my boy friend met me at the lowest of my life n he declared me a weak person but i m not ,wat to do?
964434
f-uck him and show him how strong u can be
530465
GOOD for YOU!! I'm proud of you girlfriend! If he doesn't have evident injuries, you should be fine, nevertheless, you can say you were defending yourself.  \n\nGod will give you strength right now, don't forget to pray; everything will be much better once he is out of your life, don't look back.
325842
Be sincere...!!! Just tell him that you're sick for the time being & you can't see or date with him. And, if he don't believe you, just ask him to come over to see your condition. I believe he would be understand. Don't be afraid to be sincere. Because, it's   the best way to make people like you...!!! :-) Wish you well soon...!!!
454453
Don't be ashamed because he only made himself look like a fool. You are not stupid or unworthy. Actually this was probably a blessing that he did why would you want to live with a jerk...K
236791
If he truly would of cared about you, then he would of understood, that is a brave and completely honest thing to say to him and for that I applaud you. Just focus on you and learn to love yourself and then find someone who is worthy of you and your love. that person will be in your life when you are truly ready, take your time. til then explore life within yourself. good luck
727385
Don't beg or plead, you are much better than that! Let him go if he wants to go, he's the one who's going to miss out not you. PLus you are a nice caring young girl who had her whole life ahead of her. You don't need that b.s. in your life!! Find someone better!! Someone that is going to appreciate you and treat you like a PRINCESS!! Good luck and I hope that you find someone MUCH better! =)
44191
Lilmommah, I think you know the answer to this question.  This guy is abviously confused about what he wants from life.  But he is sure that he can always have you as a standby and a fallback chick, when things aren't going so well for him. As soon as he gets himself together at your expense of course, he'll be gone again. Leaving your life an emotional wreck once again. Time passes quickly Lilmommah, don't waste a precious moment of it! Take yourself in hand, get control of those emotions and start seriously dating, there is someone out there who will see you and want you,for you and not just a safeharbor in his stormy little life. You deserve better than this. Now go find it.
404904
go on w/ ur life eventho its hard and go to ur friends and show him that your the bigger person!
184044
you are too insecure\ngrow up, invite him and learn a life lesson in trust and love
448876
I feel bad for you. Get some self esteem and find a guy that really respects you. This guy's using you.
1174679
Admit you made a mistake - because anyone who does that never loved you anyway. correct your life - by taking out the trash (your mate). brush yourself off and get your head on straight and tell yourself he is not worth your tears. Learn from your mistakes and get on with your life. \n\nbest of luck.
518384
leave him. no one should treat you like that. there is some one out there better for you. your worth more than he is. it seems like hes trying to not lesson to your problem and thats wrong. any one that cares for another person will here them out and be there for them, and at less try to understand and help them. plus i know what your going through, every girl needs afection or how ever you spell it. so go out there and find some one thats worth having you as a girlfreind!
1014521
guess,you should stop reaching out to him,and see if he cares he would turn around or  pass him,i do understand its very tough when you care,but why should you put yourself under his  feet to be trampled with your feelings.... i am going thru the same just getting stronger
581945
No honey, you should move on.  Trust me, life is too short to devote your time to a man/boy that is going to let you down like this.
273216
Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
1138941
go out with your friends,  have fun:) your friends are there to give you advice, but you're the only one who can help yourself.....think of the bad things that he did to you.....trust me:)....you can do it\n \nGo girl!
734633
It doesn't sound like there is much of friendship there.  He probably feels guilty that you wacked out the way you did.  Have you tried giving it time to get over him?  I'm sorry that you had to go to such lengths to get his attention.  I feel sorry for him and for you.  I hope you have learned that no man is worth your life and I hope you realize how lucky you are to be alive today.  Give it time and get into group or one on one therapy or both.  You may feel his is your soul mate but; don't you think that if he was your soul mate, things would not have gone the way did.  If you were truly meant to be, you would be but; your not.  What does that tell you?