Break-ups...stupid question, but I have to ask anyway?
959163
I think you need to just eat some cookie dough ice cream and have a good cry. \nThings will look better in the morning.
505578
My god!  That's a hard question.  I've broken up with people i've really liked.  Quite a few people i've really liked.  It's not gonna be easy, but you will feel better for it.  What you need to do is think about why you want to and find a good reason to do it.  Then tell him/her, and ask what they think.
521573
It's normal.. we all go through the same thing.. (I mean unless we had a flamin' bad break up that is!) Does the current bf know about this? ..and deal w/it? He sounds like a kool dude if so. It'd be hard, but could ya like change where ya R hangin' out, so ya 2 don't meet up? I kow it's rough if ya got the same friends, right? If ya have a bad breakup ONE of the good things about it is you got a TON of bad info. to use mentally to get over the bad dudes. I mean if he beat ya up, dissed ya, you gotta make that memory a WHOLE lot better.. (helps ya get over the hurt.) How long it been since ya broke up? It'll get better, I promise! If it's too new a hurt, I think it's kool ya got wit another guy already too.. later-     melancholia
140070
Say no. You just got dumped. You don't need to get involved\nwith someone right now. Your wounds need time to heal. And\ndon't even think about dating one of his friend. That will\ncreate a major disaster. wait awhile before you start dating again. Your soul need time to be free of old hurts \nand wounds. Recover time is now.
1010435
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone
601349
I was only with my guy for a year!! After we broke up i started hanging out with alot of my friends and guys!! This might sound bad but maybe you should look for a distraction!!!\nIt helped me
607064
Get over him.  Get out.  Good riddance.  There was a reason your broke up in the first place.  Remember that.
1130166
I usually like to put the blame on myself, it makes the break up go a little easier. Just be honest though but not blunt. If you listen to your heart it will tell you what you need to do. Good luck!!
612366
Why did you break-up?  Obviously, there was a reason it wasn't working out.  Did either of you cheat?  Or, did you break-up because you wanted to see other people (or because one of you wanted to see someone else)?  If it was cheatting, do you really think trust will be in the relationship, and suddenly faithful?  If someone wanted to see other people, do you think it won't happen again?  Some people always want something on the back burner.  (Well, if I break-up with her and things don't work out with so-n-so, I can always go back to her.)  Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me!!!
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
52558
Yep... kinda makes you wonder why you broke up with him???
1105913
It depends on why you broke up.  Did you break up with her or her with you?  Was there infidelity involved?\n\nUnfortunately I do not have enough info from your question to help you, other than the regular - Send flowers.... I made a mistake... Beg...etc
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!
64486
The main thing I would do is get my mind aff that subject. If you r always thinking about the break-up, then you will always be moping around. I recommend doing something physical like swimming or jogging etc. You could also paint or hang out with friends. Do you know someone who usually always makes you laugh? Hang out with that person. Try to be as happy as possible. Good luck!
462997
my ex and i always fought. and i'm not exactly the best guy. i tried my best though. but i realized that i dont make her as happy as i used to and that probably, others can. so i gave her up. i broke up with her, because i want someone who'll be good to her... someone better than me. (dont do this if you and your girl are really into each other)
549208
while breaking up with him wasn't the best thing to do, most of us whould have done the exact same thing.  Have a talk with him. Ask him if he's intrested in giving you a secind shot and explain why you broke up in the first place.  If he isn't all you wanted-he's out of your system and you might cry a little.  the decision is yours but i know what it's like to like someone that much.  give it a shot. who knows- maybe he was dumping them because they wern't like you.  Only he and his friends know. Carpe Diem. Seize the day and take a chance-sorry if this is corny. I'm watching a walk to remember
201006
To me if the break-up was that bad, you wouldn't even be this close to getting the option of getting back together. Anything is possible and in almost 2 years people change a lot. What's so wrong with getting to know who you are now? Don't think of it as getting back together. If you didn't have a past with him, would you still want to get to know this guy right now?