Men who dont communicate.. makes me miserable?
912252
My hubby did that for the longest time too.  I finally told him we needed counseling.  Now after nearly 10 years together we can sit down and talk about it.  We've made it a priority to never go to sleep with each other angry.  I've also been more verbal about why I am upset etc.  Some guys think that if they hug you etc then woman are okay. It has taken us some time but we are closer than when we first said our vows.  If both of you go to counseling together and separately you can learn how to talk to one another.  Don't make the mistake of assuming or thinking he should know how you feel.  Communication is not always easy but you are right to say it is important.  You need to ask him why he doesn't talk to you about it.  You shouldn't shun your emotions either.  Just talk to him whether he wants to hear or not.  Tell him how you feel but try not to make him feel cornered.  It's hard when you are newly married isn't it?  It all boils down to both of you not understanding the other.  It can be that way in all relationships.  I hope you guys work things out and seek counseling of some kind.  Good luck and congratulations.
186781
If your man makes comments like that in front of you, not only is he rude and inconsiderate but a jerk too!! Seems to me that he is trying to get a "rise" out of you, either way he's a jerk and you should move on to someone who will treat you with more respect! Good luck.
876466
Guys take that as you are not interested in them. It makes it hard to talk to you if you appear standoffish, and some might think you snobbish.
426447
I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
962336
well that macho acting guy,is weak, so weak he cant even tell or express his true side, for me i would not love or enjoy being with this pretentious man and just leave him alone, i dont want men always acting like jerks why cant they just be brave and humble and express what they feel so that we both could be happy, i hate it when they are too afraid and hide themselves in this macho mask,,,shame on this men
740397
nope don't have this problem.  i don't take long road trips with jerks.  none of the men i know would ever be that rude.
674733
He's trying to get a reaction from you. When he says gross or disrespectful things, tell him, "I don't appreciate you talking to me like that~~you don't even know me" and then ignore him. If he likes you, and that's why, he'll change his tactics. If its just to be annoying, he'll go away.
78696
When a guy lies! That is the worst thing you can do. Or, the fact that most men lack communication skills! Just say what you feel! Is it so hard?
266371
OK i have that problem with a lot if guys so if like they do stuff 4 u or they ask u out etc. U email them, call them,etc. and tell them that u don`t like them the way that they like you and that to just be friends!
391280
Why do men force women to nag them??
930811
guys dont like being bossed around stop being a bitz and give him some space, when you stifle (big word) a guy you drive him away
220442
not me i love to be able to have a proper conversation ..instead of what would you like to do tonight?\nresponse) i dont mind what do you want to do...me) no im asking you so you decide..etc see thats what its normally like for us guys....im not saying women are stupid though so dont start blasting me!
698604
OK yes, there probably is a communication problem.\n\nMost women have a communication problem in so far as you have no idea how to communicate.\n\nA guy will "wait for messages" because he has nothing of consequence that he needs to tell you in the mean time.\n\nIf a guy has something that he needs you to know, he will tell you. Until then, he doesn't have to talk.\n\nUnless he tells you he wants you to leave, then it is safe to assume he doesn't.  You don't need to keep asking him every 5 minutes.
597125
Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
1046766
Yes, actually there are many of them out there.  Here is what I know from my own observation:  women, especially those who have come out of a bad marriage/relationship have this wall of ice around them...their body language gives off very clear signals of "approach me and die a slow and painful death"...not to mention the patented "all men are pigs" glare.  Now, there are some brave souls who will approach anyway only to find a sniper from a water tower shooting at them...for no reason!  Be aware of the signals you are throwing off...a nice guy wants to approach without barriers, and won't until the coast is clear.  Nice guys are the ones that never get a fair chance...for whatever the reason.
589472
most guys dont like to show that they are sensitive, its just their way
522028
because men are so frustrating