Confused... Please Help!!?
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I'm sorry to hear you're in such pain.  Unfortunately, hurting comes with the territory; it will lessen over time.\n\nYou can do things to help yourself, though it might be hard:\n\n1.  You broke up for a reason, don't forget that.\n\n2.  He is now involved with someone else, and you may be crushed that he moved on so quickly.  Don't be; give yourself time...his moving on is no reflection on you.\n\n3.  Be honest with yourself about your real motivation for keeping in contact with him.  You've tried to talk to him...he does not want to talk to you.  Accept it and stop torturing yourself, your attempts to speak with you aren't getting you anywhere.\n\n4.  You may think it's wrong for him to respond the way he is, but look at it from his perspective:  You broke up; he's involved with someone else and you keep calling him.  You can let go, and it's annoying to him.  What reason would he have to talk to you other than to tell you to leave him alone?  What if the situation were reversed?\n\nNo, it isn't easy.  Having been there, I promise you you'll get over him in time.  You'll look back on this and wonder what all the hoopla was all about. In the meantime, stop calling him; it's not healthy and you're only hurting yourself.  It's not going to bring him back to you.\n\nTake care...
219146
what do you mean?  your question is confusing!
1051737
ummmmmmmm...... no idea?!?!?
576807
No, I don't think you made a mistake! However, her response sounds to me like SHE has issues - it doesn't mean yes, or no - in other words, she is undecided. I can't tell from that, whether or not you should pursue this...that has to be your decision. Good luck with whatever you decide (at least she was honest with you!)
517240
u r confused and making us confused
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Confusion is not good. :) I can tell you that now, it's not good. You have to know for sure or not know. \n\nThis one is a hard one. All i can say is if he says that he loves you and if you really love him, you will trust him. Trust is a very very important key in a binding relationship.  I am thinking that he has told you about his past because he wanted to be honest with you which is very noble. It sounds like you have a little bit of jealousy going on your behalf. Be careful with that because that can cause problems in a relationship. You have to buckle down and learn to trust your boyfriend. If it really troubles you talk to him about it, if he loves you and if you are really good friends, then he will listen with understanding and love. If he gets angry with you then you know that there is a real problem\n\nI hope this helps. Good luck to you
566419
WTF? Read your question, it does not make sense sweetie
1051429
I think you should figure that out first. Do you or do you not? Cuz if you're in the so-so, iffy, maybe and you tell him that you do....well thats putting the both of you in a very awkward and deceiving situation.  And if it's a lot of work to decide...maybe you don't.  But then it could be in a developing stage....I dunno. Wait a bit more.And when he comes back, keep being his friend. Talk some more.  Much luck to you!
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would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
606629
sounds like you are confused. think this out better then decide
508836
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
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Lol....this is funny...look at all the conflicting answers....lol
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He could be falling for you, or he could be just hanging out with you because he sees you as a good friend.  Guys sometimes feel really comfortable with their female friends, but they aren't necessarily looking to start a relationship.   I think you should let him know how you feel about him *and* your concerns that you could ruin his relationship with the other girl...since both of these reflect what appears to be your truth.  Honesty is important in any relationship....be it intimate or just friends.  Good luck.
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I think its very confusing...:D
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Honesty is best.  Tell him that you are confused.  Ask what his intentions are for his keeping in touch.  Does he still have feelings for you?  Does he want to date you again?  Or is he keeping you close because he wants to be your friend?  Ask him straight up.  Then take it from there.
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If you really love him, give him some time... he's probably confused, most guys are in relationships.  Don't date other guys cause it's going to contradict what you're trying to do, just kinda give him some space and wait to see what happens.  It's tough, I know, but if he doesn't respond... maybe you should accept it.
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i am very confused... please, try again!