i dont think people like me ????
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Forget fairy tales. It is a large world full of beautiful woman. If all woman judged men by looks alone most of us would not have partners. I am sure you have much more to offer than just looks. The partner you want is someone who will accept you just the way you are. Don't worry if you can satisfy her or not. Just love her with what you have. The woman that is right for you will love you just the way you are.
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Ok however you see yourself that is exactly what everyone else will see. You think that you are a dork then you are a dork it's up to you how you want people to see you. If you need to make some changes don't be afraid of self improvement it is only to better yourself you don't have to change your morals or standard think how you want to be recieved by people then and take a look at your best qualities about yourself and use them listen to or read a lot of self help books because their are people just like you had the same problems and now they are either popular or they are movie stars you name it people change what they feel they don't like about themselves usually they start with negativity stop being hard on yourself and give your own self a chance! Start beleiving in yourself and start with a positive mind don't hang out with people that don't except you and always have something negative to say about you or treat you not so nice the real friends will come eventually
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You can't MAKE anyone like you.\n\nJust be yourself and find somebody who appreciates that.
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Yes, I'd say you are shy and lack self-confidence.  I know what you mean because I tend to be this way too.  People often think you are unfriendly, when you really are just shy.  At least try to give a shy smile, to let them know you are friendly!  ;)\n\nSomething which has helped me is to make a switch in my mind from myself to the other person/people.  Do not focus on yourself but on them.  Have you ever thought about what you think in your own mind when you encounter other people?\nSome people think, "What can I get from this person?"  Some think, "What does this other person think of me?"  Or any other various things, but we always are thinking something.  What is helpful is to think, "What can I do for this other person?"  Think "What can I do for you?"\n\nI make this switch quickly and easily by simply saying to myself, "You, not me."\n\nYou will be amazed how well this can work, because then you are not self-conscious.
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It is not that people are turned of toward you because of your sensitive, it is mostly their fear of hurting you by saying the wrong thing.. The thing I see in over sensitive people is that they have a hard time to see something special about themself and to like themself, because have to like yourself before anyone else can.. A little advice for what it is worth, when you wake up in the morning take a long look at yoursefl in a mirrow, take a few deep breaths and say I am and good person and for today I will like myself and no matter what someone might do or say I will still like myself..
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I feel you pal! But not everybody hates you. It just seems like that. Look around you, there are certain to be other kids who also feel they are hated. Make friends with them. Rejects never reject rejects. I say this as a former high school reject...
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'Everybody' does not hate you.  I am sorry if you are going through a time when it feels as though you are not appreciated or supported, not having fun, feeling left out...\n\nMaybe changing your circle of friends might help? Finding a new hobby or interest?\n\nDon't fall into the trap of believing that every person you meet hates you.  Give them a chance to see the real you and also, when you feel a bit more confident, show interest in others - people tend to like that, if you are being genuine :-)\n\nI do hope you have someone you trust that you can talk to about this.
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no, youre not weird for such reasons. Just continue to be yourself. You dont have to measure up to anyones standards. Its simply a blessing to have the friends that you have and if  people of your own race make you feel uncomfortable about your personality, pray for them, kill'm with kindness, theyre just ignoramasses anyway. Betcha they'd need you for something b4 youd need them
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i dont think u should be. who cares if people make fun of u? and if they dont like u for what u look like then screew them! and they cant just judge people like that. ppl can be so mean!
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There is probably nothing wrong with you. How old are you anyway??? Maybe you need to be a little more open, but just being yourself and trying to be nice and friendly to people, might help...
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You may have to choose whether to be a real person or continue to "fake it to impress."  If these people don't like the real you, then they aren't really friends anyway.  I know you know that already which is the reason for the " " marks.  In my own life, I have found that having a few really good best friends is much more valuable than having some "friends" who don't value the real me. You deserve to be respected and liked for yourself, not for what someone else wants you to be.
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Dont change any thing about your self, Fake people are the worst. Are you in School? If so things get dif. when you get out of it. Just try and keep the friends you got, and get involved in activites (not in school ones).
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Your situation is just like mine ..thats why i always think that those who are descent or qite get the most criticizm ..today was a really bad day and it bothered me really badly when i heard hat girl talking crap loudly about me ..i just carry on and go to talk to those who are good or nice because theres got to be somebody who's nice even so if they are two faced noobody is perfect jake...always try to have a good time and dont care about such situations coz you will be finding yourself loosing alot of time thinking about those who buggs you off ...just be you and dont get too much offended by people and those who dont like it ..Screw Them !!!\n\n\n\nhope i helped
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How can you be sure that they don't like you if you are really shy?  You have to try to be happy with yourself - find things you enjoy and show people and yourself that you are enjoying your life and they will want to join in too.  \n\nIt's hard to get over being shy, but it will come in time.  You are a beautiful person, please remember that.
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No\n\nBecause if people don't like me for being me than they don't need to be around be.*\n\nAlways be yourself.
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You have to learn to accept the fact that it takes all kinds of people to make a world.Even people like you.Not everyone will like you,just as you don't like everyone.Learn to accept you uniqueness,and revel in it.You are a part of this world and you have a place in it as well as anyone else.Keep your place!!!!! It doesn't matter what others are thinking,they have brains too.Do you think they care what you are thinking about them?......NO!!!! So don't waste brain energy on what they think either.
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it is not true that no one likes you, as u say you feel more confident when your friends are around.  i quess that makes you like able because u have friends.  perhaps you feel uncomfortable on your own  i presume u are young because u go  to school.  just going to school can be distressful and your age is stressful because you are just learning about yourself.  being free and happy comes with a price, and the price is self confidence.  learn to like yourself, and understand your limitations, and that u are a important person.  learn also to accept some of the things u don't like about yourself, and if possible work on these things u don't like about yourself  being more content and self confident in yourself will make u feel more free and happy.  u may see a lot of things u don't like about yourself, and feel, that the guys are not interested in you, because they can see these negative things about you.  that might not be true, it sounds like your must feel negative about yourself, and it may show in your interactions.  don't be too hard on yourself, nobody is perfect.  if u feel more confident about yourself, and have a sense of humor, that may attract more boysl   \ngood luck, hope this helps, and take care of yourself, a new hairdo or a consultation with a beautician can go a long ways