I'm spending the next 4 days, and nights, with a virgin.  Should I?
922485
Yes, you should, just take lots of things with you, and good luck.
144385
first I wanted to answer "then have sex, take the pleasure from him, and go forward someone new..." but i can see that you're interested in that person more than just for an one night satnd... so, you should decide for you, whether you take the risc that you'll have sex and then nothing, or that maybe he is interested in you too, and you'll get yourself involved in something beautiful... I think you should take that risk, and approach him... the only thing you loose is a little of your self confidence... but who doesn't risks, doesn't drink champaign... good luck!
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
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You should explore together. Since it's your first time, I think it should be slow and very sensual. Your first experience should be memorable as well. Anyone can have wild sex, that doesn't exactly figure the intimate feelings in though. I think you should both start slow and after you've gotten comfortable having s ex together, then get wilder and experiment more. Get the basics down first and trust me, alot men WITH prior experience "forget" that a woman actually has to be taken time with. Make the first time SPECIAL!!
558003
i prefer a virgin (i'm a guy)
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Yes my dear, I know what you mean. If you're scared, don't go. \n\nDoes he know you're a virgin? You didn't say how long you two have been dating. If you've dated him a long time and he knows you are a virgin and has been respectful, never questioning you or pressuring you, then it MIGHT be okay. I still think if you are afraid or it makes you uncomfortable, then you should do what feels right to you and not go. If you feel you might be pressured to have sex and you are not ready to, then do not go. \n\nI am not a virgin any more, but know how this feels. Let me share a story with you:\nI am a single woman (previouly married many years ago). I was dating a guy for a few months and I really liked him, but had not had sex with him. We kissed on our dates, and it was very hot, but kept it at that level, just kissing, no "heavy petting". He invited me on a ski trip for a week. We had not travelled together before, or even spent a weekend together, so I was a bit hesitant. (I should have paid attention to that feeling; that was my intuition.)  I really did not think he would pressure me. He had been very well mannered. I would not have gone otherwise. I knew spending that much time together would let us really get to know each other. We got along well and it would be fun, especially because we both like to ski.\n\nOn that trip, he started by wanting me to sleep in the same bed with him. I actually didn't have much choice, the room only had one bed. I should have known right there that a real gentleman would have made sure there were 2 beds or asked me if I was okay with the sleeping arrangements. I felt a little uneasy about it, because I was not ready to be so physically close to him. But I figured it was okay, and kept my gown on. Well, it just got worse each night. By the 4th night he was pissed off that he had "paid to take [me] on this trip and [I] wasn't being accomodating". He got more and more demanding. He flat out told me he "deserved" to have sex with me! He was a real jerk about it! Rather than a really great time, it became a degrading experience for me.  Needless to say, we stopped seeing each other after that. \n\nThat was years ago but I learned a lesson. For me: I would never go on a trip with a man unless we were crazy about each other,already in a commited relationship, and had already made love before that trip. I turned down several trips, but I did not want to be in that position ever again! Yuck!I did not go on a trip with a man again until all of my criteria were met, and what a difference! It was worth the wait.\n\nI commend you for being a virgin. it's a rare thing these days. If you are not ready to lose your virginity, don't!\n\nJust because a man pays for a trip, no woman "owes" a man sex in exchange. I have asked several men (yes, all kinds, including wealthy, well educated, well-mannered upper class men, like the man I had gone on that ill-fated trip with) about this and unfortunately many men seem to think that accepting the invitation of going on a trip is some unspoken code for "there will be vacation sex." They assume "the woman knows [he] wants sex on a trip." So don't go unless you want that too.\n\nYou do what feels right for YOU, not your boyfriend. If he really loves you, he will not pressure you. He will understand. If he doesn't, then break it off. You are special and need to be with someone who truly understands and appreciates you. Good luck!
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When Ram and Virgin meet there is passion in the air. The mysterious creature standing opposite will fascinate. The Virgin's sharp eye and hidden depths will be an attraction. The direct speech and "no nonsense" manner will seem almost familiar and Virgo, of course, admires your vigour and independence. There will be sexual tension and the "honeymoon" may be exciting, as the prim and proper Virgin reveals searing depths of passion to a venturesome explorer. \n\nNow discriminating Virgo (the Virgin) is an Earth Sign, while Aries (the Ram) is definitely a Fire Sign. The attraction is fuelled by dissimilarity. However, as Fire and Earth get to know each other, clear differences will emerge. Discerning Virgo will begin to resent your "head on" style, if that's all that's on offer. Be inventive and curious about your partner's needs, otherwise the Virgin may end up being otherwise engaged. \n\nNotice the changes your partner makes for you. Be attentive! The Virgin is hygienic, an orderly creature, so domestic matters will need energy and attention. Sloppy habits and half-completed tasks will bring the sharp tongue of the Virgin to bear. Anything could happen then, as the mighty Ram does not accept criticism gracefully. You will have to work out who is responsible for what in daily routines, but even then there may be trouble, for few in this world can complete a task to the Virgin's satisfaction. You will have to lift your game, but, to be fair, your personal Virgin may have to lower his or her sights. The likelihood of these occurring depends on how much you want things to work. Miracles can happen! \n\nWhile the Virgin will appreciate your independence and can follow a natural leader, you will have to adapt your leadership style. The Virgin's humble manner can be deceptive. Any Ram who thinks they can just bellow orders will be in for a short sharp shock, or perhaps a sustained verbal assault. The Virgin does not appreciate anyone breathing down that well-scrubbed neck, but you can always rely on the Virgin to perform responsibly and without fuss. The Virgin will not appreciate the constant drama that a Fire Sign can create. The Virgin will analyze a risk where the Ram will take one, but the Virgin will not appreciate losses that come from foolhardy ventures. If you both learn the rules, the combination of Fire and Earth can bring flair and practicality to bear. The two of you can succeed in business and in life, but this is a tricky match. Only time and patience will bring it to fruit.
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he probably wants you for the wrong reasons. hold off because, being a virgin makes you very desirable.
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I was 14, on the floor of my ex's mother's travel agency. I dont regret it for a minute. I had fun. It was fun. But you should do it when it feels right to you. Dont listen to us, what we did might or might not be right for you. YOu will know when you want to loose your virginity. And remember its not the age, its not the time its when it feels right to you. Whatever you do, be safe, and be cautious, and make sure that you NEVER EVER regret anything that you do. Otherwise, remember it won't be fun the first time; and it might even hurt! So, be careful. And just enjoy the moment!
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to save yourself for the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with.\nIgnore the criticism you have the right to choose what you want with your body. Being a virgin does not make you any less of a person in fact you are the opposite you are a strong person with strong morals and I do have to applaud you for that.
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I think you should offer her a seat.\nYou're entitled to your fantasies.  Why would it be wrong?  Should you stop?  Nuh.  Go take a minute & enjoy it  ;-)\nIf she has any sense at all, she'll have no problem whatsoever with any guy going HEAD first....\nMen are like donuts... all the better w/ a little glaze on em\n24 hour breakfast buffet, babe\nALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT YOU WIN
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well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
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Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
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No.  I would see her in a good light.  It says something respectable about her character that she is a virgin.  I would wait.
532250
Yeah, you'll most likely regret it.  You should lose your virginity to someone you love.  If you don't have a loved one, then wait untill the time is right.  Don't let your friends control your life.  If you do, you're screwed.
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personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
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Go with Maria, she knows you best and as for beingin love in 3 days, cant happen. Stick with Maria, it's your safest and most intelligent choice.