I've been married for 16 years.  I want to plan a romantic, sexy night for my husband.  Any suggestions??
920627
Following going out on a "date" with him, wear some sexy lingerie and touch him gently in bed and begin making out.  That should turn him on.
913269
LOL.... personally speaking i dont think i have EVER celebrated a 2 year anniversary... and actually, i dont even think i did anything for my 1 year (go figure that we didnt make it to 2).\n\nI think something special, romantic and not REAL expensive would be to just have a romantic evening in- candle lit dinner, soft music- and make sure to dress the part in either a nice dress or some sexy lingerie and have him do the same. send him an invitation and see what kind of reaction you get. Maybe even buy him a sexy pair of boxers to wear to the occasion. You can also buy some wine or champagne or some drink of your choice. The dinner should be what his favorite dish is. Also, if you could make some kind of scrap book of your years together and show that to him, i know its kind of mushy, but it would let you guys remember why you are together and in love!
282431
How cool that a GUY is asking a question like this.  Hats off to you, bro.  You sound like a real romantic.  This being the case, why not break the mold?  Don't just go to WalMart, and pick something up for her - CREATE an afternoon for her!  I did this for my wife on our first anniversary.\nCreate a custom day-spa for her, made up of all kinds of things that she likes to do, print it up, and give it to her.  An example would be:\n\n9:00am - Tennis at the courts where we met\n10:00am - Go for a walk & talk about our dreams\n11:00am - Spend some time playing with her little sister\n12:00pm - Customize picnic in the park, featuring her favorite sandwich\n1:00pm - Non-sexual backrub on the beach (women really dig "non-sexual" affection - it makes them feel loved and comfortable, as opposed to a tool that you are using to meet a need)\n\nYou get the idea.  Finish it all off by cooking her a special dinner.  Even if it doesn't taste that great, she'll love the fact that you thought enough of her to get a cookbook from the library, and arrange a candlelight dinner!  The key to the whole day is to focus your concerns on her needs.  Stay away from expecting anything in return from her.  Make this day about making her feel like a princess.\n\n*Also, as a side note, something that I did with my wife because I could tell early on that she was the one...secretly start a journal.  Write down loving thoughts that you have about her (and DATE every entry).  Write down notes about things that you do together & dates that you have.  Continuously write down why you love her, and why you are so excited to be with her.\nThen, on your wedding night, GIVE IT TO HER AS YOUR WEDDING GIFT!  I was SO glad that I had done it.  My journal was packed with stuff that I had long forgotten about, and she absolutely melted!
1015074
My husband and I have established a "date night" (every other Saturday).  We take turns planning the night, but we keep it a secret.  We've also just started "bowling night" and "movie night" (we alternate these on Wednesdays).  It definitely gives us something to look forward to.\n\nThere's a book called "101 Nights of Great Sex" written by Laura Corn.   Once a month we each pick a sealed page, tear it out of the book, and keep it a secret.  We try to follow the scenario throughout the week and we surprise each other.  Some of them are kind of raunchy, but you don't have to follow them exactly (we don't).  Either way, we always fun!!!\n\nGive it a try!!!
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I would write HAPPYBIRTHDAY BABY with red roses petals in  our bed,let him admire that surprise, while i get my self ready with my sexiest under wear and a big blue ribbon  wraped around myself, put a birthday card on your self write your fantasies with him on it, tell him how much you love him.....  his best present YOU good luck
145020
A little wine, champagne preferred. A romantic candlelit dinner of his favorite foods. A sexy short dress. A romantic soundtrack with romantic songs. Maybe a little dancing. Definitely dessert. And a little passion into the night if you know what I mean. =D
809923
Leave him a note posted on the door, spray it with your favorite perfume and sign in with a kiss... saying.. please take your shoes off and leave your brief case ( if he carries one ) at the door and help me pick a few things along your way. I'm upstairs in the bedroom/ bathroom .. leave one glass.. few feet down another one.. then a champagne/wine bottle.... bowl of strawberries/grapes ( favorite fruit ) ... .be in your place of choice.. on the bed .. lights turned down candles.. soft music.. nice lingerie.. or in the bath tub.. same as above minus the lingerie hehe ...Thank him for helping .. and then you two take it from there... Best of luck..
