We love each other but why?
959598
You all ready know what to do, you answered your own question: "There are so many issues that need to be resolved." You both need to sit down & have a discussion about these issues. Get to the root of them in order to resolve them. Sometimes things can't be resolved & you have to live with them the way they are, because you are 2 different people & that's just a part of life. However these other issues you mentioned seem to be trivial, but why the fight? Counseling may be necessary to help you both over come obstacles in your relationship & perhaps see things from a different point of view. So before planning any more wedding things, get those issues under control first & foremost. It may take several months to get things ironed out, but in the long run you'll both be happier for doing so.
290239
I believe we decide to love other people. What we think of as love or the way we feel when we're in love is really just a lot of chemicals playing tricks on us. To really love someone and to commit to them it has to be a conscious decision or we'll give in to an illusion and it won't last.
307085
Is there a COMMITMENT? More importantly,is there a mutual LOVE/RESPECT between you/them?...Do you both go out of your way to please the other over your own neeeds?--if not,you will not be happy...love is a "self-LESS" concern for the other.It's the only real source of happiness...I wish you nothing but love!!.......Phantom of the Love
205054
If you love each other very much and are willing to put in all the hours need, then you two will last.\n\nI just know you two have it in you to make it work.\n\nI believe in love.\n\nI believe in you.
503551
love needs no language to be spoken,no music to be played ,no creed to be same.its just a connectivity of two hearts at some level.do experience that luv and try to express it before its too late.God bless.
19004
Love is a choice you make.  It's not just those mushy feelings and butterflies in your stomach. It's a conscious decision to love that person in spite of their faults and quirks.  It is unconditional and doesn't change over time.
210594
when you are willing to make sacrifices for her and will do anything for her. True love knows no bounds, no distance is too far, and it never ends. Love is a seriously overused word and love doesn't come around many times in a lifetime for many people. I hope you two do love eachother!
464482
when 2 people can come together and understand each other.  know what their likes and dislikes are to the point that there is nothing in the world that they wouldnt do to make the other person happy.  all of the madness that is going on in relationships today is full of it.  i am getting at the age that i am tired of all of the bull. so i can say that when my mate loves me unconditinoally that makes me happy.
565596
The only reason I can think of is that they love the person so much that they cant imagine living without them. Marriage isn't for the faint hearted it requires open communication, commitment and flexibility. To share your life with someone, accepting their faults as well as their good traits, to be committed to making their life as full of love and happiness as you can so that in return they will do the same for you isn't always easy but the reward of being with that someone special is awesome....
473310
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
15134
Because love is beautiful and wonderous. It gives you hope and a reason for living. Not just boyfriends/girlfriends. But family and to a certain degree friends. life is always fuller when you have love. I'm not sure that answers your questioon but I did my best.
234029
when you both feel committed to eachother...
216237
when you love someone its like if you are not making them happy but you know your heart is in there hands then love them enough to let them go and be happy. but then if you love them so much then you would both bend to compromise with each other so you are both happy. to me. NEVER let sum1 you love go. make it work first. the last solution is leaving. holla
1028144
because that is the way God made us............ love is awesome\nand God wants us to love Him first..........
298093
I am in love with my husband and I have been for years.  Is it child love?  Much better than first love and we will always be each others only love!  We are the beginning and the end to each others lives.
581796
Love is painful that is why it is love..Well i really dont know the correct reason when u come to know do tell me also..
777273
we "click"...\n\nWe laugh, we enjoy each others company, we have the same dreams, we WANT to be together... we both feel "tingles"...\n\n(you just KNOW when you are in love...)