Am I weird? Hard to Get?
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your scared of commitment
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It's a personal journey , everyone is different.  My best advice would be to NOT be afraid of what people think of you.  Remember always your life has to be for you, not anyone else.  Nobody can tell you how to "find" yourself, figuring that out is part of the whole process!  Look, hon, I'm 30, and I still haven't figured out who I am....  Good Luck!!
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I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
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No this is  okay but be careful. It is hard to find the right person..
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How weird is that?  I've been trying to find you too!!
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Hey is it very tough to find out .. . well I find it very hard .. I can understand your problem .. I have also gone through it .. find out any specific method .. let me advise you .. it is very clear that you are finding it hard to ask her directly .. do one thing ask another girl who is close to her .. or of she does not know then make one girl to ask for you ( she will just ask casually without reveling your name ) well I do thing that is a good ans .. well one question from my side .. how you come to know the a girl loves ( or at least likes you ) ? believe me girls are also humans and has feeling like us .. how to know it .. she will give you hints .. but ..how to catch it. ?
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Probably, I'm a unique person and I haven't found love but I havent given up hope because I know I've got an awesome guy out there for me who is going to like me for me. Who wants to be normal? Wheres the fun in that!!
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I dont think why cant guys be easy to come by, I think it should be " Why cant that certain SOMEONE be easy to come by? " because when you say guys, it just makes it hard on single guys like me to see, because they are hopeful to meet someone special. I know you probably think thats a lame answer, but its from the heart. Thats what im about, giving from the heart.
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I believe it is normal--hold your head up and keep trying.  Good luck!
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It sounds like you are a really sweet, sensitive girl -- in other words beautiful.   And yes, beauty is everything.  Alright, so you are pleasant to look at.  I know from experience that is a plus when attracting the opposite sex.  There is nothing wrong with being shy, either.  There is a lot out there to be afraid of, it is good to listen to your instincts they will protect you.\n\nJust do me a favor, be a little picky with the guys you will date (you can afford to be).  Don't go for rich, as they will treat you like another possession.  Don't go for beautiful, as you will always be another conquest.  Don't go for arrogant, in a decade all of your peers who did that will either be single moms or bitter women.  Go for the guys who want to get to know you and for whom the physical is a nice bonus.
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You want the practical or the sociologist's answer? When you try too hard, people can tell, and even though a lot of the "in" crowd is really insincere, they have something to work off of - connections, friends, money, some kind of social tender. But they can sense that you're just trying and shooting blind, and it's irritating to them. You're trying to do something that's not you.\n\nIt really depends on your personality, and as Julia Kristeva said, fame (or, in your case, popularity) is a social phenomenon. However, there are things you can do to let people naturally feel drawn to you.\n\nOne of them is not to care - be confident, develop your skills and talents, and be DAMNED good at them and proud of them. Don't be arrogant; be humble and caring and sincere, but know your strengths and be honest about your weaknesses. People will want to know why you're so satisfied, why they feel good around you, and what makes you tick.\n\nAnother is to be really outgoing without trying. I'm not talking about extroverted, but this ties in with confidence. When you have confidence, you'll slowly drop your fear or awkwardness at not fitting in.\n\nAll through elementary school I was supposedly an outcast, but I was so unaware of my surroundings (I had friends and a GREAT life outside of school) that I didn't know, and it didn't matter. When I moved, it became more apparent, and all through junior high, I was awkward, but I eventually grew into my own group of friends, though I was never "popular" but not an outcast either.\n\nI moved in the middle of high school (again), so things were weird, but I found that I loved the people I could have very stimulating, and, yes, geeky discussions with. I loved choir and drama, and I loved conversations with my teachers. I got along with people who loved these things too, and everybody else who didn't care to get to know me, I didn't lose sleep over. I actually enjoyed my peace of "invisibility," not being involved with all that drama, and for some reason, I started getting more attention and even guys hitting on me, though I wasn't one of those people eager to get into a relationship anyway.\n\nStill, it was my workplace (a martial arts studio) that really opened me up. Getting into routine, discipline, and the quirks of the place built confidence. I interacted with people there whom I wouldn't normally have spoken to outside, and it didn't matter that we were SO different; we respected each other. I was happy with what I did, and it showed.\n\nThat's carried a lot through college. I don't have to party to meet people, but I am confident in my abilities and organised enough to get my work done so I don't have to stress and cram and avoid people when I'm studying. It wasn't until I got here that I realised people noticed me, but I'm so used to being out of the limelight that I didn't realise how many friends I'd made throughout the years from all walks of life and how many people I'm now getting to know, just by being myself. I guess I'm still not "popular," the kind of person who hears about all the events, but I think I have more real friends than the people who stick to one group anyway.\n\nSorry for the rambling, but the key is not to worry and to be confident. Take care of yourself because you like yourself; take care of your health because it'll make YOU feel better, not because you'll look better to everyone else. I dress well because it helps me start the day off well, not to attract attention. I do my best not to get praise, but because I feel good about it; I feel accomplished. =)\n\nGood luck, but you don't need it!
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The more you focus on getting it, the more likely you won't.\nJust enjoy what you're doing and it might come by itself.\nWell, I assume you know what it takes to get it... So you could possible re-consider some techniques/positions to help you achieve it..
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no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
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??? I guess it's something about your personality.  Damn, if I could meet another person that would make me fall in love... xoxo\nHmmm... we're on the same boat but on opposite ends.  I'm a guy that has problems falling in love or even talking to the person everyday.  Why?!?  I like my space, right?  I like my own time.  Maybe I'm not ready because I haven't found anyone worthy of my absolute (EVERYDAY) once a day phone call thing that everyone does.  Therefore, for that reason it is difficult for anyone to see anything going serious with me.  It doesn't bother me.\n\nI'm just saying we're oddly on the same boat but at two different ends.
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nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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WAY too little information!  Can you tell more about your sitution?  Feel free to email me if you'd prefer.  1st thing I'll want to know is how old you are.\n\nAnyway, here's a very general answer for starters:  Maybe you are projecting an attitude of disinterest or unapproachability.  For instance, there definitely IS such a thing as being 'too cool.'  Most people want to spend time with people who show an interest in them.  If you're not sending clear enough signals of your interest, many guys won't bother risking what looks like a very good chance of rejection.
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I got to say that you shouldn't let this break you down. Maybe you are beautiful or sexy. Now for some guy to say that they "love" you without even knowing you or some guy to just come up to you and ask you out is kind of weird.\n\nYou don't have to make them happy, but just you know, give them a little gesture of some sort. It's OK if you have to be a little on the offensive at times.\n\nIf you really want to make one happy. Find maybe the 1 client that is actually not so straight forward. Someone who actually want to get to know you. Where you were born, your family, relations etc.\n\nThat is the kind of person you are looking for.\n\nEveryone is attracted by looks. Of course, looks comes first, but some people don't care who you are, but they just want to get in bed with you. That is a whole norther story though.