Is it wrong for a man to change his son or daughter's diapers?
970387
Of course its not wrong. If they need changing, them change them
292138
This man must not have enough children to bring him to his senses.  I got into this argument with my own husband when I was working in daycare my husband tried to say he worked harder than I did and was immediatly shut down by one of his co-workers (who has three little boys under the age of 5)  That man goes to work every day as a mini vacation and he's a police investigator so he deals with thieves and liars all day.  I can't think of any job on the planet other than day care or motherhood that requires you to feed, bathe, change, dress, teach, set a moral example for and occasionally get urinated on...so even if he feels his  co-workers have the comprehension skills of a two year old (which very well may be true) at least he dosent have to change their diapers.
105497
Have you thought this through?  \n\nThat's a 30 year difference and no matter how much you love him, real life has a nasty habit of intruding into romance.  \n\nIn a few years, he might not be physically independent.  How do you feel about adult diapers? Could you handle that?  \n\nYou should really think hard about these questions now and be honest with yourself -- and with him.  Because if you go down that road and bail on him later, that would truly suck!
654181
do you need a nanny to change your pampers as well???
677821
Are you disciplining him?  You have every right to even if he's not your blood son - he is with you the majority of time and his real mother is barely in the picture.  Part of it is also his age.  His bedwetting is a nuisance, but could be triggered by stress in his life (confused, mom isn't around, etc) and 4 years old isn't THAT old to have bed wetting accidents.  However, if he is cursing and disrespecting you, you need to put your foot down.  Having dad do it when he happens to be home won't do anything because the kid needs to be punished right after his actions, not days later.  I don't mean beat him, but give his butt a whack so he feels it, that will surprise him and he might straighten up (worked for me and my siblings growing up!)....and don't be disrespectful back to him because you are only fueling the fire.  Good luck!
1130614
No not at all, never put a man before your children. Good luck and God Bless.
415449
Yes, there fathers made them fend for themselves so they do the same with there children, but it can be changed...God bless
1160718
He needs to go to court and seek custody or he will have to pay the child support.  Buying diapers is not considered support by any court.  He doesn't have a say on how the money is spent unless the child is not being properly cared for.  If he doesn't pay the support he will have his wages garnished.  He can also go to jail.  Seems stupid to risk this because of petty jealousy.  This is a good reason why people should be married before having children.  It's a lot less trouble.
265965
I REALLY do not want to know how you came up with this question, but I do not think you can. If that was the case my husband would have to change undies ever 20 minutes!
1141281
When you said that you caught her in a wet and messy diaper i knowed she was into wearing diapers so i am not surprised This can be a start of something for both of you just LET her wear them it ain't hurting you or her to be in a diaper. Its OK you will get use to seeing her in them and when she ain't in one you will wonder why. It just takes time to get use to a change in your life. But i woulden worry about it keep asking her why because i bet she don't even know why she likes to wear diapers its a obsessive compulsive disorder and its her way of dealing with things in her life so just support her and love her DON'T put her down for what she dose. If you woule like to talk about this with me send me an e-mail and i will resopnd
1090188
I WAS NINE YEARS OLD, AND GOT A BABY SITTIING JOB NEXT DOOR ANDS\nWHEN  I CHANGED THE DIAPER, IT WAS A BOY, THEREFORE I SAW IT.\nWOW..  IT IS DIFFERENT FROM ME,,
852113
Don't let your kids call someone else Dad unless you are married to that person.  You are jacking up you daughter.   Shame!
1185264
I do not think you are going to get much response to your question. You might as well said do you want to know more about changing baby diapers. \nI see you are new. I suggest you rewrite your question pertaining to the what you want a response to and put it in polical science catagory not immigration.  Gypsy
1143379
No, Don't get offended. Sometimes a son always see the person that is with their father as someone who is trying 2 replace their mom. But, at the same time, he does what to show his dad that he loves him. That said, does not mean he don't like u. He just loves his father more, & the wife is gonna go with whatever works for her husband.
338614
As hard as it may be, he/she is still your child and you should love that child.  Besides, it not anyone's business what you prefer sexually, right?  As long as your child isn't involved in something dangerous, then it's okay.  Plus, your child will be gay whether or not you approve, so wouldn't you rather have a good relationship with them instead of throwing it away over something you can't change anyways?
352342
IF SHE IS NOT WILLING TO ACCEPT YOUR SON THAN SHE IS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. THAT'S ALSO GOOD THAT YOU ARE TAKING CARE OF YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES KEEP ON TAKING CARE OF YOU AND YOUR SON AND THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG.
885318
No absolutely not! I think what makes your baby special is the fact that he is your Unique baby with your features. A gift sent by God. Why would anyone want to change a gift that someone got them. This special gift is from God.