Why is my boyfriend being nice to a other girl that i really dont like?
970044
Learn to like her.  It's mean to not like people.
538404
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
606175
Maybe he's not sure he loves you and may be comparing you and the other girl (the one who wrote him the poem). Or he may be secretly wanting you to write him such a poem too.\n\nYet, this guy sounds like he's not ready to commit his heart fully to you yet. You know that he likes the poem girl.\n\nAnother thing is that maybe your bf wants to have 2 girls and at the same time, if one is not in love with him anymore, he still has the other. He may be wanting his pie and still eat it.
1045046
Man... So many people are looking at what he did the wrong way.  Look at it like this, if your boyfriend liked some girl better than he did you, would you want him to keep wasting your time?  Of course not.  If you think he really likes you and doesn't just want to go out with you for some shallow reason like you're hotter, then go out with him.  You just have to make sure that you make him like you for something deeper than looks cause that way he won't just leave you for the next hot girl.
39903
If they know it bothers you and you claim they are doing it on purpose, just pretend it doesn't. It seems that the root of her flirting is to get at you, just smile and say to her..."isn't MY boyfriend great", to her. Pretend you think it is totally an ego booster for you to know that someone else wants  your guy. Reverse psychology, baby!
963270
If you are with another guy, he feels that the other guy can take his place as your boyfriend. If you are with another girl, he doesn't feel as if he can be replaced. Because of this, he considers you being with another guy cheating but not if it is another girl.
760521
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
286950
I'd sit them down and tell them what you thought. ( Make sure you tell them that you mean no offense for whatever it is that you're going to say first.) Tell them that you don't like what this guy is doing to her. Try and figure out exactly why it is that she's acting like that, it could be that she's trying to change for him or she may feel that she's better then everyone else now that she's with him.If it's the first then tell her that she doesn't need to or should act like that for anyone. If it's the other then you should make it clear to her that being with this guy doesn't make her any better, she still is who she is and being with someone, no matter who it is, doesn't make a difference. If you have to you could also try talking to her boyfriend see what he thinks.
265605
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
444272
by not disrespecting another sister.  getting your own man and remembering what goes around comes around.  Why would you want to do that? We have such a serious problem with the whole cheating thing going on, that people are starting to think that it's ok, to the point of actually asking people on Yahoo.  I'm not trying to be disrespectful or condescending.  But shouldn't you give this young lady your utmost respect, (even if you don't know her), since you know this guy has a girlfriend. And "No", it doesn't matter to me if he likes you back.  You should be doing the sister a favor and pointing him right back in the direction of his girlfriend.
654464
rather he likes her or not, that is not showing respect to you by doing that, its not his place to tell her that, you need to find out WHY he doesn't like her, she could have made a pass at him or something, and he doesn't want to tell you, so you need to find out.  Tell him not to do that anymore or you will start doing the same to the people who call there for him.
1151170
Some of these people are obviously too stupid to understand the question....which is perfectly clear to me.  You are saying that you AND your boyfriend don't like this girl.  Well, your boyfriend shouldn't have to spend HIS birthday with someone HE doesn't like.\n\nSince, you say that this girl knows that you guys don't like her(and that would mean the friend knows that, too) I would cancel plans anytime he invites her without your permission.  Maybe, he will get the hint.  That way you don't have to come out and say it but still get your point across.\n\nIf she(and he, obviously) knows you don't like her, then he shouldn't have been so rude as to invite her to hang out with your boyfriend on his birthday.  So, be just as rude and cancel.\n\nWhy would she want to hang out with people that don't like her, anyway?  That doesn't even make sense.
633656
You should stay away from him.  If you were dating him you would expect and hope that other girls would not do anything to hurt your relationship so you should respect their relationship and do the same.
1110544
She is insecure and is afraid that you are going to leave her for somebody else.  Compliment her more and make her feel like you love her the most in the whole world! One thing you should never do and that is compliment another girl around your girlfriend!
623077
Before you do anything else, boot your boyfriend to the curb because he doesn't value you if he can't be totally faithful to you and just you.  If you truly are interested in being with another girl then you need to make that decision totally on your own without feeling pushed into it by a shitty boyfriend.  There should be more to it than just curiosity!  Think before you make that leap because you open yourself to more disease possibilities with more partners.  Take care!
898222
you need to tell him how you feel. if he still does it and sees no problem with it, then break up with him. he's obviously not into you if he can't stop talking about other girls...especially right in front of you! and above all- don't pretend like it's ok with you when he does that!!! maybe that's why he still does it- you're not letting him know that it bothers you...
666592
it seems like he is a sweet person and he loves you stay with him you dont want to ruin a good thing!!!!! Thats how me and my boyfriend was i broke up wit him and now i miss him and want him back but he has a new girlfriend and dont want me . dont do what i did you'll be more unhappy then before!!!!!