Having trouble talking to my girlfriend?
923107
whoa! not trying to bash you but the age difference is probably the reason why you cant have a conversation. plus you need to be carefull talking to minors online and on the phone. Yea you may love her but dont go to jail for it! another thing is the fact that you may be too mature for her as far as the mindset.
649486
well it depends i know that i almost took a break from my realtionship because i was also frustrated but i din't.  i decided that if i really wanted this realtionship to work i have to talk out my feelings so he could understand.  if you really like her or love her ask if she would just try to talk to you explain her fellings to you.  this will not only bring you two closer but will also help you understand her needs better....good luck
495222
YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
1171123
Seriously, how do you think things will be fixed unless you TALK? That could be exactly the thing that's keeping you apart. Go ahead and say what's supposed to be said. If you don't do this you'll always look back and wonder how things would've worked out if you had spoken to each other. Go ahead and do it.\nGood luck! :)
1168819
you need to sit your girlfriend down and talk to her and see where the relationship is going and go from there
302576
It can be a difficult situation especially if your shy like me. thankfully im dating another shy person who is understanding. I would highly reccommend a book called 'how to talk to anyone' its really good and i found it relly helpfull.\n\ni hope this helps, \nKindest regards,\n\nPaul...
663004
Depends on your age not much you can do..... have you try asking her why she does this to you when you do for her, maybe she is having problems that she don't tell  you communication is important Good Luck
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
679922
I think you need to give more details on your situation because I don't know what you are asking. What do you mean by you are "seperated"? \n\nDid you two once go out as boyfriend and girlfriend and was living much closer to each, but now live far apart but now the relationship is long term?\n\nAnd what do you mean you have problems talking to her on the phone? Describe what the problem is.....\n\nMore details please...
450477
OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.
263719
Either you like to argue or you have some issues between you that affect how you communicate to each other in a positive way.  If you really love her then talk to her about the effect the arguing is having on you and your relationship with her.  Long term relationships are not easy and I say that from experience...but they also can be the blessing of your lifetime too.
458966
i hav this problem too..jus try to talk to him/her about it.....its the only thing that ive found\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!
354884
Have a real conversation, be honest with your feelings and direct...  If she tries to get together afterwards to "just talk" don't go for it, it's just going to be more painful on both of you.
456985
don't aggravate her by asking what's wrong a thousand times trust me on this my bf was going through the same thing with me, just hug her and tell her you love her often not just when you are about to leave her or get off the phone, tell her often and during your everyday conversation let her know out the blue that if theres ever anything she wants to talk about , you're there no matter what time it is or how petty or small she may think it is, you're always listening, there maybe times where she don't want you to say ANYTHING but just for you to be there to listen so let her know you're there tell her everyday so when the time come and she want to talk she already know that you're willing to listen
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
424617
Well it all depends on what it is you want to talk to her about. Give us more details. One thing that won't fail, make sure she is happy, ex. give her a gift, then break the news. She might be mad (if you did something wrong) but she will get over it when she sees her gift. Seriously though, just tell her what you want to tell her. She is your gf for a reason. I'm sure she will understand whatever it is you have to say
345021
Well it is usually the other way around but the advice is the same. You need to express the fact that although the sex is great you long for a more meaningful relationship. Try to avoid using "you" phrases, ie You never want to talk. Instead focus on what you feel "I would like to talk about (insert topic here)" If this doesn't work or she slips back into old habits of never talking you might be dealing with someone that just isn't into talking, a more physical person. If that is the case then you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put up with it or not. The other possibility and not to be mean is that she might not find you all that interesting. I doubt that is the case since you want to talk more but it could be that she just isn't into the same things you are and therefor doesn't have much to talk to you about.