What are some good conversation starters or holders w/ guys ((that will keep them intrested))?
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Alritey, these are the list of things u can converse with the guy that i can think of right now:\n1. look at his face, see if theres any part of him that bears ANY similarity with a goodlooking celebrity and ask him, has anyone told u that u look like ______ (insert name of celebrity)? he'l get flattered n frankly speaking, whether ur a girl or guy, wouldnt u wanna talk more with a person who just complimented u? it'll pave the way for convos cos now he'll be working to think of gd convos to have with u. not just u.\n2. talk abt what does he do for a living. sounds boring but its good for those men who loves what he does n wanna show it off to u. but in the event that he doesnt have a gd job, u can always show a lotta interest in knowing all abt it. if it bores u to death, then well ask him, well u sound pretty busy, looks like u dont have time to watch sports huh? this is where MOST men would go, oh nooo i love so-and-so team/sport... no dull moment.\n3. talk abt weird/sad/funny news uve heard from the newspaper/magazine article. \n4. ask him if he were to go any cuntry in the world right now, which one will he go and why? (ok this may sounds a tad corny but it always gets really good for me..)\n\ni guess u gotta remember that these kinds of things truly depend on either how skilled u r at getting a conversation flowing (not with just bringing up new topics, but continuing with the same topic n going on n on abt it without boring either one of u) or hows the vibe btwn u and the person ur conversing with.\n\nsorry but this is al ive got for right now. if i got more, i'll come again n edit :)
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You can start a conversation about anything... the weather, school, anything.  The most important part is to just try to relax and not look like you are trying too hard to find someone.  Girls are attracted to guys who look like they are having fun.  Compliments might work too.  Tell a girl you like her hair, or the way she smiles.  Good luck.
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Since I love flowers, that's what I would talk about!  Maybe ask them what kinds of plants they grow there... veggies, flowers etc... people grow things all over the world!\nFood, is always a good thing to talk about, everyone eats!Ask how to make certain things, if you let them TEACH you something about THEIR interests or passions, they will love you forever.  \n\nBe a good listener, don't talk too much about yourself (unless you are prompted) but always try to politely ask THEM questions. Ask about the seasons and what's it like  "in the winter" there... Ask about your boyfriend's family tree (sometimes you can find out about interesting lineage!). Ask about where THEY vacation, and what so they like to do on a regular night out. Ask about the funniest moment they remember about your boyfriends childhood.  Get them to open up and laugh, make them feel warm. And smile. Smile whenever you can, not a fake forced smile, but a relaxed smile.\n\nBut best thing to do is find out what their passions are... Listen, learn and relax.  Be yourself and enjoy!\n\nHave a great time!
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Well first of all there is no such thing as a good pick up line. Girls don't fall for that kind of stuff. At least not any girl worth wasting any time over. The best thing to do is to start talking to a girl as friends first, get to know her a bit, but not too much, just so that you could call her a casual friend. The best way to do this is ask alot of questions about her, and don't talk too much about yourself. Naturally humans see good conversationalists as those who ask questions, because in a conversation we love to talk about ourselves. But make sure you mention yourself a little. Also a little tip for keeping a conversation going is to start your next line with whatever she just said. For example\n\nyou: So are you planning on going on holiday anywhere this year?\ngirl: oh yeah I'm going to Mexico\nyou: mexico? wow, sounds nice, it's a really beautiful place during the summer. what kind of music are you into?\ngirl: I like a lot of R n B music.\nyou: R n B, cool, I like a lot of R n B. So do you go to a lot of concerts?\ngirl: Not really, but I went to see Destiny's Child before.\nyou: Destiny's Child, I like them, a shame that they split... etc..\n\nThis is good because the repetition of what she says makes her feel like you're listening, plus it keeps the conversation going. Even if you don't know much about what she's talking about, just ask further questions about it. "oh I don't know too much about that, what's it like?" etc.\nEventually let it evolve into natural conversation. Don't force things too much though.\n\nCompliment her, but not heavily. Just little things once you've gotten to know her a bit such as "your eyes look pretty today", but nothing too much and not too often. Also compliment her on things that don't matter so much, like compliment a freckle, her voice, her hand writing. Little things are often the ones that are mostly appreciated.\n\nAnd I know you said you didn't want to have someone say "just be yourself" but you know, what's the point of being with someone who doesnt want to be with the real you? Hope it works out for you.
