my recent ex-bf still texts me, takes me to lunch, movies and i spend the night sometimes.(nothing happens)?
924384
It sounds as though the two of you really need to sit down and talk, tete-a-tete.  The fact that you have been off and on for a couple of years, he's texting you now after a recent breakup, taking you to lunch, etc. and now you don't know what his motive is - just try to talk about it.\nI think that's the only way you are going to be able to truly get to the bottom of your dilemma.
979886
Sweetie, you need to read that book "He's Just Not That Into You".  He's obviously placing you last on his list and only bothering with you when he's got nothing better to do.  You DESERVE much better than being last priority in his life.  Don't you want more than talking once a month on the phone from a man?  Don't  you want dinners, walks, affection & attention?  Someone who is always there for you?  Then drop this player and find a real man.  Good luck and keep your chin up!
345002
I would think that he misses you and was thinking of you. I wouldn't get my hopes up. It could be that he just found a new toy on his phone and you were the first one he thought of. (or the 25th for all I know) Send him back a smiley face then forget about it. If he really wanted to tell you something, he should have spelled it out. Not started out with games.
1150983
Well the fact that you have been talking to this guy every night straight for a week is an indication he is interested.  Now, slow your roll!  If you just ended a bad relationship, try not to get caught up in worrying about where this guys head is at.  You mentioned that you didn't want to rush things but then again you are wanting signs that will tell you if he likes you so you won't be wasting your time.  How are you wasting your time if you aren't trying to rush things?   If anything, you should be looking at him as someone to talk to and if you both share a common interest, enjoy those things.  Down the road, see where things go,if nothing comes of it relationship wise, you might have made a good male friend.  It's possible.
273107
Been there, done that.  He is using you, I say get out now while you are still not too emotionally attached.  If he only spends 2 hours at a time with you, it sounds like he is having his fun and then running home to his wife.  That's exactly what my ex did, the best thing you can do is learn from it.
1078501
I don't think your wrong but i don't know all the facts. But my ex used to call me at my work but it wasn't anything at all. He only did that because I wouldn't answer my cell phone when he called. so maybe that's what happened.
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
271328
If he make excises for being late all the time, if he calls and cancel on you. He starts hang out with his friends more often than before without asking you if u want to come along. he doesn't want to get intimate with you. these are the signs that I'd look for.. stay strong and take cares!
872791
Either he wants to continue having sex with you or he wants to be in a relationship but either way  his timing was a little off. See if he treats you like a girlfriend (phone calls during the day/night, coming over to see you,dinners etc) good luck
935307
He's probably over you, but was feeling horny in the moment.  It doesn't sound like he has any intention of being with you in a serious way.  He'd probably settle for a booty call relationship, but you sound like you have more class than that, so I'd move on if I were you.
517175
Be sure of your self dude , by the way she is your EX...\nor maybe she did not have a good connection at the time, it happens man , these new cell towers are not working right some times ;-)
629047
Besides stalking him, you could bring it to his attention he's being distant. On the other hand, its been two months, it may be nothing and you're being a bit to needy, especially in light of his old g/f coming back.
929390
If he only sent you an email he is probably with his ex, either way it means he does not care that much about you...he has your number, he can call you (right?) and the fact that he did not defend you over his ex, when she was obviously in the wrong, shows he either does not care that much about you, and might still have feelings for his ex, more so than he does for you..I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am just trying to give you the best advice, which is to realize (which it sounds like you already have) that this guy does not truly care about you and the best thing for you to for yourself is to just forget about him and move on, as hurtful as it may be. You could email him back demanding an explanantion, and telling him how hurt you are, but it wouldn't make much of a difference.
482819
After he has gone home and hopefully your last day is on a Friday, from his office, phone the speaking clock in either London or New York, depending on what side of the pond you live on, and leave the phone off the hook, your revenge wont be known for weeks, hopefully. It works and it really f**ks them off, it also works on ex's phones as well, if they cheat on you. REVENGE IS A DISH BEST SERVED COLD.
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
242265
Its time to leave him alone when you realize that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn't have a regard for you and your feelings. being a man, I can tell, he's just playing on you and your emotions.\n\nHe is now your EX - means that he is part of your past. Better move on and I am sure you will find someone who will give you decency and respect. if you'd like to be friends with him, not at this time. Once both of you are "settled", may be that's the time for you to consider being his friend (that is if you will still have time and energy to think even about it).
682345
Since he said it's over unless he has been ignoring you and not keeping in touch, I'm afraid he meant what he has said. If however, he's still keeping in touch with you and you are still talking, he is probably having regrets and want you back as well but don't know how to say sorry.