Do you belive masturbation to be a good defense aginsts ED?
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Actually, the reverse is true.\n\nThe reason I know this is the personal experience of a 38 year-old male friend of mine a few years ago.  He has been without a partner for some time (8 years in fact) and relied on "self-service" during that time.\n\nWhen he did begin a relationship with a partner, he could no longer function properly and required medical treatment.\n\nThe doctor advised him that effectively the blood vessels had atrophied over the time primarily because masturbation does not sustain an erection for long enough to keep the blood vessels healthy.
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No. Masturbation feels better. (n_n)\n\n.....I'm serious.
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You probably feel ashamed because of how you were raised.  I believe that single people should masturbate to their hearts content as long as they are not doing it in public. Now I guess I am a hypocrite because I feel that while you are married you should only masturbate with your partners permission. I know this sounds weird but I think that is something two people who are in a commited relationship should discuss.
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I masturbate 2-3 times a week. I use my finger, sometimes a toy. I sometimes ask my boyfreind or girlfriend to do me, it depends.\nDoes that help you?\nLuv Susan X
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I use to think i was sick and asked my Dr. if i was normal to have such a strong drive that it drove me crazy and i seemed  to want more all the time. He said, it is a natural and normal feeling and some people have stronger drive than others. I started experimenting to try and learn how to control it better so not to drive me so batty. Don't be so concerned this is natural and your blessed to have orgasm's and a good strong healthy drive and desire for love. It's called life. Some people wish they could do what your able to accomplish. Masturbating is healthy and normal. The fact that you can help yourself while he's away keeps you out of trouble and satisfied. Learn to teach yourself and him how to turn you on more. Foreplay is a very wonderful way to teach and learn from each other. It will turn you both on to do this to one another and share idea's and curiosity's and fulfill each others fantasies and make some up as you go. I have personal experience and can tell you honestly that this really works as long as you are both willing and able to open up and share with each other. Good luck hope i helped
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One thing my guy tried was right when he felt he was going to ejaculate, he would tell me to move to a different activity or position. That way, it gave him a few seconds to relax, and then he would have to take more time to get it to be erect again. Also, you don't necessarily need a girl to help practice; that's one advantage of masturbation. There are also alot of books on this that most regular book stores carry (sex, masturbation, erections/orgasms, etc). Or look online for sites about it as well. Plus, if that's the only reason women are with you is for sex, then forget them. You sound mature, and you don't need people like that who are only going to use you. Well, I hope that helped.
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Self destruction is never a resolution if I'm reading that comment right.\n\nBut if your looking for alternative directions to self destruction, I recommend martial arts.  Not only does it help with fitness, but teaches you balance of mind as well.
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Masturbation is like playing tennis against a brick wall.  It's good fun practice, but it's better to have a partner.
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Why do you hate masturbation, if this works for you then i would continue to masturbate and enjoy a nice sleep.  It is a perfectly natural thing to do there is nothing dirty or bad about it - so if you have not got a partner who can assist you with lovemaking then pleasure yourself, enjoy the moment and then enjoy a good nights rest.
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I was wondering the same thing this morning.  I sure did feel my heart pounding, so it had to increase my heartrate!   I don't think it is the only exercise you should rely on. :)    Try walking 30 minutes a day!  Then come back and masturbate.
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I've been masturbating since I was 16 and don't see a problem where it has cause me to become weak or to not physically  develop properly.  I'm now a healthy grown man (and still enjoy masturbation).
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There is quite a bit of evidence that it is VERY good for your mental and physical health. The incidence of prostate cancer is apparently considerably less on guys that masturbated frequently, especially in their younger years. No doubt that it's normal, healthy and fun...so go for it and enjoy!
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Has anyone ever used the word masturbation in your presence?\nGoogle it, you are ultimately responsible for your own sexuality, not your wife!
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Masturbating may protect against prostate cancer\n\nIt will make you go blind. It will make your palms grow hairy. Such myths about masturbation are largely a thing of the past. But the latest research has even better news for young men: frequent self-pleasuring could protect against the most common kind of cancer.\n\nA team in Australia led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council Victoria in Melbourne asked 1079 men with prostate cancer to fill in a questionnaire detailing their sexual habits, and compared their responses with those of 1259 healthy men of the same age. The team concludes that the more men ejaculate between the ages of 20 and 50, the less likely they are to develop prostate cancer.\n\nSee rest of article at link below
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No... You're touching yourself... It's in a sense, consensual, "voluntary".  If you didn't want to masturbate, you wouldn't...  it's not like you're going to beat yourself silly and force yourself to do it against your will...\nWith the fact that it's in your mind, well, you're fantasizing this scenario...  If it really gets you going, you will grab yourself because, although in your mind it's not supposed to be "good", the fact that it's going according to the way you see it is turning you on, and you will get off on it.  It's almost like voyeurism.
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y do u masturbate in the first place, is it cos u don't have a bf or gf, anyway i was masturbating up to 6 times a day b4 i got myself a partner, now i can't remember the last time i masturbate, and i really feel much better now, i used to feel a little guilty after doing it back in the days, and i started feeling bad about myself and envious of ppl who i believe are having great sex..i'll advice u to get urself a sex partner and do it as much as u can. another incident that encouraged me to stop it was when my friend asked me to touch him, we usually masturbate together in front of tv while watching x-rated movies, one day he asked me to suck him and when he comes he will suck me, i refused and that was the last day i masturbated together with him.
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No, absolutely!\nOtherwise we all should have problem or be impotent even!\nOn the contrary, scientists says that a regular sexual life (mastu*bation too) helps the reproductive system to keep healthy and increase the performance (desire) too.\nSomebody even plays more time in a day and there’s no correlation with impotency or erection.\nSo, don’t worry for that, while you only ought to care to don’t become too much addicted.\nMastu*bation is a normal event, and with the age and stable relations, decreases till vanish.\nYour semen quantity is good and the average.