How do you get over a crush you have to see flirting with another girl, and ignoring you.?
966185
there are two possible scenarios... \n\n1. he might have liked you before... and may still have the same feeling for you now... but... it could be that he is just trying to see if you would get affected by him flirting with another girl... since most guys can't understand "girl moves", they have to resort to the "jealousy means she likes me" technique.\n\n2. he just wants you as a friend, or..... he may have used YOU to get another girl jealous... apparently i don't know anything about boy mentality...\n\nyou can either ignore him, or talk to him about it if you have the guts to.\n\nthis guy might like you but is just too shy to be the first to ask you out. \n\nor this guy is confused with what he wants. \n\nbut on the other side... he is just your crush... you guys haven't been on a relationship yet... so basically he can do whatever he wants... don't blame a guy if  he ignores you since there are a lot of other girls out there... i don't mean this to offend you... =)\nbe nice to him, be patient, be there for him when he is devastated, be his sunshine when his day is dark and sullen, eventually he will notice you. \ndon't do what the other girls nowadays do... heavily armored with make-up and skimpy clothing... they never get a guy's heart, only his eyes and balls.\n\nand if nothing happens. get over him. there are tons of other guys who deserve your attention. who knows, some guy out there might be feeling the same thing for you... ignored by YOU.\n\n=)
534982
find another crush..!
940925
yup, that sucks, wont be the last time.  best way to get past it is distract yourself.  go do something hard, you'll feel better about yourself.  after having accomplished it. remember, you are doing it for you, not for her.  try not to get to hooked on one girl.  approach each one realizing that if she rejects you, it will hurt, but its ( at my age) three bears and a good boxing match, then you move on.  no worries.
404039
find another girl dude!
917461
OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.
708672
maybe if you arent the shy type tell the girl that got made fun of that it wasnt you who made fun of her and that you told her that you told the other guy to shutup. trust me a girl likes the feeling that she is being protected like that. and for the other girl that you like like. i think you should tell her your real feelings for her.hope it helps
868405
Im'a guy... and had something similar once... It's possible this is the same situation... Well I had this gurl who always flirted with me... but i knew there would probably be a day my girl would come in or a friend come in and see her flirting with me... So i decided to act like i hated her flirting with me so if my girl ever came in and saw it she wouldn't flip out... But secretly I wanted to get down and dirty with this girl... and was kinda keeping her close incase me and my girl broke up.   so maybe he likes her ...
645937
Be nice to her....flirt with her too but don't over do it you might just chase her away. Goodluck.
905642
You have to tell her to stop flirting with you because it confuses you. Try to find someone else who you might be interested in. If you seem less interested in her she may become more interested in you. Good luck
900190
this has happened to me before also. if you didnt say anything, find some way to tell your friend that you did, if you did say something, be honest and let her know you are sorry for saying something about her. try to text, IM, email, or get someone else to talk to her in person. im not sure what to do about the crush you have on him, but if he flirts with everyone, than i would forget about him. he is probably a player. my suggestion is find someone else, and say the same to your friends.
887240
Oh that tough. Um.. try letting things just fall where they want. If that doesn't work try just keeping the friends you have and start thinking about an other girl because I really don't think this girl you like is going to go anywhere(sorry if that's harsh). Now I mayb wrong but it souds like you might like the girl you've known since you where five. Best of Luck!! :)
818587
oh wow... uh, get rid of the loser. stay friends with crush, and stay friends with best friends((best friends and long distance relationships don't work out that great))
121132
flirt with another guy in front of him and then look at his attitude towards that.\nthen you will know.
919559
It sounds like you have a crush on each other and neither one of you knows how to handle it. Be careful. The best way to forget him is to go on with your life. Find a new love interest but it will still take time. But best friends do sometimes make the best lovers and long lasting relationships. He might be picking on you because your friends and he doesn't know how to let you know he just might want more. If it doesn't work out you risk loosing the friendship.
490061
Talk to her about it. Tell her that it is coming between the you and her. Tell her you feel that when she flirts with other boys, it is like betraying you. Tell her how much she means to you and ask her why she does it. Does she feel like their is something lacking in the relationship? Work on it.\n\nSometimes, girls are just like that. There's nothing you can do if talking to her doesn't work. If she knows your feelings about her flirting with other guys, and she doesn't try and change for you, maybe you should consider splitting up with her. Find a girl that wants to give all her romantic attention to you and only you. You can't change her. Only she can do that.
270469
Find out if he likes you or find out who is his crush. If you find out that crush he has on, then you should make sure that you crush that other girl.
652797
i'm sorry, i have to ask, how do you LOOK at someone in a stalking way? Just tell her she's bothering you! If she keeps on ignore her, i mean like she doesn't exsist, after a while she'll get tired of you...