HELP!!! middle school friend problems....?
917461
OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
981199
go to a school counselor or a teacher and tell them what is happening. They can take it from there. Your friend may get mad at you and never talk to you but will have you to thank for it later when she has a life. She can be doing a lot of damage or could kill herself from it. Be a true friend and seek help for her.
684125
Screw the kids at your school. I've had this happen before, it sucks, but the best thing to do is keep your head and laugh along with them, show them it doesn't bug you any. Sooner or later they'll realize they're immature and that it doesn't bug ya.
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
526532
There's actually a funny saying that all my teachers have hung up in their classrooms. It says "Everyday I give special attention to one person... today is not your day..... tomorrow doesn't look good either." You don't have to say that, but I thought that is pretty funny... but in all seriousness you should approach them and be like "Listen... you all are very close to me, but there isn't enough me to go around." Then if two of your friends get into a fight you simply say... "i'm sorry... but I am NOT taking sides." Sometimes... unfortunately... you have to take a stand with your friends like that. Good luck!!!
744423
Nobody is unsnarable!Try striking up a conversation and then crack some jokes and small talk.See how he reacts.If it seems positive keep it up.You don't need to do anything drastic since you are only in 6th grade.Aren't you?
101737
sweetheart the best way to deal with this is either move to another table or stand your ground since no teachers care you can start putting it back on the ones that do this to you, by throwing it back at them. another thing is there a guides counselor you can go and talk to about this? that may work because more or less this is bullin and most schools dont tolerate this act. i hope i helped you some hugs sweetie, best of luck sunshinelady_40940
174392
ignore him. typical stupid middle/high school drama. let the guys grow up a bit and things will start to make more sense.
78218
YOu should try and get both of your friends together to try and talk about the problem they have with each other like try being a peer mediator.  And if they refuse to do so then just simply tell them i friends with both of you i refuse to take either side and say you don't want to get involved
485400
If you truly value your friendship with her let her go. She is changing and she needs to grow. Unfortunately it may not be in the same direction you are going right now. This happens to a lot of friendships as we get older and mature. She needs to do this for herself right now. Eventually she may come back to being her old self and realize what a wonderful friend she has in you. I went through this myself and for about 5 years was out of touch with 2 of my best friends from school. We are now better friends than we were back in school. Don't take any of this personally, it isn't about you, it is about your friend needing to go in a different direction right now. This is also your time to find other friends too. Don't do or say anything that could jeopardize the friendship you had with her. You both need some space and hopefully in time you will be able to get back what you had before, and it will be even better.
874930
Don't mean to be rude but this isn't Friends Re-United. You could try there. Start a section on your school and see who turns up.
458299
since you are at school for all of this... and yes you arent going to like my answer but it is the truth... you should talk to a teacher or guidance counselor about the bullies... after that eventually if they do anything else to you, tell on them and they will have to stay away from you... if they have to stay away from you then you can walk right up to your friend...
987019
If this person is your friend, you should be able to tell him/her that enough is enough already, and to stop. \n\nIf he/she doesn't stop teasing....\n\nDo you know your friend's parents?  Let THEM know what's happening.\n\n"I always felt _____ and I were friends.  But when I started this special PE class because I've got health/physical problems, he/she started teasing me a lot, and I wish he/she'd stop."\n\nIf you don't think his/her parents will help, or you don't know them, say the same thing to your case manager or a school counselor. Hopefully, both you and your friend will get pulled in to a meeting together to deal with it.\n\nIf you don't think any of these things will help, then the person is NOT your friend.  Report them for bullying (that's what this sort of teasing really is).  This person is making the choice to bully, so he/she should have to deal with the consequences.
662274
grow up sweety you dnt need friends to go to school you find new friend leave both of them girl
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
909644
Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.