Help, how do I state reason for leaving last job without making the other company look bad & me worse!?
923925
Whatever you do, do not blame your former employer for ANYTHING. That is a big turnoff to prospective employers. Simply say that you are looking for a different direction for your career and are seeking opportunities for advancement. Tell them that you like the kind of work for which you are applying, and are looking forward to making that your life's work. DON'T LIE ABOUT ANYTHING. good luck to you.
505050
yes but "business no longer in opperation" no current contact info known. then place all info about the place when you were working there you know. and if they ask reason for leaving say the truth.
661573
You have no legal obligation to inform an employer that you are job hunting, but as far as being fair and professional, a lot depends on your relationship with your boss, your reasons for leaving, and whether by telling him it's possible he may make you an offer to stay that you would possibly accept.  Once you accept a new job, I would certainly give at least 2 weeks notice to your old boss and offer whatever help I could to help transition the new employee.
1168080
Well to start off, congratulations for being totally upfront and honest with your former employer about leaving the company.  Even though it seems you were punished for this, it was totally the right thing to do; you have nothing to be ashamed of or anything to feel that you should hide, which you would have had if you had been sneaky or deceitful.  So, that is something a new employer should definitely take into consideration.\nIf I were in your spot, I would be up front and honest about the situation without tearing apart the former boss or company.  I quit my job back inJanuary due to physical and emotional stress, and am just now trying to find a job.  It's taken me that long to get over the damage done to my heart.  I have asked prospective employers to not speak with my former employer, and I tell them the truth:  that it was a very hostile environment and that I am not comfortable with anyone at that company knowing what is going on in my life.  I have, however, given references of people who worked there when I did that are no longer there that I am okay with.  The two places I have been interviewed this week were very understanding.  Mostly, they appreciated my honesty.  But, I was also careful to not tear apart anybody, either.  I think that helped.\nIf you let them know your version of what happened while being respectful of the people involved and they call your old boss who lets her mouth run off about what a louse you are and drags your reputation through the mud and they choose to listen to her, it's probably not the place for you to be anyway.  Chances are they will compare your respectfulness to her disrespect and you'll win out anyway.  In any case, you'll be able to look at yourself in the mirror the next day, knowing you have done the right thing, no matter the outcome. \nBest wishes!
915640
Nothing, now. I have spoken up in the past and all that happened was trouble for me, even to the point of losing a job. Its a myth that you can speak up about these things and the company can't touch you. If they want you gone, they will find a way.
242728
Most companies will council with you to let you know you are not performing and give you an action plan with sometimes 45 days to meet all the standards.\nIn that case, use the time to find another job and leave before they terminate you.  Their mind fix is to only meet legal requirements. Your are history in their minds already.\n\nIt's easier to find work before termination than to explain why you were terminated.
815980
Somehow, people with a sense of loyalty have trouble changing jobs.  I am looking to quit a horrible job, but I am having pangs of guilt.  These people would fire me at the drop of a hat even though I have worked very hard for a few years,\n\nThink of what is best for you.  Nobody is irreplaceable and they will easily find someone else for your current position if you decide to move on.  You are not the first, nor will you be the last person to do what you are contemplating.  If it is better for you to make the move, don't lose the opportunity,  But be sure to secure the job before you let your current boss know what you are planning to do.
1001020
It's no fun to quit really....\n\nHave your resignation letter ready, and just tell your boss.  Say thanks for the opportunity, but I'm making a strategic career move.  No complaining, no explaining.\n\nNo one will ever fault you for taking a better job!\n\nCongratulations!!!!!
1141773
be professional, give two weeks notice and tell them you have to move on for professional reasons, like moving or school or change in field....The most important thing is to not burn  your bridges, if you were a good employee.. you will stand out even for leaving , in the mind of the employer leaving you with a good and reliable character reference for future endeavors.
