This guy I like, and just met, left for a whole month...?
957028
Keep the conversations going. Ask him to send you postcards and stuff so he has to think about you while he's away.
434730
You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!
1095434
If there was a friendship b4 the relationship, then yeah I'd probably would be a little sad too.  But if you all just started dating and it's been only a month, girl please you're not in love press on.  Trust me once he leaves and you never see him again, you will cope in no time, enjoy yourself and go out w/the girls to get your mind off him. Trust me you'll be okay, if you're not I'll give you $100 dollars.
346954
i totally agree with the fact that u should be appreciated..BUT being away from him isnt solving anything. trust me GO BACK and figure it out. time off doesnt work. the guy gets bored and moves on.. trust me. work with him
461829
Talk it over and be frank about how you're feeling. I do hope you don't talk like you spell. It could be disatrous!!!\n7 months is too short to get so hooked on a guy! God made plenty to go around girl.. get a grip and move on if you are feeling unstable but dont let it hamper all of your other relationships.
1005668
that's understandable... 3 weeks of break-up, you would surely miss him. 3 weeks is really not that long. check out first, why you broke up in the first place.\nthen, try to make a thorough study of you situation and your options. yes you miss him, but is he an asshle? then, think twice or even thrice before you go back. if he is a nice guy with a few imperfections that is very tolerable... don't think twice! GO BACK AND STOP MISSING HIM!!
98102
Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
147968
How in love with your ex could you be after only being with him for a month? If he did you wrong after just being together for a month, then get rid of him altogether. You've been apart longer than what your relationship lasted, give it up and give the new guy a real chance or let him go to find a woman who knows what she wants.
54600
Generally speaking, "moving in together" is a huge step.  And it hardly ever works when a total stranger picks up and moves in to your home "just to move in". If you are questioning what you should do, I think you are getting strange vibes from this guy.  He could be blowing hot air and just saying that he wants to come and see you. But it seems unusual that he's discussing moving in with you so early in your acquaintance.  If I were you I would let him know exactly how you feel. And if it comes down to it, I'd stop talking to him.
739730
just tell him that you really liked him and that you would want to keep in touch with him.  is he coming back?  just wait and keep in touch with him.  as time goes by your hearts will began to grow fonder of one another and if it is meant to be it will happen.  as for now if you just want to get some lovin, I would say don't do that because it will ruin everything even the friendship.  just call him once a week or bi-weekly when he leaves and make sure the conversations are good.  Also every now and then just say that you met this guy and you went to a movie or something to make him a little jealous but when you do this make sure he knows that you two are just friends but don't over do the friend part.  you know what to do.  or that's an idea take him to a dinner and a movie for a going away gift and just when he thinks he's going to get some be strong and leave!!!!
183703
Whoa!  This guy seems to be in too deep way too fast.  If you want to stay with this guy, you need to have a conversation with him and tell him to slow down or you'll have to stop dating.  Explain that you aren't looking for a commitment so fast.\n\nIf this keeps up, let him down easy, and then don't accept any phone calls, visits, emails, etc. from this guy.  Eventually, he'll get the hint and go away.\n\nIf he doesn't go away, try to get a stalking protective order against him.
38896
Three weeks is barely a commitment.  Do you see this new relationship going anywhere?  Are you willing to risk ticking him off if he is threatened by going to a concert with someone else?\n\nDo you want to go to the concert, or do you simply want to go out with the old boyfriend?  Figure that out first, and be honest...are you hoping to rekindle something?  \n\nIf you simply want to see a good show with a friend, split the cost of the tickets and tell the current guy.  If he's overly threatened by this after only 3 weeks...run!!!  If he's comfortable, all the better.  If he is somewhere in between, maybe it'll cause him to be a little more attentive to you.  \n\nGood luck and let us know what you decide.
633795
MOVE ON if he really liked you he would of found a way too stay in touch. Better yet, still do what you do and wait to see if he will come around.That way you do not look crazy or desperate.
925612
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.\n\nBut, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.\nTry not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.\n\nAnd bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
765280
Technically, you have no right to say anything, since you initiated the "break".... but given the circumstances, you're allowed to be curious. \nAre you still on speaking terms with him for these three weeks? If so, simply ask him about it. Be calm about it, and just let him know you're simply curious as to who this person is, since you've never met her before. \nAlso, it appears that this really bothers you. Perhaps during these three weeks off, you should try to address why that is. It will help you get a better understanding of where you're relationship is, and where it's heading.\nG/L
212802
Sounds like you guys may not be though. Either way,if you only see each other once in three months,it doesn't sound like much of a relationship. Try to call it off.\nIf he doesn't call you then he doesn't care about you,period. Do yourself a favor and move on.\nPlenty more guys out there... \nYou can IM me for some if you want...
152312
Don't 'be a card', and try to rekindle a burnt-out fire - by sending this bum a greet or gift ! [That's at least 5 to 25 dollars saved !]\nLet West be West, and East remain East - and do not waste ur time, imagining that this 'twain shall meet' once again !\nJust forget about this soul-less guy, and move on with ur own life : There are plenty of nice, decent and thoughtful men still around - for u to pick and choose one from !\nCheers !