I'm 18, my boyfriends older, advice please?
967997
Even though many people say, "Love has no age difference" there is. Point blank. \n\nFirst of all, if you trust him 100% and you love him then don't worry about the women before you. Those were just mistakes that lead up to you. \n\nSecondly, yes he's older. But NEVER, EVER let him pressure you into doing something that you don't want to or most importantly, not ready for. Just because his ex's did such and such all the time or something, doesn't mean that you do to. Make him realize that. \n\nThirdly, I'd test the waters. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Just take it all in stride, chances are that this might not be your "one" but it's all a learning process. So what you don't date younger guys? The more you date, the more you learn the specifications of the type of man you want to be with in the future. Enjoy yourself, but don't lose yourself!
1075855
If he leaves you because of an age difference there is no future with him anyway. I know many couples where the woman is older and they are just fine.\n\nSimply tell him and let him decide if he's a man who can handle it or a boy who can't.
1148363
5 years isn't bad when you're older, but right now, you're underage.  There's lots that can go bad in that situation.  Find someone your own age.  UNLESS there is a lot of chemistry and stuff.  I mean, he may be the one for you, who knows.  But you are definetly young for him now.  If you do start anything with him, make sure you go slow.  And also be aware, at least in my town, when some girl your age is with a guy that old, she's considered a slut.  I mean really, what would a guy who's 19 want with a girl who's that young?  Be careful.
438441
Well if this message is for me then, I guess I already know.\n\nYou may not want to tell him because once he turns 18 he can't show any romantic relations for you do to the law.\n\nBut, say you will wait for him, if he promises to wait for you to turn 18. This is for him to stay single or true to you, hopefully. Its not an exact relationship to be in but hey; its love. If he feels that the two of you shouldn't date or what not he should be kind enough to tell you nicely that it may not work between the two of you.\n\nBut, feel free to tell him that you have a crush on him. It will make him feel happy to know that he is adored by younger girls.\n\nI sure do hope to God that you didn't mean the word CURSE!
130646
For an eighteen year old being in a permanent relationship is a scary thing especially when there is the added pressure of having to be a dad.  It would make me feel vulnerable too.  He's got some growing up to do before he's ready for that level of committment.  That doesn't mean that he won't mature and be with you.  He should be if he's your baby's dad, but don't rush into the committment just because you have a child together.  In the long run that could be worse for the child.  Both of you are going to change a lot in the coming years and that dynamic aspect of your personality will leave anyone feeling vulnerable.  It sounds like he might be on the right track though.  He's got himself in college and he's willing to express his feelings concerning his vulnerability which is really hard for a guy to do.  Give him some time.  Give yourself some time.  It sounds like you might have winner in a few years.
673024
If you are 18 and in school still, it's that old rule \n\n"as long as you're under my roof you do as i say"\n\nif you're 18 and live on your own, date anyway.\n18 is too old to not be dating, my fiancee and i talk that when our kids reach 18 then it's fine for them to start dating... any younger, it's just a huge no no.... \n\nshe may not have felt you were ready for that, but let her know kindly that how will you ever find love , or learn to love and lose if you never get to experience it, let her know (if you have a close relationship) you will keep her up to date on your relationships, not all details because some are personal like kisses and such... but still if that will get her to let you...\n\nif all else fails, date anyway, tell the guy the situation, and he may enjoy it because you're both dating and sneaking around with each other behind your mom's back....\n\ni know that's somewhat disrespectful but by law 18 years old is an adult... so good luck with that :)
163078
Not really, but understand that this will not be a permanent relationship.  An older guy should introduce you better things than a guy your age.  Nice restaurants, plays, concerts.  In exhange you are keeping him young.
884637
Continue to stay in his life.  He will need you.  He is 12 and if he wants to continue seeing you he should be able to decide.  He is certainly old enough.  Be there as much as you have always been.  He needs you and will miss you.
164085
wow, 28 and 63, what an age difference.  What country are you in, i don't think i can advise you on anything being that you are in an entirely different culture and i don't know anything about it.  If you were in America, I would say that he is too old for you, you seem to be in love with him though, i think the only thing you can do is wait and see.  Does he ever come see you?  If not, that is not dating, it is cyberdating, which is not the same thing, if you don't see each other often, unless he is taking care of you and is extremely rivch, iwould find a new man.
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
818779
if you like him it really doesn't matter what your friends thinks...besides, being older can be an advantage in a relation.\nand if you waited for three years, come on! you shouldn't give up just because some fuss\nif you leave him just because of the age, and because of your friends, it would be really silly and insensitive with your own feelings.\nIndepending on the age, you can be good together, and when your heart is broken and you feel alone, there's nothing your friends could do for you (nothing like being with the one you want!)\ngo for it.....care about your feelings....
8241
age aint notin but a numba. you can have a boyfriend when you can accept it and label it as that. that means not calling him just a friend or someone you know!
1169586
The first part of your question, You being 18 and he being 24 is fine your both adults and personal I see nothing wrong with that at all. \nThe fact that he has a past well that is normal most do. Him looking younger does not mean much either. It is great he has a kid but is he resposible and doing what he can to help support his child? If he isn't he should be because not only is it the right thing to do it will also show he is being a responsible adult. \nAcceptence into a family is the rough part here because I do not know you background to offer the best advice. Some people will never accept him because of their beliefs. We live in such a time where many make mistakes, so you would think we can learn to forgive and not judge them for their past but that is not always the case. \nKeep in mind your an adult and can make your own choices. Although I would not tell you that you should disrespect your parents. \nIf I were in your shoes this is what I would do. I would tell my parents that I needed some time with them alone and work it out where everyone can get together. I would say I have this guy I met and I have been getting to know. Everything I have learned about him is great. (this part you give a few examples). He has stolen my heart but he has past. (explain about his child). Now I know that you look down on this type of thing and I know that he is not perfect but I am willing to love him for the man he is not the man he use to be. I want you meet him and accept him as I have. \nThis may or may not work because i do not know your parents but the key thing here is talk calmly and respectfully and listen to what they tell you even if it isnt what you want to hear. \nI wish you luck and I hope this all turns out for you.
360675
Sometimes it's true that women's maturity level progresses faster than younger men's. In your case you might be feeling a bit uncertain because that statement does not apply to you. \nRemember: Age is only a number. So is salary.\n\nIf you can love him no matter what and want to work things out with him, no matter what, then he is the one for you.\n\nEveryone has differences in taste, his is 80's music and an early bed time.. so what? At least he isn't a drug addict and abuser. Take it for what it's worth... if he treats you well, is financially stable and willing to work on your relationship, you've got a winner!\n\nGood luck, and look out for yourself--
430299
first of all how old are you? and how old is your boyfriend if he is 18 or over and you are like 14 15 ya i can see why he is to old but on the other hand if you are like 16 17 that is ok its not to old. but if you are still living in your dads house you need to do what he wants untill you are old enough to move out on your own and believe me the way this world is now you dont want to do that any time soon.
1152136
wait until you are 18....if he really loves you he will wait...
838671
Sounds to me like you're getting a bit sketchy and he doesn't like what he See's. Step back and take a good hard look at yourself and him. You need to ask yourself some serious questions. When you're talking (settling down) there's a lot involved there. Like dealing with each others ups and downs day in and day out. Your careers. Buying a house. Starting a family. Can you see growing old with this person? What are your goals in life? Do you have the same goals in mind? And a whole bunch more than that. If you're already having problems at 22 and 24 you better get ready for the real world. Good luck