What can i do to relive stress with family problems at home but cant afford anything to do about it.?
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Peace in the home is so important.  Try to find a way to get along with them.  Perhaps use a counselor.  Maybe, if you give it a chance, you can actually become close and enjoy a relationship with them as sisters.  Good luck.  I'm sure there's a lot more to this story than is presented here.
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Have you tried just honestly making an effort to stop yourself, everytime you start to stress about something someone else does?  Try to fill your mind with other more important things.... get a hobby even...you need something else to focus on.  And remind yourself that other peoples' business doesn't concern you or affect you!  Just doing something constructive and/or relaxing may help you alot!
809137
Thats hard......maybe you could try and do more chores around the house? Instead of watching TV or playing on the computer you could go to the park and play some sports oriented things. Maybe you can do yoga thats not sportsy, I hope this helped :)
1119545
Well hunn sounds like some problems for sure.\ni have been in a simaler sitution i hate to say this but the fact is if they dont see a problem they wont get help they wont listen and they want to ignore the obvious but that is not you and yes maybe difficult and mental issues do run in family's i myself had the same problems with my family . the only thing i can say better yourself dont hold on to the anger and maybe suggest  your counsiler request your family  go to a session with you also remeber that as soon as you are old enough move out though maybe hard to do it is easier than you would even imagine just know you can and you will do fine some family's are just stubborn. anyways goodluck and i hope it helped even if it was a little. take care hunn!
246380
I thnk you should go to a therapist or talk about it with your family and all of you can decide what to do.
548694
basically find a local family therapist to help guide you in this very tough time... you need to discuss this matter at length with someone who is capable of guiding you thru this...
1000361
well i'm going through the similar thing but what i've done is gone to stay with my sister for a few days but if you got any close friends or family go and stay with them for a few days and see how you are after it and if u still upset and feel the same way then ask your friends or family if you can move in with them till you get a place and try hang out with other boys or go clubbing
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haha to the last answer. seriously though,when you feel overwhelmed, take a break, count to ten slowly and think about it if you hurt someones feelings, apologize. dont drive your friends and family away, my sister did that and now very few people want to be around her. me included  theres only so much abuse people can put up with before they just give up on you. I know my sister would have to do a lot before I would enjoy being around her again. dont do it to yourself.good luck
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The answer is not so simple!  Everyone deals with stress differantly as you can see yourself.  Your sister is still a kid and I am sure that her one sisters suicide attempt BECAUSE her husband died, she is pregnant but her coming baby's daddy is gone never to meet his or her daddy, ontop of all her own father's health is very poor, that is WAY MORE than a COMPOUND FRACTURE!!  Your little sister (15 yrs old)  is just that she is still a kid-unable to cope on an adult level, As you as an adult can clearly see.  What seems to you as a selfish act is that she is involved in the same horrors that has saddly struck your entire family, she needs reassurance as a part or your family as well.  It is all very sad but a kid is not able to cope on an adult level.  Her world is falling apart too!  Give her as much support as you can, kids don't always know what to ask for-the last thing she needs to be told is that she is "selfish"!!  Absolutely it would help to get a therapist that she can relate to.  Not a therapist that her adult family thinks she should be able to relate to.  Remember she is faced with tradgidy too.    It is too easy to call our kids selfish,  we all do it at one point or another and more often than than we recognize-me included.  God Bless your entire family and find a therapist that specializes in Adulesants, Perhaphs this is a time for the family to enter into family therapy, you all have a lot of pressure on you!  I am not sure if you will care to but I would like to know how you all are doing.  My e-address is \ncjydawn@yahoo.com\nGod Bless,\naskthequacker
63640
Realise that you are not in control of your life and be okay with it. Knowing that there is something out there stronger than you holding the world together is always helpful, also make yourself some tea, and/or then take a bath/shower and wash away you tension
766525
I have been like this for a while now ,someone told me the worst thing you can do is worry about it so I don't.Keep writing things down and being organised and enjoy your life and have a laugh at yourself when you do something silly.There's worse things could be wrong with you.
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Do you have a therapist?\nAre you on any meds.\n\nTherapy is very effective for anxiety, in particular if used in conjunction with meds.\n\nTHe holidays can be such a tough time for people such as yourself whom dont have family.  We have plenty of room at my place, I wish we could have you over.  Maybe someone will see your answer that lives near you and invite you over.\n\nThe holiday season will fly by...hang in there...it will get better.  :)\n\nIm sending you some love.
69058
My mom used to pack us off to the park (I was the oldest and in charge) and spend time sleeping or cleaning up the house in peace. Possibly, you could stage a weekend sleep over at their cousin's house or someone you trust. Best of luck.\nK.
1186484
Your stressed. Check out (http://www.reducingstress.net ) there is a lot of great articles and expert advice on the subject there.
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I found a great stress website.\nCheck out ( http://www.reducingstress.net )\nGood luck.
414907
You should probably see a psychologist he can perscribe something to you to calm you down so you can relax and not stress!
689780
I would try to let my family and loved ones know that I love them. And tell them not to be sad for too long, because it is bad for you. Maybe try to think of something funny, to lighten things up. Like, "Hey Mom, cheer up, at least I won't be borrowing money from ya all the time!" Then maybe eat a sandwich. And hug someone......... hopefully someone I know............ and like............ and who is not very stinky.