why do some guys want to be gay and why do they not like girls?
965810
why do some guys want to be straight and why do they not like guys?
473708
Because people fail to understand being gay is who we are.\n\nWhu are people straight?\nWhy are people people?
242076
That is pretty stupitd in the first place!!\n\nI have nothing against lesbians or gays, but I do think that is a very lousy excuse to become one.  You should define your sexual preferences because of how you feel about other people.\n\nIf you think you like people of your own gender then you are gay or lesbian.  But you do not become gay or lesbian for not being able to hook up.  And by the way 3 months? I've known girls that have been alone for almost a year and they don't stop liking boys because of that.\n\nI think deep inside she always wanted to be lesbian and this is the only excuse she could find (a pretty lame one)
108444
About half of the guys I know are homophobic. One of my homophobic friends would say stuff like, “I don’t have a problem with gay guys. I just don’t want them … around me,” and “Gay guys just wanna plunder my a*s.” It’s so common for hetero guys to think that all gay guys wanna do is rape hetero guys. By definition, a phobia is an irrational fear. What’s to be afraid of? Their scathing humor aside, homosexual men are the most harmless things on Earth. Have you ever heard of a gay murderer? Or a gay thief? Maybe I haven’t been around long enough, but I’ve never heard of a criminally deviant homo dude (although I do know some pretty ghetto dyke hooligans). My point is I think most homophobic guys can’t explain why they’re scared of gay guys.\n\n\nWhat I think the reason is:\n\nThe penis is the intrusive genital. Men brandish their penii with a subconscious feeling of superiority over women. And the idea that a man will use that power against his own kind repulses hetero men. Hetero guys like an*l sex (with a female), not because it feels better, but because it shows ownership of the woman he’s sodomizing. The notion that they may be owned in the same way scares them.\n\nThis is not necessarily fact. Just my take on the matter. Hey, I’m not man-hating. I’m just homo-defending.\n\nGuys, you should take it up the a*s every once in a while. Your g-spot is located next to your prostate, accessible only through the butth*le. I’m not suggesting having your butt plugged by another guy. If you’re not down for that, let your girlfriend hit it with a d*ldo. Don’t knock it ‘til you try it. Or are you afraid you might like it? =P
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Perhaps they were always gay and never came to terms with it until now.  (Some people don't come out until they are married, with children, etc. and they finally realize they are tired of lying.)\nPerhaps they have always been interested in trying homosexual relationships and only now do they feel confident enough to do so.\nPerhaps they aren't sure what they want and so are giving it a go.\n\nI think you have some pretty serious issues you need to work out with women.  I am a feminist, and I'm positive I've never "turned" a man gay.
420475
Because some guys are shy about things like that. Or some of them feel that the girl should tell the guy they like them.
472467
Good plan. Girls love gays. Modern age, fear of men, etc.
1015649
Yes, it is a simple question and yes, it's still badly worded.  Many guys don't like lesbians although many women do like gay men. Figure that one out. I adore gay men and straight men too. I see most of them as small children in large bodies; although a straight gentleman can't often help me with colour combinations for the living room.
689379
Some girls say they don't like a guy because they fear what their friends will think of them. Some are also afraid of rejection and wont admit it until they know how the guy feels about them.
58973
People don't "turn" gay.  You either are or you aren't.  It might take you a while to realize it or come to terms with it, but you don't suddenly become gay.
79199
its a straight guy who might be mistaken for gay. for instance a male that wears girls jeans, has nice hair, good style, etc. but is attracted to females.
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i am attracted to both male and female bodies. it doesnt make you gay though. everyone has problems with their sexuality. it all depends on how you control it. some gay men think that since they like the way a man looks or is sexually attracted to them they should go gay. but if a very attractive woman came and did some thing i cant say to him then he would go right back to being straight. plus their is no problem with being attracted to your own body and the female assests. it just shows that you appreciate women and what we all have.
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I don't think anyone wants to be gay. I really don't think that a person would want to be rediculed and shunned by society and alienated by their family and friends. I honestly think that that's just the way that they...just like ppl are heterosexual. People can't help who they are attracted to. And I think that society should be more accepting of gay ppl...after all they are ppl too. I support the gays and I am with them in their struggles. I think that I may be attracted to girls as well. And what the hell is wrong with that.
512157
theres many reasons.. they can b confused n they not sure who they want 2 b wit , they want kids so mary the opposite sex in order 2 obtain dat , embarrasment , their families r against it ... the reasons can b many .. people should learn how 2 live in the world we live in , anythin can happen specially now a days .. but unless some 1 is being lied i dont think theres anythin wrong wit dat .. there are still so many ignorant ppl who cant accept homosexuality dat this makes them take steps dat later on they might regret but its not the case 4 every who does this
662388
I suppose that in many ways the way I like guys is similar to the way a woman likes a guy.  I like a man for the way he smells - as long as he smells good, the way he feels, I like the physical strength when he holds me, and I feel comforted by his holding me.  My biggest disappointment with the gay men I have met is that many are not very romantic, and many just want to go through the motions of sex without getting involved further.\n\nI guess for you to understand me you would truly have to be in my shoes because mere words are not going to truly help.
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Because it general we all want what we can't have. Oh and also, IN GENERAL gay people TEND to spend more time and effort on how they look and their personality where as the majority of straight guys don't. And no im not gay before anyone says this is why i have this opinion.
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from what you had said it's look that you like to be gay and simple. \nI will tell you what I believed.....you are what you has been born on so if you born a man be a man and if you born a woman be a woman, second inside you is telling you that what you are doing is wrong and it's drive you to the right way. be simple and Jonie the air force. there is nothing nice to be a gay. & fiend a nice girl and do what ever you like to do.\nI know gay people will HAIR me....