Is attitude REALLY everything?
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It depends on the situation.
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It's all about you, isn't it?
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Yes, why not by try every one can get every thing but do not forget No pain , no gain.good luck......
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Yes it does, just look around.  Society expects certain actions and attitudes from all of us.  Our society demands certain behavor in all of us.  The price of not conforming to some of these expectations is just too high for most folks.
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I'm like this... so a solution I say may not be relied upon. That said... \n\nLearning to accept life as is... is my aim. Negative, positive, nah... it just is.
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truth about everything
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I have found that often it is our attitude and how we handle life that makes it seem so ''crappy''.  Your life may not seem so bad at all to someone else.
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is that really all true!?
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I think i am all of them cuz i do have a slight attitude when i dont get things my way or when i want things my way like a lion but i can also be faithful and loyal. but on the other hand i am always busy at home and at school and with my daughter. but i dont let that stop me from havin at least a little bit of fun!!!!!!
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Attitude often determines behavior because it's your mindset, and you mindset may cause you to do certain things.  You behavior does not determine you attitude, however, because what you do does not form what you were thinking at the time.
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No one can do everything wrong all the time. You are berating yourself.Try to be more optimistic.
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The good news: yeah we all feel this way.  The other good news: there's a way to get your way, get people to move their lazy asses, and not come off sounding rude, obnoxious, or like a psycho crank from hell.  All these answers have one thing in common: passive-aggressive hostility, bordering on actively aggressive hostility, with a more than a dash of sarcasm and verbal abuse thrown in as well. (Shoving a sausage up someone's vagina?  That's rape, and that's sick, sad and WRONG.)  \n\nI'd be surprised if anyone actually did what you wanted them to do if you address them so rudely and disrespectfully.  And there's a possibility you could get yourself beaten up or killed if you keep going the way you are going.  I suppose it all depends on whom you say this to as well.  Do you speak this way to a 300-lb leather-clad motorcycle dude, or an older man who's taller than you, or just to women and children and homeless guys down on their luck?  \n\nPeople since ancient times have been decrying "O tempora! O mores!" (O the times, o the behavior!)  We all want what we want when we want it, and not all of us are enlightened, sympathetic, empathetic or upstanding enough to think of ourselves and others at the same time.  Given that, it is up to the individual to uphold the social contract NO MATTER if other people do or not.  If you know to do good and don't do it, you are no better than the people you criticize.  In fact, by being rude, mean and obnoxious, you may be much worse than these people.  Everyone, after all, makes mistakes, has a bad day, forgets.  YOU make mistakes.  YOU have bad days.  YOU forget.  No one -- including you -- is perfect.\n\nI recommend The Paradoxical Commandments by Kent M. Keith.  The book is titled _Anyway_.  Some gems include: People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered.  Love them anyway.  If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.  Do good anyway.  If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.  Succeed anyway.  The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.  Do good anyway.  Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.  Be honest and frank anyway.  \n\nAnd by the way, "frank" here doesn't mean honesty and telling it like it without tact or discretion or feeling for others.  It means being honest with sensitivity, compassion and empathy.\n\nLike my momma always told me, you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.  Peace, K
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Your mental attitude.  Throughout your life, you unknowingly set limits and constraints on what you believe yourself being able to achieve.  You need find ways to break the mental barriers you have set upon yourself and then identify what you want and start pursuing it.  You will find means where you thought were none and ways that never existed in your mind before.
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if its ur faulty attitude that ur changing then good for ya, bt the only way to show it is to prove it!
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it's all in your attitude..I've learned to just say...fu*k it!...it works for me most of the time..
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Belief is everything.
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Bless you, Child, of course it is, but it all depends on what you believe those words (ignorant, foolish, cynical and pessimistic) actually mean to you.\nI tend to be foolish about a few things and I often look foolish to other people. I however, rarely care. I like myself, I'm loved by other people, and for me life is mostly good.\nIgnorant? Everyone is. If they say they're not, they're either fooling themselves or lying. (probably not intentional...that would make us cynical)\nCynical? Again, everyone is about one thing or another. I was governmentally cynical at the age of 9.\nPessimistic all comes down to your POV. The glass is either half full, half empty, or as I like to put it "I know more water is forthcoming" or "it's mostly empty and someone peed in the rest of it".\nIt all depends on who you want to be.