When hurt emotionally, have u ever wished one would have left you with a physical scar?
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yes---so that people would see it and say, "How she knows pain. how does she do it?"\n\nfor example--i was raped by a 44 year old when i was 10 and nobody knows---when i talk about it, people dont take it as seriously as i wish they would, but if i had a scar, they would just know.
544273
No. The scar will probably be lighter than the rest of your skin. I suggest that you seriously think about the possibility that you may regret it. Does it really bother you? Do people mention it? Have you ever been teased?\n\nI would probably leave it alone.
390912
yes a very long time ago and i have regretted it / it was not worth the guilt i felt or the hurt i brought to my wife
768260
yeah i knw wat u mean...\nim fond of doing that & it really hurt when d same happened 2 me\natleast once!
112537
My friend had a tattoo removed...it's very painful! but it is effective in removing the tattoo image... however there is a scar.
485033
There is a cream available to lessen the visibility of scars/stretch marks. The plastic surgeon should be able to recommend one. Emotional scars though...........
891095
Becasue, even though we know we are in the company of those who love us, the past has perhaps scarred our souls, hearts, and minds enough to scare us off here in the future.  I know that is my reason.  Pain and heartbreak have caused me to build a "tough" facade, and over the years it has grown bigger than I ever imagined it would.  It's harder to tear that wall down than build it.
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i used to do it.. jus a little bit.. not with a knife.. just my nails..dig them into my arm..bt i didnt let it bleed... its the pain .. it feels better than the pain u have emotionally inside..\n\nit just helps you sometimes...take all the anger out from inside you.. bt the main reason i did it was because the physical pain wasn't as painful as the emotional pain i was going through..\n\nBUT I WOULDNT RECOMMEND IT..  \n\nXX
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I'm a sensitive soul.  I don't think anything hurts me to the core like knowing I profoundly disappointed someone who I respect and care about.\n\nI can be tough as nails and hold my own.  However, my mom tells me that when I was a child just a look of disappointment was all the punishment I ever needed.  I'll still really chide myself if I've done something plain wrong that causes someone close to me to be disappointed in my actions.
370169
Yes.  It is best to admit to it or you will regret it even more later, especially if someone gets hurt and finds out it was you.  Be honest
665040
My abusive ex.  I won't go into details but the physical and mental damage done by this man is something I carry with me all the time.  Because of him I cannot have children and underwent 5 surgeries to fix the physical damage.  The paranoia I deal with on a daily basis because he has not been caught can be crippling at times, to the point I get afraid to go outside or go anywhere alone.  I cannot trust people like I used to nor do I let people close to me anymore, except a very select few.  It's left a feeling in me that seems to say people will suck you in by acting nice then they will turn on you like a rabid dog once you are sucked in and let your guard down.  I know, realistically, that isn't the case but it has left that feeling.  No, I'm not over this yet but I am working on it.  It just takes time to undo the damage done.  But it did take part of me and who I used to be away and I will never be able to get that back.
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Act the way you did before unless u did somethin really hurtful
83069
I would have took up for myself in grade school I still kick my butt over that mistake. It still haunts me, theres a lot I would do diffrent I would have stayed all night with my Mama when she beged me too but didnt because I was young and all the kids was at my other mamas I still regret that :( I wouldnt have been soooo prissy in high school to a couple of people because I really just had low self confidence myself. I wouldnt have broke up with my b/f 2-3 times because He was my first b/f and I was scarred!! I would have study harder and payed close attention in class and got the best  grades I possiably could. I would have done a lot of things diffrent. I think we all would.
229844
no sorry but I heard it hurts really bad. Right now I am taking a first aid class so we are lerning about that.
958863
Um....nope.I would hate to hurt you\n;-)
1092489
because they hurt the heart.  Scars take a long time to heal
830218
Yes please! The sooner the better I say! So many times I ask myself how much hurt could be avoided if men/women were honest and up front with their intent?