If a guy u knew for three years asks u to the dance and u only see him as a friend and don't want to hurt him.
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if he's a friend he'll understand.Tell him you'll go but under the condition you guys go as friends.just say you don't want to complicate the friendship you share
977527
casually invite him to hang out with you.  doesn't matter if he says no, if you don't ask you will never really know if he likes you.
989014
Say yes but make sure he knows its just as friends because you dont want him to think you are gonna go out with him.. wat could it hurt... right!!!
601329
It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
540639
tell him you would rather have him as a friend   but your are not interested in a romantic relationship right now.
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You think your friend is going to leave you for the guy.\nb
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just make sure to fit it into a conversation that it's "just as friends", and "no, this doesn't mean we are going out".\n\njust be straight up, tell him how you feel.  it's not mean.  if he gets his feelings hurt, that's his own weakness, and don't let him make you feel any differently.\n\nif he freaks out, that's a good opportunity to call off going to the dance altogether.  "i thought you were okay, but now i see the real you".
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Tell him \n"I'm sorry I am not interested in dating you, but i would like to go out with you sometime just as friends."\nIf he doesn't want to be friends after that, then you know that he was only befriending you because he liked you.  That is not what makes a good friend.\n\nOUCH "LALA" that is the opposite of what she wants to do.  B**CHY much!?
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i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
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you should tell him and ask him if he want's to still be your friend. You can say "Hey you know I like you but it's just that I don't want to have a relationship with you. Maybe we can still be friends"
290606
It depends. he might not want to go out with you even though he may like you becuase he may thinks that it will ruin your friendship
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Well if youve known him for threee years theres a big possiblilty that he might want to be with you.Dont worry just go for it ....youll never know
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I say go for it. As ur long as ur not fooling urself that it's more then it is, I understand how it can be comforting to have someone to hang out with in a more than friendly way. as long as the guy is sensitive to ur situation and cares about u as a friend as well as a 'sensual' buddy, u can make the most of the situation!
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Ask them - if it is a true friend, they shouldn't be into the person you like..................
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Well l guess it's all up to you. If he really liked you , you would think he would of asked you out by now. Do you think that perhaps he thinks you just want to be friends with him. You have your work cut out for you then.I guess you will have to give him the nod and let him know you are keen on him. Depending on how long he has been single he may need some more time. Only you will know by the response you get whether he is keen on you or not. Good Luck  just speak to him.
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CAN'T BE JUST FRIENDS WITH A GUY.  YOU MIGHT CAN BUT THE FIRST CHANCE THE GUY GETS HE'LL JUMP YOUR BONES.
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Well I'm not a guy but I bet if you two have been really good friend for a long time, I'm sure he'll get over whatever his little "fit" is about. And if I was you I would just tell him the truth... that you are sorry and that you like him! And tell him you just didnt want to dance cuz you thought it might ruin your friendship, but tell him you want more than that now and just see what he says. Sometimes people can have really good relationships after being good friend for a long time so just talk to him about it and see what happens.... and if he is still ignoring you then tell him if you're going to be immature and not talk then you're not even worth my time! cuz that's true you deserve better than that for a friend or boyfriend =) Hope I helped! Good luck!