Do you lead a sober life?
913409
I drank like a fishy for years and years and eons, and I have now been clean and sober for almost 10 years.  Life is good.
897799
I being a recovering addict knows this one is simple. it is because your sobrity means more to you than anything else right now. one day at a time. one hour at a time.  Some of the people at AA have been going for so long they don't want to go to that place anymore.(meaning the place where they hit bottom). but they know they have to keep going to AA too keep their sobriety.  Don't be afraid to show your emotions. Cause beleive me.  you are touching somebody. If not yourself. And you are the one that matters.  Hang in there. Continue with the twelve steps and your sponser.  By the way Congradulations on 16 Months! wtg.
503073
Yes.  But if it goes on too long and it affects his life and the family's, it's a problem you have to address.  Addictions come in various forms.  You need to keep conversation lines open.
563593
I was told once that I did things I didn't recall doing, but I remembered everything that happened that night as I was not as drunk as they thought i was.  They later apologized for exaggerating.  Then, later in life, there was a moment I did black out.  I definately had too much and I highly recommend on cutting back and staying in control.
589367
THE WORLD IN IT'S ENTIRETY. I LIVE TO BE INFLUENCED BY MY EXPERIENCES IN THE WORLD. I STRUGGLED THROUGHOUT MY LIFE UNTIL I LEARNED TO OPEN MY EYES AND HEART AND LEARN WHAT THE WORLD HAS TO OFFER ME. I WAS ADDICTED TO DRUGS AND FACED THAT PROBLEM ON MY OWN, NOW I AM CLEAN AND CAN POSITIVELY INFLUENCE MYSELF!
39222
Well. Are you a Congressional intern, or a nun?\nDo you work for the Christian Coalition?\nDo you regularly drink too much and pass out at parties?\n\nIf so, it might be unwise.
406888
Alcoholism is not something that can be cured. It is a disease and it is always there, even if you don't drink anymore. You will always have that temptation to drink, just like a smoker that quits will always want a cigarette. I guess the will to not drink anymore is the greatest "cure" that you can have. :)
545615
hell, no...that gave me so much heartache and hell...destroyed 8 years of my life behinds that...thank god, i am sober and fully functional. i am coherent and remember everything i say and do.......life is so much better withOUT it!!!
119788
I am.  Been going to AA a year.  He is.  I was totally functional, never missed work, etc.  But drank almost every night.\n\nGuidance lies in the answer to the following question:  Why does he drink at all?  What is the negative part of life that he wishes to escape from or at least numb every night?  For me, it was simply the world.  (Too many mean people, too many corrupt politicians, too many wars, too much stress, too many idiots, etc.)  But when one considers the negative ramifications of drinking, especially on health, finances and relationships, it is truly better to live life sober on life's terms.  The problem is that sounds like a miserable proposition to an alcholic.  The truth, though, is after going to AA for a while, the laughter starts to come back, the peace of mind, the serenity.  Life becomes a joy again that doesn't need to be numbed every night.\n\nGood luck!
1046272
possibly...if you are honest and tell the judge that you have a drinking problem....probably have you go to AA classes...they may, in fact, be the best thing for you....good luck
477897
No. Rarely drink myself. Why do you drink? Find the motivation and seee what you can do to either remove yourself from that stimulus or change your reaction to it.
217342
This is a tough question theoretically, but in reality easy, as virtually everyone WOULD judge him (whether they like to admit it or not) as they would have the entire picture at once -- not little by litle. Nearly all handicapped people are fiercely independant and most would never ask for help. That action of itself lends to the theory of enabling. That said, I have been in this situation many times and no, I have not enabled. I have purchased clothing and food, but never alcohol. Nor have I carried it to the counter for them. I have also given transportation when needed. But I am 6' and very capable of taking care of myself whereas I have strongly recommended to my daughter and wife (much smaller individuals) to never place themselves in that position of risk. Most people now have cell phones and can call a cab and even prepay for it if necessary. I've been a medic for nearly 25 years and yes, I've had to take care of many of them and no, it isn't particularly pleasant to render medical assistance (particularly CPR) to an intoxicated and/or dirty person. But that's my choice and I just hope that, although I take pains to NOT be inebriated or filthy, that one day when I need it someone takes care of me...
372010
No. You can still be successful. Just keep your drinking under control. Americans can be quite the drinkers too.
684990
imagine someone walking up to you and handing u a glass of poison..u choose whether or not to drink,  get it?  Don't shatter.  There is a book that will change this for you...i promise.  Its called THE FOUR AGREEMENTS.  I  have them on audio cd.  \nBe impecible with your word\nDon'y take anything personal\nDo not make assumptions\nAlways do your best.\n\ntrust me get the cd
429647
um nope they dont if u want some sober advicce get ur life together get inot a program and walk with god and then u will find true love
1097575
It makes sense. Look at those that drink too much alcohol and drive...or eat way too much.....we were made for a reason and should learn to live life by taking things easy and live in moderation.
654325
Use your right to practice religion.\n\nClaim that your religion forbids you to stay sober.\n\nthen raise a stink with the ACLU, NAACP, etc....