How do women like a decent looking guy to dress like before considering him as a possible date?
965873
It doesn't matter what brand a man wears, at least not to a REAL woman.  The shallow materialistic ones, maybe, but not us real women.  As long as he is neat and clean, it doesn't matter what or "who" he wears.  I think my guy looks best in his jeans and T-shirt.  He was wearing denim shorts and a polo when we met and I couldn't keep my eyes off him.  And now I can't keep my hands off him.  hehehe!
435007
What exactly are you looking for when you go out dressed like that?\n\nAre you dressing sexy so the guys look at you or because you feel sexy and dress that way out of your own confidence?\n\nMen see confidence and that is why they approach. You can be in the tighest, shortest, cleavage, skin showing outfit, but if you don't have inner confidence-Men can see that and stay away.\n\nYou may not even know but you may give off an "unapproachable" vibe. Guys may find you attractive, but something about you is revealing you are looking for something. I was told not too long ago- I give off that unapproachable vibe-Well- I quickly worked on that...It's still a work in progress.\n\nSeriously though, I used to think that if I didn't get a guys number or hook up with a guy at the end of the night that it was a waste. Now I don't even care- and I have found that when you aren't there to hunt your prey- they seem to fall all around you.\n\nSo think about your intentions and your actions. If you are going out just to meet a guy and you are dressing all sexy just to attract a man then yes, when you walk out at the end of the night- you will feel lonely and strange.\n\nBut if you are in there and you have your drink-find your inner confidence- only you will find it. A man won't, your girlfriends won't, not even your family. You have to find it, and truly believe it- because girlfriend- you are fabulous. You have to believe in yourself. Believe me- I went through it and today, while I am still single- I am confident!
313394
You have to think of Yourself First. Forget about how men see you. Start thinking to make youself a better person.\n\nExecise, lose weight...if you are in shape get some interest like a hobby or some good reading...build some "new you" but not because you have to boost confidence with men, do it because you must boost confidence "in Yourself". You look in the mirror and you think.."I like you now.."\nWhen you have reached this point you will see strange things happening to you...Men will be attracted to you as ever before, even if you were ugly..Why? Because your  self-confidence send out a message, like a scent, telling men that you are OK you are the woman they are looking for, and all of this because you spent time building that confidence\nFOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON. DO IT FOR YOU::
994047
Oh good grieF!\n\nIf he's single and you are even half decent looking you got yourself a date.\n\nWhy do girls think that guys are girls.  The one advantage you have is that nature made guys VERY OPEN to any decent girl.
862262
Just look sweet and sexy and let nature take it's couse. Oh walk slowly by him, if he says nothing look back to see if he's looking. Walk back by him and ask him Whats a nice guy like you doing in a place like this!!!!!
422727
Check her out from head to toe....and if between her hair do, clothes, accessories and shoes look like they total half of your rent or more (assuming you have your own place) you may want to leave that one alone.  On the other hand if your looking to find a good women look for simplicity, a women who's not afraid to go out with no make up, a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with some nikie's.  Someone who can laugh at herself.  Oh and if she asks you to buy her something on your first time out or to borrow money...RUN....YOU'VE JUST ENCOUNTERED A GOLD DIGGER.
1002508
Im a guy, you know what i really dont know you that well and i really cant see you.. soo I really dont have that much option dont I? if the guy likes you, it doesnt matter what you wear what matters the most is whats in the guys heart.  If he's into looks trust me you dont need to wear flashy dresses, what matters the most is does he care for you?
425826
Well, make sure you know the girl first.\n\nEvery girl loves getting compliments, even if they don't show it. Pick some thing small to begin with. Start off with an "You have the prettiest eyes. They remind me of the ocean." DONT EVER COMPLIMENT HER ON HER 'RACK'. I can almost guarantee there will not be a second date.\n\nNot every girl likes an handsome guy. Most people care more about personality. \n\nDon't do any of the cheesy stuff. Be original. Take a chance.
