Is it wrong for a girl to ask out the guy?
964117
It's not wrong, if you like a guy, then go for it. I don't know what this guy's problem is, but just forget about him. You didn't scare him away by asking him out. I would never have the courage to ask a guy out. IF he was weirded out, then he's not good enough for you. If probably just wasn't interested, you can still keep an eye out for him, but don't get your hopes up. I would keep my eye out for someone else to ask out too (if I had the courage). I think it's good that you're not waiting for someone else to start your life. Go for it!
54545
Yes, you should definitely ask him. i know that i would much rather prefer that girls would ask me out then me asking them out.
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
652274
I've asked a guy out twice and struck out both times.\n\nYea, they all SAY they want a girl to ask but push comes to shove a girl asking them causes their balls to get sucked back into their body cavity.
50831
Do what the guys do, ask him out for coffee.  Guys tend to answer yes or no to this depend on wheither or not they like you.  And if he says no, it's no big deal -- it's just coffee, so it's not embarrising.
611072
just ask him out theres nothing wrong with asking him out..
712388
Yes, ask him out. You have more to gain than loose. If he says no it will not ruin your frendship unless you let it.
314342
For some reason, now or days, guys normally wait for the girl to ask. I guess so they don't feel guilty either way for the fact that if the girl doesn't really want to then he'll obviously know and not look like a fool in front of his friends. Guys are competitive therefore feel that they can't put themselves out there on the line to be smacked back into place. You should ask him even though we both know that he should be asking you. Understand and he'll think that you are a wonderful girl for that. Hope I shed some light.
24686
I tell ya, when I was younger, I wish the girls would have been a little more bold, and asked me out. I was shy and couldn't do it half the time. Well, we grow up, but had that happened, who knows how things would be different...\n\nI say yes, go for it.. you might blow his mind...
585861
absolutely not!!! You ask a boy out for what is inside not what is on the outside. I mean come on if you go out with someone for looks you really don't like them. hope i helped!!
895546
ASK! (that is how I got my man) We flirted everyday and then I just asked if he wanted to go have a drink some time and he took me to lunch the next day.  We laugh about it now (3yrs later) about how I was more of a man than him by asking him out. Go for it girl, worse come to worse he will say no.  You can not live your life hiding go for it. A man likes a women who is not afraid to take risks.
314015
Hell yes! If a guy even waited 1 week to ask me out, I would be wondering what was going on with him. Ask her now before you lose your chance. Good luck.
217336
Id go for it. The guy dosent always have to ask the girl out. Ask him, and if he says no, then at least you tried.
389884
Honey that's great! In the world of tease with no please it's great for a guys self esteme to have a cutie ask him out and if he accepts then Oh so cool, but if he rejects then let it go and don't worry, this ol' hippie thinks that is sexy. So go get em'
792879
Uh well the real ? is does he notice you? Have y'all sat down and talked to each other? Or does he like you a little more than a friend? I normally believe you should wait for a guy to ask the girl but if you want to take a risk and lose him or feel uncomfortably around him then go ahead because if he says no you might just not feel very comfortable around him.
320189
I don't have a problem with asking a man out.  If I like him and want to go to dinner with him I'll ask.  But I get what you're saying.  If you want equality, it's equality in everything not just selected things.
119724
Yes girls like when guys ask them out. Even if their answer is no...still know that they are flattered that you asked them. Every girl loves to feel special...and thats how it would make her feel.