my life is becoming a waste i dont do anything im 11 im in 7 grade and i come back from school at 3clock and?
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Take it easy^^!...  First of all, it is important to know that studying is important in order for you to be successful.  Enjoy your age, school and friends while you can (always in a healthy way).  Days pass fast and one day you will want to go back where you are right now!(trust me on that;)).  The question might be... Are they giving you too much work in school (if they are, you should always talk to the teachers) or are you not spending the time to study correctly?... \nTalk to your parents or family and for sure they will help you=)...\nExercise is also great!(take a walk, play sports) Remember that life is beautiful!  Don't forget about God... He is the only one who can actually help us in everything, in fact, He is the first One who we should all talk to about our problems and ask Him what we should do and tell Him to guide us and live our lives the way He wants us to:)... \n\nTake care and be happy^^!!
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You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.
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> I need to get back into work mode, which has seem to left me a long time ago.\n\nGreat! Count this as your first step towards doing something about it. This is a joyous moment! Be happy about it!\n\n> Right now I just feel like asking philisophical questions to myself, playing video games, thinking about girls, talking with my friends, and sleeping.\n\nCongratulations, David, you're normal. Welcome to the world of knowing your responsibilities and being mindful of your existence. Sorry if that sounds odd, but really I think you've partly answered your own question here already. First, though, it's obvious that you need to get motivated. Isn't being in "deep peril" motivation enough? I assume that would mean failing at school, or not meeting some other important work requirements? But what's more important? Is it girls and friends (be honest with yourself), or taking responsibility for what's important right now? Think about this, though: All those things keeping you from "entering reality" (as you put it) will still be there after your school stuff is finished. The thing that's even cooler is you'll probably appreciate them much more than you do right now. Plus, they'll still be there while you're focusing on school. It's not like one or the other. Yes, balance is the key here! Of course there's the outside chance that your behaviour is somewhat psychologically imbalanced. In this case, David, I recommend that you have a chat to a school counsellor, parent, or a local psychologist. Anyway, good luck and go get 'em on your studies! Really hope this helps.
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Please see a school counsellor as soon as possible.  Or call a help line right now.  Do you have a family member or other reliable adult you can talk too? Don't wait.  Get help now.
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the higher you go in grade level, the more is expected of you. not saying this to scare you, but is a fact of life. keep all your old friends and also make some new ones. don't give in to peer pressure or become someone you're not. might want to consider some extra-curricular activities for social and academic reasons. just have fun and relax.
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take advantage of the situation, ask your parents to do your laundry and stuff cus your so busy with school work. be a leech while you can.
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Look stop being lazy there will be plenty of time later to be lazy, you dont want to end up another statistic and by that I mean another loser living in America making minimum wage living in your parents basement.  So get up and study do it for yourself man, if not you will be throwing yourself pity parties later hoping and wishing you had studied.
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Haha Yeah i know how you feel, i hated school so much. But don't worry it will soon all be over! Just think how good it will feel when it's the last day of school ever! (or you might be one of these people that by the time you get there, you will actually miss it!)
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You mean you're in a RUT.  I feel this way sometimes.  Don't worry, Something will come along to get you out of it.  \n\nRemember, "Time you enjoy wasting, is not wasted time".
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Get your guidance cousellor or a friend. Someting to help you. Sorry about your teacher.
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Hi, first of all I feel sorry for you. Tough hey. Try getting up little bit earlier. Don't you have spare time in between classes maybe? Tape notes for yourself and listen while taking a bath or before bedtime. Good Luck !!!!
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i think you need to spend a little less time with yourself, and make some real friends.  picking up a schoolbook or two wouldnt hurt either, because its i beat off 8 times, not beated.
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YOU'RE 12??? HMMM SHIET.. I HEARD THE SAME QUESTION FRM MY CUZ.. AND I B*TCH THE HELL OUT OF HER.. YOU'RE ONLY 12.. GOSH I'M REPEATING AGAIN.. YOU DID NOT EVEN FINISH ELEMENTARY SCHL.. BEST ADVICE.. AT LEAST FINISH HS.. DON'T MESS UP UR LIFE 2 EARLY. YOU'LL REGRET..
