Would you tell your online friend that her online boyfriend is cheating on her?
919874
I think that any relationship online is ridiculous.\n\nYou need to wake up and realize that going out into public and meeting peopl eis the only way to meet "the one" anyone u meet online could be bsin u.\n\nGood gracious people WAKE UP!!
422421
If it was my man then I would flip out...first of all it started off as work ?  blah...sit down have a talk with him tell him that you are on to his online cheating because it is cheating and that if he is not willing to quit being online then you will have to move on and move on...if he is looking for love online he  obviously does not love you.
1040237
Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
663347
If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
21761
You say you are friends I would tell him.  The real question is "If he finds out on his own and discovered you know about it.  Would he get mad a you? \n\nIf you can try and get a picture of the cheating GF and show him.  As they say a picture is worth a thousand words.
478666
She shouldn't lie to a friend at all especially if ya'll are both best friends. About her boyfriend, I know it's hard but look he has prabably has moved on by now and she needs to too. He was just her boyfriend, that didn't mean he was going to be with her 4 the rest of her life. She wouldn't like it if u lied to her so tell her how u feel and that she needs to stop!
264744
well............do they know that this person is a she-male?\nif they know that this person is a she-male then all u can do is respect their privacy. but if this guy is cheating on u with the she-male then u need to break up with him.\nand if they dont know that that person is a she-male then i think they do have the right to know - so yea i think maybe u should tell them. wouldn't u appreciate it if u were dating a she-male but u didnt know it and someone else who did know it came and told u about who u were "really" dating?
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
345697
If he doesn't tell his girlfriend, then it's being deceptive at least. Unless they are in an non-exclusive relationship, his girlfriend should know. And I think she'd probably want to. And I think she wouldn't like it if she knew. Which means he probably shouldn't flirt with people, online or off.
713997
If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
972790
Butt out....If you have told your friend, then you've done your part. You need to get you own business and leave their relationship alone. Don't get in the middle...Roses doesn't mean a person is cheating.
266569
YOU ARE IN A TOUGH SITUATION; HOWEVER, WOULDN'T YOU WANT TO KNOW.  YOU NEVER KNOW HOW THE SISTER MIGHT REACT SHE COULD EITHER BE MAD THAT YOU JUST BROKE THE NEWS TO HER, BUT LATER WHEN SHE DOES A LITTLE EXPLORING THE FACTS ON HER OWN I WOULD IMAGINE SHE WILL THINK YOU.  I HAVE A FRIEND OF MINE THAT NEVER TOLD HER OTHER FRIEND THAT HER BOYFRIEND TRIED TO COME OVER FOR A BOOTY CALL.  MY FRIEND TURNED THE GUY DOWN AND CHOSE TO KEEP THIS INFO TO HERSELF. A FEW MONTHS LATER SOMEONE ELSE TOLD THE OTHER FRIEND AND THE TWO USE TO BE FRIENDS HAVE NEVER TALKED SINCE, IF SHE REALLY MEANS ANYTHING TO YOU, YOU WOULD BE BETRAYING HER IF YOU JUST LET THIS GUY TREAT HER LIKE THAT. WE ALL NEED PEOPLE TO WATCH OUT FOR US AND IF MY RELATIONSHIP WAS IN JEOPRODY WITH A FRIEND FOR TELLING ME THE TRUTH I WOULD COME TO MY SENSES EVENTUALLY.
563061
In my opinion, No... he should not be talking w/another woman about her's, his, or anybody elses relationships. whether you know them or not.  Things like this lead to emotional cheating.  Stop him now....
1020942
I'd tell him I like him then ask how his wife is.  Seriously though, ask him why he's lying about himself on the internet.  Saying he is married and looking is not going to get him anywhere.  Or hey it could have been a mistake!
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
792025
If they would be telling their husband or BF for no reason other than to hurt them, or to clear their own conscience at their husband or BF's expense, then I would think that it would be better if they took their secret to the grave.  \n\nHaving been in this situation once myself, not a happy memory I assure you, I remember wondering WHY she had told me?  The truth of the matter was that she was using my feelings as little more than,,, toilet paper is a good analogy, to cleanse herself regardless of what effect it had on me.  \n\nIt had been, what she termed a physical experience, that had happened long before she told me and there was no chance of her ever seeing the guy again but she insisted that she tell me in excruciating detail about her fling and then afterwards declared that "it was a big load off her mind".  I'm sure it was but she had just dumped that load on me with no regard for my feelings.  \n\nWhen I told her that I was upset about it she said that it was over and I should just deal with it because, after all it was "only f*cking".  I think her telling me that, as much as anything else, is what killed our relationship,,,and yes, even after all these years I must admit to still being bitter.  \n\nThe funny thing about it is that I was probably as upset, perhaps even more so, about her using me as an emotional tampon as I was about the fling.\n\nBetter to keep the secret if you honestly care about him.
781845
I never have but I wouldn't expect too much out of a online affair. You really don't know anything about the person. Everything could be a lie.