My boyfriend is working a lot,or is he?
916795
sounds like u need some one you can trust
799445
sounds like he is trying to guilt you into doing more than you are comfortable doing.
863756
From what you have told us I'd say he most likely is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I won't say he is cheating, BUT, it leans that way. Without having actual proof I would not accuse him of it. But I would look into things. You know his work schedule, so for starters check things out. You might call him at work when he is suppose to be working and if he is there then you can always say you called to make plans for that night as you got the sudden urge to go out. There are many reasons you could use. If he isn't there this is more evidence that he may very well be cheating. At this point you could even follow him or have someone check up on him. Is there a money difference in the amount he brings home? Is he going out more often than usual? Does he shower or clean up as soon as he gets home? Does he at times smell of perfume? There are all so many things or ways to find out. BUT this can take time. So be cool and don't make accusations that you can't backup. (Prove) If he is cheating dump him. You don't need a loser. I wish you the best of luck that things work out for you.
940532
It is difficult to get it all in one go. The days you are working, and weekends are free for you but not for him. Does he need to devote his time to his students evety Saturday? Could he not swap say twice a month so that he can spend time with you and the children?\n\nIm sure there are ways around it, be it him only doing it once or twice a month. If its money, could you not try working a little extra to compensate?Im probably getting this all wrong but without being in your shoes I can only put ideas there.\n\nThere are winners here, the question is are you both prepared to sit down and work it out? In a mothers eyes, we dont see where the problem lies with sacrificing one day a month to go on a family outing.  But this is a man who is obviously devoted to his career and he enjoys what he does.\n\nIt doesn't mean that he doesn't get to see his family in the process.
355108
How old is your boyfriend. Aren't you a little bit young to be worried about a mans finances?
554464
yes its ok, in most family's both parents work. I bet there is some time when you don't need to be in the house and you could get a job. do it if you need the money or if its something you want to do. your happiness should be one of his highest priorities.
672124
Men aren't very good at multitasking.  If your guy is trying to solve a problem, he's focusing on that.  Give him time and space.  He will come back out of his "cave" when he has his answers.  To pursue him with your needs at this time may jeopardize your relationship, so stay strong.
311046
Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
453291
I use to own my own business and he is telling u the truth.  Alot of people think when u own your own business u can make your own hours and just come and go as u please.  Thats not neccessarily true!  You have to put ALOT of time into the business in order to make it run smoothly.  Thats one of the reasons I finally sold it- cuz it never ever gave me time to myself or my family.  Atleast he is reserving all of his weekends for you.  And atleast u know he is out working his butt off and not fooling around!  He could have worse habits!  Why dont u pop in every so often and take him to lunch?  Or stop in and pounce him in his office and give him a little afternoon delight!  If he cant get away then u go to him!!!!!  surprise him more often!  Good luck to u!
365935
Well he is tired as he is working and now he has other things to deal with,as in the baby and you.\nThis can take a lot out of a guy in the first year or to,as he now is dealing with 3 people and not just looking after him.\nIt's the mental side of things that is weighing him down,so plan something special,a candlelit dinner and a romp in the bedroom,just let him know that you appreciate and love him for what he is doing.\nAs for your jealous thing,it's the reason you are taking so much time in getting ready,you have changed in body and soul and you are not sure if he desires you any more.Wrong!\nJust do this dinner thing on a regular basis and give him your whole you,you both will be fine.
1005184
First you need to make sure that his employer isn't making him work more hours. Don't jump to conclusions just because he is working more and might be looking at other girls. But you should always go with your gut feeling. Think to yourself...is he more distant than usual...and if all else fails talk to him. You will never have a long lasting relationship is there is not any trust or communication. Good luck.
925508
You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
242922
He's probably insecure and trying to compensate for it.\nShow him he doesn't have to micro-manage the office to get\nthings done.Anticipate his concerns if you know him well enough.
609500
Well... both of you are still pretty young.  You obviously have a pretty good idea of what you want in life.  Although, your boyfriend sounds like he's not quite ready to settle down.  From a guy's perspective, I'd have to tell you that this is a common thing at that age.  Believe it or not there's a period in our lives that we don't quite have a clear idea of what we want in life.  The part time handling of responsibility during school is something that is pretty easy to deal with currently versus the full time responsibility of being out in the real world fending out for yourself.  My advice to both of you is enjoy college life while you can and at the same time take care of business as in your education.  That's going to factor in quite a bit when you start looking for jobs.  If your boyfriend truly loves you, when you both get done with school, his focus might narrow a little bit more on what he wants out of life.  At that point it's probably a good time for both of you to evaluate the relationship.  Don't beat yourself up over-thinking this situation.  To answer your final question, I don't think you're wasting your time.  Someday you might reminisce of how great of a time you both had during college when you're both old and gray.
308196
no unless you make him understand it after you've done it..it makes him feel that you are someone he can really depend on..i believe its not bad..keep on the good work girl..but be sure not to do it very often..
579040
only you know what to do. but i can try to give advice.  find a job even somewhere you don't want to work.  catch the bus, walk to work.  whwre is your boyfriend? does he have a car?  do any of your friends have cars?  why does your family act like that with you?  be truthful.  prove to the, that you are not lazy stop pointing the finger and take some initative.  don't break up with your boyfriend you may need some one to come through this mess with you.
192525
Well, if he has to work he has to work. You can't get upset at him for that. If you feel he is just neglecting you I wouldn't invest anymore of my time into the relationship. He may care for you but honestly doesn't have enough time. You sound like a clingy woman so it would probably be in your best interest to find someone who can devote more time to you.