Would it be offensive to compliment another man's wife/girlfriend?
930106
Really it all depends on your relationship with the other man.  If he is a man you don't know very well (like a co-worker you don't know very well socially), I would keep those kind of comments to yourself.  If it's a man that you would consider a good friend, or even family, saying things like "how did you manage to get her bob" isn't bad as long as it's said in a joking manner.\n\nAs long as you don't make him feel threatened, you're in the clear.
565689
if she is YOUR wife, there is nothing to impress her with...\nif she's NOT your wife, don't try it, she's taken
877430
There's nothing wrong with being proud of what your man does.  There actually isn't enough of it any more among the military wives.  However, saying that one branch is better than the other is crazy.  Not being able to admit you're wrong is even worse.  However, it's the trend of the new and young wives.  \n\nAnyone who knows anything about the military knows that no single branch can stand alone.  They all rely on each other.  It's quite ironic that the Marines train on other branches posts and bases more than any other.  They don't have much to call their own.  That says that Marines rely on others and they know it.  Should anyone think less of them??  No, I don't think so.  It just proves that everyone works together.  \n\nIt's quite funny the wives do more bashing than the men.  The men have their rivalry.  I don't know what women call it.  I just know I'll always support MY soldier!!\n\nHooAh!!\n\nOh, and southca49er.....military wives do know about their hubby's careers and the branches of the military.  It's our life too.  Those of us who care and support our hubby's choice of career stay up on all the details.  We have pride too.
986847
Ask yourself how you would feel if your wife was admiring the bulge in another mans pants while out with you.  It is not wrong to LOOK at another woman or admire another body part BUT damnit you dont do this while with your mate.  Its respectful.
641277
i say let her wear it. when you hear a comment from someone go ahead and look at them and proudly say, "yea, that's my wife." be happy shes still hot and gets comments. the best i ever got was, "uhh, you ugly!" it still haunts me. lol. let her look good. and remember, whos the one who gets to take the dress off after the party? YOU! enjoy!
24404
I know all men and women still in a small way (at the least) find others attractive when they are with someone. But if I heard my husband say that he thought a woman was hot in front of me, it would really make me mad (he hasn't done it yet). He wouldn't like it if I saw a guy and said," Whoa! He's hot!" \nI don't know why it is such a double standard. I mean you are hooked up with someone because you want to be with just them, so why go out of your way to point out that you are seemingly insensitive? Keep the thoughts to yourself, gentlemen (and ladies).\n\nGood question by the way!! :o)
301838
give them an compliment instead in not make them feel bad
53991
You ask each, in person and privately, if they will do you the great favour of standing up with you at your wedding as your bridesmaid or maid of honour.\nIt is an honour to be asked, but it is also a huge commitment of time and money, so if one of your friends feels she can't honour the obligations that come with that great compliment, she should be allowed to decline in private.\nBy the way, as for the wording, I LOVE Fizzxx's answer...that's beautiful.
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
758367
rather it be your brothers wife or your wife's sister handling this type of situation can be done but should be done with tactfulness. Tell her your flattered and it is cute but it makes you feel bad because you know it is wrong and it places your mind away from your wife and she deserves better than that. You will be surprised how quickly respect is formed
954329
You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
325425
For reassurance.  Obviously she values your opinion.  If it is a recurring question, why not learn to just pay her the occassional compliment.  Assure her of how beautiful she is to you.  Don't sit and wait for her to ask, beat her to the punch.  But be sincere about it.
896507
Yes I say this for two reasons, 1. because it will show your gf    that you really care for her and are not ashamed of it. 2. because you really shouldn't care what other people think. just be comfortable with yourself
619782
Well first i would say that talking to him is all fine and well, but if you are not feeling the love he should relize this without haveing to talk to him about it. I trully believe that it would be nice to mention it to him but he overall reason may not be solved by just talking. If he is not makng you feel loved there is a real problem, and the harsh reality is that if someone comes along and starts paying you a little more attention than your own husband it may lead to problems.I trully believe that if a husband truly loves a wife unconditionally he will never have to have his wife feel not loved, if she does then he is not a good husband.Sorry if this sounds pretty rude but i like to be foward. I would close in saying that you will have to love your self first and if he does not appreciate you then he dose not deserve you.
677984
It depends on the person but as a rule of thumb it's never a good idea. Most people would feel disrespected or insecure by such a comment. I know I would.
98426
is that your wife or gf in your picture? if you have a wife and girlfriend, obviously you don't love either one of them
571475
On behalf of my gender, THANKS!!!!!\n\nAnyone can say they're sorry, but it truly takes a man to admit when he's wrong.\n\nIf you already have someone, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!\nIf not, you most certainly will make that special woman very happy.