guys, how do you like girls to act when you're with friends at a pub?
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How about be yourself. No one likes a faker.  Just don't flirt with his mates.  Make sure he feels you only have eyes for him - even if you don't.  One little tip you may already know and if you do I apologize in advance - if you are sitting next to him with your legs crossed - make sure they are  crossed towards him and not away as this implies disinterest.  Some women know this and some don't but if you cross your legs towards a mate of his you could piss him off.
830660
Be confident, even if your not just give the impression you are (women love confidence).  If you see her out and about with some mates go talk to her, but talk to the friends first to calm your own nerves and to get their aprooval of you.  If they like you and see your a genuinely nice and funny guy she will become more interested in you.  \nStart chatting to her when you feel more confortable and talk to her and try to find out things she is interested in(music interests, where she likes to hang out, favourite movie)... before you know it you could find you have alot in common and kick off really well. If however you come a road block and there is just silence between you or you feel too nervous, makeup an excuse and leave (eg "I have to go meet my friends now, they're lost with out me... nice chatting to you see you later in class").\n\nNext time you see her again go chat, see how she is, if her friends are around talk to them aswell...but most of all don't mumble and be assertive! Again if your conversation comes to a stand still again make and excuse and leave ("got to go back to class").\n\nAfter a few times of chatting to her(and her friends) and finding more out about her each time you should have a few ideas on what she likes.... the next time you see her speak to her and ask if she wants to go to the cinema to that film she's really wanting to see, or if your feeling adventurous ask her to go swimming (although not alot of women are too comfortable to get into a swiming costume with someone they don't know too well) either way what you decide to do, make sure its something fun and nothing too formal like going for a silver service meal..... and nothing like going to McDonnalds either LOL!  Also this doesn't have to be just you and her you can get her to bring a friend and you yourself bring a friend.\n\nAssuming all this goes well and you've been out a few times and really starting to find you both like each other go for the kill and ask her marry you.....just kidding. ask her to go out with you or go steady (what ever you call it in the US).
29062
Go to the restaurant ahead of time and make sure to get the best table, tip if you have too. Doesn't hurt to get know someone there. That way if you have any table settings or special candles, you can serve it up before hand and surprise the girls. Then, After the dance, since you have already secured a room at a motel and stocked it with booze, you'll be all set to toss a few back, WITHOUT getting crocked, just get a nice warm glow for you and a drink, maybe two for the girl and set to chill. Ahh, memories.
177071
Dude, don't try getting a girl just on a pickup line. If you rely too much on them, you're not gonna know what to say next. However, just for the thought, I'd say the best thing to do is to catch her off guard. For instance, you walk up to a girl in a bar, sit right next to her, and totally ignore her for about 30 seconds. As the bartender for a drink or something and act as if she wasn't there and you were totally uninterested. Whether she asks you why you just put your rude little tooshie on that seat next to her or not, respond to either her silence or question with a smile and, "You look bored." As you can see, it's the "foreplay" beforehand that should really get her attention. My advice is to focus both on this aspect and getting that same wordplay with that first line on everything you say rather than just memorizing an endless list of pickup lines. Gonna be honest with you, from my experience, what girls want is a fun and exciting guy who's unpredictable. Using the same corny pickup lines from yester-year or just being plain boring with "how ya doin?" isn't gonna cut it.
728412
If a girl likes you and wants to go further she turn her whole body in your direction making it obvious. If you go over to her say in a bar start to talk to her but stand toe to toe to her if she doesn't like you she'll step back given you a look to back off. If she doesn't chat for a bit keep it simple try to be funny keep smiling then if it looks good ask for a dance or offer a drink then take it from there.\nIf a girl turns you down walk away head held it happens all the time don't look like a sad puppy you'll never no who's watching.
