Is joining an on-line sex chat considered cheating?
928056
I think most people would consider this to be cheating. No you aren't going out and actually doing it, there's still that feeling of betrayal. I would suggest that you stop doing it, so that your partner doesn't find out and end up getting angry. If you enjoy doing it, try doing it with your partner, you guys might find out a lot of new things about eachother. \n\nGood Luck!
378649
Depends.\n\nPorno mags.. no.. but its unhealthy to be addicted to it and you should seek counseling.\n\nLive women.. like camming with you on line... ya.. that's cheating.
804752
If you are talking to males online and not in the mood for sex I would move on if you was my girl. You know the real reason you are not in the mood for sex, so be honest with yourself.
402165
My husband and I both think it is.  We feel that if you are seeking ANY form of intimacy outside of the relationship, things need to be evaluated...even if it is something as impersonal as the internet.
365009
They say the pen is mightier than the sword, and words have caused everything from religion to wars. YOU know the emotions tied to the words you type, and the words others type to you. If all that is going on is innocent chatting, then no. If you are feeling emotional attachments behind the communications, then there may well be reasons for concern, because you are going outside of your relationship for some kind of fulfillment. If the intentions of the communication are sexual, then I personally think it is not good.
1170867
Geez, I don't know.  I gave up chatting b/c i was so sick of the bs in every room. To much drama...booting and hacking.   Take my advise, don't start!
986649
Isn't this called cheating?
513582
Very far away.   Cyber sex is masturbate while on chat.
88529
It is technically against the rules, but I don't think it's a bad thing. Just try to do it in a more subtle way. Answer one of their questions and at the end say that you'd like to chat.
946233
No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
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My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
44822
awwhh hell no girl..first of all nebody u meet online could be dangerous..u cant trust them he could be a sex offender..dont do it just have fun online..ask 4 his if u really really wanna talk but otha then that 4get it.
1176892
If a guy tells you he  doesn't do that, well  he is lying.  There has been so many times that I have told guys no cyber sex.  They say no problem and don't say nothing else.  It's like finding a needle in a haystack.  If you look hard enough you'll find one.  Good luck to ya.
553176
None of your business. However, it's not a bad idea to have a chat with the cheater, and just reminder her that marriage is sacred and you're so glad she's decided to commit to being eternally faithful to him.
367110
It was ok; I have done a few. Mostly with people I met online, couples. And I was mostly single; meeting other couples. Keeps the emotions out that way. It is a pretty shallow experience, really. Sex one on one or even alone is better, alot of distractions with more than two people and pressure to perform. I think allowing other people into your bedroom is avoiding the real underlying issue within the couple.I had a boyfriend once that was always pressuring me to do that it got to be a real turnoff and we are not together anymore. If you are a sex a holic and can handle it emotionally go for it. It just wasn't my thing.
538136
I dont necessarily think its wrong as long as its with another adult and you arent doing it with children online.  I would suggest going out on a date rather than online stimulation.
608733
If you and who you are corresponding to are upfront and honest I dont see why not. I know some very successful couples who have met on the net. Follow your intuition and just be careful the net like all places do have some "unusual" people who are best avoided.