Lesbian online relationship?
964430
Might be fun or, at least interesting, to persue online. I have a friend online and I have pretty much the same relationship, as you do with Alice, so I know where you're coming from. \nIs she into girls, besides you? Is she coming to your state for college b/c you're there? You said, "possible that she's coming", which means you may not get to see her? Can you wait a whole 11+ months for her to "possibly" show up? No, I'd definately do the online thing till you can be together. Maybe you girls will find out eventually that you were just meant to be soul mates and best friends, and not lovers. Maybe you were meant to be together. Maybe you two will end up leaving a trail of broken guy's hearts everywhere you go. Being in college, and not being tied down (ie boyfriend) this could be your oppurtunity for a once in a lifetime, amazing experience. \nI'd definately speak to her (yea, like you dont already! lol) and find out her feelings on this matter. Dig deep, and see what she thinks...\nGood luck, and I wish you (and "Alice") all the best!!!\n;o)
829626
'I would agree with everything Mindy said. For I too am in an identical situation to her. There's nothing wrong with meeting people thro' the internet, and if you then fall in love, distance becomes just a hurdle to overcome. In fact, meeting and falling in love thro the internet may be more real because the natural male/female urges that can sometimes get in the way, initially are not there. And so, you build up a strong friendship first. And that is the foundation of a strong relationship.So, definately, go for it
256938
It is possible to fall in love with someone you've come to know on-line.  I've known couples who have met on-line and are happily married.  I believe it is completely possible.  Congratulations on finding that someone special.\n\nI suggest you plan on setting up a meeting, and see if that same chemistry exists outside of cyberspace.  Sometimes people feel much more comfortable and are able to be themselves when there's a computer between them, than when they are there in person.  Give it some time and effort and hopefully you'll have a connection in real life that is as strong or stronger than the one you have via email.\n\n"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get--only with what you are expecting to give--which is everything. " ~Katherine Hepburn
919874
I think that any relationship online is ridiculous.\n\nYou need to wake up and realize that going out into public and meeting peopl eis the only way to meet "the one" anyone u meet online could be bsin u.\n\nGood gracious people WAKE UP!!
362983
thats fine i guess...I met someone over the internet as well and we slept together after seeing eachother twice! I was a bit messede up after that, but things are going ok...we are not together though, but things are slowly moving to the next level...Dnt feel bad about being attractive to someone...as long as you used protection tten i dnt see what the big deal is...I asked a similar question not too long ago. And see...you guys are still together... And dnt take what Khalidnm2003 said to heart...When guys do it it's great...But as soon as a woman enjoys her sexual self we are referred to as $luts! You dnt need people bring you down...Plus you are a grown woman so why the heck not...Power to you sister!!!
297784
Yes it is very possible to fall in love online. I am a living witness!!
252050
I found my wife in a chatroom at gay.com but I certainly do not recommend that method for everybody.  \n\nI recommend going places you like to go and doing things you like to do, just as I would for anybody lesbian or not.  These places are where you'll meet people who have things in common with you, which is what anybody is looking for.  Making lots of friends, being socially active and making yourself available all help.  Be honest, be real, but most of all have fun and enjoy yourself.  \n\nFR
1018076
Have you ever been with a female before?  I don't think you're a lesbian because you have admitted that you want to marry your boyfriend and have children with him.  I think you're just curious about being with a woman.  If it's only for the sexual aspect of it, why not let your boyfriend watch?  That should please all parties involved.  :O)
963895
I am a straight married male but I think your question is a good one for all people, so I hope you won't mind my input.\n\nI met my wife on the internet - It was her mental stimulation/intelligence that first caught my attention.  Mostly it was her aggressive sense of humor.  I love that about her! Her character is very important and I'd say physical attraction is at the bottom of the list.  Since I couldn't 'see' her on the internet, it was obviously her character and personality that attracted me to her.  This worked out beautifully, because if had I passed her on the street, I may never have noticed her.  Isn't it unfortunate that the "hotties" probably distract us from the more fullfilling relationships that we could be having?  I'm glad that this time my eyes had nothing to do with the girl I fell in love with.  Anyway, here's how I break it down:\n\n50% character\n40% mentally stimulating\n10% physical attraction\n\nThanks! Your question was stimulating.  Good luck in whatever relationship you choose!  (If you are gay/lesbian please see my apology in that section of this site or click my picture to find it.)
945546
This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
583748
1st i guess that u have to check if she is also a lesbian ! \nif she is then just try to get close to her even with small steps , smiles , saying hi , small talks . the relationship will grow with time because u work together ! and by the way are u sure that u love her ? not just having a crush on her ? just a thought
946063
I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
1049020
It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.
604311
lol, no maybe ex-lesbians, lol lesbeens^^ you have funny questions
1066597
my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)
792801
i think as long as you remember where you met her it should be ok. many people who meet on line do so for a reason and very often it is not just you that they are chatting with. it depends on how honest they are with regard to their 'other' life.\n\ni have met people off the net and although very fond of them, didnt find it was a great basis for a relationship. my friend once found herself in bed with someone who had HIV, had no idea because she had formed such a bond with him on line!\n\nhowever my nephew has just got engaged to someone he met on the net.\n\ngo for it but be careful! good luck!
587364
I'M A LESBIAN....GO US......