if you think you're in love with someone is it worth it after your heart has been broken twice??
971341
i guess that depends. did he intentionally break your heart? or did your heart got broken because of a situation he had no control over? if he did on purpose (say, he cheated on you), and if he did it twice, it doesn't matter how sorry he is, he's gonna do it again. and you'll be circling the same path over and over again, so then start changing course and don't look back again.
255091
in most cases yes. this is because the first time you're in love you are unaware of how much a break up can actually hurt and the long term damage it can do.(after all it would be your first time experiencing any of those feelings)
659520
Love doesn't have a switch, although it would be great if it did. We were born with the ability to love and boy do we ever.\nLife is just one longggggg lesson and for everything a purpose.\nWhen we love someone, we give of ourselves freely, leaving ourselves open to joy, passion, fear and even heartache.\nWhoever said love makes us stronger is probably right.\nIf having your heart broken didn't hurt, then you would probably never even be able to feel love.\nI would rather have my heart broken then to never have a chance at love.\nTime is your only friend when it comes to heartache, and as far as wanting them back, well, I'd have to say, ask yourself why they broke your heart in the first place and is it worth it to put yourself in that position again?\nGood luck to you!!!
11553
I don't think so. If you love someone that much, you will never fall entirely out of it, if the relationship ends. You can never love that strong twice.
278513
I believe there are positive lessons to be learned from the most heartbreaking situations, I have been there, trust me.  its not easy but you have to look at it as a learning experience, and instead of focusing on the heartbreak, focus on how much stronger you are now, for having gone thru it.  tkae what you learned from the experience close that chapter of your life and allow yourself to move on.  Take things slowly in your new relationship, allow things to unfold in a way  that is comfortable for both of you and see where it leads.  over time memories of the past will fade and wounds heal allowing you to open your heart again.  Its a painful process at times but so well worth it in the end. hope this helps!
52746
having been there & done that......SEVERAL times, I currently have to say\nYes.  Once you've had your heart ripped out & stomped on a few times, you can come to terms with the fact that it's just part of life.  \n\nAnd one thing I know for certain:  \n\nI can love him, and I can want him, but I don't need him, and I will survive.
121104
Go for it... You already missed one chance... You don't get a second chance everyday!!!
495411
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
25955
YES YOU CAN! I HAD MY HEART BROKEN ONCE AND I SUFFERED ALOT. I EVEN GAVE UP ON LOVE UNTIL I MET MY HUSBAND AND WHEN YOU DO YOU WILL SEE THE PAST AND LAUGH. \n\nGOOD LUCK
227349
I think not coz being brokenhearted once is enough. If a person really loves me, he would never ever do something that could broke my heart. why reconnect when there tons of other people out there thats far more better
200352
If there was, I would bottle it up and make a fortune.  We all experience broken hearts, especially those of us who are most willing to open ourselves up to love.  The good news is that you will recover.  The bad news is you just have to keep on risking your heart in order to find true love.
193587
Something similar happened to me and I thought that the other man was the love of my life.I still love and care for him and can't get him out of my system, but I wonder if I would have felt that for anyone who was there for me at that moment,being that I was so needy emotionally.It is a tough thing to deal with and very unfair.I want to tell you go with your heart,but understand that isn't easy sometimes.\ngood luck and I will pray that the universe leads you in the right direction.Be open and honest with yourself and remember you deserve to be happy!
241461
I was in your shoes, my friend, years ago. And this is what I did and learned:\n\nI waited & waited to be loved in return... five years as a matter of fact. I had many sleepless nights, I had a whole migration of butterflies in my stomach everytime we spoke over the phone, whenever i saw her, & even a simple thought of her. Not a single day, night & moment went by that I did not think of her. I was there for her emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually... & evermore optimistic for her to one day feel the way i felt. Yet, she did not reciprocate the same intensity & desire as i did. Mind you that nobody knew that i was feeling soo ga-ga over her, so i had no one, not one soul to talk to for advice or direction of what i should do. \n\nSo what happened? What did I do? \n\nWell, one nite i finally broke down, emotionally, like i had before and got down on my knees and prayed to help get over her. A warm blanket of feeling came over me and realize that I was just alone, too lonely & barking up the wrong tree. In that instant my head was clear & had enough gusto to say myself & her "no mo". I moved on. Since then, I had many friends to count on and goals that kept me busy.\n\nThe Truth is: I was infatuated. I "loved" someone who did not loved me back; who did not reciprocated... for five long years! It was a waste of my time, energy & not to mention financially. In that instant in the dead of night, i realized one love is not enough... it takes two.\n\nSo my question to you, my friend, how long can you wait?\n\n-Taz-
415968
Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
619640
Thankfully the answer is "NO".  You will find that feeling of "true love" again.  I was raised to believe that there was only one person in the whole world that was right for you.  Every time a relationship broke up I worried, what if he was that one?  I can tell you from experience that you will fall in love again.
716055
I would forgive but i would be weary of it happening again, the trouble is that when something like this happens the trust is broken, and unfortunately trust is the hardest thing to get back once you have lost it.\nIf i was in love with this person than i would like to think that i would forgive and forget but i would only be able to do  it once, If it happened again than i would have to say no way. If i had gained the trust level back and it happened again i know i could not trust for the third time.
589582
Allways listen to your heart and gut but just because you love the one does he love you too! If so he would make time for you no matter what! But Me I dont thingit is posable to love 2 men at the same time You can love many people at the same time  but Not LOVE them! So really follow your heart but if your gut is telling you hey something is not right check in to it find out what is wrong! But If you really Loved either of them you wouldn't be so confussed you would know! Who do you think of all the time when you wake up? when you go to bed? Which one is always on your mind if some one was at your door right now who would you want it to be! Who's eyes do you look into and see a future with him! There are a number of questions you need to ask your self! And go with your HEART!