at what age do you consider guys to be mature enough when it comes to a relationship?
917392
It depends on the guy!!!!  For example an intellectual like me I would say much younger - say 18.  Maybe those with low intelligence just want sex.  So, maybe more older.\n\nSo in general I would say 4 or 5 years older than the girl.\n\nWomen are IN GENERAL more mature!
333381
Its not at all about the age. Its all about compatiability. You guys should be on the same wavelength and you should have trust. being able to communicate properly is also one of the major criteria.\nAge difference does not matter.
433029
No not @ all! cause, woman are more mature than men, that ages fit together! Cause then the guy is more mature!
120264
I like guys who are mature enough to not act like they are twelve the whole time but are still funny and can make me laugh (girls love to laugh). Being romantic and caring is a huge plus. Honesty is number one though.
1181304
My boyfriend is 43 and I am 25.  We have been together for 3 years now and it is the best relationship I have been in.  I couldn't imagine ever dating somebody my own age again.  They are so immature and in this relationship I feel like there is stability.  I think he will definitely stay with you because men like younger women and if you are good to him and he is good to you, it will work.
650543
i'd say 17 or 18. but it also depends on how mature that person is. if your bf is mature enough to get married, i don't think his age would be a problem. \nwhy do you find age as an inconvenient? if you love him and he loves you... what else do you want more?
535527
It is a trend but you have to decide what you want in a relationship and if they younger men are really capable of giving you what you are looking for.  If your just wanting to date and have a good time then as long as their over 21 go out and have some fun.  If however your looking for a serious relationship with someone who is stable and mature then you probably don't want to date anyone much younger than yourself.  The key is to do what is right for you and what your seeking in your life.
954037
Guys like women in their late twenties and thirties because they have experience and are more mature.  Those relationships (older woman, young man) last for a good while if they're stable people.
338007
it's because of the way we treat you!  You want someone a bit more mature then here we are.  You are at the perfect age when a guy in his mid 30's still feels young when he is with someone at your age
329367
When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 26... it was fine for awhile but it didn't last.  I say if you feel like you're on the same level maturity wise and he treats you right, go ahead!
1134969
im a 23 yr old woman n my ex was a 19yr old his was mature for his age. it was great y it lasted but we had to go different ways, we r still great mates but cud neva b in a long term thing. at the end of day you sudnt b lookin for a relationship u sud let it find u. hav fun in the mean time but b safe
781002
Lol, I remember people tellin me i was too mature for my age. I think everyone mature's at their own pace and I don't think you should try to spead up the process, have as much fun being "innocent" and nieve/ playful and young as you can. I know i wish I was still young. Even though I'm "all grown up" I still try to act young, I love to be playful and fun (and guys seem to like it too, lol). Just don't grow up to fast, but if you push hard enough, I'm sure you will...  as i did.. :(
551081
If you like an older guy, you have to be up to his level in maturity.  Older guys really don't like to hang with immature girls, from my experience that is.  And I am not just talking sex either, conversation is a big factor in a relationship
105571
I do. Guys my age (19) and younger are usually idiots when it comes to relationships. Am I going to go for a guy over 35? Unless you're talking Liam Neeson or Sean Connery, not too likely. But I'm more likely to go for them than your standard 18-year-old college freshman who thinks it's hillarious to talk about getting so drunk he puked on his new shoes at last night's frat party.
23402
I have met individuals of other cultures who were mature enough at 13.  On the other hand, I know some 40 something year olds who still behave like they should be learning about dating and relationships without the complications of sex.  Personally, I was married 17.  I do not recommend this for most other people.
642277
I am 40 and the last guy I dated was 28 but he was very mature for his age. Ordinarily I don't date guys quite this young (my cut off point is usually mid-thirties) but there was something about him... Our relationship lasted 6 months but it turned out that he was immature in some ways after all (he used to cross-examine me about my previous relationships, for one and got ridiculously jealous) and I am too old to put up with that sh!t. So I ended it.\n\nThere is nothing wrong with wanting to date older women but be aware - some of them will want more from you than you might be prepared to give. You also have to be able to hold their interest outside the bedroom. In my experience, most guys in their 20s can't do this because they simply don't have enough life experience/exposure to relationships.\n\nIt is also true that there will be some older women out there who want nothing more than a bunk up. I wish you luck finding them.
364214
false. a man can mature at any age.  it's depends on how he acts and what he's experienced in his lifetime.  i'm 26 but i consider myself very mature cause i've experienced so much to sink a battleship.  i hope this helps your question in any way