Help! Should she tell him or keep it inside?
912085
If they are such great friends then I suggest she just go with the flow...If they are meant to be together then it will happen naturally...dont tempt fate...it could ruin everything.  tell her just to remain his great friend and things may aventually happen...good luck
131804
I would pull him aside with out his g/f and tell him that you would just like to tell him something but you do not want his g/f to know and let him know and let him know that you do not want this to change your relationship as friends with him unless he would like to!  How he responds will let you know how he feels about you!
412656
i would tell you boyfriend how you feel about his ex wife. tell him that you really don't feel right her staying there. she is worried that you are taking what she had first but how i see it she was the one that let go of him and she thinks that he is going to wait around for her to come back around a crap. i would tell him everything that you don't like about her, what you think about her. just tell it how it is girl. because that is just going to hurt you guys in the long run because she might try to say something to him or something that will mess everything up. or try to start crap.
1040488
Babe ....... don't tell her just wait till she says something about it and then say it was just an experiment and it will never happen again (yeah right) ........=)
383285
If she would tell him without your consent, she's not your friend.  That aside, you need to tell him.  If doesn't feel the same way, at least you'll know that and you can move on.
624038
It sounds like your guilt wants you to tell, but telling will only hurt her and make you feel better.  If it was a one night stand, let it go, otherwise someone's got to break it to her, preferably you.
820156
dont tell him let him say it 1st. trust me its better off that way
123063
Well from a girls standpoint. I would not have accepted it.  If it was the other way around, I would be upset....but...have to remember, who is it that she comes home to at night?  If the trust and respect is there....take comfort in that.  Maybe she didn't want to hurt his feelings.  If she told you about it right away, she cares enough about you to not have hidden the gift.
835121
GIRL dont u dare move that girl into your house!!! Your man wont be just yours for long if you do. That's like a personal invite for her to come in & take all that she sees & they'll swear up & down its "just sex", no strings attached. PLEASE. Dont let them play you. Be a woman & stand up for what u know in your heart is right & do what makes u the most comfortable. If your man outs up a fight with this decision, then there u go. U already know sumthing isnt right if he's that insistent on moving her in. I wish my girlfriend would try to move another chick into MY house....HA!!!
770703
She deserves to know the truth. Keeping it from her will only hurt YOU in the long run. Think about that.
1100093
Tell her if you don't want to worry about this issue popping up later. Things might get nasty.
411680
Before he gets scarred for life (herpies never ever goes away) tell her to tell him about the STD.  Make sure she knows that if she doesn't tell him, you will.  It isn't your place to step into their affairs, but this is serious if he doesn't know.
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
52376
Tell her, but don't expect it to do much good at first. If she is in love then she will be oblivious to what you say. Why didn't someone warn her before she got married or when she started dating this guy?
402599
I don't think it's your problem if she believes. If he's asked you to tell them, then you should. Start out by noting that she doesn't have to believe you, but you have things to tell her, and you want to say them all before she tries to interrupt. Then tell her what he says.
390113
is there any reason to tell him other than to just get it off of your chest? if there is no way he is ever going to find out about it, then dont tell him. Even if it happened a long time ago, he could still feel betrayed. like i said. he has all the right to be pissed if you told him already. but if you guys are good friends you will be able to forget about it over a couple cases of beer.
243870
If you truly love this guy and you think that you and he could work out for real, I would tell him how you feel. Telling him will make you feel better, and leave him to make the decision. \n\nPlus, you don't want to look back 5 years from now, see him married to this girl, and regret never telling him, do you?