why is cutting addictive?
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i cut to and im also 13. i'm getting help though and you can do the same. i promise.\nif you want to stop you need to go find help. speak to a counsellor, therapist, teacher, friend, parent...anyone. you've taken the first right step.....deciding to stop. \nyou can also find some sites on the web which help if you prefer. to find them simply google: stopping self-harm.\nbelieve me stopping takes a lot of dedication and self-determination. it's not going to be easy but i know you can do it.\nemail me if you need to talk. \nyou CAN get through this.\ngood luck xx\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nBUBBLES....READ PLZ!\n\n\n\n\n\n\np.s. BUBBLES!!! i tried to reply to your email but it doesnt work. it says the emails not confirmed or something. what do you want me to do. do you have msn or something??? email me your answer plz!!
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If your truly addicted then you seek help quitting.\nI suppose you can addict to it just like anything else and if its interfering with your life,, you go get the professional help you need before it messes up something you really wanted and needed in your life.
327325
No, herbs and/or plants are not addicting..physically.. \nANYTHING AND EVERYTHING can be mentally addicting!
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For some reason, self injurious behavior is very addicting. Once you start, it's very hard to stop. I started cutting when I was 12--I'm now 28 and still fight the urge.  Since you just started, you need to work really hard at stopping.  If you feel like you really need help, you need to reach out to an adult that you trust and can talk to.  When you feel the urge to cut, call a friend or find another outlet---sports, drawing, working out, music, writing your feelings down, hobbies.  You need to get control over this now because the longer you do it, the harder it is to stop.\n\nI have an adult friend who also cuts.  She cuts to the point of having to go to ER.  So, this is very serious--if you don't gain some control, it'll control you and only get worse.\nIf you're suicidal, you really need to talk to your parents.  You may need some different meds.\n\nPlease find someone you can reach out to! And never feel like people don't/can't understand because there are many people who do this.  You're not alone.\n\nBest of luck to you!\n\nhttp://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html\nhttp://www.focusas.com/SelfInjury.html\nhttp://teenagerstoday.com/resources/articles/mutilate.htm\nhttp://www.coolnurse.com/self-injury.htm
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Listen to him. Cutting is a sign of severe depression. He needs psychiatric care NOW. Listening is the best thing you can do for him, besides getting him the therapy he needs.
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Okay, as for the cutting, that is sometimes a relief from some type of anxiety or pain in your life.  Cutting allows people to have control rather than the real pain they have which a person cannot control.  As for the self-mutilation, some people are into that.  It is not necessarily a bad thing although it could lead to infections and rarely something more serious.  \n\nI think the best thing is to let her come to you when she is comfortable unless you see it going out of hand.  The minor things are not necessarily horrible although to most people it would seem that way.  If it bothers you too much you may want to bring it up and talk with her about it and see if she will open up more to you.\n\nI was a cutter!
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Because it is addictive.
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do NOT try to save her. i repeat that with a lot of emphasis. i know guys that try to save people...and it DOESN'T WORK. okay? i am a former cutter. and i can tell you that it is a horrible addiction. i don't even know how bad hers is...but the major threat (it's fatal) that there is is blood poisoning or staff infection. there was a guy that got staff IN THE HOSPITAL and died. i think it comes from blades, needles, anything...when you cut it can get in and be an instant death. i took a chance everytime i cut. tell her i'll talk to her if she wants. i'll talk to you if you want. IM me or email me right away. she could end up killing herself. especially based on how she cuts too. there's SO MUCH about it. \n\nthanks for answering my question.
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I think it is because it is not socially accepted.  When I see someone who cuts, I feel only concern for the person, rather than other emotions.  I used to cut when I was in inter/high school, but now do not anymore.  I feel that the social pressure not to do it is a factor in why I stopped.  I also feel that there is no understanding into why, most people think it is a suicidal behavior.
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the fact that you recognize that it's a problem and you want to stop is a great start. i used to cut and still sometimes get the urge. the best thing to do when you feel the need to cut is to call someone and talk about whatever it is that's making you feel like doing it. and if that person doesnt answer the phone or feel like talking call the next person, and the next person. if your still in school you can see a counsler and if not you could talk to friends, family, co-workers...even someone online you dont have to tell them your cutting but talking about whatever happened that made you want to cut will help... good luck. \n\ni also think it's really awesome of all the people who come on here and share their stories it helps to know you're not alone and it's much better than someone telling you "don't cut it's dumb"   =)
830572
It's because sugar is addictive.
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STOP SELF HARM IMMEDIATELY!!!  It is an addictive habit that is very difficult to break.  You use this as a coping mechinism and eventually become dependant on it to relieve stress and unpleasent feelings that you can't mentally deal with.  The more you do it the deeper the cuts get and the more offten you cut.  I cannot stress enough--STOP WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!\nAs for the depressin feelings, see a Dr asap, it won't go away by itself, it will only get worse.  You can be depressed for no apparent reason.  depression is a disease caused by not enough happy-feel good chemicals (usually seratonin) in your brain.  The dr can give you meds that will help balance you and you can live a normal life again.  You may also consider counseling to help you learn to combat the depressing feelings.  Don't let your symptoms go too long without being treated.  especially since you are harming yourself.\n\npeace&hope
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It's not really wrong, but you shouldn't do it.You should find a better way of dealing with your problem than cutting. I am a recovering cutter, I haven't cut myself for a year. I still feel like doing it sometimes but I find something else to do thats more positive.
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Because they are addictive.
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Cutting helps people deal with emotional pain.  When it is easier to deal with physical pain than emotional pain people cut.  It gives them a release they can't find anywhere else.  However it is not a healthy way to go about it at all!  There are many risks involved in cutting.  You could get an infection or accidentally hit an artery.  Either one could end up in death.  Just be careful and find someone to talk with that understands.  Like a friend, doctor, pastor, counselor.  Depending on your age you could even talk to a counselor at school.  I really do wish you luck and happiness.  I hope whatever is hurting you so much is resolved.  If you have the strength to cut you have the strength to talk to someone, you just need to realize it!
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It's just fun to network, and you get excited when new people add you.  It's just a form of being accepted, and it gives people a good feeling.  You want more of what makes you feel good.  Hence the "addiction".  Well, that's my theory.  I think I am addicted too.
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Yes, it is! Its a harmless addiction though :) The withdrawal symptoms may be bad though.