The guy i like and have gone out with a couple times is kinda unsure of what he feels for me?
962951
Been there, done that. All you're gonna get is heartbreak in the end, and eventually you'll get tired of waiting for him. Believe me, you're taking a trip down heartbreak lane if you keep waiting for him.
61418
A good guy would not treat you in this way, plain & simple. If he does this kind of thing all of the time he is just playing with your feelings for his own gratification. All I can tell you is that I have been in the same situation once or twice & it never worked out.\n\nI don't know how to say this other than plainly so, please, forgive me if I am too blunt: Is he really a "good guy" or is he a "good-looking guy" that you think you need to date? I mean, honestly, if he's a good person he wouldn't be doing these things & he'd certainly be giving you a reason every time.\n\nNow, if you are set on being with this guy (don't understand why) there are a few things that you can do to try to turn the situation around. This will also help you to determine just how much he is really interested in you. First, don't go dropping your plans just because he calls. If he can't call you in advance to set something up then he can just sit at home. Second, when this sort of thing happens & he says something when you tell him no you won't drop your plans, inform him that you expect to be treated with a little respect & that means that he will make plans with you in advance & keep them. Tell him that you might be more inclined to drop other plans if he didn't always back out of things at the last minute. In other words, make him aware of what you expect & don't keep letting him walk all over you. His reactions to these things will show you how interested in you he really is &, if you determine that he is just playing you, go find someone else who will appreciate you...\n\nHope this helps!
28682
It sounds like he is indecisive. He really likes your company but maybe not sure about anything more. Or maybe he is making up his mind by visiting you often. Whatever the answer is just enjoy your time with him. Love and romance is always important but friendship is the key to any relationship!
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
562867
I THINK THAT HE MAY BE FEELING THE SAME WAY AND BECUZ HES NOT SURE HOW U FEEL  HE DOESNT WANT TO FEEL STUPID BECUZ ITS BEEN SO LONG I WULD SUGGEST THAT U ASK FOR HIS # NEXT TIME AND GIVE HIM A CALL MEN ARE STUPID AND THEY THINK LIKE THAT SO DONT FRET HE FEELS THE SAME THATS WHY HES TRYIN TO AVOID LOKIN AT U
439089
I believe he likes the fact that you have a crush on him an doesnt want your feelings to change. He sounds kinda unsure about hisself. I would have to say I bet he feels the same way about you just didnt know how to reply when you told him how you felt. GOOD LUCK LOVE!
822139
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
921611
Sounds like he's testing the ground. He wants to be close to you but he's making sure he doesn't tread where you don't want him to be. In otherwords, he doesn't want you to feel pressured. I think he likes you, and has great respect for you, especially if he's giving you an out like that. Perhaps you should ask him why he keeps saying that, and see what he says. Your gut should tell you if you can take it at face value.
962157
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
592396
I think that he should communicate his feelings towards you, verbally and with actions.  You should sit down with him and ask him how he truly feels about you.  Look at the way he treats you, does he build you up or tear you down?  Does he do things that make you feel special or treat you indifferently.  Good luck.
945610
well I think you need to give him some little more time before you jump into any rash decisions. It's possible the guy is the shy type, who actually likes you but each time he's with you he finds it a bit hard to open up to express his feelings, one thing you need to watch out for, is that during your meetings, you need to know how he feels, his looks, his disposition when he's in your company, etc.\n\nThis will help to know if actually he's the shy type of guy or if he's pretending. Once, you have been able to establish this, if he's shy, then you can decide to do the talking or take the initiative by asking what he feels about you, asking him out on a date. But if he's not truthful or pretending, then you tell him off and look elsewhere for solace.
106829
Just because he says he likes you doesn't mean that he is in love with you and only wants to be with you.  Personally I find it bad manners to go out on another date right after you finish one.  But unless you have some sort of agreement that you two are exclusive he didn't do anything technically wrong.
664656
Go to the dance...see how that goes.  He may have asked you becuase he likes you as more than a friend.  Look for signals, and if they're good, let him know how you feel.
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
839497
believe me, i've been in your shoes, and guess what? i told him that i liked him, unfortunately he didnt like me back, but at least he knew how i felt/feel about him.\n\ndont be shy\njust go for it
150815
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
905400
If he's a nice guy, just not your cup of tea, and you accepted his offer to avoid hurting his feelings, one possibility is to go out with him one time.  If he asks you out again, you can explain to him that you have other plans, or that you really don't feel like tying yourself down to one person.\n\nOn the other hand, if he pressured you into agreeing to go out with him, or if for any reason, you do not feel perfectly safe with him, I think you should tell him, "I've thought it over, and I really don't feel right about this."  If you don't want to go out with a guy, you do not owe him an explanation.  If he gives you a hard time about it, that only confirms that your decision was the right one.\n\nIt might be tempting to tell him you can't go out with him, because something's come up.  Personally, I think that's kind of lame.  If he takes that at face value, he will likely ask again.  When he finally realizes you just aren't interested in going out with him, that does make you look kind of cowardly.