my dads girlfriends daughter?
960949
lol  just ask her lol
791095
I think if your attitude is honorable and not smart alec like "hey dad, I got your girl pregnant...." that you'll be ok.  Good ol dad needs to know you really love his daughter and that you will take care of her and the baby.  It's all in your attitude, believe me.  As far as telling then in front of everyone, I don't know.  I think it would be great, but that's just me.  If her family does one of those go around the table to tell what you are thankful for you could break it then by saying something like you are so thankful for being a part of their daughter's life and that it will soon be 3 of you not just 2 of you.  Just love on everyone and be positive...it'll come back to you.  Good luck!
352889
Her not wanting to tell her daughters' father about you is a clear indication that she is trying to protect her relationship with him. It is possible that she may not be ready yet to diclose her affair because she is still concerned about him and of course, the children. it is quite hard to rule out what could possibly be stopping her from revealing you to him; it is also a possibility that she herself is not yet sure about her relationship with you, too. I know that it is also difficult on your part but are you really serious about her also?...And if ever he finds out about you, would you be prepared for any possbile consequences?... In this scenario, the girl is in the losing end. Either she will totally lose her husband forever or worse, he will fight to gain custody of the kids because of her infidelity. In your case, you are the guy and you won't lose anything. I suggest that you move on with your life and get somebody who is more eligible and not in a compromising situation. Let your present 'girlfriend' lead the kind of life she wants. Maybe, she too, doesn't know what to do with her life. She may be in a lot of confusion and having you in her life may just be a thing that she's only taking for granted. Better to talk things out with her and know what she feels about your relationship. Be transparent and let her know also what you feel. I do hope that you will come up with a decision regarding this. You are in a relationship where you don't have any idea where you stand. You know, parting ways with her might be the best thing you'll do for yourself and for her, too.
906850
Well your dad obviously is one of those men who moves around a lot in life...you are right to expect more, but you may find yourself disappointed over and over in life...because now this new chick in his life will want him all to herself and she will want to be his priority.  So you are going to be in a difficult situation.\n\nYou are lucky you had this time together.  Hopefully you will have more time together.  Talk to you dad when she's not around and tell him how you feel.  Really have a heart to heart with him about your feelings...in the past and now...and what your fears are.  This way he will be aware and will sense when you are feeling this way...and hopefully find a way to smooth it all out so you can all be happy.  Don't be surprised though if this girl may sway him away from you.  She isn't much older than you and probably you are as mature if not more than she is...what's with that dad of yours anyhow!  Sheesh.  Nothing you can do about it if it he ends up with this woman but you shouldn't become enemies with her or it will be very hard and your dad may have to choose and hey...men don't always think with thier heads.  Good luck to you.
93499
just have a talk!? communication is the best way... talk to her mother and tell to her that you don't want to have a sex relation with her because she's the mother of your girlfriend,the one that you love. And not only that, explain to her that it is bad to have a sex relation with her because you love her daughter and her daughter is the one you want to be with in your entire life. And her daughter will get hurt if she'll know about it and try to ask if she love her daughter. ok that's it...now it's your turn...
257047
Your daughter has the right to know her father. You didn't make her yourself. It doesn't matter that her father has a new family, your daughter still has his blood either way.\n\nThings like this happen everyday, it's not that uncommon anymore.
592370
i don't really think there is a whole lot you can do. Just be there for her and continue doing what you are doing. Try to talk to her and explain that things did not work out with you and her dad but you still love her as much as before and that you are both there for her. Don't put him down to her. Even if he is turning her against you, she will eventually see thru that. Good luck to you. It will work out. It just takes time.
605351
Bro go out. Your daughter will be fine. You seem like a great dad! dating doesnt hurt. Leave your daughter with someone you trust. Do it before you looks fade, and your old n gray sayin I wish I wouldve.
1062034
I definitely think you should try, no matter how well you feel around her.  She is still your family, even though you are not blood related.  I'm sure your father would be very happy if you could connect with her.  Respect to parents and family no matter how close you are is a very important thing in life, well it definitely is in my culture.
509881
WELL I THINK WHAT YOU DID FOR HER AND HER DAUGHTER WAS MORE THEN MANLY. MOST MEN WOULD SAY OH WELL AINT MY PROBLEM AND WOULD HAVE STAYED. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD STILL HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT WOMAN IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU CARE FOR HER VERY MUCH. YOU DONT HAVE TO LIVE THERE AND SHE CAN STILL DEVOTE TIME TO HER CHILD. HAVE EITHER ONE OF YOU TRIED TO MAKE THE DAUGHTER APART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP SO SHE WONT FEEL LEFT OUT. WE AS MOTHERS HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO SHARE OUR LOVE AND ATTENTION. TALK TO HER AND YOU TALK TO THE DAUGHTER TRY TO BE A FAMILY NOT JUST MOM'S BOYFRIEND. IN THE MEAN TIME- TAKE KARATE, GO TO THE GYM, BECOME A BIG BROTHER,DO SOMETHING YOU WILL BE PROUD OF AND STOP MESSING WITH SKANKY WOMEN JUST IN CASE YOU AND MOM GET BACK TOGETHER
143685
Maybe the problem is not the daughter, but the father. It could be that he is feeling guilty for something, or has pity, or remorse or something that is not letting him stand up to her and advise her to change her slovenly habits. Sorry, the father has to realize no one can control him unless he lets them,
465667
Hmmm. This is a tough one. They are such essential people to have in your life, especially the girlfriend. For sure say no way to your brother, what does he really bring to your life? Has he given you a kidney. Please don't say yes or I am a schmuck! Tell your girlfriend that if she pawns some of the jewelry there is a trip to Hawaii in it for her, make sure she pawns enough to pay for you and your wife's room plus her(the girlfriend) room. And if your wife finds the girlfriend, tell her it's threesome time or she can swim home. Buy your daughter a bus pass and tell her to be happy with that because when you were a kid you had to walk barefoot on broken glass, uphill both ways to school. That's what my father told me when I asked for a car anyway.
722655
This might not be the best advice, but it might work. Try to find out what your girl's other man did wrong that makes her father not wanting her to date. Try to find out as much about her father as you can. Try to relate to him, be a friend. Make him like you. Since it isn't a girls heart that you have to win here, its his. Father's are very protective of their little girls, just because of the way us guys think. So pretty much, just find the right way to prove yourself worthy to her father that you deserve to  \nbe with his daughter. If that don't work, then try to have your girl influence him by informing him on how you guys feel for eachother.
579553
You are not taking away your daughter from her dad..He can visit. It isn't healthy for you to stay if you don't love him. Ya can still be friends! good luck!!
8497
The man is her father in law
1071459
bring your girlfriend over then scream "DAD!!" at the top of your lungs.. then give her a huge smooch ... he'll figure it out
1166720
Marrying someone for their money is not fraud, and there is nothing you can do about this woman taking your dad for all he has. He deserves it if he is going to be stupid. You need to get your son back and sever ties with your dad and that devil woman ASAP. Contact a lawyer NOW. If this woman is neglecting your son you cannot as a mother afford to wait.