I dont know what to do.?
913844
You're not ready for sex. Nothing wrong with it, in your own time and space you will be. I think you feel fear because you're rushing into this cos your friends have done it and you don't want to seem left behind. Forget about everyone's need for a change and start focusing on your own. Say no and if they cannot accept it, they are not worth your energy.
909656
I`m lost. I don`t know where to begin.\n\nTHE END!!
528455
Go up and talk to him and talk about the fun you had with him and friends at the pub.  Then suggest you all do it again sometime soon.  See what he SAYS to this.  That's about all you can do.
1075916
I don't know what to do sorry!
764904
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
1178537
You are so far into the material and emotional world that I cannot help you.  My advice is to drop all girlfriends and boyfriends and have no relationship whatsoever until you can get your head together.  You are a living soap opera! lol hon get some help!
985547
In time things will get better, but before then try and let go.  And if he comes back to you let him know that he has given up a real good thing.  Its going to hurt for now, but try and make this into a good experience and know that there is someone else out there for you.
246380
I thnk you should go to a therapist or talk about it with your family and all of you can decide what to do.
875833
Life is short. Do what you have to in a nice way. Make it short and sweet. Move on.
128983
I had the same problem and it wasnt good. talk to him, let him know what your feelings are. if he still didnt listen then he doesnt care so i will say to leave him and find somebody else.
72388
you should just follow your feelings. dont do what you dont wanna do. just do it.
459148
Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!
890565
go for it. \nTell him how you feel\nor else you will just keep yourself wondering "what if you did anything different"
198789
You need to take some time for yourself and figure out what you want in your life. Get away from everyone and be alone somewhere that you can just think. Where are you at in life? What do you want to accomplish? What is important to you? How are you going to do this?  Life is a mess sometimes, take time to clean it up.
1119108
something has happen, find out what it is, if it is work, school or family. if those are the reason, talk with one another. find time to meet. if not, it is time to maybe think of finding a new bf
521884
Stop saying your life sucks for one, girls have enough emotional torment, they don't want to deal with yours. Stop building up this great and wonderful thing... its unlikly to happen any way you've imagined it. Just relax and let everything come in its own time. Just be you and have no expectations.
1126604
man im in the same shit ..its crazy aint it ...but u just have to just ask her what she wanna do and jus let her know how u feel... and see where it goes