Which u will choose... Love and be hurt...  or ...  never love, never hurt...?
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I believe that "It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."  I would rather know the feelings of love than to go my entire life without it.
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Lust-Love, it has to be the only choice.  You get the best of both worlds ;) x
91331
i would rather be loved by the one i love..in any case love is great ;D
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love is great even if it dont last ....its better to have love and lost then to have never loved at all
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You say you think you have never been loved and think you will never find it. Not to answer your question with a question but if you could receive love from someone what do you think it would be like?  What does love mean to you or what do you want love to mean to you? Does it mean you feel cared for, accepted, respected and appreciated? If it does than you can give love and maybe some day you will receive it but you need to be here to find this out.  Life might seem crappy at times, I've been there myself, but your life is like a story, but if you leave too soon you may never know how good the story could have been.  You never know who might enter your life that will change it in a wonderful way. Hang in there, i think love will find you.
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well sugar, if it is meant to be, it will  be. all u can do is be yourself and live life for u not nobody else. to love is to let go, and if it is meant to be, that particular love will find it way back to you. don't miss out on life waiting for somebody to love u. love yourself first.
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I can't tell you the answer. But I can say that you look at each, and make sure which one has the best qualities. When you choose, you have to live with the choice you make. I hope you fin d true love as I have, and don't let it go for nothing.....  Also please look at my question.... I need someone's help tooooo.....
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If it's meant to be it will be, but you can't make it happen.  Sometimes timing keeps us from making a bad choice based on emotions in that moment.  There is a saying that goes..."if you love something let it go..if it comes back to you, it is yours...if it does not then it never was"
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Love is not a noun.  It is a verb.  You choose to love someone. And when you choose to love someone, you act on it.
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Honesty. \n\nSee, if love is a cake, honesty is like the sugar. You can make a cake without sugar, but then it would have no taste...
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Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love will last forever. I Con 8:4-8a
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You need to pick one. Its not fair for the guys. If you really love them you wouldnt want to hurt them like that.
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In the words of Dido, "what good is it to feel it and not say it".  Tell him that you love him, it is also best to have loved and lost than never love at all.  HOWEVER, saying the words first might put him to feel that he has to now repeat the emotion to not cause hurt.  Ultimatly, love is something that is best felt than said.  You will know when it's right, if at all it is.... Good luck, and I love your view on not fearing rejection.  ;-)
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Depends on how long u live.  I would say pain/love, same thing go 2 far in one direction, u end up with the other and when ur lifetime is done, I assume that is 2.
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i prefer love and learn over live and learn.  but you must live to love, and love to live.
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Neither.  Either phrase comes across as love is a condition.  I believe that love is unconditional.\n\nSo if one's intent is to use love for a purpose, then the first phrase conveys it more so than the second phrase.
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First love, first TRUE love, I might say I have not live both, but I will never forget my first, he was the most especial guy of all...\nmy heart just stopped when I looked for the first time my reflect on his eyes....\nI would never forget his smile, his hands, his laughs....\nand although I will find my TRUE love, he will always have a place in my heart.\nMiss you T...