why does my friend act so differently?
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
261085
Real friends arent like that so he/she isnt ur real friend. I may be wrong..but maybe even your great friends and he is just shy..talk to him Gurly Gurl! Lol, thank you.
167635
well, mabey ur actions made her/him mad at u. u should talk to her/him. if ur friend is REALLY mad, she wouldn't be answering ur question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1012836
I would guess that she was jealous that you got the attention and not her. The are a lot of reasons she could be jealous. I would express to her that this hurts your feelings. You treat people how to treat you and if you put up with her behavior she will continue to do it. If she is truly your friend, she should understand and make attempts to stop the behavior.
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
1046402
It sounds like your friend is jealous. Sometimes people do really mean things when they're jealous without having a reason.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
871739
Sounds like he's playing with both of you. let your friend have this guy and you find someone else. She'll get kicked to the kerb sooner or later...might be what she deserves!
55951
Usually when a guy acts like this it is either because he has a guilty conscience or the woman is giving him reason to believe something may be going on like acting flirtatious with other men or even by not being as caring towards him.  If this has been a recent change in his behavior and you are not doing anything that could explain his actions, I would be suspicious of what he is doing.  I hope that's not the case and that it is simply a misunderstanding that will be worked out.  If he has always been this way, it may just be his personality or he may have had some bad relationships before you.  I would suggest changing your behavior to see if he changes.  You won't be able to change him but by changing your own behavior (in a positive way), you can elicit a better response from him.
1051200
You could call him or go to him and say hey do ya think we don't hang out as much? Then go on to ask why. It may bother him too. It sounds like he may be depressed or something is buggin' him. Hope it works out.
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
415758
My best friend is a Blond and she can really act like it sometimes too. Sometimes its funny to see the stupid things she does,but mostly she just wants attention. I of course give it to her, but no else does. No one else really understands her. People always ask me how i put up with her and i have no idea. I guess the best answer for you is yes. I do have a friend that acts slow sometimes! But its all good.
292756
i had a friend like that. its a form of jealousy. they want what they can't have so they try to take what you have. or maybe she had a self-esteem issue.
863473
try talking to him and be honest. If it ends the friendship, then he was obviously just playing at being a friend while his mind was working in a different direction.
35491
there may be reasons why they talk about her, maybe she did something wrong, talk about it. just stay by her side. its nice that she still has YOU as her friend who would not turn against her. RIGHT?
802348
Depends on the guy really... what if your friend is not his type??  Not to say there is anything wrong with your friend but if the guy is not in to her then he's not in to her.  \n\nThe more she gives up of herself to MAKE him like her will only be a lie because she's not being true to herself.  In time that will make her unhappy.
347197
Maybe he is just shy around new people after a while he should warm up to your friends and act him self around both you and your friends