Is the fact that everybody stares at me in public a good thing or a bad thing?
958126
Try to find out why. If you are attractive, that's a good thing. If your hair is green and your tongue is pierced, it's a bad thing
813635
Maybe people are jealous of your beauty.  Are there other people of your ethnicity going to your school?  It may be that people have been sheltered and don't know their manners.  Just keep your head high, and stick with your studies.  College is supposed to be fun as well as educational, so make good friends and don't worry about people staring at you.  You are quite beautiful.  Striking, in fact. \nWhen people stare at me, I make faces at them.  Or say, "What the heck are you staring at!"   or "Do I have something in my teeth?"   Most of the time people don't realize they are being rude, and they will blush and walk away.  Don't be afraid to confront people in a way that makes them uncomfortable, since they are making you uncomfortable.  Hey, you might make some friends in the process!
337052
I can say it's been a struggle.  Being born beautiful you just naturally grow into feigning lack of awareness when others so obviously turn their heads to look at you. I try, I really try not to be noticed.  It is difficult when you walk into a restaurant and the whole room turns to stare.  I just pretend I don't notice their gazes. On occasion I will look back, using my bedroom eyes and pouty lip face.  I can tell that just makes that man's day.  He's probably never had anyone as beautiful as me give him the time of day.  It's a curse but I manage.
202065
Go for it. It makes you feel stronger and it doesn't hurt anyone, so it can't be bad. Can I make fun of you too? Just kidding.
1040838
Yes, but I try to be discreet. I stare because I'm curious or fascinated. It's new or different, so it takes longer to get my mind around it, therefore I stare longer. Sometimes I stare when I'm repulsed. I saw this enormously fat man wearing a speedo in a hotel swimming pool. He cut his forehead somehow and kept using the pool water to rinse it. The blood was oozing down his face. I was so disgusted I couldn't stop staring. Sometimes I stare at other women who I think are just beautiful. I look at their clothes and hair, and face. It's just fun. Sometimes I stare at people with disabilities. I'm fascinated to see how they cope in this world. I try to be discreet, but likely, they can tell. I just can't help it though.
347048
Don't worry about it. Really. If you are happy and you know you're not anorexic,it really doesn't matter what other people think. I look at it that they're probably just jealous. Have fun! Go shopping!  :)
264881
I that if you have an open door and an open mind then you will have more people look up to you with respect.  Keep certain business on a need to know bases. Do's set an example buy your actions it will be noticed buy all and the don'ts are: DO NOT PAT YOUR SELF ON BACK TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD. you will look like a suck up.  Your deeds will be noticed in time.  Just be a very good listener, and just slow down in life.  Keep a good attitude, and pray alot.
730846
I make a concious effort not to stare.  As soon as I notice something like that, I will casually look elsewhere without trying to make it look like I'm not trying to look.  If I have the opportunity to take a better look I will, but only if I am sure they will not see me looking.
1186807
See... it is a famous saying "World is like the way you see". If someonme is approaching you with good intentions... I think you must respect the feelings.
903497
It depends on who is staring.  Some people just do that and it doesn't mean anything.  Without having a mind reading device it's impossible to know.
294329
Short answer: No\n\nLong answer:\nWhen you are nude with other people in a social environment where sex is not the main focus you soon "forget" that they are in fact all naked.  You are still aware of that fact but, the shock value disappears very quickly.\n\nYou then find yourself interacting with them in the same way that you would had you been clothed.  You see people that you find attractive and others that you don't.  What would be rude would be to gawk, staring at someones crotch all the time would probably make them feel uneasy.  People who gawk and make others feel uneasy would probably be asked to leave.\n\nNow, the following may not be true at all nudist places but at the places my wife and I frequent people are very open about things.  They tend to chat very quickly, make newcomers feel at home and generally just have a good time.  There, when you get to know people better and because of the mutual respect people have they find it easier to talk about their bodies, you can compliment someone because they have a good figure, nice legs, beautifully pierced n*pples and not have to fear that they will take it in a negative way.  The checking out really becomes a conversation between two people rather than someone trying to catch a peek without being noticed.\n\nBut, in general, everybody knows that people are checking one another out.  It's a normal part of being human and when done in moderation it's perfectly fine and hey, let's face it it's fun.\n\nI do want to make it clear that when reading the above some people may think that you now have to look like a model to fit in but, this is not true at all.  When you are there you find that everyone has something that is worth checking out.  Most importantly, you realise that you have features that people want to check out, not because of anything sexual, but because   they genuinely find it beautiful at a human level.  Someone may have nice legs but no bust, one guy may be very well hung but have a belly or have really nice hands but a sensitive skin so they aren't very tanned.  An important side-effect of this is that you soon find yourself "checking out" personalities.  You begin to see people as not just bodies but, because they physically don't "hide" anything, their inner beauty becomes more prominent.  You find yourself "checking out" people you wouldn't normally, since they aren't magazine pretty, but because they take pride in the bodies they have rather that hide away because they fear that they will not live up to other peoples expectations.
1185527
the eyes  is not a problem you just have  to be a cool person and u will have a lot of friends
899220
Handsome is in the eye of the beholder, Mate. Also, as long as you like how you look, then others will notice you for more than a shining dome!
351724
some people do not go after looks.  I never did, it just all depends on how you feel about the way the person is treating you.  if you treat others with respect, chances are some of these people will respect you.
569386
yes it is. would you want someone to stare at you??
327292
Good for you for not peeking. And no, I don't do it. I have looked at guy while with my bf, but not in that way. My eyes just happen to wander where someone happens to be and that person is sometimes a guy, and sometimes that guy looks at me when I glance and gets a weird look on his face and makes me uncomfortable, and at that point you don't want to look away, because you're kind of afraid you might hurt his feelings, (I don't know why this is) and so you might smile to be friendly, whether or not he's good looking, so that's one thing. Or am I just weird? I really don't like making people feel bad, I always have to acknowledge them. I'm guessing girls who really do do it on purpose, have many different reasons. To make their bf jealous, to see if you're looking, to check you out, etc.  Also if you're looking at the girl to begin with, she may just look back because she can feel your gaze and it creeps her out. I've done that too, when I've felt someone looking at me. It freaks me out when people stare at me. God I'm neurotic.
708141
It's not. Normal people don't love everything about themselves. If they do it's some kind of mental problem.\n\nEveryone thinks that they can be a little better here or little better there.\n\nHowever, if you think ur totally ugly, you need to check your self esteem. It's ok to be a little unsure, but if people are telling you that you are fine, then why worry?\n\nAfter all, even the best looking person in your school is not the best looking int the world, there is always someone better.