Should i stop being friends with my crush now that he has rejected me?
965462
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye
154922
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
465000
Your doing the right thing.  Your crush is in a relationship and ultimately is not going to be around any more.  For your sake and hers, you need to continue to just ignore her and your feelings for her.  Focus on your own life and relationships.  Ultimately time will make things easier.  Right now your just wasting your life away making it harder on yourself and your relationships by letting this be anything more than a crush.
346180
i know it hurts to get rejected but take a shot at it he may be going thru the same thing. he may like you and be afraid to say something. I am a guy and i have been afraid to talk to a couple of girls and i finally got up the courage to say something to one of them now that they have a boy friend and i  found out that at the time that i like them they like me but its to late i missed my chance don't miss yours
387435
you should just tell him that you real like him and at the time you called it off because you didn't know if he felt the some way you did and you didn't want to mess up your friendship
532828
This kinda thing happened to me a few days ago too...i don't know, if you like him (like-like) then you should make your move and tell him that you like him too. But if you'd rather wanna be friends with him, just tell him. When he told me that he likes me, i just told him that there's a line between being just friends and more than friends, and i'd like to stay just friends with him. And luckily, he understood and is okay with it.
898954
In my experience I have learned you should just get over him.  One of my best friends (that was a girl) liked me and it got really awkward for a long time.  But if you think you have a shot and it is worth the risk go for it.
398802
baby, you're now just a friend to him. kool to hang with but nothing else. give him up.
979989
Tell him \n"I'm sorry I am not interested in dating you, but i would like to go out with you sometime just as friends."\nIf he doesn't want to be friends after that, then you know that he was only befriending you because he liked you.  That is not what makes a good friend.\n\nOUCH "LALA" that is the opposite of what she wants to do.  B**CHY much!?
938606
Try to move on. I know this will be difficult and we all have to let go of people we like/love in life. Being rejected stinks but take comfort in the fact that you're not alone in this.
1119462
I think you should just be a friend for now and be there for him and it maybe hard because you like him.but as friends you guys will get to know each other and just maybe you will become more then friends..maybe not what you want to hear.
28093
I think you should think about it and tell him if you are relly sure you want to. Does it seem like he feels something for you? If you break up or are rejected there is a possibility that your frienship will change. But it is not good to keep it to yourself because you might have a chance and if you dont tell him you might regret not taking the risk later on in your life.
831229
hi,\n\n    in the whole world,whole human being do this.u r not aolne.if ur clear in u r mind,and wanna him as ur friend.be open and tell him.or just mess ur frndhip also.\n\n    see,what u want as a girl thats important.if u r rejecting him,its not an offence.if u like him than ask him for sometime to think,think harder.and do wat ur mind says.not u r HEART.\n\n    u r spening u r time on this issue and making him also confuse.go ahead do domething.maybe someone is waiting for u both ahead.\n\nbest of luck.
997514
I don't care if you give me the points or not, but I say...If you feel special about this person and he is unattached (or you hope he is)  then go for it!  Really, what is the worst thing that could happen? He could say "No"?\n\nIf both of you are single then talk to him!  Even if he doesn't like you in the same way, perhaps you will have made a friendship that could, (in time) grow to be more!\n\nOh and good luck!
486964
Normally it would be in a guy's better interest to do the asking, but that's changed alot over the years. My suggestion is try to hang out and let your feelings out in a private moment then see what happens from there. the worst that could happen is that your crush says no, but then you'll still feel alot better for trying anyways.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
580535
Well I'd say ask him. But keep in mind that if he's not interested it may hurt your friendship. I had a friend that end up liking me and after he told me I felt so uncomfortable around him.  So your taking a chance but I think if you don't, you'll probably regret it forever. GOOD LUCK!!