Would My Fiance Be Turned  Off By This? (male opinions please)?
914007
Its actually a Big Turn ON.
510679
sleeping around these days is alot more dangerous than it was 10 yrs ago...there is too much to look out for. if you are trying to get something NOT good started with your fiance, go right ahead. a female may say they like other females, but that doesnt mean she wants her husband to bring them home and engage in sexual encounters with them (whether she is involved or not). women are very sensitive and protective creatures (some may say different because they deny reality, or is trying to please or impress someone), and seeing you enjoy yourself with another female doesnt exactly make them feel good about themselves. why would you need ANOTHER woman if you are satisfied with the one you have? and if you are not satisfied with her, you shouldnt tell her that you are (and i bet if you tell her you arent satisfied with her, she would not still be with you), its only fair (lets try to be a LITTLE LESS GREEDY; and if you have found the woman you want to marry, that shouldnt be too hard to do...self control is a virtue). not only is it that aspect of the matter, but you also have to think about the risks of involving you AND your fiance in activities like these. one of the benefits of being married (and staying faithful)is that you dont have to worry about disease or anything an unclean person can offer you. we are adults and we know that ANYONE can be unclean, but they may tell you a different story. none of us know what people do behind closed doors (if you did, you more than likely would gag at the fact of bringing someone else into your clean bed). it is so dangerous nowadays for that type of activity, and a risk unecessary to take if you love the person you are with. i personally feel if you love your fiance, and she makes you feel the way you need to feel (and not WANT to feel), and you are still insisting on having filth included in your lives, you are being selfish and unfair and inconsiderate of the person who is going to stick by your side til death.
214550
I don't think a boyfriend is going to care.\n\nBut if you don't want to do that stuff, then keep it quiet, or he might expect you to do it.
895686
It seems to me that you should value your fiances advice; I can understand if it makes you a little uncomfortable, but it is possible that maybe your man can help you resolve this issue entirely, or at least find peace with the matter so that it doesn't eat at you. The best thing to do is to pray about it, and talk with him openly and honestly about the matter, keeping an open mind.
93957
Have fun! Knock yourself out!  I always told my fiancee that if I ever caught him doing it, first don't stretch out my stuff and second, don't expect me not to laugh (he would NOT look good in female things, a bit too hairy hehehe).
196811
Is it normal...hummm..yes, for a guy to ask. People get to a point where they want to experiment or try something they "heard" is new or exciting. However, if you feel uncomfortable or your "womanly" sixth sense is alerting you to something, then I would becareful and listen to it. \n\nAlso, talk to him and let him know your feelings and what are your concerns. You will know by his reaction whether you two are on the same page or feel the same way.  If this is something you are not ready for or would NOT ever do, then stay true to yourself. There ARE men out there that have outgrown this need or feel differently as they mature. Just my $0.02.
1011366
It would upset me for sure and i would wonder why he never wanted to wear it. He should not be embarrased to wear it at all. I understand why this hurts you so bad and you need to talk with him and tell him how this bothers you. Take your rings off and see how he feels.
1022003
I think is cool just don't do it in front of his buddies (male ego) you know, but is cool, my fiance gave me roses once and I loved it, I was very happy with her  gesture and gave her a Lil' reward afterward (if you know what I mean). Just don't give him a big ol' bouquet or something fruity like that, with one is enough, up to half a dozen I think is fine. I put mine in a bowl in my living room and made my house  look alive, just make sure you deliver the roses yourself, and I will recommend you to wear some sexy lingery with it.
589823
It can be a turn on to see it happen.  I prefer he not go off in me for practical reasons: it's easier to maintain my internal ph if he doesn't.  How's that for unsexy?  LMAO
343318
Horse show hun, you need to keep your things...if you give in this time, you'll end up only doing his things, and never yours.  Its a slippery slope...make a point right now.  If he cares...he'll totally understand...if not, then you are beeter off, find a man that wants you to enjoy your interests, even if he doesnt.
996423
No...not at all.  As a matter of fact, it's a major turn-off...it makes me sick just thinkin' about it!!
1031762
On the flip side, if he loves you he would respect that you simply just don't want to.  he should totally respect that.  i wont do that either... i let my man go wherever but not in my mouth.  he is fine with it.  your man should grow up and accept it.
765004
for the first response, some guys dont mind peirods. secondly, a woman should NEVER have to give into anything. anyone who thinks that should be shot. and if your husband doesnt respect you enough to take no for an answer, hes sleeping on the couch. some of you women that said just do it to make him happy, have you no decency for yourselves, get some self respect. no man is worth doing something your not in the mood for.
421222
Im a guy and a pretty shy one when it comes to that. I think it would be a lot easier on us if you ladies would speak your minds and let us know a little more. Besides, he would probably feel intimidated and you would probably keep the upper hand in the relationship if it goes that way. Personally I like it when a woman takes control and isnt afraid to be herself. good luck!
555366
For both of them....if it turns him on more, don't you benefit. Put it on for your man and quit worrying!!
1164160
Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
1120177
I think it's great that your fiance wants to do that!  Have HIM tell his mother...you should just stay out of it and let him do it or it may cause resentment (well, more than usual).  Just have him explain to her what you just explained on here.  Good luck!