help! i need help with a guy, hoe do i flirt with a guy without being to obveous?
962077
Keep looking at him, i guess. Or ask him for his email and you could chat online privately. Good luck.
595791
I hate to say it because its so sincial, but the first guys answer has a point. The more virtous way would be to flirt with him, or even ask him out.
858217
Utoh....watch what you say.  Maybe you should bring it up in a light way, like "boy B is such a flirt".  Then let the chips fall where they may.
70485
DONT FLIRT Give him no lines and keep you hands to yourself
895023
umm talk to him. listen. (guys like talking about themselves as much as we do lmao). flirt. hint that you want something.
605491
Tell him how you feel already. Maybe next time you flirt actually get into a conversation about going somewhere together and do it.
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
568913
It depends on what your goal is.  Are you trying to turn the guy that's flirting with you against you and make him think your the biggest idiotic loser of all time.  If the answer is Yes, then you should flirt with the other guy to make him jealous......Hopefully, you will have grown up by the time you read this.
21264
I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.
115302
Talk to him.  He doesn't know you exist because you haven't made it clear.  Guys are very bad at subtle signals, and generally speaking, we're "easy".  Having a girl try to pick up a guy is a heck of an ego boost for us males.
936147
Nothing really he's just flirting.  Talk to him. I won't hurt any thing.
270420
whoa, if he's flirting with every girl, you might want to stop and ask yourself if he's really the kind of guy you want to be with.  chances are, you don't especially because guys like that are more prone to bad behaviors.  try finding a nice guy that will flirt with you and only you.  and just remember to be yourself.  any guy will like you for who you are, you can't get a guy to like you for who you aren't.
837977
flirt with him. like what i said in a bunch of these types of problems....make eye contact and give him a cute smile
548936
First find something that he is interested in and talk to him about it, or just ask what does this do? Guys love to know that some woman needs his help! It will make him feel better. Plus, it will give you a little flirting time. \n\nIf you don't feel up to that, then go for the almighty approach and get him a little jealous. Mention something sweet that someone of the opposite sex done for you. Maybe someone that he knows or works with. It does the trick most of the time. He will feel guilty about not being the one there to do it. \n\nOr you can always seduce him. The poor sap does have it coming if he is too afraid to confront you about liking ya. lol. Suprise him. Win him over. Drop something and see if he will pick it up. Show him signs that you need or want him. He will give in sooner or later. Whisper in his ear. He will like it. \n\nWell, good luck! If this doesn't work then he isn't a man. lol. Also, if you want him to come to you, then you need to make him aware that you are interested as well. Don't take the easy way out or he will give up. Smile back and flirt. I'll work!
733474
well first talk to him and get to know him, if you really like him begin to flirt with the guy, to the point when you know its obvious, like you got the feeling he's about to ask you do you feel a certain way for him...trust me it'll work.
214119
Make a move.  Put yourself in a situation where the two of you are alone by yourselves.  Then just pull out all of your typical female tricks, touching of the arm, giggling like a fool and maybe leaning in a little too close to his face.  If he likes you he'll take this opportunity and lay one on ya.  This way your not making a fool of yourself by talking to him and finding out he doesn't feel the same way you do.  Talk is over-rated.  Oh and if he's spending this much time with you my bet is that he's hot for you too.  Guys don't have friends that are girls, they just hang around long enough to get in their pants.  GO FOR IT!!!
516422
Talk about things he like to do, while flirting at the same time.  It works trust me.  Or if he needs school help it also works.