My girlfriend thinks i am cheating on her and won't have sex with me?
966936
Maybe she's cheating on you.  Either that or she's insecure.  Guilty parties in relationships will often project what they're doing on to the other person.  If she can get you to admit you're cheating then maybe she won't feel as guilty.  That's just one possibility.  Or maybe she really is insecure, in which case perhaps you both need to go to couples counseling because if she keeps it up you may just get fed up and decide to make her accusations come true.
1066223
wel i think she lied to you because you she didnt want to hurt you or thought she would loose you.  I don't think thats cheating as you guys only started dating and it was too earlier for her to know where that relationship is going.\n\nI would be gutted tho and know how you feel> It really sucks but what can you do?\nIf you like her and she has been faithful since, forgive and forget and move on with your relationship.  FYI it probably took a lot of courage for her to tell you and i dont hink she did it to spite you!
981074
Short and sweet answer:  She doesn't want you but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either.  \n\nLonger answer:  She is starting to realize that she may have thrown away something good.  She's starting to think holy s*** maybe this was a stupid idea.  And as long as you're happy with the end result go on with your life.  Go out there and find yourself someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and don't look back.  Also, as hard as it may seem don't label all women as cheaters, that will only make it harder on yourself to find someone and move on.
975639
Beats me but here's what works...guarenteed. The more you pretend to not like sex the more she'll want to have sex. See if you give her the impression  that you don't want to have sex with her she'll think she's undesirable and there's something wrong with her. So she'll need to prove to herself that she's desirable. Got it?
53285
It sounds like you are very young and she sounds very immature. Let her go. She obviously doesn't care about your feelings or have any feelings for you herself. If she did she wouldn't keep doing this to you. She does this because you let her get away with it. She knows she can hook up with other guys when ever she wants because you'll take her right back when she's done with them. If you're having sex I hope you're using protection because she's likely to give you something nasty. Don't talk to her anymore as friends or anything else. Let her figure out for herself what she's missing out on by treating someone who cares for her like crap.
643879
why are you so worried about that ? do you love her ?\ndo you feel that this is getting to you to much ?\njust trust her man she is a woman and she chose you to be with ! don't beet yourself up about this ! She loves you and wants you that's all that matters ! are you a virgin !\npast is history does it matter what she is ?\n:) always smiling !
491716
She is totally using you and you should dump her.  She's already proven over and over again that she doesn't care about your feelings by cheating on you and it's just plain disrespectful of her to screw around with this guy then come running to you.  Find yourself someone who will respect and love you.
18043
dude she totally wants you.  She probably fantasies about having sex with you but she is a good person and she doesn't want to ruin things between you and your girlfriend.  Whether or not to pursue it is up to you, but if you have a girlfriend its probably not a good idea.
152594
You are just wasting your time with her if you are hoping to have a real relationship with her.  She's not going to commit to you, she can't stay committed to her current partner.  I certainly hope that you are putting on a raincoat when you hook up with her.  If you know what I mean.  Who knows who else she's hooking up with on the side.  You don't want to walk away with a STD
264426
There are many, many reasons. Firstly, she thinks about getting pregnant. Second, getting and STD. Third, love. And judging by your comment they know you won't love them. Forth, they are just not ready to. Fifth, they might just not find you sexually attractive.
345242
if you cant trust her you gotta bounce dude. seriously, if you stay with her your paranoia will eat at you until you drive each other apart, even if she isnt doing anything. chill out about it and trust her, or walk away.
925586
You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.\nIt is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.\nAnd no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!\nWe've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round!  If not, there are always other women (me lol)  :)
352840
Gosh NO!  How desperate are you?\n\nYes she can get bored & tired of it.  If she says no, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she's scared of losing you if she sets boundaries, or she's just really immature/insecure.\n\nDoes she never pursue you?  HOW BORING!  Do you not want your girl to show initiative/attraction to you?  Do you only ever want her for sex? Does it not bother you that she doesn't get a chance to show that she wants you because you keep hogging all the attraction communication?  If I were her, I would put you on ice for a month (refuse privileges) until you could see me as a person, not just a humping machine (unless of course I just dumped you right away), and so I could have a chance at the flirting fun too.  \n\nAre you 18?  If not, you should be able to control yourself for at least 48 hours, gee.  \n\n"Please please can I have sex?"  "Oh sure."\nThat's what it sounds like you do twice a day from your question.  D E S P E R A T E men don't keep their women long.\n\nNow, having said all that, you have not given sufficient information to answer your question without assuming the worst possible scenario.  So considering your "every chance" might be once a week if you don't see her much, you might then just want to make sure you communicate that you value her as a person, and if she knows how important sex is to you, she will indicate it through inviting you inside, or    initiating a kiss, or whatever, you should NOT have to beg or ask continually.  Just kiss her, treat her like you want her to feel like the amazing woman she is, and if she is open for more, you will feel it in her body language and you can move in.  Stop asking like a begging dog.
1063401
she will only open up her feelings to you when she is ready, she probaly feels it's just not the right time, and if she's cheating on you then its best to find someone else because if she has it in her mind that youre not the right person for her then she will continue to do it because you have allowed her to do it....
217717
find out what shes missin in her sex life now, and let her know u got what she wants....then when she laughs at you lmao..tell her.." dont knock it til you try it" ALWAYS WORKs
812203
I think if this question really is a true question.. you are not doing the correct thing by cheating like that... You will loose your girlfriend if you tell her whats going on. You need to stop this fling with your friend if you want to stay with your gf.. you should be honest with yourself and ask your own self... maybe you are not"gay" but bisexual.  Maybe you should not be in a serious relationship right now.
793468
ur girl's crazy. i know im a jealous gf so i know wheres shes coming form. BUT if you let her do that kinda stuff like spend the night at a guys bed. then she should trust you. but if i was you i would dump her!!!\n\n\nGood luck with the crazy gf!