19280
Pickup lines are lame. What you have to do is have an excuse to make someone talk to you.\n\nHere's what you have to do:  Walk into the room with your hands full of 4 drinks (they have to be closed bottles of beer or malt beverages so that you don't look like some creepy guy trying to give some shady drink).  With your hands full, announce to the room:  "Who needs a drink?"\n\nPass out one or two of the drinks to guys nearby to the girl that you want to pick up.  Then, hand the girl a drink, even if she already has one in her hand, say "here, have another."  If she's at all interested, she'll keep the drink, saying thanks or explaining why she likes another brand of beer better, etc. and you can start a conversation.  Open your drink and start chatting.  If she's not interested at all, pass out the last drink that you have in your hand to another person in the room, then "realize" that you have to go get yourself a drink.  It's a great exit strategy if you've made an ass of yourself, non-threatening to the girl, and instead of a cheesy pickup line you have an excuse to start talking to her.
364444
Why would you want to 'play a role'? If some girl likes you because of that, then she won't like you for who you really are. Just be yourself and let the rest happen. Although being on your best behavior wouldn't hurt!  :-) The only way to make long lasting friendships, whether they're the same gender or not is to be yourself.
415705
be yourself dont come out with stupid 1 liners try to be fun and funny but not toooo annoyingly funny \ngo out to places local pubs clubs ect good luck
579
Girls are people too.  Just casually find out what she likes and then ask if she wants to do it (whatever it is) with you.  As in "Did you see that preview for King Kong?" etc  You can always try "My friends and I were gonna do that (go see that) Saturday, wanna come?"
295450
First of all I would say the most important thing is to be yourself around any girls that you fancy. As soon as you start trying to be someone you're not you will probably lose your chance of bagging the girl you're after.\nThe second thing to mention is that there is a very big difference between a one night stand and a relationship although a one night stand may lead on to something later on.\nIt sounds like you are after a one night stand. I would say you should go about things in this kind of order.\n\n1.You've gotta set yourself up to win from the start. Make sure you are looking good and the chances are this will make you feel good. Make sure there is somewhere you can go to make sweet love ie. your house, car, hedge, bus shelter.\n2. Find a way of starting conversation with the girl you like the look of. Just stay relaxed, play it cool and make her feel like she's special. Try to appear genuinely interested in what she does (even if you're not).\n3. If you've been chatting/ flirting for a while and you feel comfortable with the situation the likelihood is that she will feel comfortable too. By this time you'll probably be recieving signs as to whether she fancies you or not.\n4. Start getting closer to her, put your hand briefly on her arm, side etc. If she doesnt back away try leaving your hand there a bit longer each time. If she gets close to you as you get close to here look into her eyes and you'll know whether or not to go for the smooch!\n5. If a girl will kiss you then she obviously atleast finds you attractive and maybe will consider sleeping with you. Im assuming you have plied her with alcohol since you met her- if not start now. Champagne's a good one. Its not essential for her to be drunk but it often helps.\n6. If you are flirting loads with each other/ feeling each other up then even if she doesnt sleep with you, you can be very pleased with yourself.\n7. At this point if she hasn't dragged you out of the bar or wherever you happen to be you may have to initiate the move to somewhere more private. Some girls like subtlety and some like blokes who are upfront. Sometimes it is good to say "do you want to come back to my place?" wink wink or "do you fancy coming back to my place for a coffee?" or "can i walk you home?"\n\nLast thing to say is that most girls want sex just as much as guys do!\n\nSomeone else can go into the details- my fingers are tired! Hope that's of some help.
