how can i keep an eye on my husband...while being away...speedy reply pls...?
918645
Have a friend or a neighbor ride by and do house checks they will let you know if any suspicious vehicles or even if they see a female coming or going.
761057
ONly you should know that answer.  How does your husband behave? Is he flirtatious? does he come home late at night saying he worked late? taking regular showers (heheh ..its true )?   If he is giving you reasons so be suspicious then  you are normal .\nIf not then its just you being erratic.  If you really want to know why don't u spy on him?
815955
Whenever you get on the internet, set a stop watch or alarm clock for a set amount of time, say half an hour, and when the alarm goes off get off the internet and turn off the computer.  Also, set a limit on how many times you can do this during the day, and have your husband help you stick to this.  He could maybe set a password only he knows on the computer so you have to ask him when you get on and he can help limit the number of times you get on.   I would also suggest finding activities that you can participate in either alone or with your daughter or husband outside of the home to occupy your time.  Hope this helps!
620237
If he'll be living close by, I'd suggest setting up a time once a week or something for you guys to spend time together, and don't let ANYTHING get in the way of it. Phone calls work too, but nothing beats actual physically being together.
57987
don't over do it.  You want him to look at the rest of you too, unless this is just for a one nighter or something.
35124
Get everything on video and camera. I am starting to forget things so I go back and look at my videos and pictures.We sit in the family room and look at them and have memorable moments. Your husband just doesn't want the hassle like mine.
661629
First of all, I really feel for you both.  I have been there in a temporary situation, but I knew my husband's job was going to change in 3 months, and we didn't have kids.  But there are things you can do.\n\n#1: Try to have a meal together every day.  My guess is that he can meet you on your lunch break (and have breakfast) and maybe you can meet him for his lunch break, maybe even with the kids sometimes.\n\n#2: I don't know what kind of vacation benefits you guys have, but you need to plan a long weekend.  (Note: sending the kids to your parents and staying home to watch movies and eat chocolate dipped strawberries and champagne counts as a romantic vacation!)\n\n#3: Leave cards or even post-it notes in his car to remind him of you.  He might start doing the same for you.\n\n#4: Plan one night a week that you will stay up and wait for him\n\n#5: Say Goodnight every night.  Call him before you go to bed.\n\n#6: My favorite quirky thing about my marriage...celebrate monthaversaries.  Even if it is just a special card or a flower, celebrate your marriage every month, not just once a year.\n\nI wish you luck and hope that your husband's work situation gets better soon!
668235
Visit with him, and be there with him. That will show you you really care..
449092
My husband. He's away right now.
957028
Keep the conversations going. Ask him to send you postcards and stuff so he has to think about you while he's away.
695145
Does Dad help?  Maybe he could keep an eye on the kids one day (night) a week to give you some alone time.  Or your mother or mother-in-law?\n\nIt is of great value to your family to take care of you too.
487900
stop looking and enjoy life while you can. he'll show up somewhere unexpected. we all miss the couple stuff.
473420
Get away from the computer and pay attention to your significant other....
45205
Go out to your favorite romantic restaurant and then spend the night at a bed and breakfast or a really nice hotel. Just spending the night somewhere besides your house will make it interesting and romantic. Also, get him something that he can take with him while he is gone, sort of something to remember you while he is away.
528509
I'm in the army and so is my husband.  you never get use to it it always sucks.  Just try not to dwell on it.  Try to stay occupied with something while he is gone and live for the moment when he is there.  I read a lot of books or make quilts while my husband is away or browse on here.  In fact, my husband is gone for a month right now.
10851
My husband was in the Marines when we first were married and was deployed for six months. To make it even harder I was pregnant with our first child. I know how empty your world feels right now. Just try to keep your self busy. Write often and talk on the phone when you can. I used to send calling cards with each care package. I also sent a video about half way through the deployment. I just recorded any special events that he would be missing i also went to the beach and taped a sun set for him, since the beach was a special place for us. Anything you can think of to keep the connection strong. Best of luck to you and a special thanks to your husband for his service to our country.
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have you ever considered putting a tape recorder in his vehicle underneath the seat, i mean we all talk on our cell phones when we are on our way to and from work right, what about following him, there are ways for you to find out trust me, you just need to be smart and opened minded and think of things, when he tells you he going somewhere follow him after he leaves, start asking questions about everything, check his email, his wallet, his call log in his cell phone, sonner or later like useal the truth will reveal itself no matter what, I do think if he was cheating you would have all the signs already and just simply have this unbarable gut feeling inside of you, if you feel that then he is, of course you will feel the distance, his lying, his comeing home late, him turning off the cell phone, all the normal things, if your really worried about hire a private investgator that way he can be on you side if you should have to ever file for divorce or for custdoy becuase these days whoever is the cheater and they can prove he cheated the women gets everything from him, childsupport, alimony, he may even have to continue to par your car insureance and your health insurance i know this for sure, good luck and i hope you find everythihng that you looking for, just prepare yourself for the worse as it may really break your heart to find the truth