GUYS...please help me?
970273
personally i dont like it when girls ask guys out so i would just tell you to drop hints about your feelings and try to get close to him and tell him nice things
853869
Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
12238
Wait a couple of days.  Call him back and tell him  that you totally freaked out and didn't know what to do.  just be honest with him.  guys don't like drama, and stuff like that.  just be up front with him.  I was up front about a guy and we have been together for almost 10 years.  So just wait a couple of days, then call and talk to him.  i mean what is the worse that he can say right?  Good Luck and go get em.
296941
hmmm, well, make sure he knows u still do like him!!!  tell him that, us guys aren't very good at picking up the so called "signals" very well.As long as he is a decent guy, hey wont , WONT break up with you, and if he does, hes an A-hole, who doesn't like u, and is using u for ur body
966418
I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
1144263
Wear a sexy, but classy outfit, and flirt with another guy- right in front of him. If he is jealous, keep rubbing it in until he makes the move. If he does not care, then, well, move on and good luck. Trust me.
490133
Just be honest. And learn to let go if he doesnt respond. Being cool or being sexy doesnt help holding on to a man, you can just have one for some time. Honesty sure works.
597945
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
857897
myb u should find other guy.if he really likes you i dont think he will do this.so,dont waste your time thinking of this jerk.good luck!
409304
Ask him to help you with something. Guys like helping girls, it makes them feel wanted. Do not play to helpless tho, in the long run this can make you unattractive to him. From here you can find opportunities to be alone with him and just let things happen naturally. If he really does have feelings for you it will work out, just have patients and be his friend first.
300820
He REJECTED you. Well honey, that's his lose NOT yours. Move on as I know you can get a better guy. Hell, there is probably a line of guys waiting outside your door right now. Look, go see.
732687
ONLINE? If this is your only option then ask him a question and poke fun at him about his answer. This requires some wit. Be funny not mean. Guys like to laugh and if you make him feel insecure, he will defend himself....Its a way of flirting if you do it right
219826
Just ask him.  Us guys would really appreciate if women took it upon themselves to ask us.  I'll bet he'll be appreciative and go out with you.  Good luck.
428601
ask him and he'll tell you.\nguys are way easier than you girls think.
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
216790
Just ask him and be confident in yourself. Don't say you don't look good. Have faith in you because nobody else will. If he isn't interested its not the end of the world, trust me. I've been turned down myself and it didnt kill me. It might hurt for a while, but you'll move on. So cheer up and just be straight up with him about how you feel and see where his mind is.
443410
Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now