14338
* Buy another one for him\n* Ask monthly rent payment\n* Love him and change your mind\n* Make it difficult to live with you at the same home