How to handle distance relationship?
953178
I'm in 1 too...ask him if he still feels the same way...if he does he will create a time 4 u 2 to b together!!  Tell him how YOU feel
1129389
I know what u mean....my BF lives in Houston.....where I am in College Station....TX.....it is almost 2 hrs away....BUT....we talk on the phone EVERYDAY......send emails everyday.....& he just drove up here today....out of the blue to see me.....of course we only got to spend 4 hrs with each other...it was amazing.....I have had long distance relationships before.....but this one kind of grows.....every time we see each other....we grow "fonder"....they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.....I really like my BF too.....it is hard for us because of the distance...as well as our work schedules....but we make it happen......what I like about him....HE comes to me, more then I go to him.......Just be patient.....like one other person said....let him figure out a way to come to u.....if it was meant to be....something will work out.....GOOD LUCK!...
1003178
Long distance relationship are a real challenge.\nTrust is a must. It sounds both are trying to test each other by means of jealousy?
370182
You should look for someone closer to where you live, the long distance thing is lame....
833060
long distance never works!!!!!! \nHe could fill some needs that can make you feel good but.......I wouldn't expect a completely truethful, honest or a real relationship out of it......at least nothing truely more then a friendship with possible benefits when u see him.I wouldn't get too emotional about it or you'll end up dissappointed
397153
Sounds like he's thinking of exploring the new territory. Let him be and see if he contacts you. if not then good ridence you deserve better. distance should never be a relationship destroyer..just ask all of us military wives. a few hundred miles is nothing compared to growing old with the one you love..maybe he isnt the one for you. Go find mr right he IS out there
163492
I happen to agree with cuteiepie. Keep it alive by phone, emails, snail mail...keep all communication channels open. If you have serious intentions for the future with that person, it is most important to physically spend time with each other at least once or twice a year. I think long distance relationships only work for so long. At one point or another you have to make it a "no distance" relationship. Good luck!!
361149
If he's worth it, do it. My boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me and we're only able to see eachother once a month (maybe twice). If I didn't like him as much as I do, it wouldn't be worth it. I won't lie, it's hard. But I feel like our relationship is strong enough to get through the times we can't see each other. It also depends on how old you are. If you're too young to be able to drive yourselves to see each other, it's probably not the best idea since it'll make it harder. But if you really like this guy and you think it's worth having someone 3 hours away, rather than 3 minutes, do it. Sometimes long distance relationships help you to get to know each other better. When you're not together, you can only talk to each other. You don't have the physical stuff (even if that stuff is fun) to distract you. You have this opportunity to get to know each other very well.
459927
well to develop a relationship with the person who is just 2 1/2 hour far is not a difficult thing.u can make relatioship by chatting daily or whenever u like on phone or on internet chat,and then u may meet several times.\nwell if u like each other u can make from any far end than ur distance is not too much.
989002
distance either makes the heart grow fonder...or makes the heart wander...it would be hard not having him around, but try love conquers all boundaries, including distance..this is your challenge to know if this is meant to be..hang in there and have faith in his love for you. Whatever happens happens for a reason. \n\nGood Luck
266186
If you two really love each other then you will make the long distance thing work even though it is hard. If you love and care about her you will wait until you guys can see each other more, but if you can't handle the long distance for that long then try giving each other space and explain it to her that you love her but the long distance thing isn't working for you. You could have a non exclusive relationship where you each can date other people, give some rules if you want, but still be together. Think about what you want and what she wants and come to a decision that you both agree on. Good Luck:)
616620
Just write him and explain that while you think he is a very nice person and that you've enjoyed your interactions; you've realized that a relationship isn't going to work out because of the distance factor (which is totally valid by the way) and that you've decided you need to end the communication.  His reaction is NOT your issue to deal with.  If you are polite and honest you've behaved honorably.
522931
Well, My older Sister has a BF that lives 743 miles away. They have been going out for 6 months now. even though she is going through a rough financial time. they still find way to visit. Love is ture and is never thretend by distance
669198
everything is possible... if ur hearts r loyal then distance doesn't matter.. think postive always!!
493248
No, it hard to make relationship work when you are together, so you know it's hard long distance.  The person is never the person they pretend to be at a distance.
339963
Distance can put a severe strain on a relationship.  It's hard to say for certain.  I'd look to more clues in the relationship between you and your intimacy, emotional and physical relationship.  The time you do spend.  Part of the reason distance relationships aren't as successful is because of the lack of time spent.  Confront him, but knowing that he loves you, I'd take his word.
610654
Usually long distance relationships are best kept long distance.  If you decide to move closer, kept it an hour or two apart to see if the relationship can handled it.  And if it last a year, then move to the same city.