Marriage or no marriage ?!?
919871
your heart will tell you when it's right...but then definaltey marraige!
1128783
It's not a question of health, as much it is as...religion. If you believe in no pre-marital sex, don't do it. I personally think, that if YOU are waiting for the right man... after marriage would be best. And again, it's how you and your family members feel about this as well.
170710
If you're not sure, then don't. Marriage is a big step and commitment. You don't want to half-a$$ it.
753022
You should have both settled on the children issue BEFORE marrying. There is no excuse for this issue to be surfacing now, shame on you both for not addressing it before you ever committed to each other.\n\nNow you are stuck. Since he does not want children and you do, the only recourse you have is divorce.
8427
Why in the world would you agree to this?  If he is worth marrying he will wait and you should wait.\n\nResponding to youknowit below:  All the more reason to wait and have a nice wedding.
6983
Wait until the initial passion is over before you think about marrige. Take it slow. If you are meant for each other you will be together anyway whether you are married or not. Marrige is just a formality.
277348
I would like to get married. It would be my second marriage, but the first was such a strange one, I can barely remember it. (I didn't know that guy very well.) Here's my humble advice about marriage: Wait until it gets really "hot". And, along with that, don't marry someone because your parents think you should or because he has the right qualifications. Marry him because you can't live without him otherwise, because you simply "can't" imagine life without him. Good luck. I think it's a noble aspiration and a worthy goal in life.
494933
I think legal marriage is just a peice of paper. Being married is really in your heart.  whats stopping you from throwing a big party, exchanging vows and rings accompanied by your family and close friends? i believe there are churches geared toward the gay and lesbian community that can give you guidance. Either way. congratulations on finding that special someone in your life.
866036
whatever comes natural. Do what you "both" agree on. If this is difficult --dont get married--
693731
It could go either way, just realise that marriage is a serious thing and requires tons of hard work to make it succeed.
705894
There is no definite time to get married - i was with partner for four years before we got engaged and another four years before we got married.  Bring the subject of marriage up and see how the conversation goes.  If you both decide not to get married, you should definitely make a Will each to ensure the other is taken care of should anything happen.  Not being morbid, but unfortunately people often miss out on taking care of their partner due to not being married and making their wishes clear.
757030
I think that as long as 2 people love each other and are happy together then why not get married. Theirs lots of man / women marrieges that suck and fail ( and Im shure theirs gay ones to ) so who cares who the 2 people are as long as it works
257413
I'm 36, husband is 39. We've been married 16 1/2 years. We have four kids, ages 13, 11, 10 and 8. \nI wouldn't worry too much about not being married yet. It just means you haven't found the right person yet. Wouldn't you rather wait for "The One" rather than get married, just to say you're married. Loads of people are waiting to get married these days. I think it's wise to wait because you are more mature and know what you like or don't like and what you are looking for in a life-partner. Don't rush it. It will happen in good time and probably when you least expect it.
1110023
When the relationship gets to the point where you can't see your future without your love!! Just remember, marriage is a lifelong commitment and needs taken care of daily!! Good luck!
2550
Relationship in marriage is not like a cage. It is sharing of various issues - feelings, emotions, togetherness, oneness, sex and many more. Afterall both are life partner. Pls don't make it a cage. Feeling free after being single is not the right solution. Happiness & freeness can be felt/ realised even being together also.
202993
Say no. your too young for marriage. go out and enjoy life first, you'll have plenty of time to settle down.
629869
No..No...and No!!\n\nDo not marry anyone under any kind of pressure.\n\nMarriage is about loving someone and wanting to spend the rest of your lives together not being forced down the aisle.\n\nGood luck.