How to approach!? Please girls!?
964871
Well if you are at a club or bar or place like that with a social atmosphere, approach her and say "Hi, I kept noticing how beautiful you are and I finally got the guts to come over here and introduce myself" A guy said that to me and it totally worked..good luck!
915316
iMMA GIRL SO MAYBE O CAN HELP !! JUST A FEW WORDS CAN HELP U \n\n: BE URSELF .. NEVER DEPEND ON LOOKS BUT FOR WAT THE PEROSN IS REALLY R. \n\n\nwell think first if u and "the girl" matches and have fun together or if shes nice .. think first b4 u make any move !!
917282
Tap her on the shoulder and start talking..........She might then turn around............lol
464613
I dont approach girls anymore\nESPICALLLYYYY if they do the whole walk past you and make sexy eye contact then walk like five extra steps and turn around to look at you.......\n\nI dont even look back anymore. I can tell when a girl finds me attractive and I think if she finds me attractive she should approach me.\n\nIm not about to turn around and start the conversation when she eyed me down ;op
255181
Just ask her for her number.  How hard is that?  Worst she can do is say no, and you’re not playing any stupid games which is a good way to start any type of relationship.
66700
Don't use a pick-up line - she'll see right through you, and determine you too nerdy to continue talking with.\n\nJust be cool. Ask her a question that gets her talking about herself and, even if you have to fake it, act interested. Girls love that!
398614
it would be better to work on this in stages - first, casually run into her or introduce yourself.  Trying to strike up a conversation, or at least make a joke or some comment will mean that the next time you speak with her, it won't be creepy.  Once you've built up a base-line familiarity, you could give asking her out a shot.\n\nGood luck!
101148
It's better to approach the girl rather than try to get her to approach you.  \n\nBut if you really must have it that way.... get famous, or get a wingman to talk the girl and bring her to you.
449924
There are no serious pick up lines, nor will any girl take you seriously if you use them; just approach her and talk to her. Trust me, when a guy uses ANY kind of pick up line, it makes me want to kick him in the balls...it never works.
943875
This is a tough one because most girls want a male that is confident, w/ a good sense of humor. If you can make her laugh, you've taken the first step.\nTry to approach her w/ something you have in common ... then introduce yourself. You'll know if she warms up to you. The right girls have a way to make getting acquainted feel natural.\nBear in mind it's "hit or miss" w/ ANY guy that tries to 'explore' a girl striking his fancy. Rejection happens, but don't blame yourself ... it's her loss.
3843
OK, FIRST YOU GOTTA GET SOME GAME...YOU KNOW HOW IT IS, SWEET TALK OR LIKE AN ADVERTISEMENT OF YOURSELF. DONT COME UP AND TALK ABOUT HOW HOT SHE LOOKS,JUST BE YOURSELF AND SAY HI AND HOW YOU JUST NOTICED HER AND WANTED TO GET TO KNOW HER AND MAYBE SEE A MOVIE SOMETIME OR SOMETHING. BUT DONT LAY IT ON TOO THICK CAUSE SHE'LL THINK YOUR COCKY!
820005
baby girl, lets look @ what the problem is. do they come by and say hi to you? do you think that you are approachable? maybe it's as simple as initiate the conversation. say "hi, how's going" the next time you pass by one of the guy you like. in this way, it not only break the ice, but also tell people that you are friendly enough to talk to. plus, let me guess, when in school, you stay in a pack of girls. baby girl, this is nearly impossible for a guy to come and talk to you.
318464
Okay here's what you I suggest you do.  Watch her for a little while.  Find something she's looking at or pick something on her clothes that you can comment about.  Basically you have to find some commonality to touch on with her.  And what EVER you do, don't over do it.  Seriously so many guys do this and it just turns a girl off.  Just be yourself and if you are going to date it'll happen.  And if you use a cheesy line I guarantee that's a no hitter for you.  Just act natural for awhile and observe her.  Women are ALL about a guy noticing the small things.  So if you've been watching her for a while, say a week or so then when she's wearing something you haven't seen before and it looks cute on her tell her so.  Or if you you're at a bar/club whatever and you want to "pick her up" there, I suggest starting up the conversation about something that is in the club/bar.  Music, lighting, drinks, people, whatever.  Just pick something and go with it.  And honestly if you crash and burn, don't give up.  Either keep trying with her if you think you got a chance or give up and move on.  Oh and once you got her....learn to be sensitive.  To the point of you wanting to gag.  Most women will eat it up, not all mind you, but most.  Yes I know it's tough to not be "manly" all the time but if you know when to be sensitive you got a leg up on the rest of the dawgs out there.
112253
Just walk towards them, then introduce yourself. Be yourself!
350414
I used to have your same problem.  First get in shape so that you are confident about your appearance.  Then go out to bars and clubs and talk to as many girls as you can.  At first you might have to pump yourself full of drinks to get the courage to approach the ladies.  But believe me, like anything else, the more you practice the better you will get.  Once you start taling to a lot of girls, by trial and error you'll know what and what not to say, and how to act.  Eventually it will become second nature to you and you will have the courage to just ask girls out.
26423
Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
131894
Just start small, say hi in passing, and then eventually maybe you will be comfortable enough to actually start a convesation with her. Just relax and be yourself, its the best advice I can give you.