Stability--how do you find it in a relationship with a woman?  Luck?
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Depends on what u call as stable and whats the girl'z defination of stability.. you both  have to have same defination of stability.. if she things talking to u everyday for an hr is stable and u think think something else is well prob will arise...\n\nWhatever it is you have to reach a comfortable relationship to arrive the stage of stability...and to reach there you have to give some time to the relationship...  you cannot depend luck simply.. your luck might help you to meet that specail someone but rest is upto you... you have to take the first few rocky steps to reach the stage of stability....
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Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!
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I learned long ago, you can never win an argument with the woman you love, period. Even if you end up proving you are right, you will pay dearly for it in the long run. Learn to say, "yes dear" or "you know what, I agree" and you will be a much happier man.
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Stay patient. She will come eventually. If you look for her, a lot of times you will not find her. My two mottos: Go With The Flow and It's Not Woth Winning If You Don't Have To Fight For It. The last one doesn't really matter in this, but the first one is very important.
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This is actually something I'm struggling with right now.  I totally love my girlfriend with my whole heart, but it's just my rebellious nature to look for "excitement" outside of her.  I catch myself trying to impress other girls, and sometimes lusting after them.  Realistically, though, there's nothing more exciting than being in a totally committed, loving relationship, and we guys don't know what we're really blessed with when looking elsewhere.
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There is a saying, "Deep waters run still."\n\nWait until you meet a woman who is wise and knows that a quiet man can sometimes be the treasure. In the meantime, be yourself, pursue your passions in life, and she'll turn up eventually.
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By being honest and stubborn and even if that hasn't worked yet, it will. I'm sure she knows you care for her and wants to be with you, but there are probably tons of reasons why she just can't let herself trust you. Oh and don't ever threaten to leave her unless you really plan on going through with it completely and NOTHING she can say will change that. Especially if that is something that she fears.
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go for it\nget into the relationship\ndon't loose her
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As you said, you felt in love with this woman, and love is not just feeling is a consequence of major elements such as respect, faith, honesty , satisfaction .... etc. and when you have these components you are in love ... so, if there is a confidence and honesty between you both .. you have to believe her and trust her ... any way, you are the only one who can judge on your relation and how things are going on.. wish you good luck with her
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If things work out between me and my b/f, that may very well happen! \n\nIt is a very good relationship BECAUSE we have so much in common. Place of origin, childhood religious upbringing, same basic values, similar sense of humor, similar taste in entertainment; similar values: we both value compassion, generosity, consensus rather than antagonism, we are both positive and optimistic, we value knowledge and learning, we are both rather homebodies, as opposed to life-of-the-party types...\n\nIn many of my relationships, it has been a combination of "giver" and "taker." This time it is a combination of "giver" and "giver." Do you know how wonderful that is?\n\nWe are not EXACTLY alike, but very similar.\n\nI've done the opposites attract thing. While it was very fiery and passionate, there was too much conflict.\n\nAlso, I have an identical twin. We are VERY much alike, and we get on extremely well together, always have.
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NEVER SETTLE!!!  Take your time, find the right person!  She will come along.  Out of the blue and knock you off your feet!
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First of Amen and God bless that you have been able to stand strong and faithful. I think it is awesome that you have not given your self so easily like most woman or men have done.. I can't say I can relate. So hang in there I know God has a special man in plan for you. =)
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There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
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Hey I'm physically challenged and have dated many a woman.  Just because a person is unable to do some things that you consider as routine does not make them any less of a person.  And yes if I was single and was to meet a woman who did not have any vision or wasn't able to communicate verbally I would not think twice about going out with them if we connected.
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I've been with my partner for two years, and I'm having the time of my life.  When we're out together, we will hold hands, etc, but to us that is just natural.\n\nIncidentally, I happened to meet her on a singles holiday in Turkey, where I had gone to get away from my divorce.  I was drunk, and had blood streaming down my shirt from where I had fallen over, and Maria practically carried me back to my hotel room.  So a relationship was the last thing on my mind, but these things DO happen.\n\nBasically, just make yourself an attractive person inside and out, and someone may take a fancy to you.  Good luck.
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I agree somewhat with Katrina, that men can be intimiated by independent and strong women.  But, as a guy, I would say "put off," not exactly intimidated.  For example, I recently dated a gal who I was very attracted to, although she wasn't stunning- she just "did it" for me.  But, she spent too much time telling me about her degrees from MIT, how she worked for Steve Jobs, etc..  Relationships are about humanness to me- life's little problems, emotionality, sensuality.  I talk shop all day at work, and want something deeper in a relationship.  It just got to a point where I didn't want to hold a conversation with her, since we just couldn't connect.  I guess the point is maybe revisit the guys you like with a deeply human approach, and see how that works.  I agree with the rest of the posters-  it's hard to meet someone you like.  It's true for me, too.  I live in the middle of nowhere.
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Everybody wants what they can't have.  You need to find a girl of your own and stop pining over her.  She isn't worth it.  And yes, women do want the stable, caring guy.  Sadly, girls want the playa, so you may have to wait a few years for them to catch up.  Hang in there.