How do you get a friend back?
912439
Sounds like she isn't too secure in her relationship..Why should you not be able to talk to your best freind?...Miss Merry Sunshine will just have to get over it ...don't you think so...Nothing wrong with him being freinds with you
472458
Stand up to them. Be willing to find new friends that won't treat you that way. Call them on the carpet, the next time they step out of line, hit them back, verbally. They will either respect you and lay off, or they'll stop being your friend, in which case you didn't need them anyway.
760238
tell him your over him now and just want your friendship back with him becuase he's a cool person
9523
Yes, a woman with whom I was a really good friend (I will call her Jane) just turned on me and almost refuses to talk to me now. We don't live near each other anymore, so it's not as big a deal now as it once was. But I have no idea what I did or said to turn her against me. I am one who has really good relationships with people and long-term friendships. So this really took me by surprise.\n\nJane and I used to spend hours together every week and a lot of time on the phone. We were both members of the same professional association. I saw her there and she was really rude to me like I had offended her in a big way. \n\nI am still mystified by this situation and it took place nearly eight years ago. I was told, by a mutual friend who asked me about the break up that Jane had done this in other relationships. That made me feel a little less confused, but I am still saddened by the loss of what I considered a great friendship.
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
33538
To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]
89237
DEAR \ngo and say sorry to them. Even if u r not wrong what bad a sorry will do instead u will get ur frenz back\nBEST OF LUCK
252132
Casually call him up...say "Hey it's been forever, I miss ya, lets get together and do something" Get him out and talking and casually bring up what the other friend asked you. Get the conversation going and see how it leads. Best of luck.
946769
If you really want your friend back give her name to GOD and pray for her a lot he listen especially when not asking for yourself and you'll see and don't give up on her yet hold on a later longer she'll come around and remember trust in GOD he'll give her back to you
348498
Just talk to her! If she really wants to be your friend, she'll understand.
515264
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
1167860
Big deal....... tell him, get your a$$ whooped and be friends again.
551596
many options here:\n1- maybe wants you back\n2- maybe wants to make u jealous for the fun of it \n3- maybe just wants to be friends \n4- maybe she's just bored!
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
269928
i would probley try to gain back the freindship and then see where it goes from there.
900910
just tell her you made a mistake, apologize, and ask if she can come back. What's the worst that could happen.\n\ngood luck
102833
You say that you want to know how to get her back, and you know that she is making a mistake....well my friend I think that you need to give it time.  She needs to be able to come to the conclusion on her own that she made a mistake, and that this other guy is not the one for her it simply is not something you can coerce her into.  If you try, you will do nothing more than to drive a larger wedge into your already shattered relationship.  Give her space and time to miss you, and if she doesn't then you have your answer but she can't miss you if you continue to cling to her.\n\nAlso, I think something that you might need to consider as well is would you ever be able to move past her betrayal of you trust?  After all she did start another relationship before ending the one with you first.  \n\nOne other thing to consider is that perhaps your lives are just taking two different paths at the moment.  Maybe she felt that she wanted someone more inline with her own personal goals and aspirations.