I think guys must take the initiative, but is this too much?
922682
lol, looks like he likes you ALOT.... hez one of us nice guys, give him a chance
1096970
Depends on the guy.  But if you have to ask, you are likely a little on the smothering side.  Give a guy room to breath.  Wait for him to say it to you next time.
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
593165
Whoever wants to, really.  If you want the guy, don't hold back.  We appreciate having a move made on us, too.  Shows us you're interested, & takes a little pressure off us, because we aren't as worried about getting shot down if we try something.
220319
don't put yourself in such a situation ok make him a big firend you might take advice from him
1116610
Don't force it, bro.  Don't even try to put yourself in a situation.  When the time comes, you'll just know.  \n\nSorry, this must seem like lame advice, but trust me, it's better that way.  I'm speaking from experience...
761855
i truthfully know men and i mean really know men. I would suggest shrugging him off a bit! He may think that you are too available to him, he is a man but hes not dumb! If all these girls are paying him so much attention, he i sucking it up! Maybe if he sees that you arnt that interested, which we no is not true, he might see you in a different light. Men love a tease! make it a challenge for him!
496625
Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
709393
I would just have to say to take charge. Its hard but a lot of guys like it. sometimes its the only way to get your answers... and whats the worst that could happen, he turns you down or says he isn't interest?? Big deal theirs others, but what if he is interested. Its better to know than just wonder "what if".. Good Luck!
301991
Absolutelly not go for it, from a guy we are very chicken at times especially the nice guys the more agressive guys that would ask you out without breaking out in a sweat are probably not nice guys. Being confident is a sign of knowing what you want and sure of yourself a rare thing. I wouldn't say it would come off as desperate. Just knowing what you want and going for it!
404148
just do your self...and be kind...that is the sexist thing about a guy!
31211
You're the woman.\n\nYou make the rules as to how much is too much and how much is too little.  Isn't that really what you want to hear?\n\nIf he didn't want to hang out as much, you'd be asking how you could MAKE him hang around more.\n\nWomen like you are interested in mindless drones who capitulate to your every whim.\n\nSounds like you got one.  Set your limit and enjoy.
570013
Lets be honest - men are motivated by skin - show him a bit and you'll get his attention for sure ;o)
336040
baby girl, some time you need to stop flying so high. there's nothing wrong about asking a guy out. or a least give him a hint.
258397
Sure. But the thing is, love is a very strong word and the guy may not be ready to reciprocate. If he says he doesn't think he's ready to say that, do not be discouraged.
562361
get his number and get it on with :P though it may be just a quick way to get into your pants :D
219943
Be direct!!!  Believe me guys would love more women to simply ask them out for a change.  Call him up, say you met where ever and you want to know if he's involved. If he isn't ask him out. Easy isn't it?