Have you ever in your life been sexually attracted to the same sex?
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Yes, though I would never act on anything.
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When one is attracted to ones own gender.
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I think it is very normal to question your sexuality, especially in your pre-teen and teen years. I know I have questioned it my whole life. Now in my 30s and figure I must be bi.
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I appreciate and admire the beauty of both the male and female bodies and though I have had intimate encounters with both genders, in all honesty, I do prefer men over women. Does this in turn make me bisexual or a man who is denying his true sexual orientation? Personally, I feel our need to categorize and pigeon-hole ourselves and each other is unnecessary and a complete waste of time. Just think of Bisexuality was a way of loving the best of both worlds.
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i wont conclude your sexual preference as of yet. until you actually act out your fantasy and consistenly repeating the behavior. are they the only one you have fantasy about? can you picture having the same fantasy with famaous celebrities? having same sex encounter is not unusual, some even have incest dreams as well. it's just part of very active brain cells crossing signals thats all.
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No, do you?\n\nI think we are past the age when a persons sexual preferences mattered, rather than the person him/her/itself.\n\nI am a happily married monogamous hetero (been married 25 years to the same woman and hope to die still married to her), if that matters to you.\nst
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well i know im bi-curious not sure if its the same, but i know cuz i want to be with a guy, but i get very attracted to women sometimes, i think its more of a casual thing, but i know its normal for a women to be attracted to the same sex or at least curious, women know what women like! and women are usually better looking they were built to be admired and looked at. when a beautiful woman walks by, everyone looks not just men, even straight women! for your friend, me and my best friend were both curious and got together a few times and it was great felt as if it made our bond closer, but if its only one sided you can tell and should drop it and maybe look else where for your feelings, you dont want to scare her especially when shes a close friend. im sure if you are close enough she might be able to sit and listen to your concerns and maybe even help!
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Have you ever considered polyamory?
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I consider myself a normal straight guy, and yes i am attracted to she-males. I`m not attracted to men in any way. I know she-males have penis`s, but I really think I could deal with that, if I ever found myself having sex with one. So I think it is normal for a guy to be attracted to a person who is sexy, attractive and obviously feminine
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I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
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i think just as the first person, that we as homosexuals are attracted to the same sex as heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.\n\nhave heterosexuals chosen their lifestyle or are they born that way?  most will say that they are born that way.  as a straight man is inherently attracted to women. they probably can find another man good looking, but does not go further with any action of sex with him. Why? because he is not Sexually attracted to him.  \n\nSame as a gay man, we can find a women absolutely gorgeous but does not want to have sex with her. \n\nWe as humans can recognize beauty that can surround us (as with other people) but to be sexually turned on is something that is a biological feature within us. Any person can physically have sex with anyone we choose. for example,  a straight man can physically have sex with another man but is he gay? or a gay man can physically have sex with a women is he straight? I think that sexuality is a very deep subject that has a ton of variables that can not be simply categorized in to it is this because of that.\n\nhistory has shown that homosexuality has been around for as long as sex has been around.  knowing this i have come to the conclusion that homosexuality is a biologic thing.
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Love for the person of the same sex.
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it depends.  on if you would be willing to put forth the effort on being a true bi-sexual.  And if you are willing to put out for the same sex partner?
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I'm a lesbian, and most of my partners have been women. Right now in my life, the idea of being with a man is mostly repulsive to me, and I imagine it's pretty similar to how you yourself feel.\n\nI have had male lovers, and sometimes I have enjoyed them, but over the years, I have found more and more that I don't think I could ever enjoy them again. At this moment, I have a partner, and I get repulsed by the idea of sex with ANYone else, male or female.
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I too had those feelings/questions years ago and I now have close relationships with both a guy and a girl...I love them both and each relationship provides me with different needs.  Just be yourself and when you are with a person you love and are physically attracted to, the rest will come naturally.
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I am a woman who has only had sex with men, but I do think about being with another woman at least once just to see what it's like. I don't know if I ever will or not...... but it's a thought.
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Although I wasn't aware of sexuality at all when I was in kintergarden I had dreams of being in love with my best friend, Mark Serdinack.  I didn't realize it was homosexual until around 12 when mom sat me down for "the talk"\n\nI then realized I had not only been having gay feelings, but had done some gay things as well.  <mutual masturbation, oral>  I vowed to remain celibate until marriage, however I only made it until I graduated from high school.  \n\nI dated girls and made out with them while in high school, but wouldn't go past groping while fully clothed.\n\nAfter high school, I lost my "virginity" to a girl, but felt it was really wrong...  on many levels.\n\nI experimented with a few guys, but was overwhelmed by guilt.\n\nI didn't really ACCEPT my sexual orientation until age 21.  That's when I realized that I couldn't change it and that God wasn't going to help any.\n\nI was resentful that people told me that if I did everything right, I would change.  It made me think that if the change wasn't happening, it was something I wasn't doing right.  So I tried harder.  I prayed harder.  I went to Bible college, intending to be a minister...  because I thought that if i dedicated my entire life to God, THEN he would change me into a straight person.\n\nIt never happened.  Perhaps I should have worked even harder at it...  given it a bit more time, but I think 10 years of that eternal damnation was enough for one lifetime.\n\nIf a person lives to be a hundred, 10 years is ten percent...  and thats all god requires.\n\nAt age 21 I freed myself of all of it.  By age 24 I was with the boybriend I'm about to celebrate my 16th anniversary with.  My life became MUCH better after I accepted it and lived my life instead of pretending to be something I wasn't hoping that if I pretended good enough I would magically change.