someones loves u and u know its not okay, like its forbidden, i dkn what to do?
931752
Different relationships will need different kinds of approach. Being formal and serious with the person will help. Stop talking to them or if they are young, perhaps try to explain them that you cannot love in the 'particulat' manner they are hoping for. If you add details to the question, we will be able to give more appropriate answer.
113404
you're not in love with him your co-dependant upon him.yes it's fatal. if you give someone that kind of control over your life. change psyches. This person obviously isn't doing anything for your self esteem issues.
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
551079
Why would you love someone who goes out of their way to hurt you?  This sounds like masochism to me.  You probably think you need this person ... but you don't.  It is perfectly possible to forgive, and to walk away.  Do it for the sake of your pride and your self-esteem.  That's my advice.  Otherwise, go on loving and being hurt.  The choice is yours.
467698
No, its not wrong. You cannot control who you have feelings for. You have to let that person know how you feel, and see if possibly they are wrestling with the same problem.
98805
Ignore her friend and just focus on the one you love. You control your life. And whoever loves you can't do anything about it if you don't love them so just ignore them and focus on the one you really love. However, you can't also do anything about it if she also doesn't love you.
317008
you can't chose the people to love you...try to treat him as friend, and not as close friend
789989
Sweetheart..you don't need anyone to tell you to do. I would strongly go with my heart. If you truely love him, you wouldn't be happy with anyone else. \nWe can tell you what we would do...but deep down...what would you do? Could you handle loving someone that is having problems walking? I would hang in there and not jump so fast to all the what ifs.
330981
Just find someone else that will love you. Some people just don't know when they have something good.
266311
I don't think its wise you become emotionally attached to this person who cannot be emotionally availible. It will only lead to distress and heartache.\n\nI would suggest taking you mind off the person. Its important to let her know that you cannot put yourself in this situation, because its an emotional strain.\n\nIf she truly values her happiness, she will do the right thing. Hopefully she will know better than to stay in such a destructive relationship, but that's something she will need to decide on her own.\n\nBe patient and more importantly drop all expectations toward the situation. Perhaps you should focus finding someone who is capable of investing the same about of love into a relationship as you are.\n\nYour happiness is at stake. Think about whats important for your own well-being.\n\nGood luck
516625
man thats a hard position to be in. im there too, kinda. i guess you need to ask them and see what they say, if you still don't think its true,you should let them go, if you don't it will lead to a really bad situation of distrust and hurt. you don't need to put yourself through that mess if the other person doesn;t love you back.
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
211081
Your going to have to explaing it to him again and again if necessary . if u dont love him you better not accept any proposal outa guilt..itll only hurt you both later. but if he cant accept that it will be best to not see him for a month or so. give him some time to cool off and get over you. youll find its very hard to get over somebody when they are always right in front of you. after he "heals" you just may be able to be friends.
1091644
what you do is move on and find someone else to love and who will love you back. you dont need to be with someone who is deceiving you.
99947
Your love obviously isn't being returned.  This person is using you and you don't deserve that.  By letting them get away with misbehaving you are just telling them that what they are doing is ok.  You need to put an end to what ever this behaviour is even if it means ending the relationship.  If you give your love to someone then you deserve to have it returned properly and if they can't do that then you need to find someone who will.
570283
dont feel guilty.\nits none of their monkey business\nface this one of a kind challenge in your life\nlet the people know how much you love your boyfriend\ndefend your relationship.
565152
You can't make anybody love you, honey! All you can do is be someone who can be loved.  The rest is up to him!