Is there a big difference between using my fingers to masturbate and using a dildo?
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most dildos will go alot deeper inside than your fingers ever could
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MASTURBATION IS NORMAL WAY OF GETIING PLEASURE AND IT'S A LOT OF FUN.\neverybody need to know how their body works. relax and enjoy!:)
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Fingers work terrifically. Household items....vegetables like carrots, cucumbers, etc. work well. Food items like hot dogs, bratwurst, etc. are also good but they are messier.\n\nYou would do better, assuming you're a female writer, to get away from inserting things and spend your time focusing on massaging your clitoris. Your fingertips can massage your clitoris perfectly and provide you an incredible orgasm and sexual release. Or, insert something into your vagina so that you feel "penetrated" to simulate a penis, and then massage your clitoris simultaneously with one hand while you "pump yourself" with your other hand. That oughta get the job done!\n\nWhen all else fails, ask any guy friend for help. I don't know any guy that wouldn't be more than willing to help you. Even if you don't want to "have intercourse" with the guy because he is only a good friend, you can ask him to be a masturbation partner. It'll work out well for both of you. I know it sounds crazy, but this has worked out for me with one of my wife's unmarried best friends. They are no longer best friends anymore, but this arrangement didn't cause or have anything to do with their broken friendship.
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To have sex of course. If that is not possible, you could masturbate.\n\nIf both of them are not possible. Pull you penis out, get it good and hard, the smash it will a hammer. You will not feel like sex then.
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You're not alone! I've used ben wa balls, and also a small vibrator...\n\nNot to mention just doing it myself....
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Yes, it is. Try with your shower faucet. (well not the object tiself, but the waterflow!) my g.f. has wonderfull orgasms this way. But now she likes the toys too! and also her fingers...\nAnyway, you must try until you get there, because you will, eventualy!
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yeah it geniunely feels like a handjob. i have trouble clenching my shaft so i have to use two hands but other than that it is awesome.
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i dont know whats up with all the unnecessary words but i can tell you that masturbating doesnt harm your body. it makes your genitals stronger. youre building muscles in your pubic regions when you masturbate. when you finally do have sex, you'll probably last longer also.
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there is 1 huge difference- masturbating is free- once u have sex with a girl you'll be paying for it the rest of your life
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I have found that if you take one hand and pull your balls closer to your body right before you orgasm, that it will last longer and feel better. You can also stop activity right before you feel it coming and then start again when the feeling dies. This will allow the orgasm to build up and when you do orgasm it will be longer and more intense.
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Here's the thing, when men use toys it's kinda creepy because men masturbate a lot more than women do, and it just seems like you can't use your perfectly capable hand. When women use toys it's more along the lines of exploring their body and sexuality, the reason is simply because people think that women are afraid to masturbate, so by buying toys it shows boldness and it's considered sexy. Yes it is unfair, but what can you do?
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Wel being a woman, I can tell you that masturbating is a normal and healthy thing to do and unless you are masturbating with mellons you will NOT make 'the hole' larger. The vagina is very elastical and will get back to it's normal shape. It might become more easy but don't worry that you will have a cave-like body part... \n\nIf you give birth it does become less tight. \nAnd slowly by age. It's a matter of using your muscles or not. If the muscles are streched out too much they can loose their elasticity. \n\nYou can train yourself by 'squeezing' the musles of your vagina a couple of times a day. Like you do when you really have to go to the bathroom but have to wait. \n \nBelieve me, I have experimented quite a lot and everything is fine. ;-)
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LOL at the fingers and tongues answer... if you can get your tongue down there you've got it made! :D\n\nSeriously, though, it's harder for a woman to orgasm just from penetration.. so a dildo or fingers or (sigh) cucumbers generally don't work as well.  \n\nClitoral stimulation is the way to go... if you don't know where that is, touch your finger to the top edge of your vaginal opening, then pull it towards your belly button... there's a small bump towards the top of your vagina that feels really really good to touch.\n\nStimulation can be done in lots of ways... repeated touching (often touching the sides feels better than just rubbing the round part), nearly anything that vibrates (back massagers, electric toothbrushes, etc) and if you have one of those cool shower heads with the adjustable spray intensity, that has a long hose, that will rock your world.\n\nSo have fun, take your time, and remember that it's a normal and healthy activity... and one that will make you a better lover!
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funny thing is you cant say masturbate but you can say dick and vagina....suuure, that sounds about right....\n\nAND YOU CAN TYPE MASTURBATING.....but not m*sturbate...thats very odd...
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do a google search for masturbation,you will be surprised at peoples different methods.I tried one i saw,wasnt bad.You vaseline the old fella,stick it in a small plastic bag.Then stick it between your mattress and a pillow(and pump away)no hands,just like sex,except your pumping a bed(get naked while doing,much more fun)would be hard to explain yourself,if you got caught in the act though.Be defenite of privacy,doing this way
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How long have you been trying? Both in the sense as to how long ago you started masturbating, and how long do you mastubate for?\n\nIf your clit is starting to hurt, then you are applying to much pressure. Just rub it lightly, you can also try using a lubricant so that your fingers just glide over it. Try vasiline, or lotion if you don't happen to have any KY around the house.\n\nAlso you need to have plenty of time, trying to rush yourself to an orgasm will always leave you frustrated.
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They are all pretty much the same except for the two extremes.  I have had really tight and I have really loose.  Also, the girl can squeeze during penetration or (my favorite) make it pulse.  Also, I've noticed I can make her tightness change depending on what I do.  Spanking or pinching or pulling tends to change the tension as does the state of arousal.  Yeah, so all pretty much the same.