What do I do to get over the nicest person. She left but she had to, I knew it was coming.?
957931
You didn't offer much information so it's a little "difficult" for anyone to help you.  If she was a "nice" person and she "had to leave" and you "knew it was coming", just be thankful for the time you had with her.
1015084
It is difficult I know.  Been there and done that and its not much fun.  You just have to be patient.  Find someone else to share some time with. Someone out there is worthy of your love and efforts.  Time heals all wounds and this is going to take some time.  In the meantime while your wounds are healing, find a hobby, join a gym, or take a evening class, anything to get you out of your blues.  Mingle with others and find someone else that you like and before long it will be easier for you to think about her and not be upset.  It wont be easy, but you will be ok and you will be a stronger person in the long run from all of this.  Yes a closure would be a nice thing to have but some people dont like confrontations or goodbyes.  Dont beat yourself up over it.  Learn from it and consider it a chapter in your life and start working on a new chapter.  Good Luck!!  And yes, this is normal feelings when you get dumped or something doesnt seem to have ended as it is "suppose to".  Lots of unanswered questions still in your head, rehashing over and over.  Best thing to do is go on with your life and cherish the memories you had and concentrate on making new ones.  Old saying is "when one door closes, another one opens".  Dont be so into your sadness that you miss an opportunity.
126663
Letting go is hard. You need to let yourself heal before you date again because you're on the rebound. The girl that worries sounds like a sweetheart but you need to be honest with her and tell her that you're just not as ready as you thought you were for another relationship. As for getting over this girl, acceptance is the key and the first step toward recovery. I've been there, I know. You have to allow yourself to go through the grief stages, and yes, it's like grieving over a death because it is a death in a way. You'll got through many emotions but it is a necessary path that you must take. This girl does not deserve you and if you have to get mad and hate her, do that if it works for you as long as it doesn't harm anyone. Avoid all contact with her because for now, it's keeping you tied to her. Heal first then perhaps you can be friends. If you feel you need counseling, than get it. There is no shame in it. Another thing you can do is to work out at the gym. It helped me a lot and when you see your body starting to change for the better, you begin to feel better about yourself and more confident. You will get over her, sweetheart but it will take time and effort on your part. God speed and good luck. =)
815903
well, you wanna give her time to relax and maybe forget a lil bit of what happened..so dont do anything right away....right before she leaves call and say bye, have a good time blah blah...ok, then she leaves with you on her mind...then after maybe another few weeks or so if you can, send her a text to say, i just wanted to say hi hope all is awesome....then when she gets back, dont get all over her nuts, wait a lil while and then call to say hey! welcome back!..sorry i didnt get a hold of you sooner, been really busy....this way she knows your "over it" weather you are or not....then say hey, there is a few of us that or gonna go and do ....i dont know what you do for fun...and invite her....this way its a group so its real chilled out...this will get you back in to a friend situation...and yer on your own from there.
951804
been there done that. I no excactly how you feel, I had the same thing happen to me with this dude. we kissed and every thing. its a weird situation. since she doesn't talk that much then ask her if you're offically going out. then latter tell her that you don't want her to call you so often. stick with her, once shes gone you'll feel realy bad like I did when I let him go. enjoy every phyisical action she does, it gets better and better. I used to not think about the dude that was with me and we went for a long time. you'll realy miss her if you leave her. I did.
629767
You need to think about why the relationship ended in the first place. Somebody was obviously unhappy. If you truly believe things have changed then all you can do is let her know that, tell her the door is open and let her make her own decision. If you try to do too much to influence her you will turn into a bunny boiler. Just concentrate on being happy by yourself and making your life as full and enjoyable as you can. Someone will see you for who you arw and fall in love with you, either your ex or someone completely new! Just enjoy it cos we're only here once.
580734
Something like that just happened to me and I had to let it go. If it really is something that should be, then let her go and she will come back to you.
1000599
How can he be a nice guy? He hit you and didn't trust you. I would distance myself as far away from him as possible. With time you probably won't even think about him anymore. There are so many nice guys out there and you're not noticing them because you are thinking about this loser 24/7. Hope I helped you out and hang in there.
1092336
Just be there for her and try to take her mind off him by having other conversations.  If that is difficult, then try to let her know that everything happens for a GOOD.
796123
That's the problem my brotha.  You need to tell her how u feel.  You sittin here and you seem to know the exact words that you want to say to her....so let me give you some advice....TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!! I know from firsthand experience that when she is gone it will be the worst feeling in the world.  Talk to her when it is just you and her alone.  I promise you nothing bad will come of it.
1029169
ugh  ,,,  get  over  it ,,,  start  care  about  urself ,,,  and   when u   move  on   there  is  somewhere  ur  miss  right ,,,  looks  like  the  last  gf  wasnt ,,,,,  best  luck  hon
268038
you moved out for a reason.  you just want her back cause your lonely.  you ll get over her i promise just give it time and keep yourself busy
251351
I deal with this daily.\n\nYou move on until you find someone who makes you feel the way "the one that got away" did. There could be any number of reasons that the first one got away, but the fact is that she did, and has likely moved on with her life - you should, too.
823227
go out with friends, get a new hobby, go out on dates, anything to get your mind off her. stop focusing on her and move on with your life. set your goals on what you want your future to be. and this one works for me: make a list of things you hate about her and whenever you miss her, remind yourself of those things.
179373
there really isn't a "delicate" way aside from just saying "it's over, really really over" and sticking to it. how do you do that? \n\nwell, your first step is realizing how much you really want to stay out. you have found yourself going back, and now you feel like a jerk because you're not into it as much as she is. so think of it this way: how would you feel if she was the one coming back to you when she was "bored or lonely"--wouldn't you be mad and hurt? you don't want to hurt this person do you? so stop doing that. you're being a jerk. (not a bad person, but just not who you should be.)\n\nthe next thing you need to do is set a period during which you will not call or contact or hang out or talk more than in passing and out of courtesy with this person. tell her and yourself that this is necessary for your to transform your relationship into a platonic one. if she keeps calling you, then stick to your rule. (i.e., don't answer the phone, and don't call her back. the common courtesy of a greeting when you meet outside the home is okay, but try to make it not go beyond "hi how are you?")  i'd make it a period of about four to six months. \n\nget out there and talk to and look at and be around other women. get to know other women. date. even if it's the friendly sort of date that doesn't go anywhere. cultivate your crushes. enjoy your life. find a new hobby or hang-out that has nothing to do with your old relationship. in fact, try one that your old girlfriend didn't like or prevented you from doing. look forward to finding someone you can love. \n\nthe reason i have never "gone back" is because i keep focused on the reasons why i don't want to be with that person, and i remind myself that being alone is a good thing. i also remind myself that it is a waste of time to be with someone who doesn't present as the "love of your life."
989721
it'll take time to get over someone. let time heal your wounds and go out and have fun with your friends. that always helps. if you have pics of her hanging on your wall,....take em down. put it in a box and just move on. you'll find a much better love as you move on and you may think back on this one day and think "what was i thinkning?".
1024873
try to talk to her/him as much as possible keep in touch with her/him\nlet them know you miss 'em