I found a guy I really click with - he happens to have a girlfriend - what should I do?
963218
You may be in luck. Honestly, long distant relationships eventually NEVER work out. I would stick around for a while..but i wouldnt be like.." oh come get me,I'm yours!" type of thing. play hard to get. make him WISH he was with you instead of his so called girlfriend that lives farther away..and your only 1 mile. be his friend, talk to him, but dont stay on the couch by the phone, nad wait for him to call you. if he decides he wants to stay with his old g/f. so be it. you dont have to wait for him, when there are PLENTY of men out there. just go out there and find you another one! its all good! dont let one man take over your life. cause its not his, its yours. =]\n\n                     ~Ashley
1038264
wait til he gets rid of his girlfriend first, cause if you get to involved now your relationship won't flow right, get to know him more he may seem like mr. right but obviously he might not be so cool, since he's having those kind of conversations with you and he has a girlfriend, but if he is the one you won't have to worry about knowing what to do, it'll come to you natuarally, but just be patient, don't get too excited yet ya feel me.
72996
If you like him you should tell him. Although sense he has a girlfriend you should prepare yourself for him not wanting a relationship, but at least if he knows you like him maybe he will look to you if his current relationship does not work out.
487586
um sorry sweetie but if he still likes you than why would he get a new girlfriend? i guess what you should do is let him go, it isn`t easy but still, if he comes back to you that`s how you know, besides if nothing happens then it wasn`t meant to be in the first place.
1046037
I find a new boyfriend
987967
He is already involved in a relationship don't pursue him. If you did pursue him and stole him away from his present girlfriend, then that would only prove that he could then later be stolen away from you. There are plenty of available guys out there go after any of them.
612833
uuuuuuugggggggggghhhhhhhhhh!!!! i'm going to start copying and pasting this answer....HE ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND! he is UNAVAILABLE! what is there to be confused about????? and wait for what? for him to either dump or cheat on his girlfriend? well if he's willing to do either of those for a strange piece then he's a jerk anyway and woo hoo thats what you will win, the big prize - a jerk. they are a dime a dozen. find someone who IS AVAILABLE!! what would you want a girl who is asking this question about YOUR man to do?
533310
well clearly your not in love with the current boyfriend or you wouldnt be searching for someone online so i owuld suggest you end the current relationship as far as the man you have met online you really need to meet him before you go to overboard many times people are very different in person than they seem online. I have met many people online and it is rare when they are the way you imagined them...and the same works for him you do not know how he is going to like you until you meet so I would wait and see on this new love.
776991
Um....so you are asking us this...you are attracted to this guy, who either has a girlfriend and just flirts with you, or is not honest with you.  I'm thinking that he is either considering cheating on his mysterious girlfriend with you and just hasn't the courage yet, or  he just wants to fool around a little without commitments...And he knows that he has you hooked..So if you really want to pursue this...be patient..ignore him and don't be so available....see what happens.
425190
WELL THERE IS SOMETHING THAT ATTRACTED HIM TO YOU. WHAT WAS IT? WHATEVER IT WAS CONTINUE BEING THAT WAY. DON'T HOWEVER DO THE SAME OLD "COUPLE" STUFF. SPICE THE RELATIONSHIP UP A LITTLE. SHOW HIM A DIFFERENT SIDE OF YOU (NOTHING CRAZY). SHOW HIM YOU KNOW HOW TO HAVE A GOOD TIME AND ENJOY LIFE. HE WILL COME TO REALIZE THAT HE HAS EVERYTHING HE WANTS IN A GIRLFRIEND IN YOU. THERE WILL BE NO REASON FOR HIM TO GO LOOKING FOR INTERESTING THINGS WITH SOMEONE ELSE. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER AND REMEMBER IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT SEX.
955064
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
622900
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
180777
He probably doesn't want to give his new girlfriend the wrong impression about you and his relationship. Yeah, I know, it doesn't make sence, but when we find a girl that we really like, it makes us do things that aren't typically things we'd do. Plus, he's probably out more and simple has let it slip his mind. Don't take it personally, just guys showing interest in one thing at a time.
815606
I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.
322705
He's already taken! Yes, it may seem that you guys are meant for each other but you may not know him well enough, he may love his girlfriend in a way you may not understand and what you can do is to invite him and his girl and your friend to something and you can analze how strong his relationship is with his girl. Even if it is weak, if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come to you.
906771
he is interested.. but doesnt want to show tht at the same time he cant control himself so he added u.. plus he has a gf.. i would say dont pay too much attention to him for the time being.. dont ask him y he added u..and dont initiate conversation.. he will eventually start flirting etc.. and be open abt it.. u wont need to ask him.. plus if he has a gf it wudnt be correct.
814274
You need to ask yourself do you really like him? And what was the reason that he started seeing you? What do you do together and what do you want from him? There is no point seeing someone who isnt going to give you what you both want from a relationship....you should be spending quality time together on your own and with your friends and family and if he isnt prepared to do that is  he really worth it!? Think about what you want...x