Why do so many girls think that being extremly skinny, is attractive?
930215
i blame that partially on society itself.the idea that if your not a size 4,or look like you survived a concentration camp,you wont be successful or find a man,or a have anything of value,all based on looks,all media is guilty of this and young,naive girls see this and that's where they get the idea,some parents are also to blame,I'm sure there have been plenty of parents that have a negative influence when it comes to that,like,'OH DONT EAT THAT,NO MAN WILL LOVE YOU',that type of mentality.
975492
You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
370845
Hey, don't try so hard to find a guy.  And no matter what weight you are, you are beautiful.  Believe that, no matter what!  You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful.  I mean, I think Queen Latifah is gorgeous and Nicole Richie is...well, never mind.  Just be your fun, sparkling self.  Hang out with friends and family.  People who make you feel good.  Eventually, a man will see that you don't need a man to make you feel good about yourself and will love both your outer and inner package.  And those are the ones worth having.  But those guys take time to find.  And all girls have a hard time finding that.  Even the skinny ones.
542177
generally speaking, yes.  but there are always exceptions...look at supermodels.  skinny as a rail, yet 6 feet tall.  go figure.
187145
Some girls think they are fat because society and the media put a value on being thin. Skinny is pretty. Nobody likes fat, and we see that as a disgusting lifestyle when people are overweight and unhealthy although it is clear that many people are indeed obese. Young girls worry about that because they want to be pretty and for everyone to like them which is a huge waste of time and they figure that out as they get older if they are smart.
674196
I know it is hard to believe at times but men arent always shallow!!  They usually go for a package of things that appeals to them as an individual - that might include a certain bodytype, personality, intelligence, character etc and usually a balance of them all.  Looks are often what attracts you to say hello - personality what encourages you to continue the conversation!!\nPersonally I am initially attracted to both tall and short girls and girls who  have athletic or muscular builds, as well as curvy or plumpish (i prefer the term volupturous!) bodytypes.  I dont tend to be attracted on first look to thin girls but if it was a nice girl I dont think that would matter either- as attraction can grow.\n\nThe confidence you have in yourself is important in attraction - a strong athletic girl or a curvy volupturous girl who feels comfortable with her body qualities and displays them that way is the most sexy of all!
1047354
it sounds like you have self esteem issues brought on by puberty and the idiots who seem to have so many unkind things to say to you. just because people tell you that you're unattractive doesn't mean it's true or that you have to believe it. they do it to everyone because they are insecure about themselves and if they chime in and pick on someone when she's feeling down they think they look cool. I've never seen you, but I'm sure you're not ugly. the only real ugly people are the ones who are ugly deep in their souls-- not the ones who aren't curvy or aren't thin or don't look like supermodels. also, don't call yourself dumb. if you give in and start calling yourself the names other people call you, you are just letting them win and you'll never get anywhere in life.
127204
I love to go out with a bigger girl, simple fact is that they are more( no pun) open to building a lasting relationship. You take your average skinny girl, it's all about her, and you are just there to hold her stuff and buy her stuff. Larger girls still need there stuff held too - but they are more open to your opinion. Now begs the question - how big is too big? If the girl has an ounce of self-esteem then it's not a question of size of the body, but more of heart. How much love, kindness, and compassion does she have!
350762
If you like yourself, being chubby isn't a problem. If someone wants to put you down for it, they are just jealous that they can't have the same figure as you.  My opinion, if someone is a size "0" or "1" shouldn't be on this planet!  They are way too small.
706076
In  real world - you are a perfect size. And tall is beautifull!!!!\nIf you watch TV.... Hm-mm... They show all these skinny models.\nThey look sick! \nI do not know any guy that likes skinny girls. They all like some meat on them... Some more, some less.\nYou sound like you have a perfect size for your height.\nBulimia is a serious thing! Get help with it, girl.
442511
thats true! its quite funny that they wear clothes like that! its not just that only slim people should wear tights and over weight shouldnt, but its just that tight clothes are for people who have good figures! even very thin girls shouldnt wear something overly tight or revealing! that can make them look even more skinny!
502487
its wrong. whether ur skinny or not, its wrong, because it gives u a bad name and ppl would think ur trying to sell ur body which u might be but things that u dont want to be called u will be. it also gives girls a bad name. u can look sexy w/o showing so much skin. just find clothes that fit good, not tight but not baggy. some dont care wat ppl say but it is a good idea to respect others and they dont want to see that nasty stuff. take it to the room or something leave it out of our sight. that jsut my opinion lol
1075290
I think under most circumstances people tend to date others at their own level of attractiveness. Sometimes you will see a great looking girl with an ugly guy or vice versa, but usually its a 1 to 1 thing.\n\nI'm not making any judgements about physical size and attractiveness. Just maybe see if you are setting your sights too high. By the way, I'm slightly overweight myself just so you don't think I'm being unfair here. Good luck!
500273
Of  course there r, some thick girls are very attractive, others would be horrible even with a perfect body, but i guess this difference is pretty personal
762341
Not 'beautifully perfect', I've noticed that you just have to be skinny.  I've seen butt ugly women and men will date them, but if you're fat, men won't give you a second glance.
1017472
Superlative View : Some Guys are like that. They do it because their brains are ugly & skinny. Their sterotype mind can only attact ugly & skinny girls. They dont have big beautiful brains to value big beautiful girls.
824883
no i don't because if they are too skinny they might be anorexic and that is bad... umm but if they are a lil skinny they are beautiful because no one  likes a fat model... I hope I helped you out if u wanna chat u can im me @ tv_luver87 thanks