What are  some tips on great first time sex?
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where: in a bed in your house\nwhen: at night\nhow: take your clothes off and open those legs
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Roll over and bite the pillow, and use a condom. All you have to do is trust the person you are with and relax don't get all tense. I hope you enjoy it and have fun.
596263
Your first time should probably be on the bottom if you still have your hymen. After that, be on top, it allows you to control the action and frees his (or her) hands up to roam around your body.
1125831
Like others have said, it's not going to be comfortable at all the first time.  TV and the media have made things out to be that your first time is going to be this magical time and you'll orgasm.  The truth is that most girls don't orgasm during sex for the first few times.  Don't be discouraged though, because as you get to know each others bodies and what feels good to both of you, you will get better at it.  I admire what you guys did.  Good luck!!!
8885
Being your first is a great priviledge for a man, so just make sure that he deserves it. And you have to be old enough to understand all the possible consequences of a sexual relationship: children, deseases and all that fun stuff. Just don't think that your virginity is something you have to get rid of until a sertain age or else...
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only do it if you really are ready for it.  Don't let peer pressure, your boyfriend or anyone persuade you into it.  You will only have one first time, make it with someone you love and who loves you.  \nIf you are going to do it.  A lot of foreplay and fondling and  lube will help.
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if u havent been intimate with ur wife before, then take it slowly the first night. hold her and kiss her. \n\nshe might not be ready to have sex the first night. and the last thing u should do is to insist on it as that will just lead to future problems in both ur sex lives!
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the best part of sex is the emotional and physical gratification that you both recieve from engaging in a loving physical act with your partner.  That said, im guessing from the fact that you ask what to do that you are heavily inexperienced.  I dont know what your guy's sex drive is like, so I will assume the worst and say he has a long recovery period.  So if you really want to have sex with him, make the foreplay all about you.  Foreplay starts when you wake up, but when it comes to getting physical, it includes kissing, necking, massages, him fingering and eating you out, and if he can get it back up quickly/keep it up for a long time, you massaging or sucking his penis.  There are a lot of other things that you can do to each other, whatever you do that turns each other on can be included in the time leading up to intercourse.  Once both of you are completely aroused (make sure your vagina is wet- lubrication is a must for a virgin or it will hurt even worse than normal), proceed with penetration.  For girls who have not had a lot of sex such as yourself, you or your boyfriend may need to use your hands to spread the lips of your vagina before your boyfriend can succeed at penetrating you.  Don't be surprised if it hurts the first time, and if he is any longer than 5 or 6 inches, you may not want to let him go all the way in untill you are used to the feeling.\nOther than that be smart, use protection, and make sure that this relationship is for real and going to last before giving up something so precious as your virginity
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Use your hands and your mouth to give your partner pleasure. Lots of hugs. Massage. If you don't want penetration, try watching each other m**turbate. Libido is in your head. Eat properly, cut out junk. Lots of soy products. No sugar or sodas. Cut out wheat. Reduce salt and meat. Get fit. Read sexy books, watch sexy movies. Have fun.
1051950
be confident about the size of your penis; do a lot of foreplay with your girlfriend; oral sex before intercourse; vary your hip movements during sex, e.g. in/out, up/down, left/right, clockwise/counterclockwise, half in/fully in, diagonal penetration, etc.; try different sexual positions; think of non-sexual matters while having sex; stop when you are about to shoot your c-u-m to prolong sex; and focus not on your own satisfaction but on the pleasure of your partner. i hope these tips help you to be a stud in bed. cheers!
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Try to be confident first of all.\n\nTake his penis in your hand and hold it firmly but not too tight. Begin stroking gently from tip to base. Use wrist action rather than your arm because this can be more gentle.\nWhen you are ready, take the tip of his penis between your lips and gently suck the tip. Use your tongue to moisten, then slowly go down, taking his penis as far as you feel comfortable. Try to curl your lip over so you don't catch him on your teeth. some women can't take it all because your natural gag reflex stops you, but take as much as you can. When you come back up, start sucking gently at first, then continue going down on him, sucking all the time.\nTake a quick breather by just rolling your tongue around the tip and use your hand to continue stimulation. \nVary the suction power and the speed and always keep him guessing.\nAs you are sucking, gently rub his balls too. If he is laying down, just stroke the bit of skin that is between his balls and his bum. There is a sensitve spot there that if you apply gentle pressure can really drive him wild.\n\nA lot of men like to put their hands on your head. some will just stroke your hair back because they like to watch and others will gently push your head further onto their penis. Try to go with it, but if you are at all uncomfortable stop!\nAs you are sucking, look up and watch his face. Show him you using your tongue because this is also a turn on for some men.\n\nThere really is no perfect way to 'give head' just relax and go with the flow. Try to relax and enjoy yourself.\nThere is no shame in not being able to swallow. If it is your first time it could be a bit of a shock, so allow him to c.um and taste it first............... you might actually like it!! \n\nGood luck x
1075249
The first few times one has sex should be rather uncomfortable or painful.It shouldnt hurt after a bit.
936350
You should explore together. Since it's your first time, I think it should be slow and very sensual. Your first experience should be memorable as well. Anyone can have wild sex, that doesn't exactly figure the intimate feelings in though. I think you should both start slow and after you've gotten comfortable having s ex together, then get wilder and experiment more. Get the basics down first and trust me, alot men WITH prior experience "forget" that a woman actually has to be taken time with. Make the first time SPECIAL!!
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Wait until married...  Funny girl :)  and most of the time totally unrealistic (6000 years that some are trying to control sex life of other people... just wake up, it just doesn't work !!)\n\nIf you feel it, you're ready to begin to consider it.  But wait until you feel comfort, take your time, change of partner if you feel pressure, first times can be really important for the way you'll consider sex and love for the rest of your life.  And most of the time, the first time isn't really enjoyable for the girl, she has to learn how to relax and first time are most of the time not really relax :)\n\nSo, look for comfort and respect.  It means also good place, good timing, good guy/girl, love or something near it, and respect.  And to not fear AIDS or a too soon baby, be prepared.  \n\nYour doctor can give you good advice for those last things, but sometimes for the rest too.  Follow your feelings :)  and when you feel ready, enjoy the ride !
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On a first date?\n\nSimple ---> take a nice warm shower..put on your comfortable clothes...dont be late...wear a genuine smile...be a gentleman....listen when she talks...have fun and laugh with her...take her home...give her a sweet little kiss...and say goodnight.
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Well, it helps to be close to the person physically and mentally.  Don't rush.  Start out by kissing and caressing each other.  in other words foreplay.  Believe me, things will fall into place if you just relax, do not rush, a gently kiss and caress your partner.
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you should be more specific about what you want to know.\nsex is fun, and good excercise, and an all around good thing! the first time can hurt, usually does, it can also be scarry! its something new for you to experience. just relax and let whatever happens happen. its a natural thing, and is not something to be ashamed of.\nyou might try looking it up in the dictionary or googling it!as to get more information.\ncongrats on your marriage!