why don't guys like me?
926859
nice....sweet...intelligent...and good looking?  sounds good to me..dont worry about wont be long before the guys come flocking......btw you do seem kinda full of yourself though....might want to work on it.....the whole "i have a LOT of friends" thing made you seem a little too into being popular....
520948
Girl, don't try to be something u are not, be yourself, if they like u, cool, if not don't worry about it. u will find a guy that will like u for u. DON'T EVER CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY FOR A GUY. I'm sure u are a smart pretty young lady and when that special guy come around, u will know because he will be interested in the real u and not the person u are trying to be to get along with the other guys.....good luck!
1177815
just be yourself...honestly...you can dress differently and all that crap...but if you see a guy you like just hit on him..because guys feel the same way about girls...every feeling you have alot of guys feel the exact same way...girls are confusing..I cant tell if she likes me...except guys have to buckle down and get some confidence or else they wont ever get anything...just be yourself...because you can dress differently and all that..but all that does is attract certain kinds of attention that you probably dont even want..and the guys...I know you definitely dont want.
388598
guys like girls who are smart, funny, and you enjoying talking to them. they never try to be some one that they're not and they always know the right thing to say. What guys don't like about girls is when they try to act like some one that they're not or if you know that they like you but they still try to hide it because most of the time it's common knowledge.
808002
every guy is different. i like girls that are smart and aggressive and talented. like i am. but most guys find that too intimidating. most guys find me intimidating so it's even more so when a girl is like that.\n\nbut every guy wants a girl that they can have fun with. they want a girl that is like them. guys pretty much just want a best friend that they can have sex with. and why not? you girls know that that's all you want too.
10137
Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you, so-be-it.  There will be other guys out there who will like you for you.  Those are the ones that are going to mean something.\n\nThe ones that like you for you are the ones that will carry you through.\n\nNo matter how hard you try, if someone doesn't like you, they don't like you.\n\nWhen they like you, they like you.\n\nREMEMBER!  What's meant to be will always find a way!\n\nGood Luck!
692434
That's a hard question to answer. It sounds to me that you've been involved with the wrong men. Don't accept 2nd best and you'll eventually find that there are decent, genuine warm hearted guys out there.\n\nAnd try not to generalise or Typecast, we're all different!
61875
hey i had the same problem when i was younger i just started to go to the gym and either ran or lifted weights but be careful don't over do it, it will come in time. And if there is a guy that you are trying to impress don't try to be something your not. if he doesn't like your body it's his fault he didn't get to know you first, do it for yourself not for the guy.\n\nsome guys like sporty but some don't. some don't like sporty girls because they don't want you to be better than them.
697394
All guys have different taste.  Being yourself is the most important thing.  Don't ever change.  You have to like who you are to be likeable.  I'm sure you are a wonderful person, and who wouldn't like that?  Always present yourself in the most honest way, and the right guy will notice you.  Don't be in a hurry.  Enjoy life.  If you are not dating right now, focus on God, your friends, and your hobbies.
544622
Be careful to not miss the signs. Perhaps a few of your guy friends do like you (most will at one point or another), have given you a few signals, and you have unknowingly shot them down. Open your mind, feel desirable, and smile. Good luck!
281149
i was the same way you are. i liked this guy and i wanted to ask him out. i was afraid to because i was afraid of being rejected.the thing is girls arnt the only ones afriad of rejection. guys are also afraid of rejection.for all you know it he could like you back but is afriad that you dont like him, so he is afraid that you will reject him.just go for it. ask him out, you two could actually end up together at the end.rejection is going to happen to you eventually wether its rejection from a job,college, etc. so why not get over the fear and ask him. you only live once so make the best of it and take chances.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
618699
Just be yourself, hon. Most people don't like it when someone tries to impress them, and that includes guys. You will be more appreciated and respected if you are simply yourself, whatever that is - funny, warm, smart, sincere. That goes a long way, believe me.
76696
Some guys are just so unsecure with themselfs that they put up a front. Some are shy etc etc etc etc. Then again some are just jerks that have to put on a show for their "friends" so they do not lose face. If a guy really wants you to be around, he'll do just that no matter what his "friends" think or do.
663377
He's probably just not who/what he says he is. Or he has really low self esteem and no real life friends, and therefore can't handle being rejected based on his appearance. It is entirely possible that he has romantic delusions about you and doesn't want to risk losing that.
977623
they probably r afraid of being rejected. guys r more insecure than u think. loosen them up and give them something back. Flirt back or give them signs that u wanna take it further. some dont have enough confidence and think they dont have a chance
591134
You can't make a guy like you. Don't worry one will come along eventually and will like you for the person  you are. I'm guessing you're young, and hate to break it to you but love doesn't happen early in life for everyone. Just be yourself, and enjoy being young for as long as you can.