Wanna date outside of my race but.....?
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Well as long as you have some expectaions like my personal ones:\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nand you find yourself doing some of the following: How you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nThen mabye you should give it a try.  I don't think it's in your head, it's in your heart.  LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND IT WON'T FAIL YOU. Good luck to you!~Alison~
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Love is blind anymore. Sometimes you have to go outside your race. I'm opened to it. I think it's a beautiful thing when you see to people together that's not the same race. Look at the poplulation now, most kids are mixed. I think it's a way to learn from other cultures when you are dating out your race. If people don't like. Just tell them "Don't look!" Hey, sometimes you find love where you weren't really looking for it.\nPanthertears23
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race isn't an issue for me, I would like to be seen in public with a lady as attractive as you are! \n\nI would say don't ask though, treat it as a non issue and see what you get.  That way you'll get a true response.  I see you live in Tennessee, I've lived in the south before and understand that may presnet a problem in some areas, but it;s lots better than it ever was.  Just find a nice white guy and ask him to go out with you.
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Love finds itself in strange and unusual ways for many. Interracial dating is fine for me, but it depends on the relationship. Some people are against it, others aren't. It depends on the relationship.
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Personally, I think you love who you love and if that makes it a bi-racial relationship then so be it! Unfortunately, ignorant people in this world don't like it. The thing is, there are alot of people who don't like to see people date out of their race. For instance, Oprah had this whole show on how black men don't like to see black women dating white men. But, black women say there aren't enough professional, elligible black men out there. As I said, I think you love who you love and that is life.
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I am very much attracted to other races. I like white guys. Latin guys yes oh yes I do.  But I did notice something, I have friends that would be interested in white/latin guys but they do not look at them because they're taught or they think white guys wouldn't be interested in them. I bet a lot of those girls are probably interested but were not too sure of your preferences. Maybe you should become friends with one and then ask her out if you see a black girl you like. Just keep being you.
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IT is almost 2006 . Inter-racial dating shouldn't be an issue anymore. Love has no color- Peolpe should do what makes them comfortable and happy and if it with someone outside your race than so be it.
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Allot of people still think it is odd to date another race.\nHow ever who cares what they think as long as your happy.
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date someone else. or move
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Ignore them. It is not yo to them to judge you. Who are they to say where you find happiness in your life?\nI have dated outside my race SEVERAL times and I have learned that the only reason people do this is the same reason people put others down for any reason in life...#1-ignorance\n#2 They are miserable and can not stand to see someone else happy\n\nIf you find happiness whether its with your same race or not good for you! Congratulations!!!
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There is nothing wrong in dating with someone out of your culture. It is just the case that Indian people tend to marry within their own community which is even a smaller entity than nation. However times are changing and people are becoming more open minded. By the way where do you live..I am Indian and we can date if we find we are compatible...just select this answer as best..I will give u my email ID
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i have racist parents, and i waited to date outside my "race" until i got out of the house. if i had "fallen for" someone they wouldn't have approved of before that, i think i just would have dated the person without them knowing. (and i would tell the guy that your parents have issues, so he knows why you're not taking him home to dinner first thing.)\n\nafter you've dated for a little while, and if you really think it's "serious," then you can introduce him to your parents, after you make it clear that you waited to tell them because of their racist attitudes, and are only telling them because it's more than just a crush. prepare for a big argument. tell them first, BTW, so they don't make asses of themselves. surprise is not a good idea here. \n\n(and sorry you have to deal with such silliness. at least i hope it's just silliness.)
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Moms have their own ways.  You have to make your own happiness in life.  You do not mention your age.  Cross cultural dating is difficult lots of times and no due to race.  If you have a nice boyfriend of color then try to get her to meet him and show her he respects you and wants to be kind to you and to her
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just talk to him about it, he'd understand that your not used to it. or even look up on the net if your able to find.  im also dating some1 from a different culture...that is what i did.
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"Father, I'm dating a person outside of my race."
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i date outside of my "race" all the time...in fact, most of the time i do. i don't let racism stop me at all nor do i care what my family thinks. besides, as far as i'm concerned...there's only one race and that's the human race.
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Race shouldn't matter but get the girl that makes you feel happy and the one you love. Personally I think you should date outside of your race becuase it's something beautiful.