Black women are the most godly group in this country, why do they have the most men problems?
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Don't make generalizations of any race, even one you belong to. I'm sure there are plenty of black Atheist women in the world.
406096
Cause black women dont have time for men sneaking around behind their backs or games and most men are afraid to have a realationship like that, cause they know they wont win
599878
Africa's problems are of their own making.  Why people continue to think that writing checks and giving aid to the continent is the answer to its woes are wildly misguided.  The removal of corrupt leaders is key to any advancement.  As long as evil leaders reign, the Continent will remain a mess.  Where are those who promote women's rights when it comes to Africa?  Where are those who who understand that its poverty and famine are a man-made condition (by the current leadership)?  It is unfortunate, but African governments need to be overthrown before economic advancement, women's rights, and hunger, etc, can be overcome.  Any aid needs to have strings attached and should be directed and allocated by those provideding it, not corrupt leaders who steal it and disperse it to cronies and care nothing of their own people.  \n\nGive a man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach him to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.
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OK I am confused you say they fantasize about us 24/7 and then you say your husband dates black women are you a man married to a man or a woman married to a woman? OK it's not a matter of white women being attracted to black men it's juts today people find mates without looking at the race before many just didn't look outside their race as it was taboo. I started dating black males when i was 17 and am now 49 and have never changed. black men to me are more sensitive to a woman's emotions and needs. now it may be hard for me to judge as i never really dated white guys except when a teen but my dad and  uncles etc are all white and most of them were abusive now I'm not saying black males aren't abusive either but from past experience I would never date a white man. Of course my husband is black and we've been together except for a few years of separation for 28 years so I am not looking for anyone period. you find love where ever it is and race should never be a factor I personally just have never been attracted to white males since i started dating black men by the way they are all built the same some have large penises and some just average but they sure know how to take their time to please their woman
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Because those boys are jealous and insecure. Pay them no mind and date whomever you want.  Personally, I think that 16 is a bit young to be receiving gifts (other than minor tokens) from a boy, but that's an issue for you and your parents. \n\nThe idea that women"belong" to the men of a particular group is hardly new or unique to black men.  When I was in high school, one of my friends was dating a white girl and he had to deal with some of the same nonsense from white boys.\n\nIt's a tired old idea and the truth is that with more and more black women taking care of their business and doing well, more are going to date inter racially.
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Probably because society just wants to make black people more insecure. They screwed with whities head, and now they spend zillions of dollars on wieght loss crap that only weakens their bodies so that Jewish doctors can rake in the cash for heart surgery. Honestly, black women spit in the faces of the oppressor....good job! You can tell them to kiss your big fat black a$$.
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I think and this is just me so please I mean no harm All though slavery is over society (white America) still thinks that white is right, you have to be white to get the lead roll in the movies, on TV, commercials what ever no its not fair but that's just where we are today so I say that to say these three ethnic groups of women are not more attractive then the rest of ethnic groups just more acceptable in our society I would have to say that black women are among the most beautiful women in the world......Question why do so many of today's women go to the beach and try to become black? In my world the strongest person in the world is the black woman.... Remember this is only my opinion no harm intended
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I am a woman and I think that men think they have it better.Behind every good man is a woman.
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Please don't take this as rude or mean, but....We are all raised differently. Back during slavery, the males were often ripped away from their families, so the women had to get extra strong. So alot of them got independant to the point that a man cannot stand up to that kind of independance. Then they had babies and passed it down. Not all black women are like that, not all of any ethnic group are. But I think it started as a coping mechanism. So many women (race iregardless) now believe that the only things that last is the mother-child bond. They expect the Daddy to ditch them. So he does. Perception plays a huge part in reality. White women never had to deal with having their men ripped away from them, or their families torn apart by things they could not control. So white females never had to be as tough in a generalized way. Nowdays alot of those black women are still getting their men ripped away. But its the guy's choosing (so still no choice for the female). Between violence, drugs, gangs, prison...can you blame black women for preparing their baby girls to expect to be a single parent?! Better to face reality and hope you get a good guy, than to live with your head in the sand. I bet alot of those black women are alot better equipped than their white counterparts to raise children and survive.
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Me: African-American woman.  1. Personally I'm tired seeing it...media tends to focus on black men with white women exclusively, this helps to send out the message that black men consider white women to be their ideal standard of beauty...for some black men, having a white woman helps to validate their status in life... however not every black man wants or feels the need to have a white woman on their arm. 2. I also find it very interesting how very little attention is given to relationships between white men/black women. Hmmm, what does this really say about society, and American culture in general?
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Not all Black women are loud and date gangsters. I've been around white women, Asian women, and Latinas who are loud. You sound very self hating remember you came from a beautiful Black woman.
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I actually think it is! I have seen black people who are racist against blacks (there was some talk show on it a long time ago), so it could be that someone is sexist against their own gender. For example, some man may feel that men are inferior to women because they are unable to bear children. Odd, but it could happen!
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Man... some of you people have real issues!  My wife is black and I see none of any of this crap some of the answers have been spewing!\n\nSome of you need to wake up, throw away those stereotypes and look at reality.\n\nWhere I live you see more and more BF/WM couples.  Like another answer said, this is the fastest growing IR relationship type.  \n\nWhen people start to realize people are people, regardless of race, then, this country can really start to do great things!
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It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
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some women like that. some don't. some MEN act that way some don't. It works with some women and it fails with some women. seriously doubt it's a BLACK MAN thing.
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African American communities are being ravaged and attacked by an epidemic of AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). At issue is our lifestyle. Although a number of AIDS cases can be attributed to Injection Drug Use (IDU), too many of us – whether gay, straight, male or female – continue to have unprotected sex with multiple partners or people we barely know.\n\nThe AIDS rate among Black women is three times as high as that among Latino women and 18 times as high as that among White women. Today Black women make up more than half of all women who have died of AIDS.\n\nAfrican Americans make up 13 percent of the population, yet we now account for 41 percent of all AIDS cases in the United States. The Harvard AIDS Institute estimates that in the year 2000 more than half of all our country’s AIDS cases will be within the African American community.
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I think it's because it was mostly men who were in control of  nearly everything in the past. It was men who worked, voted, drove, and etc. I'm sure that when "God" was first acknowledged or came into existence, it was probably men who preached and wrote about "God" and they could only relate to a "God" that mirrored them in some manner. And because women were once considered weak, how could someone or something as powerful as"God" be female? \n\nI also agree with what you said about language constraints.