What percentage do you think that woman go back with an ex-boyfriend?
968090
I actually just brought up that idea with my ex when I talked to him tonight (we broke up two weeks ago) and he said he isn't in love with me anymore. I think it's best to not go back and just move on. Healthier that way.
1078510
Well I think that depends on their relationship before they broke up and their relationship now.If he is still interested in the ex then no. But if he genuinely just a caring person who wants to be friends with his ex because that is the type of person he is and it is not coming between your new relationship then yes.
674534
which one do you like, and also consider the reasons why your old boyfriend is your ex, what went wrong? is is something that can be corrected, coz if not you'll prob end up down the same road again, so don't go there.
25153
i still am in love with my ex girlfriend and i told her that she is the one for me and someday she'll see it..i told her im not gonna give up on her ...so my addivse is ...win her back..lmao
561707
To a certain exstint it is. Considering that he is moving anyways. She deserve someone to treat her better than she is getting. No woman needs the drama in their lives. But on the other hand how does the ex feel about the situation? Is he ok with it? Is he willing to let her go? If so, then i say girl just be happy, and i wish you the very best of your new relationship.
558059
You would know. My now ex- used to hug and kiss his prior ex-wife in front of me when we were dating. They talked like they were best friends. At least if your man hates her, you have nothing to fear!!!
174530
survey says......NO!\n\nHe is ex for a reason right?
1033151
When something like this happens its smart not to obsess about the actual details of events because they don't really mean anything. Ask yourself questions like "Why did she behave the way she did? Did she do it to hurt me, or because it was what she wanted to do at the time?" If she did these things again, would you be able to take her back again? What do you think the chances of her doing these things again are? If you don't think so, why not? How has she or your circumstances changed?
135577
Well there are all kinds of scenerios that crossed my mind when I read this question.\n\n8 months.. hmm.. here's a few of my guesses\n\nShe was really hurt and couldn't trust he really wanted just her, so she had to leave to sort things out if she wanted to continue the relationship.\n\nShe left to have space to have an affair of her own to even up the guilt factor of being with him again.\n\nShe could be back just to use him and take advantage of "not being the one who cheated" by him making it up to her the rest of their relationship together.\n\nOr she could have forgiven him, loved him enough to give it another try, and is willing to put the past in the past and give this guy another chance at an exclusive and honest relationship with her.
284027
holy crap, juli is that you? well from my personal experance its all a matter of if his first love will take him back or not because thats oviously his first choice, i'm trying to be nice here but him being with her for 9 years isn't a good sign, if i were you i'd move on to someone who didn't have so much baggage, because its not just going to be in the back of his mind, its going to be in the back of yours as well.  Bottom line is if you dont have trust you dont have anything, and it seems to me he will have nothing with anyone possibly ever, do you really want to second guess it all the time? wish you the best of luck.
789076
There are no rules.  Just be yourself!  If you worry that she will get back with her ex, then you will not really be having any fun.  Just try not to think about it, relax and enjoy the time that you spend with her.  Good Luck!
433575
That she needs to move on from the past and live in the present. Perhaps there are issues that are going on right now in her life that are making her upset and instead of resolving them and moving on, she is avoiding them by thinking of some guy and the good things that they once shared. When people look to the past in situations like these they tend to forget the bad qualities that the guy or girl had because the thing they are searching for is the good that they are most likely not getting from their present relationship. (I hope that makes sense). I don't know if they are in communication with each other but if they are and he feels the same way (or at least claims to) then they are on a path of self-destruction that is going to leave alot of people hurt and scarred. I hope that neither has any children and that she will either be woman enough to leave her husband if she is not happy or get some sense knocked into her and realize that the past is over and that she needs to handle her situation in the present like a mature adult. Living in the past is not ever going to get you anywhere in the future and hopefully this chick snaps out of it before she is left with nothing but that.
1021965
Personally, I wouldn't. Just based on my own experiences.\n\nI had an ex similar to yours, broke up for similar reasons, and he wasn't interested in getting back together until there was another guy in my life. He (years later) admitted to me that he always assumed he could have me back whenever he wanted me, when he decided it was convenient for HIS life! \n\nBut I wasn't willing to put MY life on hold until he got around to feeling like being a decent boyfriend.\n\nThank goodness I didn't. I moved on, dated other people, and eventually met and married my husband who was worth suffering every guy who came before him!\n\nIf you haven't really considered being with him again before now, my advice is, don't.\nIt's not 5 years wasted if you don't go back, it's 5 years of a lesson learned - don't unlearn it!
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!
244110
Really why does it matter to her now. If she broke up with him for cheating then she got back with him knowing he was a cheater. Ok she got back with him after he cheated because she loves him, and now she thinks he is cheating again. Well she loves him so she should over look it again (which is what she did by taking him back in the first place). Or she can get smart and leave him, obviously he isn't going to change. What reason does he have to she accepted it by taking him back.
824695
I agree with a lot of these people, it would be dumb to go back with him, cause i mean of course he says he still love you, your his safety girl, he will go out with you until he finds another girl to like, and as soon as she dumps him, the cycle will start all over again.  But then again you never know he might not, but chances of that is VERY small, so if you ask me then i say don't, unless you really want to!
432345
Yes. You can. Just that it depends on both sides.\nIf both of you broke up because of the third party, I don't think both of you can get back together. Some does, but it happens rarely because you'll never forget what he/she have done to you. It really hurts.\nOn the other hand, if it's because of some other factors, I think it's not a problem if both of you can overcome it.\nAnother point is if two person really get back after broken up, they're really meant to each other. If not, they wouldn't get back together. So, if you have second chance, you must treasure it because not everyone has second chance even though they wanted to.\nBut most important is do not ever chase back the reason why he/she broken up with you. This is very important, just forget about it, and start this relationship as if it's a new one.\nFrom my personal experience, my boyfriend now is actually my ex-boyfriend. We've got back together after 2 yrs, after he had got another girlfriend, after I've got another boyfriend. But finally, we found out that we are the most suitable for each other, no one else.