How do I get back with my ex-girlfriend now that she is with someone else?
961377
Why would you want to get back together? She accused you of cheating...If its not true stand up for yourself and begone of the wench. Don't be used. That will only lead to women thinking they can get away with it and then they will continue to totally ruin perfectly good guys. Then when those guys finally find a wonderful chick who doesn't want to sqrew them over they won't be able to do all of this stuff you are talking about that she deserves and that will in turn make her find some schmuck on the side she can use to get what she wants. Its a perpetuation of everything thats wrong with relationships and it could totally be avoided if people just said, "I got stuff going on and I can't let you walk all over me right now. Call back when you have some modicum of respect for other people and them maybe we can talk."
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
789076
There are no rules.  Just be yourself!  If you worry that she will get back with her ex, then you will not really be having any fun.  Just try not to think about it, relax and enjoy the time that you spend with her.  Good Luck!
595755
Your GF was wrong, but she is upset because she thinks that the ex is trying to get you back, or that you want the ex back. It can be very hard on the GF when the ex starts calling. \n\nYou were kind to talk to your ex when she was upset. But if you want to move on with another woman you need to talk to her (ex) when she is not upset and tell her that she has to find someone else for emotional support, then you have to follow through and not talk to her. Next, even though you were not wrong to listen to someone in distress, you do need to apologize to your GF. Try to explain that you don't want this other woman bac and that you are sorry that your GF was hurt.
778544
The pressures of a relationship are gone. Also, some women and men like what they can't have. So, enjoy your friendship. If you want to get back together with her, then you should take it slow. I am trying to get back with my ex girlfriend but I have to have patience and wait. Good things come to those that wait. If you just want her as a good friend, that's already done. Just have fun with her.
597256
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
602550
get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
212180
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
645918
Breaking up is hard to do.I say that if /when she comes back to you . Don't give yourself to her so easily or she will try to leave you hanging when she feels like doing her own thing. I would keep a journal when you feel like calling her or see her out and want to talk. Some feelings are wasted on people that don't appreciate them. It takes a long time to get over someone you really care about There really isn't any straight answers. Except you gotta watch out for more than your heart. Remember your self-respect, your pride, and your future. Don't let a bad romance delay you from doing the things that you are interested in. Go on a trip- even if it's a short one. Go to the closest city, get a hotel, see the sights, see a concert -take a buddy - get your mind clear. Don't ever let anyone that hurts you see you when you're vulnerable, even if there's a chance things will work out. She has to earn her way back in to see your true emotions. \nKeep your head up  Stay busy  It will get better no matter what the out come is.
407294
break up find someone else
851194
find another one. One better than your ex.
279455
Give her and yourself some time.  You may get back together, or you may find someone else that you like.
1051281
You need to figure out why you're coming back and solve that problem. Maybe you're lonely or this other person fills a need in your life. Once you confront your problem, you can easily handle moving on from this relationship.
964660
What I would do,  -and what I think you should do-, is take it very slow with the new girl involved. Honestly, it probably wasn't the best idea for you to get involved with her, but I wouldn't say to completely break it off now - that isn't realistic, and it would just hurt her because she would get your feelings twisted. \nYou have baggage. You can't make genuine transitions from person to person while carrying baggage; it'll hinder you. You'll always carry what was left from the old relationship into the new one, so forth, and so forth, and it isn't fair to the present person involved that your own issues are unsolved. It isn't a problem that you still think of your ex; it's actually very normal. You've completed an important step by acknowledging that your last relationship couldn't work, so now just prove to yourself why you deserve to move on. \nEver heard the song 'Bag Lady' by Erykah Badu?......that one goes out to you, lol.... Good Luck and God Bless.
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
859558
You have to remember "there's a reason why exes are exes". I'm sure you remember why you broke up and what went wrong with the relationship. Remind yourself.\n\nKeep contact with her to a minimum - be polite but don't get involved in long conversations.\n\nOf course, if you're going to run into her socially, you could bring along a female friend (it doesn't have to be someone you're dating). That way she gets the idea that you've moved on and are taken, which kind eliminates the situation...