Confronting the women he cheated with?
921431
I would be more concerned about why your Husband told you in the first place, could it not be that your Husband is lying, I am not saying he is, but you have to look at it from both sides, and try to rationalize everything, Men do sometimes lie about this type of thing, to make their partners jealous
936854
How can you be friends with someone who has betrayed your trust? You can be polite because of your child and because in life you get more with honey than you do with vinegar! HOwever, that is all I would be. No information, no jokes, no real conversation. Then take a deep breath. Realize that he looked at your relationship with all its pluses and cons and decided to try his luck elsewhere. UNfortunatly he forget to inform you about his decision. Take another deep breath. Realize that a cheater is a liar is a sneak-- aren't you worth more? In other words, through thick and thin you stood by him but he could not do the same. Honey, he is not wrothy of your love. Put on some make-up, get dressed and go out!
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
713997
If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
683242
Yes, you had no right calling him.  Just because it was a guy that she was talking to doesn't mean she was cheating on you.  I can relate to this because I broke a 5 year relationship because of something like this.  My ex was accusing me to cheating on him with someone that was over 300 miles away because I talked to this person everyday.  I asked him to leave over 3 months ago it was hard to break it off with him but I couldn't live with him always looking through my stuff.  Now he says that he shouldn't have gotten into my stuff and acted like he did...but he did it himself over nothing. SUCKS THAT MEN ONLY THINK THEIR GIRLS CAN ONLY HAVE OTHER GIRLS TO VENT AND TALK TO!!!!
1068394
Are you kidding me? My lady would have my nuts for earrings if I tried to pull something like that. No other women comes before her. Ex-lovers...Nope, don't even bring the name up. Not if i want to sit and listen to her bitch at me for the entire night. If she even thought I was emailing and having open communication with an ex. It would be my a**.  You are his women and he should have at least a speck of decency and stop it all together. If he does not your relationship will break down for sure.
241979
I'm sorry you had to go through this, I know how much it hurts when your spouse cheats on you.  I wish I could say you could trust him and that everything will be fine but the truth is he crossed a line and now that line really doesn't exist for him.  I'm sure he regrets hurting you but I doubt if he really regrets that he was with this other woman.  I tried to forgive my ex when she cheated and believe her when she said she wanted to work it out but ultimately she did it again and I realized I could never trust her again.  Trust is one of the basic foundations in a marriage and once it is gone it isn't easily repaired.  I think you need to decide what is right for you and if you don't believe you can honestly trust him again then divorce is your only option.
333422
I would tell him that its either you or her.  He is playing games with your head.  Then I would kick her ass for messing with another girls man.
716550
Depends on what you confronted him about. But you could just tell her to get a life. He's her boyfriend not yours and you should have the right to confront him if the situation calls for it.
879743
no she is just angry she is probably saying if you hadn't thrown her the part it would never have happened but she should choose her friends wisely , it is pretty obvious that the husband was into it or else he would have been with his wife and not them,just to show that he is a cheating bastard. judge how long he has been doing it
596493
Gurl face it hes a cheater
651095
Yes, I agree with the fact that it's his responsiblity to tell her himself, that is was inappropriate, late at night, and disrespectful to you. He needs to confront her, tell her these things, and also, he should actually agree with how you feel about it, because it should just be you that's upset. He should feel discusted with her, as well. That chick needs her own damn boyfriend or husband, and needs to stop messing with yours!
175102
This should be left alone by you. Sorry but your father and the women he is cheating on is old enough to know better. Also what good would it do to confront him? He should be decent enough not to do it in front of you...K
951754
I would have to tell him that I have read the letter, Apologise for the fact that I was snooping but I would have to confront him and ask him what she means otherwise you are not going to get it out of your head.\nYou take that chance when you snoop through other peoples things you find things that you don't like and it drives you crazy, I'm not condemning you cos Ive done the same thing but I would have to own up and bring the subject out IN the open.\nGood luck, and remember he might have said something meaningless to her and she has took it in the wrong context.
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
613078
Reality hurts don't it. I think the main reason women cheat is because of insecurity.   You should ask yourself what lead to me to cheat?  and would I do it again.  That poor man is hurt and probably doesn't want to go through that again. I know i wouldn't. From a mans standpoint especially if he loved you...he probably still pictures u banging the guy in his mind. There is a big wound in the relationship..and like any physical cut it takes time to heal. But you really cant do anything because the ball is in his court.  He will comeback if he completely forgives you.
89483
I am a female whose husband had an emotional affair.\nOne tiny white lie will lead to a road of destruction.\nI am currently trying to forgive him, but its not working so well. Any and all cheating is unforgettable. The true trust will be gone forever.