Ladies...what do you find attractive in men?
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a lot of the same thing all the others have said. Humor,caring,romantic,sensitivity,smile,etc.
474900
After the initial male reaction (meaning like all guys my eyes are drawn to the obvious things men like to look at) I'm usually captivated by a woman's eyes.\nMentally: compassion and a good, irreverent sense of humor.
136252
Honesty.  Trust.  Self assuredness and confidence.  Good looks of course.  Funny.  Smart.  Good sense of style.  Turnoffs would be jealousy, clinginess, poor personal hygiene.
664179
Nice guy with a great smile, sense of humor, honesty, good communication skills, trusting guys! All of those are assets i look for. Oh yeah and great hygiene is a must!
1000752
uhm... good question.  now that i think about it, Eyes attract me 1st.  then pretty much the rest of the face. then bodily appearance.  But most definitely personality.
889678
good personality\nnice smile \nattractive(doesn't apply to all guys)\ngood sense of humour\nnice butt or breast
416449
Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and every guy has a slightly different opinion of what beauty is in a woman.  However, once you get pass the initial physical attraction, I really think that whether or not a woman's personality is attractive is what keeps the guy interested.  I guess the same thing can be said for what defines a good looking man.
1013083
I prefer guys who are caring, compassionate, friendly, smiles a lot, has a great sense of humor, is goal oriented, and intelligent.  also a nice butt is good too!!! but only after all those other characteristics....hey! I just described my bf!  Aren't I lucky?
388682
dear, as far as i am concern i like humorous , kindhearted , loving n charming personality. there is always room for beauty as we are man , but if you ask for just friendship , the inner beauty of a person count most
1034806
I can't speak for "men" but I can speak for myself.\n\nBeing a man, I am attracted to beauty.  If I see beauty walking down the street or in the store I will admire it...as beauty...like looking at a sunset, a work of art, etc...beauty for beauty's sake is well, beautiful.\n\nBUT... if I am looking at having a serious relationship with a woman, beauty isn't in my top 3 three things to look for, it's probably in the top 10, but not top 3.  The top 3 things I look for...\n\n1) Intelligence. \n2) A sense of wonderment with life.\n3) Common sense.\n\nBeing that I'm almost 40, been married twice and in my younger years "dated" frequently, I have realized that outward beauty, while nice, pales in comparison to the beauty that comes from a quick wit, a passion for life and the common sense to make decisions about things.
500964
most important....a great sense of humor..I can't handle a guy who doesn't have one..\n\nalso, I like guys who are witty...smart...I don't mean book smart, though that's ok too, I mean someone who can figure things out..that I don't have to explain everything to..someone who loves his family...is good to his friends, loves animals..someone who believes in being faithful...compassionate, loving...
1002182
You will get hundreds of different answers to this question. so here is my personal input: The ability to hold a conversation, a sense of humor, and above all...honesty in all things.\nIf it is physical attraction you want to know about, personally I prefer long hair, dark preferable, mischievious eyes, and a great pair of legs
445545
1) Good looks and a great body\n2) Honesty, respect, potential, focus in life, humor, intelligence, total fidelity, sincerity and affection.
394691
i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
461729
Here's my honest list:\nGodly, Geeky, Brilliant, quirky sense of humor, impulsive, compassionate, politically aware (preferably liberal), honest, sensitive, not afraid of debate, and likes board games.\nAs far as looks, I'm not too obesessed, preferences: soulful eyes, blonde (though I am often physically attracted to African American men as well, so blonde is only a caucasian thing), Clean shaven, tall, skinny, maybe hair a little below the ears-- but that's not important- it's really the personality thing above that does it for me
757741
I personally am attracted to how guys dress, their body spray, and How they treat a lady. ♥ A romantic guy is the biggest thing i m attracted to. ♥ I m attracted to guys, i m straight -Ria
674308
it depends on the girl.  good looks and nice body are awesome, but i usually go for the eyes- they are the window to the soul you know.\n\nthe guy i like right now.  overwieght, scruffy.  but very,very nice and sweet and has nice singing voice-am a sucker for a nice voice.