How do you tell if the person really loves you?
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Ignore them...see what happens. Be too busy with your life to call them all the time. If they really love you, they will chase you. Put yourself in places they will have to see you...by accident of course ;-)  And act like you didn't know they were there. If you catch them staring...look at them, smile and wink, and walk on. I actually pinched a guy on the butt and kept walking once. (yeah, he called) lol But back to your original question, Everyone is different. Some people show love, some people don't know how. People won't always believe what you say, but they will always believe what you do. What do they do? They can tell you all day long they love you, but do they show it? Do they give you the last cookie? It's little things. I didn't know a guy loved me like he did, until it was too late.  He didn't show it, I assumed he didn't. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes. Life goes on. I am happier, He is happier. That's life.
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If a guy really loves you, you won't have to ask, you will feel his love. He will put you first,look after you,tell you he loves you often,and want to express his feelings to you. You won't have to chase after him and worry where he is when hes not with you. He will want to spend time with you and do things with you.It happens without any effort.
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when he watches you sleep at night...or he makes you a cuppa when you've had a bad day....wipes away your tears when you're upset...tells you he loves you and shows you he loves you everyday....its the little things that make you feel bubbly inside that makes it clear!
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Well, how long you've been in the relationship has a big factor in telling if he loves you. Also, go on our feelings, but don't let them take over. I myself have an extremely active imagination...\n\nBut sweetie, you also have to trust him. If he hasn't done anything in the past to betray your trust, that you know of anyway, then chances are he won't and is a genuinely good guy. And also, does he tell you he loves you a lot? Is he affectionate to you? How much time do you spend together, etc. If he rarely sees you, it would make a little more sense if you get a little worried, not that it has to mean anything. Just talk to him. If he does really love you, and respect you and your feelings, tell him you love him so much you don't want to be hurt by him, and want to really know his feelings for you. If he really loves you you will know it. Just don't ask him too many times because if he is true in his intentions, it will upset him to be questioned so much. Good luck!
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No one can tell you when youre in love.  Think about it, how can they?  Only YOU know your heart.  It is true however that those around you might observe the signs that you are truly in love, but to be able to tell you the exact point at which you know for sure is not an answer that anyone can provide for you.  You have to search your own heart.\n\nThese questions may be helpful.  Do you have more concern for you partner than you have for yourself?  Can you see yourself with this person until you die, faithfully?  Can you see yourself with anyone else?  How would you feel if suddenly your relationship ended?  Can you live without him or her?  Consider this one:  if your partner became a vegetable, would you remain with him or her?  Would you want out of the situation?  Does this person give you a feeling truly unlike anything youve ever felt before?  Just  a few things to consider.\n\nGood luck!
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You will know if he always smiles at you or always seem happy when you are around. If you ask him if he loves you in a crowd and he say it that means he is really into you.
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You'll know its love when they just look at you no matter what time of day, and say you are beautiful.  When they let eat wherever you want and not complain.  They say i love you and are looking straight at you. they kiss you for no reason but just to kiss you. They hold your hand all the time, sit next to you on the couch, even though theres plenty of space somewhere else.  And you'll know because you will have this peace that just fills your heart soul completely.
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it is hard to tell how a person love someone. The only thing is if he really put his life behind him and be with you. do he make changes just for you? If so than he loves you, another way is if he ask you to move in with him and be the love of his life for the rest of his life.
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with out saying a word at all you can show someone you love them. gentle touches...long gazes into thier eyes. holding them...chest to chest so you can feel each others hearts beat. beyond that just show them that they are number one in your life. put them first in what you do.
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True love is hard to find.  How you can really tell if you truely love someone is how you feel about them when they're gone.  My girlfriend went on vacation with her friends not too long after we met and the week she was gone I talked to her on the phone and we sent about 1000 text messages. I was beside myself like I had lost an arm or another very important part of my body.  When she came back, I nearly tackled her in her driveway as she did me as well.  I'm going to ask her to marry me this Christmas season and I've never felt so sure.
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You just know, you don't question it. Believe me you will know if and when that special person loves you.
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just ask him directly and look into his eyes...actually if you really feel love for this person, you will right away see it thru his eyes if he's lying...
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You cannot know for certain that he loves you but after all there is nothing in life you can be certain about so you just have to settle with trying to find out if he does trully care for you and if he wants to spent his whole life time with you.If he's by your side when u feel bad and he's there to wipe your tears,if he holds your hand,looks into your eyes and then..then you know he loves you...It's not a matter of saying he foes...it's about the bonds between you,the feeling and the emotions that never lie.
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Unless you can feel what he feels you'll never truly know.  If you love him as much as you say then you should trust him to tell the truth when he says he loves you.  \n\nAsk him to describe what he feels for you.
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Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
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you know if your heart speaks to you.\nA man that really loves you would do anything for you, he will love you unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances were/are. He is a man that is honest, and makes you happy. Let your heart speak to you. Learn to Listen to your heart.
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you don't.  you will know when its happen and there will be no doubts. you love this person for who they are not what they have, who they are or what they look like. they will love you as much and as the same.