Should I give up on love?
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Dear Silver465,  Never give up on love, when you least expect it, it can creep up on you and bite you on the butt before you realize it.\nYou will find love, I don't know where you live, but there are nice girls all around.\nIf you are a church goer, try going to the single get-togethers. \nI don't recommend on-line dating, but that is up to you.  Do you have any single guy friends that may be able to hook you up with someone???  \n\nGood luck, sweetheart, and I hope that you find someone SOON, God bless you,\n                                                                                                Juanita
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I have found my true love and if it meant I would have to give up 10 years of my life to keep it i would. 1 more day with my true love is worth giving up a decade without her. She is the light of my life and the soul to my being.
214523
I think its easy to say leave him for anybody but i am sure how difficult o it is for you may be it is just nxt to impossible for you but you should not give him another chance becuase if he ever loved you than he have not done thid but he have already done this which means there is no guarantee that in future he will only be yours. I am sure you really love him, i would not advise just find somebody else and go ahead in life becuase than what happens you will be with one physically however your mind, feelings, heart and soul wil be with that person only and than you will be cheating someone and the phase which you are going through somebody will also go theough from that becuase of you so dont put your's and somebody elses life in jeopardy. i would say simply end the relationship without any grugdes and fights or arguments as there is no point to keep on going with that relationship where trust factor does not exist and go with the flow of life and i am sure there would be someone who willlove you more than you do ryt nw. so things and ppl will come to u automatically and i am sure u will accept them as well. GO alone , be string and tomorrow if there is a nice guy in your life and you feel that he cares for u and love u accept the love. you should love whom you want to love but you should accept the love of that person who loves you and most imp take that decision which you would like to take other wise in future you will regret that becuase of somebody else you had decided to do this. So wahtever you heart says do that however pls listen to your brain and than take decision, and any point of time if you would like to speak to me you can email me on my id find_aaeena@yahoo.com. so its not a matter of your love life its a matter of your complete life and also for the life of ppl who are associated with u....i m sure u r getting what i m trying to say. Take care.
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A wise man once said, "Love is not a feeling it is a commitment." Are you willing to commit to this person for the rest of your life? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work? Are you willing to face every possible obstacle that life WILL put in your path?\n\nIf your answer is YES... then you have true love
260315
No. move on you may find someone you really love and that really loves you!! Someone may be waiting for you to move on.
106361
only you can say when enough is enough because it really depends on the kind of guy you're with... you should give up on love if: \n- you feel like he's only using you to get what he wants\n- he seems distant & cold & won't talk about it no matter how hard you're reaching out.\n- he's draining you emotionally, financially, physically & socially.\n\nit must not be love if:\n- you can't talk about anything \n- you resolve conflicts by kissing, making out or having sex only\n- you argue about everything & can't compromise\n- you're cheating
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I think u should move on...is better for u...\nIf you are single or going throught a break up and you are looking and need someone, please visit my site, join free and start dating:\nhttp://tinyurl.com/ykj7bm
397606
You mean you want to kill your feelings for her, correct? If you truly do love her then you have to decide what is best for her. And that, unfortunately might not be what is best for you. But that is ultimately what love is about...what we sacrifice for our loved ones. Do the right thing. I'm sad to tell you that you probably won't stop loving her but at least you know you have done the most LOVING thing you could for her.  Good luck
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No. You shouldn't have to give up all these things just to be with someone. There should be compromise in a relationship. If it is all one-sided- you giving up everything then it is going to leave you with always giving everything and the other person not giving anything or not enough. \n\nYou have needs to and the right person for you will want to give just as much as you do and won't have to give up these things.
520308
At least try.. dont give up anyways.. not every person courting a gurl gets a "YES"! =) and who knows? sometimes, it even may not seem like a yes , but it is?Ü
937679
Nope. Life goes on. New loves will come into your life :)
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not as sad as being 33 and having been in love once...got your heart broke in so many pieces, only to feel you cant pick up the pieces anymore.  and you give up on love...it was only a dream, a beautiful dream that I couldnt be a part of.\n\nso honey, dont settle, coz perhaps like me, you'll only get one chance, so make it worth it.
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Don't give up...cause once you find it the joy and pleasure of being in love is far stronger than the pain you feel right now.  Just take a break and try again.\n\nGood Luck and God speed.
56004
I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
510752
Off and on relationships are confusing because you want to get back together again but at the same time you're tired of the person you're with. It's been my experience that if it fails once it will fail twice, 3 times, 4 times, etc. I don't believe it's worth spending time on. One chance is all I give people now. If it doesn't work out, I move on. People like to think that they change or things will work out but it's just not that way. Move on, it will suck at first especially since you're use to having him around. In the end though you will feel better about the whole situation.
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Your first love will always be with you.....But you moving to bigger and better things is best.  If you are feeling negativity, than it's time to move on.  That hesitation in your relationship is the little voice in your head telling you it's over and to turn it into a positive (find someone who will truly make you happy!)