Is 5'7 and 185 pounds too fat for a guy to ask a girl out?
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any one can date any body all you need is to be your self and shows what is behind all your external body and truth your self
1044620
i think that's your best asset. at least you know that a guy is not only after your big breasts. that if he asks you out, you know that he mustve really liked you for who you are. but if you really wanna have bigger breasts you can do push ups. gravity will do the trick.
742923
I'm a 19 year old guy.  I cannot speak for all guys, but being really skinny is kinda gross.  A girl in shape with some curves is best.  Even ones that are a bit on the pudgy side are much better than aneorexic ones.  And anyway, if the girl has an awesome personality, to me that can override a lot of things in terms of looks.
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Answer to Question (1) \n5' 11'' --> appropriate height for a guy\n230lbs --> all steel muscles or just plain flab? work out a sweat yah, and you'll look nicely toned even if that heavy, but you don't have to be like Arnold Swarchnegger (damn, I can never spell his name right!)\n\nAnswer to Question (2)\nApart from a guy's facial features, I do tend to stare at a nicely rounded pair of 'cheeks'. \nSo shake those bon-bons baby!
67151
Of course chubby guys can get dates! I actually prefer chubby guys over skinny ones, but I use the word fluffy, not chubby. Girls usually look at personality more than looks, and if they don't then they're not worth you're time anyways. I think fluffy guys are cute, and I'm not alone in that opinion.
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well i dont think it matters what kind of body type you have\nthis is actually kind of weird because most guys like a nice curvy girl like ourselves. you know not skinny but not fat. lol really it doesnt matter i think maybe you should just tell him that you like him and he may just surprise you.... maybe your wrong about his likes and dislikes
245517
yes! totally!  i mean, what do you have to lose? you both like each other, and by asking him out, you'll show him that you're confident, and who doesnt love a confident girl? good luck!
298496
Of course not " most" boys will like ya if ya chubby. It really depends on the guy. Its not right, but most ppl look and pick a girl by her outside, i know i'm 13 and only 3 guys have liked me and only 1 have asked me out. Cuz i'm flat, small, small butt. and smart, and religious, and most guys want a hipty in shape fast street girl. But ure lucky u'll get one of the few good guys cuz only those kind end up with kinda chubby good hearted girls like u. SOmeone will!!!!!!!
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Your fear is understandable, Pup. But he might say, yes. Ask him what his gf requirements are, thena sk what he thinks of you. Then ask him out. If he says no, although I don't think he will, don't let it discrouage u from asking other guys.
826597
i hate when guys ask that!  it is like the male version of "do i look fat in this outfit?"  ... neither of us really wants the truthful answer to the question, so we should probably all stop asking lol
71331
Sure!  It all depends on the girl.  A chunky guy might have to be more outgoing or funny...I think it can be very difficult and discouraging in middle school or high school (but what isn't during those years?).  I think one of the keys is self confidence.  A guy who is always apologetic or obviously unhappy with himself is hard to be attracted to (especially for me).  \n\nWeight can play a part in attraction, but so does personality.  And in the U.S. most of us are a little chunkier than we should be.  If a guy is unhappy with his weight, there are always things to do.  I won't lie and say it is easy, but if someone really wants to loose weight it can be done.  (I am in Weight Watchers, so I am trying to practice what I preach.)
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Quite likely.  I am 5'4" and I weigh 146.5.  I also wear a size 4-6 pant.  Remember muscle weighs more than fat, you probably are just more muscular.  I also believe that the density of your bones plays a part.  Your bones may be denser than your friends or you may have a larger frame.  My boyfriend is 6' tall and he only weighs 20 lbs more than me.  The number can be depressing, but as long as you are happy with how you look don't worry about the number.  If you aren't happy with how you look, do something about it and still dont' worry about the number.
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5'5" and I average between 125-130. I think I am a good weight. I have curves which I love. I actually don't think I can get down any lower. I have tried, but can't. And I do think that I am fat a lot of the time. When I lived in NYC I was a moose compared to some of the girls who lived there who were 'trying to be stars' I kept on telling myself that guys find me sexy at my weight and to stop comparing myself to other girls. I don't think guys like girls who are bone thin anyway.\nIt's hard not to compare yourself though. I agree.
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Not usually, but sometimes. All girls like different things, just like you do. Some like mustard, some like ketchup... theres no straight line across the board. Your shorter then some people but taller than others. Some girls will take your short friends, or take your tall ones. It's all based on the individual. I'm 6'3 and I have NEVER noticed any sort of extra luck with the ladies. So I dont think you have to worry about it because theres tons of girls out there right now thinking of her perfect 5 foot 8 inch guy.
1045598
i completely agree.  i am also short but i think if you like him you should still go out with him.  i go around places with my friend (not b/f) and i am only up to his shoulder.  generally i think to  others it might look akward but if you like his personality i think you should ignore the fact that he is so much taller than you.  \n\nOne thing to remember:  dont go out with a guy about your hight and weight just because everyone else is taller than you.
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it depends on your height, if we're talking on a health basis.\n\nif you're asking me if i strive to loose weight to attract guys; nah, i don't do that. \n\ni want my weight to be proportional to my height, because i want to have a healthy body.
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Hi David, I don't think your weight is the problem. You sound like a really decent guy but I do think you have a self-confidence issue and by telling yourself that your weight 'problem' is stopping you getting girls, it could be that you attitude on yourself if stopping you getting them.  No one wants to go out with someone who they feel NEEDS to be constantly told they look ok (but I can tell you now-you look fine to me!)and overall, most girls I know (the ones who have the most successful relationships...) dont have hot sexy guys, they have average Joes who treat them like princesses!  If a girl didnt want to go out with you because of your weight then shes not worth it-the shallow cow!  What would make her think shes so perfect to be worthy of YOU?! :-) Another good hint is dont always go for the girls who look the best either, go for the ones you get on with, make you laugh, make you FEEL sexy!!!  I really hope you find her, you sound like a genuinely nice guy.