Why does my daughter (white and 16) want to date a black midget?
959230
A great question.  You have to sit her down and explain the error of her ways.
1156222
no! go have fun! you date again when YOU are ready, not when your ex is ready or when your daughter is ready for you to date...ITS YOUR LIFE! Grab life by the horns! (thanks dodge for the catchy line)
586579
Yeah, if she's a midget.
17135
Midget is the "offensive" term for little people or dwarf.  And yes, just because they are smaller proportioned, doesn't mean that their female parts don't work the same.  They can have children and do have children just like the rest of the human race.
745099
Uhhh why does it matter if he is short? If you cared for your sister and she was happy with him, why would you hurt her and break them up??? There is nothing wrong with being short, especially if he treats her good and they like or love each other. I think you need to not worry about who your sister dates so much. And if she knew that you would break them up, i can image she would be to happy with you.
961379
Possibly because she's married to a black man. Personally I see nothing wrong with that.
804125
Sounds like your mom is picking them based on the color of their skin.  \n\nSo far neither one has picked you. Pick the one you like.  \n\nIf you're not sure, tell both of them you like them and want to spend more time with them.  See what happens.  Try out one date each and see how you feel.  You don't have to be exclusive on this first date, because you know that first dates don't always work out.  Don't get too physical, because then you'll get a bad reputation.\n\nOnce you start dating, Sebaastian should stop talking to other girls on the phone.  If he continues, he's just a player and you should pick someone else.  SAme thing does for this other kid you like.  Remember, guys will flirt a lot just so they can get someone.
422965
Your avatar does not look white to me, and it's cute.\n\nAfter all, they raised a son who would consider a black girlfriend.  And anyway, who says they don't like you, having never met you?\n\nDon't worry.  Be you.  You seem fine to me - you have introduced the guy to your folks and all that.  And your parents are right to wonder why you have not been introduced to his folks.  Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns, so he knows about that.  And let him know that it is time to meet them.\n\nThe son may fear that they have cultural/family issues and he doesn't want to confront that, or doesn't want to subject  you to that.  I now remember a line from a movie about this.  The mother says to the son, who is going to marry a black girl, "A fish may fall in love with a bird, but where are they going to make their nest?"  She meant she was fine with things, but was cautioning the son about the problems society would give them.\n\nWe have a lot less of that these days, thankfully.  And you seem like a fine person - a nice girl from a nice family, so remember that and you'll be fine.
1073139
This is a tough one, but not unusual. Many girls your daughter's age are attracted to the "bad" boy. She probably has no interest in a decent guy right now. One thing you need to be careful of is not to be so adamant in your distrust/dislike for this young man that it drives your daughter closer to him. You can't get her to stop liking him. In fact, girls your daughter's age often desire to find someone who "needs" them.... and if she senses that her bad boy needs someone to rally to his defense, she'll do it. I would calmly and clearly explain your concerns to your daughter. She's old enough where she has to make her own decisions, and her own mistakes. You just need to be there in case she makes a bad move with this guy. Good luck.
1150277
Wow. That's horrible. She needs to get some respect for you. If you like a white guy, you like a white guy... Nothing she can do about it. Everyone of every nationality has different personalities. She is being ridiculous. Tell her that. If she's still really stubborn about it, try not talking to her until she changes her mind and realizes how wrong she is.
953961
the hopes and dreams of midgets
91209
I don't know, but my 14 year old daughter sure likes um.
1184010
It would be one heck of a fanticy come true but are you ready for the repercusions!!!\n\nYou probably have a daughter older then her!!!
593253
I think 16 is the appropriate age.  That's when I started dating.  By then you have a better idea of guys and what they are like.  But I guess it really depends on the individual.  I know I won't let my daughter date until 16.
457248
Hey... If her father does not accept you.. or her... or both of you... Then there really is not anything you can do... If ya'll love each other than that should be enough... You make his daughter happy... and that is all that should count.. She may hurt her father by going against his will.. But... Love is more important than Obediance.
357118
She is young enough to be your daughter. Maybe think about that one before you rob the cradle. There is no way she has anything in common with you.
923556
I would date a black girl. To be honest (and attempting not to be Micheal Richards) the majority of the black culture is very unappealing to me. However, I've known a handful of black people that I can get along with and hang out with. So if I found a compatible match then it wouldn't bother me.