Being self conscious during sex!!!?
962013
Well...   I'd look into the point as to "WHY" your breast make you self concious.   Is it that you don't like them?  Or has someone made a comment?  \n\nI think you have to find your inner self, and like yourself, and build your confidence to feel sexy.  It's not a body part that makes a woman sexy, it's the self confidence that you can nock his socks off... lol
675920
What you are going through is not weird and it's definitely normal! i had the same problem...I had sex hundreds of times but I could never have an orgasm. I always thought something was wrong so I just faked it all the time. My boyfriend now and I have amazing sex and by experimenting I have found the only position that I can have an orgasm! I hope this isn't too graphic but here is what we do...\n\nHave him lay on his back and you climb on top. While he is inside of you move your legs to the inside of his and make sure they are straight. Slide yourself up and down this way and I can almost guarantee you will have an orgasm! This position rubs me the right way everytime! It's the best feeling in the world when you have your first orgasm during sex! Good luck and I hope this works!
897269
You really screwed up. Guys are really sensitive about sex, so when you criticize their performance they feel like you're attacking their manhood. Sure, he may have overreacted but it was only because you made him feel like a lesser man! Buy him a present, show up at his house/apt/whatev and apologize. Tell him that you were tired/ill and in a bad mood. Take complete responsibility for the argument (even if you don't think you should) and tell him that he means the world to you and you don't want to lose him just because you were in a bad mood. Tell him that you'll never do it again and that he is amazing in bed. In fact, tell him he is a sex god and you are not worthy of his amazing oral. Make him feel like a man again. So go! Ask him to take you back!! GOOD LUCK!!
779847
I realize you werew asking for girls to answer this, but...my girlfriend had this problem.  What she wound up doing was using a towel to clean up immediately after we finished. (Or as soon as I could walk, anyway). It helped her a lot.
696349
oh boy... tha really depends on personal taste... for the guy... look during phone sex some major elemnets are missing taht occur during normal sex, such as touch and sight... so you need to recreate thos elements... be VERY DISCRIPTIVE,,,, (i am sorry for rude comments from point onwards)\n\nIf youa re saying i am taking clothes off, instead say i am X off slowly... its rolling ff my shoulders.. and not i am unclipping ... you get the pic right....\n\nThe only think us guys have during phone sex is sound and imagination... so activate those... if he wanst to spank you then let him hear the sound of you doing that... \n\nI dont think i should give a much more detailed explaination.. hhahah\n\nJames
880466
It happens sometimes but you aren't naked that long.  You just grab a towel until it subsides.  Most of the time I was sort of semi hard and it wasn't that big of a problem.  Its a big fear, but just keep the towel handy and it won't b a problem.
360528
Nobody's expecting you to be perfect! Sex is just another exercise between two human beings that show our respect for another. Her thinking you suck at sex is better than not having it at all! How are you supposed to become good at it if you never have it? I would say you should stop masturbating so you can have a build up of sexual energy. Also look into tantric sex (as this helps with keeping it up and having sex for longer periods of time). I'm sure that your gf is no pro at sex, so work on improving together. Buy a book on kama sutra (indian sex positions) and practice it page for page. It's better to get through this together, instead of you building it up in your head. Also, you can progress to sex. Build up your confidence by giving her oral and fingering or using a vibratoor on her. This will help you progress and release your anxiety. Also try her performing fellatio on you. An exercise to stop impotency is The Deer exercise for men (google it). Also tense the anall muscle continuously as though you are drawing water up it. The more you practice the longer you will be able to hold it. This helps strengthen erections and stops impotency. Hope my advice helps :)
477512
My BF does that to me...it feels good but i get embarrassed when he does it and i totally freeze up. LOL!!!
224360
It's possible and absolutely natural too! You can also have fantasies that's dreams/imaginations of having sex with someone else than the one with whom you are enjoying during the course of active sex! They say fantassies add to better sex performance. Try it!
1017481
every moment of the day is embarrassing tfor me i am embarrassed of my own self!! anyone feels da same way
354814
It's very normal, it's not performance anxiety either. Men are visual, women are more emotional. Try putting the condom on for him. I can tell you I've had the same problem as him. It's the time it takes, it's the loss of feeling on the skin. It's hard to explain but it happens. I want to preach safe sex, however, wearing a condom sucks. Try this, you put the condom in your mouth, put your mouth over his penis, your putting it on him while going down on him. It's Little kinky, he'll like it trust me.
47892
No...enjoy it with your spouse...or at least be upfront. dont hide it like you are ashamed.  that is when it would feel like adultry
371242
Are you looking in on me??? Boy do i know what you are talking about. my husband loves me to death and he slips too,we crack up laughing, legs over the shoulders, doggie style etc.... Our best is oral sex. When she is in the mid of orgasm you "will" have an erection, put her legs on your shoulders...guarantee she will have at least 3 orgasm's. she will yearn for more...get energy....foreplay will be greater and this will transform to her self-esteem. maybe the sexy clothes will come later. turn on the lights when making love.\nAnd Buddy while in the midst of a passionate kiss my husband will slide his hand down my body feeling me so lightly then feels me where im "wet" ready for him and aims perfectly. Jamming your penis on the side of the leg and other near by areas is not acceptable.You are saying you are too fat.AND NOT TRUE. One leg over opposite shoulder is very good too. MY husband has a beautiful body, weighs 160-180. im a size 22. But everyone laughs at me cause in my inside i feel size 5-10, no bigger and have the ATTITUDE. Have your wife email me. And kiss/peck her more (but not to smother)pat her on the butt at the grocery store. My husband says when he is on top of me it feels like a mountain...so when he is really ready for orgasms i'll sing to him "Climb Every Mountain". NOw you know what that does!! We crack up laughing. And then does he come after me. FIND yall's sense of humor.
675119
Don't be intimidated!  Believe me, you're in control. Enjoy yourself, don't be scared, have fun!Enjoy everything that comes before actual intercourse, tease and lead up to it, kisses everywhere, but really know that you are in control of your body and take ownership of that- I would think that kind of confidence (without appearing to be slutty, I know my femnist friends want to kill me) and then submit to what he wants every once in a while. It's not about how you can move your hips, it's about how you feel about yourself. Let go
628897
I MOAN AOLT AND TALK DIRTY WHEN I HAVE SEX
565497
Yes...my soon to be x decided to use a desensitizing cream to prolong things. Well he did not inform me of this, and when I went to, well you know, my mouth went numb! I could not believe he did this, it was hysterical, but I was embarrassed. Nothing sexier than a woman with a numb mouth trying to talk dirty to her man lol!
53471
Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.