if you are married and your wife/husband can't cook, do you tell them?
917732
No, but then you buy them the gift of professional cooking lessons.\n\nMost community colleges offer them, and you could take it with them, making it a date night, instead of just class.
774934
If she is your wife you should have open communication.\n\nShe might have an infection if the oder is bad.\n\nYour not doing her or yourself any favors by being silent.
836183
Well, trying to tell his family that you have a problem sometimes may be a lost cause.  Why don't you have a serious talk with your husband.....\n\nMore importantly, I would distance myself from your BIL.  And, don't let him IM you and you don't IM him either.
972293
If it's so obvious, you don't need to tell them, they knew already. Is it your loved one? Prepare some healthy salad for her. Don't worry and in fact you can influence the person by setting a good example. You do the right thing with her, and leave the final decision to her.
668595
I would say not but your spouse may yes than you have a problem.
1130533
Tell her.  Turn the tables...wouldn't you want to know?
147041
If your spouse is lying to you, there is obviouisly a problem. If the lies are taking this much of a toll on your marriage consider possibly getting marriage counsling. Is there a reason they feel they need to lie. Are they hiding somethin. Communicate, tell him or her this is unacceptable in your book,and you will not stand for it. If you do tell them that stand your ground. A liar is as bad as a cheater.
622384
NO dont tell your husband!!! It will only create an argument and make him even more irate and jealous!!! If you want to keep your marriage then i would recommend putting a halt to the steamy make out sessions with this co-worker. But if you are legally seperated and headed for divorce then what you do in your own time is your business.
889921
just tell him "you aint getting any of my cooking yet."  sounds like fun flirting anyways.  have fun with it.
749311
one night you should tell him to take it easy, and you should cook like your favorite meal, and then pop the question.....make it a speech tell him "He's my homemaker, housewife and my everything when I get home from a long day of work. I manage a large portion of a company and have just recently been too sick to function. He has nursed me and been by my side the entire time, never leaving me for more than a few minutes at a time (he has to shower and go to the bathroom afterall.) We're a solid foundation together, and now that I'm feeling better (and I have a ring).. I want to do it." its very much from the heart i can tell, good luck sweety with everything and congrats on the baby!!
114854
dont mess up a good thing / you are married/ and she is starting a new life/ telling her would only make things worse/ keep it to yourself
314817
Tell it to my mother-in-law
1148925
They need to save up enough money to get their own place. \nI had a mother-in-law that did the same. But she changed when she realized i really wasn't the person she wanted me to be. \nYour friend should not get upset with his wife because she doesn't eat for goodness sake if she can't eat pepper. And her husband needs to start taking up for her. I know you are supposed to honor thy mother & they father...but you are also supposed to due unto others as you have them do unto you.
451651
Married for 15 years and we still tell each other where we are and what we do and No they shouldn't get mad but they always will but they will get over it and they still love ya . It's good that you let your spouse know what you are doing just in case something bad happens or what if your spouse wins a million dollars wouldn't you want to know right away? There's always a what if and it's better to know and to be prepared than to wonder what the hell happened.Just in case it's your last chance to say I love you.
329514
It is a simple courtesy to bring a salad or buns or other dish when invited to dinner.  Also to offer to help.  I experienced the same thing with my inlaws.  Five grown children refused to help their mom with dinner or dishes, and it was always and only me the daughterinlaw who helped with cooking and did the dishes, at all Family gatherings for 30 years.  Yes I was pissed but now she is dead and I am glad that I was the one to help her.  The lazy children were sorry and cried and moaned and carried on but I held my head up high and had no negative feelings because I did my very best.    You should continue to be helpful, but don't think you have to do it all or contribute $ just because your mom wants to.
135045
Friends - yes\n\nlovers - no \n\n\nBUT - if you have to hide that friend from your spouse, then something is wrong.... any friendship whether it be with a male or female should not be something you need to hide or feel guilty about (because you aren't doing anything wrong!)
585587
My husband and I have only been married for a year and a half, but we have been together for about 5. For us, it's all about rules and communication. Here are our rules : \n1. If you are going to fight, do it naked. Everything looks different when you are both naked. It is, however, hard to get that way, because it makes you feel vulnerable.\n2. No lies. Period. Even little white lies. \n3. Never leave the house for anything in the middle of an argument, unless its together. Always solve the problem before you go to bed.\n4. Ask yourself, is the issue at hand so important to me that it is worth upsetting my spouse? Most of the time it's not. \n5. If you are a wife, remember that men show their feelings differently. \n6. If you are a husband, learn to talk about your feelings a little more. \n7. Always have a date night. In the middle of death, children, childbirth, work, losing everything, it doesn't matter. ALWAYS have a night for just you two. \nAnd lastly, but most important, treat your spouse the way you want to be treated. He or she should be your best friend. Treat them like it. Hope this helps.