help with etiquette when greeted by a man?
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Yes, you want to stand. Standing will give the appearance that you are confident person,look them in the eye and have something warm to say to them while shaking their hand. Don't say the usual greeting others in your department have already said, say something unique.  When you stand your appearance is eye to eye. In a power position you don't want others to look down on you, and they will if you are sitting. Remember to shake hands firmly. Practice with your husband. A wimpy handshake can also leave your reputation as being soft.\nThese are opportunities for your boss to notice you. You would be a fool not to take advantage of them. Don't worry about the mistakes you have made, there will be many more opportunities for you to shine!
21469
I always hate it when a guy walks up and gives a pick-up line, whether it's cute or not. Just try to be natural. The guy who approached me in a bar that I will remember forever gave me a simple, "I saw you and wanted to come over and say hi." and then preceeded to ask me questions about myself. It was flatering that he wanted to talk to me, but he didn't try to hard or wasn't cheesy.\n\nBerbbb: Actually, the reason that I will remember the instances so well is because that guy is actually the father of my child:) We did date for about 2 years.
481758
If you want to let him know you're single, TELL HIM!  this doesn't have to be direct, but there's nothing wrong with approaching him, amd introducing yourself.  The status quo says that men are supposed to make the first move, but the status quo does not assure you that you are going to get a date.  Break tradition and YOU make the first move.  Just by introducing yourself and being cordial, most guys will pick up on the fact that you are available and ready to mingle.  Chances are, he may want to initiate a conversation or date with you, but he may fear that he will be rejected due to the fact that you could be in a relationship.  Trust me, be cordial, friendly, whatever you want to call it.  Chances are, it will pay off in your favor!!!!!!
877397
I think you should be his friend.  Which means saying hello when you see him and smiling and, if you want, asking him to sit next to you.\n\nand if he doesn't respond in a similar fashion, then try not to take it personally, yet continue to be friendly.\n\nDon't get bogged down by the details.
56436
You guys are unbelievable. I can't believe you all are answering questions in the Etiquette area.\n\nSometimes, you just have to put up with listening to stuff you don't want to hear.  Politely excuse yourself, period.  Tell them you have to go.\n\nBeing rude will net you nothing but another enemy. There's no reason for that - you never know when the person you're talking to now will appear again in your life -- maybe a boss, a co-worker, or a friend's friend, or worse, a waitress or waiter who has the ability and opportunity to spit in your food.  It's always a good idea to be polite to everyone, and it's just the right thing to do.
907257
Safety is the most important. Don't let him pick you up, meet him somewhere in public. Don't let him see where you live or give out personal info like addresses. Other than that, be yourself!
562000
You are going to have to say hello to him and be yourself.  If you want to get together with him you will have to make a move.  You cannot fault your friend for being bold enough to talk to him.
425486
Walk up to them, introduce yourself, and start a conversation.  Be a nice person.\n\nOptional:  Dress up nicely.
268399
Just be friendly and honest. Also, I like to be spontaneous, like I never saw it coming, in other words, surprise him  Good Luck!!!
793471
You can always give a friendly hello and smile. That should tell them something. If they're shy, think of a non threatening question and start up a conversation. No one ever said who should start the talking. At least not nowadays.
717073
As a person who was raised by a single mother I can tell you that showing respect in turn; leading by example is one of the best ways.  My mother always said thank you, please this, please that, and I picked up on it.  Then she moved to other things; how to treat a lady, open doors, carry heavy objects, walking on the outside of the sidewalk etc.  So the short answer; Love him and show him respect and he will eventually follow suit!
299464
Explain to your mother that your boyfriend is older, be honest, at least this way she is prepared, set up the meeting on neutral ground,introductions can be tricky , also you might want to give your man a heads up as in tell him to dress nicely, and to put on his best manners as well.Good Luck
654128
Sometimes I have trouble like you...what I do is I go up to the guy I say Hello to them.Then ask what have you been up to.Ask a couple of questions to get to know him.Then start a conversation with him...but nothin really dumb.Sorry to say.
1158540
I say hello to strangers when I make contact also, just a friendly Hello too, nothing to extravagant.  Usually I get a rude grin (usually made by a woman thinking she's better than everyone), rolling eyes or a look like "What the heck are you saying Hi to me for?" People have lost all manners. And also, I was in the store the other day pushing a cart, said "Excuse Me" to this lady and she just looked at me! It was like she didn't speak English or something, I don't know but people are rude nowadays.
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get a prop of some sort - ribbons in your hair, colorful hat or clothing. Maybe just walking around with a big smile to show that your a happy and approachable person - work the room by greeting everyone with your name and a please to meet you line - then as you mingle, remember the guy you fancy and always acknowledge him by name during the evening.
814593
baby girl, all you have to do is say "hi, how's going" when you pass by him. trust me, he'll notice you.
185443
from a woman of color.\n\ndont think of us and yourself and others as a color when talking to someone. simply say hello.\n\ni find it easier for me to start off by saying a wisecracking joke that is not offensive to anyone around me. but for others a simple hello is fine.