Women what do you like in a man?
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nice guys dont finish last, but guys with low self-esteem do.. if you dont like yourself, how do you expect anyone else to like you.  challenge yourself and you will learn to like yourself more.  the opposite sex will notice you when you like yourself...
786538
woman want a man who understands and notices things. the little things like how your hair swirls when your runnig or the exact color of your eyes. they want also not a goopy guy they want some buffness and toughness and a guy who wont treat her differently aroubnd his friends.
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it doesnt matter what state you are from women all want the same thing in a guy but the qualifications may vary by person to person....but to start out with the top ones are honesty, respect, good listener, has a good work ethic, takes care of his responsibilities, has a good sense of humor, is intelligent, is friendly and is not scared of commitment and doesnt play games....
184778
Devotion, beauty, reliabtility, honesty, truthfulness, trust worthyness, respect, \nhumor, love, some men prefer short hair. I do.\nIndependence from her family, regardless of how much she loves them. We expct them to enjoy being with us. we expect them to smile at us, sincerely. Sincerity (they have to be sincere!)
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Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
478869
Confidence, control and wit.  The combination of these characteristics are very sexy in a woman.  Looks can only get you so far.  I've known plenty of beautiful looking women, but when they displayed their true colors they became "ugly" to me.
654152
As soon as you want to call us.  What women really like is a man who doesn't play by the rules or play stupid games.
424803
You should first ask yourself what are the qualities you are looking for in a wife.  Be realistic and make sure you are ready to live up to the expectations of a husband.  Once you've figured out what you want from that person, then you'll have your answer.  Trustworthy, honest, loyal, kind hearted and free spirited are some good qualities.
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My ideal man would be funny and smart.  He would be creative and ambitious.  He would be feminist, and he would love me and respect me.  Physically he would be thin and tall.  Actually, short is fine too, and a little meaty isn't so bad either when everything else fits.
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It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
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Warm, sincere, gentle, good sense of humor, male zest, good grip on who he is, not afraid to show you how he feels, masculine, confident, some facial hair, strong, hairy chest, bold and bashful, not perfect looking.
429973
there alot of qualities, beauty is in the eye of the holder, good personallity, loyalty which goes with trust, fun to be with and do different activities, have the ability to complement the man and yet be her own person
388682
dear, as far as i am concern i like humorous , kindhearted , loving n charming personality. there is always room for beauty as we are man , but if you ask for just friendship , the inner beauty of a person count most
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I'm answering this from the viewpoint that your question is really what do women want from men....a man who has a job, doesn't live with his mother, has a vehicle, auto insurance and the means to drive it, no hidden families elsewhere, no criminal record involving felonies, a good communicator, respectful of older people, kind to children and animals, intelligent, and a sense of humor. In case you didn't notice, none of these involved physical traits. It depends on the age of the woman questioned. I'm in my mid-thirties and brunette.
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Are you kidding? Everything. From the hair to the eyes, to the butt, and to the toes. And not just physical appearance either...your sensitivity and how you can make a man feel so good and so bad at the same time. Your nuturing spirit and that motherly instinct of wanting to take care of your family. Even your annoying request and naggings that can drive a man crazy. And we men love it because thats what makes a female. Women are beautiful inside and out.
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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to me a perfect guy will be:\n1-intelligent\n2-humourous\n3-assertive\n4-kind/sensitive\n5-romantic\n\ni could go on but i think they cover the generic wishes of women.  As for looks every woman has her idealistic look but usually ends up  with something completely different.  Personality will always win over looks but women do appreciate a man who grooms, makes an effort and has good personal hygiene.  If in doubt be urseld cos we love confidence, never be fake. and u know what if she doesnt appreciate what uv got or tries to change u - go find someone who'll love u for what u are. good luck in love.