my sister got drunk she is 13 and lied to my mum and said she never drunk anything how can she say sorry?
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She should tell her mum straight, maybe with you there so they both have some support to help keep it calm. I always tell my kids to tell me the truth no matter what or how bad the news is and i will always back them up or help them. I also tell them if they come to me to tell the truth i will not shout or yell. Ill listen to them.. Your mum will feel so much worse if she finds out from someone else . or fInds out after something serious happens ... do the right thing pluck the courage up and spek to her together. \nI hope you guys make a the right decission .. good luck
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luk you need to explain it to her and let her know what happen...if she is a really good friend then she will understand..itz both of your fault because yall both did it and yall BOTH were drunk...but i mean if she isnt a gud friend she won't listen and she isnt worth it...but sometime in the next few dayz you need to tell her you understand wat you did waz wrong and you need to say your srry and tell her it waz stupid of you but it waznt just your fault and you and him need to sit down and talk to her and let her know BOTH of you need to take the blame not just YOU..well good luck...best of wishes i hope it turnz out good=)
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It's great that you want to make up with her.  That's half the battle already.  Here's some ideas.\n\n1.  Apoligize for what you did wrong:  Whatever you said or did, take responsability for it.  Be specific.  Don't apologize for "hurting her feelings," but apoligize for what you personally did or said.\n\n2.  Be positive and encouraging.  Don't blame her.\n\n3.  Forgive her whatever she did, whether she apologizes or not.\n\n4.  Do something fun together.  When a relationship has been damaged by a painful experience, something special is needed to heal the wound.\n\nHope these ideas are useful.
966554
ughm... how old is your sister?
772792
just ignore it, cuz im sure she lied about other stuff too, once a liar always a liar, deal with it
834198
The only appropriate thing to say is\n\nI'm sorry and if you need ANYTHING, please call"\n\nAnything past that can be taken the wrong way.  People always try to say things to make people feel "better", they don't.\n\nKeep it short, and simple, and be around if she needs you.
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If you really mean it.. let your emotion go in a personal one on one conversation and cry. \n\nAllow your heart to let your eyes weep and feel the remorse in your soul so you will never make that mistake again by remembering the pain it brought you and the person you are sorry to.
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There are 3 things a girl would want to hear in this situation:\n\nBRONZE: I'm sorry.\nSILVER: I'm sorry, will you forgive me?\nGOLD! I'm sorry and I love you.\n\nEven if she's mad at you for nothing, she's upset, and you should apologize. :)\n\nYou can do it! :)\n\nHugs,\nkitties_n_llamas(Becca)
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tell her you are sorry for whatever you did and if you still dont know what to do give her a chance to think about and give her a little time to think it over.
141751
If you said that your sorry, and you really are, then its not your fault anymore.  Give it a little time though.  Things are forgotten over time, and they will probably realize that whatever happened was stupid and come to their senses.
1099246
you should say that you are sorry........ you think about it alot because you really have a good heart and it never hurts to apologise when we do something wrong.  You need to apologise for her but you also need to apologise for yourself........
956898
Ask her for advise on the item you pretend to buy for your little brother or sister. Be creative. Then tell her the truth that it was just the excuse to talk to her since you  are shy and give her your number. Maybe you will get a call...
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Get a lawyer!  And don't talk to the police until you've talked to the attorney!\n\nAlthough they are both 18 or over now, that may not have been the case when the offense was committed.  However, since the alcohol laws require one to be 21, they are both minors as far as that law is concerned.\n\nSomeone served her the booze.  It will be up to the police or DA to prove that it was your son.  If she testifies that he did so, that is going to hurt his case.  However, a good attorney may use her intoxicated state to challenge the accuracy of her memory.\n\nAt any rate, he needs a good attorney.  Any advice here (including mine, I'm not an attorney) other than to seek legal counsel is worthless and maybe dangerous to his case!
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Sweethart for one thing you were drunk and his mom shoud take that into consideration anything you said or might have said is cause you were drinkin and more than likely upset. As for him not comin home that is bullshit if he wasnt planin on comin home he should have not set a time that he would be home. You have every right to be upset for that but stand tall and behind everything you said and if they don't like it they don't deserve you in the family!!!!!!
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Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
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if you really mean it when you say your sorry and try to make it up to her. it also depends on what you did maybe you should tell her that you love her, that'll help.
1040444
ur sisters? i dont understand sorry!