just now completing a divorce and just helped someone else?
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Oh, please!  Stop your advertising and trolling for business by pretending to help.  It's so obvious, it's embarassing!
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If you know the court where the proceedings were held call the clerk of the court.  You do need to check.  My now-ex was not divorced before he married his second wife.  It was a mess.  If he loves you he will help or show you the signed AND court stamped papers.
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In my case, things got BETTER between my ex and I AFTER I took him to court for support.  \n\nIt was especially difficult because he is an attorney and tried to make it hard for me.  But, I went after everything I could because I figured that even the LAW would grant me more than he was leaving me and the children with - which was nothing!\n\nSo, I sued him and fought him.  I won enough to make a difference, and it was totally worth it.  I too have a child going to college in a few years, and I have younger ones too. \n\nFor the sake of your children, and for the sake of your own sanity, SUE him if you must.  \n\nMy ex has reluctantly accepted the situation, but I had to have his wages garnished before he finally came around, and now we're actually better friends than when we were married.\n\nIt's hard, I know.  But, it's worth it.  You can't afford NOT to go after him.  Your children are HIS children too.  \n\nGood luck!
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Is it the man? I thought it was the person whom provides the income or higher income of the family. They do it to "help out" the person on the downside of the divorce.
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Why are you help your ex wife???
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LET ME KNOW DIVORCE COURT IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT HER!!!!!!
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No. Sometimes people change and circumstances require divorce that is best for one, hopefully, both parties.  It just makes you wiser and experienced.  Good luck & never give-up!
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um. i think i just helped you with this. your other question. sorry it was kinda slow but   i didnt see it till now.
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The best way to help your ex get on with his life is by getting on with your life. Show him that there's life after divorce, and happiness. Be courteous, but not over-friendly. Discuss what needs discussion, like the kids, or whatever, then have places to go, and things to do...don't spend time in useless dialogue. Also, as far as property goes, settle that as soon as possible. If you and he have no possible reconciliation, no need to spend a lot of time together. Move on!
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He had a baby with another girl while he was still with you? Why are you fretting over this guy - you should be glad to be rid of this jerk! I still have to deal with my ex-husband because we have a 10 yr. old together, and we each have 50% custody. But I look at it this way - my ex (a big jerk) has re-married. Now his new wife is stuck with him (and I'm not!). I am re-married to a wonderful man - I definitely got the better deal here! And like someone said earlier - living well is the best revenge. Be glad that he is gone and that she is stuck with him - someone better will come along.
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divorce and break up!!
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Actually I Knew a couple personally who divorced and had a little boy. After I think it was 1 year or a bit more the man moved back. For whatever reason they lived together (but they didn't remarry) They were quite content as things were. He was still paying his child support and had no problems with that. Nor did she. Too them they said it was like a bank account that he was responsible for and it was just for their daughter. So while he still payed the child support it was all going into this savings account that just had his wife and daughters name on it. Sometimes they used the money for birthdays or doctor's bills. But he said it was helping him focus on the fact that those child support payments were going directly to that account and in essence that account would be used for her colleage education.  So they just lived with that arrangement. But it was their choice and they made it work. (It's been 7 years and they are still doing the same thing).
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You might want to try therapy but if its to the point where you know in your heart its over then the best thing to do is figure out a way to be friends and it will make the divorce go smoothly.
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You must let them both go. A friend had this happen to her also and they got together got married had two kids and now they are in divorce court. She never got over the fact that her g/f did this to her, but now she sees that she mulled way too long over this. I would not be friends with her anymore as you may never be able to trust her.
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It sounds like you're already doing the right things - you have moved out, you have initiated divorce proceedings.  Go through with the divorce, and then look to the future.
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Get the divorce! Yes! All the cases that i have heard of have the free person getting the divorce.It is not free as far as i know. You can go on line or to the local law library and find out about the paperwork. Do you know any lawyers or paralegals? They can help also. Paralegals first if it is a simple divorce,they are cheaper.Good luck!!
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Nuthin's wrong. You've just not got over your divorce, that's all. Just open yourself up (not literally :-) ) a bit and start interacting with everyone freely. You'll soon not only get over your divorce but also have a chance to find a lady good enough for you. BTW, you should also think of what you might have done wrong leading to your divorce so that you don't repeat the mistake once you find the right one.