my x's friend asked me out! hes hott and nice-what should i say?
925266
yes, why not!\nespecially if you do not care about your friend!!!`
83122
Assuming you want to go to the dance with him but also let him know that you're only going as friends, say yes, and then add something like: "I love how we're such good friends that we can go to the dance together without it being weird.  With other guys I would feel so worried about how I look or if he really likes me."  See how he responds, and try to figure it out from there.  Try to convey to him that you really like him as a friend, and that you're not looking for anything more from him.  Good luck!
1085106
Dear...Just ask him flat out...Will you go out with me...If he says yes then awesome ...If he says no then move on and you two can be at least friends.....Remember the most important question is the one not asked...Good Luck!!!!
516920
Very very subtley......tell him that you would go out with him if her were interested in going out with you.\nSet parameters also.....hey, if this doesnt work out, lets make sure that we are still friends....you know what I mean.\nJust try to drop a subtle hint at it, and see if anything happens.  Or, just go for it and tell him that you have feelings for him.\nSometimes the BEST relationships are the ones where you start as "friends first"  :)\nGood luck darlin!
185085
well. u can't really make assumptions based on how nice he is to you. he HAS to be nice since he's your coworker. and alsol being friends might be plenty good enough for him. but, perhaps you are right, let him make the first move. be nice, but don't overdo it.
350620
well just be  upfront with him  let him know that  u think  hes cute and that u would like to  go out with him and  then go from there maybe he likes u to but  is afraid  to ask as well  so  just be yourself adn ask  him  out yourself
955034
say something like" so wat do u think about me?"trust me that is wat got me hooked up on the guy i like now
60649
well if u like him, go 4 it!!! since u say he's so nice, wat is there 4 u 2 worry about?? the worst that can happen is that he says something like "i dont kno u". just walk rite up 2 him and introduce urself! if u think that's "not ur thing", then go 2 one of his basketball games or something, then after the game, tell him what a great player he is!! that would be ur chance 2 introduce urself!!! u say he's perfect 4 u. well, if thats true, u have 2 c wat happens. but make the move first, especially if he doesnt know u!!!! id love 2 hear how it goes, u can email me if u want. i kno exactly how u feel, cuz the advice i just told u is wat i did, and now i have a great boyfriend who seems like the rite 1 4 me, just like urs. so go 4 it!!!! u never know wat'll happen 'til u try!!! good luck!
351929
i would just say to ask him out....if he says no, then oh well, but if he says yes...well, he says yes! or maybe he'll say maybe and ask you the next day like my boyfriend did!
579540
my personal opinion is that he likes you. but take it slow. if you still want to be his friend in the long run i say go for he sounds cool and ask him out dont wait from person experins if you wait he will move on. so go fo rthe gold and tell me how it goes
268399
Just be friendly and honest. Also, I like to be spontaneous, like I never saw it coming, in other words, surprise him  Good Luck!!!
868438
Tell the person that asked you out that you are taken!
888475
Be humble, truthful and state it just the way you did here:Tell him you think he's funny, intelligent, etc. Ask him if he'd like to go somewhere or do something after rehearsal!  Signed, shy guy.
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
820418
ask your frend do go up to him and casually say.. what would you say if (your name) asked you out?\n\nThen she can tell u his answer, if he says yes go for it and u no u wont be rejected\n\nIf he says no, to save ur embarresment, the girl can say.. mm i am just joking by the way
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
58682
Well... from past experiences... I wouldnt jus come out and tell him you like him.. u dont wanna seem desperate... Always remember playing hard to get always works well... A slight smile.... flip of the hair... or cute blink may help... be friendly and a lil flirtacious... but dont go overboard... I know how you feel... Good luck girl