I think the guy I am sleeping with is gay?
931730
keep sleeping with him, i doubt hes gay or he would obv. be sleeping with guys, not you
578842
Your in lust for him, it sounds like you need sexed. Relax, you will find someone
976368
It sounds like he may be gay and almost ready to come out of the closet.  You are pretty there is nothing wrong with you it is him.  Dump his azz and get you a real man who has a big d*ck and can't keep his hands off of you.
87485
I think you're secretly attracted to him and are using this question as a way of finding out if it's ok to be gay. If you want to be gay, be gay, just don't brag about it ok? fudge packer.........
1055277
you've been friends for more than 8 yrs. If he's gay he would have sex with you already!! Sometimes there's a fine line being good friend and being in a relationship. Perhaps he doesn't even know how to express his friendship towards you. He wants to be grateful to you yet do not want to mislead you into thinking he wanted a relationship cause he is not gay. We are brought up with heterosexual mentality and define male as musculine and female as feminine. It confuse the heck out of straight guys how to handle their frienship with their gay men's friend. Especially those who have close frienship. I believe some of them do cross the line of sex. Which would make the situation worse. He is appreciative of your frienship and I bet he knows you are into him. In his mind he's probably thinking should he sleep with you to show his appreciation and betray his own sexuality? As for you I would not be so quick to invest that much emotion into that direction. Yes, I know it's very difficult and very tempting. Ultimately you have to protect yourself from heartbreak and more important to preserve your friendship with him. One of this days he's gonna fall hard for a girl and you gonna need to tear yourself off him emotionally.
804369
Sounds like an episode of Will and Grace.  Maybe your friend is bi-sexual.  Regardless, you will never be sure if he closes his eyes and fantasizes about Kevin Cosner when you get together.  I would say be his friend forever but don't get your hopes up
900414
I think you should just ask him. Does he know your bisexual? maybe he doesn't and feels the same way you do. Don't flirt with him all hardcore either, it will make you embarrased if he is not gay. So i think afterall you should just tell him "I like this guy ..."see what he says. or maybe if your brave just let him know you have a crush.
833458
He's flat out plain using you. And don't expect him to tell you when hes sleeping with other women. You need to be tested for HIV by the way.\n\n\nJeez women are dumb.
609498
The fact that you are asking indicates that you are considering it, if you weren't you would have told him no flatly right out.  He must detect that you have tendencies because I doubt he would bring it up otherwise.\n\nYou have to ask yourself some tough questions, are you gay, bi-curious, you need to search your soul for some answers.\n\nIf you are, you need to acknowldge it and accept it, there is nothing wrong with it.  \n\nIf you are straight and want no part of it, you need to make that known to him right away, if he's your friend he would understand, if not then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.\n\nGood luck.
1082176
You're obviously one of those chicks that think all dudes just like sex and nothing else. Have you tried talking to him about this, or did you immediately label him gay and come to Yahoo? The problem might be as simple as he's expecting more than to get laid.
289065
well if the other guy you thought is gay, is not...\nthen the best thing for the gay guy to do is too either see for himself cuz the 'straight" guy may be lying, or to find someone else
345700
Play fight, when he retaliates jump on him, stare him in the eyes like you want it, bite your lip, then give him a slow starting passionate kiss, then he should take over, if not, then push his ass on a bed or get on top of him some how, and just start kissing his torso, take off your shirt, give him some head, pull out condom!! if this doesnt work, he is probably gay.
702716
He is really gay...He even seduced her boyfriend then set her up to catch them in bed together.What a a*@hole.
297921
i hate to break the news to you Darlin'....but, this world's harsh reality is that the ultimate aim of ANY STRAIGHT guy would be to eventually get you into bed with him.  As a straight guy myself, i can definitely tell you that the ones that just wanna be friends are either gay, or truly loyal to (and committed to) another lady, or maybe to a lesser degree, the ones that have lost their "mojo" somehow.\n\nBut getting back to your actual question:  you can tell that he really loves you and not just trying to get you into bed with him by noticing that he doesn't aggressively suggest that you guys get in bed together.  If after being together for about, say, 3 months, he still doesn't come on to you physically, then that guy must really be in love with you....because, trust me, no guys can truly go "cold turkey" on sex for 3 months in a serious relationship unless he truly loves you as a future companion.\n\ni would also recommend the movie "The 40-Year Old Virgin" (if you haven't seen it already) to further emphasize my points above.  Not only is that movie really funny, but it tries to answer the many "What If's" questions regarding boy meets girl reality.
1042898
What makes you think he's Gay?  \n\nMany Gay people do their 'best to fit into society' by joining up with a person of the opposite sex to keep the appearance of being 'normal'.  They marry and have kids sometimes as well -- all to keep up the facade and DENY who they are to themselves and his family.  The thing is, if you believe this to be true, then first thing is ask him.  If he denies (he will I'm sure), then be on your way if you are that convinced.  Because no matter how attractive you are, sweet, loving etc.. he will NOT change who he is attracted to - it's in his DNA/Biology who he is attracted to.  So do yourself a favor and just walk away from that.  \n\nI hope it all works out for you, but there are no 'sure tests' to be 100%.  If your GUT is telling you he is, then trust your gut, because most of the time, your gut is never wrong.  If your friends have 'gently commented/asked about it' then it is 'for sure' time to break it off.  Do your best not to hurt his feelings and your own feelings.  Be good to yourself and there is NOT something wrong with you that you 'fell' for osmeone Gay.  \n\nGood Luck and be well! :)
852585
Wow. What a shock to have to go through.\n\nSounds like he is just starting to accept his own reality that he is gay. He may have thought that you two living together would be ideal, and I'm sure he had or maybe even still has feelings for you, but is attracted to men.  It happens and sometimes people don't come within the realization of it until a long time aftwards.\n\nAnd yes, you can be gay and in love with someone, but you also know that the relationship may not be for you. People like this can be confused for a long time since they may not know which direction to go to. Do they stay in what society terms a "normal" relationship, or do they risk ridicule and go with their real insterest, which is the same sex. Tough world we live in.
9992
Thats not Cool. It would be legaly considered rape.Just because he's your boyfriend dosent give him the right to take advantage of you. You could explain to him that he got the wrong signal from you.Maybe you should have explained your stance on sex before you slept with him in the same bed...but dont think that its your fault.He shouldnt have done that with out your permission.