why did my guy friend say this?
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You can't be sure with men.  It sound to me that he probably doesn't want to make any type of commitment to you until he probably finds out what he can get away with with you.  You know how men are about commitment and relationships.  Basically, I think whatever he said has to deal with sex.  Most men just think like that expecially young ones.
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'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
782905
It's a terrible thing when a guy says that. It simply means that he only cares about you because of the sex you can give him. I think it's very stupid for a guy to even mention such terminology. He should be saying things like "you make me feel special", "you make feel like I'm worth so much". He should express that you make him feel so much better.
421379
Awww! I hate it when that happens... \nMaybe he just wasn't good enough for you...\nI don't know what you told him but possibly, something that you told him about your personal stuff made him think that you're not the right one for him... I don't know! \nDon't worry about it. It was just a date! Move on... there's plenty more fish in the sea :)
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
319446
cause their stupid, according to what my guy friend would say.:O) and he even admits guys are stupid coming from a guy.:O)
742800
He may have some feelings of insecurity going with a younger person, so that comment would have bummed him out big time. I don't think you were being insensitive or him being up tight, it sounded like it was said without any thought, but wrapped in the moment of chatting and laughing. Do you know what I mean? I sometimes say some dumb as stuff and then realise I said something that was offensive, but had no intention to.
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I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
947825
God, you must be really annoying in real life.  Men aren't complicated, don't go look for hidden meanings in everything.  I think he has said what he has said and it means what he said.  Duh!
23875
Guys have been known to say it and not mean it.  To be brutally honest, some will say it to get into your pants.  Other guys wouldn't lie about a thing like that.  I cannot tell you how to know for sure.  That is one of the great mysteries of life.  Be careful.
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It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
711665
he's uncomfortable why the hell u said that anyway? i d be stumped too. ooh but then an ex used to say that A LOT and i got so embarrased so i said 'no thats ok' too so that might be it too i dont know.
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LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
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sorry im not a guy but generally it could be one of wo thingseither he wants you and is to scare to say guys are like bug puppy dogs they need nurturing...or he wants you to set him up...aski him if he wants you toi set him up and if he says no you know he probably means he wants you...worth a try babe x
1122933
sounds like he likes you, or you guys are just really good friends... dont be a wimp, just ask him!
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I don't know. I wasn't there. I didn't hear what they said.\nIf I were you, I would make sure of what they are saying before asking these kind of questions.  Too many guesses, somethings, and " I didn't know what it meant."  But that is only me.\nIt is a bad idea asking something that not even you are sure of what was said. It can be many things, we don't know which ones.\nBut if you feel so bad about this guy, just find another
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It means that he's a DUMB ASS!! he's a jerk, he doesn't deserve U and just wanted to play with U and your feelings, I guess he realized that U like him too much, and maybe he just wanted to feel that power on U and after that just leave U with no explanation.\nFORGET ABOUT HIM!!!\nFind someone else, a real man.