What does it mean when the guy your dating doesnt want a relationship and doesnt know why?
969544
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
6404
could be:\na. Trying to hard\nb.  Standards too high\nc.  oblivious to your surroundings ( i.e. dont notice the guy who likes you)\n\nChances are there are plenty of potential prospects, but you are making it difficult on yourself by comitting one of the above...\ntake a look around..
895119
well do you really want to know. it means he hates you! lol what do you think it means? he obviously likes you and wants you all to himself, how come you arent together yet
578433
Hi\n\nmay be its not that he doesnt know what he knows or how hes confused about his feeling.\n\nit could be that hes deeply in love with u .. but hes scared to admite that ..and may be he wants to propuse to u but hes worried that he might be rejected by u..\n\nso u should think what U want and based on that u should talk to him and make it a confortable way for him so he could be clear...may be hes just shy\n\n\ngooooooood luck
169399
It just means he cant right then probably because he either has a girlfriend or he doesnt have time for a girlfriend .  But he does mean it when he says hell go soem other time with u, so just sick in there.
433335
It seems to me that he was sending out signals that he wants to be more than friends with you.  When you didn't respond, he felt like you weren't interested in him.  In my opinion, you should talk to him.  Explain why it isn't practical for you to date right now.  If he's a true friend he'll understand.  Who knows, maybe you can leave the door open for a more meaningful relationship in the future.\n\nGood Luck!
809120
it probably means that hes not happy, depressed, or just feels bad about the whole breaking up thing.... or he might just be shy around you now that you guys are broken up he might feel weird talking to you
188180
Guys just usually mean what they say so take it at face value.  He's not ready for a relationship yet so either hang around him and wait patiently or move on.
768082
What help do you want?  To know if he's interested in you?  I'll assume that's it.\nWell, it sounds promising.\nBut think, does he want to have a relationship with you or just have sex with you?  Is the chasing ever going to amount to anything?\nHave you talked to him and at any point told him you're not ready to date or you're not interested in a relationship?  If so, that could be why nothing has happened for him to show real interest in dating you.\nIt's a good sign that's he's not accepting free sex from anyone else, yes.\nThink hard, if you told him you were ready for another relationship, would he cringe or look hopeful?  Not sure, try telling him something along these lines, without directly involving him in the question.  See how he reacts and gage by that.  Or, just have a conversation about it.  \nI had a similar situation, except when I made a move back, he totally stopped wanting me.  Until I hadn't seen him for a year and had finally given up and started dating someone else who I love.  Then he saw me and couldn't stop trying to hold my hand and telling me how he made a mistake.\nSometimes guys who chase do it because they don't know what they want and, when they're confronted with it, they don't know what to do with it and turn into jerks.  They might come around later but you don't want a guy like that, trust me.
66888
That means he doesn't want you.  Find somebody else to really like.\n\nTell him that you like him a lot and that he can call you anytime.
1078660
sorry im not a guy but generally it could be one of wo thingseither he wants you and is to scare to say guys are like bug puppy dogs they need nurturing...or he wants you to set him up...aski him if he wants you toi set him up and if he says no you know he probably means he wants you...worth a try babe x
876384
Wow, so many possibilities here.\n\n1) He didn't think he wanted to date, but realized you could be that special someone for him.\n\n2) He said that as a reinforcement to himself to avoid getting hurt.  He really does want one but didn't want to be shot down.\n\n3) He was trying to be sure to keep himself open for just the right girl.\n\nThose are my top 3 bets.  :-)  Regardless, it doesn't matter (much) what and why he said what he said.  What matters is whether YOU feel that you would like to date him.
876820
It means she's not in love with you like she should be to a potential husband.
663377
He's probably just not who/what he says he is. Or he has really low self esteem and no real life friends, and therefore can't handle being rejected based on his appearance. It is entirely possible that he has romantic delusions about you and doesn't want to risk losing that.
420956
It could be that he just doesn't want to spend every waking moment with you. You're dating, not conjoined twins.
778781
Well he is probably distancing himself a little bit to avoid awkward moments.  It is hard to turn someone down and he probably wants to avoid direct confrontation.  In addition he is fighting with his ex, so he is probably a bit jaded with girls right now.  it is clear though that he is not looking for a relationship with you or to have you love him, so back off for a while and he will come back around.  \n    There can be many reasons for this, but guys in general do not want to have some girl love them right away because they do not like being commited.  Also, if you are not a challenge at all, they think you are too easy and that they can do better.
597700
Maybe he is just shy that you wouldnt want to date him. OR he could be waiting for YOU to make the first move... You know, trying to play hard to get... But usually, guys wont do that, not that any I know anyway...