if you hurt everyone you ever get close to?
956876
Move to a different part of the world and just make new friends. death is not something people should play with...
1093833
We hurt others when we fail to forgive and we hurt ourselves when we refuse to forgive. It's like I've always said; it's not what we eat that gives us ulcers, it's what eating us that gives us ulcers! I say that if you cannot see over this it will eat away at you until it develops into something more. I mean if we insist on being hurt, we forfeit all the things that would make this relationship worthwhile. The hurt will turn to bitterness, then resentment and no peace for yourself, eventually a broken relationship. You will become your own slave to what's eating you. Please think about what I've said and then consider the seriousness of harboring the hurt you are feeling right now. It might ease the pain that your going through and eventually you will see the rainbow as time is a wonderful thing and it always works things out.
211705
leave him alone  youre out to hurt someone because you got  hurt
651911
just say sorry in front of every one if u have really committed something wrong. and care for her/him every now and then so that he/she will develop a soft corner in their heart.
676966
life goes on and we all get hurt... let ur guard down because you cant  live your life affraid to love someone because you got hurt before.   dont close the doors to new and wonderful people! it would be the biggist mistake you ever make. ..life is a risk...live it!
471476
Realize that no matter how much it hurts you might never get that person back from either your mistake or that persons. If it's meant to be, it will. Hate that statement, but it's true.
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
923251
You will have the most pain you have ever known.\n\nCoach
348331
They still feel the pain so they have to blame someone even though they didnt always do it. Sad but true even though you didnt do anything too her she might hurt you just to make herself happy.
1016208
To your main question: NO!   That would not be the end of your suffering, only the beginning, and the beginning of the suffering of those who care about you.   I felt heart-broken years ago over someone who means nothing to me now.   Pain on this earth gradually fades away.  What can mean the world to you now can be nothing to you eventually.  Just deal with it one day at a time.  Tell yourself every morning that you just need to make it through  the day...eventually you won't need to.
32184
Absolutely not! If I'm only harming myself, and no one else, what is wrong with that?
579112
I think that people would be very hurt if I die right now.  I have a good many people who are concerned about me and love me very much.
749433
Go talk to someone now!  A parent, friend, family member, someone who cares for you.  Have someone else to help share your burden.  I am sorry for how you have been treated, and I DO understand, believe me.  But you must realize that such people are hurting themselves, and therefore they will hurt people.  \nYou seem like you have a pure and tender heart.  Don't take it so much to heart.  People need you!
665040
My abusive ex.  I won't go into details but the physical and mental damage done by this man is something I carry with me all the time.  Because of him I cannot have children and underwent 5 surgeries to fix the physical damage.  The paranoia I deal with on a daily basis because he has not been caught can be crippling at times, to the point I get afraid to go outside or go anywhere alone.  I cannot trust people like I used to nor do I let people close to me anymore, except a very select few.  It's left a feeling in me that seems to say people will suck you in by acting nice then they will turn on you like a rabid dog once you are sucked in and let your guard down.  I know, realistically, that isn't the case but it has left that feeling.  No, I'm not over this yet but I am working on it.  It just takes time to undo the damage done.  But it did take part of me and who I used to be away and I will never be able to get that back.
178310
Depends........what are your ages?.....Are you prepared to deal w/ the consequences w/ your teacher if you were to hurt him? or vice versa how you would feel toward your teacher if he hurt you?........That would be a question to really think about and ponder on........
153939
You know everyone lies to someone but your right are we just lieing to keep them from getting hurt or so they just won't get hurt by you only someone else?Any way someone always gets hurt in the end.
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While I see your point that its harder to find people like this, I can still empathize for people.  I have been hurt alot, starting at five when my dad walked out, and i just dont want to see others hurt like i have been hurt.  I go out of my way to make sure i never hurt anyone.  And i often find that people are more than willing to take advantage of that.  It makes you sad to know that no one looks out for other people anymore, and its all about themselves.  This is definetly not me-i would go without to make someone happy, and if i see someone in pain i will do whatever i can to stop that pain.  I got a forward from someone about the perfect heart that i think you would really appreciate.  I would tell you, but it might be a little long-I know this might seem weird, but if you wanna email me at wyzeone2000@yahoo.com, ill find it and send it to you.