how can i get a guy to like me if he dosnt know who i am ?
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You need to get yourself noticed by him.  Chasing him makes you seem desperate.\n\nTake a look at your wardrobe and see if you can make yourself more noticable with your clothes and the way you present yourself.\n\nI'm a guy and I can tell you one thing that entices me is when a girl becomes friends with a friend of mine and ignores me (not in a mean way though).   Try to chum up with one of his closest friends.
263315
To get a guy to like you that is right for you just be yourself.
41512
All you have to do is be cool and act normal. Be yourself so that he can see the real you.Never let the fake you come out. Because if its not you than he will look past you.
482623
try the whole 'hard to get' thing..if he 'knows' you like him, but u somehow prove him wrong, he'll prolly like you right back, in whihc case u can let him know u DO like him
520080
This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
177245
Be yourself so that the person gets to know you as you.
543825
hi.\njust be urelf .never ever change ur self for a guy..in  99.9%  of cases he is not worth changing for :)......f u will change to a better person then ur doing it for URself and not for him.........just be urself f he doesnt notice U then he doesnt deserve u and hes BLIND and a loser just ignore him ...f u ignore him he might miss ur presence or something and then he will act diffrently.....\n\n\ngooooood luck
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
289457
The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
1130210
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
1032350
look confident \nsmile \nflirt a lil don't look desperate\njust make sure you don't look negative\nI find that just scares them off lol\nor tell him you like him\nbring it up in a conversation in a way it doesn't seem out of the blue\nor..just ask him out
273216
Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
238674
If he doesn't know you exist, talk to him!! Say something like I like your shirt, or even hi for a couple of days, then gradually say more and more as you get to know him. Eventually you can work up the courage to ask him out, or maybe he will ask you out!! If he knows you exist but doesn't care, BACK AWAY!!! If you keep bothering him he is just going to label you as annoying or desperate. Whatever the case, its best to let your feelings be known instead of having regrets. The least that can happen is that he will say no, and then you can at least say you tried.
540803
You can't make some one like you.  It's just something that happens.  But you could try doing some of the things he likes to do.  Show him that you two have some things in common.  Send subtle signals without coming on too strongly and not acting like a crazy stalker.  That's definately a turnoff and alittle freaky.  Other than that, he's either going to fall for you or he's not.  There isn't much else you can do.  Go out with other guys and do the things you like.  Don't NOT date because it's not HIM who's doing the asking.  Sometimes all guys need is to see that you aren't available then they realize how much their missing.
146540
you cant actually make someone like you . most of the time girls try to make themselves someone there not dont do that. if you really want a guy to like be yourself. if this guy has sisters or something try to befriend them theyll sort of introduce you to him and then you might want to dress yourself up a little, dont overdo it, and be the sweet kind person you are.\nDont throw yourself at him either because then hell think your easy and he'll just want to get in your pants.
260069
dont worry about it just go as your self if he really likes you than he wont care wat u look like  :)
583075
Simple question...simple answer. Be yourself. One day the guy you like will like you back. If a boy judges you before even getting to know you...hes not worth your time. He is only looking for status and arm candy...and not a good relationship. \nbest of luck