One of my closest friends likes being spanked by older women - What is all that about?
915051
You've found one.\n\nE-mail me and we can talk about it
1019996
Because they've been there and done it - good or bad your elders deserve respect.  You may not like the person, personally but he/she deserves your respect if there's a big age difference.  While what Gus brought up may be digusting and distasteful to you - edging a bit on sexual harrassment (if there are any ladies around) - he's an old guy reliving his glory days.  Sorry to burst your bubble but belive me you'll be there a whole lot sooner than you'll ever expect.  Give the old guy a break. When you grow up you'll understand.
389520
Well, your friend must be more mature than her age and she doesnt want a guy whom she has to correct all the while but a guy who can correct her and tell her when she is wrong, a guy who can take care of her, who is experienced enough to know how to take care of an 18 year old girl's emotions and feelings. We women we love to be protected than to protect men ! We want to be taken care of, we want to feel great. You think a 20 or so year old guy can do it? He can't even take care of himself and he needs someone to do it for him. Now you put yourself in her shoes and you will get the best answer...! All the best !!\nBut i'll tell u something i'm also 18 and my boyfriend is 35 and married. That's why i could answer your question properly...!
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She's no "good friend".  That sounds like a Lifetime Television for Women movie.  You know, as a mother I want to say I'd kick her @ss.  But really, at this point there isn't anything you can do but sever your friendship with her.  He's 20 now, and the statue of limitation for rape ends at age 18 in most states (though you might want to research this for your state).  Your son, if he's the "mature type" could have very well seduced her.  But as I said, he's 20 now and there's nothing you can legally do.  I know you are hurt, angry and betrayed, I would be too.  And I'm so sorry for you.  Hopefully you and your son can discuss this and find out why/how it started.  But I would definately approch the woman and ask her why?  How would she feel if a man her age had an affair with her 16 or 17 year old daughter?  She'd have him in jail so quickly.  Remind her of that.  \n\nJesus, lady.  My heart goes out to you, really.  If you ever want to chat more, send me a message and we can exchange email address.  Good luck.
949433
you my friend are a perve. go off and look at some porno sites. I MEAN COME ON YOUR 42 ASKING FOR FRIENDSHIP WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??!!! but i mean that in the nicest way possible.
1133814
I have been submissive for most of my adult life.  I have had genital torture, nipple torture, candle wax torture, spanking with paddles, hands, whips. I have been humiliated, slapped, as well as spanked by groups.\n  The most important thing to remember is trust.  You must trust your partner BEFORE EVER letting them tie you up.  Talking is very important, before, during, and after.  Both should know a safe word meaning stop. And both should know stop MEANS stop.\n  It is a very interesting fetish, but one that should be approached \nvery cautiously and slowly.  Be very careful and safe.
517668
well either it's a total tease or she want's it be  different after 12 years. if your bold and chance a slap in the face aproach her next time she does that and see what kind of response you get. it wll make or break the behavior for sure
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The fact that you think of some of it as as indecent is very important. Obviously you have a clear sense of boundaries and propriety. You should have a CALM conversation with your friend on these topics. Did I mention it should be CALM! This is a central aspect of a relation and can determine whether it's viable or not, but DON'T jump to conclusions just yet.\n\nIt could just be "trash-talk," which is not much more than a desire to be accepted by "the cool ones." This can easily disappear as she matures out of those kind of peer pressures or moves on with her own life.\n\n\nAnd yes, at least on this you are totally normal.
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Well, you should ask her why she won't tell you her age...maybe she's sensitive about things like that, and looks young but is really older?  If she is coo coo, but she's harmless, then it's all right; if you thinks she's way off her rocker then I might end the friendship.  However, some people are just eccentric.
570821
let her ride on you. that would be making you feel tighter
498914
Spanking to me is very sexy and some people think that if women like that during foreplay its a sign of being submissive and like letting people control you but thats not how it is at all.I am a very dominant person and I have never let someone control me.All because I enjoy getting bent over my man's knee and like having him spank my naked asss doesn't mean I am some wussy that lets a man control me.I liked getting spanked before, during, and after sex, sometimes I just like a spanking period with or without sex( I prefer sex with it of coarse), there has been lots of times where my man and I will be in public and he would snatch me in the bathroom and give me a quick spanking especially when I am being bitchy and give me a "preview" of my later "punishment" and we role play along with the spanking thats so hot. It turns me on so much, it a pleasurable pain that drives me wild and gets me so wet.The harder my man spanks the more I get turned on!!!!I can't explain it buts its a must on my foreplay list! I love for my spankings to be nice and hard!!!
687785
---Tell her that until she starts acting like an adult, she will be treated like a child---SPANK HER!!!!
290630
It is very common for woman to give each other intimate gifts such as lingerie.  Woman are very open in their friendships and feel comfortable enough to give gifts like that.  It doesn't mean she has a sexual interest in her friend.
385932
No, it is NOT appropriate to spank a 14 year old. go see a guidance counselor at school so that you and your family can get some help. Good Luck, sweetie.
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I think this reaction is a lot more common than you may think.  I won't spank and tell, but I've known several women who are confirmed spankophiles and one who could reach orgasm through spanking alone.  (I'm talking about 'pleasure' spankings, not disciplinary ones.)
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There's not much difference in age between somebody who is 38 and somebody who is 34.  But 18 and 14 is a mile apart, and could spell bad news. Your friend should look for somebody her own age.  If and when you're ready for an intimate (sexual) relationship, hopefully you'll know it, and it will be with someone whose age and experience level is closer to yourself.
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its probably that you like to see women enjoying themselves - and you being in control\n\ntry untieing them and let them tickle you too - you might enjoy this more