i need help...me and my b/f been together almost 7 years.....?
970304
ill move in with you and we can make pretty babies together!
1132023
well im 18 and my b/f is 26 and we get along really well. he is young at heart and loves to have fun. give it a go and things may work out. if not at least you wont be stuck asking...what if!
1167249
He sounds immature.  Ask yourself if you  are better off with him or without him.  Sounds to me like without would be the way to go.\n\nI just ended a 7 year relationship - so don't feel alone in this.  I feel sad at times but am getting my life back together without his head games and am feeling at peace\n\nGood luck
548284
Let him know this will be the challenge of how strong your relationship is, and that you think it is no problem!  \n\nOn the other hand, I lived in Europe for 7 years, it is WAY too fun and will be hard not to have "too good of a time".\n\nStay away from Majorca Spain!!!
1019483
Some times a relationship just isn't made for the long haul.  I think it sounds like you two have had a good run but the relationship has reached its end point.  Maybe it is time to end this so that both of you can move forward with your lives.  If you keep going like this eventually you are going to end up hating each other and you are both going to miss out on other opportunities in life.
137976
"if you don't know where to go, stay where you are." \nweigh your feelings. you and your bf have been together for four years... you love your bf... yes, you argue... don't all couples do? i think you're just bored. and it's understandable. it happens. for all you know your bf may be feeling the same way and just doesn't want to give up. \ndon't risk it.
273380
It'll take a lot of trust on both ends. It also depends on how much you two love each other. If you two have both, then it'll work. If not, then it probably won't. It's not easy, I speak from experience, but it can work. Buff up on your communication skills...you'll need that the most! Best of luck to you!
1061956
well, u've been together for 7 years, so for sure u have reached a high level of honesty between u guyz.. so, ask her whats wrong.. tell her how u feel.. i think after 7 years there will be no use of playing games.. just ask her straight forward!
348761
hey.....7 yrs!!come on thats gota be special,just ask yourself these questions,who is on your mind in the morning?whos on your mind at night?do you let each other be yourself?do you get each other?.....you will either answer yes to all of the above or no......ifs its no..then go with the flow till it runs its course...if its yes..then you know what to do friend
808887
Try some bondage or some role-playing.  Keeping it fresh is the hardest thing for me too (in a relationship for 7 years now).  When the feelings of passion wear off, we have to get creative.  Even if you are sexually active, it gets old for both parties.  Try going to an adult store for ideas or look at some adult couple websites.  I think most long-time couples would say that this is the hardest area to overcome and new ideas are always welcome.
243665
i think you should talk to him. both of you need to find out what is the problem that has both of you too constantly arguing. Maybe you can both see about having like a couples therapy thing.  sometimes its best for someone from the outside to see whats going on. I think if both of you love each other so much you should do what you can to make it work if after all that your still arguing more than you not arguing well than maybe you two should go your seperate ways. it wont mean you two dont love each other just that you to aren't meant for each other. but i would do what i can before saying its over definitely. good luck and best wishes.
252367
Everyone grows up sooner or later.  However, that he had nothing to do with your child for seven years raises a big question in my mind.  Will he be there later?  Is he here to stay?  He owes the answers to your child and to you.\n\nObviously you have had a thing for him this whole time, and he for you.  People don't stop speaking to each other because of indifference.  \n\nGive it a chance, but make sure you know the answers to those questions.  You owe it to yourself and your kid.\n\nGood luck!
89311
Talking about it is the right thing.  Don't let him avoid this discusion, make him have it.  You both deserve to get this figured out so you can either move forward together or move on with your lives seperately.  If he continues to refuse then make it clear this is over and your moving on.
1142593
6 years is pretty long and yet he does not want anything serious. Obviously you both want different things. Whats' the point then? Perhaps you grow too comfortable with him not necessary content. Time to move on and look for someone different.
674981
After seven years with someone you should be able to comprise....all you can do is talk about the situation and let him know how depressed this is makin you feel...if he loves you which he should do after so long he might think about it abit more...communication is the best way...and honesty
185929
If your bf or gf loves you then they will understand your predicament.\n\nPick what is the most important thing that will help you throughout your life and put that as a little ahead of the rest.\n\nset up a certain amount of time each day for your love life
753937
How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!