me and my mate like the same guy!!?
918724
talk to her about it and tell her how you feel if she is a real friend she will understand
539142
yes he is go for him...make your move:)
749824
You're both adults, so act accordingly! and if you do not intend to act on your "crush", then keep it to yourself!!!
966021
It's normal.  I'm the same way with a guy friend I like (except he knows I like him).  You can't help but feel that way.  It's human nature.  People are naturally territorial.  You'll eventually get over it.
708857
Well, you should be able to tell whether you have feelings for ted just by being his friend.. if you really like Justin that's a way to do it without hurting either one of them. BUT, life is too short to be with someone while wanting to be with someone else.. and no offense, but you sound young and if that's the case, you shouldn't be serious about just one guy.. play the field...most importantly.. find out who you are and what you want before you make any major decisions...do you even know if ted likes you? just have fun, enjoy life while you can, and don't hurt anyone unless its unavoidable- hope this helped
1069398
Guys thrive on feelin like they are sexually attractive to thier mate.Let him know u cant get enough of him! Gush over how hot he looks and how sexy he is and act on it.
970752
Sounds like you like Jake more, go for him!
294547
Hate to break it to ya, but sometimes two people just aren't gonna feel the same about each other, even if they love each other.  But, just to get them to like you is easy enough...try being yourself.  If you have something in common with the "dude" then you should try having conversations about it...but nothing lame where you agree to everything.  I mean have a deep conversation about it.  Once last thing, treat him as you'd like to be treated, that goes the same for every living being.  That should at least get your foot in the door.
37278
Yes you should tell him you like him since both of yall feel the same way about each other. you'll never know until you do something about it cause actions speak louder than words.
168886
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
330939
oh you like him, or at best the attention he is giving you and want to justify the fact that he is your ex boyfriends mate, well it is not a moral issue really ,if you fancy him and he makes a move tell him how you feel as regards his mate,being your ex and go with your heart.\n\nGigi
38325
girl, you are so right. if you like him and he is good to you and good for you, go for it. chance are, your "friends" are just jealous 'cause this guy is crazy over you. you true friends will want to see you happy. the rest will just fuss cause he doesn't fit in to their click. you are being more mature than your friends and it's nice to see everybody doesn't base everything on looks alone! good for you! good luck!
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don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)
558073
omg i have the exact  desire but with a guy too
1062375
Just let him know-- he already has shown interest in you. Honesty has always been the best policy for me. It may embarrass you both but at least he will know how you feel and you will know how he feels about it too!
656527
well ask him if he feels the same way about you as you do him.if not you can still be friends
204588
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.