MEN, Is this what you really mean....?
967836
i think you nailed it.....
366443
Dont believe everything you are told.  If you're speaking from experience, than I would say, it's to make your life interesting and challenging.  Or to put it simply....to keep men always aware and on their toes.  :)
71724
What does that even mean??!!!!!
102025
It means he likes you... I think he was testing the waters to see if you are open to taking the relationship to a deeper level...
1010442
Are you sure he isn't just talking about YOU?
773499
Men aren't the best communicator but they do think alot, and it is very possible that in his mind he is thinking long term, and by saying what he did he wanted you to know how great he thinks you are by letting you know you have the whole package.  You go girl!!
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Ok - I hate to play it off as a "guy" thing but it seems to be as such. We just don't realize when we're doing it. It's not a sexual thing - we just tend to have a hold of "ping and pong" without realizing it.My wife points out all the time that I am doing it - she says I hold them more than she does. I hereby apologize for the entire male population for our actions - ( but actually we'll still do it unknowingly ) - - - just from an honest guy standpoint
164309
...no problemo he's not your wife, aren't you? what does the guy means for you?
366250
it'a not good when you do that to men, because you come across the wrong way. You can't do that, all your doing it leading them one and that not right!!! Ask yourself if you would like that if a guy did that to you??
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
1062268
oh please, this is a man talking more crap...does it mean you'll be together forever, no of course not, it doesn't mean that he doesn't have good intentions at the time he's saying it but you can't possibly be this naive?? can you? there is no way to ensure that you won't be hurt in any relationship, you just have to have confidence that you can handle it, if you don't your insecurities will definitely drive the relationship right into a deep ditch. its likely that is where you are headed if you are obsessing to this extent over something he said....what was the situation when he said it  (you weren't by any chance having sex were you?) i think you need to focus on finding some inner strength in yourself and a life of your own, a relationship should be a pleasant addition to the life you are building...not the entire thing, you will always lose if thats what you are doing. never invest more than you have to lose. if you get your life together and are able to support yourself and develop some confidence in yourself then you will know that you'll be ok whether he actually stays around or not.
209088
You want more out of this relationship than he does and he's already getting from you want he wants. Do you understand?
485490
Could it mean touching yourself?. For guys.
177781
What do you mean?????
119743
Honestly, guys don't plan this... they just have a different level of thinking about what is important.\n\nI'm not saying your concerns aren't important to your man, but his thoughts and logic are somewhere else unconnected to these issues.
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*Do guys really get attached in a simple and non outspoken girl?\n\nHmm, I'd have to say I would. But... I can't speak for all men. It's a matter of an individuals opinion.
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men are simple just ask. you think too much about it and that will just confuse us...were not that bright.