I met this guy but What should I do?
920505
No honey do not ask him out for coffee.  Start up a friendship.  You definitely need a more clear cut sign to his being gay or not.  He could just be friendly so keep it casual.  Anything else could sabotage it before it starts.  Keep your head over your emotions, you must protect yourself.  You innocently could have scoped out the most homo phobic guy in school.  Learn chin ups.  Ask around about him, very cautiously.  Be careful.
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
13327
Maybe you should give tiny hints and get to know him a little better and get comfortable around him so that you don't lose your breath. I've been in that situation many times.
575971
it's just been two meetings. I'd suggest you take it slow, but meet him more often if possible & see how it goes.
401066
if he seems not to want to take it further, why would you want to get to know him? Find someone else worth getting to know :)
478778
You need to meet this guy and see if he's really what you think he is!\nIf this is an internet friend, remember to be safe- meet him somewhere public, like a restaurant or coffee shop, and have a friend with you!
884683
Pursue him in a good demeanor. Try to contact him and get the sparks going. He may be married. Do you know for sure? Do all that you can, but be subtle about it. Good luck.....SAM
468743
If he was that interested, he'd make the time for you and put some effort into getting to know you. Don't chase the guy, let him chase you, or else you might come off as desperate or clingy.
720927
Just BE friends and then drop it into conversation that you are seeing someone else. He will either remain afriend, ask you back, or you won't see him for dust!
274564
I think U should give him a second chance,Because some times there is good guys-like me,lol-Who get confused in the begin' of relations or in knowin' new friends.he may be was gettin' his life in a special way that He had to work it in another way after he knew U.from wt U said I think he is startin' to plan his life the way that suits U.\nI think that he is a good Guy & he really want to be with U now after gatherin' him self up\nSo,GOOD LUCK\n:)
115789
hey, I just got that book out of the library! I'll be reading it soon and I really hope that it gives some answers about those strange beings... men.\n\nWhat should you do? Don't appear to be needy. Tell him about all the fun you've been having since you last saw him. You don't want to be seen moping around the house pining for this guy.\n\nDoes he like you? Maybe. Don't get to worked up over this guy.
169074
Given the choice I always say be flattered, it makes life so much more enjoyable.  If you want to find out for sure then take time to make sure he knows your name and give him an oportunity to talk to you a little bit.  It never hurts to give it a chance and find out if there is potential, especially if your atracted to the guy.
345360
Then you should give each other time to cool and at the same time think about this guy whether is he worth you liking him.He doesn't seemed to appreciate it.Just give yourself some time and him too.
1026914
Talk to him some more, get to know him...\nIt takes a few dates to really know if you like someone...
766396
the real question is... what are you doing with a guy like that? find a guy that would respect you. I'm sure there's alot out there.
890565
go for it. \nTell him how you feel\nor else you will just keep yourself wondering "what if you did anything different"
520369
If he's still meeting up with you, he already does like you!\n\nYour real problem is that he probably won't take you seriously.  Tell him how you feel, but be prepared for him to not be ready to put his heart on the line right away.  You'll have to show him over time exactly how serious you are & see if he comes around.\n\nUnfortunately, having been 'trained' for so long to not expect more, he may have decided that the alternative was more fun for him, anyway...\n\nGood luck.