How do you stop being in love?
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i guess to cut out your heart!!!  or find someone else to fall in love with
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
92758
well  i can understand u the if u really sure that he really loves u   then  the best way  is  make him  feel that if  he'll step forward that won't effect your realtionship in  negative manner. coz that is the only reason that is stoping him . it happens if two ppl are frnds and  if a love feeling start genrating ,most of that time ppl don't express  they afraid of loosing the present realtionship the y have  so dear   b4  expressing ur self make him feel comfortable and let her fear away .. and  may  god bless you  u'll definetly get you love
103315
it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u
649366
You can't.  If you feel pressured to prove your love, then nothing will ever be enough for that person.  It's a reflection of their own insecurity or feelings of worth, of feeling "loveable" and you can't change that no matter how hard you try.
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You don't.  Love isn't a toy, and isn't something you can choose to turn on or turn off at a moments notice... that is why love makes people do crazy things.\n\nTime will help somewhat, but not completely.  There will be things that will remind you and bring up the hurts again, shiny and new.  Just living life is your best balm.\n\nScars, emotional or otherwise, are good conversation pieces anyway.
397606
You mean you want to kill your feelings for her, correct? If you truly do love her then you have to decide what is best for her. And that, unfortunately might not be what is best for you. But that is ultimately what love is about...what we sacrifice for our loved ones. Do the right thing. I'm sad to tell you that you probably won't stop loving her but at least you know you have done the most LOVING thing you could for her.  Good luck
872836
Love can not be turned off light a light switch. Do your best to get over him. start dating other guys. You might find one that you will love more.For get this one
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It's infatuation. HOWEVER, infatuation is just the first step towards love. In this stage you're in, you wanna be with them all the time. You can't stop thinking about them, etc, etc.\n\nAfter a few months of being in a relationship, this feeling wears down a bit. In 6 months to a year, if you still want to be with them, it's probably love.\n\nBut to keep the relationship moving in that direction, you have to create a strong base of MUTUAL honesty, trust, compromise, communication of thoughts/feelings, and respect.
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You can't fall in love because you have not found the one to fall in love with. I know it seems like it will never come but I rpomise just stick around and the "one" will come around. Sometimes it may seem hopeless but don't give up. When you find the right one falling in love with come naturally and you'll know it. Good luck! Remeber, don't settle for less then your expectations and hang in there. Love will come!
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you're in love! everything you are feeling is natural. try not to stress out about it or you will drive him away!
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keep walking....\nlife doesn't end after a relationship
449229
There is only one way to do that.. CLEAN! You need a completely clean break, no contact of any kind. If you are truly in love, but are going to end it (which, BTW, is the right thing to do if it is an extramarital affair), then you need to cease all communication and just try to move on.
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Falling in love, just happens. Nobody can control when it happens. But you can do a few things to be loved by him.\nBe sincere, truthful, reliable, loving, lovable, devoted, and keep your promises. Also be agreeable and be willing to do anything he asks. Be spontaneous about everything you do. Never flirt infront of him unless it's with him.
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I don't know that you can stop having feelings for someone you've loved. I still have feelings for every guy I've ever dated. I feel differently now than when I dated them. At the very least, my feelings are less powerful, more mild.\n\nThe guys that did me wrong- I still feel unkind feelings- Hate and anger have become more like dislike and avoidance.\n\nThe guys that were good to me- I like, rather than love...\n\nNow I'm married (going on 7 yrs), and any passion I may have felt for other men is gone. My hubby is my passion.
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Wow...that's tough. I wish I knew what to tell you.  I think if you feel like you DONT want to fall out of love then you wont. Because obviously that shows you love the person.  Sounds like the relationship just needs some serious work.  I know this sounds corny but Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus is a GREAT relationship related book and I think it helps A LOT. It will help you understand your man/woman so much better.
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Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster.  It's possible to stop.  Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears.  You'll feel better.  And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away.  You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.