Why would a man say this???????????
919963
You have a couple options.\n\n1.) You can continue to feel sad and bad and mad about it.\n2.) You can point out some of his short commings when he makes those comments.\n3.) You can accept the truth, If you are gaining a few pounds, you can say, yip, i'm gaining some weight, thats what happend when your prego. If your not gaining weight you can say. Sorry, but your mistaken, i'm not gaining, then move on.\n\nSticks and Stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. If someone calls me Stupid, or fat, etc... even if its someone that i love, it doesnt bother me. Because I KNOW its not true. If my wife calls me smelly when i get back from the gym or if i just smell, I still dont get offended if i do smell because its the truth. Truth is Truth. no point of feeling bad about it.\nThe bad part is that i am Male and you are Female, and we are wired differently. but i hope this helps!
689600
you have obviously never been to england, because all us blokes over here talk to women like that. he is probably trying to play you off against each other. he sounds like a t**t anyway, and well up himself, it sounds to me like he just loves the attention, so im sure you can find someone better love (see we say it all time). knock him down a few pegs by turning your attention to some one else
973782
Sounds stupid, like what a guy would say to get someone into bed. I would laugh out loud if someone said that to me. Plus, it just doesn't make sense.
319446
cause their stupid, according to what my guy friend would say.:O) and he even admits guys are stupid coming from a guy.:O)
329922
Well...if you are driving down the road with him and he says it for no apparent reason (other than to let you know) he probably means it. It is hard enough for most men to say "I love you".....However...the thing that should be of most interest is if his capacity to 'love" is equal to yours
393955
What you didn't say was what the context of the conversation was or his demeanor when he said it. Was he agitated? Happy? Said it in a joking or satirical manner? If you feel he said it with malice. Later you should tell him 3 things you just adore about hem. then tell him it is getting overshadowed by what he called you. Tell him that you don't appreciate it, and why he said it. I don't know how many years, months or weeks you have invested in this relationship but to blow it over one word.........kinda silly.
947825
God, you must be really annoying in real life.  Men aren't complicated, don't go look for hidden meanings in everything.  I think he has said what he has said and it means what he said.  Duh!
159092
I think he is afraid of the reaction other people would have if he told you that. Some people really do talk when they hear about relationships. Summing it all up; can it be fear?
773499
Men aren't the best communicator but they do think alot, and it is very possible that in his mind he is thinking long term, and by saying what he did he wanted you to know how great he thinks you are by letting you know you have the whole package.  You go girl!!
740575
He is maybe jealous and really wants to know if he has a chance. It is a personal question. NOT a casual one. Its none of his business! You did the right thing by telling him that was personal. He shouldnt have pressed the issue.
366443
Dont believe everything you are told.  If you're speaking from experience, than I would say, it's to make your life interesting and challenging.  Or to put it simply....to keep men always aware and on their toes.  :)
270541
when a man says that, it usually means that he has stuff on his mind at the moment, and needs space. other times the guy just doesn't want to be in a relationship or something, this usually happens when a tragic event happened
872078
I'm  sorry he said that. if you haven't had any "romantic" dealings with this man, then he has no right to call you that. tell him that you were rather offended by him saying that, even if it was a joke. jokes are meant to be funny, and obviously, he was the only one who thought it was funny. if he does it again, then tell his wife.
108070
sounds like he wants s*x with you,  the decision is yours   if you dont want to jsut explain to him that you dont if not...have fun ;)
572381
Or maybe he wants to say that he is very confused, so he can't do at the moment what you have asked him for.\nOr...\nsorry, I do not cope very well with the interpretation of phrases in english, oh, believe me, it's a messed up situation!\n\nHope you appreciate the humor!\n\nKaterina
870298
Sounds like this jerk needs to be reported.  Simply because this seems to be a continual offence.\nAlso he sounds like he has a problem that may need some professional help.
1126133
It's "C aint after A and B when your with me" and he's saying that things aren't normal when your with him. Like..he does things different than the average man. He's saying the same thing with "1 plus 1 aint 2 when your with me"