Who's fault is it if you/we are not living the way we planned to?
958742
The Fault always rests on our shoulders. Most of the time, people can come into your lives and ruin it a bit, but we have the power to live how we want...we shouldnt blame others so much.
823531
Truthfully I would say vry few people's  lives go the way they plan,mostly because of unrealistic expectations,but also sometimes because of outside influences. I guess you just have to roll with the punches,as for me my life was pretty much incinerated about 4 years ago,it's just a matter of seeing if it's possible to rebuild.
1167423
Lack of personal responsibility.
375108
I believe it means that you should embrace and accept responsibility whenever you can, rather than to burden others with it. \n\nThe world today is filled with people who try to avoid being responsible for many things, especially when something goes wrong. It is easy to point fingers and the biggest problem is trying to determine who is accountable when no one accepts responsibility. \n\nIf each of us would accept responsibility where there is none, and where there is a need, we would all be much better off.
950324
Don't just love people and let them make their own mistakes, it's\ntheir right you know.
230296
Because of all of our responsibility and duties to ourselves and our families...\nOur jobs and bills make it hard to live the way we want...
733930
Sometimes a person has to do what they have to do.  I get real tired of it, too.  In the end, does it really matter?  If you don't you KNOW you will get blamed.  Is it worth that?  How about an ultimatum?  It;s someone else's turn this year!  It has never worked for me especially with my husbands whack-o family.
432678
you're doing it wrong?
1012946
Each of us are judged on what we did with the time, health and wealth that God blessed us with. If we had a hand in harming our environment, we will be judged accordingly, and if we did our best to help our environment, we will be judged accordingly. No one will have to worry about being held accountable for another's sins, and no one but you can account for your own self.
153092
Yes. \nAnd those of you that don't should too - If I'm wrong, and you're right, no harm no foul, we all found our way home - BUT, if I'm right and you're wrong, then you've got all of eternity to regret your decision.
526170
In human behavior, I would call it blame shifting. Even when we as humans do something wrong we sometimes feel the need to blame someone else... as to justify our actions. It's also a way of making ourselves feel better. The second it's not our fault is the second it's not our problem.
1084048
Just because everything is always my fault doesn't mean that this is my fault too, right?\n\nOh damn... it does... doesn't it.
575184
No. I'm responsible for myself.
704940
I think they would be ashamed, angry and disappointed in us with how we treat each other...the lack of common courtesy,  the lack of sense of community,  the violence,  the greed, the waste,  the lack of values in the home and workplace....\n\nWe don't take pride in what we do, we don't instill good habits in our children.  We don't punish or hold ourselves or others responsible for their actions...we make excuses,  we belittle ourselves and others,  we don't practice what we preach and to find a person you can trust......\n\nWe over indulge our children and ourselves,  we are never happy with what we have...there is always more to want.  We forgot the simple pleasure of playing safely in the neighborhoods we live in...building snowmen,  riding bikes,  walking the dog...  We don't know our neighbor's name much less help them when they need help the most.     We would rather throw money at a problem then roll up our sleeves and get involved.\n\nPretty sorry isn't it?
812172
Yes, that's usually how we get in trouble, isn't it?  I think we all have done that and hopefully, we have learned something from the consequences of not "thinking" and weighing our options.  Godloveya.  Very good question.
256114
I think it's beacause we're human and we've all made mistakes. So when we see a chance to stop someone else from doing things that we regret doing, it's instinctual to try to alter their path in life as a sort of pennance for not altering our own. It's like getting a second chance to see how things would have turned out for us if we'd made different choices in life. And I think the only time someoone is ready to hear our advice is when they say, "Can I have your advice?"
55001
I think one's complicate her'his own life.\nThere's not such a thing like...that person is killing my guts!!!\nDon't know I really think that we create our owns problems!!\nI'm not the exception, of course.