If i am Cheating on My BF can the new man ever fully trust me?
969185
It's a mind thing.  He will get over it if he really wants to be with you.
553364
You have a right to be worried because many people cheat because it is addictive.  However, everyone deserves to be judged by their current relationship and not their past.  Who this man is with you and the relationship you have with him is unique and shouldn't be compared to his previous relationship.  Be smart and keep your eyes open but give this relationship a chance and don't throw it away just because your scared your relationship will end up like his before.
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Hi, without a doubt in my mind, if I ever found out my man was cheating I would dump him, no questions asked.\nSome of you may say "he/she made a mistake.Yes, it is a mistake, and sadly some people repeat them over and over again.\nI would never be able to trust my boyfriend again. Women are emotional and are imaginations are highly active. I would not trust my boyfriend again. I would always have a vision in my mind of my boyfriend bedazzling another woman.\n I also would have a low opinion of myself. I would feel like I am not pretty, or sexy enough for my boyfriend (even though his actions were not my fault). I would also feel like he didn't love me. Because sorry, but if you truly love someone, you don't cheat, bottom line. I don't care if you are drunk, or your having a bad day..Its something you don't do to someone you love.\n  I would be so devestated if I found that out about my boyfriend. Also, when partners do cheat, they put YOU at risk. At risk for a disease....And believe me, several cheaters out there have given their girls and wifes, husband and boyfriends diseases. So my opinion, you would not want to put your love at risk.\n  Cheating is a disease for some people. They have to do it to make themselves feel high. Guys and Gals alike, don't fool yourself into thinking you are different or that these people can change. And to those of you who are going out with married or attached people, you are just as bad. You are an enabler. Some people cannot seem to stop cheating.\n  To you who have written this question, Good one. And I hope to a higher power out there that you have not been cheated on.
475858
Yes You can get anyone to trust you just make him trust you by being repectful, and loveing show him you would never hert him.
266577
you can check and check all your life and you still will not be sure...when a man wants to cheat behind your back he can and you would never know...so give it up, relax and start joining the normal living...your checking or suspicions will not change anything...start worrying when and if you have reason to...(while dating is very different from marriage, he is now a committed man).
280974
well you actually never know..Your heart should decide if she wants to trust him or not.But if he really loves you he won't lie to you
376502
If it is really don't put it here.\nhowever it's meand if be true deream, you hidden some thing  for your new boyfriend, you must be clear with he.\nEnd
516831
Trust is a big component in a healthy, long lasting relationship.  You have to use your good judgement and from what you know about him now, evaulate if he would be capable of playing you or have cheating tendencies.  Nobody wants to be hurt, but let him know how important it is to you for him to be honest and trustworthy.
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It's largely up to you.  If you beleive it was a one time thing and that you can trust him now, and if you still love him then just move forward.  With time it should get easier to handle.  However if you're not sure if you can trust him or not THAT is a different story!  Trust is at the foundation of any good relationship.
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
80030
I know how you feel.  I am in a long distance relationship myself and my boyfriend's best friend is a woman.  If you really love your boyfriend then you have to trust him.  Trust is the most important thing you can have in a relationship.  You built up a trust with him while you were together now you have to build up a long distance trust.  It is very hard to do but you can get through it.  If he assures you he won't cheat and if he hasn't shown any signs of cheating then don't worry.  It will get easier with time.
239030
catch my man red handed if he cheats on me
76399
It probably depends on where the relationship is at at the point you decide to part (geographical) ways. If you were together for a while before you were in other states, then I'd say your chances are better than they would be had you spent most or all of your relationship apart.\n\nWill he cheat? That's your call. If you decide to stay with him for the remainder of the time he's out there, you have made the CHOICE to trust him and you will have to resist the temptation to check up on him all the time. \n\nBut if you both want to go for it and give the relationship a shot, then do it. Who knows, you might have found someone that will completely surprise you!\n\nGood luck!
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I say no, honey, if you don't want to be hurt again then stay away from him. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. And for the time being when you don't have a bf, get closer to your girlfriends! They won't cheat on you.
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If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
390794
YES! If you don't trust your partner then you'll always be paranoid thinking they're cheating on you or trying to get you, that kind of stuff. Because of that there will be fights, and the couple wont be able to get along together. Trust is a MUST!
74346
no i dont think so,cuz if i know or find out he cheats on me that means i cant give him what he need..so aint no need for me 2 b with him anymore..he wanna cheat on me he should make sure im not gonna find out,but men always get busted somehow..and as a female u know when he cheats,u can feel it.