how do you know when you are being pressured to have sex?
928326
If you look up and its in your face... I think you know something's up.\n\nAll guys want to have sex, always so be careful. You should already know this. Make him see the inner you before you give it up.
353699
I think that if he truly does like you for you he will appreciate that you are not ready.  Now, something similar happened to me, and i was pissed, (i will be honest, I was rather horny, and expecting some gratification that never came.)  If he does get pissed just let him know that it is not him, it is you.  If you do not want him to enter you, is there anything else you might be willing to do that will satisfy him?  If not, let him know.  But in the end, you have to do what feels right.  If deep down you really want to have sex, but you are getting cold feet or butterflies, i suggest you go for it.
116475
It is always your right to say no to anything you don't want to do sexually.  If your partner loves and respects you then they will understand that there are certain boundries to what your willing to try.  If they keep pushing or try to force you to do this or get mad when you set boundries and say no then you should consider finding someone who will treat you better.
523288
don't have sex because some idiot is pressuring you.  A baby, a disease, a loss of reputation, all of those things are very real possibilities.  You wait until you are ready--ready not only for sex, but all the consequences that could come along with the decision to have sex.
449525
As much as your partner will let you! And if the partner refuses, you know what to do to release the tension! ;)
952684
I understand he might have fears about the baby, but other than that, I'm confused.  My husband actually requests more sex when he's stressed out.  It relaxes him.  I think he's being selfish personally.
459540
Are you overworked, kids, school or Stress? Maybe, your significant other can help you more with your responsibilities? In order to be intimate you have to be comfortable in the other aspects of your life. Talk to him and explain everything that going on in your life.  Tell him when your ready if he can be patient he'll know! Explain that sex will be more passionate etc when your not pressured, that way it wanted and you both can enjoy.
345985
trie talking to him sometimes stress in your life can make you not really get into having sex.are if you are doing do the same things in bed it can get old to you trie something relaxing before laying down with him something new.
386362
May be sexual arousal.\nor\n......\n\n\nLets have a practical!
938831
As with anyone, you should not feel pressured into anything.  You will know when the time is right.  If you feel "awkward", with the idea of a physical relationship, it does not sound like you are ready.
858562
you absolutely need more foreplay. when a girl gets turned on, her cervix retracts, her vagina balloons, and her lips swell. If you're not getting to that point before he tries entering you, it's no surprise he's hitting your cervix.
166174
He is pressuring you. If he loves you, he will wait. Also, if he says that you need to, then you need to leave him. In addition, you may need to "take the wind out of his sails." If he calls you a wimp, baby, or other degrading things (i can't mention) then you can possibly say "maybe I am a [insert word here], but I am not going to have sex.\n\nI know it sounds corny, but remember - No means No!
630492
Well, it's hard to say, but I'd guess she's tring to have sex with you. If that doesn' bother you too much, my advice is to try. Who knows, it might end with a great love making multiorgasmic session?!
993546
You werent ready dont give into pressure dont do anything like that to please him if he loved you he wouldent think any diffrent of you and he wouldenr pressure you if you didnt want to in the begining or if you dont wanna do it again
465864
If you aren't ready, DON'T DO IT!  You'll regret it, trust me.  And honestly, sex doesn't make a relationship, so if you're boyfriend is begging you, he only wants you for sex, not the relationship.  A real man (one you deserve) will wait forever if he has to.  Tell your man to shape up or ship out!  Don't give in just because your guy has no self-control.  That's his problem, not yours.
280988
It sounds like you are being pressured into sex. No guy who really cares for you would make you feel this way. Save yourself for someone you have been with a long time and you know cares for you.
102424
more foreplay, the longer you have an erection without sex, the more your buddy gets used to the feeling of being stiff.  During sex, don't just thrust til you spew, get a good rythm going, then ease it off, pay attention to her needs, then go back to thrusting, etc