should i kiss my bestfriend and see how he reacts?
929301
It all depends how they act towards you now... feel around it before you do...
1053846
Ok, I think there are two possible answers to your question. He might be worried that a relationship with you, his best friend, may not work out and would destroy your friendship. Especially if he doesn't have any other friends. He probably loves you more than you could imagine.\nThe other option is that he's gay. I know, just hear me out. He may not have come to terms with it and has no idea how to tell you. Think about it. You guys are best friends, you're attracted to him and asked him to be your bf. He obviously llikes you a lot and is attracted to you but not sexually attracted to you. \nEither way, I think you should tell him that you really like him as a friend and wish there could be something more between the two of you. Remind him that there is nothing that could ever change the fact that the two of you are the best of friends.
100359
Quite honestly, you'll never kno until you try. Sometimes, best friends are great as boyfriends. He already knows you -- your likes and dislikes, your tastes, your past relationships, etc. -- and he didn't just become a best friend overnight (15 years of friendship is a *long* time). Then again, sometimes best friends aren't good boyfriends. He already knows you, but maybe he knows you too much -- how you will react in certain situations, how your pet peeves sometimes drive him crazy, etc. Truly, you have to follow your heart and your instincts on this one. I wish there were a "crystal ball" that I could point you to that would give you a definite answer... but I'm afraid the only way to find out is to actually be in a relationship with your best friend. God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
1079370
So you know each other for 2 years..I think it a quite a bit of time in which you might have known each other.\n\nIt is very natural that best buddies often think of next higher level.You also told that he openly confessed he likes you.Now make sure that you also have the same feeling before you go ahead because you said 'I think I like my friend'. Make sure that "I think I like my friend" becomes "I like my friend".\n\nIt is wonderful to be in relationship with someone you know for a long time.\n\nAll the best!
787762
Take things slow. Don't be worried so much about doing something wrong, or if it's the right time. If you feel like you want to kiss him, kiss him.
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
646864
HE IS SCARED! Trust me, he did not kiss you just for the fun of a kiss and then change his mind. Don't be pushy just be available. Try to be a safe place for him to go when he is feeling strong enough. If you become clingy, needy, or overly dramatic you will scare him off and lose you best friend and your love. Friendship is the root of great relationships. This has real potential, that is scary. Just back off and give him some time. I would keep up with the occasional text message, short and sweet, but avoid any type of demand. He will come around.
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
277073
No, not unless you have a really good reason too I think that you should kiss him. I mean, you like him and all right? if you haven't gone on a dite yet though that might be a good start
695448
hey, don't worry about it so much. it is totally natural. has he ever kissed anyone? even if he has, no first kiss is perfect. do you want to kiss him???? if you do, then go for it. if he already told you that he wants to, then there is no embaressment of him not wanting to kiss you back. i'm sure you'll like it and want to do it a lot more, but till you have the first one, you'll be missing out the longer you wait. Good Luck!\n\n-TJ
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
222361
yes you were wrong to kiss him. this is why i believe the whole guy and girl friendship thing does not work. and now its too late to go back whether you wanted to ruin the relationship or not its going to happen cause you took things too far to begin with. so just tell him the truth and hopefully things will work out
445586
Loving your "best friend" is not a bad start.  Does he love you back.\nAnd stop playing with the word "LOVE"!
267737
Tell him how you feel, and kiss him. Does he kiss you,too, with out hesitation? If yes, that's an indication. Then ask him what he thinks of you and how he feels about you. Then tell him how you feel. In essence you'd be turning the question on him, and giving yourself a chance to express youself. Go for it, girl! I sense you're lovable, sincere and innoccent.
592460
i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....