What happen to our sex life?
930434
Well take this from a mother of 2 beautiful children that after you have a child you aren't in the mood for almost 4 months afterwards or maybe until the baby starts sleeping the whole night throuhg which takes awhile. U most definately have to be patient and understanding, as she may feel that you won't like her postpregnant body as it is sure not the same as it once was. She may feel very self conscience as alot of women are especially about stretch marks that they didn't have before, or the extra fat that being pregnant causes so she just rather not engage in that kind of activity for fear that you may be turned off once you see her in thta postion. Also I don't know wether she had a vaginal birth, or C-section but keep in mind that you are even suppose to engage in sexual activity for 4-6 wks vaginal and 4-8wks c-section it depends on her body.. Also as the woman's body changes when she is pregnant to accomodate that baby and nuture it inside her body, once she has it her body is in shock again and it has to re adjust to not being pregnant and all the chemical balances have to come back that she had prepregnancy.. However my dear if it continues to long, I would ask that she please see that doctor to make she that she hasn't acquired the post partum depression as that attacks alot of women and they don't even realize it and no sex drive is one of the results of it. GOOD LUCK.. and remember love and patience and understand are the 3 best keys to getting back to what you had sexually or bettering it!!!!
36867
It is hell on earth.\n\n1. You live with someone but never have sex\n\n2. You can't, can't, can't just simply walk out the door after a fight. \n\n3. Wives become nags, husbands become lazy slobs\n\n4. Both you and your spouse will end up putting on an extra 50 lbs, just because you can.\n\nIn other words, don't bother. You can still have the sex and the joy of a relationship without complicating your life.
1086573
When love is absent, Ann, then the relationship is over. Is there never any sharing? Has all meaningful conversation stopped? Has physical comfort ended? Is sex just functional? Has the smiling stopped? These are all signs.
689453
We both know what will happen if the two of you stop having sex.......most likely, he'll be gone. If that's what you want to do, then , by all means do it, but just be mentally prepared for the consequences. I applaud your decision myself! You seem very mature. Good Luck.
1187557
My fella and l aren't officially "a couple" any more, but only for the past few weeks, we're still having sex though.\nlt doesn't feel like a bad thing cos we only split cos of my weird family, we still see one another(well have sex) but it doesn't feel bad cos we both want it and we know we would still be together any way if not for my family.
1171890
ha ha, sex!  What else?
626027
After what? What would have made you not want to have sex now?
1148437
Remember to always keep some spice in the relationship. Don't get comfortable and fall into the routine of marriage. Try new and exciting sexual positions, as well as places. Surprise each other with small forget me nots and gifts. Most importantly, remind each other how lucky you are to have found a love that most people search their whole life for and never find. Congrats!
795225
There is no normal amount of sex per person or couples.  Everyone is different.   Sex is a very important part of marriage and those who think not are those that end in divorce or unhappy.   I have been married for 22 years and our sex life has increased if anything.   We cant keep our hands off each other.  We play head games and flirt all the time.  By the time we are alone we are all over each other.   As my wife says sex is 24 hours a day.  Phone calls, emails text messages and flirting  never stops.   \n\nStart flirting with your husband, Grab his butt when he goes by and just smile.  When you walk by him rub up against him slow and sexually.  Just smile.   Give him a kiss for no other reason than because you want to.   Say something about wanting him to yourself really bad.\n\nIf you want a sex life then you both need to live it.   Do your part and I am sure he will start doing the same.
1131921
it's probably very normal at the beginning of a relationship, but I think after a time you need to do other things.  Every relationship needs stimulation, you have to have things to talk about, outings and events, activites outside of the bedroom to build a foundation for a varied and interesting relationship because sooner or later the sex will become less and less and then what are you left with?
1184242
Ya. Too much of everything is bad and so is sex. So watch it out before your pleasure turns to be a havoc,
742916
Well, my husband and I have been married for 13 years.  We have two daughters.  It is tough sometimes, but we have pulled through.\n\nI went to a couple of Passion Parties and purchased some products....It is a blast!!  Then I became a consultant.\n\nAfter that many years, our sex life was in the toilet.  I didn't really think I would buy anything, I just wanted to get out of the house!  But, I loved the product and they were presented in a very respectful way.\n\nI became a consultant because after I got the product home, we had such a good time.  Becoming a consultant not only made our sex life incredible, but the money is fantastic!.....Sex and money~ the top two reasons marriages fail, saving them one bedroom at a time!!!\n\nMen need sex, we need romance, you have work together.  Foreplay does not start in the bedroom.  It starts as soon as we wake up. Communication is key, we have set aside one day a week for just the two of us.  It does not matter what we do, we are together by ourselves.\n\n\nGood luck!\nCandi
582628
It's common, but it doesn't have to be.  I've been with my husband for over 2 years and we aren't bored with sex, but we do sometimes just have "routine" sex, lol.  If you've been dating for over 2 years, you should know each other well enough to be able to try things you know you'd both like.  Maybe some new positions would help, or some role-playing.  Sometimes even just having sex somewhere besides your bedroom can shake things up a bit.
462969
It can be right after sex, to an indefinite amount of days. If it was great, chances are it's happen more often. If not, probably less often. \n\nBut it also depends on other factors too, like stress, self esteem, bad moods, kids, other priorities, that often get in the way and lower the sex drive.
244046
No its not!!! Because the bottom line that once you marry the sex life becomes less and less. It may not be right away that this happens but its true it does happen. When you are thinking of marriage you should make sure that this person is the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Marriage is about uniting as ONE!Its my opinion that communication would be the most important thing in a marriage up under have Jesus at the roots of the marriage! Sex does play a role in a marriage because  two people who are married feel the most connected when they are making love as the should but its not the most important thing. Marriage includes making decisions together, compassion, understanding, just letting the other one know that you are there for them no matter what, friendship.  So have fun with your SEX but remember marriage is more that just SEX if you marry for this reason then you are going to end up unhappy and wanting out! Truth of the matter, things change so will the sex life.Good Luck to you!
261458
1)Both of u take a break and go for a holiday somewhere exotic...the change in scene might do good.\n2)bring in an element of mystery in your sex-life...play sex games.\n3)get sexy lingery and initiate sex.
228439
Your husband is lucky for starters, but there are no normal amounts of sex. Sex is like a good marrage, First you have to be honest, open, try everything and you both have to work at it.Try diffrent things eg dress up, play games, ask him what he likes, give and take, but the most important thing is just to have fun.