is sex supposed to hurt,...because i feel it near my cervix, it feels like a knife stabbing in my tummy?
957800
Try a different position.
968445
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
943011
Sometimes I get a stabbing pain if its a really vigorous sneeze...but then I am pregnant...so its just one of those things...not to say that your pregnant...but if your concerned go see your Doc
655503
Yes it does hurt. You should never have sex
740678
I think its perfectly normal, your body is adjusting to another form of contraception(artificial hormones) so there will be periods of uncomfortable lower pains in the pelvic region.\n\nThat said, it might be worth popping along to your gp to get it checked, it could be all matter of things and any infection should be ruled out.
525999
If you are male it is most likely your appendix. Please get it checked out. If it ruptures it could be fatal. \n\nIf you are female it can also be the appendix or it could just be ovulation. Some women can feel it when the cyst that holds the eggs ruptures. It can hurt for about 24 hours.\n\nAnd for the record your gall bladder isn't by your waist it is up just to the right of your stomach under the bottom of your rib cage. And it will feel like a stomach ache or like a heart attack. I learned that one frome experience.
218788
I think you should seek counseling.  Also, the abortion thing may be a much bigger part of this then you think. Have you always experienced pain during intercourse? Did you tell your doctor about the abortion? I know you might be embarrassed, but you really need to tell him/her.  That could be a big part of the problem.  It is not uncommon to hear about infections or internal injuries after that procedure.  I would make sure you are open about that with your doctor and then ask him/her for a referral to a psychologist so that you can start to recover from the psychological impact this has had on you.  Sometimes it may take years to recover from this.  If your doctor does know about your experience and the physical pain does not go away I would see a GYN and get a second opinion.  It is not normal to have physical pain during intercourse.  He/she may be missing something.  I really hope that things work out for you and I understand what you are going through.  I have been in a similiar situation. - Take care : )
397639
could be tight muscles.  There is a 'corset' of muscles that supports your spine but also makes up your abdomen.  IF those muscles get tight near the spine, she may feel a pulling sensation.\nOr, could be a hernia.\nShe should go to MD.
163983
OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
709369
no they don't. but sometimes when close to my period they just might.. if you hurt a lot it might have nothing to do with sex. call your doctor and ask your partner to be more careful
540072
you might want to get checked for chlamydia and gonorrhea. having an infection in your cervix, uterus, or fallopian tubes can cause a lot of pain when the cervix gets bumped around (like during sex).
522356
you didn't say how many times-but if you are totally relaxed with your partner and you are well lubricated then I would have to wonder why it's painful for you. There are some medical conditions that make intercourse painful. If it continues go see your doctor.
610599
It sounds like you may have a tilted uterus/cervix.  Same thing happens to me occasionally.  Found out from a nurse practitioner that when you engage in certain positions that have deeper penetration (i.e. "doggy style") that the penis can actually hit against the cervix.  I guess a tilted uterus is very common and most doctors never even tell the patients so as not to worry them.  The nurse suggested not to be so "rough" and try other shallower positions.  (I didn't ask, I was still too embarrassed...) Hoped this helped.
597429
I have the same "problem". It is just the way your body fat is distributed around your abdomen area. Not a big deal, unless it is painful. :o)
400762
It is only in the hips if you have been sexually assaulted or been manipulated into having sex you weren't ready for.\n\nAnger most often resides in the gallbladder. Unvoiced anger can also get lodged in your neck/throat and when you least expect it, can make you feel like you are choking.
769887
I have been there; \n\nThe reason it is hurting is because you are dry before he inserts his penis; and likely he is too young to know that he should first get you to the point that you are excited and your vagina is secreting for lubrication for the penis.  If you are not wet or not feeling really good before he puts his penis in you; than you need to perform more foreplay.\n\nAnd if it still hurts even when you are lubricated, then it is probably an infection in your cervix.  If it is a "burning sensation" when he puts it in, or even when you stop and it still burns then you have an infection of some sort and should see a doctor.
167805
Sex feels good AND it hurts! If its really good, the pain is almost unnoticable. It depends on alot of things too how much it will hurt and/or feel good including - - your personal lubrication, his size, position, if your are relaxed or tense, position (can't stress that too much)