what do i do when im in love with a man i just left and moved to another state?
921165
Well, you made the move so you will need to end it with the man you love. Why the move though? Why leave the man you love behind? I'm sure it was a real good reason to leave him. You can try to continue your love but there will be difficult times ahead. Prepare yourself. It's is time to move forward. Good luck.....SAM
110096
Your question leave's me to believe your on a rocky road, very unstable. You have all the fact's, your the only one who can make the move's, stay or go, that is the question. From the way you phrased it, I would only think, maybe, you should move on. But, you only know how much love for this guy is in your heart. I truly wish you the best in your decission... Dr Checko... Nickname)
411784
Look its easy you keep going and you keep falling in love, i meet someone the same why and its great dont worry if theres a will theres away. Country man expression but just take one day at a time keep talking things will work out a soon you both will be closer than 1,000's of miles apart so start saving. Your going to Europe best wish to you.
691573
It depends...how long have you two known each other and who will be making the sacrifice to move away? Let me guess you'll be the one. What are you leaving behind and is moving really worth it? Have you two known each other long enough?
332447
There's nothing about being selfish in this situation you're being reasonable. You can let this new guy know where you stand and let him know that you need sometime to sort through things in your life before getting back into another relationship. At the end of the if he wants to start another relationship with someone else you guys can still be friends and move on from there. On the other hand, if he wants to wait for you then you know he's in deed a really good guy. With my friendship/relationship I've been with my boyfriend for a 1.5 years and we were in the same state but then I went out of state to complete a Masters' degree and to be fair I gave him the option of being with someone else if someone else came along before I came back to MI to be with him. I did that because either one of us has never had a long distance relationship, so I didn't want to make him feel that he is "tied to me" while i'm out of state at Graduate school. The "separation" didn't happen we ended up still being together and when I came back to MI to visit him the love was there as if I was always there with him. So good things happen if its suppose to happen that way. Good luck and I wish you all the best.
293212
Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?
150906
hmmm as u fall in love before .recollect ur memory and once again feel same passion and love as u have before for him.i wish u good luck
792705
Snuggle up close with him on the couch some night and tell him you miss San Francisco.  Then look up into his eyes and say how much you'd love to go back there to live.  Ask if he would move back with you sometime if he seems sympathetic.  Then just talk about it more over the course of the next few months and see how it goes, maybe he'll be willing to do it right the wedding if he sees how much it means to you.  The thing is, you've got to have in mind where you could both get jobs and then dream a place to live "Oh...wouldn't it be great if we could get a little place to live just off of...." etc.  Anyway...good luck.
6390
If he didn't even tell you he was moving he's not worth your time.  being hurt is hard, but you need to move on.  Good luck.
746113
you are right it will not last if you stay in fla and he goes to az. so one of you has to move where the other is moving or break up. so one of you has to make the big decision as to what to do. right?\ngood luck and god bless and happy holidays.
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
695729
If your heart is telling you no don't stay with him always fallow your gut feelings.If he's someone you can't stop thinking about and you miss him when he's only gone for a short time then your in love with him no dout about it.If you know he's changing for you and wants to do better then he's in love with you too cause he's changing for you.I say don't live in fear you're in love this guy and he loves you too.He loves you so much that he's willing to change for you.He may have messed up in the past and did some hurtful things,but he wants things right again if he's changing his old ways for you then he means it this time and dos'nt want to mess things up again.I say stay with him and give him a second chance show him how much you love him by doing it.I hope that things work out the best for you and him.
484954
Harder to leave!  Because whether your conscious of it or not, you've already started questioning the worth of staying or not.  You may love him, but you can't make him love you because you hurt or your miserable.  You got played, so swallow the lump in your throat, and go on with life.  There will come a time again in your life that you will find love.\nIf he was your first love, I'm sorry for you, believe me, I understand!! Unfortunately, you won't forget him, but try not to; make a conscious effort not to judge other men by his actions/mistakes.  They really aren't all monsters.
1051402
Honey, no man is worth moving for. If your happy with your current living situation, stay! If you wanna move to make him happy, why are you even getting back with him? You obviously broke up for a reason. Stick to your guns and dont make any decision based around him.
230185
OK, first of all obviously you're already attached to him because you said that he's the one.  Is it a guarantee that he will be going back to Mexico?  And if he is, does he want the relationship to end?  Do you really want the relationship to end? Are there any underlying issues of concern that you're not mentioning? Are you willing to move to Mexico?  You have to weigh all your options sweety, and what sacrifices you are willing to make for this guy you claim to love so much.  It seems as if it doesn't matter which way you go once he leaves you'll be broken hearted anyway.  If it is a guarantee that he will be leaving for Mexico for good and you feel you don't want to go through the heartache later on, I think you can answer the question on your own.  Just let everything flow, what's to be will be.  Follow your heart.
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
101203
Don't look back, look forward. You should forget him and concentrate on making new friends. Long distance relationships seldom if ever last, and you'll just have alot of frustration and heart ache to show for it. Find someone you can spend time with when and where you want instead of sticking with a guy that by all indications doesn't love you anyway. I know that is harsh, but he hasn't called, and wouldn't say so according to you. You can do better. The guy for you is right under your nose, you just have to look!. Hope this has encouraged you and given you hope.