Boyfriend likes to poke verbal fun...?
929892
stop smoking it stinks \njust try it for a week and then smell someone who smokes\nthats what you smell like you just don't know it
858217
Utoh....watch what you say.  Maybe you should bring it up in a light way, like "boy B is such a flirt".  Then let the chips fall where they may.
701087
Chances are that he is just joking with you. Because you never said that him saying that you were stupid offended you, he thinks it is okay to say it. If in fact you do get offended by him saying this then you need to tell him or in the long run you will feel animosity for him repeatably saying it. Just be up front but not overly dramatic about it. The next time he says it just be like,''Hey, stop saying that it hurts my feelings, babe.'' If you say it in a cute way it will make him melt. On the other hand, when you say these things to him maybe he doesn't want you to tell you that it really hurts his feelings because he doesn't know how you will react. All together I would just stop saying those things to him. If it doesn't bother either of you then that's fine too. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
780626
Sounds like to me that he is just being friendly.  Sometimes he's in the mood to play sometimes he's not...don't YOU have changes in moods yourself?  I think you are reading way too much in to his silly flirtations.  Flirting doesn't mean one wants a realtionship, flirting is just being silly, and friendly with someone you hope likes you as a friend.
782246
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
317690
I would love it if my hubby said such sweet endearments to me. But, I must admit to much of a good thing turns into a bad thing. \nJust tell him that he says them so often that you seem like their a programmed response rather than an enjoyment for him to say. Maybe that will help, and he'll tone them down a bit. \nBest of luck to you!
323757
flirt with him, and dont just use words be a little playful, like brush up against him and stuff like that, then he will know.
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
1001896
Remind him of all the times you indulged his little fantasies. Let him know that it's only because you get a kick from it and that it's your little secret. It's not like you're asking him to parade around town in them are you?
221661
So stop it already! Hurting your feelings with what??>....um,.. lemme guess, words? Are you certain that he is doing it intentionally, or do he think he is not. \n\nFeelings get hurt only when we allow ourselves to feel that way.  I strongly believe that you can also choose to not let whatever it is he says hurt you by ignoring him, not taking those times so seriously and tell yourself he is just messing with you, and blow it off- give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts. \n\nBottom line, you control emotions, get upset, feeling hurt,     are controlled by you. You decide what will piss you off and what hurts. Change the way you think and perceive things, don't take things so personally, remember freedom of speech?   \n\nYour bf probably gets a kick watching you get all upset. Dont let him see you hurt or upset, don't let it faze you, like you never heard him, I bet it will stop. \nMaybe you are just being a cry baby? Maybe blow his mind the next time he is hurting your feelings and just crack up laughing hysterically then stop, telling him he is so hilarious. Well, at least you will be laughing, that feels better than feeling hurt, or sad or upset. Is this making any sense at all?\nI hope you understand my point, and you find your way to toughen up your sensitivity.
99673
i have a boyfriend, but i'm not shy to ask him anything. I think communication is important and so does he, so every time i have something to say, even if its awkward, he encourages me to say it and waits until i have the courage to spit it out!
738640
Could be one of the following:\n\n1) Do you have a boyfriend/husband/partner?\n2) Something sexual\n\nIn either case, he's almost certainly flirting with you.
1113817
does he act like he wants to fu.ck.? then he might be flirting
108070
sounds like he wants s*x with you,  the decision is yours   if you dont want to jsut explain to him that you dont if not...have fun ;)
69585
ok.. try this .. im a sort of joking around guy ... k .. if he calls u often then dont talk him in a great tone of voice .. acknowledge his jokes and mischeifs but dont tend to go "WOW " and stuff!! avoid him a bit .. if he stiill wants to talk then u r onto something .. then dont talk to him for sometime (days or weeks ) let him do the talking .. eventually WALLAH!
105537
You have to ask. lol-laugh out loud; bf-boyfriend; gf-girlfriend; omg-oh my gosh; lmao-laughing my ass off