is it wrong  to disagree with interracial relationships? why is it wrong and who said it was right to do it?
919505
i don't see anything wrong in disagreeing with it as long as one doesn't impose his/her views on others. i am one of those people who disagree with interracial relationships due to the fact that i want to preserve the beauty of uniqueness, also, i see interracial relationships as a threat to different culture of each race.
119485
forever.  don't take the negative connotation to mean discrimination to be a bad thing.  discrimination is really about making choices and somewhere along the line the idae formed that if you change how you feel or act toward someone for whatever reason that you should be punished for it.  look, some people actually like black guys, or blond girls or green poodles or NOT.  does that make it wrong?  most people need to lighten up on that one and realize it actually is ok to like and dislike for whatever reason you so choose.  if i don't like how you decide, well then, i can choose to spend time with someone other than you, maybe the black, blond guy with the green poodle???  hmm?
71435
What business is it of anyone's to say who can date who? You cannot help who you fall in love with. By labeling them as "black guys" and "blonde chicks" you only put yourself out to be prejudiced. We are all human. No one should be judged by their color (skin or hair). As long as their intentions are pure who am I to say that they can or cannot date? If they are in love then I say, "Good for them and to hell with the rest." And to those who think interacial relationships are a sin. Joseph (the Bible) married a priestess of On who was black. They had two sons, Ephraim and Mannaseh, which became two of the tribes of Israel. Skin color is an adaptation to climate not an indication of quality. It allows them to withstand the radiation from the sun. If you don't believe me then look it up. Evolution occurs regardless of what anyone says and I am a creationist.
507731
That's an excellent question that I would like to know the answer to as well. Also, to add to this, why is it when one disagrees with someone is that person automatically accused of hatred? I just disagree - that doesn't mean I hate.
774585
I responded to your first question. I couldn't find the question in the family section. It is perfectly fine to disagree with this Carol chick, but you can present your opinon in a more civil &less personal way Your comments were not only rude to her they were disrespectful to white women in general. You can disagree with Carol without attacking the entire caucasian race. We are all trying to put Racism in the past but it is opinions like those that help keep it alive in the first place. You would be just as offended if someone had made those comment about a black person. Respect works both ways, and if you want to be respected you have to show respect. Respect is something you earn not something you are owed. You owe all of us an apology.
271315
I'm white and I've actually been told that I couldn't have any problems by more than one race. The only thing I can say, is that good and bad comes in all of God's colors as well as narrow minds. God gave us choice and sometimes people chose to believe what is easist to belive in order to release themselves of all responsibilty to a current situation or life situation. The other thing is that you are actually perpetuating the cycle by making a blanket statement. I do not have to be black to know in my heart, that not all black people think this way even though I did experenced exactly what you're talking about.
1107400
Who says it wrong to bring up slavery by anyone?  Blacks tend to use it as an excuse for historical problems.
351519
No         \n\n\n\nbut i think its wrong
272102
I have been in an interracial relationship the last 3 years of my life and it has been hard, but rewarding. He is the love of my life. However, if you regret getting into an interracial relationship, you probably never should have started one in the first place. You have to be strong and you know what you're getting into before it even becomes a relationship, right? You should never regret anything in your life. If you regret getting into an interracial relationship, the only person you have to blame is yourself. Sorry that sounds so harsh, but it's true.
537760
Be ourselves and not allow society to form our opinions or our judgments.  I'm a white girl, but my boyfriend's black.  We're madly in love, and both of our familys accept each of us...because we got to know eachother before making any judgements.  I hear rude stuff all the time, like, "He's a trader," and "Uh-uh, that don't make no sense."  I even get evil glares from white men when we go out...but I don't mind, cuz he's the one that I go home with at night, so that's all that matters.
1116604
I'm a sista but I'll answer this question too.\nUnfortunately, we are all victims of our own cognitional biases, victims of inability to find intrinsic beauty in all people.  The epistemic limitations to which we undeservingly confine ourselves to, is the ‘waterlooish’ inhibitor of social progressiveness, worldwide brotherhood, and general happiness.   This is why love knows boundaries.  It's time to overcome our psychological conditioning, let go, and simply just love...regardless of race or ethnicity.\n\nP.S. Grow up, 33.  What are you? 3?  Seek professional help; It's very unhealthy to hate your own race.  Don't ever e-mail me again or you will be reported for harassment.
908661
There really isn't a right or wrong. You just do it and hope the other person likes the way you do it. Everyone is different and does things in different ways. What works for them may not be good for you. Kissing is kissing. You put lips together and let it go from there. As far as making out, again there are different ways to do that. Good luck.....SAM
1176928
Your girlfriend is saying that ultimately she don't see herself settling (get married) with someone outside of her race. You must decide if you are willing to tolerate someone with such views, AND if you must judge her level of seriousness about the topic and whether she can be swayed to look beyond your skin tone. \n\nRegardless of how much we love someone it is important to realize that there is nothing that we can do if they are not willing to work at making the relationship last.
677633
I think interracial relationships are great I'm mixed black and white and my niece is mixed also.  You go for what you like color desn't really matter because at the end of the day every one is still the same on the inside and we all have the same problems only difference is the skin color and looks.
643198
Yes, it is wrong to hate someone. Jesus commanded us to love our neighbor (everyone). \n\nThis is "agape" love, where you hope and pray for the best for each person.\n\nHowever this does not mean that we have to like them or approve of their actions.\n\nLove and approval are two very different things.\n\nWith love in Christ.
221499
Disagreements are a healthy part of who we are and how we express ourselves to one another.  If you are hateful towards each other than there are issues that you have to work out between you or seek counselling.
221973
Some black women have a hard time dealing with black men dating white women because they believe that there is a shortage of good black men and that the white women are stealing their men.  Being a white woman who has dated black men, I have experienced this.  But racism is certainly not limited to black women; I am Italian and my family is totally against interracial dating.  I believe that people should be free to date anyone they want; what matters is that they like each other and treat one another with respect.  Most people who oppose interracial dating do so because they fear that which they do not know.  The only way to improve the situation and stop the hatred is to just forge ahead and date whomever you want, no matter what people say.  Only love is real; the rest is superficial.