there is a nice girl in the office i work.i think i ve fallen in love with her.how can i tell her.?
970230
just start talking to her you will know soon enough if she is single or not start there just be honest with her, but dont come on too strong
612784
Just keep telling her that you love her, show her that you are attracted to her.  Women are very self-critical.
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
37944
Do NOT let her know that you are alone and still waiting for her.  You can get in touch with her and catch up, and invite her here and there once in a while, but play it cool.  Wait for her to show genuine interest in who you are and what you're about these days.  \nDO NOT lay it on thick.  Be as nonchalant as you can.  Don't play the jealousy card, either, trying to talk about this or that love interest.  There's just you, your life, your job, whatever else it is that you do, and YOUR genuine interest in HER - not romantic, but on the whole.\nGot it?
291509
If you really like this girl then you should let her know. I think you should try the relationship, the trick is to just keep your relationship and your job seperate, while at work your relationship is not open for discussion, maintain a professional attitude in the work place, and don't allow your relationship to come into play. Also make sure she has the same attitude, and when work hours are over everything should work out just how you want it to. Look at Beyonce and Jay-Z, they both just keep their mouth shut, that way no matter what rumors are going around at work no one will ever really know what is trully going on.
338563
First of all DO NOT quit your job over himIT sounds like you really like him. So keep him happy make him want to be with you. Don't let him do what ever he wants thougb, this could tell him that you think its aright to look at other girls and stuff.
692442
Shower her with love and affection. Call her whenever you think of her. This will be the obvious sign that you are definitely into her. And the dead give away - call at the oddest of times and if she asks you why, tell her that you just wanted to hear her voice. :)
149405
OK, Andy, first off, the next time she calls you Andy say thanks for the compliment but my name is Ryan.  Then compliment her about whatever it is that caught your eye about her.  Ask her if you can walk her to Science......keep your spirits high and don't be afraid to speak.  You will never know unless you SPEAK MORE THAN ONE WORD AT A TIME!!!
470000
assume she's just being nice, but compliment her and let her know she is important to you. even if it is just "nice" now, it may grow into something if you show her respect.
212915
If you poor out your heart now you will find yourself going crazy trying to explain MORE feelings for her in the future.\nYour best bet is to let your feelings be known but tread softly you don't want to come of as a freak.
664891
I can honestly say that I have done several things and am always trying to come up with more to keep things exciting and interesting. Cooked dinner when she is tired from a hard day at work even if I had a hard too. Came home during lunch one time while she was at work and left rose petals on the bed and little love notes from the door leading to the bed. Just grabbed a hold of her and kissed her passionately when she did not expect it. Read poetry to her while a warm fire was going. I have called her at work to just say hi and to let her know I'm thinking of her. I have sent her romantic e-cards just because. No special occasion needed. As I am currently deployed to Iraq, I also take time to write letters. Email is convenient, but a hand written letter is so much more personal. I have also copied down songs to her to help me relay how I feel about her when words escape me. I order flowers online and have them delivered to her at work. Give her words of encouragement, support and appreciation for all that she does. I compliment her on her looks when I get a picture from her or she tells me of a new outfit she got as I picture her in my mind in her outfit. I ask her how she has been doing, how she is feeling, for her thoughts and concerns. There are so many things one can do. Just takes a heartfelt thought, some imagination and love.
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First get a grip of yourself.\n\nSecond, if u do feel so strongly about her, go ahead tell her. what's the worst that could happen- she could like you said 'reject' you- then you do what you are doing right now- love her from a distance and keep trying to win her over. \n\nThird, point to consider. Maybe since you quit college, she thinks you are a loser. Don't prove her right by messing up your job situation. You are trying to win her over not shoo her away by proving to her that you are not worthy of her love.\n\nGood luck!
464531
Honestly gently and sensitively from your heart tell her your feelings towards her openly beauty often comes from within we all too often emphasize the outward appearance we all have have unique qualitiestell her you love her and see what her answer is then you will know what to do
434599
Talk to her. You may realize that she is open to it.
887629
How well do you know her? If she is a long time friend then love is possible. If you have just met her it is only infatuation and you dont know her well enough to love her. \n\nWhichever it is, start by asking her out on a date and work toward girlfriendom. If you just come out and say you love her before you WOO her - she might think your looney. You love her - take the TIME to spend time with her and SHOW her that you care and want to make her happy. You can tell her later when you both feel that way and you will know when that time is when you get there. Then it will be perfect. \np.s. If she wont go out with you after several offers, then it doesnt matter how you feel - she isnt interested. Dont become a stalker - leave her be and look elsewhere.
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if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
926195
awwww thats sweet. call her and explain things to her. of that was me. i would be flattered. jsut tell her,\n\nGood luck.