A man and his ever-nagging wife?
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Ladies now u know don't nag him.
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male/divorced \nIt is not abnormal but if it is causing problems and he still does it he has an issue.
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He's an overgrown baby who's still attached to his mother's womb.  TRUST ME when I say that your marriage will be hell if he doesn't separate himself from them and get his own life.
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As much as someone annoys you or is rude cheating really isn't the answer.\n\nHave you tried talking to your wife about why she is acting this way? What about marital counseling? \n\nDivorces aren't fun and sure as heck are not pretty. So before you go down that road make sure that's what you really want.\n\nIf you feel that is the way to go then I would go consult a lawyer and start taking the steps needed. No reason to drag it out - especially if you've already moved on.
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yeah...myhusband nags more than i do, and im the woman!  he gets mad about EVERYTHING.  helping me with the garbage, with dishes, cleaning, always looking over my shoulder and asking my why im doing what im doing and getting mad because i tell hi to leave me the hell alone or dont answer.   whats up with it?!
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Do they say to beat their wife........IS it religion???
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Someone's Husband, Son and so forth.........really I have no idea
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Dave,\n\nYes, marriage is hard work for both spouses You each have to give 110% into the marriage. If you are having some issues about what is happening in your relationship and I believe that what you have written you do, I would seek the advice of a marriage counselor for both of you.\n\nFrom what I am reading into your question, it appears that your wife views that you are the cause of her unhappiness. Your discussions and arguments need to be focused on what is going on in the relatonship not about about blame and shame. There are some communication tools that you can use in your conversations with your wife that may be helpful.\n\nThis requires that you develop the skill of detachment. If you can keep your emotions under control, then you can share with your wife what you see is happening and how you feel about it. Here is an example: " Honey,I love you very much and only want the best for us. Because I want the best I am sharing this with you now, When you continually find fault with everything I do, I become frustrated, confused, angry, and hurt. I know that we are both human and that we both love each other. Can we sit down and see how we can we work things out.\n\nThis may or may not work depending on what is the cause of your wife's behavior. Regardless, you need to take control of your own behaviour and detach from your wife. If you work on yourself and become the best person you can for you, not for her then you will begin to feel good about who you are and not rely on her for your feelings of self worth.\n\nI wish you well! Surround yourself with a support system of friends who can be there for you in this time of diffculty.\n\nThere may come a day when you have to say: Honey, I love you very much and want to stay married to you. It seems however that you are unhappy in this relationship with me. If you do not want to stay married to me let me know and because I love you, I will let you go.
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LOL\nYour husband pissed you off or something?
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Unmarried man and woman.
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HE IS A PUNK FOR DOING THAT TO HIS WIFE.
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Nope, he's married to a lady. Of course, that's hardly proof. LOL. But my vote is No.
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You SERIOUSLY sound like you have major issues with your wife, from seeing all the questions you've asked. For one, get a life or, two, for God's sake, get a divorce or something instead of just bantering every hour uselessly about your wife.
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I'm not sure if he is unhappy in his marriage.  The reason I say that is because happiness is very relative to each individual.  We all have our needs, desires ... what makes one person happy may not make give another person the same sensations.  The key is finding out what is going on with the other person, what makes that person happy or satisfies that person.\n\nIn this case, you may have to find out what he does when he calls these numbers ... well, I suppose we can all guess what is going on here.  But the approach, to have him stop, does not answer the question.  Perhaps it's an obsession, or a very strong desire.  Perhaps there are things that he likes that he would not dare ask you to do, out of fear of rejection, or being considered sick or unhealthy, or a freak.\n\nOne important step in understanding is acceptance.  You would have to be willing to hear something that you don't want to hear, and not react in a way that instills whatever fear or rejection he may anticipate.  There is quite a bit of undoing that has to be done ... I'm sure that this issue has come up time and again, and he is trying to find ways to hide it from you, but still fulfill his desire to satisfy you.\n\nWhat he needs is help.  He needs someone who understands him, accepts him, and can help him.  I'm not sure if he realizes that or not ... I'm not sure how he views the marriage, or his / your philosophy, how your marriage is viewed by your religion, etc, but I do think that something is wrong.  Counseling gets a really bad rap ... there are alot of counselors out there that really shouldn't be counseling people.  That may be a course of action for both of you.  If you go, my thought is that you should both be willing to explore options and alternatives with an open mind.  He may not know why he does what he does ... he may not want to face that what he does is rather despicable in a marriage ... he may be lying to you to keep from hurting you.  This may not make much sense, but it may be the only explanation he has.  It probably has little or nothing to do with you, or the marriage to you, but it may be something that compells him ... but ... only if he feels that he needs help will he be able to receive it ... whether from you, a counselor (recommended), friends, family, etc.\n\nNo, you are not wrong ... the betrayal stems across many areas ... he must be willing to be accountable for his actions, to be corrected.  If this is not possible, or he is unwilling to be honest and seek correction, then stronger measures should be taken.  Remember, keep the mind open ... stronger measures doesn't mean divorce.
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A man and a woman, and some other people!
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Isn't the fact that he is apparently married enough of a reason?
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Always the man unless the woman insist