My mom likes to listen to cds of mine, but when i want to listen to them myself she gets mad at me?
969355
Believe me ... you would rather have a mom that has the same taste in music than a mom who can't stand your choices and doesn't let you play it in the house ... !\n\nJust ask her nicely if you can have them back once she's done listening to them ... or if you can take them to a friends house and burn a few copies for your mom to keep herself - that would be so sweet - I'm sure you know somebody that can burn Cd's for you ... I wouldn't make a huge deal about this one - it's just music ...shoot me and my mom go to concerts together - Oh yeah Tim McGraw is so sexy live ... lol ... !
1041845
Breathe dude. Don't let her have that kind of power over you. You can't control others, and sometimes people just ain't right, don't let her harm you more by making you so angry. Just let it go, and keep your peace. You'll get paid, or you won't. Not in your control, just don't help her, or count it as a gift and move on!
179547
Say this to yourself over and over again "It's not your fault!".  Really.  Your mom could be frustrated about so many other things and she may just be taking it out on you.  I think it would be good to ask her this straight out and she might just explain to you why instead of you getting the brunt of her anger each and every time she's frustrated.
646674
no your mother doesn't hate you! moms are just people and sometimes they make mistakes, but its not your place to tell her that she is wrong, she's the mom. often times if you want to be heard you have to make sure you are 'presenting your case' in a reasonable and respectful manner, even if what you are saying makes sense nobody is going to hear you if you are ranting and raving, i'm not saying that you are just letting you know. when you are both calm and reasonable tell her you'd like to talk to her, think about what you will say beforehand and stay calm.
1134422
I think your angry because your hurt.    You desire to stay in one place,  don't want to keep starting over, you want stability in your life and want to be able to believe that what your mom says is true.  I think your anger is a combination of many other emotions.  Resentment, sadness and frustration. What you could do, is tell your mom, when you are not angry,  that you feel hurt at the fact that her words and her actions are not the same. Next time she says i promise, say mom, i love you but don't make promises you can't keep.  It may not seem like a big statement to say but it will let out some of your feelings. When you disagree with someone and you don't express how you feel and save it for later you are a time bomb waiting to happen. So each time you have the opportunity to express and emotion other than anger let it out even if it is just a little bit. After some practice you might see that your anger won't be as intense.
416074
I think they S U C K suck! my friend has all of them!  They kill every song! And they change swears and "Bad Words" to crap words.  Like in beverly hills where it says "my automobile is a peice of crap" they say " My automoblie is a peice of junk" Then they scream "JUNK" again! Its so stupid! My friend makes me listen to it and she plays it at most of her parties.  I guess she likes it but some people only get it becuz there parents won't get them the real CDs.
32099
Headstrong, I grew up with a Mom that was like that.  Her opinion was the right opinion and she didn't even listen to other people.  I don't know where that need to always be right comes from but I do know a lot of people that seem to have that condition. : )
287030
Yeah well Ive got this crazy b.... living in my head that likes to argue and scream obscenities, so I make all these weird noises, it drives her crazy.
600024
This morning with my 16-year-old daughter. She made the mistake of asking why she had to listen to me, anyway?\n\nI pointed out that since I pay for everything from the clothes on her back to the food that she eats to the $150 soccer cleats I just bought her that she HAD to have -- then she has to listen to me. \n\nI also pointed out that since I still have the receipt for those yet unworn cleats, I would have no problem bringing them back if she didn't smarten up and act like the mature human being she keeps telling me she is.\n\nShe decided to smarten up.
111915
Just tell her that the cd's cost you money, and ask her to reimburse you.
147536
You haven't given us enough inforamtion to be as helpful as we might be otherwise.  The answer depends on how old you are and what it is your mom is doing that is annoying you.  Is it that you are doing something she doesn't agree with and trying to stop you and so you are annoyed?  Is your mom extra stressed or tired right now?\n\nI agree with other posters.  YOu need to think about what you are doing too.  Moms don't usually change and become  annoying for no reason.  Talk to your mom and see what the problem is.\n\nYOu will only ever have one mom and she won't be around forever, and someday you may look back and wish you had been more understanding.
681020
oh boy. sounds like me and my mom. I just walked away when she started to irritate me. Don't acknowledge her bad behaviour at all. But don't expect her to stop being this way. you will have to deal with it for the rest of her life. So just try and tell yourself that you will leave the house one day and you won't have to deal with her. Just try and remember to not fight back. Let her win. Even if your beyond right. Because she's only looking to argue. not win an argument. Ignore her critcisms of other people and just try to tune her out when she talks. That's your best bet. GOOD LUCK
1121860
I went through that stage too. I dont really know how to explain it lol. I just grew out of it. Sometimes she still gets on my nerves lol. Moms like to be nosey and ask random questions and I think sometimes I was just like seriously leave me alone lol. Try to be patient. She loves you!
447252
everyone goes through a period of time, usually your teens, when you hate your parents. when i was 16 i thought i knew everything. now that I'm older and a mom, i understand why she did the things she did. just remember that she isn't doing it to piss you off, she only wants what's best for you.
598012
they are awesome. But i'm not going to tell you that. Why don't you listen for yourself. You don't need people to tell you what you should tihnk. Jeezzzzzz people these days are helpless. Ok i'll break this down for you. Alright first you buy a cd. Then you put it in the cd player. Listen to the songs. Then this is the hard part. Say "i like it" or "i don't like it"
1004008
what?!?? your mom SHOULD force you. she doesn't want you to grow up and be a waste in society. grow up. you will always have to do things you don't want to do.
731113
Well it doesn't sound like she's the "listening" type. So even if you tell her that she's hurting you it may not make a difference but its worth a try. Do you have any nearby relatives? maybe you should take some time to breathe also. Remember you are only sixteen and may not be mature enough to make a life changing decision so be careful because it may upset her. Also remember that you only get one mother and should respect and cherish the one you do have even when they're intolerable. Don't keep this bottled up inside express your feelings freely but respectably and may God bless you in doing so. Good Luck!