I REALLY NEED ANSWERS PLEASE. Sorry hate asking like this. But am soo scared about my Pelvic Exam tomorrow.?
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I first had a pelvic exam when I was a virgin too.  I found it was uncomfortable and maybe, at times, mildly painful, but really nothing to worry over.  The Dr will spray a lubricant before they put the speculum inside you to help ease any discomfort.  I know this sounds impossible, but try to relax as much as possible, and this will also help things from being more uncomfortable.  Most Dr’s will put a blanket over you while they examine you so you are more comfortable and feel less exposed.  While you are there, you should also get them to do a quick breast exam to check for lumps (I don’t know if that’s a common part of the exam for where you are, but it is in my neck of the woods…and it’s better safe then sorry!)  And don't worry about bleeding.  If there is any blood, it will be a very small amount (ie, not enough to show up on your underwear) Afterwards, you might feel a little stretched but that will go away pretty quickly.  \nGood Luck!
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There is no reason to be scared. It is not uncommon for people to hurt themselves, and go visit the doctor later when things don't get better. There is no problem with just getting it checked - it might be something that won't heal by itself. Try to convince her that it is worth her health just to make sure everything is OK.
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I have cist on my ovaries and you talking about pain!! Please ask them to check cause I know the feeling.  Cause if you don't then the cist could interfere with your reproductive stages and could cause you to not concieve
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I have had this done.When you go in they will show you a movie about Dysphlasia { not sure if I spelled it rite but you know what i mean}and how they remove it. What will happen if they do not get it all or it comes back.I know that you are scared.I was terrified.But remeber they caught it early which means chances are they will get it all the first time. As for the Leep it's self honestly it's not fun.But they do freeze the effected area before they do it.What I found more uncomfortable was having the freezing needles put in.I had some  cramping after that lasted about 3 days.I just took Motrin for it. I had to go back every 6 month for 2 years to have Biopsies taken just to be sure it did not come back. I now make sure that I never miss my pap.Good Luck if you need to talk feel free to e-mail me. Hope this helps some.
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not sure but you mght want to go check it out with a doctor before it gets any worse or turns out to be something very seriouse\n\nhave you had unprotected sex??\n\nmight want to think back on that
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I think I would have been traumatized going in to watch my mom's pelvic...so I would say don't go THAT route!  I started at 9 years old and didn't have regular pelvics till I was 15...and only because I wanted to go on the pill.  So check with the dr...if she's not going on the pill and not sexually active, she may not even NEED to have one done yet!  If she does need to, do some kind of relaxing activity before hand...wether it be taking a walk, reading a book...whatever.  That will put her in a better frame of mind.  Most drs are really good with first time patients and walk them through it without too much trauma. :-)
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yeah, this question kinda worriesme too.. i pray for your well being, and that you may reach peace of mind.. god bless! :]
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There is nothing to be nervous about.\n\nFirst, you should be using protection (condom) so there is no risk of you urinating during intercourse.\n\nSecond, normally when you are aroused a valve closes off your bladder so this can't happen.\n\nYou need to quit worrying so much.
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Have you checked this out with your local doctor or gynaecologist? if you have had this "dragging feeling" since your operation it is somthing that you need to check out so that you can be sure in your own mind that there is  nothing that you need to be concerned about. I hope that this helps you.
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I am a guy, too, but this is such a doctor thing... look at all these other women who have tried to help you with safer passage through what appears to be a very uncomfortable thing... when you have had a chance to try some of their suggestions, please do remember your doctor may have some really cool answers, as well. If not your doctor, then consult with a close friend you trust the most, either for answers, or for referral to someone who can nail this one for you. I am sending this to you more because I want you to know there is someone in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. who really gives a damn about this issue you are experiencing, and who hopes that by this evening, you will have either come by or acquired an answer that will really work for you. You shouldn't have to endure another hour of this kind of chaffing and discomfort. God Bless You, don't give up, keep looking for the right answer, and Good Luck to you!  - Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A.  (I am 63 years old.)
