Girlfriend Question...HELP!!!!!!?
913285
If the two of you were broke up at the time, there is no need to question her activities.  If you are really starting over, focus on the future, not the past.
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
476473
You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?
282440
Someone is sounding a little shallow...  Ask all of your girlfriends this very same question.  See what answer you get!
658694
Are you raving MAD???????? Give me one reason why she would like you as a BOYfriend man! Wake up! She has girl friends to do all this stuff! And maybe a brother too! You are being 'Sweet'! Thats what girlfriends of either sex do! I am not saying dont do all these things or that be a 'Bad' boy. But, what you are trying to do is, buy her with gifts and help. You should try to be yourself with her. Dont try too hard to make her like you. Give her some space to like you. People realise they have fallen in love when they know they are missing someone. You need to give her time and space to miss you. Be more like a boyfriend than a friend who is a boy... Best of luck dear!:)
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
434817
dude, seriously, I had the same situation a couple years back. I'd get out of it ASAP. Sorry if you love her but if she's not willing to make a decision, that shows some serious commitment  issues that are going to stay with you too. If you can, just be her friend and move on. She's probably going to be really shocked if you do this, but STAY OUT OF dating relationships with girls like this. It only ends up biting you later!
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
433580
ask ur girlfriend\nfoolish
1054250
whoa...how old are you? there is so much wasted energy here. can't you talk to your girlfriend? why don't you take control and ask her how she feels, what is going on, and why you can't get a single date with her without her cousin tailing you guys.  if you want to be an honourable man, choose between your gf and her cousin and don't mess around...
184690
From everything you said it sounds like you resisted her fairly well. What I don't understand is why you wanted to hang out with her in the first place. Did you want something to happen between the two of you? And if she is a so-called friend she wouldn't have been making the moves on you knowing you have a girlfriend. I would not tell your girlfriend about any of this, unless you are intending on breaking up with her. If in the future someone mentions it to her and she asks you, then you need to be honest with her about everything.
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
479780
Do you love her? If yes, go talk to her at least, maybe she was in a bad space. If no, dump her a**.
615708
it sounds like you're a great guy-faithful to your girlfriend-as well as a good friend [you've tried to explain your situation to the girl but she just doesn't listen]. you have to make a choice: do you want to keep your girlfriend? if you want to, have NOTHING to do with this friend. don't go over, don't stay alone with her, don't take her calls, delete her messages. it's not that your friend doesn't GET it..it's that she doesn't CARE or RESPECT your life and your wishes. get away from her and dump her..otherwise she's going to cause YOU to get dumped.
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I think first of all you should wait until she officially breaks up with her boyfriend.  Because you're always going to be second best whether you think so or not, and if she's doing this behind her boyfriend's back then, she could do the same thing to you.  You should also be honest with your girlfriend and tell her that you think you two should see other people, because you're just going to make matters worse if you continue this "non-sexual" relationship.  If you both like each other, you'll both do the right or moral thing
170005
speak to your girlfriend, she will either confirm or deny - in the meantime brae yourself for the worst so that if she does want to break up you wont take it as bad.\n\nits better for you to confront her.
1107497
Talk to her make sure you know the situation. Don't jump to conclusions, but at the same time women do the same things to guys as far as looking in your phone so, you're not wrong and trust your instics they are there for a reason. If she lies to you, don't scream, don't yell just walk away from the relationship.  I'd treat her like a stranger I walked past on the street, with no familiarity, and be done with it. There had to be some other things that you've been noticing before now if she is cheating. That is the Ulitimate disrespect, and no one deserves it. I hate to accuse casue I don't know her but sounds like your trust in her is already damaged.