How exactly do you know youre gay/bi?
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its more complicated than these people no offense are making it out to be because when you start realizing it you have conflicting emotions for years at least in most peoples lives you have seen tons of images of only heterosexual couples so you are confused as to what to do and how to take it unfortunately some people as a mixture of being confused and their parents not knowing or understanding their positions comit suicide which is just a tragedy In my case it took some time for me to realize that i was gay and luckily didn't take too long for me to accept it and its just who i am I don't feel as comfortable being in a relationship witha  woman as i do with a man and am not sexually attracted to women like i am to men
1034084
Kinsey's studies showed that there are very few people who are 100% straight or 100% gay. I've been out of the closet since I was 18 (I'm 37 now). I've never been with a man, but I do occassionally have fantasies about them...and I do find them attractive. However I still identify myself as a lesbian...though I occassionally will question it myself. It's hard when there are social pressures that you have to be one or the other, but (as Kinsey's studies showed) you really don't have to be and perhaps aren't by nature. It's possible that you may be bisexual. And, really, does it matter? There is no rule that says you should or shouldn't be with a man if you're curious.It's ok to be gay, straight, or bi...just  be yourself...and be truly honest with yourself. Don't pressure yourself either way.
882476
First off are u gay???????????
271139
Too early to tell, probably.  \n\nAt this point, I encourage you to just follow your heart and your set of sexual, emotional, and personal needs without worrying yet about identifying yourself.  Maybe you are bi.  Maybe you are a lesbian.  Maybe you are straight.  You will find the right label after you have had a chance to have more experience with relationships, with sex, with love, and with culture.\n\nExplore, question, and learn first.  Label later.  And remember you can always change your label to fit your growing understanding of yourself.\n\nFor some people, bisexuality, especially in youth, is a phase on the way to learning that they are really primarily identified as Gay or Lesbian or primarily identified as straight.  For some others, like myself (and I ain't a kid no more; I told my Mom I was bi in 1986 and haven't turned back since), a Bi identity fits us and is not a phase but our permanent state of being.\n\nIt is more important to learn about your self and your needs than to be anxious about what to call yourself.\n\nBe honest with your friend, and see if there is room for a romantic relationship with her in your friendship.  Again, that's more important at this stage than choosing an identity.  When you have had enough life experience, your identity will reveal itself to you.\n\nMost important of all, don't let anyone convince you that how you are and what you're feeling is wrong.  Whatever your underlying identity, who you are is who you are and you are right to be that person.  Find friends and lovers who understand you, and can support you when you're on your way.  \n\nPS/ You might try doing some reading about sexual identity and bisexual identity in particular if this is on your mind.  Try some of the books mentioned below:
1005582
Personally, I love bi/gay guys.  One of my best guy friends is bi and he is like a brother to me, I love him to death.  So, in answer to your question, sure, yeah.
877787
you are likely bisexual or at least bi curious
255730
No crap, how gay are you?
638724
Sometimes otherwise " straight" guys look at other men. Its normal, and natural. Sometimes it is sexual, sometimes you're just checking out the biological compitition, sometimes you're just looking to be curious. Sometimes you get inspired to work out more if you see a buff body at the gym.\nRemember, "gay", "straight" and "Bi" are labels people use to judge you.\nSo you like women. So you're curious about men. No big deal. Do what feels right for you - and don't let others decide what works for you sexually. There is nothing wrong with experiementing. How will you know if you like or don't like something without ever trying it? LOTS of other men "try" things, whether they admit it or not.
1051448
I've spent alot of time trying to figure that out myself bcuz that shit hurts. And when a guy bring that up I ask if he's gay r bi
200189
Okay, you DO know I'm gay, right? As in not into men?
227098
hOW OLD ARE YOU I CAN SHOW YOU SOME OF MY GAY LIFE SO YOU CAN SEE IF YOUR GAY OR NOT!
1016243
the question is... are you gay? becoz if you are, you're up to it. and if you're not, then you're straight. it's either you go that way or this way
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Gay and Straight are very limiting labels.  I tend to think of things on more of a continuum.  If you tend to be attracted ONLY to men romantically for lasting relationships.  Then I would consider you mostly Homosexual.  \n\nIf you are attracted ONLY to females romantically for lasting relationships I would consider you mainly Heterosexual.  \n\nAnything else,  liking to be physically sexual with men or women, being mildly attracted to men or women, somewhere in the middle.  I think most people are bisexual to a certain degree.  People just tend to lean more to the hetero or the homosexual side.
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How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffee is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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Elaborate on the facts please.  Are you bi or really gay. Or do you mean boyfriend in platonic sense?  Or are you just putting some BS into the mix because you are bored?
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theres one good way to know if your bi sexual or just bi courious. You have been with men. If you can look at a woman and just wonder what it would be like to be with her and not act on that thought. Your just courious. If you find a lady and actually try something and enjoy what you have then your bi. You are the only one who really could answer this question. It depends on how you feel in side.
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If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!