I'm with someone but...?
964660
What I would do,  -and what I think you should do-, is take it very slow with the new girl involved. Honestly, it probably wasn't the best idea for you to get involved with her, but I wouldn't say to completely break it off now - that isn't realistic, and it would just hurt her because she would get your feelings twisted. \nYou have baggage. You can't make genuine transitions from person to person while carrying baggage; it'll hinder you. You'll always carry what was left from the old relationship into the new one, so forth, and so forth, and it isn't fair to the present person involved that your own issues are unsolved. It isn't a problem that you still think of your ex; it's actually very normal. You've completed an important step by acknowledging that your last relationship couldn't work, so now just prove to yourself why you deserve to move on. \nEver heard the song 'Bag Lady' by Erykah Badu?......that one goes out to you, lol.... Good Luck and God Bless.
206735
You just said he's taken, but you're talking to him and he's talking to you. You two have already done it.  If the other person cares about the person they are with then he/she should either break up with their significant other or leave you alone.
1011731
He's your boyfriend - if you honestly can't answer that yourself, then maybe you're better off without each other anyway. Sorry - harsh but true.
309747
Honesty.\n\nPart of me wants to just say "Do it ~ there's someone in my life that I wish would tell me that."  But on the other hand, I know {and he knows, too} that now isn't the right time.  We're so far apart.  No matter how much you love each other, it will be really difficult to keep a relationship of that sort going when separated.  I'm not saying it's impossible, just difficult, as you know by your relationship as it stands now.. I know it, too.  Friendships themselves aren't easy to build or keep.
483757
Always talk to him. If you keep things inside and dont resolve, it might create misunderstandings. Be sure to listen to him to and to think positively together
105727
find someone else. don't be affraid to break it up.
618433
She's certainly got you under the thumb.  It seems as if it's just you making the effort with this relationship.  Do you really want to be in such a one-sided relationship?
166775
O.K. Here's the solution... try to follow along...it's not like it's rocket science... ready... here it is....CALL HER!!!!
717700
you need to comfront him/her about it. you dont have to acuse them of anything, you just need to ask. if your relationship is strong enough it will all work out.
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
234956
Its obvious you arent THAT happy in your relationship, since you are even considering this... SO- LEAVE!\nHave fun!
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
840001
If you don't know by now, then your relationship is not deep enough to call that person your "partner." If you have been with them long enough to merit this title, then you must work more on your communication in general.
127514
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
235968
Nothing. He's already showing you your future with him and how he is while in a relationship with someone. Men/women are creatures of habit.
102027
It is a commitment issue . . . since they are already committed (supposedly) to someone else . . . you are not afraid of them getting too attached to you . . . or you hope not.
438165
OK JUST TELL THIS PERSON THAT YOUR ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP......WHY DO YOU NEED TO ASK WHAT SHOULD YOU DO ABOUT THAT ITS COMMON SENSE....