How can I tell my fiance and family that I am a bi-sexual?
970405
Just mention the excellent probability of threesomes and I'm sure he'll be fine with it. He won't leave you if you're pregnant...
12880
Tell them anyway. Find an open minded partner who will parade in white socks for you.
66993
what heterosexual identifying people don't realize is, if you ae asking this question, you are not straight...\n\nbut that's really no big deal.\n\nif you love your husband and your relationship is working, you can enjoy learning this new thing about yourself without messing up a good thing.\n\nif you guys have a good friendship, you could probably let him in on your little secret.  you might be surprised at how fun scoping together can be.\n\nstill, remember that loving relationships are so much more than sexual.  if you love yourself and you don't fear what's inside of you, you won't feel the urge to betray the one you love!
533255
At this point it doesn't matter if your hubby is gay or not.  You have reached a point in your relationship where you do not trust your husband to be open and honest with you.  You have resorted to asking millions of strangers online about a very personal and private distrust between you and your spouse.  I suggest ending the relationship or accepting your husband EXACTLY as he is and love him like you promised to do at your wedding.\n\nIt is very possible that your husband is bisexual, but CHOSE to dedicate his life to you.  \n\nI pray you haven't had children yet.
1046624
I would NOT tell your friends about this.  You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all.  BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you!  Keep this to yourself for awhile!
935538
a closet straight?  he told you he is bi but more gay than straight.  what's the problem?  you want every person in the world to know he is bisexual in the hopes that no one will sleep with him except you...you sound very immature and jealous/obsessive.
530079
Sexuality is not a choice, you are what you are. If she wants to be Bi-sexual, she should follow her heart.  Being honest is not a bad thing. Better to find out now before an entire family's future(kids, husband...) could be at stake. If she is just experimenting because she is curious, that is OK to.  Just be SAFE.
682633
By the personal message that you sent me I would have to assume you are in a same sex marriage, don't worry don't ask don't tell!
22953
Telling your parents that you are a lesbian is an open acknowledgement that you are a sexual person, enough to have made a definite decision about who it is that you identify with sexually.  Coming to terms with the fact that "their little girl" has sexual urges and feelings AT ALL is difficult and uncomfortable for most parents, and is even more difficult when those feelings are directed toward people of the same sex.  It's a double whammy.  \nJust gently letting them know about your sexual preference is enough, without hitting them over the head with the fact that you are sexually active with women.  \nAlternately, if you are currently in a relationship with another woman, you might introduce the subject by introducing HER.  It will make it more real to them, and also make it awkward for them to make a scene.
144664
Stick to your vows.  It's okay to be attracted to other people but you're married so just don't act on the attraction!
606170
First of all, congratulations and second of all, yes you should tell them because you guys love each other and are going to be together forever. It's very important to you.
597942
signs baby, its all about it.  What kind of hint is she giving you, what messages are you sending to her.. dont be so shy, im in the same boat. i am bisexual, i do not flaunt it nor hide it. just be comfortable with yourself, oppportunity will arise.
1121944
I'm bisexual and it took me years to finally admit that to other people.  Try finding a local support group in your city or go to a Yahoo Chat room that has other women in the same situation, or with similar experience.\n\nOne thing to remember is to always be PROUD of who you are and to never let anyone, ANYONE, make you feel ashamed.  \n\nGood luck!
348215
If she identifies as a girl, and you identify as a guy, then wanting to do her doesn't make you gay!   Some of these responses are crazy.\nDo whatever makes you feel good and makes her feel good--they're just body parts; maybe she feels like it's a really big clit and not a penis.  \nRegarding keeping secrets--that's up to the two of you.  It's hard to keep lies hidden.  It takesa lot of energy and can hurt you both.  Then if somebody finds out, there's the hurt of being lied to plus all the energy you wasted.  If you think you'd be physically hurt/beat up or something from telling your family, that's different, but in general I believe in being open.  It's her body, though, so realyl she should make the decision about how open to be.
912894
If you feel it comprises a big part of your identity, then yes.  If he may have a problem with it (religious, moral, etc.), then yes.  If you think you may have difficulty with monogamy or want to engage both sexes at the same time, have a girlfriend on the side, of try a threesome with him, then yes.  Basically, ask yourself if the information will make a difference in your relationship and how he relates to you, and if it does, you should tell.\n\nOtherwise, no, you don't have to, but I encourage it- I think couples should share everything about themselves.  Just be clear you're telling him so he knows, not because you want to get freaky with him and a girl, etc. (unless that's true . . .).
91936
Dont make things hard on yourself.  If you think you may be bi, dont say anything until you know.  Even then I still wouldnt say anything unless you fell in love with a women.  Family will always love you but dont put yourself and your family through stress they dont need.
976780
Just sit him down and tell him that u like women and that if u don't want me to be with a women I wont cause I love u and respect u. But if he don't mind  which alot of men wont then tell him that before u are with a women u will let him know so that way he will trust u and it wont be cheating. I'm bi curious and my husband knows and he doesn't care as long as I tell him when I will be with a women so he wont be in the dark. And he knows that I kissed women and it doesn't bother him. But n e ways u have to be honest with him because every relationship should have 100% trust and u don't want your relationship to be based on lies....