Problems with my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend...............Help me please?
971256
GIRL TELL HIM SEE U LATER U MAY NOT WANT TO BECAUSE U DONT WANT HER TO HAVE HIM BUT SO WHAT LEAVE THAT ALONE IF HE KISS HER BACK ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT ELSE THEY COULD BE DOING AND THEN IT WAS HIS EX SO THEY MUST HAVE SOMETHING STILL GOING ON AND BEING THAT SHE KNEW ABOUT U, U DID THE RIGHT THING TO BUST THAT A$$ . BUT SWEETIE  U COULD HAVE ANOTHER HIM BY TOMORROW DONT LET HIM BELIEVE HIS IRRAPLACEABLE LIKE MY GIRL BEYONCE SAY AND HE PROBALLY LAUGH CAUSE HE WAS SO EMBRAS AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY BUT IT SHOULD HAVE HAPPEN TELL HIM IT A RAP BUT WAIT TELL AFTER CHRISTMAS TO GET UR GIFT (LOL)
702284
She is playing the "boyfriend" of hers for a fool. I mean, she is, really. I think that, once this all blows up in her face, she may want to run and cry next to you about everything. This is what I think you should do.\nI think you should ask her what her problem is. Then, if she wants to date both of them, then she will be the one who will break up with him-with no help. This is her mess and she will be the one who will get out of it. Do not do anymore with this mess she is getting herself into. If that boyfriend ask you about what is going on, just tell him that he needs to talk to her, not you, because you are out of this.
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.
303762
Leave your ex alone. He is your ex for a reason, girl. You guys broke up for a reason (hopefully a legitimate one) so you need to leave it that way. You need to give your full attention to your current boyfriend. You chose him for a reason and you need to get to know him and build your relationship. Get your ex out of your head!
805628
Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.
800922
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
342246
forget snooching32 advice!! you think, if you were in a twelve year relationship, would you be able to stop contact with that person completely,? NO DIDNT THINK SO, my girlfriend was with someone for 7 years, and they still have contact, i dont like it and i feel insecure and sometimes inferior to her ex, but like me, you will have to learn to deal with the ex being on the scene for some time, but eventually, this person will start giving you the attention and the ex will fade away into the background.\n\nthis person has been honest with you and told you his ex was there, and that nothing happened, the two of you hve a special thing, you can communicate, you talk a lot everyday, that is hard to find, dont throw that away, tell your friend how you feel, go round, take a bottle of wine with you and sit and talk it out, see the outcome, you will find a lot more out about each other and its the only way to find out how he really feels for you\n\nyou might be pleasantly surprised. but you will never know otherwise!\nthere are a lot of negative people on here, dont listen to them
506537
It sounds like he has another girl. If he is your EX-Boyfriend, I wouldn't even waste my time with him. There are lots of other guys out there, who would treat you right. If you really can't live without him, then when you see him, ask him in all honesty what is going on. Tell him to be up front & honest with you, you deserve it. Long distance realtionships are very hard. But all in all I would dump him, & take a break from guys. The right one will come along, just give it time.
823186
Wait until she and him break up. Trust me it will happen. If you try to break them up he will think you are a bitch and you will never get him.
974022
He probably didn't want the akwardness of the situation....plus if he is your EX why would you stop to talk to him while you have your boyfriend with you, and he has his FIANCEE with him?  Its understandable if you guys still keep in touch but there is no need to cause drama with someone he is willing to Marry and possibly start a family with.  My advice would be to forget about him and move on, Im sure thats what your boyfriend and your Ex's Fiancee would like as well!  And if you see him again just smile and keep walking!
285139
If your boyfriend believes her over you, you should be happy to get rid of him!! For real send her a thank you card if she gets him to break up with you, just say it wasnt worth fighting for you could of just asked nicely and i would of handed him over along with his shot record from the dog shelter and his favorite collar.... if he picks her over you he wasnt worth it!
973345
No way this is normal. You need to put a stop to this-pronto!   There is a reason she is the "ex" so you have every right to remind him of this. He should be over her by now and have made the commitment of being with you. He's married to you now so he hasn't any reason discussing anything with her or being under her control. With exception of talking about the kid anything else concerning the two of you is is none of her business. He's out of whack for communicating with her like this. Time for a reality adjustment. So get up close in his face and tell him in no uncertain terms to shut that big mouth of his. What a lot of nerve. If you're wondering about what I think I think it sucks big time and is callous and disrespectful toward you. That shrew of an ex needs to be put in her place also. Who cares if she went "nuts". She's nuts if she thinks she had any say about the two of you being married! Who the hell is she anyway? Tell her to butt out of your lives. Share a relationship with the ex? God no!! So put your foot down unless you're considering becoming another ex.
919020
what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
1121263
An ex girlfriend or another girlfriend? If it's another girlfriend you are two-timing player and it's no small issue. She needs to kick your ass to the curb.
614659
I honestly you and you're ex should sit down and talk about it.  I mean, obviously you have a past and if you are both reasonable people you should be able to come to some sort of cconclusion.  You're kids are smart, they will understand at  a later age, but now you have to treat them like kids and let the adults figure out what is best.
943358
You mentioned that you were confused with your life. Perhaps you should try getting a better foothold with your own life before you do anything else. Getting back with her while you remain in a state of confusion isn't going to help the both of you. And if you really want to be with your ex girlfriend, I'd suggest you come clean about your feelings to her and your present girlfriend. A girl wouldn't want to patch if you're already seeing someone else. Don't give your ex the wrong impression that you are a 'two-timer'.
308882
I went through this, but the guy cheated on me. I still have anger for him, which happened a little over 3 years ago, my current boyfriend though the same way your girlfriend is think about the anger. You need to tell your girlfriend that you have anger built up towards her because what she did was wrong and you can't forgive her for that. But one thing I do suggest is that when your around your girlfriend don't mention anything about your ex cheating on you, pretend you don't even know who she is now. It is hard but trust me it pays off in the long run. I know don't even think about my ex cheating on me, because I love my boyfriend now and I'm happy with him. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her exactly how you feel about the whole situation.