How Would Handle This Situation?
924731
I think I would make a plan of my own since it sounds like you will need one anyway.  In the meantime, don't dwell on it.  Then when it comes up, there will be no need for you to fumble around, you will already have a plan and you can just tell them what it is.   Don't set yourself up to be out of a place to stay or to be humiliated.  I am an introvert as well and we have to look out for ourselves instead of following the crowd like extroverts do.  But it makes us more independant, huh?
268074
i think the best way is to TEST him/her.\nthis may sound difficult but its not!!!\nsee if this person is willing to get in trouble cuz of u \nor leave him/her 4 a couple of days see the reaction.\nRemember ur heart in this situation is the best guide.
701403
What is the jurisdiction for this scenario?
241217
Nothing you can do really.\n\nIt sucks, but it will get easier to deal with in time.
121990
Clarify immediately in a very balanced tone and after the conversation is over, pull him aside, talk to him about it and openly express your concerns. Do not allow this to continue for your own good.
236971
Call the police and get a restraining order.
731231
If you're not torn up about it, let it go. If you tell them "this person said you said this..." the situation may resolve itself.\n\n.
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
85167
Call the police! Handling it yourself can just lead to someone else calling the police on you and then you are the bad guy. Take the high road and you will get justice.
669372
Talk to your letter carrier, and explain the situation, and ask him what he would recommend you guys should do about it.
476873
well you know hes going to be hurt. honesty is the best policy. maybe bring up the fact that things are not working out, make him understand what the problem is and why is accuring. someones going to be hurt. its somthing that needs to be accepted.
309538
WEll if someone is being attacked, I would wait till they stopped being attacked before coming to help - well that is if I know I will not be of much help ( I mean like someone is being shot and stuff) - but alot of it all depends upon the circumstances - I would probably call the police and stay nearby to relate what I saw when the police come..
718627
Some friends and I have a hobby of teaching guys like him a lesson-Tell her to get out! go to a battered womans shelter a couple of counties away-and file charges-or contact me and if we are close or if I have any associates close, the situation may well take care of itself.
857084
i would talk to them and, since i am a religious person, i would help them out with the scriptures and tell them that they are NOT alone....that many people care for them...i would also be extra careful not to offend them in any way...it could just make it worse...i would also need to involve an adult who is alot wiser than I.  i would also call the police as soon as possible before it is too late...but even so...if the criminal isn't judged here...he or she will be judged on judgment day...
554628
it depends  on the situation
807646
Ok, this is where MATH comes in. It's called variables. Youneed to plug in NAMES. A is your signifigant other B is their Ex. using this formula I was able to understand the question. Now, understanding the question, I can answer it! (aren't I smart? LOL!) Well, I'd have to get the whole story. It would REALLY upset be because I'd really care for A, obviously. So after A told me the whole story, then I would be able to apologize. Since B was already out of the picture it wouldnt' be an issue. I would warn A that he probably shouldn't be talking to B anymore but that any other B's that he knew, that I should be with him so they didnt' get any ideas.
921234
Think of yurself in that person's position, and wat u wud do.