if you dated a guy and broke up and few yrs later wanted to get back w/ you but didnt tell you he was married?
920330
A leopard doesn't change it's spots. He is what he is a liar, even by omission, he still remains a liar.. Is this what you want for yourself in life? Someone whose word you can't trust.\nI think old bfs from the past should be left well enough alone. He is a ex for a reason..... You have moved on and probably grown up alot... don't take a step back in time... This is not healthy and you are not doing yourself any favours....
216816
Depends on the reason you broke up.  Was it a bad break up?  Did one of you betray the other and/or the relationship?  Were there trust issues?  What will be different this time?  Do you love him/her?  Do you WANT to be in a relationship with him/her?  Was too little information for such a broad question.
935766
What's wrong with making it too obvious? You ask- have you ever been married? Have you been in many relationships? etc. etc. Getting to know someone is a part of dating and you're entitled to ask. You wouldn't want to be dating someone for 6 months and later find out they'd been married 5 times, would you?
718644
But why did you break up.  Can you get past or live with whatever casued the breakup?
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!
1176705
Don't guess if he's married or not.  Find out for sure.  Do not pursue anything until you do this.  Drop it immediately if he is.
819111
It depends on the circumstances for their breakup, and how he is thinking of her. I wouldn't mind if he was thinking in terms of getting over their relationship to find closure. I would mind If he is still thinking of her in terms of getting her back.
163002
You broke it off 6 months ago.  You did the right thing.  Here's the deal - it's one thing if it were the other way around.  You should be asking why if he dumped you.  Since you dumped him, it's the other way around.  You left him on your terms, he still has things unresolved.  Don't waste your time trying, you might hurt yourself.
1013868
Get to know the other person better.  I know that if someone said they like me then went back with their ex I wouldn't pay him any attention the next time they break up.
348864
I would not put up with that,But i guess it depnds on how\nlond you guys have been going out,But still he should have of called you..
830812
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
682673
divorce your ex! duh! and tell your new man quick- otherwise he'll think you were trying to hide it from him.
588248
I met a guy 4 years ago in Fla, and he went back to the army and I met my current husband. I still love my hubby but I long for those care free days with my ex. He was handsome and so fun to be around! i have three kids now and would never leave my hubby but sometimes I wish I could just go and have fun like I used to! My ex is dating someone else now and we still talk and the other day he sent me an email with one line and it said "I would give anything in this world for one more night with you" it sent chills up my spine! I would NEVER cheat but wow! things like that make me blush!
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
632151
Yes call him he may have been wondering the same thing!\ndont wait for the reunion and be surprised to find you still have feelings for him!\ncall him! now!\ngo on get off of here and get on the phone! dont be afraid whats the worse that can happen?\nHe will be married with 6 kids!\ncheckit out you never know!
1078240
Why is he an ex...think about it...and if he is an ex for a reason, do you want to go through all that again?
282408
They dont know from experience. I know, and if you want to find someone new, they are just around the corner. I found someone the week after I broke up with my boyfriend because The guy I broke up with was dating again.