She loves me but she's not in love with me?
966713
Why do you have to quit the band.  I don't think that you do.  Look at Fleetwood Mac and No Doubt.  They stayed together after bandmates broke up.\n\nYou can't make someone love you.  Do you really want to give up that type of friendship and your band?  Some of the best music comes from that type of relationship.
126931
The simple truth of the matter is this. She doesn't love you, all she wants is something she can't have and that happens to be you. Trust me the only person who will get hurt in all this is you. I have lost a good friend because of this exact same thing and let me tell you it was never worth it.
1132529
Well, how does she feel about that? What makes this situation tough is how does she feel about him as a boyfriend? If she really doesn't love him then yes move on but if she loves him and stays with him then she is selling herself short of happiness and no one should do that to oneself. She is just a piece of meat to him.
230516
love is deeper than flirting.. does this someone call you? does she miss you whenever shes not with you? or does she just like you when your around... Is your relationship based on physical things or on mental? all of these are questions you should ask yourself when you want to know if it is love... Good luck with this though..
286176
let her go dude...\nthink about it you can not force her to love you ... and futher more would you want her to be unhappyly w/ you
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
544204
communication. you need to talk to her. see where her feelings are at. she probably doesn't know you love her.  the best thing to do is talk and find out what she is thinking.
196312
maybe she isn't really looking inside of u and is a little comfused if YOUR the 1 she wants 2 be with 4 the rest of her life! Maybe she is having second thoughts!! GOOD LUCK!
447415
You can't exactly make anyone yours, if they are truly meant to be with you then it will come with time (naturally).  The fact is you can't make someone love you because then it's not really love, real love is reciprocated, not a one way street.  If she's confused, then give her some space and time to sort out her feelings, don't force her to make a decision because then it might push her further away from you.  Believe me, when the time comes, you'll know whether or not she belongs with you.
1139935
ok so i think she is confused she is young and there is alot of preasure on both of u... of course u still have feelings 4 this person.... u know the saying\n\n\nif u love someone /something set it free.. if it comes back to u it was always urs if it don't it never was......\n\nso i say give her time... she may see that she cares 4 u and will come back to u.... if not it's her bad she will be the one missing out on a great guy.... hope everything works out 4 u... keep ur head up =)
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
693834
Are you sure she doesn't feel the same?\nHumm.\nBut she IS meeting you, right?\n\nLooks like she is playing "hard-to-get"! :-)\n\nDid she explicitly tell you she doesn't love you?\nWell, if not, take it easy, man. \n\n"Quitters never win, and winners never quit - simple."
400078
I guess both of you don't love each other cos you as a guy must open to her that you truly love her. Well you can still make a change on that cos its not too late. Try to open up for her and stop pretending and I guess she will also open up to you.
314318
Maybe it is not that kind of love.  Find a way to spend more time with her and make sure before you just lay it on her and completely blow her mind.
506674
Why do you think she does not like you?  Is your self-esteem a bit low right now?  Why do you feel you do not deserve her love?  Whatever the cause, please start to believe in yourself.  Are you not a nice person?.  You have friends, don't you.? And you would do anything for any one. Yeah?  See, just believe that you are a good person and good things will come to you. Good luck.
988302
If she truly loves you-she won't.  You stated that you love her alot and as long as she feels that and you have been honest with her who cares.  Life is too short and when you find someone you love-let go of judgement and hold on tight to love.  People that are secure and confident might actually find your past adventure a turn on.
1030201
time will tell dude...if her affection towards you is getting more "close" then shes not lost to you dude...she just needs a little space...from what i understand i dont think shes going anywhere...just let it unfold...