I dont like kissing my best friend/boy friend in front of people.?
961227
If hes your boyfriend and best friend then sit down and tell him that your a person who likes to keep thing discreet.
1129569
That's actually a tough situation because there's no guaruntee he'll ever been 100% ok with affection. This isn't going to help much, but start out small by trying to be affectionate at home and work your way up. Small things, like hugs, hold hands while watching a movie *at home*, and the occassional kissing that doesn't lead to sex.... IF that ever becomes comfortable then you move up to small social settings with friends. You don't want to jump right into situations where there are a lot of random people around. If you can't get up to or past the stage where you can be affectionate in front of friends it would probably be best to let it go. You don't want to push to hard, and in the end it's not always possible to change a person. I hope this helps.
267583
Why not just relax...forget about the  sexual side of it and just enjoy the people your hanging out with? Wait for your transition into adulthood is finalized before you start experimenting!
266589
if you "truly love him" and he is your "best friend" then his height or anything else about him wouldn't matter at all. things like that shouldn't affect a relationship and if it does well then it's probably not everything you really thought it was/is. kissing someone should be special, not weird.
905135
i felt the same way but i kind di not get over it be cause we said we would not go with some boby that person like too. she was a great friend but, she kiss him in the hall wall. she  was going with him .i can"t belive i was like how in the hell she do that. so at that time i know we would not be friend or best friend at all.
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
646864
HE IS SCARED! Trust me, he did not kiss you just for the fun of a kiss and then change his mind. Don't be pushy just be available. Try to be a safe place for him to go when he is feeling strong enough. If you become clingy, needy, or overly dramatic you will scare him off and lose you best friend and your love. Friendship is the root of great relationships. This has real potential, that is scary. Just back off and give him some time. I would keep up with the occasional text message, short and sweet, but avoid any type of demand. He will come around.
918759
Hey if you can find a social scene, like a party or something where you can just walk up and kiss him and not have it happen in front of 100 people, go for it. It's flattering. Otherwise, try and talk to him more often and build up a relationship that way!
574359
If your not kissing him is enough to make him not like you at all, he's absolutely not worth it. Don't worry your pretty little head about it for one more second. He sounds like a total loser.
340309
Don't kiss anyone you don't want to kiss? :)
587801
Did you mean to ask, "Why should *I* still be best friends with my best friend if we like the same guy?"\n\nWhy should that bother you? It's just one more thing that you have in common. If you are too young to get married, then just laugh about it and move on. If you are considering this guy as marriage material, then the only thing preventing you from remaining best friends is your own cultural indoctrination and jealousy. Learn to deal with it and think outside of your ideological box.
1181820
That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
788405
bcause u feel it will harm ur friendship
508972
I don't think he has the right to touch you, but you don't have the right to decide who he likes. if he is smitten with you and you can "tell " it is one thing you have no control over, if he touches you that's another issue, if he tells all your friends still nothing wrong with professing his love. (he's a fool is the only thing). some people have no shame so I guess you have already tried embarrassing him? and that didn't work. you can take legal action (battery) for him touching you. that may scare him enuf to stop. good luck........
94394
Absolutely don't worry about it. If people do say that to you then just laugh it off. It's good that you have a best friend you feel close to, a lot of people won't understand/be lucky enough to have that.
568081
I would not kiss him. My brother and an old friend dated behind my back, and it hurt. \nI don't advise it\n\nBecause if you date him & problems arise, who are you gonna turn to? Your BFs sister?\nThat is putting her in the middle of something she probably wants no part in.
426449
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.