My boyfriend and I had a big fight?
912823
Because your boyfriend is from India, because you have made love before, and have dated for 2 years, I think he will reciprocate the old love he has always shown to you. Because that is the way Indian men are.\n\nBTW... the sister you are talking about.... is this the same sister who had a miscarriage and lost one of the 2 twins?
709519
He's a bully. If you stay with him, get used to a life of walking on egg shells. I bet he was "sorry" later and tried to tell you he didn't know what made him do it, or said you "made" him do it.  It's not a mood swing, it's a precursor to more verbal and emotional abuse.
205947
Sadly, yes. My boyfriend gave him a bruised face.
1137488
my lovely boyfriend and before a fight!
489317
Honey she wanted this fight with you and the bf. She finally found that right nerve to hit with you. Now it is up to you just how much you love him and figure if this is the way you want the right of your life. She is never going to change if anything she will only get worse...C
293689
Try getting some couple's counseling.  Staying together or breaking up is a decision that you need to make for yourself, but there are things you can take into consideration.  \nFirst, what is he saying?  If he is just yelling for the sake of getting his anger out, that's probably okay.  But, if he is insulting you or threatening you, that's not okay.  That's verbal abuse and it can be really hard on you in the long run.\nSecondly, do you feel threatened?  You can trust your instincts here.  If you are scared of him, get out.  If you aren't really all that scared when he yells, things will probably be okay with counseling or just talking to him about it.\nAnd finally, does he have a history of violent behavior?  If he is more violent, say, with brothers or friends, or if he condones violence he is more apt to become violent with you in the future, even if he has never touched you before.  Physical abuse can come about so gradually that you may not even realize that's what's happening to you.
260094
he could've really meant it in a good way - saying u have a lot of a$$. (and guys love a lot of a$$) and im sure if he didn't like ur a$$ - or if u didnt have enough a$$ - then he prolly wouldn't even be with u. but if u decide to forgive him and stay with him - then just make sure he doesn't verbally or emotionally abuse you. if he does then u dump him without hesitation!
495858
Sounds like a communication problem.  If you want this relationship to survive and grow you two need to sit down and come up with a plan to deal with these issue and any others you have.  Some times people who argue and complain a lot just need to have a set way to communicate those things in a helpful manner instead of the current method which is destructive.
266535
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You need to, sooner or later, bring up the problem to this other person, but if there's the risk for physical damage bring someone capable of dealing it out... who's on your side. A bodyguard of sorts, ne?\n\nIf physical damage isn't apparent, the best thing to do is face the music. I'm sorry I couldn't answer the way you probably would've like me to answer, but I've been in a slightly similar situation. Sure, the other party/person/whatever will probably be angry, but there's nothing you can do about that.\n\nI'll sum up:\n*Doesn't take out anger on you: Talk to them. Explain your problem as objectively as you can, with clear benevolent (good) intent.\n*Takes out anger on you: Bring a bodyguard.
910611
Hello:\n\nFirst off, I know exactly how you are feeling. My ex-boyfriend and I spent more time fighting than we did simply being happy with each other. It just got to be so frusterating. Ultimately I just decided that something wasn't working because we were arguing about the same few things. \n\nWe decided to sit down and have a serious talk about it. One of our main problems was that he was an incredibly jealous person, and I usually am not. He would get upset if he saw me talking to one of my guy friends. I have never ever been unfaithful to anyone and just could never do that to someone, and yet he always assumed that I was messing around behind his back. \n\nAnd then he would get frusterated that I was such a trusting person, and that I would never confront him for talking to another girl. So he started pushing the limits a little bit in order to make me jealous, and boy did it work. It just seemed that we were spending so much time hurting each other. And we agreed that the relationship wasn't working out. \n\nNow we are both in relationships, and we remain friends. And both of our relationships are much more successful than we ever were together. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. It was through that experience that I realized it isn't enough to simply love someone, there is more to making a relationship work. \n\nI would suggest having a serious talk with your girlfriend. Figure out which things you are fighting about most often, and I'm sure you will find a common thread. Then you need to decide if it's worth it to make an effort to fix the relationship, or if it's time to move on. \n\nI wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps!
329202
First, you need to understand why you're fighting. Is it over another person, money, time spent together? What?\nAfter you figure that out, plan a romantic evening. We're talking candles, music, pretty lacey things if you're at that stage, that kinda thing. And then apologize. Tell him how much you love him and that you're sorry that things have been so hard and that you wanna start over. And then do. If he feels the same way, he'll accept your apology and he might even apologize himself. \nGood luck sweetie
1120218
OH MY GOD !!\nDeja Vu, You remind me of me and my ex girlfriend. \nWe were together for 3 plus years. We used to fight so regularly that in the beginning our friends used to be shocked by the anger and in the intensity. But we used to end up kissing and making up. But as we moved on, our fights became a forthnightly event, and our friends just ignored it like it was a 'normal thing'\nBut I used to do all the things, you mentioned in your Q. Go in front of her house, we used to give each other missed calls and sometimes prank calls, we used to have our friends call eachother and find out how the other person was doing, and so on a so forth.\nBut fights in a relationship are NEVER healthy and mind you, it will get old and you will sometimes cross that line of sensitivity, therefore inadvertantly hurting the other persons more than you thought you would.\nHe (like my gf) might be of the false impression that fights are 'normal and important' to keep the love in a relationship.\nTry and convince him that this is not normal, NEVER.\nYou should set some ground rules and learn not to overstep eachother.\nI understood we fought as often as we did, because we lacked trust and respect for the other.\nTake one day at a time. You will never go wrong.
242367
The first time my boyfriend and I got into a fight he tried to walk out on us without telling me why he was mad.  I put him in a leg lock on the floor for two hours (crying for about the first hour, then just pissed that he wouldn't talk for the second hour) until he softened up and we worked things out.\n\n3 years later he still says it was the best (but craziest) thing I ever could have done for us.
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You are both individuals, like everyone else and being an individual you are going to have your differences.\n\nTo be in a relationship and to love and respect each other, you must accept each other's differences and different point of views as they should yours.\n\nfighting/arguing is normal in a heatly relationship, but it depends what you are fighting about all the time. If it is about the same thing each time, then you know where the problem lies.\n\nIf you are fighting about something different each time, then maybe you need some time apart and re-evaluate what you both want from each other.\n\nIf you are fighting because one of you just decided to pick a fight or just to be awkward, then maybe you need some time away from each other.
554075
You both need to sit down and talk about what you both expect from one another. Treating someone horrible, and then expecting some other treatment in return is not a healthy relationship. Take time for yourself away from each other, then spend time with each other. You have to give a little to get a little. But talk alot of things out first, and be HONEST!! Ask each other how they expect to be treated, and give them that in return. Walk away from the fights, and calm down , then talk it out calmly. Things will work out for the best!
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This really is a bit complicated.\n\nIf he knew that you were sick, Then he should not have said what he said. Even if you did lie to him, Which you say you didnt, He should have atleast given you some time to heal!\n\nIt also sounds like he under a bit of stress, That would explain his sudden rapid lashing out at you. If you live together, It is expected for something like this to happen as he has no one else to lash out at!\n\nMy best advice to you, Is to give him a little bit of space and time to think about things! Do not beat yourself up over this, It is not your fault that you got sick and that you have alot of work to get through.\n\nOne of the most important things about "Love" is that both parties need to have a very good understanding of one another!
693399
Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.