help my bf is an ass?
920992
take the kids and go...NOW
1133751
He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
243831
Your best bet it to dump him before he hurts you because of his jealously. No one should control you like that. Also he could have a guilty conplex for something he is doing behind your back.
592473
say that you have back problems. \n\nor suck it up and play. \nif you suck then make fun of yourself and act like a total dork. have fun. if your boyfriend cant except you for who you are then get rid of him.\n:))\n\n\noh and its school. no offense
734806
Remember, you are the company you keep.  Who your boyfriend chooses as his friends says something very important about who he is and what he values. If his friends are rude and abusive to you, that does not bode well for the character of your boyfriend.  At the very least, you should talk to your boyfriend about what they have said to you and give him a chance to explain and make his friends change their behavior to you.  Good luck.
466844
Dump him. No one likes a smart ass.
14719
1.  Leave, run dont walk.  IF he is insensitve to her needs and feelings at this stage, and over such a small thing, then how will he act later?  HE cares not for her, but his own ego and self importance and worth.  Dump his buttocks.\n\n2.  HE is verbally abusing her.  She doesnt like it, finds if offensive, and he does it purposely cause he knows that it hurts her.  what a jerk.
326041
just talk to him about what makes you mad...my boyfriend does the same things, and when i tell him something i don't like, he stops, or if he does it by accident, he's really sweet about it and makes up for it...also, if he's pissing you off, make sure he knows it at that time, cuz if he doesn't, he'll keep doing whatever he is doing wrong...make sure he knows you really want it to work, and you'll do whatever you can
1047063
yea... call him... if he is your b/f then he wont get mad
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
742654
same thing happned to me! the gus IS a jerk, and you need to dump him. stay away from him for a while and most likely he will come back to you. If not, dont you adre go back to him! atleast, not for a while. If he's embarrassed to say hes with you, he is NOT worth it.
638309
its not you its him.. he has major issues.. he doesnt think to much of himself so he has to feel like better by belittling you..I think you are much better than having to deal with this jerk.. get rid of him before he totally destroys mentally and physically all your self esteem.. this guy needs some major growing up and a good kick s###t kicking.. he is nothing but a worthless bully.. send him to the curb find someone healthy
465121
Oh my gosh girl, if you have to stop being good to be with him then leave his sorry butt and don't look back.  School is more important than any guys and the sex part, please wait until you are married!  I wish I had.  Sounds like he thinks you make him look bad by being good, don't ever stop!
221661
So stop it already! Hurting your feelings with what??>....um,.. lemme guess, words? Are you certain that he is doing it intentionally, or do he think he is not. \n\nFeelings get hurt only when we allow ourselves to feel that way.  I strongly believe that you can also choose to not let whatever it is he says hurt you by ignoring him, not taking those times so seriously and tell yourself he is just messing with you, and blow it off- give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts. \n\nBottom line, you control emotions, get upset, feeling hurt,     are controlled by you. You decide what will piss you off and what hurts. Change the way you think and perceive things, don't take things so personally, remember freedom of speech?   \n\nYour bf probably gets a kick watching you get all upset. Dont let him see you hurt or upset, don't let it faze you, like you never heard him, I bet it will stop. \nMaybe you are just being a cry baby? Maybe blow his mind the next time he is hurting your feelings and just crack up laughing hysterically then stop, telling him he is so hilarious. Well, at least you will be laughing, that feels better than feeling hurt, or sad or upset. Is this making any sense at all?\nI hope you understand my point, and you find your way to toughen up your sensitivity.
108564
Once a dumb-ass...always a dumb-ass!....you need to have more self respect...you deseve better than to be treated nice only in private. If he really cared for you, he would treat you nice ALL the time!...He apperently has some low self-asteem issues to treat you badly in public...get away while you still can!
392131
Get him drunk.\n\nSeriously, though, my boyfriend guilt trips me to do it, so that might work. But you really shouldn't top him if he really really doesn't want to.
840937
That's going to be a tough one, but it's good for you to let him know how you feel about this leech he's dating.  When he's available, have a sit down with your bro, tell him to keep his calm, and that the following words you'll utter are not meant to raise his ire in any way.  Express your criticism of her (in a detailed, but not an overly emotional way) and see if he understands.  Tell him that he is a good guy who deserves better, and there are great single ladies out there who would not suck him dry of money, etc..\n\nHe may or may not listen.  But at least you gave it a shot.