Am i wrong to stop her involvement?
924951
If you don't believe that she is a threat to the well being of your children, perhaps its time to let the past go. I know that it's easier to say then it is to do, but little ones need both parents in their lives. Don't think of her as the person responsible for ruining your relationship, instead open yourself to the idea that it's one more person who will love your children. And come on in the end it is only the kids that matter.
1101035
Stop doing it, she needs to decide who she wants.\n\n\ndp
875731
She sounds like she is a looney tune,I think you made the right choice to distance yourself from her. You probably have saved yourself a lot of grief.
757632
YES  YOU ARE WRONG. LET THIS GIRL STAY IN THE PAST\nWHERE SHE BELONG. YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THEN\nHER. AND YOU SHOULD LET IT GO. AND MOVE ON. OTHER\n'WISE SHE WILL HURT YOU AGAIN.
118802
talk to her about it and see if she changes, then if she doesn't you have warned her , tell her you can't take it any longer and that you think you should hang around less
957630
Tell her it is not your fault she was wronged in the past and you should not have to pay for what others did.  Trust me or lose me stand firm!!!!!
83445
There is absolutely nothing else you can say to her.  She is the only one who can change her behavior.  What YOU have to decide is whether or not your going to continue to stand by her. It's a hard decision, I know I am also dealing with something similar.  Only you know your limits and what your willing to continue to put up with.
717320
if you are doing something that hurts a friend, then you should stop. the fact that you care enough to wonder means you probably aren't a bad person. but if you know you're hurting her, you should stop it and stick up for her. If she's a good sport about it and knows it's all in fun, then I'd say you're fine.
670435
Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.
1146290
If she  is 'doing' it for motivate someone in proper way,\nits not a cheat.\nBut she trying to threaten as she has the direct touch with God, \nits totally wrong.\n\nGod's presence is not physical are verbal one.\nHe rules us with love and deed through other fellow mankind.
366966
She is using you, she has a boyfriend that she will marry if you don't stop talking to her now your going to get hurt even more. C'mon you are a doctor you can have anybody you don't need to limit yourself.
635769
Listen to her, she has a reason. whither it be right or wrong.
390923
If it bothers the g/f then yes it's wrong. But if she is ok with it then go. You could try to bring her with! I enjoy going to them with my b/f.
616597
Ehhh...\n\nDo you trust her?  \n\nIf the answer to that is no, then you should tell her your feelings, and if she loves and respects you, then she would stop.\n\nGood luck!
863657
Yes, you should definitely call her. It's not completely over unless she states so. Probably she's holding onto the same ego that you are by not calling her.
733195
If you continue seeing her the husband may find out then you may be in for a world of touble. So You should break it off and not see her ever again. Also once a cheater always a cheater.
98238
Its time to respect her wishes,she might have decided to back out of the relationship and work on her marriage.Its best to walk away from the situation.Its never a good idea to get involved with a married person!for numerous reasons.