Would a temper ruin my chances of getting a girl?
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Well, if you don't treat her bad, then I don't think it will ruin your chances.\n\nIf you REALLY think your temper is that bad, that you will snap and just freak, then take like anger management class or try taming your temper.
940441
Well hate is such a strong word.  Occasionally you just need to be slapped around so you can remember you place.  The problem is I don't think you have any women around that can remind you of what your place is.  Sad state of affairs!\n\nSee Ladies this is what happens when we don't give the weird/unattractive ones a chance, they turn into bitter, mean, women hating machines, that take all of the time & energy they would be putting into their 'chick' and vent it out their bitterness on us instead.\n\nI'm sorry dear, I'm sorry you were rejected, but don't you think it's time just to let it go?  Move past that.  Stop being angry & one day if your a very good boy, maybe just maybe you'll meet a nice girl that will date you.\n\nIf your not ready to let go then I encourage you to continue venting!  It will help with the process!!!   You always give me a good laugh.
834662
hi there...  For what you wrote i think you could make a woman very very happy... and i actually believe that besides being shy, you got everything to have lots of dates. Try "indirect meeting" some of your friends might know someone you like, ask them to introduce her to you.. once you are in front of her, remember my words... with your personality you have success almost totally assured...  Try talking about something you might have in common. Do NOT try to show her what you are, let her discover it. in a few minutes, the conversation will continue by itself....\n "Emotional, supportive guy" are very appreciated qualities. Find someone that deserves you. if you fail once or twice (or more times) dont give up, there's always somebody special.
878167
paul i am sorry to say this but this doesn't really sound like much of a problem. I think you should stop worrying about whether she likes you and do something about it. Take control of your life. By now if she hasn't given you any signals, then don't bother, it ain't going to happen anytime soon. You got to come out straight and face her. Its now or never. Be a man!
820290
right there.. your attitude is going to screw you over.. be confident my friend... by being confident you are being more attractive.. just be your self because in the long run, even though it should be the first thing its not because of the world we live in, personality is going to be your greatest friend... if she doesnt like you for that then she isnt worth is.. but thats not what you want to hear and im sorry for that... you just want advice to get her so thats what i'll give you...be consistently around her.. she'll notice you... start talking to her and have group hang outs and make sure she is invited.. go bowling or the movies.. something where everyone is comfortable.. this way you get to talk to her more and get to know her and vise versa with you... then after you feel everything is good... ask her out... if you think you arent attractive enough then she wont.. also its more than just looks.... maybe she isnt as shallow as you might think\n\ngood luck\nnice guys dont always finish last... i wont let it happen
1078101
NO....hopefully you are looking for a nice girl, not a hot girl........its great if you can get both i guess, but personality is more important
352542
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
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Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
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of course not. some gals would mind definitely but deep down its you, some gal out there loves everythin abt u, the way u smile, walk, talk, inside n outside. dun bother abt wat others say to u.\n\ngd luck n take care. :)
488413
Don't change a thing sweetheart.., your doing just fine. The way you treat a lady will draw that someone special to you.., I just don't think you have met her yet. Most guy's put on a nice face then turn into werewolves at midnight !! I appreciate that it's not a front with you.., stay who you are.., don't be changing for no one !!!! You will find her.
90946
Don't give up, I have had the same problem wit girls. MR RIGHT will appear when you least expect it, mayb even this sec? ;)
106583
Stop being so silly.  If you're attracting a girl that things its "cool" or "sexy" that you're a "bad boy" then you're probably just attracting the wrong type of girl. Long term, wouldn't you rather have someone that really cares about you and enjoys you for just being you?  Wouldn't you rather be with someone who you don't have to entertain to keep them around?  Trust me, you'll be much happier with a gal who wants to laugh at your silly jokes and smiles at you when you're being really genuine.  Be yourself, and don't risk a criminal record just to get a girl to like you.  She probably won't stick around in the long run anyway, and look at what you might have lost if you had spent all that time trying to impress some girl.  \n\nOn the other hand, if she's a quality girl and you really do like her, then take your chances by confessing to her that you've got a crush, and you keep trying to impress her with your trouble-making, but that your real hope is that she's crushing on you too.  You might just find that she's attracted to you and NOT the trouble your causing.  Maybe she's trying to show you, "hey, I like you. Even if you're causing trouble."  Talk to her, ask her, and don't be scared.  Girls like guys that are honest, and if you are able to communicate your interest in her, she'll most likely be really impressed!  Good luck and keep us updated!  Oh, and stay out of trouble. Jail is NO FUN!
696553
Depends on the chemistry and depends on you. If you're too agressive then I'd probably make you wait longer.
222913
A lot of the time, if you are not being approached it is because you are giving off the impression that you are not approachable.  Most times without even knowing it! If you get nervouse maybe you don't smile enough or make eye contact.  What type of women are you trying to attract, or have you put much thought into it?  Consider the people that you might want in your life, what qualities they need to have to make you happy. Then get involved in an activity that you are really interested in, get to know the people involved, then persue someone you find interesting that may posses those qualities you enjoy.  You already know you have something in common, maybe that would put you more at ease knowing that right off the bat. It's about something you are doing. You didn't really elaborate much or give people much to go on, but I hope this helps you some.
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Not even. I think the mistake is guys mistake being 'bad' as the same thing as being aggresive. If you know what you want, and you make it clear you want her but won't compromise yourself to have her, she'll respect that. And if she respects you, she's more likely to develp feelings for you.
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There's a difference between wont talk, and afraid to talk.\nFigure out which it is.\nThink of it this way, if she's going to like you then you really can't say the wrong thing,  if she isn't then nothing you say will change that.  What do you have to lose?
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trust me, thats a very bad idea\ndont look for a girl just cuz you feelin sh!tty\nit will lead to a dependancy on others (your girl)\nthe best way to deal with your problems is good help, not dependency\n\nso im sayin you need to talk and somone to listen