Why do people always look for the "weakest link" in the chain, so they can tear it apart?
954843
It is the only way to break the chain is to look for the weakest link.
1167565
I dont know why, but it's correct.... But when you realize how important and great that sth was, then you just can&#92;t stand the pain.....   \n\nIt is that people are never happy with what they have. They'll always ask for more coz they won't appreciate the beaty of what they have. In this way, we ruin beatuful relationships/friendships/and more, just  because we want sth better......
495322
When it comes to helping people you have to learn to choose your battles. You can't expect to please everyone all of the time. \nAs for people who hate themselves etc.,...it is easier to deal with someone elses problems rather than your own. It is a classic form of denial.
303557
maybe b/c people might see us as weak or unloveable. no one wants to be judged as that.
1041052
Because they are insecure. Do you give them a reason not to trust you? That's where questions usually originate in this fashion.
254759
i hear u 100%-- its like if u cant tell the truth be on ur way- u want the real deal, its like it makes them feel good inside hurting others which means they got issues and someone needs 2 get them in check. i been lied 2 so many times and it suxs. for people who do that i think need 2 grew up and take a look at everything.
1085447
because they think that they're more valuable.....\nthey think that they can do anything that they want...... you have to show um once in a while (but not a mean wayyy)
893214
because some people are narrow-minded
190993
most people over look things that are sometimes the most important things in life because they are just looking for the easy way out (which is NEVER the answer you really want, in the long run)
420889
It's called the bystander effect. Someone always thinks that someone else will do it, so no one ever really does it.
505283
This is a common fault with males and females,why they do it is because they are interested in your life,or they are too possesive for you.\nA lack of trust is the begiining of any arguement,and asking where/what/who,can be taken the wrong way,when it was just an innocent question.
560562
because people are looking for someone else to "complete" them. they dont realize than another person can never do that...you have to be complete in yourself before you pursue a relationship! When people get married and find that they still arent "whole" they think its the other person, when its really them.
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it's just a natural human instict. you look for someone to lash out at because your heart can't understand that you have been betrayed. It's so much easier to attack the person who took your place. \nwhich is bizarre but it happens. Now if the little bi**h KNEW that was my husband and/or was a good friend of mine, she DESERVES an @ss whooping.
564533
hmmm dont know  maybe they think the calander has feelings and everytime they tear a piece off its hurting  lmao i realllly have no clue
848556
i used to think like that, but you know it is so easy to judge when you are on the outside looking in. When you actually are in love with someone, you tend to look past all the bad things and only see what you want to see. It is only when you get in a messed up relationship that you can begin to understand how all these "weak" women become that way. You can only hope that when it is over they will become that much more stronger for going through it. Then your judgment is more openly accepted for having experienced it for yourself
673093
I wish I could give you ten points for even asking this question, you are a true and real genius!!! This is how it always ends up doesn't it?!?! I think that lost people see nice people (people that have found their inner selves) and try to take advantage. Those people try to gain what they need from nice people because they lack this!!They latch on like a parasite, but only if they knew that they have to achieve that task on their own. In other words usually people that pick on nice people, 9 times out of 9 have issues lying within thierselves and unfortunately nice people are bombarded with this destruction!!
1018557
Because people are never happy when they have something good, always looking out for something more exciting, ect... Instead of working on what they have. Good luck.