I don't know what to do.....any suggestions on how to help her?
922330
All I can say to you is to urge her to not dwell on the past, nothing good can come out of that.  She just needs to move on because her whole life is ahead of her.  She has many experiences to live through still, and many good memories are just ahead.  Being stuck in the past is self destructive, because there is nothing you can do about it.  I hope this helped a little, good luck!
392824
You can pray for her. Make sure that she knows tha you are there for her. Be a really good friend to her. Maybe you could talk to her on the phone a little. Maybe she could get some help, it could be from you, God, other friends, or even a counselor
757889
dont push her in any direction... that will only raise a question of what your priority is.  the best thing to do is be there.  you cant help her, hold her, or save her if your not there bro.....  good luck
220475
you have to be there and intune for whats best for them. talk to her about it but dont push it. Once you have sat her down and explained it to her then its her turn to either turn her self around or screw up her relationship.
484279
You really cant do much. But you can go get help but my thought on that is .She is a woman and she knows herself going for help may only make things worse.\n\nBut you need to roll with it and I don't mean follow behind her like a dog. Let the time come when she notice that you aren't asking are waiting. I know that is hard.\n\nBut you must not look like she has a dildo always ready for her. She maybe just hard to turn on she may like hunting.\n\nYou can do it she is your girl she may need this back up. May all things work well
929554
It sounds as if your friend suffers from serious depression. I know your intentions to help her are good, but if her condition is due to psychological causes there is nothing you can do for her. She definitely needs professional help. Can't you talk to her parent about this? They have to do something less it ends in a tragedy. I admire you for being such a wonderful friend to her. And believe me, one day she will be grateful too.
112595
Oh dear Lord.  Please tell them right away.  You need sone kind of help.  I have never dealt with this and have no advise, but please get up enough courage to tell her, she can help you.
804595
Its hard to be put in that spot but happiness has to come from within. You might be able to help her through whatever is really hurting her. Just ask her what she is struggling with and talk to her.
805799
contact her/your doctor, childline, social services, her parents or anyone who has a close and/or professional medical relationship with her who can talk to her and give her the support and advice that she needs
447149
The poor thing...  She is lucky that she has you as a friend who really wants to help her.  I dont blame her for not wanting to talk, she must feel terrible.  I think the best thing to do is to go somewhere with her where there is no-one else around you guys, like the beach or a park or go on a bushwalk, or just do something that you know she loves.  Make sure no-one else is around (especially not the people who are making fun of her) and try and get her to relax and not be afraid to speak. \nIf you cant get her to go anywhere with you straight away, try sending text messages to communicate or write each other letters.  Buy her a diary to write down all her feelings in.  \n\nShe needs to know she has support.  Try talking to her family (as long as they arent the ones who are laughing at her).  If you dont help her now, (or get someone to help her) she could end up developing social disorders or agraphobia (where she will be too scared to leave the house).  You are a great friend, she is lucky to have a friend who cares about her and doesnt make fun of her.  Just help her through it as best you can.. And as for the people laughing at her, how pathetic.  They must be really horrible people to make your friends life hell. Good on u for sticking by her.
1180867
I suggest that you communicate to her one way or another that you are there for her if she needs you.  Say it once and then back off for a while.  She will come to you if she needs to.  It sounds like you maybe feel like you owe her for helping you, but it won't do any good to force your help on her.  Let her contact you.  If she doesn't, you might have to just let it go.
444139
Well you seem to be going through alot! I am sorry! I will be praying for you and your friend! I wish I had all the answers -but I don't! Off course you want to help her- she is your friend- but it sounds like she needs help you can't give her! You need to decide do you want live with her! Can you deal with all the drama? Really search yourself- because she is going to need support and a lot of help! I wish you the best! You sound like a really good friend- when she will let you be her friend! A word -- never cheat! No matter what a person says to you! Just not a good plan! You take care- if you like to talk- http://360.yahoo.com/cloeenloe
1180394
just be supportive. Give her a hug and tell her you will be there for her.  If she is over 18, you should strongly suggest she get help, and tell her you will be there for her every step of the way. If she is under 18, you should do the same, but if she refuses, you should tell an adult. She needs help you cannot give her. All you can give her is support and friendship.
421852
you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
373002
It sounds like she is not going to listen.  Unfortunately, some people have to learn the hard way.  She is going to make her life very hard.  You have done all you can.  The rest is up to her.  Be proud that you tried and don't feel bad about it.  You are only responsible for you.  Good luck!
656116
WHY can't you ditch her? She's having adolescent tantrums and needs to grow up. Help her by teaching her that her mood swings are NOT acceptable - teach her this by leaving her on her own... Some people need to be treated pretty unsympathetically if they are to learn anything!
64294
have you talked to her since? she needs your support now more than ever! make sure to talk to her alot; she doesn't necessarily need to respond. ask her about her problems...make sure she knows you care. DON'T give advice to "fix" her problems; just show her that there's more to life! AND remind her of the people she'd be hurting (mainly you, other friends, parents, and siblings) if she decided to do it again. suicide attempts are always a very sad situation. get together with her and other friends; go walking, swimming, read a novel aloud to one another, watch a funny movie together, look at photo albums! make sure to spend QUALITY TIME with her. the next attempt she has may be interrupted by your phone call to hang out with her! good luck and keep it up! -sudo psycho...logist