Should I dump him before the holiday before he dumps me after? (experianced adults please)?
922851
Maybe his family likes you and he doesnt want them to know what he's been doing to you. thinking that if he acts the part then the negative attention from you will die down and he can get on with business as usual. What you need is to prove to yourself that he has cheated on you. then you have a choice breaking up before or after each has it's own merrits. do it before and I think it might make you look heartless unless you can show good evidence. wait and do it after to look like you are kind and caring but as long before christmas as possible so that you give yourself some time to get back on your feet so to speak before the next holiday. good luck
73972
just ask if  if he dosnt dump him
461140
I'd let him go...if he's not into you, is it worth it to debase yourself or do something you don't necessarily want to do to get back together?
986806
hell yes  dump him, and i'd do in front of everyone ...lol  he's a LOSER
348633
girl dump him there will be other ones. If you are worried that is a reason to dump him. Just be patient, or make him jelous.
381110
Looking at this and your other questions I would say dump him and find someone who appreciates you. I'm sure you'll find many takers
1086778
talk 2 him about it before makimg any wrash decissions,,that is , of course, if you care about him!  good luck!
704173
dump him. I wouldnt really waste time on a guy that is doing stuff behind my back.
229311
your going out with a guy thats getting divorced? I would wanna take a break while thats happening also. there is no easy way to tell him especailly in his time of need. just be straight up.
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
777541
A baby is going to change your whooollleee life. You can't go on holidays anymore like you used to, can't decide to go on a date on a boring Saturday night and it's just too much to mention. Ask the people who are calling you stupid to go produce their own and quit bugging you. It's easy to sit on a pedestal and judge others. Not ready, not willing..whatever it is, no hurry! And he won't be waiting for you...you'll both be living your lives and loving each other still.
159086
I think you should have some self-respect and dump him, because he's clearly treating you poorly and taking you for granted.  You're better off solo than with someone who isn't treating you the way you deserve to be.
301568
Dont go.It makes it worse. If you dont want to be with him end it.If you go on holiday and you end up falling out its much worse as your alone in a foreign country
614761
I would get to know him better before start off a relationship with him. Just take a slow from apoint of view cause I was in that situation with men who I dated way back. I learn my lesson few of them liked me and few of them I didn't like and did dump them. Just be smart and be more thinking about what do want to do with him in life.
232973
Dump him and go with me.\n=P hahaha\nWhy not try to have a couple date with him and see what happen next?
559775
hello first of all you need to stop dating these Babbie's "momma 's  boy" u did the right thing by kicking him out cause u need some one to lift u up not but u down a man suppose to carry 50%of the relationship and the 50%it left you don't take him back unless he show u that he can keep a job and keep for more than 6weeks and if he do so then he showing u that he is trying to be more responsible good luck.
635936
heya, duts great! go out again with him but this time you he's gonna be in for a suprise... TAKE MY ADVICE: DONT GET MAD, DONT GET SAD.. BREAK HIS HEART TOO! unleash your fear!