Did you find your true love by looking or not looking?
961936
I am a believer that a person finds their true love when the are not searching hard for it, or at all. \n\nIt's funny you asked this tonight.  Because I told someone else this earlier at work tonight.  Just be happy with who you are.  Be a worthy person now, because you just never know who is already watching you. :)
442206
i think it might be very rare to actually fall in love at first sight but it can happen. now, if you see someone and all you think about is "wow, they must be great in bed" that would definitly be lust. but if you feel like you really want to get to know them then yes, i would say it was love. only because that has happened to me. when i first saw my boyfriend (we both met at church) i totally knew that i cared for him. but caring is not the same as love. but it did turn into that. so it is a long process, sure there was attraction but also a deep mutal respect and care for that person as well. sorry if this is confusing but love is sometimes a confusing thing.
1145639
I don't think you can truly love someone until you know their soul. First sight is romantic and storybook but that's all. For the people who have been with a person for a long time and say they had love at first sight was luck, that's all. The lord also works in mysterious ways so I could be wrong. Well we are right back where we started.lol
514866
well on a woman, I look for the internal feelings because if you find a woman that good looking, she might be good on the outside but what really matters is the inside, so just look for love.
368251
I think it's possible to feel something very close to true love without actually meeting, but I think you can't know if it is real true love until you meet physically - for me the whole chemical thing is just huge, if I don't like how a guy smells, he has no chance. And there are so many aspects of our personalities that only come out face to face.\n\nThat said - I exchanged emails with my current bf for about a month before we actually met, and I was definitely well on my way towards falling in love before we met - which made a big difference, because I don't know if I would have been so attracted to him physically if I hadn't already fallen for him mentally.
1018397
Love at first sight is untrue.\nYou cannot LOVE some one by seeing them, that is called [attraction, lust].\nYou can however [be attracted to, lust] someone at first sight then later in the relationship come to love them.\nOnce you get older you'll see. ;)
467095
Well I am only speaking for myself, but if I see a man that I find attractive, I catch myself staring, no passing glances here.  I love looking at beautiful men...not glancing!!!
115007
Not in real life. "Love at first sight" (is that what you mean?) is in fact a longer name for "attraction". To love something you must know it first. Otherwise is not love.
86057
Everyone has some one they are bound to be with it so, to answer your question; yes you will find true love.
386676
Don't. \n\nI believe in true love. I do not believe in love at first sight. I do believe that on rare occasions, someone you find attractive at first glance ends up being that perfect person you imagined them to be. In even more rare cases, that person likes you back. I believe that more often, you just keep imagining that your BF/GF is perfect because you are wearing Rose-Colored Glasses.
935458
i hope you are talking about in college. i met mine at work... although not ideal, it worked and we fell in love. stop looking for love and it will find you.
334117
I believe in it because it happened to me and it was not just lust. I met someone and within a very short period of time (2 hours) it was like we knew each other for all our lives and we felt comfortable with each other and within 2-3 days, we were cuddling up together and it just felt natural - like we were two parts of a same whole, so YES, I do believe in love at first sight.\n\nToodles
99057
You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)
520217
are u realy in love or do u just think so
707788
I have. When I see a good looking man that I desire, I have no problem starting a conversation and dropping him little hints here and there during the conversation that let him know I am interested in pursuing seeing him.\nIt usually works like a charm.
1021866
you dont just find real love, it just happens. youll know when you found something real because you will feel it. But dont go searching for it because the right person will find you.
50077
Well for me, it was just something i knew in my heart. Everytime i saw this person my heart would skip a beat and for some reason, i always had to smile when i saw him. There really isnt a how-to to true love. If you feel it with all your heart and soul that you really and truely love this person, then that is your true feelings.