is it proper to offer a hand shack to a girl that u like when introducing your self in non-business setting?
924244
Sure it is. I think it's very nice.
451334
It depends on the circumstances.  Sometimes it is appropriate and sometimes not.  (Like in front of your parents!)
649207
Of course! The hostess must think alot of you to invite you.\nHelp make her gathering special by showing up, and enjoy meeting new people!
1099156
Be bold to take the initiative and invite her to her or your place (if you have any) she'll appreciate this. It should happen after you ply her with a few kisses and sweet-nothings first.
592619
its a start, but it is important what you did after that. it was an invitation to see if you like him, so next time something like this happens, throw something out there, about what it means that he has big hands... you do know what that means right?
1003327
bring her flowers. girls love it. be yourself, don't seem like you're trying too hard to impress her. i personally love when a guy feels comfortable in his own skin, that makes me relaxed too. be a gentleman, open the doors for her. i think you should pay if this is the first date. you can try holding her hand at the end of the date. good luck.
954878
Be completely natural. Don't try to impress, but don't slack off either. Just be yourself. She's their to meet you, so show her that. A friendly hug is fine, but a wave is good too. Whatever you feel comfortable with.
249481
The physical reaction may be beyond your control. What would be wrong is to expect her to acknowlege it or to assist in relieving the situation.\nIf it happens, you should both ignore it.\n\n(I'm presuming that we are talking here about a legimate therapeutic massage studio, not a uhm...more personal sort of establishment.)
564389
I wouldn't do it right away. But once you two have settled into the rhythm of things, I would do it.\n\nYou could ask, but it's cute when a guy just reaches for your hand. If she likes you then she probably won't mind!\n\n...and there is always the option of linking her arm into yours.
1084771
No i dont think that you ask for much. If it is what you offer to the other individual i cant see why you should settle for anything else. Although saying that you might want to open up and a bit and give some people the chance to show you what they are really like. Sme times people need some time to show their real self
777267
Is this an Etiquette question?
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
1176334
This is not about payment is it?  Wow, I thought that it was about so much more.\n\nI figure it like this, don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed if she doesn't and you'll be pleasantly surprised if she does.  Just because you take it upon yourself to do that deed doesn't mean that it's "automatic" for her to return the favor...  If you want it done, ask for it... \n\nPayment?  Naaaah!
914492
Definitely B, I'm too much of a gentleman to take advantage of a girl like that by putting my arm around her, or rudely waking her up, I would gently put a pillow between me and her.
577026
it's her choice if she is uncomfortable with strangers in the house, I don't blame her. If they help while you are there with them then yeah it's fine but she shouldn't have to be there with strangers when you're not there. You may think you know these people but they may be thieves or rapist you can never be 100% sure, especially if they are desperate enough for money that they will do chores for you.
158549
I don't believe that it is expected but I suppose that it wouldn't hurt. Usually, gift items from a welcome wagon are also a form of advertising for the local merchants. A thank you to the person who delivered it should suffice.
84241
NO!    I don't know of a bad spot to touch a woman, but that's because I'm a man.  Who the hell knows what love is?  If you don't want him feeling you up, then tell him, and if that doesn't work, slap the scheet out of him.  It's best if you learn not to be easy, because a real man knows how to treat a lady.