A guy never thought that gays exist ....Can you believe it ?
922564
never believe what you hear and only believe half of what you see.  There is probably more to his story.
380433
I would probably agree with gay, he may be confused with his own sexuality. The only other explanation is he could be shy or a virgin and not really know what he is doing. The best thing to do is ask him. It seems strange.
1059374
Seriously, who has the time to even think about something as pointless as this? Besides, the question seems to imply that both black people and gay people are somehow 'bad', and that choosing between them would be choosing the lesser of two 'evils'.\n\nPlease. Please conserve oxygen.
955772
i dont think hes gay\nb
305645
I don't think we do. I'm gay and have been out at work for a year and a half. When I first told the guys there, they told me that they would never have known if I didn't tell them. About a month ago one of them told me "I still can't believe your gay". The thing is that most gay guys don't act "weird". Most act just like the guy next door. That's why you can never know for sure who is gay and who is not.  There are a lot of men out there who have a lot of the "feminine" traits but they are straight.  Who's to know?
472708
That could be the reason he isn't coming out, because he is afraid or cautious about what people might say or do. I personally don't flaunt the fact that I'm gay, because it isn't so widely accepted in some areas. Just be supportive of his decision, and he will come out if he wants to.
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There really isn't any way to know for sure..  \nMost of the time we kinda have an idea if someone is gay but there are some individuals that are very good at hiding their "tendencies".    You should try to become their friend, strike up a conversation about a book, movie, the weekend coming up, etc, etc--  Try to get to know them as a person.   There are many people out there, specially in H.S. that just because they don't like a person, rumors/lies are made up!! I'm pretty sure u have heard some rumors about yourself that you know are just lies!!!  So don't believe everything u hear.
570741
Sounds like you just did come out of the closet. By posting your question, you announced to the whole world that you're gay. :)
1181820
That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
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Odd that the very first to respond was the biggest closet case of them all!\n\nSome are truly curious and want to learn, some have family members or friends that are gay, some are questioning, but the majority that  are here asking the provocative questions or insulting gays are troubled and damaged people.\n\nNo normal heterosexual spends hours on here, lurking, in the shadows.  They are closet cases or deeply disturbed.\n\nPeople who have made a mess of their life, seek comfort by trying to inflict pain on others, so they drag their sad emotionally wrecked self here and try to act superior.  But they make themselves look even more sad and pathetic.  They realize that at this too they have failed, so they keep lashing out.  \n\nMost normal straight people don't get that worked up about gays, they might not like us, but they don't spend this much energy to let the world know.  Its only those who have made a mess  of their lives.\n\nEDIT: The first responder was deleted, kkkjewhater, We ALL KNOW "Ron N" is gay as a three dollar bill and we are mighty proud to call him one of US!
488528
I've met overwight homosexuals.\nI think you are mistaken on all counts.
641549
I've seen this before.  This is a christian dude who comes on here and posts this crap, to try and make gay guys look bad.  It's not the first time.\n\n[sigh]\n\nIt'll be nice if ever there is a day when the christian hatred of gays goes away...
346398
I never said that was nothing at all.  You know what?. . .I like it more when you ask funny questions.  Did you notice how Christian93 posted 8 comments to your question about gay sex?  Looks like someone has a crush on you!!!!
39594
Sure, I've been on both sides of the spectrum. Hid my true gay self for years, pretended to be straight in a small southern town. If you wanna chat, email me at jtb1999@hotmail.com and we can find a way to do it on MSN or YAHOO. Peace and good luck.
917223
Ten Speed,\nYou should check out how many heterosexual Step parents ruin their children's lives by incestous rape... even Lot had sex with his two daughters, so if a chosen of "god" does it then its Divine sanction?. Being Gay doesnt make you a Sex-Maniac, notice most rapists are Heterosexual? It is people like you with so much ignorance in ASSUMING every gay man wants to get you in bed that breeds Hate Crimes and discrimination. Take a look... Most gay people are wayyyyy better looking that regular guys, why would they want YOU unless of course you looked like Tom Cruise or Colin Farrell\n\nGay doesn't only mean 2 men but can also mean 2 women. \n\nStimpy,\n\nYou must be like what..12 years old? A man who wants to be a woman is not called a gay person, that is a Transgendered person or Transexual. Equip yourself with knowledge before unveilling your ignorance\n\nGay Marrigae is NOT ridiculous if it is done with Love of two people. There are some pretty ridiculous straight marriages too, like getting married while half-boozed with tequila? And joined in Holy Matrimony by a priest that dresses as Elvis? Its ridiculous but it's ridiculous fun.... \n\nNOTHING is THAT ridiculous if it makes the loving couple happy... whoa re WE to tell them how to live their lives when we ourselves are trying to do well withour own?
867684
I didn't know he was suppose to be gay.  you might want to try a finding a gay celebrities website. unless it's just a rumor.
732662
I cant really socialise with other gay men....And I am gay...I dont know why, but I feel so much safer and better among straight guys. Maybe it is because of my interests, but I havent found a single gay guy I can communicate with besides my very special boyfriend.\n I dont know, maybe I am prejudice, but gay guys in general have really mainstream interests....like mainstream music (pop), mainstream clothing (trendy) etc. etc. I really want to meet a person who is into cars, airplanes, videogames, comics etc. etc....I really have found the friends I made so boring....Are their life was about Madona, Aguilera, parties, going out and drinking...Nothing to actually spend time on or devote themselves..I really hope I can make more gay friends in the future..