Can someone help me understand my situation?
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I am dating a woman who has kids also from a marriage. If she really loves you and is comfortable with who she is, she will explain and defend her life choices to her children no matter how difficult. I understand that could be very difficult for her, but she must make an important decision. If she isn't strong enough to live this life, she might consider living a different one.\n\nAs for yourself, you should decide how much you are willing to deal with this. If it continues this way, I am sure you will reach your limit soon. Your hurt will grow and grow and grow until one day you will say you cannot take it anymore! Take it from me, I have been there!!\n\nHave some serious discussions and trust your heart!
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this sounds confusing???
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More details, please.  Common sense may be able to help you out of this.
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See an attorney. He / she can get the ball rolling for you. Good poem, I assume about those who have fallen on hard times and are really down on their luck. Keep up the good work!
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I tried to help you the best I could. Do not ever give up! This will take you time to think over.  Time will tell. Good luck my friend.
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By the way you describe your relationship, you want out. I know that you are feeling stuck, confused, and completely stressed because you feel like you are in a relationship where you are being suffocated and you don't know where you will be if you get out of something that you are so used to. I don't need to tell you you need to get out, you basically said it in your question. If someone is holding you back from your goals and dreams for their own selfish motives, why stay? Also if the bad out weighs the good what do you think that does to your happiness? Life is not meant to live it unhappy, you make make what you want of it. Also each day that passes is a day that you will never get back, and to live them miserably is not worth it. You seem to be looking for excuses not to get out because you are afraid to be alone. Loneliness is not a fun thing, but it's almost if you have been alone with this guy who does not support you. You have your daughters and you have your ambition to progress in life. You can definitely love again! Then are BILLIONS of people in this world, I'm pretty confident that you will find love with someone who will treat you how you want to be treated and support your ideas. It could just be one of those co-workers or friends that have been complimenting you. Good Luck!
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Hi \nim unable to understand ur problme\ncan u give some more info
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I've noticed you've asked basically the same question multiple times.  Clearly you've recognized the problem and want to do something about it.  That's a great start but now you need to actual act, if you haven't already, upon some of the advice you've been given.  \n\nI think nwtobe's response (click on link below in Source(s)) was insightful and very informative.  I surely hope you have taken the next step and actually used some of the resources nwtobe provided.  It's now up to you to follow through, otherwise you have no one else to blame but yourself.  Contact someone now.   \n\nBest of luck and keep your chin up!
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sounds like you already figured it out. it is all a scam. you are on your own!!!!! good luck now you know the truth!
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It's a hard thing to see. If you could see how your future would be like with someone, though, it would be pointless. Hate to make this short and sweet, but the best way you can go about this is going with the flow. Arguments are bound to happen, but if you can work through them, that is what you can look forward to. To see that things can work out.
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Your a girl....there are tons of scum bags, uh sorry, guys who would take advantage of your situation.  You don't have to look far.  I'd suggest work on your marriage or get out of it.....why try to find the in between that never works out!
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Such a very sad situation.  My first question is why 70% less than the old job?  If you made that much before, can you make that much again? It would help ease the financial burden even if it wasn't your most favorite thing to do.  A good rule of thumb is to use 40% of your income on your living space. That means that if your house payment is over 40% of your income per month, you either need a raise in pay or a different house.  The best situation would be to find a job with insurance coverage that accepts pre-existing conditions.  That way, you can at least afford medication.  Keep trying for disability for your fiance'.  If he really is unable to work full time, it may be best for him not to work at all if it comes out to be beneficial to you both.  You're in a tough situation.  I wish you the best of luck.
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I'm sorry that you are having such a bad time. You deserve better. You would be wise to visit a therapist to see why you are still with this fool. You should also visit an attorney to explore your options. In all likelihood you will be better off without him. Oh and as for God he's always listening. Just pray.
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Sounds like you are very confused.  You should talk to someone you trust who can help you work through things and get a clear head.  Going to counseling would be really good for you - talking to someone who can give you a clear insight will help you a lot.  Best of luck with everything.
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I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
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What you should do is talk to them and explain your situation... Also I would look into going through a debt consolidator... That is what I do... and I was in your situation and now all I have left is less than a year and I am debt free!!!! I had to go to court for one of my bills... and when I did that the person said that they couldnt take money I didnt have, so they worked with me so I am paying a very low payment... SO your best solution is to talk to all of them... They may be able to help you out...
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it would be easy for me to help you more if you can provide more details abt ur problem.\n\nwaiting for ur reply