Is it worthwhile to be nice to yourself?
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Usually always better to treat yourself with respect. Much better to relax the body than to stress it all out. I wouldnt mind going to a spa right now actually...
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Treat others how you'd like to be treated. Everyone is human. Everyone has feelings (cliche) but it's true. If you're nicer to others you'll feel better within yourself. Obviously being nasty to others won't have a positive impact on you.  \n\nHaving more respect for others will allow you and others to have more respect for yourself. Everyone is on this earth for a reason (an unknown one at that). Life is hard enough as it is without people being twats to each other, that's commonly human nature though. At the end of the day, it's only you and your conscience that will enable you to be a nicer person to others. You just need to be more considerate to others, even if they aren't considerate back, you can rest knowing you've done the right thing. Directly that person may not appreciate it, but you'll notice others will (and they will)\n\nI hope this has helped.
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no, think that would be about right.\n\nAslo try not compare you to other people, it is not worth the fustraion.
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Why not, if you've tried everything else. Have you tried being yourself? You should feel no need to change if you are happy within yourself and people are not pressuring you to change
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This can be tough, but has a simple solution that is difficult for some to acomplish.  First, you have to force yourself to look at yourself OBJECTIVELY.  No internal reflection at all.  Try to see you for what and who you are....not what you think.\n\nI like the answer regarding responsibility, but it only answered one facet of self esteem.  The next thing you need to do is understand self esteem and what it is.  Self esteem is how you feel about you.  The fact that you are asking this question tells me that you care about yourself enough to try to improve.  That is abmirable and worthy of esteem.\n\nNext, try to identify what may be damaging your self esteem.  Is it really flaws in you, or just people you are surrounded by inventing them?  My experience is it is usually the latter.  Try to spend more time with people that make you feel good and less with the ones that don't.\n\nRemeber, the fact that you care enough to develop and improve, makes you worthy of esteem and respect.\n\nBe Well and I wish you the best.
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Don't. It isn't worth your time. It is beneath you. Being the good person in the situation may not feel like a reward, but it is. Stay strong, bite your tongue, and remember how much better you are than they are.
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Not at all. As long as you love yourself, you have no reason to care about how anyone else thinks. I personally don't care about another's opinions  of me. I have no control over that.
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i don't think you can be too nice.... there's not enough nice people out here in the world as it is..... but you can't let people run over you either.... people tend to see niceness as a weakness.... but whatever.... continue being yourself.. and if that's nice.. then be it.... just don't take no crap from nobody
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You are a sl*t. Is that sincere enough?
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The real question here is if YOU feel that you have any self worth, isn't it?
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always to be helpfull The more you give the better you will feel about yourself. don't ever give just to get because then you are doing for the wrong reason..God Bless You!!!!!11
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I try to be a good person and to think of the effect my actions will have on others. I don't want to be perfect cause that would be boring, but yes, sometimes I do think I could be a better person - less involved in my own little world and more able to see the bigger picture.
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being a good friend yourself!
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I always had been my own harshest critic.  I thought that by excelling I could be accepted because I saw myself as being unacceptable.  But by choosing unattainable goals, I kept proving to myself that I wasn't good enough because once again, I failed.  Allow yourself to make mistakes, you may have had a childhood as I did in which no one told me it was okay to not be the best...that I was good enough the way I am. You are equal.  When You allow yourself to be equal as a human being, your true potential has an opportunity to express itself because you are no longer in competition with others or yourself, it is no longer neccessary to prove to others that you are better or to prove to yourself that you are a failure.  Be kind to yourself.
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No, what is important is increasing your knowledge, learning new things from books, life, and relationships with all people you meet.  It is important to be nice to people and treat them the way that you would want to be treated.  Good luck to you!
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Try pleasing your self.
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By being yourself! Try random acts of kindness...