Boyfriend... Please help me.?
915717
If this is really his dream to be out on a boat for months than you shouldn't try to stop him or make him feel guilty for going. He will just end up resenting you for it later. If this is something that you just can't live with, a deal-breaker, then you just may have to let him go. It doesn't mean you don't love each other but believe it or not sometimes that is just not enough. Good luck.
776728
have a serious talk and if he still insists then break up with him.\nthere are other guys who can respect your decision.\n\nbesides thing could get ugly if you stay with him. from pushy to abuser. he might do anything just to get it. and i mean anything, if you know what i mean.\n\ntake much care
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
654458
You should seek more help than might be found here.  If things don't change it may become a serious issue between you and your boyfriend, and you're obviously concerned about it.\n\nSee a doctor, perhaps, or a therapist?
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
413731
This is a really sensitive issue.  Your boyfriend seems like he has real commitment issues.  The best thing to do would be to sit down and have a little chat.  Tell him you want to be in an exclusive relationship and nothing else will do.  After your chat, you should both sit on the couch and drink some heavy lager and eat a couple of bowls of bran each.  Then you will both find out what your a-holes are really for you couple of mincers.
868119
I would just move on because it sounds like he's not ready to be anyone's boyfriend.  You can do better...I have been where you are.  All you need to do is believe that you are worth more than that and don't worry about him.  He's immature and that's about it.
316759
Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
987988
Try to do some things to comfort him like maybe not hanging out AS MUCH with guy friends. Doesn't mean you have to completely stop hanging out with them but do more things with your b/f than you do with other guys. Little things liek that. If he wants you to change more and you don't feel comfortable doing so then don't change. He'll either get over it or the relationship will end.
418871
Well, to behonest with you, i'd suggest that you just sit back and relax. Who told you that you don't make your boyfriend happy, hm? Was it him? No..\nJust listen to your guts, not to your brains :) And, just in case you should ask yourself if your boyfried loves you or not: well, he's together with you, so why bothering yourself with this additional question :) Stay cool, relax, listen to your heart and never mind making him happy - you'll never know how, if you don't ask him directly :)\nAnd if you both want to 'spice up your life', I guess you don't need any advice, cuz men response directly to one thing - and you certainly know what I mean.\ntc, marifa5970 from Austria/Europe
941925
If you need more than he can offer, you should sit down and talk it over with him.  If you cannot come to a compromise and he cannot at least answer you once in a while.  Tell him your expectations of a relationship.  If your expectations are not being met and he isn't trying to a point, then you can tell him in person that you need more.  Nothing wrong with what you need.  If you don't constantly call or IM him, I do not see why he can't take a few seconds to IM you or call you.  If I had a boyfriend, I would make time, and call him.  After all, if he is busy, it can be just a 30 second call saying.... I am busy, just wanted to say hi and to have a good evening.  It sounds like he really isn't interested if he isn't even talking to you at school.  I think it is better to talk about it in person versus over the phone.
596186
DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
1132657
Be more specific, so much for proper english you can't even get to the point dear. Oh I will give you the respect of answering your question though, because I'm not rude like you are. You should talk to him about it of course, but if he's just not into whatever intimate thing you want you might have to find a new boyfriend.
1098842
just a thought...........break up with him.  why cheat.  im sure u wouldnt like it if your boyfriend was cheating on you.  to each his own i guess.
52172
Tell yourself that you are you! People may be better at something than you are, but that is them.\nYour boyfriend is with you because he likes you for you. If he dumps you, you're just not meant to be with him.
416353
Dont go out on a limb.  He is her boyfriend.  U have to accept that.  There really isnt a whole lot u can do to her and him- try to find someone who suits u too.  (MAybe a gallon of icecream)lol
70954
you should give him one more chance and if he doesn't prove to you that he loves you and he can take care of you, dump him. as girls we deserve the best of guys