Do you have someone in your house who loves to argue about everything - especially the least important things?
968583
yeah...myhusband nags more than i do, and im the woman!  he gets mad about EVERYTHING.  helping me with the garbage, with dishes, cleaning, always looking over my shoulder and asking my why im doing what im doing and getting mad because i tell hi to leave me the hell alone or dont answer.   whats up with it?!
263135
Hmm. I'm in a similar situation, however I'm not legally allowed to move out for a few more months, or at least not without going to court, which I'd prefer not to do. I simply (a) avoid them as much as possible. I go out and do fun things, and then both sides are happy--or at least not fighting--and (b) if something comes up, I take the easist route out. I'll defend myself for a little while, but right before it gets ugly, I let them think they're right. Now, never ADMIT that they're right, but just kinda pretend that you do. This will end the argument much sooner, because usually all people want is to know they're right. Even if you think this is cowardly, it shows you're actually much stronger and more mature than your parents. However, this can build up a lot of aggression, so remember to do something that will help take it out, like going to the gym or something. I clean and rearrange the furniture in my room. It helps, but I'm weird. *lol* But yea, best of luck!
847377
yes and my father in law is a raving socialist liberal. \nI like to fling the mashed potatoes at him while he whines and then blame it on my 2 year old.\n\nI often have to remind him that the crystal glass holding his ketel one vodkamartini didnt come from no friggin commune ( that comes from my stash, at his house we are lucky if there's a sale on skky vodka!) .
593583
Do not comment on the subject when your mother begins to question or criticize, especially if you are not a part of it.  You might try going to another part of the house or sitting on the porch or in the backyard when they get started.  Practice answering only questions or statements made directly to you.  You are really not required to finish arguments started by other people, parents or otherwise. If she has a legitimate gripe with another family member, let the two of them settle it.
885886
Do you really want rid of him or is it just something you say in an argument? You need to be more specific about the situation then we can help
221199
technically she does have a right to lay down rules of the house as you are living with her but any serios issues should be left for your mother and dad to make rulings on if you have a problem with her being overbearing talk to your parents and have them decide how much control she should have
940151
You can discuss pet peeves with your mate.  More often than none, people with annoying habits, don't realize they are doing it.\nIt just comes naturally to them and they do it without a thought.\n\nTalk it through. It's not worth giving up a potentially good relationship based on the petty things
157851
Do you have any other cluess? it is weird, but i wouldn't say it is definitive.\nIf you have a good comunication with him you must know what are the causes of this, what are his arguments, and if they are valid.\nI mean, if he lives with you and especially that nigth he has plans that you cannot know about, well... that situation is hard to defend.\nBut if you don't really spend nigths together regularly, then he migth have some good point to rely on.\nTalk, talk, talk....
204724
I do.  I love debating.  But only with people who understand what debating is about.
799799
Why would i argue with someone who is completely insane and contradictory?
744033
maybe she jealous ..........  you don't have to go \nover there either...... to keep the argument down....\n        then when she ask why  you didn't\ncome over.......tell her your  tired of the  arguing.....
92038
If he agrees with you in the following issues:\n\n1) Who is responsible for cleaning and maintaining the household\n2)Who is responsible for economic support of the household\n3) who is responsible for paying the bills\n4) How clean the house is going to be\n5) Rates of saving\n6) Use of intoxicants (coffe, liguor, cigarettes)\n7) Confinement of sexual intimacy to the couple\n8) What to inform each other about your behavior\n9) separate vacations\n10) Children\n11) Religion\n12) Holidays with the different families\n\nand of course, if he is capable of consistently satisfying you in the intimacy.
666041
I don't think that is normal, but it depends on what you define as an argument. Couples often have a sarcastic banter between them that seems negative but is really just trivial and that I actually find rather cute (though I myself prefer peace). I would much rather have my love be my source of peace and understanding than for him to be a source of constant stress.
1115855
fight like fist fight? NO! Is it normal to disagree with one another, YES. Afterall you are two different people with different ways of thinking and then all of a sudden you are married to that person and living your daily life together. You better bet there will be arguments. If you never disagree you or your partner is a people pleaser type personality or you just figure its better not to ruffle any feathers and try to bury all your feelings, which in the end will blow up in your faces. If you are having a disagreement over a certain thing all the time, maybe it's better to seek counseling over the issue before there is too much resentment and the problem gets bigger. It's normal to laugh with your spouse as much as it is normal to have disagreements, it's life. How you handle them will definately determine whether or not you are married for long though. Best wishes!
9154
Right in the middle of an "argument" jump in & point out to both of them that they fight & argue constantly. Point out the fact that it is very childish & how tired you are of it. Whatever the underlying problem is between them should/will surface....once that surfaces, it can be resolved & harmony restored.
685599
Agree. Arguments can be healthy for a relationship sometimes too. Means your not just giving in to keep the peace, but can stay yourself.
691980
I love him very much. But there ARE a few things, now that you mention it. He can't focus on more than one thing at a time. If he's watching TV, he won't hear anything else that is happening around him. If he's driving, I worry that he'll answer his cell phone and get in a wreck, because he is unaware of anything else when he is on the phone at home. He gets coffee grounds EVERYWHERE. I asked him repeatedly to do a specific thing with his old coffee grounds (throw them on the bush right outside the door) and he still puts them on top of the garbage, and all over the garbage can, and sink, and stovetop, and the floor, and the countertops...He's unreliable about paying bills on time also. And when he misplaces something (all the time) he starts to crash around and throw papers, etc. and disrupts everything. He makes a lot of noise in the morning. He "sniffs" in the mornings- I want to get up and hand him a tissue and say BLOW, WILL YA!