How do you tell someone you love them if you have'nt told them in 1 1/2 years.?
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The time is not the issue.  People's feelings grow and change - so the limiting factor here is not the time, but the fact that you simply don't feel comfortable typing those words in an email.\n\n2 thoughts come to my mind.  1) You want a relationship but you are not committed to investing in this person enough to express your love.  That's very reasonable.  Being in love with this person has complications.  Who will move and give up their home, lives and friends?  Maybe both of you - and for what?  A complete unknown.  2) Maybe you don't really love him if you cannot bring yourself to say in in over a year?  Sometimes we are in love with love and having a long distance partner makes the whole relationship thing, so much easier.  You don't have to mess with somebody in your actual life every single day, but you have a boyfriend, so you don't have to worry about it.  It's taken care of.  A shame that its long distance, but also really nice.\n\nI wouldn't rock the boat if I was you.  If he is saying I love you and you want to respond, but can't with the actual words, you can try something like "You mean so much to me", "I don't know what I would do without you in my life" or "I think the world of you".  Lesser forms are more like "I totally dig you", "You are my favorite person in the whole world", etc.\n\nPeace!
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tell him that you love him&#92;her in any way.\nexpress your love by telling him/her your feelings.
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whoever is closest too you and mean the most to you tell them first......bear in mind go gentle when you tell them...as when you do they will never ever forget that time and day.......but you need to tell those you love at least first........it will be easier for you too. and you can also talk it over with loved ones too. \ngoodluck, \nmay god be with you,\njp
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Well if thinks are going to fast for you, you should definitely tell her carefully before things get out of hand and it slips out. Maybe next time she brings up marriage you could nicely just say something like "We've got tonnes of time for that later, lets take things slow."\nor\n"Aww c'mon honey slow down"\nThen you could always hug her or kiss her lightly afterwards to reassure that you're not rejecting her.
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Telling may not get you the reaction you want, but trust me, if you don't say how you feel, you will regret it years later.  The older you get, you will realize that you should have let the people in your life know how you feel about them.\n\nThis person may not love you back, but he/she will think about what you have told them.  They will reflect on it for years to come.
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It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
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Tell HIM/HER I love you.
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It's amazing that after all these years, you still feel something for her. And I think it's just proper that she knows how you feel. I suggest telling her that you've been in love with her for the longest time and just wait for her response. If the feeling's been there for a very long time, i believe it's worth telling. And it's worth risking rejection. Sure, you may get rejected but it's going to be worth it. Who knows? She may tell you she loves you too and it's all good, right?
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It's very simple. You can go direct to him and kiss him and tell that u love him.The life is very short and u don't have time to live it at all. Don't forget it. Sonja from Albania
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Just because the "L" word came out doesn't really mean anything Bad. Like you said you guys have known each other for awhile already!\nAnd telling him that you haven't felt that way in long time... \nWell, that's like telling him that you are not sure if you are ready for that step in your relationship with him... But, this could be a good thing! If he really loves you ... you will know! \nHe will still show interest in you and you and him can get closer in your relationship. Just don't rush it..  I have been married three times and all of them we're great at first! Ya' know? Just can't wait to be with them... all you think about... and that's great!\nAll I'm saying is to take your time if you want it to last... \nPay attention to the bad sides he may have and see if you really want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON...\n\nI don't think you really pushed... if he loves you he will stick around.    If you think you pushed... just go talk to him.\n"What should you do now?"  \n(1)Take your time...\n(2)Let the love grow...\n(3)Spend time together and talk<<< \ncommunication must be open. \nSharing your feelings with the one you love is very important!\nIf you are serious about this guy then try these steps and God Bless...\n later.
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You haven't been very specific with your question! You like someone and want to let them know? Go right to them and tell them! They can't read your mind...can they. Forget the little things...\n\nOR if you are already in a relationship with this person, surprise them with little gifts, little notes where they don't expect it, a loving card, and of course an I Love You every day...
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tell them before you start dating them
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Same way you tell any man you love him. Just do it... Like the Nike commercials.. *giggle* Don't be shy.. just go for it.
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dont hold back now.\nin all things, hiding your true feelings never really gets you anywhere that you wanna go. you know? cause if where you're going is based upon your true feelings, then you shouldn't wanna go there...nevermind. :-D\nanyways, yes, you should tell him you love him, because nothing is going to change that. and you could wait a million years...but what good is that gonna get you??? tell him- guys are more mellow than you first think. if he doesn't feel the same way, i'm almost positive he'll take it all in stride, if he does the feel the same way-then well, you've got a match!\ngo ahead, don't hold back. they're your true feelings, what harm are they gonna do???
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Be grateful that they care for me and they like me and feel flattered, i would just wait and let them think, give them space before they start to say they love me because it takes quite a while in a relationship to learn how to love someone.
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TELL HER. What is the worst that can happen? If you don't, you will regret it the rest of your life. I will always regret not telling Susan that I love her. I haven't seen her for five years, and I still love her.
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If you truly love this guy and you think that you and he could work out for real, I would tell him how you feel. Telling him will make you feel better, and leave him to make the decision. \n\nPlus, you don't want to look back 5 years from now, see him married to this girl, and regret never telling him, do you?