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Hey.  I have a friend that's the EXACT same way.  She wants to, but she's scared it's going to hurt, and when she tries she says it hurts.  Well, I was the same way, and I was extremely scared.  But all you have to do is dont rush it; just take your time.  And if it starts to hurt, don't freak out and just pull it out or you'll have to start all over again, and that doesn't sound very cool, does it?  So anyway, just sit there and insert it a little and if it hurts, just take a few deep breaths and push it in a little further and before you know it, SURPRISE, you've inserted a tampon =).\nHope I helped,\nKatie
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Well, since you're so young, you will probably have to tell your mom you would like a female doctor (since she probably make the appointments). NOt every office has male and female doctors, so that is your best bet. Just explain to her that you would feel more comfortable with a female doctor. I'm sure she would understand. \n\nI don't know what kind of physical you are going in for, but unless it is specifically planned that you will have a pap smear or pelvic exam, the doctor probably won't do any kind of exam "down there". You can absolutely ask your mom not to come in with you, but she may come in anyway.  \n\nDon't be so nervous. If you do have a pelvic exam, it's fast, painless, and really not a big deal. Just explain your wishes to your mom and I'm sure she will understand. Good luck and calm down.
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Going to the doctor's office for an annual gynecological examination isn't exactly something that women eagerly anticipate. And if you add in the fact that it is a young woman's first gynecological exam, that heightens anxiety even more.\nDuring the appointment, it is important that women be ready with information about their family medical history, especially patterns of breast disease or cancers of the reproductive organs. In addition to inquiring about the family, the physician will ask questions about personal health. Among the most common questions are the following:\n\n* At what age did you start menstruating? \n\n* When did your last period start? The physician will want to know the actual date your last period began. \n\n* How long does your period usually last? \n\n* Do you tend to have a light, medium or heavy flow? \n\n* How many pads or tampons do you use the first day of your period? \n\nIt's Exam Day-What Can You Expect?\nThe exam consists of a variety of steps.\nFirst, you sit down with the physician and talk about your medical history, both personal and family. During this time, you can also bring up any questions you may have about birth control, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), menstruation or other issues.\n\nThe next step is that you change into an examination gown. Usually, you will be given a sheet to drape over yourself as well.When the physician returns to the room, he or she will perform a breast exam to look for lumps that may be a sign of cancer. If you have never done a self exam, the physician can show you how to do it and tell you what to look for.\nWomen over the age of 20 should get a clinical breast exam performed by a physician or a nurse every year and should perform a self-exam every month.\nThe Dreaded Pelvic Exam\nNext comes that part that you probably have been dreading the most-the pelvic exam. Dr. Henwood makes it a point to explain this procedure beforehand as well as during the exam. However, if your physician does not provide explanations, and you want some answers, just ask. At this point, you will be instructed to slide to the end of the table and place your feet into stirrups. Staying relaxed is very important because you will be more comfortable and the exam can be more complete.\n\nThe first step in the pelvic exam is for the physician to examine the external genital area for any signs of irritation, discharge, cysts, genital warts or other problems. Next, the physician inserts a speculum. This instrument, which is made of metal or plastic, is used to separate the walls of the vagina. Once placed inside, it is opened up so that the doctor can examine the cervix and the vaginal walls.\n\nIf you need to be tested for any STDs, the physician will collect cervical mucus on a cotton swab. If you are at risk for any STDs, you need to tell your physician up front.\n"It's so important for patients to be honest about their sex lives and their risk for contracting STDs," stresses Dr. Henwood."For instance, human papilloma virus (HPV), more commonly known as genital warts, causes 95 percent of cervical cancers."\nThe American Cancer Society estimates that, in the year 2000, just under 13,000 new cases of invasive cervical cancer will be diagnosed and about 4,600 women will succumb to this disease.\nIf tests do not need to be conducted for STDs, a Pap smear will be done. This involves using a small brush or spatula to collect cells from the cervix. This test can detect the presence of pre-cancerous or cancerous cells, infections of the cervix and thinning of the vaginal walls due to lack of estrogen.\n\nWith the speculum now removed, you've reached the halfway point of exam. Next, the doctor inserts gloved fingers into the vagina while pressing on your abdomen to examine your internal organs-the uterus, the fallopian tubes and the ovaries.\nLastly, the physician will insert a gloved finger into the rectum to check the condition of the muscles
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If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
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have had the same thing going. might be different reasons. for me - at the bottom of it all - i worked out that i was scared getting pregnant. \nthat is a very short version of a very deep problem. i hope you still might understand and give it a thought
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Hi, I myself have had the same problem. Before you rush off to the OB-GYN, ask yourself if you have had a lot of stress lately, or going through anything stressful. If you are, try and relax, take a hot bath, and take some time for yourself. If not, then maybe you should go and see your physican, to make sure that this not serious. Hope you stay well!
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Nope.  You have had proper recent assessments.  Please don't  worry so.  There is no reason to be scared.  Good luck to you.  RN