My exgirlfriend is living with me....?
967133
Tell her to contact Social Services. You should not have to take care of her. Give her a deadline for making other living arrangements. Break it to her as diplomatically as you can but have a heart-to-heart talk and let her know that you were willing to assist her in an emergency but now both she and you need to move on.
683830
Well, unfortunately it's in her mind that she wants out. So, save your energy and time and use it to focus on getting through the break up and after some time goes by then maybe seeing if it will work again...Good Luck!!!!!
966532
So, your basically saying that you would like to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you and your willing to live that way?\n\nI really think that you have more going for you than that. you may not understand why there was a break up and for that matter, she may not have told you the truth in the first place, so who cares what her thoughts are on the subject.\n\nDid you ever hear the saying "There are lots of fish in the sea?"\nwell, get out there and start swimming....you will probably find one that totally idolizes you,makes you feel like a million dollars, makes every waking minute worthwhile and you are spending all of this time sulking.\nthey say there is someone for everyone on this earth, maybe you had to learn from this one in order to find the right one. Okay, you learned a lesson now get your house clean, buy some new (woman magnet) clothes, get your hair cut and get out there, she is waiting so stop taking so long......
81639
that's a very bad situation. only advice i can give you is based on the experience i had last year. my situation started out like yours and ended with me stayin in a crack neighbor hood and my boyfriend tryin to kill himself cause of the ex. i think it's a bad situation and you need to take whatever steps you can to get her to stop. legal or illegal. if this situation is f*ckin with your head then you NEED to get out of it. don't put up with S*it like that, you don't deserve it. there are other ppl out there
330384
She's trying to manipulate you.  Don't fall for it.  I don't know when people will learn that manipulation in a relationship is never a good idea.  \n\nYou need to explain to her your reasons for living elsewhere.  If she's in such a desperate bid to get you to come live with her, eventually you will feel trapped and resentful of her.  \n\nTell her that although you love/care about her, and don't want anything to happen to her, at this time it just isn't feasible for you to move back to the same town.  Explain that you are willing to see her whenever you can and that no matter what distance you are from her, she is still important to you.  \n\nYou must also let her know that you are doing whats best for you and if she cares for you like she claims, she will not hurt herself.
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
636586
Man, get rid of her. There are plenty more out there.. Plus I am sure she is alreading sleeping with someone else.
560022
She wants to mess around with you so your ex get jealous...she either likes you alot or hates your ex girlfriend, either way its a way to have alittle fun but not the way a healthy relationship should start...thats up to you..
1166898
Girl, both of you need to get a place of your own. Don't you know that as long as you live with her you are never gonna be your "own woman" in her place. She is always gonna blame you and take his side. She needs to stay the heck outta your business.
390901
Get rid of her and get a new chick that it fits in. Im game. *wink wink*.
758687
You answered your own question. She sounds like a nutcase. Dont make yourself miserable, just move on without her.
966096
She is gone.  Leave her alone or risk having an order of protection slapped on you.  She made it clear that she wants to be away from you...by moving all her stuff out.  Let her be. It's only going to be trouble if you don't.
138666
It sounds like everything has already worked itself out. Your ex is dating your best friend, and you are dating one of her best friends. \n\nIs there someone out of the 4 of you that isn't happy with the arrangement?
1082287
You should have a discussion first with your friend.If she's doing this to you then she's not your friend but your enemy!\nAnd talk to your ex too.Tell him what you feel for him.Maybe he feels the same way.Talking to him is the only way to clear things out...
536498
It's out of your hands, she is no longer with you.\n\nDon't dwell on the past as it only sets limitations for your future.
848384
She has moved on with her life.  It is time for you to do the same.  She is clearly not interested in a relationship or trying to patch things up.
536244
I would say you need to stop calling her your girl and just consider her as a f@3$k buddy. Then what you need to do is take H.I.V. tests  and everybody double check.