Ex Boyfriend coming back in town Help?
954742
don't go back into that, stay with the new relationship and give that a chance. tell your boyfriend the truth and tell him why. than don't see him, or date him, keep distance between u and him.when we go into any relationship, we need to know if we can trust that person, rely on that person, and we must look at a person's track record, and past.  are we truly safe with this person or will they eventually drag us down to their level.
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
231697
If he is avoiding you then I would call him and see if her just wanted to meet you in a public place for a nice dinner before he leaves.  also invite his new girlfriend - that would show him u really do just want to be friends ya know?  I agree- i do not think it would be very easy to just be friends once you sleep with someone?  Hard to go back on that one!  But yea- invite him and his new FRIEND to dinner at a public restaraunt.  That way he does not think you are trying to get back with him.  If u are trying to get back with him by all means invite him to a cozy home cooked meal and get ya sum before he leaves for good!  Good Luck
1116158
dont try 2 get ppl back b the adult and 4-get about him walk away and everthing will b good :)
164371
Ok first off lets put things in perspective. Your ex is getting out of PRISON. That sentance alone should tell you who you should stay with, however, sometimes good people do bad things. So with that said, lets take another look. You are afraid that your ex will come back and take you away from this new guy that you really care about right? Well youve got to remember that this is your EX and hes called that for a reason. Whats your reason for calling him your ex and try to imagine being with him or with the new guy. If you truly feel you are happier with the new guy, then stay with him and tell the ex to leave you alone. If that doesnt work theres always restraining orders......
826828
FIRST you need to STOP going back to him because he is only using you and you are allowing him to do so.  You dont have enough self esteem within yourself to not go back.  If you ever want to get ober the guy STOP GETTING BACK WITH HIM!  There is no reason you should even be in contact with him, he is a loser and if you continue to see him ...you will be one as well.
470976
you have to accept your nature firstly, that you cant stay far without been involved in a relationship.\nIf you really love your ex boyfriend talk to him to relocate , if this cant be done.You face the reality of   starting all over again,  take your time and plan of settling down in your new location.\nPlan    what you want in the future,its better you stay in a location and grow than  rather to stay for  a short time and move again, you have to really consider this before starting  another relationship.\nSo concentrate on how to build yourself economically ,socially and   how to settle  down in your new environment.\nIf you decide to stay a very long time you can  now give  your toasters   the opportunity to know you properly and you decide who you really want.
144523
i can tell u im no expert in this area but i have some advice.try 2 bring up neutral topics(ur just meeting and u dont wanna spook him)never bring up your ex.u'll damage the relationship be4 it even starts.bottom line be friendly,natural and a little flirty.u want 2 get the message across that u wanna be more than friends.
669981
just see what happens on saturday. if you still feel like you want him back, take him back.. just don't jump into it real quick cuz you don't wanna get hurt again and he probably doesn't want to either. BUT if you go back out with him... PLEASE make sure he's the only one.. but anyways.. GOOD LUCK!!! ♥
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
376022
Well, this time do things by the book.  Keep him out of the loop.  Get your information directly from the Court and your attorney; if you soon-to-be ex tells you anything different, CONTACT the body concerned and double-check.  In other words, don't be Ms Gullible in future!\n\nIn the meantime, sever all contact with him if that's the only way you can do it.
1043408
Use the following magical words and all will be revealed to you:\n\n"Hey!  Wanna go out this weekend?"\n\nIf the answer is "YES", suggest a time and place.  Any other answer, move on.  Let him go.  Don't force the restraining order.
806054
He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
730979
leave him alone he will call if he wants you back go out have a good time find someone else he will find you if he loves you if not oh well find someone new
480948
Get out and do things that won't remind you of the ex. Go with friends and have some fun and when you think of him or her think of the reason they are the ex...............
358384
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't go accusing him yet. If he does happen to cheat on you while in New Mexico, then he isn't worth your time. You can only forgive someone so much. When he gets back, talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't feel safe when he's around his ex. If he is the right guy he will understand.