Ok I'm really bad at conversation when meeting someone new what should i bring to break the ice??
918125
I think I am the perfect person to help you out lol. I'm very friendly and I try and make conversation with everyone. Okay, well don't ask anything too personal, since you don't want to offend anyone. Start off by asking them general questions. First and foremost, ask the person their name, give your name and tell them that your new in the town and ask them general questions about how long they've been coming to the school and such and go from there. I garuantee you the conversation with bloom and eventually you will make some really nice people. Good luck!
1019340
try going outside and meeting REAL people face to face.\n\nlike go to a park or zoo and start up a conversation with someone.\nif you like malls....try that.\n\nIce breakers: nice hat...cool shirt or ???
64997
Umm.. say hi introduce yourself! Go out there pick a topic and start chatting! Be his friend and if you play your cards right, youll be more than that!! In short MAKE HIM realize you exist!
626742
Just speak...even random things....talk about the weather, or just start up a conversation. Are you shy? Or do you just not know what to say? I used to be shy..still am....but you gotta gotta learn to come out of your shell. Like I said...strike up a conversation no matter how hard it is...believe me, it works.
543131
One way to deal with the nervousness is to just use that as a spring board for your conversations.  Talk about the fact that you are both nervous and you already be sharing something in common and start bonding.
163267
I have that same problem.Just don't thick about something to say.Just relax and before you know it you will find yourself in a great conversation,unless he's quiet.Quiet people are really hard to talk to.Maybe you should go out for a drink.People loosen up when they drink.
400770
just talk about things in general if it is cold, snowing , if it has rained for weeks , ask them about their children if they are adults about their fav toy if they are children why they like it If they have a tv in there ask what they like tunning up If there are flowers around ask if they are their favorites .... asking generates a flow and you will discover their interests which will make keeping a conversation easier some ppl like to talk about their illness someothers get just depressed it is better to begin with a general topic to break the ice..
820005
baby girl, lets look @ what the problem is. do they come by and say hi to you? do you think that you are approachable? maybe it's as simple as initiate the conversation. say "hi, how's going" the next time you pass by one of the guy you like. in this way, it not only break the ice, but also tell people that you are friendly enough to talk to. plus, let me guess, when in school, you stay in a pack of girls. baby girl, this is nearly impossible for a guy to come and talk to you.
420425
I would suggest approaching them within the first three seconds of noticing them. Don't think about anything. Just go up to her and speak. Make sure to maintain eye contact. Make sure you smile.\nJust speak honestly, tell them your mostly shy, but you want to get to know them.\n\nIf you fail then don't worry about it. Don't kick yourself in the arse - its not the end of the world. Every time you do it, you'll get better at knowing what to say... just make sure your attention is on the person your talking to (not on your own behavior or attitude). Women like confidence. Even if you can fake it.
136787
Introduce yourself! Then you'll like someone you know and who knows? They might not think you're bad, either! \nGood luck!
623683
Don't go for the cheesy chat up line, just be yourself and chat about anything and everything, there is nothing specific you can say to break the ice, you just need to be open, nice and friendly, if she aint interested in ya after that it aint worth it anyway.
947887
Anything that interests you...talk about what your favorite things were growing up - just things that open doors and help you get to know each other better.  You could also do a thing liek - "we each ask each other 3 questions a day - which can be on any topic, anything at all"  the thing is, you HAVE to answer the question... You can get some questions if you google "ice breakers" and things like that....  It should be fun though...tell him..." I want to know all about you....I have an idea, why dont we come up with 3 questions each - per day - to ask each other, and we have to answer them no matter how much we might not want to".... once you do that, usually it opens the door to many other conversations.\n\nGood Luck!
402408
Say 'hello' to atleast 5 new people everyday, if conversation arises.. go with the flow.\n\nDon't be afraid to associate with new people that you aren't familiar or comfortable with, they probably feel the same way.\n\nif we never said hello to anyone new.. or met anyone for ourselves.. all our aquaintences would just be linked through other people.\n\nwhat fun is that?\n\nGo out there and meet somebody!
62778
FORGET ABOUT TRYING IMPRESS THE PERSON YOU ARE TALKING TO. THINK FOR A MOMMENT ABOUT THE TOPIC OF THE CONVERSATION. THIS JUST TAKES A SECOND. NEXT BE HONEST TO YOUR SELF AND THE PERSON YOU ARE TALKING TO. SOMETIMES BEING TRUTHFUL CAN HURT SO TRY AND FEEL HOW THE OTHER PERSONS HEART MAY FEEL. NEXT DON'T PRETEND TO LIKE THE PERSON IF YOU DON'T.REMEMBER HONESTY IS GOOD.JUST TAKE YOUR TIME AND BE GENUINE.I KNOW THIS SOUNDS MUSHY BUT I'M JUST LEARNING MYSELF.
209310
evidently you both love music.Let your first conversation be about music that will break the ice,as you are talking find out other interest you might have in common.Then take it from there,say something funny every now and then to make her laugh that should win her over.GOOD LUCK!
444142
smile and just say hello at first. If the one you want to talk to works with you, find something about work you can ask her opinion about or that you might need help with.
240535
Be yourself, smile, show that you are interested on her life etc. and it doesn`t really matter if you are a bit nervous, because it only shows you`re honest.\n\nThe worst cliches are if you wonder have you met before or say something really cheese and not normal things about her when you first meet ("I had to come to talk to you, because your eyes are like stars!" - BIG no no)