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Make it as romantic as possible.  Every guy in their thirties or so need to know that they are still sexy to their mate.  Make him feel like he's the world to you.  Buy yourself a sexy outfit that makes him say "WOW I'm w/ her!".  Pamper him and make him #1 for the day/night!  Hope you have the time of your lives!
138928
At 41, I still remember that feeling your husband has.  He's 28-29 and missing his youth.  He has a baby and resposiblites.  "Oh, for just one night to be young again."  Problem is that you can't go back.  He'll see only a few of the people he used to hang out but it won't be the same.  It probably will be only one time that he goes because it's just too sad. \n\n He needs a something new that is exciting that you can do together.  Come up with an idea for something like that and hit him up with it a week or two after his night out.  \nEnjoy
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Here's a suggestion: For the honeymoon, go out and buy something sexy, something he'd never think you'd wear( get the shoes, stockings, etc)> Go to the bathroom at the hotel your staying at for the honeymoon and tell him to sit and wait! Get into the outfit, do your makeup and hair, then call out to him to maybe light a few candles and turn on some music(I suggest a cd with a pre-practiced song) and then come out dancing for him, tease him...Men love that stuuf, talk about spicy!!\n\nWorked for me!!
1158327
First you go to the store and get everything u need.Everthing as in flowers,rose pedal(the real ones from the floral show)if it's in your budget,don't forget the candles & bath oils both are armotherpy (calming or relaxing).Then go and get the food.Whatever you cook make sure it either a favorite or something you know that gone to make him ask for it again on a later day.After all that go home clean up ,and get yourself  together in the process.Then start cooking and get your table setting together,get your flowers together and on the table.Go in the room and put clean linen on the bed.If you got the rose pedals sprinkle them under the flat sheet them pull back the comforter and fix the pillows and sprinkle rose pedal on the top of the com. and down to the floor to the bathroom where you will run him a hot aromtherpy bath w/rose pedals.Get the candles and place them along the tub and around the sink,cut off the light.Go and prepare dinner and place the food on the table,sit down to eat ,drink some wine,sit back laugh and talk about whatever.Whatever you do before you take him to the room ,go and light the candles.Go and led him to the bedroom and get him ready for some armotherpy and the rest is left to you.Have a wonderful night!!!!
662077
Go out for a nice romantic, candle-lit meal and a few drinks. Come home and have a hot bubble bath with the man/woman you are with, then a sensual massage using aromatherapy oils, and then if the mood takes, make mad passionate love all night !
1124776
Start of by asking your significant other to go out to dinner with you. Wear something that you know they find sexy on you. At dinner keep things positive and sexy! Talk about the things you did with each other when you first got together. After dinner, at each stop light or stop sign, kiss and touch each other, once home, remove each others clothes then start doing some of those things you talked about at dinner!\nOther things you could do is fantasy role playing, doctor and nurse, cop and hooker, naughty school girl and the principal.\nUse your imagination and think sexy thoughts about each other.\nSend each other dirty e-mails!\nI'm sure this will help you get that lust back.    Good luck
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when the kids are asleep probably best at weekend if you work you wont be as tired, you could wear some sexy underwear and dress up cook a nice meal then have sex in different rooms, try watching a porn film together depending how kinky you are there are a lot of sex toys you can use on each other, maybe just a sensual massage using oils with candles and incense burning would be nice for you both, or you could tell each other your fantasies and try and do them, maybe you could get a babysitter for a few hours and book in to a motel or even park somewhere in a car that could be exciting the risk of getting caught, only you know what turns your husband on just think about it and what you can do together, justmake sure you lock the door if you have kids you wont want any awkward questions.
75428
Romantic candle diner at home "light"\nA good sponge bath while drinking a good wine\nThen ....he he he!!!\n\nfor a non romantic guy!\ntrip to MC Donalds 6 pack of bud & 10 minute sex\ngood luck
1073709
Surprise him with a romantic dinner when he gets home.  Set the table up with candles, a pretty table cloth.  Rent a movie. Stuggle on the couch.
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lets see if you just wanna make your husband adore you, you could try changing your look, or giving him a surprise, like a sexy evening! \nI draped some black sheets over our couch and over the TV set and lit a bunch of candles i also put out some champagne and and strawberry's on our coffee table, and i bought some very sexy lingerie! its a bold move but he seemed to really like it and from that day on he just looked at me differently! you should try it!!