Should I let my girlfriend hang out with other guys?
966059
Well for starters you cannot tell her what to do..if she really wants to do this she will do it regardless of what you think.  I don't believe that this situation would make me happy either..if my husband was hanging out with a bunch of women, only, no guys..it would make me more than a little nervous.\n\nTry giving her a little more attention, take her bowling, to the movies..do the things that she is doing with those guys..and if it doesn't help..and you have good reason to believe that there is more than just a 'friendship' thing going on between any of them...perhaps it's time to seek a few girl-friends of you own..after all..apparently it's acceptable to do so in your relationship.
749248
thats awsome!  ofcourse its important, but if she really loves ya, she will stay with you.  explain to her that your not like the other guys who can't control themselves, and you have a brain that controls your body, not the other way around.  I have respect for you.
569677
I wouldn't mind unless she involves you in their outings. If it's just for a hour or so I suppose it's okay, but more than that I would grow suspicious why they are spending much time together than with you.  Now, if it's a mixed crowd and most have good morals and if she's not the flirty type, then it's okay.  I'll be honest, when I'm single, I get much hotter than when I'm with someone.  If you are married, the possibility for variety can come to mind and it can be dangereous if her friend decides to make a pass.  The trust between two friends can be as strong as the love you have for each other.  I believe friends works best and can grow deep.  Not too be doubtful, just keep your eye out. I know because when I get the strange feeling in my stomach when I feel threatened, that's a signed that something is not right or that I'm being disrespected.  Talk to her about it and see if you can come along. \n\nYou will be the best judge if something is going on or not.  Trust to a limit, then you question... Boundaries can be broken so make sure she doesn't break them, that's why she's married to you.  Right? Hopefully for the right reasons.  \n\nPersonally, I enjoy being with my boyfriend.  I get along better with men but there are limits to how much I let them know because it's easy to flirt with guy friends.  Guy friends can let things happen and not worry about it because they know the other person is taken... It's a risk and a thrill for the women, but it's a BIG, BIG, NO, NO.  Not while you are married and devoted to someone.  I suggest to both of you go out, change your looks, and be the couple that can be lover, friend, and wife.  Spice up your life so she doesn't run off to get that kind of "attention"?... who knows. \n\nI'm a women and I've been single.  Now that I'm dating my boyfriend, he still wants to keep the single life active with some gals in a book club he met when he was single... I spoke to him and he decided to ended... I now have to trust him and it will be up to him to do the right thing.  \n\nSummarizing, if your wife invites you because she wants to, then go... keep her in your sight.\n\nGood luck sweatheart!
676411
So friend, it definately sounds like there is some flirting happening.  you should, in a calm manner address your Gf regarding the issue tell her the ruth that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would like to do something about it, but the best thing would be is that if she felt strong enough towards you she wouldn't want you to be unhappy and would reduce her time together with dude, especially since school is out.  As colleagues, I can understand that they may have gotten to know each other pretty well and may have a strong mental connection. but there are certain places you just don't go...if my fiancee (we're 29 and 32) knew that a boy at school liked me and flirted sometimes, he would be pretty hurt and I would minimize the chance of that happening by not putting myself in a position that would have me being responsive to the flirting gestures of another and dilating pupils (other signs of flirting that are difficult to prevent), I would just not be around that person to avoid that type of interaction.  \n\nHopefully if you talk with her, she will reassess the motions and actions that she is making and that are happening between them and understand that they are not appropriate.\n\nGood luck, you need to ultimately do what is best for yourself in the long run..whatever course that means you should take.\n\n\noh and the quote: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...is in no way from a "show"..it is Saint Augustine (November 13, 354–August 28, 430)...well before they had T.V.
520938
the one thing is you shouldn't dump her because she is complaining about you hanging out with your friends you guys may need to talk she may have some insecurities from a previous relationship.Try to include her in some of your outings with your friends.It doesn't mean she doesnt have things to do of her own the reason why she is complaining. Kinda sounds to me if im reading into this correctly she probably wouldn't complain if you spent time with her and didn't ditch her to go kick it with your friends..
