why does a guy come and go in a realtion...on again off again?
957352
Because realtions are excellent vehicles for embarking and disembarking. It's so easy, quick and effortless!
639593
He may be depressed or really stressed. There may be something bothering him and he doesn't want to bother you with it. Ask him if everything is ok. give him some space and time eventually he will come around.
951096
Off and off and off again.
495656
i think maybe hes changed his mind ,if he comes back on and your online let him make the 1st move ,then you will know but if he dosnt contact you again ,dont worry about it ,people have all sorts of issues of their own to deal with ,sometimes you make great friends via the internet other times its a case of fly by night and you never hear from them again ,but which ever please dont end up harrassing him
132423
Some guys simply love the chase.  Once they have you they move on.  I suggest you do the same.
928074
Well each guy is different. THere could be a vareity of reasons. BUt if they act like that all the timne it is probably best to stear clear of them.
440712
why not ASK HIM...you only llive once
746265
Two words GET OUT. This guy is a looser. He wants to control you by making you think you need him to survive. Without him you will crumble. He is trying to make you dependent on him. Looser he is a leach and needs to go. Fast
675169
Different people are... well... different. \n\nI've often seen some guys that can cum a few times in a row, but they're generally not as strong or as substance filled as someone who comes one really hard time and then is spent.  Maybe you're getting more bang for a single buck then they're getting with several.
54084
Nope.  He's just trying to keep you around for the time being.  You need to move on.  He had his chance.  And he blew it big time.  It'll happen again.
157588
Well, the worse that could happen is he won't want to take that step.  Maybe he won't be ready and will want more time, maybe he is afraid he might not do things right and that he'll disappoint you, maybe he has been rejected before and is hesitant to make a move becuase he thinks it will happen again..........The point here is, you'll never know what really is going on until you try!
480937
Maybe you're too worried about the fact that he's not getting you off, which is detering you from getting off...know what I mean?  Whether he lasts a long time or not has little to do with a woman getting off....personally, after a while I just get bored....
473677
he's doing it because he sees it is bothering you.  Ignore him with a vengence...no eye contact, pass by without noticing, dont turn and go the other way, just keep on the same track pretending he is not in the hall, or room, pretend he is a complete troll stranger....he'll get bored.
852017
I can't speak for that guy, but going from seeing you several times to stopping the calling and bailing on dates is a prime indicator that he has either gotten what he wanted out of the relationship and is done, or he is focusing his attentions towards someone else...\n\nMy recommendation would be to forget about him and move on.  I promise the next time he calls you will be to hook up for one night...\n\nSorry, but that's how most guys are...
664824
Honestly once a guy cheats it's like Pringles.  You never can have just one.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  If he has done it 3 times and knows you'll take him back then pretty much he knows he can get away with it and u won't do anything about it.  Leave his ass!
665588
You can't make a person do something if they don't want to do it.  Maybe he is ready for a casual relationship, and not something serious. The not calling thing is probably his way of saying, I want to take it slower.  I would just ease up on calling him, and just leave a casual message every now and then, and see what happens from there.  If he doesn't change in an appropriate amount of time, I would move on.
400530
If he's just looking for an excuse, why would you want to get another chance.....let him go. He's obviously not being honest about it.