A fifteen year old boy came home.................?
912210
women are the best chantelle  and the joke is the same as you a cracker
921880
Man, he sounds like a real child.  You on the other hand sound like a real grown up.  You should be proud of yourself!
540678
You should not go to your friends house again because the police could bust the place. You really need to tell your parents. Be careful and take care.\n\nHugs!\nG.G.
945037
I'm sure he has told you he has a plan but think about this - HE is about to do something stupid. Now he wants YOU to do something stupid. So he must think you are stupid enough to do it!!!!! Even if him running away is for a good reason like he is getting beat at home, why the hell would you go! At 15 and 16 you both cant make enough money to support Sea Monkeys let alone yourselves. PLEASE DONT DO IT!!! He can stay at my house and you can visit until he can get on his feet but DONT you both become wasted youths.
544207
I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU WERE 15, WANTING TO CHOOSE BETWEEN MOM & DAD... ARE YOU THE 15 YR OLD SON OR THE DAD TRYING TO GET THE 15 YR OLD SON
327023
Calm down, mom. I'm sure if he were still at home and skipped a shower or brushing his teeth for a couple days it wouldn't be a huge deal ... so don't make it a huge deal now. And ... having been locked up for 15 years myself, I can tell you that being in the hole isn't always a bad thing. Boring - yes, but SAFE too. It will give him time for some thinking. Eventually he'll run out of stupid and insignificant things to think about and start thinking about his chosen course in life. That's just what he needs, so back off and let the solitude serve him. \n    The worst thing you can do is reinforce his "poor me" attitude. It's time for him to get his shit together and start acting like a man in his decisions. If he insists on being stupid after this ... make him go it alone.\n   Legally, he has to be offered a shower every 24 hours. Realistically ... there ain't  a damn thing you can do about it if he isn't offered one. Lawsuits won't make a damn bit of difference.
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I'm sorry you are going through this.....My oldest did the same thing....he stole everything he could pawn or sale for money to keep his habit supported. I had to put a lock on my bedroom door to keep him out. And even that didnt work for long....He stole from his grandparents...friends....neighbors. I had people calling me all the time about the things he was doing. It started when he was about 14 years old....and he was in and out of trouble for so long. We had him to doctors and therapists.....he got put in juvenile centers.....county jail.....and finally did 3 different prison sentences..all of this was in the time frame of 11 years......after the second time in prison...I told him if he got in trouble again...then I would not come and see him...its too hard to watch your child like that....he got so used to that institutional life....that he couldnt funtion in the real world. Now he is out again....and seems to be doing good.......He is working and living about 4 hours away....we talk on the phone almost daily.....He lives with my brother..his uncle......He seems to really want to make it this time...and God willing ...he will....Be strong......tough love is just that....but I think its tougher on the parent than the child.....My prayers are with you and your child...
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listen to your parents....they actually know what they are doing. its for your own good. you'll thank him one day. trust me. i was your age only a few years ago...and sometimes i wish that i had obeyed my parents more...i would be a lot better off i think.
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My son was able to get a work permit that allowed him to work certain hours at 14 and a few more hours at 15.  Stop in your school guidance office to ask if your state does anything like that.  (He had to get signed off at school and through our village to do that). \nWhile you are in the guidance office- you might want to talk to someone about what is going on at home that your parents are acting like this.  \n\nIn the meantime- you can babysit. \n\nGood luck
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Chances are there is something keeping him there.  Perhaps his father tends to be abusive toward his mother and he stays at home to referree?\n\nProbably something like that.\n\nOtherwise, if it's just because...you're dealing with a mama's boy.  Run!
809383
I was 15 when this happened to me too.  The guy came over to take me out to a movie adn when he pulled up and rang the bell I kind od ushered him inside.  He only went a few feet in and my parents were in the foyer anyway.  I just did the whole, Mom this is Brent.  And so on.  They just said nice to meet you and have fun tonight, home by 11.  It's not a big deal.  Don't bring him over for hour while you get ready.   Just usher him right in the door and quickly introduce him, that's  all you need.  Another tip, when he gets there, be ready.  Don't make the poor guy wait on the first date.  Have fun.
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Really need a little more information. If looking is all he is doing, then that alone is not sexual abuse. Drinking at the age of 15 is a problem and can also be taken care of in the manner I am fixing to give you. But first lets go back to sexual abuse. If he is in fact sexually abuseing you, you may do one of two things. First tell your parents if you think they will help. Second, if they decide to help then all of you go to the agency I will give in a moment. If your parents don't help then you alone go to the agency or call, and explain your situation more fully and gave will give you the answer you need. The agency's name  is called DYS, Its real name is Department of youth services, listed in the phone book under state agencys. Should be one located right in the County where you live. Good luck and don't play around with this.
825297
Hello.  I'm glad you love the Lord.   I'm sure you're Dad will be fine.\nThey're letting you visit him, which is a very good sign.  They're just keeping him for a couple days to keep an eye on him and make sure he's strong enough to go home.\nI'll say a prayer for you and your Father....\nHe'll be home before you know it.\nMaybe you could do something special for him for when he gets home.  Clean up the house real good. Change the bedding on his bed.  Bake him a cake, or a pie....\nWith a caring daughter like you how could he not be better...\nGod Bless....
103723
He can't if it's his own child. A 15 year old is still legally considered a minor. He'll be in trouble for child neglect, possibly child abandonment, maybe child abuse. \n\nThere are other ways to deal with family problems.
278389
wow...\n\nu should convice one another.. or maybe u can arrage some go out together; you, two of ur friends, and some other (not too much tho) and make it sure that the boy is giving the grl ride home. maybe they will start talking soon enough!!
1049488
Just try to get on with him as best as possible. At least it wont be long till he goes home, then you will get peace.
1164902
She's 15...give her space. If her brother's back to visit, give her time to hang out with her family!