what to do when sibling completely ignores u ?
965159
Depends on why your sibling is ignoring you? Best thing to do is give them some space. Let them cool off or think about what is going on. Things can be said or done in the heat of the moment and get all blown out of proportion. Give your sibling some time i advise atleast a few days and then try to call and figuire out what is going on and try to smooth things over ...possibly with an apology. Family is family and no matter how mad we can get at eachother we always make up. Some are sooner than others....good luck.
445948
be very patient and loving. my little sister has ADD, not quite the same thing but...love and understanding works well. try not to get upset when they just don't get it, be ready to repeat yourself.
80276
What do you mean by neglected? Maybe your friend has brothers and/or sisters and she might just FEEL like she's being neglected, even though she's not. Or maybe she just feels neglected at the moment because her parents are busy?\n\nIf you are sure she's is actually being neglected, tell a trusted person about it.
256719
Ignoring him only solves half the problem. You need to surround yourself with people that will uplift and encourage you.\n\nYou might also want to go with the old fashioned approach of "be kind to those who persecute you." That doesn't have to be anything taxing or elaborate, but often returning kindness for painful comments gets dumbfounded looks if nothing else.
954789
Well, I read the follow-up question (at least, I think that was you), and gave this some thought. Not that I know the answer, but here are things to consider:\n\nHow close are you to your step-sis and half-bro? Can you talk to your step-sis calmly, tell her you know she suspects you're having a relationship with her boyfriend, but you really don't find him attractive - you only tolerate him for her sake - and then, if she accepts this, ask your half-bro if she can come?\n\nIf not (or if she won't accept it, or your half-bro is determined she shall not attend), then when your step-sis asks, you tell her that you're going to your half-bro's. When your step-sis asks "what about me?" or words to that effect, you tell her "you'll have to ask our half-bro."\n\nThen you tell him, and his mom, that you know your step-sis is difficult, but you love her, and you love them all, and you aren't getting in the middle of this.\n\nThen you  back out.\n\nBecause it's up to him and his family who they invite into their grandma's house (it's technically up to his Grandma who's invited). It's also up to them to tell your step-sis why she's not invited, if they choose to do that.\n\nUnfortunately, family tensions do arise from time to time, but you can't control what other people think/do/say - so all you can do is be honest with kindness, try not to make things worse, and let people work things out for themselves. \n\nIf you get between people (for example, trying to explain to your step-sis why half-bro doesn't want her there), you'll end up building up the problem (the more people involved in a problem, the bigger it gets), and eating dirt from both sides for Thanksgiving. Good luck!
125861
The secret to getting along with anyone is to accept them exactly as they are.  When your sister is rude to you that is just her being herself and you don't have to react and compound the problem.  Change the subject if you can.  Unfortunately, people won't always accept you exactly as you are, but will like you a whole lot more if you are never rude.  Good luck.  Thank your parents for grounding you because you have "learned your lesson"; and that has great shock value too <G>.
585597
Pray. And realize you can't force her to come home. All you can do is be there for her as a sister and let her make her own mistakes. If you push or manipulate, she won't feel safe in turning to you.\n\nAnd I'll be praying for you as well... :)
990658
ignore your sister. If you like writting, keep doing it.
897439
I know it's hard but try not to get upset, you will be useless.  Social services do try to keep families together, they aren't all bad.  Get in touch with social services, look in yellow pages for number, and sk them to help. but tell them you want your family to stay together.  As long as yuor brother and sister aren't being neglected you will be fine.
963115
Talk to your parents, if he is really a bother they should do something about it.  If he's younger than you and just a "normal little brother" kind of annoying, try spending some time with him when you are free.  Play a game, take him somewhere fun.  Then maybe he'll respect you when you tell him to leave you alone.  If he's older than you and just won't leave you alone, try embarrassing him when his friends are around.  He'll learn to leave you alone.
716493
Odds are your sister told her daughter not to talk to you but it's not your nieces fault, it's her Mother's, remember that. As far as the sibling rivaling there's no age that that's not possible. What caused this? Were you two compared to alot growing up? Gosh, I hate to go her but I will. My sister and I are both in our 50's\nand she has always hated me with a passion, we haven't spoken in over 2 years and she has instructed her 30 year old son that if he talks to me even at family gatherings she's through with him, fortunately he told her he loved her but I did nothing to him and he will have a relationship with me. Anyway I love our Mother but I blame her, she always compared us and that's not a fair thing to do. I even started to go to counseling over the whole thing. I've come to realize that it's okay if she doesn't want anything to do with me, I still love her and I'd be there if she needed me, I can't make her like me and I can't change things. It's her loss that we aren't in each others lives and with or without her I will go on and I will be happy. I will not let it ruin my happiness or my life.
96964
Well since you both are shy and you both (I assume) have younger sisters you could talk about how annoying they are always trying to be just like me.  Then talk about the (I assume you have spanish) spanish homework or projects.
1123869
Act like nothing happened, see thats what i do with my brother, when he does really mean things then i just act like nothing happened, and that way he cant get mad, and then he wont have a reason to fight with me, see my brothers 2 years older then me and can be a reall big pain in the butt,
383632
talk to your sister and tell her how you feel...and if that doesnt work then tell him that your sister still pees the bed and is afraid of the monkey in her closet
281421
I would say ignore them but that only makes them want you more. You have to TOTALLY ignore them. You have to avoid all contact because the slightest thing you do will only make the attraction stronger.
713642
Have some other girls over at your house when they are doing this. When you have other girls over, you can have 2 girls deal with one brother by taking his and hands and then another girl taking his ankles and then carrying him upstairs to put some clothes on him and have 2 other girls take the other brother's hands and another girl take his feet and carry him upstairs and put some clothes on him. \nIf you have other girls over helping you, then they will probably not do it. If they don't listen, some girls can hold them down while others dress them. \n\nThis will probably work. Post something here when this works.
1037394
Make sure you perform better in life than them.\nThis way your mum will have more acute problems on her mind than all the faults in your life and turn all her attention to your brother or sister.\nThis also works with older siblings!