Married and living with another Woman?
914002
no it is wrong, because maybe there was a chance he might return to his wife, maybe he is confused on what he wants to do, and the other woman will just pull him in her direction.  it is never a good idea because he has alot of unresolved things going on, and needs to think it all over. the other woman is taking a big chance in allowing this, it could always backfire on her.
450218
I would probably give it a bit more time.  Your still in that honeymoon stage where you haven't gotten to know each others bad habits all that well yet.  When you move in together then you have to live with those bad habits plus you have the added pressure of dealing with all the finances and living expectations that go with it.
774684
Well, I do alot of consulting work and I really don't advice people who are not yet married to rush into changing property interests because of the other mate. I know the answer you need but in good faith can't give it to you without knowing the particular reasons why you would want to do that.\nThe road to h_ _ _ is paved with good intentions.\nBuena Suerte
843457
If he can't stand living with her he should have left a while ago, even before you appear in his life. Wanting to break his marriage and leave his wife only after he met you means that you are a reason for breaking that home. \nIf she can't have babies, then there's a big possibility that he'd want you to have it and it would be an extra point for you in order for him to leave his wife and marry you. But put yourself in her place, would you like it if your husband (hypothetically) breaks his vows to you because you can't have children and because he found another woman that he likes better? and knowing that this is exactly what your man has done, would you trust him even if he left his wife?\nWe should be kinder to one another, and if that's the sort of a man that he is, he will probably leave you too one day for another woman. If eh leaves his wife it should be because maybe she's a bad person, cheats on him, they don't agree etc etc, but not because another woman showed up in his life.
272867
Full time mommy and wife.
354421
buddy the last thing you want is for your woman to want you only for your money. look if she goes with the other chap well consider yourself saved. its hard but welcome to the real world. life goes on! cheers. there will be other women believe me.
1183684
What you've suggested is really all you can do. You gave her good advice about communicating with her husband and going to counseling. Beyond that, it's really none of your business and not your responsibility.
1055680
I guess the question is...did she know about this prior to marriage? If she knew of this and married you anyway, shame on her.  If you didn't disclose this until after you married, shame on you.  We should accept our spouses as is without wanting to change them.  If she cannot accept you and you want to live the way you are comfortable, then you should be fair to each other and separate.  If you want to stay married to her, then dress only when she is not around and respect her wishes.
680116
This is such a personal decision.  First of all, how are you and your spousal-unit handling the two you have?  If you are all well adjusted, have no health concerns and both agree that you want to do this then you should go ahead.  Lots of people prefer to have the children close together.  The children grow up together and can often bond.\n\nIf you are having your children on your own, then carefully consider what it will mean to your day to day life.  Then proceed with caution and joy!
1157649
Sounds like you have some talking to do... and from that decide whether to 'take it' or leave it. However you are married now, and that is supposed to be for better or worse. As her husband, (now) its really up to you to support her emotionally as financially.
301249
You cannot have two lives like this its not fair to anyone involved..If you cant leave your wife..then you must leave alone your "love" and allow her the oppourtunuity to have a husband and children herself..if you do love her surely you think she deserves someone who can give his whole self to her...right?? and doesnt your wife deserve ALL of you..whatever choice you make..you need to make it now...be a man..make your desicion and stick by it..Good luck
809768
There is nothing wrong with it. Just remember that moving in together creates certain joint financial obligations; so make sure she is ready to commit financially and ethically/
386064
Do what you want to do since it seems like you're already there. Maybe there's a reason why your wife wants you to go. So then she reassured that your away from the other woman in your life. Or maybe she has a lover that she wants to spend time with. Your mistress probably doesn't want you to go cause you'll have time to think about your relationship with her and make a choice of either her or your wife, or she's scared that you'll cheat on her like you do your wife. You know how the saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Either way ......
964364
Uhm sorry to have to tell you this but as long as you are living in here house, she can say and act anyway she wants.  You and your husband need to move out asap if you want to keep your sanity.  Good luck
659225
You do not really know anyone until you live with them. You are trying to mesh two lifestyles. Sometimes it is just too different to work out. I think it is  GOOD IDEA TO LIVE TOGETHER.
183892
first off, thats not polygamy. And unless everything is on the table its not polyamory. What you are doing is cheating unless you have permission from your wife. If you don't have her blessing? You're an idiot playing with dynomite
461970
Well, if you're willing to leave her and can manage on your own, or have someone who can help you, you can file for divorce. Only you know if the pain is worth the wife and what she offers. However, I think she's wrong to do this, and if she ever blames you, because of your condition or something, she married you like this. she knew what she was going to be going through.