relationship question?
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
738652
I have to agree with groovy.  Maybe his constant asking needed to be addressed.  Just apologize for the way you addressed it and talk it through.  Have a small gift from the heart that will answer that question from now on so that it never has to be said and your relationship can continue to move on.
645313
Communication! I have been with the same guy for 7 years and I am just realizing since we moved in together that its one area  we need work in.  Its so important!  Also keep dating each other.  People always seem to get "comfy" in a relationship and it gets boring.  Keep things exciting.
462208
You should Ask him directly. That's something to keep the trust on each other. You must trust him and he must trust you.
328474
explain to him that you feel you are ready to try taking your relationship to the next level to see if your really ready. thats what I like to hear though, that a girl will set a boundry thats cool.
904467
Just ask him.  Communication is the key to any relationship
26309
depends! are you talking to the person ur in a relationship with? b-cuz thats fine! if not then it depends on what ur talking about!
464978
Depends on how long the relationship has been going on and where you both are at in your lives. If you are single, I would say probably not. :)
696379
I think communication is really important.  Obviously you don't want to scare anyone off, but its nice to be able to talk and see where both people are at in a relationship.  Depending on the people I think its good to find out what each of you want, without planning anything or making any real committments
1136994
Tell him this....Introducing a relationship to poligamy is frought with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundemental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality. See what he says then!!!
97988
This guy is toying around with you.  He's hot, then he's cold.  Sounds like you'd be better off without all the mind games and drama.  Looks will only get you so far.  Have to have the personality to match!  Don't call.  If he calls, and you still want to be with him, make it conditional.  Ask him to be honest re: what he feels and to stop acting like such a "drama queen."  If he blows up or acts immature again, then leave the relationship alone.  At least you gave him one final chance to prove himself.  You are much better off looking elsewhere.
578551
You are being unfair to your girl. Don't sell her short. You need to sit down and have a deep talk with her and tell you how you feel. Give her a chance to work it out before you do something bad. I know how it feels to be on the crappy end of a cheating relationship. Trust me, nothing good can come out of it. The girl you are cheating with knows that you don't value a relationship. It couldn't work anyways. It justy makes her feels special that you are considering her even though you are already involved. It won't last, trust me. Go with what you know.
27828
You obviously have trust in each other if you can have intimacy.  So you should definitely tell but don't be surprised if things change.  This person might not feel the same way and this might bring your sexcapades to an end.
993793
I don't know if you can do this subtly but sometimes for the good of the relationship you have to voice your concerns. Be respectful of course and gentle. Not aggressive, but make them know you only mention it because you value the relationship and you want it to grow. I think you may be surprised, hopefully pleasantly.
201620
No offense, but if you have to ask, niether relationship is probably a good one. When you truely love somone, there is no doubt in your mind as to what decision to make in this type of situation.
977944
yes. talk to your friends. they should be able to help you. or ask your boyfriend himself what he wants.
1002697
Be honest with her. She will probably find out anyways. Things always have a way of slipping out or she will eventually notice the way the two of you are when you are around together.  Think of it this way.  Ask yourself this question, if it was reversed, what would you want?  Would you rather know? And why?