What happened to my relationship?
969460
He sounds very immature and many things could be going on within that framework.  You are lucky he is moving on before he really brings more immature and insensative actions into your life.  Be patient and hold out for a quality guy who cares about you and treats you with respect.  Have a blast while you're patiently waiting.  That will make the time go faster and attract more quality guys to you.  Good luck.
489928
well if you could not make it work once what has changed to make you think it will be different this time? \n\nif nothing has changed then someone is blowing smoke or something. \n\nif your curious try reading Smart Love By Dr. Phil McGraw it will help you discover if relationship is serious or just you being desperite for love. \n\nGL and God Bless
671522
Communicate with him. Find out why things feel different between the two of you. Is it something he does or says? Is it something you do or say? Maybe it was a mistake, maybe not, but what's done is done. Make an attempt to correct things between you and him before casting it into the wind and chalking it up as another failed relationship. Maybe through communication with him you will both learn something (Even if it means learning you both made a mistake). Good luck!
940827
you need to consider a couple of things. \n1. how long have u been together?\n2. are you willing to stick around for a second time?\n3. what actually possessed him to do that?\nanswer these honestly and if it doesn't look good, leave!\nit could've been an accident but chances are it wasn't, sorry and be careful!
360612
Meaning he's moved on from you.  It might be in terms of maturity.  Social class.  Lifestyle.\nHe feels like you two are in different worlds and am conflicted how the relationship will work anymore because of the differences.
351718
If you guys love each other then there is no problem with coming together again.\n\nTry to put yourself in his shoes. Probably his work schedule was overburdening and not allowing him the time with you even if he wanted. To top that he had you nagging him with thenegatives (and he is being honest with his feelings about that).\n\nTry and be a little flexible with him and see how you guys could work things so you get a little more time with each other.\n\nAll the best.
726853
I'm sorry for you.   I'm going thru something similar, but with 20 years together.  You might never have a reason why this happened.   I've found accepting that I can't MAKE him give me an answer or tell me the truth takes away a lot of the stress.  \n\nThere must be some little things that are better with him gone, though.   Something as small as having your room the way you like it now.   You may never stop loving him, but you will move on.  If you don't, you're wasting the life you have left!   There's so much more to do and see yet.   \n\nStrengthen you relationship with your kids (if you have any), and with your friends.   If you don't have friends, get out and do something you love and you'll meet some new ones.  \n\nI don't know how longs it's been for you, but at 2.5 month for me I can say that I'm really happy most of the time.   I couldn't have imagined that only a few weeks ago!\n\nGood luck to you, and don't stay home or in bed all day!  Force yourself to get out and do things or go places
176330
It could either be that or a change in schedule (school/ work demands/ new job, etc.). How long were you involved with this individual? Was it an intense thing? Maybe he/she got back together with their previous partner while you haven't been speaking?\nSorry to answer your questions with more questions, but I think they are important things to ask yourself- once you have, you'll probably get a good idea of what you should do. Hope it helps you!
824766
I think he has given you a blessing in disguise.  You should be with someone who trusts you.  We all deserve that much in a relationship.  Without trust, it is miserable and will only get worse.  Celebrate this opportunity to find someone who you can have a real relationship with.
394297
I think there might be some mental disturbance. Both of you need to see doctors, it happens sometimes in such relationships, as you would admit its kinda different then normal. More over are you sure you are completely healthy?
645313
Communication! I have been with the same guy for 7 years and I am just realizing since we moved in together that its one area  we need work in.  Its so important!  Also keep dating each other.  People always seem to get "comfy" in a relationship and it gets boring.  Keep things exciting.
1019483
Some times a relationship just isn't made for the long haul.  I think it sounds like you two have had a good run but the relationship has reached its end point.  Maybe it is time to end this so that both of you can move forward with your lives.  If you keep going like this eventually you are going to end up hating each other and you are both going to miss out on other opportunities in life.
969396
Before you give up, maybe change up the routine in which you do things. Many people get so used to someone, and doing the same thing that they dont even notice the other person anymore. So try something new. If you have a specific night you go out, make it a different one. Go somewhere you have Never been before. Do you surprise eachother anymore? Try that. Have you gone anywhere on a trip recently? or just overnight to somewhere? Anything to change what you are used to. If after all that is said and done. Then you should have a talk about where the relationship is going, and see what you should do.
1024735
I suppose he've cheated you.\nOtherewise some kind of accident occurd.\nNow its hisduty to contac with you.\nYou are a nice girl look at your future.
868131
Honey - you said it all already - you knew he wasnt right for you.  Sounds like you are just lonely now and your current relationship might not be the right one for you as a marriage.  Its too late now, and no matter how much you might want to - you cant go back in time and change things.  And truthfully, you probably really wouldnt want to.  Whatever made you break up with him, it would have gotten worse.  Chin up dear girl, plenty of fish in the sea :)
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
731699
Definitely this relationship can be saved if both of you are determined.. But one thing is for sure that he has lost your faith and he will have to regain it and it takes some time.. In the meantime you should change your focus from the past happenings and forgive him and look at future..BEST LUCK... HAVE FAITH...