My wife has been asking about adema?
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The diabetes needs to be gotten under control immediately!!!  You need to eat 4-6 SMALL meals per day--good protein, veggies and fruit.  Watch your sodium intake (especially be cautious of processed foods--canned, frozen, etc.-fresh is best).  Drink lots of water.  Watch your carbs--whole grains are best.  Diabetes can cause serious kidney damage, which can cause edema.  You're taking a high dose of diuretic--maybe a different one would work better for you.
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COULD BE MANY THINGS,IF IS THE ONLY THAT SHE HAS,SEE FOR INMUDEFICIENCY,FUNGUS,CANCER,SEE YOUR DOCTOR.FAMILY PRACTICE FIRST.
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I am an alternative medicinal therapist and an ex nurse. have you considered an allergy. Perhaps it's the washing powder. Without seeing her i cannot prescribe anything but if anyone can help her a herbalist or an acupuncturist can. I once had the same problem and i used CALENDULA cream, you get this from the health shop, it worked for me and for a few of my patients.Has she considered shaving off her pubic hair, if she has any left of course.Perhaps she is using the wrong soap or shower gel. I always use either aloe vera soap or olive oil soap. Please let me know the outcome. I feel very sorry for her and if there is anyway I can help let me know, meanwhile i will do some research for you.You can contact me on gloriashealth@btinternet.com. Please give me your full e mail address i cannot contact you via yahoo answers.\n\nGloria(BSYA)
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Yes a female doctor is fine! Ask her anything, yes just spit it out. She is trained and knows everything about your body, she has seen it all. Don't worry or be embarrassed, she has seen it before and I'm sure she has seen worse!
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If she has started taking any type of new meds recently, that could be the cause of it.  Someone said an infection, which possibly could be true. She may have a pelvic infection otherwise known as PID which can be caused by douching. She also may have changed her douche. Sometimes, it can be the little things that we never even think about that can change body so dramatically. Best of luck to the both of you! And, by the way I think its great that you 2 meant that you dedicated yourselves to each other. Not many people do that these days! Once again, good luck!
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I WOULD THINK 8" WOULD BE ENOUGH FOR ANYONE, I KNOW IT WOULD BE TO MUCH FOR ME.  MAYBE YOUR WIFE SHOULD DO SOME TONING EXERCISES WITH HER PRIVATE PART.  (YES THERE IS EXERCISES WOMEN CAN DO TO HELP MAKE IT TIGHTER)  I WOULD NOT HAVE SURGERY TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE, EVEN IF IT IS YOUR WIFE.  THAT IS SELFISH OF HER TO ASK THAT.  TELL HER TO GO HAVE SURGERY AND HAVE HERS TIGHTENED UP AND THEN THERE WOULD BE NOT PROBLEM.  GOOD LUCK
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Yes this is normal, for some women if you need more information try links below.By the way it is really thoughtful that you are concerned about your wife's body and its' workings.
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My wife get's a achy back. Some women feel bloated or get a headache
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I know it's horribly embarrassing, but she really should see a doctor. Incontinence (in varying degrees) is VERY common. There are different kinds and different causes. Many are treatable. Some are indicators of other, more serious problems. Check out the website below for more complete information. And tell her she's not alone.
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I have her problem and its not a problem at all some days its really bad and I have to wear a pad is all to keep from having to change my clothes but its normal since she is a virgin she don't have anything so tell her to wear a pad ever so often and let that area breath a bit as well that will help her dry up a bit sometimes. I wish you luck in your life together.
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If I were you, I would be asking a doctor, not the crew here. Doesn't sound normal to me, but I agree with the first lady.....infection!
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I did but she went away and has not been back since :)  Ask your hubby to go see a Dr.  Get it checked out OR maybe he is living in his younger years :)
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I have been checking out ways to relieve soreness my muscles and so has my wife. At one point, we went to an old massuse that used chiropractic techniques as well as many herbal and vitamins. He was somehow able to find that my wife had an ulcer by rubbing her feet (relexology) and then went and pressed on a spot on her stomach that was indeed sore. He said that is an ulcer and if you press right there (how he was & she felt it) that over time it would help her. He did give her a "tinture"? (spelling) kinda was a tea looking and tasting mixture of certain vitamins that he said she was short on (after taking a saliva sample and testing it).\n\nWe have also been looking at massage chairs and found a thermal (heated) massage bed called Ceragem that has infared heat. The bed is great to lay on and also there are attachments that you can put where ever you want and one that you can sit on. The ceragem bed is kinda spendy to buy (I think about $2500) but there is store near us that allows 1 free visit per day with a 40 minute "demo" version. They encourage you to come as many times as you want (once per day). They say that the heat and infared can help with stomach and digestive problems including ulcers. To find a dealer near you to try one out, click on the link and then the map. I honestly prefer the massage of other types of massage chairs better but I do like the strong heat that Ceragem has. I also included a link to see what a foot reflexology chart looks like incase you were curious... I don't know how to recommend a good massuse in your area as honestly there are some that are just ok and some that are just bad ones... good luck. Oh and I know my wife has said that yogurt helps her stomach "settle" some when her ulcers have been bothering her.
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You can get this fixed, sweetie.  Go to a doctor.  There are surgeries that help this tremendously.  Also...for those who are making jokes...this will happen to about 90% of all women who have children or that live long enough!  You can also do Kegel exercises to help strengthen the muscels that hold the bladder up.  Do a google on kegels and how to's, Drink less caffine, and go see your doctor.  It's really not that big of a deal and your husband would be a jerk if he said anything about it, especially if you have carried HIS children that possibly helped to cause this.  Good luck sweetie.
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probably need to see a doctor;  she may have a urinary tract infection (UTI)
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She may be in the early stages of pregnancy, or there is some medical problem or condition....check WebMD, or see a doctor for further investigation.
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A couple others have alluded to this, but I think the most important question is, is it normal FOR HER?  If she's been like that for most of her life -- say, if she just happens to have a small bladder and enjoy drinking a gallon of water a day -- it's possible there could be nothing wrong, although there are "bladder training" exercises that could help her learn to hold on longer if she's really bothered by it.  She could also have an "overactive" bladder which could be treated with meds, assuming she finds the benefit of the meds outweighs any side effects.  Actually, it could easily be both -- a chronically overactive bladder is going to start acting a lot "smaller" than normal, because the overactivity never allows it to stretch out to its full capacity, so it gets used to needing to be emptied urgently with less and less urine.\n\n   What would really be an issue to worry about is if going this often is a *drastic change* from what has been normal for her whole life up to now.  In that case, a doctor could start to suspect a urinary tract infection, early onset diabetes, or some other such condition, and she should definitely get evaluated just to be safe.  In general, any major change in bladder, bowel, or any other bodily functions, see a doctor right away!!