Was it too much for the first date?
921222
well my ex fiancee is in the marines so i understand why you thhink that and you are fully in the right to think that but a kiss is just a kiss just plzz wait to do more
320535
depends......did i have a date last night
199334
guys don't like to 'dive' into things. give him time, don't be all over him.\nif he liked the date -and you- as much as you did, he'll be in touch.
958326
I had a couple guys offer me $$$ to go on dates with them.. \n\nI did one. got $800 dollars and just had to have dinner with him and let him cuddle me.. it was strange but the money was good and it was a crazy experience
618499
The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!
1006904
relive your very first date...a woman appreciates it when her guy remembers special dates and the things that are associated with each special dates to remember...my guy remembers the date that we first talked on the phone...6 months ago!!
109983
Not necessarily. It depends how you formulate your question. Sometimes is better to give some harmless suggestions and let him to take the initiative. Anyway, you can demonstrate no deep feelings about him the first date so you’ll drive him nuts. See what happens!
629405
Hmm.. which one to choose...\n\nAbout 2 months ago I agreed to meet a guy that I had met off of a certain dating site. Lets see.. he said his body type was average ( for a hippo maybe ) and that he was 5'6". Now I am 5'3" and I was eye to eye with this guy.. maybe his gut had pulled him down 3 inches I am not sure lol. \n\nAnyway the comedy of errors started with dinner. It was a cute little Italian place. The portions were huge and my date proceeded to eat his entire plate (which took like an hour because he eats so slow) and in the process managed to drop alot of it on his shirt. YUCK!! Then came the bill.. he kept scrounging around for his wallet.. didnt produce it and then went to the bathroom forever... I felt sorry for the server and paid the bill myself, hoping he would at least leave the tip. When he finally came out and saw the bill was gone, he asked if I was ready to leave. I mentioned that she might need a tip and he flipped 2 bucks out of the wallet that had been missing in action 20 minutes ago and put it on the table. No thank you for paying or anything. As we were walking out to our cars, he asked what else I would like to do. Um.. go home was all I could come up with lol. He leaned in for the kiss goodnight and got the famous one handed pat on the back.. the kiss of death on dates!!
653100
Tell him Yes!  Dinner is an easy first date.  You can go and see how things happen and if it isn't so great then you can leave after.  But if it is great, then who knows.  I say go and give it a try - what are you waiting for?
102577
Of course you could to where you went for your first date. Or you could go to a place that you've always wanted but couldn't afford. \nLastly, you could just make his favorite meal at home, with candles, music, a fabulous dessert, and then take it from there!!!
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
958028
On a first date, I wouldn't wear anything sexy.  I would keep it conservative.  It depends upon where you are going...the movies, the mall, wear jeans, a colorful top, tasteful makeup.  Don't overdo on the first date in order to make a lasting impression.
456415
I wouldnt say it was a man's responsibility, but it is traditional!\nPersonally I always have enough money to pay for both of us and will expect to pay for everything, especially on a first date.  I will try to refuse her paying for any part of it on the first date (I'm talking meals, cinema etc rather than flights somewhere - I'm not THAT rich!), unless she really insists on it.  As for more dates after I'd be happy to split the cost of stuff.  And if she wants to treat me thats great!
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
775920
a willingness to sleep with me on the first date...
1065276
A simple " I had a great time, we should do this again, I'll call you " is very acceptable for a first date. However don't wait a week to call her, by then she thinks you probably weren't interested and just being nice. If you say your going to call her a 2-3 day window is not pushy yet still showing you are interested.
1087715
I think a good first date doesn't have to involve the typical "dinner and a movie". It's important that the date include time to get to know each other (that is, talking/conversation time) and a movie just doesn't lend that kind of time. Dinner is good but it can be a little formal. I think going for brunch and then doing something that you both enjoy (say, going to a museum or a carnival or going hiking). \n\nOR if i meet her online then I prefer for the first date to be just a meeting for a drink or something similar....just in case it doesn't go well and one of us wants out! :) (I'm sure that never happens to any of us, though!)  If all goes well you can always extend the date to include dinner, dancing, or whatever. I prefer something where we can talk the first time and really get to know one another like going to a museum or a carnival or going hiking.