do people pick  other people who are on the smae physical atractive level as they are?
961166
not always.  I prefer men that aren't as attractive.  They are all-around much better boyfriends.
848527
if u are sardarni or punjabi then u won't be asking this question, so i guess ur are none of them. anyway look someone through their heart, try to understand them and then choose them. don't choose anyone on their facial looks, whether they are clean shaven or they are sardars, judge them with their heart and not by their looks.
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whether man or woman,we all judge people based on what we see first.but after we get to know the person behind the face,it would typically matter who is that person,if he/she is nice,do you get along with them,does their presence make you feel good about life.so over-all looks and personlity as well as charcter will always need to go together to keep that attraction alive.
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Attractiveness usually turns out to be MORE than just "Physical Beauty" alone.  It is usually through interaction that people assess in the LONG TERM for long standing relationships.  Keeping well groomed and healthy are a plus, but it would seem that humans as a species tend to like MORE than just physical beauty.\n\nPersonally, I had found that eye contact and being attentive to a person yields much longer results.  It's true many people judge others by how they look (initially), but it is the OTHER traits and interests we have which have them coming back for more in the long term.\n\nThere is NOTHING wrong with GOOD LOOKS. But whether you are good looking or not, having a good attitude toward yourself and others will do more in ATTRACTING another person than relying on your "looks" alone! \n\nSo I would suggest that the most effective part of the body would be a GOOD SMILE, FOCUSED EYES and LISTENING EARS to be a great start!
603997
Hey, men and women both are attracted to physically good looks but personality works both ways, too, being a powerful attractor.\n\nSome men and women might even be judged as average looking by the world but never be alone because they make others feel great to be around them.\n\nI've heard women talk about this, and I've found myself attracted to girls who, at first glance, wouldn't normally be my type.\n\nBe smart, funny, kind, considerate,  a good listener, and fun, and see what happens.
59934
Well I guess similar somehow to me, since i m big and love others who r big too (well man2man), so I realize how it might attract a person, its a personal taste everyone is sexy to somebody else. And to answer your question try a search in yahoo or somewhere else for big beautiful women (bbw).\nPS. I only know sites for big men :P
184413
Beauty is relative - if you're interested to know how they really look like, there's nothing like personal meeting.  You just can't take their words for it because everybody's standards about physical beauty varies.
843278
well it depends. nowadays, beautiful people are 'evolving', 'cause they soon realized 'brains' are needed for survival not just their beauty. \nnow back to your queston, yeah. i will try dating them. who knows if i could get a good catch afterwards? if they're not worth your time, try to tell them politely and it'll be over soon. trying won't hurt, can it? you won't lose anything with it by the way. just your time, lol!
698579
Hmmmmmm, here I go being Shallow Hal again, but I can't help being truthful. There first has to be some sort of attraction in the physical sense, and for most of us that means different attributes. After the initial attraction, I listen to them speak and watch how they treat other people. I look for people who are intelligent, but not arrogant or bossy. I like confident women, but not mean spirited or waspish ones. People who show respect for others without being wishy washy or kissing ass also get high grades from me. Most of all I look for people who are confident enough with themselves that they realize they don't have to try and change or "improve" others around them. That, to me is a manifestation of great inner insecurity and a lack of sensitivity and respect for others.
958118
what a great question!   \n\ni find alot of people attractive but am only really attracted to a few.\n\nif your one of the few dont be too subtle its a waste of time!
765518
Sex, physical attractiveness, acceptance of peers.
351530
well ask yourself that question, some people like muscle men or an hour glass female, some people like plump teddy bears.  beauty is in the eye of the beholder and even if another person sees different in your taste your soul will tell you another.
1034944
NOPE! Thats how you know someone really loves YOU. Your personality is the catcher unless someone is shallow.
993502
It all depends on their personality. Its whats inside that counts, not how they look or act.
655914
I don't personally, but a lotta my mates like a guy who spends a lotta time on his appearance etc, so maybe it's just a matter of personal choice.  Anyway, don't worry - however you are, whoever you are - there's someone out there who'll think you're just PERFECT.
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Its all down to the individual,most of the lads i know like a girl with a GSH and a big pair of boobs which aren't normally found on skinny women,i don't know wot puts someone in the "fat category" but if you are happy within yourself then others will find you attractive!!!!!
610651
I think that it is completely silly to ever assume that someone is too hot for you.  \n\nI used to be really dorky looking.  I got self esteem, some low cut shirts and pants that fit properly, a better haircut, and BOOM all of a sudden I'm being hit on left and right by all these "pretty people" who never looked at me twice before I got contacts.  And most of those people do not interest me in the slightest.  \n\nMost of the women and men I've dated have been told that I'm prettier then they are.  Not to sound like a raving ego maniac, but I mostly agree.  That is because I like PEOPLE who are well rounded and interesting, not just people who are hot.  \n\nSo anyone who has an interest in anyone should go for it, reguarless of how hot or not they feel they are.  Not every hot person is looking at looks only and plenty of not hot people are amazing and wonderful.