739665
Oh you are so screwed.  You just put in a 6 week notice at your current job.  Your boss is going to either look for your replacement, or look to get rid of your position and you agreed to stay and let her do that to you.\n\nI know you think your boss is your friend and that she would never do this to you.  But her duty is to the company and she is doing what is best for her company.\n\nRarely, and I emphasize rarely, do counter offers ever work out well for the employee that stays.   By looking for, and finding, another job you let your current boss know that you are going to leave eventually, and you are not dedicated to the company.   Workers that are looked at in those ways never get raises or promotions and end up very unhappy and unemployed.\n\nGood luck to you, you're going to need it.
766655
You will have to decide to live with this situation or leave the company. If you choose to stay and continue taking the blame, eventually it will catch up to you and you will be fired for incompetence (which is probably a wild card your boss is hiding from you). My advice is to keep your job for now, but update your resumé ASAP and start sending it out. Also, and this is very important, document every single incident for which you have been blamed, including dates, times, names, locations, and a clearly written explanation detailing it. This will come in handy if your boss tries to pull a fast one on you.
804833
I think it is better to realize and get out now, if you get hired at the other job i would not mention my reasons for leaving in specific, this is not professional. And you could/should tell the boss about the rude co-worker after she is not a co-worker anymore. Someone needs to make them aware of her nastiness. God bless and Good luck on your next job, hope you get it.
1062053
1) if you are going to leave do not leave without having another job lined up. Nothing worse then being unemployed in a horrible job market. \n\n2) If you have a better job lined up, ask your boss about the raise and the promises at a convenient but not in public time. Do not cause a big scene and storm out or anything silly like that, as you probably  know. You never know who you might need a reference from in the future, or for that matter may be asking for a job from 5-10 years down the road.
498703
It is proper to give you former employer a two week notice that you are leaving.  That means in order to start at the new job on June 12th, you must give your current employer notice today (Friday 5/26/06.)\n\nI think it sounds okay, the new boss is probably just a bit anxious to get you started.  Basically, you are his new purchase & he wants to show your stuff.  A quick phone call to the new boss explaining that you want to give ample time to your current employer will show your integrity and loyalty to a job.  I think the new boss will understand.  If he doesn't understand then he is someone you don't want to work for or with.  I would not say anything to your current job UNTIL you talk to the new boss.  If the new boss doesn't return your phone call today, then keep pushing the 2 weeks from the date you speak to the new boss.\n\nIt is always a bit scary when making a change.  Just trust your instincts, pray you are making correct decisions & don't burn any bridges, especially in the workforce.  Word gets around fast and if you burn a bridge you could get a bad reputation.  Employers in the same field get to know each other & talk.  \n\nPlus keep in mind that you do have a signed piece of paper stating the new job offer.  Save that paper, God forbid anything would happen, you can use it in your defense.
607421
Quit trying to step around the bad reference and be the first to explain the situation to the potential new employer.  Stick to the facts, if asked, and leave out personal feelings.\n\nI've been in your shoes before, and that's what I did.\n\nWhen I applied, I explained very briefly on the application that my previous employer and I parted on unfavorable terms, and would enjoy the opportunity to discuss with them.\n\nI don't think I was overlooked by any company due to thus statement, a few asked about it, and we had a brief discussion of the issues involved.  When they checked for the reference and my statements and the response from my previous employer were similar, they understood I was being honest, which was a big PLUS.\n\nDuring this process, I received several job offers.  So, by being honest and being first to deal with the issue, I believe I prevented the "Bad Reference" from having much affect.
352570
Don't mention sexual harassment, you'll scare future employers.  Make something up like the commute was too far, or  your childs schedule changed and you need somthing new, blah, blah, something sort of vague yet relatively positive.
496491
you have no choice but to put the truth on your application. when your interview comes, be honest about your last job without saying anything to trash your former employer. if they call and he trashes you, you'll never know what he said and the new employer will never tell you the reason for the decline.\nthe point is you can't just give up the effort altogether because you're afraid of what he MIGHT say. your other choices are to lie on your application and risk being caught. you might even be hired before you're caught then you really screw yourself for the next job you try out for. \nlastly, you can avoid work altogether and tremble in your room with no paycheck. \nno matter which way you go, good luck.