guy troubles keep talking or no?
955960
keep him on the back burner but no I would say don't concentrate too much on him. The worst thing you could do is become really interested in him and then not have it work out.
608285
If you cant realize what he might be thinking/feeling...\nJust read what typed.  Give the guy a break.  Would you call someone 4 times a day, if you didnt like them??\nThink about it for just one minute.  He could be justa tad shy, + you're still married.
238045
If he is always talking to his friend you should try something unusual...:)Try to talk with his friend about this:P. You should take courage...Life is not  meant to be easy.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
517793
I hate to say this but be very careful he isn't cheating on you. It seems strange that he would just stop. Maybe he just needs some spicing things up, but DON'T tie the knot until you get him to talk about things. Communication is so key in successful relationships. If he won't talk to you, you may have to move on. I feel your pain girl, I've been there.
1096970
Depends on the guy.  But if you have to ask, you are likely a little on the smothering side.  Give a guy room to breath.  Wait for him to say it to you next time.
632383
My advice is, not to push the issue. He has said he needs time, and I know that's frustrating, but you have to give him time....or move on!
154112
Well, you must remember most guys are lazy when it comes to phone conversations. They like to talk in person. It seems to be a good feeling to have the girl present when conversating. Now, if you keep calling and he doesn't answer, then it means he was "playing" you girl. Though you must consider the fact that he's probably afraid of losing a wonderful girl like you and he wants to take things a little slow.  Give him some time.  Set a time to meet again and hang out a little more or have him plan things out with you.  He will eventually warm up to you and then you won't have to worry about phone calls because he'll be there by your side to conversate with you in person. Just remember that men are a bit slow. LOL. Be a little patient if he's worth the time. Sometimes, you might have to get to know the guy a little more to find his sweet self.
1098194
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
257695
You should be a little more descriptive as your definition of his N A issues may not be so N A'd to someone else.  And if they are that bad for you to ask, then perhaps you should move on.
365007
Sleeper_grrl has the right attitude.  If you want a good relationship, then you should be able to talk with the guy.  If you can't talk to a man about what he feels, then he is not someone you want a long term relationship with.
656478
If the lines are communication aren't open then you may have to consider leaving him or you will just endure more problems in the long run. Give him the benefit of the doubt and tell him what you are contemplating and see how he feels about it and if it doesn't seem good, bounce (leave him) MEN IS LIKE A BUS ONE COMES EVERY 5 MINUTES !!!!!!!!!!
229640
guy #2 obviously doesnt like you so move on. and keep guy#1 as your friend!! friends are important, maybe more important than a relationship!
871493
SOMETIMES THAT THE DEAL WITH MEN, THEY SAY WHAT]THEY NEED TO SAY TO GET WHAT THEY A WANT. IT\nIS BAD THAT IF HAS TO BE LIKE THAT.BUT SOMETIMES GUYS ARE NOT RIGHT. BUT YOU JUST HAVE TO GO\n'WITH THE FLOW.BUT KEEP YOUR GUARD UP SO THAT\nWANT BE ANY PROBLEMS. IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN\nGOOD LUCK..
159033
On guy number 2, never settle.  It's not fair to you or him.  On guy number one, just go talk with him, see if you can lead the horse to water...  If not, it's not meant to be.
828004
This sounds a little weird, so I definitely think that you should talk to your guy. Tell him that this is really bothering you and that you don't mean to go crazy on him. If he really cares about your feelings, then he won't just blow you off.
450366
He just wants to be short and sweet with the answers... its good that he's a great listener, most guys don't even have the patience to stay still for minutes... if u really want to know what on his mind, well just ask him... gdluck...