My sister in law is engaged to a criminal.......what should I do?
865535
THIS IS SPAM SPAM SPAM SPAM  ---  this idiot keeps posting the same lame story under different names.    Stop wasting your time trying to help her, folks, she needs to get a fiction award for her writing.    Report her as SPAM or abuse instead.
432058
File for a restraining order, or:\n\nTalk to the law authorities that were involved in your uncle's arrest and sentencing. Tell them how you feel about him being released, and ask if there is something they can do to intervene. Not in the sense of keeping him locked up (rulings are official and final), but in creating a legal "barrier" (other than a restraining order) between your family and your uncle. If his crimes were heinous enough (they sound that way), then there may be something more the police can do. Plans like this are often made especially for people / families who are victims of a stalker if and when their stalker is released from prison.
435442
Hm, I have to say that depends largely on how is your relationship with his family (particularly with his sister). If you really care about them, (you really shouldn't have sex with him in the first place. You're so young...!) you should come and talk with her. \n\nApologize first. Admit that you'd done wrong.\nMake her understand why you did it. (Your boyfriend should talk with her too) How you feel about her brother and that it is normal that her brother is going to belong to someone else (that is, his wife).\n\nIn time (especially if she has a bf on her own) she would understand.\nBut assure her that nothing will ever change how her brother feels for her, and how YOU feel for her.\nAND remind her that it IS a wrong deed, and she should never follow your step.
306402
You perpetrated the ultimate betrayal!  You betrayed your wife with her own sister.  You not only have destroyed your marriage, you have destroyed the relationship of two sisters.  And, chances are, the news will become known to the family and you will have devastated them as well.\n\nYou need to confess to your wife immediately.  Let her move on to someone who deserves her.  She will never be able to trust you again.  You can have the sister...I think you deserve each other..after all, she betrayed her own sister.\n\nYou know it is only a matter of time before you are discovered so it is best to come clean.
968331
Your sister in law has only one option to remove it: cut the band.  When that happens the agency is alerted and usually has a warrant issued for her arrest.  She won't get off so lightly next time.  A signal goes from the band to the box on the phone.  It calls the computer monitoring her tether.  Her PO is alerted and she is arrested.  Don't worry, she will pay the consequence for her behavior.  The stories you have heard about slipping it off are all false.
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He's got one of those jobs that you can't leave unless releaved by someone, just part of being a officer, but he could have at least called or something.  Think I would wait and see what the reason was before I jumped the gun too much.  If you tell her what you want her to do, and he's got a really good reason, you will be the bad girl.  Wait and see, don't do anything while you all are under so much stress.  It's not like family, she's a gf, so he's at the mercy of his boss.
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Tell her how much you love her, a few good memories you both have together doing something as sisters, and how lucky her husband is to have her and if he screws up you'll kick his a$$!  You want to have a good one, but not long, something that drills the point home.  Make the husband feel welcome to the family though, because if not, it really affects your relationship with her...
865556
Mom in Law is experiencing a new life and as everyone else goes thru it, it'll come as being routine in time as well.  Things will settle down and she'll see the light again.  Give her a chance to live a little..... life's too short.  You sound a bit selfish, sorry to say. Most people WANT their inlaws out of their business. What's wrong with the brother fixing up her house? Nothing. Not to be critical but you remember how it is when you feel so alive when you first start dating someone? Well?  It's your mom in law!  She is feeling alive and beautiful.  She loves your children I'm sure and in a couple of months when the newness wears off she'll be back. :))))  Take care!
677818
WOW...I think you guys just need to share the time with her..I do  not think you should just take her that might cause trouble for you and then you will never get to see her, my brother in law is going through the same thing right now and his girl is a nut case\n\nI feel for you..
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Call the Courts of whatever city he is in....I think you should not listen to these other people saying you should not marry someone in Jail.....You cant help whom you love and if you feel you love this person no matter what then do whatever it takes to marry him!  When you are in love you will always love that perosn.....Unconditionally!   I hope you figure out how to marry him!  Hes lucky to have his girlfriend out there supporting him, trying to make you two "one".....Let me know how everything works out!  And Good Luck!
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Remember this is your battle with the inlaws not your sister in law's.  Do not make her choose sides.  Be happy for her that she has a better relationship with them than you do because I'm sure you wouldn't wish what you are going through on another.  Maturity is called for here.  Stick to your guns for yourself, don't expect other's to choose sides.  She sounds like she's attempting to be neutral.  If you don't like hearing about what's going on with them, simply ask her not to go into detail about them or what they do or don't do.  Keep your friendship.  That's more important than allowing the in laws to drive a wedge between you two...and likely, that's what's happening.
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I am in a similiar situation.\n\nMy someday soon-to-be sister inlaw is very irritating to me.  She is Very judgemental, opinionated and I wouldnt be surprised if she hates the idea of us someday getting married.  So, needless to say, I really understand your situation.  Now what to do... I will give you the best advice I can, even though I havent yet solved my own situation.   \nFirst of All ~ Always remain focused on your man and on your relationship with him.  He is the one you are with.\nAt family Events ~ Try finding someone else that you can hang out with and/or relate to.  Or, spend extra time in the Kitchen helping with food preps or other busy work.  Be Helpful.  If she is mean to you then she will look like a real loser.  You will look great cooking, helping etc.\nHope these tips help.  Best wishes to you.  Be yourself I am sure that is good enough.  OH & don't worry too much, most of what we worry about never actually Happens!!!
670178
Your best bet is to go down to your sheriffs office or police department and have a restraining order placed against her.  This will not keep her from you, but if she does make another appearance, you can have her arrested.  Again this will not physically keep her from you, but it will provide you with some legal documentation.  The restraining order will also end her little "cry wolf" problem of filing false police reports. That is another thing!  She should be facing some kinda charges for filing false police reports.  Of course where I'm from, we do things a little different.  We don't play in Ga, you mess with us enough and they'll find you dead on one of these back roads.  There is one thing in life you don't mess with and that is someones family.  You go to messing with family and you liable to end up dead.
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Call your local county clerk, or even the police station, say your somebody else (if you don't want to be arrested, that is, if its that bad) like I'm so and so's sister and would like to know when her court date is etc.
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Well, you've got to do what you've got to do, but be prepared to alienate (at least) your brother-in-law and his wife.  It sounds like he is very self centered and, I would bet, the boss in his family (strong type A personality).  I don't know where it will stop, but there will be a lot of really stinky stuff floating around-and may never dissipate.  A person with his personality will definitely blame you for the problems that arise.  From what you have said he thinks his time is far more valuable than others and, therefore, will not understand your anger.
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It all depends on what kind of person your sister is. If she's stubborn and uncaring, I'm afraid nothing you say will change her mind. But if she's a reasonable person, ask her what she will do when she's married and she finds out her husband is cheating on her. Ask her how sure she is that this man isn't just using her. And does she honestly think if she gets him to marry her one day, that he won't cheat on her too? Thats more than often the case any way. And maybe you know some or other man you can introduce her to? Someone attractive, nice and unmarried? Sometimes it's pure loniless that force people to have affairs with married people.
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Yes! Tell someone! It happens more than you think, but no one tells. Start w/ his wife if he has one. Screw their marriage, save that kid! Follow up, if she doesn't do anything, tell the cops.