Am I so self-centered I dont even see you??
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You do have a good point, and it is something to take notice of. I haven't thought about it that way, but as a Christian, I will take this constructively and maybe there can be things that I can change that I wasn't doing before in treating people. As for my shortcomings in life, I blame that all on myself.
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Well, I can sympathize... because I have been "walked over" by many friends.  I'm smart, academically speaking, and have made many friends who feel it is my duty to tutor and provide them the answers and help on all their papers.  Or friends who only call when they need something.  This is why I only have 1 real friend, and my husband.  It took a while to realize that people are shadey, and you can't always trust them.  Hard lesson learned.  Now I evaluate every relationship, asking "Am I getting out of this relationship what I am putting in?" and if I am putting in too much energy... and not recieving any of that energy back, then you really have to evaluate if it's worth it..
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dont know you enough to hate you yet :)
1011317
This is actually pretty common. A lot of people do this. It's not so much you're self-destructive, you're afraid of not meeting expectations. You need to be more in touch with yourself, see yourself as more than you do right now. Once you get that self-confidence up, you'll see you really do deserve a guy who worships you and adores you :)
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DUDE. WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?  EVERY QUESTION I SEE FROM YOU IS ABOUT SOMEONE LIKING YOU OR OTHER PEOPLES OPINION ABOUT YOU.  GET A GRIP.  YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF.. WHO CARES ABOUT THE OPINION OF OTHERS AS FAR AS YOU ARE CONCERNED.  THE ONLY OPINION YOU NEED TO WORRY ABOUT ARE YOURS AND JESUS.  SCREW EVERYBODY ELSE.  GET SOME SELF ESTEEM!
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Yes my friend Honesty is very much alive in this selfish world !!\n   A bit difficult to understand this fact....i am not being hyperbolic but to tell u v all live different lives and our lives r so busy and ignorant, we are accustomed to listening to people speak  lies almost every day, yes we sometimes also do speak lies, now at this moment of time, if u meet a person who tells u the truth u always start spying on that person !!I because its all our mindsets that sets us to think that there is no honesty in this world and that no one is honest!!\nwe fail to recognize that person through observation, behavior,speech eye contact, body Language and other such aspects which show the level of honesty in that person!!\nSo ...I think its time to look around I think u should find people who are quite Honest!!
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im not so sure cause i think i have the same problem with myself. i still in the mist  of trying to convince myself that i am beutiful. i think that our, or your fist step would be to think of something that you dont like about yourself and say you do, maybe you can convince yourself!!!!!!! i hope i help and thx for the 2:)
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I have the most egocentric bf ever. All he can think of is himself and he does things only for himself.As long as it suits him,its ok.
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I dont think that you sould be worried about waht you are putting, on as much as the attitude you have toward other people.  More is expected of you as a sophmore and you should meet those expectations.
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Yes, I'd say you are shy and lack self-confidence.  I know what you mean because I tend to be this way too.  People often think you are unfriendly, when you really are just shy.  At least try to give a shy smile, to let them know you are friendly!  ;)\n\nSomething which has helped me is to make a switch in my mind from myself to the other person/people.  Do not focus on yourself but on them.  Have you ever thought about what you think in your own mind when you encounter other people?\nSome people think, "What can I get from this person?"  Some think, "What does this other person think of me?"  Or any other various things, but we always are thinking something.  What is helpful is to think, "What can I do for this other person?"  Think "What can I do for you?"\n\nI make this switch quickly and easily by simply saying to myself, "You, not me."\n\nYou will be amazed how well this can work, because then you are not self-conscious.
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I think you are just a bit vain...GET OVER IT!!!!
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no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
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Someone once told me I was in denial,paranoid,and vindictive...I replied,"No--Never! Who told you that? Are they watching??!! I'm gonna hunt 'em down like the dogs they are!!"--just kidding. As for me--I like me...I'm practically one of my closest friends...in fact,I have invited myself out for a bit of brew...hope I accept. But no--what others think of me? I don't spend time with these "others" therefore they are of no significance...now YOU,Lady D--that's a different story...say--what ya doin' next Friday? 'Cause what you think does matter....
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since when did it become YOUR day to worry about me???\nI have PLENTY of things better to do... I just don't want to do them... and last time I checked... I was the Boss of me!!!   Is that OK with you???
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what makes u think u have "low self esteem" ???
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Yes, you not only have a self-esteem problem, but a spiritual one also!  Just so you know.....you were made a little lower than the Angels...not one of God's animals...which would not be saying too much for God!\n\nLook in the mirror AGAIN and repeat this 3 x's!\n  \nMirror, mirror on the wall,\nWho's the fairest of them all;\nwhy, it must be me, 'cause I'm the only\none in the mirror I see!!\n\nThis is not vain or selfish, just a self-esteem BOOSTER!\n\nGod Bless You!
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ive read your profile and previous questions and for whatever reasons i believe you are deeply unhappy within your self-depression if you like-actively find solitude,get comfortable and try to focus on one thought only-as your mind clears search for the root of your problem,try to identify the real source-elect a way to change it to your benefit-take action,no matter how small .you will then have begun to fight back and feel better about yourself and this in turn with each action you alone make to affect the path of your destiny-as is your right-will give you back the control you feel you may be losing-and hopefully have you feeling like smiling again-its worth a try,good luck.x -remember "a journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step !"x