so guys,what makes a girl "marriage material"?
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Any decent man will tell you there is no such thing!  If a man falls in love, he loves all of her, including faults.  A woman is not an object to be bought and sold by marriage any more!  Mind you, there will always be stupid men who say "Big tits, long legs and hair, lots of money, no in-laws, good in bed and able to cook!"  If you want to marry a man who wants a "list", go ahead! Personally, I'd say "Take me as I am or leave me alone!"
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Girly girls. But be yourself.\n\nI want a sweetheart.  A Christian.  One who isn't afraid of being a girl.  A girl who wants a real man and who wants to trust and be trusted.  A girl who wants to be taken care of and one who wants to take care of her man.  A girl who wants to be one with her man, emotionally and spiritually.  Someone who has her own personality, but is NOT individualistic. Meaning she prefers cooperation and collaboration rather than relying solely on herself.  I need to feel needed.\n\nOh, and she should be cute too.
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Girls are suckers for guys who take the time to show that they care about them. Flowers would be nice. Maybe a teddy bear. Respect is also important. Girls like to be listened to and we like to see that the guy we go out with listens and tries to understand us. Well, take care.
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Man, I thought you were going to say marijuana before I read the rest of marriage. Uh, no. Marriage is because of love. Not sex. People don't get married just to have sex.
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A girls character and the way she presents herself to me is what I like the most.  Obviously a nice body helps.  But over all I would definately say character and sense of humor.  I like when girls talk to you and start to curl their hair and look like they are really interested in what you have to say.  Like when a girl leans into the conversation....that's cool.  Eye contact and a little smile from a girl is nice too.  :)
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As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
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theres no real single answer, or no "magic" quality. basically an attractive woman to me is somebody that looks good in terms of dress and hairstyle, takes care of her body pyhsically, and is open to socializing. most women generally fit into this category. honestly, its not that hard to be an attractive girl. guys are genetically programmed to like girls. nature has already made it easy for you :)
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it sort of depends on the girl, but\n\nnice, trustworthy, sweet, honest, smart, funny, somewhat good looking, fun to be with, easy to talk to, accepting
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What are the girls really attracted to? I can answer that in one word: Money!
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marriage is between a man and a woman.  bottom line.
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The best thing you have working for you is personality. My fiance got my attention by being intellectual and funny. Making a girl laugh is the best piece of advice you'll ever get- the quickest way to win someone over is to make them smile. The second part to that is, if you're talking to a girl, make her feel like she's the only one in the room- if some girl walks past you with a miniskirt on, don't look. I can't tell you how impressed girls are when a guy does that. \nAs for anything looks related, almost every man I've seen looks 10x better in a button up shirt and jeans. I love that look. It has to be put together but, when done right, its the sexiest look.
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hi..its not so always...most men wld get attracted to gud lukin fem...but lemme tell u when u fall in luv with sum1 then luks dnt really matter...the general opinion abt any marriage is that d gurl shld be beautiful and the guy shld be capable of earnin...so its deep rooted in our traditions that men luk for gud lukin girls while girls want an intelligent man........
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Ok.. from what Im getting is your meeteing girls then telling them how much u like and appreciate them.. ok dependin on how u show/say this ,and how this sounds to me.. you sound like u are wanting a commitment, and there is a theory that only men are afraid of commitment ...thats not true.. some women are too.. dont come out and say "hey i want to get married!" ( not that u say that but u might as well)  just be normal, get to know her. and if sex isnt in ur 1st date agenda, then theres no reason to "convince" her its not.  just be ur self without all the "persuading" of how u "appreciate" women. cause also when a man goes on about how much he "appreciates" women.. well thats just hey im a lying ass and just want in ur pants. somethings can be taken  differently
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girly girl to a certain extent...no attitude problems...thats for a guy...cute, sexy, long straight hair, tan, somewhat shy, not everybodys best friend...not to popular, mild sense of humor... not funny all the time but has to be able to have a conversation...needs to be able to cuddle and be cute at times...but not all the time...know when to have sex or make love...theres a huge difference...also general ambitions, girls that are extremely goal oriented seem to be more distracted and less available, although they need to have some idea of where there going in life, finally, proabably the most is important is not to be to attached to early...it can ruin a relationship quickly, be sure before you show it...hopefully that makes sense a girl that becomes to attached to fast is a huge trait that i cant deal with, it drives me farther away, usually ending the relationship abruptly so i dont make it any harder to break up...wow i gotta little carried away...lol...ya hope i helped! \n\n\nbanshee_370@yahoo.com
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every relationship has to have three Cs.commitment,communication and compromise.\neither its love marriage or arrange marriage,that is immaterial.but for the success of marriage these three Cs are indispensable.
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Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
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In my home, we use reason and not gender to settle differences.  We also use religion.  It's not about male/female being right because that isn't a marriage.  What makes a marriage is communication, honesty, openness, and trust.  If these things are missing, you end up in a constant cycle of arguing.  Personally, I don't like it.  Oh, and most of the time, I am found to be right after proving him wrong with undeniable facts.