Why do I get so Violent?
914319
Not sure, usually when I got Pre Marriage Tension (PMT) I would end up drinking more and that would make me more violent too.  \nIt 's normal I think to get the pre-marriage worries.  Just don't let it ruin your wedding day!
294974
Hi it must be awful for you but sometimes grown ups act in really silly ways. Try as hard as you can to keep out of it, do you have a aunt or cousin you can talk to? Once everything has calmed down quietly explain to your mom how much this is all upsetting you. If you are really suffering or feel that you are in physical danger ask a teacher at school to help you.  and don't worry...it will probably make you a stronger person.
832270
there are a number of reasons\nperhaps your blood vessels are close to the surface of you skin so that when you bump into something you bruise\nanother reason is that you are taking a blood thinning medication such as heparin which causes easy bruising\nthirdly you could have leukemia or another blood disease\ncheck with your doctor to find the cause\ngood luck
394472
I get back up with a fury of flying punches, feet, and teeth.
837135
May be cause I need a spanking.??? Beats me..lol
971062
Hello: I would like to make a suggestion. If at all possible please look for a therapist. I'm not suggesting this to be rude. You say that there was a lot of fighting in your life as a child. That is emotional abuse. Yelling, name calling, fighting, screaming matches that is abuse. If you are having flashbacks and repressed memories to me as a survivor of abuse both emotional, and other it seems like there are things that maybe you need unburden your heart with. There seems like there could be a lot of pain to perhaps work out. I have P.T.S.d and flashbacks are something that I deal with  I have anxiety and I have repressed memories. I encourage you to please talk to someone. A pastor, relative, friend, or therapist. Please for if nothing else at all then to help with your blood pressure. I have worked through many problems and still have a long way to go. If it seems like I am reading to much in to this then perhaps I could be. It just sounds like something is troubling your heart.\nGood Luck and I'll keep you in thought and prayer.
147829
Probably because you are NOT an evil or violent person and do not want to inflict harm even tho someone is harming you.  I have felt the same way sometimes where I have been hurt very badly but would not hurt in return.  THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE A COWARD so if anyone says that in response to this question ignore it.  You just operate on a higher plane than the person you are dealing with.
1120893
being agressive and buying unexpected gifts
1018101
That is a sign of stress and an inability to find an appropriate outlet for anger. You need to see a doctor for more help.
720115
No, but it did give me violent periods.\n\nThis is especially worrying, as I am male.
79529
what were the actions that lead up the the abuse? Were you having problems for awhile. Remember when you are fighting and hurt you will say things that you dont mean in the heat of the moment...........
101777
Probably for bad behavior.  It happens to me all the time.  Ouch!  Mom! Stop that!  Bye!
936403
I have some aggressions but I'm keeping it to myself :)
122328
if you feel someone is after you, or gonna hurt you, GET HELP!!! Inform EVERYONE YOU KNOW that you feel you may be in danger. You should not go anywhere alone!!! Don't become a victim. I am a mom with 2 kids and a family, I care about you!! Write to me at: javagirl09@excite.com I want to help!!
753598
You are having vivid dreams or dreams in which you act out and have no knowledge of it until you wake up and see the results.  You need to go to your doctor right away as this is seriouse and you do not want to end up hurting yourself worse.  The doctor can prescribe some medicine for you to take at night as you are going to bed.  The medicine can help you go into a more deep restfull sleep like totally knocking you out so you cant hurt yourself. Go to the doctor as soon as possible.
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The best defense is your mind.  Stay out of situations where the temper would escalate to violence.  If you use words and your brain, you can get out of almost any bad situation without coming to blows.  \n\nIf you absolutely *have* to defend yourself from imminent physical assault, remember that the law favors even-handed responses, meaning don't defend yourself with a deadly weapon unless you're threatened with one.
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Hi, I am sorry to hear this.  You didn't state if this has always happened to you or not?!  If it is something new you are experiencing then I would really speak to a Doc.  Sometimes a load of stress in other areas of your life can make you heart race and do funny things.  It isn't uncommon to have panic attacks when stressed or nervous.  There are probably a lot of options out there to help you with out taking meds. I would really talk to your family doctor as soon as you can, just to make sure there isn't something majorly wrong.  Take Care of yourself and remember you are the best judge of yourself and what you need.  Sending you lots of smiles :) :) :)