dateless exotic dancers - ladies shouldI  be honest?
915835
i know what you mean.\ni used to go out with a stripper (if you don't mind me saying so)\nit lasted 3 months.\nit was the best 3 month of my life, to watch all the girls, bi's and gays drool all over him was great but knowing he was mine at the end was even better.\ni know it's a good job that brings in good money but like you say, if you can do your job and seperate work from home not only does that make you a pro, it make you a man!!
194680
Quickie:\nAdd some romance to your day by taking yourself out on a date. Splurge a little!\n\nOverview:\nWhile current circumstances may not paint you in the most flattering light, you know that you'll be vindicated in the end. Let that foreknowledge influence your behavior now. Be compassionate and forgiving.
726869
I'd give the guy extra points if he dared to come up to me in a group. What most guys think is a girls night out isn't true most women do go out cos they want to meet guys. It'll show your bravery and most women appreciate that. Go over and introduce yourself to all then start a conversation with the one you're attracted to...pick up lines I'd prefer something unplayer-like...a basic introduction, 'Hi I'm so and so, have I seen you here before?' That way you are playing it safe, she can't kick your ass for it.
112840
I definitly wouldn't take the chance, it is way too risky, the best way is to find someone in person, besides on here the chances of ever meeting someone who is truly honest is very slim.
465487
Lol I hear where youre getting from. Take it from a female(even thou im 17 lol)I think you just need to show confidence. Do not I repeat Do not show weakness and nervousness, thats just asking for them to diss you by saying no and stuff. If you go up to them being all confident and shiz they most likely will dance with you. Anyways you dont look like you need help getting a girl to dance with you, just my opinion.
181784
I wouldn't use friends to get the knowledge I want. It's not a good policy. Even if your friends are beyond suspicion, I think that won't show a lot of maturity, and some guys don't like that. I know I don't. Frankly, there are few things in life that I find sexier than an honest and corageous woman. Simply ask him.
767367
Actually lots of personal trainers date their clients.  I doubt he's trying to keep your business by flirting with you, but he's probably looking just to casually date.  I'd call him at 4am and see what he says.  :)
53288
Do not be superficial, be honest and sincere, and never ever lie!!!!!!  It is a super bonus if you have a great personality, real women love a great personality.  (Notice I mentioned nothing about looks, job, or money.....none of that really matters to a truely sincere woman!)
182955
*Pondering a moment for I do not see the prob here* So ask the guy you are most interested in out. It is the Naughties (double zero decade you pervs so keep it clean) after all. Take the initiative and snag that guy...
81280
I get the feeling you're calling all women dishonest because you've had one bad experience.  Don't let her do this to you.  You've got to trust.  Go out and meet someone new.  Spend time with her.  Tell her the truth about yourself.  She'll pay you the compliment of being honest with you, too.
773263
AS YOU EXPLAINED IT, I WOULD SEE YOU AS A STUCK UP JERK! WOULD NOT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY EITHER!!!BESIDES THAT, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE WITH A GIRL WHO WOULD GO OUT WITH YOU JUST CAUSE YOU HAVE MONEY????
1142524
Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..\nOh wait, we might be looking for different things. \nGuess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.\nOr do a bit of both.\nAnd then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering. \nMany times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.\nOoops did I let  secret slip out?
941734
I would go out some night, but get to know the person a little bit first, to make sure no STD's....I think a lot of women are curious and just do not have the nerve to try it! Good luck, and hope you have a heluva good time!
1002497
First thing,  I would drop the lingo.  Speak proper English.  Worry about the dancing later.  If its a great party, girls wont really care.
75863
I want honesty and no games from a man. I care about what is inside of the person a whole lot more then what is on the outside. I recently got back on the dating scene since my husband died. It is different and the men I meet are definately carrying around a lot of baggage.
495794
I have dated dozens of strippers in my past. I always knew it was nothing long term. You must have a certain mentality to stand on stage and take your clothes of for money, but it is more than that. A real stripper knows a man and how to work his ego. The attention they recieve is like a drug to them. It will always be there, so to answer your question--no
68025
I honor honesty above all. It's your decision want to be involved with her modern life or not. Whatever decision you take, be responsible. I am not that modern and don't believe in pure sex without love, but I don't judge. I respect people with different life style and realize their lives could be much more interesting than mine. You sounded eager to give a modern life a try. If you are prepared, why not? Wish you all the best!