Girls, would you choose a man who loves u more than u do him, or choose a man who u love more than he does u?
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In real life I chose a man who loves me more than I love him, and the relationship is working out fine.  He has treated me better than any man I ever loved.
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Sarah, since you are a girl, I think to marry someone who truly loves you if certainly better than one who loves you too but not truly. Since he loves you truly, he may be more sincere and faithful to you and even if you dont love him enough now,  due to his love and sincereity, your love for him will grow eventually. Best of luck to you, do make a wise decision because marriage is a life-long committment.
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both r painful. but u can find a relief if u really get 2 love the man who loves u. cause it's just nasty 2 wait 4 a man who may never even know u love him in the first place.
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neither - i would find someone that i loved and who loved me.\neasy really.
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I prefer both!!! Love first and then respect... They are both important to me.... My husband loves me very much and treats me with respect and i do the same for him... This is the way it is supposed to be in marriage!
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You're half way there! Good for you to realize this now!!  Strength and self-esteem will  sky-rocket!! Then, when you're ready..you'll chose a much better man.
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I have my perfect man in my head...havent found him yet though.  The man I want is strong, not only physically but mentally, emotionally, and his respect and value for me are strong.  He's black, dresses really good....has a hustlin mentality with a businessy side to him.  Treats me real good but not too clingy.  Knows exacly what he want outta life and always has his money on his mind.....THat's what I want in a man.
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Love is a choice.  Feelings are not something to base anything permanent on.  Love means you want what is best for someone.  You can see yourself living with them forever.  They are someone that you see a heart in that is willing to work on things.  You see their issues, and can love them anyway , even if they never change.  \n\nFor me, I am looking for a man that is not perfect, but has a heart that is willing to see his imperfections and work through them.  I want a man who has a career and calling that I can complement.  Our gifts and talents and callings should mesh and complete one another.  When I find that man, that is who I will love.
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This is a question that only you can answer. You have to choose, don't lead them both on. You need to choose with one you like more and stay with him. Maybe you should take some time to think about who that is, listen to your heart.
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Interesting question. I would pick...the boyfriend because he'd always be there for me no matter what, and it's really hard to find your dream boyfriend. Money wouldn't matter as long as he makes me happy.
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You can not make a man love you. If you could would you really want to have the power to say love me more and he does. How would that benefit your emotional needs, because you would never know the degree to which he loves you. Everyone progresses differently. Are you sure you love him more, or are you being dominating and he cannot express himself.
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why not better your man wants you rather than someone else i love makin love wit my honey...
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Neither, I prefer a man who will be faithful and honest, and who treats me right. Anyone who can pick one or the other of what you asked, is high maintnanced!!
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You want more out of this relationship than he does and he's already getting from you want he wants. Do you understand?
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You can love both. There is no 'more or less' in true love. Either you love or you don't. There are no yardsticks to measure true love. Moreover true love is not exclusive. You can love one and many simultaneously.
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stay with the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Maybe he is saying that he loves you to win you over, but who knows. It is up to you. What feels right? Who treats you better? Who do you LOVE?
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yes coz u love that person, u prefer the best for her or him, more than ur own happyness