I have been dating this guy for 1 year 2 months, I really care about him I have falling in love with him. But?
922624
Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
362001
If you love him that much, then wait.  Gain his trust slowly and you will more than likely end up with a wonderful relationship.  Good luck!!
191817
Really at that time you where not officialy committed at 2 week's so let the guilt go. Some thing's are better left alone and if you care for him this is one. Old saying let dead dog's lay dont dig them up. You have now falling in love but at that time you where not and now you start your life happy together the pass can haunt you for many year's if you say something are even lose him. Keep your beautiful relationship in place you will never sleep with another man but him. Ya'll have a great life together ok.
671707
it's just dating...you're single now...no harm.  Don't make any commitments until you know what you want this time...make no mistakes again...be sure he knows that as well
171693
My first thought is, thank goodness he is honest about this. Secondly there have surely been signs that he has not been as serious as you have been. After 2 years it should have got past liking you into something much deeper. Sounds like he has led you on. Take off your rose colored glasses and see what is really there. Why did you stay? Did you set yourself up for a no win situation because you don't think your worthy of anything else? You are, but you need to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else. A good relationship has good communication so there would be no surprises after 2 years. Let him go, work on yourself and then and only then will you be ready for more. You will also be more picky, more accurate in your choices.
720130
If after two years he states this to you, he obviously knows what he wants.  I know it hurts, but you can go on.  You may be lonely and want this man or a relationship, but think about this.  Try to involve yourself in other activities such as volunteering to give yourself that sense of pride that no one, not even a man can take away from you.  Move on.. one day at a time.  perleo@yahoo.com
428527
That is totally normal.  If you've been with someone for that long, it's time to start talking about the future. So of course you want to know if he's the "one".  Both of you should take a break, date other people and decide if you guys are right for each other.
461829
Talk it over and be frank about how you're feeling. I do hope you don't talk like you spell. It could be disatrous!!!\n7 months is too short to get so hooked on a guy! God made plenty to go around girl.. get a grip and move on if you are feeling unstable but dont let it hamper all of your other relationships.
726762
well, if you are falling for him and he still has the feelings for you then go ahead. The nice thing about your relationship with him is that you two know each other very well due to the friendship you two have shared.
33602
I would be honest with him. The longer it goes ther harder it will be. Only seeing you 1 or 2 times a year is kind of odd for someone who claims they care so much for you. Just be honest, who knows, you both might feel the same way, but are scared of what the other will say.
1080976
If you just started dating him 2 months ago, sex shouldnt be the first thing on your mind. if he tells you he loves you, look into his eyes and see if he means it.
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
353000
You are a lucky guy! You've found the right one for u. The 1 with whom u will spend the rest of your life!!\n\nBoth of u are totally inlove!!!!\n\nwish u all the best with ur gf!
129365
Ignore him and concentrate fully on yourself.  Spoil yourself.  Do your favorite things that have nothing to do with him.  He sounds immature and not ready for commitment.  It will hurt for awhile but eventually you will find your perfect man and it will seem funny to you that you ever wasted any time or thought on this guy.
705536
You should feel special and irreplaceable, but it will take some time, are you sure you want to stay with him, ask your self is me and my b/f headed down that marriage path? if the answer is no, than why are you with him? your wasting your time, if the answer is yes, get some counseling together, and work things out, fight for your relationship (not the girls he was txt'ing) but work hard, and it will blossom, it will take some time, are you willing to put in that time?
868127
sounds like you are both quite young & placing too much importance on these words WAY TOO SOON\nalso you should be saying these things without expecting him to repeat the words back to  you\nif you ahve only just started dating then take your time & if things are meant to be then ""love "" will develop between you
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.