What should you do if your girlfriend starts smoking?
914810
i have a girlfriend? boy! my boyfriends goingto get mad when he finds this out..
994471
Don't buy any more cigarettes.  Don't light anymore cigarettes.  When you have the urge to smoke, focus on something else.  Change the habits where you usually smoke, like after dinner go for a walk rather than a smoke.  Chew on a lollipop in the car rather than smoke.  When you are stressed, practice Yoga or go jogging instead of smoking.
590872
My boyfriend smoked, and i swore i would never date anyone who did but we have now been together for 2 1/2 years and at first its hard to get use to...I didnt kiss him at first untill he brushed his teeth.  It doenst taste great, but thats life.  If you dont like smokers then dont date one and dont kiss one.  If you can look past that and see the person themself and not just what they do you can get past kissing a smoker. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and he hasn't smoked for about 5 months now, just stoped one day and hasn't started since, he knew i didnt like it and even though it took him 2 years to stop he did and he did it because he loved me enough to stop doing it.  I myself never smoked in my life and i never will.  So not all people who are married or dating smokes are or once were smokers themselves.
668861
tell her that i'm going to think she's ugly if she smokes
550803
THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE IS DON'T START SMOKING,  but have look at this link . but if you want toxins to sop entering you body ,,stop breathing ,eating, drinking ..ect\n\nlol    good luck
564117
if shes hot, suck it up and do it, and hope next time she has better breath...or if its really bad, go for a kiss on the cheeck, theyre cute...
1066100
follow this simple yet effective regimen: if you smoke about 18 cigs a day now, starting tomorrow keep track and only smoke 17 cigs. do that for a whole week, it isn't even hard. the next week smoke only 16 cigs a day ( don't lose track). the next week smoke 15 cigs a day and so forth. when you get down to five increase the time period to two weeks. after the two weeks you are down to four. then just keep going at the two week pace and you will be smoke free. try it!
651051
Neither, If the woman wants to smoke ...let her. Everyone moans that it costs so much in health care, but the heath service in this country would be even worse off if it wasn't for the extortionate taxes that smokers have paid over the years.\nEngland
1161620
start smoking ganja :-)
132083
if i had my say i would go and run interferance by calling the cops on her when she is smokin weed is easy . p.s say you're anomus
61146
Well...you cannot make her quit if she doesn't want to. That would be a very selfish thing to do. I suggest that you and her come to some sort of agreement in regard to where and when it happens. She should respect you enough to consider your feelings and agree to it. If not then I dunno.
725893
Aside from being supportive, you can't help him.  He has to help himself.\n\nNow that I've said that, why not give him goals that will make achieving freedom from smoking more fun?  Give him something, aside from health, to work toward.\n\nFor example, after the first week, treat him to dinner.  After the second week, take him out to a movie, his choice.  After the third... etc.\n\nThese types of goals really helped me w hen I was trying to quit.
1164453
You will not make the descision for him or her.  As a ex-smoker, it was not my wife who made me want to stop - even though she tried for 20years - I made the choice.  Give it time, and when they do give up don't talk about it, just let them get on with it.
1072610
Open the lines of communication with her. Start by listening to her more (not talking more). \n\nAsk her about her hopes and dreams, about what she thought her life would be like when she was your age, ask what she thinks her best qualities are and what she thinks your best qualities are, ask her about family traditions and stories. \n\nShow her that you love her, that you are invested in your relationship with her, that you take her/her words seriously, and that you're capable of thinking for yourself but can appreciate her wisdom. \n\nAfter a couple of weeks, hopefully she will begin to be more open with you and will start asking you questions in return, and then you can tell her about choices you've made, your feelings about those choices, and how you think they may impact your dreams/plans for the future. \n\nAlso, be willing to consider asking her for help in quitting smoking. There are few things that will make your adult life more difficult than being a smoker (tobacco costs are rising, few public places allow smoking, the smells associated with smoking are considered especially unattractive for women, the money you spend on tobacco supports corrupt politicians that make major decisions that hurt your life, it's harder/more expensive to get health and life insurance as a smoker, smoking increases your medical bills as it makes you more prone to upper respitory infections in winter and cancer in middle age, etc.)
1185619
dont smoke if you smoke,do exercise,take antioxidents such as vitamin E and C suppliments.ginko biloba is very useful.
264458
Right this is hard to answer but i had the same problem. First of all dont go over the top and follow her around girls hate it. ALWAYS be you if you dont and you do get with her and your somone different it will change things and you might lose her. If you smoke STOP girls hate lads with horrible breath. ask her and a couple of her friends to go to the pictures or somwhere public at first to see if she likes you it is also its good idea to take some of your friends to. Ask her out when the time comes. it is best to do this when no one is with her and you as this will make you feel intimidated and wont help you. where a bit of aftershave but not overpowering. and make sure you look nice. dont crowd her to much as girls like their personal space. just be yourself and take it slow. If you need anymore help email me at callum_collins@yahoo.co.uk Hope it all goes ok.
1103775
spend time with your friend by hanging out with them,keep feeding him or her gum as a substitute for smoking, a nice  day at the spa if not that you can  always steal their cigarettes take them away or just try to get a bunch of your friends together and stage  an ambush  to take your friend on a  intervention  trip to help get rid of the  need  to smoke