One of my friends is thinking about having sex. She is too young, what should I do?
928611
Talk to your mother. If you really want to stop her and don't care how drastic your steps are, talk to her parents. This will not be taken well be your friend, but believe me that you are being a very good friend and helping her more than she realizes now. I wish I had had friends like you at several points in my life. And don't pay attention to that terrible parent that put a 6th grader on birth control; they are trying to raise a slvt. Fine, birth control will prevent pregnancy, but I have yet to hear of a pill that restores self-respect or a ruined reputation to the commonly-had. Your friend will look back in later days and thank you for helping her keep hers.
717914
I would continue to be friends. Intercourse can wait, besides you both are too young and inexperienced. There is so much more to intercourse besides the physical act. In order to preserve her flower I advise you to wait and allow things to happen naturally. Please do not force the issue!
13951
Without her thinking about sex or without you thinking about sex? If it's you, then you need to find some self-control. If you don't want to think about it anymore, that is up to you. Take your mind off of it by distracting your brain with something that your lady friend likes to do.. a hobby... non-sexual. Keep distracting yourself until it becomes a habit.
45340
No it is not too young. I see you do not PLAN to have sex, but things DO happen. Just remember that after you turn 18 YOU are of legal adult age. She is not. If for any reason something goes wrong with the relationship, IF she wants to cause yu a problem she can cause you a world of trouble. Take all that into consideration before you make any moves. Good Luck.
962246
You already stated exactly why it isn't a good idea: you're attracted to her in an inappropriate way for a "friendship" to work: sexually! Find a friend that shares your overall outlook and is preferably a man, with good intentions towards you. That's a tough enough find in and of itself, without having the extra barrier of the sexual differences to overcome on top of it all!
990002
Sounds like its fun for you and her friend but that she is only doing it to please you.\nAsk her if that is the issue because if she is doing it to please you and it goes against her feelings towards herself you are playing a very dangerous game with her.
957758
Let me start by saying 1. you should not be having sex with someone you are just talking to and 2. THANK YOU for using protection!!!! Most guys your age do not even think about all the consiquences that coem along with having unprotected sex.\n\nOk now to the real business.. your question.\n\nMost girls always experience some pain and discomfort when its there first time ( I know I did) soem will actualyl not enjoy it the first few times. It is up to you to get ehr to enjoy it. Here are a few things you can do that might help. ONE you must know that I am sure she is nervous, she peobably has no idea waht to do so this might make her even tighter and cause her to not get as wet.  Don't jump to the sex part right away. Have some foreplay kiss, rub, get her to the point where she tells you I she wants it. Then its all about patience!! Take your time, there is no rush. You need to be gentle and take it slow, let her knwo you wont hurt her tell her to tell you how she feels if it hurt slow down take it easy... also you can always use lubrication (that might help .. some KY jelly).  \n\nWell if you need any more help just email me.. I dont want to write a huge story here (because believe me if you let me I will..lol)
387058
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!
1165804
Wait until at least 18!\n\nTeenagers are finding out who they really are. They may be easily impressed with someone who is "settled" in life, has an apartment, an income, a car etc.\n\nYet, they may change a lot in what they like and want before they are 21. In my view, it would be better for her to wait until she is at least 18 to get married as a legal adult. When married and things do not work out, everything is more traumatic and more difficult. She can still be friends until 18 or 21 and see how the friendship will develop.\n\nMost often young teenagers get married in a hurry because there is a baby on the way. This may be so, and other considerations may come into play.\n\nWishing your friend the right decision.\nCordially, India.Magica
148223
Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
723336
You should know that having sex is a great responsibility because of the consequences it may have, is not something you can take easily more of you are so young. Try to talk to your mom about your way of feeling and tell her that is important for you to have information to be prepared to  take a decision when the moment comes
161465
Definitely not. She has years and years to get into all that stuff. Tell her to enjoy being young and innocent :)
220092
The fact that you think of some of it as as indecent is very important. Obviously you have a clear sense of boundaries and propriety. You should have a CALM conversation with your friend on these topics. Did I mention it should be CALM! This is a central aspect of a relation and can determine whether it's viable or not, but DON'T jump to conclusions just yet.\n\nIt could just be "trash-talk," which is not much more than a desire to be accepted by "the cool ones." This can easily disappear as she matures out of those kind of peer pressures or moves on with her own life.\n\n\nAnd yes, at least on this you are totally normal.
130163
You really need to talk about this with her, because if she never wants to have sex, or if she believes it is only for creating children, you may have a bigger problem on your hand that just not getting any.\n\nThe spiritual love between you is wonderful to brag about, and if you would like to take the next step on bodily commitment, she may not be ready for that step, and making her feel awkward about it won't get you what you want any sooner.\n\nShe probably loves you, but I really don't know what your realtionship is all about, so I can't say.. what I do know is sex doesn't equal love, it's two different acts, that are nice when woven together.\n\nDepending on her age, she may be afraid of either losing her virginity or becoming pregnant. \nDepending on her religion, she may not want to for her own peace of mind.\nDepending on her past, she may have not enjoyed it, or had someone turn mean and ugly after she conceeded, or could rape be an issue which might make her fearful?\n\nYou know her better than I, you know the probabilities to these questions better than I, but you DO need some answers.\n\nThese are all things you need to find out if you want to continue in your relationship without sex. Then decide if what she needs and what you need are simular enough for the relationship to survive.
1103707
tell the police or her parents. it's soo wrong\n\n(p.s.) pOOhPhAT : she won't get pregnant 'cause she is only 10.. but she will have alot of problems that i don't want to mention..
182803
Strongly tell him that it's out of the question.  If he persists, stop hanging around him.  You might need to get adults involved soon.  You don't want to ever give him the opportunity to hurt you.\n\nYou're TOO YOUNG to be having sex.  Find a trusted adult to talk with.
498968
Listen to her mother.  Obviously, the mother has a good reason..?  I'm judging from your spelling in your post that you're both minors...Seriously, unless you're prepared for a child and the responsibilities that come with, I would wait until you're in a relationship later down the road, to have sex.