How come every guy that liked me either was mean to be or avoided me?
923235
Guys are like that, SOOOO immature. It's not your fault, I'm sure you're wonderful and don't deserve the weirdness of men...unfortunately they are such good kissers!!!
888096
Sounds like he does like you. He has a big crush if he is trying to make up lies about your wieght so he can make the guy dislike you! Maybe you should talk to him like'' how are you?'' See what he does.Maybe he will ask you out and the rest is up to you.
1007649
its because you want them to accept you, dont care if someone doesnt like you or if they leave because it happens, dont try to make them comfortable around you either because they might see that your trying to do that and then not feel comfortable, just be yourself
449335
sometimes men like women who are agressive or direct.  Maybe you should talk to him, be yourself, and say hey we should hang out at (wherever).  I like you and I think you are great.  Maybe we could get to know eachother better. What is the worst that could happen- you go on never knowing, aching over one person, or, take a chance, find love, or get turned down and move on to someone who does like you- because you are yourself.
26613
he teases you, but has those random moments of kindness\n\nhe does this because he doesn't know how to show you that he likes you, and is afraid that you don't like him back.
612717
Believe it or not I think this happened to me . . . but the guy didnt like me but Im pretty sure that this guy likes you! Go Girl! Just keep doing what your doing! If he likes you he will pop the question or get one of him friends too! ( P.S. Try hanging out with him again )
261501
are u sure he liked u? I mean did he actually say "i like u"? maybe something s going on with him, like his parents are freaked and he can't date or something. neways, best advice would be to move on and never ask guys out, they gotta come to u. don't be desperate cause they'll freak most of "em out. maybe that's what went wrong.
764576
most guys likes to pick and joke around with you but not in a mean way but there are some that acts in a mean way, but most of the time that their picking is harmless.  I have see that kind of stuff going around for sometime now.
207870
If they like you they usually find ways to talk to you..sometimes they even tease you..guys have a weird way of showing how they feel..they may smile...flirt...if they cross your path alot then they prob go out of there way to be the same place you are...sometimes guys make in front of you because they like you..the only truly way to find out is to ask them flat out...
699619
Maybe his parent(s) talked to him and told him they didn't want him to see you anymore. So, he comes back to school and avoids you. Maybe his coach talked to him, his friends, or he just decided you and he weren't a good match.\nNo matter what the reason he owes you an explanation and eye contact!
977623
they probably r afraid of being rejected. guys r more insecure than u think. loosen them up and give them something back. Flirt back or give them signs that u wanna take it further. some dont have enough confidence and think they dont have a chance
315805
I got my guy to notice me by being MYSELF. If you have to change the way for a guy to like you than hes not worth it.
70488
I bet you've given in to some of those jerks too and let them in.  You know not all guys are like that, you see them everyday.  You just avoid talking to good guys b/c you love the attention you get from the rest.
245500
mb cuze he hates you even before or mb because he got tierd of u did u do sumthing wrong plse pick me!!!!!!!!!!!!
922385
Just deal with it as it comes, they won't all ask you out at the same time unless they are all in the same barbershop quartet though.  The annoying guy will be the easiest, just say you would never date someone who was mean to your friends.  The friend guy you have to be honest with, give him the only as a friend bit.  The two you have crushes on you should let them know that you like them but aren't sure what to do, ask to get to know them better.
60568
Sounds to me like a maturity issue.  He probably attacked you at first because he was intimidated that you would reject him.  By first rejecting you, he feels powerful and in control, taking his focus off his own fears.\n\nTread lightly and try being friends with him and see what his true intentions are.\n\nGood luck
38882
Isn't it some kind of prejudice? \nI mean, you cannot say that every girl is mean to every loser that hit on them. In fact, how could the girl know that he is a looser? \nMaybe a girl who is mean to a boy - because of any cause - then she is the looser cause she didnt give it the chance to know who is really this guy.\nAnd that boy should know that everyone could have been in that position but it doesn't make HIM a looser, he would become a looser if he allows that to make him feel bad.\nYou know, is like when you look for a job, maybe that is not the rigth job for you, or maybe it is their loss!!!!!