Should someone who lost their brother  in the war repay bonus money after separating from the military?
916911
I dont think he should have to repay it.  I lost my twin brother in Iraq in July.  I didnt know you could get out of military because of it though.  I thought you could only do it in peace time?  I know this is supposed to be an answer and not a question but if you know more could you email me.  Im not in Iraq but I am serving in Korea.  I dont know if I want out but sometimes I feel like I should but would like to know how if I decide to.
1054278
if you are strong enough to relive the  worst moments of your life again,then i say you should sue for compensation.\nmoney wont change  what those evil  bastards put you through.....but if you can get something out of  the crap you have been through other than  anger and  bitterness,then why not. hope  it all goes  your way. u deserve it, your family deserve it.
227822
This isn't a psychic question and answer forum, but perhaps a person with psychic abilities will notice your question and give you an answer.\n\nIf you are specified in his will as the sole inheritor, it sounds as if you will be. He must have cared a great deal for you to leave his sister and his nephew out of his will. That alone should give you a tremendous peace and comfort, as I'm sure you are grieving over his death and your loss.
975355
no, I think ushud give them money, coz they might need this money and could solve their major probs. they must be looking fwd. to get this bonus in the form of money,
650402
Be careful what you wish for. You might get it.  My little brother was killed in Iraq, and trust me, I would give just about anything to have him back--even for just a few minutes.  Be happy you have her.  As much as it may suck sometimes, the alternative is much worse.
74369
Okay check out the DFAS website below.  Check the pay chart, then check the BAH rates for where you are home stationed (not where you are deployed).  You won't receive BAS since you're deployed.  You will receive family separation pay ($100-150 a month) and hazard duty pay ($?).  Sorry I couldn't be more helpful.  DFAS changed there website again so I'm not sure where the special pay is located on their website.  It used to be so easy to find.
733351
the only moves the military pays for are  pcs  permanent change  of  station. and they will move you back to your hometown after   you finish your time. they dont pay when you decide to leave the service member. thats on you to foot the bill not them. the service member isnt moving so they dont care
215892
Well if you "gave" it to him he now belongs to him, because it is considered gift. If you directed told him as soon as you break-up it yours, it should be yours. I think it belongs to you since you bought it in your name. If you two aren't able to agree, you should take it to court. Hope you get your rifle back!
341150
Dont get into it then.  Dont give them her number if he was not married to her when he got the loan.  Just say hey I havent spoken to my brother in five years so when you find him say hi for me.  Thats all.
448685
I think it depends where they are being buried and how they died,  Also i think that is what life insurance is for if they are still in the military there life insurance will cover it.
669951
Possibly .. I mean, here we have a solider who is going into a battle front and he may/may not be wounded, shot down, captured, all of the above, I personally want to thank him for defending our freedom's but as you can see this might have a "unfortunate" outcome. It is nice that you found someone that admires you and you him, just keep in mind of the possibilities that await you and all of the other families that have loved ones in Iraq right now. I don't want to tell you this is wrong or try to "throw salt" on the game in any way. BY ALL MEANS keep in touch with him he will need the correspondence, and if you "solider boy" make it back home, take some time to thank him properly.
872848
Ok you need to contact the VFW in your area it should be in the telephone book. Talk to them they will be able to advise you on where to go for help with the benefits. You should take him to your local Department Human Services to get food stamps and they may be able to supplement  some of his income for certain bills only. Look on his heart medication bottle and call the pharmacy ask them if the maker of that drug has a program that could help your uncle. If not they can lead the way to a program.
844644
I know firsthand that every base in afganistan has a computer which troops are allowed to use on a schedule basis. If you have no money and have crappy credit, I would assume that the last thing you need is more debt. You boyfriend will be able to keep in touch with home through his home base's computer AND letters, so save the $400-500 and don't take out a loan at all....
93888
I work with the State department of veterans services and  the veteran can get the loan all by himself with or without a wife. Also, the veterans with the brother can do the same thing. The loan is actually given to the veterans and it is his name that will appear on the title but he can 'move in' whoever he pleases.
369583
I have done the same thing at one time....I contacted the branch of military and told them when he was there and his social security number and any other information they have....I actually got sent copies of enlistment papers and discharge papers....Hope this helps
1113296
Yep!  My sister had it done to her ex.  He never paid for their now 13 year old son.  They took back support, current support out of his disability checks, and also gave her his entire income tax refund for the year.
948011
no they will cut the benefit,so you repay the outstanding balance back - i.e 5 pound a week etc.