My life has becum a hell..what shud i do?
959009
for ur long question i have only short answer for u\n"pray and ask God for help"
674365
dont do anything... as hard as it may be... just know that life has its way of getting back at people... what goes around will come around... thats the way karma works...
168701
What kind of help are you looking for? Do you have family, money, health problems?  The best I can do is pray for you and hope that whatever is happening in your life gets better. LOL
1050587
You should find some adult who is unconnected to your family, School counselor, head teacher, ....\n\nTell them exactly what is going on and ask them to help refer you to the proper agency in your area who can deal with this.\n\nTake action now, or you face being traumatised to the point of lifelong discontentment.  Take action now and take pride in the fact that you had the courage to stand up for your rights.  Take action now and recognise the depth of emotional resilience and strength you have.\n\nDo you see where I'm going with this?\n\nTAKE ACTION NOW - TALK TO SOMEONE
89732
Yes your best option is Pray\n\nPut all your faith in God
256255
Think well, live long, try to start your life again and don't be afraid of starting.  There is always a new way and a new start.  The past is gone, the present is here and the future... you never now.  So live each day as it is the last one of your life.  Live 100% and laugh until you cry. Good luck and God Bless!
697918
take positive action today, right now. Life is too short and precious. I am your age and have recently retrained after 2 horrible years of illness. I am now doing a job i love. It was tough to get here but well worth it. Be prepared for things to get a little worse before they get better. for example you may be quite low on cash for a while. \nFirst...what do you want to do? need inspiration? look through the job pages, or check out what courses are available. \nsecond...if you don't want to be in this country, where do you want to be? \nthird...how about giving yourself some thinking time and doing something positive and rewarding to fight off the depression? You're young enough to be eligible for loads of charitable organisations, for example BUNAC. They pay for your flights, you do some volunteer work in an interesting place. Might help to get you some perspective.\ngood luck xx
534795
Ever ask why? Find a church and ask God to forgive them. you are who you are...........live with it or move on. I had a put down family and only when i got a job and moved on with my life they were not a part of it,now they beg for me to help them, what goes around comes around sweetie...Hang tough
520218
You need to resolve this conflict, don't hang on to the unfortunate events of past. Your experience in life makes you shy away from people.Look ahead and concentrate on the positive aspects of your life. You have had love and marriage and this is what will eventually help you heal. You need to develop some confidence and learn to love yourself. Don't distrust everyone, not all people are bad. Make friends and make efforts to socialize with people in a friendly manner. You will be surprised how people begin to like you. That will help you raise your self-esteem.\nLife is short, live it in the best possible manner, all you have to do is to make efforts towards a positive living.\nGod bless.
711240
You should have left as soon as you knew about the gossip and the drug addiction and saved yourself ? months of stress and agravation.sounds like you need a change of scenery my friend.try a job in a different field,go back to school,move to another,town,city.state,country whatever.
810028
Ask you doctor to refer you to a therapist.  I have been where you are and it practically destroyed my life.  Therapy helped enormously and I am back on an even keel now...;
541875
Try talking to Jesus. He hears, and answers prayers. He knows your future, your past, and your present. He will lead and guide you in the right way, and it is free.
1185608
I think you need to be honest with yourself and bring everything out in the open.There are reasons why you hurt so deeply,the only way to ever move past it is to go through it.The first thing you need to do is to know your worth,that yes things have happened in your life as they do us all some more than others.You have to take it as a learning experience it will only make you stronger in time,sometimes we can help others through our own trials,its not always easy you have to keep going though.Drinking and partying or any of these things you are doing its not healing your pain it wont its a bandaid.Get real ,loose the crutch,try to find positive people to surround yourself with,then you will see a positive outcome.If you really want things to change it will also help you to know that,God is always with you even when you are not with him,I hope that you can find the light to lead you out of such a dark place,I know its there I found it so can you,you just have to reach for it.May God keep watch after you.
517883
Oh My God, that is a terrible and sad story. I really wish that I knew what to tell you or at least had some good advise. Being kicked out of my girlfriends house just a few months ago, I can relate to some of what you are going through. You will have hard times and sadness for a long time no doubt. But believe it or not, it does get easier as time goes by. That does not help you right now I know, and for that I am also sorry. There really isnt anything that I can tell you or that anybody can tell you really that will ease your pain and suffering. But for sure you need to keep your head about you and do whatever it takes to get you and your son through this horrible time in your life. I can be your e-mail pal/friend if you want, and again I wish I had some quick-fix remedy. Keep your chin up. (smile)
36023
Think about all the people that love and care about you - do you think they would want to see you go?  Absolutly not!  I am writting this becasuse I care too, I don't know you, but I can't help but have concerns about your well being!  Think about all the other people in this world who have is worse than you, there are millions that have is worse.  You should talk to a counselor or a pastor or even someone that is close to you.  People do care about you, even those friends that you say you can't talk to, I promise.  You have said that you have dreams and aspirations - instead of just sitting on them - do them!  You have a life to live, so live it.  You don't get to decide on when you leave this life, God does, so put your life back in his hands and live the rest of your life that He gave you.  My prayers are with you.
946881
Find the nearest womens shelter.  Go there and do not look back.  It is not an easy road, but it is life.   yellow pages.  Call a distress center.  Get out while you can.
993605
things will get better...life is all about change...hang in there and good luck