how do i get a boyfriend?
924148
Go to church and look around.
1152179
first r u a boy or a girl??? cause if ur a boy r u gay??? well anyways boyfriends r so hard 2 find cause u may think that right when u walk up 2 a person u know u r going 2 become boyfriend and girlfriend but it isnt that easy. u need 2 be friends with that person and get 2 know that person u just cant know ur going 2 get together cause if u say that that person is not right 4 u.
544021
trust me when i tell you, you really don't need a guy!\ndon't feel pressured cause all the people around you have boyfriends, what good will you get if you have a boyfriend that is mean to you and treating you in a terrible way or one that knows that you want a boyfriend just to have one and gets advantage of you, trust you want none of that so wait take your time till you find someone that really cares about you and you care about him, then and only then its worth to have a boyfriend and not cause everyone else have one !!
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
459051
Wow, the answers on here are really great! Try joining some co-ed clubs if there are some available. Even if you just get some exposure to new people, maybe you can meet someone you like. This may sound a little old fashioned, but some girls meet boys (that may go to other schools) if they go to church or the local arcade, or the mall. \n\nAsk your friends, and thank your lucky stars that you have gotten some really great answers right here already! (NOT THE SUICIDE SUGGESTION!) but anything I could say to you besides "broaden your horizons" would only be a repeat...You could also try community organizations, or working with volunteers that help with projects in your community! I think when the time is right, you will find a boyfriend, in the meantime just have a lot of friends, and you do not have to be lonely, there are people in your community that you could help, and learn something at the same time (maybe even meet someone, summer is on the way!). \n\nIf we could just order a man from a catalog, many of them would probably be returned for one reason or another, it's hard to know when you are young what you really want. So the choices are not good where you are, look elsewhere! When the time is right, you will meet someone that you DO like, and he will like you too!\nHave fun!\nruthie~
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Wanting a boyfriend and NEEDING one are two different things. You should never NEED a boyfriend. You need to be secure in yourself enough to know that you can live your life for you. No other.\n\nWanting a boyfriend is fine. How to get one? Well, just start talking to guys you like. It will work itself out eventually. If you talk to enough guys you like, chances are, one of them will ask you out. From there, don't be needy. If it works out into a committed relationship, great. If not, move on.
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you don't "NEED" one. \n\nJust be yourself and don't seek to find a boyfriend. When you look they are harder to find. Concentrate on your interests, school and meeting new people and I'm sure you will be fine.
894087
find a boyfriend closer to you.
301332
I am 13.How old are you?I want a boyfriend.
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
377228
You don't need a boyfriend until you are done with school and living on your and are ready to start a life. Just live a little and go to Church and find a male friend there. Eventually, he might become the man you want.
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first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
790726
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
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OK  First you find the boy you really like. then act normal go up and talk to him! It may sound stupid but that's how I got my boyfriend cause he started to like me when he got to know me and I talked to him!