I'm a girl...my best friend is a girl...I think I've fallen in love with her...What do I do?
969079
well, if you both are each others best friends, than it shouldn't be all that hard to talk to each other about it. If it is...too bad,you guys have to sit down and talk about your feelings for each other, see what she says, heck you might even get to hear some new things come out of your mouth, stuff you didn't know you thought.\nAfter a good conversation you can both decide, do we both want to date each other? Are there any reasons why not?\nafter you've decided just how possible a relationship is, why don't you both go on a date together\nI'm sure you both know what you like doing together already, so try something new, something you would normally "do with a boy".\nAt the end of your date, after looking at each other with a different set of eyes, you'll have abetter understanding of "is she right for me"\ntry to end the day off with a goodnight kiss\nthe next day.....or after two days if you want a day to think to yourselves, try talking to each other again\nafter all of this has gone on, you'll both be at least sure of whether or not you want to give a relationship a try......who knows, maybe you'll both be satified by fooling around on the side....a very natural thing for some very close freinds\n\nwhatever you do, do not let this simply pass by unnoticed, you both owe it to each other to give this a chance....even if you just end up talking about it once.\n\n\n\nor you could do what most girls do; go out, get drunk and lez out with each other.
217225
You obviously love her.  Most people love their friends.  But whether you're "in love" with her... well, you'll know when you are, it will be obvious.  If you don't know, then you probably aren't in love.  But, the thing is, it's really easy to fall in love with someone that's already a friend.  So if you're willing and you want to see if she's willing, to move to "another stage of love," then just go for it.  How you go for it is up to you though.
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
1184601
Are you sure she feels that way?\n\n   Tell her how you feel, how much the friendship means to you. \n\n   Maybe I'm missing something, this seems too easy. No offense, but don't females just love to talk, especially about feelings?
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
219688
That happens alot when you're best friend is of different sex. You hang around every day, you talk all the time, so you start to have a crush. You can like him, but you should be aware that if something does happen between yous, then your friendship may never be the same agian. Though you may be happyily in love forever, if that changes, the friendship could be lost. My best friend is a male, and I never had a crush on him, mainly because I know how he is with woman, so I could never date him. Alot of times, girls wish they could have a guy like their best friend. Just think about what you really want to do, and act on it. You only live once.
767183
Hi/There.\nWell! My Friend !\nYou are simply in Love With this Girl !\nYou should find some time , as difficult as this may Be to talk to her !\n( Where there is a will. There is a WAY !)\nIf You tell her Your Feelings ! I am sure She will be very Flattered !\nIf Not ! ( what have You lost !)\nMaybe a little self Respect ? NO BIG DEAL !\nAll ways a NEXT TIME !\nGood Luck Bro !\nRegards Nick.
592308
Girl - I grew up with a friend like this and yes I called her a "best friend" too.  Looking back - girls will be girls but she can't be to into your friendship if she is trying to scope out the guy you like.  Does she know you like him - if so then that is just sad - let her know you you feel.  If the guy doesn't know how you feel then you need to step up your flirting a bit - let him know you are interested.  Two can play - one will win - girl let it be you.
614903
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
427793
If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!
646511
I have a similar problem the only difference is I think of my best friend as a brother and he told me he was in love with me. You need to sit down and make some rules first to be in love with your best friend could be the best thing that ever happened to you. I understand you being scared that if your relationship moves forward and it doesn't work out you may lose your best friend, but make a pact that no matter what happens you will always be friends and talk things out before you do anything, always be there for each other and you may have found the love of your life.
863050
Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
32027
Try to be a best friends of each other and at the right time tell her what are your feeling towards her.\nHope it'll work!!!
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
569068
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
1157610
It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.