Why do people think just because their relationships suck your's should suck too? Why do they try and ruin it?
915400
If all your friends are saying it maybe he is..or maybe they are all bi tches and you would be better off without them..say to them wheres your proof??
33183
Because you probably like myself have been hurt or devasted in the past by previous lovers, in turn you have built up a huge barrier that says, before you get me , i'll get you, so in turn you probably start and arguement, push then away, or start seeing someone else, usually to soften the blow, for you at least. It becomes an act of self preservation. How long can it last, is only up to you.
378999
there is nothing wrong with you, people blame their own faults to someone, which is not right. people who do this are insecure and they want to feel "big" and that's not right. assert yourself and stick up for yourself and they will stop. don't be scared to voice yourself.
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
101153
Everytime somebody does something like cheating it springs form an inperfection they prcieve in themselves. Usually fear of a stable relationship is because the people dont feel they are capable of holding up their end.
371322
No, you're not the only one. I don't understand people who are clingy and possessive in relationships--or once the relationship is over, can't cope with the breakup and start acting like stalkers. Jealousy is strictly for losers.
1155186
yep when I was in a bad relationship. I ended it that day. It happens I was with the loser for 3 years. I sit back now and think What the H*ll was I thinking. Atleast you are out of the situation.
977221
We women have this awful bloody problem that when things go wrong we automatically assume it's OUR fault or something WE did!!!!\n\nSome men don't like women who have an opinion or a voice!\n\nTo be honest maybe it's good that he has ended the relationship, he sounds like he may have more baggage than you know about. It shows commitment to meet someones family and if that's whats scared him off your better off without him, girl!
54219
Some people do that because they may be afraid of committment. Others because they have a trust problem. They had bad relationships in the past. So they have a hard time trust their spouse. Or because they are stupid.
8638
People are weird, when you have a boyfriend they are jealous, and pick and pride into your relationship.  When you don't have a boyfriend they make you feel bad about it: "You must be so lonely!",or "It's couples night, sorry!"  And then more dreadfully, they try to fix you up, yuck.  Some people, want to see you happy, while others could care less....
1010112
People just don't stop to think before they speak.  They can't be bothered to take the time it requires to see if there comments may be hurtful to someone.\n\nFor example, the comment about skydiving. True, you may not have children but I'm sure there a lot of people in your life that would be devastated if something happened to you. Such as family members, boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse.\n\nAs for the rest...it's just ignorance. To assume just because a person is single and tired that they must be a party person is just plain stupid.\n\nIgnore them and know that your space in this world is just as important as theirs.
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Because they have problems of their own and they don't understand that you need help too.  People are very self-centered, its part of human nature, and many times other people don't know that you have a problem, or they don't realize how serious it is.\n\nThe best way to deal with it is to flat out tell people exactly what's going on.
579948
because you have an idea of who they are and in the end they turn out to be so messed up!! \nyou just can't see how bad he is! not even the little details until he/she hurts you really bad!! and notice he is not the one! it sucks
302052
Bonny, some people are just mean. Love yourself first of all, then you will not be left feeling so empty; regardless of their actions (or lack of action). This world and the people in it will bleed every drop of love right out of you and hate you while they do it. Shield yourself from these emotional vampires; live for the joy of loving regardless of the payback. Pity those that are so ignorant and empty, dry and mean.
581033
Because they are miserable people themselves.  They aren't happy with their life, so they take it out on the rest of us.  Wish it wasnt that way though!!
250353
one day grasshopper  you will realize that people have all kinds of problems getting revenge on a person who you chose as your partner does not satisfy.  look into yourself for what is your problem for choosing poorly, not your partners.
402529
that's the one thing that sucks about life. it seems when things go at it's best something horrible follows.  i hate to be a negative person because i usually am not...but when good things happen too often in my life...i wonder what's going to mess it up.\nother than that i just try to think positive ....and one good thing is when bad things do happen..things eventually work out.