Bestfriend or Girlfriend?
920910
REMEMBER... For so many years u haf go through so many highs n lows wif her. She's always there 4 u. U should not betray her trust. A ger's heart is like glass, very to be broken. \nThink properly, think carefully.\nTry sitting down wif her to slove ur problems. Should always talk with her.\nNobody can help u. Only u n her can solve this 2gather!
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
252575
The best friend in the world is only GOD. \nFriendship meants mutual sharing of bad times (good time too)
325218
Maybe its your girldfirend that just wants your money.  But I would hate to think my best friend would stab me in the back and date a guy i cared about.  Does this tell you anything about the girl you are thinking of asking out? If that is the way she treats her best friend is she really gonna be that good to you?  Either way if you current girlfriend is that bad to you - you need to let her go and tell her why.  If things happen between you and the other girl after that -  then all is fair.  Good luck to you
492322
If the person is involved in a relationship at this time or you are, you should keep it to yourself.  If both of you are not in relationships, you should tell the person how you feel.  As best friends, you already have a great level of communication and the other person may be feeling the same way as you but is afraid to spoil your friendship.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  You will still be friends no matter what and even if the other person doesn't look at you that way now, they may start to consider it and you may have a chance in the future.  Good luck!
65049
i agree with mortgage. its hard if you continue the relationship with that guy. if you really care for your bestfriend, just set him free. but if you care more for the guy, then "YOU GO GIRL"...lol...just kidding...seriously, go find another man.
141193
A friend is someone you get along with, love talking to, love hanging out with. A girlfriend is all of these plus someone you have feelings for.
269474
I have 2 best friends one is a girl and one is a guy. They are both my best friends. I would do anything for either one of them and they would for me too. Best friends are great. My female friend and I have been friends for over 10 years we were even friends in school but I didn't count that. My male friend and I have been friends for three years. Both of my friends are married too.
1111260
only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything
14222
If youre really into your boyfriend and she's really your best friend...\n\n1. Let her know how much of a betrayal it would be.\n2. Seperate them, if you go out, go out in threes and dont leave them alone.\n3. Let him know whats going on and how important your friendship is with her.
448590
This is a tough one......Ok you said you like your boyfriend but have fallen in love with his/your best friend. If it is love and I mean real love then you should not have to question what you should do. You just need to talk to your best friend one on one and see if it is really what you think it is.
574683
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
378081
your best friend.  girl friends come and go, best friends are forever.
599508
Only a strong relationship will keep the two of you together. But, it's important to realize that any tremors (positive or negative) in this relationship could jeopardize any academic progress. I sense, by your fear, that you haven't shared many of these feelings with your girlfriend/best friend. Remember, above all else, that her happiness is very important (with or without you). You need to sort out your feelings and decide what it is that you want to share with her. Be sure that you don't lose both your education and your girl in the process. Keep the relationship strong with alot of communication(letters, e-mails,presents,airline tickets,cards,etc.) Let her know that you have confidence in the relationship and in yourself.If she's already your best friend, you've already got alot going for you. Good Luck!
292226
i don't think it will work out in the end because bestfriends don't really make a good girlfriend/or boyfriend\ncause when your seperate it's hard to look at that person without all those feelings you share for a person getting in the way.\nso no it doesn't work out to date your best friend
998213
The best way to do is tell your freind is to be brave and be wise on what she tells to her best freind, at first i didn't know what you were talking about just as then i noticed ur friend's best friend is all over her bf the best way to do is tell her best freind and have  a chit-chat about it. mayb it's bcaz she doesn't know how ur freind feels that's all! so go ahead and tell her.
598708
I haven't been in EXACTLY the same situation, but I'll give you the benefit of my advice, anyway! \n\nFirst, don't do anything until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. That might mean you have to wait a bit, but it's the right thing to do- and besides, you'll put the guy in a bit of a tight situation if you say anything now! (And his girlfriend won't exactly love you for it...) So, wait til they break up. I know it's tough, but wait! \n\nAnd THEN, go for it! Don't worry about it ruining your friendship, because it sounds like you two really are best friends, and a friendship that strong, isn't going to be hurt by something like this. Tell him how you feel. \n\nThe best relationships are between people who start out as best friends- I know, from personal experience!\n\nGood luck!