really odd guy!!! help!?
958812
The clingers are the hardest. You don't have to break it to him gently. Just to be safe, have a good friend with you in sort of a public place and just tell him that you want to break the relationship with him. Let him know that he a great person but he is just not your type. Say you are sorry if he is hurt. Then get up with your friend and politely say good bye and leave. If you have any more problems with him get a restraining order on him and make sure you are always with a trusted friend for a while. Be safe ,think safe, you just never know. Someone who  desperately clings like that -well you just never know what might happen. Next time feel a guy out a little more before a relationship goes too far and you won't get into this situation again. o.k.
1140183
He is Up 2 No Good!!!!!!!! This is called DANGER!!!!!!!!! No Girl Will Have A Guy That Does That Type Of Flirting, Keep Fishing There is More Out There Besides That Jerk!!!!!!
851164
JUST IGNORE HIM \nHE SOUNDS A BIT WEIRD
665700
Oooo... that's very mysterious! I think a guy would like having a secret admirer. I say go for it!
1079019
What the heck? It's definetely odd. Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with it I guess.. lol
320555
You sound absolutely divine to me.  If you were straight, I'd chase you down like the meat-free hottie you are.  You are not eccentric.  Listen, I know several gay men with values similar to yours.  My advice?  Move to a university town with a diverse, cosmopolitan community of people.  Take salsa classes.  Join a animal rights group.  Attend a Unitarian Universalist church.  You will find men like yourself, I promise.  Just be firm in your beliefs, never compromise yourself, and trust that the right man will enter your life.  Believe me: He is out there and he probably feels just as isolated as you do.  Good luck.
550628
he is just weird!!!!!!!!\nhe just is short an scary
824236
The best thing to do is not rush anything.  That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation.  Don't smother or be clingy.  Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat.  It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later.  Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal.  Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!"  Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
35853
There's a good chance you might be able to keep him as your weird boyfriend and still leave room for another boyfriend.  You should ask him.  You know if he's weird, he might go for it.
942645
has  he gone insane????\n\nHe definately needs a counsellor.......................\nWhat about he flirting along with another guy ot flirting that guy???
967
I guess a bunch of guy are into you! Same thing has happened to me too! And ya it's probably normal! Have fun!
20266
Well did you boink the guy or what? I mean I need more details how can I live vicariously through others if your not more specific.\n\nI believe thats suffienct time. Your going to have to put out if you expect to keep some of the obviously rare online guys out their lol.\n\nHope this helps! If it doesn't work out their is also icecream remember that.
526302
Weird way to ask a question dude!!!!
980374
Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
332911
Advice on a guy . . help . . .
596418
I would ask a  question..\n WHY does he have a maneqquin head in his room (or own one at all)???\n if it really does look like you, and that's his answer...offer to give him a picture of you\n That is a VERY strange thing to find in a guy's room.. or anywhere really..I don't know what I'd do... I think if I REALLY liked this guy, I'd find out why he has it... And if the answer was still a bit strange (which most likely will be unless he's an aspiring hair stylist),I would first let him know it makes you a bit uncomftorable.. And pay attention and see if he has any other "fetishes" or whatever that may make you rethink this relationship.
482067
Wow that's weird... Maybe he's a wimp and wont tell you his real feelings and you're not taking the hint.\nBut I think you should sit down with him and tell him that's crazy, and ask for the truth..