is it better to be with a guy that you're not attracted sexually but will treat you like a queen or ..?
928047
thats a really hard question but i think my answer would be ither way their not the one for you\nthe one for you will attract you in every way shape and form. not only that but he will treat you like your the only one on this world.
273154
Just be yourself!!! Dont change for nobody!!! Personally I find  the clean cut gentleman more attractive, but I like a bad boy attitude.
711094
whatever it is, it's a stupid game so just start liking someone else who doesn't play with your feelings.  I think it's sort of cruel to do that if you have told him you are attracted to him.  He has no class.
304668
Does he treat you like a trophy? Or does he treat you like a person should be treated?  Give it time if he likes you for you then he will stick around but if he likes you for your looks then he will start showing it, and only then you will know.  That and watch for his mind games.  Good luck
1148622
no.dont spoil ur frndship,if he treats u as sister
287347
It is so right for many reasons. I say go ahead especially if you guys are in love. Men are not accustomed to being treated special, they have all the pressure of having to be sweet and romantic because society has labelled that their role, so when u do a simple thing like open their door, or pull out their chair, or give them a nice massage they feel so pampered.\nGo for it , May God bless you both
874913
Yes, if the guy is attractive and sexy enough. I probably see a guy about once a month or so that makes me feel this way (don't know how often guys feel this way about women - is it like every day or something???)
362321
both, to hook a guy up you need some beauty (depends on the guy)  and to keep them you will have to bahve in an acceptable way for them.  (depends highly on the guy but most seek beauty firg&#92;st then behavior)
434406
Because you're FRIENDS in her head anyway I do exactly that I can't help it. Well I don't say it but I'm thinking it. It's because they aren't attracted to you sexually but you're a brilliant person that they love spending time with. They're wishing that they were attracted to you because you're perfect they just don't feel that way. It's not to mess with your head it's not on purpose it's just the way things are. At least you know you've got a really good personality.
59798
I wouldn't date either the ugly guy, or the hott guy... It wouldn't matter that the ugly guy was sweet if I wasn't attracted to him, and it wouldn't matter that I was attracted to the hott guy if he was a complete jerk. As for the poor or rich guy, I would DEFINITELY choose the poor guy. Even though it's nice to get gifts and be taken to nice restaurants sometimes, it wouldn't matter if it didn't mean anything. I would much rather be with someone who has no money, but has the heart to cook me dinner at home - or save for a long time to buy me something special... that would make me feel ten thousand times more loved :)
1065192
No he doesn't mean it. You will always find another person attractive or you may even be attracted to the person. Just don't act on your feeling unless you are ready to deal with the repercussions of your actions if it's every found out.
505536
ask yourself this question?? Do you want attraction or someone treating you right. I would go for treating you right. They don't make them like that anymore
674431
well for me..... it starts with a physical attraction, but then he has to be sweet, and just gentle, but also mean and manly. he needs to be soft and hard. but it can also start as a friendship, trust me i have been with someone i wasn't attracted to at first but after we started talking i became attracted to him after i found all these qualities in him. so every woman's opinion will very which is why there is someone for everyone
4471
Sorry, I'm not attracted to "mean". \nAssertive, yes ( nice arms & chest helps also.)\nBut nope, not "mean"
788225
Sorry hun, but that sounds like a typical male to me.  He wants to be seen as the stud he probably portrays himself to be.  It was just sex to him and you neither your feelings are attached to it.
869089
H-E-L-L to the no, sir.  I think that everything should be mutual in a relationship, being a bit aggressive to be sexy is a turn-on, but if it is persistent and actually his character trait, that is a total turn-off. I'm all for a guy to take charge every ONCE in a while, but not 24/7.  This isn't the early 1900's.
994859
Sounds more like he is lusting after you. Not love. If you decide to get in a relationship with him, make sure he knows that you aren't looking for a physical relationship. Unless that is what you are looking for.