Serious question take time to answer please...Why get married if your going to cheat on the person?
912771
If you plan on cheating, then you certainly should not get married.  Divorce is not easy.  It's hard on everyone involved, and cheating is enough to cause divorce.  Only marry for love...nothing else.  It won't work any other way.
447040
Is this from a financial point of view? I think you should only marry someone because you love them. Living with someone isn't always easy normally in a loving relationship...it can be hell if it was done for other reasons!! Financially, you could actually lose certain benefits depending on the state you live in.
335941
Why would you want to date someone that already has shown a tendency to cheat?\n\nWhat if her boyfriend is some who can beat the **** out of you (and maybe even her)?\n\nMore trouble than it's worth...\n\nThat's just dumb.
580804
You need to consider your engagement. Maybe you are not quite ready to settle down with your fiance'. If you are questioning what you should do, my suggestion is that you should not get married just yet. You are obviously not ready to tie the knot. A lot easier to deal with before you get married than after. You need to do a lot of soul searching. Don't make a mistake that you will regret.
161206
why would you want to be with someone you don't want to marry? Your wasting your time as well as hers. You should let her find someone who will want to marry her.
1151680
Seriously I know how you are feeling, I was that way, and I waited and now we are getting married.  It isn't just the ring or the beautiful dress, Remember you will be with this person for the rest of your life and No turning back because you can't handle it. The rate for divorce is very high, So have patience, Alot of people don't know what they are going into. But TAKE IT EASY.
567195
I can't answer that. I'm getting married this sept because I know in my heart that I don't want to be without his guy.  think it over, imagine your life during the holidays, or down the road 10 years. Do you still want to be with this person? Imagine having kids...do you want to have children with this person? That's the only think I can tell you. Just feel it, you will know. Truthfully, I was crying when I realized how much I loved my guy, he was too. Its that compelling.
1014667
Hell to NO!!! its just this simple bad character no matter how you put it. And if you're going to cheat you're going to cheat no matter what. But the question is how long will it be before they decide to cheat?? And people think that they really love the person that they're in a relationship with, but yet and still they decide to cheat and also lack of will power, they're a lot of reasons why people cheat. Now I do believe that if you really love someone that no one can seduce you into cheating with them no matter what.
971265
What's the point in getting married?
454371
Forget that...it takes too long.  Make somebody to get married!!
920146
I'm never going to marry again.  It is better to stay with someone because you want to than to stay because divorce is expensive, or there are children, or you don't want to go through the whole ordeal or some other reason.
1175285
There are many reasons to want to get married... some good, some bad.\nA friend of mine had this theory that people were getting married because they were getting bored in their relationship, so they'd decide to get married so that they had something to talk about. And when the excitement of marriage had worn off, they'd move on to make children...\nIt's obviously a dark way of seeing things but I fear it's often close to the truth. \nI want to get married because I consider it a gift to my man, the promise to spend (or at least try!) my whole life with him... the ultimate commitment you can make!
1090312
I don't believe in cheating on people either. I think people do it because they want the excitement of the beginning of a relationship where sometimes both people are on their best behavior, etc. or maybe they like the "conquest". Anyway neither reasons are very good because the next relationship will be the same eventually. I think some people aren't mature enough to realize that  they could just put their love and affection in the present relationship and it would be just as exciting. If a person lived by "do unto other as you would have done to you" they would not cheat.
539071
You'll just know. Besides, no one is quite READY for marriage, it's like having a baby--you have to know you want it and then plan for it. When that's in place it's trial by error, so to speak.
193371
If you have married the man or woman that is right for you and who truly is in love with you, then you will not have to worry about them being faithful. Someone who is in love with you is not going to be unfaithful because nobody else will compare to you in their eyes. The problem is that so many people are in such a hurry to get married, that they settle for someone and try to make it be true love. That is why we have so many failed marriages today. =-)
674707
That is such a personal thing.  I don't know that there is any one right time frame for that.  I knew 6 months into my relationship that I was going to get married, but I know some relationships that last for years and years and the couple is't ready to commit.  This is really something to decide for yourself.
1136747
Why fight it.  People are gunna cheat no matter how they meet!