My 16yo brother and sex!?
912046
Tell him about  the risk like even though he wears condoms he can still contract stds like hiv/aids. maybe if he hears that he will think twice at least some people do.
288191
I wonder how old you are and whether this incident was actually a criminal offence against you, i mean attempted rape is an offence anyways, but if you're still young, its even worse.\n You should tell your brother that you would appreciate it if he would intervene and stop things next time one of his friends starts macking on you all heavy like that, he's your brother, he should be looking out for you!\n If you are under the age of 16, then tell your parents, or some other adult, because this guy that tried it on with you could be a sexual predator who may continue to try to force himself on girls. He obviously doesnt care who sees him do it either.\n Do your best to stay away from him!\n...and call the police if you're really concerned about this incident.
572911
your brother is at an age where he doesnt really know how to control him self at 11 years old they are very child minded he is at 11 years old,dont tell him to much because he will tell,try to get into some things that he likes and start off slowly then get him to eventually open up to you and get him to tell you at least one secret mum can never find out then you can rest assured and he can rest assured that you have his confidence and eventually you will be able to trust him you have to play his game and play reverse phsycology on him
964491
first let me know about your age, and masturbate in teenage is normal and excess is not good. it will not affect the sperm count
632265
Absolutely!  Why do you think teenagers get into so much trouble when it comes to sex and relationships?\n\nIt's hormones kicking in, and you will want it, BAD. \n\nIf you're not ready to have it yet, clitoral stimulation will satisfy you temporarily without penetration. It's 100% safe and you don't need anything but a decent fantasy and a finger.\n\nIf you ARE ready for it, I know you hear this from everyone, and there's a damn good reason: MAKE HIM USE A CONDOM. STDs are out there and you don't want them.
776898
It sounds like he is a closet gay guy. Your brother needs to sit down with a councler and talk.
784602
if you are a girl and this is your brother it would be in your best interest not to say anything to this kid. it is just going to make your brother look like a sissy. he has to stick up for himself. he might be really embarressed if you stick up for him. if you are a guy then do what most big brothers would do... kick his you know what
229584
Age is not a problem. Your brother shouldn't be a problem either. Talking and trying will be your best bet.  Go for it!
335656
dude, would your mom let your 11 year old sister/bro go out with a 17yr old guy/girl thats about to go to college? an 11 year old doesnt even knw what sex is, NO not a good idea, what do you think the parents would think? I knw how you feel, but your gonna have to wait till shes older. sry, and good luck!
831300
I think you are too young and that is way your brother is proteting you...  Or maybe he knows someting about Frank that you do not know...  Just ask your brother what is the issue  and that's it.
874693
Hi  there! 4 boyz your age, this is natural. You are exploring body parts and you are very courious about sex. You are exploring your body as well as others by watching this. Talk to your dad if you can about sex, If not , Then maybe an older brother. Watching porn is okay (To me) because you are courious about the human body. You should get sex education in school also. That also helps. If you want to stop watching porn, substatuite it by going outside with your friends and doing things.  Listen I hope this advice works for you. -HOTTIE-
568100
you should ask your mom or dad about it. actually they should have talked to you about sex a long time ago. you're to young to be on a public forum asking sex questions. you're gonna get somebody sent to jail.
158157
I'm sorry but thats really not safe or health. There is so much mental and pysical development going on between 13 and 18, its not safe for you or for him. If you two end up having sex (which you deffinetly shouldnt be doing if youre 13) then he could be arrested for statuary rape, even if you were willing. Please, do me a personal favor and find a nice hot guy your age! Good luck!
254545
If he truly loves you he will not care one bit if you tell him the truth- it is too risky to be in this situation. Please stay a virgin!! I got pregnant when I was only 16 and if I woukd have been a smart girl like you and thought things over my life would be much better right now.If you decide to go through with this just be sure you have condoms and talk to your mother!! it is much more embarrassing to tell about that have not yet happened than when something does happen.
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go to a dr.  Tell your mom its for something else.  Go in by yourself and let your dr know at the time of your visit you dont want your mom to know.  By law your dr cant discuss any sexual problems/issues with your parents even though you are a minor..  if you  cant go to the dr right away call and leave a mess to call you back when your mom is not home.  This could lead to other problems so go right away.  It also sounds like you could have a major infection and if not treated right away could lead to you being sterile
965791
Hello!! :o) Like some others who have already responded - I'm also curious as to how you know. But lets just assume that you 'accidentally' saw your son and his friend give each other 'hand jobs'. Contrary to what some guys say - a LOT of guys [especially young guys like your son] 'experiment' with each other. And more often than not - it goes no farther than 'mutual masturbation'. It's not a 'sign' of anything insofar as sexual orientation is concerned. [If it was - than MOST guys would be GAY - because MOST guys have had at least SOME same-sex 'experience'!!] But should you DO something about it?! Well... like what?! You certainly can't make it stop. You could - I suppose - threaten him or shame him. But that would just backfire and destroy whatever relationship you have with him. A parent always wants to keep the doors open [Emotionally speaking] and a sure way of closing those 'doors' is to make a child feel ashamed for being HUMAN. IF [and this is a BIG 'IF'] you have a good relationship with your son - and HAVE in past talked openly about things, including [perhaps] sex - you COULD bring up the topic in a 'round-about way. Without actually talking about him [and his friend] specifically [at least not at first] you could mention how normal it IS for kids to 'experiment' sexually with their friend. And let him know that THAT is OK. But also let him know that it's important to be careful about not getting carried away and doing things that maybe he [and his friend] shouldn't BE doing. THEN let him know that your 'door' is always open and he CAN talk to you about anything. AND that anything he tells you will be kept private. [And keep that promise!!] Saying anymore to him at this stage would probably just confuse him. I hope that helps. Craig!! :o)
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Hi. I looked at your old emails and discovered that  you are 16. That is the age I was when I was involved with a 24 year old man. Boy was it a journey! I could write a novel answering this question...\n\nfirst of all this guy was WAY beyond where i was in my life. he had experienced so much more than me. everything we did wasn't that big of a deal to him but it was to me. I thought it was really cool that he'd take me out to dinner and we ordered wine, he had a really nice car, money and a cool appartment... i only wished i didn't live with my parents. of course all of this eventually led to sexual intimacy. and of course it meant more to me than him. and then that led to me having twins as a teenager. then becoming a single mom. i did all this sneaking around behind my parents back after they found out we were interested in eachother because my dad literally drug me away from him and forbid us to see eachother knowing that he was 24!\n\nthe other thing is that if he's 24 even if you consent it is called statutory rape. your parents can have him thrown in jail without your agreement and at any time they want to.\n\nmy suggestion??? don't get involved with a 24 year old. i know it sounds coooooll. and maybe it is but it's not worth it!!!!!!!! it took me 15 years after that to finally start dating one man my age. and when i did i finally felt at peace in dating and a relationship. the connection between someone your age is quite different. and well, i married that guy.  \n\nnext..... a 24 year old guy should know better! if he is interested in you he's doesn't have it all quite together up in the old noggin. or he is extremely selfish and not thinking about anyting except his selfish desires to be with a very young woman! run! you don't need a guy like this! \n\nif you are lonely or just looking for friends the best way to do it is to think of something that interests you or something you are willing to try and get involved in it. it's the easiest way to meet new people... there should be a teen center in your area check them out this summer and see waht kind of activities they have. or volunteer working with kids this summer or..... volunteer anywhere you'd like to learn something about...... get involved in a hiking group or sailing or tennis or art or film making or ????? if i knew what you were interested in i could help point you in the right direction... but get out there! hope this helps. if you want to talk more email me, k?