Why do i think about  my ex girlfriend and also why her name pops in a conversation with another girlfriend?
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.
154722
It will depend on how open you are with your new girlfriend.  Keeping secrets about your relationship with your ex can make things tight when your new girlfriend finds out.  Be up front and honest with her, and openly tell her when you two spend time together and what you do together so that she isn't questioning in her mind what you two are up to {it's only human to do so, even if you trust the person} and it shouldn't be a problem.  Honesty is the best policy, and if she can't handle that, then I would look for another girl, or examine your friendship with your ex to make sure it is a healthy one, and one you should keep in the context it's at.  Good Luck! :)
177914
Probably she got really hurt when you dumped her (girls are quite sensitive).  She's still asking about you because she still can't forget you and perhaps the feeling is still there though she realized now that her ex-bf is much better than you.
284789
i think about my girlfriend
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
937389
Depends.  If you're putting all your energy into thinking about your ex, it doesn't necessarily mean they were right for you - it just means you are obsessed with thinking about them.  Find a hobby or do something to occupy more of your time - and when you start thinking about them - immediately work on changing your thoughts to something else.  Time to move on.
450200
It is not un common for a guy to flirt with an ex girlfriend of his. If he has treated you badly and is still being a real gerk that my answer to your question would be to move on and find someone new although it might hurt and you will probably still think about him occasionally, it will all work out for the best. If you want to talk more you can email me at adorablegrl1986@yahoo.com                                                       Sincerely                                                                adorablegrl1986
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It's a situation of comfort versus the unknown.  If you date someone new, there's no familiarity.  With an ex, you have a certain comfort zone.  Also... our minds are hardwired to mute the bad memories and bolster the good ones.  It's a psychological coping mechanism.  So a person remembering their ex will remember the good times and, especially if it has been a while, often ask themselves why they broke up in the first place.  After thinking about it for a short time, though, that same person will remember the REASONS for the breakup.  But... it's a lot harder if they broke up with you, easier if you broke up with them.
439872
Sounds like one of my ex girlfriends.\n\nYoinks!
746275
okay so you say you used to be obsessed with her so i'm assuming you did go out there and get over her, or try anyway. \none of my mates had this exact same problem and alot of it just came down to the fact that he was insecure about himself and lacked confidence and self esteem big time.\nhe also felt alienated by people around him so the best thing to do is talk about it. find someone that cares about you enough and talk till your blue in the face. - i listened to him for hours for a very long time, then i realised that i wasnt nodding off in convos cos he was coming out of his shell\nthis may take some time but as long as your getting out there with people you like to be around and talking to your mates about how your feeling - girl mates are best for this you will eventually move on. my mate - he doesnt even think about her anymore. and he is alot more confident too.\nh did try to date other girls initially but they were either too similar to the girl or completely unsuited to him i think he just wanted someone who wouldnt dump him and be there for him. and nows hes with the perfect girl for him.\n\ndon't hate yourself or kick yourself for lost opportunities. everything does happen for a reason and if it wasnt your lucky day that time it will be sooner or later. and if you did get to talk to the goirl your obsessed about properly (assuming you havent) you'd realise that you'd just set your ideal women criteria in your head and put her face to it and in reality she probably dont even match up.\nseriously. its not wasting your time over.
418889
Sometimes, its hard to get over an ex.  It sounds to me like you jumped into a relationship with your new boyfriend quickly after the breakup of you and your ex.  Thats not really a good thing, as you need time to come to terms with your feelings and to get over your ex.  \n\nI think you need to consider your feelings for your current boyfriend.  Do you really like him?  Do you really want to be with him?  If so, you are going to have to let your ex go.  There's only so many times he can be called another guys name without freaking out!  If you find you still have overwhelming feelings for your ex, maybe you need to put this relationship on hold while you sort your feelings out.  You can't be with someone and still hold a torch for someone else.  Its not fair to them and its not fair to you.
1144511
Ask yourself why your ex is your ex and are either girl really worth the effort..
667843
better question is "what are you thinking, hanging out with a PSYCHO EX GIRLFRIEND."\n\nYou've done the hard part by dumping her  - now move on.
71099
Well, 2 ways. Im sure shes not the 1st girl in your life. So you've being with other girls as well. So just think of that. It makes you even.\n\nThe other one is that, her past life is her past life. You can't judge her or be angry at her for anything she did Before u. Know if it makes u uncomftearble just flat out tell her.\n\n" Baby, please don't talk about any of your ex's, it makes me sick to my stomach to think or imagine you with another man that isn't me" \n\nThat usually works.
448335
NO! If my bf would think about his ex I would have to break up with him. When your in a relationship you have to give you love and care and respect to that other person. Otherwise you might as well break up with her and get back with your ex. That is if you care about this new girl and you don't want to hurt her.
152026
hi. i believe with all my heart that any time you love someone you never get over that person. you have given to that one part of you so you will miss that part of you yet do not worry, as time goes you shall find another that will light up your heart and spirit. the one who will cause past boyfriends/girlfriends to fade a little into the background.\nyour ex will no longer take up most of your thoughts. someone told me this once, it takes only a minute to meet someone,hours to get to know someone and a lifetime to forget someone. time does heal what has been wounded.new love outshines old love.soon when you think of him, you will smile at the good times and move on to the next advanture. be blessed. i am glenna(wolfwomanreturns)
283073
No you shouldnt.  Thats just being ugly to her.  If you want her back you'll never get her like that because she will feel like you dont love her anymore and you are over her.  And besides you will just be using the other girl to make your ex jealous! Thats just horrible how ever you put it.  So dont do it.