Beaten with whips and chains, advice please!!?
926720
GREAT STORY !! You know the best part?......................\n\nMore than half of these re7ards believe you !!! LOL, jokes on them !!! That was good though, very funny !!
566205
Don't live in fear!! but don't be a snitch either that will only makes your enemies more angry and they will definitely want a piece of you then.  I suggest you just be smart and dont put yourself in a position where you are vulnerable to getting jumped.  Dont hang around where they might catch you alone.  Always have a friend or peer/teacher around.  I know it easier said then done.  Im guessing your in highschool if so Ive been there done that.  I also know sometimes you cant avoid it in that case do what you gotta do but dont be dumb and leave yourself open to getting jumped.  Taking kick boxing wouldnt hurt either.  goodluck hope eveything works out
773179
what about going to gym, or buying boxing bag and everytime u feel like getting violent, u simply punch that, instead of hurting someone. u can yell during that as well:]
851034
It is difficult to give you advice. Take control. Be a leader. Set with him reasonable rules. Let him tell you how to take correctional measures if he tresspasses. You are close to him tell him straight to the face what is acceptable to you and what is not. Do not nag him. The best leaders usually renders support and guidance. Please do not be a supersoft motherly type. Earn respect by being his leader logically, but reasonable. If nothing else help sen him back to mother. See it as a challenge not a burden. Good luck.
951090
i was spanked with a belt. do i feel like i was abused? no i don't. you have to get your kids to listen to you somehow for their own good.
900915
Swing sideways into the Temple, The Back of his head at the top of his neck are both vital areas that could easily render him unconscious if hit with enough force. Not quite as hard as you hit, as it is where you hit, the timing helps as well. I'd use the weight advantage to crush him. He doesn't lift weight, you'll smash him. He's doomed. Stick your chest out when dealing with him. Head and arms back. This will make you look more intimidating and ruin his ego a bit and give him fear. Keep a straight face and don't talk. Get down to business immediately if provoked. I suggest grabbing him and throwing him down. Don't respond to the punches he gives you while you are downtaking him. That may require practice. I'd get a few friends and practice this. Legs are always good to use once he's down.
177020
Why would u stay with someone that beats u? For 3 years? Get out and get a restraining order, it will be hard but in the long run it will make you stronger and you will be much happier and safe.
815881
Hmmm, interesting situation to say the least.  The way I see it, you have several options.\n\n1.) Change your cell phone number\n2.) Pay a nice tough guy to throw him a royal beating\n3.) Save these text messages and take them to the police and place a restraining order on him.\n4.) Take some boxing/martial arts/self-defense classes and kick his @ss yourself when you feel comfortable in doing so.\n\nGood luck,\n\nChris
982727
I HAD A SIMILAR SITUATION WITH MY STEP DAUGHTERS. MY 17 YEAR OLD WAS BEING HARASSED BY A 14 YEAR OLD. THE 14 YEAR OLD WAS NON-STOP SHE EVEN THREATENED TO HAVE ME KILLED. WELL AT THAT POINT I HAD TO TAKE MATTERS IN MY OWN HANDS BECAUSE THE POLICE AND HER PARENTS WERE OF NO HELP THEY SAID THE GIRL WAS A MINOR AND MY DAUGHTER IS CONSIDERED AN ADULT. SO ONE SATURDAY NIGHT I WAITED FOR THE GIRLS FATHER AND BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF HIM. HE DIDN'T KNOW WHY HE WAS GETTING POUNDED BUT I TOLD HIM THAT HIS DAUGHTER WILL HAVE TO EXPLAIN IT TO HIM. THE LAST THING I TOLD HIM WAS THAT THE NEXT TIME HIS LITTLE GIRL THREATENS TO HURT SOME ONE SHE BETTER MEAN IT. AT THAT POINT I WAS READY TO GET LOCKED UP. BUT IT SEEMS LIKE THE GUY NEVER CALLED THE POLICE. THE LITTLE CRAP IS NOW TERRIFIED OF ME AND MY GIRLS. SOME PEOPLE UNDERSTAND NOTHING BUT VIOLENCE. \nYOU'RE IN A TOUGH SITUATION GOOD LUCK. NOW THAT THE POLICE ARE INVOLVED YOU BETTER KEEP IT LEGAL. THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO DOCUMENT ALL THAT HAPPENS AND PRESS CHARGES ON THE GIRL WHENEVER SHE DOES SOMETHING STUPID. IF IT GETS OUT OF HAND HAVE YOUR DAUGHTER WHIP HER. SOME PEOPLE UNDERSTAND NOTHING ELSE.
916720
Sweetie, just because he isn't physically abusing you doesn't mean he's not still abusing you.  He's traded in the fists for emotional abuse.  That's what he's doing when he tells you he hates you and other hurtful things.  You need to get out of that relationship as soon as you can.  get yourself into some counseling so you understand why you chose to be with an abuser, and move on.  I understand completely where you're coming from, I've been there.  Since I've gone to counseling and stuff, I've come to understand myself so much better.  You will, too.  When you do, it will help you choose a different type of guy.....one that won't abuse you.  I've finally found my Mr. Right, and you will, too.  You just need to get out of this relationship.  Email me if you want to talk some more.  I'm a good listener :)
994154
sorry your going to have to go to the police! Do you really want to wait until things get serious?? Don't risk getting hurt physically or mentally.
305838
Get a punching bag. (Seriously ask your doctor about pain relievers, which work best, maybe a muscle relaxant, a heat pack, exercises that can help). If all else fails, scream, cuss, and have a few margaritas (or a lot).
781679
Tell someone! Your being abused!!
894644
Yeah right call the police. People getting raped and killed, and they're investigating someone who owes you money. Trust me, in most places, the police only respond to violence or serious crime.\n\nMy sister once got taken to court by an old landlord, and he won the case, she has a judgement against her. To this day she hasn't paid him a dime. A judge does not have the physical ability to force someone to do something. It's a matter of that going on their record more than anything.\n\nMy advice is, if it's a lot of money, and you want to pursue it, ask a lawyer what your real options are. Maybe you can look into having his wages garnished or something. But it will involve you continuing to pester them.
437241
Just tell him "I don't swing that way" and hope he gets the messasge. If he persists, be firm, tell him he's barking up the wrong tree. If he keeps on, punch him. If women could beat up men who do this to them, they would be punching out men all the time. It's the same thing, an unwanted advance.
705570
The best way to get this guy's goat would be not to react to him at all.  Look him in the eye, listen to him and do not show a flicker of response.  Do not respond to the finger snapping and try to avoid getting in the position where he can physically push you aside.  He really needs some help and the behavior is abusive.  Is there a crisis center you can call?  They would be able to give you very specific actions to take.  Take a day off of work and do some research.  Hang in there.
465048
Your weight is fine.  You are NOT fat.  Please see a counselor or a someone you trust about your abuse.  You should not be beaten up!  Beating a child up for any reason is unacceptable.  Their abuse should be reported...seek help ASAP.