A Friend's Bad Relationship?
915106
Either a) she truly loves him even though he is abusive, or b) he's forcing her to be his girlfriend.
2959
Depends on what they did... my first guess would be that they feel guilty about doing what they did... and since you seem to know about it, you could be a constant reminder of the thing this person did.... bottom line, your friend needs to come clean and tell someone about it before their guilt consumes them... and you need to be a true friend and stick by their side... no matter how much you think this person hates you. Whatever you do, dont take the blame for something someone else did... make them be responsible and mature and make the right decision.
1124001
You are being a friend.  Talk to their family and explain your concerns and hopefully they will be worried enough to seek help for your friend.  You can also call the local mental health center to see what they can advise you or if there is a hotline to call.  Your friend needs to know that there is more in this life than one relationship and how much they would hurt the ones that really love them and how it would destroy them if they hurt themself.  Just because one relationship doesn't work shouldn't end the world.   My prayers are with you.
654716
My question to you would be how can YOU trust him when obviously your FRIEND couldn't trust him? Can your friend trust you or are you going to let her down also?
532284
Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!
584506
I have always been the type of person who wants to know.  Most people on the other hand live with the rule that ignorance is bliss.  Do you know what kind of person your friend is ? But chances are if you tell you will loose both friends and they will work it out and continue their relationship.  What you can do perhaps is make it so that they will stumble upon it themselves somehow.  This way you did your part and you dont have to loose any friends.
1049115
It really depends on you and the situation. There are a lot of questions to ask yourself. Did she do this on purpose and why? How important is this friendship to me? Is this the first time she has disappointed me? It's good to forgive, but if this is the type of person that will keep hurting you, it might be time to rethink the friendship.
471897
This is like most relationships. Its give and take...Your friend wont be a real friend if she cant deal with your feelings and opinions. You may be wrong, so what, you have the feelings correct or not. If you talk things out you will find a common ground.
214152
No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
241660
She can't be that nasty if you consider her a friend!!!! She was good enough for you at one time, so why not now???\nYou should think about what brought you 2 together in the first place and if she did something that you don't agree with, talk to her about it! You should talk out your problems and try to remain friends!\nGood luck!
276640
If this person was a true friend, if they are aware they are hurting you, they would stop doing it and appologize.\n\nTherefore, discuss your feelings and work it out.  If nothing changes, this person is NOT a friend, and you can feel free to stop the relationship.
672854
I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
211919
This is a common problem that people should really just get over.  Shouldn't you be happy for your friend or even your ex.  Seems real immature to hold a grudge like that.  I say, if you really like the friend, blow off your ex or tell him to suck it up and deal.
513679
it could be that he has his own issues and lots of them - that is the why\n\nunless he is willing to face them squarely then he will drag anyone who gets close to him down into it\n\nnow to answer your first question?\n\nno no no - just 'good' friends isn't a runner up prize for a failed relationship.  friendship has to be based on something more than that IMO.\n\nI think to let this fish go - if he changes over time then worry about that then - but for now give him space and move past this
139771
Depends on what kind of friend it is and what kind of diss it is.  A good friend and a minor diss, well, I would let her know how you feel about her behavior. It all depends on the situation, honestly.
387711
I had a friend that was doing bad stuff, and i just told him to either stop or we wouldn't be friends, and i know you still wanna be her friend, but the thing is that in most cases she will tell you that she will, and you guys will stay friends. If you won't do that then maybe you should start to say subtle things to her about her behavior, just slip them into your conversations, that way she doesn't feel bad. That's my advice.
518089
Tell him that life isn't as bad as it seems. He needs to look at the bright side of eveerything. Do you really want to stop being his friend because he is someone who doesn't see the good of things? Think about it. You said you were friends. Don't let him go because of his problems. Help him through it. Make your friend let him know gently that they don't have a chance. Just do things lightly, and think more about him. Don't ditch the dude for his personal things he needs to take care of.