I would really like a girlfriend!! im a generally nice guy and i dont think i look to bad?
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You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
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Nothing's wrong with you, girlfriend. It's the men who have the problem, not you. I fthey don't like you for being you, they are definetly not worth it.  Stay true to yourself and you shall be fine. I think that men who aren't interested in a girl like you who seems very nice are just idiots, jerks, and stupid guys who aren't willing to look inside of you to get to know that person inside of you that makes you, you.
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Like you said good looking and fit right.  That is the first thing you look for apparently and until you don't have them in the begin part then maybe something might work out for you.\n\nI will say this much I will admit this to the whole world I am not the greatest looking according to the media but I am happy with who I am and where I am going in life.  I have lost 123 pounds yet no guy that are GOOD LOOKING will look at me but I don't care I would rather have someone who is down to earth and smart for that matter.  They are worth of my time no matter how ugly they may think they are.
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
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I think most girls care more about your personality. \n\nIf you're a good guy, I'm sure someone would go out with you.\n\nDon't be so insecure.
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Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
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hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
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There is really nothing wrong with you. Like you said, you are nice, smart and have a good sense of humor. Shyness is okay; guys do go for shy girls. Maybe you are just trying too hard. Take a break to rejuvenate your life. When people see the change in you, they will come to you like bees attracted to honey.
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Apparently you must be a nice guy. What's so bad about a woman thinking you like them any way? Sounds more like a compliment on your part.
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boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!
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You shouldn't worry what other people think of you.  You are not on this earth to please other people, especially rude ones.  Know that you are a good person and from this will arise an inner sense of beauty that will reflect in who you are and not what you think other people want to see in you.  This is real beauty.  Judging from your profile I would say you are pretty cool.
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Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
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AS YOU EXPLAINED IT, I WOULD SEE YOU AS A STUCK UP JERK! WOULD NOT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY EITHER!!!BESIDES THAT, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE WITH A GIRL WHO WOULD GO OUT WITH YOU JUST CAUSE YOU HAVE MONEY????
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For women it isn't all about the looks.  A little extra weigh makes you a teddy bear to some girls.  Just keep your chin up and look for someone who matches your personality.  Be romantic and sweet and you will find a nice girl.  Good Luck!!
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If you are comparing yourself to society standards...then you will obviously think something's wrong with you...However if you feel comfortable to go and date a girl then it must be too your comfort level...First get some self confidence and then BAM!!! - you'll be noticed without realising it. There are plenty of women out there...PLENTY and you can find them in all ages, just take time to focus on one that you may be interested and take it nice and easy.\nAnd you know what - the ladies you meet would actually chase you down if you act cool and be yourself...especially if they know that you never been with a girl...AND they will want to teach you everything...BE HONEST
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The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
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Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.