im in love with this guy but he dosent even notice me and his brother is in love with me what should i do?
964455
see, we get those ppl 4 whom we care hardly n we love such ppl who care 4 us hardly..... its a love tringle in ur case , most of d times this happens, be very goody goody with his bro , who loves u & ask him 2 be ur good frnd n tell him tat u need his help as a frnd & 4 a coffee, tell him silently with sound mind tat u love his bro...since past .......days , months or yrs!!!      if he loves u really n is ready 2 giv world , then he ll cry bt he will equally help u 2 gt his bro ... tell him 'extremly sorry!'  bt 1st understand this , whether his bro is ur love or just an atteraction!!! if its an atteraction then jus dnt think on this topic , bt if u r ready 2 sacrifse anything lik hell then its love n go 4 it!!!     bt mind it well baby, u ll gt everything frm a person who loves u, love , care in abundance, bt u have 2 give everything 4 a person whom u love! think deeply... n we all r jus helpin u 2 reach 2 the decision , bt final decision is totally depended on u .... whether u want true love or u want 2 giv up.... all d best!!!
1165948
It really isn't as awkward as you think, its not like you dated his brother, sometimes its just a "small world" I would say go for it. If you guys are in love, then why should you have to seperate because everyone else says it is "immoral"  Love conquers all, and if you were meant to be together, then you will be, regardless of anyone elses opinion. Don't let them bring you down, follow your heart! Good luck!
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)
378348
It sounds like you are infatuated.  You don't know him well enough to love him yet.
1038066
Don't quite agree to the answer above. What's more important is how you feel. You don't need to worry about what you brother MAY think. After all, it's your life..\nAlthough, I admit that depending on the age you're in, it could be a little touchy. As you didn't mention how old any of you is, I tend to say, give it a try to find out what he feels.\nIf you're e.g. 13 and he's 18, well, then enjoy having the crush and dreaming of what could be. But don't pursue... Some dreams better remain what they are: dreams..
1094685
I am not going to lie this is bizarre! Honestly though it could work out pretty well and everyone could be satisfied with the outcome. \n\nFor that to happen you are going to have to express to the guy you like what is going. Be upfront and tell him that you are not interested in his brother and you want to pursue something with him. Then he got a choice, either live by an unspoken code of not dating your brother's girl(since he has a crush on you, you are his girl) or have fun with you. Chances are though if you don't say nothing, things will stay the way they are now.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1102718
You know what, he's probably seeing someone else. Maybe thats why he has not been paying any attention to you. Just sit with him and talk to him, if that don't work, then just tell him that you love him all your heart and give him the best moment he ever had.
677896
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
609099
ask him but make sure your ready for the answer.  Let him know that if he is, you are still his brother.  Just be there for him if he is.  good luck
901146
smt similar happened to me, my husband has a twin brother as well...in fact when we met i prefered the brother (physically) but my husband was faster in conquering me, hihi.....years later I started to feel attracted to the brother, he was flirting with me....but I got over it and never flirted back and stayed with my husband....I´ve been with my husband over 15 years now and even don´t like the brother as a friend anymore.....\n\nFirst ask yourself if you really want to marry your fiancee...and if you realise that you don´t ,I would go with the brother if he is interested in you...all this time that your´re were with your fiancee you didn´t have any family meetings with the brother included, so I don´t think it is impossible to be with the brother if he turns out to be the right man for you...GOOD LUCK
831371
It's time for you get some balls and stand up to your brother . . . if you really want to be with Frank then be with him, if your brother doesn't approve then tell him tough sh** . . . it's not his life, it's not his emotion or choice or even right to get in the way of your life because he has insecurity issues w/ himself . . . if he thinks frank will be bad for you, and if he's right, then that's a decision you're going to have to find out for yourself.\n\nStand up for yourself and put your foot down!!  Don't let other people, regardless of their role in your life, tell you what to do with your life.
195619
Dating brothers was a big mistake.  I'm not real sure you can fix this.  Your best bet is if the two brothers talk and can be ok with it.  If they can be ok then eventually everyone else will follow suit.
45107
Hey there! Okay, I would just talk to him, and when he goes over to play basketball with ur bro just ask to go with them. Another thing is, how close in age r u to him. but anyway i think you should just try this. OR talk about him alot if front of your bro and he will eventually talk about how u have a crush and maybe he will then realize that and who knows...he might be in the same situation as you.
763768
What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
593840
You should not go for anyone your bother has been with. You should be happy your brother found a girl who is likeable and is happy.  \n\nDo not tell her you like her. Family is more important than any girl.
385672
GO ahead! It's not like his brother is gonna be exactly like him, especially if his brother is signaling for you!