Women: Which situation is more intimate to you?
951968
Choice number 2 would be more intimate because you are allowing your partner to watch you do something that is normally done alone.  You are being open and trusting in sharing something so personal and private.  When you allow yourself to be so vulnerable it brings you closer together, almost like sharing a special secret that you share with no one else.
1127987
women are more relationship oriented. We are wired to talk and have deep conversations. That is how we bond and feel close to a person. Men, however, bond by DOING. So often it is "out of sight, out of mind" for them. They will feel close and intimate when they see you and can interact with you. They may think about you when you are not there, but it's not the same sit by the phone and wait mentality. What can you do? Try to explain how you feel. Tell him what I told you. it took my husband awhile to catch on, but now he makes more of an effort to try. You can try by not flipping out every time he doesn't call you, and try to understand that it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.  \n\nI understand I am generalizing, and apologize for that. Not every woman is that way, and not every man is that way, but that is how it tends to be for the majority of the population.
592567
woman to woman...definetly.  women seem to know what their partner wants more than men do.
993495
You were having SEX my child. Had you been making love you would have been able to tell him you were uncomfortable and change positions. You would have been able to show him what you like having done in the nature of foreplay. Woman are not necessarily better lovers, but now you know the difference between making love and having sex.
859774
Since I don't have a wife, I can only answer this theoretically, but I would say my wife. You have a greater duty to protect her, plus she is younger (I hope!) and has more life ahead of her.
713204
To Me Its More Intimate Than Regular Sex.\n\nHowever When I AM WITH Someone I Really Care About, I Love Giving Oral
290236
With, or without as long as proper hygiene is practiced. I guess some women have a more definite preference. It is really more about your feelings for your sexual partner.
54373
Depends upon how intimate and how public.
140820
Different comfort levels.  Some woman do not want them in the way, and some woman don't want to be seen.  It's mostly about function ( convenient or not) and preference.
663075
women are more into sensitive/emotional stuff, but some women are out there to make a show of themselves, even when it is totally inappropriate. I would hope that you didn't agree to participate in what this girl/woman asked you to.  You should know though, that the majority of women want to be in a relationship and would be insulted by the concept of "cyber"
885895
I don't know what discipline you're approaching this from (e.g., psychology, philosophy, sociology, anthropology), but here's a link to a study on intimacy vs. isolation from a scholarly perspective:\n\nhttp://www.oxfordscholarship.com/oso/public/content/philosophy/0195104609/toc.html\n\n_____________________
1057694
id have to say women.....sometimes im too gullible
203654
You need to talk. Women are more emotional, we wanted to be a big part of your life. Not only in your everyday life but most specially during the decision making time. You might think that she's just your girlfriend and just a flower on the wall, or someone to show to your friends. Women wanted to feel special, like we are a big part of your life. Someone you can talk to and discuss with when you have to make a decision.
602257
great intercourse! it's more personal and the closest you could ever get to your partner
190403
Wisconsin. Women are traditionally the more affectionate of the sexes so it's more acceptable to see women being touchy/feely with each other than for men to be that way. I am 100% heterosexual and I've found it exciting to watch 2 women all over each other and I've even participated fully clothed in front of my husband and found it a turn on to see him so turned on. Sometimes it's fun for the shock effect on bystanders too.
195182
women on top, or doggy. or try what she wants, since she's the one trying to get comfortable
290160
Well if you use sex as an example this is communication with no words and usually this is the one time that men and women really trust each other.Pleasure seems to create even stronger communication and trust the more you let go of control and allow the other person to take you over.WE seem to understand at a very deep level that the other person knows what we need and trust them to do so.I believe it is on a more spiritual level or cellular.Good Luck!