Why iz it soooo hard to find a good HOMO-sapien???
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On earth? you need to revise your sources.
1130253
Maybe you are looking in all the wrong places!\n\nMake some new friends - preferably girls with brothers!! That always works well.
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No, they do exist. Keep looking....they may not be the most flamboyant or even the best looking, but to find the nice guy, get passed the wrapper...
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are u looking at all races?(black,white,ect) all good men are not married or gay. maybe u need to open up yourself to all races! good luck... blood comes in 1 color , and love don't
584325
difficult to find mate..\n\ncoz all girls are busy on computer making programs to date man...lol
436105
How about your Church? is there a singles group?  Visit other Churches.\nIf it is your desire to marry then there is someone for you.  God fulfills us till that person comes along.\nIt IS hard to find good Christians male or female but do not settle for less.\nAs you are in a big City, it should have many churches with single/single parent groups.
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I want someone who is kind, loving, affectionate and a good comumicator.\nHaven't found him yet...so I guess he just doesn't exist.
1006654
I don't know, but all the good ones are not taken, some of us are still around.....We just can't find the right guys.
495885
Just dont be so picky. alot of good guys out there. i promise. just keep an open mind and heart. smile more and approach. youll see .
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Hey I wish I can tell you where you could find, but it's just going to come when the time is right.I've been searching on the net, went to church and still I'm single. So patience is really a virtue.
612176
lol, good luck finding any decent men in Oklahoma.  Born and raised in Oklahoma, I haven't found 1 yet
354385
Unfortunately, it's a hold over from human evolution. We're hardwired to look for desirable mates, ones that "appeal" to us. Other than that, society doesn't make it easy to ignore the standards of beauty that are plastered everywhere for all to see. Beyond that, it could just be that we're all brainwashed. Give me someone with a great personality and sense of humor any day... it will last long after the the beauty fades!
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Yes, of course there are good men left in the world! If you are having problems finding good men, then you might want to reconsider where you are going to find them. Try to decide what characteristics would make a "good man" for you, and then try and decide where you would need to go to find him. Since I don't know what your definition of a "good man" is, I can't really give you any ideas as to where he could be found. Be patient, the right man is out there for you! Just don't waste your time trying to make a man be the kind of man you want. If he isn't right and you think you need to change him, just move on and keep looking. Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
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They are very hard to find but don't loose hope.  You may have already passed a few good ones bye.  The question may be on yourself.  I know it was on my shoulders after I asked the same question at the same age with the same situation.  I got involved with playing volleyball and then joining a health club and going to church on a regular basis.  I picked apart each and every guy I got a date with.  I finally realized that they must be doing the same to me and then started to look at myself and decided that there are faults in all including myself so I needed to look for someone that wasn't what everyone else thought was great.  I needed to find the greatness in the man of my dreams.  And 2 years later found him.  He loved my daughter as his own.  We have now been married for 9 years with 3 more children, and it is as good as it was when we first met.  Good luck to you and hopefully you too will find the man of your dreams.
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Unfortunately your best option then is probably the internet.  It is can be a wonderful place to find someone but you have to fight your way through all the idiots out there to find the few people that are real.  Beyond that, try and get out more often if possible.  Just going to events around town or taking a class on some hobby that interests you will help in your search.
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You're just going to have to wait for them to come to you.  Most people cannot find them if they look, and when they just sit back and wait, they will come to them.  I fyou really want to meet them that bad, why don't you try a phone dating service, or an online match-up service, uch as match.com.  Glad to help...
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The perfect man doesn't exist, but there must be thousands of reasonably good ones.\n\nKeep looking!