whats the best way to deal with a breakup?
929465
Volunteer to help others less fortunate.  You will feel better about helping someone and may meet someone while doing something worthwhile.
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
1167716
show your current boyfriend some respect.  if you don't love him anymore, breakup with him.  it may be hard to do but it's easier to get over being dumped than it is to get over being cheated on.
213925
get over him and move on
1136
You just end it. It really doesn´t matter why, the point is: you don´t want it anymore and it´s enough. Break up with the person, cry and be sad the time you need and then, be happy again :-)
330733
You let it go.  As fast as you can you forget about it and move on. Spare the negative feelings, they are a waste of emotion that can be positive.  Cry if you need to and get it all out and then move on.
862428
nothing now.. just be there if she needs you after the big breakup.
633750
You will get over it.It takes time.Try to do something to help yourself get on with life.You will never love the same way again.Each time will be different.But you will find another wonderful person to fill that void.If you two broke up I am sure that you can find someone who will be the girl friend of your dreams.It all takes time.
817508
I really know what you mean, and it is so hard. \nRemember that this is all from within you, thus you can fix it yourself too. \nYour broken heart will be whole again in the near future. \nTo speed this up you can do a few thing, and believe me they have helped me.\nDon't see the person if you can manage it at all, in a book they say about 2 months. I had to see my ex every day, and even make small talk with him on occasion. At the time I wanted to see him but looking back it has just made the whole process agonisingly harder. \n\nDon't wallow in self pity, go out, see your friends, excercise this will really help and when you see him in passing in the future you'll look great, but overall do this for yourself, because you must love you.\n\nIt always depends on you personnally, but I reckon that if you don't see him for a good amount of time, you will realise you can get along just fine by yourself. If you do see him or hear about how he is doing, this will make things ten times harder, so don't. \n\nHe missed out on you not the other way around, and you never do no what is around the corner, \n\nYou know you will eventually forget and move on\nI hope you don't suffer too much\ngood luck
185
Surround yourself with friends, family, people who love you. Go on a trip to clear your head. It doesn't have to be expensive, just go camping with some pals or take a day trip to a beautiful outdoor spot. Take up a new hobby. Now is the perfect time to start doing something you didn't have time for before. Exercise. Read humorous and uplifting books (NO romance novels!). Go to the movies (NO sequels to movies you saw with your ex!). Buy fresh fruits and vegetables and make a delicious homecooked meal for your best friends. Get out in the world, get some fresh air, stretch your legs.  Take some time to get to know yourself and figure out what you want in life.\nWhatever you do, DON'T wallow in self-pity at home. DON'T get drunk and call your ex! DON'T write your ex emails begging to take you back. DON'T hang out in front of your ex's house hoping to bump into him/her. DON'T jump into another relationship right away.
240623
Just have a face-to-face talk with him, communicate your feelings (as gently as possible) and be up-front. There's no real easy way to go about it...my ex of 2-1/2 years broke up with me a little while back, she broke my heart, and I still think about her alot, but it would have been much better if she would have been more straight-forward. So tell him exactly where you're at, it might hurt at the time, but you'll both be better off that way!
280823
Breaking up isn't always easy! My advise is, what ever you do make sure your breaking up for all the right reasons. Be honest with your self and be honest with him as to why your feeling this way. \nIf your for certain this is what you want, then you should let him know as soon as possible. Keeping this from him every day will only make him feel foolish of his self. I know it's hard to have to break up and sometimes we get to the point where we get so up tight and nervous about doing this that we push it off. But the old saying is breaking up is the hardest thing to do. \nI would tell him that you need to speak with him over dinner or what ever you guys do that wouldn't start a big question game, like what is this all about before you actually get a chance to sit down and talk with him. When telling him this try not to say "the time we spent together has been great etc. etc. but, let him know that lately you have been going over things and you need to etc. etc. Especially, if this is coming from out of nowhere. Let him be able to absorb little by little. This way there won't be anger flaring up. Try to then speak to him as if your talking with a good friend.\nI wish you all the best to you and him both.
387506
Rule # ONE... never call HIM\nRule # TWO... if he calls, don't answer his calls\nRule # THREE. Tell the world that you are over him\n#4... Date as many guys as you can right away\n#5... Go out with your friends as much as possible and be with people who loves you... like your family or best friends\n#6... Bear in mind that everything happenes for a reason and accept the fact that it is over.  Life is too short to spend being miserable because of a relationship that is no longer there.\nGoodluck and smile alot!!!
835216
hmm.. wad cause the broke up in the first place? is the problem still around? and way to solve it?\n\nthis is the few questions u gotta ask yerself... if there isn't any problems at the moment.. will there be any coming up? will u guys be able to handle it togther or u  guys gonna break up again?? \n\nif u can answer this question, more or less u know whether to stay and wait (cos she's worth the wait) or move on (cos a break up will happen anyway)...\n\ngood luck to yer dude,,, u need it,,,
1079094
What my grandmother said was the best way to get over someone is to get under someone.\n\nI though that was a funny joke, but it turns out it is scientifically accurate. Getting intimate with someone releases hormones that get you "over" the other person.
294084
There are no best ways to break up with a partner, specially when he's gonna suffer more than us, it will definetely hurt!\nBut I guess a good way to break up would be to be really honest, to say the truth in a polite way, not to try to make him think things that aren't really true, I mean, not telling him that U don't have someone else if U know that U have him, or not telling him that U still love him but want to be alone for a little while, if U know U don't love him anymore.\nSo... as hard as it is... THE TRUTH is just the best way to make it a little easier for both of U.
16076
First, figure out what happened to break you up in the first place. If either of you are willing to forgive each other, which takes time, depending on the problem. Sit down and write out everything that happened and really read it. Sometimes that helps. Good luck. Linda