My wife has  tendency of selling children to rich people and play mental once discovered.?
927151
you spanish people need to be sterilized
525904
yeah it is but you always have the option of splitting assets. or get your money right and offer her a lump sum all at one time. buy the greedy b*#@$ out of your life.even if she raised the kids and worked when you split it's time to hold your own and move on.women lokk at this and learn have a career of your own. being a housewife is not a damn career. washing your husbands feet will not get you paid when he divorces your ass
1039929
No honey. Get the child's dad to look after him at night and go to College, University, and get some decent cash. That's what my wife did and now Im doing it too.\n\nGood luck.
721069
with all that you hear these days, it sounds like an emotional problem to me. those kids need help, as much as she loves her children i think it is also a form of abuse, she is just ignorant to it, and uneducated. someone speak up to her for the kids sake.
577240
sounds like jealousy to me....she will get over it soon enough, just try not to talk about the kids with every breath (not saying you do but that could add to her jealousy)....dont let her get you down though and good luck!
506279
Yeah, remember money is the root of all evil?!  Our society has taught people to totally be into status and things, possessions, including one's home.  People feel no guilt whatsoever putting their children in daycare possibly with adults that don't even like them, as long as they can continue to drive the nice car and live in the nice house.  Personally, I have an education but have chosen to let my husband make a worthwhile living, while I stay home and make my family's living 'worthwhile.'  Not everyone has that opportunity, guess I'm lucky.
439173
This isnt really nasty but it would be funny. Buy a fake lottery scratch off ticket from party usa or the internet and drop it buy her desk or where ever she will find it. They are all winners for big amounts of money so when she scratches it she will think she won, she might even possibly quit her job because she thinks she won some big money. HEHE
182528
Yes, I have.  She is a user and dumps her kid off, but her kid is darling adn our family has enriched her life.  She is learning to swim in our pool, gets stories read to her, we treat her good and she will always remember us fondly.  The gal, a tramp.  She drinks a lot, sleeps around a lot, makes bad choices in men etc.  She is a gossip as well.  I tolerate her when she stops by.  I send Chrismas gifts, mostly to the child.  I have limits with her (mom) and I do not trust her.  Regret?  Not yet.
941274
This is a very unique question.  it sounds like your wife is a BIG GAME PLAYER!  But at the same time you don't want her little game to ruin your life.  Who knows what she'll do.  I'd tell her to go find another round of friends, and you're going to live your life.  She will keep you going through this bull crap for life if you let her.\nSounds to me like she's wore her welcome out where she just came from, and is running back to her rock that's you.  Well sometimes rocks crumble.  I would let her go, you're not responsible for her irrational behavior.  And in no way are you to blame for her actions.
773258
I know someone that went through the same thing.  She has (4) children and stays home. She started her own home based business.  That keeps her busy, makes excellent money and has time for her and her family.  Have a look at this website.  www.opportunity4more.com.  The couple in the picture is the lady I am speaking about.  She would be great for you to contact and speak with.  She told me that she is much better now with staying home since she started her own home based business.  She  contributes ( a lot)  to the house hold income, feels good about what she is doing, has time for her kids and she also had time to do some personal development.  She has gone through welath creation and personal development courses that she highly recommends to someone like yourself.  Let me tell you she has helped me with my business and my lifestyle.  Take a look and see.
1000224
I'm going through the same thing.  Stay strong.  Stick with your gut feel.  She very well may be a sociopath but that's entirely up to her to get professional help.  My therapist outright told my wife to get help.  My wife insists there's nothing wrong with her.
302286
NO! blackmail her. Tell her your going to tell the wife she seduced you (see Jude Law tabloids). Tell her if she will go quietly, and pay you a small amt. monthly, you will "forget about the incidents of indiscretion which occurred."\nGood by nanny, hello $$$
763380
My wife was good at manipulating me when I believed what she said.  Now I don't put any value in anything she says and the funny thing is WE are happier.\n\nA while back we seperated (she was having an affair).  She said she wanted to be fair so I took the word "fair" to heart.  She moved out so I took over all the house hold bills because I was using everything, but her student loans, her car payments were hers.  We also consolidated our debt and she paid me half to which promptly paid.  She had access on the internet to see it was paid every month and never late.  So things seem fair right?\n\nI don't need much free spending cash to get by so all the sudden I had more money than I needed.  My wife however, had to pay a seperate rent and other bills so her cash flow was pretty low.  She then said we should go into mediation and discuss child support.  She already said that she didn't want allimony.  Now I don't go into negotiations blind so I read up on child support.  As we were waiting to meet the person who would mediate my wife & I she was telling my how money was so tight.    \n\nWhen we actually meet with the mediator I took charge saying that I just want to make sure what we were doing is "fair".  Then I Iaid out how we had already divided up the bills and that my wife did not want allimony.  The mediator agreed everything seemed fair.  Now my wife brought up child support and restating she didn't want allimony.  I then pulled out what I had learned that in the state I lived in child support was a simple mathematical calculation based on the percent of time each parent had the children.  The look on my wife's face was priceless when I told her from what I found she would have to pay ME childsupport.  My wife grabbed those papers so quick I almost laughed.  The mediator glanced at them and said if the numbers where right then I was correct.  The look on my wife's face was priceless and I think this was also the same time she started to realized that the fantasy life she was hoping to have was never going to happen.  \nI left the meeting feeling happy that my life could only get better.  I continued seeing a few new friends with benefits for a six months or so and my wife found out that her lover was not as stable financially as she thought.  We did get back together, but I always try to be fair.
902425
you are a greedy S.O.B. she is your wife. she is entitled to anything that is yours. she needs to save some money and DIVORCE you
327272
It looks to me that your wife is playing with you.The way she acts towards you doesn't show that she loves you..ore respects you for that matter!I'd talk to her,tell her what you think and feel..that you need to her to change her ways,because this isn't working out for you.If she refuses,ask yourself if this is how you want to go on....clearly this is making you very unhappy,you shouldn't accept this!
540344
This lady is pretty and clever but don't trust her kids!...she may be a meme-buster!
890991
Loyal to YOU?  Because you poked her and got her pregnant?  Dude, where do I start.  In my country she would own YOU to the tune of several hundred $ a month child support.  Do you even bother to send money to support your kids?   I would date her, and dude, I am 6'5", you wouldn't want to mess with me.  She should concentrate on her kids, yes, and kick your butt out of hers and her kids' lives.  I hope she reads this.  FIND A DECENT GUY, GIRL.  Ditch this overcontrolling "great" egotistical dingleberry.  And to you, boy.  Get it cut and don't spread more of this misery