my boyfriend is very secretive,is he cheating on me?
918934
yes\n\nhe is sleeping with 3 other women
1048170
Hiding something from you means it wasn't innocent. Apparently you found them, though, so I can only imagine the trust issues you and your boyfriend have. And this is the real problem.\n\nYou're either going to have to work out what the two of you trust the other to do and be okay with it, or you're going to have to figure out an amicable way to go your separate ways. The relationship will only go sour for both of you - if it isn't already - if you can't find a way to trust each other.\n\nBy the way, way to use your intuition - I mean it - to uncover what he was "innocently" lying about. That you would have to dig is the smaller issue. That he would hide something he knew you wouldn't find innocent is the bigger issue. Good luck.
93750
May be try to be more open with him? Offer to share information and anticipate his questions by providing the answers outright.  If this doesn't work, then consider that fact that he may be jealous and paranoid and that whatever you do (or don't do) won't matter because it will be his version of events that he will see. Next step, I guess, would be to find out for yourself if you can have a long term relationship with your man knowing that he doesn't trust you.  \n\nGood luck!
425808
there is only one way, talk to HIM yourself and he'll answer your question, HE doesn't want to be a secret to anyone.  That's why HE has already sent ways to prove HE loves you.  I'm not goint to tell you which ways because the proof is when you ask and HE leads you to the truth, then you'll know for sure.
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
685436
You have a right to be suspicious but the good news is that he didn't try and tell you he did get a haircut.  Keep and eye on him, but don't assume he is cheating at this point.  You are in a different relationship with this guy than the one he had with his ex and you knew what was going on there and have trusted him this far.  Don't let your fear ruin what you have without proof he is really doing something wrong.
275119
No one is perfect, if you see him being perfect or any closer to that then check real carefully if he is tricking you. Another observation, he will agree to do anything you'll ask him to do, no matter what you are asking he will agree that means he is cheating on you and he knows that he wouldn't have to do that for a long time, so he can just promise for a short while. Let me know what you've find out.
26731
if hes chanmged and dont tell you he loves you you guys done cummicate thats the main thing to look for you should like talk to him about it but dont let him know your think he is cheating
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
248165
You found out only because he allowed it...as time goes by this type of guy may let you in on some more....If he's good to you...stick around 4 a while.Eventually there won't be anything more to hide(hopefully).I understand that you feel like he shouldn't keep anymore secrets but some people are more secretive and/or insecure than others.......
392888
If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
170032
Maybe he gave them to you so you COULD snoop to know he's not messing around. \n\nMaybe he did it to throw you off and he has a whole other screen name he uses for the things he doesn't want you to find. \n\nMaybe he did it in hopes you would give him your passwords. \n\nEither way, you trust him or you don't. If you deep down honestly truely did, you wouldn't snoop. You'd forget every password you have of his and go on about your own business. If you have even a little doubt in your head, maybe you should rethink the relationship. He obviously trusts you enough to give you that kind of personal info probably hoping you'd never have to stoop so low you'd spy on him.
343054
I don't think you can hide something without conciously knowing you hid it. I suppose you could forget something, but then it probably wouldn't be 'in your eyes' as he put it. If you truly aren't hiding anything, but he thinks you are, then the problem isn't you, it's him. He's got a trust issue that you two need to talk out. Whether it becomes a huge issue or not is up to you two. As for why someone would hide something...sometimes it's because they hope something will just go away, or they're really afraid it would end the relationship. But again, if there is nothing you are hiding, then you need to sit him down, remind him of how you feel about him, and assure him that you are hiding nothing. If he can't accept that, then it's going to put a strain on the relationship. Ask him why he thinks it past the look in your eyes, and if there's anything he's unsure about, worried about or experienced in the past that would make him think it. If you love him, and he loves you, then you'll work through it. Just go in knowing there's nothing hidden, and positive that you'll smooth over a minor wrinkle.
1056647
i wont listen to them. For what reason is he my boyfriend. Of course because he must have been loyal & sincere. But yes if some very close friend would have told me then my case would be different. I'll try to investigate about it.Then i'll ask my boyfriend myself if he has been cheating or not.Cheating is not a big issue till its just flirting but if he would be dating other girls then i would simply hug him n say go0d bye baby...
204709
The first sign is doubt. If you question whether or not he's cheating most likely he is in fact unfaithful. Love is far more complicated to judge, if he does love you he will not cheat on you, because he would not want to hurt you. Here a few helpful hints 1. Spy on him. 2. Check his phone 4 new numbers. 3. Set him up, meaning send a sexy chica his way and see what he does when she tries to offer him a date.  Needless to say I'm no expert but I wouldn't give advice I haven't tried before, and trust me it works.    Good Luck
206752
I don't think you're overreacting at all. If he can easily lie about the small, stupid stuff, then it makes it that much easier for him to lie about big stuff like cheating. And if he's lying about going somewhere, then he probably didn't want you to know he was there and who he was with. I wouldn't trust him, which it doesn't sound like you do. Do you really want to be with someone you don't trust? Having to constantly worry that he's lying to you or cheating on you? Trust me it's not worth the effort. It'll just make you crazy! You deserve better!
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!