How do I become unattractive to one guy, and attractive to another at the same time?
925337
I'd tell the obnoxious one to seriously lay off. If he doesn't lay off and still gets too close, you can always tell a higher authority exactly what he's doing to you. They'll be able to scold him, and they may be able to do something a bit worse than a simple scolding, also.\n \nAnd to be attractive to anyone, you just have to be yourself. I believe "trying" to be attractive doesn't work out, because eventually you try to be someone who you're not. \n\nI advise you try to confront this shy guy and tell him how you feel in some way. If he really is shy, he won't make the first move if he likes you. Have courage, it'll be worth it.
1090045
It doesn't mean you are unattractive, it means you just haven't found  anyone worth your time yet.  Keep going out and meeting people, and it sounds lame but it will happen for you - and probably when you least expect it.  \nIf you want to speed things up, try getting a new hobby where you interact with people, if you attend church get involved with any singles activities there, you can also try an internet dating service.
1167898
Don't worry about it,guys at this time have 1 thing on their mind anyway and trust me it ain't your feelings. That one person will come along and boom it hits you both like lightning.Oh, and everyone to some degree has a self esteem problem with their looks so don't go flipping and tripping on yourself.E-mail me back.
1015695
Find a different guy to get into ... you'll end up focusing your attention on the new guy and not even realize you haven't been giving much thought to the old guy.
333388
You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.
913595
Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
46160
Don't change who you are just to impress a guy....cause it's not you then your pretending to be someone your not and that will stir up some problems. Just be you, and if you as atractive as you say you are they are prolly just intimidated =)
906421
girl you gotta break outta that shell your in. you gotta be more out going,loud,noticeable!you gotta make him WANT to know who you are.hook an outfit up,fitten you just right,get with a group of loud friends and make sure he sees YOU.and neva say your not pretty,there is not one ugly female on gods green earth,he made every female unique,you just need to bring your uniqueness to full blast for this guy.make HIM drop to his knees,I'm sure you can do it.just remember one thing:he likes you and he just don't know it so show it to him.\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
449814
Your time will come,I see many UGLY girls get guys and I am sure you are not that ugly after all, it's just how you see yourself at this time. Trust me, you will find the one somday,
29786
Tell your friend what he wants to hear. If he thinks he's ugly, tell him his handsome. You get the idea.
63636
this depends on the type of guy you want to attract.  I you just be yourself then you will naturally attract the one that is right for you.
202279
Be yourself. Don't feel too pressured to be in a relationship. When the right guy comes along, it will be worth all the frustration that you are experiencing now.\n\nYou will find that the guys you are attracted to now will not necessarily be the same kind of guy that you are attracted to as you age and get a bit more worldly. \n\nTake your time, date a bit, resist the temptation to put out and you will find happiness.
1041630
you're a guy? DON'T walk different. you'll look stupid, trust me.\njust be confident. i've found that confidence is the most attractive thing in any person. even an ugly person will seem hot/cute/whatever if they've got confidence. just don't... change your walk... please.
483161
you cant.. but you can flirt look sexy bump up against him from time to time.. make eye contact.. let him see you in a different light..instead of one of the guys
166829
just start asking guys out, one will accept
881535
Set your goals in a more appropriate order.  Guys are fun.  Focus on having guy friends first and try hard to not put any expectations beyond that.  You'll find that guys love to have girls to pal around with.  As this works for you, you'll learn to lighten up and not put so much emphasis (and your self esteem) on having a guy like you.  You'll have guys like you - certainly as a friend at first.
320601
All u have to do is talk to him and be urself. It doesnt hurt if u look good and add a little flirting in there ;)