i have an awesome b/f we have been dating 4 almost a month i like this other guy sorta but?
968046
if you are both adult about it you could have a great time without wrecking your relationship.\ngo for it.
359210
Ok well first of all I wouldn't want to be anyone's sloppy seconds so I would ditch your current guy thats crazy.And second of all if the other guy loves you and you love him and you're the oonly one he loves go 4 it!
1111056
Forget what your friend says, You are the one who is going to be dating the guy, not her. It doesn't matter who came first. but more who fits the position better...like a job position hehehe....who are you more compatible with and who can you get along better...who are you more interested in....whatever makes you happy is really what you should focus on instead of which guy's feelings youll end up hurting
579976
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
973642
Me and my b/f were best friends and I've been dating him for 3 months+. I love him more than anything.
532921
if you and your bf are that close then you should have no question about this other guy.  Obviously you think about this other guy if your worried about cheating on your current beau.  I say lose the bf before you do something to hurt him if you really like this other guy.  Your bf will respect you much more after you're up front with him rather than finding out that you're being a tramp behind his back and trying to conceal it.
238945
u should choose someone who loves u more , and u should check the character of both in my guess u should choose ur current bf ,
471891
Stop being with the guy you don't like as much, it is bad for everyone, I am sure he feels it too. Just let him down gently, and then start up with the guy you really like. But Don't do anything until your current relationship is over, start this new one the right way.
729835
i think u shud hook up with the 1 u like cuz no matter how much i like a guy i wudnt want him hookin up with me cuz he doesnt like me but cuz i do-i wud feel like he is doin me a favour.so i think u shud go afta the 1 u like bt plz dun mislead the other 1 ayt\nall the best
1176603
you just need to follow your heart which guy do you have more feelings for and which one treats you the way you want to be treated? ? no one on here can make that choice for you. you just need to decide the one your happiest with and go with it
289012
Well at least you have some morals in asking yourself this question.Just talk to your b/f and see for yourself how he thinks things are going.If it is not happening,then finish the relationship,get yourself over him totally and then see what can happpen with this one you keep thinking of.
119636
Sometimes we have no control how someone else likes us or not.  Change what you two do when you are together.  Ask him out and do something different.
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
506303
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
890669
U just like those guys to hang out with. I would date either one of them. Because once ya'll start dating,things are going to change, rather you like it or not and you might not want that to happen. But if you want to date one you have to sleep on it for a long time. Jusst think of whats going to happen. or see which one is more important. Maybe you shouldnt date him.
1046446
Temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  It's okay to have a little crush on this "other guy" for now, but just weigh what you and your boyfriend have and what you and this "other guy" have.  It sounds like you and your boyfriend are strong, moving past a problem like cheating, but obviously, you like your boyfriend MORE than this other guy.  That's why you're with him...YOu LOVE him, right?  If it is as you say, then you definitely don't want to give that up.  You tried the other guy 4 months into your relationship with your boyfriend, and you didn't decide to run off with him, but you stayed with your boyfriend instead, meaning that you want your relationship to work out with him, and he seems like he is prepared to stick it out with you as well.  If you truly love him, then you won't leave him for this other guy, even if it may seem more exciting or if you still have left over feelings for him.  The goal is to leave feelings from the past, in the past.  Since you have a commitment with your boyfriend now and you love him more than anything, the other guy is merely a temptation.  Like I said in the beginning, temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  We're all human...we all have hormones, adrenaline, sexual feelings... ;) ...Even happily married couples have temptations, but it doesn't mean they drop whoever they're with and move in with the other person.  Theres that self control and rationally weighing what you could lose if you go either way.  Now ask yourself, is the other guy worth losing your boyfriend over?  As time goes on, and you realize how much you have and don't want to lose, the temptation will subside.  If however, you realize you don't have much after all (and you don't actually love your boyfriend), then you should look further.  Don't make a decision until you are absolutely sure, because you may not be able to turn back.