Should i tell my GIRLFRIEND the TRUTH?
921107
lol no\njust put a bag over her head
764420
Tell her just like you told us.....  I like to leave the light on because.....  We do have some expectations of privacy....  It's always best to be honest and straightforward.  Do not tap dance around the issues.  Just be pleasant and respectful and hopefully she will understand.
1068495
Yeah, tell her the truth. The truth will set you free, as they say. Tell her exactly what you said here, that you love her so much that you don't want to involve her. If you can't bring yourself to tell her what it is that happened, just tell her she will be at risk if you did. Wow, I feel for you, best of luck, I hope your problems will be solved soon.
1035907
Tell her the truth... It will hurt but it is better than being fooled...
305199
You can lie if you want ... but ask yourself if you want her to lie to you too?  Because once you LIE you wonder if your partner is too.  \n\nIf it is something BIG I would not lie because BIG things have a way of coming out to haunt us later.  A little thing "yeah, I like your outfit" that is called keeping peace in the relationship and is OK.
93315
It is best to tell the truth.  Not telling the truth can lead to a cascade of lies as you try to cover up your tracks.  While there may be a punishment in the short term, in the long run, you will have a lot more trust and leeway than if someone found out that what you said before was a lie.  They will be left wondering about everything you said and you will be unable to convince them even if you are telling the truth.
736250
i think you should stay with her; it is an online thing after all; think of it this way: would you appreciate it if she talked about your mutual affairs in public? but you are exposing the intimate details of your relationship here, right? so the anonymity of the internet is a shield for certain things, that would otherwise be unacceptable.
152842
tell her the truth,or if you're like me play along...
309089
There is no better way than to just be blunt. If she acts weird after that, don't go around her for a while. But there's no point in sitting there and worrying all the time when you can just spit it out, and tell her. Honesty. The foundation to any good relationship.
1128264
move on if she lies she is not so much inlove with you as she says. a relationship is based on trust and honesty
715255
Depends on what the issue is, but I dont think I would bother anyway, cause if you have any doubt that she is lieing, then give her the ' marching orders'.  One quick way to destroy any relationship, is dishonesty, I cant stand liars.  If she is liaing, she will trip herself up in the long run, liars have a way about them, they forget what they tell you, and ALWAYS trip themselves up in the end.  I wouldnt mention anything about the situation, just keep my ears open and sooner or later she or someone will slip and let the truth out. Its a well known fact that liars just hate it when they are not challenged about what they said, because most of the time, they only lie to attract attention to themselves, so if you dont bite or ask, it will drive your friend crazy and maybe he/she will admit the truth anyhow or stuff up.  Move on, they are not worth it.\nGood Lucl
456226
NEVER GIVE HER A REASON TO LIE TO YOU!\nUsually, you're wanting to know something that isn't your business, so she will just WITHOLD THE INFORMATION, not lie.
177002
YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you know and she finds out and then finds out that you knew and didn't tell her you will be in alot more trouble than if you tell her and she thinks your a liar and that it couldn't be true then find out at least your conchianse thing will be clean!!
406319
Be straight forward and tell her the truth
260362
she is going to be hurt but you know what she has to know the truth and if you are a true friend nothin should stop you from telling her the truth. Girl she needs to know big time if she doesn't believe you then you'll just have to let her find out on her own thats not the best way but just try to tell her.
162116
girls are very proctective of their feelings because they are unsure on how you would respond.but all girls are not like that. most girls will tell you stright foward how they feel, but in your situation your girlfriend is probably afraid that if she tells you the truth that it could hurt your relationship. im sure if you give her time and make her feel comfortable about the situation she will come around and eventually tell you whatever it is.
583663
Would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend had cheated on you?  I know I would want to know.  Friend's look out for each other.  Just make sure it's not just a "rumor" first... if it is a fact then yes, tell her.