love/friend? i'm really confused plz help me..?
920133
Well sweetie it seems to me that he does really like you. He sure calls you enough just to get your attention:)
42709
ask him how he really feels about you, but be careful, because one way or another, after you cross that line, your friendship will feel different. in other words, you have to make the choice between a good friend that you already have and a potential partener. this is a gamble you have to be willing to make and possibly lose, but the payoff is worth it because the best loves are your best friends, ask anyone who is really in love
426461
If he was a true friend then he would answer you either way because that's what a true friend is all about :-) As far as what to do is concerned ... seek a friend who will cherish and reciprocate your sentiments. Goodluck!
1036169
Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.
265648
Girl, ur confusing!. ok anyways, the best solution is to ASK him about it. U get things in life only if u have the guts to ASK. U have to just go to him and ask " Do u love me?" thats it. He is gonna give u a correct answer.
362838
can i talk to u..i really want to tell u something but im afraid of what ur reaction will be..i like u more than a friend and would like to try a relationship..if he doesn't he's not worth it if he does good for u and good luck
698264
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough.  It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings.   He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well.  To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way.  It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends.  Good Luck and take a deep breathe.
331639
I think you're one confused girl. First, it's important to reassess your feelings first. Who do you really care about? What do you want to happen with your life? Who do you really want to stay with? Who do you think will make you happy? Who do you think you can make happy? After clearing out your thoughts, then go for the one who you think is best for you. You even might end up considering that no one is right for you at the moment, and even that is fine. But yeah, just think about everything carefully first before moving into any further decision.
797948
Honey, I know how this feels. All I can tell you is you need to decide what is more important to you. You can either do what your friends want you to do and forget about true love, or follow your heart. I followed my heart.
497465
That depends on u.It does seem a bit early to date maybe right now u should stick to being friends. Friendship can blossom into love given time. U need to go through the greiving process first before getting involved w someone. You don't want to ruin a friendship that you may need right now for security & understanding.You both lost someone special n both your lives.Give it time &I'm sorry for your loss..
777318
i had the same  story sweety but if loves you hes waiting for what?if he didnt dont lose him as a friend cuz you had happy memories together.!good luck
248777
you should come out and ask him..forwardness is always the best answer. maybe start it out by telling him how you feel or what you think about him..one should always be honest especially with a friend...
694598
u know its funny...this has happened with me and my extremely close friend just recently...we always flirt and it feels like something more than just a regular friendship and i want that...but she is confused and doesnt want to lose me.  i still have feelings for her and we talk a lot and are very close.  i am still trying to be myself yet i am trying to develop a different and closer relationship.  i say you just keep trying to do what you want and just see how it turns out.  whos to say another guy wont come around if this doesnt work out. good luck
745169
start a friendship if u like him.....if u two can get along well...take it a step further...but remmber that friendship often ends in love ..but love in friendship never ends...so watever u do..think wisely...\n:)
768454
Did you talk to him and find out what his motives are and where does he see this relationship/situation going in the future?  If he is think you guys are friends and its just that, then I think you should move on. Its not fair to you if you want a relationship.  So talk to him and see whats on his mind.  Then you will have a definite answer and know what the next step is.