shouldnt i be happy??
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no because women always want what they cant have they like the game and once you get them you dont want them anymore. or you were trying to get him so hard that you failed to see the reall him and now that you have you dont like it
554225
I know what you say.Ihave experienced such a feeling,myself:everything is ok,and you still feel unhappy.I think s.th inside you must be changed.S.th about your sprit,about what you want to get from the life.Maybe you dont get a true love from your family,or it is not in the shape you really want.But the most important thing you must know is that HAPPINESS IS S.TH WHICH MUST COME OUT FROM INSIDE.WE CAN GET JUST SOME SMALL PARTS OF IT FROM OTHERS.\nThink about your relationship with GOD.He is the only one whose rememberance can dedicate calmness to your heart.
631944
Yes it's okay....To be different is to be human, If you see yourself as beautiful then the world around you will also see that beauty.But if you are really uncomfortable about it go see a doctor and see if something (safe) can be done, But no matter what chances you make, if you see all the imperfections and keep changing, or fixing them will you then be happy? No one is perfect here on earth, but are you happy?  Take care and love yourself, cause if you don't love you who will?
1100317
Well... look around... Do you like what you see? Are you happy for what lessons you have already learned? Are you pleased on what you are able to do for the better of tomorrow? That is all really. If you are happy. If you are pleased on what you have as a past, to put you in your position you are in now, and where it can lean you from your own ambition from knowing that this is your life. And if you are not happy with anything, well that is something that needs to be worked out within yourself, because you should be happy for everything in your life. Why should there be a reason for you to be un-happy? Are you missing anything? Do you have patience to take the time and effort to get to that point in obtaining that goal? Everything is in your hands. Just remember to take everything as it is and be happy for it. Don't expect anything. Things will flow much better if you do that. Hope this helps. Cheers!
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I'm going through the same thing. And I know someone who went through it and is happily married now. So that makes me optimistic. I guess what I'm saying is NEVER SETTLE... Don't u want to b happy.
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it's not his responsibility to make you happy. If you aren't happy it's your fault. You need to find out why you aren't happy, what you need to be happy, and then let him know how he fits into that.
780322
You can't dwell on the things you don't have or what your friends have that will drive you crazy. I know plenty of rich people that are unhappy, you need to find the things about your life you love and make you happy. If you don't have those thing you should work to find them. I'm one of the grouchiest people in the world but one look and my little girl, or her picture and I feel truly happy. You can as well.
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Try and it get over. You are the only one that can make yourself happy. Dont dwell on breakups or hurting other people's feelings. ITs all point of life. Move on. Everything gets better in the end. Lifes short so think carefully :) The best of luck 2 you!
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i believe u should because life is to short and if u dont do it u would be wondering what would of happened if i did if u try and it didnt work at least u know u tried....it seems ur readdy but only u know what ur heart truly wants and needs to be happy ...i hope that helps u can speak to me any time on:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
465613
I wonder, is he worrying about making you happy.\nYOU dont exist to make him happy. The first person you should make happy is you. Everyone else is secondry.
570253
Happiness should be the goal here...\nAnd if I am unhappy with someone...I would leave.\nThis is a simple one.  (smiles)\nGive me another!
695782
Life is what we make it. No one can make you happy. Happier sure.. but not happy.. you are in control of your happiness. I think you need to work on being happy by yourself before subjecting a gf to you. If you're unhappy how are you going to make someone else happy?
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Yes,life is worth to be happy and thankful for what we have...No,i don't think unworthy to be sad because we may not have what the neighors has across the street or someone else has more money than i do...I'm far from being sad,of course you want to do better,but as long as you are doing your best,you can't expert anymore from yourself...And i'm happy for what i have...\n Clowmy
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Dear Asphire,\nTo enquire, then to be happy with the result is a fortunate outcome. I sincerely trust that life allows you to retain this happy outlook.\nKind regards, Rose P.
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Finally ,now I  can die and rest, someone is happy , hurray,,\n\nI believe I will be happy, when I do not care when I lose anything, and do not care when I gain something..I will be happy when I have the free will to chose or reject, I will be happy when I feel I am secure,, I will be happy when I feel I am loved  and I feel I love,, I will feel happy when I feel I understand why people are not happy,,,\nU notice that I always say when I FEEL (secure, love, loved, understand...) because all that are  just a feeling,, do not have to be true, changeable from person to person,, So I will be happy when I accept what is there  ,what I have and what I do not have , Acceptance is the secret to be happy. ...\n(of-course there are constant terms for happiness, one of them is  to see more 100 pics of urs in bikini)
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Hey Olivia,\n  Yes, you do sound depressed (understandable), no you are not happy and no you are not living a normal life.  But the key words in your question were "I hate life but I think it's worth living because every day is different".  That means to me you are a very smart, emotionally balanced and mature young women that is gonna be "okay".  Just remember what is going on is not your fault or responsibility and that as long as you believe every day is different, you have the ability to overcome this and many more obstacles in your life!  You're gonna be okay kid!
561971
WELL YOU HAVE TO FIND SOMETHING YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT.  YOU SEEM A LITTLE DEPRESSED ALSO, LIKE YOU HAVE NOT ACCOMPLISHED ANYTHING, BUT WHAT YOU DONT REALIZE IS YOU HAVE PROBABLY DONE A LOT MORE THAN MANY OTHERS IN THIS CRAZY WORLD...YOU NEED TO LOOK DEEP INSIDE YOURSELF AND FIND SOMETHING THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.  I SUGGEST VOLUNTEER WORK WITH AN ORGANIZATION THAT MEANS SOMETHING TO YOU.  THAT WOULD BE A GREAT START!  AND AS FAR AS A JOB GOES...YOU GOTTA PAY THE BILLS SO WHAT IF YOU DONT LOVE YOUR JOB RIGHT NOW...STOP WHINING ABOUT IT AND MAKE THE BEST OF IT UNTIL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG...YOU ARE NOT ANY DIFFERENT FROM THE REST OF US....NO ONE IS EVER 100% HAPPY ALL THE TIME...YOU NEED TO LEARN TO DEAL WITH LIFE'S LITTLE CURVE-BALLS AND MAKE THE BEST OF WHAT YOU HAVE TODAY!!