How can you say you don't love a person without breaking that person heart?
928358
You can't . You just tell them how you feel and hope they can forgive you. Move on.* _*
223734
Whats wrong with you. Of course not.If you even think about leaving the one you love for someone who you like, then you probubly dont really love that person to begin with.
492097
If we could "unlove" someone it would be so much easier to move on after broken or bad relationships. It would also make it easier to make better choices to begin with if we could choose who to love. But unfortunately it does not work that way. "The heart wants what it wants."\n\nEven if we cannot unlove someone, it does not mean that we cannot move on. It may hurt at first, but as cliche as it sounds time does heal all wounds. Circumstances change, or we do, new people come into ours lives & make us forget others that may have treated us less kindly.
178747
even though people dont mean to hurt the people that they love the most, the people that love the person hurting them deeply care about that person and dont want to see them make the  same mistakes that they have made and it hurts them that the person making them hurt wont listen to them. or the simple fact of pulling away from the people that you love hurts them very deeply. dont burn your bridges, and if you have start to rebuild them with patients and kindness.
366371
THE REASON LOVE HURTS IS BECAUSE THE PERSON YOU ARE LOVING, YOU HAVE PUT ALL YOUR TRUST AND CONFINDENCE IN.  YOU THINK SINCE THEY KNOW YOU LOVE THEM, THEY SHOULDN'T DISAPPONT YOU AND WHEN THEY DO, IT HURTS. IT'S A SAYING "NO ONE CAN HURT YOU LIKE THE ONE YOU LOVE" REASON BEING IF YOU DON'T LOVE THE PERSON, YOU CAN BRUSH OFF WHAT THEY DO, BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXPECT MUCH OUT OF THEM.
97002
Well I just wonder what you mean by doing something wrong. Don't, for example, hurt her in any way. \nIf she doesn't love you, let her go. You can't force someone to love you.
625938
It means he doesn't love you.
638616
Its always easier said than done.. but say goodbye now..!! Why because experience speaks for itself.. I had the same problem i forgave him once, but then it happened again and again and again.. It was the hardest part to say goodbye to someone u love too much, but its rips ur heart apart to know they're abusing the love and affection you give them...!! And remember this, wen women hurt, they hurt badly and then there comes a point where they go COLD and then theres no turning back... so its best to say goodbye now and save yourself from the more despising feeling of anger and hate... Best of luck with the decision u choose :o)
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
1003029
emotion wise: the higher they go the harder u fall...\n\nu say u love this boy n u have no idea if he loves u back n the longer u wait the stronger ur love becomes n as long as ur love is getting stronger u will find ur pain in ur heart becoming deeper if u find out he doesn't love u. in other words tell him before u r to in love to take the pain.
34891
You allow yourself to work through the grief. People often say, "Move on! Get over it!", but when you truly love someone who doesn't share your feelings, it's a loss. It's no less valid than losing someone in another way, like through death, divorce, moving far away, etc. You can't just shut off your feelings. You need to give yourself time to work through your feelings and grieve the loss.\n\nThe trick is to keep your grief from interfering with the rest of your life. Set aside certain times to let your feelings out. For example, you can decide, "I'll spend one hour a day feeling hurt." If you catch the thoughts coming out at other times, picture a big, red STOP sign and put them out of your thoughts until your designated "grief time."\n\nGood luck!\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
1063580
You can't, really, if they don't want to be with you. I'm going through the same thing too, and the best thing is to just say how you feel. I did, and things are okay, I guess, but we haven't talked since them but i see him tonite. But yea, don't make up cheesy bullsh*t, just tell 'em flat out how it is. Good luck!
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.
1047250
How to do not break my heart?
209018
you can love someone and not be in love with them, but you can't be in love with them and not love them . You love a person for what they are , you fall in love with a person for who they are.
565163
no, if you can't tell him to his face that you love him then you actually don't love him. Loving someone means you have to feel comfortable around him. If he can't take you seriously, then he don't have alot of trust in you. Just try it and see what happens. Whatever you do, please don't write it