Need to get my Boyfriend a christmas gift HELP!!!!?
928709
Don't buy him anything. Bake him something. Or spend money on a fun event you guys can plan - something you can both enjoy and from which you can create memories. \n\nYou're only 13, broke, as you say, and your relationship is very new. Christmas is a time for celebrating life and the people in our lives. Don't let capitalism lure you into the stores and trick you into spending money you don't have. \n\nJust a little tip from me to you.
388113
Ok...in my experience...you are better off telling him what you want. Otherwise, you will get something you don't want. For example, last year for my birthday my husband got me a gift certificate for an OIL CHANGE!! So, think of something you want...spa package, jewelry, new pajamas, nice romantic dinner at home, whatever. Just tell the poor guy so he doesn't have to worry himself. he just wants to make you happy!
251423
If he is a smoker- a nice zippos lighter.  Get him something he will USE every day so that when he uses it he will automatically think of u!  Or a cd for his car- someone you know he really likes.  Or make him a cd of mixed songs that u chose for him.  Make him coupons on red construction paper if u r at the sexual stage with him.  My hubby loves getting his coupons every Xmas!  lol  Use your imagination on those!  Good luck to you!
777513
Blow up a great picture of you ( and kids if u have them) and put them in a nice frame and he will love it.  Or last year I got my hubby a pocket watch with an engraving on it!  Make him some sex and romance candles with your own hands on Red construction paper- its ALWAYS my hubbys favorite present!  lol    One year I bought a basket and in it I put bubble bath scented candles and a bottle lf champagne and scented lotion.  When hubby opened it he was very confused until I told him WE would use it later TOGETHER!  Thats his 2nd favorite gift each year!!!!!
352610
It isn't a good thing to try and "get" your boyfriend to buy you gifts, he should do it spontaniously because he wants to, to show you affection. It maybe be that he doesn't understand that buying things like that for you is a good way to show you affection, or it may be that he doesn't have alot of money to be throwing around. Either way, if he really loves you, you should love him back on the basis of who he is, not what he does for you. Make sure that you aren't being insecure and needing "things" to make you satisfied with your relationship. If so, that's not love, it's selfishness.\n\nThat being said, if he is just being cheap or inconsiderate, then he is in the wrong and you should talk to him about it. Still, don't demand gifts, don't be pushy, don't be mean about it; just tell him how you feel and also listen to his side of the story. He may have a good reason after all, or he may not. If it turns out he is the one who is just being selfish, and he doesn't get over it, you may want to find yourself a new boyfriend. But for just a specific thing like flowers, that may not be his style, and you shouldn't get upset over it.
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HOW ABOUT MAKING HIM A SCRAP BOOK OF PHOTOS,MEMORIES YOU TWO SHARE , PICTURES OF NATURE OR STUFF HE LIKES,AND IF YOU R ARTISTIC DRAW HIM A PICTURE OR WRITE HIM A POEM. AND THEN WRAP IT AS YOU WOULD A GIFT THEN SEND IT TO HIM. THE COST IS ABOUT 20 BUCKS FOR AN INEXPENSIVE PHOTO ALBUM,STICKERS OR PAPER AND GLUE,TAPE SCISSORS ETC. BUT IT WOULD BE PRICELESS TO HIM. ALSO PRESS A FLOWER IN THE FRONT OF IT AND SAY SOMETHING CHEESY LIKE I HELD THIS FLOWER SO NOW WHEN YOU HALD IT ... WE CAN BE TOUCHING OR SOMETHING...
730264
Well let me say that the jersey thing was a great idea.  But maybe if he's such a big baseball fan, you could get him stuff from the college that he is going to play baseball at.  Or if you guys feel like you've known each other forever, get something that is relevant to your relationship.  Like for instance, something that reminds you of your first kiss, or the song that you guys had your first slow dance to.  But since his christmas gift was such a big deal and was more of a materialistic gift, his birthday prensent (since its like a week after!) should be something meaningful.\n\nGood Luck!
700817
Sorry I think the gold chain is too much and I bet his parents (and possibly yours) will think so too.  How are you getting the money to buy it if you are only 14?  I would suggest you take it down a notch and maybe get him 6 heartfelt but not so expensive things, wrap each present in a box and put a number on each box.  Tell him there is one present for each month you have been together.  Maybe in the last box you could get him a cd that has music by a band you both like.
92180
this year i got my boyfriend a really nice watch. i've framed pictures of us as a gift before. one time he gave me an engraved photo album filled with pics of us so you can try this too. make it something meaningful, maybe buy tickets for his favorite baseball team or a concert for a band he loves.
876902
OK i don't know what your boyfriend likes but this is what i did for my love . get hold of a few small kids .. really cute ones .hide them in an alley or somewhere. take your guy out for a walk ... surprise!!! there in the alley kid surround him and give him the gift and sing a birthday song ... use it according to your surroundings . i did that in a mall
756813
Get him something small and simple like this http://www.giftweblog.com/2006/11/02/rugged/
702953
Make him a guy gift basket . He will love it trust me. Find out what music he listens to and burn him a cd with all of his favorite artists and make it out from me to you. Get him some boxers from the dollar store and throw in some male cologne from Dillards that cost about $12.00. Pick out something that you would like and he will love it because it came from the heart and you put a little of you and time in making this basket but alot of his favorites for him. Put alot of tissue paper in the basket and even a few pieces of his favorite candy. I can tell you now this gift basket will cost you no more than $20.00 if you know how to shop. Good Luck
744068
try gifts.com they help you out.
881280
Pokemon cards? You are completely idiotic. Do you not remember being a teen? Why do you assume they are so imature?\n\nAnyways, Im really not very good at gift giving but maybe you could try a watch, cologne, a shirt or hat of his favorite team, or a CD of one of his favorite bands. You could also burn him a CD. Maybe even tickets to a concert for you and him if you are willing to splurge. If none of the above, gift cards always work.
15543
My mother has a boyfriend that I can't stand (he is pulling the - rushing to a widow's aid crap and taking all of her money)... I'll tell you know, he's not getting a thing for Christmas.  And if you feel like you have to get him something, then get a gift more for your mum and just say it's to them both.  Tell them you would have gotten more, but your penny pinching this year.  \n\nGood luck!
776475
Since you've only been dating your boyfriend for 3 months I wouldn't get his parents anything big for Christmas, but a gift for them would be a really nice gesture.  Perhaps something like an arrangement of flowers (centerpieces with a tapered candle or two are very popular around Christmas time or some poinsettias).  Maybe even a nice assortment of chocolates would be appropriate, but don't worry about going all out.
827692
ummm well if you want to you should get him the mp3 player! umm you could get him some new clothes like you said or you could get him some cds he might like or tickets to a concert he would liek to go to! good luck with your gift problem!