What should I do to get a really serious life-partner/husband ?
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Men talk and they keep track of women who allow themselves to be used for sex. Stop hanging out in the places you are known to be seen in(such as bars/clubs). Find out where good men go in your area ---- my best dates have been with men I have met at the grocery store and the bookstore/library.\n  Don't have affairs -  and present yourself as a lady. Ask close family/friends  to help you find someone who's nice to date...or even try a dating service (one that is well established and has a good reputation).
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I met my husband through match.com so anything is possible. Been married for 2 years now and still running strong. Good luck with it!
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My dear God has someone for you. He hasn't forgot about you. Tell Him what kind of man you want. I did.\nGod may not come when you want him to, but he always comes on time. I'm 30 years old and finally met my man. I use to\nthink the same thing. But the devil is a liar. You are a\nbeautiful person and very intelligent. The blessing is on\nit's way. Just believe and hold on. God will come through.\nLet God make you ready for your husband. That way when the\ntwo of you meet you will be equally yoked. A match. Put your\ntrust in the Lord.
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The first thing you need to do is feel good about yourself. Get out do some mild to moderate exercising, get your hair and nails done, etc. Pamper yourself. Men like a clean, confident, healthy looking woman. \n\nNext find a place to meet a guy...I don't suggest bars. Oddly enough my wife and I met online. (There are some real freaks online so this can be discouraging.) Get a puppy and take it to the park. Dogs are good conversation starters and you would rather meet a guy thats doing outdoors stuff than one that sits around the house all day. \n\nWhatever you do don't act desperate. Just do your thing. If you see a guy that does something for you give him the confident "hey baby" look. See if he goes for it. \n\nGood luck!!
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Being a Christian and being in tune with God's will for my life  is what helped me know.  My parents used to pray for God to send me the right man.  He did.  We've been married 20 years and very happy!  Start praying for God to help you find true love, but be patient...it could take years.  Don't give up!
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Lets see, since you have this listed under the marriage and divorce section, I think the best way to get what you want is by asking for it.\n Discuss with your partner what it is you want and or need. Communication is the key here, without it you can not get anything. Or give anything for that matter.\n Depending on what it is that you want, discussion should open up the avenues to getting what you want to some degree anyhow.
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Your call, but let me remind you, it is also your life.\nThe way that the universe seems to work is that there are probably many men who are suitable for you, but far too many are ignored as too .... (whatever).  Most people start judging before they even know who the other is.  This combined with the feelings you have about taking  what you can and running with it are the primary reasons that half of all marriages in the USA currently end in less than love.\nStart looking at men in public.  Not sizing them up like you're shopping for vegetables, but watch what they are doing, who are they looking at, who turns their heads.  You might be suprised at the number of them that are looking at you.
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You have said very little about the guy in question. It sounds to me like you may have a LOT of thinking to do before you take any action at all.\n\nFirst of all, why exactly do you want his attention? The reason I ask is that this will have a very big effect on the strategy you adopt. If you are just looking to spend some time in nice company, it would be wise not to get emotionally or physically involved. It will only lead to heartbreak for one or both of you.\n\nYou could ask him out, but it has to be very clear to both of you what your intentions are and aren't, in order to avoid any possibly tragic misunderstandings (e.g. date rape) - again, a good reason to think about all this beforehand.\n\nIndeed, it would be wise to delay emotional involvement until a moment when you feel ready for a permanent relationship, and until you know enough about what you are looking for in a potential permanent partner/husband to be able to measure him against your standard, and find that he fits.\n\nAnd there is much to be said for delaying all physical involvement until after you are actually in that permanent relationship (some, perhaps even most people call it marriage). The reasoning here is to ensure that when you do get emotionally or physically involved, it will have the right meaning, because once you've done those things, in a very real way, there is no turning back.\n\nIndeed, let me point out: the relationship where people leave their parents, commit to each other permanently, and become physically one is one in which God joins people together. This is why Jesus said 'What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder' - telling us why we should not break up once we have taken this step.(1)\n\nThe reason I mention this is that it therefore makes very good sense for you to above all take care of your relationship with God (and make sure the man you have your eye on is doing that too).\n\nOK, now let's say you feel you might want something more serious. Take an inventory of what you want in a potential permanent partner. Think 'the type of guy I would want to live with for the rest of my life'. Talk to people you know and trust who are already married to find out what sorts of general characteristics 'work'.\n\nObserve many different people and relationships - not just ones that are attractive, but also ones that aren't. Ask yourself 'Why does this person or relationship appeal to or seem good to me?' or 'Why doesn't this person or relationship appeal to or seem good to me?'\n\nThink about what is involved in a relationship, ask yourself, 'Do I really want this? Is this something I can do? If not, what do I have to do to correct that? Is *that* something I can do?' etc., until you are sure that you really want to be in a relationship at all. If you come to a point where you realize you don't want to be in a relationship right now, don't move forward.\n\nBut let's say you've decided this is what you want, that this is something you really can do. Now, and only now, are you ready to make a start. Before you take any action to attract the guy's attention, try to find out what he's interested in. What groups does he belong to? Is any of this stuff you would find interesting? If not, take that as a warning and don't go any further unless you find something later that you do have in common.\n\nIf there is some evidence of common interests, figure out how you can get involved in some kind of activity in these areas, a group situation where you can discreetly observe him and figure out in what measure he fits the profile you came up with earlier. Again, if he significantly falls short, does not have some really important characteristic(s), don't go any further.\n\nBut let's say, for the sake of argument, that he turns out to be a really nice, good, honorable guy, with more enduring values than just appearances, possessions,
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First of all, to draw the kind of person you want, you must be the kind of person your soul mate would want. Become secure in what type of person you are and what you want, so when the person comes along you will recognize them. Hang out in the kind of places your soul mate might be---meetings or clubs having to do with your hobbies or work, places of religion if you are religious, online dating sites, etc. Ultimately, I believe it comes down to who you are and what you project about yourself. Don't put on a front, be your true self, and eventually you and your soul mate will find each other. I followed what I've written here and it worked for me. My husband and I are truly soul mates and have been married a little over three years now. (Incidently, we met on the internet.:)) The poem "Waiting", in the link below, was my motto during the years I was seeking my soul mate.
