Why do guy's say they love some one exactly the way they are and then turn around and  say would u ever change
923799
HUMPING .......it's all about the ass
475707
Be grateful that they care for me and they like me and feel flattered, i would just wait and let them think, give them space before they start to say they love me because it takes quite a while in a relationship to learn how to love someone.
317306
STAY THE SAME PERSON HE FELL FOR IN THE FIRST PLACE.DON'T CHANGE.
819269
Okay first of all the first and second answers....they're unacceptable and are untrue......due to different belief's, well you see if someone really loves you or at least they say they do then they'll respect you with the respect you deserve and will talk to you the way you should be spoken to and treat you like a queen and make you feel important and they'll understand you and be there for you when you need them and not judge you for who you are or what you like, someone who loves you makes you feel like you mean the whole world to them! You can talk to them about anything and you could do anything with them. And if they're loyal and trustworthy but most of all it's how you feel when your around them.....or how he looks at you!
723392
he could be falling in love- but to love you means to know you- he must know everything about you- what makes you tick- your good side and your bad side- because when he find out some things about you that he may not like, will he still love you- let him know that-\nBut he can still be falling in love
249110
He's moves and he's action because they said action speaks alouder than vioce, If a man is in love with you, you will know through his behaviour and what make him to commit maybe he has seen some qualities in you because men expect some qualities in a women before they makes some moves to approach a lady, but we ladies should be very wise with men because most of them are self centered people.
1030097
i'm not sure what you are saying.\n\nHave I seen a girl, thought she was "weird" and then later found out that I had feelings for her? \n\nI suppose so, people's feelings change all the time.
594996
It is learned behavior...they are trying to perfect the husband or future husband. I don't know why some women are compelled to do this...the person that they were originally drawn to will just slowly diminish and then there will be a chasm that will be between them. If you love someone, then let them be the person that you fell in love with. Trying to change a person into what you feel is the suitable mate, is a waste of time and emotions. Being a female, I know that my opinion may not carry that much weight..but not every woman wants perfection in life.
315805
I got my guy to notice me by being MYSELF. If you have to change the way for a guy to like you than hes not worth it.
55723
yes be yourself about how you fell and dont let that change my girl is like that and i respect that and i am that way to. so dont let them change you
281755
They think that they are going to win you fast. Don't do it girl......... it might be one if his trick to get you to like him or they might do it for money or a bet. For the one that you are with know and you really love him  don't dump him keep on the relationship and for as far as you know you might end up together forever.
1117346
hey....dude......this guy did something like that to me once. he would stare and compliment me and stuff.he started being nice to my friends because he liked me. for a while he was all i tlked about and i thought i was in love. no love isnt something like that you need to get to know this person before u think of love.
201676
Thats kinda the point... to give yourself over to love is to ask the other personal to guarentee you certain things, that they wil stay with you and faithful and not hurt you because now you love them, they're the only one who can hurt you. Giving someone that power over you is how you show them you love them, letting yourself be vunerable is what underlines how important it is to you. weird, huh?
252424
Usually that's the kind of thing guys say when they are thinking of you in the long term. Maybe he wants to marry you or thinks your relationship could go that way.  It really depends on the context of when he said it to you what it actually means. If it was me I would ask him.
226569
when you know that is the person you want to be with and they feel the same way about you
122008
you can love a person all you want but if they dont feel the same you just have to move on, it might hurt (it will hurt), but in time you will find someone that will feel the same and that is better.
693709
he treats you like a queen...\nhe never disagrees...\n\nso...\nhe must be in love with you to act like that...\nhe is on the same page with you but he has a weird way to show it....