dating a coworker in a small office?
915433
If you like each other go for it.  Get together outside of the office.  you can't be scared of what will happen if it doesn't work out.  If everyone was like that then no one would ever get together.  If there is an office policy that coworkers can not date then you need to be sneaky.  You never know, you might have found your soul mate.
207695
It's nobody else's business who you go out with,you shouldn't be concerned about your collegues' opinion of\nyour personal life. However,gossip is one of the biggest\nproblems with office relationships. If you don't want to deal with it,then you better not date him.\n Be aware of your company's position on this kind of thing.\nIn some places it can get you fired,so that's something else\nto consider.
111278
screw the hottest single parralegal in the office(providing you're single) Lock that door,bend her over that desk and give it to her good! LOL!!!
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
291509
If you really like this girl then you should let her know. I think you should try the relationship, the trick is to just keep your relationship and your job seperate, while at work your relationship is not open for discussion, maintain a professional attitude in the work place, and don't allow your relationship to come into play. Also make sure she has the same attitude, and when work hours are over everything should work out just how you want it to. Look at Beyonce and Jay-Z, they both just keep their mouth shut, that way no matter what rumors are going around at work no one will ever really know what is trully going on.
983503
Opposites often attract however, I would never get involved with any one that I work with.  If the relationship doesn't work out things can get really ugly to the point where one or both looses their job.
693208
Well, you have to make the opportunity to talk to them. Ask them out for a drink or a coffee. If you don't want to be that bold, then maybe you can get a group of co-workers to go to dinner/lunch together one day. Make sure you sit near him and talk it up.
803431
works in an office for a company
373999
In my opinion I think that you should never get involved with a coworker.T here are many complications starting from this. What if you breakup afterwards? How will you be able to go to work? Not the mention that everybody is going to start talking and you will have a lot of rumours on your head, most of them not true.If she gets a promotion,they will think that she did "something special" to earn that. But if you really like her, she could switch jobs, if that is an option.And are you sure she's no trying to get somewhere with this romance? Maybe she's trying to obtain something. The stakes are too high. it's better not to complicate your life like that. But hey,it's just my opinion.
296587
Getting involved with someone you work with is NOT a good idea. Any time there is a problem in the relationship, it can cause a problem in the work situation. If the relationship fails it can cause problems for you at work. Many businesses have rules against employees dating, because of the problems it creates in the work place. It can be grounds for termination if your company has a rule against employees dating.  If you truly feel a person is right for you, I suggest that one of you find a new job before getting involved in the relationship, or at the very least, make sure there is no company policy against employee dating.
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
471408
work relationships are complicated, they can distract you. if it all goes wrong theres always a pretty high chance you'll end up office gossip. plus alot of companies frown on it so if u do go there, keep it quiet.x
852432
I have read that most long term couples meet at work.  That's where I met the man I am with.
612865
I am in a similar situation. I like a girl at work, and she likes someone else, as I am pretty ugly, short, (5-7), and have nothingf she wants, (tall, good looking, etc.)\n\nYou need to take him aside and explain the TRUTH. It will hurt for a while, but If he really likes you as a person, he might shy away for a while, but then when the pain wears off a little he'll be your friend. The girl I like will not talk to me anymore, because when I talk to her, she thinks I am just trying to get in her pants, so to speak, and won't have any of it. Please do not string this guy along anymore. BE HONEST!
220836
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
551623
no offense, but unless he's a first rate jerk, he won't be interested.  It's just a crush(although I'm sure you're sure its love) and will wear off as soon as you see the next hot thing.  Don't get involved with teachers, bosses, or co-workers...it ends up messy.
132822
Just make sure that there are no work regulations against dating within the company -- but otherwise I'd say go for it. If things go sour, just make sure that they don't rot and decay - because like you said, you do have to see her all the time.\n\nAnd don't send it "secret admirer".  Send it from YOU - that way she'll more than get the hint that you like her.