at what age do teens usually fall in love.......?
959114
Teens don't fall in love.  It's just an infatuation, there is a difference.  Teens aren't mature enough for love.
485511
i remember 14, and you think you've felt it, but trust me it's not exactly "real love". more like infatuation, but it's just as important and something you have to go through to realize what love actually is later on in life when you REALLY find someone to have "real love" with. and you will change SO much from 14 to when you are grown up. you can't really have real love until then, but enjoy being 14- it goes by fast!
245775
i think teenagers do not make love.  that is what i think about making love.  teenagers have wild animalistic sex according to my dad, and i would have to agree with him just a lil.  teens do not make love.  i should know.  i am sixteen.
312455
Sexual urges are VERY strong in teenagers, they don't have the willpower or desire to wait.\nI was 16 and in love- we were together for 3 years, I don't regret it, but I think its sad when girls give it up the first chance they get and the guy ends up hurting them.
885112
I think that you're the right age when you basic understanding as to what is going on and how to conduct yourself properly with the opposite sex.  I would say that this, in my personal experience, happens around 13 or 14 (hey, I said BASIC understanding lol).
677415
Well I have had a crush on someone since I was in 1st grade and we ended up getting together in 7th grade and broke up.  Well come to find out that he is still in love with me and me in love with him.  We just couldn't stay away from each other so either fate or the two of you will bring yall together.  I am now 16 and me and him are stronger than ever and are still going strong and I plan to be with him for w while, just let him know how you feel!!!!
948730
O sweets! The "one" is so complicated. I think when all girls have a crush at that age, they think/wish/hope he is the "one". But seriously... He probably isnt. Who he is now, wont even be close to who he becomes later. I dont know anyone who is the same person at 25 that they were at 15. 10 years makes a huge difference, and the cold hard truth is that relationships started when so young, USUALLY dont last. Over 85% of marriages between the ages of 18-25 end in divorce. Thats the majority of people getting married. You can never really know someone till you've lived with them for a few years. There is an old saying, Love is blind, and marriage is a real eye opener. I wouldnt worry too much about finding the "one" right now. I believe destiny and fate have everything worked out already for you and when its right, things will fall into place for you and him to finally come together. Good luck
458834
around 16-18 years old...depends if u truly love the girl with all the intensity in your soul and heart...and if u do once you hit 18(the legal age)I would go for it.
925920
yes... my sister met her fiance and started dating when they were 16... i no people that have been together since they were 14 so ofcourse.. u dont have to be a certain age to fall in love... infact heres a great quote:\nyou can drive at 16..go to war at 18, drink at 21 and retire at 65, how old do you have to be to be in love?
406599
I fell in love at the age of 5, and I still love "him" nowadays. Our love has blossomed even more and we're planning to get married soon.\n\n(I'm currently at the age of 18 right now, so yours is all ok for me... if it's not, i'm definitely worse than you.)
141933
Hi there sweety,\n    This is SO like my story when I was your age. I was SO deeply in love with him, yeah, some people say that this is not love, that you cannot love, but they are wrong - they only say this because they haven't been in your shoes.\n     One thing is true though - it can never happen. You can choose what to do, but believe me, there is NO WAY he has feelings for you, he may think you are a bright student at the best. \n     You see, even if you feel mature enough for him and think that you can have something together - he is waaaaay to old and experienced to get involved with someone at the age of 20, let alone 14.\n     I guess that no matter what we say to you you would still love him, but do try to keep away from him and don't tell anyone about that. I wasn't so wise as to hide my feelings and my classmates found out and uh it was so embarassing for both me and him...\n     So best of luck, and let me tell you this - if you love him and not someone your age you probably are a bit more mature than your classmates but don't worry - in time you will discover love again.\n\n     Best of luck!!\n\nps: e-mail me on yahoo if you wish
1060547
It's a beautiful thing to be in love when you are young.  You haven't had time to experience being hurt, disappointed and disillusioned by someone.  You love that person with complete abandon and believe that you can have that feeling forever.  I think that it's possible for young love to last.  If you are willing to stand by each other through the good times and the bad times.  If you accept the changes in each other as you go through life.  I Wish You Much Happiness!
