How do i get back BADLY at my ex?
924744
Stop the drama.  Walk away.  Choose to be healthy and not feed this disfunction another day.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
826828
FIRST you need to STOP going back to him because he is only using you and you are allowing him to do so.  You dont have enough self esteem within yourself to not go back.  If you ever want to get ober the guy STOP GETTING BACK WITH HIM!  There is no reason you should even be in contact with him, he is a loser and if you continue to see him ...you will be one as well.
626372
Honey, I know what you're saying. My ex does the same to me. One day, he's the best thing you could ask for, the next he's unbearably mean. On a good day, I accept that we've had a good day. On the bad, I hope the next will be better. Don't call him for a few days and see the change in his attitude. He's gonna treat you like dirt as long as he knows you're waiting for him.
602550
get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
44991
Don't call him, don't answer his phone calls.  If you broke up with him, don't pay any attention to him going out with other ladies.  You will just get jealous and want him back for the wrong reasons.  If he broke up with you, that sux.  Don't let him play any mind games with you.  If he wants to get back together, tell him you have moved on and that he can't mess with you anymore.  Then move on and be done with it.  Don't watch any movies or listen to any songs that you shared.  That only makes it worse.  And don't hook up with him out of desparation or because ya'll don't have anything better to do.  Your life will be miserable for it, I promise.
1115494
You want to REALLY get back at them and be happy with yourself?.............. BE HAPPY!!!!!  It will kill them that they cant get to you!  And guess what, you WILL be the better for it.  If you try to get them back, especially at work, it will come back to haunt you!  Don't let them win!  They want you to be unhappy and miserable, don't play their game.  Good luck
533221
Just tell the new guy the truth.  That your sorry, but you and your ex expectantly got back together and that you hope he understands.  If he is a really nice guy he will wish you the best and everything will be cool.  These things happen sometimes.
656797
I think a rude answer, but why waste your energy trying to get back at someone?  Just ignore them and let it go, then you are the better person.
978872
sorry, but this all sounds extremely immature and blown out of proportion.  and hate is a very strong word and emotion.  \nwhat happened with your ex-girlfriend is between you and her!  it has nothing to do with the present girlfriend, but you've obviously dragged her into it anyway!  not smart at all!\nthe best way to deal with your ex is to totally ignore her.  she'll leave you alone when she see's she's not getting to you anymore.  she's just trying to get a reaction from you.  so don't give it to her.  and wanting your girlfriend to beat up your ex?  think about it, it doesn't get much more immature than this.  think for a minute, you're causing trouble and blowing things way out of proportion.  and there's always the chance that your girlfriend isn't as tough as you think she is!  what are you going to tell her if your ex beats her up?  will your girlfriend then beat you up because she got beat up?  see what I mean, nonsense!
925741
I'm sorry to hear you're in such pain.  Unfortunately, hurting comes with the territory; it will lessen over time.\n\nYou can do things to help yourself, though it might be hard:\n\n1.  You broke up for a reason, don't forget that.\n\n2.  He is now involved with someone else, and you may be crushed that he moved on so quickly.  Don't be; give yourself time...his moving on is no reflection on you.\n\n3.  Be honest with yourself about your real motivation for keeping in contact with him.  You've tried to talk to him...he does not want to talk to you.  Accept it and stop torturing yourself, your attempts to speak with you aren't getting you anywhere.\n\n4.  You may think it's wrong for him to respond the way he is, but look at it from his perspective:  You broke up; he's involved with someone else and you keep calling him.  You can let go, and it's annoying to him.  What reason would he have to talk to you other than to tell you to leave him alone?  What if the situation were reversed?\n\nNo, it isn't easy.  Having been there, I promise you you'll get over him in time.  You'll look back on this and wonder what all the hoopla was all about. In the meantime, stop calling him; it's not healthy and you're only hurting yourself.  It's not going to bring him back to you.\n\nTake care...
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
1103260
get over them!\n\nwhy would you want revenge? it is desperate and needy and you'll just lose face by doing it. why let him see how much he hurt you? keep your pride and move on!
741399
He didnt seem to treat you very well hun, you obviously had problems within the relationship, did you try telling him how you felt or did you just split up with him without discussing how he made you feel?\nIf you want him back then you need to talk to him but this time make sure that you tell him how you feel, take control a little.\nIf he only wants you back on the same terms as you had before then it's obvious that he is just using you hun.\nTry talking , but it does sound like he was using you a little.\nDont let him rule when you do things, be brave , ask for what you want when you want it, if he says no then cut your losses and find someone who truely appreciates you.\nGood luck, hope all works out ok for you.
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
1163744
If he broke up with you to explore his options and regrets his decision now that it's not working out in his favor, TOO BAD! Do not take him back. He was selfish enough to end what you had to start something new, who's to say he won't repeat these actions. If you go back to him, he'll know you're weak and will prey on that as long as you give into whatever conveniences him. Just love yourself more than that. He doesn't even deserve someone as nice as you, you can do better. Good luck in love and life!
850873
Give her a little time...try to win her back with little things that you know she likes....and hopefully you learned dont get stupid drunk around her_