do you think you can love at the age of  14?
925920
yes... my sister met her fiance and started dating when they were 16... i no people that have been together since they were 14 so ofcourse.. u dont have to be a certain age to fall in love... infact heres a great quote:\nyou can drive at 16..go to war at 18, drink at 21 and retire at 65, how old do you have to be to be in love?
183925
Yes and no. I would say you are too young because I have "been there done that". Hell at my age I thought I was in love til I realized my ex wasn't "the one". No because there are some relationships that truely can last well into your old age years that start off as young as you are. Trust me you will know when you are in love or lust.
674692
He doesn't love you.  14 year olds are incapable of any love except towards their mommies and daddies.  He might lust after you, but his own feelings for you probably confuse him as much as they do you.  Avoid serious "love" relationships until you are at least 18.
353510
No matter what their age is you can not make someone love you. They can not make themselves love you either.\nEither they do or they dont...
534126
yes i was till age about 15 or 16 ... even i wasnt give my opinions ...and just listen to others ...\n\nbut after this age ...my mouth dont stop lol \n\nso yes it can happend ...\n\ngood luck :)
988500
Be very, very careful. There's nothing better than being 15 and in love, but things can and do get out of hand very quickly. The things that you're feeling are natural but if you make the wrong decision it could change your life in a heartbeat. You don't want to pay for "being in love at 15" for the rest of your life. (a baby)
470058
it's love if you believe it's love. juliet was 14... but don't pop the question just yet ;)
406599
I fell in love at the age of 5, and I still love "him" nowadays. Our love has blossomed even more and we're planning to get married soon.\n\n(I'm currently at the age of 18 right now, so yours is all ok for me... if it's not, i'm definitely worse than you.)
241863
being a young man of faith... excuse my language.. shes going to be literaly ****ed over! there is no way in Gods name a 14 year old girl is in love with a 20 year old guy.. 2 hes only looking to get in her pants... (being a guy i would know how horomones function for my "speicies) thirdly... at 14 hardly ANYONE knows what love is even if it bit them in the butt. im almost 18 and ive found the girl i love, but she is 2 years younger.. granted not a good combo but she actualy realises what i want and what i see love as being. honestly if you cant talk to her... talk to her MOM or her DAD.. cuz any decent parent will NOT EVER allow a 6 year time difference untill the "young woman/man" is atleast 18... and if he touches her... theres a reason for the saying "16 will get you 20... 14 will get you 40!" so if she loves him... she may just want to concider waiting just a bit longer...
432352
no... some people have already experienced many things like hardships and stuff by the age of 11... though the possibility is unlikely, i wouldnt say it is impossible\nhardships make people mature... it also makes them more understanding... it may also lead them to know what true love is...\n\nmy opinion though
253507
are you under 14 years of age?
1006687
Yes, young people can be in love i fell in love at a young age and was with the same person untill only recently, we were together 10 years. The way you feel love changes as you get older but its no more or less valid than when you are a teenager.
399644
Life is confusing at 14. It's confusing at a lot of other ages too. Just look at all of the different answers you have and you will see what I mean. Here's my best advice.\n\nWrite your friend who moved and tell him that when you told him that you loved him it was true, but your love for him is a friend's love, not a romantic love. Tell him that his friendship is important and that you love having him as a friend, but the romance is not there for you. \n\nFind some ways to be around the new shy guy. It's ok to be shy at 14 - for guys and girls. If you get into some of the same activities you will have some chances to find out if there is a spark between you. Be patient. If you are both shy it may take some time. At 14, it's ok to use friends to pass along the message that you might be interested in getting to know him better. That can work pretty well sometimes.\n\nI like that it matters to you how your friend feels and that you are honest about your fears and feelings. That makes you a lot more special than some of the people who have answered you. I hope it goes great for you and that this works out just perfect for you. Good luck.
1095288
I understand what you mean.All I can say is that if he's as great as he sounds go for it!Or if you're just too afraid of losing him as a friend just keep it cool.Definitely don't do anything until the divorces are entirely and completely over.As for him being 14 years older when it comes to love it comes in all diff. ages,sizes,races, and everything.Age is nothing but a number unless you're a minor,but you re married so I know you're not.I say just take the risk after all people don't stay forever.You never know what tomorrow holds.GOOD LUCK!!
443223
Yes. Age is a number and providing the reason that both parties are together is not based on reasons other than love (lust?) then there is not a problem.  That is the question that needs to be seriously consulted however.  There is no law being broken and if they are happy then so what. You must also take into account the maturity of both people.  I knew people at 14 who were more mature than those aged 20, likewise now, I know 25-30 year olds who have the maturity of a late teen.\n\n(and no, I'm not a 40year old dating a teenage girl, I'm 22...and prefer men anyway ;-p)
325932
Yes it is possible and I speak from experience and knowledge!  I met my hubby in 10th grade in highschool.  I was just about to turn 15 but not quite so I was 14 really.  EVERYONE said it wasnt real love, everyone said it would never last, my mother wanted to throw minute rice at the wedding cuz she said thats how long the marriage would last!  NOONE thought it would ever ever last!  We have been together 22 years now and happily married!  It only gets better with each passing year!  he is my best friend as well as my husband!  YES YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE AT 15!  Just remember to get your education at the same time!  Take things slow and never ever let a guy pressure u into doing something u do not want to do!  Always be true to yourself!  Good luck sweetheart!
195599
okay like i know im only 14 but i think SEX is just like there is no relationship between the two people and there just doing it to be doing it but Love is like youve been with that person for a LONG TIME and you really care about them and have feelings for them !