Does sex hurt as much as the first few times?
962615
Doesn't sound like you were ready, it hurts if you are not lubricated  or turned on enough, get your boyfriend to concentrate on turning you on more beforehand and perhaps get some KY jelly.\n\nIt does get better, just think the Human Race would have died out before now otherwise !\n\nGood Luck
596401
The first time, it pretty much hurt.  And did for the next couple of days.  But after that, it just got better and better.\n\nIf the guy knows what he's doing, and really cares about how you're feeling, it's pretty amazing.  It's definately one of those things that you want to do with a guy you trust and love.  If you have doubts, better to wait.\n\nOh, yeah, and use protection.  Even if you're on birth control, use a condom.  It's safer that way.
801789
It sounds like this may have been your first time.  If so, it's normal to be sore for a few days, as your hymen was probably torn a little.  This is normal.  If it continues to be painful, you should see a doctor.
93663
It doesn't necessarily needs to hurt a lot, if you are with a experienced guy that can increase your level of arousal to the point where you can take it in...\n\nHowever, if your first experience is with a guy that doesn't know what he is doing he can really hurt you. It's good that you want to know about it before doing it, and every case is different because you Get aroused on different ways and the person you are with, needs to know how to calibrate you...
1013086
Simple, well it is simple for a woman. Sex for the first time hurts, and it is only something to sharewithsomeone you love. When a woman has not had sex yet she does not know how good it can actually feel. Next she does know that it is going to hurt. Would you put yourself in pain for someone you don't have feelings for? I dn't think so.
106440
The first time can hurt- especially if you are feeling tense, because the vagina is a muscle.  It's important to feel relaxed.  My first time really didn't hurt at all.  Sex feels good.  We are lucky to be a species that can enjoy sex for pleasure and not soley for means of procreating.
618230
After you have sex for the first time or have a female problem.
1142074
Sure women enjoy sex just as much as guys ( as long as its done right!) And for some girls it does hurt the first time for others it doesn't hurt.
590525
In my experience it is possible to prevent the first time being painful at all if you have played around plenty with your hands and mouth on other occasions.\n\nFingers can be a bit rough, but if you're gentle they can be great. Definitely eases the way for something larger. Also helps the girl learn what she likes and what feels good as many girls don't masterbate with penetration when they are virgins.\n\nPositions... definitely missionary the first time.
442380
try using some lubricant like KY Jelly, also have him only insert it a little at a time until you get used to it. Sometimes it takes a little stretching on your part. Once you have sex several times then you should be able to handle it, and it should not hurt any more. Good luck!
1014733
Yes it is very normal, when I first started having sex with my now husband my stomach would hurt so bad I could hardly walk. It will get better with time, I think it lasted a couple months for me can't quite remember though as it was over 7 years ago. Good luck
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
113493
it doesn't make it feel worse. but sometimes spacing out when you have sex by a few days can increase how good it feels when you ****. waiting a few days in between will build up the want for it, the hormones, and the amount of sperm. having sex very often won't affect your sex life but if you and your partner do the same acts everytime it might end up getting a little bit boring.
363483
for some it does for others not. If your having sex with a girl for the first time, the most important thing to do is take your time entering her. Also make sure her pu$$y is really wet. cuz if it's not it may hurt you too.
399335
If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
277384
No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!