i really need help...how can i tell?!?
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Same thing happened with me and I mentioned this really great resteraunt in the area that I had never been to before but everyone had raved about and he mentioned that we should go sometime. It worked and we're married, (not saying it has to go that far, but you get the idea) Just mention something like that and see if he bites. If that doesn't work then talk about some 'guy' you've been talking to (whether he's real or not doesn't matter) and see how he reacts. This way you can get a good feel for where he is at in your relationship without risking anything. But if you feel like you couldn't just be friends with him if he didn't like you romantically you might as well risk it.
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there is no sure-fire way to tell.  some clues if you're with the person: they won't look you in the eye when they speak to you.  long drawn-out sentences.  confused inconsistent stories.  trust your intuition and judgement, if you think someone is lying, there is a reason for that.
676055
You need to ask her about this.  Gently, not accusingly.  <---VERY important. No one here can tell you because no one knows what's going through her head right now.  Everyone's different.
161903
You can tell! You can feel it! alway follow you gut. you intuition will not let you down. \nYou'll know by how he treats you, talk to you, if he complimises for you, share with you, go by what he do-not what he say!\n\nalot of guy will say thing and don't mean it, always go by their actions.
461521
u just know that is how.... there is no way of telling but if he is mean or runs around on you then it is obvious that there is a problam.... remember actions speak louder than words.
169371
Talk to him and find out how he truely feels. This way you will know where you stand instead of always having to wonder or wish you knew.
170862
yes! i am in desperate need of help...
386518
use internet to check!!\nor just go for the one you like best!
1104315
Who?  How should I know!
612383
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
377370
You will know. Sit back and look at the beginning  and how things were. Look at how they are now. Better yet, you don't need to ask online, because the answer lies within you.\n\nAsk your heart. Your heart will give you the answer and the heart never lies. If we would all ask our heart or listen to what the heart says, then maybe we would never have our heart broken or have relationships end.
116656
How the hell should we know!
1102547
well you can always check the history of the computer to see what sights she or he is visiting that will give you a good idea what they are doing online. or you could just ask them chances are if you think that they are they usually are! ask your gut what it feels and follow your heart
558031
i really need to know.
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
730490
That's a hard one. There's no other way to find out so just ask or ignore it and live your life. The latter may really be the better option.
566636
You can't. You can't tell that from anyone man or women after the first time you meet. You need to get to the "comfortable" point in any relationship, friends or more, before someone will actually show their true colors