How do I get a girl who is playing hard to get?
928207
Maybe you should flip the script on her.  Reverse the situation and YOU play hard to get.  As a matter of fact. A great way to put her to the test.  Conjure up an imaginary love interest and tell her that YOU have plans.  Then sit back, look at your watch and count the seconds until she comes running behind you like a little puppy.  Girls love what other women have.  Whether it's their, shoes, purse, or their man.  Then you will be able to tell if she's real.  She doesn't want anyone else to have you, but she doesn't wanna do what it takes to keep you!!
422960
flirt and play hard to get.and make other girls jealous too.
797818
no hes playn hard to get
1024441
Try letting her be on top more or control the pace. If she is in control, that shouldn't happen and when you want to be in control, just try to be receptive to her and not go in so far. I have this problem when I try to go hard and fast, but not so much when we use a position that isn't traditional and I can't get in so far. That way when I want to go hard and fast and can't get in so far because of the position. Anyway, there are ways you just have to be a little creative.
931412
Assume she is being a typical woman by saying the opposite of what she is thinking. Take her out, be a gentleman and then play it by ear. Chances are she will cave in if she really is interested.\n\nShe is after all, only wishing not to appear to be "easy".
762319
dont force it.....you gotta be smooth, try and grab her hand...but make it look like an accident, not too obvious of an accident, but say it was accident if she pulls away, if she doesnt, hold her hand and look her in the eyes, only try this once......you dont want her to think your desperate
1043816
Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
197390
Be yourself, no good to win her over if youre fake. She'll just leave you to hurt later.
471075
Heres a great one. I'm a girl, so you know this wont offened her. Just say-\n"hey I was getting really wound up today, I kept thinking about us doing ------ And picturing you while we were doing that  really turned me on.."\nThat way, you are introducing it with a positive spin. And remember, Let her know Its about her too. The thought of her being hot in your opinion, will probably make her more willing and alot more into it.
505828
1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
1141612
I think if you play too hard to get it makes the guy lose interest.  But I've read books where they say that playing hard to get actually makes the guy want you more.
536369
No! play hard to get!!
10790
I think she is either playing hard to get ot doesn't really know that you are interested in her.  Either way give her one last phone call and tell her how you feel.  That will be the only way that you will find out for sure!
50365
Don't let a boyfriend stop you from hooking up.  If the girl is attracted to you she'll make herself available if she likes you.  Don't let any of your illusions get in the way of what you desire.  The best way is to just ask if she wants to do something if she is committed to someone she'll turn you down, if she isn't and she digs ya she won't.
473087
You can never 'get' a girl to love you... she needs to want to offer you her love.  ASK HER to go out with you.... stop the guessing game
238887
If she's playin hard to get then she'll still flirt a little, and give you quick glances. If she's really not interested them she'll probably tell you to back off.
691509
I can't tell you what SHE wants, but I can give YOU some advice:\n\nGo out.  Find other girls.  Have fun.\n\nShe may or may not have feelings for you.  But if you're hanging on her beck and call, she's more than likely to begin playing you.\n\nSo go out with friends.  Flirt.  Have fun.  If she wants any sort of relationship, it will happen of its own accord.  And if not, well, you won't mind as much.