Age difference is he too old for me i am 19 and he is 34?
930586
He's too old for you.  You haven't lived enough of your own life to even know if he's "the one" or not.  Also, have you asked him how he feels?  I bet if he knew how serious you were about him, things would cool.\n\nI'm sorry, but men's egos are boosted by having a young woman on their arm.  It's called Eye Candy.  That's no reflection on you, it just says something about him.\n\nGive yourself some time and life experience.  What's the hurry?
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
195087
26 and 41 are only years of how long you have lived, and years are just measurement of your age. It's not like you have to be with someone near your age. what is important is u truly love each other and dont let words shatter the two of you, and also that you may not be in the same league at all the time but your hearts are only for each other..,, i'm not saying this because i'm a hopeless romantic but i'm saying this bcoz i know,,.. and i also happen to like guyz older than i am...,, so just follow your heart, girl! for you, I'd say go coz i think you can make..no number of years you have lived will stop u unless u let it..
384961
AGE DOES NOT MATTER AS LONG AS YOUR IN LOVE...I HAVE DATED GUYS AS OLD AS 12 YEARS OLDER AND AS YOUNG AS 3 YEARS YOUNGER.
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
439274
Be honest with him about your age.I think he's too old for you - a four year age gap is a lot at your age as you are both likely to have different interests and intentions.Find a guy whose 13 or 14
136828
Age is nothing but a number bestowed upon us at our birth. There's nothing wrong with a man in his 30's falling in love with someone whom may be a little older than him. Love works in mysterious ways. Why try to figure out the mystery of it when we can just sit back and enjoy it when it happens.
914157
Well, it depends how old you are...if you are 14 and he's 19 I would say no way.  But if you are of legal age then what's stopping you?  It's a little hard if he likes to go to bars and hang out and you can't get in but it can work.  I was 20 when I started dating my husband who was 26.  At first we refused to pursue the relationship because of the age difference but soon we realized it was inevitable...we were destined for one another.\n\nGood luck!
687341
50 years gap, now that's too much. if you guys don't have this number of age gap, don't worry too much about it as long as you're in love to each other.
296708
Age is relative...there is no such thing as "wrong" or "right". It's only what society dictates that determines labels such as right as wrong. you need to look into your heart. Does being with him feel right? Does he feel comfortable with you? if yes, then it is not wrong, it is right.Do not let societal perceptions dictate your life...if you two are happy then that's all that matters.
491395
If you just met him tonight, then I doubt that you love him.  What is the age difference and how old are you?  If you are under 25, then I do think age is important because we are not fully adults until about age 25, not 18 like most people think.  And if many of your friends are saying this guy is bad news, than I would take that into consideration and take things VERY slowly.
390783
I understand that you're worry about if he isn't mature enough and ready to face a life time marriage. I would say it's something that you should consider about but not to judge a person through his/her age. If you two have already got to the step that which is going to marry then you should know your future husband better. I don't know how well you two know about each other but I wouldn't recommend a rush relationship, especially marriage. Age wouldn't be a matter in a relationship which is cause by love, you should take a closer look to this person, find out if he would be the one that can love you, accept you and willing to cooperate with you to operate a life time marriage. If the answer that he give to you is "yes" and he has already proved to you, you mustn't stop.
726273
It depends on the age difference and your maturity level. If you can handle whatever may come along with being involved with an older man and the baggage then do what makes you  happy.
705614
I too have a preference for older men and have been there. First off don't be offended when your family starts in with the what does he want someone so young for. Most occasions when an older man is interested in someone so young it is because there is something wrong with him. That being said there are some relationships that do work out becuase both are really in love and only time will tell this. I suggest that you tell your parents that you know that there is high percentage of varying age difference relationship problems and the two of you love each other and discuss the topic often and want to do your best to work through that and feel it is worth it. More than likely you will get oposition concerning this but don't get angry. There is reasons for their concern and respect that. There does have to be a point though after your family has met him and he has proven time again that he does love you that you need to take a stand and say that's enough he has proven that he loves me regardless of my age and his only negative aspects are normal and I can live with them so I suggest everybody else to just accept my relationship and get over their expectations of me finding someone your own age because it's not going to happen.\n\nOn the other hand if their fears eventually get confirmed then don't be so hard on yourself. We never see it for ourselves until it is too late and going through what ever you may go through could have ended up being a wonderful relationship but you wouldn't have known unless you tried.
967997
Even though many people say, "Love has no age difference" there is. Point blank. \n\nFirst of all, if you trust him 100% and you love him then don't worry about the women before you. Those were just mistakes that lead up to you. \n\nSecondly, yes he's older. But NEVER, EVER let him pressure you into doing something that you don't want to or most importantly, not ready for. Just because his ex's did such and such all the time or something, doesn't mean that you do to. Make him realize that. \n\nThirdly, I'd test the waters. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Just take it all in stride, chances are that this might not be your "one" but it's all a learning process. So what you don't date younger guys? The more you date, the more you learn the specifications of the type of man you want to be with in the future. Enjoy yourself, but don't lose yourself!
627894
Hey Gal,\nFirst en foremost u need tyme to think this over en over again coz it's a tricky kinda situation u got.. u must get to knu what this guys want which one is for real and ready to settle down en make you happy.. at 26 i would advice you to try en get to knu this 34 year old because age difference here is an issue as u knu women tend to mature faster than men so i guess this 34 year old may be gud for you.. the 20 year old is still young and he needs to mature in a relationship en u might find you two don't have the common kind of interests. \nHope this will help ya...gal
560809
Just talk to him and communicate with each other about what you like and where you see your lives headed.  The scary part about an age difference is that there is an life experience gap.  You have to bridge that gap and talk about the differences in order to make that gap smaller.  In time if he can see that you are mature and closer to where he is headed in life he will see the age difference as a more minor thing in your relationship.