I am getting married and I need your help!?
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Check eBay \nyou can find almost anything in eBay stores and because of their large clientele the prices are usually reasonable.
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Don't listen to all these people.\nIt is probably a case of cold feet jitters-I went trough that right before my wedding too!\nJust talk to your intended and see how they feel, and just go with your gut. Remember, you can call it off at the altar if you like, but if you cancel now, it's definitely off.
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Priorities first, boy! Make sure you can provide my sistah a good future. Getting married does not mean NOW.
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Well just be sure you guys can communicate thoroughly about not only that but but everything else before you decide to get married.  It's more important than anything when making that huge leap
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If you're in the beginning phases of planning a wedding (which it sounds like you are), your best bet would be to talk to your fiance so that you can determine what you both want in your ceremony and reception.  Start broad: come up with what time of year you want to get married (winter, summer, etc.), what kind of place you'd like to get married (church, beach, etc.), and how big you'd like it to be.\n\nOnce you've narrowed down your options, go to a planning website like www.theknot.com, www.wedalert.com/, or www.brides.com.  They'll give you options on ideas, and you should be able to use their interactive planning calendars too.\n\nUse the given dates to plan dress shopping, invitation sending, and everything else.  They may even have a budget calculator to make it even easier!\n\nBest of luck to you...\n~mm~
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I think a day of consultant is better then just a wedding consultant.  I really helps with all of the day of worries.  Have you tried joining theknot.com.  It is a great resource for finding everything you need for your wedding.  I own an online wedding boutique and would rather help my clients in any way possible to find that item then them have to hire a wedding consultant.  But if you do know one, as on theknot.com under your city and I am sure someone could help!  Makes life so much easier for the brides.  Let me know if you have any specific questions or something you are looking for...I am sure I can help!
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Yeah... have a nice wedding/ gathering outside in a nice park or something like that.  Make it nice and casual but still nice, walk barefoot down the aisle, and ahev a whimsical ceremony.  I am sure that you could ask the person who will be marrying you to do so at this location.
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your marriage is what you make it. both of you bring honesty, trust, respect,love,communication, and commitment and you will be fine. good luck
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Are you officially married?  Do you love the person your with? Were your guests your close friends and family?  If yes, then most likely, the guests were just happy to be there to share such a joyous event.  What the event looked like, or actually cost, or what the service was like, means nothing compared to the joy, happiness, friendship, and company that's shared on a wedding day.  If you still feel upset about the reception, invite some of your closest friends/relatives, and throw a backyard bbq or small dinner.  That way, you can share some special time with the people you care about without having to worry about everything working out perfectly.\n\nCongratulations! Best of luck with your new marriage!
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Congratulations!  First if you don't want to register for gifts, that is fine - maybe you can ask your guests to donate to you and your fiance's favorite charity enlude of buying gifts.  Since you are having a garden wedding, your costs on decor have been cut down dramatically - just use your beautiful surroundings!  Keep things simple - allow nature to provide the beauty.  Maybe use colorful linens, and use silver pails ( u can get them cheap at Wal mart) and fill those with flowers for your centerpieces.  Maybe tie a ribbon (the thick kind) with a plaid colorful design (colors to match ur wedding colors) around the pails especially if you can't afford colored linens and have to opt for only white.  You could also just do a simple floating candle( and or a floating flower) arrangement for  a centerpiece as well.  Since you will be dining outdoors keep the food simple and light .  \nA rehearsal dinner is also not required, but is basically just a nice get together for everyone in the wedding party ( everyone may not know eachother) and immediate family, to get to know one another and privatly celebrate with you and your fiance.  It also is a time for you to give them their gifts.  Typically the groom ( or grooms family) pays for the rehearsal dinner.  If money is an issue - just ask everyone to 'pitch in'.  \nHope all works out for the best:)
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I am sure you can. You should call and talk to the Pastor. Good Luck and God bless your wedding!
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Well, seems to me you all need to spend some more time together!  IF you all are really serious about getting married then you all should be at that point in your relationship to communicate well with each other.    It's ALL about communication, trust and love.\n\nIt'll put your heart at ease to give him a call and meet up face to face to talk about everything you two are feeling right now.  It's a BIG step to take and everything should be out in the open with you two and comfortable with your decision.\n\nGL hun and hope all works out for you two!
