i am 12 and my mom wont buy be boxer shorts like all my friends and i dont know why ?
953910
Talk to your mom about the issues that she has with boxers. Maybe she thinks you will do the pants around the ankles thing and she doesn't want her sont o look like a thug, i don't mind it, thats this generations fashion statements, just like the 80's mullet i guess. You are at the age where you want a bit of independane, this could be your way of showing it, your mom should be happy its choosing boxers over breifs rather than choosing to, steal, do drugs etc.
535916
It depends how public your property is, and how 'underwear' like your underwear is.  The more shorts-like your boxers are the less likely you would be cited.\nAt the start of the season my son's High School band drum line practices once in their 'underwear', but of course, a lot of shopping goes into getting a sturdy large fitting pair of boxers to wear.
441321
ask your mom... if shes a s l u t... shell show u!!
59172
There is a time where every young woman goes through puberty, and that is perfectly normal. If you see a speck of blood on you underwear, tell your mother, sister, close friend, or doctor. They can help you figure out what is going on and why.
465826
I showed my friends my mom's underwear!  Oopsy!  I was 5!
1078620
First I would open communications with mom to find out what she doesn't like about them.  Consider her opinions and maybe take a closer look how you act when you are with them.  It may be how you act when you are with your friends that she doesn't care for.
895126
I'm sorry to hear that u feel that way. You're rite your mom isn't right saying that to you, I have no idea why she would. I don't know what to say to help you..but everything happens for a reason and one day you'll be better than everyone, because that's how it seems to go - the ones who don't fit in when they're young end up to be very succesful or even the prettiest one in adulthood. Sometimes being a teen can be difficult, just enjoy what you enjoy doing and don't care what people think of you and good things will happen to you, I know it. :)
567819
It's tough being a teenager.  I fought with my parents all the time at 13.  Every gray hair my mom owns, I gave her when I turned 13.  It's okay to have opinions and be passionate about them, but I think teenagers see things from a much more idealistic view, which is reasonable, because they haven't had to go out into the real world yet (where you have to have a job and money and all that boring stuff).  Your mom has seen life from a more realistic and sometimes pessimistic view.  She wants to be as passionate and idealistic in her opinions as you are but can't because the adult world changes that.  It's about living day to day.  But sit her down, calmly.  It's hard, but no matter what, be calm.  Even if she yells, be calm.  It'll force her to calm down too.  And tell her you love her and that you want to spend more time with her but that you want her to understand you and to help you understand her.  Communication is key at this stage.  I wish I communicated with my parents more.  But if you bottle up, it'll come back to haunt you, trust me.  So try to calmly sit her down and talk to her.  She loves you very much and wants the best for you.  It's just hard letting her little girl grow up.  Reach a compromise.  Good luck!
990443
I too would start wearing a sports bra plus an undershirt. This will help keep them from bouncing and makes them look much smaller. If your having trouble knowing what size to buy then ask a close female friend to help you out. Or even your mom. Also, I'm so sorry to hear about your condition. I hope all works out well for you. If you ever need someone to talk to (cause I have boob issues too) feel free to contact me. amberkortni@yahoo.com. Good luck.\n\nAK
895522
you should probably buy new shorts, or if u really like the ones u have now, the problem might lie in the under garment you have under it.
962784
I assume it has to do with your thyroid gland.  I'm sure your parents are relived not to be changing your diapers for the rest of your life.
590107
i'm 12 too and i'm short so i ask that all the time. When i started to eat more protein and a little more fatty foods than i usually do and excersize a lot i started to grow more. Trust me it works. Just find a sport you like and have your parents sign you up.
147209
Show her that you are mature enough to know what you are doing fashion-wise.  Do not argue with her on the topic.  Learn to discuss items without arguing.  Leave you friends out of this.  If your mother’s attitude is that you are too young to be showing off what you have, listen carefully and ask if age is the issue or the level of maturity the issue.
570368
It sounds like your mom doesn't trust you. You need to earn your mom's trust and respect.
610210
Your hormones are out of whack. You need a check up at the doctors office. You have good character by coming forward trying to figure this out. Tell your mom that you need some help.\n\nYou are a good kid and I hope it works out for you. Good luck!
286023
THONGS AND BOY SHORTS I ALSO DONT WEAR ANY WHEN I DONT FEEL LIKE IT!
246246
It's really hard to take your teenage daughter to a store and find clothing that's NOT whorish.  Trust me, my daughter thinks I'm too strict, but just try to find pants in ANY store that don't show their crack or pelvic bones. It's possible, but a lot of extra work.  \n\nI heard a story about a young Christian girl who actually wrote to a clothing manufacturer complaining in a constructive way that there were no clothes to find for a modest girl.  Kudos to her!  They actually responded!