Did anyone lose a loved one and never had a dream about them?
961842
I dream of people all the time... people from my past, and present. Sometimes they're good, and sometimes they're not... but usually they're just really weird, like it mixes people and places that never actually had any association
622696
Yes.  A very close friend had been admited to the hospital with pneumonia and complications from his bone marrow transplant.  I woke up on a Wednesday morning feeling really bad and the bracelet he gave me broke.  I tried telling myself i was imagining things, but the next day, his roommate cxalled to tell my that my friend had passed away 10 minutes before I woke up. Ive had other premonitions too, but that stands out the most.
1157492
We think about it because they aren't around anymore.  As long as someone is living it's in the back of our mind that we can call them, write them, go and see them - even if we never do.  When someone dies it registers in our head that they aren't there anymore and there is no way we can get to know them or let them know we actually cared about them - which brings on a little guilt, because no matter how busy you are it only takes 5min of your time to call a loved one and say "hi, how are you" and let them know you care.\nIn our society family isn't always the most important thing and it should be.  In other cultures family is everything, no matter what.  Here in America other things become important - friends, ourselves, work, etc - and we just don't give our family the time that they deserve.
350811
I have never dreamt of dying.  \n\nthanks again for the measily 2pts mr cruel LMFAO
997735
Because her passing affected you more than it did the others. My daughter passed away 7 years ago. It seemed that everyone but the immediate family dreamed about her, and very realistically.\nI think it might have been because we couldn't accept her death as easily as others....Or, it was MORE real to us...
342548
That's a tough situation and I'm so sorry for your loss. You should definitely talk openly about this with other family members and friends. You should also consider seeing your doctor for depression. Since you can't bring your mom back, try to focus on how to celebrate her. Put together a memorial with her pictures, hobbies and guest speakers. Did she have any dreams? Live out some of her fantasies for her. Feel her passion and feel her spirit inside you. The mourning period needs some closure so you can move on with your life. Try talking with more people like teachers, counselors, and even strangers. Cry a lot. Also...go ahead and talk to your mom. Ask her for advice and let your heart guide you. But don't ever give up!
1077347
My Dad....it's ok for you to ask...I still can't believe he passed away. I went back to Germany with my family, but when we got there I wasn't able to see him anymore, because prior to my arrival at the morgue, the funeral or morgue  personnel already closed his coffin. I wanted to remember him alive anyway, so I'm actually glad I didn't see him dead. I still feel like he's still in Germany, I just don't see him like before, because of the distance. My dad also lost two kids prior to his passing- a baby (through sids) and 16 years later my younger brother (suicide)...so he experienced what you went through: the loss of a child. He was very heart broken about my brother's passing and never fully recovered. \n        My condolences for your losses. God bless.
581286
i had just lost my grandfather and my 3yr old son within three days of each other. i was currently at Ft drum NY and had to fly down to AZ with my sons body for the funerals. i stayed with my family for the upcomming week, and the nite before the funeral i woke up at about 4am or so and saw my grand father standinding at the bottom of my bed smiling. he was surrounded by a very bright light and in my head i heard him say "Every thing is going to be O.K., he's with us". My wife awoke and saw the same image.by the time we looked at each other and turned back to the image, it was gone.
160747
One of my friend lost her mother few months back.She is just eighteen years old.I worried at the beggining about how to console her because she liked her mother very much that she was almost in a very disturbed state when that incident happened.\nBut when she returned after few days she was completely normal.I was unable to restain myself and i asked her.she said a little story.The story is a man lost his only son and he was crying and crying and a sage noticed his sad state and he asked abt his sorrows and he explained to him\nThe sage said that he will solve his problem and will give rebirth to his son if he brought enough sand from the house where no death occured.He was unable to find such a home and finally he understood the life's fact that nothing is permanent in this world.After she finished telling me this\nI was really proud of my friend and if she can controll her sorrows then why cant u?Happiness lies in ur hands.
1105612
well i heard that everyone has a dream like that at least once in their life, even if they dont want to admit it....i dont remember having a dream about any of my blood relatives but i did have a dream like that about my mom's boyfriend once.. that was more like a nightmare lol.... have u ever had an incest dream??? be honest!!! hehe\nFelicia
947179
I used to. A lot of my friends and family have been taken in horrific ways and I miss them but Ive other pals and family and pets aswell so life has to go on. You could be depressed, maybe your GP could help you or just go and see a good pal. Am sorry for your loss.
