Words of encouragement and support?
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keep trying, it just means that you are getting under someones skin.
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With God everything is possible, so never give up hope. You also have to help yourself with and let her know how you feel.................
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I am feeling for you today - I lost two people, unrelated back to back last Wed and Thursday..its been brutal its been one of the worse weeks of my entire life and I too am feeling..have I done enough?? And yes..I have...\n\nAll you can do is be there for him. Talk to him, or dont talk when he doesn't want to. You can call him and ask how he is doing, you can take him to dinner and take his mind off of it and give him a sense of normalcy and a few minutes of a reprieve from the sadness, you can bake a lasagna and bring it to his house so he doesn't have to worry about cooking..\n\nBut believe me - your friendship is enough. that you are caring and going through it with him..\n\nMy friend who lost his in utero baby at 5 months said to me..We are on the first rung of the grieving ladder - at the very top..and you are right behind us on the second..\n\ndamn straight I am..I'm holding their legs and keeping them steady on the first rung and will catch them if they go to fall...as will you with your friend.\n\nJust be there..its enough. take care and hang in there.
803155
HAVE PATIENCE AND BE VERY SUPPORTIVE !!!\n\nGOOD LUCK TO YOU !!!
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Please re ask question, complete with son's name and area of the world...I'll do my best with what you;ve given me but more specifics would help channel energy directly - So thoughts to Irina , blessed be, help for you and your son right now to get through this lifethreatening time. Please know how much you are loved that, how much you are neede here, we pray for you and ask for recovery and help ffrom your spirrits to make this be right for you your son your family and friends .
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I'm so glad things are looking up for you. Just keep the faith! These things take time!\n\nThis is great news! Thanks for keeping us updated!!\n\nFeb. 15...Oh my..I'm so sorry to hear things have turned around. The both of you are in my prayers. I'll light a candle for her!
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Pray.  Give thanks for all I have had in this life.  Wish good things for my family.  Write a note to my hubby and kids telling them how much I love them and to not be sad for too long.  To go on with life.  Be at peace.
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First of all, please know that you will be in my heart, thoughts and prayers.\n\nSecondly, I copied & pasted your question (into a question from me) in the "Cancer" category, asking if anyone there would please try to find your question here and respond.  You're right in asking for words of encouragement from people who have been through what you are going through.\n\nIf my plan goes right, people from the cancer category will find you here and respond.  If my plan goes haywire - meaning, if you don't get any cancer patient & survivor answers here - then I would suggest that you go to the Health section, click on the category Cancer, and re-post your question yourself over there.\n\nI'll make a point of checking back here a few times to see if you're getting any responses from cancer patients and survivors.\n\nMeanwhile, as hard as it may seem, I beg of you to try to keep a positive outlook.  Someone in here wrote to you about how negative thoughts can have a negative effect on cancer ... I've heard of that before.  Someone else wrote about your evident courage due to the fact that you're a soldier in our Air Force ... I couldn't agree more.\n\nAnd by all means, please - if you haven't already - be sure to let your family know what you are going through.\n\nI'll be thinking of you.
993605
things will get better...life is all about change...hang in there and good luck
650224
First of Amen and God bless that you have been able to stand strong and faithful. I think it is awesome that you have not given your self so easily like most woman or men have done.. I can't say I can relate. So hang in there I know God has a special man in plan for you. =)
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Tell him how you feel, but that you support him in what ever he decides. It's important that he knows he has your support. If it doesn't work out you will be there for him and help him pick up the pieces and move on.
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No one can really do it for you.  However, have a supportive spouse to positively encourage helps and/or an exercise buddy is great motivation!  You just have to both be willing to pull yourself and each other out of the slump.  I am working on that myself!  Good Luck!  You can do it!
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Try and live as an example and be supportive to him for him to follow his dreams.  Some things don't have to be said, a lot of patience and being there through thick and thin, always staying strong and upright can say more than words.
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Be careful what you say to yourself.  You will believe it.  Say good to yourself.  It's not lying, Rather it's positive projection.\nSay these things out-loud.   Think of an answer which sounds positive and hopeful for your spouse, Child,  Relatives etc.  \n\nTo yourself out loud say: So that your ears can hear it from your own voice.  I am a one of a kind, Unique, Never to be created again, Child of God.  God and I can do anything together.\n\nDay By Day in every way, I am gaining Self control.\nEvery day I wake up I am even better than the day before.\n\nI am valuable.  I can do good for others.  I can help cheer other people up.  I am glad to see people that I know and love and I hope my words bring hope and encouragement to them.\n\nIf you haven't had a hair cut lately It's a good pick me up.  You'll feel refreshed.  Get a new makeover.  You can go to a department store or better yet call your Mary Kay Consultant.\n\nIf a makeover is financially out of the question Try a new lipstick colour or hair colour or a new purse.  \n\nAnyhow do something / t,hings different to celebrate the new you.  Because when you look at it, you will be reminded that you can only use positive self talk.   No more unkind words to yourself.\nGod would not like you talking to his precious child that way.\n\nEncourage yourself.  If you are able to get out in the sunshine and take a short walk or sit outside in the sun.  Breathe in deeply and feel the relaxation as the fresh air fills your lungs.  \n\nCall a friend,  A friend will help you with this.  If anyone talks negative to you, about you, themselves or anything  If you feel comfortable tell them that you are on a positive program and are avoiding stressful suggest so that you can relax and see things better.  If you don't feel comfortable saying anything about the subject,  Just say OH,  I got to go.  There is something I need to do right now.  Bye\n\nThen say nice things to yourself.  Out-loud or internally. Think of a positive song and play it,  Sing it,  hum it.  Christian praise music is great as well as show music.\n\nYou are worth it.  You are the only you that there will ever be.  No one else will ever have your exact talents, and your life to this point has made you even more unique.  And God Loves you so much.  If God had a refrigerator your picture would be on it.  If God had a wallet your picture would be in it.\n\nThings feel bad now but you haven't lost anything that you can't get back as long as you remember that you are worth it and You have so much to offer this world.  \n\nBe Good to You, Precious one.  ;-) Smile, Jesus Loves You!\nGod Bless You All the time.
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Dear Lord Jesus, I lift up to you Daisy's son and husband.  You know the needs here and I ask that You meet these needs, Lord.  Help Daisy's husband to stay safe in Iraq and guide and direct him every day so that he may be able to return home soon and safe.  Please help Daisy's son with his ADHD.  Please help the lad to stop being so sad and to start being happy.  Please ease the pain that he is feeling from missing his father so much and please give him the encouragement in knowing that he will see his dad again soon.  Please be with Daisy as she takes care of three children.  Give her the energy, the strength, and the patience that she needs.  I ask these things in Jesus' Holy Name, Amen.\n\nGod bless you Daisy.  I hope your husband returns home soon safe and sound.
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Just be there for them, there's very little that you can do or say, nothing to stop the pain. But making sure that all the everyday things are sorted out and letting them talk as much as they want to all help. Good luck.
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Wow that's a hard one......I can't touch this subject.....but I can say good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.....\n\nGod Bless