have you ever cheated on a BOYFRIEND or GIRLFRIEND , ex or current? If so, how many times and why?
917056
Yes i've cheated on my last boyfriend. Why i did it?\nI was in a long-distance relationship with him, i felt lonely and i needed closeness. I cheated with one of his friends who is now my husband-to-be.\nWe're not proud of it but we learned how to deal with it.\nHow many times? Well, let's just say i cheated until me and my ex finally broke it off. Which was about, i don't know, 3 weeks?!
607835
23/female, no, i have cheated once.
205111
Does anybody really count times?  Partners maybe.  \n\nI am 25 and married, so counting every other day for the last year, 183 times.
358366
i don't agree with it... i never been cheated and i never cheated on sumone... but i do bliv that finding the ONE for us is very hard... we may think that we already find him/her but there is a continuous entering of people who might be the right one... coincidentally, the time that they arrive sumtimes overlaps... we cannot judge a person by committing a single mistake... he/she might cheat but it's not for the purpose of cheating... (well... there are sum cases in which this does not apply... it depends on the person...) but... always see the goodness of a person before judging him/her.... one can always change for the best... ;p
804574
I have cheated everytime I am with someone. I think its because I haven't found someone who I CANT cheat on! When I do find this person I think that I will NEVER cheat again!!! BUT I will say I have NEVER BEEN CAUGHT!!! So NO ONE HAS been hurt!
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
1173444
No, I have never cheated. I just want to say that not everyone who has cheated isn' bad. My God Mother cheated, but didn't have much of a choice. She is the one who decided to cheat, but when she tried to stop it she couldn't.\n\nShe was having an affair with her neighbor and after the first time, she told him it was over, she couldn't live witch herself cheating. Her neighbor then told her that if she stoped sleeping with him, he would kill her. She then went through on going abuse and couldn't get out of it. She finnally had the courage to tell my mom. My mom then told the cops and he was arrested for rape and assult.\n\nTo this day, my God Mother still feels bad about what she did. She knows what she did was wrong and she tried to get out of it and couldn't. Her and her husband are still togeather because he knows she didn't want to do what she did.
518282
I have never cheated. When I said my vows, I took them to heart. Besides, I could never do something so cold hearted or heartless. When your truly in love, cheating never crosses your mind!!!
182356
I was cheated on once in my life and it wasn't a fun experience. I believe women and men cheat for different reasons - guys usually cheat for sex or different sex then what they are getting, and women usually need more of an emotional attachment. This is totally my opinion and not necessarily true in every situation.  I also believe that once somebody cheats and a trust is broken, it is very hard to remain in that relationship and be happy.
36465
Cheating on your boyfriend because he cheated only you only takes you to his level. You probably should have left him no matter how much you feel you "loved" him.\n\nWhen a person cheats, they are disrespecting their significant other and disrespecting themselves. Cheating is dishonorable. So if someone cheats on you, why would you want to stoop to their level? Instead, take the high road and become a better and stronger person.
293793
No, Never did I cheat or even think about it. It is wrong to think that way with your spouse. If your going to do that than leave...K
467760
There are cheaters and then there are mistakes...u can't prevent a cheater from cheating but you can prevent mistakes from happening..I beleive everyone is capable of making mistakes, and for those which are truely honest mistakes, can learn from them so they are not repeated...it may end that particular relationship but they know better to make that same mistake in their next relationship...it sometimes takes good judgement to recognize the difference between the two to avoid being a victim of a cheater.
664824
Honestly once a guy cheats it's like Pringles.  You never can have just one.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  If he has done it 3 times and knows you'll take him back then pretty much he knows he can get away with it and u won't do anything about it.  Leave his ass!
796400
didn't you say he cheated on his ex twice ?...\nHere is what i've learned... if he does it once and never again, you can call it a mistake... if it happens more than once it is a pattern... run while you can and take your heart with you, intact.
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
29927
Yes, about 3 to 6 times, and some don't some do it depends on the man. I've gone many rounds with my boyfriend in the sheets. Even if he is a religous prude. And no matter how small!
403016
Honestly, I've been there. It's the worst feeling in the world to know you've been betrayed. If he's likely to do it again, (not everyone is) then don't stay with him. Sometimes these things can clear up. (I'm speaking from personal experience. I've been with my husband for almost 7 years. He cheated once almost 4 years ago and hasn't since. I've learned to trust him again. I wouldn't be the same without him.)