if you just found out your (wonderful) girlfriend has been a bit less pure than you previously thought?
921605
Look....you have to decide, were you with her because you thought she was a virgin?  I am pretty positive that there was much more to her than that.  So, her not being a virgin should not make a difference.  Women are funny when it comes to relationships....they almost sort of WIPE THE SLATE CLEAN after each relationship.  Not just with the words they say, but they actually do it mentally.  Men like the notches on their belts to show off and brag about, but women literally like to FORGET it ever happened, especially if it was not a good relationship.  So, maybe in her mind she had a bad experience, and did not want it to count.  That does not make her a bad person, because if you look at it, that could be a plus for you.  At least you know it is her past, it is over, and she does not even want to think of it.  Maybe if after you were together longer, she would have come out and told you, you never gave her that chance, you went snooping in places you should not have been.  Maybe it was just internet talk also, you do not know that she did not say all of that online, and then chicken out when it came down to it.  Talk to her.  You want honesty and trust, then trust her an talk to her, and own up to the fact that you snooped through her private stuff.  You BOTH need to be honest to each other.
160417
of your girlfriend with another guy.
936666
Yes, I think a boyfriend would feel more comfortable, except if their girlfriend likes girls as well as guys. But if she's faithful, then he shouldnt have to worry.  =]
487157
Is she better than your GF?
168654
Well I just recently got married two months ago and I think that it's absence that makes the heart grow fonder. Before I couldn't wait to see her and I would get all excited when I prepare to meet her. Now that I see her everyday I think I've grown more accustomed to her as she did to me. This is when people start treating each other less "special" I believe the trick is to try and maintain that feeling.
1000174
my girlfriend at times!!!!
1123393
You don't seem very keen on her any more.  I'd suggest you go to relate or some sort of relationship counselling.\n\nYou could try making a new start: tell her you's like to reignite the spark of your relationship, that you think you've been taking her for granted.  Ask her if she wants to work with you to make things better.\n\nStart eating meals together and going out together.  Restart physical contact without expecting it to lead to sex - cuddles, kisses, maybe rub her shoulders.\n\nNotice if she looks good and tell her.  Take it in turns to cook and compliment her if she makes something you enjoy.\n\nDon't expect an overnight change.
477421
My boyfriend and I were getting ready to have sex. I turned off the light and went to the bathroom to put in my diaphragm. When I got back to the room, I could hear him moaning "oh baby, you feel so good". It couldn't have been me because I was still standing by the door. I turned on the light.\n\nHe was having sexual relations with my dog! When he saw what he was screwing, he jumped up and apologized.\n\nHe was no longer my boyfriend after that.
911792
It sounds like he has a girlfriend or he has changed his mind.
369662
Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning.  Flowers, gifts occasionally.  Look at her when she talks with you.  Honesty and respect, concern for her.
846784
your girlfriend could see how your self esteem is on how you react to her. but then again only you can fix your self esteem.
601180
I don't think complicating things would be a good idea. Though if you really love her and feel that you have to express it. Then you could tell her. I mean, that's not going to ruin their relationship. You're just trying to be honest. You're feelings are also valid.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
444807
First of all Thank you for serving our country! If you want to save this relationship you will have to work on the trust issue. But I would be concerned about her cheating again. Follow your heart.
750764
I'd be very surprised, and I would wish he had told me earlier.  The with-holding of information when I am completely forthright with him would trouble me.\n\nOnce I got over that it would not bother me in the slightest.  He is the man I love regardless of what body he wears or wore.  He knows I would love him just as much if he were in a woman's body, though I also have to tell him I'm *awfully* pleased with the body he inhabits!\n\n.
588721
It depends.....how did I feel if I slept around on someone I didn't care about??? Well, honestly, not too bad. I don't sleep around if I'm in a commited relationship though.
633439
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry