what should i do if a guy never gave me the time he promised?
921028
I don't know that there's much you can DO except be disappointed and tell him that you are. What did he say he had to do instead(if anything?) Does he make a habit of this or was this your first date? Did he seem to like being with you during the 2 hours or did he seem to be in a hurry to be elsewhere? These are questions you have to ask yourself or him. Personally, if somebody makes a promise to me it's a BIG black mark against them if they don't keep it without  a good excuse!
1171593
Nothing you can do for now but wait. Maybe there is a reason he didn't call, lost the number, sick relative, sick himself..........on and on..... The next time you see him wait and see how he reacts to you and go from here.
778696
try talking to him... let him know who you are... don't keep waiting    .........                                                                                                                                                                           by the way i'm a guy
682708
No, just tell him to wait for you next time and not to do anything extra before hand if ya know what i mean.
506340
If you have know him for such a long time then he might have already have known it and you just confirmed it. He might have just kept talking to you because it wasn't anything he did expect from you. Even if he's not looking for a GF I would ask him how he feels about you and go from there, who knows maybe he's playing hard to get?
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
885272
don't feel bad... it's ok.  if he really wanted to work it out, he would've tried. don't blame urself..... he said himself he wasn't trying at all.  it's possible that u answered him later than he was expecting, but love is fickle.. timing is really important.. and love can quickly turn sour when u don't cultivate it.\n\njust try concentrating on school, studies, exercise, friends, family and everything else. make everything Positive, Healthy, and Happy in ur life, so u have a lot to offer to any guy...and u will know when someone is taking care of u the "right" way, not ignoring u... u know?  :)  ur not even saying u wouldn't take him back, ur  just saying that he wasn't giving u any attention. that's a valid reason to be upset, and he needs to listen. if he doesn't do his part to make u feel Secure, then it's partly his fault too!\n\ntake some time out and ignore... be nice, but don't beg him or cry or anything.. life is too short to worry about "shoulda woulda coulda".... if he wants to, he will respond. good luck
339773
do you have a new date set?  Talk to him to see if he still wants it or not.  Open lines of communication is important
1156685
have you talked to him? if not you should b4 its tooooo  late and you regret it. talking to him would be you best bet!!
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
668232
if he didn't give u his number u shouldn't call. just grip yourself together and don't call. u might try another way of approaching him and maybe he will give u his number himself. but it is rreally really low for a girl to call a guy if he didn't give her his phone number
883785
simple way around this, dont give it to him, if hes still waiting then id assume he wants to commit, if he leaves you, then id say u have had a lucky escape
257117
Up to you!  My roomie says that if a guy doesn't call her back the very next day then he's not willing to give her the attention she wants- and she forgets about him.  I've known other people who said never call the next day or you'll seem desparate!  Most guys like to wait between 2 and 4 days, just to look 'cool'.  Guys who wait longer than that have either lost or -thrown away- your phone number.  Call him up!  Find out why he hasn't called you!  Don't just sit around waiting on a guy.  That's soooo 1958.\n;)
1141892
Try calling him.\nIf he doesnt respond then move on, because he has.
6390
If he didn't even tell you he was moving he's not worth your time.  being hurt is hard, but you need to move on.  Good luck.
802792
call him and ask him what's wrong.\nlet him know that he can talk to you about anything\nif things don't work out within the next week or so, confront him and ask him if he has lost interest\nif he hasn't let him know that you want to make room for more quality time, and if he has, go find someone better.