My Girlfriend has left me?
954887
Why not? it's got to better than looking at ur face!!!!!!!
859834
No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
709822
Tell her you want to have a "trial period" just go out do things etc. without being back together so that way she can see that you have changed and tell her that you are willing to make the changes to make her happy. Just let her know how you really feel about her and how it makes you feel to be without her.
220737
Oh, i am very sorry. Sometimes, to maintain a realationship is very difficult especially when u are abroad. You can try to participate in your favourite hobby or concentrate on your studies. U can try to start a new relationship as u will have a partner to support you. Always look for those who love and care for you and sometimes telling to another person will help too. Or you can try to have a gathering with some good friends and dun ever think it is because of ur look that she dumped you. Built up your self-confidence and estemn. I hope you live life to your fullest.
319519
Dude I just went through this same exact thing.  Your only missing her cause she was there for you and now theres no one.  I took her back after she tried the new guy, and two weeks later, she dumps me for other guy she just broke up with.  I wasnt hurt cause I knew it could happen so I didnt let myself get too involved.  But my advice, just move on, find someone new to love, there more fun, and you dont have to worry about her going back for the other guy.  She already left you once, dont let her walk all over you.  Hope this helps.
532318
Talk to her and let her know how you feel.  It sounds like she's starting to weigh you down.  It's obvious you care about her but, this might not be the right person for you.  You have to ask yourself if you are getting anything positive out of this relationship and if they are the things you want in life.  If you're not, then it's time to move on.
915266
awww my heart goes out to you, you sound really upset : (  If she is going through such hard time at the moment, she may need time to her self. That doesn't mean pack up your bags and go, that just means she cant handle a full on relationship at the moment. So you can be there when she needs you. And that's really all you can do. Tell her that you will wait for her and say exactly the same thing you said in the ending of your question. I am sure she is hurting just as bad as you or even worse by knowing she is hurting you. Just be there for her, Take care i hope it all works out sweetie : )
574197
if she broke up with you then she isnt your girlfriend any longer.. but if she was cheating on you when you were together then be thankful she ended it.. once a cheater always a cheater...let it go and find someone that you can be happy with.. if you think she was cheating then more than likely she was or had plans to... move on and have fun.. life is to short...
966096
She is gone.  Leave her alone or risk having an order of protection slapped on you.  She made it clear that she wants to be away from you...by moving all her stuff out.  Let her be. It's only going to be trouble if you don't.
80981
did you talk and explain to her why you broke up with her. communication is very important. you should talk to her. stay come and try to step into her shoes. if that dont help well than its something she has to get through but atleast you know you made an effort. its like what is that saying you can lead the horse to the water but you cant make it drink.
622293
I know you must be really sad and miss her. You should try writing her a letter. In todays times old fashioned handwritten letters have been replaced with emails and text messages. A "handwritten" letter will be a way for you to let your emotions flow on paper and also hopefully come across to her at the same time. \n\nLeave it on her car or in her mailbox- Maybe even attach a rose to it. I am a woman and I know how sweet things like that are. Especially if it is a surprise. You could even burn her a cd with your favorite song or the song you and her chose to be "yours"-\n\nWhatever the reason for the breakup is important as well- you didnt mention the "reason". Did she find someone else? or what? if so then thats not what you really want for yourself-\n\nBest wishes..I hope you get her back..stay strong
996764
baby, you need to open YOUR eyes.  sadly, she'll likely only realize how much you love her when you're not there anymore, when you've moved on for good.  sweet-heart, she's using you for a back-up.  you are feeding and satisfying her hurt ego.  this is not good for you.  I'm sure she doesn't intend to use you because when you've been cheated on you're an emotional mess, but she is.\nmove on, sugar.  this relationship is destructive to you.
682511
If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.
1162300
I dont think she will leave you..just give her time and space.
305524
I  would NOT go out with her again.  I would however give her my foot up her butt!  Why put yourself thru the heartache and drama when you know she makes a habit of dumping u at the drop of a pin?  Dont do that to yourself.  YOU DESERVE to find a girl who is going to love you and respect your feelings and this girl is completely selfish, immature, and uncaring.  The only person she cares about is herself!  Get rid of her for good!  Find a girl who will love u and not desert you every week!  Good luck to u!  DONT PUT YOURSELF THRU THEHEARTACHE OF THIS GIRL ANYMORE!
581849
TFigure out why she is leaving you and if you know why try and fix it. But if she is hell bent on leaving you'll have to let her go because if she stays and is miserable it will only last for a short time. Talk to her and try to work it out but unfortunately this might be the end. If you really love her you wouldn't want her to stay with you if she is unhappy.