well there is a guy that is love with me!?
970293
Tell him again and dont let him think there is a chance for something more. I can't promise you that your friendship is strong enough to be there when this is all done, but you HAVE to be straight with him.
158750
does he pay attention to every move you make? if you answered yes to that question then you already know the answer. \n\nthen you should tell him how you feel. otherwise you are going to wonder if there could ever have been the chance on that opportunity of you guys being together.
1029201
If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
951422
i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention
36344
2 possible solutions, he is awestruck with your beauty, or like previously mentioned, he may be envisioning himself marrying you someday and what life would be like!
148259
I dunno, how fast is too fast? Is there any standard period when someone can say I love you? Maybe you can try dating more with this guy and know him much better. Maybe after that you can tell...
326046
Sounds like you really have a thing for him. Just relax and let everything come natural. Don't be blind to his negative ways. But if he is good to you just take it slow and everything will work out.
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
254671
No, a guy like that isn't in love with you, he thinks of you instead as his possession.  If someone loves you then they trust you.  Tell him to go find a new possession and find yourself a man who will love you and trust you.
630234
you know, when you are ready you will know. i swear, you love for that guy deepens and you know that he is willing to wait for you.. it is a funny thing, but you will know. but the best thing is to give it time and when you know this guy really loves you, then go for it. just give time..\ngood luck
1037397
Honey if the Dude is truly in love the only person he would be looking at is You.And is he ashamed of you?Girl it sounds like this dude is playing with Ur feelens. Or are u just a spare tire to him and when he needs u he calls.Take it from a guy who has been playing around all his life.I hate to say this leave him and I am sure he will come chasing u and when he does u set the rules .OK Try it it works
315584
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
812652
Girl!!! He's sprung on you!! You better go get him quick, but play it cool...this is what life is all about, enjoy it!
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
492637
Get him to define "I love you",\n\nnot everyone that say I love you means it\n\nnot every I love you means what you think it means\n\nYou might be speaking a different language using the same words so don't fall for it sister
434355
I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend because of his heart, soul, mind, and body! He has everything i've ever wanted! He is attractive! He is smart! He is sweet kind and best of all he doesn't just stare at my boobs cause they are there! he looks into my eyes and when he does look he compliments me on them and says something else too! he doesn't just say he baby you look hot let's screw and i'll call ya! We are apart right now and he is waiting for me! he is waiting for me!!! that is the best part! He sent me a ring in the mail as a gift and a reminder of how much he loves me! I told him he didn't have to but he just said it matches my eyes and it compliments my hand! He is full of suprises! he does things for me just because not when he has to! Like for my birthday he wanted to be with me so bad but because i'm farther then he can travel at the time because of money he wants to e mail me a ton chat with me and try to "be" there as much as he humanly can be! I love him and he loves me for what I am and who I can be! yes he loves my looks too but it's all part of the whole! It is LOVE!!!!!
443034
he is a confused person and he want to confuse you, you are a paralegal for God sak, go hit on a lawer who will respect you. \nI never heard of somebody who loves someone but aint  in love with them.\nUr wasting time.