Needing some advice..Like sooooooon..?
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Ok you want smaller boobs? Excercise!\n\nChest, 'boobs' are basically fat, so when you excercise that'll be the thing that goes first.  Don't espect them to go into mini a from a d cup, but expect to drop a bit.\n\nThe only other thing is breast reduction, but impossible as you mentioned, so excercising would be the only thing really.\n\n(That wouldn't give bad side effects that is)\nI mean there are steroids(male) so your chest would get smaller, but you would change too, deeper voice and facial hair, which I doubt you want, so stick to excercise.
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If you have to ask, then maybe.... Slow down a little. You're just dating, right? If your feelings start to become more serious, look closely. It's a lot to take on. Figure out if you really want that. It's a big decision. Don't take it lightly, but don't run away either. It doesn't have to be something you can't handle. YOU get to decide.
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Well you seem to be going through alot! I am sorry! I will be praying for you and your friend! I wish I had all the answers -but I don't! Off course you want to help her- she is your friend- but it sounds like she needs help you can't give her! You need to decide do you want live with her! Can you deal with all the drama? Really search yourself- because she is going to need support and a lot of help! I wish you the best! You sound like a really good friend- when she will let you be her friend! A word -- never cheat! No matter what a person says to you! Just not a good plan! You take care- if you like to talk- http://360.yahoo.com/cloeenloe
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You just did ask for help.  Now find someone, like a friend, family member, or a professional that can help you!
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damn this sucks pretty bad . well as you said you never made her any  promises so yes you should move along .since this is going to be painful for her regardless just be really honest with her and tell her why your leaving ...exactly why ...women have a tendency to try and pick things apart too much ...if shes in some sort of denial shes gonna have a hard time understanding why your leaving her  , as long as your really clear she wont have to judge herself too  hard and wonder what she did wrong . and by all means dont let hurting her stand in the way of you being happy ...but no i dont think you necessarily think you shouldve left earlier sometimes we like to hang on too long thinking that magically things are going to falll in place but it rarely happens that way damn im blabbing hahah sorry
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If you had to ask the question. Then I think you already see or feel there is no solution to your problem. Go ahead do it--- go talk with someone. Can't hurt, everyone needs someone to listen sometime. Good luck and GOD BLESS.
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I've started and deleted this a couple times and thought about what to say to you, but am having a hard time.\n\nI can't map in for some reason, so I apologize if my response is a scatterbrained collection of thoughts.\n\nOn one hand I hesitate because you don't want to be his 'mom'.....coming to rescue him.\n\n1st....he may not feel good about being rescued by a woman. I'm not taking a shot at you or anything....I happen to be open to someone helping me if I need it, but I don't think (most?) men warm up to that......unless they are insecure, and then you don't get a man for your partner, you get an adult momma's boy.\n\n2nd....he may not like a woman coming on to strong. He may regard your advances as just that, and regard it as another element to deal with.\n\nIf you've offered coffee, and other such things and have been turned down....that's male communication for.....'thank you, but not now'.\n\n3rd He may have an ego......one that may preclude him from admitting to himself that he needs help at all.\n\n:)\n\nMen like to tackle things completely (most of the time I think) and then move on to the next issue to deal with. It's possible that you are on the 'list'...so-to-speak. I'm sorry for making you sound like a line item. I don't think that, but for brevity I phrased it that way...and to help illustrate what I'm saying.\n\nIt's also likely that whatever he's going thru is deeper than you realize and it requires all his attention. Men (most) are somewhat single-minded and throw a lot of attention on one problem at a time, depending on what it is. This could be one of those situations.\n\nHe may regard the starting of a relationship...even a new friendship right now to be a taxing endeavor that he just doesn't want to deal with.\n\nI'd say that if you've made the offers.....then take stock in that......he knows.....he knows you're there. Don't be pushy.....we men really, really don't like that. I can speak for myself on that one....lol.\n\nDon't keep asking him for coffee....he'll just think you're a pain or think you have stock in Juan Valdez (geeze is he still around?) or something....lol.\n\nThe best thing to do is be a friend. Don't be a pain, don't be annoying and just hang.....being helpful to HIM won't be your idea of 'helpful'. And if you want to ingratiate yourself to him...you will have to figure out how you can be helpful to HIM. Do you know what I mean? That may just be being an ear for him if he wants to talk, sending him some jokes on the internet.....whatever.\n\nDon't be selfish with what you want.....do what is best for him right now.\n\nHope that helps....a little anyway. I hope it works out.....send me a wedding invitation....k?\n\n;)
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if u really luv someone why go through all this hassle. just talk it out like adults are to do. stop all this madness of playing game's. life is to short. what could hurt if by talking all this out? this way u wont be wondering what of, could of, should of.
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I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
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Actually, i'd rather someone told me. So, what you are doing is simply trying to help me and you're also considering my goodness.. What's better than this? On the other side, yeah i may become a little bit angry with myself, saying like how can i forget or ignore this.. But, certainly i'd appreciate you then.. :) So, keep it up, be yourself and don't pay attention to their reactions at that time, i think...
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Wow thats a tough one,  best might just to be totaly upfront and not beat around the bush (bad choice of words there) .   Just ask him.  makes me wonder how you are going to do it though,  like big stringe or what.......lot of emotional issues too.  any decent guy is going to have feelings about his child and that could be sticky.  Beings you have already picked him I'm sure he's a decent guy.  Best of luck to you.
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No, never dear! Find a trusted adult or your parents to talk to. Do not think that professional counseling is embarrassing, it can save your life.
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No you have needs as well and you have to make him aware of them. Sometimes guys we don't catch on to sublte hint then three months from now we come home she's crying and we can't figure out why. Then you unlaod everything that you've had bottled up for the last 5 months and the whole time he could really be clueless. Let him know what your thinking and why and see what he says, but assuming is never the way to go. You just moved in so establishing communication is key. Here is you first chance to do so. I hope it all works out well.
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I think by posting on here, you pretty much know what you should do, but are really scared to do it. If your fiance is taking your pills, he obviously has a really bad problem. If you really love him and don't want to leave him, then try to help him get into a program, and if he doesn't do it, then leave him. But if he is willing to ignore your pain over his like that, then he may not be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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Jas, calm down, i think its all in your head. if u need help, run n go get josh or brian. as long as they r there, u will b ok. mk?
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I'm in almost exactly the same situation -- probably worse.  Above all else, DON'T WASTE HIS TIME! Tell him how you feel, and either break it off or let him know you may need to explore things a bit (meaning date others) before you continue.  Don't go behind his back, and don't evade the issue, because it only gets worse over time.  Good luck!
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Been there and done that...not fun!  I feel for you but you have to be strong enough to GET OUT!  I had family and friends to help me out behind his back.  I planned carefully because he was smart and inquisitive, very controlling.  Get mad and smart too!  Figure out his work schedule and get it all done in a short amount of time.  Get a restraining order against him before you go so that you are somewhat protected when you leave.  Go somewhere safe where someone is with you all the time and has speed dial.  Get a plan B so that if this is not an option you have somewhere else to go.  Don't make him mad.  Above all don't let him see you are nervous.  Keep him calm and level headed until you pull it off.  Don't change your routine or compromise yourself.  Be sure to delete all "help" calls off the phone and alert the police of what you are about to do and the day and time.  You can also have the police escort you out once they know the situation if you need to do it that way.  My prayers go out with you!