I really need help on breaking up with my boyfriend...?
952857
Cut and paste this into an email to him.
373737
why would you break up at all??  If you both love eachother, then what's getting in the way?  If it's something simple-work thru it and carry on the relationship.  If it's serious like cheating or something like that then that's how you can break up with someone you love...and it's never easy.
815669
Try to see if he will commuicate with you.  If he isn't will to at least listen  to you or  try to work it out then he isn't woth having.  One of the key things in a realationship is communication as well as compromise.  If he can't give you that then you need to let go.  I know it will be hard.  Breakups always are.  But just remember there are other fish in the sea.  You need someone who will respect you as well as be able to compromise and communicate.
905925
You should break up with him.  I mean if you are really sorry then give him his freedom from you.
211852
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and wants to break it off with you. Just break up with him, you need someone who akes you laugh. Dont need no A S S es around.
1119496
If you want to break up with your boyfriend, then you should.  However, the question would be why do you want to break up with your boyfriend?  It's really your choice and up to you as to what you should or shouldn't do, but whether it is a good idea or not, without more information, I would have to say you know what you are doing and why more than I do.
887864
If you want to break up with him, do so. But you shouldn't try to keep what isn't yours. This will only make you an enemy for life and potentially drive him to do something bad to you.
1058897
How about "I'm breaking up with you because _______. Bye.". Then click the ignore button to prevent any further annoyances. You don't want him trying to convince you he's what's best for you, do you?
1134339
just leave him\nu deserve sumone better\nhes not worth the trouble u r taking
277418
he prolly just dont know how to break up with u in a nice way ......he doesn't want to be with u but then he doesn't want to hurt u ... its really bothering him ......... you might just wanna save him the trouble and tell him that ur just gonna give him his own space and to let u know when and if he's ever ready to come back around then all he has to do is call u.
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
279278
My opinion would be is to try and talk to him and express to him how you feel. Maybe he doesnt even know you feel this way?\nTalk to him and tell him exactly how you feel and if he is not willing to fix the problem then its obvious your in a bad relationship but atleast try to approach the problem before breaking up with him.
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
628415
Make sure he knows how you feel! But if he does want to break up and he decides not to because he doesn't want to hurt you chances are it's not going to work out in the long run and you should just do it know to avoid being hurt even worse. You will get through this. Good Luck!
1061973
My best advice when it comes to breaking up is this:\n\n1) Why would I want to be with a man who doesn't respect me, trust me, be honest to me, or who is unwilling to communicate his thoughts/feelings or to compromise with me? What I want is a man who is always ALL these things.\n\n2) It's impossible to try and forget him. Stop trying. The more you try, the more you'll think about him. Just remember the good times. They made you feel good and they are a part of your life. Treasure those moments, but also acknowledge the bad memories. Learn from them and then the relationship was not for nothing. Use them to pinpoint the perfect man for you... what you want and don't want in a new man- the right man.\n\n3) Rely on friends and family. Use their support and love to get through this time and get your mind off of it. They are people who really do love you and will always love you, no matter who the new guy is that is breaking your heart.\n\n4) Know that it takes time. Even all the advice and words of support that you listen to don't sink in and make their impact until you are ready for them to. One day, when you break out of the mindset you are in during a breakup all of the love from your friends and family will make its impact.\n\n5) Remember that it's worth the risk! If you don't take the chance, you won't be able to meet that guy who is your perfect match. He is going through the same pain as you are now, because everyone must go through break-ups before they find the right one.\n\nHere are some books that I recommend for getting over a breakup:\n\nHe's Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo\n\nBe Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either : Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve by Ian Kerner
1128024
put an end of this relationship if it hurts you this way...seriously...try to get your life back...simply tell him "I want to break up. I can not stand anymore of your "friend to talk with"...I do not like secrets, there should not be any secrets between us...try to learn something from this...bye  bye forever"...and really bye-bye...or else you would live like this forever...my friend lives like that...and I know how you feel...for your own good, let him forever, he will not change, trust me...I am a little hard on you, you do not know me, but I do want to help you and all women that live like this...YOU DESERVE a person that is devoted to you, that adores you, that tells you everything that happens to him, that lives for you (and you for him, of course)...you would like this, don't you?...I thought so...you just need some courage...
262488
Just be honest with him.  \nTell him that even though you think he's sweet and nice, you'd rather not be with him right now.\nYou don't even have to explain yourself if you don't want to.  But please don't lie.  That's not fair.\nIt's better to break it off now before he gets too attached.  Do NOT stay with someone because you feel sorry for them or pity them...it's not healthy.