does beating a boy in sports mess them up?
915367
Not all men are the same.  There are some who finds it challenging to be beaten by women.
681373
No, being a body contact sport, it is often accidental.  Players act out of reflex.  But spear tackles should be eliminated and offending players should be banned for life.
818741
I have beaten the crap out of people. in my youth. and two people are permanently hurt. one,his left  eye looks to the side. the other. well he is deformed. I would  NOT hurt anyone now. for a million dollars, unless in self defense..I have killed two men in self defense. If I could have avoided it I would have. when you hurt someone. some people will regret it. some wont. depends on the individual.
643312
Off the top of my head, one idea is simply this - which the parent won't like.\nIf the parent insists on interfering and emailing you, simply state that if the parent insists on doing this, then you would have no choice but to ask the son/s to leave the team.  If that is possible to do.  I have seen too many newscasts where parents went overboard at a kid's game and actual fights broke out and people got hurt.\n\nIf the parent cannot control himself, then sadly, the child has to be penalized as well.\n\nPersonally, I don't understand why some parents get so out of control at a kid's game, but if you are going to have an out of control parent, you might have others follow his lead if you don't put your foot down about the way parents act at a game.\nIf the parents go overboard at a game, there should be penalties for them - even if it means going so far as to call the police.\nIt might even be good and helpful to have at least one policeman at the game in case trouble does begin to stir.\n\nGood Luck! this is a tough one.
119811
Not really. Any guy has been hit there PLENTY of times by the time he gets to be an adult, trust me. I still had twins.
1021753
Breaking by means of throwing seems more apprpriate to me, kicking always leaves lea for the possibility of injuring oneself.  Best wishes
704176
I think beating is worse cause at least you don't have to feel that type of pain and worse it could kill you or severly disfigure you.  Emotional pain from cheating is hard to but physical pain is far worse
501996
my bro hit me back when i was 13 (when i annoyed him or wutever.) and i still think hes somewhat of an ass today (maybe only becuz he slapped me in the back of the head and thats like a cheapshot) so if u a girl go for it, if guy id save ur anger for a big fight with him ahhaha
352281
Certainly if you hit anywhere except on a well-padded bottom, or a quick smack on a hand to get it to withdraw from touching something dangerous.  But generally, I think spanking -- hitting of any kind -- should be reserved for emergency situations where getting the child's attention in a startling way is necessary.  If a child is reaching for something very hot, you can say "hot!" or "don't touch!" and then what?  Do you let them go ahead and disobey, and get burned, or do you smack the hand away?  If a child runs out into the street, and you strongly suspect it was for the purpose of gaining your attention (I have seen this happen), a smack on the butt when they are safely on the sidewalk will let the kid know it is something very important ONLY if you do not swat them frequently.\n\nSave hitting for extreme circumstances, and you will never have to hit very hard or do any serious harm.
1183600
I have never seen this happen on my boys' teams (Little League & soccer).  I strongly feel that this has to do with the league & the coaches - you need to let everyone know up front what the deal is.  One year, my son's soccer coach sent home a letter at the beginning of the season saying - I'm the coach, you're not, if you want to coach then volunteer.  He phrased it a little more kindly, but you get the idea.  Let your parents know up front what your expectations are for parents.  By the way, your record is irrelevant.  It doesn't matter if your team is horrible - so what - parents need to realize that their children are not going to become professional athletes.    I think you are awesome to volunteer.  My fellow parents & I treat our coaches great!
547783
Absolutely. A 4 yr old boy running 65 kms at a stretch is an milestone in its own way, but the coach is definitly has his own vested interests in making the poor kid run. The coach wants to become popular and is using the little boy. A four year old kid can be very easily persued and brain washed by telling him about world records and fame etc, but he he will never undersatdn that running so long at this age is next to deadly. Somebody must stop this cruelty.
730202
yes , they shouldnt of beat him up like that  DX will help him .The NATURE BOY  will be ok, he has been trained on how to get beat up,and beat up too. he will get the medical attention he needs. So until next week,team rated-rko will get what they both deserve.
298164
It's happened before, but in general it's difficult to prove that the action was not part of the game.\n\nI remember one case where two high schools were playing football. One team had a group of known racists, and the other team had a black player. The black player was tackled violently by at least one member of the opposing team (I forgot some details), and it was caught on video.\n\nThe attacker used the excuse that it was part of the game, but the person who got attacked tried to show that there was no reason for him to get tackled, since he didn't have the ball and the video showed that the attacker went out of his way to tackle him even though the action was in the other direction.\n\nThe case went to trial, but I don't remember the outcome.
650923
no it isnt the referee's fault.  another child ran into your kid and knocked him or her down, not the referee. i hope you didnt chew out the ref for that.  and if you did i hope he made you leave the field
1026633
You were right.  Their ball even hit your son's car, and they took off, right?  That means that if they did any damage, they had no intention of taking responsibility for it. If they want to play, I am sure there are parks in your area that they can go to.
995274
Well, while most are abusing. I think it's an awesome sport. It takes a lot of skill to stay on beat and land everything perfectly. It's really cool to watch and I only wish I possesed the skill necessary to play such a sport.
954524
I don't see why people are making such a big deal out of this, to be honest.  If the kid's own mother didn't think it was wrong, why can't the media just leave it alone?  I saw nothing wrong with what he did - he did not "slap" or "punch" the kid.  He didn't even even make him bite his own lip or anything so he didn't get injured in any way.