He's older, I'm younger. He's obstinate and I"m demur. Will it work?
952640
If old, obnoxious guys turn you on - go for it!  Opposites attract, right?
84017
Discipline. Or you will be in for some really tough times once he is older.  Grounding, take away things he likes.  Follow through, and don't give in.  You need tough love Mom.
852964
he sounds like a typical 6-year old boy.  patience.  read to him and have him read to you every night.
281614
sure!  go for it... if he is as shy as you, the two of you will never talk!
281624
Well, that is a tough one but, if he is out of "Pampers" then just simply tell him that he is acting imature and advise him on how to improve.  It will take some graceful tact on your part however, I have confidence in you.
339128
Realistically, there's probably nothing you can do.  He's an adult and has chosen to become a thief.  If he doesn't see something wrong with that, nothing you can say will make him feel otherwise.
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See if he is willing to open the lines of communication so he will at least hear and acknowledge your side, even if he doesn't agree with it. Using good communication skills will let you see his side, too, and perhaps help you understand why he is obstinate.\n\nFor example, practice "active listening." Each person takes a turn speaking, and the other is not allow to interrupt. They can only make sounds or say words that acknowledge they are listening, like nodding or saying, "Ah," or "I see." When the speaker is done, the listener summarizes what they believe was said. The speaker either confirms it or makes any necessary corrections. Then you switch roles, and the listener gets their chance to speak.\n\nThis process ensures that you understand each other. Agreement is not necessary; the goal is to understand the message.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
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If you have the same interests and physical fitness levels it might work.  Just know that statistically you're going to be left alone because his life span will be considerably shorter than yours.
1139361
Listen to your instincts.  Something says that he is a fickle, undecisive, and immature person.  Give him space to grow up a bit.  You never know.  He may change for the better.
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You should just ignor him don't drop what your doing and isolate yourself.  Ignor him.  If you can't concentrate just leave without saying a word.  If you listen it will bother you and make you want to yell back.  If you yell back he will be even more upset and that may lead to and awful fight.  Just tune him out.  I know my dad was a mean old man and blamed everything on me even though I was his little princess.  I tune him out and go about my business.
77024
Have you considered dumping him? That'll fix him for sure.... Unless you are fond of passing out drunks who treat you poorly. Just a thought.
640886
spend more tym wiv him speak to him . i think dis will help
229584
Age is not a problem. Your brother shouldn't be a problem either. Talking and trying will be your best bet.  Go for it!
536144
If he is over 18 and you are under 18. He is being smart.
1098712
I pray that he will change his prejudiced ways, mature in every way and that you really think about yourself and why you want a convicted felon in your life. You can't change him. You can't help him unless he helps himself first!  You both will probably be very different people by then anyway.
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A good bl*wj*b will slow him down!  You are the mother of a five yr. old.  You should know by now.
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i think thats the only way to take it. obviously he thinks hes too good for you. you sound very mature. i hes going to act like a child, then youre too good for him.