When you see a pretty girl while shopping, how would be the proper ways to start a conversation?
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Ask her for advise on the item you pretend to buy for your little brother or sister. Be creative. Then tell her the truth that it was just the excuse to talk to her since you  are shy and give her your number. Maybe you will get a call...
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Just start with "Hi" or you could try and include her in a discussion as she walks past "Hey what do you think of zyx, by  the way I'm 'name' and you are ...?", or pick one thing about her that you like "hey sally, that's a nice necklace, is there a story behind it?"\n\nHave a look at the link below for more ways of approaching women, and the lessons learned can be applied to other areas of your life.
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Do you want to "get her" or you want to "get to know her"?\nIf you want to get to know her, buy her an ice cream & sit down & have a conversation.
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Well first of all it has to be the right setting. You can't just walk up to some woman and start talking. Usually it's helpful if something happens that momentarily brings you together, such as being the only two people left standing on the train or accidentally bumping into each other. You know, like the commercial where the girl runs into the waiter and knockes the glasses over and the bottle falls on the table and spins until it ends up pointing to the guy. But since things like that rarely happen, sometimes you have to create your own moment of coming together. For example, if you have a class with a girl, you time it so that you leave the room at the same time, then you make some comment about class being long or boring or interesting or whatever, anything to set up your "common moment" and get her attention without coming across as a weirdo.\n\nOnce you have her attention, keep it by building on what you already know you both have in common. If she sits next to some idiot that annoys you, too, talk about how obnoxious he is. If there's an upcoming test or paper that's due, talk about how little/how much progress you've made so far...talk about anything that will get her engaged in a conversation. Then take advantage of that moment by making an observation that she might find interesting. In other words, get her talking, and then when you do, try to find common ground. Once you have her attention and you've established common ground, you're on the right track.\n\nIf this is a situation where you're going to see her on a daily or weekly basis or whatever but only a few minutes at a time, then bide your time a little to give her a chance to get interested. Take advantage of that few minutes of shared time whenever possible to chat with her. After a few days/weeks of this, if she's responding positively, you can ask her if she'd like to get together to get some coffee,grab a bite to eat, whatever to talk about your common interests a little further. If you've only got once chance to make this happen, however, then you need to do some major talking. If you can keep a woman's attention for half an hour, then there's a good chance she's interested in you at least as a potential friend/regular acquaintance and possibly something else (check the body language as well). Go ahead and ask if you can call her, get her number, and give her yours as well, and then CALL HER. Not that day, but within a day or two. Be friendly but not pushy and see how she responds.\n\nIn any case, any time you talk to a woman, you're not doing yourself any favors by coming across as bland, generic, or timid. Women love a man with confidence (but not arrogance) coupled with a sense of humor. We don't expect perfection. So if you do say something stupid, make a joke out of it. Laugh at yourself about it and then move on to something else. The fact that a guy can laugh at yourself when you make errors is very attractive, much more so than a guy who speaks in a macho voice and is too much of a control freak to say anything funny or interesting or even just plain goofy. \n\nI'm not kidding. I'd much rather be with a guy who makes mistakes but acknowledges them in a playful way and then moves on than a guy who's too afraid to open his mouth. Get out there and give it your best shot and chock any mistakes or rejections up to lack of experience. Not every women will respond, but that's ok, because eventually one will. And one is all you need.\n\nGood luck!
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wen u see a girl u like...make eye contact..smile...and before u walk over to talk to her...breath...wen u go up to her don't worry about remembering a good line...just say 'hi'..if she smiles..u'll feel more confident and the words will come naturally..if there's no reaction from her theres no harm done..u just move on to the next :-).. remember to breath :-)
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...the small town thing is a definite draw back, so if you're able to travel a bit to a larger city?, this may be to your advantage...\n\n...the one thing you have to decide is "what type of grrrl intrests you the most?",...are you looking to meet a very feminine grrrl?, or  one that's more tom-boyish?,...i'm sure you have thought about this?\n\n...your attitude is highly important,...be out-going, smile, and be friendly to everyone you meet,...compliment grrrls you like,...tell them how great they look in the particular outfit they're wearing, you know how much grrrls like to be noticed, *wink*...\n\n...try to plan a day of shopping with a group of friends,...pay particular attention to what you're wearing that day,...look your absolute best, without being "too" showy, if you know what i mean?,...give "them" the oppourtunity to "notice" you and how great you look...\n\n...over lunch, discuss fashion,...explain your feelings about what style of skirt, dress, blazer, etc, looks good on which grrrl,...then turn to the grrrl your most interested in, and tell her how great she would look in that particular outfit...complimentary conversation is a must...\n\n...once you establish a repore with the "one",...be confident, notice every detail about her,...her earrings, her lipstick or gloss, the perfume she may be wearing,...these are more intimate and meaninful things she likes,...so be attentive to her answers when you ask her about why she likes that perfume?...and then tell her how much you like it as well, *wink*...\n\n...as long as you're not overly aggressive, and truely sincere about what you like about "her",...there is a very good chance you may become very good friends,...then and only then should you share your "curiosity" in a private conversation...\n\n...my best wishes are with you,...oh, and one more thing, don't forget to laugh and have fun too...
