what to do when a love seems lost but isnt at the same time?
922822
Well you could spend all your time being suspicious and continue to listen to gossip and hang out with the guys that say they are doing stuff to your girl? What the Fu-------? If you love her deal with it or leave her. She could be lying, they could be lying. Bottom line is if she is cheating on you your relationship is in trouble, if she isn't cheating she will be if you are accusing her of it all the time. Tuff problem. It is all in what you want to happen with her. I can't imagine 3 guys telling you that if it wasn't true though. Do you know the guys? Or are they strangers to you and each other. If they 3 of them know each other it is possible they are fuc-ing with you, more details is what you need. \n\nWrite out the problem, pros and cons, but whatever you do figure out one way or another what you want or it will tear your heart out eventually.
94517
You shouldn't hesitate, you should wait, I know is hard to forget someone you loved so much, but you'll learn to forget that person, get over it, and one day find a better person, don't worry, I went through the same thing you are going through right now, give it some time and you'll see you'll find not only one, but many guys who will ask you out.
156499
it's easy if your both single, just see if there's still that something from both of you, ask to go out with him or her, talk about those days, even your mistakes, so you both could straighten it out..it's that feeling to know if you could revive that 'love'
8157
hun its not guys.. im going through the same thing with the person i love... it all comes down to thoughts.. thinking is the worse thing in the world... becuz the devil is involved with your thoughts.. (your mind is the devils playground) so he probably missed her.. and wants to change and thinks theres something there.. just like my situation.. the guy came back.. after a year and she thought there was something there.. remember THOUGHT... when people dont follow there emotions.. thts when confusion comes in.. and confusion is everything bad... so i hope this helps you a little bit and if not im me... Epik_Liphe and i can talk to u a bit... but dont believe its 'guys', its just 'him in tht situation' it may not be he dont love you... its tht hes confused... it may not be plain to see.. and he may not say that.. but if its real love.. hes confused... take it easy hun.. try not to get upset..
285736
What did you do, if you post that you will get more help. Some times that is just the way it is. When something is in your face all the time you get used to it. It becomes something you think you can do without. The only way to know if you can be without anything, is to lose or let it go for a small period of time. Go the distance, if love is still there it can be rekindled. Spare no expense, use what you know about her. Shock her suprise her, make her feel like the love of your life, it's more than just words, it's action that makes the words. Good luck!
21788
Keep your chin up, and understand that will be a lot of time apart from each other. But if you really love the person, don't give up, no matter what. It is not easy, if there is not an official commitment to each other, but just keep the love in your heart no matter what happens.
585515
IF U KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT U TRULY LOVE HIM,THEN U MUST FIND HIM....AND EXPLAIN!IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT..U HAVE NOT LOST NOTHING....BUT IF U FEEL THIS WAY AND NEVER DO NOTHING ABOUT,U WILL WONDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE,IF THERE WAS REALLY SOMETHING THERE,AND THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE!ATLEAST THIS WAY,U DONE ALL U COULD! GOOD LUCK!
282389
I GUESS YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE SITUATION... IF THINGS DON'T LOOK LIKE HE IS, THEN LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND LEAVE IT OPEN FOR HIM TO RESPOND THEN AND THERE OR LATER. HE MIGHT NEED TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. DON'T RUSH HIM TO RESPOND. JUST LET IT BE KNOWN. YOU'LL FIGURE IT OUT. \n\nGOOD LUCK
1183728
Youve never seen each other? Hmmm well it would seem you are long overdue to meet the girl you love. You should prolly come up with a way to meet for the weekend and go from there, u know? And of course I agree with Beauty tell her your having these feelings and its time for you guys to move to the next step OR move on with your lives. Good Luck and I hope you get all you want in life sweety either way. God Bless
273610
Make sure you don't just miss being in love, so you think you are. Make sure that person isn't the rebound. Really think about what about that person you really love.
196660
welll......who knows she might also be waiting....just call her saying u were just thinking about her so just called...and u'lll come to know from her reaction and also ur this confusion will be over that is she intetdred in talking is it too late or shud u continue talking....u never know she might be busy and couldn't get back to u.....just do it... anwyaz u wont be loosing anything...good luck
1001174
Carry on the way you are for now and don't be tempted to chase him.  Still go out as friends and have fun, you never know what the future may hold.  They may not stay together forever so hang in there for a while and see what happens. (Not advising you to steal him though!).   If they decide to get serious then you'll have to accept it. Unfortunately we all go through heartbreak at some time in our lives but love will come your way sooner or later.  Be patient and good luck!
851117
These types of feelings need to go both ways if anything is supposed to happen between the two of you.  If he doesn't like you, then don't waste your time hoping that he would.  You have to respect his feelings and just remember that "it's his loss"
945351
keep your head up.that's what happens when u lose your first love.but don't worry,it will be hard to get over her but you Are capable of finding someone Better.Trust me.the world hasn't ended Brother.Keep you head up.and don't call or contact her EVER!.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!
758151
you must prove that you really care for him and that other guy dont matter to you.  if the lost one still cares for you he might give you another chance but he will not trust you the same for some period of time. but this might take some while.
458589
Hello again Fantasy Foo, I've been were your at, and it's not a good feeling. One good thing about life is....Time heals everything. I was once told: If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours...if it don't it never was. If you have the fellas number or you know how to get in contact with him...let him know how you feel, but don't hate on his girl...thats tacky.
392209
I am in a situation like that but at the end of the day all it takes is trust. It is hard at first but then you get used of the idea that out there someone is wiating for me and really loves me.The important thing is that there is still love. And remember that love conqueres everything. It is only a matter of time before you are reunited.