Ladies, when you think of dating a man, would it make you more likey if...?
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YES BE AGAINST IT. MOST WOMEN ARE SENSATIVE AND CARE ABOUT THOS INNOCENT LIVES BEING WASTED!
160095
i will admit that a physical attraction often leads to a relationship but,i have dated men of all sizes.If a mans personality turns me on i do not see him as too thick or too thin.The trick is to get someone to notice the you inside.People who cant do that tend to be shallow and are not worth your time.You will find her.Hang in there.
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I personally wouldnt, only b/c i like for my man to be taller than me, rather than me looking down to him.\n\nBut really i know many who date shorter guys, and they seem to be madly in love. It shows, that is really isnt got anything to do with the looks,and they love eachother for who they are not what they are. Dont care what anyone else thinks. \n\nThats what we all search for our whole life. So if your're happy with that, then you go girl. As long as you can be happy and with eachother. Good luck
655095
Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....
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Believe it or not some guys are not out just for looks. Now I am not going to lie there has to be a physical attraction. However I have dated some drop dead sexy women who have tried to use me as a rug, and I would not allow it so I got rid of them. I have also dated some normal everyday looking women who although were not model material did treat me  the way I prefer.
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do you like her more than a friend can you see yourself dating her with a commitment think about that and if you answer yes to these q: then your answer would be yes
787814
well, i am a girl but what impresses me is when a man is just himself and doesn't try to act like everyone else....he treats me with respect.....opens doors for me.....brings me little "thinking of you" gifts or phone calls......the little things matter more than the big ones!!!!!
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Wow. There are a lot of factors involved in that one. Is he cute? Smell Good? Does he have a gun? lol.\nLet's say hypothetically; he's sweet, handsome, smells nice and doesn't have a gun and I'm single. Yes. I would. But immediately after I'd ask him what in the world he was doing.
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Depends on whether the guy / girl looks only at the body for their definition of a date. If that's the case, then no. If not, then it's possible, though your "personality" thing has got me in a bind. It just takes a lot of appreciation, respect, and oh yeah, maybe a different date helps. ^_^
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*Do guys really get attached in a simple and non outspoken girl?\n\nHmm, I'd have to say I would. But... I can't speak for all men. It's a matter of an individuals opinion.
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That would totally depend on the guy who was asking!!!!!  I would have to think about it very carefully before deciding.  Im a little shy when it comes to that kind of stuff but you never know what Id do to make my man happy!
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I have my perfect man in my head...havent found him yet though.  The man I want is strong, not only physically but mentally, emotionally, and his respect and value for me are strong.  He's black, dresses really good....has a hustlin mentality with a businessy side to him.  Treats me real good but not too clingy.  Knows exacly what he want outta life and always has his money on his mind.....THat's what I want in a man.
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quite possibly, if all I knew of someone was their on-line personality, and even if I have an accurate picture of them, it doesn't mean that upon meeting in person that I will feel the chemistry I am looking for in someone I want to date.  Often in person it just isn't there.
579094
depends on the intimacy of your relationship with him...
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Not at all. I would think him a very nice, polite, friendly, gentlemanly person. I wouldn't feel weird at all. I would appreciate the gesture. Even if it's his way of showing interest that's sweet and flattering too.
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ok, to be totally honest (since there were a couple total bs answers here), yes, my reaction would change. if i were physically attracted to a guy, him staring at me would be a sign that he was interested in me. from there he could ruin in in plenty of ways (being vain, being lewd, being an ignorant ass, having a girlfriend), but yes i would be flattered. having a guy i wasn't attracted to stare at me would make me feel awkward, because i don't like turning guys down and i would be nervous that he was going to approach me. there has to be some physical attraction for me to be in a romantic relationship with someone.\nthis is all assuming we're not talking literal drool. literal drool would pretty much kill his chances. so control your saliva!
572999
Yes!! I have a perfect example for you in this.\n\nI'm...let's say...scholastic. I have a bachelor's degree and I am heading to Law School next. My "type" has always, from the first time I dated, been a book-smart guy. In fact, I was so picky that I would not touch a "blue collar worker" with a 10 foot pole (as far as dating goes - not in general). I was just into dating someone with whom I could sit down and discuss books and theories, ect. (yes, I am a dork) and one of my requirements is that he had to be either working on a degree or already holding a degree.\n\nThen I met my current boyfriend. I didn't give him a chance at first - no degree, ect. ect. blah blah I'm an idiot. He's a firefighter for a living and that just wasn't my thing. However, the more I talked to him, the more I fell madly in love with him. He's perfect and treats me 10 times better than any book-smart guy I have ever known. I wouldn't trade him in for anything or anyone in the world. \n\nIf nothing else, he has opened my eyes to see that "types" are ridiculous. My new "type" thanks to him? The type that treats me well and makes me happy. Thank God for him for that!