Ladies in mid-20's: Do you ever go out by yourself to a bar or whatever?
923023
I have before, yes. I wouldn't say I do it frequently though.\n\nI usually go with friends because it's nice to have someone to chat with.
478731
Great question, and great sense of humor!  I like the idea of toon singles bars.
575612
I know where ur coming from, cause i was in a 5 yr. relationship and i lost all my friends and when i ended things with my b/f i had no friends left.  I had a couple of girlfriends from work, they begged me to go to a bar with them 1 nite and i did.  u'll be surprised how many people u'll meet at a bar, resturant, or club.  a lot of my friends now (which i've had for over a yr.) i met at those places.  so put urself out there.  get dressed up all sexy 1 nite and find 1 girlfriend that will go with u and hit the clubs!
737018
Going by yourself to events shouldn't embarass you. It actually would show maturity. I say go, you'll probably pay attention more than if one of your friends would have gone along with.
863786
I am like you, I don't like clubs/pubs. People think I am crazy, as pubs are an institution where I live. But eh, at the end of the day, you go out to entertain yourself, not to be bored or feel awkward. And I don't drink either.\n\nMy advice to you would be to find something you like to do, like going to the cinema, to the restaurant with your friends, and compromise with them.
536194
did you try going into a lesbian bar?  plenty of bi women also go to places like that.
549031
Of course. Just look after yourself. I'm a mere 30 and have just had heart surgery on my own. My ex girl friend Left for another man at the time too. It was not great knowing no one close was there for you. Am no longer scared of death now though, A side effect of being alone, no one there what's the point. The choice is yours. I'd marry if i were you. A bit more of a fight if you don't want to leave your lover behind. Good luck
962824
For the sake of us older men, PLEASE be outgoing and sociable.  Most single older women are completely twilight zone.  It would be nice to see some normal older women who are still available and not afraid to let people know about it.
894136
Heavens, no.  Talk to anyone at "Good Vibrations."\n\nIt's just a bit more, shall we say, "outward" with men than with women.
295081
Man, I like your personal ad I am very impress. Im kind of like what you describe except I dont have any kids and I already have my degrees ...Im 34 in Chicago. I have the same problem too ,but with females. Females I run into they smoke(weed), drink and party... EVERYDAY, I cant do it EVERYDAY. I have plans and goals not to mention A JOB.I came to the conclusion probably I attract that type of woman because of the people I hang with from time to time.
1036197
not usually a bar for a lastting relationship ..but in my case it lasted over 10 years and countting ....but maybe join some social clubs...perhaps volunteer for something .cafes work at times but sometimes the perso is already with someone at a cafe . lol
1061182
Go by yourself! Duh!!!
980297
Exude confidence.  I think that is the best way to celebrate being single.  Do things by yourself that may normally be for couples like going out to a nice restaurant, see a movie or show up to outings by yourself and meet everyone there.  It might sound silly, but it takes a strong person to show others you are comfortable being single within a dating scene.  \nBe proud too, that you can find your life fulfilling when your main goal isn't finding a good man, getting married and settling down.  There is NOTHING wrong with having that as your goal, but it still is not for everyone!!  There is a lot to be said about a completely independent woman with a healthy life, active career and great friends...so show it off!
36238
Not really.  Be careful.  If you feel you MUST go meet someone, never meet them by yourself.  Take a friend with you.  Someplace public.
789367
Yeah mid 20's. But I had to move back in with my mom a few times. But I always was able to get out on my own again after a few months.
1060505
I am bald on the top of my head too, and I get lots of dates. First, I go where there are lots of people. I smile, wear nice clothes, and am friendly with everybody. I wear cologne,  after I take a shower, and then I dance. Ladies LOVE to dance, and it doesn't matter than you can't dance well, but you dance anyway. We laugh, cut up, and have a good time.  Before the evening is over, I will have had several offers for dates, or whatever. It works for me, and it will for you too. Get out there!
431358
Well, single gurls don't want others to know they are actually single and hence don't go alone. Single guys, on the other hand, just think they can get a chick if they go to clubs. It's that simple!