how do you deal with jealousy in a relationship?
925128
Your own or the other person's jealousy? Because, if you don't know the other person well enough to trust them and know they aren't cheating on  you then you darn well don't know them well enough to sleep with them.\n\nIf they're jealous of  you, first ask yourself if you objectively have given them a reason to be jealous. If you have not, then ask yourself what kind of issues this person has becauase "power and control issues" where they want to run  your life for you mask themselves as jealousy. They aren't telling you to quit wearing minis because they think you'll cheat on them but because they want to tell you what to wear and how to wear your hair and who you can talk to.\n\nIf a guy has "power and control issues" then run away! Dump him quick! They're jerks and it only gets worse.
1109853
Your best bet is to let some time pass by.  You can't assume you know what your partner is feeling.  Other then what he is telling you.  If there are more concerns regarding your partners faithfulness you should always voice them. well not always '' you don't want to be marked a jealous''  But time will tell I think in this situation.  Follow your heart, be bold, and true to your self.  Then everything will happen how it is supposed to.
400950
jealousy is a lack of trust...
886936
Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous. Jealousy will often change to the non valiant abuse.\nHaving a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.\nNo one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So what causes jealousy?\nJealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them. You should get counseling to improve your feeling. You seem to cafing person so go get help you need.
196175
Well, it's easy.  \n\n1) If you found out that there is a person out there that you cannot stop thinking about.  \n2) If you get jealous when he/she is with someone else.\n3) When they are close to you, you pretend not to notice them\n4) When they are not around you, you look around the room wondering where they are.\n5) You want them to be happy even if you are not the reason behind that happiness\n6) You'll do whatever you can to make them happy\n7) You want to be there for them\n8) You see the beauty in them\n9) You paid more attention to them than before\n10) You couldn't stop looking at them (hoping they didn't notice you looking)\n\nWell, this is all I have for now. I hope this helps.
285604
if he's jealous now its not going to change itll only get worse. tell him that what he's doing is wrecking the relationship all of his jealousy and insecurities. tell him if things dont change and him trust you then its time to move on with your life if he wont chnge his ways.
716614
ive yet to master the perfect relationship thing.17 years of tring,i can tell you this.being a jealous person can drive youan everyone else crazy.if you are truely in love,then you have to trust this person,if you cant then someone isnt truely in love,so if you dont trust them to go visit this person alone then you may need to be with someone else,plus you should be able to take your partner alone to break it off,with someone else.it just builds a good understanding,honesty best policy
732095
Jealousy is the root to all eveil, if you are secure with yourself no woman or man on this earth could make you think other wise, 1st love yourself because noonelse can, men do nto like an insecure woman, or a needy one, read the attach article, go for a jog, meditate, go get a mani and pedi read the book he's just not that into you, and last havea cup of coffee:)
139626
trust ur partner & u'l stop feeling jealous..
27027
Usually if a person is jealous it is because the other person isn't being truthful about, where they've been, who with, etc.  Talking is the reamdy for jealousy.\n\nJust relax let the person do what they are going to do and stop being jealous (controling) and you'll see who they really are.  If you don't like it, tell them, if they don't want to change.. move on.  Life is to short to try to control people and make them change drastically.
18455
You may not be able to.  But you will definitly need to stop being so insecure in yourself and be confident in your partner- they want to be with you for a reason not someone else.  I havefound that jealousy is a sign not only of insecurity in yourself but a lack of respect in her character. If your girl cheats on you she cheats on you and you move on.  Not everyone is meant to be together forever.
1104067
u start here think of worst case scenario he cheats on u/finds another girl etc now think if u love him unconditionally enough to take that chance.as theres a saying this side u cant have ur eye both on heaven & hell.ur scared that ull loose him since u love him so very much.thats why u get jealous but remember u can drive him to another woman atleast if he does it on his own u can say i loved him unconditionally u wont feel bad take a risk by sounds of it it seems he really does love u let things show u in future that he loves u & wants to be with u
1178125
Don't get mad just hold your head up and smile cause he is yours. Don't let them know they are getting to you cause then they will continue. Just lean over and give him a kiss or do little fun flirty things that he enjoy. Don't entertain them other girls by getting mad. Then your man will feel insecure if you do entertain those jealous females.
335384
Sometimes I get that way with my boyfriend too but what helps me is that every time I am with him he will out of no where tell me that he is so happy to be with me and that he wouldn't know what do to with out me. You should start doing that, she might still get jealous (cause that's what women do) but she will trust you more
666439
when a person has a jealousy it will be forever and cannot be removed. He keeps on doing it and u both keep on getting into some troubles. So its better to discuss the problem of ur relation and solve it as soon as possible. Thank You.
1066383
you're not expecting to much, but everyone is different..i'm friends with several of my exes to..but if a significant other really had a problem with it i'd do my best to come up with a comprimise..generally exes are exes for a reason....he should also respect your thoughts and feelings...and not just say it's being jealous...
751982
if you really love him then the answer should be obvious on what you should do.\nyou have to maybe want to go to counseling when he comes back.\nfind out why yall fight so much get together and talk about it. and about the name calling you should know that doesnt matter tell him face to face that you dont like that\nthe whole jealousy thing can also be resolved with communication. if you like to read theres a book called "THE LAST OPPURTUNITY" By Carlos C. Sanchez you should read it because it talks about marriage and divorce.\nhope ur situation gets better.