what happens if i stopped a wedding during the ceremony when the vicar asks the big question?
923511
Can't see why there would be.  but be considerate and say something before the wedding if you feel strongly about it.
329428
Is it similar to a wedding ceremony? If so then just go by that. If it is different you could still use one of them. I think that is really nice.
981917
It will depend on the religion of the person (or yu and your soon to be groom).  The person performing the ceremony should have a rehersal beforehand to walk you through it.
89027
Whatever your personal problems are at the moment, I promise you that forcing the wedding party to answer questions about your absence will be way more stressful. \nYou say "hypocrisy" would take over, but I don't think it is at all hypocritical to set aside personal matters for the day and focus on the couple's happiness.\nGet over yourself and go to that wedding!
1062212
I heard about this one ages ago but was never able to confirm it. Supposedly, back in medieval days, the ring bearer rang a bell before the bride came down the aisle in an effort to ward off evil spirits. Apparently, back then, the ring bearer did not actually carry the ring, another wedding party member did. It was the ring bearer's only duty to ring the bell.
430433
Postpone the wedding with M untill you resolve your issues (youll only make a bigger mess of yourself if you dont) Leave john the hell alone HES MARRIED, if he really wants you he'll get a divorce.
861243
That is called a civil ceremony and it is conducted by a Justice of the Peace as opposed to a member of the clergy or a priest. These ceremonies usually take place at City Hall's or County offices. Just check on line for the county or city that you live in and they should have information available to you.
423436
I doubt you'll find the answer in the "Weddings" section.....
688177
You leave. Its not fair to anyone, Its not being true to yourself and its not being faithfull to your wedding vows and you have NO business being there. Kids or not, that situation is not good for anybody and no one can be happy and its not fair to anyone.You have one life to live and you shouldnt be miserable just because you made a promise to someone. People change and things happen.
658719
Weddings today are a relatively knew thing.  When my grandparents were married (1917 & 1930) neither had a big church wedding in front of a lot of people, they were married in their parent's homes or in the case of my other grandparents in the home of a friend (their parents were deceased) in front of relatively few people.  Even earlier than that weddings were sometimes held long after a couple announced they wanted to get married if a preacher was not readily available (like in the 1800's during westward expansion where people just settled areas withour having anyone close by they waited for a traveling preacher to marry them at the first opportunity).\n\nThere has always been some type of premarriage arrangement for the announcing of a marriage.  Today we use the marriage license.  Historically you had filed Intentions of Marriage or Banns were posted.  The definition of Banns is a public announcement in a parish church that a marriage is going to take place between two people; the purpose of which was to to enable anyone to raise any legal issues for not being able to marry (which would include a pre-existing marriage that has not been dissolved or annulled, a vow of celibacy, or consanguity).
350024
Flashback!  Ow I hated that!  I had the same question from the relatives.  I don't understand why they came to me all the time.  I don't think anyone went to him.  That is where they were wrong.  Did his relatives ask him?  \n\nYou could tell them that they are asking the wrong person.  You could say, "I am prepared with my answer.  I am waiting for the question, too."\n\nP.S.  Happily married over 2 years now!
162695
You invite the entire community, as well as the church members. As for the actual ceremony, different religious groups have different ones, talk to your preacher/pastor/etc. He or she will know exactly what is called for.
261164
and? the "best" man?  the groom?  the bride?  the difference is that you didn't finish this question and left everyone thinking you shouldn't even get married or have children.
394880
If you married this person for better or worse than please tell me what happened to that vow. Goodness this is stupid to even think about running out on the person you married when they need you the most//////////
699812
no, because then the entire congregation would see. and also its bad luck to see the bride right before you marry her.
402908
YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT THAT DAY. ITS YOUR WEDDING. I DID IT ON MINE AND NOT ONE PERSON SAID ANYTHING TO ME. IF THEY DO JUST SAY THAT YOU ARE NERVOUS AND TO MIND THIER OWN BUSINESS. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. ME AND MY HUSBAND BOTH DID IT. MAYBE OTHER GUESTS OR MEMBERS WILL JOIN YOU
118702
It should be available to the same people you allow to marry (or baptize, or whatever religious ceremonies you provide in that line) in the church.  The best deal I saw when setting up my sister's wedding was the space provided, tea and coffee provided.  Guests supply the food.  No alcohol, rude pictures or items, appropriate music, etc..  Keep it inline with your church's beliefs.  If your god would frown on it; don't allow it.  If your god would smile on it; go for it!