i like this guy named nick but i have a boyfriend that i love but we never see eachother what should i do?
967531
YOU ANSWERED THIS YOURSELF, SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BOY FRIEND IS A JERK, HE USES YOU AND SEES YOU ONLY WHEN HE WANTS ON HIS TERMS, THE OTHER LAD IS SINCERE AND TREATS YOU NICE, HE IS DOING WHAT MOST MEN DO (WORK A LOT) BUT HEY, IF HE LIKES YOU A LOT PERHAPS HE WANTS THE MONEY TO BUY YOU NICE THINGS OR TAKE YOU OUT, I SAY TALK TO BOTH, TELL BOYFRIEND TO EITHER RESPECT YOU AND SPEND TIME WITH YOU REGULARLY OR YOU WILL BE DOING THE DUMPING NOT HIM, AND IF THAT DOESNT DO THE TRICK TELL THE OTHER GUY YOU WANT HIM BUT WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIM, IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU A LOT HE WILL JUMP AT THE CHANCE.REMEMBER THIS SPECIAL SAYING, RESPECT YOURSELF AND GET RESPECTED.
924476
Give it time, let him get to know you, my bf was the same way but after we spent time talking and just hangin out he realized that I was different and that I did not want to hurt him or mess with him, now we are in love and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same way. I hope everything works out.\n ~Kim~
139785
Please try the following: \n(1) asking him about the relation and what its gonna be in the future\n(2) Try to avoid him a little ..just give him a little from your time...and see how he act..(Now if he act liek a lover wants to spent time with you ...then he loves you indeed....If Not; then dont waste time and try to find another boyfriend to you..)\n(3) Good luck to you and start to think well, and be practical in your life..\n\nAny help: Please E-mail me on Bronzi_1980@yahoo.com
907996
maybe you should take intiative..but dont come on to strong...dont show him that you like him so much just make it seem like a chat buddy.....i was actually talking to my now current bf for like 2 months b4 i actually met him....and one day he surprised me with a call....so ya. just go for it...if this guy doesnt respond to your call then well dont waste your time on him.\n\n\nhope i helped :]
640589
if you feel confortable, get each others phone numbers. \nYou can talk to him and see what he is really about. \nI personally met my boyfriend of so far 2 years online, we talked online for 2 months, and things have been going perfectly by now. \nIf you decide to meet him, make sure you know enought of him and feel comfortable. Bring a friend along for safety
77552
u should explain to your boyfriend that the relationship isn't working because you have feelings for another guy. be kind and patient with him. tell him you think you two should move on and see other people. your relationship will fail if you are always thinking about someone else.
649986
I think you should tell him how you feel about him once again and if he don't respond to you then maybe you should move on because if he can't get over this the truth is it would be hard to make a relationship work with him anyway there would be trust issues i believe speaking from experience. So tell him how you feel about him and see what happens. If he don't respond then maybe you should try to find someone else and stop waiting for this guy.
745051
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
506537
It sounds like he has another girl. If he is your EX-Boyfriend, I wouldn't even waste my time with him. There are lots of other guys out there, who would treat you right. If you really can't live without him, then when you see him, ask him in all honesty what is going on. Tell him to be up front & honest with you, you deserve it. Long distance realtionships are very hard. But all in all I would dump him, & take a break from guys. The right one will come along, just give it time.
354934
Well my best-friend in the whole world is currently in a long distance relationship only her boyfriend lives in Mi and she lives in AZ. They've been together almost a year and never met and their still totally in love. All i can say to help is if you really love her and want to be with her then the wait is nothing, just think after you do finally get to see and be with her nothing else will matter. You have the rest of your life to spend with someone and if shes the one then the rest of your life doesn't seem like that long. I hope this helped in some way if not I'm sorry i was just rambling on. But i do have to say if you really cant wait any longer to see and be with her surprise her one day she'll love it. Just keep doing whatever it is your doing right now shes obviously happy and I'm sure she cant wait to see you either.I think that your relationship will work and Good Luck. Love is hard to find so don't give up..
1183728
Youve never seen each other? Hmmm well it would seem you are long overdue to meet the girl you love. You should prolly come up with a way to meet for the weekend and go from there, u know? And of course I agree with Beauty tell her your having these feelings and its time for you guys to move to the next step OR move on with your lives. Good Luck and I hope you get all you want in life sweety either way. God Bless
901677
ask him if you two can talk and tell him its important. then tell him that you liked him forever, he probibly feels the same way about you. then see where things go from there.
838946
Sounds like you guys have a great friendship going on.  Just keep up the good friendship and if you want to take it to the next level and you don't know if he does or not, then you are going to have to find out.  When you think the time is right, talk with him and ask him if he could ever see you two together?  Make sure after you ask that you get a serious answer.  After that you will know if the time is right for a relationship and if he is ready or not.  He may like you but not be ready, so it's your call when and if you want to pursue it further.
227347
Why don't you consider how deep feelings you have for him?  If you feel very strongly about him that you are even willing to wait for him for some time till you can be with him, then I suggest being patient.  After all, you can talk to him on the phone, chat with him in email and instant messenger.  Though, long-distance relationships are known for their hardship, the end result is very rewarding for both of you.\n\nHowever if you don't seem to feel deeply, and/or you're not willing to wait for him, then I suggest talking to him about break up or something so that it's clear to him about where you two stand in the relationship so that you don't feel like you're cheating on him when you try to date other guys.\n\nHope this helped. ^_^
814274
You need to ask yourself do you really like him? And what was the reason that he started seeing you? What do you do together and what do you want from him? There is no point seeing someone who isnt going to give you what you both want from a relationship....you should be spending quality time together on your own and with your friends and family and if he isnt prepared to do that is  he really worth it!? Think about what you want...x
915282
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.