why are ppl so negative?
918191
IDK, but it is getting OLD, I am sick of feeling almost skared to approach anyone, for fear of the apathy, the bad attitude, and the contempt rubbing off on me and ruining my happy-go-lucky, cheekymonkey day.
1066717
Well sometimes the way we dress tells a story about who we are as a person. For instance, someone who dresses all in black, with lots of peircings & hair going everywhere that is dyed black, black nail polish...etc. etc....hmm...what is that saying to me....that they are angry or want to draw attention to themselves in a negative way. We're not all the same...there are good ppl & bad ppl...moral & immoral ppl...Godly ppl & unGodly ppl...ppl that hate & ppl that love...i think you show a little bit about who you are in the way you dress. And it's not for me to judge them...I just read the story that they are openly telling.
485218
Except for horrible catastrophes, the negative in most situations will have a positive. You just have to look for it. It's like any kind of stress...what is stressful for one person is stimulating for another. It's all a matter of perspective.\n\nIt's easy to say, "This is too hard." But the people who choose to embrace their life experiences...even the bad ones... instead of allowing themselves to become a victim to their situation come out stronger and ready to face the world on it's own terms.\n\nYOU have the power to accept or reject negativity. Maybe you've heard the old saying, "What if two countries decided to have a war and no one came?" What that means is, it takes two to have a conflict. It's your choice to participate, but the choice may involve making hard decisions like quitting a job or leaving home or distancing yourself from a friend or family member or at the very least leaving the immediate area of the negativity when things get rough...but you do have control. You can choose not to play the negative game if you want to.
84452
people are haters thats why
511693
because ppl make us moody
1105367
Its about mind set.You have to accept all the good that life has to offer.You have to believe and know that only good is going to come your way.Sure there is going to be a few bumps in the road but go with it.Its just a bump.A positive out look will always land you in a better place than a dark negative view of things.Put yourself around positive people and avoid negativity in any form.Life is an adventure and the way you look at it will shape it for the good or the bad it's your choice.
757238
People may be unhappy at first, but unpleasantness toward one another takes a lot of negative effort.  Effort that most people do not have the energy to focus on in the long run.  Amicability (if that's a word?) will come in time.
167255
ppl are afraid of things that are diff. and change is one of those things that causes a difference. if you fear a change maybe it's not the best for you right now. or you could be afraid of what your friends will think after you make a change. think bout the change you wanna make and how it will affect you and the ppl around you. if you like how you think i'll make you feel and don't care what others will think then go for it. but if not then hold off on it a while and think bout it some more
172936
yes it happens. its up to the ppl involved. that sort of lifestyles suits some ppl, and disgusts others.  its up to u to know what u can and cant handle.
379249
Not really, I mean why be so negative all the time? sieze the day!
568127
look, truth be told, some ppl just aren't 'ppl ppl' if u know what i mean... they prefer to be alone and r actually better off that way. \n\nbut if u ask me, even those ppl could use a good friend at some point in their life. it might be during the difficult teens, maybe the late thirties, or even after the dubbed "middle-age"...but that time always comes! \n\nfriends aren't the ppl who hang out with u and make u do drugs... friends r those who hold u up on their shoulders so u can check out that pretty chick/hunk behind the fence, they r the ppl who tell u that outfit makes u look fat (that just means they r honest and don't want to c u make a fool of urself), they r the ones who lend u their favorite CDs and don't mind if it takes u ten weeks to give 'em back, the ones who help u cheat on a test without being afraid they'll get caught in the process, they r the ones who actually take the blame for something YOU did and not regret it, the ones who let u sleep over (and in THEIR bed, too!) when ur wife/husband kicks u out, the ones who play poker with u when ur kids dump u in an old-ppl's home and forget u there...\n\nthe friends u've had so far obviously didn't fall under that category...find urself some REAL buds and use criteria like: same inetersts, similar mind-frequency, humor, logic, and most of all...THAT THEY R THERE 4 U WHEN U NEED THEM!!!
57790
When I am around people that think or talk negatively all the time, I simply remove myself from that situation.  The negative people are just looking for that additional attention.  By not giving it, you are telling them that that is not cool.  They will either change or be alone.  When you do come across someone that is negative, find things that are positive to talk about.  Just dont let them bring you down with them.
594556
ehm, I dont get the point or whats what you dont understand in your 2 situations ? \nIs it buging you, that the ppl walked off ? maybe they did not like that music, and just came because you were bugging tham so much ?\n\nhowever, to sit down and analyze ppl does not work.\nsit down with ppl and talk to them works.\nGrowing up, see lots of stuff, knowing and talking a lot to ppl, short said: experience is, what makes you understand ppl, and what makes you know if they are honest or lying to you.
956712
Don't be too bummed out. Everything happens differently for ppl at different times.
986777
because people these days are very negative and like to see people down rather than up.
1007568
because most people are negative.  :)
280527
god made such ppl to differentiate between good and bad ppl\nw/o bad .... good has no value\nyes god is thr and he is watching over\nppl who cheat..speaks lie.....r punished\nbut not in the way we want it......god does gives thm the worst punishment in his own way\nso be good and stay away frm such ppl