I like this guy and another guy.....?
969195
When your friend lets you hang around with her and bf it's not right to try to entice him from her.Btetter stick with your own bf as you'll get a bad name if your other friends can't trust you
886751
just stay friend for now with both of them. i know what I'm taken about these are words of wisdom I'm telling you. really people get hurt don't mess around with this ok?! \ntell yourself that u are going to wait.\noh and if that guy says he can't waite than ask him if your worth waiting for. look him in the eyes when u ask though. guys will respect a girl that wants time for this kind of thing. and respect is important in something like this.\n\nnow remember "am i worth waiting for" ask them both why don't yu than u can see both their eyes and look for the truth not what you want to see. \n\ngood luck hope u do the right thing.\ni'l pray for you.
511888
well good,, this tells u tht u really don like the guy u like now,,,,go n try out the guy u start liking now whom u hav crush now,,,maybe hes the one...
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
99028
I'm in that same situation myself.  I have yet to find a way to let the other guy down easily.  I just keep putting it off in hopes that he will get the idea.  I care about both of them, but one  of them has my heart.  If you get a good answer to this question please let me know.  I need the advice myself.
421127
just flip a coin, and ask one person.\n\nyou'll be able to tell if that particular guy is into you as well.  and then it won't even matter about the other guy.\n\nas a bonus though, the other guy might get super jealous.  which is a bad thing.  but if the first guy seems kinda plain (which means there's no spark) and the other guy kinda seems jealous, but doesn't want to say anything because he just wants you to be happy, then go with the other guy
305440
Tell your husband and make sure he's okay with it. and then tell the other guy that you can only be friends and make sure he knows that because if a guy doesn't know that he will probably try to get you to like him.
963977
I like the guy they have
823552
you are confuse probably because you somehow like both guys, but remember this sis... A caring guy is a cool guy... but a cool guy can never be caring...  But in the end it's still your decision that counts, since you somewhat like both guys, just follow your instint and don't get shallow by what you see from the outside...
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
926121
find this other guy that is pertty good looking and a friend and try to make him jealous and he might take you instead if he doesnt you dont know you might end up like that other guy
1052484
the best way to choose between them is to sit them both down at the same time and explain ur feelings. next, ask them if they would b OK with u going out on a few dates with each one b4 u make ur final decision.  most guys are cool about it and if one of them isnt cool with it, go out with the other one. another way that might help u is if u make a list of all the things u have interests in and then separate lists for each of the guys. seeing how many interests they have in common with u will help u decide which one u might have more fun with
239821
Try the other man. If you can trust him go for it.