guys, any advice? it seems that every time i talk to a guy i like, i say sumthing insayingly stupid. help me!?
926898
Believe it or not, girls who make us laugh is one of the most attractive traits sometimes. Just be yourself, and whatever comes out comes out. Don't try to impress us, we already notice you for who you are. And honestly, we don't remember half the stuff we hear 5 seconds after we hear it - so its like a fresh start for you every time!
31731
Tons of flirting! And possibly he just may not like your type of style, switch it up.  But don't do anything stupid!
1165057
You probably really like the guy. In this case nothing you say would seem to be good enough. This is however normal and once you get more comfortable with the person this would go away.
70295
well...it depends what kind of girl you're talking to but no matter what do not do stupid immature guy stuff it just makes you look stupid. also, do not just come up to us and tell us that we're beautiful we don't like that it makes you look shallow...just talk about little stuff and dont try to find out all kinds of personal stuff...they feel too much presure that way, and also, i think that you are very smart because you are asking for advice, which is better than a lot of guys i know!!
9602
Not much you can do at this point...maybe you could tell the guy you liked him before the loudmouth friend does. That way, the loudmouth will look pretty stupid when he tells his friend something that he just heard from your own mouth.
345272
A guy who liked me used to always call me stupid though we were like the smartest kids in school, so it could be.\n\nDepends how he says it. The guy who liked me said it ina playful way, with a smile. If he says it in a hateful way, it means he thinks you're ugly.
490262
I had the same problem a few years ago. I would try to drop subtle hints, like touching his shoulder when you talk to him. Don't be overly flirty cause he may shut you down and you might feel silly, but see if he responds to the subtle hints and if so then take it to the next level. I would recommend not ruining the friendship if you truly cherish it. But you don't want to regret never telling him how you feel, so feel him out. Drop hints, compliment him a lot, tell him he looks really hot today in a particular outfit. Whatever you would say to a guy who you liked that wasn't necessarily your friend. Good Luck!
800119
just tell him its time to quit playing these childish stupid games. Tell him you have liked him all this time and you want a serious relationship and you need to know how he feels or your gonna find another man that is worth the time and effort you have put into him. He'll either answer your question or honey seriously move on to someone better.
764896
Your so mean !!!\nOf course you still like him, and he sure as heck likes you.\nHe might be upset he never did anything and now your going around talking to other guys and potentially going to forget completely about him.
13149
Well hey listen up let me help! Since you gave me some good advice this is what you should do let the guy talk to you and then like go to the common place to hang out right. ok then what you should do since you really like him is to pop a question about relationships or something. You know next if that bails you should move on to plan "b" like talk about something funny get him going then just say that you like him in a humorous way. Just to let him see you are thinking about something so that encourages him to want more!!!! Well probaly does not help at all but try it and see your results because this is  what happened to me and ive been going out with my Boyfriend for three months.
58929
I have the exact same problem i am so scared to ask him becouse i do not know what he will say. Maybe you should try to talk to him and work your way up. Maybe he likes you to.
46402
I would love to knock the hell out of the first person that answered. I would say he is one of the stupid guys you are refering to? But the answer is no, most of us guys are quite smart. Yet there are a few that make us look like stupid as**oles, I just mentioned one above.lol.\n Most guys just try to hard to impress you girls and end up screwing things up, making us look stupid. You guys there is no reason to pop off, you can make a point without getting angry!!
484311
yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
419906
sometimes guys can't figure out what to say to a girl.  ask him a question, his response may give you a clue into how he feels about you.  including him into the conversations is one way that you can establish contact with a shy person, without coming right out and saying, "So... do you like me, or what?"  establishing conversation is the best bet for you, I would bet on it!  Guys also aren't like girls, they don't like other people's "he said... She said..." comments as much.  It doesn't accomplish anything for you either.  If you think he's cute, but you've really never spoken to him, you may find out that you're looking at the wrong type of guy for you, once you get to know him.  Get to know him, then worry about the rest.
487802
First of all ... Calm down... I know it is easier said then done but if you don't then you might just end up looking like a idiot.  Second.. Does he know you are crushing on him?  If not then I suggest you just start talking to him.  \n\nGood Luck!
315277
If you aint doing anything then obviously nothing will happen so its either sink or swim. If I were you go try some chit chats or something with the guy and lead your conversation to somewhere you wanna tell him that u like him and stuff. Try smart conversation. hehe. Hope that helps
856511
I have the same problem, when I'm trying not to flirt, the guy (usually a wierdo) thinks I am, and when I am trying to express interest in a guy, he's oblivious.