Do you like have to be physically/sexually atracted to someone for the relationship to work?
931563
Kinda. You have to like how they act when you are alone with him, also how they act when you are with him and his friends, and how he acts when you are with him and your friends. Alot of guys attitudes change with a different setting, or different people. Keep an eye out for that. \n\nBut as a relationship grows, sex becomes a big part of it. And you have to be atracted to some one to want to have them that close to you... or maybe you are just desprate. You almost have to think they are sooo handsome, or Hot, or Sexy that you want to show them off. You love holding hands with them around other hot guys, to let them know you are taking and loving it! \n\nPersonally I believe you have to have some attraction between the two of you or there will never be those fireworks that you see in the movie when you kiss. \n\nYou dont want to base the relationship on looks but dont leave it out. You dont want to be stuck together with someone that when you look at them you get a disgusted look. Right?
389525
Sometimes. If I see a guy that is really hot I find it hard to control myself. But then I realize if I come on too strong, it may be a turn-off--so I have learned to control it. Instead I'll just flirt some and see what it goes.
1120301
It's called attraction and if you don't have it then there is no way you can have a relationship.  Simple as that!
369944
shouldn't it just happpen? me and my partner never really "initiate" things...they just seem to happen. it shows real sexual chemistry when no one person feels the pressure to "initiate" things
540411
Yes, as long as you are not have sexual contact with the each other.
977640
Depends on what kind of love.  There is platonic love and romantic love.  I can love a friend deeply, but that doesn't mean I want to have a physical relationship with him/her.
496324
In a good relationship, both need to be attracted to each other!\n\n-Nate
929133
Yes, but they have to be on board aswell.    In college i had a great friend with benifits and we would call each other for booty calls all the time.We were good friends that tried to date, but knew that it could not work, we did however enjoy the physical with each other.   The funny thing is that i would call him over, then make him leave right after and he was totally cool with that.  After i started seeing someone seriously we ended the sexual part but remained friends.  I am now married with a child and he is friends with my husband and i.  My husband knows about the relationship also.  I kept things very open.
399527
I would think that most people have to be flexible in your situation. If the person is feeling rejected because of the situation I don't think that person should be in the relationship to begin with.
376967
Yes. Usually when two people fight all the time, a sexual tension builds up. However, that's all it may be. Just physical. I don't think it would be love.
1183727
There is no ideal, sweetie. It totally depends on...well, so very much, including, the woman, the way the guy works what he has, and myriad other things. More than anything, though, while yes, some physical things are kinda important, the absolute most important thing is the way you make the lady feel both when she's near you and when she's miles away from you (she is stimulated much more in her mind that she will be anywhere else). Hope this helps!
443179
i have and i didn't always work in my favor most of the time thats all they wanted. The best idea is to make them wait from the start and see if they want to be with you just to be with you or if they keep asking to get in your pants, then you know before it gets serious.
364025
Only if you truley and deeply love the person you are going to "do it" with. And if your ready for along time commitment if he dosen't wear protection.
1060849
some relationships works but some of them aren't i think thats what you call the magic of love... it happens only when two persons are really for each other eventhough they are teasers i think they can be honest and they can show loyalty in their relationship\n\nxxx KATHY
243302
Your right but there are some exceptions.  There are things often that you know you can't work through or differences that exist that aren't even things that involve working through.  You can try everything possible to make a relationship work but at some point no matter how much you love someone you have to be honest about if it is really a relationship that can work.
991174
I believe they want a relationship not just physical gratification\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
487707
it depends if you like him or not, if you do, then yes, but dont bang him, sex ruins relationships