Should a women tell her husband if she's leaving him for the 3rd time?
918723
What special does the 3rd time have that's so different than the 1st time?  If she leaves him, she just leaves him.  He's entitled to know if she's leaving him.\nMom of B & D
775997
'fool me once shame on you. fool me twice shame on me'\n\nbut this all depend on the gravity of the mistake. if its about not putting the toilet seat down though i asked my husband to do so, is quite forgivable again and again. but if it concerns cheating on me or something like that, i might forgive the first time (totally depends on the situation. i might not forgive the first time also), but for sure will not forgive when it happens the second time.
403016
Honestly, I've been there. It's the worst feeling in the world to know you've been betrayed. If he's likely to do it again, (not everyone is) then don't stay with him. Sometimes these things can clear up. (I'm speaking from personal experience. I've been with my husband for almost 7 years. He cheated once almost 4 years ago and hasn't since. I've learned to trust him again. I wouldn't be the same without him.)
392541
depends on the situation. do the two of them have children together? if so then yes, but only if the call concerns the children. if they do not have children they don't have a permanent link to each other so there is no reason for her to be calling your husband, he's moved on and so should she.
223341
Don't say anything to his wife. You do not need any drama. Just tell him "no", and that if he respected his wife, he would stop. If he continues to try to do anything, I think it's safe to tell his wife then. But one kiss shouldn't be something you tell her about. \n\nYou're other option is slapping him until he doesn't know one direction from the other.
318547
Another woman who kept secrets from her husband . . . \n\nDon't tell him a thing . . . and have fun . . . if you don't get pregnant . . . after a few (3-5) years . . . tell him that you are going to the doctors . . . and then after 6-8 months . . . tell him that the doctor said that you can not get pregnant . . . tell him you are sorry . . . and ask him will you still love me.
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
38385
i would forgive the 1st time, afterall we're married, no matter how long he has been doing it...we gotta work it out for our kids, right? it would take time to 4get things, though...he does it the 2nd time & bam! he's out the door.
1001036
I say there should never have been a 2nd time.  ever heard the saying. "Fool me once-shame on you, fool me twice-shame on me"  Stand your ground and don't let it happen another time. Because it's getting easier and easier for him to do it knowing that he has done it this many times already and your still there to go through it.  Let him know what he's lost and don't budge. If you stay in this relationship your pretty much begging him to do it again. Sorry but thats a true answer.  Good luck in the choices you make.
893552
Nope...because if he cheats on you once he will do it again....
611092
Tell the wife everything. Be prepared for her to hate you. Let her know about the kid, how you found out about her and when, and how long you've been with him. If she wants to, then the two of you should confront him together and see what he says. I don't know how you didn't know this when you've been with him for three years, but that's not the point. It doesn't matter if he knows it's you. He SHOULD know it was you who told. he had no right to play you the way he did. You never signed up to be the other woman or a homewrecker.
1183684
What you've suggested is really all you can do. You gave her good advice about communicating with her husband and going to counseling. Beyond that, it's really none of your business and not your responsibility.
74242
I had this same situation. Only now she and I are both divorced. Your fiendship is important. I can't tell you how to let him know but I can tell you that you should. I have wasted a lot of time not telling her how I feel and the fear that someone else will come along and she will be gone again is painful. Don't let him slip away. When the time is right tell him.\nWe never know about tomorrow and today is passing by.
491967
Sorry angel,  You will never know if he will do it again, how did you find out the 1st time? I mean did he tell you or did you find out? was it 1 time or 100 times? If he cheated then he would lie about how many times he cheated. You are the only person that can determine if you can trust him again or not. You have to decide weather the relationship is worth the worrying or not worth it and find someone to be with that you can trust.  good luck  god bless
1115272
I think you need to make your feelings as regards this relationship with another woman known to your husband. he is your husband and you have to save your marriage. tell him he needs to see the damage his relationship with this woman is doing to your marriage. as you have spoken to the woman and she has refused to let go, tell your husband the woman has no respect for his marriage, he needs to choose between his friendship with the other woman and his marriage (his wife and kids). dont go fighting him, do things with wisdom, love and gentless.endeavour to always show him love and always communicate with him.communication is very important in a relationship
1119567
hi.that's what a lot of married men say.if you love him,you should let him go.tell him you don't want to cause there marriage to brake up.you should say to him you don't want to see him anymore. stand back and see if he leaves his wife anyway.if he doesn't leave his wife,then you'll know he wasn't genuine about the things hes been saying.
136609
She shouldn't accept his excuses once, far less ten times. She may be loving and faithful to him but his actions clearly demonstrate that he does not share similar sentiments toward her. She needs to be loving and faithful to herself first. After ten times of cheating this is a habit for him and he's not going to change and she's just hanging around waiting on heartache if she stays.