Any married men crushing on another woman?
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Natural.\n\nBeing married does not cut off all your sense involving the opposite sex.  You still can become very attracted to someone else but because you are married, you don't allow it to lead to ANYTHING !\n\nBut, you may think about the other person for a while but it will pass with your help meaning get busy with something else and pray.
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You need to make a choice then if you are willing to give up everything you have in your life for a possible relationship with this other person with who there are no guarantees.  A lot of married people get crushes on other people, the key is not to act on them and throw away what you have.  Sit down and decide what you want in life and what price you are willing to pay.  If it is this other person then you need to get a divorce and pursue that relationship after the divorce.
295652
Her and her other men?
530991
Yes... I am one of them.  I want to get married to a loving husband and have a wonderful marriage someday.  I just haven't found that man yet.
842133
I feel terrible when I allow myself to have this fantasy,even if for just a moment.Myself and my family attend church regularly,us and the other church members are all very close to each other.My pastor is the most attractive man I have ever seen,and like I said we are all very close to each other.Even though I'm close to his wife,and he is a man of God,sometimes the fantasy pops into my head regardless of the guilt or not wanting to think such things in church.He tells me he needs to talk to me in private,and if I could meet him after church .I tell him yes of course,then when we meet he tells me he just cannot quit thinking about me,and I tell him I feel the same.And we have wild passionate lovemaking.we both pray nobody will ever know.But we just can't help it because we are so sexually turned on by each other.And I cant help but wonder in real life if he ever fantasizes about me,but I don't dare ever allow myself to find out.
218804
many wives like better with other men
252315
Hey this is me again...I don't know if I'm getting this or not..Are you saying that you are married but also want another woman, and that if your wife loves you she will accept it?  Wow, isn't that asking alot from your wife?  Not that I'm judging you.  I am the last person in this world that has a right to judge anybody!!Can I e-mail your e-mail address maybe you need a friend right now?
665338
I love my husband so the married man i'm inlove with is married TO ME.
144664
Stick to your vows.  It's okay to be attracted to other people but you're married so just don't act on the attraction!
100383
Yes, my husband and I met through yahoo Personals 6 years ago and have been very happy ever since.  Been married 31/2 and just keeps getting better!!!!
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Yes... well not really.... but sort of.....but then not so much.....\n\nIf your wives friends are relatively decent human beings than no.... it's not a test.  Women tend to think of a friends husband as sort of a big brother and its safe to flirt a little.  We even think of you as a surrogate husband.  They can get you to lift heavy things and kill the bugs but they don't have to sleep with you.  But don't make the mistake of acting on it because they would tell her in a heartbeat....so ya sort of.\n\nIf your wives friends are hoochies then they are probably really trying to get in your pants.  In which case they aren't really her friends.... still they would tell her in a heartbeat if you even hinted at interest.\n\nThe next time it happens, just grab your wife and kiss her.  That will show them you are devoted and make your wife feel good.  Chances are that your honey bunches has noticed it too and might be feeling a little insecure about it.
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Holy smokes are you sure you aren't my wife?  Look at the question I just posted.  \nI am going through EXACTLY the same thing right now.  I love my wife but the urge to be with other women is just so noisy I can't tune it out.  \nAssuming his problem is the same as mine - it is NOT likely a problem with you.  The "other" woman likely is not any more attractive or anything and probably is generic in nature.  I am in therapy right now although I don't know if this can be fixed. \nBUT I CAN tell you this - don't shut him out!!!  He needs your love and affection more than ever to get through this.  Cutting him off is going to make it worse.
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I live with two incredibly gorgeous and endearing women, and not to toot my own horn, but I'm a fairly attractive guy.  We've been friends for the better part of ten years.  Although I admit I fantasize about them every now and again, that doesn't really make them any different than any other attractive females.  I know I'd never want to complicate what we have as friends.
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it's a crush and she's hormonal... i bet she wants to bang your husband really badly. but that's just that... something bad will happen if your husband agrees into it.
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I have mine. I am married to the greatest man in the world. We have 3 wonderful kids together. He is kind, generous, has a sense of humor, would do anything thing for anyone. He is awesome!
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Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
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i like gay people for friends but i am a woman and married! :-)