Is it a turn on or turn off for the guy to make fun of himself?
959325
Ok, to an extent I think it's funny to make fun of ourselves.  It becomes annoying "if" that's all you ever do and it's always VERY negative.  That's a very unbecoming trait.  We all want to date someone who is confident in their own skin.  It is definitely a turn-off if someone is always down on themselves.  Now, that being said, you HAVE to be able to laugh at yourself, but be confident at the same time.
859016
turnoff -- arrogance\nturnon -- humor
1032671
No.  I find it really pathetic.  I usually make fun of them.
175427
Don't try jokes on guys. They don't work with me...I mean they do...but not in the way that you might want them to.  You have to know this guy better to make him laugh.  Sometimes, the things people do and are serious about make a guy laugh.  It depends on my mood and the irony factor.  If it's not truly ironic...then it's not funny.
618843
i would.. its easy to tell that a guy has a nice body with his shirt on... taking it off or lifting it on purpose is kind of a turn off..its like "look at me i am so hot"
647953
Odds are he means what he says.  He's trying to support you and make you feel loved.  If you want to really turn him on, wait until you're in public and discreetly press your butt up against him and give a little teasing rub.  When my gal does this it really drives me nuts.
1178210
In most cases, when someone is making fun of someone they are doing it because of some kind of insecurity thing inside of them. They lash out at something that someone else has in order to not have to face something that they have. Does that make sense? I was told a long time ago that when a person points a finger that there are three fingers pointing back at the person doing the pointing.\n\nThose "jerks" must have a problem. It is not all about handsome. It is about character and feeling and being real and they just do not get it. I understand. I have never been the "handsome" guy that makes people stop and take a second look. I am a nice guy. Sure, I have been over-looked by people. I understand the feeling. It sucks. Sad to say, it is how our society is today. They always use the "beautiful" people to sell products. You never see a chunky girl dive into the pool, swim to the ladder, climb out of the pool and say, "I got this way drinking diet coke." It is life. \n\nBe you. The hell with them. Be the beautiful guy that you are. The ones that matter will notice. You will not have to wear a mask. You will be and you are beautiful, just as you are.\n\nI hope that I said what I meant to say and it makes sense.
329560
LOL....\n\nIT BETTER BE JUST ONCE OTHER WISE I WOULD TEND TO THINK THAT THE DUDE IS DESPERATE TO GET OFF AND OR HAS TRULY NO LUCK WITH THE LADIES/MEN! EITHER THAT OR THE DUDE IS A DAMNED NINFO AND CANT GET ANY!\n\nSORRY BUT THAT IS JUST PATHETIC!
877567
Ahhh, I see another person using YA has a sense of humor too. \n\nIt is only inappropriate if he didn't offer to buy you a lap dance from a stripper of your choice.
611453
no i find that "unmanly"\nor in other words a turn off\nhope i helped\n: )
889075
Would depend on what his personality is like.  He can be the best looking guy in the room but if he is boring as bat $hit, then I'm not interested.
612932
Historically, we guys have been made fun of, because sometimes all it takes is a shift in the breeze to get our motors going. And yes, by and large, we're more visual when it comes to getting turned on. But you've stumbled upon something that many women don't know. We like to be complimented, chased after, and once in a while, even leered at. What's in a guy's head? To quote Cheap Trick: "I want YOU to want ME!" \nSo, here are 10 sure-fire ways to love and lust after your fella. \n\n\nBe specific. Don't go for the blanket statement "you're sexy." It's too easy. Think about how you'd feel if that was the best he could come up with when you're standing there nekkid. So, pick something out -- "your arms are so strong. I love to watch the muscles move when you take your shirt off." Or..."You have an incredible (butt/chest/etc.). I just wanna grab you!" See what I mean? \n\nStare. You know how to do it. The same way those construction workers watch you walk by. The same way that guy at work looks at you when you're wearing a plunging neckline. Look him up and down. Undress him with your eyes. And let him know you're doing it, like when he's walking in front of you, climbing up a ladder, or just stepping out of the shower. Heck, even lick your lips and wolf-whistle if you feel like it. \n\nTouch. We men don't have the market cornered on groping. You see something you want, you grab it. There's not a much better compliment than: "Sorry, I just couldn't keep my hands to myself!" Run your hand up his thigh. Down the back of his neck. You know how to do it. \n\nSurprise him. Call in the middle of the day, and tell him you're already thinking about tonight. Or, that you're still in a daze from last night. Catch him at the right time and he won't be able to think of anything but you for the rest of the day. And night. \n\nCompare. Even when you're watching TV or reading magazines, point out to him all the guys he's better looking/smarter/taller than (in your opinion, of course). What guy doesn't want to hear: "I don't see what the big deal is with Brad Pitt. You're way hotter than he is. WAY hotter." \n\nLingerie. No, not for you. Get him a pair of silk boxers (or boxer-briefs, if he prefers), and ask him to model them for you. Then, go back to #1 and get very specific about what you find so sexy about him in his undies. Don't laugh. It works on you women every time. \n\nExclusivity. Nobody can touch your body the way he does. NObody else could ever make you feel that good. Nobody has ever turned you on as much as him. Get the idea? He knows he's the only man in your world. Now let him know why. \n\nJump him. Plain and simple. This accomplishes everything you're asking for, no words necessary. Drag him into the bedroom (or the kitchen table, on the floor, or over to the couch). Throw him down. And have at him as if he were your last meal. You're just so turned on by him that you can't even control yourself. Sounds like a compliment to me! \n\nWrite to him. An e-mail. A letter. A poem. Pour your feelings out on paper and give them to him. Love letters have worked on women for hundreds of years. Maybe it's time the tables were turned. \n\nRepeat as necessary. Find what works for you and him. Go with it. Or, mix it up a little. Keep him on his toes. He'll never know where the next compliment is coming from. Basically, all you need to do is try new ways to stroke him (and his ego), and you're good to go. \n\n\nHide the Honey\n\nThis game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel...and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey...with their mouth. :) \n\nWhat's Your
353396
I think a man that can laugh at himself and sometimes others is the sexiest....
555800
The question is, Do U think that's a turn on or a turn off?
32223
It's not really being a "bad boy". It's more in the confidence of the guy. It's how he presents himself to other people -- if he's unsure of himself, it comes off as more desperate than anything else. Where as if he's confident -- it makes him that much sexier.
869089
H-E-L-L to the no, sir.  I think that everything should be mutual in a relationship, being a bit aggressive to be sexy is a turn-on, but if it is persistent and actually his character trait, that is a total turn-off. I'm all for a guy to take charge every ONCE in a while, but not 24/7.  This isn't the early 1900's.
823792
I've seen this question before.\nYou already asked this... except you were under another screename... lol.\n\nNo. It's not a turn-off.