An old ex gf has a really hot sister.  How long is long enough before making a move?
930709
Well... I say stay awy because you might be getting into something you can not imagine. But, on the other hand...life is once and there just might be more spark with the sister. LL.
831730
make your move,  she wont wait forever,  come on strong then back off,  keep her guessing a bit
573657
Get you into a three-some with their good looking female friend/sister.
1156226
Go for it.  What do you have to loose?  Get it while it's hot man, if you let her cool off, you'll be getting the cold shoulder.  good luck
261661
You make the rules, not them.  They are trying to force the situation, but if you just play it cool, you can continue to date anyone you please for as long as you like.  Trust me, if a 30 year old guy is getting it from a 20 year old chick, he's not dumping her just because.  They will both stick around, where you will have plenty of time to figure out what you may want in the long run.  Until then, tell them to relax and enjoy the gifts that life has to offer.  However, you may wish to keep the other guy to yourself.  That's your business, not a love triangle.  You are free not to choose.
1104971
If you've talked and both feel it's right, make the move. Sounds like you could be starting a beautiful family together.
679663
You have to make the move. You wont get anywhere in any aspect in life if you do not take risks. Chances are she still has some feelings for you. Tell her how you feel before its too late...or atleast ask her to hang out or go to coffee or maybe to something you used to do together. You HAVE to talk to her. If you are just trying to attract her do subtle things that remind her of when you were together but either way you have to show/tell her that you are interested again. Follow your heart!
839665
Yup....go, even if for a short time. Yup...tell your GF.  If you two are rocky...this will help both of you get some clarity....is it worth the energy to work through things or better use of both of your energy (and spirit) to keep growing as a couple?\n\nA note re the SGs...do yourself and them a favor...keep your distance. SGs do this to get attention....but, the attention they need is just a friend or stranger to validate them because they aren't being validated otherwise. \n\nSorry 'nough said...yes, I'm probably 'significantly' older...and w/ a daughter (consider that....you too may have a daughter someday...think about your future daughter....).\n\nDo have fun...and good luck w/ your GF!
922660
omg this was the exact same situation i was facing.. my last question was regarding this but the best frnd isnt such  a prob... if she is your best frnd then u shud knw how she will react and evn she should be encouraging if u let her know that this is wht makes u happy.. but dont wait others to tell her... but tell her once things are solidified.. just telling her that u like her bro might complicate things... as for him either u make a move or show interest in him or wait for him. i bet even he is scared of the whole sisters best frnd angle..
26378
doesnt matter...just so long as its somewhere you and her can bond and get close to one another..she is almost to that age where she will be hard to talk to..it will be good for you and her to have that relationship established
196328
Well if the sibling that you broke up with is okay, but their sibling is hot, then I can se it.
721068
I would be kinda mad if I moved and my friend dated a hot girl that I used to like....
492932
It would depend on lots of things as to whether 2 move in or not (who is she to you, whats the age difference if any,have you bothered to look for any true signs that she is interested in you?)even so- regardless of all that you should NOT - NO WAY just go ahead and do it anyway- if your feelings do turn out to not be reciprocated she may well give you a damn good slap!  I know i would if someone i didn't like just came along and planted one on me; respect her personal space and portray yourself as the gent you are!  Also if you will have to continue to see her it could get most awkward!  Do you even know if she has a boyfriend? Do you even know that she is straight - not from her smile thats 4 sure!  Also you just never know what issues a person has from their past - close, unexpected physical contact from some one could be quite disturbing for them.  I'm not saying any of these things are so; but how much have you REALLY truely thought it all through?  Or have you just thought you did!?(when really you were just playing your romanticised version through in your head?)  I honestly don't mean to be a wet blanket - but i would advise picking a discreet moment where you can have a quiet talk with her; explaining how you feel and finding out if she SAYS she feels the same-if she does you could always break the inevitably awkward silence with a kiss couldn't you?! but i certainly wouldn't reccommend stealing a kiss!And what's this "make ravishing love to her without saying a word" all about - don't you watch tv or keep abreast (forgive the pun!) of current affairs? ALL blokes are strongly advised to get a loud and clear, VERBAL "yes" to a straight, direct question - it's called consent!  Sex without consent/rape/illegal - there are many terms for it none of them being too good for either of you! PS Women should be able to SMILE @ random people (men or women) without running the risk of being jumped on! A smile alone means SQUAT!
1001516
if she is your ex its for a reason, and even though sexual attraction is there why give the oppertunity for mistakes. Who ever tells you can keep the relationship just sexual with no strings attached is lying especially in this case she was your girlfriend old tendensy will come out.\n\nThis week casual sex and only coming over for just one thing \nNext week half her stuff in your house and she's telling not to talk to the girl from down the block\n\nKEEP HER YOUR EX, after all you never bring trash back into the house once its out its out for good.
1138465
no... you dont have to do a physical browl for her like old historical days....\nthis is simply wrong.... if you are not alone in her mind, then it is high time you should talk to her about it....\nalso it depends on whether you came first in her life or the other guy...... \nif you came first.... then you can't do anything except talking out things with her... ask her as to what is the issue.??? finally ask her to decide between the two... \nlisten buddy, whatever is the case.... you cant force love on anyone... and i mean ANYONE..... \nAccept it buddy... she thinking about another guy , only shows that you are insufficient to satisfy her need for love.... \nnow, if you came second in her life, that means she is not able to forget her ex.... you have to love her so much and help her to forget that guy..... there is nothing much you can do, than just loving her....
257235
he is your sisters ex right so why not make the first move and invite him to a get together party maybe and have a chit-chat with him... just be your self when your infront of him... be simple most guys like the simple , approchable ones..c",
430700
There is a rule but it isn't written in stone.  I grew up with a friend who had a pretty hot sister. I didn't even think about it even though she flirted with me.  Years later my friend told me he always figured I'd marry his sister when we grew up. I about smacked him for not telling me this earlier.