Help me! I'm in a love rut!?
927239
First chill out, dont start biting his head off just for not cleaning up or being a little late.  GENTLY ask him or talk to him about whats been going on in his life lately or how his days have been, could be work related, could be not feeling well, we all can't have days where we're up and about getting everything we want, done and on time............so just talk to him, its no reason to start giving him the cold shoulder unless he's out partying or "elsewhere" and coming home late.  He shouldn't be mad if you're just asking curiously about why his actions have been changing and he's not cleaning up, etc etc.  You should be just fine.  Good luck.  :)
605065
you're in love! everything you are feeling is natural. try not to stress out about it or you will drive him away!
734409
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
645346
Ge to know him more and let your heart take care of the rest---you can't MAKE yourself love someone.\n\nGood luck!!!
1187787
Hi, Number one thing to do is stop looking. Number two thing to do is don't rely on an entity to sort out your love life. Rely on your own abilities. But recognising 'non-action' is a key.
1069701
dont ever give up ur love one...its not giving up its just giving time to each other to know urself more.....hope it helps you....gudluck..
821927
Stop playing around, obviously the signals are getting mixed.  Stop driving yourself crazy and simply ask what's up!!!  It's better to know so you can move forward with the relationship or move on.
35662
hide from him for a while.  see how hard he looks for you.  \n\nReally, if someone loves you they'll know, but maybe you make it too easy for him and he's taking you for granted right now.  If that's just you, you might as well learn to like it.  but if you're not happy with the situation you have to change it.
1158485
tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
535222
first of all dear You have out Your question in dWrong category but anyways As per your love life iwould say give yourself some time, ask your heart and decide about all the pros and cons (I mean, do you see her in your future) and then whatever your heart says just listen and follow the direction.\n\ngud luck
102024
hey talk to him tell him how u feel and just wait and see what happens. far away romances can be so hard. believe it or not some people actually make it happen if they are true to one another.good luck and god bless
590118
Love has a strange way of allowing things to work out sometimes. You can write him a letter or you can call him or you can confront him face to face. Either way is okay. If you can't do any of these things then you can have a relative or friend of yours or the both of you drop some subtle hints for you. My dear, love is not dumb or desperate. It's honest and true. Hurry up now and don't waste any time! Good Luck!
50717
It sounds like you are trying too hard.Love comes to you when you are not looking for it.Time is hard.Just wait and he will come.Do other things to occupy your time.Than it will hit you like a ton of bricks!!
1001174
Carry on the way you are for now and don't be tempted to chase him.  Still go out as friends and have fun, you never know what the future may hold.  They may not stay together forever so hang in there for a while and see what happens. (Not advising you to steal him though!).   If they decide to get serious then you'll have to accept it. Unfortunately we all go through heartbreak at some time in our lives but love will come your way sooner or later.  Be patient and good luck!
108293
Oh my goodness, don't be in a rush...\nYou are so young yet, and you need to go out and enjoy life while you can be a little selfish and not think of other people's needs or desires...\nYou will find love when you least expect it, and it will find you...
243292
before you regret non-action, do something.\n\nif you want to work up courage get help from a freind who can act as a go between and inform this person about your love...\n\nits better to have loved...
388191
are you planning on having a serious relationship that soon? take it slow.....be friends, the love will flow naturally, if it's meant to be...= )