how do u deal with fact that you have a sister who is always snichting on you?
921747
make sure you do things the right way, be good for awhile and eventually do the same thing to her
186488
Control yourself and discipline your sister. If your sister insist having ___ with you, consult her to a psychiatrist or tell your parents.
610764
Just tell them it bothers you.  It also depends on what they're teasing you about.  I tease my niece all the time, but if she tells me I'm annoying her, then I stop.
748597
i have 2 sisters both can be quite bad so i no were you are coming from one is older than me as one is younger i would ask her what is going on try and sort it out but dont be to hard treat her as a friend and she might open up to you in a good way good luck any more advice needed you can email me on your friend waiting  lauzmargretjones@yahoo.com
967624
tell her that you only have fun once in your life that you want to see your cousins tell her to stop hattin' on people that life is short she does't wast any regrets and her sister wouldn't like it either.
1120364
I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
615519
I think it is commendable that you care that your sister acts like she hates you.  That shows you care about her, and I don't know you guys, of course, but I truly believe that if you just hang on and stay out of her way as much as you can, she will come around.  It might take a few years, but my daughter acted like she hated me from the time she turned thirteen until seventeen and she suddenly matured and she is thirty one now and we are the best of friends!!  Try not to take it too personally, that age is just so hard for some adolescents, too much self-doubt and pressure to fit in that family sometimes take the fallout.  Good luck!
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if you wanted something new and she knew it confront her nicly, instead of being on the defense try saying  mom, i feel left out because you gave my sister what she wanted but i got her old _______. I just want to be treated equally.    that works for me and im 13 so it might work for you   good luck!
557224
You need to really sit your sister down and have a long talk with her...  Why does she do that to you?  Jealousy?\n\nYou need to tell her that you love her, but that you don't appreciate and are very hurt by what she is doing...  Give her an ultimatum..  If she doesn't stop, you are going to cut her off of your life...  It's mean, but maybe she will learn her lesson, if she loves you, she will stop....
514293
Shes still your sister and its pretty nasty! but if it rocks your boat....more power to you! Like seriously think about it!
584924
You can try a small get-together or a family reunion or a family Picnic. When you meet your daughter, tell her about your revelations and dont say anything that might seem as though you may be pointing something in her. dont compare her with the other daughter with who you get along well (as that may unknowning to you be considered a threat to the her.) \nI advise this to my mom whenever I get a chance to talk to her. We are 3 sisters and she cant get through to the middle one but with me she is fine, and many times she unintentionally compares her to me. presently She has stopped doing that and her relation with my sis has improved. \nBest of luck though, be friends! they are pretty grown up with their own family and somewhere in their heatrs they look for a friend in  parents
917497
well...I have the exact same problem! I know how u feel! I have a little sister. anyways.....I think well........you shouldn't hit her...sisters both get on eachothers' nerves...and get annoying. what I would first try to do is talk to her....see why she is acting like this...is it b/c she is bored? well take some time and play a little game with her and take a break from whatever your doing. Offer her something she can do instead of annoy you like....watching t.v, or doing arts and crafts....or something to basically occupy her....and don't forget to compromise. if that doesn't work try to ignore her....you getting all mad an annoyed gives her the sign the she is winning..and it eggs her on to annoy you more...so take a few deep breaths and ignore her and eventually she will loose intrest and go away....and if all else fails go tell your parents...ask them to do something about it......tell them in a calm way and not shouting or in a bad mood b/c it doesn't solve anything and it may get them mad. So just remeber she you sibbling and they get on ur nerves a lot....and all we can do is live through it..untill they grow out of there childish stages....well I hope I have helped!!!!!!!!! =]
1076183
Play mind games with her. Stare her down when she insults you, say "is that all you've got?" and come back with something snippy/sarcastic. But don't be so bluntly mean that she has something to tell an adult about. Or you could just not talk to her, and pretend that she doesn't exist.
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I kinda have the same problem.She competes and copies me, but i couldn't live without her, so I just be strait forward with her. Ya no. Eg. She copied my outfit, i'd say, hey u copied my outfit, frown at her and she'd get the message. That's all it takes. Communication :)
804681
Why can't you still be close to your parents without dealing with your sister.  If your sister is at your parents' house, then just don't go over there.  If she comes over while you are there, then pack up your kids and leave.  If her oldest child is mean to your youngest child, grab her oldest child and tell her to stop.  You're sister and her kids will only do what you let them get away with.  You can't change how your sister behaves or how she raises her children, but you don't need to let her stress you out either.  And nobody is forcing you to spend time around her.  If you want to spend time with your parents, do it when your sister isn't there.
1159505
Talk to her.... she will always be your sister....
606311
you may be having these problems cause of the issues u have with ur sis.. u are still u and just because ur twins. find ur own place as a person.. srry ur parents dont see it.. hold ur head up high.. succrrd in what ever u do.. dont let her bring u down.. u are special cause u are u.. honey as years go by things will change. u may have to sepeate ur self from her..