HELP!!! im heartbroken?
966086
aww hunni ive been there babes and its a horrible place to be.\nunfortunatly he obviously isnt interested and had moved on where as yuo havent as you want to know what happened and want to get closure.\nyou will have to forget this guy as if he hasnt even got the balls to tell yuo its over he aint worth it.\ngood luck babes x
742431
it's ok kid, it happens to almost everybody at your age really. Just think about this though, in the future, that dude will get a broken heart as well, by some other girl, and he gonna regret about it heh? For now your heart has shattered into a million pieces, I'm sure a million guys would be happy to put it back together for ya, not just that one dude :). Cheer up, there're a few billions of human beings on this planet, you'll meet someone else who is more capable of appreciate and value your love, obviously this dude isn't worth your love, screw him heh? hehe. :)
329816
I think you should just walk away hun, I know it hurts but I was in a similair situation and he ended up finding someone to date and left me hanging on, and i held onto him for too long and it hurt even worse, at least this way you can get back to your life and finding that one for you, and come back with some of your heart. I just hate to see you hang on liek this and then if he leaves you for someonelse have you left brokenhearted and left to pick up the pieces.
127006
Talk to God. He understands what you feel. He knows your heart better than any one else. He has the best answer for you. Ask him he'll tell you.
350044
try to make that person feel how much he/she means to u...in ur own little ways..ive experienced that and im tellin u mine was harsh coz after realizin my mistake he told me he's got gf already, just after 2 weeks! that was my first time to cry! and it hurts! damn lol but if u really want someone,its worth a shot..u only live once,.why not risk..who knows, he might also realize how much u mean to him
517035
I know how you feel,the urge of reaching out and dialing his number drives you insane..remember one thing the one you love will never make you cry...i am sure since your break up you must have cried your eyes out...so girl my adivice is to move on think that it was his loss..find some new acitivity for yourself where you would be able to meet new people..being around new people this time really helps in getting over someone....wish you all the best
236402
let me save you alot of heartache and save you time.  leave now and find someone that wants to be with you
744227
i recently went through something similar to this myself. i know you probally feel horribly depressed right now, and thats because you're heartbroken. i can tell you that eventually the pain does go away...take some time to grieve and then try to forget about him. someone once gave me a piece of advise that really helped me:\n\nbeing heart broken is like being in the dark.... and everytime you think your getting close to the light switch you just stub your toes. and you have to start all over again. but there is a light switch there. it might take a little bit to find it. but one day you will get there......... it might take awhile to get over this guy... but always remember... through all those stubed toes there is a lightswitch
573677
You're just asking to be hurt...Honey...don't you think more of yourself?? This is not the one for you...you are HIS loss. Get  your self back in the game..
691651
wow.. im not the emotional sort, but i heard you crying while you wrote this! i feel for you, we all been there, you gotta CHANGE your out look and overview! it's over, he's cheated it wont get better, it cant, it will be tough, but you will get by it, find out your old girlfriends get back in touch with them, and start again.  company will help you through, and help you meet other people, dont give up look forward to the change ok?....ok?
406106
Tell him how you feel.  Otherwise you will miss your moment. If he cares for you at all (even as a friend) it shouldn't damage your friendship.  And atleast you would know if he feels the same way, and if he does (i'd say its a good chance) then you guys could patch things up and move on. Good luck to you sweetie.
633234
Aww honey don't be sad. I just broke up with my fiance last Tuesday and we lived together I know how much this hurts. However you have to remember that what is meant to be will be. If you and him are meant to be together nothing, and I mean nothing can keep you apart. You need to stay busy and dont think about it. I know how easy it is right now to overanalyze every little detail. Don't. Thats just going to bring you down more. Look into the future, always have hope and take care of yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family and remember "this too shall pass"
552377
spend time with your friends, go out and enjoy yourself. before you know it you'll be having the time of your life and not thinking about the person who broke your heart, look after you and all will get better. promise!
471020
how does it feel to be heartbroken? Well, it depends on how deeply you tresured something with the person who broke your heart. for me, it felt like HELL. But i got over it after about 1 and 1/2 year. when a broken heart will be healed depends on your own pace. Frankly speaking, i don't believe the guy said. it's too unspecific and invalid. that's like telling who you can be with and you can't be with. if i were in your place, i wouldn't think that he's doing me a great favor. But nevertheless it shows he doesn't like you. Learn to move on.= )
1026549
U muz love him a lot to hurt so badly. But u muz also feel feep in your heart this guy is not worth all the heartbreak u are feeling now. He is full of lies. I hope u r not considering going back to him as a leopard can never change his spots. Don't give him a second chance to hurt you! Tell yourself, u r greatful for this learning experience. U have become the wiser for it. U r gorgeous and not lacking in anything. U have the world spread out in front of you. Who is he? He is just a nobody u shld leave behind
413891
He wasn't ready for what ever reason to commit to you. Don't beat yourself up over this, there are people that will come and go in our lives, some for the good and some for the bad... it just makes us stronger people. Obviously you invested more in this relationship than he did, and it's going to hurt for a while trying to get over it. Grieve for a while, if you want to cry and feel sorry for yourself, do it.... it's all part of the process of loss. Just always remember your self worth, and that we are not the lessor of our selves, we are the sum of ALL of our parts, and that is something phenomenal. There may be more men like him in your future... and then again you may meet your soulmate tomorrow.... just don't let life get you down...it's too short to waste the energy on negative people. God bless you, good luck, Peace.
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...