My boyfriend is really rude to me, should I stay and take it or should I dump him?
967513
See, that's what you get for putting on a midi and kissing the rude ..........  :-)
172389
Kick is butt to the curb.  It isn't much of a relationship if he is lying and making you look bad on purpose.  If a boyfriend doesn't respect you then he is just a boy and not your friend at all.
1127334
He's  a jerk, accept it now and move on.  \n\nHE WILL NOT CHANGE ONCE YOU MARRY HIM.
989926
you need to sit down together and find out why he get home so late as you find iy disrespectful. if he can't give you a straight answer he may be cheating on you. i would'nt make him choose between his freinds and you though because it just another argument that i don't think you'd win.\nask yourself if you can trust him because if you can't then the relationship is doomed to a dumping.
776728
have a serious talk and if he still insists then break up with him.\nthere are other guys who can respect your decision.\n\nbesides thing could get ugly if you stay with him. from pushy to abuser. he might do anything just to get it. and i mean anything, if you know what i mean.\n\ntake much care
989153
This is your life.  You are the one who decides whether you stay in a relationship or not.  Still, you might ask yourself what the reasons are "everyone" wants you to dump him.  Does he mistreat you?  If that's the case, then maybe they're right... but you have to be the one to call it quits.  They can't make the decision for you, and they can't do it for you.  Good luck.
877148
Sorry, but the writing is on the wall if you pause to read it: Abandon ship.  Better to accept you've made a mistake now, then try to ignore the rather obvious flaws in your relationship with your guy and get married, only to get a divorce later on.\n\nWhile I am mindful of the fact that only your side of the dispute has been presented here, your boyfriend embarrassing you publicly by ditching you at some sort of gathering, and apparently being un-repentant for that immature display is double trouble.\n\nThe immediate next move is an ultimatum - either treat you with respect, even when you are in disagreement (it is possible to do), or don't let the door slap him in the butt on the way out for the last time. \n\nStand up for yourself.  NEVER, and that means NOT EVER do you allow ANYONE on the face of the earth to demean you.  And even worse, to do so publicly.  That is a cardinal sin in a relationship, and if you can't come to terms with your guy on that issue, you will save yourself much greater grief down the road by dumping the little boy now.\n\nGood luck.\n \nOh, and, if you dump him, keep the rock.......
951483
get out as soon as you can. HE WILL NOT CHANGE., even if he says he will. i know nobodys advice will chnage what your mid is set on, but if you plan on staying in this relationship, it is your fear of him talking, not your love. get away from him and stick to your story about the slap. anything to stay away from him...
775730
This will wear and tear on your esteem dear. If you feel that he's totally wrong and out of order, then you must let him know asap. Put a halt to this nonsense and start from there...you probably don't want to live your life like this for ever.
906932
Interesting.  I just broke up with my stubborn boyfriend who also is very mean when he drinks.  Although he is one stubborn guy, he acknowleged that he was a person he didn't want to be when he drinks.  He made a big effort to cut back, at least around me, and it did help.  I think it says a lot about your relationship if he isn't willing to at least TRY to cut back.  It's not like you are asking him to stop having a good time, if he's mean, that is just not okay and it shouldn't be accepted.  I'd suggest talking to a couples counselor.
18037
Nope.. I would dump him. Using the reason, " I made a mistake" is like his 'get out of jail free card'.  Does that mean that you can " make a mistake", also?  I agree with the answer that there are probably things in the relationship that would make someone feel the need for something new and exciting.. maybe a little dangerous.  If you do decide to stay together, I would definitely work on communication skills between the both of you.  Don't look to us for answers... you have to find the answer in your heart and do what it tells you to do.  Will you trust him ever again? Will it cause stress down the line when you question his every move? Will you end up with ulcers?!?!  I hope things work out for you either way.
803721
Get rid, I don't think anybody should be controlled. Find somebody who loves you and is genuine. Just because he is sweet it does not mean he can't be nasty. He's shown his true colours. No women deserves to be manipulated and grounded. Good Luck
142003
Don't take it any more.  You need to leave and get out of this relationship as fast as you can.  No one deserves to be treated like that.  You deserve to be in a real relationship where someone loves you and treats you with respect.
103237
run away, leave him before it's too late, have a little self respect and don't let people treat you like a doormat, stop pissing him off... all of these are valid answers.  pick one
231350
Trust your instinct, it is usually right. Leave him. Even if your instinct isn't right, then you should still leave him. Because you don't trust him. You'll just be putting yourself (and him) through a lot of stress wondering if he's cheating or not. Then you'll end up with a bitter breakup. \n\nSo, once again, break up with him.\n\n**Mr. Curious, you're an a.s.s. I guess the whole world should be as perfect as YOU. Right? You sure think a whole lot of yourself speaking to this girl the way you did. Seriously old man, I know the hemroids make you cranky but don't take it out on girls. Go get some tucks pads or something. Mabey taking a nap would help, too.**
992809
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
1094624
if he doesn't respect you, he doensn't deserve you!!! leave him; you deserve better! and do you mean hurt physically? that is NOT to be tolerated physical or verbal. get a new man.