What a the causes of having dreams about cheating on your spouse,and being happy about it. Any idea's why?
926594
could be you are just excited about something new.  this would be the time to try something new with your spouse and spice up your sex life.  good luck
624590
Sexual dreams are normal and can happen at any age. you both are going through some rough times and have that in common, it can be mistaken for relationship compatibility which it is not. Do not panic. you are, you know you are. It will pass, just be polite. She IS married.
857566
Infidelity is a pattern of behavior that seeks self-satisfaction at the expense of commitment to another.  It strikes at the core defining characteristics of marriage. There are some women and men who engage in infidelity purely for the sex. They do not want their relationship to end, they simply seek the thrill that being with someone else brings. And this is what your wife did it she did not need emotional connection just good .... and orgasm. Either way, the pain, humiliation and betrayal are the same.
135092
It may just mean that maybe some of the problems in this new relationship may subconsiously be reminding you of your past one. Sometimes, even though we break up with someone and start new, we still want some of the qualities we had in the past relationship, maybe that is what your dream is telling you. And it could be just a dream, nothing to fret over.
808785
all i know is that it has to do with the thoughts you have while your sleeping. hopefully someone else can give you a better answer. good luck! i'm just as curious.
117916
Yes I have. I believe imagination is what helps keep a marriage a float, and hepls me stay faithful. My marriage is still struggling for other issues, so my imagination helps getting through the act sometimes. Good luck with your relationship!
351429
Recurring dreams keep recurring until you figure out why you or having them. There's got to be some significant reason why you are dreaming about this. Think long and hard, remember as many details as you can and write them down. Even if they seem insignificant. Maybe you feel like you are in a fun house, like no one takes you seriously, or you, your life is like a roller coaster right now, the ups and downs are presenting themselves. My dream book says-Seeing a slide: the pleasure you are pursuing is a waste of time. The dream is also a warning: don't get involved in "slippery" adventures, you could end up "going down the chute." Well, there's my perspective. I've been studying about dreams for years.
178513
Sweetie, your dream is reflecting your fears about what you saw when you were a child. You trust your fiance, I'm sure but there is a fear buried deep beneath the surface that you might end up with the wrong guy like she did. It's just nerves and fear. It's a fear stemming from trauma and with you being engaged, and it being such a big step, it triggers the traumatic memories below the surface and thus you dream your subconcious fears. It doesn't mean anything really other than your mind is working out it's fear through your dreams and they are just traumatic associations that you don't recognize in your waking moments. It'll be okay, Honey. Just remember what I told you.
441540
Because they are something you fear will happen..or is your conscience trying to tell you something. Dreams are issues you have that have not resolved or things you worry about, or fantasize about but don't have the guts to face or do in real life.
192279
Some of my dreams involve random people i haven't seen in years, or that i never want to see again.  Dreams can be very confusing, not all psychologists can figure them out.  Don't worry about it unless she starts getting very flirty with him.
226726
You may be just to insecure about your relationship and maybe a little jealous of your best friend? I dont know, but I do know every dream has a meaning!
206401
as a Christian, i totally believe that dreams sometimes come to alert us of certain things.  Sometimes when we are victims in the dreams we may have troubles and trials coming our way, from a Christian perpective.  When we are the agressors in the dreams, it may also indicate that we have some evil disturbing our peace, again from a Christian perspective, if you are not a Christ follower, disregard this message if you prefer.
64300
Well something like that is hard to let go. Because it keep replaying in your mind. If you are afradi of this happing again more than likely it will happen again. Because I had a ex-fiance that cheated left and right. He also told me that he would never do it again. But he did. Once they do it they contuine to do it. So your best bet would be to move on with your life with out him...
664513
How do you know you are calling his name in your sleep?\n\nIf your current partner is hearing you call the name, can they tell what sort of tone of voice you are using when you speak the name?  Perhaps you're not missing him, perhaps you're pissed off at him.\n\nEven if you are calling out his name, it doesn't necessarily represent your ex-husband as a specific person.  You may be having dreams in which your ex-husband is a stand-in symbol for some other factor that your mind is working over, such as trust issues or the comfort of a familiar face, or even acceptance that he is no longer part of your existence.\n\nIn short, I wouldn't worry about it.  If it continues for a long period of time, there may be some underlying issues that need to be addressed professionally, but even then they may not actually have anything to do with your ex-husband.\n\nIf it's your current partner that's worried, give him a kiss and tell him to go back to sleep.
726063
It's just something on his sub-conscious.  All it means is that it's knocking around in his brain somewhere.  Don't read into it too much.  I dreamt about George Clooney last week, it doesn't mean I actually have a shot, or would leave my husband for him.
1184773
You might need to right your wrongs.  It may mean accepting the consequences, but this too shall pass.  I sometimes replay the day over and over in my head and am not able to sleep.  As well as often times I wake early (sometimes as early as 2a.m.) in the morning when my husband leaves for work and I start thinking of the activities of the day ahead.  I am a Christian so I pray, and most often times that helps.
176782
Dreams are often a reflection of a child's inner fears. Perhaps she fears that the family will break up because of some show she watched - have you argued with your spouse within hearing range of your child?\nSome children are ultra sensitive to even a little bit of argument between their parents. The best way is to make a big show of affection between your spouse in front of her and give her lots of reassurance. Also, you can buy one of those cheery, cute nightlights of rotating animals and place them by her bedside.\nLeave the door a little open so she can call for you. If you can, read her a cheerful, happy bedtime story of happy families and so on (maybe using animals as a context? Children love animals), and stroke her hair till she falls asleep.\nBe ever ready to rush to her bedside if she continues having these nightmares.\n\nIf she's still having these nightmares, maybe you should bring her to a psychologist specialising in child psychology?