why do guys love and stop loving?
970921
I think depending on the age of the guy, that has something to do with how they "love" and "stop loving" on a regular basis.  Most guys I know between the ages of 16-25 only want sex.  They'll do anything, and say anything just to get something.  Once they get what they want, they make up a lame excuse and prey on another girl. It's life and it sucks.
654384
Men are different. Some display affection, others don't. Doesn't mean they don't love you. Ask him. And seek counselling to put that spark back again. Yup, same reply from me. Good luck.
355501
some guys just dont want to get married... if things are good, why not just keep them the way that they are.
168794
There is lust there, but zero love. You think in terms of emotions they are thinking in terms of satisfaction. You are Mr Right Now, not Mr Right.
343394
Their static programming drives them towards sex all the time.  Any man who tells you otherwise either isn't being honest or doesn't know himself.\n\nHaving said that, some men are jerks, some are indifferent, and lots of men are good people who really do want to find emotional and spiritual intimacy with the person who is also the object of their sexual desire.\n\nThe good hearted should not take any shame for being thus.  \n\nTruly, women are this way also, though perhaps in a different proportion.
645038
When a man falls in love with you - REALLY falls in love with you, there will be NOTHING you could do to make him stop. (except maybe cheating)  Once guys fall, it seems they are in it for the long run. forever.
184748
bECAUSE LOVE IS LIKE A DRUG, LITERALLY. wHEN WE ARE IN LOVE THE BRAIN RELEASES CHEMICALS IN THE BRAIN CALLED ENDORPHINS. ONE IN PARTICULAR IS THE CHEMICAL DOPAMINE. THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HAPPINESS OR PLEASURE(ONE OF THOSE) HOWEVER IT IS THE SAME PART OF THE BRAIN THAT IN BRAIN SCANS LIGHTS UP AFTER A SUBJECT DOES CRACK. SO Love IS LIKE A DRUG AND WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE YOU ARE BASICALLY GETTING DOSES OF THE DRUG, BUT WHEN LOVE COMES TO AN END IT IS HARD TO JUST GET OVER IT BECAUSE YOUR BODY CAN ACTUALLY BE GOING INTO WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS IF YOU WERE DEEP ENOUGH IN LOVE. MUCH LIKE A CRACK HEAD. lOL BUT SERIOUSLY
443725
Because it wasn't love to begin with,it was infatuation and infatuation dies..love never dies.When you love someone there's nothing to stop you from loving them...but when your infatuated,it's easy to get over at be infatuated with someone else..
415057
just bc you stop having sex it doesnt mean you guys are losing affection... there are plenty of other things to do... other than sex to show that you love each other... dont worry about.. it if you guys stop having sex and end up losing affection then you guys need to rethink the relationship.... was it the fact that you guys love each other??? or was it the sex...
290239
I believe we decide to love other people. What we think of as love or the way we feel when we're in love is really just a lot of chemicals playing tricks on us. To really love someone and to commit to them it has to be a conscious decision or we'll give in to an illusion and it won't last.
510235
i asked a similar q! my opinion to this is that we all love equely and it seems like we think men love less , not true they love just as deep as we do ! \n\ni have seen it time and time again even though it is not true ! we all love and feel the same ! \n:)
528316
Because they are initially drawn by the chemicals that attract man and woman and they only see the man inside once the chemicals have worn off.  It's the same for men but men have a different criteria than women. Some women are brought up to beleive in love and marriage, each guy they meet they see as potential marriage material.  They fall in love (what they think is love) instantly and think they have found the perfect man to provide for them and look after them.  Once the chemicals wear off and they realise they have not found the perfect man they start to try to turn him into one.  Women like this don't really know what love is so you will probably have this problem with most women untill you find one that falls in love with YOU and not some image she has had in her head since a little girl.x
734
Because they don't love women..They love themselves...I love women and appreciate all types,sizes, ages and personalities. There is  a secret excitement to be found underneath the surface of every woman just as every woman has different experiences to share and has her own rythm that leads her to multiple O's..Taking the time to find those things make life an exceptional adventure....
188389
In my opinion that's not love. Love never exalts itself and it is never self seeking. The emotions have a tendency to run wild when being satisfied, but i wouldn't confuse it with love. \nIf the sex stopped, would you still hang around?
404653
Men want to be acknowledged, loved and admired. They also want a woman to be open, loving and kind.  A man will stay with a woman who respects herself.  Most relationships fall apart when a woman gives up who she is to please their man, she'll usually get taken advantage of and will be disrespected for it.  Staying true to yourself and yet respecting the good things a man brings to the table - they usually eat it up every time.
1091539
No, guys are not honest enough to answer this. But I'm going to try anyways.\n\nMany *people*, not just guys, have this limitless capacity to love and care for others. Often, they feel obligated to share it with as many as they can safely.\n\nNobody trusts a single other person enough to put their life in another's hands these days. Nobody at all. After all, is it not foolish of a thing to do?\n\nAnd entire lifetime of focused attention and loving on one single person is scary and creepy. It's literally obsessive - which is not necessarily the BAD thing people make it out to be. But they still make it out to be bad. And people, even madly in love, can only tolerate so much from one another before one becomes "smothered" and burned out by the relationship. Which is EXACTLY what is trying to be avoided.\n\nAnd the person that needs the loving more will find it one way or another - because they give it just as much.\n\nFinally, these days there is no standard of coupling. There is no example to follow. There is really no concept of a "right relationship" anymore, either. Even a monogamous, married couple is nigh-impossible to live as, these days. It works well for "simple givers" and "simple takers", but many people these days need to be both - and 90% of them don't feel like being "takers" - even though that's really what it's all about. Once you're a couple, be a little selfish, and trust each other with your wants and needs. And with lack of standards, many people don't really have "expectations" to judge their relationships by, either.\n\nIt doesn't help that secrets, lies, affairs, and drama are *highly publicized*, almost to the point of being worshipped.\n\n*Sorry if that's a little long winded...*
1135439
Guys do that too you know, and not everyone does that. If you're a decent person and you REALLY love the other person you wouldnt do that.