Isn't it wrong for guys to "make fun of" heavier girls?
928975
Ofcourse it is.But it's not their mistake but their AGE is doing all those rubbish.U must also take those easy.It helps U to b good on society.
959325
Ok, to an extent I think it's funny to make fun of ourselves.  It becomes annoying "if" that's all you ever do and it's always VERY negative.  That's a very unbecoming trait.  We all want to date someone who is confident in their own skin.  It is definitely a turn-off if someone is always down on themselves.  Now, that being said, you HAVE to be able to laugh at yourself, but be confident at the same time.
29788
Don't make to big of a deal about it. They are just trying to get a reaction out of you and distract people from whatever they think is wrong with themselves. Just be yourself and don't over compensate by trying to hard with girls it will just give them something else to pick on you about. Just lay low they will move on to harrassing someone else if you aren't any fun and don't react to their childish stupidity.
682161
Ew...that's awful!  Your height and weight are pretty average in actuality.  Okay, so you aren't a skinny, boney model, but who is?!  If he's being mean about it, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.  He only cares about what you look like.  Try talking with him at first.  But if that doesn't work, leave him.  There are plenty of guys out there that will think you're beautiful, even if you gained another 20 lbs.  No reason to stay with someone who makes you feel bad, especially over something as superficial as weight.  Stay true to yourself and good luck!
937832
not yet but im only fifteen...congratulations on your confidence\nby the way to the guy who answered before me(the squid guy): you are so mean...do you actually think women LIKE having wobbly bits? well they don't! and you saying things like muffin tops are disgusting makes us feel worse about all our insecurities! shame on you!
947164
Try it and see. Personally, Id assume it was a joke if a girl did that to me.
661432
Miss Manners would ask "why is that fat guy not wearing a shirt?" (I'm overweight and I don't flaunt my spare tire). However, I do agree that under certain circumstances it is rude to poke fun (or outright make insults) about someones weight (or whatever).
434951
its all a matter of preference. some guys like what some guys like.  \n\nthe real question is: why are heavy men acceptable in our socety, but heavy women arent?!
276412
oh my god!! ur like mee lol yes! its completely normal! infact i think alota girls find bathroom humor and such things funny. Its just that they are afraid to admit it especially around guys cuz they think they will look "less of a lady"
486785
some girls just like to see a guy in pain, they find it funny. Some guys find it funny too sometimes when girls are in pain, they laugh and say we're weak, maybe it's just payback. Just so you know i wouldn't do it as it is a pretty harsh thing to do.
719564
I think it's great that your turned on by bigger people.  To much emphasis is put on being skinny. I grew up thinking that if I weighted 125 pounds that I was chubby.  It's not weird.  It's okay to be turned on by it except when the fetish starts controlling you and makes a significant impact on you and others.  But I don't think this happens very much.
392033
I don't think making mean comments about things which people cannot change is called for and agree that they are loosers.  For me personally I like bigger boobs but that doesn't mean I have anything against people who are not well endowed.  It's just the initial attraction thing, in the end it is personality that will determine if you will really like someone or not.
356290
You are too crude!   you make me laugh...\n\n50lbs on an anorexic really can't be 'fat' as you call it...\nbut yeah, dump her..........
577032
I don't know, but most of us seem to attract a particular type. In your case it's big girls, but it's not that bad is it? Some guys really like it.
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
388449
If you feel the need to make fun of another human being, then I feel it means you are unhappy with yourself.  One cannot possibly get any feeling of accomplishment when they demean another and make them feel worthless or less than.  People who criticize the overweight have unresolved issues of their own and belong in therapy.  It matters not how or why a person is overweight (that is their own personal battle), what really matters is being kind and compassionate to others and you will more often then not; get the same in return.
202065
Go for it. It makes you feel stronger and it doesn't hurt anyone, so it can't be bad. Can I make fun of you too? Just kidding.