Big problem ! My b/f is away on texas and coming back tomorrow but i have a big problem?
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tell him about it, be frank about it and be appologetic, offer to have it repaired. he will respect you for taking responsibility for your actions. unless he is a jack...
358384
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't go accusing him yet. If he does happen to cheat on you while in New Mexico, then he isn't worth your time. You can only forgive someone so much. When he gets back, talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't feel safe when he's around his ex. If he is the right guy he will understand.
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Tell him to bring home a bottle of your favorite beverage.\nWhen he gets home, complain about the heat and take off  your top.\nPour yourself a drink, not him.\nTell him you don't know what is wrong, but he needs to do SOMETHING. Keep talking as your remove your pants.\nNow take a big gulp, sit spread eagle on the table and pull his head into wonderland.\nIf this does not work, call me ASAP
891597
Agree with the people above.  Sounds an awful lot to me like a married (or seriously involved) man who is stringing you along for sex on the side.  I know it is painful, but you need to cancel this trip, get over him, and move on.  Time for a clean break.
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First, did he tell you he went? If so and youre still upset, then you might wanna explore WHY this bothers you so much. He came home to you, right? If it's something he enjoys, why not let him go? Either way, have a talk with him and let him know your feelings.\n\nIf he didnt tell you he was going (or went - sometimes this stuff happens on a whim), then I feel you on feeling disrespected since it would appear he was doing something shady.\n\nAt any rate, Id have a talk with him...non-accusatory, respectful, etc...dont get him defensive because youll get nowhere...\n\nGood luck :-)
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If you live 3 states away, daily communication is unreasonable under the best of circumstances. This is probably wearing him down emotionally. I know that I get completely overwhelmed at times, especially by relationship issues, and just shut down. It doesn't mean I don't care; it just means I'm overwhelmed.
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Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
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Unreasonable? "he ll no" \nDo you realize how hard it is to have a real relationship with someone in your own state let alone out of the country? I'm sure you do, but is it worth it to you to go through this struggle with someone that lies to you? You'll always be wondering, and it sounds like he'll always be wandering!
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as long as she's going home with the b.f. what's the problem?\n\ntalk about it when she's sober and decide together how many drinks each will have. \nwho knows, maybe there is an underlaying problem she might discover. he needs to be supportive and not walk away if this is the case.(what comes around goes around)
720704
You should try to win Travis back. You had him first and that bitch Ashley has no right to come on your bus and take him from you. If that doesn't work, I'm sure you can beat the hell out of that hooker. Remember, never act to jealous or you'll end up losing Travis forever- and one more thing. Try to talk to Travis and convince him that Ashley's a ********.
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start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
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If you really love your bf and you are willing to make the effort to make this relationship work, I would suggest that you go on holiday with them.  Get to know him and his little girl and spend time with them, you would be able to see if he is truly the man for you.  I always thought that long distance relationships never work, until I found myself in the same position.  If you feel that you are going crazy and that your loosing your patience, go for a walk on your own and cool down.  You and only you can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy or not.
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he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
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Talk to him about how you feel and about your concerns.  Let him know you want him to be honest about his intentions regarding you both becoming a couple again.  Tell him that you would rather have him be honest - that he needs a place to stay when he gets out, or that he really does want you back.
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Listen my boyfriend is going away 4 college to Texas Tech university, And we live in florida i am having a hard time trying to deal with it. I love him very much and i know we can make it.If u love ur boyfriend have faith u guys can still talk on the phone write cute letters to each other and email. Dont worry he will be back before u kno it. Just think positive.GOOD LUCK!!
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Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
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same thing happned to me! the gus IS a jerk, and you need to dump him. stay away from him for a while and most likely he will come back to you. If not, dont you adre go back to him! atleast, not for a while. If he's embarrassed to say hes with you, he is NOT worth it.