i a ma xdresser i had my xmas cards made in them i appear as michaela my friends and family are yet unaware of
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Hmmm...tough one!\n\nWhile it's unfortunate that we live in a society that values our appearance over what we have to offer, I have to agree that your timing isn't very good...\n\nI would think this would turn Christmas from a family gathering to 'Guess what "so and so" did?!!!'\n\nI'd strongly suggest perhaps meeting your family over lunch, AFTER the holidays - and telling them then that this is who you are, you plan to come out, and you hope they'll support you.\n(then maybe you could belatedly give them the card, and let them know that you had planned on sending them out, but didn't want to shock or upset anyone's holidays)\n\nEither way, I hope it goes well for you...\nGood luck!\n\nJj
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Everyones has their little quirks\n\nMy mum and me sisters birthday is on the same day.\nMy other sisters birthday is Xmas day.\nAll of my Boyfriends have, completely by coincidence, have the same DOB!!!
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I found out by accident. I was 10 and i had gone into my parent's wardrobe to look for a dress of mine i could put on to wear at my dad's work Xmas party, in there i found a box of toys and on top was a yellow bag, i even called my brother in to see, he was just 8. I didn't know this was the Santa stuff until Christmas day. When i walked into the sitting room that morning, there was the yellow bag i had found, it was then i realised there was no Santa..I was gutted.
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There are so many !! One of my fondest memories was when i was 8 years old. mama and daddy recorded me and my 2 little sisters as we opened our gifts. Boy were we loud !!! screaming and yelling  "thank you mama thank you daddy". that year i got a Chrissy doll. i'm showing my age LOL. she was like a giant red haired barbie and you could make her hair long or short by turning a button in the middle of her back. my cousin and i are the same age , so we both got one. But what i love most is hearing we little girls and hearing mama and daddy's voices. sadly , i lost them both in 1991. six months apart. the other favorite holiday was last year. my sisters didn't give me anything of my dad's when he left us. i don't blame them because i went off the deep end after losing my parents. when i finally got my life together i asked them for something of my dad's. one of my sisters had my dad's wedding ring. it's beautiful, wide gold band with 3 1/4 carat diamonds. i always wanted that ring. when daddy didn't have it on i would get it and wear it while i was at their house. it was funny, mama and daddy joked about having to frisk me before i went home to make sure i didn't leave with one of their rings.LOL. anyway, i asked my sister if i could have daddy's ring. she adamently said "NO". it just broke my heart. my sisters were not fair when it came to splitting what my parents had 3 ways. i asked her for that ring for 5 years. last year my birthday fell on thanksgiving day. we were all at my sisters house having our family dinner when out came a beautiful cake with far too many candles on it LOL. i was surprised. i read all of the b-day cards and opened the gifts everyone had given me. i noticed everyone moving to one side of the room and my nieces all had cameras and video camears pointed at me when i opened the last gift. IT WAS MY DADDY'S RING !!!!!!!! I started bawlin' and ran to my lil sister to hug and thank her. my sis is an itty bitty thing and i'm NOT...she told everyone to protect her so i wouldn't sqeeze her to death !!LOL i have that ring on my finger right now and that is where it will stay until one of my nephews is old enough and getting married. that is when i will pass it down. so, that's just 2 of many wonderful holidays. as a matter of fact my b-day is on sat. and we are having thanksgiving then. everyone has to work on fri. so we decided to do it on sat. so everyone can be there. we're having it at my sisters house and she lives an hour 1/2 away. well , there's my answer.  OH !!! and you are soo right about time screaming by. That is sad.  Have a great Thanksgiving. God Bless.\n                                                                   Deanne
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I'm sorry I dont date show offs
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I've had comments from my friends that see my avatar that I also look like it. They say it's almost creepy.
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I tried to manage to make it look like me but yet it still look different....but when i look at it i feel like am looking at a friend of mine ...after all this guy in the pic i chose to represent me to others
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i used to be so scared that people would find my clothes i hid them in al sorts of places \nwhen i used to x-dress at home i would be so nervous som one would come to the door \nevery car that slowed out on the street was some thing to worry about \ni started to disown some of my friends as they would come around at any time \ni never really ever got turned on wearing them \nbut that is some thing that differs me from the nomal x-dresser \nthese days no one i now really cares but those that don't know and see for the first time look and question who/what  i am \ni believe it is all just clothes how can it really hurt some one it can not unless the wearer is copping sh!t for it (that hurts as they are only being them sleves)\nas for california i would not have a clue i live in australia and would not even know where to start\ngood luck finding a place you can be you
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awwww...this question makes me sad...I can't remember the last gift I have received
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LMAO!  I hope I was handed an original.  Have you ever seen anybody who looks like me?
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I think they are very nice...You are quite talented with poems.\n\nHave you considered getting in touch with a greetings card company? If you have the talent, why not share it with the world, and profit from it?
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i really hope for your own good that those arent your real details...\n\nim sure your family will understand your broke and cant afford gifts.... same as me this year.
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They are secrets for a reason.  But I guess since no one here knows me, I can tell.  I am a kleptomaniac.  I only steal from people I know, though.  I am also a nymphomaniac.  I can not get enough.  Please don't tell my secrets.  LOL
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I totally agree, I wasn't told there were fictitious people or beings. I knew exactly where the gifts, candy and other stuff came from.\nI raise my children the same way, I never want them to think I have lied to them, I want them to know they can trust me.
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No no no!! That's really not what it's about!! I'm sure your family are aware that you're not flush!  They'd much rather have your company around the Christmas period than lots of material thing!  I'm sure they'd be devastated if they knew how worried you were about it!  Just get them a small item each for them to open that suits their personalities/hobbies!
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I tell people that I am, but they rarely believe me.
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I wore uniforms in school so my family didn't buy me a lot of nice clothes and I never had any pretty sweaters.  Some girl got my name in a Christmas name exchange, and she bought me the prettiest yellow exact fitting sleveless knitted sweater that I'd ever seen and I just couldn't get over how pretty it looked and I was just overjoyed to receive it.