How do you get the guy you like to go out with you if he is your "friend"?
921741
Since it seems he has made it crystal clear he doesn't wish to be more than friends, you should move on and start dating others.  If he is upset my you dating, he will ask you out and you can be more than friends.  If he doesn't seem to care one way or another, you need to forget about it.
376497
Easy! \n\nDoes he call you?\nDoes he want you around?\nDoes he make plans with you?\n\nYes, he wants to date.\n\nDoes he tell you to call him?\nDoes he want you around only when he can hang?\nDoes he tell you about his plans but does not include you in them?\n\nSorry, just friends.\n\nTake it from someone that has: been there, done that.  Move on! You need someone that is genuinely interested in your time and will make time for you no matter what.
510440
I'm assuming your real question is "how do I ask him out such that he says yes?"\n\nHere's the trick:\nCall him up some evening (not a weekend) and mention that you're going out somewhere to dinner and were wondering if he'd like to join you for food and hanging out.\n\nThis will make it casual and not a "date," but if he says yes, it'll still give you a chance to get together and flirt with him.  You can do this as many times as you need to in order to feel comfortable enough to directly ask him out.
608902
Go out with him.  He obviously doesn't like your friend as much as he does you.
203028
First of all, self confidence.  Be brave, walk up to him, and say, Do you want to hang out this weekend?  The worst that can happen is he could say he already had plans.  If thats the case, if he's a nice guy he will offer a day or time when he's free and make plans with you.  If not, then he's probably not right for you.
367443
hey girl if your friend went out with this guy you shouldn't try to get with this guy but if you really like him you should talk to your friend about this little crush but before you do that you have to know how he feels about you and you also have to think about what you want her frinship or this guy cuz you probably can't have both!
651073
give him some signs that you like him. compliment him. or just ask him out like say hey i was wondering if u wanted to hang out sometime. u know what im saying.
159007
Just tell him you like him and that you want to go out. Take a chance, the worst that can happen is that he turns you down. Besides, you have to be open for the true love of your life to come by.
892098
By being straightforward.  Men in general and older men in particular are no nonsense, straightforward people.  If you want him, the way to get him is to look him straight in the eye and tell him in no uncertain terms that you like him as more than a friend, and you intend for your relationship to change to reflect that.
1164073
you should tell him and ask him if he want's to still be your friend. You can say "Hey you know I like you but it's just that I don't want to have a relationship with you. Maybe we can still be friends"
283325
If you're friends, he's already noticed you.  If he hasn't asked you out, he's just not that into you.  Let it go.
179664
Ask him out.  He'll either tell you that he's seeing this other girl, or he'll say that you're not his type but would still like to be your friend.  I hate being simplistic for such a difficult subject, but as the woman, you have the easier end of whatever young relationship you encounter.  If you say you like a guy, the guy is more than likely apt to jump out of his skull in amazement.
799218
If you want him to ask you out, I would suggest telling one of your friends to "accidentally" let it slip that you like him and see what happens the next day.  It might be weird with your friends and him if you went out with him, but your friends will get over it if they know how much you really like him.\nGood Luck!
72433
Don't do anything.  If nothing develops with your friend and the guy for a certain amount of time, let's say a month, then tell your friend you wish you could date him.  \n\nShe might be cool with it, if not, then you should really try to hook them up with each other, because it would be no fair to you, if she didn't do anything at all.
1139969
He likes you.  Obviously not your friend (no offence to her)  even if you dont go out with him, hes not going to go out with your friend.  He likes you for a reason.  So, you like him, he likes you.  And I'm sure your friend will find another guy.  I mean, if she gets sad about it, thats her problem .  Not tryingto be mean, but she cant force thi guy to go out with her.  You don't have to force anything, so I say go for it while your still young!!
712388
Yes, ask him out. You have more to gain than loose. If he says no it will not ruin your frendship unless you let it.
776595
Girl, men are like buses, one comes by every ten minutes, but a good friends are very hard to find. When he comes to ask you out, cut him off and tell him that your bff likes him.