I think I'm a lesbian but only fancy straight girls, what should I do?
930513
If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
894352
Well you should try to get to know her if you don't know her well already and gain her trust and then tell her about how you feel but make up some person and tell her your feeling about her. Then see what she says if she tells you your crazy then she ain't no lesbian and of she starts talking about a partner then you know she is taken. \nGood Luck!
948020
LOL  Boy do I know this one...Trying to figure it out.... I think, we tend to exude a confidence that most straight women do not...That is what they observe and is what they gravitate to.... satistics show most of us fancy the same sex at some degree..I think these women who have the curiousity bug unfortuanetly see us as play toys with no regards to our emotions.. This is where we need to take care...     So girls, Becareful!
1018076
Have you ever been with a female before?  I don't think you're a lesbian because you have admitted that you want to marry your boyfriend and have children with him.  I think you're just curious about being with a woman.  If it's only for the sexual aspect of it, why not let your boyfriend watch?  That should please all parties involved.  :O)
846074
dearie i went through the same thing with this group of girls in highschool. they were pretty, popular and they wer all the dream girl type with straight a+ gpa and every one wanted to be them. and i was pretty smart as well so i got put in the same class as them for 12th grade calc. and i had the same problem as you, around them i couldnt think of anything good to say my mind always drew a blank. and i got all miffed too. finally after a looong time i figured out that although i have no selfesteem probs and i know im pretty my mind had aldready put htese girls on a platform on my mind because of what other people said and i couldint act normmaly around them. but this was after i graduated so i never got to make friends, shame. but dont worry you arent lesbian or bi (not that it is bad)\nmy advice is to start thinking of them as normal people same as your friends
1077572
Start asking your girl how she feels about women in a sexual way. See if you can get her to admit that she's attracted to women a little bit, and start talking about fantasies. It'll be alot more fun for you and her if you're both into the third, as opposed to it being just you wanting to see two naked women. If you have a specific girl in mind for the third it may actually TAKE more time because then you have to convince two women to share one man; not an easy task unless they're both bisexual. If you don't know of anyone specific, you may actually need to troll a gay club, or a club that has a gay-themed night, to find a girl that's willing. \n\nAnother option is to explore the swingers websites according to where you live, but iI think most of these cost a few dollars for full access.
56809
How long have you been lesbian?\nAre you a virgin and you've never had sex w/ a women?\nMaybe you should watch some porn, those girls know how to get down, that should teach you a few things.They're pros to, even better.
65670
just ask yourself do you like to look at other guys only or both guys and girls. if you think some guys are cute you could be bisexual and if thats the case it's ok just act normal and talk to a girl as if you are straight and tell her that you bi but don't put as a bad thing.
810790
Lol, you really sound like you're dying inside. If you'd really like a tip, don't ask her first if she swings your way or not, that's more than just an unromantic question, that's a killer for whatever possible feelings that a straight girl may have on you. Express your feelings, classic way is giving gifts. Spend more time with her on common interests, see if she is also interested in speding time with you. Best  chance for you is to cultivate a great relationship, and not drop the "I like you real bad" bomb.\n\nBelieve me, if you spend a lot of time with her, she will know. Girls are very perceptive. Then slowly show her that you'er falling for her. Poetry works for me, but I'm not recommending it to you if you're not into sappy stuff, whatever rocks her world.\n\nAnd after all your wooing and pursuing (not agrressively), if she's scared of the relationship going "gay", she will drift away, if not, you can steal a kiss one moonlit night and check out what happens.\n\nSlow and cool mate, slow and cool.
845706
The best thing is to go with the flow. But one caveat--that does not mean ignoring the feelings you are having about other women. I think, if you feel inclined, you should pursue it just a little--like maybe stop by a gay/lesbian bar. One thing about bi or lesbian relationships there is not all the sexual pressure that in the hetro thing. It is much more about emotions (though sex is very good). Girls will be able to relate to you on the level you are at. Just be honest about your feelings and see where it goes as far as connecting. \n\nFrom what you say it may be more that you are lesbian rather than bi. Although, it is possible you are not at all and have just had bad luck with guys.\n\nOpen your self up to the possibility--beyond fantasy dreaming.
451427
if you're a straight guy, you'll be obsessed with girls to some extent for most of your life.  they're pretty great.\n\nbest to just accept that now, life will be much easier.
659257
try being bi a while. maybe meeting that special someone will change something. i don't know. if it's a matter of obsession with the same sex, there should be counseling for that. or addiction to sex. \ndon't go out with women already thinking about bedding them. try to build something first. friendship, casual dating, give it time to change into something more. maybe someone will give them that spark of interest. don't rush it. don't try cold turkey.
733638
I hope your into lesbian sex
854567
I have to admit it, I am a lesbian.
878727
Don't ever let anyone tell you who you should be friends with. If you are more comfortable being friends with girls, then be friends with girls. Whether you are homosexual or heterosexual, it shouldn't matter. There are many different men and women who feel more comfortable being friends with the opposite sex. \n\nIf you are heterosexual, the other guys are probably jealous because you have so many female followers. They either see it as you can date them easier, or that you are keeping the girls from dating them. Either way, it is not worth your time nor your efforts to deal with someone who is going to put you down because of your friends. \n\nIf you are trying to figure out your sexuality, then you should try talking to some homosexual peers, or a counselor. Sometimes just finding out if your feelings are shared by others can help. \n\nGood luck, and if you would like to talk more about this, please don't hesitate to e-mail me...I'm always here to help!
580469
Being attractive does not depend on being lesbian or straight. I know pretty straight girls and pretty lesbians. The reason why you think there are more pretty straight girls is ecaue since, numerically, there are more straight girls, statistically, there are more pretty straight girls BUT there are more ugly straight girls than lesbians too. There are less ugly lesbians than ugly straights and less pretty lesbians than pretty straights just because there are less lesbians in the first place.\nDon't worry you'll find the pretty lesbians too...\nGod luck!;)
457696
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.