my boyfriend is all of a sudden avoiding me ?
919565
maybe he don't want to talk to you nomore and you should move on and find you a new boyfriend because if you start avoiding him he will try to talk to you because he will see that you is avoiding him and moving  on with your life and he migth try to start talkin back to you.
846700
Tell him how you feel. Be direct, tell him that you think he is avoiding you, and if he has someone else than just break up. Concentrate on your new job and things will turn to better...
119209
Time will heal all wounds.  He is hurt right now.  He needs time.  Yes, it is wrong of him to ignore you, but that is his way of dealing with the issue.  Its not a good way, but its his way. It could also hurt your relationship now, with your new boyfriend, if you let it get in the way.  It is a friend of yours though, and you may need to let your boyfriend know that.  Anyone respecting boyfriend will understand.  Obviously you care, or it wouldn't be bothering you.  A true friend will come back to you.  If he is a true friend he'll be back, if not than he won't.  If you were honest with him than, you shouldn't have to take any abuse.  He may not understand what he is doing to you right now.  Understand his situation also, your not the only one who is hurting right now.  Give him some time.  Time will tell.
353574
May be your reaction went too far as to scare him away. Now that you've realised your mistake, why not give him a call and ask why you haven't seen him all along. Ask him to take you to see a new movie at the theatre. If he also loves you, he'd be so glad for the opportunity. Please don't scare him away next time. Be gentle.
697047
he is avoiding u b/c he is scared of what will happen if his gf finds out or if ur bf finds out.if i were u i would examine the sitiuation very closely, then pick either him or ur bf and make him decide also
263602
Play him at his own game! Don't call or message him. Let him wait and time will tell if its meant to be. Maybe he's just really busy or doen't know where he stands with you. Try and talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. He might not know that his behaviour is effecting you! Spend some time with your friends and family, enjoy your life! If he's worth it, he'll call you! If not, your worth more! Whatever you do don't let him upset! He doesn't know what hes missing! Good luck lady!
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
515744
It all depends on the circumstances. If he is avoiding you and thats why you don't see him, then leave him...but if you don't see him due to work or school related issues, just try to work it out. You can't be mad at someone who's trying to better themselves. I think that the only way you should leave someone is if they abuse you, or if you guys no longer have feelings for each other.
1013736
I assume you've started dating recently, because I only texted my bf back when we were starting out. It wasn't coz I didnt like him, but it's just the way I do things. Some people need more time to get used to others and are too shy to begin a convo with their partner. Maybe he's like that too. Just give him time. If you've been together for a long time and you feel he has changed you need to confront him.
17015
Guys tend to express lack of interest by avoiding time together, not being as intimate with you, and being unclear about any future plans.\n\nIf he is a decent guy, I think you should be able to get a direct response to the question "is there something wrong lately?  I feel like you are being a bit distant".  List the reasons you think so, and ask whether you are being ridiculous or not.\n\nI suggest doing that soon, rather than waiting and analizing everything he does.  You will drive yourself nuts, and likely cause the relationship to end on a bad note as your angry/fear/worry all get bottled up until they explode (usually not in a positive way).\n\nI hope it works out for you.  Talk to him.  If you can't do that, it's not a relationship anyway.
838058
Of couse you need to let him know that it is hurting you. This is a very important part of a relationship. Maybe he did not do anything becacuse he forgot. That does happen because HE IS A GUY. Let him know and see what he says. If he does not react to then tell him to "take a hike" and you can move on to find someone who actually cares about you.
818349
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
517793
I hate to say this but be very careful he isn't cheating on you. It seems strange that he would just stop. Maybe he just needs some spicing things up, but DON'T tie the knot until you get him to talk about things. Communication is so key in successful relationships. If he won't talk to you, you may have to move on. I feel your pain girl, I've been there.
456820
maybe when you told him he wasn't getting any , he stayed with you just in case you eventually let your guard down, he is an idiot to not call you after running around after you so much..leaving town is a BullSh*t excuse and now he is probably looking elsewhere....you were indeed played like a hand of poker..get over it and find someone who can treat you right
720575
He's trying to feel you out and see what your like now since he hasn't seen you in awhile. You never know he might want to see if anything develops. Good luck!
421916
the relationship was probably moving to fast for the both of you and it more than likely freaked him out.  So, instead of facing the problem...he's avoiding it.  In other words, being a coward.
163007
i know the feeling, it sucks! we've been together for 5 yrs now & im secretly apologizing to him at the back of my mind... take your time to listen to whatever it is that's bothering you right now, a little time off perhaps,so you can figure it out? \nlife is too short for slip ups in relationships. at least you won't be where im at cuz it really sucks!