why do you think he stopped calling, was it my fault?
966166
Dating is about trying out people until you find the right one.\n\nHe stopped calling because you weren't right for him. Don't take it personally. You are right for someone... and someone ELSE is right for him (or he doesn't know what he wants).\n\nJust accept that this happens.. .and move on.
1010614
well what is the reason you guys stopped talking? i am sure he is missing out on something special
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
71539
In my opinion he didn't mean it. Instead of apologizing it was a mistake, he said he didn't remember saying it. Some people don't have enough courage to admit. Forget is the easiest excuse which save him from explaining anything. You deserve someone better!
370232
HES NOT MAD AT U BUT U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT HE MAY HAVE OTHER THINGS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE WHERE CALLING U MAY NOT BE THE FIRST THING ON HIS MIND NOT SAYING THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO U ITS JUST THAT HE MIGHT EVEN BE BUSY AND IF YOUR GETTING MAD BECAUSE HE DIDNT CALL IT MAY BE BECAUASE YOUR STARTING TO CATCH FEELINGS EVEN THOUGH HES FAR AWAY. also if u had other things to do and were busy then u wouldt pay that much attention to it and also if its that much long distance i dont think his phone bill is to happy things change and so do people so dont get upset try to remain calm and open minded his situation may have changed
564279
i think you should get back to him , Do not apologise and tell him that you are sorry blah blah  because he might take advatage of the situation.
579163
maybe, don't really know, he was hurt and you added to the hurt, but at least you wrote a letter of apology and an explanation, it all depends on if he reads it or not, he might be hurt and mad to the point that he just doesn't read it, if he doesn't reply in a timely manner then call him and keep calling him until he answers
1007116
i'm so sorry to hear tht buddy, but i think you know u'r answer..its better to move on...if he was really intrested to maintain the friendship..he would have answerd to you or call u back how much busy he was at tht time....so its pretty clear tht he has changed...as they say..money changes pple...maybe one day he may realise tht he lost a good friend...so buddy...keep moving on.
1135019
I would call him sometimes guys get caught in thier own lives.IF you don't get a response back,i would move on.Iam sure you will catch a better fish.Itis know good to be sitting aronud being miserable when you could be out having a good time with someone else.Thier is a reason he is not calling,i would talk to him If he doesn't give a good anwser .i would move on.
535652
MAYBE you should have CALLED him cause MAYBE he thought he was getting STOOD UP duh!
526023
he was on a break?\nNEVER tell her girl-wake up. don't be sad either-you did what was ok at time-can't see future
134357
Nope, he called you by accident.  He won't be calling back.
399285
dont listen to the person above me maybe he really neede a friend at that monment and you cut him off or maybe he really wanted to tell you something i think you just hurt his feelings just apologize and ask him whats up with the way hes treating you
958810
You've already answered your question.  It's in your "question"/statement.  He made your life a living hell for four years... why should you even consider letting him do that to you again.  This guy obviously needs serious mental help and you're not qualified to help.  Change your phone number so he can't text you anymore and get on with your life.  You should feel no guilt.  You tried for way too long to help this loser and he used you.  Forget about this bum and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
818012
Depending on how much you bugged him, he is probably waiting for you to give him a call.  But it's probably better to see him in person.  That way you can apologize for how you behaved in person.  Remember that people aren't always perfect and if you want something done a specific way, it is best sometimes...well to just do it yourself.
606984
If he left the basepath for any reason, including to initiate contact, he should have been called out.  If you were on the basepath and he ran into you, that is acceptable.
98987
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.