I always cry at the bells at new year?
923950
Yes I do, I can't help it no matter how hard I try not to, its just a very emotional time of the year, you think of things past and the loved ones who are no longer with you, I just put it down to a release of all the things that have gone wrong and a new start, my crying at new year is just a happy cry too, maybe were just nice sentimental people that's all, some old lady once told me a long time ago if you cry on new years eve you will cry all the year through, good cos I would hate to be without my emotions wouldn't you.
586894
its definetly not okay for people to treat you like that. I've been in the same boat. Start crying while you're sitting by yourself one day, and you'll have instant friends. Not just because they feel sorry for you, but because they'll see the error of their ways.
703980
I've been ringing bells since I was about 10 with my dad, and my family always spent at least one night helping at a local community kitchen every month, not just during the holidays.  I hope to incorporate that tradition with my own children once they are old enough.  Oh and we always donate gifts to children in need.
811663
No idea sorry, I only get the chance to watch Jools at New Year...bring on the bells!
577314
Yes because I am an attention hore, and if i didnt get the attention I want, I will cry scream and yell... until they change my diaper.\n\nThen ill pay them off with a cute gooogoooo
176973
Crying is not a bad thing. You need to get your feelings out. Everyday that goes by, it will be less. Everyone goes through that feeling eventually. Talk to someone you can trust and that always helps me.
711792
It's become a lot happier since having kids.  Before, it really dragged on me to feel obligated to be "merry" and "jolly" and "forgiving", etc., when I just wanted to get through as I would any other time of year.  But my two young boys are royally jacked for Christmas, and their enthusiasm fires up mine.  But yes, we'll really take it on the chin come the January credit card bills.  Yet to see them happy and enjoy things I didn't as a child, will make up for it in many ways.
954684
I hate New Year too Aimee as I am sure a lot of people do. We won't be doing anything special either, I normally go into a chat room if I am really down at least you can have a few giggles there.
258080
You can't.  It's just your emotions flowing out. I am like that too.  Don't worry.  It's ok if you cry a lot.
458748
Yes, I do! I know how you feel,It is a hard position to be in,But go ahead and cry,it will help you feel a bit better anyway.Take Care Sweetie and  God Bless.Tell him he will listen,and you don't have to be upset,Because he already knows!
472224
lol y shd i cry, i will jump, dance and will laugh out real loud ! :D
116101
honey, it's okay to cry. it's healthy to show your feelings and emotions. believe or not you are communicating. life throws challenges and it's up to us to decide how we handle it. for me, my best advice is fight back, u can control this. if someone calls u a crybaby, that's selfish on their part. u are telling him how u feel and that counts. if they tell u, u shouldn't be feeling the way you're feeling that selfish for their part. I say show your true feeling, take control of the situation, and be assertive. once you have the "assertion" then u can handle life a lot better.
1026808
i hate going away parties... they make me cry lol
889819
well u need new year guggestion i hv one but i m not going to tell u because i m a boy \n\n\n\n\nok i tell u just collect money from all ur friends and hv a great party at new year night from ur own. or collect at one friend house and see the television all night and eat some stuff like pizzza etc. \n\nromeo007
949842
Been there done that.  I had a job loss a few years back and things were tight that year.\n\nMake two things positively clear:\n\n1)  You are not giving gifts. \n\n2)  Make it equally clear that you absolutely positively will not accept a gift this year since it is not in your power to reciprocate.  \n\nThe only one who got it all mixed up was my father.  He had bought some pajamas for me.  I ended up taking them because my birthday is around Christmas and he just substituted it for then.  But everyone else understood what was up.\n\nIt was an awkward Christmas I have to tell you.  But the real meaning of Christmas is celebrating the the birth of Christ, so I just focused on that.  Even though I felt like a loser for not being able to give and receive gifts, it was still nice to be around family.\n\nGood luck.
56548
everyone reacts to different kinds of stress. some are visual, some are auditory. and people can react differently depending on the sound. \n\nthe reaction isn't really conscious. just happens when you hear certain sounds. so it sounds like you're super-sensitive to bells.
448677
Tonight I want to cry-----isn't it great?