How do i make my boyfriend happy without havin' sex?
920474
you should be you don't try to lose yourself to make someone else happy do what you wnat for yourself it is nice to make other people happy but  you should wait it after your married to ever consider having sex at a young age hope you figure out what to do.
285081
Just try to do more things together that dont envolve sex, maybe something will spark and ingnite his passion again. It's not an uncommon thing for guys to not want sex that often. Check out www.psychologytoday.com they have a lot of articles about this topic there. good luck to you!
1076764
wanting to be satisfied isn't greedy.  you need to teach your boyfriend how to please you.  its totally fair for you to want to cum as often as he does.  if he won't compromise for you (french kissing and cuddling without sex), there are plenty of other guys who will.
538407
ummm... I'm not sure that I understand the question.\nI'd say that you should be able to be successful with your boyfriend without sex.  If he doesn't see it that way, then I'd move on.  He must be able to respect your wishes.
1624
have sex! it releases stress and exhuastion and is a great way to have fun
985556
Tell him you love him, but don't want to have sex with him every single solitary day.  tell him if you are nothing more than sex to him then you'll just be moving on the a better man that knows how to treat you like you are more than a piece a of tail\n\n\nsorry to be so blunt and mean but I am dealing with a similar issue.
86990
He just used you. He didn't want a relationship but rather the sex. \nTake some time to spend with your real friends. Evaluate what you are doing and take their input into account. They do care about you. The final decision in your problem relationship should be up to you though. Don't let well meaning friends ever take away a golden chance at happiness because they're nervous or it's a faux pau to them that it's moving too fast. It's your life.\n    As far as this situation though, dump the jerk and find a man that does appreciate you. Just don't jump right into bed with him. I'm like a pot calling the kettle black but I'll say it anyway. Slow down...evaluate...take the time to be sure of what you're doing.
1179251
sex should bring mutual pleasure to both individuals.  My last boyfriend wouldn't climax until he had made sure I had come first.\n\nso my advice on how to present this to him:\n\ntell him you want to try new things to increase pleasure for the both of you.\nyou can try this game where for one week, you guys can do everything EXCEPT have sex. \n\nso, either he tries to make an effort w/ foreplay, special condoms for the extra sensitive guy, etc etc...\n\nor dump him.  there are better guys out there.
413030
find some sexy lingerie.Tell him 2 wear only underpants or boxers,nothing else.take him into ur bedroom,lay him down on a bed,stand in front of him,take off ur lingerie,then start having sex,one that both of u will remember 4 life
569107
Try not having sex with anyone until you feel better about your body.  Use lotion made for stretch marks.
444786
Love doesn't always involve sex.  Some people don't need sex to be in a healthy relationship.  It just adds a lot of fun and spice into your relationship.  You don't NEED it, but it's still nice.
982515
I believe you can love someone without having sex, because you love that person for THEM, not for any physical reasons.  You love each other on an emotional level.  \n\nPeople have sex without loving them all the time, look at all the one night stands that people have.\n\nI think that teenagers (I being one myself-19) are so desperate for sex because they feel that to please someone or make themselves acceptable in the eyes of their peers, they need to have sex.  They feel in some way gratified even though they don't realize that this gratification doesn't last long, and before they know it they are empty inside and looking for something else to appease them.  I think they are missing something in their lives and so they feel that sex can fill that hole and empty space.\n\nI am a Christian and have decided to save myself for my future husband to respect him, myself and most importantly God.  God says our bodies are a temple, so we should treat them as such.  I believe that love comes first and foremost, and then marriage, and then sex.  Sex can be a wonderful thing if two people deeply love each other and are committed to only each other.\n\nHope this helps! God bless! <3
121648
try something new. be open to more stuff. maybe a little oral... a little anal... a little s&m... a little roleplay... a few 3-ways... and trust me, he'll be happy, dont be afraid to be a freak.
654919
spent time with him, let him know you enjoy being with him. Go for walks in special places., parks,trails,beach,or your neighborhood. let him know that time spent with him bonding YOU really LOVE, and that it will strengthen your relationship. Tell your partner that it does not take much to make you happy. \ncook at home let him know that you love doing this for him and that the satisfaction of him liking you food is all you need to know that you're doing something right for your relationship.\nclean the house while he's at work and go out and rent a movie you know he'd liked and tell him it's gonna be a block-buster nite. make some popcorn and sodas, ice cream. \nbecome domestic but let him know it's how you always wanted it to be ., ever thing else WILL fall in place. make youself look pretty for him.\n\nGOOD QUESTION> life is about caring, giving and sharing.
249295
Ask her ! You can love some one without Sex .She may love you ! Sex is too open now .She may explain if you ask .
446140
1. Have him draw/paint you nude and then make passionate love to you.\n\n2. Make love somewhere with the risk of getting caught... in a libary, in an elevator, outside, etc.\n\n3. Blindfold him when he comes home. Tie him up to the bed. You take charge.\n\n4. Take a weekend off. Go somewhere exotic. Make love in a swimming pool, or in the ocean.\n\n5. Each of you should write out a fantasy involving the other person. Act out the fantasies for each other.\n\n6. Cook naked together. Include aphrodisiacs such as avocados and chocolate. Have a sexy naked meal; then, enjoy dessert.\n\n7. Get a fancy hotel room and make love in the jacuzzi.\n\n8. Record yourselves having sex, then watch the videos together before going another round.\n\n9. Experiment with temperature. Use ice cubes and candle wax.\n\n10. Go to bed naked. Hold each other and just kiss each other. Stop, and remind each other why you love each other so much. Tell him everything that makes him sexy to you. The result should be an exceptionally passionate lovemaking session.\n\nEnjoy!
757144
Give him a day to remember, instead of the usual night thing make it a treat all day, make him look forward to coming home and make sure you are both alone all night, loadsa different positions and loadsa nice food, use the food in different positions!!!  No lingerie..............go naked nothing better!!!!  xx