Can't speak with guys who hit on me?
965885
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804506
This sounds like to me that he is flirting too! How exciting!!!!! I wonder are there any times when you are alone around him or are you always around him in a group? If this is the case it seems you need to give him your screen name so he can chat with you one on one, without others listening, and you can get to know him a little better. If this is not an option, then slip him your e-mail address without anyone seeing. If he is interested in you he will DEFINITELY e-mail you. This is a good way to start communicating with him and getting to know him on a one on one basis. Good Luck :-)
799165
yes i agree with the other answer ask him or at the very least tell him where you stand,even thought the guy traditionally asks it is the new generation and some guys just dont know how.or also fear rejection..i hate asking people out its tough to know what to say and evryone isnt so easy about whether you sound""nerdy""or not good luck
149746
which guys are you talking to ???? not me, i guess!!
722683
i agree with grad.   don't belive what other ppl say.  i have the same experience and it turned out that they lied cuz they were jealous of me.\nthey might be trying to keep you away from the guy if he is very attractive.\ndon't give up by other ppl's words.  just ask him out and see what happens
873569
Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.
397096
Maybe the guy you like is staying away cuz you accept the advances (flirt, friendship, etc...) of the other guy, so you do not appear to be available. I would not want to "take a number" either.
512200
really for me the guy just has to give me a really good compliment when he picks me up and then just give me alot of small complements during the date and id be sold. but be sure u watch what u say and DO NOT! look at ne other girls! i hate it when guys do tht to me expecialy after they tell me im pretty cuz that makes me feel like im not very nice looking. if u need more help email me at qtstegman@sbcglobal.net
878597
I'm sure You didn't scare him away....the one thing I can tell you from experience is Just be yourself...most guys like it when you don't have to fake who are with them!
425960
he is probably trying to play it cool. like, "oh hi, i didn't see you there," when he totally did. i know that i do that to guys i like sometimes! try to say hey to him next time he doesn't look at you. maybe that will change things.
852445
You are obviously a very attractive young lady, and these men are acting way out of line and without respect. Just try to ignore them. They will probably never grow up. No women enjoys being talked to or at as if an animal. I would not allow it to bother me, they obviously have little respect for themselves or women in general.  Good luck and God bless****
1169656
Those random guys might been your best bet. why? maybe there shy and wouldn't say anything .If you broke the ice they both might be flattered. try breaking the ice.
237057
you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
802209
A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
515759
huh..? a lot of guys on net just hit on me like in real life ... "yo mama wad up"..etc and some ppl r just shy... give them a break hun..
439830
First of all dont always brag about yourself, Let guys do that for you. Dont be to avaliable either. Kinda play hard to get. now a days guys like it when girls make the first move. A lot of guys may like you but are to scared to talk to you if your really hot.