I've been seeing this man for a month,and we've had sex 3 times already using protection every time.?
911986
Maybe, but doing it with a condom on is like trying to pick up silverware with welders gloves on. It's just better without.
599505
Clearly, you're too immature to have sex. You and this guy are at different places in your life right now. Dump him and get some education and maturity before you go for another hookup. The guy you are with right now doesn't have any interest in you except for sex - and you're better than that.\n\nGet rid of him.
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
263507
Sounds like new boyfriend wants to protect you. He must really care!
929202
Realistically, You should MAKE him use a condom, bu if that denies him having sex with you, you should at least take steps to protect youself by using a femidom of some sort. Many are free from clinics, just  like condoms can be easily obtained. Alternatively, find someone else.\n\nIt is most definetly NOT SAFE
671323
There is an eventual slowdown in any relationship, but slowing down to once a month is certainly below the amount that most 28-year-olds want.  I get suspicious when he says he wants "impersonal sex."  Sounds like he wants sex with people he doesn't know well, and after a year and a half, you don't qualify.
212802
Sounds like you guys may not be though. Either way,if you only see each other once in three months,it doesn't sound like much of a relationship. Try to call it off.\nIf he doesn't call you then he doesn't care about you,period. Do yourself a favor and move on.\nPlenty more guys out there... \nYou can IM me for some if you want...
734106
Why are you wasting your time on men that play games like this?  If you want a commitment and he won't give it but he wants the sex, he is just using you.  Stay away from this kind of user and loser!
669059
Are you sure this new guys isn't really after you for your body??  It certainly can't be for your brains...or at least your spelling and writing ability.  I just love needy, weak chicks who can't live a second without a man in their lives.  If man #2 didn't show up, you'd still be happy with man #1.  You said nothing that he had done wrong.  You should break up with #1 and stay away from #2 for a least a month so you really know what you want.
1065216
You are a lucky man. If you were married to me,  we would only be having sex 4 times a month. LOL
613840
hey, it not just the babies that you need to worry about, you have those diseases that can kill you. You tell him to wear a condom or leave you alone.\n\nIf you want to have unprotected sex then you have him go to the dr and get tested for every STD known to man. Then have him prove he hasn't been with anyone between the time he took the test and when you are ready to spread your legs.
395111
He just wants to make sure he has sex all the time. He is a bad dude..dump him fast.
406025
Get tested asap and not sleep with them without protection ever again.  How long has it taken them to mention it? It doesn't change them as a person, but you need to ask about their honesty from the beginning - the same with any relationship.  If there has been a lot of secrets/lies you need to ask yourself if you can trust them ever again.
833458
He's flat out plain using you. And don't expect him to tell you when hes sleeping with other women. You need to be tested for HIV by the way.\n\n\nJeez women are dumb.
601240
Either he's falling in love with you, or he wants to bang you.  \n\nAnswering this question becomes a lot easier if you've already having sex...
702064
He doesn't want you getting pregnant... He doesn't know if you are clean... He might enjoy the de-sensitivity of using a condom to help him last longer... Respect him his choice and give him head!!! And carry some condoms in future... :D
912046
Tell him about  the risk like even though he wears condoms he can still contract stds like hiv/aids. maybe if he hears that he will think twice at least some people do.