if u fathered a child when you were 13 and you are now 21...?
921834
If she is on public assistance she may have been 'forced' to name the possible father(s).  Or maybe the 13 year old child is starting to ask those questions...  \n\nIf he cooperates and goes through the support agency, chances are it will NOT go back to the day the child was born.  \n\nI also found this "In public assistance cases for one year prior to the date of the filing of the petition or complaint in California. (Family Code § 17402) In non-public assistance cases, retroactive to the date of filing the petition, complaint, or other initial pleading. (Family Code § 4009)"
379388
I USED TO LOVE HIM!!! I WAS WILLING TO SEE PAST THE FACT THAT HE IS 3 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME!!  BUT HE HAS A GIRL! BOO HOO!!
1041512
If you are 13, the dood who banged you will be going to jail for statuatory rape.  You may as well get an abortion... no point in ficking up the rest of YOUR life over this.
476023
18 but there thinking of raising it to 21
785230
happened to me too. now my son is 26 and he has is own kids to support. and they can't touch his sperm donor (ex husband) because he hid out long enough to get away with it. Funny they didn't mention it was gonna go down that way until it was all ready over and done with.
1076752
nope...i got it at age 13...and my cuz at age 14...you will b fine ..♥
226961
well it's really really hard to raise a child at such a young tender age!! are you still with the guy or was it just one of those things that kinda happens, no offense. if you're mature enough to handle taking care of a child and pretty much giving up the rest of your teenage years then it's ok. but regardless there's really nothing you can do about it you're pregnant and you have to deal with it. good luck to you and your baby
455829
I'm 53 years old and am adopted. I was told when I was young and feel that it is best to tell the child when they are young because if they find out when they get older, it can be very traumatic for them to accept.
753082
13 is too young to date...where are your parents!? *
651999
I had a relationship that lasted 2 1/2 years in which the guy I was seeing (and was supposed to marry) had a four year old son when I began dating him. The mother had abandoned them both a year earlier. I raised the child as my son - he even called me Mommy. His father worked two jobs for a while, so during that time, I was actually more like a single parent to his son - I did all the baths, all the homework, all the cooking, all the quality time, all the bedtime stories and all the discipline. I loved that child like he was my own, and I still love him. \n\nThe relationship went south, and I stayed because of the child for a long time. The mother eventually got custody of him (MESSED UP!), and took him halfway across the country. I didn't have a problem with him seeing his mother and knowing his mother, in fact, I WANTED him to see and know her, but I also felt that he was my son in my heart. When we had to tell him that the judge said that he had to go and live with his mother, he said, "But your my mommy, too, so that means I can still live with you!" Heartbreaking.\n\nI couldn't see him anymore, I couldn't protect him anymore, I couldn't be there for him anymore, because I had no right to legally. That was the absolute worst thing I've ever had to go through as a result of a relationship - and the relationship itself was pretty darn bad. \n\nAs a result, I won't get involved with a man that already has kids anymore. I am too scared to love a child if all the rights I have to that child are in someone else's hands. That may be irrational, but it's too much of a risk for me. Been there, done that.
949354
your pregnant and 19?!?!!?!?!?!?
907286
I think that I could have handled it at thirteen, but it's really about how much you want to expose yourself or your child (did you specify?) to. \n\nI guess it's not a big deal if the 13-year-old sees it, but some of the sexual contents might disturb him/her and they might end up asking lots of questions...
703946
The man who I gave my virginity to.  He loved me unconditionally and was my soul mate.  We were together for five years.  He was 16 years older than I was when I was 18.  When I grew up a little I wanted kids, but he his were already grown and he didn't want any more children, so I left.  What a fool I was.  I ended up marrying a total jerk shortly thereafter to whom I was married for 18 years and had three kids.  Oh, I always wished I had stayed with the first man.
544207
I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU WERE 15, WANTING TO CHOOSE BETWEEN MOM & DAD... ARE YOU THE 15 YR OLD SON OR THE DAD TRYING TO GET THE 15 YR OLD SON
835578
Haha. Im 13 years old. You should know this stuff by now. But anyways it wont stop you from being a father in the future but it can effect you if you do it too often. The white stuff is sperm. Its what fertiles a women egg to get her pregnant.
776378
Yes.....my kids : )\n\nI have a son who will be 21 next month, a son who is 18, a son who is 17 and a daughter who just turned 16.  They are such awesome kids, and I just thank god that I managed to raise them halfway decently, and they make me proud to be a mother.
607968
How old is your son?and if he younger than 13,I think you should wait until he is old enough to understand.