Anyone been dumped recently??
916081
My mate has just been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years - cos he said he needs time to himself. Imagine how she feels - you were only with this guy 8 weeks.\n\nJust think people need to put their problems into perspective a little bit. I know you must be feeling cr*p right now -but its not like you dedicated half your life to this guy. And if he wants you to change your opinion on something as big as sex then really he's not the one for you anyway.\n\nps - most men are weird. \n\npps - i was very prudish when it come to sex - but my mind has been opened ...... opened in the very best possible way
1099132
NO BOYFRIEND SINCE BIRTH............\n\n\nLIKE ME!!! wahaha
1098347
Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
255200
Depends on who broke up with who....I think the person who gets dumped hurts a little bit more, because not only do they have to deal with the love lost, but also with the rejection, and that hurts .
158093
i'm sorry dearie for what happened. But, anyways what happened was in your best interest coz rather than living with someone who dont share equal feelings like yours its  better to live without someone for a while.Gear up honey there are plenty of elligable Guys waiting for a sweet personal like you.All the best and Cheer up!!!!!
587586
well...recently...I ended up cheating on my last boyfriend because he disappeared for two weeks then came back and ignored me for a week and I didn't know what was going on so when an old friend of mine put the moves on me about 50 times within one sitting...saying "no" got to be to hard. I should have just left, but I was so upset...I don't know what I was thinking.
917462
i kicked my ex out after taking to much of his controlling ways, lies and unreasonable behaviour in hope he would realise his mistakes, he acted differently for a few weeks, i took him back to discover one week after the split he jumped in bed with a nasty druggie who lived on the next street for two weeks +. we stayed together after that for almost a year but things were never the same, i wasn't turned on by him anymore as i saw him as 'dirty' which made me feel unclean. we have now permanently broke up and i can't wait to get a nice healthy sex life back on track with next man!
36468
Im feeling like that right now with my  girl friend.\nand ive felt like this before just ask him whats going on and if its another girl dump his sorry ass
193587
Something similar happened to me and I thought that the other man was the love of my life.I still love and care for him and can't get him out of my system, but I wonder if I would have felt that for anyone who was there for me at that moment,being that I was so needy emotionally.It is a tough thing to deal with and very unfair.I want to tell you go with your heart,but understand that isn't easy sometimes.\ngood luck and I will pray that the universe leads you in the right direction.Be open and honest with yourself and remember you deserve to be happy!
146568
I have never had this personally happen to me, but if I were you I would ask myself this "If she left you in a desperate time of need is she really worth wanting back"? To me it seems as if you left you when things got too hard for her. Not really keeping your feelings in mind. Kinda seems selfish. \nNow I am a outside party and I dont know how bad your depression got. Some people can handle situations such as this others just dont know what to do.\nI am truly sorry for your loss.
609962
im sorry\nthe same thing happened to me w/my x. He would move out anywhere from couple days - month. \nwell eventually i had enough we are not together. \nleaving for while wil not solve any problems at all either.\nwell good  luck to you i hope things work out for you!!!
128212
It is hard to move on and most of us have been there.  The worst thing you can do is dwell on the man and the situation: what could I have done differently, maybe if I had....STOP.  \n\nFigure out if the emotions are in fact toward him, or the rejection.  Sometimes sadness can be overwhelming and you cannot differentiate between, was he really right for me and I miss him so, or damnit I was dumped and I feel horrible.  \n\nSTAY BUSY and surround yourself with people who can make you laugh, keep you preoccupied with an activity as opposed to your thoughts.  Try not to be alone...everything will remind you of him.  \n\nWork out.  I know it's one of those flippant answers like "get a makeover," but it really does help.  Not only can you release the frustrations, tension, you will look better!  \n\nSay to yourself: Ok, I'm going to allow myself one more day to wallow in my misery and that's it.  That's enough.  I'm better than this and he will not get one more tear!!!
835872
same here... the love of my life left me and my family is all out of town...today sucks......
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)
883049
Funny, I just did that today. I have had a harsh couple of weeks...my uncle died, my kitten died of heart disease, my car died, and I just found out that my parents both have skin cancer, and that their dog (that i grew up with) has cancer and needs to be put down soon.\n\nAt this point, I've given up trying. I'm all cried out.
597125
Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
284563
It is a piss off thing to be dumped, but in the absense sometimes the true feelings are allowed to surface, that is life and ready for a great bit of poetry or even a hit song.  It is fantastic if a guy feels anything after a good dump.  So, be pleased he is feeling, be pleased he is acting on those deep feelings.  Be honest with yourself and him.  Ask him to talk to you before dumping you again.  See if there is something you can both do something about before resorting to the gilatine.  take time to break up with thought and dignity, learn to treat loves with love and respect.  Try it.  Go get him, right now.  Sometime a man after dumping you, you realize when he comes crawling back that you do not want him.  Than he is a sick pupply, feeling sorry for the pup is not tough love, you have to be glad he is "crawling across cut glass to make a deal".  I do hate it when you have to have to learn how you feel about someone because they cause your heart pain, rather than that they cause you pleasure.  If our deepest feelings about our fathers and mothers are of pain rather than love, we will have sub conscious chemistry that will attract relationships that make us feel whole by bringing up these deep feelings. Sick I Know, but that is chemistry, don't rely on pure chemistry to find love and a satisfying life.. good luck, don't worry it is tough.