How do I get attracted to guys?
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Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
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Sweet:  Being a male I think like a male!  This translates into being sexually attracted to the opposite sex.  Guys like to fantasize about "what would it be like" if you catch my drift.  You are gifted with beauty and beauty without brains is deadly.  I think you are smart enough to see the big picture concerning yourself (or you wouldn't be asking the question ) - right?  Focus on having "inner" beauty ... this is a major key in attracting the right guy for you without having to go beyond the "past kissing" point.  Any girl can spread her legs to attract any guy but you want a guy who loves you for who you ARE !  Continue to be rare and different by remaining a virgin.  The guys you are attracting want to change that - but don't let them !  Most school romances end up breaking off ... so; date around - have fun - do a lot of neat things .  It's a big world out there !  Good luck to you.
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I seem to be attracted to shy guys.
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no one is perfect, even if your attracted to them, something is always wrong with them....forget looking for perfect.....look for someone that will be your best friend and put you on the top of his list.  Meet these people through other people, get the word out you are looking to date and what you are looking for in a guy.  Go to places you like to go to, the guys you want to meet will be there, they will like the same stuff you do.
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compliment his style and the way that he looks. Always try to look pretty and cute by being yourself. Be confident, guys find that attractive. After having him establish that you exist, try and find some interest between you and him, but dont compromise youself in doing things that he only likes just because... Once you have found the common ground, you can ask him to join you or to join him.. Ask him out maybe if your up to it.. \nDont sell yourself to quickly tho.. he might get wierded out ... Just make sure that your around him long enough so that he has no other choice but to like you back....
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First of all dont always brag about yourself, Let guys do that for you. Dont be to avaliable either. Kinda play hard to get. now a days guys like it when girls make the first move. A lot of guys may like you but are to scared to talk to you if your really hot.
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just start a normal conversation like your talking to one of your guy friends. at first do worry about the fact that you like them or if they like you or whatever your nervous about. Just be yourself and remember its just another conversation.
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I normally don't even notice if I am attracted to a guy until after I get to know him. Also, how he looks to me changes as I get to know him.
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Do you have anyone you want to attract? Or is this a general question about being more attractive?\n\nLet's start with some basics: To share a life, you must have a life. So what kind of life to you have? Start with yourself, and see if you know what you and how you are going to get it.\n\nHaving said that: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you are attracted to someone and they are not attracted to you, guess what. Move on.\n\nAppeal is a funny word, but if you think about it, what appeals to you may not appeal to someone else. When you add the sex to the term, you have moved to basic drives: We use food to survive and sex to propagate the race. Food and sex. Sex appeal maybe adding more spice, but the dish needs to be on the menu.\n\nSex appeal. Be yourself, relax, and be patience. Stop worrying about something you already have.
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Certain gestures and postures make it quite clear your attracted.  Unfortunately, a lot of guys aren't sure that you're transmitting the message that, somewhere inside, they know you are.  Without words, it might take some extra time around that guy with slightly exaggerated gestures, and a good level of confidence in yourself.
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Just BE YOURSELF, and don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Act naturally and they will come to you. We like men who are confident in what they do. So be confident. You are probably very attractive to some women, you just don't know it yet. Come out of your shell and show them who you are!
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just give him clues but dont tell him directly that u like him.  And start a conversation with youre friends and talk about how hes not to shaby looking, dont tell them compliments about him just tell them how he is a good guy to have around theyll soon start to look at difrent aspects of him and then they might think difrently about him
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Find someone else, you can't always have what you want.\nI don't mean to sound cruel, but don't expect a guy to be attracted to you just because you're female.
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I personally am attracted to how guys dress, their body spray, and How they treat a lady. ♥ A romantic guy is the biggest thing i m attracted to. ♥ I m attracted to guys, i m straight -Ria
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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James, I would be glad to fill you in. One thing I like about other men is their attitudes clearly state "boy". Secondly, many men have attractive bodies (and each person has their own ideal "type"), as for personalities I like the funny and cute guys... if they're shy, that'll work too. Body parts that I like are the face (especially the eyes), and the back (although other gay men like other things.). When I see a cute man, I feel rather anxious. I feel like I want to talk to him, I feel like I want to ask him out, and I also feel sad that I live in a world where I can't just do that freely. Also, if I see a cute man but I'm around my step-dad (the one person in the world I can't come out to for some personal reasons), I feel angry that I might have missed my chance because I couldn't be "out" around him. Hope this helps. Contact me if this isn't clear enough for you.\nAloha,\nDavid
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Find 1000 guys, and you will get 1000 answers.  Take care of yourself, be positive and enjoy a sense of humor, and enjoy your life.  No matter what you "look" like, these things will do a lot to make you much more attractive to many men.  Don't be concerned about how to change yourself to look a way you think men will find attractive.  Just be yourself, and be comfortable being yourself.  Look around... there are so many men in the world, you don't need to try to impress the "most" of them.  You just need to impress yourself, and a man who is attracted to that is surely to come along.