how to win other in your confidence and how to convience others?
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be a good listener.\nshow care, love and affection.\nkeep smiling.
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Hold your chin up high and be yourself.  When you start losing your confidence, take a deep breath and think only positive things and happy thoughts.  It really works.
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Just try to make yourself stronger. don't think of poeple talkings much and improve your self confidence.\nI was like this when I was younger but I released being sensentive too much is not worth at all.
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nthn wrong in giving in once or twice to make others happy\ngo out of your way to help others\nbe compassionate\nbe confident not over-confident\nmake more, trustworthy friends who can guide u \ntake help from family..
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Do it with a close friend who is more confident first until you build confidence.  Make sure he is in on what you are trying to do.
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1: Don`t think too much, specially not what the others think of you. Breathe free and calm and enjoy of being you!\n2: Don`t rush with the answers - and all above.
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Just remember that YOU are in control of yourself and say to yourself that you will gain self confidence ... with that in mind, here are some great sources for you to explore:\n\nhttp://www.instantinnerpower.com/\nhttp://www.school-for-champions.com/excellence/confidence.htm\nhttp://wywy.essortment.com/howtogainco_rfbl.htm\n\nGOOD LUCK!!
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you can't. suck it up, use all of your confidence, and yes, be yourself. relax to seem easy going. most of the time the first word is the hardest. you'll be fine.
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Be nicer to one another and consider the feelings of others?
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You should psych yourself by relaxing, giving yourself a "confidence boosting talk", you know, you can do this, you KNOW this, etc. and just walk into it with assurance. Good luck!
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You just need to boost your own self confidence a bit. Think to yourself that you are more then worthy and the best thing out there. When you believe this there will be no problem.
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First improve your body language. Sit up straight, always have a slight smile on your face even if you are not doing anything(this encourages people to be open to you and even ask what your thinking), look directly at the person so they will feel trust. Ask questions and really listen to the answers.
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You need to become more confident, and decide that people want to have you around.
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Let others see your sense of humor and realize that you are the only "you". You have talents and abilities that others would give their right kidney for. You have worth and value. There is no need to be shy. You are interesting and mysterious and beautiful. You are!!! YES!!!!\n\nThe world needs to meet you so they can see what they could have been like if they had been paying attention. Do you see where I'm going here?\nBelieve you have something to offer because you do. Don't be rude or arrogant. No, you wouldn't be anyway. Just get comfortable with being yourself, that's all the world is waiting for. We need you out here. Come on out and play!\nOh, but play on YOUR terms! And welcome to Answers!
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You just described why.\n\nBe yourself.  Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations of you, whoever they are.  Create expectations (goals) for yourself!  Live up to them, re-assessing as needed along the way.\n\nStrive to be a caring, purposeful, dedicated individual.  Develop your own likes, talents, gifts and character.  Like-minded individuals will be drawn to you.  Don't waste your time on the other riff-raff just to be with someone.\n\nTrying to live up to other peoples expectations ... be it in life, career, sex, relationship, friendship ... stifles and frustrates.  Living up to your own expectations of yourself, in behaviour, goals, life ... sets you free!\n\nGo for it!!
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best way to be interesting to others is to ask them questions about themselves. People love talking about their interests - its like showing pictures of your kids to others. Goo book by John Maxwell titled "How to win with people" is pretty good to. Recommends giving out compliments like candy. People love to get a pat on the back but has to be sincere.
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You have to have confidence.  Knowing you can do the job and do it well.  Everything else will come naturally if you are confident in the job you are doing.  Respect others too.