My gf and I broke up on Sunday I asked her how she felt she said she has a total eclipse of the heart?
915933
I think she was trying to tell you that she her heart hurts!
608681
Because you probably loved her an awful lot, and any breakup or end to a relationship is a loss.  \n\nHugs.
493540
You probably are. I don't think she intentionally hurt you, however, instead of doing the wrong thing to hurt you more, she ended the relationship. She actually did you a favor. Not to say that it won't hurt, but at least she thought enough of you and your relationship to end it before she hurt you more through infidelity or etc..
551961
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
1177570
Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.
1028510
either two things are going on here: 1. she's just using you, and using crying to make it so you don't think you've been used, or 2. she's suffering from depression. I lean more towards option 2: I don't think she was just using you if she broke up AFTER maui. Perhaps she just needs time to sort things out. If you truly were as cool to her as you say (which I will take at face value), then perhaps what you might want to do is be her friend for a while. I mean a real friend. help her through the rough times, show her you are a loyal and caring person. once the hardships are over, she will know she can trust you and perhaps you two can get back together again. Be there for her, and let her know that whatever she needs she can count on you to do your best to provide it. Try not to be in situations where you'd want to sleep with her. be upstanding and forthright with her. \n\nGood luck, and I hope you two can end up together and happy again.
463760
Sounds like she's been reminiscing about you and maybe missing you.  I don't know what broke you up in the first place.  That would have something to do with whether or not you try again.  But,  if you are missing her and love her...don't be a fool.  Go chase her man!!!!! Some woman need a lot of chasing to be caught.  That's because we are also sometimes a little niave.
772856
Why did you all split up?? Could it not work out with the 2 of you?? Have you told her how you feel, maybe you should. But if it just won't work out then you'll have to do what all us crazy people do when we love someone and they don't love us back is give ourselves some time and it will heal all the pain. Hope your heart feels better!!!!
845912
Breaking up with a GF. That pained me greatly.
18448
No one can answer that except her. You need to sit and communicate your feelings to her and the expectations you have of your relationship. Maybe she feels the same way but there is something else going on in her life that you do not know about. Or maybe, she is no longer interested in you and is trying to find a way to end things without hurting your feelings. Either way, it is best that you both find out where you each stand.
445434
hmm..i think she wants you to run after her. to show the world that you are at her mercy!\nask her what exactly she wants. if you still love her and she still feels the same, go ahead, talk it out. if you still love her but she doesnt feel the same for you, run, run, run. you are risking a broken heart.
156221
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
325310
Depends on what you did to her. Give it time: she won't be able to get over something major overnight. Write her a note telling her how wrong you were & sorry you are. Give her flowers. Good luck!
276036
she was probably confused.  thinking what is she doing and then feeling guilty.  maybe she wasn't over him yet.  it took me 5 years to get over my ex.  this kinda stuff doesn't happen over night dood.  dont take offense.  just try to be a good friend and supportive. good luck!
877610
If its that important to you that you should be able to be yourselves in public then it MAY not work... however, if your love for each other outweighs this need/want to go public, then you just have agree with her. Its tough for you AND for her as well. She took a RISK for you, by being your girlfriend, even if it harms attaining her dreams...try to look at it from her side, if you still think that being "together outside" is important to you then maybe its time to rethink the relationship.
583685
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
531789
wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.