Mother wins Pakistan custody battle?
927482
What this 12 year old girl has put her mother through is absolutely dreadful... I'd let her get on with it, when she comes of age she will only bugger off to Pakistan again, let her stay there the stupid little cow
635120
Unless she is seriously a bad mother and you can prove it.  You are probably not going to do well with this.  The only way I could see this working would be to take the kid and leave the country.  It's a bit drastic, but otherwise you'll just have to accept that the boy will live with his mother, probably as he should.  You can visit and try to stay connected, while you pay child support.
707321
It sounds like you have a case of Kidnapping in your hands. You did not mention any kind of court order sigend by a judge, allowing him to have visitation rights or anything else for that matter. Mothers have a bit more rights than a father (at least here in TX) because the mother bears the child and gives birth.\nSince he is not in the brith certificate, even thought he is the biological father of the child, he in a sense has no parental rights to the child unless it has been stablished by the courts, which in this case you have fail to disclose such information.\nShame on you for letting your son go, knowing the lifestyle your ex has.\nYour best bet at this point is talk to your ex and DEMAND that your child be rturned to you or you WILL file a police report with the local authorities.\n\nbest of luck
866390
I am not sure why your daughter was sent to live with your mother, but it sounds like something similar that I went through. I had moved away from my children at one point and it was only supposed to be temporary. I had to write a letter stating specifically that my mother had temporary custody and made decisions on behalf of my children. This is what the local DSHS office wanted to get my children enrolled in medical. And as far as enrolling them in school, I had to contact the school and tell them that my mother would be acting as their guardian in my place. So, as long as this situation is only temporary, I see no reason why a written letter from you and a few phone calls from you wouldn't be sufficient.
246530
shared parenting is ok in theory.the problem arises in who gets physical custody.for all practical purposes the parent who has physical custody has a much greater influnce on the raising of the child(ren) simply because of proximity.if the parents disagree on an issue the non-custodial parent has to go back into court.the custodial parent can keep the other in court until he/she gives up or runs out of money.\nthe bill you ask about does seem to be an advance in your divorce law.here in kansas most are awarded joint custody with physical custody going to the mother ,all other things being equal.
510001
You have to talk to an adult you trust.  (minister, councilor, police.)  This sounds like a very bitter divorce situation.  Your father is punishing you're mother as a punishment to you.  Depending on the child custody agreement, he could be breaking the law.  If your Mom has joint custody, and he won't let you talk/see each other than it could be considered, (still depending on the agreement) as Child abduction (kidnapping)  You must get help.  Even if you did something dumb and crazy to piss him off, this is still wrong!
352345
It depends on the status of the matter it is a case to case basis. If the mother is an american citizen it is faster for the daughter to be petitioned.
1156442
This is a very difficult situation, as from what I can tell your wife entered London with fake documents.  This means that it is unlikely she will be able to exit and re-enter the country very easily, or at all, in the future.  It is just too risk, she may be caught next time and deported back to India.\n\nIt seems she is studying in London. She probably likes it there.  Perhaps her ability to earn a living there is better than in your home country.\n\nI really feel for your 11 year old son.  He must miss his mother.  There is nothing you can do, officially, to get her back.  She will want to have to come back on her own.  I suppose you can try to get visas to London for you and your son, to see if you can convince her -- in person -- to come back.  However (1) you may not be able to get visas; and (2) even if you do,  even an in-person plea to her to come back home may not work.\n\nIt sounds like you should get yourself and your son into counseling to deal with her departure.   You should also take time to look at your marriage, perhaps it was not a good one, which also caused her to not to want to return home.\n\nGood luck,
480350
Pakistan,2 years ago.......
