Why do some  men find it hard to make?......?
971010
You're guy is interested in you and very comfortable with being with you.  Ergo he has no problem with maintaining eye contact with you.  \n\nThere are lots of creepy guys out there that have no problem with staring.
235737
Guys are shy when it comes to feelings and the like.  Also they don't like to open up unless they are almost positive the feeling is returned, they don't like to be hurt.  Sometimes you just have to coax it out of them.
1120592
I don't know, why are men so confusing?
477636
most men just cant say NO!!!
1021620
Lots of men do it.  I guess it depends on your taste.
955162
cause it's cool!! men usually don't have justifications to why they do wut they do. they just do it!!
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
572104
Making love, is a lot like good cooking....it takes a long time, if it's good. Too many people rush to get done, instead of enjoying the experience.  There is the "quickie", but lovemaking should be slow, relaxed, and enjoyable. Guys "get there" too quick if they go too fast, so that's probably why he takes it slow. Enjoy it!!
274018
Being a women, I understand how difficult men can be, but honestly, i think us women are the harder ones to understand. We say one thing, but feel another way.... We are just soo totally confusing at times!!!!! LOL
194364
A guys have to do this for themselves. They have to train themselves. They have to learn how to have some control. It's really not all that tough, but it takes....<ahem>.....practice.  lol\n\nThe goal with sex isn't the ending.....the ending is great, and certainly a nice thing, but it's everything in between that's such a grand and connecting experience.
806399
well men just don't quite function like women.  It's hard for them to understand our emotional needs.  They're like little kids.  Full of energy, jumping from exciting activity to another sometimes they just forget that we exist.  Emotional stuff is just not really in their train of thought unless we sit them down and tell them exactly how we feel and tell them what we want and need.  After he knows exactly what we want then he has no excuse for ignoring our needs.  We fullfill their physical needs they should do so for our emotional ones.
403514
why do some men? Each is different, right?
834277
Some suffer low self-esteem and think this makes them feel better. But at the end of the day they wouldnt do it if men didnt buy it etc. Supply and demand I'm thinking!
379723
There are some good ones...Don't give up...I haven't even come close to giving up on all you pr*cks...I mean men out there...Good ones are few and far between but are there...Good luck hon...
288433
As Mark Twain said in Huck Finn:\n"In order to make a man want something, make it difficult to get" Well, that is not exactly a direct quote, but close. In other words, when Huck was trying to get out of painting the fence, he made it seem really cool to the other kids and wouldn't let them do it at first. So in order to make someone want something, make it difficult to obtain---voila!
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Being a woman, I don't find myself all that complicated. woman as a whole, I admit...some can be knowingly be complicated. I feel that most women just want what everyone wants. To have someone whose honest,that they can trust,who listens, whose there for them,so on and so forth. I don't think in reality there is much difference between men and women.
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Guys don't ALWAYS anything (except maybe fart a lot).  I know plenty of guys who are too serious for their own good.