My best friend is a girl and i really like her, and want to ask her out or tell her how i feel, but how?
918677
talk to her about it first, don't just ask her out, she may not like it sine she has a b/f. if you talk to her about it then you can both come to an agreement and go from there. no matter what happens, telling her how you feel will bring alot of relief now that you would not have to hide it!\n\nGood Luck
475199
to be honest with you my best friend is a girl..... we live in one apt.... and we do most of the things that you do.... we even walk naked infront of each other but the thing is that everything is very clear with our relationship..... we love each other to death but we know that we cant be more than just friends.... however.. yours can be the same understanding as mine.... at times we tend to forget why we can be so comfortable with friends.... and that there is nothing more.... no malice..... in this instance .... your feeling towards her is that you want more to be friends.... however you are not certain if she does feel the same way however her actions doesnt speak for it... what you have to consider is that .... are you willing to take the risk of loosing a friend should it happen that its only a one way street???? hence.... if your feelings are really strong you need to do it as gently and as fast as possible..... ask her for a casual date and ask her these questions.....\n\n1. what is your ideal guy.....? with this you can decern if it is close to being someone like you...\n2. have you found him??\n3. what makes him different? this will solidify your search....\n4. if all of it fits you then...\n\ntell her that you are ending this friendship ... i want more out of our friendship.. i want to take you out as my date not as my friend......\n\n5. if you seem that there is a different one tell her that you are happy for her.... but then again you just have to be honest... tell her everything......but before that... make a pact before you reveal you intimate feelings you will still be her best friend....
461256
Look: there are two ways: talk to her, see what she feels.\nConsequence: A good friendship might be destroyed\nOr you will lose a friend and gain a soulmate(surely you're in advantage)\nBut it is not healthy for you two to just be best friends, if you say you love her. Trust me I've been there. And maybe she loves you to but she may lack the courage to say it.\nMy opinion: go ahead-stop torturing yourself with this good friendship-it's a fake(nothing good will come of it) tell her, gently and carefull what you feel. It worked for me !\nReally, you have nothing to lose. It is better anyway that she knows what you feel about her ! May God help you in your whish !
321983
Go ahead and ask her out. Anyways, she is your friend. You have nothing to lose!
912229
ahhhi this is kinda a hard decision i feel wat u trying 2 say.ummmmmm look talk 2 her and tell her how u feel tell her dat u like her and dat u wanna be her but u scared 2 lose da friendhip after ya done wit da relationship and just see wat she tells u.Dont break ur head and keep things 2 urself cuz dats wat i do and it gets\nmore fustrated just talk things out with her.do dat and tell me how things go between ya 2 byee hope everything works out between u guys
1086752
You should probably have a talk with her, your friend.  Tell her that you guys are friends and that she means the world to you.  Be as gentle as you can in telling her that you just don't feel that way towards her right now.  If it's meant to be, then it will.  If you like this girl Summer, then by all means ask her out.  Just don't parade her in front of your friend, that will pour salt on the wound.
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
808533
if your a real friend thenjust tell her how you feel. honesty is the best answer.
91944
Well first do you want to be with a girl. If so Just tell her how you feel girls are usually very understanding. Hope it works out for the best.
726275
tell her how you feel!! you never know she may feel the same way. take a chance and tell her everything.
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
262650
then how about asking your friend to help you out....? you could ask her to try to jokingly ask him about being with you or how he feels about you? its better if you get a guy to ask about it because usually guys then to answer more honestly to the same sex....
191110
well first of all u need to tell her youre self in person how u feel she will like that a lot better than a friend telling her or u telling her on the phone.you could possibly take her on a date and then tell her at the end of the date how u feel .so maybe she will feel the same way .that is how my boyfriend and me got hooked up because he just came out and told me what he thought and i felt the same way back so just try it \n                       well peace out and good luck 2 ya buddi
603257
Just be honest. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels.  Be sincere.\n\nI wish you the best of luck!
843783
You just answered your own question. Approch her and just tell her how you feel. I mean she already knows that you like her so what do you have to lose. Nothing. If you are good friends then just be honest with her and tell her how you really feel. Keep your best judgement on high just in case she turns you down. But i say what the hell, walk up to her and ask her to go on a date to dinner and a movie. Or just don't go nowhere find some place quiet and talk to each other. When you are open with yourself and others you will gain more respect.
722627
Tell her. Tell her how you feel.