So gay and hiding it or straight and comfortable?
924544
I don't think  this guy would shoot at you for turning him down.  I think he would shoot at you for leading him on.  He asked if you're guy and you said no; that should be enough for him.
948051
Straight.  It's not uncommon for straight men to like or even prefer shemales.  They still want to stick their d**ks in a c**t -- they are straight.\n\nRegards,\n\nReyn\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
632605
How can a gay person know what it is like to be straight?
1070870
are you gay now or what?
518071
well If I was you I would wait till a good time(you'll know) then tell them that you are curious and you would feel uncomfortable with anyone else and since I am already gay,there will be no strings or emotional ties after wards. I would just break it down like its an uncomfortable issue but you couldn't think of a more comfortable friend to experiment with. "Use Protection"!
1109946
If you come out, it should be about you, not your friend. You could mention to your friend that you might be gay, but dont be trying to 'convert' him. You are either born gay or you are born straight.
673213
Im afraid that you are gay at this time.
37876
being gay is a choice.
132300
You will find if you dig a bit deeper in history than the current right-wing religious norm, homosexuality has existed as a natural state since the dawn of time and has often been a celebrated and more "enlightened" state of existance.  Whether this is true or not is up to you personally to decide, not your neighbors or family.  You could easily find a way to suppress your "gayness" through religious or philosophical means, but deep down it won't make you any less gay and the dichotomy of living a lie will have severe consequences on your long-term mental health.\n\nStart reading everything you can get your hands on, both the "religious viewpoints" and the secular (don't make any decisions without exploring both points of view).  Its ok to be gay, don't be a cliche...
203949
No there is nothing wrong with it. Its just who you are. Just like rockers show and dress like they lke rock and the same with rappers. If thats what you like than wear it. Plus no one will truly know unless you show them how gay you are and then they might even aproach you
452734
Acceptable at the shore. Otherwise gay looking but not necessarily gay.
457064
Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
284025
Is this a case of striving for the "easier" option?  From your question it seems like you recognise that you ARE gay but would wish for the "simplicity" of a "normal" life. Fantasy can be all consuming, but that doesn't make it REAL. \n\nI would certainly advocate your seeking counsel - to get at the root of your depression and loss of libido.  I wouldn't go so far as to tell you to look to becoming "straight", however.  Should that be the outcome of your treatment, so be it. \n\nYou are what you are: gay, straight or somewhere in between.  Once you both know and accept yourself (and your sexual orientation), you'll be able to move forward with your life, enjoying the journey into old age.  Moreover, you'll look back at this dreadful time and draw so many positives from it - Pride in having survived, emotional resilience and the tools to not only look at life but LOVE IT & LIVE IT!\n\nMy very best wishes to you, in finding your answers.
1016243
the question is... are you gay? becoz if you are, you're up to it. and if you're not, then you're straight. it's either you go that way or this way
1129515
Probably not gay.  He had an interview in Playgirl back in the mid to late 70's.  He mentioned the way he likes to be approached by a woman wanting him for sex.  So I say he was straight.
681988
Unusual, yes, most straight guys I know are freaked out by gay men.  I wish I could find a straight man that is comfortable around gay people.  My best friend (whom I live with) is gay and I would love to find a man that would be comfortable with my best friend .
935538
a closet straight?  he told you he is bi but more gay than straight.  what's the problem?  you want every person in the world to know he is bisexual in the hopes that no one will sleep with him except you...you sound very immature and jealous/obsessive.