how can u come over your fear of the dentist?
956982
Find a really good dentist! I was so scared of the dentist before i didn't go to the dentist for 8 years till one day  i had a toochache so i went in and the dentist didn't even touch me and i was already cryng like a baby on chair lol. My dentist is so nice, he knows how to work with with dental phobia when i went back again he gave me some pills to relax that helped. I don't need to take them anymore, but still everytime i go i have butterflies at the stomach but the minute i sat at the chair i feel fine and lauch at my dentist who is joking around! So ask friends or family ro really good dentist, i am sure they know that's how i find mine! good luck
1126202
OMG Stop thinking about it.  Your going to get your mind off the upcoming procedure and imaging how you are going to tell everyone about your fear as you enter the office.  Pain is in the brain.  Your fear will make the pain feel worse that it really is.  Please get your mind off the pain.
1120714
Give your self permission to face fear, even if it's scary.  Then forgive yourself for feeling fear and guilt if (when) it happens next time.  Old habits die hard sometimes.\n\nStart with baby steps.  Learn from mistakes.  Go back to the beginning if you need to.  You don't fail this way; you only learn.  Failure becomes a learning experience.  Success, step by step, is inevitable.   There's no rush; remember that.\n\nLove ya.\n\ndakotanroscoe
1023208
dental phobias happen sometimes for no reason at all. but often it will be because someone was rough or didn't explain what was happening to them when they were young. thank goodness it doesn't happen so much anymore but there are still terrified ppl out there.
1088353
Going to the dentist is a real downer, I'm terrified. I get scraped and tugged at and poked and apologies. The dentist shouldn't be so rough that they have to apologize about it ya know? I feel like they are going to rip my teeth out of my head. And the spit sucker thing, is really awful.
966316
First, it's clear that you have no idea what you are talking about. Second, if it hurts, TELL THE DENTIST. \nLastly, as #2 stated, I'm sure they were more than happy to let you go as a patient. As a matter of fact, I can guarantee that you're on their DO NOT REAPPOINT list.
131398
u will know the best y r u afraid of urself.plz,immediately go to a councellor. i think u need councelling.
203762
Let your doctor/dentist/whoever know before hand...I am terrified of needles recently i've had several for tooth fillings, a blood test and a jab... I'm always completely honest with the person administering the deed, explaining that I am terrified... The medical staff are experienced enough to ensure that its as gentle and pain free as possible...They'll monitor you, explain whats happening, get you to lay down if you are more comfortable there etc....
291644
Have someone scare you.\nPut sugar on the back of your tounge.\nTake a deep breath and hold it for as long as you can. (this is what I do, it works 80% of the time.\nOr just wait them out.
903066
well first you should change your dentist!\n\nbuy a soft bristle toothbrush and just brush your teeth gently\n\nlisterine is good but can be a bit harsh for some people if their gums are sensitive.\n\ncolgate is a milder one\n\nmake sure you brush your teeth and mouthrinse a least twice a day and after eating.\n\ndont poke your teeth about with toothpicks etc \n\nive had this before and its worrying but if your dentist hasnt put your mind at rest then find a new one
401644
Set up an appointment with a Dentist to simply answer questions. Going to a Dentist's office without actually undergoing dental work may reassure her.\nAnother thing may be for you to go have some dental work done & bring her with you into the room where she sees no pain on your face. May help her realize it's ok.
167142
Seeing a therapist would be the best way.  They will most likely use one of 2 techniques either slowly introducing what you are scared of in increasing steps. For example go in a room where u feel a bit uncomfortable, breath, relax do that for a while then go on to more claustrophobic settings.  Another method, which isn't for every one, is to enter into an extremely claustrophobic setting until you realize and internalize that you are in no real danger.
713942
I am Tarifed of the Dentist
893657
I am writing not to recommend a good dentist. I would like to let you know that perhaps your expectations are a little too high. The extractions itself can be performed painlessly if you are numb. The numbing part will be uncomfortable. You would feel pressure though, which has no correlation with how numb you are. Some nervous people feel the pressure unnerving, incorrectly relating it to pain. \n\nMost dental problems are preventable. To stay away from getting serious dental work done will need a lot of work on the owner's part. Good upkeep, frequent checkups to address problems when they are little. Good luck in finding a dentist.
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Above all, do not lie to her and try very hard not to talk about it all the time.  In my experience, the children will feel the anxiety of the parent, and trust me, the parent makes it worse in almost all the cases when the parent remains in the room!!\n\nIf you go to a Paedodontic Dentist (specializes in children's dentistry) these doctors are amazing and know how to deal with anxious children, or children getting their teeth done for the first time.  Also, they are super fast in their work!  Depending on the number of fillings that need to be done, you child could be in and out in 20minutes!
538354
If it's really bad, you could talk to your doctor and he could give you something to take the edge off. I'm not really sure how I do it. I just take a long deep breath, and just do it, like pretending that I'm not afraid at all. After a while, I don't have to pretend anymore.
780732
I am so sorry about your bad experience. Please share your fears with your new dentist or go to A DDS  site such as" we cater to cowards". I do not think you are a coward - but many good dentists may give you Valium or Nitrous Oxide to calm your fears.\nPlease do not put this off. Many advances have been implemented since you were 13\nAll my best to you,RN in Ca. Things will be better !