should i cut my losses with this chick or pursue things?
956909
some girls aren't your stereotypical girls.  they don't get all excited when a guy calls.  they don't try too hard.  they don't go after any guy that seems interested in them.  don't expect every girl you're going on a date with to be the clingy, always want to hang out at the first chance kind of girl.\n\ni say go out with her.  she might be interested.  and if nothing happens and you still think shes cool, you can be friends.
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
330803
im in the same situation.. because of my past.. im afraid to get too attatched just to get hurt AGAIN... but honestly.. .if you like this girl alot.. and you're willing to wait to see where it may go, go for it! BUT LIKE SHE SAID.. if what you truly want is to walk away.. do what you gotta do... everyone goes through hard times.. but in the end.. she is probably more concerned with you being happy than anything else!
644872
I would suggest you ask straight up would you like to... go for a drink, movie, dinner, hang out and pick a time and place no room for negoaition.  if she backs out then forget
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
410289
Well if she's giving all the signs like hanging about round you and talkin to you and lookn at u chances are she likes you so what have you got to lose? Ask her out and if she says no then it's her loss and just move on. Gosh I wish the guy I like would ask me out. Instead he chooses to act oblivious...grrr!
308311
Go with the flow. If there is a possibility that you can get together on a permanent basis than great. If he/she is not going to leave there mate then you need to break it off and move on. Life's too short to cause yourself so much grief.
143008
From what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. I say tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't like you that way, she'll be flattered.
911556
Go for it, what you got to loose?\nIf she says no, then you can close that chapter and move onto the next girl.
962962
Depending if you like her, call the next day.\nshe sounds into you and you don't want to leave it too late you you may miss your shot.
731777
she's not that in to you,,, anymore. move on to the next girl. and this time, don't take too long.
546525
well it depends, if it were a girl i liked then i would go easy but if it were also a girl i like and she was being rough and more competitive, i would show her up by meging her or bridging her just to show off, but if it is a girl you dont know than just have fun and try to do oyur best
679663
You have to make the move. You wont get anywhere in any aspect in life if you do not take risks. Chances are she still has some feelings for you. Tell her how you feel before its too late...or atleast ask her to hang out or go to coffee or maybe to something you used to do together. You HAVE to talk to her. If you are just trying to attract her do subtle things that remind her of when you were together but either way you have to show/tell her that you are interested again. Follow your heart!
831392
ask her out! what can you lose??
633272
Well if you really like this girl then why do you have to call it quits? But If you don't like her anymore then don't waste more time and end it ASAP then move on.\nIt's just a matter if what you feel for her is enough for you to hold on to the relationship or is it enough for you to let go. You will still be the one to answer your own question in the long run.
592248
not unless you tell her how you feel. move it boy, before you lose her for good.
939802
Go for it!  What could it hurt?  If she is not interested, then you will know.  But, if nothing else, maybe you have found a new friend.  Good Luck.