is she really a FRIENDS????????
931363
Unfortunetly not. True friends dont make us choose between them and another. The ones that do are simply selfish and nasty.\nWhen you become friends and they are a fun to be around and hang out with you should first look at their circle. If they have lots of friends it is a good sign, But if they have none or only 1 or 2 you really should ask your self why. ppl have friends in different ways too. Social friends are casual ones, not emotional connected, But Truefriends you have the emotional connenction to them.  I think this girl has an emotional attatchment to u that is not natural. Not wanting u to be friends with other ppl is a sign that you should be friends with her anyway.
888406
i wuld be real honest with her but also remember to be kind.it's alot harder to do then say i know.i am in a similar situation & it's never easy when it comes to ur friends.it culd be that ur friend is having a hard time & need sometime right now.she knows ur there & that's good.that's what friendship is.\ntake care,\nang w.
973555
ya it really sound like she likes you. .ye seem to get on great and it seems she enjoys spending time with you. also friendship is the start to the best relationships.. so go for it and good luck
961096
Probably not, not if she was a true friend.   But, I would talk to her and ask her directly.   It is always best to be up front and honest.   That way there is no misconceptions.
359284
she's playing the game... give it some time, be there and just let her know you'll be there as a friend(for now! but don't tell her that part) then after a couple months tell her if she does not take to the next level you have to stop seeing her as a friend, "it's to hard" she'll come running right to you! promise! i played the same game and that's how my husband got me, 10 yrs ago!
726750
Honestly, if she were a true friend, she wouldn't be all up on a guy you like.  You are right to not let a stupid boy come between you and true friend, but this friend doesn't sound true.
165355
it depends on what you did, give her a lil time...if it isent sucha HUGE deal she'l come around ..after all you are her friend.......but what could help is if your going out with a couple a freidns make sure to msg or call her inviting her to come....it will riminder her that you still want her as a friend and you want her company
189593
They are........friends??????
416631
If you are really her friend and not just someone trying to hurt her feelings , then I would tell her how people view her and that in the long run she is going to be the one hurt by this behavior. I knew someone like that once, and when she decided to change and get her life back on track ,she actually had to move out of state before she could find someone that wanted to have a relationship with her because everyone knew her reputation.
321601
Sounds like u 2 are friends, so approach it that way.  Feel free to tell her you are there for her if she ever needs someone to talk to - do this in a consoling way, so she sees sincerity.  Then be patient and don't get aggressive.  Time will tell.
449791
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
514210
I take it as a positive sign... girls by nature are abit shy and at times may take her own time to be ur friend... but thats the time u need to keep ur patience.. u cant force someone to be ur friend.
969932
You say she only calls when she needs something.  What kind of friend is that?!  You don't want someone like that in your life.  She doesn't deserve a friend like you.  Life is short.  Get rid of her and find new ones.
160625
Who's fool are you?  Yes it is possible that they can just be friends but seems to me the seed of doubt is already there. Where there is no trust there is no relationship, and it sounds like you don't trust her. Get out while you can and don't be the fool.
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
1148245
Well she probably hang with you out side of work cause she dont want people saying crap about her. Sounds like she could possibly like you or she just might be lonely. Why do you want to tell her to F off i mean you said you liked her and that you were good friends. I would just stay friends you both enjoy each others company so.. Well just decide what you wanna do. Good Luck.
485187
that is no friend, friends can be trusted, friends are loyal, she is not doing her part in the friendship, its time to find a better friend! best wishes!