tigger question part 2  lets put this in perspective as a ex huband whom was cheated on why do women win?
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I don't know if you've figured this out yet but some women can be pretty damn selfish and self righteous.\n\nperfect example being you're wife cheated on you then left you yet she gets the kids. Well there are plenty of arguments to say why she deserves them BUT what about the arguments that say why you deserve them? \n\nI would also like to add that many women seem to assume that because a mans wife cheated on him and left him that must undoubtedly mean: he was a rotten man in some way shape or form. Its usually a no win situation for the man even if he was a top of the line husband and she was a dishonest, irresponsible slut.\n\nThat's how the cookie crumbles my friend Ive seen it enough times that the thought of it actually sickens me however we will always wear the title of the 'bad guy' no matter how many 'bad girls' take full advantage of some men and use that very belief to their demented advantage...
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because everyone wants what they can't have. women are jealous and sometimes stupid. who would fight over someone after they left you. tell him hit the road jack and don't cha come back no more no more hit the road
1033659
misses ex,hes a women beater
479409
it's a subconscious reaction to being treated poorly. I'm guilty of it too, however men and women do this. I dated a guy that REFUSED to trust me because he'd had an ex cheat on him. Every time I was out later than expected or didn't answer the phone, he'd throw a fit. Women do the exact same thing. When past experiences were out of your control, you do a complete 180 and try to control everything. If you are dating someone who will not trust you no matter what, it can also be a sign that they're not trustworthy. You have to go with gut instinct about things like that. If it doesn't feel right, and you're more upset than not around the person, you may want to get out of the situation. Of course I would suggest having a real conversation about it a few times before throwing her to the curb.
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Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
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MEN. Most of the time when i hear of people getting divorced because of cheating,it is the man who did the cheating. A man is as faithful as his options allow...in other words...if he gets a chance ,he probably will.
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when men cheat they try and lay blame for the reason on the one who is hurt, the victim. they are just trying to get u to depressed and down and believing it was your falt so u won't lay blame where it really belongs. i would divorce him, and get some alimony out of it. he is not done with this woman yet, he doesn't want to divorce u because he might have to give u too much financially, or split the assetts fairly.
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I cannot imagine any circumstance where someone is always the winner, unless they are cheating. In sports, in love, and in life, we all win some and lose some.
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I think most women would rather be alone than share.  I don't know if you've noticed, but one woman is enough to frazle a man.  What makes a man think he'll be better at multiples?
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Im a guy and I hate dudes that do this kind of stuff,makes it hard for those of us that dont cheat.[we're not all dogs] So check it out CONFRONT HIM.
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well your answer lies on one thing where is she at now as well who else has she been with in this matter you feel for the oldest thing going that is being played for a stand in . i have been there did  it as well not worth it in my opion how do you think i caught my.ex. wife. she was cheating i had the sence to get rid of it. grow up like i did. nt worth it my friend she this woman you are talking about is a player if she was with you you might thing who else has she fooled with you dont want to end up in court over this woman she aint worth ita woman like that cant love she has something called a whoreing spree ?
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I'm sure men/women have their excuses for why they cheat, some are loneliness, temptation, not getting what they want at home.  They are all just lame excuses for doing something wrong, though.  They should deal with the real problem and not cheat and hurt other people.
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Having been on both sides of the "ex" fence, I can say with assurance that some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with can be with someone after her, and some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with was with someone before her. (Men do it too, it isn't a gender issue, it is a maturity issue.)I was married to a man who currently has a show on A&E! I have to listen to his "woman" tell lies and take credit for my children, and guess what....I hate it. On the other side, I have an ex-boyfriend whose current whateversheis  feels duty-bound to berate me for my conduct in situations that she was not privy to. All I can say for sure is that ultimately, YOU are responsible for YOUR conduct, and while losing your patience is understandable, it is probably better to always take the high road. Additionally, as an often attacked, but never bested ex, I can say without exception that a soft answer always turns away wrath, and ignoring small children(or adults acting like two-year olds) tends to put a stop to immature behavior. (On the practical side, a good log to document another's constant bad behavior goes a long way in court and should always be used.)
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A woman cheating is not worse than a man.When a man cheats on a woman it hurts just as much and I don't know if you can ever really trust again. But I do know don't let it show to much because the constant harassment can chase her back to the arms of another man. " If I am going to be accused why not do it" type of thing.
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Most men enjoy cheating...they enjoy the thrill. As well as they may still like the girl that they are with but want another girl as well. Instead of leaving the girl they hope that the girl they are cheating on is a forgiving one as some girls are. That way they get the best of both worlds.
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It's my opinion that it doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man...I, myself, would not get serious or even date someone I knew had not be faithful.  Even if that person was unfaithful only once.  I could never trust them.  It takes a lot of &*$^%* to cheat!  I've been the victim of one who cheated on me.  We were married.  It seems to be a thrill that they seek, even when the consequences of getting caught could devastate their life.  Who would be stupid enough to take that chance?   I don't understand.
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I do believe you mean "who" cheats more. If so, then allow me to give my opinion. I think men cheat more because most women are attached to their feelings/emotions when involved with a guy. Men are more analytical and think less with emotion. Women like to be held, talked to sweetly, respected as 'thinking'  people with viable opinions and last but not least deeply and honestly appreciated. Men on the other hand rationalize, often wrongly,   womens intentions, needs, wants, desires so they tend to decide in their favor what options they have. Also, men are 'hunter's'. That should tell you a lot right there.