Why do girls have so many troubles with guys?
923206
Guys have changed.  They no longer act like men in the relationships anymore and want women to bend over backwards and do everything, all the courting, etc.; meanwhile, women have wised up and are being fed a lot of self-help books and TV shows like Oprah telling us not to put up with ANYTHING from the guy, to second-guess him, check him out, go behind his back and verify what he says, assume he's a cheater, etc.\n\nIn short it looks like the guys are acting like "women" and the women are acting like "the guys".  There is an enormous level of mutual paranoia shared between the two.  We blow up minor things to the size of the universe, judge each other and dump each other too fast maybe.  Maybe.  Men seem to be out to get the most they can sexually from women then dump them (women don't have a phrase like "hit it and quit it" or "fall on the grenade" - men do).  Women on the other hand distrust men and are beginning to hate and fear them.  \n\nAll the rules have changed, but feminism is not the only thing to blame.  It's also that a lot of guys now grew up with no dads and approach relationships kind of like sneaky women, because all they saw was their mother, and other sneaky guys.  Pair the two together and you get sneaky effeminate behavior.  (Disclaimer - that's my humble, solo opinion.)  A lot of girls today also grew up with abusive dads who did sexual stuff to them, too.  That makes women doubly frightened of men and ready to pounce on them for any mistake.\n\nThe real problem is our media and internet atmosphere which is full of eagerly offered reasons for men to hate women and women to hate men.  Sells more self-help books, you know... gets more hits on that date help website.\n\nThat's my humble opinion.\n\nThe real reason though is that men changed the rules and blamed women for changing them.  Men could have ignored feminism and just stayed strong, good men.  Women would have corrected themselves.  Instead, men started competing with women and have become WAY too obsessed with thinking every woman ought to look like page 92 in Vogue magazine.\n\nThat's the real culprit right there.  Women feel compared, thought "ugly", and judged on things that cannot be changed without an expensive bout of surgery.  Even if we do change, we are still sexually disposable.  Get her booty and move on to the next booty.  Men meanwhile continue to look the same as they did before, and give even less than their fathers did.\n\nThis has become a pirate's world.  Everyone for themselves.  Booty, booty, theft and booty.  That's my rant and answer.
1072896
Are you annoying? Are you controlling? Etc., etc., there could be thousands of reasons, some not even having to do with you and having to do with the guys around you, they may just be stuck up jerks.
221133
cuz the universe has to balance. guyz have their stupidness and girls have their pain.
87553
I will totally agree with you but I have noticed that there are more serious questions dealing with relationships asked by us girls so maybe that has something to do with it but of course us girls do make our great share of mistakes sometimes even more than guys but guys cant seem to be slick and girls are very stubborn so we will not admit when we make a mistake...so on behalf of women everywhere...sorry
423131
It depends on the woman. Some girls are totally outgoing and try to flirt with the guy they want. Others are really shy and nervous and are afraid of saying or doing something stupid.
1082164
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.
225829
Guys like to be asked out! Even though we act tough, we are as scared to ask you girls as you all are! Guys are tough when it comes to fighting and stuff, but when it comes to you girls we are scared! We are as scared of girls as you all are, of snakes!\nI'm not calling girls snakes I'm just compairing fears!
459567
Well, some men are jerks. And thats not what us girls want now a days. We want someone smart, funny, someone that can listen to us. Not some tough guy, full of him self jackass that thinks hes all that, when really hes not...
883656
Because these guys don't start out disrespecting them.  They usually treat them like princesses in the beginning... and these guys add an excitement to the relationship that you don't get with the nice guys.\n\nBy the time they start treating the girl like crap so she's so far in she doesn't really realize it.  This is also how girls wind up in abusive relationships.  Even the strongest of women can fall into this pit of despair.\n\nI've had happen to me.  Bu I ditched that jerk after a year and am now engaged to a sweet, loving man.  \n\nWomen just have to figure it out for themselves.. Unfortunately.
474260
its your attitude. are you stuck up or do you show off in front of other guys? girls hate that crap.
958525
guys can be jerks ... and some never grow up. some are just superficial and never outgrow it. there are a few of us good guys out there... but there are becoming fewer and fewer of us by the day.. because parents these days don't teach their kids to respect women the way we were. I mean kids running around calling women ho's and such..and hitting them. not good shows absolutely no respect for women.
213168
I don't know.  I wonder the same for guys.  They can be just as bad as females.
634477
Biologically, Males have muscles and deal with problems thorugh direct approaches.  Females are weaker (just a fact) and therefore look to other methods to solve thier problems.
690908
Yeah, I think guys tend to care about it more than girls.  If they end up in a locker room where they have to be exposed, anything that's different can be grounds for isolation or humiliation because all it takes is one jerk.  I think anyone will use that issue against you only if they are angry with you for something else and are hoping to hurt you in any way they can.
104114
Boys want to SOLVE your problems. Girls want to share FEELINGS. Sometimes all you want is sympathy and understanding. Girls are good for that. Like for problems that you can't just "solve."
64736
Well, some guys do understand man. I dont treat girls like that. And i know alot of other guys that don't.\nSo, i think your predicament is kind of solitary.\nMaybe you should work that out among the guys that youre around, because people i know aren't like that.
7626
Because it's easier for a girl to get a new guy than for a guy to get a new girl.  Do what you gotta do to keep what you have!