My best friend told my girlfriend he loved her what should i do?
925271
Do what I did to the chinaman who peed on my rug and send him a bill.
1036169
Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
657297
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
598708
I haven't been in EXACTLY the same situation, but I'll give you the benefit of my advice, anyway! \n\nFirst, don't do anything until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. That might mean you have to wait a bit, but it's the right thing to do- and besides, you'll put the guy in a bit of a tight situation if you say anything now! (And his girlfriend won't exactly love you for it...) So, wait til they break up. I know it's tough, but wait! \n\nAnd THEN, go for it! Don't worry about it ruining your friendship, because it sounds like you two really are best friends, and a friendship that strong, isn't going to be hurt by something like this. Tell him how you feel. \n\nThe best relationships are between people who start out as best friends- I know, from personal experience!\n\nGood luck!
785728
If you really love your girlfriend you would have never cheated on her in the first place. So ask yourself this... do you REALLY love her? You already broke her heart when she found out about you and your friend. You seem to be confused, what you need to do is hurry up and make up your mind. If your gonna leave her then hurry up and do it so you don't keep on continuing to hurt her(since you say you dont want to hurt her) Losing someone in a relationship hurts so she needs to do it only once, not over and over again. Let her start her healing process. And if you do want to stay with her, then are you ever going to cheat on her again? You need to ask yourself this. Yes she may have messed around before but you still chose to stay with her.....and two wrongs don't make a right. Have you really forgiven her for cheating on you? Ask yourself that as well. You start with yourself, be alone for awhile somewhere away from both women to think about you and what you want. If you second guessing a relationship your in then it's obvious that your not truely happy.  Good luck!
946428
If your best friend is really your best friend, she wouldn't take him away. I had a friend like that once and it killed me to be around her with guys because I would say I liked someone and then she would instantly like them too. And she would win because I would just give in. There is no point in fighting her on it, especially if she already knows how you feel about him. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her right away. You friend has betrayed you in the most hurtful way if she knows how you feel. You need to sit her down and explain that you like this guy more than she'll ever know and that you have known and liked him longer than she ever will. If she is truly your friend, she will cease to try to steal him away. If she won't stop, you need to find a new friend, a person who won't betray you. And you need to tell the guy. He deserves to make the choice with his true feelings. Tell him that you don't want things to change between you too, so if he doesn't feel the same way, to just forget that you said it, but in time you fell in love with your best  friend and you wonder if he feels the same way about you. Then, you are letting him know how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
1157124
If he truly is your best friend as you say then you will do the right thing.  Let her down easy and tell her that your friendship is more valuable than some girl.
254500
It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!
582857
This is coming from someone who has been around the block a time or two. Do not tell you girlfriend. She will find out on her own. Mind your own business and let her work it out for herself. Be there to comfort her and listen to her when and if she chooses to let you know what is going on, but by no means should you advise her what to do, or let her know it is happening. Women have a "gut" feeling about those things, and if it is something she can not work out with her boyfriend, then she is put into an embarrassing position of knowing that you know about it. Keep it to yourself. Keep her confidence and do not discuss it. It is by far the kindest thing you could do for her.  I lost my best girlfriend that way, and I thought I was being loving and kind toward her.
161525
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
1163418
dont worry about it seriously ppl say things all the time to start drama. just follow your heart. if he really loves you he didnt say that and he still wants to be with you. who knows maybe ur best friend has a thing for your boyfriend and wants you two to break up. just let it roll right off ur shoulder and act like you never heard anything.
222584
Ha ha ha, it's seems like I know u. Well I have the same situation, my BF always tells me that he loves me and I tell him "i like u and trust u, but i dont' love u yet". U know why i say so, i say it cuz I want to be sure in him, i love him but i don't want him to know that. Also I don't want to loose my best friend him. So that's my situation and I am sure that ur GF feels the same. JUst letting u to know she really loves u and know that she will be ur 4ever. but lemme give ya an advice: take care of her and be patient, don't loose her. Like I always say " love doesn't last 4ever, it becomes to be a trust" And in ur situation u already got the trust which is love as well!!!!
141868
Y'know a similar thing happened to me when I was still in high school between my best female friend and I.  One of us had feelings for the other but it wasn't reciprocated.  Years later, we're still great friends, and both of us have moved on to find our own special people.  In my experience, if you two are close enough and you don't dwell too much on it, it would be a good thing to tell him how you feel. It's nice not to have to hold anything back from them, and even if the feelings aren't reciprocated, you get a fresh start ^_^  You know your relationship best though, good luck! =D
699860
You shouldn't do anything but be a friend to him. You should ask him though if he's really interested in continuting a relationship with her. You never know he may end up with you in the end... but don't get your hopes up or your feelings too involved, it could get ugly. If his girlfriend still feels for him she could get upset if she thinks your stealing him away... be aware.
266100
if you like him then respect his choose to be with the other girl but if you love him starting to be gain his best friend ( someone with talking about his deep problems) & then i wish you luck!
501872
you should tell him i 'm in (love) with my best friend to you can't stop thinking about him you feel safe around him and your always smiling when he is to. you were probably scared thats why you said no and if it s the end of the year tell him the last day giv him ur # and then you won't have to deal with g/f the hole summer