what is it about Zen that's so attractive?
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It appealed because of its emphasis on the uselessness of words and the insistence of action without thought.\n\nZen teaches the possibility of enlightenment in the here and now, unlike the tendency that have developed in other strands of Buddhism as far off goals. It teaches that enlightenment is a spontaneous event, totally independent of concepts, techniques or rituals. Zen Monks are based on doing things, learning through experience.\n\nEsoterically regarded, Zen is not a religion but rather an indefinable, incommunicable (fukasetsu) root, free from all names, descriptions, and concepts, that can only be experienced by each individual for him- or herself. From expressed forms of this, all religions have sprung. In this sense Zen is not bound to any religion, including Buddhism. It is the primordial perfection of everything existing, designated by the most various names, experienced by all great sages, saints, and founders of religions of all cultures and times. Buddhism has referred to it as the "identity of samsara and nirvana."
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good looking is relitive. it all depends on your preference.
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yes it is the whole packige that makes you attractive
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The eyes, face,and a nice smile..Cuz really what good is a body with out some pretty eyes and a nice face and smile to go along with it...
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Excellent manners, a sense of decency, good character and high intelligence. These things are crucial, with all other factors paling in comparison. Looks will change over the years; a strongly developed sense of ethics won't.
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Heck, yeah.  Asian men are usually very attractive and very smart.
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to praise beauty is aesthetic sence
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Besides, what's so great about hair?
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to be attractive with the whole package and to have sexual appeal
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well,i would say humor and beauty
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A good looking smile will always get my attention.\nI like women who are understanding and compassionate.\nI like women who are confident yet not forceful.\nI like women who can stop and appreciate small things like a wild flower in a meadow, a beautiful bird at the feeder, or a spectacular sunset.\nI like women who enjoy the laughter of children.\nI like a woman who is happy with herself because she knows she is who i love.\nI like a woman who isn't a material girl but has substance in her soul.
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Being graceful, elegant and demure is a wonderful thing...to delicately waft across the stage en point as if gravity itself has stopped to watch the beauty in such movement is a truly inspiring thing.\n\nBeing bendy as hell is even more impressive though
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pleasant to look at,intelligence,nice eyes,great smile,
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I think that their independent and intellectual nature is very attractive!
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"Nudity is a good thing. The human body is a work of art in infinite variation, regardless of size and shape. While it’s true that some are more pleasing to the eye than others, it’s always a matter of perspective just why that is and which pleases more than others. What I find incredibly attractive may cause someone else to shudder and look away. Same for those that find me attractive. I’m \ndefinitely not built for the masses, but I enjoy my body and am comfortable in my skin, so the opinion of others doesn’t really have a huge effect. Sure, compliments or pure jaw-dropped, drooling lust are good things, but the very best feeling is looking in the mirror and being not only satisfied, but happy.\n\nWith the infinite variety in shape that nature has provided, of course there are areas common to each male that I always find attractive, regardless of any other \nattributes. The hollow of a man’s throat, the tender spot just beneath his earlobe"\n\n"the web of skin between his thumb and fingers that’s perfect for biting. On a broader scale there are arms and hands and asses and chests and those great undefinables, attitude and personality. If that weren’t enough, there’s the whole total package thing. I’m sure the men I find attractive are, for the most part, considered generally good-looking, but he’s got to have the entire package going on if I’m going to pursue him. And to be perfectly honest, if those indefiniables are a spectacularly good thing, the rest just doesn’t matter.\n\nNature has provided us with a built-in set of preconceptions passed on genetically. It is the learned behavior and experience that refines, and perhaps \neven changes, those preconceptions. Attraction is a wonderful and mysterious thing."
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To start with it all gets back to karma.  A person normally considered very attractive gets to know a person normally considered unattractive.  They may have a lot in common otherwise and agree on key issues starting with philosophies about life.  \n\nIt is easier to see karma at work when these two people as mentioned above just somehow wind up being able to spend enough time with each other that they find out they are compatible with each other.  \n\nThis also gets back to another issue mentioned in the Bhagavad Gita.  The Gita mentions karma, but also the mechanics of attraction to the objects of sense gratification.  When someone is attracted to the opposite gender the prospects for all kinds of sense gratification and enjoyment is great.  This puts the living entity in a spell or you could call it infatuation.  \n\nBut, with human beings we see that two people may get together for some time.  However, later they may begin to recognize that their companion has differing opinions over crucial issues beginning with philosophical beliefs.  Thus, we see so much divorce in society.
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Bold, Intelligent, Gentle, Best organised, optimistic, beautiful and sexy..in short B.I.G. B.O.O.B.S....LOL