Women (not girls) is this shallow?
915907
Yes and No. Yes its shallow, because maybe she was just nervous when she was asking you out. You know most women don't do that very often, so when she was asking you out she probably reverted back to how she sounded in high school or something. Also you could have been a bit closed off and you didn't express in anyway that you were open to her asking you out. So that causes more nervousness in some women.  Now for the no part of it, I think if a person that is a sales rep and has had a college education, they should be capable of delivering a decent proposal to ask anyone out. I mean they have had the training to be able to talk to clients and different people like that, so I don't see why she couldn't used those same skills to ask you out properly. But just for the record that was funny as hell, "Like harder Benny!" Totally classic, dude.
1170648
Having a job and a car SHOULD be expected but you would be surprised how many single men have neither. I don't consider myself shallow but that really is a requirement I expect from men I date. It doesn't have to be a Benz and you don't have to be sporting a big bankroll but I need to know up front you are not going to expect me to support you and haul your nappy a s s everywhere you need to go. I would never expect someone to do that for me. I have a job and a car and a place of my own. After that personality is the most important thing I look for but most women are stuck on looks after that. Looks aren't everything. Sure there should be a physical attraction but for me that comes more from a good personality and sense of humor than physical attributes. The ugliest guy on they outside becomes gorgeous in my eyes if he can make me feel good and keep me smiling and happy.
136129
Yes, but you have a lot of work to overcome our initial superficial thoughts when we first meet you.  If you're an awesome guy, be confident, be outgoing and show the ladies that looks (or height) aren't the most important thing.
138893
No. \nI find some girlfriends online, but most of them disappointed me, if you know some decent lady, please refer me. .\n\nRegards
517284
you are so shallow! maybe because "popular girls" would never want to date a jerk like you!
544955
I think its normal for a female to enjoy doing things like that. And as far as not caring about looks it just means she is looking deeper then that. As for what should be done about it nothing really I wish more was like that, she should not have to change for anyone  if it comes from the heart thats all should matter
531936
ummm yeah, you would be suprised how much booty big girls get. Because men get tired of some of the games and shallowness that some "skinny girls." Like this question. Being skinny or fat doesnt make you better or worse than the other person. Thinking it does is shallow as hell and a turn off for real men.
435908
if you feel your value lies in your pocket pal that probably explains why you can't find a descent lady. they really don't care that much and finding out that you think your dick is so great would just be a total turn off. sorry that you can't see anything good about yourself except that, you are in for a sorry life. trust me NOBODY will ever think that thing is as great as you do!
298752
Come on, how 'not pretty' are we talking about? Yeah, I'm shallow. I'm not looking for a model or a beauty queen, but she can't be straight up ugly. Personality is great though, and yes, you can become more attracted to someone you relate to. It makes a difference, but sometimes it takes a lot of personality.
401048
Hey, i have the same problem. In most girls they trully dont care about looks, but you have those shallow girls too. I'm a guy that feels the same way. well the chance i think, would depend on what you are like, along with your personality. And if this girl is a popular, cheelaeder type, i would say she is going to be shallow , because girls like that don't want to be embarresed in front of their friends, but if she's not liek that try to talk to her learn about her. and if she is shallow just stay away from her.
98470
Honestly, if I like a girl it's not because of her hair type. That's just a bit too shallow for me.
232882
Lets put it this way, do you think she doesn't know about it already?  If you want misery, tell her, let her know what you think.  I am all for communication, but it is a very sensitive area to women.  I wouldn't even think about bringing it up.  Besides, you should be loving the woman for who she is and not what she looks like...that is really shallow.
1048675
I agree with you. People that think money is more important than how they treat people get what's coming to them.... They're probably trying to attract the best looking female they can, but very shallow if you ask me
185193
Don't be so dependent.  If it works out with her, then it does.  If it doesn't, don't worry there are more women looking for a good guy.  Hopefully you can communicate better than you spell.  Intelligence goes a long way, unless you date stupid girls..
302923
haha. nice. this is Swimming and Diving, not some loser dating site. but anyway, a lot of it depends on your attitude. just a little tip.
1176871
hmm.... simple qstion, having multiple answerz.. well da bst one i ca give is 4rm ma side, i.e. ma own point o view... well i think a simple gal is ALL a guy lookz for.. bt again u might ask, " den y do dose galz who xpose a lot, seem more attractive den onez who wear traditional clothes?", the answer to that is also simple- SHOWOFF! everyone likes to showoff, right? So, da guys thnk to hemselvez, "i REALLY gotta have her"- u kno wat i mean- fer showing off. Shez less human to them. More of an object which gives them mental satisfaction of the fact, "Yes! i got a GF, who showz her G-String to ppl" lol.... so, Be urself... good n simple...n u'll discover in no time dat guyz r jus head over healz...
146896
Wow.  You're a high-maintenance gal.\nCheck my response to your "Srtip Tease" q.\nI'm working on your other ones...