I Don't Know What He's Thinking... Guys... Please Help!?
927093
yah he does but he just doesnt  knmow how to show it give it time ittl all workout
623819
I think he is either flirting, being nice or likes you.\nJust flirt right back is all I can say.
349801
Don't expect anything concrete from this guy first.  looks like he's way too confused about what he wants to settle down.  Just agree when he says he doesn't want a relationship.  If saying "let's just be friends" riles him up, forego it.
154785
It could mean an array of things. But the best one I think is that if he really does like you as much as he says he does, then why worry about it? Maybe, and this is speaking from experience, that when a girl asks a guy a question like that, the alarms in our heads go off. If we say something too serious were afriad that we might scare you off, or if we dont say something serious enough youre going to think that we dont care or whatever so wed actually rather not give a real answer. Honest to God truth thats what goes through alot of guys heads when questions like that are answered. Just ask him to give a real answer and if it pleases you let him know, if it displeases you dont tear into him for giving the answer that he really believes. If you do that, you shouldnt expect him to give you a real answer to questions like that for a while if ever.
608781
By not making up his mind, he has already made up his mind.....he''s not interested in a relationship with you. When people are interested, it's NO problem to make up their mind, and you WILL know it. Move on! Find another man that CAN make up his mind! Good Luck!!
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
434702
Its his life. Let him know how you feel and let him make up his own mind about what he wants.
905852
Not knowing is the worst.  But have faith.   What are his reations to you?? any kind words, flirting?    Just tell him if it gets too hard.
581662
He's openly said he's not sure what he wants. Your friend can say if that's what she wants or not and if not, move along.
584431
it sounds like he just want's a "friends with benefits" relationship. Tell him that you want a real relationship, or nothing. You don't want to be held back from something new because he can't make up his mind.
360969
He has been with you for two years, so this must mean something. He says he loves you and I am sure he does. Is he a generous and  thoughtful guy as this is an indication why he gives money to that girl. She is probably in a difficult situation and has no one else to turn to. Is he replying to a text rather than sending them which is a bit different. Give him a chance. Dont throw away the time you have been together. Play it by ear for now.
282389
I GUESS YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE SITUATION... IF THINGS DON'T LOOK LIKE HE IS, THEN LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND LEAVE IT OPEN FOR HIM TO RESPOND THEN AND THERE OR LATER. HE MIGHT NEED TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. DON'T RUSH HIM TO RESPOND. JUST LET IT BE KNOWN. YOU'LL FIGURE IT OUT. \n\nGOOD LUCK
49411
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
1139729
No. He just wnts some ass. Trust me. I'm a guy, and even though I don't act upon what my head says (not always a good thing) I know how other guys think. So do yourself a favor and just get someone else who'll be there for you. Not your puss...
504223
sounds like he was just interested in one thing honey....\nHow old are ya'll?\nIt could be that awkward age where he doesn't want any of friends to know what exactly is going on, but I will tell you that you deserve better and to dumb this guy.....You will find someone who is proud of you and your acccomplishments and your relationship.