Why do women who are chuncky or even fat . . .?
968465
i wonder that myself. people would look so much better if they wore clothing that fit them and was flattering. size 2 or size 16, its all about how you dress to flatter your figure. \n\nhere are some ideas\n1. they can't afford new clothes\n2. they are in denial that they have gained weight since buying those clothes\n3. they use it as motivation to lose weight\n4. they are oblivious that their spare tire is hanging over their pants\n5. they don't care\n6. they wish they still had the body to pull off some of their favorite pieces of clothing
335012
I'm glad someone else wonders this as well. From many nights spent watching big girls wearing way too little at the meat markets known as bars in our area, I believe its because they've fallen into the thinking of less is more and that guys who see enough skin will automatically want to take them home. Alot of big women have low self esteem and seem to do anything for attention, sometimes even if its not good attention. Many of them haven't quite grasped that when you're a big girl, you dress differently. You don't necessarily have to wear a big old mumu, but wear flattering clothes. It's way more attractive and classy.
146340
because either they have a problem like belimia or anorexica or they just feel fat and sometime they feel presure to have the "perfect body" when there realy is no such thing. we do live in a world where if you have eny excess fat on your body it is not model perfect.
873518
'Cause they're fat and cute.\nNah, they don't have hands to keep them in balance.\nPoor adorable thingies.
485270
thats because they have sex which in turn opens up there vagina.....they become fat
1093399
i guess it could be that women, white girls too, are becoming more comfortable with their body and dont have the feeling that they need to be anorexic sticks. so they're showing off what they do have, and if that's a nice butt, then they're gonna show off a nice butt.
181968
they have more muscles than a women phisically, but mentally sometimes, not always, women can be stronger.  No offense in tended at all!
1064012
it's because they think they're fat.. and if they cheat on eating sweets or their diets..it makes them feel guilty and bad about themselves
607925
Curvy bodies have fat reserves on them. History has shown that in times of stress, we cannot eat well; a mother with curves will be able to carry a healthier baby than one that has been starving.  The more curvaceous a woman, the better her man was able to provide for her and keep her and her children safe.  It's the archetypical Great Mother figure.\n\nMen are often leaner than women due to the hunting/warrior lifestyle of our ancestors; for some of them, it's in their genes to be quick on their feet and leanly muscled.  \n\nA woman's curves were once thought to equate with her ability to procreate, as well as a reflection of her family or husband's wealth.
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That sort of woman lives a life of self-induced misery.  \n\nYou know those "gossip rags" that feature unflattering photos of size 0-4 female celebs on their front pages, with arrows pointing to practically nonexistent "cellulite"?  --And the ones who have front-page headlines about how this celeb or that one is dangerously anorexic--complete with photos of bones sticking out all over the place  (nevermind that the same gal who has bones stuck out out on one part of her body might have microscopic "cellulite" on another part of her body)?  Well, those rags are designed specifically to appeal to the sort of woman who is obsessed with her own looks--and who assumes that the sort of minute scrutinization of females that these rags promote is, somehow, "normal" behavior!  The whole point of this sort of thing is to 1-sell stuff and 2-to keep us women in such a constant state of insecurity that we won't stop to think about the really important things in life.\n\nIn other words, if you buy into the way of thinking that these rags are selling, then \n1-you support the notion that women's value lies solely in their looks and sexuality\n2-you are obsessed with maximizing your own "value"\n3-you invest all of your time, energy, and money on improving your looks\n4-in order to feel "validated," every other woman must also be "competing" with you, and you must "best" them\n5-if you happen to spot some woman, somewhere, who looks as if she doesn't care about hair, nails, makeup, weight, body firmness, etc., then you get ALL INFURIATED with her for not even TRYING to compete in "the game," because in your mind, she is implicitly saying that she doesn't value the same things that you value...and this is an unforgiveable insult!\n\nSo, basically, when a woman scrutinizes another woman in this manner, one of two things is happening:  She may see the other woman as a competitor in "the game," and she's assessing the other woman's "value," as compared with her own.  If she figures that the other woman is not "as good as" she is, then she's pretty happy with herself.  If the other woman looks better in some ways, then she'll scrutinize her "competitor" closely, looking to find ANY teensy little "fault."  OTOH, the women who appear to be not "playing the game" at all are on the receiving end of blatant viciousness, because the other woman's non-conpliance with the "looksim" value system is perceived to be an insult...and insults "must" be met with counter-insults.  For example, there was an infamous incident in California, in which a fat woman was enjoying a piece of pie, and some skinny woman walked by her, literally slapped the fork out of the fat woman's hand, and screamed at her that she had no "right" to be eating pie, due to her weight.  But what the skinny shrew was really saying was that she was angry that the other woman obviously didn't care about how good SHE (the shrew) looked, given that she (the fat gal) didn't seem to care about her own looks.\n\nYep--all of those self-appointed "Queen Bees" need constant affirmations in order to feel like queens.  They require constant feedback from men-in-general (they actually seem to enjoy obscene comments being shouted at them in public--in their minds, it affirms their sexiness), and envy and admiration from all women.\n\nPretty sad, huh?
63154
thanks for inviting me to answer your ? i think the best way for me to tell you why i like larger women is to tell you why i dont like skinny women\n\n1) skinny women are shaped like skinny men. straight up and down, no curves, nothing.\n2) skinny girls seem like they feel that they are above it all, that guys should be falling at their feet.3) skinny women seem to be VERY judgemental, especially of other women. seem to feel superior to them all.\n\nin my experience and observation, a woman that has some curves seems to be more content with life, friendlier and more genuine than the skinny people. add to this that they are shaplier, curvier and just in general, healthier looking than a beanpole, i feel its a no brainer to want a heavier women.
308372
I wonder that myself, I hate the way guys treat bigger women. I guess they are just trying to cover up there short comings. some of those pretty,skinny chicks they like end up treating them like shit and they deserve it.
58373
if youre really really fat lose weight, men dont mind women being a little overweight but very few except weirdo chubby chasers desire obese women sorry  but its true.
361271
Well! There was a "Marie Claire" article a few years ago about women in Jamaica eating chicken fat to make their butts huge.....I am sure that she has other fine attributes...you may want to mention them to her...
304702
What a hum dinger. both people beat them selves up about how they look, but ultimately it goes back to wehter you can get in a bikini or underware or your bathroom. Fat people have not much, so they should be alowed to. Their lives are hell i don't think it should be an issue.
384549
Because peer pressure says they should be and they have no respect for a woman's mind rather than their body. Don't sweat it though, there are plenty of guys who like bigger girls out there, and besides almost everyone of those guys will end up with a girl that eventually will be fat anyway after the kids and life takes it toll, so screw 'em.
677779
why she gotta be fat nasty how come she just can be fat...lol im playing im a female and if the tables were turned i would not marry a "fat" dude for his money. goes against my morals