How do u know if a guy is "making love" to you or just having emotionless sex w/ u?
928219
buy the noises he makes and his acting performance.
713575
If it's a one time thing..."Not tonight boo.  I'm not in the mood, but I will make it up to you."  If it's something you're not feeling anymore at all, the two of you would need to have a long talk together or you would have to try to take the sex out of that relationship.
24179
Don't look elsewhere, this is actually pretty normal.    Try talking to him and telling him that you'd like to be more intimate.  DOn't make things into a chore, like "eat, drive to movies, blah, sex"... Usually, I find that a good makeout session will be enough to rev up your latent sex drives!
276686
please be more clear . . . when you ask for sex (speaking of you) . . . he says that he has a headache.\n\nOr is it the reverse.
464547
If you very in love and very emotionally connected, then i am 99% confident that the sex is emotional/loving for him.  If you are not very in love and not very emotionally connected, then I am 99% confident that it is purely physical to him.\n\nFor in-between those two, it's really going to depend on your relationship and the guy, and how the girl looks.  Is she very cute (if so, it's love), if she is not cute but very sexy, then it's likely sex.  \n\nFor the most part, though, unless you fit into one of the extremes on up above, it's very likely BOTH!\n\n----------------------\nand i agree with the guy above me, but i want to add to that - guys that are shy tend to be VERY emotionally connected in sex, and guys that are very outgoing tend to be the opposite (not always on the outgoing guys).
1044562
the way you guys make a girl feel in all the ways you said.sex favors and turn on`s. you make it happen.
680582
You feel it. And there are also more tangible signs.\n\nHe doesn't want to make love to you or not as often as he used to.\n\nHe starts looking after himself more. New clothes, new haircut.\n\nHe works late or goes out more, goes away "on business".\n\nHe smells with women perfume, hides his phone, when answering his  calls he leaves the room.\n\nThere are also bills for flowers you never got, hotel rooms, diners, gifts. \n\nHe may feel guilty and be actually nicer to you than before or more distant. Observe him discreetly and you will find out.
43847
Well. Theres no sure fire way to actually prove that a guy likes you without asking him. So first ask him. But he could be lying. So...\n1. 3 weeks without sex. Maybe he wants to make sure that he really likes you and that this relationship has some weight. He wants security and commitment. He is willing to wait for you.\n2. Check his commitment. does he show upon time? does he do nice things for you? does he be with you a lot especially when you need him? Does he change his schedule for you? (i called in to work one day because my girlfriend was sick.) If he does all these things and more, then it's most likely that he likes you.\n3. Ask deep, personal questions. if he lets you in on his thoughts and fears and everything about him. Then it's probably A yes. Men are guarded vaults most of the time. If he lets you in, then that means that he trusts you completely.\n\n(i can't guarantee that these are all correct. This is just from personal experience and isn't fully proven. But i think it will work.)
494470
If someone says they love you it doesn't mean it is true. Love is more than words. Love is making a choice to put the interests and needs of someone we care about in front of our own selfish desires. We are all prone to be selfish… it is human nature but if we truly love we sacrifice for the other person. \n\nWhen we are young we confuse lust, attraction and passion with love. Love is not an emotion!!!!!! Or a sexual desire. It is a decision.  but ooohhh how difficult it is to convince someone when they think they are in love that they are not... we think that craving for the other person is love it isn't!\n\nso... the way to tell if someone loves you is by their action! their kindness and all mentioned above. it's not by how much passion there is when he kisses you. \n\nreal love can be sooooo awesome... to feel it and know that someone really cares that much about you to be looking out for you and not thinking with their sex organs.  ;  )
851908
It really depends on the sitation and how it's said.\nSome people will say the words "sleeping together" over sex becuase it sounds more tastelful than sex.\nJust like some people call sex "making love" even though love making is more passiate it's still just sex.\n\nSay if someone says, "my bf held me all me all night when we slept together..  they meant they were just innocently sleeping together\n\nOn the other hand if a guy says something like man i cant believe you slept with that girl...well they mean "slept" as in sex
570640
If he has a pulse and is sexually active he is probably masturbating.  Look you have to get over it if you have a problem with it, if you can't be mature and just accept it then maybe you shouldn't be getting involved with anyone.  The only gesture I can think of is breathing.
448146
sad to say but these days guys aren't embarrassed to just say what they want... so more than likely the guy will just straight off tell you that he wants to have sex or that he wants to kiss... but if you want to know sum before hints, well from experiences i can tell you that if he wants to kiss you he will be affectionate, caring, and will close... then he'll just lean in. and for sex forget about the hints before the kiss he will touch you alot and then it will grow into him starting to take off your shirt or putting his hands inside your shirt and then eventually inside your bra and pants... but yea thats how it all goes down... hope i helped... if anything else jus hit me up!!!
683160
it depends on the relationship you both have.. if he is the kind of a person who only love to kiss and give u a hug when he see u and that's all then he's just having fun with u.. if he care about you and opened his heart to you and at least share some thoughts with you then he might be loving you.. give some more details plz
26735
Making love is when you are trying to please the person you are with out of your own heart, like you're trying to get inside of them so they feel how you feel for them.  Sex is just a way of expressing it and it's probably the best way.\n\nHaving sex is sort of like relieving yourself, you just want to get inside of them (or opposite for women) for the physical gratification, and you wake up the next day wondering why you bothered and hoping you don't have a disease.
652415
You can't. Unless a guy tells you what he's feeling (and even then there can be some doubt), you'd be guessing at best. However, if he expresses affection for you, tries to talk to you/contact you on a daily basis, and has made sexual advances to you, it's probably safe to assume that he's attracted to you at the very least.
606310
well it works like this....\n\n\nif hes like me....it juss means he loves u...and is more confortable w/ u...\n\nif hes not...he juss wants sex
211735
yeah  your right... there are so many things to express love other than love. Try not to make love with him and try to see if he still love you if you refuse to do it. if he will be angry then he is not really in love with you. ALthough making love is the ultimate expression of love, but still it is not the only way..especially now a days, some people just have sex not because of love but just to satisfy their selfish wants..so be careful your guy may jsut be after of sex...not your true love