just met a great guy that moved into my condo complex,but lied to me about his gf?
966169
Follow your instincts, lose him.
647669
You are a minnow in a big pond, an inconsequential thing that he might consider if it is convenient.  He perceives your offer is right on the edge of inconsequential.  Now if it looked like you could be very valuable to him, you would have a higher priority.  Right now, he's got piles and piles of things to juggle space and time for, almost all being more valuable than you.  Figure out an advantage (to him) or blow it off.  He's not lying, he's just busy and your value isn't perceived as high enough to merit nailing down the time and effort.  Sorry.  It's like dating a gorgeous woman who can have almost anyman she wants, why would she want you?  You've got to be worth it to her somehow.  This is different from desperate plain Jane's--right now you are behaving like the deseparate plain Jane who is mad that some guy who smiled at you hasn't called.
66397
He is a liar and a cheat. It happened to me, 'cept that my bf went to a movie theater and hosed somebody off. I got mad, but unfortunately, i was also forgiving. And now, I am paranoid that he might still be doing it.
654376
I know it is not right what he is doing and what he did to you is not right.  But, it is his life and how he lives his life, is up to him.  If you want to, for kicks and giggles, write to his ladies, I would let them know, but, there is a possibility that he may be able to track you down, somehow.  Be careful.  Truthfully, I would just mind my own business and forget he even existed.
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maybe when you told him he wasn't getting any , he stayed with you just in case you eventually let your guard down, he is an idiot to not call you after running around after you so much..leaving town is a BullSh*t excuse and now he is probably looking elsewhere....you were indeed played like a hand of poker..get over it and find someone who can treat you right
914814
Then he wasn't really your boyfriend otherwise he would have stayed with you.\nFind someone worthy of your time and attention.\nTry...www.plentyoffish.com for help.
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him
827144
Quit calling him... him going out of town will maybe give him a chance to clear his head and realize that you are what he wants. If not, then you don't want someone who doesn't want you. He obviously cares or he wouldn't have introduced you as his girlfriend! exspecially to his friends. I would say back off and he will come around. Hope things work out the way you want!
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Lol this is what we called egocentrism. Many of us males brag about "Yeah I banged her upside down", "She's my biatch, I have explored her inside out" blah blah. Personally I think those types of guys need a proper education.\n\nIn your case, it might be his gf, or both. Just bear with it and be happy that you are no longer together with this person.
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it is quiet and all of my neighbors are old people...except for this one REALLY CUTE GUY!!!!!!!!!(and when I checked out the neighborhood, he said that he wished that I would be his neighbor...and wished me luck....so...who knows????) \n\nno, that is not why I moved in...just consider it a bonus, though\n\nI think I may need help one day and he will be the only person that will be able to ask for help... I wonder where that will lead????...
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I don't think you're overreacting at all. If he can easily lie about the small, stupid stuff, then it makes it that much easier for him to lie about big stuff like cheating. And if he's lying about going somewhere, then he probably didn't want you to know he was there and who he was with. I wouldn't trust him, which it doesn't sound like you do. Do you really want to be with someone you don't trust? Having to constantly worry that he's lying to you or cheating on you? Trust me it's not worth the effort. It'll just make you crazy! You deserve better!
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I read your question and your answers.....no one attacked you. I was expecting to read some evil, vulgar things....but no.  There was one or two in which they were quite blunt with you, but all the others were quite sensitive and informative.\n\nBut, on this thing people are going to be jerks. Even to the most legit questions get a$$hole remarks. \n\nPersonally, I think you should have confirmed the rumor with him, before just dumping him. I mean, you've known the guy for  4 years, so you HAVE to know how is with women......right?\n\n To avoid that happening again is kind of an impossibilty. Because, most people put on such a facade in the beginning of a relationship.
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if he's telling you so....\nhe will most likely not lie to you.... but does he seem like that type ???? is he the one who will never lie to you ... no matter what... or will he just tell you what you want to hear ??\nIt might just be a friend...\nIt's natural to feel that way about him... just ask him nicely, to tell her to stop "hanging" on him\nif shes a friend then she willl respect what he says\nTrust me... just talk to him.. it will all be better then
116425
Wow!  He hid that from you for so long... were you married or did he just never have the opportunity to pursue you during that time?  Were you two friends during this time?\n\nAssuming you two were at least somewhat friends, that's awesome.  Sounds like he's pretty honorable to not interfere during that time for whatever reason, and has had you in his heart.  The only bad thing is that he's a cop and so there's added stress in that occupation which is why they have such a high divorce rate.  But this guy seems to really want you, and he'd probably move heaven and earth to keep you two together.
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please i fell for this too same excuse everthing, i fell in love with him, now this will either turn out two ways, he will one leave you cause you get too attached to him and he cant jeopardize his relationship with his girl cause he cant live no where else, or he was just lying to you and never plans on leaving her so he is just stringing you along till he gets tired of you, another option will be he decides to leave her and move in with you and freeload off of you honey i say leave his ass now he is no good for you and this will only end in heartbreak ,trust me i been there done that bought the t shirt my heart got stomped on cause he left her to live with me then left me to live with someoone else ,any man who will cheat on his girl is not a man you want, im telling you to save you some trouble run now faster please you wont regret letting him go but you will regret holdin on to him
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You have a right to be suspicious but the good news is that he didn't try and tell you he did get a haircut.  Keep and eye on him, but don't assume he is cheating at this point.  You are in a different relationship with this guy than the one he had with his ex and you knew what was going on there and have trusted him this far.  Don't let your fear ruin what you have without proof he is really doing something wrong.
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He was simply a looser- dont let him occupy your thoughts. Learn the lesson and MOVE on. You are better for having known him- cause you wont let another freeloader move in on you again. RIGHT?