i love a girl very much and she loves me to but sometimes she always being mean to me?
965265
she loves you yet she's mean to you? that's what you call tough love. try elaborating on how she's mean to you... maybe it's just her way of teasing you or fondling with you. some of 'em like guys who absorb all their blows. but if her meanness bothers you, maybe you should talk to her about it.
364428
pay attention to what she responds to and what she doesn't. for instance if you do something to her and the response is oh yes, yes, yes, keep doing it. but if you do something and her response is stop, eww,ouch, get the f*ck off me then you no not to do it. don't worry about it too much. you'll figure out.
864204
She seems just as confused about you as you are about her. It seems as if she's almost trying to push you out of her life. Give her a taste of her own medicine; don't contact her as often as usual, and give the cold shoulder when she tries to joke around. If she really likes you, she'll keep trying to get to you. If she doesn't, nothing will change, and you'll find that your life without her is much easier.
663004
Depends on your age not much you can do..... have you try asking her why she does this to you when you do for her, maybe she is having problems that she don't tell  you communication is important Good Luck
862961
ja :) , that's funny you must be very handsome or something :P ; I'm also sort of jelous sometimes but I wouldn't beat someone because of that .\n\nI don't know, I think you should tell her what do you feel about it, just tell her that you really love her but the situation doesn't make you comfortable;  she will either understand you ...or beat you :), but at the end you'll feel more confident for doing it, you are nobody's possesion, it may feel good sometimes that she cares so much about you, but keep in mind that it also can hurt you at the end , believe me you don't want to end up being dependant ; is a good thing you realized it now, anyway....good luck :)
592083
maybe you are just confuse with your fellings.  try to talk to her and see what you girls have in common and you know try talking to her about your feeling and you know if there is trust than there is love ok if you haveany more question tht i ca help you with send me an email to azucena_vll@yahoo.com bye hope i help you
749267
I know where this girl is coming from. I think she is pushing you to see if you will take off at the first sight of trouble. Thats what I do. It's a way for her to protect herself from jerks. It's not fair to you but it sounds like she's been hurt before. Go to her and talk to her face to face, not on the phone. Tell her that she is pushing you away and that is why you are pushing back. Ask her flat out if she wants this relationship to continue. If she does then you have to make a personal decision, can you stick around through the ups and downs? If so then tell her you will wait it out. Let her get comfortable with you and trust you. If she pushes too much and you no longer feel wanted at all then tell her that, let her know that it can't continue, and that you need more than that.
506344
obviously there are a LOT of issues there. u r already unhappy and ther is no legal commitment yet, imagine how it will change when the "I DO" is said.   and u talking to us will not solve the problem.\n\nu are too depended on her. no one should be sucked into the life of another person. u r to compliment not complete each other. u need a balance and other perspectives in life. she may not like others that u like, but if she loves u ( which i doubt or mayb she ahs commitment issues or issues expressing feelings to significant others) she will like them because of u.  \n\nto be honest, sounds like she is just using u, and guess what, ur letting her.  abuse is abuse
43259
Probably, it is because she must have had bad experiences in the past. Maybe it is because people whom she really cared about must have really hurt her. It must be because of this that she wants to be absolutely certain that this time she will not be hurt by anyone that she wants time to think over it. Have patience. Be there for her. I am sure that she loves you too but is scared of commiting herself and revealing her innermost fears to you. Understand her. She is probably going through a very tough ordeal. I assume, you too are feeling dejected and very frustrated. Be patient. Reassure her that no matter what, you will still love her and care for her and that your love for her will never change. Give her space. But let her know that you really and truly love her and her alone. It will take some time, but definitely everything will be alright. All the best.
1116592
if she heat you you must forget her cose she will not be good with you like you will be\nand look for new girl to give to her your true love
554069
ummmm...relax yaar..i understand how u feel.. well some people will irritate u..but neva listen to it,u know how you are!!for few days she will continue the same,but if she finds no response from your side then she will leave you soon!do u wanna b smart??so just ignore it..if you behave as how she is,then there will not be any difference between u and her..so adjust it for few days she will leave you soon..dont worry be cool...
1119694
I don't think she loves you, and I praise her maturity in not saying it when she doesn't mean it. Maybe you should re-evaluate your feelings and see that maybe you are just infatuated with her.
358005
From personal experiences growing up, I know how much that can hurt; I'm very sorry you're going through this. \n\nMy best advice for you would be to ignore the cruel things she says and does to you. I know that it's very hard to turn a blind eye, but sometimes that's all you can do.\n\nI would also suggest that you not try and be friends with her. You should be courteous to her, but you do not need to be her best bud. If she is such a mean girl, do you really want to become her friend? Girls like that are very charming and manipulative. They can get you to do things you would never dream of doing. I once became good friends with the "mean girl" of my school (just so she wouldn't be mean to me), and she pulled me into the peer abuse with her. Before I knew it, she was having me say and do horribly mean things to the girl that had been my best friend since I was 4. I did horrible things to her, and I live with that guilt every single day of my life, even though now we're both grown women and she has told me that I am forgiven. It's a horrible feeling, let me tell you.\n\nSo, to sum up this short novel I've written: Don't pay attention when she does crap to you. When you try and fight back, you're just feeding the beast. Kill her with kindness, but do not try and become her pal. It will only hurt you in the long run.\n\nI truly hope your situation gets better real soon!
232101
She's quite obviously not the one for you hun. She's not treating you right at all. Its not good to argue and say those things to you, you don't deserve it. Leave her be. If she'd rather have a criminal as her baby's daddy then let her. find someone who will treat you nice. Dont waste your time with this girl anymore.
1102664
She is a smart girl, comfortable with herself, and not wiling to lie to make you feel better.  You should respect and appreciate that.  Now you know that when she does say "I love you" she means it.  You should feel lucky to have one of the rare girls that are not obsessive and drunk with the need for love.
646207
You may not be able to, but my first suggestion would be to try to figure out why she doesn't like you and then see if there is anything you can do to change that.  Be nice to her, but don't make a  nuisance of yourself - that would really make her like you even less.  Give her space and time, letting her know that you are interested if she is.  If, in the end, she does not want to have anything to do with you, be gracious, and move on.  There will be another.  It is often easier to love someone who loves you back.
280858
You're a nice guy - that is like the kiss of death label. Don't go begging for her to love you in the romantic sense. You're her "brother" - instead of always being there for her ... drop out of the picture! Let the answering machine or voice mail take her calls - stop being so available - she doesn't think of you as a challenge or as a love interest - you said she dates crappy guys - why? because they are a challenge - some women like to think they can change a guy - when she can't get the crappy guy to do right - she dumps him and runs to her "brother" for those wonderful chats!\n Don't be waiting in the wings for her return - move on and enjoy other friends, hobbies - even ask out other girls you think are nice to be around. If this doesn't spike her love interest (she comes hunting for you- wanting to date) - then you'll know for certain that she doesn't have romantic love  for you... you guys  are friends - sometimes that's all it will be.