Should i tell my sister that her husband is having an affair.......with me....?
957838
Honey.....blood is thicker than water.  Grow UP.  He is a waste of space for doing this but I'm afraid you are even worse.  The longer you play this game the worse you are going to feel when it all comes crashing down and it will, there is absolutely no way around that.  Get control over yourself and just stop it!
266569
YOU ARE IN A TOUGH SITUATION; HOWEVER, WOULDN'T YOU WANT TO KNOW.  YOU NEVER KNOW HOW THE SISTER MIGHT REACT SHE COULD EITHER BE MAD THAT YOU JUST BROKE THE NEWS TO HER, BUT LATER WHEN SHE DOES A LITTLE EXPLORING THE FACTS ON HER OWN I WOULD IMAGINE SHE WILL THINK YOU.  I HAVE A FRIEND OF MINE THAT NEVER TOLD HER OTHER FRIEND THAT HER BOYFRIEND TRIED TO COME OVER FOR A BOOTY CALL.  MY FRIEND TURNED THE GUY DOWN AND CHOSE TO KEEP THIS INFO TO HERSELF. A FEW MONTHS LATER SOMEONE ELSE TOLD THE OTHER FRIEND AND THE TWO USE TO BE FRIENDS HAVE NEVER TALKED SINCE, IF SHE REALLY MEANS ANYTHING TO YOU, YOU WOULD BE BETRAYING HER IF YOU JUST LET THIS GUY TREAT HER LIKE THAT. WE ALL NEED PEOPLE TO WATCH OUT FOR US AND IF MY RELATIONSHIP WAS IN JEOPRODY WITH A FRIEND FOR TELLING ME THE TRUTH I WOULD COME TO MY SENSES EVENTUALLY.
836277
Tell her. Explain to her that you did not know that they were together and that you wanted her to know before she walked down the aisle with this jerk. \n\nImagine how she is going to feel if you don't tell her and a couple years down the road they have kids together and he is still cheating on her with other girls.
118279
Do you get to see her in person? If you do, then I'd recommend telling her. If he's cheating on her, then she has a right to know. Besides, she'll probably find out in the end anyway; these things have a way of coming up, and a lot of times, it's at a bad time.\n\nAt first, she may deny it profusely, yell at you, hate you, whatever. But in the end, it's for her own good and it'll save her months, or even years, of heartache. Never delay bad news; the longer you keep something secret, the worse it'll be when it comes out.\n\nGood luck with whatever happens.
1050422
Wow what a whore! Unfortunately sweetie when your that much of a whore  (Which she clearly is) you don't care what people say or do to you. She's a low life, and a loser. I feel bad for your sister but her man doesn't deserve her. She's way too good for him. My idea is this, just gather all the ladies who's man cheated on them because of the whore and just tell them who's at fault once they find out one person is the cause of there problem then all hell will break loose.
868537
no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
96058
Nothing.  He should have never told her unless it was official.  Gossip and rumors cause problems like this, but they are not immoral, illegal or unethical.  It is just poor judgment or a bad, bad joke.
860989
Your fiance is your best friend ( I hope ) so i don't think you did anything wrong.\nNow if he tells her husband that's going to be a problem. It's over and done with now so just let it go\nI just wouldn't go out with her anymore That way you can't see anything you don't want to see.\n\nIf she is cheating her husband will find out soon enough
267452
At the risk of putting myself out there?.. Tell her.. she should know.. I have a man in my life who has a child with someone else.. SHE and I don't talk..I wish we could, but its complicated as it is.. Tell her..she should know the truth.. and leave the door open for her to talk with you.. I regretably closed that door at the request of the man, and now I wish I didn't.. and I would love for the other woman to contact me.. so I could know what the hell is going on and have the full story.. but I didn't.. so I have more questions then answers.. I am sure she feels the same way and wants to know the full story,a nd what is really going on.. so tell her..
382099
She needs to know what's going on.  If he's doing this, it's not going to stop there.  What he's doing is cheating, and it will eventually escalate to full blown adultery.  If they want a chance to fix this, and repair their marriage, they need to start now.  The child's parents should know what she's doing as well.
807636
If the guy was REALLY interested in your sister and ending his marriage, he would have done so already. \n\nMy advice to your sister is to find a SINGLE guy out there and forget about the married guy.  It will only make her happier in the end and she won't be sitting around waiting for something that won't ever come to fruition.\n\nBesides that, he cheated on his wife with her.  What is to say that he won't tire of your sister and cheat on her after they are married?  He is a loser and needs to be kicked to the curb.
949683
I was actually in this situation. I told my sister that I saw her husband kissing a girl in his work place. She called me a liar and didn't speak to me for a year. She called me to come and get her and her son. She was pregnant and he had run off to California with the same girl I saw him with. So if this person were to tell his sister, he needs to be prepared to take some punishment.
583663
Would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend had cheated on you?  I know I would want to know.  Friend's look out for each other.  Just make sure it's not just a "rumor" first... if it is a fact then yes, tell her.
85109
She's your SISTER.  the dud... lol, I mean the dude is just another n*gga... (crossing racial barriers here), the guy doesn't care if he offends his woman and doesn't care if he sleeps around with God knows how many chics on the side.  of course you should tell her.
976087
It all depends on what kind of person your sister is. If she's stubborn and uncaring, I'm afraid nothing you say will change her mind. But if she's a reasonable person, ask her what she will do when she's married and she finds out her husband is cheating on her. Ask her how sure she is that this man isn't just using her. And does she honestly think if she gets him to marry her one day, that he won't cheat on her too? Thats more than often the case any way. And maybe you know some or other man you can introduce her to? Someone attractive, nice and unmarried? Sometimes it's pure loniless that force people to have affairs with married people.
482558
Better tell  your dad now, he's going to find out and then he will be angry.  If you're going to stay with this guy better get it out in the open now.  After all, it's only skin deep.
70159
No, don't tell your friend. The cheating problem is between the dad and his wife. No, I don't think I would confront a parent either; they already know right from wrong and a child is not going to change their behavior.