783768
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
411076
DO YOU REALLY NEED TO ASK?OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT THE BEST IDEA.IT MIGHT BE FUN AT FIRST BUT I GUARANTEE THERE WILL BE COMPLICATIONS.FOR EXAMPLE DO YOU WANNA MAYBE END UP WITH HER?WHAT IF YOU DO END UP TOGETHER AND SHE DOES THE SAME TO YOU?AND EVEN IF YOU DONT WANNA BE WITH HER SOMEONE ELSE DOES AND THATS JUST MEAN TO DO TO HIM.
394494
stay her friend and if she wants to come back to you then say ok as long as you dont go back to the other guy. if she still goes back to the other guy dont get back with her because she's using you to make the other guy jealous.
630732
think about this first..... you go out with this girl, you break up....... you risk losing 2 friends......\nnow do you want 2 go out with her?
104392
you know what i think ?\nif i where your girl friend , i think id rather you tune me out sitting on the couch for some video game ...\nthan to go off with the guys doing things i wouldnt want you to do !!!! \nhave fun with your games sweetie ,, treat you girl with respect and remind her if she dosent like the fact that you play these games for hours , that you could be some where else !\nthat sould shut her up !!  (lol)
866822
This person is not your "opponent", because if this your partner, then you 2 are not in a competition for her. However, the real issue here would be, if your gf is flirting back and how this person's advances makes her feel. \n\nIf it is a matter of the gf being drawn in by this, then you've got a problem, not with the other person, but with keeping your gf attention. So yes, you would concentrate on possibly complimenting her more or doing things that entice her. \n\nBut, if she is non-responsive to this other guy's advances, then there is no problem. It's no big deal that someone else like her; I always say, WHO WANTS SOMEBODY THAT NOBODY ELSE WANTS! As long as she's with you, you have nothing to worry about.
735354
If you bhave already asked someone...and she is looking forward to it you should take your friend from home.  Explain the situation to your girlfriend, Im sure if you are open and honest about it she will understand.
634031
you have to let her have space...she's involved with someone else. If/when they break up, you are free to go after her!
358723
aren't you supposed to like your friends?\nnow if you were thinking of as a girlfriend - tell her you have guy friends already
149788
You have two options:\n1) You could see them both without them knowing of each other and think you are the man, while secretly living in fear of one or both of them discovering the truth.\n2)  You could see them both and let each one know about the other and then you will KNOW you are the man.  There will be no fear about being found out and if you aren't interested in either of them long-term, then it should be no big deal if one of them doesn't want to be sharing time with your other girlfriend.  \nThere are plenty of girls who are fine with that arrangement and as long as you are safe, open and honest you will find your relationships to be more fulfilling.\nAnd if you are REALLY slick, you might be able to talk them into a group session but you'll never know until you try.  You just gotta decide if the juice is worth the squeeze.\n  \nIf you are scared of losing one of your girlfriends by telling her about the other, then maybe you shouldn't be messing around on her in the first place.
1057277
Sometimes a guy would like all your attention. My girlfriend has free will to do as she pleases as long as she remember just how much I love and care about her. The only thing I ask is that she would stay faithful and not play games with me no matter how far away she maybe from me. I understand you because sometimes it is like she dose not include me in her life and hangs out with old friends from school. The last time I called her she had an old guy friend over to her house with no other friends there besides him. I have to admit I was upset with her cause she seems to fall for the sweetness of every guy but crays and asks me to trust her.  The only advice I could offer you is to be careful with your heart. Even if those other girls are your friends they might turn around betray you or he might leave you for another. It sounds to me like he dose not value your relationship all that much.
490061
Talk to her about it. Tell her that it is coming between the you and her. Tell her you feel that when she flirts with other boys, it is like betraying you. Tell her how much she means to you and ask her why she does it. Does she feel like their is something lacking in the relationship? Work on it.\n\nSometimes, girls are just like that. There's nothing you can do if talking to her doesn't work. If she knows your feelings about her flirting with other guys, and she doesn't try and change for you, maybe you should consider splitting up with her. Find a girl that wants to give all her romantic attention to you and only you. You can't change her. Only she can do that.