Question for the guys?
929392
just be relaxed and comfortable, don't be too excited if he likes you back...that's a big turnoff. it will be good if you come off relaxed and have your act together. good luck.
209287
Just ask him the truth is most guys (unlike women) are straight forward and will answer your question.  It may be a little uncomfortable, but it sounds like it is the best thing for your relationship.
421222
Im a guy and a pretty shy one when it comes to that. I think it would be a lot easier on us if you ladies would speak your minds and let us know a little more. Besides, he would probably feel intimidated and you would probably keep the upper hand in the relationship if it goes that way. Personally I like it when a woman takes control and isnt afraid to be herself. good luck!
294211
They do make a good point, how old are you?  What kind of guy are you into?
827342
how bout ... Gorgeous? thats what i always use and im 17 so... yeah... guys ive dated hav never had a prob with that =) Good luck
9965
ahhh ... because they are "GUYS" of course :)
294668
It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
942389
I'm in the process of finding the same thing with my guy. I honestly dont know but I'll be looking out for answers. Plus to those who always reply with 'ask her/him' thats not always as simple as it sounds.
511895
Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
413614
It depends on the guy.
996824
It really depends on the guy...\nand if he maintains it right.
235898
guy: you have male parts.\n\ngay: if you are a guy and you like other guys.\n\nhow old are you?
344529
I look at their face first, a guy's smile is the best thing for me. But as they are talking to me my eyes do tend to drift elsewhere. I look at their crotches or their hands. I like guys that work hard but can stay clean and well manicured, plus if they are carrying a loaded weapon in their boxers its totally worth looking at. There was a guy I went to high school that was rumored to have been hung like a horse, nobody could look at his face after that one.
417599
comment some guy when ur with him.\ntrust me, ull know
1123235
We guys tend to giggle a lot sometimes shy when we eat in front of you girls YES US GUYS TOO! We like to play a lot with you, joke a lot ect. Call you all the time, get close to your ears, whisper. And most important are eyes are like metal when the girl is like a magnet.
409950
Hey, take it easy on a guy!\n\nI'm half and I could grow a "teaser" if I wanted, as could most NDN guys.\n\nGuess we figured we'll leave that up to the White boys!
692209
Depends on the man  :o)