I have no best friend at school because I don't know what to talk to my friends.How can I make friends ?
929377
you have to have a beautiful smile so and a smile make wonders because every smile has a charm behind it.be yourself and dont show the others u r tensed or scared cause it shows on th face.\n\nu go girl!!!
1031191
Nothing wrong with that at all.  I have not had a best friends since school either, I have a lot of friends that I am close to and who I see in groups or as individuals, if I need to talk I talk to my b/f or my mother, I think you are perfectly normal!  I don't think there is any right or wrong way to make friends, as we get older we have less time to spend with friends, especially if you have kids so it is hard to devote enough time to people to get that close very quickly, sometimes friendships take years to develop, be there for the friends you have when they need you and bonds you already have may deepen into a closer friendship.
724160
In high schools?? Thats a new one. In college maybe. As far as I know it's nothing more than an easy way to be social. I don't know first hand, I usually make friends on my own without group support.
95128
how to make friends on the internet. Its easy .talk to people on chat lines,or,send e mails. The most important rule is be your self.and your self only.Good luck with your new friends.
587479
You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
921007
Try to give them a chance, but I understand about not connecting, I am not great friends with anyone at school, I like other people
974483
To make a friend, you first must be one. Make conversation with someone you like but don't know very well. Everyone has to start somewhere. Good luck sweetie!
784944
Try to write ur interest (make a profile) and left ur email or something, probably somebody will be interesting. If u wanna talk u can email me back...ill like to b ur friend.
923599
try making more friends. if you hang with the right people, you'll have fun all day long. you gotta talk to people. talk to anybody. and try to get more involved in clubs, sports, hobbies etc. make it fun. and i bring a mp3 player to my classes sometimes cuz they can get boring too. Good Luck!
280252
go somewhere u have something on common with other ppl and say hi i know ur shy but trust me i used to b shy till i made it though college and got tired of it surprisingly ppl dont mind you talking to them as long as u have something in common \n\n\noh there is some pill for it too (imagine that) but seriously its for ppl with social anxiety disorder
983365
why don't you try joining a group like the college paper or a team? something that helps you and others meet new people. just make sure it's something you like, if it isn't then you wouldn't make friends that you would want to hang out with.
211952
Start talking to other people in your classes! And hung out with them.... be open and be yourself. and don't tell them that your friends are running away from you. Be nice and fun!
938059
for starters, no one will be 100% like you. everyone will do something in differently from somebody else...\n\ni suggest you think through these pointers: of all the friends you've made, think of the ones who actually made your day enjoyable. or those friends who listened to you when you were angry or sad. or those friends who you feel so comfortable with you let down your guard. even if they're different from you, these are the friends you should spend time with and get to know them better. you don't make instant friendships unless there's chemistry.\n\nand, i wouldn't suggest you avoid your friends, because there's no guarantee there'll be a person like you in high school. remember everyone is different so just mix around and enjoy :)
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From what I read there was too much drama going on so that means......MOVE ON and make new friends!  You sound pretty young, so here's some advice...unfortunately in life, you will meet people who claim to be your friends when in actuality they aren't. So you just experienced that part of life early, so now you can just learn from it. Focus on school and important things. You will find better friends soon!
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Making friends cannot be rushed, but be confident and introduce yourself to folks. As time goes on you will get to know which ones are friend material, but you have to put yourself out. \nDo not  make hasty conclusions about the people you meet in your new school, just consider how you are feeling, maybe they are feeling worse and acting up. \nBe as nice as you would want your friends to be to you. Keep on a good genuine smile, nobody likes a grouch. Above all dress decent, and clean, people are drawn to nice people.\nSee if you can meet some of your classmates on line, you can get acquainted on line and then it will be easier when you meet in person.\nAlso learn to like your own company, find things that fulfill you as an individual, friends will like your company better, when they realize you are cool even by yourself.\nBest wishes to you.
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Dont change any thing about your self, Fake people are the worst. Are you in School? If so things get dif. when you get out of it. Just try and keep the friends you got, and get involved in activites (not in school ones).
930848
So you want to make friends now because you feel lonely .... does this about sum it up?\n\nStart slow; call your "best" friend and arrange a lunch.  During lunch tell your friend what you've told all of us and ask for his help in getting you out more socially.\n\nOr, make new friends.  Go to an event where people are put together by common interest - a book club, gardening club, whatever you are interested in.\n\nSince you've spent your life being alone, here's a rule to being a friend that will help - show interest in the other person, the friendship isn't all about you!  Ask questions about their life, most people love to share stories of their lives; after all, they want to share themselves too!