hes my bestfriend an he treats me so nice cause were friend but should i reveal what i really feel about him?
929276
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!\nI dont want to ruin my friendship though!
105786
do you feel the same way? if not tell him you were happy just being friends.
656527
well ask him if he feels the same way about you as you do him.if not you can still be friends
584698
u need to tell him or otherwise u will dwell on it 4 2 long and the right person 4 u wont be there at all....my best friend told me that he liked me when he knew that i was in love w/ my husband (he wasnt my husband then tho)...he knew it was never gonna happen but he did it neway...we're still best friends...if ur friend is the kind of friend u say he is, then he shouldnt mind u tellin him at all
945382
He knows you like him,. You know how he feels right now. Soo just be friends with him for now! Good luck
362896
I have been in that place years ago.  I felt something special with a good friend of mine and it was confusing.  I got the courage to tell him directly how I felt about being something more than a friend but I was rejected.  I cannot say that it is not painful but at least the situation was clear for me and we are able to keep our friendship.  Actually, he is one of my best friends now.  I suggest that you tell him directly but you have to be prepared that he may not be able to give you a positive answer and you can live with that!  Anyway, if you continue to hide your feelings, it may be quite painful and confusing!  Good Luck!
614573
You should talk to him & tell him how you feel...that's the only way he's going to know.
146585
u should feel proud with him cause he choose u over his best frenz...that mean that hes really2 love u...cherish him girl make him feel that what ever he does,he got the support from u
492322
If the person is involved in a relationship at this time or you are, you should keep it to yourself.  If both of you are not in relationships, you should tell the person how you feel.  As best friends, you already have a great level of communication and the other person may be feeling the same way as you but is afraid to spoil your friendship.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  You will still be friends no matter what and even if the other person doesn't look at you that way now, they may start to consider it and you may have a chance in the future.  Good luck!
71800
Tell him that you like him but you're getting mixed signals and you need for him to tell you how he feels.  I know it's scary, but even if he says he just wants to be friends he'll stick with you if he really IS your friend!  Either way, it's best to get things out in the open.  You'll be glad that you know and don't have to just wonder all of the time.
85906
Just tell him that your really good friends with him and you dont want to harm the friendship. Or even better you could tell him that you dont love him you only see him as a friend and nothing more.
410990
if you really feel you wan to tell him you should and maybe  the reason you hold back is cuz your scared he might start changing towards you and stuff, but if he was a good friend he will either tell you he likes you to or he feels that being friends is better and try to work with your feelings you know
172723
you know your in love when you and your "friend" feel sum thing special in side \n\np.s give it time yoo'll know
370161
be honest with him and tell him how you feel
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
28093
I think you should think about it and tell him if you are relly sure you want to. Does it seem like he feels something for you? If you break up or are rejected there is a possibility that your frienship will change. But it is not good to keep it to yourself because you might have a chance and if you dont tell him you might regret not taking the risk later on in your life.
406106
Tell him how you feel.  Otherwise you will miss your moment. If he cares for you at all (even as a friend) it shouldn't damage your friendship.  And atleast you would know if he feels the same way, and if he does (i'd say its a good chance) then you guys could patch things up and move on. Good luck to you sweetie.