Should I tell my best friend that her husband admitted confidentially to me that he has been unfaithful?
923661
This is a very touchy situation and should be handled delicately. Easily, both ends of this scenario can be seen. If you tell her, you'll probably lose him as a friend and she'll either be in denial and/or be mad at you. If you don't tell her, and she finds out anyway (which she will eventually) then finds out that you knew--you'll lose her as a friend. There are endless possabilities as to how it will play out--tell or don't tell--for either. If you truly think that he'll never do anything like cheating again, and they're happy, then that's great. But if he is the type that could cheat again, maybe her knowing now would save her more heart ache and pain down the road...\n\nYou mentioned that he said it was over with the girl, right? Now, did you beleive him when he told you this? You know him, was he being honest about it? Do you see this guy 'checking out' and flirting with women often?  Do you think that he would cheat on her again, period?  Ask yourself these questions, and it should help in your decision.  But, since none of 'us online people' truly know your friends, it would be extremely hard for us to answer the question for you. You are the one who knows them both personally, and it's up to you to sit down and evaluate the situation, taking the people themselves into account. We all have our opinions, and anyone answering this will give you theirs. (that's why we're here I guess--answer truthfully to the best of our abilities and all that) \n\nBest of luck to you, and remember that whatever decision you  make will be the right one!!
901375
My opnion is I think you should tell her. What if she doesn't know...what if she doesn't think her husband is a cheat? I mean, I didn't. I had no idea until he told me. I'm glad I found out.\nYou have to follow your heart and choose what you feel is right.\nBut remember if this was you and your husband had a side dish, would you want to know?
860989
Your fiance is your best friend ( I hope ) so i don't think you did anything wrong.\nNow if he tells her husband that's going to be a problem. It's over and done with now so just let it go\nI just wouldn't go out with her anymore That way you can't see anything you don't want to see.\n\nIf she is cheating her husband will find out soon enough
972790
Butt out....If you have told your friend, then you've done your part. You need to get you own business and leave their relationship alone. Don't get in the middle...Roses doesn't mean a person is cheating.
199913
Hopefully,  she realizes that you are a true friend ,  and she has a dirtbag for a spouse.  Reality check though,  she will probably find a way to blame you for trying to seduce her husband .  It would be a lot easier than admitting that the man she wishes to spend the rest of her cinderell story life with,  is a lying cheating Puss-Bag.  Sorry hone,being you would suck ,  I would hate to be in your shoes,  But if it's any comfort,  I applaud  your courage and honesty.
642194
well maybe that is why she didn't tell you. She knows you enough to know that you wouldn't approve. But if she was truly your bestfriend it seems like she would tell you everything. Maybe your husband is her bestfriend.
1157610
It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
858261
Leave it as it is, she wasnt really your friend if she stops talking to you like that.  Who cares what her family thinks, but don't tell her husband it's not really your place to tell him something like that. Plus she might do something really messed up to you if you tell him.
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
914975
Yes she did and she should tell her husband. You, on the other hand, need to stay out of it.
429690
condition-Do you want him? If you do then youve got a predicament. You might tear apart your friend marrige for you won desire. If you do, count youself one less friend, once she finds out, think about who she might tell and if their's anyone else you don't want to loose as a friend, If your married yourself think about your husband. Another thing if you do it don't ever count on this guy as a man that will stick around, in other words, don't seek a relationship with him, he's done it once he'll more then likely do it again. \n\nIf you don't want him just tell him to back off and let it be at that sence you don't want to tell your friend.
387839
This will probably haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't come clean with your friend. Take her to a quiet place and just be honest with her. Remember friends should be able to tell friends everything! Of course you must expect her to be upset at first but if she is truly your best friend she should forgive you. Be honest. Tell her why it happened and why you are telling her the truth. This will also let her know what type of guy she is dating. \n\nI hope it works out for you.
96100
Well, I would say don't tell.  It would only ease your guilty conscience and would really hurt her.  If she gets suspicious though, don't lie.  (And don't do it again!)
383285
If she would tell him without your consent, she's not your friend.  That aside, you need to tell him.  If doesn't feel the same way, at least you'll know that and you can move on.
1020598
not necessarily, but I would not tell any of my secrets to anyone who I do not know really well. You need to trust him first, know him and feel comfortable to talk about it....
371959
I would just tell him and get it off of your chest. Explain to him that your very sorry and that's the only tings you have ever kept from him.
338482
Yes, I have told b/fs about the bd things bout me, if you don't let him know, and he finds out later, to me that's like lieing, in order to love and be loved, you have to let the bad things out as well.  Your partner is suppose to your best friend in all the world, if this is true, then you should be able to tell them anything and everything.