How can i keep my boyfriend and best friend happy??
958014
I'd say screw the best friend, they say boyfriends will come and go, but friends will stay forever, well I say, if he makes you happy, and meets your standards, it doesn't matter what your friend thinks ok? she probably just doesn't want you to have a boyfriend because she doesn't have one, (if applicable), i have seen it done before. Also, don't mix up true love with puppy love, and be careful your not just in love with the thought of being in love, instead of him. It's also good for him to think he is under you, that way he feels he has to work harder to keep your love, instead of men who think they are too good, and treat you like dirt, ok? It's always best to have it so your man knows that he is lucky to have you.
1181660
(boyfriend)\nmuscular, but not too much\nknows how to make me feel good\nwarm
925853
Wow, ok first thing is the boyfriend probably has a right to be jealous...if you and your best friend are as close as it sounds, I'd be jealous too. You need to step back a little bit, they are in a relationship and you should keep the friendship boundaries in tack. Dont over step them. Also, if you feel your best friend looks at you a little differently then he should...talk to him about it, honestly, if he is your best friend you should be able to talk to him about anything. Keep in mind, he is taken and you have to watch it when your hanging around him....best friends last forever, but when someone else is involved things get messy and the best thing for you to do is stay his best friend....emphasize on Friend. If he wants to pursue more with you then he will do the right thing, if not...then let him and his boyfriend be in a relationship. Good Luck, I hope this helped a little
90292
enjoy every minute of it if he makes you makes you happy... its so easy to allow yourself to be stucked into what everyone else thinks...forget them do you and just be happy...
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
96290
ignore the jerks...don't stay w/ him if thats not gonna make u happy...it'll just make u miserable and if u don't want this relationship, end it...trust me, i just got outta one that i had felt this way in...just tell him how u feel and why he doesn't make u happy, but if u love him and there's something that u both could do to work it out, try patching things up and get on w/ it. GOOD LUCK!!!
418304
This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
80030
I know how you feel.  I am in a long distance relationship myself and my boyfriend's best friend is a woman.  If you really love your boyfriend then you have to trust him.  Trust is the most important thing you can have in a relationship.  You built up a trust with him while you were together now you have to build up a long distance trust.  It is very hard to do but you can get through it.  If he assures you he won't cheat and if he hasn't shown any signs of cheating then don't worry.  It will get easier with time.
834045
Invite your best friend into the mix..that will liven things up..
1111642
D*mn,  your girlfriend should be happy! Don't doubt yourself, I wish my boyfriend could endure for so long!! :)
761230
treat a boyfriend just like you'd treat a friend\nthere really is no difference until you get to the point with all the kissing and mushy stuff\nbe urself like you r with ur friends
1172405
the best stress relief is sex, but there are also other things you can do like journaling, or drawing/painting, taking a nice hot bath, listening to some relaxing music, taking a nice long nap, reading, going for a walk, it just depends on what make you happy.  I usually just watch a good, funny movie and take a bath and go to bed early. Just having a good, long, convo with your best friend can make you feel better.
139016
If your boyfriend trusts you then ya'll shouldn't have this problem. you should leave him...he apparently doesn't care that he wants you to never talk to your best friend again!
642834
This is always a tricky situation, and its often feared that the friendship might be ruined if the other person doesn't feel the same way. I think that if you two are 'best friends' and really close and have a healthy relationship, then if he doesn't feel the same way, maintaining the friendship should be easy.\n\nI think you should tell him and for all you know he could be feeling the exact same way, and having the same fears! So take the risk. If you don't then you are risking a really good chance to be with someone in a relationship that you really care for.\n\nPlan the right way to do it for you- whether that be on the phone, face to face, through a hand written letter, email or msn...whichever is best for you, the point is that you do it and get it out in the open of your relationship. \n\nJust remember of all the great possibilities, that's why you should do it.
14222
If youre really into your boyfriend and she's really your best friend...\n\n1. Let her know how much of a betrayal it would be.\n2. Seperate them, if you go out, go out in threes and dont leave them alone.\n3. Let him know whats going on and how important your friendship is with her.
418871
Well, to behonest with you, i'd suggest that you just sit back and relax. Who told you that you don't make your boyfriend happy, hm? Was it him? No..\nJust listen to your guts, not to your brains :) And, just in case you should ask yourself if your boyfried loves you or not: well, he's together with you, so why bothering yourself with this additional question :) Stay cool, relax, listen to your heart and never mind making him happy - you'll never know how, if you don't ask him directly :)\nAnd if you both want to 'spice up your life', I guess you don't need any advice, cuz men response directly to one thing - and you certainly know what I mean.\ntc, marifa5970 from Austria/Europe
961227
If hes your boyfriend and best friend then sit down and tell him that your a person who likes to keep thing discreet.