how can i help my  boyfriend and his ex bestfriend.....???
928483
Its double standards, he forgives you but not his best friend.  I wouldnt worry about it too much because he obviously doesnt think much of juan.  I would just tell him straight that he has double standards that it wasnt juan's fault, both of you kissed, nothing was forced so you are just as much to blame as juan is.  I think that is the only thing you can do, otherwise it is a friendship that wasnt meant to be and just accept it.
28047
tell him that he is a jerk! going out with someone to make your ex jelous is so pathetic! Breakup with him and tell Brandi what he did.
661561
I would say that you should talk to your ex about it and see what he has to say. Maybe he can talk to his his brother. If not then you should consider embarrassing the brother at least in-front of his Friends. But first you should talk to your ex.
480948
Get out and do things that won't remind you of the ex. Go with friends and have some fun and when you think of him or her think of the reason they are the ex...............
299799
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
1016569
What did his mother do to you? I mean, come on. What kind of friends ditch you after your guy's ex told them not to talk to you? Drop those 'friends' that you had. You are dating a guy who is single. She's his EX, remind her that. \n\nYou're not doing anything wrong. Your college mates are just babies, so ignore them and find some other mature friends to hang out with. \n\nAfter all, your bf and you love each other and you're not doing anything wrong - who cares what the others think? You're not dating your bf to make them happy. You seriously don't have to care about them. Better friends will come along.\n\nGood luck!
1072575
umm stay with ur man u guys just gota do somethign diff to spice things up... from my experience dont go after ur BFF's ex..my ex and i broke up and she went out with my best friend... they ended up breakin up and she tried to get back with me... now i dont like either of them.!! its just not right and could cause a bunch of problems like not ever talking to ur bff anymore and u said he is your friend then if u guys break up u might not be friends anymore.... so stick with ur man!!!
901404
you let him go for whatever reason that may be or you all split up, therefoer you dont really have a right to have a say on who he dates but you can tell your best friend how you feel. Even so if they love each other there isnt much you can do. Just let them go, if it was meant to be between the two of you it may not work out between the best friend and him and then you can ask him back.You  also should tell your  ex how you feel about him still.  But honestly you should move on because there will be many loves in your life. Dont get stuck on someone who doesnt share the same feelings for you as it can only lead to endless pain.\nSorry if that wasnt the answer you wanted but I honestly dont think theres anything else you could do without getting your heart broken or making one or both of them angry with you. Because if you try to split them up or sabatoge their relationship it will only cause them anger and resentment towards you.
919143
OK you can't lose this guy because of an ex-lover. Get a restraining order if that doesn't work file a harrassment charge. Stand up for yourself. The guy you love will appreciate it and the ex might get the point.
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
804729
He loves his girlfriend in different way he loves you. Don't be jealous. Be patient. Long after he'd broke up with her, he'll still be you best friend.
870268
There really isn't anything you can do. Only time can really help. Trust me. I know from experience. I have been hurt many times in the past and I've just recently began to open up to my current boyfriend after 5 months. There really isn't anything you can say to them either because honestly we've heard it all before. We heard the same thing from the exes and so when you say them, they don't really mean anything at first. So just give it some time and eventually people do start to come around and open up more. It just takes time.
421904
If he's admitted he still has feelings for his ex then if i were you i would leave him alone, he's using you to help him get over the brake down of his marriage!! you deserve better than that tell him how you feel and that what he's doing is wrong, people need time to get over stuff like that! walk away before you get really hurt! :)
934238
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
265251
I think you need to express to him, the importance of her not being in his life as a friend or any other aspect.  The two of you need your own life, without her input.  She's only going to be biased against you because of her situation previously.  You shouldn't talk about being jealous or anything like that, just appeal to him on a more inter personal, relationship aspect level and try to get him to understand and see how that relationship betweem him and her adds absolutely NO value to him or his life now!
947462
He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
62624
talk to him and let him to talk ... if he is your best friend he will trust you . iam sure he had a hard life , let him know that you are there for him to help\ngive him love and suport let him know that past is past and now he is safe\nGood Luck