is a kiss too much on a first date?
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sometimes and sometimes not. some look down on it, but if you both get that feeling and you both see it as okay, why not? as long as you both want to sure. but don't over do it. i wouldn't making out, all over each other w/ groping. that's just a little too much for a first date. a simple little goodnight kiss can be a perfect ending.
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Couldn't you just take it for what it is and just be?  Sometimes people have differences in when you two began dating.  You might think when it was the first date and got interested in him.  He might think from when he first kissed you or nailed you in the sack.  Hmm... 2 months for a first kiss is tough to say, unless you were not seeing him that often (like once a month).  I'm thinking maybe the latter...
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hey, don't worry about it so much. it is totally natural. has he ever kissed anyone? even if he has, no first kiss is perfect. do you want to kiss him???? if you do, then go for it. if he already told you that he wants to, then there is no embaressment of him not wanting to kiss you back. i'm sure you'll like it and want to do it a lot more, but till you have the first one, you'll be missing out the longer you wait. Good Luck!\n\n-TJ
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I don't think so - if the date went well and they seem like a great person than go for it! As far as sex - I say no but kissing is harmless. Go for it if they seem like a keeper!
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When you have your first kiss, it probably won't be perfect and that's ok! Don't expect it to be a perfect moment or happen a certain way or you'll probably end up disappointed. Let it happen naturally, but most of all, just relax. \nHere is some good advice for making it pleasant for both of you: Chapped lips are no fun to kiss so use a good chapstick if you need it. Don't smoke, it tastes HORRIBLE for the other person (not to mention what it does for your health). Brush your teeth, floss and use mouthwash regularly. Pretty much just common sense basics. \nIf you're looking for technical how-to's, I won't go there. It's tacky. Besides, you'll figure it out quickly and easily enough.
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too many questions at one time but hear goes.  the first kiss shouldnt be tongue.  since this is your first kiss let him initiate sence you have no clue just make sure he doesnt try to chke you with his tongue it could run the mood.  and lastly swallow, swallow swallow that way you wont have a mouth full of tongue and saliva at the same time.  enjoy!
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The timing doesn't really matter. It really depend on the nature and the depth of your bf/gf relationship. If you had just met and been out on a date or two, a simple quick kiss would suffice. If you have been going together for a while and have really enjoyed each other's company, a longer kiss with a bit of passion will do. The danger here is that any kiss longer than that will lead to sexual petting and eventually a sexual encounter. If you want to keep your relationship on a friendship level, keep your kisses short and sweet!! Love You. LJK.
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yes, i do remember my 1st kiss. It happened when i fall aslp in the cinema with my bf (it was our 2nd date) (he is still my bf till now, thanks god) suddenly a gently pad on my lips.. (opps.. is this consider as kiss?) im more conservative heehee..
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The first date is always trouble.  I dont have time to explain everything.  but try to relax on the date
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I think so. You don't really know him. You know nothing about him. You are attracted to each other because you are both good looking, unless he or you were drunk. You shouldn't kiss the entire first date!
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It really depends on the type of kiss, and what he means by not kissing back.  Try not to overreact or go all paranoid.
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I think the right time to kiss a girl is when you both are feeling each other and think you have something going on. So I would probably say after the second or third date. If you think sooner the go for it.
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It all depends on how comfortable you are with him. You could be going out for months and still not have your first kiss - or hold hands.\n\nWhen you go pro (like me... LOL!) - you can hold hands even on the first date. =p
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Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.    \n\n  If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.\n\nMoist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.\n   \n\n  And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.\n\n     \n\n      Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. \nClose Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.    \n\n\n  Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.\n      \n\n  \n\n\nClosed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous
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Usually, when a woman, wants a kiss, she has ways of letting you know. (long stares) (that come hiter look)  The important thing is to be in tune as to where the date is going.  And if you like this girl, don't be turned off if she won't kiss you on the first date.  Many women won't, unless they feel the same way about you.
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Below you will find a variety of kiss types. If you find some that catch your fancy, feel free to try them :-) \n\n\nButterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart. \n\nCheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek. \n\nEarlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors. \n\nEskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together. \n\nFreeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold. \n\nFoot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss. \n\nForehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head. \n\nFrench Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss". \n\nFruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths. \n\nHand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady. \n\nHickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay. \n\nMistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover. \n\nLetter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX. \n\nNeck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips. \n\nNip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations. \n\nShoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss. \n\nSip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it. \n\nTalking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."\n\nTiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them. \n\nTrickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing. \n\nTongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gentl
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Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek. \n\nEarlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors. \n\nEskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together. \n\nEye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes. \n\nEyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate kiss. \n\nFinger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable. \n\nFoot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss. \n\nForehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head. \n\nFreeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold. \n\nFrench Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss". \n\nFruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths. \n\nHand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady. \n\nHickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay. \n\nHostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately! \n\nHot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate. \n\nMistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover. \n\nLetter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX. \n\nLick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual. \n\nLip Sucking Kiss - When kissing gently suck on their lower lip. This can be very exciting. \n\nNeck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips. \n\nNip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently ni