a guy raped me! what do i do?? help me im 15, a girl, and i dont know wat to do!?
914606
If you didn't go to hospital to get samples, then you can't do much. Tell someone besides us.
312567
hey sweety, I just wanted to drop by and tell you what I did rather than to tell you what to do. Three years and a half ago me and my boyfriend broke up. He had always been an ass to me. Well not always but it seems he didn't love me. I left him loving him, tring to tell myself I didn't. I was sad for a couple of months. I was really sad, and alone. There was this guy that seemed to always be there for me. He seemed different. He easily convinced me with lies. When I was in the sitiution and was about to go for it. I backed off, and don't him to stop. I was having second thought on it. He didn't listen. I pushed him off... I got raped that day. It was only a couple of seconds of seconds that he did it but I have lived with it for the ret of my life. After that I realized who I really loved. I went back with my ex, and everything was great. I kept having that scare in me. I eventiually told him what happened. He cried like I had never seen him cry. He told me it was a lie. Then he told me to do something about it if it wasn't a lie. I was scared. What would everyone say. Especially my family. They didn't even know I was with my boyfriend. Eventiually I thought that with time it would heal never did though. Eventiually my boyfreind went on and saw the guy who raped me in a local bar. I guess my boyfriend had a little to much to drink, or maybe had to much built inside that he slammed the beer on the table then slid that guys throat. I couldn't believe what he had done. Yet I now know he did it for what I didn't do. He told me not to worry about him. That he was happy. He did what I never had the guts to do. I still love him, and wish he was with me instead of in prison. It's been two years since this happens, and i'm still so sad. The love of my life might now be put on dead row and I feel so guilty. I'm sure that things like these never happened to you, and never will hopefully the rape you talk about wasn't like mine.
869899
Honestly, here is what I would do in your situation (I'm not suggesting you do this because you could get in alot of trouble).  I would go to the guys house with a baseball bat, beat him alittle with it, stuff him in the trunk of my car, drive to me gf's house, pull him out, act all crazy like you are gonna kill him, and then ask her if he really raped her, she will come clean if she feels a life is at stake.\n\nBut I'm what you would classify as a "Psychotic Boyfriend".  So it's not a good idea
1001355
You can still get the guy for molestation and attempted rape!  Just because you're 14 doesn't mean he didn't do those things to you, older women get molested and raped and they press charges... your detective is a fool!
564563
You need to tell your parents or the counselor at school. This is sexual harassment and can lead to more dangerous situation if you don't tell someone and get their help stopping him. As long as you do nothing he thinks its OK. Don't let this keep happening to you. Put a stop to it now while you still can.
821498
It means you should playfully wisper back, "I'll tell the police."  Actually, you should avoid this guy like the plague!  He obviously has extremely poor social skills if he thinks an offer of rape is sensuous.  NEVER be alone with him.
1087843
How old is your daughter?  And how old were the boys who did it?  If they are ALL minors, you probably have no legal action.  Sorry.  Just talk with the parents and make sure they talk with their kids so it doesn't happen again.  \n\nIf one of the boys was an adult and your daughter isn't, then there is a real problem, and you could have him arrested for sexual assault on a minor.
316001
that freak has no respect for girls whatsoever..just look around u...u have so many answerers to support u. and he has no one except his nuch of cronies wholl eventually stab his bak. I know u hav to accept it. but u know what? accept it and use all those insuklts and mockery to tuffen up urself. I felt the same way too when people used to hit me and take my money away. i felt like killing myself and them...btu then i realised that they r not worth it.vermin like him r here to be ignored.And u arent sum dumb blond. Any more probs feel free to ask me personally, i am always hereto help people out.Keep ur chin up girl  ^_^
1138941
go out with your friends,  have fun:) your friends are there to give you advice, but you're the only one who can help yourself.....think of the bad things that he did to you.....trust me:)....you can do it\n \nGo girl!
278515
The only thing you can do is be honest about what happened, and tell her how hurt you are that she does not believe you.\n\nYou should also talk to a rape crisis center so they can help you deal with what happened, they will give you the support you need and not judge you. \n\nBlessed be,\n\nGypsy
658940
How exactly does a 22 year old man get raped by a woman?\n\nIf this is for real, you should seek some counselling. The odds of a repeat occurance are extremely low.
231520
I'm sorry, but you should'nt do this to yourself, there are a lot of weirdos who will answer to this and your are much better than that! you sound very pretty. Get off the computer and go out go to the mall with friends and look for someone there! Don't do this it's not smart you can get raped and killed!
592000
You're a normal person having a messed-up response in a messed-up situation.\n\nI'd sit, relax, breathe. \n\nNow, think of who you've offended. Call them and apologize for the attitude, tell them what's going on, tell them  you're stressed out, ask for their help.\n\nTalk with your sister. If she won't listen, talk with your parents about how to get through to her.\n\nDon't ever talk to that senior again. He's a jerk. Most high schools have policies against sexual harassment. You should report him.
501162
you need a shrink - someone who says they were raped and wants to know if they should tell someone is full of sh!t - are you that bored? oh, by the way you told someone in between asking youor questions? grow up
412848
The first thing you need to do is call the police. They will need to interview you and to take some evidence and they will make sure you get medical care.  Don't have a shower, or if you have, make sure you keep the clothes you were in.  The police should help you to get in contact with some victim support.  Is there someone close to you who you can tell, like a parent or a good friend?  If you are scared, it can help to have someone like them close by.\n\nNumber one thing to remember - this isn't your fault.  You are going to get through this and a lot of people will be praying for you and wishing you well.
369236
i think first off you should talk to a offical at your high school, a teacher, counsler, adminstator, etc.  someone who is an adult with a job at the school that you feel comfortable talking to.  tell them what has been going on and that you want it to stop.  if he keeps breaking your stuff, that is not right!  it sounds like he might have an anger problem, and i hope he doesn't hit you!\n\ni am also sixteen and even tho my problem was different from yours, i went to a teacher and told her and everything became better afterwards.  i was nervous talking to her and then the counsler and then to an adminstrator and then i had to talk to a off campus police officer!  my case was a friend told me that this guy tried to rape her.  and well i asked the teacher what my friend could do, and she really helped me out.  \n\ngo to someone you know can help a.s.a.p.!
906360
If you say "no" and he still has sex with you, then it is rape.  Please confide in a trusted adult to help you with this situation.