how to know that my hubby loves me cos he never express it.?
930631
Is he always there for you?\n\nDo he do the little things?\n\nIf you two have kids, does he take care of them?\n\nDoes he help you when he can?\n\nDoes he take you places?\n\nIs he always home at night?\n\nThose are all good things.  He may have been raised not to tell anyone about his affections.  You think woman are only told to be this or that?  Reality check, as boys many of use were raised to be part of the he-man mystique crap where guys were brainwashed into thinking they had to be "strong and silent".\n\nBad things, does he:\n\nSay he's working late?\n\nLeave often to go "out with the guys"?\n\nIgnore the kids?\n\nExpect "services" and then when he's happy it's off to sleep?\n\nNever helps you as "That's women's work" and yet the house is a POS?\n\nThose are bad things.\n\nIf you have all the above he loves you.  If not, check to see what's really going on.
265741
It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
590421
if he treats you like no man before him has, when he loves spending time with you as much as you love spending time with him. When he has told you all his deepest secrets ( you know the ones that shock you) when you meet his family and or closest friends. When he can look you straight in the eye and can say I love you and you can truly feel it. ( passion in his eyes)
122260
Love is expressed through actions not words- treat him with respect and trust.  Take an interest in the things he likes to do, and plan an activity around it.  Since I don't know you, I can't really give specific suggestions.
301045
If he never says "I love you", it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.  Sadly, guys aren't great at expressing these things.  But if all he is asking for is sex then probably not.  Or if he's trying to buy your love (like through expensive stuff), I'd be questioning it.  \nYou could do some online love quizes.  I have a favourite site, I'd give you the address if I could remember it but it's called something like "your new romance".  Google it, and have fun!
187867
Just snuggle up to him, look straight into his eyes, and daintily part your lips in a warm smile. He'll promptly oblige you, without even a word being spoken !\nBut if he does not respond even then, he NEVER will - even if you ask him to, in so many words ! \n...Happy hunting, honey !\n:-))
109939
OK LOOK WHEN YOU GUYS ARE TOGETHER ANYWHERE JST WHISPER IT INTO HIS EAR OR SCREAM IT FROM THE MOUNTAIN TOPS OR YO COULD SEND HIM AN E-CARD SAYING I LOVE IN THEM OR JUST TELL IN BABY I LUV YOU. BUT LOOK ONLY SAY THOSE WORDS IF YOU REALLY RELLY NEAN IT BECAUSE THOSE WORDS ARE NOT TO BE TAKEN LIGHTLY. THOSE WORDS GO A LONG WAS SO BE CAREFUL WHEN SAYING THAT TO ANYBODY.
255685
u dont need JE to tell u if u loved ur husband, u already know that u loved him very much and i'm sure he felt the same about u. death is the worst thing in the world to deal with and i think u need comfort and understanding. talk to family and friends about how u feel. sorry i cant help with the JE thing but good luck anyway.
252463
If me made this claim about marriage just prior to getting you in bed, then nope, he probably doesn't love you.  If he came up with the marriage idea on his own and without any benefits attached to it, then he probably does love you.  Tell him that you love him (I guess you have already done this) and see what kind of response you receive.  If you get something like "you too" or "uh huh" that's not a good sign.  If he responds by looking you in the eyes and sincerely says "I love you too" then he probably loves you.  Communication is the key here, if you can't tell if he loves you or not then you don't want to get married any time soon anyway.
170310
im sure most people would say that he really doesn't love you and move on or find someone new. but think about this: maybe he's just not very vocal about his feelings. there's a big possibility that he does love you he just prefers to express it in his own way. but if it really bothers you that much that he can't say it, it's probably best that you tell him how you feel.
249836
That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
453705
I love you. That took about 1.7 seconds. But he just won't say it, huh. He may say it tomorrow or he may never say it, that isn't exactly the strongest sign that he honestly loves you. There are many factors at work and it will be up to you to muddle your way through it all. Let me see if I can help you do that.\n\nYou will find as you age that Love will take on many faces. \n\nAt times, Love will make you feel like the happiest girl in the world. You will be so filled with It that Love will spill over and get on everyone around you. The whole mood of a room will change when you walk through the door.\n\nOther times, It will take your heart and stomp it into the ground. Just when you think it is done, it will turn and spit on you.\n\nLove will be the thing that defines different periods of your life. Love is better as a group activity but that doesn't mean you can't be alone in your feelings of Love also.\n\nWhat you have to look at here is your boyfriends comfortable zone. In some families the word love is used in everyday language. The children and the parents are quick to assure each other of Its existance. \n\nIn other families, It is said only at times when someone feels a strong need to assure another that they do indeed feel love for them.\n\nThen there are those families where speaking the Word is a bit uncomfortable and is almost or totally absent from their interactions. So...\n\nWhich of these fits your boyfriend's experience. Is the word so common to him that he might find it easy to say even if he feels only a little bit of it towards you? Is he someone that understands his feelings enough to say it only if he is sure of it? Or could he feel an overwhelming Love for you but still not vocalize it? \n\nHere is the defination of "what love is" as given in the Bible. It's not a definition of being in love. It gives a definition that defines what will be present if love is present. Even if the word Love is never said, this is how you will recocnize it.\n\n"Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,  \nit does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. \n\nIt bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails... So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."\n\nDon't try to force the Word from him. Don't think that hearing him say the Word is the definitive event that proves It's existance. Actions speak so much louder than words ever will. Instead, look for the signs of Love. Now you know what those signs are.
1024972
Always be true to your feelings.  If you never tell him, he will never know.  You never gave it a chance because you never told him.  He may love you and be holding back.  Wouldn't you want to know?  I know I would.  Tell him and go from there.  Good Luck!
1000199
I love him,I'm in love with him.He has captured my heart with his  magnificent love.\nIife without feeling his love=0\nI long to grow deeper & deeper in loving and knowing him.\nGod bless u....
90174
Hard to say without knowing your boyfriend.\nThere is a book called "The Five Languages."  In that book it talks about everyone having a different love language.  Some people express love by doing things for people, some by touch, some by spending time, for some they show love by buying things for ones they love.\nIf that is his love language it would mean that he is trying to tell you that he loves you, however without knowing any other information about your relationship than that, I can't say for sure.