gurl just left b/f,what should i do as she likes me?
952907
she is using you as someone to get her mind off of her break up with her boyfriend. I wouldnt get my hopes up just yeah. whoa....back boy!
645918
Breaking up is hard to do.I say that if /when she comes back to you . Don't give yourself to her so easily or she will try to leave you hanging when she feels like doing her own thing. I would keep a journal when you feel like calling her or see her out and want to talk. Some feelings are wasted on people that don't appreciate them. It takes a long time to get over someone you really care about There really isn't any straight answers. Except you gotta watch out for more than your heart. Remember your self-respect, your pride, and your future. Don't let a bad romance delay you from doing the things that you are interested in. Go on a trip- even if it's a short one. Go to the closest city, get a hotel, see the sights, see a concert -take a buddy - get your mind clear. Don't ever let anyone that hurts you see you when you're vulnerable, even if there's a chance things will work out. She has to earn her way back in to see your true emotions. \nKeep your head up  Stay busy  It will get better no matter what the out come is.
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
329436
Face it and get on with your life. Have some dates even if they are not the perfect ones. You need to put this way in the past.\n\nAt the same time, be happy with yourself. Your new relationships will want an upbeat person and will have little room for the other person that was in your life.\n\nHave fun and remember the bad times you had with her. This is no time for sentimentality. She dumped you hard and on purpose. Good luck to you, my friend.
51993
Relax STUD MUFFIN - Funny how you are excited to talk to her and not the girl you are currently envolved with.  Maybe the things you want to talk to Caramell about, you should talk to your girl about and work out your problems, since you have already established a relationship with her.  \nMaybe you should talk to your girl about your future together and see where that is going before you decide to dump her for a person on the internet!!!
251439
damn this sucks pretty bad . well as you said you never made her any  promises so yes you should move along .since this is going to be painful for her regardless just be really honest with her and tell her why your leaving ...exactly why ...women have a tendency to try and pick things apart too much ...if shes in some sort of denial shes gonna have a hard time understanding why your leaving her  , as long as your really clear she wont have to judge herself too  hard and wonder what she did wrong . and by all means dont let hurting her stand in the way of you being happy ...but no i dont think you necessarily think you shouldve left earlier sometimes we like to hang on too long thinking that magically things are going to falll in place but it rarely happens that way damn im blabbing hahah sorry
901429
You must have seen something good in her for you to have stayed with her as long as you did. Maybe you can acknowledge that she's a good person and that you value the positive part of your past relationship. Then be straightforward, but kind, and say what you said here. She might become emotional and dramatic, but you stay calm, affirm her where you can, but keep it short and then leave. \n\nGood luck!
1071197
If she's leaving the country, what does it matter. And you know maybe you should really try to reignite things with your girlfriend. Try something new in the bedroom, or outside the bedroom.  What I did to get things restarted in my relationship is, you sit across from your partner and for two whole minutes you stare each other in the eyes, no talking or anything. It doesn't matter if you laugh cause that's what i kept doing, but the longer you stare deep into your gf eyes, you'll see what you first saw and fall in love all over again.
369662
Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning.  Flowers, gifts occasionally.  Look at her when she talks with you.  Honesty and respect, concern for her.
506094
be honest and tell her how much you missed her, how much you longed to see her and how you love her that's enough to make a girl happy.\n\nall your Gf want from you is your true love and be truth full to her.\ngood luck.
432070
What you can do is be happy that she is happy in another relationship, and move on. It may hurt, but that is the only choice you have. She is not going to come back to you right now because she is with someone, and unless your personality has changed signifigantly in that time, she will not be interested in you anymore. It sucks. Most people have a long list of people that they had to break up with before finding the one and they all hurt.
379799
Forget it.  You'll get over her.  You won't respect yourself, and she'll never respect you either if you let her walk on you like that.  You don't just casually leave someone.  How would you ever trust her again?   You'd spend your life worried that if you don't jump through her hoops, she'll bail again, and she probably will, too!   \n\nJust tell her, "I'm sorry.  I wish you all the best, but that ship has sailed."  You don't need to humiliate her or rub her nose in it.  Take the high road, which will make her realize all the more that you are a decent guy and she shouldn't have done that.  You can't fix this one, but maybe she'll grow up a little for the next guy.
206979
you have tons of time, just stay friend with her and make a move when they break up!
928121
I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this chick.  She's clearly using you, and you're letting her.  I understand that you guys had fun together and all that, but it's really not a good idea to be with someone who already has a significant other.  Eventually he will find out and it may not turn out good for one or both of you.  I would just go to Germany, relax a bit, go out clubbing or whatever to have fun... but just enjoy your leave.  Don't waste your time with girls who are only gonna drop you.
170514
brake up with her man , its not that hard , you see whats happening here , you said so your self .\ndo you like looking like a fool over some girl that dosent even care for you ?\ncome on now ! you know what you need to do here !\nleave now and spare you pride .\nstay and be an idiot . its you call . witch will you do ?\ni think id leave if i where you !
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
685791
I dont think that its over. I think you want it to be over by giving up so easily. You have to persever babes. Nobody is gonna give you what you want on a silver platter. Shower her with gifts and affection. Give it a month or 3 weeks for the least. If nothing has changed then you should call it quits. By the way the longer you persever this chick will see that you are really into her.