well i have friend shes going out with this one dude but she likes another guy really bad?
917615
She needs to decide if she's gonna cheat on her love because someone else is cute. She also needs to decide if she's gonna continue to go out with men she doesn't really have feelings for. Since it's not the first time, it sounds like she isn't really in love.
412778
Here is one of those times it is best to use a diversion tactic.  Since you are close friends with her tell her your interested in another girl.  Hopefully she will realize that telling you she wants to go out with you is a bad idea since your interested in someone else.
228926
well i think you should honor your friendship and not go out with him because she probably think that the only reason you come over is because of her brother and friendship is more important so you shouldn't try anything unlesss you want to lose your friend.
746382
If your friend is fickle and will get over this guy easily, then I wouldn't worry too much about her reaction.  If, however, this is her Romeo,  I would surrender the romance for the sake of the friend. \n\nStill, I have to wonder how much of a friend she is if you're considering dating the guy.
747860
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
1075774
She is making a big mistake! Tell your friend she don't have a future with this kind of guy! She is strongly attracted to him and that is it. She doesn't know this guy to really love him, she is majorly infatuated!!!  He is the desperate one and she is falling for this guy's tricks and schemes. She should not waste her time with him. Tell her to look for someone who is REAL. This kind of relationship does not last!
724598
if you're friend liked him before you then you need to back off. That's so wrong if she truly likes him. If she's cool with it then talk to him a bunch and flirt with him..n there ya go
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
461570
You are not wrong, you need to confront her about this. It's inappropriate for her to be spending all her time with another man who has feelings for her.
1063941
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
650624
Sounds to me like she wants 'to have her cake and eat it'. One rule for you and another for her.\nThe point is you appear to be accepting this situation which suggests she has the upper hand in this relationship. She can do whatever she wants and you have to like it or lump it.\n\nGet this straight, there is NO SUCH THING as just good friends between two heterosexual people of the opposite sex. People like to pretend there is but experience tells us otherwise. This is why in the back of your mind you're not comfortable with her lunching with this other guy.\nYou see, one of these straight friends always likes the other but doesnt want to tell her/him because they're afraid of rejection and of losing this person forever.\nGet your revenge in first, if she insists on doing it her way start making plans for life without her. You will never be happy in such an insecure relationship, the whole thing sounds phoney anyway.
642007
she may not like ur friend. Dont blame the girls.She may love that guy.
1122598
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
967354
ask her. do not tell her that you like him when you ask though. kinda get a feeling for what she feels for him. If she likes him, than you might want to cool off a little bit. in HS my friend and i liked the same guy. he asked me out and i accepted. That really did hurt my friend. I decide not to go out with him because she met more to me.
1111056
Forget what your friend says, You are the one who is going to be dating the guy, not her. It doesn't matter who came first. but more who fits the position better...like a job position hehehe....who are you more compatible with and who can you get along better...who are you more interested in....whatever makes you happy is really what you should focus on instead of which guy's feelings youll end up hurting
367443
hey girl if your friend went out with this guy you shouldn't try to get with this guy but if you really like him you should talk to your friend about this little crush but before you do that you have to know how he feels about you and you also have to think about what you want her frinship or this guy cuz you probably can't have both!