Can a guy get upset if a girlfriend talks trash in a car to an “unsavory” guy and may start trouble?
961041
Yes....he has every reason to get upset, i would.....!!
725994
If by bitchy, you mean a girl who knows her own worth and will not allow anyone to run over her and will tell you when she thinks you have disrespected her, men like this kind of woman because she challenges him to be his best.  He knows that if he wants this better kind of woman, he must be thoughtful of her feelings, work hard for a living because she will not just accept any excuse for a man, have plans for his future (which will not necessarily include her if their plans do not match) and be a man not an excuse for 1.  If you mean a girl who is rude and crude for the heck of it, it is because he is stupid.    By the By, if you feel that you must always agree with your bf or risk losing him, I feel sorry for you
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.
884767
ABSOLUTELY. Often, people fight about petty issues, just to air their other issues. When someone's complaining about stuff all the time, they are obviously unhappy in general. If you get into an arguement, or verbal fight, ask the other person to stick to the subject. I've done that, and it usually makes the "fighter" back down, and re-think their gripes.
974845
It depends, whose name is the car in, and is "he" a friend, boyfriend. There are many factors in play here.  Call the local police and get some advise.
652901
I think you are worried about nothing, if you and he has discussed it more than once and he is not getting angry about it let it go, he did have auto insurance on it right?\nIf you were hurt do you think he would be whining about the car or you, If he loves you enough to marry you than I would bet all my money on you and not the car.\nHe can replace his car, he would never ever be able to replace his love...You
681208
Whether this is "your fault" for being with another guy, or "his fault" for freaking out, doesn't matter.  Even if it was an accident, and you say sorry and can prove it, still doesn't matter.\n\nStuff like this is a clear signal that one of you (maybe both of you?!) aren't ready for a real relationship.  Take some time off, think about what YOU can do better next time (even if it's just thinking about how to choose a boyfriend that isn't so immature).  Then, after a few months (I would suggest 3-6 months at least!) you might possibly think about another boyfriend.
634919
all things in their own time, when he gets sick enough of it he'll dump the girl but in the meantime feel free to tell him you don't want to hear it AGAIN, that you'll be happy to discuss solutions to the problem but not the same problems over and over again. people often get emotionally stupid about things that logically they realize are stupid, did that make sense?
713997
If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
88534
Depends on the girl/woman and the person that did this.  Some girls no matter if it was accidental or not will be offended just because.  If an apology is offered most of the time most women will forgive it.  Some women take anything as aggressive and take action no matter if an apology was offered.  And then again some will beat the crap out of you because they can.  Like I said, it just depends.
677141
You have a right to be pissed.  Make it clear if he is planning on talking to this girl again he better tell you first and it better be for a good reason.  Unfortunately I know how close a group of old friends can be and if he isn't lying then what he did isn't that bad except he should have told you first.  Beyond that your only other option is leaving him but if everything else is good in your relationship that seems like a pretty silly step.
577627
Your perception of what you heard in the one sided conversaton, clearly " sounds" like a someone admitting they are " dealing" with some female in a BAD way.  I would report it, and let the police deal with it. Better for your concience in the long run.
593778
I think they have problems.  That happened to me once at a convenience store, I was upset and mad, but also thought of pointing and laughing at him, humiliating him for it.  But I just shook my head and looked at him like "Whatever!" and drove away.
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
943924
how about i send her an email telling her how mad u are. ill pretend like u didnt know i said anything. ill just say something like "did u know **** is really ticked off about u trashing her boyfriend all the time." get on messanger plllleeeeeassse
931580
Guys will do that to puff their pride up.\n\nRemember this rule:\n\n1. People only talk shit becuase they are still bitter and you still effect them. If you didnt effect them, they wouldnt even bother talking about you.\n\nI would ignore his loser ass and talk to other guys around him just to make him angry. Who cares what he thinks, right? He certainly is doing that to you.
580462
NO! that was completely and totally uncalled for.  His brother had no right to yell at you, and your bf should have done something about it.  If he isn't going to tell his brother not to talk to his gf that way, then he isnt showing you the respect you deserve.  You might want to bring this up with him, or see if his brother does it a second time.  If he does, either you or your bf need to take action (you need to break up with him, or he needs to tell his bro off), because yelling and cussing at you is not acceptable!