How do i tell her her boyfriend is cheating?
928204
Very proud of people like you! If i were that girl i would be so happy for someone to let me know before i ruin my life even more. there needs to be more people like you. I would for sure get the message to her asap. But do it without him knowing of course, because your going to want to keep your job. You need to make a new email address and make a new name and everything nothing that has to do with who you are. And find out her email address. Use this "fake" email to send to her letting her know what is going on, and explain how you know for sure what he is doing. Dont give out that you work with him and that hes your boss, that too much information. Just tell her what you know about him cheating. And see what she does. Thats all you really can do. Send this email at home not at work. And dont give your real name, use the one you use at for your fake email. And just use that email for typing her that message and only for her. You dont want to send anyone any emails besides her, or someone will figure out its you. After wait for a week to see if she responds to you, if not write her once again, this time just asking her if she got the email and to write back letting you know if she got it or not so you will stop writting her. After she writes you back, thats all you can do, its up to her to make her descion you did all you can do. Than just delete everything and earse that email, and never use it again.
297701
you should tell her that her bf is not right for her if is treating her like sh@$. She needs to see that he is not right for her and that she need to get away from that relationship she is in now and move on to something that is better for her
861723
straight out with it, tell her what you think and feel, just tell her to leave her boyfriend, straight up with it, its better to know early than just waste your time.
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
128669
have a long talk with her.  i was going to say spy on her, but then if she catches you that proves that you dont trust her.  you have to trust your girlfriend.  talk to her first.  if you won't talk to her, and you have a very strong feeling she really is cheating on you, then prepare yourself for the truth.
449530
say her ex-boyfriends name
178820
I would tell my mom - in private and let her know that this situationa was hard for you to decide what to do -because you would like to give her boyfriend the benefit of the doubt ( maybe it was a girl from his job that stole his number from work - A guy who liked me had done this to me and I almost got in trouble with my boyfriend at the time-but luckily the guy apologized and said he did not know I wasn't single!!!) So anything is possible -since they have been together for 8 years that says alot -unless he has had suspicious behavior before or she has caught him cheating before. Just tell your mom you felt that she should know and that she should talk to him to get the truth out could be he's innocent (like my situation) or could be another story.\nGood luck \nhopefully for your mom's sake it was just a harmless crush from a co-worker
322838
tellher you are not trying to hurt he r but you now something that can harm her relationship with her boyfriend
302381
You may just have to make her angry.  There's no easy way to tell someone to leave you alone.  Just let her know gently, that the two of you have nothing special.  It was just one night and she has a boyfriend.  It's not fair to her boyfriend and it's not fair to you.  Let her know you two aren't right for each other.  Hopefully, she'll get the hint.  You could even be honest and tell her you're just not ready for a commitment right now, and it would be better if the two of you kept some distance.  She may be heartbroken, but I don't think she'll be angry.  If she does something nuts like breaks up with her boyfriend over you, or hurts herself or something.... you might just have to piss her off and tell her she's lost it.
275348
It sounds like you want to test her.  Try this:\n\nuse a freinds car and park across the street from her work.  Call a flower shop, and have them send her a dozen roses, with a card that sais " from you know who ", or something just as obtuse.  when the flower guy delivers the flowers to her job, call her before she has a chance to use her phone\n   If she brings up the flowers, then you can admit they are from you, and you know she is not cheating on you, and you look like a prince for being so romantic.\n   If she didnt mention the flowers, You know she didnt have time to call her boyfriend, and ask if HE sent them. Then you know she is cheating on you, and you never had to ask, she never had to lie, and it only cost you about fourty bucks instead of a soap opera of deception.\n\nGood luck.
1001661
SIt her down and talk to her. Let her know that you didn't try to talk to her ex. make her belive. tell her you would never be that low-down of a person.Tell her you can tell that has caused her to distrust you but you really don't want to get with her boyfriend and explain that you would never hurt her
639339
find out if she has a boyfriend or not which shouldn't be that hard. then, just tell her. belive me from experience, it has worked. dont hold back.
581177
If your friend doesn't know that you and your boyfriend are an item, then she is doing nothing wrong.  You need to tell her because if she thinks she has a chance with him and she doesn't she runs the risk of getting hurt.
582857
This is coming from someone who has been around the block a time or two. Do not tell you girlfriend. She will find out on her own. Mind your own business and let her work it out for herself. Be there to comfort her and listen to her when and if she chooses to let you know what is going on, but by no means should you advise her what to do, or let her know it is happening. Women have a "gut" feeling about those things, and if it is something she can not work out with her boyfriend, then she is put into an embarrassing position of knowing that you know about it. Keep it to yourself. Keep her confidence and do not discuss it. It is by far the kindest thing you could do for her.  I lost my best girlfriend that way, and I thought I was being loving and kind toward her.
306421
If you don't feel special around him anymore it may be time to go. First talk to your friend - you're right if she's your friend she should tell you what she's hiding. She's gone to far to not tell you as she brought it up to start with.\nRemember though a little bit of flirtings not the end of the world, as long as thats all.\nIn short get your friend to tell you, or tell her you can't trust her anymore, then confront your boyfriend about what really has happened. Then make your choice. ............
1143736
all you have to do is tell her you haven't cheated if she don't believe you ask her why she believing other people and not you is she guilty she just don't know a good man when she got one DUMP HER
655129
Maybe you did them a favor...  I don't know what the "information" was, but say you knew he cheated on her, or lied to her.  You telling her may have been the best thing!  Don't be so hard on yourself.