why the only person you love use you?
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Lovers steal from us because -\n1.  it's easier to con someone who loves & trusts you.\n2.  there is NO way to prosecute them if you knew them romanticly. (See love fraud website for details.)\n3.  they need you to be broke and defenseless as a means to contol you.\n4.  IF you vent your anger, or tell your friends, YOU will be the one who is humiliated over it. You'll be told how stupid you were to trust them, how could you believe such a liar, etc? \n\nLove Fraud victims are punished by society, scorned by the police, and left to go it alone. You were robbed of your money, robbed of the truth, and betrayed by everyone. \n\nI will never be able to trust ever again.
1148567
What makes you think that there is only one person you will love??  If you love someone enough that you would never do anything to hurt them...Then you don't.
366371
THE REASON LOVE HURTS IS BECAUSE THE PERSON YOU ARE LOVING, YOU HAVE PUT ALL YOUR TRUST AND CONFINDENCE IN.  YOU THINK SINCE THEY KNOW YOU LOVE THEM, THEY SHOULDN'T DISAPPONT YOU AND WHEN THEY DO, IT HURTS. IT'S A SAYING "NO ONE CAN HURT YOU LIKE THE ONE YOU LOVE" REASON BEING IF YOU DON'T LOVE THE PERSON, YOU CAN BRUSH OFF WHAT THEY DO, BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXPECT MUCH OUT OF THEM.
88295
You can love someone, but being dependent on them for everything, like money, making a living, paying the bills. This isn't good because you never know when you will have to do these things on your own.
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Because you are still very much in love with her and that she has touched your life and soul like no one else has ever done so. Love can never be forgotten cos it keeps us running and alive just thinking of that special person even if you have lost her.\n\nOnce love has touched your heart and soul, it doesnt vanish into thin air like misty morning,instead it lingers and that is why you are melancholy about it!\n\nSuggestion: Try to win her back!
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I do so much for my love, and its everyday things that cant help be just one. for example: i do his laundry every week, i cook him dinner at least 4 times a week, i take him out to the movies when i have the money, im currently paying off his PSP from layaway, i kiss him goodbye when he goes to work, i keep the house clean for him, i give him my time and undivided attention.\nIn turn he does things for me as well: takes care of my kids on the weekends so i can go to work, works his butt off to feed us and pay the bills, puts the toilet seat down, cooks dinner for me once in a while, bought me a car, takes me out to fancy italian dinners when we have extra money.\nThe point is we both do things to make each other feel good about ourselfs and our relationship and i think that is almost as important as trusting each other.\n\nSad thing is thou there is one thing I wouldnt do for him and that is die for him. my reason for that is because i dont want my childrens lifes ruined by thier delinquent and nonexistant father and it makes me sad that i brought kids into this messed up world.
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you know someone is the one for you....\nwhen you complete each others sentences\nhe does the lil things for you because he knows they mean the much.\nhe makes and effort to let you know he loves you everyday\nwhen you know you can live with him btu the thought of being without them is too much to bare.\nif he completes you and makes u feel whole\nif he'd rather spend time with you then his friends....\nand so much more.....\nfor ex if he calls you everyday just to see how your day is and twll you he loves you~
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When you start to love a person part of that person starts to grow inside you. As the years go on more and more you find yourself falling deeper in love with that person because they continue to grow in your heart and your soul. Since you are in love with this person, in a sense you do need them. You've based a certain part of yourself around that person and now since they are gone, the part of yourself that they had is lost. So you need to find something else to fill that void and emptiness that that person has left and you need to try and move on. It is hard yes, extremely hard, absolutely, but in the end it's worth coming out on the other side.
655313
The one who honestly cares and loves you.  Love is much better when you are loved back.
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yes i do...i believe everybody has one other person there supposed to be with.  They're "one and only". I believe this other person will never be truly happy with anyone else because its not there "one and only." Some people are lucky to find that one person, others are not.
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When they never want to just hang out without needing anything other than your companionship. If they always seem to come up with a way you can help them out and they don't ever seem to want to offer to go out of their way to do something for you then you have a pretty good idea that whether they realize it or not, they are just using you like a resource.
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because the person you love never appreciates you
47123
Boy thats a tough one! I had a similar problem with my first love. If I were you I would try and think about why he was with you in the first place... what made him need you. Possibly show him that you two were good for each other that you brought out great qualities in one another. But sometimes people just lose touch and intrest sad as it may seem. Just be careful not to put yourself out there too far, you have to respect yourself before anyone else will.\n\nIf your ruthless a good dose of jealousy might work too ; D
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Because you probably loved her an awful lot, and any breakup or end to a relationship is a loss.  \n\nHugs.
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u are the person who lost what he had n he has nothing now but u might be some one that some one loves to have u
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You can only love someone as much as you love yourself.\nI beleive that this statement is true.
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I am my own Valentine. The reason why is simple: the most exciting, challenging and significant realtionship is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love well thats just fabulous.\n\nI have not found anyone to love the me I love.