Help.. middle school social problems.?
913216
I think that they feel you sort of betrayed them in a way, because you went against what they were used to.  They're used to having that Japanese group, and when you didn't join them, they were confused and hurt.  I think that you should confront the one that you feel would listen to you the most, and ask him/her what you did to make them feel they had to spread rumors and and hate you.  They might also be feeling the jealousy that you felt at your old school, when you wanted to break free of the clique there, they might wish that the non-Japanese would treat them like they treat you.
735056
speak to your parents, or you could speak to your teacher about getting help... you can do it!
212288
Whatever you do, GET TO SCHOOL BEFORE IT CLOSES!!!  Tell your mom or your neighbor or a close friend.  You could try calling someone in your class who is not exactly your friend...maybe someone who you wouldn't normally talk to.
1176913
Little girl go sit down and read a book and stop worrying about silly stuff! Get prepared for the sixth grade and stop worrying about whose gonna be there! Do your parents know you are in here asking questions? Go ask your mama!
1040790
Peer pressure is a good topic. There is also drugs, escpecially marijuana, which is a common problem among teens. Also try teens and reading and teens and video games. Rap music videos and tv and movies.
744423
Nobody is unsnarable!Try striking up a conversation and then crack some jokes and small talk.See how he reacts.If it seems positive keep it up.You don't need to do anything drastic since you are only in 6th grade.Aren't you?
774267
Teachers are there to help you - I asked my health teacher about a problem with one of my friends, and she pointed me in the right direction, so don't be scared to talk to them!\n\n**I mean my friend was having a personal problem - so I asked the teacher.... I wasn't talking like a cat fight with one of them, it was something different....
754540
This is a tough, but fairly common, issue. Obviously, your administration is either clueless or powerless in this matter. A couple things might work. First, I would call the child's parents and ask to meet with them and the child after school. Explain succinctly and directly what the issue is and how they would like to see the matter resolved. Often, however, a child who behaves like this has issues at home, so that may not work. So, I would try to keep him after school with you to help out in the lab or the classroom in some manner. Give him some responsibilities, which could help boost his confidence a little, and engage him one-on-one in whatever topics interest him during this time. You can subtely approach the issue of his behavior, but not in a forceful way. I find that having that kind of relationship with a student can help manage behavior without having to resort to severe disciplinary measures.
1080483
If you want some specific solutions, be more specific about your problems. Are they lesson-related, or homework-related, or teacher-related, or relationship-related??\n\nOtherwise, just relax and take things as they come. School is supposed to be the most fun you'll ever have in your life - so look at it that way and enjoy the good along with the bad. Just chill my friend...
65930
Just talk to people if you don't know them but this is reality so don't go actin as if you the bomb and stuff and if your in school sign up for somethin to make friends. Warning!!!!!!:Do not go talkin to popular people because they'll make sure to embarrass you until the end of school or somethin.
223420
GO to the school and ask for the school social worker, if there isn't one, ask for the person over the special education children, I do understand that that the child may not need special education, but would still be in the "special needs" area. Explain the situation and go from there. If they can't help ask ?? about who can. Please take care of this soon and don't wait till the child breaks down from the stress.
900088
Just hang on there 4 a while, im sure you will find that certain person soon. r there any new kids at your school? try talking 2 them. lots of people make friends like that. and if ther arent any new kids at your school, r there any people who don't have any friends at all? talk 2 them. and if that doesn't work, try talkin 2 a neighbor, if u have 1 ur age.
402415
talk to her. maybe she doesn't like to show pda at school. or she thinks ur moving to fast. tell her ur feeings and listen to hers. talking out ur problems is a great solution to everything.
685274
Well its nice that you would want people in the class to be friends.  But I don't see that happening because it is in the nature fo highschoolers to be clique-ie and vicious.  You can try to brnach out yourself and just be friends with different kids.  But the problem with that is that the new group you talk to will probably have a pre-disposition about you becuase  of where you are coming from.  They will then be apt to disagree, repel, and attck you.  Kids are animals anyways, just the few sophistacated and reliable kids.  My school tries to get all the kids to be "friends".  They have cheesy programs and 'reach out' activities, but that just makes me see how terrible kids are in the frist place.It is very complicated.  It's highschool and it sucks.
1110781
I had to do the same thing and it sucked. But fortunately, middle school is a pretty good time to go to a new school.  While some people will stay in their "clicks" from elementary school, most are trying to get new friends too.\n\nThe best thing to do is join a sport or club.  This gives you easy access to new friends that you can bond with and something fun to do as well.  \n\nAlso talk to your neighbors in your science/math classes so you can study together.  I still have study partners from 7th grade as friends.\n\nJust be open, don't be on the defensive and don't be scared of rejection :)\n\nGood luck!
1009195
i think you need to spend a little less time with yourself, and make some real friends.  picking up a schoolbook or two wouldnt hurt either, because its i beat off 8 times, not beated.
125073
What a problem, I wish I had a direct answer for you.  There is a website set up about problems in Illinois schools.  I am sure they will have an answer for you, or if you contact them, they will be able to help find one.  \n\nGood luck, keep fighting for you child!