how can u tell if a girl is bi?
912618
It depends how old. we all try some outragous things in life.
511499
If you like to experiment, no. But if you find yourself sexually attracted to girls just as much as you are to guys, then you may just be bi.\n\nGirls are the way to go - they know exactly what to do and how to do it.
731057
if shes a lesbian then tell her but if shes straight then id keep it to yourself
710807
Well. i can't be one to tell you if you are or aren't.  I'm gay (i'm a boy), and i suppose that if you like both guys AND girls, then yes, you're bisexual.  and that's totallly okay.  i know SOOO MANY bi guys and they have no problems with society knowing
310057
No.  In order to be bi you would have to find the same sex attractive and be attracted to them.  If you aren't then you aren't so I wouldn't worry.
975260
If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
1077927
Ok, lets break this down.\n\nYou're bisexual, or at least bicurious, because you like men.\n\nYour girlfriend is an obviously intelligent person and is trying to get you to just admitt to it, so she's probably figured it out herself.\n\nAnd you're what?  Worried?  Confused?  Why don't you try being honest?  Say yeah, you've thought about it and see where it leads you.  I don't know what all the drama is for, most bi men would kill for such a cool and supportive girlfriend.
989023
I think what she meant by ,'...and then realize I'm really straight' is that since she is confused right now, then she comes out and goes through all that, then she understands that she really was straight the whole time and it was just the girl in the three way.  But I do have to say to you suntan that if you have been having feelings about girls, other than the one you were with, how far off can you be?  I do have a suggestion.  A couple of people have eluded to this suggestion, but none have said it.  Why don't you date a girl for a while and not tell anyone.   Then if things get serious you can bring her around to a few people you can trust to feel out your friends.  You don't even have to tell them that you have always felt this way.  You can say you met her and something happened, you had to be with her.  Something like that, in your words of course!  Then maybe they will accept it easier and if your first relationship doesn't work out the door will already be open for another girl if you choose.  That's what I'd do anyway.  Good luck!  It looks like you are getting some great answers and support on here.  I really hope it all works out for you, truly.  I wish I could hug you!\n\nOh and remember, there is no shame in being bisexual.  I am not saying you are, but if that is what you end up feeling do not fight it, it's ok.
446413
When you jerk off who do you think about? guys or girls?If it's guys...welcome to the club.If it's girls...nope.If it's both welcome to the club.your Bi.Pretty simple.
20230
girl no youre not bi at all i find a lot of my girlfriends sexy and even though ive never been with another woman i was curious so that doesnt make you bi. plus i love men
418966
Here are some questions to ask yourself......Are you attracted to both girls and guys?Can you not stop yourself from looking at other girls?Do you look at guys the same way?Are you interesting in the same sex?.......These are all questions that need to be answer before you truly know if you are bi or straight......but for the time being lets call you bi-curious............that is my take on the question
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
551628
im bi but ill answer... girls know wat girls want, like touchn n stuff.... it makes it easier... touch how u would want to be touched
418000
You should be sure they are into that before asking.\nIf you blurt your heart out to a hetero-sexual, you may alienate yourself from that person.\n\nLook for signs about the person such as:\ndo they like ballads, dancing, have they been single for a while, have they not had a relationship with a woman in a while.\n\nYou want to be totally sure before doing something like this.
279498
Well, I'm not bi. But I do have some friends who once thought they were bi, and it turned out that they were actually gay but in denial. Follow your heart, Sweetie, and do what you need to do to discover yourself. Good luck.
1060149
I am too, but I have never done anything with another girl, so I don't know if you would just consider me bi curious.
700482
Lesbianism or bisexuality can't be recognized nor does it have any identifying marks ,,,, You either are or you aren't ,,,,  Personally if I were you I'd feel flattered ,,,, I would tell her this too if that's the case ,,,,  I mean how many people do you have tell you that they really like you for what ever reason ,,,, If you don't have the same tendency's or your mind isn't open to such a thing as that then be honest and frank with her about it ,,,, I don't think it's something to be upset or insulted about at all ,,,, You have here a person that has opened herself up to you ,,,, It probably took all the courage she could muster plus some to admit this to you ,,,,, She has made herself vulnerable to you by admitting this because of her obvious strong feelings for you ,,,, She probably feels wounded now and scared because of your reaction as she doesn't understand what your reaction meant ,,, You said she told you she wanted to talk to you alone ,,,, That tells me she wanted what she was going to tell you to remain a secret between just the two of you ,,,, She might feel down and bleeding now ,,,, Are you going to betrey her by revealing her secret ?? ,,,, Will you walk all over her and pour salt in the wound now and hurt her just that much more because of this  ,,,,?? You said she is one of your closest friends ,,,, has anything changed your feelings now where she's concerned ,,,, If you like this girl or are worried about her feelings at all then try to let her down as easily as can ,,,, Don't let her linger or be worried and scared about what happens next ,,,, Do this as quickly as possible ,,,, Don't let her agonize over this ,,,, speak openly to her and let her know what you truly feel ,,,, There's no reason to ruin a perfectly good friendship because of this kind of admission ,,,,  Try to put yourself in her place ,,,, Try to imagine how you would feel and conduct yourself accordingly when dealing with this ,,,, Above all ,,,, just try to be kind and understanding ,,,, If you feel it then let her know that everything is alright and that there's no problem ,,,, Do this in a face to face meeting with just the two of you like it was when she told you about this in the first place ,,,,   Don't let her run away until you've explained yourself ,,,, She was honest with you in revealing her feelings for you  ,,,, So if your friendship with her means or has meant anything to you at all then be honest and understanding with her ,,,, You'll feel better for it and the friendship between the two of you will be just that much stronger because the two of you now share a secret ,,,,