not sure what to do or how to respond?
958767
Dude you shouldn't even be having that type of conversation with her.  Much less guilt tripping her into going to the UK to be with you.  Don't you realize that if her family knew she was talking to you .. her dad would personally come find you?  She is just a friend and you shouldn't entertain thoughts of her being any more than that.  And she definitely shouldn't go see you ..
417317
Don't push him but you can ask if he would tell you. If he says he doesn't want to talk about it, just say that you would really like to know what happened and if he ever feels comfortable telling you, you would like to know.
442517
I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
557324
Hello is always a good start...Then just ask how her day went. But if she's not the talkative type(I know I'm not) Then just ask simple yes or no questions til she feels more comfortable to talk.
640613
i would ask myself and her if we really love each other! maybe she did not understand the seriousness of what she was told...maybe she was too tired to comprehend. \n\ntell her again and ask why she reacted (more like not reacted at all) the way she did...
1122872
I would let her know where you are coming from. It also depends on what level you are with this person. Are you married? Girlfriend? Dating? In any case, you should let her know where you are coming from and that you want to come to some kind of understanding on how you are going to resolve the issue. \n\nP.S.\n\n2 wrongs do not make a right. Communication is key here. Talk it out.\n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 second ago\nOur relationship is very good because we communicate and everything its just sometimes she says the wrong things and I let her know . . . . eventually\n\n\nMy response: It appears as though she is not to sure how to communicate her feelings and in turn says things that hurt you. She also could be saying these things because she is unsure of how you feel so she is trying to get a REACTION out of you. SHE NEEDS REASSURANCE. Communication is still key.
779589
Just be honest with him. Tell him it's not working out and that you can't see it going any further. Just don't use the lines, "it's not you it's me", "lets just be friends", or "lets start seeing other people". That will be devestating. Just tell him the truth about why it isn't working and answer his questions honestly and don't press the issue on him and give him space.
738652
I have to agree with groovy.  Maybe his constant asking needed to be addressed.  Just apologize for the way you addressed it and talk it through.  Have a small gift from the heart that will answer that question from now on so that it never has to be said and your relationship can continue to move on.
627278
Sistah, you just gotta be honest and tactful in this situation as someones heart is involved. Treat him in a way that you would appreciate if the situation were reversed.  Good luck to you!!!
796761
Acknowledge the person's response and listen to what he or she has to say.  You indicated he or she may be dying, so this is not the time to argue, but to listen.  He or she may have learned some valuable lessons and willing to share with you.
434626
tell her you are sorry for whatever you did and if you still dont know what to do give her a chance to think about and give her a little time to think it over.
850063
Im not sure what the question is.
261391
Ask Questions!  Let him do some talking!  And be sure to listen to his response and try to base a follow-up question on what he says.  Like an interview on TV.  Pretty soon, bam! you're in a conversation!
1075916
I don't know what to do sorry!
264448
Pretend that you're confused or baffled or something... Then walk up to her and say "My friend and I were arguing , and we want to know ...." Basically ask any question. Just appear to be confused and appear that you really need their help.
86634
I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
121990
Clarify immediately in a very balanced tone and after the conversation is over, pull him aside, talk to him about it and openly express your concerns. Do not allow this to continue for your own good.