How the **** can i get rid of this internet love feeling, or should i just carry on?
960907
infatuation. it happens a lot on the internet, because people can edit what they say before they send it. you don't know what he's really like, because he can say whatever he wants to you...he can even lead you on without fear of repercussions. there's always a chance that this boy is actually worthwhile, but more often than not, he'll just be some jerk looking for a way to pass the time. be careful with this dude...but good job on finding a friend. \n\nif i were you, i'd be friends with him and leave the romantic stuff closer to home, if that's possible for you?\n\ngood luck.
57538
First thing is to stop flooding the site with inane stupid questions because you're BORED!  If you want someone to love you, you should show your lovable side.  And don't be pushy.
1093040
I had the same feeling even though I see my bf almost every day.And I asked almost the same question here and someone told me to do all I can to bring that love back.Just remember what you used to do , do the same you did when you were in love , bring back in your life the things that made you to fall in love with him.It worked for me... Good luck!\nDon't listen people telling you "Long distance relationships NEVER work".It's not true!!!Where it's love anything is possible!
194703
Spend some time doing something else. Get off the internet, go outside and enjoy life. Quit worrying about what everyone else is doing.
889687
Hi,\nIt is a very common problem as Internet widely used nowadays. the two persons meet and chat from Internet and finally one loves another or love each other.......\ndo you know why? because of distance makes perfect. all the characters they showed are the attractive. and we accustomed to picture him/her as our ideal partner.\nMaybe you can make a communion with him, if he consider for you enough , I think he will help you.if not he is not worthy your love.Do you think so?
396246
You are crazy. This man could be a killer, have you thought about that? and how can you love someone you've never seen before, that's real stupid. He's playing you, all he want is a mother for those kids or he will make you suffer. Find someone you can see and love. That Internet love is deadly, leave this man alone and don't be stupid or you'll be dead.
797151
Yes its ture.... im an internet addict
506976
Definitely ditch the internet idea at this point- it might not come in time, and might not fit well. \n\nTime to go shopping!  Have fun.
414218
You need to take a time out.  You are becoming jaded and if you let that happen you will never be excited by or truely enjoy anything at all.\n\nDo something that is totally outside of your realm.  Got every gadget known to man, shut'em down.  Get out to the country or a park and sit under a tree and just look at the world around you.  I mean really look at things  find those shapes in the clouds  do something to recapture your sense of wonder \n\nWhen you want to just stop doing something, get creative find a new goal to use with it or see just how expert youc an become at it, do something to help you stick to something for more than a short time.\n\nStop and write down a list of all your blessings. You have access to the internet and are well and healthy enough to come here and post should start you off and you search your life for the rest.  When you finish your list you will discover you have much more than you thought and it will help you want to accomplish more which should get a spark going in you again.  Remember nothing difficult is ever easy.  work at it and soon it won't take work.
689770
CoCo, I do feel the same way as you and I can understand your frustration. It is hard to tell sometimes who is honest out here in "cyberspace" but just give it some time and hopefully you will find some truthful people here too. Hang in there, okay!
708062
Well.. It also happens to me.. I'm a person who talks to guys a lot online.. When I'm talking to someone for hours and getting to know him better, I feel like there's a connection between the two of us and that he's worth talking to. On the other hand, when I'm talking to other guys on here, I feel that I'm just wasting my time talking to them and that they're not worth talking to.. But yeah, Its hard when you meet people on the net because of the time difference and it's really hard to catch up with 'em when you're busy.. I am not really sure if my answer will help but yeah, I'm just sharing y'know.. =)
94770
Just wondering if you are planning on a life off of the internet?  Just read your other question looking to marry on here...\n\nYou might want to turn off your computer for a while and look in the real world.
611499
Is it really possible to fall in love with someone online and that it would be "real love?" How could you know if the person you love is who the person is? It is so easy online to be anyone a person wants to be. And it is very easy for a person to adjust his or her personality to be what he thinks the person on the other computer wants him to be. Sounds like you are dealing with an infatuation, and yes, you need to turn your computer off, and get real. You have absolutely no idea if that person loves you, and if he does you should be very suspicious.
886475
Absense makes the heart grow fonder but it can also feel very lonely. I would try writing back and forth if possible. And find a hobby to occupy your time.
702487
what are you going to do with the many girlfriends online?\nwhat satisfaction can you get out of it? virtual f-u-c-k?\nwake up!
318963
Be funny if it was your partner!!\n\nFace it, there's a big difference between online and face-to-face so be prepared to have your illusions shattered (sorry, I don't mean to sound so negative!).\nYou say you haven't felt like this for years, so what are you doing with your girlfriend then?\nI don't know how old you are, but by the sound of it you've already made your mind up.  If you are going to leave there may be no way to do it without hurting your partner.  I guess you've got to have a talk to her and say that you don't feel the same way anymore.  I suppose you should be honest and say that you've just stuck around in the relationship even though you haven't felt anything much (why, I don't know) then when something special has happened between you and an online friend you've suddenly fallen in love.\n\nI've got to say it sounds like you just haven't been that honest with yourself or your girlfriend.
334975
lol, chill out, you'll find better love, i just went through something kinda like that, and it hurt at first, but you will gain confidence by saying no.