Kick him to another homeless shelter or take him in????
958810
You've already answered your question.  It's in your "question"/statement.  He made your life a living hell for four years... why should you even consider letting him do that to you again.  This guy obviously needs serious mental help and you're not qualified to help.  Change your phone number so he can't text you anymore and get on with your life.  You should feel no guilt.  You tried for way too long to help this loser and he used you.  Forget about this bum and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
562556
Drop him now! Report him to the authorities. There is *NO* justification for violence, if you don't kick him away now you will regret this for the rest of your life.\n\nI can't overstate this: THROW HIM AWAY LIKE GARBAGE. NOW!
487892
Since you call it an apartment he has become a tenant and you will have to follow legal eviction procedures to get him out.  Any of the self-help solutions others have suggested will just get you and your homeowners policy sued.  (Think what the rates will be if they have you listed as single family home and in fact you have an apartment and a tenant!)  Also I don't know your building codes but I will bet your apartment is illegal and not built with permits, because you said you have one hvac unit for both residences.  You opened a can of worms when you rented this out.  (For whatever the rent was supposed to be) and he will have access to legal aid in Los Angeles for sure.  Good luck be more careful in future to follow the law.
196959
Put him out with the trash
211901
No.  The state should have went after him once you became a ward.  The $ would be owed to the state but not to you.  Sorry for your situation but it may be best to move on.  He's not entitled to any part of your life now that you are emancipated.  If you don't want him around then get a restraining order.
366492
kick him in the nuts about 4 times and then tell him to do it right!  If that dosent work then leave him!
848553
You couldn't feel any worse than you already do or you wouldn't be writing to us. Boot him out on his ears, he is just bidding his time, he could get a place if he really wanted to. Quit letting him bull-sh*t his way out of it and give him 1 week to find a place. Then if you feel bad, write to us again and we'll be here for ya!!!
121923
If he's going to allow you to move into a dirty house, he's probably a slum landlord and is very cheap.  I doubt if you'll get any money out of him and he may not keep up on the repairs....
1131571
Go for it!\n\nOr even better, sell his stuff to pay the rent!
208946
Trade with someone else? Donate it to a homeless shelter?
336375
Are you sure that your family views it as a burden?  Being homeless is not a good prospect, and I'm sure they wouldn't want that for you.  You would be placing a burden on them by making them worry that you might be killed or raped in the shelter.  If my son were grown and in dire straits (for whatever reason), I would want him to feel that he could always come home.  Talk to your parents about how you feel.  You're an adult, and that's what adults do.
402753
report abuse and get him kicked off...it's anonymous
311194
Sure the hell is .do you have a court order? let his P.O know if he is not living up to it get help from family services ,he should be getting"hits"which should sent his ass to jail or prison which is where he belongs if he wouldn't take care of his kids.
652812
go, far far away, even if you have to stay in a homeless shelter, it is better than an unfaithful violent man. You will stop having as many outbreaks when you stop the exposure and the stress. Your heart will heal better away from him as well. Best of luck to you.
846741
kick him in the nuts so he will stay put while you go call the police
889049
Honey, there are shelters.\nIt is not okay for you to stay there.  He knows that you will stay and he will keep on doing it.\nDepartment of Human Services will help you too.\nHe will keep cheating as long as you stay there.
794580
Sure, why not. Giving a homeless person a job takes some reliability off the state/federal government! Hire two!