what do you do when you see someone is unhappy?
926204
Wow, if life came down to a numbered list wouldn't it be easy?\n\nIt depends on the situation.  If the person wants to talk, then you should be there to listen, because sometimes knowing someone is actually listening (not hearing, and there is a big difference) is the best way to help.\n\nIf they want advice, then you should give it, or refer them to someone who can.\n\nIf they want to forget what is happening for a little while, distract them.\n\nIf they need your empathy, you to be sad with/for them, then discover why, and show geniune emotion.\n\nNot caring is the worst thing, because if they have confided in you how unhappy they are, then they are ultimately asking for help.\n\nRemember happiness is NOT a state of mind, it is moments to be enjoyed, just the same as other emotions, and the unhappy moments are there to remind us not to take the happy ones for granted.
220648
find out what is upsetting him and then fix it
111634
Condolences.\n\nJust continue doing what you're doing right now. Just be there for him. If he gets mad, try to understand him because you know what he's going through right now. And don't forget to pray for him.
1153256
If you are not happy - then leave... why would you try to make him feel good when you do not feel good? It is YOUR JOB to make you feel good- not his.... you cannot control how others feel, can only control your own feelings
689512
sit them down and be honest make sure you are alone and use a sincere tone just look them in the eyes and tell them you cant help hurting them because everything has its own consequences. The more you think or plan something the worse consequence would happen. look out for yourself but just be soft and considerate to that persons reactions and then make any further moves.
693399
Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.
464101
Give it a little more time. If you find yourself still unhappy after 8 or 8 months, start looking.  Life's too short to be unhappy.
548884
If you are not happy in the relationship then you should get out of it.Dont stay with a person and then cheat on them and justify it by saying"oh but i wasnt happy",have some respect.
878756
Pray......ask someone to pray with you.........i'll say a prayer for you!\n\nOtherwise.....get together with some positive and uplifting friends.....go do something fun......\n\ndo something good for someone else.......its odd how that will boost your spirits........\n\nsmile at someone!\n\nif it gets too bad.....see your doctor about a possible antidepressant to get you through a slump......or maybe a counselor to help you resolve whatever is making you so unhappy\n\nMay God bless you with His love and happiness!
618534
talk to this person and tell them how you feel. if that doesnt work, then try to stay clear of them as best you can. people like that can make your life miserable.
376610
When a person is angry, they tend to say things that they really don't mean. I think you are a nice person who don't like to see anyone one cry. I feel that you care about this person and he did show how sincere he was with his apology. I would call him to see how he is doing and take it from there.
986171
You can't but if it isn't working out you have to. It would be worse to stay in an unhappy relationship. Eventually he or she will get over their hurt feelings and realize it was for the best also.
970274
tell them you are upset and dissappointed with yourself.
1167439
usually i would back off and let the angry person be angry and get the anger off his or her chest.... whoever it might be coz, a person who is angry usually is too tense to deal with.... after the person cools off then you try to talk and get the problem that the person is facing and try to help or solve it together.... it might be you that caused the anger so you might as well try to not make this person angry again...
292761
You need to confront them in a straight forward manner after you've gotten past the really angry stage.  You need to let them know how what they have done has affected you and what your reaction is to this, if it is leaving or what ever.  Just don't let your anger and pain control the discussion, you need to be clear headed so you can make good choices about what you want to happen for your future.
959384
Be there for them when they need to talk about their issues and when you have had all you can take - do something for yourself like a bubble bath, gardening or go for a walk. Something YOU enjoy - to take your mind off their problems.\nBTW. Do not feel bad if you have to tell them you can not take any more right now.
648765
If you feel unhappy in the relationship, talk to the other person to see why they are causing you to feel that way, and if you are still unsatisfied, then yes.