what can you do to make a guy feel bad ???
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give him the silent treatment..we hate that
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tell him your not trying to be mean, but you really don't want to have anything to do with him. That you don't feel comfortable around him.
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tell him how you feel
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Be kind, but rip off the metaphorical Band-Aid.  You have to let him know that you appreciate his affection for you, but that you simply don't feel that way about him.  If you give him false hope, he will cling to that hope and be hurt eventually anyway. Let him down easy, but for goodness sake, let him down.
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Bind him emotionally to you. Learn how his mind works and functions and use it. While it may be wrong to control and manipulate people, we all do it, every day. I think that there is a greater amount of complaints about guys being dumped then about women being dumped. The key is as always communication, the number one complaint by men is that women don't say what they want. If you want something, are bothered by something, or want him to understand something...just come out and tell him. Men tend to be simple creatures, they cannot perceive hints as you do because truly men and women live in different worlds. Men are straightforward most of the time "Hey Paul...That shirt makes you look like an Idiot". If you get mad at him later for not understanding your hints and messages its likely to just make him give up on trying to appease you.
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When a guy lies! That is the worst thing you can do. Or, the fact that most men lack communication skills! Just say what you feel! Is it so hard?
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You'll never make him feel what you feel through songs that way, you'll need to be there and coerce. Match your eyes with his and make him feel what you feel. Use all of your senses. Well most of them. Taste isn't necessary. You might be able to use smell. Take your best shot.
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The best thing to do is not rush anything.  That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation.  Don't smother or be clingy.  Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat.  It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later.  Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal.  Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!"  Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
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Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
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simply tell him that ur sorry but, your feelings are not what they once were for him, and if he wantsyou guys can be friends. Or u can tell him that u two would be better off as friends.
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You can't make someone feel something that isn't there.  The best thing you can do is let them know how you feel and give them a chance to see if they feel the same way about you.
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no, try not getting emotionally attached to jerks. anyone that makes you feel bad is not worth the time.
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just start asking guys, what's the worst they can do....say no??
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okay, so play him up a bit maybe ignor him a little bit until he thinks he screwed up something good then see if HE wants to go hang out at the movie or something when you resloved the "fake mad at you scheme"
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You cant "make" a guy love you (trust me i've tried). \nTry these things:\n1. Flirt\n2. Try telling him how you feel\n3. Make eye contact when you talk to him (show him that your interested in him)\n4. any accidently bumbing into him wouldn't hurt either. (just dont really hurt yourself or him when this happens- It's happened to me before)
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What I do is I make him feel special. I always get off the phone to talk to him, and you can make little comments like "I need a hug" and follow up with "are you gonna give me one tomorrow?" you know, little innocent and cute stuff. You might be suprised at how he responds. Just dont do anything stupid like "pinch his ass" or do anything that goes against the type of person you are.
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Put his head in a vice may do the trick...\n\nSadly, sometimes there is no way.  I am certain that even in your own dealings there may have been a time where you may have said something and thought that it was nothing at all but it may have hurt some one.\n\nEven in the matter of love there are times where you may be hurt and the guy just really wants to be away from you and doesn't care about your feelings...