how do u get over it?
916806
Give it time.  That is the only medicine for a hurt heart.
500652
hey sweety,i know how u feeling.. how to move on? think about yourself! u deserve so much joy, ur killing yourself with the anxiety. fight it, keep that friend connection. grow as an individual, improve n develop yourself in the mean time. sounds to me like u will get back together!! wake up each morning n look in the mirror tell yourself that ur the best thing on the planet, dance n hear James Brown wen u walking.. Aaah, feel goood!!!\n\neven if things arent the way u want them, so wat? live life the fullest n enjoy yourself each moment. stop pinning away, be optimistic about yo ex- u will get him back!! relationship issues need time, be patient n it will come to u!! maybe your differences are being worked out by the space n at the same time look yummy for him (eat yo heart out, dude!!) n any other guy out there. u never know..Morris Chestnut, or Brad Pitt (ha!!) maybe watching!!!\n\nlove yourself to death, ur beautiful, talented n he thinkin of u twice as much! why else wud he keep in touch all this while?don feel sorry or wrong, u were right to discontinue yo relationship-u did say twas inevitable, ain it? so enjoy life girl!!\n\nu can do it!!! don u know u unstoppable girl??!!! hey- u got a cute smile..do that often!! smile, i mean!!
476635
You must accept that it's over before you can begin to heal.  Forget about them and move on - you are in control of your thoughts.  Challenge your thoughts... which will change your mood, feelings, and behaviour.  But, you'll have to do it over and over again until it sticks.
1134900
sooooooooooo get over it........ and don't ruin what you've got now
1137773
get rid of it \neliminate it from your life u will be happier\ndelete it
19433
Open ur mouth & say it!\nAccept the fact & face the situation \nnot your feeling.
1135416
decide that you can only change your feelings. mind over matter. just decide that you're going to forgive them and move on! you can pray for help too, it'll help you gain the peace you seek.
445143
no offence, but if you center your life around it and contantly view our self as a victim then you will never get over it. you can try to move on or do what every other woman does, start/join a movement or protest and "do something about it"
11123
If you want to get over your ex-fiance, you need to take affirmative action that will gradually take him out of your mind and allow you to start your life again. I recommend the following:\n\n1. Spend more time hanging out with your friends and less time alone. Friends, as well as family can be a great support when you are in pain.\n2. Get more deeply involved in your hobbies and interests.\n3. If your ex-fiance gave you an engagement ring, you do not need that reminder.....give it or throw it away. And do the same with any gifts he gave to you.\n4. Destroy or throw out any pictures you have of the two of you together.\n5. When you feel ready, start to date again.\n\nIn a nutshell, you need to start to purge your ex-fiance from your mind. It will be hard at first but, little by little, you will think about him less and less. Eventually, he will be a distant memory and you can have your own life back again.
496749
Grow the nerves to talk to him or get over it. your only hurting yourself
492232
accept the fact and get on with life
1171895
Get over it. You had the chance and blew it, lessons for life.
205670
i'm sorry sweety but you can't repair it. you just have to move on. i know how you feel. i've been borken hearted and i'm fine now. you'll be fine.
551244
I THINK THAT THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A BRACK UP IS TIME... YOU JUST NEED TIME TO HAVE A NEW START,IT MIGHT SEEM TO LONG BUT AT THE END LIFE GOES ON???????????
974954
To put yourself first and stop worry about the person that hurt you.  The only person that you have worry about is your feelings and making yourself whole again.  Everyone in life makes choices and you have to deal with them and realize that you can move on and be happy on your own.   And like momma always says LIFE is not fair. \n\nIt also take alot of time so don't think the pain will go away just stay focused on YOU! \nI wish you better days!
45756
Dude. get over it already.
1088350
Cry, talk about it, cry some more. Get it totally out of your system. Throw all of those memories away. Then go and live your life like you've never lived it before. Meet new people, go places, do things, and never ever look back.