how do i know if i am a lesbian?
965562
Ah, the jealousy of protecting him for you is greater than the opportunity for her to touch you.  Definitely--you are not a lesbian.
678264
I am a lesbian. I date girls that look like me and the ones that you are describing. I see that you are naive so I will make this as easy as possible for you to understand....no matter what she looks like she still acts like a girl. Even if she walks and talks like a guy once you get in a relationship all the womanly traits come out such as sensitivity..prime example. Lesbians aren't lesbians just because they like the look of other girls. It's more of a connection thing.
894352
Well you should try to get to know her if you don't know her well already and gain her trust and then tell her about how you feel but make up some person and tell her your feeling about her. Then see what she says if she tells you your crazy then she ain't no lesbian and of she starts talking about a partner then you know she is taken. \nGood Luck!
560228
How would I know ????\n\nI am not a GIRL !!!!
1169469
Sounds like she's lesbian, not bi and you're the last to know.
676686
im straight, because i like women
1121956
Best term to identify a Lesbian with is their name! Why should there sexuality define them?
699343
You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
96791
You think you are, but you could be curious about trying things and you believe your bestfriend is the closest person and female, to try this on. Take time to think about it, tell her that your having these feelings (about being a lesbian).
279452
When you are in a relationship with another woman.  You can't be a lesbian before you make the choice to be with a woman.  If you have not been with a woman, you cannot know, the choice is yours do you want to spend your life in conventional relationships with men or would you rather spend your time with women?
1144989
Go out with me and before the night is through I guarantee you will not want to be a lesbian.\nBut really why worry about it ?? Try some guys try some girls and see which you prefer . You might like both . Either way it is OK . I have a few friends who do it all and they are still my friends . I don't judge!!!! If you are young then this is real hard. If you are older say in college it is still hard but not as much or  in the same way. Good luck to you in finding yourself. I am straight so maybe I shouldn't be answering this question but I do know some gay men and women so I am not completely oblivious to the question.
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What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
1172257
Lesbian means the female who loves & do sex with another female.\nI don't known how they enjoy sex but U can see the lesbian sites
585794
OK SO YOU R NOT A LESBIAN RIGHT?\nWELL WHEN A GIRL LOOKS AT YOU TELL THEM YOU ARE NOT GAY AND DO NOT LIKE THEIR STARES.
364943
no.  You shouldn't "become" gay or lesbian- you should already be and definitely know it if you are.  A natural desire should push you one way or the other.  Don't fight nature- she's stronger than you.
302959
It really depends. You could just be curious, or excited to try something new. But it also could mean that you are bisexual. Why don't you talk to your friend about it? If she is bisexual or lesbian, she will be able to help you through it.
113990
how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean