I have a best friend he will come over and eat all my food then leave maybe an hour later what should i do?
917496
The best way to solve this is by being honest with that person. Maybe you can talk to your friend and let him/her know how you feel about this. Just stay calm and talk to your friend. If you don't say a word to your friend about this..then that behavior might continue because he/she thinks it's ok with you. Good luck.
797063
Stop doing everything for him and give him a taste of what it would be like if you weren't around.  He is using you, wake up!
104272
Some people make bad first impressions.  Then it turns out that they are one of your best friends.  So I think you should give him a second chance.\n\nHowever, Let your "man" know what that guy did to turn you off and have him to tell Chris to be more respectful of you in your own home.  If Chris isn't a different person on Friday, then tell your man that you would prefer that he didn't come around anymore.
771088
Get him out of the house and fast if his g/friends parents adore him so much he will have a bed to sleep in and tell him no coming back to live till he learns what respect is......organise  one night a week where he comes over for dinner,him only to start then eventually the girlfriend and if anything starts show him the door. He will eventually learn dont bite the hand that feeds you
213921
Stop being nice about it.  Put everything in a box, take it to his place and leave it on the porch.  There you go- done and he doesn't have an excuse to come back over to your place.
27448
go up to him smack him on the butt and say when are you taking me out?  . Watch what he does,
527061
I am sorry but it sounds like he is more like a husband or even a super big rotten son, I understand that you wanted to be a good friend to him in the begining but now it sounds like he is spoiled rotten by your kind heat and then to make it sooooo bad he is actually in another relationship with a female who is actually putting up with this crap huh? If you have explained it to him that you no longer can be his part-time "mamma" and not only that, you don't want to be his housekeeper/errand runner or chef no more, you have your own life to live and he is not part of the new plans. If he is really as bad as you say he is then he really isn't your friend, you're just the ex-girlfriend he can treat like crap because that is what he's doing right? Using your kindness as weakness, If his new g/f was really serious about their relationship then she would not be putting up with his disrepect, unless she is smart and knows he's full of sh!t.\nNo!!!! If He was a real friend instead of using you he would be showing apperication for all you have done for him in his time of need. Let this ex-boyfriend go because there is no true love or respect(as a friend). Just what he can keep on getting from you, It's really a shame & sad how there are people in this world who really get off on using others.\nBut whatever you do, don't let this bum make you stop being kind, because there are a lot of people out there that do need and appericate the kindness of others.\nJust keep the ex's in their right place "In your past"
931941
well i think that you shouldn't be getting drunk n e more and if you dew make sure you are in the safty of your own home...also not hang around him again because that is not a true friend cuz a true friend wouldn't try to BONE you.
869834
If I was You!!!! I couldnt deal w/ it. But I guess you already made a decision and U will let him stay until he finds a place to go. But the point here is, how long  it is gonna take for him to find the place? if you R paying for rent and bills is he helping U out??? if he is not I think it will take longer for him to go. Plus if you guys are in good conditions now (as friends) why ruin it??? tell him to move to one of his friend's house because if U guys R not 2gether anymore and U are looking @ him @ your house everyday, doing the same things as a couple but w/out "rights" that is not helping U @ all. I can tell just by your writing that U still care for him a lot, but if it is over, IT IS OVER,  as he is moving out of your life he has to move out of your house. For his b-day you can buy him something (if you havent done it yet) but something simple for U not to feel bad about, but no cake, no party, no special dinner 'cause you dont have to. \n\nGood luck and dont think about him anymore, just think about U and how it will affect you to have him in your house longer, he will soon start dating and U will find that horrible. \n\nHE HAS TO GO NOW!!!!
780242
go ask him out before its too late and also dont wait becuase eat will keep bugging u until u will so get closer as fast as u can
186232
Hide the toilet paper, tooth paste and only leave enough food out or in the fridge for you and any kids. Next time you sit down to eat see how that Carburetor he bought tastes to him that you put on his plate. He will take the hint.
845
first, have a 6' o clock diet- meaning you should try not to eat after 6 pm\nand eat light food and not wait for the main meal if you feel a little hungry eat crackers or fruits so you wont eat much during the three main meal time :)
251498
See best friends dont hesitate to sacrifice so tell ur friend for that or u do.\nThats the friendship
270607
Sit down with him and talk it over. Let him know that there's more than just steak and potatoes on the menue and he'll be begging to place his order pimp.
863778
bring your own food  or you can cook your own meal and explain that you are on a strict diet.  they should understand, if not dump your bf.
1129131
Ask your dad if you can invite them. You dont have to have them eat with you. and if you want to invite your friends go ahead! if they want to invite someone with them tell them i just want you not them. and tell them that i ONLY invited you. so if they bring unwanted guqest kick them OUT!!
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!