what to do if you told your guy friend you like him and he gets mad at you?
917036
Just let it go.  Why have you wasted 4 years thinking about some guy who's being childish about something so simple.  A real man would have talked to you.  All he had to do was tell you that he either just wanted to be friends or if he felt the same as you did.  Instead, he decided to be immature.  I think the real reason he's mad is because you moved on with someone else and instead of giving you an answer, he realized he blew his chance.  Let him fester in his own misery.  You don't need friends that immature.  Good luck!!!
714614
Take it from guy. He will end up hurting you probably. If guy says something like that need to just let it go.
62126
your asking him to read your mind , guys are'nt good at that. We think more anaylitcal, 1+1=2 that type of thing.  he did'nt even know he hurt your feelings, if he did find out he hurt your feelings i'm sure he would be very sorry, unless he's a jerk or not your friend. give him the benifit of the doubt
192592
ask your friend about how much she likes him and tell her that you like each other and if she gets mad at you then she is not a true friend so after that ask him whitch one of you guys does he like more if he likes you then go with him if he likes her more then go what you thick is right
748171
move on...dont get mad at your best friend...but still be nice to the guy!
406135
just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?
743097
You agreed to be his friend, but youre acting like a jealous girlfriend. If you cant handle it tell him now.
496216
I think it is because he REALLY likes you. When a dude likes you, they act as if they want you to be mad. Act like it doesn't bother you and then he will probably stop.
89137
I strongly recommend writing him a letter. Make sure that when you apologize, if that's what you want to do, to do it for all the things that you said, and none of the things that he might have said at that time. Do not bring his part of the conversation into it; it's about you and your self-defense mechanism of being hurtful, not about anything he may have said (it's important to keep that in mind). Let him know why you lashed out, and that it's something that you do from time to time, and how it's something you wish you could avoid but can't right now, and that you're working on it (then you can make yourself work on it, right?). Then tell him that you value his friendship and hope that you can be friends once again. But remember that when you apologize you must do it from what went wrong on your side, not his. You can't change him, only yourself. And give it time. Guys have a warped view of time; we can let months pass without realizing it. Be nice, be honest, and be yourself, and he'll be your friend again.
153905
go ahead and confront him about the issue( you liking him and him knowing before you were ready to tell him), he'll understand and if he don't he's a jerk and you don't need him anyway.
277725
you're right , and your  friend will end up getting hurt because this guy is just using her, if you tell someone she will end up hating you .  i think you will have   to wait and see what happens . good luck
428459
God what jerks. Even if you do not like the guy whats the harm in being his bud. But to shut up his buds you need to stand strong and show them they are not getting to you which they obv are. No need for comebacks just roll your eyes and tell them to grow up and act like they are capapble of mature thought and that they have more intellect then a primate and your all set to go. Do not sink to any level and no need to reitterate any of this. Its all about the attitude once they know you couldnt care less they will move on with their pathetic lives. As for the guy its sad he has such freaks as friends and if they use him, just because you do not want to date him shouldnt stop you from reaching out to him.
427342
ask him why he is mad at you
802348
Depends on the guy really... what if your friend is not his type??  Not to say there is anything wrong with your friend but if the guy is not in to her then he's not in to her.  \n\nThe more she gives up of herself to MAKE him like her will only be a lie because she's not being true to herself.  In time that will make her unhappy.
790611
Either he likes you or feels bad that his friend is a creep.  Either way, take it with a grain of salt, and go on.  I wouldnt spend one more minute worrying.  People get sick of people like him and start not to believe anything he says.  Just tell the other guy, thanks for the warning, and leave it at that.
292593
its actually betrayal to ur best friend, talk to the guy and then come to a decision and then tell your best friend and.... nooo she'll be mad..tell her that someone else did it with their friend and check her reaction then tell her what happened like after a week if she reacts alright.!!!!!! best of luck
153447
There is no guarantee that he won't get mad at you because he is the one who gets to choose how he reacts. I would confront him anyway, because YOU wouldn't be a real friend if you didn't... and if he gets mad, the best thing to do is hope that he matures, realizes what he was doing was wrong, you WERE doing what's right by telling him and he'll get over it... and THANK you!\nI know it's a tough situation to be in, but doing what's right despite the other person's reaction (no matter how much you love and care for them) shows good character and integrity.