What to do with an ignorant bully?
914381
You are right about being bullied.  You need to go and talk to someone you trust at the school who wields some power and have this behaviour stopped.  If it makes you feel any better this boy probably has been mistreated during his life and this is the only way that he knows to behave for attention.  Having said this you do NOT allow him or anyone else to victimize you or anyone else.  By staying silent you are as guilty as the bully.  Put a stop to this right now and speak up.
468320
Just talk to him and tell him to start standing up for himself. All it takes is a little courage and strength. Tell the bullies to back off and give him some room to breath. believe it or not if he never stands up for himself he will continue to keep getting bullied. people tend to pick on those who they know wont do anything or say anything back to them, but when they defend themselves the bullying will eventually stop.
791828
Stand up for yourself. No one deserves to be picked on. Let her no that you don't like it. If that doesn't work talk to someone you can trust and ask what for their advice. Like a parent, good friend, or counselor. Good luck and remember people who are bullies are just jealous people.
371848
The general advice given out is don't suffer in silence.\n\nThe best thing you can do is to tell someone who can do something about it. Bullying needs to be stopped at the earliest possible point. \n\nCheck out http://www.bullying.co.uk/children/pupil_advice.htm for some practical advice on how to stop the bullying.\n\nPlease remember that you are not alone.
712736
first, point out the wierd things and tell her people are going to make fun of her and think she's wierd. if she still do esn't care, ignore her. she'll get over it eventually or live as an outcast.
1032564
You would need a support network. Tell as many people as you can that someone is bullying you and you need help.  Name the bully.  If you are a kid tell as many adults as possible. ONe adult may do nothing.  Name the bully.  A bully is generally a coward and will be afraid of a group of people that confront him or her and tell them in no uncertain terms that they will not be tolerated.  Don't go anywhere alone and make a friend that doesn';t take crap and is larger and stronger than the bully.  Take a digital camara photo of the person or persons ...like a mug shot and hang it up all over school or work and it should say on it ...Danger if you see this Bully ..Do not approach.  Or wanted Bully...Do not approach Danerous bully.  If a bully is know to the community and suffers public humiliation then they have too many witnesses to carry on with their sadistic ritual of bullying other , weaker individuals who have done nothing wrong, and don't deserve this kind of treatment and it has been proven that the individual that is being bullied is usually a more intelligent or in some way superior individual. Arm yourself with knowledge. There is an infinite amount of literature in the library on the psychology of bullying. Know your adversary.  Take martial arts .  Be very very confident and don't let your weakness show externally but be brave.  When you talk to the bully talk in a loud firm confident voice and show no fear.  Remember a bully is the ultimate coward.  Good luck
184307
You sound like a kid, with the bus stop thing, so I would talk to your parents.  They can then talk to the girl's parents and explain the situation.  You could also look into talking to the bully's parents, and see if they won't make him pay for it
478470
Ask the principle if he or she arrange a meeting with the bullies parents. Have your child, the bullies, and the all adults present to discuss the situation. I had to do this for my son. With the principle being there, he or she can affirm not to bully your child, force the bullies parents to tell their children not to bully your son, and if some one disagrees, the principle will enforce the rules and can warn the bullies and the parents what will happen if it continues.You should have the principle talk to your child's teachers and monitors to be on the lookout for your child too. Also, build up your child's self esteem and tell him the opposite of what the bullies are telling him. Kids really listen to the messages parents give them. Good luck.
909968
He is a magnet and u  are the refridgerater. Bug him until he is sick of you. Then throw something at him that won't hurt him but just scare him, like a SHOE!
350006
That's a tough situation.  I had a bully in 7th grade.  Ultimately, and it will be the hardest thing to do, but you have to tell an adult.  Someone that will listen.  A parent, or a teacher.  Someone that can watch your back and put the bully in his place.  I know it sounds like tattling or ratting on this person... but think about the news stories.  There's violence out there and you just can't keep quiet about it.
196169
The best way to deal with such ppl is to hurt their ego....... a simple ignore will hurt their feeling of superiority....... make them feel as if their existence doesnt matter to u
605279
Unfortunately, having to interact with persons that you do not like is good training for the "real world".  We all have to work, at some time, with someone that we do not want to work with.  The best way to deal with such a person is to treat them with kindness.  If he's looking at you in a threatening way, then smile, and say "How's it going, Man!" and then go on about your business.  If he insults you, then say something like "Hmmm.  I see where you're coming from!" then go on about your business.  In other words, don't feed the fire, and by being "cooperative" you will confuse him when he does not get the reaction that he expected.  On the other hand, if he is threatening you with physical harm, then do not walk away but look him dead in the eye and tell him to "lay off".  Hold your ground, and your eye contact.  Most bullies will run when confronted with determined opposition.  And do alert your teacher or principal if you feel that you are in real danger.
316978
remain loyal to her.  Defending her just gives the jerks a sense of accomplishment because it got to you.  Find ways to emphasize both of your good atributes and time will and I promise it will pass and they'll find someone or something else to pick on.  They are really the insecure ones.  when people pick on others its to keep people from looking to closely at them.
565361
Man, I was going through the samething with this really obnoxious girl once. I feel your pain. my plan of dealing with people like him is to stay clear of them. It might not be easy at first but once you keep avoiding and stay clear of him overtime he won't be a problem, and talk to your teacher about changing your seat, tell him/her that you have problems with this kid and that you don't get along with him that should help, and if that doesn't work well, you before taking things into your own hands try the plan first.
666385
Don't be offended, but have you thought about taking anger management? Or maybe even a career as a collections agent? You seem to have a hair trigger, throwing things at somebody just because you don't like them? That is beyond rude, why not ignore them instead, because it sounds like you might end up in several fights once you're in the adult world, or at least very alone. Does the word *bully* ever get thrown your way? By-the-way, the teachers see how you treat people and that is why they can't stand you. I would say that maybe a reality check is or should be at the top of your to-do list. Good luck w/ your attitude adjustment.\nBrandy\n *added comment*\nI think you don't have a mom, because any mom would knock you to your a$$ for acting like that. TIME FOR BRAT CAMP IN THE MOST REMOTE CORNER OF THIS PLANET where nobody is subjected to being in the same state or country with you!
755425
ignorance is bliss.\n\n stay stupid and stay happy.
86474
Talk to parents.  I know it's hard but try to ignore her by not being around her.  Sounds like she is very unhappy and becoming a bully.  Try to talk to her about how you feel too, but definitely let parents know of her abuse.