My girlfriend has kind of a low butt and wide hips but she's not at all fat........................?
924190
well what you do is you ask her  i like your pants what brand is that and were did you get them so she will tell you and she is going to think you are werid but in the end she will be happy because you got her new pants!
841006
My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.
981477
No, she isn't overweight and neither of you need to diet. HTH : )
613471
You're in the exact same boat as me. I'm very pear shaped and my thighs and butt are my problem.  I still find that spefically strengthening my core in general is working. The trick is to do very high reps with LOW weights. A girl with big thighs does not want to do high weight and low reps.  They recommend the highest amount of weight you can do but still complete 3 sets of 15 reps. If you can't complete that many, reduce your weight.
899354
Don't worry about it.......it's kind of shallow to tell someone they don't have a butt.........it's not what makes you who you are now is it?         A very sweet man in my life doesn't have a butt but he sure makes me laugh and has the nicest smile!  And I luv him lots!
930913
Just depends on the booty girlfriend
1068127
I am in the same boat. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i want him to lose weight too.  He is very lazy when it comes to walking so the benifit i have, is i cook him less fatty foods and don't buy as many sweets now .  I have told him im going for a walk and he has actually came a few times.  The problem is as a guy he don't care. Women tend to me more watchful with their weight. As in your case she may not really care neither what people think of her. So the first step is to see how she feels about her weight.  If she would like to lose some weight then u got the cat in the bag and can start helping her.  If she doesnt' care, well believe me she probably isn't going to try to lose any weight. It sounds like you haven't been together real long so i would give it sometime yet and see.  She may surprise you.  Let the relationship develop a little more before jumping into that.  I wish u all the luck .
863466
Can't stand a woman with a defined six-pack.  Love a woman with a low fat almost flat abdomen.  A woman should look more like a woman than like a man.  And that means some curves; not u turns and hills, just some curves.
768431
no, her bmi is 18.9, the normal weight ranges from 18.5 to 24.9, so she is quite normal in her weight
1000174
my girlfriend at times!!!!
477198
Sure, treadmill will help. But if you just fat below the waist, I think it's from your body type (pear shaped,big below waistline), it's genetic and you can't change that. Measure the width between your hip bones, is it much wider than your shoulder? All you can do exercise more to keep that parts toned and tight, or reduce your overall weight and size. But the proportion won't change a lot, but the difference will be less noticeable if you're skinny.
188507
hips are bones and you cant reduce bones
638882
Well,I never had a big butt, but I do have naturally big b**bs.So I learned to luv what god blessed me with, besides if you're toned having an average butt is also attractive.
356290
You are too crude!   you make me laugh...\n\n50lbs on an anorexic really can't be 'fat' as you call it...\nbut yeah, dump her..........
326237
im 30 pounds heavier for my body built, my bf still loves me like you love your gf, but he's a bit harsh and mean when he tells me those things, so good thing ya aint putting her down, i agree with the others, join the gym together and eat healthy, if you buy her a nice excercising outfit, she might be inspired to join the gym. that's what my bf did! he bought me one whole outfit from nike, and now i go to the gym 4 days a week.
905209
I think that sounds fine. My wife is 5'4 and 120lbs...so I think "shorter" girls are cute. And 130 is not fat, not even close. I bet you are a very attractive lady.
430959
There are some girls that have a good body but still think that they are fat. That is why some girls don't wear thongs. Also, not ALL  girls are ho's