How can a fat guy get laid without lossing wieght?
917303
Learn how to be the bomb at oral and learn Karma Sutra.  That way she word gets around about you.  Women love a good lover.
814608
There is NO way that you will get fat. You have burned off more than enough calories to not get fat!!!!\nx x x
429428
eat a high protein diet and build some muscle mass. you dont want to be larger because of fat, its too unhealthy. eat larger meals make sure theyre healthy though) and do a little weight training. protein will build the muscle. also, good for you for taking a step in a new direction! stay away from the skinny trend. men tend to like some meat on a woman anyways. curves are kickin! good luck!
540390
Exercise. Eat healthy. It's not that complicated. What's hard is creating a new lifestyle for yourself, which you can keep doing and won't relapse into old habits.\n\nTake a walk every morning. (Or evening.) Drink water instead of soda or other beverages. Cut back on your portion size. Try going to a gym or getting some regular exercise.\n\nAnd be patient. You didn't get fat overnight. You aren't going to become thin overnight either.
158703
Just so you know there is no possible way to loose wieght in "spots". For males the usuall last spot to loose wieght is the stomach area and for females its the thighs. A hormone called cortisol can also cause fat build up around the waist. My advice eat healthier, play harder and keep that stress down. Good luck
606880
I am a chunky chick, let me tell ya there are lots of guys who dig it, never had a guy ask me to lose a few pounds either. Better sex with chunky girls, you dont have to worry about breaking them when you want to get your freak on. :-)
1081729
Most heavy girls don't get  "it" that often, if ever.  So if they do, they really get into "it".  They are better in bed than skinny girls, in the giving aspect of "it".  Plus the waves of fat that just ungulate after you get going are just so sexy. NOT!
504104
You need more confidence; just remember that while looks get the first glance, for selecting a partner most women are much less visually oriented than most men are. Stereotype, but I think true. So, think about that to boost your confidence.\n\nThen, just start getting yourself in situations where you will interact with women.  Book clubs, Toastmasters (that will also help your shyness bigtime) Church groups if you are religious, parties, etc.  In this day and age, just approaching random people you meet in public has a low probabilty of success since people tend to be more guarded (but it can work, and might be good practice; ain't like you will ever see them again!)\n\nSkinny?  I was very skinny for a long time. Always teased in HS. during college I lifted weights.  After college I took up martial arts.  Stayed thin, but I was ripped. . . now, at my HS reunions, I am reasonably well filled out now but still thin. (I will never be a muscle monster; just don't have the genetics) and most of my HS compatriots are FAT!  HAHAHAHA! \n\nAnyway, it is more attitude than anything.  By the end of high school I didn't care I was skinny anymore.  That made a big difference.\n\nAs for you being attracted to almost every girl you see, I am guessing you are in late JHS, HS or college.  That is normal. Don't worry.  By the time you are about 25, you will be able to interact with women without **constantly** thinking of them sexually, and by 35 you can do it half the time you are talking to them. Sometimes being a man sucks.
442979
You answered your own question.  Have you ever seen "Shallow Hal"?  I'm not saying get a 300 lb girlfriend, but some of the "hotties" out there (OK MOST of them) are shallow because they get anyone they want.  Try chatting - it's great for getting to know personalities before looks.  \nThat being said, when it comes to attracting females, there is only ONE way. CONFIDENCE.  It's the most attractive thing about a guy. Borderline cocky- don't take it too far, but nothing is more attractive than a guy who walks tall, talks easily, smiles a lot, and is totally at ease with himself.  Just do some people-watching - you'll see that the confident guys, even if they're not great looking, get the girl every time.
896432
First get laid by someone else.......you are way too serious over someone you have never met . Things are totally different when you get first hand experience. Just don't put yourself so far out there, when there's a possibility that you could be disappointed.
463597
My only suggestion is running or walking. General exercise should slim you down. But a lot of men are known to like more curvy women.
448044
It may be impossible. Genetics pretty much overcome our best endeavors.  For example, I carry my weight in my hips.  No matter how thin I became, or how hard I worked out, my hips were still larger than the rest of my body. Don't give up, but don't kill yourself trying to change.  You'll never find an "apple" shaped man worrying about his shape.\nAct feminine, wear feminine clothing, carry yourself with respect.  Believe me, the guys will notice!
322916
Eat protein & exercise to build bulk. Otherwise you'll just be fat & flabby in the long run.
661603
well dont get surgery working out can improve ummmm having sex can work if a guy u know do it doggy style but im not struggling to make my butt big because big butts run in my family and we have sexy curves so i really dont know what to say cuz im waiting for mine to get big
714081
LOL!! You know the difference between guys who get laid and those who dont get laid. The guys that get laid don't say those things out loud, and especially don't put it in writing.
882526
Get over it and be greatful you are getting laid at all.
257976
You should go out with as many women as possible, they will realize how arrogant you are, and dump you on your a$$. Then you will be stuck with a "fat chick", but atleast you'll have good sex, because 'no one else would have sex with her'