what to do if ur partner starts ignoring u,even if he knows it hurts a lot?
922340
FIRST YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO YOUR PARTNER AND SEE WHAT IS GOING ON...HE OR SHE MIGHT BE DISTANT BC THEIR FEELINGS MIGHT NO LONGER BE THERE. YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHY HE IS IGNORING YOU. DO NOT LET YOUR PARTNER SAY THEY DONT KNOW WHY OR SOME COP OUT EXCUSE, YOU NEED A STRAIGHT ANSWER, BC IF THERE IS A PROBLEM IT NEEDS TO BE FIXED. AND IF YOUR PARTNERS ANSWER IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU ARE STILL HURTING, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS PERSON AND GO FIND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY HAVE WHEN THEY HAVE YOU. YOU DONT DESERVE TO BE IGNORED!
648509
If he doesn't understand you, then forget him. He's got problems.
155559
thats hard i know im in the same situation! remind him why he loves you! dont let him forget!
461574
do not say your sorry - you must first show it - get your stuff together - for give ness must be shown - not just talked aboutif you are serious and he is a good person , you may start talking - he is listening even if he's mad, and then you show every day you DO care and love him - he will mellow in time - how much time is unimportant- just keep doing the show thing - even stupid men can be retrained to see their partner cares from the heart
1108158
Either he isn't "really" interested in you or he is ignoring you because he might feel "embarassed" around you.  You need to sit him down and talk to him about it.  If he doesn't listen to you or doesn't want to talk then he isn't worth the pain.  Let him go and find a person who will want to be with you and talk to you in public.  Good luck!
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
1007554
move on. it's hard to make a relationship work especially when they're back and forth like that. if he thinks he'll hurt u, then he will. he'll think it's alright, cause you'll come back to him n-e-ways. find someone that'll b good to u!
1011839
if you separate you should give yourself one day of grieving for every month you were together. after that you should then try and find someone else. but first ask him wuts goin on with him. maybe he's having another problem and taking it out on you. try to find out wuts up with him and let him know that he's hurting you. then if things get worse or if he doesn't care you should end it for your sake. so you don't get hurt even more.
186974
hey ive been helping my friend w/ something like that q...now get a friend to help u by talking to him.if ur dating him tell ur friend everything hes doing wrong and if he is ignoring u then give ur friend a list of things u like and dis-like and one of them being that u dont like it when people do that kind of stuff to u mostly if ur dating him
469840
Just tell him you are very hurt, and leave him alone. If he wants to make it up to you, it must come from himself, not on your demand.
858985
It's a very big deal.It doesn't take a lot of money or any money to show some one you love that you are thinking of them.When he ignores you and you allow it you say it's alright and it isn't.I was in that situation before and I never asked for anything and that's what I got nothing.You show men how to treat you by accepting any old treatment and making excuses as to why you feel so neglected.It's a very big deal and you need to cut him loose,he's only interested in the comfort you provide.Screw EM"
419228
Forget him. He obviously forgot what it's like being your boyfriend. Do something your good at. Focus on things that you want to do.
579163
maybe, don't really know, he was hurt and you added to the hurt, but at least you wrote a letter of apology and an explanation, it all depends on if he reads it or not, he might be hurt and mad to the point that he just doesn't read it, if he doesn't reply in a timely manner then call him and keep calling him until he answers
553394
Take this as a learning lesson.  I did the same thing and I know how it feels.  Just remember everything happens for a reason.  You hurt his feelings so let him have some space to figure things out.
646839
Forget about him. If he doesnt treat you right then why should you even bother with him? he's just using you find somebody better that nows how to treat you like a lady. It may be hard to forget about him but its better then getting hurt all the time.
741334
Well, since you already told him how sorry you are and everything... it is up to HIM to decide what to do next. You have to give him space so he can figure this out. If you keep trying to talk to him to fix it, it'll just push him away even more. Just give him time.\n\nIf it doesn't work out, it will be alright.\nGod has a plan for you. He will give you the one in His time.\n\nAll you can really do is learn from this experience and use it to build the future.\n\n\n\nWell.. if you think he may have been using you, don't you think you're better off WITHOUT him?
537383
He probably is not clueless, he is just not interested. I noticed that when my boyfriend does not want to deal with something or someone, he just ignores it. Seems like the same thing is happening to you.