Do nice guys really always finish last?
924846
the thing is to not go for the loud outgoing people, they usually like to think they're great and enjoying bragging about it. the best type of people hang back and if you don't look you won't find them. the nice guys are just out there waiting to be found, get talking to everyone you can find and you will soon discover one!
6176
If you are trying to say that girls/women are nice at the beginning and then not nice further into things...I would say guys can be the same way.\nIt takes time to truly get to know someone...and no one is perfect.
134961
poverty, power is nice but most are just golddiggers looking for the easy way out. \n\nor... nice guys finish last
964495
they don't because the nice guys are usually to shy to make any romantic moves. It would be best in this case for the girl to make the romantic move, if the nice guy likes her he will be eager to let it happen. If you are the nice guy then at the end of the date or night just clam up and tell the girl sincerely your are not very good at being romantic, just the fact that you admit to this will open up a few possible scenarios, 1 either she dumps your ass for not being man enough or she will giggle and initiate a move of her own, if there's a silent awkwardness just lean into her with a kiss, her reaction will say it all
29808
People tend to be passive aggressive at best.  SO, this is a comon reaction.\n\nHowever the comment that 'last guys finish last' is actually flawed.  Mainly because most nice guys may finish last in short term relationships and endevors, but, in the long run, they usualy tend to finish ahead of the pack, because they know how to properly play their cards, and learn from their's and others mistakes.\n\nAs to cheaters never prosper; in short term relationships, and endevors, this is actually false; those who tend to cheat, or bend the rules, usualy do very will in short term things; however, over the long run, cheating can lead to cut cornors, misplaced aggression, and usualy failed relationships.\n\nSo, as you can see, both comments are subjective to the type of context that they are used in.
201799
Nothing's the matter with you. Don't rush it and don't lower your standards! He will come along, just be patient and don't give up looking. Have some fun in the meantime so you don't get bored, but never settle for second best.
522828
most definitely not, but then again i am a wimp/niceguy a one girl guy but girls always go for the type that like to play the field, whats that all about? why are women always complaining about never finding a nice guy but never notice them when ones about?
643916
the nice theory which is nice guys finish last.
778712
Can a guy be too nice?\n\nThe answer is yes. How is this possible? The general rule is that by being too nice, the relationship becomes too platonic. What this means is that the emotional state is more like that of being 'friends'. The level of attraction then naturally goes down, because you will be seen as 'just a friend'.\n\nDoes that mean you have to be a bad guy?\nGetting the balance right is the most difficult thing. Some guys are naturally selfish in a relationship and need to work on being less self-centered (I guess being nicer).\n\nOther guys, especially when you are crazy about a girl or a guy, can be too nice. Thinking this is quite natural. That a girl or a guy is the center of your world and that they alone can make you happy. Depending on the realtionship, especially if both partners do not feel like this, it can sometimes come across as overpowering, or as dependence or neediness. Which will not work either. \n\nDoing things you like, creating a good feeling in your own life and being confident with who you are, seem to be some the best qualities. Being happy in your own world.\n\nFriends make good lovers\nHowever sometimes, you can connect with someone so strongly that your friendship becomes stronger and stronger and stronger. Until it naturally develops into a relationship. Though, I think for this to happen there has to be an amazingly strong deep bond and perhaps a degree of unwriten mutual physical attraction.\n\nI hope this has helped. I was sorry to hear about this, especially if it happened unexpectly. It may not be that you are 'too nice'. But you just didn't meet the right girl. Seems like ya got a lot to offer, this aint the only gal in the world, get out there.
1097808
Depends on what male you ask.  His is always gonna be above average!
1145070
Your probably not his type, but since your so nice he would be a fool not to have you around, but will still look for Miss Right...You need to find someone who appreciates you for you...and believe he will miss you when your gone...guys, don't look elsewhere when your gal is willing to treat you right.
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
590958
not all guys are like that, the cool jerks are, but nice guys actually care about you
385163
Because nice guys finish last. look at it this way....\n\nClark Kent (the nice guy) was always mild mannered, and polite. but do you think Louis ever gave him the time of day?\n\nSuperman on the other hand could tear anybody a new ass.\n\nWho did Louis go for????
623556
there is lots of women that like nice guys. the bad guys usually get the attention because they make a move first. go ahead and be nice, but not shy.
573015
some guys like that. In my case I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get..haha, some people are just shy or something.
70131
The debate of "nice guys vs. bad boys" has been raging for quite a long time. The nature of being a "nice guy", however, is commonly misunderstood. It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided, as it is the "bad boy", the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.\n\nIt doesn't mean that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate, etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define what makes the "bad boys" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls. It is sexuality - the "bad boys" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.