My best friend likes the dude iam like should i end our friend ship and go to him and 4get about ?
970400
its not worth to lose the friendship for the guy..BUT you both need to be honest with each other..and face the facts, does he like YOU or does he like HER? be realistic. one friend is just going to have to sit back and watch this guy and them flirt and maybe be a couple and suck it up just to know her friend is happy. but seriously, be open with your friend and you and her need to be real and look at the situation.
250713
You really are in a dilemma. If you feel your friend is more important, just tell the guy to go to hell, and stop bothering you. By the way, does the guy know your friend likes him? If he doesn't, your friend is the one who has to take the next step, without your help. best of luck.
838275
I wouldn't make a move on my best friend without being 100% sure he feels the same thing. You might be risking a lot if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same. \n\nSo i'd say if u like other guy start from there... maybe it works with that guy and u forget about ur best friend... if it doesnt work then just wait u have something more concrete before telling anything to yur best friend.
777952
if ur friend hasnt met him yet and started going out with him then u should take a chance at it
757546
first of all figure out if he is even worth your time and energy,, make sure you really like him... also you haven't even started off right... you lost a friend for this guy and you don't even know if he likes you... what would be the right thing to do is apologize with your friend and try to get back together and even if your friend says anything about yeah u better cause its all your fault or he's mine deal.. shruggle it off because its not worth another fight... also if your friend stopped being your friend because you guys like the same guy then maybe you should think about if your friend was really ever your friend... but if you really like this guy then i say go for it... but dont do anything you will regret
1035613
How much do you like him?  Because if you all was friends first would that mess up your friendship if something don't work out?  Is it worth it to mess up a friendship? Try asking him with a trick question and get his understanding on it.  You might need to think this really through, because you could lose your best friend.
737826
Well remember, ur friend will always be there for u but guys come and go. If u end up w/him and eventually "u will" break up- odds are. Then what? u don't have him and ur best friend has found another. Let me tell u, I had a very best friend in high sch. and we were inseperable 1 day another friend of mine says;tell her or I will! Sooooo.. my frined say's I F*****-John (my bf) I was heart broken! she almost laughed. She was my best friend!? what the hell? but now he ended up being a loser and she ended up w/3 kids to 3 diff guys and she's w/none. I am married 16 yrs w/2 kids and happy. I know u didn't need to hear my life story but u got it anyway. Chose ur friend! plenty of guys will come along later. Don't b a friend like mine was to me.
671947
I would say neither of you should go out with him. Because even though right now you both maybe saying its ok if the other one asks him out deep down do ya really wanna see him (the guy you like) kissing your best friend? I think it would cause hard feelings. I always lived by this saying when this happend to me in highschool\nBoyfriends come and go but a true friend is forever.
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
1111260
only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
614960
No, don't start something that can't last. If you think it can last after you move then give it a try. I think the guy needs to tell your friend that he has feelings for you. If your relationship will ruin your friendship with your friend then don't do it.
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
315080
take the guy away from her obviously both if you can't have him and if you want him and he wants you take him.\n cautious: if it doesn't work out between you and him you'll go back to her.\n if you two are really friends you will still be friends even if one of you gets him first
115058
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
815606
I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.