how would u react if ur best friend told u that he/she is a homo??
929621
I would feel honored that they thought of me as such a close friend to tell me.
1116724
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
949697
If your not gay, you simply tell him. He'll be hurt, but he should know the truth.
1084248
Quite a sad situation...\nI don't know if J is homophobic, or is still in shock by K's announcement, but it's kind of surprising that he would be so quick to drop one of his closest friends.\n\nI imagine for a gay person to "come out" is one of the hardest things to do - some people you might not be able to aniticipate their reaction - some people have no problem with it, while others might react in a hateful or hurtful way.\n\nI imagine K told you and his friends that he was gay, because he felt comfortable in confiding to the group, and was hoping for you all to support him in his lifestyle.\n\nI'd suggest that you talk to J and ask why he is reacting in such a harsh way to this.  I'm guessing that he be homophobic and is having a knee-jerk reaction to the situation by distancing himself from his gay friend.  Kind of in a "he may be gay, but I'm not - see? I'm making fun of him" sort of way.\n\nIt may come down to choosing between friends in the end of this situation, if J doesn't come around - but remember: Trust is the most important part of any relationship.  K trusted you enough to be honest about who he is, while J took that information to hurt him.  J doesn't sound like much of a trustworthy friend.
690483
tell them you're gay.
540848
Strike up a conversation about someone who is gay and see what their stance is. Then tell them if it isn't too terrible.
694714
Oh get a grip woman!  He stated the guy is a true friend...not that he wants to bang him.  Would you had been bothered if he wasn't gay and had your fiance's picture on his page?  What diff does it really make?  Lets say he did want to bang your fiance...why would that matter?  IF your fiance is not gay NONE of it matters.  Get over it.
836618
First of all I think it is awesome that you are such a good friend to him and will support him no matter what!!!  Some people would just turn their backs on their friend if they found out something like that, which i think is ridiculous.  I think that you should tell him that you have suspected for a long time that he is gay and would just like to know if it was true.  Then just tell him that you will be there for him with anything he needs..a shoulder to cry on, a friend to talk to, or just emotional support...Good Luck
1098380
listen, sometimes the best friend is the one who is your complete opposite. they might know exactly what you feel like even though they haven't had your experiences. just keep your eyes open everywhere, and don't ignore them because they're not christian, or because they weren't gay once.
1124058
Well if your best friend is gay then that means you two dont really have much of a chance.  I guess i would tell him how you feel just to get it out in the open.  It may be easier for you to deal with it that way.  Even tho you may not ever get to be with him, he will still always be an important role in your life.  Boyfriends may come and go for both of you but you'll still always have eachother as friends.
295705
told him what and i am confused he dumped you and she told you your avatar is a guy are you gay is he bi is she a guy too i have a headache
937022
tell him how you feel, and he deffanitly gay.
705359
He could have been confused and tried denying how he really felt... especially since you both are so close it would almost be natural for him since there's already a connection between the two of you.\n\nI doubt he was leading you on and if he wasn't letting anyone know that he was gay there would almost be no way of you knowing.  He probably feels worse than you do right now and he might even be thinking be that he did lead you on in some way.  \n\nThe only thing I can say is that the longer you wait to talk to him again the more ackward things are going to be.  The sooner you get things out in the open and talk about it, the quicker everything will go back to normal.\n\nI'm bi and I actually had a similar expirience with a friend of mine who was gay.  We use to work together and he was always touchy feely; I assumed maybe he was bi like me... needless to say I was wrong.  (Even though I now know he is as gay as gay can be, he's got this thing with boobs lol, which I guess all guys do.)  \n\nI felt stupid for a long time but I didn't want my misunderstanding to affect things between us.  We talked about it and I realized that it wasn't an option to be his lover but "friends" aren't bad either.  I knew that keeping him as a friend meant I wouldn't lose him and losing him was the last thing that I wanted to happen.\n\nEverything is fine now and we're still really good friends.  Don't think that you're the first girl to fall for a gay guy because that's not true at all.  You get a man with the caring part of a woman... all straight ladies want that!!!  Just talk to him and let him know that no matter what you're going to continue to be there for him just as he will be there for you.
669270
it depends on how he makes fun of you. is he laughing at you or with you? just were a pull-up bra and when you ask him ether he says yes or he is gay.
1070865
Get better friends, I don't mean that in a harsh way but if this friend  knows your brother is straight but keeps acting this way towards him it just seems to me that He is Not being a very good Friend at all Gay or Straight
695152
Simply put, would you tolerate any of your girlfriends hitting on your boyfriend?  Treat this "friend" the same way.  Just because he is gay, does that give him special privileges?
299173
my best guy friend is gay