is talking and seeing sex results in loosing concentration on career?
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silly no notatal . inly when u do it   u loose urcarrier
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Well it is usually the other way around but the advice is the same. You need to express the fact that although the sex is great you long for a more meaningful relationship. Try to avoid using "you" phrases, ie You never want to talk. Instead focus on what you feel "I would like to talk about (insert topic here)" If this doesn't work or she slips back into old habits of never talking you might be dealing with someone that just isn't into talking, a more physical person. If that is the case then you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put up with it or not. The other possibility and not to be mean is that she might not find you all that interesting. I doubt that is the case since you want to talk more but it could be that she just isn't into the same things you are and therefor doesn't have much to talk to you about.
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Actually, there are many studies which prove a small distraction during learning, such as radio, music, or even television, allows your mind to focus more clearly.  Think of sitting in a room and listening to a grandfather clock tick, tick, tick.  After while you no longer hear it.  This is the same process the brain uses to minimize the music and allow your mind to focus on the task at hand.  Ask Dad to allow you to try both ways, and see which one works best for you.
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It is not harmful to have sex often or regularly.  Your ability to express yourself is terrible, though.\nJust a thought:  Focus on education and improving your language skills.  Stupidity is much more harmful than too much sex.\nThe honest truth is as long as sexual activity doesn't interfere with the normal day to day activities it isn't too much.
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Yes. this s a mini-meditation of putting some of your attention on your own tongue and throat when in a conversation. It results in your keeping your voice down at a modulated and reasonable level,\nand thinking more slowly, so that you do not seem to be ramming your own thoughts, ego and feelings into the atmosphere
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I don't know that it specifically directs memory so much as destracting the mind as a whole.  If your head is re-playing porn, you probably aren't going to be paying proper attention to the rest of the world.\n\nJust like people can become addicted to sex, so they can become addicted to porn.  It's an increasingly large problem with on-line porn.  One day you suddenly realize that your kid or spouse would rather spend time with the computer than anybody else.\n\nIt can have a desensitizing effect.  One could end up not being able to associate the difference between sex and making love.  One could end up requiring more and more things to achieve arousal.  Just like anything that people can find pleasurable, it has an addictive potential.
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Yeah it may help as some people are more sexually aroused while watching porn. but beware it can cause sexual addiction. You can find more information on impotence at
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Only when you let it become a controlling factor in your life or makes you see women in a negative way. If you see it occasionally it shouldn't be any big deal. It's safe, entertaining, and educational. I use it to get myself horny.
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Research's been done, too much masturbation causes you to lose interest in sex. That's overexcessive i mean, probably like 5 times daily ??
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Hi Kat...\n\nIf you've had significant changes in your concentration recently, you should definitely talk to your doctor or therapist first.\n\nOn the other hand, remember that inability to concentrate, by definition, is hard to measure.  After all, you've never been inside someone else's head!  Also, like any physical and mental characteristic, there's a natural range that occurs within the general population.\n\nFor example, I had an engineer that worked with me who had tremendous focus and concentration.  Trouble was, he was oblivious to nuance and change.  At the same time, I had a sales and marketing guy working for me whose mind was always "somewhere else".  But he'd bring back great ideas (and orders) from those flights of fancy.\n\nBoth guys were important contributors in their own way.  Surely we need those with steel-trap minds and laser focus.  But we also need dreamers and out-of-the-box thinkers to invent the things that the engineers will work on and react to change and challenges with spontaneity and nimble thinking.\n\nInspiration is rarely found in the humdrum here-and-now.  Maybe you're just a poet, being too hard on yourself?
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Of course your having a mid life crisis, all you have to do is not worry it's natural. If you have had no complaints from previous g/f's about your performance you don't need to worry. If you have had some complaints you may need help. But what your going through most guys go through it's just an age thing where your looking back at your lost youth, wondering what's in the future for you. Different guys act in different ways to it, so don't worry your normal
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Yes, unless you peel it back and keep yourself clean.  And if it won't peel back, your changes of finding a sex partner definitely decreases.
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if you find that your sex drive is putting your life in a state of chaos or danger, then you may suffer from bi-polar disorder.   the fact that you mentioned prostitutes is a clue to that behavior being out of control.  have you seen a psychiatrist?  bipolar disorder is very treatabel with medication and you can have a normal sex drive that wont consume you.  (or land you in jail.)
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I would think one of the key things you can do is to make sure you have a significant relationship outside of the bedroom.  There's nothing with safely enjoying intercourse with the one you love, but anything in excess is dangerous.  When most all speech/conversation is just a prelude to sex, the relationship might be in trouble.  \n\nYes it may be difficult, but if you really want this to last you'll put the work in to making those communication efforts and restraining yourself.  But it will take work.
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Yes, if you're constantly worried about other areas of your life, you won't have time to look after the other areas.  If you're too uptight about other things, your libido can suffer as can your ability to relate to other people.
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yes it does affect the way you study because your trying to sing at the same time your trying to study and you dont get much studing done. so i think it would be better to study with the radio off and when you get done studing you can do what ever you wont.
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in our sex crazed society no every day is completely normal. the body has needs and i'll tell ya it's a great way to take the edge off. sometimes i have to take a coffee break with no coffee if you get my meaning and some days 2. plus lots with my lover whenever we can. if it's affecting your performance at work in a negative way or interfering in personal relationships (not seeing your friends anymore, don't have time for family) or starting to cost you $$ (even female sex addicts will pay for it just to avoid the conversing) or you're having one nighters a lot, then you may need help. take sex addicts annonymous with a grain of salt. i know that aa says if you have 1 drink a day you're an alcoholic. not necessarily true and especially with sex. \nevery day is no big deal. 6 and 7 times daily on a mandatory basis: big deal. IM me if you need to chat about it further.