How does a cancer woman find a good match?!?
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As a fellow Cancerian, I understand your pain....Men seem to take our meekness for weakness, steal our hearts, and never come back!  I would suggest that you find the answers within yourself.  Start by making yourself happy before trying to get a new man to get over your ex with, or else you'll be stuck in a relationship that is going no where just to say you have a man!!
495885
Just dont be so picky. alot of good guys out there. i promise. just keep an open mind and heart. smile more and approach. youll see .
1135138
Take it easy, settle down, stop trying too hard.\n\nDon't over look the obvious, you know the women at the hot dog stand, the girl behind the donut counter, the UPS delivery girl. They are all targets as well as down to earth people that are looking for the same things in life as you are.\n\nThe dating scene is brutal and can be over bearing at times. you can continue the dating scene on the Internet, but my main focus would be the women walking around in front of me on a daily basis.\n\nI hope this has been of some use to you, good luck.\n\n"FIGHT ON"
445784
join a singles group online or offline and when you fill out your profile, you will be matched with suitable men. good luck.
990964
Goodluck hope you find the person your looking for
197366
Yeah they still exist just not on the internet.(Not for dating anyway), Find something like a community theater to join or a function where a lot of people attend, Church fitness club Ymca the list goes on and on. The best way to meet people is to be around people. Check on volunteer work things like that. A Cancer walkathon or something where you can walk and talk and help someone at the same time. Decent Men and women are out there but you have to make yourself available.\n\nGood Luck!!
217169
Why don't you try the personals on yahoo.com or gp to match. com or just go to your local hang out palce and meet people. But yahoo.com personals is a good one I don't find ppl there but i like to get the ugliest ppl and send them to my friend and tell her it is her future husband and when she opens it he is nasty. I know thats mean but its fun
38324
Try http://www.eHarmony.com  - they supposedly match you on 20 or 30 levels of compatability.  This is not the place to find a wife.
1175905
Keep on dreaming!\nUnless you change your mindset, you will ask the same questions in 10 or 20 or 30 years again!\nIf you're only looking for the perfect match, you will never find it!\nIf instead you're looking for an interesting person to get to know, you will find your perfect match automatically!\nTake the search as the way to happiness without clinging to the ultimate objective! Much better chances for success and definitely this will make you a much happier person!
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First, know what you really want.  Subtract your own true needs and desires from that which you have been told to want, or told you must settle for.  Then, use your best thinking to figure where the sort of person who would fit with you is likely to be.  For example, if intelligence is terribly important to you, then the academic world is more important than a sports arena or a TV game show audience.  Next, go where the people you most want to meet are most likely to be, and be a nice person, easy to talk to, and not pressuring anyone.  Get to know people in the context of your hobbies, interests and beliefs, instead of a "singles" type high-sexual energy setting.  Be open to adjustments from your ideal:  maybe it is reasonable for you to want your great love to be very attractive, but what you really want is a balance of factors.  If the person you meet is very compatible otherwise, but not as pretty or handsome as you had imagined, is that so important?  Or if a man is truly wonderful otherwise, but his income is lower than you had hoped.  Weigh factors realistically, and realize that you are being evaluated, too.  Is it reasonable for people to get hung up in that old joke:  I met Mr. Right, but it didn't work out; he was looking for Miss Right.
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Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..\nOh wait, we might be looking for different things. \nGuess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.\nOr do a bit of both.\nAnd then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering. \nMany times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.\nOoops did I let  secret slip out?
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People are forever saying 'Where've all the good men (or women) gone?' You'd think there was no-one left! Well it's not true. I know finding Mr - or Mrs - Right isn't easy. But there are ways to improve your chances. In fact romance is no different to any other part of your life. It's up to you to make things happen! So, forget all the myths - most of them are wrong anyway. And take charge of your love life. It may sound unromantic - but it works! \n\nThe thing is, your perfect partner isn't just going to appear out of the blue. I know we all believe in love at first sight. We like to hear stories about how people fall in love. We adore the idea of two people's eyes meeting across a crowded room. I'm not saying it never happens. Just not very often.\n\nMore often a long lasting love starts when you meet someone who shares your interests, respect and friendship. So a strategy for meeting people like that can pay dividends. Just about everyone wants love, but few work towards making it happen. They think it's a matter of luck.\n\nBut actually, luck has only a little to do with it! Do you remember the joke about the man who prayed every week to win the lottery. But nothing happened. Then one day, in the midst of his prayers, there's a huge clap of thunder and a voice boomed: 'How can I possibly help you? First you have to buy a ticket!' Just about everyone dreams of finding a soul-mate. But few plan for success. We just hope for the best. In fact most of us put more time and effort into planning a party!\n\nMarriages aren't made in heaven either. If they were, then the angels have made a lot of mistakes! God doesn't provide us with a mate. He gives us the ability to make choices. Mind you, many of us make rotten choices - especially when it comes to choosing a partner. So we need to learn how to make them more effectively. And not just to settle for the first likely person to happen along.\n\nBecause, there's loads of possible partners out there. Lots of people have the right characteristics - if you can only find them. So the trick's to get to know more people who match your needs. Then you can safely fall in love with any of them!
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Why don't you try a personals site? Yahoo has one..Cupid....\nPost a profile with a picture and explain that you are looking for a wife/partner. \nGet to know her on-line and take it from there.
1040940
I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
543190
you know, I asked myself a similar question, never been able to find a woman who was the same person when I met her as she was 6 months later, I think there are a lot of us "both men and women" want to be with someone so badly, want to fit so badly, that when it isn't a match, the partner can just see right through it, even though we may sincerely be trying.  But what you have to find, is someone who is into YOU as a person, not necessarily like EVERYTHING about you, but as you said, someone who knows without even questioning, that whatever step you take, he takes the same step right beside you.  They are out there, its just hard to find, because as a womnderful individual as you may be, that person has to be of a certain unique quality that fits you.
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Don't look for the perfect woman or person but look for someone who is perfect for you. In short, look for someone who will have the same hobbies and interest as yours. Don't look for perfection, look for chemistry and compatibility in a relationship. Good Luck!
635435
U can find a best type of woman in ur heart if u really looking for. Everyone will tell u abt the woman they like frm thier heart so better for u to find in ur heart.