i met this guy last night...?
913660
Just wait for him to call you, if he doesnt call you within the next three days then he doesnt remember any of it. Then when you go out, tell him you want to go to dinner, then make not of his behavior, is he drinking a lot? Excessive? Is he just a natural slurrer? He was probably nervous about meeting you and probably kept drinking.  \n     I say give him a shot if/when he calls, there is no harm in that. Enjoy, you might have found a great guy that will make you laugh. If he doesnt call then just write it off to the fact that he was drunk.
582533
hm, this is a toughy. I guess it depends on the guy. If you really liked him then he should understand and be cool. On the other hand if he was just some random pirate you picked up from a night club or something then there is prob no good time and you should just run
1026348
take some initiative and call him,let him know you had a fun night and you enjoyed the conversation and all that. He probably didn't know what do to either and didn't want to be too forward or overstep any boundaries.So if you call him I think that would make him more comfortable and it would be easier for him to "make a move" the next time you go out.(hopefully there's a next time) Good Luck!!
179052
Absolutly. Go see him, rekindle the fire. See how things play out...
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
836997
honey,he likes you,and yet feels very shy.\nAw give this guy sometime to come around...and He will.\nTell him you are going out that night,would he be intersted in joining you?\nI bet he will say yes,if not yes he will say,he`ll see what he can do(wink........... yeah that means he will be there)\ngood luck*hugs*
1069291
well it sounds like u guys keep finding each other. if u are sure he's comfortable with bein with a guy but i guess if u guys hooked up then he is :) i say go for it just tell him cuz he may be thinking the same thing as you but scared liek you..it cud be the best thing u ever did and its obvious that he means alot to you..i think your story is very sweet..good luck!
624180
Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
1160663
Think about it first, girl. Do you really know him? I don't mean just.. his name, favorite color, occupation, etc. I mean really.. know him. If you don't, get to know him more. Ask him more questions. He shouldn't blame you, since you barely know him. I'm pretty sure he'd like to know you more too, since it's really hard to trust people over the internet these days. Take a while before you actually get to meet this guy. Actually know him.
11924
If you want a sort of casual approach, get tickets to something and tell him "I have an extra ticket to ______ and I was hoping you'd like to go with me, if you're fee that night."\nBut, trust me on this, sometimes the guy you think is out of your league, is actually afraid to approach YOU.... I missed 20 years of having someone quite amazing in my world because when we were young, I thought I had no shot at all to be anything but his "pal"....came to learn just this year, he never understood why I had the time of day for him, thought I couldn't possibly be interested.\nBelieve me, Darlin', there are things in life far more painful than being shot down.
329924
well sweety think about how long you have known him.  only a couple of days. and you sleep together yeah leaving the message was good but don't call back just yet. wait at least a week before you do.  see if he is interested by letting him call.  i know it sounds stupid, but its is a game.
871202
Can I suggest something?\n\nHow about the next time you meet him, use your sense of humour to have a good chat with him first. See how he responds and then base on his behaviour toward you, you then decide the next move.
509884
nope i bet you know more about tyler and the internet guy.  you will be safer that way.  he can tell you he is going to meet you and because you dont know anything about him (like how he looks and dont go by that pic he sent to you) i am raper man shows up and now you are in some wooded area with no clothes on and not breathing (graphic enough for you, good) so stick with tyler at least you know his face doesnt change...
726010
hmmm, \n\ndefine "hooked-up" is that we just met, or more?
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
272403
I would say let him look for you.. I don't know the terms that you guys are in right now.. But if you guys are only friends and haven't been giving each other hopes then I don't see anything wrong if you call him first.. But you still don't want to look desperate, let some time pass.. Call him next day or if he gets there in the morning then call him at night..
807121
At a bar. We would go to the same club regularly and he was friends with a friend of a friend. We would hang out the bar almsot every weekend for about 6 months. It wasn't planned though. We just liked the same scene. He was dating other girls at the time, but had his eye on me and I was interested in something strictly casual, but never tried with him because he was cool and I thought we'd be 'just friends'. \n\nWell, one night he called me because he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to come over and eat mushrooms. I had nothing else to do and thought he was cool, so I let him come over and we had a good time. Nothing happened that night, but about a week later I got extrodinarly wasted and we hooked up. It started out as a casual thing scratch that as a very casual thing and I had little intentions of it being serious, but we ended up falling in love and I settled down a little bit. \n\nThis was after he moved in because his 'rents kicked him out of their place and he was staying in his car. We were already sleeping together, so I said he could stay at my place for a few days and that few days turned to months and that casual time with a guy who was actually worthy of my friendship unlike my other casual boys turned into a serious relationship. We've been together for almost two years and plan on getting married in 2008. \n\nWhat makes us stay together? Well, our geniune love for eachother and partially our own narcissisms. We love ourselves and I'm his female counterpart and he's the male version of myself. Our similar interests and goals and problem solving techniques help as well as compatible senses of humour.\n\nThe story I tell my parents and family? We met through friends of friends at church.