How can I let the person I love realize that I will be better in the future?
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
882076
I absolutely love the words Jack Nicholson said in his movie..."You make me want to be a better person." I am sure I will catch flack for that but that IS what love is..when someone brings out the best in you, The main answer is going to be that if you love her she will know...that is not always true...sometimes just the right words DO help.  None of us here can give them to you, they will come, and they will come from your heart and those are the best words for anyone to hear.
574991
resolve within yourself the need to be possessed - easier said than done...but possible. Can you accept that someone can love you for who you are. remember the world is something of a mirror of our own beliefs. (not completely) but be thankful this person is in your life - you picked them at some level...consciously or unconsciously. remember true freedom does not depend on how someone else behaves. If you make the change within youself the outer world will 'adjust'. guaranteed. This person will either adapt or the sitation will change to reflect your next lesson:-)
269161
I believe that with time if someone loves you they will want to spend their life with you. It would be according to how he feels toward you and only you know that. Talk with him and ask him what he sees in the future for you and him...K
583730
be your understanding self by simply being there for her. trust me, she'll appreciate it.
522396
Dpends on what you have done , i messed up at the start of my relationship but 2 and a half years later we are planning our wedding and we couldnt be happier , some things are repairable and some things arent , if you feel enough for eachother , itll work out.
807661
You really have the patience and you do care for her a lot. But i feel that she does not deserve someone like u. Find someone else.\nI know that it will hurt. But reality sucks and you have to accept it. I am really sorry dude.\nBut them again, if you really love her. Give her one more trial. None of us are prefect and we commit mistakes. Just conside this as a foolish mistake by her and give her one more chance.\nForgive & forget. As long as it does not hurt u.
608838
Start making plans for your life - and give him the option of being part of your future.  If he's still not catching on speak it out clearly to him, let him know you need to know what his plans are or else move on.
201859
hey,\nthe first question u should ask is do u love him. i do understand that sooner or later giving can b quite costly. what u could try and do is increase ur conversations wid him. it does happen when he is content with wat he is gettin n tends to forget to give or just does not knw wat to give u. try to lower ur expectations most importantly.\ni hope everythin goes well :)
1043541
ok sweety, don't worry right now, if your b/f is being honist with you right now, he will be in the future aswell and that's great!! just keep in mind that if he is being honist with you now he loves you and well be happy you are loved\nbtw is your name david?
53125
hi,\nlisten if u give somebody more importance then anybody else in your life, i mean to ur love one. and if he/she familiar with ur feelings then he tries to show himself superior. i think u got wat i mean. but it all happen when he/she confused whethr he loves u or not. so it better to build some gap for few days so that he feel the importance of u in his life. i promise it works bcoz i had chkd svrl times on many girls in such cases. hey dnt mind if it wrk plz let me knw on my id hgoel_81@yahoo.co.in wish u gud luck for ur next step.\n\nbye,tc
170922
When you commit yourself your person, you are saying you love them just the way they are.  You should support and encourage your partner in any attempt they make at personal growth, but the worst statement anyone has ever made is "I can change him/her" or "Oh he's/she's never had someone that loved them like me, they'll change" \nIf you don't love them as they are then move on.
330998
tell him how you feel he will probably understand
1093749
Have him(or her) include your eagerness and willingness for knowledge. Mention what you have learned and what you contribute. And add your good personality traits. That you mix well with all. Are you timely and orderly? do you have a caring nature? And he should add (or she) how well he(she) thinks you will do in the future what ever path you choose.
874791
If you love him then tell him I will give you a very good quote that you should think about every time you go to make a decision on something in your life....."tomorrow is promised to no one".....you need to live for today who knows if you or he will be here tomorrow!
1112359
If the relationship is going to have a future be honest. It's something taht should be said, but not until you have established a trusting relationship.
921747
make sure you do things the right way, be good for awhile and eventually do the same thing to her