why would she choose me?
952230
Everyone likes to feel needed and wanted. think of how bitter life would be if we didn't have someone that cared about us.It shouldn't bother you, it should flatter you.It sounds like this person has a high level of respect for you and really cares about what you think. She probably chooses to call you because whatever relationship you had , had an impact on her life. Sometimes long distances from acquaintances will cause you to reminisce. You start thinking about the good times you had and that old flame, doused it may be, will start to re-kindle a little and those old feelings show up again.If I were you, I would be happy that I had a friend that cared as much and thought of me as an important person in their life. I hope all goes well. Good Luck.
254638
There are many explanations why someone asks too many questions. The one above was great, and supports your interpretation of the scenario. Another possibility is that the person is trying to indicate that they are very interested in you and wants to "figure you out."
738795
Why not we all have needs....if she is willing why not go for it_
379655
she doesnt knowwhat she wants
818397
Because your parents chose it
839896
She is more than likely madly in love with you and called you stupid because you cannot see the light.She wants more and figured that is she backed away a bit,that you would come running to her.She came back a second time because she felt that she could not live without you and saw that things had not changed so she hit the road again.This explains why she wanted to know if you have someone else.\n\nShe could also be pregnant and does not know how to tell you
644664
Perhaps the first initial thought of having a relationship with you didn't appeal to her because she had never given it much thought before.  But now that you've brought the idea to her attention, she's given it more thought and maybe she's decided that you're a great guy and she'd like to give it a chance.  Sounds to me like she's definately interested.
570216
She can't be asking you to choose for no reason at all. Either she fears for your safety with this guy or there's something wrong with her mentally. Not trying to be funny, but parents just don't refuse their children be happy unless they have mental issues. You should sit down and talk to her to find out why and make your decision from there.
639600
I'd take it as a compliment.  It's only creepy if she goes after you.  I'm sure she didn't consciously pick this woman because of her similarity to you.  The fact that she is interested in someone like you should just show you how much she thinks of you.  My best friend married someone who's personality is just like mine and they've been together for 13 years. The only difference between your situation and mine is that my friend's husband is different from me in one way, and that's gender.Don't look too much into it...just be happy for her and hope things work out!
96924
You're playing with fire.\nBetter make a choice soon,before one or both find out(I can't believe either one of them would know and accept this situation as it is now)and make a decision for you.
1150786
It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
406847
i have been in this position exept i was one of the girls he had to choose me and him stayed best close friends and he stayed with her so choose who is more ready for the future
767861
First, does it seem like something she would consider?  If so, then go for it man.... otherwise you'll just be wondering what could have happened, and maybe be hurt if she finds someone else.
952288
That guy is TOTALLY a rebound and after seeing what else is out there, she probably wants you back. Only small caution I'd say is that she could be using you as a "back up" because she wants to have you as an option just in case. \n\nMost likely, she just wants you back though and realizes that you are what she wants.
1151200
I think its her choice even if it isnt a good one. As long as you dont make the same one.(i dont think you will though)
407124
why do you want her picture?
1161610
their thinking why did i fuk it up with her