i am a teen and i am embarrassed to ask my mom but i dont know am  i supposed to shavedown there, or wax ?
930540
You may look for a female gynocologist.  I know I would if I were female.\n\nAnyway, unless you're a beauty contestant, I don't think you need to shave down there.  You could use small scissors to cut the pubic hairs before you shave, if you really want to do so. \n\nAs a man, I like the hairs.  I think its a pity to shave off what nature put there.  I don't even care if you shave your legs or arm pits, as long as you do good hygiene.\n\nSo you won't mind me reading and answering this question, but you are ashamed to ask your mother, a woman who gave you birth, and knows what you looked like in your birthday suit for years?
595449
I'd suggest getting it waxed.  It's longer lasting and provides better results.\n\nIf you must shave, shave with the grain and try using Coochie Cream or Bikini Zone to help reduce the irritation.
504893
waxing, have your man or woman, put it on wait a few seconds, then hurry a Rip it off. Hurts for the longest time and it will feel like its bleeding but who cares right? you want that smooth frog look eh?
233703
i usually do it in the shower and use a new razor.  i lift my legs and do one side at a time and put my hands to the things that should not be shaved.\n\ngood luck.
1128863
Personally, I Like it to be shaven, or at least neatly trimmed. I don't like to get hair in my mouth. Besides, it is soon summer and you don't want to look like you are smuggling a squirrel in your swimsuit, do you?
481447
You need to \nA: get a very personal wax & \nB:  wipe yourself better.
875765
Try asking if you can It gets really ichy when growing back and women get reactions the first couple of times at east some do and it become very irritating with little shaving bumps which u can buy stuff to help from that happening try talking to her more about it and come to some compromise..Tell her u won't do that if it's not at least trimmed.
277140
I don't think your mom can call the cops, but more importantly--how old are you and why would you want to shave your eyebrows? What's wrong with the ones you have? Do you have someone who could help you tweeze and shape them--that's much prettier.
255831
well i have hair thier  to but its not very noticeable since noone has ever told me about it.dont tell ur girl to shave it off because she can get hurt by the razor, so u should just give her a gift certifacate to a waxing salon and tell her nicley that she needs to get rid of that hair around that area.dont worry shell thank u for the honesty
571032
It's not gay at all, it's hygienic.  It will make cleaning yourself easier and you'll have less odor.  \nMy advice is to have someone wax it for you.  It'll last longer than shaving and you won't have to worry about cutting yourself or itching.
441767
It depends on when you start puberty.  But usually between 12 and 15 guys start to shave.  You should start shaving if hair is noticeable, at first you probably won't have to shave every day, maybe every other day or once a week.  But if others are noticing your hair then you definitely should start.  You should just go to your parents and tell them that you want to start shaving and ask them to take you to the store to get a razor and shaving cream (or an electrical razor if you would prefer that, but frankly I prefer the normal razors).  I started shaving when I was 14. Good luck with that.
314567
When i started shaving my legs\ni also didnt tell my mom coz i kknew she thought i was too young (11) but shed given me veet for underarm hair so i used that on my legs as well. She only found out about 6 mnths later and was pretty disppointed in me. I think you should tell her, and she cant make you stop shavin coz youve already started. Its much easier livin without secrets. She wont kill you for becoming a young woman...good luck!
372024
Ok, my son is 15 and since I'm always honest with him, I'll be honest with you.  Consider yourself lucky that you are well endowed, it's much better than not having enough.  As far as shaving...it will not harm you and women do prefer it to be shaved or at least trimmed.  It is good for your health to get an orgasm, however, it does not improve your health for a woman to to help you achieve one.  It's safer to just do it yourself.
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in the nether-regions.\n\nWhy?\n'Cause my girlfriend wanted me to.\n\n--\n\nNever 100% shave, because it'll get a lil itchy. So trimming is the best way.\n\nKeeping it clean.
934843
I don't shave there either.   There runs a risk of getting a yeast infection if it is done too often.  There is a reason for the hair to be there.  The same way there is hair in your nose, to keep unwanted free floating particles from getting in.
1087300
I think the majority of ladies in NAmerica wax or do something with their bikini area. I personally wouldn't recommend waxing at home, unless you have a huge tolerance for self inflicted pain. True that it's more private, and you can cry and whine like a baby all you want, no one's gonna know, but for really great results, I'd go to a professional, and get them to do it. They can do a better job, reach places you can't even see, and get all the hair out faster, and actually with a little less pain. Make sure they are trained properly though, cause if not, you might as well do it at home. Expect to pay between $30 and $50 for a session, depending on where you go. And, as was already mentioned, the hair should be about 1/2" in length for the wax to work properly. They'll trim it if it's a little too long.\nWhen you get it done professionally, they'll most likely use a hot wax, which can be fairly warm. Using a spatula, they'll spread it on the area (that was the part I found most painful), and using strips of cloth, rip out the hair by it's roots, thus eliminating the hair from that area, for about 1-1.5 weeks. As you get it done more and more, less hair will grow back, and what does come in will be finer. Theoretically, after years of consistantly doing it, the hair should cease to grow, or at least grow in so little that you only have to treat the area once or twice a year. But I don't do it religously, so I can't say if that's true or not. But it does seem to be coming in finer.\nSo there you go, that's my experience with it. Overall, I'd say go to a salon, pay them, and get it done professionally.
1126709
They say to take a Mortin before you are waxed.\nIt hurts. But the more times you have it done the more you will adjust to the pain. It will get less. \nAnd not having to shave it great.