Please help with good advice?
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Seems like she is making some bad decisons Mom!  But you are allowing them and at the same time trying to restrict them!  You can't do both.  Hard mission as her Mother.\n\nAdvice:  She has made the transition from needy child to adult situations.  BUT, she is now back in YOUR home?  You can instill a curfew regardless of her age out of respect to the peace of mind in your own home.  Demand that she respect that!  Stick to it, or she should locate her own level of permission by moving out or the boyfriend needs to allow her to move in with HIM!  And he probally won't (let's hope) I don't agree with the 28 year old Father of 3 dating an 18 year old at all. \n\nYou absolutely can NOT balance what you want for your daughter and what she wants for herself.  Requiring a time frame for her to be home is different from when she was strickly under your wing.  \n\nThe rules change when she becomes a house quest, self sufficent and reliable to her word.    Sit her down, talk to her, explain your thoughts and concerns.  Give her the ground rules for returning home.  Give her a time frame for making her way back out of her parents home.  6 months should be sufficent.\n\nShe lies due to her feeling like an adult, but still answering to Mom.  Tell her she is an adult, but living with Mom, thus she does have certain obligations toward the family.\n\nI understand your anger Mom.  Give allowances, take no acceptions.
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i understand that you give good advice.\nwhat kind of advice do you give. \nim interested in knowing more.\nemail me at thirstyoncourt@yahoo.com
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Here's the thing about giving advice, most people don't understand. Advice needs to be solicited. In other words, to offer advise when it's not asked for is rude; hence, "Who asked you, \nanyway?"\n   What you do is ask, "Mom, I really have some ideas, on your current situation, I'd like to share with you. Would you like to hear them?" If she says yes, then she'll be receptive to your ideas. It sounds like she just needs to have a plan and get some income going. If she says no, then leave it alone; since she won't listen anyway. "A person convined against their will is of the same opinion still!"
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Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
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stay clam and do your best. Good luck.
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hi if i was you i would get anfinacle advisor you may have to pay for his services but he will beable to give you good advise.
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Try this.\n\nHope this helps.\n\nGood Luck.
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The best advice I can give you is to consult with a financial professional.  He can do a risk profile on you and help work with you to invest your money in a way that best suits your needs.
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You don't know what to do?\n\nThat's painfully obvious if you're asking for advice here.\n\nDo the opposite of what most people here recommend and you might get out alive.
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I am actually helping a young mother through this very thing. I've been trying to convince her that filling her life with more waste of space guys are not the way to being less lonely, especially since the guys she's attracted to have no life. I'll tell you what I told her. Finish high school. Then take some college courses. Get a job. In between times, surround yourself with a healthy circle of friends...ones that aren't after you for money, a place to sleep, or smokes. Find other young mom's who are doing the same thing. Find a MOPS group...Mother's Of Pre-schoolers. It's a mother's group, who meet regularly (weekly) and get together with their children, sharing tips, recipes, cleaning ideas, and each others problems. Once a month, they hire a babysitter and do something together, like go to a movie, bowling or a number of other fun, wholesome activities. Getting involved with a volunteer organization will get you out of the house and helping others with bigger needs than yours. If your child is old enough (as young as 3), you can enroll them in Headstart. There are lots of activities for the parent to get involved with there, along with being with other parents who are going through some of the same things. Some people will find an grandmother-type person, who is still very active, and you help each other. She can help you with your child, being a surrogate grandma, and she can teach you what she knows. You can help her with some of the chores that are maybe a little difficult for her. The thing is to do something with your life that's meaningful to you and your child. When you get involved, you teach yourself and you teach your child, and you'll end up showing your child how to give of himself to those less fortunate. <*)))><
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you're welcome. you are doing a pretty good decision. so keep up. :)
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the only advice i can give is none.  Your kids are adults, they'll have to learn from there own mistakes.  Just don't judge them or treat them different.  Only thing you can offer is your love.
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Yahoo Q&A is a fun place to ask and answer questions.  However, I strongly recommend that you not take financial advice from people on here.  You don't know their intentions or qualifications.  It might be great advice, it might be awful advice.  I would recommend that you start reading quality books such as 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad' to get a better understanding of this.
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Try looking in your local book store though you may not be able to afford to buy them you can read through them to find what ou are looking for and not have to worry about others giving you the wrong info and causing more harm than good for you.Not saying anyone would but none of us here know what it is you need to fit your needs and it would be bad judgment for anyone to truely give you any type of advice on what you have said so far with out understanding the full situation your in.Just remember if it harms none then so mote it be but if you plan ill will or such be ready to deal with the return.
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You're gonna need a good lawyer anyway, so just go ahead and get one......he will advise you on the best course of action.
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Help with what?????????????
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uhm... Don't always take another's advice. It's not always right. [[That's my advice. xD]]