What do you do when you can't get one particular person out of your mind?
968766
G'day badgurl,\n\nThank you for your question.\n\nIf you are having positive thoughts about them, I would see if they were interested in going out. If your are having negative thoughts, try and get them out of your mind.\n\nRegards
121520
Stop trying so hard. Let things happen naturally. Get out and have fun, but don't think about it so much. Its always when you least expect it, that you find that special person, or good friend.  Any time wasted worrying, is one more wasted day.
79895
you can't stop thinking at her but you must do something else. follow my advice and will be pas this\nproblem. trying to find somebody else.Trying to consolate with idea :it's something human will be pass or " the man it's a man"or "follow the heart" or "pls :keep going ma man /it's my word in my contry/"(noroc)!
697326
She might be that one that is out of reach that you know you shouldn't go after but deep down you want to try just to see if you can. See if you can tame the beast within her and all of that. Talk to her if your interested, see if you can get her to go do something with you and take it from there.
376457
divert your attention to someone else who can fill the space that belonged to the person you want to get rid of. Let go of all grudges, pain and don't you ever think about getting a revenge because this will make you more attach to him/her.\n\nForgive and forget. If you can't forget, don't make every memory of him a big deal.
582172
Because, deep within your heart, you still want to trust that person no-matter how your mind denies that desire.  Let-Go is always the most difficult task, take it slow and, be gentle with yourself.
706519
The best way to get an ex out of your head is to erase him.\n\nDelete his number from your contact on your phone.\n[so you don't think about him when you are scrolling through]\n\nDelete/destroy emails/letters he has sent you.\n[Reminiscing in the past is BAD]\n\nGet rid of photos\n[The less you see him the less you will think about him.]\n\nJust start over. Like life was before you met him.\n\nSoon you will think about him less and less. Then move on.\n\nIt is easy to hide your feeling from someone that doesn't exist to you anymore.
1105653
I know what you mean, I am in the same sitution. I try to find things to do to keep him off my mind watch tv, go for a walk etc. As I see it if your unable to be together you need to stop wasting your time and find someone that you can be with and sooner or later you will feel secure to talk to that person (Thats what I am trying)
1112147
contact him.\nresolving the thoughts is the best way.
112308
You must always remember what it is that you like or want in that person and does this person have what you want.  It takes time unless the other person shows you right off the bat, "I'm not the one."
1165938
mitr says.... if the person is close to your heart, he/she can never drift away....\nfollow this.....\n1. be different... probably he/she is bored of the same routinely YOU....\n2. do something creative for him...\n3. do something very special for him... which only a person does when the other one is close to your heart... \n4. be a surprise to him/her... it will bind the interest...\n5. give importance to that person, more than anythign in your life and make him/her feel special......\n6. say in a very romantic way that you wann be with him/her, more often than you use to... \n7. do not bind him /her... give space... loosen the grip.... \n8. FIND OUT THE REASON WHY THE PERSON IS DRIFTING AWAY FROM YOU........ if possible, cure it......
138436
You can't, unfortunatly, pick and choose who you fall in love with. If you really can't be with him, get out and date others. If he's out of sight, he's out of mind. Only time will get you through this.
1122986
No offense...But she is not, i mean not interested...Just get your mind off her....otherwise you could, i said just could be the stalker type.....How: replace the thought of her with some other thought...Sorry for your loss...In love we've all lost...sorry!
333753
you need to seriously cut down on spending time with him and phone calls, etc. he's just not into you that way. the only way to get over him is to distance yourself.\n\nCall up some other friends and become very busy and important!! \n\nYou might be surprised how much you won't be thinking about him after a week or two. \n\nGetting away from the situation always puts things in perspective. you will come to find that he is not amazing enuff for you to agonize over!
692528
Get someone else out of your mind. Don't break up with him, but whatever you do ask your heart, hon.
828823
the best thing for you to do now is to remain cool and forget about him. just dump him from your mind. he is too fickle minded and you should't feel bad about it. at least you know this before he does serious harm to your feelings.\n\ntake care.
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just dont think so much. Calm down and act like you always would around anyone else. put the hotness thought in the back of your head and just let things flow.