WHY are people more ACCEPTING if two people get a regular?
928086
As you have stated noone should judge that has not been thru it, so, I think that is exactly what you should tell these people. I feel for the two of you especially her having to go thru this and having to make a decision like that, I am sure it was not easy on her, or you for that matter.
89604
because its natural. we all argue. it's healthy seriously. but not excessive amounts. we get to know eachother better
430462
i think its cause there are too many people out there who like to take others partners \nand mainly coz people want to see if the grass id greener on the other side when 9 times outta 10 its not
461289
I understand completely. The reason people pretend to be something they are not is to get somethng they otherwise could not. They figure, if they don't like me for me, I'll be someone else. Needless to say, that never works out and people that try that are looking at a dead end in love.
830162
Because they liked other answers better.  But, don't get upset over it. Depending on the subject, you will get the best answer, it may take a bit of time, but it will happen.
315288
1st off....There is NOTHING wrong with gay or lesbian people! \n\n I think men just simply are more attracted to two women than two men therefore they accept it more.
139896
ASK, because each person have different needs and likes different things.  What works for one person doesn't necessarily work for another.  You have to know your mate, and open the lines of communication.
938779
Sure, it happens often.  Most people just don't accept others completely right away.  Some others are trying to hide something from me, for whatever reason.  I have enough real friends to avoid others that might diminish me.  Boundaries can be healthy.\n\nHate whatever you want, but hate is a waste of energy.\n\nFriendly is one thing, friendship exists on many different levels, and some people have their own methods of allowing friends in, and others have borders in place for self-protection.  True friendship can only be proven over time, and through shared experiences or tribulations.\n\nI have no answer for that.\n\nSome people want pets, but I would recommend something other than a peeve, you have to feed peeves emotions.
572970
Yes, the more Technology advanced we become the more as people we tend to live in our own little worlds integrating less with people face to face. This makes us strangers to even our own neighbours sometimes and thus more intolerant. After-all it's only after you come to know someone that you come to like/respect them. People in London don't tend to be as talkative with their neighbours as say 20 years ago, thus people treat each other as strangers and are alot more intolerant. Eg.. now i've got to know you i can just about tolerate your questions.
253029
Because you r no longer available is why!!  lol  You will not be asking them for a committment or strings.  They can have their fun with you and run!  They also see this as a challenge- your married say- all of a sudden millions want u and why?  Cus its a personal challenge to see if they can take something that belongs to another!  These people r entirely insecure and need approval constantly!  As soon as someone finds out I have only slept with one guy my entire life all of a sudden I have 50 wanting to show me all the things Im missing out on!  GOD!  lol
303270
For the same reason straight people want to join.  No, gay does not "come with love everybody peace to all fagity mentality".
388904
listen to your intuition, so many people don't listen to it which is why the divorce rate is so high. There maybe something on a subconcious level telling you that you aren't matched but for some reason or other you're overriding it.
943727
Because that is the proper course of things.\nIn people's minds today, first you're bf/gf, then you're in love, then you move in together, then SOMETIMES you're married first, and then kids, but often times it's the other way around.\n\nDon't take offense to it, because people are just thinking about the natural course of things, and see you and your bf as being happily together, and a couple.\n\nTake it in stride. At least people aren't asking if you're even still together because of how badly you fight!
215697
They SHOULD go hand in hand... but it doesn;t always happen that way. Some people use marriage as a refuge against lonliness and are willing to make the necessary compromises for it.
1089866
Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.
54219
Some people do that because they may be afraid of committment. Others because they have a trust problem. They had bad relationships in the past. So they have a hard time trust their spouse. Or because they are stupid.
612723
Its not necessary and it is not evil. Its a choice when two people are ready and willing to make it.