Should i try snag the hot guy? Or stay with my fiancee of 6 years?
916416
Stick with your fiance...in the end, he will prevail.  Long term relationships aren't easy and they require some work.  You can get the lust back into your relationship with your fiance, you just need to spice things up and talk to him.  You both need to talk to each other about trying new things, tell him what you want him to do and what you like...otherwise he'll never know he's not giving you what you need or want.  This guy may be a good bootycall but not worth losing love over.  You just want excitement and to feel your heart jumping again.  The best way I found to satisfy the thirst for those feelings, have your girls' night out and dance and flirt but don't let it get too far...score some free drinks and then go home and have hot wild monkey sex with your fiancee...lol.  But who I am to tell you how to live your life.  Do what you feel is best for you...follow your intuition.  Best of luck!
248950
the guy i am dating now i have been best friends with for 6 years. when we first met we started to flirt nothing serious, then he told me that he wanted to persue this other girl very seriously. so we became really good friends. after four years we were finally both single, he was getting ready to move across the country and he told me how he felt. we've been dating for 2 years now. it is with out a doubt the best relationship i have ever been in. i'm glad we waited, because if not we might not be together right now. if he loves you and you love him. you will end up together. i hope this helps your situation.
651799
IT IS GREAT THAT YOU THINK LIKE THIS. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. I DON'T SEE WHY U SHOULD SETTLE FOR LESS. I AM PRETTY SURE THAT IF YOU KEEP ON LOOKING YOU WILL FIND THAT GREAT PERSON YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. YOU SHOULD GO AHEAD AND BREAK UP WITH THIS GUY THOUGH. WHY BE WITH HIM IF IT IS NOT LEADING TO ANYTHING. LIKE YOU SAY YOU ARE 27 ALREADY. WHY WASTE TIME LIKE THIS.
298586
Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
615778
Well if you love her too, have her wait 2 years for you. If you don't love her... tell her to find someone else.\n\nBy the way my husband is 6 yrs older than me... so no it isn't to young. Just from a legal stand point I'd wait.
951431
If you both really love each other, then I think you should move. Being in love is the best thing that can happen to someone. It just makes every day a little before. So my answer is yes.  :-) and good luck.
341951
If it's true love it'll be there tomorrow or 5 years from now.  \nWhy rush to marry.  \nIt's only an expensive piece of paper to tell you something you already know.....you love the guy. \n\nIf it's meant to be...it'll be and it'll be there in years.  If then you feel the urge to marry then do so.  \n\nFor now enjoy each other and your relationship.
411892
Tell her, and find out where you stand.  It looks as though she may be ready to move on, sadly for you, as she may not see the outcome of your 'ups and downs' in your relationship in quite the same way as you do.  It might be time just to move on yourself or carry the relationship through into marriage - 6 years is a long enough time to do something about it. The fact she feels comfortable enough to make these arrangements in front of you means that she's about given up hope of going further with you because you've delayed for so long.  I think it's reasonable after so many years to decide whether you want to commit to this girl and ask her to marry you or live with you, or go your separate ways.
1101857
you're both consenting adults, and as long as you're both hot for each other, go for it! and if other people don't like it, too bad, you gotta live your life for you. \nand if this is from someone who is a friend or family member of either the 50 year old woman, or the 25 year old guy, that is the person they chose to be with, leave them alone. it might be just a fling, or it may be a deep meaningful relationship, either way only time will tell, and if they have found a happiness with each other, no matter how long that time period may be, let them be happy. happiness is a rare thing these days.\ngood luck to you
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
746833
suggest you both excessive together...start walking every other day and build up to power walking you both will not only lose weight but you'll feel better, less tired and more interested in doing the 'things' you used too. maybe its not about your weight but the fact you've been together 6 yrs and she's still a fiancee...point is maybe she feels you don't want to commit to her....if you love her treat her like it, respect her. and no your size shouldn't matter if you really love each other...there is a saying that 'beauty fades but love lasts forever'
362932
Finding someone attractive does not me u are not ready for marriage. Lk into your heart and see if your fiance and marriage is what u want in life right now
632877
If you feel that the time is right, if not then just keep going with it. If what your doing now seems to be working out, then why change it? Unless your both thinking about marriage, or you're living together and want the benefits of marriage, the way you're relationship is now is working. Although if you've been together for 3 years and arn't living together yet I'd suggest giving that a try, believe me it's very different and you get to know a lot more about eachother.
468279
you definitely should. isn't it time that the both of you made another step toward the ultimate commitment to each other? you have been together this long and have already talked about getting married. i think you should do it. god bless both of you.
328174
In my experience go with your heart.  I was always worrying about my family liking my boyfriends and everything but then I sat down and thought about how much I actually see my family and I hardly ever saw them and I was with my boyfriend...now my husband...all the time.  He was what made me happy not my family or my friends who didn't like him.  If this guy is unpredictable...why risk being hurt by someone like that when you can be with someone who does love you and  you know that for sure without a doubt.  Who cares what other people think of your sexuality.  They don't have to live out your life and they don't have to be with the girl...so do what you want and mroe importantly what your heart wants.
278706
I don't think you are cold hearted.  I don't think you have met the right one yet, and who knows you may not.  If you love someone, there should be some lust mixed in with it. I mean how can you live with someone for the rest of your life and not want them?  I don't think you are ready to settle down yet, you have your whole life in front of you, don't rush things and to tell you the truth, there is no "norm."  Just have fun, stay safe, and be careful.
551327
what are you asking, which one to go out with? it all depends on how vin you really are.  you may have tons in common with the geeky guy, and you may just want the hot guy out of lust. my advice is give the geek a chance, and if it doesn't work out give the hottie a call