What are our options?
957602
First, they are in Aruba, US law doesn't apply there.  Nor does Aruban law apply here.  If you want to fight her over these issues, then you need to either bring her and the child to the US, or go to Aruba and hire a lawyer and fight her under Aruban law.  It is admirable that you want to pay for the child's education, and I think sending the money for that to the school is more than adequate, of course, she must allow the child to attend, which she may not out of sheer spite.  I would not send another penny to her, not one.  IF she claims medical costs, ask her where, and contact them yourself as you did the school and make arrangements for the child's treatment cost.  DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE SEND HER ANY MORE MONEY.  Unfortunately, the money you have already sent her is a total loss, you cannot recover a penny, but learn from the past and don't repeat it.
549032
go to the states.pick n choose.
117037
give more moneY $$$$$$, i guess. I dont know if there are any other options
435847
We might, but what is your question?
2293
Use the Wish-o-Matic...it will help you decide.
361224
How do you suggest we cut if off you?
592728
Tell us your state. Someone might be able to help you.
119843
Time.\nWe can get our money back, but we can't get our time back.
563657
please let us know how it works out
890688
You state "any help would be appreciated". How did you get stuck with having to make the choice? That's a he ll of a responsibility. Good Luck.
1008221
What is it we have to answer?
57635
Here some more choices.
1089060
I don't know. I'm sorry to hear this. What can we do?
511950
we could....would we really want to?
490497
Definately there is a plan for all of us and we just have to wait and see what it is. Be patient and it will come your way eventually.
1157906
yikes, good question.  \n(1) set up a college account (or pay off their college bills) for our 5 grandkids\n(2) buy one of our daughters her dream horse farm\n(3) set up my dad with full time care AT HOME versus the alternative. He so wants to be independent and we want to give him that.\n(4) I love our home and life, so wouldn't want to change that - but maybe do some minor upgrades here and there. We have cars that are not great, but are all we need.\n(5) we have some priests that are very special to us - we would want to give them money to work on their special projects (seniors, youth and missions in third world countries)\n(6) put the rest in a cash producing income fund so we can grow old comfortably (not in luxury) but be able to not have to worry about waiting for retirement checks to pay bills
208170
We need more information to be able to help you.  The meaning of your question is not clear.