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I will second melatonin and exercise, as well as finding a few minutes each day to just mellow, like taking a long walk or trying yoga. What are you actually anxious about? If it is the idea of being a married couple for the rest of your life, talk with your fiance and maybe a therapist about any concerns you have. If it is the actual wedding day, remember: so long as you are married at the end of the night, that is the important thing. No one has a perfect wedding day, so don't even try to reach any Princess Diana event. Find just a few things to really focus on if you can't help it and focus on just that: the cake, or the flowers, or the favors, but not all of those. Let other people handle the less important things: if you are not big on desserts, let you mom choose them; if your husband to be really wants to choose the limo and you have other things to do, let him do that for you. I let my bridesmaids choose their own shoes, hair, and jewelry, just one less thing for me to worry about and everyone looked great!
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1. For a unique party favor my groom and I are giving out lottery tickets. Only $1 each.. I will have a note in the program stating the tickets were chosen because we are so lucky to have our family and friends with us on our wedding day.\nI will also add a line that all winnings will need to be split with the bride and groom!\n\n 2. Instead of having an ordinary guestbook, that you hardly will look at again, I am going to create a photo guest book.  My guestbook attendants will take polaroids of each guest... either individually or in a group, however they come, and put it on the pages of the guestbook/scrapbook.  The guests will then sign on the bottom of their picture.  My fiance and I will then have a photo album of all the guests at our wedding! :) GST\n\n3. We are getting married next year and instead of the traditional wedding we have decided to go with a "rock-n-roll" theme. We are going to have records displayed around the hall with our names on them and a picture of the two of us. Our colors are navy blue, black and silver so there will be plenty of those colors…from the silver glitter on the black tables cloths to the silver spray painted roses.\n\n 4. Since this is a second marriage and there are children that will be blended into a new family, we are decorating the tables at the reception with photo trees holding photos of my future husband and I and our children doing things together. We feel it shows that this marriage is not the union of just two people, but the formation of a new family.\n\n5. We had a shortage of single men and women invited to our wedding, most of our friends and family were already married.  So we needed to come up with something different to replace the traditional bouquet and garter throwing.  We invited everyone to the dance floor and the dj played several lovely, slow songs.  First the dj told all couples married two hours or less to sit down (everyone got a kick out of that).  Then a few moments later, any married a year or less, than five years, ten years and so on, until there was only one couple left.  They were neighbors and friends of my family and had been married for fifty years.  We asked them to stay on the dance floor while I took a seat and my husband made a big show of removing my garter.  We then faced the winning couple, congratulated them on their fifty years and asked them for their best marriage advice as we presented them with the bouquet and garter.  They were very touched and it gave us a great feeling too.
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Decide which type of religion fits you and your fiance the best. Then decide what parts of a wedding are vital to you. Another good idea to analyze your thoughts would be by doing a side by side comparison.
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Can family help you with some of the plans? Maybe a sibling can do parts of it for you:) Just Kidding. Anyway, assuming that this isn't go to be right away. Make a list of stuff you have to do/plan, then make a list of the people who you want to come. Once you have the list of stuff you have to get done, separate it into groups, from stressful to less stressful, put the most stressful first or were ever you would want it then so on. Put a little bit of each thing to do in a month.\n\nExample\n\nJuly:\n\nCall 4 flower arrangement\nGet dress from David's Bridal\nSend out invitations.\n\nAugust:\n\nLeave at 4 to pick up something.\nMake setting arrangements\nYou get the point right.\n\nThat away you not trying to do everything at once. Less stress and you get everything done in time for the big day.\nCongratulations:) Good Luck:)
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first of all...good for you!\nSince this is something you both want, its easier than if one of you were trying to wait and the other was trying NOT to. Tell some friends that you trust what you are doing, and ask them to keep you accountable. Spend time together in public places, and see if you can manage to not have alone time where you would be tempted not to wait.\n if you can live with other people before the wedding, that will help too. If you dont have a place where nobody else is around, then you will find it easier.\nGood luck, and congrats on your upcoming wedding!