Why is my ex such an a**hole?
915098
1)  That's why he's your ex.\n2)  That how he caught you in the first place.\nLife has its moments.  Move on to the good stuff.
1154646
first he is an ex. second he's got a gf...you must be pretty desperate to even think about getting back  with him.....the world is overly populated...move on and find someone better!!
500679
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
1034727
There's a reason he is your ex.  He could be trying to get in your pants...
602548
Help you?? You need to remember theres a reason why hes your ex in the first place.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
522860
Maybe he's losing intrest in u or trying to give u a hint? that he wants to see other people. That's what my ex did, when she said i deserve some one better. Maybe he's trying to get more attention, who knows? tell him stop playing games and come out forward & say what's on his idiotic mind. Us guys can't express our feelings well, unlike u ladies.
164813
Ignore the phone call, unless it continues.\n\nResist the urge to respond to the immature behavior.\n\nI think it is good you are out of the relationship now and you should keep it that way. He was abusive and I am sure your self esteem went down the gutter.\n\nTreat yourself. Do something you always wanted to do but couldn't till now. Try seeing people and going places that have no relation to your ex.\n\nIt wouldn't be a bad idea to see a therapist and/or find a support group to deal with the abuse issues you went through.
978872
sorry, but this all sounds extremely immature and blown out of proportion.  and hate is a very strong word and emotion.  \nwhat happened with your ex-girlfriend is between you and her!  it has nothing to do with the present girlfriend, but you've obviously dragged her into it anyway!  not smart at all!\nthe best way to deal with your ex is to totally ignore her.  she'll leave you alone when she see's she's not getting to you anymore.  she's just trying to get a reaction from you.  so don't give it to her.  and wanting your girlfriend to beat up your ex?  think about it, it doesn't get much more immature than this.  think for a minute, you're causing trouble and blowing things way out of proportion.  and there's always the chance that your girlfriend isn't as tough as you think she is!  what are you going to tell her if your ex beats her up?  will your girlfriend then beat you up because she got beat up?  see what I mean, nonsense!
719973
IF YOU ARE CONSIDERING A 1 NITE WITH THE EX,THEN WHY IN THE HELL IS HE YOUR EX
281811
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
538488
Because your ex is afraid of being alone.  He see's you moving on and getting on with you life, by his is going nowhere.  and he's lonely.  With all the diseases out there and the gold diggers too, He knew you were there and that was a bit of stability in his life.  Now wwithout you he has no stability and like I said before, he's afraid of ending up a loney old man with no-one to love.
560022
She wants to mess around with you so your ex get jealous...she either likes you alot or hates your ex girlfriend, either way its a way to have alittle fun but not the way a healthy relationship should start...thats up to you..
252427
sigh . . . you're better off with-out her. It may not look that way but she doesn't want a guy she can whip (wimp) around which is what she'll have if you get back with her. You'll be happy for awhile until you notice that she's lost respect for you and just keeps you as a toy. Essentially you're just putting off the inevitable.\n\nThe best thing you can do is move on, start dating other girls. Nothing will make a girl come back faster than noticing her ex is doing better with-out her AND women are wanting him (it doesn't matter if the girls are unattractive they still see them as competition).\n\nHopefully though, you just move on. Read the article below, I think you might be able to relate to it.
1068394
Are you kidding me? My lady would have my nuts for earrings if I tried to pull something like that. No other women comes before her. Ex-lovers...Nope, don't even bring the name up. Not if i want to sit and listen to her bitch at me for the entire night. If she even thought I was emailing and having open communication with an ex. It would be my a**.  You are his women and he should have at least a speck of decency and stop it all together. If he does not your relationship will break down for sure.
569914
Sounds like you really miss your ex....
943243
just like Usher said, you gotta let it burn...i don't want to judge your ex, but it seems to me that she kept you in her life as her emotional crutch.  she would meet other guys with a certain confidence because she had you in a glass case and in case of emergency, she'll break the glass and use you.  the best thing to do is just move on.  being friends is all good but for your sake, try to keep it as informal as possible (emails, texts, etc).  you obviously care about her deeply and that's good but you have to take care of you first.  the best way to move on is to live your life to the fullest.