should i break up with my bf??
954523
Communication in a relationship is very important. If he cannot communicate then I think you should let him go. You are still young and have lots of time to find the right one. Love does hurt, but heals over time.....good luck
518304
you need to think about why your staying with your bf if your not in love with him then you should leave, you need to think about the relationship in terms of how you feel forget about the other person for a bit and focus on how you feel. but you need to think if you feel out of love when this new guy come into the picture if so you need to think about what he can actually provide you. and how long you have known him cause if you end it with your bf and go out with him and then break up you may be left with nothing
234956
Its obvious you arent THAT happy in your relationship, since you are even considering this... SO- LEAVE!\nHave fun!
327216
Do it the old fashion way. Tell him directly. Or just say, things aren't really working out between us. I want to break up with you.
1179415
You should come to the realization that there is nothing boring about a great relationship.  If you continue always looking around for something better, you will regret it later after much heartbreak.  I suggest that you stay with your BF and tell your ex to stop calling.  Sadly, based on what you have written here I do not have a good feeling about your future unless you find a way to change your goals and philosophy.
1074876
There is no easy way to do this. I wonder though, if you love him so much, why break up? Consider your reasons and then be straight and honest with him. Then go your own way. Good luck with this.
36813
It depends on who you like best.  If the guy you are with cares about you a lot and loves you- STICK WITH HIM.  Especialy if the other guy doesnt even notice you. I mean if your BF isnt all that dump him but the dont just dump him b/c the other guy might not be as loving as your BF.  (Assuming you dont really KNOW the guy)
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
180380
Well, put it this way. If you continue to stay in this unhappy relationship, than ur only makin yourself miserable. So would u rather be miserable or just brake it off with him and be happy again? It's your feelings againts his...which one r u going to chose? Ask urself that!
858755
your bf will call you anywhere wherever you are and if he wants to break up with you, let him go. don't waste your time to him. you are still have many times to look for another boys which is right for you. time is not gold.\n\ngood luck!!!
836082
You really DO have to decide for yourself and what anyone on here says cant change that but if he was cheating on me i would break up with him, and plus if you never see him, than what is the point? I think you should find somebody better than that because you dont derserve that!\n\nGood Luck And Take Care!
273593
i think you should tell your bf the whole story..choose the friend..coz if you don't like your bf as much as you're supposed to then i'm not suRe he's happy at all either..\n\n^_^
905925
You should break up with him.  I mean if you are really sorry then give him his freedom from you.
989153
This is your life.  You are the one who decides whether you stay in a relationship or not.  Still, you might ask yourself what the reasons are "everyone" wants you to dump him.  Does he mistreat you?  If that's the case, then maybe they're right... but you have to be the one to call it quits.  They can't make the decision for you, and they can't do it for you.  Good luck.
146533
Well, if you don't want to break up the only suggestion I have is talk to him about it. If he is in love or even if he just cares about you he'll understand what your needs are and be more considerate of you.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
845922
If you really like Sam and Sam likes you then go for it girl... Even if you break up with your boyfriend, he would still stick around... So never mind him... Enjoy yourself...