sometimes i scream uncontrollably at my children, like spontaneously.  anyone know what may help with this?
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1.  Consider having a medical evaluation, if this is a change in behavior for you.  It could be a medical problem, such as fluctuating blood sugar, or changing hormone levels.\n2.  Try relaxation therapy.  There are many excellent sites on line that will give you exercise sheets to print out.  Do a Search on Stress Reduction.\n3.  Do slow, deep breathing exercises, 5 minutes at a time, several times a day to help you relax and maintain your composure.\n4.  You are not alone!  Consider a group such as Parents Anonymous to give you some support and advice from others with similar problems.\n5.  Do you have time, alone or with friends, out of your home and away from the children?  If not, try to build some into your schedule.  Try trading baby-sitting time with a friend.\nBest of luck.  Try to maintain hope and a sense of humor.
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I hope you have taken some of the above advice and seen a doctor.  As a teacher I have both heard and seen children who have "behavior problems" and it is because of epileptic (sp) seizures that are not typical--staring into space or they stop talking mid sentence.  I am sure whatever the situation is you'll get it checked out!
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Hello: I would like to make a suggestion. If at all possible please look for a therapist. I'm not suggesting this to be rude. You say that there was a lot of fighting in your life as a child. That is emotional abuse. Yelling, name calling, fighting, screaming matches that is abuse. If you are having flashbacks and repressed memories to me as a survivor of abuse both emotional, and other it seems like there are things that maybe you need unburden your heart with. There seems like there could be a lot of pain to perhaps work out. I have P.T.S.d and flashbacks are something that I deal with  I have anxiety and I have repressed memories. I encourage you to please talk to someone. A pastor, relative, friend, or therapist. Please for if nothing else at all then to help with your blood pressure. I have worked through many problems and still have a long way to go. If it seems like I am reading to much in to this then perhaps I could be. It just sounds like something is troubling your heart.\nGood Luck and I'll keep you in thought and prayer.
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It's called misplaced anger. We are all susceptible to it. If something is upsetting me I gently tell my son to leave me be for a little bit and explain that it has nothing to do with him, it's just that I need to be alone; so that I don't take my anger out on him. But not all parents have that foresight.
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I absolutely relate!  My daughter is two, and I still get a kick out of it when she toots in my hand (when I'm holding her).  Sometimes they're so loud that I swear an adult did it... until she starts to laugh.
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Maybe when you are stressed out, you tend to yell quite a bit, and resolves in to losing your voice. You should definatly see your doctor, and talk to him about what happens......
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I suggest being straightforward with the people and tell them right off that they cannot use those words around youre children. whether theyre youre friends or not(i dont know) you should still tell them immediately to stop
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I wonder what volume you play your music.. may be the factor..Causes considerable irritation to the nerves you mention with your symptoms.. suggesting you are having a problem that us sub acute and the stress of the music takes it into the acute state.
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Try being a little bit more strict, not to the point of being harsh though. Just let them know that you are their teacher, and they need to stay on task. Also be consistent with your punishings. For instance, if one week you punish a lot of children for talking, and the next week you slack off a little bit, then they may get the idea that its okay to talk whenever they want to. Hope this helps. =)
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My husband likes to curse.  I tell him it makes him look immature and undignified.  I personally think that's why he does it, because it irritates me.  I only get really mad when he says something and my 2-year old repeats it!
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Your child is not the only one with problems like this.  Professional help is in order when the child's behavior is dangerous to them or others.  Do not take it lightly.  Your child needs a complete psychiatric evaluation to determine what the problem is, and what you can do for your child, and to protect your family.\n\nWhile I'm sure you love your child dearly, you may have make some serious decisions to ensure everyone's safety.  God be with you.  I pray He will guide you to the right specialists who will have positive, loving answers for you.  Amen.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
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Cursed in front of my children.  I never heard my parents swear and I feel terrible that I let my children down in that way.
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Probably for bad behavior.  It happens to me all the time.  Ouch!  Mom! Stop that!  Bye!
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I'm strong and handle stress well\n\nI tend to get bitchy, and I have a low patience level (though not with my kids)
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I am confused - do you mean your speech ? You could both take speech therapy for that . And if it is how the words come out wrong - like me - I sometimes speak rougher or louder than I should , people get confused or defensive at me , and I don't even know what I said wrong until it is too late . Now if this is what it is I can only say that it will take time to change it . Mine came after I think I was about 30 - my last child was born , and I started talking less , made shorter answers and bit my tongue , close the lips more often and use my ears now ! I still have problems relating to piers , family excetra . And I totally understand about the self esteem . I think you should try to have an hour every other day or so with your son and talk it through together - you might come up with some ways of fixing it together , your own class ! Maybe even put an ad in the paper to start a support group for just that , for parents and children to learn it together . I don't have exact answers - I am just trying to help . Good luck .
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i tend to scream at it.
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maybe you should talk to a doctor about this. maybe something in your life has changed to trigger this behaviour