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You can start a conversation about anything... the weather, school, anything.  The most important part is to just try to relax and not look like you are trying too hard to find someone.  Girls are attracted to guys who look like they are having fun.  Compliments might work too.  Tell a girl you like her hair, or the way she smiles.  Good luck.
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Well first of all there is no such thing as a good pick up line. Girls don't fall for that kind of stuff. At least not any girl worth wasting any time over. The best thing to do is to start talking to a girl as friends first, get to know her a bit, but not too much, just so that you could call her a casual friend. The best way to do this is ask alot of questions about her, and don't talk too much about yourself. Naturally humans see good conversationalists as those who ask questions, because in a conversation we love to talk about ourselves. But make sure you mention yourself a little. Also a little tip for keeping a conversation going is to start your next line with whatever she just said. For example\n\nyou: So are you planning on going on holiday anywhere this year?\ngirl: oh yeah I'm going to Mexico\nyou: mexico? wow, sounds nice, it's a really beautiful place during the summer. what kind of music are you into?\ngirl: I like a lot of R n B music.\nyou: R n B, cool, I like a lot of R n B. So do you go to a lot of concerts?\ngirl: Not really, but I went to see Destiny's Child before.\nyou: Destiny's Child, I like them, a shame that they split... etc..\n\nThis is good because the repetition of what she says makes her feel like you're listening, plus it keeps the conversation going. Even if you don't know much about what she's talking about, just ask further questions about it. "oh I don't know too much about that, what's it like?" etc.\nEventually let it evolve into natural conversation. Don't force things too much though.\n\nCompliment her, but not heavily. Just little things once you've gotten to know her a bit such as "your eyes look pretty today", but nothing too much and not too often. Also compliment her on things that don't matter so much, like compliment a freckle, her voice, her hand writing. Little things are often the ones that are mostly appreciated.\n\nAnd I know you said you didn't want to have someone say "just be yourself" but you know, what's the point of being with someone who doesnt want to be with the real you? Hope it works out for you.
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Look nice, smell nice, brush your teeth! Go up to her and introduce yourself. Ask her for her phone number. Second scenario: find out some of her interests or if you have some mutual interests and invite her to go do something with you that you both like to do.
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Do you see her a lot? Start by smiling at her, which will gradually lead to hellos and then take it from there. It'll be a lot easier to strike up a conversation after the first few smiles and hellos, then you won't be a complete stranger. You'll be able to guess whether she is going to want to talk to you by the way she acts when you smile at her.
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first start with hi. Then, work up the courage to start a conversation like, "My, it's a beautiful day outside", or "That new brand of chocolate cake I had for dessert was sure good." Then she'd ask what kind of cake it was, and so on. Then, eventually you'll become friends and more. Just don't be afraid to act your own sweet self.
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FIND A WAY TO START A CONVERSATION WITH HER, AND WATCH HER BODY LANGUAGE. HER BODY LANGUAGE WILL LET YOU KNOW IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU OR NOT.
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A very simple Hi....how are you?.....with a big smile will do just fine. Or how about "where have you been all my life"? Or even....."You are so pretty". Maybe even a classic..."Have I seen you before?"....but act as if you really seen her before. Good luck. I hope these work to at least break the ice.
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ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.
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JUST BE YOURSELF...CALMLY WALK UP TO THEM...DON'T BE FAKE AND DON'T TRY TO USE "PICK UP LINES" YOU CAN USE PICK UP LINES THAT ARE CLASSY BUT NOT TRASHY! SAY SOMETHING LIKE, "HEY, (INTRODUCE YOURSELF), AND BE HONEST...TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DANCE WITH HER, OR BUY HER A DRINK OR JUST STRIKE UP A CONVERSATION ABOUT THE SONG PLAYING! A GIRL LIKES IT WHEN A MAN CARRIES HIMSELF WELL, SELF CONFIDENCE IS KEY! IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE AND YOU ARE REALLY TELLING YOURSELF YEAH RIGHT THIS GIRL ISNT GONNA GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY...SHE WILL PICK UP ON THE FAKE AND THE REAL...SO PLAY IT COOL! BE YOURSELF! AND HEY IF SHE DOES REJECT...IT'S OKAY...
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Smile, look into her eyes, and be confident.  The rest should come naturally.  People tend to mimic the people they talk with so she'll smile back.  Something about a pretty girl smiling at you tends to help the flirting come naturally.
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start with eye contact, a nice smile, and a hello, or hi, then let the conversation develop from there.