How do I go about asking my girlfriend to have sex?
956797
You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?\n\nSheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend.  I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.\n\nPERVERT,  SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
427375
You need to sit down and have a talk with your partner.  DO NOT make it an accusatory conversation!  Tell her that you are satisfied with her sexually, but want to try new things.  Give her some idea of what you're looking for, examples, whatever.  Ask her if she has any ideas, also.  Throughout the conversation, reinforce that you are very pleased with her, you just want to experience new things with her.
241080
From the rear.\n\nSorry. Seriously, you need to move away from the dress-up games and work on increasing the true kink factor. I would make an assault on her mental barriers.\n\n1) Massage her until she is as limp as a noodle. Then (unless she demands sex) let her go to sleep in your arms. Repeat from time to time until she begins to trust you more. Do not let her come to expect this, however.\n\n2) Meanwhile, during the few times you do have sex, suck on her nipples a lot. This will increase the levels of oxytocin in her brain (making her feel that she loves you more).\n\n3) Get her to exercise, especially weight train. Weight training will increase the levels of testosterone in her system (yes, in girls too) and make her hornier. Testosterone is the sex drive hormone in females too.\n\n4) After a nice massage session, go dovvn on her until she is extremely turned on. Then go at it like crazed weasels. \n\n5) Keep doing it like crazed weasels for a few weeks, and then make your requests for makeup, high heels etc. She will do anything you ask as long as you keep the big Os coming.
473311
depends on her age, the older we get, you know, try being romatic dont say hey u want to bang....and start taking off ur clothes.. why not have wine candles and be sweet give her a back rub w/ scented oil and maybe have a small gift for her that may help
75134
Come up with codes. That way if things start going to far you will have ways of letting eachother know. She will respect you for respecting her. Before you guys start anything you can be like "I want to make sure our first time is really special and that we are both ready for it. If things become too much for you, just pinch my arm and I'll stop." Of course if you come up with something else that would be fine too. The physical "no" is much more likely to get your attention. Some guys have the misconception that no sometimes means yes. No is no and that is the bottom line. Be sure to have a way to tell her to slow down too. You seem to be saying you are not ready either. Maybe you could clasp her hands and then back of for a minute until you are ready to continue. You are only 16, there will be plenty of time. You don't want any regrets. \n\nAlso, "take care of yourself" ahead of time. That way the urge will be less. You wont feel such a great need.\n\nJust in case have some condoms handy. You don't want to take any chances. I'm sure you are not ready to be a dad yet.
255181
Just ask her for her number.  How hard is that?  Worst she can do is say no, and you’re not playing any stupid games which is a good way to start any type of relationship.
1012303
be patient...do a lot of foreplay..use some lube and wear a condom...she's 18 so some drinks are not out of the question...start kissing, caressing and pleasuring her and she'll let you know when she's juicy and ready for entry...and consider yourself flattered that she asked you to be her partner for this special moment.
838282
There's so many things to talk with your girlfriend,,starts with the basic,,what does she like? movies,music,books and everything you could think of,,find out what interest her,,what makes her mouth dry,,what makes her mind blow,,and if your comfortable enough,take the conversation to the next level,,talk about sex,what position does she like best,,what makes her reached orgasm,,what did she like you doing to her,,what are her sexual fantasy,,if you cant think of anything to talk about with your girlfriend,,you must be a very boring person...keep the faith
536476
Hats off to u man!!!. dats really sweet of u. u grl even if a virgin seems to be ready for sex. most probably knows all bout it n is also aware dat she is in for lot of pain da first time. so ders no prob der. as for making dis occasion special i can give u many ideas. how bout a romantic date n den taking her to ur place (or any where else u can arrange).or if possible arrange for it at ur place or a hotel room. keep it as a surprise. u cud get into da bath tub or under da shower together. indulge in lot's of fore play. for dis one time dont tell her how to please u. instead concentrate on her grls love being licked n eaten down der. use viberator if u can (if not ok wid oral sex) mutter sweet nothings in her ears. tell her how special she is fr u (women love to here dat) make sure u have condoms or other cntraceptives ready. be gentle wen u put it in her (finger her before da actual act. wud help her prepare)if she complains of too much pain withdraw and den start again.  all the best
152788
WELL, IN MY OPINION YOU SHOULD GET HER TO KNOW YOU BETTER AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT ONLY TO HAVE SEX WITH HER BUT TO HAVE A NICE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. BE NICE AND DON'T BE SO DESPERATE ON GETTING HER TO SLEEP WITH  YOU THE FIRST DAY/MONTH, 2MONTHS, ETC. SHE'LL BE WITH YOU WHEN SHE TRUST YOU.
962602
just start by asking her casually to the movies. then when you guys are together at the movies ask her to be your girlfriend. good luck ! =]
451339
Listen up, the sooner you learn this the better.  When to have sex has and will always be her choice.  The best you can hope for is that she feels the same way about you.
1143241
Be responsible. Think clearly. You should study the consequences surrounding sex. I know you're a minor, but that doesn't stop kids from doing the deed, so if you feel that you must -- which is not advised, do your research man. Make sure you aren't passing anything along to her, or that you aren't going to get her pregnant and put both of your lives on hold. Make sure that you know what can happen as a result of doing anything beyond kissing and hugging. It leads to sex, which is what I'm thinking you might want to experience. Trust me, it can wait. You will not die and of course you may be picked on by the fellas who have done so, but some of them will even be lying about it. Your girlfriend won't be ready, I can tell already, she is still getting around the stage of getting to know you, you've been dating for a month. That's why there are different types of diseases out there because people don't fully know the people they're dealing with, shoot, there are 30 year olds that don't even know their spouses. But in any case, I wish you luck and hope that you will consider waiting to experiment sexually, because if not you may deeply regret it later on in life, and also by waiting you won't freak your girlfriend out either.
811071
How about this:\n\n*Tell her it must be okay, because Catholic priests and televangelists do it all the time...\n*Remind her that Jesus himself said that the faithful should be able to handle snakes...\n*Tell her that the first people really beloved by God were always naked.\n*Use the old "Be fruitful and multiply" approach.\n*Ask her if she knew that the phrase "Oh God" is the most common phrase women use during sex, so there must be a connection.\n*Don't even bother using any of these lame @ss ideas. Just dump the little goody-two-shoes. She may be hot, but a 7 that puts out is infinately better than a 10 that doesn't...\n\n-SD-
217717
find out what shes missin in her sex life now, and let her know u got what she wants....then when she laughs at you lmao..tell her.." dont knock it til you try it" ALWAYS WORKs
293773
massage and bribary,,,,, hot bath, long massage, all over, and ask if its ok to touch paticular parts,,,,dont be pushy, and if you need to have sex that bad with her, go to the bathroom and mastu_rbate on ya own, 1st, this might calm you down and she`ll not feel so pressured to give in, time will tell, dont talk about it for days to her, is it just her you want or just sex with her...... she will give in, but be paitent,,,,,,talk to her about her fears, and both go to the library for books and advise, or go to a family planning center for leaflets... just except its hers to give,,,not yours to take.
1127540
do not have sex with her \nlet her have it with you