oK guys only and be honest, and if you are going to be an a** hole about it don't answer the question?
958525
guys can be jerks ... and some never grow up. some are just superficial and never outgrow it. there are a few of us good guys out there... but there are becoming fewer and fewer of us by the day.. because parents these days don't teach their kids to respect women the way we were. I mean kids running around calling women ho's and such..and hitting them. not good shows absolutely no respect for women.
1079283
Gee ! a clever guy like you should not be asking questions..is it for our benefit ? You should be answering only.\nNo offence , keeps us awake !
796421
think how you would feel if the situation were reversed? but i know how you feel, i take numbers even though i have no interest in calling that person, i mean some guys cant take no for an answer. all you can do is tell the truth.
652669
No, not at all...and if you do, then you are setting a double standard (if your a guy) and if you are a girl, don't worry about it...
1151072
Is there anything more annoying than the one loser who won't answer the question? " Oh I care about her heart" shut up douche bag, that's why you don't get laid! Answer the girls question dummy. Oh yea, the bootie baby!!!
619542
my hats off tou you for making law enforcement your career path. I really respect you folks. to answer you question, I think it depends on the guy. Some of us guys are very shallow and some just plain ignorant etc.you could be a cop a ceo or a vip... doesnt really matter. what matters is who you are not what you do.
1045381
why don't you just be sincere with your intentions... ? tell him without pretense, and it should be fine
1085320
Your discusting! Don't ask people that over the internet, or in real life if your not in an itimate relationship!
1185691
Just say the truth. Most of us don't like to hear what is true about us. But, if you want to fell good with yourself just said the way you ask. Well not to offend you, but remember that day that we have sex I think I need to show you how to do it.
478586
The way many girls seem to have trouble just being honest & upfront with men.  I've seen questions on here like "how do I get a guy to ask me out without letting him know I'm interested in him".  Wouldn't it be so much easier to walk up to the guy & ask him if he was single & might like to go out?  We do it all the time, & appreciate when a woman will ask us out instead.  I personally find this approach from a woman a refreshing & mature change of pace that will quickly earn a woman my respect.
733783
You say , listen, I don't want to be involved with anyone right now, or at this time in my life, so you need to understand I'm not trying to be rude, just honest. I don't have the time or desire to date anyone right now. But I'm sure there is a guy somewhere out there who will be interested in you.
651081
read all this guys questions before answering this
1016605
coming from a guy's point of view....I think you should tell him
119918
Well its your choice what you say.  You can be honest without being rude.  As far as  hurting her?  There is probably nothing you can do about that.  Unfortunately we all get hurt sooner or later.
924544
I don't think  this guy would shoot at you for turning him down.  I think he would shoot at you for leading him on.  He asked if you're guy and you said no; that should be enough for him.
854969
No it's not rude to ask in my opinion.  The guy could always not reply if it is upsetting.  Perhaps you really really helped him with your answer and he would be very grateful.  I think you should ask and then you can satisfy your curiousity because until you do, it is going to niggling away at you.
186745
I do think the man u'r asking for will not answer this question. Sorry.