if i think about a girl who doesnt no who i am would i be werid?
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you are completely normal, just talk to that person\n\n:> peace\n.
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Yes, just like we fantasize about the same girl.\n\nIt's because you can't/don't have them. If you did, the mystery and fantasy would evaporate.\n\nBecause no one is as perfect as they seem when we actually get to know them.
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Thinking about girls.
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only if i was horribly burned or something. i do think appearance helps make you who you are, but you should be happy with your natural one.
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Hi, you seem too obsessed with yourself, your body, your image. I agree that today especially looks do play an important part, but its not everything. If you keep on thinking of negative things, any girl you might have otherwise interested, will stay clear of you! Please broaden your horizon, take up a hobby, surround yourself with friends, live happy.
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Do you like her? \nThan it shouldn't matter. If you are so worried about what other people think than maybe you shouldn't have a girlfriend. Try finding yourself first. When you can become comfortable with who you are you will realize it's not about what they think.
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Well first of all what we think of her does not matter. Not in the slightest. All that matters is what you think of her and obviously you think a lot of her. \nYou are very lucky to have someone like that in your life.
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You may need to look at why you don't. But that could be complicated.\n\nRemind yourself everyday when you wake up and when you go to bed: I am part of the Creator, I am equal to everyone, I am powerful, I am loved, I am respected, I am outgoing, I am helpful.    Whatever qualities you want to bring out. You will become what you say you are. It is inevitable.
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if i was a guy... prolly not... but being a girlk... sure. but thats tottaly weird. haha
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Dude, Their isn't a way,, and if their was you shouldn't do it. Be yourself so she gets to know you and grows to perhaps like you.
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I think I get that kind of feeling. I think that you might not really be in love with her. Your mind might add things onto her and make her seem better. You might focus on everything that makes her perfect in your eyes. Then when you actually see her, you realize that she isn't perfect. Something similar happens to me.....
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of course!!! me im pretty shy so i dont think i'd do it unless i was REALLY into a guy, but ive thought about it ;)
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Well, you have to have confidence in yourself, and that appears to be lacking.  If you don't like who you are, why would anyone else?  I'm guessing you're a teenager, and I want you to know something: EVERYONE thinks they're a geek, and the popular people are insecure too, and feel like they're faking it.\n\nSo if you want to change something about yourself, work on that.  If in reality, you're OK with who you are, but think others judge you -- to heck with them!  Be who you are and who you want to be, it's OK.  Just be confident in yourself.\n\nIf you don't try to get to know this girl, you will likely be mad at yourself for not trying, and that contributes to lowering your self-esteem.  Take it slow: say "Hi" the next time you see her, or even just make eye contact for starters if you're not ready to emit a syllable.  \n\nIf you have something in common, start a discussion about that.  Or if you know what interests her, ask her for advice or help or her opinion on the subject.  Keep the focus on being friends, take the time to get to know each other.  You may find out that she's not everything you currently think she is, or you may find out that she's a lot like you.  But you'll never know 'til you try.  Good Luck!
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Go for what you feel...Don't be stuck with what if, and when you are at college, I bet you will still think of her.  That tends to ruin how you view other girls.  I think you will gain the knowledge of what she feels, and that is powerful knowledge.  Good luck, and never give up!
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That'll depend on what type of girl your looking for. Just like how every boy is different, so is every girl. But, you should just be yourself because what if she found out that you were pretending to be someone your not? Just be who you are because won't you want her to like you for who you are not who your not?
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you would know your capabilities better than us. want to forget her quickly, I will help you, imagine her with her borefriend, giving him oral sex, with his goo running down her face, now do you really want to imagine kissing her, imagine her on the toilet taking a crap, you have the halo effect, you are focusing on your intimidation by her and not thinking about her being a real person with all the nasty body functions that you possess. you think she is a possession to be had, like a baseball, whether it be her or the next out of reach girl, you are in for heartache, one morning if you did get this girl and she is sitting on the toilet with diarrhea, with the stinch lingering in the air, you are going to realize she is a real person, and your infatuation will quickly fade with it, and most likely your feelings you thought were love. she is a person dude, not something that you can or can't have.
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Any girl?? Be careful what you wish for.