I just found out my husband doesnt have a green card and he wants to take my daughter out of this country?
924359
grab your daughter and run don't walk to the nearest police station. not tomorrow not one hour from now get your a"" up and go now...explain what is going on
692045
yall need to take this witch to court, cause if he aint on the birth certificate, he might not be his, thus he aint gotta pay nuttin, and if he is the father, she cant do that, he needs to take her to court and let them set child support, and then the game is over.if she trys to stop visitation granted by court, she goes to jail.he needs to put her in her placce, how does 11 more years of her crap sound??thats what i thought, she cant run shit but her mouth, also, if it comes out this kid isnt his, did you know you can sue her for all the money he has put out?? save your receipts and make sure he never pays her in cash again.i have been through that. need more advice, email me at fairyprincess122076@yahoo.com
1057385
This man is sick.  He has committed the ultimate infidelity to you and your daughter.  You MUST leave him or you will never have peace in your life.  It will hurt, but this must be done or you will die in your heart.  You are too good of a woman for that to happen.   Please leave him, for your own sake and the sake of your daughter.
36118
Honestly, I know you are hurting but your main priority should be your child. Let the man go. I see they have restraining orders on you, did you confront them? Go seek sole custody of your daughter. That move is to protect yourself. He is not the only man on this earth. Sign the divorce papers.
579553
You are not taking away your daughter from her dad..He can visit. It isn't healthy for you to stay if you don't love him. Ya can still be friends! good luck!!
993255
take him to court to, get full  custody ,and point out the:\n no support and no contact of several years and now sudden contact. and joint custody becaues you want to move and get married. the baby`s sperm donor is being spitful. and does not want you to have a life of your choice..you can provied a better life for your daughter..
1184693
unfortunately, even if you had sole custody of your daughter, you may not be able to leave the state without a court order specifically stating that you have permission to do so...\n\nsad but true
388905
Help him do it the LEGAL way. If you want it bad enough the papers DONT take too long to process. If you dont like the wait.. You could stay in your own country :)
498235
The answer is of course to get maried!!!And dont listen to whoever tells u that  he has to go back to his country and wait there!!!Get a good immigration lawyer and u can start the process right a way.Very soon after you file the paper work,he is going to get a work permit and a few months after that you will be called to and intervue where the INS will determine if your mariage is real,but sinse you have a child that shouldnt be hard to prove.Then he is going to get a green card.The whole ordeal does not take more then 8-9 months now days,in some places longer,in some even shorter time!Good luck!
1164933
Get a lawyer - some will take your case & get payment from your husband plus attend some type pyschological counseling.  You  are being screwed here.   You are entitled to  spousal support; plus visitation.  File an OSC & ask attorney to go ex-parte to get  you temporary financial support until the hearing.\nYou can also fill out paperwork online if CA,,, use this website \nhttp://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/  \nChild needs counseling & when you go to court demand child get it.  No child has the right to pysically abuse their parent & you as her parent should not be penalized by losing your home or the other daughter.\nSeems husband is not doing right by you...  you need to get angry & start standing up for yourself &  your rights
353627
you have 6 month from the time your divorce was filed here in ca.  If I were you, I would consult a Lawyer.  He has no business being a father.  He sounds very unfit.  Sounds like you have very good grounds.  First though what I would recommend is documenting. for example, I keep all emails I send to my ex that way if need being I have the written proof for the court.  basically say to him, that he was scheduled to pick so and so up, but you got a call from the school saying no-one pick her up.  something along those lines.  without documentation, you won't have a chance.
801460
why is he so far behind in child support? it seems to me like he doesn't really care about you or your daughter...\n\nif he really wants to be in ur daughter's life, he has to prove that he is serious about it...otherwise, i don't think u should move.
73442
Your divorce may be complicated. Generally, the United States will accept marriages/divorces from other countries. I would consult your local lawyer / government about the divorce.\n\nI would be suspicious about his intentions to bring you over here. Coming over here would put you at a serious disadvantage due to your lack of experience over here.\n\nMy advice, divorce the bum there. Don't come here, it smells like a trap to me.
953039
Interesting dilemma, but without a good lawyer it's going to be difficult to fight your husband.  At least go back to the US Embassy in India where he presented his false claims.  And you should actually start celebrating... why would you want to be married to such a jerk anyway?
997753
Yes, you need to take this deadbeat to court.  I don't know where you live, so it I can't give you any specific advice, but every city has people (usually in the family assistance office) that can help you with the paperwork.\n\nYou may not want to see this guy again, but your child--HIS child--needs financial support, and you should get it for your daughter.
155931
This sounds like a terrible story, but is there a question in it somewhere?\n\nEDIT: Okay, let's try to figure out what the question is.  Are you trying to figure out how you can get your daughter back from your ex-husband?  If that's it, you really ought to talk to a lawyer...maybe you can find a decent one through the Bar Association that will do some pro bono work.  If you just aren't interested in working with lawyers, and you really want to involve this group in something as personal as this, you're going to have to post more details...and more *relevant* details (stick to the facts, ma'am).\n\nIf you want better answers, ask better questions and include more of the important details.  Things people might want to know are these:\n\nAre there any court orders right now?\n\nWhat state do you live in?\n\nWhy did your ex take your child, or at least why do you think he did or what did he tell you?\n\nHave there been any allegations of improper parenting on either side?  Any mental health issues on either side?  Drug use?  \n\nIf I'm guessing correctly at what you want to know, I just don't think you're going to be able to get the answers you need in this forum.
480245
I think you are stuck.  Your rights as a mother are no stronger than his rights as a father.  You both have rights as parents, and that means that neither of you can pick up the child and move out of state without the permission of the other.  Would you like it if he decided to move to California with your son but not you?