Personals vs. just going out?
956040
i really don't think it's possible to find someone on internet...
686987
Yes.  Just have to be honest up front about the situation.  Dating is different than being in a relationship.
588141
I would love to do that but my brains tell me that outer appearance doesnt count that much in choosing some one to go out with. \n\nWhy not apply your character here, I guess it would be easier if I got to know a person better before hanging out with him/ her! What do you think
514148
Singles night anywhere? \n\nThose date things where you sit with someone for like 3 minutes, I think it's speed dating?\n\nHave someone get you a blind date.
1066849
The main thing you have to do is to get out of the house, and go where there are lots of people. Many will be single, and in your city, there should be clubs, and other organizations for single people. I love to go to outdoor concerts myself, and meet tons of singles there. Good men are often at the ball parks, libraries, and other men-type activities. Smile a lot, and dress nicely. Don't be afraid to look, and flirt a little. Use what you've got! Good Luck!!
420772
Definitely! It used to be considered the best place to meet other singles--until single people started insisting on inviting a date. Too bad, because they missed a great opportunity to meet others in a fun, safe environment.
1154032
singles & dating.\n[[under family & relationships]]
352580
All depends. Do you want to meet people and have fun? Sure, they work great. Do you want marriage? It may work for that too, but it is a lot less likely. People do find their husband or wife on there at times, but 95% of the time people just find some fun dates. Kind of more Mr. (or Ms.) Right-Now, not as much Mr. (or Ms.) Right.
1136631
Don't go after anyone. Let them come to you. There's no reason why you shouldn't go on out with other people now since you weren't in a serious relationship.At least go out and have fun.
58495
Yes. They change things around all the time. A check is accepted, but yahoo personals is a waste of money, trust me. Been there, lost there.
809324
Why do you have to choose?  Your a single guy who is looking for fun.  Be honest with what you want and if they can't respect that you don't want to be settled down, then why even bother with any of them.  If you are more happy being free then what do you have to loose?
691706
Try friendship instead of dating .There is a difference .Dating is more of a commitment . Friends are" call you just to chat or hang out". "whatever" .Doesn't matter if your busy it's OK .Dating where are you going , who with , why can't we go together ,etc.,.That mistrust may kick in and what if you start the like the new friend more ? The new friend in the same situation , in a relationship , same sex as you are or single and wanting you to go to the clubs ? There's reasons married people (many) hang out with other couples as they understand the commitment and don't try to impose a single life on the other couple .If it is someone opposite sex as you then your mate will fell threaten and chances are so would you .
844515
Plenty of Fish!  This is a great site, and it's totally FREE.  It really gives you a good overall look at the numbers available out there.  There's a forum covering lots of dating topics.  Events are also posted that you can attend to meet other singles.  Finally, you can vote on other people's images which is sort of fun.  You don't have to open your profile up to this scrutiny, however.\n\nI find POF to be much better than Lavalife, but not because it's free.  It's just a REALLY good site.  Good luck with your dating experience and happy fishing.
880536
Depends on what it is exactly what I'm looking for at the moment. If its just having fun, I look for a nice body and a cute face. If I am looking for something serious then a great personality with strong commuication because without it, you wouldn't be able to know the person really well.
254152
Dateless.  Have some confidence in yourself, you might meet someone special.  If you only have to put in an appearance, go glam, breeze in the front and exit out the back, let everyone think you had another rendezvous you just had to go to...
28664
No way. A date is between people who are hooking-up with the intentions of taking it to another level. Not saying sex--but the motive behind it is the fact that you both have some sort of feelings for one another & intend to explore them. A date is more official than going out.\n\n'Going out' is the opposite. In my opinion going out is just like chilling with a few friends. Your motive then is to enjoy yourself instead of trying to hook-up.
300706
yeah. When I was living in NYC I couldn't meet ANYONE and used MATCH.com. No long term relationships came out of it but I went on lots of fun dates :) That was 5 years ago though. Recently I have had friends meet people...one had a successful relationship. Other friends have had success with e-harmony, and yahoo personals too...hey it's free to look, right?