WHats the best way to get over some one YOU LOVE?
917918
Is hard but only time kills the pain. Good luck.
71626
This will depend on the nature of your relationship with this person, and how your feelings truly were for them.\n\nIt could take a couple of weeks, or decades to truly feeled healed and moved on, especially if this person has hurt you.\n\nSome people I've gotten over in a matter of weeks. But others (actually just one person, my first love), I still think about.
7299
Someone once told me that it takes 2 times the length you had feelings for the other person to get over that person.  If your feelings lasted 4 years, it will take 8 years to heal!!\n\nI agree that time is really the only remedy for a broken heart.  Take some time to think about how life was before you started the relationship.  Think back to those "happy" memories.  Do things on your own or with a few close friends of yours.  Keep yourself busy.  If you can find lots and lots of thing to do, the time to heal will flash by in a blink of an eye.  There are many things to do to keep a mind occupied!! haha
696751
find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
805793
The best way to get over one man is with another.
406428
Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
1079094
What my grandmother said was the best way to get over someone is to get under someone.\n\nI though that was a funny joke, but it turns out it is scientifically accurate. Getting intimate with someone releases hormones that get you "over" the other person.
797592
the best way to get over a guy is get under another
319683
PRAY. I KNOW IT MAY BE HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW FIND SOMETHING TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE DOING IT TO GET OVER HIM YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS GOING TO HELP YOU RIGHT BUT IT WILL HURT IN THE LONG RUN
1115985
remember the beautiful moments and gift that person left you.  \n\nSome people never get to have a special person in their life. Celebrate the life and not the death...
318753
In past experience, I've learned that the best way to get over someone is to give yourself an allotted grieving time...I say a week or less, and then start doing something to take your mind off of the situation, or at least alleviate the thought of that person. I have found one of the best things is exercise...or try something you've never done before...a new hobby or sport. It's a great way to distract you, plus you might meet some new interesting people as well.
34891
You allow yourself to work through the grief. People often say, "Move on! Get over it!", but when you truly love someone who doesn't share your feelings, it's a loss. It's no less valid than losing someone in another way, like through death, divorce, moving far away, etc. You can't just shut off your feelings. You need to give yourself time to work through your feelings and grieve the loss.\n\nThe trick is to keep your grief from interfering with the rest of your life. Set aside certain times to let your feelings out. For example, you can decide, "I'll spend one hour a day feeling hurt." If you catch the thoughts coming out at other times, picture a big, red STOP sign and put them out of your thoughts until your designated "grief time."\n\nGood luck!\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
409662
DANG THAT'S A TOUGH ONE ; i KN0 i ASKED MYSELF THE SAME THiNG EVRYDAi ; BUT iT TAKES TiME - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SOME MEMORi OF HiM - BUT iT GOES AWAi SLOW - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SUM FEELiNG FOR HiM BECAUSE iT WAS LOVE ND LOVE NEVER GOES AWAi EVEN A LITTLE - SO JUST TRi TO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE TO HELP U GET OVER HiM ; iT MiTE HELP ; OR DO THiNGS TO GET UR MiND OFF OF HiM -- iT HELPD WiT MEH .. SOO YEA
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
771096
try your best to get over it . do NOT sit around listening to sad love songs. It does not help. it actually makes things worse. hang out with ur friends. Keep urself ocupied. dont let ur mind wander to him. plus u cant get him bak if hes the one who broke up wit u.
1150260
I don't believe it is possible to wake up and stop loving someone.  You can get over her one day at a time and it will take some time if you truly love her.  You probably will always have a special place in your heart for her.  Who knows yall may work things out.  I just know that you can get over her slow but sure and still have a love for her different from any one else.  I am sorry you are going through this. I KNOW it is tough.