In my family there is no one care for me but other peoples are care me? whats the reason?
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How can anyone tell you the reason without knowing anything about you.  What care is it you need?  Are you handicapped or something?  Are you very young?  \n\nOr do you mean "care for" in the sense of "care about;" love you, want the best for you, etc.  An emotional thing.  The most likely explanation then is that there is something dysfunctional about this family; is there drugs or alcohol?  That catch-all term, "mental illness"?  Or is it physical illness, with no one who is physically fit to meet your needs?\n\nOnly you know why.  But do be grateful that there are other people who do care.  No matter how you meant it.
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i think you need to start helping around the house a bit more, there probably holding a grudge at doing all the work for you wen your old enough to do it by yourself, that should improve things between you and your sister, make an effort with her boyfriend, maybe suggest the family do something together, e.g go for a meal, bowling, ice skating, cinema, laser quazer something fun and that you dont do every day.\nand i know this sounds weird are you on medication? only i was on medication ant it made me well depressed and fornd it hard to cheer up, it wasnt until i came off that my mood lifted and felt like the weight of the world had been lifted off my shoulders, if you are then i'd suggest seeing your doctor for alternatives.\ngood luck
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Sorry to hear that, sweetie.  Maybe you should find another adult to talk to that will LISTEN to you and be there for you.  Parents sometimes get so self absorbed that they lose touch with their teens and think that the teen just wants independence and no longer needs guidance.  You really should point this out to your parents and let them know how you feel.  They just might not realize how much you truly need them.  Hope this gets better for ya!
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My family- my son, husband, mom and dad, sisters and brothers etc...\n\nand unfortunately I tend to put my friends and fellow soldiers before myself a lot of times as well.\n\nI have a deep vacancy in my heart for people who need help so I really care about the homeless, the mentally disabled, the young parents, the car accident victims and family's, the starving in all the other countries around the world, anyone that is sad in general. Anyone that needs a helping hand or someone to talk to.... my husband is constantly yelling at me for it too because I tend to go over board with helping people....
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any one in my family and my friends
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I have almost the same problem,, and I know that even sometimes I help people so much and NEVER get something back,, most of the time i do not feel good! what I am doing now is I do say YES only to the people who deserve it,, my friends, family ,... people who really care for me,, try it step by step,, and keep in your mind,, NO BODY CARE FOR YOU AS MUCH AS YOU CARE FOR YOURSELF,, so put yourself first and all the others second,,
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Think about all the people that love and care about you - do you think they would want to see you go?  Absolutly not!  I am writting this becasuse I care too, I don't know you, but I can't help but have concerns about your well being!  Think about all the other people in this world who have is worse than you, there are millions that have is worse.  You should talk to a counselor or a pastor or even someone that is close to you.  People do care about you, even those friends that you say you can't talk to, I promise.  You have said that you have dreams and aspirations - instead of just sitting on them - do them!  You have a life to live, so live it.  You don't get to decide on when you leave this life, God does, so put your life back in his hands and live the rest of your life that He gave you.  My prayers are with you.
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I once heard that if you think someone doesn't like you, they probably won't, anyway they aren't worth your time and energy.  You sound like a very special and intelligent person which deserves better.  Having one close friend, family member or mentor is as important or even more important than being "popular" or "accepted" in a large group.  Love yourself, you are the last person you need to fear since you know yourself better than anyone else.  Reasearch "mentoring agencies" in your area or "warm lines" to connect with people that will appreciate you for your valuable contributions to our society.  OUR SOCIETY NEEDS YOU a whole lot more than the "cliques" you feel you are being "ostracized" from.  Thank you and keep your chin up, literally, since confidence in yourself is the only acceptence you really need.
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You sound lonely.  You also sound afraid. You don't want to let down your family. What else???  \n\nI think it would help to talk to some of your peers that are in the same situation and also maybe to an Asian counselor.  Perhaps you  solvable problems that do not take drastic measures.  Maybe you are sick, maybe you are suffering from depression.  So many things, another head could help.
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A lot of times, people are so consumed in their own problems, they don't even realize what they are doing.  Hang in there.  I have come to realize that if we have one awesome friend, we are quite fortunate.  I am sure you still have people around you that care about you.
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Is there someone in your family you can talk to about how you're feeling? A close friend? If not, there are hot lines you can call where they have experts available to help you, and help you find solutions to your problems. When people talk about killing themselves, it's usually a cry for help. You need to seek out that help (you've already taken the first step.) There are experts with a lot of experience that can honestly help you deal with whatever pressures, difficulties, or depression is causing you to feel this way. A lot of people have felt exactly the same way you are feeling, and have gotten through it. You're definitely not alone, and happiness is not something that is unattainable, even though it may seem that way now. I wish I could offer you better advice. I certainly know how you feel.
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Talk to your parents about it and see if they will tell your siblings that you are the responsible one in their absence and that they need to respect you.  They of course will need to back you up if your brother and/or sister do not listen to you.\n\nYou can also reward their good behavior and withhold your attention when they are being bad to you.
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Do you feel like there is something missing in your life? Odd to answer a question with a question, but think about it. Yes you have friends and family around you that care for and love you. But is there that ONE person, or even just some one a little extra special? You could also just b going through a really tough time right now. And I know that nothing can suck more than having a bad day and coming home to an empty house(and cats don't count as some one to come home to.) If you want to stop feeling alone then don't be alone. Surround yourself with fun and up lifting people. Do a girls night, don't eat alone and don't keep to yourself. You're feeling down, so tell those people who care and I promise they will help. Who know you better than the people that you love and care for? So it's those people who could probably offer the most help and support in a down time for you. We all have those times when we're feeling down, so you're never alone when it comes to feeling down.
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anyway why are feeling alone? You should have family members or frens around you.  make more new frens.\n\nmy email add is srileela29@yahoo.com
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Not me. My family is enough to take care of.
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No one ever told me I had to like my family. I don't. They don't support me so I really don't need them. They're not good people and I try not to associate with them unless I need to.
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Nobody with a family should answer this.  You should be compassionate towards the feelings of family members.