What is it that women today like?I am old fashioned and believe in chivelry?
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most men and women are not like that these days.     me? i look for the man with the heart and not just if hes a "hottie".  i'm a sucker for old fashioned romance. opened doors, flower(s) for no reason, stuff like that makes me melt.
100284
THE ONLY THING THAT WILL JUDGE YOU IS MAN ... MEN/WEMON THAT ARE ALIVE TODAY ..... NOT FICTANAL CHARICTERS FROM OLD BOOKS
211225
Though I hesitate to call myself feminist (mostly due to an internal debate over whether a man can truly be a feminist); I do try to uphold some of the beliefs of both the early suffragette movement, and the change in social mores in the 1960s and 1970s. That is, gender (and racial though that is a different topic) equality in matters of politics, socio-economics, and spiritaulity.\n\nAs for reconciling attitudes between my own beliefs and those of the patriarchal religions; quite frankly, I couldn't. Experience with my extended family gave me an extremely biased view of leadership dynamics. Due to my mother's family, I began to tie the presence of strong female influence, leadership and direction to long-term stability and strong ties within a family. This idea was reinforced over the course of three generations: my mother, my mother's mother, my maternal grandmother's mother and sisters, as well as my maternal grandfather's mother and sister all presented strong female role models and true partnerships with their husband. It is interesting to note that while a good number of my maternal great-aunts and great-uncles (sisters/brothers of grandparents) do affiliate with the (Roman Catholic or other Christian) church, the majority are FWEC Christians.\nMy father's family, on the other hand, had a strong paternal influence within the household; or rather, the influence of my paternal grandmother was purposefully muted due to prevailing influence and ideals of the Catholic Church during her childhood. Their family dynamic, in the past twenty years, has been punctuated by arguments, divorce, and what can only be described as very poor judgement.\n\nI never truly had to reconcile my own learned beliefs with those of the church for two main reasons: first, I was not raised in the church. I sought the church on my own around as a pre-teen and chose the Congregational Church specifically because of it's stand on female clergy (allowed).
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Our society worships youth and beauty; many people seem to have the attitude that if you are over a certain age you have no value.  It's really sad.  Some women buy into this attitude which is why you have older women acting like teenagers.  Hopefully you won't do this when you get to be this age.
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Hey you like what you like..its what makes you different...sounds like you belong in the 80's you know, where men had longer hair and were prettier than the women? good times.
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It does seem that women (thankfully not all) no longer appreciate a man treating her with respect.  Opening the door for her, holding a chair, walking on the outside next to her, and many other things.\n\nI have seen young men try some thing like that and the woman respond with total distaste for his efforts. \n\nI must admit I come from a generation where such respect for women was normal, as was the woman’s respect for the man by allowing him to act in that manner.\n\nNone of that meant that there wasn’t respect for the woman as an individual, there was.  In my family woman were (and are) strong and independent and fully capable of doing whatever is requires.  Even so, men and women demonstrating respect for each other was the norm.\n\nTo me, the current trend of the lessening of these actions of personal respect is a loss to all.
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i think they feel more appreciated. older women are more appreciative of little things than younger women, and they understand a little bit better what it takes to be a good gf/wife than a younger woman might. This is just a guess, of course
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I guess because it departs from tradition and what people are used to.  The women's movement was only 30-40 years ago, and a lot of people still aren't conditioned to the fact that a woman can find happiness and success on her own.  I am 27, rather attractive, own a business and make more money than most married couples my age, yet some people treat me like I've got one foot in the grave and had better hurry up and get married because 30 seems to be the magic deadline.  The truth is, I would love to get married when I'm damn good and ready to find the right one, whether it be tomorrow or when I'm 75.  I'm just not going to get married for the sake of marriage, which a lot of people seem to do (hence the divorce rate today).
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all women "manipulate" to a certain degree.  for example I do not feel that I am an extreme manipulator.  I prefer to think of myself as a "motivator".  In all honesty, a lot of men do need a little pushing once in a while.
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As the old country and western song goes.... Older women make beautiful lovers.\n\nTo which I say... AMEN.
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WOW.. \nYou know I have to say I do agree with you.   \nIn today's society, it seems it's okay to flush everything your parent's have taught you, away with the old school ways.  And in with the rudeness, and disrespect.\nI was just hoping I wasn't a dinosaur for teaching my children  the same values that was taught to me, and my siblings. \nMy boy's sometimes get irratated when I say ..."be a gentleman" open, or hold the door for a lady.   \nOr when I tell my daughter... "it's not lady like" .. blah blah blah blah...\nHowever, I'm hoping I'm teaching them the right things.  To stand out and be different then society!   \n\nGood Luck, I hope you get good responses.  I'm curious to read some of the answer's to this question.
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FEMALE I don't even know why women like us men sometimes.  A women's body when in the tone form its beauty and exotic i Iook at mine and don't think beauty not that I'm out of shape but  if we were vehicles women would be a sleek plush fine Italian sport car beautiful,dangerous, expensive to maintain,and do anything to drive it.Me I would definitly compare the my frame to an older SUV  fairly dependable but dont count on it ,smells funny at times makes lots of noise needs lots of fuel ,sluggish,can take a beating and when your done w/ it not worth nearly as much
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Hopefully Chivalry is never dead,I am sure a lady will be along who will appreciate it and you :)
400433
Finally a man who appreciates the hard working woman.  It's just in our nature to get things done.  Women are the complement of men and the backbone of families and that means not resting until everything is in its place.
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Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
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There are many in my country.  I am a clairvoyant reader and actually had a few come to me for a reading.. Much against their religion.  But we found many agreeing values.  And they understood their challenges.  I just feel a little intimidated by the women who bow down to their men, and let them have other wives.   Women have come so far to be looked at equally in society, and now we are bombarded with all these women in cloaks.  It makes me feel somewhat demised.
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Those rules change over time, as society does.  These days, it involves holding doors open for women, helping them on with their coats, and not talking about them in rude ways.\n\nMy personal opinion, I really like being treated that way, but I always treat my sweetie with similar respect and courtesy, and that makes it a great two-way street.