How to get system to listen to 3 1/2 year very bright child in a molestation case against father?
955999
Let the professionals handle it .They know how to .Tell the police and they will know what to do.
146976
I would also protect your son's web access by purchasing BSafe.. It's worth the money http://www.bsafehome.com
338475
You might try the Center for Missing/Exploited children. You can try to get the State Police involved. Since it happened in Texas, or so it seems, maybe try the Texas Rangers.
153194
File a law suit against the Police agency right now for not doing a proper investigation prior to arresting your son. It's common in these cases that the police will just file a case without doing a good investigation.\nAlso file a complaint with your Local Dist. Attorneys Office on the Police Department and their not doing a proper case follow up, Make sure you also contact the State Attorney Generals Office and report the false charges.\nHave your son take a polygraph as well, even if you have to pay for it.\nIf contact was consentual and the girl has had prior sexual knownledge it also has bearing on the case as well.\nTalk to every boy she dated and have your attorney interview them.\n\nIt is better to spend the money now, than have a son as a registered sex offender.
1112564
I live in Georgia and am a man. My ex wife is abusively controlling. After our divorce she turned into super mom. Having to control every tiny thing about the children to the point of obsession. My son wants to be with me and my attorney says the judges have to consider a request at 12, strongly consider at 13, and no choice but accept the request at 14. Unless the request isnt in the best interest of the child, ie... the requested parent is a crimminal or drug addict etc...
124923
Well said shari!  It will prove he is not responsible.  But record record record every move he makes, such as phone calls, write down the time and date and what was said, write down how often he has the children and if he complies to the arrangement ya'll made.  Write down any negativity your child may have said he said.  Most courts love the mother but make sure you have yourself backed up.
298040
You definitely need to contact somebody... Try starting with your local DVACK shelter... DVACK is for domestic violence... Tell them that you are scared for yourself and your child and get a protection from abuse order, he won't beable to come near you or the baby, and you can get your court proceedings started from there. you definitely need to talk to your local SRS office and tell them you want to start the custody to make sure you have residential custody, because if you don't, he has every right to that child just like you do.  He will beable to take her and there is nothing you can do to get that child back until you go through court and ask for visitation. That can take months to do, if he gets the child before you start the proceedings,and no child should go months let alone days without seeing their mother. If you hurry and do that, if he does take the baby, they could then issue an Amber Alert and put his butt in jail! Good luck, but act FAST, seriously!!!!!!!
706068
i should not say this but this the only way. say your child that he is not your son . then see his mood . he will be cryying. then also dont care about . say to him that if he will say to his friend or any one about it you will leave him in lulu center and come . then after 4 days see his mood he will be in upset that day night you say him that he is your own son . then he will slepp happily .then say him that never be naughty and listen to  her .ok
336119
That is not only unacceptable it is unlawful. If you had a child that age would you want ANYONE looking at them in that manner? Good for you for turning him in! If he is still free and still doing it to your knowledge CONTINUE to notify authorities. Do not let up. He has a problem.
495908
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331765
Please call NATIONAL CHILD ABUSE AND NEGLECT 1-800-422-4453 they should be able to direct you to someone you can give your facts to and REMAIN ANONYMOUS until they have enough proof to do something to help.  You are very brave to stand up for what is right, but you must be cautious in placing yourself out in the open as the one who is turning him in until you get some help from an agency that can advise you in this matter.  Abusers don't stop abusing, they just get better at twisting the facts and making their victims feel more confused.  Good Luck & Thank You from an ex victim.
9542
Look up the local police, or child protective services. Both should be in the front of any phonebook.
787782
Might try a restraining order.  Little drastic but would work.  Refuse to take calls from him and his friend.  If it is really bad parental intervention is always good.
297270
Try http://www.family.watchdog.us  .
852964
he sounds like a typical 6-year old boy.  patience.  read to him and have him read to you every night.
921427
No,because, it is his or her against the abuser. You need more proof as such the abuser's past and his pattern of behavior such as he or she has molested children. Sometimes, the e-mail contact between them can proof in the court of law, at the same time you do have to listen to children, they seldom lie or dishonest. An expert can evaluate children as well. You  can observe the children behaviors that show the sign of withdrawn,shame,quiet and unhappy because, the abuser are threaten to harm the children' s family. The impact of child molester can lead the children into drug,alcohol, and sex additive.You need to document the time and event as the children recall from their memories. In addition, you need to analyze the children also and make sure they are not victim of divorce parents. Well I urge you to dig deeper and deeper and You will be surprise about people at 21TH century. Good luck.
591090
Here's a great site. I have used it several times with prank callers and was able to call back and speak to the children's parents and get them in trouble.  One parent even made their child get on the phone and apologize.  It was a real scream! See below under "sources."