Steady for 4 years, it's time already?
930505
He might just not be that into you. If he's not ready, he's not ready. You cannot force it; otherwise it will end.
810709
4 years is quite a long time.....but it wasnt spent together so umm i dont know....but you guys managed to do something which for some people is almost impossible,4 years and you are still together.....i dont think a guy would ask a girl to marry him if he didnt mean it though so it should be a good sign.if you love him,then dont think about it twice and do it.marry him and be happy.if you are not sure about his feelings for you,,then give it some time to think about it,or talk to him to clear your doubts.\nonly you can find the answer to what you need to know,only you can make a decision.\nall the best.
168426
That's just how it is sometimes.  Be patient and your time will come.  It may not seem like it now, but it will happen.
1104622
7 years, 4 months and 3 days.
992282
Leave it for a while, 4 months really isn't that long. Leave it till your one year anniversary.\nYou would make any normal bloke run away by talking of living together after 4 months especially a commitment phobic.
275158
4 years is not such a big difference - but if in your culture it is, then just be prepared for the negativity that you may encounter.  That doesn't stop however, the fact that you both love each other.  Marry and be happy!  Good luck!
503490
after 4 year,\n\nlets say in 2010.
536275
4 Years ago, maybe............
984904
Yes and no. Many things can happen in 4 years but if you two love eachother that much to wait then go ahead. you only live one life
136439
Wait 15 years, you'll change.           ;)
157742
i think atleast 5-8 years
436571
Go for it. Eventually the correct balance would work out.
321989
From what I understand, it can be planned in a year's time.  You can find wedding planners that give you step by step instructions on what to do each much, so you won't get overwhelmed.  But on another token, I've seen people get engaged and wait at least two year or so, to get their debts caught up and all so they can actually have a 'fresh start'.  Good luck.
56729
It all depends. I waited 4 years while my sister on the other hand waited 9 months
931575
Probably one more year
869020
good question, i wish i knew. ive broken up 4mths now and everyone has a different answer. some say 'give it time to find yourself' some say move straight on, or keep busy, or stay home. i reckon u just have to live day to day and try and get it out of your system. from talking to my friends etc. giving it some time is good, gives you a chance to put your expectations higher for next time and not just look for something to fill in the 'comfortable' filling the house and bed in the morning. it seems that halve the time you were with them and thats how long it TRUELY takes, say you were together 6mths, 3mths single is good. 3 years, 18ths single is good. good luck, maybe instead of walking around the house, do a total spring clean and move the furniture around for a 'visual' fresh start....?
824852
Good on ya mate!  I love to hear that there are some long term relationships out there.  I've got 26 years in mine and there have been some tough times....and it looks like more on the horizon.  But I am optimistic.  We've made it this far.......I'm sure we can handle this storm like we have all the others.