Men problems please help!!!?
922706
It sounds like you need to make the decision for him and break it off.  If he is still talking with his ex, then he is not over her and will not be able to fully commit to you or anyone else until he is.  It sounds like he needs to be taking care of his issues with his ex and not getting involved with anyone else until he has that figured out.  You sound more like his safety net than anything and if she was to call him back and tell him to come back to her, you would be dumped and he would be gone.
618157
Keep reassuring him, smack him on the ass every now and then, tell him how great he looks in that shirt-load him up with kisses......men are such babies at times, how ever it is not out of the ordinary for men to want the affection, like us women do!!  Think about it, how great do you feel when your man comes home from work and says 'hey baby you look great today'...well it is the same for them, just make sure it isn't in front of his friends, then it might not be so much fun for him!!! Good Luck!! :)
670042
i would ask my man nicely to ask this female friend not to contact him. this is not normal. by staying silent u re provoking him cheating. this woman definitely wants a piece of your man
1124795
he shouldnt be like that...ask him about it and hes still like that forget about him its not worth it...find another guy =)
661677
It may not be a problem with you, but more of a problem with the guys that you are dating. They probably aren't satisfying your needs for reassurance on these type of issues. In the future, look for guys that will provide these things and see if there is a difference.
594023
She sounds like a B*tch...  women should respect their men!  You need to talk to her!  Good luck!
260389
relationships began with head games and cons will end with head games and cons. Get over it and move on with honesty. You want your man to trust you right?
749198
It's not an uncommon problem but it would be best to seek  professional help. Check with your doctor or there are  men's health centres that specialise in these areas.
1058900
Sounds like he's trying to let you know what's going on...you're not listening.  If he's in good health overall (not overweight, smoker, etc) then it could be due to him holding out for you, preoccupied, stress, etc.  There are a lot of reasons why men lose an erection.  A lot of the time my b/f holds out for me and then when I'm good..he's good with that.  He's held out so long, it goes away.  He's usually ready to go again in 10 mins, though.  The fact that you cheated on him really doesn't help.  He may be picturing you doing some of the things you do with him, with someone else.  He's going to be questioning every new thing you do in bed.  "New tricks?  New man?"  It's all about communication.  Let him know you're concerned and really LISTEN to his responses.  You two will work it out if it's meant to be.  He needs to truly forgive you for your mistake and move on if he wants to make it work...you'll need to bring his trust level back up.  Hope I helped...
459753
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
511549
Avoid places where they go.  Find another man....Your the woman-- you have what guys are after, remember that.  Just be careful.
539421
Spare yourself the emotional heartache and pray about it.  Have no contact with him for a while.  Men come with issues, its always gonna be something, deal with it now or forever hold your peace.  If you really care about him then yall problems won't seem so big at all.
626481
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.
87382
Knowing the problem is 70% of the solution.  STOP BEING NEEDY!  Like yourself and depend on yourself so that you don't need to "need" a man....then you'll ENJOY a man's company.  They stick around longer if you do this!
730754
relax. your ebing too needy. take it for whats its worth, men are in general much nicer then women and won't  break up with a girl they like if they think she's wierd. only women do dumb stuff liek that
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
951590
Weeeeeeelllll, if YOU think/feel it to be a problem, then go seek counseling.\n\nmb