how can i get my b/f to remember...?
956973
The first day you started dating might be not very important for him at that time ,Dont blame him and dont make a fuss about it .You can easily tell him about something that happened at that time and remind him how nice times you and him had .But dont be upset or sad if he still tells you that he doesnt remember,Its no big deal .You can get a very nice gift (I dont mean expensive ,I mean something to show you care 4 him)and remind him of the one month anniversary by that...he will always remember the day you met when he looks at that gift.
547866
Just tell him that you love him with your whole heart in a way that you have never loved anyone before. Maybe right him a poem or a nice letter that he can keep and read when he needs reminding of your love.
81580
should say good things that you remember about the time you're still together... bring back the good ole memories... try to flatter her and lower yourself... make him/her feel that it's your fault or something... that'll make him/her feel better and it softens heart.... good luck!
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
17242
Be specific, be direct.  Instead of going to a dress shop and saying, it sure would be nice to have somewhere to wear this (indirect) be direct and use positive examples.\n\nFor example, say something like this, "H, remember when we were dating before we got married and we went to that dance.  I really felt loved by you when  we were on the dance floor and you held me tight and whispered in my ear.\n\nSo instead of putting him on the defensive such as saying, "You don't love me anymore" which he can dismiss because in his mind, he believe he does love you, put ideas into his head for things he can do and make them sound like praise.\n\nWe guys are pretty simple, we want things that work, we want you to say thanks when we do something well, and we want you to rock our worlds until we can't take anymore.\n\nWe don't respond well to criticism or the failure to appreciate our efforts.  That's why statement such as telling him he's not loving enough seldom work.\n\nThink aobut it this way.  If he believes he is being loving and you just shot him down by telling him he isn't, what will that do to his ego?\n\nLast suggestion is to look for ways he is demonstrating love.  While it may not be your love language as mentioned before, it sure will help your attitude if you can see the things he does that are his own personal way of expressing love.  It may not be your way, but please, give him credit if he is expressing love.  Even if it is just checking out your car on a Saturday morning to make sure it's safe for you to drive.\n\nBH
219749
Think about what he talks about most of the time and find a gift that relates to that. if you want to make it personal, find something he's really passionate about or something that he really cares and values alot, that can relate or be similar. Most importantly, its the thought that counts.
766336
How do you keep it happy most of the time: You don't. You realize that in every relationship there are going to be tough times. You strive to just enjoy each other, not to make everything happy all the time. I learned from the first boyfriend that trying too hard causes break ups.\n\nKeeping it memorable: why does every day need to be memorable? Half the time I can't remember every little day that my husband and I spent together, but I remember the important things. \n\nHow do you deal with your partner if you're unhappy about something he does: it depends--is it something he did because he wanted to be mean, is it in her personality, or is it just a bad habit? I'm not going to change ANYONE'S personality, but I can certinaly tell him. My husband has this awful habit of ignoring me for sports. When it really annoys me, I tell him honestly what's going on. Commnunication is key to any relationship.\n\nIf you don't say it because "you don't want to sound demanding or petty" then you have a long way to go. HE isn't going to know what's going on in your head unless you tell him. That's not fair to hold him a standard that he doesn't even know about.
969068
Good for you!!  Do you know how many girls complain in questions posted on this site about long term boyfriends forgetting their birthdays--that is no fun.  Chances are good that your new girlfriend has had this experience in the past too.  So...you want to stand out among the crowd.  The main thing you can give her is your full ATTENTION.  Let her know that you remembered...in any way that comes natural to you.  You can plan a special dinner (at a restaurant you know she likes), you can bring her a flower (maybe a single yellow rose), you can bring her chocolates or any other special treat.  Just let her know that's it is her special night and that you're delighted to be celebrating with her.  Ask her what her plans are for the coming year...this will be a great opportunity to learn more about her by letting her  tell you more about herself.  You go guy!!
