boyfriend problems...?
970009
yeah do the parental control thing
400987
Ask HIM out on a date... and TALK things out with him. at the moment it seems like he doesn't really want to be with you... I'm sorry sweetie! BUT... I know exactly how you feel. i ask my bf out ALOT these days... sorry... it just seems like he's not really ready to be in a relationship right now. Try and find someone else or talk things out if you can... I'm here for ya... keep me updated sweetie! good luck and much love and support! *ashley* \nP.S. WRITE ME BACK!
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
335603
I had the same problem with my present boyfriend.  Instead of trying to constantly get through to him (which can annoy the person after a while), just let him know that you are there for him and that he has no reason to keep his guard up.  This should only be told to him once, and whatever happens after that is up to him.  Though it may take a while for him to accept it and open up, it may work.
448868
I personally think that he is a J-E-R-K! I totally agree with you and I think that you should talk to him about it and ask him why is he not calling, emailing (etc) you at all. I'm not saying straight-up break up with him but he needs to show that he actually loves you. If I saw him, I would tell him to be your boyfriend and not to just think he can coast along enjoying the benefits and not doing the love. I hope you find someone who will treat you like a queen and not a servant. -Cody
676771
Yes, make this move: Find a NEW boyfriend.\n\nDo you think you would treat him the way he treats you??? He is playing you. Forget about him and do something good for you, and this time choose a MAN not a child.
1146391
I believe this "boyfriend" is a looser and you should dump him.  He sounds quite selfish and immature.
868119
I would just move on because it sounds like he's not ready to be anyone's boyfriend.  You can do better...I have been where you are.  All you need to do is believe that you are worth more than that and don't worry about him.  He's immature and that's about it.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
119209
Time will heal all wounds.  He is hurt right now.  He needs time.  Yes, it is wrong of him to ignore you, but that is his way of dealing with the issue.  Its not a good way, but its his way. It could also hurt your relationship now, with your new boyfriend, if you let it get in the way.  It is a friend of yours though, and you may need to let your boyfriend know that.  Anyone respecting boyfriend will understand.  Obviously you care, or it wouldn't be bothering you.  A true friend will come back to you.  If he is a true friend he'll be back, if not than he won't.  If you were honest with him than, you shouldn't have to take any abuse.  He may not understand what he is doing to you right now.  Understand his situation also, your not the only one who is hurting right now.  Give him some time.  Time will tell.
316759
Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
1149028
Treat your boyfriend as you would want yourself treated.\n\nThat is, if your boyfriend were in the predicament you were, what would you want your boyfriend to decide?  Would you like him to do what you are thinking about doing?\n\nMy guess is that he would not want you to do what you're thinking about doing.\n\nNow, if you break up with your boyfriend, that is another story as you will no longer be in a romantic relationship and do not need to consider his feelings when you are making romantic choices.\n\nOn the surface, having sex with your friend to me sounds like a very bad idea at this point in time.  If you break up with your boyfriend, I might have a different opinion.\n\nOverall, respect your boyfriend's feelings while you are in a relationship with him.
753937
How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!
458949
If your boyfriend says he loves you and not her, then you have nothing to worry about.  However, HE should be the one to tell her to leave him alone.  If that doesn't work, step in and let her know you won't stand for her drama.  Kick ass if necessary.
904269
seriously? i know, you know what you should do...but alright...i'll push you some more..\n\nyou have to break it with him otherwise your relationship will all be based on lies which is not good...one of the many purpose of having a boyfriend is to make you happy and not to make you miserable!...so think about it..
478441
TELL HIM TO CHILL OUT. IF YOU WANTED A BODYGAURD IT WOULDN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND.
156312
you need to have a heart to heart talk with him. dont critize him but tell him what the problem is. tell him that you want to stay together and work it out. lay down some grounds that you wont cross to get him upset and tell him your boundaries. you got to tell him what you want out of this relationship.