How can I stop indulging in sexual thoughts?
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Pray for a wife.............I applaud your loyalty an God does too. But according to the Bible porn is a sin. I would strongly recommend you start thinking about marriage and don't just rush into it. Good luck and God Bless.
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Living Out the Top 3 Female Fantasies\nSex life feeling a bit stale? Well, there's one sexual organ most people neglect: the brain. And it's your passport back to Sexual Nirvana. Literally millions of us secretly use fantasies during masturbation, and some of us use them to achieve orgasm during sex. So why not own up to your favorites and act them out with your partner for what could be the lustiest sex you've had in years? Just follow this step-by-step guide.\nFantasy #1: He's a virgin  - and you're Mrs. Robinson\nWhy it appeals to you: It's a power game and "forbidden" sex for both parties, which is always a guaranteed libido-lifter.\nWhat you'll need: A "sexy secretary"-type outfit works for this one: a long pencil skirt, shirt unbuttoned to show off a push-up bra, stockings and high heels.\nThe action plan:\nThe trick to this one is to move very slowly at first. You're seducing him, and he's struggling  - torn between ripping off your clothes and worrying about the consequences. (What will his mom say if she finds out? Is she really seducing him or is he reading too much into it?) Say you're going to fix a drink for each of you, then lead him into the lounge room with your drinks. He sits on the couch, you sit on a chair opposite, crossing your legs and hiking your skirt high. He's not sure where to look. Make general chit-chat (the sort of stuff you'd ask your son's friend, if you have/had a teenager), then take the conversation to another  - saucier  - level. Tell him you don't think your husband finds you attractive anymore. Ask him, Does he think you're attractive? What bits? Why? Let him squirm with embarrassment as he tries to be diplomatic  - and tries to hide his erection.\nAt that point you say, You seem a little uncomfortable and move from the chair to sit beside him on the couch. Loosen the first two buttons of his shirt and rub the back of your hand against his exposed chest saying, Such soft skin. So unlike my husband's. As he squirms, undo the top few buttons of your shirt, take his hand and place it on your breast. Ask him if he likes that.\nIn between your lurid requests and actions, keep making small talk. Ask him if he's ever made love to a woman before. He'll squeak out a no. Ask him if he'd like to make love to you, and tell him it's okay  - you won't tell. Ask him to take off your top and your bra. Tell him to touch your breasts and instruct him on how you like to be touched. Moan and sigh, but remember: You're still the grown-up  - so not too out of control. Ask him to stand up in front of you and unzip his pants. Admire his body, compliment it, say how hard it is, then give him exquisitely tortuous oral sex  - stopping just short of orgasm.\nUndress yourself theatrically while maintaining eye contact. Let his eyes caress your body, but don't let him touch you. Leave on your high heels and stockings. Pose provocatively and caress your curves. Ask him if he likes what he sees and if he wants to touch you. Then undress him, kissing each bit of his flesh as it becomes exposed. When you're both naked, lead him to the bed, then explain exactly how to make a woman scream in ecstasy. Each touch, kiss, fondle and thrust is his very first, remember. The fantasy ends when he completely loses control  - which should happen within about, ohhh, three minutes if you've played your part properly!\n\nFantasy #2: He's your sex slave\nWhy it appeals to you: Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the "no, you first honey" niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone.\nWhy he'll love it too: Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during "normal" lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?\nWhat you'll need
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you need to relax your self , you are thinking about it too much an d you end up having no orgasm, You need to relax and stop thinking about your orgasm :) you will get one
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stay away from that stuff. It is degrading and addicting. If you can't stop -- you need professional help. It will destroy any relationships you have or hope to have.
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You must have a low sex drive.  I think about it almost every minute of the day.  It drives me crazy, and is most likely because our job as humans is to reproduce and create more of us.
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Read\n\nExercise\n\nAnything you can do to divert you from these thoughts.
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I'm sorry, I'll try to stop.  But you radiate an irresistable sexual magnetism.  How can any of us control ourselves around you, for God's sake?
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I would highly suggest the book "Without A Hint" by Joshua Harris.  It talks about lust especially, but any kind of addiction/obsession in our lives.  The book has been renamed to "Sex Is Not The Problem (Lust Is)"  Below is a sight that will tell you some on it.  My friends and I read it, its a great book.
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Sit in a comfortable quiet place.\nClose your eyes.\nClear your mind of all thoughts.\nThoughts will keep coming back into your mind.  When they do, simply stop thinking them and clear your mind again.\nKeep repeating the last step.
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good that you want to stop you should go to sex addicts anonymous and start changing your lifestyle
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What you need to do now is find as many ways as possible to stop thinking about yourself and your problems, as bad as you think they may be.\n\nStart by exercising every day, both aerobic and anaerobic, and eat and drink right.\n\nBy the latter statement, I mean drink at least 8 8oz. glasses of water a day, plus maybe Gatorade or another energy drink for when you workout.\n\nEat at least 2 full meals a day, and preferably with a 3rd minor meal (usually breakfast), and eat balanced meals, with plenty of foods from each food group.\n\nFind an organization or sport or group in your college that supports your skills, interests, and goals in life, whether that is the Pro-Life group, the Chess Club, or the Ski Club, just find something and stick with it, but don't do it so much as to neglect your studies, and on that end, find or create a study group for one or more of your classes, as that will help you focus better and benefit from the fellowship.\n\nFurthermore, find an intramural sport to play if your college offers them, since they are not so competitive like regular collegiate sports, but still can provide you with genuine friendships and a good time.\n\nLast, but not at all least, pray to God, even if you do not believe in Him, this is the best time to start, i.e. when you are suffering and need help with something in your life.\n\nPray every night and God will get you over this hump in your life.
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HOw will that solve the problem?? Self-control boy!! Don't put yourself in positions where you can easily fall into temptation. If you know that sitting with a certain person alone in a room will cause you to sin, I'd advice u not to do so. If u are extremely tired you wouldn't have bad tempting thoughts, so try having a busy schedule. When temptations come anyway, try to think of anyother thing, such as a school math problem, a project, your schedule tomorrow. However, it ain't easy. If you can't handle it, don't date at all. I've been there, and I've managed to control myselft. Remember IT AIN'T EASY but IT'S POSSIBLE!
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how can you stop=slap yourself silly when thoughts occur no matter where and when!
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forget about them.\n\nAnd no I am not being funny here, it is true. The more you think about sex, your penis, or getting erect, the more it will happen. Even if you aren;pt gay, just thinking about a freind popping one can get yours to rise to an embarassing occasion.\n\nFirst off, erections are as normal as water. They happen at random times, they don't happen sometimes when you want them, they occur about every 45 minutes while you sleep, you usually wake up with one every morning, and they always seem to happen right when you are called upon in class to stand up.\n\nSo, the best remedy is to simply face the fact that yoru penis will do what it pleases and you might as well get used to people noticing and don't waste time getting embarassed, trying to hide them or otherwise willing them to go away. Simply carry on with your normal activities as if they never occur and they will reduce in both frequency and in duration.\n\nOh, and a daily masturbation sessions wouldn't hurt either to keep you happy and little things satisfied.
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ummmk.... stop fantasizing and get back to work!!!!!\n\n\nLOL
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You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
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Get a girlfriend who will pamper your fetish. Go to spa's for vacations, Buy exercise DVDs or videos. Enroll in exercise classes.If it is becoming a fixation to the point of ignoring responsibilities and maintaining a healthy social life then you need to get counseling. Otherwise enjoy.