i am gay and ...............?
965343
As long as he likes men then its fine to ask him out.
599642
I dont think that means you are gay. But maybe you should sit down and really think about this before jumping into anything you might later regret
138374
Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
1100104
sounds like your really gay , but you like being friends with girls , and there's nothing wrong with that!
590737
You are gay and you hate gay people?\n\nDamn, you have serious issues. You should see a psychiatrist.
780500
You might be gay or bi, but it's hard to tell based on what you have said here. I don't think it means you're gay just because it's easier for you to get off when you're watching guys. It depends on more than just that. You need to grow up a little more before you can decide, I think.  Give yourself time to figure it all out, and don't worry about labeling yourself right now.
822888
Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.
448598
What?! I'm GAY?!?! NOOOOOOoooo!!!
152198
Your close friends might not know that you are gay, but they might not be surprised when you come out of the closet to them.   \n\nHow do you know someone is gay?  You see them sleep with people of the same gender.  \n\nAre you in high school?  That is a hard time to be different in any way shape or form.  You should join a support group of some sort and make some gay friends, it might make things a bit easier for you.
1071250
It's natural to be gay/bi, but that's not an answer I can give you.  A clue, though, is if you really desire making love with the same sex.  Sexual desires are one thing, but true homosexuality is a love thing.  If you love females in that way, you may be gay.  You may be predominantly gay with a slight turn toward the heterosexual (hence, your sexual but not loving attraction to boys).  In the end, however, it is your decision.  I can only offer advice.
1011148
youre not yet gay... you are just confused...besides, you are very young ... take time.. meet other friends.. dont tell your mom....when you reach 20 and you still the same, thats the time you tell your mom...
854037
Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
565281
You are gay, I presume.
1034097
If you are not gay...politely tell them you are not interested and tha you are not gay..."WHY NOT ASK DON" (the poster above) is gay and is in hiding till someone comes along and gives him what he wants!!! The gayness will come out, HE IS JUST HIDING IN THE GAY SECTION OF YAHOO ANSWERS
695923
You say that you "know i'm not gay because i know its very wrong". Who says it is wrong? Someone else who is telling you who your are? The only thing that is wrong is for you to pretend that you are someone that you are not. It could be that you only want to experiment, and that doesn't make you gay. Being gay is a definition of who you are attracted to. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the same sex as you, that means you are gay. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the opposite sex as you, that means you are straight. If you have sexual thoughts about both, then you are bi. Instead of listening to other people who tell you what is wrong or right, listen to yourself and decide for yourself who you are attracted to. It doesn't matter who you are attracted to, the only thing that matters is that who you are attracted to makes you happy.
200189
Okay, you DO know I'm gay, right? As in not into men?
481557
first of all if you are sexually aroused by both male and females then you are bi, but if you are only sexually arroused by somebody of the same sex you are then you are gay.\n\nI would suggest going to a gay bar and going onto a date with sombody, not for sex, but to see if you feel more comfortable in a gay relationship first.