how can I find pure love on this forum :( my heart is broken , I feel lonely?
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no.  If all you have to offer is a broken heart then all you could possibly find is a fixer.  And although fixers serve their purpose there is one fundamental flaw with thinking they are truelove- If they don't have a problem to fix, they are bored and irritable.  So unless you intend to have a major problem throughout the rest of your life he won't be there forever.  Go out and party or stay home and recover but be wary  of calling anyone a true love until that heart gets fixed.
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Things are tough all over. I have been looking for a long time and no luck. So don't feel like the Lone Ranger. Maybe you are still looking for that knight in shining armor to come and sweep you off your feet. Good luck' There is no such thing.
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Sweetheart, learn to love yourself first. You don't need the love of another person to complete you. Once you learn this others will feel the confidence emanating from you and you will find the right one. Don't search for love let it happen, when you search for it you usually find everything but love. Stay strong sweetie and good luck in your maturing processes.
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I honestly feel one cannot go looking for this..........LOVE will find you !!!!
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I m the one you are looking for.\n\nA nice pure broken hearted girl..just looking for a good true right one like you (maybe).\n\nsend me mail: anahita3740@hotmail.com\n\nmaybe we can understand each other
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Dear Silver465,  Never give up on love, when you least expect it, it can creep up on you and bite you on the butt before you realize it.\nYou will find love, I don't know where you live, but there are nice girls all around.\nIf you are a church goer, try going to the single get-togethers. \nI don't recommend on-line dating, but that is up to you.  Do you have any single guy friends that may be able to hook you up with someone???  \n\nGood luck, sweetheart, and I hope that you find someone SOON, God bless you,\n                                                                                                Juanita
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i recently went through something similar to this myself. i know you probally feel horribly depressed right now, and thats because you're heartbroken. i can tell you that eventually the pain does go away...take some time to grieve and then try to forget about him. someone once gave me a piece of advise that really helped me:\n\nbeing heart broken is like being in the dark.... and everytime you think your getting close to the light switch you just stub your toes. and you have to start all over again. but there is a light switch there. it might take a little bit to find it. but one day you will get there......... it might take awhile to get over this guy... but always remember... through all those stubed toes there is a lightswitch
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Sweet Candi, it has been so wonderful to know you. Please keep in touch. You will be sorely missed. I must go now for my heart is breaking terribly. \n\nDoes anyone out there feel the same way I do?\n\nDamn, I'm almost out of kleenex
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hey..u seem to be  in a hurry to find luv..let me tell u 1 thin..u can't find that on net..i feel becz on net most people just pretend to luv actually they pass time..sorry if that hurt but that is true..sorry
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write down how u feel on a blank white paper..be clear of how you are feeling. when u do this, u'll know what's really bothering you.\nWrite down what makes you sad, and what makes you happy, and then focus on the one's that make u happy. most of the time, its the past that's holding one back. always remember its your present that will determine you're future, and you have to make sure being alone does not come as something that is bad...lots of things can be achieve even as you are alone, and trust me..as you write down what makes you happy, u'll realize life is worth the while\na heart can be broken, but not your dreams. rediscover it
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my dear my heart goes out to you and your family, i know exactly well no i cant say i kn ow how u feel we all grieve in our own ways, visit my website a page i dedicated to my mother in the sources below, maybe this will help? i dont know, but its been 5 years this year since my mother has passed im am 28, your heart will mend in time, ask God to help you through your tough times, its not gonna be easy but he will be there for you when you are down I PROMISE IF U DO SEE MY WEBSITE PLEASE SIGN GUESTBOOK, AGAIN MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND UR FAMILY WELL IM TRYIN TO PUT MY HOMEPAGE BUT IF U WANT TO KNOW IT JUST PM ME ON YAHOO WITH THIS PROFILE NAME OK THANKS
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This is a group for straight males and females who are seeking companionship, love, and possibly a permanent relationship. If you are into anything other than straight relationships, this is not the place for you. Note: Due to the fact that we may have members in the group that don't understand the preceding, all messages will be closely monitored.\n\nThe reason I am starting this new group for other's to possibly meet\nnew people.\n\nThis group is meant for you if people:\n\n1)IF you are facing problems in relationship\n2)If you are seeking your soul mate\n3)If you think you can advice others\n4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf\n\nThis group will be moderated and I assure you that it will\nbe one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each\nother without any kind of hindrance..\n\nPLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO\nSHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE & TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.\n\nSO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship\nwith you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.\n\nSuggestions are most welcome.\n\nWe also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn't always have to mean it's over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love. \n\nNow in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group. \n\nhttp://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Looking4thatspecialsomeone
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Break this separation!\nHave a brave, and ask some nice girls.\nBecause its separation, girls are also feel alone as you feel.
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Have you tried getting to know someone online? I am a nice, fun loving lesbian too and I know I cannot find a mate right now because my heart is just not there yet. (been through a painful 6 year relationship with a girl) I feel low because I want to fall in love so bad, but I know my heart and soul have to heal first. \n\nand maybe being too picky or too desperate dont work for you? relax, just go on dates and get to know the 'people'first...your heart will tell you when to fall in love and find the mate! be patient!!!
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y are u so sad dear?\n\ni think u need gud friends who can change ur life\n\njus mail me at sumeet_09860170937@yahoo.co.in\n\ni will definitely help u change.\n\ntake care bye
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Owh thats just called feelings, dont worry about it, cuz yes, Love is not just all heavenly throughtout all, in fact if u're going through a hard time and still can find love, "not just a nice feeling" towards a person, then give yourself a pat on the back, u've done well, U have discovered what love really is, Love doesnt go with feelings, ..like say for example, If you love someone and sometimes they do somethings which really irritate you, u may be angry at them but after awhile you would forgive them, cuz seriously, haha..belive it or not, love does conquer all, well that is if you know what love really means..which i think you do, if U need more answers feel free to post another ques, I really dun mind helping ya..owh well, have fun, remember, love aint just feeling alone, it's commitment ... well, hope this helps...cya !
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u r just feeling a bit lonely now ..just get urself engaged in some kind of work and pls mention how old r u\n the true person will come looking for you so don't worry\nits happenes sometimes that ur frnds get very busy with their life i'm sure ur frnds will come and meet u one day and u can cherish the moments u had in ur life together