Should I hang on to what we have or let go?!?
919555
If he misses your birthday, I'm sure there will be other disappointments as well.  Hang out with your friends, and have a good time.  \n\nI guess it depends on why he works so much.  Is he doing it so he can support the 2 of you?  Does he use work as an escape?  Does he just really love his job?  Is this a requirement of the job?\n\nHave a talk with him, and say you would like to spend more time with him.  You are having doubts because he is not reassuring you that you are important with his time.
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
1080226
have u ever heard someone say, "U DON'T KNOW WHAT U HAVE UNTIL IT'S GONE"?? If u were good to him, he will realize it OWN HIS OWN....he will soon think about u and the good thing he let go of....DO NOT GO AFTER HIM.....if he left u and he knows in his heart that he loves u, HE WILL COME back.....he may still have that emotional attachment but he is SUPPOSED to be with U!!! if in the end, he decides not to continue the relationship with u, then u should view it as HIS LOSS, NOT yours. U SHOULD REALIZE THAT IF HE WANTED U & HE LOVED U, HE WOULD BE WITH U & NOT WITH HIS EX!!! THINK ABOUT IT!!!
370008
For a minute I thought I was reading my journal...take it from me..I've been there...and I did give up...I gave up on looking for something that's just not there. We talked and I told him it just seemed to good to be true...but that's just it it is too good and you have to realize you are worth all the devotion he is giving you. He sounds like he may really be a good guy and if you keeping flipping out..he will leave..my man almost left me and we were in the same predicament, living together and he did everything right but b/c I had been hurt before I looked for the stuff my ex used to do and never found it...STOP IT!! before you lose the man that may really be for you!!! good luck and take my advice sweetie!!
857202
if you really love something set it free if it comes back to you its yours forever.\n\nwait and see
821266
i am a huge fan of this theory.  just like the old saying "if you love something let it go.  if it never comes back it wasn't meant to be but if it does come back, love it forever".  go with your first instinct.  it's usually the correct course in action.
922330
All I can say to you is to urge her to not dwell on the past, nothing good can come out of that.  She just needs to move on because her whole life is ahead of her.  She has many experiences to live through still, and many good memories are just ahead.  Being stuck in the past is self destructive, because there is nothing you can do about it.  I hope this helped a little, good luck!
684251
Think positive, have faith, move on.\n\nRemember that living is NOT an option, but it is a blessing. \n\n\n"For us to have complete satisfaction and contentment in life is not counting what we have, but knowing what we can lose if we let go..."
306201
you're fine...don't get hung up over it. Sometimes we do things because it just feels right...it doesn't matter if you wait one day or one year, it's what you are feeling that matters. Live for the intensity of the moment.
1018159
Sometimes you don't know when to give it up...sometimes it's better to let go, than to hang-on to something that will no longer serve you. You are also a little accident-prone---must begin to pay more attention to what is in front of you! You are a great organizer, except when it comes to yourself, then you prefer to go with the flow...Born under fixed-sign...29 degree Libra --- 1 degree Scorpio ... After October, your life seems to take on a little more momentum, and purpose! Keep on track, as the new year begins...
138118
I think it depends on the relationship if your young and its a fairly new relationship then I would not forgive and move on.  If its a long relationship and you are going through some rough times I would try to work it out, and see what I can do to repair the relationship, but if its something you don't think you can get over it's better you let it go because it will eventually lead to a break up anyway.
875687
personally i'd let it be...there is no good reason for keeping ties to them...say a prayer for them and then move on
188419
I think it all happend because you've been a little too much committed to him, and he knew it always. If you try to grab it so hard then you'll be ending up losing it. You'll have to let it go, and its not only your duty to put it together. My advice would be, let it go and show him that you don't care, and if it comes back in a short time then take it back, and know that he was always yours, and if it doesn't then you have to agree that it has never been yours.
308311
Go with the flow. If there is a possibility that you can get together on a permanent basis than great. If he/she is not going to leave there mate then you need to break it off and move on. Life's too short to cause yourself so much grief.
227257
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
106978
Okay first of all never forget to do what's BEST for you. The best saying that I have ever heard is this. If you love something let it go if it comes back it was your to begin with if not a lesson learned. My high school sweetheart was a senior and I was a freshman . He went off to college my sophmore year. We dated for two years and then we deceided it was best for us to split. It was a strugle, but I did it. Now after six years we are back in touch with we're not together, but who knows what the future holds
261672
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!