Heart broken. What do I do?
923428
This is the time for much prayer. With a name like Blessed2006, I'm sure you know what I am talking about. Ask God to just take away the feelings that you have for him in that way. Ask Him to deliver you from the pain that you feel and replace the pain with joy, peace, and happiness. Be honest with God. Sometimes we feel that we don't have to go to God and tell him what's going on with us simply because we figure he already knows. Well, that is true. He does already know. But, he loves it when we talk to him and pour out our hearts to him. This lets Him know that we acknowledge Him and that we need someone to help us in a way that only He can.
717472
the best way to deal with love is to lay it on the line.  your heart is broken without him, you cant lose much more by telling him how you really feel.  i say honesty is the best policy and if he loves you too, hell take you back especially since its not because you did somethign stupid.  you just told him no, but realize your mistakes now.  tell him you love him - im sure he will be incredibly happy!
240623
Just have a face-to-face talk with him, communicate your feelings (as gently as possible) and be up-front. There's no real easy way to go about it...my ex of 2-1/2 years broke up with me a little while back, she broke my heart, and I still think about her alot, but it would have been much better if she would have been more straight-forward. So tell him exactly where you're at, it might hurt at the time, but you'll both be better off that way!
485760
Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
259930
I would second the motion that Mike made. I would also recommend finding new activities and make new friends. That way you can let people know you are available. And you can keep yourself occupied. And keep your spirits up too. Use this broken relationship as a learning experience. Good Luck. LJK
764313
If u just got out of a relationship then that's why your heart broken n u need time to heal.Just like when someone dies u need to morn the same goes for when u r in a relationship.
274165
Broken heart is not easy to heal.\nBut life doesnot stop, ask her to move on in life. I know it will not be easy for her; but to live in past memories will not heal her wounds.\nSo ask her to keep her self busy in other works like... New Hobby, develop New work interest, New part time job, Cooking etc. Being a good friend of her be with her, go out for movies, hang out here and there. Just try to make her a bit happy.\nI know it is not easy but atleast try to get out of that i m sure with time she not even forget him but also find a true love.
945244
I'm so sorry about what has happened to you... *HUGS*... You have to think hard about everything. Weigh things carefully. Should you and your wife get back together, there should be love for each other.  The first thing that you have to do is to fix yourself, physically and emotionally. Get help from your family. I know how it feels to be hurting inside, not knowing what to do with the feeling. It kills you inside. You want to cry but crying isn't enough to let your feelings out. Just fix yourself first. More importantly, fix yourself emotionally. From there, you'll know what to do next...
247691
Be sure that you want to be with HIM, not with SOMEONE. Nothing has changed about whatever the situation was that broke you up.\n\nAside from that, just think of any excuse to call then see him. It will go from there.
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
210634
If you're going to break a fellow's heart, you might as well try to cushion the blow a little. Be kind and supportive, remember you may well be on the other side of a break up someday, and imagine how you might feel. A little kindness never hurt anyone. Having said that, make sure you're firm, don't leave any hope in his heart for a second chance. You don't want him pining.
471020
how does it feel to be heartbroken? Well, it depends on how deeply you tresured something with the person who broke your heart. for me, it felt like HELL. But i got over it after about 1 and 1/2 year. when a broken heart will be healed depends on your own pace. Frankly speaking, i don't believe the guy said. it's too unspecific and invalid. that's like telling who you can be with and you can't be with. if i were in your place, i wouldn't think that he's doing me a great favor. But nevertheless it shows he doesn't like you. Learn to move on.= )
247200
Best thing I can tell you is to take it one day at a time. Don't allow yourself to feel so overwhelmed, honey. I too have suffered from depression and the very best thing you can do is to not get drowned in all the emotions. You have a man who loves you, who seems to understand what's going on, otherwise he wouldn't have asked you in the first place. Try and realize that love is one of those things you have to take a chance on and sometimes it'll help cure what hurts.
128212
It is hard to move on and most of us have been there.  The worst thing you can do is dwell on the man and the situation: what could I have done differently, maybe if I had....STOP.  \n\nFigure out if the emotions are in fact toward him, or the rejection.  Sometimes sadness can be overwhelming and you cannot differentiate between, was he really right for me and I miss him so, or damnit I was dumped and I feel horrible.  \n\nSTAY BUSY and surround yourself with people who can make you laugh, keep you preoccupied with an activity as opposed to your thoughts.  Try not to be alone...everything will remind you of him.  \n\nWork out.  I know it's one of those flippant answers like "get a makeover," but it really does help.  Not only can you release the frustrations, tension, you will look better!  \n\nSay to yourself: Ok, I'm going to allow myself one more day to wallow in my misery and that's it.  That's enough.  I'm better than this and he will not get one more tear!!!
817508
I really know what you mean, and it is so hard. \nRemember that this is all from within you, thus you can fix it yourself too. \nYour broken heart will be whole again in the near future. \nTo speed this up you can do a few thing, and believe me they have helped me.\nDon't see the person if you can manage it at all, in a book they say about 2 months. I had to see my ex every day, and even make small talk with him on occasion. At the time I wanted to see him but looking back it has just made the whole process agonisingly harder. \n\nDon't wallow in self pity, go out, see your friends, excercise this will really help and when you see him in passing in the future you'll look great, but overall do this for yourself, because you must love you.\n\nIt always depends on you personnally, but I reckon that if you don't see him for a good amount of time, you will realise you can get along just fine by yourself. If you do see him or hear about how he is doing, this will make things ten times harder, so don't. \n\nHe missed out on you not the other way around, and you never do no what is around the corner, \n\nYou know you will eventually forget and move on\nI hope you don't suffer too much\ngood luck
670252
Pick up your broken heart and move on.  Pull yourself together man! =)
514133
I'm sorry your heart is broken.  Break up with him, and thank goodness that you found out now instead of later.  Your heart will heal with time.  Take that time to heal and move on.  You'll find somebody new.