when a girl is mad but doesnt wanna show it and wants to bring up something to make him feel bad?
927987
She could like you, or maybe you told her something that really hurt her and you are not aware of it, we are funny species, sometimes revenge is sweet, girls that have been hurt by a guy would sometimes hit comments at his parents, because she knows that would hurt the most and make the guy think
840701
I usually do that with my best friends, and if I don't, they'd think I got mad with them. Also I'd think there's something wrong if they don't say that to me. we say that frankly, and we feel happy to hear that. however, it is not acceptable to be told to some one who doesn't have strong relationship with you.
217539
You could, but why would you want to? What would you get out of telling her? Sympathy? If you're hurting, talk to a close friend about it. I wouldn't suggest telling this girl about how much she hurt you - what is she going to do about it or than avoid you for here on out?
142260
yes you should be mad for not telling you, think about it. if he didnt tell you that thing being so small and simple and something that he didnt even initiate then image what hes NOT telling you! keep asking and be persistant
996428
yes, I may, that depends of the situation. If He ask me, i want let him down even if If i don't have that kind of feeling for him. Sure I wouldn't keep him thinking. I will make sure I tell him my feelings about  the whole thing.
578422
Ignore him he sounds like a very jealous person.  As far as the girls go...you said your friends.  There is no reason you can't tell her how you feel when no one is around and if she rejects you he would never know.  However, if she feels the same way...good for you...don't worry about making him mad. (Just when you tell the girl how you feel...tell her that you have something to ask her and you don't want it to ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way and then let her know how you feel.)  Good Luck.
712908
In all honesty we are so use to guys doing it that we never knew that it would actually bother you if we did it. She might be doing it for the same reasons guys do it "she does not want to hurt your feelings".
50417
Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
1067653
Usually girls act this way when they are jealous. She is probably insecure of your beauty, friends, something like that. So she has to do immature things to make herself feel better. There's really nothing you can do about it. Be above it and ignore her. You will look like the bigger person. Plus it will drive her crazy when she realizes she can't upset you.
723299
It's a ego thing, it hurts to be lied to and disappointed. Whether the girl is ugly or not. Still pisses you off and you wanna say crap about her and him.
480660
You didn't do anything wrong.  I'm guess that this was just moving a lot faster than she had planned and she became uncomfortable about how much she had revealed to you.  She was embarrassed.  At what I am guessing is your young age, girls feel a certain urgency that guys do, but then their mind puts the brakes on big time because they know how they are supposed to feel and act.  It's a balancing act with girls between what they want to do and what they know they should.  You're OK.
640789
If you didn't have any argument with her friend before, or anything making her (or her friend's friend) feel angry or embarrassed before that you could think of, it's supposed she should be telling the truth. Did you ever have any fine conversation with that girl? If not, it probaby might not be a good idea. Otherwise, give yourself more confidence and go ahead! Oh...by the way, how old are you? I might think it would sound a bit scary if you (or she) is younger than 14 years old.
603570
Sometimes you meet girls that just tell you personal things for no reason (evident to me anyway) and this might just be a case of that. But if it's something that really bothers you, Your boyfriend should be willing to settle your mind by casually mentioning you exist to the girl in question.
612369
It seems to me that this girl have an attitude problems or she don't know how to express herself. I'm a female myself and I get mad quick but as I gotten older I can control it more. But this gurl want you to kiss her butt, that's why she get mad when she hangs up in you and don't call her back Good FOR HER, because she needs to learn how to COMMUNICATE that's the key if something is bothering her. I think that it is good that y'all are friends. If you really like this gurl than tell her that whatever is bothering her just to talk to you about the situation. relationships are going to work overnight it takes time and trust.
955944
I have a girl tells me she hates me (because I am freshman and short (only 5'1)) I just ignore her and it seems to look, because once I say okay or give her a I don't care look she has a frown on her faces because she can't make me feel as bad as she feels. People just mess with you to bring up their self-esteem, so just ignore her or when she tells you say whatever or that is your opinion.
772614
Tell her that until she apologizes you don't feel like talking to her.  Watch her reaction if she is sorry about what she did. If she is - give  her a second chance ... if she is not really apologetic and doesn't think she did something wrong I would NOT talk to her again.
945356
Girls are just like that. Every girl would agree. If she's angry with you, give her some roses to cheer her up. Once she's happy again, explain that she's still the one and only and that it was simply a misunderstanding.