why i am no getting success in decided goal ? agains & again setting goal,disappointment and focus on decided?
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Sorry, my crystal ball is cracked and I can't find my superglue to put it back together.\n\nThere are a some common possible problems that I surmise may be what you need to address.  \n\nOne is that you may be setting unrealistic goals.  A goal should stretch you, but still be achievable--'reaching for the moon', literally, is an impossible goal so you are always going to be missing that one (unless you are in the astronaut corp and the government shakes loose the money to send people back to the moon).  \n\nSecond, the focus may fail because the goal is not something you really, honestly want to accomplish.  If I want to lose weight, but don't want to give up the food selection and quantity of consumption, then maybe I haven't yet convinced myself that my diet needs to change if I want the numbers on the weight scale to diminish.\n\nFinally, some of your goals may require things you have not yet prepared for.  If you want to be an articulate salesman, I hope you speak better than you write.  If you want to be a brain surgeon but are squeamish at the sight of blood and internal organs, well, you either need to train better for what you must expect, or go back to point one about realistic goal setting.\n\nGood luck.
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I motivate myself be focusing on one paticular goal.\n\nI keep thinking positively about that one thing pending on the circumstances.
333579
You lack motivation. The soulution is not more discipline or forcing yourself to move , but to find something you really like, something that motivates you.
266154
Reach deep down into the section of your intellect and think to yourself: What are the results of my actions?  If you will truly be satisfied by not doing something, don't do it.  Otherwise, realize that what you want can only be achieved by getting the work done.  Only do this if you are ready to do some serious "self" questions.
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I tried but didn't succeed
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Take life as it comes and try to experience it fully and deeply.  Recognize the worth of every moment, and do not worry so much about where you are trying to get - in all aspects, professionally, romatically, spiritually - instead enjoy the process of getting there.  The end destination for all of us is death, ultimately, and the journey to all the things we strive for is what constitutes our lives.  If we spend too much time waiting for our goals to be manifest, we will miss our whole lives in the process, because, let's face it, until we are dead, there will always be another goal to reach.  You get promoted to supervisor, you are happy for a while, but soon you want to be district manager.  You get the girl, then you want to marry her.  Then the goal is children and a family.  Sometimes we start to think "I'll be happy and really relax and start enjoying my life when..."  When is now baby, focus on the journey.
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Not possible. You have to have some discipline to stick with a plan. If you don't stick with a plan, you will reach your goal.
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learn from your mistake and don't look back\n\nthen set a goal to accomplish something, work hard to accomplish it, accomplish it, and dwell on that accomplishment!
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I think the best thing to do is to work on things over time instead of saving everything for the last minute.  I always found that when the last minute came, I would just keep putting things off.  Just set aside a little bit of time each day to work on something.  But, oh i know thats harder said than done.
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thats common, especially after a big accomplishment.  you put a lot of effort into something big, and after you finish it, what do you do now?\nTry setting new goals soon after you finish, so you can direct that energy into something new.
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So I'm not the only one!  Here what I do.  I set a goal, any goal.  For example, orgainize time by scheduling certain things at particular times.  Do not shcedule your whole life, just important stuff.  Then work on it not more than 20 mins each day.  (Give yourself a day off with nothing scheduled.)  This way you are training yourself to have goals and work on self-discipline in following a routine.  Remember, the key is not to devote too much time, then it becomes a chore.  You'll notice a difference after the first month and after three months you'll be hooked.
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Do a little bit each day instead of saving it all for the end.  Try to set a goal and stick to it. But you still need the will power to keep from blowing it off.
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Others have succeeded only because they have failed more than you have.  The key to success is to never quit tryin.\n\nMany people experience failure BEFORE success... you just have to pick yourself up and try again.\n\nGood luck\n\nBTW: It's said that your outlook determines your life's path... if you see the world as selfish... that's how your world will be.  Try having a more positive attitude.
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I know exactly how you feel! I always start things and then when they don't go the way I think they will, I just stop doing it. You can always think about how you will feel when you accomplish something. No matter how small it is, you can be proud that you actually followed through and finished a task. People tend to try and get the approval of others to feel good about what they have done. It feels so much better though when you are the one you are trying to make happy. Self-affirmation is so important! Even if you are all alone and don't want to finish something, just think about how you will feel when you are done! I try and do small tasks throughout the day, so I don't get overwhelmed by too many long-term goals. Hey, so what if all I did was vacuum? It is something that I managed to accomplish. I always try to remind myself that I need to focus on the now, and take one step at a time. I know we all want to focus on results, but that gets too frustrating and makes us quit. Focus on the journey! Good luck to you!
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Yea, hope and pray. Food won't do anything special for you. You should have practiced more. Now you get to see the results of not doing what you need to do to complete a goal.
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Try to set goals first then try to motivate yourself by thinking of the result of achieving this goal. Once you get motivated... you would be able to concentrate very easily. About the changes happening around .. well you have to ignore them... have to understand that you cannot let this things interfere between you and your goal. \n\nAlso finding people who want to achieve same goal.. and working for it collectively also helps to improve on concentration.
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Or better still - quit trying!\nSurely there are better things to do with your time !?