My best Friend is doing Diet Pills that can Hurt her..should I tell?I dont want her to get mad at me tho?
962444
you need to tell someone...have you tried talking to her?? i would try talking to her and tell her what your concerned about...and tell her that you're going to have to tell an adult if she keeps it up...if and when you do tell she will be mad, but if she is your true friend she'll stay mad for a little bit and then realize that you only did it because you cared and you can go on being frineds...if not then she just stays mad....but either way...you were doing the right thing...it's better to tell and possibly save her life and not be friends than to keep your mouth shut and regret not telling someone when something irreversible happens...
1035907
Tell her the truth... It will hurt but it is better than being fooled...
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
984674
tell her to f**k off and what you want to do with your body is your bussiness. there always going to be people who are going to be jelous and in most cases you should ignore them but telling her off might make you feel better and put her in her place at the same time just dont be so loud or let it escalate into a fight or you might get fired
267683
she is your friend but aparently she cares tooo much about herself..so much that any little thing u say she takes it as an insult ffrom you to her...when she says somethin like that u shoud quickly tell her, " i wasnt talking bout you, your make up looks cool and ur my best friends if u looked bad i would tell you" and tell her u were just giving an opinion ...but dont let her bit*h at you...because if thats what she does you may consider getting a New BEst frieNd
209641
Honestly, you would think that you should tell the person because it is the 'right thing to do' morally.  BUT think about it first  You are going to lose a friend.  You are going to hurt a lot of people and it still wont make it right.  If the person has no idea do not tell them because what you would be doing is another selfish act really.  You are hurting your friend so that you feel better.  So if they don't know just leave their happiness alone.  You already did one bad thing, don't do another to ease your conscience.
746815
yes..Try to note one whole day what she eats..i have a friend too shes obseessed with dieting.\nOur parents are ppl we depend on and want love and attension from..What ever they put in our heads we CAN NEVER forget.\nEven if its OUR own feeling about what they expect fromus.\nShes probably dieting like hell and not telling ya.\nhelp her...plz.
49140
YES! But if possible, come bearing proof! Your friend may be upset and even think you are lying; your friendship may be hurting for a while depending on the kind of person she is, but YOU are her BESTfriend, you should give her the respect and loyality that title deserves. You WILL NOT be responsible for their break up...her man will. Break it to her gently and tell her first that you would never do anything to hurt her unless it would hurt her more not to know. Reverse the rolls...if your lover where cheating on you and your bestfriend knew...would you want her to tell you? How would you feel if you found out and KNEW she didnt tell you about it months before??
192225
You guys need to tell her how you feel.  If she does not shape up, then stop being friends with her.
714683
I think you have every right to be mad, and very, very suspicious. And you had every right to voice your concern, because you just wanted to know what was going on, and if your best friend and your husband really care about you, this wouldn't be such a big issue: They shouldn't be mad about telling you the truth. I honestly feel that their anger is because they are hiding something. Keep in mind, pot does impair your judgement, no matter how many people try to tell you it doesn't. I would suggest talking to your husband one on one, let him know how you feel about the situation, and maybe suggest marital counseling. I hope everything works out for you, and remember that you are in the right about this! Good luck!
683800
would any of your friends lie to you or would they tell you the truth if the problem was switched around. what would you want the truth or a lie. \n\n\nyeah it may hurt you and them but it is better if its now and not later because if you hold you peace and she finds out later then she will never trues you again if she finds out that you knew about it. if you don't tell your risking your friendship, and if you tell the only thing will happen is that they may get upset, but in time they will thank you for being honest. i know that its not easy and it wont get any easier i wish i could tell you that it will but that will be lying.
292708
you should be cool about it, dont trip you wil get in more peoples nerves if you tell your friend she cant talk to her no more and well your friend will probably wont listen to you and stop beying your friend, just 4 that and if you can tell me y you hate her so much, at ritz4feet@yahoo.com ill be waiting and i can tell you more too.
907726
You have to tell her. Its just what friends have to do. I know it's hard to tell her. But she'll think ur not a good friend. And probably will never trust you again. I know it's going to be hard but worth.
206886
Trust me if you are having those urges she senses something isnt right. So you need to tell her. If it ruins the relationship then so be it. But you can't try to shutdown those urges and try to be someone you are not. Its just not fair to anyone. Plus don't you think she deserves to know the truth? Respect her enough to tell her the truth.
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.
463995
first of all, i know people are going to answer MUCH differently than me, but I've been through this (more than once) with friends.\na BEST or REALLY GOOD friend, would keep the secret.  thats right.  dont blab.  if it bothers you, you need to talk to her.  ask her if you can help.  most people just do it for attention, others truly NEED the pain to stop thinking of what bothers them every day.  Some people think that theyre 'rebelling'\nAnd yes, she will hate you for telling.  Even if she does want attention, she'll still hate you.  kiss the friendship byebye. \nConfront her.  tell her it bugs you.  it scares you.  just tell her how you feel.  say that you knew that it would be better to talk to her about it than someone else.  they'll like to hear that.  it shows that they can trust you.  believe it or not, they smiled (inside) even if just for a split second.  \nDont get mad.  Don't say 'If you dont stop, i cant/wont be your friend!'  this, is also a good way to throw away a friendship.  \nDont push it.  If they say they dont want to talk about it.  Dont ask anymore.  drop it.  completely.  BUT...make sure to say that THEY can talk to YOU whenever they feel the need.  this shows trust.\n\nI hope i've helped.  But truly, don't tell.  Even if it doesnt ruin a friendship, it makes it very very awkward.  You wont be 'best' friends anymore.\n\nSORRY IF I WAS TOO BLUNT! :)
416631
If you are really her friend and not just someone trying to hurt her feelings , then I would tell her how people view her and that in the long run she is going to be the one hurt by this behavior. I knew someone like that once, and when she decided to change and get her life back on track ,she actually had to move out of state before she could find someone that wanted to have a relationship with her because everyone knew her reputation.