Is my husbands ex girlfriend entitled to more money?
969605
The only thing she is entitled to is money for his daughter, your house and other things have nothing to do with her.  Is he paying her through the CSA?  If it is just a causual arrangement then she could ask for more money if it hasn't been properly set out.  But remember if the CSA get involved I'm sure your husband to be will be made to pay at lot more so try to keep it as amicable as possible with his ex as you really don't want the CSA involved.
909276
Yes, she is in breach of contract.  You need to speak to a lawyer about this.  You should also have her arrested for fraud.  Giving your address and phone number is illegal.  The collection companies could press charges against her.  Talk to your family attorney regarding this matter.  A judge can force her to abide by her divorce decree.
574430
Since she left then you can claim abandonment which will minimize what if anything she would have been entitled to, but for right now file for a legal separation and change her as the beneficiary on all of your policies, as well as cancelling all of your joint accounts and opening separate accounts. Sounds to me like your married to a golddigger. Dump that troll.
1174559
What your attorney is saying is that it will cost you more in legal fees to go to court than what the stuff still in dispute between you and your ex is worth.\n\nAlso, some judges resolve disputes over household stuff by ordering it all sold and that the proceeds be split between the husband and wife.  Please note, what you can sell your furniture for is not what it is going to cost you to replace the furniture.\n\nTell your attorney to get the best deal he can, settle the case, and move on.  You will feel better and have more money left.
608399
Gone are the days when man used to earn more. Do not feel inferior that your wife is earning more than you do. Do with whatever amount that you can earn without having to worry and get along with your life. You will gain more request form her if you are prudent in the manner you manage with the little that you have got.....goddammit she is your wife man.
239761
Tough one, need to contact an attorney.  She seriously has some issues.  I would think she's bluffing about the whole thing if she will not provide proof.  \n  She must not be over your hubby or is a drama queen.  Don't think you can charge someone criminally for lying, too bad.  You may have some civil action, possibly.\nGood luck.
768936
Unfortunately, if it wasn't written in the divorce decree, I don't think you'll be able to get anything from it. Remember, he is your ex, which means you have no ties to his pension. I know about this because of my divorce. Everything, including my pension, that was of value was put into my divorce documents. It also stated that from this point forward, everything was separate. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
178269
Here's the thing, if she racked up the bill while they were still married, he's stuck with it. If she got a NEW card account in his name after they were divorced, it's fraud and illeagal, sue her.
488436
He's upset for the very reason you mentioned in your statement: he wants to get on with his life and feels that he has been more than responsible for the house than she ever has, which is obvious since she doesn't take care of it. He is also angry that she is being as manipulative as she is being. For example, she doesn't want to pay for her share of the household repairs because she wants as much cash as she can get to buy the house she wants. Consequently, he resents her. He knows that to sell a house and show it properly it needs to be in pristine condition for potential buyers to view it. If a house looks bad, needs lots of repairs, he will not get the asking price he wants or even get a bid that is close to his asking price. He knows that if this is the case, he and his ex will split less money from the proceeds of the sale. He also knows that if none of the household repairs are completed by the time he goes to closing on the house, the new owners have a right to deduct money from the proceeds to pay for the repairs they will have to deal with.\n\nHe cares about what she does because it will affect him and his wallet: not only is he paying for his own mortgage, but he is paying for the old house's mortgage too, and at the rate he is going with her, and her lack of cooperation, will probably be forced into paying for the repairs to make the house presentable. This is totally unfair to him. I can't say I blame him for being as upset as he is. She really is manipulative and very much a control freak.
763380
My wife was good at manipulating me when I believed what she said.  Now I don't put any value in anything she says and the funny thing is WE are happier.\n\nA while back we seperated (she was having an affair).  She said she wanted to be fair so I took the word "fair" to heart.  She moved out so I took over all the house hold bills because I was using everything, but her student loans, her car payments were hers.  We also consolidated our debt and she paid me half to which promptly paid.  She had access on the internet to see it was paid every month and never late.  So things seem fair right?\n\nI don't need much free spending cash to get by so all the sudden I had more money than I needed.  My wife however, had to pay a seperate rent and other bills so her cash flow was pretty low.  She then said we should go into mediation and discuss child support.  She already said that she didn't want allimony.  Now I don't go into negotiations blind so I read up on child support.  As we were waiting to meet the person who would mediate my wife & I she was telling my how money was so tight.    \n\nWhen we actually meet with the mediator I took charge saying that I just want to make sure what we were doing is "fair".  Then I Iaid out how we had already divided up the bills and that my wife did not want allimony.  The mediator agreed everything seemed fair.  Now my wife brought up child support and restating she didn't want allimony.  I then pulled out what I had learned that in the state I lived in child support was a simple mathematical calculation based on the percent of time each parent had the children.  The look on my wife's face was priceless when I told her from what I found she would have to pay ME childsupport.  My wife grabbed those papers so quick I almost laughed.  The mediator glanced at them and said if the numbers where right then I was correct.  The look on my wife's face was priceless and I think this was also the same time she started to realized that the fantasy life she was hoping to have was never going to happen.  \nI left the meeting feeling happy that my life could only get better.  I continued seeing a few new friends with benefits for a six months or so and my wife found out that her lover was not as stable financially as she thought.  We did get back together, but I always try to be fair.
171468
I agree with skull22, why are you giving her anything if she is your ex, please add some more information please.
712975
She's one of those women who doesn't want the man anymore, but resent it when he is happy with someone else.Your boyfriend (husband) needs to put her in her place.  She has no place in your lives  and HE needs to make that clear to her.  Unfortunately when an ex-wife and kids are concerned there is always madness around.  Been there...done that.  Good luck.
933636
You should probably contact the Child Support Agency for further information if your husband has agreed maintenance payments with them.  FSee below for the link.
47215
Well, as a guy paying 1500 per month in child support for one child, I TOO see both sides of it. I agreed to pay this amount, and was not required to pay it. One of the other responders is correct, it varies from state to state, but runs about 20% of your pay. the fact is, I am more qualified, and financially responsible to raise my child. I have more energy, time, and general resources than my Ex-wife, but do you think I could EVER win custody, even though I am truly more qualified? No, never, not in a million years can a man win.. So for the average man, it is a lose/lose situation.. We lose a large percentage of our pay, and we lose much of our time with our child.. My lawyer said in the state of Texas, a woman has to have murdered someone to lose their child, and he claims there has not heard of a single case where the father was given custody without VERY extenuating circumstances. \n\nTo the person who said "they should have thought about that before they had kids".. Don't be an idiot. You must be 12 years old...
78460
If your husband's ex-wife is receiving any sort of Social Security Disability and she listed her daughter as a dependent, she could be getting money for her now which he would be eligible to receive. Even if she has not listed her as a dependent, he may still be eligible to receive money for her support. He would have to call Social Security to see if he qualifies for support from them. Each state is different as far as public assistance goes. He would have to check with the public assistance office in your state.
1071635
She can especially if she never tells them she is the ex now.  Now if they are for children you will have a hard time with that unless you have it stated in the divorce decree that you are not responsible for medical bills.  But if she is charges doctor bills of her own, you can get those change into her name (but you will probably need to show them a copy of the divorce decree).
554960
Save all you receipts for any purchases for your ex-girl or your kids. Every time you give her money make her sign something that states the amount given and the date. This will help you in court.