Am i gay or is it just a phase?
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well maybe you where just curious....i don't think anything can be worng with being a little curious
465307
I'm sort of gay ..i like gay men but I'm a girl
1087597
I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
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How do you know if you're straight?
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Uh...yeah....\n\nIt's totally normal to be confused. You could be having gay thoughts but end up being totally straight. Or vice versa
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If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
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You can be gay and still be masculine, just the same as someone can be straight and be feminine. There is nothing wrong with being gay. It sounds like you might be, and at the very least you could be bisexual.
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If you're gay, yes, that's "normal" for you. Don't let anyone convince you that it's just a phase you're going through or whatever. A gay person, as you know, is attracted to their same gender and doesn't find the other gender attractive. If that's how you feel, that's what's "right" for you.\n\nYou can't tell if someone else is gay but looking at them. Despite what people think, you can't. Oh, sure, some lesbian women dress "manly" or have "boyish" haircuts but a lot of lesbians look very feminine and you can't spot them. Same with gay guys. I know a guy that everyone thought was gay and he's straight. I also know LOTS of gay guys that no one would guess as gay.\n\nThose are stereotypes. Don't believe them.
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I don't believe that it makes you gay. But, it also depends on what your definition of Gay is.  I do believe that you have homosexual tendencies.  That means that you may not be actually having sex with or being sexually intimate with men right now.  But, if the right situation presents itself, you may become involved with a man sexually.  Now, whether you will just like guys then or not, I don't know.  However, anything is possible with anything.  Just take you time and find out what makes you feel good as a person and what makes you feel good intimately and that will be your answer.  Don't worry about the label too much.
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Drs Master and Johnson in their study of human sexuality found that most people are a mix of gay and hetero.\n\nGo explore yourself, and love what you find, and you will be OK.
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Go on and ask him. He's very open to the idea of being gay. You guys should help each other discover your sexual orientations and preferences. But don't rush into things that fast because you guys are still young. People switch teams all the time. Just take things a step at a time. Focus on discovering who you really are. G'luck!
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being straight, bisexual, or gay is normal!  pick a pattern for sexual behavior, stop worrying about the normalcy of your preference, and have a good time.  that's what sex is all about.
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Hey, I respect your question. But there is no right or wrong answere here. I myself am Bi, ever since I was 13 I had thoughts of both sexes. The truth is, you might have switched.  However, seeing as you were atrracted to girls to start with chances are you might be homosexual.  But until you have found the prime area, Just go with bi. ;)\nPlus. I agree that it is not a choice, it kind of just happens, you know?  It pisses me off that they can just assume that from some bullshit study (pardon the language).\nAnyway, seeing as I do not know you, I can not give you a definitive answer.  But... I know that I swing back and forth from which ones I like more, i.e. for like a month or two i will be more attracted to guys, vis versa. Understand?\n\nGood luck to you. Don't worry too much, I had the same problem for a while but i came to realise I was bi when I came out a few years ago. I am turning eighteen in two days,\nand since I was thirteen i had gone back and forth asking myself.  If you have not yet come out, don't be afraid, not as bad as you think, nothing changed in my life.  I respect your courage here. I hope I could have been of some help.\n\n    Der Terror|risti
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It's a feeling, not something you find out.  Being bi is not a bad thing.  You haven't given up on guys.  I've always had a firm belief that your sexual feelings is your business .  No one else needs to know. \nLet's just say when you know what you want, then tell them.  This could just be a phase you're going through.  You'll also know the best time to tell them.\n\nGood luck
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At 16 years old your hormones are in overdrive. I don't think you are gay or bi since men don't seem to turn you on like women. You are just curious of sex in general. Do you have any gay friends or aquaintences? If so that could be adding to your curiousity simply in wondering why they do what they do. If you feel like you would like to have sex with another boy than by all means you should give it a try (use a condom of course). There's nothing wrong with experimenting to figure out what you like and don't like. Just remember to be true to yourself. Don't try anything because of peer presure. I think you just need to experience life. You're young and curious and that's perfectly ok. Just be safe in whatever ventures you explore. Good luck.
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You say that you "know i'm not gay because i know its very wrong". Who says it is wrong? Someone else who is telling you who your are? The only thing that is wrong is for you to pretend that you are someone that you are not. It could be that you only want to experiment, and that doesn't make you gay. Being gay is a definition of who you are attracted to. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the same sex as you, that means you are gay. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the opposite sex as you, that means you are straight. If you have sexual thoughts about both, then you are bi. Instead of listening to other people who tell you what is wrong or right, listen to yourself and decide for yourself who you are attracted to. It doesn't matter who you are attracted to, the only thing that matters is that who you are attracted to makes you happy.
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From what I've read, it's not unusual at your age to have these kinds of thoughts about people of your own sex. I myself had them about girls in school when I was your age (I'm female).  However, I am straight. You sound like you are straight. But there's nothing wrong with being gay, aside from the fact that gays are unfairly discrimated against.