Does size reallly matter to your lover? Why?
923932
here's what size does not really matter if you love the person you're with & you enjoy the persons'  company and personality .... but when things start to go sour for what ever reason you're fighting , you're in the middle of a breakup, and the person starts to get on your last nerve ..... then the woman starts to attack everything about the man once it can hit home hard enough to hurt, Thats just the way we are as deffensive beings.... We may not be physically as strong as men but our tongues are our greatest weapon...it's just that the size of your manhood unfortunately ends up as a casualty of war.
1157798
It doesn't matter the size as long as you know how to use it.  If you are with someone and they have feelings for you and the relationship is a "two way" one, then don't worry about it.  That isn't the only thing that women look for in a good relationship.  Like I said, it's how use it.
671258
4 inches is normal/average. So I guess smaller would be less-than-avg.\n\nHowever, having a small one doesn't mean you're a bad lover, you can more than make up for it in other areas e.g. oral or foreplay ; )\n\nFor most women, the final bit is not as important as the stuff that comes before it, if you remember that, you will never be short of lovers..
391143
Let me share with you a little story...lol. Anyways I always thought that size would matter, its kinda what you think because of talk right, so I thought it did. Notice I said thought...well I have had both experiences and heres my result. The huge one which was like 12 inces hard, let me add OMG to that boy he was blessed...but anyways the sex was horrible, painful even and definetly something I NEVER would have slept with knowingly ever again in my life! The other huge one...which was about 11 inches hard...was good sex and was heaven when I was drunk off my a$$, but lets face it, your not going to be drunk every time you have sex with your partner right? And lastly the little one which was about 3 1/2, Ill even say 4 to be nice about it. THAT WAS THE BEST SEX I EVER HAD IN MY LIFE!!!!!!!!! I came like a waterfall a million times in ONE session!!!!!! It was even better when we smoked a joint together then went at it, just imagine the extasy, Im actually getting wet thinking about him. Well Ill end here before it turns into a porn session lol...but I would have to say the size thing is so irrelavent, I think if you know how to use what you have been given regurdless of the size big or little, your all set!!!!
249050
girls like cheeky-chix say size doesn't matter because its the right thing to say. some women don't want to be the one to judge a complete man by something so superficial as penis size. there is so much more to sex than just penis size that anyone can be a good lover even with a small member. cheeky is being sweet but i'll be real.\nif you are speaking strictly size, a larger penis will provide more pleasure than a smaller penis. if you are looking to improve only that area then bigger would be better. there is a point at which large becomes too big so world record is not the target (i wish women with implants would get this point). \nif you have a small penis and you are self-concious, remember that there are so many other ways to make a woman happy.
226767
Oh, please!!!!! Enough with this "does size matter" questions already!!! \n\nRead on;\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/search/search_result;_ylt=Ais_0_mi7bIuM8xOSMy8RRYezKIX?p=size+matter
81653
Yes, a penis can be "too big".  I really don't see why some men brag about having 10" or more.  I wouldn't want one that was that big.  It depends on the woman, but personally, anything over at 7 1/2" is too big.  Making love is meant to feel good... not hurt.
45934
Nothing is too small.  It's all in how you use it.  Also the dimensions of your partner.
587082
honestly a man can be too small, but he can also be too big. One that is too large can be painful in certain positions, so at least you don't have that worry. But just learn to please her orally and trust me, she'll forget all about everything else.
878060
While size can provide women a different experience, it really does not matter. It is all in how you use your tool, so to speak. \n\nI've been with guys who have smaller than 5 to 6 inches in length (which is average, actually). The sex was still quite pleasurable. In fact, it was better than the guy who had 7 inches. \n\nYou don't have anything to worry about. You're ok. When you become sexually active if you haven't already, just pay close attention to the noises your woman makes. Ask her what she likes. Ask her what she doesn't like. Be a considerate lover! :)\n\nGood luck to you!
962811
Like all others are saying, if you are in love with the person, it doesn't matter what size it is.  However, it can be a little surprising if the girl can't feel penetration at all.  It is not a deal breaker.\n\n"There have been several studies regarding the average size of the human penis. The majority of such studies could be unreliable due to self-selection bias: men with a smaller than average penis might be less likely to allow themselves to be measured, while men with a larger than average penis might be more likely to allow themselves to be measured. It is unknown if this conjectured self-selection bias has been confirmed by any studies, or if any studies have attempted to account for potential self-selection bias regarding penis size."
487051
I think that size does matter to some women. It all depends on the type of stimulation that they need. Some women need a long thick one to "fill them up" and others need something smaller to hit the most sensitive places closer to the opening. Some women even find that the big ones give them more pain than pleasure. Seeinng as you cannot change what size you have though, you just have to learn to work with it. Figure out how to change positions and the way you do it, to be able to have the effect that she will want. That is what will make you better than other men, is your versatility based on her needs. Good luck!!
398943
generally depends on the girl.  If you are average (ie around 5-5.5) you should be able to satisfy the average girl.  however, guys build up size to be such a huge thing. . . so sometimes girls think bigger is better, and in some cases it is.  Its more of how you can actually use what youve got. Its also a misconception to think that if a girl has been with a larger guy for a while being with a smaller guy is bad.  However, girls retain relatively close to their initial "tightness".  Soooo. . . actually width is more appealing than length (unless your wider than you are long)
763711
No it dosen't. I love my boyfriend the way he is, and for sure he don't need to have a big size to make me happy. His good charm, sense of humor and fun smiles are the things that matters to me.
591620
no,,, speaking of love size doesn't matter
582175
It's just a penis. Why does it matter how long it is? If you know what you're doing, then it shouldn't matter. Having a big dong doesn't make you a better lover or a better man.
318443
it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.... try some positions that make you go deeper into a girl.... may i suggest the cosmo kama sutra book! i got it and love it, my man loves it too. we have fun trying new positions that we don't think is it big enough or stuff like that. plus, it gives suggestions in the book on what positions are good if you are too big or too small for your girl, if you or your girl orgasms faster, and if you or your girl is heavier.