Why do good guys get teased and made fun of?
928261
Because the male chauvenists like to put down the good guys in front of the ladies so the chauvenists can have the girls for themselves.  But it's not all the good guys.  Most of the good guys know when to fight back.  I love the good guys. :]
998931
Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
44635
We're a bit slow in understanding... No, in se everyone wants a guy that's nice. We're just frightened that 'nice' is all he'll ever be. A man is supposed to be an animal sometimes: It's superficial, but with a nice guy it's only guessing if he'll ever be a challenge in bed. With macho-dudes you're 'sure' of a challenge, and whenever he's sweet, it's even a bigger party, for you know that didn't com easy for him... The rough guy with the soft heart is a stayer on the market. And even when he doesn't have a soft heart, you can always pretend for your friends he has and then they think you're a winner. It's also very 'in' to complain about your guy. Some girls bond by wining. Don't ask me where that comes from. But in the end I think philosopher René Girard has an answer: 'You want what is wanted.' Tough guys get promoted a lot (e.g. by themselves or by 'cool' friends). Nice guys don't promote themselves and get promoted by parents (not really a reference, parents are those people we don't want to become like). And since you want what others you admire want,... you end up with a bully sometimes. Good to know: we do come to sence. When we get to know this nice guy and he surprises us with some unexpected male talents,... Ding Ding Jackpot!
946016
Becuase nice guys are outcasts, ladies want the so called bad boys, besides ladies are too picky, and they have stereotypes that ALL men being cheaters. In this cold and cynical world it seems like  good people are in perpetual doom of always meeting the worst of the opposite sex. Its always darkest before dawn, at the end it will all work out,  life and true love always finds a way.
324138
Of course the saying goes to each cat their own rat. Not everyone loves the bad boys and most nice guys eventually do win in one form or another. The most interesting thing ive heard as to why this occurs is that its some kind of evolutionary kick in type of thing. When looking for someone to mate with, pass on you genes, stop the biological clocks ticking, whatever you want to call it, women (conciously or not) look for a dominant, assertive, more evolutionarily "fit" man. These type of guys are typically the ones you describe, though they arent all abusive and unfaithful as much as they are assertive and aggressive. If you believe women decide what role a man is going to play very shortly after they meet them, then it stands to reason that a more assertive approach = more response from women, as a boring or too nice approach takes a little longer to cultivate.
472043
because... their popular and like to be idiots to get themselves some boyfriends...idoits...and i should know..they love to tease me because i actually get all A's..\nthey are just weird
47514
Girl trust me I do the same thing, and ask myself the same question. I finally came to realize that I don't think we do it on porpose, sometimes it just happens that way. Maybe we are afraid of being happy, or maybe we grew up in a really strict family, and we are good girls, and opposites really do attract. It's kindof like we realize that we will never be bad girls, so jerky, bad boys are what attracts us. Sometimes for me it's fun to get my heart broken so that I can be sad. You will realize though girl that in the end it's not worth it. I regret turning down good guys for jerks, cuz in the end I always lose. And a lot of times the good guys are nerdy, because since they have no looks they have to treat girl good. Maybe we are just to picky. But trust me there are good looking guys that will treat you good. Just don't give up.
1032102
They do it because they can. They get a thrill out of physical domination. They think they know better than you do about what you want and what you don't want. \n\nI don't know who this person is to you, if you have a choice to be in their presence or not, but if this behavior occurs more than you can bear, you need to avoid the person, or if you can't avoid him, get help from someone that you trust and has some influence with the perpetrator. \n\nHave courage. These types of men will respect a person demanding their feelings be know and respected or if he is not so caring, he will avoid you because you are too high maintence in his opinion. Either way your courage will get the result you desire.
170007
Men are clueless as to what they want, they themselves wishes that someone could tell them, and even if someone did, would they listen, NO, Why? Because they are self opiniated and listen to noone, Its an ego thing.\nWhen we find a good man, you just have to thank all the gods and angels in heaven and on earth.  In the meantime, keep the hope alive and when you come across a loser/liar show them the way to SanJose, better known as hell.
886829
Some guys can be real jerks.
775705
if guys are insecure about certain things, they sometimes joke about or "jokingly" criticize themselves, kinds fishing for compliments....typically if they bother u about it alot, theyre insecure...it sounds like this guy has been hated alot....so he's just checkin to make sure ur not tired of him yet, and he doesnt think that u'll like him very long....
345367
They treat you nice in the beginning to bait the woman in then once they get comfortable the real jerk comes to life.The reason why some men do this is because if they really were to act like themselves, they would never get any sex!!!!
416849
Guys that like you are intimidated because they think they aren't good enough for you and the girls hate you because it is always the really hot guys that want you and talk about you and some of the guys are dumb and talk in front of their girlfriends. I know from first hand experience we are what guys call "the girls we marry and take home to mom not fool around with and dump" just remember to never let anyone take advantage of you being quiet, just because your quiet doesn't mean you can't take care of yourself.
1075443
Because people are judgemental and stereotypical and I don't know the entire answer.  People just like to poke fun at others for their own amusement or because they have insecurities in their lives.
280081
Sometimes guys are just trying to look cool and sometimes they try to look like they don't care so much.  Deep inside they are jealous though.  It's human nature.  They won't say it, but they will act on it.  Probably in a more shady way if not talk directly to the other guy.  But if they say they're not jealous, it's a total BS.
904039
Yeah, some guys tease girls and don't give them compliments because it is the oposite of what girls expect.  Girls expect guys to give them lots of compliments and be nice to them, but they like it when a guy teases them because he is different.\n\nAnd teasing or not giving complimets is not immature, it is just what we do to catch your attenion and make you be more attracted to us out of all the "nice guys", thank you for proving the point that girls expect a guy to be nice and give compliments.
32223
It's not really being a "bad boy". It's more in the confidence of the guy. It's how he presents himself to other people -- if he's unsure of himself, it comes off as more desperate than anything else. Where as if he's confident -- it makes him that much sexier.