He is married but he still wants to continue seeing me?
915566
Think about this for a moment if you will, if he took all the time and energy that he has spent on you this past 6 months and spent it on his wife, do you think he would have a bad marriage? Another point to ponder, the feelings he has for you right now, do you think he had those same feelings for his wife when they had been going together for 6 months? One more, if he has shown this pattern before, how long before he is bored with you and needs another woman to make him feel good? You are asking us if you should have a relationship with a liar and a cheat, I would not recommend it. What I would recommend though, is for you to step back and look at your relationship with your head and not your heart so you can actually see what you are doing to him and his wife.
46763
It depends on the two of you. I know a ex married couple that stayed friends after 24 years of being divorced. Thats a long time and a rare occassion. They are my parents lol. Now if you ended on bad terms and are trying to get along then probably not. Or maybe he is still into you and just wants to end it before he gets caught up into the feelings all over again knowing that you can never be together.
561487
Hon, you need to take the blinders off.He is trying to have his cake & eat it too.He is treating you like you have no sense.Do you honestly,in your heart,think he is living with his wife & not having relations with her.You know he is lying to you & do you want a liar? Get on with your life & you'll find the right person.This guy is the wrong one!!
1035399
i dont really know what your situation is but if you really love him, i think you should keep trying. you should tell him that you are his wife and he needs to stop going back to that woman. i hope eveything works out for you.
837276
no one can be talking for him. so i don't think she is putting those words into his mouth. i have dated guys that were separated and i had nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. just because he slept with someone does not mean that he is moving on for her. it was probably just sex. my guess is that he really does want to move. regardless of the other woman.
121331
did you get married? only then you are life partners.\n\nuntil then you are "seeing each other"
399663
if the now relation is doomed --walk away.\nbut don't expect miracles!!, like living happyly ever after with eric.\n..live real!!, be well..
442042
Just because he's your ex doesn't give any reason for you to not be hurt or be concerned. Have you tried talking or consoling him yet? Maybe all differences should be set aside for a moment and you try to help. I mean you were married so at some point you guys loved each other. Im sure there were times when he was there for you and you him , maybe you know him well enough that you can help him deal now, u kno? Good Luck
1176705
Don't guess if he's married or not.  Find out for sure.  Do not pursue anything until you do this.  Drop it immediately if he is.
105768
your in a hole different ball game now. your married they are not. this is when you find out who your real friends are. and you being married shouldn't have anything to do with them not hanging out with you any more. i will ask my good friend and get back to you
18240
You've got two of your most important reasons right in your question...you need to move on & he is married. Honestly, this is exactly where I would start the conversation. Plus, one of the things you might not have considered is that you deserve more, as in someone who loves you & no one else. When you make the break, make it clean & permenant - don't let him try to tell you that he will think about leaving his wife or any of that other prattle. It will take time but your heart will heal...\n\nGood luck!
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
608285
If you cant realize what he might be thinking/feeling...\nJust read what typed.  Give the guy a break.  Would you call someone 4 times a day, if you didnt like them??\nThink about it for just one minute.  He could be justa tad shy, + you're still married.
91976
He married you. That is a pretty strong commitment. If he thought there was any hope of getting back with his ex he wouldn't have taken that step with you.
455996
I think you are already worried or you wouldn't have asked the question on here. I do not think this is appropriate at all. Your husband should tell them, I'm married now and I don't think it is a good idea to "keep in touch". NO WAY are you being childish, your being smart.
376044
I hope that you are very careful with what you are doing with this guy.  Remember that you are married and you may lack a certain thing in your marriage which will be better work out with your husband.  I understand that it is kind of nice to have someone interested in your despite you are married but why are you dragging him on?  Will you be happy to divorce your husband because this guy sweet talk to you?  Are you sure that you will have a better future with this man than your current husband.  I suggest that you spend more time with your husband and rediscover him then talking to this guy, unless you have no hope in your marriage!  Good Luck!
243763
You have a right to be confused- and so does he. First off- how long has he been separated? If it hasn't been long, you may want to back off a bit, just in case things don't work according to plan. Think about it: they did get married for a reason- who's to say they won't reconcile?\nSecondly, since you can't really control who you fall in love with, if he represents this much of a threat to your security, you probably ought not stay involved with him.\nBut, I do hope it works out for you- everything for a reason!