my bf found out that i had a crush to my past officemate one year ago until now he can't give d trust like b4
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learn this lesson.....its gonna be hard to repair back to "as it was".\n\nyou kept it from him or lied to him about it.....not wise.
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You just have to prove it.  Perhaps you have slighted his trust in the past, and he is having a tough time trusting you now.  Anyway, perhaps when you are a tad older the trust will come back.\n\nGood luck.
1048103
Damn thats messed up. You have to confront him and let him know how you feel about what he did to you. And how you will never forget.
1134298
girl u are lucky to have some one like him probably he is busy cause of his work i will say just trust him and see how things go
297305
u shouldn't have told. it's a trust issue. now he knows that he can't trust u that's why he broke up with u.
779022
Well, if he already cheated on you once, there is a possible that he could be doing it once again. But you never know, sometimes that is not the case. Well, also, it's ok for you to have lost the trust that you had in him because of what he did. I think that you can either wait and see if more things are weird or you can talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication and honesty is the best thing in a relationship and maybe that will work. About being concerned, I think you should be if he is trying to go on with that plot. (Which I really doubt). I think that you need to keep calm unless you see more wrong things but still be cautious.
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No, if you were seeing each other for over a year, then you should be able to talk to each other about almost anything.  If he acts weird now, then yes, you may want to either step back or explain to him why you told him that.\n\nGood Luck!
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Wow, this is a tough issue.I just want to thank you first of all for this oppritunity. I want to congradulate you for going 2 1/2 to three years. Your relationship has lasted more then most marriages. \nNow you said that you lost trust, and I am not clear why you lost trust and then start checking the phone bills, but there must have been a underlining factor that triggered your lost trust. It could be the way of communication or time comittments with one another have changed. Items along those lines with past experence lead to this dis trust.\nI don't know your boy friend, but something tell me thatthere is a reason why he calls this female friend. evidentally she is giving somethins he needs that he is not getting from you. You mentioned that he communicates with the other woman about collage classes and the foot ball team. Does he talk about these things to you? If he does then he is hiding somthing, if not, then this is somthing that the other woman is providing.\nIt sounds like the other woman is interested in your BF. If it was only a friendship, she would be concerned about how he is relating to you.\nAltimatums is not good. Everyone looses in those cases. What you should do is communicate with your bf that you have no problem with the other woman, but OYou would feel more secure if you were included with these talks about foot ball and school. Invite the other woman over and go have coffee with them in your company showing that you and your bf are a comitted couple. If your bf is willing to comply with that then work from there and keep him. He should always make you his number one priority. You are his BEST friend. Everyone else is second. You have 3 years invested in this relationship, which is a huge investment, because you can not buy back time. \nAlso, always brag about your bf to everyone you two know Guys love that Mention good deed and attributes. Just don't over do it.\nIf and/or when things work oiut. You are going to have to forget the past and move on. Never mention the past  aginst anyone you love and they should practice the same to you, and everything will be Great, in a AWESOME kind of way. take care, Bye
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Relax!  Just because he did something in the past that was a mistake doesn't mean he is going to do it to you.  He was honest with you and explained it to you - you don't have a reason to worry.
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You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
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He can't be trusted you should move on Good Luck!!
1012285
Give the man some time.\nhe only needs to trust you. He feels like he could go through hell again to try and feel the best thing in the world. You need to prove to him that you really care and you are not like this other girl. Do the things you want out of him and I can promise you everything will fall into place.
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i also had the same prob\n\nafter a while he started seeing sumone closer to him and didnt tell me\n\nwhen i found out it broke my heart \n\njust keep a look out or leave him\n\nor move closer to him
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There a guy just like that in my life, I used to confine in him cause he was a good riend and he told me once that he like me and I should be with him even if it was a secret relationship, I told him I can't do that cause no matter how my bf hurt me I still love him and I am not going to leave him. I made my decision based on the vibes I was getting from the other guy. You need to ask your boyfriend's brother about his whereabouts on particular days. Use you woman's intuition, most of the time it is right and on clue. You need answers and you need them answered. But tell that guy exactly what is on your mind. Don't completely trust him. Take everything at face value and question other things completely.
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That is really tough and I'm sorry you had to experience it.  It's a leasson in life for you - be careful who you give your trust to in the future. Always be aware of human nature - and the ego aspect. \n\nIf it helps you any, she will get what she deserves from all this betrayal....perhaps the two of them deserve each other - and each will never be able to trust the other, knowing what they've done behind your back.\n\nAs for you, hold your head high and let people see that you are happy to be far away from two such sneaks as the two of them.  \n\nIn time, you will find someone who really deserves you, and would never treat you in such a way. Then you will not give this whole thing a second thought except in gratitude.
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I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
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Hi, I think the only way to really know is to look into your heart and go with what you are feeling.  If you cant trust your partner then maybe you shouldnt be with that person.  I know its hard, but until they give you a reason NOT to trust them, try to trust their word.  Its miserable when you dont trust your partner, so just believe they have been faithful until you find out differently.  You might find that they have been faithful all along.  Good luck to ya, Debi