What should I do about my boyfriend? Should I stay and possibly miss out on happiness or should I go?
916720
Sweetie, just because he isn't physically abusing you doesn't mean he's not still abusing you.  He's traded in the fists for emotional abuse.  That's what he's doing when he tells you he hates you and other hurtful things.  You need to get out of that relationship as soon as you can.  get yourself into some counseling so you understand why you chose to be with an abuser, and move on.  I understand completely where you're coming from, I've been there.  Since I've gone to counseling and stuff, I've come to understand myself so much better.  You will, too.  When you do, it will help you choose a different type of guy.....one that won't abuse you.  I've finally found my Mr. Right, and you will, too.  You just need to get out of this relationship.  Email me if you want to talk some more.  I'm a good listener :)
180380
Well, put it this way. If you continue to stay in this unhappy relationship, than ur only makin yourself miserable. So would u rather be miserable or just brake it off with him and be happy again? It's your feelings againts his...which one r u going to chose? Ask urself that!
727385
Don't beg or plead, you are much better than that! Let him go if he wants to go, he's the one who's going to miss out not you. PLus you are a nice caring young girl who had her whole life ahead of her. You don't need that b.s. in your life!! Find someone better!! Someone that is going to appreciate you and treat you like a PRINCESS!! Good luck and I hope that you find someone MUCH better! =)
538680
whaz ur final destination? \ndo u expect tht this love will turn out to be a marriage?\nthere are many points which u need to consider..like...ur economy status, society, family conditions and last but not the least how is the guy like?\nin times, we think wht we are thinking and analysing is right and everyone seems to be ununderstandable for u and u think tht they are wrong. but the fact is u know everything but u didnt accpet the reality.. reanalyse urself.\n\nin times , we want to stick to the fantasy world just for our pleasure. perhaps the pleasure satisyf's us mentally, physically and emotionally. \n\nif u are enough matured to understand a relation , then u would have never asked this question. so do analyse the terms of the relation and the ppl around u and ur boyfriend and ofcoursed urself.
153994
Ask yourself if what you're struggling over is worth it. Is it worth your happiness/relationship?\n\nIf it's not submit to him on that matter, if it doesn't greatly negatively impact your life or morals. If it is talk to him and tell him why this matter is so important to you.\n\nOr talk to him in a calm and rational matter (no screaming) and come upon a decision and understanding that both of you are comfortable with. If no decision or understanding can be reached, seriously consider leaving the relationship.
242428
Sweety love hurts, but it is not good to stay in an unhealthy relationship. If you are pouring out you heart to this guy and he gives you the opposite treatment, Why stay? Why be with someone that treats you bad? You deserve better. You need to realize that you are a beautiful person inside and out and you deserve much more than you are getting. You are probably afraid to be alone, but it's only for a short while, you will get someone better. Alone is good, less drama.
677909
Honey you are in a dysfunctional relationship and it is time to fish or cut bait. This is not love and you and he will only suffer if you stay together. Most people are so afraid to be alone that they will stay in a bad relationship until it ruins both of your lives. Make clean break and spend at least 6 months and get to know yourself again. My question for you is when was it you decided you weren't worth of better treatment. If he doesn't worship the ground you walk on then it's see ya, wouldn't want to be ya..........
944631
Maybe he's just feeling insecure about himself? I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we've definitly had our ups and downs..\n\nSounds like you're being very sincere and care about him SO much.......if YOU really love him stick with him make him see that YOU are NOT doing anything other than trying to help him and wanting to love him....Just make sure you follow your heart and if you decide to leave him make sure its for the RIGHT reasons ....
219312
I think you should leave your boss alone and stick with your boyfriend. Why waste time on someone like your boss who will never be able to devote himself to you fully. You will always be second to him. Please wise up and realize that he doesnt really care for because if he did he would be divorced right now. Move on with your life, because it is whats best for all people involved.  Hope you make the right decision.
1144240
if you're young, you should just cut him off and move on.  people are meant to have a number of relationships before settling down, no matter how long you have been with this one person.  it sounds like you are NOT HAPPY.  i don't see why you should settle for someone you DO NOT TRUST, DOES NOT SUPPORT YOU, is NOT LOYAL to you and doesn't seem to be making you happy.  you will meet someone else, no matter how much you think you might not.  i dated someone for 3 yrs thinking that i'd never find a better lover, person or provider but i have found someone EVEN BETTER!  it can happen!  don't compromise your standards or values for someone, just b/c you've put up with them for a certain amount of time already.  this relationship sounds exhausted and needs to end.  go out and live it up!  see what you want, see what you don't want (qualities current bf has) and explore.  no time like the present to live your life!  hope it helps...
211741
one mistake avery girl makes in her life is staying with her boyfriend that doesnt appretiait her, that doesnt care about her and that gives her more crap than she deserves. The only advice I can give you dear is this. Leave him but in the same breath I'll tell you this... You will never be able to appretiate the one that gives you the world or "prince charming"  if you dont go through the as*holes first. Relationships are a life lesson that teaches us to look for the things that mean most to us when we are ready to settle down.
727730
Go for it, what ever makes you happy. If you don't, and you end up in a relationship that does not satisfy you, you will regret not figuring it all out when you was free to do so.
413973
Is it that you don't trust him or you don't trust anyone? If it is just him, then whether you are right or wrong, move on. Without trust, it's doomed. If you have a problem with trust period, then you might as well stay with him and try working on your issues. Otherwise you (not anyone else) will prevent you from ever being happy with anyone.
538404
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
1178231
Most people go through periods in their relationship in which they wonder if the "grass is greener" somewhere else.  If you feel like wanting to leave much of the time, then you need to figure out what you are missing in this relationship.  If it is just a passing thought, then your relationship is probably fine.\n\nSit down and think about what your life would be like if you left your man versus what it will be like if you stayed with him.  Which gives you more of a feeling of happiness?\n\nMaybe you're not ready to settle down and need time to explore other relationships.  If this is the case, you should end your current relationship as if you don't, you will most likely regret it later and may even come to resent your boyfriend.\n\nIf you do indeed decide to stay with your current man, then spicing up the relationship would be a great idea.  Talk over and role play sexual fantasies with him.  Watch erotic videos together. Go out on dates like you did when you first met.  Try some new activities together so you have more in common.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from ny
271402
do you love him? can you live without him? would you die from a broken heart if he left? Can you love again? Can you trust him? Trust is very important in a loving relationship and if it is not there I don't think you can ever really be happy because you will always wonder..is he cheating? would you be happy without him? If your answer is no, then you should stay with him..you need to do what makes you happy..you only have one life to live. I believe that if a man really done all that cheating he really does not love nor respect you.\nWorry about the other man later, right now you need to think about how you feel about the one you are with. Ask yourself those questions. Good luck!