When everyone around you is suffering?
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Be there for them when they need to talk about their issues and when you have had all you can take - do something for yourself like a bubble bath, gardening or go for a walk. Something YOU enjoy - to take your mind off their problems.\nBTW. Do not feel bad if you have to tell them you can not take any more right now.
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A lot of times, people are so consumed in their own problems, they don't even realize what they are doing.  Hang in there.  I have come to realize that if we have one awesome friend, we are quite fortunate.  I am sure you still have people around you that care about you.
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Yes, all of us have had bad days, but few of us have experienced grieving over a murdered child. My sympathies and thoughts are with you!\n\nWe all feel alone sometime, and we all try to deal with that in our own ways. Sometimes by endlessly seeking distractions, sometimes by facing our own fears, doubts, anxieties...\n\nBut life requires that of us. Growth is almost always uncomfortable and sometimes very painful, but it's pain for something, if we're honest, if we're true to ourselves and if we genuinely care about the meaning and effect of our lives.\n\nI would much rather experience the pain of facing myself... and accomplishing something of substance in my life... then run away from myself... and at the end of it all, look back and think... "What was it all for? What real difference did I make?"\n\nGood luck to you.
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Could be that everyone around you sees that you aren't right for each other.
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Putting everything into perspective.  Find people that can relate to your situation and talk to those around you about your/their feelings.  Realize that what happens is not in your control.  But the way you respond to illness is up to you.  Try to be loving and caring when things are hard, but remember to be aware of the good times that come around.  Don't let any negativity overtake positive moments.
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All the kids, wives and animals that may be suffering that night somewhere in the world. I am a Case Worker and am plagued with the thoughts of all the kids I couldn't reach or the wives that can't speak out. Often I wake up my husband to pray with me for this at bedtime because It's a hard burden to carry alone.
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Why on earth would you wait so long to do something about this?  GO TO A DOCTOR.  There is no reason to suffer or to cause the people around you to suffer.
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Its called being codependant.  Feeling the need to help others with their own issues to the point of ignoring our own.  Often without being asked.  Read up on codependency, i did just a little while back and my goodness it explained alot.
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of coarse hearing someone else problem makes your spirit a little lighter but that is just human.  When you listen to other people it just makes you kinda forget about yours and more about them.  Not only that there are people out there that are having a worse time then yourself.  One thing that always helps me if I don't have anybody to talk to is to just tell myself it could always be worse, and it can.
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Because everyone can suffer, even the Chosen people.\n\nDivinity does not bring suffering, humanity does.
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It could be one of the low periods that happen to each and every one of us sometimes, or you could be handling things incorrectly. Sit with yourself, go through your troubles and sort things out.
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I'm saddened to hear that you live in this state.  Sounds like you were traumatized a year ago.  I've been through this. It's a horrible feeling. Asking these questions and reaching out for help shows that you are beginning to come out of it.  To return to reality,  face your troubles no matter how much it hurts.  Talk to a counselor, pastor, friend, teacher.  Continue to ask questions if it makes you feel better.  I wish you a bright future!
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are you going through some emotional issues right now? if so, you are most likely at a point of vunerability that may make it seem as if the world is out to get you. Don't worry, the sources of you crying are most likely not aiming to intentionally make you miserable. Only really evil people find joy at other's misery. If these people are really mean-spirited, you should question why you should even be interacting with them at all. You should find something that you derive joy from and have that be your focus for a while, and i promise it will take your mind off the things that make you cry!!  Feel Better! Tell yourself that YOU are better than that! :)
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To your main question: NO!   That would not be the end of your suffering, only the beginning, and the beginning of the suffering of those who care about you.   I felt heart-broken years ago over someone who means nothing to me now.   Pain on this earth gradually fades away.  What can mean the world to you now can be nothing to you eventually.  Just deal with it one day at a time.  Tell yourself every morning that you just need to make it through  the day...eventually you won't need to.
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Why not try telling them what is bothering you.  You might be surprised, they can probably help you.  Talking is always good when you are hurting.
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i completely understand. i have the same problem. i think you have to be happy. just because there are people around doesn't mean you can't be lonely. like something is missing and you're not quite sure what sometimes. doctors sometimes help but i think it's all something that can be worked on by ourselves it just may take awhile. i'm sure this isn't really an answer but at least you know you're not alone in this aspect :)
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I think everyone is afraid of being alone