how can i keep my girl friend happy ? and how i convience her parents ?
919045
to keep someone happy just stay honest and always communicate as for her parents they will need time and show them you are one to respect an love by example but always be yourself.
765080
It might not be about you, it might just be that her parents don't want her dating anyone right now.  A lot of people wait until a girl is 16 before allowing her to date.\n\nTry this--write them a letter, asking formal permission to spend time with her.  Let them know you are willing to address any concerns they might have, and tell them you have the utmost respect for her and would never do anything that would compromise that.  Let them know that if they would prefer, you would be willing to spend time with her at their home when they are present if that would make them more comfortable, or take a chaperone if they went out.  Ask to come by sometime in the evening and meet them.  Let them know you will respect any decision they make, and then DO SO.  If they say no, leave her alone.\n\nThis might seem like excessive effort, but it seems like you really want to hang out with her, so it might be worth it, and it would show you to be a very mature and courageous individual.  It might win them over.  Either way, you will have done everything you could do.
1044029
I have similer problems. Me and my girflriend love eachother but her mom doesnt want us to go out. Right now her mom doesnt even know that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I can only call her about once every week. What we decided to do was be boyfriend and girlfriend but start going on actual dates when we are 16 so that we can drive ourselves. Just ask your dad if he can come over or soemthing and see if that works
146721
Talk to your gf.\n\nIt sounds as though her mother can't cope with the fact that she's got a grown-up daughter.  \n\nExplain to your gf that it's hurting you when you're constantly being ignored because her mother still wants to control her life.  Tell your gf how much it's hurting your relationship.  Be honest with her, and ask her to think about doing something about it.
109950
as long as your not a minor and he an adult ,,\ndo what makes you happy .\nchances are anyone you choose wont get the parents aproval, because you are thier little girl , and no man in thier eyes is worthy of you ..
455622
Well u can't really MAKE your parents happy but have your boyfriend do something very thoughtful in front of your parents so maybe they'll except him and you together more.\n                    :-) try it it's work for all my other friends.
84489
You should talk privately to her parents. If not, seek advice from a psychologist perhaps. Be sure to repeat to her that you love her no matter what your religion. However, I find it a bit sneaky that she comes onto this after 5 years. She's losing a great guy, as I see it. I say take matters into your own hands and try and check a bit if she's cheating on you. You're not the one losing her, she's the one losing you. \n\n\nAll in all, good luck! ^^
554175
Just love her. If you really do then all the stuff that would make her happy you just naturally want to do and will do for her.\nYou will always be thinking of her and if you go to a store you will look for things for her instead of yourself. You will think very long and hard to come up with little gifts she will be overjoyed with. and because you love her the best thing in the world will be when she is pleased by the thing or gift you got for her. your pay back wil be just watching her being happy.\nYou will go out of your way for her to try to help her out of a bad situation and you will always put her before the things you would like to do.\nAnd if she really loves you she will do the same for you and you should always be in harmony because you both love each other more than you love yourselves.\nThat is the secret of a happy and long marriage with minimal fighting and stress. This how we work together and for the unity of the family. If you care more for her and she for you than you do about what you yourself want it is going to be great! Enjoy!
135690
It is wonderful that you want to make this girl happy!  If it is not possible to send her a gram that is from a secret admirer since you feel uncomfortable about her finding out that you like her when you are right there, perhaps you could deliver a Valentine another way.  If that is not possible, perhaps you could at least tell her that you love her smile.  I know that I smile more for the people that I know love my smile.  Keep talking to her, gain her trust, and soon she will realize that you are the one that makes her happy.  Really tap into what she likes and go deep with her, really make her feel special.  Before long, you'll both be happy together...
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Make her feel special, like she matters to you. Don't make her feel like an object or a possession. She has a brain, ask her what she wants to do. Sometime girls like ot do feminine things. Be willing once in a while to go see a chic flic or walk in the park. She doesn't have to rule the relationship but she does need to feel like her opinions matter and like you genuinely care about her health, feelings and ideas. Not just her body!
686023
first of if u been workin so hard for this 2 work than u just dont give up like dat .. tell her dat u cant help but b romantic wit her n u like sayin sweet things n dat it bothers u wen she just brushes it out the way as if ur feelings didnt matter 2 her .. explain 2 her dat the same way its been hard 4 her its also been hard 4 u to make this work n dat even tho u feel like u just want 2 give up u still dont cause u love her .. ask her how she really feels 4 u n get her opinion on wether she thinks ya should keep tryin r not after talkin things out wit her only u would know wether 2 leave her r not .. i know its hard 2 make a relationship work specially wen it involves parents but if u both want it ya can make it happen .. good luck talk 2 her hope it turns out good 4 the both of ya
1130859
You can do a few different things - tell her the truth that you are scared of her dad, make up some reasons why you can't stay over,  or just invite her to your house even though your parents think she's weird.\nHonesty is usually the best way to go - you could try staying at her house one night and seeing how it is - if you don't like it you don't have to stay there again, it's just one night.  You might be surprised to find that her dad is a really nice person or if worse comes to worse and you still don't like him then just tell her the truth and don't stay there anymore.\nJust because your parents think she's weird doesn't mean you shouldn't have her over to your house.
64965
before starting any relarionship such as friendship ...ask the other person about his/her parents..if he/she cares for them ..go for the realtionship.and it's better to have friends those you  can trust rather then friends whom you like
73487
i support younger-male relationship!!!!(that's what i called it).. but , why? why can't they??\nwho don't give permission? her parents?u can't fix it... her friends?maybe u can talk to them nicely...but, pls specify , why??
60984
respect her and be faithful to her, take care of her personal needs. love her.
1088337
great question, seeing guys ask something like this makes me feel like theres hope for this country and the men in it. There are some great ideas from other people already , but I would like to stress again a few - for sure try all the small cute things like putting a note for her to find about how much  you love her, sending her something to work so that evryone can see is also romantic and she will feel very special even if she says shes embarrased - trust me she still loves that kind of thing. Make her that bubble bath from time to time - after she gets home from work and just always LISTEN and take care of her. Thats all a girl really needs.  =)   As long as you share yourself and your life with her she will be happy
220475
you have to be there and intune for whats best for them. talk to her about it but dont push it. Once you have sat her down and explained it to her then its her turn to either turn her self around or screw up her relationship.