Do you have more peace at home or at work?
963616
often, i have more peace at work...i am not emotionally attached there...with my kids, life at home is always busy busy...running off to practices, scout meetings, games, concerts...it is chaos, but well worth it.
345653
Get out of the house and experience life; it is more healthy.  We all spend too too much time on the computer, including me.
115163
Both actually. I take some time alone to pray. When I've given my problem into God's hands, I tell my close friends about it and I let go of it and enjoy myself, "for who by worrying can add an inch to his life."
485146
Home. Its my second job :( cuz I'm a mom.
69475
we love home because we assosiate it with our selves and we consider it our safe haven where we are almost out of harms way and we have full power. unlike at some one eslses house where you cant do anything and have little or no authority. thats why home is what it is home.
961984
The life you are having now is your job. Even though you are a housewife, it also consider a job.
726819
home is where I would rather be,
902407
It feels very uncomfortable to even think about for me , I think that is a very personal act . If I were at work or any other public place and had no choice I would have to . I usually stay home if I think I may have a problem though .
377068
I know how it feels to be at work and missing life very well. It bites, but it's so much worse when payday comes around and there's no money in the check!  So we work. Why is the party at your house if you are at work anyway?
359176
Making peace with myself.  Money is nice, relationship is nice.....but rather have peace with myself above all.  If have inner peace, then happiness usually follows. :-)
330461
Enjoy it. Let them do their job. I,m sure you have enough work to do at home. take the break while you can.
259995
I work for several reasons....\nFirst of all to pay my bills, no silver spoon here !!\nSecond of all to get out of the house, I would only stay home if I could work outside all day, hate housework...\nAnd third...for the social benefits that it brings...it IS my social life...
225967
I would say at home only because it's their first birthday and it would more enjoyable for you and the baby to be at home in a familiar enviroment. You can invite several of your friends that you know have kids their age and sit and talk and enjoy the day, while the kids are running or crawling around on familiar tuff.
706144
I think this is completly normal, and rest assured you are not alone.  Many of us are more willing to take chances and risks at work then home.  It is easier to deal with and make decisions when we are in an authoritive position that requires us to then at home.  I think you'd be real surprised if you knew how many "top" business men and women are in the exact same situation.  Continue doing what your doing at work and take home one day at a time, one situation at a time, its not that your screwing up at home comparied to at work, its just that home is completly different situations that need different attention.  Hang in there :)
590041
i think they both have worth to society. i have done both, and i will say from personal experience i felt more "accepted" from society when i was working. i liked being at home better though because i could spend all that time with my child. i think a lot of people think being a stay at home mom is like lounging on the couch all day...well those people obviously don't have kids!!! when you're at a job working you get to go home at the end of the day, and when you're at home you "work" literally 24/7 and don't even get paid(except in smiles and kisses:) \n\ni think people need to realize that being a mother is work. so why should it matter if you leave the house to do it!!! work is work!
665871
I spend most of my time at home.  I work out of my home (I operate a daycare in my home).  I love it.  I love my home, I love my job, and I love having my family at home with me.  I am not a "home-body" though.  We travel, I volunteer, and I have outside interests.  I have a good life and I am happy.
465776
I also work from home as a writer.  I set my own hours for the company I work for and as long as I get the comedy script written no one cares what I do.  I can work nude, not work and work twice as hard the next day or just relax. I interact regularly with my friends and associates and if anything have more time than before!  You will love it!