how to deal with testy husbands,like he has his period?
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Trust me the silent treatment works the best you don't want to fight anyway, and when he asks you what is wrong just tell him he needs some miodol because he is having mood swings.
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I find that I am alot more easily aroused during my period. You know the hormones are jumping all over the place. As suggested above, if you decide to do this, either put down an old towel on the bed first, then lay down on it. You could also do it in the shower, with your partner behind you. While standing, lean forward and have him take you vaginally from behind while the warm water sprays down upon you. It seems to go deeper this way and eases my cramps. Another way to try is on your knees man behind you (doggie style). You can even leave your panties on with pad in them. he can pull them either down or to the side far enough to enter you. If you choose to do this, I hope you enjoy it as much as I have.
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Dear,\nPlease do not ever work on guess and doubt when it comes the relationship with your husband. \nThe more improtant is his love with you...if it is intact.....do not spoil yourself in doubt...\n\nBut still if you have some strong proofs to prove it, talk to him very openly. Tell him why you doubt and let him to clearify himself also........make a open debate....do not hide any thing.....\n\nAnd if you feel...one day he will betray you...\nLEAVE HIM NOW.......show him women are not weak......
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dont wear a ring\nadvertise on yahoo personals\nbring it up in casual conversation\nwhen someone says to me, what does your husband do?  I say i dont got one of those
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personally I like to GENTLY slap my guy upside the back of his head.\n=)\nRemember though...no matter what you decide to do...he may need to figure it out in his OWN time...and only you can decide if thats okay with you.\n\nFor instance...when I let my hubby know he's doing something really wrong and he REALLY needs to stop....sometimes it can take a week before he addresses the problem...and decides to fix it.  I've learned not to get in his face because he's a really smart guy and when he's ready...he always comes around. Everyone takes a different amout of time to admit they are wrong...and to correct their behavior.\n\nBest of luck hun!! :)
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Love is about a two way lane, u get respect u give respect. In order, for you to respect other people , in this instance your husband you need to first respect urself. Man in their own ways, tend to subject women to sccumb to such ways, as they know the weaker sex usually gives in. But be firm, tell him gently you are uncomfortable. He has to love you and your self dignity beyond just your body alone...he has got to realise that his actions will get him nowhere but trouble. I guess, maybe you need to help him out, as it looks like he may have an addiction, so maybe proper counselling may help him get thru this. If you outright reject him, he may in worse situations seek attention elsewhere which may further strain your relationship. You need to handle this with care. Just try to indulge in doing other things together sometimes, and when he brings up x-rated stuff, tease him instead, yet maintain your stand. A healthy relationship, includes good sex relationship, but it should be the be all and end all of it.
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make pet names ..call them constantly... intrude on the guy time... change his ways... complain alot... lie about something... cheat on him... hmmm there could likely be a lot of ways
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To be treated like a child is definitely not fair!  The typical first response is to confront him and to retaliate, that is pretty much what everybody else has said here.  However, rather than creating conflict, I would try a more discrete tactic.  First of all, thank him for the notes, he will be dumbfounded, and you will definitely get his attention, but there won't be a conflict.  Secondly, try do more that what he writes down on the list, that will definitely impress him, and make him question the necessity of the notes.  If you can't think of any additional things to do beyond his list, then call him up and tell him that you are done with the list, and if there is anything else that he could think of that needs to be done, if you can't call him, then ask him when he gets back home!  Basically this will show him that you are proactive, and want to have things done just as much as he does, and even more by doing additional things or asking him for additional things.  I realize that I am not giving you an easy answer but in real life there is no easy answers, and no easy people to deal with.  Life is hard, and it's a struggle.  And unfortunately marriages have to be built, and rebuilt, and worked on being improved and enjoyable!  The good thing that your husband has going for him, is that the has you for his wife, he is very fortunate indeed!  Hope this helps!
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Give the poor man a break.  Let him rest for a while.  He might be looking at it as a chore and not something so enjoyable any more.  Stress like that can also lower the sperm count.
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Awww, not too many women can say they have the best hubby in the world and sound as convincing as you! Just make sure he knows that's how you feel about him, enjoy spending time with him and the new (to him still) baby, don't worry so much - it will rub off on him, let him do a few of the things you've become used to doing on your own - all men want to feel needed, and just be happy........Happy Holidays to you and your family.
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Tell him how you feel. Straight and clear. I see nothing wrong with testing a persons engagement. Imagine if he cant pass the test in marriage!
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Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
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OH! COME ON,DON'T BE SILLY DON'T YOU KNOW THAT LADIES CAN FEEL THE PLUSE BEAT OF EVERY MATURED MALE, AND BELIEVE ME HOOKS THEM LIKE A FISH AND EAT THEM THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE VERY SLOWLY. AND IF IT SMELLS OR GETS ROTTEN KICKS THEM OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT ANY MERCY. NOW TELL ME, HAVE YOU FOUND ANY NEED FOR THEM TO TALK MARRIEGE. SO WAIT AND BECOME MATURED. FROM NOW PRACTICE HOW TO SAVE YOURSELF WHEN ONE FINE MORNING YOU BE SURELY KICKED OUT OF YOUR OWN HOUSE OK. NO, OK WAIT AND SEE.
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Definitely you are a great wife… One that any man World appreciate.\n\nSometimes everyday issues really get to our heads, and men, we get stressed up  easily.\n\nMy suggestion: Make him horny (over the phone, emails, offer him a nice welcome back home early morning) .\n\nJust act like the girlfriend.\n\nYou see? If you act like the wife, he’ll act like the old-daddy. Nevertheless, if you are the high school-type girlfriend. That will send him back a couple of years, and motivate him a bit more. \n\nWhen you have finally trapped him in your castle of love. Act horny, I mean, enjoy it and let him know you are enjoying it: he’ll feel like “superman” inside that room and will always want to be near, and repeat. Work his ego, his macho ego. \n\nInclude, always, a bit of wine and nice dinner (gourmet food).\n\nSend me a line if you need recepies.
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No, he's suffering from "inconsideration". He gets his and it's done for him. If you hadn't said "husband" i would have suggested you drop him like a bad habit. But since you're married, sit him down and in a non-accusatory tone tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him you'd like to enjoy sex too. Tell him Men are like ovens, they heat up quick. Women are like crock pots, the take some time to heat up. He needs to be attentive to your needs. He needs to give you a little foreplay. He needs to find out what you like and enjoy and then give it to you. Or you might want to consider not "giving it" to him until he gets a clue. Good luck.
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Wow that is extreme. My husband was kind of like that too, but closer to the 3-4 week postpartum mark. For the longest time I felt sad and used and hurt, and let him get his way , but in the long run I found that only makes things worse and he does'nt even realize what he is doing is wrong. You need to stand up for yourself and say no and mean it. Alot of the time these guys are so focused on their penises and egos that they forget that we are people too, and letting him get away with it is only reinforcing the bad behavior. My husband actually thinks I am just playing hard to get when I say no and give reasons why. \nhave you ever noticed that the bitchiest chicks have the sweetest most passive caring guys ? I have ! It works to be a bitch sometimes, and tell him off, because you need to demand his respect not ask for it. So what if he gets mad or pissy, just ignore him until he wisens up. If he wants some action he will come around eventually and treat you the right way to get it !
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Leave him there.  Leave him there and go out and do your thing.  There really isnt any answer to dealing with a lazy husband, except NOT dealing with him.  If he sees you out with friends, out with co-workers, or just out having fun, he will eventually feel left out!  Desire is often the best medicine!