My son who is 14 picks on my Friends daughter who's 15 why does he do this does he like her of something?
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Yes, he likes her and has difficulty expressing that emotion in a way in which he is familiar.  Therefore his attentions come out as teasing.  It's very common.
91209
I don't know, but my 14 year old daughter sure likes um.
478011
My daughter went through this not very long ago.  It hurt her very much.  Why are girls so evil at this age.  The girl continued to call and my daughter has finally realized that she just enjoys drama.  She finally told her so- called best friend not to call and she no longer wants to have her friendship.  Since, this girl has gossiped and tried to have others ignore my daughter.  Didn't work since they have all realize that she is a phony..
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OK people get your head out of the gutters, she is his cousin!\n\nI think the best thing you can do is just be there with her, you are the old cousin who she looks up to and probably idolizes since you are all of 14 and can do some many things she can not. So definetly have some games that you can play together, but let her decide what she wants to do, and just be the loving cousin and she will adore you for it.\n\nAnd ignore the sickos here, it is not creepy it is cute and loving.
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well for the life isn't fair comment tell him he is lucky to learn that at a young age. As for his attitude. Thats a tuff one I have kids his age and I firmly believe in restricting the peers he/she hangs out with. Also if it is possible get him involved in activities after school. Baseball or whatever he is in to. If he is not interested, make him do it for one season or one whatever depending on what you choose. I did this and my daughter cried and stomped her feet. Now she plays softball every chance she gets, and I can tell her if she is not good she wont play. It's hard to give advice without knowing your exact situation but I hope this helps. Remember in a couple of yearsthere wont be much you can do about anything so stand your ground he will thank you in the end.
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Is your daughter aware that you are doing this/\nIt seems to me that you are trying to cause trouble for the por guy and that you should mind your own f______ business.
894351
Yes, he is under age..It's illegal you know so don't encourage him. If the girl only likes him then there's not a lot he can do. If he's really nice to her she may decide she likes him more than she thought but they are young and I think you should step back and let him find his own way...within reason of course. That's how we all learn and grow.\n   Stress that there is more to a relationship than sex and if he is mature enough to want it then he should also be mature enough to wait until the time is right (and it's not illegal)
409596
it's no big deal. he just chose her. next week u might be liking someone else . thats how it is when u are in your teens. Look at it like this he is the one missing out.
869693
You're not wrong. He sounds like a cheap skate who's too self centered to think of someone elses feelings. Happy birthday to your daughter too.
443372
I'm not sure I understand. Do you want to fascinate her? The answer would be, you have no business doing so. If the question is, you have fascinated a 16 year old, and you don't know how you did it, as I was 16 once myself, an older man is always more exciting. Because to a 16 year old girl, 16 year old boys are childish.
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Gee that kind of makes the daughter the boss of his life. Guess I would sure he gets it and if he chooses to let his daughter "run" his life you may want to rethink your involvement with him. :o(
897946
you need to help that child get out of 2nd grade. come his a little to old.maybe if you wounldn;t get drunk you wont be in this situation. you cant judge someone by how they look. the child is yours and you should show him love. uncondition love. thats what a good father would of done. maybe you need to help someone else like him and stop being embrassed of what you created.
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One word, co-dependency.\n\nYour friends daughter is probably in an abusive relationship.  He is displaying behaviors typical of an abuser.  He most likely will not do more than verbally abuse your friend, but he could very well harm her daughter.  She should speak with someone who is knowledgable with this type of problem before approaching him.  I would suggest a good family therapist.
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i can say be careful! Okay? I am not sure how old you are....If I knew I could help more. But, i do have a daughter and boys do that to her. I would say the "game" is that the boys are fooling around only to see how you react. If you react in a way that lets them know that you like them then they will respond accordingly. Yes, it is a game. The boys don't want to be found out so quickly is the thing. If they are saying and pickin then yes they all like you. Just don't be "easy". I mean easy as in being the first one to make it clear that you like them. Let them be the one or ones' that show you how they feel. If us girls become easy then they want no part of us. It is not right.....i know but it is true. Boys can be easy and that is okay in this world. Doesn't seem fair and it isn't. Just know that you are liked and go with the flow. Good luck hun.
1038031
you created your daughter so why would you compete with her....the mom seems insecure to me.......she needs help maybe she feels that she is losing her touch....
618454
Your son may be resentful if you sever his relationship with his friend (yes even at 6). However, he is old enough to learn values, like materialism is not the greatest "ism" and all that. You know, some people really don't care about the kind of car they drive because other things are more important. A kid can understand that. He may draw his own conclusion with that information and realize this little girl is icky. Good luck. And I mean that sincerely.
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keep your thoughts to yourself.  They are under age!\n14 yr. olds should not be encouraged to be overly sexy and hot.  Leads to trouble.