Low sex drive..........?
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The Pill can affect your sex drive. Any time you alter your body's chemistry and hormone balance you can be pretty sure it will affect your sex drive. This is what the Pill does to prevent pregnancy. Maybe you should talk to your doctor about switching Pills or try another method of birth control. You can try charting your cycle for a natural method of birth control but natural methods are not as reliable for preventing pregnancy. What is worse - not having a sex drive or having a surprise pregnancy? I had a surprise pregnancy four years ago and would not go back and change a thing!
633120
I don't think 'every couple of days' is a low sex drive. Men who think about sex constantly should not operate heavy machinery! \n\nI have almost always had a high sex drive, sometimes I think it approaches an addiction. And in that case, maybe I'm using sex to try to satisfy some unmet need in my life. The only times I have felt that I didn't need sex all the time are when I was getting a lot of exercise and reading the Bible daily. At those times I felt generally more fulfilled and didn't need sex (or alcohol) as much. \n\nMaybe your finance is just better balanced than a lot of guys. How's the rest of his life? Is he committed to family, friends, career, without being a mommy's boy, needing to go out with the guys every night, or a workaholic? Look for commitment with balance, and you'll be okay.
915191
Try Keigal exercises.  Resources which might be helpful can also be found when researching impotence and stamina with regard to sex.
1182222
Was he like this when you first got married? Has his sex drive dropped or stayed the same? Some men don't have a very active libido. It's usually hormonal.\n\nIf it isn't satisfying to you, try to suggest seeing a medical doctor.\n\nA person's sex drive is an individual thing. But for the record, your husband's does seem rather low for a newlywed guy. I had a friend who's husband was the same. He got help--against his wishes--but it worked.\n\nYou can't compare yourself with other couples, really, but  the average is about 3 times a week. We do it more often because my husband is a horn dog. As he ages, it is lessening though. We've been married for 20 years.
1185116
Feel lucky you have such a great sex drive! As long as you are not participating in unhealthy behaviors like having multiple partners without condoms and your masturbation and sex drive is not interfiering in your day to day life, you have nothing to worry about!  Your one of the lucky few!!! I've had an abnormally high sex drive like you since I was 16 and still have it and my husbands friends and my friends husbands are always very envious of our relationship. Many many women loose their sex drive as they get older!
243038
Not all women have low sex drives. The mood swings and being tired sounds like she is going through menopause. Women start menopause early even though they don't know it. It starts in the mid 30s on some women. Just be there for her and maybe suggest marriage counseling or try to get her to suggest it herself.
218527
There could be many reasons for lack of sex drive...both medical and physical. In your case, as you mention, "equipment works fine" (I have that problem with exercise..the equipment works, I don't want to do it..LOL)...but you could suffer from depression, have stress in your life (some of which you may not even realize) and medically, it could be hormonal, a side effect of an illness such as diabetes that you may not be aware of. There are lots of reasons and only your doctor could tell you exactly what it may or may not be. Good luck!
294460
Extreme boredom and not enough sex..
318654
Libido is another word for sex drive.\n\nNo pun intended, but you should please yourself as to when and how often you m@sterbate.  It is not for your bf to decide.\n\nGood luck.
98057
There's no cure.  Oh, and if it hasn't happened yet, you'll lose your sex drive, too.  I tried every kind of hormone birth control...no matter how low the dose, it eventually made me snap at people all the time.  Even while I was blowing up on somebody I would think "this isn't something that would make me mad!  what am I DOING???"  Unfortunately, the only solution is to get off the hormones.  Try condoms or spermicide...I'm personally playing roulette here.  lol
1037148
It sounds like your man has low testosterone. This is very common for a guy his age. He can get a blood test by his doctor to see if he suffers from low test. This can be caused by lack of exercise, bad diet, overweight, lazy, and just age. He could try over the counter natural formulas to get him back in the saddle again like enzyte. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Many young people in their upper 20s are going through the same thing now days. I would get him started with finding out what is causing the lack of wanting sex before trying to get new positions established.
251928
My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
859005
It could just be a mental thing, idk.   Try doing some erocit things, like when you move in, walk around naked, or build up your sex drive on a free day when you fave time to see what turns you on.
333605
It is all related to hormones and being tired from caring for the baby.  Don't worry, the sex drive will return.  If you are real concerned about it, talk to your doctor.
84204
This is a good question.  My husband would love to know the same thing.  Currently my sex drive is low because of menapause.  I'm going through it very early.  Usually a bottle of wine and somd actual romance will help.  You do know what I mean when I say romance.  Dinner without the kids, rose pettels on the bed,going out on a date with eachother, slow dancing in the livingroom.  These little things open opportunity for flirting.  Thus increasing the want for sex.  b4 menopause I worked sooo much.  My joib made us do a mandatory 15 hrs overtime per week and it took me 2 hours each way to get there.  Then once home still had to check homework cook dinner make sure the house was in order.  I was constantly going and you have the nerve to want what?  Switch roles for a day. see how you feel..  or. start helping around the house if that is the ccase.  but remember  flirting.
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I wish my hubby had a higher libido...after having five kids and being married for several years our love life has gotten boring and his sex drive has gone down. We are always paying attention to the kids and dealing with other things to even begin thinking about intimacy. \n\nI would love it if I actually had to worry about tuning myself up to meet his needs! It would make me feel more desirable...
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LOL umm are you getting more exercise and eating better? have you seen more hot girls on tv or out? exercise increases testosterone..and libido. have you stopped or slowed down the amount of sex you've been having? Images and health are the only things I could think of.