Should I feel sorry for him?
917828
No you shouldn't.\n20 years is more than enough to apply for citizenship. It's his fault for being so lazy.
183222
time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
749755
You should be grateful he's nice enough to apologize, and you should be glad that he's still willing to be friends with you. Concentrate on the good things in life.
94801
No it doesnt make you a horrible person. It's very human to behave in sucha way. But you need to let go. Move on, forget him. He is not the last man in your life. If you try to block out him believe me it will hurt you more than it hurts him. Gal u dont need the guy to make you feel sepcial and happy. \nGood luck
706027
Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
645211
You feel guilty because he was a good guy who couldn't conform.  But to run a business, you need him to respect your decsion, whether or not it's about how well he does at his job.  You did the right thing.  Feeling bad is natural, no one should want to hurt another person, but he was wrong and he knew it.  He took the risk and has to accept the consequences.  Hopefully he learned from this experience and will move on well.  It was hard to make the right decision, but you did.  You should congratualate yourself.
267595
I know how you feel. There is one fellow from a long time ago who was tormented as a child as I also was. One time, our collective tormentors goaded us into fighting one another, promising to end the torment of whichever one of us won.\n\nI have felt badly for years that the one I should have had the most empathy for was the one I ill treated, not our tormentors. \n\nBut does finding that person and apologizing make them feel better - or you? I asked myself that question, and realize that it would be of little benefit to the person I feel accountable to - it would only assuage my guilt. All I would be doing would be bringing up a long-past horror I know I don't care to remember. \n\nIf this person was ever going to forgive you, chances are they already have. Don't make them relive something simply for your benefit. Unless you were actually planning on reestablishing a relationship with  this person, take your lumps privately. It is the only decent thing to do.
853627
tel him how you feel, adn that you are truely adn deeply sorry, thats all you can do.
762578
hey i really wanted 2 help u out.. but...\ner... i don understand ur q....\nplz... don feel bad...\nsorry...
629105
You shouldn't feel that bad, it's not like you killed him. Everyone is going to make someone they care about cry at one point, it probably happens in our lives more than we notice. You could just treat him. I'm not sure how old you are but some ideas are you could take him out and buy him something really special or you could do something like buy him a card that says I care about you (or something like that) and buy him his favorite candy... Like I said it happens all the time it's a natural part of life, and he probably realizes that. That's why he is telling you to let it go. Good luck.
3691
if you think he is genuinly sorry and you truly have feelings for him, then i believe you should take him back. everyone deserves a second chance!....but not a third!! make that clear to him!
564279
i think you should get back to him , Do not apologise and tell him that you are sorry blah blah  because he might take advatage of the situation.
316462
You shouldn't, but I get what you mean, I feel bad when another person hurts someone else's feelings.
319267
Depends that - on what u feel sorry, if a major mistake it is advisable to appologize & plea for forgivenes, if it is some minor stuff then leave it u felt sorry that itself is enough
1090119
If you feel bad about it then you should probably not get into that kind of conversation with him right away.  He might pick up on your shame and get freaked out.  As you know, It always comes up some time or another though.  Just wait till you get to know him and he gets to know you a little more.  This way you will both be more comfortable with one another and it won't feel so weird to talk about it.
394763
wondering\n_________\n\n\n\nSEE HIS LATEST QUESTION & SEE IF YOU DON'T AGREE....I FEEL VERY SORRY FOR HIS WIFE HE'S CALLING A B---H
698263
apologize? no way! let him get over it and grow up...buy him a box of tissues and offer to teach him how to use them