Why would a married man keep staring at another woman even if they talked about not doing anything wrong?
953010
They have chemistry with each other and are attracted to each other.  Nothing may have happened, and nothing may happen, but they pobably fantasize about something happening nonetheless.
406674
i always think that they look like they have slept around...all those women throwing themselves at them all the time...\n\ni dont trust them......although i married one \n\n(he is a keeper)
139381
One thing you've got to understand about men.. We will always look.  Touch? that's another story that depends on the man.   But look we will.\n\nI cant' speak for your man, because I don't know him.  But I know in my own personal experiance, that I love my wife to death.  But I still look around.  It's not a form of dis-resepect in my (or her) eyes.  It's a natural thing. \nand it's just LOOKING.  Like walking though the mall and looking in the clothing stores for shoes.  Doesn't mean you're going to buy.. your just looking.\n\nTo me, it sounds like you're upset about him looking because you are hung up on your own looks.  Respect yourself.  You're choices make up who you are.  Not your looks.  He thinks your hot,  He respects you enough to, at least, try to hide the fact that he's looking.
1170068
I think they all do it.  If you don't approve of it, tell him.  He might stop.  \nI told my husband that if he has to get his "jollies" by looking at another woman, it was the same as cheating.  \nAs far as I know he doesn't do it anymore.
39025
This is absolutely wrong. He for one should respect his wife and her feelings, so he should either find a nice way to tell her of his friendship with other ladies and introduce them to his wife and try to find a way to convince her to accept him having female friends or just love her and respect her wishes and not have friends she does not approve of.
940950
If you look like your picture Im surpised he is looking at other woman
330576
because he has a beaten in respect for women perhaps. is his mother/sister a dominant woman? thats where he may get that behavior from.
302326
Sorry to say but even though he sleeps with you ,HE is married to her. and 9 times out of 10 they will never leave their wife. they like having the best of both worlds. he might be screwing you but she has his last name . And why would you want him? if hes screwing around on her what makes you think he wouldnt screw around on you?
54657
There is always a reason.  Sometimes it is something that you did.  Many times it is the other person.  They have found someone else that they like more.\n\nBest bet:  KEEP YOUR PANTS ON UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED
339305
Um, no, it is NOT RIGHT! What is wrong with you people? He is MARRIED! That means he stood before God and vowed to be faithful and honest to this woman. And, instead, he is out trolling for God knows what on the internet. Yuk. Find your own man, this one is taken. Plus, why would you want a creep llike that?
286462
PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
639600
I'd take it as a compliment.  It's only creepy if she goes after you.  I'm sure she didn't consciously pick this woman because of her similarity to you.  The fact that she is interested in someone like you should just show you how much she thinks of you.  My best friend married someone who's personality is just like mine and they've been together for 13 years. The only difference between your situation and mine is that my friend's husband is different from me in one way, and that's gender.Don't look too much into it...just be happy for her and hope things work out!
642574
I have to defend the men on this one even though I am a women.  Men look at other woman.   We will never change that.  Why should we even bother trying or waste our energy ranting about it.  \n\nGuys have to put up with our constant "does my bum look big", "Do you love me really".  Changing their hair, their looks, making them girlie, rearranging their flat/house. Moaning at forgotten, 2 1/2 month anniversaries etc.  Crying to win arguments etc etc.  I could go on.   \n\nYes it is annoying that men look at other women.  At the end of the day the guy has chosen you. You are the best of the bunch according to this guy so although he may look and fantasise about other women, you are the one he has chosen to spend his hard earned money on!
1126793
Because her sister is her twin and she doesnt want the man being attracted to her twin? Haha..I dont know if this is right, just a guess
1092016
it's a crush and she's hormonal... i bet she wants to bang your husband really badly. but that's just that... something bad will happen if your husband agrees into it.
795722
No kidding, I couldn't agree with you more...My wife has a friend that she talks to on the messenger and this guy is so freaking obsessed with the girl...He'll even go as far as to report someone who doesn't like her, and if you talk crap about her around him, he gets mad and goes off on you. Talk about being obsessed, that's just sick.
246873
When the married man has discussed it with his wife and they both agree,\nor\nwhen the married mans wife is so ill that he no longer has any kind of relationship with her, ie she is in an irretrievble coma, has alzhiemers ....\nwhen the couple have been seperated physically or/and mentally for years and he is in love with another person.\n\nof course these are just my opinions and I respect that other people think very differently so I mean no offence to anyone.