after being with my fella 4 two yrs , i thought its about time we shared our fantasies !?
913490
Excuse me if I sound a little impolite but I think you have a control issue here! YOU thought it was time to share fantasies; YOU told him you should watch porn together; YOU have a higher sex drive; what can YOU do?\n\nFor goodness sake, give the guy a break.  Not everyone enjoys fantasies and porn and some people are a little uneasy with that level of intimacy.  Listen to him and his needs.  He doesn't want that right now.  Stop pushing or you will lose him.
399500
I would say those are natural feelings.  We all need fulfillment to some degree, and from what you descirbed, I wouldn't say that it sounds like you're thinking about enging in any type of experimentation that would be more harmful physically or emotionally.  Unlike other types of fantasies, since you had a previous relationship with him, you have more of a frame of reference to work from.  In time you may meet someone else, and these feelings might shift accordingly as you move on from him.  For now, it shouldn't pose any significant problems.
172038
you guys have been together for four years.  im sure that you can talk to him. you need to find out what's happening with him.
557636
A sexual relationship should be focused only on one man and one woman.  If your boo wants that from you than he is not respecting you and the relationship.   I understand we all fantasize, but that is all they are, fantasies, they are not meant to come reality.  If you give in there will always be something more he's going to want and expect from you.  Think with your head and not your heart or something else.
671460
Thanks for the introduction into your sex life.\nI now know all your families name. \nTo answer your question I think your girlfriend is fantasizing about your dad.
251974
Ummmm, this may be a bit tough, but why might he want to go through that?  I had an old wanna-be track me down and call me in the middle of the night a month after I was married.  Did I want to open old memories with her?  Nope.  Put me in a bad spot over something I was not interested in the first time around.  Forget it and move on.  Your fantasy is probably not his.
888204
Stop worrying, you won't get anywhere like this. If it is going to work then it will and it sounds like your both enjoying each other so just relax.
478403
SOUNDS TO ME YOUR BOTH PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER! SOME PEOPLE AREN'T THAT LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO EXPRESS THEIR SEXUAL FANTASIES/NEEDS WITH THEIR PARTNERS. CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED AND KEEP ON ENJOYING!!!
846774
You know, it's all about maturity, when you are young you want to see the world and that means having as many sexual conquest as you can, having different girlfriends with different nationalities, having threesomes, foursomes, having sex with no string attached, getting drunk until the dawn, having to have no responsibilities, nobody to call and travling the world.  But, as soon as you hit you mid 20's to 30's, things gets little complicated, you start to realize that you would still like to screw but you would really like to settle down with someone special and spend the rest of your life together.  So, give him some time and believe me if you guys have good chemistry, he will come back to you.
1113627
Well my fantasies have come true already so I gotta think of new ones the first one was to have threesome with a guy and a girl which happen it was all night long thing it was awesome and then now boyfriend I wanted to have sex with him somewhere exoctic we did it in a park and we did it on top of a building after we came of the building we went by fire stairs oh it was awesome I felt on top of the world
145332
No you should not because your girlfriend doesn't have any fantasies the only fantasy she has ever had was to be with you and she has that.  Trust me I no her!!!!!!!
1053337
If you were NOT doing this, I would think you were nuts! After 11 years, fantasy keeps things fresh. Go for it, keep it to yourself, and have a ball. There is NOTHING wrong with this, Anyone who says differently is either lying or have no idea of what they are talking about . We are not kids here! In fact, you might want to play some games with hubby...if he is a game player. If he is a square, missionary type, keep it to yourself. Good luck, and happy dreams!
783437
Hurt it. Fantasies are better left to Walt Disney. Try talking to your spouse or better yet go on a date.
651272
maybe the problem is that you live together..i mean you see each other all the time...theres no more anticapation of wondering when you'll see each other.  the other thing could be that he knows the things that you do that arent soo "ladylike" just be a lil more girly in the next little while...bend over and show him what he's missing.. and wait for him to throw to the bed!! hahaah
996676
fantasys are just that. dont worry over something like that.  at some point go over both your fantasys and hers see where it gets you.
938608
yea u are going back as a rebound for each other.. im doing it myself.. I miss mine like crazy, but we arent together for several reasons, but when we see each other we have sex and its always better everytime!!! Wish i could give u better advise,but i guess u can say i need the advice myself.. good luck to u
1032160
You need to spice things up, and be creative to bring back the old flame into your sex life. Sex is the frosting on the cake, but without it it could not be a cake right? So you need to take charge and buy new lingerie, toys, lotions, something to spice it up. You are fantasizing because you need excitement, you need something new... go away on a cruise or trip, and rekindle your love life! Fast!