should i trust his honesty or his he using me?
918956
trust your instincts honey he is emotionally unavailable to anyoen you should tell him ty for his honesty but you have more respect for yourself than that, and you deserve so much more, pray about it and know that God made some one for everyone you need to concentrate on you and he will send someone to you, you can trust that!
47381
Communication is the key...if you trust him then you wouldn't think twice about the rumor...If he gets defensive then it could be that he's guilty...follow your heart and don't do anything that you'll regret...and keep in mind that rumors aren't always true!..Good Luck :)
999594
trust him, has he done you wrong before?
709164
I am in a simular situation and if you don't have enough trust in him to believe him, Then you should end it now. True Love is built on trust.
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
195113
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
259559
Guys like to hear that you trust them. Tell him you trust him, but be very watchful of his behvavior. If anything suspicious occurs, then talk about it; if things get worse -DUMP HIM! BUT, often times, guys don't change over night, and no matter how pretty you are, they still won't change for you - so you could save yourself time, and get rid of him now - but, the choice is yours.
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
193331
be honest with him . love him with actions not with words .give him time to trust you like he never did before  and make him feel you need him even if dont
117819
It pretty much comes down to this: You either trust him or you don't. There is no "in between" trust. So ask yourself this: Do I trust him? If the answer is yes then there should be no problem with accepting what he says to you. If the answer is no then you would be treating yourself with respect by not staying with him, getting on with your life and not looking back. Once the trust is gone it never comes back. Not truly 100%. The most important thing is to be true to yourself!
355737
Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.
1141751
How old is your relationship?  If it's a fairly new relationship...you're not going to get absolute total honesty right away.  He's still tryiing to impress you and woo you and will lie (even little lies) not to hurt you or he will do so to impress you.  If this is the case and its a new relationship... just have a little patience and wait until this bumps up a notch in relationship intensity.  If this is a fairly mature relationship... just confront him with your concerns... not in a hateful accusatory way... but in a frank, I'm confused about this way.  The way he chooses to respond to you will hold the answer you seek.  Good luck
354095
If you chose to go out with him that is your choice. However know that you might get hurt. Go into it knowing what your expectations are and let him know and do not expect more out of him then you think you can handle.\nI think it would be much easier to be with someone you can trust though that is just my opinion
221396
You'll just have a deep inner peace.  You won't have to second guess whether or not he is honest, sincere, and faithful.  If you have to guess at any of those then your internal/spirit man is telling you something isn't right.  Sometimes we have to take a big step back to really see someone.  Good luck to you!
229414
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
357255
Im just taking an educated quess from a guy but he may be just tring to get you to see her mistakes so you don't turn things into a rerun for him, honesty is always the way to go when it comes to your heart, just see if he feels the same as you and tell him. What have you got to lose? You shouldn't think he will look diferently on you because you asked.
574521
if he initially lied to you there's a problem. put yourself in his shoes, would you have just told the truth or tried to lie? it sounds like there are some underlying issues anyway because even if he didn't have anything to hide he should've felt comfortable enough to come clean. for this reason, ditch him girlie! the only 2 reasons he can have is that either something was going on and he lied, or he wanted to not upset you in which case he should've felt comfortable enough about your relationship to tell you the truth - either way he's gotta go! good luck hun, you'll find someone better :o)