What would you think of a 90 year old man who takes a 12 year old girl as his wife?
920588
I would say, she is crazy, and he is a pervert.
1131445
I think there's some kind of attraction...and curiosity...but why is it socially acceptable that 80 year old males go with 20 year old females and the other way round is still totally unacceptable?
1075930
Yes your over reacting the more you react the more she wants him. If you show little or no reaction then she will stop. I feel age is just a number but this day and age most guys won't stay with a girl that young for that reason she is immature the first sign of immaturity he will run. He is probably going through a mid-life crisis and wanted to burn the bridge of sugar daddy. She on the other hand is probably want to do the most outrageous thing she can now that "SHE IS AN ADULT" and you can't stop her. Hun I feel for you but my advice is to bite your tongue and let her make her mistake.\nTry finding out if the man is married that could stop it really quick with a call to his wife. Dirty but it would work.
280656
As long as she is of legal age it is none of your business.  \n\nYou don't know what the girl needs sexually or if your uncle can do the job, and it does not matter.  Sometimes young women like old men because of the size of their wallet, not their penis.  Also, they might really like each other.\n\nIf his heart is broken, oh well. That is life regardless of age.
701412
It is fine. I am 24 and my husband is 35. we are very diffrent in age and it is great for us. Also not to say that it should be done or that it is legal and it has to do with the how mature the girl is. I feel it is fine to have relations with someone under the age of 18. many girls have sex befor the age of 18 but it should strongly weigh on her matuity. I think waiting untill the two people know that they are going to be married in the future is best or even waiting untill they are makes it even better. I know sounds a little harsh, but imagine this the people have just been married and how much more the two will want it and feel the romace of it all if they wait. Everyone has their own feelings about that though. If the two of them date for a couple years it is perfectly legal for the two of them to get married in most states befor the age of 18 and in some states can even do it now, but may still need a parents consent to do so. tell your friend and I am sure he will have even more fun making out how much he loves her to her and if marriage is something he really wants with her in the future making those plans with her too.
885435
I don't think 10-12 years is a big deal.  You can look just as good or better then the woman his age, plus your smarter and wiser!  After that I would say time takes a toll!  If it's not the physical appearance your worried about, but maturity, well maturity comes in all ages.  I've seen 20 year olds more mature then 30 year olds and so on....just enjoy what you got!  Hardest part is finding someone you connect with, and you already accomplished that!  ps.It's the perfect age difference for a great sex life-so I heard! LOL
763968
I'm not old yet, but I would think that this is the way someone over 65 would think:\n\nshe talks to fast, her skirt is to short & her shirt is to low, her jeans are to tight & she needs to be a lady !
633760
My brother in law married a woman older than him(I am not sure how much older).But she had a teenage daughter if that helps geuss her age.As long as both of you are agreed to see each other go for it.
673607
I will tell you, in my own experience that it is. Not because it's immoral or the guy is a sick person, but the maturity issue. and people do change.\nAnd don't think it's because a guy can't get a girl his own age. i actually had quite a few girlfriends before her and they were all close to my age or older. \nSadly, I am now divorced, kept the children and am good friends with her. Actually, after five years of separation we are considering getting back together. I still care for her and she for me.\n All in all it is wrong if it is for the wrong reasons.
1174349
Age is just a number. I know a couple who met and married in their 70's and they both act like they are 20 plus.  Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places.
850913
If you're happy. You are old enough to make your own desicion. I know a couple where the woman is 10yrs older and they've been together 15 years.
1086457
It is wrong because one of them would not be his wife. I am not the type to castigate you for what you believe in and want to do, but i think a man should only do it with his wife.
877569
Unfortunately, I do think that's a very poisonous relationship to hold onto.  Can you imagine being married to her and having to deal with the in-laws and her brainwashing?  She's 38!  She should be able to stand up for herself.  \n \nJust my opinion.
452700
I dated and married a 24 year old when I was 18. Go for it!
1091420
If the couple is in love and has the parent's permission to marry then no he isn't. Besides, if the old dude is rich she has a chance to score a ton of neat stuff!!!!\n\nBesides I hear 15 year old girls marry 65 year old men all the time in Florida.
579017
The "Dirty Old Man",usually refers to the man who happens to like woman/girls who are at least 30 years younger than them,someone old enough to be his daughter. I see nothing wrong with you,or your neighbors watching "stag" movies. Their only movies!. Your "80 somethin",year old neighbors are not getting off on these movies. Visual stimulation would not work for him. He's probably popping Viagra,and having a poppin good time! (I ain't mad at him!)
771918
about the same as an older man dating a girl old enough to be his granddaughter , and  him dying two weeks with a smile on his face while she spends all his money he left behind and his children receive nothing from their inheritance.  this sounds about right !