is it ok for a woman to start spying on her husband phone calls when she thinks that he might be seeing SO?
913868
if you think something is going on then you have every right to spy. however, getting caught if he isn't cheating or doing anything wrong can have some bad consequences. there is no reason that he shouldn't be able to have a phone conversation in front of you or be lying about how often he talks to her. something is going on. check it out.
546825
He could be cheating.  I had the same suspecting with my wife and I was correct. You or someone (Privet Investigator) need to follow him to see where he is going.  You can't confront him if you don't have proof. With that proof you can move things forward either as a married couple or ending the marriage.  I hope you are wrong. I never wish divorce on anyone
692181
if you don't have the chance to check his cellphone check his email and call him all the time preference i the night but if you feel something in your hearth that is not right is because he is cheating you
417375
ummmm....im a guy so its best that i say that if I was cheating (unfortunately i have), i would probly do just the opposite. Id call all the time to make you seem less suspicious, and id give you excuses as to why i had to go, like, "my mom wants me to help her cook, so i guess ill talk to you l8r", and in reality, some other chick is calling and i dont want to miss the call. But some guys make it obvious, so if you feel that he is, you shouldnt have to feel that way so its probly best that you move on anyways......... you should be able to trust the guy, cuz after all, thats what a relationship is based on....TRUST. hope i could be of assistance even though im like 17 lol.
890663
No,I would not be ok with it at all.Do you trust you husband will never cheat on you?I had the same situation with my husband and it turned out this women he was such good friends with was trying to get him to bed and away from me.Your husbands friend may not be this way but look for signs!
39700
If you are asking this question you must have some inclination that he already is.  I have learned that you should always trust your woman's intuition when it comes to men.  If he is hiding something then he must have something to hide.  Think about it.
914002
no it is wrong, because maybe there was a chance he might return to his wife, maybe he is confused on what he wants to do, and the other woman will just pull him in her direction.  it is never a good idea because he has alot of unresolved things going on, and needs to think it all over. the other woman is taking a big chance in allowing this, it could always backfire on her.
391621
i think if a friend told me that my man was wit another girl i would confront him for sure, find out wat was goin on and if i need to get more information first i would, u no wat us women do best investigate b4 i confront him, and if all is true i would leave him, cuz i no that i would b able to please my man in every which way therefore he would have no reason to cheat apart from greediness and if that is the case he will do it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!
884169
I would have to say that you were snooping so if you bring it up, she will know that.  You should really wait to get hard cold proof if you are going to accuse her.  Good Luck!
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
654376
I know it is not right what he is doing and what he did to you is not right.  But, it is his life and how he lives his life, is up to him.  If you want to, for kicks and giggles, write to his ladies, I would let them know, but, there is a possibility that he may be able to track you down, somehow.  Be careful.  Truthfully, I would just mind my own business and forget he even existed.
670042
i would ask my man nicely to ask this female friend not to contact him. this is not normal. by staying silent u re provoking him cheating. this woman definitely wants a piece of your man
504941
trust your husband..but keep an eye on the co-worker ;)
7766
If she did that to me, I would look her in the eye and say, "Ask your husband to come here." Most likely she will back off. "If you do not feel comfortable calling your husband over to see what you are doing, can you imagine how it makes me feel?"
383576
Having explained how understanding you are, I'd say he may not actually be hiding it, he is just not throwing it in your face, might even call it avoiding disrespecting you unintentionally ...your no leash, don't ask ...don't tell trust needs to have a line drawn and if he respects the relationship as much as you, then make sure the phone calls don't become visits when your not around...
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
542613
What does the husband think? If there is an understanding between the two of them, then I think its fine. Whatever her real agenda is going on a trip alone without her husband, if she does have something hidden behind her sleeves, then its she is taking an advantage of her husband's trust. And if thats the case, I feel pity for her and the husband as well.