what can u do to prevent bleeding from anal sex and being sore?
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You should know that anal sex can be very, very pleasurable, even orgasmic, when done right, so don't give up hope!\n\nYour partner needs to understand that your anus needs a little preparation.  Have him finger you, starting with one (lubricated) finger, and work his way up to three...slowly!  When you two graduate to penile penetration, make sure there's plenty of lube (the rule of thumb:  if you're think you're using too much, you're using just enough), and have him go SLOWLY, allowing you to become comfortable before he proceeds.\n\nPlus, make sure you're CALM.  Nerves will tighten you up!\n\nYou should push out as if you're having a BM, and while it's not very intimate, being on all fours will allow you to be the most "open," ideal for this situation.  Save the fancy positions until you've become pros  :)\n\nWith that in mind - patience, calmness, and lots of lube - you should expect a very, very good time!\n\n\nI hope that helps, hun!\n\n\nps) don't EVER use lube that "numbs" the area!  The idea is help you enjoy it too, not cease to feel anything so he can get his rocks off!  :(     Unacceptable!
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Use lubricant. Also, you're first few times having sex are going to hurt- however, it your guy is working with a large package- then it may take some getting use to. Best advice: lubricant!  You're vaginal area will adjust with time. So, keep having sex- but make sure you're partner knows it hurts and tell him to take it slow. Don't take the pain! A man who cares for you will make the experience enjoyable for you too!
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First thing you need to do is relax...if you are all tensed up or anxious, you will be to tight to enter!  The best thing to do is have you partner lightly caress your anal area with a lubricated finger...you can even help with your own fingers by sliding your finger into your pus$y to extract some natural juices to use around your anal area!  This will also excite you to the point of opening up more and making it easier to enter.  But if you still feel tense, have your partner, gently, try to insert one finger in and slowly move his finger back and forth than up and down.  This will loosen up your muscles to make it possible to enter freely!  I hope my suggestions will help you enjoy a VERY enjoyable sex act!  My wife and I have been enjoying this for many years!
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Take it SLOW, relax, use lots of lube... And don't be too disappointed if it isn't gratifying.  Porn makes it seem like fun (and it can for some), but you can do yourself damage if you aren't careful.  \n\nAlso be careful not to switch hit... you could end up with an infection.
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yeah the sight of blood makes it hurt. stop! the bleeding  sometimes i can .\n suck the blood YUCKY. that would make me spew. which i hate doing to. i can stop myself from spewing if that helps. lol
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salaam,\n if u had sex, u are supposed to do ghusl. \nif u periods are finsished, u have to do ghusl \nread subhanal laahi wabi hamdi , 100 times, ur sins will be forgiven.\nif u put nail polish , u r supposed to removie it , if u drink, try avoiding alcohols , instead drink fruit juices, may that could help
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Mentally?  Maybe a little but it will pass.  Physically?  Depends on if you are nervous, you will hold the muscles tighter it might hurt at first.  so get yourself or he can get you real relaxed and lubricated.  start drinking at least 8-10 glasses of water a day to help with dryness that ids sometimes due to age and hormones.  This will make your vagina more easily lubricated naturally.  Of coarse the BIG last element is will he be rough or go too fast or if he is large or extra large it will hurt so much foreplay is needed. Have some oral sex, first him a little, then you a lot!  It will help to slow things down some to give you time to lubricate naturally.  So things aren’t forced and you don't react and tighten up the pubic and vaginal muscles.  If you do it might hurt, a bit until they loosen up some.I had a problem with this same thing.  This really works.  especially adding the water to your diet as soon as possible. you will feel moist, ready and young again.
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First of all you should'nt be having "rough sex" in your condition. Secondly go to your Ob/Gyn immediately.
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put an aspirin between your knees and make sure it nevers falls to the floor
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A few things.\n\nFirst, avoid constipation; straining at a hard stool can increase the odds of hemorrhoids.\n\nSecond, keep moving.  A sit-down lifestyle predisposes for hemorrhoids.\n\nThird, don't sit on the john for prolonged periods of time.  The toilet seat is almost a tourniquet for the veins in that area--long sits on the pot, large risk of hemorrhoids.\n\nSimple stuff--and nothing is 100% effective in preventing hemorrhoids--but these are the big ones.
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I would suggest using lube..and maybe you being on top so you can control how deep the penetration is...\n\nYou may bleed, but don't be scared..it is normal, but you might want to let him know that so it doesnt freak him out..but yeah I'd say use plenty of lube..and you on top for control..or him on top but let him know how far he can go..it might be a little painful the first few times...\n\nBut most of all...MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY!! make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it and NOT becuase you are being pressured..
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Use a lubricant and find a position that is comfy. Its normal, dont worry!
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You should not have rectal bleeding- you may have developed a fistula which is odd- or something worse is going on= so get it checked out asap- Debby- rn bsn
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Soreness can happen is there isn't enough lube used during sex.  One of the best lubes is Wet, you can find it now days in most drug stores.  If not, do a search for it online.
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take a shower.thats what i do.usually takes care of it.swamp butt is where you kinda get greasy in the anal area.not from being nasty but just from having a busy day,things u may have eaten.illness.things like that.
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1. Apply a cold compress directly to the affected area until the pain subsides. \n2. Tepid water baths.\n3. High-roughage diet to ensure regular defecation of large, soft stools. \n4. Ointments, creams, and suppositories containing corticosteroids. \n5. Avoid stress; it can make hemorrhoids flare up.\n6. Avoid strong spices such as red pepper and mustard, and drinks such as coffee, decaffeinated coffee and alcohol. \n7. Tobacco can also cause flare ups. \n8. Treat constipation by eating more fiber.\n9. Drink lots of water -- 8 glasses of day works well. \n10.Sitz Bath - sit in a bathtub filled with enough warm water to cover the anal area for 15 minutes several times a day. \n11. Instead of toilet paper, which will irritate the veins, use compresses or cotton balls of witch hazel to clean the anal area after bowel movements. You can buy witch hazel at any drugstore.
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This is going to sound weird but... when you are having sex do the scissors. Trust me I am gay. Also, it helps if you do the frog position. He lies down and you do squats on top of him. Make sure he doesn't stick it in your butt. It hurts.