guy trouble! was he desperate? did he even like me?
914085
Throw a brick with your name on it through the front window of his house, then you will know !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1061715
He sounds very confused and juvenile. This actually takes me back to the days of 5th grade....Maybe he thinks that you're attractive but doesn't value you as a person. Maybe he's trying to "tease" you but is coming off as mean. Guys can be stupid when they try to show a girl that they like her. Don't waste your time worrying about him -- he's not worth the brain cells.
395124
he probably just needed somebody to talk to, don't neglect or ignore him now he's feeling so low...i suppose it wouldn't hurt to get to know the guy!  find out whats up with him, and tell him if he ever needs to talk that you're there for him!\n\nHe needs a friend, be strong and stick by him u neva know u might like him in the end!\n\nGL hun\nx
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.
815193
You might have missed an opportunity.  It sounds like you asked him on a specific date, which was bad timing for him.  You should've mentioned that you could get with him another time when he wasn't busy.  Try asking him again.
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
448676
he heard you liked him.So he sent you signals to see if it was true.So your now labeled as "this chick that likes me".just act like you lost interest and when he resends the signals to see if you still like him then ask him what hes doing.Like dude whats up you sendin me signals you want to get with me or what?then if he says yes or no its not a rejection just a question about  what HES doing
277599
He is not interested in you. Probably, he is just having a good time just flirting with you. He is not serious. And since he replied in negative when you asked him out, he is not keen on you. It would be wise to forget him and move on.
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
521746
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
1174529
Hi,\nWell this guy you have mentioned is so totally into you he is just to shy to make a move on you so slowly try to interact with him and ask his friends  what his likes and dislikes are and if he is in any clubs or groups just don't act so desperate when you ask  his friends and him, he will warm up to you pretty soon.\n\n                                                         Hope he loves you to death, \n                                                                  ken
950130
It's always worth a shot... Try to flirt some more back, show him you're available... If nothing happens after awhile and feelings are still strong, just ask him out!
838525
what is the question here? you liked him, you had your friend ask him out, he said no. Seems pretty open and shut. Move on
909116
that could mean a million different things. i really liked this guy and he was so shy he wouldn't even talk to me. everytime i said something to him he would say a one word answer and then turn away, and he never looked at me. well, i never gave up, or took it as rejection - without annoying him - i jsut continued to talk to him every day, and finally about 3 weeks later he asked me out :]  shy guys rock :]\n\nso basically - since you dont know what it means, dont jump to conclusions. dont assume he likes you incase he doesnt.. but dont give up, keep being nice to him, and talking to him, maybe he'll finally come out of his shell
650005
i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!
833793
why dont you try calling him? or when you do see him, take him aside and ask him whats up? he just may be too nervous to ask you out again and maybe thats whats holding him back..maybe you should be the one to ask him out...sometimes guys need a little pushing...or worse case, he likes you but not in a date kind of way..you need to be the forward one, take control of the situation,..good luck..
137322
Not necessarily.  He probably got scared off.  May be he is interested but perhaps you sounded pretty serious for your relationship.  Give him a little time, but don't close all the doors.  Meet new people (just friends) you don't know what might happend nex