what do you guys look for in girls? and what do you girls look for in guys?
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~WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN~\n   A cute/hot guy looks for big boob girls, sexy body, nice look, and good sex.\n   A normal, just want sex guy looks for good sex, pretty everything, big boobs, and good kissing girls.\n   A person that doesn't care about sex like smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes pretty, caring, good personality, and some others in a women, counting purfume smell as a maybe.\n~WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN~\n   A like sex lady/women/majesty would like her men to be good at sex, hot/cute, have a big penis, likes tumbling naked either outside in a nice field or under sheets, and she usually likes men that have soft lips for good kissing.\n   A women/lady/majesty that is popular/well known may vary because if it's nice, it would like guys that are smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes cute, caring,and have a good personality. But, meaner ones like guys that are hot/cute, good kissers, and sometimes, very SEXY!\n   Ones that are calm will like the same things as men that don't care about sex or kissing or being naked.\n\nhope this helped or met your expectations!!
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i prefer a girl who makes me laugh, and to do that, you need to be smart, i mean, if shes really nice looking, its an added bonus, obviously, when i first meet someone it the first thing i notice, but once i talk to someone for a bit, i relized that its the personality that i like best.  smarts are an essential part to a personality, tho, most guys, im sad to say are shallow jerks, so not everyone will feel the same way as me, but yea, smarts and personality are more important to me than looks, especially if im looking for a long term relation ship, i want someone to talk to, i cant talk to their chest, so they had better have more than that.
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Not all girls are. But you have to ask yourself, are you superficial.  A lot of guys in your position look for a hot chick, when there could be a perfect girl for you that isn't the most beautiful or the skinniest.  If you aren't superficial then you'll find her eventually. If you are, prepare for heartbreak.
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how hard is it to find the right guy?  it would be easier to find the person we wanted in our lives if we knew what we were looking for.  So make a list of what you want in a woman and go from there.
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As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
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Personally, I'm not shallow. Sure, a nice body isa  great addition, but I could never like a mean hot girl. I want personality. I want opinions, I want a sense of humor, I want a general kindness and a defensive attitude for everything she cares for. I'd like a girl who was strong, resilent and able to get back on her feet if life throws her.
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I dont.. I look for a woman with intellect and some sort of success in life and a good head on thier shoulders.... Not a sex object!!! Sorry but not all guys are like that...\n\nA lot of men a shallow thats why I guess.
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well..it depends wut kind of blondy girls u look for...and wut type of guys u r...hehe..
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I'm assuming "we" is a guy.  The most important thing is to be  yourself.  You're the most comfortable when yourself, and so that brings out confidence, intelligence, humor, and all the other good stuff girls look for in a friendship.
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I don't know about other guys, but I like a girl that's attentive. If she is preoccupied with the rest of the world and is easily distracted then she probably will not make a good companion or mate. I think guys notice these things because it shows discipline for the future and when a woman treats me like there is no other guy on the planet it means a lot.\nA nice smile and good heart are a plus also
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Looking for confidence, self-assurance, self worth...those are all things I look for in a woman.\n\nShe does not have to be the prettiest woman in the room, having equal intelligence, looks, and self-confidence are important issues too.
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depends on wether you mean "boys" or men. i think that its truly not as superficial as the other answers make it out to be. i look for someone that is fun to be around, trustworthy, smart (smart is sexy), clever, a good sense of humor, chic, and beautiful. in the order listed.
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honesty, sweetness, romance, surprise, trustworthiness, a genuine caring attitude, sense of humor, strong sense of family, a good work ethic (not too lazy), fun\n\ni also think it's great when a guy really likes music, won't be afraid to dance with you, not ashamed to hold you in public, not afraid to meet your friends or introduce you to his, takes care of himself, smart, likes to read, likes to cook (or try to cook for you anyway). \n\ni probably missed more qualities... but that's what i want in a man anyway =)
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I want a girl, who gets up early and stays up late.. with finger nails that shine like justice and eyes that burn like cigarettes.. w/ a short skirt and a Long Jacket-cake  j/k ..lol \n\na girl that takes care of herself, both physically, emotionally (limited drama) = low maintenance. who is reasonable, personally respondsible & accountable.\n\na girl with life goals beyond the generic marriage & kids (important, but needs to want something more in life). optimistic, passionate and self motivated.\n\na girl who understands her selfworth ( self respect & confident) importance of humility, and selflessness. \n\nbeyond that..(which I know is alot) I really seek someone who has a great imagination.. artistic, a manic creative.
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Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
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I like a girl with a little attitude, personility, honest, and funny. As far as looks go, as long as you feel comfortable with that person then I am good. A girl must have at least some of those qualities
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You don't have to be perfect! Evaluate your good points and your bad points, then try to improve on whatever bad points that you think you can. \n\nIf you want to know what many females look for in a man, then my answer would be............most women look for a man that is honest. loving, fun, respectful,faithful, good morals and values, ambitious, caring, good sense of humor and has respect for themselves. =-)