how do u tell someone u love that u know of their infidelity ?
928977
First, you need to be 200% sure that this is going on! Once you are certain, don't beat around the bush - it makes the entire situation that much harder to deal with. Confront your partner, but you need to have hard evidence. Pictures, whatever you can get. If you have no concrete evidence, he can deny it and turn the situation around on you.\n\nGood luck.
343532
not telling him would be bad tell him of course there is nothing wrong to tell someone you love them that is one of the most important things in life is to be loved and love life would be a sad place if you didnt if you cant tell him in person tell him over the phone on the computor in a letter or send him a card do it how ever it is 3 words that could change the rest of your life good luck
79256
Just tell the guy. I am in total and complete love with someone. I told him. Flat out. I let him know. And he said he loves me too. You just need to tell this person. Try to piece it together as best you can. Your feelings and everything. It doesn't have to be perfect, everything you say, but make it mean something. Let him know.
175250
Well if he really loves you all you need to do is show him you love him tell him you love him and be completely honest with him about everything. Even the smallest little white lie can be a big thing at this point if he thinks you are being the least bit secretive then he will lose more and more trust in you. I know because I am in a similar situation with my wife, and those are the things I wish I could have from her to help me rebuild our trust
924221
i am sorry i do not know the answer to this question i can only speak for my self i would tell a woman that i loved her unless i truly did these are not just word of course i would tell her if i did because i would want her to know it but more then anything i would want to show it and if you truly love someone you WILL NOT CHEAT on them you couldn't even think about being with someone else or should i say i couldn't but maybe he wants you to i can only speak for my self in a matter like this i have always heard once a cheater always a cheat i wish you the best in life and a life full of Happiness.
331484
Tell him that you were deeply hurt by what he did and that it will take a very long time for him to earn your trust back. Tell him that you love him very deeply and you only want to love him more. Stop making cracks about it. It's pretty messed up. He probably feels horrible about lying (hopefully) and that will only make him hate himself more. BTW about it being a learning tool, don't believe that crock of bull. A previous *friend* that was a girl told me that she would teach me how to treat a girl right and all we did was make out, but I don't count that as a teaching tool, we straight up made out. I don't try to tell my fiancee' any story about it being a teaching lesson, I straight up told her: Before I was with you, I made out with another girl. I wasn't in love with her. I was infatuated with her. It was a crush and would have never become anything more. But that's about all you can do. Tell him to stop making excuses for his actions and that it will be harder for you to trust him in the future. He may never earn your trust back, but in the end, it's all up to you.\n\nHad something similair happen with my fiancee'. She lied about being raped. It really hurt me, probably more than your hurting right now. She earned my trust back, but i'm still very cautious!
152353
you need to be honest with him. open up to him dont lead him on if the relatoinship is going down hill and u want to save it you need to tell him how you feel and what you want to work on. its better to tell the truth than to lie and lead him on, unless he knows its in a runt. anyways just open and be honest. remember communication is the key to a relationship, thats why so many people cheat on their loved ones cause they can up and front tell them they are happy anymore put yourself in his shoes, how would you want to be talked to bout this,, really think bout that good luck
1092224
I would tell my brother how much I love him, how stupid I think he is acting AND that although I will not purposely hurt him by telling his secrets, neither will I lie if his wife asks me anything.  Good luck
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
1053022
Dump them before they dump you or hurt you more than you already are hurt.\n\nBut if they were using me to cheat on their girlfriend....I would dumo them before they knew what happened and tell their girlfriend.
338482
Yes, I have told b/fs about the bd things bout me, if you don't let him know, and he finds out later, to me that's like lieing, in order to love and be loved, you have to let the bad things out as well.  Your partner is suppose to your best friend in all the world, if this is true, then you should be able to tell them anything and everything.
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
949895
you have to tell them...   if you don't, it'll hurt you, and it may end up hurting the other person too...\n\nwhy waste this one chance at life with being miserable our whole life, go out, try to find happieness...    if you love this person, tell him/her...
148524
"Hey guy's i'm having an affair with the same sex, just thought i should tell you...."\n\n\n^maybe something like that?^\n\n\n\n\n\nJust tell them, there is no "How"
656660
I would stick by my words.\nYou have warned her, that if she did do it again you would tell well she is holding you to it.\nShe has done it and you never told on her.\nI find if you cannot trust the person you love then move on till you find that one to trust.\nHonesty is the best policy! \nAnd look at what she is doing to you! \nAre you not feeling guilty for holding this in.\nI bet she is not! \nSo do the right thing by you and you friend and tell ! \nLove & Blessings \nMilly
118091
girl u must tell him ryt away............ you dont know maybe he loves you too,theres nothing wrong for telling your feeling about him.........we have freedom to tell.......good luck girl
548263
tell him how you feel, it's better hes knows