how do you to tell if a girl is into you?
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Do me and yourself a HUGE favor, DON'T TELL THIS GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER!!!\n\nThink about it.  If she is an 8 or 9 as you suggest then she probably has a million guys fawning all over her every day.  If you tell her how you feel you'll be just another one of those average chumps! She probably hears the same sh*t over and over again and it probably bores her to death!\n\nDo something to make yourself stand out.  Give her some attitude, dude!  Don't be an a-hole, but don't be a kiss-a*s either.  Treat her like your annoying little sister and bust her chops.\n\nIf you say she's been teasing you a lot, that's because she likes you.  If a girl is into you she will tease you.  It's as simple as that.  What you need to do is have fun with her and tease her right back.\n\nThe first line of your question was "...at the beginning...she was into me, but I ruined that by showing her too much love."  If that didn't work in the past why do you think that would work now?  It's like putting spoiled milk back into the fridge and checking it again a month later to see if it some how is drinkable.  Crazy, huh?\n\nIf you want to drive her wild, then make sure and flirt with every other girl at your weekend event!  Women don't want a guy that no one else is into. They think something is wrong with him.  But if you are chatting up a bunch of ladies and they are all laughing with you and smiling she will think, 'Hey, what does this guy have that all these women like being around him?  I want him to want me, why is he paying no attention to me.'\n\nI guarantee that if you don't approach her and are the life of the event, she will come up to you.  In fact, I will back up my guarantee.  \n\nDo this.  Pay attention to everyone but her.  Maybe give her a glance and a wry smile, but do not approach her.  If she does not come up to you and start chatting you up, I will send you a $10 gift card from Starbucks so you can ask her out the lame way you want to (no offense intended) and tell her how you feel.  \n\nWhen that doesn't work (which it won't), at least you'll have the comfort of knowing that you didn't spend your hard earned money on her and you are no worse for wear except knowing that being lame is just that, LAME!  And that you have to try a new approach with ALL ladies.\n\nThere are 6 billion people on this planet, half are women.  If she fizzles out that leaves only 2,999,999,999 potential others.  Oh, what will you do?  On the flip side, there are the same number of men out there who will try to woo her with their 'feelings for her' and their gifts and she will shun most of them.\n\nLadies out there, please weigh in and post your thoughts.
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you first find a girl that you are attracted to. Then you see what she is into. while you are asking her questions you should tell her about you. If you see that she doesn't care or is not interested then you should stop. If she seems interested keep going. After that you should see if ya'll have anything in common. if you do! it is safe to ask her out. or you can just ask her out without doing all that but, if you want 2 make sure she likes you then follow the steps.
656751
Usually when a girl purposely touches you and for a little bit of time, it means she likes you. You will also know that she's into you if hse looks you in the eyes a lot.
33280
Girls have a tendency to just "know" when a guy likes her...but the major signs are: acting or saying goofy things, lookin' down at their feet, acting embarrased, fidgeting, constantly staring at you but looking away in embarrasement when you catch them.  They also tend to have a sparkle or lust in their eyes.  They may ask your girlfriends questions about you to learn what you like, don't like and if you're single or not. \n\n-Also a side note (hopefully you're okay receiving this info)-  What I've learned is that if you want a guy to approach you, then you gotta make and keep the eye contact, smile and tilt your head a little to the side (as if embarrased).  Maybe play w/your hair a little bit.  But if you keep a stiff face, posture and no smile...he'll think you're not interested, maybe a snob or just plain mean.  Men have fragile egos...they need to know that we won't chew them up and spit them out.  \n\nHope this helps....good luck.
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well ask her on a date... if she says yes (unless she has some totally reasonable excuse; family dinners don't count) then that is a sure fire way to tell she is into you. Then just tell her you are interested in dating her. Nothing scares a person away more than telling them how passionate you feel about them to early. Take it slow until you feel you can truely trust her. Trust meaning she won't take you for a wild "hot and cold" ride. You want her will tell you frankly how she feels. Good luck mate... and don't worry if it doesn't work out... soo many freakin' fish in the sea!
