Married People Only Please?
964247
For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.
51329
I think no one should be having a 3 some with anyone married unless it is okay with both the married partners. I dont think you should be friends anymore because your not a friend and you just broke that trust and bond that you had.
619803
Not weird at all.  Many people think marriage is an outdated concept, especially with the divorce rate being so high.  We aren't natuarally monogamous creatures...you can live with someone for the rest of your life without being married.
833932
Only if you decide to marry!
452035
I've taken advice plenty of times from people who had knowledge on something I was asking about. Your category is Marriage and Divorce and thats a step you only you can decide on,no one walks in your shoes,we all have stories about relationships but in the end no one can decide for you.
391934
I also think it's disrepectful.  There are some things you don't share with your spouse. I don't think it has anything to do with being uncomfortable or comfortable around your spouse.
442280
Yes. Other people's preferences don't affect my life at all, why would I care who they married?
177817
only same sex or bi-racial couples
180480
That is entirely up to you and your partner! Personally, I am married because my hubby and I just wanted to make that commitment, that we 100% wanted to be with only each other for the rest of our lives. Just because we wanted to be does not give us or anyone else the right to stand in judgement and tell you that you have to. If you want to take that step, then by all means do! It's a beautiful feeling to say those words and know that your partner is saying them back to you. But if you feel in your heart that no vows or license is needed to complete your family, don't let society guilt you into doing it just because it's "the right thing to do". Either way, you are already blessed!
327453
Married with two kids
656508
Y E S!!!!\n\nThere's something called PRIVACY.  Just because you married someone, it doesn't mean you HAVE to share EVERY waking moment.  Sometimes being in the bathroom is the only ME time you can get, especially for a woman, and that can be soothing.\n\nBesides, there's other activities that can remain nameless, that go on in there, so in the meantime, pick up a magazine and just let it be!
144664
Stick to your vows.  It's okay to be attracted to other people but you're married so just don't act on the attraction!
402908
YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT THAT DAY. ITS YOUR WEDDING. I DID IT ON MINE AND NOT ONE PERSON SAID ANYTHING TO ME. IF THEY DO JUST SAY THAT YOU ARE NERVOUS AND TO MIND THIER OWN BUSINESS. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. ME AND MY HUSBAND BOTH DID IT. MAYBE OTHER GUESTS OR MEMBERS WILL JOIN YOU
242239
Think to yourself...Is casual sex with my wife's best friend going to hurt or enhance my marriage? You must hate your wife to even consider doing something that would cause her nothing but heart-ache and embarrassment
260166
when you are married.
1021113
I don't think you have to lay out every single secret that comes down the pike.  Some things you shouldn't have to share with anyone else. Generally, if it's important to the marriage, then go ahead and share it with your spouse.  But above all be sure there is trust between the two of you and never do anything that would threaten that trust.
682678
no marriage is not for everyone. even being single can hbe a wonderful, fulfilling life. you have friends and family. you have your church family and  your sports. dating is still in your life. you have everything a married couple has. only your date can go home. you have your pet or pets\nand you have only you to argue with your self. how great it that.