The guys, The boys, what's your opinion about marriage with your girlfriend ?
912954
sweet but i want her to fu.ck me for her...cuz SHE wants to
555329
Sweeite, it's alright.  What you feel is totally natural.  I have been with my guy for three years and I am the maid of honor for a woman who has been dating her guy for five months.  I have a complex about it, and she loves to rub it in.  \n\nSomething I have realized, though, through all this is that marriage, while being the ultimate committment is not required to have a totally fulfilling realtionship.  While I may not even be engaged, I know that we are meant to be and have a bond that my friend cannot even contemplate with her new beau.  \n\nNot being egnaged only means that you are mature enough to know that the marriages that last longer are the ones who wait two to five years.  You will not stumble into anything weird wwhen you get married.  You know everything about him.  Believe me, some of these new brides will find at least one thing that will surpirse them about their mate.  Getting married in the honeymoon phase of a realtiohsip, while looks good on paper, is not really the best way.  once that is over, what do you have left?  Only knowledge and understanding of the other will be the true test of time, and that can only come with time.  \n\nDon't sweat it.  You are the smarter one.  Know it, breathe it, live it!  You are one up on them, not the other way around!
596529
Yes, I believe if two people are in love, they should be able to wed. If they want to make that kind of a commitment and are that secure in their relationship, which I doubt I will EVER be that secure, let them have at it!! I do have a problem with them raising kids though. And I would hate to see a divorce between 2 gay men. That would be one hell of a cat fight!! I think a lot of people are coming around to this point of view since a lot of states have legalized same sex marriages. It was a very good thing indeed!! Thank you for asking!!
1061848
You should value your boy friend's opinion more then them as he is going to be your husband. But you can always talk to him about the situation and try to get him agreed. But you shouldn't be doing anything without getting his permission, because it is his wedding too and it is special for him.
183286
I'm not gay.  I'm not liberal, either.  If they want to get married, that's fine.  How did I develop this idea?  I know some.  One in particular holds a place of laughter in my memory; and that is a very good thing.
1138575
yes...it's been heard that a man should always put his family first above all else. except God obviously. being "married to your job" can hinder any relationships you might have. also depending on what you do and whom you work around can hinder it as well. it just depends on if the girl is the one you want to be with...how you react is what she'll see.
1131826
Sure I don't see why not, guys want to marry guys girls want to marry girls, why not marry demons and angels.  My neighbor has a thing for his horse.
481661
I think marriage is wonderful! It is absolutely amazing to me.  My husband and I will be married 5 years this July (Lord's willing) and it seems like we are still in the honeymoon phase.!!!\n\n\nI also think that if more people would incorporate what the Bible says about marriage into their life, that there would not be so many divorces.
1034004
No, I would still marry them, because each person can have their own beliefs, and not have it interrupt the marriage at all. Religion is something that brings people together, not takes them apart. Besides if the love is true then they respect each others religion, so it would not be a big deal
1105819
If done right, it's a commitment to love and honor and be with each other for life....If it's done wrong, then it's hell on earth and the end of freedom and all those other vile things said.   \n\nI would strongly recommend you think very long, very hard, and having serious potential uncomfortable conversations with your s.o. before considering the commitment of marriage.
580196
Go for it. I am a White man married to a Black Woman. It is very acceptable and we have no problems. I get along well with her family and my family loves her as well. She has two sons from a previous marriage and I get along well with them.
942793
Yep, that's me ;) It's the best decision I made, marrying my sweetheart who's from the States. I come from a country that's very rich in tradition, and I'm chinese. Since we've been involved, he learnt a lot about my culture and the traditions that we have. Although we still have disagreements in our relationship sometimes, but it's the one thing that brings us closer too. Life will never be boring for us, that's for sure.
546278
I used to believe it was quite archaic. I always believed in love, and considered it the prime motivaton for marriage. I believed it was the couples sole decision, and no other enity should be involved.  However, as time progessed, my feelings have changed.  In AMERICA, the divorce rate is 50%.  Somethings wrong with the system. I'm rethinking the idea of planned marriages.  They seem to last quite a bit longer.
73487
i support younger-male relationship!!!!(that's what i called it).. but , why? why can't they??\nwho don't give permission? her parents?u can't fix it... her friends?maybe u can talk to them nicely...but, pls specify , why??
82365
Well, i am not particularly a fan of it, but i dont necessarily think itsa bad thing either. The idea of it is marry first, fall in love later.  Iprefer to find my own mate, because if the marriage fails, then it was my fault and atleast i can say, i did love him and for all the went wrong, look at what went right.  When the marriage is aranged and fails, then the tendency to harbor blame and anger exists.  But i think in a way, it still exists all over the world, even in USA.  Being set up  on blind dates, meeting ppl through friends...etc are all formsof arrangements, just not so final.
1094588
I think they have a right to their opinion esp if it's their own house. The guy has to live with everyday. (If your just dating) but if your married give it up guys your pretty much screwed.
1102423
marriage is a suprior relationship far far better then the whole bf and gf system\n\nmay allah guide u all\n\nhttp://www.islamalways.com