Condom ? please help?
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
469033
Use Lanacaine or some sort of sun burn cream before putting on the condom.  It will dull the nerve endings.
202792
Yeast is a naturally occurring flora found in the vaginal tract.  I suspect the condom changes the pH of your vagina making it more favorable for yeast to replicate too much and cause an infection.  I would NOT douche after sex as this may make the problem even worse!  Other thoughts:  You may have an allergy to the compound of the condom - try the latex version.  Also if you are using the spermicide type then try the type without.  If you need more lubrication, then there are lubricants that are compatible with condoms at local drugs stores.  Lastly you might try adding some yogurt to your diet.  There are active cultures (bacteria) in the yogurt that can help keep yeast organism at bay.  Good luck.
1124029
It is your responsibility to protect yourself, you should be using condoms everytime you have sex unless both you and your partner have been tested and given the all clear (even then unless you trust that your partner isn't cheating)
637069
Condoms make sex safer when used properly but they are not 100 percent safe. Safety factors to check on when buying and using condoms are,\n- Expiry date of the condom - do not use one which has expired.\n- Storage - condoms should be kept away from the heat (for example, from car glove compartments, direct sunlight), and pressure (for example, sitting on a wallet containing condoms).\n- Making sure that sharp objects do not tear a condom during use.\n- Making sure that the air is expelled from the teat of the condom while wearing, so as to prevent it from bursting during intercourse.\n\nThe only was to stay HIV/AIDS free is to follow "The A, B, C of HIV prevention",\nA= Abstinence\nB= Being faithful to one single partner and\nC= Consistent and correct use of condoms.\n\nStay Safe.
559021
use lots of lubricant like baby oil and dont ever 4get 2 wear condom. If its very tight use rubber dildos small size 4 some time . Pain occurs 4 newcomers.enjoy!
198511
so because of this you think she wants to get pregnant. Please..............where a damm condom if your worried.
596893
get a pregnancy test, and next time have sex with someone who will last longer than a minute.  o and please use protection.
666074
http://www.teenwire.com/\nhttp://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/medicalinfo/\n\nIf anyone wants more information on HIV and other STIs, birth control, condoms, safer sex ... even how to talk to your partner about these things ... these are good sites. There is even an animated video of how to use a condom correctly. If USED CORRECTLY, condoms are 99% effective!
467866
condom? Durex-featherlite
858657
Hope that he used a condom.
276688
lol your a goody girl arent you? but a condom is what guys use for safe sex, they put it on there penis so sperm wont go into the girls vagina and make her pregnant
63485
Wear thick condom. Don't think of cumming. Practice holding orgasm.
552052
Actually there is much truth in what you say. About 12 years ago my wife and I used one of those ultra thin condoms. Of course the reason is for a more real feel! Heres what happened three consecutive condoms shredded apart during use! Result my 11 year old son!
553228
WEAR A CONDOM.  DUH.\n\n\nAGHHH EMILY'S PREGNANT!
929202
Realistically, You should MAKE him use a condom, bu if that denies him having sex with you, you should at least take steps to protect youself by using a femidom of some sort. Many are free from clinics, just  like condoms can be easily obtained. Alternatively, find someone else.\n\nIt is most definetly NOT SAFE
1101291
I really don't believe its for something you are writing but I have heard of desperate (very crazy females) that buy there own non-lubricated condoms and stick holes in them with a needle so when there partner uses it the condom will leak. (In my opinion that is the quickest way to get an STD or for the condom to break)