My sis (11 years) said she wants to invite her crush to spend the night babysitting with her,is this bad?
915669
NOT A GOOD IDEA.  She is way too young to be alone with her crush and to spend the night BIG NO NO.  How old is her crush and what would his parents think.  \n\nIt would not be a mature decision to make.  A lot of "things" could happen.\n\nEven though you will be checking on her all night........I think as she gets older she will always feel guys should spend the night with her because she did it at 11.
799494
I wouldn't do anything. He's not sleeping with his cousin, he's fantasizing about it. Everybody has fantasies, not everyone lives out those fantasies. He'll get over it eventually. If he has a good relationship with your sister, then leave it alone. What really matters is that he's treating her right. Who knows, she may be benefiting more than you think because of his imagination. I would just tell him in the future, to not share those kinds of thoughts with you, because it puts you in a weird place that you don't want to be in.
894956
I agree with Rico, you need to think how much you value your friendship and what could be potentially just a shag. If you have real feelings for your pals sister and want something more, you need to find this out from her and talk straight with him.
151830
Well, have you spoiled her in her earlier years? Not anything bad about your parenting or something like that, they are adorable and sometimes you can't help but give them everything, lol. My friend did this and when he started asking for help around the house, his daughter felt she didn't have to do it because she never had to before. It went on with a month and he had to talk with her about it every few days. She finally got annoyed and started helping out though, lol. Then again, 11 is near teenager...and we all fear the teenage daughter...and/or the teenage daughter's boyfriend.
967624
tell her that you only have fun once in your life that you want to see your cousins tell her to stop hattin' on people that life is short she does't wast any regrets and her sister wouldn't like it either.
378637
I'd be careful. If you know her well enough to talk about family then its probably OK, if not overdone.
408566
Um, if they're living in the same household, then it's only courdial to invite everyone.  Yes, it is your day and it should be planned out to your specifications, but think about the "bad-blood" that could be created or spared based or your decision to just let someone show up and hey....maybe give you an extra gift.  It's worth it to me to suck it up.  Besides, there will be so many other people there, it isn't like you have to sit and hold hands with him/her the entire time and be like "look who I invited, right here, uh huh, see who came, blah blah blah."
1034524
It's not fair that your mother seems intent on spending more time with your sisters children than with yours. However, it sounds as though your sisters children are not as fortunate as yours with respect to having a loving and good mother. So, take this into account when you're judging your mothers actions and take pride and strength from the knowledge that you're the better mother, something many women wish they could be. You're young, beautiful and ovbviously have a very compassionate heart though I suspect you're unhappy with life for many reasons. I also suspect your devoted entirely to your childrens happiness and well being while ignoring your own. Don't do that completely. You need your life too and you need friends who support that for you so reach out. Make friends, new ones if you have too, people who will share and listen to you. We're out here for you.
999427
well, no that's not being "messy". it just means maybe she wants to talk 2 you're other cousin for a little while. what's wrong with talking to other family members.  just try to do something 2gether like all 3 of u guys going to the movies or shopping or something. that way u 3 can bond as cousins. also, it may have something 2 do with the age difference. if you're really younger or older than the two of them then your cousin may have more in common with your other cousin than you so she might feel more comfortable talking to her.  don't get stressed out. i'm sure both of you will be talking tommorrow.
579500
i am not ur cousin - u just tell everyone that so they dont think we r messing around. but 2 bad bc we have done so for 2 many years and who says that u would be taking pics and not joining in on all that fun we would be having. come on u know u would want to. u just couldnt handle watching bc remember i know u toooo well. so take the advice of some of ur other answers and join in. and thre is an invite in here so who knows i wouldnt mind inviting her to join in. shes hot!!!!!!!
17284
Well if you are invited is acceptable to go, and the party is not for your sister in law it is for your mother in law and i think your mother in law is the one you are honoring when you go. If she is nasty to you just turn the other cheek, and explain to your children that you are going for your m-i-l and not take anything that your sister in law says to you to heart. She might be jealous of your relationship with your m-i-l. In the end it will all smooth over, trust me from a person who knows.
510076
dude, you're looking at it the wrong way. it has more to do with your age, and what time the curfew is. the fact that you're asking a question like this might just prove that you're not ready to have a later curfew. \n\nnow, if she's telling you that you need to be asleep by 8:00 and you're 17, thats not cool. if you're 13 and she wants you to be home by 8:00 and in bed by 11:00, seems to me that she's not out of line.
748597
i have 2 sisters both can be quite bad so i no were you are coming from one is older than me as one is younger i would ask her what is going on try and sort it out but dont be to hard treat her as a friend and she might open up to you in a good way good luck any more advice needed you can email me on your friend waiting  lauzmargretjones@yahoo.com
1008526
lol.. u crazy, i kinda knew you was joking though.\n\nbut back to the lecture at hand, it depends. if neither of the girls mean anything to you.. go for it, but if the younger one is a close friend or y'all had some kind of emotional ties, then it wouldn't be right. she'll probably be hurt by you being with her sister.
118789
I agree, go help her, shouldn't you be there anyway if it's her birthday. If you took everyone elses advice you are already there are if not and you are still sitting at the computer reading this, then your might just be a jerk.\n\nHope it all works out!!!
219270
as soon as possible, id say at the latest age 8, a young lady should have her own space and room! i would have been embaressed to bring friends over too if i shared space with my brother
277222
Some of the subject matters are too mature or just plan disgusting for a child of that age...email addy is ok but not the questions.  Please do the right thing and iform your parents or adult in charge.  \n\nThanks for being a concerned older sibling!  =0)  \n\nYou deserve 10 points for you thoughtfulness!