I met a guy online & we chatted for a year,he done booked his flight to come see me in a week's time,?
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maybe he wants to save the conversation for when he gets there!!
39510
what?! U crazy? Have u met him in person and gone on several dates? Anyone can play as someone they are not over the net.
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Pay attemtion to his log in times...or send him an offline message to set up a time you can both be on together
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It seems ok to me....sometimes, if you have plans, then trying to maneuver around them can be very difficult, as you are finding out.  Don't woryy about it; and don't think that you were"put on the back burner," either.  The trip was occupying his attention, and he tried to get some time for YOU.  That's a good thing.  The fact that it didn't actually work is immaterial.
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His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
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i really dont know how to help you because guys are different from girls...if it was a girl then i could help since i am one...anyways, honestly, if he hasnt sent a reply in over a month, i dont think he ever will : ) but i could definitely be wrong! mayeb he never got the email or something? just go with your instinct!
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Hi, i met a guy online and we got on really well, he lived in Sydney Australia, we had been chatting for 6 months then he got a chance to come here to Leeds in the UK and we had 2 days together and to my surprise we didn't get on all that well, we had fun but it was not the same in person as it was when we were chatting online, he then went back home and we never spoke again.\ni am sure people do find love on the internet and have happy lives together.\nyou don't really know someone untill you meet them.\nxx Jo
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Do you expect us to believe that you haven't talked to any men in....what did you say... a year? He came home to you didn't he? Sounds like you have some trust issues or you wouldn't have been checking up on his internet usage. \n\nA little advise here..... people will find what they are looking for.... and that goes for trouble too!
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I hate to say it but if he really wanted to make it work he would. You've gone out of your way to find time to see him, if he felt the same way you do then he find a way to spend time with you. Not seeing you enough is probably an excuse, he's not strong enough to tell you how he feels and he's probably thinks he's sparing your feelings by blaming the situation instead of telling you how he feels. Give him time and he may come around, but don't wait for him. You should start moving on.
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If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
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Happened 4 years ago in a chat room to my mate lol it was funny and arranged to meet and he went but to this date he doesnt know.
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ASK HIM TO COME MEET YOU WHERE YOU ARE.KEEP IN TOUCH WITH EMAIL AND PHONE AND LETTERS.THOSE ARE TWO BEST WAYS.
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I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
98102
Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
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To meet the guy again, (Yes this makes me psycho)
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If you asked him a serious and imprtant question, and he can't even give a response, even if it is a response that says he needs more time to answer than you need to move on, this is tough to say, but he does not rank you very high on his priority list if he has not replied for over a week.  Move on, you'll find a better match for you!
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if you feel confortable, get each others phone numbers. \nYou can talk to him and see what he is really about. \nI personally met my boyfriend of so far 2 years online, we talked online for 2 months, and things have been going perfectly by now. \nIf you decide to meet him, make sure you know enought of him and feel comfortable. Bring a friend along for safety