i had a guy friend call my ex last night.?
923217
u need to be strong, and never go back to this guy, u are still in love with the ex, and it is hard when he calls. sometimes we can still love someone but they aren't good for us, sometimes it is hard to move on, but we got to, for our own well being, when we truly know that person will hurt us. just be strong, when he calls again, hang up, don't let him suck u in again into his world.
1000194
Stay away.  If you call him here is what he will hear:\n\n"Hi, I know we're all broken up like a million years ago, but I just want you to know that I'm pathetic and can't seem to get over you.\n\nNot minor league pathetic, like I got drunk one night and called you and then regreted it the next day, FULL BLOWN PATHETIC because I planned the whole call and weighed the pros and cons and still voted to trash my dignity".\n\nIn response he will either be rude to you on the phone, or be polite and you will get the totally wong idea just to embarrass yourself more later on.  \n\nNo matter how you feel or why you are calling him, this is what he will hear, then he will tell his girlfirend, and they both will have a good laugh at your expense.  \n\nI just don't think it's realistic to expect any different outcome.
317143
Why would he ever let his friends use your cell phone?  I think he is lying.  Call his ex and find out what is going on from her.
788627
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
218653
Sure, why not...I'm mad at my ex, but he thought I liked a friend of mine(and thought I was cheating with the guy) when he was cheating on me!  Long story, but just use your intuition on this one.
560209
Before you do anything,find out the truth.Either of them could have been lying.If it turns out your friend lied ,apologize to your now ex and dump the friend.
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
1175948
sounds like he wants you on standby.cheaters rarely change, thank your lucky stars you didn't marry him. if he calls again tell him to please stop calling you and move on with your life.
249162
He still cares about you but something went wrong in your guy's relationship that's still hurting him. Just talk to him about why the relationship ended and how you two feel about each other. It just sounds to me like you have some issues on why you two broke up but you've never talked about them and got the closure you both need to move on. I know. My ex is doing the same thing right now.
102354
If you really hate him..you should talk to the girl that has been calling and tell her not to date him! but if i were you..i would still talk to him..he is your ex after all and you and him need to move on!
521830
You are right cause he is your ex and your not together so he should not be sleeping over at your house if you tell him not to. You had every right to wake him up, it's your bed and your house. He needed to go home, but why should it matter if he has not called you today. He is your ex maybe you should move on.
1175577
Honey, please don't tear yourself up.  Remember, that you are a valued person, your have a life that can be beautiful. Don't let her use you, respect yourself, where is your self-esteem? Next time she calls, be polite and considerate, but let her know that you have your own life and she isn't in it.  Politely tell her to find another ex to cry to.You my friend are worth so much more than to be used as a sounding board. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and find someone who appreciate you for you . Please, do this for yourself.  I found someone I adore and am adore back, we would nerve be disrespectful of each other as she is to you.  Take a long hard look at yourself, you are one hell of a women. Someone out there is dying to meet you.
601349
I was only with my guy for a year!! After we broke up i started hanging out with alot of my friends and guys!! This might sound bad but maybe you should look for a distraction!!!\nIt helped me
682009
sorry to say but uve made ur bed now u gotta sleep in it.  I done the same thing last year me and my ex were going through a rough patch and i used that as an excuse to cheat i feltbad afterwards but my ex ended up finding out and even though we got back together we were never the same we could never find that spark we had in the beginning so we ended it.  It was very sad but were still friends just wish i hadnt made the mistake
777436
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
688717
You surely will not get together if you both keep hanging up on one another.  Why not stop the kiddie games and communicate honestly?  Trying to make him jealous by calling his friend is not going to help- unless you want to turn them both against you.  Just muster up your courage and talk to him.