989410
Try to find out what her favorite things to do are and then surprise her and plan a day or night filled with those things. I.e. hiking, ice skating, going to a museum, watching her favorite movie, cooking, ordering in, or taking out for her favorite meal...or make a little memory scrap book with pictures of the two of you and ticket stubs etc. from places you went together. Send her a letter or card as a surprise in the mail (snail mail). For my bf's b-day I made a treasure hunt....I wrote his first clue out & put it on his car window before he saw me. Then the next clue was to go to the local library and look in a particular section & open a particular book for the next clue/direction (pick a book that most people wouldn't be interested in to make sure it won't be checked out by the time she gets there). I taped another clue in a store window etc. I had like 8 clues in different public areas and then the last clue should lead her to her present. Or go out on a hike and take pictures together outdoors, make her something oringinal i.e. a cd, a meal, something artistic etc. Make her a care package with some of her favorite things in it. Pick up on little details, things that are important to her and do them.  Some of these things take planning but it's worth it to see the smile on her face....good luck.
440278
Go to www.43things.com. You can add many things you want to do (like your Things To Do) and put every time the reminder that you want them to remind you.\n\nIt's work !! I used it
552650
Both of you have to do it, not just you...you may have to teach him by your example?\n\nBe firm but don't lose your temper.\n\nBe kind but don't get walked over.\n\nThink hard but never worry.\n\nCreate a "positive cycle" where everything you both do makes your relationship that little bit better...even if only a tiny little bit each time.\n\nRemember that a sense of humour is infinitely attractive and gets you wnat you want in the long run.\n\nDon't be afraid to be bold.\n\nDon't be afraid to be vulnerable.\n\nRemember that you have to love and like yourself FIRST before you can be the real you in your relationship.\n\nHave fun - you only live once!\n\nBe safe - you only *get* to live once!!
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OH TAKE HIM TO A ROMANTIC PLACE HE WILL REMEBER FOR HTE REST OF HIS LIFE\n\nDONT GIVE HIM A POSSESION HE MAY LOSE IT BUT MEMORY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE EVEN IF HE LEAVES YOU AND EVER GOES THERE WITH SOMONE ELSE 9I HOPE THAT NEVER HAPPENS)\n\nSO GO TO A ROMANTIC PLACE\n\nYOU DECIDE WHATS THE ROMANTIC PALCE IN YOUR AREA
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Try writing it down, rewriting it.  Put into memory flash cards so you can look at them, write 5 bullet points and try to remember them, talk about them, write about them.  Test yourself, because you probably remember more than you think.  Be positive if you are positive you tend to remember more i have found.  Take a break if you have been working to long then you won't remember anything!  Take 5 Min's get a drink something to eat.  Don't read a book though it clouds up your memory of what you need to remember it confuses all the facts!!!!!
527922
go to things remembered..get him a key chain and on the front engrave his name on it and on the back engrave ur the date when u had ur first date...
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write them down, say it to yourself while you're writing it down, then repeat it out loud after you're written it down, and be aware that you're trying to remember.  \n\npracticing memory skills can definatley lengthen your short term memory.
687321
well see the doctor but let me tell you the best thing you can do before hand and keep your memory in good shape buy a small notebook and keep an organizer in your purse and every time you have something in mind write it down, that way you wont forget and you keep your brain focused at all time, I already know that if you go to the doc they are going to give you pills and junk to make you think its going to work think about it, your 21 and your to young to have a problem I think you are not focusing on things, the notebook will refresh your brain and memory and after some time you will train your self to remember just give it time and don't forget to write your what to do list everyday, and little things like what people have said to you for your personal reference........ belive me Ive tried it and it works ............Dont stress out to much .........
637756
listen - dont always talk. be kind. take care of him, do little everyday things for him. kiss him whenever you can - on his forehead, his hand, his foot. hand him a towel when he gets out of the shower. give him space when he needs it. dont make him ask for space. if you get upset, think about what you are saying BEFORE you say it. always be nice, there is not need to be mean. if you fight, fight fair.