please tell me why people change so suddenly?
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After being married for 15 years, my husband started an affair an left me when I became very ill and was diagnosed with a permanent illness. \nOur marriage was perfect too. But my illness upset the relationship balance; I always took care of everybody elses needs first and it worked for all of us (me, hubby, kids).\nHe couldn't deal with me being sick and taking care of things until I got better, so he left for someone who filled his needs at the time. While I was very ill, he also pushed pills on me and did what he could so he could see his girlfriend.\n\nYour uncle was a good man as long as his needs were taken care of by his wife. He is a needy man that just can't deal with taking care of his wife so he rationalized things out in his head and got rid of her. \nSomeday he will pay for what he did.\n\nI hope your family has gotten together to help your aunt. That is your priority now! Get her out of the hospital and help her get better. Hospice is a good choice if she needs a lot of care, but be there for her.
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It's just not your time or your not doing something about it.  If you want some change in your life, you have to make some kind of change.  If not, you will just get the same old same old.
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Hormones change, this is true.  They can also change the way we feel, but they can not be used as an excuse to how we choose to handle things.  What happens to us, internally and externally is never as important as how we react.  Your true charactor shows through when we are emotionally challenged.  Decide if this person you become is who you want to be.  If not, then the choice is yours.
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I don't know how old you are, but if you are in your early teens and female, it's a normal thing to feel that way. You are changing and you think others are noticing it to. 15 and 16 are weird years for everybody. Don't sweat it. You'll be OK.
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Have you seen someone regarding this-it sounds like your hormones and internal chemicals have shifted and perhaps need some re-balancing.
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People fear what they do not understand.  Often it is the folks who can't find a reason for their problems presume that things are different for them because other people are 'different'.\nBut this is a simple answer to a complex question.
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Human nature as a result from evolution suggests that we learn too quickly. Sometimes it maybe a survival techinque to categories things into threats and non threats. Yes it sucks that humans are like this, but when your life is at stake, people tend to act differently.
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I understand what you are feeling. I am very much like that myself. I think it happens because I take everything and everyone overly serious and i take everything to heart. I have learned that a good way to cope with sudden mood changes is to write your throughts/emotions down. I used a journal like an emotional logbook....what was the situation, what emotions did it cause and how severe where the emotions and how did i react? How did others react to my reaction? Things like that can make you discover a deeper reason for your moodswings which can help you learn how to control them better. Of course, counceling can help tremendously. It sounds like you let your environment control your emotions.....maybe that can be helped through journaling and counceling. Try it out, and see if you can figure out what causes you to change moods so quickly.....you might need to take a more objective approach to yourself.
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What caused the big change in attitude?\n\nYou need to sit down and get answers from him, answers that you deserve.
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Every body is different. Hormones changes. Mood changes. I guess there's really no definate answer to your question. So enjoy while you can! :d
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Everyone changes throughout their entire life.  Sometimes it is subtle and sometimes it's dramatic. People don't often notice when it's them.  Just live your life being true to what you believe and surround yourself with positive people.  You will attract the kind of friends who can tell the difference between the truth and a rumor.
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Why do u think that people are becoming silly and superficial? i think its because of the rise and rise of the celebrity, especially people made famous through reality t.v shows, get rich quick for doing nothing. Also consumerism and the media selling us a lifestyle that we think we ought to have. By wanting these 'ideals' that are portrayed as norms, we loose sight of what is important in our lives. Health, happiness and love.
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why do u require a change ? this is the first question you need to ask yourself . You are what you are , you only need to upgrade yourself with better knowledge and do away the bad habits and adjust and watch your behaviour...Then you have changed yourself entirely for the better.
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I think sometimes they are defensive to a point of irrationality.  My guess is that it's not  on purpose but rather it's become a habit!  I think that when you feel different you are different...usually because you want to break the patterns that annoy you about you!
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could be pregnant, could just be the changes in your life--more/less stress, more/less exercise, more/less eating, different women your around, more/less sex, more/less drugs or alcohol
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It's no different now than it ever was.  Some people are rude and uncaring.  Some are polite and kind.  You know which people you like best.  Stick with them.
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Everyone is supposed to improve as they grow. Some people make the wrong choices and go backwards. I am trying to read self-help books daily, call someone I need to keep in touch with daily, and improve my other habits. But without going through an awkward phase as a youth, you won't be greatful for the changes and the improvement as an adult.