most guys have that macho attitude and dont want the woman they are with to know they are in love?
962336
well that macho acting guy,is weak, so weak he cant even tell or express his true side, for me i would not love or enjoy being with this pretentious man and just leave him alone, i dont want men always acting like jerks why cant they just be brave and humble and express what they feel so that we both could be happy, i hate it when they are too afraid and hide themselves in this macho mask,,,shame on this men
158865
men dont see the world like women do ,they dont care for emotions much either, its just in their nature to want more
515743
Most men will tell woman its personality and trust and basically they are saying whatever the woman wants to hear to gain her trust, most guys are shallow and only care about physical appearance and how easy a girl is, many times my roomates will bring a girl home and sweet talk her and the next day say how stupid she was and how they can't stand her.\n\nGood thing I'm not like most guys, I value personality, honesty, optimism, and moral values.
836903
Absolutely, Men do feel this same way for the ones they love. The damned thing about it all is that there is no way that we can read each other's minds, you know? \n\nI have spent thousands of minutes and hundreds of hours wondering if my girl was thinking of me and missing me when she was off on trips. Most guys don't like to talk about their feelings and if you badger them they close inward and will even put up a wall. \n\nI have found that this happens mostly when a guy is insecure about sharing his feelings because he believes that being open will be percieved as being weak or unmanly. Rest assured, if you have built up enough value in your relationship then YES! your man is missing you even when you go down the street to get coffee!
433007
sweetheart, it is not that they don't want the good guy first ...sometimes you just can't tell the difference. unfortunately for women, there usually are no flashing lights and ringing bells to let us know that the guy is one of the as..... out there.
1126256
Only strait men do..as long as there breathing they probably are lusting after somebody(whether its somebody real or in there imagination(fantasy))....it depends how obvious they are about it if its something u have to worry about...To me its normal for them to lust but in bad taste not to be a little discreet about doing that.....like not be panting like a dog or anything.Its also one thing to look and be like damn there doable to damn i want to take them home.When your married your aloud to look a little,but not so much that u think the person's gonna cheat on u.My mom's response to that type of deal is this..I might be married but i'm not dead,,so if she can do it why can't guys..its only if there messing around that there's going to be trouble.
401961
Most of guys are about sex then Power then money and if they hace time love, but not all of them so when you see one that is not about all that hold on to him and enjoy him cause those are the ones that realy matter
566125
If you are a guy your emotions are more intense, they wear them out and the effect lasts longer i.e. they don't recover as fast as women. That is why some men stay away from potentially emotional situations. I think we, the women should have respect for that, and sometimes just back off.
452273
It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
934906
To tell you the truth, we have to be, we can't let our true feelings or emotions surface. If we do then were not considered stong, rather, people see a man do this and seem to lose respect for him. It's the world, even you ladies find it bad if we do any thing of the sort. And believe me, when it comes to us gentlemen, we pay the price for it.
401540
Yes there is such a thing. Some people including women don't show there feelings. That doesn't mean that they aren't there, they just don't show them . You know if he cares by the way he treats you. If he is honest and you feel like you can trust him then that's a good sign. Also if he does little things for you without being told that means he thinks about you. That means he cares. If he blows you off or ignores you when you are around, then that probaly means he doesn't care. When people care about you they treat you with respect. Most guys just aren't in to telling you how they feel. If you still aren't sure, then just ask him. You will know by his response how he feels. Good Luck
270044
GUYZ LIKE H**Z BECUZ THEY NOT TRYNA BE IN A LONG RELATIONSHIP AND THEY KNOW THAT H**Z AREN'T LOOKIN 4 ONE EITHER SO THEY LOOK 4 THEM NASTY AZZ H**Z INSTEAD OF THE NICE CLEAN WOMAN THAT AIN'T GOING 2 TAKE S*** FROM NO H** AZZ BOY.
905758
In most cases, yes. However, guys tend to do this among each other. There is a big one-up thing that guys do from time to time.  Guys who are super hot and have it together know it and are known for it without saying a word. Males of most species tend to showboat. To an extent, I think it is a part of their wiring.
871930
He probably would not show it.  Most of us guys have fragile egos and wouldn't risk exposing those deep DEEP down, tucked away feelings, no matter how strong they are and no matter how much it hurts us to keep it in...Yeah, stupid.
263166
No not all men are like that, that would be like saying all women are or do the same.  Take it from a guy, take as long as you need to know them before getting physical, cause if they really like you they will wait.
82868
Men for the most part are telling you the truth about how they feel about you.  What you have to distinguish as a woman is...if he is just trying to get in your pants.  If you have feelings for him trust your gut.  I'm sure he is being completely honest.  Don't forget, men like to hear how you feel about them too!
1099412
It's still the game of perceived leverage(gotta have hand). We don't want to come across as too eager, weak or needy. Not all are like that though hon. However, some men do have maturity and maintain old school values, treating women with respect and not playing games.