Here is a copy of something i posted on myspace blog entry. How can I help my hubby get over this?
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exactly what he asked....?  do you want help because of what happened?  or because he is upset that you wrote the post?\n\nanyway, time heals all things... \n\nyour husband will probably never get over it but in time he will at least be able to forgive and maybe some days he will forget.\n\nunfortunately there are peoples best friends, siblings, parents, children, and family doing those types of things all over the world, everyday,  so just keep your head up and this too shall pass.
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Wow!  What crawled up proccna's a$$ and died?  \n\nIvy, think back over the past few weeks/months and see if you can remember some little indulgent thing your husband wanted for himself, but decided he "didn't really need it" or was "a little too expensive right now".  It could be anything from a new 3 wood to a singing fish wall plaque...just something that he fancied in a store (or online) but decided not to get for himself.  Get him that and remind him that you saw him looking at it and you wanted him to have it.  The "it" won't matter near as much as the fact that you noticed...being a guy, I know how much we like to know that our women are paying attention to us!  Good Luck!!
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It is very hard to sad to deal with. Do you have family near by? That helped me. Do you work? Praying really helped alot! Do you have IM? does he have it too? I know on the AKO you get install the IM and that saves some heatache. \nI remeber when my hubby was there. I was 4 months preggers when he left. That was very diffcult. But you have got to keep your self busy.  I know it sounds mean but you really have to. Hang in there and I will keep you in my prayers as I do for every miltary spouse and their spouses!
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I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com
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Okay, I'm going to go out on a limb on this one and say if your Yahoo Icon picture is any example of how you behave on a day-to-day basis, then you're asking for the attention of other men.  I believe you like your husband to be jealous; otherwise, you wouldn't promote yourself in public with that type of picture, or with a name that suggests someone who has absolutely no intention of staying married to one man.
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Do you really think you should be on here saying this? Maybe you should be going to talk to your hubby about it and you never know he may feel the same way. How would you feel if he saw this and found out that way before you even talked to him? Think about it.
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Get a my space account... or another blog acconut. I recomend myspace though. At least I like it.
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I agree that this is wrong of the g/f.  I'd be most upset as well.  I guess you can start by talking to the ex....are you guys on reasonable terms?  If that doesn't work, I'd look at the rules of myspace to see if it's somehow in violation.  \n\nWorse comes to worse, you may want to speak to somebody of authority about what your options could be. (If the divorce isn't final, maybe you should speak to the judge, or the case worker or something like that). \n\nI don't think it's starting a fight to tell her that it is wrong and foolish of her to post a child's pic on HER myspace  (personally, she sounds like a ditz)
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He's probably just really tired. Not that I can quite compare with my boyfriend to a husband, but I kinda, well, "bullied" him into it (ok maybe bullied isn't the right word... persuaded?) after awhile things started to go downhill. It caused a tear in our relationship, a big tear. (which is now fixed...) My suggestion would be to maybe go to an adult store for some purchases to relieve the itch. And maybe set up for a romantic night with your husband with warming aromatic oils to give him a body massage, make him a nice dinner beforehand, fix his favorite meal, romance him up and maybe he'll open up a little more. Also consider sitting down to a chat later on. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you!
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you sound just like me. i'm trying to work things out but i know the end result will be me leaving. i just want to be able to say that i gave it my all and totally mean it. sometimes we just outgrow them. have you ever tried to start some sort of hobbie with each other or do a date night? maybe that will get something going for you. i tried that. my husband didnt even care to go through with any of it. he just agreed to it and never did it. i'm writing a book on my horrible marriage. as soon as i get enough crap for my book i'm out. its not worth it to stay.
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Ooooo. Sounds like a familiar situation...\n\nFirst- This shouldn't be about right or wrong. That just makes people defensive and nothing comes out of it. \n\n\nYou do a lot and he needs to recognize that. \nHe needs to pitch in more and at least not depend on you to cook all the time. \n\nMy wife and I just had our first baby. We are both exhausted because we take shifts to feed the baby. Sometimes I have more energy and I cook or do some cleaning or vice versa. But marriage and kids is all about team work. You guys are in this together. \n\n\nPerhaps you need to approach this in a way that doesn't make him defensive. (if that is possible.) You want to make him see your point of view without him feeling like he needs to justify his actions. \n\nOwn your feelings. Tell him that you are too tired to cook, or say you need his help with something specific because you are worn out. Mention the part about being a team. \n\nBut make sure you let him know you do appreciate him to. Guys need that and we like to be able to help and feel needed. Using those words might get more action out of your hubby.\n\nEffective communication will help you through.
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Go to a good truck stop.  They have electric blankets that work off the trucks batteries and other fun stuff.  How about a massage when he comes home off the road?  Or a small photo album with his children/wife/in-laws in photos with captions added just for him.  Does he like to read?  Does he need a great pillow for his truck?  Truckers are good folks, find out what he likes that he can take with him as the road is awfully lonely and boring.
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dont go to myspace...that is stupid...talk to a therapist
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People of all ages journal!!! If this helps you get though tough times then write till your fingers bleed!!!!\nWant to change how you look at the world..... Get a new journal and use it for only positive thoughts.....it's a little hard at first but you'll get to the point that you'll see the world in a whole new light!!!\nIf your having trouble in your relationship...maybe you should try and talk to your little hubby about the things you decide you cant' accept to live with...this way he knows what he may need to address in order to be a better man and husband!!\n\nKeep writing girl!!
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I would try to send Tom an email and let him know your situation. He should be able to help you, or send a message to the support on MySpace, that will help :-)
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I like it.  Your pictures are amazing.  To the poster that said he didn't want to see pictures of your bf, um, why not?  She has a life.  Thanks for sharing.  I LOVE MySpace!
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follow your heart but communcate that with your husband...and for god sake stop worrying about this stuff and consummate the marriage..its been long enough and im sure hes irritated.