Is it okay for your boyfriend to look at another girl?
963691
i suppose its okay, i mean he obviously doesnt feel like he has anything to hide so he probably hasnt done anything wrong...\nhmm, just think of it this way -- how else is he gunna compare you to the competion and believe me theres a reason hes going out with you and not one of those other girls, and at the end of the day hes always gunna be ur man.
472281
Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
370148
Yes it is wrong, cheating or adultry begins in the heart and the eyes are the door to the heart. Even if she is not upset, he shouldnt be looking.
649557
Look, if it hurts your feelings then it's disrespectful.  Guys can look all they like but they can do it DISCREETLY and be damn sure we don't catch them.  And they should NEVER comment on another girl's hotness.  It's not nice.  It's rather rude.  Let him know it bothers you and that if he cares that it bothers you he needs to cool it.  If he doesn't care that it bothers you then YOU will begin to lose your ability to trust that this relationship is very meaningful.  No girl needs to be with any guy who is rude to the point of hurting her feelings.  Remember:  No boy is worth crying over and the one who is won't make you cry.
898222
you need to tell him how you feel. if he still does it and sees no problem with it, then break up with him. he's obviously not into you if he can't stop talking about other girls...especially right in front of you! and above all- don't pretend like it's ok with you when he does that!!! maybe that's why he still does it- you're not letting him know that it bothers you...
1123270
No.  But you shouldn't kiss other girls unless your boyfriend can watch.
972635
you can expect her to try to control your reloationship with your boyfriend. watch out she may be jealous
837782
You didn't state your age, but...\n\nSince your boyfriend has a girlfriend (you), he has been "tested and proven."  Meaning he has something going on and is dateable.  Plus, people often seem to want what they can't have.  If he hasn't shown signs of being unfaithful, then best to not worry too much about it.  It will only keep burning at you inside until you become angry and resentful.  Then your boyfriend might start taking a more serious look at these other girls.
992587
you can look but dont touch,.. put urself in his/hers shoes,. would you like to see ur partner checking out someone else or hitting on them,..
1045046
Man... So many people are looking at what he did the wrong way.  Look at it like this, if your boyfriend liked some girl better than he did you, would you want him to keep wasting your time?  Of course not.  If you think he really likes you and doesn't just want to go out with you for some shallow reason like you're hotter, then go out with him.  You just have to make sure that you make him like you for something deeper than looks cause that way he won't just leave you for the next hot girl.
429539
It is not only okay, it is completely natural. If he isn't doing anything other than looking, it doesn't matter.  If it bothers you, you should really ask yourself why.  Don't you ever look at other guys?
1066282
I think it is just fine.  As long as you aren't in a committed relationship with either of them you can date as many as you like.  That is how you decide WHO if either of them you want to have as a boyfriend.
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
247137
ask your boyfriend if it's okay if you innocently date someone while he is away. let him know that it is nothing serious and that if he doesn't approve then you won't do it. most people especially men would understand this and as long as you aren't banging the high schooler (which is illegal unless he flunked a few times) you should be okay. as long as your open and honest with both the men that your involved with it's perfectly possible to maintain a healthy relationship with both of them.
572430
Honey, he's yours and unless he is gay he's going to look and that's okay because as I said he's yours. The thing is, maybe he thought he knew her. Maybe he wasn't even looking at her but passed her. Maybe you should ask him :)
852768
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
1145707
Hey girl- My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 9 months. We go to the same college so we are together 9 months out of the year. during the summer, though, I am in another state and he stays there. I really think that the only reason we as girls would think that we have feelings for someone else is that we get the attention from this guy- the attention we usually get from our boyfriend when we are together. Don't let your mind and emotions take over. Stay true to your man- your love, if you believe that it is strong enough, will stand through even the hardest times... God bless!!