guy freind, serious help!!?
958819
You should have known it was bound to happen. Don't be jealous! Do you have a boyfriend?, because if you did, you would know what he is doing. He probably really likes this girl and wants to spend all his time with her. You chose the roll of best friend, so now you have to act like one. Just know, that when they break up, he will run to you. Best friends don't have to spend every minute together, or talk to each other everyday! Don’t act clingy like a girlfriend, just be there for him. If you get all possessive over him, he’s not going to want to hang around you anymore. He needs you as a friend, not a girlfriend.
471522
have respect for your friend and look elsewhere.  a guy isn't worth losing a good friendship over.
428484
Be honest.  That is the best way.  Tell him that you would like to talk to him about something that is serious and you think it is important that he should know.  If he is truly a friend he will stand by you two breasts or one.
666599
He is obviously not matured enough to continue this friendshi. Don't hold on to him. Just let go that baby. If you are interested in another guy don't keep yourself busy with thoughts about the old one.
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
229640
guy #2 obviously doesnt like you so move on. and keep guy#1 as your friend!! friends are important, maybe more important than a relationship!
485355
Being friends w/ someone you really cared about is very hard for guys , I dunno about females. Im talking loved, im not talking a one night stand fling... If these guys are people that were really special at one time , you just have to understand where they are coming from and they need to respect you as well w/ your choices.. Now if they were flings.. lol then you have a real problem
200248
Well if this guys likes you a lot, it's tough. There's no easy way to go about it, but the best thing is to be honest and let him know how you feel about him. If you tell him he probably wont want to be your friend because he'll be hurt so don't expect him to be cool about it. Just be honest and if you'll be friends it'll be up to him if he can accept you as such.
502526
The thing is don't be shy!!Just go up to him and say hi!!Pretty soon y'all could become friends and then more than friends!!
135028
ask him how he feels about it. if he wants to, go for it! but if not then just keep being friends~\nJessi
1089080
just ask him...believe me...i've had many guy friends and they all agree on one thing the girls they like the most are the ones that are upfront and honest with their feelings... and that's always the method i chose. And never lost any friendships over it...although i have to say, it may not have been the response i wanted...we still remained good friends, if not better. (and just to keep things clear, when i say friend, i don't mean with benefits...just good cry on the shoulder, tell all your secrets to type)
510011
Just continue being friends with him and show that you care. He has to be able to figure out that you like him if you keep this up. Otherwise, this guy might be really clueless.
200762
Talk to him.  But if your friend likes him, then leave him alone.  Life is too short to chase after a guy who don't want you.  If he is not interested, then move on.
483669
If your friend means more to you than this guy, I would forget about him. There is always another guy , but good friends are hard to find.
1051429
I think you should figure that out first. Do you or do you not? Cuz if you're in the so-so, iffy, maybe and you tell him that you do....well thats putting the both of you in a very awkward and deceiving situation.  And if it's a lot of work to decide...maybe you don't.  But then it could be in a developing stage....I dunno. Wait a bit more.And when he comes back, keep being his friend. Talk some more.  Much luck to you!
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
444470
well michael, freinds are like diamond, they are really expensive but if broke, it worths nothing......so be careful in making friend.....now you say he's bad and all that..so what did you saw in him, in the first place? just say to him what you feel about him....in a good manner....if he doesn't respond properly then start ignoring him and look busy to him.....soon he'll be  off wiht another............do you get it?