Should i stay here? or should i go with my mum?
970201
If you are in college there stay there and finish college.  That is what is most important to you at this stage in life.  For can still say the you live with your mother when you are not attending college.
625903
Do whatever feels right to you. You mother may be trying to make up for lost time. But if you are not comfortable moving in with her stay with your grandmother and go to her house for visits. Be honest with her, but also be willing to help her.
352401
yes it is better for you to get out of the house if you and your mom are like oil and water (they don't mix)and you don't need the depression.  If I were you I would get a job even within walking distance (if possible) and save and have someone take you to get your license (a co worker, friend) and then save more to get your own place and you could do it although if you are in school DO NOT QUIT for no reason finish and then do whatever
1038848
well i guess your mum is trying to protect you and what she thinks is the best, however being a mum myself every child needs to find out things for themselves weather that be for the good or bad, you need to tell your mum how you feel tell her your old enough to make up your mind she cant choose who you go out with but she can give your her opinion its up to you to take it you need to tell her you have made this decision and that she needs to stop controlling who you go out with you will go through your life making alot of mistakes but that is normal as a mother i will never tell my children who they will date etc i will give them my opinion yes but if the worst comes out of it parents need to tell there children they will be there for them and i think your mum needs to do the same. good luck???
1008189
Does she pay your bills? If not, you can do whatever you want to do. If I were in that situation, I would go visit my grandfather whenever I could before the trip to Europe, go to Europe and have fun.
112143
well you should go were you want to,\nif you really want to go and and your parents wont let you go tell them you really want to go and that you know what you are doing...  thats what i would if i was in your place.
125143
Think about this were do u want this to go.  Long term would u realy wonna take her home to mom, heck would u want her to be the mother of your children.  Short term lucking for some fun, go for it.
506139
Depending on how long u have left i would say just put up. Otherwise just stay with freinds or family.
639434
You have a child now so the stakes have completly changed. If she is hateful and you have no parental control over your child, then you have ever right to want to leave. I understand you love your boyfriend, but sadly sometimes as a mother you have to choose between your and your bf personal happiness and the happiness/well being of your son. I think you should explain to your bf how you feel and tell him he can leave w/ you or you can go on your own. Then follow through w/ getting a place of your own, if he understands then he will come with you. You two can still go over everyday & check on her, but you need your own life as well!!! I hope everything works out for you and your family.
302233
Why don't you try and communicate with your mom, tell her why you don't want to go, and let her tell you why she chose dancung for you.\nIf you a good reason for not going I am sure she will understand, if not then you have no choice other than going.
750511
Of course you would like to spend Christmas at home with your immediate family, but Christmas is a time of year when ALL the family get together, remember your mom will not be here one day and to her Christmas is seeing her grandchildren. Being a mother myself with 3 children I will be alone as my 2 sons have to work, my daughter has decided to cut me out of her life so I will not see my grandchild for the first christmas . I miss and love them lots, and would give anything to see or hear from my daughter,(her partner started an argument last Christmas)and she has not spoken since. so Please consider your options  very carefully.
1110494
Tell them you need to go in to talk to your mum
575218
I would get a hotel room instead.  It is her house and you need to respect her rules if you choose to stay there.
911197
Do what she says or go live on your own.>
1006867
Sometimes, you just have to go.  You can't live your mothers life for all of yours.  You are 20 yrs old...it's time to get out and figure out what YOU want in life.  She might be upset, but chances are, she won't really disown you.
915601
She should tell her mum straight, maybe with you there so they both have some support to help keep it calm. I always tell my kids to tell me the truth no matter what or how bad the news is and i will always back them up or help them. I also tell them if they come to me to tell the truth i will not shout or yell. Ill listen to them.. Your mum will feel so much worse if she finds out from someone else . or fInds out after something serious happens ... do the right thing pluck the courage up and spek to her together. \nI hope you guys make a the right decission .. good luck
1073984
hard to say. do it unless your mother in law is a real woman hitler as you call her. \nbut if you've already had disputes before, i'd say you don't. cuz what is a life of hell with more money in your pocket? just a life of hell.\ni've been living with my mother in law for a year and she was always interfering in our lives. it determined us to move into a new apartment, smaller but ours only.