How old do you think you need to be before you get a boyfriend/girlfriend? My dad says 19 lol.?
924933
I think the best time to get a boyfriend or girfriend is.. at least when you're in highschool. you're learning more about yourself.
45473
You have to wonder about a guy that can't get a WOMAN his own age, but has to resort to dating a TEENAGER. He's too old for you. Stick with guys your own age.
852736
I think that you should wait until you do reach 18 before getting romanticly involved with him because too many bad things could happen if you guys get into a fight since you are still a minor. But after you turn 18, you should go for it. I'm 26 and am dating a 42 year old. Most of them still act like they're 15 not matter how old they get. lol
377394
That depends on how old you are. If you are of legal age, then I don't think there is a limit on age. Just remember that if you do engage in a relationship then don't convert yourself just to "make" him like you more. Stay true to yourself and your family.
313050
You mean "caucasian." Anyway, you are 12 and you're too young to date. Guys your age are only after one thing, so don't even bother. Wait until you are older to date, i'd say 18. You can flirt, maybe go on dates, movies, kiss a little but don't go falling head over heels for every good looking guy. Take it easy. Focus on school work hehe :) How do you choose a guy? how about you choose zero, zilch, nada, nothing! trust me, you don't need a boyfriend now. When I was your age I never wanted a boyfriend because I knew they only wanted sex and wanted to have fun then break my heart so I chose not to get involved with any at all and now I am 21 and have a great b/f. Even grown men take a long time to mature lol, how can a young one like 13 grow up?? They want fun and you will only be just that. I'm not trying to get in your case but wait ok, and be patient!! Don't date, don't do anything you will regret; your reputation is on the line and once it's screwed up it cannot be fixed. You are probably an 8th or 9th grader. No boys needed. Chill with your female friends. Ciao.
518724
Hey Me.... I am a mother and would feel very hurt if my child didn't tell me what was up and ran off with a 21 yr old. May I suggest that you sit down and talk with your parents. Yes they may be upset at first, but their your parents and will love you reguardless. Here is something else to think about. When I was your age I was head over hills for a man 7 yr older than me. I dated him for a year and realized that I wasn't in love with him, but liked his company because he listened to me when I thought my parents weren't. When it turn out they were. Then I met this cool guy my age and we dated all through highschool. So if you will take a suggestion from a mom..don't rush into anything take your time, because you never know a cool girl your age may come along that you relate to.
535903
All depends on you. Society will tell you however that there is something wrong with you if your not with a boyfriend by your mid-twenty's. But its all about you and everyone is different. Just do what your comfortable with..
520618
Is he over eighteen? If not your mom's right. Take into mind maturity levels here. Boys mature slower then girls and if you think he's at the same level as you in wanted a lasting relationship you might be wrong. It really depends on how old you are and how old he is.
259794
why do you want a boyfriends so bad?  they're nothing but trouble.  i didn't have a boyfriend when i was 14.  now i'm nearly 24 and been married a year.  don't worry about it just yet.
856664
I'm 15 and I date and so does everyone in my high school.  You can't put an age limit on love and attraction so it shouldn't matter how old you are, as long as you are being safe.  I think that teen dating is great because i sure can't imagine life without it.  It's great that you've found someone that you love and you shouldn't let anyone tell you that you are not old enough to have a serious boyfriend.
605950
First...how old are you?
894366
you dont say how old you are, but i guess you're young so i would say just be yourself and dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend. when its right you will know and things will just flow with the right person without you having to try hard. So just see how it goes and then you can decide if he is the right guy for you or if you are ready for a relationship. good luck
1069612
its not a matter of age, its a matter of maturity. if you are mature enough to know what you will and will not do with a bf/gf, then its fine for you to date and some ppl can do that at age 13 or 14. some ppl just aren't mature enough to know wat they will and won't do but are dating anyway and those are the ppl who get pregnant or get someone else pregnant before they are married. you have to be able to set reasonable boundaries for yourself and be responsible enough to let your bf/gf know what your boundaries are**
504303
I'm 26 and when I was 14 my dad didn´t let me have a boy friend either, I didn´t understand at that time and I use to think that all my friend will make fun of me and the guys will never ask me again, but you know what? is for the best, ejoy your youth being FREE, I'm married now and I will be very happy of having 14 and single again, your dad is just taking care of you, he doesn´t want you to get hurt, because out there you can get seriously hurt, a brocken hurt is not a nice feeling.  Your dad is just like a man that doesn´t know anything about jewelry and then some one give him a pearl (you) but he doesn´t know what to do with that precious jewel so he decide to keep it in the box so the pearl won´t get hurt and live longer!!, just wait and he will come along, proove him that you are responsible, don´t argue with him about this, try to be madure, even more madure than your friends that have boyfriends.
904386
You don't mention your age, or his. Age is really just a number, the level of maturity is what matters. As long as you have stuff in common, get along, and like each other  - that's what's important. Also, don't let him influence you to do anything that you wouldn't do on your own - he may be sexually active, and you may not be ready.
651513
Why is this something that you are even concerned about?  "Farthest I should go?!?!?!"  I agree with the other posters.  Sitting beside one another in class or at lunch!!!  I can't believe your parents allow you to have a boyfriend at the age of 12.
1100410
sweetheart, you sound like your 25 and going through a mid-life crisis...Don't "look" for any of that, just let it happen.  I know at your age <<under 16 right>> you may feel ready for a relationship, but your much better off with a guy friend than a boyfriend.  Think about the important things like school, friends, parties, fashion....Trust me, boys are trouble....Don't end up with someone and get pregnant at an early age, there is more to life than that....Look for that care and love from your family, you'll be better off.....If your reading this and thinking that you've heard this all before its because its true.....trust me i would know...