Will i ever acept the fact that my mom and dad divorced when i was 3?
921267
obviously not..............how old are you now?,but it's really not your place. you weren't married to either to know what happened.Until you ask and find the reason, then you decide whether you should be upset or accept it.
764067
It is a sad thing to loose a parent.  It leave a mark on you and a pain that you really never get over.  I happen to be a funeral director and when I lost my parents, I went through the exact same thing.  I know it is of no comfort to you, but as time goes by, you will find that other things in your life keep you occupied.  You will never forget her, but in time God works a miracle in which the sharp pain associated with your loss gets a little less and you can reflect upon the joyous and happy times with a feeling of love and appreciation.  I know you probably find this hard to believe, and so did I, but it does happen.  My father died in 1987 and my mother in 1999, and at times is seems like it was only yesterday.  I hope you are able to find peace and understanding very soon.
217908
The instructions say this:  "If your parents have divorced or separated, answer only the questions about the parent that you lived with most during the last 12 months. If you did not live with one parent more than the other, answer only the questions about the parent who provided most of your financial support during the last 12 months."
322965
No, but my Dad dies when I was 12 and my Mom when I was 18!!
869490
I told my mother that I was married to the father of my first three children....it went on for about 8 years.. Then the night before she passed away she told me...Don't waith till child number four...get married soon! I don't think I know of anything she didn't know about.. SHE HAD EYES BEHIND THE BACK OF HER HEAD< AND EARS EVERYWHERE!
567025
My growing-up years was a hard one and I’m always trying to be strong and carry on.\nMy Dad made little money and he didn’t treat my mum very well and they often quarreled since I was 3 or 4 years old. That was all the fault of my dad I was clear. My mum wept very often hiding from me but I knew that most of the time. She never thought of getting divorce with Dad forshe \nendured to avoid leaving me growing in a broken family. All those made a very miserable childhood for me. And hard time came when I was about 18 and got good grades ready to enter the gate of college. Dad barely make money and I need it to pay the tuition. During the 4 years of my \ncollege time ,my mom worked very hard for the whole family and I also did part time jobs as a tutor ,a translator and sometimes also waitress. And in the third year of my college ,my ex-boyfriend, my first love, who \nhad been with me for 7 years and stayed in New York for 5 years left me.Suffering all those, I also \nthought that God hated me and wanted to desert me and that almostpushed me to commit suicide.\nBut now I manage to lead a happy life because I'm convinced that those sufferings are good for my character and they broaden view of human inner world. Now i become optimistic and get a better understanding of 'love' to love the world and people more
188481
my parents are divorced, and have been since i was 4 years old. i've had a great childhood and i thinnk that everyhting worked out for the better. not only were my parents happy, i lived in an environment without fighting/ marital problems. my parents have joint custody, so i've lived with my mom but can visit my dad on weekends or as i please (when he isn't working). in addition to my parents and siblings being happier, my parents have both remarried, which i think has ben a great experience and i greatly love both of my step-families.
21679
According to the local Children's Bureau here where I live, the moment my ex wife left me.\nThroughout reconciliation attempts I still paid.\nFor the record I became the custodial parent after a fairly amicable divorce and never shirked the support obligation.
1028800
My mother passed on 3-17-01. My dad passed on 3-18-01. They were buried on 3-20-01. They divorced in 1959 and never saw each other again. Not a day goes by  without them in my thoughts. I think only of the good memories and although I miss them terribly, I have accepted it for what it is.  I had them for 46 years and now God has them for eternity. No one can tell you how to grieve, but time is a great healer. You`ll be fine. A Friend.
1044045
It happened...  Ulitmately we got divorced...
143757
I learned when I was 3.  I lost my father to a drunk driving accident, he was the drunk driver.  It was something that I really never recovered from, my mother did the best she could to raise me and my sister, but I still never had a father figure.  It has also made it difficult on me now as a father myself.
206687
unfortunantly theres not much you can do- I also was 12 when my parents divorced--it hurt my feelings really bad...but I think my advice to you would be to just let them know that you love them both and that you wish they could work things out--but that if they can't you still love them and want everyone to be happy. I think if I were in your parents situation that would help more than anything--its hard but- in time things will work out one way or another, I wish you the best and hope you and your parents are all happy in the end.
870265
One parent, my mom and she did an awesome job.  My mom and dad divorced, he was a dead beat after they separated and I have refused till this day to have nothing to do with him.
1094910
i've gone through a lot of emotional issues from the time i was little. My father as an abusive ex-drunk and my mom has always been somewhat verbally abusive. How do i feel about it?I hate the fact that i was never really allowed to have a care free childhood and hate having memories of my dad beating me up or having to leave my house at night because my mom and dad had fought.
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My mother was 20 years younger than my father. She was 32 when I was born and he was 52. He passed away at the age of 82 when I was 30. They had alot of differences that never got worked out and I think it was due to the age/interest gap not to mention she was good at pushing anyone's last button. They divorced when I was 12 remarried a couple of years later only to divorce finally when I was 15. I am not sure if you can see where I am going here or if I even see it fully but I personally feel that if you get along great, fall in love and have a successful relationship then there is nothing wrong with it. True love knows no boundaries. Best of luck to you....
862850
Ive heard of kids divorcing their parents before which just sounds a bit wierd to me. But im sure ive heard it somewhere!
659139
I know how you feel my mum and i went through the same thing except she didn't have a child by him.She got married i did try to warn her but to no avail there is nothing else you can do except be there for her.my mum divorced after a year and moved away.I'm happy for you with your grades at least there not going down the pan.I am shocked she is still with him after saying he would be happy if you was dead.Hope you can make her see sense good luck xx