how can a couple get married, when one of them is an inmate in an orange county jail?
918200
Call the Courts of whatever city he is in....I think you should not listen to these other people saying you should not marry someone in Jail.....You cant help whom you love and if you feel you love this person no matter what then do whatever it takes to marry him!  When you are in love you will always love that perosn.....Unconditionally!   I hope you figure out how to marry him!  Hes lucky to have his girlfriend out there supporting him, trying to make you two "one".....Let me know how everything works out!  And Good Luck!
30038
There are a couple of ways.  Some counties allow a person to be "ordanied for a day."  Basically, for one day only, they have the legal right to ordain marriages.  Go to the county marraige registar's office to find out if this can be done.\n\nOf course, the no-fail, yet very silly way is to have them ordained by the Universal Life Church, or one of the many like-minded "churchs."  It takes about an hour messing online, but one can easly be ordained by these churchs that don't really exist, but are legally recognized anyway.
945977
here's a website for the butte county jail. it also contains mailing address, and contact info/ph #'s of ppl for the entire justice system in butte county. hope this is helpful for you. i live in butte county, roughly 25 miles from oroville.\nhttp://www.buttecounty.net/sheriffs/Contacts.htm
764693
I would assume so but a person would have to be dumb to marry jail bait.
786266
Everything said before is right.  But consider\n(1) Are these people in county jail (typically for sentences for less than a year), in state prison (typically for sentences in state court for more than a year) or federal prison (typically for sentences in FEDERAL court for offenses).\n(2) If you do not know, start with the federal locator that someone has linked to above( because it's nationwide) and if you have no luck, then try your state system.
1107834
Depends on the jail and who you want to see.  Call the place and just ask.
603995
Find out when he is getting out.  He should have a court date set to be sentenced or they could give him a bail amount.  It could take up to a week to find this out.  Alot of guys in jail have girlfriends but most of them arent even worth it.  If you love him you can go and visit.  Just contact the jail.
922312
Huh....you sure you're in love?  It's going to be tough being alone while he serves time...and he seems aware of that fact.  That's a big sacrifice--waiting for him I mean.  If you chose that route--best of luck to you.  But even if you don't decide to wait it out--you could still be supportive by communicating with him while he's incarcerated.  Life with a convicted felon is not going to be easy after he serves time either--and your options will be limited because of it.  Just be aware of the sacrifices required to remain with this person.  It sounds like you'll have lots of time to make up your mind.  Find a support group that can assist you.  Good Luck
765738
I've never been to Orange County nor have I ever encountered being locked up by Orance County deputies.\n\nOne CO in Baltimore City was convicted in the stomping death of an inmate held at the Baltimore City Detention Center.  There were originally two on trial - but the judge threw out charges against one CO.  The CO will have to serve any prison time in protective custody (perhaps out of state) because he would be a marked man anywhere in Maryland's correctional system.\n\nhttp://wjz.com/topstories/local_story_285125121.html\n\nI was treated very well by those COs who took me into custody but anyone who lays hands on an inmate - besides self-defense - deserves to lose his/her job or worst.
1128305
LOL  old school!\n\ngo to the state Department of Corrections'   website... type in the name of the person youre looking for....viola!\nall states are different.  Michigan has one. (OTIS) im sure your state does too...
781386
There is an interesting forum chat site here for Ca Jails here.\nThis may help you track down your family member :-\nhttp://www.prisontalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=7302\n\nThe jail is not going to make public, I don't think, of inmates.\nAlso -\nAnother forum is at this site for Chino county jail :-\nhttp://www.prisontalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=27475\n\nYou may be able to get some leads here by posing your own questions.\nGood luck in your searching.
565141
Call the county courthouse there and ask.
884088
You can go on to this link:  http://www.prisontalk.com/ go to the oklahoma forum there might be a lot of people there who might be interested.
308544
If it's love, you'll wind up marrying him and waiting no matter what anyone says and you might be right....Babydoll, I don't know your jailbird, so I can't make any comment about whether or not he'd be worth waiting for, but I can tell you this, with absolute certainty: Loving an inmate is a VERY HARD ROAD....it's about slogging through endless paperwork, it's trying to keep up with rules that seem to change every week, it's waiting for incredibly expensive collect phone calls that might or might not come and when he doesn't call, praying with all your heart that the phones in the day room are just either too busy or broken and that he's not hurt or on lockdown, it's becoming obsessive about checking your mail and the heartsick feeling that comes over you when the letter you want so badly isn't there,it's about getting writers cramp and spending $20 a week on stamps and stationary, it's about dealing with either keeping it secret or dealing with disapproval of the relationship everywhere you turn and mostly it means living in a future you can't be sure of and that really does take a toll.\nIf I had a choice, I wouldn't do it, but I've loved the guy for over 20 years and I can't quit now...and I'm almost 40, so it's not as if I'm spending my youth dealing with the Dept.of Corrections...think carefully, Sweetie, it is a hard, hard thing to do and no guarantees.
475334
Are you sure you want to put yourself in that situation. It doesn't really sound like a start to a healthy relationship.  Why is he in jail? Does the reason he is in there bother you at all?
571779
Crazy, Stupid, Idiotic, Nuts. And NO it won't last. You don't know this guy. He is in prison / jail for a reason. You met him WHILE he was incarcerated? How pray tell did you meet him? What at a local dance club. LOL. Be real, he is in jail so someone must have introduced you two. So I say good luck, BUT be careful, Be very careful.
367984
Go to http://www.prisontalk.com and read the forum marked Prison Phones.\nYou'll find TONS of information and support in these issues and all the other problems associated with having a loved one behind bars.