Do you ever question who you are & what you stand for?
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You weren't wrong, and you weren't right.\n\nHere's the deal: With people who are deliberately leading lifestyles that are directly opposed to the will of God, you can carry the message to them that God can and will change their lives if they ask him. If the people want to know more, you can tell them. If they ask you to butt out, you need to butt out.\n\nIt is one thing to try to help someone. It is another to offer unsolicited advice. People who are not looking for solutions to their lives are not soliciting your help, at all, and so most times any efforts to help them fail and end up making the people resentful.\n\nIt is a process and a discipline learning how and when to help, and how and when to butt out.\n\nWhile your judgments about this man may indeed be accurate, you may not be helping him by sharing your judgments. This is because when people feel judged, they tend to "hate" the one who passes the judgment. People have many defensive mechanisms in place, in general, and so instead of assessing their own lives to see if what you're saying is right, they end up assessing YOUR life and deciding that you're wrong. It is a common defense mechanism. Nothing personal. But someone who wants to defend a Godless lifestyle of coke snorting isn't generally very open to being told that his path is a dangerous and immoral one.\n\nAnd when it comes down to it, everybody has choices. He is allowed to throw his life in the toilet, if he so desires. Your desire that he not throw his life in the toilet will most likely be of no use unless he comes to you seeking your aid. Until then, he won't be willing to listen to what you have to say.\n\nThere are choices that you have, too. This is where you open the door into the room of hard stuff. For example, not only is what this man doing immoral, but it's illegal. If you're around it, you're part of the problem. You may need to disengage completely. And you could also consider alerting the law to this particular lawbreaker. Or not. It's up to you.\n\nAnd the bottom-line, most important thing I want to say is that if your own relationship with God is right, all the answers will become clear to you. You will learn who to try to reach and who to leave be. You will learn how to work on your own spiritual development so that you don't go around passing judgment on people's souls. You will retain the ability to discern--that is, judge their actions and see the consequences of such actions in their lives--but you won't approach them in judgment but in compassion. Moreover, God will teach you who you really are and what you really stand for--not who you think you are and not what you fancy yourself to stand for.\n\nI would recommend if you don't have a living relationship with God that you seek him.
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yeah and now i dont know who i am
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Interesting...which is yours?  Is this reflective of who you look like or the image of who is inside you?
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I'm not a stranger, I'm just strange. lol\n\nWhen your strange no one remembers your name...
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On their website...did you even TRY to look for yourself?
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"Be careful who you pretend to be, because you day you just might loose who you really are"\n\n-ME
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Before I answer, can you tell me who you are?
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Look at my name. Who do you think?
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I think that I avoid that. But yes at times I take a good look at myself in the mirror. It doesn't lie. Sometimes the image I have of myself isn't exactly what reality is. That's speaking about the physical side. If you are speaking about that deeper question "Who am I?" then yes I also do that. I think that each person is different and must answer that in their own way. I think that I personally could list my qualities my standards my limits my likes dislikes and in that long list someone could get a picture of who I am. I firmly believe that EVERYONE has the ability to change what they see in that mirror and change the person in that mirror if they don't like what they see looking back at them. We are only a flesh and blood human.With the tools we have been given we can be whatever we choose.A mind that is so powerful we still haven't discovered but a small percentage of its power and Free Will ................
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Well, I try to not label myself, though I make it no secret that I lean to the left.  I am the way I am because I enjoy thinking and acting for myself; I think it is called life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.  Also, I am not afraid to ask questions.
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are we supposed to say    "you"  cause of your name??
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yes, i am always at least one dimension of myself at sometime. even if i am not myself in the process, it becomes a part of me
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Personally I would stay who I am cuz we ALL got issues...I have complications figuring out how to deal with my own let alone someone elses.
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Depends who you are, and what you mean.
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Sometimes it's best to have people thinking who are you. The best to leave it alone\nGood Luck
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Not at all. I only answer questions I'm interested in, and ones I feel like I have something to contribute.  Even when I answer sarcastically, or argue unpleasantly, it's still input of who I am.  Good question, though.
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Perhaps it is your name or surname, or a combination of both?