Is it love or just wanting?
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You are just hungry for that "perfect family".  Unfortunately, you didn't choose the perfect man.  He left you when you were pregnant.  That's not a real man.\n\nFocus on your baby and yourself, leave the man out of the picture.  And don't jump into any relationships with anyone.  Make your child your priority.  It's had doing it on your own, but you can do it if you just remember what's important.
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Neither.  Either phrase comes across as love is a condition.  I believe that love is unconditional.\n\nSo if one's intent is to use love for a purpose, then the first phrase conveys it more so than the second phrase.
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we are fall in love because we want to keep our relationship a little longer.\nor we just want to get along . i mean the matter is does it make you happy or not>?
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no cause theyve got to fiiight the feeeling.. leave it alone.. cause if it aint love then it just aint enough to leave a happy hoooome..
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Love is a choice.  Feelings are not something to base anything permanent on.  Love means you want what is best for someone.  You can see yourself living with them forever.  They are someone that you see a heart in that is willing to work on things.  You see their issues, and can love them anyway , even if they never change.  \n\nFor me, I am looking for a man that is not perfect, but has a heart that is willing to see his imperfections and work through them.  I want a man who has a career and calling that I can complement.  Our gifts and talents and callings should mesh and complete one another.  When I find that man, that is who I will love.
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Is there love in this equation or just lust for papers?
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according to me .love-lasts for a real long time and u just want happines of other person . crushes r short lived, and u just want tht person
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Sometimes it is better that way.  Sometimes you only want them because it seems that you can't have them.  It is part of our nature to always want something that is just out of reach.  Know that if you lived close to each other and were both single you probably wouldn't want each other for very long.
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I suppose it is possible, however I think it it just infatuation.\n\nYou say you ADORE, it is suppose to be Love.
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love can't be described in words but i will try:\n\nlove is a feeling. it is complete happiness caused by another person. ir is wanting to be with that person at all times and missing them when they are away. love is nothing more then wanting to make the person happy and to want to give the person the best life possible. it is to want to take all of the person's stress and pain away. it is to trust the person more than anyone else in the world. it is a connection between two people that should be unbreakable. it is never wanting to lose the person. it is willing to spent the rest of your life with the person. love is the greatest feeling ever.\n\ni don't feel like that did love any justice...
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honey, its ok to love as many people as you want... but to love someone (as in a relationship) is to be true to only them. if you feel torn between the two, the truth is you probably dont LOVE either of them enough to be with one... does that make sence?\n If you truly love someone, inside and out, you'll only want to be with that one person... I hope this helps
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It hurts\n\nFortnuately it gives more joy than it hurts, so it is worth it to love and be loved.
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I know most people say that love is a feeling, but it's so much more than that.  Feelings are important, but our feelings can sometimes be deceiving and change.  Are you commited to this guy . . . through thick and thin?  Do you want him to be the one you work through all the hard stuff in life?  Do you have common goals and dreams to build your relationship on?  Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.  I hope you find your love . . . and he finds you.  Best wishes!
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It's not really a feeling you can describe, it just sort of happens. And love is different for everybody. You'll know when it happens. You wont know why or how, you'll just know that you love the person. And that's all there is to it.
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I believe that it is a God given yearning to love and to be loved. Nothing is as beautiful as meeting the one mate that is meant for you. God wants us all to be happy in love with the right mate. I also believe that is what you are looking for. You desire to be happy in love with the right mate. God asks us to first seek after Him. Let Him guild you to the right mate that He has for you. When you are with the right mate God's Love and happiness will always follow.
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because people are looking for love.. duh!
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God wants us to return the love that he gives to us.\n\nIs it vain to want the one you love to love you back? Is that a longing that you would place in the "vanity" category?\n\nHave you ever really loved someone who didn't love you back? Was it a problem with your vanity that made you yearn for their love?\n\nNo. All true love wishes to be reciprocated. Not to fan the flames of ego, but to perfect the love.\n\nHave you ever loved someone truly, and wanted to offer them all sorts of good things, and just knew that if they would give you the chance they would come to know you and would return the love? Have you ever wished to provide them with great things but were unable because they didn't want the love you offered? Was it all about you, or was it all about them? Did you want them to blossom and flourish and grow and thrive as the result of your love?\n\nGod wants us to love him so that we may receive what he has to offer us. Which is greater than what any human love can provide. But if we continually say "no" to him, he cannot give to us what is his to give, because he respects us and loves us enough to let our "no" be a "no."