What do you think of Marriage ? Is it Good or Bad ?
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Peoples have become so spoiled to having their ways like children demanding a diet of only candy, we have people losing themselves in their egos waggling their sexuality towards one another saying oh will I be happier?  I must live to be happier.  \n\nNow where are the children in all this?  They have no rights?  They must be bounced around between parents that cannot control their desire to be free to think with their egos and genitalia?  \n\nMarriage is good because it is the business of the humans of this world to build a safe enviornment for the next.  If Marriage becomes obsolete you might as well poison your sisters because they will be used for a year or two here and there and then cast aside by a society that is not geared to protect anything but a small sect of females for about ten years if they are lucky and then cast them aside.
831290
I like my marriage, sometimes it is not easy and it is lots of work but i love it, we have so much good time and I do not even like to think of me with out my husband.\n\nA good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.\n\n      Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.
709258
please its just a ring, i would much rather have a happy marriage, than a bad marriage and a big ring, get whatever you can afford and do it.....\nps whats the point of being engaged if u do not want to be married?
824998
If you are concerned about the legal benefis when you marry someone then you should probably not get married. Marriage is about love, not material things you'll receive.
520128
There are no good things.  People who do not complete a high school education will always be poor.  For the rest of your life you will have trouble getting a good job.  When you marry, your spouse will have to read, write, and do everything for you.  You will be considered stupid to people around you.
932193
Marriage has it's advantages, it's not always fun but it's not always bad either. It is a compromise, a give and take sort of thing if you will. There are always going to be problems with any relationship and marriage is no different. The main thing is the two people involved have to be compatible for it to work. Marriage can be wonderful thing. It's nice to always have someone to rely on and to comfort you but it is a two way street.>
666957
for enjoyment,marriage is not necessary. you can enjoy as you like. but for family and children, you better get married.
157027
I personally think gay marriage is good.  People get married all the time, why shouldn't they be allowed to?  It's a personal choice and doesn't hurt anyone any more than it would if I got married.  It may even lower the divorce rate,since they tend to stay together longer than most straight couples, at elast from my experience.  The thing I found most ironic is Elton John went to England to get married.  Didn't we fight for freedom from England to be allowed to have our own lifestyles without persecution?  Then why ccan't gay couples have more than commencement ceremonies and enjoy the legal and financial benefits that come with any marriage?  I really don't have any information on why a gay couple shouldn't get married, Sorry.
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Hi aziz! I think that it would be good to be married, but then sometimes it can bring you away from your beliefs in God! Some people remain single so that they can remain close to God forever and ever amen! So I'd prefer to remain single coz then I know I'd pay more attention to God!\nAs for the society, if they're true christians, I wouldn't really know because I've been to only ONE wedding in my life!
546278
I used to believe it was quite archaic. I always believed in love, and considered it the prime motivaton for marriage. I believed it was the couples sole decision, and no other enity should be involved.  However, as time progessed, my feelings have changed.  In AMERICA, the divorce rate is 50%.  Somethings wrong with the system. I'm rethinking the idea of planned marriages.  They seem to last quite a bit longer.
1026258
I think it is. I think we are supposed to get married and have a family. We then find what true love is. When you have kids its something unlike anything else and to me the marriage comes before the kids so without that....you don't get the honor. You don't get to know what it feels like. I believe that there is someone for everyone and God will put this person in front of you when you least expect it and you will know this is the one.
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In favor\nI think the hang-up for a lot of people is that they think of marriage only in terms of the ritual defined in their religion.\n\nIt isn't.  It is a civil and social institution that affects a person's legal, social and financial status.\nIt isn't fair to withhold the benefits to anyone who is willing to make the committment to another person.\n\nBesides which, how do the details of someone elses marriage affect your marriage in any way?  I just don't get why anyone is bothered by it.\n\nHere's a little food for thought.  \nDid you know that not long ago it was actually illegal in many states for people from different races to marry each other?  Its the same kind of arbitrary restriction that just doesn't make any sense. So I hope we'll all eventually outgrow this one too.
466124
You begin to learn each others quirks and idiosyncrasies.  You will struggle and have bad times and good times. You will laugh, cry, worry, and enjoy.  Marriage is only what two people make of it.  It is work, but just like a garden, it is well worth the weeding and pruning one has to do.  Don't give up when things get tough.  Communicate!!!!  I know you've heard it before, but take heed, communication is the key to an awesome marriage. A marriage needs 100 percent from both partners.  Live and learn from one another, touch and kiss often, and never say a word that you may later wish to take back, words are like feathers released into the wind, once released they are hard to take back.
17800
You shouldn't really look at it from its advantages or disadvantages. Advantages are plenty, but so are the disadvantages. I think you should really ask yourself if you REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED or not.
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I love being married.  There is nothing better than being with someone who knows your every emotion.  Knows when you need a hug, or when you need to laugh.  Or just someone to be silly with.  Burdens are halved and joys are doubled.  It couldn't be better to do all of that with someone you love and who loves you.
397474
is marriage about love? hello, guess what. marriage is not about love. its about commitment. love's just part of it. why dont you know that? cause you havent stayed married long enough to realize it.
653114
A lot of people do walk in to marriage for the wrong reasons.  A lot of people are more in love with the idea of being married as opposed to the actual person they are marrying however when two people both understand the commitment and hard work that goes in to being married they go on to live great full filling lives. As long as people realize that a marriage is made up of a lot more than the honeymoon it can be very fantastic.  I can't think of anything more rewarding than knowing you have a life partner who will be there for you no matter what and who also shares the same goals for the future.  So to answer your question.  Yes it is that fantastic if people walk in to it with their eyes on the big picture and not the immediate gratification of a "marriage".