and how would u react if ur homo friend tells u that he/she has fallen for u??
966000
Be flattered that someone finds you attractive but explain to them that you aren't interested in them that way.  It's not a big deal.  If you really are a friend to that person, then you should be able to be honest with them.
845455
You should tell him how you feel.
612995
I would say:\n\n"Wow. I'm touched. I like you, but I like you as a friend. I just dont want to lose this friendship we have. I would hate it if things changed between us."
629771
i think u u should tell ur friend u like him ok
621129
poor you, well if he likes you ask him why? if you're not gay tell him. he will get over it some time, i hope!
846001
YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
887893
my best friend in high school pretended to be gay for 4 years. i was naked in front of him, i kissed him on the lips, we massaged each other ( but nothing more) at graduation he told me that he was never gay and had a crush on me since freshman year! we are no longer friends.
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r u a dude? is your friend a dude? just see if he does gay things like iggle or compliment a girls outfit and if he gets this offer from a very hot grl and doesnt accept it then man he must be gay. Most of the time ppl just find out on thier own.
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I'd be most responsive if the confession that he liked me was blurted out accidentally, against his will, or with uncertainty and a bit of embarrassment.  (So endearing!) If the guy took me out to a movie or restaurant and then told me, as if he'd planned the whole thing, I would probably reject it. In contrast, if we were walking to the train station after hanging out at the art gallery or library, discussing Plato, UFOs, eugenics, Michelangelo and politics the whole day... and he suddenly grew quiet, and asked, "What if I told you that I really like you?" and then blushed and looked away...\n\nYeah, I'd fall for that.
847428
You don't.  If he is straight that means he is most likely not interested nd if you tell him you may just make him angry.  And they you, assuming you are friends, run the risk of losing his friendship.
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He could have been confused and tried denying how he really felt... especially since you both are so close it would almost be natural for him since there's already a connection between the two of you.\n\nI doubt he was leading you on and if he wasn't letting anyone know that he was gay there would almost be no way of you knowing.  He probably feels worse than you do right now and he might even be thinking be that he did lead you on in some way.  \n\nThe only thing I can say is that the longer you wait to talk to him again the more ackward things are going to be.  The sooner you get things out in the open and talk about it, the quicker everything will go back to normal.\n\nI'm bi and I actually had a similar expirience with a friend of mine who was gay.  We use to work together and he was always touchy feely; I assumed maybe he was bi like me... needless to say I was wrong.  (Even though I now know he is as gay as gay can be, he's got this thing with boobs lol, which I guess all guys do.)  \n\nI felt stupid for a long time but I didn't want my misunderstanding to affect things between us.  We talked about it and I realized that it wasn't an option to be his lover but "friends" aren't bad either.  I knew that keeping him as a friend meant I wouldn't lose him and losing him was the last thing that I wanted to happen.\n\nEverything is fine now and we're still really good friends.  Don't think that you're the first girl to fall for a gay guy because that's not true at all.  You get a man with the caring part of a woman... all straight ladies want that!!!  Just talk to him and let him know that no matter what you're going to continue to be there for him just as he will be there for you.
816501
IF HE FLIRTS WITH U!!  : )
91167
I'd listen to BRONZI because all these other people's advice will compel this person to have a sudden reaction.  If you want your best friend, smoothly transition into it as he wrote.  Don't jolt him into any situation by coming out and saying "I love you" he won't be prepared and you might end up hurt.
616504
slap him and force him too... lol thats how i get my brother to admit he is gay infront of all my friends ... good times good times
620749
yea just tell him straight up how u feel, and tell him what ur best friend thinks about him too
430742
Uhhh...well, if you KNOW they are straight you need to leave it alone since you are attracted to them.  That could be a disaster waiting to happen, especially if you are a guy.\n\nIf you aren't sure, you could just compliment them on something they're wearing or their appearance or something to see how they react.  If they get tense, back off.  \n\nIt's fine to be who you are, but it's easy to offend someone who isn't homosexual by hitting on them.
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WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.