I need to know how to talk to this girl i like but when every i get try i get scared and i just cant! help!?
967521
Just relax and let it flow.  Give her time to talk also.  Don't try to fill up every empty second with jabber.\n\nIf you can't overcome your nervousness, just look at her and say "When I am with you I get so nervous I can't talk".  I believe that would probably impress her to no end.  You aren't getting anywhere like you are, so try it.  IF it doesn't work, what have you lost?   The best of luck.   Pops
1016522
ok you gotta talk to him!  If you're not communicating, then your relationship is dead, even if it's just friends.  Try and forget you like him, then you won't feel so nervous about talking to him. \n\nBelieve it or not, I like girls who talk to me and act friendly.  If they ignore me, i just assume they don't like me and I move on.  So break the silence!
509202
Just go for it - you've got nothing to lose.  Plan what you'd like to say before hand and practice it if you want so you feel more comfortable when you approach them.\n\nHope it goes well :-)
298456
Do not be afraid to talk to him even if you are shy.\nHe will like you regardless of your shyness if you just talk to him.
549343
From the sound of it you already know, what is the first thing you say to your friends?   HELLO  that would be a good start, and if the girl you are talking to is not just a stuck-up you know what, the conversation will flow, if you are at a movie for example why not talk about the best thing that was in the movie, there are a lot of ways you could talk to females if you are not just shy or scared of girls, If there is a certain girl that you really like try to find out what type of things she like and try to be in the places that she be in, that might help some in your quest.
405685
Why can't you talk to her? If it is because you did something stupid to her, then karma has come into play. If it is because you're afraid of saying something stupid, then just make small talk for a while then take the bigger step...it's like learning to walk.
141806
Even if you cant get the nerves to talk to her at first...when ever she passes by give a nice smile that will show that you are into her...(this is called your body language) and say hi as often as possible. To start off a conversation, simply talk about school, then get into other topics as in what activies you both enjoy...if you have something in common, ask her if she would want to go out for some pizza and (the activity) !! Good luck
483280
Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
794334
ok, what you need to do is just try and start a conversation with him. i have a friend that has a real fear of talking to guys she really likes. i tell her the same thing just start a random conversation. i am the type of person who can just start talking to any one without being scared.
687679
well i was always she when talking to girls. i chated with a good friend alot on IM and got to know her and others. if you are really shy like i was. start off talking to someone you already know or chat with someone on the computer it is a lot easyer then in person.
450026
Well, you really can't make a girl like you, but you can let her get to know you better. Try hanging around with her more, making excuses just to talk to her like those that you have. Hope you get her!
499349
She might talk to you or flirt with you, or if she's shy she might be too scared to do anyting and ignore you.\n\nIf you really like her, try talking to her and flirting with her and see how she reacts and take things from there.\n\nGood luck!
554658
Then only thing you can really do is just get to know her better, if you really are that nervous maybe you arent ready for dating. The best advice i could give you though is to just talk to her, remember this you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.
215197
I would say you could just speak to them. Who knows they might even speak back. If you're feeling brave you could try starting a conversation,but don't flirt or try to get their number right off the bat. Try to develop a friendship. Hope this helps:-D
518227
So just ask out the girls you think are interesting. The worst thing that can happen is they can say no. Eventually though, someone will say yes. Then take it slow and really get to know them. If you rush things you will freak them out and scare them away. Stay cool and you will have a gf in no time.
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!