What do us girls do that really puts guys off?
924528
act desperate, i see so many women throwing themselves at men every weekend!\nquite amusing and weve all done it! men think of it as a challenge then they give up.
97614
im a girl so i should know.alot of times,girls don't feel that the guy is giving them enough attention so they just drop it.girls want to feel loved and if your not ready to provide that then maybe you should wait a while.
582274
This is a real problem for a lot of girls.\n\nDespite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.\n\nThere are a couple of things you can try:\n\nThe first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like.  You need to masturbate for him.  Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch.  Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.\n\nSecond – is batting practice.  A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.  \n\nThird – Faking it.  NEVER fake it.  When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off.  When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again.  But what do you think he is going to do again next time?  That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off.  That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.\n\nFourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones.  But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like.  I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it.  Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.
148686
Low self esteem.\n\nSome guys also like getting with girls they know they won't fall for... easy way to keep themselves detached.
642101
i love it, personally, but a guys technique has to be good, otherwise i get turned off...\nnow, all girls are different- so what you should do is ask her what she likes the most. maybe she likes u to change movements, or maybe she prefers one constant movement- the only way to find out is to ask!!!\nofcourse there are always signs - listen to sounds she makes, and pay attention to her movements because they can be subtle ways of telling u to do something more or to stop doing something... \ngood luck
275280
I don't know if this will help but it's what I do before when I like someone but I don't want him to notice.  First, know his interest and then if you can strike up a conversation be genuinely interested then  if he appear to  be interested in you too, try to appear busy and not so interested anymore.  Be a little distant then let him do the move.  Some guys like mystery in a girl and they want to  be challenged.  Actually, I noticed that they get bored easily in girls who try hard to be noticed.
429654
You're probably doing something or acting in a way that is off putting.\n\nGet a friend who is a girl to tell you what you're doing wrong, or ask a female family member what it is.
43611
typical guy answer:\nyou stop being so insecure about yourself, that's how.\n\ntypical girl answer:\nHe's a jerk and a loser.\nDump him.\nYou can do better.\nReally!
765752
Guys don't ALWAYS anything (except maybe fart a lot).  I know plenty of guys who are too serious for their own good.
35878
Guys are NEVER discreet or non-obvious. We are loud, obnoxious and generally act like idiots. When a girl doesn't know if a guy likes her... well, she's not the sharpest tool in the shed.
629518
Depends on the guy, some guys come right out some hint, some act silly or get someone else to do it for them. It all depends on the guy
1069792
This is a real problem for a lot of girls.\n\nDespite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.\n\nThere are a couple of things you can try:\n\nThe first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like.  You need to masturbate for him.  Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch.  Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.\n\nSecond – is batting practice.  A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.  \n\nThird – Faking it.  NEVER fake it.  When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off.  When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again.  But what do you think he is going to do again next time?  That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off.  That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.\n\nFourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones.  But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like.  I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it.  Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.\n\nFinally, don’t feel bad – MOST girls can’t achieve orgasm from penetration alone, and need to have some direct clitoral stimulation in addition to whatever sort of other stimulation they are receiving.  Just let you guy know that.  Most guys – particularly young guys – are not aware of this.
390417
I would say that it depends on you and the girl in question.  I am usually a girl that is hard to get, but if you showed no interest in me then that would give me cause to think.  Is something wrong with me?  Why is he not interested?  Then I start to do all the kinds of things to get his attention.  Then when your not interested your just not interested.  No physical attraction to the person.
714442
Ignore the guy make him want you. Some times we want what we can't have ;)
741968
I totally understand what your saying. I do the same thing around girls.  I think people like us just need to loosen up and have fun.  Easier said then done
719625
Girls being to afraid to break traditional barriers and ask a guy out or bring up taboo subjects.  Also, don't make the mistake of getting jealous or upset really easily, trust him.
115302
Talk to him.  He doesn't know you exist because you haven't made it clear.  Guys are very bad at subtle signals, and generally speaking, we're "easy".  Having a girl try to pick up a guy is a heck of an ego boost for us males.