my best freind is moving next summer what should i do?
918174
i know how you mean my best friend moved to california but what we did was give each other phone numer and adrees so then you can talk an write to her. try it
146977
ask your friend if it would be ok.. that way it will be easier on both of you
485400
If you truly value your friendship with her let her go. She is changing and she needs to grow. Unfortunately it may not be in the same direction you are going right now. This happens to a lot of friendships as we get older and mature. She needs to do this for herself right now. Eventually she may come back to being her old self and realize what a wonderful friend she has in you. I went through this myself and for about 5 years was out of touch with 2 of my best friends from school. We are now better friends than we were back in school. Don't take any of this personally, it isn't about you, it is about your friend needing to go in a different direction right now. This is also your time to find other friends too. Don't do or say anything that could jeopardize the friendship you had with her. You both need some space and hopefully in time you will be able to get back what you had before, and it will be even better.
433734
Go visit your friend.
1047054
good question lizzie wel 1st i would tel ur best friend which guy it is!! n im takin it there either in 9th or 1 of da 2 boyz from da outdoor show so either way i say go 4 it as long as it isent danial!! lol dats 2 far of a long distance relationship!!
496247
be the best friend that you would want if you were in that situation. just do extra little things like opening the door and little hugs and you might turn a bombed day into a sunshiny bright day.
892713
Cherish, you have done all that you can do. The best thing you can now is to begin making new friends. I always tell younger people such as yourself to make as many friends in this life as possible, because you never know what around the corner. Hopefully she will wise up and be the friend to you that she was before. But don't  sit around waiting ok. Don't worry your heart will heal.
1183545
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
1153534
Good on you for slowing down your natural impulse to rush headlong into these things.  Keep that up!  Nothing is gained by hurrying - ever.  Consider this - you are going into the summer, when things kick back even further.  I'd say wait....don't send him another e-mail now (you never know, he may send YOU one.)  But no need to wait until you see him again either.  If you don't hear from him in a couple of weeks - invite him to go with you and some friends to wherever your town is doing their fireworks on the 4th of July.  (So you give a nice, even-balanced message: not an intimate one-on-one, with a group of friends, but you have made an invitation.)  THEN - wait for him.  Completely.  He may or may not take you up on the invite (and if he doesn't, it may only  mean he already has plans) - but you have done all you should do and the ball will be in his court.\n\nGood luck, kiddo!
551571
Keep him as your friend. He's smart, you may pick up some pointers from him.
727997
They are leaving for a reason so that wouldn't work now would it. Try being supportive instead and telling them that you will keep in touch and the friendship won't change just because they have to move away.  True friendships last a lifetime.
1008289
just tell him that your lives run along parallel lines that never have a hope to intersect. you are just going where he has been, and you want to get there with someone who is getting there for the first time too
503237
It's summer and school is out now so why not give it a trial run with your dad. Go spend the summer with him, check out the school where you would go if you moved and give yourself a real chance to see what all the changes would be like. If when you get closer to the end of summer you feel like you'd like to give it a little more time and actually attend the school there then give it the first semester to get an even better feel for those who would be your classmates and friends if you moved. It's always hard when we have to make choices but what's important is that we do so with all the knowledge we can get in order to make the best possible choice. In your case I think this is more about what's going to ultimately be best for you and enhance your life. Your parents are both loving and understanding and obviously want these things for you too.\n\nBest of Luck!!
481869
Tell her that were u live now u don't feel like urself.  Ur homesick nd nobody likes u.  Tell her that if ur feelings mattered to her she would seriously consider moving bak.
18030
We 're not bestfriends anymore when feel bored with seeing one another, or one of us become colder with us. I know that hurts. But let your friend go if he finds the new one better. And you, I must say that trying to be friends with the new kid is a good way, but what if that kid reject you? In my own opinion, I think you should learn the way of being independent from a person, dont be like "I am lonely without him", because you should be able to have more than 1 friends :) Well, it takes time to get thru, but the one who leaves you to go is not a BEST friend, just a normal friend, so just keep a normal relationship (dont break it though).
1040771
If you think this friendship is worth it, yes talk to her. Do it as soon as possible. If you wait all summer, the facts of the misunderstanding may get mixed up and things could become worse. If she's a total bitch, you're better off without her. Good luck!
834045
Invite your best friend into the mix..that will liven things up..