I am gay and i love my best friend who is also gay. will our friendship be over if we are more than friends?
924519
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
456319
You want to ditch your friends because they are gay?? Then that other girl is right, you don't deserve friends like that. They came out to you, which is not an easy thing for anyone to do, and you are thinkin of ditching them??? I hope they ditch you!
1133899
Just wait sweety it will happen. I was like you thought that all decent guys were taken or gay. They are not, I have the best bloke in the world and he is my best friend too. We started off as friends and it just went from there! Good luck and be patient. xx
498991
I'm not sure that i understand the question.  Are you asking if gay men and straight men can be friends?  Are you asking what we think of gay relationships?  I need a little clarification please.  Thanks.
1026273
my real life best friend is male...and i love him with all my heart...and trust him with my life and vice versa.  and what is even better...is my man and my best friend have become very good friends...so i consider myself quite lucky.
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
579591
The same is applicable to any inter-personal relationship.  Any relationship requires trust and those entering into friendship need to determine how much they trust their new friend.  A best friend you'll trust implicitly, an acquaintance - less so.\n\nAside from gender and gender preference Gays and Lesbians have a lot in common.  For a start they're human, they have similar issues with society...\n\nAs to whether you, as an individual, can trust a Lesbian acquaintance well, that depends on how trusting and resilient you are and on your opinion of that INDIVIDUAL lesbian.
569068
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
306358
what?? if you love his friend, than you shouldnt be wanting to be more than friends with this other guy... ur question is a little strange
996947
i have straight friends that do that. if he just acts gay around your friends, its most likely to make them laugh. you said he doesn't act like that all the time, so he is most likely not gay. but whatever he is, as long as he is a great person then he should be worthy of friendship.
757658
Love is always tough, especially when it's one-sided. And when you add to that losing a best friend because of your genuine feelings that's doubly hard. \n\nBut it's not reasonable that your friend won't even talk to you. If she was as good a friend as you say she'd be able to get past it and still remain friends.\n\nI would suggest finding a good LGB support group near where you live.\n\nGood luck.
989667
It's very common that best friend turns to be lovers. You should find out that your best friend is love you or just want to be friend. You know. Love is a two way channel, it invloves two persons. If only one-way, it is not love\n\nGood luck\n\nJoyce
357392
no. because with guys and girls being friends the sex part usually gets in the way....think about it.... if i have a guy friend for a long enough time an attraction will usually come between us. but with a gay guy you know that will never happen.
158186
Umm... Is this relationship with you, or are you asking us how you can tell them not to be gay period? If you are refering to the later one, you don't have a say in the matter. If they are trying to get with you, stick to the fact that you are not interested in changing your friendship to a relationship.
53879
ofcourse not\nbut he should ask him that he wanna be his friend\n\ni will never make friend to someone that people think he is a gay
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
774366
Yes, it is possible. I have several male friends who are straight. We even talk about other people we go out with together. It's not a big deal. We enjoy each others company but in a purely platonic way.