whats the definition of flirting from a guys point of view?
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There are several types of flirting:\n\nA. For guys who just want to break the ice and tensions, you know loosen the atmosphere and make one feel comfortable they flirt. ----------- 10 % (Usually men who are married, not single, or gay)\n\nB. For guys who have an interest with a girl.---------90 %\n\nHowever, flirting can be misleading especially if one person likes the other.  Example: A woman flirting with a guy just for fun or sheer boredom the guy who is flirting back with the girl gets teased as the girl mentions her freakin boyfriend a few times, keeping the guy confused.!  That is so cruel ladies!
617733
Flirting is almost always harmless until you run into a true a-hole who wants to rape u. But you are young and you'll be flirting till the day you die...you're a woman
936147
Nothing really he's just flirting.  Talk to him. I won't hurt any thing.
657244
I think my personal favourite so far has been a gentle claw at the back of the neck during a kiss.  Thaaaat'll do it.  :)\n\nAs for flirting, practice the floor hook.  If you get the sense a joke or the end of a funny story is coming, look down and adjust something on your shoe, or the table.  When the punchline comes, half-grin and look into his eyes without moving your head from its position, angled down and to the side.  Hold it there long enough and he'll have to start flustering, unsure of what he just did.  \n\nNot only are you showing off an attractive profile and being playful, you put him in a position of being self-conscious and fluttery: emotions he'll associate with dating.  Floor hook.  Never fails.  (I should write a book.)  :D
685797
Short answer:  Cause MOST guys don't talk to girls and smile unless they are attracted to them.  \n\nNow are you saying that flirting is bad, or that you're just smiling and not flirting?  I think most guys can tell the difference between flirting and just talking/smiling; flirting involves more playfulness, different kinds of eye contact, maybe a little touch occasionally, etc.  If a guy can't tell the difference between flirting and just talking and smiling, then he doesn't understand women.\n\nFlirting doesn't mean that you are attracted to the guy, but if a guy is cocky (which usually means he's not that bright), he'll just assume that flirting means you are attracted to him.  \n\nI like a girl that I work with, and she flirts with me like crazy...but has a boyfriend.  I know she likes hanging out with me, but I'm smart enough to know that she may just like me as a friend.  Thing is, her smiles are accompanied by that "I wanna ---- you" look.  Big difference from a normal smile.
876270
Flirting is a fun game. The highest form I know is hinting at the indescribable pleasures to be had in a relationship with you, and not letting on like your object is even in the running. They'll come to you as curious as a kitten to a paper bag. Don't act desperate, that's a turn-off. Act like you have All The Time In THe World and are in no hurry. They won't be able to stand not having this fun you're hinting at. Good luck.
58199
To tell the truth, I really just think that he is judt flirting with you. Is he really likes you he should be more open with you.
643044
Flirting is part of human nature. We do it when we don't intend to do it. If it concerns you, try to keep yourself in check. Self assess what you like about yourself when you flirt and what you don't. Work on avoiding the things you hate and incorporate what you like. You'll get a good idea from peoples reactions on what works well too.
157033
Well, it really depends on how much he is flirting with you, but one sure way you can tell is by flirting with him back and smiling a lot, and if he seems to return the gestures, then yes for sure he is into you. =)
84331
it is flirtin but it is also probaly sayin they are in a relationship or jus tryna to be flirtacious
402630
You know what, I'm really sure that guy is flirting with, its just a different approach... You know, when guys like us flirt, it doesn't always mean that we have to touch you or something to make you feel that we are interested with you, always remember that when a guy only talks, makes you laugh, wants to have constant communication with you, that's a solid proof that he flirts with you... And for me, be proud of yourself because that guy will not show respect to you even he flirts with you if you don't deserve it, it only means that for him, you are a descent woman that deserves to be respected... And that's a compliment... And its good that he knows his limitations to you...
990329
In this day and age I would say no but it really depends on what this person means by it.  I've had female co-workers call me that and I wasn't offended because I know they aren't flirting with me. I think of it as sort of a term of endearment.  But if a this guy is trying to get a date or just in your pants then I'd have to say no.
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To me flirting means to make gestures and comments of a romantic nature, not to make vulgar abusive sexual gestures or comments. For example "hi you look attractive today" would be acceptable as a flirtacious comment while saying something to a woman like "Hey you got really big boobs" would be an abusive remark for a guy to make.
1173148
No, flirting is normal. It makes you feel sexy. It is wrong to act on it never put yourself in a compramising position. Avoid temptation. But flirting is fine
1078233
I think this guy want to flirt on you, but in a wrong way. Not like his action like grabbing your head, putting his smelly feet on you...A good flirt is like eye contact, smile, soft touch and etc. It should be happy and comfortable.\n\nI think he likes you, but he is not a suitable guy for you. So, you can just ignore him if he still show the bad move on you.\n\nJoyce
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Flirting is fine as long as its done safely and tastefully. Throwing yourself on a guy and being someone you normally wouldn't be just to get attention probably isn't the best thing to do. But letting your good points shine through while teasing him in a fun and playful manner is a good way to get someone to feel more comfortable around you and open up more. It doesn't even have to be with someone you're hoping to hook up with. Flirting with anyone can be a good way to make friends and show others your fun and interesting points.
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um\nboth equally.\nhe shouldnt be flirting with you\nand you shouldnt be provoking it\n\nmost likely if you quit flirting back, he'll get the hint and move on to someone else.