should i still hang out with my ex boy friends if he got caught with drugs.. sohuld i be associated with him?
922710
if you hang out with this loser he will not only end up flushing his own life down the toilet ...he will take you with him....dump the chump
181179
It sounds like your friends have a new leader.  Take your adopted child and find some new friends.  You can explain to your old friends that you won't be hanging around with them any more because of this guy and then move on.  If any of your old friends are able to see the truth, then they will follow you.  Some of them will follow later.  You need to look out for yourself though and move on.\n\nI stress that you need to find new friends because that new guy might start doing more things that could get him busted.  And when he goes down, everyone that is around him will be busted too.  You and your friends will be guilty by association.  Pick you friends very carefully.
894550
Can't lose what you never had to begin with.\n\nYou really should lay off the drugs and go back to school.  Wannabe thugs are worse than the real thing, and trust me you would get your A** beat bad if you ran into the real thing.
190121
There's no hard-and-fast rule.  The consensus seems to be that it's not a good idea because of the harm it may cause your ex and the awkwardness it may create in the new relationship.  However, if your ex is out of the picture, and it's unlikely you'll see him again, and his status as your ex doesn't pollute the current relationship, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't explore it.  If it's inevitable that he'll find out, and you've been with him for a long time, you should wait a while before pursuing his friend, and you also should consider letting him know your intentions.
277490
I wouldn't judge you for it, but I don't think I could personally do that to my friend, especially not a few weeks after they broke up.  But thats me and my friend, it depends on how your friend feels about it etc.  Don't beat yourself up over it though, perhaps talk to your friend about it.
172636
Okay, if something happens to your ex the cops will come looking for you.  So move on.... alot of guys out there that are better looking, nicer and will be the love of your life. Remember he's not worth the trouble and not worth jail.
53888
the one who got caught with drugs ED....something he helped my brother
1102406
You really have to talk to him about it  nicely!it's a really serious matter!even though I believe that if he really is on drugs you don't just suspect it you know it!
760759
Wow that is a rather awful situation to be in. \n\nAs a Youth worker/carer I feel so bad for you. I am constantly watching what I do, how I do it, and what I say to people. I mostly work with young people with disabilities.\n\nObviously you have  pleaded your innocence, to the police. Sadly they may not believe you. But you have a chance if your partner is known to them.\n\nSeek advice from a lawyer. As they will assist you along with the whole process. I would assume that as you have had no previous record, you may get a huge fine, and community service. But given the type of drug "you had in possession" and the Judges stance on drugs, can play a big part in the out come. So lawyer up. \n\nAs for your partner, give him the ultimatum fess up, or he is so dumped (hash, but if the drugs was really is his, and he is any sort of man, he'd fess real quick). If you stay with him, the next lot of drugs, he passes on to you, could see you in jail.\n\nAs for your studies, talk to the co-coordinator of Youth services, where your studying, and tell them straight up, what has happened, and ask them for their opinion, about your chances as a Youth worker, with a drug possession record against you.\n\nGood luck!
47308
maybe the question should be why dont they know you anymore? I watched my oldest brother steal cars, rob my mother, my aunt, uncle, steal his newborns diaper money and more for drugs. My other brother was clinicaly labeled a genius, and then he used drugs and got the bright idea to make his own acid. Now he lives on a "crazy check" and doesn't even have a GED. My father was an alcoholic, beat the wife, etc.\n\nin the end its truly up to you. I'm not going to tell you you're evil, but i will tell you this:\n\nThis Sh**  can F*** you up. Do you want to be that girl who offers to suck we eny for drugs? You might not think it can happen to you, but better than safe than sorry. Stop before you have to deal with withdrawals. before you hurt someone that you dont want to
449837
option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
391888
do u really know him that well bcuz if ur friends then u could get a couple of ur friends and his friends and get together at someones house \n\na little bonding with his friends never hurts:)who knows maybe you'll end up hooking up with one of his friends
981429
You already see him for who he is....regardless of wether or not you have somebody else. Just like a recovering alchoholic has to avoid alchohol at all costs, you need to avoid this person. He's just not good for your self esteem or emotional health. Treat him as the unhealthy addiction he is.
174431
You are making empty excuses for yourself. There is never a good reason to get into drugs when you have a family. You deserve no pity or even a second chance with a man who was mourning....K
1161004
I would'nt go see him. His behavior proves that he's not truly the man you see on the outside. People like this are good at putting on the mask that'll work to get them what they want out of you. I'm sad to have to say it, but it's the truth.  Especially if he's locked up, you'll become an outlet for his manipulative personality. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're wrestling with feelings for him. It'll only stroke his ego. Winning him back would only result in an unhealthy co-dependant relationshiip. This type of user psychology need to be desired and needed by others to floati it's ego. You'd likely convince yourself that you DO need him. And you don't honestly. Being happy with yourself is critical before one can be truly happy with another.
675332
well i kinda had the same problem... i always say keep ur friends close but keep ur ex's even closer... he shld know ur x is ur friend and that he shldnt control who u hang with or who u talk to.. tell him that ..
413942
Depends on if you're there with him or not.  I think that if you're not at that same school, you shouldn't worry too much about it.  You should learn to trust him.  However, if he's still associating with her even when you're not there and without your consent, then i think he's probably hiding something behind your back.  I know past relationships are hard to get over.  Occasionally i see my ex around town.  I don't trip over it.  I just give a simple "hi" or "how are you" kind of talk.  I think as long as he's not talking to her (about personal issues) then you shouldn't have to worry too much.  You have to learn to trust him.  YOu shouldn't accuse him of anything unless you have a really good reason as to why you don't trust him.  Next best thing is... Communication and trust .... it's the best. good luck. =)