Why do you girls tell you they want to be with you when they really don't?
923448
Some people are just born into a world of self-delusion and indecisiveness.\n\nThey think that the world revolves around them and this gives them just cause to treat others with very little consideration. Being someone who has been on the receiving end, I would suggest deleting her number from your phone and moving on to someone more deserving of your affections.\n\nIt might churn you up at the moment but the sooner you get back out there and meet "genuine" people the sooner you will start to feel at ease.\n\nBest of luck!
672000
Fact is you have to move on it is obvious even to me you are being used why should they show commitment when you are putty in their hands whenever they feel like coming round. There is a saying over here that springs to mind "Treat em mean to keep them keen"
353590
Ok well no offense but if they don't want you then they don't. But I know how you feel. Love happens over time, just be around the girl, do things that make her happy, romance her a little and maybe she will fall for you. Also, how do you know she doesn't want you? Talk to her about how you feel, then things might work out better.
969544
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
688747
In most cases, it probably because he wants to keep a standby girl friend to use when ever needed. Becareful from him, he is just using you because you are letting him to.
153317
Listen this girl is clearly trying to break it off with you.  If she keeps saying it won't work why would you want to be with her?  She seems very negitive and dull.  Break up with her and go out and have a good time.  You will meet someone who wants to make it work no matter what.
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
1187507
She is confused, she has feelings for you but doesnt want you to be too close, meaning she doesnt want to get involve with you. And sends you sms or stuff just when she is in worry or has no one else. and when she finds someone else you are no more there for her, Also since she is more qualified and getting more paid, so you two are bound to have clashes, she will show her authority. And when you will not obey she will simply move out without any feelings. I have heard it happen like this. Unless she is in love with you and you know her for sure, and she doesnt change color so quickly, than go for her or i would prefer just forget her. There will be some girl who really loves you and is just not telling you, so find that girl, and when you will get your mind away from this girl the other girl you will easily see. Trying to get your attention but you ignoring her. Rest you have a mind can see things more clearly, evaluate. Its a waste to love someone who doesnt love you.
308543
LOL ok buddy. I'm pretty sure it means either one of two things: 1, she's actually a pretty intellectual girl, and is a bit unsure of herself. She wants to know what it's like out there, and what she's capable of. Or 2, she's just not interested in you romantically, which is nothing to beat yourself up about.
925298
I think that it means that she doesn't think that you are the type of person that she is looking for, or else that she doesn't think that you seem like the type of person who can stay in a serious relationship.\nHope this helps and good luck!
371151
Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.
227671
You know, I ask this SAME question about guys. And I STILL never really came up with a good answer. I think it's just different for every girl. Sometimes girls come on really strong so it's OBVIOUS that they like you, but other times, they can just be secret admirers from the distance. If you tell her how YOU feel first, she'll tell you how she really feels too.
333641
Oh, the games girls play to get a little attention.  She wants you to chase her and fall desperately in love with her.  But she wants to just string you along.  It gives her power in her otherwise powerless life.  Sounds like she's got her own issues to deal with.  Forget the girl and find yourself a stronger, more mature woman.
778065
My man, either she doesn't have faith in her ability to be in a relationship, she's holding out for something else, or she doesn't know what the heck she wants.  \n\n1) She likes you as a friend, you have fun together, she doesn't want to risk that by having a relationship with you because she thinks it would end in disaster and you would not be friends any longer...\n\n2) ...or he wants to keep  you around in case she doesn't get the guy she really wants, she can use you as a backup....\n\n3) ...or she's a ditzy-brained bird who can't figure out what the heck she wants.\n\nAny way this is playing out, the girl has some stuff to work out and you'd do well not to hang your heart on her, so move on, find someone else and don't let yourself get hurt!
1139237
Hm, a girl who likes you and probably wants to get with you told you something about your girlfriend.\n\nSo.. that you guys would fight and maybe you would break up with her and be single (and possibly date the new girl).\n\nWell, who do you think has a motive to be lying?
685010
You can't win with these girls.. If you are shy most women don't esspecially like it.. If you show too much interest then they say your too needy, desperate or clingy.. They are just never satisfied.
353653
well u know her situation better than us then ab she is lying or not u r the only person who can find it out...do u know her well before u asked her to go out with u ?if its several times that u asked her and she didnt come 1-maybe she is right(buy all of us even if e are too busy have some free times for ourselves) 2-maybe she cant tell u she dont wanna be with u(she is shying or ....)3-maybe she want u but there is something there ,whenever she wanna come out ,it warned her then she didnt.....i dunno more reason...ask her directly cuz even if she wanna be with u and this situation almost always happen ur relation can stand