Ladies, I need your opinions a little help?
914484
yup...totally normal...your not a freak...you were just taught to feel that way cause your a woman...and women are suppose to be pure and not sexual...  ask most men if they find a women attractive they often start wondering what they look like naked...then they wonder what its like to go further...this is normal.
628508
Wow, your girlfriend is weird!!! Well, I think you should ask her about it or say that you were thinking about it and thanm say you would. After that you will see her answer... Oh yeah, maybe it's stupid for me to ask you, but can you please rate my answer best - I need it BAD
13985
respect her. show her that you think of her as a person, not just some dummy you want to fool around with. I know a lot of guys that don't respect me, and that automatically puts them at the bottom of my list. Even saying somthing in the wrong tone. Also, compliment her a lot, like if she's really good at painting or has a cool hairstyle that day. Just make sure it's not always about her appearance, or she might get the wrong impression, but a girl does like to be complimented on beauty every once in a while.
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
495222
YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
947682
I'd say he probably likes you a little.  I know I'm older than most guys on this site, but let me let you in on something about guys.  Where women are concerned, there is a reason why guys do EVERYTHING we do.
196811
Is it normal...hummm..yes, for a guy to ask. People get to a point where they want to experiment or try something they "heard" is new or exciting. However, if you feel uncomfortable or your "womanly" sixth sense is alerting you to something, then I would becareful and listen to it. \n\nAlso, talk to him and let him know your feelings and what are your concerns. You will know by his reaction whether you two are on the same page or feel the same way.  If this is something you are not ready for or would NOT ever do, then stay true to yourself. There ARE men out there that have outgrown this need or feel differently as they mature. Just my $0.02.
398842
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
1018588
MAKE?  Can't!   But you might have better luck if you treat her like a lady.  You could ask a few times and give her an idea of what a night out with you would be like.  e.g. where you'd take her what the mood would be like, sort of paint a picture and just let her make her decision.
739443
wow!! your a much better man than any i know if you have been around for 7 months and no sex! i just turned 28 and i dont know how you do it!!! yep, you love this one for real!  i would sit down and have a deep conversation with her about your feelings.
478029
Being a female myself. Try not thinking so much. If she loves you she will appreciate whatever you do. i personally like the little things, getting flowers at work, him calling just to say I love you, He once covered one of my walls in my room with post it sticky notes (each one with something he liked about me written on it) not sure if she'd likeany of those but they might help. GOod luck. Feel free to email me anytime if you need to talk. w061204@yahoo.com
527829
In my opinion this is soooooooooooooo simple...Tell her that she could make a better/stronger/more confident impression on a male if she went after it herself...This will also help you decide if you want him for yourself...Hehe...:)>
989715
Okay, so i'm back ..hehe...i was so intrigued by the thoughfullness and sincerity of your last question I went to see if you had any others.  And you do...and some really sweet ones at that...\nSo heres my two cents:\n\n* CUDDLE!!!!!(issue addressed though...do it do it do it!!!)\nAlso plant sweet kisses on her...its especially sweet when she's sleeping...it implies so much....you think she's sleeping and unaware..but she is!\n\n* Introduce her to new things!  This will score big points and make a lasting impression...every time that event or occasion comes up you will be forever imprinted in her memory and associated with it.  (I was introduced to football!  of all things...and became a huge Steeler fan...cant look at football now w/o associating it w him.  Also shared my first Symphony w/ him, first baseball game, first game of mini golf....GO FOR THE FIRSTS!!!!\n\n*Be a gentlemen.....show her chivalry isnt dead.  Even someting so common as holding her elbow or hip when opening the door...or standing when she gets up from the table, warning her of puddles or cracks in the sidewalk, or standing on the side of her thats facing the street....just says so very much.  Girls like to feel like they are being taken care of...and that is SEXY!!!!!!!!!!\n\n*Make her dinner....may sound unoriginal or common, but if done right can be so very....sigh sweet!  Especially when you take it to her at work.  Presentation is key.  Throw in some fresh strawberrys and grapes for the desert and a box of chocolates......(writing this I can see Ive been spoiled)\n\n*Compliment her....don't over do it though....say it only when its warrented...that way she knows its genuine.\n\nOkay, so my two cents turned into a novel..but the above really has made a huge impression on me...and that says alot.  But good luck to you...sounds like you are already on your way to being pretty damn awesome.
1133316
Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
80060
definetly monday....i agree with the other girls...monday is a bad day for everyone..and the dude that said dont do it or whatever...dont listen to him...im sure he dont even have a woman by the sounds of it...were not all gold diggers...and its a very nice thing that your trying to find a way to brighten her day...your a very nice guy....your woman should apreciate having you....deliver the flowers to her yourself (if possible) its very romantic to think of makeing her day better..
974053
I'd say "No" to something and stick to it.  That should trow her for a loop!  Be careful that you're not just going along with everything to keep her.  That will not keep her.  Girls want guys with balls, who will stick up for what they want and what they believe in...
931313
Sounds like fun. You sound like someone who really tries to think outside the box. Good luck and I hope she enjoys it.