What should I do...so confused...?
963166
Probably. There are many confused freshmen out there who don't know what they want to do and who mess up.  \nYou just need to sound like you now have a goal and a plan (and actually- your description above doesn't have me that convinced- are you sure you are ready to go back?)
688132
Tell her you are confused and discuss what you perceive as mixed signal.  Discuss those things you mention in your question and ask her if she is having second thoughts about you two just being friends.  Tell her if she is having second thoughts you would be interested in giving your relationship a second try.\n\nThe worst she can do is tell you she isn't interested, which would answer your question and relieve your confusion.\n\nThe one thing I wouldn't do is let this drag on for too long.  You are entitled to a life and hanging around with her while she decides just doesn't qualify.
231698
First thing you should not have to change who you are.  You need to find somebody that loves you for you.  Keep in contact with him and see if there is any hint of a relationship.  Otherwise go out have some fun and find somebody else.
1069943
it might be a good idea to consult a counselor, you sound very confused about your feeling right now.... best wishes!
265648
Girl, ur confusing!. ok anyways, the best solution is to ASK him about it. U get things in life only if u have the guts to ASK. U have to just go to him and ask " Do u love me?" thats it. He is gonna give u a correct answer.
778595
she's messing with YOUR MIND. it's quite fun to do actually...\nbut i could ask you the same question...why are guys so confusing???
508836
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
774948
seriously i think that both of u are really messed up and confused at the moment. give each other some time to calm down and think properly. wait for him to initiatiate, but if he doesnt then u need to learn to let go. it is much easier to let things go than to hang on regardless the mental and emotional pain.
981658
Been there done that.Yes shes confused.Shes probably not sure who she wants to be with so when something happens she bounces back to the other.Kinda like a safety net so she doesnt gert hurt.\nTell her you wont be with her unless she makes up her mind.And If she does it again, dont go back.Shes toying with you and will do it as long as you let her. BELIEVE me.
621052
i get just one thing from ur qesn. ur boy friend is a totally confused person wen it comes to decieding wat he likes n he is confusing u too!\n\nthe only way out is that u ask thees quens to him.
341416
CLEAR AND MAKE UP UR MIND!!!MAKE A DECISION THEN.WHO DO U LIKE BEST!!AFTER THAT MAYBE U CAN GIVE US ANOTHER QUESTION COZ U SEEM CONFUSE WHAT UR REAL QUESTION IS..BUT FOR REAL JUST CHASE AND GET WHAT U WANT BEFORE IT IS TO LATE!!
445269
IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
65551
hey dude, you just don't know what are you doing right now, and you don't know what do you want in your life. well, don't be a cheater, alright? you have to make the decision, otherwise one of them is getting hurt more and more. ask yourself whatcha gonna do, and what you want. make up your mind and be a man!
305600
talk to him. explain to him what went wrong. if he truly loves you, he will understand you!
953988
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!