should i let him back in the home?
915199
that's a dificult decision, it's completely up to you\n\n:> peace\n.
173328
you tell him in straight forward manner. You expect rent, utility, and food money. If he disagrees, tell him that it is not your responsibility to take care of him. Treat him like an adult and be firm. If it gets to be two on one then its time to move yourself out.\n\nADDED\n\nif its your house then you can tell then its your way or the highway.
176977
You don't have to do anything.  Just being home with your family will be enough.  As much as you want to be back with them and get back to life at home, they want the same.  Just get home and love them like never before:)  Welcome home!
656275
More time at home...he should be able to still watch for something better. Nobody wants to be a shelved family. Don't feel guilty, use your time wisely, like backrubs to help relieve his stress, and good homecooked meals. He'll appriciate all the quirks he miss on the road. Smile...they like that.
1156387
let him go if that's what he needs. provide him with lots of emotional support since it will be pretty hard for him leaving the country and all the people he knows. keep in touch and if it was meant to be u'll be together again when he gets back
637250
While I'm not sure why you are living with your ex still (there probably is a good reason), having him bring over a "date" is the epitomy of low. At the same time, you being there while she is there is an accident waiting to happen. I know you may not like the idea of leaving your own home, but it might be the safest thing to do. Afterwards, have a conversation with him about how you aren't comfortable with him bringing over a "date" until the two of you move out.
110825
there is a big possiblity that she would try her hardest to get him back. and as long as he is living there there will always be problems in your relationship.
711845
Go back to your home.
1092325
ASK HIM TO TAKE YOU HOME?
573103
First of all you give him a key of the house. There is no harm  in calling your boyfriend and asking him is he there for dinner. Actually it is his duty to call you and tell you. If you dont like boozing party at your place, tell him you don't want any boozing party at your place.\n\nRemember, There are always a Rules to stay in a Home. No matter who's place it is, you need to follow those rules.
846448
The question you need to ask yourself is do you really want him to. I met a man three years ago, moved in. I thought I was crazy about him. At the time he was on unemployment from his high paying job. At first he moved in with me. That worked out fine. He treated me with respect. Then I had a stroke, and became disabled.Then his children started interfering. That was disastrous for us.  My best advice is don't ever give him the upper hand.  Once they get the upper hand you are in the dust, They only change if you force them.
1079135
I invite him to spend the afternoon in my house.
387386
I would make a list of things that I like to do and just do them or I would hang out with my family.  You can send an ecard to him and express how much you miss him. You can't be together all the time and this should be good practice for you. Also, I would start planning for the night he gets back home. Dinner? Movie? Lingerie? Use your imagination!
1159078
If you know in your heart that you have tried everything to make your relationship work, and he still wants out, then let him go. 9 out of 10 times what he thinks he wants is right there at home.  With or without him life goes on, usually for the better.
178469
Get into his house when he is not there and rearrange all the furniture.  Make sure you interchange from room to room too, like the couch in the kitchen, TV in the bathroom, beds in the closet.  Just don't break anything and its harmless and fun!
692292
You haven't said anything that makes it sound as if you should take him back.  And as Dr. Phil says, kids would rather be from a broken home than live in one.  Why on earth would you want to take him back if he hasn't been good to you and your kids?  And what's the story with your husband - are you still with him or planning on leaving him?
477886
Don't pick up after him.  I understand the house will look messy for a while but maybe he'll catch on.  Make it clear your are not his maid servant.