Why is it so difficult to find a good girl that's also lively?
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Sorry man, Im taken... Hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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My best friend is one of these girls, and she always says she enjoys to be with bad boy so that she can show    all his weaknesses and good sides. Many "bad boys" are in fact really good persons who are only afraid of showing their personality."Bad" and "Good" is often misunderstood.
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Before I found my wife, I was looking for a decent girl, not decent as in average, but decent as in proper.  When I came to an age when I wanted to be serious in relationships, this was the single most important factor in the woman that I wanted.  Of course all of the other common traits had to be met, ie. great personality, common interests, great smile, spiritual, intelligent, wise, resourseful, and whatever else may come to mind.\n\nWhen you find a proper woman, someone who knows etiquite in different situations, all of the other things seem to come together very nicely.  Also, women generally dont learn to act properly if they were not raised as such.  I guess I'm trying to say that very few women can fake it.  This type of woman is more genuine in all other aspects, and if you can connect to someone like this, you have found someone very special.  Besides, these days, this is such an outdated trait that when you find it, you know you've found a gem.
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Because although guys pretend to be deep, they're not.  They almost always chose the easy pretty girl over the complex average girls.  When I was in high school, I was a punk rocker, as was this guy I was totally in love with.  On paper we were perfect together, both smart, offbeat, and complex individuals.  He didn't want to go out with me, no matter how hard I tried.  A few year later I ran into him and his girlfriend -- a slutty looking dumb blond.  I realized that he was still immature and looking for an easy relationship, which I am most certainly not.  But there are guys out there who don't care what style you have, they just want to be with you, no matter if they're like you or not.
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Some guys only what one thing, SEX.  But, the good guys are looking for a girl who has the same interests as he does in some areas, able to tolerate his interests in hobbies they do not enjoy such as duck-hunting, and willing to let the reins loosen alittle.  They like a girl who is sure of herself, but not cocky and one that has good morals and isn't afraid to say no to sex.  They really want to just get to know the girl and her family, enviroment and interests without complications like sex and babies involved.
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There are alot of good women left out there, you just have to take the time to find her she may be right under your noise but most men would pass her by good luck with your search
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Some of the greatest pleasures in life take time, your still young and have much to learn in that area and being shy doesn't help.   In time you will feel more confident with your self, right now just observe, very useful task.  You are right for some reason alot of girls like the bad boys, but remember they usually don't last, you want something lasting so just hang in there and I'm sure you will find a beautiful girl, the one you were waiting patiently for..you sound like a great catch.  Don't worry.  ;-)
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Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
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The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
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the first thing is body, natural male habit.  But after that it's the personality.  No matter how good looking the girl, nobody likes a lousy human being
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I would say we always look for a girl that looks good in our eyes and is approved by our influencing friends and family..........also she has to be cool, in her own world....like, have people that look up to her, dress nice, and then ....most importantly ( a girl that the guy can trust in, a girl that he can say to himself....she wont mess around on me...)  Also very important is good for the girl to like the guy alot and show it, but dont go' crazy over us........unless U feel safe that we feel the same way.....
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Because they make more of an effort to be charming and considerate.  They are usually interesting to talk to.  The good looking guys tend to be full of themselves.  There are exceptions, of course.
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The guys you tend to get because you are popular of pretty isn't likely to be a good guy.  You have more to offer than that and the guy that sees that is the good guy you are looking for.
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There is the girl your comfortable with and know that you can depend on then there is the girl that's hot and true challenge to you, which is why you like her I bet.  I guess the answer to your question depends on what you want from these girls.  You can choose reliable or you can choose fun and adventerous yet a challenge.  Depends on what your looking for from these women.
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Finding a girl with the qualities your looking for isn't impossible to find.You just have to look harder or sometimes stop looking and she will come to you. Best way to find that type of girl, be open minded, be yourself, be honest with her.
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
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That's not true, but in certain social situations when a girl meets two guys she is likely to go for the one who is mysterious the one who she can't figure out or the one she thinks she can reform from the bar. Those kind of girls are desperate, don't worry about them. A real woman wants a man that has some of the qualities that you possess. You will soon find a woman who values a real man. When you meet girls be the mysterious nice guy. \n\nAnother thing, some girls may think like this: Don't lay it all out that your this super nice guy, girls only want you to be nice to them,like their special if your nice all the time it you may be sending the messagethat your not different from any other gal, Good luck!