help!!! i haven't seen my bf all weekend but when he came in he didn't even kiss me hello...?
925320
I would suggest you re-focus your energy on to yourself and your own life more and what you do in your life that gives you pleasure and enjoyment away from your boyfriend.  It might be that you have allowed him to take over your life too much and this may be causing him to loose interest in you a little bit.  For him to stay interested in you, you have to be interested in you and believe in yourself as a worthy and loveable person by doing things that are for your own pleasure and nothing to do with him. Therefore, to get this relationship back on track, suggest you get busy with your own projects, have him realise that he can be PART of your life but he is not the totality of your life, that you have a fulfilling and happy time whether he is there or not ... re-build your confidence by your own activities, e.g. with friends, hobbies etc.  Don't expect your boyfriend to reassure you and give you confidence, you have to get that by yourself.  I would say definitely don't ask him 'what's wrong', there is clearly something wrong and pushing him by asking him about it is likely just to push him further away and make your situation worse.  His behaviour is kind of indicating that it might not be so much fun being with you at the moment, but you can turn things around ... focus on making sure that when you are together you and he have good, positive interactions and lots of fun.  There is nothing more attractive to a man than a happy and confident woman who is good fun to be with.  Good luck.
299364
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
98102
Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
525988
You need to give his space for a while. He is really hurting right now, and no matter how much you want to help, there is really nothing you can do. \n\nIf giving him his space means not seeing him for a while, then deal with it(not to sound harsh or anything). He'll come back to you, and there is a very good chance that he'll let you in on things soon, but for now you have to let him find his way back to you.\n\nI'm very sorry about what is going on. I wish you the best of luck, and I'm praying for you guys.\n\nBig Hugs,\nkitties_n_llamas(Becca)
1145615
Seems to me that he is your Monday to Friday boyfriend. On the weekend he has no time for you because he is probably hanging with is friends. Let this arshole run. Look for someone who knows how to treat a lady.
491499
Sounds like a fairly new relationship, take it slow. If he isn't calling, maybe he has good reasons. Tell him your bothered by this, try to come to a resolution between the 2 of you. A good relationship needs amazing communication. No hiding things. If this doesn't work, start shopping for a new relationship. Always another bigger better fish.
1184752
wont you call him up and ask him why he havent been calling you. ortherwise move on!!
580838
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
794073
Why did you guys break up in the first place? If he broke it off and now gives you looks than he is probably insecure and honestly you don't need that type of bf.Be honest to yourself 'cause I don't think u really miss him that much. A short relationship isn't enough to miss someone that much. my advice, DO NOT aproach him first. Ignore everything he does, dress sexy and stylish, keep your chin up and if he's still into you he'll come to you and you'll know he's worth giving another chance. But be carefull the next time, don't get attached. Keep your distance it will make HIM squirm. Good luck...
720575
He's trying to feel you out and see what your like now since he hasn't seen you in awhile. You never know he might want to see if anything develops. Good luck!
287403
Next time he's alone (again when he's alone) go up introduce yourself and ask if he's seeing anyone. If he's not ask him out.  Please don't try that pathetic flirt/hint crap that most women use. Most guys don't pick up on that subtle crapola!
939950
Maybe he is really busy with something...wait a bit more...it has only been 6 days since you last talked...and you don't talk everyday...so maybe he is just a little busy....
802792
call him and ask him what's wrong.\nlet him know that he can talk to you about anything\nif things don't work out within the next week or so, confront him and ask him if he has lost interest\nif he hasn't let him know that you want to make room for more quality time, and if he has, go find someone better.
150331
Ok, it's only been a weekend and your upset? Just wait. Maybe he's playing the waiting game to see who will give up first. If a weekend turns into a month...then u know to let it go.
763130
Email him and say... Hey just thinking about you. I have not heard from you lately and just wanted to know  if you wanted to go out again some time, and then give him an easy way out. Then at least you will know.
646864
HE IS SCARED! Trust me, he did not kiss you just for the fun of a kiss and then change his mind. Don't be pushy just be available. Try to be a safe place for him to go when he is feeling strong enough. If you become clingy, needy, or overly dramatic you will scare him off and lose you best friend and your love. Friendship is the root of great relationships. This has real potential, that is scary. Just back off and give him some time. I would keep up with the occasional text message, short and sweet, but avoid any type of demand. He will come around.
696113
Ok, it's only been one month and two weeks and he already doesn't trust you. There's the first red flag. He hasn't kissed you, you two don't see each other often and you love each other? Second red flag. I think you need to break it off. There is something really weird going on here and I don't think it's you. He may not be cheating on you but the relationship isn't that healthy for only a month into it. You need to find someone that can take the time to physically see you and show their love instead of accusing you of things that aren't true. Love and Trust go hand in hand.