why do seniors live together rather than getting married ?
971265
What's the point in getting married?
1028075
People should live their lives in a manner that they are comfortable with.  If someone chooses not to be married, that's fine.  Better to be alone than wish you were!
262057
There is usually some type of legal protection for "Common Law" marriages, which are people who live together for many years without marriage.  You will probably have to get a lawyer to help you, though.
1126512
No. It doesn't make any difference. Marriage isn't about 'trial and error', it is about making a commitment to each other, regardless of what happens. If you can't make that commitment, then don't get married. People who aren't married don't act the same as people that sign the contract. Living together isn't marriage. (until the common law period of time kicks in, then you actually ARE married, and you don't have to worry about it anymore).
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
24361
It is different for everyone. Some people are not out to be married just to be married, but they find someone they love, and decide they want to be with that person forever. Some are scared of ending up alone. Some people do it because it seems like the thing to do, the next logical step in your life. I knew a guy who did just that. He had a long time girlfriend, he graduated college, and just fell into the pattern he thought would be normal. It did not last though. Marriages should be based on love and trust, not a fear of being alone.
1050477
Life would be easier without marriage.
653114
A lot of people do walk in to marriage for the wrong reasons.  A lot of people are more in love with the idea of being married as opposed to the actual person they are marrying however when two people both understand the commitment and hard work that goes in to being married they go on to live great full filling lives. As long as people realize that a marriage is made up of a lot more than the honeymoon it can be very fantastic.  I can't think of anything more rewarding than knowing you have a life partner who will be there for you no matter what and who also shares the same goals for the future.  So to answer your question.  Yes it is that fantastic if people walk in to it with their eyes on the big picture and not the immediate gratification of a "marriage".
420896
Because we tend to have preset expectations of where we are "supposed to be" at any given age.  And those expectations often have very little to do with what might be best for us at that particular stage in life.\n\nWe're living longer and longer.  27 is *young*.  You very well could have at least 70 more years to get married and settle down. What's the rush?  Enjoy yourself and spend time getting to know who you really are.  There's plenty of time ahead for romantic relationships.
1126825
No I think it is an archaic tradition of backward People desiring to remain so. I believe marriage is something that should be decided between to people that have enough love to get them through. Marriage is tough enough in the busy world we are in today. A man & a women need to be like minded for this decision.\nIt takes a very high level of commitment, and trust to give it ago.
764307
Not really.  They probably have always gotten along with each other, and have always lived in a family unit. It is much  nicer to live with someone you love, than to live alone. It is less expensive, and they can help each other out. Love doesn't always mean lust, you know. If neither one of them never found the right person to marry, then it is better for them to remain single rather than marry just anyone because it "looks weird" to live with your sister. That's a really bad reason to marry someone, and a bad reason to go live alone. People are social, most of us are happier living with someone else. I think they are lucky they have one another.
411573
i think there are a number of reasons why people are no longer getting married like they used to.  our society has changed drastically just in the past few decades.  divorce rates have rocketed and the number of people who believe in god, or practice christianity faithfully has decreased.  marriage isn't really taken seriously anymore.  another reason people are just dating is because women have become so independent in the past few decades.  no longer is our role to get married and be a stay at home mom raising six kids and cleaning house, etc.  many women are going to college to pursue degrees and aren't graduating until their mid to late 20's.  i know for myself, i am more focused on finishing school and enjoying time to myself before i decide i want to settle down and get married.  this is just a few of my own opinions on your question.  hope it helped a little.
1085212
If two people want to live together, they should live together -- regardless of sex.  I'm not a big fan of institutional marriage -- all those Biblical concepts (marriage, gays...) are misinterpretations.  Let people do what they want - as long as they don't infringe upon other people's rights.  Practice tolerance and minding your own business.\n\nPeace.
541770
because people are different and have different ways of dealing with things and living together makes all of that come out more, on a daily basis. some people have less issues to deal with than others tho, i have noticed. some dont have to work 'so hard', but also some relationships arent meant to be and then there is a lot of work to do if you want to try to keep it going.
215697
They SHOULD go hand in hand... but it doesn;t always happen that way. Some people use marriage as a refuge against lonliness and are willing to make the necessary compromises for it.
696137
I don't think people get married to stop each other from sleeping around .I think they get married because they love each other.
11901
A marriage can be very important if you want to be with them for life. Studies show that live-in relationships on average don't last as long as marriages do. However, do not jump into marraige just because you want to live with someone. Learn as much about the person before you make a serious commitment of marriage or moving in.