Guys say they like girls that eat. Is this because a girl with an eating disorder isnt something they want?
962814
it just means they want a girl that is healthy and isn't trying to starve herself and be perfect for her guy. never, ever EVER try and be perfect for your guy or anyone else. you are not perfect, and you never will be. guys like to eat, and they don't want a girl who is always worrying about her weight and how she looks. if a guy really loves you, he won't care about how you look. he'll want to show you off to all your friends and tell you you are so so beautiful even when you're in an awful bright orange pantsuit.
939664
I think guys are overly nice (or 'smarmy') to girls they fancy.  But they can be just normally nice to girls they just see as other human beings, if they are a nice person, and in a good mood (!)
42716
I'm a guy, and I like thick girls. Of course, that's just my preferred body type. It's not all I look for.
279082
My guess is probably the same reason girls want to be with a nice looking guy that has a nice body. Ever see a group of girls out at night in search of ugly, overweight men?
770123
Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
591622
The guys I know like girls who can take a joke, and be a good sport about it.  I don't mean to say that you should put up with anything raunchy--but humor within limits.\n\nThey like girls who are good listeners, and girls who are not only thinking of themselves all the time.  They don't like gossipy females--those who have nothing nice to say about anyone.
384549
Because peer pressure says they should be and they have no respect for a woman's mind rather than their body. Don't sweat it though, there are plenty of guys who like bigger girls out there, and besides almost everyone of those guys will end up with a girl that eventually will be fat anyway after the kids and life takes it toll, so screw 'em.
929413
Well, you're the first I've seen that says something like that. I do like a great body, you know, curves, everything in the right place, but you know, its not like im some heartless person. I do like a girl's personality, its just if she's 400lbs then I'd have to pass.
1123235
We guys tend to giggle a lot sometimes shy when we eat in front of you girls YES US GUYS TOO! We like to play a lot with you, joke a lot ect. Call you all the time, get close to your ears, whisper. And most important are eyes are like metal when the girl is like a magnet.
1124207
Every guy has his own fantasy and likes. It's not compulsory that all guys love slim or hour-glass figure. I know of some guys who love a little chubby body.\n\n  If you meant to ask this question for moulding yourself into a shape that all guys love, that's unnecessary. A person who loves you, would love you for what you are, not what he wants you to be. ;)
486195
Yes a guy will still go out with you. A lot of guys don't like a girl who's real skinny. I personally like a girl who's got a little meat on the bones. You just keep being who you are and someday you will find the one for you, and when you do find him, he will be the luckiest guy in the world to have you
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
966315
Stop talking about your body to him. It's a total turn off. If you have an eating disorder, go see your Doctor. People tend to like you, for you. So stop obsessing with yourself, and be happy. Good Luck ~~~
768282
men think that because there are certain types of girls that are into that thing and those are the kinds of girls they hope to attract. also guys that are like that are often lacking in personality or other things and are trying to compensate for their inadequacies
235959
thick to obese.they don't work out,so they don't expect you to,there is ALWAYS food around and they have almost always had to take time to educate themselves and develop a personality.most of the time they are just funner to be with and they usually will do more to please there partner than those so-called hot chick with the bad attitudes.I'll take a big girl with a sense of humor over a skinny girl that complains anytime.
147188
ok well the if she is younger like under 18 and i know you dont want to betray your friends trust but the best thing for you to do is tell her parents even though she might hate you but its well worth it...i am only assuming she is younger because that is usually when most eating disorders typically start with girls in their teens and twenties if she is older try to convincer her to go seek help at a medical facility  good luck
388598
guys like girls who are smart, funny, and you enjoying talking to them. they never try to be some one that they're not and they always know the right thing to say. What guys don't like about girls is when they try to act like some one that they're not or if you know that they like you but they still try to hide it because most of the time it's common knowledge.