My friend is mad at me and won't tell me why.?
926819
Yes - it's childish.  Tell her when she's ready to tell you why she's mad that you'd be happy to discuss it.  Until then - just stay away from her.
152533
6 years ago - what you're friend said to you was very insensitive.  It sounds as if she finally realized what she's done wrong, but if she acted as if nothing's happened and can't seem to recall the hurtful things she's said to you years before, mayB U need to remind her that what she said to you (when you were in a state a mourning) was very hurtful and let her know that her remark had placed a damper on your friendship.  Honestly, we're all human and we all do make mistakes with the things we say or do.  I'd say give your friend another chance, but be clear on the reasons why you haven't kept in touch with her all those years and be honest with how you really felt.\n\nAt least this is my opinion.  I've also learned from past mistakes and I've lost some valuable friendships, because I've never expressed to them how I really felt about certain issues.
642760
Maybe she was having a bad day.... Is she like this often. \nMaybe you should have asked her what was wrong? \n\nAlot of girls whether they realize it or not start ditching their friends for boys and maybe your friend feels threatened.\n\nMaybe shes on the monthly and had a headache....  \n\nBE A GOOD FRIEND AND            ASK HER\n\nIf shes still being rude without an explanation then she may be sending you a signal that your not as graet of friends as you thought.... \n\nJust try to bear with it, if shes your best friend...... but dont let yourself get hurt by this...
588413
she is hurtful and resentful right now give her a little time 2 stew but keep trying 2 talk 2 her.try coming up with a new way 2 explain it 2 her maybe she is just mad because you did not ask her help 2 keep the play going.you willnot know unless you ask her.bug her a bit if you like her as a friend and she is usually a good friend then try repairing the relationship if not give her a lot of space and move on.
691927
if he is a really good friend then just tell him that he hurt your feelings, he should understand and he may have not known that he hurt your feelings, and he won't know unless you say something.
943924
how about i send her an email telling her how mad u are. ill pretend like u didnt know i said anything. ill just say something like "did u know **** is really ticked off about u trashing her boyfriend all the time." get on messanger plllleeeeeassse
1186673
you need to tell your friend how she is making you feel. besides being on the computer, how is it that she makes you feel like you are being treated poorly. what she is doing may not be on purpose. sometimes people do or say things unthinkingly or because it is what they are used to having done to them and it becomes 2nd nature . \n\nafter speaking with her- if she does the ugliness again- at that moment say- when this happens, it makes me feel like such and such. after pointing out a good example of the behavior you do not like and she continues to do it- terminate the friendship. say. ya know i really like you alot as a friend but i cannot tolerate you treating me this way. good luck, best wishes and no hard feelings but cya later
153447
There is no guarantee that he won't get mad at you because he is the one who gets to choose how he reacts. I would confront him anyway, because YOU wouldn't be a real friend if you didn't... and if he gets mad, the best thing to do is hope that he matures, realizes what he was doing was wrong, you WERE doing what's right by telling him and he'll get over it... and THANK you!\nI know it's a tough situation to be in, but doing what's right despite the other person's reaction (no matter how much you love and care for them) shows good character and integrity.
784709
WOW, I wonder....\n\nWell, let's think.  Even though you were really good friends, you told him a lie.  Then you set off a chain of events that further damages your relationship, even just friendship, with him.\n\nIt doesn't matter what sign he is--I don't even need to know anything more than YOU LIED TO HIM, so why shouldn't he be mad and hurt?!
933807
it really depends on what you told your friend.\nif it is something that can hurt the relationship, than you have to offer your sincere aplogies...if he doesn't forgive you it's out of your court.  he then has control over wether or not the relationship can continue in a heathy fashion.\nBUT if you told your friend something that there's no point in getting upset about, that's totally his fault for getting angry.  then you have to say- listen that was not something that could hurt either of us emotionally, so i have no control over your reaction!
677395
You obviously hurt her badly and it is taking her some time to get over that. Don't push her, try writing her a letter explaining the tough time you were having (I am sure she knows but tell her anyway) and apologise for what you did.  Tell her what your friendship meant to you, explain how you have changed and grown as a person and see what she says.  She may be too deeply hurt in which case you must let her go but at least you have told her why you behaved the way you did and she may come to understand that in time.
372080
Wow, I'm SO PROUD OF YOU!  You are mature beyond your years!\n\nSometimes, we risk others being mad at us when we do things to help.  This is very serious, and you definitely did the right thing.  If she does find out, and gets mad, it will be hard for you, but not as hard, as you said, as if she were to seriously harm herself.  I hope you told an adult.  If it continues, and the adult doesn't do anything,  you need to keep trying until someone does help her. \n\nSomeday she will know that you were a true friend to her.  Hopefully, you won't have to deal with her anger.\n\nGOD Bless You!
336296
maybe that's coz u can't spell... lol nah kidding. Anyway, this question is pretty vague. Either u have done something to piss him off, he's busy with his own personal life, he is guilty of something that he thinks might have made u mad, he is ready to move on to another stage of his life without u, he is busy with his girlfriend, he wants to tell u something that he thinks might bother u (like sexual orientation maybe he is gay and he thinks that would make u mad)... just talk to him!!!
253372
YOU SHOULD JUST ASK. TALK TO HER OR HIM REGULARLY AND THEN JUST BRING IT UP, GET AN ANSWER AND CHANGE THE SUBJECT. IF YOU CANT DO THAT THEN ASK THE GIRL. SHE SHOULDNT GET MAD IF SHE THINKS YOUR HER FRIEND.
8366
If she is your true friend then go up to her and talk to her and tell her that you arent mad at her and that your friendship is far more important to you then wasting your time being mad. Tell her u care about her and just wanna make up. I hope it works out for u.
596909
There is a saying TO WIN AN ARGUMENT AND LOSE A FRIEND. \nSo even in an argument it is better to allow your friend to have the last word and win rather than your winning the argument and the friend getting upset and deserts you.\nI am really sorry to note that you had to have a fist fight.\nIt shows immaturity of both. \nDefinitely you have offended her mentally and physically and she is upset. There can be guilty consciousness too\nIn any case since she is your friend and you need her friendship and feels her seperation so much no harm in your apologising to her fir your rude manner and behaviour and begging to be excused and assuring that such a scene would never ever occur again. \nDont look deep into it and ask why I should do it. She is at fault She only has to ask my apologies etc etc.\nSimply follow my advise. BE MAGNANIMOUS YOU WILL NEVER REPENT IT
578422
Ignore him he sounds like a very jealous person.  As far as the girls go...you said your friends.  There is no reason you can't tell her how you feel when no one is around and if she rejects you he would never know.  However, if she feels the same way...good for you...don't worry about making him mad. (Just when you tell the girl how you feel...tell her that you have something to ask her and you don't want it to ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way and then let her know how you feel.)  Good Luck.