To cry or not to cry?  Ladies what do you think?
967425
i know this might sound stupid . . . but i like a guy who sheds a tear every once in a while b/c that lets me know that he is sensitive. just b/c a guy cries, that does not mean that he is any less tough, or macho than he was before . . .
525939
Crying is better than keeping it in, keeping it in is what causes more emotional problems
871647
Hi luv!\n\nBecause we accept our emotions, and deal with them instead of ignoring them and repressing them.\n\nIf men would be more open and honest about themselves and their own feelings and emotions, I am sure men & women would get along alot better!
459359
no its not a bad thing to make him cry that means hes human and is not a hard core asshole. maybe it was that you were quiet and your usually not that shocked him or it was that you told him that he has you forever and always men are so hard to read i have been married for 9 years and i can honestly say he says that i am ignoring him but i not his thing is he thinks i am pissed off all the time and i'm not i have 3 kids so when they go to bed i am done talking. i think your ok and just be open and honest with him and you guys should be fine
60511
In today's society, it takes a very strong man to cry. I think it is more sad to see a man cry because men today are usually ashamed of their emotions. I also know several women who can turn on the water works just to get their way. I never assume some injustice has been done just because a woman cries. I find out as much of the whole story as I can before I make any judgements. (I judge actions not people)
765927
Have a good cry.......
380194
CRYING IS A WAY OF LETTING OUT OUR  DEEP FEELINGS.BY CRYING IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU'RE WEAK,ITS IS JUST AN ACT OF POURING OUR FEELINGS WHEN WE ARE DEPRESSED OR SAD.AFTER CRYING DEFINITELY IT FEELS BETTER AND RELIEVED
101250
Most men are just as sensitive as women but conceal that for a lot of reasons. To other men sensitivity is a weakness and no guy wants to be looked at as weak. Some girls take advantage of sensitive guys. In many cultures men are still not supposed to publically cry. I could go on but you get the idea.
444370
Some men just think if they express themselves they seem week. We think a woman admires us for our strength and back in the old days it was true that if a man showed fear or sadness or even that he was in love, then he wasn't a "man". It's in our nature to hide any softness. Only women were soft. But some of us have realized, though, that women are more independent now and don't need so much "protection". It's just in our nature to to be strong and silent, though in some cases it's for homophobic reasons. Some men just need to be assured that expressing feelings is not a weakness but that it shows they are comfortable themselves and their mate. Let him know that if he expresses himself to you privately that he doesn't have to be so open when company is around. Trust me, it's not just you he may be protecting himself from. If he's been hurt in the past it could take a long time to open up. Just don't over do it by forcing him. Some men just feel more comfortable keeping it inside, but you have your needs too so don't give up. Hope I could help.
1026285
Skyler --\nIt IS okay for a man to cry, especially to express his emotions.  It is also healthier to do so when it needs to be done.  Do not put this off until later.  If it is okay to laugh when you are happy, then it okay to cry when you are sad.\n\nIf you do not want to appear as a crybaby, then do not cry like a baby, with loud sobbing and blubbering.  If you do not want to appear to be a whiner, then learn to cry without whining.\n\nThere is never anything wrong with allowing the tears to flow.  But if you want to look masculine doing it, do so silently (a little nose sniffling is okay, so is blowing your nose if that is needed).  Just let the tears fall, do not draw attention to them by continuing to wipe them away.  Take deep breaths, fill your lungs, hold the air slightly before you exhale and cry.\n\nEmotions are meant to be expressed.  When you try to hold them inside, you are doing yourself harm (that is why you feel like you are going to explode).  When you express your emotions honestly, you have nothing to be ashamed about.\n\nOne of my favorite verses from the Bible is also one of the shortest.  It reads: "Jesus wept."
316257
Because men are supposed to be the emotionally strong and balanced ones. And crying is a sign of weakness...or so people think. I do not believe that.
113724
We are men, we don't cry usually but we definitly are moved and come close to tears.  Just because we don't show our emotions on the outside doesn't mean that they don't exist.
616181
i dont think any female should ever cry  girls should be put on  a pedastal and treated like a princess well thats my opinnion no man should ever make a women cry
499534
Well I'm no expert but I think you may have a problem, and I don't mean to sound cruel but I mean a mental one. There are people who just feel it gives them some kind of relief from stress or anxiety or anger when they do harm to themselves. I hope you don't actually hurt yourself though. Next time you feel that way my suggestion is call your closest female friend and just spill it all out, and yes that means cry too if necessary. You will feel a lot better I promise!!! Good luck and Take care
560692
I dunno, some crying is cute... but excessive sobbing for no reason is ridiculous... Mind you it annoys me just as much on girls :P\nI dunno, if they're crying about something big... Yes... It shows that they're human, and if they do it in front of you that they trust you!\n\nJ
603158
Can you sob underwater? No, because you can't inhale. Crying is not much of a crying is you can't sob :P
1140108
Depending on how serious you guys are, its going to hurt her no matter what.  You just need to sit her down and be very honest with her.  Tell her why you want to break up.  Dont play games and dont beat around the bush.  And dont change your mind if she starts to cry.  Guys make that mistake all the time and its just going to hurt her more when u have to try and dump her again.