who has been calld fat by their husband and is now embarrassed to eat in front of him?
970640
well that hasn't happened to me... but my advice to you is to be happy with yourself... and honestly it sounds like you husband is a little insensitive. He should be your best friend... if anything he should be the only person you are NEVER embarrassed to do anythign arround. A husband and wife is a team... they should be the other half to yourself, and you should always be comfortable with yourself (and the other half of yourself.)  If you feel you fat, then maybe you should look into losing wieght... try eating small meals more freguently throughout the day and exercise. \n\nMost importantly you should talk to your husband... become best friends.... \n\ngood luck sweetheart... and remember short, tall, skinny, fat, blonde, burnette, redhead, whatever you are BEAUTIFUL for who you are.
793277
Fat tissue is disgusting.
877338
Honey sit down before reading this...oh you are!\n\nYour husband is GAY! Flaming....SUGARY...Sorry to break it to you...
195315
The woman who slept with my husband :-)
673369
My husband has embarrassed me in public but it is the opposite of what one would think.  He is introverted...VERY introverted.   When put in a social environment he is out of his "comfort" zone and I'm pretty sure a circuit shorts somewhere in his brain.  Some of the geeky things that fly out of his mouth are down right humiliating. LOL\n\nOn the other hand... I have embarrassed him more times than not.  The poor guy didn't know what hit him when he met me.  Talk about polar opposites.  The worst is when I pass gas and blame it on him.  Oh the shade of red his "cheeks" turn!
498473
This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
636570
YOu are going to get some good answers for this one... I have one that my son did tho\n\nWhen me and my hubby started dating my son was 6. One day after thay had started getting to be really good friends(my son and hubby) Chris, my son jumped up in my hubbys lap and LET ONE RIP!! I said " that was rude!!! HE IS NEW. dont do that" My son(very embaressed and laughting hastericly) says back to me " He's not new anymore!!!
1160467
Hi there,\nI can somewhat relate to you in a sense that I was in your shoes when my boyfriend (now my husband) was doing the same thing like your wife did.  I think, I forgave him since we're not really together (I was in another state).  Yes, I was grossed out when I heard this and the thought of 2 on 1 is disgusting.  We decided that not to associate with those kind of people, which helps me to cope.  Out of sight, out of mind.   The most important thing about this ordeal is having trust in this person again and make sure that it won't happen again.  Yes, then your can feel more secure and comfortable being with this person again.\nBest wishes,
25850
Being a BBW I never realized how much I actually do that. I think part of it comes from being overweight and being made fun of by thinner women. I also think it comes from fear and jealousy. I don’t want my man going to someone else, especially a thin person. It’s a feeling of not being good enough. It’s a fear of loosing to someone who doesn’t make you feel good. And yes in my case there is jealousy that you can be thin and I can’t. Well not as easily as it seems for you. I for one apologize on behalf of BBW's that have made remarks or made you feel bad for who you are. I agree that it's not acceptable.
970290
Perhaps you could confront them by letting them know that your husband is aware of what was said, and that you feel betrayed because it had been a private conversation between close friends. Let them know that you feel hurt as well, because it has as you have said, made a very tense situation even worse. \n\nIn some ways it is to be expected that these friends of yours would tell their husbands, that is their life partner. What is terribly wrong is for the husbands to turn around and not only repeat your private words and cause more problems for you, but these husbands also ratted on their own wives by telling. Goes to show you that these husbands did not even think about how their actions would afftect you or the bad position they put their ownnn  wives in. Now these women of course will have to face you with what they have done. All around not a good situation. \n\nI would be very hurt by their actions but as well, I do not think they told their husbands to be mean or to do it as gossip but to share in what you are going through and perhaps as women do... run it by someone else in order to get another's opinion.  Perhaps you could keep this in mind as you confront them. They do owe you a big apology..... as well as their husbands.  Good luck... I hope everything turns out ok for you.
131935
my ex-wife. That's worse than a limp bizkit on an all buffet friday at hoochie mamas.
758952
i too went through this, 10 years of it, whenever we were having any discussion he would turn it around and i would be made the problem, it escalated into name calling, fat hog, slut, really bad names. whenever he did not get his way or wouldn't stick up for me to his son, no matter what the problem, he would change the subject and suddenly i became the problem. after awhile our communication suffered, actually i was too afraid to even bring anything up, did not feel safe, knew i would be the focus, and if he couldn't find a problem with me, he would make one up. just causes resentment and eventually someone will get so angry that they will stray from the marriage. think the problems stem from a more serious thing, it's never about what they say about you, or the names u get called, it runs deeper than that, think it's about something they feel they are not getting out of the marriage.
412446
not for the fat pg, but maybe cause of the Jackass in the house.  \n\nLOL\n\nSeriously, go see a marital counseler or a divorce lawyer.  save yourself the time.
539844
i grew up around black people i am white and used to be over weight. i used to see a lot of black dudes going with white chicks because they used to say the fatty whitties ain't getting nothing else and had lower self esteem then the black fatties and gave less trouble, here in america it is more exceptable to be a druggie then a fattie. plus when you look at it fat people tend to have lower self esteems hense the reason they keep eating. comming from a former fattie myself but what i did was get some excercise loose the weight and married me an arab! so not all fat white women would want to be with a white man or a black man or spanish etc.. to each his or her own!!!!
1118678
Well, why on earth would get with any of those losers who probably tell fat jokes all day long with friends and co-workers. How dare you even consider taking a chance just because you lost weight and now have some self confidence. What about what you will do to that poor guy who loved you for you! Does he deserve to get hurt? It's going to make him resent women in general and make it hard for him to trust again. He should reap the benefits of your new slim figure, he should have those same guys that talked about him for being with a fat girl, now turning green with envy. He deserves that, because he fell in love with the true you, your personality, and not with the outer appearance of  you. Do what is right, or you are going to end up miserable. I know so many slim girls who get cheated on and dogged out by the same guys you are talking about getting with. They would kill for a chance to have such a nice guy. Don't be foolish sweetie. Stay with this guy, get married, have children. I guarantee you that he won't leave your side during or after childbirth, over the extra weight that you gain. He at least have already validated himself in that department!
981231
don't feel to o bad. my wife asked me a question about "tossing the salad" at diner one night. i was almost too embarrassed to tell her. most the other people are right though so i will save you the humility of having to read it again. God bless your innocents.
249697
How bout not blaming someone else for your problems.  If you are getting fat it's up to you to do something about that.\n\nI can't believe all those who answered before me did not call him on this!  What's wrong with ya'll????