I am going for a 'get together' and someone i hate is going to be there! what do i do?
912487
Stop stressing over it and go have a good time. \n\nBe yourself and when the time comes just smile and be polite. If she sees you relaxed and happy and approachable she may start to wonder about what she heard and realise it was wrong. She could be nice really.
658164
Stop talking to this guy that is not helping your social life. Then don't go to parties for a little while, hang out with the guy you are now going out with. The loser stalker will then give up chasing you and telling you things and hopefully get a life. \n\nDon't let it bother you because you seem to have a good heart. But you do need to be strong and tell this negative guy, 'thanks for the advice but I will carry on seeing this new guy. If you cant be supportive, then I don't wanna be your friend.' Good luck love.
450007
Get some spine in your body lady. Don let someone push around. You need to tell her to back off. In fact, you should tell her to she should leave the group because she is olding all of you back.\n\nJust stand your ground. This is life lesson 101. If you dont do it today, then you will have a hard time in life.
436774
Do Not Go Alone if you are going to meet him.  Bring one or two friends with you and if he objects to that, end the communication.\nAlso, make sure it is in a very public place (like a Starbucks) and tell someone in your family what your plans are.\nHe could be a perfectly nice guy, but he could also be a psycho predator.
829792
avoid any confrontation, play the headache/not feeling well act until yo are ready to bounce then leave him a note letting him know why you chose to go.. maybe with a word of advice in the hopes that he'll be better to his next victim...\nthis is assuming of course that he is unbearable...\nMaybe you're the tough one to get along with?
275278
tell her to meet you at a bar.  tell her you'll be wearing a certain color.  wear a completely diff one.  If you see her and like her tell her you had to change because you spilled something on it.  If you don't like her you can fade away into the background and meet other people and just ignore her.  If she approaches you say you're not him and don't know who she's talking about.
6910
If that happens to you Don't sit like a statue and try to laugh with them too. And tell them what kind of you are and tell him (whom you don't like) why you don't like him. and tell him that may be everybody thinks the way you thinks. \n====================================================\nThis works well, I have done this for so many, who teased me.
313712
Tell him that you think racism is the product of an inferior mind, and that if he brings it up again you're going to avoid being around him because it makes you uncomfortable. Don't just put up with it- that's similar to saying that it's okay, which you obviously don't believe.\n\nI've got a ton of people in my family who bash homosexuals, and I've told them that it's stupid to make fun of someone for being different and that if they can't keep it to a minimum around me then I'm not going to be around them. It's worked with a few people, and I don't have to hang around the really stupid ones anymore. :)
656994
well for one you should not hate anyone that is the main problem in this world that is what we are killing each other over....but since you DISLIKE this girl be honest and if the reason you dislike her so is true then your friend should listen
839631
Just kinda do the whole sorry I don't like you that way speech.\n\nIt's better to break it to him then to avoid it.\n\nGood luck.\n\nAnd if he stalks you get a restraining order.
359227
First get a friend.\n\nAnd to the third answer, what the heck does "react with them" mean?
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
78477
Get rid of that loser immediately!!!*  And forget getting involved in anything further - it's not up to you to be the messenger for his sake.
852394
stay away, and don't look at him if you happen to be near him. try to act as if he did not exist, if he come talk to you treat him with indifference
201670
this would be a friend i have a prob with:\n\ni want to hang out with my friend but he goes with the wrong crowd, that i dont want to associated with... thus i cant hang out with him at those times
124180
gee, get a clue...if people ditch you, maybe you should take a look at yourself. and if you are trying to make friends with people who hate you, you are 1) dumb--they hate you and 2) just like the people you hate that are trying to be friends with you.  maybe instead of putting the only friends you have down, try being nice and open to other people
690648
Hunni, ignore the haters on here..  Best advice I can give you is be yourself, if it is meant to be it will happen sweetie...keep posting and dont worry about the idiots that are rude here...