Ex from the past and his current situation...whats your take?
951984
Well....rem that 10 yrs can change a person drastically. Don't be the 1st to call up. If he gets in touch with u, tread slowly. Try to find out 1st the reason for his divorce.....rem tat it takes 2 hands to clap and there might be an ugly side of him which might have been the reason for his divorce. In tat case, y shd u mess up ur life when there r single never married b4 better guys arnd. U just need little patience waiting for the single better guy.
1026368
If he is your ex-fiancee, why is he still your bf? Doesn't the word EX imply that there was something that is no longer there?\nThere is a difference between you saying 'he leaves you alone on the weekends' and 'go out .. every once and awhile'.\nSorry, but these are two complete different things.\nAt the end, I'd say, nothing wrong if you would like to go out occasionally, but you have to realize that Ex means it's over.\nAnd he at 21 surely wants to enjoy his life and gather more experience before committing himself again.\nSo what about you also moving on and getting a new life? Does this sound like a feasible option for you?
1166740
Your ex-bf's problem has nothing to do with age. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too". (I hate that cliche). I agree with phattphatt. This guy is unstable and needs to be kicked to the curb. If he keeps this crap up she will do the same and he will have lost you both. I'm not so sure what the age problem is, she is only a year younger. Your first statement made it sound like he a was dating a child and he was in his thirtys. Give him the boot and find yourself a real man.
1059110
If hes happy in his current relationship with you, he shouldnt be upset about it still. He shouldnt hold a grudge because its in the PAST. Men who hold grudges like that are usually just acting like babies and they just want attention.\n\nTrust me I know, I used to be the same way. He needs to grow up and you need to tell him that hes being absurd about it because you have the right to feel awkward and dislike how hes feeling. Its the past, you should feel offended. \n\nWomen are the ones that hold grudges, men usually just forget about it and move on....like its yesterday's news. There is something not right for him to feel this way. This isnt an issue with him and his ex....its an issue with him and you.
788280
A couple that I know lived like this for years and it worked out good for them and they remain friends to this day.  I doubt that I could personally live that way but if people are capable of it then more power to them.  If you can't discuss it with the ex, then try and discuss it with your boyfriend and be honest and open about how you feel.  Hopefully he will be able to ease your inferiority and make you feel like a queen in his life at present.  Good luck to you.  We all have pasts and that is why it's called that because it is all gone.
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
827079
Nomad is very right!  But if your separation was just heat of the moment, I reckon the second time will be sweeter.  I believe in 2nd chances and if yous can work it out and start again, things will be stronger.  I would love to be in your ex bf's shoes, as for now, my situation with my spouse is near over and final.  But through this, you'll be a better person/lover, if not for your x bf, your next bf.  Good luck and best wishes!
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
1250
Not necessarily. I bring up my ex sometimes to people and its not that I am not over her because I totally am, but its just that most of his experiences in relationships(good or bad) may have been with her and that is all he knows. I know this be the case with me. I know I am over my ex because we still keep in contact and when she calls me or I call her I have nothing to talk about. Just lots of awkward silence. Ask him and see what he says. Have a heart to heart.
616801
who cares we are no longer together and he is my EX but as for my friend I would rethink our relationship because she may have wanted him long time ago--leave the past in the past and do what you have to do for you and take care of you let that go
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
642016
Well if he's your EX then I'd guess to say that he's grasping at straws to get you to meat him somewhere so he can act pathetic and con you to go back with him. and if he wont say it over the phone well then it's not important at all.there must be a reason that he's your EX.if you wish not to be with him I'd stay away from him.
433575
That she needs to move on from the past and live in the present. Perhaps there are issues that are going on right now in her life that are making her upset and instead of resolving them and moving on, she is avoiding them by thinking of some guy and the good things that they once shared. When people look to the past in situations like these they tend to forget the bad qualities that the guy or girl had because the thing they are searching for is the good that they are most likely not getting from their present relationship. (I hope that makes sense). I don't know if they are in communication with each other but if they are and he feels the same way (or at least claims to) then they are on a path of self-destruction that is going to leave alot of people hurt and scarred. I hope that neither has any children and that she will either be woman enough to leave her husband if she is not happy or get some sense knocked into her and realize that the past is over and that she needs to handle her situation in the present like a mature adult. Living in the past is not ever going to get you anywhere in the future and hopefully this chick snaps out of it before she is left with nothing but that.
536702
Chose who you want to see.  Don't take anyone else's word.  If it came from his ex, she may still be bitter.  Just keep in mind what she went through and watch yourself.  You are an individual and have your own mind.
193651
You know if it's emotional cheating or not...are you looking forward to talking to your ex?  It could be an indication theres an issue with your current relationship....
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.
223342
NO, ONCE AN EX ALWAYS AN EX! TAKE IT FROM EXPERIENCE TRIED THIS TO MANY TIMES IN THE PAST. IT NEVER WORKS OUT. HOPE THIS HELPS!!!