what events would be considerd a good reason to end a realationship ?
956627
cheating, drugs, abuse, pyschotic actions... dang girl...there are so many things
913966
Question: given the drama involved, why would you want to?  \n\nFind someone in common who is not going out with anybody -- it is easier said than done sometimes, but it is much easier than trying to break up a couple to satisfy yourself.\n\nBesides, if a person can be uprooted as such from somebody, chances are good that you might be the next poor guy she breaks up with.
80587
Uh? Hmmm, I am very sorry to hear that. I really don't know how that can answered since it is not a question. Sometimes relationships fall apart just because they were not destined to work. That I know is not consoling in the least but in these situations it is better to find out that your partner is not in the relationship for love or your best interest in the beggining rather than in the future with a family involved. These things happen for a reason and in time you will see that it was all for the best. Can you add to your question/statement to let everyone know what you really want answered? I hope that you get a moment of peace. I know its hard but it does get easier I promise.
227257
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
1095976
You should probably cut it off. If you know you are the only one with serious feelings then you also know that you are going to be the only one hurt in the end. If you are hell bent on staying with him, then try to use him for something as well. Then you'll both be okay in the end, because you acknowledged early that it was meaningless.
359537
It would probably be better to end the relationship, unless you want to deal with the headaches & heartaches that will soon follow.
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
835628
you have to come on here for an answer??? Leave the relationship behind if it isn't what you want anymore. Move on.
736618
I think you've answered your own question.  If you're interested in exploring your options you are not in the relationship that you want to be in.  Therefore, I recommend ending the relationship prior to exploring your options.  I hope you find happiness.
35308
Sounds like its just an easy way out..Maybe to try and not hurt your feelings, when what she/he really wanted to say was "I dont want to be with you anymore"
29714
let go of your expections of your partner. or the things that couse conflict.                                           dont let go of your relationship and the things that make it work.
82242
you should end it. so your not cheating them
1160840
End it if you are in a rush to get somwhere...\n\nMost of the time we just fool ourselves that the relationship is temporary. As long as we are allowed that thought and nothing shatters this illusion you could get a good mileage out of us.\n\nMen love the illusion that their current partner is not their last.
645159
Thank him for his honesty. His being honest with you should help you to close that door and move on. If you feel you need to offer him some closure I would thank him for the good times, tell him you enjoyed the time you two had together, and wish him the best of luck in the future. In time you'll be fine. =)
685599
Agree. Arguments can be healthy for a relationship sometimes too. Means your not just giving in to keep the peace, but can stay yourself.
619534
I don't think that feeling of guilt can be obliviated. Why would you feel guilty if you have sound reason to break up with him? I think that somethings must just be done when it seems like the right thing to do. The guilt you feel will only reside in you for a short time anyway - all things will come to an end. Do what you must do and live with it until such time it dies off.
432415
Well it sounds like he has already emotionally abandoned the relationship, so who is to blame you for phyiscally abandoning the relationship?  I think you should do it before he leaves, though.  His running away (literally!) is really just a passive-agrressive way of forcing you to make a decision and be the "bad guy" for leaving when he's gone.  What a wimp!  Demand closure now, before he goes so you can get on with your life and tie up any loose legal entanglements.  You don't want him running up huge debts on his world-wide jaunt that you will be paying off, either.  What a selfish bastard!