OOOO No!   Slept with my friend (guy)?
916027
I did this once, and it changed everything.  We are still friendly, but not the friends we used to be.  Give him some time, and see what happens.  Most likely he just needs you to back off a little bit.  If it's just friends with benefits, sending notes about how wonderful he is is probably not a good idea.  Would you have sent something like that to him before the sex?  Probably not.  So don't do it now. Act the same way as you always have.  That was your agreement and you have to stick by it now.
460838
O.K. first of all, if your hung up about him sleeping with your "promiscuous" friend, and you can't put his past in the past.  Then you shouldn't go out with him.  You will end up only hurting yourself. 2nd, if you think you 2 can hook up, then don't let situations get in your way.  But, don't hide it from your friend.. You don't have to flaunt it in her face.  But sneaking around looses its glamor after a while.
299869
I don't think sleeping with him is going to, necessarily, change his mind. \nYou can tell him that you have feelings for him and you can ask him if he shares those feelings. I think you should find out how he feels about you before sleeping with him because for many guys sleeping with a woman doesn't always mean they are committing themselves. If you sleep with him and afterwards he tells you that he just wants to be friends, even tho' he doesn't mind sleeping with you from time to time, you might feel\nhurt and might even destroy your friendship. You have to be sure that you know what you want and find the right person who wants the same thing with you. You can't make someone commit if they don't want to for whatever reason. On the other hand, he might not know \nwhat you really want. In any case be ready to hear that he likes you, mor as a friend, or that he is not into a relationship. Don't sleep with him with the idea that he'll fall in love with you. In my experience that needs to come before sleeping together. Good luck.
451008
Not much u can do, that is part of the danger of dating friends from your group of friends, like sleeping with a co-worker, things go bad, u are stuck with them.  One suggestion though is finding another guy will, if he has/had any feelings for u at all, make him want to not be around as much when he knows u both will be there.
189000
Is this guy telling the truth about not having sex, or is he just trying to sleep with you?\n\nDo you like this guy or have "feelings" for him?  If no, then I wouldn't sleep with him.\n\nMaybe find a date for him, or an escort to boost his self-esteem.
915157
well you weren't supposed to date the guys friend.  that's a no no.  now if he asks you out it'll be a miracle.
341452
No not at all, I went through this same thing a couple of years ago a male frined and I both came outta long, serious relationships about the same time and were feeling quite down and bruised by the whole thing and ended up being together alot of the time talking about it and of course one thing led to another and we eventually slept together and it just became a habit (I know that sounds awful!!) but neither of us could face another relationship at that time and we aren't into one night stands so we'd just hook up have the best laugh and then enjoy great sex before saying goodbye in the morning with no pressure it was ideal, it went on for about two yeras until we both just met people we wanted to be with and then it fizzled out but we're still the best of friends now (purely platonic!!) so it worked out fine.  The only thing I'd watch out for is that you both understand the situation if one person has feelings that the other dosen't have then it will cause problems and you shouldn't do it but if you both know it's just sex cos you have needs then go for it.  Good Luck!!
858722
You were drunk and it went too far? If you are good friends, talk it over with him. Get things out in the open. It was just a silly mistake. Or, maybe, he likes you as more than just a friend and wants to take things further. You know him better than we do.
272920
Yes there is a difference between dating and sleeping together. Your definition are correct and she is just a sexually liberated woman. The guy is her Friend with benefits(a friend whom you have sex with an there is a possibility of dating.) I wouldn't worry to much about her and maybe she just slipped by saying dating, or she didn't want to look easy by saying that she was just sleeping with another guy, I hope this helped Best Wishes
329899
Yes.\nRight after you tell her you slept with her best friend...or, that thing about 'restraining order'....while on the can isn't that bad, folks.
409608
you said he is a guy friend...so he is your friend.  \n\nit's like you are putting him in a situation which he does not want to be in.  it seems that you asked him that question because you want something more to come between you two.  do u? \n\ndon't embarass yourself to ask the same question over and over again.  once is enough....read between the lines.
718179
$***** F*****, This is wat it means...\nYou should have asked him right away and banged him...
96961
"Ratting him out" will not bring him back to you.  It comes across a bit juvenile.  If this man would treat you poorly and leave you, then stab his friend in the back by sleeping with his girlfriend, is this really the type of guy that you want to waste your energy on?  Think about it, all of this time that you've been so concerned with his actions, was he even thinking of you?  I would say re-direct this effort towards finding your own happiness.
484081
well by the sounds of it he already has made a massive mistake & lost you . I hope he realizes what he had . On the upside at least he never went behind your back either but he has to learn he can't have his cake & eat it too. Sounds like u are still young. typical to want to sleep with someone else but the thought of u doing it he can't stand . I think move on there are plenty of men out there that will treat u right this guy i hate to say it wo'nt change do'nt let him drag you down find a nice guy & later on down the track u will be wondering what all the fuss was about Good luck with this.
377632
oh my gosh, this just happened to one of my really good guy friends! tell her how you feel about her, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't deserve you
775073
He had his fun with you and then went back to his girlfriend.  He knows you like him.  He is just not interested.  Stop sleeping over and you will forget about him when you start dating someone else, preferably his best friend.
365734
Well, is this guy worth loosing your best friend...never date someone that your friend has!