Is it normal for me to almost "fear" my husbands Penis?
957170
Only if it is a penisaurus.  A penis the size of a dinosaur.  Never seen one?  Look me up.  They don't call me stallion because I can run fast!
76531
This is not unusual. Marriage is a big step, and if you have any insecurities, it's not a surprise that they come out when you take such a big plunge.\n\nYou need to examine your feelings. Do some journaling: Why do you think you will hurt him? How, specifically, do you feel you will hurt him? Once you can clarify the specifics, you can make a plan to prevent it.\n\nDepending on how well you communicate with your spouse, you may even want to share some of your fears with him. If he is supportive, he can help you by giving you "reality checks."\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
559662
My husband says the same thing, and I tell him that if I ever walked in on him with another woman I'd beat the heck out of her, then cut his penis off and jam it down his throat!  He looked suprised to know that I was on the same level with him.  But it's just a macho thing I'm sure, you just gotta know how to respond to it.
1049931
if he's yr fiance you should be able to talk to him about it...Has it always happened, if it itches or does he still feel like he has to pee after he's done peeing? Talk about it... and humans can contract things from years ago and they just don't feel it's THAT bothersome so they live with it and it can become "Normal" for them.  But you need to have it checked out for both of you... You want to be healthy and you want yr man to be healthy!  No blaming, no accusing (like some of the responses  your gonna get)
1036132
I would suggest using lube..and maybe you being on top so you can control how deep the penetration is...\n\nYou may bleed, but don't be scared..it is normal, but you might want to let him know that so it doesnt freak him out..but yeah I'd say use plenty of lube..and you on top for control..or him on top but let him know how far he can go..it might be a little painful the first few times...\n\nBut most of all...MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY!! make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it and NOT becuase you are being pressured..
330268
That also happens to me, although i have not had intercourse, but i can't orgasim, because i am afraid to pee on him. He wants me to orgasim for him, so bad, that he said that the nexttime i am close, no matter where we are (car, house, hotel,) he is not stoping till it happens. He said it is ok if i pee on him. He doesn't care, because he wants to make sure i am satisfied. Isn't that LOVE!\n\nBut anyway i found out that some women, have a build up of fluid and it is not pee, it comes as they are aroused. Not pee
665086
I totally understand your question you aren't asking if you should do it you are asking how to do it and as far as that goes I have never personally had to do this but I would think that you tell him how you feel when you are turned on and tell himthat you are touching yourself and thinking about him and just talk dirty.I don't know if you talk dirty when you have sex but if you do say simular things as when you do. Also I know that guys love it when you compliment their penis so tell him that it is soo big and tell him how much you want him. I know that it will be akward for you because it will be your first time but just try to have fun with it! Good luck with it and I sincerly hope you husband is safe and comes home to you the way he left!!
1127693
Ok, I think I understand your question.\n\nThat is not cool for you husband to joke around like that. ~ Not during your most intimate and private moments together.  It is possible, if that is the kind of sense of humor there is in your relationship, that he was innocently joking.  But, I sense that you don't feel that way and are confused and rather offended that he makes any such comments.  The humor in a joke often stems from the truth of it...  You really need to sit down and talk with your husband and lay out some quidelines and expectations for your marriage.  What I would do, is tell your manboy husband that this kind of "joking" is hurtful or bothersome to you and you would rather he did not talk like that.  You may want to look into some counseling in order to get an outside perspective and some support.  Be sure and give your husband all of the things you would want yourself in the relationship, such as Trust, Compassion, Respect, Honesty and of Course good ol' fashioned L O V E.
1046477
Yes it's normal that you would not be able to handle a penis that size. No, it's not normal to have a penis that size.\n\nSex with a potentially large penis can be potentially dangerous for hetero- and homosexual couples because SERIOUS tearing and bleeding may occur, not to mention the bruising or damaging of internal organs. \n\nIf you and your partner insist on having sex, be sure to use LOTS of lubricant, take your time: relax, ease into it, and if it continues to hurt or you feel sharp pains or notice bleeding, stop immediately. When you are properly treated and healed you may be ready to try another time. Also consider practicing with a series of different sized "toys".\n\nBest of luck & have fun!
625404
oh come on.  There isn't a man (or boy) alive who hasn't measured his penis. 5 1/2 is supposed to be normal size.  I have found most men are closer to 6" when erect. If you  are worried about size don't be.  Women fall in love with the man, not the penis.  If we love you whatever you got will make us happy.  The kissing, caressing, and holding is what we find important.  You can have a hugh penis but if we don"t love you and you don"t provide the above attention you are outta here!!!
1014733
Yes it is very normal, when I first started having sex with my now husband my stomach would hurt so bad I could hardly walk. It will get better with time, I think it lasted a couple months for me can't quite remember though as it was over 7 years ago. Good luck
197021
Theres nothing to be scared about. Its sounds frightening and even disgusting, but its a natural thing that we women all have to endure! What it feels like? Ummm...not so easy to explain, as its different for different women. I won't lie and say thats its a great thing, but its more of an annoyance than anything else. Good luck! Just remember, its a good thing to have aperiod...in its most basic sense, it means that you can have children, which is a wonderful thing.....also, it means that you are normal!
582257
no. i like to do that with my husband. it's us against the rest of the world....you're not doing anything wrong. you're wife needs to boost her own self esteem so she won't be so paranoid.
404438
Not if its disgusting to you. And he shouldn't expect it of you. However, if you are willing to try it and then decide you don't like it, then at least you gave it an honest effort. If he insists, however, then you may have a problem. No one should pressure you into doing something you are not completely willing to do. Not even your husband.
1069976
No, my husband isnt circumcised and it doesnt bother me one little bit.  I actually kinda like it !!!!
637925
Stop worrying about coming and just think about how good it feels.  I am a woman, but I think it is probably about the same.  I have to think about how good it feels even when I don't feel very sensitive.  Think whatever it is you think right before you come and I think it will help.  However, I don't know if you have tried other postions or what, but my hubby loves me to be on my stomach with my legs together and his stradled over mine.  Whenever he's getting too tired to shoot he just flips me on my belly and puts it in and then puts his legs outside mine and is usually off in a minute or two.  I think it works cause I squeeze my muscles together around him, which is only easy to do in this postition.  Best wishes
674925
my husband sleeps with his hand on his **** but not playing with it and not down his pants i guess they are scared someone might steal it or it will run away lol