By Xboy friend is leaving. What should I do?
915687
Sounds like you regret breaking up, but if he's leaving in an hour, there's really nothing else to do, except answer his letters if he should write to you. If he's going to Iraq, he'll probably need to keep his mind on staying alive.
815606
I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.
309061
find some1 else....duh...leave him b or u will lose ur friend....duh
193763
lose him, you will be better off. a real friend will never take you for granted. good luck
713691
Kiss him goodbye and go on with your life the way you want to live it....everyone needs happy....go find it......good luck...
717578
Bow out gracefully, stop paying for anything and leave them to each other.  Then go find some new friends.
806463
You leave him. Anyone that wants you to give up your friends of the same sex as them is not a good person to have a relationship with. Also...if all he wants you to do is stay at home and do nothing is he trying to be controlling over you. Its all just asking for trouble right from the get go. I'm sure you'll hear alot more people agreeing with me here. Take care.
560149
be friends with him. but be a ''normal'' friend. liek everyone else. just wait for the fruit to fall into your hand.
844108
if he was leaving would you want him to tell you now and make the most of the time you have together or would you prefer not to know?\n\nwhatev3r feels right to you is probably the best way.\n\ni don't envy you.
34191
OK, let me get this straight...he went was your boyfriend and then went out with your friend too? Oh! Honey, you need to let go- he is just playing you. i mean- you just don't go out with your x's friends, that's dirty. Besides, you need to be thinking if she is even truly your friend. After all, she did go out with your x and you still love him. Just move on- you can do so much better!!!
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
546247
Flirt with his teammates. He'll send you back home.\n:-)
1104769
Be honest with him and then kick him out. You can still be friends when he is gone but that does not mean you should put up with it. He will be mad but that will be his problem. He brought it on himself. I wouls stop having sex with him to start and then when the time is right then lay it out. If you think he is worth salvaging then just confront him and tell him the new rules. No more lies or you are gone. Good luck.
831638
You think your friend is going to leave you for the guy.\nb
803636
When I got deployed I was lonely and called my x whom I broke up with cause she treated me bad. When I returned I realized I just needed a security blanket to get me through till I was in a familuar place again. Your his security blanket. He will be great till he gets back in his groove, then you'll be on the back burner again. Go for the other guy.
919537
Explain to him that you're tired of hearing about the boy. Say, if you want to talk about him--go hang out with him and be around him. Otherwise, let's talk about something else. If not then I am leaving. Simple as that.
652580
I agree he need to move out. Maybe get laid. If he's not a total jack*** then continue with your project, but their should be a point were you have to put a stop to it. If you don't see any change in him, then you will have to give up on him as his parents have done. You may also want to talk to his parents and see if they can help you with him. It nice to know that your a true friend to him.