What should I do to break it to a friend that I don't want to be her friend without her hating me?
925350
I had the same problem so I just ended our friendship you shouldn't have to live with someone whos mean and always trys to put you down just to make them feel better about them selves
1081793
hello,\nYou need to write her a letter that tell her that you do not want to\nbe friends anymore. You don't mind saying hello but that's as \nfar as the relationship go. She need to more on and leave you alone. You will not need to reach me to talk about this issue it is done.
292708
you should be cool about it, dont trip you wil get in more peoples nerves if you tell your friend she cant talk to her no more and well your friend will probably wont listen to you and stop beying your friend, just 4 that and if you can tell me y you hate her so much, at ritz4feet@yahoo.com ill be waiting and i can tell you more too.
577013
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
137168
seems like she expects you to sit back and take whatever she throws at you. I would start by talking to her about it, and telling her that her behavior has made it very clear that she isnt interested in being a "friend" to you, and that that is fine with you. Tell her that you hope she has only good things coming her way, and just leave it at that. Ending things on a good note will probably surprise her. I would stop calling her your friend, as well.\nDont call her, if she talks to you respond politely but without details or extra words, if she sends you emails dont open them, etc. Make yourself unavailable to her.
1058303
It is never O.k to hate. If your friend offend u, talk it over with them or call in a third party if u think it's o.k.Why should one spend precious time hating? Rather,spend time thinking of how to progress.
452485
i have a friend doing the exact same thing. dump her. but only if she's a bit(h. if she's nice, don't. but if you deside to (and you totally can) don't put the blame on anyone. Just say you don't like how the friendship has gone, and your really not comftordable with the situation. so you think it best if you don't hang out anymore. tell her that, and tell her your leaving the friendship with overall good feelings, and that you like her, but that you really just need to end it, and leave it at that. she doesn't need any other reasons, Don't put the blame on her, or you, otherwise she will be mean about it.
1014650
Take a moment, make some soul searching and ask youself: Why do they hate you? What are the things they dislike about you? If you know the answers of these questions, i guess they'll find you worth their friendship. Avoid doing things other dont like about you or offending to them. Emphasize what good in you so that they'll realize your a good pal after all. :-D
822176
If you have her number call her.\n\nIf you can't, just go to school tomorrow and talk to the guy and tell him that you wanna be his friend and take back the part about deciding not to be his friend. Ask him to forgive you and if you can be his friend again.\ndon't cry 'bout it.\n\n\nAll the best,\nStacie fan
622096
Tell her she's going down a path as a friend you can't follow.  She needs to stop, you know the reasons why, and when she refuses, and she will.  Find another friends before she drags you into trouble too.
845683
You should tell her that it really pissed you off and if she wants to be a friend then she needs to not tell people your private things you share in confidence.  If she disregards your upset or request than don't waste your energy on her and  know that you can not tell her anything you don't want others to know.
291405
You are being a bad friend or not a friend at all. If u dont like her why waste your time playing games with her... You and your friends are being cowards
1038117
Good grief, just tell her you don't like her. You have to understand, there's no law that says you have to like everyone. You don't have to put her down, but flat out tell her, you don't want to hang out with her anymore.  Because as time goes on you won't do anything and you'll wind up hating her.
438907
just break it down to her.. tell her that you want to tell her something that you dont want her to get mad at.. tell her that you dont want to hurt her but you dont want to destroy ur friendship either by being together.. tell her you care about her as a friend..but nothing more.. you got to keep it funky.. feel me.. just be gentle but serious with her
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
631292
Absolutely not! Do you know that hatred is the same thing as murdering in your own heart. If she steals from you, she is the one that is sinning, the best thing to do my friend is forgive her. Try this, call her or the next time you see her, tell her that you forgive her for doing that to you, what do you have to lose? HATE IS NEVER THE ANSWER
493921
tell her that u don't want to be friends with her anymore. u don't want a friend that jokes around too much and goes to far and threatens to beat u up and ur friend and does beat y'all up. tell her that a TRUE FRIEND doesn't do that and that a TRUE FRIEND is suppossed to respect others' feelings and not beat them up. u can tell ur counselor and or/ someone else that u really trust. GOOD LUCK!