My ex-girlfriend is going out with someone new and I have to see them all the time. how do i deal with this?
970335
a)  get a hot new gf, even if your not like that, itll make you feel better\nb) punch the guy out in front of the whole school.  you might get punished, but itll be worth it\n\nAbove all, dont hold on to hope that you might get back together with the girl.  Life is too short, and reunited couples rarely happen.
125846
Unless you have an open relationship and don't mind her getting down with other people, I'd say you have to decide whether you're going to be able to trust again, and if you really want to be with this person...\n\nMy guess: not likely.
1175577
Honey, please don't tear yourself up.  Remember, that you are a valued person, your have a life that can be beautiful. Don't let her use you, respect yourself, where is your self-esteem? Next time she calls, be polite and considerate, but let her know that you have your own life and she isn't in it.  Politely tell her to find another ex to cry to.You my friend are worth so much more than to be used as a sounding board. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and find someone who appreciate you for you . Please, do this for yourself.  I found someone I adore and am adore back, we would nerve be disrespectful of each other as she is to you.  Take a long hard look at yourself, you are one hell of a women. Someone out there is dying to meet you.
831531
its not that easy to forget the ex from our life,give it some time.u have to concentrate on ur new lady now cause she ur present now,what was in ur past leave it that way,if u wanna have a beautiful relationship
15270
What the hell?  LET her?  Unless you and her are looking for a one on one only relationship, it is okay for girls to talk to their ex-boyfriends.  In fact if you get right down to it, it's safer.  We break up with people for a reason, and we probably wouldn't date them again.  So no worries there.  If she is hanging with them alot, she might be trying to make you jealous.  She might want your attention.  Heck, give it to her!
376422
the fact you are trying to hide it is what shows so obviously...no one can hide true feelings... get a rebound, thats the only way to get over someone. your ex sounds like a jerk!
305962
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!
645918
Breaking up is hard to do.I say that if /when she comes back to you . Don't give yourself to her so easily or she will try to leave you hanging when she feels like doing her own thing. I would keep a journal when you feel like calling her or see her out and want to talk. Some feelings are wasted on people that don't appreciate them. It takes a long time to get over someone you really care about There really isn't any straight answers. Except you gotta watch out for more than your heart. Remember your self-respect, your pride, and your future. Don't let a bad romance delay you from doing the things that you are interested in. Go on a trip- even if it's a short one. Go to the closest city, get a hotel, see the sights, see a concert -take a buddy - get your mind clear. Don't ever let anyone that hurts you see you when you're vulnerable, even if there's a chance things will work out. She has to earn her way back in to see your true emotions. \nKeep your head up  Stay busy  It will get better no matter what the out come is.
634031
you have to let her have space...she's involved with someone else. If/when they break up, you are free to go after her!
268876
Be honest before it gets to serious but be careful and make sure you're being honest with yourself too. Are the ex and you going to do this on again/off again thing all the time cuz then you'll just leave a trail of hurt people behind the both of you and that's not very fair to them is it? Just make sure that if you go back to the ex this is it. Good luck
574317
ugh baby you are in the wrong soup.sweetheart take a break from her & meet new gals without any extra baggage.well if she is so indecisive she'll keep going back to her ex.at the moment she is having fun with you as well as her ex n these exes never disappear from the present dating scene.they keep popping up.just chill & staying friends will hurt all the more as you had thought of being more than frnds & her ex'll also pinch you alot.you should really dump her coz she's not worth a dime.let the time pass by while you continue moving with it which'll help you heal better....\nTAKE CARE & GOOD LUCK!!!
409745
Forget the new girl. You are just infatuated with the feeling of "new"  You are focusing too much on conquest and not on nurturing a healthy relationship. \n\nWhat you need to do is repair your last relationship with your ex. If you cared about her before, you can make the relationship stronger now. Forget about pleasing your hormonal desires. Grow up and face responsibility. \n\nOtherwise, do what everyone else is saying and move out.
1013868
Get to know the other person better.  I know that if someone said they like me then went back with their ex I wouldn't pay him any attention the next time they break up.
383175
You need to get out of that relationship before you go crazy.  As long as she's in your life....noone else will be.
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
173136
try to be strong , no matter what the situation might be, u shouldn't try to be with yr friend's ex, trust me it will definitely bring beef among u. forge ahead and u'll find someone else
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.