when my bf and i make love but now i dont feel like i want to do it anymore. whats wrong with me?
955221
Your not Really in love...
359803
If you love him don't leave him but you do need to find out why you are having these feelings.  I think alot of people go through stressful times and become uninterested in sex.  It is also possible you may be having some hormonal issues.  If the problem doesn't get fixed soon though he may start to have a wandering eye.  I hope everything works out for you.\n\nGood luck and God Bless!  :)
508575
If you feel that way then it's not a healthy relationship and you should dump him. Love should make you feel like you'll burst from happiness. If it doesn't feel right it's not. Maybe one or both of you is/are suffering from depression. Maybe he has no respect for you. Is he Physically or verbaly abusive? If he is he won't let you go that easy. There could be lots of reasons for your feelings. You deserve happiness and should keep looking for it. Close this chapter of your life. Move on. Avoid guys like your boyfriend that make you unhappy.
458702
I see nothing in your words that refer to "love".  All I see is that you aren't "gettin" as much as you used to.  If that's all love means to you then I suggest you go your seperate ways.  If, however, the reduction of sex is just one part of your problems, then seek some professional help.
1087091
Funny you should ask..lol...that's an issue I'm trying to work out with my boyfriend right now.  He says I want it too much (I want it every day!)  When he makes jokes that my sex drive is too high, it kind of makes me feel bad, like he doesn't want to have sex with me as much as I want to with him.  Some days I want it two or three times, but he says he's tired :(  We're both the same age, so I don't know what the problem is!
111352
first of all there is nothing wrong with you. you just arent ready to do what you want to yet. give yourself time. dont let peer pressure or even self pressure push you into something you dont really want. when the time is right and the partner is right then it will happen the way it is meant to.
1057272
i have had a boyfriend for two years now and were both 18 and we decided to not have sex because we both feels its very pointless. we just have too much oral sex instead!! ^_^
628197
your heart sounds like it knows something isn't right. you have time in with this guy so you have to part in steps. first stop having sex(it is possible) tell him you are not feeling good in the relationship and you need space. stop initiating contact. see what he does. he should work hard to prove to you he loves you and wants this to work. if he doesn't start trying harder then tell him you need some real time apart. don't date new people get to know yourself better. only no sex and time will really help you see clearly what's going on
630446
Explain to your boyfriend how intense your feelings for him are. My guess is he feels the same way that you do. Trust me if they guy loves you and you and him are both ready for sex hes not gonna turn down an oppurtunity...or u 2 could take a road trip to a snowy area and have sex there...tht could always work 2 :)
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
302642
OOOHHHHHH Been there done that.\n\nThere are always signs.  He's gone a lot, works late a lot more often than he used to, wants to spend more time with the guys.  But be careful.  Love can make us feel very  vulnerable.  And if you have stuff going on in your own life like you're not feeling great about yourself, or have just become a mom, BE CAREFUL.  Don't confuse doubt about yourself with doubt about your love.  It's easy to do.  Sometimes when you're looking up to someone else it can feel like they're looking down at you.  Examine your own heart before you examine his motives.\n\nThe sign I missed was he never wanted to have sex with me anymore.\n\nIf he is...... let him have it.\n\nGood Luck, hope it all works out.
82968
Is it that you're not attracted or just not in the mood for it anymore?  If you're not attracted to him then maybe it's time to call it quits.  And honey you can still love your man...even an ex...but ask yourself this, are you still IN love with him?  Ponder that and when you have your answer then take whatever road your answer gives you.  In not, leave, if so and you have no sex drive then maybe get in to see your gynocologist and they can do a hormone level check.  Some women just need hormones for this kind of problem.
424962
its all about how you feel i the relationship.. \nhow comfortable you BOTH are.. do not be pressured into something you dont want to do..\njust take it easy and enjoy the relationship for what it is now.. \n\nthen when the time comes.. make the descision
408836
You need to go to a doctor.  Your problem could be mental or physical.  I don't mean to be rude, but it seems that if your boyfriend respected you, he wouldn't want to hurt you.  He should want to help you get help and be there for you.  I read that the way your partner makes you feel can result in painful sex.  That aside, it could also be an infection, urinary tract problems, abnormalities of the uterus or ovaries, or a condition called vaginismus.  I hope this helps.
1096476
You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
739315
This could be a psycological thing.  That shouldn't scare you, but perhaps you could talk to your partner if there's something they're not doing for you, or maybe you're nervous or your mind is elsewhere.  Do you want to do things your partner doesn't?  Perhaps you could try changing positions or mixing things up a little.  Don't be afraid to try new things or change old ones.  If you talk it over with your partner then maybe you can work something out - I'm sure they'll be understanding.
714893
umm sex isn't everything you guys can work on that there is plenty of things that can change that.. but if your thinking about other guys during sex you don't need to be with him ...and if your thinking about your ex with your current bf you dont need him either! take a break and figure things out on your own