Can a girl with experience please help me?.... its about?
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Let me start by saying 1. you should not be having sex with someone you are just talking to and 2. THANK YOU for using protection!!!! Most guys your age do not even think about all the consiquences that coem along with having unprotected sex.\n\nOk now to the real business.. your question.\n\nMost girls always experience some pain and discomfort when its there first time ( I know I did) soem will actualyl not enjoy it the first few times. It is up to you to get ehr to enjoy it. Here are a few things you can do that might help. ONE you must know that I am sure she is nervous, she peobably has no idea waht to do so this might make her even tighter and cause her to not get as wet.  Don't jump to the sex part right away. Have some foreplay kiss, rub, get her to the point where she tells you I she wants it. Then its all about patience!! Take your time, there is no rush. You need to be gentle and take it slow, let her knwo you wont hurt her tell her to tell you how she feels if it hurt slow down take it easy... also you can always use lubrication (that might help .. some KY jelly).  \n\nWell if you need any more help just email me.. I dont want to write a huge story here (because believe me if you let me I will..lol)
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Unfortunately, what this means is not that the girl is interested (right now) but that she is being a little bit selfish.  If you are young, this is natural.  She enjoys having someone to hang out with and go on vacations with but that doesn't necessarily reflect on her feelings for you.  If she was interested than she would not be WILLING to hold your hand, but rather would be looking forward to any type of contact with you.  Her memories are more of what she has done or where she has gone, rather than of you.  However, in the future she could develop feelings for you.  If you want to know how she feels about you, try spending time with her with limited entertainment.  Just invite her over to listen to music and talk.  If she is interested in you, this will appeal to her and if not, she will decline until you present a more tempting offer like going on an awesome vacation.  Good luck.
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dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
545697
Why does everything has to become a creepy drama?.  Confidence is ur greatest weapon for attraction, keep that in mind.  So in order to let her know u know what u want ( confidence), talk to her out of the blue one day, about anything with little importance but in a funny, flirting kinda way, then just drop the line, like it is no big deal ( cause it really isn't) " by the way , there's this thing at that place... i think u will enjoy it, specially with my company"  and let her be the one that, points out the details of the outing!.  have a good one. SUAE
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Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
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Hello guy, sounds like the girl you are talking about is very much interested. I know that the little things she does is a bit confusing to you, but just look at them as they are bigger than life. she is telling you to ask her out. Ask her to a movie. I bet she will accept. Do this in private, so the situation will be easier for her. sounds like she is a little shy. It will take you to take the first step, to break the ice. That is my advice.
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Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!
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I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL SO SHE COULD TELL YOU HER FEELINGS AND IT WONT HURT TO TRY IT , SOME DAY YOU WILL FIND THE RIGTH GIRL FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!    GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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when you start getting all mushy with a girl then something bad is going to happen soon\n\nshe will finish whatever is left of her 4 weeks and tell you she met this really wonderful guy and that its not your fault  its just her\n\nso dude, let me teach you what I learned\n\nrecycle as many girls as you can like your friends are doing. its the only way to go. Get a new girl every night if possible.
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I don't understand exactly what you are trying to say-but it sounds like you mean you want a girl to give in to having sex with you? Wait, that's not exactly the way to go about things. If you have to convince a girl to have sex with you, then it's definitely not a good idea.
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Once again the endless limbo.  Shoot and score my friend.  This hardly ends horribly.  Try a little flirting first if she flirts back its definite she has thought about dating you.  Women are very hard to predict.  If you really want to win her over do something romantic, flowers, anything fluffy and cute, or poems.  Whatever works women want to be comfortable make her feel it.  Best of luck and may the elements be with you
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Okay here's what you I suggest you do.  Watch her for a little while.  Find something she's looking at or pick something on her clothes that you can comment about.  Basically you have to find some commonality to touch on with her.  And what EVER you do, don't over do it.  Seriously so many guys do this and it just turns a girl off.  Just be yourself and if you are going to date it'll happen.  And if you use a cheesy line I guarantee that's a no hitter for you.  Just act natural for awhile and observe her.  Women are ALL about a guy noticing the small things.  So if you've been watching her for a while, say a week or so then when she's wearing something you haven't seen before and it looks cute on her tell her so.  Or if you you're at a bar/club whatever and you want to "pick her up" there, I suggest starting up the conversation about something that is in the club/bar.  Music, lighting, drinks, people, whatever.  Just pick something and go with it.  And honestly if you crash and burn, don't give up.  Either keep trying with her if you think you got a chance or give up and move on.  Oh and once you got her....learn to be sensitive.  To the point of you wanting to gag.  Most women will eat it up, not all mind you, but most.  Yes I know it's tough to not be "manly" all the time but if you know when to be sensitive you got a leg up on the rest of the dawgs out there.
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What difference does it make whether she was a virgin or not?  You did it anyway.  You weren't trying to save her in a pristine condition were you?  Get over it.  You don't believe her, don't trust her, then move on...
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Guess what! You don't need experience to have a boyfriend. \nIt's the same as having friends but just that it is a boy and you get a little closer. Thats all.And you have feeling inside you that you didn't with just friends. Does that make since? Just let it happen and you'll be fine.
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Just do it....it will get easier with experience. The first couple of times, it will be hard, but you'll feel really good about yourself when you finally do it.
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♥Take a chance! Do more than just say Hi, try having a conversation and find out what she likes and more about her. If it's right for you two, things will go smoothly from there. Good luck!♥
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Please don't bother, that is something that girls aren't really good at because unless you know how it feels you can't know how to do it correctly, you'll never be able to do it as good as we can to ourselves.  Just go with a BJ.