im going on leave from iraq soon,do i go see a female that is using me as rebound or go to germany alone?
928121
I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this chick.  She's clearly using you, and you're letting her.  I understand that you guys had fun together and all that, but it's really not a good idea to be with someone who already has a significant other.  Eventually he will find out and it may not turn out good for one or both of you.  I would just go to Germany, relax a bit, go out clubbing or whatever to have fun... but just enjoy your leave.  Don't waste your time with girls who are only gonna drop you.
1005897
HEY SHAMODIAO2 I ALREADY TALKED TO YOU ABOUT THIS IN PERSON AND I SHOWED YOU THIS WBSITE SO PICK ME AS THE BEST ANSWER CUZ WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS LOCK THE JERK OUT AND STAY SINGLE FOR A BIT AND THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE GONNA DO I KNOW SO TALK TO YOU AT WORK MONDAY AND REMEMBER YOU CAN DO BETTER
746273
Depends on the length of the previous raltionship and your age.  With that the girls I dated after a breakup were rebounders and I wanted to use for a while.  I know it sounds mean and rude and everything else bad but...that is how it worked.  I am not sure if I meant it that way, but it ended up that way.  Be Careful!
360904
just forget about your ex. she broke up with her man and now wants you!! dude, you are worth more than that. Maybe you should give yourself a break from the gf drama and just date this girl or just be friends for now. Time is good for yourself right now cause it is obvious you still have feelings about your ex and this is not fair to you or the new chick. It is called rebound. Give yourself a break dude, even you deserve the best so take time to heal.
587927
Damn that sucks. Caught in the act. Damn you really are in some serious S**t. Well I don't blame your first girlfriend for not wanting to talk with you after she caught you getting a bj from another girl. I mean I wouldn't if I was her. Well lets just say, you'd have to pull some serious s**t out of your a** to get her back cause I don't think so she'll settle for anything less than a "I'm sorry" statement. As of right now, you're on your own. But don't be surprised that she won't want you back. If she does take you back, you better take your relationship more seriously with her. But good luck. And hope things goes back to normal. Sorry, but this is a problem that you have to cure for your self. I don't think so no one can help you but your self right now.
862428
nothing now.. just be there if she needs you after the big breakup.
831396
They pretty much work with you and what you want as much as they can.  However, you shouldn't need a "break" from BCT.  It's only 9 weeks and it's better to get it over with.  You'd be better off to try to work it so you can go to BCT, have Christmas at home and then start AIT.  Honestly, you don't want to be forced into taking Christmas exodus.  I don't know if it's changed, but exodus used to count toward your leave.  Kinda like mandatory leave.  If you take exodus that soon after joining, you'll be in the hole for leave days.  I know, because this happened to my hubby.  Then, when he came down on orders for Germany directly after AIT, we had no time together because he had no leave saved.  He went strait overseas and it took me 6 months to get there.  Just something for you to think about.  Ask the recruiter if exodus counts toward leave because if it does, you don't want to start in the hole.  \n\nAlso, in all honesty, you and your family need to learn to spend time apart.  Especially holidays.  I know you don't want to hear this and some will think I'm mean, but it's the Army life.  Our daughter is 9 and hubby has been home or able to help for 2 Halloweens.  He's been gone about half of her Christmas' and in our 18 years, I can't even tell you how many missed holidays or special days.  It takes a special and strong family to be a military family.  I hope you and yours are prepared for the lifestyle.  It's a hard life, but it's a good life.\n\nGood luck and thanks for your willingness to serve!!
488859
she may be controlling but she is your sister and when she is gone you will miss her because she wont be there to talk to (boss you around LoL joke) spend as much time with her as you can before she leaves trust me i had a friend i was not close to before he left to go to Iraq and he has left and i feel bad that i didn't get to spend much time with him before he left hopes this helps
890393
=is she were going there to pick up a guy I would say no, she should go by herself and just bee careful.  She might even take a girlfriend with her.
1030666
i think you should forget about her and move on. she was probably just trying to use you. find a new girl! a lot of japanese girls love foreign guys!
531234
asking question shows that got out of a very hurting relations ship. i will tell u something bring alone isn't that easy at all, specially when u see two happy couples u will wish for those days so leave ur self like this and u will find the right person and u should be careful this time
291093
Ask her if you can have some time apart. I hope that helped.
1168868
i just think u are jealous or scared that she might find somebody else while she is gone on her vacation  , u just need to trust her and love her and show her that u will be waitting for her   when she gets back home
248172
IF what you say is true...\nThen your time will come and you'll get your A#* beat down!!\nYour woman will eventually get the strength and courage to leave you and you'll live a very lonely life.\nPayback will come to you! Just wait!
346711
I've been there mate, sorry to say it, but she's taking you for a ride. She's using you when she find's it convenient. Sever this "relationship" before it breaks you in two. If she's willing to treat you like that, she's not worth it. She obviously doesn't have a high regard for your feelings, because if she did, she would have got with you totally, or not at all. Sorry to say it mate, but break this one up now, please. I know how painful it will eventually be if you don't.
662541
if i was u, i would rather suffer alone than snatching mi friend's gf. but since u like her, then go on....=)
868688
That dude Chris is right, if anything absence makes the heart grow fonder, and she'll come to you, if not, being a pathetic sack of crap, and crying around her all day will not make the situation better.  Distract yourself and move on... I would suggest booze in the distraction department.