i have this friend???
923195
Twelve is pretty young. I would tell her to wait a few years, she has plenty of time for that later.
632734
Show her thru your actions and words what a valuable friend she is to you. Find other people who recognise these qualities in her and both of you hang out with them. Affirm her kind actions and words and in time she'll come to believe that what you say is true. I know... i've been in her place and a very special friend turned my lofe around  by doing this for me. Be patient...it may take a while for negative stuff to be replaced by good but if you gently keep at it, it will happen.
91751
Talk to your friend first, then if she is okay with it, then go ahead
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
309256
Absorve some more and if it is fure sure brake it up!!!and if later she hooks up wiht your friend dump your freind!!
317361
u have a big friend! god!arent u satisfied? if not! im here.but think twice before making friends.all the best.
192659
if she's betrayed you, she's not a true friend. Find someone who will stick with u through thick and thin. That's a true friend.( or he);)
261085
Real friends arent like that so he/she isnt ur real friend. I may be wrong..but maybe even your great friends and he is just shy..talk to him Gurly Gurl! Lol, thank you.
785466
look there is no harm in being friends is there? B must be feeling quite down. come at least be his friend. tell him everything. better he hears it from you than from an outside source
858093
If she is spreading rumors about you...and not being truthful to you, she is not your friend.  Good friends are hard to find hon, but when you find them, it is a treasure.  Good luck in your search for one.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
262453
yes u should....... she is ur friend n thr is no point behaving like a hypocrit with ur own frd..... go n tell her tht how unreal n unbelievable her stories r
28539
ask your friend for it
408614
this will hurt but to be honest she isnt any kind of genuine friend if this is how shes treating u. My advice(Coming from a 35 year old scottish chick whos been there b4 with an ex friend),id walk away from her and cut all ties. Do u realy want to be friends with someone that treats u like that? U deserve better babe.xx
274853
Well with your friend.  I had the same situation.  She is your friend she just needed a ride.  Don't let it bother you to bad.  She might come around she might not.  I wouldn't give the guy anything just let him stick around and charm you but dont buy him anything!!!
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
231633
If you know her well enough that you two can tell each other anything, yes, you should.  Bring up something like, "so I saw him with this girl..."  etc.  She will understand.  Be prepared, however.  Your friend may over-react in which case you may need to be...prepared!