Is my grandma being weird?
966214
I think she's being paranoid....up her meds...lol
450365
dearest grandma, it is what it is and they have the best treatments ever! It has been proven that having a good attitude and positive outlook, helps the mental health  and prognosis in it's self. advanced! My own mother survived a double masestomy and I have to double think an unknown fear away, everyday! So! My Advise is, Don't assume it, assume it is not and be on your day. Until you are told OR YOU ACTUALLY FEEL DIFFERENT!?OR is your grandma lonley? Maybe she needs extra family time. Parks with ducks?
625903
Do whatever feels right to you. You mother may be trying to make up for lost time. But if you are not comfortable moving in with her stay with your grandmother and go to her house for visits. Be honest with her, but also be willing to help her.
983873
Why are some people so bitter? My grandmother could be the same way, but fortunately never to me. Probably because I didn't see her that often! But yours lives with you. The next time she says something nasty, immediately call her on it! Don't wait and give her time to forget (some people don't even realize how bad they are, I think ~ not a case of Alzheimer's, just a case of nobody ever called them on their poor behavior!). Say something like, "Grandma, what ever happened to you to make you so bitter?" or "Are you always so condescending, or just around your family?" Put it bluntly, then let her have time to think about it. You may not see immediate results, if any. But at least you will know you tried. Don't be mean, though, or you will be sinking to her level ~ just be honest. And hum. =)  I tend to hum or whistle a lot when people are *so* getting on my nerves that I'm about to burst. It helps to distract me as well as drown their noise out of my head ~ some days I'm humming the whole day away! God bless, and best wishes!
979475
If I were you I have no clue what I would do sounds to me like your grandfather needs help. Anyhow my advice is to put him in a rest home, that way you dont have to deal with it. And your grandfather has a girlfriend? No offense but thats kinda messed up. Thats not something you hear everyday.
712432
It's very clear that you feel your not doing anything wrong because your mom does this same thing to your grandmother all the time. Don't allow yourself to repeat these behaviors no matter what. It's not a good thing to talk back or yell at your mom no matter what. If she's acting crazy and yelling at you then remove yourself from the situation. Yelling and fighting does not solve the problem and doesn't make it easier for someone to listen to you. All that this does is create tension and a lot of confusion. Your mom has no respect for your grandmother if she's yelling at her all the time. Do you really want to be that way with your mom as well??? Don't look at the fact that your mother is doing it so you should do it as well. You need to be the one that stops this right here and right now because if you don't it's just going to be passed down to one of your children as well.
696363
Yea, I feel she is trying to tell you that you ask really vague and moronic questions on Yahoo Answers. That is what I think anyway....you might want to ask her though,,,,,,,,,good luck!
1068548
Well, I feel someone in the house when I'm alone but I'm not creeped out by it. I believe that my dead grandma is probably here. Even if there IS someone there (a ghost or whatever) in the house with you theres no need to be afraid of it. Welcome whatever is there. Leave it alone and it will do you the same.
833772
Talk to your mother and let her know how important this tradition is to you.  Maybe she has a reason for wanting to do it this year?  Perhaps if you talk with her you can change her mind or come up with a compromise.  Or perhaps there is another family member who will take you to your grandmothers.
418280
May be she feels like she would give the best possible education to your kids and no grandmother or grandfather would be able to substitute her guidance ..... \nO'K, I do not know what your case is but here is ours: I don't like the way our grandparents had raced their own children and that is why I would rather not let them rasing my kids. At the end the babes are ours ( belong to two of us ) and not to any of our parents. I would not let any of my kids' grandparents raise them or control the way I am taking care of them. My husband's sisters, for example are very spoiled and are a perfect examples of two big failiours of life/their mother's education who literary can not survive without the generous hand of their familly..... I would never let any of my babes to be close to them or to be rased by their mother: And it is not because I am stubborn, it is because I do not want my dauthers to act like them and have a bad examples around.....\nOf course I would let them see my kids but I will not leave them alone in their house for even one minute. I would rather pay a babesitter then let his mom take care of my kids. \n\nYou two have to realise where the involvement in sb's life stops and where the control over this kid's life starts.   This though, does not give her the green light to totally shut'em out of their grandchildren's life. You have to ask yourself if there is some deeper reason why she would not want them to participate in your kids lives. Once you find this you will know how to adjust the situation. Remember many things stay hidden ( or not so obvious and hurting ) for the husband as they have been for the wife. Maybe you donot know what exactly has ( or 'had' in the past ) happened between your wife and your mother.
70965
call a relative .. grandma is best and have them contact your mother to tell her that .. her daughter? .. needs her or whatever the situation is .. tell the relative to tell your mother .. if you cannot stay with him because of abuse or something you need to contact an authority .. tell a relative what's going on and that you need to get out of the house
288580
I assume you are asking how to deal with your boyfriends Grandma.  I agree you need to talk to your boyfriends but don't be rude about it.  The next time she brings it up just say different people believe different things and we all have to do what we feel comfortable.  I grew up Catholic and my mother in law hates the catholic religion and bashes it constantly.  I would just listen to her and say well that's not what I learned or believe but you have a right to your opinion.  You don't want to upset his grandma especially if they are close.  Try to avoid the subject and learn about a few things she likes so you can ask her questions and keep her busy talking about other things.
317612
hi there granny\nhow's the oz grandpa i sent there?\nis he any of good?\nhe wrote me some letters saying that he's never been happier in his life lol =)
686526
you are in tune with things of this nature is all. you recognize this instance because you were so close to your grandmother. you may very well have done this before but not realize it. you should be more attentive in the future\nand see if you notice a pattern develope.It is a scary, yet\ninteresting gift to have. alot of premonitions are kind of vague, but you caught the details of your grandmothers death. I did the same with my grandmother. she sat on her porch as i left her home.I looked back and saw a kind of glow around her. I knew i would not see her again. She died \nless than a week later with no warning.You should follow your intuition on these matters.
58517
My mother swears that when I was about 3 years old, she overheard me talking to myself in my bedroom.  She asked who I was talking to and I told her it was "Grandma".  Apparently she laughed and said OK.  Several days later I went to my grandmother's house and she and my mother decided to dig through some old family photos which had been stored away and it was while they were going through the old pictures that I picked one out and announced that I had talked to "her" the other day.  It was the only surviving picture of my great-grandmother... a picture I could have never seen before as it had been in the attic.  I can't say that I did or didn't have this conversation with my great grand-mother, but my mother still insists it happened... and it was over 30 years ago!
561208
Well intil recently I was taking  care of my elderly grandpa while raising a child by myself working two jobs AND going to school.  I just graduated and am sooo glad that I was able to make it.  Taking care of my elderly grandpa has been trying at times mainly because he is stubborn and old and moody and when things start hurting him he gets grumpy and lashes out at me and my daughter.  My grandpa is still mobile and can get out sometimes but mostly I do almost all of the shopping and cooking and cleaning and other house work for him.  We also live out in the country so I do a lot of yard work like mowing etc.  But I would not change it for the world when I was nine I lost both of my parents and it was my grandpa who raised me and although I could be anywhere else but here I will never leave his side.  Hope this helps and feel free to e-mail me or IM me anytime.
1134845
lol thats easy. ALLLLLL grannys are.\n\nTry and think how it was it their times. It works for me.\n\nAlso, something that makes them happy is if you ask Questions about their past and get all excited about it. They will be less annoying with you in future.