i truely need a COUNSELLING THERAPY... Any site you could help me out with???
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I know of only one free counseling site, on blogsource, I think it's "Christian Counselor". \n\nYou are able to get out, maybe you just haven't figured out that you CAN.  You are an adult and can make your own choices to leave or stay. \n\nProtect yourself, be smart, get help and if necessary call the police for help to escort you out of a place that is dangerous.
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I feel for you,  you sound like you are going through a terrible deppresion.   Im glad you are seeing a counsellor.  hope you continue too.   I think you need a prescription from your doctor though to help you through this.  It is so sad all the trama you have been through in such a short time.   I am not preaching but I will definetly say a prayer for you I think you might need help from every angle.   Do you have a spouse or family to talk to?\nCrying is normal but not continuous and sleeping that much is not good for you either.  You are going to have to try very hard to face this and hold yourself up and believe you can do it!\nI have had times like this and you need to get interested in something even if it is on the computer you might be able to reach out to someone else.   Please try to discourage the suicide thoughts I know it is hard but there are people who need you somewhere and that is very final.  I want nothing but the best for you so please keep in touch and let me know how you are making it through your days.       \nLife is Beautiful hon.   keep your head up and spirits higher.
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I've so been there.  A treatment center would definately be a good idea.  It would take you out of your usual environs, maybe get you sorted out with some medication, and be constantly monitored.  Ultimately, though, its up to you.  You need to decide to love yourself, and know that you deserve to be happy!
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dude i have the same problem and share your pain. i use to cut myself, but then it seemed so stupid so please dont do that.what really works for me is talking about my problems with my mom,sister,cousin or a really trustful friend, because they dont judge me based on what i say,do or feel.they will try to help you out as much as they can and understand what youre going through and give you advice. you dont need therapy to figure out whats wrong and waste all that $$ when you can talk to someone at home for free :)\nmusic=escape from reality
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I'm not sure this is what you want but it may be a good place to start. Try the links below.  If this does not help, please feel free to contact me. I will help you search for more places to feel safe and get the help you need.  Click my ID to learn how to contact me.\n\nI am sorry that you or someone you know was put throught that.  I sincerely hope that you find peace in your life.\n\nTerry
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hey , since you're a cool smarty girl you probably already no there is no shame in asking for and accepting help from outside resources when your fam can't quite cut it... my family was (i guess you could say) kinda poor too...definitely couldn't afford a therapist on our own, but anyways, everybody is right, express a need at your school and they will likely assign you a caseworker and a therapist (i even had something called a rap worker, rap was some sort of acronym)whatever... i'm just proud of you for being so young and openminded enough to consider therapy!!good luck to you!!! my thoughts and well wishes are with you!\np.s. \nsome peops will look at your choice as a weakness but as i mentioned earlier, you sound too smart to buy into that crapola...it takes strength to embark on the journey you are about to take, as you will soon find... inner strength that many people spend their whole lives in search of!!
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Juvenile Services for Therapy!!! They have programs and psychologists that can help. \n\nLocal Mental Health Clinic. Therapy there also. \n\nTough Love!!! My(YOUR) way, or the highway!!!
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I think therapy might really help in your situation. If nothing else see if the local Catholic church can help.
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There are some good self help books out there.  And if that is not your cup of tea then I would suggest speaking to a counselor, they can usually help in that area.   That is not a shrink but someone there more as a life coach, should be in your local phone book.
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Gosh I feel bad for you...sounds like a hardcore case of depression.  It's so easy for other people to just tell you to seek therapy, isn't it?  I have lifelong bipolar disorder, so I know how it feels to have been down in the depths of depression...thankfully for me, I eventually snap out of it and go into "happy" mode.  In my experience, talking to a therapist has not helped.  They ask me a million questions, write them all down and make me feel like a science project, give me a prescription, and send me on my way -- all for $175 for a 30 minute appointment.  I have found that when there is a constant vague feeling of depression for seemingly no reason, it is because I have suppressed that reason.  Identify the sources of your unhappiness.  For me, I finally realized that it was about three different instances in my past that had changed my mindset or my innocence in some way -- made me jaded to the world.  I'm still working on it, but I'm hoping to confront and forgive or be forgiven by the people involved.  And yeah, I've had my heart broken and I still have feelings years later, so it's perfectly normal.  If you have self-esteem issues, work on something that you enjoy and that you are good at -- don't worry if you fail at first, practice makes perfect.  Help others or be a friend.  It's almost impossible to feel low about yourself if you know you are good at something or worth something to someone.  If your self-esteem is in the dumps because you are worried about what people think of you, then don't be.  Look at people who are stupid and unattractive and have confidence -- if they have it, then why shouldn't you?  Basically, you need to recognize meaning in your life.  It's already there, you just need to find it.  All right, enough Dr. Phil crap from me.  Good luck and bless you.
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You should find some adult who is unconnected to your family, School counselor, head teacher, ....\n\nTell them exactly what is going on and ask them to help refer you to the proper agency in your area who can deal with this.\n\nTake action now, or you face being traumatised to the point of lifelong discontentment.  Take action now and take pride in the fact that you had the courage to stand up for your rights.  Take action now and recognise the depth of emotional resilience and strength you have.\n\nDo you see where I'm going with this?\n\nTAKE ACTION NOW - TALK TO SOMEONE
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This is the wrong place...\n\nI honestly believe you need counselling.\nPlease seek professional help before you get hurt...\nYou life is going to depend on this, so please don't think about the cost.
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What do you want us to care about?  If you need help, you're not wasting your time. \n\nOne of the sites below can get you in touch with someone qualified to help you.  I've been there before.  It really helps.
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counseling helps, but there is no cure. will power and support from family is what you need. or a friend for that matter. some of us can relate to you more than others. find someone to talk to sweetie.
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Counseling is the only thing I can suggest.  That's some pretty heavy baggage and I don't think you are going to find the answers on here.
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try churches or a good Therapist
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Call your local Crisis Line and ask them.They will talk to you and suggest various ways to help.Sometimes they will send(with your permission)a counselor to your home to evaluate your problem