Will revealing a secret problem...make you closer to a guy..as far as trust is concerned?
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baby girl, ask yourself will he keeps you secret hidden. and what good will it come of it? he won't open up if you did. that's not a trade. by the way chewing tobacco is nasty. that's no secret. it's just a bad habit
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if the guy ur with is very close to you and you know he is quite concerned about pleasing you (and he wouldn't find out) i guess it's ok.\n\ncoz guys can actually get hurt if they don't please you, (i'm talking about guys who are really in love with their girls.)\n\nbut if you lie and he finds out, it will be all the more hurtful for him. \n\nso you gotta use your discretion!!
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As long as you are comfortable with the notion that you will most likely find something you won't like to see/know, even if it's harmless to your relationship, and then can't even share what you feel with them.  \nIf you are looking to 'catch' him and to use what you find (infidelity etc..) to end the relationship, then go for it... otherwise it will just make you feel guilty and helpless.  If you are in a happy & trusting relationship, don't do it!
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sometimes, depends on the guy I'd like you and I don't know you.  but If I got to know you then it would be a certain thing.  some guys just want whats under your clothes not your skin. Get back to me when you get this resolved firedgaffney@yahoo.com
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Yes. I think the anticipation and mystery and trust that will be built will be very beneficial to the relationship.  So you think the distance thing is just temporary?  That would be real nice.
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Trust is so important in a relationship. If you trust him, then talk about this concern with him openly. Do not look for sneaky ways or signs to sniff him out. Rather, talk to him, and you might be surprised how willingly he will open up to you if you show him you have enough trust in him. Most men do not willingly become womanizers, but most men do enjoy being popular around ladies as a sign that they are quite the manly men.
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I think you still need to be patient here.  It may be something traumatic, hurtful, or embarrassing that he just doesn't want to tell you right now. When he trusts you it'll come up.\n\nIf you really insist on knowing, you could probably find out from one of his friends. But be careful because he could easily (and rightfully) perceive that you are prying into his personal life. Men don't like that any more than women do.
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Not unless he wants to keep it a secret between you two.
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Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
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As long as he isn't with anyone else I see no reason not to.  In fact, why make it such a secret?  Why not be open about it and see if a relationship develops.
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Why so secretive?  If you like him and he likes you, what's the problem
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Check if he's looking at you secretly and if he's smiling at you. It worked for me! Maybe there's other signs that goes unnoticed sometimes.
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coming from a guy's point of view....I think you should tell him
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Yes, but it's not always intentional. A secret is just anything that no one else knows about. Everyone has things (big or small) that no one else knows.
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this happened to a friend of mine.   keep ur mouth shut and if u talk to her, talk to her about keeping her mouth shut too and let her know the consequences for if the secret does come out.  also remind her that it takes 2 to  tango
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For those that think that it is easy for a guy to confess or admit, it definitely isn't true(Personal experience). Sometimes all they need is a little hint. If you do not want to tell him, i suggest you look for the extreme. Guys whom usually like someone will act exceedingly rude/polite as a rule. Good Luck!
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Make sure to tell him some of your feelings too, so he knows u trust him with yours, if that doesn't work, then try getting it from him by not asking him directly, make sure he knows that u trust him enough and that ur worth knowing