How to handle this situation?
927430
YOU NEED TO LET HER GO...~~SORRY ~~ SHE IS MARRIED. \nNEITHER OF YOU HAD THE RIGHT TO START SOMETHING LIKE THIS. JUST PUT YOURSELF IN HER HUSBANDS SHOES" YOU WOULD NOT WANT YOUR WIFE TO TREAT YOU THIS WAY ."\n I DON'T SEE HOW YOU CAN STAY FRIENDS EITHER WHEN FRIENDSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST AND RESPECT..\n\nIF SHE REALLY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU THEN SHE WILL FILE DIVORCE PAPERS AND GET RE-INVOLVED WITH YOU WHEN SHE GETS HER LIFE IN ORDER.\nWILL YOU BE ABLE TO TRUST EACH OTHER GIVEN THE FACT SHES A CHEATER AND YOU CROSSED OVER THE LINE????\n\nWHAT YOU NEED TO CALL THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER.... BEFORE MORE PEOPLE GET HURT.
762466
"<insert totally ridiculous situation here> What should I do?"
967133
Tell her to contact Social Services. You should not have to take care of her. Give her a deadline for making other living arrangements. Break it to her as diplomatically as you can but have a heart-to-heart talk and let her know that you were willing to assist her in an emergency but now both she and you need to move on.
1178247
Be friendly to them.  Really friendly.  Apologize as if it were your fault, but not in a weak way - just say you're sorry, you'll fix the problem, if there's something you can offer them, do it.  Take care of it, but stay above it, if you know what I mean.  And in your mind, know that other people are with you, and that this person is just making a fool of themselves.  If you stay cool, you win.  Also, keep in mind that the rude person probably has major problems, and it's pretty pathetic that they have to take out their frustrations on someone they don't even know.  And if all that fails, imagine them as the children they once were, and wonder what terrible things must have happened to them, to turn them into such mean adults.
955999
Let the professionals handle it .They know how to .Tell the police and they will know what to do.
163171
You say nothing and stay out of the situation because he's already involved with someone else.  He has to make his own decision and deal with it in a mature and respectful way for everyone involved.
207017
Relax, and try not to worry about it!!  It will happen, probably at the most unexpected moment :)
807646
Ok, this is where MATH comes in. It's called variables. Youneed to plug in NAMES. A is your signifigant other B is their Ex. using this formula I was able to understand the question. Now, understanding the question, I can answer it! (aren't I smart? LOL!) Well, I'd have to get the whole story. It would REALLY upset be because I'd really care for A, obviously. So after A told me the whole story, then I would be able to apologize. Since B was already out of the picture it wouldnt' be an issue. I would warn A that he probably shouldn't be talking to B anymore but that any other B's that he knew, that I should be with him so they didnt' get any ideas.
1142004
Tell him the truth. You are not moving at the same speed as him. If he cannot handle it, drop him. There will be someone else that will come along that WILL wait and move at a speed that BOTH of you can agree with.
476873
well you know hes going to be hurt. honesty is the best policy. maybe bring up the fact that things are not working out, make him understand what the problem is and why is accuring. someones going to be hurt. its somthing that needs to be accepted.
166775
O.K. Here's the solution... try to follow along...it's not like it's rocket science... ready... here it is....CALL HER!!!!
132377
you accept the reality and move on.Also, Believe that it is entirely their loss and not yours. cheers!!!
581221
First of all you don't LET her do anything. She is an adult and will make her own decision. \nIf you are so worried, offer to stay there with her or ask her to stay with a friend. Or ask her to deal with your place just for the 2 weeks. \nIf something happens, then you shouldn't be with her anyways.
668973
Noooo! Move right along.!Don't plead ...Just say 'okay- this doesn't look like it's working out'
551663
Well, definitely don't say anything to them in front of the heavy girl, that will just embarass her more.  I think I'd call both of them individually at home (or go see them) and say something like, "What you all are doing is really mean to _______ and it probably hurts her feelings.  It's going to stop and if you can't stop it, then you need to find another team to play for."  I'd definitely speak to them individually so they don't start acting stupid in that "group mentality" sort of thing.
455639
I faced this problem. The way to approach a solution is to think of whether the present uncomfortable situation will be remembered a year from now. If no (its mostly no), then please do yourself a great favour and go ahead and talk, because I personally guarantee you that EVERYONE likes to be spoken to. Ask some questions. Smile. And feel at ease, because you're already worth it, and you don't even need that person's approval.
1108659
The situation is complicated.  You need an adult to deal with an adult.  So the best for you would be to find an parent, relative, friend who will speak up for you and on your behalf.  Only then will you get the real attention you need and the paycheck you deserve.  Otherwise, you are being taken advange of and it will continue as long as you let it happen to you.