how do I get the courage to follow my dreams?
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My answer is simple because it work on all aspects of life.\n1.  Write down all the things you want to accomplish.  Do not worry about the how, when, or why's, just write your goals all of them.\n2.  Ask yourself why you want to accomplish these goals (all positive) then list all negative if you don't accomplish these goals.\n3.   Ask yourself what are you willing to sacrefice/give up to accomplish each of your goals individually.   \n4.   Note all the positive people that surround you daily, then all the negative people that surround you, honestly.  Focus only on the positive people and try to stay away from the negative ones because they will hinder your growth.  Did not share your dreams with the negative group because well you know what they will do.\n5.   With each individual goal list all you need to do to accomplish that goal, don't worry about the how's.\nYou will notice without any effort on your part, that all your goal will be accomplished.  I don't know why it works, just that I have accomplish every goal I have listed for the last four years without any effort other listing and keeping my goals in front of me daily so I can physically see them daily.  When the opportunity surface for any of my listed goals I acted immediately without any doubt.  Even when obstacles surface you will find the solution this way as well. \nYou already have the courage, you just need to trust yourself more.  Your mind is a great instrument and will provide you with answers or direct you to sources with the answers.  \nI'm talking from experience, because I just started two new businesses and purchased my first house when I didn't have a dime or a job using this technique.  I was just like you just four short years ago.  Try it out for a year, watch what happens.\nNapoleon Hill " What you can conceive and believe, you can achieve".
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Perform ur own responsibility. Don't think. Act, just now plan and act. Don't waste ur time on thinking and only dreaming some desires. U need to do hard work, be sincere, make out a daily routine and act fast.
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As long as you are following your dream and doing what you feel passionate about there is no such thing as failure, just ways to keep improving the mouse trap.  \n\nAs an example, were the Wright Brothers failures because it took them so many years to develop the airplane?  Not!\n\nFollowing a dream will minimize the impact of the low spots.
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Follow your dreams...because what would make you happier? your parents dreams or your own. No one can take away what you don't give to them. So don't give them your dreams, if there everything you want.
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I've been following my dreams since I was 30 (14 years ago), and have found plenty of happiness and fulfillment.\nIt takes a lot of hard work to build foundations under your "castles in the air," but ultimately, it's more than worth it!
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I;m in the same boat u are and I think u should follow ur heart if u wanna move then move, if u change ur mind go ahead its what makes u well u. I have a feeling a lot of people are fickle about their future just too scared to admit it. Good luck on whatever u may do.
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with respect sweetheart ( and i am all for praying and believe in God ) but ...\nif you have dreams .... make them happen !\ndont give in .. dont blame God for not making them happen ..\nyou can do anything YOU set your mind to .... keep dreaming and following those dreams xx\n\naw sorry to hear about your son Rori ... love to you guys .. i do understand how hard that is when all you want is your loved ones to be well and i could do the " God has a plan thing " but youve heard that all before i am sure ... but dont give up sweetheart xx
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Go for the more logical step with better prospects. After you have worked hard and made money then you have the freedom to follow your dreams!
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please send them your resume and keep checking back with them\nand make a few telephone calls and then send another resume and again keep checking with them\ndo not give up,\ndo research on the computer and get telephone numbers of people who are the important ones to talk to..and go after it and do not ever give up your dreams..\nbecause without your dreams life does not make any sense..go after it..\ngood luck \nand God Bless
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It's tough trying to figure out what to do with one's own life.  At least you're not going to be a greeter at a lousy Wal-Mart!\n\nYou have to choose a field that has always been your life's passion, but have never had the opportunity to pursue the dream.  I know that you have a dream, and more than likely the lives of others have interfered with that goal.  What I want you to do is to sit down some evening with a college course offerings booklet, and with no one around, try to imagine yourself in one of those positions.  As a doctor, a lawyer, an accountant, a nurse, a mathematician, ect.  You can't force it - it just has to come.  And, perhaps, it may take a week, a month, or longer, but when it does you will think "That's the one!  That's my purpose!" Eventually, it will come to you. \n\nRemember, if you can create an image in your mind's eye, your dreams will become reality.\n\nGod Bless, and may peace be with you.
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no go for it. never let being scared or nervous stop you from going after your dreams or goals.\ngood luck
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Dream Big..Just dont count on going and get to comfortable with thought of going cause then it wont happen you have to keep working hard
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Dont be! Me thinks that applies to everybody. Dont feel like that, im sure better things will come your way, im sure it eventually will!\n\nHow does one know where one wants to be in life?\nI cant quite get what you're trying to ask, but let me try :)\n\n--Well, sometimes you dont and stuff just happens untill you are where you are, and sometimes you have to plan things out to get to where you want to be.\n\nHmm...\nIf you really need to see what will come to you in the future, i guess you would have to have a goal or an aspiration... a dream! Lollers, and then take the necessary steps, or make the decisions that you might know will get you there... y'know :-)\n\nHonestly, i myself cant seem to place my self in this world, and even to know exactly what will become of me when i get older.\n\nI have tried to make plans, i have my dreams, but sometimes things just dont work out the way it should be.\n\naaaanyway.\nI suggest you don't let things happen - make things happen. youl know when your there after all those decisions and forks-in-the-road and shat.
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Try and live as an example and be supportive to him for him to follow his dreams.  Some things don't have to be said, a lot of patience and being there through thick and thin, always staying strong and upright can say more than words.
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It's a really good thing that you are conscious of  why you feel that and even better is that you have the will change it. Everything that I could say is theoretically because only you will be who will have to be brave to take the next step. \nYou have to realize that past it's past, we can't live there, there are more because there is always tomorrow.\nYou have to think about what are your motivations, think that it's never late to get your dreams or to make things better for you and your beautiful children.\nAnd one more important thing, there is no reason to believe that you can't be happy, Why not? happiness is there, get it! \nyou're special cause you are a survivor of your tragedies now it's time to be happy and give the best of you to your children.\nGood luck, God bless you.
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Just have courage and you'll start to fell more confident in yourself
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Love is a two way street. If you are truly loved in return, then you won't be required to give up your dreams. As a matter of fact, you will be encouraged to persue them.