Don't you feel bad for these newlyweds??
920746
Great Joke, I can sign out now with a big grin, thanks for that\n:D
1047025
Nope. I married someone that loves me and cares for me so deeply. I did love him once, but he killed my love....now that I am married I realized that I hate myself for not following my heart. Its not fair to try to make someone happy and living a fake life that you may not feel. Trust me. I can't get out of it, and each day gets harder and harder.
834041
I think we all feel this way at one time or another...my famous description of myself is the b.o.n....blob of nothing lol...it is horrible to feel so low...but then,...I feel so guilty when I look around and see people so so much worse off than I am, and I wanna hit myself in the head and knock some good sense into it...I bet you have wonderful qualities, and sometimes, when it just don't seem to ever go your way..we have to step back and remember just what God gave us...and thank Him for giving us His Son,...as a sacrifice so that we CAN go on and live...Please..start remembering those things about yourself that shine and how  you can help others...and somewhere along the line, you will start to feel better..and say your prayers darling,..they will be heard...He always hears us...God Bless
163418
If you ask this, I feel sorry for you.\nYes they can.
951888
Well, I know how you feel.\n\nMy life is a total shambles. The man I love CLAIMS to want to marry me, but is always off searching for other women as soon as my back is turned.\n\nAnd now, if that wasn't enough, he has got another woman pregnant.\n\nLife just couldn't get any worse.
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THE ONLY ONES WHO ARE GOING TO BE AFFECTED BY THEIR DIVORCE ARE THEIR CHILDREN !!!\nI FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE 2 (TWO) KIDS FOR HAVING THOSE LAME IRRESPONSIBLE PARENTS !!! :(
54320
No, either of them. (One was my idea, one was hers.) I regret what I did that caused one of them, and always will feel guilt about causing someone pain. The actual divorce, however, in both cases, was a relief of stress. Some bridges just have to be burned. I have since matured and been remarried happily for a long time.
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Actually, why did they ever hook up?  You're talking about 2 not-so-bright, slightly trashy people who enjoyed having their courtship on TV.  \n\nThey probably never should have gotten married, and the kids were totally a bad idea.  It's so sad, too.  Poor kids.  \n\nshe was k-fed-up.  sorry, i had to say it.  :)
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I did on my first husband years ago because i was young and stupid and because i did not feel loved by him at all. It was a wrong response on my part though and i regret to this day every doing that to him and the marriage even though the marriage was bad. I should have went for counseling and help instead of running away and being with men. Two wrongs do not make a right and needless to say that marriage ended in disaster and my husband took his own life. Trust me it was not worth it at all and the pain was horrid. I would never do that again and now that i am married to a wonderful man and husband i would never even want or dream of ever doing this to him and my marriage. I learned my lesson and never want to make that mistake again.
177182
i once told someone i totally hate that her partner is the best guy ever, go ahead and marry him, while he's actually full of rubbish (alcoholic, jobless, rude to women, liar, sexist, etc etc). i regret it though coz she has a miserable life now, but the advice not only coming from me.. so it wasnt totally my fault =)
463514
Yes, but not exactly for myself, rather I feel bad for them and the situation that made them use foul language in public. Were they raised properly? Had a stressful day at work? Hate their in-laws? Pick a reason. That's why I feel bad for them. Not the swearing itself, but the root of the problem.
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This is something that YOU should've dealt with before getting married.  While I don't think it's exactly wrong to still have feelings for someone, it's not right either.  Do you think it is fair to our husband? You should be focusing all your love on your husband, not saving some for some ex.  As I said, this is really something you should've dealt with before getting married.  (Just think about it:  How would you feel if your husband was harboring feelings for some other girl?!)\n\nMy advice to you:  Exes are exes for a reason.  Look back and think about why you broke up.  I'm sure there was a good reason that you are not with him and that you married someone else.  While it may occasionaly be okay to maybe wonder how they are doing, to "still care" for them isn't.  \n\nAs I said, think about why you broke up with your ex.  Then think about why you married your husband.  I'm sure you will see that you made a good decision, and maybe you can leaarn to let go of the past.
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My mother in law feels sorry for my husband. He thinks that I don't do anything at all..and that I should have a job so he doesn't have to work so hard. \nThe truth is..she was Missing In Action for most of my husband's life..having to work all of the time at menial jobs. He has very few memories of her being there at all.\nSoo...I have learned to avoid her, and shrug off her unsubstantiated criticisms.
625859
Yes. Three times and I married two of them. One got away. The first one I married and I didn't really realize how much I loved her until she cheated on me and we got divorced. She was a mix of things good/bad, bithc/angel, honest/liar. I never really ever figured her angle out. She lost her way. I feel bad about things went between she and I. The past is the past.\n\nThe second, I never married her or even had relations with her, but I suspect that I loved her the day I saw her walking down the street. I remember it almost like it happened yesterday, but it was almost 20 years ago. I said that I had to meet her, I met her, we went out on a date, and it never worked out like I wanted. We became very good friends but she never felt the same way about me. \n\nThe third, is my friend, my wife and the mother of my son. I love her dearly and would do anything for her.
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this is YOUR wedding not theirs. tell them how you feel, calmly with out being forceful about it. let them know your feelings are being hurt because they are controling what is supose to be YOUR day.
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I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com
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Yea my ex left me to get married to someone of his religious background and now hes miserable in his marriage and i pity him because in the end his breaking up with me i met someone who love me and cherish me more than he ever did and hes unhappy in his suitation......And it bothers him that i'm happy \n\nBut i still pity him