Y does boys easily forget everything about you when you break up?
916310
Sabes que babe, you will be fine. There are to many guys to be worried about this jack-@ss that left you, so smile and move on.
351965
Of course you miss him and your thinking about stuff you did together.  It perfectly natural.  Without knowing the nature of the break up and how long ago it was, this is difficult to answer.  If you broke up because of a "clingy" issue - take a step back and give him some space to breath.  \nIf it is for some other reason - e-mail him and just say "I just wanted to tell you I miss you."  Relationship are work - they will take effort on both sides.  If you think you can date someone without ever disagreeing on something your fooling yourself and will be breaking up with a lot of people throughout your life.  You can never go wrong with telling someone how you really feel - especially when you are telling someone something nice like you love them and care for them.\nJust as a disclaimer: If this guy put an aggressive finger on you in any way, STAY AWAY!!!  You deserve better.
1144038
If you truly want to forget him than it shouldn't matter what things he does/says you'll just want to cut the ties you had with him, if not then you still care and probably dont want to end the contact with him...what ever you decide you will never really forget him, you'll always have the memories of being in the relationship
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
169731
Its called feelings. Once youve been with someone you develop them. Its sometimes hard to forget them because with those feelings come memories. It may take a while for you to get over them.
400766
I feel the same way. My boyfriend broke up me last week and I just can get over it. They don't have an effect on it because they probably didn't love us like we love them and we gave them to much of our love. U love him and that's why u can't get over him. Try 2 be friends with him and I know that might be a hard to do.Just pray on it God will bring someone in your life that will appreciate you like u want 2 be appreciate.
169527
guys are odd!They act like they like you to look good in front of other people(to be cool or desirable)but most of the time they're clueless!get over him and move on to someone else!
602250
I think its just as hard for a man to end a relationship as it is for a girl. Depending on the reasons behind the break up. If it was that easy for him to move on, maybe it was something he already had planned. Look into it.
1125130
depends on the reason u broke up in the first place.  People do change, but not much
521573
It's normal.. we all go through the same thing.. (I mean unless we had a flamin' bad break up that is!) Does the current bf know about this? ..and deal w/it? He sounds like a kool dude if so. It'd be hard, but could ya like change where ya R hangin' out, so ya 2 don't meet up? I kow it's rough if ya got the same friends, right? If ya have a bad breakup ONE of the good things about it is you got a TON of bad info. to use mentally to get over the bad dudes. I mean if he beat ya up, dissed ya, you gotta make that memory a WHOLE lot better.. (helps ya get over the hurt.) How long it been since ya broke up? It'll get better, I promise! If it's too new a hurt, I think it's kool ya got wit another guy already too.. later-     melancholia
183714
you already sound like you know what your doing! I ignored my ex as if he never existed!
393845
I think it is something that will just take time.  If your goal is to forget about him, it won't happen.  Rather, be greatful that you had an opportunity at such a rewarding relationship - not the most common thing.  Maybe you are not ready to be with someone else, and need more time to heal from the break.  Time does heal all.
175238
Read what you just wrote. You answered your own question, hun.\n"sweet friend." "boring boyfriend."\n"We don't talk anymore. And if i pass him in the halls, its like he just ignores me!"\nBasically, you both are already broken up. You just need to acknowledge it vocally. TELL him it's over.
243247
I think that the answer could be a couple of different things.\nHe could just be the type of person who does not care for another.  He is only interested in what he can get out of the situation and not concerned about the feelings of someone else.\nAnother thing could be that he was running his mouth a little too much after your breakup.  He could have been talking to his friends and got caught up in macho talk.  Things like that do happen.\nThe last thing that I could consider is that he is upset at breaking up and needs to justify it.  He needs to cut you down to make himself feel better.  By doing so he can better deal with the fact that you are no longer together, even if he is the one who broke it off.  The best people for him to talk to would be his friends.\nI can only make these assumptions from the information provided, but if I had to take a guess I think it may have been number one.  He doesn't care.  My justification for that would be the number of girlfriends he has had in the past.\nI hope that all works out for you.
956967
I spend i year w/ a guy and we mustve broke up and got back together at least 10 times. i was young and stupid. there was no future and i was blind to that. i just liked the guy and funny thing was about 2 wks before we 1st started dating i hated him, couldnt stand him. funny thing how that all works out. now i dont see him a whole lot, we're just diff ppl. but hes a good guy, makes poor choices in girls tho. guess i just gave him too much and didnt take away enough.
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
803331
Yes--it's perfectly normal to still miss the person who dumped you and/or the relationship.  Just b/c you miss him doesn't mean that you can't control your behavior or that you have to act on your feelings.  In time, you'll meet other guys, have new experiences, and will enjoy yourself again.  It's impt. to be kind to yourself during this period and take whatever steps are necessary to heal.  I realize it must be tough dealing with the feelings you have, but you will be okay.  It's a real test of your strength and I think you'll be proud of how you dealt with your feelings.  Good Luck