Please help with dilemma..?
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Perhaps you could confront them by letting them know that your husband is aware of what was said, and that you feel betrayed because it had been a private conversation between close friends. Let them know that you feel hurt as well, because it has as you have said, made a very tense situation even worse. \n\nIn some ways it is to be expected that these friends of yours would tell their husbands, that is their life partner. What is terribly wrong is for the husbands to turn around and not only repeat your private words and cause more problems for you, but these husbands also ratted on their own wives by telling. Goes to show you that these husbands did not even think about how their actions would afftect you or the bad position they put their ownnn  wives in. Now these women of course will have to face you with what they have done. All around not a good situation. \n\nI would be very hurt by their actions but as well, I do not think they told their husbands to be mean or to do it as gossip but to share in what you are going through and perhaps as women do... run it by someone else in order to get another's opinion.  Perhaps you could keep this in mind as you confront them. They do owe you a big apology..... as well as their husbands.  Good luck... I hope everything turns out ok for you.
34418
I am currently going through the same type of situation. Basically you have to ask is the stress worth it. If it is meant to be then it will happen. Don't force it. If not, there are more fish in the sea.
144374
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.
57130
You should talk with your friend about the situation...if you aren't doing anything to provoke the situation then you shouldn't worry but I would definitely encourage you to talk with your friend.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
1150786
It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
1127293
If you can give her really good reasons why you would rather go to the other one she might listen.  Talk to her about without sounding like whining and she will take you serious and maybe listen.  If she still says no, than you should respect that.
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
668353
sit down and talk it out... explain to him the pros and cons of the issue and see whats good for both of you...
181217
if you asking this question......... then you need to make a decision between the two.  I feel if you were happy, this wouldn't even be a consideration.
944420
I'll advise you stick to hope that things will improve with time. Your friend's brother is probably still angry about something that may have happened in your relationship with your fiancee or with himself. You may need to summon courage to ask to discuss your differences. Meanwhile stick to hope and the positive - the fact that your fiancee still sticks up for you. She and mom are still on your side, aren't they? That's enough to sustain hope. Best wishes for a happy resolution.
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Well, you should buy whatever one you can afford.  If you can afford both, then buy both adn see what on you like more,and then return the one you don't want anymore, or just keep them both\n\n\nThat is what i would do.
606629
sounds like you are confused. think this out better then decide
404355
it is a difficult question, it is better to resolve any problems before going to bed but that is not always possible.it takes 2 to end an argument and if both parties don't cooperate it won't happen. in which case you should consider a different bed until it is resolved, make sure it was worth arguing about.
643957
Talk to him tonight...\n\nit'll be worth it.\n\nYou may sacrifice having sex or anything physical for a little while, but it will be worth it so you know whats really going on.
553049
It is up to you. Do what you think is right. If you want to then go for it but if you dont want to then dont. It is up to you. Good Luck.
192560
Its all up to you. Noone can answer that question.  Try to go with the one that will treat you better.