My b/f kinda cheated on me and I don't know what to do.?
912723
LOOK NOTHING HAPPEN....WHATS THERE TO FORGIVE..\n\nBUT IF HE HAS DONE THIS BEFORE..MORE THEN LIKELY HE WILL GO ALL THE WAY SOONER OR LATER..THE BEST THING TO DO IS DUMP HIM NOW \nBEFORE IT GET'S TO HARD FOR YOU LATER.IF HE LOVES YOU THEN WHY IS HE PLAYING AROUND WITH OTHER GIRLS? ASK YOURSELF THAT QUESTION........WHATS MORE IMPORTAND TO YOU.....WHAT ABOUT YOUR SELF RESPECT...WHAT ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS........WHAT ABOUT YOURSELF SET GOALS IN LIVE ...THE QUESTION IS REALLY ----WHAT ABOUT YOU.....THATS WHATS IMPORTAND..IS YOU  NOT HIM .....NOT IF HE'S GOING TO BE AN ASS .YOU DESIRVE BETTER FOR YOUSELF.WHEN EVER YOU GET WITH SOMEONE...TELL THEM STRAIGHT UP FRONT---\nYOU WANT THEM BUT YOU DONT NEED THEM. AND STAND BY YOUR WORDS.YOU WILL BEABLE TO OVER COME ANYTHING.
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
884575
he has a guilty conscience, dump him, forget him and move on to someone more deserving of you. Once a cheater always a cheater
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
494046
Confront him with your insecurities. But don't go about it in an accusing manner. Rather, ask if everything is right between you two. Trust is everything in a relationship. If there are more signs that come up, then I would definitely look into it. But insecurities from your part needs to come to a resolution of if you do trust him or if you don't.  If there is real proof he is cheating on you then confront the issue. If not, let it be. Showing your lack of trust in him can be hurtful especially if he's been loyal to you all along.
836082
You really DO have to decide for yourself and what anyone on here says cant change that but if he was cheating on me i would break up with him, and plus if you never see him, than what is the point? I think you should find somebody better than that because you dont derserve that!\n\nGood Luck And Take Care!
395757
hey this happened to me....i dumped him as fast as i could say listen i cant be played like that....then he hung up on me and we havent realli talked since....you juss have to realize there will be someone else....get over the fact that you love him it doesnt matter....he cheated on YOU....dont let him get away with it especially twice...and before you do anything make sure you are positive he cheated on you and dont go by what friends say go by what you see with your own eyes....be strong cuz it does take a lot and it hurts so0o much when you find out something like that you just have to do what you think is best for yourself dont let urslef get hurt......YOUR supposed to be happy not just him....
263963
Take a moment to get the act of cheating to suck in and your emotions under control. Get all your thoughts together in a logically manner. Tell him exactly how you feel,in a lady-like manner because he will expect you to be bitter so don't give him that satisfaction,  don't hold anything back because you don't want to later regret not saying something. Move on with your life and don't look back, don't let him make a fool out of you again. Best of luck.
727890
This is his issue, he needs to resolve this one himself...He needs to know tho, that not everyone is the same.  Because he was cheated on before doesn't mean it will happen again.  What you need to do is move on, as hard as it may seem at the present moment, in the long run it will be fore the better.  Just know this is not you, its him and don't wait, he will come back with the same issues.  \nI was in the military and i have seen oh so many times relationships end because of one or the other cheating and heck how do you know he wont cheat? it works both ways...If he really truly loves you maybe you can work things out but, know this trust is number one in a healthy relationship, no trust, no relationship....He really needs to fix himself before getting involved with anyone....
645675
You just got played! No one made him do anything he didn't want to do. He cheated on you. Period. Can you live with that? Your answer to that question should tell you what to do.
1003212
Forget him...there was obviously a good reason why you broke up with eachother..and honey...he was cheating on his gf wit u ....what makes u think he won't cheat on u wit someone else??Find yourself a real man!<3
669226
It's your fault because You didn't say goodbye right then, past that, bs.  Once a cheater, always a cheater, find a new man sweetie.  \nAs a side note, i would look at the things he's saying I did to make him cheat to see if any part of it might be true or something I might want to change about myself.  Not saying he's right, because cheating is never a answer to anything, but people notice our faults better than we do and we rarely get to hear them.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
283531
first . . . your question didn't make sense . . . and if I get the gist . . . he cheated on you with her . . . \n\nSecond . . . you are to emotional . . . . calm down and relax and don't do anything stupid.\n\nThird . . . . dump him after you calm down
779022
Well, if he already cheated on you once, there is a possible that he could be doing it once again. But you never know, sometimes that is not the case. Well, also, it's ok for you to have lost the trust that you had in him because of what he did. I think that you can either wait and see if more things are weird or you can talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication and honesty is the best thing in a relationship and maybe that will work. About being concerned, I think you should be if he is trying to go on with that plot. (Which I really doubt). I think that you need to keep calm unless you see more wrong things but still be cautious.