i need help im trying to get over a man that dosent want me anyway?
917236
even though we say that he is no good for us..we still continue to miss and love that person..and that is the right way to heal..admit that you do or did love that person..next just reassure yourself that you WILL be fine..if you need to cry.. cry..let it out...I wish I could tell you move on..but the truth is that the sh*t hurts like hell..you heart is hurting..part of you feel like you cant go on...\nit took me 2 years to get over a guy that i feel in love with..I remember those sleepless nights..all to well..I loved that guy soo much and it hurt me to know that he could sleep with me and act like he wanted me ..but thats all he wanted was to sleep with me...and to be honest from time to time I still think about him....but today i am glad that we are not together...he is who he is and he likes what he likes...I have moved on but honestly if I see him today..i know that apart of me will melt..sometimes in life we have that one guy that just does this sh*t to us....treat us like sh*t..uses us only for sex..cheats.. lie..and all in all we still fall in love with them and they make us weak in the knees....he is one that we surrender to..\ngive it time...just accept all the emotions you are going through.\npray...good luck
523020
You are obviously not over him if you still get those "flash backs". You have to learn how to let go. If you have to, keep your distance and avoid him.
89435
i did the same thing, just give it sometime for him to think about what he no longer has (you) and he'll come through. Sometimes, when you dont stress about a situation what ever you want to happen, happens so relax and you might get your man back.
49022
Let him go if he's not interested you can't do a lot about it.  Find someone who cares about you
221149
I you dont want to be unhappy in your life ,forget him .Its might seem difficult but believe me its for your own good
1096246
I would move on....he apparnetly doesnt care about you sence he left. I wouldnt waste time thinking about it. Do you think he is thinking about you?? I know its sad situation and I feel for you I really do, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to not think about him anymore. Go out and do stuff.
1176020
try getting a new man who might care about u more.
345723
You are not married to this man and I do not think you ever will be. Concentrate on you make something of yourself and then you will attract so many guys you can choose who to be with.  this guy does not love you so move on
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
681169
Get over him. Don't even let him know you care 'cause some men simply don't appreciate positive emotional honesty. My bet is once you start giving him the cold shoulder he'll eventually start coming around once more. If he isn't showing much interest, don't go mourning over it. Cry your tears, dry them and move on. It's better that way.
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
206506
Stop playing f***ing mind games . . . \n\nYou told him you needed space . . . he took it as "space away from him" because you are not interested in him.\n\nIf you want him . . . go over and talk to his a**.  If not leave him alone . . . because the only way he will come back to you is if you go to him first . . . unless he is a p***y (And it sound like he is not).
223538
you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
501125
Love is hard, but the best to do for yourself is forget about him, and move on. This is easier said than done, but take up some hobbies and go out with your friends. You cannot allow a guy to rule over you. So stop scheeming on how to get him back. The only person you need to get, is the confident and sassy YOU.
403659
The best way to get over a guy is probably by hanging out with your other friends.  Staying busy and have few friendly dates with other guys ( no strings attached ).  If you are pregnant well, that can be a different story.  Think about it. If this guy is going to do you wrong while kind of dating and lying to you. Do you think he will be good for you or to your child?  Think of it this way.If he can lie to you and possibly even cheat on you then you really don't need him.  You deserve someone better. Life is too short to be stumped over someone who doesn't love you the way you love him.
706453
Wipe your eyes and move on.He has done you a favour if he behaves like that.you will find someone who wants you for yourself take your time there is no hurry and everyone is wanted by someone have patience.
347127
I am going to empower you, girl, for this Life is far too short to attempt to spend it...as you appear to be trying to. Lesson One: STOP believing that YOU can read anyone else's mind, let alone a man's! STOP injecting YOUR feelings/voice into the space where someone else's feelings/voice should resound. And for the love of God, please STOP yourself whenever you find yourself even THINKING: "Yeah...I KNOW ______ (fill in space with a name) is behaving in this fashion BUT..." The reason why is this: Unless your last name is "Christ" you are most likely under-qualified to accurately 'read' other people's (true) feelings/emotions/thoughts, etc, etc. You can GUESS, but you will NOT always be correct. OK, if someone's real-world/real-time actions DO support a particular notion of yours, you CAN make an educated guess. But, for the sake of your not spending your life spinning your wheels and waiting for guys to act the way YOU 'know' they REALLY feel...please DO consider discerning/judging people (ESPECIALLY MEN!!!) by what they actually DO and NOT by what they say. Try to respect people enough to believe that they actually KNOW what they are saying/doing, even if it is not what YOU prefer them to say/do. Anything less makes YOU the 'bad guy', as in: controlling, manipulative...Bottom Line? If your man really loves you, he will find his own way back to you. And YOU should require nothin' less, because if HE left, he should EARN   you all over again. He will not respect you, otherwise, and you may have a lifetime filled with him goingcominggoingcoming...! A good woman IS worth her weight in diamonds. Has he presented you with something, somethought, someindication, which demonstrates to you HIS understanding of YOUR (positive) worth, yet? If not, why are you even wasting time TRYING to understand HIM?!? My dear, YOU are worth more than YOU (appear to) know. So...here's MY parting 'gift': If he IS an immature jerk, let 'im go. Alternately, (I promise) the minute you STOP! worrying about him and move on with your own life- and No, this doesn't necessarily mean YOU should go out and make an ass of yourself with other guys/men/boys, either- he WILL take notice (meaning: miss the dedicated attention his fabulosity assured him of receiving from you) and come running with his 'feelings' in full display for you to (mis)interpret...again. Oh! And if you are an attractive/sexy/cute/desirable/viable female...the latter will happen sooner than you can blink. Have faith. In you.