Oh my god...embaressing night! I NEED your ADVICE!?
930700
If you were excessively drunk your speech was probably slurred and your whole persona would have been altered. I'm sure he would have been able to tell that you were not yourself. But be careful, he might think you drink Too much.
783951
Laugh and forget it.  I did that once.  Everyone thought it was a riot.  It won't hurt you so just chalk it up to experience and have a good laugh!!
545697
Why does everything has to become a creepy drama?.  Confidence is ur greatest weapon for attraction, keep that in mind.  So in order to let her know u know what u want ( confidence), talk to her out of the blue one day, about anything with little importance but in a funny, flirting kinda way, then just drop the line, like it is no big deal ( cause it really isn't) " by the way , there's this thing at that place... i think u will enjoy it, specially with my company"  and let her be the one that, points out the details of the outing!.  have a good one. SUAE
367560
Just don't let her know what day the surprise is on ... and tell her that things didnt work out well for ur surprise & that it'll have to be planned out better, but when its planned out completely you'll tell her. Well .. the night of the concert (or whatever) just out of no where .. ask her to go to the store w/ u or something & just drive there or drive to the store & ask her to get in the glovebox for ur wallet or something ... have the tickets in there w/ a bow around them ... & tell her whats up!
802619
So tell your boyfriend you have social anxiety and if he notices any akward moments or whatever to jump in and save you from embarassment. I wouldn't be drinking much at all or you might end up saying something you regret lol. Good luck!
328464
Oh, that's hairy  lol\nEverybody else is right.  It's over and done with, and there's nothing you can do about it now.  He was probably just as shocked as you were.\nSo you have to see his parents tomorrow....\nWell, that's gonna suck, and you'll probably turn bright red, avoid eye contact, and be very silent.  At least, that's probably would would happen to be if I were in that situation.\nAside from that, relax about it.  Within a couple hours everything should be just as it was before, even though your conscience makes you want to blush like hell  :-)
276699
Sit him down and tell him seriously.  Don't listen to these clowns and make it sound like you're on the bi bandwagon and cheap and sleazy.  Chances are he'll be into it, but if you tell him gently there'll be less a chance of him being shocked and feeling slighted.  AFTER you've told him gently and the two of you have talked about it like mature adults then y'all can have fun.  Good luck!
684428
when he comes in do your little chat then trow in a "so are you heading out tonight"do it in a casual tone of voice, he will tell you where hes going and will 99% sure ask you "what about yourself" you let him know what night club your going to but play it all innocently as if your just being civil then when your out that night i bet you he will be there then... then ye both will have a few beers on ye your inhibitions will be gone and you can begin to flirt oh and generally us lads visit a shop a lot if we fancy the person working there but he is prob afraid of rejection so he is draging it out SO BITE THE BULLET WHEN YE MEET. BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
595487
First off Id make sure you are prepared for the repercussions of it. A drinking contest....hmmm Im wondering if you know of another way to have a good time. Say perhaps, chilling with a few drinks, being somewhat sober enough to snag the ladies, letting your pals do the heaving drinking contest. Let them be the ones who pass out and miss all the fun. \n\nLets say you do this.....uhh ok. Now what? So you won....ok won what? A drinking contest? laughs. Pahleeeze. You want to win something then make sure you can walk and talk so as to get the ladies and chill and be able to walk around and know what it going on. Trust me, us girls loathe a drunken idiot. \n\nIf you decide you just cant tear yourself away from the drinking contest the eat alot of veggies and meats beforehand. Then take some chasers. They are pills you can get at any local health food store. They will help to absorb the alcohol.
956664
how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
1120258
Just make it increasingly uncomfortable for them - they'll get the message.   I've seen that happen (to me) and it didn't take long to figure out that I wasn't welcome... I moved on to greener pastures. \n\nYou might start by turning over a new leaf and changing a bunch of stuff around - then just keep on mentioning one more little thing...    \n\nLeave some apartment finder guides around the house too. \n\nCheers!
38355
a quick infusion of alcohol should work for the night then tommorow go start you a new family,\nand things should turn out better, glad i could help.
274954
calls\npartners\nare you saying you are a man of the night ???\nok dont answer the phone ..\nmove, go on a vacation... good luck
194417
Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
953758
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
806754
depends what impression you wanna give babe and what type of places your going. first one though go for something, classy and sexy, but not too much. or go for something similar to the style you were when you met him it obviously atracted him. most of all though what you feel comfortable in if your uncomfortable it could ruin your night and you dont want that.x
831828
I would genuinely apologize for saying something that offended him and assure him that it won't happen again ---- and then let the ball be in his court. Also, you might mention that his actions in that situation won't be tolerated either. Just watch out for this guy -- he seems kind of like a loose cannon. And definitely one of those people that can "dish it, but not take it" --- just apologize and see what happens. Good Luck!