I jus found out that my girlfriend went to a movie with another guy and they kissed. She says she is sorry?
919667
yes of course, at least she has been very honest
157827
Well...it probably has to do with the fact that you are supposed to be in a committed relationship with her and ONLY her, unless of course you two had a before mentioned agreement to having an "open" relationship, but I doubt this is the case...  Put the shoe on the other foot bro, and think how you would feel if the roles were reversed and she was the one cheating on you.  Maybe if you see things through her eyes for a few moments you will be more careful with the way you are treating this poor girl’s emotions and heart.  However, If that doesn't convince you to change your ways, why don't you just do her a favor and cut her loose now to save her any future heartbreak.
416215
So you like girl one.  you are wasting you're time with the other girl.  Be nice when you tell her you just want to be friends and make sure you make it clear it wasn't anything she did that made you break up with her.  That way even though she will be heart broken, niether of you will be in a relationship that is a lie and isn't going anywhere.
915282
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
673501
I feel sorry for you.My advice is, identify the reason why she did it,also ask your self I am faithful and am I the person who she feels comfortable and secure?After you answer these questions, you can decide.If there is any weakness on your side,(I am not talking about the sexual thing) you better forgive her from the bottom of your heart and leave peacefully.
1076537
It wasn't "wrong," per se. More like bad timing. It also sounds like she may be having second thoughts about the kiss and is using the money as an excuse to justify her internal regret. Have you tried to explain to her what you explained here? It may help to give her some time and then try to write a letter in a card explaining things. It never hurts to try.
893255
Your big mistake was telling your gf  that it was your ex that taught you how to tongue kiss, and maybe you shouldn't of told her you couldn't eat for nine months after she broke up with you...or maybe it was the fact that you told your sex life with your ex ''to the women your suppose to love'' this women has never had a relationship with another male before you '' not even a kiss'' yet you took it upon yourself to hurt her as a women and wife to be...yeah from your suppose to be soul mate...no wonder i get angry with you...let the ppl answer your question with all the truth ''over and out''
661263
You tell her that what she did truly hurt you, and see how she reacts.\n\nIf it doesn't seem like she's really sorry or just doesn't seem right, tell her you were JK and you're surprised she took the bait. (Lie, but it saves face and makes her mad. Spite is a sin, however.)\n\nIf she seems genuanly (Spllng?) sorry, it should all be good. Just remember, Her BF has priority, she herself proved that.
273530
If she wasn't going to tell you and couldn't even be honest with you when she was going out on that date, I'd say you did the right thing.  You can't build a life together if there are secrets and lies.  And to me, omission is as good as a lie.
1169666
well, spend more time together. then maybe at the end of the date, ask her if she still wants to see you, because she likes another guy a little bit. i mean, she probably likes you better because she has been on dates with you, but just ask her. you will get a truthful answer, and just see how it goes. friend, or girlfriend. good luck
997451
i do not think you are stupid at all, you must really love her I mean real, true, deep love to forgive her for that. since she cried so hard and begged your forgiveness, and since you are the only person she opens up to, it means that she does love you. don't think because she cheated she dosn't love you, it has to do with something that you weren't giving her thus she had to look elsewhere. This could be sex, attention, love, support, a million different things to be real. if you really want to work this out then you have to be willing to forgive and forget. you also need to have a serious talk with her about why she cheaated. Just simply ask her why, what was her reasoning. if you want to ensure that she dosn't cheat again then you have to make sure that you are giving her what she needs and fulfilling your part of the relationship deal, but if she cheats again, its over, and there is no hope. I just went through the same thing except im the one who cheated and he said he would forgive me but then he didnt act right read my last question for what happened cuz now he wants me back that im gone. he is B in my question if you want to take a look. Good Luck to you. Hope I helped.
1122598
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
702772
Is she your girlfriend or is this just a second date?\nIf she is your girlfriend, it doesn't matter where you go, as long as you enjoy being with eachother. She doesn't even need to your girlfriend. Again, as long as you are enjoying your time together, it doesn't really matter where you go. Just be with each other!
516293
It's not fair to your girlfriend if you don't think it's going to work out. You THINK you love her? You do or you don't. You need to figure out what is going on w/your girlfriend before you start planning for this other girl. Not wanting to hurt someone is not a good enough reason to stay w/them-that sounds harsh, but you'll just end up resenting her.
675132
I think you have every reason to be upset with her. Just the fact that she snuck off and went on a date, she knew she would be hurting you, a friend tries to help another friend, keep them from being hurt.. doesnt sound like a friend to me. If she really cared she would have talked to you about it first.
13457
If you only met her once, are you sure she is your girl friend?  Maybe she hasn't called you because she found a new guy.  Sorry.
1121263
An ex girlfriend or another girlfriend? If it's another girlfriend you are two-timing player and it's no small issue. She needs to kick your ass to the curb.