Offered new job better salary very far from home small town area for a city guy, take it or not?
918501
Depends how much better the salary is and how important living in a city is to you. Personally, I hate the small town mentality where everyone knows everyone else's business. So it would take a lot to move me from the city (even though I was originally from the country).
658193
If you can find a better job fast, don't hesitate to change immediately.\n\nIf not, better play safe and work and wait until the end of the year to receive the severence pay.
962420
I also came from a small town, but then moved to San Francisco of all places what a contrast.  Big cities are all full of escapees from middle America.  Seems there is always an inner feeling of doing better, seeing things, getting involved with culture.  Some people have it some dont.   There are people who are content being small town.  Some are jelous of the ones who left, and yes some are ignorant only because they play on sterotypes and what they see on tv.  I was always driven to big city life as some are.  I really think its an inner voice telling you to get out of town before you die of stagnation.  But, dont put the average small town person down because they are doing what comes natural to them, maybe a fast pace and learning arent their bag, just having a job and family in a quiet place suits them.  As for ignorant people, stay away from the troublemakers, but just let the others be who they are.  Go back to the city, have your double latte and just be who you are....
481140
I agree w/ the first post: if you can avoid it, at all costs, do so. He who mentions salary first usually loses that game. During my job search I read a book by Jack Chapman (Google him). Sometimes they state it as a requirement, or you won't even be considered. If they have stated a salary range, obviously, make sure you can live with that. If you can't, the job's not for you. If they state no salary range, then go on the web and find out what people in that job usually get in your area. You could state something like, "My salary requirements would be in the mid-forties, as such is commensurate with the median salary in the Chicago area." This tells the employer a couple of things: you did your research, and you know the job market for that industry/position.
1142764
Do what you feel is right. Aside for the salary increase, I believe you'd need a new work environment as you already mentioned your dissatisfaction with your present work. Go for it and just be glad you have such choice. :)
1076130
I would say live in a low cost area if it's accessible to your job, is safe for your family, etc. The less you pay for rent/mortgage, the more you can pay on your other bills... just my opinion. :)
255645
Depends on the size of the job and if it's rough or finish work. Why not call some contractors in a nearby city and find out what they would charge for the same work (indiscretely of course) and go from there?
731347
Do the math and see which works out to be the better deal figuring in transportation and your time commuting.\nNice hat!
886076
it is actually a very good idea, especially if most of your business is out of the city you are based in. it does not make you look desperate, in fact it is quite the opposite. it appears more professional, and you are more likely to get business with it.   good luck.
1170733
There's a trade-off for everything. I moved a lot for career purposes and in my experience, you make new friends whenever you go somewhere. It really expands your mind because you get to know so many different kinds of people.  My family was a 6 hr flight away. The second move was a 12 hour flight. That was hard, but nowadays there are webcams with free voice, etc. Re the love of your life. If she really is the love of your life, marry her and take her along.  I also have a flat in my hometown that I have rented out. Today, I'm 45 and don't have to work anymore, whereas most people have to work until they're at least 65. That is the trade-off.  Whatever decision you make, consider this: Imagine you're 60 years old and looking in the mirror and asking yourself what your life was like. You don't want to be in a position where you'll say: oh, I wish I had done this and that, because then it'll be too late.
368978
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200738
First of all adulthood shouldn't be defined by a job you have, or the income you make.\n   If you in fact have a college education then perhaps you need to take reasonable risks and look for other employment.\n   $30,000 a year happens to be way above poverty level, or even most class median incomes. \n   Another change you might make is in location. If you are unhappy where you are, in what you're doing, taking a moderate risk in relocating, seeking employment elsewhere, and making an effort to find what it is that might cause you more happiness, seems to be a better course for you than the one you're on.\n    Finally, and meaning no offense; perhaps your sights are set too high at the moment? It's possible to be happy on less, and have a family, and in another location, with whatever education you have (unstated) you may find a comfortable lifestyle? 24 is young by my standards, and life is long so pace yourself.\n    I'd try looking into employment that fits your education, perhaps in another location. Monitor spending within reason. Save any amount of money you can, for such time when you are more stable and ready to take on a family or greater responsibilities, and heed this,,,"you're only young once, but can be immature forever."\n    A tired old saying,,,"Just do it."\n\nRev. Steve
723634
Closer to home is always better and less expensive.  Will the benefits out-weigh the cost?  It's a crap shoot.
649850
maybe neither...\n\nIt is based on the place where you earned your income.
871107
I guess I would go for #2.  Seems like the only downside is 3-5 hours from family.  Though this is a disadvantage the extra pay should make it easier to take.
993214
Hopefully the Company will offer a 'house hunting/look over the city' trip for you and your husband.  Go to the chamber of commerce site for that city or the closest major city.  Check crime rate, schools and cost of living comparisons.  When you do relocate (if you presently own you home) rent for at least 6 months. Hopefully the new company will pay closing costs on the new house, or some moving allowance, in addition to the cost of the movers. Look at the move as an adventure.  Think of all the new friends you will make and all of the new things you can do in that state.
687048
depends on how long you've been in your new area. if it hasnt been that long i suggest seeing if things pan out. but if you stay for a long time and find that you're miserable and still cant call the place "home" then i'd get out.