This guy told me that he likes me.  We talk a lot, but he lies to me. Could this really work out?
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i've known a couple guys who do that to girls they like in an attempt to impress them. what they don't realize is they are setting you up for disappointment by doing that...\n\nbest thing to do is to call them on their lies...it will embarass them yes, but if he's cool, he'll come clean on why he's fibbing (i just want you to like me, etc. ) and hopefully stop. if not, don't bother...\n\npersonally, i don't thing lying to impress is a good way to anything, period...
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I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
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it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
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You should come correct, Kara.  If I were you I wouldn't have intentionally deceived him in the first place because now he's always going to be like, "If she lied to me about that, what ELSE is she lying to me about?"  \n\nBut, have no fear...  If he's really that great of a guy, he will understand and accept you for who you are and what you do.  You just have to do everything you can to earn back whatever trust and confidence he had in you prior to this perpetuation of misinformation.  You also have to let him know that no matter what you do, you're going to save the good stuff for him.  =)  \n\nGood luck.
1165057
You probably really like the guy. In this case nothing you say would seem to be good enough. This is however normal and once you get more comfortable with the person this would go away.
179660
He probably does have feelings.  Have you thought about walking up to him and saying "Hi"?  That is always a great way to start a conversation.  One thing to remember is that your value is not based upon whether or not some fool likes you or not.  You are a special person that should be treated with respect.  If he can't do that, he is not worth your heart.
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I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
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He probably does like you, but you have to consider if this is a guy you want in your life. He sounds like he's either desperate, or very insecure. \n\nWarning bells should be going off about this guy. Anytime you meet someone, and they center their questions around your opinions solely about them, instead of a more general conversation about things (like music, sports, hobbies, etc...) it can mean trouble. There is obviously something lacking in his real life, and he wants you to fill the void. If you aren't careful, he may push it too far.
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If this guy truely loves you I do not why he should lie to You. I f you are sure about his love for you then no problem. But if not, Be careful.
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It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.
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does he talk about how he likes other girls around you a lot? if he does, then he might just think of you as a really good friend, as someone he can always count on and trust. but...if he doesn't, then that just might be your sign to make your move. but don't go into it too fast, or you might end up driving him away. i had a guy friend like that, and we did almost everything together. a lot of people said that we would be cute and good for each other since we always did everything together. well, after a while we started dating and it took about 3 days to realize that it was way too weird and we stopped dating. luckily we stayed friends.  but I've also had friends in your situation that had started dating, and are so happy together. it depends on what you're willing to do and sometimes risk. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and wish you good luck!
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Im going to keep it real with you. In order for you to find out is if upou ask him how he feels? you'll know in your heart if he's lieing or not. GOOD LUCK GURL!!
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Don't think so, he may just like talking and you are just a person to talk with.\nI think I like him, and you think he likes you,too. Be smart and keep you chin up, he may feel a challenge of making you like him one day, who knows.\n\nIf you try to show him you like him (because you think he like you and want to know that), he may keep his nose higher...
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It's a good thing.  You are saying thing that he want to hear.  And he is realizing that you might really like him.  Because he likes you.  So don't put to much into it.  Take it slow and enjoy it date by date.
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It sounds like a tough situation.  If I were you I'd keep trying.  Just be prepared if he gives you an answer you don't want.  Have you given any thought to what you will do if he says he isn't into you like that?
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does he pay attention to every move you make? if you answered yes to that question then you already know the answer. \n\nthen you should tell him how you feel. otherwise you are going to wonder if there could ever have been the chance on that opportunity of you guys being together.
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I think he likes you, \nbut just doesn't know it and doesn't want to admit it, even to himself. This stuff happens. Don't worry, you'll find out in time.