Guys - isn't it true that if you're not calling, you're not really into her?
968117
na he is just talking to another girl
1010924
So it is ok when you are tired and not interested, but not ok when he is tired and not interested?\n\nMaybe there is something going on here that isn't about you and your needs...
323354
Each situation is unique.  But having been guilty of this myself, I confess to having done this.  Sometimes it is because I was never really interested in her.  It boosts my ego when I get a girl to give me her number, whether I plan on calling or not.  Sometimes we do it because we don't know how to say no thanks.  It's easier to say I'll call and not, because it postpones the inevitable "I'm not interested" rather than having to do it face to face.  We can be cowards.
295794
You don't.  If she's still with her boyfriend, she's probably not really into you.  You're just fooling yourself.
179416
He may not be interested or just likes to have control of the relationship and if so....you dont need a control freak
894016
My gf made the first move with me and I love her for it... I don't do subtlety so if she had tried to send me "signals" that she was interested I would not have picked up on it, so there would be no us if not for her initiative.
707535
Who cares who hangs up and you can get her to call you more if she is really interested and you stop calling her. She will call you if you are not calling her. Very simple. God bless****
274943
Calling you in a regular basis is not everything. He is a busy person. So, it is possible to be tired after he finish his job. That is not a perfect time to call you and he might feel that if he starts talking to you at that time, you will be dipressed at his condition. So, he likes to avoid this situation. Is it wrong? I don't think so!\n\nRemember one thing, keeping you in his heart always is far better than paying attention to so many girls - no matter how much time he is being able to give you!
568719
you are not that into her.
255378
maybe she's not into that
431193
Hell no! It takes the pressure off of US to decide if she's interested or not.\n\nBesides, how often do guys get to do the first rejection? Not very.... ROFL
933764
I would call her again, this time, not leaving a message. Then call again the next day at a different time, and if you don't get her, than leave a message... After that, if she doesn't call you back.. I dunno, man.. maybe she's not interested.  I dunno though. When she told you to call her back, I'm thinking she meant that genuinely. I'm the sort of girl who wouldn't say that unless i meant it. I'm also the sort of girl who only gives my number to guys I'm interested in. But I'm also the sort of girl who would wait until the guy called me. So she may just be hoping you catch her when she's in
347121
it means she's not interested, but will answer a phone if it rings. why don't you stop calling her???
374513
Seems to me that his not interested and he probably waiting for you too stop calling. Why dont you stop calling him and see what happens
727759
There are a couple of reasons for this A. He is shy or timid with girls or B. He has someone else and is using you for the back up babe....So stop calling him for a while and if he REALLY is into you then you should be hearing your phone ring, if not well....HIS LOSS AND SOMEONE ELSE'S GAIN!!!!
270540
It sounds as if he is getting comfortable, and he may be a person who is scared of or doesn't want a commitment. Have you voiced your sentiments to him of how badly it makes you feel when he doesn't call? If not, that may be the turning point. You will probably get a better feel of his intentions by his reaction to the conversation. Beyond that, I would definitely not give him your "heart" until you absolutely know what he wants out of the relationship. Good Luck!\n\nLilD
291143
I agree with the person who said once every other day - but I think he should be calling you in between calls.  If it's only the girl that is doing the calling - that is a sign that he is probably not as interested as you are.