My son and his friend are involved in mutual handjobs. I feel its harmless.?
965791
Hello!! :o) Like some others who have already responded - I'm also curious as to how you know. But lets just assume that you 'accidentally' saw your son and his friend give each other 'hand jobs'. Contrary to what some guys say - a LOT of guys [especially young guys like your son] 'experiment' with each other. And more often than not - it goes no farther than 'mutual masturbation'. It's not a 'sign' of anything insofar as sexual orientation is concerned. [If it was - than MOST guys would be GAY - because MOST guys have had at least SOME same-sex 'experience'!!] But should you DO something about it?! Well... like what?! You certainly can't make it stop. You could - I suppose - threaten him or shame him. But that would just backfire and destroy whatever relationship you have with him. A parent always wants to keep the doors open [Emotionally speaking] and a sure way of closing those 'doors' is to make a child feel ashamed for being HUMAN. IF [and this is a BIG 'IF'] you have a good relationship with your son - and HAVE in past talked openly about things, including [perhaps] sex - you COULD bring up the topic in a 'round-about way. Without actually talking about him [and his friend] specifically [at least not at first] you could mention how normal it IS for kids to 'experiment' sexually with their friend. And let him know that THAT is OK. But also let him know that it's important to be careful about not getting carried away and doing things that maybe he [and his friend] shouldn't BE doing. THEN let him know that your 'door' is always open and he CAN talk to you about anything. AND that anything he tells you will be kept private. [And keep that promise!!] Saying anymore to him at this stage would probably just confuse him. I hope that helps. Craig!! :o)
189088
My boy friend does a great job pleasuring me, so i don't have to do it my self
727250
Sorry dude, boys on boys skin touching each other, holding and grabbing each other....  That's just a little too close for me!!!  Those who watch those guys are ones who come out of the closet later in their lives.
243593
Friends aren't suppose to make you feel uneasy or uncomfortable. Don't get me wrong, guy friends are awesome, but there's a line between being friendly-friends-like to harassing. I've had a number of "guy friends" just like that, and so, I would know what I'm talking about. \n\nYou shouldn't let a guy touch or talk to you in that manner. It's not justified, and should NOT be put up with. Remember when I said I use to know a couple or so guys like that? Well, I told on my school administration... they took care of it discreetly... and I was never bothered again.\n\nGood luck! Hope it works out for you! :D
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well guy guess what???? doing the dirty deed is not that at all, dirty... Like most everyone here says, you are normal and don't worry , do it and do it often...if it helps you relax, and it feels good too, go for it...here is to you and your friend, the one with out the brain...lololol....
38093
A girl's intuition is rarely ever wrong! If you think this boy just likes you for sex and if you're not interested in that, don't be afraid to let him know that upfront. As for his brother touching you, if you don't want him to, then next time he tries, make a scene, slap him...he has no right to touch you unless you want him too. If it's at school, then report him. It's better to have a reputation that you're a tattle-tale than a school s**t and that's what the other kids who heard the rumor is probably thinking about you.
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no there is nothing wrong with that ....  not sure how old u are.... but do not be pressured into something u do not want ...and be proud!!!!
597375
did you loose the urge after children?\nthis happens some times...\n\nbut you know what feels good when you touch yourself so i think you need to tell him, and he needs to tell you what to do so you can acheive pleasure together.
113411
No, its very normal.Everyone of us is having comfort zone.The range of which is directly propotional to the extent of intimacy. For example you may not mind your brother standing closer to you but would definitely feel uncomfortable if it had been your bro's friend.\n\nDon't worry cheer up!! Try to avoid these negative thoughts,you are perfectly alright deer.
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not to make the father out to sound bad but i would be a little worried as well. check the child for signs of abuse. make sure they know that it's okay to tell you anything even if you have to make up a little game to play (i.e. get them to tell a toy what they do on the weekend with daddy). like i said i don't want to make an innocent man sound bad but they arent' always innocent. if my child behaved that way i would not let them see the father again until i knew for damn sure why. check it out.
1077196
Sometimes we boys need to hang out with the boys.\n\nYou shouldn't feel hurt.
177757
Wow I am going to guess that you are under 30. Alright check it out your girl has a man do you hug on him all the time if you answered no the out of respect she should not be on your man like that if she want to hug someone tell her to holla at your boy..... watch your back or you might be on the outside looking in you know what I mean......
109903
Yeah, "inappropriate laughter" is often listed as a symptom of autism; I'd say that what your son experiences would count as inappropriate.
75426
No way should you do this.  You two are a family with a child.  There is no reason to bring a 3rd person into your sex life.
618454
Your son may be resentful if you sever his relationship with his friend (yes even at 6). However, he is old enough to learn values, like materialism is not the greatest "ism" and all that. You know, some people really don't care about the kind of car they drive because other things are more important. A kid can understand that. He may draw his own conclusion with that information and realize this little girl is icky. Good luck. And I mean that sincerely.
405893
I have a friend with a son named Aidan.
573364
Or** for both parties is a great idea, massages, rubbing each other all over, kissing alot, let him lick your upstairs... i hope your old enough to be reading this... if your under 18 (or the legal age of consent) then you need to just not be doing it