how does gaydar work?
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You recognize a bit of yourself (if youre gay) in others, you can relate to what they are doing.  Straight folks relate to what there gay friends are like, so they might not always be as accurate.\n\nIts not just mannerisms and stereotyped behavior, its presence.
690483
tell them you're gay.
415429
That's the way gays naturally act if they are effeminate. Not all gays are that way. Many are people you would not suspect. They don't do it to draw attention. They do it because that's the way they are.
329234
In theory, the military can't ask someone if they're gay. They can, however, if someone admits to being gay, kick them out. (Doesn't necessarily happen if the person has to go to Iraq, but that's another matter.)\n\nSupposedly, through this theory, the army has no trouble with people who are gay, just people who commit sexual acts with someone of the same sex. (ie, they can't punish status, just action). So, they can't ask if you're gay. However, if they find that you're involved with someone of the same sex -- even without proof of what exactly you're doing -- they can kick you out. So, in effect, they punish the status of being gay rather than just the action.\n\nIt's a pretty screwed up policy -- probably the worst legacy of Clinton; certainly in terms of gay rights.
661306
This is why gays in the military doesn't work.  A homosexual enlists, gets there, decides it's too hard, and then decides to use the gay card to get out.  You signed a contract and told your country you would serve.  And now you're trying to back out and be a little cry baby.  The fastest way to get your discharge is to serve your time.  Besides, once you get an honorable discharge, you are entitled to all of the veteran benefits.  Until you get that though, us veterans are going to see you like the little whiny girls you are.
309220
they like people of the same sex
493253
not all people are gay.\nmost of the guys like beautiful girls too
305645
I don't think we do. I'm gay and have been out at work for a year and a half. When I first told the guys there, they told me that they would never have known if I didn't tell them. About a month ago one of them told me "I still can't believe your gay". The thing is that most gay guys don't act "weird". Most act just like the guy next door. That's why you can never know for sure who is gay and who is not.  There are a lot of men out there who have a lot of the "feminine" traits but they are straight.  Who's to know?
1025711
I played with GI Joe when I was growing up but so did my best friend and He is as straight as an arrow . Nothing can make you gay you are born gay . Sexual orientation is determined before birth and no one  can choose to be gay or straight . Nothing can make them gay or straight .  A straight man can't decide he is gay and change his attraction for women and a gay man can't decide he is straight and  change his attraction for men .
74515
because they're gay .
509525
Well you "guys" have to live in one big room. You guys get to know one another pretty well. There was a reason Clinton allowed gays in the military.
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I am straight and I was born this way.\nYou are gay and I know you were born that way.  Cheers!\n(Here's a bit of scientific proof for the naysayers)\n\nThe sexual area of a gay man's brain works a lot like that of a woman when exposed to a particular stimulus, researchers say.\n\nIn an experiment, men and heterosexual women sniffed a chemical from the male hormone testosterone. The homosexual men's brains responded differently from those of heterosexual males, and in a similar way to the women's brains.
287453
i would say that you do the same thing people did before there was an internet.  go to clubs, join support groups, visit your local gay & lesbian center or use your gaydar in the grocery store, park, or other everyday kind of place.\n\ngood luck!
1024493
It depends on the length of the relationship, if its a first date then they might decide to go dutch, if its a longer relationship then they pay according to their agreement, they might pool their money. If they are living together then it's just like any couple .  Things like that come natural as you grow together. The rules aren't different in a gay/lesbian relationship.  Paying becomes part of you as a couple. No need to decide who will pay .  I have found that being comfortable with someone requires no monetary agreement on a date.
465693
I've heard stories. LOL funny stories. I don't know personally but, I have my suspicions about both.  And just so you know,You can have kids and a wife and still be GAY. Duh!
1100568
predetermined........the level in which they choose to act out....is a choice, no different than a straight person.\n\nI work at an Elem. school and I can pick a few out who are gay as early as 1st grade....and it just becomes more obvious as the kids get older.
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I'm laughing at the answer above me. Where did you get this information?  It actually lists his sexual orientation?!  Who cares, no need to share.