when you have to perform in front of your boyfriend but your nervous what do you do?
957014
so i had a boyfriend the past 4 months who was in marching band with me.he was in the drumline and i was in colorguard.when we had to practice our marching show the colorguard would have to perform it while the band and drumline watched.at first it was really hard to do it in front of him cause i didnt know what he would think,say,or do.but soon enough i realized that he was my boyfriend-someone i trusted and loved.and if he felt the same way he wouldnt care if i did wonderful or if a screwed up.in his eyes i was perfect.so,for me,that was a confidence booster,and i ended up doin really well and rockin his socks off.
653090
be yourself. do you you feel comfortable doing with him.
681958
girl I am not going to lie to you it will be very HARD.  The best thing is, just say hey I need to step back and do it.  Don't be mean because you still have to work with him.  Keep your head up
451401
you'll get nervous when you are close to him...
216404
Just relax and breathe...tell him your nervous and he will probably admit to the same.  Just both of you knowing that will probably help and be a conversation starter also.
183424
practice is always a good thing.. i have an immense fear of public speaking but find it helpful if i practice on some people first.. as time goes on you'll figure out that u remember more of what ur speach contains and it will all start to flow more smoothly.. if all else fails, think of them nude...lol...
587403
Just relax and realize that if you can't get over being so nervous, how are you going to get to know that person? Oh, and remember to breathe...focus in on it, and that will help the anxiety.
943755
Be confident everytime you sing..... show them off your "talent"..... let them realize that even you dont have voice like celine dion or mariah carrey... you can still belt in!!! hola girl!!!! the show must go on!!!!
477512
My BF does that to me...it feels good but i get embarrassed when he does it and i totally freeze up. LOL!!!
214700
Actually, whether you admit it or not that is a result of some anxiety. You are indeed nervous. However, that can be controlled very easily. Take a class in performance anxiety. It will teach you a bit more about your problem and how to redirect your focus so that you are able to stop it from happening.
1013695
i gues people just fear the things they don't know or understand. One of my best friends is a girl and we haven't done anything other than a hug.  I guess if you are ever in a relationship then make sure your boyfriend understands the situation. It could also be the people that are around you, cause I really haven't had that problem.
145676
The only way to get over being afraid of singing in front of other people is to actually sing in front of other people. You'll end up getting used to it and after awhile it won't even bother you anymore. It just takes time and getting used to. Don't let your fear stop you from singing. Keep on singing and good luck!
1084258
Untie and loose your top in front of him, then hug him for safety out of embarrassment
778380
stop being a pansy and just git it dun\njust go for it\nbeing nervous is for people who dont know what to do or are unprepared
1129433
your getting to excited to quick. relax dont flex your muscles, especially your glutes( but muscle)and once you stick it in try to think think of things having nothing to do with the act, like a mental conundrum or try to remember the names of the seven dwarves, or what are the 8 wonders of the world. dont go to far though you need to pay attention to your partner too
261638
just be your self make sure your alone with the guy then you wont be as nerves and listen to a good song so you can be confident i rec amend (hate me now)by nas its cool
702507
I had the same problem. You just have to wait for the perfect time and not rush things. My boyfriend use to be so shy but now I can't get him to shut up. J/K.