if everyone in my class thinks i am a girlfriend of cooper should i be his girlfriend or not??
966729
Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
714108
ok. so. i'm 14, and i've been in that situation. just forget about him. if he's acting like a jerk, then he's not worth your time. don't make it look like your chasing this guy around. he'll think you're pathetic and just want to mess with you. forget about him. but hey, that's my opinion. oh...and. 13. remember. it's not as if he's actually changed your life in a major way or anything...right? so, yeah. i suggest you ignore him since he only talks about his girlfriend with you, and hang out with your own friends more. i guess it's safe to befriend him again when you're completely over him, but if he still acts like a jerk [even as a friend], then i suggest you just stay away.
168629
be honest please!! what good is it to cheat get agood grade and not know the subject. In the end the only thing you have is your honor and that is what people will respect. the choice is yours, I hope you make the one you can live with the rest of your life. good luck.
722683
i agree with grad.   don't belive what other ppl say.  i have the same experience and it turned out that they lied cuz they were jealous of me.\nthey might be trying to keep you away from the guy if he is very attractive.\ndon't give up by other ppl's words.  just ask him out and see what happens
334863
Well, it seems you're a nice guy... not all relationsips are permanent... so i think its up to the girl if she'll dump her current one for you... meanwhile, you could just be there always for her, show her how much she means to you, for example, if the bf fails to pick her up after class you could present yourself to her and walk her home... this is a good time to catch up with each other and know each other better... build up your friendship with her... the best relationships i think originated from friendship... don't rush, there's time for everything...:) just be cool with her having a bf, who knows, one day she'll endup on yourarms instead of his...\n\nGOODLUCK TO YOU!!!
1059472
if people can't accept you as you are you shouldnt change. then they will accept you for being fake. if you are talking about high school, it will pass. just be mature and think about what matters more, like a career and life ahead of you.
743606
I agree with Jason, but I have to add this: You are the one that has the best chances of becoming his best girlfriend, and when that happens, and he comes crying to you about the girl 'he likes' and how she destroyed him, you'll be there ready to take him ;)\n\nMen always like the 'mysterious, inaccessible' girl, but they confide and trust their gurl buddies. Just remember to stay girly, ie don't start belching, and don't be *too* available.\nGood luck!
440318
You're in a pickle. In the future, ask someone if you can trust him/her to keep a secret before telling the person a secret. Of course it's wrong to have a BB gun and real guns on campus. SO if the important person was the principle, you did the right thing, and the troublesome guy shouldn't be a friend of yours. Relax, find a better guy to be friends with, now that the trouble maker is out of the way.
413942
Depends on if you're there with him or not.  I think that if you're not at that same school, you shouldn't worry too much about it.  You should learn to trust him.  However, if he's still associating with her even when you're not there and without your consent, then i think he's probably hiding something behind your back.  I know past relationships are hard to get over.  Occasionally i see my ex around town.  I don't trip over it.  I just give a simple "hi" or "how are you" kind of talk.  I think as long as he's not talking to her (about personal issues) then you shouldn't have to worry too much.  You have to learn to trust him.  YOu shouldn't accuse him of anything unless you have a really good reason as to why you don't trust him.  Next best thing is... Communication and trust .... it's the best. good luck. =)
210255
Well, I would have to assume you're from a small school. Chances are though that this guy will do to you as he has done everyone else. And that's hurt you in the end. If you're prepared for the emotional stress and mature enough to handle then go for it... You only live once!
738672
Yeah, that'll happen to some people in high school.\n\nIt seems to me like you need a boyfriend yourself to make you let go of this guy and live your own life.\n\nYou are thinking the grass is greener on the other side with this guy, and it may not be that way at all, since if you actually were dating him, he might actually be a jerk or a self-centered snob etc.\n\nI know this advice will sound weird at 1st, but try living as if this guy was obsessed with you, and you don't even notice him.\n\nSometimes just thinking the opposite of something that bothers you will make you live that way.
884566
You're jealous because you are attracted to him.  Remain friendly, him asking her out doesn't mean they are engaged, it simply means that he asked her out.  Until they're in a committed relationship (and dating is NOT a committed relationship) then he can date whomever he chooses.  You're in highschool it's not like your "stealing" her future husband.  At your ages you SHOULD be dating several people and keeping the relationships for later when you are mature enough to handle them.
467357
you dont just be yourself and everyone will love you\nif she doesnt like you for who you are then she is not worth your time
343085
No!!! Do NOT be a boyfriend stealer!! No, no, no! Bad girl! Find your own guy. Be a true friend and just walk away from that right now!
356565
hey, you are the only one in your class who is smart.....don't date until after high school, you'll thank me later.
476653
I'm not sure if you should be getting involved with him. If I'm understanding you clearly, you're saying that you are more important than his school work and that can never be. And it is quite possible that his sports are very important to him, especially if he's not financially in the position to go to any school he wants. Then he may need a sports scholarship.  And his family will always be more important than you. I would never want to be involved with someone who thinks I spend too much time on my studies, sports or family. Geeeeze, if anything, you should be more attracted to him as a result of these attributes.
712817
Tell them to stop being losers and grow up. Let them know that in high school, it's not uncommon for a senior to date a freshman. And at least you have a girlfriend. Can they say the same?