when you have sex the first time, do you bleed right away or later?
958358
It depends. If you lost your cherry to a dildo then you probably wouldn't bleed because that is why you bleed. If your hymen breaks or tears during dildo or tampon use then chances are you won't bleed. If you are going to bleed it will be right away not later.
176687
You aren't a virgin any longer when your himen is broken, this happens by having intercourse. You will usually blead a little afterwards, nothing too bad though. If the guy just sticks it in and then pulls it out once, I don't consider that sex.
755220
Yes, usually the hymen is torn during intercourse the first time but it can also be torn by using tampons for the first time.  A gynecologist will know if the patient is a virgin or not.  Typically, there is a law that consists of the doctor patient privilege, in which case the patient's files are strictly confidential between only the patient and the doctor.  Therefore, the doctor is required by law to not disclose any patient information to anyone (including immediate family members).  In the instance where the patient is underage, the doctor may not disclose information to the parents unless it consists of matters requiring medical attention (typically the minor is using their parent/guardians insurance plan and need to be notified).
1170063
Well if she bleeds that means she was really a virgin and shes fresh meat. from my experience guys like that because they know that they were the FIRST to enter...
254596
I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps
888059
No they can't tell the difference. The only thing they can tell is after you lose your virginity. You have kinda like a little seal up inside that when you have sex the first time tears and causes an uncomfortable feeling and may also make you bleed. Other than that masturbating and using a tampon causes nothing to look different.
503513
I didn't bleed, it was just a little uncomfortable. It's normal to bleed, though, and I'd say that your amount of bleeding is normal, too, as long as it stopped after a few days. Don't worry.
849443
When I was 12, one by one, my friends got theirs, so I was kinda anticipating mine. By the time I got mine (it was a light brownish stain at first), I couldn't believe it. Then later that night came the red blood, I actually cried and got my mom worried to death, knocking on the bathroom door asking me of things were ok. I know, what a wimp. Looking back, I can laugh at myself now. But seriously, there's nothing to be worried about. Don't be scared, it's just blood. It shouldn't hurt either, may be some cramps at most. So take it from me, the girl who cried when she got it the first time - it's natural   :)
192581
There are many different reasons a woman doesn't bleed. After having sex for the first time. 1. She has a very thick hymen. 2. Her hymen was damaged or stretched by non sexual activity in her youth. 3. She is not a virgin.
533818
if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
719852
Not necessarily. Among human females, the hymen is a membrane, part of the vulva, which partially occludes the entrance to the vagina and which is often physically torn when the woman first engages in sexual intercourse. Hymens vary in thickness, shape, and flexibility. So the amount of blood present will vary. Don't be embarrassed, let your guy know upfront that you are a virgin. That way neither of you are surprised if blood is present.
619031
It didn't hurt me, but I did it with a guy that had an average sized piece of manhood. The size of his penis will be a factor in whether or not it hurts the first time. Spotting is a very normal thing to happen once the hymen is broken. Also, how old are you? You don't sound ready to lose your virginity. Be sure to think it through... I am not meaning to preach, but make sure that you are ready. I lost mine when I was seventeen because I thought I had found the right guy, but we then broke up and I hated myself for it. And be sure to use protection... Also, don't do it because he wants it... It must be a mutual agreement. Both of you must be ready for the consequences if the contraceptive devices do not work.
894204
well sex can be painful for a virgin girl. because your vagina is not broad enogh and during sexual intercourse , the hymen breaks which might lead to some blood loss. first time sex can be painful for a girl
375392
It is when a woman loses her virginity. Usually that is the first time her hymen is torn which will cause her to bleed. So ... we say that her "cherry" was popped.
618230
After you have sex for the first time or have a female problem.
646487
No- this is not normal at all and should be checked out by your doctor. Bleeding after sex can be due to many reasons including cervical dysplasia, chlamydia, gonorrhea, vaginitis or cervicitis, cervical polyps, trichomoniasis, yeast infection, endometriosis or adenomyosis, uterine polyps, and fibroids. Please do get checked out to determine what the exact cause may be.
388153
If it is during menstruations period or when doign it fot the first time then it is not problem it is normal.\n\nU dint mention what kind of object u r using. Dont use and big or long objects. If it happens everytime better consult ur doctor as soon as possible.