what if the girl u really like says she wants to be ur girls friend but not now until in highschool.?
927037
listen to her, thats good she wants it to be srious not immature primary school stuff.
684457
that's tough to say, if u didn't tell ur friend that u liked this girl and then asked her out, then how do you think ur friend will react? u may lose ur freindship over this girl so ask yourself...is she worth it? if yes then by all means ask her out\nlet me say though there are a lot of girls out there and she won't be the only one you'll like but your friend is unlike any other and he may stick around for a long
272791
Don't be mean.\nI think, treat her with respect whether you like her or not. If you don't like her, tell her you only want to be friends. If you do, then wat r u waiting for.
937525
simply ask her how she feels about you.  from what you have said, it seems like she may have feelings for you.  but then again she might not. she might just like you as a really good person and that is her way of showing she thinks you are nice and cool and worth her time.  you could be looking into it more than what it is because you like her.  but then again, you guys are in high school and are very young and don't know what you quite want yet.  you still have some time to grow.  you still have time to find out what love is before you go mindlessly using the word.  so take your time and see how things span out but most importantly, ask her how she feels about you rather than guessing.
979545
you already told her you like her, so now it's her turn to make a move. stay casual with her and act cool.patience is a virtue! good luck buddy!
541562
well the girl should go for a date\njust the once so she can see how she feels about her as a friend and who knows
398090
well, but it bluntly. if she treasures her CRUSH before her friend, then she is no friend that i would want to have. you either have to give it to her blunt, or give it to her REAL subtle. personally, i would do it blunt. don't let her get to you. \n\nGOOD LUCK!! :)
669061
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
649340
wow well i hate to say it but i think no matter how nice you try to be u will hurt her. my suggestion is to be as nice as you can and say im sorry but i just want to be friends im not looking for a relationship right now i would much rather be friends or something like that\ncuz no matter how u do it it will hurt her a little bit but i hope u can still be friends
691521
depends, if you are helping ur friend out i will do it... but if u like the girl also, u must think what's better, friendship or some girl!
506836
for now,just try to be her friend and when the moment is right,ask her how she'd feel if you were to ask her out and see how she responds.good luck.
207877
Talk to her, tell her you would like to get to know her and be upfront that you would like to be friends. Honesty.
118605
Maybe her best friend is afraid that you will steal her friend from her and is feeling a bit jealous of your relationship.  You need to reasure her so how about  "I know you are a good friend to X(the name of the girl you like) and I hope you will condsider me as your friend too".  Incidentally do you have a friend  who might be interested in your girl's friend so she doesn't feel left out in the cold!?
1182939
hi, to let her that you like her iswait she by herself or if her friends is always around pull her to the said say something like this call her over to you don't look nerves or anything laugh and say somethinng that just happen to get the conversation started then say her name first \n example: ashley you a real good friend to your friends a sweet person and that's what i like about you that what got my attention about you.i been noticing you for a while and wonder if you want to give me a chance for you to get to know me better outside of school. you don't have to answer now take your but please really think about it u won't be disappointed.\n  now that should win her over if it doesn't dont worry about her because that mean she don't want a gentlemen shae want loser someone that's gonna take advantage of her. Please no notes that's so juvenile
49706
Come on, it sounds like you don't really want to be her best friend.  You have romantic interests in her, right?\n\nLet me get some thing straight here.  Unless that girl is a very special person, you are either a romantic interest, or you are just a friend.  I hope you know how to choose.\n\nBut here is the answer: guys that end up being friends with girls are non-threatening, trust-worthy, a good listener, sensitive, and generally all the good stuff that girls want, but are not looking for in a romantic interest.  Express your concerns for her, and be attentive when she has something to say.  Making friends with girls isn't that hard, but most guys will never have that, because they are only interested in girls for other reasons.  Figure that out, and you are there.
677557
Be her friend first then ask her out.
77556
have you ever told her that you liked her?than yeah i think that you should. start by asking her if she does.if so,then ask if she would be comfortable to go out with you some time.if she doesnt like you as more than a friend than say''lets hang out together,just you and me as friends if you are not to busy.''