How do I interpret a message from a married man ?
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Sometimes the best sex is had in this type of a situation.  He needs something other than the norm, you have it and want it.  Done deal.  As long as you have no ties to the family or friends that you could lose then cool.
339305
Um, no, it is NOT RIGHT! What is wrong with you people? He is MARRIED! That means he stood before God and vowed to be faithful and honest to this woman. And, instead, he is out trolling for God knows what on the internet. Yuk. Find your own man, this one is taken. Plus, why would you want a creep llike that?
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you wait or you confront him in a calm manner tell him that i don't want to be confused and you don;t want to receive wrong messages from his gestures,.ask him do you or do you not be honest with your answer it's a one time shot if you lose you will lose a person you really desire. it's up to you, tell him that!
1059318
Can you give more detail- what do you mean seeing himself in the picture- is he trying to steall you away form your hubby? Please give more specifics.  You can email me at trialtoid@yahoo.com
336661
Ring his wife and ask her
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Don't wait time trying to figure him out.  AND STOP THE EMAILING.  Send him ONE LAST EMAIL that reads. ..\n\n"I understand that because you respect your relationship with my husband communicating with me might be difficult.  So I think it is best if we stop sending emails to each other during this trying time.  You never know what might happen."\n\nAND STOP.  If you see him on the street or in other public place just smile, say hi and walk away.\n\nIf after the divorce he wants to contact you... he will.
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He loves you very much. So much that the words "in sickness and in health" have a meaning to him. Not all, but many, guys would have gone by now. If I were you, I would love this man with all my heart and do all I could to hold on to him forever. He sounds like a very special man. Not many people get the chance to have a love that strong and true.\n\nI sincerely wish you and your husband the very best.\n\nTerry\n\nPS: True love can overcome all. He has found his nirvana in you.
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I don't quite understand the whole situation given what you've said.  My suspicion is that your husband is displeased with aspects of the marriage.  His displeasure may be within your control or out of your control.  I can't tell from what you've asked in your question.\n\nCommunication is key, but communication of what?  It seems to me that communication of your values and your goals as individuals in a marriage is ultimately what needs to be done.  When you talk about what each of you values and what each of you is striving for, you may find there are commonalities between you.  Where there are commonalities, likely there will be some feelings of respect, appreciation, and synergy.  Where there are differences, potentially there will be conflict.  If you find you have a lot of differences with respect to values and goals, it will be in your best interests as a couple in a marriage to see how you two can BOTH get what you want wherever possible.  This is where compromise comes in, but compromise DOES NOT MEAN one person has to give up his or her values or goals.  Instead, it means both keep their values or goals, it's just that at times, they may have to pull back on them a little bit.  Bargaining whenever there is conflict is one way to reach agreement, a compromise that is satisfying for you both.\n\nIt sounds as if your husband was very disappointed that you left for California for 4 days.  I do not know the conditions of your leaving.  However, if you discussed with him that you were hoping to do this with your son ahead of time, and offered your husband the opportunity to have some say in the matter, you may have found that you could go to California for 4 days AND have your husband happy.  He may merely have been concerned about the well-being of his son.  Or, he might just have wanted his opinions respected in the matter.\n\nAgain, I'm not sure of your situation, and if he's saying he can't "handle it anymore," that may be a signal that he has let you get what you want at the cost of his feeling frustrated and disrespected.  That is, he may feel his values and goals are not being respected.  To win him back, it may take your appreciation of his values and goals.  But inevitably, it means both of you getting what you want, not just one, and not just the other.\n\nI hope you find this response helpful.  Best of luck to you both and your son.
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Incredible simple - BY TELLING HIM!\n\nMy wife and i, we met on the internet and where friends for 6 month, that she asked when do we get married?? :)))\n\nSo, just be straight and tell him.
635016
send him a card. make the message sincere and loving,  add a bit of cute, and he will be totally taken back. if he sends you flowers at work then i'm thinking he is a pretty alright type of guy and is appreciative of gestures.when he sees what you have sent (it's not the card but the message) he will be thinking 'damn, i'm a lucky man!'\nnow go and send him your love message and don't be diverted by any bars along the way!
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Will you have a little talk with MY husband for me?\nLOL\n\nSounds like your wife is a very lucky woman, with a wonderful husband!
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Be gracious, and of course, it is always respectful to respond with "Yes/No Ma'am/Sir." Above all, be sure not to forget or ignore your husband in trying to tend to them, that wouldn't be very good. Be yourself, even if you are nervous, maintain eye contact when you are talking with them. Smile often, and be sure to thank them for bringing such a wonderful person into the world and rearing him as well as they did. If you think it is appropriate, you could say something like, "I have been so excited yet sort of nervous about meeting you both, even though (husband's name) told me there was no need to be nervous." I think you'll have to make that call on what the atmosphere is like. They already know at this point in life that you will be feeling somewhat nervous, at least it shows you are up-front and honest. You all already have something in common, you all love your husband...But anyway, be yourself, treat them as you would anyone else you appreciate and respect, they did raise your husband, after all:)\n\nI'm sorry--I missed the extra details that you added at the bottom. Well, the above all still applies; the fact that so much time has passed will naturally feel a little weird for everyone involved at first anyway, but "better late than never." I believe that it is a person's heart and character that matter, not race. Hold your head up high and maintain grace of character, regardless of if they have issues or whatever:)
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This is what she is trying to say:\n\n\nmy boy friend started to act strange, when he started the new job i look at hes phone bill , there is a lot of calls in it?\n\nspecially from 1 number i asked him about that and he just tells me that he lets his friend used the phone, but he doesn't want me to call him at work, because of his boss, but he can let other people used his phone, he works in construction i don't see what would be the problem when his boss is not there all the time, when i say.. tell you friend he can used your phone 1 time a day but not 10 times a day he gets mad really mad with me, we have a lot of problem because of that, i leave for 3 weeks then when i come back, he tells me that he talked to his friend about the phone, and now when he comes home star talks about his friend problems and he wants to do the same with me, he wants me to move out and be more like a friend, like his friend with the wife, what should i do... please some one make a comment, and sorry about my English i really love him but i don't know what to do.... maybe he don't love me the same way i love him \n\n\nWell I think you should just leave him and not give him no se becasue he don't want you there with him and he don't want you to find out he is cheating on you! So just leave don't call him don't go see him! It wasn't his friend useing the phone it was probly him and if the calls are comeing into his cell then some one is calling him not his friend calling some one! You may love him but it doesn't sound like he has the same feelings.  I fhe got mad because you asked him then there is deffenly something more going on thta he don't want you to know! Get out and see what happens!
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SmS,MMs,sent him a letter or ask a friend to be your go-between....
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It usually means that he doesn't what to give you his phone number for security reasons.\n\nIt can also mean that part of that security is keeping his wife from picking up the phone and hearing your voice. That would be a major security breech in my book.\n\nMy gut instinct tells me that you should fish from another pond. Usually I tell people to "work it out". This doesn't sound right for some reason. Sounds like lies. I would move on if I were you.
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well...honestly this is a tricky one bc either way sm1 is getting hurt. both the wife and daughter are both wondering now. If i were her id make a fake name, profile and all that and send him a message. oh say she saw him in a chat if he does that or read his profile. get to talking w him online. find out info, ask things like where did u meet ur wife( if he admits hes married) and so on. find out little tid bits only he would know. that way you know whos doing the stepping out!
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There is no machine by which u can check. Just try to listen and understand him carefully. If he share his things with you, he may be sincere. but there is no hard and fast rules for this.