should i get married to a guy that loves me but iam 18 he is 20 i love him too but what would you do?
925141
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay.  But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married!  At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household.  If a baby came along, how would you manage?  \n\nIf you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right.  Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future.  You will know in your heart when the time is right.
507327
My boyfriend is 28 and im 21 and he loves me! But you should give your relationship time.
1132023
well im 18 and my b/f is 26 and we get along really well. he is young at heart and loves to have fun. give it a go and things may work out. if not at least you wont be stuck asking...what if!
127654
Im 29yrs old and speaking as someone older i have this advice for you. Leave age out of it. Your older than legal age so it is not of concern. How do YOU feel about him? Really. if you love him, see where it leads. make sure he treats you right!! I had a friend who was 19 at the time and married a guy 29. they just had there first child - still very much in love. it depends on the situation. one step at a time. see where it leads and make sure he treats you right.
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.
550124
So you are 7 years younger than your man--big deal!  As long as you are both over the legal age to marry--go for it!\nMake sure this is what you both want before taking that next step though--from experience it's a doozy!  If either of you feels like you must get married just because you have children together--DON'T GET MARRIED!!!  That will just make your relationship end badly for you, him and the children!  My parents are 9 years apart in age--married for 33 years now; my grandparents were 15 years apart and married for 17 years (my grandfather died & my grandmother never remarried).  I married a man who was only 1 year older than me--ended badly (we married because we had a child) and I remarried because I was in love with a man who is 5 years older--been together now for 13 years!
1049849
Why does age matter? If you like him and he likes you go for it. They say all's fair in love and war. I say you better get your man before somone else does. Anyway. Just be careful about if you two are still going out when your 18. Because that's against the law. You got three more years though. Hope I helped.
550225
I was in love at a young age too and my guy turned out to be gay. We're still friends, but it is just an example of how much can change. I'm now married to a great man I would have never met had I stayed with a guy while I was your age. Keep you options open, but stay with him as long as you are happy. Just don't make any perm. decisions till you are older. You both still have a lot of changing to do. Tell him you love him too, but you don't want to promise a life together just yet. Not because you want to be with someone else, or someone better, but because you both could change and you don't want to make mistakes.
875435
I would not advise getting married. You are too young to be debating marriage. Don't rush into marriage. Marriage is more than "I Love You".
74644
I don't think there is a age to get married it only depends on you. Ask your  self if you will want that guy to be with you the rest of your life?
256008
Well that definitely is a big age difference. Are they sure they are in love? If I were that girl and was truly in love with him, then yes i would get married because age doesn't matter when it comes to true love. What does her parents think?
54442
Well, it depends.  If you are 20 and he is 23, no.  If your 11 and he's 14, yes.  If your 11 and he's 23, there's something wrong with you.  You generally need to stay in your own age group from 11-17 years old.  Once your old enough to marry, it doesn't really have a limit.  Unless your 30 and he's 60. >.< The general reason is because 11 year olds and 17 year olds think and want different things.  It's also illegal for a 17 year old to embrace an 11 year old.  \n\n~*Jesus take the wheel*~
483978
Is 18 to young to get engaged, i don't think so . have fun with that part.But is 20 to young to get married? well for some people it might be,there are some that get married at that age and are still together and thy were in love and they took that person for better or worse till death do them apart, but there are some out there that should never get MARRIED out there ,they don't no what it really means. And if your worry about missing out on life,you sure don't need to get married. i waited till i was 28 till i got married and that's when life began.
852736
I think that you should wait until you do reach 18 before getting romanticly involved with him because too many bad things could happen if you guys get into a fight since you are still a minor. But after you turn 18, you should go for it. I'm 26 and am dating a 42 year old. Most of them still act like they're 15 not matter how old they get. lol
260957
24, recently married.  I feel that you should be over 20, also have some direction in life before you drag someone else into it.  But if it is true love you will know with out any doubts.
896712
The numbers of years difference would not be so bad if you were 33 and he was 48. At 18 you are far too young to be involved with a man that age.... He's lived and you haven't. You have dreams and he should already achieving his... Too many differences to over come. yeah he might treat you very well...but you will come to resent him eventualy and angry for having wasted your time.
154410
marry him!!\nowh wait..before that..\nfirst of all..only you can sort this out..if you think you can cope with problems you may face..(due to the 'no qualifications' thing)..then you should indeed marry him..\ni advise you that its the best anywayz..but ever heard of this?\nwhen poverty knocks on the door,\nlove and trust flies out the window..\n\nmake your own decissions..age is no issue!~