my mom left me for another man?
959181
you have all the right to be mean to her your dad was being faithfull and she was not see i have a dad too and he does the same Syte as your mom so i left my dad and came to my mom and now my mom and dad are Broken up so Yeah you have every right to be A asshole to her Hope it Helps
346003
hmm... she sounds a bit nuts. you certainly aren't the crazy one!! maybe now though, that she has 3 names to pick from, she likes yours best. \n\nshe might be doing it to spite the other guy. or maybe of the two husbands he has had, she sees you as being better and maybe wants you back, (at the moment, i'm sure not deep down. certainly do not go back to her!!).
96026
Try having a conversation with (and yes i am serious) Mom. Just talk to her and find out why she calls him all the time, don't be rude or ugly, just talk to her and find out more about their relationship and what his childhood was like. Could be that there are some reasons for her overinvolvement and maybe she is just as anxious to help him become less dependent on her too. If nothing else you might be able to get to know her well enough to ask her as politely as you can to relax a little. You might learn that maybe Mom isn't the clinger  and the guy is and the two of you can work on him together, and if she likes you and thinks you respect her enough to come to her with your issue instead of running to him and complaining you will earn her respect and maybe even her blessing. And while that might not matter at all to you I can assure you that it does to him.
891232
I went through this when I was 9. Me and my mom have always been tight but I said, "Mom hey you have to promise not to be mad but at least I am telling you. I got my first boyfriend and I am so happy and I would really like your support!!" My mom was happy for me and supported me in every decision and I wish you the best. Your mom should be happy for you if you are happy with yourself. Good luck I hope you get the Guy.
1079896
Oh darling...I know you are confused.  It sounds like your mom is doing all she can to survive.  You need to understand that your dad is not  "lending" you guy's money!  You are his beautiful children and deserve the most precious things that this life offers!  Try talking to your mom...she may have resources to go to the court and petition for more child support.  Right now you should be proud to work on your grade point average at school and have a social life with your friends.  I can tell your mom wants the best for you, but understand that sometimes when a grownup is going through alot of heartache it's hard for them to see what you're going through.  Hugs!!!
643253
he didnt. your mother did..\n\nnot trying to be sarcasic... but its true
1156935
spell check please! lol your mom is not into you dating? ok # talk to her about that
494630
Your mother is involved in a cult of personality.  I wonder how old you are.  You need to get away from this "man"\nbefore he turns his "purification" on you.  Please tell someone who can help you, like a real church person, or the authorities.
740825
I think that you should ask your mother if you can go on a chaporoned date. Have her come along and meet the guy. She might change her mind on your being able to date.
1097462
You know what? This may hurt, but screw your parents. I've lived an awful life, and I could tell you my life story, but it would go on and on. I'll give you the short version. I have been tossed back and forth between my parents all my life. (they were never married, and never intended to be, I was just a big "accident.") I would go not seeing my mom for 7 years and then not seeing my dad for 4. It's really messed up. I moved in with my mom 4 years ago after not seeing her for the 7 years. I thought that her and I could heal things with time, plus my dad is a really awful person and I wanted to get away from him. Things were ok for a while, and then about a year ago I cam home from school and she was gone. Just gone. I found out that she had moved to another STATE to be with some guy she met on the internet. So now, I have no parents.  I'm going to be honest with you--it IS a hard road, and sometimes you are going to feel like you will never make it to see tomorrow. You just have to have faith in yourself. And guess what? I'm 18 now and I have my own place with the guy of my dreams, and for the first time in my life, I am TRUELY happy. So I wish you luck...reach for the stars and never give in on your dreams. If your parents really love you, then maybe someday in the future they will see past their mistakes...
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you need to leave him love. sorry but i was in the same position as you, but i was the ex. he went away and i knew what he was doin cause he admitted to me he had a baby with someone else, and i had dumped him. however, he kept coming round me BEGGING me to return to him. so you need to be careful bout what he is telling you and what he is telling her. you are worth more than that. dont put up with the insecurities you have over him. he will only make them worse. an in my opinion the last time my mum was wrong about something, was wen i hadnt told her the whold truth. your mum obviously dont like him, and she wants the best for you, even if it dont seem like it sometimes she does. trust. go and bond withyour baby. have a nice summer with no man pisin you off. okay. gudluck.
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no matter what your mom thinks follow your heart. my man left me last yr. i moved me and my daughter into my parents house a month later my man came back. my parents were supportive even tho they didnt think it was a good idea. now everyone is happy with each other. follow your heart! good luck!!
416002
Move on brother, she has found someone else, oh ya, do not attempt to get an explanation out of her because it will never come and you will only end up humiliating yourself.\n\nTime to be a man and suck it up, besides, look at your ages, did you really think it was going to last forever, ha. You will get you heart broken plenty more times in the coming years so learn from this and move on. Peace.
77899
Oh kiddo, I feel for you, but that's something your mom and dad have to work out on their own.  Whether they do get back together or not is no reflection on you and whatever the outcome it'll be all right eventually, promise.
807087
lol thank you heather for all of your concern!! hahaha that is me your talkin about!! but i look at it this way, God doesn't want us to be together and that was a way to get us apart...and plus there are other guys out there and that his parents will adore me! lol!! but ohh well his mom was a boitch any way..
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hi, i am so sorry that you are hurt, but i understand.  hurting your mom is the worst feeling in the world.  the worst.  but the best medicine is free.  don't do any of that writing notes crap, that is really chicken shit.  you hurt her, and you are old enough to own up to your mistakes.  you just march yourself up to her and say mama, i can never tell you how sorry i am, i love you, i need you, and i'm not too proud to say it.  then tell her that you know that your time is coming.  you'll have a mini me someday, and it will come back around.  it's called the circle of life.  lol.  the easiest answers are always the toughest.  god bless
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As I lost my husband to cancer and having adult children, I must tell you that your mother does need you. Your husband will and should understand. No matter what anyone says, to hear that he will be in a better place once the battle is over, will be of no comfort to your mother. It will not lift her burden of taking care of him for all this time either. It's not a burden when you love someone. I'd rather have my husband here. Yes, he's no longer in pain, and yes I'm happy he's not, but when that loss finally happens, you'd rather have him here regardless. \n\nYour mother will not be prepared for the loss when it happens, just as you won't. It's impossible to prepare for that even when you know it's inevitable. I was exhausted from caregiving, I felt alone. You find it hard to talk about your fears to your children, and you find it hard to relay these fears to the person you're taking care of. Your mother needs caregiving too, and she will need you there after your dad loses the battle he's fought so hard in. You will need comfort too, but realize how big of a loss this will be for your mom. You will get that comfort from your husband, but your mom will no longer have her husband to comfort her, she'll need it from you. You don't have to put on a face. Your mother knows it's ripping you apart too. Share that with her, listen to her and reassure her just as she would reassure you. \n\nI feel your pain and your mom's pain. My thoughts are with you.