My boyfriend says he's not racist but that he's an Equal Opportunity Hater. As in he hates everyone.?
961888
Get rid of the hater!
798204
Right now, it's jealousy.  Yes, some people do actually hate other people because they differ on opionions.
922572
I don't discriminate; I hate all races equally.
1075743
what people like him don't understand is that there are sucessful people in business...then there are sucessful people in LIFE.  this guy's priorities are so screwy it's not even funny. he sounds condescending and arrogant from what you've told us.  even if you were unemployed, you wouldn't deserve being spoken to like that.  i reckon it's a very honourable thing you're doing getting your degree, and working.  congratulations.  you know that you deserve better...it's your bad luck that you got stuck with his negativity..and it's his good luck that he had your attention for this long.  move on, enjoy and don't waste time thinking about him.
1046616
I honestly think he's over it.  is reactions to the other people are natural ones.  I would be the same way.  Doesn't mean he loves you any less.\n\nthis may sound weird, but when these issues come up, assert yourself more.  MAKE him pay attention more to you.  Do soemthing special for him to remind him of just why he's with you and not her.  Make him happy and never give him any reason to think there's weakness in your relationship.  The stronger you make it out to be the happier and more secure he will be.
471405
You know I looked up your questions and I see you are very prejudice.  Well, you talk about blacks this and illegal immigrants.  Well everyone is created equal.  What makes you think you are better than anyone else?  You should take all this racism and divert it to putting time into learning about God.  Because if you know something about blacks, you know that we love God.  We don't have any devil worshipers that are black, maybe one in a million.  You can say you're saved all you want, but if you have all this hate for people who aren't white, you are not saved.  You brung up all these negative things about Martin Luther King, who cares?  President Bush did drugs.  We don't care if he changed his name or if he copied some books.  He stood up for us blacks and if it wasn't for him, we would still be slaves.  Let's say this man rescued you from a burning building, would you care if he changed his name or did prison time?  You don't worry about something like that when someone is trying to help people.  God is the only person who can judge someone.  I love being black.  I grew up in a small town that is 95 percent whites.  I have never ran across anyone who treated me or my family any different.  I love everyone.  No one is better than me and I am not better than anyone else.  There will always be prejudice people out there and noone can change that.  I will pray for you.  Our cultures are different, our names are different, our clothes are different, our music is different, and our language is different.  Face it every race is different.  We are on this earth together and we're not going anywhere.  Everywhere you look you will see Indians, blacks, Asians and other races.  America has all different races and cultures.  Embrace them, don't hate them.  What good is hating other races going to do?  What good is talking about them going to do?  Why do whites try to keep blacks down?  Black people had to work hard for what we have.  We don't have rich ancestors and we don't own many buildings and businesses.  Remember, the same time your ancestors were building there homes and businesses, my ancestors were working in them.  Cleaning them, taking care of their children, cooking, and doing every other thing that was at their disposal.  So for that, I love Martin Luther King or Michael(whatever his name was, I don't really care).  Because of him, I am not forced to clean up after you or anyone else from the white race.  And please don't call me uneducated, because I am working on my second degree and I finished at the top of my class.  I don't know, maybe you are not prejudice but it sure seems like it.\nOf course you are going to say you aren't.  Let a black man run for president then all the racist folk would come out and boycott and you would probably be the first in line.  Let your child bring home a black date and see how you respond.  I will pray for you.
712519
It's easy to understand your anger.  But, your anger is the same anger they have, intolerance.  I'll admit their beliefs are fucked up, but hating them only puts you on their level.  You obviously care about people being free and equal, don't let these assholes bring you down.
240873
He's 'White Supremacy' personified. He appoints people like Rice, Gonzalez,etc. to get votes from these communities. But he could care less about anybody. No, and I don't care that his crackhead niece is half latina and his nephew. He's still a racist.
754448
well i definatley dont have that kind of boyfriend my boyfriend is the ghetto type he treats me like shit but he loves me is seems like all the gurls love the bad boys
185525
No, because let's say you're white but you date a Mexican.. However, you hate Blacks and Chinese people.  \n\nYou can still be a racist.
393869
i'm neither black nor white...i'm an indian..dunno the name i'll be given...but hating anothr human being is just not done...come on we are all sharing the same air to breathe n same land to live on...\ni think u just need to rise above this racism shit...spoils u as a person...its difficult to let go of this kind of typecasts n stuff but believe me its easier to love than hate...\nbst of luck to u
1079823
Come get this white boy!  I'll mess your life!\n\nThat freedom of speach....  brought to you by a bunch of white guys.  If you hate us so much, why do you spend your time dealing w/ us?  simply go away!  Why would you want to subject yourself to all of the horrible things we are all about?
217710
How redundant! Have some class here please.  You know, if a black man chooses to go out with a white woman then maybe it is a question to ask the man here?  I live in Tx and believe me interracial couples are as common as cowboys and this is pure racial hatred here.  I am a white woman who has dated a black man before I married and I didn't take him from anyone nor did I go out with him because he was built different or had it all. I went out with this man because he asked me on a date and we had a lot of common interests.   Every person no matter what color we are, we are equal with the exception of those who are racially inept to deal with issues that are too far above them and too ignorant to see that beauty is in every man and every woman...\n\nAnd I can really understand how someone could be offended by seeing a white girl with a black man when the ignorance of this question says it all...no matter what color you are you have a right to date any person you choose.  \n\nThere are a lot of white woman who  "act black" and it doesn't work.   Black women have a lot to proud of and they have been made to overcome struggles that were only based on the color of their skin, as has the black man and every race that isn't white.  When I see a white woman with a black man  and she "acts black" I am appalled and yet a white woman with respect and values does not even create a second look from me let alone thought that she shouldn't be on the arms of that man.   If I were a black woman I sure would be ashamed at how some of the white women act, this isn't some mind game to play within our cultures.  Respect each other for our differences and appreciate who we are and where we have been for goodness sakes.  Don't make statements such as "we aint taken dem from yall!" and expect that your above someone...your insinuation that black women hate it that black men will be be with a white woman and yet....I am white and I would be ashamed if my son was with someone of your substandard intellectualism.  And it isn't anything to do with your IQ which could be of the highest bar at this point...it comes down to ignorance and being true to who you are.
424119
I'm a married Colombian, and my wife and i split the chores equally (I cook, do the dishes and clean the bathroom)\n\nYour problem has nothing to do with ethnicity, your boyfriend is just a moron.
715897
I would like to say that I think that you are totally right! \nI personally dont like to see mixed race relationships!\n\nNext time invite him in, give him a rucksack with plasterciene in it. Send hime down the police station! You'll have a peacefull life for 12 months!
460029
Well, start by not stereotyping all guys because your ex does something. He's probably still just upset about the breakup, and is taking it out by saying bad things about you.
416451
People are afraid of what they don't know. They are also afraid of change. \n\nThey think "If we all start loving everyone, regardless of race, creed or color, why then, we'd all be equal! And, goodness, we can't have that!" \n\nA person's quality is never determined by their skin color, but by their actions... by their heart. Until everyone realizes this, hate will exist. Please don't let it get you down. You just love with all your heart, and do what you know is best. Meet stares with a smile. Meet hostility with a soft word. Take the wind out of their sails. \n\nBest of luck you and your girlfriend!\n\n(and, for the record, I'm as white as I can be... but I know that people are just people, no matter what)