who can i connect with to find out how to save my boyfriends life?
914494
I think you left something out.....like what is the problem???
439298
If you know where he is it will help, but even if you don't, if you are a wife, (common-law or otherwise) or a relative you can talk to your local police office, explain your concerns, and ask them to do a criminal check on him. This will tell you what the charges are. In my part of the world, a woman can ask police to run a criminal check on her boyfriend or significant other before introducing him to her family (or even afterwards if concerns arise). Smart women are following through on this more and more often, these days.
513359
your local hospital can provide you with the support groups in your area and there are also extension groups from there that you can get closer contacts with for one-on-one support.  sometimes your need a confidant.  this is a devastating experience and you need somebody to talk to. \ngood luck and you are in my prayers.
214556
Well you said family and friends he's not either one he's your boyfriend and just because them people passed on doesnt mean he will get him to go to a doctor and get his chest pains medicated so he will heal and when he's better you can finally relax i dont think he's going anyway just calm down
728336
first of all, you should try to comfort him in any way possible. hold him and talk to him, try to pry out(in the nicest way possible) all the private information. then when you no all that is going on, then try to tell him that it will be ok and that you suport him. you're the only person he really trusts.
830334
Are there any organizations in your community who can help you? I wish you the best, sweetie.
314055
Hopefully you will seek professional help as well as him.  You can not go around thinking you are responsible for someone living or dieing, unless you physically harm someone. I believe you did the right thing, by telling someone. He may not at this time, but in the future he will see that you did him a favor. God forbid he does harm himself, you can not continue on with life believing that you are responsible.
206273
Do it then, call the red cross or the salvation army in your area
51509
what are you asking? how to find him or how to cope. Details please!!
683722
Have you tried contacting his squadron, that would be your first bet to get into contact with him. His First Shirt would be the one to talk to. Don't call the Red Cross without contacting his unit first, it could cause problems in the future. Use his chain of command within the unit, they are there to support you while he is deployed.
717755
that's just it,you do not know.and since none of us can know him we do not know either,however if your boyfriend loves you enough to want to be your life mate,he will get around to asking you.
947090
Get him help and quick. Life's too short to die from something really stupid.
507651
get help from someone you trust and can talk to.if it carries on get help from someone proffesional
1147018
Quit being depressed. This much you can control. Never put your life on hold for a man, unless your engaged or married to him. Always make sure you have a safety net. As far as what he thinks and who he is, it is hard to know what's going thru that head of his. I don't even want to guess, because I don't think anything is going to help you until you talk to him. So lets address you. He is far away, you need to get out and have some good clean fun. Call your friends. Go to dinner or a movie, the mall, what eve it takes to get your mind off him for now. If you don't want to call him, then there is nothing to do but wait for him to call you. But don't stop your life. This will also make time go by faste. I hope you the very best from this outcome. Remember, there is only one person in this world you can "really" count on,...and that is you. So don't let yourself down, and keep your heart safe.
538694
go over there with him, if Ur worried
442358
Sure there is...just contact the service he works for. Tell them his name, where and what time the incident took place and they'll put you in touch with him.\n I worked as a Paramedic for 20 years and can assure you thanks are far and few between, he'll appreciate it. Hell, I appreciate it even though I don't know you or him just to know that somewhere out there there's a thanks floating around for one of us.
842571
Yes, do it. You may save his life...er death,,, er, or something.