My girlfriend says she doesnt know if she loves me?
959299
I can relate to you perfectly. The guy I have been with for just about a year did not know if he wanted to keep the relationship going. After a long talk I said I was willing to work on it but he still needed time to think it has been like 6 days now and he hasn't even called me. Your entitled to be sad and angry after all she wasn't 100% honest with you and that is always painful. About the being torn part the best thing I can say to you is to pray and ask who ever your god may be to give you the strength to get past this and to open your mind and heart so that you can know what it is you have to do. Also taking a break with her might not be a bad thing after all you never know what you have until you lose it. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.
607049
She needs a break and she is about to say "Let's be friends".  It is usually a bad sign.  She may love you, but the real question is if she is IN love with you.  Ask her.
313928
Just look into her eyes. If you see fear or sense it then she is hiding something. If you see love and honesty, don't worry. If you have suspicions then just ask her about it nicely, she will appreciate it even if she does sound mad. Then tell her, I LOVE YOU BABE!!!!
358618
go with your heart if you feel that shes cheating on you then bring it up, but if you dont think shes cheating on you let it go but remind her how much you love her so she'll never want to do it.  trust me girls want to know how much theyre loved.
764904
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
542180
Maybe you should carefully confront her about it . She wouldn't waste her time with you if she didn't love you . Maybe she's just uncomfortable with public affection or affection in general . I doubt it's anything you've done , but don't be pushy for her affection .
410765
she is confusing the best thing i can say is she sounds like shes scared of commitment she seems like she doesnt want to get to close to u incase u hurt her mayb shes been hurt in the past. she likes u alot trust me but she doesnt want u to think she is to overkeen on u but then again she doesnt want u to leave her or to dislike her thats why she shows u a bit of affection. and thats why she has got a split personality. shes is embarrased when u tell her u love her i dont think she means to hurt u. i bet if u asked her why is she like that she would say i dont know i dont mean to. some girls are just like that mayb if u treat her the way she treats u then mayb she will change or walk away but somethings gotta b done about it cause it doesnt seem right hope i helped good look
377138
If she said that she doesn't know, it means she's not sure. If she's not sure, she didn't even love you in the first place. When you love someone, you think about them everyday, you talk to them, try to make them happy, and you definately say "I love you". \n\nI feel real bad for you because I know what it's like to love and adore someone that doesn't love you back. I wish I had a more positive answer but it's better to face reality before it faces you.
769042
No man or women should have to feel doubt when it comes to love. You cant enjoy the wondering about that. im sorry but it seems like maybe she hinted to you that she doesnt want you any more. some women dont see men for the brains that they have. and if she found out you lied.. well you know.
991908
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
170454
just ask her! cuz if she really likes u then what is she gonna say??? but if she did say no, her loss. i hope it all works out!!!
988302
If she truly loves you-she won't.  You stated that you love her alot and as long as she feels that and you have been honest with her who cares.  Life is too short and when you find someone you love-let go of judgement and hold on tight to love.  People that are secure and confident might actually find your past adventure a turn on.
485150
Tell her how you feel...if she loves you she will understand and give you your space. If she freaks out about it maybe she doesn't trust you...but make sure you have rules when this "space" happens so that no one gets hurt...
161486
you should tell her how you feel b/c if she really does love you then she would stop for you. seriouly she would that could find out if she really loves you. dont go to heard on her but let her think about it. just keep getting in her head that its bad.
183006
If you were really in love with your girlfriend then you wouldn't be asking that question. Based on your statement, it seems like you're trying to find out if she's really into you. The only way to find out what's going on in her head is if you ask her. I say you need to know now before it's too late. Don't spend the time agonizing over whether she cares or not; just ask her. Be open about how you feel and what you see.  You may just find out that she has some sort of problem that can be fixed or you may just find out that she's really not for you. If that's the case just be a man and move on. I'm sure there are plenty of women who want a sweet and sincere man like you to be with. Good Luck.
968228
How long have you been with her? And why don't you ask her, you should, if it's been a while, she may not be feeling the same way about you and doesn't know what to say or, she is insecure about the relationship. Let her know your feelings on this, communication is the key!
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.