How to controll our feelings towards beautifull girls or women? is it enough to avoid looking at them?
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God Bless you for wanting to do the right thing.\n\nGod made men to think exactly the way they do.  it's not wrong for you to be attracted to attractive woman/girls. what is wrong is going further with those thought; until they become sinful.\n\ntry this:\nyou see a beautiful girl.  think to yourself;\n" Thank the Lord for putting beautiful people on this earth.  Thank the Lord that i have one for my wife!"\nif those thoughts continue, just try to think about something else.  sounds lame, though, right?.  hey, give it a try!
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i think u should hold ur feelings back cuz its not normal at all..\nthink more about men.. take me as an example ;)
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When u like the opposite sex. You tend to think about them more often, trust me I've had alot of girls I like. I started to think how I looked in front  of them. The way I acted in front of the opposite sex.\n                   Afterwhile you get this this funny feeling when you're around them. You feel like you need to impress them all the time. When you get to the point were you constantly think about them. To the point were you want  to be with them constantly. That's when you know you like the opposite sex.
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself. Put the past behind you, concentrate on the future which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation.  Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.
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I see hundreds of women every day.\n\nThey come in so many shapes and sizes.....so many ages and looks and colors and "styles". \n\nI find myself most drawn to a sort of "comfort level" that I  feel when I talk with them or otherwise interact with them.\n\nIf they are TOO "gorgeous" I feel intimidated and I don't feel comfortable. If they have a look or style that is un-appealing to me  I tend to "overlook" some of their otherwise fine characteristics.\n\nWhen I notice that I am really attracted to someone it usually begins as a feeling of SURPRISE......and acute interest. Most of the little "hooks" that women use today look so fake........too much make-up, tattoos, strange uncomfortable-looking shoes/clothes ..........weird hair........\n\nSo being/looking TOO noticeable is a turn-off, to me.\n\nBut when I see a certain softness and then a cute smile, THAT will get my attention. If their fashion sense is keen enough to INCLUDE  their clothes looking comfortable to THEM......that's another plus.\n\nOK.....so they have my attention and I think they are attractive. I bet I'm in line with a bunch of other guys on that. \n\nBut what attracts ME to THEM is their attraction to ME. If they laugh at my silly/stupid attempts to engage with them and seem interested in a story I'm fidgeting around to tell them......... THAT draws me in, BIG time.\n\nSo it's their interest in ME that I see as the biggest turn-on. It doesn't have to be about sex/lust, love or whatever. When I feel like I can show a woman a nice time and she responds to politeness (and some humor thrown in for spice).........when she understands what's important to me and asks question about what she DOESN"T understand or agree with.......when she seems like an independent thinker and shows common sense and a keen wit.......when she reveals her compassion and altruism, her basic sobriety and responsibility........she becomes more attractive.\n\n\nWhen every day is a "fresh look" at an old friend......that's the ultimate.
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Honestly I am a female and i will give u advice. The thing tthat u should do is relax, take a deep breath and think over.Just by looking her u feel good but also u have words that wont come out the right way. when u see her face again u should stop her and get to know her first. find out what she likes to do and you'll find your way in, meaning your time will come so u can express your feeling or any special thing u feek for her. just give it a try but one thing never rush a female.take nice and slow and easy. if u need advice talk to me i will help u cuz i am a girl that been through experience like that and i didnt know what to do until i found my way. try!!
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Thinking about girls.
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When I was young it used to bother me a great deal. Everything felt like a threat to me, and his attention to any other female felt like I was being compared and found wanting.\n\nWith age I have found that all people look at other people all the time. And I have learned that men and women are so different that when a man looks at women, it is not the same as when women look at men.\n\nMen react to women in much the same way that in a crowded store, when a child calls out,"Mommy!", all of the women turn to look. It isn't about being attached to them, or even attracted to them. It is a deeply ingrained reaction based on hormones and experience. \n\nWomen have spent a lot of time re-training men to curb this reaction, but I found that if I could become accepting of it (as long as it was simple looking), my man was happier, felt stronger and more loved for who he genuinely was. This translated into him loving me more for not judging him, and he felt happier to accept me as I was. And it just kept getting better! \n\nSo relax. He is a man and that is what you want him to be, isn't it?
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the only way u will feel pretty is by loving yourself and liking who u are, men love girls with a good heart and who show they understand
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I think I get that kind of feeling. I think that you might not really be in love with her. Your mind might add things onto her and make her seem better. You might focus on everything that makes her perfect in your eyes. Then when you actually see her, you realize that she isn't perfect. Something similar happens to me.....
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if you're a straight guy, you'll be obsessed with girls to some extent for most of your life.  they're pretty great.\n\nbest to just accept that now, life will be much easier.
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Be careful.  Most girls don't know their beautiful anyways.  Like another said, see a doctor if you are really worried.  Otherwise, live healthily, don't go to extremes.  And don't worry so much about what you look like.  Be concerned with shaping your whole person (where person does not equal body, but a being with a body and soul).  Become a person able to love- where love means to sacrifice for others in order to help them be happy (not to help them have pleasure.  Pleasure does not equal happiness- pleasure is passing.  Happiness can last for ever.)\n\nAll that is to say, take care of yourself, but become a true person who can live for others first and foremost.  Take care of your health so that you will be able to live for others.\n\nPeace
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EVERYTHING THAT YOU SEE IN THEM DOESNT MAKE YOU THINK OH I WISH SHE DIDNT DO THIS OR WISH SHE WASNT LIKE THIS\n\nTHINGS WHICH STOP YOU FROM CHECKING OUT ANOTHER GIRL\n\n\nCHEERS
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Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.
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I have that Habit too, i am completely Heterosexual, but sometimes i find women attractive, it happens, i think it's completely normal. I just thinks it makes you an open minded person. If you want to prevent yourself from doing that, when you notice yourself looking at her because she is attractive try to find something that makes her unattractive and replay it in your mind...\nbest of luck
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you never COMPLETELY get rid of it but you OVERCOME it by FORCING yourself out of your thoughts and VERBALIZING with females.\n\nStart NOW, practice a LOT and gradually proceed with prettier and more "popular" girls.\n\nGoogle "conversational skills" and find a guide that makes sense to you. This is a SKILL that can be learned-so get to it.
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Pink bear please don't say that.... Well... actually... nevermind that... Your not bisexual you feel you have a liking on "attractive" girls because of some problems with your relationship with a few people and sometimes want to change your life... Gambate Kudasai(Please hang in there)