The guy that likes me goes to my church and my former bf never gets to see me should i stay with him or not???
963688
pick whos in your heart not becoz he goes to the church is perfect already but take note , im a pure catholic , i love to invite more people go to my church
313842
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
286156
Is he married? Are you? If either is true change churches right now before anything happens. Both single? Ask a mutual friend to help.
61195
i believe no, because he's probably not over her. Especially if he had an intimate and down to earth relationship with her.  I believe you should wait, pray about it and if u find out he doesn't like you like that, ask god to help you cope with that information. One trait that's good in this love game is being able to be rational, or being able to adapt and accept.  Not sayin that he doesn't like you tho.
824766
I think he has given you a blessing in disguise.  You should be with someone who trusts you.  We all deserve that much in a relationship.  Without trust, it is miserable and will only get worse.  Celebrate this opportunity to find someone who you can have a real relationship with.
672936
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
803764
You may be in the wrong church, mine still preachs about his evil ways. He is as real now as ever. Speak to your pastor about how you feel, we don't sugar coat anything.
1134215
I have really great advice for you: don't believe her. Maybe she's just jealousy? Is this guy pretty? If the answer is: yes. she evident envy you. Go out with this boy and have great time.\nP.S. Think: Would he still going out with you, if he won't like you?\nP.S.2. Mybe he don't like you, maybe he loves you :)
366117
Your boyfriend sounds like he has a lot of evil in him.You should take him to your pastor so that he can rebuke the demons out him.It won't be easy though.You could also try to have your pastor come over to your place so he & a few other church members can pray over you both & your place.They need to use annoiting oil over every opening in your house.I will pray for you sweetie.You should try to stay over night or a few nights with someone as well.Be Blessed!
868119
I would just move on because it sounds like he's not ready to be anyone's boyfriend.  You can do better...I have been where you are.  All you need to do is believe that you are worth more than that and don't worry about him.  He's immature and that's about it.
147017
No christian man should treat a woman of any riligion with disrespect and that is what he's doing to you. He's disrespecting you by trying to control your actions and not treating you like an individual. Look, there will be plenty of other guys you'll come across that are fifty times sweeter, kinder, and gentler than this guy. I think your best course of action is to just move on.\n\nGood luck!
888863
It sounds like he's making every effort he can to see you. Some guys just aren't real open about being affectionate in public...that shouldn't stop you from seeing him. He's calling 2 or3 times a week & flying in to see you...sounds like he's really interested. Give him a chance!
109051
Your relationship with God is personal just like his is. Your actions might win him over just give it time and keep the communication between you open and honest.
346042
I think he totally needs to get over u havin' a boyfriend when u met him!  He told u that he was goin' to see his friend in the hospital and instead he went out with his ex!!  That is BS!!!!\n\nP.S: I think u should totally date our teacher!!!!  LOL!  Just joking!!
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Tell this guy that he needs to grow up before you will go out with him.  Ask him if his father pokes his mother's boobs at church.  He obvioulsy likes you, but is going about it in all the wrong ways.  You are probably better off going after the preacher's son.
493516
Hold on you live with him still? First off I've never heard of that arangement before in my life. Also what do you mean by living with are you two still together but still sexually active? If so he's using you no wonder you feel lost. You need to get yourself outta there and if your parents won't take you in find a place foryourself. In times of need there are several places like main stay suites that offer cheep extending living. Once you've done that try and find a really decent guy i'm not talking about going bar hopping, i'm talking about a place like church (by the way if you don't have religion at this poin that's another reason you feel lost, there are many christains like myself that are here to help you if you need some with comming to Christ ;) ) I know you most likely love this guy but the sooner you come to relize its time to move on you'll feel bad at first but it will get better. Don't think its not because you won't love the ex because yes you will love doesn't go away, but you have to save whats left of your heart and mend it together for that guy who's still out there you haven't met yet.
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You don't.  This is one of those things that you have to decide.  If you like this guy, go out with him.  It won't be easy, especialy if you want to remain an active member of your Church Family.  Life ahead of you will be filled with choices that your parents don't want you to have to make.