Can someone please define what "Flirting" is?
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Flirting is the attempt to let someone know you like them but with deniability.  If  they don't like you back, you want to be able to pretend that you didn't actually like them.  You were kidding or they misunderstood.  You are just friends.....blah, blah, blah.\n\nThat is pathetic and neurotic and isn't what flirting is supposed to be.  A high quality person does not do this.  A high quality person, man or woman, knows what they want and goes after it and does not care what anyone else thinks about it.  They like you?  They walk up to you and tell you.  You don't like them back?  That is literally, nothing to them.  They are giving you an opportunity, not supplicating to you like a boot licking slave.  They want to be with you because they want to and they care about you and think you might want that to.  But, they don't HAVE to be with you.  It does not effect them negatively if you say no.  It does not say anything about who they are either way.  If you turn them down, don't be surprised to see them walking off with someone else, 10 minutes later.  They chose you first but they have MANY options and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  Also, they aren't mad at you about it and won't mistreat you if you come around later (women do this all....the....time...when you approach them).\n\nNow, what is flirting supposed to be?  Flirting is the art of subtly turning your partner on and then increasing it more and more and more by taking two steps forward and then one step back to drive them crazy with desire. It's what you do to make the sex you have with them later, something very pleasurable.
196918
Hey, he's not married! Flirting isn't like adultery... as long as you don't know the girlfriend then all's fair!
266858
Flirting is lightly touching the guy,playing with your hair,constant smiling,and being overly friendly,at least to me.The hardest part is knowing it's happening to you.
928364
There are several types of flirting:\n\nA. For guys who just want to break the ice and tensions, you know loosen the atmosphere and make one feel comfortable they flirt. ----------- 10 % (Usually men who are married, not single, or gay)\n\nB. For guys who have an interest with a girl.---------90 %\n\nHowever, flirting can be misleading especially if one person likes the other.  Example: A woman flirting with a guy just for fun or sheer boredom the guy who is flirting back with the girl gets teased as the girl mentions her freakin boyfriend a few times, keeping the guy confused.!  That is so cruel ladies!
794106
yup! we have to have limits in life.... its discipline......flirting & cheating is bad as you might be hurting others in the process...
729098
When are life is mundane and as a women you are used to body language and being pursued you get bored.  All that you see is not real just eye candy to play with.  Those that become attentive to your flirt are usually receiving little or no attention from the get go.  Safety is playing with things that will never see your underpants.  I have always found it funny when guys get upset that a girl flirts with them and when they approach they blow them off.  Women that flirt .........have never been truly swept off there feet.  Your deja vu on it being weird is far from weird.  Most will think it is for attention but truly it is basically playing to deal with the emptiness of a heart never touched as of yet.!!!  good luck...
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I will answer, despite i'm not quite sure about this.\n\nI have the idea of flirting like those things you do to try to get the atention of the other person you like, that would be smiling, talking about nonsenses, try to make funny things, taking so much care of your make up, and the way you look, all those kind of silly things we do to cath the atention.\n\nBut once you got his / her attention far enougth to have a date, and once you start the serious conversation, and the knowing each other stage, i would say the flirting is over. \n\nAnyway, even when you already have an stable relation ship, some how the flirting does never have to end. You have to keep that all the time that your relation continues, even if you get married. \n\nThat part of the romance, where you try to please the other person, where you try to make her /him realize how great you are, and that you are convincing your self how much you like that person must continue. That is like the water for the three to live, and growth stronger every day.
122373
That you may be interested in the person who you are flirting with. It also means that you want to see if he or she is interested in you.
719427
It's called flirting or friendship.
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because sometimes flirting is just that...flirting. Flirting is just fun and doesnt necessarily mean anything.
658367
What your intentions were determines if it is flirting.\n\nIf you honestly were just being social no.\nIf you had a little bit of an adgenda (like getting him to notice you) even if the words were innocent it was flirting.  \n\nSome of the most successful flirting is done sincerely like a person just cares about another person almost like an antiflirt.
846667
the whole point of flirting is to let the other person know you like them x
140910
"an adverb that describes people who are being inhibitly flirty with the people around them, making passes at anything that moves."\n\n"Chris is disgustingly flirtatious, even around other guys."
158828
To me flirting means to make gestures and comments of a romantic nature, not to make vulgar abusive sexual gestures or comments. For example "hi you look attractive today" would be acceptable as a flirtacious comment while saying something to a woman like "Hey you got really big boobs" would be an abusive remark for a guy to make.
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For some people flirting is just in their personality. Now if it's flirting with the intent to cheat, or they are being very suggestive, then I don't think it's acceptable. Still, while it may be innapprorpriate, I wouldn't call it cheating.
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It means she's comfortable enough with you that she can flirt (lean over your shoulder, get you to put your arm around her, whatever) without worrying that you're going to rape her or something.  I have a bf and we've been together for over a year and a half, but I still have guy friends I love to flirt with because I know it's not serious and they like the attention.  If she really has feelings for you, she'll eventually get annoyed enough at your seemingly not picking up on it to just tell you point blank.
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No, flirting is normal. It makes you feel sexy. It is wrong to act on it never put yourself in a compramising position. Avoid temptation. But flirting is fine