my daughter was hit by a car tonight,the lady that hit her showed no emotion?
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Press charges on her,Sue her for hospital bills and for dramatising your child!That Mean -itch!You get on the internent and find yourself a lawyer right away,you don,t know if she,s gona have brain problems from this and night mares,do you know how many lawyers will jump at this case and you can even get her to pay your lawyer fees in end,if you get a smart anuff lawyer and cry poor in court!do noy let her get away with this!She is in the wrong all the way legally!You need to fight for your child!and don,t wait and go make out police report also first thing in morning to file acomplaint against her,thats the first thing the lawyer will want you to do before you even come to see him!Good luck and i,m so sorry for your poor baby,Give her a Get better kiss for me!Hollywood
762885
Yes you are I know there is not an excuse for being cruel and hurt full. But she has lost her son and the grief and pain of that is unbearable. She is not thinking rationally, she needs to blame something or in this case someone. Let this alone let her grieve I am sure she loves her grandchild and will come to her senses. In the meantime perhaps when all the do gooders come racing over to tell you every word that she has said perhaps you should tell them that you do not want to hear it! This keep you from being hurt and quite frankly helps these people realize that they are not helping anyone by running back and forth with he said she said nonsense.I am so sorry for rthe pain that you all are going thru. Perhaps the easiest way for you to have compassion for her is to remember how devastated you would be if you lost your little boy. Beleive me whether they are 3 days old or 50 a mother never recovers fully from losing her child.
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You did the right thing notifying the woman that she is driving in the wrong direction. It could have caused damage to many people as well as herself. If she didn't appreciate your comment its her fault. Some people are that way and you can't stop it. She was endangering people and she was arising strife but unless she was really making a ruckus and actually physically hurt some one calling the police would not be advisable.
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People are very selfish. They don't care about your friends mom.\n\nThey care about their car and their hospital bills.\n\nAlot of people see car accidents as easy money. \n\n\nI know how you feel. My sisters and I were hit by this dude. And my sister was ejected 30 feet from the car and hit the pavement. While my other sister and I sat watching what we presumed was her dying, the asshole stood over her and told her if she dies it was our fault.\n\nBut we went to court over it and he was found guilty.\n\nNo matter what the circumstance... the world will fix it. Whether your friend and her family knows about it or not. \n\nThe One that created you knows and he makes sure that the bad in this world recieves what they put into it.
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I'm a mom and you just told me.. see how simple that was...\n\nOk when my son got a speeding ticket.. well Ya.. so like First have the ticket paid.. next ?\n\nMom, i made a really big mistake and i am so so sorry.. I know i am in the wrong.. and it was my fault.. i was in a rush to get?????????? and well i got a ticket.. But Wait... I have already paid for it and took the responisbility for it..  \n\nNow if you are on her insurance like my son.. here is what you can do.. Go to the driving class and take it.. it will then come off your record..and her insurance will not go up..\n\nwell good luck.. O bring gift to mom.. we love gifts it will ease the blow..  Walmart earings $2.99 are cheep and it will make us happy.. or get picked flowers.. or take her out to dinner.. or clean the entire house. or get a DVD and have a movie night.. But make sure you are in good turms with her..\n\nDid you know Honny attracts bees but crap attracts maggotts.  Get it.. sweet talk.. love moma Giggles.
