Should I allow a guyfriend to take advantage of me if he's nice/sweet?
922155
friends with benifits ,thats great ,go for it
616610
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
186437
I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
857336
you should. If he is a nice guy go for it.
939778
First I can guarantee you that he will use you\n\nSecond - just let him do it because you are insecure and want to be accepted by him.
667002
If you are just looking for a guy that likes you for your physical benefits than he will probably slap your but or try to be really nice to you but if you are looking for a guy that likes you for more than what you have to offer on the outside he would respect you, be nice to you, try to be around you all the time(if he is really bold), and talk about you nonstop. (and you probably aren't fat at all)
274458
Remain as friends with the sweet guy... You never know his flaws unless you get to understand him better. He might be just sweet to all girls around him. Afterall, you have a boyfriend. Stay faithful and you shall be rewarded.
818700
It depends on what the guy is talking about concerning you. Taking it from a positive point of view it definitely could mean potential good. You walks alone so let him come to you if he is interested and then you will know that he is interested in you.
569488
make the first move by doing something to show your affection, if he takes the bait, go with it, if he doesnt, say you were just kidding, its a fool proof plan unless well, it might go wrong
778712
Can a guy be too nice?\n\nThe answer is yes. How is this possible? The general rule is that by being too nice, the relationship becomes too platonic. What this means is that the emotional state is more like that of being 'friends'. The level of attraction then naturally goes down, because you will be seen as 'just a friend'.\n\nDoes that mean you have to be a bad guy?\nGetting the balance right is the most difficult thing. Some guys are naturally selfish in a relationship and need to work on being less self-centered (I guess being nicer).\n\nOther guys, especially when you are crazy about a girl or a guy, can be too nice. Thinking this is quite natural. That a girl or a guy is the center of your world and that they alone can make you happy. Depending on the realtionship, especially if both partners do not feel like this, it can sometimes come across as overpowering, or as dependence or neediness. Which will not work either. \n\nDoing things you like, creating a good feeling in your own life and being confident with who you are, seem to be some the best qualities. Being happy in your own world.\n\nFriends make good lovers\nHowever sometimes, you can connect with someone so strongly that your friendship becomes stronger and stronger and stronger. Until it naturally develops into a relationship. Though, I think for this to happen there has to be an amazingly strong deep bond and perhaps a degree of unwriten mutual physical attraction.\n\nI hope this has helped. I was sorry to hear about this, especially if it happened unexpectly. It may not be that you are 'too nice'. But you just didn't meet the right girl. Seems like ya got a lot to offer, this aint the only gal in the world, get out there.
202045
Don't worry about it.  Think of it this way,  when a guy DOES come along,  he's gonna wanna be with you for you.  He's not gonna be some superficial asshole who only wants you because of the way you look.
555592
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
115246
Assuming that I am single and he is single I'd be flattered. I'd think it was sweet and I'd consider seeing more of this guy who made me feel special.\nGood luck.
291486
I don't think so.\n\nYou seam like the type who is honest and are really confused by your own addmission. \n\nI think you guys will ok and that you will not cheat on him. You come off as being a very nice and and fun to be around sort of gal.
96547
depends how good you are at suducing him. even if you are average looking, you can suduce him with your actions
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
956725
Anyone who really appreciated you and was looking for a long term serious possibility with you might consider telling his friends things like: how much fun you were, where he took you to dinner and/or movie, things that made him enjoy your company more than expected etc.  If he gave his buddies details of your intimacy the first night, he will probably trade you off soon, or his buddies will think you are fair game for them also since they already know what you might do for them also...RUN RUN RUN