I had finally made my decision untill.........?
924414
If you really want to get rid of him, just have his baby!
855645
I don't know what the hell Sanet is talking about, but it is very considerate that you thought about her in this decision, but the only way for you to truly find out is to sit down and talk to her about it. Maybe you all can come up with some sort of agreement. And if she agrees it gives her time to find a job out where you were transfered.
883920
Could be any, all, or none. Question is why did you do that? Did you wait until the last minute? Is someone other then yourself exerting the pressure that makes you do that? Let's hope you are able to plan better next time and be kinder to yourself.
897245
Yes, usually after I'v made the decision though, I usually try to convince people that it was the right decision, but I'm really trying to convince myself. If I can get them to agree with me, I feel validated.
618271
It is a miracle he is still aroud. Please, don't feel guilty. It was his decision and he didn't let you help him. Good luck.
674707
That is such a personal thing.  I don't know that there is any one right time frame for that.  I knew 6 months into my relationship that I was going to get married, but I know some relationships that last for years and years and the couple is't ready to commit.  This is really something to decide for yourself.
1027222
you should have waited for the right time.. but what has been done has been done...i just hope u never regreted it... and if u think it will help you to open that up to your parents,why not...just be ready for a 1 month ground...kiddin!
544332
Buy something that you have been wanting for a long time or save it until you need it!!! that is what i would do
452094
You never really know if you are making the right decision-just use ur common sense and follow ur heart and always be honest with urself-there will be times where life will throw a curve ball and believe me they can come out of no where but just believe in urself...
500306
I thought it was an odd choice of course... Ah well, time will tell.
380832
YES!  My husband and I both waited until our wedding night.  It was a wonderful decision.  I pray that my children do the same.\n\nYou will find a wonderful man who respects you and your values. Don't settle for anything less.
631544
my husband and I waited about three weeks. I knew I really liked him, and I didn't want to be too easy, so I held out. I wanted to right away.\nwe have been married 4 years now.
567265
Sounds like she wants you to be decisive, not to take a long time to make a decision. She can always reject your decision, but tell her want she wants, don't go back and forth on this
1102669
Wait at least two weeks to feel the change..Good luck!!
740894
Remember that YOU are in charge so the answer can be whatever you decide it will be.  \n\nP.S. I hope the answer that you choose is "yes".
570011
WHEN I SIGNED MY DIVORCE PAPERS!!!!!!!
584560
that i can make choices today... once today is over its over, we can't go back.. today I don't want to have to look back and wonder if I did the right thing... You have to apply principals in all your affairs.. I don't know what others are going through so who am I to judge someone.