my boyfriend always have sex with i without use condom?
929202
Realistically, You should MAKE him use a condom, bu if that denies him having sex with you, you should at least take steps to protect youself by using a femidom of some sort. Many are free from clinics, just  like condoms can be easily obtained. Alternatively, find someone else.\n\nIt is most definetly NOT SAFE
772398
hey hun, as weird as this is, i'm going through the EXACTLY same problem! my bf and i went on a break, and we both met other people, then we got back together, and I was noticing some weird stuff about my body, and get checked, and he did too just in case, he had Chlamydia and I had some Fungus infection.  The doc gave him Chlamydia anit biotics..and mine doc gave me the same things, just in case, as well is a treatment for my infection.  so, it IS possible for you to not get it from him, especially cause me and my bf had sex without a condom and, i still didn't get it.weird eh? but yes, it's possible..just let your doc know you want the meds for chlamydia..hope i could help!
27554
Don't engage in any kind of sexual act (oral sex, actual intercourse, kissing), until he gets to a doctor. Not only could he infect you, but he could be putting himself in serious harm if he doesn't go to a doctor. If he doesn't have insurance, check out the planned parenthood site below. They offer STD testing for free, as well as many other services. I went to them when I was younger, and everything is confidential. \n\nThe best of luck to you.
202016
SAFETY first. Use condom always
280407
Yes, he is cheating.\nIf he carries condoms everywhere then he is ready for sex everytime with every girl he meet.
723205
"I can't get you pregnant." is the oldest line in the book to get you in bed without having to use a condom. If you fell for this don't do it again. Legally he has to be notified since it takes two you know. Be prepared for him to deny it until a paternity test can be administered. Good luck.
210303
Any man that has sex with you once a month, there's something wrong with HIM. I wish you had stated how old your boyfriend is.  You are a better woman than me because there is NO WAY that I would trust my man to work in a place like that.  All I can say is good luck and I hope you're wearing condoms EVERY time you have sex!
53471
Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
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If they are only worried about not getting pregnant, he should use a lambskin condom.  They feel pretty much like you're not wearing a condom.\n\nLambskin does not protect against HIV or STDs.\n\nHe can buy polyeurythane condoms anywhere that latex condoms are sold.  They do not cost much more.  That will protect both he & his partner from pregnancy, HIV & STDs.  They are as effective as latex.\n\nIf he wants, he can put on a lambskin, and then a regular latex over that.  That will protect him from his allergy, and his partner from STDs, HIV, and pregnancy.  Keep in mind, this is the only time someone should wear two condoms.  \n\nYou shoud never wear two latex or two poly, or one latex with one poly condom.  They run a higher risk of breaking this way.
998647
As far as pregnancy, only abstinence is 100% effective so it is possible to get pregnant while using condoms.
999010
Unfortunately there is no other way to make him feel more protected. You did use a condom and that is about the only way to prevent the spread of it besides abstaining completely. Back off of him and give him time to think about what he wants from a relationship with you and if he even wants to be with you. I suggest joining a few groups of Yahoo that is designed for people with herpes. You can find someone who already has the disease so you dont have to go through a mess like this again.
1124029
It is your responsibility to protect yourself, you should be using condoms everytime you have sex unless both you and your partner have been tested and given the all clear (even then unless you trust that your partner isn't cheating)
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
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Having sex with my boyfriend.
534598
I've often missed a pill or even two.  Didn't worry about it.  Never got pregnant 'til I went off them for 3 months.  If you're worried then have him use a condom.
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This hasn't happen to me personally, but it has happen to a friend.  Here's what I think on this matter..\n\nWhen it comes to you as an individual, depend a great deal on how careful you are. If you always use a condom when having intercourse, if you are careful not to tear the condom when opening the package and while putting it on, if you make sure to leave an empty reservoir tip at the end when you put it on, and if you are careful to hold the rim of the condom when you take it off so that there is no leakage, then a condom is a very effective method of protection against pregnancy. \n\nSometimes a condom does break, but most pregnancies that take place when couples are using a condom occur because the couple did not follow the above instructions -- the most important of which is to use a condom every single time you have intercourse!
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Be careful. Please don't use that condom. Go ahead and just throw it out. trash it.  Once condoms are passed the experation date they will break. Would you drink a old glass of milk? No. Because it is bad for your health. Try going to a store or a clinic that has condoms. Get new ones. If you absolutly think you need to be having sex this soon. :) Have fun and please be safe.