my husband claims hes never cheated?
958282
YES...and good for you for taking him out with the tramps high heel...LOL
590099
Tell him you dont cheat
530422
well i have never cheated but not saying i havent thought about it.\nfor me if i did it would be for the reason that someone else would be new and exciting \ni guess different\nbut it wouldn't last long and then i would be in a divorce so thats why i dont
1161803
Trust that your husband loves you, and he could just be looking around. Don't be so insecure, if you know he loves you. Don't make the mistake of accusing him of something he didn't do, it will effect your relationship in the long run.
366610
Maybe he is for real...not everyone is a liar and a cheat or has a hidden agenda.Just dont rush into anything.\n\nI met my a guy almost 7 years ago in an internet chatroom.\n\nWe are still best pals and.....happily married :)
632878
I have been married 27 years going on 28.  Ihave never cheated ad never will since my wife is my best friend and soulmate.  It may sound old fasioned but it works for us.
609851
It's very hard to fully trust a person after they cheat. Even if you forgive them, it's always in the back of your mind that they did it. However, some people have moved beyond a cheating history and married and lived happily for many years...if you truly believe that he won't cheat again and that you have it in you to marry this man, then you should.
522008
Well, if ya got doubts about it, chances are he is.. I hate to say it.. works that way wit married couples too, trust me, I know! If ya ask him he'll deny it (most of 'em do) so don't go there, I guess. I don't wanna diss the guy and burst somebody's bubble here.. (Sorry I sound so negative.. I just came out of kinda this type of sitch is all!) wish I was of more help.. I'm voting for run around on him, be honest first.
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I certainly couldn't argue with your sexual prowess, having no personal experience with you from which to draw from. So I'll start by just believeing that it's at least close to being true.\n\nWhy does he cheat? You say you only do what he asks you to do. I find this statement somewhat odd and I am not sure exactly what you mean by it. Without more information it's hard to give you a "real" answer but, here are a few possibilites (I'm not implying that any of them or all of them are true.)... Maybe he feels neglected in other areas of the marriage? Maybe he married young and feels like he missed out on being single? Maybe he disagrees with your statement regarding "sexual prowess"? Maybe he is going through a mid-life crisis?\n\nIt's hard to give you a good answer without more information. Post more details or drop me an email, I'll help if I can.
175250
Well if he really loves you all you need to do is show him you love him tell him you love him and be completely honest with him about everything. Even the smallest little white lie can be a big thing at this point if he thinks you are being the least bit secretive then he will lose more and more trust in you. I know because I am in a similar situation with my wife, and those are the things I wish I could have from her to help me rebuild our trust
85859
i m not agree that man lie and cheat always their are many men who r vey honest and true in their realtionship some exception is always there bt u can not say that all men are same, its is possible with women too, i think when some one cheating or concealing something may be there is some reason behind it so if u believe ur beloved then ask him directly dont hesitate. or wait for some time may be he himself tell u everything at right time.so never distrust everyman there is lot of good people in this world
761057
ONly you should know that answer.  How does your husband behave? Is he flirtatious? does he come home late at night saying he worked late? taking regular showers (heheh ..its true )?   If he is giving you reasons so be suspicious then  you are normal .\nIf not then its just you being erratic.  If you really want to know why don't u spy on him?
635855
He sounds like he never grew up.  I have a son-in-law who is the same exact way.  In fact I'm wondering if you are my daughter who is writing this.  Whether or not he's cheating with another girl or not he's cheating your children and you out of a family life together.
1170330
don't force him to prove anything. let it come natural.it could be the smallest thing he does that he never does for anyone else.keep your eyes wide open and watch those little things he does
602655
Most likely not.  Men who cheat tend to keep on cheating.  The real question is did he confess it or did you find out?  If he confessed he's at least show he regrets it, and is trying to be more honest.  If you found out he'll just be more careful in the future.
764386
im not sure as id never cheat on my wife ever but im really not sure sorry
192863
I say that if you are going to marry this man than start off with a clean slate. Do not judge him for some thing that he did when you were not around, and I'm assuming that he did not cheat with you. Give him all of your trust until he breaks it.