How do i know if my " friend " also treats me as a best friend?
924423
If she is also your "best friend" then she will be there for you, and you will feel so confortable with her that she could be your sister or cousin or something like that.  However, don't be surprised if she doesn't call you her "best friend" right away.  My best friend and I have been friends for 6 years, and she didn't say the words "best friend" until about 2 yrs ago.  She also taught me that she can be your "best friend", but she may have another "Best friend", as was the case with us at the beginning.  But if it is a true, "Best friend", long lasting relationship, you will just know.
281173
A best friend is someone who cares about you no matter what you look like, someone who is there when ever you need them and who will talk just to have fun, someone who is allways there for you is a best friend.  A best friend can be there for you as long as they continue to care.  i have had a best friend for years and mostly we hang out and talk and help each other with our problems.
368579
nope and I'd further let him know that you value your time and are willing to include him in your plans but only if he shows up.  I'd make it clear and rock solid that if he does it again, the friendship is terminated out of a lack of respect for you on his part.  You don't have to be a doormat for this so-called friend.  The reason you may be the only friend he's got is because he chased off the other people who wanted to be his friend.  So.....you may be a friend to HIM but I don't see any parts of his being a friend to YOU.  Get ready to ditch this sadsack and meet nicer people.
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
608943
there are many different ways.  But I think that you shold ask one of ur frinds if he/she thinks that she likes you after they see how they act around you.  most of the time you can't tell yourself because ur in the picture.  Ask someone who sees how the both of you enteract with one another they will see it better than u can.
384959
if she doesn't wanna hurt you then she is your best friend but ask her to be more honest with you next time ask her to give you her real opinion next time .you she she didn't say because she didn't wanna hurt you because she wants what is best for you .cause if she did tell you might get upset with her
626605
I am not for sure on what you are trying to find out,like if they are best friends with you,even though they hang out with others?If this is the case,yes,they can be your best of Best's,and still have other best friends as well.It sounds like you are having issues about the loyalty about your friends being true friends with you.If they haven't back stabbed you or caused any harm to you,i wouldn't see what there would be to question.As long as you enjoy hanging with them and when you do everything is as should be in friends,then just relax,and it wouldn't hurt for you to have other group of friends besides them either.About the twin's kissing up to you,isn't cool,for some reason they must feel some uneasiness in order to feel like they have to win you over.Maybe you should tell them that you are their friend and they did nothing wrong by socializing with others,its a big world and there is plenty of people for everyone.Try to make them feel at ease and not threatened in this friendship.Good Luck!
363275
yes she probably is but she might still be ur best friend even if u werent bailling her out all the time try it and find out u might be surprised
212809
am I under oath on this one??? \n\nOf course I would!!! \n\nThats what best friends do*
1045643
My bestfriend and I have known each other since 7th grade, however, we wern't really friends till 11th.  We have had our rough patches, but no matter what is going on we would always be there for one an other.  Recently I needed to borrow a faily large amount of money for a settlement on an old debt.  She let me have the money (my family would not do this for me), since I have paid her back.  I think that people may have bad expirances with so called friends because one trys to take advantage of the other.  We would never do this to each other, it is far more importaint to me that she is always a part of my life.  She has been my bestfriend for 10 years and I don't plan on that ever changing.
494821
I don't know how to say...But just want to let u know that a real friend is the one who understand u...care for u and love u as yourself. Friend is not only just for hang out together and party together, that's all..NOOO...that’s wrong …babe!!! When u have any trouble or problem, the one u want to find and talk to or share with and she will always be there for u to help u out so that's your friend...
126144
I don't have enough information to give you a really thoughtful answer but I'll do my best. \nI'm guessing that you two are great friends and when he hurts you, you mean that he hurts your feelings. Because he says, "don't be jealous," he is hurting your feelings by making comments to or about other girls. If I'm right then continue. :-)\n\nAs you said, you two are best friends and unfortunately for you, that's the way he thinks of you, as a friend. He treats you like a guy pal because he doesn't have any romantic feelings toward you. He doesn't mean to be insensitive toward you, he just doesn't know that you care about him in a romantic way.
920813
Yea, it does sound like a friend to me. Get to know him more as he gets to know you a little more. Don't worry too much.
873953
I think that every friend has the potential to be a best friend.  A best friend, in my opinion, knows the good and the bad about you and still loves you just the same.  A friend can be just an acquaintance that you shared a chance meeting with where you two discussed things that you have in common.  \nSometimes it takes awhile to get to know a person.  Best friends know you inside and out and you truly have a special bond.
191715
The best friend is a human being, so he thinks, feels and maybe some times he judge you and he don't always say what he think. \nIn my opinion, there are situation when you can't trust him. sicerely, i don't have a best frind because it's better to have a small circle of good friends. But it's good to have someone who can help you when u have a problem.
302651
Well my answer is simply this and that is if she thinks that you are just friends hanging out then that is all it is to her but if you let her know how you feel then that changes.Then she will either think about it and let you know if she feels the same or not but you have to let her know. True love might be passing you both by.
518170
First rule of thumb. Don't let people walk all over you or make you 2nd guess yourself. If you know that you did nothing wrong than I wouldnt let it bother you and maybe start looking for a new friend because it doesnt sound like she is much of a friend. If my real friends had a problem with me they would tell me what was going on and how they felt. And you have every reason to treat her as she treats you.