on a coffe date, is it okay for the girl to offer and pay for the coffee .?
917017
This one's easy: Since it's a first date, why don't you each pay your own way?
565695
Just be honest and ask if she would like a cup of coffee or if she would have lunch with you. Don't use a pic up line, that is the fastest way to turn us down. Just be yourself and don't stress about it, it will come naturally.
284984
Well, usually i let the guy pay for the first date, but I always offer to chip in after that. I know some girls who will never do this...and frankly that is so selfish!\nLet her make the move, if she doesn't ever offer to pay, just think how she will be in a relationship...she will be a spoiled princess. \nOh, but with the hockey thing...if it was your idea to watch hockey then you have no right to ask her to pay for part of it.
836207
I think that if he's a doctor and makes more money than you that it's fine if he always pays.  I mean, don't suggest the most expensive restaurant and always order steak, but I think it's realistic in a serious relationship when someone makes more money than the other for one person to always pay.  Anyways, now he knows that you at least notice that he pays since you offered to.  My boyfriend always pays!
284023
Well first of all, she should have enough money to pay for herself. When the check comes and they're about to pay she should ask him of how much does she have to pay for her meal, in 95% he'll offer to pay, she should ask him to pay herself again(with a true voice), if he accepted at this point so he wasn't willing to pay her from the first but if he insisted on that then she lets him do so, and she should after that with a day or two she might buy him a present which he would appreciate much. Having sex at this point isn't a very good reaction coz he will think even by 1% that she's cheap.\nAssume the waiter/waitress was heading towards her with the bill, at that moment she should look in another direction or to drop something and gets down to get it.
851314
yes. I believe so. Why should you pay her?
322104
just ask her if she minds if you sit down and she will take it from there...she will ask you if you want a date and you say yes how expensive is the menu and she will tell you..the rest is history as long as it isnt an undercover cop...
370904
If thats what she's asking for, then do it!! Can't go wrong with a direct request, only right...GL;)
670090
Only in a place where she requests an escort ... like in a seedy bar, or the wrestling arena, etc.\n\nJust ask her if she wants you to!\n\nOtherwise, she might not appreciate the gesture.\n\nGood Luck!\nOC
297004
If you asked, you should pay for the tickets.  And good for you for being the one to ask!  \n\nBut the idea is to have a good time together, so if you start it off with an awkward situation about money (I though you were buying the ticket, etc) you're getting off on the wrong foot.  Be gracious.  \n\nIt's possible, though, that he might feel, for lack of a better term, whipped if his girl is paying for everything...  maybe it's best to ask him?  Or go to purchase the tickets together, and see if he takes out his wallet...
1012219
You ask a girl out which is like going to dinner or going to the movies for example.  The guy typically pays for everything.  Or a cheaper date could just be renting a movie, making dinner and just enjoying being with each other
625407
that depends, what has the girl been drinking if she is considering you? im guessing a hell of a lot of alcohol, so sure go for it
392435
If the host(ess) offers, then it is more than fine.\nI have asked, on occassion, but only with family and close friends.  Once my dh was home sick, so I asked to bring a small piece of cake home to him.
770422
yes, you should. \nand if she IS a feminist, and if she insists you split the bill in half or pay for it herself, be firm and say that you had invited her, so you would do your part and pay; that it had nothing to do with feminism and all that, and that you're just doing this because you'll feel bad if you dont.\n\nif she's a nice girl, even if she IS a feminist, she'll accept it.
1044360
I always think the straight forward approach is attractive - it shows you have some balls, yet not in the typically pseudo-masculine obnoxious way.  Ask her if she like to grab a drink sometime, or if you are not yet 21, to grab some coffee.
497072
ask her out for tea. that almost always works for me. it's not threatening and a nice gesture!
478038
No.....because all your doing is escorting an individual, so it is not considered prostitution. So they are paying for a date, not sex.