My mate Guy, is dating a girl called Catherine Wheel. He's only known her 2 days, but says she lights his fire
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He's got the hots for the flamed haired firecracker. At first they seemed like a match made in heaven. He took her for a roman candle dinner and gave her a sparkler and a fire coat and  didn't charge her. She refused him and alighted  before he could let his rocket off. She still consumes his thoughts but he's happy now because there's a Penny for the Guy.
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I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
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Man if u let her stay with him alone for 2 weeks, then u are asking for trouble. If she's already been with an older guy, then she knows the deal. He sounds like a smooth talking guy anyway and what's he got to loose? nothing. So if she does stay there with him that long, u might as well get ready to find a new girl, cause ur relationship prolly wont last after that. She would prolly just deny that that anything happened with him, and then find some reason to break up anyway.
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I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
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talk2ur friend first he should know, then if he blows up when u say what ur gonna do, go for her he should respect you,
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He has found another girl, and yes, he was just playing around calling you babe and honey like you were dating.  I guess that if the girl he is currently interested in breaks up and says that she isn't interested in him, then he will start to paly around and pretend with you again.
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Be angry with her.  I would consider her "not a friend" now.  Does she know you're dating this guy?  She can't find a nice man for herself?
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I would tell him that its either you or her.  He is playing games with your head.  Then I would kick her ass for messing with another girls man.
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You sound like a very loving person. It sounds like you have a wonderful friendship with your friend. And I think that the basis of friendship is honesty. \nI think you should consider telling the guy, when he calls, to be honest with his girl. Convince him to tell her how he feels. He sounds like he isn't as honest to his girl"friend" as you are. \nIf he isn't very cooperative at being honest and continues the discrete behavior, ask your friend in a round about way like:\n"Hey, there is something I think you should know but I am pretty sure it will upset you. Do you want me to tell you?"\n\nShe will say yes, and if so proceed slowly no need to get it all out right away, ease her into it with something like:\n"Ok, I'm not sure his intentions or if he has even told you about it... I hope he has but it feels like hes being discrete about it which is why I think you should know..." etc etc\n\nDon't forget to reassure her that you value your friendship and that you truly hoped the sexual playtime would help her relationship but that you don't want to feel that the encounter is part of some hidden agenda.\n\nAsk her how she wants you to handle future encounters with him, her, and them. She may want you in the relationship, she may want him out. The most important thing is being honest upfront to avoid any misunderstandings. \n\nSame thing with him, if you value his company treat him the same way, honestly. \nIf he is being pushy, ask him questions... this slows guys down and makes them thing more about the conversation and its potential for direction rather than the goal(i.e. "getting" the girl) and read his responses. \nDishonest people are easy to read because it feels dishonest.\nAnd don't forget that you can cross reference everything said by either of them with the significant other for even more insight into who's telling what to whom.\n\nIf your lucky everything will workout and they will love you for being a very big help, a very loving friend, and an honest person. \nIf not hopefully you can salvage 1 of the relationships be that theirs, you & hers, or you and his. \nDon't forget to be honest to yourself too, Ask yourself what scenerio you would like the most. Then tell them about it. Honesty has power unlimited when used properly.
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He's not much of a friend and u need to go after your girl and make her see u in a different light.
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SNAP!!!!!!\n\ndid the same thing with a guy i met on her too. stayed up all hours just chatting about stuff and listing old songs! \n\nok, here's what i think. when you meet someone you just 'click' with, it is easy to get carried away with yourself and be consumed with it all. thats not to say that there is not anything serious there. all i am saying is reality is often different to fantasy.\n\nme and the guy i'm still chatting too met a couple of weeks ago. he is a great guy but i think we both felt that reality was a little different. we still chat and i am due to see him again shortly.\n\nwhat we decided was to take things slowly, get to know eachother better as friends as see what develops from that. it's the most sensible option i think.
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Tell her to explain things with him. However, do not interfere with the girl's problems, especially since she will think you are helping to draw her away from her current boyfriend. Or, more directly, you can talk to her boyfriend about the crime he is doing and ask him why he would actually harrass her friend. He's probably not the real boyfriend your crush should have.
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Really its sort of getting out of hand,have a chat with your mate,sort of bring up the girl in a none committal way,if she is just a casual thing to him let him know you could really go for her,but don't want to upset any one,if you don't find out that way,call it a day with happy memories
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Omg, I have this guy too and he has this slutty girlfriend and I think he can really do better then that. I ask him to come over nad hangout and he saud my g/f would like that!  I was like Matt come on your my best friend your gonna diss me for you girl, but i'm still friends with him and i love him but if he wants her, theres other fish in the sea!
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it's called a girlfriend
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Hi Tiera,   well it sounds like this guy is a real jerk. Not trying to be mean or anything just going by everything you said.  Now, as far as your friend goes I believe that you should stick to your guns and be there for her.  If you havent done so already,  I think you should tell her all about this guy and just prepare her for what you might think will happen. Don't try to make her break up with him per say,  but just let her know that you are telling her these things because she is your friend and you dont want to see her hurt.  Thats really all you can do at this point.  Sometimes in life in order for someone realize what they get themselves into they have to learn the hard way.  The only thing you can do is just assure her that you will be there for her no matter what.  She will appreciate you more down the road when she realizes she was wrong and you were right.  Stick to you guns hun, and dont abandon your friend because this is when she is gonna need you the most.  Good luck with everything...........
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Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!