please read... should i make the 1st move? help!!?
964023
You shouldn't wait another second to tell him about it. Know is the time and you should tell him exactly how you feel, cause you brother want care and will make sure he dosen't cheat on you are mess over you. S o your brother can look out for you.
784318
you could wait a little longer and see if he makes a move or just be outright honest with him and tell him that you like him and see how it goes from there...maybe even see if he wants to go to the movies or something like that
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
38223
Make the first move, its always worked for me. Talk to them. Let them know you are interested, because sometimes the other person could be shy or something. Another way is putting your panties in their pocket...um, that works also
183259
You make the move yourself. If he's that shy it probably won't happen otherwise. But don't worry, if he's interested He'll be completely thrilled and you both will be happy. Then he'll have plenty of time to grow more comfortable and become less shy around you.  On the other hand, if he's not interested and he rejects you, he'll still be flattered and he'll be too shy to say anything that would make you feel bad. So it's a win win if you think about it. ;)
556048
i say drop him. either hes into to you, or hes not. but you shouldnt have to wait around for him. play hard to get girlll!. once he realizes other guys are a threat he'll make the move =]
717539
Just call him and ask if he'd like to grab a cup of coffee or something. You don't always have to wait for the guy to make the first move. A lot of guys like it when the girl makes a  move first. He is probably sitting at home and thinking the same thing. Besides, the  worst that could happen is he might say no. Although I have to say, if he exchanged phone numbers with you in the first place, its more than likely that he'll say yes. Call him! And if he does say no, then fuck it! There was life before him, there'll be life after him.\n\nOh and by the way, notice how almost ALL of the guys here said to call him? That might be a clue. Good Luck! :)
326829
Well, you can always wait around until some other chik comes and takes him, then you can wonder: "what if I did make the first move" for the rest of your life, or you can shoot! I would deff. say go for it. Good luck!\n\nGarrett
453773
Because he is shy and u are waiting for HIM to make the move.  Thank goodness we live in 2006 and IT IS OK for u to make the first move!  He may be worried that you will slap him, or not want to kiss him back.  So if I were you just jump right in there and lay a lip lock on him that he will never forget!!!!!
650666
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
348218
i've had my share of moments like this.  Just pretend it never happened and see how he acts.  if he is intrested, he WILL make a move.  If he is NOT, then he won't.  but if it was me, i would just pretend like nothing happened, and see how he acts.
337246
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
979545
you already told her you like her, so now it's her turn to make a move. stay casual with her and act cool.patience is a virtue! good luck buddy!
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
646794
We'll if he's acting the same way he did when you 2 first met, then you should know he's interested. You'll probably have to make the first move again lol
541346
Do you like her back? If you like her, go ahead and make the first move yourself. Good luck!