If your on a date and you drove and when you got to his place he said if your tired you don't have to come up,
921611
Sounds like he's testing the ground. He wants to be close to you but he's making sure he doesn't tread where you don't want him to be. In otherwords, he doesn't want you to feel pressured. I think he likes you, and has great respect for you, especially if he's giving you an out like that. Perhaps you should ask him why he keeps saying that, and see what he says. Your gut should tell you if you can take it at face value.
1081440
Body is hot yours is.  Do it more slowly you should.  On top of me will you get?  Feel so good that does.  Sorry for finishing so quickly I am.  Sleep in the wet spot I shall.  Respect you in the morning I will.  Call you I shall.  Get a taxi for you should I?
561454
Maybe you should have gone to the meeting..instead of sleeping with the guy in one of your other questions!
141122
go ahead man im a junior with out a car so i just have my dates pick me up even no im a guy i've got no problem with it
597168
Sounds like after he'd actually met you, the chemistry wasn't there but he likes you enough to not to want to hurt you or he just doesn't like confrontations.\nA guy saying "lets go slow" after such a short space of time probably means "stop".
226480
usually a mental thing... have a relaxing evening....candles, massages.... he should be "up" in no time...
721179
You really shouldn't have been getting out of your car until you talked to him.  \n\nHe felt like you were threatening him or not listining to his directions.
309723
I would just  say, would you excuse me? And then turn around and walk off. I don't think this is rude....better than saying, Im not interested and hurting his feelings.
179416
He may not be interested or just likes to have control of the relationship and if so....you dont need a control freak
433956
Meet him, don't let him pick you up. Stay in a public place. Try to make and afternoon or early evening cofee date. Keep you cell phone handy.
621844
I would tell him that I would have to get to know him before we went on a date. It looks like you do know him so just say no if you don't want to go!
230106
When he's willing to wait for you.  He doesn't impose his person on you.
920814
Yes, I have heard the expression. The meaning behind this is that if a man asks you out with little notice and you accept it appears you are available to him, without other plans or possibly options. It is rather silly though and I wouldn't follow this advice or the man you crave will just ask another girl that is more available!
276686
please be more clear . . . when you ask for sex (speaking of you) . . . he says that he has a headache.\n\nOr is it the reverse.
887056
no, if i want to leave a blind date half way through then i just do it.  no need to play games.  he must have been a real loser.  for a hottie like you, i would just enjoy your company and wait until you were ready for sex...anticipation is half the fun;-)
401195
well you don't want to wake up one day he's already gone and taken and you were left asking yourself WHAT IF? go and ask him, for even if he turn you down, at least you showed him how you really feel and you're willing to go that extra mile for him.
632212
You can tell how far a guy will go with you if he knows how far you will go with him if you willing to have sex on the first date he's down but if your willing to wait he's always down guys like everything easy but they also like challenges so they can think they are more than what they are they need encouragement and compliments more than women