1105734
your friend need a good solicitor...and someone to take his son for a long drive-away from his father-because if one of my kids ever put me thru this crap i would beat him...then it would be worth getting arrested for it!\nWhat is the so called mother playing at? Suddenly wanting the kids after not bothering for 6 years? Sounds like if your friend cant beat the lad, that maybe his ex wife should be in line!#\nI dont agree with hitting women or kids...but there a line that needs to be drawn and not to be crossed by the people that should show you some respect. good luck to him.
505587
Contact the court that issued the custody order and motion the judge for a hearing on custody.  You will then be able to present your case to the judge and do provide proof for your mother's perjury.  Change of custody is rare.  The court usually are very careful in awarding custody.  Why did you transfer custody to your mother?  You gave her the in to your child.  Have you been arrested for using drugs recently?  Be ready and present your case to the judge.
29121
I don't know where you live but I live in Ontario Canada and I had custody of my children. The reason being that I requested the court to appoint the children their own lawyer, it did and because our chidren have rights here they choose to be with me. The childrens female lawyer and my female lawyer fought my ex's femail lawyer and what it all boiled down to was the childrens right to be with the parent they wanted to be with. If a child has the capability of choosing then the courts will or at least should listen to them. I did have a male lawyer but because my ex wife had a female lawyer my lawyer recomended that I have a female lawyer fight for me and for the kids. I won custody and my ex had to pay me support for the raising of the children. More and more fathers are getting custody now cause here there finding out that the mothers do not stay at home with the children as much as they first thought. Aparently the fathers do stay home and do spend more time with their children when they have custody. Don't give up your fight and good luck
152085
Ask the Pakistan government
1049914
It depends, first, on what the judge's order says, if anything, about it. Then it depends on state law, and you don't say what state.\n\nIn general, if the mother has to move out of state to get or keep a job or to be near persons she needs for support, she would be granted permission, but she should ask for it.\n\nArrangements for continued visitations would be a crucial part of any proceeding.
1127824
If you can prove to a court that she is an unfit mother than the baby is yours.  The court doesn't care about you or the mother.  They want the best for the child, If I was you the only way to win is to play dirty.  Get a private investigator he'll help you more then a lawyer will.  Have him dig up some dirt and use it against her.  Believe me I'm a woman that child is nothing but a pawn to her.  She kept her from you probably claiming she was some one else's.  That guy probably got smart you were her plan B.  Find out why you didn't know of her for those two years and why all of the sudden she's asking you for child support.  Oh and she can't deny you visitation, you pay child support she can't as much as take that child out of state lines without letting you know.  Boy read up on your right or she'll play you like a fool. Good Luck
377724
Nasty problem that you will not be able to solve. Your ex sound bitter and bound and determined to punish you for something or other. Unfortunately, all you can do is remain constant in your affection for them, and hopefully, with time, they will see things as they really are...no guarantees...they may or may not turn against you ... time will tell. But, no matter what you do, what you say, if it is negative towards their mother, they will swear their mother is right. IF, on the other hand, you are sympathetic towards the mother's plight, do not bad mouth her, and, in gereneral, behave nobly, your chances are slightly improved that they will come around. Been there. IT is a very sad thing when one parent uses children to "get even" with another...all concerned are badly damaged, including the offending parent...but that is of no consolation to you. You have my deepest sympathy in this...I have seen this happen time and time again. Such a waste, and seriously sad. You are in a loose-loose situation, short of gaining custody ... and that won't happen unless you can prove she is unfit as a parent. Good luck.
819425
After years of being second class citizen it's about time woman get something! Women didn't even get equal pay for the same job as a man. We didn't have the right to vote for the longest time. So who is talking about second class citizens here? \n\nAs far as the welfare of the child is concerned for the most part woman normally well get the custody. Why, Its normally REPEAT NORMALLY not always the case. Where the mother will be the one to stay home when the child is sick. Where the mother will give up working to care for the child. ETC. Maybe when the normal becomes the man staying home with the sick children or giving up their career to be househusband then the court sides with them. IN case where it is the husband that does the sacrificing he is the one that gets the custody.