What is the importance of different factors when choosing a partner?
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I am a straight married male but I think your question is a good one for all people, so I hope you won't mind my input.\n\nI met my wife on the internet - It was her mental stimulation/intelligence that first caught my attention.  Mostly it was her aggressive sense of humor.  I love that about her! Her character is very important and I'd say physical attraction is at the bottom of the list.  Since I couldn't 'see' her on the internet, it was obviously her character and personality that attracted me to her.  This worked out beautifully, because if had I passed her on the street, I may never have noticed her.  Isn't it unfortunate that the "hotties" probably distract us from the more fullfilling relationships that we could be having?  I'm glad that this time my eyes had nothing to do with the girl I fell in love with.  Anyway, here's how I break it down:\n\n50% character\n40% mentally stimulating\n10% physical attraction\n\nThanks! Your question was stimulating.  Good luck in whatever relationship you choose!  (If you are gay/lesbian please see my apology in that section of this site or click my picture to find it.)
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These relationships can work. What's important is that you both understand what each others differences and similarities are and understand each others background, values and beliefs. There must be respect for each other because both of you come different environments which is base on your age. I believe when two people take a chance and get to know each other, they will discover beautiful things about each other. This is true in any relationship. I believe the most important thing in a relationship is taking two people from various backgrounds and the joy is making a relationship work. Remember there much give and take in any relationship.
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Opposites most definitely do attract.  It is easier to communicate with someone who isn't like you than it is with someone who is.  All you both need to learn to do is to talk openly, not blame each other and listen (really listen).  There are no great communicators or perfect relationships, but through trial and error and giving a relationship a good solid try has a tendency to work.  Two people can always work their issues out, if they really try to understand each other.  Life is never straight forward and simple.  Everything worth having is worth working for.
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It's both.  Any really intimate relationship shared with another tends to be complex.  Some of the  compromises/things you do for love are very easy and fun.  But, the issues/problems that can arise can become very difficult.  The trick is to choose a person who is just as commited to your needs/pleasures/dreams as you are to theirs.  Also choose a person who is willing to work thru the hard times.  Relationships are seldom 50/50.....but the balance should be close.
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You must know for sure that the one you have chosen to be your mate is the adequate soul for you and you to them.  This is a partnership with the extra perks such as love, support, kids and so many other great things.\n\nAbove all, marriage is not easy!  Keep that in mind so that you don't become discourage once you're married.
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If you have to chose one,be with someone who loves YOU more...you chances of being hurt are less and you will be taken care of much better then by someone who does not love you as much...
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Partnerships strugle. Especially if one person isn't lifting their portion of the work. If your partner is not willing to sell or give up his portion, you can't kick him out of your partnership without first desolving the company. Additionally, the risk is shared. So if your partner screws up, you're held responsible.\n\nPartnerships can be good if both communicate and are clear on their expectations of each other. Specifying criteria in writing before creating the business partnership will help you out in the long run.
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hmm... there's no real answer. it depends on both partners--their sexual appetite, their idea of a relationship (serious, long-term, short-term, fun, etc.).
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It really depends on the women.  Each persons relationship history helps her to define her future partner.  Here are a few qualities I desire.\n\nGood sense of humor (The funnier the better!)\nIs social and has an outgoing personality\nIs stable in his career\nLikes the outside more than the TV\nNot afraid to fall in love\nIs sincere and honest\n\nHope it helps~  :)
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Trait #1 - you are both equal in every regard...there is not a boss, your relationship should be 50-50.\n\nTrait #2 - keeping an open line of communication is key...you should alway be able to discuss your differences without any bias or underminding\n\nTrait #3 - keep your love alive...show the person that you love them; it doesn't take a lot of time or money to do so.\n\nTrait #4 - remember why you are with this person; you got together because you love them and they make you happy\n\nTrait #5 - the ideal mate is the one you choose because they love you for who you are....NOT who they want you to be
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The nice guy.\n\n\nOvertime, looks will fade and money will be spent. If you can't respect and trust your partner to be good to you, then why bother?
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If you are looking for a life long partner, you will be together a long time, come under many pressures and encounter many problems. That spark is what sees you through the difficult times. That is what you should be aiming for
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Depends.  What do you have to offer in a relationship?
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honesty \nsupport\nlove\nkindness\npassion\nloyalty\npersonality \nfriendship\n\nall those qualities are very important to me in my relationship.
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time  to find a partner you are ready
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depends on my purpose...if i want a serious relationship, intelligence is far more important, if not, well you know iq does not matter sometimes...
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We want someone who will allow us to be successful.  Doesn't matter if it is professional, sexual etc.  We want someone to help us be better, support us in all that we do.\n\nSomeone who will pick us up, dust us off and throw us back into the fight when we fall.\n\nWe choose our spouse,  we choose them to be there for us, support us, please us, and comfort us.  Being chosen to be that person is very special.