how  do u talk to  ur  mom  about  going on  birth control?
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Jus talk to her one of these days when u all jus talking about this and that and jus suggest it to her and see what her respond will be like....
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Come up with codes. That way if things start going to far you will have ways of letting eachother know. She will respect you for respecting her. Before you guys start anything you can be like "I want to make sure our first time is really special and that we are both ready for it. If things become too much for you, just pinch my arm and I'll stop." Of course if you come up with something else that would be fine too. The physical "no" is much more likely to get your attention. Some guys have the misconception that no sometimes means yes. No is no and that is the bottom line. Be sure to have a way to tell her to slow down too. You seem to be saying you are not ready either. Maybe you could clasp her hands and then back of for a minute until you are ready to continue. You are only 16, there will be plenty of time. You don't want any regrets. \n\nAlso, "take care of yourself" ahead of time. That way the urge will be less. You wont feel such a great need.\n\nJust in case have some condoms handy. You don't want to take any chances. I'm sure you are not ready to be a dad yet.
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No I don't, but that hasn't stopped her from sticking her nose into my business. Always listen to mom out of respect. You are an adult simply say Yes you are right or no that is just not me. Say I love you Mom thanks for the advice. And change the subject. (have one ready at all times)
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ok well if you are having any blood from your vagina rather it be lite or kind of heavy yes its your period and you should just tell her you need to talk to her alone. and just tell her there is nothing to be embarrassed about.i know it can be alittle scary sence its new and all but the best person you can talk to is your mom.and there is nothing embarrassing about becoming a  woman
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I have a condition called endometriosis which causes me to have severe cramps, crazy periods, loss of appetite, and other things. My doctor recommended birth control to help control all of the symptoms (and it was an added bonus because I'm sexually active but didn't want my mom to know). Tell your mom about your cramps and see if she'd be willing to support you. My mom was the same way - even though she knew I had a medical problem, she hated the idea of me getting on birth control because she felt it would give me the "wrong impression" about sex and blah blah.\n\nAs far as everyone saying birth control can mess you up - that's not true. The Depo shot can certainly mess you up, but birth control? No way. It's just a once a day pill you take that regulates things. It doesn't stop your period, doesn't make you fat, doesn't hurt your insides. If it were that dangerous, there wouldn't be dozens of DOCTOR PRESCRIBED birth control pills on the market. So don't worry about the "precautions" some people are trying to scare you with.\n\nIf worse comes to worse and your mom doesn't agree with it, look into some programs to get birth control without your mom knowing. Or have a friend get birth control for herself (pretend) and then use hers. Good luck, hun!
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Tell her to ask her mother.
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Ok, so you have used a pleasure toy, is that it? No, your mom won't be able to tell. \n\nBut maybe try the tampon yourself - with the easy applicators most come with, you can probably figure it out yourself without your mom's help.
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I got mine when I was eleven, on Christmas. It was really hard telling my mom that day, but in the end I just said to her CALMLY, "dont overreact to this, but I just got my period."\nSaying it calmly makes all the difference. It makes your mom feel like it's not that big of a deal.
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Trey\nYou totally need to tell your mom.\nThere is no way on the right or wrong way of telling your mom the problems you are dealing with in life.  \n\nOur parents are here to help, protect and love us.  I am a mom and I would want my girls to come to me for anything and everything.  \n\nEspecially if it has to do with drugs, eating disorders and self abuse.  There are reasons you are doing it and you can not handle all of these issues on your own.  You just cant.\n\nYou need to be flat out honest and tell you mom what is going on with you.  I believe you wouldnt be asking Yahoo Answers if you didnt want the help...right?\n\nGo to mom and say, "Mom...I love you and I need to talk to you about some things that have been going on in my life.  I need your help right now.  So please, what I am going to tell you, you might get mad at first, but I need your love and support right now."  And than tell her.  Tell her you experimented with pot and you are dealing with cutting and anorexic issues.\n\nYour life is to precious not to talk to someone.  If you really dont belive you can talk to your mom go to your school counsler or another responsable adult who you can trust to help you find the help you need.\n\nI also realize how bad you dont want to tell your mom.  But I really belive you need and should tell her what is going on.\n\nI would totally respect my girls and feel so apprecitive if they came to tell me they were pregnant, getting high or anything in life that they are trying to deal with on thier own.\n\nEven though you are 13 you still have alot of mental growing up to.  And I know at 13 you feel like you should be treated like an adult.  But there are many things in life 13 year olds just cant do yet because they arent mentally ready for it.\n\nGo to your mom,  and talk to her.  Tell her your exact feelings and be honest with her.  SHe will totally respect you for it and love you!
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go to a dr.  Tell your mom its for something else.  Go in by yourself and let your dr know at the time of your visit you dont want your mom to know.  By law your dr cant discuss any sexual problems/issues with your parents even though you are a minor..  if you  cant go to the dr right away call and leave a mess to call you back when your mom is not home.  This could lead to other problems so go right away.  It also sounds like you could have a major infection and if not treated right away could lead to you being sterile
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i got on birth control but not because i was having sex...because i actually wasent. i got on it for different reasons. Choose the best one that is right for you. i chose seasonale and i lOVE it! you get 4 periods a year, and its very natural. if you want help you can go to your nearest planned parenthood
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ask from your parent !
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Im not sure what the end of this question was but if you were curious about when you can start birth control you can start as soon as your period starts again regularly or when the blleding from the injection stops then go to the doctor take a pregnancy test if no baby start birth control if you were worried about when to have sex again whenever you are ready
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Talk to your mom about it
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I would use a tampon.  At first I was scared to use them, but they are very easy to insert and very comfortable!!  As someone said before, make sure you get the slender ones.  I usually go for the Playtex Gentle Glide ones.  They are very comfortable!  And trust me, telling your dad that you are on your period is not as bad as it may seem!  My parents divorced and I lived with my dad since I was 8.. and when it came around to me starting my periods, I had to tell him because he was the one to buy the stuff for me.  Your dad already knows.  It's a natural thing.  He won't be surprised in the least.  And once you tell him about it, he won't bring it up again.\nGood luck with everything!
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Well, thats weird.  My doctor told me to take my pill starting on the day i start my period.  Go to your doctor and just ask him to explain it again to you and make sure you clearly understand.  Dont have sex if you are not sure you're taking it right!
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Get on birth control.