Should guys make the first move or girls??????;-)?
923177
yeah it's true... guy should make the first move though...girls will look so desperate if her make the first move..
1181563
exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
555934
try and read the situation, if u think there is a mutual attraction then make a move as he might me too shy to make the first move! if he pulls away then its obvious u have read the situation wrong! you never know until you give it a go! it could turn out the be the best move u ever made!!
178258
hmmm... what i think is the first kiss is most of the time just simple... and short ( i may be wrong) but try to flow with the guy. if he tries kissing you again, be a little more playful, like play with his tongue and all but most of all be subtle
58200
if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
694472
why don't you ask him about it? ask him if he's okay, then ask if you've done anything wrong.  it doesn't mean that you have, done anything wrong that it, it's just a way to get him to open up.  you can even ask if he has a probm with agressive girls or if he minds if a girl made the first move. once you know where you stand with him, then don't be afraid to make the first move.  guys are sometimes intimidated by girls, to sometimes you have to make the first move.  when you're comfortablem give im a warm hug and a light kiss.  it's okay for a guy to by shy and the girl to be a little agressive.  and by agressive, i'm not telling you to throw yourself at him is simply mean to initiate the first move.  only you can know how far you want to go.  lots of luck
401354
i would'nt neva makec a first move all i would is flirt
55462
I would recommend that you "make a move".  Some really nice guys are too shy (or afraid of rejection) to make the first move.
1185714
if the guy is shy and dsnt make a move...then......YOU SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!! trust me! i did!! and i never regret any of it...well, his glad i did the first move too.(this is the 21st century,its the century where girls make the first move instead of guys)You deff should make the first move...\n\nIf a guy likes you, \n-he will read your sms over n over again\n-he calls just to say 'hey'\n-he calls just to say where he is and where r u.and how r u? hows ure day? etc etc....\n-pretend 2 go sick,(2 see if he really cares)n if he do...tht means he cares for u :)\n-when ure talking to him face to face,compliment him like 'i like your hair'...then see if he blushes! (if he does...scorre!!)\n-if you see a bunch of hot girls walking your way...purposely walk slightly 1cm behind him...n when you guys pass those hot girls,take a peek at his eyes..to see if his looking at those hot girls..if he didnt...then all he care is YOU.\n-surprise him with gifts..(doenst have to b expensive) n see if he blushes and smile...\n-if u want to know if a guy likes you....whenever u guys r going out...even tho to a nearby store..he will dress smartly...dress to impress...\n-Last but not least...if u want to know if a guy likes you, his tone of voice is different with you than to his homies..his laughter is different whenever his with you...
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
562726
No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
980999
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
887439
Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
658624
Yes!!! I am a guy and I just love it when the girl makes the first move!!! Alot of guys love it because we are SOOOO afraid of asking someone becuase we are afraid of rejection. DO IT!!!
232050
i think you need to ask or have her make the first move. it totally pisses me off and makes me not like a guy when he just assumes that it is ok. dont do that unless you want to come off like a jerk, and then you wont get any. its not cool to be making out with a guy and to constantly have to pull his hand off your zipper cause its only the first date or whatever.
811659
What makes a girl afraid to make the first move, is the fear of rejection. I know guys have the same fear, but somehow, it's different for girls. It just is! Some girls, like myself believe the guy should make the first move, and if he doesn't then I move on, so just put yourself out there, and you'll be surprised.