My boyfriend is calling my friend often, I guess they had a relationship or I am just being paranoid?
966779
They are both lying to you!  Wake up!  Neither of them say anything about the fact that they contact each other - that's one.  Number two is the fact that he got angry when you brought it up.  Number three is her b.s. response that it is all a scheme to make you jealous.  And what kind of friend does something like that? A scheme that they kept a secret?  How is that supposed to make you jealous if they don't tell you about it?  Please...wake up and smell the coffee.  You should get rid of both of them.
465928
He's probably getting suspicious of you thinking you're wanting to get involved romantically with her.   You might want to only hang out with her around other people.
1181711
I guess you need to start drawing the line here and figuring out if you want a "friend" for life or a life partner.  Life is full of booty calls and people that just sleep together as a convienience.  Some guys are just better at getting their way in the way they speak to women is all.  I'm assuming your still single, or he would not be calling you every day?  If I were his girlfriend, I would be pissed off for him sidelining and callin his ex all the time.  Come on, wouldn't you if  you were on the other end of this?  Make him either poo or get off the pot....dump the other girl and date you exclusively or its time to close this chapter in your life.  Your hearts up for a buncha bruising otherwise girl.  He won't be with you bye the way because your not standing up for yourself and being a stand alone girl....get out there and start dating!!!
139016
If your boyfriend trusts you then ya'll shouldn't have this problem. you should leave him...he apparently doesn't care that he wants you to never talk to your best friend again!
274492
i think he is your best friends boyfriend not yours so keep off lest you also face the wrath of your friend as well \nother than calling names or paintng him bad why dont you try to get to know him as a person \nthe long distance relationship may be kiling him which would be hard to understand coz u have never faced it \nand nobody likes to be told bad things so u are reaping what you sowed in him and therefore he is showing you what you really told him he was
1161918
I'm sure that if things were reversed and  you were coming home at 1am every night, he would ask you were have you been.  You can ask him the question but you may not get a truthful answer.  Either way, he's being disrespectful towards you.  I wouldn't jump into this with accusations, but I certainly would want an explanation.  After wards, you have to decide if you can trust him, or not.  Remember this, if he is cheating on you, you don't know if he is using protection, be careful with this.  Don't become a statistic.
603570
Sometimes you meet girls that just tell you personal things for no reason (evident to me anyway) and this might just be a case of that. But if it's something that really bothers you, Your boyfriend should be willing to settle your mind by casually mentioning you exist to the girl in question.
857482
He's a boy, but probably not a genuine friend.  It sounds as if he is hiding something under the guise of selective privacy.  You are right to be suspicious.  If I where  you, I wouldn't snoop.  Rather, I'd just dial the relationship back to a less serious level.  Take control and put him in a position, where he can't take your relationship for granted.  If you are living together, I'd move out, regain your full independence and just date.  This process will prompt him to either want to commit or continue to play the field.  In any event, he's got to come clean for you to ever be able to fully trust him.
1185
not necesarily. if they are still friends, it could mean nothing. you cant just assume. if you trust him, and he says hes not cheating, then there you go. If you dont trust him not to cheat maybe you shouldnt be with him... or you could just find some other way to find out
693365
Before you accuse or jump to any conclusions you need to talk to your fiance.It could be nothing but it won't hurt to find out.You should also tell him that he shouldn't give his cell number to any females that you don't know.No other woman should be calling his ass anyway.You are his woman and you should be his only female friend,no man in a committed relationship should have female friends, You may or may not trust your man,but I wouldn't trust any of his female friends.If she's calling about work she should call him at home and I would be right there listening.It sounds fishy to me.I would be concerned and get to the bottom of it.I hope it's nothing-but if something is going on you have to decide whether he's worth staying with.You won't be happy being with someone you don't trust.I wish you the best of luck and I hope he doesn't throw it all away for a fling -it's just not worth it.
406387
She could have been friend with your bf for years . . . while you are new to the picture.\n\nSounds like you are one of those jealous types . . . and she doesn't know how you would react if another person talks with your man.\n\nYou are already getting on his case . . . when he said nothing is happening . . . and to prove it . . . she want you to come join them on events their group of friends  always do.  \n\nIf you want to learn more of what your bf is about . . . go . . . and become friends with them . . . I bet you they have stories you never even heard before.  If you are too self-centered . . . then dump you boyfriend and get another sucker . . .
1163102
Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
635942
Rumors are extremely dubious and I would not take their word for it. It could have been someone who looked like him, a rumor by someone who has a crush on him, who is jealous,... I would just try to be aware of what your friend says about him, and if any warning signals of cheating go off, then you might want to have her talk to him about it.
85050
It sounds like your boyfriend is self conscience of your relationship and he is he sure of himself.  Have you made attempts to reassure him that he is the only one and that when you go out you are just having fun with your female friends.  \n\nI think many times we as women forget that men can also suffer from low self esteem and can be just as self conscience about relationships as women.
1007320
You probably don't really love and might be jealous of the relationship he has with your friend now. Probably because you didn't have that kind of relationship with him. Just let it go. Trust me just let it go!
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.