How can I forget my first ever love?
930511
Whatever it is, just get a life for yourself and lead a better future! Everyone had been through this stage and see how far we've got! Don't be too upset, it's definitely part & parcel of a growing up stage. Once it's over, you'll get to be tougher and learn to be stronger. Well, all I can say is she's tired of being with you for a total of 4yrs and she's seeking for another lover who can or maybe excite her in different ways. Don't think so much and trust me, you'll SURE get over her. And you'd probably know how great & amazing it is when you finally get her off your mind. Your heart doesn't hurt anymore and you slowly forget the images of her! Ok, what I can suggest to you is do alot of excercises, read books that makes you doze off and try to occupy your time fully, that helps to waste off your energy and makes you tired so you can sleep soundly without having to miss her in the night! Lastly, it all depends on you, if you want to forget her, you must make sure you can do it. It's always mind over body, don't forget that!!! If you've a weak mind, then I can't help much! Ultimately, you shd know what you want!
945351
keep your head up.that's what happens when u lose your first love.but don't worry,it will be hard to get over her but you Are capable of finding someone Better.Trust me.the world hasn't ended Brother.Keep you head up.and don't call or contact her EVER!.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!
80435
hey, lemmie break it to you gently....people rarely or never get over their first loves....it always has a nice feeling to remember that time and why should you forget it, we should treasure good old memories....as long as those memories dont get in the way of your marriage dear keep them....... i still remember my first love like it was yesterday, its unfortunate though that many people dont get to marry their first loves probably due to age, finances or other reasons but i woudnt want to forget that coz my past made what i am.....
1079112
Start from the beginning from when you first started dating. Go back to the place you met. Revisit old past times together. Start doing the things you used to do before your life became busy. \n\nDon't forget to look back and find out what that person really means to you. Spice things up a little, do something that you would not ordinarily do. You may have become to predictable with your day in and day out routine. Do some new things.\n\nPray about it as well. It'll work, you have nothing to worry about.
498154
there is no easy way to forget someone you allowed into your heart, where others seldom go. and if you trully loved him, then you have to except that he will always have a place in your heart. it is never easy to forget someone. \nbut the one thing you can do is to think about who you are. \nit is time that you started belonging to yourself and not to the past. boost your ego by going out with the girls and flirting with fit men. (that tends to work for me) as long as you don't make the mistake of going home with them on the first night.\nhope that helps:)
374784
dont remember when the first time\nbut I see His love in all His blessings everywhere, and try to remember Him all the time
376550
Krissy, a first love is special and memorable. Very few people marry their first love, but most remember it fondly. It always hurts when love fails, and often affects how you approach your future relationships. Time, as fireman said, should heal the hurt. Eventually you will fall in love again, and the experience of your first love will enhance your new love. Take it slow... the feelings, the care, the romance, the new beginnings... it will all come back.
830339
Must be your first love? It's going to happen more in your life so get used to it. Everything passes in time.>
598719
Your first love you won't get over for years, you will have to fall in love like a couple of more times and go through some s***.  Then you will still wonder about that person from time to time.  It is all a process just take it one day at a time. it will be a long road, and don't take him back he will treat you worst, I am sorry that you had to give your virginity away to someone who couldn't appreciate it but that is what happens when we don't wait until marriage.  See our parents was right about something, my first was a disaster to.  I wouldn't take it back though I have learned a lot from it.  Just make sure the next guy is worth it or you are in control.  To get over him just think about how much he took you for granted and just treated you like a piece of crap.  You can never get your virginity back, no matter how long you go with out sex and never do it again.  So think about that, and get over it sweetie,  he is not worth the space in your head.
562796
keep being a good gurl and save your first time for someone very special.  otherwise you will probably regret it.
99668
first love remains for ever, its impossible 2 forget it, it will stay inside ur that beautiful head of urs, u would compare every relationship with that very first love.. thinking abt that, its like a sweet, yet bitter wound that is unforgetable & will always remind u of that incident which caused u that wound
614010
my first love died when i was 14. i loved her with all my heart. i think about her every day. it has ruined all other relationships i've tried to have with people. i wish she could be with me now.
767512
I have been broken up with my boyfirend for 9 years and i still miss him. If this was your first love you will never get over it. You never get over your first love.
654748
it's normal not to forget about your first love.. no one does.... but your ex knows the past you and who you were in high school.. but your husband knows to present you and will stick with you in the future... let the past stay behind and enjoy the future
397628
Find som1 else. It will help you forget. Be open and dont shut others from you. If you dont let any1 in, and cling to her memories, you will never be able to move on. If she does not love u, dont waste your time thinking of her, find somelse who recognises your worth. You will be a lot happier. Its not empty talks, its experience talking. I missed out 3 years of my life clinging to memories
824658
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
133295
I went through the same thing as you...same age too!!! I dated him for 2 years and at 14 I thought he was the one I was going to marry, the highschool came and we went our seperate ways...I'll admit it was hard seeing him with other girls and I'm 21 now and I still think back and smile about our times together...first loves are never forgotten no matter how much you try to forget...enjoy the good memories and use the things you learned from the relationship and put it to good use in a new one...you will grow and your ideals of a boyfriend will change as you grow and discover more about yourself...take your time and enjoy your youth...it's over faster then you'd like it to be and there are so many other people to share your love with...use a past relationship as a learning tool....apply it to a new one and have fun!!! I hope this helped...