Is it OK to break up with your man, if you find out he is sick?
919438
If u love him, then why do u want to hurt him. U should have  broken up with him when u first found out that he is sick. he is not really ur responsibility , he does have a family, but if u really care for him now is the time that u should be with him, he needs ur support right now. Just wait until he do the surgery and see how he is doing, then u can break the news to him if u still want to.
567629
No it isn't wrong. If you dont wanna be around someone who does that then break up with him and find someone who is clean.
631725
i wouldnt break up with him over that. relationships are more than just sex. if i loved him and cared about him it would just be a little obstacle that i would overcome. love, as they say, conquers all!!
439270
NO.  If you're unhappy enough to drown your sorrows in drink while blaming him, then this relationship is already over.  Sober up and get on with your life.
379928
you have to be true to your heart and break up with the guy. by feeling sorry for him you are doing both of you more harm than good.
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
325842
Be sincere...!!! Just tell him that you're sick for the time being & you can't see or date with him. And, if he don't believe you, just ask him to come over to see your condition. I believe he would be understand. Don't be afraid to be sincere. Because, it's   the best way to make people like you...!!! :-) Wish you well soon...!!!
439192
that's ok if your spouse want's sex more then you but when you are sick he schould be worrying about your health not sex.it is terribly that he is not thinking of you.i have the best husbant.i was in the hosp for 2 week's had surgery and had 35 staples in me and my husbant could not have sex four over 8 weeks and he never once ask me to have sex why i'm going to tell you why because he loves me and he worryes about me.and i'm not saying that to hurt you but it's true.if your husbant loves you he would be more under standing. or you can do what my sister did to her husbant he wanted sex all the time he sounds like your husbant so she put itching powder in his under were well he did not want sex for a while.lol p.s. when he is sick does he still want to have sex?
273601
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
811271
end the relationship now while she is in a place that will help her learn to cope with it. you can not let her use her illness and  your relationship as a crutch. im a nurse and a lot of mental illness personalitys tend to manipulate. she will make you stay with her. you are young and need to get on with your life.
205726
Well, I am concerned that you would hurt yourself because you mention it. So please, if you ever do feel that wayseek medical attention. From what you have said, I think your issues are caused by your ex. I think that you should break off with him and his family for good. He and his family like to play mental games. You will find someone else that will treat you will respect. These people do not respect you, they are into drama. \n\nI know I am not a guy, but I know that what I have read is totally wrong. You can get out of this situation, just walk away.
1170655
Do you feel ok abt this situation? If not, break up with him. If you still like him..then ask him straight.
111624
you will eventually dump him. Before this goes on that far and it causes u guys so much emotional harm, break ur relation with him.
249899
Hey, the world didn't make you break up with him.  That was your choice based upon what you felt was best for you.  There is no right or wrong in that, it is just what it is.  Life is what you make of it and if you choose to go around being mad at the world then that is your choice but as long as you do that, you will never be able to find the love that is out there awaiting you.
894994
u can tell him whether or not u r going to see a dr. and when u r returning. u don't have to tell him whats wrong with u, u can simply say i am not feeling well. your health is your personal business, u don't have to tell him a diagnosis.
137270
If you are terminally ill dying soon, then they will allow him to stay home, give him sufficient time to get the kids to where they need to be while he deploys. If you get seriously ill while he's gone, meaning a serious surgery or life threatening injury or diagnosed that you will be dying soon, then they may send him home. It all depends on his command and how seriously ill the wife is. They check it all out before acting on anything. I know a few wives who wanted their husbands home so bad they acted up all kinds of things, one including putting herself into a nut home etc...it's crazy what people will do...it's sad as well...pathetic. Not saying that's what you are doing at all because there are those who are seriously ill who do need their husbands home but, life must go on regardless...what's any different than a single woman getting ill with no one to take care of her. Whatever you do, don't let your husband leave feeling guilty, let him know it's okay...let him know you'll be okay..you want him to have 100% focus!!!!
1057385
This man is sick.  He has committed the ultimate infidelity to you and your daughter.  You MUST leave him or you will never have peace in your life.  It will hurt, but this must be done or you will die in your heart.  You are too good of a woman for that to happen.   Please leave him, for your own sake and the sake of your daughter.