i have a boyfriend, but i still love my ex!?
956722
dont play with your current boyfriend... and yes you are toying with him, break it off with him until you have either fallen out of love with your Ex or you are ready to move on from your Ex.... It sounds Harsh but trust me you'll thank me in the end :)\n\nboy that's mature Wolfchat
832633
Do you really want a bf who stalks you around, keeps you from other guys' company and is overly possessive? He might only be interested out of jealousy. Go with the new guy. Time will tell if your ex really cares.
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
286324
Dump him!!! I know that that my sound extreme but, think about you state of mind. The fact that you love him is secondary, love is not suppose to hurt. Does he love you? I seriously doubt it for if he did he wouldn't be out with his ex, he would be out with you.
881226
Well just wait a while and make sure that you are ready to date some one new because you never know what could happen and getting into a relationship even though you know that you still have feelings for your ex.. isnt the perfect way 2 start a new relationship. wait a few days see if you still want your ex back if u do talk to your ex and try 2 work something out.... it worked for me and we've been dating for two weeks now (yea i know not 2 long lol) but my advice sweetie is just 2 wait dont rush your self it aint necessary :-)
748508
well I'm only 15 years old but i think i can relate to your situation.  When i was in seventh grade i found my first love.  I loved him so much and we ended up being together for 2 years and 6 in a half months.  i broke up with him because he cheated on me once.  Since then i have missed him soo much. I thought that i needed him in my life to be there for me and to make me happy.  \n\nBut, i finally found someone else and realized that the feelings i had for my EX is nothing close to the feelings that i have for my new boyfriend. \n\nmy point is that you may think that you love him and miss him but what your really missing and in love with is all the good times and the great memories that you too shared together.  \n\nYou dont miss Him!!\n\nYou will  find someone else who will feel the same way you do and you'll be happier.
415903
don't ruin your new relation, u just miss ur ex it's totally normal, but let go the past and give that new guy a fair chance to make u happy.\nu had trust issues with ur ex that's irreversible, move ahead. good luck and be happy
971157
The grass sure is always greener on the other side, isn't it?  You left boyfriend number 2 because you were thinking back to boyfriend number 1 and wanting to to back with him.  Now you are with him and you are thinking back to number 2 and wanting to be with him.  Do we see a pattern?  Don't judge him (number 2) by how he treated you when you broke up with him for another guy!  Even the best guy would be slightly peeved and act out a little.  Instead of constantly thinking about what guy you want to be with, think of who you want to be.  Maybe this misery is your heart's way of telling you that neither one is right for you.  If you really don't feel that's the case, then realize that you decided to be with number one for a number of reasons and remind yourself of those reasons.  Don't keep going back and forth, that gets really old for everyone involved really fast.  \n\nBasically, my advice is to get away from both of them.  It will be hard not to think of the good things and miss them both, but you can do it.  Make a list of the bad things about each one!  That should deter you!  \n\nGood luck!
1027662
you need to file yourself and get this over with...do not wait on him...and let him go, you may still love him but why? why would you want someone back who has left you and treated you this way...get this over with, the sooner you do the sooner you can move on
656947
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
1015455
Wow, your situation sounds like mine!! My ex was older than me and he got over me way too soon. I wasn't ready to see him with his new girlfriend and i got upset. After being in a situation like yours, i think you should move on. It will be hard and the feeling of love with still be there, but i would forget him and just move on. You never know what is out there unless you go for it and forget about your past!! It sounds hard and you may not want to do it.. but seriously get over him and give yourself some time to heal before finding someone else. Don't just jump into a new relationship either. Really deal with the situation and make sure you're feelings are gone before getting with someone else!! Good luck :)
687650
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
139742
first of all, make sure you are completly over your ex. dont fall for just anyone, because then it will turn out to be a rebound relationship, and you wont be happy then. wait things out, and when mr. right comes strolling along, you will know it. i wish u the best luck, and remember, you are your own person, so be proud to turn a few men down if it doesnt seem right. you'll know when its right.
489018
You broke up with this guy for a reason. Ask yourself if you really like your ex. Who do you want to be with? maybe you should just be single for a while and just date around. Maybe try to be friends with your ex and see how that works out for you, see if your feelings resurface, but also tell him to date as well. It'll all work out if you think things over.
859624
It's called a rebound affect.  Yes, it's nice to find someone else to take your mind off of the ex but be careful you don't treat him as the substitute boyfriend.  See him as an indivdual person.  Work on letting go of the ex.  This will take some time.
411782
as long as your mind is on him and nothing else. if you still have feelings for him or is it just that you were together for a long time and feel more comfortable with your old boyfriend. try to do the same things with the new guy so you will feel comfortable with him/
505027
Ok, look....it seems to me like your ex is just playing around...I mean he knows you have a boyfriend, a good guy would respect that....and if he cared about you he wouldn't be doing this to you, I mean he's confusing you everytime he tries to kiss you and when he tells you he wants you to be friends with benefits? If he cared about you, he would just try to see you as a friend, and try to move on! If you don't love the guy you're with, then talk to him, I don't think it's fair to the other guy, if you think you're slowly falling in love with the other guy, and if he's a good guy, then stay with him....you and your ex broke up for a reason right? then why bother going back? if your relationship with him didn't last you think is gonna last the second time? You're just going to get hurt that way, and in the long run you'll realize that you lost an amazin guy, and trust me once you do something, you can't really go back, only if you're lucky! But if you think you'll never love your new boyfriend, then just be honest with him, and maybe tell him to give you some time or just tell him you want to be just friends! But trust me I think you should move on and forget about your ex! I hope that helped you, just follow your heart, if your heart tells you to go back with your ex then be honest to the other guy, but my advice would be not to cheat on him, I don't think anyone deserves that!