Should I give him a second chance?
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
649986
I think you should tell him how you feel about him once again and if he don't respond to you then maybe you should move on because if he can't get over this the truth is it would be hard to make a relationship work with him anyway there would be trust issues i believe speaking from experience. So tell him how you feel about him and see what happens. If he don't respond then maybe you should try to find someone else and stop waiting for this guy.
616296
The most smart thing 2 do would prolly b 2 leave em cuz dat sayn "once a cheater alwayz a cheater" but errebody iz diffrent...But wen u love sumbody it ain't as easy as errebody say...But if u love him & wanna give it anotha try id say go 4 it cuz errebody deserve A 2nd chance but don lisin 2 nebody follow ya heart gurl do watchu feel iz rite!
188979
Did he actually meet the other person? If so, what did they do? The severity of his actions should give you a good indication of what you should do. If you feel that his actions were not severe enough to break off the relationship, then don't.  If you feel otherwise, then sever ties. It all depends on how you feel, because we (the answerer's) don't really know the situation you're in and the things you're thinking/feeling. \n\nWorst case scenario? You dump him, realize he was your soul mate, never get back together, get depressed, never date, and die alone.\n\nBest case scenario? You don't dump him, he is eternally grateful, both of you work things out, and you live long and fulfilling lives.\n\nAs you can see, there is quite a bit of swing in the spectrum. If you feel that he deserves a second chance (i.e. he's been faithful [until now], treats you well, is respectful, and didn't go through with the deed, then you might want to give him a second chance.  After all, it seems like he realized his mistake before anything *bad* happened, and both of you can learn and grow stronger from this experience.
983798
I think he just wouldn't feel right and he isn't completely sure of...both of you... because obviously it didn't work out the first time.My advice is give him some more time.Make him believe,and I mean really believe,you guys can work out!I would feel bad if you guys didn't get back together because you didn't prove to him anything.
337009
i have been down the same road on both ends of the relationship. what you both must realize is that a strong relationship is built with time. the more time you two give it the more you will build the trust, and respect for each other. it is really great that you understanding that his life has hit a rough spot in life and are willing to be that understanding and help him through it if he needs your help. i would give it a second chance because without second chances who knows what you could be missing out on he could be the right guy for you and you could never find out until it's to late
491496
Mentally, I say 'NO' stoutly. Physically, I'd give him/her one more chance unconsciously. Nevertheless, I know the result for sure that same story would be taken place again. Briefly, if you think you could be strong enough to bear hurt again, then just try. Otherwise, forget it.
484529
Give him a second chance since you are married to him.  Marriage is actually a life long forgiving and acceptance cycle.  Remember, none of us are perfect and all of us can falter in one way or another.  Try to find other good qualities in him which you may miss if you keep reminding yourself of this one incident. God bless!
1066365
Everyone deserves a second chance but if it was something you can not get over don't bother taking him/her back. It will cause problems. Leave the past in the past. Start over new.
1066261
let it slide this time next time dump him it happen 2 me before\nor do the same and see how he takes it do the frist one okay
338130
No. If you love yourself then don't trust him again.\nHe did it once. He could do it again.\nIf you're smart enough, Don't fall for the same trick twice.
577027
If I was you if he messed up one more time i would just leave him cause you want a guy that will always loves you not just off and on.. And if he really did cheat on you either he doesnt care or he was just rebounding from something else.. hope that answers your question
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
70954
you should give him one more chance and if he doesn't prove to you that he loves you and he can take care of you, dump him. as girls we deserve the best of guys
1085309
well if you know that he likes you and that you like him alot then i guess that its safe to say that you may consider asking him out again! and umm.. you should probably just talk to him about getting back together and then if he says that its not the same then well thats a no and talk to him that why is it different and that should maybe work!
985547
In time things will get better, but before then try and let go.  And if he comes back to you let him know that he has given up a real good thing.  Its going to hurt for now, but try and make this into a good experience and know that there is someone else out there for you.
730712
Its better to take time. Shes right it hasnt quite hit him and it will eventually and its a harsh reality. Take this time to do what you feel you need to do to make yourself happy. Once you do that your ready for the dating scene again. Your in a much better position trust me. He will regret things eventually once he sees that the grass isnt truly greener on the other side. And you will be ok this is hard but you will move on with your life and be a better person than him.