ok is it my fault? (please read more details)?
926924
Get her out of there.  I'm sorry about the money, but you don't sound like you're having that much fun.  Alcohol destroys brain cells.  You want to see her sober again while it's still possible.  Like you said, she has a problem.  You don't.  How fortunate she is to have a compassionate son!  It's not your fault that she's drunk.  But, this is a situation you might be able to do something about.
547370
Well, it isn't your fault they sent you the checks. But if you know that it is a mistake and you cash them anyway, they can probably take you to court over it. And I bet they can afford better lawyers than you...
1062133
I am definately not qualified to give legal advice but my guess is the judge will come up with the same conclusion you just stated in your question.... YOU forgot to put the safetly on, therefore, your negligence is what caused the bb to go off... so, it's your fault and you are to be held liable for it. Don't you agree?
589587
Your friend was very rude not to acknowledge your apology and brush this situation off. It was an accident, and no you should not be expected to buy her new lights. However, if she seems upset, and you are willing to buy the new lights, I suggest you tell her that you want to go out for an afternoon, have a little shopping and coffee time (or whatever you enjoy for refreshments). Tell her that you intend to replace the lights and help her hang them up, if they were. If she declines, laugh and insist. Just go, pay for them, and help her get over this. If she has any sense whatsoever, she will appreciate your doing this and realize what a child she has been.
1160376
Not sure if this apology includes me (so it would be presumptuous for me to accept it) but no offence taken anyway because, luckily, your suggestions about my possible past were off the mark. I could also appreciate that you had perhaps misunderstood a generalised answer I gave (that I hadn't actually applied to your own situation).\n\nFor the record, I don't think I'm an idiot either but, of course, that's just my subjective opinion! ;-)
267155
Hmm. No.  It's not MY fault.  Though anything bad that happens is NEVER MY fault.  Besides, I wouldn't burn a house down. And I don't need "God" to babysit me.  Think that "God" is more like the babysitters they catch on video ;).
392460
well it is your fault for saying all those bad things! maybe you should do something very extraordinary and then he'll realize how sorry you really are
515042
I refuse to admit anything to you...what did I do this time that I have to apologize....\n\n*********\n\nOn a serious tone...if I REALIZE that I was wrong, I do apologize, and hope that whoever was on the receiver end will accept my apologies and will be able to either forgive me or just move on...but I know that it will take me a long time before I am able to come to terms with the fact that to err is human...and I am not the perfect alien...:D
1075260
It has not worked for me but i am no expert I might have done it all wrong or incorrect
630653
Fair enough question. Cause we aren't perfect and despite good motives we get things wrong. I am sorry if we bruised you unfortunately we do get thing wrong sometimes.
817887
I agree you were wrong!\nIf you need help contact me.
472285
I think you're overthinking this.  I mean, people make mistakes and people will get irate over them.  You did your job, and correctly, I don't think you have much to worry about.  Also, it sounds like you're in a customer service position...take some advise and get used to it now, it only gets worse.  :)
1068292
NO! NO! NO! Do not continue. If you're wrong, admit you're wrong. If not, then NEVER apologize! Let the other person...they owe you an apology!
855008
Yes, you overreacted, and your response was childish - might as well run over and dump your food on her head.  \nIf someone offends you, don't assume that they will just magically realize this.  (and how is your swearing and vulgar gesture any more polite than her swearing?  two wrongs don't make a right!) \n\nWhat you should have done is gone over to her and politely said, "Pardon me, but would you please refrain from swearing so loudly?  It is disturbing other people.  Thank you."  \n\nAlso, part of your anger problems stems form the fact that you perceive this act as an attack on you, something you need to "retaliate" for.  You need to remind yourself that people do not do these things to piss you off, it is nothing personal against you.  They are simply absorbed in their own lives and actions - they are thinkig about themselves, not you... just like you.  \nPlease consider anger managment therapy, and try to let other people's rudeness be your inspiration to be more polite, not less.
750835
DON"T Say you are sorry if you didn't do it...just ask the person why they think you did it? Why would you cause this problem ? Have them think about it....also ask them if you can talk about it....maybe you did do something that hurt that person and don't Even know it...people get hurt over things that would NEVER hurt us...that is why there is conflict....Different prospectives!!
1035192
I'm sorry you have been cheated on. Where does this rant really get you? My opinion is you should be taking care of this with the person at fault than talking to us
752974
He want's you to be what you were before you argued, but he's not sure how to do that. I don't know who was wrong becasue you didn't write anything here, but I suspect he may think that you owe him a sincere apology.\n\nJust a theory. If you were wrong somehow, it's a bigger person to be able to say you are sorry.