518771
If they stop and look at you ... if they look at you a lot ... if they laugh at your jokes ... if they gaggle and act like drunk crazy girls.\n\n1. ask her Friends; \n2. ask her in person; \n3. flirt and find out;\n4. ask a friend to ask her\n\nHere is how it works: Women are territorial, like cats. if the person you like sits next to you in class, scoot a little bit close to her, like 1/2 an inch (half an inch). since women have their "personal space" and their "other people space", she may move farther away, this means that you are still in the "other people space", you don't want that, you want her NOT to move, ie. let you into her "personal space", so what you should do is: 1. Move closer to her while talking or sitting (not too close, like 1-2 inches). 2. See if she moves away, if she does not, then congrats buddy, she likes you! (because she let you into her "personal space").\n\nGood Signs\n1. Smiling with her eyes (She's pleased with you)\n2. Preening (the hair toss) (Kind of like what animals do)\n3. Facing you with her legs crossed, toes pointed at you (She's inviting you into her world)\n4. Leaning towards you (Wants to get close)\n5. Palms open, wrists exposed (Not hiding anything, making herself vulnerable to you)\n\nBad Signs\n1. Leaning away from you (She's distancing herself from you)\n2. Fingertap (She's annoyed/bored)\n3. If her arms are crossed (She's protecting herself from you)\n4. Her legs crossed along with a kicking motion (Upset, annoyed)\n\nGood Luck from Av2ene
184087
JUST BE YOURSELF...CALMLY WALK UP TO THEM...DON'T BE FAKE AND DON'T TRY TO USE "PICK UP LINES" YOU CAN USE PICK UP LINES THAT ARE CLASSY BUT NOT TRASHY! SAY SOMETHING LIKE, "HEY, (INTRODUCE YOURSELF), AND BE HONEST...TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DANCE WITH HER, OR BUY HER A DRINK OR JUST STRIKE UP A CONVERSATION ABOUT THE SONG PLAYING! A GIRL LIKES IT WHEN A MAN CARRIES HIMSELF WELL, SELF CONFIDENCE IS KEY! IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE AND YOU ARE REALLY TELLING YOURSELF YEAH RIGHT THIS GIRL ISNT GONNA GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY...SHE WILL PICK UP ON THE FAKE AND THE REAL...SO PLAY IT COOL! BE YOURSELF! AND HEY IF SHE DOES REJECT...IT'S OKAY...
252830
You don't have to act like an idiot, if you want to get noticed then go up to her and talk to her, tell her she looks great tonight, ask her to dance, if you cant dance, just keep talking, and if she asks you to dance, don't be embarrassed, just tell her you're not a good dancer. If she doesn't talk to you back or if she just sits there with her friends laughing, then don't by any means get upset, just smile and walk away, she was a jerk and doesn't deserve you. \nTips- If the girl is deep in a conversation with her friends- dont interrupt, that can be very rude, wait till shes alone or just sitting around\nRemember to be yourself nomatter what, dont worry what other people think because that doesnt matter.
1127757
If you can, have a party. Invite the people you know and like to bring friends. If you have people over on a fairly regular basis they will start to bring more friends over. Plus you can use your duties as host to get over some of your shyness...asking if people want another drink, etc. is a good excuse to strike up a conversation with someone you don't know very well. \n\nIf you don't have enough space to have people over you might consider picking a bar or restaurant that you like and try going once a week for a while. Eventually you will become recognizable and you might be able to strike it up with some of the bartenders/waiters or other regulars. If it's a bar the alcohol is a great social lubricant and helps everyone overcome shyness. Just don't over do it. If your into sports that is always a topic strangers can talk about.
389380
flirt, but dont kiss her but. At the same time flirt with other girls. Girls always dig a guy that other girls want. Then take it from there. Whatever you do, just dont tell her directly that you like her, otherwise she'll just tell you how good a friend you are, but somehow she doesnt see you "that way".\nin other words....\n1. flirt a lot with her.\n2. flirt a little with other girls, and let her know about it.\n3. dont directly tell her you like her.\n4. DO NOT compliment her. I repeat, DO NOT compliment her. \n5. dont slap her ass or touch her b00bs.\n6. stroke her hair, etc. and always keep watching her reaction.\n7. Be a gentleman and open doors for her, walk on the open end of the sidewalk, etc.\n8. on the first few dates, do not go anywhere expensive. \n9. Instead, just ask her out for a cup of coffee. Make it sound like its no big deal.\n10. Use deo, brush you teeth and bathe before going, use a mouth fresher, dont fart, and avoid scratching yourself on the date.\n11. You can laugh, but not too much, and let her do most of the talking.
275278
tell her to meet you at a bar.  tell her you'll be wearing a certain color.  wear a completely diff one.  If you see her and like her tell her you had to change because you spilled something on it.  If you don't like her you can fade away into the background and meet other people and just ignore her.  If she approaches you say you're not him and don't know who she's talking about.
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Depends if they're your girlfriends or if you're just meeting up with four of your girl mates for an evening.