How to make oneself more attractive to oneself?
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Create daily tasks to improve what you see and what you feel. Start with quick wins, then more difficult ones, etc. Have three different kind of goals: short term , medium and long term. Do not despair.\nMy question is if you cannot "like" yourself: how can you like someone else. I understand somehow that you feel lonely.\nGood luck, mate. Be a winner!
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You don't. You love yourself and work on becoming the best that you can be. Your confidence,character, and personality will attract others to you. We all have unique gifts that have been given us. Use your gift and let your light shine on all around you.
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maybe you want to do something to be more sexy and attractive
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
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It's all in what you are saying to yourself in your mind.\nLose all the thoughts like- you are'nt good enough, ugly, never get a date, etc.\nThink of all your good qualities, think of all the complements people have given you before- you're sweet, caring person, fun to be around, etc.\nLike me, I never believed I was beautiful or good enough to have true love and respect until my attitude changed as I got older and people started complementing me, now I'm almost too full of myself lol!  :P
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There is no one answer to this question.  Everyone has their own tastes and interests and finds people who are similar to themselves or different from themselves attractive.  Just be yourself and talk to lots of different people until you find someone who likes you for who you are.
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Building self confidence takes time, but it can be done.  Our self esteem is partly our personality (what we are born to be) and partly from our early childhood experiences.  Many of us, therefore, do not have naturally high self esteem.  You can upbuild yourself by taking the time to love yourself in fundamental ways: eat well, exercise, and rest.  Tell yourself often (200x/day) that you are loveable, wise, funny, and attractive.  Take good care of YOU because you are worth your own attention.  Over time, your self care will show you how valuable you are.  And high confidence is very sexy!
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I would like to look like myself only thinner and in better shape, plus a few other small changes that that other people probably wouldn't even notice but that I am self-conscious about.  I don't need to look like a movie star or a model or anything like that.
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You look good being the father and husband you are!  Enjoy your family, that is the only thing to make yourself even more handsome!
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show you have confidence in yourself, that is most attractive to guys
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make yourself healthy and fit. looking great helps a lot. most of us are visual beings and we alway crave praises with our peers. positive comments is always an esteem booster.
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wadda ya think?\nthey may like your "looks" good looks do attract, and/or who you are as a person!
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Sweetness, what you're missing is confidence in your own self. No one can give it to you; it's the sort of thing you have to gain by yourself. Keep telling yourself that you're fine, that people are just "looking" and not judging. Look in the mirror at yourself and tell yourself that you are fine, you are marvelous, wonderous, whatever just so long as you beleive it. I was self-concious in high school too and that's what I did. I figured I could let other people knock down my self-confidence or I that I wouldn't. I opted for wouldn't. Good luck and Blesings.
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Absolutely!  Self confidence makes you beautiful.  I think that's where "inner beauty" comes from.
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Find 3 or more (up to five) qualities that other\npeople don't have. Add them up and realize that you were put on this earth for a Damn REASON, that you are as good or even better than other dudes and don't slump your shoulders. I hated myself for so long until I was about 23, when other people had to tell me that I was good and a good friend to have around, that a lot of people found me attractive. Email me your circumstances.muirmatt@yahoo.com
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Build up your self esteem.
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- Think you are beauty.\n- Refine your thoughts.\n- Express love to him.\n- Attract him with your care and let him know how great love you have upon him.\n- Have a simple and neat look and smile often.\n- Hope you can achieve as what you think and do and have my heartiest wishes.