if a guy holds your hand on the first date then wants you to meet his friends on the second date is that good?
958352
Doing good lady, keep it up.  Soon you'll be meeting the folks, and before you know it arguing about in laws.
143854
first date? well actually my opinion will be diff then others!! I would want to hang out with him his freinds and my friends just because id want to get to know him!(the real him)so i know hed be comfortable around the boys and me with the girls ya know!!! it might sound weird but if ya think about it it makes sense!! That way nobody is nervous and everyone gets to know each other and you can have fun at the same time!!
86509
Because now its the first meeting face to face. It's almost like a blind date type of feeling. If you meet him do so in a public place were you are comfortable and make sure you have your own way back home.
713420
I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
114374
i dated one of my really good friends and it only lasted for a couple months and we realized we were much better friends than a couple. we then just became just friends again and we got the questions about dating out of the way. if you are good enough friends its worth a try because something great could come out of it. if it doesnt work out, you need to try and stay friends afterwards which isnt too hard if you are really bestfriends. just respect each others opinios during and possibly after the relationship.
245942
it kinda sounds like he's just using you as a rebound..like he'll still have his pride of "i still have another girl to go to" sort of thing\n\ni don't really know though, but if he liked you so much, why didn't he ask you out first instead of "i'll date you if the other date's bad"?\n\nwish you the best of luck =)
25804
It's okay to see a couple people, to find out who you want to date.  Dating is more personal, so you need to be able to devote more personal one on one time.  That is how you get to know them, and decide if there is a future together.  If you are w/ many, how can you really give him all the attention he deserves, or find out if he deserves it???  1 on 1 is always the best way to REALLY figure someone out.
492892
I presume you mean sex??Well I've dated guys who don't expect that so perhaps you're dating the wrong guys!If you want to see a guy again I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date but take things slower and at a pace you're comfortable with.Have fun!
579261
Is good to make friends before you need them, ask him if he likes movies if he says yes then ask he if he will go with you,try to ask in a nice way.
108418
This guy isn't necessarily shy, but he probably has a somewhat low self-esteem when it comes to girls. He is so worried about if he makes a move on you he will offend you    (Which also means he cares about your feelings).  Most real gentlemen have this problem, especially if he hasn't dated that much previously.  He is probably looking for you to make the first move, or at least looking for a clear signal to make the first move.  Problem is, he's so nervous about it he probably won't see the signals you give him.  Chances are this guy REALLY likes you, but he is really nervous.  You might just tell him that he has nothing to be nervous about.  Or you might have one of your friends or his friends tell him that you are waiting for him to make a move.  Basically, all he needs is some assurance that your not going to slap him and walk away.  \n\nHe is not gay, he keeps asking you out.  If the hug was awkward, he doesn't just want to be friends...  it was awkward because he is nervous.  \n\nYou also might want to enjoy taking it slow.
196043
If both you and the first guy are not allowed to date, than I wouldn't worry about it!  You and he second guy would not be "dating", you would be going as friends and that would not jeopardize anyones feelings.  If the first guy were to get upset, than apparently he is already to obsessive and that could eventually cause problems.  Be honest with both gentlemen and yourself and go and have a wonderful time!  \n\nTry looking at thrift stores/salvation army.  They may be used, but they are cheap and usually pretty nice.  Most people only wear them once or twice, so don't let anyone tell you you need to spend alot on one in a big name department store!  Have fun!!!
324647
It is as long as you take some precautions.  Wait a while before you see him in person.  If you're going to talk on the phone first (which is a good idea) then give him a cell number rather than a home phone that he can track to your house.  When you do decide to meet, do it during the day the first time, and make it in a public place.\n\nAnd no matter how well the date's going, don't take it all the way the first time out.  That didn't go well for me at all the one time it happened.
1046736
I met my boyfriend through a friend. Our friend wanted me to go play cards and stuff with him and maybe a little more. Then like I went home and the next day he called me and said you remember the guy that had to leave early? And I responded yeah...why and he told me that he wanted me to go to the movie with him the next Friday. I agreed and we hit it off decent. Went out the next day (Saturday) again and it just kind of happened. I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time but just hoping to get with the guy that hooked us up. It all turned out well though a little of 6 months later we are still happier than ever!
986958
He's probably shy.  If he agreed to go out again, he digs you.  You may have to make the first move, but once it's made, it's made.  Try talking to him too.  Tell him you're into him and that you wouldn't mind if he held your hand.  Once the pressure is off, he's more likely to do it.
232050
i think you need to ask or have her make the first move. it totally pisses me off and makes me not like a guy when he just assumes that it is ok. dont do that unless you want to come off like a jerk, and then you wont get any. its not cool to be making out with a guy and to constantly have to pull his hand off your zipper cause its only the first date or whatever.
109983
Not necessarily. It depends how you formulate your question. Sometimes is better to give some harmless suggestions and let him to take the initiative. Anyway, you can demonstrate no deep feelings about him the first date so you’ll drive him nuts. See what happens!