Needs some advice from friendly women only please...?
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When you are a real person asking a serious question, join us again....
390745
Let it go and be a friend.  Afterall, that sounds like what she needs anyway.  Later on down the road when she sees you have changed she may be willing to let you back in.
896446
Exactly what you just did. Find a nice way to say it. Like maybe I am interested in someone else. And do not elaborate on it.You walk with your dignity as well as her keeping hers. Good luck. Post script. Question for you. What are you looking for on here? Be honest not only with yourself but to your friends online.
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I understand very well.  \n\nWhy are you so concerned with being polite?  She is not being very polite when she helps herself to your things, especially since you've already told her how you feel.  \n\nNow it's time to stop being polite so she can absorb the message that you have boundaries just like everyone else.  \n\nBe very firm this time and don't go into explanations that make it seem you're half afraid to tell her - and say "This time, I'm telling you, not asking......Leave my things alone. Then walk away and don't let her run that silly little I-am-your-friend game on you.  Adults need to be treated like adults.\n\nI'm sure it will work this way.\n\nGood luck.
347178
leave it alone, good friends are hard to come by. ignore your temptations and move on.if she happens to make a move politely tell her that you that you would not destroy your friendship for a night of passion
355153
Sorry friend, but this gal does not appreciate the man that you are.\nDo your self a favor and kick this little lady to the curb.\nYou can do better!!!!
897576
I think this lady has a problem, not just with you, but with her mind.You might have a fatal attraction situation.I think you should understand sometimes people take the smallest kindnesses as a way to intrude in your life. I think you should tell her once again that your not interested in her or having a relationship with her. I will say that never let anyone define you, You know who you are inside, so don't give her a second thought. I think your nice to even wonder about her, that does you have integrity and care about others feelings.
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You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
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Just keep telling her that you have plans and eventually, she'll stop asking, I guess. Yea, it sux being a woman and having to deal with that kind of bullsh!t. Stay friendly with her because, like you said, keep your enemies closer.\n\nAt the same time, don't even worry about her BS. What can she say about you if you never hang out, your outfit today is bad?? Who cares what she says.
505672
Dude, hang in there. Women have a habit of changing their minds about once a week. So stay as charming and bright as possible with her, just joke around with her and be her friend, and dont pressure her or ask her if she likes you. Trust me, just cause she told your friend this does not mean too much, go with the flow.
717052
No you are too much of a lady for that.  Also you need to think about who you consider your friends.  No bitch is going to be telling your man that she likes him and calls herself your friend.  Basically cut her loose.
845239
You need to have a talk with him, but: 1. Don't get all spaced out.  2. It helps to think of it as no different then having a women grab and touch you, and you not want it.   3.Think of it this way take a deep breath and go for it.  If he wants your friendship he will stop, if not, move on.
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Introduce yourself and just ask.  Women (some) like a go-getter.  Plus, if you never ask, you'll never know what the possibilities are.  :)
650409
I have learned straight forward honesty is the best thing in a situation such as this. That way there won't be any misconceptions in what you are telling her. It may shock or even hurt her feelings, but if you don't care to be friends let her know. Good luck.\n\nEagleman
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aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
644872
I would suggest you ask straight up would you like to... go for a drink, movie, dinner, hang out and pick a time and place no room for negoaition.  if she backs out then forget
804739
Ok.....do you have a mutual friend who lives there?  If so  arrange to go for a walk or out somewhere and have the friend invite her to come along.  If this isn't feasible, then just keep doing what you are, but ask her opinion on something.  A question that would require more than a yes or no answer, such as did you see that new restraunt that just opened and did you go there yet...stuff like that.  Borrow someones dog and take it for a walk.  There's an icebreaker right there.  When she stops fussing over the dog, invite her to go for a walk.  Tell  her you are watching it for a friend.  My guess is that she is picking up on what you feel for her and it's making her nervous. A woman's instincts, remember?