How do I make myself look older so that my clients take me seriously?
928647
honestly, i think it might just be the way you present yourself. not just your physical appearance, but how you assert yourself. if you're quiet and uncomfortable with being seen as younger than you are, it probably shows. be more assertive and informed. if you know what you are doing, do it well. people will take you seriously when you are involved and assertive because it projects a level of maturity beyond that of your looks.  you could try some makeup like eyeliner, mascara, and or blush, but i think you should just work on the way you carry yourself. project confidence, and stay on top of things. when people see how well you can handle the job, they should take you more seriously.  you should be able to laugh off these comments knowing that you ARE old enough and are able enough to be doing the job that you are doing.
1126463
You look fine for your age to me.  \n\nHaving said that, don't rely on what I or anyone else thinks...looks aren't everything and even those who are physically "perfect" (which is very subjective) need to have more than that to back it up.  \n\nWorry about becoming a person of substance with a good education who treats other people as well as she would like to be treated.  Be kind, generous and compassionate.  Be independant and strong.  Have opinions, but respect those of others as well.  Be your own unique, special, wonderful self and don't take what anybody else says at face value.  Question everything and always search for your own truth.
927815
Yes, there are many people, like yourself, who look much older than their age. This is due to the hereditary genes which you \ninherited from your parents, examples: hair thinning (getting bald),\nface and forehead with deep lines, 'crows feet' etc.\nHowever, you can prevent and control your white hair by colouring black with the right type of colour dye at the hair specialist center.\nAlso, certain facial creams can help lighten or cover up deep facial lines to help you look younger.
155068
That is a beautiful thing....sounds like you are living your life to the fullest, and that's all anyone can hope for.\nIn my late 30's I am still concerned w/ my appearance. I won't lie here, I still check on new wrinkles, grey hairs etc. I am not obsessed mind you, but with each passing day I realize more and more the importance w/ being who I am and not allowing myself to be overly critical of myself. I am much happier as a 30 something yr old than I ever was at any other age. \nI like to think I'm like a fine wine....only getting better w/ age!\nLIVE, LOVE, LAUGH I say!!
590153
Keep practicing until you are confident that there's no way you can mess up. Know your routine inside and out. And show confidence, but not overpowering, cause the seniors want to know that you still look up to them. Ask them if you have a question on something. Let them know that you are not afraid to be a part of the team.
803049
I have some experience with this... The best thing you can do is 1 BE YOURSELF... what ever age you are, be it and don't apologize for it... the 52 yr old may have times when they want to treat you like you are younger and know less...\nDon't, you were put in charge for a reason... always be kind, and try to be nice... but stay THE BOSS. Don't let yourself ask for or actually even take advice; or they can get to feel like the 2 of you are manager:)\n\n2nd. Don't be friends with any of them. BE FRIENDLY!!! But keep it professional. The people closer to your age, you may have an easier time relating to them or understanding them, and they may be people you could be great friends with. But you can't let yourself be chummy with some and not others. If you let it get to a "buddy" point, it's real easy for people to take advantage of the situation without even realizing they are doing it. "Can I have that day off? It's better for me..."  or "Oh, I'm just gonna be a few mins late ___ won't care they're cool"\nYou gotta stay a little detached and keep everyone equal, from experience that's what I found.
1071346
I think you are really insecure if you need people to tell you what they think of you.  It's what you think of yourself that matters.  Everyone looks good at our age (ok, not everyone) but personality is what matters..........when we are 80 we are all going to sag and droop, you better have something to talk about other than your younger years and how great they were/you looked.  Personality and sense of humor go much, much further with me.  Looks can go at any time.  What if you were in an accident that left you disfigured and unable to work out for ever???  A personality might come in handy....ya think?
334681
Since Willard Scott routinely celebrates birthdays for folks over 110, you are NOT old. But the telecommunications industry has been in serious flux. A popular way employers staff these days is temp agency. (crazy, but true) If you are not already, try offering your talents on a contract basis. If you have energy left to be creative, look for small independent contractors in your area that might be willing to outsource overflow contract work, or add you to their team. It takes effort to find them, but try using SIC code/ZIP code search to get a local list. Consider moving, and throw your hat in the race in another state hub. But whatever you do, stay busy. Oddly, busy people are attractive to employers. Maybe take a fun interim job (it won't pay all the bills)or volunteer your expertise to church or community projects. Finally, share your difficult employment journey with positive people that lift you up and bring you energy. Good vibes echo at any age and the most challenging thing to bring to the umpteenth interview is optimism.
279324
I personally think it is stupid when they answer...I am old enough...Old enough for what?Whats the big deal revealing your age? Are you afraid of growing old? And if you are , guess what...there aint a damn thing you can do about it.So , be proud of your age...smile
625922
I feel maybe 80. now days women look much younger than their actual age. If you r confortable with wearing it then wear it i say.
218562
Coming from a man who is self employed you need to be aggressive. Now you can be aggressive without being pushy. The first way to drum up new business is to start with your current clients if you have any. Now assuming you have clients make sure you treat them great give good service etc. After that ask for referrals. Make sure you tell them to have their sister, brother, cousin, aunt, whoever they know to come to you. Second give them a reason to. Let them know if they help you, you will help them. Give discounts or free haircut for a referral. Third get out into the community join groups get to know people let them know about your business and what you do. People will come to you just because they associate with you. Try to put an announcement in a newspaper or flier or such so people know you are out there. Just most of all do a great job keep the customer happy and smiling and you'll be really successful.
448276
don't take 'em seriously, but always be on the look out just in case they want to cause you trouble. So, basically just go about your business, keeping in mind that you're doing a job...you're not there to socialize!!
544928
Well my friend just a few words of wisdom, you're lucky to look younger than your age. Imagine when you are 30 & you still look for the female attention you'd look just 27..!! Most 25 year olds today look like they're 30+ & consumed up all of their fuel & gas for life. They live the life actually of a 40 year old. So its good for you, take it in  a positive way. But just make sure you actually don't act like a 16 year old. but a 19 year old. Do justice with your personality... GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND..!!
1085918
Just be yourself and show your self-confidence. A sense of humor is helpful too. This may sound primative but it's like being a peacock and showing off your feathers.  Trust me, it will get you noticed!
102589
They can, you start to look more mature.  But that has to do with aging.
564936
I'm also 29yrs old look very young, but I met people my age all the time. I say change your style, make it a little sexy. Not  slutty or any thing but add color, form fitting clothing, if your hair is long cut it shorter that always adds a big change. Do wear make-up even just a little. Also ask a friend to hook you up or try a dating site.
207817
Best way is through good communication.  If the client always feels like he or she knows what you are doing and why, when it is likely to happen, and what are the potential outcomes, he is much more satisfied with you.  On top of that, you should do your best to know the client, make him or her feel like your remember him or her, work personal details about both the client and yourself into your conversations, but don't go overboard.  I've always though clients appreciate a representative who is comfortable as talks to them as an equal, rather than seeming wither 1) a superior professional "just leave this to the people who know" or 2) an overeager person desperate for their business "Whatever you say, sir, anything else I can do sir, etc."