how do i start a conversation with a boy or should he start it first.and if i have to what do i have to say?
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No, he doesn't have to start the conversation, you can make the first move (some guys like this, especially really shy guys) \n\nJust walk up to him, say "hi, how are you?" and then find someting to talk about (if he's got an iPod ask him what he's listening to, if he's in the same school as you talk about mutual friends, if he's wearing an interesting article of clothing, ask him about it)\n\nIt's hard, and you'll be nervous, but it should work out
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What do I like to talk about. What am I interested in?\n\nMe.\n\nAsk guys about themselves. Listen. When it's your turn to talk, tell him about your feelings, be honest, but make your point and stop. Then ask him questions about things he's talked about and listen some more.
395720
just think of it this way...if he came up to you and said hey, you'd say hey back right? there is no harm in saying hey? i mean you talk online, why not in person? and ask questions, i mean you have the simple ones like..."whats up?", "what did you do today?", "how was school?", "what are you gonna do for the weekend?" they love it when you are interested in them...later on you get into "what sports do you do?" and so on, just do whatever have no regrets, we're young this will all blow over when we're older and we'll forget about this, have fun.
27987
Be yourself and walk up to him and start a conversation.
261391
Ask Questions!  Let him do some talking!  And be sure to listen to his response and try to base a follow-up question on what he says.  Like an interview on TV.  Pretty soon, bam! you're in a conversation!
69532
This will be difficult, but trust me, it will help you out. Walk up to him and simply say Hi to him. Chances are that he is wondering the same thing.
431320
if u like this boy there are two ways u can approach him. one is the direct way which is go and tell him that u like him. of course that required a lot of courage. or u can approach him through his friends or ur friends that knows him. try to build some kind of connection between you and him first. but find out about him first, then make ur move.(seems like u did). one last way i can think is express ur feeling to him and always be ready for the chance(s) to get near him. one thing i learned from my experiences is don't be nervous (if u can). Also let yourself be notice to him. this answer may sound dumb.
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I used to be shy, so I know where you are coming from.  You have to take the lead on this one.  You have to ask him out and everything because he won't.  A shy boy will not know what to say to you because he can't think of anything.  Just make him comfortable with you.
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OK  First you find the boy you really like. then act normal go up and talk to him! It may sound stupid but that's how I got my boyfriend cause he started to like me when he got to know me and I talked to him!
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What you need to do is set the records straight. Everybody "talks" and you need to get to the bottom of it. Come up to him and ask him if he likes you. Be honest with him and tell him the truth. Make sure that you are clear on that and hopefully, he will accept it. Don't believe rumors. Your best source is to talk to the boy yourself.
64997
Umm.. say hi introduce yourself! Go out there pick a topic and start chatting! Be his friend and if you play your cards right, youll be more than that!! In short MAKE HIM realize you exist!
763613
if you're too shy, eye contact and smiling are really helpful. he'll eventually talk to you if hes interested. and if he doesnt, there are other boys out there. :]
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i wouldnt say 'hey.'  What i think you should do, is walk up to him, plant a wet one on him without saying a word, and then whisper in his ear, "i want you."  \n\nThat should make for an interesting evening
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Flirt with him.  It'll jump start his engines.\n\nI suggest you talk about whatever you think is worth talking about.  If you have some chemistry, he'll be able to relate and also contribute to the dynamic (flow) of the conversation.
1024776
hmm go up and talk to him
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Never ask yes or no questions.  Let your son know that when he is ready to talk, you will be there.  I liked an idea that someone else had, play a game with him. Sometimes kids open up when you are not wanting answers from them.
90842
i mostly talk about school.  ask him what classes he's in or how his day went.  maybe you've had one of his teachers before or you have the same class, just different times.  that way you can make fun of the teacher or talk about how lame the homework is.  if he's in sports, ask him how his season is and if you dont understand something, just ask.  also, you could talk about music to see if you're interested in the same stuff.  movies is always a good thing to talk about too.  see if you two like the same movies....that way you can ask him if he wants to see a movie with you sometime.