guys help me plz im not shy but i cant think of anything to say?
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People love nothing more than to talk about themselves. Ask questions about her. For an example of talking to a girl you didn't know, rather than say to her "what do you do?" ask "what do you like to do?" Its amazing how much more of a response you will get from these types of questions, these apply also to your girlfriend. Then most importantly make sure you "listen", when its time to talk then talk. With your girlfriend you just need to relax dude and It will flow. Try it.
1138991
sit down and tell him whats on your mind girl!!
216404
Just relax and breathe...tell him your nervous and he will probably admit to the same.  Just both of you knowing that will probably help and be a conversation starter also.
60091
this may sound weird or corny but it may work.  if ur not a shy one and able to start a conversation.  if u go to barnes and nobles, look for a guy who's in the same section ur interested in and start a conversation from there ;)
60068
Try flirting. Smile at him, laugh at his jokes (guys LOVE that) try to engage him in conversation (ask him about himself, guys also love to talk about themselves) It's a great way to let someone know you're interested without having to say so, which could scare some people off.
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girl I know how u feel and all i can tell u is to suck it up and call him. plan out some topics but make it a short conversation so u don't have a chance to run out of things to say.
88200
what can i say im wierd i do
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.
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Tell him! Guys can't read your mind. You've got to just lay it out on that table. "Hey, I like you. Do you want to hang out sometime? I could give you my phone number if you'd like."\n\nYou could even write him a note if you're too nervous to tell him. The worst he can do is say no, and if he doesn't realize how awesome you are, he's not worth being with anyways. Good luck, dear! :]
441667
too shy if u ask me. why dont u talk to him about it? he is the only 1 who can answer this question 4 u
723420
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!
997741
Let me tell you from someone who suffers from shyness.  It gets you nothing face up to it and just tell him next time you are alone with him and he will tell you his feelings. (I know it's easy to say, but all you have to do is get it started and the rest is easy)  Tell him you have something to say and just say it let him know your nervous and he will understand if he's a decent person.
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well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.
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Just be yourself. Tell him how you feel. Talk to your parents, friends, or the guy's friends. i don't knw.
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This is a very true cliche...  Be yourself.  \nLet the conversation lead itself.  Don't worry.  Worry makes you nervous.  Laugh and be funny.  Remember he is just as nervous as you, promise.  If not more.  Don't see this as the only shot, it will make you more nervous, assume you will be seeing him again soon for something fun to do.  Going to a theme park and not a mall is always a good idea.  Adrenaline is a great shy buster and the fun of the rides brings you closer by both sharing something.  Try to bring things into your conversation that you can have opinions on (not to heavy though) - maybe you have the same opinions and that is cool maybe you don't and then it stimulates the conversation.    \nHave fun, if things seem to be going a bit slow (I trust they won't) make it happen, be bold, force the fun if you have to - sometimes it acts as a catalyst to get the fun started.\nTry some meditation (really) here's how:  Lie down on your bed in quiet and visualize everything going perfectly on the day.  Do this for at least half an hour each day until the day.  Don't imagine anything going wrong.  If you do banish the though and rethink it going really well.  It works wonders.  Finally don't be too sensitive if something does go a little off key, roll over it like a steamroller and move on to something fun, don't focus on the small things.\n\nGood luck. ;-)
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let him take time maybe hes not ready to talk. wait until he wants to talk dont rush him into talking if he doesnt want to talk to you. i learned with alot of guys that they dont like talking because there afraid of rejection on anything they have to say. i just start up a conversation and if they join listen to what they have to say youll learn alot about them with what they have to say. just some advise. i mean im not a guy but i hang out with alot of them so i get to learn alot from it. hope it helps. good luck
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Don't be shy. Tell him what is in your mind. Don't wait for him to initiate the discussion. And be prepared to get any answer. You will not regret for this step in future. If you will not tell the person today, it can be too late for tomorrow. So, just go for it. And GOOD LUCK.