Why does your boyfriend cheat on you when you are there to be with him?
919828
probably cause your fat
270926
You can't go out because:\n\n1) Because you let your boyfriend tell you you can't.\n2) Because your boyfriend is an ass.\n3) Because you haven't dumped him.\n\nThat pretty much sums it up.\n\nI'm not saying the ideal couple never spends time together or doesn't care where the other goes, but he's gone way overboard.
434285
You don't correct a wrong with a wrong!\n\nYou are saying that you 'think' that your  boyfriend is cheating! So you have no hard evidence that he is. Supposing that he isn't and you go out there and take vengeance, what would that make you? You will be the one who is cheating on him.\n\nTalk to him and tell him your fears. If you both want this relationship to move on you will work it out.\n\nIf you have solid proof that he is, be dignified and confront him. Be rational and not a drama queen! \n\nTalk it over. If you can not continue with him after that, break it up with a Coupe de Grace! \n\nIf you are willing to forgive him and give him another chance, be it but make sure he knows that you are really hurt and that because you love him you are willing to give him another chance providing that it is a final chance.\n\nGood Luck!
247951
You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
656836
Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
424649
Different reasons. Depends on the guy, the girl, the situation... same as when girls cheat I supposed. Sometimes it's just because they are selfish and thoughtless and don't actually care about who they are with.
963270
If you are with another guy, he feels that the other guy can take his place as your boyfriend. If you are with another girl, he doesn't feel as if he can be replaced. Because of this, he considers you being with another guy cheating but not if it is another girl.
92370
if a guy(ur bf) stays out all nite long.. hes just a dumbass, wanting to get caught... a guy whos cheating would just want a "WAM BAM THANK YOU MA'AM" not a full blown date!\n\nof course this applies IF HE "IS" CHEATING. cuz he can stay out all nite long with his friends.
468238
probably he got hurt in a previouse relationship, and is caring that untrust over into your relationship. Or he is not trustworthy himself, and expects you to be the same way. To earn his trust be nice to him and don't give him any reason not to trust you. However if he is untrustworthy he will never fully trust you.
1022606
He has cheated on you. He will blame you because you are across the country but it is him not you. There had to be something wrong with your relationship before you left for him to do this. Cut your losses and move on to a person who will love and respect you as the person you are.
82772
Why you suspect? Enjoy each and every moment when you are with your b/f.Thank him for turning off( it means you are the most important person )  his cell phone.If he cheats you can easily understand by his face reading and behaviour.
723348
don't really know, never cheated on anyone, don't understand the need to cheat.  i figure if you feel like cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.  but maybe him being in a relationship with you is just a way of him boosting his own confidence up a little for personal braggin rights such as "yea, i got a girlfriend".  either way just dump him and move on
451442
why do you think he's cheating?
1091730
I only read the first two sentences. Why are you with him? I would of left him after he cheated once!!
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.
1168870
Honestly, there's not going to be a good answer on here.  We don't know your boyfriend.  We don't know what he's inclined to do.  Anyone who answers straight-up, "He's cheating on you," or "It's nothing," is being dishonest, because that person is projecting his/her fears onto your situation.\n\nKeep an eye out for warning signs.  Maybe they are just roommates with no romantic involvement.  But maybe their relationship will evolve past the friendship level.  \n\nIn any case, communication is the key.  Let him know if this bothers you.  He should understand your concerns.  If he blows them off, then it may be for the best, as you'll know what kind of man he is.  After all, if he doesn't respect your feelings about this, then it'll just get worse when a bigger problem comes along.  \n\nDon't nag him, though.  Give him a chance to think things over.  If you come across as the overbearing jealous type, then he'll wonder why the relationship is worth it.  If it is innocuous, then he'll be really insulted.  \n\nIn short, none of us can tell you what it means.  We don't know your boyfriend.  Keep alert and maintain communication.  Let him know that if anything happens with his roommate, you want to know, even if it hurts.  It's better than having a dishonest relationship.
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.