Im in Love with two women, help me!?
921573
You probably love one and lust for the other.
483643
in this case ur mind and heart wud chose two diff options.. follow da choice of ur heart... it wil never let u down
115414
Be pure luck and the grace of God, I think I have found my TRUE love after 2 marriges and a string of broken relationships.\nWe are both happier than either of us have ever been and she says she feels the same as I do.
104616
if you are truly in love with this woman why would you even be worried about being straight forward...wouldn't you be screaming it from the top of a building... women want the moment they have been proposted to, to be a moment that they can tell there children and grandchildren...no matter what you do make it your own...this is for you too...this is a memory that will last a lifetime...\nCONGRATS!!! and good luck....
20887
Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
415262
Ok thats kinda easy. You should be straight out with yourself, if you love your wife then you don't want to put yourself and your wife's future happiness in jeopardy. You should not only think about your feelings, but your wife's as well. And if you want to go out with the other girl, you should think about the future. Do you want a future with the other girl or is it just a one night thing? Think about this and if you have children, think about them as well. If you need any more help, email me. Bye and I hope I helped you.
298800
i was in the same situation!!go with your heart.who will make you happier??
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
700977
Sounds like you need to explore and learn more about yourself to satisfy your curiosity.  I believe two females can please each other quite well...just as well as a man.  If you like her more than being with a man, then fine.  Who's to say what your preferences are supposed to be?  Like the rest of us, you are just human.  It's for you to decide.  You don't need to label yourself as gay or anything.  You are just you.  Cheating is a matter of personal beliefs, but some might see it that way.  My feeling is that if you are truly wanting to try, then find an equally curious friend and just enjoy each others company and see where it goes.  You can just take one day at a time.  Relax & enjoy!\n\nBecause you are unsure of your feelings about all this right now.  I'd just keep it to yourself until you have a better sense of how your really feel.  Even after your additional details, I don't recommend bringing him into the mix right now.  Like you mentioned, too many things can go wrong.  No need to stir the pot right now.  Better to keep this a private matter for now.  If things progress, there will be plenty of time to tell him your thoughts and feelings if need be.
727120
you need to take a deep breath and think about the reasons you care about these two people, then figure out what qualities you are looking for in someone you want to date...sort out your priorities and choose who you care about more..in the end you will make the right decision for yourself good luck =]
820054
No insult here, but your runner up in the great sensual game of her life.  Of ALL the people she has met... YOUR SECOND.  The other woman ... SHE'S FIRST.  If the other woman didn't exist, you two would be romping around in sensual glee... but, my dear, you are Al Gore to her G.W.Bush.  Painful as it may be your 49% to her 51%.  If you can deal with that and WAIT until it MAY POSSIBLY SOME DAY GO BAD, then you are pathetic and don't have self esteem, because while she is deep down on the other girl, your going to be all alone eating bon bons and ben and jerries just waiting for your turn to taste her.  FIND SOMEONE THAT'LL MAKE YOU NUMERO UNO.  Don't settle for runner up in someone else's race. You want someone to say "You are the only person I have ever wanted to be with for my entire life."  Instead your waiting for "Now that the other girl is gone, hey lets have fun."  Grow some self worth, grow some balls, and find YOUR mate.  Go right now, find someone else.
1077699
That is not fair 2 the girls. u need 2 dump 1, but stick with the other 1. u should keep the 1 that is ok with u havin 2 girls. she seems loyal & obviously ♥ u....a lot.\nDon't keep these relationships up, or ur gonna loose both the girls.\nHave a great Day!! :-)
118597
find out why ur lover is leaving u sit her down and talk to her try to figure out the problem.\nthe woman who wants to marry u ask why she wants to marry u when she knows that u are in love with another woman.\nmake sure the other woman knows u want to be with ur lover and not her.\nbut if u need to choose who u want a let the other girl go don't lead her on
874258
First of all its your mistake that you are loving 2 girls and spoiling 2 girls at a time. Loving 2 girls is fine, but 1st girl wants to marry you or not, if she is going to marry you, its your mistake again you got engaged with 2nd girl. Those girls knows each other.?.\n\nForget about love, get marry with 2nd girl and enjoy with 1st one if she comes to you some time later, but make sure that no conflict happens.\n\nMail me on mkkittu@yahoo.com
405467
Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
978765
you love two girls........it's not wrong in doing so.............but you have to find out that both of them love you.........I am sure that the possibilities would be that one among the two might love you or else both of them will love you or else neither of them will love you..............I know finding an answer to these possibilities would be very tough as you are in 10th standard and all of you will be concentrating on studies........\n\nSo you have to wait till the exams get over and try out these possibilities by yourself.............look for long lasting relationship which will end up in marriage and will continue into the future....\n\nRemember love is mutual and it has to be from both sides........you cannot force the other one to love you\n\nI hope my suggestion will help you to choose the one from the two........or some other girl in future......\n\nAll the best
973328
I dont think that you should start a relationship with someone else if you are still in love with #1. You need to end the contact with #1 so you can move on with your life and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. No one deserves to be treated the way #1 treated you. I would try to explain to #2 how your feeling and maybe he can help you get through the feelings for #1. Guy #2 sounds like a very good guy and maybe he can understand what you are going through.