is it bad if a 18 year old doesn't like going out?
915144
Nope. That's just what you like. I'm 15, but I don't like the social scene and others look at me like I'm crazy. Oh well, I'm happy the way I am.
1080586
when i was 21 i was going out with a girl who was 16. we had a great relationship for almost 2 years and if i had a chance to do it all again i would. the only problem was that as she got older and matured we drifted apart but that can happen with any relationship no matter what age you are. give it a try but don't let him use his age and experience to get you to do anything you don't want to. good luck, hope all goes well
784404
I would not say we are 'Bad Girls". It's just we have gotton hurt and want to go out and I would say 'Have Fun'.I myself married  at 16 ,3 kids grown now and then he wants out. Now that's what I call hurt emotionally,mentally and no where to go.It's been an emotional roller coaster.\nBut I've come a long way and having fun doing it. Now go have fun and be your Bad self..
673024
If you are 18 and in school still, it's that old rule \n\n"as long as you're under my roof you do as i say"\n\nif you're 18 and live on your own, date anyway.\n18 is too old to not be dating, my fiancee and i talk that when our kids reach 18 then it's fine for them to start dating... any younger, it's just a huge no no.... \n\nshe may not have felt you were ready for that, but let her know kindly that how will you ever find love , or learn to love and lose if you never get to experience it, let her know (if you have a close relationship) you will keep her up to date on your relationships, not all details because some are personal like kisses and such... but still if that will get her to let you...\n\nif all else fails, date anyway, tell the guy the situation, and he may enjoy it because you're both dating and sneaking around with each other behind your mom's back....\n\ni know that's somewhat disrespectful but by law 18 years old is an adult... so good luck with that :)
383373
I don't think so. I don't think one should be allowed to do a bunch of the things that are legal at 18...Voting, Smoking, Entering the military.. I think that at least when your 21 you are mature enough to handle these kind of things.
747901
Ooooo i remember the strictness of when i was 15 it was about the same curfew as you. So stick it out arguing about it didnt get me anywhere. When you turn 16 and so on they should ease up! \n\nPersonally i think it is wrong for your parents to decided what career you are going to do. Think about it doing something you dont enjoy for a big part of your life for a good pay its not worth it. My dad told me 'i could be anything i wanted to be' and he didnt really have a say when i was choosing my college course...i made mistakes on my own but thats the best way to learn. \n\nThere is noway you can change their minds they have there heart sent on their little girl becoming a police officer!! But if you feel so passionate about a diff future then go for it you cant live someone elses dreams!!
316692
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
863786
I am like you, I don't like clubs/pubs. People think I am crazy, as pubs are an institution where I live. But eh, at the end of the day, you go out to entertain yourself, not to be bored or feel awkward. And I don't drink either.\n\nMy advice to you would be to find something you like to do, like going to the cinema, to the restaurant with your friends, and compromise with them.
1076972
yeah, that's wierd.\nIf you are 14, don't go out with anyone over 18, because that's just asking for trouble.
723686
An 18 year old is still not a 'man' ,,,,, but you are still growing and need to eat a balanced diet , it would be  in your best interest also to stay away from alcohol and cigarettes, get a good education , then a good job and start saving your money, and stay away from credit cards
417580
depends on your age and why your mum said you werent allowed to go out with him. can you post these 2 things in your detail in your question?
611596
That is a hard time for you. Been there, 3 times\n1/ list things you like doing, or are interested in\n2/ look up clubs and groups that do these things, \n3/ if you have at least 1 friend that you can persuade to go to any/all of them, go.\nif not, go yourself, you don't have to stay if uncomfortable, remember, some of the people there possibly went for the same reason you did.\nGive it time, Parents Without Partners are good places for your age group. There are others, look up the net\ngood luck.
1029673
There is NO WAY ON EARTH that a 14 year old should be going out with an 18 year old.  It is not "against the law" to date, but anything sexual with him is a crime (for him, not for you).
452403
I agree with the first two gals.  Have a neighbor keep an eye on the house and you can call to check on him.  Make sure to set the ground rules before you go because I remember when I was 17 and my parents went out of town I was ready to do some hard partying.  Keep in mind that is highly likely with a 17 year old.\n\nGood luck!  :)
222809
I was only 12 yrs old when i started secretly dating a 19 yr old guy.... it was fun because it was forbidden and nobody knows until my Dad caught me. I was grounded to have dates intil I was 18... My point is, there is nothing wrong in dating someone older than 18 while you are an underage. As long as its a harmless date. Harmless in the sense that both of you are just enjoying each others company (no sex involved). Its only a DATE...not marriage.
1117459
Nope.  Your in the wrong here, you are lying and disobeying your parents.  You probably aren't aloud to date because you aren't old enough.  Whether you believe it or not your parents make rules for a reason and you should respect them.
1003241
yeah thats bad u dont want a kid i have a 3 yr old im only 21 it sucks when you want to go out especially if you like to party like me i like good stuff expensive still get it but my son is a terrible and if u keep up that pace u might have a sexually transmitted disease u dont want to deal with it