help..Im still nervous....and I cant?
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First off...you can do it.  You can win this interview.   How do I know?  \n\na) You have recognized the challenge\nb) You are seeking help in finding a solution.  This act is a sign of confidence and security.   NEVER be ashamed to ask for help.   It is a sign of higher intelligence.\nc) There is still plenty of time to prepare and be ready.\n\nFirst, find yourself a professional notebook (not a binder) with preferably a dark cover on it.   You will take this notebook with you to your interview.  Bring a good quality pen for taking notes and jotting things down that come to mind whenever the interviewer speaks.\n\nYou are going to build for yourself a simple, clear "script" or a set of crib notes for you interview.   If you get nervous at any point during the conversation, you just need to steady yourself and get back on message my looking down at your notes.   The interviewer will be VERY impressed that you have prepared for the interview and will think positively of you.   You will write information in groups of 3.\n\nPage 1 - On the first line of the page in bold letters, write 3 points that identify your real strengths that you will bring to the role or position that you are interviewing for today.   Space the three points so they can quickly and easily be read.   Write the points clearly so you don't have to search for them while conversing with the interviewer.\n\nNext, write 3 intelligent and thoughtful questions about the job that you can ask.   One very powerful question is this, "How does this position help you (the interviewer) accomplish your key goals or objectives?"   You will not need more than 3 questions.\n\nNext, write 3 simple notes on things that you have accomplished that demonstrate you could do this job.\n\nNext write these three phrases in big letters that you can read: \n+   Breath deep and relax. RELAX RELAX then you are at your best\n+   Gently half smile after each question or answer.\n+   Look the interviewer directly in the eyes when you speak\n\nIf you complete this set of notes, rehearse it a few times by yourself or with a friend, by the time your interview comes around you will be smooth as silk and smart as a fox.\n\nRemember...you are a competent, hard working, and intelligent worker.   Write that phrase at the very top of the page in capital letters and at the very bottom of the page.   Say they words to the interviewer when you shake their hand at the end of the session.\n\nBest wishes for your complete success.\n\nPS - I am a retired Chief Operating Officer of a major company.  I know you can do this...so should you.
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@sweetie "Let it all out before meeting them".. ;)\n\nShe/he is absolutely correct...\nI have tried myself. There will be no nervousness after that
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Some nervousness is natural.  It keeps us on our toes!  As hard as it sounds to do, try to relax and be yourself.  Everything will work out fine.
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you know its funny cause that sounds just like me but i have somebody now.Even though you are a nervous person you just need to get out there and meet people,go out with friends and just have fun.I think you will find sombody.Oh and im still in love with my ex and i dont know how to get over that.
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Just be yourself, stay happy, and dont let it show that you are too worried, just a bit and the person that asked you out should be able to see and understand, most people have ways to make others more comforatable, so talk, be honest, and i hope it all works out for you!  :)
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Unfortunately, it's hard to get un-nervous.  My best advice is to tell yourself when you get in there that you have plenty of time to take the test.  Relax, close your eyes and breathe deep when you feel yourself start to tense up.  And put yourself in the best possible position by preparing for the exam as well as possible.  \n\nMaybe use the point of view not that you are being tested, but that this exam is a chance for you to show what you know.
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What an excellent and honestly fowarded question of which I maybe able to offer some advice. Your social anxiety places you in a difficult position...since during most interviews we ALL feel like we are being GRILLED by the world. Your situation is even more interesting due to the fact that you are feeling that way all the time...correct? So take or leave the following advice.\n1. The anxiety you are feeling is common to us all and it is inherent that we ALL are nervous during interviews.\n2. You will have overcome and defeated your stress when you believe in yourself enough to foster the courage to even go to the appointment.ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOU ARE GOING ON THIS INTERVIEW.\n3. The key to interviewing is that you take control of the interview. I went to a workshop on interviewing once and this really works.  You are competent...and you are qualified....and thats your only job inside that interview...BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND MAKE THEM WANT TO HIRE YOU.No worries ...no stress...theres nothing to lose...unless you don't go. I think from just reading your question....YOU WILL GET THIS JOB!!! I will pray for you...
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Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
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My flute professor tells us to try and make yourself more nervous. Can you make your hands shake more, can you make your palms sweatier? Chances are, it will stop. Also, if you are standing, try to be really aware of your feet on the ground. Plus, accept the fact that mistakes are meant to be made. It also couldnt hurt to be prepared. :) Good luck!
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I have the same problem. There is this guy a like and I think he likes me. We always act so nerwous around each other whenever we talk or look at one another. Do you have this problem too? Anyway, back to you! I guess if you can get over the nervousness part, try to get to know this person a bit more. Find out what their interests are, and what they like to do for fun. Once you have found out that, then say something like, "Hey I've got this extra ticket to (name the place) how would you like to go? I hope that I have helped!
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ok first thing first, youve got to be calm and composed. feeling nervous is okay. just relax and listen to the questions carefully. answer them patiently. dont hurry things up. it can mess up.
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it's very brave of you to admit you're nervous; i think you're braver than you think. why don't you let the girl know? "Listen, it's hard for me to talk to a woman as pretty as you." she will understand you are nervous, plus she will be so flattered.
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PANIC!!!!!AND  ANXIETY!!!!
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what i would advise you to do is to stop stressing about it the more you think about it the harder it would be to do something... i would suggest that you relax and let things happen by themselves... you'll see that soon he will make the move =)\n\ngood luck girl and remember just be yourself!
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He's probably a little nervous, and that's quite understandable. Don't push it yet. Make him feel more comfortable, and after a little while, if he doesn't ask you out and you think he still wants to, ask him.
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You're probably not shy...just nervous...and that's natural.  Different people react differently to uncomfortable situations.  Remember that he's probably nervous too.  Don't worry so much about what he MAY or MAY NOT be thinking... You'll get better at this with time...we all do!
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It's perfectly okay to be nervous. Sometimes we worry "Oh god, what will he say or think of me? What if he doesn't want to talk?!" Just breathe, relax, and tell yourself that if he didn't want to talk to you then you wouldn't be dating. He's interested in you, so go ahead and chat it up!