Would you wait til after marriage to have sex or after getting engaged?
928016
yes it will ruin your relationship \n\njust wait you have this long no one will die !  ♠
247446
Wait until your married or until you have lived together for a couple of years.
236692
wait until marriage True love waits and looks out for the best. sex before then looks out for me.
777939
My husband and I got engaged early and We both should probably of waited a lil longer.. We don't regret it now... \n\nBut we both do look back and think we needed to grow and learn a lil more about life and being together as girlfriend and boyfriend.\n\nI'd say wait it out if you both feel like you should be together forever then it's worth the wait.\n\nAnything is possible and you should weight it all out... Should I rush or should I take my time?\n\nAsk yourself that because in the end your heart knows what's best not your inner-voice.\n\nJust take it one day at a time and see what happens!\n\nGood Luck!
523157
You can propose at anytime. That doesnt mean you have to get married a week after getting engaged. The marriage could be a year or two after, depending on what you both decide. Juz make sure getting married is what you want before getting married. Or you could simply buy a "promise" ring now and get an engagement ring later on. Good luck.
930369
As someone who was very sexually active at a young age.....PLEASE, PLEASE wait. Your time will come. Please be a kid for a while longer. Sex will come, I'm not saying wait until your married or anything like that. Just wait a couple more years. I wish I were more articulate and could get my thoughts out on this better, just please wait....
1028090
sex before marriage with anyone is considered to be a sin & possibly you don't want to be a sinner.if you are getting married than don't why you wait for sometime.the wait is really going to be worth it....\nGOOD LUCK!!!
449879
That's fine, lots of couples wait until they are married to have sex even though they have had sex with each other before.  It just makes the honeymoon better because both of you will be extremely horny, so you will enjoy it more.  He's a good guy; just wait.  I promise you, it will be worth it!
1136866
Its whenever you are comfortable enough to do so, and where your values stand.  My now fiance and I moved in with eachother after only two months of dating.  Some people think that you should not live with eachother until you get married...I disagree...
1018205
I think it is a matter of personal preference. When you  are in love it is hard to wait until marriage. I do think though that when you marry virginity is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse.
407969
Until you and your fiance are ready to get married.
580354
What!?!? Don't you KNOW?? I thought you said that you are going to marry!! Normally people wait until AFTER they've found a suitable mate before making that decision...!
522736
Please, please, please wait. It is so important. My husband was a virgin when we married and I wasn't. I wanted to have my virginity back so badly when we married but it was too late. Our honeymoon was great but it was bittersweet because I had to deal with the regret of him not being my first. It could have been the best experience of my life. And everything else counts too. I wish I wouldn't have even held hands, kissed, or anything like that until I married. It would have been so special. Please save it for marriage.
504131
Just for one night stand?. Please... Have sexwhen you get married.
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
226935
After Marriage.  Marital sex is a beautiful thing.  It should be more than just an act of physicality.  It is an expression of love, respect, and commitment.
806064
I'm in the same boat as you and think you should keep away from fornication. Waiting until your wedding night really shows your new wife that you have waited your entire life to be with her. Sex has nothing to do with love; it is lust and really shouldn't be a factor outside of marriage because both participants know fine well after they have sex they have nothing moer they can give to one another. Outside of wedlock shows they are struggling to keep their relationship going. I know I may sound ignorant but thats the way I see things, it's the way I raised myself. Thinking of showing my devotion to my future (hopefully) wife rather than pleasing my own lust.