If you find out that your husband kissed/made out with another married woman would you confront her ?
928982
no I wouldn't confront her. I would talk to my husband instead. I don't have a relationship with the girl. But I'll make sure that she knows the guy she is having sex with, is married. \n\nHave you heard about the saying that goes "the sweetest revenge to a cheating husband is to give  him to his mistress?"
312287
I think your wife if still trying to grow up.  I don't think she understands the MAGNITUDE of her decision to become married.  This may be cause for concern because it's not a good idea to make out with your wife and her friends, and still think you'll keep the same relationship.  You may need to sit her down and let her know that this behavior makes u uncomfortable.
556068
Holy crap you sound EXACTLY like me. Keep doing what you're doing. Sorry to all the wives out there, but you have no obligation to anyone except yourself. He's the married one, so he has to take responsibility for his actions if she finds out. Enjoy yourself. Life's short.
484134
Talk to Dad first if you find out hes having sex with another woman.  Find out what is going on.  Than if need to go to mom.
460023
ok since the married man is your husband,,,,you should keep talking to him until he understands that you are serious and you 2 get an understanding,,\n            ,it seems he is a good guy, and his ego is not threatened,, he may let you without freaking out....you know him,,, think about it...you could lose him,,\n           ,i do not condone cheating,,,but i do know some women who have turned to other women because there husbands are impotent and will not seek help.\n               as far as the morals, etc,, you must judge that for yourself and be ready to deal with whatever consequences arise. whether from others, your husband, the woman,
1013877
I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)
1160257
i would be plotting revenge....just remember, in a marriage.......WHAT'S HIS IS YOURS, AND WHAT'S YOURS IS YOURS. \ngood luck.
626948
Why waste your time confronting her when it is him that your really mad at.  She didn't force your husband to cheat with her, she just happened to be the one he cheated with.  After all, who knows what story your husband told her.
427729
If the spouse has done something to make you suspicious, it is okay to snoop. How else are you going to find out if something is going on or not? You certainly won't get a straight answer out of them and if they are trying to hide something, they will try to cover their tracks better because they'll think you're on to them. So when you feel suspicious, you should snoop right away - don't give them the chance to hide any evidence. You will either confirm your suspicions or realize that you were overreacting.
194822
Tell her husband that your having an affair with her.
95558
The girls answer is "Yes we would definitly tell" and "Yes we would want you to tell us"  I mean I could dump him then he could be with the person he's tryin to get with behind my back no strings.  Well wouldn't you want to know if your partner was cheating or trying to cheat?
733195
If you continue seeing her the husband may find out then you may be in for a world of touble. So You should break it off and not see her ever again. Also once a cheater always a cheater.
1175699
you've been seeing my husband??? Just kidding! Personally I think I would want to know if it were my husband. Mine is away at work alot, and because I am at home with out 3 small children and he is far enough away i can't just get up and go check on him everyday even if I wanted to. \nThere are way too many STD's floating around out there and if he's been moonlighting with you then he probably has others too, and because of my children I would like to be assured that he isn't bringing something home to me, I have this strong desire to watch them grow up for some reason:)\n Call her, don't be rude, just simply say you know her husband and she might want to ask him what he's been up to, then tell the bas@#$ to hit the road, but mention on his way out that when he gets home he will have some explaining to do!
892644
i would confront her and tell her how you feel anout what she says and stuff.
949683
I was actually in this situation. I told my sister that I saw her husband kissing a girl in his work place. She called me a liar and didn't speak to me for a year. She called me to come and get her and her son. She was pregnant and he had run off to California with the same girl I saw him with. So if this person were to tell his sister, he needs to be prepared to take some punishment.
664878
Confront her on it.  Maybe something came up.  Maybe she was blowing you off.  You never know unless you ask.  Do go around wondering "What if?"
336025
Could you watch him kiss another woman if you knew he did it just to do it, and wouldn't stray?\n\nCould he watch you kiss another man, even if he knew you only wanted him?\n\nIf so then there's enough trust in the relationship that I would say you could probably call yourselves soulmates...