Im dating an older guy, and it seems I want sex a lot more then he does.?
927634
Older men are just boys with more body hair and baggage
280988
It sounds like you are being pressured into sex. No guy who really cares for you would make you feel this way. Save yourself for someone you have been with a long time and you know cares for you.
83636
Maybe he isn't stimulating you enough anymore maybe your body is used to him. Try different postions. Trust me the one we did the other day I did org.
845381
You say it is someone you think you are going to have sex with and not someone that you love. Relationships with age differences can work, but they are more difficult to make work and require a loving relationship. Since you didn't mention love, I don't think he is too old, I think you are too young.
499758
Ouch!  sorry, but that's not very often.  All couples are different, but compatibility extends to the bedroom too.  when I'm in a relationship, I like to at least three times a week.  I think that you should talk to him, and find out either why he doesn't want to have sex more often, or if he's willing to step it up a bit...
516429
stay well away sweet i had the same when i was your age hes only trying to get into your pants. when men say they really like you but dont want a relasionship that means they want no string attached sex! what you want is a nice 16 yr old or 15 who will respect u and not even try it on cause then you will no that he likes you for you and not trying to get in your pants i hope this helps and be wise
748036
Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
203237
Yep, get a marriage counselor.  I mean, getting into the relationship you knew ahead of time he was 17 years older and that there would come a time when your sex drives differed from each other.  This should have been taken into consideration from the start.  Just be sure to look inside yourself and find the true reason you are having issues.  Don't lie to yourself and say that you "are getting distant and there is no more sex" when part of the reason very well could be the fact that you want a man your age.
846774
You know, it's all about maturity, when you are young you want to see the world and that means having as many sexual conquest as you can, having different girlfriends with different nationalities, having threesomes, foursomes, having sex with no string attached, getting drunk until the dawn, having to have no responsibilities, nobody to call and travling the world.  But, as soon as you hit you mid 20's to 30's, things gets little complicated, you start to realize that you would still like to screw but you would really like to settle down with someone special and spend the rest of your life together.  So, give him some time and believe me if you guys have good chemistry, he will come back to you.
251928
My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
544039
I HAVE TO SAY IF THIS HAS OCCURRED MORE THAN ONCE IT MAY BE A RED FLAG FOR FUTURE NIGHTS OF SEXUAL FRUSTRATION FOR YOU. THERE ARE WAYS MEN HAVE FOR LASTING LONGER. IF THIS IS SOMEONE THAT YOU CARE FOR AND ARE GOING TO HAVE A FUTURE WITH. YOU NEED TO ADDRESS THE ISSUE NOW. IF HE GETS THAT TURNED ON BY YOU THEN PERHAPS HE SHOULD GET OFF AT HOME BEFORE YOUR DATE SO HE WILL HAVE MORE STAMINA WITH YOU. OR YOU SHOULD HAVE HIM CONTINUE PLEASING YOU AFTER HE "GOES" UNTIL HE GETS READY TO TAKE ANOTHER GO AT IT. JUST WORK THROUGH IT TOGETHER.  BUT IF THIS IS JUST A FOR FUN RELATIONSHIP SOUNDS LIKE YOU MIGHT BE TOO MUCH FUN FOR HIM AND I WOULD TRY TO END IT BEFORE THE FRUSTRATION BEGINS\n\nGOOD LUCK WITH THAT  .. . ..
546971
He's probably in his prime where all he wants is sex. Men tend to want sex, but later on, You probably will be the one wanting sex and he'll be thinking what you're thinking now. (Men's sex drive kicks in before the women.)
1058430
I think you already know how he feels about you. You said it yourself,  He just wants to bang you," nothing more"  and you know this.  Either enjoy the ride, or look for something serious elsewhere
993988
Well have you asked him if that's all he wants with you?  I mean, yes, a lot of guys would really like sex... but a lot of guys also want a serious relationship... I'm thinking most people are into both... If he loves you, he might just think that it would be the natual progression to start having sex soon, because it IS a very intimate and personal experience that people want to share with someone they really care about...
1024871
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION HON OKAY....I DIDN'T GO INTO YOUR PROFILE SO I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE..IF THE SEX IS GOOD AND HE PLEASES YOU TOTALLY THEN THAT AREA IS GOOD BUT IF YOU FEEL HE IS TELLING YOU HE LOVES YOU JUST FOR SEX SLACK OFF A BIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS...START SLOWLY WITH SOME EXCUSES ONCE IN A WHILE...IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WOULDN'T EVEN ASK YOU TO PROVE IT....HAS HE HINTED AS TO HOW HE WANTS YOU TO PROVE IT?
671323
There is an eventual slowdown in any relationship, but slowing down to once a month is certainly below the amount that most 28-year-olds want.  I get suspicious when he says he wants "impersonal sex."  Sounds like he wants sex with people he doesn't know well, and after a year and a half, you don't qualify.
837636
make it to a next step.. be friends with benifits... If he is busy.. then he will appreciate the sexual gifts from you.. sex releases stress.. and might bring you 2 closer...