What can you do for being so hateful due to your period?
917756
I pretty much just have to warn my husband that I am PMS'y, lol. I get extremely mean as well. It has taken years, but I finally can say im sorry right after I say something mean. It really does make me and him feel better. It's humiliating, but if you can say sorry right after the meanness, it makes for a much happier life and you won't have everyone mad at cha!
990535
First of all you have to be the biggest jerk to say that about yr gf! Do u understand what we women go thru every month the bloating, fatigue, cramps, breast tenderness? What r we going to celebrate rainbows and puppies during that excruciating time? Hell no bc rainbows only come after cold dreary rain and puppies turn into dogs and can bite ppl so u need to practice compassion bc if i were yr gf i would smack u for that bs u just posted! Stick a tampon in yr anus honey and keep it there!
319379
You can get a tablet on prescription from your doctor that will stop your period for that month - they are very sympathetic if you explain - ideal for when you go on holiday as well (can't remeber what the tablet is called).
534564
Only one rule: Wear a tampon and change it when necessary.  Otherwise, you can do what you want and don't be embarrassed if you are a little bloated because you are menstral and its all only natural and out of our control
983823
Cam down! eat some chocolate and you'll be fine. if this is your first period i'm sure you've heard tons of thins about what it can do to you.  ( like mess your body up) someimes it's all just in your head, just chill out and let your  body do it's thing. if you don't wanna be attracted to boys, then that's not a crime. but you're not a lesbian, s don't think that.  your body is just trying to get used to what's going on with your body
1018968
I'm currently teaching my man how to deal when I'm suffering from PMS. Men need know women really do suffer.. The mood swings are beyond a lady's control. \n\nJust dont have a smart mouth. This is the worse thing a man can do.\n\nDONT FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE\n\nAPOLOGIZE A LOT\n\nAPOLOGIZE FOR ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING\n\nAPOLOGIZE FOR NOT HAVING A PERIOD TOO\n\nAgree with her and tell her its OK and please please sympathize and empathize
594303
No! that sounds really serious! Its normal to feel a little sad or pissed off when you have your period but if youre are honestly thinking about taking your own life it sounds like a serious hormone imbalance or just depression in general you should really talk to a doctor about it.
264422
I would change the way they gossip all the time.  I would get rid of that whole period an pms-ing thing. Other wise girls aren't really that bad if you take away those two things.
172215
Find something that alleviates stress like running and playing an instrument. Cry when you need it and dont convert sadness into bitterness.\n\nGoodluck it's common....\n\n\nhttp://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/
597193
First, the best advice I can give you is to speakto your mum. She will be able to buy you some sanitary towels and tell you how to use them, when to change them etc.\n\nIf you get crampy pains in the lower part of your stomach, a hot water bottle often helps, as can a warm bath, or some pain killers. Gentle exercise usually helps as well.\n\nHaving your period shouldn't stop you from doing ANYTHING you would usually do. For things like swimming etc, you can use tampons, although I'd advise you stick with towels just now andjust avoid swimming when you're on your period. Having your period is not an illness and should not be treated as one. It is not an excuse to lie about the house and slack off your chores or anything like that - sorry!! It happens to 50% of the population once a month and if we all treated it as an illness, the world would grind to a halt!\n\nBut seriously, speak to your mum about it. She'll be able to help you out much more than anyone on the internet can.
99001
Try to eat right and do cardio exercising, preferably before your cycle (for obvious reasons). This will cut down on cramps.
754396
Go to the doctor! Here is something.....\n\nWHAT YOU SHOULD DO\nYou may take nonprescription medicine such as aspirin, ibuprofen, naproxen and acetaminophen for menstrual cramps. Use it only as directed. \nIf your doctor gives you a prescription for menstrual cramps, take it exactly as directed. \nApplying heat to your abdomen or back helps ease the pain. Do this for about 20 minutes once or twice a day. Use a heating pad set on low or a warm water bottle, or take a warm bath for 10 to 15 minutes. \nStay as active as possible. Exercise often helps relieve pain. You don't need to stay in bed. \nDon't drink too much caffeine (cola or coffee); and try to keep away from things that cause you to feel stressed-out. \nCall Your Doctor If...\nYour pain is not controlled with medication or lasts more than 3 days. \nYou have pain with urination or bowel movements, or pain that is located on one side only. \nThe medicine you are taking is causing any problems. \nSeek Care Immediately If...\nYour pain is so bad that you can't walk. \nYou have a high temperature, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, dizziness, or muscle aches during your menstrual period.
940441
Well hate is such a strong word.  Occasionally you just need to be slapped around so you can remember you place.  The problem is I don't think you have any women around that can remind you of what your place is.  Sad state of affairs!\n\nSee Ladies this is what happens when we don't give the weird/unattractive ones a chance, they turn into bitter, mean, women hating machines, that take all of the time & energy they would be putting into their 'chick' and vent it out their bitterness on us instead.\n\nI'm sorry dear, I'm sorry you were rejected, but don't you think it's time just to let it go?  Move past that.  Stop being angry & one day if your a very good boy, maybe just maybe you'll meet a nice girl that will date you.\n\nIf your not ready to let go then I encourage you to continue venting!  It will help with the process!!!   You always give me a good laugh.
608683
Depends on the reason you hate people and the world and how often you feel this way, as well as how strongly.  If it is an all the time feeling, then you need to get to the heart of why you really feel that way, and work on what you can do to change it.  Seeing a therapist might help you to get there, but you must make the journey.  I would not suggest talking to a minister about those feelings - I tried that, and was only made to feel worse because of my "sinful" feelings.\n\nIf it is an occasional thing, then it is a normal thing - everyone feels that way from time to time.  Sometimes the emotion is quite intense - in those cases, the best thing I've found to do is to do something to get my mind off whatever is bothering me (FPS games help).
1084478
There is nothing wrong with u. Most of my friends started around that age but i didnt till i was 13. I promise u ITS NOTHING fun...and when u do finally get it, u'll wish u had'nt. All the mood swings, cramps, cravings, AND pads/tampons really suck...im sure ur friend (as well as u, when u get it) will learn 2 hate it very soon! \n\n**however...if u reach ur teenage years and u STILL dont have it, go to the doctor...but as for now...dont worry about it and enjoy period-free life while u got it!
357452
why do u repress it? start expressing it. there is nothing wrong in being angry. if some people around u can not tolerate it they have to leave and they re not your real friends. be yourself and show your feelings. those who love u for what u re can tolerate a lot trust me.
758883
OMG YES!!!!!!! i had the worst periods ever, and i started having my periods when i was 9! i would take advil or some kinda asprin and it just wouldn't work and sometimes i would puke them up! heating pads work for people but they didn't work for me.. i would burn my skin with the heating pad cuz i would need it at a high temperture and i would throw up all the time and have to take two to three days outta school each time i had my period. i tried everything! i had to go to a gynocologist to try to do something about it and their last solution was to make me go on a mild dose of birth control pills. when i got the birth control pills, it helped alot. for some reason birth control pills help.\n\nso if they are bad, i would tell ur parents and talk to a doctor about it.. they might recommend u for a gynocologist to perscribe you some pain killers specifically for period pains\n\nbut try thermacare heat wraps (at cvs or any store like that).. they are good for when ur moving alot like if ur on a sport team or something and maybe this painkiller for periods called midol (i heard from people that's good too)\n\ngood luck!