question from cross dresser?
924895
You should do what you think is better for you, crossdressing is the part of your life you don't need to tell your employer simply because it's none of their business, just go to work, do your work and go home and change, after all that's what makes you happy..☺
627261
Did you know, when a man is having a suit made, one of the questions the tailor will ask is, "do you dress right or left?"  What he's asking is which side the customer's goods hang on.  And depending on the answer, the tailor will cut the pants a little fuller on that side.  Most men today, myself included, dress to the left.  In fact, I can't even imagine dressing to the right, so deeply ingrained is the habit.\n\nI know this doesn't really address your question (which, to be honest, kind of left me at a loss for words), but I thought it was a fascinating bit of trivia, being that we're on the subject of testicles and all.
143130
I would just look puzzled and reply "uhm.......so, where are we on the Patterson job?" or whatever would be relevant to the person asking about my wardrobe...when you start getting recognition, raises or promotions for setting a more professional tone in the office, people will stop asking why you're dressed up and start asking where you shop.
133447
I call my panties... My Panties.  \nWho are the "we" that refers to my panties as a pair?  I only wear one panty at a time, if any at all.
988655
yes i am a gay crossdressing man (i live part time as a woman)\n\nbrian/bridget\nhttp://www.myspace.com/boy2princess
997325
Horrified.  Because I like being a woman.  I would probably be a cross dresser.
151468
Maybe your step aunt said that because you were dressed more feminine than she's used to seeing you. I've had that same problem for years now. Some people around me think that since I'm 22 I should be wearing makeup, skirts, and more tight fitting clothes. I don't like wearing makeup, skirts and dresses~ it's just not my style. But when I have to dress up for something or if I wear my hair different from my usual style then people will tell me I look like a girl or I look girly. It gets annoying hearing it because I am a girl so I'm supposed to look like a girl. But I think it's just because once you put on your makeup and some clothes that probably fit you a bit closer than your previous outfit or what she was used to seeing you wear, that's why she said that. At least that's why people have said it to me
414118
I have a boyfriend who likes to wear skirts and makeup.  It's called being a transvestite and it doesn't make a guy gay.  Some guys just like to wear women's clothes.  If I were you I would let him wear my things, but that's a matter of your comfort level.  Maybe you could go shopping together and buy some girl clothes for him to wear if you don't want him to wear yours.
849042
Well, most crossdressers are not gay, so it's not surprising he likes women.  And I can see a crossdresser feeling attraction for somebody who understands some of the stress/issues that come with crossdressing.  It's kinda like something they share.  Also, he may feel less intimidated and less likely to get ridiculed if the object of his attention is somebody who has the same hobby he has. Be happy for him. I am :)
168212
You have to look deep inside yourself and determine which is really YOU - the one who cross dresses, or the one who loathes the cross dressing?!\n\nYou may be under the influence of society's stereotype of cross-dressing as a loathesome thing.  But you must decide for yourself.  If you find it loathesome, then you need to stop.  But if you are only "finding it loathesome" because of societal conditioning, perhaps you should try to break free of that.\n\nHow important is cross-dressing to you in the broad scheme of things?  How you dress should not be so important, in my opinion.  But then again, what do I know!?
331985
Hi,\n\nI'm sure there are a lot of cross-dresser support groups: it's not all that uncommon.  I put a link to one in L.A and another one in Colorado.  I don't know what part of the country you are in, but I'm sure you could probably contact either center and they would be happy to help you.  \n\nOtherwise, you can call (and you don't have to give your name or anything) to counseling centers in your area and ask them.  Like I always tell people when they are calling places, the people who answer the phones may not know what they are talking about, but don't let this get you down.  Just keep calling.\n\nTake care and best of luck in finding support...
993582
Why do we wear pyjamas to bed, where noone will see us (assuming we are not married) that are more conservative than street wear?\nWhy can I lay in the back yard and sunbake in a bikini but have to put something else on to walk to the mail box?\nWhy do women have to wear a top in public but men don't?\nWhy can't I go shopping in my pj's?\n\nAnd the list of inconsistencies goes on and on \n\nwelcome to the crazy world of human modesty
819576
Hell yeah, if you are comfortable with it, then go for it. My b/f bought me knee high corset boots for my birthday, and it drove him crazy when I would wear pantyhose, and those boots with a black and red plaid skirt. Who knows you could turn a night on the town into a kinky game that ends at home, with those pantyhose on the floor ripped to shreds,,,hehe Have fun!!!  I usually buy the Wal mart hose because I never wear them twice ;)
170928
You want to stop being a transvestite? Why? It isn't a lifestyle for myself but is it something you're ashamed of, or does it just not fit in with your self image?\n\nIf you want to get out of it then stop dressing as a member of the opposite sex.  However you should look at the reason why you want to get out of it and how much of a part of yourself it is.  If dressing as a member of the opposite sex makes you feel whole then not doing so is probably going to make you not feel whole.\n\nI guess the moral of the story is to accept yourself and love yourself for who you are.
44161
Do as you feel comfortable doing.\nSome people only crossdress in private or during special times, others do it full-time. There's also some that are transexual. It's all up to you; discover yourself.
336228
First, let me say that I have a feeling that you arn't a crossdresser, just some goofball looking for a laugh. For one, a crossdresser would be old enough to know how to spell "color" and "highlights!" lol. Second, I think you wouldn't ask silly questions about ordinary things like coloring your hair. All types of people dye their hair.\n\nIf you ARE a crossdresser, you shouldn't feel the need to ask total strangers about what you should do with your nails or hair. Do whatever pleases you.
58492
Some men cross dress because they have a lifestyle day to day that requires authority and aggression. They like to be able to feel feminine, beautiful, instead of so macho/masculine all the time. Other men cross-dress because they just enjoy the feeling of women's clothing and lingerie. If you've never put on a pair of silk panties I suggest you try a pair ~*laughs*~ Then there are men who start to cross-dress because deep inside they feel like a woman or just simply because it's a turn on. I could go on and on, everyone has a different reason. Main thing is not to judge what goes on behind closed doors that doesn't hurt you or affect you at all.