we both have not beenliving together?
929954
OK, but that is not a question.  Sorry I can't help.
316943
Just call her.  If she is willing to listen to you, then you could talk about what happened between you two.  If you miss talking to her, she just might be missing you too.  Good luck.
304347
I dont think theres anything "wrong" with you. You were in a relationship with someone who had a very strong impact on your life, and his life ended in a traumatic way for those who are living to deal with. The fact that you project in your dreams the wish that he was still alive is not necesarily anything out of the ordinary. Although some time has passed it doesnt mean that the person will ever necesarily drop out of your life altogether. Even once you have "moved on" he will still come up from time to time. Try and remember the best of what you two shared together, but also try and experience different oppertunites and allow new people to enter into your world.
204576
Bacause you have created a bond with that person while with them, and you have shared a part of you lives together and it is hard when things don't go as well as thought that they would because so much time,effort and love has gone into a relationship that didn't survive the test of time, but you are left with memories and things left unsaid and undone and maybe a few wonder what ifs. Time will fade the thoughts and memories but, for now they are your way of trying to come to terms with losing a part of your life that used to mean so much.
4278
I sincerely wish I had an effective answer for you. It seems that you've both developed a sense of competitiveness toward each other. In other words, you are both trying to upstage one another. This leads to conflict. Give yourselves more room to breathe for awhile. You will realize how much you miss each other once a few days have elapsed.  If not, seek proffesional advice.  Good luck, dear.
793089
Do whatever it takes to fix it.  You always think you have time but you don't.  I waited to even talk to my dad and he died before I could.  We hadn't talked in years and I regret that so much.  Don't let that happen to you, you never know when someone will be taken from your life unexpectedly.
1053992
You should try Friends Reunited. Good luck :-)
33602
I would be honest with him. The longer it goes ther harder it will be. Only seeing you 1 or 2 times a year is kind of odd for someone who claims they care so much for you. Just be honest, who knows, you both might feel the same way, but are scared of what the other will say.
611151
I think you may just be holding onto memories of the past and what you wished it could have been. Life is too short to dwell on just one person... he  seems to have moved on. IF he's yours and he's meant to be with you, then he'll come back at the right moment. If he's not, then just accept it. Life goes on. HOney, there's thousands of single people outhere who want a loving relationship.  You jsut have to get yourself out there and enjoy your life safely. THe right person will come along when you least expect it. Let him be, and all you can do is wish him well, and just hope for the best and be happy for him. Things happen for a reason. Maybe is best that you keep your distance from him until you have sorted your feelings out. Best wishes to you. GOd bless,\n\nLATINA
81580
should say good things that you remember about the time you're still together... bring back the good ole memories... try to flatter her and lower yourself... make him/her feel that it's your fault or something... that'll make him/her feel better and it softens heart.... good luck!
513636
Actually, I think the amount of time that passed is NOT important, however, did you change? Did she change? Why did you split up 7 years ago? Consider these answers before leaping again, and make sure you both know what you are expecting from the other.
646564
so it sounds like you have their email address... so just send them an email.  if it's been a long time since last contact, just say something like "Hi this is {name} not sure if you remember me, but {insert something you two did together}
685473
Since you say "we will not be together" I assume you 2 are splitting up.  When that happens the parents will find out.
994239
damn son!! you can write. that's the problem about love from 1 side only. nothing good could come out from it. i guess you'd heard about time will heal all wounds. in your case it will take longer than usual. keep yourself busy. join an activity. trow away any things that reminds you of her. have a good cry. and try not to stay @ the same place as you both once shared. and why do you still consider her as a saint. she's a ho. face it and call her that. you'll feel better.
201455
I think that you two may need a brake from each other. Maybe you guys just need to think about it and see what you lives are like without one another.
948527
I had a heart throb when I was young but married another.  God knew best now I can hardly remember her.  Once a bond is made it is for life.  You may get another chance if she dies but until that happens you need to hunt another. Life goes on  God will fill your void.  There is another, look for him.
598796
Well hopefully you've been honest if your past has come up in conversation with your current girlfriend.  If not; then maybe you'd better be worried........Otherwise, it is possible for the current and ex to be o.k. with each other although; not too many of them can be true friends.  There are too many unanswered questions that will come up between them, and usually trying to make that type of relationship work usually backfires sooner or later.........