how to be more gorgeos and outgoing person espicially for ladies?
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Have confidence in oneself. God bless*
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JUST BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!GO GURL
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If you want a woman to like you, you have to like yourself first.  Look in the mirror, and decide what good qualities you have.  Those are the qualities that women will pick up on.\n\nWhat qualities about yourself don't you like?  Can you change them?  Do something to feel more positive about yourself in those areas.\n\nIf you're a nice, kind-hearted, caring guy (which I think most women appreciate in a man), that will come across in your personality.  Let a woman get to know the real you.  Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place.\n\nAnd remember, chances are that the woman you're talking to is probably as nervous as you are.  To be confident, you need to love yourself.  Because if you don't love yourself, how can you expect another woman to?\n\nConfidence comes with experience.  Just get out there and start talking to them.  Be yourself, smile, look them in the eye when you talk to them.  Give them compliments, and they'll be all over you.  And then comes the hard part... is this woman worth your time, or you do wanna go on to the next one?
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Take the ladies out for lunch (does not have to be fancy) one day and tell them how you feel. Maybe they would start including you in the conversations, especially to get the male perspective on things. This would help you learn how to be a leader and then move up in an organization by showing the ability to move beyond petty office crap.
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#1 Just be your self and wear a big smile\n#2 Don't over do anything just look like plain Jane\n#3 Talk to them ask them if they hang out here often
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Find 3 or more (up to five) qualities that other\npeople don't have. Add them up and realize that you were put on this earth for a Damn REASON, that you are as good or even better than other dudes and don't slump your shoulders. I hated myself for so long until I was about 23, when other people had to tell me that I was good and a good friend to have around, that a lot of people found me attractive. Email me your circumstances.muirmatt@yahoo.com
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be yourself. show that u are a unique creature that very few women display. feel good about yourself too. when you do, it will show and you will find that they will fall out the trees and everywhere to see you. trust me.
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You sound beautiful and confident.  The combination of those two elements can make a woman irresistable to any guy.  Go out there, have a great time, and meet as many guys while you still have the chance.  Good luck!
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You need to gain confidence in yourself, for one. Learn to be alone, and not lonely. If you can appreciate yourself as company, others will as well. Go places where you will meet people with similar interests, and you'll meet women who will be interested in you.
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oh, i've been thru tht stage. lemme tell u some of the things gals liked abt me..\n\n1. i was kinda cute, even if i didnt rank no.1 in their eyes, i never dropped below no.3, n thts a lot!!\n\n2. u gotta be famous in some way. i was famous for being the "shy" guy, but dont over-do tht part! i wudnt recommend it. most of the gals liked "wannabe-s" for some reason. u knw, be cool and good at street-talks.\n\n3. definitely got to be a good conversationalist, especially on the phone\n\n4. good sense of humor\n\n5. pretend to be dumb in matters of love/crush and i said "pretend", but if u'r really dumb, gawd help u!!\n\n6. u gotta be a spender, the more u spend on her, the more she's impressed, but dont over-do this part too, spend in case of occasions.\n\n7. u gotta make her feel tht u gonna be her best frnd forever and u gonna be there for her always, never hurt her and comfort her in times of trouble. u gotta work ur way into becomming her best frnd and win her prestigious trust.\n\n8. never make fun of her in front of her frnds....\n\n9. flirt with the whole world, but do not flirt with her frnds, it turns thm off!!\n\nok, this outta do. good luck soldier!!
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Be yourself, don't act like something your not. Most guys love women who who show their risky side and that they would have fun and just relax. Men wouldn't like a women that is picky or over the head. Just be yourself and you might get a crowd full of guys wanting your phone number
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be yourself, be confident (but not too confident), have a sense of humor, and be a gentleman
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Every guy wants to be cool, yet not every guy is cool. But the truth is that there are no secrets to being cool; it's about who you are and how you behave. But there are things that you can do to bring out the cool in you.\nHere are some tips that'll show you how to look and sound cool with your friends. Use them if you need them, and you'll transform yourself into one of the socially adept -- and your friends will look forward to hanging out with you.\n\nHave a nice girlfriend (preferably good looking)\nA nice girlfriend will always make you a valued guy to be around. Why? Well, a nice girlfriend will probably have nice female friends. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to figure out why your friends might like to hang around a guy who knows lots of women.\n\nDon't overcall\nIf you're always calling your friends, you're calling too much. There's no perfect ratio, but you should probably call your friends less often than they call you. That way, you'll be in high demand.\n\nHave a purpose when you call\nDon't call just to chat. Keep phone calls brief. Call once. Leave a message, but only if you need to. If they don't return the call, don't call them back unless it's an emergency. For example, if you're making plans for dinner and want to include them, but they don't call you back, it's their loss. You shouldn't have to run after them. \n\nDress well\nPeople don't like hanging out with slobs. No, you don't have to wear a suit to hang out with the guys, but always look presentable and sharp. Remember: We're initially judged on appearances, so always try to look your best.\n\nBe knowledgeable\nIgnorance is never bliss. Guys like to have a buddy who knows a thing or two, especially about a range of subjects, from picking up women to current events to wines. But don't overdo it. Drop your knowledge when asked, otherwise you'll look like a showoff, and that is not cool.