My wife says she is not satisfied with our sex life and the next day she says that I do satisfy her.?
964063
My wife says the same thing sometimes. How do I handle it? I take her to a nice club and get her a little tipsy then I take  her home and wake the  neighbors. This works everytime. ( Understand what I  mean by waking the neighbors?)
629259
Is your wife under more stress than normal? As far as not knowing what your wife wants, ask her. I'm sure she'd be happy to let you know.
154557
what do you mean by "you are not satisfied"? If you have doubts about getting married , then postpone it and talk with your girl. If you are having concerns whether your fiancee is the right woman for you i would say thats a major issue and you definitively discover which are your feelings and what makes you really happy. Good luck
493976
Out of the blue, she accuses YOU of cheating.  She buys new sexy lingerie, but doesn't model them for you.  She gets much more demanding (or much less demanding) in bed.
1089103
it sounds like you've forgiven her for the affair (so drop it - i'm sure years from now it will come out if need be), but she hasn't forgiven herself.  perhaps you should tell you forgive and want a happy marriage and want to have sex like you used to.\n\ntell her you're willing to do whatever it takes to have a happy marriage again because you love her so.
9357
by her doing that says a ton of stuff about her.\nshe has a low self-esteem and enjoys the attention of any man who gives it. because of this SHE WILL CHEAT ON YOU! maybe not now, or soon, but one day she will cheat.\nunless she becomes comfortable with herself, you will never be able to do enough for her, that she will not seek "satisfaction" from another.\nunless you want an open sexuall relationship with her, get out now. the longer you wait the harder it will be.\nTHIS IS A BIG DEAL! don't let her bat her eyelashes and convince you its not.
25321
just make sure you listen to what she has to say 100% of the time... relationships are not all about sex... I have sex with my wife three times a week and she always has an orgasm... my motto is "ladies first" she has to cum first before I do... so even if we don't have sex very often, we make it very special...\n\nalso... there are forces from up above that count women's tears... so be careful
331582
hey man listen she is your wife treat her like it give her respect and treat her like you would be liked to treated give her some privacy if she didnt like you she wouldnt marry you so believe in her and give her some space!
18739
If you wife ticks you off, and you don't know how to tell her, I (as a wife) would do the following.\n\n1st calm down.  Then later ...the same day...  calmy let her know that what she said, did, implied was hurtful, harmful, inconsiderate.\n\nBe polite as possible and try to not make it about what she did, said, etc, but how it made you feel.  \n\nBe honest and polite, and loving.
247443
well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
594156
16 years and NOW it's causing problems?\n\nIs she wanting it less frequently because you want it so much? She is just sick and tired or the incessant demands?\n\nYou both sit down and discuss this.\n\nLet her know that you enjoy the carnal aspect of your marriage and realize that she is uncomfortable with three or four times a day (Don't you have a job?)\n\nSee is she would be amenable to four time a month.\n\nMarriage is give and take. See what you can work out that makes both of you happy,
991908
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
837672
She is displaying signs of mental and emotional imbalance.  I would avoid this situation completely.  Be smart.  Don't let libido override reason, or a few weeks from now you might have a rabbit boiling on your stove.
131091
Maybe she lays there like a 'dead pig' because it's like being ****ed by a 'wild hog'. I'm sure if there were passion involved she'd be responsive. I'd advise her to find a 'real man' and video it, to show you how it's done.!! Then DIVORCE your obnoxious ***.!!!
1159093
Sounds like she is very insecure and doesn't trust you.  Maybe she isn't really ready to settle down and she is using the past as an excuse.  I would suggest some premarital counseling for the two of you.
659064
Yes they can do that....you want the truth....stop having sex until you are married....then she won't have to be checked for something she has no business doing right now.  The two of you need to build a strong relationship (without sex) if that can last.....hey, you may have a good future together.  But, for now, yes...there are ways to know if a person is sexually active.
597189
Well, it happens sometimes. What works for me is to focus on pleasing her and not to get too crazy with it.  Focus on her rhythm and breathing, and slow the heck down. The more you try to please her the longer you will last and then when she has gone a few times before you then you will find a whole new era for you in the bedroom. She will be quite the satisfied woman.