I have a boyfriend but i don't no if I want him anymore, he don't spend time with me. I love him.?
922632
then its time for you to move on. so move on now.
701661
sit urself down and really give the matter some heart felt thought....... take the time to get it together...... YOU have a choice to make, so I think you better get busy...... it is NOT fair to your guy to be with him if you can not give him all that he deserves........ God bless
531671
If he doesn't want to do it on his own, you need to examine why he values you, the relationship and spending time with you so little.  It may also be that you are just way to available.  If that is the case, get a life, don't just pretend to have one to make him jealous.  If he's into the relationship, he would do more to make time for you.
583591
Hon, you said something very important..when he is around you you want to be with him but when he is not around you then you question why you are together.........this means that some way or another he is munipulating the situation. The way you feel when he is not around is KEY! \n\nAnother thing, has it occured to you that he want you to be with him on your birthday cuz he don't want anyone else to be with you on your specail day? \n\nAnother thing if he does not want to sign any lease or whatever then that is a big RED flag saying stop and re-evaluate the situation. \n\nFinally i say dump him and move on.You will find someone better for you.
1097437
maybe he's not in love with you, if you are going further apart each day, love suppose to draw you closer not apart, just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't show no difference then just leave him, it's sad to be in love all by yourself. sex is not a way to keep a relationship going if that's what your thinking, if he can't love you just how you are then you don't need him, then again he just might be getting bored with the relationship sometimes we fall in love with people who were just not ment to be with us
109120
let him go noone should treat u that way if he loves u he would only want to be with you and noone else and though he doesnt have to spend every moment with you he could at least take two seconds to call and say hi i went through something like this i had a bf that was at college and he rarely called and was always partying i hated to break up with him but i knew it was really the best thing to do bc i knew that i wanted to be with someone who wanted to be with me
224502
try getting away on the weekends or having alone times and talk it out. express your feelings to him. talk it out. did i forget to say talk it out ? find out why you dont like but love him and work on that. or try getting help.
944631
Maybe he's just feeling insecure about himself? I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we've definitly had our ups and downs..\n\nSounds like you're being very sincere and care about him SO much.......if YOU really love him stick with him make him see that YOU are NOT doing anything other than trying to help him and wanting to love him....Just make sure you follow your heart and if you decide to leave him make sure its for the RIGHT reasons ....
34020
I think if he loves you, it's not hard to motivate him. You yourself, and your relationship should be a great motivation to him.  \n\nThis could be a good test to find out how much he loves you ...\n\nTry to let him know that you don't appreciate he's not doing much. Ask him about his plans for career and future life. \nTell him that you care and will support him in his decisions. \n\nIf he shows zero interest in these things, he probably isn't  falling for you much, and it's up to you to consider whether to stay with him, or whether it's time to say goodbye.
1011731
He's your boyfriend - if you honestly can't answer that yourself, then maybe you're better off without each other anyway. Sorry - harsh but true.
650592
Yes, you need to give him some distance . Maybe you need some time to think about your relationship with him. You don't want to be stuck in a relationship that is never going to go anywhere. IF you give him space,and if he really loves you than he will try to make things better the second time around.
215723
I think you don't love him. And he is going too fast, if there was a chance for you to love him he is messing it up. Go tell him that directly and I don't see why you shouldn't break up.
606834
spend time with my boyfriend.
83304
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Dont tell him he cant hang out with him but ask him to make an attempt to spend more ALONE time with you.
907070
Actions speak louder than words.  Even he says he loves you, if he does not show it, it means nothing.  He might not realize this either.  But when you love someone, you would want to spend as much time with them as possible (though work may be hard), and do nothing to hurt your partner's feeling (including reciprocating another girl's interest in you).  Why don't you take a break from each other and see how much you mean to each other?  You may find that there are other men out there who would appreciate you more than your current bf does.
744532
if your boyfriend doesn't call it doesn't mean he doesn't like you anymore. so don't worry about it. maybe he was to busy. hope it turns out great!!!!!!!
925320
I would suggest you re-focus your energy on to yourself and your own life more and what you do in your life that gives you pleasure and enjoyment away from your boyfriend.  It might be that you have allowed him to take over your life too much and this may be causing him to loose interest in you a little bit.  For him to stay interested in you, you have to be interested in you and believe in yourself as a worthy and loveable person by doing things that are for your own pleasure and nothing to do with him. Therefore, to get this relationship back on track, suggest you get busy with your own projects, have him realise that he can be PART of your life but he is not the totality of your life, that you have a fulfilling and happy time whether he is there or not ... re-build your confidence by your own activities, e.g. with friends, hobbies etc.  Don't expect your boyfriend to reassure you and give you confidence, you have to get that by yourself.  I would say definitely don't ask him 'what's wrong', there is clearly something wrong and pushing him by asking him about it is likely just to push him further away and make your situation worse.  His behaviour is kind of indicating that it might not be so much fun being with you at the moment, but you can turn things around ... focus on making sure that when you are together you and he have good, positive interactions and lots of fun.  There is nothing more attractive to a man than a happy and confident woman who is good fun to be with.  Good luck.