Why am i thinking about a person who did me more wrong than right?
929390
If he only sent you an email he is probably with his ex, either way it means he does not care that much about you...he has your number, he can call you (right?) and the fact that he did not defend you over his ex, when she was obviously in the wrong, shows he either does not care that much about you, and might still have feelings for his ex, more so than he does for you..I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am just trying to give you the best advice, which is to realize (which it sounds like you already have) that this guy does not truly care about you and the best thing for you to for yourself is to just forget about him and move on, as hurtful as it may be. You could email him back demanding an explanantion, and telling him how hurt you are, but it wouldn't make much of a difference.
787562
firs i gotta ask you why would you do such a thing its sick and it shows your a bad person (if you plss care to tell me my e-mail is tiffymarie1@yahoo.com)&#92;\n\nyou should tell her because maybe your conscience isn't as disturbing now but someday your life will turn into a living hell\n\nthis coming fro a worried voice ( Tiffy)
699067
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing but I say that you are hurting someone ... it is yourself since you have to question you motives and you love this person.
1076916
I know what you mean. I have someone right now that I feel like I don't deserve but I love too much to let them go for their own good. Sometimes we just need people who have different qualities then us, stronger ones I guess. It doesn't make them better then us, just different personality wise. \n\nJust keep looking and maybe the one you 'don't deserve' is the right one you really do deserve.  : )
346982
u did the thing 25 years ago.. and u know its bad.. am sure the amount of guilt u feel every time u think of it through these 25 years or whenever u knew it was wrong is enough, more than enough to punish u.. but still.. u gotta do something to pay back that certain person..even if without him knowing..
776624
Forcin' yourself 2 believe that this person is actually a bad person is really doing nothing but fooling yourself.\n\nEverybody that we meet has some form of impact on our lives...this one particular "person" just had a very BIG influence on you.  Of course, it's going to be hard to "get over them", but you have to come to an acceptance that it's over between the two of you.  It'll be hard, but that's the only way you'll ever TRULEY move on.
179429
I'm sorry to hear about that.  You have my sympathy.\nTry to remember the good things about that person.  Remember a joke that person told, or a funny thing he or she did, or some harmless prank they pulled.\nIf you remember the good, you can overcome the bad.
872422
Sounds like you are having second thoughts about giving him a second chance.  Not only did he break the trust in your relationship, but he did a little shattering of your confidence too.  You can't let anyone shatter your confidence, so if this is torturing you and making you think thoughts that are killing you, then it may be something you need to let go of.  When you forgive someone that means letting go of all the hurt and moving on to the next step and it seems like something that you are not able to do.  If you love him and you think that he is heartily sorry for what he did, then let it go and move on with your relationship.  If not, then you need to let him go and do whatever he has to do and you go do what you have to do.  It sounds like you still think he is misleading the both of you and you can't live like that!  It will kill you!  Make that decision on your own, don't wait for it to backfire.  Usually your first mind is your right mind. You are more important than anything.  I was in a situation like that once and it didn't work out for the good, not saying that is the case with your situation, but you should always go with your first mind. I know it will be hard, but it will work out better in the long run.
579542
We all have our indiscretions. You made a mistake, you know it, get over it.\n\nYou need to forgive yourself and move on.  It doesn't matter what others think.  What matter most is what you think of yourself. \n\nThe fact that you feel remorse makes you a good person with values who needs to move on and not make the same mistake again.
656808
you think your thoughts and actions are controlled by someone else
198083
It may not be the nicest thing for a person to do, however if you hadn't done whatever it is that you did they wouldn't have it to use against you. You can't stop a person from doing what they are determined to do unless you talk to them and they are willing to cease what they are doing. You can either ignore them and what they are doing or move on and own up to it. Your past is who helped make you who you are today and if your a better person now then at least you've learned from it. There is something called karma and wheather it be good or bad, eventually they will get what they deserve.
322772
How can anyone think it wasn't right?  That baffles me.
436939
There are still memories of that person u still have ...\n\nAll i can say is ur being self-centered ... ur first mistake was getting married to ur current hubby ... n then ur second mistake was having a kid ..... ur third mistake is thinkin u can get ur ex back ..... \n\nur gonna keep on makin mistakes unless u stop thinkng bout him ... Frankly wud u rather risk ur entire life or b with ur hubby who loves u n ur child n have a family ??\n\nif u want out then do it asap be4 u hurt more n more people
1101932
It is completely natural to think things like this. I am more concerned with why it bothers you so much. And if you are so afraid about acting out your thought, have you had any other thoughts that you have acted out and regretted? If so you need help from someone other than YAHOO.
318380
I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
115314
I have pondered this same thing..\n\nI can forgive someone for treating me poorly, but I will never forget how I felt when that happened.. \n\nI think it has to do with a little self preservation, and more to what you want to surround yourself with, and  not wanting to put yourself in a position to face the same types of offenses.\n\nForgetting it a very hard thing to do, because you naturally associate some things together.. like a favorite song from high school that instantly makes you feel a certain way when you hear it again, or the first time you laid eyes on your first born, or the first time your heart was broken.  You retain this data (I think) because it's all a learning process that later will help you value what is and isn't important. And the emotions tied to those things are memorized with your heart.
868236
Glad you aren't related to me! Yikes!  But, really though you do sound like you have some problems you need help with before you do something you will regret.  Call a mental help line or your doctor or if you really think you might hurt somebody just call the police & they will take you to a place where you can get help.  Please call them BEFORE you hurt or kill anybody ok?