what should i do if he wants go to the next level?
913760
well he is ready. sounds liek what my bf and i were liek not too long ago. (weve been sating for 2 years) always talked abotu having sex. i told him how i wasnt comfortable wih the idea yet and wasnt sure (we were both virgins) so i just told him that. he didnt bother me abotu to as much as he used to before. i knew he respected my decision. i eneded up waiting over 1 and a half years intot he realthionship till i felt liek i was comfortable wiht it and everything. you shoudl just tell him that you dont know if your ready yet and if he relaly loves you he will respect your decision and stick it out till you feel more ready. there are better ways to please a guy that just sex. you can always make him dinner or something =) good luck. just dont rush into things if you dont feel ready. i dont konw how old you are. but advise waiting till you are in a serious relationship to loose it or have sex.
182082
dont believe everything people tell you. if you think his intentions are well continue on. if youre not sure sit down and talk to him. follow your heart and do whats right for you not for others
258403
be friend 1st...take it slowly...than,move on to higher level...
618778
no... not in near future.\nHe is raw, need to brush up his skills.\nPace alone cant do anything.
450065
Then you have two choices.\n\n1. Be quiet and let him make every decision for a while. He will either step up or not.\n\n2. Leave him for a man who will tell you what to do.
608838
Start making plans for your life - and give him the option of being part of your future.  If he's still not catching on speak it out clearly to him, let him know you need to know what his plans are or else move on.
919488
you don't have to make a big move... just start talking to him more and see if he maybe wants to hang out some time... if you never take the next step you will never know what could happen
470959
do it you. can teach him the way you want any thing done you have more experience, you are 2 years older .good luck. and remember what every makes you happy. no one has walked in you shoes.so listen to yourself.
610892
give him a clue and se if he goes for it
1069163
I like Answerer 2's answer. I would do what she recommends, with ONE exception.\n\nYou don't state that you have proposed taking your relationship to the next level. You intimate that he likes the relationship you have as a friend.\n\nBefore you cast him aside, which I feel you should do, if he rejects the idea of a different relationship, I feel you need to have a serious discussion about the relationship. Let him know your honest feelings and especially about moving to a closer relationship. THEN, if he won't do it. Follow the other advice and stop putting yourself through the agony.
1152695
say hi to him every once in a while, then take it up to another level like start a conversation with him every once in a while, that should do the trick.
575505
give him hints or just be patient!!!
365676
Turn to God and leave it all to Him. He knows what to do. But keep talking to Him. Don't ever forget Him.\n\nAs the saying goes, "You take one step towards God, God runs to you"
1016314
Let him move up to third. I'm sure it will make his future better in some way, rather than worse.
51521
Start doing push ups and whup his azz
103687
i think you should just take it easy. go on slow and see what happen. no point forcing him, make him close up more
640886
spend more tym wiv him speak to him . i think dis will help