Dose this make a guy a jerk???
929628
Just for the record, I'm not a guy. But this DOES NOT make you a jerk at all. You're obviously just looking for someone that would have more time for you without having to worry about a babysitter. There's nothing wrong with that.
788266
He is a jerk... and he was trying to play you. I suggest you move on and find another cutie that doesn't lie and treats you right :)
1133751
He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
206313
Well, in your case, I would want to know how much of a jerk he was. To an extent, if he loved you, he wouldn't treat you like that. But also, some guys are just jerks anyway. \n\nI think when you are in love, you will do anything for that person (that goes for him too). I think another good sign is if someone were to ask you "Would you marry him?," you would say, without a doubt, WIHTOUT QUESTION, "yes." However, I think girls have an easier tendency to say yes than no (I'm a guy). \n\nStraightforward though - not to shoot down any hopes, but if you have to question if he loves you, then most likely, probably not.\n\nI hope this helps, and I hope things work out for you.
208582
I think its a sign of how they are brought up. Jerks seem to have no problem saying whatever comes naturally. The difference is that a jerk says offensive things. I believe deep down this is a true sign of insecurity and should be viewed as such.
750633
YES YES YES\n\n\nI am so afraid of him being a jerk to me. He is the type of person who knows how to play the 'guilt card' and knows what will make me mad, and he's not afraid of doing it.  He also has a big mouth and tells lies, so he'll tell the world I'm doing this or that when I'm not.
712310
thats bad. i think its wrong. i mean you souldnt just not like someone because they look bad. (just as an example.) or the opposite, completly fall for a big jerk because he looks hott. i just HATE it when people do something like that. both as just examples. i've seen it happen a few times though.
421133
You got some pretty good answers, but the best one is definitely f*** off!! Some guys have no respect!!! so you shouldn't treat them with any respect either!
613627
he's a jerk.  he's holding out for a guy. lol I hope that made you feel better.
14852
Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
249177
do u kno 4 sure he dont love u hows he a jerk?
1005897
HEY SHAMODIAO2 I ALREADY TALKED TO YOU ABOUT THIS IN PERSON AND I SHOWED YOU THIS WBSITE SO PICK ME AS THE BEST ANSWER CUZ WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS LOCK THE JERK OUT AND STAY SINGLE FOR A BIT AND THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE GONNA DO I KNOW SO TALK TO YOU AT WORK MONDAY AND REMEMBER YOU CAN DO BETTER
13340
He could be trying to say no in a nice way.  (Sorry!!!)  I had the same thing happen to me.  I asked a guy out and he said we would...sometime.  Next thing I know, he's "kinda got a girlfriend".\nGuys are jerks when they try to be nice.
629518
Depends on the guy, some guys come right out some hint, some act silly or get someone else to do it for them. It all depends on the guy
998931
Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
1116405
B*tch slap that fool.\n\nThen tell him what a jerk he is.