why are my friends so different?
919790
Ask your friends why they always side against you.
445652
Maybe you should try talking to them. Tell them how you feel, but make them promise that it won't afect your friendship if they don't feel the same way.
1098194
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
21807
Because people want other people to be like them. If everyone was the same then we would have another issue there in itself. Everyone is diverse. Just people don't realize that. We all come from different backgrounds no matter what color, sex, religion, race. We all have grown up in different ways.Someon might have grown up on a farm and someone else in the city, that is diversity. People are just too scared to want anything else or afraid on who or what they might meet, when in reality the person who is next to you could be your best friend instead they want to hide and not learn anything new.
292756
i had a friend like that. its a form of jealousy. they want what they can't have so they try to take what you have. or maybe she had a self-esteem issue.
607231
That's not always true. People have different personalities and it's just who they are.
8399
If your so called friends are treating you so poorly then I don't think they are really your friends to begin with.  Find new people to hang out with that really care about you for who you are and won't judge or make fun of you.
281762
There are many different types of friends - soul mates, party mates, dependable mates and those fair weather mates.  All have a personal value you place on them depending on how theyve treated you, helped you, or how you feel for them.  People can say they are your friend but only you can decide over time wether they really are!!And remember we test each other to truly see if a friend is a friend so if a friend pushes you into something you are not comfortable with - be the true friend you would want and tell them - its probably what they want to hear!(Always trust your instinct)
598599
yes they might be jeolous but you should not get better friends immedietley,you should try to ask why are they like that
1186797
All people are different including you.  You are different from your Sister, neighbor, friend, relatives.  Try embracing the differences as a way to broaden your personality and character.
754718
It's a side effect of having individuality.  The same differences that we find intriguing in one person can be annoying in another.  :)  The best way to deal with this situation is to deal with the person in a professional manner when required, and attempt to minimize contact with them when you can.
798729
They are not your friends. Friends are supportive of each other and do not judge each other on petty, superficial criteria like not being "in the high class people." I know it's not fair that you were supportive of them and they will not be the same way toward you, but you are better off without them. At the beginning of this question, I thought you were in high school, based on your description of your "friends'" behavior, but it turns out that you are an adult. All the more reason that you are better off free of these snobby, shallow "frenemies." Leave them to their high-school-clique behavior and start meeting and hanging out with real adults in your area, maybe from your new job.
654560
There could be any number of reasons why your "friends" are ignoring you. But I'll try one answer that is obvious and that is they may not be true friends. Be open to the idea that you may need to accept new aquaintances into your life and that they could become newer and perhaps better friends than what you have now. As we get older, our needs change, maybe it's just a case of you becoming a better and more mature person.
434278
Maybe, he has become more maturer with more life experiences and with age.  Also, when you are married to someone, you have more expectations from them then you would have from a friend.  Sometimes, with friends there is more emotional separation so you are more able to make clearer and better choices.
859407
well apparently you just need to find people who have the same interests (and standards) that you do...if someone screws you over then thats not your fault and they should realise that 'whatever they did to you' is messed up and apologize or risk losing a friend....and for the future, friends come and go so dont take it so personally
1062018
It really depends on your closeness. if u know each other well nd are friends for a long tym, then i think it's just for the fun of it. but a clue is: can you do similar thing to them? if yes then you are just friends nd nothing wrong with it. but if it's d other way round then probably they just lyk to annoy you and most of d tym they are jealous of somethin u hav...
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Like everyone elses....different?