my boyfriend hits me in his sleep.its happened twice. has anyone ever heard of this,I heard of sleep walking?
929417
Please go ahead and hit him back.
211714
He is hoping to reopen the fling. Personally, I think you would be better off letting sleeping dogs lie but its up to you. Perhaps you should talk with him and clear the air.
283454
I have a problem with my dreams I cant seem to shake them off at all I can feel pain after like when someone lets say stabs me in my dream I wake up but in pain in that place. My brain thinks it really happened to me so the pain is transferred from my sleep state to my awake state its hard to really explain without sounding crazy (at times I feel crazy) Well what I do is relax a bit more before bed pray (really pray) that my dreams are good and I don't have pain after. I have tried allot of stuff from sleeping pills to drinking a few glasses of wine (3 at the most) to relax I found the wine helped out a bit more then anything but I don't want to ever dink every night I had a grandmother who was a drunk (she died). SO I only have a glass every 2-6 days it helps me out a bit when I feel way to tired from either not sleeping cause I am scared to or I wake up every few hours from sweats and bad dreams (Night Terrors). If you ever want to take about this stuff you can e-mail me maybe there is more to what happens to you that I have gone through and we can help each other out a bit.
1097304
It sounds like maybe he bruised it...it could be from too much sex...or maybe some girl got ticked at him and kicked him in the crotch!! Either way...if it doesnt get better...he needs to see a doctor.
937423
The fact that he falls asleep when his head hits the pillow isn't nearly  as much concern as to why you are barely intimate.  The relationship should not be quite as hot & heavy as it first was but there should still be something going on.\n Is his job stressful?  Is he working really long hours?  Is his job very physical?  Has your sexual appetites always been different?  Has this always been a problem & you thought it would get better?  Was he abused as a child?\n\nThere's so much that could be going on.  The two of you need to talk about this.
677959
actually you really should wake up a sleep walker..they re just in a deep form of sleep they wont become violent unless they usually are when they wake up
709519
He's a bully. If you stay with him, get used to a life of walking on egg shells. I bet he was "sorry" later and tried to tell you he didn't know what made him do it, or said you "made" him do it.  It's not a mood swing, it's a precursor to more verbal and emotional abuse.
995797
I think you need to let sleeping dogs lie cause he sounds confusing and confusing leads stress, stress leads to pain and pain leads to heartache so move on and find someone else cause he's playing you.
294098
Well it might be just something in the AIR that you're alergic to. try & track you activities next time it happend. where were you when it happened & what were you doing? that might help you find any similarities with in your episodes.
1169050
epilepsy it is not,  that represents itself as a non-bodily action problem.  You said he was up, and pulling things off the dresser.  But he basically couldn't hear you nor recognize you or our son.  this was more a REM activity.  Like the other person said,  he sleepwalked.  But something triggered it.  get him to see your family doctor so he/she can refer your husband to a neurologist.
963054
Hi sorry to hear how you feel.  Does your sister live reasonably close to you?  If she does, why not pop around to her house and see if your boyfriends car is outside. Did your sister put the phone down because you accused her of being with your boyfriend, if so she would have been hurt.  Your boyfriend's mobile phone may have been out of signal and not turned off.  Speak to him gently, you will be able to see from his eyes and face if he is hiding something.  There is probably a very good reason why this happened last night.  Either way if you talk to your boyfriend hopefully  his explanation  will put your mind at rest.
201462
Not good.  First, he is taking you for granted.  He sees no consequences for his actions and treats you like the dog that gets kicked for no good reason.  He may have frustrations, but has failed to learn or remember who really cares for him above all others.  This is a sign of emotional immaturity.  He needs a wake up call and needs to grow up.  How would he feel if the shoe where on the other foot?  He probably wouldn't stand for it, so why should you?  Don't.  The next time he pulls this crap, I suggest you react in a calm, yet defiant manner by explaining that you care for him, while he seems to have forgotten what a healthy supportive relationship is.  If he wants someone to take out his anger on, then he's got the wrong woman.  End of story, so no more of this behavior against me...no hard feelings.
1094995
Hey I just wanted to say thank you for your response to my question, I think it really helped and it wasn't mean. I also think that you are right, he called me this morning and told me that he was knocked out and didnt get up until 12:30 or so. I guess it is still taking me some time to really relax and trust him but I think your response was the best. As far as your situation, my boyfriend is actually 28 and im 18 so yeah, think about that one lol. Thats 10 years older then me, but he loves me and I love him and its been the best relationship I've ever been in. I think true love prevails over age and just as long as you guys can respect each other and love eachother and probably give her some time to also grow, you guys will be just find. Age is really just a number I just feel like sometimes our decisions or the stage that we are at life can sometimes conflict. Just make sure you two continue to communicate and understand eachothers needs and wants to go about things the right way. G-luck.
932950
Well, first thing you are going to bed at a decent time but perhaps nine or ten would be more suitable. That way you can recieve more hours of sleep. \nYou springing up in your bed talking in another language could be considered as a form of sleep-walking. Nothing to be alarmed about. Sometimes our subconscious gets the best of it.\nBut try going to sleep earlier and if this happens again then I would suggest to explore it further.
864068
you know what to do but afraid to take the first step because he might hurt you again physically... why not consult with a legal counsel and ask him the best way to get out with the relationship. you have to be strong to face the consequences that would save your life and pride as a person. Good luck ;-)
76028
Did you take him to a doctor? He probably had a mild concussion. A person who hit their had shouldn't sleep because they might not wake up. The person needs to be alert so their vital signs can be monitored. I'm not a doctor, but I had a mild concussion from banging my head. Check Web MD online for more info.
218977
My grandad...funny you should ask this now. i had a dream last night and he was really cross with me and I've been down all day because of that. Anyway...he would say that he really misses me and he is really proud of the progress i've made. Also he would be mad at me for allowing my a_ss_h_ole boyfriend make me miserable...sorry grandad...