if ou were drugged and raped how coould you tell?
929011
If she goes to the hospital, they will take samples and be able to tell if she was raped.   I assume they'd also do blood work to test for any drugs in her system?   If she suspects, this happened, she should contact someone immediately.
625612
yu should here both stories frist but if she was drunk then how does she know what he was doing but if he loves you then i don't think he would do that but why would you friend say that he did that to her  but i would talk to both at the same time.
705820
u would have to ask the cops
255919
The question wasnt too clear but what ive gathered is that you like a guy and were playing a sexual game which you wanted to stop and he kept going anyway. if not disregard my answer. Obviously this game is over so if he took it the whole way and you said no you were raped. rape is not cool no matter how much you like someone and you should report it. If he did stop but touched you in ways you didnt want then you need to use your judgement as far as how violated you feel. since you started the game together you could always tell him that you felt he went too far and that you do like him but that he should respect you enough to stop when you arent comfortable anymore. if it can be resolved like that great, if not then sexual harrassment charges can be filed.
913516
Rapist should be made to receive a little of their own medicine.  Call it barbaric, but I think a large nightstick up their rectum will make them think twice before raping someone else.
817776
I would go to the police department and file a report for date rape.  Get yourself checked.  The fact that he told you that he was going to drug you to get sex should tell you that something isn't right.\n\nAnd don't think that it was your fault.  It's not.
1100794
ok first off please dont give out your personal info....some rapist guy can easily get it an it will happen again to you second off do you remember any detectives or the states attorney that worked on your case?,,you should contact them..also you should have gotten a report if you are indeed the victim...if not then you should write the courts explainingyour situation an im sure they willl be gald to give you a copy..also you can try to find oit here on the web or go to the libary an look up all the articles from the time period an you should be able to find it there..take care an good luck!!
817314
I think as long as, at the time of the encounter it was consenting. Than it's not rape, it's just a bad mistake. I know, I've gotten drunk and did a fat chick and regretted it. It wasn't rape though, just bad decision making.
1099088
They said they wouldn't tell!\n\nIn my defence it was dark!...... I was drunk!........It just slipped in!........ They looked younger!.........Erm..... I'm registered blind!\n\n\nLoL xxx
1115516
NO!!!! by any means! RAPE is RAPE and you need to report this crime...male or female can both be victims ...rape has no gender!!!
591395
I guess just go to the police station and ask them who you should tell or basically that you know someone who is using drugs and you would like to help them.
72706
you call the police and let her tell u everything and be with her at all times so that maby the person that raped her will come to her and she can tell u who the person is and find out everything then call the cops and tell them everything so he/or she will go to jail
539437
no.  that means that any girl can say that any guy raped her.\n\ni agree that the exam can be almost as traumatizing as the actual rape, \n\nbut sending an innocent guy to jail, just because some bitches are , well bitches,  is alot worse.\n\nthere needs to be solid proof, and unfortuntely, an exam is the only way.\n\neven a witness is unreliable,  if both friends hate one guy, they can get him thrown in jail.
675578
That sounds very traumatic. I would've used my kids as witnesses but that's just me, in that case nothing is wrng or right it's your life.\n\nAnyways, in my opinion I would find a guy that is caring enough to understand your feelings. Because no guy can ever understand what it feels like to be raped. They either understand or they don't. And your particular rape situation is terrible. Having that seen in front of a 2 and 4 year old. That is terrible. Just be happy you survived.. and maybe if you can, try to find a more caring boyfriend.
930700
If you were excessively drunk your speech was probably slurred and your whole persona would have been altered. I'm sure he would have been able to tell that you were not yourself. But be careful, he might think you drink Too much.
931875
yes, they will be able to tell almost exactly how long ago she used and they can definately tell any and all drugs she has used, however, she could use a clairifying shampoo to rid the hair of any evidence, and i hope she doesn't.
783855
Most states (though not all) have laws on the books that say if a person has sex with another individual who cannot give consent because they are unconcious or suffer from a diminished mental capacity they are guilty of rape. Period. So if the events occurred as you describe them, the person could be theoetically be held legally liable for rape. \n\nOf course the real issue is whether there is proof to sustain such an allegation in court. If the only evidence is one person's word against another's there is little chance that any case can or will be brought by the authorities. In this instance, evidence that would support your boyfriend's claim would include witness accounts or toxicology tests showing a high level of intoxicants such as alcohol or drugs in his system which would make it likely that he would not wake up during the event. If he did no obtain such a test immediately, it is too late now.  \n\nYour statement that she was 'pinning him down' is confusing however because it suggests he was actively trying to resist the woman when the premise of the question is that he slept through the sexual activity. \n\nYour best bet may be to call your local District Attorney and see what they advise you (and him) to do.