Briefly explain the difference between loving a problem and being resigned to a problem?
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To love a problem is to hold it, love it, study it as it is, until the solution comes as if on it's own accord.  To be resigned to a problem is to accept it as it is, and not expect a solution or change, to give up.
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I too am in love and struggle with this same question. I can offer my solution. Use both. Enjoy the endorphine rush of the feeling of love ( which is the heart so to speak.) But realize why you ask the question. There is obviously a reason for your aprehension of completely letting go. Use your brain and decide to what degree you should allow your heart to pilot your emotions then deal with this person as so you conclude. Do not sell yourself short. Could the problem be one that you should resolve within yourself or is there an actual problem?
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Lust is selfish and love is selfless. If you can't tell the difference, then it's lust. You'll know when you are being loved.\n\nQuote:\nLove is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
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Well, it would be much easier if you gave a reason.\n\nWithout a reason, I suggest you do not quit.\n\nSo, NO.
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be nice and be yourself. If those two things conflict you have problems.
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If you are not willing to make any changes or leave the relationship, you have to accept what you have always accepted. When you are tired of accepting it and it continues, you will find that familiarity does not make a relationship (in other words, not wanting to leave because you've already stayed five years is not reasonable).
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Being nice is harder if I genuinely don't want to be.\n\nI have a bumpersticker.\n\n"Recovering Biatch, I try to be nice one day at a time."\n\nPeace.
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never settle. i did and all it did was cause more problems for me. i have found someone that makes me happy, it is a change for me because i was never happy before. to settle hurts you more than to keep an open mind. you never know who the right one could be.
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Yeah, life is easier after "the fact". Less tension. Less expectations. The guy wants to move on, or at least take a breather. Plus, a good *** ing is tiring.
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Any time there is a controversy in a sexual relationship, it is normal to think that one or both partners need help. The fact of the matter is that most of the times, disagreements are not serious when you disagree of what type of sexual method you would want to practice, or where, or if you would want to experience situations perceived as out-of-the-ordinary...The issue that stir problems is almost always the quantity of sex between the partners. When one partner does not show as much willingness and desire to "do it", the inevitable rejection issues arise, the misunderstanding, the lack of communication, the feeling sorry for one self, etc. I believe two good partners are those who share the same sexual drive and/or are both willing to experience new things together. There is nothing wrong with being a nympho. Nothing wrong with being a prude or having minimal sexual drive. The clue is to find a match that can correspond with your genetic sexual instinct. Most mistakes we make take place when we fall in love. In fact, when we fall in love we act sexually like we don't do all the time. We become more active and show a superman and superwoman image. Once the falling in love period is over, our sexual drive goes back to our natural status. That is when you need to see if you are compatible with your partner, or make a decision if you are willing to be in love with a partner who may have sexual stimuli way different than yours (be they more frequent or less frequent). Overall, I believe in our life, sooner or later we all reach a point when we think we may need help for our sexual behavior, but most of the times the answers are within ourselves. It's not bad talking it over with good friends, though. Therapist like to get your money. Just think, and make a choice you can live with!
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dear, why dont u try searching it in yahoo/google? anyhow here are the meanings of those two.\n1. To cause someone to break away from a previously friendly state or relationship.\n2.  Fame
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It's a bit of both. \n\nHaving love is painful, lest you fear to lose it, yet at the same time, being in love is wonderful and can make you happy.\n\nYou must strike a good balance.
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If u have problems and ur not doing anything to get rid of them, chances are those problems are getting worse..\nSo by not talking any chances u got BIG problems on ur hands..
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One: Frustration does not make you want to give up on life.\n\nTwo: If you're so frustrated, what you need to is take a break from your frustrations.\n\nThree: If you still feel the same what you need to do is just pray abot it and have faith.
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both are good but i guess love is better.\n\narranged marriages are a "learn to love" kinda thing....not everyone learns well lol
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Happiness is like love; it is defined as a personal thing. In order to achieve happiness, maybe one needs to learn more acceptance,forgiveness and tolerance. Just an idea.
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"Love" is the "voluntary" commitment to the welfare of another, to nourish them and give the life.\n\nWhen you are voluntarily committed to another person's welfare, you are "choosing" to "love" them. When you make this choice to give from the heart, your heart is nourished when you give.\n\nThat is why it feels so good when you give.\n\nJ