Girlfriend of 2 years cheated at begining of relationship just found out keep her or not?
925198
Well let's see:\n\nYou are mean to her\n\nAnd\n\nShe lies to you and cheats on you\n\nSounds like you two are a match made in heaven\nor\nYou need to get away from each other because you obviously bring out the worst in one another
252741
You need to call it quits.  This might not be the answer you're looking for but trust me it'll hurt later when she becomes unfaithful again.   Sure she kept the fling a secret from you but then she lied again and told you it was over but she's still e-mailing him.  Do you see a pattern here?  The best thing to do is break up. You can always get back with her again...
445998
Tough! You had the child, you have responsibilities! If you new girlfriend isn't interested in your children then she isn't worth bothering about.  What happens in the future if you two were to settle, marry, have kids? Drop it in the conversation casually - yeah, this is my second kid? Stop the lies before they get too bad. If you are lying to your girlfriend by not telling her the truth about yourself, she can't love you for yourself, just a fake image you created.
115161
This is a hard one, and trust is a hard thing to get back once its been broken. if she begins a new relationship she should definately tell her new guy how shes been hurt and that she needs him to show her hes honest. Not all guys out there are going to be so bad and you should try to give them the benefit of the doubt. If a guy hurts you and the relationship ends, try thinking of it this way: he lost more then you did. Tell her shes qa great catch just waiting for the right guy to come and see that. Good luck, and tell her i wish her the best in love.
510623
Trust is one of the most important things. If some cheated on me then I'd want to know.  Whether to continue with the relationship would depend on how you found out you were being cheated on. If he or she came to you, then you know this person has a conscience and you may be able to continue with the relationship eventually letting go of the hurt from their indiscretion. But if they never said anything and you found out another way I think it would be best to let go of that relationship because there will be serious trust issues. I personally don't do the whole getting back at my significant other thing. If you have forgiven him/her then it wouldn't be fair to keep bringing it up or punishing them for what they've done. So if it's something you can't get past. Let go.
80490
This is a hard question to answer see that i dont know you or ur gurl.BUT that aside id say talk to her!are there signs like shes hang out with new guys or gifts she cant explain! Also think about this has she EVER given you a reson NOT totrust her!!! Before you acuse her of cheating Make sure you are sure she is because that would just be plain  hurtful if your wrong. The best thing i can say is trust her until she gives you a reson not 2.
309130
I disagree with the others. If you are willing to take the time and be honest from here out, and honestly get past the cheating that happened almost a year ago, and she can get past the fact that you have lied to her over and over, there is hope. There is no doubt that you love her and she loves you. The fact remains that she only did it once and it was almost a year ago. Anything can be worked through if the love is strong enough, but it's not going to happen over night or even in a couple of weeks. It's going to take time, but it can be done.
886334
She MUST accept the reallity. There is no sense in wasting the precious time of your life for a person who cheated you. She should have no feelings for that guy. There is nothing in loving a person who was interested in your body only. Accept that he doesn't love you, and let him go to Hell. One day you will find your love.\nGood Luck for the new start...!!
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
181751
This is reality. People lie. In a relationship, there has to be honesty or it will never work out. It's best that she is gone. You will find someone new. Learn as you go along in life and always watch your back ...
1112056
You kind of answered your own question.  It sucks to be cheated on so why would you want to put another person through that?  If the girl really wants you then she should dump her man and be with you.
1044088
That's not good! Do you really want to be with this girl forever? I mean, she's a cheater. She would do it over and over again... Can you handle it? If you love her so much, you would do everything just to make her honest with you and give her everything what she needs especially time together.
93181
If you can prove she cheated (talk to a lawyer first), then she may already have broken your contract by having the affair, depending on the wording you agreed to.  Good luck. Too bad you didn't marry someone with ethics to begin with.
100997
It is quite possible that she really does regret her actions and will never do it again, especially since she told you.  But, having been in your situation before, I've found it extremely hard to "forgive and forget."  Both of you have to be really committed to make the relationship work after a major setback like that, but if she is truly sorry and you think you can trust her again, it should all work out.
367276
asuming of course that ur man cheated, i`m kinda curious about the details of the infidelity, however it is common for a man who cheated to do it again, i know i have! yes i`m am a pig and i don`t deserve my girlfriend, and i know that to be certain... still she wants to be with me, go figure.  I`ve told her every single detail, and had given her a way out u know a choice!  she didn`t want it, i still enjoy a lot of her character and sense of humor and we get along just fine... except for the above.
783768
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
156301
Listen to her and trust her, and quit doing whatever it is your doing wrong in the relationship thats making you jump to conclusions.  Be careful not to accuse her of something your actually doing...Guilt will get the best of you....