Boyfriend Hard to Tame!?
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okay, you seem more worried about the motorbike than the defective gun. a defective gun would be more dangerous than a motorbike. \n\nI never understood the football thing, and football is for gays anyway, and that is not derogatory, I am saying that men who like football are homosexual. Why? because in case you hadn't noticed, football players slap each other on the ass. \n\nI would advise you to be a bit stronger in your feelings, remember, emotions are meant to strengthen and protect us, let them do so.
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I have the same problem...my bf is like that...he thinks it's a serious thing, I think it's because he feels like if I do that then he isn't satisfying me himself, so it's kind of letting himself down. That's all that I can come up with.
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It's hard - find out what he's doing and maybe try and be involved.\n\nA blowjob works wonders - believe me I've been there...!
459294
Listen,my man does me the same way,but I don't play with myself,I'm just a Bitch for the rest of the evening..This maybe hard for you,but it works for me..Next time he wants it turn him down a few times and show him how it feels then maybe he'll give it up to you more when you want it..Don't cheat on him,that's the worst thing you could do..Since your into playing with yourself just get your own little toy and use it..Or just quit playing with yourself and be the biggest bitch to him and let him know how you feel..Tell him hay your not giving me want I want and need so I'm about to cheat on you..Life ain't nothing without making love..Just give turning him down a try without playing with yourself and see how it will make him feel..If you do that I hope it works..
226443
maybe you guys are in a rutt...same partner for three years,...maybe you need to spice thigns up try something different or have vacation sex...always works for me.  seems like its easier to let go and get loud and wild when youre not at home with the neighbors listening
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Is he under pressures lately? Stress can make guys not being able to do so. As for keeping it, are you meaning that he can't stay like this for long or he come too fast? If it's the first one, ask a doctor. Second, get more practices. :P
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I have the same issue sometimes and the more you do it the more frustrated you get and so you keep trying...its a never ending cycle. It could be that you are putting too much pressure on yourself, it could be that he is too fast, slow, small, etc. Positions seem to be something that you can vary to see what works best. The first thing you have to do is stop thinking so much about it, relax. If its not a normal issue for you then there isn't anything wrong with you physically. Try some different things and don't be too hard on yourself. http://www.allsexguide.com
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The only thing you can do is to trust him,and communicate with him. If you talk to him about things, then maybe he will be honest with you and communicate his feelings as well. If you can't be open with him about things, he is more likely to stray if he doesn't feel you are giving him what you need. If you try all these things, then maybe you two can be happy together. The one thing you do not want to do is try to control him, this will drive him away completely. Be his girlfriend, be loving, and caring and pay attention to him and definately COMMUNICATE! that is the key. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
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This might be what God intended.  When someone needs to be tough, it'll be him.  When there comes a time in a relationship when someone needs to be soft, it'll be you.\nThe question here really is- Are you able to agree how to handle different circumstances?  Can you compromise?
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TELL HIM TO CHILL OUT. IF YOU WANTED A BODYGAURD IT WOULDN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND.
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Get him drunk.\n\nSeriously, though, my boyfriend guilt trips me to do it, so that might work. But you really shouldn't top him if he really really doesn't want to.
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Maybe its because you just aren't relaxed enough when your with your bf.  You're body isn't ready to respond because you're mind is concerned that it won't happen.  Try just closing your eyes and relaxing and tell your boyfriend to give you lots of foreplay before he goes after your sweet spot.
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He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
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Hi Juhl. Are you asking because a person you're in a relationship says hes stressed out as a means to escape intimate relations?\nHe probably just needs some 'space' either physically or emotionally'. \nSome guys cannot perform if their mind is elsewhere. Talk to him about what is stressing him out and be patient. Think about him, your time will come.
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some ppl just cant deepthroat, but the slower you do it the easier it is! just start by taking a small amount then increase the amount you take each time you move up and down. Also you should try telling your b/f that the first inch of his penis is the most sensitive and try focusing on that part!
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hey sweetie sex won't work believe it or not it's just the opposite however if he gets frustrated and bugs out because of the lack of nookie he was not the guy any way. cudo's to you for standing on your moral principles. my best to you and your relationship
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Tougher than you would think isn't it? You have to take your turn. Try to get enjoyment out what it makes him feel like. Just mount up and watch his face. I promise, you are making him feel better than anything in the world. Remember that and just smile because at that point he has no control over himself and it's all because of you. Work it girl. He will follow you around like a puppy. When it's over just lay there and smile but don't let him know why. When you figure out what you do to him and the control you have when your on top, you won't be able to wait till you can do it again. Don't forget about yourself, he has to take his turn too. Then he gets to watch you too. Cool huh? You wont need luck with this one. It is one of the secrets of life.