who should we live nearby his family or mine?
969908
You are absolutely not being selfish.  I understand his family is important to him and the baby, but your family is equally important.  The other factors( such as the baby going to a better school and you being able to work)  are what make the decision to move a good one.  You being closer to your family is just a perk.  As far as not having the money to move being his reason to brush you off, maybe he has a point.  However, if you feel that he is just saying that to avoid moving you really need to sit down with him and tell him all of the reasons you'd like to move.  If he tries to brush you off tell him how important it is to you to make this decision together.  Also, make sure his family realized that it's not anything against them and you aren't moving to hurt them.  Good luck.  I hope everything works out for you.
735659
If you know him then you should know some one in his family or his command. Contact them and they will be able to tell you where to send it if they think you should. If you don't know any of these people then he would have told you how to contact him if he wanted you too.
208905
Yes. Family is very important to me and we are very close.
334182
if your family has a problem with him, you have to decide who your loyalty will go to. WHY does your family dislike him? Usually family disapproves of people they dont consider good enough for you..at least thats the case with my family.\nI would hesitate even if i loved someone. Giving up life as you know it, your family, everything for just one person is a huge step. I dont think i could do it without a committment of some sort.
92701
erm. firstly.. did he care for his family and yours? if he did i believe that in the future he will do the same for you and your family. Is he loyal? and he rather spend time with you then his friends. Cares for your feeling.. willing listen to your point. not argue with you but listen to you. And the most important is your heart is only for him and he too. hope u can find your answer soon.
1015385
man prefer his family over any other relations
512059
A hotel room  away from everyone except for IMMEDIATE family- let him acclimate to his loved ones first. \nDon't let this turn into a media circus
1005987
Yes, its close. Problem is not in closeness. You get a crush on any guy anywhere, if it is gonna create any problems for you then your home cant remain un affected. I would say, do not base your relation based on distances of your houses. If he is really worth it go for it... And when you said 'if anything were to happen' it indicated that you are not very mature in your thinking process. I say be careful. You cant afford to ruin anything be being careless. Its your responsibility to decide and think in the welfare of you and your family. Neighbour means they have and interaction with you and your family too. Bottoml line is its more likely to get exposed sooner. Take care
245797
get someone to look out for you. even if it means living w/ a relative or mom
58292
Not necessarily. Your relationship with him could end but not with your family. They could remain friends whenever they want to and they can talk as well. I know it is hard for you but it is time for you to move on. \n\nIt is not fair for them to pick someone for you. They need to back off and let you BE happy and enjoy life.\n\nAnd if he is smart enough, he needs to give you a little space to be able to move on. So, talk to him and your family how you feel and what you want in your life. If you are happy with this new guy, tell them so. DO NOT be afraid to open up your feeling.
1106930
I don't know the details but it sounds like you need to sit him\ndown and explain how you see the situation,because now it's\naffecting you. As for his family,don't give in-they have no right to\npush whatever problems they have with him on you.
974658
he can probably apply for you to become a resident. immediate families tend to get preferential treatment in the US i'm sure its the same in Australia.
926905
Use his U.S address. If you guys are married and when he comes for a visit from work he resides at your common residence I would use that address because that is where you both reside even when he is away.
405716
to be honest w/ you. the best thing to do is just move away and live some where else due to his threats. he maybe trying to scare you. but you can never be sure. as far as his last name. you can use yours. but be warned if you take him to court over child support. the judge may order the name changed to his if the father ask for it.but as far as his family there. you have the right to say who is allowed in there. you don't have to allow his family there if you don't want them there.
142160
If the prorerty is yours,make a deed to them.You can either divide between them or let them make that decision whenever it needs to be done.
262017
Nope thats not a blood relative unless you are marrying a cousin or something.And even if they would accept your wife as a family member you arent married yet so they wouldnt accept that. Also they are looking for someone outside that home and a wife would typically be using the same amount of money coming in so if you couldnt pay she obviously couldnt either.
680336
Most people want to know their family, good or bad\n\nGood Luck