what do you do if you start having feelings for someone who you thought was just a close friend?
920259
I would say that is normal. Often great romances and happy married couples grow from long friendships.  I hope the  feelings of more than friendship are reciprocal and you both have a happy life.
51620
Before you rush into a decision, let time pass. He will realize his feelings for you, whether or not it is the one you wanted him to feel. An idea from a magazine stated that you ought to spend time with him for a good amount and then suddenly stop. He will realize how much you have meant to him and he would want to spend time with you.\n\nIf he is a friend, then more power to you both if you do end up in a relationship. Friends, especially best friends, know each others' weak points and strong points. Therefore, they can fully support one another.
592598
No, don't start 'dating' her if you already don't have those feelings.  I would say you could still keep hanging out as friends, but once it turns into romantic dinners and movies together and cuddling on the couch then you are starting a relationship that you might know won't go anywhere, and later on it will hurt her worse if you have to end it.\n\nOn the other hand, if you do develop feelings for her while hanging out as just friends, then I would say to go ahead and date her.  But only date a girl if you really do have feelings for her to begin with, don't start something that will eventually end later on.
924519
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
360411
Let him know just how you truly feel but be ready for the consequences like him saying he wants to be "just friends" Maybe he doesn't think he knows you well enough to jump into it right now but stick by his side if you do care thats what good frineds are for, still letting him know how you feel just by being there for him.
802387
just go to him and tell him how u feel, and im positive he feels the same way, if your close friends then he must know u and he would like u for who u r
150862
You'll never know until you confront him. Don't miss this chance! Who know he have the same feeling about you? Or, you could start slowly by being his friend first and get to know him well before you act. Drop him a hint or two maybe? But don't get desparate, it's soo out..
338746
dont keep them to yourself you might miss out on a great relationship....if you guys already know how to be friends thats a good start on having a relationship...the only bad thing is that if it dont work out you guys will probably loose your friendship...but you have to decide that one on your own...is it worth it...can you actually see yourself being with this person and it actually working...or is it to far fetched for you two to be togther..at least you will still have him there for you as a friend in the end..talk to him about it...the worst he could say is no i dont want to ruin our friendship...but atleast you dont have to hide your feelings for him and he'll know...whatever you decide i wish you the best...good luck
713507
it happened to me. I never talked to my former friend who told me his feelings. This happens most of the times. I think the problem is the girl starts to feel uncomfortable with you. Of course she knows that you treat her more than a friend. I think you should try to treat her like the way you treat your friends, if you want your friendship. If you want her love, then court her. Never let your fears block your way. Besides, also give her time ti think and a little more space.. Good luck!
492322
If the person is involved in a relationship at this time or you are, you should keep it to yourself.  If both of you are not in relationships, you should tell the person how you feel.  As best friends, you already have a great level of communication and the other person may be feeling the same way as you but is afraid to spoil your friendship.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  You will still be friends no matter what and even if the other person doesn't look at you that way now, they may start to consider it and you may have a chance in the future.  Good luck!
281056
Have u had a relationship at all, platonic or physical, so that u can't stop thinking about this person?  How do u know the other doesn't like u, have they expressed it verbally or thru body language? Perhaps u should send some signal and see where it'll lead you. Maybe the other person is just waiting 4 u to show some signs, who knows maybe they can't stop thinking about u 2. It could be a start of something good.
141868
Y'know a similar thing happened to me when I was still in high school between my best female friend and I.  One of us had feelings for the other but it wasn't reciprocated.  Years later, we're still great friends, and both of us have moved on to find our own special people.  In my experience, if you two are close enough and you don't dwell too much on it, it would be a good thing to tell him how you feel. It's nice not to have to hold anything back from them, and even if the feelings aren't reciprocated, you get a fresh start ^_^  You know your relationship best though, good luck! =D
474460
It's best to be honest, it may hurt them, and they may kick up a bit of a stink but it's better than you staying with them for all the wrong reasons, and they will pick up on the vibes you are sending eventually anyway!\n\nJust don't fall into the old cliches like "it's not you, it's me".  Explain the situation, why you like this other person, and that you would like to remain friends (presuming that you would of course)!
1014593
Tell your friend how you really feel about him. Who knows? He might feel the same way. Any kind of relationship starts off as friends and it could develop into something more. It will also give you guys an opportunity to find out how you really feel about each other.
224871
If he is confused and has feelings for this other friend then you need to seek out someone who will make you happy.  Don't keep waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want because it will be you who will suffer in the end and you may also question how deep his feelings really were for her to begin with?  You could end up with more issues than you have now and regrets.
163854
The thing to remember is anything is possible if your willing to not limit yourself. The true question is can you emotionally handle being just her friend after she has made it clear she is not interested in anything more? \n\nAlot of times people think they can handle it but staying friends with the person who you love when unable to express yourself in that way makes life more miserable because you never really allow yourself to get over them. When you are face to face with them often you are constantly reminded that you can't have the one thing you want. \n\nIt is also hard for most people to see that person dating, enjoying life, etc w/o it being with them. If you feel your stong enough to withstand it then I def. think it is possible. \n\nMaybe try it and if you feel in your heart that it is only causing you pain then end it, but you will never truly know unless you try it and see.... \n\nGood luck.
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.