how can i miss him? i mean for a man to show no emotion when he makes his gf cry?
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
202971
I'm assuming that you are talking about a loved one in a romantic sense here.  I guess you can call them?  E-mail them?  SMS them?  Fax them?  Chat on MSN/Yahoo Messenger and AIM to them?  Make the most of the time you guys have together and just enjoy.. When you are not with them, just remember all the good things that happened when you were with them and look forward to seeing them again! :) Hope this helped somehow.
405933
Just call him, if him holding you will make you stop crying, I'm sure his voice would help too. I have someone like that. I call him because he moved away. It works just fine to hear his voice, and when he comes to visit you, then you can be all huggy-lovey-dovey with him. Thats all I can say. good luck. =D
58304
hmmm  ........be honest. tell him how you feel.but if he has you pg and hasnt came to you to make you his woman..he doesnt love you..and u need to let that go.
979662
nothin you can say will make him miss you ..do you want him to miss you beacuse you miss him or is it beacuse he has lost something and somone special in you and you want  him to regret messin up the relationship and losin you in the process? maybe he does  miss you just dont know it..either way you should move on there are plenty of fish in the sea and if its was meant to be with this guy then it wil, happen..
192039
don't call him - make him miss you until he realises how you feel when he doesn't call - he'll get the point eventually
186896
Only time helps. It is natural to miss her, so allow yourself to cry when you need to. It is okay.
1104965
Well you can throw a hissy fit about him leaving and make him feel so bad that he stays but you feel guilty and he'll never know what he could've done if he would've left. Or, you can let him go and be totally supportive!! I choose choice # 2!! Letting someone go is really hard and no-one really wants to say goodbye to anyone.. especially their significant other!! Let him know how you feel about him moving but if he is going to move and you can't stop him, show him that you're the kind of girlfriend he needs in his life. A supportive and down chick!! Good luck hon!! i know how hard that is!! Remember what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger!!
334252
Try sitting down with him and calmly (and nicely) talking with him about it in explanation. I suppose that you have just recently moved out of his home and he misses you - is that right?\n\nWell, it's only natural, I suppose. I can imagine that if I were a father - especially the father of a lovely lady - that I would be ridiculously "clingy" and not want her out there running around all by herself. What would happen if she came across a bottle of ketchup that she couldn't pry open on her own? My God, how could she eat hamburgers then?!\n\nBut seriously, he is probably very worried about you being off on your own. Keep in mind that this is a new experience for him, too!\n\nSo, talk with him, and explain your situation and what you can and cannot do. I am sure that he will understand (though he is bound to be a bit sad, but that's only normal). To make him feel better, just visit him every now and then, but make your visits memorable and fun. Bring him a pie; I don't know of any fellow who would turn that down. :D\n\nBest of luck!
941245
Just ask him what's going on. Just explain that you have a feeling that he's got something on his mind and that you do not like seeing him miserable.  He may have cheated and that's why he looks sad when he looks at you.. I don't what to sound pessimistic or anything. Just throwing out possibilities...\nMy B/F went through this.  He just didnt think he deserved me.  We took a break, and he got his head on straight.... the key is to communicate.
237608
I think best thing to do is waiting!!! if he has showed you that has crush on you, then probably he doesn't love his GF!!! so sooner or later they will break up. All you'll have to do is comforting him when he's sad about the whole breaking up situation. Just be there for him and spend your time making him laugh!!! Good luck.
475151
He's feeling threatened and vulnerable. If my girlfriend told me that, I'd start wondering how long until the interest in women grows stronger than her interest in me and she leaves me. And this probably made him feel inadequate, like he wasn't good enough to satisfy you himself. It may not sound logical, but our emotions often aren't. The fact that he got upset is likely a sign that he cares deeply for you. If you care about him, make him feel manly and make it clear to him that you need his manliness (unless you don't, in which case there is likely a break-up in your future).
635202
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...
637767
So you've been going out with that cute guy in the year above for almost a month! his name is scribbled on all of your text books, you know his phone number off by heart, you carry a photo of him in your purse,but, alas it didn't last ..you feel very emotional and confused- you're angry at him but still fancy him to bits! you wanna cry but you wanna scream too. every single song on the radio reminds you of him!\nnow STOP! lets think about this- \ndo you really want to spend your life stuck in your bedroom, listening to love songs and crying for him?\nNO! you need some serious me-time, instead of wasting your time on him!\nso slap on a face mask, get out your dairy milk and put on some loud rock music that you can bounce around to and help take out your anger!\nyou're better off without him! why concentrate on a shark when there are loads of little nemos out there who would be a much better replacement! get out, make some friends and enjoy yourself! revise your flirting skills and you're knock em dead!
1061974
I miss him...-sighs quietly-....I really miss him!!
637827
i am sorry you suffer i know how u feel cause i felt same when a guy broke up my heart long time ago you must move on cause she no love you it's hard but u will i advice you to go find other love spend time with new gf even u not feel in love with her but this is best way to forget about ur love best luck thank you
251281
Okay, 1st of all feelings like that just dont go away so he probably still feels the same way he just stopped letting it show. and 2nd you need to tell him how you feel. Im sure he will be thrilled to hear it.