The man I am having an affair with ....does he have rights?
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Heck at this point of "man sharing" why don't you introduce the two and HOPE they get along nicely and you can have your cake and eat it too.  OH WAIT...you HAVE been getting cake and eating it too!\n\nI don't mean to sound harsh here.....but was once in a relationship where I was the "other woman"(the home wrecker rather) and though I assumed I was the center of the GUYS world, he was going home playing with his kids, enjoying his wife's yummy cookin' etc.  He was "planning" on leaving her soon and I was told to be patient.  Well guess what?  It never happened and in the mean time I was the one that looked like a harlet.(I was ashamed)\n\nGive your current partner the courtesy of saying "I REALLY want to be with someone else, and have been".  If you don't at least say it, there will be no room for your partner to try to work things out or try to figure out WHAT he's not giving you what Captain Coolness can.  Things can't be SO bad at home that you haven't run screaming away, so you need to be an adult(and YES being an adult can be crappy sometimes) and take your lumps.\n\nWhat if you husband came to you and said, "Honey, I have been sleeping with you and having an affair"?  What would you think?\n\nMy point is:\nSometimes when you get your cake and eat it too...you end up to be just that.....the chick eating too much cake and missing out on a great life.  Listen to the music before the songs over, go with your heart and don't do ANYTHING you wouldn't shout on the rooftops!\n\nAlso......your "secret man", if he had ANY balls would INSIST not waiting.  Unless of course you are the doormat type.\n\nIt all makes sense........do what's right.  Truth can bite hard, but lies leave scars on ALL involved.
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You are legally married to him.He can not legally be in another relationship with any other woman until the divorce is final.He can spend time in jail for that.
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Yes there is a future...as a mistress and that would be about it.  He is only looking for some side action...and if this is you, then you are being used.  Say goodbye and move on.
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Out of courtesy, yes.  Just because you are his wife does not give you the right to look into all his personal things, unless he himself tells you it is ok.  I am married, and I open my husband's mail, and can look at anything I want to because he has told me I can look at anything he has.  Your husband may be different. As his wife, you should know how private a person he is. If you are not sure-ASK. Would you appreciate his going thru your purse without asking?
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you are to young for this man you need to wait\nIt is also illegal\nplease dont put him in jeopardy if you love him wait\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
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What sort of rights. I'm looking for a case to take on right now. Is there money involved?
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Can you give more detail- what do you mean seeing himself in the picture- is he trying to steall you away form your hubby? Please give more specifics.  You can email me at trialtoid@yahoo.com
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YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY. IT IS ABSOLUTELY CHEATING. IF HE'LL DO IT ON THE COMPUTER, THEN HE WILL DO IT IN REAL LIFE. BEEN THERE, DONE THAT. EXPLAIN YOUR POSITION VERY THOROUGHLY, AND IF HE CONTINUES TO DO IT, THEN LEAVE, BECAUSE THE NEXT STEP IS CHEATING WITH YOUR NEIGHBOR, BEST FRIEND, SOME PROSTITUTE ON THE STREETCORNER. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LEAVE, THEN WAIT AROUND AND SEE. I ONLY HOPE THAT ITS NOT TOO LATE AND YOU END UP WITH AIDS OR SOME OTHER STD, OR END UP WITH KIDS AND HE TAKES OFF FOR THE TWENTY-SOMETHING DOWN THE BLOCK. ANOTHER THING THAT YOU CAN DO IS TELL ALL OF THESE INTERNET FLOOZIES THAT HE IS A MARRIED MAN, AND YOU WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF THEY WOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE. A LITTLE POLITENESS CAN GO A LONG WAY, AND IT WILL ALSO DEPLETE HIS LITTLE STABLE. GOOD LUCK, LADY.
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If all parties know about it and they're fine with it, I don't see a problem with it...\nBut I can't imagine the wife being okay with the fact that you were the woman her husband had an affair with... so I'm assuming she doesn't know...\nIn that case, if you two can play it off like there was nothing between you two, I guess you'll be okay....\nBut WATCH OUT, because people talk.... and sooner or later they ALL find out...
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You have the right to change your mind. Find yourself another man who is agreement with you.
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Yes, fight for your rights, and don't give him any sex (charge him, just kidding, had to say that in the moment), the most important thing of course is the welfare of the children, and remember, documentation, documentation, I hope you have paperwork on everything that has happend in your life, and witnesses, he has to pay child support no matter what, he is their father and has to support them (like it or not/wage garnishment).  And don't question yourself if you need financial help, you do and you deserve it.  Good Luck and I hope things work out for you and your children.
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u don't. if it is right and real u will know. if you have second thoughts then why not wait a while until u r sure he is for u. why waste time money and feelings over a legal document?
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In the phonebook - scroll to the 'R's and look for the Rights. Of course, if Mrs Right answers the phone then there could be complications. \n\nAlso if you can't find anyone to do right, are you in some sort of left handed people club?
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No.  He has no rights here in the U.S. either...Of course, if she is pregnant, the sensible thing for her to do would be discuss it with him and let him at least air his views on the whole abortion issue.  \n\nIt sounds like she isn't being entirely truthful about the whole thing though..and the question really should be..is she pregnant at all?  Sometimes women make up stuff like that for attention...it might be because it isn't his..and another reason could be that she plain doesn't want to bear a child right now..and that is her legal right.  If she was having an abortion, and it was his, she probably would have asked him to share the cost..abortions are expensive and are not generally covered by medical insurance.\n\nI would venture a guess that she isn't even pregnant...
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That's normal.  He could get the job done on his own, take matters into his own hands, if you don't want to.\n\nWould you rather that he didn't want to touch you with a ten foot pole??\n\nI would take advantage of it while you can.  Don't you like too have sex with him?
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you are involved with a very selfish individual. He is putting his pleasures and self before you. Get out now.
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Wrong!!! He's wrong for not giving you the information that you need.  You should demand that he divulge information about himself.  What is he trying to hide.  You need to be very direct and firm in your approach.  Good Luck!!!