I think my wife is cheating on me...advice please.?
917075
If she denied everything and then said it would never happen again, sounds like to me that she is GUILTY.  DAAAAAAAAAA
256899
wow, I can't decide which is worse...a wife that is keeping secrets from her husband, or a husband who is so controlling that he wants to keep tabs on everything his wife does.\n\nhave you considered for a moment that maybe NOTHING is going on? maybe she needs ONE THING in her life that you don't have your nose in? maybe she emails her girlfriends. maybe she is secretly planning to leave you. whatever it is, she obviously doesn't want you to know.\n\nif it bothers you that bad, be a man and talk to her about it. i would suggest not accusing her of anything, because then you will just make her defensive. try to act mature (and no, trying to hack into her email account and spy on her is NOT mature) and explain what is making you uncomfortable.
941274
This is a very unique question.  it sounds like your wife is a BIG GAME PLAYER!  But at the same time you don't want her little game to ruin your life.  Who knows what she'll do.  I'd tell her to go find another round of friends, and you're going to live your life.  She will keep you going through this bull crap for life if you let her.\nSounds to me like she's wore her welcome out where she just came from, and is running back to her rock that's you.  Well sometimes rocks crumble.  I would let her go, you're not responsible for her irrational behavior.  And in no way are you to blame for her actions.
95330
Do you really want to know? that could be the end of your relationship. If you suspect she is still cheating then thats diffrent. nip it in the bud. but if it was in the past and things are ok now, let it go.
862968
If you have both been cheating for this long, clearly it's not just a fling.\nI think you should seek out martial counseling (with this woman).\nI KNOW that you should both divorce before you conceive a child together. \nThe dishonesty is going to create problems for you and your wife, her and her husband. So get it all out, done and over with now.\nThen move on with this woman.
516980
Maybe she is on drugs. That explains the wierdness. As for the cheating part learn to trust your girl.
615166
maybe nothing did happen...but..sitting and thinking about it  .. guys are pigs women are bitches..so go with your gut cuz wondering about it will drive you mental.. and sometimes even worse than catching them in the act.. move on.. there is a trust issue as well.. you have to ask yourself .. 4 hours??? and if you did the same what would she say??? tell the wife she should know
1000221
You need to be honest to both women, You just got back with your wife, don't let her hear this from anyone but you. This is the fastest way to ruin trust. Be nice to the Friend, tell her you like her but only want to be friends. You can also tell her that you may be working things out with your wife. Don't let both women think you have been leading them on. you can loose your wife for good and that doesn't sound like what you want. Tell HER Now. Marriage is a blessing and your wife's feelings should come first. if the friends gets mad then so what. At least your wife knows you're not trying to play games with her.
980663
You need to tell your girlfriend her husband is cheating on her. She is in jeopardy in more ways than one. You should be more concerned with her well being that keeping a cheating lying friend.
521304
Richard, I realize that you are upset and losing sleep, but you've got to simply stop posting the same question over and over and let people answer it.  Otherwise, you'll just get a lot of stupid answers from people who just want to get easy points.  Also, if you are really sure, and I mean SURE, not just suspicious about your wife lying to you and you feel she was with another man, perhaps this is not a match made in heaven and you should consider other avenues.  Like a trial separation.  Or marriage counseling.  Divorce is always an option, but as a last resort (unless you know in your heart you are in a truly loser relationship as I once was 16 years ago and made a hasty exit).  Again, try to relax and let your answer get some good responses and give some more details about why you believe she is lying to you.
664878
Confront her on it.  Maybe something came up.  Maybe she was blowing you off.  You never know unless you ask.  Do go around wondering "What if?"
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
940523
Don't ever admit to anything. The best thing that you can do is accuse her of giving it to you,and then file for divorce on grounds of adultery.
261032
You've blown it man. She won't trust you now. Let this be a learning curve.\nBelieve me, you have more fun keeping your mouth shut.
417518
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
927961
Well get a device and put it on the car or have a friend you trust follow her and record her or call cheaters or be forth right open and honest and tell her to her face; I believe you are cheating on me, if you deny and I find out its over, if your honest maybe we can work this out. Why hide? If you want the evidence up front hire a detective.
192824
I've had a similar problem. I won't go into it, it's too long and confusing.  But, I would think that he's cheating, whether it be physically or emotionally. Same thing. You need to talk to him first.  Then talk to this woman, and let her know that you are very uncomfortable with this and she needs to back off.  If not, back her off.