is it wrong to be passionate?
922252
Hi, are you a chinese? Your name sounds like a chinese name! Anyway, being passionate is definitely not wrong. Those who can't get passionate will then be wrong!!!
530563
If you are motivated by the promise of Paradise or fear the depths of hell you are missing the point and don't understand. If you understand what is right and moral you do those things because it is the good of all and it brings joy alone away from fear and promise.\nI would rather my girlfriend to love me because she wants too not because I promised her I would buy her something if she did. Likewise I want her not to cheat on me because she doesn't want to; not because I will leave her if she does. Doing good is knowledge of the good thing, do not need motivation or fear to do it.  When you truly understand you do it for yourself
427382
I'm a musician too and I say no..you'll recognize each others passion for music and how important it is to your daily lives. Non musicians rarely understand this 'need' for music in us musicians. They think its stupid or they take music for granted. But someone in the profession will be fun to share your love of the same things with. Relationships do come out of people sharing common interests.\n\nThe only problem I can see is that artistic creative people are very passionate people and can be tempermental too so your arguments could be passionate - but then again -the making up can be passionate too!\n\nI say - go for it!!
467698
No, its not wrong. You cannot control who you have feelings for. You have to let that person know how you feel, and see if possibly they are wrestling with the same problem.
59725
No...you're human.  Sticking to a commitment is very honorable, but fantasies are just that...fantasies.  Acting on those fantasies would be wrong, but having them is a part of the human psyche.
351519
No         \n\n\n\nbut i think its wrong
458277
Of course it's not wrong!  Focus on yourself for awhile until you think you're ready to undertake soomething that serious again.
438502
It is absolutely not wrong! Desire all you want! Even act on it (safely).
820688
being too ideal is at times ...not right
372746
It will come in time.  Not everyone is born knowing exactly what they are passionate about and how they can best hone their abilities to help other people in the world.  Some people are born with many interests, but no one true passion.  It takes years to figure this out.  Don't spend your time worrying, you will find what makes you happy one day.  Just be thankful today for what you have.
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well - it sounds like you are both coming at this from different angles.  I think you can have passion and romance with someone even if you are not serious or in love.  But other people don't look at it that way so you need to find someone to meet in the middle or find someone who looks at it the way you do
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If you deny your passions, that is deny what your heart truely wants or feels, those passions and desires will build up and punish you for your neglect of them. you can keep passions at bay by fulfilling them in little ways but do not ignore them completely. At least that is what I think. : )
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I think people say that because in all things there must be balance.  You must seek balance in yourself - if you devote everything to one thing, what suffers?  Enjoy what you love, fuel your passions... just stick your head out every once in a while to see what else is going on.
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What you like is what you like. There is nothing wrong with your personal feelings. As long as you do not try to force your feelings on others who do not feel the same way.
668175
there is absolutey nothing wrong with that.  if you don't feel it, just don't say it.  i personally save those words for only people i truly mean it to.  those words should NEVER just be given to anyone.
432329
I personally think they are equal. You have to have respect or there is no relationship and dito for passion. They may not go hand in hand but they are both huge parts of what make a relationship worth having. They are also both needed in order to show your happy with your partner. I have to have respect in order to feel loved, and the best way to show love is through passion...
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My actions are very deliberate and never without a cause. When I rebel, it is to something I am very passionate about; otherwise, it is not worth the energy.