How can I pervent being Jealous?
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Jealousy is a wasted emotion. It makes neither one of you happy and doesn't prevent the other from doing what they want, or what you don't want them to; so what's the point?
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Well, it's easy.  \n\n1) If you found out that there is a person out there that you cannot stop thinking about.  \n2) If you get jealous when he/she is with someone else.\n3) When they are close to you, you pretend not to notice them\n4) When they are not around you, you look around the room wondering where they are.\n5) You want them to be happy even if you are not the reason behind that happiness\n6) You'll do whatever you can to make them happy\n7) You want to be there for them\n8) You see the beauty in them\n9) You paid more attention to them than before\n10) You couldn't stop looking at them (hoping they didn't notice you looking)\n\nWell, this is all I have for now. I hope this helps.
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Why would you want to make her jealous?
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I agree.  And if they ARE jealous for some reason?... it's called maturity.  You either choose to rise above the petty, or become just as bad as they are.
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ingore you and act as if they don't care or they flirt with another person to make you feel jealous
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Jealousy is rooted in a lack of self confidence. If you feel the person whos with you is just there til someone better comes along, this is insecurity, which breeds jealousy.\n\nSome women will tell you they like a jealous man, but they dont want one who wants to know theyre every move, whothere with 24 hours a day, etc. Trust me this gets old.\n\nHave confidence in yourself. Once you do, people will naturally be attracted to you. How do you GET confidence in yourself? Try to do something youve NEVER attempted before (some SAFE activity- Im not talking about rattlesnake handling or something). The confidence you feel from achieving something you thought you couldnt do is fantastic and though YOU might not notice a difference in how you carry yourself everyone else WILL notice.\n\nOnce you feel confident in yourself, you will realize how sick a disease jealousy is, and you will alos realize you can do without that kind of sickness in your life.
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my ex is also like that.. at first i thought it was cute of him being jealous... but as time passes by it really suffocates me.. its like you cant do anything without asking permission from him or him allowing you. He became very possesive and it really kills me... As if i cant live my life by myself... piece of advice girl... don't let your bf becum a monster you should talk to him...and tell him that its normal to be jealous but its also not normal if he's over reacting when he is jealous...
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First of all you want your language, cause that's what got  u in trouble in th first language. Sweetie  the bible says that LIFE nad DEATH  r inthe tongue.So whatever U speak will take presidence. So if you speak negativity(jealousy, envy, hatred, curses, etc.) you are actually sowing that into yoru life.  U would need to then go to your friends and cierra and apologize, even if they do forgive u or don't forgive you, U got to be the greater person b/c u r the one that started this mess.  Next u r going to have to ride out the wave of this drama and let this be one of your life changing lessons that you have to be careful what u say and to whom u say it.  Next I woudl encourage that you stop lookin at cierra and anybody else an dtake a look at yoru sefl sweetie.  God made you perfectly.  The bible says u r the apple of his eye. That you are fearfully and wonderfully made, u have no need ot be jealous even a little bit of ANYBODY, b/c God made u the bomb all by yourself.  Look deep down on the inside and ask for God's hel in doing this , ask him to show you why u feel the need to be jealous of others. Why you do or say or behave in some ofthe way s u do.  And I promise u God will hear u, answer u, and begin to change those things baout yourself you wish  or need to be changed.  God wants u to be happy with what he gave u, because what he gave u was special and nobody else could get it. Pray to God for fogrigeness sweetie, he will no I Promise he will, then follow the other steps I mentioned.  Keep your head up, it will be better.
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You need to talk to him and tell him he has nothing to be jealous about.  He needs to know that he is loved, respected, and is blessed with family and friends who care.  Ask him how he feels and try to find out why he might feel jealous.\nSuggest counseling - sounds like he might have some things inside him he hasn't dealt with yet.
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There's nothing you can do.  The more effort you exert the more they will resist.  People of EGO feel others are jealous.  So whatever you do will be interpreted as being jealous.  Just allow them to grow out of their ego's.  It will happen one day, provided they live that long.  Life alone can teach them that they are not all they believe themselves to be.  Then again, ego can be a positive, provided it's not over inflated.
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Are you jealous or do you want it?
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I have been in this situation before and the best way is to make him jealous.\n\nBe the girl you always wanted to be; go to the gym and get fit and tone, splurge on a new wardrobe that'll turn heads. Open up more, become the office flirt that's fun to be around. When you're turning everyone's head including your ex-BF's and he wants you but can't have you, damn that's a good feeling.
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This is a normal response, especially in the adolescent female. Part of growing up is recognizing bad traits like this and dealing with them. From your question it looks like that you are trying to be mature. You should be proud of yourself.\n\nThis jealously is rooted in the conscious or unconscious fear that your friend will like that person better than you and that she might then not be your friend anymore. That would hurt alot so that fear presents to us as jealously.\n\nJealously isn't all bad. It pays a positive role in all of our psychosocial relationships. It helps to modify our behavior.\n\nThe trick is to realize and control this feeling which is exactly what you are asking!!!\n\nI suppose that you could try to also make friends with this other girl, then you could all be friends. Also; you could understand that friends come in and out of our lives all the time. Somebody might be you best friend for a long time, but peole and circumstances arise that end up making someone ELSE our best friend. Years later that former friend might become our best friend again.\n\nThe thing is just to try and be nice an helpful even if you don't feel like it, even despite your jealously.
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Your own or the other person's jealousy? Because, if you don't know the other person well enough to trust them and know they aren't cheating on  you then you darn well don't know them well enough to sleep with them.\n\nIf they're jealous of  you, first ask yourself if you objectively have given them a reason to be jealous. If you have not, then ask yourself what kind of issues this person has becauase "power and control issues" where they want to run  your life for you mask themselves as jealousy. They aren't telling you to quit wearing minis because they think you'll cheat on them but because they want to tell you what to wear and how to wear your hair and who you can talk to.\n\nIf a guy has "power and control issues" then run away! Dump him quick! They're jerks and it only gets worse.
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controlling and jealousy
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I think you are not satisfied with yourself and that's why you are jealous and negative. Think what you want to accomplish realistically within the next 2-3 years and make a step by step plan (realistic one). Start working on it. Get busy with achieving your immediate and long term goals and hopefully you don't worry about other people much. \n\nExamples of goals: loose 10lb, become more attractive, get married, buy a house, get pay raise, change profession, make 10 more new friends, etc.
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just dont think so much. Calm down and act like you always would around anyone else. put the hotness thought in the back of your head and just let things flow.