So where do the women that actually have jobs and want a nice guy hang out at???? To busy workin????
916065
There are nice women with jobs everywhere.  You just have to keep your eyes open.  And it's also a good idea to exhibit some of the same qualities that you want in a lady.  If you're a deadbeat guy with no job, don't be expected to meet a nice lady with a job.
464758
Open you´re eyes ands ears, first what kind of man you want.\nIf you want a spiritual hard working men it more easy to find in a group who help kids or work for free in non-profit organization, instead of a bar. Be part of a group for goods things in this environment you can meet nice people and be better person, or be part of people who share you´res hobbies or sports.
786674
I see nothing wrong with that. It's great to have friends or buddies at work. I hang out with my co workers outside of work often. We have different parties and we go out to eat (just us girls) and have some drinks. Go with it. Have fun and good luck.....SAM
97283
The way to start dating is getting your self in the right frame of mind and haveing a desire to go out and have fun. Where is totally up to you, I personally do not go to bars or parties. I usually meet women in some the strangest places when I am not looking. Just be yourself and get out there (women don't like fakes). Try stores, museums, anyplace a women would go by herself or with girlfriends. Above all do not become deperate or obnoxious. Women deserve to be treated well.
295789
Women always say they want a good guy. But between the ages of 18 to 25 women go out and party. Clubs, bars, Vegas, Spring Break anyone? The question you should be asking yourself is, what kind of guys was I dating in previous relationships? Why didn't they work? Then take a look at yourself and ask why would anyone want to be with me? What do I have to offer? Have some confidence in yourself, get to the gym, because we all need to work out and be healthy. Then get involved with something. Find a hobby. Then find people with the same kinds of interests. THEN YOU WILL FIND A GOOD GUY FOR YOU.
19764
Maybe your not looking in the right places, are you open to trying maybe a personal dating service??? you might want to look into that, there are great women who are genuine and looking for more in a relationship. They wouldn't be paying for the service if they didn't want something out of it. try it you might find that someone special.
306618
Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!
853175
"Hey.  I know you're about to move but I've had my eye on you and I wanted to know if you would like to get together after work for some drinks and maybe dinner?"  I would love for a woman to be that straight forward with me instead of beating around the bush with stupid signals like staring and laughing.  That stuff is garbage, ladies.  Men want you to say what's on your mind.
586881
THANK YOU!!Women are constanly saying they want the nice guy but the nice guy get's nowhere.What's up with that?
320313
They are not nice. A woman loves to have a man help espically if she is working outside the home. Even if she is a stay at home person, she needs your help. If I were only years and years and years younger, I would snap you up. Stay as you are,
411732
Some are,some aren't.You just haven't found a nice guy yet.When the time is right,I promise he will be there.You just have to be patient.I know he is out there somewhere,just trust me.If you ever want to talk,drop me a line sometime ok?
1128928
Nice guys will get laid when the females realizes how much the other guys are bad people. They will then want to hang out with the Nice Guy. It is only a matter of time till they get laid.\n\nComplex formulas could probably predict it, but I'm not in possession of such formulas, or else I'd be selling it.
20824
Are there any clubs in your area that have activities you like that you can join?  Does your town ever have any fairs or anything that you can go to?  Try asking a friend if he or she knows any single ladies looking for friends to do things with, and start out that way.
78950
If I absolutely knew, I would be there myself! But seriously, you have to go where they are going, which is anywhere and everywhere. But what I know is that bars and clubs are quickly becoming the places NOT to meet women. Some good choices may be:\n\nAt Work (though this is chancy depending on the type of environment you work in)\nSubway/Bus (I am in NYC)\nDuring Lunch at restaurant/diner\nBookstores\nSupermarkets\nCoffee Shops\nGym (though this is becoming a bad place also)\nOrganizations/Affiliations\nGroup/Charity/Hobby Group Meetings
637010
you know, and this is not meant to offend any of the nice sounding people that have answered this question already, but i agree with you.  i have very few women friends because they always seem so competetive and bitchy and catty, they just make my skin crawl.  i get along better with men.  i'm quite sure there are nice women out there, i just hardly ever meet any.
100960
YES!!!  I am one of them and most of my friends are!  I think nice people can be hard to find but if you look and you're nice too, you can find them!  : )  Being nice is the only way to be...I have bad days but still try to be nice!
71203
Yes there are. I am one of them. It's not like it was when we were younger, to where you can go to clubs and so on. The best way for me to meet other women are through friends and family.