how can u tell if ur been cheated on?
922519
You can't.  Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc.  Most importantly, do not expect honesty.  If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.
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if they start dressing different, listening to different music, going on "drives", things like that. then if you call him on it and ask if he is cheating on you. . .and he gets all defenssive and starts freaking out. most likely. . .hes cheating on you
88907
Ask yourself this: Have you ever met a guy who was honest and told you that there MIGHT be a shot at him cheating on you? Hell no. Make observations.
576761
Any of these is possible:\na) She was cheating on you\nb) She had it prior to meeting you didn't bother telling you\nc) She may not have known she had it if she's asymptomatic\n\nIn any event, you should both be tested for any other diseases and take necessary precautions to reduce further complications.
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
206089
first be sure. if it's true find a new best friend and a girl friend. if she's cheated on you she'll cheat on him and he'll know how you felt. but don't give either one another chance.
927961
Well get a device and put it on the car or have a friend you trust follow her and record her or call cheaters or be forth right open and honest and tell her to her face; I believe you are cheating on me, if you deny and I find out its over, if your honest maybe we can work this out. Why hide? If you want the evidence up front hire a detective.
145615
Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
1117972
PRAY AND ASK GOD TO REVEALED IT TO U IF HE IS CHEATING . BUT MAKE SURE THAT U R READY FOR THE ANSWER CAUSE U WILL GET IT.IM WHEN U GET YOUR ANSWER.
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You don't correct a wrong with a wrong!\n\nYou are saying that you 'think' that your  boyfriend is cheating! So you have no hard evidence that he is. Supposing that he isn't and you go out there and take vengeance, what would that make you? You will be the one who is cheating on him.\n\nTalk to him and tell him your fears. If you both want this relationship to move on you will work it out.\n\nIf you have solid proof that he is, be dignified and confront him. Be rational and not a drama queen! \n\nTalk it over. If you can not continue with him after that, break it up with a Coupe de Grace! \n\nIf you are willing to forgive him and give him another chance, be it but make sure he knows that you are really hurt and that because you love him you are willing to give him another chance providing that it is a final chance.\n\nGood Luck!
325866
You can tell a guy has cheated by feeling his balls. I know that sounds crazy but the longer he has not had sex then the fuller they will be but after he has ejaculated they will be smaller as they have been emptied. Hope this helps and all men cheat but they can't help it. My boyfriend of 6 years swore he would never cheat on me but I found out that he lied and he has cheated on me several times. Good luck!.x
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I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
753795
when my bf cheated on me he would be really nice to me sometimes for no reason and i later found out it was when his guilt hit.\nhe cut his hair and went shopping for new clothes (changed his look a bit) \n\nstarted telling many stories about this "old friend" of his\nwas very suspicious of me and always thought i was cheating on him.
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no i dont think so,cuz if i know or find out he cheats on me that means i cant give him what he need..so aint no need for me 2 b with him anymore..he wanna cheat on me he should make sure im not gonna find out,but men always get busted somehow..and as a female u know when he cheats,u can feel it.
354903
If you think you're boyfriend's cheating on you, EVEN IF YOU CAN'T PROVE IT, you have the wrong boyfriend. Understand? A faithful partner wouldn't give you these reasons to suspect.
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You should just casually confront him about the situation and show him the evidence that you have to be suspecting that you believe he is cheating.  While you are confronting and he begins to get really upset for no reason that usually means he is lying.  Ask him to gently tell you the truth and that is all you want to hear.