My Sister and her Husband banned me from visiting them?
926751
i dont think they should did all that.some children pick up things a little faster and that,they should understand.and as long as u are not doing anything 2 physically harm the child it should not b a problem. i would b happy my child learned something so funny from his uncle.dont stop loving him b cuz of your sister keep being a good uncle!goodluck!
557231
I was kinda in the same situation your half sister is in.I was seeing and moved in with a man everybody was warning me about.The more they said to me about him , the more I tried to make it work.It didn't take long for me to find out they were right and I left him one day while he was at work.I packed everything I could get int my car and left.If this man you are talking about is really a bad person, your half sister will see it. Just back off and let things happen.Nobody wants to hear "I told you so" That might be what's pushing her into the relationship.If things get out of hand with the kids and you KNOW he is hurting them in any way, maybe you should turn him in and let the law handle it.If he can't see his own 2 kids there is definitely something wrong there. Good luck!!
618865
you can both have mesanger just not on at the same time.\n\njust download msn once and login depending on who is on the comp you or your sister
17805
You can't. They banned your I.P. Address, so you cant visit that site until they remove the address. if you did something wrong, then thats too bad for you.. you're blocked from the site.
748209
Remember this is your battle with the inlaws not your sister in law's.  Do not make her choose sides.  Be happy for her that she has a better relationship with them than you do because I'm sure you wouldn't wish what you are going through on another.  Maturity is called for here.  Stick to your guns for yourself, don't expect other's to choose sides.  She sounds like she's attempting to be neutral.  If you don't like hearing about what's going on with them, simply ask her not to go into detail about them or what they do or don't do.  Keep your friendship.  That's more important than allowing the in laws to drive a wedge between you two...and likely, that's what's happening.
164636
YOU"RE IGNORANT.!! WHAT DOES HIS FAMILIES RELIGION HAVE TO DO WITH ANY OF THIS.?? OR WHAT RACE(S) YOUR HUSBAND IS.?? WHO CARES ABOUT THAT, EXCEPT A RACIST?? \n  AS FOR THE ABUSE, HE'S WRONG FOR IT, BUT YOU ADMITTED CALLING HIS CO-WORKERS HOUSE AND BEGGING HIM BACK, AND COME OFF THE SELF-PITTY TRIP, "HE MADE ME BEG HIM BACK". IF YOU DID IT, YOU WANTED HIM BACK. HE DIDN'T MAKE YOU CALL HIM, BECAUSE YOU SAID, " HE DIDN'T CALL ME FOR 2 DAYS". \n  SO YOU NOW DESERVE WHAT EVER HE DOES TO YOU. YOU COULD'VE LEFT HIM ALONE OR WENT HOME TO YOUR PARENTS, BUT YOU CHOOSE NOT TO.  \n  AS FOR HIM CALLING YOU A ***** , WE DON'T KNOW YOU MIGHT BE.\n\n YOU BEGGED HIM BACK AND MADE YOUR CHOICE, SO STOP WHINNING ABOUT IT NOW. IF YOU DIDN'T WANT IT, YOU'D HAVE LEFT HIM ALONE.
962247
Sounds like there are two people that you can no longer trust at all. Your ex wife and your slutty brother. All the people for them to have sex with and the come up with each other. \n\nWhat to do? Go on Springer and get them some beads. That's a hot skank mess. Leave her alone and be careful around your brother with future women.
851093
my sis is married to one\nthey r fine they just had a kid\nthey sometimes fight\nand he made my sis cry couple times
1035983
Sorry you are dealing with 2 psychos that don't know their place.  I'd ignore them as much as possible, but I would put my foot down if they tried to run your life. Your hubby is going to deal with them as he chooses b/c they are his family, but I think they need to see that you are not to be messed with.  When you say no, don't waver.  They can leave if they don't like it.  Let them try to manipulate all they want. It's up to you to not allow them to mess with your life.  Your husband will see them for who they are. And he may step up and tell them to back off in private so they save face. But either way, you can't control him or them....just put your foot down.  Good luck. My mother in law is a manipulative witch.  My husband just  wants to move far away from her and gets tired of her behavior, but feels he can't change his mom.  I think he's right.
589963
It's not nice to bug your little sister and cousin.You may get into big trouble so you better be good.Do not do anything bad to them just ignore them if they are bothering you.
34872
well, i see that u have been told no already, but there is some hope. yes in most ststes u cant, or can u? its mostly nothing that is ever sought after. I have seen where grand[arents were able to, why not an aunt or an uncle? there are so many ways around it, with out involving the court system. the first thing, is to try and sneak around the parents. Have ur parents ask to take the kids once in a while, and then u can just "stop over" and be "unaware" that they are going to be there. Simply talk to your brother, and see why u cant see the children, there has to be a reason. find another family member, take the children to dinner or a movie, and u can go and see them... i think the best thing to do, is get a reason why u cant see them. these kinds of childish acts by an adult, could potentically damage the childrens lifes, and also, the respect other family members will have for your brother. \nAnother thing, is, if u thing the children are being done wrong. if u think and hopefully have proof of harm being done to the children at home, u could persue the court. if u dont want to listen here, see if u can find a lawyer, that u can just ask that question too
826737
Your sisters are not your responsibility - the parents are the only ones responsible for them. I seriously believe your wife and yourself need to have your own place to develop your own relationship and grow your own family. Having extra women in the house will cause all sorts of problems & possibly kill your relationship. You are an adult now so you just need to say NO, you don't need to give a reason. Suggest your sister gets her own place and say you will look out for her to keep mum happy, but do not let other people move in.
875777
"meaner than a snake." That's funny! I sympathize with your situation.  I sure wouldn't want to go there. What's the worst thing that could happen if you take a strong stance with your husband and tell him that you don't want to go this year?  Why not invite the old coot to your home? Or just skip going to the relatives this year and celebrate the holidays with your husband and children.\nAlso, I would have a problem with a mother-in-law who doesn't have anything nice to say about you or your son and the fact that your husband let's her get away with that nastyness. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
989389
You could always report them to INS (Immigration and Naturalization Services) if they are here illegally.  As far as your marriage goes, your HUSBAND broke up your marriage, not the other woman. Don't forget that.
105297
there's nothing you can do about it.Your husband needs to disguss it with them since it's his family,and tell them nicely to knock it off.
94173
block their #s from your phone. write to your in laws (return reciept) and tell them point blank: this is MY husband NOT your little boy. you've done all the raising of MY HUSBAND that you will ever do. mother in law, if you have a husband then HE needs to provide for you. MY HUSBAND does not need to provide anything for you. that's YOUR husband's job. and to sis: do you have husband? no. then you are your PARENTS responibility. go get a life i got mine. and tell your husband to get a SPINE and use it. he chose you not his sister.
572150
Send a buddy you have in you're town to have a little "chat" with him and have him tell him when you come back, you'll be "visiting" him too. Maybe your wife can file a complaint somewhere, so they get rid of him, or she can go somewhere else then. that stuff pisses me off! I don't even know you, but Id go there for you at a drop of a hat! Take care over there, watch each others back and come home safe.