Does your man helping around the house mean he's gonna get it more often?
914065
Wow... do you have a clone?   :)\n\nYes, helping around the house is something you should be doing anyway, and it keeps her from being overly tired and more likely to put out, so you get your 'reward' in the end.
355150
My husband has that problem too sometimes, but not all of the time.
447475
just make him do more chores
986655
your probaly allready helping him more than you know
499163
Usually if you do it alot
1172070
yeh it depends on location and his commitment.  if he says ur calling too much, then ur calling too much. otherwise, dont listen to the pessimists
898624
Yes, I do. I cook, clean, and take care of my son. I am from the south, so alot of women out there are like that. I have been told that I am old fashioned. I like to do it for my man, makes me feel good to make him happy. He does need to help out every now and then though. There is nothing wrong with the way you treat your man, and you do deserve a break every now and then.
976503
Yea, just let him have it! Sounds like he deserves it. Men and their toys.
668889
Can you say "Sweeping Generalization?" LOL!\n\nNaturally, it is true! It's b/c women are expert at multi-tasking, so we can juggle them and still get them done.\n\nBut, at my house, if I really need a nasty hard job done--I depend on my husband. He really is dependable. Does that mean he has a strong feminine side?
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7 times and usually at home
401648
My husband once took his day off and cleaned the entire house.  I'm not talking just picking stuff up and moving clutter around.  He broke out the cleaning supplies and deep scrubbed the apartment.  It doesn't sound like a very romantic thing, but trust me it was an amazing thing from my husband and for me.
446995
More often than I should, yes.
1061143
so he can do what to your home?
163842
Yes, I always try and help a lady in need. I have my interest in my lady only, so I am not looking at anything other than being a better person and helping someone. I also help guys in need as I do not believe that gender should be a deciding factor in who needs help and who don't.
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AS OFTEN AS HE WANTS IT!!
105206
Dump the mooch. He will take advantage of you as long as you let him. That seems to be human nature.\n\nIf he isn't offering to help out, that speaks volumes about his character. You shouldn't have to ask him to contribute. This is a red flag - don't ignore it. It's only going to get worse.
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You should be thankful to have a husband who works too much instead of a bum.  Men have their own reasons why they work too hard, in my situation my husband's reason is it is for us, his family.  He works hard so he can provide whatever we need and want all through out our lives because he loves his family so much.  He also works for self-fulfillment and I may say that there are people who are naturally born workaholic.  You see, when my husband is at home he never stops working, he cleans the house and does all household chores.  At first, it drives me crazy to see him work too much but as time passes I learned to accept the fact that he's a hyperactive man who needs to move all the time.  When it comes to our children, I explain to them that their father works all the time because he loves us.  That's why they should understand why they seldom see him because what he does is for all of us.  I don't know if your husband kisses or hugs your children but you see my children are very satisfied with my explanations to them and whenever my husband comes home he makes sure he kiss and hug our children even when they are already asleep.  I think it is very important for children to feel their father's love by simple gestures even if they seldom  see him.