What do you do if you still cant get your ex-finance out of your head after 1 year?
966532
So, your basically saying that you would like to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you and your willing to live that way?\n\nI really think that you have more going for you than that. you may not understand why there was a break up and for that matter, she may not have told you the truth in the first place, so who cares what her thoughts are on the subject.\n\nDid you ever hear the saying "There are lots of fish in the sea?"\nwell, get out there and start swimming....you will probably find one that totally idolizes you,makes you feel like a million dollars, makes every waking minute worthwhile and you are spending all of this time sulking.\nthey say there is someone for everyone on this earth, maybe you had to learn from this one in order to find the right one. Okay, you learned a lesson now get your house clean, buy some new (woman magnet) clothes, get your hair cut and get out there, she is waiting so stop taking so long......
554082
PAY YOUR BILL!!! I work as a bill colelctor and the best thing to do is work out an arrangement that you are able to commit to. Stop running and being immature about it by hanging up (If that's what you do). Although it's people like you that keep us having a job. I know there are some nasty bill collectors but not all are bad. Other wise you can write a cease and desist letter that will eliminate calls for 5 years.  But please make out an arrange to pay off debt or do a settlement. By this, I mean agree to work with the creditor by paying 50% of bll and writting off the rest- it much better than have your acct charge off.
579206
throw away your credit card.  get rid of things you dont need\n\n\nthank you come again
129800
girl it is hard. i have been there. the only thing is to stay busy and try not to think about it. it takes time and it will ease with time. after almost 9 years i still think about my ex every once in awhile even tho i am with the man of my dreams now. you will do it. dont let him make you miserable. if so then he wins. go find something to do and focus on it. wish you the best.
269442
make daily deposits or @ each collection time just as if you were a big buss, keep your hand out of the cookie jar, even start 2 separate accounts one for petty cash and another for long term wealth, if you get rid of it asap you dont lose it or no one can take it.
213017
Stop eating out, or whatever you spend the most non-essential money on. Then take all the money that you would have spent, and put it toward fighting your debt.\n\nBe consistent. It should only take you 18 months, which is Small in comparison of 30 years. Think about it.
215025
Hey I'm going through the same thing right now!!!! I have walked out before but it was EXTREMELY HARD to find another job and guess what the one i have now is WORSE!!!!! I hate everyone here to but my problem is that i don't take anyone crap!!!!! I tried to fix a problem i have been having here and it only slapped me in the face, for me i cant just walk out because I'm scared of not finding a job quick enough so i don't fall behind in my bills!!!! I'm trying to stay but I can relate to you.... If you can afford to leave then just walk out if you cant and need this money then stay and look for something else you might have better luck then i did GOOD LUCK hon
246277
Either go to a lawyer or there are some really good software programs that lead you through it step by step.  Unless you are ROLLING in money, it is easy enough to do yourself.
511174
Don't be scared. The worst option for them is that you declare bankruptcy - then they'll have difficulty getting their money back.\n\nAlternatively, get a local debt advice company to approach them on your behalf, and they'll come to an arrangement - you might end up only paying off half or a thirdof what you owe.\n\nBut seriously, get in contact with your creditors. They'd rather see some return on their investment in the long run. What country do you live in? Depends also on local debt laws.
395711
First, you have to realize and accept the fact that there is and won't be any easy way out of your debt without certain consequences.\n\nHere are a few suggestions from someone who's been and done that:\n\n1. Go to a debt consolidation company, they will make negotiations on your behalf with your creditors for a lower monthly payment. Basically, you will make a agreed upon monthly payment to this company and they will in turn disburse the money to each of the creditor each month. You can call them and tell them your situation as far as the amount of debt and your income. I can suggest one I;ve used in the past, Debt Options in FL, 800-523-0102. It will have a negative impact on your credit score, but at least you will be able to pay down the debt in a fairly short time, and you will only have to repay a small percentage of the actual debt, maybe around 10-30%.\n\n2. File bankruptcy, this is the fastest and least painful way, you can file for Chapter 7 and just walk away from all of the debt. Even though the laws have changed, you can still file for a Chpater 7 or 13 bankruptcy depending on your particular situation, you would have to speak with a bankruptcy lawyer. The fees are probably around $1000 to $2500.\n\nIf you have been in debt for 20 years, then you really need to review your situation seriously and make a decision if you truly want to regain control of your life and finances. It sound that at your current pace, you will still be in debt another 20 years from now! \n\nAs painful as my suggestions may sound, it at least provides a way out for you and then you can start all over with a clean slate, no debts! Trust mem there are millions of people filing bankruptcies every year, so it is not a life ending move, but rather a way to give you a new start.\n\nIt's your life, you can decide as you wish...good luck!
930365
try asking a friend and make sure you pay them back\nand then start working on taking care of your finacies properly so that so don't have to no more
443015
always remember that the world is not yours .\nwe are all here on bought time .but do enjoy your\nyoung years.do it responsibly  the world is cruel\nand there is not any room for mistakes.be a good \nexample it will pay off !
629269
Dear Friend,\n\nIt's time to consider filing for bankruptcy.  Your ex is broke, and there's no way the state can be held liable.  Sorry, that's the bottom line.\n\nYour Friend,\nFrancesois
769272
waiti one year and then move out
1059792
You can't, only your ex can. And then there may be penalties, and if your ex wasn't "vested" there may not be any money coming from it at all.
939179
First.........................breath.....lol.........next...............think if this is what you want to do for the rest of your life...money is not always everything...you have to love what you do...if this is what you love to do,then excell yourself to the next level..  you are bored....and desire change.
243998
no and don't plan on it, is it worth what you make a year. If you are thinking of it, just back right up bub, forget it. stay true to your self