Practically living together since beginning of relationship. Odd?
960457
If it feels right to you then go for it. It really doesn't matter what other people think.\nI know of a few people who have done this and are still very happy together after many years.\nEnjoy
754933
When you are not moving in for financial reasons of saving money.... Your moving in because you would like to start a life together...  Make sure you date for a year at least to make sure you can experience any red flags, ya know personality dis functions.
964167
Ive been with my b&#92;f for 7years now.I'm 23 now,he's 7yrs older than me.For the first 4 years our family's had issues with us being together.we moved in together only 3months into it while i was living with a girl friend.its had its up and downs but has been a great life.my advice to you would have to be,that you continue strong in the relationship that you have,don't worry to much about the negativity that continues to linger around you and your man.If he makes you happy and you know that he is all good for you,then you have nothing to worry about.wish you all the best....
1051540
I don't think that you can expect to "keep" your relationship in the exact same state that it is in now. Your relationship wil undergo changes being that you and your boyfriend will not be seeing each other as much. You will also be meeting tons of new people and experiencing things in life that you never have before.\nThe key to keeping your relationship healthy is communication. The more you share your feeling with your bf the better things will be between you. This way everyone is on the same page.\nRemember that you have your whole life ahead of you and that you may discover while you are away from your boyfriend that perhaps your relationship isn't what you though it was or maybe that all your needs aren't being met. So remember to keep an open heart and mind... this along with constant open communication between you two should give you the best chance if it is meant to be.
1047032
Maybe you two are uncomfortable with the idea of labeling what you two have as a relationship. Some people feel as if the word relationship is the new four letter word. If it scares the two of you just think of it as you two having fun except you're only having fun with each other.
1101640
Is his well-being as important to you as your own?  Does he feel the same about you?  Is the long distance problem a necessary thing (you EACH have an ill family member who needs your care, or are completing college at separate institutions which specialize in your field), or is it just not all that convenient to be together?  Are you with him because your life would be poorer without him, or because you're used to him and afraid to find someone who would meet more of your needs?  Are you compatible on your future plans on children (or no children), religious beliefs, monetary issues?\n\nThese are questions you'll have to answer yourselves.  One of you may just have to compromise if you want to live together...one of you may have to move.  If neither of you are willing, I would wonder about the depth of your commitment.
239704
Why is he still single (unmarried) at 43? Why do you always have to start the discussion about moving in together? Why did he make that remark?\n\nI think you are right to wonder about his commitment to the relationship. But don't overreact - take it easy. I may be wrong!
632877
If you feel that the time is right, if not then just keep going with it. If what your doing now seems to be working out, then why change it? Unless your both thinking about marriage, or you're living together and want the benefits of marriage, the way you're relationship is now is working. Although if you've been together for 3 years and arn't living together yet I'd suggest giving that a try, believe me it's very different and you get to know a lot more about eachother.
620237
If he'll be living close by, I'd suggest setting up a time once a week or something for you guys to spend time together, and don't let ANYTHING get in the way of it. Phone calls work too, but nothing beats actual physically being together.
1166786
I didnt know thare was a time frame for things like that.I guess it all depends on how far into the relationship you are.I just don`t think thats something you plan out.
927679
Lucky you.  Sounds like you have the perfect ingredients for a great relationship.  You already know eachother very well and you already have a great time together, so go for it!
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
347825
You do not mention how old the both or you are, or how intimate your relationship is.  ( living together, etc).  However, it sounds like he is most certainly not mature enough to have a serious relationship, for if he was, he would know he is not "the first", and so would you.  Accepting that people came before the two of you, and not being intimidated or insecure about it, is a healthy sign of maturity towards a relationship.  You both should be able to converse about each other's past romances and in many cases should be able to remain friendly with those same people.  \nFrankly, should I be in your position I would carefully and honestly review your current relationship to see if it allows both of you to grow as people and as a couple.  If it does not, then it would be time to move on.  This really applies to both of you.  For your current boyfriend to be so insecure, given no baggage in his history, then there is something that you both as a couple are lacking in the relationship.\nThis is not about whose wrong or right, but rather about whether or not the two of you are really ready to be in a one-on-one serious relationship.  \nOne area that needs your attention... Do not threaten to break up, or leave.  After awhile, these words become empty and only serve to increase insecurity.  If you want to leave, just do it.  You owe no explantion to anyone unless you feel it necessary.
622504
well, I'm hoping that your relationship does work out. I'm in the same situation, but my bf is a year older that yours. We are talking about moving in together after I graduate next year, and the talking has already started. I believe that if both of you are willing to work on it, then there is no reason that your relationship will fail. Good luck.
730799
Why is just the weekends you see him?  He could be married. If you know he isn't and it's just a question of schedules or locations then you should talk about moving in or changing something that will fit your needs.  You don't need to move in together as its only been a year but maybe moving closer together or spending a few nights over at each other's place would be in order I would think. \n\nAs you guys aren't exclusive yet go see the other guy there's nothing wrong with seeing if you are making the right decision.  But I'd also but the boyfriend on notice that you aren't happy with the way things are and that you seeing other people isn't out of the question.  As I'm sure it's in his realm of probabilities as well.  I don't know his line of work or why you only see him on the weekends so I can only speculate.\n\nHowever one thing I'm sure of.  If he knows of the situation and hasn't done anything about he doesn't plan on doing anything about it.
131691
Yes.  I believe that a trend that is emerging in the dating world is to take a cohabitating, married relationship on a test run before actually tying the knot.  Living together is an effective way to see if you are compatible after a long time of dating and not cohabitating.  However, don't be suckered in to living with someone who won't marry you, who is basically playing you on an "extended test run".  They can't have it both ways.