my little cousin needs help from you girls!?
925534
She is only 13. Some girls dont start developing untill 15 or 16. As far as breasts tell her dont worry about them right know,she does not need to impress any one. Most girls that are developed at this age have eaten unknowing in there food, steriods. Before she knows it she will grow. She might be wanting her period to start but she does not need to worry untill she is 17 then worry .
732720
NO! She is your cousin. If you ever have children they have a 75% chance of being mentally retarded to say the least of your genetic worries.
1060410
That's a real tough situation to be in. You can't please everybody, no matter how hard you try. If you blow off your cousin you make bad blood in the family. If you bring her along, she may ruin a good thing you got going with your friend. Just try to get your cousin some other friends she can hang out with, to get her off your back. Alternatively, do something that will turn her off. Like, start dressing goth and chewing tobacco. Whatever you can come up with that will turn her off without outright rejection from you. Good luck!
807321
bring up a very intellegent conversation (one that is totally unlike you to bring up) and then make sure your cousin knows nothing about the topic you are talking about, and when he says that he doesnt get it, to teach him about it very kindly so that everyones says hat you are just the sweetest thing they have every seen and hey will totally forget about your cousin
817030
If your friends are abandoning you for her, they aren't really your friends.  I know this doesn't help your situation, or make you feel any better, but it's true.  If they are willing to listen to someone else and make judgements about you, they aren't worth knowing.\n\nStick with your cousins and ride it out.  They may come crawling back, who knows?  Just keep your dignity throughout, and never lower yourself to their level.  Know you are better than any of them.  It'll blow over soon enough, as long as you make out that you really couldn't care less.
708862
if she doesnt listen to you talk, get help from her parents. trust me, she will thank you later.
1060362
You might want to try to get her involved in a small teen group at church.  They work wonders.  Teens do not want to talk to adults generally, they want to talk to their friends.  Christian friends generally will give better answers for one and if truly serious will tell leaders.  I have seen kids open up to leaders too.  God Bless you all and I'll be praying for her as well as the family.
328483
You have to talk to her and let her know how you feel in a positive way. And just because she is your cousin doesn't mean you have to be around her all the time.
809679
help her with her daily routine around the house (laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc.) some jewlery, something hand made\n\nbut i would just be extremely helpful and not expect anything in return. that should def get the message across
75571
At a future family get-to-gether, tell everyone all at once (except for her) how wonderful she is.  Compliment her to others and make sure she sees it.  It'll mean a lot.
669002
Well thats gonna be hard without hurting her feelings but what i would do is buy some strong gum and eat some then when you guys are together offer her some. hopefully that will help :)
470717
make a doc appt and tell her you are taking her shopping then oops we are at the clinic and take her....she wont wanna make a scene in public and act childish so she will just go. Drop her off at the door and get one of the nurses to help her in as she probably has a kindney infection. Perhaps even a Gulbladder infection.
67272
just ask your mum anytime you feel like you are ready. she will probably be more nervous and embarrassed than you. You shouldn't be sacred cos she's been through it all and it's her job to help you. If you just can't do it write her a little letter or talk to an older cousin or friend. But just be brave and ask...you'll be really surpirsed at how she reacts...expect tears cos thats her baby girl a woman now!!! She'll be fine and she'll tell you all you need to know
837246
Be happy for her. Maybe your jealous in some way. Enjoy that you have your best friend and cousin who are enjoy each other. It's not like your out of the picture is it? So just be happy.\nBest of luck
110385
Without the parents support, good luck. \n\nThey really are doing her a disservice by not having her help out.  She is getting a misconception about how real life is as well as not gaining the confidence that being a capable, contributing member of a family brings.  \n\nIf you also live with them, a family meeting might be in order.  You might try spending more time with your niece and encouraging her, but she probably won't respond too well.  It's a tough situation because you love her and probably aren't liking her too much right now.  \n\nGood luck.
372982
Ask him to be a man. Look beyond the family. I am telling you this because I myself had a crush on my cousin for a very long time. I eventually shrugged it off and moved on.
1017348
avoid your cousin...ignore them.  let your cousin know that you are not a doormat, and that you don't have to take it!