how can i ask a lad out at college wen we both embarass easy nd i wit ma m8?
968841
Do you mean how can you ask a lad out at college when we both embarrass easily and I am with my mate? First of all you can’t be in college with that grammar and spelling and second is your mate a boyfriend, husband, or girlfriend. It makes a difference you know here in the US a mate is a spouse). If it is when you are with a boyfriend or husband then you can’t ask someone else out with them along with you but if it is with a girlfriend then just tell her to keep on going when you approach the boy and you will catch up later. Then start talking to him in a causal way and let the conversion lead up to going to the local hangout with you. That should get the ball rolling for you. ☺
683036
ask the guy out. you might regret later if you don't
1081064
well i guess it can depend on how old you 2 are....in the younger years, people would write letters to each other, "do you like me?" Y or N...haha...but when they grow older, you could approach me on the cell or on a messenger, such as Aim or Yahoo.  Or if you are feeling really brave, actually go up to the person and ask them how things are going...that question usually sparks up a conversation...but if you have never really talked to this guy before, i can see where you are coming from.  I tend to have this problem with girls...honestly, practice in the mirror and pretty much what you see in movies and stuff when girls are nervous about this certain guy, they talk to themselves in the mirror to role-play the conversation they may have later on...if that doesn't work, then i suggest you just throw some flirtatious movements his way...if he's interested, he'll reply or just walk over to you...you will have to decide on which is the best way to approach this "man of your dreams" but when you do, you'll thank yourself for being brave that one time...good luck!!
691320
Try working out in the same area as them...and then start talking you might not want to ask him out immediately..find out what y'all have in commen and just let it come natural..
294736
Be yourself...strike a conversation and if you hit it off ask him to go out for a drink or two.
362897
try and be the 1st 1 to ask him out
626445
Unfortunately, guys that age aren't very good at expressing their feelings due to the amount of pressure imposed on them by their mates. If you have a school party or something your going to ask him if he'll go with you? Be confident. Do you have his number or email address? Txt or email him - not as embarrasing! I wouldn't rely on how he acts when he's with his mates, get him when he's alone.
540052
you should stick wit the senior boy at your school,tell him how feel about him,i asure you will win his love
89697
Walk up to him, look straight into his eyes, tell him you've a problem, and ask him for HIS advice : 'I like this boy he is cute and nice and funny . I want to ask him out, but i dont know how . what should I do? '.\n...If he is really 'cute, nice and funny', he'll really come up with a plum idea, and outline it to you. \n...Listen carefully, and when he has finished, thank him for his splendid advice. And then, immediately begin to try-out this 'technique' upon its originator itself - after telling him, that HE was the boy u had in mind !\nThe poor bum will be so floored with YOUR technique and sense 'o humour, that he'll be the one who immediately asks u out !\nAll the best, dear. Cheers !
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
676976
U could just ask him his middle name. Or if ur embarassed to do that u could ask one of his friends if they know. But if u really like the guy i would just be honest with him. It may feel funny at first but ull be happy u did. Lying usually only makes things worse.
580140
ide say talk to him what you got to lose. smile in the halls at him with a cute "hi"
909237
You know its only weird because you've never done it.  Take a deep breath and take the plunge to just go up and talk to him.  \n\nLets say he's wearing a shirt that has a popular band on it.  Go up and say "Hey I just love (name of band), my favorite song is (name of song).  Have you ever seen them in person?"  He answers. Respond (it doesn't really matter if he says yes or no) "I can't wait until they come into town, I'm so there!  Oh, I'm sorry....Hi my name is (your name here)"  Then flash your sauciest grin.  Hopefully he will say his name to you.  Respond, "Well (his name if he gave it), I have to get to class, see you around!"  Flash that grin again, he will probably grin back and say okay or something else lame.  But hey you broke the ice!!!  Now walk to class with confidence.
777724
Just ask the dude out!
655478
U think about urself first. I mean, i'm not being rude 2 u, but just think : r u also bad at studies? or ur excellent at studies?\nWhatever it is like, ur surely not going 2 spend the rest of ur life with this guy, are you?\nMan, ur just going 4 a date. U might go out with him 4 a while, or maybe a couple of years. Not ur whole life????\nI'm as old as u, nd i think we're too small 2 choose our lifetime partner at this age.\nMaybe u shud pay more attention 2 ur studies at this time, coz u hav Boards next year(if u liv in India. Sounds like u do, wid ur name.), But if u really like the guy, nd u can manage studies and a relationship wid ur significant other at the same time, what's the harm?\nBut, even a little proportion of ur instinct tells u dat u cant manage all this altogether, jus put ur foot down right here, nd don't even think about it further, coz it might harm ur studies. \nI can just give u advice as per my thinking. The rest is in ur hands. Good Luck!
952199
ask him kind of like a joke
920505
No honey do not ask him out for coffee.  Start up a friendship.  You definitely need a more clear cut sign to his being gay or not.  He could just be friendly so keep it casual.  Anything else could sabotage it before it starts.  Keep your head over your emotions, you must protect yourself.  You innocently could have scoped out the most homo phobic guy in school.  Learn chin ups.  Ask around about him, very cautiously.  Be careful.