How can some pple be friends w/ eachother after break-up??
965289
maybe they dont love each other to have boy-girl relationship, that is why they keep there friendship rather than nothing.
465214
It depends on who broke up with who but you could contact him, but just don't sound too desperate. Just act friendly, ask how he's doing and maybe you two can hang out at some point. Then let him make the next move.
865546
yeah my guy and i just had a fight..and I am so devasted..I love him soo much..but then again he is an as*hole...if you feel like you need time..then take time..but if you feel like you can move on with someone else then go out with friends and make new friends..usually after a break up..I like to take time for myself and get back to me...good luck\nps..if you still love him then call him and try to work things out
736347
That would be tough but you are going to have to sit that person down and have a serious heart to heart with them. Tell them why the relationship can't go on any longer I think in the long run they will appreciate your candor and honesty and the break up may be much easier on both of you. I'm not saying there won't be any tears ar anger because that usually can't be avoided. I'm just saying in the long run you may be able to be friends when some time has passed.
791132
cut all ties from him.  your feelings need to heal.  you need to move on and find someone on the same level as you.  friendship after a relationship is awful.
689618
Be happy for her. You'll make new friends too. You need to let go a little and move on.
596797
I like to meet people that are busy....you know, working somewhere. For instance, the grocery store, post office, gas station, etc. The obvious places also are clubs, bars, etc. the important thing after breaking up is to get out! Don't sit home, alone, and crying! Good Luck!!
171455
Well you can't control other people's feelings and to try to do something to break the relationship up is not being a friend to either of them. The only thing you can do is go on with your life and meet other people.
867541
well i actually have a friend, shes a girl, and well she defenetly wanted me to get a new gf just after my ex broke up wit me, man do i thank her for that!!!! anyway the first thing ya do is act like ya not be like an arrogant guy. than ya gotta find a really cool girl that would make a good gf. also make sure she doesn't have a bf. im not sure but i think my ex already had a bf when i first asked her out. result she broke up wit me 1 mounth exactly, i count days lol you shouldn't. than well get friends wit her. i didn't actually become friends wit my ex and so that is why she broke up wit me so dont forget that. also my ex was kindda shy its best if you don't get somebody that is shy but if you like her alot its ok if she is. well thats pretty much it. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
768932
I read this book on breaking up, and it said that if you want to remain friends with someone you should cut off all contact for 60 days. Get rid of anything that reminds you of them, and I mean everything then talk to them and all of what you feel right now will either be gone or manageable. If you don't do that you will never have things go back even remotely close to how they were. I am trying it, and I miss him like crazy you really have no idea, but it's now going on 3 weeks. I have been with a guy or two sexually and that has not even worked, but me not talking to him does get easier as more days go by. Good luck.
675332
well i kinda had the same problem... i always say keep ur friends close but keep ur ex's even closer... he shld know ur x is ur friend and that he shldnt control who u hang with or who u talk to.. tell him that ..
843640
Your ex-friend sounds like a real B-word (lol) Be yourself and if people dont like you then forget them. Dont change yourself to fit in with other people EVER. You will make friends eventually, dont worry about it. dont be needy. Good Luck!!
351007
alot depends on the reason for the breakup. are the important things still there, like trust, a bond of any kind. as far as how to tell her, without stalking her find a time when shes alone and you can talk and plainly tell her how you feel.straight forward is the only way to go.
538487
Do things together that include your new and old friends like have some kind of get together.\nYou can't really force anyone to like one another when they don't really know one another yet.\nGive it time.
594831
Make it mutual, if you and u have been friends for a long time she'll probably want to be friends back, just go back up to her and say you know if you want to be friends again it's okay with me if you don't wan to be friends whatever that's cool. If she truely is your friend she'll want to be friends again.
62247
You can't. If they want to get together they will. She is your ex so don't worry about it. If your friend ditches you for her then they are not a good friend.
732594
get other friends. then forgive your ex-friend and be happy again.