why  do boy  cheat   on the gurl they say they love and want to be  with?
928655
cuz boy lie to girl when he said he loved her
1178094
Personally I think the main reason guys cheat is that they are looking for something they are not getting at the present.  It may not always be about sex but perhaps more along a more robust converstation or possibly just the personality altogether.  Many will not break up with the current gf until they have secured the next relationship.
205724
I think they want the most attractive guy to show of to their friends because all her friends have attractive boyfriends it falls under wanting something for all the wrong reasons because i played this roll before until i found out why she wanted me.but i know one of the good guys
602771
I'm sure men/women have their excuses for why they cheat, some are loneliness, temptation, not getting what they want at home.  They are all just lame excuses for doing something wrong, though.  They should deal with the real problem and not cheat and hurt other people.
1003262
i never believe it when my boyfriends tells me they love me. because half the time boys dont know what is the meaning of 'love' and just tells us girls they love us because they think we want to hear it, or we like hearing it. \n\nif someone really truely loves another, they will show it not say it.
191512
Ultimately a guy just wants to be loved.  Each guy is different and expects different things from different girls.  Remember, he wants you to be his girl friend so that means he like who you are.  Just be you and if you are concerned about something talk to your boy and find out what he is thinking.
9898
Because after getting a man or woman to provide them with all these thing, especially when they get all this without helping out in building up a relationship , they believe they can find some other fool to give them better. And alot of the time they are right. But check back with these pathetic souls a little later in life and you will find them lonely and alone. But they still end of with a substantial amount of money and security from the previous marriages. Not a bad gamble on they're part. I really think they plan it before they ever go on a date and smarten up guys, they DO. Just like when you were a teenager thinking about one day settlling down with someone and giving them everything, these leeches were planning on their first divorce and how much they're gonna get. The secret is to never give a girl or guy every thing they want unless they are truly giving you every thing YOU want and please guys (and girls) want more than to spoil a full grown eventually blown partner into telling you those faithful words.... I'm not happy. Make them WORK for your love to. Watch out
148635
Most men enjoy cheating...they enjoy the thrill. As well as they may still like the girl that they are with but want another girl as well. Instead of leaving the girl they hope that the girl they are cheating on is a forgiving one as some girls are. That way they get the best of both worlds.
963084
Most do because they tend to feel that they're sexually inadequate. That's how my girl's ex-bf felt when my girl realized that she wasn't really in love with him, and that she was in love with me. He's still bitter about the fact that he lost his girl to a lesbian, but that's life. People switch teams all the time, especially when they're not happy with the their members.
319208
it will end up driving them away- they will start feeling insecure and cheat on you to make them feel more confident. my mate did this because she felt insercure and her boyfriend cheated on her non stop- he said it was because he was always jealous he felt ugly and insecure. he felt like she could do better. they were the best couple before this... dont play games, you just end up playing yourself!
245563
Love and cheating are two different things. When a guy cheats, its doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love his gf anymore.. Guys need to feel wanted and desired all the time.. They always want to make sure they still have "it".. That they can still get any girl they want.. It's a bad habit, and the most important thing is if his gf knows about  his cheating, and if she will be able to tolerate it..
642814
if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
1134089
Oh he wants to be with her she serves a purpose. most of his wants and needs are serviced . He just thinks he's so cool he can get away with it. Either the girl dosn't know and thinks he loves her, or she is accepting of this behavior because she has low self esteam and thinks she has to accept this.  He is a player god knows how he lies to her and lies to the next to pleasure his sick self.  He does because he can. Maybe after he gets played when he really cares about someone he will learn a lesson, Just don't be another knotch in his belt he can brag about or ruin your rep in the process.  Stay away and just watch the action, and u will see I'm right.  You will bless the day you didn't get caught up in it.
858964
They are lying. It's part of the contract that they need to show avaliability so guys can imagine that they have a chance with them. Just like in beauty pagents, the girls must be single...alot aren't but they keep it private. Boybands used that trick as well.
990538
They feel insecure and inferior of themselves. Or maybe their gfs are those type that fools around with other guyz thus they don't trust them ;)
355074
because they are stuck with that guy already and are unable to move on, cause they already have low self esteem and think that no one else will take them... so they just conform
543603
Often because they feel that the girl friend has stolen their friend from them. Imagine it, the guy has his friends, they hang out together all the time, get drunk, pick fights, whatever, they rely on each other and trust each other. Then, all of a sudden, a girl comes along and the guy is dating her. Next thing you know the guy has two demands on his time, his friends' and his girlfriend's. Obviously he could hang out with them both at the same time, but most guys will want to spend time alone with their girlfriend, so that doesn't normally work. The guy will typically end up spending more time with their girlfriend that with their friends because of:\n\n1. Sex, intimacy etc...\n2. The guy won't really know how to keep the girl happy and will want to spend alot of time with her to prove that he likes her and because he's afried she'll dump him if he spends too much time away from her.\n3. It will never occur to the guy that his friends will be jealous, he trusts them and thinks they want the best for him. \n\nAnyways, the guy's friends (because they're *his* friends) are far more likely to blame the girl than the guy for the fact that he spends nowhere near as much time with them anymore, so all the jealousy and frustration gets targetted at her in expressions of contempt and suspicion.\n\nIt should be pointed out that sometimes they're right, the girlfriend feels alienated from the friends and wants the guy alone to herself, so she deliberately sets things up so the guy spends more time with her than with them.