My mother............?
925276
first off, sorry about the loss\n\nsecond of all, she needs time alone to grieve. Not everyone needs to grieve with others around.  Everyone grieves in their own way. \n\nThird... maybe she's enjoying time by herself?  I know as a mom, myself, if something happened to my husband and the kids were not at home, I'd enjoy a little P&Q for a little while.  \n\nShe'll come out of her shell eventually. She needs some time.\n\nif she doesn't come around after a year, then I'd worry about her.
1003450
I don't see how you can be shy towards your own mother.  Just remember, Action speak louder than words, but words are always nice to hear.  Tell her, nothing to be shy about.  She changed your diapers, bathed you, made sure you had everything that you needed.  Watch her face light up when you tell her.
238057
too bad for her...that is very self centered.make clear that your mum has a place in your heart as well.
325416
Your mother is still a human being, she may think you hate her, and imagine if the person you love more than anything started hating you.  How would you feel?  My mother and I have a very rocky past, but In the end, a simply, tear-filled, "I love you" gets the point across.  It sounds like she has her hands full with the house, and is hurt about how you acted.  On the other hand, it also sounds like she isn't quite as forgiving as she should be.  But like I said, she is only human.  I think it is the hardest part of growing up when you find out your mom isn's SuperMom, but a person with her own doubts and feelings.  Hug her, tell her you love her, and walk away.  Just walk away and let her calm down.  Clean a bit, but do it when she isn't looking, since you don't want her to think you are only doing it to get on her good side.  You aren't.  You are doing it because you care...
111908
well thats very nice for your mother.\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nbe more specific?
94359
this is something you have to make a choice about.you cant let your mother make it for you.thats wrong.but if u enjoy it go ahead.
655557
I know exactly what you are going through right now.  I had a fight with my mom on Sunday (yes, Mother's Day), and we still are not speaking.  She was wrong, but I think I've taken it too far now, and this is what I'm going to do.  \n\nTalk to her, and tell her the things that bother you as they are, no matter how hurtful it may sound.  Just tell her that before starting, so she can understand why are you being hurful.  I've found through out the years, that telling her my exact feelings, no matter what, always seems to work.  \n\nThe catch is, if she takes it the wrong way, you could have a bigger problem later.  It just depends on the kind of relationship you have with your mother, and how much do you really know her in the end, to make up your mind about what to tell her.\n\nYou say she's sick.  Well, that changes things a little bit.  If she has MS, then she must be tired most of the time.  If this is the case, get off her back and start growing up.  She has obviously raised a good child, if you are so concerned to voice your questions here, so take a look deep within you and identify the problem YOU have with her, and fix it.\n\nI hope this was helpful!  Have a great day!
1068033
hi, i am so sorry that you are hurt, but i understand.  hurting your mom is the worst feeling in the world.  the worst.  but the best medicine is free.  don't do any of that writing notes crap, that is really chicken shit.  you hurt her, and you are old enough to own up to your mistakes.  you just march yourself up to her and say mama, i can never tell you how sorry i am, i love you, i need you, and i'm not too proud to say it.  then tell her that you know that your time is coming.  you'll have a mini me someday, and it will come back around.  it's called the circle of life.  lol.  the easiest answers are always the toughest.  god bless
657271
you should thank her for being your mom and giving u the love she is giving you all this time. and thank her for everything she has being through with you. an tell her how much you love her
731113
Well it doesn't sound like she's the "listening" type. So even if you tell her that she's hurting you it may not make a difference but its worth a try. Do you have any nearby relatives? maybe you should take some time to breathe also. Remember you are only sixteen and may not be mature enough to make a life changing decision so be careful because it may upset her. Also remember that you only get one mother and should respect and cherish the one you do have even when they're intolerable. Don't keep this bottled up inside express your feelings freely but respectably and may God bless you in doing so. Good Luck!
1136832
Not all are metastic.\n\nGlad to hear about your mom
900209
She is already living the example that was given to her by her mother. You may not be able to disuade her from many bad decisions, they are after all, her choices. The very best you could do for this young lady is be a very caring and available adult. Trying to control her at this point will more than likely drive her away. Talk to her openly, but without judgement. Make your conversations thought provoking, encourage her to answer and solve her own issues with you.
736804
go see a dietician .....and take your mom
1039498
You gotta do whats right for her now and let the past go,..someday she wont be here and you will miss her, so  like someone else said suck it up, bite your lip  and  do whats right for her now.\nMy Mom is 75 , and hardley a week goes by that I dont have to bite that lip of mine, sometimes i think im going to get a bloody lip i have to bite it so hard, lol.. But its worth it cause i love her and know  when the day comes when shes no longer here, i will miss her and even miss having to bite my lip lol
681020
oh boy. sounds like me and my mom. I just walked away when she started to irritate me. Don't acknowledge her bad behaviour at all. But don't expect her to stop being this way. you will have to deal with it for the rest of her life. So just try and tell yourself that you will leave the house one day and you won't have to deal with her. Just try and remember to not fight back. Let her win. Even if your beyond right. Because she's only looking to argue. not win an argument. Ignore her critcisms of other people and just try to tune her out when she talks. That's your best bet. GOOD LUCK
1024744
Tell him to think about his mother.
607910
she's ur mom... love her.. have an open communication.. talk to ur dad too.. and find for urself who tells the truth..