how do we get a girl who loved very much now the same person have mind set to not to come back?
954859
you should go back out with her because she miss you from what you saythe reson i know this is because me and my b?f have been going out for about 1 1/2 we have broke up once because of a miss under standing something that happened and i know how you feel because i felt the same why my grades droped and i droped out of all the sprots that i was in like cheerleading, horse back riding, soft ball, volley ball  so yes you should go back out with her and you should email me at sweeetsugarplum_2011@yahoo.com
112308
You must always remember what it is that you like or want in that person and does this person have what you want.  It takes time unless the other person shows you right off the bat, "I'm not the one."
273610
Make sure you don't just miss being in love, so you think you are. Make sure that person isn't the rebound. Really think about what about that person you really love.
296216
I would respect her for the person that she is and be a good friend to her and not take her where shes not ready to go yet. I wouldnt want to taint whats left of her childish wonder and innocents, or whats left of it. I would do everything possible to let her know you think shes a amazing person but yet keep healthy boundries, what would her parents do if you crossed that line? Probably bannish you from ever seeing her again. At this point i would stay close to her, but not close enough to touch, she has alot of growing up to do before shes ready for the kind of relationship your ready for. Just let her know that you care and she can come to you with all of her problems. But make sure you dont create any problems for her by showing her how you feel completely. I know its a complex situation, but you can handle your feelings being trapped inside for a few years that what she can handle knowing how you feel and not being able to act on them, at least with out any serious consequences. I hope it all works out for you in the long run, but make sure you stay far away from romance for another 5 years or so :) for both of your interests, but by all means be a good positive influacne for her journey threw adolecance, it can be a rocky road :)
317306
STAY THE SAME PERSON HE FELL FOR IN THE FIRST PLACE.DON'T CHANGE.
106051
the best move to make, is to start seeing someone else and act like you're crazy about them, if she don't come back then it's not to be.
249327
You can't "MAKE" anyone do anything they don't wanna do. It's over for a reason. You can't mess with free will. If she wanted you back you would've never broke up...would you? So get over her.
585960
You don't need a girl like this,move on find someone that is willing to return the love that you are giving.Don't spend time with someone who is putting you second.
220686
Dont do anything jus continue being you, if you do things out of the ordinary then your getting the girl for being what your not and you gottah constantly live up to that and be who you arent everyday to keep that girl. Plus when we go out and try to find people you will always end up with the wrong ones, the best thing to do is to let them come to you, i am in a relationship now going on a year we've been together, took me a while to find him, but truthfully he found me, and comforted me. You will get a girl jus stop waiting and looking the girl thats for you is the one you least expect to be and wasnt evern thinking about trust me. I been there done that.
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.
104569
Cooperation from the guy is the most important thing.  You really can't do anything but scare her off, but she's going to back off if she knows he doesn't want her around.  If he doesn't want to do that, he's looking around for another one anyway and it's time to move on.  It's really immature to handle it by backing her off yourself, that's signs of a really bad relationship.  Go get a strong relationship where you don't have to worry about it.
266311
I don't think its wise you become emotionally attached to this person who cannot be emotionally availible. It will only lead to distress and heartache.\n\nI would suggest taking you mind off the person. Its important to let her know that you cannot put yourself in this situation, because its an emotional strain.\n\nIf she truly values her happiness, she will do the right thing. Hopefully she will know better than to stay in such a destructive relationship, but that's something she will need to decide on her own.\n\nBe patient and more importantly drop all expectations toward the situation. Perhaps you should focus finding someone who is capable of investing the same about of love into a relationship as you are.\n\nYour happiness is at stake. Think about whats important for your own well-being.\n\nGood luck
344525
This sound so familiar, just stop your self from being alone and don't look or touch anything that is connected with her, and do things you like ( sports, games, hanging out with friends ) You will not forget her but at least you will not think as much on her, trust me I've been there.
1096058
thats not always easy because the girl you want may not want you. but the best thing to do is be open and honest and treat her right and share your feelings with her. Many times this does not work but it is really the best we can do. best of luck
504984
Just show her you love/like/want her. Either she'll reciprocate that feeling or you'll have to try harder. But you can't force your feelings on other people; either they feel the same way or they don't.
597996
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
368455
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]