241863
being a young man of faith... excuse my language.. shes going to be literaly ****ed over! there is no way in Gods name a 14 year old girl is in love with a 20 year old guy.. 2 hes only looking to get in her pants... (being a guy i would know how horomones function for my "speicies) thirdly... at 14 hardly ANYONE knows what love is even if it bit them in the butt. im almost 18 and ive found the girl i love, but she is 2 years younger.. granted not a good combo but she actualy realises what i want and what i see love as being. honestly if you cant talk to her... talk to her MOM or her DAD.. cuz any decent parent will NOT EVER allow a 6 year time difference untill the "young woman/man" is atleast 18... and if he touches her... theres a reason for the saying "16 will get you 20... 14 will get you 40!" so if she loves him... she may just want to concider waiting just a bit longer...
1007413
My first love...gosh..this question brings back memories. His name is Derek. I was 15 years old when I met him. I had never kissed or even held hands with anybody before. I remember the first time we kissed. We were at a mutual friend's house and we walked outside together. I knew what was going to happen and I was so nervous. I started rambling on and on avoiding eye contact. Then I pointed up to a star that was shining really bright and I go "Hey, Look at---" and before I could finish my sentence he turned my face to his and kissed me. It was so sweet, so innocent. I will never forget that first kiss for the rest of my life. Derek and I were together for a year, but of course we are young and we came to a point that we were ready to experience being with other people. I still talk to him from time to time, just to see how he is doing. Even though we aren't together anymore, he will always hold a special place in my heart.
1174512
Such a wise young lady you are. \n14 is young but many times we as adults think we have all the answers but well we don't we live and learn and I can say we make mistakes all the time. \nPersonally I think that we all just try and move too fast and we think we have to do this or that because others are doing it and so it looks like the right thing. Love is a magically thing and when it happens for real then there is no denying what it is. many mistake affection and even lust for love but that is because they want to not because it is right. \nYour at an age where your going to see things a little different and thats ok and your going to notice yourself and the changes that have been happening for a while now. You will have feelings and being a female you will have some very strange emotions and this will lead to thoughts and it is normal. You have time right now to take all the time you need to explore life and to explore all the different kinds of people. You will meet so many who will make you have both good and bad thoughts which in turn will lead to good and bad feelings. at 14 you have a chance to think grown up but still be just a kid and that is the best time in life. Having only one person as they say girlfriend or boyfriend is placing a restriction on yourself and being a teen you know how you hate so many rules well by restricting your choices you put a rule on yourself that is going to end up more painful then not. How many kids have you seen who have broke up and how many have you seen so sad and they think life is over and they feel wasted. keep yourself open learn and get to know many boys etc... really get to know them see what they like and dislike and slowly build on this. find what you like and dislike and try to find those who have the same things you do. having only one lets say boyfriend means you have stopped looking and now it is him and only him but if you do not choose one then you have a pick of any. at 16 you will pretty much know everyone around you and know who you rather be around the most and yep then you can say lets become girlfriend and boyfriend but keep in mind this is not a promise he is the one you will grow old with no this is the time where you learn even more about each other and ask more personal things like what he wants to do after high school and after that and life he see's himself in. and if his values are matched and you learn to trust and your learn to grasp each others emotions then you begin to feel each others pain and sorrow laughter and love.
1099058
First of all, 20 is not the correct age to fall in love. Okay man, you feel it is love. But think from your parents side, what they think? They might be of the feeling that your's is not love but just attraction/infatuation/sexual attraction, likewise. My advice is that you try your best to avoid that girl for a week, and then you decide whether it is love or lust ! About your parents problem, you can have a cool talk with them without any strings. But I personally suggest you try the one week avoiding option and then decide and talk with your parents. Good Luck.
916705
How old are you princess?  Seriously, if you are a teen it is puppy love.  I did not know what real true love was until I was about 24...and I have been with the same guy every since we were 16...we thought it was love then but it was puppy love.  Take it slow...especially if you are a teen...enjoy being a teen w/ out being tied down to one man...plenty of time when you are older...and you will know for sure!