I am NOT READY FOR ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP, WHATS MY FRIEND TRYIN 2 SAY TO ME, I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY, PLZ HELP ME
962867
don't find love coz it will be the one to find you!!!! and for now,just do the things that your heart dictates you or do things that you think is right for you!!! don't push yourself into a relationship if your not ready yet coz it will just cost you more pain!! and about myour ex,just move on coz ders so many guys out there that will truly love you!!!! gud luck!
700674
Ya, if her feelings for you are ever going to change from friendship to relationship, it's probably not gonna happen when she knows that your waiting for her. I've had friends in the past that have professed their love for me after we had been friends for awhile, pretty much, once your in the friend place it's really hard to come out of. I'm not saying it's impossible but her knowing how you feel probably isn't helping, she knows you'll be there untill she's ready. My advice...move on, still be her friend but date someone else. If there ever is a chance of her feelings toward you changing, it'll happen when she thinks she's lost you. Everyone loves a challenge ;) Good Luck!
188180
Guys just usually mean what they say so take it at face value.  He's not ready for a relationship yet so either hang around him and wait patiently or move on.
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
671300
Let's summarize:\n\n1) We are not friends\n\n2) We are not together\n\n3) I don't have anything to say\n\n4) I found my perfect match\n\nSomething is not adding up.  Give me a break.  You are infatuated not in love.  My advice, move on until you find someone you are friends with and when you are together you can talk for hours about nothing.
519969
Its not a bad thing it just means your normal, and no your not a bad friend. She sounds like a lousy person anyways for leading him on. Just give it time and things will come out then you will have your chance. Just hang in there.
300463
Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
548938
look ..i'm in the same setuation as you r ...my ex said he not ready ..so we broke up. And i'm not the kind of girl who give up on everything and trying to get what i want but i just relise what is the point of tryting to get someone who doesn't want me. so i think i should be happy with single life and i don't need them to make me happy. But i love him so i give him what he want ..he want to be friends and i friends with him and he don't want me to hate him and angry ..so i don't and i just trying to be cooling off and i don't show him how much i need him and i told him i'm happy and give him his need but at the same time i'm making my self happy and enjoy my life without him...who know, i believe their is someone out there is waiting for you and me ...and i know i will be inlove again and so do u...but if he want to come back let him be and if he don't just set him free as he wish ...\n\nRemember if u trying to make ur self happy and if you happy life is good ...this is just a part of life ..let them go ...
744765
Hm...where'd you mess up with her? I'm not sure I understand what exactly happened. Maybe you came on too strong and she's not ready to have a relationship with anyone just yet. How old are you 2? It's something to consider. It sounded like she wanted to be your friend but you pushed it and pushed it and now she wants to stay away from you. Dunno. That's my guess, though.
396375
Maybe he is afraid of his own feelings for you, and protect himself,by \nsaying: "he doesn't like you". \nMaybe he is not ready yet, for a friendship, or ,relationship. \nIt sounds to me like an insecure reaction. \nLook out for someone who likes you! Things will fall in place when it is\nmeant to be......
404750
Sounds like he isn't ready to move on cause he's already turned down one of your friends.  You said you were with him when you were 13.  Depending on how much older you are now, I wouldn't try and re-establish some sort of a relationship unless you are ready for one.  To be fair to your other friend, if you truly feel a desire and need to find out if you and your ex have anything to build a relationship on, tell her first.  Explain to her one of your other friends liked him and he turned her down, and she wants you to get back with him, which leads me to believe he wants to try with you again.  So to keep your other friend that thinks she is totally in love with him, from getting hurt and rejected by him, talk to her, explain the whole situation and she won't feel so foolish.  The worst thing you could do is go back with your ex without explaining to her the truth.
365055
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck
503657
he is not ready for commitment. If you are, move on
687509
ok. ummm... maybe he just wants to be friends with you cuz hes not ready for a relationship or it could be that he thinks you guys would be better of as friends.
370009
Maybe he's scared of commitment. I say give him a little more time to get himself together and get the courage up to ask you but if you wait too long it could be far too late. In the end it's about what YOU  feel is right and at the same tine, when he feels he's ready for a relationship. Maybe, he isn't ready but you have to respect that and hope that soon he will be but do not put your life on hold waiting on someone who may never come around. It's all about what works for you, so keep that in mind.
215750
It sounds like he's just really afraid of getting hurt.  I wouldn't say your relationship is only sex though, you've had some great deep coversations and have been friends for a long time.  I definately think there is the potential for a good relationship here.  The only thing is, he needs to be on board.  Don't try to force a relationship if he's not ready.  Talk to him about it, and try to gain his trust.  Sometimes when someone has closed themselves off for that long, they have a hard time opening up again.
484771
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up