please help me?????? I seriously need advice.?
957106
sure, why not?  the only way ya going to know for sure is if you ask him.
81639
that's a very bad situation. only advice i can give you is based on the experience i had last year. my situation started out like yours and ended with me stayin in a crack neighbor hood and my boyfriend tryin to kill himself cause of the ex. i think it's a bad situation and you need to take whatever steps you can to get her to stop. legal or illegal. if this situation is f*ckin with your head then you NEED to get out of it. don't put up with S*it like that, you don't deserve it. there are other ppl out there
935977
don't trust his sister. Ask his friends. I hope everything works out for you.
532034
Highly suggest you talk with a good therapist. During that time and now realize what you want in life. Therapist will help. I have learned from (others/family) poor behavior. Use this as a TOOL! One can not make others happy. YOU need to find happiness within. I know nothing of your friends and where you live. I highly suggest... to continue having a friend is with respect to them. Your problems may get worse if "you" end relationship through aggressive behavior to your friends. Religious believing can wait. Just know there is someone to talk with during quite time alone. I do it all the time. It works. Many of my guestions have been answered. Stop asking yourself why to everything. Concentrate on what "type" of person others see in you. I have a clue possible Bio Polar in your family. Trust me. My life at one time was similar. Go to a therapist. Let them help you. Most of your questions will be answered.\nBest of luck!
1162124
Wow, this is so sweet. I think that you should tell her exactly that. Look her directly in the eyes and let her know how you really feel. Tell her that there is no use for her to push you away. Tell her that there is nothing for her to be afraid of, and that you accept her and embrace her for exactly what and who she is. Tell her she is the only one for you. If this doesn't work move on. You are too sweet not to be appreciated. Maybe if you give her some space she will realize what she gave up and come around.
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
240639
i completely understand what ur going through, i was in the same boat a you. my advice is, if he really is happy with his girlfriend right now, i wouldn't say anything. because right now you're his friend, and you should be happy for him, unless she really isn't good for him (meaning she doesn't treat him right). but, if and when you do tell him, make sure you do it in person. just tell him that he is a great friend, and that u love being friends with him b/c he is such a great guy. then tell him that somewhere in the friendship your feelings changed, and now you like him. that's all i can really tell you. i hope i was some help.
643038
You are so young.  If he treats you badly now, it will only get worse.  How can you think that you're afraid to be alone for the rest of your life? Get some self respect and you decide if he's good enough for you.  Good Luck with that, eh?
204620
You don't need help, you need to dump him.  You don't need this loser in your life, you deserve better.  Kick him out of your life and find a man who will love and respect you.
953988
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!
603363
Try stopping on your own.. if you cant.. than the only other option you have is to get help..\n\nIm going through the same thing.. and i intend to get help soon..\n\nif you need someone to talk to..\nemail me..\n\n\nLexie:\nlexie_girl2009@yahoo.com
426510
Come clean girl.  The longer you live a lie, the worse the situation becomes.....and the deeper the hurt.  Put yourself in his shoes. I know, now you're too scared to fess up.  But you owe him that much.  I know you'll make the best decision....
829118
Dump the bum and quick!  Sounds like there are some problems going on in this guys head and you don't need to be a part of it.  I think you already knew you have to get him out of your house and out of your life, you just needed confirmation and support from people not so close.  Well, you are getting plenty of the same advice; so listen to all of us strangers who only want the best for you - GET RID OF HIM . . .NOW!
170644
Wow...I am so sorry about this. How horrible for you. You must know in your heart that she simply has been lied to or misled about you, right? (deep down?) Listen to your heart...you probably know she would love you if she knew you, and she may already love you even without knowing you. I think the only thing you can do is pray sincerely. (I'm serious) Ask God to somehow make a way for you to get to know her...and maybe write her a letter, explaining how much you love her. You will probably need to be on the giving end at this point, and maybe for a long, long time until she is able to see and respond to your love. Don't give up. Love always wins. Be patient, and love her in as many ways as you can...my heart is so touched by your story. I wish there was something more I could say or do to help you...Good luck.
528169
Ok this is from personal experience I had with a girl. The thing I'm gonna put my money on is that he's trying to make you jelous because he believes he's run outta options. I hate to be blunt but if your considered a really attractive girl in your school it doesn't matter how goodlooking he is but he may be scared of you, espically of approaching you directly. You also have to think of the way you treated him, you cheated on him, and also you pushed him away when he wanted to talk to him...well now its time to put youself to the test.\nI'm not sure of your age so i'm not sure if you can drive or not, but since your able to still monitor him IE knowing how he acts arond other girls I'm 100% sure he knows this information about his flirting and girl handeling is getting back to you. So you need to choose a night, time, and place and track him down randomly. Talk to him about it, I know the girl I went through with this I did the exact same thing and it would have ment the world to me if she had just tracked me down and come to me to talk about it. You've got to put yourself in his shoes and realize just how much you hurt him, its also possible he wants you to hurt some too since you seem to have been completly unaffected (from his point of view) from the break up. Once you've sat down for awhile and thought this over and you actually understand his pain and the hell you put him through (I know i'm being harsh but it'll help you in the long run) only then will you be ready to talk to him about it and salvage something.\n\nAnd if your not trying to salvage something or you know you'd never be able to handle a serious realtionship with him without cheating its best to just leave this be and go through the pain of losing someone.\n\nHowever from what you've told me about him and how i'm guessing how you feel I think its for the best that you two try and salvage a relationship. At the very least try and follow my advice about trying to put yourself in his shoes and feeling his pain, it'll give you a better perspective on things. \n\nGood luck to the both of you!\n\nFeel free to e-mail me if you need more help
814506
Get as far away from him as possible.  He needs to get help and is too controlling.  You deserve to have someone that makes you happy and you deserve to have a life outside of him as well.  If he cannot accept that and trust you, then there really is no relationship.
1018237
ask God for help. he'll help ya get through. get ur mind off of it ya know.