i am going out with this guy, but my friend likes him, and they hang out a lot. what should i do?
915156
Cut her loose as a friend. Either by the cold shoulder or screaming banishment. Then get mad at him anytime they hang out and try to take up any time he might normaly spend with her. If you have to stage a fake, but really good reason for hating her ie:she stole from you. Then erase her number from his phone and spy on his email. lol I kick a*s at this advice stuff!
204962
I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
532828
This kinda thing happened to me a few days ago too...i don't know, if you like him (like-like) then you should make your move and tell him that you like him too. But if you'd rather wanna be friends with him, just tell him. When he told me that he likes me, i just told him that there's a line between being just friends and more than friends, and i'd like to stay just friends with him. And luckily, he understood and is okay with it.
174891
You need to choose who is more important to you.  When you give in, you will lose your friend.\n\nSince he screws around on your friend, you know he will screw around on you.  If the fling is worth more than your friend, go for it.  If you value your friendship, don't go near this person.
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy
777952
if ur friend hasnt met him yet and started going out with him then u should take a chance at it
266295
go out with someone else like his best friend or better yet ask him out
323219
I'm not sure I understand your question?  Don't do anything.  If your friend likes this guy, and he likes her (or him) back, then be happy for them.  You never know, he might be really nice once you get to know him better.
715014
I think you should hang out with both, just at different times, and eventually they might become friends again, you never know, so hang out with both!
858998
okay well since your shy have a friend (while you guys are messing around or something) ask are you guys going out? or do you guys like each other or just single him out and have them ask gee it seems like you like her...do you? and even if he says no see what he does like with his face and stuff.......
179664
Ask him out.  He'll either tell you that he's seeing this other girl, or he'll say that you're not his type but would still like to be your friend.  I hate being simplistic for such a difficult subject, but as the woman, you have the easier end of whatever young relationship you encounter.  If you say you like a guy, the guy is more than likely apt to jump out of his skull in amazement.
237246
You continue to be their friend. Take it from me; guys aren't normally friends with girls for nothing. I guarantee you there's something about you that he likes. You wouldn't be his friend if there wasn't. Just remain close to him and let the other relationship do its thing. If it doesn't work out between them, then and only then, do you tell him how you feel. Let him take it from there. The best thing you can do is to not interfere with or try and sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. If he ever finds out he will resent you. You will forever lose his trust and you two will never be together. Remain his friend, but don’t waste your life waiting around for his relationship to fail. You have fun, too!! Find your own guy to date. Maybe him seeing you with another guy will get his attention. But don’t date just to make him jealous; date because you want to. You never know, there may be a guy out there who has already fallen in love with you like you did with your friend! And you may miss out on a wonderful guy that’s been waiting to make you feel so special because you’re waiting on a guy who's already involved with someone else...
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
407546
If he is your friend I would just have a talk with him and tell him your feelings. You need to be sure you like him and want to be more than friends first thou. You should also be prepared because he may not feel the same way. Once you tell him your feelings and he doesnt like you in the same way it could cause stress on the friendship relationship. Thats kinda how it is when someone wants a friendship to be more. It seems like this guy is some kind of player too because you say hes talking to other women. What if you go out with him, he could be dating other women behind your back. Some guys say that theyre not cheating and that they will be faithful, more than half of the time theyre lying about that. You need to think out the advantages and disadvantages before you follow through with telling your friend about your true feelings.\n\n*Good Luck*
250713
You really are in a dilemma. If you feel your friend is more important, just tell the guy to go to hell, and stop bothering you. By the way, does the guy know your friend likes him? If he doesn't, your friend is the one who has to take the next step, without your help. best of luck.
815606
I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.
412058
Go for the one you like the best. But do not lead the other one on. You do not want to cause friction between the two friends.