My boyfriend is moving to Hawaii.............?
969186
Whats wrong with moving to Hawaii?  I live here!!!  \n\nFirst of all, how long have you 2 being dating?  Depending on that, would tell me whether or not you should even bother to tell him.  Obviously he is moving due to some serious reason, whether it be a job, or school or just a new place to start fresh.
216029
talk to him every day and if u live by the beach or in Hawaii or some thing  bring the tropical with you next time you visit him. bring beach sandals and flowered necklaces or something. It depends on where you live.
821044
throw all your frequent flyer points together and get him a plane ticket to sunny Queensland. He can stay in my place while I'm over visiting the US.. It's so effin hot all he needs is a pair of speedos & pair of thongs (flip flops.. not the undies kind) He can drink in the park with the aboriginals, learn how to say mate or brudda & get himself a third degree sunburn.
561472
I know how you feel! I had the same decision to make. I moved from NYC to OH (500 miles)about 2 years ago, so my son could be closer to his father (He is my ex husband).  Well his father decided to go back to NY and left his son and me here in OH.  I knew my ex for 20 years and we were good friends.  Now I am stuck out here with no family or longtime friends.  But I do have a wonderful career and I am surviving with the aid of one awsome friend.  He has been the one to help with the adjustment of a totally different life.  All I am saying is think before you move.  A month isn't long enough to decide if you should move 2000 miles away. Especially if you just got together.  It takes time and alot of trust to move far away from everything you know to start a life with someone.  You need to know if she is going to be your leaning post when you need it.  A month isn't long enough.  And if it doesn't work then you have to be prepared to be on your own in an unfamiliar place. I wish you luck and hope everything turns out great.  PS - I don't regret anything but just look at every aspect.
558933
Boy, can I relate!  I am from NY and my fiance is from Ohio.  We talked for a year online, then met in person.  We dated exclusively from that point on.  Granted, we only saw each other about one weekend a month, he proposed almost 2 years after we started officially dating, and a year later I moved to Ohio.  (that was in january)  We've been together a little over 3 years and are getting married next week.  So, it can work, however, you're not engaged yet in my opinion.  You definately HAVE to meet the person and get to know the real person before you make that kind of lifelong commitment.  I've run across a lot of guys online that weren't who they said they were, so it is VERY important to get to know the real person first.  Good luck!
792705
Snuggle up close with him on the couch some night and tell him you miss San Francisco.  Then look up into his eyes and say how much you'd love to go back there to live.  Ask if he would move back with you sometime if he seems sympathetic.  Then just talk about it more over the course of the next few months and see how it goes, maybe he'll be willing to do it right the wedding if he sees how much it means to you.  The thing is, you've got to have in mind where you could both get jobs and then dream a place to live "Oh...wouldn't it be great if we could get a little place to live just off of...." etc.  Anyway...good luck.
593614
I think you should go to Cyprus hey dont dissapoint me if you dont go ill cry, just talk to him tell him what you have on your mind its better when you tell him instead of you holding it back from him, if it doesnt work out theres always going back, stay were you are at the moment for a couple of months or years see how that goes then decide when you are ready to move or not but hey you will regret not moving to Cyprus xx
203004
well i moved in with my boyfriend after knowing him for 2 weeks. But the bad thing is that i moved 100 miles away from my family. But we are still together and been dating for 2 years!  So you are the only one that can make that decision. It could work, but then again living together so soon could cause problems. I say take a chance and go for it. Oh yea and I was 17 when i moved out!
1051402
Honey, no man is worth moving for. If your happy with your current living situation, stay! If you wanna move to make him happy, why are you even getting back with him? You obviously broke up for a reason. Stick to your guns and dont make any decision based around him.
996082
Don't move out there unless you already are serious, sure that you love him, sure that there are no hidden problems that you can't deal with, and sure that you will either marry him or be able and happy to build a new life there if marriage plans fall through.\nIt sounds like he is not the one for you.  If that's so, don't try to fit him into that position.  Wait for the man you feel good about.
883215
I think you are gonna have to talk to your family first...if you really wanna move in with him, you want to make sure that you are able to settle into a new town, but most importantly, you want to make sure that your family will be there for you, even if you live miles away....no matter where you live, your family will always be there for you when you get married and have children, and if they know ur bf well, then there really shouldn't be any problems.
1013871
If your boyfriend is not going to be bothered that you move n with someone else to "see" how he deals with it, then this relationship is over.  Perhaps the flame has died.  It happens sometimes.  You two need to sit down and talk about your relationship and where (if anywhere) is it going.  It is time for you both to be open and honest and make concrete decisions regarding your lives.
839462
Believe me he wont go away change your number i know tell him mirupafshim ( goodbye) and he would mention marriage its called passport . time he has finished you will need a box of parcetomol believe me.
1171499
Hawaii has a great Disability Studies program at one of the main universities.  Contact them as they would be the most up to date and non biased in their study of the needs of the residents with disabilities in Hawaii.  Potential for a great partnership!!!!!!!!!
1094579
maybe you guys should get married in hawaii or something...i mean not in a church....just on the beach.....it'll be romantic, plus like you said it's about wut the both of you want......i mean he dont want a church.....so both u guys should compramise or something or else u'll resent him for the rest of yalls life for not having the perfect wedding......i mean the im portant thing is that you guys get married an love one another......it shouldnt matter where....as long as u doing it!
605024
Well funnily enough I live in England, and my girlfriend lives in Florida.\n\nIt requires a huge amount of trust and you need to be sure its worth the heartache.\n\nWe are both working till the finances allow us to sort things out.\n\nIts not easy, but it can be done
1129389
I know what u mean....my BF lives in Houston.....where I am in College Station....TX.....it is almost 2 hrs away....BUT....we talk on the phone EVERYDAY......send emails everyday.....& he just drove up here today....out of the blue to see me.....of course we only got to spend 4 hrs with each other...it was amazing.....I have had long distance relationships before.....but this one kind of grows.....every time we see each other....we grow "fonder"....they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.....I really like my BF too.....it is hard for us because of the distance...as well as our work schedules....but we make it happen......what I like about him....HE comes to me, more then I go to him.......Just be patient.....like one other person said....let him figure out a way to come to u.....if it was meant to be....something will work out.....GOOD LUCK!...