How can I be better in bed???
921307
There's nothing wrong with you at all. Lots of women complain about less sex drive after having kids and being settled.\n\nI suggest that you make your husband horny for you. I'm guessing that sex has become somewhat of a routine for both of you. I think it will turn you on when you see that he's hot for you and can't wait till he's with you. Write him a dirty message. Rent some porn. You have to make sure that you really, really want to have sex, then it'll be easier getting an orgasm. I don't know what kind of stuff you're up for. Dirty talk is always good. Have your husband tell you how bad he wants you. \n\nBy the way, your clitoris can NOT be overstimulized by a vibrator. The nerve endings there will be intact unless you have some disease or accident that affects your nervous system.
170225
try to masturbate if u ae comfortable with it.. it helps..
1168180
Keep your legs in the air at night.  Exercise your legs, like imaginary bicycle while lying in bed.  Keep salt to an absolute minimum and stay super active.  You will get better!
1000832
you have a few options if you are doing this alone\n1. miss fingers - yep! its exactly what it shounds like! get to know your own "ta-ta"\n2. miss pointy - or its known as a vibrator..... it helps a lot with the movement. for days when you feel lazy but need to "relieve" your frustrations.... ;)\n3. miss GF - yep! its always fun-ner to get your loved ones to do "it" for you.... it means so much more\n\ni hope this helps ;)
57926
listen to her.  do the right thing.  treat her with consideration and respect.  be honest and direct.  expect to give as much as you receive.  dance with her.  make her laugh.  support her when she needs support.  be a friend.\n\n'course, if you're talkin about in bed..  well, that depends on what she's like.
296645
Transcending beyond your "typo", I would say: Seeing others in action or letting others watch you (through visual stimuli of videos, magazines, Internet sex/web cams, etc.) + securing/prolonging the moment of climax for as long as possible via mental control, applied pressure techniques, etc.    Remember, the brain IS the most important sexual organ - what it likes you WILL like too!  ...Hey, we are talking advanced advise here!!!  :-)
309573
The key is to keep him panting. Hold off on everything, especially sex. He will respect you more
4038
try to have him with his shoulders on the bed and with his feet on the floor and holding his hips up in the air. then you can face him or away from him. then you have more control and you can stand up a little and have more movement. this can give you more control on the depth and speed and placement inside you.
1031555
No one can make you more confident.  You have to do that for yourself.  If you go looking for some guy to boost your self-esteem, you'll attract a guy who will tell you anything you want to hear to get you in bed, & from what you are saying, that isn't something you are ready for at this time in your life.  Right now, you need to focus on you.  Try to work on school, a job, & make the most of yourself.  If you start setting new, realistic goals for yourself & achieving them, your confidence can't help but go up, & guys will notice this.  Good luck.
223340
dress the sexiest you have ever been so sexy when u look in the mirror u say DAMN!! to your self. not to slutty or to reveiling i would say comfortable but sexy. clean hand to bottom of your feet. and confidence in yourself and in what you are tryin to persuit. relax dont make it seem rehersed natural is always good.trust i bagged a few shorties that way and im a girl it works for guys and PLEASE BRUSH TEETH the smell can also tally your vote on what they think. have gum but dont chew when u talk or a small ment u know what u like to smell on another persons breath and you should bave that aswell. GOOD LUCK!!!
717385
Start talking...no, really, for starters go to any window of your house,open it and yell like a warrior getting ready for battle! You will feel better after you do! You may even laugh. learn to laugh at yourself and be yourself. Have fun with life. You'll enjoy it more!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Be like TARZAN (or Jane)
105089
get buck wild have sex anywhere and everywhere. The sky is the limit.When you are *******talk dirty as****.Get some sex toys and don't forget the red highheels. lay on the bed spread your legs and say, baby it's moma come get your present, then began to move in a circlar motion began to moan ummmmmm make sure the moan is sexy. show him your breast then said are you hungry,baby and don't forget to open your present there's a little gift inside you can kiss and play with. Then do the dam thing,girl. Make me want to hollo!I have excited myself. Gotta go!
241023
Dude - just relax when having sex, and don't get caught up in how good your c.o.c.k. feels during it.  Concentrate on pleasing your partner!  Try spankin it until just before you c.u.m. and then stop -- don't allow yourself to shoot. It may be difficult at first, but with practice you will learn to control you orgasm. Happy f...ing!
454129
use baby oil, it gives the wildest sensation, try cyber sex, it helps when someone is doing it with u
561469
WELL JUST THINK OF THE THINGS MEN DO TO YOU THAT TURN YOU ON ... OR THE THINGS YOU WISH THEY WOULD DO. RELAX AND JUST HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PLEASURE YOURSELF EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN FAVORITE TRICKS TO PLAY WITH THEMSELVES!
106237
I am a neat person except when it comes to my room!I am so bad about it that when I do decide to do it it takes forever!So trust me on this!Make a list!!!Write out unspecific things-like around bed-then do around your bed- make bed- under bed but everything you pick up has to go where it should be!If it isn't in reach,make piles(i always have a make-up pile, clothes pile, jewelry pile,GET RID OF PILE!ect.)The trick to not taking forever is playing music that gets you pumped rediculously loud.And get rid of things!Things that just lay around that you never use can go to good-will or other charities like that.So you get your room clean,listen to great music,and help others.Doesn't sound so bad huh?!
823300
Good communication = Good sex\nEvery woman is a little bit different. If you want to have a mutually wonderful time with sex, then try telling her to be your teacher, and you follow her instructions. This way you learn what makes her happy in bed, and you both have a good time. Play this back and forth, and remember that you need to try variables like speed, firmness, and always feed back information. Don't be shy, and don't let your feelings get in the way of satisfying each other. Don't get into a rut by doing the same thing the same way all the time, but remember what it is that sends her over the edge, and use it with discretion. I am sure that you will both discover more, and more things that feel good, and better than either one of you ever thought of. Just be open, and give each other the respect that you both deserve. Nothing like higher learning.