How do I ask a guy to be my b/f?
922942
first of all change your vibe! ok so heres wat u do.you guys should like go out u know just 4 fun ask him if he wants to come to the movie with u & some friends. when you are there  and you sitting at the movie try to sit next to him.whilyou are there and every one else is watching the movie tap on the shoulder and act like you are confused about what has just happend.when he "helps" you .let him watch the movie 2 seconds later tap him again smile and say thanks i'm glade you're here and play with his fingers at the same time.If you can't go to the movies do it at school in class when no one is looking!
183738
you just needa make it clear to him that hes the one who should be lucky to have you as his own. think of yourself as the one all the guys are after, make him be greatful that he has you as his own. dont sound stuck-up about it or rude but just make it a statement, you deserve all the respect in the world being a women
759214
lay it on the line.  if it 's not working for you then it's not working.  can't make it work.  tell him that you can be friends and that the relat ionship as b/f is over. simple.  but, say what you mean and mean what you say.  the person you choose to be with has to accomodate your beat, not just his beat.
1115242
Ask him to be your booty call. You asked everyone else here.
689730
The only way you can find out is time. Go out on some dates, and hold out on the physicalities. Dont be a prude, but if you dont feel sure of his motives, why give in to being physical. Even if you do want to be, you sound like you'll be upset if thats all he wants. So, that being said, spend some time with him. Go out on dates, then go home. A kiss or a few wont be leading him on, and you'll be able to tell soon enough if he is into you, or about getting into you.
886833
Hey,\n\nI'm a big fan of simply asking someone without all of the fuss. But I have seen a bunch of cute ways.\n\nI've seen girls bake a cake and write the question in frosting. \n\nI've seen girls sneak into the guys locker, or slip a note into the locker. \n\nOr create a trail around your school or your hometown for him to follow, and have him end up with you. \n\nUltimately I would suggest asking him face to face, and somewhere private so you don't embarrass him (guys tend to get embarrassed with big displays of affection). \n\nGood luck, and I hope this helps.
42770
Don't ask him to be your boyfriend. Just ask him to go out with you somewhere.  Meet for coffee and hang out.  If you hit it off ask him to go out with you again, and if it still is going good then ask him if he would like to "go with you". Then you have a steady boyfriend.  Good luck!
136418
i guess ur bf is askin a lot from u now...tell him u dunt want it now, and wen its time u'll let him know!!!!
347162
Just wait and see.  Maybe he is not ready to be your b/f.
164053
be yourself. you dont want to give a guy a wrong impression of you and if you do than you cant be sure he really falls for you because you are giving him the wrong image of you. so be yourself and thats the best way to find someone who will accept you for you.
31379
What is your goal for this guy?\n\n1.  Do you want him to be a boyfriend (possibly now or later???)\nOr,\n2.  Are you just happy to have him as a friend (with no possibility of ever dating this dude???)\n\nAnswer \n#1:  Research him, find a common interest, and get something affordable, but meaningful.  For example, if you both Rollar Blade, get him grease for his wheels.\n\n#2:  Keep the gift super affordable, and generic. Even a simple card would be fine since you've just meet. You don't want to lead this poor soul on.
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
849076
do you want o be his girlfriend?\nemail him your phone number and a photo of yourself and you might get a date with him.
178372
This is hard...how far are you willing to go.  I only ask, because there are numerous things that you can do. This depends on him and what kind of image he may have of you.  You always want to be yourself...don't try to be something you are not.  Disappointments are not good.  Try to have short conversations with him.  Statements that leave him hanging and wondering...What did she mean by that???  He's gonna come back to find out...if he is intersted.  I once left a post it note on a man's door with my #.  He called 20 mins later.  Subtle things work the best.....Okay, well it helps if you enjoy some of the same things.  Interraction is your best bet.  Some girls don't need to flirt...and honestly you prob don't need to.  If he is a fresh too, he might not get it.  But if he is a playboy...is that what you want?
923236
Talk to him just about anything on the phone. Me and my boyfriend play the questions game, he asks a question, then I ask a question. It may be something that he wants to know, like "what do you do when I'm not around" kind of thing. Guys like a lot of information, but it doesn't have to be perverted. The nickname I use is cutie pie. Ask him if you can call him anything that comes to mind, like baby cakes!! Sounds kinda cheesy, but it helps and it makes him feel connected to you. But don't say things like that in public because guys think that their friends would make fun of him. When your around him in public, hold is hand or give him a little kiss on the cheek. If he sees you as a warm person, then he will do the same thing back. I hope I helped. Let me know if my answer was the one that you were looking for!!!
433479
Different things for different people.\nHere is some general info.\nMake sure he is the center of your world, he will notice. make sure you tell him when he is doing things that feel good to yo and when to do it more.\nMake sure you ask what pleases him, did he like that, does he want more of that or do it a different way.\nBefore and after let him know that you want him, that you need him, that you will do eventhing he wants so that he never needs anyone but you.\nAnd mean it. Don't back out of giving him your all.\nyou don't want him to go looking for what he wants.
544122
Do not just pop over with him and get their raw reaction. That might not go so well. I would break them in slow over a few weeks - start with telling them you have a boyfriend, explain how much you care about him...no details at first. Then pepper in a few hints about him that would give hints about him, then maybe put a picture up or have pictures of you and him together. Give them time to take it all in. Then bring him over so they can find out how good a guy he is.