Should I Be madd if my boyfriend doesnt call me when he says he will?
951659
Yes you have a right to be angry.  No he will never change.  I used to have a bf of 3 yrs that did this, and no matter how many times I would tell him that bothered me he did not change.  Of course he would be good for a bit, but then he'd go right back to his same old ways.  I have had other bfs since then that do not do that.  He is more concerned about himself and what he wants to do which is not call you until he is good and ready.  Its a selfish nature that does not change in them.  I'm sorry to say this, but you have to do one of two things.  Either accept it and stop getting mad, knowing it will never change, or move on and find someone who respects you enough to keep his word.  Right now you are unsure because its a small thing, but this sort of behavior from him, is only a glimpse of what his behavior would be about the bigger things.  Good Luck to you as I know how you feel, torn.
370232
HES NOT MAD AT U BUT U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT HE MAY HAVE OTHER THINGS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE WHERE CALLING U MAY NOT BE THE FIRST THING ON HIS MIND NOT SAYING THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO U ITS JUST THAT HE MIGHT EVEN BE BUSY AND IF YOUR GETTING MAD BECAUSE HE DIDNT CALL IT MAY BE BECAUASE YOUR STARTING TO CATCH FEELINGS EVEN THOUGH HES FAR AWAY. also if u had other things to do and were busy then u wouldt pay that much attention to it and also if its that much long distance i dont think his phone bill is to happy things change and so do people so dont get upset try to remain calm and open minded his situation may have changed
850123
this reminds me of my relationship.. it's hectic. give him some time.. you already apologized to him. Tell him to call you whenever he feels like talking to you. GIve him some time you already said sorry so that's good that you've accepted your error.. but yea goodluck... try not to disrespect each other.. once you disrespect each other then it's really hard to work things out... and remember everyone has arguments... just be straight foward with him and tell him that you already apologized to him and to please not be in a bad mood... communication is the key! goodluck hopefully he's not moody anymore... and ask him why he's moody maybe something else was making him moody :P
555840
If he knows that you want to work it out and you haven't heard from him, then just let him be and if he wants to reconcile, then it's in his court. You can't force him to feel a certain way. Meanwhile, focus on building other relationships in your life.
799366
Just tell him how much it bothers you that he isn't keeping up on his promises, and he needs to start calling you when he says he will.  Let him know you are serious about it.  If he still keeps not doing what he says he will, then yeah you should dump him.
93357
First, be glad he's honest and not pulling a line.  Second, don't be hurt just because you don't like the answer to a question you posed.  Third, realize these things have to work on their own time; you can't mandate a schedule.  Fourth, at some point this indecision can just be a delaying tactic, but don't jump to that conclusion now.  If the relationship is badly stalled for months and you're not happy about it, then you have a real problem.  But you need to let some time pass before you declare it badly stalled.
1124300
Next time he says hold on just be like, Just call me when you have time, or just hang up and if he gets mad just tell him u called to talk to him not to sit on the phone
481821
i think HE should take the initiative...you need to know that he needs you as much as you THINK you need him....if he doesnt call or get in contact with you you will realize that he isnt what you expected....and a complete jerk....do what you feel will be good for yourself...
297939
Depends on if he works or goes to school, he may be letting you know that he will not be there. If it is after the hours and he is there, then I would wonder why he dosen't want you calling.
992809
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
744137
i dont know he'll be annoyed. just dont call again until tomorrow night. and if he calls you dont answer for as long as possible before you think he'll give up. trust me :)
1037520
YES....make him wait!!! When he misses you he will call. WE tend to call more often and not give thema chance. Let him take the initiative every now and then. I'm not saying don't call at all, just don't call as much!
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
270540
It sounds as if he is getting comfortable, and he may be a person who is scared of or doesn't want a commitment. Have you voiced your sentiments to him of how badly it makes you feel when he doesn't call? If not, that may be the turning point. You will probably get a better feel of his intentions by his reaction to the conversation. Beyond that, I would definitely not give him your "heart" until you absolutely know what he wants out of the relationship. Good Luck!\n\nLilD