what things r necessary while doing my friend is going to do so plz tell   me that i can help her?
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Diloo\nWHAT is your friend going to do ?\ntell us so that we can help U.
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Just stay by her side,when she is ready she`ll let you know.Right now the best thing you can do for her is just be there when she needes you.You sound like a great friend.
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If the line was really crossed and your friend never  owns up to her part in things, do you really need her around?  \n\nFind some real friends who will be there for the good and the bad times.
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A good woman will help!
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U have to help her build her confidence. Like, always bring her along whenever u went with ur other friends and involve her in any activities that u do. When there's a group of u talking, always involve her and encourage her to talk about herself or something. Eventhough just a simple thing. Ask her opinion and make her feel like she's important just like your other friend. \n\nMaybe it'll take quite some time for her to get used to it, but be patient and keep trying. Tell her to keep trying and convince her that she can do it. Do not laugh if she make mistakes. Every one makes mistakes. It's how we handle it that's important. Help her with that ok?\n\nIf it doesn't work, try ask for someone else to help u. Like a professional help or, ask an adult that u trust to help her. What's important is, she have to build her confidence. Once she feel confidence, she'll automatically overcome her shyness.
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Be her friend!  Help her plan for the baby first of all and then help plan the wedding.  Just buy her something wherever she's registered.  I think right now she could probably use moral support from you than material things though.
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Tell her that you appreciate her concern for your well-being (assuming that this is her 'intent'), but that there are some things in life that you need to handle on your own.  Perhaps ask her if she'd be willing to listen if you need a sounding board.  That might make her feel that she's still useful.
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What kind of help you need ?
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i think ur friend is wise enough to know what she has to do ...dont need ur advice
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What do you need help with?
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Lot's of experiences like that one... well, one thing that would really help your friend is to constantly praise his/her work. commend everything that was done right. if there are things that must be corrected, do it in a constructive way, and a suggestion will do. In this way, you are building up confidence without making your friend dependent on your opinions or praises. Remember, it's just a balance of praises and constructive criticisms. In the end, your friend will learn how to judge things about her all by herself. Best of all, SMILE! Your smile could actually mean everything.
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It sounds as if your friend suffers from serious depression. I know your intentions to help her are good, but if her condition is due to psychological causes there is nothing you can do for her. She definitely needs professional help. Can't you talk to her parent about this? They have to do something less it ends in a tragedy. I admire you for being such a wonderful friend to her. And believe me, one day she will be grateful too.
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Your friends encourage her to do it? Sounds to me like you need to get new friends.
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Don't stop for being her friend it's your foundation... if your intention is good and clean then show it to her. Enjoy the moment you're with her, listen to everything she wants to share with you, it's a good start ;-)
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Well, first of all I would suggest medical help for her.  This is not something you can enforce by yourself.  She needs proper psychological help if she has an eating disorder, so if she is not receiving help for that, I would suggest trying to convince her of that first.\n\nAfter that, it is up to you as her friend to provide lots of positive encouragement, and make sure that everyone else who knows and loves her does the same.
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talk to your friend about this    she should understand if shes a real friend.
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Be patient, don't push (or try to hurry the friend thing)be nice, open yourself to all ages, learn manners and use them, be polite and friendly, volunteer somewhere-get involved, don't take all your friends time-go slow, don't pester, be helpful when you see an opportunity, smile often, don't gossip even if your friend does, don't find fault or be unkind to anyone. \n\nGet involved in something-volunteer at the hospital or animal shelter-this could change many things. Go to games or school functions, be friends with all not just a few.