Sex without feelings every day or Love with feelings only one time in a year?
964208
sex without feelings everyday same like u have sex with death body.love with feelings not only once in year but once in life also same like u go up to the sky........are u clear....love is great.
591731
I both agree...making love to the person you love it the most wonderful thing. So love and sex would really go side by side. If you're still on to puppylove i would suggest don't go into sex yet. But you always have to remember that once you are into a relationship full of love...sex is part of it.
1171268
Love without SEX is dead\nSex without LOVE is taboo\nCombine both you got FEELING.....This 2 go hand in hand unless......universal LOVE
589529
Love is emotional and can be experienced without sexual ties.\nLust is sexual.
703791
At 2 years clean and sober, you most likely have the support in your life to maturely enter the harsh and horrid dating scene. I know, I too am in your predicament. I just go slowly and safely. I no longer have sex on the first date. The second date is up for grabs. Sex and love are 2 different things. Sometimes one needs some sportf**k**g.
278029
Sex you can have with anyone and is sometimes meaningless -for example, one night stands are purely just SEX. Love making usually (or should) invlove deeper feelings like LOVE. When you "make love" it is an intimate and special expereince with more emotions involved. When you just have SEX, it's usually wham bam thank you ma'me.
196164
Well the truth is, without one your not going to have the other.  If you don't have a good relationship outside the bedroom, your going to loose interest in each other.  If your not getting your needs met in the bedroom, your going to feel resentful and the rest won't be good.\nJust like everything in life it's about balance.
250699
Yes I do, I feel that it is better to have loved once, than to have never loved at all.Even though the man I love knows that I love him, and doesn't talk to me, I would've rather loved him, than have never have loved him at all, because without him, I couldn't breathe.
563003
Well, to be honest, neither one of them sounds convencing. Having many people love you seems a bit selfish and never loving anyone shouldn't be an option. One way you can find a happy medium with this is to actually love people; and this doesn't mean having sex either because love and sex are two different things. If you love people you won't have to scale from people loving you to never loving anyone. But your question seems like you're saying that people should give you love or else you're not gonna give it. It shouldn't be like that because then it wasn't love to began with.
90973
i think so ... you only live once ... at the right time, in the right place, and as long as you aren't hurting anyone.\n\nit can be quite uplifting to experience the desires that set the mind and/or body afire. expecially the sexual ones.
341452
No not at all, I went through this same thing a couple of years ago a male frined and I both came outta long, serious relationships about the same time and were feeling quite down and bruised by the whole thing and ended up being together alot of the time talking about it and of course one thing led to another and we eventually slept together and it just became a habit (I know that sounds awful!!) but neither of us could face another relationship at that time and we aren't into one night stands so we'd just hook up have the best laugh and then enjoy great sex before saying goodbye in the morning with no pressure it was ideal, it went on for about two yeras until we both just met people we wanted to be with and then it fizzled out but we're still the best of friends now (purely platonic!!) so it worked out fine.  The only thing I'd watch out for is that you both understand the situation if one person has feelings that the other dosen't have then it will cause problems and you shouldn't do it but if you both know it's just sex cos you have needs then go for it.  Good Luck!!
368737
Planning is a good sign but not the end road because feelings and acting are only the way of continuously and differentially in life,, if you end up by routine you will never resist till 2010, increase your care, your true love to your partner, life will run so easy parallel to your fact conditions of several years waiting
767561
I think that people should be in love before they have sex. It is a way to express how you feel about the other person.  Sex without love is just empty. I was in a loveless marriage for years, even though the physical aspect was good, it was not fulfilling emotionally.
1049823
Love is a choice to commit to do what is best for another.  Sex without love is a choice to do what feels right for you. Love+Sex=:)
650668
you can have sex and it will be plesurable but you won't feel sparks.  With love you have a burnig hot passion/disire for them.  You can't be without them.  You always think about them.  Sex is just somthing you can do with NE body.
1050432
They both are not great,  but since we are humans we feel them all.  Just be sure to keep on rolling and don't let your wheels spin a rut in the mud...feel it for awhile and then try to let it go.  Best Wishes!!
596371
I think there is a difference between being in love and loving someone. Loving someone is more enduring and is a better basis for a marriage since most couples find that after years of marriage they need to have a good partner and friend. Since you have had an attraction to this partner and were in love at one point, I think you have a good chance to have a solid marriage. However, you really should look at your own feelings about marriage in general and ask yourself if you are ready to commit. Otherwise it won't work. Don't worry about not feeling the same a little less romantic feeling is normal over time and to keep a more romantic outlook requires more work. \nGood luck.