How often does a normal married couple have sex?
959267
Yes, something is wrong.  It doesn't matter how often you actually have sex- every day, every week, every month- as long as both of you feel contented. You are unhappy enough about it to be asking this question, so something is going on that isn't quite right.\n\nI've been in a low sex marriage (sex less than once a month, sometimes no sex for six months + at a time) for years and years and believe me, it isn't going to get better over time.  You'll end up being the "pursuer" sexually and emotionally, as I am with my husband.  Seek outside assistance now, while your relationship is still fresh enough for you both to invest in addressing this issue.  Otherwise you'll end up like me- wondering if you chose the wrong mate, wondering if it's still possible to fix it, wondering if platonic friendship is going to be enough for the next 40 years.
1152401
As far as I know, it's normal.  You can't listen to the others.  Masturbation is perfectly healthy, and you can do it as often as you like, even if you're married.  There is the aspect of your wife being okay with it, but if that doesn't present problems then go ahead.  I've personally masturbated eight times in a day once.  Other than the fact that my arm hurt, I was okay.  As long as you and your wife are comfortable, then there's not problem.
795225
There is no normal amount of sex per person or couples.  Everyone is different.   Sex is a very important part of marriage and those who think not are those that end in divorce or unhappy.   I have been married for 22 years and our sex life has increased if anything.   We cant keep our hands off each other.  We play head games and flirt all the time.  By the time we are alone we are all over each other.   As my wife says sex is 24 hours a day.  Phone calls, emails text messages and flirting  never stops.   \n\nStart flirting with your husband, Grab his butt when he goes by and just smile.  When you walk by him rub up against him slow and sexually.  Just smile.   Give him a kiss for no other reason than because you want to.   Say something about wanting him to yourself really bad.\n\nIf you want a sex life then you both need to live it.   Do your part and I am sure he will start doing the same.
612097
When I was in my teens - every chance I got! Oh to be young again.\n\nNow that I'm in my 40's and happily "married", probably about once a week.\n\nI think you grow out of it over the years, but it could also depend on your libido.
480851
Yeah my husband does too.  I didn't think about it till it happened.  Now we do it every once in a while so we keep it not boring.  Plus, it's intense sex.  You guys take turns, she can go on and you guys take breaks and watch.  It's live porno and it's you wife which makes you want her more.  I think it's normal.  Enjoy it and have fun!
205111
Does anybody really count times?  Partners maybe.  \n\nI am 25 and married, so counting every other day for the last year, 183 times.
917589
There really isn't such a thing as normal.  It depends on the person/people.  I'm sure there are some who think once a week is too often and some who think ten times a day isn't enough.  Whatever seems like the right amount to YOU is the correct answer.
112254
Its normal to do it but its normal if you don't. It depends on what your comfortable with on how many times you do it.
531951
Not normal to me and I've been with my husband for almost 20 years. To each their own though. I have a friend that only has sex when she wants to have a baby and thinks that this is the only time they need to have any intimate contact. Funny world sometimes.
9308
Couple here\n\n\n\nNot often enough, cause of the Kids!!!!\n\n\nBut i heard that for couples the average should be at least twice a week to keep a relationship healthy.
102602
well,when first married it seems like two,three times a day. but,after a year the male feels more comfortable and feels no threats.Then it usually is three to four times a week. Then after children ,which scares the hell out of the male maybe twice a week. It could be more if he knows you have a good contraceptive. After 20 years once or twice a week. After the children are out of the house the male rejuvenates and you may have sex three to four times a week again. After all that i want to say really , it all depends on the couple.But, remember do'nt roll to your side and get upset when he does't try to have sex. Be the better lover and initiate it yourself. Trust me,it will be better because it was different and strange for you to do this and that makes a man ''WILD'' good luck.
42098
I'm married and have not had sex in a year! (Idiot for a husband) Actually, it varies from person to person due to psychology and hormones.
238819
Across countries and cities and age groups, both the spouses are spending a meagre 4 hours awake together and the rest 12 hours away from each other in a world filled with temptation and "easy" access.\n\nThis eventually leads them to try extra marrital affairs with people working with them, people they meet in travel, people they talk online. \n\nSadly this number is on the rise and rising fast. Probably they hold no respect or committment to the marriage they are in, but merely satisfy their physical needs.\n\nYes, such relationships are not merely common, its rampant..\n\n.:Fishie:.
558335
We talk on the phone usually 3 times each day and e-mail too! We have been married almost 11 years and it's never been better. How often is is for you?
1001603
Once or twice a week.  We've been married almost 5 yrs.  It seems like a good frequency for both of us, but I'm sure it varies among couples.
1034694
my husband and i make love almost everynight, at least 5 times a week. thats good enough for me.
42991
There's no real guide to how often to have sex.  Once a month can be fine if both partners are happy with that - same for three times a day.\n\nThere are NO health risks for having sex many times a week.  Unless you are having unprotected sex with strangers where once a month is too often.