\n\nBe funny\nI'm not talking about telling knock-knock jokes or being a clown. But if you've got a sense of humor, let it rip (a little). You want to be funny, but you don't need to be the sole source of amusement. There's a balance. And please, when you tell a good joke, just bask in that accomplishment. Don't muddy the waters by going on and on -- you'll just kill it.\n\nDon't be a downer\nIf you're in a bad mood, consider staying home. Guys want to have fun when they're with their friends; nobody wants to be your counselor. Yes, you can tell a close friend about a serious problem (your girlfriend dumped you), but save those talks for serious occasions, not a night out.\n\nDon't be readily available, keep your word and pick up the first round\nBe scarce\nGuys who are always around come off as needy, like lap dogs. It's sad to say, but your friends just won't respect you if you don't have a private life. Try having circles of friends that don't meet, and from time to time make sure that you're with the other group.\n\nBe mysterious\nNobody wants to read an open book, so if you tell all, the guys probably won't be that interested in you. Hold something back, and you'll leave everyone wanting more.\n\nDon't broadcast your weaknesses\nEvery guy has a weakness, but you don't need to broadcast it. If you do, you'll likely make yourself and your weakness the target of group jokes. If you're sensitive about something, keep it to yourself.\n\nAssociate with cool people\nThis one's a no-brainer. If you're always bringing losers to the group, you'll soon be labeled a loser as well. On the other hand, if you're known for bringing cool people around, your coolness factor will skyrocket.\n\nIntroduce people\nBe the person that brings groups together (not necessarily your separate groups). If you have two sets of friends, introduce them (if you think they'll be compatible, of course). A
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As the first answerer stated. Learn about many subjects to that you can talk on many levels. Find interesting stories to tell. \nSmile and be understanding of others and care for them. \nBecoming charming, isn't easy if you haven't been born charming.\nBut you can try to be more like that. Look at some movie stars, mostly the older ones, like Cary Grant, rent his movies and watch his style. Copy what you can. You may not turn our charming, but it should help you.
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Have faith in yourself - it all starts with your self esteem.  You either have it or you dont, & it sounds like you dont.  You have to work on you self image. Once you've done that & have a good view of yourself, your attractiveness will show through.  You have to care about yourself first, eat right, get enough sleep, exercise.  Put taking care of yourself a top priority.  Keep up with your personal hygiene, wear clean clothes.  Be considerate, kind, compassionate to others. Be honest - this is VERY important because no matter what you do to make yourself look good on the outside, if you are mean, dishonest, & cruel on the inside then you will be unattractive on the outside as well.  \n\nGood Luck!\n\n~from a lady
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Tired of being the shy person in the back of the crowd? Become the center of attention at an easy, personalized pace! \n\nSteps \nBe confident. Tell yourself that you have great qualities, and don't let anybody bring you down! \n\nSet goals for yourself. Focus on small, daily goals, and gradually become more daring. E.g. try to speak at least once every class period. \n\nIntroduce yourself to new people each day. Most people are nice and will be welcoming to your advances. It is also great practice for more daring behavior, such as talking to cute people. \n\nHold close bonds with your friends, they can be there for you when you crack out of the shell! They'll be glad to help. \n\nTry doing stuff you never dreamed you would. For example: Talk to that cute boy in study hall that you thought would never notice you. Wear something very flattering and colorful to show what a fun person you really are! \n\nLaugh often, at your own jokes and those of others. It will help ease any tension you may be feeling. \n\nLie on your bed and take 3 deep breaths. Then visualize a situation where you might be shy. Now in that situation make yourself confident. Do this for as many situations as you can think of. Do this daily. Do this in the morning. \n\nRepeat positive affirmations using I statements. " I am a wonderful person". "I am a good looking person". Do it even if you don't believe it. Do it daily. \n\nMake a list of things that make you feel shy that you want to try and work on. Order them so that those things that cause you the least anxiety are first and those that cause you the most anxiety are last. Once you have a list of 10-15 stressful situations start working through them, one-by-one. The first few "easier" situations will help build your confidence so that you can continue moving to more difficult situations on your list. Don't worry if you have to go backwards on the list sometimes -- take it at your own pace but do make an effort to push yourself. \n\nTips \nThere's nothing wrong with being shy, but there's nothing wrong with being outgoing either! \n\nDon't go overboard, and just be yourself! Life isn't a competition! \n\nShyness is sometimes seen as classy. \n\nDon't be afraid to seek professional help -- group counseling, individual counseling, and therapy can help you along the way. \n\nIf you are intelligent enough to know when to keep your mouth closed, then there is no advantage to being shy. Rid yourself of shyness, you'll thank yourself later. \n\nOften, being shy is a result of feeling inferior to or otherwise "less than" other people. Think about it, this is almost never the case. A positive self-image is the key. \n\nWarnings \nIf you were known for being shy amongst family members, watch out for the harmless teasing. They mean well. But don't let them scare you back into your shell! \n\nSame goes for people at school, if you are still at school. Some may be uncomfortable with you existing outside the categeory they've put you in, in their own minds. Ignore them.
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Make yourself more presentible for the ladies. First thing a girl looks at is your appearance. Buy yourself a nice pair of shoes and keep them clean. Keep your skin clean, smell nice, clean cut hair cut. Get some nice clothes and having a watch is always a good thing, makes you appear more in control of your life. Keep some breath mints or chewing gum so you have that fresh breath and learn how to talk to the girls. Be nice to them and try to be a gentleman. Confidence takes a huge part in this, and you cant fake it either because they will know. Sometimes it's just best to do what feels natural to you. Dont present yourself as someone your not because that is just false advertisement, come as you are. She will either like you for the person you are, or she doesnt and there is nothing you can do bout that. Give it a shot. - Tokyo