Me and my boyfriend argue all the time but we do love each other a lot .. is this is love?
968032
Do you want to be in a relationship where you always argue or just argue occasionally?\n\nIf you're not happy and fighting all the time just move on.\n\nIf you can do better you should.
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
239134
it actually depends on both of you! Always put into thinking that you must understand each other... You both have your differences, and as time goes by... you will continue to discover a lot about him, his atitudes (maybe good or bad)... and at times you will also have tough times together.  but it's your love and trust to each other who will make your relationship work and last.  take myself as an example... i'm into this relationship for almost six years (goin six this april), it's both our first.... we started when we're only 18.... and i myself have been afraid at first... but as time goes by....i continue to learn what love really is.... truly, LOVE is a word that cannot be explained.\n\nGoodluck!
1115855
fight like fist fight? NO! Is it normal to disagree with one another, YES. Afterall you are two different people with different ways of thinking and then all of a sudden you are married to that person and living your daily life together. You better bet there will be arguments. If you never disagree you or your partner is a people pleaser type personality or you just figure its better not to ruffle any feathers and try to bury all your feelings, which in the end will blow up in your faces. If you are having a disagreement over a certain thing all the time, maybe it's better to seek counseling over the issue before there is too much resentment and the problem gets bigger. It's normal to laugh with your spouse as much as it is normal to have disagreements, it's life. How you handle them will definately determine whether or not you are married for long though. Best wishes!
53761
Well, I dont know the full situation but, if they truley love each other then they have 2 be patient with each other. After all, love does take time and LOTZ OF HARD WORK. But,(there's always a but), you also have to think about what would make BOTH of you happy. After all, you say these people love each other, they must want whats best 4 each other. Dont they?
484144
Be glad and treasure this part of your relationship. Never pick a fight. Just continue to be yourself and see where this leads. He may be your one. Good luck.
803610
You are too sensitive.  Even though he was joking he still was somewhat sincere considering it is a very logical question.  Maybe you are taking his comment too seriously because deep inside yourself you know he is somewhat right and it hurts.  Either way, if you take everything he says so seriously and personally you are going to be one unhappy woman as he is not perfect and can't always be wrong about everything.  Disagreements in relationships are common, healthy and expected.  To be able to workout those disagreements together is what creates a great compatible relationship.  Try not to worry so much about such small things and be thankful for the wonderful life and family you have.  Good Luck & God Bless!
364042
If you are arguing this badly, you need some help. Who is starting the arguments you or her? If its her maybe she is really insecure, or isn't happy. If its you, are you happy? If you really do love her, and want to make it work, i would get in touch with relate, and talk to someone. You can do this either on your own or together. If you do it on your own she may not be happy and see it as a betrayal. If you want to do it together, talk to her about it, cos she may feel uncomfortable about it. Good luck!
854258
I love my husband very very much. Since the day we've met we've never had an 'argument', we've gotten snippy with one another, but never anything more than that. We always talk about what is bothering us and what we really want, no reading between the lines. If we are unhappy with something, we work together to fix it. we always eat dinner together, no matter what, we shop together and try and spend quality time together. We dont go to bed mad and we say we love each other all the time. Just a lot of little things that can go a long ways.
409778
u love him and he loves u ....then it comes to express ur love...if he expresses first it's ur turn to express the feeling u have.....love is very odd thing and ofcourse before taking any action u have to think about the future..i hope u make a good decision
135142
i have a life partner and i love him with all my heart and soul we fight alot but that does not stop us from loving each other.we are aways there for each other and will always be....
380301
Yeah, unfortunately, some people thrive on fighting. Or look at your relationship, how long have you been together?? Is he trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to be the bad guy?? Did you do something he hasn't forgiven you for?? If he always has to fight with you then I'm guessing he's not the type to talk about it. Are you?? What do YOU want?? Are you happy like this?? Try talking to him
307085
Is there a COMMITMENT? More importantly,is there a mutual LOVE/RESPECT between you/them?...Do you both go out of your way to please the other over your own neeeds?--if not,you will not be happy...love is a "self-LESS" concern for the other.It's the only real source of happiness...I wish you nothing but love!!.......Phantom of the Love
992809
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
164852
if you really love each other no it isnt time to end it. Me and My gf are going through a simuliar phase. Fights are expected in a realtionship. There are two people involved and two different views. SO you can expect fights. Me and My gf usually have at least one fight everyday. Manly this is my fault because I am under a lot of stress due to being so far in debt and working so many hours. I take a lot of it out on her although I dont mean to. My gf is going through the stage of life where she is making a lot of deciesions ( whatever that means I am not sure just what some mutual friends have told me) Therefore she gets upset at me alot. LOL But before the night is over we make sure everything is fine between us.   Good Luck I hop everything works out/
1113469
It sounds like you 2 want to be together, seperation doesnt do any good, if you dont go to the problem,and come to somekind of middle ground of ageement on the problem truthfully, you will always come back to the answer to seperate not ever solving the problem, be honest with each other no matter how each other will respond. and remember dont answer by your feelings only by your heart which is not a desire, feelings,and desire are controlled by your flesh, your heart is controlled by your will.
399451
Do you love him?  If you love him, why worry about whether he loves you?  Why not just enjoy being together and don't fret over one another's motives. Your boyfriend is not there to reward you for breaking two other relationships. You can't work to earn love. Either it will come in time, or it won't. Meanwhile, go as far as you want with him (and no further) and enjoy it. \n\nLove, Beth