How do i get over someone???
931045
At the time you may not see it this way but my motto is "everything happens for a reason". You can't always see the reason at the time but later on you will look back down the road and agree. Don't stress the situation so much, both of you should talk about making compromises, and just go with the flow. Things will happen in due time and if its meant to be it will be!
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
797592
the best way to get over a guy is get under another
329005
When you can quit thinking about them. When you know you can let them go without concern. Not that you won't always care but this that its different. You have to be able to tell yourself you can move on and your over them and know you mean it. This is the hardest thing in the world to do. Don't make the mistake of using another person to try to prove to yourself its over. Not fair to you or the other person.
633750
You will get over it.It takes time.Try to do something to help yourself get on with life.You will never love the same way again.Each time will be different.But you will find another wonderful person to fill that void.If you two broke up I am sure that you can find someone who will be the girl friend of your dreams.It all takes time.
566045
All I can say is that time heals wounds and you will think you are never going to get over him but time will do it. Try not to think of him if you start to think of him start thinking of something else. Stay busy all the time. Put away anything that has to do with him like stuff he gave you and don't listen to the same music that the two of you listened to. Put pictures of him away in the attic or somewhere its not easy to get to. Then one day you will be able to look back and it will be a lot better. All of a sudden you will not think of him as much and you will then be on your way. Good luck I know its hard. It is one of the hardest things but if you ever get hurt next time you will be stronger.
989721
it'll take time to get over someone. let time heal your wounds and go out and have fun with your friends. that always helps. if you have pics of her hanging on your wall,....take em down. put it in a box and just move on. you'll find a much better love as you move on and you may think back on this one day and think "what was i thinkning?".
850785
You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!
207526
My best remedy is a carton of chocolate/vanilla ice cream and a night out with the girls.  It usually takes a while to get over a guy, especially if you had really strong feelings for him.  Give yourself some time, things will work out.  You will find someone else better, just give it time.
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
83228
Try keeping urself busy, if u keeping thinking about the breakup you'll nevr heal, hangout with ur friends, find things that will keep ur mind off the breakup\n\nWho know maybe u'll find someone else. =-)
233536
Why cant she be with you?\n\nIn any case, if thats final, just move on. It'll hurt for a while, but you'll get over her. Who knows, you'll probably end up meeting someone so much better than her.\n\nBest of Luck.
300677
It takes time.  I'm still not over my ex and that was 7 years ago.  I know that doesn't sound promising, but that isn't what life is about.  You learn to deal.  As time goes by it gets easier.  If you really love someone they will always hold a special place in your heart, even 50 years down the road.  Don't try to get over it.  Cry, listen to sad music, wear pj pants, and eat ice cream.  Everyone needs to wallow.  Eventually you will want to start living again and be happy and you will. Don't try to be friends though.  When things are that serious and one still has feelings and you try to "just be friends", the one with the feeling, you, will always get hurt in the end.  You'll realize it's not enough and you'll never heal that way.  Just remember not to shut love out because of one jerk.  Life is too long to live it alone and lonely.
965066
you can't make yourself forget someone. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with single girlfriends and just talk. If you want to think about him, do it, because the more you try not to think about something, the more you think about it. for example: try not to think about an elephant. \ni bet you just did.
332468
LOL@gomez_leovinus! Anyway, only time will help you get over him. Enjoy fun activities in the meanwhile. Go out with your family, female friends and enjoy life. He is not your everything. Forget about him. Trust me, you are NOT the only person that had to get over someone they really liked, it's a part of life, it's natural...deal with it. We all had to get over it as well and have to live and learn. You can't force him to like you. That will never happen therefore, the best thing to do for yourself is forget about him. He'sa waste of brain space lol. You'll find someone else that actually likes you back and appreciates your company. Time will heal your saddened heart :) You need to try though. Good luck!
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!