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wow, sorry to hear about your girl, thats sad. I dont know why you cannot tell the difference but maybe its because you are in a lot of pain right now and you feel like you are hurting all over.  Again I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things start looking up for you soon! :)
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I am so sorry for the loss of your sister and great grandson. How deeply heartbreaking. I lost my 18 yr. old daughter, Jill, in a car accident on August 2, 2002 and her birthday is coming up on March 14th. I have a memorial site for Jill and it has lots and lots of poems on several of her pages. Some of them are copyright that were written just for me and my daughter and others are not.  You are welcome to visit Jill's memorial site and especially look on her birthday and anniversary pages and you are welcome to highlight and copy them.  As long as they were not written exclusively for me and my daughter, you are welcome to use any of the poems you would like.  If you have any questions, or need further direction on finding poems, please feel free to e-mail me at peggyrose011058@aol.com.  God bless you and my prayers are with you, Peggy (myangeljill)
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I know exactly how you feel and yes it is normal to feel sad and maybe even a little angry that she had to die in a such a terrible tragic way especially being a young mom... I lost my friend in a car accident a long time ago and still think about her often she was too young didn't even have a chance to have children and she would have made a great mother. But the pain does start to go away eventually and you should just try to remember the good times and if possible try to be their for the children she left behind and tell them what a great person and friend she was to you and everyone else.... That way no one will ever forget her....
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HEY: SIMPLE GIRL:\nSO SORRY ABOUT YOUR CAR....I HOPE YOU GOT A NEW ONE...\nANYWAYS YOU CAN FIND THAT BOOK IN THE LIBRARY...'CAUSE I READ IT LAST WEEK AND IT'S COOL...
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my daughter is 10 yrs. the same as yours she can be the sweetest thing and at times the devils advocate. There were times when i would get so enraged that i would hit her until once i pushed her and she hit a mirror and luckily didnt get hurt, after that i learned my lesson and went to a parenting class and learned to control my temper and talk to her when we have a problem.  I have a girlfriend who lives with me and 3 days ago she wanted to move out because of my daughters attitude at times.  At that age there is not much we can do but try to spend more time with them, and talk to them, but most kids dont want to talk, so you can always call the Maury show and see if that helps. Friends have a great deal with your childs decisions, they see a friend have something and automatically they want it. If a friend is allowed to do something or go somewhere why cant they.  Who has the right answer. i dont. but i hope my knowledge helped a little.  You can email me if you want to talk more about this at hilldisplayfixture@yahoo.com.
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HORRIBLE!  Keep speaking up! Tell everyone who will listen...and even those who won't!  Don't worry about what they say about you. You are the one protecting your daughter and you have to do what you have to do for her sake.  Don't let your daughter be unsupervised, anywhere.  Make it a rule. You're the mother, you can do that.  You said she is 3, I don't know how well her vocabulary is developed to express her emotional upset.  I would say, continue her counseling!  If you can't afford private counseling, or you don't have insurance that will cover it, there are agencies that have clinics, free.  You might have to make a lot of phone calls, but they are out there.  \nBest of luck to you!  Keep trying!!!
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She might die y'know. In some horrible freak 'accident'. That would be nice.
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Well remember too that Michigan is a "No-Fault" insurance nightmare.   Regardless of that, she backed into your car, parked legally or illegally.  In some way or another your insurance company would work it out with hers.  \n\nFile a claim, or let it go if your car is not that badly damaged and it would cost more for you to claim it (causing your rates to go up).  \n\nYou have witnesses to where your car was located and regardless of whether or not your neighbor is related to a police officer she did hit your car and you have witnesses to that effect.  \n\nIf it was that close to her driveway she could have asked someone to move it but chose to try and move her vehicle anyway so that was her choice.  \n\nJust keep in mind, that if you do go forward with filing a claim and it does escalate to "he said/she said" then you could have a hard time of it since they are your neighbors.  \n\nI know this probably doesn't help much, if you claim it you lose by increasing your insurance rates and causing even more friction with your neighbors, and if you don't claim it you're letting them intimidate you and they'll take advantage of that as well.  