On halloween night me and my bf (wer both girls) made out, but now I am scared dat our frendship is guna b odd
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You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
784738
just when he starts to do something then pull away a little bit. that's what my bf tried to do to me. we were making out and he reached for my shirt and a grabbed his hand and pulled away from him and told him that i wasn't ready for that. and he was totalu cool about it! just be honest!
350417
well you can ether be the brave one and kiss he he might really get turned on by that. or you can just also get really close and do things showing you really want it make it hard for him not too. i know how you feel cause my bf was so shy i thought he would never kiss me so i just got really close to him whenever i could and made it so that he just couldn't resist he wanted me so much and let me tell you the first kiss was amazing i still remember it to this day and feel it! I wish i could have the first kiss all over again!
1039298
Just do it. trust me. if uv been going out for over a year, just slowly grab his hand when ur walking together. it won't freak him out unless he's a total loser who you wouldn't want to date anyway. if u have been dating that long, u should feel comfortable with each other. he probably wants to also but is afraid he'll come on too strong. but seriously, if uve been dating that long. in my personal opinion, the one year mark is about when u can start making out. everybody is differant though.
583254
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF
363053
y not, ask her nicely if it was ok w/ her if u kissed her... but kiss her on the cheek 1st... once she warms up to tt idea, try to kiss her lips... or lift her chin eva so gently n slowly kiss her lips gently...dun rush things... u said she was of soft nature... so, u dun wanna risk scarin her away...
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if you have anyone, i mean anyone you are comfortable with-that person is the answer. a best friend or a cousin or anyone is key. if you find someone you know you can talk to(i know thats not what you wanna hear but keep reading), they can probably help a lot. i'm not sure how old you are but if you're 15 or younger your doctor would probably tell you to open up. find something you like. even if you are older its proven that if you can find someone else who enjoys doing the same thing it could help a lot. something else that would help would be to find someone younger than you. even if its just a 6 year old. they will look up to you. you don't have to worry about embarassing yourself. and also- - -theres no way to avoid feeling weird around your boyfriends family. thats just how it is. but my last bf's parents said they really enjoyed my company because i was quiet. they said it was respectful. try that. just be extra polite. (oh yeah, and don't get caught making out in the closet! hehe)
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I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
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my gf oso like that. really scared the hell out of me. the thing is make sure u eat \n& sleep well
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Oh, that's hairy  lol\nEverybody else is right.  It's over and done with, and there's nothing you can do about it now.  He was probably just as shocked as you were.\nSo you have to see his parents tomorrow....\nWell, that's gonna suck, and you'll probably turn bright red, avoid eye contact, and be very silent.  At least, that's probably would would happen to be if I were in that situation.\nAside from that, relax about it.  Within a couple hours everything should be just as it was before, even though your conscience makes you want to blush like hell  :-)
979388
I know how you feel, although my rape was very different from yours. First off, please remember that it WAS NOT your fault. Even if you would lose a court case, it is still worth fighting... Also, obviously this guy is a sexual predator, I would make sure that all of your girlfriends know to avoid him.
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how old are you?? i got my first kiss when i was 13 and i didnt know what i was doin either. i would ask around just like ur doin right now. lol. but i just went for it. my partner told me to slow down so i did, and then everythin was fine after that. you need to feel comfortable and not be nervous. try to make it pationate! It will be more exciting that way! Good Luck girly.!
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she was probably scared off because you told her you loved her and youre not even her boyfriend. you shouldnt say such a strong thing to someone you're not even in a relationship with. your best bet is to apologize to her for saying that and that you know she doesnt feel the same way and see what her response is. who knows, she could tell you youre wrong.
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me and my boyfriend were talking to my brother about kissing and my bro asked what it looks like and what do u do when ur making out w/ someone. so i grabed my bf and started making out w/ him right infront of my little bro. when we pulled apart i said "now that's how it's done!" and then kinda a funny romantic thing was.... me and my boyufriend were talking and he was just going on and on and i was getting bord... so i said "u talk to much! shut up and kiss me!" and i dove on him (we were on the couch) and kissed him as hard as i could!
1125136
Well, Have you two had sex yet? If not don't go and why are you afraid to be alone with him? The problem appears to be deeper than your question...Good Luck either way!!!!
24436
Yeah, have some fun and new experiences. And if u get scared u'll get some comfort 4rm him. hehe
520249
I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...