Why does she behave like that?
968442
I think at times when people talk about feelings they kind of shy away from it cause of fear of getting hurt. You may have to just be patient with her for now. Good things do come to those who wait.
216104
After watching her last night, I really do believe she has a hard time being honest with people. In other words, she doesn't want to hurt their feelings. I don't think it's medication, it probably is related to past exoeriences or issues of rejection. Not talking psych 101 here but she's like everyone's sweet Auntie Em.
850920
Perhaps that you're younger than she is, and she's trying to be 'nice' - or she's being patronizing. Without context, hard to tell.
697490
The reason that women act that way is because there are torn in between there "feelings & heart"!! She's IN LOVE WITH YOU!!!\nAnd she's having a hard time couping with that, and now you told her that you want time apart she's really taking it hard!!\nShe really want to be with you but at the same time she don't want to wreck the friendship that you 2 have!\nIf you and she have very strong feelings towards each other don't be shy to make that next step!!!
63315
Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
1098720
i think shes outgoing\nand loud.\n\n\n♥Alexis Scene!
178037
sounds like to me she is just confused. she is used to being the dominate person in the relationship and as u know men are "the dominate ones" most of the time.  yeh she prolly does get a little shakey when ure around, i would be too if i had never been with a man before!!
586161
Has she REALLY always been like that......really?\n\nCan you remember a time when she was NOT like that??\n\nIf she was ever more "normal", you know......good days, bad days, fun times every once in awhile.......then something has happened to her SINCE that time to shape her emotional make-up. She may have a bad diet, too much caffeine, not enough sleep, not enough exercise......MANY different things. She may have been abused in some way.\n\nWith hormones kicking in now you may have a HUGE problem with her wanting/needing to self-medicate herself and her moods with food, sugar, caffeine drugs or alcohol.....or sex.\n\nIf it's REALLY that bad you could try something drastic like........show her what a REALLY bad day could be like....I'm talking night court, jails, homeless alcoholics.\n\nA more moderate form of the same basic exercise would be to volunteer the BOTH of you to do community service every week in a different part of the city and show her how to FIX some of the inequities in the world instead of constantly COMPLAINING about them. Helping others in need shows builds compassion and THANKFULNESS for our OWN good fortune....and shows that we are not very far away from some harder times, ourselves.
103287
I think its maybe. Maybe It s a reaction to love. First reaction. Or maybe she dont want u understand her emotions and hide them with this actin...cause she shys...\n\nI think this answer is to optimistical..
835671
I think she is doing it just because she knows that it will get to you. She knows that you want him, and she can play with him like a puppet. I think she has insecurites within herself, that she thinks she has to come down and hurt other people so they dont see when she hurts. If i was you i would act like it didnt bother you and she will stop. and no you are not being unreasonable, that is low, but take her power away from her and she will just be left there standing confused. Dont sink to her level rise above and being a shining star
194949
She's doing this because she gets a bit of excitement by trying to deceive you. Like children do to their parents. This sounds like a battle of wills to me. You want her to behave one way, and she's responding by lying, digging her heels in. She's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel in control of her life, and this is a way she feels that she can do what she wants. When you hide the webcam or threaten to take her 'toy' away, she spits her dummy, because she wants a reason to have a go at you for trying to 'control' her, 'making' her bored by travelling alot. You're just applying practical solutions to your problem (very male!). She is probably lost in a dreamworld while she's chatting to these guys, a world where she is a different person. She can portray herself as anyone she wants to. She probably needs some confidence-boosting but it all boils down to a lack of communication. She doesn't feel she can talk to you about her needs, or perhaps she's tried and she doesn't feel you took her seriously. This situation will only get worse if you don't try to spend some quality time getting to know what her needs are.
1140449
i think she is being very unprofessional.  no one wants to know what she was up to the night before.  i think her behavior definetly reflects on the company and she is embarassing herself.  a lady has much more class than that.  she's behaving like a tramp.
344490
This person may not be aware that she is doing this. It probably is the way she talks to her children. The best thing to do and the hardest is to have a sit down talk with her and tell her how you feel.  If she doesn't respond well, try again but with some other adult sitting in to be a moderator.
288518
I'd find out why this behavior got started. She may be depressed or worried. Be a pal and find out the why. If you can help her with that, she'll probably stop complaining about things that have nothing to do with her real problem, whatever that may be.\nIf she's complaining without an underlying cause, maybe she wants a new roommate and she's trying to get you out and someone else in.\nOr she could be physically ill with something and not know how to handle it.\nYou won't know until you ask. Best way to ask.....be polite, but just ask outright, in a calm, soothing tone of voice, whassamattah you? Or words to that effect.
1093294
Maybe she is just disagreeing with u alot!?\n\nNo seriously, my daughter used to do it.  As long as she is developing normally, i.e pulling up to stand, trying words etc etc, I wouldn't be worried, my daughter grew out of it.\n\nIf your concerned see your paediatrician.
320362
Because sometime you are not being so nice as you think you are. don't be defensive and ask what you did that is upsetting  this woman and repeat it back to her so that you understand what she is saying and that you were listening to what she was saying to you. might help. give it a try.
978853
what do you do that provokes this kind of reaction from her?  perhaps the fact that you say she is annoying is coloring your perception and how you treat her ... look into yourself and see why you choose to find her annoying.