Either way you really can't win in this situation, take the lesser of the two evils I guess.  \n\nIf there isn't any love lost between your two families then go for it.  It's hard to choose whether or not you want something like this hanging over your head for a long time or to just let it go and be wondering if you should have let them get away with it.\n\nSpeaking of which, what is the rest of your family saying about all this?  As long as you have support then you should be ok, but if they're not supporting you it could be a long hard road ahead.\n\nI wish you the best in this.  If you're on good terms with your insurance agent you might want to talk to them "off the record" about it and see what they have to say. \n\nAlso, you might want to double check with local and state laws regarding reporting of ANY accidents involving damage on Michigan roadways.  Just because her son is a police officer does not make her exempt from the law in that regards and some places require you to report any accident even if no injuries happen.  Note: Some villages and towns in Michigan might have even stricter laws than what is at the state level.\n\nFinally, I know this is a lot of info below but it might help you in your decision.  Good luck!\n\nThis is taken from the Michigan Legislature website regarding Vehichle Traffice Laws:  You can probably find out more regarding your situation if you poke around here or at the Secretary of State site:  http://www.michigan.gov/sos/0,1607,7-127-1627---,00.html\nhttp://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(od13m455h3wi5n553fqxrwmy))/mileg.aspx?page=getObject&objectName=mcl-300-1949-VI\n\n\nhttp://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(od13m455h3wi5n553fqxrwmy))/mileg.aspx?page=getObject&objectName=mcl-257-620\nMICHIGAN VEHICLE CODE (EXCERPT)\nAct 300 of 1949\n\n\n257.620 Accidents; attended or unattended vehicle; stopping; report.\n\nSec. 620.\n\nThe driver of any vehicle which collides upon either public or private property with any vehicle which is attended or unattended shall immediately stop and shall then and there either locate and notify the operator or owner of such vehicle of the name and address of the driver and owner of the vehicle striking the vehicle or, if such owner cannot be located, shall forthwith report it to the nearest or most convenient police officer.\n\nhttp://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(od13m455h3wi5n553fqxrwmy))/mileg.aspx?page=getObject&objectName=mcl-257-622\nMICHIGAN VEHICLE CODE (EXCERPT)\nAct 300 of 1949\n\n\n257.622 Report of accidents resulting in death, personal injury, or property damage; forms; analysis; use; retention.\n\nSec. 622.\n\nThe driver of a motor vehicle involved in an accident that injures or kills any person, or that damages property to an apparent extent totaling $1,000.00 or more
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This is a case of "no harm, no foul". If there really was no damage to the other car, then you did not harm the owner in any way, and have nothing to confess!
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None but my son failed his the first time cuz he couldnt back around a corner.Since hes been driving (got his liscence in January) hes totaled his car and mine both.Both accidents in six weeks.Last night he left the house and made it two doors down and hit my neighbors car parked on the street.I dont know what im gonna do with him?
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I'm not an expert at this, but my initial feeling was that you must be feeling guilt about something.  I don't know who the girl may be representative of -- just someone that you care about, I guess. The strangers may represent people in general, and that you're worried about their opinion of you -- especially since you've done something you're feeling guilty over.  Your feelings of helplessness may be represented by the unresponding driver and passenger, and maybe your impression of the world in general...that it's a cold, unfeeling place.
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First of all, your insurance company is on the hook for the money, so relax about that.\n\nIn this day and age, everyone sees those damn commercials on TV from the injury lawyers and can't wait to get in there when they are in a wreck.  I've worked SO MANY insurance claims like yours... these people and their attorneys are real pieces of work.  They always send them to the same chiropractor and then claim neck injuries, loss of wages, etc.  If she was clearly at fault, the insurance company will do a initial investigation  to make sure, then tell her and her attorney to take them to court.  That will stop it, because the injury lawyers (who are working on a percentage) won't go out of pocket for a loser.\n\nTell you husband, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING to anyone who calls him over the phone about this wreck!!  That's an old trick, the other side will call and say, "I just need to get a recorded statement about the wreck to clear my files" and a year later you're getting quoted in court if you say the wrong thing.  If they want to do a deposition with him, he has the right to have an attorney with him and or his insurance company will have legal counsel there, in person.   I wouldn't worry about it, don't let it ruin your holidays, it will take months before anything is settled.