Both of the guys I've been involved have just wanted me for sex, am I unattractive?
960764
It could be something as simple as a case of halitosis since he does not want to kiss you. Do you eat garlic regularly or something else to give you bad breath? When you brush your teeth make sure you also brush your tongue.  If that is not it then try dressing down a bit and maybe you will catch a boy who will see you for you. Go after a different sort of guy not the macho jock type. Don’t have sex with any of them especially if you are under college age as it will give you a reputation as the girl to go out with for sex, the love them and leave them sort of girl.↑
130626
You better get your priorities straight before you are left with neither of these guys.\n\nThe one you like but don't have sex with should be the only one in your life.  You can get along without sex.....many girls are not having sex at age 17.  What you're doing is very selfish and has the potential to be very hurtful to the guy who believes you care about him.  Stop it!
722471
I would consider not believing one or the other if I were you.  You probably didnt have the best of relationships and the ones that you did have you probably got hurt or belittled.  Maybe you just have had so many bad experiences its hard for you to respect guys.\n\nAlso consider the fact that if you have not had any good relationships that have worked for you, then why would you be attracted to the guys?
529730
Why are you trying to hook up with them and get a threesome going? I don't think any of them are intrested in you BUT hey you can keep up your hope.
115246
Assuming that I am single and he is single I'd be flattered. I'd think it was sweet and I'd consider seeing more of this guy who made me feel special.\nGood luck.
715421
Sounds like you are feeling really rather insecure about yourself.  It's not a crime to have sex on a first date but the downside to it is the sort of confused feelings you seem to be going through.  The reason for this may be that it was just too early to tell whether this guy really liked you (or indeed, whether you liked him) and now you are having to wait and see.  However, the decision about whether you see each other again is half yours and half his, if you both want to see each other you will, if you don't you won't.  On one hand you are saying you don't know how you feel about having slept with this guy and on the other you are saying that you don't regret it ... so that kind of indicates that you do know how you feel!  It is important that you clarify for yourself how you feel about him.  Do you want to see him again?  If the answer is yes, you can either wait for him to approach you, or you can approach him first.  It is not unusual for people to jump into bed with each other very quickly, it sounds a bit like you might not be entirely comfortable with your behaviour because perhaps you think he won't like or respect you for it.  You can't know how he feels about you without approaching him in some way and initiating communication ... you won't have to ask him how he feels, that should become apparent by whether you get together again and you will be able to tell how much he likes you by how he treats you from now on in.  Speculating on the minimal information you seem to have might just drive you a bit bonkers and certainly won't get you any reliable answers.  Finally, I would say of course you can become friends with this guy, if he wants to become a friend of yours too ...
1167898
Don't worry about it,guys at this time have 1 thing on their mind anyway and trust me it ain't your feelings. That one person will come along and boom it hits you both like lightning.Oh, and everyone to some degree has a self esteem problem with their looks so don't go flipping and tripping on yourself.E-mail me back.
655095
Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....
639607
dnt worry cuz its not because of u and ur not alone. so be careful nxt time u choose a guy.
715277
Whatever is going on. Your not being fair to yourself. You deserve better than some guy who may be into you.
328948
I'm not going to say yes or no due to the fact that it shouldn't matter....You said you like yourself for who you are....That is a sexier attribute than reducing yourself to a category...The funny guy or the serious guy....
978676
I should hope not .. People say Im pretty and I have hot guys always pestering me .. but they arent nice guys .. they only care about a girls appearence. I like nice guys!
1160368
Hon, what you have to do is search 'em out, and take matters into your own hands. BUT---once they have agreed to go on a date with you...remember to revert back to "you're the one who wants ME" role. At least until you get the results you're looking for.  Hope I was a little help to ya....good luck!:)
963948
Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
1072098
At this point - I think you should be much more interested in figuring out which one them wouldn't love you as much if your physical appearance were to change.  It could very well be the one that you're so hot over.  And if it is, she isn't worth having!!!
298586
Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
107757
If you are asking what I think you are you would be better off moving on to the next guy. go find one thats good for you and treats you right. you deserve it.