how to get a guy to come get drunk withu?
966161
You need to find an A.A. counselor, not someone to get drunk with.  Get help now.
477682
Talk to him, not while fooling around, or intoxicated.  Express to him how you feel about him.  That you enjoy being close to him, and long for his kiss.  Be forward about this, take the risk.\n\nRisks are easy enough to evaluate, is the potential for a positive result, outweighing the potential for a negative result?  My assumption here, is that somewhere inside of him, he desires you, him cuddling with you is a good indication of that.  He likes being close to you.  So take the risk.
226897
Ask him if he wants to go some place with you like the coffee shop or some place where the both of you will feel comfortable. Don't go parking nor to a bar, nor a resturant filled with people. Just be yourself and let things happen. The more nerved up you get, the harder it will be to make things happen.
592040
i wouldnt say 'hey.'  What i think you should do, is walk up to him, plant a wet one on him without saying a word, and then whisper in his ear, "i want you."  \n\nThat should make for an interesting evening
312514
just tell him to friggin go out w/ her and get it over with lol
495491
First, greet him at the door in whatever he thinks is a totally hot outfit(and yes, your birthday suit counts), kiss him passionately, and then tell him that tonight, this one night you will do whatever he wants, and MEAN IT!(between the two of you only,extra participants and props to be negotiated separately and beforehand). If this doesn't work, greet him at the door with a beer, tell him the steaks are on the grill,the game is on the tube, all the bills are paid, and you aren't pregnant, premenstrual, or pissed-off. If one doesn't work, the other will.(Feel free to use these ideas in any order that works for you.)
702457
Just ask him to play the question game with you. It always makes for an interesting and fun night for me. Just take turns asking questions about each other. Each question you ask you have to answer too. This way you tend to avoid anything that might make you both uncomfortable. Start with something simple like your favorite color. By the end of the night you'll wonder where the time went and be more relaxed because you'll have spent your time thinking up questions, not about your shyness. Trust me, its a fun relaxing way to get to know a person. Here's to hoping you have a great night!
781532
Be cool, don't say "I'm your biggest fan," and just buy him a drink. The bartender will let him know who it came from. If he's cool he'll say thanks, in which case you can then coolly tell him how great he thinks he is. If he doesn't say thanks, chalk the five bucks or whatever up to experience and let it go.
853480
You need to let him know what you like and dislike or what he needs to try to do. Take over girl and make it happen.
590375
laugh at his jokes, give him his space, and make yourself available to him, tell him you like him, other wise how will he know? men are pretty thick, they dont take to subtlety well, be direct, and focus your attention on him once & a while...
294736
Be yourself...strike a conversation and if you hit it off ask him to go out for a drink or two.
913660
Just wait for him to call you, if he doesnt call you within the next three days then he doesnt remember any of it. Then when you go out, tell him you want to go to dinner, then make not of his behavior, is he drinking a lot? Excessive? Is he just a natural slurrer? He was probably nervous about meeting you and probably kept drinking.  \n     I say give him a shot if/when he calls, there is no harm in that. Enjoy, you might have found a great guy that will make you laugh. If he doesnt call then just write it off to the fact that he was drunk.
38245
This is what I did for my guy friends: I cooked for them! If you don't know how to cook, then order delivery or something. Invite his friends and some of your friends and pitch in the money to do this! It's a great way to hang out. This will also show him that you're a pretty cool chick and he will dig the fact that you do this kinda stuff for your friends. Also, it's pressure free. Try it! He just might ask you to hang out more often.
530065
1. find a guy you like\n2. get his attention ( walk past him and give a little look back, sqeeze past him in corridors buses wherever)\n3. when you have his attention seem like you dont really want it, (he'll try harder)\n4.ask your friends and his friends to meet up for a night out\n5. dance your arse off, act like you can have any one , but no your gonna chose him (male pride and all that)\n\na lot of ahrd work i know but fun as you go along
418965
Be yourself.  be engageing, be witty, be a little loud, burp if have to, make him laugh, flirt, slide in there that you're single, give him a compliment\n\ndon't... play dumb, get too drunk, Uber loud, mention HIS EX, YOUR EX...\n\ngood luck!
197544
Just flat out tell him, I think you are sexy, I would like you to come to my flat for a few beers and maybe a movie, then after about 45 minutes of drinking take off some of your clothes, if he has no reaction do a little sexy dance then plop on him belly down with your but in his face, if he doesn't make a move by then he is gay.
20490
Don't wait for him to do it -- ask him yourself.\n\nFor the first time, use a 'group' strategy: invite 2-3 other friends along, say to a movie. Make sure they are already attached or not interested in your target. \n\nCall the guy up and say -- 'me and some friends are going to see a movie, wanna come along?'. If he says yes, great. Wear something sexy but not slutty. Sit next to him. Smile a lot. When it's over, say something like 'that was great, we should do it again sometime'. His response will indicate what can/cannot happen next. \n\nGood luck.