How do I stop hitting my wife....?
919128
I'd try a trial separation.  it would be difficult for you but look at the benefits:\n\n1.  Your wife has time to recooperate (sp?) and get her feelings in order\n\n2.  They say time makes the heart grow fonder.  Without her, you'll realize what you have.  Maybe then you can reflect on your past actions and see how being alone feels, only you may be in a motel and not in a jail cell.\n\n3.  Your wife will see the effort you're making to better yourself and hopefully give you another chance (as well as saving your reputation, if things don't work out and you're on your own again)\n\n4.  You can use the time alone to read books and get self-help in the meantime.  You'll have lots of pillows to punch if you still need to get anger out (just watch the hotel walls, heh heh).\n\n5.  Since marriage was the cause of stress, maybe now you can dedicate time to things you used to do that made you happy before you got married but that you couldn't do once you did get married. You don't have to be home by a certain time, so you an go bowling, start going to the gym (also a great stress reliever), hang out with some buddies you haven't seen, just start taking care of yourself mentally and physically for once.  Sure you won't have your wife to come home to, so this may go back to missing her more.  You have to find a balance.  \n\n6.  Remember the first time you looked into each others eyes, or the nervousness either of you had on your first date?  Howabout that first kiss?  Firsts are sometimes awkward or sometimes full of great memories.  I'd sure miss my girlfriend more if I imagined her being happy with someone else.  I had one ex girlfriend where there were times this was for the better as I realized I took the relationship for granted and complained too much , but if I had appreciated it more, maybe be comfortable with the relationship without going into a routine, then her and i might still be back together.  Right now I'm living with the folks at 33 years old, without a car and a job, and my current girlfriend of 1 years still looks at me like I'm hot.  Probably because I still take the time to talk to her and tell her how much I appreciate her understanding and friendship, that she knows I'm doing my best to find a job.\n\nWhatever you do I hope you make the right decision, and I hope you and your family have a safe and filling Thanksgiving.
914300
a good beating always works. mostly I just smack her ass very hard 10 or 20 times and after she's done crying I make her service me. I know I know I really should do it during the beatings but no matter how many dirty socks I stuff in her mouth I can still hear her wimpering and that just turns me off
997012
talk to a counsellor.\nthis is very unhealthy for both of you.\nshe 's never cheated you and why this bothers you...\ninsecurity...\ndon't let this garbage be back in your house..or you would keep on cleaning it..talk to her and share your feelings..\nbeing in marriage is being one..if one hurts, the other is hurt too... ask for forgiveness and give time with each other.
112509
Play games again like in the beginning...flirt, kiss passionately and then just walk away, smack a few asses playfully while doing housework or when the in-laws are looking the other way.  Take more personal time with de-stressing activities like bitching to your friends, yoga, or excercise to make him/her miss you more.  "Marital aids" like small toys or (especially) lubes of various sorts add whole new dimensions to your sex life as well.
1083465
Start making a good faith effort to make things go better between you. Then keep making that good faith effort day after day until it pays off. And then keep right on making that good faith effort day after day, or she will feel like you tricked her, and you will be worse off than before.\n\nIn short, there is nothing like a husband who tries hard to make the marriage a good marriage to make a wife feel friendly toward him.
714337
Tell your wife and both of you lecture the dingbat. Oh and you might want to take her house key away. Just a thought :)
266026
veena_2017satishkumar,\n\nDon’t allow anyone to treat you that way. He cannot do it without your permission. You suffer from low self esteem, or he wouldn’t even think of hitting you. The fact that you tolerate this misbehavior is regrettable.\n\nYour marriage is worth saving, but you must stop the violence, or it will only escalate. Your 2 children need to see a healthy marriage with 2 parents that love each other and love them. Set a good example for your children, so they will enjoy healthy relationships in the future. Teach them to stand against evil and win.\n\nI was married for 20 years and there were many problems for about 10 of those years, but I never hit my wife. Clearly a man has superior strength, but it is not right to use it to win an argument or to control another person.\n\nI will say a prayer for you. God bless.
1132736
HOW TO KILL THE EVIL COLD HEARTED ,LIFE SUCKING BIT** X WIFE OF MINE \n\n\nYES I DO HAVE ISSUES
1035686
She won't stop beating you up.  She is an abuser.  Just like men are abusers.  How can you like someone who abuses you?  Please try to think better of yourself.
148500
You need couples counselling. Crossing the boundry into physical violence during a fight is an extremely serious problem - one that won't go away by itself.
355968
hahaha..honestly this is so funny...okay..for whatever the reason is you cannot beat your woman..her power not even half yours..but i can understand in the minute she hits you, you cant think because of the pain and the normal reaction is to hit back, cuz it's all about reflects. but here's what you can do in time of phisycal fighting instead of beating her as a revenge, grab both of her arm so she cant move, and watch her legs cuz she will try to kick your hip and below. the safest position is hold her from the back, so that she cant move and you're not doing her any harm...
271575
As you're searching your neighbor's car for beer money to replace the 1.13 that your baby ate, "accidently" press the gas and just give your wife a little nudge...not pedal to the medal fast, but just hard enough to make her fall down and bang her head and knock her out. Drag her up to bed and poof a night all to yourself. Just make sure you bring her home some ice to help with the concussion in the morning.
813305
She does stuff to delibratley irritate you and make your life miserable. First, quit showing things irritate you. For things that normally get to you eventually she'll make a comment like, "Does this bother you?" Just say, "What?" Let her respond and your reply is, "Oh, I didn't notice so I guess not." Tune her out. \n\nThere are always people like this in life, eventually it will be your husband as well. I'm sure you do things to irritate her as well, we all do something that will annoy someone at some point in time. You may want to have a discussion with her and be assertive (not aggressive) and listen to her. Let her know you want to be friends and don't like living with tension on a daily basis. Explain you would also like to go back to having fun with her and you care about her. Also, ask her to stop doing certain things. Set two to three non-negotiables you want her to stop and ask her what you do that irritates her and you can change. It's give and take and don't take things too personally. \n\nSomething much deeper is going on with her and you that needs to get resolved. Or her problem is nothing to do with you, and she's just taking out whatever is going wrong in her life out on the person she lives with (which could be anyone else as well). Just be sure not take things too personally. Good luck!
657721
I went through the same thing with my husband.. you might try anger managment counseling or taking a trial seperation. Just remember that when you feel yourself getting to the point of explosion that you have 2 feet WALK AWAY.
259848
Stop getting any further, Love your wife and honor her. No good will come of an affair.
103661
SMACK HER IN THE MOUTH!!!  HOW CAN YOU TAKE ALL THE MOUTH NOISES!  Do it for all of us. :)
640817
Ask her to stop.  That's pretty much all you an do.  Either she respects you enough to listen or not.