I'm very shy by nature... but when I find out that a guy likes me, why do i start tofeel more shy around them?
954099
Usually being shy is an indicator of not being confident. When you find out someone is interested in you it naturally makes you feel as though they are observing you (no more hiding in the background). You have come to someones attention and they approve.....so far......now the pressure is on to not make any social mistakes so that they won't figure out you aren't who they thought you were.\n\nThat is my amateur psychology opinion anyway.
124678
I used to be just like that. but you dont really get over being shy, you jsut get better at being outgoing. the first thing i did was join a club that takes you all over the U.S., it's called FFA. I got a job and it was a waitress at a bar. so there are many opportunities there. just go up and talk to the guy, any guy, it's how i did it and now im still shoy to an extent, but hey, im get out there and i have fun while chatting up some hottie. so jsut break away and strike up a conversation with some random guy, like a guy from school, in the grocery store...anywhere...even in the mall. it works.
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
254166
Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.
992706
some guys that are shy are the best guys to date. personally i would love it for a shy guy to ask me out
479281
Guys are probally just as nervous as you are! \n\nSometimes certain girls can be shy, but also, as weird as it may sound, guys can be pretty shy too!\n\nI have a lot of guys friends, and they are pretty shy when I metion girls, dating, ect.\n\nDon't worry girl! You're doing just fine, and your Orlando Bloom will come really soon! :)
976395
im shy to around guys but maybe u should give it a try dressng diffrent an jus taking a chance just go 4 it and talk to some or 1 you have your eye on its not to bad once you try then you wont be scared afterwards
135133
shy guys are sexy...sometimes well if u had a gf it would be hard for u too talk to eachother or even go out so do not be shy
260500
I seem to be attracted to shy guys.
281448
It doesn't really sound like he likes you, but maybe he's just nervous or shy to tell anyone, including you! He will come around sooner or later!!! GoOd LuCk!!!
448209
It always freaks me out when guys do that, because I never know if they like me or not. I also don't know if I like HIM or not.\n\nCheck out his body language. Know if he's single/taken/whatever his situation. FLIRT BACK. That is key.\n\nSmile, be adorable and irresistible. If he doesn't make a move, maybe he's shy. And I love a shy guy. They're so cute. So in this case, take a shot. You never know, he most likely DOES like you back, and you could be missing out. Trust me, I know from experience. \n\nIf it doesn't work out, so what? take it easy. There will be others. and if it's awkward after that, just gradually start talking again.
1150761
if yr to shy you wont get the guys you like. the only way yr going to know if anything could or would happen is by talking to him
460371
thats because hes shy and hes scared of a rejection, make him feel confotable with u that way he will gain enough confidence to ask u out!!!
953070
Ok, if he is a more outgoing guy, chances are that he will try to get closer to you over a short period of time. He may start talking to you more and more (ect.). If he is shy, he will likely give you lots of glances, but may be too nervous to talk to you. The best way in either case would be to start talking to them. Hope this helped a bit and good luck.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
232500
Lighten up. He's afraid of getting caught looking at you, cuz he likes you too! If you get rejected, just shrug it off! If you feel too shy, try hangin round some people who are open about their feelings.\n\nIt sounds like he likes you.