How do i get over my ex so i can move on with my life and be happy again?
918319
Stop thinking about him if u do one of these days you will miss out on the right guy for u because u are still holding on maybe thinking that he will come back to u just pray and if hes the one for u hell come back until then live ur life cuz u will go nowhere with that burden on your shoulder
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Surround yourself with friends, family, people who love you. Go on a trip to clear your head. It doesn't have to be expensive, just go camping with some pals or take a day trip to a beautiful outdoor spot. Take up a new hobby. Now is the perfect time to start doing something you didn't have time for before. Exercise. Read humorous and uplifting books (NO romance novels!). Go to the movies (NO sequels to movies you saw with your ex!). Buy fresh fruits and vegetables and make a delicious homecooked meal for your best friends. Get out in the world, get some fresh air, stretch your legs.  Take some time to get to know yourself and figure out what you want in life.\nWhatever you do, DON'T wallow in self-pity at home. DON'T get drunk and call your ex! DON'T write your ex emails begging to take you back. DON'T hang out in front of your ex's house hoping to bump into him/her. DON'T jump into another relationship right away.
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
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Face it and get on with your life. Have some dates even if they are not the perfect ones. You need to put this way in the past.\n\nAt the same time, be happy with yourself. Your new relationships will want an upbeat person and will have little room for the other person that was in your life.\n\nHave fun and remember the bad times you had with her. This is no time for sentimentality. She dumped you hard and on purpose. Good luck to you, my friend.
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How do you learn to trust again?\n\nThe easy but true answer is the Nike Response:  "Just Do It."\n\nRemind yourself that your current partner is not the one who wronged you, and your current partner shouldn't pay for your ex's betrayal.\n\nOwn your feelings and actions.  You CAN help jumping to conclusions.  You steer your life; your life doesn't steer you.\n\nYou have to relive your past as long as you decide that's what you want to do.\n\nDecide to be happy instead.\n\nGood luck and best wishes with your new relationship!
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time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
388288
Whatever the reason for your ex being your ex. Put yourself in their shoes and think about the situation and what you would do. Be true about the considerations...it only help u know wether it's worth trying to get back together.
284876
stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
319936
If you are already into the procedings and you know there is not chance u will get back together, forget him, move on it is your life and you have to be happy not him
851194
find another one. One better than your ex.
919214
forget the ex-best friend and be so happy ur ex is giving u another chance
500652
hey sweety,i know how u feeling.. how to move on? think about yourself! u deserve so much joy, ur killing yourself with the anxiety. fight it, keep that friend connection. grow as an individual, improve n develop yourself in the mean time. sounds to me like u will get back together!! wake up each morning n look in the mirror tell yourself that ur the best thing on the planet, dance n hear James Brown wen u walking.. Aaah, feel goood!!!\n\neven if things arent the way u want them, so wat? live life the fullest n enjoy yourself each moment. stop pinning away, be optimistic about yo ex- u will get him back!! relationship issues need time, be patient n it will come to u!! maybe your differences are being worked out by the space n at the same time look yummy for him (eat yo heart out, dude!!) n any other guy out there. u never know..Morris Chestnut, or Brad Pitt (ha!!) maybe watching!!!\n\nlove yourself to death, ur beautiful, talented n he thinkin of u twice as much! why else wud he keep in touch all this while?don feel sorry or wrong, u were right to discontinue yo relationship-u did say twas inevitable, ain it? so enjoy life girl!!\n\nu can do it!!! don u know u unstoppable girl??!!! hey- u got a cute smile..do that often!! smile, i mean!!
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I'm not sure how long ago the two of you broke up, or what caused it, but the main thing you need is time. Allow yourself time to get over the break up, to get your life back on track without him. You cant just shrug your shoulders and turn around and forget about him, he has been half your life for more then 3 years. So don't lock yourself up in the house surrounded with his pictures mourning, but don't loose yourself in going out and partying each night either. take it easy. See friends, do fun things,a nd take time to be alone and cry if you need to. You feel whats best for you at the moment. And you know what? One day you will wake up and feel that you are ready to move on. Good luck!
1170460
Just keep going and move on NOT to go out and hook up with someone just tell ur self it didn't work out for a reason and look toward the future things happen for a reason I am getting over an ugly breakup and i am constantly reminding myself of that..
703253
I hang with friends, do my artwork, I find things to take my mind off of the person I just broke up with.  Go for a ride, take a walk.  Focus on better things than think about the break up.
706519
The best way to get an ex out of your head is to erase him.\n\nDelete his number from your contact on your phone.\n[so you don't think about him when you are scrolling through]\n\nDelete/destroy emails/letters he has sent you.\n[Reminiscing in the past is BAD]\n\nGet rid of photos\n[The less you see him the less you will think about him.]\n\nJust start over. Like life was before you met him.\n\nSoon you will think about him less and less. Then move on.\n\nIt is easy to hide your feeling from someone that doesn't exist to you anymore.
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You will get over it.It takes time.Try to do something to help yourself get on with life.You will never love the same way again.Each time will be different.But you will find another wonderful person to fill that void.If you two broke up I am sure that you can find someone who will be the girl friend of your dreams.It all takes time.