ex doesnt want me back right now?
926192
The bad stuff sounds pretty bad.  Learn and move along. He doesn't love you completely.  It sounds like he's shell shocked from your behavior and is trying to figure out a way to get away from you safely.  Whatever you did, make sure it doesn't happen again.  Leave this poor guy alone.  Get yourself straight, and try not to let anymore "bad stuff" happen.
984606
Chick why would you want him back.  A guy like that doesn't deserve you.  He told you he doesn't like you as much as he did before and that he's being mean to you.  Let him go and find someone that will like you especially after a year and will not be mean to you.  You will be much happier if you do.
1164684
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
1181256
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
388439
Without you giving the whole story I can only take a shot at this one...If you broke up with him and he is still texting you, then he is in denial. He must still have feelings for you and thinks that there is still a good chance that you will want him back. When it actually starts to hit him, that you have moved on, then he may start to get more intense with these types of intrusions...just be aware that some guys get a bit nuts in this situation and that it sounds like that could be starting...he will either just give up or kick it up a notch...Now, if he was the one that broke it off...he is just trying to lay the groundwork for getting you back...But from the way you wrote your question that doesn't really seem to be the case. I just thought I would throw that in there too.\n\nNow you added details...So I guess that I was right in throwing that last little bit. So here is what you aught to do...You should act a little pissed off that he is still "bothering" you and that you just want to be left alone in order to move on. Tell him that it was hard enough when he broke it off, but now you just need some space to set yourself right and move on and with these constant reminders, you can't do so...If he is really wanting you back (and seems to me that he does), this will put the ball back into play. He should then go from there and say that he just can't stop thinking of you and really wants you back...If that is the case, and you end up taking him back, then you really need to get down to the bottom of why he broke it off in the first place. There is obviously something that you two didn't get out in the open earlier and if it doesn't get out there, then you guys would be doomed from the start of this new start...
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
914934
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!
127730
you know the same thing happened to me and my ex girlfriend wanted me back ,but she never said anything to me about it.if she would have said something bout it sooner i would have patched it up with her a long time ago..if you really want him back and you think it can happen act now
517594
You may be reading too much into what is not? I have heard and seen break ups that do not lead into problems. Then again there are people who always want what they cannot have. You want to be careful with this situation make sure she wants you back so your pride don't get hurt. Another thing you could do is flirt with her the same way she is flirting with you.
434730
You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
1049830
there is some one 4 every body dont listen to yo x he just wants u back
741399
He didnt seem to treat you very well hun, you obviously had problems within the relationship, did you try telling him how you felt or did you just split up with him without discussing how he made you feel?\nIf you want him back then you need to talk to him but this time make sure that you tell him how you feel, take control a little.\nIf he only wants you back on the same terms as you had before then it's obvious that he is just using you hun.\nTry talking , but it does sound like he was using you a little.\nDont let him rule when you do things, be brave , ask for what you want when you want it, if he says no then cut your losses and find someone who truely appreciates you.\nGood luck, hope all works out ok for you.
735145
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
389873
First of all, stop sitting around waiting on him to want you again.  He is trying to control you.  Whether you are over him or not, you can still "move on."  Don't wait on him.  When he finally decides to call, reverse those rolls.  Tell him that you got a date, but when you need one, you will call him.
863982
girl sorry but you are confused and you need to get your priorities straight in the love department just really look inside your heart and talk to your  ex it sounds like you need sometime for yourself also try that if you can maybe it will work and clear your mind good luck