Why do "all" women say they love you madly and then at the drop of a hat  they don't even know you?
926291
I am guilty of that, the reason I give myself is that when I feel like they are going to leave me I'd rather cut it off to save myself the humiliation of being dumped. Perhaps its the biological chasing game...men seem to be a bit more okay with being rejected than a woman is since men are the ones chasing. I would never want to feel like the fool who needs to be told in her face that she isn't wanted, perhaps women know there are other options readily avaliable and she wouldn't have to start all over cos there'll always be some other man wanting to get in her panties.
940001
Because women are attention-whores who like to manipulate and mess with your head.\n\nAct like an azzhole and you'll do OK.
495480
This clearly shows that women and men, find each other fascinating, but don't usually tell! It may be fear of rejection or whatever, but this tells you that all we want is someone to love us!
514314
The simple truth is because they don't know how to love, they were never taught to love.  It is a very sad thing, but it happens all the time.
36515
Yes, agreed. I wouldn't read too much into it. I've had strangers who are women say this to me and I always warm right up when they say it. I've heard somewhere that suggests superiority but I just don't see it. The women who usually say this to me are usually older and kind.\n\nI also say this to my husband sometimes as many couples do to each other.
931224
How can you say you love someone and not want to be around them.  We women spend a great part of our lives trying to please our men, only to find out that they don't enjoy our company any longer, what kind of crap is that?
200196
Chumps\nThey're chumps\nand they're jealous...\nJealous chumps who don't understand that friendship is the strongest foundation upon which to build a real relationship...\nMired in their own crappy, loveless situations, they firmly believe that love and friendship are mutually exclusive.  You, of course, know better.  The friendship you and her have developed over the years is the glue that binds- it's the very reason you're together.  You guys look out for each other, and as long as you remain friends as well you will avoid the standard bullsh*t like taking advantage of one another, etc.\ncongratulations, sir
709428
that's because guys know girls hang on, many put up with a lot of stuff they don't have to out of love and guys think this means the girl is always gonna be there in the morning until its to late and she rolls out then their like "I'm sorry baby... I didn't mean it... I love you... Next time I..." and girls fall for it out of love or stupidity when most of the time the guy never learns and only ends up doing the same thing all over again
480021
My my.. and I'd think that men are sayin the exact same thing..\nWhy in the world are women so complicated.\n\nWell, we seem complicated to each other because we have different ways of thinking, hence its complicated to them because they do not understand how we think, and they are complicated to us because we do not understand how THEY think.
315607
like you- not really boyfriend forever type thing. SHe mainly just likes you for fun but it won't last long.\nbut i love you is a totally different story. When a girl says "i love you" she really means it.
503546
Well it sounds like she's falling in love with you!I don't think she'd say those things if there wasn't any meaning behind it!Maybe you should consider asking her this question because she's the only one who knows how she feels because you won't know any more than you do now by asking strangers on the internet!It does sound like she loves you though!
875090
4 some reason, they love 2 lie. \nthey think they r gettin over on women if they always lie. that's why they can't stop.\n\nthat's why they r always tellin us what we want 2 hear, they r lyin.\n\nif they truly tell us the truth;\n well then, we would'nt want 2 b with them.\n\nin a nutshell \n\nTHEY LIE 2 GET WHAT THEY WANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
651561
Lots of young women love men like you.  A lot of girls tend to go for the more exiting/adventurous guys you describe with drama and dysfenction.  (correctly, I might add)  \n\nPerhaps it is because they were too sheltered growing up, or just can't resist the fast-life.  \n\nSome women are just a lot smarter than that.  Not me - I went for the bad-boys for so long, but finally realized the error of my ways when I was in my 30s.  I sure hope it doesn't take most young women that long these days. \n\n;-)
66962
Maybe,or they are not ready to say I love you back.If they have said it before maybe it just depends on if they are at work or around friends. All you can do is ask why they prefer to say "me too".
453386
You've just answered your question. Now, I consider myself to be a gentleman.\nBut, look at what you said here. The women are the ones falling in love in your scenario. The guy is just dating and enjoying what's happening. The woman here is probably reading way too much into it, or she's the kind of woman who's "in love with falling in love".\n\nBy the way, when I was dating the woman who became my wife, I was the one who said the "I love you" first.\nHer response to that?... she said, "I know you do".
718933
They feel they need someone else's advice to weigh their love life. It shows your really not ready for a serious relationship if your depending on complete strangers to fix your love life. You have to go with how you feel, it's YOUR relationship, and it needs to be YOUR UNBIASED decisions. But hey...more points for me!
784588
women are like that...she just wants to make sure that she got her point across to you...and even though she is acting mad ...she really isn't...just keep telling her sorry...love you...all that fun stuff\nHANG IN THERE