My guy has a girlfriend that has a baby for him. He doesn't have time for me yet he says he loves me.?
966842
Your guy has too many girlfriends.  Don't accept it - move on.  He has way too many things pulling his attention from you.  Love is a passive emotion - we all love lots of things and people.  If he can't walk the walk he needs to go, and please don't try to force him to do what you want through guilt or "but you said you loved me!!" hysterics.  He has a child and that should be his number one priority.
99083
You have a heart don't you? you will know. Secondly do you two get on good together is he understanding etc. And finally is he good with kids. You don't need to worry that he won't love you because of the extra You just have much more to give.
250691
I would stay clear of him for a looong time.  Clearly, he has some growing up to do.  You are WAY too young to be involved with someone like that.  And if he's not stepping up and being a man by supporting his baby, don't think twice that he wouldn't do the same to YOU.
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
419686
He might be a little nervous because of the baby and upcoming marriage.  I personally think he should stay with you, but if he feels he needs to go the states, don't marry him.  He is making a choice for a life that may or may not include you.
847784
Absolutely not. He has called off the engagement three times...honey, he doesn't love you. I'm sorry to be so harsh, but someone needs to tell you. If you have his baby, he will dump you and you will end up raising this child all alone and that is not fair to the child.
164943
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
382497
Be grateful that he isn't a deadbeat daddy for one thing! Talk to him about how you feel. I don't know the specifics about your relationship, but think about WHY you feel he is obligated to his baby's mother. Of course you should understand that he has a responsibility to his son.
544070
If he doesn't love your baby, he doesn't love you, no matter what he says.  If he says he loves you but refuses to love your child, he has a warped idea of what love is and you deserve better.  Get child support payments from him and force him to live up to his responsibility.
880094
I think that you should leave him and look for somebody who will love you in return  before you leave him tell him that he can see the baby anytime he wants.  Tell him you deserve to be loved and that you need somebody that you can trust not to hide anything if he really cares about you and the baby he'll try to work out things between the two of you.  If not then you might as well start looking for somebody else.
910511
sometimes it takes time for love to grow...  And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.  But show him you love him two men sometimes need that reassurance.  Best of luck..
1127496
Well, he keeps coming around because ur allowing him to, he sounds like he wants to have his cake& eat it too, I mean he's living someone who he has a child with and comes to u, tells u that he still loves and wants u.\n\nAnd I have a feeling u still want him ( even thought he has a family) with another woman.\n\nU ask if he could be in something that he can not get out of( WHAT?) he can't get out of being a father,\n\n\nOk think about this if u would\n\nUr the girl  he's living with u have a child with him, and whule ur home with the child and loving him thinking that things are good but he keeps going over to his ex telling her he stil loves her and wants to be with her and that he may have gotten into something he can't get out of.\n\n then he comes to u and tell u this( wouldn't u feel betrayed) that while u didn't know that the whole time u and ur baby was who he didn't want to be with and he rather be with his ex?\n\nIt would hurt wouldn't it? \n\nSee sometimes u have do think deep about things like tis, u have to sometimes put urself in the other persons shoes.\n\nDo u really want to be with a guy who's ready to leave his family? May be he will do the same toy u because he see something he looks at as better then he will leave u \n\nSo think about it  b 4 u make room for him to come back.
1073975
You should try to see things from the gfrends perspective as well she is carrying his child and this entails responsibility from him! Don't forget that he could've left her before she fell pregnant but chose not to! Ask him why and if he is so unhappy he still has a choice he can leave her and still support his child and be with you there will be harsh consequences to face but if he loves you the way he says he does then he'll fight all odds! Talk to him name his choices and if he still refuses to change his mind and follow the more difficult road then he is playing games with you and with his girlfriend!
570603
being at work doesn't mean he's really working on your relationship with you.\n\nIf he doesn't take time for you now, he won't later.  Drop him and let him come to you if that's what he really wants.  It sounds like he's looking for an excuse to leave the relationship.\n\nWhy waste your life while he tries to decide if he wants to spend time with you or not?
459147
yes im with one but it shouldnt matter whether hes got kids or not as long as he loves you and loves kids and doesnt put his own needs before your kids. good luck
1145615
Seems to me that he is your Monday to Friday boyfriend. On the weekend he has no time for you because he is probably hanging with is friends. Let this arshole run. Look for someone who knows how to treat a lady.
898495
He will only be a baby for a short  time. Show him as much love and affection as you can. Babies need that. You are the mother and that's what mothers are supposed to do.\nTell your boyfriend you will not hurt the baby in any way by being loving. Please don't listen to him, he don't know what he's talking about.