Ladies only: what do you do to show you're interested in a guy?
963477
Depends.\nSometimes I smile wayy too much and can't find good/witty things to say for the life of me to him because I'm so distracted. So in other words: I may look like a, uh, smiling idiot.\n\nI will ALWAYS notice his presence... whether or not I show it, which I usually do if we are close enough to make eye contact.\n\nI may find excuses to be around him. \n\nI am much more responsive to him if he sends me a quick email or asks me some questions about myself.\n\nI look at his face/into his eyes much much longer than men I don't like.\n\nI admit I've sometimes ignored them to try to forget about them, or to avoid showing I'm very interested, or even once so I wouldn't have to breathe on them because I just ate some garlicky thing.\n\nOne way you can find out if a woman is interested is innocently go into her personal space and see if she lets you or pulls back. If she likes you, her body language will do a bit of talking and she may let you farther into her bubble than other people.\n\nAs for us not admitting in liking someone... it's because we want to be wanted and it sucks to lay it all out there and be rejected, especially in a work situtation or situation where you know you'll see the person a lot in the future. I know this is the same for men, but I find that if a man wants you, he wants you, and you can't convince them to like you by pouring your heart out. So I'd rather stay quiet until the man knows what he wants. If you are interested in a woman like me, charm me up and watch my reaction. You'll know quite soon where we stand.
1089680
Have confidence dear -- if you are ready than do not rush it. Just be yourself and the guys will appreciate that versus a shallow phony-- they are everywhere! First- a little hint-- find a couple of guys that you find that are attractive-- then start conversations with all of them--asking them things about them-- what they think and feel about different things. The shallow guys will be annoyed and blow you off-- the decent guys will find that your interest in them as a compliment.  Try it and see how that works. Also ask around about them too. Do not make any commitments to go out with any of them until you narrowed the choices down to one or two. By that time I feel you will kn ow who those guys that are worth your time will be and who is not.
281710
well every girl has their own way or showing interest.\nhere are some things that i do \n- i make eye contact with him when i talk to him\n- i try spending more time with him than other guy(friends)\n- i compliment him\n- i smile more than usual when im around him\n- i "accidentally" touch him when we're talking\nwell there's lots of other ways of showing romantic interest. You could google "how do you know if someone likes you"
422029
guys are simple, most of them liken unto animals so the simplest approach would be the best. Simply say "I,ve notice you and was wondering ,totaly open and give him a way out, cause we feel at ease like that, if there was something you found about me you would care to know more about. Then even toss in there that you would like to know whats up with him, that would let him feel accepted and eased and let you have a moment not on the spot. Simply bring up the ? of the matter is basicly the best way to approach a guy cause we are simple carbin units waiting for an oppurtunity
71651
men are generally interested in a hobbie.  decide what interest you and visit a store selling related items....ask that good looking guy an intelligent question and allow the conversation to carry you into coffee,lunch, dinner and if your lucky, breakfast.  good luck...
793163
I know it can be nerve-wracking when you are finally attracted to someone who is attracted to you and you don't know what to say or do, but the best thing to do is to just say "Hi" and smile or you could have introduced yourself.  You have nothing to lose.  When you open the door of conversation a guy will usually get the point that you are interested.\nGood luck. :D
234269
You could try some friendly flirting to get a feel if the friend is into you, or if they think of you as just a friend.brother figure.\n\nIf your friend likes you then all you have to do is make a move. I like my guy friend, and I'd love it if he made a move on me. But if it was another friend I wasn't into, then no amount of seduction, planning or plotting could make me interested.\n\nSo it's just a matter of finding out if your friend is attracted to you or not.
827820
If it's someone you know from an organization to which you both belong or an activity that you have in common, suggest that a few of you go out for coffee or  drink to discuss plans or opinions or techniques, etc. While you're in that small group, pay special attention to the guy you're interested in.  Ask him his opinion, and at the end of the evening suggest that you get together again to talk.  \n\nAt that point, the ball's in his court. If he's interested, he'll agree to meet you or ask you out.  And, what's more, he'll think it was actually his idea!
966838
I guess in your case, you should just maturely, let him know - Tell Him.  \n\nIt depends on his personality, some guys you need to be more subtle at letting them know and others, you need to be more obvious.  Since he admits that he can't pick up on hints, maybe it's his way of telling you that he wants more signals from you.\n\nSome more subtle things you can do are like lightly touching him and trying to get physically close.  You should be able to tell by his body language if he is interested.  Also, if you don't see him in a while, next time you see him, tell him that you missed him.  Be  a good listener and be interested in what he talks about, such as when he talks about his personal interests.  Smile a lot when you are around him and good luck!
296499
No. You can show that you are interested in a guy, like flirting with your eyes, without being aggressive and asking them out.  If the guy is interested in you, then they will show you in their own way.  Guys want to take control of the relationship and be the leader, and I think it turns them off when the girl is too pushy.  So, show him subtle signs of being into him, but do not chase after him.  He will not be given the chance to pursue you, which is the dance of dating.  I guess this is just old-fashioned advice.
163934
Talk about favorite foods, gossip of any kind, Ask him questions about himself that way he will notice you have some interest with him. Try to make the conversations equally, but if he's a shy guy then you will talk most of the time but say things that he could be interested in to. Be yourself and have a good time!
1032350
look confident \nsmile \nflirt a lil don't look desperate\njust make sure you don't look negative\nI find that just scares them off lol\nor tell him you like him\nbring it up in a conversation in a way it doesn't seem out of the blue\nor..just ask him out
152500
Ask him out for coffee or something like that so that he gets the message that you're interested.
86439
that's the hard one.. unless of course you can influence his mind but that i guess you wouldn't have asked. try talking around.. give hime very now and than smile and cute look and look how does he reacts to it. i don't know how well do you know him.. but in any case i don't think you will look desperate if you let him know. just don't rush take your time to get to know him well, and when the timing is right,e.g. after a nice walk or something say something like -you are really something you know... but be sure that you know exactly what do you feel for him before doing anything.. good luck
390296
A good guys will show he is interested, first of all, by smiling at you.  If you don't normally talk to him, and suddenly he contacts you one day, and keeps at it, then you can be pretty sure that he is interested in you, especially if you notice that you are the only one who gets this treatment from him.  He will compliment you, likely often.\n  \nRemember, good guys are frequently shy, so if you think you might be interested back, don't be afriad to help him along a bit.  And if you are not interested, try to make it clear in friendly conversation that your not intersted.
60068
Try flirting. Smile at him, laugh at his jokes (guys LOVE that) try to engage him in conversation (ask him about himself, guys also love to talk about themselves) It's a great way to let someone know you're interested without having to say so, which could scare some people off.
78401
The trick is to never(ever) let a guy know that you are interested in him. Just give him signs and keep him in mystery. Flirt with him without him really knowing you are doing so. Its the mystery about the girl that really makes a boy interested in her