How CanI win and I am not one of 'these guys' ?
915160
Confidence.... Confidence is something that makes "them" Stand out...\n\n&#92;
1067747
Be confident and don't try to be someone you're not.  And don't try too hard.  You'll usually meet them when you're not trying.
361616
You've gotta psyche yourself out...don't give a damn about what anyone else around you is thinking.Learn how to accept rejection...invite it if you have to.Sometimes it pays to be an arrogant,conceited prick(only once in a great while to boost up your ego).No fear man!
280787
Tty to find other good guys no's..
693078
You can't... generally. Unless you know proxy tricks. (wink!)\n\nWhat are trying to accomplish? Be a flamer or a lamer?
128731
its not that easy to win something....it just sounds like it!! Maybe you can go to the bank and see if they can give u a lown or something...GOOD LUCK!
146933
Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(:
359301
challenge them in mind game(not counting) \nsurely they will lose as u r a GENIUS BABY
352304
there are many descent guys out there, you just have to find them. Good Luck
838352
Look confident, and hustle. Act like you belong, know what you do best and try to take advantage of your strengths, whether its dribbling, passing, jumping or shooting the rock. By all means don't try to be something you are not, you will just look stupid, play within yourself and you will be alright...Good Luck.
165332
Have heart!  I know it sounds stupid but you don't have to be the best player.  Just the desire.  I've played for years and believe me I'm not the best but I try to keep a positive attitude and play with people that jell together.  One bad apple and it upsets the whole team.  Play smart!  Watch the other team and look for their weak spots.  Have fun!  This was always my motivation in a tourneyment!  Hope this helps some....its not technical but it sure kept me playing!!
400007
play them one on one and beat them that should get you their respect because now they know you are good and tell them a "good defense makes a great offense" and hopefully they will now listen to you if not, you can always bribe them with stuff
777753
Stay quiet and stay out of the way.  Witty comebacks and smart-assed remarks don't work because the bully is rarely smart enough to understand.  You can't win with a stupid person because they are too stupid to understand they've lost.  Just stay under the radar until you are out of school.  Then, when you're their boss, you will have the last laugh.
420071
TAKE AWAY THE PHRASE 'WIN' FROM YOUR QUESTION.\nTHATS THE ANSWER.
285542
First of all, drop the game mentality.\n\nThere is no scoreboard and no one is keeping score.\n\nIf you feel a need for revenge, entertain the thought, for a brief second, and take no action.  \n\nIf you believe you are mature, act that way.  \n\nCompose yourself and take your talents, skills, and abilities to the next woman who will embrace them.\n\nBoys get even.  Real men move on.
810680
There are no tactics that guarantee success and you also need to have the right players for different tactics. Check out the official forum which has a section where people test tactics and report the most successful.
538399
watch, listen and learn from people you think are assertive. practice on sales people, works for me.\njust take charge of any situation, it will get easier, everyone wants someone else to take charge. do it before the wrong one does.