Should I write thank you notes to two rude guests?
952112
I'd still send a thank-you card.   If these two  individuals find out that you sent every other guest a card except them, they could cause you even more trouble in the future.\n\nMore importantly, you'll be taking the ethical high road, and who knows, maybe jar their consciences a bit -- maybe even enough to make them apologize to you for their inexcusable behavior at your wedding.  \n\n.
211198
don't be rude and share with other
809761
I don't know about you, but I get really excited whenever I get something other than a bill or junk in my mail. Even if you are really close friends with someone, I think it's always nice to send a thank you card in the mail. I think that sending things like thank you's via email is still uncharted waters and may not be appreciated by some people. They went through the effort of inviting you to the meal and cooking, etc. so the least you could do is spend the extra couple minutes writing out a card. I just think that email is much too informal in impersonal.
46830
do NOT give gifts of thanks for your promotion. you EARNED what you got. i know you must feel thankful and all that but they do not expect a gift and its not even really appropriate .the best "gift" you can give them is to continue to do your best and show them you deserve it!
278178
I asked this question here, I was told it was rude of me to expect a thank you by a lot of posters.  I still think it's not me who is rude...and I still say "You're welcome" to these people to try and get them to remember what we all learned in preschool--say thank you when someone does something nice for you.
448132
I can really understand your frustration, Common courtesy has all but disappeared off the face of the planet.There are many instances that I have been in where a simple I'm sorry or are you Ok, would make all the difference in the world I got fed up with this behavior and moved to a small Community in Northwestern California where people actually say please and thank you , and also wave Hello I can't tell you how it has changed the quality of life for me . Just hang in there, not all people are uncaring idiots. There are still some good ones out there. lol.
884033
so write him a thank you note...what is the big deal here?
467258
Add the thanks in the detail or email the person. I am sure they would like to know they were helpful. Something specific is especially meaningful.
937037
NO, you were completely justified. It isn't even a matter of her being grateful (which of course, she should be) it is also a matter of her being a decent human being and having some level of manners. When someone goes out thier way to help you with something, the LEAST that you could do is say thank you or tell them how much you apprectiate all they have done for you. She stayed in thier house not just as a guest, but as a memeber of the family, and in such, should appreciate that level of acceptance and support. You and your parents seem like good people, and deserve that much respect.
718114
My dear there is still such thing as business etiquette and \nbusinesses emphasize it more than ever. It is crucial to the business to provide excellent customer service. If you have ran into an unpleasant situation do report it. Do bring it to your supervisor's attention because there is a high chance that this colleague of yours has been rude to others before as well.
890976
If I encounter a rude waiter or waitress, I usually ask if they are new.  Sometimes it's nerves that makes them come across as being rude.  If they tell me they are not new, then I know they are just plain rude and should not be doing that type of work.  I might leave them a few pennies or a nickel instead of a real tip.  Someone told me a long time ago that by not leaving a tip, they might just think I forgot to leave one. If I leave a few pennies, they will know I didn't like their service. I hate it when I'm dining alone and it takes the waiter/waitress forever to bring my check.  They should always leave the check when the food is delivered to you.
333438
No it is not rude. In this case it is reasonable weddings can have rather strange time frames. early wedding reception later? wedding immediate reception? pictures? cocktails, food, receiving line? it could take hours with set times between or not. But it is not bad manners to ask when any party is expected to end, especially if it is not stated on the invatation. It allows not only for the guest to plan for themselves, but it insures that they do not overstay their welcome. After all we all have had the "GUEST THAT WOULD NOT LEAVE". you know the one that thinks you  could not possibly be tired, have other things to do and so forth.
645021
stuck up and rude people
703011
No.  Just rude.  I recommend you stay away from these types.  They are not nice.
1124332
How to Write a Thank-You Note\n\n\n\nYou can fill even short thank-you notes with appreciation and meaning. And remember, 'better late than never' applies'the recipient will always enjoy your thanks.\n \n \nSteps:\n1.  Mention the gift, favor or party you attended.\n \n2.  Talk about the appropriateness of the gift or favor: 'Your baby-sitting for my children has truly been a lifesaver in these difficult times.' (You can describe a gift that didn't quite suit your taste as 'a conversation piece' or 'unique.')\n \n3.  Tie the appropriateness of the gift to the person who gave it to you: 'You've always understood my taste in clothes.'\n \n4.  Talk about how you plan to use the gift (or substitute this step for step 2): 'I have a picture of my parents that would look perfect in your frame.' If you received a gift of money, mention how you will spend it.\n \n5.  Add a small personal note to update the giver about your life: 'I have completely recovered from my cold and plan to hit the slopes again as soon as I can.'\n \n6.  Consider sending a token of appreciation along with your note if you're thanking someone for a good deed. Possibilities include flowers, chocolate or an invitation to lunch (your treat).
557283
As an employee, not a supervisor...I would rather prefer a phone call or a left message.  It seems more personable if you confront the person rather than leaving a non-professional note.  Or wait till they get back.
984999
I just smile sweetly at them and say "Thank you.  Have a nice day."\n\nIt's a sly way of telling them to piss off.  The contrast between your ultra-niceness and their rudeness will point out to them how rude they're being.