I am a 30 year old gay man who lives and works in london. I have been having gay sex for the last 8 years?
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I think it is important for you to get checked for std's for yourself and your partners.  You should also start having safer sex by using condoms.  You may thank yourself later.
138374
Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
1010469
sorry rose but you don't know.\nthe answer is 16 years of age I know this as I am a gay man living in perth w.a.
213132
As a Gay Man myself, I would encourage you to search your local gay outreach health programs.  Vancouver has to have many outlets....yours is an Excellent quest, & there has to be venues in place right in Vancouver for you to use.  I live in Calif., but an Internet search should open up alot of options for you...hang in there...
1174900
Have you been liking men for the last twenty eight years?
227098
hOW OLD ARE YOU I CAN SHOW YOU SOME OF MY GAY LIFE SO YOU CAN SEE IF YOUR GAY OR NOT!
765787
If you are gay and willing to put your dignity and health in high risk...then go right ahead.  Keep looking for a job, it will be okay.  Stay positive.
991625
The same places straight people meet - in bars, at work, in supermarkets, out walking dogs....\n\nHave a look at http://www.gaydar.co.uk or http://www.gaydargirls.co.uk \n\nWhile those sites tend to be mainly for people looking for sex, you can get chatting to people online in your area and find out where the good places are to meet people socially. There are many online forums you might find useful too.\n\nGood luck.
673213
Im afraid that you are gay at this time.
977380
Well, I'm married now but I used to get it all the time. I suppose I shouldn't have been shagging on the Number 29. Or in that nightclub. Or on that train station platform. Or in that park. Or in that cinema. Or etc etc...
559585
My mums garden, they love it and they are extremely gay all of the time. Go to Devon, past Okehampton turn left off of the a30, take the next right, drive for exactly 4.2 miles, turn left, nr 12 holly field road, say I sent you. Bring all of your gay mates she will love it. Can you perform YMCA for her as it is her favourite tune. My dad will no doubt join in as he is really gay too. \n\nGood luck mate.
1129515
Probably not gay.  He had an interview in Playgirl back in the mid to late 70's.  He mentioned the way he likes to be approached by a woman wanting him for sex.  So I say he was straight.
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still a virgin at age 27
498489
You must be mad! Wait till you are fully "mature" sexually and then start thinking about such things! Trust me it will grow a lot bigger than it is now! I know, I am 30!
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Haha. Someone discovered something new. Hey man, your wife is misinformed. And you, obviously have not thoroughly explored your body...till now. We all have played with ourselves. Though, some slightly more than others. There are lots of ways for a guy to have intense orgasms. Anyway, the media and the gay community is always perpetrating that a man who dresses well, who's too good looking and goes to the gym is gay. And that such men should stop pretending and come out. This hype causes these type of men to question themselves with questions like "I like it when I/my gf/my wife plays with my anus so am I gay?" or "I do envy other males with better physique than mine so am I gay?"...etc. This is overblown. And it doubles as a strategy to confuse and turn the fashion conscious, good looking, gym going men, gay. Yes it works. There men who are "recruited" gays. Truth is there's always a reason a man becomes gay. No one is born gay. Anyway the percentage of hetero men is higher than our homo counterparts. Whatever it is, the numerous other reasons n questions that you have, can only be answered by yourself. Some men do experience this phase of self questioning. Some don't. If you like men, lust after men, wanna have sex with men, wanna develop relationships with men or marry or live together. Then you are gay. If you don't, then you're not. Having questions doesn't make you gay. Looking at other guys doesn't make you gay. The decisions and choices do. Simple.\n\nWell now that you've added the details, its certainly more complicated. ok so you've probably had a sort of a gay lifestyle back then. But think of the reality, which is now. Are you happy with your wife and marriage? What about children? do you have children? Do you love your wife? why did you marry her in the first place? think of all the moments that both of you shared. If its all good. Then ending the marriage would destroy her and your children (if you have any). Not ending the marriage, will mean that you're not being honest to your wife and yourself. Either way someone will get hut. It boils down to you. Yes, its really difficult. Think about it and weigh the situations. You could talk to your wife about the problem, maybe with a counsellor too. I wish you good luck.
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If you're gay, then that IS normal for you.  Without knowing which culture/country you are in, I can't advise on the rest of your question.
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I was with my ex for 8 years as well and after about six years into the relationship, the sex became less and less.  By the eighth year in our relationship, we realized our situation was getting old and both agreed to move on.  My advice to you is to try new things with him (positions, places, etc) and try to spice things up...maybe rekindle the sex you had when you first started going out.  I really wish I would have tried, instead of giving up.\nGood luck!