My question, I find my brothers girlfriend attractive. Nothing has happened so am I gulity for thinking this?
971102
no ... there is nothing wrong with that at all.... opposites attract.... \neven when your married you can still find people attractive. \nAs long as you don't act upon it then you shouldn't feel guilty.
541702
love her or  make love, answer is just love her like a brother and not like a stranger would.
258139
You said yourself that you don't want to hurt your girlfriend and her sis. Well then, don't do it.\nAnd yes, i agree too that your girlfriend put it up to test you or something. It is possible. \n\nIf you feel like doing it for the sake  of excitement or for a change, then do it with another girl. Not with your girlfriend's sister!\n\nThat so sick!
575185
Guy code. Chances are he is interested in you but respects his friendship with your brother. I'd talk to him and see how he feels, then have him and you ask your brother for his ok. I dated two of my brother's friends before, but only after my brother gave his ok...and gave his "if you hurt her I'll kill you" speech. Chances are he's just trying to respect your brother, but if given the ok by your brother he may move forward.
980816
Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
922660
omg this was the exact same situation i was facing.. my last question was regarding this but the best frnd isnt such  a prob... if she is your best frnd then u shud knw how she will react and evn she should be encouraging if u let her know that this is wht makes u happy.. but dont wait others to tell her... but tell her once things are solidified.. just telling her that u like her bro might complicate things... as for him either u make a move or show interest in him or wait for him. i bet even he is scared of the whole sisters best frnd angle..
389996
Just get him drunk first then he may not know it's his sister (If that matters to him). Getting him drunk will also take care of the question of does he find her attractive.
897738
maybe you are making it too obvious you like him, until you are older then your friends brother is off limits leave the guy alone, he already seems nervous and will lost likely be voicing his opinion to his sister.  \nand at the end of the day she will choose her brother over you think about that before trying to get envolved in something which is so complacated trust me your mate wont want you with her brother, cos she will want yous to go out and meet guys together.
961934
Hey ya!\nDon't worry , maybe you can ask your sister about it ,maybe she knows it!\nBut I have brother too and a lot of my friends like him more than just my brother , so If I knew that someone from my friends loves him I won't tell him about it,cause it's something like sisters jealousy.\nIf your sister "don't know it ,but she can ask her" so then you must tell her that it's OK and you'll ask her.\nIt's time to move on ,keep on fun kin and be yourself! :)
517887
it is hard to say exactly how the brother feels about you, but it sounds as though he likes you a little, but mostly just trying to be nice to you & hook you up with his brother. Would i be wrong in assuming that you have an attraction to the brother, & you want him to like you? I think that if that is the case, then it would be wrong. Even if you & his brother broke up it would still be wrong. It would cause too many problems in the family, so if that is the case, drop the crush on the brother, & stick with the boyfriend, Or leave them both alone.
435442
Hm, I have to say that depends largely on how is your relationship with his family (particularly with his sister). If you really care about them, (you really shouldn't have sex with him in the first place. You're so young...!) you should come and talk with her. \n\nApologize first. Admit that you'd done wrong.\nMake her understand why you did it. (Your boyfriend should talk with her too) How you feel about her brother and that it is normal that her brother is going to belong to someone else (that is, his wife).\n\nIn time (especially if she has a bf on her own) she would understand.\nBut assure her that nothing will ever change how her brother feels for her, and how YOU feel for her.\nAND remind her that it IS a wrong deed, and she should never follow your step.
1031565
Getting your brother a date may prove difficult as we can't see him. He needs to get out of the house and search for himself.\n\nThat's the only way it's going to happen.
601133
I say go for it...unless you know your bro is going to completely flip out, in that case I would run it by him maybe first other wise he will cause a huge family scene and you do not need the drama...it will more than likely turn the hot guy away!
394436
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
903319
It sounds to me like she is sexually attracted to you but for some reason this is unacceptable to her. Are you very different from the types of guys she has been with before you? Or perhaps a sexual relationship between the two of you is inappropriate or even off limits for some reason (such as being relatives or having a large age difference)? This might explain her contradictory behavior. But please consider that asking her about this directly probably won't get you anywhere since she has worked hard to convince herself that she has no attraction for you and it's somehow making her feel safe and/or in control of the situation... she is unlikely to let go of this self deception very easily. But what you really need to realize here is that this girl is confused and conflicted and it is not your fault.
2971
It is not a sin, actually it is perfectly fine and has been done by many people.  Your relationship to her is exactly the same as your brother to your brother's wife.
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)