what do guys want in a girlfriend?
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My best advise is this... make your own choices and build your life. You can't plan for a man to come into your life, and when he does it will probably upset your apple cart a bit... that  is what love does. To meet a nice, good, and strong, man you should try looking in quieter places and not night spots. Bookstores, libraries, coffee houses... those are good places to just relax and attract a few fellas. Good luck!
324688
Well If you get the right kind of women.... generally it won't be about looks. As far as emotionaly, you would think most women would want a guy who is sweet and romantic. Not to emotional and cry over everything but emotional enough to really care about things. Personality- Funny and outgoing. You need a good laugh and you don't want someone who never wants to leave the house and get to try new things. And of course he has to be nice and treat the women with the respect she deserves to be treated with!
271249
It's going to sound cheesy, but I don't look for anything specific in a girl. When I meet a girl I like, I'll know it. I'll enjoy spending time with her, I'll feel comfortable around her, and I'll think about her when she's not around. So I never really know what to look for in a girl. I think most guys are the same way deep down, but they'll only even start the relationship to begin with if the girl is pretty. Beauty makes a first impression, personality seals the deal.
829897
honesty is probably the best and hardest thing to find, humor is a big one, girls love to laugh. intelligence, caring. etc
1139869
it doesnt matter what state you are from women all want the same thing in a guy but the qualifications may vary by person to person....but to start out with the top ones are honesty, respect, good listener, has a good work ethic, takes care of his responsibilities, has a good sense of humor, is intelligent, is friendly and is not scared of commitment and doesnt play games....
68689
Tell me what you want in a girl and maybe I can help you. e-mail me at murf_92@yahoo.com
350701
The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
778252
simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
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to me a perfect guy will be:\n1-intelligent\n2-humourous\n3-assertive\n4-kind/sensitive\n5-romantic\n\ni could go on but i think they cover the generic wishes of women.  As for looks every woman has her idealistic look but usually ends up  with something completely different.  Personality will always win over looks but women do appreciate a man who grooms, makes an effort and has good personal hygiene.  If in doubt be urseld cos we love confidence, never be fake. and u know what if she doesnt appreciate what uv got or tries to change u - go find someone who'll love u for what u are. good luck in love.
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I can't speak for all girls, of course, but most girls would like to see honesty, trustworthiness and thoughtfulness. A bf should be there when his gf needs him and should try to cheer her up if she is feeling down. He should also be a little romantic and surprise her with something special every once in a while. If he's a really good bf, he should even be able to protect her from harm, or at least try to. He should also be really funny and easy to talk to. I think that's pretty much everything.
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Intelligence\nWit\nHonesty\nLoyalty\npositive outlook.......happy!\n\nSomeone that needs me as much as I need him. Someone that genuinely enjoys being around me as much as I enjoy being around him. :)
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Openess and honesty.  Same thing women want, at least in my opinion.  Guys, just like girls, get tired of all the games.  Eventually, after all the bouncing from one girl to another and all the sexual exploration, most guys are going to come to that point where they want to find somebody that is more than a sex toy, but also a companion and friend.  \n\nBasically, just be yourself, be willing to take an occassional risk(putting yourself out there, saying that deeply personal thing that you might be holding back), and time and nature will do the rest.  Guys may be pigs, but deep down, guys want to find a girl they can respect.  They want to find someone that will take the time to understand and get to know them.  THAT is the girl that a guy will decide to committ to, not the girl he got drunk and took home after knowing her for a day.  So, be yourself, take some emotional chances, and let him know how you feel!
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This is a tough one to answer. In my case yes looks do matter to an extent. There needs to be some physical attraction in the beginning not that its the most important just a percentage. Body type really depends on the guy. I have dated several women with all different kinds of body types. A good personality is a must, its a real downer when your partner is always in the dumps or is angry all the time. I myself enjoy a good conversation so intelligence is a must (not a rocket scientist just bright). Tallents are always a plus, its nice to have a tallented girlfriend but not a necessity. All in all what I'm looking for in a woman is one that loves me as much as I love her. Someone that will be there when I need someone to talk to or be comforted. Basicly a best friend, I think that if your partner is your best friend your practically invincible.
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well,many girls have different opinions on the type of guy that they would want to date...but me, i really like a guy who is simple and is sure of wat he wants..a guy who will please me and allow me to do the same for him.. a guy who is willing to learn, just as much as i am...and along with the other little things that come with his personality...oh and he should make me laugh:)
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I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
576117
i would go for a girl with curves,with big hazel or brown colour eyes ,with straight black hair, tall as well with a gr8 smile and if she's got the personality with it then she is forever mine.. and if not than she's alright for one night..and she should be into rock music not heavy meta;l or punk but soft rock or progressive,indie rock...another imp thing i would admit is guys never go for personality in the first place when its girls..Looks always matters no matter what the guys would say ..personality and attitude comes second
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this is not a question for the boys, sister:  boys don't know what they want!\n\nEven though they don't know it, they do want a girlfriend who is strong.  Strong meaning:\n\n1.  she is fiercly loyal, even when she knows he is wrong\n\n2.  a shoulder to lean on\n\n3.  she must have a mind of her own:  guys don't like girls who do everything just because she thinks it's what he wants.  You should have your own opinion on current events, where to go to dinner, and how you want to see things done.\n\n4.  You need to be wise enough to know when you are pushing him over the edge, and take a step back when you do\n\n5.  Most importantly, you have to make him feel like he's special to you, even when he acts like an idiot.