girls u gotta help me, im a good lookin and nice guy im not shy but i just cant keep or get a girl, plz help!?
930880
To yourself, you may seem good looking and a nice guy. Maybe you are. But I know from personal experience and guy friends who talk to me that often, when a guy KNOWS or THINKS he's good looking and nice, he comes across arrogant. There is nothing a girl hates more than a boyfriend with a big head. Girls also look for attitude, brains, and humor---not just looks and kindess. Also, maybe you're not obvious enough! Don't go sleazy though. A girl will be repulsed. Also, quit the chatspeak, especially if the girl you're interested in talks to you online. It makes people seem unintelligent. \n\nI hope this isn't too harsh! Just trying to give you some advice...\n\nCheers and good luck\nKate
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
188873
Sorry but im taken..ha ha j/k.You have to find her...the girl thats right for you. you cant let someone pick her out for you.
353443
That's your 1st road block. You don't NEED a girlfriend. Having that attitude probably causes you to act needy. And that will make any girl run in the other direction! Just focus on your life and the things you like. Live your life and stop worrying. Build your confidence! That's the fastest way to attract anybody. There are girls all around you...your just sending out the wrong message.
830289
Have you tried talking to her and ask her out?  If not, I suggest you do that and if she turns you down (which won't be the end of the world) then you know she wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. You seem like a confident person by the way you describe yourself so why do you take those good attributes that you have and respect her decision and move on to someone else- There's alot of fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!!!
303187
I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.
151126
just be yourself and dont be shy just tell her how you feel about her cuz i know for sure i dont like it when a guy tries to beat around the bush lol so yeah im sure your a nice guy and have alot to offer so yeah just go for it babe and see what the outcome may be.i have that problem too sometimes and if im just myself the guy falls for me right then and there lol
860496
you seem like you are too into yourself.  try talking to guys, some guys wait for the girl to make the frist move.  i mean hell, if you live in ohio ill be happy to take you out on a date:) try to relax and be more friendly and more socialable...hope that helps
365658
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself. Put the past behind you, concentrate on the future which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation.  Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.
1102915
Not all of us are like that. I promise! It is always nice to do things when they are not asked for so don't stop being nice,but I think you need to try some different places to meet girls. I think normally you can tell if they are going to be like that from the beginning. Look back and see what they all had in common. Please keep trying because there are more of us out there than you think.
505513
Im sure you will find a girl who like you the way you are. Have tried dating sites? There are plenty of girls looking that might be interested. Good luck!!!
895232
Everybody wants what they can't have.  You need to find a girl of your own and stop pining over her.  She isn't worth it.  And yes, women do want the stable, caring guy.  Sadly, girls want the playa, so you may have to wait a few years for them to catch up.  Hang in there.
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
426118
You get a girl through personality. Really if a girl just liked you for looks, she wouldnt be worth anything anyways. Just be yourself and you'll get a girl. Just be patient. I did...and I got the best guy in the world.
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
825550
You defenetly have the same problem as me... Just keep trying new girls that what im doin
195202
For one YOUR A GOOD GUY. Ima girl and I dont always want a good guy.  I dont want him giving me everything I want. I want to feel like "I" have to work for it not them.  I promise thats exactly what they are lookng for. If they cant find it in you they end up finding it in someone who does do it. You know what that's telling you..?  They arent your soulmate. When you find a girl and you treat them how they want and yall r perfect for each other then she wont do you wrong.  But stop being so lovey lovey and stuff. Be aggressive!!