Is it normal to have jitters about marrying someone?
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It is a big step, filled with undertainty. It is normal, but you are doing the right thing
212570
Its obviously possible, because you are feeling that way. Are you newly weds? If so, maybe you just aren't quite comfortable with all that yet. You should wait until you two feel comfortable.
678082
Take some time out to do things that take our mind off the wedding. It can be a full on event prior to the big day. Do something with your other half that you did on your first date. Go back to a time that you were really happy and relaxed. This should ease the jitters.\n\nIf I feel jittery I try to phase into an activity that is totally opposite to what I am worried about. Like if you are nervous about work, dive into a sport activity.\n\nYou are jittery about a Wedding, go down to a park with a Picnic basket, sit under a tree and read something like the Da vinci code for a few hours. you will feel a lot better and be able to tackle the wedding issues head on with a fresh mind.
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well buddy i was ther about 1 month ago i met my love and my heart beat faster i think personally its because of the attraction that you have your nervous but at the same time you happy and you brain is sending mixed emotions but there all goo and its just making moe blood flow. But hey buddy i hope your loved one keeps talking to you just be you and it will never be weird just be yourself\n      Peace\n         Dave King
508540
I am married already and totally recommend it once you know you have found the right person. Trust me when it's right it will be just so known you couldn't stand not marrying them. USA
585340
actually, yes. my now husband and i had only been dating for 3 months when i got pregnant. for the first time in my life i never felt anxiety about it and neither did he. we both accepted it and decided to get married. we have a great marriage and our son is the best thing that has ever happened to the both of us.
61799
Well I think finding the right person makes you feel that way, marriage just leagalizes the whole thing. Once you do find someone that you can love unconditionally and forever, then you'll see I guess!
631228
im not afraid of commitment but im totally scared 2 death of marriage.\n\ni guess im not d motherly figure
706352
I think that's a comon feeling.  You're in a rush to "start" your life and that usually includes a husband and kids. Try not to rush it because after you get married to the wrong person you'll realize how silly it was to think that way. 50% of us marry the "wrong" person. We have to be happy as ourselves before being happy w/ others. Suppose it never happens? You need to fulfill your dreams.
832374
I agree ..come on u need to know the guy u r getting married to ..call it off if u have a problem..may not be as easy as it sounds but yes u can do what u want.
213495
It's called commitment and it's very natural to have a sense of fear.  Some people are afraid that things will change dramatically when the marry and they do.  The key is to try and keep moments of being carefree and remember this is a union and so it is something to be worked at by both.  Make sure he knows of your fears of things changing and try and work together to keep things the way they were when you were just dating...Keep on dating even after marriage.
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My husband and I at the same point in our lives..I am 37 and he is 36...My clock is almost finished ticking...I too am scared....(I don't understand why especially when 17 and 18 year old are having babies).   I find it especially hard when my friends and I get together...they all talk about their children and well I talk about my two dogs...I do feel uncomfortable...at times.  I think about having children on and off....I always put it off by saying it's not the right time or 'I say next year'...  I am happy at this point in my life and not sure after 17 years of marriage that a child would be a good idea...I just don't know...My husband says he does not want any children...but I do know he would make a great father....It is a hard choice  that I need to make quickly and I will have to make it soon  or time will run out....
546854
i agree with you, i doubt seeing myself get married because when you do you are making a promise to be together forever through good times and bad & alot of people cant keep those promises thats why im probably never gonna get married there's no real point to it thats just my opinion
921002
Fear of commitment...
1000873
Don't be afraid to make the first move.  Some guys are more nervous than you are.  Great if he says yes, and if he says no, who cares he's not good enough for you if he can't realize a good thing when it's staring him smack in the face asking him out.  I did, and now I'm married to a great guy. Good luck.
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Stay strong in God's Word.  The very fact that you are concerned and asking about this is His sign to you that it is not right.  He will lead you to your heart's desire.  When you get married you will find that waiting was THE best thing to do and the RIGHT thing to do and you will have NO REGRETS.  Stay strong and stand firm and you will be blessed.
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you know what I think you are to early..   if do it you will regret it.. I think you will be ready when you get married please don't do it you will regret it for the rest of your life.. also think about the Consecunces first off you could get pregnat or maybe evn a disease.. don't do it..