Is it appropriate to go to a strip club with your husband?
969536
If you do decide to go, first find out if they allow females in the club -- some do not allow women, even if they are escorted by a man. Also, look for a club that is a restaurant, not just a bar, you will feel more comfortable. \n\nAnd of course, make sure that you go with him to an all male dancer strip club afterwards :)
911356
only if husband allows it
721537
For the sake of your marriage, I would not recommend on going to this party.  You have someone at home that loves and cares for you, why would you want to go to a party to see naked men
66027
Sorry to burst your bubble, but strip clubs have strict rules about the customer touching the girls..  And sex with the girls in the club is usually illegal..\n\nAlso, you wouldnt believe the training these girls get to separate the customer from their money...  They will make you believe that you have a shot at being their boyfriend, but it is only a trick to separate you from your money.\n\nStrip clubs are fun places to go with your friends, but only if you know that it is an illusion that will disappear the moment you walk away or run out of money...
53949
Sure! you would probably have alot of fun sharing that experience together. You should also feel good about your relationship that he trusts your reactions and feels close enough to you to extend the invite. Try something new. You might be surprised.
457110
I think that you should take her to a strip club and buy her a private dance...then there is humor, fun, and especially memories...
137497
I HATE TO SAY IT BUT YOU SHOULDN'T GO OUT OF RESPECT OF YOUR GIRLFRIEND.IF SHE IS OF AGE YOU COULD TALK TO HER ABOUT GOING WITH YA'LL OR SEE IF ITS COOL TO GO PLAY SOME POOL WITH HIM INSTEAD. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SHE WENT TO A MALE STRIP CLUB WITH HER FRIEND AFTER SHE KNEW YOU DIDN'T LIKE IT
449854
tell your boyfriend to buy the 2006 calendar in case he forgot that we're in the 21st century. It's totally cool for you to go clubbing. A club isn't just a hook up place it's also a way for u to unwind through dancing, drinking and chatting with your friends. \n\nAs long as you're not picking up guys or giving them your number or letting them write their number on ur bra, it's totally cool and guilt free to go clubbing. \n\nI don't think that the clubbing is the problem at all. Don't feel guilty to want to have fun. you need to have your alone time too even married girls need alone time and girl times. explain that to him. i think the problem really is his trust. He doesn't trust u enough in a setting wherein there are lots of guys around for u to pick. \n\nYou might be able to resolve this by taking him clubbing once or twice. show him that the club doesnt have to be a threatening place that it's actually fun and can be fun for both of u.
52592
Yes, I would.\n\nIf he was serious about it, it's not my job as his partner to rule his life. It wouldn't make me notably uncomfortable. The only thing that would make me hesitate is if he didn't ever want me to come see him perform. I think it would be fun to watch him now and then and, as long as this new activity isn't shutting me out entirely, I'd be happy to let him take his gear off and get down.\n\nI'd want to know all the details, of course. A club for men? Women? Couples? Bachelorette parties?\n\nHe would also be expected to take me out to dinner once in a while, but that would be true even if he wasn't stripping.
979277
He needs your love. To lose your love would be a blow to his ego. You mention he goes to strip bars, could be his own guilt is what he is taking out on you and I will tell you from experience, it does not change unless you both get consouling. (s) \nI had the same in my first marriage, thought it was me, I'm almost 60 now and know it sure as heck was not me, he threw an iron at me when I came out in a sexy nighty. Called me every name one would call a stripper all the slutty names, not anything to make me feel pretty or sexy, I was too young to use my head . . . use your head, he sure won't use his!   He is married, that carries responsability and that means he should not be in a strip bar, he should be with you, one flesh, eh? Please take care of your self, try to get help as a couple if not, you get help enough to get courage to be more independant from him and make some good choices for your future. I bet you are beautiful!  Please trust me, it is not you! Your words and caring show you are!
1052085
No. In fact I would put on a show for her at home and give her all the lap dances she wants. (And I have done that in the past). If a guy is willing to strip for his GF at home and dress up for her with whatever she wants him to wear, then there really isn’t a reason she needs to go to a strip club to find a private dancer!
351348
he's being honest with you, now you know he doesn't keep anything from you, that's a very comforting feeling . i know it sucks that he used to go to strip clubs in the past but he doesn't anymore. in relationships one of the best things is honesty and he's giving that to you...=o)
404438
Not if its disgusting to you. And he shouldn't expect it of you. However, if you are willing to try it and then decide you don't like it, then at least you gave it an honest effort. If he insists, however, then you may have a problem. No one should pressure you into doing something you are not completely willing to do. Not even your husband.
868948
LoL! HEHEHE:) You're funny, I might dance if my husband wasn't in the room. Noone deserves the torture of watching me dance.
628951
Sure, and as for why, just a something new to experence and learn from.  It could easily cause more pain than pleasure.  Learning what your spouse is really doing while you are gone, what your friends really think of you, and then they's just the perverted fun you could have too.  Sounds like a hell of a roller coster ride.
141572
well, the sad truth is that you can't tell your boyfriend who to be friends with.  I understand that you don't like his friend, and that maybe you don't even like who your boyfriend becomes when he is with his friend.  But you can't change him.  You can tell him your concerns and hope that he cares enough for you to stop hanging around with his friend when he is going to strip clubs, but other than that, there really isn't anything that you can do.  Look sweetie, you will learn that you really can't worry about whether or not your man is going to cheat.  If he is, then he is, and if he isn't then you don't need to worry.  but you worrying isn't going to do anything other than make you sick, ya know?  So, just find a way to be happy and comfortable in your relationship.  Be faithful to him and hope that he is doing the same thing.  Trust in your relationship.  This will save you a lot of anguish and pain in the long run.\n\nGood luck!
418640
NO! Dollar dances are tacky beyond words.\nA wedding guest should be able to attend a wedding reception without bringing a single dollar, not for the bar, not for a "wishing well", and certainly not to dance with the bride!\nA wedding reception is a celebration, not a charity benefit.\nThere is NO means of billing the guests that is at all socially correct.\nBesides which, a woman who accepts money to dance is usually found in a much racier environment and while I have nothing at all against strippers, I can't see why any sensible bride would want to emulate one at her reception.