what advise would you give?
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There are a lot of possibilities going on here. I will try to speak from my experience and from what I gather from the words that you are sharing.\n \nTry to see what is going on in her life. Possible problems include:\n1. She is acutely aware that she wasn't like some people that she may admire. Maybe she wants to fit in.\n2. Perhaps she is suffering from depression or some kind of mood disorder common for girls of her age. Often teenagers or some kids will lose interest in school when other emotional issues take over. \n3. Try to see what other symptoms are going on. Is it possible that she has gotten involved with some bad kids or influences.\n4. She may need guidance that you are not able to provide at the moment. Try her other parent....or try a counselor. Perhaps you need to ask her what is going on.\n5. You may have to ask for professional help. Since I can't tell much about the daughter or the "situation"...but any sudden change in behavior indicates that there is a problem that must be addressed. It may get worse.\n6. Don't wait. My parents did nothing when I changed in highschool. They may have cared, but they did nothing...as often parents do. That was the wrong choice. Yelling or accusing...pushing...forcing is not the way either. I suggest reestablishing trust in the relationship. She has a reason that she isn't sharing what is going on. She is afraid of what you will say or do.\n7. Be smart. She is a kid in body or at heart. Do the adult thing and help her problem solve. I am sure that she wants things to be different. If not, she will one day and you need to appeal to that urge. \n8. Don't forget to ask for kind assistance from those that are close to her. And for goodness sake...don't let her escape unless of course, it is your home situation that is the problem....if you don't have a peaceful home...she may not want to be there for that reason.
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Did the person ASK for suggestions and/or advice, or were these things given to the person unsolicited? If someone ASKS for suggestions, and you give them, and then the person does what they want to anyway, well, there's little (or nothing) that you can do about that. If the person did NOT ask for the suggestions, and you give them anyway, then it's really none of your business to start with. The only exception to this, IMO, is if the situation involves someone being harmed.\n\nSometimes we (as humans) ask for suggestions or advice simply to gain perspective, or affirm what we already know to be the "right thing", deep down inside. If you have someone in your life who often asks for suggestions, and then goes off and does something completely opposite of what you have suggested, then you may want to refrain from offering future advice, as it seems that this person and you do not share a similar viewpoint.\n\nThis brings to mind the old adage, "You can lead a horse to water - but you can't make him drink".
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What kind of help you need ?
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I will give the advice my brother gave to me many years ago,very good advice it was.  \nAlways remember the as* you chew today may be the butt you have to kiss tomorrow.\n\nsucks but true
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It would be best to ask them. Take some initiative.
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what are you willing to do?
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BE HONEST WHAT ELSE CAN YOU DO!
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don't put yourself in such a situation ok make him a big firend you might take advice from him
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I would suggest in the book.
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hey, this the advise from one of your good friend in christ \nso the best courses you could take in , social administrator , and community counselling and guarding so that you could be fluences ihe handling some  current suggestion
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You would have to do what you think is best.  What do you think God is telling you to do.
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Tough question, can you give a..................hint?
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So what kinda help you'r looking for???
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ask question we would try to help u
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Would help if you gave more details.
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Let your friend follow the advice of the butthead. Sometimes the best advice you can give is to not give any advice at all.
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i would say just ask the trainer at the gym, he ought to give you free advise.