Tell me to tell my friend it's ok to have sex with her husbend?
924415
I think that as girls are growing up, some are taught that sex is bad and if they have sex before marriage then they are evil so many women grow up and get  married thinking that sex is OK to have... but only clean sex nothing to kinky.   Try to understand where she is coming from, she needs to start with something small, the lotion was a good idea...  also try to give her a book on sex and different positions she may not look at well you are around but she may look at it in private and get some ideas that may help.
547827
I'd probably just say "oh, ok then" cos that's just me. I would probably feel really special though, she must really trust you and see you as a good enough friend to tell you this. If she has never given away any "maleness" then she is a woman, that's why she "used" to be a man. She thinks like a woman, behaves like a woman, wants to be a woman, she just happens to have been born with a penis she didn't want!
387058
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!
270027
tell her to respect your privacy
239186
there is nothing wrong with having this kind of relationship.Just be sure that your pal gets to understand the confidentiality of this relationship.I wish you all the best.
966410
Not wrong at all.  Two consenting adults that wish to engage in the act should be more than welcome to, regardless of sex.  If that's what you want to do, do it.  Who are we to judge?
393006
If you are in a sexual relationship with her and she trusts you then it should be okay. Just make sure it is nothing raunchy and it is something you will actually do to her next time you see her. Good luck. :^)
730919
I WOULD NOT SAY ANYTHING TO HER I WOULD JUST GO MY WAY.  AND WHEN SHE ASK YOU WHAT'S WRONG, YOU SHOULD TELL HER WHAT SHE DID AND LET HER KNOW A FRIEND WOULD HAVE NEVER DONE SUCH A THING. BY THE WAY YOU SHOULD ASK THE YOUNG MAN OUT ANYWAY. DO IT NOW BEFORE HE GETS CLOSE TO HER. WHAT EVER YOU DO DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM. JUST ASK HIM OUT TO SHOW HER SHE CAN'T WALK OVER YOU, WHO KNOWS HE MAY TAKE BOTH OF YOU OUT, OFCOURSE NOT AT THE SAME TIME. SHE DID NOT SHOW TRUE FRIENDSHIP, WHY SHOULD YOU. OFCOURSE YOU KNOW NOW YOU CAN NEVER TRUST HER. SHE IS NOT A FRIEND OF YOURS.
238280
personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
648435
Just be really clear with her about what you want and give her the chance to choose if that would work for her. If she isn't into it, there are plenty of girls out there who will, provided you treat them with the same respect you would a friend without the benefits!
569975
that's nice of you to do that. are you sure your friend won't mind a suprise ? some people don't care for them.\nfor a unique idea, have it someplace your friend will never ever think of. just have all her friends there and she'll be happy. like you could do it in bar and then when you bring her you could be all like, "just wait here for a second i have to pick up something" and leave her in the car and then come back and say "hey can you help me carry this?" and she comes in and everyones there ready to party !
555630
It's okay, as long as it's okay for your girl friend is out scoring with an old friend at the same time you are banging\nyour neighbor.  You'll never know about it, so what will it hurt?
1127540
do not have sex with her \nlet her have it with you
547415
are u gay? thats what she deserves, so long as you let her call the shots. you force yourself on her thats rape.
923476
umm what right is it of yours to tell her how to live her life?  how would you like someone to tell you not to take a job or not to date a certain woman?  you'd be offended.\n\nif you are a true friend, you'd support her choice of what she wants to do in HER LIFE.\n\nlive your own life and butt out of hers.  least she is doing something for her country.....what are you doing for your country?
616527
The LAST thing you want to do is tell EITHER of them. You state you dont WANT to love her. Then stop it, she is with your FREIND. Show some character and dont interfere with THEIR relationship to satisfy something that you state yourself that you dont really want to begin with. Women DO come and go...but FREINDS can be forever if you treat them right.
1186125
That is her HUSBAND, for better or for worse. It seems as though she loves him so much and that is a very good thing. You should be proud of your friend. But if you want to give her advice in the intimacy department, tell her that she doesn't have to completely shut that aspect out of their relationship. There are definitely things they can do to be intimate without intercourse, and it can be very fulfilling for both her and her husband.  Other than that, I would say just encourage her to stay as loving and as faithful as she is to her husband.  After all, its not his fault and he still deserves to be loved too!