Dr Dave had slept with 1 of his patients & felt really guilty.No matter how much he tried, the sense of?
962663
thats the dogs bollocks!
1019022
Well done for realising you have a problem, that is the first step in the right direction, and so is asking for help too. I think you should see your doctor who can help you or reffer you to someone else who is trained in dealing with such conditions. You need to think positively, relax, and deep breathe when you think you may hurt someone. Walk away from any situation you fear may lead  you want to hurt someone. Remind your self it is not acceptable to hurt someone and that you are a nice person. Take more control in what you do by being a positive you. Has anything ever happened to you in the past to make you want to hurt someone else?? You need to ask yourself why do I want to hurt that person? Then realise what you are thinking and control it. I know it may sound easy, but it will not be. The more you do not give in the easier it will become over time, but you do need to see your doctor to get advice. Hope all will turn out well.
1102620
My best friend in college tried to fight me one night because I laughed at him when someone gave him a dirty sanchez.  His girlfriend of 4 years was visiting our school at the time. I had sex with my her in his dorm room, and on his bed. just to pay him back. Plus I was drunk.  Then she broke up with him and we dated and got married 2 years later.  And have been for 3 years no problems  Last time I checked, he was suffering from extreme depression.  I am not proud of it, but I dont regret any decisions that I have made.
703921
First thing, you're way overanalyzing.  From someone who knows, it just leaves you with sleepless nights.  \n\nYou told her how you felt, can't regret that (there were only two ways it could have gone)  I'd rather do that, then regret not telling someone how I felt about them.  \n\nI wish you a speedy "moving on",  recovery will be much swifter when you do.
815379
Feeling like crap is one of the consequences lying cheaters face. Sorry, but feeling guilty, worried and confused is what she deserves.
893549
You're right, no one should be diminished like that, especially by a doctor in an authority role who's obligation is to treat medical problems without espousing their moral ignorance.\n\nThat said, I wonder if some of your anger isn't being funneled at the doctor than at you g/f picking up what may be due to unprotected sex with someone else.  That possibility has to be floating around in your head somewhere, even if you aren't quite aware.  Hope that's not the case but it could be.  Anyway, let the doc thing go.  It's wasted emotion.
1063049
She feels bad about not being able to perform for you.  But if you actually did sleep with someone else, she'd never forgive you.  It's a tough one.  Go with her to her doctor.
628024
You did nothing wrong, and should never feel guilty about what happened. I know someone who had sexual contact with a child, and they received the treatment they needed in prison to allow them to lead a semi-normal healthy life once again. If you expose your victimizer, you will be doing them a favor. They are actually suffering inside as well. But, for you to have full "closure" in your life...you need to forgive, let go, and move on.
200322
I have had crushes on my doctors before too but then I found out one of them was gay so there went my fantasy. I think what your feeling is probably considered normal but you have to remember that a doctor is a professional and just because they listen to you and touch you doesn't mean they are attracted to you. There are just doing their job and some are more compassionate than others. Don't let your thoughts and fantasies get too out of hand. It's OK to laugh and joke about crushes but remember the chances of him falling in love with you and whisking you off somewhere is sort of absurd.
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When I first had one, I was scared to death and could not relax.  The doctor assured me that it would get easier after I had sex for the first time and especially after childbirth.  Well, I have now had two children and I still dread these appointments.  They still feel just as intrusive and uncomfortable as ever.  I'm lucky to have found a great doctor who really puts me at ease but still right before the actual exam starts, I tense up and I make myself take a deep breath and then it's over and once it's done, it never seems like it was as bad as I remembered but as the next appointment gets closer I feel nervous all over again!\n    My husband recently told me that it will soon be time for him to start his yearly exams with a proctologist and I was like "Well, now you'll sort of know how I feel once a year."  He insisted that his will be worse but I don't think so.  I think they are equally nervewracking procedures!
267595
I know how you feel. There is one fellow from a long time ago who was tormented as a child as I also was. One time, our collective tormentors goaded us into fighting one another, promising to end the torment of whichever one of us won.\n\nI have felt badly for years that the one I should have had the most empathy for was the one I ill treated, not our tormentors. \n\nBut does finding that person and apologizing make them feel better - or you? I asked myself that question, and realize that it would be of little benefit to the person I feel accountable to - it would only assuage my guilt. All I would be doing would be bringing up a long-past horror I know I don't care to remember. \n\nIf this person was ever going to forgive you, chances are they already have. Don't make them relive something simply for your benefit. Unless you were actually planning on reestablishing a relationship with  this person, take your lumps privately. It is the only decent thing to do.
338088
Yep.  What is it with people that say "well, did you talk to him" or " no" or whatever.  i mean please, can't people see the big picture?  the guy was supportive cause he felt bad and guilty, not because he was genuinely concerned.  Someone who genuinely cares and is concerned makes sure that you lock your doors every night, that  you're okay every day.  I repeat, EVERY DAY.  Not selectively on weekends!
574510
There is no reason for you to feel guilty.  Was he worried about hitting you ? was he worried about giving you a swollen face ? He should loose his friends and his job.  Truth is the longer he goes thinking he's not really doing anything wrong the worse he will get.  If more and more people come down on him for his actions and more and more people know about it the better it will be for everyone involved.  Now he has to answer to more people than just you.  That might change his actions.
212390
My buddy, "Ken" got into a motorcycle wreck and became a quadriplegic. He would lay around in bed all day until he concentrated enough to levitate himself and float around the room. Soon he was taking a trip down the street, going into markets and passing right through strangers he used to bump into.\n\nWell, his girlfriend still had to take care of him, feed and wash and change his bedding. I felt so sorry for her and she was at the age when a woman has needs. At night I would visit her in the parlor and I am sure Ken could hear her giggling. In the morning we wheeled Ken into the breakfast nook for juice and toast. He told us about the levitation he had learned and also he was very distraught with the events concerning his girlfriend and I. He went on to tell us of his plan to levitate himself upon the next time of our engagements and that he would satisfy his jealousy one way or another.\n\nWe only played along and tried not to aggravate him any more than he was but, that evening me and the girl went into her bedroom to consume ourselves with passion. Ken, as he promised, levitated himself and went into the den to retrieved a heavy instrument intending to bludgeon me with it. What happened next has caused me perpetual legal jeopardy, for on the way back from the den, Ken mistakenly went into his own room and beat the living hell out of who he thought was me!
174725
never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.
184169
Hun i think he's trying to make you feel guilty in a way so he has a chance to run out on you and not have to be a part of any of what you going through either that or he's just plain cheating on you it that thing we call reverse psychology. when their doing something wrong and try to take it out the innocent.
436355
I dont know why, but yeah, I feel like it would be wrong.\nI guess because he tried so hard to kick drugs, and was open and honest about his feelings. Its sad because a guy that brought everyone so much laughter, could make himself happy and content.  Please let him rest in peace.