i have a roomate from hell?
968840
Report the thefts to the campus police and tell them you suspect your roomate. Also go talk to the dean of the school about this problem. See if you can get a new roomate.
243818
Inform him that in 60 days he will be paying you rent and that if he does not begin paying you rent, he will not be living there. Fear can be inspirational.
840254
You are right in saying that these people have a right to know the truth about this man but if it's his place than yes, he can evict you regardless of your lease or whether you pay ontime. It will help should you have to go to court over this but know that if it gets that far, as long as you can prove residency for at least thirty (30) days and you receive mail there, it will take 90 days for him to officially evict you. So you will have at least three months to find a new place. Only then will the cops come to your place and actually watch you move all your things and you leave the permisses. It can get terriably ugly so see if there isn't a way to smooth it over in the mean time. That is if you really want to stay there.
872969
hey, \n\nWhat I would do is #1 tell your lanlord that if he doesnt stop threatening your family members then you are going to file a report to the police. #2 Ask them if you are paying the rent at all. Then if they answer Yes then ask them if they would rather you pay the rent late or not pay the rent at all.\n\nI am sorry for your problems but I cant help you other than this suggestion. \nI hope every thing ends up ok
1099859
This is a tough situation and there is no really good solution.\n\nRemember that what someone can "legally" do is not really a practical limit on what they may actually do. Worse still, you can have all sorts of legal rights but if the only way to exercise them is to go to court then the solution may be worse than the problem.\n\nThe only thing is really to get the stuff out right now. If the apartment is in the other person's name then she's not going to get any immediate help from the legal system.\n\nEDIT: From another question that you posted I'm now unsure if this is a room mate situation or a landlord-tenant case. Please clarify. It affects the answer.
1120702
Damn, stop being so scared. Who cares what your roomates think? Just come out. If they are stupid enough to think you are always checking them out then screw them. Get a different roommate. Im sure there are campus counsellors or professors you can talk to if they do start bothering you because that's not allowed and it will stop if enough action is taken. But I dont think you should worry about that. You have to be who you are. Why hide? You will feel so much better.\nCome out of that closet!
740981
Just talk to them and be nice about it.  I am a slob and know it is kind of hard to just change all at once.  I had a roommate in college just leave me a nasty note one day and that ruined our friendship.  The following year I had a neat freak again for a roommate and she would just tell me "could you please pick that up today or your turn to do the dishes".  All I needed was a little reminder once in a while and that works.  You did move in with them however it is your place as well and they need to respect that.  Just say something even in a joking manner they will get it.  Good luck and don't just do it for them they will never learn.
412195
well, if Frud is your roommate, then I'd say you should stop doing him.\n\nIf you meant Fraud, then you should be in jail until you're reformed and your debt to society is repaid.  You basically tried to steal from someone and got caught.  You don't think that doing that was wrong?
233712
yep... its called roomates.
864993
Usually the landlord does have the right to show the place while you are still living there.  However, there are some techniques you can use to make him stop.\n\nNext time he calls, empty out your garbage can into the middle of the living room.  Perferably, it should contain last night's dinner.\n\nConspicuously put out rat traps and/or rat poison and a can of Raid.\n\nWhen he shows up at your door, answer it in you most-worn pair of boxers.
584847
why are you living there in the first place???\n\nsounds like you have a problem.\n\nfirst, you should be grateful to them for giving you a place to live.\n\nsecond, you should get your stuff and try to find a relative or family member you can stay with.\n\nthird, eat crow and apologize to his family and ask for their forgiveness, if you were being a brat at THEIR house.\n\ntake care
965601
give them an eviction notice and tell them u will burn it if they pay what they owe with interest. if nothing happens evict them
887408
If your roommate gave you a 30 day notice 10/22 she is still responsible for rent thru 11/22. She is still considered a tenant until the 22 you can be nice and pro rate the rent for the 22 days.  Please do not throw her stuff to the curb, you would be responsible for it if it went to court.  Good Luck KG
739526
Tell him that your apartment is actually haunted.  Previous owner were killed and has since appeared, throwing things around the house etc..
56791
evilyn's response is the close to being correct but not entirely.\n\nThe law MAY vary from state to state, but I am nearly certain she can move out whenever she wants.  If she decides to find you a new roommate, unless the person has a 'bad record', you really have no choice but to accept the replacement roommate (assuming the apartment manager authorizes the replacement as well--the apartment manager doesn't have to, and could instead throw both of you out).  \n\nIf she moves out without finding you a replacement, she is responsible for her share of the rent for the time it takes you to find a new roommate (or until the experation of the lease--whichever is sooner).\n\nHowever, if you decide not to look for a new roommate and hold her responsible for the lease, that simply will not 'fly' in court.  You have a duty to minimize your losses, which means a judge would not award you her share of the rent for the full term.\n\nIf she moves out without finding you a new roommate, make sure you put ads in the newspaper, keeping records showing you have made an honest effort to find a new roommate.  That way, if you can't find a replacement but can show a paper trail of your efforts, she will be liable for her portion of the rent for the entire duration of the lease.... and you get to live alone.
1037377
If the people that you hate are doing something illegal, yes, you can call the cops. However, if it's nothing illegal and these people just really bother you, then you have either of two options: 1) talk to your roommate and work things out peacefully, and this is preferable, but  if that is not possible, then 2) sign a form that says you plan not to renew your lease, and find a different place to stay. Remember that you will still be obligated to your current lease, so you have to think about whether or not it will be worth the money and hassle it takes to break the lease early, if you want to do that instead.
410428
She can say it, but you can contest the decision if you can prove special circumstances in regards to who is named on the lease.  If it is in your name, she is wrong.  If it is in both your names, you need to show just cause for remaining as the primary resident/leasee.  If there are children involved that is one reason.  If utilities are in your name, that is another reason.  If you have no way of moving your belongings out I believe it must be paid for by the department who is telling you to move.  You need to find a legal aid society that can assist you at low or no cost.  If you were the victim of a violent crime, then they should assist you with a restraining order against him.  This is most likely why you are being asked to move...the restraining order is in the works & the P.O. wants to get you out before it is issued.  I don't know, it sounds biased, but I don't know all the facts.  Hope this gives you some ideas.