My bestfriend told me were not friends anymore :(?
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
54843
I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
679265
THEY R NOT REAL FRIENDS AT ALL.... I MEAN C0MMON THEY COULDN'T EVEN TELL U ABOUT IT?? LIKE THATZ MESSED UP MAN/ I THINK TO EXPRESS THE WAY YOU FEEL JUST EMAIL THEM OR TEXT TELLING THEM HOW U FELT AND THAT U THINK THAT THEY SHUD JUST KEEP TO THEMSELVES AND U DONT WANNA HAVE TO DO ANYTHING WITH THEM.. AND REMEMBER 2 STILL B RESPECTFUL. BCUZ U KN0 I KNOW U MAY N0T WANT 2 LET G0 BUT THATZ SERI0US SO I HOPE I HELPED U OUT.
102646
She feels a little uncomfortable now, she thought you felt like she did (just hangin' buddies). She's trying to keep the friendship but not make you feel she's interested in a relationship. It's probably hard now for both of you to act like nothing ever happened. \n Someone must have really hurt her bad before for her to be afraid of a serious relationship. And it may be something she doesn't want to talk about yet, to anyone. Just call her and say, "Hey, Buddy, What cha' doing. Wanta hang out LIKE OLD TIMES??" (And just let the past be past about what you told her. Don't mention it.)  \n If you can't do this, just tell her you have to serious of feelings for her to just be friends and you think 'hanging out' would be too uncomfortable for both of you. If she does have serious feelings for you, she'll tell you. If not just let her go her way. \nGood Luck.
840701
I usually do that with my best friends, and if I don't, they'd think I got mad with them. Also I'd think there's something wrong if they don't say that to me. we say that frankly, and we feel happy to hear that. however, it is not acceptable to be told to some one who doesn't have strong relationship with you.
677395
You obviously hurt her badly and it is taking her some time to get over that. Don't push her, try writing her a letter explaining the tough time you were having (I am sure she knows but tell her anyway) and apologise for what you did.  Tell her what your friendship meant to you, explain how you have changed and grown as a person and see what she says.  She may be too deeply hurt in which case you must let her go but at least you have told her why you behaved the way you did and she may come to understand that in time.
221950
If your best won't hang out with you then she isn't your best friend.  move on and find a new one.
211524
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
445652
Maybe you should try talking to them. Tell them how you feel, but make them promise that it won't afect your friendship if they don't feel the same way.
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
84581
if they are your best friends they shouldn't be doing this. tell them how you feel. if they don't respect you then leave the party. do what's good for you. you don't need friends like these. I call them toxic friends. In hindsight your bestfriends don't know how good they have it to be your friend. They will wake up and realize what they did to someday. It's not you. :O)I know it's going to be tough to break of the friendship, but sometimes we do it for our own good and spirit. There will be people who will be good to you, and be your friend and be real to you and who are supportive and willing to help you and grow with you for the better and love you for you. That's a best friend to me. I promise you that. Move on, this is toxic and you deserve something healthy.
457128
Make sure you tell her you deserve an explanation for her distance. This is important. You have the right to know why she no longer wishes to be a part of your life. Just pull her to the side nicely or if you can catch her alone even better and just be like, "Hey, I've noticed you've been distant lately, is there anything wrong...did I do something to upset you?" Then if she doesn't wanna talk or explain herself, tell her "I deserve an explanation and I'll only try this once if your gonna give me the cold shoulder. I care about you enough to address the situation, but if you don't wanna be my friend anymore, at least have the decency to inform me like a woman". After this. just do what's in your heart. Go your separate ways and look into other options in friends. Someone is out there in the same boat as you and you'll find a new BFF soon. Good Luck!
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
50152
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
895014
Obviously you know they weren't really "friends" right?  Friends wouldn't do that to each other.  I've been there and I know how much it hurts.\n\nA friend would support your decisions (even if they didn't agree with them) and they would "be there for you" when you needed them.  Don't sweat these so-called "friends" they aren't worth your time.\n\nYou may never "forget" what they did but that doesn't mean you can't "get over" it.  Yes, it just takes time.  Of course you're hurt, you trusted them and thought they were "friends".\n\nYou should try to "forgive" them, (even if you are unable to at the moment), because keeping all that bad energy inside will only hurt you.  \n\nYou sound like a nice person and anyone would be happy to have a "friend" like you.  Just chalk it up to "experience" and forget about them.  They don't deserve you as a friend, and they aren't worth your time.\n\nBest of luck to you.