94944
First of all im going to start off by saying that I am not an ugly girl at all. I have dated club owners of well known downtown clubs in Houston, and many other successfull business men. I am curently dating a pro baseball player.I was the type of girl that went for the looks right off the bat, only because i had to be physically attracted to a guy if I was going to date him. But since then I learned a very good lesson while dating all of those men. Looks are not everything. At least there not to me anymore. I now look at the guy in the inside. If you have a good sense of humor and your just a really positive person YOU WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT TYPE OF GIRLS. That a good guy like you should want. A good honest decent girl who  wants a man that has a heart and  a good head on his shoulders. you need to stop looking at what you dont have and focus on what you do have, all of your good qualities. I love a guy that is confident and knows that what he has to offer a lady is more then just looks. Appearence is not everything. Good luck in finding that girl and keep me posted. Sorry if that wasnt the advice that you were looking for.
594774
compliment his style and the way that he looks. Always try to look pretty and cute by being yourself. Be confident, guys find that attractive. After having him establish that you exist, try and find some interest between you and him, but dont compromise youself in doing things that he only likes just because... Once you have found the common ground, you can ask him to join you or to join him.. Ask him out maybe if your up to it.. \nDont sell yourself to quickly tho.. he might get wierded out ... Just make sure that your around him long enough so that he has no other choice but to like you back....
404708
women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
533170
It really depends on the guy. If you're trying to attract just any guy, wear a lot of eyeliner, RED lipstick, and some outfit that really expresses your personality!
865778
There are plenty that are more than just  decent looking.    Also,  beauty is not always lasting and I would also look for the inside qualities.   \n\nCheck out a blonde on The Bachelor.   She is a virgin ..I think her name is Katy or Sadie (as a pretty example). \n\n   Many have joined a group called   True Love Waits.    There are good women waiting for a good guy like you.   Wow...congatulations!! \n\n  If only more people really understood.   It takes a strong person  with good character to wait  and knowledge of God's word.....and a person with respect for others.  God Bless you and your future wife and home.
68152
Catch sales and take your time looking. The salespeople will help you find the right outfit. Some clothing stores have make-up counters, ask for a demo. Buy what you want, go home, take a long bubblebath, etc. Take your time getting dressed and wait for your date. When he sees you all dressed up looking so beautiful, you will blow his damn mind!
777327
women want a guy thats charming and bold. dress nice, smell good, have an enthusiastic energy, smile, display your sense of humor, ask open-ended questions that create an emotional connection, like asking her about her passion in life, what she likes to do, etc and relating it with your own experiences.\n\ndont be scared to get a little physical, a little playful, keep it fun and friendly, but also compliment her and make her feel special. dont expect too much from the first date. if you play your cards right you might get a kiss, but make sure and make a second date before the date is over\n\noh, and if youre paying, try and dont spend more than $50 for the date ;)\n\ngood luck bro
440212
What an excellent question! Girls, not so much women, at least secure women do not do this. I fins from past experience that most girls or insecure women feel the need to do this, then get mad, when they really have no right to do so. If you don't want the looks in a suggestive way, then dress with some class for god sakes! \n\nGirls today more than ever seem to lack the most basic of proprietary skills, class and social graces. If you don't want men to look at your boobs, buns or other areas than don't wear the slutty clothes. Have some self respect and dress with dignity. \n\nBesides a real man, a man worth keeping would not respect you for acting or dressing in such a manner and actually the classy look in the end will garner much more favorable attention. No good man wants to think he can have his way with you on the first date, that is if they're being honest with you and themselves.
289412
I kinda know how you feel.  I have a guy friend who feels the same as you and he talks to me about it sometimes.  Yeah it is kinda true.  I'll be honest with you and I don't mean to be rude or offend you but I've noticed that a lot of physically attractive men turn out to be @$$holes but on the other hand, the sweetest guys usually aren't the best looking.  So, like most women (and men) will go for someone who looks hot but in the end, they get hurt.  They want a shoulder to cry on and knowing how caring you are, they'll go to you.  I used to go after the good looking ones but I kinda gave up on that after I realized they all turned out to be @$$holes or perverts.  I mean, I still won't date a guy who is ugly lol but they still have to look at least decent.  I have found that these kinda guys actually respect women more and are very sweet.  So, with that being said, sorry to be blunt but you may need to change your looks and the way you dress.  I know it sucks but its true that people tend to be attracted to someone by looks and believe it or not but it does affect they're decision if they'd date you or not.  Also, I'm sure you'll find a good girl.  Hey, there's 3 women to every man on this planet...that's plenty enough for everyone.  Maybe you should stop looking.  I think they tend to come around when you least expect it and aren't looking.