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first impression lasts..don't ever forget that..\n\nso, be nice and be light with conversations..then, add a bit of humor and smartness when you talk...be sensible...when things went well...continue to be a friend...then go for the kill by being sweet, caring, open minded, exciting and a bit mysterious...be a guy who's willing to get into a relationship without losing the thrill of making us think what's going on in your mind..\n\nway to go...good luck!
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Try flirting. Smile at him, laugh at his jokes (guys LOVE that) try to engage him in conversation (ask him about himself, guys also love to talk about themselves) It's a great way to let someone know you're interested without having to say so, which could scare some people off.
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men are generally interested in a hobbie.  decide what interest you and visit a store selling related items....ask that good looking guy an intelligent question and allow the conversation to carry you into coffee,lunch, dinner and if your lucky, breakfast.  good luck...
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1. Be at least somewhat attractive. Im not gunna lie, looks are important.\n\n2. Most guys arent so picky, but at least be able to carry some sort of conversation that doesnt make him bored.\n\nIf all else fails\n3. Give him about 5 or 6 shots worth of vodka and shove your boobs in his face.
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join a group on things that interest you.. introduce your self.. and start getting in on the topics.. that way you will have some thing to talk about..
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I know it's a bit scary but try talking to them.  Useful conversation starters are Who, What, Why, When, Where and How.\n\nIf you like, go practice on someone else first.  Start small - ask an approachable looking stranger "what time is it?"  There, that was easy.  Now ask someone else for directions "Is there a record store round here?"... and keep going.  When you're feeling more confident approach the person you have a crush on.\n\nAsk them a simple question... if that goes ok, ask them another... then ask open questions that you can develop into a conversation, like "What do you think of Green Day?".\n\nGo ahead, give it a go.  Good luck.
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Find out from his friends or wherever you can what he likes, what he's into, his interests.  Then you become familiar with all of that.  Then you will have something to talk about that will be interesting to him.
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just start a normal conversation like your talking to one of your guy friends. at first do worry about the fact that you like them or if they like you or whatever your nervous about. Just be yourself and remember its just another conversation.
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Umm.. say hi introduce yourself! Go out there pick a topic and start chatting! Be his friend and if you play your cards right, youll be more than that!! In short MAKE HIM realize you exist!
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I don't know much about how girls should approach guys, but definitely don't send anyone to ask. This is because guys can get turned off by neediness, like you already presumed. Also guys get a big head and they like the rush of being liked, and they want more.\nWhat you need to do is create a scenario where you and him can get to talk, but directly. Any excuse is good. I assume this happens in school, so there are plenty of legit reasons to approach someone. Find a way to do an activity that requires you to contact several people, like when you have to sell junk to other people and stuff, and go and sell it to him. Then try to build rapport by starting a conversation (you know, change the subject a couple of times to something personal). If he follows the conversation, it's a good sign. That first step of talking is key. I swear I've learned this and I use it all the time just to socialize: any excuse works! What time is it, do you have change for a dollar, have you seen my friend whatever, did you hear about the new memo... etc. Just examples. Good luck.
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If it's someone you know from an organization to which you both belong or an activity that you have in common, suggest that a few of you go out for coffee or  drink to discuss plans or opinions or techniques, etc. While you're in that small group, pay special attention to the guy you're interested in.  Ask him his opinion, and at the end of the evening suggest that you get together again to talk.  \n\nAt that point, the ball's in his court. If he's interested, he'll agree to meet you or ask you out.  And, what's more, he'll think it was actually his idea!
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Think of some good open ended questions you can ask and some topics you feel comfortable talking about. Have a gameplan that you feel okay with and let the conversation just flow from there. \n\nAlso, positive thinking, quit telling yourself you are bad at one on one conversations. Tell yourself you are improving at them. Keep thinking that way and it won't be long til you do.\n\nRemember you have nothing to lose and he is going to be talking to you because he wants to know you. He'll give you all the time in the world to come up with the right words and he's probably nervous too. Also, just be honest that you get nervous talking one on one sometimes. No guy is going to fault you for that. Most likely he'll be flattered.
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just start off with something to make her laugh or compliment her. i know thats what makes me want to talk to a guy...it even leaves me wantin 2 talk 2 him more sumtimes. Hope this helped