men only please what is going on in his head ?
918202
I am not a man, but couldn't resist answering this one.  He doesn't want you to be out all night long, he is thinking if you are out all night long then you are spending the night with another man.  He says he is glad you don't care anymore, but his actions speak louder than words.  Keep on acting like you don't care and see how fast he wants to come back home.
19520
The best way is to simply ask him what pleases him. \nYou find out by communication. No one is a mind reader.
47465
"now seems like he only pays good attention to me in bed" - That would be your problem. I have no insight into the mind of your boyfriend. However, I would say (coming from another man) that he is after just one thing. Then again, perhaps I am wrong. It is hard to be sure about such a concept when it is through a written medium and we've never met the person. Good luck anyhow.
591007
look like someone needs to have a talk with him . look like he got something else on this mind
434702
Its his life. Let him know how you feel and let him make up his own mind about what he wants.
722132
Well, this guy sounds like he has a brain...You sound like your hormones are out of control.
501726
not necessarily...he could just be going through something....maybe he's depressed or doesn't know what he wants. give him space and see what happens...
916081
My mate has just been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years - cos he said he needs time to himself. Imagine how she feels - you were only with this guy 8 weeks.\n\nJust think people need to put their problems into perspective a little bit. I know you must be feeling cr*p right now -but its not like you dedicated half your life to this guy. And if he wants you to change your opinion on something as big as sex then really he's not the one for you anyway.\n\nps - most men are weird. \n\npps - i was very prudish when it come to sex - but my mind has been opened ...... opened in the very best possible way
1149704
That sounds like a pretty good answer to me. My suggestion to you is not to let him think that you don't know what head games he is playing with you, that will just make his head even bigger than what it already is. You are smart and let it be known!!
612992
That might be your interpretation of the situation. You need some counseling from a professional to help you figure out what is going on.\n\nGood luck!
235749
It sounds to me like he has some insecurity issues when it comes to women, and he needs to be constantly reassured no matter where he is. He probably does honestly care for you (at least from what you wrote), but he can't truly love anyone else until he learns to love himself, and if he does this to every female that crosses his path, then he is not there yet. The best thing you can do in my opinion, is let him know how you feel, and when he starts freaking out and calling you names, simply tell him that you deserve a guy who will treat you better and not make you feel uncomfortable..then walk AWAY. If the behavior continues, there is not much more you can do except leave him and let him work out his issues. Good Luck.
1163441
Instead of trying to figure out what's going on in his head, try to determine what's going on in YOURS.  Obviously, you are interested in him, but do you want to be with someone that reserved?  He hasn't provided any support for you emotionally, yet, so my best advice is date other guys while this one is making up his mind about you.  Dating other men may make you more attractive and will certainly help your self esteem!  Good luck!
1105363
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN'S THINKING PATTERNS, CASE IN POINT -- HIS AND HER\nDIARY ENTRIES FOR THE SAME 24 HOUR PERIOD.\n\n\nHER DIARY \n\nSaturday night I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was Shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was late, but he made no comment. Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he kept quiet and absent. \n\nI asked him what was wrong. He said "nothing". I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home, I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say "I love you too". When we got home, I felt as if had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV. He seemed so distant and absent. Finally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed and, to my surprise, he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that he was distracted and his thoughts where somewhere else. I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I decided to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep. I started crying and cried until I too fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster. \n\n\n\n\nHIS DIARY \n\n\n\nToday England lost, but at least I got laid.
623974
He definitely feel as if... every song, tv station, and book he reads is talking about his "situation"... he tired of thinkin about his loved one... I feel that he "needs" to turn of the radio... and go deal wit the situation wit his girlfriend.... Thats whats up!
778595
she's messing with YOUR MIND. it's quite fun to do actually...\nbut i could ask you the same question...why are guys so confusing???
201526
Ask him what's wrong.  Best thing I can tell ya hun.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.