Help guys!! How does a female ask a guy out who is shy without him running a mile?
918236
Be yourself.  Maybe try asking him if he would be interested in catching a movie sometime without asking him out directly and see how he reacts.
886833
Hey,\n\nI'm a big fan of simply asking someone without all of the fuss. But I have seen a bunch of cute ways.\n\nI've seen girls bake a cake and write the question in frosting. \n\nI've seen girls sneak into the guys locker, or slip a note into the locker. \n\nOr create a trail around your school or your hometown for him to follow, and have him end up with you. \n\nUltimately I would suggest asking him face to face, and somewhere private so you don't embarrass him (guys tend to get embarrassed with big displays of affection). \n\nGood luck, and I hope this helps.
568017
Well, You like him, right? so make the move. He is too shy to ask you to go out or some' maybe. Just send something like, Hey!! if not you'll never know. Give a try, and you'll find out. He will be flatter
635316
just do it most guys r to shy to ask girls out.....but do it wen hes alone so his friends wont mess it up for u
942705
You really have to be an extrovert around shy guys and bring us out of our shells. We may have the major hots for you but unable to articulate that emotion into anything less than senseless jibbering when you are around. Ask the guy out- be bold, go do something together that puts you in close proximity without feeling like there is alot of pressue. Some guys will respond and there is room to grow and some guys might not. Believe me, if he likes you you should start to see him melt-but keep at it if the feeling is returned!\n\nGood luck!
1156025
Well if you are both shy, then someone has to break the ice! Once the ice is broken and you like each other, then it will be history from there.  But sounds like your are going to have to get the nerve and go talk to him!  Just go up adn say Hi how ya doin or whatca up to?  Or find something that you need help with and ask him to help you.  That always makes a guy feel good when you NEED them!  But you have to break that ice or it will go no where!  But it sounds like you have a date coming on if you get the nerve!!!  Good luck and don't get cold feet!  Just do it!!  Or you might miss out and someone else is gonna sneak in and steal him away!
615378
Guess what? If he is shy and u haven't gone out with each other yet, then he is scared of asking u out as well! Go for it!
1080135
hes shy and was going to but lost his nerve and is now trying to let you know that but still cant... step up to him and ask him out
219943
Be direct!!!  Believe me guys would love more women to simply ask them out for a change.  Call him up, say you met where ever and you want to know if he's involved. If he isn't ask him out. Easy isn't it?
16535
1st, you hafta be open with him.  if you want to move a little faster, mention it to him.  hes not a mind reader.  2nd, he might actually respect you, like most guys dont, and doesnt wanna ruin a good thing.  be patient and help him along.  3rd, he might be shy of public affection.\n\nthe only way to figure out anything is to talk to him.  relationships fizzle without communication.  \n\n7
691320
Try working out in the same area as them...and then start talking you might not want to ask him out immediately..find out what y'all have in commen and just let it come natural..
1130121
YOU can make the move, maybe he is just shy\n\ndo it anywhere
977154
Just come to him and deliver these lines with a complete straight face:\n\n"Hey, [HIS NAME]!\n\nI've seen you around and [PAUSE] I was thinking what kind of guy you are. You look like a cool guy, but a little bit shy. Am I right?"\n\nNow, when he is trying to convince you he is not shy, ask him why he looked at you so many times but didn't ask you out.
287403
Next time he's alone (again when he's alone) go up introduce yourself and ask if he's seeing anyone. If he's not ask him out.  Please don't try that pathetic flirt/hint crap that most women use. Most guys don't pick up on that subtle crapola!
966418
I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
858998
okay well since your shy have a friend (while you guys are messing around or something) ask are you guys going out? or do you guys like each other or just single him out and have them ask gee it seems like you like her...do you? and even if he says no see what he does like with his face and stuff.......
149377
honestly the best thing you can do is just to take a deep breath, man up and go ask her...\nthere's a guy that i know likes me but he's too shy to ask me out, although i've given him more than enough signals to show that i like him...Sometimes girls (aka myself) just dont feel comfortable asking a guy out themselves, unfortunately.  So if you dont want to miss out on something you better go ask her.