how to show him that its more than friendship?
912079
It would do no harm to suggest keeping in touch. You might say you've enjoyed his company and are sad that he is leaving. You are impressed by the courteous way he treats people which is different from what you're accustomed to.\nI've know a few Latino men who have these characteristics; they seem to be indifferent to a woman's age or looks. It must be the way they are raised. I think it's only in our Western culture that such things matter so much.
970293
Tell him again and dont let him think there is a chance for something more. I can't promise you that your friendship is strong enough to be there when this is all done, but you HAVE to be straight with him.
1052175
Showing love,affection,caring, is what you call friendship.And if you want more than that, then you must be able to make her/him happy and always be with them to share their feelings. But dont forget to be a good friend.Its very difficult to maintain a friendship than love.Dont try to overact and be cool as who you are. People like the there persons to be themselves not imitate others.Love him/her till the life long and always tell him/her how much you love them.
386682
Then tell him exactly that.  Tell him that you really love him as a friend, but you appreciate him as a friend so much that you wouldn't want things to become screwed up between you.
885633
just tell him that you want to be friends and if he wants to hang out with you at ...
715966
Determine if he likes you...sometimes when something like this occurs then it doesn't work, it's just too weird in the end....it's hard to go back being just friends.
1152229
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
573610
Be there for him, show him that you care. Show him what a good friend you can be, just show that you always have his back.
850818
Why do you have to tell him? Why not just be his friend to see how he responds to you that way? Then if it goes well you can slowly work into being more. Why does it have to be a hurry up deal? This way is a lot less scarier and you wont be risking making a fool of yourself.
780598
honey, there is no way to force someone to see you differently, be your self. don't ruin your friendship. maybe some day he will change his mind, but for now just be his friend. it might be that if you try to force this issue, he will not even want to be your friend.
473360
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
791885
Just tell him the truth...that you like him as a friend and would not want to go further than that...he deserves the truth...and if your friendship is solid..he will respect that...
508621
Why don't you just be friends with him in the time being, since he seems to want that and see if it'll blossom to something more in the future.  If he really likes you, after spending more and more time with you, he'll want more than just friendship.  If he doens't, then he really doesn't like you like he says.  good luck.
853971
be friends first ! IF you find out he is not worth the effort then friendship is easier to end than something more.
546262
Tell the truth. That he is a very close friend, but the chemistry is not there
863473
try talking to him and be honest. If it ends the friendship, then he was obviously just playing at being a friend while his mind was working in a different direction.
936611
Be as sympathetic as you can, though try to minimize any pity you may show him, no matter how he acts when you tell him. Bottom line is, when you tell him, he won't like you, and there is absolutely nothing you can say at the moment to change that (but you can make it far worse) so tell him, give him a hug, say you're sorry and you want to continue to be friends, then give him some time. If the friendship is true then he will come back to you. If his pain is too great though, such is life, and he will need space between himself and you, to heal. There is no easy way out of this I'm afraid. Good luck~