how do you tell your boyfriend that ive been fooling around on him?
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Ask your b/f what he thinks about being in an open relationship and if he is OK with it then you are safe.  I would still tell him about your 'thug' fling but not right after you ask him about the open relationship thing.  Also if he says he is not into an open relationship then I don't know what you are going to do! I guess at that point in time you are just going to have to decide which one of these guys is more important to you and which one you want to keep in your life! Good luck with it BigGuy! *hugs* JAC<\nin Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
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Remind him of all the times you indulged his little fantasies. Let him know that it's only because you get a kick from it and that it's your little secret. It's not like you're asking him to parade around town in them are you?
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If hes your boyfriend and best friend then sit down and tell him that your a person who likes to keep thing discreet.
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Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
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just start off by saying how sexy you are feeling today and that you have been thinking about him loads. then let his imagination take over and he will start asking you questions, it's really good fun so just enjoy yourself. the best things to mention is stuff like how you wish he was touching you and kissing you all over and ask him what would he do to you if he could!
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FOR GODS sake if hes your boyfriend tell him everytime you get the chance. no right or wrong time. Carpe Diem Sieze the Day
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tell him youre really horny, no guy would pass up that one
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Mast ur bate; explore you body and enjoy yourself.  Tell you boyfriend about it only when he comes home from the job and not over the phone.  Then you can show him just what you have learnt about your body while he has been away
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You just have to find the right moment to tell him, if you feel that you are now at a stage where you can trust him and you are 100% yourself then go ahead and tell and if he is a decent guy then he will be there for you all the way. can i ask is the reason you want to tell him because you want to start having sex with him? or you already at that stage with him and you just feel like you need to tell him? I can't help thinking that there is a bigger reason behind you wanting to tell him...but hey i may be completley of the mark!\n\noh and just for the record there is not something wrong with you because you call your self sexy woman and you have been raped, i think its great that you can see yourself as a sexy woman again, i have a friend who was raped years ago and she still has no self esteem or anything what so ever...so i say good on ya that your picking yourself up again after going through onr of the most traumatic things life can throw at you!\n\nerm i just have to bring this up coz i just noticed all the other questions you previously asked and one was that your boyfirend treats you like his whore?! have you had counselling for this rape? hun it sounds to me as if you have actually gone for a guy who treats you the way you actually feel inside....you also asked how do you know if your boyfirend is cheating on you?! this does not sound like the kind of bloke you wann be with....please be careful about anything you do now and GET HELP!!! It will do you so much good in the long run!
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flirt with him, and dont just use words be a little playful, like brush up against him and stuff like that, then he will know.
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sense his tone \nor remember a thing he told u and u think its a lie then ask him about it latter like a week or smt\nusualy ppl don't remember there lies for more than a cople of days ;)\ndo more than once and make it look like a casual Q. \ndon't make him feel ur investigating him or that u don't beleave him
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Make him a video of you telling and showing him every part of you that you will let him invade, if he takes you back. Be sure to be nude when making the video.
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You are being used for booty and will never be anything more to him. I wish it didn't sound so harsh, but that's your truth. Either enjoy your "benefits" or move on. You may tell him you love him, but I bet your intuition has already told you the response to that and that is why you are scared. Actually I belive you should tell him, get it off your chest....and still move on.
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TELL THEM!!!\nit screws up your whole relationship if you don't.
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Let her make a fool out of herself and then tease her about the foolish stunt relentlessly.  For years.\n\nLet your boyfriend in on the joke right away.\n\nDon't be afraid this will backfire on you.  If your boyfriend is turned on by your sister and YOU wind up alone, you are the luckiest girl in the world.  Really.
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Theres ton's of ways to tell guys. Just say that you dnt want to leave him. if u lie u will just make it worst for it urself, lol. Just tell him in face (not like yelling or bein rude) and just say it.
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it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u