Is chatting dirty on the internet with a stranger when you have a g/f or wife considered cheating?
966892
Rich:  Your answer to your question is a definite "YES" !!!  Prior to any physical contact comes the mind set.  When you are involved mentally, your emotions conjure up your mind to cause your actions to become involved.   You wouldn't be even, posting this question if you REALLY thought that this wasn't necessarily wrong to do.  You have started the "ball" rolling !!!
561829
any kind of sex is cheating
1148290
It's the idea that gets them going.  People, in general, love to gossip.  If it's your partner that's assuming you are having sex with someone else, then it's probably a matter of insecurity. Then you must ask yourself if you are being honest with your partner.  Have you included your partner in your friendships with others, or are you being secretive and elusive about them?  Did your partner find out about your opposite-sex friend(s) from you or another source?  If it's just other people making assumptions, just ignore them.  They obviously have nothing better to do than worry about what you might, or might not be doing.
967897
I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
584871
sorry but cheating cheating as long as you have a threesome and both participate
443707
it depends on what your chatting about.it could be dangerous, you just have to chat the right conversations and never try and hook up with that person, that could be dangerous!!
329834
Cheating is a very subjective subject determined by ones own beliefs, morals, and other opinions.  When this question comes up it's best to sit down with your significant other and frankly discuss what you both consider inapropriate behaviors with the other gender. Ex: some couples are wary with side glances to the other people where as others think kissing others isn't cheating.
109775
When chatting with someone online you have no idea who they are. You just have to be careful.\n\nK
471673
Yes it is...WAKE UP....obviously everything is not right in your marriage if you are having sex with someone else. Don't fool yourself by saying you are taking good care of your family. STOP your cheating now and talk to your wife about whatever is bothering you. If you truly love your wife you will fix things now.
319411
I understand how you are feeling. Not that it has happened to me but I can imagine how it would make you feel. I am married and if my wife were conversing with another man over the internet, I would be concerned. But if she went to all the trouble to wipe out the conversation logs. I would be doubly concerned. Yea, he may give you some reason as a matter of security, but he should have no problem in letting you see those logs before he deletes them. \n\nSome time ago, I was talking to another woman over the internet but as a rule, I would never say nothing negative about my wife. Of course you should not anyway. But we all get mad. And if we start talking to another woman or man about how we are unhappy about our spouses, we are opening the door for an internet affair. Another thing is I would try to get my wife to read the logs because I would let her know I talked to an online woman and I wanted her to be secure. \n\nTalk to your husband about it. Tell him you need to feel more secure about this. People are leaving spouses all the time and flying across the country for people they never seen. And tell him it would protect him too because you love him so much
203401
If you are in a relationship, you have pretty much said to the other person you belong to them sexually. So if you are sharing anything intimate or sexual with another person, you are cheating. If not physically, emotionally. Is it ok for your partner to have these conversations with other people? Hmmmmmmmm didn't think so.
622221
Depends on how you look at it. If you consider only intercourse is cheating, then obviously NO. However, if you think that intimacy of any kind is cheating, then YES. If you feel bad about it you should probably not do it!
345697
If he doesn't tell his girlfriend, then it's being deceptive at least. Unless they are in an non-exclusive relationship, his girlfriend should know. And I think she'd probably want to. And I think she wouldn't like it if she knew. Which means he probably shouldn't flirt with people, online or off.
1174982
yes it is. how would u feel if ur significant other was having cybersex w/ some1 else? that would hurt me. i think it's cheating b/c ur thinking about having sex w/ someone else & basically are just not physically.
314445
No matter how intimate a relationship, there is a proper level of privacy.  It's been accepted since the dawn of civilization that reading letters addressed to someone else is a violation of their privacy.  In the "communication age" that extends to forms such as email, instant messaging, or personal cel calls.  \n\nAnswering a call intended for someone else on their private line without permission is exactly the same as opening their letters.  It may be nothing important, it may be extremely personal...but the whole point is that either way, it's not your concern to figure out which it is.  In the real world, we all let significant others invade our privacy on some level or another, so every couple will have a different comfort level on this issue.  The key is that you both know where that level is; otherwise bad, bad things happen!
41608
Yes and I married him but it was over 9 years ago when the internet was new & less dangerous like it is now.  I wouldnt think of meeting someone on the internet nowadays.  But back then, it was by chance that it happened b/c neither of us was on there looking for anyone & it was my first time on the internet the day I actually met my husband.  We met b/c God put us in the right place, at the right time.
728392
You can see if he's online if he has his settings for that.  You can't see who he's chatting with.  Why would you want to invade his privacy like that?  If you're romantically interested in him and you're afraid he's chatting with other women, then you need to move on.  Suspicion is no way to start a relationship, or even a friendship for that matter.