I really think I'm a lesbian?
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If you're attracted to both males an females then you're bi.  Just don't think if you get in a relationship with female it will be any better, some girls are just as bad as guys...\n\nOk now with that out of the way I am bi, I hate telling straight guys that I am because then all think can think about is "Yes! Threesome!" if you and your boyfriend are already shakey its not the best thing to tell him, all he'll do is make things worse by pressuring you try with a girl and to make sure he's involved.\n\nEither way you deserve to be in a good, healthy relationship and whether you decide you want to be alone for a while, try being with a woman or just sticking to guys, I think you need to lose the one your with now.  Everyone deserves the right to be happy.\n\nIf you ever need help on coming out and don't know who to talk to you can always email me if you need some advice or someone to talk to :)  good luck with everything...
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how can she be a lesbian when she is a man..
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nikki,\n\nI assume she doesnt know you're a lesbian?\nWhat you should do is raise the subject and see how she feels about it. Maybe watch a movie about it ("But I'm a Cheerleader" is a good one) and talk about it. \nIf she is curious she'll let you know. If not, she's not worth your energy, move on, find the one with whom you belong. More power 2 u for being proud of who you are. :-) \ngood luck with the girl, but know that if it doesnt work out, there are many brilliant girls out there that passionatly love other girls. I should say women really..\n:-)
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You say she is Not a lesbian or bisexual.  You and her are both lying to yourselves.  She is just that.\nIf she is this upset about it, then she should go to a therapist to discuss her feelings and set a plan to come to grips with her sexuality.
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oh man yeah i would be a lesbian 4 u lol
52014
No, She's not a lesbian..... but don't you wish she was?!?! I know a lot of people who do...
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No -- I am not lesbian but I think that if I were lesbian I would regard transsexuals as a sort of man. There are a lot of men who go for transsexuals and some hetero women do, too.
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how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
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I think you just know.  I'm heterosexual.  Your sexuality is a very personal part of yourself... only you can make that call.    Just take it slow to make sure if it's just a phase/trend or the real thing if you are not sure... so no one ends up hurt.   Good Luck and enjoy yourself.
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What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
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i am a lesbian trapped In a man's body, if that counts.
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I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
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I'd say just give it time. I felt the same towards a girl at my school and we spent a lot of time together but it was never going to happen. It sounds like you know that as well. Stay near her but don't cross that line.\n\nI never did with my friend and everything was good. It was still 5 years after that until I came out. I'm not saying that you are lesbian. I never had any sexual feelings for this friend - I just liked her more than others.\n\nLike you say - don't go obsessing over her. You will become more clear about what you want if she can keep a straight mind. It may just be a fantasty thing because you seem no way inclined to go lesbian. It may just be hormones and discovering who you are or you may just have a natural curiosity.
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Have you ever tried something to find out if you like it or not? Having sex with a man, then having sex with a woman and confirming you are completely lesbian, does not make you any less of a lesbian.
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I think that it's wonderful that you are proud to be a lesbian!\nI am a bisexual woman and I am very proud of who I am.\n\nAnd to the user that stated that being a lesbian is 'sick'=\nGrow the f*ck up and get an open mind.
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I will, I'm a lesbian.
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This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...