Would you date someone who is unattractive if they were nice?
958016
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  Sure, sure, I know it's a cliche, but it's also true.  What you may deem unattractive, someone else will see absolute beauty.  Don't let the TV be your guide.\n\nThat being said...\n\nGo for who your heart tells you is right for you.  If you find a gal that has so much in common with you, is balanced with herself, is exactly what your heart desires - do it.  If you are the type of person that can't handle an exterior (assuming a girl is "ugly"), if you can't help but stare at the mole on her cheek or that one snaggle tooth... don't even lead the person on.  \n\nYou also need to take a good look at yourself.  What about you makes you special enough to judge beauty?  (And I'm really being serious here.)  I have heard guys that say all sorts of things about "ugly" chicks and they're in no way any sort of catch, though are under the impression that they are.  Will this "ugly" girl be able to handle the gorilla-hair legs?  Your one bump that won't go away?  The lack of shape to your jawline?  \n\nHabits are another thing altogether.\n\nSo really what it comes down to is this:  What can you stand?  What doesn't bother you?  What do you want?  Can you handle a girl that may not find you attractive (who isn't herself) rejecting you because you don't fit *her* profile?\n\nGood luck in your search.  :)
352897
it depends if the guy has a nice personality. =)
477780
Very necessary??\n\nThe people should be basically attractive to each other at least (everyone's view of good looking is different)\n\nPersonality is much more important...  Gorgeous people with bad personalities aren't worth dating at all IMO.
1187468
Actually,, sorry to sound vague, but it all depends. "Hot" women come in all shapes and all forms. Skinny? Nicole Richie is not attractive to me. Give me Kirstie Alley (sorry the only one who comes to mind) anytime.  Larger (probably not the proper term) like Rosie O'Donnell, who obviuously loves food, is not attractive at all to me. Much depends on how the woman carries herself. I've dated skinny women who ate alot, medium sized women who didn't eat anything, and larger women who ate the same portions that I did. Obviously I don't know them, but I'd love to date someone like Cameron Diaz or Jennifer Aniston simply because they have a classy side as well as a side that looks like that they just want to have fun and get dirty. BTW, I'm 34.
67425
your girl is not attractive enough
998452
I'd have to go with NO SEX, NO RELATIONSHIP. And I say this only because I am a loner more than anything. I do look at beauty as being skin deep, so it isn't so much the other person being really really fat.
551917
Maybe what you find as unattractive in a girl is actually attractive to most guys.  Plus you have to realize that you have to be beautiful on the inside not just on the outside for a relationship to last.
310729
looks can be fun at first... if he's still like that after a while i say ditch him an get one who appreciates you
843278
well it depends. nowadays, beautiful people are 'evolving', 'cause they soon realized 'brains' are needed for survival not just their beauty. \nnow back to your queston, yeah. i will try dating them. who knows if i could get a good catch afterwards? if they're not worth your time, try to tell them politely and it'll be over soon. trying won't hurt, can it? you won't lose anything with it by the way. just your time, lol!
340415
Looks matter to a certain extent. I'll be honest and say I wouldn't date someone incredibly homely and 600 lbs, and most of you would agree. Personality is immensely important to me. He must be a good listener, and can't be arrogant.
37164
nobody wants to date an unattractive person
878781
An ugly, well-talking woman is not going to impress any man who is looking for a girlfriend.   And a dishevelled guy who looks like an alcoholic is not going to impress any woman by talking well to her either.\n\nPeople's physical looks are very important in whether they like each other or not.  And of course, you don't need a lot of time to judge whether a person looks attractive or not.  A few seconds is all you need to make this kind of judgement.\n\nGood character can offset some of the dislike people have for an ugly person.   But usually, it's not enough to eliminate the dislike entirely.
989996
One of the best guys I ever dated was not the best looking, in fact he was kind of ugly!!  But he was the most fun guy ever!!  We are friends still 20 yrs out of high school and he is really, really successful!!  I say make your move, worst that will happen is you flatter him, but don't sit back and let the opportunity pass you by!!\nBy the way I was a junior and he was a senior when we dated!!
846960
I personally think the answer about sleeping with unattractive persons to attract prettier ones is disgusting.  That method will not help you at all.  It would just make you a horrible person who will apparently sleep with anyone.  I don't know ANY women who are attracted to that type.\nMany women are not attracted to looks only.  Just make sure you are clean, well-kempt and display your best manners and intelligence toward the one you are attracted to and she will be "magnetized" by your charm!
919614
I think its always a blessing to look nice. In your quest for a life-mate, you may have to weed through more frogs than a less-nice-looking girl, but that will make you wiser and stronger. Stick to your belief system and demand nothing less from your potential mate, and you will weed them out pretty quickly.\n\n(BTW, you remind me of my little sister, and i give her the same advice)
515450
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  I cannot date someone I'm not attracted to.  But I might be attracted to someone someone else finds ugly.
624688
I would choose brains, I could never be with someone who can't carry on an intelligent conversation.  As the saying goes you can be with the most beautiful person in the world but when they open their mouth and there is nothing upstairs they get uglier by the minute.