help, need advice on this woman?
929242
if she's a good friend to you keep it that way,if she sleeps around with so many guys do you really want to be one more statistic in her book?
438894
You don't need to know what's on her mind .You need to get out of this situation as fast as you can. She is married w/a kid and you are in a no-win deal. Her husband is going to have to deal with her and her issues and you don't really have a dog in this fight.The sex might be good,but this woman has more baggage than a cargo terminal.Recipe for disaster,my friend.
852640
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
738925
i'm 23 and can tell you honesty is always best. i like flirting but if i know a guy is interested i make it pretty obvious i am too but most women are not like that so you will just have to walk up to her start making small talk and try and read her body language to see if she's interested in you. then just ask her, if she says no she's in a relationship believe her, its nothing against you. if she says yes then you're in!  i really think all the game playing/flirting without making it clear that you're interested in someone is a waste of time and you miss so many great opportunities. as far as your past and the overweight issue, i understand i have a sister who has struggled for yrs. with this and she went through a divorce several yrs ago and that really damaged her ego further. she felt like no one would ever want her but the thing is there are many men who prefer larger women. i tend to be on the thinner side not skinny but more slender and have been out at clubs with my sis and there are just as many men who hit on her as they do me. the difference i think is confidence plain and simple, she went through alot got some counseling and came to grips with who she really is and accepted it in doing that she overcame it and many men find that more attractive that she's confident and sure of herself and really comfortable with herself.  you need to understand that no matter what weight you are you are still attractive and that you're a good person, witty and intelligent and have a lot to offer.  even beautiful ppl get rejected (just look at all the stars lately getting divorced) so its nothing personal and being rejected is not necessarily bad it may well save you from a really bad relationship. bottom line you will never know if this woman is the one unless you talk to her and pursue it, if she isn't interested then you know she's not for you. try not to let the past control your future (the overweight teenager thing) recognize that this is an issue with you that you let it control your actions probably in all aspects of your life but especially dating. once you recognize the problem its easier to deal with, now its time to put it all behind you, what you are in the past is not as important as what you are today and understand that all the bad stuff in your past has made you the person you are today, be thankful for the good and the bad. you sound like a really nice guy and i can tell you although women fall for a bad guy at least one time in their lives they are searching for someone just like you. i really hope you act on this, you just never know who is waiting and wanting to meet you and if you don't do something about it then you are guaranteed to never know if she's the one for you. go for it...because the worst thing that could happen is she's already taken then you will know for sure and can move on. good luck, hang in there and don't live in the past , learn from it otherwise you are doomed to repeat it.
857513
Wow, buddy, it sounds like you really did screw up.  That sucks for you.  If you truly want to try and make things work with this woman, slow down.  She's probably really hurt right now, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you.  Start with little things, like a sweet email.  Send her an ecard to apologize.  Show her by your actions how much you regret what happened, because we all know actions speak louder than words.  The biggest thing, though, is to back off if she asks you to.  It may hurt like Hell, but you could earn some of her respect back if you comply with her wishes.  Best of luck in finding your answer.  I hope this helped even a little bit.
495222
YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
894696
Woman... what did you do ?
1068924
not wise - leave her alone - what your suggesting is called stalking and thats not good - get over it and move on - you lost this one maybe learn from your mistakes.
608817
Start ignoring her for sometime, you would get the answer. If she responds positive, take her, otherwise forget her. Common good lies in this.
410865
Ask her friends. They are usually a little more open with their friends affairs than she would be. Good luck!
120552
The best advice I could give you is to keep your mind busy on anything else but her. Keep yourself active, busy. I know its hard, believe me, I do. It will pass with time.
616267
duh! she wants your man and thinks she can get him. dont let her think that. act like you dont give a sh$#. if she compliments his shirt tell her you got it. start asking if she like your shirt. if she gets him a drink say oh you almost forgot my drink i would like a coke too. make her work......tell her you want butter and new knife, some jam, if she wants to be at your table so much then let her, but she has to work for it. remind her of her place a barmaide.lol dont let her get to you. have a conversation when she is coming and keep the conversation going until she leaves. that will get to her.
497823
HEY HONEY NEEDLESS TO SAY I HAVE ONE LIKE THAT TOO..BEST ADVICE....LEAVE IT ALONE, YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW SHE IS YOU WILL MOST LIKELY BE THE ONE TO GET HURT!!!DROP IT LIKE ITS HOTTTTTT...
897576
I think this lady has a problem, not just with you, but with her mind.You might have a fatal attraction situation.I think you should understand sometimes people take the smallest kindnesses as a way to intrude in your life. I think you should tell her once again that your not interested in her or having a relationship with her. I will say that never let anyone define you, You know who you are inside, so don't give her a second thought. I think your nice to even wonder about her, that does you have integrity and care about others feelings.
151994
Gotta be honest, I think your being played.  How do you think she would react if you asked to spend two weeks with another woman???  She's already made up her mind and is just stringing you along.
58189
You listen to her problems day in and day out? Are you unique in this aspect, or is she just a chronic complainer? If you are the only person (or, at least, the only guy) she brings her troubles to, I'd say she already has a thing for you, although she may not be concious of it yet. And if that's the case, it's probably up to you to make the first move. If you really can't bear to bring the subject up in person, try a note or an email. You'll probably be able to express what you want to say much more eloquently and clearly in that format, and I guarantee that she'll respect you for having the guts to say what you really think.