If I bring a Hostess gift to a party, but my husbands co-workers do not, will it make them look bad?
923440
You are worrying too much.  Take your small gift and have a great time.  Enjoy!!!
761901
Well, Guys generally do not give their Friends birthday gifts. So I think the answer to your question in context would be because that is what woman do.
9689
I don't think you NEED to get your boss a gift but if you'd like to, stick to something not too personal and not too expensive.  Don't want the boss to think you're kissing up.  A holiday plant, candy, a book, cookies, or desk stress relievers for that boss that's too uptight!
360760
Technically..no.  Guests are NOT allowed to purchase items & must be signed it by a military ID holder.  Any items purchased and given to non authorized users must be considered a gift..no money is allowed to change hands.  \n\nDoes it happen anyway?  yes.  Depends on the commnad and whether or not they choose to be strict in enforcing the regulation and if they choose to prosecute those who disobey.
568940
It would be negligent on the parent's part to not find out what they are planning on at this party. So, yes, definitely. They your parent's can decide if it is something that they are going to allow you to be a part of.
503506
Why not throw your own bday party you cant always rely on someone doing it for you also its not just about presents its about getting all your friends together in 1 place at 1 time friends who make negative comments like you described arent really friends and would be invited. That would teach them theyll miss out not you.
812230
It's not supposed to be about bringing the right gift, originally they brought live turkeys for goodness sake! If you can make a desert or something traditionally english take that! If not stick with the wine and tell them about asking what to bring on the internet, it's the thought that counts after all and you'll have a conversation starter!
301704
If it is against the dress code at work, I don't recommend it, but if there is nothing in the dress code saying that  you cannot wear a short advertising alcoholic beverages or t shirts then that should be up to you
40259
This is her special day, and she wants you to be a part of it. The Hostess is a big role! There could be a number of reasons why you were not asked to be a part of the wedding party (Bridesmaid/maid-of-honor). It is only right for family to be chosen BEFORE friends. Some brides go against that, but truly, that is the proper way to handle choosing your wedding party. Don't take offense.\n\nYou should not confront her. If you are that upset about not being chosen to be in the wedding party, you can always decline being her hostess and just go as a regular guest. No matter what, the fact that she thought of you to have a role in the wedding shows she thought of you. Nothing starts up comotion like having to choose your wedding party. Your friend needs your support, ESPECIALLY DURING THIS CRAZY AND HECTIC TIME!
330258
It's not weird, but if you're not gonna have a party for your guests, don't expect gifts from them.
990221
Depending on the occasion and your relationship with the executive, you might want to keep it less personal, to avoid causing any uncomfortable feelings on her part.  A fruit basket, or some sort of generic (but tasteful) gift basket would be good if you want to make a gift but you're not well acquainted.  If you are on a more friendly basis, you have more options.  Here are a few links to give you some ideas, ranging from "most appropriate" to "least appropriate."  Use your best judgement and err on the side of professionalism if you're in doubt :)
273622
it depends on how many people are coming! if its a small group, then they will most likely expect you to open them. if there are 30+ people, they might cut you some slack.\nI went to a bridal shower where the bride didnt open her gifts, and nobody really cared. she wrote thank you notes expressing her excitement, so it was fine.\nHave lots of games to keep people busy (or suggest that to the hosts) and by the time they are done, everyone will be ready to go home rather than watch you open presents.
942233
Yes always bring a gift! That is the correct way.\n\nI always brought a food item to leave behind and a small gift.\n\nI often purchased several pretty "larger" fancy chrismas ornaments and put them in  "prewrapped in boxes" so if I needed a spare gift for the holidays there it is.  Put a note inside, wishing them happy holidays from the "blank" family.\n\nIf they are Jewish or do not celebrate Christmas, its a holiday party, then just bring food and a bottle of white wine,  That's safe!\n\nAlways be the "giver" and be prepared to have a wonderful time.!\n\nWe always had "canned food drives" at my Christmas Parties, so that we can give to others besides outselves.  I encourages them to bring their favorite food to share with us.
730547
I wouldn't worry about it.  You got a thank you from the person you sent the gift to, so that seems fine to me.  I wouldn't expect a thank you from every single person in the office.  It would have been nice, but not necessary.  You weren't out of line.
1187090
From an etiquette point of view, it is not allowed to ask for anything other than the presence of the invitee. If you can't afford the party, you should downsize it, maybe just rent a waterslide.\n\nYou can, of course, go through the guests' pockets which they will conveniently leave somewhere, but as Nixon once said, that would be wrong.
794275
Wine is always a good choice, but check with your co-worker to see if they usually drink wine at thanksgiving (oh, and as everyone has said, if you bring wine, bring a white to go with the turkey, I recommend Brander Sav Blanc if you live in Cali).  If not, you might want to bring some biscotti's or chocolates for after dinner.  Bringing a pie is ok, but if they aren't planning on you bringing a pie, that might leave them with too many leftovers.\nOh, and you might want to check on dress code.  If they all wear sweatshirts and jeans, you don't really want to show up in a suit.  A dress shirt and slacks is usually a safe way to go though.\nHappy Turkey Day!
690490
I wouldn't think it necessary as far as regular rules of etiquette go, since it was an indirect act (it wasn't donated in the name of your sister-in-law). I would definitely thank her, and possibly giver her a token or gift of appreciation, and tell her how much it meant to you.