i love one boy but he thinks that i am playing with him what can i do to convince him in my love?
960888
i got the same problem \nit gets on my nerves to have to reasure him all the time
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
468919
Try to spend more time with him and show him a side of you that no one else can see...\n\nbut as someone already mentioned, you can't force anyone to love you. all you can do is be your best and wait.\n\nbest wishes! =]
473360
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
250544
Just be honest with him. Tell him that you don't love him anymore. Because if you aren't happy then your child will know it. No matter how young he/she might be. Children can sense when things aren't "right"! DON'T EVER STAY WITH SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A CHILD BY THEM! If your not happy, your child won't be happy!
275784
Hi\nParenting is commonly known as tough love...You have to let them make their own decisions but be there for them...\nIf you try to intervene your Son may resent you for it.\n\nAt this age their hormones are raging all over the place & it's not the best time to be making serious decisions about their love life.\nThe best advice I can offer is to show them you Love them by listening to their troubles & offer impartial advice if asked for it, \nOne of the hardest things to do is keeping your mouth shut when it's most tempting to open it....\nIf you try & intervene with this girl & your Son you will just drive him to her more.\nBe patient & keep the communication going.\nYour sons love you dearly...It's just not 'cool' to show it.\n\nHope it all turns out o.k
233589
Play with your eyes up and down when you look to him ....Hope he will understand you
414652
Just be honest and tell him how it makes  you feel. You deserve to be treated better than this. You may have children to take care of, but Im pretty sure you can do this on your own. You are right...it isn't good for the kids to see this. They need to know love.
69659
You need to talk about it.  Ask him to try things with you that make you feel good.  Tell him it's important to you.
112351
u should give up with ur boy.\nforget him\nlife must go on..\nso be happy always..
272578
my god....\nwhy dont u clearly talk to him.\nask him to stop jumping around. he isnt loving u but taking advantage of ur love just keeping u as backup for bad time of his. \nu r a person, u love him, u too get hurted. u too have value. make him realize this. have a serious talk on this.\n\nif he dont love u, then dont let him messup wth u again n again. be clear, it will hurt u but its better than being victim. tell him either he can be wth u totally loyal or just stay away from u. he is confused in his life, he dont know what love n whats value of it. good serious talk can make him undertand this, n if he is really a good person them he will value u or wont hurt u more. otherwise he is crook.\nlove is from both sides, both have to give n take. i can understand u doing him for pure love, but have value for urself. i guess u r treating him very softly n freedom, u r letting him do any thing he wants. he has to realize that u love him so he cant jump around. when its love then its wth just wth 1 person.\n\ni understand u love him, ur heart melts for him n it makes u accept him again n again though he is doing crap. u cant do it forever, talk n decide what he actually want u or anyother.  if he REALLY dont love u then bear wth some pain n keep him away. just give him a option that he come to u only when he is very serious n forever.\nkeep ur door open to him, but dont let him just taking ur advantage. be strict n let him come to u wth a condition that he wont leave u again. be strict, be lil over emotions u can accept him any time becoz u really love him, be proud of it. but be strict to value urself as person. u r not just a thing to play. be strict so it will save u from emotional n mental damage.\n\nwhen he comes to u agian, make sure he got everything clear n he is loyal, he has his mind set on u tatally then accept him.....be happy that u got ur love forever.
491334
just keep loving him...there is no way...its not a game that u have to proove u love...if he understands u is more than enough..if he does understand ur love for him then he's the one for u...otherwise he's a jackass to be blind in ur love...all the best!ill hope for the best fur u.take care.
150224
I don't think you want to make a boy jealous into wanting you.  Your idea about making him jealous may sound good to you now, but I don't think this is  healthy nor is it an honest way to get someone to be with you.  Why don't you just do it the old fashioned way, and let him know how you feel without forcing him into action.  You may live to regret it if handled the wrong way.
161534
it's not one side game.both boys and girls love playing with eachother.a girl-boy breaks your heart,so u make the next girl-boy pay for it.and it goes on and on...so do not trust anybody and don't believe his-her stories.just act like u believe,but be sure to keep something in advance if things go wrong so u won't be the only one being played.
449423
Just be honest with him.  Tell him that you love him.  Of course, you do have to brace yourself just in case he rejects you by not wanting to take your friendship to the next level, but that's better then where you're at now, sexually frustrated because you love someone but they don't love you in the same way.
81027
Well if you really think this boy you like is really cool and you can trust him I suggest you go for it, but still try and change your borhters opinion. Try and convince about you and his friend.
612383
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.