should i give up on him or not??!! HHHEEELLLPP!!!!!?
955064
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
1167381
Dump him, he is a jerk that is only stringing you on.  If he were in to you you would know it.  Guys aren't that difficult to figure out.  What you see is what you get;  if you don't like what you're getting change the scenery.
370008
For a minute I thought I was reading my journal...take it from me..I've been there...and I did give up...I gave up on looking for something that's just not there. We talked and I told him it just seemed to good to be true...but that's just it it is too good and you have to realize you are worth all the devotion he is giving you. He sounds like he may really be a good guy and if you keeping flipping out..he will leave..my man almost left me and we were in the same predicament, living together and he did everything right but b/c I had been hurt before I looked for the stuff my ex used to do and never found it...STOP IT!! before you lose the man that may really be for you!!! good luck and take my advice sweetie!!
956298
Oh, forget him! Seriously, is he worth it? Is this the sorta guy you want to be with? Come on! You deserve better.
817606
give it a change. we only live once. why pass this up? were all afarid of being hurt, thats just life. give him a chance. let your hair down have fun!
955960
keep him on the back burner but no I would say don't concentrate too much on him. The worst thing you could do is become really interested in him and then not have it work out.
182082
dont believe everything people tell you. if you think his intentions are well continue on. if youre not sure sit down and talk to him. follow your heart and do whats right for you not for others
989498
Leave him. Unfortunately, if you stay, he will do it again. Let him know you mean it when you say you won't put up with it. Never settle for someone thats a dog!
434730
You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!
739912
IS THIS WORTH IT ???\nIF NOT THEN MOVE ON !!!\nTHERE ARE ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA !!!\nYOU'LL GET OVER HIM !!!\n\nP.S.~ KEEP THE "BEST FRIEND " !!!
632383
My advice is, not to push the issue. He has said he needs time, and I know that's frustrating, but you have to give him time....or move on!
817226
IF YOURE NOT SURE THEN DONT DO IT. YOU WILL REGRET IT INTHE END. IF HE KEEPS TRYING TO PRESSURE YOU THEN DUMP HIM FOR SOMEONE THAT WILL RESPECT YOUR WISHES. HES JUST TRYING TO GET HIS D*** WET.
346877
Just do it! If you love him, it will definently be worth it.  If he says yes...great! and even if he says no...you'll know hes not worth your time!! Good luck!!
642616
It sounds like a tough situation.  If I were you I'd keep trying.  Just be prepared if he gives you an answer you don't want.  Have you given any thought to what you will do if he says he isn't into you like that?
1117184
time to move on.... change your life... tell him NO... make the rules and stick to them..... the more you give in to him the more he will stick to you .... STOP giving him mixed signals and move on ............ God bless
302684
Honey, I know it is hard, but just let him go if it is not meant to be it won't be.  And you can't expect to remain friends with him at least not at this point when it is so fresh in your mind.  Just stop and  my best advise is stay busy  busy busy  .  Did you ever here the old saying if you love someone set them free.?????  Set him free if it's meant to be it will all work out   Good Luck and Have Faith