What the you-know-what is WRONG with me????
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Ok. (taking a deep breath) Let me try to help. This is a bit challenging.\n\nThe first thing I recommend is your sitting down and figuring out just what is causing you so much inner discomfort. Are you afraid to open up? Are you too "hungry" for a woman? Write down your thoughts, your dreams and your fantasies about being with others. Seeing who you are - on paper - helps your mind to sort things out.\n\nNext - take a look at your "shyness." Being shy only means that you are uncomfortable being open with/around others. WHY? Do you fear rejection? Well, based on what you wrote, women seem attracted to you so, allow them to get to KNOW you. \n\nHint: (Some women like being around less aggressive guys - smile)\n\nWHO do you admire? WHO is your hero (or fantasy girl)? THAT may also be why you feel you are missing the mark. Don't gauge yourself based on THEIR characteristics; we ALL have perfect counterparts. The trick is in finding people with similar interests and goals and the only way THAT will happen is by being YOURSELF. \n\nDon't measure yourself against who you feel is the "perfect man" or the "right girl." Just relax, laugh, and enjoy your contacts.\n\nFinally, put YOURSELF in control. Hey - YOU are the master of your own life and destiny; so MAKE THINGS HAPPEN for YOU!\n\nSelect; never settle - regardless of that being a friend or a lover... Just know that there are people out there looking for YOU (the real you) just as YOU have needs for their company.\n\nBe real. Be YOU. The rest will flow through.\n\nThanks for writing, my friend & Good Luck to you!
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hey i really wanted 2 help u out.. but...\ner... i don understand ur q....\nplz... don feel bad...\nsorry...
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Please see your GP.  Will say nothing more than that, nor make any amateur and possibly harmful diagnoses. See your GP, hunny, and get some help. Thats what he/she are there for.
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hi. i am a very nervous person myself. there is nothing wrong with you. your just very nervous. i am trying to get over it myself at the minute. You just have to change the way you look at things. Say if you made a mistake... just think to yourself this is not a problem and carry on with what you are doing. We are all human and we all make mistakes at the end of the day... just change the way you look at things. I hope i have helped a bit.
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I think you left something out.....like what is the problem???
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You can't tell on your own unfortunately. If it's becoming a problem then talk to your doctor so both of you can figure out exactly what's going on. If you think something's not right, chances are you're right! So do something about it so you don't have to keep wondering if it's you or everybody around you.
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What is this about???
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you are wierd.......\ngo to THERAPY!!!!
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I was a little mad and confused! I didn't know what I had done wrong...
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Listen Honey, you have to go to a Doctor. They have medication for this type of thing. You are most likely suffering severe depression and an anxiety disorder which you seemed to have already figured out. You need medication and possibly therapy. There is nothing at all wrong in seeking help. It doesn't mean that you're crazy. If you were crazy, you wouldn't know that anything was wrong with you in the first place. You're not ready for the "foil hat squad" so don't feel that way. Once the medication balances you out, you'll feel much better and things will appear much brighter. Go now and find a Doctor. Good luck. :)
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OMG me too!  I think I'm nuts at times.  Like "what the hell is wrong with me, it's a damn cartoon thingy" is what I think.  But hey it's fun, I have enough trouble trying to figure out what heck i want to wear at home, so maybe that's why.  I guess you could say this my quick fix from hell in my closet lol!!!
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You should feel good about yourself! There's nothing wrong with the way you are.\n\nGood luck!
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Why try to guess what this is when it is really bothering you? Please, don't put your health in the hands of an amateur forum. Respect your mind and body. You must consult your doctor. (I am a physician myself and this is the best advice I can possibly give you.)
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I think you feel strange because you're not feeling well.  You might want to see a doctor.
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thats depression im afraid.. go see your doc or get some friends round and do something you enjoy... got xbox live.. i will play you on there if you want. drop an email and well have a laugh,... dont worry its not the menopause.. just hitting a bridge in life.. i had mine a few months back but now im great.. hope you feel better matey.. tc.
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So... what's your problem???
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Ok, same problem. Me and my boyfriend broke up, my grama died, my great grandparents got into a care accident, my sisters treat me horribly, my mother tells me I am a mistake and she hates me, my father is in jail, and IM SUICIDAL!\n\n\n\nand you think you have problems=[