this guy I know who i thought was my friend called me a b**** for nor reason. how should i react, forget it or
952625
he's obviously NOT a true friend. A real friend would of known this would offend you.
1146719
The last time I answered an "urgent" question, the questioner never came back to pick a Best Answer.\n\nBut, anyway, here goes...\n\nIf you're going to play that silly game of "I'm busy over here with my friends" then be prepared to suffer the consequences. Basically, you snubbed her a number of times and she ended doing a "f*ck you too, buddy" on you. Then you wonder why...\n\nWakey, wakey. If you're ever going to have a chance with this girl then you need to stop playing games and communicate with her normally, treat her with respect and just let it lie for now.\n\nIf this is how you typically behave then we now know why she dumped you.
869758
he seems like an asshole.  avoid him and perhaps your friend should avoid him as well.  since he is an ex, he has no reason to have contact with you, let alone your friend.
499454
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.
1020752
clean yourself up and try to forget about it.\n\nand associate with a better class of people next time!
345243
Its sad but true that the only way to get even is to pick yourself up, swallow your pride and accept you made an error of judgement in going out with this guy. If he sees you out there enjoying yourself and looking good, that is the best revenge. Don't stoop to his level and think of nasty tricks, you will get a bad reputation and he will realise he did the right thing by dumping you.
49411
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
62126
your asking him to read your mind , guys are'nt good at that. We think more anaylitcal, 1+1=2 that type of thing.  he did'nt even know he hurt your feelings, if he did find out he hurt your feelings i'm sure he would be very sorry, unless he's a jerk or not your friend. give him the benifit of the doubt
266598
There is no such thing as an anonymous apology, part of an apology is being grown up enough to say hey I was wrong...just tell him you are sorry. It will mean alot to him and will show that you are a good person... your true friends won't give you any grief on this. i had friends of all walks of popularity, and part of what made people like me was that I didn't let my friends dictate how I felt or who I could talk to...you will feel much better after you have owned up to your wrong doing. Be strong, Good Luck.
651280
i don't know what you accusation you made against him but he must be terribly hurt by it? i don't know if your note to him would make things better from his point of view for the damage to his name has been done?\n\ni think you will just have to wait until school starts again and talk to him face to face. apologise to him and be sincere and maybe he might forgive you. hurting someones reputation is quite a cruel thing to do and i don't know if his heart will be accepting any apologies soon? he might have lost total respect for you?\n\nif it really bugs you and you are tossing in your bed with guilt, maybe you should call him? i know his family might be annoyed with you so get a friend to call on your behalf.\n\nnext time, don't falsely accuse!\nhope all goes well.
844119
First  u should stop calling him and next u should just stop trying so hard. Hey i have a friend that her guy treats her like she is his everything and she is a bitch to him ( sometimes).  U need to let go.
672135
He was a BOY!  in HIGH SCHOOL!!  Boys at that age are just STUPID!!!  Yes, I was stupid, too; so I think I have a right to say that.\n\nKids say & do stupid things.  If he's grown out of it, don't hold it against him.  Chances are, he doesn't even remember saying it; and if was reminded, he'd probably be embarassed and/or apologetic.  If you MUST, you could bring it up & make him apologize, but isn't his continued friendship proof enough that he cares for you as a friend?\n\nI'd chalk it up to the foolishness of youth, & move on.
399367
Just be sincere and honest. You are a good friend and a valuable ally, he knows that. He may be hurt or annoyed but he will read your apology, understand that you care, and accept your gesture of friendship. You don't need to beg.\nYou need to remember that he values you and trusts you. You may have irritated him but he is already over that. He has thought of you and laughed several times since the "event". He does appreciate you, even loves you for your loyalty and sincerity. You are rare in this world and he knows it.\n\nJust be yourself, be honest, don't beg. If you screwed up just tell him. It will be fine! If you get emotional let it flow. You have great passion and he loves that in you. Again, he values you very, very much and he wants this to be resolved as much as you!
266548
just walk up and tell him. and just say that u werent thinking befor u told them that u didnt like him.
947467
Drop the Zero, and find yourself a HERO..\nface it sweets...he treated you like a piece of a**...a convienance...he is nothing but a dog...a loathsome cur..cut your ties to him...\nAny man--or woman for that matter....who treats another human in that manner is not worth your time and effort
112442
Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
636712
This sounds like a case of too slow too bad to me.  You never mentioned your feelings to your friend and he made his move before you.  Let it be until hes out of the picture.