I need some information about Viagra, I don't know if my boyfriend has a problem, or if I am the problem.?
914299
There are a lot of reasons why a man can have that particular problem, but it more than likely isn't YOU, okay? My husband has that problem, and he takes viagra sometimes, but he's 52 years old, this is our second marriage. He said he was okay up until about 8 years ago, so it has nothing to do with me. One time I was with a guy who had this problem, and later I found out he had once been a heavy drug user, and it finally caught up with him. I'm not saying this is the case with "him" but there are different reasons it can happen, just don't blame yourself, okay?
36797
Setting aside the fact that he probably doesn't want to, I'm guessing you are in a relationship with an 'unexpressive' man? Even though I personaly don't like the book, "men are from mars, women are from venus" would probably help you out. That aside, showing him that he can trust you completely, and that you understand him or his issues is the first step. If you nag him, he will NEVER open up. Guys dispise that.
333975
WOW. You really have to think... is this guys "small problem" something you want to live with? To me it sounds like you already know the answer. Sex has its part in a relationship and no matter how big of a part you want it do be, (no pun intended) it is still there. If you are not satisfied then keep him as a playmate (maybe he can perform good in "other" ways), but keep your options open. If your not happy, your not happy. So don't BS your self.
3143
Prostate problems can cause major erectile problems, and even problems with ejaculation. And if you are taking meds for bipolar disorder, those almost always cause problems with ejaculation, but not necessarily with erectile function.  You are not in the best of situations, because viagra would probably work well without the bipolar meds. The best course of action is a patient, willing, and caring partner, even if the sex is marginal because of your situation, and understanding and caring partner can help make it very good. A good psychological state and situation can make up for the physical problems - it won't really do much of anything to fix the physical problems, but it can make intimacy more enjoyable. Get creative, and be satisfied with what you've got. A selfish or non-understanding partner would probably not only be extremely stressful and unfulfilling, but probably would tell you a whole lot about them. The most ironic thing is that sexual dysfunction is severly underrearched and not understood very well - particularly physical causes. Until the more recent decades it was almost always assumed to be purely psychological.
1155230
He's the one with the problem not you...rise above it and hopefully your boyfriend will sort it out...if he's the sort worth having!
814652
i know someone that is in the exact same situation as you and it sucks for her too. since getting pregnant is his big worry -tell him you are getting on birth control -if there is no sex after getting on birth control -there is obviuosly something else wrong-my friend's husband had to start using viagra after getting off drugs -because drugs messed up his sex drive and it took her forever to get that he had a problem with a erection for months-becuase it was embarrsing to him -all you can do is ask and if that still does not work you should find someone who wants to give it up to you
455122
Maybe he has erectile dysfunction and doesn't feel like he can talk to you about it.  Maybe it is a similar issue, why do Women always jump the gun, unless you want it to be over and in that case why would you ask us (Yahoo people).  If you are ready to move then don't try and find every little 'bad' thing about your man, just do it.
529258
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585920
A man goes to the doctor and say I can go to the toilet or get an erection. \nSo the doctor say try these laxatives and this Viagra for one week and come and see me again.\nSo the man comes back and the doctor says how was it and the man says it worked great.\nBut now I don't know whether I'm coming or going!
642882
I will ask one question: Do u do it frequently enough for him?\n\n1. If the answer is NO, then he is normal, and u should talk about it coz he is gonna look for the satisfaction somwhere else.\n\n2. If the answer is YES, then  he has a problem. He is obssessed with it and u gonna look for ways on how to make him control this urge.., or do it as frequently as he wants..
741527
No, it is more likely medical than psychological (although it could be either). The first thing he needs to do is go to his doctor, explain the situation, and have a full physical. Men have problems with erections for a number of reasons physically, including diabetes, circulation issues, weight issues, and several other health issues not faced by women. If he is medically OK then you have to address psychological reasons. . . anything from guilt to lack of desire to a bunch of other issues. \n\nMedically there are treatments that are relatively simple.\nPsychological, not as simple. \n\nGood luck.
462039
Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
107409
Have him checked for hiv and std's. Find out if it is a habit. Get yourself checked out for hiv and std's. Decide if this is something you can live with.
753937
How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!
1003520
His testerone level could be low and needs to be checked and also if he has high bloodpressure problems it could have damaged the vessel going to his penis that is restricting the blood flow into the penis  and sometimes viagra may not help or he may have to increase the viagra from 50 mg to 100 mg, there is surgery that can be done but i would not recommned it no matter what, most insurance will not cover it and it is very expensive and painful, i can tell u more about this if u e-mail me at eagleship2000@yahoo.com
929290
What kind of stress is happening in his life? A 19 year old is at his prime and if he can 't get off masturbating something isn't right. I would find out what stress is going on. If there is not anything important enough to to suffer through ED (erectile dysfunction), there might be a prostate problem or something to do with the urinary tract.\n\nAlso, one thing can lead to another. If there is emotional problems it could affect his sexual performance. If it is medical, and can't or won't talk to about it, it might cause a psychological problem. One problem might beget another.\n\nI wish you guys the best of luck! This should be one of the happiest time of your life!
993607
If youre having sex 15 times a day, your girlfriend must have an asbestos f*nny! She'd be seriously hurt by now. Def stop with the laxatives, thats just downrught cruel. Your best bet is to speak to your girlfriend and point out that sex doesnt necessarily mean love. lots of issues here man!