Is my girl cheating on me with her best guy friend??? help me?
918361
Sounds like you are getting some of your own medicine there buddy.  Why was it ok for you to be with both of them while you made up your mind, but not ok for her to be with both of you while she makes up her mind?  You say I alot in that paragraph as though you have given up something you wanted, and the decision is soley yours if you spend your life with Jen.  It's not.  It's up to Jen too and since you started this, you kind of have to wait for her to figure it out the way you did.\nI'm sorry you are hurting, but this is what you wanted, time to decide if she was the one.  Now give her the same courtesy.
110084
I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
261630
Because by other experiences girls generalize that men are liars... because someone cheated this way, we see a pattern here... just show your girl what you do, take her onece and she will know that you are the exeption to the rule, its not natural, but some women think of you as dogs hunting and she might trust you but not the people you are among of, so let her meet your buddies, and let her know theres nothing to hide she will trust you more because theres information saying how do you feel ok... Be truthfull and this will set you free of explainning yourself everytime you hang out with your friends ok... \nBest of luck!
485882
Any ladies out their that suspect their guy is cheating on them is because they are feeling insecure and they dont trust their men. So for you ladies out their let me tell u trust your men and try to stop feeling so insecure. If your men leaves you for some other chick this might mean he wasnt for you. take care to all.
376224
Do you two spend any time alone? Like studying or just hanging out? DOn't just ask him just because all of your friends have a boyfriend. If he is your best friend, then you should have no problem asking him if he has a girlfrir=end. If he ask you why are you asking? Just tell him that you are curious that's all. Leave it at that no matter what his answer is. If it is a no then wait a few days or weeks and if you are comfortable then ask him the big question. Try this:"I was wondering, I know we are best friends and I am glad that we are. But how do you feel if we take it a step further? But I also don't want our friendship to mess up if you say no or we break up. I feel really comfortable around you and I like you alot. What do you think" After this just pt=ray he says yes. Also talk to your parents first and ask them what you think. Because they are your parents and they will be driving you two around if you hook up. Because if you don't have the ok it will mess up your relationship big time with him or anyone else. Good luck.
324718
OK, maybe his friend lied (I doubt it). But you have to get a hold of yourself.  From your typing style, and misspellings, I assume you are VERY young.  This boy may be your 1st love, but believe me, he will NOT be your last. Does he deny being with the girl at all, or just denies anything happened?  Get to the bottom of this.  If he is innocent, apologize for not trusting him.  If he is guilty, break up with him.  You don't need to play these games.  You deserve better.
985187
your girlfriends supposed to be gay and she cheated on you with a guy?? she's probably cheated on you more than this guy that you know of. to me you just seem as back burner and i don't mean it in a harsh way, but you seem to only be with her if it suits her, when no other man is interested. Cut your losses and leave her. I know it is going to suck for a while but then someone great will come around, someone who actually respects you enough to not cheat. You are always going to care about her in some way or another, but only time will stop you from loving her that and space. you're definitely going to need to get away from her for awhile. hope i helped
641531
If he isnt cheating on you with her he will, ask any guy they aren't friends with a girl unless they wanna sleep with her. Becareful because girls are evil (most of them) and sounds like this one is after your man so keep a close eye on him. good Luck
903645
Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
346482
Omg, I have this guy too and he has this slutty girlfriend and I think he can really do better then that. I ask him to come over nad hangout and he saud my g/f would like that!  I was like Matt come on your my best friend your gonna diss me for you girl, but i'm still friends with him and i love him but if he wants her, theres other fish in the sea!
49140
YES! But if possible, come bearing proof! Your friend may be upset and even think you are lying; your friendship may be hurting for a while depending on the kind of person she is, but YOU are her BESTfriend, you should give her the respect and loyality that title deserves. You WILL NOT be responsible for their break up...her man will. Break it to her gently and tell her first that you would never do anything to hurt her unless it would hurt her more not to know. Reverse the rolls...if your lover where cheating on you and your bestfriend knew...would you want her to tell you? How would you feel if you found out and KNEW she didnt tell you about it months before??
340909
If she is your girlfriend .. Why is she spending lot of times with a guy that she doesnt like? It sounds very FISHY to me. WHy cant she spend more time with you to prove u that shes not interested in this guy that she doesnt like. I think she may be hiding her feelings about him and she might felt stuck between you and him.  Plus she might know u are worried or demanded to know an answer from you . so its a cover up thing. My answer may be wrong for you to know why.. if she knows ur insecurity and so on. she would have spend more time with you to prove it. Why she needs to be with the guy that she doenst like? on what condition is that? keep ur eyes on her and see if shes really the one for you before u decide u want to marry her ..
426449
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
783768
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
95330
Do you really want to know? that could be the end of your relationship. If you suspect she is still cheating then thats diffrent. nip it in the bud. but if it was in the past and things are ok now, let it go.
812203
I think if this question really is a true question.. you are not doing the correct thing by cheating like that... You will loose your girlfriend if you tell her whats going on. You need to stop this fling with your friend if you want to stay with your gf.. you should be honest with yourself and ask your own self... maybe you are not"gay" but bisexual.  Maybe you should not be in a serious relationship right now.