what do i do if this one girl at school?what should i do?
921083
thanks for elaborating...
1046967
If you like her..go for it! Ask her what she's doing after school and if she's not busy, ask her if she would like to hang out.  If you have something already in mind, even better.  If not, ask her what she'd like to do.   The worst thing that could happen is she'll say no.  That would suck, but it's all you have to lose.  So go ahead, make you move!
556579
right on, before school gets out! become her friend and get her number! then, ask her out.
953841
Hmm, it actually depends on what type of girl she is. Ok, but in general, you should send her a note in her locker saying to meet you afterschool somewhere. girls like these types if notes, I should know, I am one, =P. Ok, don't bring anything, they'll think you're overdoing it. Just tell her you like her, maybe like this, "hey, I just asked you to come today, to say that, ... I like you..." Then you should maybe just wait for a while, then go, let her give you an answer on another day, girls need time to think. lol, ^_^
379197
Well, I'm not a guy, but let me try to help U:\nU're an educated guy, U're so smart, but maybe she has seen in this other guy something she likes the most and maybe it's something U don't have, I don't blame her for that, but I do blame her for telling lies and trying to justify herself in that way.\nThere's another thing: If U're that kind of smart and polite, show to her that U can respect her decision, don't approach to her anymore, she's the one who has to make the balance, let her be happy, if she wants to be with this other guy, U'll have to focus on someone else, besides, sometimes we just judge for appearances, and maybe that's happening to U.\nNever judge a book for its cover!\n\nSee... as U added some new facts, let me tell U, about your image, don't care about it, I mean, the time will make the difference, let it to the time, and U'll see that she's the only one who is going to be judge by your classmates and friends, maybe they cannot realize what kind of girl she is, but, I'm pretty sure, if U're right, time will give that satisfaction to U.
989424
help yourself and go talk to her. who cares if she's from a different group. group dynamics eventually change, ppl from different 'classes' are always pairing up. stop wasting your time and go for it. and good luck!
685148
To to a counsler if you are still in school if not... Take her to a mental health department quick... It helped me..
411450
I think the things we regret are the things we DON'T do. You'll always wonder if you let "the one" go. Talk to her, write her a letter, give her a call - but let her know how you feel. If it isn't reciprocal, then it won't hurt forever because school is almost out anyway. But maybe she feels the same way and you should give her the chance to tell you. Maybe you have a future. But you'll never know unless you take that chance.
253215
I think your instinct is totally on. Let sleeping dogs lie. Now, how do we stop the propaganda that happened years ago? You have to prove to these people and show them the real you. Your peers must be part elephant, for them to remember and hang on to, 2 year old gossip! Are you sure that someone isn't keeping the gossip alive by some chance? That may be your problem. Any how, talk is cheap. Action speak louder than words. When you go to school Monday, you raise your head high, brush your pearly whites and smile. Make eye contact and start saying hi. If the chance presents itself, do favors or small tasks that could help them out. Waiting this long to try to correct a problem has put you in a bad position. But not a permanent position. Following this simple guide line, you will be alright. As far as your friend, the next time something like this happens, talk to her right away. It sounds like to me, she could be jealous of you, and want you to be her friend alone. But you can change that too. Just include her in with the things you and your new friends will be doing. Now its all left up to you, to take charge and end this once and for all. You go Girrrl.........!
212288
Whatever you do, GET TO SCHOOL BEFORE IT CLOSES!!!  Tell your mom or your neighbor or a close friend.  You could try calling someone in your class who is not exactly your friend...maybe someone who you wouldn't normally talk to.
589836
You are right to be concerned. The easiest thing you can do is to report the situation to your Guidance counselor at school and let him/her handle it without you being involved. She is lucky to have a good friend like you. Good luck.
204492
Tell the teacher exactly what you told us. I'm sure the teacher will understand and don't be shy. I'm sure it'll work out fine. I myself have experience Believe in yourself.Ask your friends to help too. I think the situation right now is she is spoiled and she thinks she is so hot and smart! Is that right? I hope this helps with your problem at school, but remember one thing DO NOT APOLIGIZE TO HER!!! That will make her seem like she is the queen or something. Just choose a song yourself and perform it.\n\nGood Luck!
228591
Tell her you have to talk to her about something (maybe pretend you need help on homework? I dunno) and take her aside to a place where no one else can hear. Then, ask her.
827597
Only you and she can really know the answer to this question. Why don't you speak with her? Tell her what you'd like to be able to do and ask her why you are not allowed to help others, particularly if you are her "assistant"\n\nSigh. Thumb trolls strike again. My answer is a valid possible way to handle the situation. Talking with the teacher is a good way to try to resolve the issue.
737771
my suggestion, DONT PLAN AHEAD!!! if you plan ahead it just puts pressure. on you just go and do what you normally do and if you bump into her just say something that you would say to any other girl. like hey thats a neat shirt. or if she is into sports compliment something shes done well in sports. or whatever shes good at compliment her on it!!!!!!
139156
A NICE girl? At school.
65816
The age-old question.  Show her that you like her.  If she doesn't respond then you just have to find another girl.