For men and women : What are your opinions regarding the responsibilities...?
931263
That's an interesting question! I think responsible men should be caring and thoughtful towards their wives/children. They should try to provide a stable home in terms of income, but I believe women should contribute to this, too (working outside the home whenever possible in order to show children, girls in particular, that a woman doesn't have to stay at home). \nMarried men should be mature enough to not spend too much time with the "guys," concentrating more on their families instead. This doesn't mean don't go out and have fun with male friends, just that there should be a balance between that and family time. \nI believe that men need to provide positive role models for their children and demonstrate to their sons that it's ok to show emotions (what some call their "feminine side")...that it's not a sign of weakness. \nNot trying to be the boss, but allowing that the wife has a right to exercise her authority and place as co-head of household. I don't believe in "lording it" over one's family. \nI believe men need to learn to listen, and actually "hear" what is being said to them. Some men talk too much and aren't used to listening. I don't want my husband to "fix" problems for me, just hear me out when I need to talk about them.\nShows of physical affection...hugs, kisses...in front of the kids is also a good habit to have.
603373
Yes, I like being a woman but it's a lot more difficult than being a man.  No offense, but we're a lot smarter than men...but we have so many more responsibilities.  And we have to deal with the emotional aspect of everything as well.  But we're better at maintaining relationships and making people happy, and we're very good at multi-tasking.  I'm definitely no feminist, though, so I love being pampered by a man.  I still love having the door held open for me, that sort of thing.
1162170
Somebrowing said "Hey parents, babies still don't make themselves."  High five to you, woman! I feel very fortunate because when I grew up, chores and privileges were delegated by age, not gender. My brothers and I were all taught to be self-sufficient and responsible. Our parents both had careers and were excellent role models for us. I can do basic car maintenance and my brothers can cook and sew....and vice versa. \nWe all had the same curfews based on age and were expected to let our parents know where we were at all times. I think boys and girls can both have many privileges and a great deal of freedom if they act responsibly.
377783
It really depends on the problem. I think a man should stand by his wife only when it involves them two only. IF it involves other people, then the problem needs to be resolved as soon as possible.
1062476
Bravo your attitude. Personal responsibility seems to have just about gone the way of chivalry and the Dodo. Excluding extenuating cirumstances, most people have or do not have what they do because of their own behavior and hard work (or lack thereof). It's easier to whine about what one doesn't have though, than to get off one's arse and do something about it.
139589
Whether the use of spell check should be a law..;)\n\nSeriously, a good topic would be taking one side or the other as to whether women should be permitted in combat or to be permitted in combat usits (special forces, etc.)\nGood luck!
1062313
Yes, there should be gender roles.  It is common sense that women are better at some things than men and men are better at some things than women.  Being equal does not mean that men and women have to be identical.  Celebrating both men and women for who they are recognizes that they have different roles to fulfill in relationships.  That doesn't mean that women shouldn't ever work or that men can't help out in the kitchen.  It does mean that if you want someone to tuck you in when you are sick you want mom and if you want someone to scare the monsters away you want dad.
898624
Yes, I do. I cook, clean, and take care of my son. I am from the south, so alot of women out there are like that. I have been told that I am old fashioned. I like to do it for my man, makes me feel good to make him happy. He does need to help out every now and then though. There is nothing wrong with the way you treat your man, and you do deserve a break every now and then.
939645
i have a hard time with it. Think it is a womans choice but women in general should try to avoid situations requiring one.\n\nTheir reasons to do it. Ah well.
69770
Mostly it is the way people are brought up that gives them the idea that a woman's place is in the home.  Psychology has a lot to do with that thought.  Everyone has different backgrounds and experiences in life that make them agree or disagree with that debate.  I as a woman dont feel that this statement is necessarily true and feel that a man has the same responsibility over the home as his wife does.  But like I said it all depends on how one was brought up and what ideas they developed on the issue.  For instance, my grandfather made the kids do everything in the house and would ask them to let my grandmother rest.  My mother then developed the idea that she should be a helpful housewife, unlike her mother.  My father, seeing that my mother did everything in the house, never lifted a finger in the house.  I grew up thinking how unfair that was of my father and believe that both should clean up around the house and look after the kids as well as both have the responsibility to work and pay the debts.  Thankfully my husband feels the same way!!!  LOL  We both make a mess, we should both pick it up!  We both spend money, we both should earn it!!
639387
I think you should choose the right man or woman for the job - regardless of gender!
419094
Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
685121
Yes, and I'm glad a male asked that question.  It's all about the right person for the job, who cares if she's female.
164600
Of course not.A mans attitude.How attentive and caring are very important .Although i admit your having a job and being self sufficient is important.
225357
A woman's role in this world is to be a companion. Although women tend to go overboard on alot of things, since it is in women's system to be nurturing, loving, supportive, and tend to let bygones be bygones, since women are the weaker ones women are submissive and peaceful,women tend to want to make things right for all the ones they love. Women are full of love and devotion.\nWomen are life givers, teachers to the new lives, women hold the home together. Women are great. Women are needed to keep a balance in the world. Women keep life interesting.
424263
Other than the creation of my child... I have never "needed" a man. \n\nHowever I do love, respect, and appreciate my man, and I would not participate in a future without him.
14660
It's very obvious that boys aren't being raised that way anymore.  I find that it surprises women when you show the old fashioned respect now, such as holding a car door open or letting them go first in anything, or even picking something up that they drop.  But I agree with you, and I find it's better to carry on that tradition than to let it go.  I still believe that men should work and be the one that supports the family, but my wife doesn't agree with that because she doesn't like staying home so I'm letting her have her way until she regrets it.  I have it ingrained in me to take care of the woman and it bothers me not to, but it's not that way commonly anymore.