Is it wrong for a married man to love someone else ?
931547
You have answered your own questions above.\n1. you no longer love your wife.\n2. you have been neglected.\n3. your marital relations leave you sleeping alone.\n4. you have started another relationship -although platonic for now, with someone else.\n5. all you need is some guts to tell her the truth and be done with it, why drag it out-not helping you or her.\nHer gambling is HER PROBLEM, not yours, remember that.\ngood luck.
274796
You were married, there for it isn't odd that you would still have some fond feelings and good memories.  However I don't think you are in love with him.  I think you are probably just going through some bad stuff in your life and your latching on to some good memories and making more of them that what you should.  Remember, this same guy cheated and lied to you and nothing has changed.  You still deserve better in your life.
258144
it is definitely not the right thing.  he is married.  if if he gives you the time of day, he is still married. 9 times out of ten he is not going to leave his wife. and if he does what goes around comes around. it would probably happen to you. find you a single man.  you don't want to be second. you deserve better.
277215
I would dump his sorry a$$. Once you know he is married, you are willingly contributing to his wifes heartache when she finds out (and trust me, she will find out).\nHow would you feel if you were married and your husband cheated with someone who knew he was married?\nLet's pretend he is going to leave his wife for you (which he will not), you will become the person he cheats on.
258711
no, leave other peoples man alone there are plenty out there. and you don't want this one either because if he is doing this to his wife now, then u wont b the last. he is one big loser for cheating on his wife now.  and if you married this guy what kind of friend would u b called?? put yourself in the other person shoes, IT HURTS AND NOBODY SHOULD GO THRU THIS THAT WAS WRONG OF BOTH OF U. REAL FRIENDS DON'T TOUCH.
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
1087185
No its not wrong... unless you have a wife who's telling ya its wrong.... lol
180019
NOt if you don't mind.\nIt would be wrong if he is married though.
246175
The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Maybe you need to examine your marriage and figure out why you would even consider ruining your marriage for something that happened in your past? \n\nOr if you feel that this person is really your "soul mate" then life's short live it happy, and if this is what is going to make you life happier and more fullifield then do what your head not your heart thinks is right.
411620
Are you really in LOVE with HIM?  Or is it the idea of new love and that feeling of new love, that you're in love with?  Especially being a married woman, after a little bit of time you lose that new love/lust euphoria.  Perhaps there are some things that you are missing in your marriage that you are looking for in this new guy.  I know it doesn't answer your question, but perhaps you should work on the marriage that you're already in and see if you can improve it, because you must have LOVED your husband at one time
847170
Yes, i think it is perfectly normal for happily married people to get enamored with another person from time to time...! The flirting that you think came from him may just be friendly interaction...I wouldn't risk acting on my feelings if i were you! You may embarrass yourself, and alienate your hubby! Good luck...
49971
What you are feeling is perfectly normal. Just because you are married and love your husband does not mean you are dead. I am sure your husband is not perfect and neither is the other guy. It's like the new car smell, eventually it wears off as the car gets older.\n\nBe a friend to your friend and keep it that way. There is nothing wrong with feeling for someone that you like and admire. Just keep both of your families in focus and everthing should be okay.
1088474
I have decided after two marriages that there are different kinds of love, you do what makes YOU feel the best.  You won't be able to change your husband, and I know from experience, they may try to change, but it rarely works out, and if so only temporarily.\nIt ends up not being fair to either one of you.  Don't take a chance on losing your new love...........
970482
When i first met my husband he was still married to his ex wife.. They had been seperated for about 4 months... I loved him, and he filed for divorce, got custody of the child that they had together, she turned to drugs and got placed in a mental institution... So everything worked out great... We sense then had a child which i now 1yrs old... There is nothing wrong with dating a man that is married as long as he is trying 100% to divorce his wife asap...  And there no longer in contact or sleeping together of etc..
773000
Hai,\nY do u want to keep a relationship secret in the first place? Well if both of them are married to different people ofcourse thats a sin. At times its normal to feel attracted to others ( whn u are married ) but dont let that attraction take u to different directions.I believe its sin cheating ur wife or husband. Its being totally an untrustworthy person !!!! Thats like being a CHEAPO !!!! U would not like if ur wife does that to u right !\nIf u both are not married, then its ur choice to keep it a secret or not and if u both are gonna get married then thats perfectly fine.
526581
Although it is possible to love two or more people at the same time, I do not believe that this is the case.  I think that the romance has gone out of your marriage and you find it easier to be romantic with another woman than to rekindle the romance in you marriage.\n\nFor a married man to have a romantic relationship with another woman is folly.  It is thinking with the "little head."  Either divorce your wife to pursue another woman, or go to counseling with your wife to correct your martial problems.  Do one or the other before someone gets hurt.
347661
Rightly or wrongly, our current societal mores do not approve of our being involved with " other persons " when we are married. \nThe real question is not whether monogamy works; but rather can a couple MAKE it work.\n \nThere are ALWAYS 'other'  people that you will encounter that you are attracted to, it's called the human condition.\nPeople CAN love more than one person at a time.\n\nThe bottom line is, whether or not an individual can field the feelings of attraction,  curiosity, lust, love, passion and want---- married or not.\n\nSo he's attracted to you. That really is a compliment, the right thing to do is to acknowledge that as a kindness, but do not encourage him, and don't allow it to get out of hand, especially since you are already married.