Will he ever stop bringing up my past? He knows i'm not proud of it?
921959
He will stop bringing up your past when you stop feeling guilty about it. If you expect him to get over his insecurities, then you're going to have to stop telling lies (big or small). Because it is the "lie".. and not what we do that hurts the most. You are doing good by not bringing up his faults, now start working on making sure he has no (reasonable) reason to bring up yours.\n\nSincerely
1081130
Relax!  Just because he did something in the past that was a mistake doesn't mean he is going to do it to you.  He was honest with you and explained it to you - you don't have a reason to worry.
1093076
i lie about how much people I've slept with because sometimes the person your dating doesn't look at  the person you are and only  thinks about what you've done in your past  never tell everything about your past it's better that way and i will continue not to tell people am dating how many people I've slept with in my past it's not much
293078
Leave it alone! He does not need to relive this with his girlfriend. I'm sure you've made it clear that if he WANTS to talk, you're ready to listen and that's ALL you should do. You're not his therapist and you are not qualified to be his therapist. You're his girlfriend and need to respect his boundaries and quit prying into pieces of his past he does not want to dwell on.
114846
As with my boyfriend and I ...we like to keep the past in the past. There's no use in bringing up something that might make your partner mad/upset unless they ask about it or it is a serious issue that would concern them needing to know. For example: STD's, crimes...so forth.
9371
Parents can be pretty weird about their past. for one thing they don't want to give you any ideas that they are less than perfect... They never made mistakes or did silly things.\n Just don't bug him he will tell you things when you least expect it. I have told my kids things about my childhood and they freak out. One daughter will actually cover her ears at times and she is 31. Geez
1121220
Looks like you are holding grudge against people in your past. \n\nWhy, my friend, are you hurting yourself when these "people" may not even remember any of those incidents. You are causing pain to no one else but yourself.\nJust forget. You had no control over those incidents.
73113
Don't bring up your ex-lovers.  And if he insists, then tell him as little as possible, and remind him that that was then, this is now.
668520
If he hasn't asked then he's prob just having respect for you and your past and doesn't want to invade. He prob feels it's up to you if you choose to one day tell him. If he tells you that he isn't interested then don't be offended, after all the past is in the past and why is there a need to tell him about it. He's interested in what's going on in the present and not what happened in the past. Don't think to much of it.
329082
well dear.i dont know wether am givign u the right guidance or not1 i feel there is no need to tell him! past is past1 if he is a real good guy....why do u wanan loose him by reveling your past....virginity ia ll bull shit.this is all what people created......just go ahed buddy! be cool!dont tell him.........he will never come to know about that in life! carry on the way ur.....just be loyal to him here after.........may god bless u with good fortune!
310650
it depends on you if we are together and u are acting like a slut. then for get it, but if change and show that i can trust you then for get about your past. Remember trust is the only thing that keeps people close to you when you lose that is never the same.
332555
You should really listen to what he has said to you because only a person knows what they are capable of. He may already be in different (sexual) relationships with other people and don't want to tell you. Respect he was man enough to tell you and not play games with your heart.
230770
You should both get over it or move on.\n\nThe past is gone, to argue about it is a waste of time and energy.
818603
That'a a hard one. Is he known for lying in the past? It's good to have trust, but we careful you don't get hurt and mislead.
970645
if she wants you to know,she will tell you.you know we all have skeltons in out closets.maybe she likes to forget about the bad times.well if she brings it up and ask you what you think,then you should tell her,but be nice about it.just dont go digging into her past and telling everyone you meet,thats between you and her,and not anyones elses business.
568103
If your planning on making it se serious with this guy. yeah you should tell him just for he knows you haven't been lieing about your past boyfriend if he hears them from someone else.
478487
I would be P.O.ed in the worst way.  What was he thinking?  I'd give some serious consideration to what he's done.  How many other things has he concealed from you?  Doesn't he know that behavior like that shows disrepectfulness for your relationship?  Clamp down on that now!