can't bear anymore.. say u love me and u support me please...?
916417
You have only 1 life, make of it the best you can. You choose your own paths and can change them at anytime. Things might seem down for you now, but they will get better.Take things 1 day at a time. Set a goal and praise yourself for a job well done. Write each one down each day and then look back and see just how much positive you have done for yourself and others. Even if its just the smallest thing like help an older lady or gave a helping hand to a neighbor, you are giving and making others happy that's the best feeling in the world.That makes life worth living. If you want to be loved then you will need to learn to love yourself, respect yourself. You are better then this. Make every moment count , life is precious and a true gift , don't waste yours. You are here for a reason we all are.
914645
In your last post you said you felt like you were losing it!...\nAnd talked about lots of things that were happening in your life.\n\nThe last post sounded very "hyper" to be nice.. you seem to be getting very wound up over all this stuff that's happening.\n\nEven with B/P you know not to let people get you all upset like that......\n\nYou need to calm down..take some deep breaths and try to let this stuff go out of your mind..\n\nI have a boyfriend who is B/P and he gets all wound up too and can't settle down..Do you have anyone to talk to by phone??\n\nIf you have "Crisis Centres" were you are ...call one and talk to them.\n\nIf not, don't sit and dwell on all of this stuff, get busy doing something that takes your mind off it for a while.\n\nCall your Dr as soon as you can get a hold of him/her.\n\nplease take care..  and post another message if you have to.\ntake care
670046
Listen honey I have been in a bad relationship myself and know where you arecoming from you have to stand up for yourself and move on you say you can't leacve Why? they have got you to the point where you are wallowing in self pity just as they like you. What is happening here is domestic abuse and it has to end before you end first. For your childrens sake leave him if he don't like it tell him where to go ****himself or tell him if he loves you to stand up to his family for you though from the sound of it he is week as s**t no man should ever allow anyone including his family to run you down. I wish i could do more for you but sadly I can't if you need to chat though send me an email and I will keep chatting and offering no strings advice I am a voluntary member of the samaritans and will make timwe to chat if you need me.
41429
Your partner might feel the same way.  Don’t be afraid.  Try to have a leave headed discussion.  Don’t drag in past fights.  Be fair, let them know you still care but that you are suffering and you know they are too.  You want them to be happy and you want happiness for yourself.  I hope this helps.
357872
Big hugs coming your way!  I can't imagine going through that.  All I suggest is keep yourself busy with friends..keep your mind occupied, and don't take sides.  Good luck and smile, things will get easier in time!
1026643
So are you brave. Do you have a mouth. Communication is the key to any relationship. If you want to know , be brave and go ask and get it straightened out. Tell the person they are hurting you. Then at least you will feel better that you did something about it instead of sitting back feeling bad. You can't stop people from doing things. They have their own will and have to live with what they think, say and do. So do you. It is not what you say but how you say it. Remember that. Also remember , it takes two people to fight. It is easy to Love those who love you back but it is harder and take more strength to Love those and forgive those who persecute you.\nRev. TomCat
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Yea..unfortunately i know exactly how you feel. I think most people feel this way at one point or another. It's a terribly easy slump to get into, but now that you are fed up with it start making some changes. Start practicing saying no to people sometimes and giving yourself a littlle time for yourself. It's hard to be a good friend or partner to anyone if your all used up. Unfortunately though it's easy to get into a pattern of just saying ok and going with everyone else's flow! Think of things you enjoy doing and set aside some time to do them... it will go a long way in helping you get back some energy and re-centering yourself. Good Luck and lotsa luv!
990436
i could have sworn this was a question that i asked, i am in the same situation where i am afraid to talk to my man. he interrupts me when something i say does not agree with him, everything is his way or no way--and i do the same thing you do, i just don't say anything until i just cant take it anymore.  we have been together for 13 years, just recently i explained to him that if he could not work with me to at least try to make this work, i wasnt going to do it alone, the best thing to do is go our seperate ways, he couldnt understand the place i was in emotionally and everything i said was being looked at through a microscope and i had to have a solid point--some things you just have to say/ i love him dearly, but i just cant deal with him--its hard--but i feel as though "this to will pass" and i will soon find someone who loves me for me
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I am in this same situation right now and yes I do we are soul mates and we know the road ahead is gonna be a rough 1 but together WE will get though it.  I have got much negative feed back from the ones that know we are together but as w both say If this is what we want then who cares what others feel so on that note feel free to e-mail we can talk if you want the positive support is always nice to have and get
716560
lol i dunno u seem to be breakign down already\n\nit's so hard to stay away ;P
421740
talk to them,tell them how ur feeling about it let them know that everyday u are worried that they are actually gonna go through with it and u are gettin tired of it.just let them know that u love both of them and u want them to just decide what their gonna do already instead of worring you constantly.good luck and hope it turns out how u hope
597125
Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
869925
contact you husbands command ombubsman they can get you to a support group if youre close to a milatary base . or even over the phone
109786
You need to contact a support group for YOURSELF.  You have to realize you can't change him, he can only change himself.  If he does not want to help himself, and you want to stay with him, you need the support of others who are going through the same situation.
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patrick, have you tried talking to a therapist?  a friend, your minister (if you have one), or even your family physician.  They say, that which does not kill you, makes you stronger.  Good Luck*
947683
Having gone through an intervention myself for a loved one, I have to say that above all, let her know that you all want the best for her, and you're scared for her.  Let her know how this situation has effected your life. (i.e., your worry for her is effecting your sleep, etc).  Good luck, I hope it goes well.
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My life has been so messed up this last year, I would like some elses soul, someone elses face, someone elses life.  I am a 48 year old woman who is a sexual assault survivor.  I am trying to leave an emotional abusive marriage of 19 years.  I am trying to build a new me.  It is very hard at times. I have lost a lot of weight.  I have a lot more to lose.  My self asteem is bad.  I am working on that to.  Mybe I'll make it, who knows.  My life today is a Monday, but I hope someday it'll be a Saturday night.  I would like to be like Kid Rock.  He never let negitive people stop him from what he wanted out of life.  Look where he is now.  Talk about strength!!!!