Should I Leav My Wife?
918150
I'd say you're in a bit of a sticky wicket...! Good luck...!
969628
do it if you have a free time, and take rest about half an hour between once and another, but don't make it affect your regular life,like:work,sleep,social life,sports,watching TV.\ndon't make your wife bored by that.
1148211
Not at all.  It sounds like you're a level headed person, and that you really love your wife and want her to be happy.  You've done so much more than others in your position might do.  If I'd had a hat on, I'd tip it to you!  You're a class act!
835035
I think you made the right decision. If you two love each other then things should work out. Its cool that you show the understanding that you do. That may be what she really needs from you
1134300
Who cares if she loves you or not! Her actions scream, her words are quiet. Don't be a fool...you deserve far better than this, and if it is like this at this point, do you really think it will go anywhere but DOWNHILL ? Wise up, send her packing (I am not a hearless person and usually pick the opposite side), for this one is divorced for a very good reason...and you are finding the reason. You do NOT need to have a significant other, you will be fine on your own, and ... guess what! It won't be long before you find (0r are found) another who will appreciate all you do, all you are, and all you will be. This one will never be that person. Good luck to you both.
1000221
You need to be honest to both women, You just got back with your wife, don't let her hear this from anyone but you. This is the fastest way to ruin trust. Be nice to the Friend, tell her you like her but only want to be friends. You can also tell her that you may be working things out with your wife. Don't let both women think you have been leading them on. you can loose your wife for good and that doesn't sound like what you want. Tell HER Now. Marriage is a blessing and your wife's feelings should come first. if the friends gets mad then so what. At least your wife knows you're not trying to play games with her.
36812
How long have you been married?  From a women's point view you def. need to talk with your wife, tell her your hopes and dreams for your marriage, let her know you still care and that you'll be there for her.  Why? Because you still love her.  But let her decide what she wants.  She said she needs time, give it to her, but don't lose touch with her.
28312
Relegion is a big part of your life aparently, and you should communicate with her and get her thoughts and feelings about the subject.\n\nI do wish to congradulate you on exploring ccompatability and your future with her BEFORE you are married with children.\n\nTake care and good luck
804171
Her issues are not your concern anymore.  U already made your choice, u gave your vows to someone else.  Concentrate on your marriage instead.
1019796
Stay with her! My wife is Bipolar and we have a wonderful marriage. The key is to make sure she stays on her meds. . if she does everything should be fine. I can say from experience that my wife is much more loving that many "normal" women I've met over the years.
716263
You should have married her before getting her pregnant. That way you would have more of a stack then what you have now.
1045854
If you are married and feeling lonely, \nthere is a huge chance your wife is feeling the same way too.\nIs it ok for her to resolve the lonliness by cheating on you?\n\nHow much effort will you have to put into an affair?  How much danger is there it will backfire?\n\nWouldn't it be easier to "renew" your relationship with your wife?  I mean actually DATE your wife. \nIf you devote the same amount of time to your wife, minute for minute, hour for hour, that you would in seeking, establishing and carrying out and affair, you could easily renew and improve your marriage.\n\nYou can not do that while having PRIDE.\nGet rid of pride, woo your wife, flirt, date, and compliment her again, and\nI don't doubt she will melt in your arms\nand give you what you need in attention,\nreturned flirting, appreciation, and intimacy.\n\nYou will never fix your marriage by poking into the wrong places.\nYou need to turn into your marriage, and renew, and establish what you want.\nLOVE is not dead, it is just been neglected\nby one or both of you.  \nPay more attention to the girl you promised to take care of and love for better or worse.\n\nThen when you are old and fat and ugly, she will take care and stay loyal to you.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
599749
You gotta ride this out, my friend. Think of diamonds and gold for your wife. It will be cheaper than the alimony.
102708
wait, are you trying to marry her, or date and have a sexual relationship with her. If it is the first point, don't do it man. Marriages are expensive and will always end in divorce or unhappiness. Save yo money and buy an old school cadillac with 24's instead. If its the part about sexual relationship, tell her she gives you action in the pants, and that she needs to stop selling drugs to kids. That is not cool, man!
111628
You say you are "unhappy", what does that mean?  If there were no kids involved i'd say move on, but children are precious and deserve all you and your wife can do to resolve this.  But making your kids the reason for staying is weak, nobody wins.  Communication is the key, there had to have been a time when your wife was the best woman that happened to you right?  She still is and it's worth finding out together what changed.  And even if you still come to the same conclusion you can honestly say you tried, do THAT for the children.
1076747
look here bud im 30 and ive been married b4.....but i screwed up and took for granted what i had. i am involved with someone new now and i have truely learned what not to do to jepordize this one.....who i am also planning on marrying in the future. just do what feels right....but when you do get married treat her right and make her feel loved everyday no matter what. hugs and kisses everyday no matter how pissed she makes you. if you can swallow some pride every now and then you should be ok.
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.