What should I do? Sticky Ex situation!!?
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i think it would be wise to ask your hubby what is his opion about all of this first before asking other peoples opinion. since he already know everything about your past, and i think his ok with it, give your man the respect, by asking for his help his your problem. but for me i dont think it would be wise to tell your ex about the baby, for it will definitely open doors for a questions and if i were your husband i would definitely dont want you to get too involved with your past specially with what happened to you and your ex. but thats just me. . .  the best thing you can do is to pray for God's guidance. goodluck and GODBLESS to you and your family.
97505
Find someone else. Accept his contacts but keep moving forward yourself. He needs to know you're not waiting forever.
973345
No way this is normal. You need to put a stop to this-pronto!   There is a reason she is the "ex" so you have every right to remind him of this. He should be over her by now and have made the commitment of being with you. He's married to you now so he hasn't any reason discussing anything with her or being under her control. With exception of talking about the kid anything else concerning the two of you is is none of her business. He's out of whack for communicating with her like this. Time for a reality adjustment. So get up close in his face and tell him in no uncertain terms to shut that big mouth of his. What a lot of nerve. If you're wondering about what I think I think it sucks big time and is callous and disrespectful toward you. That shrew of an ex needs to be put in her place also. Who cares if she went "nuts". She's nuts if she thinks she had any say about the two of you being married! Who the hell is she anyway? Tell her to butt out of your lives. Share a relationship with the ex? God no!! So put your foot down unless you're considering becoming another ex.
1021277
Don't have the relationship UNTIL everything has gone thru the court systems. That way HUBBY/EX-to-be can't use anything against you. \n\nTHEN go slowly starting a NEW relationship. Take it slow and easy.
1060458
They are an ex for a reason, move on.   \n\nTake care of yourself first, you dont' have to DATE NOW.
881408
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
1124948
first thing to do: CELEBRATE. Do your HAPPY DANCE and be HAPPY that your ex is finally out of your life. We don't need selfish people in our lives and she sounds like one of them.
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
591213
He's your ex, none of your business.  Being friends after relationship is hard enuff without adding something like this to it.  Just stay out of it and let him learn on his own.
914934
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!
480850
keep the 100% respect guy he sounds like a keeper. :) dont go with the ex - it never works out and u will only regret it if u do .\n\ngood luck
406229
she still has feelings.. what i did with one was backed right off, stayed clear. if u are in a relationship then try to make that work. dont contact the ex girl, if u pass on the street then say hi, be nice but until she stops treating u like she still is seeing u then steer clear of that iceberg, cause like the titanic that could be looking for a way to sink u\nGod bless
336205
He's an ex for a reason. move on
173136
try to be strong , no matter what the situation might be, u shouldn't try to be with yr friend's ex, trust me it will definitely bring beef among u. forge ahead and u'll find someone else
193175
Make it very clear you are not together. Although I don't think that will work. I was in a similar situation, my ex was delusional. \nDo not answer his questions... ignore them.
943243
just like Usher said, you gotta let it burn...i don't want to judge your ex, but it seems to me that she kept you in her life as her emotional crutch.  she would meet other guys with a certain confidence because she had you in a glass case and in case of emergency, she'll break the glass and use you.  the best thing to do is just move on.  being friends is all good but for your sake, try to keep it as informal as possible (emails, texts, etc).  you obviously care about her deeply and that's good but you have to take care of you first.  the best way to move on is to live your life to the fullest.
851194
find another one. One better than your ex.