plz help need advice?
912960
Be kind to him (you don't want his bad Karma) you don't know what is going on in his life maybe he needs a kind word.. You may be surprised.
169791
Read the writing on the wall. If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, it's a cheating husband. You are lucky that he is an ex now, though. If you feel like he cheated, then he DID. Plain and simple. Trust your intuition, a female's intuition is a very powerful thing. Getting over the hurt? Well, that is a hard one. . .You've been betrayed. Lean on the support of friends and family ALOT. Talk about it ALOT to people who will actually listen. Buy a little notebook and spill your guts out and cry as you write in it every night before bed. A therapist can help, but if you have good friends and family, then why waste the money???
692316
follow ur own advice hun
1046652
you need medical advice\nand\nhelp
86542
Get professional help.  Learn to communicate.  Set boundaries.  Be honest.  Deal with the issues.  Good luck!
1093729
Call the police.  Tell your best friend.  Or your parents.  Think of a safe place to go.  Take your kids if you have any.  But remember to tell the police first.
220319
don't put yourself in such a situation ok make him a big firend you might take advice from him
530930
Go to Legal aid or the courthouse and ask for advice.
782862
Make it known what is neaded explain it to them. If they play games with your feelings dump him. Set some guidelines.
550134
Just tell them the truth. That's all you need to do. Have a great day :)
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Girl, that's a rough situation. Its all good to help for a little while, but her ex seems to getting a little bit to dependent on your girlfriend. The bottom line is that her ex needs to grow up and be a women, it doesn't take that long to get get your stuff together. Tell your girlfriend to give her a couple of pointers and move on. Keep your head up!
222196
This is the wrong place...\n\nI honestly believe you need counselling.\nPlease seek professional help before you get hurt...\nYou life is going to depend on this, so please don't think about the cost.
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You don't know what to do?\n\nThat's painfully obvious if you're asking for advice here.\n\nDo the opposite of what most people here recommend and you might get out alive.
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Give your parents one last shot.  Test them with something small, and if they don't blow up, try something a bit bigger.  If this does not work, try talking to an Aunt, or other realative you feel close to.  Don't want advice from strangers ok? Parents really are human..  try again ok?
982572
Ask your friend to help you.
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try to do it on your own first. if thats not possible, go to counseling.
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This guy is playing with your feelings. He's just keeping you on the line so that he's always got a soft place to fall. Make like a tree and leave. Two years is a long time to invest your feelings in someone who doesn't want a relationship. Tell him you don't have time to waste on waiting for him to make up his mind. I think he's already made up his mind and likes the way things are. You don't know how many other gals he's playing this sorry tune with either. He's got what he wants. I would suggest that you stop giving him what he wants and tell him you're not playing anymore. <*)))><