needs some advice from friendley women only plzz?
953079
I know how hard it is getting pg when you have irregular periods anyway.  Of course your spotting does sound like possible implantation bleeding, and being sick does coincide with morning sickness.  But if you're periods are irregular anyway, just go get a pregancy test.  And  no matter what the brand names say, those tests at the dollar store......work just as well.  Let us know how you come out!!!  Good luck!! :))
741643
INSTEAD OF TELLING HER TO LEAVE YOU ALNE, WHY DONT YOU TRY TO BECOME HER FRIEND? SHE MIGHT NEED ONE. JUST LIKE YOU NEEED SOME ONE TO GIVE YOU THIS ADVICE.
650409
I have learned straight forward honesty is the best thing in a situation such as this. That way there won't be any misconceptions in what you are telling her. It may shock or even hurt her feelings, but if you don't care to be friends let her know. Good luck.\n\nEagleman
145439
Dont answer the phone. And always be busy get out there and find stuff to do even if it just walking or driving around get out and enjoy yourself, get to know yourself and what you want. For goodness sakes girl you are a grown woman with a mind expand it.
818025
This stuff happens from time to time - try not to take it too personally.  You'll find that friends and come and go throughout your entire life time.  Be kind and be there for her... she'll be back.
225741
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
992454
Her desire to continue being your friend may be her way of keeping her options open.  Be honest with her.  Tell her you're still in love with her and you aren't able to be JUST a friend to her because it hurts too much!  Break it off, forever, and begin dating immedialy.  You know the story....If you love something set it free, if it comes back... you did alright...
717914
I would continue to be friends. Intercourse can wait, besides you both are too young and inexperienced. There is so much more to intercourse besides the physical act. In order to preserve her flower I advise you to wait and allow things to happen naturally. Please do not force the issue!
500803
DRAMA CENTRAL! for starters you know your man the best, you need to be honest & ask yourself is he genuine!!?! I dont quite understand why they play around but if the word is she is not trusworthy then you deserve better friends! There was no reason why this could not be resolved at once why go around telling every1 except you. \nHIT the back????????plssssss! your man should not have done that PERIOD! ,dont matter if ur les friend got the wrong idea or not but the intentions were not in respect for you.\nIf i was you i think twice about what i need from this man & what role can he play in your life for the future.
555879
Doc Carolina here!\n\nLook here son, Friends right? stay her friend okay?? As for the outlook of you, forget it about it! Maybe she like being around is something not on the outside but what is on the inside. Good luck man!!
176437
dude, you're stuck in "just friend" land. Quit being such a nice guy.  Be a little obnoxious, and make sure that a girl knows you only want her for her body.\n\nchicks will call that sexist, but 80% of them respond to it anyway.
352039
Tell her you didnt mean to make things weird, and that you would rather be her friend than not be in her lfe at all. But dont be all sissy and romantic about it. Trust me.
827768
She obviously already dissed you.  What you already know is enough to come to that conclusion.  From now on, do not regard her as close of a friend as you had thought or hoped.  Try talking and hanging with some other people, than just this group.  Also, look around for some other young hotties to set your eyes and energy on.  Give this friendship some space.  If it is a truly a good friendship it will still be there.  But, don't ask.  Let it be.  Do your own thing for a little bit.  I would not ask her anything because she knows your feelings for him.  If she needs to share with you something in regards with them then that is her job to come to you. She needs to be responsible for getting that out on the table with you.  Just be like whatever. If she cares about you and is close as you say, she will know to say something to you.
884399
Be honest...but a lttle white lie here and there is ok. I recommend: "Because I care about you so much I don't want to lead you on. You are a great person...and you have been so good to me. Right now...I need a friend...more than anything else. The feelings that I once had for you will always be in my heart. Right now I do not want to be in a relationship...I still really care about you...and I hope you will remain my friend." Now of course you should use your own words and express the way you feel in your heart. Make sure you use your judgement, your heart, and your feelings. I wish you the best of luck
959246
Give it one more try Ali...it sounds like she is stringing you along or setting you up as a back up plan.  If she responds the same, then just agree, "good idea, lets just be friends" smile and walk away.
628381
be honest if shes your freind you should be able to tell them these things also tell her you would expect her to do the same and if you hadnt of said you were worried youd fall out and you didnt want that to happen . good luck .
845239
You need to have a talk with him, but: 1. Don't get all spaced out.  2. It helps to think of it as no different then having a women grab and touch you, and you not want it.   3.Think of it this way take a deep breath and go for it.  If he wants your friendship he will stop, if not, move on.