why is my boyfriend writting love poems to this girl in her fotolog?o.0?
968209
If those posts are fairly recent on the fotolog, then the answer is simple: leave him! His friends may not even know what he's doing because he knows it is wrong and that it would get back to you. I would ask him about it, fotologs are public right? So, you wouldn't be digging in his private stuff. But he may lie to you. If you have to question your relationship, it probably is best to move on and find someone that will write love poems to you.
367621
Honey...sorry to say this but this wonderfull boyfriend of yours does not respect u or the realationship that he has with u..just by reading what u wrote i can tell that this kind of behavior from him breaks your heart...u shouldn't put up with this at all...if he is staring at her in front of u..god only knows what he does behind your back..it doesn't matter what any of us post here to say to u...But if i was u i would move on...get your things when he is not around and get out of this relationship...think about it this way...if i was your sister and i told u what u are telling us...what would u say?...see what i mean?...there are some wonderful guys out there that u havn't even met yet that are dying to meet u
720185
Hey girlfriend... I'm bit but guessing that your advert is to other girls? Lol, kisses xx
115900
The fact that you are even asking yourself this question means that deep down you already know the answer to that. He doesn't love you. One because he's cheating on his girlfried by writing you love letters, and second, do you really want someone who is unfaithful?
565822
Poems are cool, but sometimes guys don't get that.  Just talk to him.  He'll remember that for sure, unless he's a jerk, in which case you probably won't have that crush anymore.
1167570
you are talented. Every one shows his/her feelings in a way, and one of the most beautiful ways to speak our mind is writing a poem.  :)
110247
Awwwww that was a great poem if i was her I would like it. Girls always like that sweet love stuff and they really like it from a guy they date.
865470
you women are insecure for sure!\nwhen you think you can sense hes up to no good, you are actually falling for your own delusions. you are nutty.\n\nget over yourselves. so if hes on the toilet for too long and doesnt read your insecure "remind me how much you love me" texts, then hes instantly cheating?\n\nyou are not only insecure but have delusions about your importance too.\n\nmate, if the girl you text rates your interest on the reply time, give her a miss, shes insecure and nutty too.
553456
I think you are really sweet! Jeez, I wish my guy was that sensitive. I am betting she loves you the way you are, and I wouldn't really change anything. Just tell her what you told us about what is in your heart!!
829783
The fact that he has shown you a picture and told you about her is not worthy of concern.  That's just him sharing himself with you.\n\nHowever, what is concerning is his statement and the comparisons.  He obviously is looking for someone to fill her void...\n\nI wouldn't tell you to just throw it away.  What I will suggest is talk to him, tell him it's concerning.  If things don't change and you still notice weird comments/comparisons, I would move on.
749079
if i got a love letter, then i would think about it all the time, but i would try to hide it. send him another one but this time give some random clues about who it is, but make it mysterious. by the way, i think wat u guys r doin is hilarious.
622157
It  is a wonderful poem. Submit it to poetry.com (the National Library of Poetry).  I have a few poems on their website and more that were published in their anthologies.  Yours would definitely get to be in :)\n\nAs far as breaking up with your bf, write write write.  It is healing therapy and it helps get over the hurt and emotions.  When my first real love (I was 20) and I broke up, I was devastated.  I went into a deep depression and didn't get out of it until I wrote every last thing out on paper about what I was feeling and then I finally was able to open myself up to other people and eventually met some cool guy friends to hang out with.\n\nEDIT:  Don't change anything in the poem unless it makes sense to you to change it.  I have learned in my writing years that changing a word here and there may not seem drastic to other people but to the writer, it can change the whole flow and rhythm of the poem if you add too many words in that were not in it originally.
351849
Honestly? nothing, there is no reason why your boyfriend can't think your friend is cute.  This is not a statement about you or your relationship.  I personally am in love with the most amazing woman on earth, and I think that Elizabeth Hurley is cute, this doesn't make me a bad person or mean that  I love my girl any less.  Now if he is giving you reason to doubt if he is being faithful, then talk about your concerns but it is  VITAL that you don't start accusing him or her of anything without a reason.  Try and be more secure in yourself, after all your guy is with you isn't he?
534436
Good Poem.......lots of potential! Keep it up!! Good Luck on the girlfriend too.....she's out there!!
328486
You luuuuuv poetry thats for sure, to think of so much stuff is great. I like it however I find myself confused about the meaning. Are you making fun of passion or beeing coy? I think you are holding back! Don't be shy, there is alot of "passion" in your poetry. Don't hold back!
851910
I think it is good so far. You are telling him how you feel. Explaining in detail where you are finding issues in your relationship that has gone wrong. Also I think writing sometimes is the best way to explain things. Every thing is right there to read and the person reading can't change it around. It's right there in black and white. Good luck to you. I hope that you are able to smile again.
360969
He has been with you for two years, so this must mean something. He says he loves you and I am sure he does. Is he a generous and  thoughtful guy as this is an indication why he gives money to that girl. She is probably in a difficult situation and has no one else to turn to. Is he replying to a text rather than sending them which is a bit different. Give him a chance. Dont throw away the time you have been together. Play it by ear for now.