do you think I should tell her or let sleeping dogs be?
929721
Tell the cat you are sorry then have some fritos with me on the couch...  :)
762667
Just get her a pillow and a blanket.Try nudging her so she'll be aware your giving her the pillow & blanket. If you can't wake her like that then straighten her up & put the pillow under her & cover her up. Otherwise leave her alone.  Don't invite her to your bed, that could easily be taken the wrong way. Nothing can be said that way. I'd go on with my normal activities. Fix your breakfast, watch tv, etc. like normal. Don't worry about bothering her. She might wake up and go home or watch tv with you.
605813
Only if you're comfortable with everyone knowing because she will spill the 'secret' to someone eventually.  If you're already 'out', then just tell her.
329899
Yes.\nRight after you tell her you slept with her best friend...or, that thing about 'restraining order'....while on the can isn't that bad, folks.
855347
Yes, you should tell her for 2 reasons \n1- if she ever finds out you knew and did not tell her, she will have one less person she can trust and maybe even will cut her contacts with you (I don't know your sis and how upset she might get) \n2- If your sis knows the truth she can have closure and maybe stop not trusting men (maybe far fetched) as he left because he likes guys and not because of something she did
420676
Depends on the situation...where you fighting?  I've accidentally called my ex-bf by my dog's name during a fight.  If it was in bed...i've known people who have done that, and i think the reason for that is because they're just not in the right frame of mind during that time.  Whatever the reason, obviously she wasn't thinking straight.  I don't think it means she wants her ex back.  I don't think she apologized because she was embarrassed/upset and didn't want to make a big deal about it.  If i were you, i'd let it go this time.
756236
Awww.....that's how my dog makes me feel, too.  If I cuddle with him, I instantly feel better.  Shhhh....don't tell anyone.  LOL
928007
I think you should tell her right away. She'll be more likely to forgive you, since you didn't try and keep it a secret from her. I personally hate secrets, I htink we should lay them out in the open. Tell her you're really sorry, too. You shouldn't have cheated in the first place.
211714
He is hoping to reopen the fling. Personally, I think you would be better off letting sleeping dogs lie but its up to you. Perhaps you should talk with him and clear the air.
286778
The fact that you feel bad tells me that you are a decent person,but if it's been four years and they aren't even talking,you did nothing wrong.With age comes wisdom,as a53yr old man I say let sleeping dogs lie.Now I know some people would disagree with me and I respect that,but I can't think of one good reason to tell.Go with your heart,do whats best for you and your friend,whatever you decide,good luck.
240325
tell her your fellings
770703
She deserves to know the truth. Keeping it from her will only hurt YOU in the long run. Think about that.
714337
Tell your wife and both of you lecture the dingbat. Oh and you might want to take her house key away. Just a thought :)
872817
I don't think it's bad to sleep separately some nights, but if it bothers you maybe you should eventually get a bigger place with a guest room for the difficult nights. I would get the dog a nice,cozy dog bed that he or she can go to when tired so that you won't have to attempt to move them later. Keep the dog off of your bed at all times to start this habit.  You also might talk to your doctor about getting your snoring fixed. You could have sleep apnea and that can be a sign of some other health problem. If you have insurance they usually cover this type of problem. Good luck!  P.S. , In response to the gentleman above's answer who said animals belong outside:  if it's too cold outside for a human it's too cold outside for a dog, cat and many other animals.  This is a mistake too many people make that animal protection agencies are trying to correct all of the time. Don't leave your pets out in inclimate weather!
392392
You really do need to tell her, if she finds out some other way and it comes out you knew she probably would never forgive you. But for telling her the truth she may be pissy for a little while but once she realises you were right and it all calms down a little she should come around, That is if she gets mad at you at all. I definately would try to go in there with some proof. Dont go in saying you should dump  his arse, just assure her you are there for her. Good luck
965587
I don't think she'd listen to you... it's worth a try, but I really don't know if you want to risk her getting angry and telling everybody about you, like that you're lying or something bad like that. I know she SHOULD be told, and I'm glad you have that mindset, but she'd just think you were bitter... and she'd believe him. So I'm sorry to say it, but you should stay out of it... unless she's the type that won't get angry...
753004
yeah, lay her down like a dog. we live in a world of equality after all!!\nheres one. Q..what do call a woman with two black eyes?\nA.. Nothing! you have already told her twice!..