If your husband had to go to prision for two years would you wait being you had a child 3 weeks after he went?
921178
Depends on what he is in prison for and how much you love each other.If you love him and he is truely wanting to change his ways and loves you then stick with it.Love is worth waiting for but also worth changing for
343834
wait sometimes bringing a baby in to the world at the wrong time is a bad thing and maybe your hubby to be is not ready to be a father yet. You both need to enjoy each other for a while cause when you have a baby things will bee different for all three you.
141702
i'd wait atleast three normal periods. technically you could, but prolly not a good idea.
380832
YES!  My husband and I both waited until our wedding night.  It was a wonderful decision.  I pray that my children do the same.\n\nYou will find a wonderful man who respects you and your values. Don't settle for anything less.
220095
When my husband was in the military, about to get out, and I was pregnant with our second child, we agreed it would be best if I moved back home to his parents to have the baby and he stayed in the state he was stationed in.  It was around mother's day and he told me I should expect a surprise from him, I was expecting flowers or something.  He called me and asked me if I had looked outside for my surprise, I said I hadn't, but I would, and so when I looked outside, there he was, he was my surprise!  He had gotten 30days leave and had kept it secret from me, even his parents knew, but I didn't have a clue! That meant the world to me, because I felt so alone without him, it really cheered me up and helped me through the rest of my pregnancy.
164465
i think that you should wait an month after you last had sex, but if you cant wait that long then try in two weeks after you have had sex.
1041154
Wouldnt advise it as your husband can show adultry on your part\nand not have tp pay any money towards you and he could walk away with everything\nIf there are childern involved then he will with out a doubt  get custody
958510
divorce your husband, and take a long vacation. when you come back maybe you'll be rational
853141
When I was still pregnant with my third son. There he was safe and alive. He was born and lived only minutes so I would say I wish I could relive being pregnant with him,even if forever.
1108999
ABSOLUTELY!!!!  (unless she has complications and doc has said no)  i did through both of my pregnancies, and every position i could get into was ok by me.  bang away, cause doc will tell you you have to wait 6 weeks after baby comes (but i only waited 4)!  really the only thing you should avoid is in the water because it can push up into the uterus and cause infection or problems.\n\ncongrats on the little one about to come!
466555
I would give him two months, this gives you time to make some phone calls and connections and will give both of you plenty of time to decide if this is truly what you want.
700485
Focus on taking care of the baby and trust your husband in the meantime.  If your gut instinct tells you otherwise, wait for the evidence to appear.
1065599
I hear you sister!  I really do.  Although his desire to wait is admirable, he has to understand that waiting for too long brings more health risks to you.  Your drive is so strong, and he needs to understand that.\n\nI've said it before, if you wait until you're ready, you will never be ready.  Sometimes you just have to jump in with both feet, and take a chance.\n\nYou may not yet own your own house, but so long as you're in a stable and loving home, with space enough to accomidate an infant for a time, then you'll be fine!  You don't need a big house with a big back yard until your kids are old enough to enjoy the yard, and until you have enough children you'll be too crowded in a small home.\n\nBeyond that, if he still continues to block your suggestions, then I would have to assume that he's simply not ready for children.  He could be afraid of what it could do to the two of you financially, and how it's going to affect your relationship ('cause it will!)  Perhaps he has just a little more growing up to do.\n\nThe best I can suggest is to talk out a contingency plan.  Set VERY specific goals, such as, in B amount of time we will start looking for a house, in C amount of time we will buy a house, in D amount of time we will start trying to have a baby, and if B and C don't pan out within E amount of time, then we move ahead with plan D anyways.\n\nAll the best!
227451
You were once obviously, thats why you have the child.  If having his kid wasnt enough for him to stay with you, I don't know if there is much more you can do.
9755
For the baby to gain all the benefit s/he needs then two years would be the ideal length of time.
699283
Honestly, I had 2 kids and I waited about 2 weeeks after my second cause my husband wanted to rush it (you know men).  But If it hurts, let him know and wait another few days or a week and try again.  They say not to use your vagina for 4 weeks though, but what happens when you are not ready then?  Do it when you think you are comfortable.  At least wait 2 weeks though!!
508223
They say that if people waited til they could really afford it before they had a baby, no one would have any children, ever.\n\nHowever, 24 is very VERY young. Other people having children around you should not influence your decision.  The guy you're dating, although you don't say much about him, has alot of children already that he presumably doesn't live with. Perhaps not the best support,having a baby is hard work.\nAsk yourself\nWill you live with your partner for 18 years or more?\nIs he a good father/do you want him to be the father of your children?\nCan you be completely selfless?\nCan you give up your life as you know it?\nCan you give a child the very best start in life?\n\nIf you can answer yes to those questions you are ready. If not, or if you just want a dolly that will call you momma, you're really not.