how do feel when your spouse has roving eyes?
912275
Yes, it is perfectly normal.  He should not be roving his eye when he's with you...that's just disrespectful.  Of course we all know men love to look....they just don't have to do it when they're with their woman....rude!!
164963
Yeah!!!  It happened to me when I met my husband!  It is hard to explain this feeling... it's like you know this is the person you are going to have something special with.
1088401
Oh HON,\nPlease don`t feel like that. I bet it would break her heart if she knew you felt like this. Please.. SHE loves YOU, Isn`t that enough?? She chose you. She could have chosen anybody else but, SHE CHOSE YOU. Don`t dishonor that by feeling this way. Hold your head up and be proud.. Don`t worry about other folks. \n\nDO they pay your house payment?\nDo they feed you all?\nDo they take care of you?\nAre they there when you need someone?\n\nDon`t worry about other people and what they think.. Just enjoy your life with your wife and count your blessings.. Be happy and don`t worry about this stuff..\n\nGood Luck and God Bless..{:-)\n\n<><
1079933
because eyes were meant for looking...by looking he's not touching.\n\nwould you prefer if he was touching instead of looking?\n\nfor the same reason wives...look at other men.  i bet you be looking at men too.
609975
Yes, go to the doctor and get your eyes checked. It's not normal to feel any type of discomfort in the eye on a regular basis.
986847
Ask yourself how you would feel if your wife was admiring the bulge in another mans pants while out with you.  It is not wrong to LOOK at another woman or admire another body part BUT damnit you dont do this while with your mate.  Its respectful.
410604
IT DOES NOT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SIGHT ITSELF.. ITS WHAT U FEEL IN YOUR HEART,, DUH..
1118122
Sociologists state there are tell-tale signs such as:\n1) your partner may invest in new clothing and underwear. This may be especially troubling if he always wears the same old holy, raggedy undies for the last 5 years.\n2) Your partner may recently have started wearing cologne, and did not wear it before.\n3) Your partner's schedule, which was once set in stone, is now erratic, and unpredictable. And, when you discuss it with him, he becomes upset, agitated and shifty with his eyes.\n4)Speaking of shifty eyes, when you discuss any issues relating to your relationship, he becomes shifty with his eyes, uncomfortable, and stutters, stammers his words.\n5) When he goes to bed, he may wear a t-shirt, shorts, when he used to go "Commando." Or, he may not be "in the mood," as much as he used to when you attempt to initiate sex.\n6) When he is on the computer, and you enter the room, he is quickly clicking closed a window that he was typing in and closing out a particular site.\n7) He may receive strange calls on his cell phone at odd times of the day. It does not have to be particularly in the dead of night. It could be around 2p.m. when he should be at work, and perhaps he is home that day. He may say it is his "buddy" and doesn't feel like talking. Or, he may start screening all of his cell phone calls and not answer his phone as much as he used to. For instance, he may have answered it everytime it rang no matter what.\n8) He may pick arguments with you, especially on Friday or Saturday nights. If your partner is the type to pick an argument and then blow up at you and leave for hours, he could use this time to visit his ho. \n9) He may be quite meticulous about his appearance all of a sudden. He may want to wear the nicest clothes all of the time, and keep his hair neat trimmed, and begin an exercise routine, when you have never before even seen a dumbell in his hand.\n10) If you share a bank account, you may notice a little or quite a lot of money being withdrawn on a daily, or weekly basis. When you address it with your partner, he becomes shifty, agitated or argumentative.\nHope this helps.
894953
Not sure.  I'd feel pretty heartbroken, and probably would be very near to ending the marriage.  It depends on whether or not my husband was sorry.  Haven't had this happen to me, so I don't know.
374414
I doubt there is any difference between men and women.  Normally, they would feel guilty, afraid of being caught, happy they have a lover, sneakily satisfied they are getting away with it, self-loathing because of what they are doing...all mixed in a way depending upon the person.  Just because a person doesnt bat an eyelash doesnt mean the emotions are not swirling underneath-you cant always read a person's guilt.  And, having a lover doesnt mean they no longer love their wife, and it sure doesnt have an effect on their relationship with their kids, so its not as if they are pretending to love the family.\nI'm not excusing the behaviour-they made a vow and broke it, and there are consequences to that-Im just trying to answer the question asked so maybe you can get some understanding.
314557
She used to look at me with the most admirable eye-sight,listen carefully what I said to her and the family,she's not agree every time,but showed respect was really made me love her forever.And remind yourself keep  attractive to him by little thing like pick up something in front of him,it's works no matter how long you married.\nGood Luck
625917
i think a lot of people feel that way sometimes about their partner. it's not that you don't really love your partner, it's just that you want them to be at their best all the time.\n\nlet's be realistic, a lot of us tend to judge our friend's partner's looks at times so i think it's just normal for us to be conscious on how our partner looks, the way we are about ourselves.\n\nme, for example, i really love to dress up and look my best at all times (even before going to sleep) because it makes me feel good when people compliment me with the way i look so, i also try to make sure that my husband looks his best at all times as well. BUT, i don't push it. i try to be subtle in letting him know that because that might hurt his ego. i want him to look good not only because i look good but i want him to feel better about himself when people compliment him for looking good.\n\ncall it shallow but i believe being at your best will help make you feel better about yourself, enabling you to have a good outlook in life...  = )
1136161
when he looks in your eyes you should see it. when he touches you, you should feel it. when he whispers it to you softly in your ear you should hear it in his voice. love if you have it you know.
697112
Do you really think you should be on here saying this? Maybe you should be going to talk to your hubby about it and you never know he may feel the same way. How would you feel if he saw this and found out that way before you even talked to him? Think about it.
506810
He tends to look in your eyes alot in a kind of warm, loving dreamy fashion "sigh"...you can tell alot how a person feels just by how they look at you and whether their lips tremble when they talk to you....."sighs"
603874
ya  sometimes it is but if u  feel  that way u need too open up communication with your spouse. and tell  them how u really feel.  do not  bottle it up inside.
730404
you feel them looking at you when you're turned away from them and when you look up, they turn away and smile...so adorable!!\n\n=]