I'm bawling my eyes out. I need to know how to deal with what happend!! please help...any ideas???
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This is the hardest thing in the world, and so difficult for someone your age. Spend some time grieving and maybe do more to express your feelings like talking to your friends/parents, a counselor or other people you feel close to. Even writing down your feelings can help you get them out. But stay focused on school and on your life because unfortunately the world can't stop even in difficult times. Good luck.
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Don't let things get you down.  And don't beat yourself up because you are feeling badly about things.  It sometimes is easy to blame ourselves and to think we are alone.   I know it can sound easy to do, but just try changing your thinking.  Call a friend and arrange to go to a movie on the weekend, or just go for a walk.   I know it can be very hard at times and sometimes the loneliness can be rough, but just hang on and try to see beyond the rough day you've had.  Remember, today will pass.  Tomorrow can be very different.\n\nAlso, if you feel the need to speak with a doctor, go ahead and confide in one.  Perhaps the doctor can help you with some counselling.   Sometimes we don't see things as clearly as someone else -- the old saying, "can't see the forest for the trees" -- because we're not seeing things with the same perspective as somebody else.\n\nGood luck, and get a good night's rest, and a better day tomorrow.
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This has got to be a horrible time for you, not to be able to go and be with the ones you love in this horrible time of need.  I have no words of wisdom to give you that will ease your pain, nor help you either.  Use the phone regularly to call home, use the computer t seek counsel, and pray that this to shall pass.  Pretty lame, huh?
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WOW Ok i will give this a shot at!  First thing that came to my mind is , Don't Change anything. If you start to cuddle him more or start changing due to this news, he will feel like you feel sorry for him, and he will feel worse. Stay the way you are, The second thought is,,,He JUST  found out TODAY! So yes allot is going threw his head and will for awhile. Just be yourself, the women he fell in love with. Be there when he needs you. Stand by him. Don't make it the TOPIC everyday, let him bring it up. He will talk when the shock of it all has settled abit. JUST LOVE HIM AS YOU BEEN DOING! My prayers are with him & you.  Peace.
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YOU NEED TIME TO GRIEVE...YOU WILL GET BETTER OVER TIME...DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU TO "GET OVER IT"...AT LEAST YOU HAVE A HEART...MY SYMPATHY TO YOU...AND I'M NOT ASHAMED TO SAY "GOD WEEPS FOR YOU TOO. HE GETS NO PLEASURE IN SEEING PEOPLE SUFFER." CRY WHEN YOU MUST...SOME OF US HERE CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS...BEST TO YOU...Phantom of the Blog
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Mr. Croatia, I am so sorry to hear your sad news.. really...I hope I can say something that will indeed help you tonight..remember, problems are situations that have yet to be resolved......all problems PASS....just give it time and everything will be alright. I know that you have faith in God....remember, He is running the show, You are His child and he will CARRY you through it all.....Remember, when you had your last job YOU WERE AT FIRST LOOKING FOR A JOB.....another job will come, and hopefully it will be better....If you need some strength right now, remember the bible says - GET YOUR STRENGTH FROM ME WHO CREATED YOU!!!.... good luck to you, my friend, and you are in my prayers..... god bless...
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im really sorry. its ok to cry. talk to your gramma and make sure she knows you love her. and cry all you want. its natural to feel sad. tell a good friend how you feel, maybe get a pyscologist to help you. just remember that you aren't alone. after all im a total strangerand im helping you. yea and that dguey guy two up from me sucks, don't listen to him.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your painful experience. Losing someone you love that much is so diffucult. My heart is going out to you.  \n\nI don't know when this happened, how recent it was, but there is always a mourning period where you need to let your emotions out. Sadly, you didn't have the time you wanted with him.  Your future plans are turned upside down. I know a little about that myself. So, I'm sorry for your pain. If it's recent, it's going to take a while to move past this, but you will move past it.  In time the pain will dull and you may try to love again. It's so hard to think that right now, but love can happen again for you.  \n\nRight now your life may seem pretty aweful, it's hard not to have dark thoughts when you are going through what you are going through.  But your life is important to many people, your friends, your family, and especially your late boyfriend.  He loved you and would only want the best for you. I'm sure he's looking down on you and loving you from heaven right now.  And if he knew what would happen to him, he'd want you to be happy for the rest of your life. \nYour long life.\n\nYou don't have the worst life ever, it's just the worst it's been for you as of yet, and probably the worst it will ever be. If you're having trouble coping with the pain, talk to someone- a professional grief counsler can help. They can help you express the different stages of mourning in a healthy environment, and help you keep focused on how to keep your own life on track.\n\nSorry sweetie, this is so rough for you. I'll pray for you tonight.
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yeah it was really really really sad. i think what got me the most was when nathan just collapsed in the hospital and he was just sitting there crying.......*tear*. the time between now and the next episode is gonna be horrible....i want, no i NEED, to know what happens next.
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Snowbunny, feeling the way you do is perfectly normal. Sometimes you don't know what you had until you loose it, I kow how you feel... No matter who you talk to, its like nobody understands or they can't grasp what you're going through and so you can't seem to get over this depression because even the advice your friends or parents give you still doesn't feel good enough. You just want to cry, you feel like treating everyone around you the way you feel. Can't eat, Can't sleep and you can't remember the last time you really smiled from your heart, but trust me when I say, if its meant to be, he will come back and you guys can try again. It won't be tomorrow or next month, no one knows but trust me. And what ever you do, don't consider hurting yourself over something that might feel "like the end of the world" to you. I've got a scar for every heartbroken event in my life when I was either used or mistreated. 5 years of bad memories but looking back now, I found someone who loves me the way none of those in the past could, even though I thought so that time. Thinking of you snowbunny..... good luck hey!
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dont cry over spilt milk ..just learn from your mistakes ..next time get a room
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Why? If you could be more specific it would help! There are many things which upset us. Rarely things are impossible however! Share your feelings with trusted friends or family. Have hope!
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Hang in there. The best way for us to heal from our problems is to help other people heal from theirs. Do some volunteer work at a hospital.  I just went through this myself, I know how you are feeling. Geting your mind off yourself and focused on the needs of others not only speeds up the healing process, but helps us learn from the pain.
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you've gotta understand that girls are up and down all the time, it's hormones, and seriously, there is NOTHING that we can do about it. Try to have compassion, I once had to break up with a guy, even though I still loved him, because of ... circumstances. Anyway, try to keep a level head (difficult I know) and not to wallow (even more difficult!). I just want to give you a hug and tell you that it's gonna be ok, just hang in there and most importantly: pray, most people think that today God never answers, he does. I'm living proof. He's helped me get through so much, he'll help you too.
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Pray for relief from God for all of you.  God will touch your heart, you might cry a different kind of tear with his hand on your heart.  A peace comes with acceptance of the Lord in any situation.\nGod Bless you, and surround you with Angels to carry you throughout this difficult time.  \nSeek others if you are a believer to pray with you, and for you, as I am now.
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"HUG" look after yourself. so many people care about you, even if they dont show it. and if they dont, i care. i became really depressed in the middle of the year.. :( and im a bit depressed now. i didnt get really bad tho.. but u have to be strong. no one can really get u over depression except yourself. be true to yourself in life and there are always ups and downs. i guess... everything happens for a reason..\n\ni hope this helps! be strong and dont listen to those other uncaring sons of bitches that say shoot urself or something ok!\n"hug" good luck!!!! suzie
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Crying is not a bad thing. You need to get your feelings out. Everyday that goes by, it will be less. Everyone goes through that feeling eventually. Talk to someone you can trust and that always helps me.