She wont talk to me, and I love and deep down I think she loves me.  Shoud I wait?
967528
If you really want her back LEAVE HER ALONE! A woman can not stand to be ignored. She will come looking for you.
578451
Just tell her how you feel, before it's too late ,or you will never forget yourself. Even if she doesn't love you back, just move on and pretend that never happen. You'll find a beautiful woman who loves you for who you are.Good luck dear.
713242
Maybe you should let her Know how you feel who Knows she may be too shy to let you know but you never Know as a saying goes it is better to love and lose than to not have loved at all so give it a try.
420361
Yes she loves you. She probubly loves alot of people. She sounds like a kind person.  That is probubly what attracts you to her.  but unless she dumps her boyfriend for you she probubly doesn't love you the way you think.  take care to cherish your friendship.  they are hard to come by.
103930
Just ask her.She should tell you. If she talks to you a lot and likes being around you then yea shes happy. If you ask her then she'll most likely will say yes. Do you just want to see her and wonder that forever. If you love her that much ask her its not that heard. Show you love her.
601404
You cannot force her to love you. Move on, find someone else who will love you too.
1063804
withdraw yourself for some time. don't make it worse than it already is! she is 10 years older than you. even if she loves you, she might also be totally confused now.\n\ntime will solve it.\nin any case, you did enough because you told her about your feelings. don't go crazy if she is quiet. get yourself busy with your own things for a while. maybe you can make peace some time later.\n\nlook. I also did like this with my closest male friend two weeks ago! (what a coincidence). but here the reason was different: I fell in love with HIM. and we also had a fight before that.\nof course we had, cause everybody was expecting something else from the whole relationship than he/she got!\nso it is the same: we don't talk and also don't write now.\nI told him not to!\ncause I can't take it any more, cause it hurts, cause... blahblahblah!\n\nbut the truth is that now after two weeks I calmed down and I would really want to make peace - if I only knew how!!!\n\nI think it is best you give her and yourself TIME.\n"and time can do so much...\noh myyyy love.. my darling, I hunger for\nyour touch\nalone"\n:-)\n\ncomm'on, put some good music and cheer up.\nyou are not the only one on this planet who messes up friendship for love!\nhere is another one, hellooo there!\nbut this one, over here.. ye she is female.\n \n((maybe you want a younger woman than 31? can we exchange ur ex-friends? instead of writing them poems? well, I haven't started writing poems yet, but I must tell, I am not far from it!!!\nI already sent him songs! hm.\nit is only the world cup keeping me mentally busy now, otherwise I would be writing poems and crying all day!\n\nI am OLNY 25, by the way! don't despair, the sea if full of good fresh fish!!!))
380979
If you guys really love each other you can wait. Keep talking to her and when you get enough money, go see her. I know it's hard not being with the person. you love, but if it's meant to be it will happen eventually. In the mean time talk to her, write to her, and you can chat w/ cam
1142191
I think you should be "logistically" close.  Then take it from there.  She may still love you.  Maybe she got lonely and needed companionship, but still loves you too.  If you communicated that well, once you are with her face to face, it should come easily and soon you will know how she feels and where you stand.  Get your butt to Tuscan  and see her.  Love like that doesn't come along every day.  It would be awful to let it slip through your fingers without a second chance.
47191
She's not really interested in you. Move on and find someone who loves you.
482250
For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
717523
i'm not trying to be mean or anything but if u rly love her and care about her, don't rush her into things. Maybe she is not ready for something like that. Give her some space. She most likely loves u for who u are. I am not saying that u think anything opposite of that. I am not trying to be mean or anything. u don't have to take this advice or anything if u don't want too.
731731
It's amazing that after all these years, you still feel something for her. And I think it's just proper that she knows how you feel. I suggest telling her that you've been in love with her for the longest time and just wait for her response. If the feeling's been there for a very long time, i believe it's worth telling. And it's worth risking rejection. Sure, you may get rejected but it's going to be worth it. Who knows? She may tell you she loves you too and it's all good, right?
211865
It depends on the timeframe. How long have you been with her, known her? etc...If it has been a short period of time then you may be infatuated with her and you dont know your emotions that clearly. If it has been for a while then you should pursue your dreams. Let her know how you feel. She can either take it or leave it. Dont worry about the result. If you feel that uncomfortable right now then give it some more time. Get to know her feelings. If you knew she loved you back but did not say it yet then you will know when the right time is to say "I love you" They are some very strong words. They will come out on their own when they are ready.
504360
If you've never spoken to her, then proposing marriage is going to make her run off. You need to start a bit more slowly than that - try saying "Hello" first. You can't proclaim your love for someone that soon or she'll get you busted for harassment or stalking. But if she doesn't "love" you in return, marriage is out of the question - right now, you have a crush. That's it.
583552
well if u really think that u love her u can\nand go speak with ur best friend and tell her that u love eachother and try to make him understand it \nGood luck
478584
Well i guess you should wait for somemore time and get to know her better.By the way are you in love with her???\nIf yes its better you tell her that you love her.People sometimes lose their love cause they never tell that they are in love just because they are afraid of rejection.Well if you dont tell hr now that you love her you might regret it later.If she says no atleast you will know that she doesn't want to have a relationship with you.Atleast you will not have to guess all your life.