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Gat him something to gain his confidence and know that your serious about having soemthing forever.  Give him a gift that will last a while and is from the heart.  Tell him you would like to exchange commitment rings and also go away to have a special weekend and rekindle things and also go take professional pictures together to have.  That should help you get things together in your relationship and will be special.
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Spelling would be a nice start to finding a spouse online. \n\nCheck out this website for singles looking for more fun and excitement.
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Look at your profile of questions asked, I think you need to decide if 4 months has been enough? Are you looking for a relationship that will one day result in marriage, looking for a relationship so you're not alone, or are you looking for sexually adventure?\n\nI don't think you'll find your future lifetime husband at a bar or club. And you really won't find a one-night stand at church.\n\nMaintain an active lifestyle. If you go workout at the gym, make yourself available to be asked out by guys there. You'll have something already in common.
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Just breathe :) If you're attractive, smart and nice then you should be swatting men away!!! As for true love, sometimes you have to wade through a mess of people before the right one stands out from the crowd. Are you looking for people who have similar interests? Maybe you should try looking for people who have completely different (translate into "new for you") interests.\nPerhaps the love of your life is someone you would never have considered because you do not, currently, share his views on...anything. Perhaps one of you will change before you meet. Perhaps after. Perhaps you'll never agree and life will be one long, interesting conversation.
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You and about a billion + other people!!  What do most people want out of life?  Other than money?  Love.  The age old quest, sought after more than the holy grail itself!  Give it time.  And ALWAYS be yourself.  That way, when the right person is there and notices you, they'll be noticing the real person you are and not what you think they want to see.  If you have love in your heart, you'll be ready to share it with someone who truly deserves it.  Take care of your heart and protect it until someone will be honored to help take care of it as well.  :)
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Your talking about being with this person for the rest of your life.You both need to get everything out in the open.Talk about what you want to do in the future,and what both your interests are.Ask them what do they like and want and work towards those things together.Some things they want and like,you may not want or like,but if you too really love each other you will adjust and work it out.Compromising is a key ingredient in marriage.
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You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
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People are forever saying 'Where've all the good men (or women) gone?' You'd think there was no-one left! Well it's not true. I know finding Mr - or Mrs - Right isn't easy. But there are ways to improve your chances. In fact romance is no different to any other part of your life. It's up to you to make things happen! So, forget all the myths - most of them are wrong anyway. And take charge of your love life. It may sound unromantic - but it works! \n\nThe thing is, your perfect partner isn't just going to appear out of the blue. I know we all believe in love at first sight. We like to hear stories about how people fall in love. We adore the idea of two people's eyes meeting across a crowded room. I'm not saying it never happens. Just not very often.\n\nMore often a long lasting love starts when you meet someone who shares your interests, respect and friendship. So a strategy for meeting people like that can pay dividends. Just about everyone wants love, but few work towards making it happen. They think it's a matter of luck.\n\nBut actually, luck has only a little to do with it! Do you remember the joke about the man who prayed every week to win the lottery. But nothing happened. Then one day, in the midst of his prayers, there's a huge clap of thunder and a voice boomed: 'How can I possibly help you? First you have to buy a ticket!' Just about everyone dreams of finding a soul-mate. But few plan for success. We just hope for the best. In fact most of us put more time and effort into planning a party!\n\nMarriages aren't made in heaven either. If they were, then the angels have made a lot of mistakes! God doesn't provide us with a mate. He gives us the ability to make choices. Mind you, many of us make rotten choices - especially when it comes to choosing a partner. So we need to learn how to make them more effectively. And not just to settle for the first likely person to happen along.\n\nBecause, there's loads of possible partners out there. Lots of people have the right characteristics - if you can only find them. So the trick's to get to know more people who match your needs. Then you can safely fall in love with any of them!