OK, I need serious advice on  high school boys.?
917455
As a former high school boy my answer is Yes, Yes, and Yes.  All three boys are attracted to you.  Case 1 is clearly asking you to say you want to go out with him without risking asking you out himself and having you say no.  Case 2 may want to be more than a friend, but also does not want to risk the friendship.  I remember a similar case when I was in high school.  A girl that was my friend, took me aside and tried to tell me she wanted to go out with me.  I was so dense I still didn't get it so she finally just blurted out "It's you I'm talking about.  Would you be interested in going out with me."  I thought she was beautiful and brilliant and funny and out of my league.  That last part has more to do with my self esteem at the time than it had to do with her, but anyway I was so nervous around her that going out was out of the question.  Anyway we stayed friends, but there was always a little uncomfortable quiet between us that was never there before.  You sound like a nice friendly outgoing girl that boys find it easy to be around.  Good for you.\nNow as a father of a young girl:\nBe careful of case 1.  He is bold yet cautious.  He has "dumped a girl" recently and may be more interested in conquest than in relationship.  My advice to my daughter would be to stay quiet and make him risk more by coming out with  a request for a date.  Then be cautious.  Case 2 I would tell my daughter to ask herself if she could see her friend as a boyfriend, afterall the best relationships are based on friendship.  Only you can answer for yourself if there is a chance of more.  If not, leave it alone.  If you think maybe there is a chance, this boy may prove to be a better bet.  Case 3.  (laughter)  Please do something to put the poor guy at ease around you.  Either tell him you want to be friends, or ask him out, or tell him to leave you alone.  This poor guy is obviously suffering from an intense crush on you.  Good luck.  Enjoy your high school years because they wont come back.  Try not to get roped into a too confining relationship.  Emotions run high, but youth should be a time of discovery.  I do not know of one single relationship that started when the two were in highschool that has lasted the many years since I was in high school.  For instance I dated several different girls in high school and had a wonderful time.  My wife (whom I was not in high school with) on the other hand dated only one boy throughout her high school years.  She regrets that now.  She looks back on those years as being a hostage when she should have been enjoying her youth.  Too bad.
400841
Sweetie if you just turned a teenager then slow your life down on the boys. Take your time to learn new things, and if you are that into boys be careful, but just let them come to you dono't chase after them sweetie.
520080
This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
1110163
Of course he likes you, which is why he is going to such extremes to get the other guy out of the picture. IF you still like him, ask him out, and see for yourself. Good luck!! I miss high school issues sometimes. lol
858700
BE YOUR CONSIDERATE SELF. YOU SEEM TO CARE ABOUT OTHERS. I AM ASSUMING YOUR IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS. DON'T BE ALL TO SUAVE & OVER SEXY. SOME GUYS WILL LOOK AT THIS APPROACH, AS A ONE NIGHT GET DOWN
317183
You have to be friends with them first. Always show that you have an interest in them. Don't try to impress just be funny, or sporty, or whatever it is that you are good at that girls like. Have your own style, don't copy styles. Be yourself, because then you'll just blend i with the other boys. Then ask the girl out. ;)
650830
The way you're going about it will even fetch you more enemies than if you had to tell the guys an outright NO.  If they eventually find out that you have a lot of them in class, they'll see you as a wayward girl which you're not.  Sit up and know what you want girl and stick to it even if it does not go down well with some. If not, you might end up being every guy's babe. I'm sure you know what that means....a bad reputation.
77835
Tell her not to date in high school.  The boys are way too immmature.  Tell her to wait until she's 25, ha ha, just teasing.  But seriously, let him ask her out and hopefully he'll be a gentleman about it.  As her friend, if you know he's a jerk or something, tell her before it's too late.
884874
Try and spend more time getting to know yourself. What makes you happy. Be comfortable with yourself, school is one big popularity contest, don't buy into it. Spend more time making yourself happy than worrying about guys. It's not who you love, but who loves you.
462927
cool im in 8th so ill help u out DONT DATE IN 7TH GRADE WHEN U GET TO HIGH SCHOOL THAT IS WHEN THE BOYS COME A ROLLIN IN!!!!!!!!
416867
It sounds like you need to worry more about school. Guys come and go forever but school is only once. The fact that at least one of them have blown you off says you need to crush on guys that are more your speed,  also you sound like you are way too young to even be worried about immature little boys. If they haven't already seen how great you are then they never will, I'd leave them alone before they start rumorsanyway. And yes guys do start more rumors than you think. Let a guy find you for a change. you can take this advice from somebody who's been there, of course I graduated in '00, but most things never do.\nGood luck hon! And remember guys are never worth worrying about.\n\n-Brandy
852626
Well, if you know someone thats a senior in your school, tell him/her about this guy, and let this senior that you know ask him to get an ice cream or something or eat with him for lunch, sit with them talk to them , just be yourself and believe in yourself, trust me it will work.
468843
grow up. ditch them both. enjoy your high school days...im sure any guy would want to be with you if you are freaky...lol
1082536
Well,just be your self cuz I'm going to high school too and don't try to be like your the one make a lot of friends, theres going to be a lot fine guys and for the guys a lot hot girls probably is a little bit scay we have to see what's gonna happened.choose what you like best remember you would have friends and when you go to H.S it won't be the same thing cuz probably you would meet new friends and won't have the olds one,Well i don't really know cuz thats what they told me I'm not a fresh men yet but i will be a freshmen soon cuz now I'm barely 14 so yeah hope this help.\nloveeee Baby Girl
764977
Youre in high school I assume. Keep in mind these are boys you are dating not men. They will say things without thinking and are still somewhat immature. You should let it go and give him the benefit of the doubt.
908933
Hi sweetie.  Good for you for recognizing this stuff about yourself at such a young age.  The most important advice you can keep is - remember to be kind to yourself.\n\nYou're not a whore, and your not a geek.  Instead of chucking guys and focusing totally on school, why not just cut back and be really selective about which guys to date?  Say no to the jerks, say yes to one you normally wouldn't, and say "good job" to yourself for every good thing you do.\n\nBut remember to forgive yourself for your mistakes. Everybody makes them. Many worse than yours. \n\nI'm not a religious freak - I just strongly believe in self-redemption.  The alternative is too destructive.\n\nSmile - your best friend is you!
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That's the problem - boys... Not that when they become men it gets much better. But some mature. Get a good Christian man and your chances go up =)