How many of you girls have had boyfriends you were embarrassed to introduce to your families?
964877
I still don't have one, duh! DO u expect ur parents to let u have a boyfriend at this age of 13... well, back to the discussion, I won't be embarrased if I know that my bf will be worth it for me... and all the beautiful things that I want in a guy, then, I'll go for it!!! Why would I be ashamed!!!
448822
I would have gone back to October 16th,2005 when a really attractive girl pointed to me and said, "that's my boyfriend."  Not talking to her was a big mistake on my part.
496699
i totally get you, i'm 19 and i've never had a boyfriend but my brother who is 17 has had a girlfriend and i'm pretty sure my younger sister will have her first bf before me. it sucks being the oldest.
1105505
dont tell your parents, keep it secret. my step-sis kept a bf secret for 3 months one time, i'm sure u can do it for that long or longer.
11652
No, absolutely not.\nIf the guy is not good enough to introduce to your parents, then he's not good enough for you.
899281
I'm cracking up at this one!!! My parents don't even know that my partner and I are together as a couple. LOL!!! She is simply my "best friend" to them. I would NEVER dare to have sex in their house simply out of respect for them.
1108384
Yup! Okay when I was about 7 or 8, my friend and I were curious about our "body parts" lol so we got naked. (I'm not gay or bi I was little). Anyways, I hear her mom coming up the stairs so I run into the closet. I was trying to hide but then she opens the door and she sees me naked! It was soooo embarrasing!
1165070
Well, I have a confession.  When I was 15 my cousin had a boyfriend.  Me and her used to compete about everything.  Her b/f liked me.  One day we went to the pool and me and him decided to go to the parking lot and smoke a cig.  She stayed in the pool.  Me and him went and made out is what we did.  I still feel bad about it, but I have never told her.
712558
my mom, son, daughter and her boyfriend and my uncle   how about you?
415227
my first serious boyfriend (i was 16 yrs old) i got him some boxers with property of (my name) put on them... i thought it was funny... not trying to be sexual though, it was cute
486960
Yes, it was acutely embarrassing.\n   Later I told my girl-friend about it.  She laughed and said "Yeah, I hate it when that happens!"
617394
I don't think so.  Maybe he is afraid you will not like his family or maybe he thinks is family is embarassing.  I don't think there is anything to worry about as long as the two of you are happy together.\n   It would be okay to ask him why though and find out the answer from him.  All we can do on here is postulate guesses when only your boyfriend knows the real answer.\nGood luck\npeace and love
1071095
The girls that have boysfriends too early are looking for validation. They equate beauty with boyfriend. You seem to believe that God loves you and you don't need a boy to tell you you're special. My daughter is in the same boat as you, except the girls are telling her & her 3 friends that she is "lezbo" because they don't pick out boyfriends. (She knows the truth and she knows that they are insecure.) Alot of boys like her because she doesn't act all weird and try to be their girlfriend. For Valentines day, she receive 2 beanie bears and lots of big candy boxes instead of the usual little treats. One boy even dressed up like her for Halloween! They like her because she's confident in who she is, because she is loved by the King of the Universe!\n\nI've personally taken this before the Lord and have done TONS of research on this so I have an opinion and some suggestions for reading.\n\n #1 suggestion....listen and heed the advice from your youth pastor and you'll have no regrets. \n#2. I suggest not dating until you are ready to get married. Stick to "group dates" and activities. This is where you see how someone really is. For ex-- our church has a scramble golf tournament every year. I ended up on a team with someone I thought I was interested in. Because he didn't know I was interested, he was "himself". He cussed and had a bad temper.  If I had gone on a one on one date, he would have been well behaved and putting on a front.\nI'm over 40 and single. Because I'm still raising teenagers and they require alot of my time, I only go on coffee dates once in a while. I prayed that God would "hit me over the head" when He thought I was ready. I won't kiss someone unless I know them very well, and there is marriage potential. I love to kiss, but will save that for my husband. When you "save yourself", even in the kissing department, it makes kissing so intimate and special when you are ready to give that away.\nFor sure, don't have sex before your married. It's the only sin that you do to the inside of your body. It will mess with your soul. I know.  Of course you're forgiven, but you give away something that you can never get back and it's not worth it. Check out some of the sources.
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i think it really depends. I was the first white girl my ex ever dated, but his whole family knew about me. He had alot of issues with it at first, but he got over it after a few months cause i do not play, and get annoyed with stupid crap like that real fast. He is also from new york and thats where most of his family is but as soon as he got comfortable with me, they all knew. It may just take time for him to really be comfortable with it, i think its different when introducing you to his mother as opposed to his father. Mother's are way more judgemental when it comes to their sons. Ask him about why it hasn't happened yet, and see what he says\ngood luck
827038
Unfortunately yes.  I dated this person for a while and  I met his family.  They were totally dysfunctional, loud, crass and crude.  When he was around them he behaved like a lunatic.  But when he was alone with me he was a different person.  It was a Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde thing.  So i called it quits.  It was too much for me.
1075948
About 10, I didn't ask any of them out (shame on me)
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.