How can i change the type of guys i attract?
926380
There could actually be a way you are attracting a certain type of person, it could be the way you dress, the way you hold yourself, the places you go, etc.\nVery difficult to say without knowing you.\n\nTake a look at yourself in the mirror when your going out, are your clothes quality?Do you look upmarket and classy?\n\nStop chewing that gum, put out those cigarettes (guys hate girls smoking) cover any arm tatoos and think about the way other people see you.\n\nIn the real world, attracting the right sort of guy means maybe buying 1 item of clothing instead of 5, you need quality and they will last.\nYou need a good hair cut in a good salon, not a little place next to the local shops.\n\nThink of your look as an investment to your future.\n\nDon't get drunk as a skunk or you'll end up with a last minute beast, tipsy is ok, hammered is not.\n\nGo to the right places, forget the usual ones or the tired old fashioned smoke filled working mens clubs.\n\nThink up market, think class.\n\nThis will not guarentee you a better man, you just putting yourself in the right place where more of them are.\nDo you want a guy who has his own business or one who has a business selling drugs?
132375
Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
558999
How do you mean? Sounds like you've had some experience of this. Not all guys change dramatically. Take me for example, my best qualities have only improved gradually over time while my weaker ones have faded. Its a gradually change into become more confident in myself.
881535
Set your goals in a more appropriate order.  Guys are fun.  Focus on having guy friends first and try hard to not put any expectations beyond that.  You'll find that guys love to have girls to pal around with.  As this works for you, you'll learn to lighten up and not put so much emphasis (and your self esteem) on having a guy like you.  You'll have guys like you - certainly as a friend at first.
468877
of course you will! You just have to give it some time and stop dating all the wrong guys. Your probably nice and cute so don't give up yet!
978513
yes, why would you try to be something your not, you would then attract the wrong person. If you  be yourself you will find that person that is attracted to YOU.
271014
Well if you ask me I would have to say you need  to find different friends. Stop looking for guys they will come to you and that man might be the right one.
520080
This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
426990
it's time to change the kind of guys you like.\n\nYou are a victum because you volunteered to be a victum.  You don't need to tell him how you feel because it doesn't matter.  It's just more "Nothing Much" to him.\n\nJust find a guy that's interested in something...anything.  That's a good start.  Then maybe find a guy who's interested in similar things to your interests as well...while you're on this roll you might end up finding a guy just for you.  Don't settle for less.
912772
Any guy can attract girls if he's confident. If you're insecure about your racial makeup, that's what's going to make you unattractive. Love yourself and the girls will, too.
156654
try joining sumthing new such as volunteer work or something else your interesterd in that way u can meet guys who u have sumthing in common w/
691061
on initial meeting, 70% of attraction is based on looks.\nafter knowing someone for a period of time, 70% of attraction is based on personality, and their looks appear more beautiful.\n\nbe a nice, kind, generous person and get to know them(regardless of weight, race, nationality, etc. guys who find them a problem are the ones not worth trying for.)
1175361
You can't make guys love you, there is no magic formula to it.  You just have to be yourself, stick to your convictions and the right guy(s) will come into your life.  It may take time, but it will happen eventually and it will be worth it!  Blessings.
77582
If you have good looks and muscles and women are not interested in your character, YOU ARE SEEKING THE WRONG WOMEN.  You can't change them.  Just look in a different place. i.e. NOT THE BAR.
329904
Find 1000 guys, and you will get 1000 answers.  Take care of yourself, be positive and enjoy a sense of humor, and enjoy your life.  No matter what you "look" like, these things will do a lot to make you much more attractive to many men.  Don't be concerned about how to change yourself to look a way you think men will find attractive.  Just be yourself, and be comfortable being yourself.  Look around... there are so many men in the world, you don't need to try to impress the "most" of them.  You just need to impress yourself, and a man who is attracted to that is surely to come along.
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ATTRACTION.  The guys you know as friends are friends because they didn't make you "feel" attraction for them.  You may love them but it will never fill you with the excitement an unpredictable man does.\nI bet if you called any of these guys and asked them to come over they would drop everything and be by your side.  Try it!\nIs that what you want?  Just because a guy isn't "totally sweet" doesn't mean he is a mean hurtful jerk.\nWomen love a challenge as we men do.
987264
If the guy really likes you, you wont have to change anything about you, there is someone for everyone and if you change for a guy that's not right you may pass up the chance for the one you are meant for, just be yourself and it will all work out in the end.