I need to control everything: time, mind, body, friends, ideas...what´s wrong with me?
926405
sound like obsessive compulsive disorder to me you need treatment and counselling
194319
With that behaiour you will indeed lose her, when we need to control others it is because we have no control over our own life. Search deep inside yourself and see why that is...K
599188
Yup, can't really control myself.
360592
wow, you have some issues there.. why dont you take a nice hot bath with lavender( its calming) then, when you get out write a list of things you need to work on. and goals. i write lists for everything and it helps a lot.  take things one step at a time and dont overwhelm yourself. Good Luck!
498680
When I'm focused I'm in control of the controllable things because you really can't be fully in control of everything.
51786
I am tempted to answer with "42" :) Your consciousness control the life (although not so obvious). That is why the self-control techninques like meditaion work so well.
969231
Yes and Yes - is what I say -- lol\nI think that being balanced is the challenge. Too much of one thing is not good -- so half sane half insane works fine for me -- hehehe\nWhen you switch up and allow yourself to be flexible and open to new things then - YEAH why can't we be all things? lol
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Me too! But over the last few days, I forced myself to do the routine things which I usually do. Wash stuff, drive around, and do work in office and try not to check Y!A. \n\nI must say its really hard, cos I am back now :) hehehe Perhaps as long as you do not let yourself neglect other more important priorities in your life, you should be fine (this applies to me too).
490939
too much control is bad\nits interesting
350710
You have a root to your problem.That you will have to find. I had the problem that everything was my fault or I had to be responsible for everything. What I found out about myself was it was from not having my dad around, I kept wanting to please everyone to be loved by someone that could take the place of him. I have a motto...It takes 3 weeks to break a habit and 3 weeks to start a new habit. Try it,it works, give yourself 6 weeks to change what you don't like that you are doing. Just say NO
181315
To have control over one self.
1143159
Sounds like you need some "me" time! Do something by yourself or just with your children. You need to clear you mind and find out what you want and what is best for those children.
402091
Control comes from between our ears! Use your mind properly and soooo many phobias/addictions will go away. YOU are responsible for your own thoughts. Take control of them and direct them in a positive way.
225592
I use to have problem shutting down until I read the book Switching Channels. I think if it's not a medical condition then it has to be Mental. A state of mind. Stress was my biggest problem. Redefining my work load and understanding the source of my stress took a whole load off. I focus on the good things and started to look at things in a whole different perspective. Now, I sleep wonderfully!
439025
It sounds like you lost yourself, and all your stress is stem from the responses from people around you, do something for yourself and do it in a way that you love it with a purpose and forget about how others would think.
187514
If this is soemthing you find your unable to control you may have something called trichotillomania. trichotillomania is a condition where people pull out hair such as eyebrows,facial hair, leg hair, hair on your head ect  if you find that this is something that you do trigored by nervousness, fear, anger ect then you should tell your doc. Your doc can help you find the appropriate treament.\n\n here is a site that can give you more info on this and help you figure out what some more options are\nwww.hairscientists.org/q&a.htm
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Realise that you are not in control of your life and be okay with it. Knowing that there is something out there stronger than you holding the world together is always helpful, also make yourself some tea, and/or then take a bath/shower and wash away you tension