why do people think it's bad to be gay bi or lez???
928990
People are often afraid of what they do not know or understand.  Fear is a big factor for almost all bigotry.
281552
Nothing is wrong with you, I am bisexual. Its very normal, even if your not bi. Many people are very curious. Many people have fantasies about the same sex. Could be that you want to experience that, try it.
1035912
If you need to be something, then I guess you'd be classified as Bi, who cares, have fun, just don't hurt anyone! \n\nMost gay guys get a kick out of it anyway.\n\n... Ohhh I thought you were asking about liking the same sex, dude the answers still the same, have fun don't hurt anyone. Really what's not to like??
1110332
That is just ignorance, a simple lack of education on the issue. Bisexauls do not have a choice anymore then a lesbian/gay or straight person does. Bi people have feeling for both girls and guys, but they one stay with one (marry either a girl or guy.) But whoever that bi person ends up with she/he is still bisexaul. The girl that marries a man is still bi, she doesn't try straight. Or if the girl marries another woman she is still bi, not a lesbian!! Kicking people out of your "gay" club is just dumb. It's like nether side wants to own them because they are scared of them, people fear what they don't understand. It's sad really. Not only do many bi people have to "prove" themselves to the straight community but now to the gay/lesbian community too, and they should know the about the "your not real" lie. \n\nBialogue tells about the fight bisexauls must face just to love who they love. Link: http://www.bialogue.org/index.html\n\nEdit: I found a web-page your lesbian friend should look at giving many myths and realities about bisexuals, please have her read it. http://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Coming_Out_as_Bi&Template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=32351 \n\nAlso please read the myths page too and tell me what you think now. Thanks.
1007598
I agree with no offence to gays or lesbians . I remember when I was a kid I had a tshirt with a rainbow on it ...if it was now they woudl of though I was a lesbian ..lol
1181820
That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
1001275
I have many friends that are either/or.  They are still good people but have a difference on their sexual outlook.  If they are your friends that is all they have to be nothing more.  I had a male friend who I did not know was gay and when he told me after 5 years of friendship I was only upset because he didn't tell me.  I told him I still loved him the same and we were best friends for many more years after that.  Some people are very mean when it comes to that.
1108098
You're right. People are too black-and-white about sexuality. They don't accept anything in between - either someone is straight and would not even want to touch someone of the same sex or someone is gay and would not even want to touch someone of the opposite sex. Reality is, of course, far more complex than that. We spend too much time defining what people are and too little time trying to understand who they are.\n\nI think the lesson here is that we probably should go to people we care about - and not the masses on Y!A - when we genuinely need advice!
164049
Some are nice.  Some are not so nice.  It's kind of impossible to judge them as a whole.  No different than Straight people or Bi people.  (Why are we capitolizing Gay, by the way?)
132099
It makes no difference to me whether someone is gay, straight, young or old. I see people as people and we are all God's children. If you're gay, it's not like you can help it anyway. I think that it's just there when you're born. Don't worry about what people think, sweetheart. They aren't living your life, you are. If they think badly of you then that's their problem and their loss because you might be a very good friend, so piss on em if they don't like it. Tina, Houston, Texas
473708
Because people fail to understand being gay is who we are.\n\nWhu are people straight?\nWhy are people people?
898607
Because they know that the lifestyle that you chose to lead is wrong & dirty. I am teaching my kids that the gay and bi lifestyle is a choice and that choice is so wrong.  If you want to be in your parent's lives be normal and heathy. Date an marry a man. That is what God wants you to do.
422711
Because so many people have been brought up that being anything but  straight is wrong. I have very different opinions on that. I'm bisexual, i think that you can make your own decisions with out somebody else questioning you. It's your own sexuality, it's your own choice.
709635
Because many people are just immature and can't get over a small thing like sexual preferrance. ( I am straight BTW, but I still care :  } )
683829
I think gay people have some kind of mental problem maybe due to their childhood experience or simply they were dropped on their head when they were born.I dont understand this simple psychology of attraction of gay people...why on earth u would wanna like something that u already have.God didnt make adam and evan...HE made Adam and Eve,go figure why!Gay people are just mentally ill and not sure about themselves regarding relationships and sexuality.They should go see a psychiatrist and take therapy to come back to normal life.Damn u gayz!!
1091432
I think everyone is a little bit gay... and everyone's curious, even if they don't admit it.  I say do what you want to do.  No regrets.  As long as you don't hurt anyone else in the process, go get yours.
409607
whats so wrong with it? how you say it like its a bad thing jeez i am bi and um...ya.