I am in great Confusion of Friendship and Love?
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she might be the first girl in your life but she will surely not be the last one.\n\ngiven your baxkground, i think you might be someone who has few friends, perhaps one that has difficulties in reaching out to others. \n\ndo not let yourself be stranded in the life of a single girl. go and give yourself a fair chance with other girls. the way your story goes, i think she is fickle minded as well s selfish. why are you letting her do this to you? go get some other girls.. then she will be happy and so will her parents. you deserve better. go get another girl.
939007
. Maybe it is time to consider finding a new friend Friends accept us for what we are the best of and the worst. If you feel strange there problem is something going on. Are sure they are friends and can you really be yourself around them. If so how can you be thinking you can mess things up? Life is to short to be up happy either ask them straight out or accept the way thing are.
606629
sounds like you are confused. think this out better then decide
746427
You are thinking with your heart and other parts of your body besides your head. Your friends are just looking out. If you are confused there is a reason for it. Sit your friends down and have them tell you why they feel the way they do. They will probably open up your eyes and brain instead of him opening up something else.
593191
No you are not chasing an impossible dream. Anything is possible. Hang in there. Nobody knows the future. Just because she considers you as a friend doesn't mean anything. Remember friendship is where a relationship starts. Love takes time and it may be that it is taking her longer to except her feelings. Just because she doesn't say she doesn't love you don't mean it wont happen. Good luck to you hun. I know you will find happiness.
714158
well it is in theory. its called confusion, when u dont know what u want. happend to me quite a bit.
312394
Good the first basics of love is friendship sounds like you both need to talk and pacth up things. Sometimes people make mistakes nows the time for you and him to fix them and be happy.
476175
well i think once you become intimate with someone it confuses things and if you were just friends to begin with and that was it from the begining of course it confuses things thats what loving someone does is confuse things at least to me it does so i look at it this way at least you were friends to begin with and that is the way it is suppose to be it is actually better to be friends first before you are lovers or anything else because you know that person and now you are just getting to know them on another level and it is just awkward for you or us but it is ok now you will just have to figure out what you are going to do next so have fun and now im confused all over again
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all above have told you what you already know  and I agree with most.\n\nto that I add\n\n\n\nIt does not seem like you have any clue what love is.\n \nyou seem to be in lust.\n\nLove is respect honor when you are really in love all others are not seen like that any longer.\n\nSeems you still have not found true love.\n\nI pray you will know it and be loved too.
1002649
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
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Tell her you are confused and discuss what you perceive as mixed signal.  Discuss those things you mention in your question and ask her if she is having second thoughts about you two just being friends.  Tell her if she is having second thoughts you would be interested in giving your relationship a second try.\n\nThe worst she can do is tell you she isn't interested, which would answer your question and relieve your confusion.\n\nThe one thing I wouldn't do is let this drag on for too long.  You are entitled to a life and hanging around with her while she decides just doesn't qualify.
1006977
hello you can't say this is one thing friendship and love is different thing yes sometime friendship can turn to love but if both friends want's you can't change yourself you can enjoy the friendship with clear mind and love is life with clean heart.
192150
YOUR FRIEND MIGHT FEEL A LITLE WIERDED OUT, BUT EXPLAIN TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU STILL WANT THE FRIENDSHIP AND YOU RESPECT THE FRIENDSHIP. YES YOU MAY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT YOUR FREINDSHIP MEANS MORE TO YOU
422773
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you,cannot explain but your not alone,,hang in there ,someone will come along, probably when your not even expecting it,,love is awfully complicated,,good luck.....
989667
It's very common that best friend turns to be lovers. You should find out that your best friend is love you or just want to be friend. You know. Love is a two way channel, it invloves two persons. If only one-way, it is not love\n\nGood luck\n\nJoyce
700674
Ya, if her feelings for you are ever going to change from friendship to relationship, it's probably not gonna happen when she knows that your waiting for her. I've had friends in the past that have professed their love for me after we had been friends for awhile, pretty much, once your in the friend place it's really hard to come out of. I'm not saying it's impossible but her knowing how you feel probably isn't helping, she knows you'll be there untill she's ready. My advice...move on, still be her friend but date someone else. If there ever is a chance of her feelings toward you changing, it'll happen when she thinks she's lost you. Everyone loves a challenge ;) Good Luck!
707753
It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.