Guys, Am I getting this right??Is it bout SEX??
911955
not all guys are sex fiends. he might actually care for her and respect her enough to wait untill she is ready
937694
You are so right.  I hate to see girls answer questions about problems us guys have with our equipment.  I think most are trying to be funny or trying to get 2 points.  As far as your worrying about sex, just forget about everything and have fun with it because that is what it was made for.  We all have certain times when things don't work like you want them to work, but they usually are far and few so relax my friend, and enjoy!
157749
Sometimes a guy needs something a lil different be what he wants but only during sex , you may be surprised at how good your sex life will get . Just try it once youwill see . Talk to him during intercourse make sure he is also gettin satisfied .Intercourse is very awesome if both are into it .
630446
Explain to your boyfriend how intense your feelings for him are. My guess is he feels the same way that you do. Trust me if they guy loves you and you and him are both ready for sex hes not gonna turn down an oppurtunity...or u 2 could take a road trip to a snowy area and have sex there...tht could always work 2 :)
156142
He needs to concentrate more on you.  It's not all about him finishing it's more about the intimacy between the two of you.  Be sure your needs are met before it's his turn.  Concentration is the key...
654671
Girl, you are sprung!!!! Yes, I understand he is laying the pipe right but, you aren't the only girl that he is laying pipe for and you should be. No matter how long you have been together or if the sex is good you shouldn't settle for less than what you deserve and you deserve someone who is going to be faithful to you. There are more guys out there that know how to lay pipe, move on. Don't sacrifice your happiness for good sex.
274540
being a guy myself, i can tell you its not too complicated to get our mojos goin. actually, 99% of the time its suprisingly easy. if all your lookin for is sex though, dont use the "L" word right away, or ever, or whatever you want to do.
458782
You will know, its in how he responds to you, how he longs to spend his time on you.  How you know its not just about sex because he would just as much appreciate an evening of cuddeling by the tv with a good movie on.\n\nYou will know, and if by some chance down the road you find that he is not, then enjoy the experiences you had with him, and continue to enjoy your life :)
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
483578
join the club honey. i'm with a guy that wants us to be friends one week and then friends with benefits the next wekk....well, it really does suck to only be wanted for sex, but at the same time....he aint going anywhere else for it is he. if you're comfiortable in that type of relationship...then go for it
230806
Slow the process down.  I dunno, but it sounds to me like you're trying to rush the process.  Add talking to sex.  Have him describe in the dirtiest of details what he's doing to you as he has sex with you.  It's a known fact that guys have a dirty mind.  Use it.
695731
I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
333975
WOW. You really have to think... is this guys "small problem" something you want to live with? To me it sounds like you already know the answer. Sex has its part in a relationship and no matter how big of a part you want it do be, (no pun intended) it is still there. If you are not satisfied then keep him as a playmate (maybe he can perform good in "other" ways), but keep your options open. If your not happy, your not happy. So don't BS your self.
403450
Only you know if you are really ready, and the fact that you are asking this question leads me to believe that you aren't. Sex can be wondeful, but if you have to guess if he is going to stick around, makes me think that perhaps you are not ready for the emotional consequences that could result in this encounter. If he really wants to be with you he will wait. If he doesn't then you know your answer.
350497
It seems that he likes you. Have you came out and told him that you liked him? Do you want this relationship to go further? Maybe he is afraid to say something. Or maybe he is just us to have casual friendly sex with you if he knows that he can count on you. If you want to know just ask him.
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
47465
"now seems like he only pays good attention to me in bed" - That would be your problem. I have no insight into the mind of your boyfriend. However, I would say (coming from another man) that he is after just one thing. Then again, perhaps I am wrong. It is hard to be sure about such a concept when it is through a written medium and we've never met the person. Good luck anyhow.