Does guys really break it off from lady's for the holiday, so they don't have to purchase a gift?
957217
Some guys do and they are complete jerks. Mature women understand when a man cannot afford a lavish gift for the holidays. I graduate on 12/10, Christmas is 12/25, my birthday is 1/26 and Valentine's Day is 2/14.  Thats a lot of freaking gifts in a short period! I have already explained to my boyfriend that I do not expect gifts for all those days and that him just being there is enough.
9689
I don't think you NEED to get your boss a gift but if you'd like to, stick to something not too personal and not too expensive.  Don't want the boss to think you're kissing up.  A holiday plant, candy, a book, cookies, or desk stress relievers for that boss that's too uptight!
1049870
I wouldn't be pissed, but its probably the last gift i would want. Tools, CDs, movies, etc. thats what guys want.
281776
Your wedding reception is the same day as mine!  I say take the gifts and send them a thank you.  What would be the alternative?  To hand it right back to them and tell them again that you would prefer no presents?  A lot of couples keep the ceremony itself to immediate family only and then invite the rest of the guest to join in the celebration with them.  Gifts are not for the ceremony alone, they are for the unity of the two.  They are for the celebration in general.  Also, many times when the couple expresses the "no gift" preference, it can also be read as "we prefer money."  It's your wedding!  Open a gift or two!  It may even be something the two of you could really use.
143452
Wait a minute.  Why do you have to buy him anything?  If you guys aren't even together yet then don't worry about getting him a gift even if he did get you one.  But if you must get him something, since you aren't dating yet, I would suggest a gift certificate to one of his fav stores or restaraunts.  You could put it inside a card or a box of chocolate.  Also, guys love food so you could bake him some cookies or brownies.  Go cheap.  He probably doesn't expect you to get him anything anyway.
365273
Neither because, they will enjoy MORE when you give them YOUR check-book, credit cards and all the cash in your pockets...then allowing them to shop until they drop.\n\nMen need sex, women do not really need it; they need Unlimited Spending Money (USM).
313857
You did not have to give her the gift in the first place.  But you are too good a guy.  You genuinely love her.  However, dont wait for her to come back unless she is unattached right now.  I dont think that a gift (no matter how expensive) should be the criterion for a person to love and respect somebody (especially when this somebody loves her dearly and she chooses to dump him).  In fact, if she is genuine but does not love you anymore, she should return the gift politely.
942486
Yes.  A little gift wouldn't hurt.  Nothing too big though, just in case he doesnt get anything for you, you don't want him to feel bad.  I reccomend a funny little gift that relates to a little joke or funny event that the two of you have shared in the past month.  If you can't think of anything, always go to something that will make him laugh a little.
840693
The fact that you said you "have" to buy him a present makes it sound more like an obligation than something out of the heart. How about just spending time together? That beats everything. But that's just me.
747315
Are you asking for presents from a guy so that you will go out with him? That makes you a common whore. Don't do that. If you want to go on the date go and if not then don't go. But do not expect to paid to go. Disgusting.♠
680211
Yes, but the gifts can't have any real value.  You could bake cookies for example, but you couldn't give them money.
400688
This is interesting.  Sounds like a one way relationship there.  I am sorry but gifts should not be asked for, they should come from the heart of the person buying them.  A gift is a gift is a gift it should be given out of love not pressure.  Don't feel bad.  There is definately some selfishness going on and you need to decide whether you want to live the rest of your life in a relationship like that.
150194
For women it is the super bowl of love.  If a guy fails to provide flowers, chocolate, a card, and some other present, he is toast.  \nFor guys, it's a day that we are expected to buy all these things that we really don't want to buy.  However, we do it without complaints because it make the woman happy and keeps us out of trouble.  \nIf you do nothing for him, then he may feel he is off the hook and can relax.  That is the nicest present you can give him.
70507
No.  It is a faux holiday designed to sell jewelry and greeting cards.  If we treat each other right every day we don't need a special day set aside to remind us to appreciate each other.
1010114
no always take a gift...............//...................
404680
You don't ask for gifts. I just don't get it. Why do people EXPECT gifts and tell people what they want. I think that's tacky as hell!
11410
From experience; yes, if its a female a plant is nice or for both a gift card from Blockbusters is nice for them and their family. Or a gift card for dinner at a fairly nice restuarant.