Have you ever built a relationship on what was supposed to be a one-night stand?
958927
Yup 8 years later with kids a house a dog and 10 fish. Wow that night just won't end. LOL I love him with all of my heart
445411
I don't know about you, but one day I prepare dinner for 2 at my place, pack it in a basket that I bought for pic-nick that has plates an utensils, choose a romantic setting to go to, in my case was a beautiful lake, pack a bottle of wine and took the girl there.\nShe had no idea what I was up to until the last minute and she was so impressed specially for all the work and detail I had spent putting it all together, my answer was it was all worth the trouble, because you make me feel this way, and that was the honest Truth.\nWell we had some great time together after that, I always came up with something different that came from my heart, unfortunately we had other issues that we could never work out and we no longer are together, but it was beautiful while it lasted.
143502
I had one of those long distance things and I stuck it threw and I'm still with her today. I think it all depends on where you want your heart to be in at the end of the night. It takes alot of trust and it can get very fustrating at times but in the end it's all worth it.
1186946
If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
259837
No way, what i have at home is TOO good to jeopardize. No Dude that i meet wherever could do the things my husband does for me. And one night stands are never really "all that" so why waste my time...
365643
I suppose a one night stand is ok as long as both people understand the situation.
1164811
were any of u drunk? did she give u a sign before that she has a thing for u? did u give her a sign before tht u have a thing for her? was she lonely at the party? maybe she got stood up and was angry? many guesses..
303568
When he was too drunk to pick me up at the airport after I'd been gone a week and had to call my daughter, who was at work, to go get me.\n\nI'd gone to visit my parents in part to take a week and think about the relationship and his drinking and whether this was a relationship that could be fixed.  He wasn't aware that this was the reason for the trip, he just figured I wanted to see my parents. I'd decided I was going to talk to him candidly about his drinking, which had gone from a couple nights a week, going out and having fun when we first started dating, to getting falling down, slobbering drunk in the bar with his friends every single night a mere year and a half later.  When he couldn't stay sober enough to come get me, though, I decided not to even bother having the conversation.  I just said "you've become a predictable disappointment and I don't ever want to see you again" (I had my daughter on standby because I was afraid I wouldn't be able to count on him to be there, but I hadn't told him that). That was the last time I ever saw him.  That was in October.  He has now met someone new and moved halfway across the country to be with her.  I guess if you're a drunk, it's a good idea to have someone in your life who can look after you.
766725
Did your friend bail because she wanted your company throughout the night, needed someone there?  Or because she wanted sex from you?  If it is the latter, I'd say.. find a new friend.
57769
Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
730635
never had a great one night stand i dont think that you can have great sex with someone you never plan on seeing again or want to see again
234064
One night stands with co-workers really don't work out. You both agree things won't be weird but they are then the roomers start flighing. My advise is don't. If you do keep it on the down low.
1092747
I have one for you.  I used to live in Columbus, Ohio, and I'd put an ad in a Single's Magazine.  There was one lady that replied that seemed relatively nice, so we agreed to meet at a restaurant one day.  When we met she was so nervous you could cut the tension with a knife.  I don't remember what we talked about or for how long we talked but after the date was over we never saw or heard from each other again.  She was relatively nice looking and had a pleasant personality, but no matter how hard I tried I could not get her to relax.  I  could honestly feel the tension so bad that I felt I was being pushed against a wall.  Definitely a very strange experience because I don't think I'd ever scared someone so bad in life as much as I think I scared this poor woman.  Oh well, I chaulked it up as one for experience.
480884
Given the circumstances, I'd say he was just wanted a quick peice.  If you've been friends that long then I'm sure hes pretty comfortable and confident around you so he saw you as a perfect candidate. He must've been a bit drunk or thought for some reason you would be cool with it(did you invite him to stay the night?) Guys can have a hard time reading signals unfortunatly. But chances are hes pretty embarassed about it now and regrets what hes done. I've seen the most honest guys cheat, just some guys cant control themselves in certain situations. I know I've felt the pressure before, sex is a big deal to alot of guys.
633789
Same partner, I have been married for almost 6 years. A partner can give you more pleasure since they know you and what you like. A one night stand leaves you frustrated. Especially the female.
672854
I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
636614
it seems to me she either didnt enjoy your company, or all she wanted was a one night stand, dont feel bad, just enjoy the fun you had with the betch and move on, you seem like a nice person with a good heart.  Some females can be so mean and like to break us guys hearts. But dont worry life goes on and youll meet the right person.