A friend of friend(guy) held my hand, is this a big deal?
917803
he probably likes you.  especially if you guys sit next to each other.  that means you have a special connection with him.  see if he looks at you a lot.  that means he likes you too.  if he passes you notes since he sits next to you, that means he likes you too.  if you like him, tell him that you like him too.
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
1073019
i would think that if you have known each other for that long and you have had a platonic relationahip he may not show anything at all to indicate to you how he felt. he may just hide it for fear of ruining the friendship. sometimes guys are really passive
248732
I'm assuming you are good friends since you've known each other for so long but I wouldn't want you to scare him off either.  I would just kinda drop hints and see how he takes it and when the time is right to tell him then you will know.
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.
91152
I think everyone has wondered about that at some point in their life.  There's no way to know for sure, but if you're good friends, then you should talk about it.  It's much better to talk about it, even if it's almost in a joking manner, than to advance to something physical that could make one of you uncomfortable and strain the friendship.
920813
Yea, it does sound like a friend to me. Get to know him more as he gets to know you a little more. Don't worry too much.
446118
Don't push your new friend into something he is not sure of. I am sure he just wants time to get to know you and do things with you. And if I were you I would tell your other friend how you really feel. There is nothing worse then giving someone mixed signals. So just be honest and things will work out.
672231
If your brother introduced you then I would imagine that he doesn't have a problem with it. You may want to casually mention that you are seeing the friend, but I don't think it is a must.
122124
when you say he asked you out, do you mean on a date or to be his girlfriend? if he holds your hand he's being sweet not alotta guys do that. my fiance is one of those rare types that likes to show affection no matter when or where. it's very romantic!!
121929
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
574243
I wouldn't assume that automatically.\nIt sort of depends on the context, did he have his hand in your hair and it got pulled or did he purposefully grab it to yank it - with no other conceivable reason.\n\nYou might want to ask him about it.  \nMention that it was uncomfortable (in a polite way).  It could be that he was overexcited and had no idea of the amount of pressure.  \n\nThe important thing is you let him know it hurt and that he not do it again.
705992
If your both nervous about it then you should have a friend scope out the situastion or drop the hint to him for you. This way you both don't have to really worry and you could just act like you didn't know that your friend was going to do that to you.
689314
i think maybe he is starting to feel something for you since u r having his baby,..but if u are with someone else dont blow it.. let ur friend make the first move as to his feelings for u
362896
I have been in that place years ago.  I felt something special with a good friend of mine and it was confusing.  I got the courage to tell him directly how I felt about being something more than a friend but I was rejected.  I cannot say that it is not painful but at least the situation was clear for me and we are able to keep our friendship.  Actually, he is one of my best friends now.  I suggest that you tell him directly but you have to be prepared that he may not be able to give you a positive answer and you can live with that!  Anyway, if you continue to hide your feelings, it may be quite painful and confusing!  Good Luck!