I have just found out someone I know ,hasn't got long to live,But it never bothered me?
916245
Tee hee hee.....you got me there for a second!
314985
it's not difficult to find but difficult to notice..it might be someone around u
174578
thanks for letting me know..........of course i don't know who you are or why i would care you changed....but it's nice that you don't want us to think you died!
184430
I have been in the same situation as you.  My father wouldn't give me any information so I asked other family members what they knew especially the last name and where he lived.  I contacted him and he was glad to finally meet me. Talking will be awkward at first like meeting any new person but take your time and a bond will be formed.  Good Luck
946157
Just honestly, maybe even akwardly if you need to be, tell him how much you actually like him. You may feel stupid when you say it, but if he does unfortunately pass away, then at least he knows how you feel, and that he has a real true friend. And I'm sure that he'll love hearing that he's really appreciated and respected. Good luck!
749979
I don't think your crazy.........Since he died at a time and place of his own choosing he may have set some of these things up prior to his death......I have known people to do that before they die.......Mom's dying of cancer will buy birthday gifts for their children to be given out at the right time? Just a thought.......The other things you"feel" can be any number of things but I believe he is with you when you need him.....I am sure he was in a lot of pain at he time of his death but I am also sure he loved you. Enjoy your quiet times.............You will heal soon.
529326
If he or she wants to tell me, I hope they would be comfortable enough to do so. I don't really care if they are or not, except for the knowledge that some aspects of life will be more difficult for them. And no, it wouldn't change the way I feel or act around them.
168250
MAYBE IT IS SOMEONE ESLE IN HER LIFE THAT NO ONE KNOWS ABOUT SO BE UP FRONT WITH HER ABOUT YOUR TRUE DEEP DEEP FEELINGS ABOUT HER   TAKE CARE
123245
you mean expired as in died? my condolences to you. may you find solace and comfort in her absence. give yourelf time to heal and to grieve. everything happens for a reason which you may not understand (yet). but for it's worth, i am sure your sister will be disappointed if her demise is causing you too much pain. think of the good times and how she will be happy for you if you get good marks.
1155307
Hello, first of all does the person know that you have strong feeling for them? Look I am not here to tell you how to live, however if you ask me you need to start caring about yourself. No person is worth killing your self over, no not one.\nConventional wisdom would have you believe that if you are not involved with someone then you are not normal, well my friend, conventional wisdom is WORNG!!!!\n\nIt does not take a genius to know that you can’t give what you don’t have,; you cannot love someone else and not be able to show yourself love first. You know yourself from the moment that you were born, if you can’t love that person, you can’t love anyone else.\n.
382224
Well, I don't know how long you have actually known him because you didn't say, but I would say to just keep your guard up.  It sounds like he may be pretty fickle, where you seem to know what you want.\n\nI would enjoy hanging out with him but try really hard to not allow it to get too serious with him.  \n\nEspecially if he said something "about not caring for you about three years ago".  I would be very careful and keep my eyes open for someone else.\n\nGood Luck
347820
You should feel the way you feel, and not how anyone else tells you to feel.  That's the only possible answer. If you worry about a lack of feeling upon this persons death, you must understand the psychological shock of such an incident.  It takes time to come to grips with it. If you were truly close to this person, the grief and pain WILL come-believe me.  The most important thing is not to repress it.  You must let it come, you must grieve, and you must deal with it.  Don't ignore it, or bottle it up.  Let yourself feel it.  To ignore it is to harm yourself, and disrespect the memory of your lost one. God bless, and my condolences.
806393
yes, i've had that happen to me.  i think it is because we've known that person before in a previous life.\n\nhave you ever met someone and you felt like you've known them forever, while others that you meet you dislike instantly?
585751
It's hard to say... If the person chose to know, they could start saying their good-byes and do the things that they would never have the opportunity to do.  If the person chose not to know, they could continue living life without the fear that their life would be cut short.
578775
dont think im mean by saying this but no because i dont know you and i never met you.  and if you suddenly died, i would never know!
151623
I wouldn't answer that type of question if it's asked by someone I don't know that well!  There are somethings I prefer to keep to myself!!!!  If that's the way you feel, don't answer...let them know you don't share that kind of information!  It IS okay to tell them it's none of their business but, there's no need to be rude about it to them.  : )
365275
I wish i could answer this question for you but i dont think any of us will ever know this until we too reach the end of our particular journey in life. Just believe that in your heart he will be with you always and remember to hold onto all the good memories he surely will have given to you. I have a friend who had cancer and he has only just died last wednesday due to septacaemia. He was only 35 and i know that for as long as i live i will truly believe that he is watching over me be it in heaven or just another dimension that we may travel into. God bless you and your family. I am sorry i do not have the answer you are looking for but dont let other people fool you with their spiritualistic views, none of us know where we are going until that day arrives!!