why do people look at me even if I look normal? why??
957056
Sweetness, what you're missing is confidence in your own self. No one can give it to you; it's the sort of thing you have to gain by yourself. Keep telling yourself that you're fine, that people are just "looking" and not judging. Look in the mirror at yourself and tell yourself that you are fine, you are marvelous, wonderous, whatever just so long as you beleive it. I was self-concious in high school too and that's what I did. I figured I could let other people knock down my self-confidence or I that I wouldn't. I opted for wouldn't. Good luck and Blesings.
481338
I've wondered the same question.  I tried to make mine look like me.\nThere were no nerdy avatars that I saw and I see a lot walking in malls.  Come to think of it, I don't see fat ones, either.  So, someone, doesn't have an avatar that looks like them.  Maybe it is the people without an avatar.  Ha, ha.  All of mine I try to make look like me and wear stuff that I would wear.  Sometimes, I will look at my avatar and think that I should take a look in my mirror before I leave the house.
722757
It's all jealousy. When people tell you you are ugly usually it's their way of making themselves feel better by bringing some one else down. It shows you that they have a low self-esteem. \nSometimes it could be a joke. Don't take it too seriously. \nIf you get an insult - whichever way it is intended to and how- just remember that you are beautiful. (Should I?)\n"Nooooo matter whatttt theyyyy say....\nWordssss wont bring meeeiiii down...." \nJust remember!
1040838
Yes, but I try to be discreet. I stare because I'm curious or fascinated. It's new or different, so it takes longer to get my mind around it, therefore I stare longer. Sometimes I stare when I'm repulsed. I saw this enormously fat man wearing a speedo in a hotel swimming pool. He cut his forehead somehow and kept using the pool water to rinse it. The blood was oozing down his face. I was so disgusted I couldn't stop staring. Sometimes I stare at other women who I think are just beautiful. I look at their clothes and hair, and face. It's just fun. Sometimes I stare at people with disabilities. I'm fascinated to see how they cope in this world. I try to be discreet, but likely, they can tell. I just can't help it though.
61639
You need to look @ how you present yourself, are you a standoff person? there is always a reason for the way other people treate you for example being over weight, being to perfect, your personal hygien, the language that you use in conversation, are you an unattractive person or are you a person that looks like you have been chiseled by the gods, is it the way you dress maybe you out perform and other strive to keep up. Maybe it is your over active imagination and nobody really give two sqirts of piss about you at all. I think you need to get to the place in your life that what I think or how others act has no bearing on you @ all. I look @ situation like this is it going to matter in 5 years? If no, will it matter in 5 months? If no will it matter in 5 weeks? Well I would like to think you get the picture, you may need to read this several times and then sleep on it and read it again before you go to work. You can over come the voices they make medicine for that, you may what to try it.
135505
I'm never afraid of what I look like, that's how people see me everyday, and I myself don't really judge someone's personality by the way they look. So why not show pictures of myself to everybody, I'm not only doing that because I'm good looking but because people on the internet would know what I look like, rather than visualizing me.
458817
no that normal every one always gets a lil excited when you know someone is checking you out.
193373
Charity, I can understand that being persued is very stressful. Some of it is because there are some really crazy people out there.  Some of it you need to take responsibility for yourself. You have asked a question about being "too easy" , that will bring some attention.  You also have built a 360 page with your picture, by the way you are very pretty, that will get even more attention.  Try to tone down your questions and profile and the stalkers won't have any reason to look.
487762
The only logic behind it is people will always happily tell you that you look great because they are making sure you dont look better than them. Its a fickle old world and will never change but at least you can get yourself wiser to the fact.\nMe? I always tell the truth no matter how much it offends people because i actually get more fun out of that. (instead of pissing up their backs) and because i'm evil :)
907639
Its easy to feel that way ..when in fact, sometimes people are staring at you because they think you are attractive, or even look like someone they know..and they start staring at you and don't even realize they're doing it...If you were sure they were singling you out..if it is at all possible, without prejudging them...you could ask them point blank, if there is something you can do for them..now if they are just some stooge looking for a fight..then just walk the other way and dont oblidge them..unless you have good reason to think that someone is out to get you...you should try not to let your imagination run away with you...Maybe you are very nice looking and just dont know it
721470
maybe your scared that they will know all of your secrets.\ni only say that because i have a cousin that has the same problem. she is so scared to look into peoples eyes. she is scared that if she does , then they will know everything about her.
434331
It could be from where you are sitting that everyone looks that way. You must have a serious inferiority complex.
625864
This is your body and I feel it should look beautiful if you can maintain a good curvaceous figure, as you put it. I think you sound gorgeous !!!!! Keep it up. If others have a problem with your fine and graceful body then they seem to be jealous or perhaps, envious.\n\nDo not bother about their views since it is your body and you have it great.\n\nBest of everything for you in your life.\n\nabnash25@yahoo.com
613158
You shouldn't worry what other people think of you.  You are not on this earth to please other people, especially rude ones.  Know that you are a good person and from this will arise an inner sense of beauty that will reflect in who you are and not what you think other people want to see in you.  This is real beauty.  Judging from your profile I would say you are pretty cool.
739957
People who only have one thing in mind when they look at you probably aren't worth knowing because all they want to know is what you look like naked and not who you are as a person.Now, I am not going to lie or bend the truth here, but if you're attractive or have a big bulge then it is hard for anyone to not take notice of it.With that said, I think that you should take it as a compliment if they look once.If they look twice I would wonder why.If they look three times or more then you know that there isn't much going on in their mind but one thing.\n\nNow, why would they wonder if you're a hustler?Do you both dress in tight clothing while acting flirtatious?If you're a big flirt who wears sexy clothing then I would think that people are going to get the impression that perhaps you're either looking for a good time or some money or both and not looking for a good conversation that has intellect and not bedroom talk.\n\nIf you want to be taken seriously then my suggestion is to do things that would take their eyes off your bulge.Perhaps dress in not so tight clothes and perhaps make eye contact with people who take notice of you.Try not to give off any vibes of a flirtatious nature if all you're interested in is a good friendship or conversation that may lead to a good friendship.\n\nPeople will always judge appearance first.It's how you allow yourself to be seen that gives people their first impression.
940958
I don't know how people stare at you, so I wouldn't know...but don't worry about it, they probably aren't thinking negatively towards you anyways... Trust me, If you look away and pretend to be occupied with something else, then maybe they would just leave you alone...
11961
People are naturally curious. Why they often stare or eavesdrop, we do not know. But often times you see people totally taken in by what you are doing even though they are complete strangers. We are quite a voyeuristic society by nature.