I want to know... about this ( PLEASE HELP GIRLS)!?
913976
he treats you more like his girlfriend than one of the guys.\nhe gets jealous if you talk or flirt w/other guys.
566294
Why tell her that in the first place. If you know you can't just say the good part without leaving the bad one out, then don't say anything at all. I have seen girls do terrible things to themselves just because someone told them they were either ugly, or too fat, or too thin, or too busty, the best thing is to just leave that part out. Trust me
443410
Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now
328555
every girl is different, and srry to tell that guy that answered he really can anwer that. It didnt hurt me and i have never heard a girl tell me that it hurt so bad she would never do it again.
333344
awwww thats sweet of course girls do its the thought that counts and thats a difference and not many men do that so don't worry its a true blessing to have some guys out there do that for their girl friends its a really sweet thing to do..... :)
314342
For some reason, now or days, guys normally wait for the girl to ask. I guess so they don't feel guilty either way for the fact that if the girl doesn't really want to then he'll obviously know and not look like a fool in front of his friends. Guys are competitive therefore feel that they can't put themselves out there on the line to be smacked back into place. You should ask him even though we both know that he should be asking you. Understand and he'll think that you are a wonderful girl for that. Hope I shed some light.
59924
Every girl is different and you should try to ask questions and find out about her personality before you ask for sex.  Some girls are very social, and others are conservative.  If you got into a "get to know you" type of conversation you could ask her about habits with previous boyfriends such as "How/where did you meet your last boyfriend?" "How long did you know him before you dated him?"  "How long did you see each other?"  Hope this was helpful.
312104
I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha
278938
there are a lot of different answers but girls can be really weird sometimes and throw alot of us guys on a spin of confused emotions and thoughts, but youd probably get a better answer from a girl.
521884
Stop saying your life sucks for one, girls have enough emotional torment, they don't want to deal with yours. Stop building up this great and wonderful thing... its unlikly to happen any way you've imagined it. Just relax and let everything come in its own time. Just be you and have no expectations.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
861633
i'm a girl, but i have done that before, and it means nothing. i didn't have any feelings for my ex, and you should not stress at all over it. if it really bothers you that much, confront her about it, but do not make a huge deal about it because 99.9% it means nothing at all except that its a nice gift she likes.
554448
lol  The platonic girl crush.  We've all had them.  Chances are, you're feeling uncomfortable and unconfident in yourself.  You see yourself as someone who hasn't yet grown into everything you want yourself to be.  This girl is who you want to be.  You look up to her and idolize her.  It's normal.  Don't get too obsessive.  It freaks some people out, but rest assured, this is normal.  Eventually, it'll pass and you'll be okay.  You just need to grow out of it.  Good luck!
384836
Why don't girls believe it when a guy comes straight out and says "we arent' going to have a relationship".  Guys aren't sneaky or talking in code like women do half the time.  Have sex with him and feel totally used.  That's what will happen.  If he had half a brain he wouldn't have sex with you because he knows you have feeling for him and he doesn't have them for you, so to have sex with you knowing that is just bad karma.
940851
ok, can i just start off by saying "awwwwww!!" well, obviously it sounds like you have quite a thing for this girl. according to what you have written, it seems as though she kind of likes you also. her talking about you with her friends is usually a good sign, especially when you add it to the "she looks at me, i look at her, and she looks away" thing. the only thing that i would be slightly hesitant about is the age difference. although, all of my friends(minus 2) are in or have been in relationships with younger guys (about 1 yr younger), so there is a definite possibility that it could work out. i'm no "love" expert myself, i am just hoping that you get some encouragement to pursue this. i hope that everything works out. you deserve it :)
297727
It IS a guy thing. Even the most commited guys look at other girls. Maybe even sexually. If you (can) trust him, everything should be fine. Perfectly normal, all guys do it...sorry! *lol* Don't worry.
194175
what do u mean by "big stuff??".c'mon!!remember...drops make an ocean.make them sit together and sort out the bones of contention.and if u r concerned bout the guy...go up to him n ask him to keep that smile,intact!!the most important thing right now for him is to keep up his confidence!!rest of it will follow.if the girl isn't interested even then...tell him,he deserves something MORE special.ask them to go out for a movie or anywhere.some place where they get time EXCLUSIVELY FOR THEMSELVS!!GUD LUCK!!