How to get converstaion as good as the sex?
964003
Don't make things all about the sex!!  Have a date and DONT sleep together.  You need to generate things to talk about --- likes dislikes, etc.. that have nothing to do with intimacy.
451758
PAy attention to what people are saying and show interest, so the conversation can flow. Ask questions, comment, make eye contact, and know what ur talking about. Don't fake like u know about something when u don't. NOBODY likes a liar!!! Be CONFIDENT
88055
You work your way up to it. Sex begins in the kitchen. Serve her breakfast. Prepare her bath water to take her out on a date.  Buy her a pair of shoes. Always compliment before she asks.  Use the words, "I'd like to talk to you." Women love to talk.  After winding down from all the outside stuff youve done with her.....begin massaging her......caress her slowly.....then let her know....softly....how much you want her.
958381
find something that you both have in common and that you know you can talk about for long periods of time w/ out being/ sounding weird. start a conversation and work your way up. it all takes time. once you think that youre ready, take things to the next level with him all you have to do is pre- think things through before you talk to him and youre confidence will boost up.
1021858
Think of some good open ended questions you can ask and some topics you feel comfortable talking about. Have a gameplan that you feel okay with and let the conversation just flow from there. \n\nAlso, positive thinking, quit telling yourself you are bad at one on one conversations. Tell yourself you are improving at them. Keep thinking that way and it won't be long til you do.\n\nRemember you have nothing to lose and he is going to be talking to you because he wants to know you. He'll give you all the time in the world to come up with the right words and he's probably nervous too. Also, just be honest that you get nervous talking one on one sometimes. No guy is going to fault you for that. Most likely he'll be flattered.
491523
I agree... Communication is the best.. How does it make you feel.. Do you have  the desire or passion...\n\nDo you make it interseting and fun... \n\nAsk him, it only gets better after that..
800664
i just act casually, eventhough inside i am already giggling to death LOL...\n\ni usually keep the conversation short and simple...if you're both working, then how's work, the weather is good blah blah...if still studying, talk about something in your school, sportsfests, school activities blah blah...\n\nso many things to talk about which doesn't involve personal feelings and will not show that you're really that interested...LOL\n\ngood luck!
617254
its nice to hear a guy talk about more then sex but sometimes fun to talk about it to see if she wants to have sex with you and how if she likes you how you will treat her  after you all have sex. also we like to be listened to as well.
475885
Practice, practice and practice. \nVery individual between 2 people, not from a book. Talk to each other find out what you both like, experiment - thats the fun.
68049
First of all you need to work on improving your perception of yourself. Get a higher self esteem. Then you could try reading newspapers, magazines, books, and watching documentaries on TV. So, maybe next time the conversation is about space travel or the life of the blue whales, you will be able to participate.\n\nAlso, you may just be too shy. So, try to speak or even make questions during a conversation.
972398
Talk about fascinating and varied topics.  Discuss philosophy, history, religion, and other things of weight.  It depends on the man, but there are many dimensions to a healthy relationship besides sex.  If you have known him for a while then you should certainly know of things that interest both him and you.
1063351
This is a very true cliche...  Be yourself.  \nLet the conversation lead itself.  Don't worry.  Worry makes you nervous.  Laugh and be funny.  Remember he is just as nervous as you, promise.  If not more.  Don't see this as the only shot, it will make you more nervous, assume you will be seeing him again soon for something fun to do.  Going to a theme park and not a mall is always a good idea.  Adrenaline is a great shy buster and the fun of the rides brings you closer by both sharing something.  Try to bring things into your conversation that you can have opinions on (not to heavy though) - maybe you have the same opinions and that is cool maybe you don't and then it stimulates the conversation.    \nHave fun, if things seem to be going a bit slow (I trust they won't) make it happen, be bold, force the fun if you have to - sometimes it acts as a catalyst to get the fun started.\nTry some meditation (really) here's how:  Lie down on your bed in quiet and visualize everything going perfectly on the day.  Do this for at least half an hour each day until the day.  Don't imagine anything going wrong.  If you do banish the though and rethink it going really well.  It works wonders.  Finally don't be too sensitive if something does go a little off key, roll over it like a steamroller and move on to something fun, don't focus on the small things.\n\nGood luck. ;-)
623683
Don't go for the cheesy chat up line, just be yourself and chat about anything and everything, there is nothing specific you can say to break the ice, you just need to be open, nice and friendly, if she aint interested in ya after that it aint worth it anyway.
881106
maybe nerves.\nTry something.\nNext time you're with a girl, do not focus on sex. Focus on intimacy instead. Start by giving her a backrub. Make sure you've got some massage lotion. Then move on to her arms, her hands, her butt, her legs & feet. Make it slow & sensual. Don't forget her neck & face! Even get a few scented candles & put some instrumental music on in the background. \nAs you do this, you'll be focusing on intimacy. Your ability to relax with increase as you're talking...touching...getting to know each other. Both of you be nude. But keep it focused on her being pleased & you being relaxed. Maybe go down on her, but you refrain from getting off until you feel comfortable.
474307
Anything mildly amusing, but vaguely sexual is great for flirting.  A past experience that fits the bill is perfect.\n\nIf you want small-talk instead of flirting, leave  out the sexual part.
1025699
you should read a lot, especially current events and world news, know what you want in a girl so that you an ask questions, hobbies and movies, sports and places you've been or want to go to are great conversation grabbers...\n\nmusic..museums...parties...beaches and school topics.\n\nbut seriously, read it is sexy to be knowledgeable
702457
Just ask him to play the question game with you. It always makes for an interesting and fun night for me. Just take turns asking questions about each other. Each question you ask you have to answer too. This way you tend to avoid anything that might make you both uncomfortable. Start with something simple like your favorite color. By the end of the night you'll wonder where the time went and be more relaxed because you'll have spent your time thinking up questions, not about your shyness. Trust me, its a fun relaxing way to get to know a person. Here's to hoping you have a great night!