Which is more motivational, hate or love?
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That is channeling your negative into a positive.  However, I would say love kicks hates ass.  EXAMPLE:  If somebody tries to destroy that which I hate, it does nothing for me.  Somebody tries to destroy that which I love turns me into the Angel of Death!  A merciless killing machine designed to thwart your design of ruining my existence.  Since I love very few things though, this has yet to come into play.  Hint:  Lave my family alone and you will not be harmed.
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The thin line between love and hate, as everyone else said, is due to strong emotions. It is harder to love someone than it is to hate them. Love is more of a risk than hate. Hate/anger is a very protective emotion. To love someone you risk everything and heart break hurts-no matter how it breaks. No one wants to hurt because the "hurt" always takes FOREVER to heal. If you could draw the invisible line between the two-people would be healthier. I have been in situations where I was able to love and hate a person at the same time. It did not feel good. AND I knew that I was feeling both at the same time.
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no, hate and anger are much more appropriate don't you think?
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That is an interesting question.\nI think that it is directly related to love, but not a form of love.\nI think about it this way: Hating someone takes so much time and energy that I cannot imagine putting that much effort toward someone I didn't care deeply for or even love. The average person who bugs me just isn't worth that much effort from me. \nI think that hate is the only emotion stronger than love, but that you can only truly and passionately hate someone that you love. (Romantically or Familially)\nLoathing someone is different. To loathe someone you don't have to love them, it's a bit more mild than actual hatred.
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love=dont+hate.........eqn 1\ndont+love=hate.........eqn 2\nadding both eqns,\nlove+dont+love=hate+dont+hate\ndont cancels on both sides\nso\nlove+love=hate+hate\nthat is\n2love=2hate\ndividing both sides by 2\nlove=hate...Ha
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actually its the other way around it takes much more energy to hate than to love. Love can come easier and its more soothing on your physic. To hate disrupts your entire body and well being.....PEACE OUT.....Good luck
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Hate - He is emotionally unavailable and doesn't like sharing his feelings.  Plus he can be unthoughtful.\n\nLove - He is never fake, usually really honest and genuine
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I hate less all the time.  It gets easier and easier to become forgiving as time goes on if you get on that track.  I don't think I was ever particularly hateful but now the only thing I seem to hate is hate itself, and when people chew with their mouth wide open or panic.
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If you are motivated by the promise of Paradise or fear the depths of hell you are missing the point and don't understand. If you understand what is right and moral you do those things because it is the good of all and it brings joy alone away from fear and promise.\nI would rather my girlfriend to love me because she wants too not because I promised her I would buy her something if she did. Likewise I want her not to cheat on me because she doesn't want to; not because I will leave her if she does. Doing good is knowledge of the good thing, do not need motivation or fear to do it.  When you truly understand you do it for yourself
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Yes.  But even though I feel hate towards him, I know there is love underneath, I think it's more anger, hurt, and rage than actual hatred.  No matter how angry I was, I would still be there for him though.
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There is a fine line between love and hate and only someone who has felt both emotions could ever begin to understand. You can love someone so much that you hate them and hate them so much you love them...Both emotions are raw and passionate, hence the connection.
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• hate coupled with disgust
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I personally think fear rules all negative emotions.  you are greedy out of fear of having nothing.  You are jealous out of fear of losing.  You are hating something out of fear of not knowing the truth or the other side.  You are judgemental out of fear of accepting.  You are anxious out of fear, and we have to learn to look with love instead of fear to follow the proper path and achieve what we dream.
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(Love + Hate) = (Fear + Confusion)\n\nIf you mean that you feel love and you also experience feelings of hatred, i think this probably equals normality (in most people at some times in their lives)\n\ni was never good at coming up with equations, mind: but i don't think you can truly love a person and at the same time hate them --- maybe hate something they did? till you understand why? then the hate will disappear.\n\nSame goes for anything you love. A trite example might be a hobby you used to love but have come to hate -- once you realise why and what has caused the change, you will understand it and be able to act on it; then the hate will go.\nA more serious thing like self-hatred, well -- same goes, so long as you are able to figure out what in your own behaviour has engendered these feelings - act on them, be compassionate towards yourself, alter the undesirable behaviour and forgive yourself.\n\nHate is mostly generated by fear of the unknown, in my observations - understanding and compassion will always conquer it: even if the actions can be explained only by a mental instability that you can't actually fathom and probably wouldn't want to. (Here, i refer to other people, in general, although mental instability can strike 1/4th of the population at some time in their life, even if it is "only" mild depression and i want to make clear that i have no prejudice towards anyone in that situation, i would only recommend that, in such a case, they seek help)\n\nI doubt that applies to you cos the question seems to be thoughtful rather than specific.\n\nI will watch the other answers with interest.\n\n\n............just saw your additional details -- hmm, you are giving love and receiving hate? That equals a tremendous amount of effort and compassion on your side: even then, if the other party involved is not able to look inside themself and stop the hate, well...  it is a journey to a wasteland.
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Love everyone! It is really easy to love one that love you, but take a challenge and love a hater
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at first I was thinking to reply YES to both questions, \n\nbut now that I think about it...\nto love mean ppl presents more of a challenge than loving nice ppl...I think mean ppl test your love and strengthen your character if you are able to love them and God does call us to love meanies.\n\nBut I guess that's kind of selfish, huh? ooh, I hope i'm not mean. :(
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Lonliness.\n\nLove is a greater drive than hunger.\n\nAll you need is love.