should I stay or should I go?
931224
How can you say you love someone and not want to be around them.  We women spend a great part of our lives trying to please our men, only to find out that they don't enjoy our company any longer, what kind of crap is that?
120105
moving to another state is almost ALWAYS the right decision. it will demand that you grow a little. and that's never bad! :)\n\nto reassure yourself... ask yourself before you go to sleep: should i go ahead with this move? or, am i making the right decision?\n\nask it outloud, and really focus on the question.\n\nthen go to sleep... when you wake up, don't get distracted with the alarm or the cellphone. let your mind drift until you remember your dreams. hopefully, your dreams will answer your question clearly and you can continue or change plans.\n\ntry it a few nights in a row if you're not convinced!\n\nour subconscious minds are powerful. deep down we know answers to many troubling questions. it's just a matter of tapping into the subconscious!
118878
You should reevalute where life has taken you and consider\n\nwhether or not you're making the right choices. Good luck.\n\nIf you're asking if you should stick by him, only you know that.
1129972
hmm... easy answer... nope.  I think you should stay as you are.  It's obvious Christ worked in your life in an awesome way.  God's blessings to you:)
826089
It depends what you want from a job. If you don't mind putting in extra hours and really need the money, then go for the other job. However, if you really like your current job and are happy there, think hard before you make a decision because there's no guarantee that you'll like your new job and it always bites to leave somewhere where you had it good.
664738
Go if you want. Stay home if you don't.
573894
Where are u staying atm?\n\nSomehow i doubt you will re-unite if u leave, however, do what u wanna do man!\n\nI suggest sticking with what u know and maybe taking a year out to visit/tour the US or even the world\n\nGL w/e u do :)
500101
I was in the same boat with the Army.  I toughed it out.  My wife pushed me to stay on, and it worked out.  The last couple of years were the hardest, and easiest, of them all.  I won't say that it was a cake walk, but knowing that I ONLY had 10 years, 8 years, 1 year to retirement made a difference.  If I had gotten out, I think that I would be kicking myself for not staying.\n\nMy brother got out of the Navy after 10 years, and went to work as a contractor.  He and his family have moved 4 different times since he got out, so the moving part is still there.  BUT, he is happy with his decision.  I told him he was nuts, he was half way there, etc.  But, he had had enough.\n\nThe ultimate decision on this is between you and your husband.  You will have to weigh the pros and cons.  I, personally, think that if your halfway there, and don't have your degree yet, then you should stay.  But, then again, I've already passed the hump.\n\nGood luck, and thank you for your service.
143320
make a decision... u have to choose one or loosing both...
844740
I would stay. Because if you knew that you made each other happy and that it would mean they leave this world happy. You cant ever give anyone the gift of happiness greater. Even thought it would be hard knowing that they could slip away at any moment, i would personally stay with them
506139
Depending on how long u have left i would say just put up. Otherwise just stay with freinds or family.
681187
If you do not want to stay at your current employer for the rest of your life...what are you waiting for? If you are raising a child, you'll need the extra money(believe me!). Nothing in life is a sure thing...let's face it, we would be bored if it was. Take a chance. Life is for the living. What you really have to ask yourself is do you want to live life or simply exist! Good luck with your decision and your family.
467083
You sound like a very stubborn guy, and I don't blame you.  You've been there a long time and should be entitled to stay.  But your town is going to hell in a handbasket.  the situation's probably not going to get a lot better in your lifetime.  Think about this:  What are you proving?  That you can put up with anything?  Let it go, Pal.  Find a nice, comfortable place, where you can go down the steet to have a coffee with a neighbor, sit in the sun and read the paper, whatever.  You only have one life.  Make the rest of it the kind of life you'd like to live.  Nobody's going to give you a medal for staying.
552410
I'd go with the fact of it's not a good fit for you, you feel you have no opportunity for advancement, and that you've gone as far as you think you're going to go with that company, and that you're looking for a change. \n\nGood luck!!!
198815
You need to do what is right for you. If leaving the state to pursue a career is what you feel is right for you then by all means go. The people that are trying to talk you out of it are just wanting to keep you here because they will miss you. Thats all. I would do what will make me happy. Hope this helps.
783221
I'd stay. I love what I study and my professors here are great. But I'd pay off my student loans, and I'd worry less about finding a grad school because I would have my own funding. :)
571709
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.  At least, that's what we think when we begin looking for a new job.  It sounds as if you're set in an ideal situation of having numerous options to choose from, including a new job or quite possibly a new role in your current company.  I strongly urge a one-on-one with your manager, particularly if you have a good working relationship.  Your manager will both appreciate and respect that you chose to discuss your options prior to making a final decision.  It will also give you a more complete picture on where you stand in the company.  If you are considered "too valuable to lose", accommodations will be made to keep you there and quite possibly offer you a more appealing (and lucrative) position.  If you get a cold shoulder or "you need to do what is best for you" reaction, then maybe things aren't as rosey as you assumed they were and it is time to move on.  Weigh all of your options carefully.  I would suggest that you make a table of pros and cons for all options as well to see how they really stack up against each other on paper.  Good luck!