I want a woman that I am attracted to- I went on a 1st date & she did not wear a dress-just pants& blouse.?
930242
You are right in that the right clothes can make someone look much better and impressive.  The way you dress isn't everything though.  \n\nI would go on a second date and don't worry what other hot chicks think.  You probably won't see them again anyway.  \n\nYou may try telling her you are taking her to a place and it is a semi-formal affair.  She might then ask what to wear and you could casually say what you think would be appropriate, and also\nmention what you may be wearing.\n\nOther than that, I'd say you should try not to be shallow.
695584
http://dating-advice-coach.info/WhatWomenHATEMostAboutSingleGuys.htm\n\nWhat a women wants, and what they are attracted to is two different things.  Check this out, it's long but an excellent read, let me know what you think.
74999
Dont go to far just be urself.Be comfortable with what you wear and than slowly slowly try to impress her.You will not be able to impress her in one shot.........Take your time
490597
This builds your relationship on sex and physical pleasure alone.  I don't want that.  I use a first date as a tool to get to know someone and to see if we have any chemistry.  Sex comes way after that.  When I'm ready for an emotional relationship (hey, guys, you give us what we want, we'll give you what you want).  But no, I don't have sex on the first date.  You have to do a lot more to get into my pants.
159714
If she's already dating you, it shouldn't be something you should feel obligated to do (she already likes you enough to date you). You could still buy some as a special gift, maybe a "hey honey, tonight I'm your fantasy! grrrr!" lol. Ask her what else she likes, incorperate. But no, you should't just change yourself cause she likes it. Be yourself.
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
436177
Try dressing up in some lingerie, not to go to bed, but to go out.  Get a nice garter belt, bra and some really nice stockings, and wear them out with a nice skirt or dress.  They make feel very sexy, and it usually shows.  Go out on a date again all dressed up.  Dinner drinks whatever, just get out, have i good time, and break the boredom.
971387
Make sure she is not wearing a wedding ring or engagement ring then ask her on a date.........Good luck!
375195
well you must ask to go on a date . then you make it a pick-nic so you will need a blanket, this also symbolizes you\nwant to lie down or be comfy aroun her and then makeing out with her, you take that bold reach down her pants and from then on she'll like it or she won't.
1126602
~That is seriously aweful!!!  Is there any way you can request something else you can wear instead?  I feel for you.  The only thing I can suggest is that you just wear pants until you serve the sentence.  Good luck.~
135484
How would like to be treated just think of what you wuold want I don't think you can go wrong. Make sure on your first date get to know her likes and dislikes.  Most important HAVE FUN
352572
The next time you go out on a date dont wear panties, in the middle of dinner lean over and tell him your going commando, trust me, you'll br lucky to finish your meal.\nor\ngo buy a sexy piece of lingerie and a wig, yes i said a wig, and greet him when he gets home in it, that should be interesting.
541096
You poor man... I feel so sorry for you.\n\nIf you'd like you can look over how you meet women, for example:\n- Are trying to get to final base as soon as you meet them?\n- What is it that you're looking for in a woman?\n- What is it that she's looking for in a guy?\n- What do you both want to achieve?\n\nTry to communicate with her and take it easy (if you're going fast paced). In my opinion, just be your intelligent and interesting self (just like always), and you won't have any problems meeting any women. Try not to jump into bed with every woman you meet or be mean and cold to them, don't expect every woman to be open to the choice of getting to final base with you on the first date, you'll see that going slowly at times with patience and learning a little bit everyday about a woman (get to know her) will lead to a more meaningful, stronger and healthier relationship than you ever thought was possible :) Some women actually prefer to take slow and easy at first, and you won't believe by how shy and quiet they are at first that they might be passionate and wild-cats in the more intimate relationship. Don't judge them too fast and don't jump to conclusions, just let the relationship develop into something more meaningful without being intimate at first. Let her to trust you with her heart, body and soul, first. Give her a reason to stay with you and prove to her that you're not just after jumping down her pants. Let her see you for who you are and show her that shivalry and being a gentleman (going old-fashioned) is not necessary something to shunned upon.\n\nGood luck and take care :)
1089900
You must have some good qualitys or she would not have givin you time of day up to now, relax be your self, Good luck hope you get what you want.
435007
What exactly are you looking for when you go out dressed like that?\n\nAre you dressing sexy so the guys look at you or because you feel sexy and dress that way out of your own confidence?\n\nMen see confidence and that is why they approach. You can be in the tighest, shortest, cleavage, skin showing outfit, but if you don't have inner confidence-Men can see that and stay away.\n\nYou may not even know but you may give off an "unapproachable" vibe. Guys may find you attractive, but something about you is revealing you are looking for something. I was told not too long ago- I give off that unapproachable vibe-Well- I quickly worked on that...It's still a work in progress.\n\nSeriously though, I used to think that if I didn't get a guys number or hook up with a guy at the end of the night that it was a waste. Now I don't even care- and I have found that when you aren't there to hunt your prey- they seem to fall all around you.\n\nSo think about your intentions and your actions. If you are going out just to meet a guy and you are dressing all sexy just to attract a man then yes, when you walk out at the end of the night- you will feel lonely and strange.\n\nBut if you are in there and you have your drink-find your inner confidence- only you will find it. A man won't, your girlfriends won't, not even your family. You have to find it, and truly believe it- because girlfriend- you are fabulous. You have to believe in yourself. Believe me- I went through it and today, while I am still single- I am confident!
842313
If you are truly attracted to her, then at 8 tonight (if she hasn't contacted you by then) send her a text that says "Hey sexy/gorgeous/sweetie (something of that nature.) I was wondering, what are you doing tomorrow night? Would you like to go out again?"\n\nOr something like that. I'm sure you know how those things go. But anyway, you say that so you have a reason to get ahold of her WITHOUT seeming impatient or desperate. If she's really attracted to you, she should reply shortly and probably accept your invitation to go out again. \n\nGood luck with this - have fun!
309920
im freaky but sorry im not exotic bl. \ni dont want to date i just want lots of sex