I'm shy and don't have many friends.  How do I ask her if she wants to hang out?
962509
I think asking her out to lunch is a fantastic idea! I would advise against breakfast however since she runs night shift. (Most N.S. workers sleep till 10am-1pm. and it is not advised to wake up someone if you want a yes)\nI think a couple of 1hr+ lunches spaced out over 2-3 weeks is enough to begin developing a friendly relationship between you two.
748868
oh just ask her out. don't be shy. if you have to just ask her out as friends and maybe something will grow from that.
506836
for now,just try to be her friend and when the moment is right,ask her how she'd feel if you were to ask her out and see how she responds.good luck.
15036
Has she touched your arm when you talk in close proximity? Does she smile and laugh a lot? Does she give you compliments?\n\nIf she is shy, she might actually avoid your gaze from across the room. You have to make a move, take a chance...too many opportunities lost because people are afraid of rejection. If she doesn't like you, it's NOT PERSONAL!! Doesn't change who you are. It's just personal preference. With that in mind....GO FOR IT!
315699
build up your conferdence, and play it out . just practice how you want to start a conversation. she may be shy too.
1093963
Don't be shy, whats the worst that could happen? she could not respond but like u said shes a stranger and you'l probably never see her again :) but try to be friends first by finding some common ground with her. For example if you're both in a que buying food, make conversation about the food, and if shes friendly (which also implies that she would be a social person), she'l respond, and once you're comfortable enough, introduce yourself (preferably before you get to the beginning of the que), and people dont mind answering random questions, ask her what she's ordering, and tell her what you're contemplating ordering etc etc etc. Like i said this is only an example but just be yourself and you never know who you'll meet, or where you'll meet them.\nBut be sure you go out with someone whos worth the effort and dont let the relationship play out for more than 2 weeks, if u dont see it going anywhere, it will only make things harder, so be open and honest with her. But try practicing your conversational skills, and its always cool to know little arbitrary but interesting bits of information :)
509758
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
486300
ASK HER BY HERSELF SO IF SHE DOESN'T YOU WON;T BE HUMILIATED.... IF SHE DOES GOOD LUCK....
923015
"If you're not busy this weekend, maybe we could go to a movie" -\n\nIf you're uncomfortable asking, you'd probably feel better if you give her an out, like "if you're not busy". That way she can say, "oh, jeez, I'm sorry but I'm going to be busy this weekend." You could then say, "Okay, well, maybe some other time." How she responds will let you know if she's interested.
164000
Don't be nervous, chances are if she likes you she's probably more nervous than you are. ;)\n\nIf you guys don't usually hang out…Get a group of friends together and tell her that a bunch of friends are going to go ___________ and tell her it'd be awesome if she came with. That way you have a group date, and there won't be any awkward silences, but you’ll still get to know her.
206923
Start talking to people! I am a shy person too, but I dont know if you are this way, but once I get to know people I might be the craziest person you ever met. Just go up to someone that you know, and start talking. Soon enough you two will become good friends, and then you will get comfortable enough to make more, she may even introduce you to her friends, too.
218843
Just ask her, no lines though no one likes those. If you don't really know her though, u might try to introduce urself first.
1163860
Hahaha. Don't ask her 'out' per se, just ask her to coffee or lunch. That's how people get to know each other so well.
949038
umm maybe more then friends. ask her if she wants to go out sometime
974472
The first step, smile. see if you get a smile back. If she holds your gaze that is an invitation to approach her. You could say a variety of things, compliment her clothing/hair/eyes ettc, talk about the weather, the band, anything at all. Something as simple as "Do you go to alot of concerts' can be the beginning of a wonderful conversation. Don't be intimidated it it takes a few tries before you find a girl that wants to talk. We have been raised to be vary. You are in a casual environment though so just go for it. What do you have to lose?
186919
show ur interest,ask her what she does during free time,what she likes and all that stuff.. let her knows that u r interested,it may be a little old fashioned, but it always work.\nif she's interested in u, she'll answer u nicely,if she doesn't,well.. u know what to do. try to be friend at first..then move on when u find the time is right. good luck!
453824
Build up a friendship first. Just be her friend, and make sure that she knows that you are her friend first. After a while, once the friendship is solid, ask her out on a date.\n\nCouldn't be simpler.