my boyfriend of 1 yr is TRIPPIN!! i need sum advice quick!?
914380
OMG.. Girl you need to get rid of this man... what are you doing? why have you been with him so long.... you need a man whos going to treat you like a princess! seriously tell this man to fix up or you have to leave him!
1008996
Do wat I do, give him a taste of his own medicine, go out with your girls & stuff. It seems as if he just talks 2 u when its convenient 2 him, relationships R about compromise. Try confronting him, its good 2 B honest
1140217
No! What next blinders! So, you can't see anyone. He's going to get controling. Insecure. Tell him to Get over it. That is if you value your own friends and family.
797063
Stop doing everything for him and give him a taste of what it would be like if you weren't around.  He is using you, wake up!
940827
you need to consider a couple of things. \n1. how long have u been together?\n2. are you willing to stick around for a second time?\n3. what actually possessed him to do that?\nanswer these honestly and if it doesn't look good, leave!\nit could've been an accident but chances are it wasn't, sorry and be careful!
316759
Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
272578
my god....\nwhy dont u clearly talk to him.\nask him to stop jumping around. he isnt loving u but taking advantage of ur love just keeping u as backup for bad time of his. \nu r a person, u love him, u too get hurted. u too have value. make him realize this. have a serious talk on this.\n\nif he dont love u, then dont let him messup wth u again n again. be clear, it will hurt u but its better than being victim. tell him either he can be wth u totally loyal or just stay away from u. he is confused in his life, he dont know what love n whats value of it. good serious talk can make him undertand this, n if he is really a good person them he will value u or wont hurt u more. otherwise he is crook.\nlove is from both sides, both have to give n take. i can understand u doing him for pure love, but have value for urself. i guess u r treating him very softly n freedom, u r letting him do any thing he wants. he has to realize that u love him so he cant jump around. when its love then its wth just wth 1 person.\n\ni understand u love him, ur heart melts for him n it makes u accept him again n again though he is doing crap. u cant do it forever, talk n decide what he actually want u or anyother.  if he REALLY dont love u then bear wth some pain n keep him away. just give him a option that he come to u only when he is very serious n forever.\nkeep ur door open to him, but dont let him just taking ur advantage. be strict n let him come to u wth a condition that he wont leave u again. be strict, be lil over emotions u can accept him any time becoz u really love him, be proud of it. but be strict to value urself as person. u r not just a thing to play. be strict so it will save u from emotional n mental damage.\n\nwhen he comes to u agian, make sure he got everything clear n he is loyal, he has his mind set on u tatally then accept him.....be happy that u got ur love forever.
137393
Well only take it to the police if you feel threatened. Otherwise, express that you are not ready for a relationship right now. Express that its not "cool" the way he drops by unannounced. Make sure that you are clear and are not sending mixed signals. If he doesn't get the message you might have to take it to the proper authorities...meaning police. If you both are adults, then he should know better.
33312
Leave him alone. Take a break from him - at least temporarily -
229516
Do something utterly romantic. Start by landing in front of him and patiently waiting for him to be free... \n\nIm sure he will melt and let you know whats wrong.\n\nOn the flipside, I think there is another girl in the picture... You better check it out before things go worse.. When I meant check-it-out, I meant find out discreetly..
912422
Pretty much. lol. You've given him a huge ego boost. What you need to do now is back off completly and let him chase you for a bit, ignoring him for a while might be a good thing. Let him worry a little. It should reduce that ego a bit.
611883
forget what everyone else says if hes all u can think about dont let him get too far away try to work things back out with him
580838
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
500729
Don't dump him just yet! Maybe he was in a life or death situation (i know this sounds far-fetched but give him a chance to explain) If he stood you up for some really stupid or insignificant reason then by all means... nail his ass to the wall!!! But if he keeps doing stuff like this then he doesn't deserve to be reasoned with.
926192
The bad stuff sounds pretty bad.  Learn and move along. He doesn't love you completely.  It sounds like he's shell shocked from your behavior and is trying to figure out a way to get away from you safely.  Whatever you did, make sure it doesn't happen again.  Leave this poor guy alone.  Get yourself straight, and try not to let anymore "bad stuff" happen.
1012285
Give the man some time.\nhe only needs to trust you. He feels like he could go through hell again to try and feel the best thing in the world. You need to prove to him that you really care and you are not like this other girl. Do the things you want out of him and I can promise you everything will fall into place.
652807
The question is -  Where do you want to stand with him?  If you're just chatting it should be easy to get him out of your life -  Out of your Life is Big.  Is he on Drugs?  That would explain the mood changes.  You can be honest and tell him in your own way that you want to take a break, or whatever it is you want.  The "It's Me and Not You" is so lame.   You sound like a sincere, intelligent person, you'll figure it out - I believe it.