i was too drunk and have regrets?
930879
you can't change the past, so you have got to think about ways to make the future work. try to see him again in a casual setting, one that will highlight what a "good" girl you are. don't mention what happened. he probably doesn't want to talk about it anymore than you do.
607883
If you won't be drinking or anything then nothings wrong. you were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. just go home. but don't let someone who HAS been drinking drive you home. even if it was one beer.
930700
If you were excessively drunk your speech was probably slurred and your whole persona would have been altered. I'm sure he would have been able to tell that you were not yourself. But be careful, he might think you drink Too much.
114508
in the "Regret" file..
905474
Funny, but when you started typing you actually almost made sense. By your fourth drink, however, the end of your question just became a bunch of stuttering confusion.  I guess it's true - alcohol just clouds the mind...such a shame to waste what was once a beautiful thing. Sorry about your luck!
131562
people generally regret it and feel guilt
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
618482
neither one of you should be drinking.Being drunk is just an excuse for acting stupid.You need to work out your feelings about what happened or you may explode one of these days.
1164292
Yes, because something was missing at home, guilt is the number on drawback.   Wish I could go back and undo it, but too late now....and then you can't seem to stop, either.
451039
I performed a wedding one saturday evening and then got invited to the reception. At the reception i tried not to drink to much but i lost count of how many jello shots i had.  to make a long story short i past out at some point in my friends car.  When I woke up the next morning i was being poked  and yelled at by the ushers of my church. I had only 1 hour till I was to give a sermon and i was hungover with the smell of alcohol in clothes. \nThey took me in by the backdoor and down stairs to the kitchen. I had a bird bath in the sick while they sprayed my clothes down with room spray.  i even drank down 2 pots of coffee.\nWhen I got to the sancutary the sounds of the organ about killed me. It felt like it was right in my skull pounding away at my brain. I stumbled around a bit and made it to the pulpit. I held on to the it with dear life and looked up to see my congragation glaring at me.  they was not happy with me!\nI did my best to lead the service but every little noise and every little light seemed to just stab at my brain. When I gave my sermon i did  it in a record 5 minutes and then ended the service. \nAfter the service i proped my self up against the doors to the church and shook hands with the people as they left. Noone really talked to me! \nWhen I got home I spent the day in the bathtub with all the lights out! The next sunday I gave a sermon on drunkeness!
288914
Regrets wouldn't do any good. What's done is done. The past is past. Get on and leave her behind.\n\nAttagirl!
1115434
you where right all the way. you shouldnt use being drunk as an excuse because its you cant blame anyone else for being drunk.  if he didnt deserve the punch in the face from u about trying to kiss ur gal then he deserved it for being drunk. u shouldnt feel bad and if it still haunts u try to let the past go..
1133210
Got totally wasted one night.Got really drunk,stoned,popped a couple xanax.Wrecked my car.Got in 2 fights made a COMPLETE jackass out of myself.I was 36 years old and my mommy and daddy had to come get me because i was so drunk and my wife was scared to death i was going to die in a car wreck.And boy howdy did I ever lay into them!!!\n\n   Why am i glad I made this mistake?The next day I went to my 1st meeting of narcotics anonymous.Eighteen months later....I am still 100 percent clean and sober.I have a life now.I have hope now.I know what love is worth now.If I hadn't totally gotten f'd up that night I might still be getting 80 Percent of the way there today I might be dead.Thank God for one of the most shameful nights of my life!!!
1155897
Well, I can understand your feeling, but you don't have to be paralyzed by regret.  Even the worst events in life can be turned into positives depending on what you've gleaned from it all.   \n\nYou can't undo the past, so the best thing to do is ask yourself what you can do *today* to be a better person.  What can you do today that will cultivate a sense of purpose in your life?  What gives you joy and satisfaction?  Do those things and you'll eventually forget that you spent a lot of time in useless pursuit.  \n\nAnd here's something else to think about:  the experiences you've had in your life (all that partying brought into your life) don't have to go to waste.  Think about what you've learned as a result of how you've lived.  Use that to help someone else make wiser choices.
388045
From a victim's perspective:\nHer family may choose to forgive you, if you decide to ask them.  But don't count on it, at least not right away.  After 15 years, I have finally forgiven the drunk driver who murdered my father and brother.  I use the word "murder", because that's what it is- drinking and driving is a decision, not an accident.  I hope you were not drinking and driving.  I know you are feeling guilty and are grieving for your friend, but you need to understand how your friend's family feels.  I don't know if you were drinking and driving or are just clumsy at the wheel, but you are unfortunate enough to have to learn the hard way from your mistakes.  And remember, one mistake (no matter how awful) does not make you a horrible person.  I am sorry for you loss.
390912
yes a very long time ago and i have regretted it / it was not worth the guilt i felt or the hurt i brought to my wife
510103
He was drunk and out-of-control?