Should I let my wife's sister marry?  My wife is a siamese twin.?
920033
No way, have a 3some!!!
688793
Priorities first, boy! Make sure you can provide my sistah a good future. Getting married does not mean NOW.
1073750
I am in a similiar situation.\n\nMy someday soon-to-be sister inlaw is very irritating to me.  She is Very judgemental, opinionated and I wouldnt be surprised if she hates the idea of us someday getting married.  So, needless to say, I really understand your situation.  Now what to do... I will give you the best advice I can, even though I havent yet solved my own situation.   \nFirst of All ~ Always remain focused on your man and on your relationship with him.  He is the one you are with.\nAt family Events ~ Try finding someone else that you can hang out with and/or relate to.  Or, spend extra time in the Kitchen helping with food preps or other busy work.  Be Helpful.  If she is mean to you then she will look like a real loser.  You will look great cooking, helping etc.\nHope these tips help.  Best wishes to you.  Be yourself I am sure that is good enough.  OH & don't worry too much, most of what we worry about never actually Happens!!!
826737
Your sisters are not your responsibility - the parents are the only ones responsible for them. I seriously believe your wife and yourself need to have your own place to develop your own relationship and grow your own family. Having extra women in the house will cause all sorts of problems & possibly kill your relationship. You are an adult now so you just need to say NO, you don't need to give a reason. Suggest your sister gets her own place and say you will look out for her to keep mum happy, but do not let other people move in.
409059
Grow up!  She's family, and if you have a problem with her, you need to talk to her directly!  Who cares if she is a twin or not??  You need to deal with this issue as soon as you can!  And the right way to deal with it is not to not buy her a present, to show your displeasure with her!
1086848
I don't know about asking her brother for permission, you're not marrying him.  Maybe ask to take them both out for dinner .  Tell him then what are your intentions. All the while making sure that's what your girl wants too.  Good Luck.
13489
not a problem. married a woman that is 7 years older than me. and have a couple buddies that married older woman
161068
Of course you can love them both.......But you will have to love one better than the other. You will have to make a choice sooner or later as to which you love better. I imagine you made wedding vows to your wife. Did you promise your coworker anything? Who did you make promises to first? Will you have to break your promises to one of them in order to continue loving the other? If you think you can love them both the same, you can't.
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
76252
Talk it over with her. You have to. She is family. You both need to solve this.
866036
whatever comes natural. Do what you "both" agree on. If this is difficult --dont get married--
1134284
Why don't you marry your sister Marie too!!! LOL!!!!  LMFAO!!!!
580196
Go for it. I am a White man married to a Black Woman. It is very acceptable and we have no problems. I get along well with her family and my family loves her as well. She has two sons from a previous marriage and I get along well with them.
634869
We tend to marry those we date.  So, if you can conceivably see yourself married to the brother and able to handle having a brother-in-law with whom you used to be engaged...then I'd have to say it's not wrong.\n\nThink ahead 10 years..........would this family get along?
946648
well arent you in an odd situation....personally dont get married....if you are all happy to be a threesome stick with that...you shouldnt have to make a choice.....\nbut honestly i dont know who is sicker...you...or the twins.....
1114663
You find someone else to be "in love" with.  Show some loyalty to your sister.  Guys will come and go but your sister is forever.  Good luck in making the right decision.
44225
Yes you should.  After all she is your sister, and you would have to make peace with her someday.  What better day than her wedding, it would also be a good gift for her for that day.