I did a stupid thing, what is going to happen?
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I am also one of the unlucky people who got caught!!! I was doing 34 in a 30 zone, in my boyfriends car.\n\nThey sent a letter to the owner of the car asking them to either admit or provide details of the person who was driving at the time. In my case my fella filled it in with my details and sent it back then the same form came back with my details asking me if I was the person driving. I sent it back, then about 4 weeks later I got a letter asking me to choose either £60 fine and 3 points on my licence or £65 fine and attend a speed awareness course. I have opted for the speed awareness course and I will be attending it tomorrow!!! \n\nI think it depends on how fast you were going and how many driving offences you have previously had as to whether they offer you the course and how much of a fine they give you.\n\nBecause the excess of the limit that you were doing, they might give you a bigger fine and not even give you the chance to attend a course.\n\n(If you keep this question open til Wednesday i can let you know what to expect on the course!)\n\nSo I asked on the course about being offered the course rather than getting stuck with the points. Apparantly the different areas and counties have different rules as to who they will offer the course to. In my case, the course was only offered to the people who were speeding in a 30 zone in Northumbria. In other counties they also include 40, 50 and 60 zones. They also have a cut off point, at which even if they usually offer the option of the course, they will just issue you with points. I asked what our cut off point was and it was 36mph.\n\nI think because of your excess you will not be offered the option of the course and will be stuck with the points! Sorry hun, I hope this has given you a bit of an insight as to what will happen.\n\nDon't sweat about it too much, although you could follow my line of thinking and get a road angel!!!
889523
ok can you tell me what happened?
118425
Ah, dumb move on your part, I'd say.\n\nHe's going to find out. \n\nYou can be honest and tell him, or somebody else will.\n\nYou have a real problem here.\n\nlol lol lol  Give tompj64us best answer, PLEASE!!
420050
It's over forget about It. If he dosn't  apologize and admit what you did is stupid. I mean, why would you throw rocks in the first place?
692602
this happens to a lot of people. what happpens is that subconciously, you think that you don't deserve a relationship this good.  You said its your best ever right? well if you keep tripping over whether you're gonna do something stupid or not, you're gonna end up doing something really stupid.  so concentrate on how lucky you are, and also concentrate on how you can make this already wonderful relationship even better, that way, when you do screw up, there will be so much more positive things you've contributed to this relationship and it'll survive those rocky times.
714709
it happens... happened to me...
947199
luk you need to explain it to her and let her know what happen...if she is a really good friend then she will understand..itz both of your fault because yall both did it and yall BOTH were drunk...but i mean if she isnt a gud friend she won't listen and she isnt worth it...but sometime in the next few dayz you need to tell her you understand wat you did waz wrong and you need to say your srry and tell her it waz stupid of you but it waznt just your fault and you and him need to sit down and talk to her and let her know BOTH of you need to take the blame not just YOU..well good luck...best of wishes i hope it turnz out good=)
61676
Get the girl home. She might be mad at you now, but it's better to keep her from making a stupid mistake she'll regret.
488149
Can I sue you for asking such a stupid question which caused me great mental distress?
473818
Dude I don,t think your stupid because that's what I Would do \nevery body else may think its stupid but you got to do what \nis best for you do you need closer or need something resolved if so be care full that's were we romantics get in trouble we hope to get something back and end up loosing more and feeling even worse ,good luck
539257
You shouldn't expect any compensation because it was an accident.  No one's fault, but yours, for not being careful.  This accident you caused will make you much more careful in the future - think of it as one of life's lessons and move on.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
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If you really did what you say you did,you are stupid!!!..you deserve what you had coming to you....you are a gambler..Learn your lesson, cry everyday, work harder, tell your friends to stay clear of gambling...\n\nLet your life be a lesson to them...
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Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
770164
Best thing to do is just dress nice (business casual), go to court by yourself, hold your hands in your lap and apologize for your mistake.  Ask the DA if there is anything you can do to fix the situation.  Usually they'll work with you, as long as you be sure to say "Yes, Sir/Ma'am" and "thank you".  Be polite and businesslike, and they usually either let it go or just charge you a small fine (and if you show up, the often make sure it doesn't even go on your license)\n\nGood luck!
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we all will have embarrassing moments. =) laugh it off as you did and really mean it. dont let it get you down...
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SOOO ashamed! Please forgive me.....please!! I'll do ANYTHING. \nWell....almost anything. I'm not doing that thing with the live electrical wire, and the engine grease again.....that was just wrong...I still haven't got full feeling in my left leg.... But anything else.I am in the wrong, and you know always know how to alleviate my shame. I'll await your instructions.:P