Is it true that a boy n a girl can never be bestfriends?
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2 me it seems like HE wants to be the bf of urs and nobody else. Thats why he always make u spend time with him when u r in a relationship, because he thinks it should be you and him or JSUT you. and thats also why he tlks about other girls, because he thinks that if he does you'll get so jelous of wanting to b the one he's tlking about that it'll FORCE you to go out with him. thats never happened to me so irdk but thats wut i think.\nHOpe things get better,\nAlex
777567
No it's not just you this is a pretty big age difference for a guy to want to be a good friend with a girl of this age.  Hope that he isn't using her for any other reason than friendship as young girls that age are so vunerable.
317376
a girl always want a guy that she can't have, it's weird that way. i'm not like that because i can't share a man with anyone.
745598
I think that boys just like girls can have personal bonds and affectionate friendship.Though they show it in different ways,i like that boys tend to be more physical than girls.well actually i am just saying from my personally experience.\nWhy they are considered gay,well just like girls,boys have this labels about how they should act.Like girls should be more sensitive and guys physical and not emotion and affectionate.So when they show their other side they get stereotyped just girls are when they act like a boy should.
222738
as long as ure born then u can have a boy freind im sure that u have boys that r ure friends!!!!!!!!
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
922686
Your best friend will never judge you, take advantage of you or treat you badly.  She/he will not talk about you behind your back, they would drop everything if you needed them.  They will be the one sitting next to you when you get in trouble to lend you their shoulder to cry on.  You have tons of fun together and you share many great memories.  You trust one another, you would never choose a boyfriend/girlfriend over your best friends.  Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but best friends are for life.
523737
no. there is no friendship without love be it the same sex. in the case of the opposite sexes somewhere and someplace there will be fatal attraction!
804203
sadly if  you have to ask this then i would say no they dont .. when you have a best friend you will know it and dont feel bad because what most people dont realize is that you are very lucky to have ONE best friend in your whole life time... i found my best friend 7 years ago and then 2 yrs ago she died and i am still lost with out her but she taught me so much and from the first time we sat and talked we knew we were best friends by chance sisters in heart.......
403405
Not all boy does that. I think it's a misunderstanding because maybe the girl keep hiding their feelings and emotions away from their love one.
717031
No, there are rules to dating your best friends ex you know. That would just be wrong.
841797
Yes, my best friend since highshool (I graduated in 1971) is a guy.  We did date a couple of times but nothing ever came of it.  We valued our friendship too much to let romance get in the way.  We stil meet for lunch or coffee whenever he is working (owns his own construction company) near where I work.  I'm even God mother to his youngest daughter.  Yeah he's married too.
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Yes. u r right.Its impossible.\nits all happening in frictions and fantasy cartoon movies only.\nIf any girl trying to control the evils, it will be ended as a disaster.\nshe have to loose her virginity, pride, atlast her life.
656224
No it's not true. Yes, a lot of friends can be lovers but lovers are supposed to be your friends too. That's what love encompasses too, friendship and unconditional understanding and love towards each other.
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I had a best friend for like 2 years and we did alot of great things together and I use to get so mad at my hubby cuz he kept saying " this guy wants more than u as a friend" over and over and over.  Well he was always great and never once hit one me.  BUT my hubby WAS right- all that time he was just hoping and praying my hubby and I would seperate- and he was just kinda waiting in line!  It broke my heart when I found out.  He was my FRIEND!  I have trouble believing a guy can just be a girls friend without occasionally WANTING MORE from her.  Its just natural for guys to be attracted to girls.
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You cant "make" a best friend. That means that u r the one trying to be friends. That means u are striving to stay friends with the person. A best friend should be someone that u understand. Someone that matches u in almost every way. Some one that is easy to talk to and dont have to impress. Dont worry, u will find one eventually, I believe in you.
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Yes, as long no physical attraction develops.  Once the girl or the guy wants to date the other person, it becomes difficult to maintain the friendship.  The person knows he/she has feelings for him/her, so it may become uncomfortable.