Please help, it's totally killing me.?
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Oh dear... My husband and I meet on yahoo chat... We both fell in love with each other, but were very busy with work and school... we were two stats away from each other... we didn't want to beak each-others hearts, so we decided to be friends... two years went by, and he ended up driving to meet me. It was suppose to only be for a week, but he ended up staying and moving in with me... \n\nYou are not being selfish. Long distant relationships are hard. A large part of being in love is the physical connection with each-other. It is only natural that you want to meet him, to hold his hand and to kiss him. His schooling is important to him, and it shows how much you care for him by understanding that.\n\nI say be friends... continue on with your life... if it is meant to be that you two are suppose to be more than friends one of you will end up with the opportunity to get on the plane so you two can meet.
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Good decision. I'm glad to hear that you are getting this resolved. The stress you are going through over this,is not good for you. Try to relax and go for a walk or get involved in something fun until your appt.
754965
OK... I know this is going to be hard.  But sometimes we just need to do things that are painful.  Take 3 days away from your life, lock yourself in your house, get some ice chips, a load of water, and absolutely any food you want to eat (any food because that's your gift for doing it).  It will be painful but I promise you, after 3 days, you're going to feel better and you'll get that out of your system. \n\nThen, get online and join a support group.  In fact, do it while within the 3 days.  Exercise.  Go for a jog every time you want a smoke.  Do some yoga.  It's just 3 hard days.  And how many of those have we had without being in control of them.  \n\nI'm not going to lecture you.  I'm sure you're about to hear an earful from the folks on here.  I think you know that you have got to do this for both of you.  BTW, Have you talked to your doc abou this?
615256
i cant go on with this
320213
You are obviously looking for the best advice possible, so please if you can do anything to rectify this situation then do it and as soon as possible. I am so proud of you even though I dont know you, for recognising that this man is in difficulty, please go to someone who can help him, go to his or indeed your Dr. and seek immediate advice. This is wrong, you know it I know it and I am sure every other user of this site will see it for what it is.  It is abuse of the worst kind.  I have a son with special needs, and this is my worst nightmare. I applaud your concern, now please get help for him....
518702
I am in the same boat as you.  Trying to figure it out.  What cannot be cured must be endured.  Keep strong.  Looking at your life without that other person there feels so empty and cold.
860680
I know your pain so much.  I live it.  Trust me.  It's really hard to make that first step.  It took me several years.  I went to a counselor, but she didn't help at all.  So now I'm going to sit here and wait a whole month to see a psychiatrist.  I don't feel like a person anymore, just a lifeless being.  Please, get help.  You know you need it as much as I know I need it.
801450
You grieve.  Grieving sucks, I'm there right now.  Eventually it will get better, you just have to give yourself time.
155102
Run just as fast as you can away from this man.  You have a child to think of now and is this the way you want your child raised?  If you can't think of your child, then think of yourself.  You deserve so much more out of life than this and there is so much more out there.  I know it will be hard, but there is a light at the end of this tunnel.  My thoughts are with you.
962071
it is driving me nuts as well, I wish I knew
1015145
YES!!  I'M ABOUT TO LOSE MY MIND!!!
290034
I would say,a lot of counseling and possibly some medication to get you threw all this.You will get through it,But you wont ever forget it. Prayer helps too! and I am so very sorry for what you have been through,I have had some of the same experience's as you have.Hang in there.You will survive.We are women hear us roar!!
462087
I am going through the same shit! Make sure you have an attourney with you.
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verrrrrrrry saddddd. i am almost in tears
193358
It is going to be the hardest thing you do right now. At least it is for me. im going through the exact same thing right now.You should let that person go,because you dont even want to try to be with someone who does not want you.
470700
Stress of all these question being thrown at me....AARRRGHHH!!!!!!!
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).