should i act like i dont need him?
965569
it was the chase that he liked. get on with ur life and have fun.
635202
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...
204620
You don't need help, you need to dump him.  You don't need this loser in your life, you deserve better.  Kick him out of your life and find a man who will love and respect you.
229414
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
722699
Just be yourself and if he doesn't pay attention to you, then it's his loss. Being someone that you're not to get a guy's attention is not a wise thing to do, because then he really doesn't like YOU.
1187406
well give some detail like how is he no good? At least you figured it out in a quick amount of time you didn't waste years I would just tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore it's that's simple, you don't deserve to be treated badly... drop the jerk and find someone that will treat you right.
1113585
I think he's a control freak and you're a fool for keeping him around. Send him packing and find somebody you can trust, somebody who'll treat you right.
1064288
I do not think it is necessary to lie to him.  Just tell him you need to go.  I am sure he will understand.
120577
stop calling him. 1 he doesnt like you. 2 when you stop calling it makes him feel like hes not important enough for you to chase. men hate that. when he does call (which he will) dismiss him as if youre busy itll drive him crazy. then you can sit back and watch his ego do your work for you!
801357
Yes just say you are thinking of him and to let you know if he needs anything, then if he doesn't respond leave him alone
776455
I would sit and have a long conversation with him and try to get out what was bothering him. Evidently something is or he wouldn't be acting like this. Either he wants to be with u or he's making up excuses to leave u. I would find the truth and get to the bottom if it. No use in wasting your time on someone who's a jerk.
240049
ask him....if he says he will, then he really doesn't care about you....find someone else.
967455
If you love him, then you're not using him. If you juist have him around because he's caring and generous then you are. I don't think he's so afriad of losing you as he is a sweet natured man who loves you and appreciate you enough to treat you like a queen. How lucky you are!!
237543
Tell him straight-out, give him an example or two. If he doesn't act like he cares or makes no changes in how he is treating you, and IF you are not married, perhaps you are wasting time with Mr. Wrong, that you could be spending with a Mr. Right somewhere along the line. You must value yourself as a person enough to do this; if you continue to allow him to act like you don't matter, then you are basically agreeing with him. You do matter, you do have a choice, and there are plenty of other guys that would likely find you captivating and enjoy acknowledging you and including you in their world.
218595
not neccesarily, he might think that he would come across as needy if he called sooner. They are pressured by other guys not to show their feelings. give him a few more chances to see how he really feels
555592
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
1166374
I do not like playing games either, but I do not think that you should make yourself readily available to anyone. I mean most of us dodge our jobs and we KNOW that we are going to get paid for the time we put in. You do not know him well, you do not know where this is going. Slow down if he is what you think he is there will be plenty of time for the two of you to spend together. And on the contrary this is your world! Especially in this situation! All I can say is take your time if he is worth it saying well I kind of made other plans today is it OK if we reschedule this for (2 days later), will not turn him around. I think you are saying to yourself gotta get it while the getting is good. That's why you jump on it every time he calls. It seems that you would like to keep him around for some time so take some time. If you turning him down turns him away then that is just letting you know that he is not the person that you thought or hoped he was.