how long does it take to get over a pass relationship?
927548
There is no time limit....you just have to get on with life. it's easy to say but hard to understand...one day you will just be over it. Do things to occupy your time...so you don't think about the person in question. Go out and enjoy yourself you never know whats round the corner!
7299
Someone once told me that it takes 2 times the length you had feelings for the other person to get over that person.  If your feelings lasted 4 years, it will take 8 years to heal!!\n\nI agree that time is really the only remedy for a broken heart.  Take some time to think about how life was before you started the relationship.  Think back to those "happy" memories.  Do things on your own or with a few close friends of yours.  Keep yourself busy.  If you can find lots and lots of thing to do, the time to heal will flash by in a blink of an eye.  There are many things to do to keep a mind occupied!! haha
685791
I dont think that its over. I think you want it to be over by giving up so easily. You have to persever babes. Nobody is gonna give you what you want on a silver platter. Shower her with gifts and affection. Give it a month or 3 weeks for the least. If nothing has changed then you should call it quits. By the way the longer you persever this chick will see that you are really into her.
878068
How to Get Over a Break Up\n\nWant to know how to get over a break up? Here are six secrets to help you get your life together and move on!\nDifficulty: Hard\nTime Required: Two Weeks to Three Months\n\nHere's How:\n\n1. Bond with other Singles.\n      At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.\n\n2. Start a Social Hobby.\n      If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.\n\n3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.\n      Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.\n\n4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.\n      It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.\n\n5. Apply What You've Learned.\n      Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?\n\n6. Talk About Something Else.\n      Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head
972603
if your still thinking about your ex then you have not given yourself enough time to get over him and have rushed into another relationship....its not fair on your new partner!
462006
First, wait until you're over the first girl.  Then start seeing people when you feel that you're ready.  No need to start a relationship again, just date.  That way you can find out if you want to be in another relationship or just play the field.  Could take weeks, months, maybe even a year.  All up to you.  Just make sure you're over the previous relationship.
690401
Not Instantly, but it helps! Do things to get ur mind OFF of him/her. At first, you'll spend the whole date comparing them. And then eventually you'll have a whole hour without thinking about them, then a day, then two. It gets better. Do stuff you like. Remember your life before you met them. Good luck darlin, You will get over it, It just took me some time.
1163901
There is a time after a breakup where the pain of parting is greater than the need for someone new. The more you cared for them, the longer it takes. The trick is knowing when to move on.
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
234936
It takes time, patience and a real willingness to want to forgive and forget.  If you can't forgive and forget, then you will never learn to trust again.  Think of it this way.  No one is perfect, even you and I have made and will continue to make mistakes (sometimes big ones).  Just give yourself PLENTY of time and take baby steps.  It may take a few years even, but if the relationship(s) are better afterwards, it will be worth your while.
692517
You are still learning about the relationship and how to act in it give it time\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
1181993
Actually depending on how emotionally intense the relationship was defines how long does it take to get over it. Some people handle it fast, some take a while. However I find it nonsense that if you were all that he was looking for, and he ran away from it... then it's really NOT what he's looking for, or he's plain nuts! Nothing against dating though, I guess that my advice would be that if things cannot be worked out by talking as maturely as possible, then there's somebody else better for you out there, and he'll either 1) Regret he found the one thing he was looking for and let her go away or 2) move on and find something that appeals more to his status and condition.\n\nDon't worry about it though, men tend to have that small glitch while they grow up. I did, though now as I'm older and think about it, it was just the thing to happen, and I'm happy as I am these days. :-)
663059
well you never get over these things straight away it always takes time but believe me it will get better for you eventually and then you will be able to move on and dont keep blan#ming yourself for this it is not your fault
139314
You are not alone. First love does take a longer time to get over, but trust me, you get over it. Be patient and give yourself time.
441459
If it's been 8.5 years and you two still haven't been married, then it would have never been meant to be.\n\nBroken hearts can last with the most pain for 1-3 months. After that, you slowly begin to forget about it start finding someone new. When you find the new person, you forget everything about your ex except for the tiny spot in your heart where you effected you the most. Everytime you think about your ex that tiny spot will hurt, but other than that you new person should confort you enough to forget about the ex.
1109882
well I know how u feel, coz I just got out of 3 years relationship, 6 months ago. He's still in my head, and I think about him sometimes. I tried to date but it doesn't work out, coz I'm not over my ex completely. Here's some suggestion, forget about your ex and move on. But if you can't then don't rush hooking up with some other guy coz it's not fair for ur new guy. Good luck sweetie!
424663
You should stay single for at least a month to recover. I don't think bumping to another relationship is the best way to recover. You need to find yourself first or else you might fall into another bad relationship.