my friends dating a loser,HELP!!!!!!!?
959486
be happy for your friend. if she seriously thought he was a loser she would dump him.
942421
You guys need to grow up, if he is going out with her then don't bother them.  But you can still be friends with her.
361790
Don't date either of them if you want to remain friends with them.  If you don't care, pick one and STICK WITH IT.  Don't play them against each other.  It's not a good idea!
532284
Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!
544381
save your breath, interfering battle axe. just accept sis's new cling on. if you are employed, you can contribute to loser boy's maintenance. tell sis to get some overtime, since jo jo the dog boy probably can drink her under the table! or, if you can pick your drunken @ss off the floor, you can try REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. start hitting on hero boy, and tell sis to back off, he's yours. comment on his nice wallet and harley. make sis jealous by telling her that he wants you.  if all else fails, drug sis's drink. when she becomes unconscience, ask hero for help, because by that time, loser boy will be rifling through sis's purse and pockets! you can always take loser boy aside, and give him a twenty and tell him to leave town!
148626
i've been in the same situation b4... i introduced them to each other.. they went out and became a couple.. later they broke up bcuz he was a total jerk.. now i cant stop blaming myself and she cant stop blaming me..\nmy advise is stay out of it, tell him: " if u like her, go ask her out yourself and dont get me involved"
888030
If they were your friends it wouldn't have mattered who you were dating as long as you were happy. I wouldn't stress about trying to earn them back because you haven't done anything wrong. If they want to be petty because you broke up with your ex to date someone closer to you then let your friends date your ex and you just concentrate on being happy with your new man. Friends come and go they'll see the light eventually but until then go have some fun with your new man.
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
69970
some people are real jerks....okay, first off, what kind of friend are you calling your friend ugly...do you think that is going to help her self-esteem or the situation any? um, it's not! you need to be encouraging your friend to find the positive attributes of herself (personality, mentality, intelligence) things that are not fixated on her looks. secondly, let her be herself when trying to get this guy, being natural and yourself is the best way to get a guy and if the "hot" guy doesnt go for her, then he's too shallow....
186974
hey ive been helping my friend w/ something like that q...now get a friend to help u by talking to him.if ur dating him tell ur friend everything hes doing wrong and if he is ignoring u then give ur friend a list of things u like and dis-like and one of them being that u dont like it when people do that kind of stuff to u mostly if ur dating him
305962
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!
850097
who cares about hurting her feelings tell her. she needs to learn to back off especially if u r her friend!! what kind of friend is that? dump the loser friend adn dont hold anything back.
1138873
Comfort her. Enforce the fact that the other guy is scum and that you're there to listen to all her problems. Then try your best to make her laugh and to forget the guy. Then she'll realize that you're the better man!
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
286950
I'd sit them down and tell them what you thought. ( Make sure you tell them that you mean no offense for whatever it is that you're going to say first.) Tell them that you don't like what this guy is doing to her. Try and figure out exactly why it is that she's acting like that, it could be that she's trying to change for him or she may feel that she's better then everyone else now that she's with him.If it's the first then tell her that she doesn't need to or should act like that for anyone. If it's the other then you should make it clear to her that being with this guy doesn't make her any better, she still is who she is and being with someone, no matter who it is, doesn't make a difference. If you have to you could also try talking to her boyfriend see what he thinks.
922710
if you hang out with this loser he will not only end up flushing his own life down the toilet ...he will take you with him....dump the chump
77269
Well... what's done is done. I usually don't encourage anyone to get mixed up in people's relationships, but perhaps what you did is for the best. You may have saved the guy from a worse heartbreak than he had just experienced. \nAnd for your part, she does sound parasitic... a friendship should go two-ways, it's unhealthy to let just one person absorb all the benefits for herself while the other suffers. Not to worry, hopefully what you did will help her realize her selfish attitude. Plus, not all girls are like her, there are others who will brighten your day instead of always asking something from you. Good for you, for speaking your mind and trying to do what's right :)