Would you leave girlfriend/boyfriend if your parents disapprove your relationship?
968334
No, becuz when you have your relationship, they dont have anything to do with that.  You are happy with that person, this person loves you...they may even be your soulmate, you never let something great go, becuz of what your mother or father says.  \n\nYou live your life for you and no one else.  If you listen to what your parents say your whole entire life, you will never be happy.
880038
TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT YOU LOVE THEM VERY MUCH AND WILL NEVER GO AGAINST THEIR WISH AND ALSO TELL THEM YOU LOVE YOU BF VERY MUCH AND CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM....YOU WILL NOT MARRY ANYONE ELSE ,,,AND YOU WILL STAY UNMARRIED IF YOU HAVE TO FOR YOUR PARENTS.....TRY THIS IN THE END YOUR WISH WILL BE GRANTED..BEST OF LUCK...
269553
depends on your parents and your relationship with them
551681
i'm 18 and my parents are STILL the ones controlling my life. i used to think the way you do. but now i'm slowly realizing that parents know best. they're only acting the way they do coz they love us and they want to protect us.  when i was 17, my parents found out that i had a boyfriend and they asked me to break up with him. although i didn't want to, i broke up with the guy and followed my parents' advice. i was sooo depressed. then one day, i heard news that my friend got pregnant. and then a month after that another friend of mine got pregnant and what's worse, she was left by her boyfriend. so i thought, it could have happened to me. (although i know that it could NEVER happen to me coz i think im responsible enough. hehe..) but you know how much we teeenagers fall in love. we're a crazy bunch..\n\nyour mom is not controlling you. she's just 'dominating' you in a way coz she wants the best for you. i suggest you show her that you're doing good in school, that you're obeying them, and that you're doing your resposibilities well to prove to them that you're a grown up now. the next time you two disagree, better discuss things between the two of you. and remember, be polite as possible whenever you're presenting some suggestions. she's your mom after all.\n\ntrust me, everything's gonna be fine. i'm just a teenager like you..who thinks i can do it on my own..but still goes back to "mommy!!!" when something's wrong. hehe.. :)
911626
Yeah they are right..... You should really talk to your parents first or if you feel uncomfortable talk to your siblings and friends at least you would be considering their feelings....... But do you really love your boyfriend that much? Are you really sure that you two are going to live happily ever after like in the fairy tales? DO NOT ruin your life... Guys come and go but families are forever.
891365
This sounds sooooooo familiar.  My parents did not like my boyfriend for a very long time, but the longer we were together, the more they realized how much we cared for each other.  Now we are engaged and my parents are ecstatic.  Just think to yourself....................who's in love with him, me or my parents? when your in love, you shouldn't care what other people think, but since its your parents, i know its hard.  Just follow your heart!!\n\nGood luck and God bless!
274523
love trumps the parents ! its necessary for her to love you not her parents,  sure it would be nice ... but its not always possible !,  marry her treat her well, treat the parents with respect, and they may come around one day , especially when you have children, if not ,  they  might miss out on  spending as much time with their grandchildren as they would like...you don't have to live near them, or see them very often  if they never come around...its not an ideal relationship   if they never  like you , but would you be happier with her  or without her ??? also  you could try to find out why they don't like you thru your girlfriend and try to resolve the   problem / reasons, best wishes ! PS  don't  let them ruin your  love and your life !
7360
Depends on the circumstances. I am not relationship pro but thre are certainly instances where there is not other logical choice. Not supporting them, however, is not cool....
976335
I wish my parents would let me have a boyfriend. Im almost 15 and they wont let me. It's not like i'd be stupid and have sex with him or anything like that. I've already had a "boyfriend" but we could never go anywhere because I had to keep it a secret from my parents or they'd practically shoot me. Ughh, this bugs me so much. >:(
801338
I don't really think you have to tell them who you like if you're not comfortable with it. Your parents might like the insight into your life and feel that you are more mature if you do tell them, (especially your mom) but it's really not necessary. Definitely tell them if you get a boyfriend though. Trust me, parents don't appreciate not knowing who their daughter is going out with.
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
474377
OK!! First things first!! God loves you - even though you had sex with your boyfriend. Secondly - it was wrong of your parents to tell you you would go to hell if you did - wrong!! That is just their way of trying to prevent you from having sex with you bf!! You should try reading some of the great promises God gives us in the bible - that will encourage you. Dont always just listen to your parents - check it out with the lord - prayer always works for me!!
151545
Sounds a lot like my parents. I have shown in every way that I am a good girl, I get good grades, I fulfill my family responsibility, I stay out of trouble, and etc. And yet, they still are strict. Of course, this is unfair b/c I believe with my record, trust should be easily given. I talked to them about what I wanted (a boyfriend) and why I deserve it WHILE presenting the reasons why they should, how good of a person I am, and how happy it will make me if they let me, and how sad and upset I will be if they didn't. If they still say no to whatever they are strict with, ask them why. Ask for an explanation, why they do not trsut you, or why they shouldn't let you experience something that may be valuable to your life. \nWe're in America, we need a little more freedom.\n\nGood luck
762512
Your parents have legal control until you go to court and become legally immancipated.  A court may not allow it, because you are not self-supporting and are not legally married to your boyfriend.  \n\nEither he steps up to be a man and marries you, you get a job and support that baby.... or you go home to your parents.\n\nYou need to consider all of the ramifications if your boyfriend dumps you, Honey.  It happens all the time!\n\nBest Wishes,\nSue
220313
to begin with honey, he doesn't love you. if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet, i'm sure your parents have a good reason. they are just trying to protect you from having to make decisions you're not quite ready to make. if you've seen me on here you know i'm gonna tell you to take this time to learn and to grow without complicating things. learn about yourself. learn about others. and as you're ready, learn about life. you've got a lifetime ahead of you. don't rush into things. :)
439689
Well after you get married what are they going ot do, refuse to like him still? Do what you wan't and marry who you love. This might be more of a case where you should look at your relationship with your folks and why would they not wan't you to marry the one you love.
1111618
First of all, your age matters. I didn't see your age, but assuming that you are of age, 19 +, you just have to set the record straight.\nI married my sweetheart when I was 20, and we have had our problems, but we have never once regretted what we did. We love each other, and now our parents accept it.\nOf course, when we first got together, our parents were the same. We ended up having a huge fallout, and we both told our parents that with or without their blessings, we were going to have our own successes and failures, and we would like their support, but that is all. If we fail, be there, if we succeed, please congratulate us. Most of all be happy, if you can't we don't need you running our lives, as when we were younger. Thank them for their love and concern, but they must allow you, as they did, fail or succeed on your own.\nAll is well now, we all get along well, it just takes time for the relationship, on all levels, to mature. Of course, proving that you are capable to take care of yourself also requires you standing on your own, and not going running to Mommy and Daddy for a handout. It's a two edged sword, but it's worth it. Growing up sucks, but we all have to do it, physically. Some of us mentally grow up, others never do, you just have to figure out which one you are going to do, you can't have it both ways!\nGood luck!