ok with the situation about me having a fight with my boyfriend i just made a mistake what do i say to better?
960792
your boyfriend has no right to hit you. dump him immediately if you have any hope for a sane future. if he hits you now, what do you think it will be like if you get married?
209746
break up with him, if he did this before he can do it again. it's better to correct someone the first time.
557910
Say you are sorry for your mistake on dating him before. Cry for a drama. Explain that this is the best for both of you. Find something that you don't like. Never raise your voice. They will appreciarte you if you say it gently. If you really like the second, it's okay. I understand the matter of hearts problem.
1068292
NO! NO! NO! Do not continue. If you're wrong, admit you're wrong. If not, then NEVER apologize! Let the other person...they owe you an apology!
266535
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You need to, sooner or later, bring up the problem to this other person, but if there's the risk for physical damage bring someone capable of dealing it out... who's on your side. A bodyguard of sorts, ne?\n\nIf physical damage isn't apparent, the best thing to do is face the music. I'm sorry I couldn't answer the way you probably would've like me to answer, but I've been in a slightly similar situation. Sure, the other party/person/whatever will probably be angry, but there's nothing you can do about that.\n\nI'll sum up:\n*Doesn't take out anger on you: Talk to them. Explain your problem as objectively as you can, with clear benevolent (good) intent.\n*Takes out anger on you: Bring a bodyguard.
836880
It is admirable that you told your boyfriend and also apologised.\nWhat you should do is to give him time and see what happens\nSeriously i think that you are a very brave girl\nGood luck
534211
I believe honesty is the best policy, but don't be honest just to relieve your own pain. Being honest about a mistake often hurts the other person more than you think. Sometimes its best to just keep quiet and live with the guilt... and hopefully the knowledge that you made a mistake and will never repeat it. \njust_a_guy_in_florida@yahoo.com
527576
tell her that its your choice and that there is nothing wrong with him and that he is a responsible guy and that your not going to leave him just because you don't like what happened and tell her that you want to make your own mistakes and that you want to feel free and not so controlled
716515
Depends. Did you start and/or stoke the fire of this fight? If either is true, then yes, you should apologize. There is a reason that pride is one of the seven deadly sins. Sometimes it's necessary to bite the bullet just to get past the pain--then you both can start working on a real relationship that involves compromise and respect.
671522
Communicate with him. Find out why things feel different between the two of you. Is it something he does or says? Is it something you do or say? Maybe it was a mistake, maybe not, but what's done is done. Make an attempt to correct things between you and him before casting it into the wind and chalking it up as another failed relationship. Maybe through communication with him you will both learn something (Even if it means learning you both made a mistake). Good luck!
281466
god thats embarrassing.. tell the guy who recieved the note that your really sorry but it wasnt meant for him. then tell the guy the note was actually for what you need to say face to face.
140451
After a fight it is so hard to start talking again. { the stupid who gives in first ). The most important part is admitting guilt! Whichever party it is - be honest and open but talk..talk...talk.  Solving problems together creates the strongest unity.
626057
If you made a mistake tell him you didn't mean it
18037
Nope.. I would dump him. Using the reason, " I made a mistake" is like his 'get out of jail free card'.  Does that mean that you can " make a mistake", also?  I agree with the answer that there are probably things in the relationship that would make someone feel the need for something new and exciting.. maybe a little dangerous.  If you do decide to stay together, I would definitely work on communication skills between the both of you.  Don't look to us for answers... you have to find the answer in your heart and do what it tells you to do.  Will you trust him ever again? Will it cause stress down the line when you question his every move? Will you end up with ulcers?!?!  I hope things work out for you either way.
4813
I just brok up with my bf... and I just told him straight up. Just say something like " I have a few things on my mind that I need to tell you with out interuptions..." And tell her what your are unhappy with and then when you are done say something like " Our relationship is not tight like it used to be and I think we should break up. Iff we are meant to be together we will be. If you are supposed to be with me you will come back to me but if not you were never really mine."
381015
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
612595
Tell the one whom u think u have hurt. First clear it up with him/her that whether u have hurt the person or not. Maybe the person has just the opposite response. And maybe u r wrong.