Anyone on here done with men for good and won't date again?
964222
Maybe u just dated the wrong types of guys and couldnt see their true selves.  If u are as "hot" as u say u are then u will mostly attract the types of men tht want to use u.  I am sry u feel tht way about most men cause in all honesty most of us arent tht bad.
947448
I was that way with my EX husband. It finally got to the point that I hated to even kiss him. I lost respect for him for a lot of reasons. I believe that is why I lost my attraction for him.\nI am happily married now to a man that I am very attracted to.
1058335
After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
681884
got married ! thought the guy was nice . i didnt listen to his ex who told me he was a homo . thought she was just being nasty . found out on my own he had probably been with more men than i have .\nneedless to say he is now my ex.
240407
What i did, was take time out from dating, to get to really know myself, what i really want, how I will get it, what I want from the man & the relationship, til you do all that & more you will find & go with the same kinda guy you were married to, because that's what your used to & comfortable with. I went 9 yrs & didn't date, it was time enough for me, you may not need that amt of time, my marriage was very abusive, so I had to know in my heart I truely had put down the old baggage & was ready to trust again, I also knew I wasn't gonna do everything to keep the man happy, I wanted happiness too, hope this helps
934018
If I feel like I'm seeking someone and there aren't any choices that may be good enough, then there isn't any choice to be attached. I haven't met any guys recently whom I was very attracted to. It was like I was looking for something I knew it was not gonna be there, because that's what they are and they can't be changed. So, I wouldn't want to settle for less if they didn't seem good enough for me.
382487
There are many good women still left and I am sure they are asking the same question you are about men :o)  I think in life people that have been through relationships are either more shy about giving too much or just scared of getting hurt.  I was just talking to a friend about this subject today and some people are not comfortable being alone and not really ready to be with someone, which can be perceived as being closed....who knows but I do believe everyone has a someone!!  Good Luck and I hope you find what you are looking for soon....
437006
Yes there good men out there!! Just keep being yourself and Mr. Rigth will find u. Enjoy yourself but be safe finding him!!!
529535
I don't do that.  I've been there done that.  I only want to be with someone who will go out of their way for me.  Someone who will treat me like a lady.  Someone I know I can depend on and trust.  "If you treat me like a queen I will treat you like a king."  Not you personally, but that's one of my sayings.  There is nothing worse then being in a relationship with no trust and they treat you bad.  I'm better then that and I will not settle for less.  When I was young I dated jerks, but now that I'm older I want a gentleman.  It comes with age.
566123
Never had one!  I have only dated 1 man in my life!!! He asked me out on a date when I was 25.( I had never been on a date before) and we had a great time! We have been together as a couple for almost 8 years and been married for 5 years. And I was a virgin when we got married! I was 28.
755002
Yes - unfortunately, I have.\n\nI tend to get obsessed with women I can't have and I can't figure out how to back out of the situation gracefully. Unfortunately, this means that I end up getting embarrassed, and getting my feelings hurt.
917462
i kicked my ex out after taking to much of his controlling ways, lies and unreasonable behaviour in hope he would realise his mistakes, he acted differently for a few weeks, i took him back to discover one week after the split he jumped in bed with a nasty druggie who lived on the next street for two weeks +. we stayed together after that for almost a year but things were never the same, i wasn't turned on by him anymore as i saw him as 'dirty' which made me feel unclean. we have now permanently broke up and i can't wait to get a nice healthy sex life back on track with next man!
392639
First i broke my cycle of abusers, I have been married to a wonderful man of 5 years whom has never laid a hand on me or cheated on me, doesnt go out with frieds without me we are always together....but when i was younger and stupid i dated abusers and cheaters. A good guy back then was too nice, up my bum, and tried to hard.  After several tries and hurts, a friend of mine made me write a list of qualities in a husband and father that i would want in the future.  and i went by that list and found my husband thank god. and the guys that are that way do something to girls... they make them feel like they are nothing and no one else would ever want them. That is why women stay and why women are attracted most of the time to other guys who will treat them like that to.
1009650
i can totally relate. i am the only single girl in a group of 10 girlfriends-they're all in long-term relationships and getting married. i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years, and in the past i've had my share of no-so-great men. but i'm happier alone than unhappy. we just have to realize that we are still young-we still have lots ahead of us and we will find that 4% of good men in this world to be good company with:)\n\nps i look at half of the relationships my girlfriends have and i'd rather cut off my foot than be in some of their positions, anyway. some are stuck with emotionally abusive/selfish men, selfish lovers, drinkers, or just herpes and scared to move onto another relationship because of fear of rejection (woo hoo! yeah, i'm sure your man isn't cheating, the disease just showed up!)... you name it.\n\ni'm sorry about your divorce and about how one man found it appropriate to break it off with you in a pretty cowardly way. i think time for you will wear things off a bit.. hang in there! you know you will end up with someone who is GOOD for you\n\ngod bless
232162
Yes A F Lamb, there definitely are some left. I was wondering the same about men. You know you get sick of hearing "Whats for you wont pass you by" etc but at the end of the day whatever will be will be. I think its harder to meet male/females now because there is sooooo much competition and sooooo many out there looking for the same. Ive been hurt in the past but you know thats life. You'll find her if you dont you can have me :0) Sunny!
490166
I have a history of long-term relationships but lately have had trouble finding someone interested in something long term.  Hard to find a good man sometimes.
767394
Honey. Move on! So many other men out there!