I work at the bank and I have a crush on one of my customers..Help?
912080
You better be really sure he likes you too, or you could lose your job.  Most guys would be flattered regardless of how they felt and would probably not report you to your manager if you tried, but you have to decide if the risk is worth it.
235797
Sounds like a very cute crush. Be honest! Go to her and ask her if she's interested in you, don't be pushy or act desperate. Chances are if you two are really good friends things won't change if you ask her.\n\nShe'll appreciate your honesty. Just say something like "I really like you and was wondering if you had any other feelings for me other than being friends?"\n\nGood luck.
612865
I am in a similar situation. I like a girl at work, and she likes someone else, as I am pretty ugly, short, (5-7), and have nothingf she wants, (tall, good looking, etc.)\n\nYou need to take him aside and explain the TRUTH. It will hurt for a while, but If he really likes you as a person, he might shy away for a while, but then when the pain wears off a little he'll be your friend. The girl I like will not talk to me anymore, because when I talk to her, she thinks I am just trying to get in her pants, so to speak, and won't have any of it. Please do not string this guy along anymore. BE HONEST!
793363
buy a crush drink and give him the bottle just be like 'here. I have a crush on you.'
787173
Think twice before you start something with someone you work with. If she is not interested in you, you will feel uncomfortable around her in the future. How will that affect you at work?
482125
Well, it seems she is comfortable talking about the subject.\n\nI would suggest you ask her if she'd like to have lunch, or coffee, or some other casual/private get together.  NO PRESSURE. Then, you can feel your way through the situation.  See how comfortable you are with her, get to know her better... TAKE IT SLOW.\n\nIt sounds like you may be younger, and (obviously) don't have experience in this area, so I would advise caution... you don't want to get your heart trampled on, or feel ashamed or embarrassed at work.\n\nI wish you much luck, and keep in mind that you don't have to be 100% one or the other... love who you want to love, and who loves you back.\n\nALWAYS BE SAFE ABOUT IT!
462353
Hey Tox, well when you see this guy again when you're out (I'm sure you will because he's got a new job in a bar plus the town we live in is pretty small) just chat away to him and be abit flirty with him and I know you can get very flirty when you've had a few! Hehe! You can chat to him about the main thing you have in common with him right now- work place! \n\nI know you're not a nasty girl who goes around messing with guys feelings, in fact you're completely the opposite! I don't blame you for running a mile when his exgirlfriend came on the scene (I would've done the same thing) cos she was a bit psycho! So now she's gone and you two are already chatting to each other as mates, when you're at work, which will just make it easier for you to approach him when you see him out. \n\nDon't get all worked up thinking:\n"Oh my God does he like me or am I going to be making a fool out of myself" \nbecause you are very attractive and I'm sure he can see that because frankly if he can't then he needs his eyes testing! Go for it mate! However don't ditch me when you've got a new boyfriend! Hehe!
30868
I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
684428
when he comes in do your little chat then trow in a "so are you heading out tonight"do it in a casual tone of voice, he will tell you where hes going and will 99% sure ask you "what about yourself" you let him know what night club your going to but play it all innocently as if your just being civil then when your out that night i bet you he will be there then... then ye both will have a few beers on ye your inhibitions will be gone and you can begin to flirt oh and generally us lads visit a shop a lot if we fancy the person working there but he is prob afraid of rejection so he is draging it out SO BITE THE BULLET WHEN YE MEET. BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
132822
Just make sure that there are no work regulations against dating within the company -- but otherwise I'd say go for it. If things go sour, just make sure that they don't rot and decay - because like you said, you do have to see her all the time.\n\nAnd don't send it "secret admirer".  Send it from YOU - that way she'll more than get the hint that you like her.
225521
Your first problem is that you work with him. Relationships at work never work out for the best. You would have to keep it on a professional level at work. Then if you guys broke up you would have to see that person everyday. Maybe he likes you but doesn't want to take the chance of going through all of this. Think this one through more and decide if it's really a good idea.
68050
Could be the one for you.  Somewhere outside of work, you should let that person know the way you feel.  He/she may feel the same.  But be prepared for the worst, and if that is the case, you have to move on and forget about it.  If you don't think you will be able to do that, forget about it and move on because you two will have to work together.
735300
Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after work, if he says yes than he is probably interested.  But that way if he says no then you didn't come out with your feelings so he won't act any differently.
351561
i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
915433
If you like each other go for it.  Get together outside of the office.  you can't be scared of what will happen if it doesn't work out.  If everyone was like that then no one would ever get together.  If there is an office policy that coworkers can not date then you need to be sneaky.  You never know, you might have found your soul mate.
47041
Just ignore her.  Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you have to, but when he comes to your work be EXTRA friendly with him.  Look very happy and pretend like you arent doing it on purpose.
845120
You need to be very careful of how you handle this. If you approach her, she could take it as sexual harassment. Either way it goes, this will effect your job.  I would suggest finding another job before bringing this up to her. I understand that this may not be as easy as it sounds, but you should understand that once you do bring this up, things at work will change. What if she feels the way that you do, but someone later breaks it off? Will you still be able to work with her? Will she want to work with you? You also need to think about what will happen if she doesn't respond well to you. She may not take it as far as the sexual harassment that I mentioned earlier, but it could make her uncomfortable enough to not want to work with you anymore. You are probably safer fantasizing about her for now.