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I did CC in high school, and it was the worst time i've ever had in my life even though i was the top runner. i think you should quit track. it realy doesn't sound like you're having a good time of it. i wish someone would have made me quit CC--my life would have been so much better!Waaay too much pressure. I've learned that all the things in HS i thought were such huuuge problems really aren't that big of a deal. If you want to talk sometime, i'm here. As for the phone thing....it won't last forever. Use the time you would've talked to friends to write in a journal, figure out things in your life.
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While school may not be interesting to you now, it may if you decide to go to college.  I was never into school either until I got to college where I was learning about things I was interested in.  Try to get through it and you'll probablly be reward for it in the future.
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How about get back to class and learn for once!  School may be boring but it is better than not having it at all.  Grow up and get back to class!!
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It sounds like the best solution would be to get your priorities in order.  Make a list of what is important, and why, and then number these things that you have to do in order of importance.  Say number 1 is getting 8 hours of sleep.  What you need to do is make 2. accomplish homework and everything else that HAS TO BE DONE that you don't want to do.  Then 3 is reward yourself with the tv, computer or whatever, but if you fall asleep doing those things, it isn't as bad as if you fall asleep doing your homework and have to rush to school tired.  \nWhat you really need is to learn how to monitor yourself, it is called self discipline, and you will find mastering that comes with it's own rewards (like a more balanced life).  You also need to learn how to delay gratification.  That is a very healthy thing to learn.  Instead of being on the computer now because you want to be on the computer more than you want to do something else, try "forcing" or "making" yourself do homework for one class.  Or clean up your room.  Or do something else you do not want to do.  For everything you don't want to do, you earn points, and get to do things you do want to do.  Reward yourself for being disciplined by enjoying the things you call distractions.  But set limits for yourself their too. One hour on the computer means you have to do one hour of homework again to go back online.  Stuff like that.  \nI think that you are a kid that has been thrown in to a whirlwind of too much information, too many choices, too much fun stuff to do and not enough hours in the day to enjoy all of it.  If you get caught up in this at a young age (I might be wrong, but I'm guessing you are maybe high school age) then you are in for a world of misery when you get older, because it only gets worse.  What you need to learn how to do is prioritize and schedule the things in your life, according to importance.  And you need to make yourself abide by your own rules - it is called "self-discipline" for a reason - you have to do it yourself and you would resent anyone else putting any kinds of restraints on your time.  \nAnother suggestion, try keeping a time log for a week and write down when you start and when you finish everything that you do, including sleeping, eating, and homework and TV.  You might find out that you have some time slots that are open to do things you enjoy more than what you actually are doing during those time slots.  \nListen kiddo, life is short, and I would hate for a sharp person like you to get lost in hedonism (which is the biggest temptation our culture promotes), and not get enough rest to be the excellent student and future great American that you have the potential to be (assuming you are American.)\nLay off the caffeine at night too, and determine a bed time whether you like it or not, make sure you are in bed dreaming about tomorrow is okay -- tomorrow is another day.  Determine a wake up time too and start living by that schedule.  And then after a week, look at your time log and see how you can better arrange and prioritize your life.  \nI know it seems like you have forever to get this solved, but the fact that you are tired shows that it is wearing on you.  You might want to even try sacrificing one of your distrations, every other day don't do either the computer or the tv or the video games, or whatever, just with the goal of making yourself a better person.  \nThis world is FULL of distractions, so the problem isn't your fault, it is the world's - societies' -- but it isn't going to get better it is only going to get worse.  So for you to make it in this crazy world you are going to have to focus on what is important to you spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, physically, etc..  Only you can decide what is most important, and instead of entertaining your mind, I suggest you use the same distractions to challenge it.  \nRead about things in history or scie