What do I do about a lazy husband?
963139
Is it to late to answer that question "i've being going out with this guy............should we get married?"
553358
This is what I did when I was married to a slob.  Take a gigantic trash bag and put everything in it.  Throw it out in the yard and see how long it take him to realize it's there.  When he asked hey honey where is my ____  just say you got tired of looking at it and threw it away.  Next, when he is asleep in bed at night, get out all your tampons and maxipads and throw them on the floor on his side of the bed.  This one really freaks them out.  Put all his dirty socks and underware inside his pillowcase so he can use them as a pillow.  Hide his real pillow.  Also, to get them to do their own laundry, get something new and really red to wash with his whites.  It turns everything pink and he willget tired of wearing pink unerwear in a hurry.
1138966
Girl you need to do whats right for you and your kids.If you feel like he's not taking you seriously then you have to figure out if its really a problem for you if so you need to let him know this is how you feel, and if he's still acting like he don't care then girl get up and do it.I know he's your husband but don't let nobody stop you from doing something you want to do.Sounds like he trying to keep you on lock..
392352
uh, just out on a limb here... (ha ha, check that pun out!) but YOU want your husband to do forestry, and YOU are doing research... shouldn't HE be the one checking things out? YOU need to get him a good job? it sounds to me like you are trying to change your lazy man. if you keep doing things for him, he never will do them himself. just an assumption. sorry if i'm wrong, but it is something to think about.
940513
I'm in same boat with my hubby i'm lucky i'm on computer now to answer this the way he hogs the computer.   Give him errans to run and if you want to spend time with him find things you know he'll want to do like go to a guy flick.  I finally got hubby off to go see saw 111.  Try creative things he may be feeling bored and games are is only outlet.  I try and play games with him i hate it but at least we;re together.  Also be open about how you feel i did and he cut his game playing in half lol i'm working on the other half now lol
917580
My husband on a lazy Saturday morning.
1122416
I guess you have already tried talking to him. What does he think is "ridiculous", you wanting him to help? I can only tell you what I would do. I would sit him down and tell him " As long as we BOTH have to work two jobs, I am not going to be the only one taking care of everything around the house. If you want a housewife, then you need to support one. Otherwise, we share the chores just like we share the bills". If he cannot see the logic in that, I would be considering leaving. There is no way I would allow myself to be treated that way.
655066
The scorn that 'The Pilot' has just poured out on you in unjustified.  Your husband made marriage vows, you have needs, if he were in your shoes he would probably have done something about the situation long ago.  I think you need to take a complete break from routine, say go to a hotel, order in dinner, and talk to each other.  Remind him of the times he chased you around, tell him how lonely you are, how hurt you feel, how you need more than the nothing you are being given.  With his health problems, I'd be bothering my wife as if every day were my last!\nYou deserve to be loved, more than the love for a piece of furniture, which is all he is showing you.  He loves having you around, wouldn't know what to do without you, etc.  It's very difficult to think of leaving someone you have so much history with, and who is in poor health, but DON'T let guilt keep you unfulfilled.\nTALK!
322805
If you don't trust him, you need to ask yourself if you should be in this relationship.  My husband has lazy moments too but it would never cross my mind for a second that he'd cheat on me.
496702
Just give him lots of attention and spend time with him doing what he likes once in a while... Trust me he will start paying more attention to you then! Just dont nag him and bug him alot.... Also if this does not work seek marriage counseling!
385150
Start being more independent!  Quit relying on him, get over it and show him that you don't need him in your life.  Show him you are capable and willing to raise your child on your own.  Basically cut him out of your life.  Remember any man can be a father... takes a Real MAN to be a DAD!
348941
I think it is your husband fault. You can ask this question to him and try to get his help. If hi can not help you, wait for a while. Time is a medicine for the most of the problem:)
258262
Tell him you need alone time with your wife  since you don't get to see her much with working all day long.
831577
well see if he is busy and ask him why he does that .and if he keeps doing it i think its time 2 find a new man
456224
Talk to your husband and ask him what it is he wants to to change if he is being reasonable take his suggestions into account and try to implement them, but don't go out of your way to make him happy at the expense of your own happiness. You love each other so you can work though this to make it work.
91621
give him dirty looks every now and then and ignore him
69308
Sometimes the guy needs to get 'it' out of his system, take a little break and then with a little attention be ready to go for round two, three, etc.  Just be patient and don't add to the pressure.  Don't let him off the hook with the 'happens to everyone' garbage either.  It's a matter of the guy not being selfish and lazy, and the woman doing more than lying on her back too.  Good luck!