All my friends hate me, what should i do?
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Hi Holly.  Listen, 'real' friends don't put you down, aren't mean to you & don't make you choose between them & someone else.  'Real' friends are there for you - they encourage you, help you out, you should feel good about yourself when you are around them.  I suggest that you look around for some people who you share common interests in -- maybe music or drama or sports or band or art or church or something.  Build on that commonality.  Make sure that as you are building a relationship with these new people to keep watch for anything that doesn't feel like a 'real' friend.  There are nice people out there - you have to look for them.  Hope you find some 'real' friends soon!  :)
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If you're surrounded by "friends" who are miserable and don't like you a whole lot, how can you possibly make new friends? Sometimes, you have to be lonely for a while before you can become unlonlely again. Give it a shot, it won't kill you.\nJust don't call anymore. Just don't stop by. If they call you, go ahead and answer the phone (unless they start to harrass you- then you block their calls.) But when you answer the phone, just act like you're talking to somebody who's trying to sell you something you don't want; hear them out, then tell them you're not interested, have a nice day and thanks for calling... they'll either get their act together and start treating you better, or they'll be miserable without your help and you'll be on your way toward a better friendship with someone else.
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there are two options that i would recommend-\n1. just let it go and ignore them, but maybe smile a little when they insult you and you walk away.  it makes them wonder what was funny.\n2. learn some really good comebacks.  not necessarily stock ones like "oh yeah?  well you're ugly!" but something more creative.  have fun with it.  be insulting.  what are they gonna do, report you?\ndon't fight them.  there's no reason to.
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you cant, if they choose not to accept you the way you are then you have to accept that they are not really your friends. dont waste the time and energy on people who cant accept you for who you are. be true to yourself there are amny people out there who are open minded. you will make plenty of true friends.
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Good grief, just tell her you don't like her. You have to understand, there's no law that says you have to like everyone. You don't have to put her down, but flat out tell her, you don't want to hang out with her anymore.  Because as time goes on you won't do anything and you'll wind up hating her.
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Don't. If they hate you they don't want to be your friend.
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Relax, a lot of us have been in the same situation.  I was never one to have many friends and because I was one of the smallest in my class a lot of people often tried to pick on me.  I learned that the best thing to do is simply not care about what other people think or say.  I learned to accept who I was and the fact that a lot of people are just mean or idiots.  In the end I had a few good friends and people left me alone because they found out they didn't matter to me and the things they said and did didn't bother me.  If they know what they do affects you then they keep doing it just because they get a reaction out of you.
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There will be always be someone that chooses to dislike you for something irrelevant. Don't worry about these people, they dislike you for their own reasons, nothing that you do will change it.
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play the numbers game.\n\nmeaning try to make friends with everyone.\neveryone won't be your friend, but some will. out of those some, you'll get a real friend.
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Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
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drop hate. Act like a child, never look back, don't worry about tomorow, live for the moment. Good Luck.
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Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
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Stay away from them.  Make other friends.  Live your life with virtue.  If they are joking about you - no one would believe them if you are living a good life.
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Perhaps I can help you out a little.  I have been dealing with a bout of depression for about a year now.  So I understand your situation.\n\nIf your friends seem to be distancing themselves from you, perhaps you should voice your concerns to them.  Ask them if you have done something to offend them, because you feel that they are shutting you out of their lives.  If they do not offer any answers, perhaps it is time to find some new friends.  \nPeople change over time, so do their opinions of others.  \n\nYou really should not allow it to hurt you physically.  True loosing a friendship is a traumatic event, but you have to be able to move on.  If you begin to dwell on why somebody dislikes you, you may miss out on forming another friendship with somebody else.\n\nI'm sorry you are feeling "down" from all of this.  All I can say is keep your head up, and live your life to suit YOU, and not those around you.\n\nI wish you all the best of luck in working through this situation.  If you ever need to just talk to somebody with a sympathetic ear, you can feel free to e-mail me anytime.  jam961@yahoo.com\n\nTake care, and God Bless You!
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If someone doesn't like you, there isn't much you can do. There are plenty of other people, dont waste your time on one that doesnt like you.
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Forget your friends. If their really your friends, they woll except you chocies and be behind you all the way. Talk to them about and do what you want.
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Just ignore them. Sooner or later, they'll see that you don't really care, but if you tell them to stop, they'll probably keep being mean.And don't worry about the things they said to you. You probably have a lot of friends. Those boys are just immature brats and don't go near them. GOOD LUCK:)