how to gain a girl's trust?
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if she wants you to know,she will tell you.you know we all have skeltons in out closets.maybe she likes to forget about the bad times.well if she brings it up and ask you what you think,then you should tell her,but be nice about it.just dont go digging into her past and telling everyone you meet,thats between you and her,and not anyones elses business.
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Write her a well thought-out sweet note or letter.  The pen is mightier than the sword.\n\nThe first step is gathering trust.  Let her know from a distance that you appreciate her, write down your feelings on paper and share them.  That's communication, although protocol isn't clearly defined for love.  The key here is "do not betray that trust".  Be true to anything you say or do.\n\nThe second step is ensuring that she is comfortable with you.  If the response to the written word is favorable, and you've invited her to dinner, etc. then you might try to make 'light' physical contact.  Usually a 'hug' is sufficient for this step.\n\n  If you meet her again later, you might other light physical contact, such as stroking her arm.  If on a second date, you could also try petting her hair, and perhaps running your fingers through it.  If she does not react negatively, then perhaps she may be comfortable with you in her physical 'space'.\n\nBefore you even get to the point where you "fertilize her eggs", consider treating her to all of the physical sensory input she would like.  Ask her along the way whether or not she enjoyed something you had done, whether it was a hug, touch on the neck, running the fingers through the hair, etc. or whether it was something that she didn't notice or enjoy.  Remember that.\n\nThe best way to make love with a girl is to determine the best way she would have love made to her.  Communication is the key.
955098
First of all never ever lie to a girl. Girls (even though they hide it) like when a boy tells them everything straight up without the wild stories like you have a girlfriend...when you actually don't, it just makes you look like a complete loser, because, trust me she probably knows your friends, and someone who knows what you were doing will probably tell her, and as I can tell you don't want her to feel bad or anything. So just be honest, be yourself, and when she will ask you out tell her that she is a great girl (never never say "BUT" it makes a person fell bad) however you are not ready for any relationships right now, or you are busy with all that stuff on you, and you probably won't have time for a girlfriend at the moment, n reassure her, that if you weren't so busy you will be happy to go out with her. REMEMBER DON'T LIE!
417773
I think this is just the girls you know. They're probably too insecure to trust you.\n\n\nI day find another girl! (hint hint)
175360
if you want to get a girls start sending off signs like looking at her and make sure she knows that you are looking at her. once that happen go up to her and ask her whats her name and when she tells you leave don't ask her anything else. because then you got her wondering about you. after at least two days past go up to her again and then start to talk to her tell her that you have been think about her and that you like her alot then ask her for her number. trust me it work because im a girl
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Be polite.\nUse manners.\nStay sober.\nHave a little extra cash available.\nSmile a relaxed smile.\nDon't complain, talk politics/religion or act bored.\n\nThe best and easiest way to a woman's heart is.....\n\nACT INTERESTED in her.\n\nAsk simple but intelligent questions about what she likes and thinks.\n\nTry to find common areas of agreement and hopefully some common ground on activities/hobbies/foods, etc.\n\nBe polite. Show her a good time. Relax.\n\nHey...........they get nervous, too!
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Be bold, ask her out. \n\nMovies, dances, lunch, whatever.\n\nIf she tells you she has a steady boyfriend just let the subject drop and try to stay in touch.  Eventually things will change for either you or her.\n\nRemember confidence is key, if she turns you down don't take it personally.  Explain how much you admire her and let her know if anything changes you'd love to hear from her.\n\nGood Luck,\n\nArmus
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Well let's see the first thing you can do is not try to impress her with how tough you are! A girl likes a man that can hold himself yet also be sweet! Don't be Clongy though! Try to suprise her with some flowers sometimes Roses aren't always the best way to go! Ask her though first what flower she likes and then suprise her and on a card just say because it's (that day) example her are some beautiful roses just for you and just because it's Thursday! see something like that! don't wait for a special occasion to do something! =) good luck
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dont hang around girls alone, dont call them on the phone, and the biggest one is invite you girl along with you and the girls that she thinks are you girlfriends. other then that it is all up to her.
319495
If you want him to trust you, dont do or say  things to give him reason to mistrust you. Some girls foolishly tease that way, and dont realize it.
68513
First of all you need confidence. If you learn anything, women appreciate confidence. Women appreciate being able to take men anywhere and having the man be able to speak to anyone and carry himself in a high manner. The best thing to do is start off slow. Ask her out to a movie or to coffee or whatever is appropriate. Instead of flat out saying "I like you" give her the opportunity to know your personality before you go blabbing all your feelings. Spend some time alone together and if you still feel the same you should let her know. Just be confident! I have faith in you.
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First thing is, DON'T go overboard! Guys think they need to impress a girl with gifts or flowers or something. AFTER a relationship has started that's okay, but most girls are scared away by that kind of stuff from a guy they're not romantically involved with when the stuff is given.\n\nKeep it simple -- words are the best way to communicate what you want, and along with straightforward words goes confidence and eye contact.\n\nFind a time when you have a little bit of privacy. Then say something like "I hope you're not offended by me saying this, but we've known each other for (however long), and I just wanted you to know that I think you're a really great person." When you tell her this, say it with confidence and make eye contact (which reinforces the confidence). Girls are impressed by confident guys who don't come on too strong.\nGood luck!
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The only way to trust her is if she earns it, she lost it with all those lies. \n\nI would not trust you or the "best friends". \n \nYou are all talking s^%& about your girl. \n\nSo what?  True or false, you are being just as immature. \n\n(sorry I have issues with any man that would call someone his sig. other then talk about her behind her back to other people NO MATTER WHAT. Are you talking to girls???? Her 'best' friends are telling you her buisness???? \nWhy should'nt she lie to all of you. \nnone of you deserve the truth or obvoiusly can not handle it)
1150587
just walk up to her and ask, be assertive and confident.  girls dig that
408348
practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become. Girls look for confidence in a guy, one who can express them self. You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to her, dont worry though, shyness wears off, Good luck
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Be yourself if you want her to like YOU.\n\nIf you aren't yourself.... you will never find someone who really likes YOU.\n\nIf you are talking about a specific girl now..... if being yourself doesn't do it with her.... NO PROBLEM.... theres plenty of other people looking for that right person.\n\nDo NOT pretend to be someone you are not.\n\nA relationship will NOT last if you are not honest. Sure you could chat for quite a while, but it will not be real and eventually, you WILL be found out.\n\nAnd from my experience, women tend to frown on lies.
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This is a hard question to answer see that i dont know you or ur gurl.BUT that aside id say talk to her!are there signs like shes hang out with new guys or gifts she cant explain! Also think about this has she EVER given you a reson NOT totrust her!!! Before you acuse her of cheating Make sure you are sure she is because that would just be plain  hurtful if your wrong. The best thing i can say is trust her until she gives you a reson not 2.