How long till I can trust him?
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That is a hard situation. I guess it really depends on what he did and how bad it hurt you and made you lose trust in him. If he loves you and cares for you then he will have to work to get your trust back. There really is no time limit on these things, the trust will slowly come back if he proves himself to be trustworthy. It might help to talk to him about it.
530500
WITHOUT TRUST THERE'S NOTHING. IF HE HAS BEEN DOING IT FOR 3 YRS THEN BASICALLY HE MAY KEEP DOING IT. IT ISN'T FAIR TO YOU TO PUT UP WITH WHAT HE'S DOING TO YOU. SURE HE'S YOUR BABIES FATHER, BUT IF HE'S A REAL DAD IF YOU LEAVE HE WILL STILL TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILD RIGHT? YEA YOU WILL STILL LOVE HIM BUT EVEN IF HE SAYS HE WILL STOP THERE WILL ALWAYS BE DOUBT SOMEWHERE IN YOUR MIND BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT HE'S DONE IT ALREADY AND IT HAS BEEN FOR 3 YRS. DON'T STAY WHERE YOU FEEL YOU AREN'T LOVE. DON'T BE NO BODY'S DOOR MAT TO THE POINT WHERE THEY CAN FEEL THEY CAN STEP ON YOU AT ANYTIME!!!  GOOD LUCK!
101073
There are no guarantees.  Look at divorce rate.  Ask yourself if you truly enjoy this person's company.  Do you communicate well?  Is this person insecure/secure?
117819
It pretty much comes down to this: You either trust him or you don't. There is no "in between" trust. So ask yourself this: Do I trust him? If the answer is yes then there should be no problem with accepting what he says to you. If the answer is no then you would be treating yourself with respect by not staying with him, getting on with your life and not looking back. Once the trust is gone it never comes back. Not truly 100%. The most important thing is to be true to yourself!
853359
If you feel that he is... in your gut... then he probably is. I have learned through experience to trust myself, and I constantly tell girls all the time to TRUST THEMSELVES as well. You know yourself better than anyone.... Can you be with a guy you cant trust.. If the answer is yes, Then maybe you should get some councelling of your own. You cant be a doormat, you cant have love with out trust. Good luck
624088
He can't be trusted you should move on Good Luck!!
197286
well if u have been screw over so many times it would be hard for u to trust anyone . but u will fine someone u can trust and who will be faithful to u it will take time k just hang in there it will get better soon
1034270
Take it one day at a time.  If he is a good man, he will show you over and over again that he truly is.  Let him in a little at a time.  You'll be just fine.
225640
You have to take your time.  If the other person truely cares about you, then they won't mind the wait.  You also have to put your faith in God and know that he puts people in our lives for a reason.  Sometimes its to make us stronger so that we can face tomarrow.  Just remember he will not put more on us than what we can handle.  Lay it at his feet he will help you trust again, just learn to trust in him. Life is to short to let the past keep you from moving forward.
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Be wary most of the time.  As the length of time of knowing someone increases, you can judge by how well you trust them.  Give them little tests along the way to check if your assumptions on trust were right.\n\nI recently trusted a 3-year friend with a detail/secret.  They snitched about it.  I know this person is not one to tell important info now.
682306
Run.. Run away. Ask yourself.. Will you ever be able to trust him? Ever? \n\n-HtJ
1074158
you can only trust someone as well as you know them. some you can know in a little time, some take a lifetime. sorta depends on how much is shared, how much is hidden,how much is lied about & how much is in denial. \npay attention to your intuition & to what your eyes see. do not fool yourself with unreal expectations. not everyone lies, but a majority do. look for the exception, not the rule. quality in all things & experiences!
721185
you won't know.. men are bunch of liars. they can pretend to be trustworthy until you find out that they are not. just be careful. i mean, trust your man but use your common sense.
362001
If you love him that much, then wait.  Gain his trust slowly and you will more than likely end up with a wonderful relationship.  Good luck!!
339535
if he is as great as you describe, then hes really worth your trust.  ask him straight out.  because theres no future if theres not trust.
127056
firstly do you have a reason not to trust him?\n\nIf the answer is yes you need to talk to him and if the answer is no you'll just have to learn to become more trsuting - it may take time but you'll get there
678458
After dating only two days, you don't yet. Two days is not enough time to build that kind of trust and openness. Wait and give it time. He may have been baiting you, to see how you would react. Letting him ponder and think about that might not be such a bad idea at this point. Good luck!!