I feel like im being lied to?
965723
*** i'd definately look at it closer.  u don't usually get gut feelings for nothing.  why don't u let him prove that he's not...usually people don't have a problem w/ that unless they ARE lying.
446490
Just be straight with him.I've been in a similar situation before and my b/f was just happy that I was honest with him.He didn't get mad about the lie at all.Honesty is the best policy,no matter the consequences!
607015
Dont check anything.  The answer is yes.  Trust me on this one- would I lie to you?
840204
You are either lying, or you are one F**ked up individual.
71915
no matter how small a lie is, yes you're right, its still lie! if he's doing that not only once/twice, there's something wrong with him, and dont just believe that he doesnt wanna hurt your feelings... both of you have to talk about it.
541777
I no longer answer on YA but I have been linked here once more.\n\nTechnically, yes you have lied.  How often you make these statements based on false assumptions would be the factor upon which your being a liar (or not) would depend.  If it happened once or twice, they could be considered mistakes (though why you make false assumptions is another issue altogether; you might have poor judgment or are seeking to have your false assumptions verified; in other words, you have some issues within yourself upon which you need to do some work). \n\nIf you repeatedly make such statements, it would seem feasible that, yes,  others would begin to view you as a liar.\n\nHowever, you should ask yourself why you are making so many false assumptions in the first place.  People often find what they are seeking; you are seeking what you won't find.  Having said this, I am sure you will pick the answer that agrees with your thinking as most people do on YA.
539739
Just ask him about it, usually if there is nothing to hide he'll just answer you... but he may not want to answer because he thinks your accusing him of something... if that's the case just drop it until you have proof something is happening... Its probably nothing to worry about :)
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sense his tone \nor remember a thing he told u and u think its a lie then ask him about it latter like a week or smt\nusualy ppl don't remember there lies for more than a cople of days ;)\ndo more than once and make it look like a casual Q. \ndon't make him feel ur investigating him or that u don't beleave him
479236
Confront him! Try to get him in front of as many people as possible and ask him why he's lying about you. Say you know he must be a very insecure person that's why he always puts other people down to make himself feel better about himself. Then just walk away. He'll look a right idiot. Good luck!
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You should come correct, Kara.  If I were you I wouldn't have intentionally deceived him in the first place because now he's always going to be like, "If she lied to me about that, what ELSE is she lying to me about?"  \n\nBut, have no fear...  If he's really that great of a guy, he will understand and accept you for who you are and what you do.  You just have to do everything you can to earn back whatever trust and confidence he had in you prior to this perpetuation of misinformation.  You also have to let him know that no matter what you do, you're going to save the good stuff for him.  =)  \n\nGood luck.
696363
Yea, I feel she is trying to tell you that you ask really vague and moronic questions on Yahoo Answers. That is what I think anyway....you might want to ask her though,,,,,,,,,good luck!
762578
hey i really wanted 2 help u out.. but...\ner... i don understand ur q....\nplz... don feel bad...\nsorry...
923522
OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
337740
Confront him about it,put him on the spot and let him know he has explaining to do! Dont be afraid to confront him,he need's to feel like an idiot for being so dishonest with  you and need's to know how that makes you feel. IF he doesnt stop this,then you need to move on,because that's never a good sign,and is never going to make it into a long term relationship. People lie for a reason,and obviously it isnt a GOOD one. lier's continue to lie because people let them get away with it,afraid to put them on the spot,afraid to embarrasse them,ect,forget that,embarrasse the crap out of him,it might teach him if he know's he cant get away with it,but make sure you know why he lied to you,that should tell you alot,and please,dont let him tell you a lie about his lie,and dont let him make you feel guilty about it either,liers will try and make you feel guilty about their lie,such as "I thought if you knew you would hate me and not want me anymore" or "I didnt want you to know,because that's not who I am anymore,you have changed me"blah,blah,blah
206752
I don't think you're overreacting at all. If he can easily lie about the small, stupid stuff, then it makes it that much easier for him to lie about big stuff like cheating. And if he's lying about going somewhere, then he probably didn't want you to know he was there and who he was with. I wouldn't trust him, which it doesn't sound like you do. Do you really want to be with someone you don't trust? Having to constantly worry that he's lying to you or cheating on you? Trust me it's not worth the effort. It'll just make you crazy! You deserve better!
283876
For some reason I feel like I'm doing something wrong, when I'm really not. It's their fault, not mine, especially if I tell them that I'm taken and they keep flirting. Then I feel like I should tell my guy, but I'd rather not start a fight, so now I feel like I'm hiding something. And that's not a good feeling. So usually I end up telling him. It makes ME look bad when someone flirts with me and I'm already taken.
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You were WRONG to start your relationship with a lie.  Now, you're having to face the consequences of your lies.\n\nIt might not matter to YOU, but it obviously DOES matter to HER.