GIRLS, even in a relationship are you wanting that sense of a "CHASE"?
925478
You need to ask her this, not us. Thats the only way to know for sure exactly what she is thinking.
393011
I feel that it is all a matter of contentment.  If you are content with the relationship then you will not care about what else is out there... on the other hand, if you feel that you may be missing out on something then you probably are.
817727
It's not that she wants to be chased, she wants to be pursued. She wants a guy that looks at her and goes "wow, I think I want to get to know her a little more". She wants him to take the intitive and pursure her, get to know her, ask her out, make the move. Why? Because society seems to have reversed these roles, but she is tired of going after the guy and wants a guy who isn't afraid to just say "I want her, I'm going to try". It shows strength. And if she accepts you, you are in. She's content and if you have a relationship....it should be quite fufilling.\n\n:) Adelaide
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What help do you want?  To know if he's interested in you?  I'll assume that's it.\nWell, it sounds promising.\nBut think, does he want to have a relationship with you or just have sex with you?  Is the chasing ever going to amount to anything?\nHave you talked to him and at any point told him you're not ready to date or you're not interested in a relationship?  If so, that could be why nothing has happened for him to show real interest in dating you.\nIt's a good sign that's he's not accepting free sex from anyone else, yes.\nThink hard, if you told him you were ready for another relationship, would he cringe or look hopeful?  Not sure, try telling him something along these lines, without directly involving him in the question.  See how he reacts and gage by that.  Or, just have a conversation about it.  \nI had a similar situation, except when I made a move back, he totally stopped wanting me.  Until I hadn't seen him for a year and had finally given up and started dating someone else who I love.  Then he saw me and couldn't stop trying to hold my hand and telling me how he made a mistake.\nSometimes guys who chase do it because they don't know what they want and, when they're confronted with it, they don't know what to do with it and turn into jerks.  They might come around later but you don't want a guy like that, trust me.
678630
Guys like the idea of a chase. They like to do the chasing and they like to be chased. Maybe he wanted to see how you reacted to the situation so he could make a better assumption of your feelings for him. Guys do stupid stuff to find out what the girl is thinking in her head. You know that girls are different creatures from a different planet and their brain procedures are very differnet from men. he probably A. wantd to see if you'd say something or B. you're over analysing something stupid
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Some guys simply love the chase.  Once they have you they move on.  I suggest you do the same.
864985
Ways a guy can tell if a girl/woman is desparate...she is overly aggressive and never says no to anything, she calls too much...she emotionally pours out all her feelings toward you before the two of you are considering even dating....those are signs....I dont want to make this sound primative but guys usually prefer to be the predator we like the chase it gives us a feeling of conquest...(we are weird like that..).....and to your 2nd question....For us it's a competition (sometimes within ourselves)...so we can blow up our ego...unfortunately it may not always be about you....(we men suck like that sometimes...sorry)
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I think that the problem is that we girls like to be wanted but not pressured. I like the idea of knowing my bf is thinking on me and that gets him aroused, I like to know he wants me, I love when he says that while kissing. But we both know we cant go farder than that and we both control the other when necesary, if you cant get that then hes not really that nice or respectful.
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here is the thing. men love the chase. he sees you as a target to chase since he's not with you anymore and he knows how to push your buttons. if you get back with him he will do it to another girl. he seems very immature and inconsiderate. if you allow him to do anything, even a date, your friend will not forgive you (even if she says that she will) and you will lose them both. i suggest you tell him to BACK OFF and not allow him to make you a target of his chase.
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Unfortunately some girls want what they can't have and once they have it, they don't want it. Otherwise, I would guess she might not feel deserving of you.. if you give her so much, and maybe she doesn't give you as much.. did she give you a reason?
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We can't handle it at all. We fall so quick that all we want to do is be with that person and talk to that person 24/7. The only way i see it is keep doing your own stuff when you were single and let him come to you. Us girls are always chasing the guys asses let them chase us for once
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yes. it is a very good sign that he truly cares for you and wants to be with you. some guys run away. this one didn't.
353008
Technically no it is not a blowoff, sometimes, you may not just be the right fit, or there could be an issue with her that is preventing her from getting close to you. She could be confused, and really want to be with you but is struggling with some of her own issues, that is very possible it happened to me before. I really liked this guy, but i felt my mind state wasnt in the right place and i didnt want to hurt him, because he was worth something so much more.
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You should have more respect for yourself than to flirt with a guy who only wants to be friends.  You should ask him why, and respect his answer.  While you chase someone who doesn't want to be your boyfriend, someone that does or will is missing the opportunity.
823491
awww... you're making the rest of us jealous!\n\ni love to be held.\nthere's this sense of security and you just feel like you could burst out of all that love..
430235
i think its because we are all afraid of rejection or being used.as a woman i feel like it would be desperate of me to chase a guy , and my guy friends make jokes about girls who moon over them , even if she is just extra nice when they are around.
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