Female bosses flirting with only a few men in the office . When she is supposed to lead everyone?
916469
Sounds like a little bit of jealousy on your part.
361632
My boss right now is horrible because she is a punk! She lets her assistant basically set her mood for the day, and tell her what to do. I feel that any true leader (boss, supervisor, manager,...etc) should truly lead in their position not be lead.
23914
How to pick up a girl at work? I've dated five women at my job and one more that I did not work with. Right now I am married to the woman that I have met outside of work.\nTake my advise, you can not mix a relationship up with your job, it will never turn out correct. You will either lose the girl, the job, or both....
148221
Work is Work and you should keep it that way, you're not there to pick up women. Sounds like she might be "Testing" you to see just how interested you really are. Find out where she hangs out away from work and just happen to "Show up" and see her reactions to you there. Don't give up yet but remember, you Pursue love not Push it.
329427
Rise above it. If she deliberately embarasses you, then she is the problem. Do your work well and professionally. Talk with her and inform her that you would prefer to be told about your mistakes in private so that you could remedy them. Always be professional and job oriented. Bosses hate office politics....Document all incidents that are caused by her, if it continues over a period of time approach the person over both of you. If you are doing your work well, it will show.  If she is the boss, get out now while you still have some self esteem.  Good luck.  Be proactive, not reactive.
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Tell her the gang at work is stopping for a few after work  and  every body's invited. If she keeps up her flirting then go for it,If she changes her tune once outside you know she's just a playful girl who likes to flirt when it's safe fun.
392768
If he was your supervisor, you did the best thing.\nBut it's possible he was only interested in you, and flirting with you that way. Although you could risk approaching him, and asking him his motive, with out\nsounding hostile (even if it's a different guy, instead).\nI some times flirt by watching girls, harmlessly. Unfortunately, that's all I do.
346046
i would guess because you're comfortable at work.  you're all on equal terms.  but when you go to, say a bar, you are there to meet women and so insecurity creeps up.
704556
there are women in my workplace who have ascended to managerial positions, starting out as secretaries/assistants, with only  a hs degree or an associates. men don't have that luck.\nAnd besides, any word or stare can be considered harassment, making women untouchable in an office.
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There are some lines i don't cross.  \nDating anyone at work is a no no.\n\nSure at work things fly around in the work place...  \nBut you are responding to them, in other words accepting the game and playing with him in this flirting..\n \nMaybe the best bet would be. dont respond every email or message that is sent. It will die down slowly..\nI can understand you dont want it to put up a brick wall.. \nAs You might loose your job. But at the same time.. \nif he presses you for a reply, Just brushing it off as a joke. \nThis can work just as well. It saves face for him as well as yourself.. \n\nBe careful.  You dont want to scream sexual harassment..  \nNot when your responding and playing the game with him.\nBecause if you do, he will throw it back to you.\n\nSo my suggestion would be, Just don't respond as much.. find work .. make yourself busy. And maybe find another job in the mean time. \n\nBlessings ALD
702575
You cant tell your boss to do anything,thats why they are the boss ,to tell you what to do.\nIf she tried that he would probably sack her.
534165
a male boss telling a female employee if you have sex with me I will promote you, or saying if you don't have sex with me I will fire you.  A boss pinching your butt  or placing a hand on you in an inappropriate manner, is a good example
1045610
The stock answer is that the law in this matter should cut both ways. Rea;ity is that this is not always the case. Some will find it hard to believe that any man can be offended by the actions you describe, so be ready for some flack if you go through with filing a complaint. Realize that to make your position unassailable that you should first let your boss know that you find her actions totally inappropriate. If she persists drive on and do what you have to do.
224310
Of course not. But keep in mind you really need your job, and besides any women, your boss would easily have another employee.
363843
Perhaps you are being a little insecure about the situation. Working in the same establishment as your significant other tends to put extra stress on relationships. I would suggest that you look for work elsewhere. Also, keep in mind who she comes home with each night, you. You may want to mention to her that several of the co-workers indicated to you that they felt she was "hitting on them". Maybe she is just really friendly and those guys are misunderstanding that to be flirting. I have noticed alot over the years that whenever I am nice to guy, such as make small talk with him, that he asks me out or gives me his number. Alot of men confuse being nice for flirting. They think because a girl is nice to them that she is hitting on them, which is not always the case. It's hard to see that going on, so I would suggest having a little chat with her about it and find a job elsewhere and that will relieve alot of the stress you are going rhrough. Couples can spend TOO much time together and then little things start to cause undue stress in their relationship. Good luck with this issue.
271654
u could get everyone together and just have everyone agree that they wont work with her then that will make the boss see whats going on planting drugs on her is allways a good way too lol j/k
545337
I don't know but you are right. I am a middle aged women and always thought it was correct to treat people decently. Most of my women supervisors are overbearing. It's their way or the highway. Its wrong but how do we change it?