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Well, when I like a guy I look at him a lot and zone out looking at him on accident, so he usually catches me. Sometimes girls get louder or try to act like they're having fun in front of the guy they like. Sometimes you can tell by how a girl plays w/ her jewelry or hair, but you never know if that's just a habit or if she's trying to flirt with you. One more common thing girls do when they like a guy is they look at him and rub their bottom lip, usually with their index finger. Hope I helped, although I know it's kind of open-ended.
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<Make eye contact with her a few times and you should be able to tell if she is interested without saying a word.If you think she is interested just walk over,say hi, introduce yourself and start talking.You don't need a line.
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Well if she feels the same way to towars you then she will let you know.  If it meant to be she'll let you know.  Just say calm and see what she is going to do.  If she doesn't  do anything to let you know she likes you then don't worry anymore.
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If they stop and look at you ... if they look at you a lot ... if they laugh at your jokes ... if they gaggle and act like drunk crazy girls.\n\n1. ask her Friends; \n2. ask her in person; \n3. flirt and find out;\n4. ask a friend to ask her\n\nHere is how it works: Women are territorial, like cats. if the person you like sits next to you in class, scoot a little bit close to her, like 1/2 an inch (half an inch). since women have their "personal space" and their "other people space", she may move farther away, this means that you are still in the "other people space", you don't want that, you want her NOT to move, ie. let you into her "personal space", so what you should do is: 1. Move closer to her while talking or sitting (not too close, like 1-2 inches). 2. See if she moves away, if she does not, then congrats buddy, she likes you! (because she let you into her "personal space").\n\nGood Signs\n1. Smiling with her eyes (She's pleased with you)\n2. Preening (the hair toss) (Kind of like what animals do)\n3. Facing you with her legs crossed, toes pointed at you (She's inviting you into her world)\n4. Leaning towards you (Wants to get close)\n5. Palms open, wrists exposed (Not hiding anything, making herself vulnerable to you)\n\nBad Signs\n1. Leaning away from you (She's distancing herself from you)\n2. Fingertap (She's annoyed/bored)\n3. If her arms are crossed (She's protecting herself from you)\n4. Her legs crossed along with a kicking motion (Upset, annoyed)\n\nGood Luck from Av2ene
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how you know if you like a girl,its upto ya.but to know if a girl likes you tell her that you like her.if she smiles and blushes you got her.but i admit,that requires balls.and brains.tell her when she's a little lonely.trust me,it'll be a one time investment.ask her.ASK HER!\n\nbut i warn you donot try to kiss her or grope her if you are in a country which isin't like america.like india,pakistan,china,japan,etc.
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Just say, "My goodness you're beautiful!  Are you seeing anyone?"\n\nIf she's single, she'll tell you (if she's interested in you).  If she's a lesbian, she'll either tell you she's a lesbian or she'll tell you she's seeing someone or not interested.  \n\nEither way you'll get the answer you need.
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If she touches you.  If she laughs a lot.  If she plays with her hair. If she ignore other guys when she is talking to you.
965005
You never know until you ask.  The secret may be that she likes you.  Then again, it may be that she likes somebody else.  You better ask her out and find out.
785405
You're right, you won't know for sure if she's really into you, or if she's just trying to ease muscle pains or the like. Try offering her a massage, or give her a pillow for her back, something like that. If she responds in a flirtatious way, chances are that she has been giving you signals indeed. By then, you should go for it. I would if I were you. The signals are all there. G'luck!
628251
ask her out or find out if she likes you.
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This girl does one of 2 things - she likes or she doesnt like you...the only way you will find out is to ask her!
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if she jumps you then you will know. otherwise let her make the first move but make sure to drop hints that you are interested if you are interested so that she doesn't get herself confused