whats goin on with him? Maybe some of the guys can help me out here?
925612
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.\n\nBut, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.\nTry not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.\n\nAnd bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
1159263
Right now he is going through a tough time it seems like. Maybe he is just stressed out and need to be alone to think about where is like is right now. Just give him some space, but if that don't work than just move on.
395124
he probably just needed somebody to talk to, don't neglect or ignore him now he's feeling so low...i suppose it wouldn't hurt to get to know the guy!  find out whats up with him, and tell him if he ever needs to talk that you're there for him!\n\nHe needs a friend, be strong and stick by him u neva know u might like him in the end!\n\nGL hun\nx
358527
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
186437
I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
280404
Well, something people gets the callling and texting all messed up. He may call you and whatever but that doesn't means that he haves feelings for you. Maybe he's trying to...get in your pants or something. You should really talk to him and ask him if he wants something serious with you, or just hook up with you and nothing more. So, I really think you should get things straight with him and make him tell you what he feels or what he wants.
502080
obviously he knows he has a problem and hes asking you for help..support him and help him through..some guys dont want to help them selves feel lucky that your man recognizes his problem..dont leave him..stay and help him through it..he needs you..be there for him.
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
477103
sounds like this guy's bad news from what you've said sounds like your doing the right thing, I'd say he's jealous, he's probably thinking if he cant have you no body else can. good luck & keep up the good work as i wouldnt have any thing to do with this guy eather
764106
Some guys want to tap the town ho but they don't want to be seen with someone every other guy may have had, too. Not saying this is what you are, but it's the mentality of some guys if something comes easy. It seems like he is already on his next conquest. He may contact you for a booty call down the road, but you need to decide if that's all you want from him. Move on dear, you are calling the shots with guys, remember. You have what they want.
626067
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
862349
I think that he is probably under a lot of stress and pressure right now and that you should back off....give him the space he needs and if it is meant to be, he will be contacting you when things settle down.....good luck
240750
Perhaps you should sit down with him and try to figure out what is really going on. Maybe it's because there is a lot of stress at the moment, stress that neither of you are used to, and are thusly taking it out on each other. I think it's time to sit down, and just talk about everything.
626481
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.
639593
He may be depressed or really stressed. There may be something bothering him and he doesn't want to bother you with it. Ask him if everything is ok. give him some space and time eventually he will come around.
65344
maybe he is feeling like he isnt a priority in your life. That sounds like a rather patronizing thing to say to someone, though. I have to agree with another comment, he does sound like something of a control freak. Keep in mind that other things can be more important right now than a guy...depending on where you are in your life. School, work, family, friends...you shouldnt have to put anything you love aside so you can "focus" more attention on a guy. Good luck with this.