HELP? How do you chose between two guys. One is an ex and the other is a new relationship. Im in love with 2.?
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Don't go with your ex. This new guy seems much more trust worthy.\n\nREmember: once a cheater, always a cheater. Nothing is going to change that, regardless of how commited he appears. Cheating is an addiction. \n\nI would go with the military guy. Try a new relationship--you never know where it will take you.\n\nYour ex is your ex for a reason.
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
191077
Which one of them do you have more FUN with? That's how I'd choose! It really depends on what sort of outcome you're looking for, though. \nIf you are looking to be mutually exclusive, you might want to think about it a little more discriminantly- get to know this new guy and his history more thoroughly- then make your decision.\nI obviously don't know you, but sometimes you can tell a lot about someone's feelings about others, simply by looking at the word choice in their question-- yours indicates that, although the 6 years guy is "great", he might be safe & boring, to you. The way you've presented it, it sounds like you are looking to experience something new...
254168
Assess your emotions first, who do you love more? Who treats you better? Do you really think your ex still loves you or does he just want someone to help him with his baby? \n\nAnd before you do anything with your ex, talk with your current boyfriend.\n\nDon't just follow your heart, use your head as well.
418889
Sometimes, its hard to get over an ex.  It sounds to me like you jumped into a relationship with your new boyfriend quickly after the breakup of you and your ex.  Thats not really a good thing, as you need time to come to terms with your feelings and to get over your ex.  \n\nI think you need to consider your feelings for your current boyfriend.  Do you really like him?  Do you really want to be with him?  If so, you are going to have to let your ex go.  There's only so many times he can be called another guys name without freaking out!  If you find you still have overwhelming feelings for your ex, maybe you need to put this relationship on hold while you sort your feelings out.  You can't be with someone and still hold a torch for someone else.  Its not fair to them and its not fair to you.
852768
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
1101672
Well, I was about to answer your last question and it sounds like you're not sure about what you want.  You have a new BF yet you still love the old one...this will not work out and not only will you continue to get hurt you will likely hurt the new BF as well.  You have to make a decision and stick to it: either let new BF go to try and pursue old one, OR move on and learn to live without old BF...good luck.
147968
How in love with your ex could you be after only being with him for a month? If he did you wrong after just being together for a month, then get rid of him altogether. You've been apart longer than what your relationship lasted, give it up and give the new guy a real chance or let him go to find a woman who knows what she wants.
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you
375904
there was probably a good reason why she is now an ex, go for the new girl. you don't know if the new girl will be a better choice unless you try, besides, she already has a man so why should you wait? did she wait for you?
800226
Sounds like there is a chance if man #2 is unattached.  He seems to have shown interest.  You did well not having sex with him from day one.  He may see you as a long-term prospect rather than a short-term fling girl.\n\nBut this has been dragging on for almost 1.5 years, and man #1 and #2 are friends.  Maybe it's too entwined a situation and you should look to a fresh new man for a relationship.  Man #2 hasn't made a move for you during that whole time.\n\nOn the other hand, maybe it's just your ex in the way.  Maybe man #2 doesn't want to step on #1's shoes.  That seems like a strong possibility.\n\nCan you try to get #2 alone again away from the ex?  It might be the only way you can see if there might be a chance.  It sounds like you two haven't been around each other much either.  He might be interested but needs to get to know you better.\n\nJust wondering as well why you're hanging with your ex so much.\n\nHope it works out for you.
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You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
832633
Do you really want a bf who stalks you around, keeps you from other guys' company and is overly possessive? He might only be interested out of jealousy. Go with the new guy. Time will tell if your ex really cares.
613093
go for which ever one you feel most comfortable with and let the other one down gently. or you could tell them you dont want a steady bf and date them both alternitivly. but be careful. good luck
36851
get a new boyfriend. then don't look back. there's a reason why he's an ex.
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
465880
Stay away from this guy. He wasn't concerned about you or your feelings when he was doing the other girl and may have even transmitted something from her to you in the process.  You shouldn't give a damn about him anymore. \nThere are plenty of guys out there. Just be patient and do everything you can to avoid your ex and his significant other and there soon to be lust baby. Try and stay busy with other friends. They will help you through all this and introduce you to someone that is worthy of your time and love.\nGood Luck