my boyfriend...talks about the boy i loved all the time?
919537
Explain to him that you're tired of hearing about the boy. Say, if you want to talk about him--go hang out with him and be around him. Otherwise, let's talk about something else. If not then I am leaving. Simple as that.
464600
I hope he asks you!!! That would be great!  I hope the best for you.  Thats so great that he likes your son too!  He probably will ask you soon... and I hope he does!  It sounds like he might.  But i understand what your saying about gettin ur hopes up.  That would suck.  SO.. if he doesnt ask... then maybe further along in ur relationship... talk to him about if he would ever marry u and maybe hint to him that ur ready to marry him. Good luck!
1150413
Girl i know what your talking about i feel that way sometimes too. Maybe you need to just talk to him about it.
877963
Honey, you are way too young to have a boyfriend.  And you are way too young to be discussing with another boy if you are going to have HIS kids.  I would break it off with him gently and say you are way too young to be in a relationship with someone.  That is the truth.  If he is scaring you and makes you feel uncomfortable then you should stay away from him.
99673
i have a boyfriend, but i'm not shy to ask him anything. I think communication is important and so does he, so every time i have something to say, even if its awkward, he encourages me to say it and waits until i have the courage to spit it out!
447755
Do you love your boyfriend? If yes, cut off communication.\n\nDo you love those other people? If yes, why are you with your boyfriend?
36966
i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!
870564
you need to grow up a little.  If you are in love with your boyfriend, then you shouldn't be asking that question.
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
223381
i can tell you one thing. forever is never forever. we can say forever all we want and most of the time it wont happen. all i can say now is to enjoy the time you have. if it lasts and i pray it does, then your boyfriend will be the best thing for you and if not...well im sure your friendship will stay alive!!!
572179
i kno i'm in love w/ my bf b/c everytime i see him or hear his voice or laugh i get butterflies in my stomach. i always want him w/ me. i tell him i love him and do things that he likes to do.
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
1110944
you seem to be very young. i remember when i was young and i'd date guys and i'd throw around the "i love yous" because i simply liked them or liked their attention and didn't know the difference. i'm in my late 20s now and madly in love and know the difference. he's asking you if you love him so he knows if he can control you or not. most young boys only want to be in control of the girl they date, not to be equals with them. plus, if he's not calling you, why are you waiting for him? go out there and have fun w/your friends. boys aren't everything! it seems like this boy doesn't know what he wants. he seems to have liked you but i'm not sure if he still does. young boys change their minds quickly. you seem to like him, but i think you like the idea of him more than the real him. be young and single! there's only once in your life where you can be young and single. enjoy it!
310375
Sounds like he's a loser.. I would seriously think about getting rid of him. \n\ntalk to him and tell him that it hurts you to see him talking to other girls.. if he's not willing to talk to you about it and how he feels about you with other boys.. then well he obviously dosn't love you as much as you love him. and why waiste your time and life with someone who doesn't love you, eh?
239248
hey baby gurl i know exactly what you are going through inch by inch! you need to look in your heart and see all the good and all the bad he has done for you. once you got that itz like a epsiod of jeperdoy and the facts take it from there if you want to talk email me at ugot_me69@yahoo.com talk to someone who knows where your comming from
102936
oh please think about what you want to do.  Read you statement for yourself. everything that you are telling us about this man is all the reason to leave him.  I have been though it and i thought the same thing you did. (I love him). but it only gets worse. please belive me shy away why you still can. You don't need to stay with this boy, please put yourself in our shoes and read what you have wrote like you are reading a friends letters and see the sings. you might be in love with him now, but as time goes on and it might take years! you will see that this is not for you and that you can not take it anymore.