I'm so stupid,why cant i like myself?
958052
If you get some counselling things will work out easier for you. Otherwise you know your problem. So you can take some simple steps to boost your self esteem . \n\n1. Join a class to hone your social skills.\n\n2. Know what you are good at and get a hobby. Practice your\n    skills\n\n3. Update yourself on happenings around you. Read the papers\n    and watch the news.Keep abrest of happenings in music, \n    movies and fashion (common topics of conversation ) know\n     atleast whether the Sensex is up or down.\n\n3.  With other people till the time you master conversation skills\n     learn to be a good listener. Pay attention to what the next \n      person is saying and keep eye contact. A good listener is \n     much more popular than a good speaker.\n\n4. When you wake up every morning tell yourself that you are  \n   going to do atleast five things right during the day. At the end of \n   the day take your diary and note down what went right and \n   where you went wrong. Remember your weak points and keep\n   working on then for betterment\n\n\n5.  Good luck
1090652
Gee, I'd like to, but I guess I am just too stupid!!
499788
You have low self-esteem and no self-respect.  If you don't like yourself, it doesn't matter how someone else treats you.  \n\nFigure out what's worthwhile in yourself - and there is lots - and when you do, you won't let dirtbags take advantage of you anymore.
373664
Why are you so sensitive.  My guess is you have some self-esteem issues.
402639
CAUSE IM A IDIOT YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
342999
You don't. You love yourself and work on becoming the best that you can be. Your confidence,character, and personality will attract others to you. We all have unique gifts that have been given us. Use your gift and let your light shine on all around you.
878555
first of all you need to stop comparing urself to other ppl....no two persons are alike,remember that, take some time out by yourself and seach ur heart...ask urself ,what has happened to you in the past which may influence you to feel this way,because sometimes things happens to us which affects our entire view of ourselves,and untill wefirst deal with those issues we will be forever trapped within ourself. take my advice....get out of your house...take a long walk..listen to some music...take it slow...u dont have to judge yourself by the characteristics of others..in doing so ,you are ignoring your very own unique characteristics.we are all beautiful sweetheart......never put yourself down ..,
200983
i am really really stupid i mean 4 real i am really really stupid really
95393
Basically, I like myself.  Thee is no perfect person.  I can't think of anything I would like to change, at my age change is a little ridiculous.
212635
I think U just need more self esteem and confidence in yourself, and learn( and I mean learn) how to love yourself and realize that U R a special person! also, learn patience!\nI think U communicate very well judging from your writing.
558564
Do you really hate yourself, or do you hate what others perceive you as?  \n\nWhat have you done to hate yourself so much?  Answer that question and ask for forgiveness in your heart, and move past it.  \n\nI don't think you can love another until you can learn to forgive yourself and make amends for whatever causes you to hate yourself.  You can have strong emotional ties and feelings, but until you can forgive yourself, how can you expect to love someone and forgive their faults?  \n\nI wish you luck in finding your way.
745048
just think about how many really ugly people are out there,and how they would be happy to look like u.im sure u do look good and well done to u,that u managed to loose w8.fight ur selfcoonciousness,because it does affect life bad,if u dont feel good in ur own skin.my exboyfriend was very insecure and i know how much it ruins his life.be strong.
499248
I used to get that a lot. They'd always make fun of something. Sad thing was they were things I had no control over. Chest size, buck teeth, then braces, my speech inpediment, anything really. I just accepted that I wasn't that great looking and anyone who didn't accept me like that wasn't my friend. Just be yourself. Even if it's stuff you can change. Only change if you want to change... never ever change for any other reason. You have to be comfortable with who you are and love yourself. Hopefully soon, others will come to accept you are who you are.
612177
Don't hate yourself.  That's not going to help.  Love yourself, and then go out and take charge of your life.  Go to school, get a good job, feel the pride.  But you have to love yourself enough to be able to take the first step.
650422
im such a loser and keep on boring myself\n\ncan you help?
862545
First things first, STOP HATING YOURSELF! Nothing you do is going to change who you are - accept it and move on. You need to be more positive in your life. God made you who you are and so you need to be yourself. Go see a shrink to help raise your self-esteem and to help remove the self-hating aspect of your life. Get out into the community and meet people, great friends are the best thing in the world. You might surprise yourself and find out that you really do like being a gay man.
598697
because i am a big dumb retard