how does people feel that men crossdress in to females?
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ive been xdressing for 25 years and never told my family ,unless you want to take it further ,say to change sex ,why tell them ,you can still go out and have fun as fem .good luck x
167553
I agree. Women dress for other women because they are more critical of each other. If a man likes it then it is an added bonus.
179482
Yes, I've known gay men who have boyfriends that dress in women's clothing.  There are also straight women who have boyfriends or husbands that occasionally dress in women's clothing.  It doesn't make them "women" because they like to cross-dress, they still enjoy sex with their original equipment.\n\nSista is talking about transsexuals, not transvestites.  Transsexuals are in the wrong body, transvestites just like to wear the clothes sometimes.
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Not all gay men look for effeminate men, not all gay women look for masculine women.\n\nIt completely depends on the person.  \n\nI'm bisexual, and I'm not a fan of dykey women as sexual partners.  I love them as friends, but they don't turn me on.  My girlfriend and I are both femmes.  \n\nThe only answer I can give you is that for gay folks, since you're not buying into traditional sexual behavior, traditional gender appearance that is designed to elicit that behavior is not as important.  Why not experiment?  Once you get away from the narrow definitions that society puts on straight dress, behavior, sex, and appearance, why not just mix it up a little.  I'm a femme, but I love to wear guys tank tops (wife beaters) with swishy skirts and sandals and chandelier earrings.  \n\nMost women's clothing is designed to 1) attract straight men and 2) impress other straight women.  Once you stop caring about those two things, the sky is the limit.  Wear a skirt with a mens tie.  Wear a women's t-shirt with mens jeans.  Wear something too tight and too baggy.  Look at people and marvel at how they have put themselves together in ways that make them happiest, instead of if they are or are not keeping in line with a cultural ideal.  And see if their style works with yours, if so, you hook up.  If not, you move along.
485487
Ive seen some men cross their legs,but they did look kind of feminine.
512637
I can sympathize with you. I am and always have been female through and through but it must be very difficult for you.\nI would love to hear sometime what is feels like to be in a male body yet feel like a female. It is hard to imagine.\nIs it just a craving to wear woman's clothes and makeup?\nI just have no frame of reference, since it was always my body, changing, cycling, having hips and boobs, and my love of flowers, colors, furnishings, men, and animals, that made me think like a woman.\nI wonder if it isn't just a desire to be seductive the way a woman is that is the appeal of it.
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thers 2 way of dressing up dear..at home we dress up for husband....but when out side we have to dress up for the other impression..i too dont want to look ugly when im outside.i like to feel sexy and good
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No. Cross dressing is independent to sexual orientation. This doesn't mean there aren't any gay/bi crossdressers - it just means being a crossdresser doesn't automatically mean the person is gay/bi.
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Hi,\n\nI am a Cross dresser yet  prefer the word Transvestite. I am a guy who dresss up with girls clothes, not so much to become one but for the sheer pleasure and hobby of transformation.\n\nI do not have major compulsions to do it. So there is no confusion when with a girlfriend. Usually my girlfriend is into costuming herself and would just adore getting dolled up for a party... It would also be a very fun enticing intimate expression for us.\n\nSo it is an occasion base thing. There has to be a worthwhle party with great people and then we decide on a theme as to how we dress -up if we matched or not.\n\nSo I had girls who loved particpating in the transformation. I never lost my manhood and it added to our fun.\n\nJust take your time and find ways to qualify the girls ...
552254
I have a pink shirt that I wear and I am very secure with myself. I am straight and it depends on the man that is wearing it too. there are many mis conception on pink shirts which I personally think are ridiculous..
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They are kind of shaped by our society...\nA girl feels obligated to impress the guys that she likes, (usually regardless of fashion) and attract them to her. If all goes well they will go out.\n\nThis is just an average case, btw; many guys care about their looks, but don't need to spend as much time on dress, hair, and accessories!\n\nIf not the above, they like dressing up to reflect their mood or personality...It's one of the best forms of expression!\n\nIt's just how it is ;)
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That is a tricky question.  But I have met people who have interests in crossdressers, transexuals, and women, but not in men.\n\nIt seems that in these situations, the men have a great attraction to women, but also have an attraction to the penis.  However, they feel no attraction to average men.  In this case, the person has to find people who are similar enough to women to clearly not be men, but who also have a penis.
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I'm guessing that they are with them because they are drawn to them. But from people I know the girl that dresses manly a.k.a BUTCH wasn't to be a man. The Guy that dresses drag really thinks and believes he was meant to be a girl or is a girl. If he/she were actually what they believe they are they would date the opposite sex so the only guys or girls they can get are ones who are gay. Most girls are gay b/c a woman knows how to touch a woman better than a guy. If so I still would rather be with a man.
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I was at the store the other day and I saw the most shocking thing...they ACTUALLY make men's thongs.\n\nSo needless to say, I don't think its cool for a guy to wear female under garmets.
841499
Why worry if its weird or not? Some people would think crossdressing is weird, others would think shaving is weird - do what's best for you and don't worry what other people think! It's your hair and your life!
28897
Well secondskin, I have been wearing for many year in secret.  I love the feel and look.  I just recently shared this with my wife and after some thought she is now ok with it.  I do not wear in public view but see nothing wrong with that if it is your thing.  I am totally straight just have a thing for the feel and look.
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Good question.  I have always said the same thing.  There obviously is a reason they are showing it and that is to get looked at.  I am a woman and if I wear something like that, I expect to get looked at.