I feel that my boyfriend cheating, but I don't have no proof. I know I should finish this relationship, but...
917745
You can hang out w/ him and get yourself other "friends" as it appears he's doing.  Don't put all of your eggs into one basket.
297196
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
749634
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*
895215
Hopefully the feeling is mutually (meaning your boyfriend loves you). If so, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. If your boyfriend is a mature individual he will not listen to outside sources. If he feels that something may be true than he should come directly to you...go directly to the source. Just remember people are petty. People will do anything and everything to get what they want...especially if they are involved with someone else...you always want what you can't have.
643810
ask urself one question.. how would u feel if he did that to u? do u love him and want to be with him ?(current boyfriend) if u dont... end that relationhip before u try to start up another one...its not fair to anyone involved
604
It's all a matter of trust.  Obviously if you are freaking out about this, there is something about him or about your relationship with him that is making you suspicious in this situation.  \nGetting obviously angry with him when there is no proof of wrongdoing will only make him angry and defensive in return, and nothing positive can be accomplished when that happens.  \nExpress to him (calmly) how this made you feel-- if he is at all worth your time and energy, he will totally understand how uncomfortable this must have made you, and be willing to discuss the reasons why.
392888
If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
376230
well obviously he doesn't feel the same for you, otherwise he wouldn't be cheating.  Cut your losses and move on!
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
237024
This is how i kind of see it. You try to do anything for him and he doesn't recognize it or mention what you have done. You are a lot better than that. You need somebody that is going to pay a lot of attention to you and make compliments on how you look or anything. If you love him and it is hard to let go, just let him know exactly how you feel and try to work on something. Maybe he is cheating on you if there are hints like he is always gone or accusing you for doing something or he acts like he doesn't care for anything, he is most likely doing the wrong so don't act suspicious just kind of snoop a little and if he is then. Like i said you deserve a lot better. GOOD LUCK and stay strong
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
1033896
You should just casually confront him about the situation and show him the evidence that you have to be suspecting that you believe he is cheating.  While you are confronting and he begins to get really upset for no reason that usually means he is lying.  Ask him to gently tell you the truth and that is all you want to hear.
535241
It sounds to me that his picking fights about nonsense is because he feels insecure about himself or even about the relationship between both of you. What is/are the reason(s) for him to say that you're cheating? Is it because you're seeing/calling him less? Did you hold on something not telling him when he asked you? He may be suspicious of your response to him. If you cannot really tell him something but it doesn't relate anything to your relationship, try to reassure your love and feelings towards him. Let him know you're always loyal to him and standing by him. \n\nHe always threatens to leave but he never does--It shows to me that he is upset about something (or feeling dissatisfied about something in the relationship) but he still cares about & loves you because he always only says so without the actual action. Again, it may due to his insecure feelings about your love/concern for him. He may not feel the same care/concern as he does to you. He may feel you don't love/care for him as much as before. He is worrying about your changes if there is any. So try to figure out if there is anything bothering him or making him feel dissatisfied.\n\nRight now I'll give him the benefit of doubt about his seeing someone. I'd rather think the major problem/issue is that he is feeling insecure about himself & the relationship. So my suggetion is: Try to compliment him more and let him know you really love & adore him and why.\nIf both of you have common friends, praise him in front of his/your friends to let him feel special, respected and loved. \n\nHope it helps.
192337
If you are asking, probably! Ask yourself two questions: Does it make you feel guilty? Would you object to your partner doing what you are doing? If you can truly answer NO, then you are the ONE man in the world who isn't cheating!
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
404843
Think of it the other way around.  Say that he is wondering the same thing.  If he was honest enough to tell you about it, what would YOU say and do?!  Your boyfriend deserves your honesty: at the very least, have the courtesy and the courage to let him know how you are feeling.  And be prepared to crush his feelings.  If you play the cheating game, YOU KNOW it will eventually come around to bite you on the ass!  Whether it's your guilty conscience, or the inevitability of his finding out some time anyway, he WILL find out!  Do you know the difference between right and wrong?  Of course you do!  Are you willing to risk your relationship with your boyfriend?  If you are, you have no business being his girlfriend, and he's much better off without you!  Like you girls say about us, think with your big head (you know what I mean!).