Am I just being mean?!?
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It is traditional for a child to carry his fathers last name but I had wished I would not have done this with my oldest 2 because the father does not have anything to do with the kids now. If this is truly what you want then stick to your guns and go for it. He will be mad at first but he will eventually get over it.
816185
Sounds like someone pissed you off "alittle".I dont think like that and would never say any of those things-if you have a loud mouth then you just have a loud mouth isnt because your black thats ignorant!Whoever has got you feeling like this has accomplished their goal of pissin you off.And these type of questions actually promote more racism and problems ,you win by not letting it bother you in life(hard to do ,but once you do it you will never feel like this again because you are sure of yourself)By gettin upset and going off you are letting whoever is doing the hatin WIN!They want you to get upset ,mad and then hate and pass it on,and it goes on and on.Stop lettin them win ,and love no matter what and you are always going to com out on top.
1055916
You will find silly people all through life! People sometimes just have terrible dispositions, and I don't know why! I think that people on here know that you don't know them, and they will never truly have to explain why they act the way they do. Therefore, they can be as rude as they want, and no one will ever know it was them. I don't take the website too seriously, but I respect people, and give honest answers. It would be nice if everyone played fair, but that isn't likely. I hope you have a good day, and try to have fun!
656797
I think a rude answer, but why waste your energy trying to get back at someone?  Just ignore them and let it go, then you are the better person.
107460
BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO SENSITIVE.  NOW SHUT UP!\n\n\nhehe, just kidding.  I dunno why people are mean.  Who's mean?  On here?  They're bored and looking for a rise probably.
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I am Mr. Rude. Go suck donkey nuts! HAHAHAHAA\n\nI'm just kidding. Anyways, some people are rude just to be funny. Sometimes its funny, but when you're looking for an accurate answer, you're gonna hate the guy.
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Hey she has to understand that some people have their own oppion. But you should still have made sure that when you said it you need to be really nice about it. Some girls are more sensitive then others. i think you should chill a little and then just go up to her and say you didn't mean anyoffence. you didn't actually mean to hurt her. and that it does look ok. Even if you don't like it. It does involve some lying but at least someone does not hate you. I bet if you try that she will not be mad at you anymore. But whatever you do just try to realax!
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sadly you will learn the more you are on here that there truly are some rude and nasty people on here. But not everyone is like that, there are many great users on this site too. Just try to ignore the idiots. Not always easy, granted, but the best way to go. Hope it gets better for you...much luck!
730587
i understand exactly what you mean. i had a boyfriend like who did that all the time. he was very like-able and had incredible charisma, which was one of the things that attracted me to him. however there would be time where he would safe cruel and offensive things about other people. i asked him why he did that and he said he was only joking around. personally i think it's insecurity of themselves. it could also be the need for attention, if he does it in front of other people or maybe he is just a jerk. if i were you i would see if the bad stuff outweigh the good. if it does than go ahead and look for better pasture, that what i did, cuz like you said changing them doesn't work!!\n\ngood luck!!
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Actually, i'd rather someone told me. So, what you are doing is simply trying to help me and you're also considering my goodness.. What's better than this? On the other side, yeah i may become a little bit angry with myself, saying like how can i forget or ignore this.. But, certainly i'd appreciate you then.. :) So, keep it up, be yourself and don't pay attention to their reactions at that time, i think...
690648
Hunni, ignore the haters on here..  Best advice I can give you is be yourself, if it is meant to be it will happen sweetie...keep posting and dont worry about the idiots that are rude here...
1157237
Are you serious with this question?  I think there should be a much better use of your time then wondering the best way to insult others.  Try smiling and a positive attitude and then maybe you won't have any use for the insults.  Count to 10 and then count your blessings.  Have a great day!
616102
Honestly, just ignore them. Tell yourself.. "Who cares", smile, and walk away. If you get upset by what they say, its their gain cos thats what they want. The key is not to take what they say seriously, even tho' it may be a major OUCH phrase they use. Just think of it as (the lamest and unfunniest) joke ever, and move on. :)
297892
What is it with you guys?  Does communication mean nothing to anyone these days?  \n\nTalk WITH him (not TO him).  Let him know how you feel and, for goodness sakes, listen to what he has to say and try not to get offended if it's something negative about you.  Try not to be negative towards him, either.
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Well, there was this Yahoo Answers user who was being really mean to me, my sisters and my YA friends, she'd been emailing us, but when I mentioned it to a certain person, her emails stopped! Coincidence? Maybe. Oh, and there was the time my sisters put a hex on someone, that was fun!
861661
Oh, well, I dish out what I get... ha ha... Just kidding... I don't know... Being nice all of the time isn't fun... :-)
1096334
are you going through some emotional issues right now? if so, you are most likely at a point of vunerability that may make it seem as if the world is out to get you. Don't worry, the sources of you crying are most likely not aiming to intentionally make you miserable. Only really evil people find joy at other's misery. If these people are really mean-spirited, you should question why you should even be interacting with them at all. You should find something that you derive joy from and have that be your focus for a while, and i promise it will take your mind off the things that make you cry!!  Feel Better! Tell yourself that YOU are better than that! :)