190312
I had a dream one night when I was 16 that this boy I was major crushing on died. A few weeks went by, and he was fine, so I forgot all about it. Then he asked me out. I was excited! It was supposed to be a double date with my friend and his best friend. Well, Danielle got grounded last minute, so my parents wouldn't let me go either. I was crushed! But the next morning, the sister of the boy I was crushing on called hysterical and told me he'd been killed in a car wreck the night before. The other boy was in a coma. They were drunk, and he missed a curve, and plowed into a concrete highway barrier. Both were thrown from the car, and his neck was broken on impact. \n\nI've had a couple other dreams like that, about a month before the person in the dreams died. One was my grandfather, another was my grandmother. Every time I have the death dream, I know the person has about a month to live.
525668
Ok, it was not last night but here is one : I dreamt of a dead uncle of mine. We weren't close at all and I have no sweet memories of him. He died of a cancer several years ago.\nTo tell it shortly, he put his hand on my shoulder and just said : "Everything's alright". I woke up with a strange feeling. As I told my dream to my family, someone noticed that it was his birthday ... He still "visits" my dreams sometimes but doesn't speak. Some wise man told me he may need some prayers ... I'm not a great believer so I light on candles for him ;o)
689841
I was 9 when I lost my mom. Not an important event goes by without me thinking of her and missing her. Im 28 and sometimes I get mad at HER for not being here for things like her grandchildren or to give me advice. It DOES get easier. I say this because the pain only goes on for so long then you adjust to it. Pain will be there it just won't be as horrible as it seemed in the beginning. I just hope to see her someday when its my time. It sucks more than anything in the world to lose a parent. My advice is n to see a counsler or better yet find others who have lost parents and share stories and tears if need be. Your on a good start here finding others. Maybe there is a loss support group in your area. I didn't like the counslers when I was younger due to the fact we had no connection. They didn't lose their mom but wanted to talk to me about my loss. Good-luck and keep your head up. Remember God doesn't give us more then we can handle (sometimes it feels like it)
442553
My advice to people that dream about passed on loved ones is to KEEP ON DREAMING....This is the way people on the other side sometimes communicate with us.... Keep a dream journal and you can get advice from your grandma....
718704
Well, crying over a death probably combines a number of feelings. \n\nYou're sad about that empty spot in your life, now that the person is gone and you can no longer be with them.\n\nYou're sad for the dead person, that they didn't live longer or perhaps that they suffered when they died.\n\nYou're sad for the person's family, who now is left without that person's presence.\n\nYou're sad over death in general -- the fact that people even have to die at all.\n\nYes, it's possible to be upset more for your own loss than anyone else's, or to let yourself wallow in grief without letting yourself adjust and heal over time, but in general I would be more worried if you didn't cry or feel loss over someone's death. \n\nIt's natural and healthy to be sad.
1100362
Hi ..When someone we love dies, it hurts us. ..We feel sad that the person will no longer be around to talk to or to have fun with... Their absence leaves a big hole in our lives. Maybe you had a pet that died.... Remember the first few times you walked into the house after your dog or cat was gone? It was strange not to have your pet there. Maybe you cried - that's OK... We need to mourn, or grieve, over losing people and animals and other things we love. ..But just like when you skin your knee, the first, intense pain will go away after a while. It takes time for your knee to heal, but it hurts less and less each day. It's the same when somebody dies... That doesn't mean you forget the person who died, or that you stop missing them ..After a while, we can go back to our lives, still loving them and remembering them always... \n\nRemembering people we love who have died is one way to keep them a part of us... Pictures help us do this. Looking at a photo album can help us remember fun times we had together. Lots of families bury the bodies of loved ones in a cemetery. Then they can go and visit the person's grave. It's not that they think of the dead person as really being there, but it is a special place to go and think about how much that person meant to them...................\n\nTo the asker: Let Manic not , get to you!\nI have seen .. that he has comments, on my question,to;/  ........\nKind regards!:) ..