was wondering if my sisters are gay/lesbians will they allways be!?
961633
Only God knows if they will always be.  They should be treated just as they always were, they are still sisters, the same as before.  You should never be naked in front of your sisters, it is inappropriate.  As to if they are a couple together, you should ask them, that too is wrong (incest).  Ask them why they think they are gay and try to help them see that too is a sinful lifestyle.
339623
All I can say is that you and your sister both know better and need to nip this in the budd. She is your sister! There is a big difference between a "sister" and a "lover." What yall two have been doing is called incest/lust. If she was to get pregnant yals child would be deformed, not to mention the heartache that your family has to endure when they find out. If yall don't end this matter now, yall will never be able to fully recover yalls brother-sister relationship as it should be. I would suggest sleeping in separate rooms from now on.  Also, ask yourself this question, if you died today. do you think you would go to heaven or hell for all eternity. This is something for you to seriously think about. The Bible states that all liars, sexual immoral, adulters, etc place is in the lake of fire. Please repent yall before its too late.
1048141
I dont think you can ask her to become a lesbian.  Like "hey you wanna be a lesbian with me". If shes not a lesbian already shes not a lesbian.
68988
they do look like sisters!
286887
It depends.  If your "sister" was born with ambiguous genitalia, but had XY chromosomes, then, yes, "she" would be your brother, because "she" would be genetically male.  However, if your sister was born with ambiguous genitalia, but had XX chromosomes, she would still be your sister, because she would be genetically female.  It also depends on how your sister identifies herself.  She may have balls and be genetically male, but if she identifies and presents herself as female, then she would still be your sister.  However, "she" identified and presented as a male, "she" would be your brother.\n\nPeople are born with ambiguous genitalia all the time.  The only way to tell the sex of the child is to do a DNA test.  Some folks are born XXY or XYY, or even XXYY.  Some folks just don't feel like they were born the right gender, so they psychologically identify as the opposite gender.\n\nSelf-identity is the first determination of gender.  Chromosomes are the second.  Genitals are a distant third, and, considering the miracles modern surgery can render, really can not be relied on to determine sex.\n\nDidn't think this question would generate such a long response, did you?
763768
What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
1124038
no because 'gay people' cant change the way they are (liking the same sex), but sibling marriage is something you CAN help (you can find yourself another mate). \neveryone deserves to be happy, but why would you want to marry your brother or sister anyway?\nand what a coincidence it would be that TWO SIBLINGS would turn out to BOTH be gay and BOTH fall in love with each other. homosexuality is not that common and the chances are of both siblings being gay (AND loving each other in that way) are very slim.\noh yea, and it IS just plain weird.\n\nps: no. WRONG. if youre gay, your sibling will NOT be gay, it is not excactly genetic, which is, of course, a topic we could argue about forever.\noh and pps: Yer Stupid!
1007598
I agree with no offence to gays or lesbians . I remember when I was a kid I had a tshirt with a rainbow on it ...if it was now they woudl of though I was a lesbian ..lol
530079
Sexuality is not a choice, you are what you are. If she wants to be Bi-sexual, she should follow her heart.  Being honest is not a bad thing. Better to find out now before an entire family's future(kids, husband...) could be at stake. If she is just experimenting because she is curious, that is OK to.  Just be SAFE.
42342
They can stay together if they are lesbians.......
70953
Well, you can never "make" someone understand anything, that is what makes it the worst.  The best you can do is remind her that lesbians are normal, feeling, people just like everone else.  Just because they feel differently doesn't mean they are wrong.  Different taiste, and attractions, doesn't mean a person is going to hell, and it doesn't mean they need to be saved.  If your friend refuses to see things from an accepting point of view, then you could try asking her this; "What if your mom recently realised she was gay, do you think you would suddenly decide she wasn't worth your time too??"
425797
No you can't really help it, it just kind of happens. Sibling Rivalry is pretty well documented, and definitely more between those of the same sex. You just have to try to keep the competition as fun and healthy as you can - in the wider world you're better off knowing how to get along, and in the wider world there is always going to be someone who is more talented or less good-looking or etc etc. than your sisters. Try to recognise each others different strengths and appreciate them, that way you will develop individual strengths without needing to compete with each other so much.
162050
I have an older sister and a younger one. I don't think one sister exist in the universe who wants to push her sister away by intention. it is a wrong perception in younger sisters.when they grow up, this misunderstanding will resolve.
678264
I am a lesbian. I date girls that look like me and the ones that you are describing. I see that you are naive so I will make this as easy as possible for you to understand....no matter what she looks like she still acts like a girl. Even if she walks and talks like a guy once you get in a relationship all the womanly traits come out such as sensitivity..prime example. Lesbians aren't lesbians just because they like the look of other girls. It's more of a connection thing.
364943
no.  You shouldn't "become" gay or lesbian- you should already be and definitely know it if you are.  A natural desire should push you one way or the other.  Don't fight nature- she's stronger than you.
755836
Hi hun, Just felt like i had to say i am so sorry for what someone said in one of your answers,people come in here as a safe place and some stranger talks to you (many teens) like you are nothing.I'm here to tell you that was a great and curious  question for new people to deal with in our community(lesbian,gay,bi,trans).It really isn't something that is taught but you will come into your own as you spend time around other lesbians maybe in some social events and just feel your way through what fits you best,some are femmes or more known as lipstick lesbians,some are just tomboys and some are soft butch and some are hard core butch,dress and act much like a man.so you see there are many personalities in our world as well as being in a straight world..I wish you the best and just hall er if you need to ok  Bye Deb
1054282
i dont think that anything has to do with anything\nwhen one is gay, one is gay\nbrothers, sisters, uncles, aunts and the rest of the clan aside\nit just doesnt matter, one just is... no biggie