This is the second time ive fallen for a close friend! Is there something wrong with me???
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i do this ALOT too! \ni really know how you feel! i think that...well...for me its because i get to know them really well and i just can't help but ot fall for them.\nSo no, nothing is wrong with you!!\nwe really dont know if guys feel the same way...which makes me mad...lol..but this happens, i think, because we become really good friends that we want to be something more. thats how it feels for me. i think its normal....as long as its not like just because you want someone or because your desprate. if its real...its normal.\nhope i helped!\n~ALSO~\ni try not to say anything in fear it will ruin what we already had. if you feel comfortable that it wont change things, you should tell him how you feel.
490474
Hey its not nice to be gready :)\n\nOn the serious note...I guess you 4 have been very close. And have the uniqueness that wows you. I think the thing you need to do is admit your feelings to them. Love isnt just 2 people...But a commitment is 2 people. The right man for you is not shy to tell you.
670349
I'm kind of in the same situation...only I am in love with my best friend so that could be the cause, huh?  Anyway, if your love for him is only as a friend, you're probably thinking of him as a brother, and close siblings are generally protective of each other.  It's okay to be protective, just don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
703089
Its normal to feel this way. The type of friendship that you two have is very beautiful. However, if you find yourself too close to her or attracted to her physically, you may want to question your sexuality. Other than that, you're cool!
989546
well, from the sound of it, this is your first time falling in love with somebody.i suggest you spend more time with your pals - hang out, or do stuffs that will take your mind off of her.play some basketball, go to the bowling alley, you know, stuffs.you can't live without her, but you can't live without your grades too.whatever you do,remember that falling in love is not wrong,but failing in exams because of it is not worth it.trust me.i hope things will work out for you man
882879
Don't tell him anything!  Most likely what you're feelinig for him right now is just a result of being lonely. If you really liked him you would have been extatic when he asked you out two years ago.  Don't ruin a good thing.  Just work on trying to like someone else, because most likely it won't work out and things will never be the same.\nI've made the mistake of trying to date a guy friend twice, and both times it turned out horribly and we aren't nearly as close now.  Don't make the same mistake!
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See where it goes. From the outside looking in, without details, I would say you are blessed. Every woman should be so lucky to fall in love with her best friend and vise versa. Knowing that you have found someone who can truly appreciate all that you can bring into his life is a wonderful feeling. \nAnd the same with you, knowing what his faults and strentghs are, put you both ahead in the game of love.\n\nEnjoy it, in my opinion, you are both blessed.
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You can't help the way you feel, it is being human.  I had a similar situation when I was 17.  I had been best friends with him for 2 years and gradually we got closer and closer.  For me it didn't work out but I am glad I gave it a go otherwise I would all ways wonder what if.  I think life is far too short to have regrets.
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YOUR FRIEND MIGHT FEEL A LITLE WIERDED OUT, BUT EXPLAIN TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU STILL WANT THE FRIENDSHIP AND YOU RESPECT THE FRIENDSHIP. YES YOU MAY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT YOUR FREINDSHIP MEANS MORE TO YOU
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Why not?? If you like him...what's stopping you...\nWho knows he might be the one!!\nYour friend will understand, and probably be happy for you!!\n\nGood Luck to you!!
904576
yaar be confident about ur thing whih will show u right path ..friend may be ur lover  may be in problem which is taking ur lover away from you .plz conferm at right time other wise u will feel regret or it may nnot be ur true love about which u are nnot  sure that ur lover loves you or not ...confirm my friend is it ur true love towards ur lover
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hm well u are currently commited to someone that u apparent;y care about so dont just drop him because something doesnt feel right. but as for your friend, if he really likes u that much he should be respectful of the fact that ur in a relationship and if he wants something more he should wait untill u are available.
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maybe some things have happened it your past that make u feel u are not worthy of being happy and giving a guy a chance, you probably havent met the guy that you want to fully be with...it's a click that you feel almost immediately...keep being honest & kind....the right guy will come along and you DO deserve him......
84185
nothings wrong with you. That right person hasnt walked into your life yet. It takes time to find love, it doesnt just happen over night.
213000
regret is worser than regection. trust me i know from experience. there was a guy i fell in love with but i had the hesitation that you have. it was actually around your age too. anyway i hesitated and he found someone else he fell in love with. i regret it till this day. i would have prefered to take the chance with our friendship to know than stay wondering what if i did this or that differently. you need to talk to her. let her know how you feel but at the same that if she doesn't feel the same way then you would loved to still stay friends because friendship is better than nothing at all.
422773
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you,cannot explain but your not alone,,hang in there ,someone will come along, probably when your not even expecting it,,love is awfully complicated,,good luck.....
136359
Sorry to hear your feelings are being reciprocated...but unfortuantely you cant make someone like you.  just keep being her friend andmaybe you will grow on her.  Thats how my man got me!  We became best friends and now were engaged!