Is marrying a girl form other caste is good or bad?
970748
Wake up sir and please for once be more realistic! \n\nLove has nothing to do with caste! If you love her with your whole heart and you know that she'll be the only one that can make you happy, then go for it despite your parental objection.\n\nSometimes in life we have to make our decision. Our parents wants the best for us but IT IS ONLY US THAT KNOWS WHAT WE TRULY WANT AND WHICH BEST IS RIGHT FOR US!
1014930
what is the probs.....marry any girl whom you like
58990
it works with ruthless discrimnation\n\nyou are not supposed to marry, associate with, have business dealings with, or even acknowledge others outside your caste.
521668
You want to marry the FANTASY of her.  You don't know enough of the real her.  She poops, farts and wakes up with morning breath.  Marriage is hard enough when you know what you're getting into, much less when you're living in a fantasy land that probably has very little basis in reality.
163453
Well, indian cultures does'nt encourage much on  having a girl-friend. Well we do have but not like those of western.\nOur pre-marriage activities/ seeking activity differs a lot from western, almost 90% of marriages are arranged one. Orthodox hindu family puts a restiction on these activities(western/european approach to marriage). Already a lot  western culture has penetrated in our environment to change the traditional approach. But i think ,however it's up to batman to answers your question as it depends on how he takes this.
319090
I think this works best if one of you is less religious and the other one is responsible for the religion of the children.  That seems to be the way Shah Rukh Khan and his wife have it worked out -- he isn't very involved in his religion (Islam), so the children are more Hindu than Muslim (or so it appears from what I have heard expressed on talk shows).  \n  Children will be the biggest problem inside the marriage -- what will you teach them?  Outside the marriage, it depends on where you live.  I think Muslims may have more of a problem with your marriage than Hindus will, but outside those two religions, I don't think anyone will care.
648305
You like the bad girls, but marry the good girls.
944917
After marriage it is good if you are living in a joint family. The expenditures are less and you can make & maintain a good account. If you want to go anywhere either party, marriage, get together etc. with your betterhalf without locking your locker and other things, you easily go. \n\nOtherwise if your betterhalf is not interest to live with your other family members than you are help less. You life is "Dhobi ka kuta ghar ka na ghat ka". If you are living in a joint family you have better experience than me.
654835
From working for an Indian couple....I have found out that most marriages in India are arranged from the time the couple are babies!  The couple I worked for, she was 2, he was 5 when they were betrothed by their parents.  So I'm thinking that finding true love and marrying your true love is something rare...and that might be why they are portrayed as such in so many movies there.\n\nI do know the lady of the couple told me she would "pick" 3 men for her daughter to have a choice to marry...not as bad as being betrothed to only one...but still, just 3?
1138575
yes...it's been heard that a man should always put his family first above all else. except God obviously. being "married to your job" can hinder any relationships you might have. also depending on what you do and whom you work around can hinder it as well. it just depends on if the girl is the one you want to be with...how you react is what she'll see.
415194
There's only one real race: the human race. So there really is no such thing as a mixed marriage. All human beings are more than 99% identical genetically. Less than 1% of our genes make up things like hair color, eye color, height, and skin color. Asking of it's okay for a black person and a white person to have children is like asking if it's okay for a tall person and a short person to have children, because skin-color is no more relevant than height or eye color.
226277
i am from the west and i have been to India and yes i believe so.   However i think they work for different reasons.    There is a sense of obligation to your family when the arrange your marriage.  I met people who were not in favor of arranged marriage but did not want to disobey or shame their parents so they would go through with it when the time was right.  I divorce in that sense would shame the family.  Also because it is arranged and in many Indians case Dowry is exchanged it is more like a business deal.  In the West our parents are not involved.  For the most part you decided even if your parents don't like them.  So if it does not work you get a divorce and no one is ashamed of you
416243
you already answered your question when you said you love her, i mean you love another girl and engaged to another woman ,may be thats not fair to her or you ,you should think about that ,even if she is from another religion but it doesnt mean she is from another planet.
947332
I'm Indian and Arab. A lot of times, culture does play a big role in marriage, and many people still have arranged marriages. The parents want to find a spouse who will be an asset to the family, and compatible with their child. \n\nCulture and religion tend to play a very large role.\nI don't have issues with marrying anyone outside of our culture, but many people would. Keep the blood, "pure."\nIt's unfortunate, but it does allow the culture to continue as it does.\n\ni was never allowed to date anyway :)
432422
NO! marriage is a special thing a man and woman do together because of love and deep devotion, not something a money-hungry person does!
1024040
Actors and actresses marry other actors and actresses for  their "identity." That is why their marriages do not last too long. All for image, not the real person.\n\nPeople who marry you for YOU, stay married forever.
122976
People marry for love,\n\nnot for body parts.