my girlfriend stopped talking to her friends......now she is miserable? HELP?
953145
This is NOT good. Your girlfriend needs her friends. Very badly. But its better to be late than never. Remind her that she doesn't have to be with you constantly in order for your relationship to stay strong. Try to help her rekindle her old friendships by encouraging her to go up and talk to them. Although you are very important to her, having other friends is also very important.
900351
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.
576449
omg i have this problem too, i hate it also, wer're getting beter right now, cuz, i haven't seen her for a little bit. So see if you can say at a friends house for a night, or weekend, and chill w/ friends after school. Try to limit your time with her for about a week, that's what i did, and we're ok now  good luck
966868
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
1031228
what you need to do is tell her that there not your type of friends but make it clear that she can still see them without you, explain that you love her and that her friends cant see that ,so its best to keep your relashionship seprate from her friends. make time to be alone together and enjoy her company. DONT try to tell her to dump her friends, she may dump you.
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
652287
a girl friend of yours is not talking to u that means u must have done something really annoying.anyways,u should just go and apologize in a polite voice, make her assured that u won't ever do that again,and u won't ever hurt her again.even if she does not listen just pay no heed to her,after all she is a girl she will feel sorry 4 what she did to u and will come back to u.
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
571068
Don't just let her go.  That is not the right solution.  It is also not right to ground her for life.  I would try to talk to her and ask her what's going on in her life.  Try to be a good listener.  Maybe she's acting out and trying to get all sorts of attention from guys because she feels ignored.  Maybe plan a day where you can just do things together (and let her choose what you do).
629162
You should talk to her about it. Keep in mind that it is important to keep in touch with other friends and have activities outside a relationship. Otherwise you get sick of eachother quick. But if she's spending NO time with you, then yeah. talk to her about it
754047
Unless your friend is going through a really bad time at the moment it sounds like she is not a very good friend.\n\nThe crux of the matter is \na) do you treat anyone you consider a friend like this?  If you don't why tolorate it from someone else.\n\nb)  IF you stopped calling you wouldn't have a friendship.\n\nSpend the time you spend on her making some proper friends who will make an effort, call you back and show that they value you in their lives.
745253
aigghtt man u need to relax i was in ur shoes before and i was asking the very same question a few months ago\n\nif she doesnt want to talk that s fine\njust either email or text\njust saying  "hi"  act like u have move on\n(u r probably saying no i dont want to do that) well let me ask u everything that u have done till this day has it work,  NO, all ur caring has it gotten u closer  NO, because right now she doesnt want it,  she is fill with negative feeling and in order to rid of these feelings u need to stop pressuring her into a relationship\njust simply be cool  act like u r enjoying ur space\nand that everything is good around u \n\nbelieve me it will work and continue being ur self but dont pressure her soon she will allow those walls to drop\nbut do not once again pressure her or try to convince her to be with u
906590
I would tell her that you find that you do not have time or energy anymore to babysit for her. You must be up front with her and tell her that you have had enough of her "oh woe is me" routine as it has begun to stress you out. As we learn more about people we find that they are just not who we want as friends and we move on. Time for you to move on away from her drama. Good luck to you... I suggest you unplug your phone after you tell her for abit.
1019813
This is definitely not a healthy situation. You need to try and take a break. It is obvious that she has an amazing control over your emotions. True relationships are ones in which both parties can be strong without each other. Although your life feels incomplete without her if it were meant to be so many problems would no be going on.
682511
If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.
980872
Hi you right it's not worth fighting over. Maybe she just feels like she can't talk to you about certain things that are happening in her life right now. I wouldn't worry to much about it. People sometimes find that it is easier to confide in strangers. That way no one will be able to judge her.
942230
Have you communicated to her that when she says these things they make you feel bad. She may not realize talking about her fun weekend with another friend was hurting you when she hought she was just making conversation. The fact that she says "you weren't important enough" really hurts! It hurts me to hear that someone you consider a friend would say that to you! It sounds like she is being really immature with her emotions, especially for soemone who is old enough to be married. You can serve as a good example by communicating with her in the way you would like to be communicated with, even to the point of being straight forward and saying, I wish you would say something to me when you are angry with me instead of withdrawing. I want this friendship to work. Try to talk to her in a way that isn't accusatory like "You do this" but talk in a "You make me feeel [blank] when you withdraw.. " or incorporate "We" into your conversation like "I feel we need to work on communicating with eachother better, I care about you and I want to work out whatever is bothering you" If she doesn't change and retains her mature attitude, I would find someone else who respects you enough to be upfront with you. When I read this, it sounded llike a "friend" I have right now who posts her thoughts on an online journal instead of telling me upfront in an appropriate time and place. I tried talking to her a while ago but she hasn't changed and I find that she just makes me more upset than happy and I am trying to find a safe and respectable way out.