What do you do when your really lonely?
969718
Crawl in bed and relax and think about being  with someone and then realize I am better off alone!!!
951371
Don't let things get you down.  And don't beat yourself up because you are feeling badly about things.  It sometimes is easy to blame ourselves and to think we are alone.   I know it can sound easy to do, but just try changing your thinking.  Call a friend and arrange to go to a movie on the weekend, or just go for a walk.   I know it can be very hard at times and sometimes the loneliness can be rough, but just hang on and try to see beyond the rough day you've had.  Remember, today will pass.  Tomorrow can be very different.\n\nAlso, if you feel the need to speak with a doctor, go ahead and confide in one.  Perhaps the doctor can help you with some counselling.   Sometimes we don't see things as clearly as someone else -- the old saying, "can't see the forest for the trees" -- because we're not seeing things with the same perspective as somebody else.\n\nGood luck, and get a good night's rest, and a better day tomorrow.
899634
Go out and do things with friends.  If your friends suggest an activity and it doesn't sound like a bad idea, then accept the invitation.  Otherwise, think of an activity and suggest it to a friend.  Just go for it even though you feel unsure about the activity.  Go skiing, hiking, dancing, golf, drinks, movie, shopping, concert, campus party, etc.  Join a club and get involved.  Make friends and then make sure you maintain contact.  Once your life is filled with friends, you will be super busy and you will no longer be a loner.
174814
Stay busy. Keep moving. Treat yourself to a pedicure. Just don't stop moving or your situation will consume you.\nFind ONE great friend and you will NEVER be alone. If depression is a factor, I suggest you seek counseling that would fit your personal beliefs. I have suffered from depression my whole life which makes you afraid of being alone and scared all the time. Counseling was the best step I ever took, but you have to implement what you learn into your life.
298574
do other stuff that can preoccupy you.. exercise.. read a book.. watch a movie.. go out with your friends.. try to find your self again first before going out with other people so that you can be ready when that special someone comes..
499064
Talk to people in and around where you live.\nSee what they think of you.\nTry and get friends that really like you for you, not online.
1135058
go solo for a while. relax take a break. sometimes that helps. is that the answer you were looking for?
1096227
My suggestion to you is tht take part in activities,being lonely & just thinking abt it will not help u in anyway so make frnds or if u have c tht u meet them daily for somtime go for gym or look out for job or activity tht keeps u busy all the day.Try to b active go for morning walks or play interesting game or u have sister sit down with her & discuss this she also may b in a state to help u to deal with it. U r not deep in relation with people tht is not a justified reason for u to b depress . try to understand tht there is time & situation for every thing to happen u will get things but b bold to face everything
242491
I'm sorry for your loss.  It's going to take some time to get yourself back to feeling normal again.  You should keep yourself busy with activities, visit with your friends, try a grieving support group, take up a hobby, find things that interests you, talk to a good friend or someone you haven't seen in a while.
224948
make new friends first and hang around with them that way you'll have the chance to meet many people.\n\nPS: you can't find true love on the net..
362532
Talk to him. When you're home alone find a friend you can talk to.
218220
If you're surrounded by "friends" who are miserable and don't like you a whole lot, how can you possibly make new friends? Sometimes, you have to be lonely for a while before you can become unlonlely again. Give it a shot, it won't kill you.\nJust don't call anymore. Just don't stop by. If they call you, go ahead and answer the phone (unless they start to harrass you- then you block their calls.) But when you answer the phone, just act like you're talking to somebody who's trying to sell you something you don't want; hear them out, then tell them you're not interested, have a nice day and thanks for calling... they'll either get their act together and start treating you better, or they'll be miserable without your help and you'll be on your way toward a better friendship with someone else.
493917
Have you tried finding friends in your neighborhood? Find a nice person, and maybe take a walk with them in the afternoon. Get to know them. Go to the mall or a resteraunt, and start a conversation with someone, dont sound desperate though. Later, when you have to leave say, maybe we can talk sometime, you can come over maybe and we can have a barbeque or something! Good Luck!!\n\nP.S. try Yahoo Ansers too.....some ppl give u their e-mails and maybe you can visit them.\n\nGood Luck and hope this helps!
99258
I am sorry you hear that you are lonely.  There are churches that help out lonely people. Find a good church and make friends. Or better yet, go to the home for the aged or old age community.  There are many old people who go there to find company. Good Luck my man!
650422
im such a loser and keep on boring myself\n\ncan you help?
483139
Cry it out for a little while.  Then call your friends and hang out with them.  Keep busy.  Always remember, out of sight, out of mind.  You will get over it.  It's hard but you will.  There is no better cure than friends. Trust me!!
174254
Loneliness is a terrible feeling. We have all experienced it. Do you have a friend you can call? How about a neighbor you can visit . Try walking around a mall or visiting another public place. Maybe you just need to get out and do something. When I feel alone, I like to do that or I do something that will keep my mind busy like read a good book or watch a funny movie. Avoid anything negative and more depressing. :)