Should i really let him go and give up or should i still be holding on that someday we will be back together?
919711
You need to decide what is best for you.  What are the reasons you two broke it off?  Are they mendable?  Will things change when you two get back together?  I've never gone back to an ex.  I've thought about it a few times but for me, if what we went through was enough to break us up in the first place, who's to say it won't just happen again?  Take a break from each other.  If a month goes by and you two still feel like you belong together, give it another shot!  \n\nJust don't stay with someone because you are afraid to get back out there and love again.  There will always be someone else.  You have a big enough heart to love again.  Good Luck with your decisions.  Only you can make the right decision for youself!
627002
i really think you should give him another chance..after all, what do you have to lose? : )
61606
make sure that if you deside to let him go that you will not change your mind and want him back. because he might not be unvailable when you want him.
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
56706
Don't give up. Keep on doing sweet things to him. It worked for one night, it can work for another night. You need to be patient. A good relationship needs hard work, nothing is easy. Have faith and good luck.
575252
Hun, its a hard road to go down, But he and ONLY he can find the answers he is searching for, but if he is confused now  its best for you to leave and give him time to think things through, then if he finds himself then maybe you two can work on getting  back together, but you can be there for him Emotionally, but since he is fighting a hard battle with him self, he can only bring you down with him, tell him you have to go and tell him you love him but you cant live like this , when he is ready, and has found what he is looking for ,to call you if he is really in love with you and wants you in his life.
849538
Follow your heart!  If once he's divorced, and recovered, and you guys get together, fine.  Until then, don't put your life on hold for a maybe!
560607
I think both of you need a serious talk. If he says his feelings decreased but he says he made a huge mistake you need to ask how he feels now. Cause if he doesn't want to be with you in that way, you're only torturing yourself by hanging out with him and talking to him on the phone. If he feels that he wants to get back together then he should tell you when both of you have your serious talk. If he says he needs to think about it and you want to wait then don't pressure him. Show interest but not insecurity. I know it would be hard to stop talking to someone that you love if it wont work out. But sometimes you need your heart to hurt a little bit so it would heal. Just keep yourself busy. If it's meant to be then it will happen. There's plenty other relationship experience's that you will go through and not all of them will work even though your certain they're the one. And yes, I'm telling you this from personal experience. Good luck...
1001867
talk to him. if you really wanted to be with him you should not have told him you gave up that's not the key to get someone never give up where does giving up get you right back to the start and nothing is accomplished i understand that you may love him but the only thing really you can do is talk to him and don't ever give up\n\nGOOD LUCK
238069
If he's worth it, to you,  go get him back. If not, move on.
1095976
You should probably cut it off. If you know you are the only one with serious feelings then you also know that you are going to be the only one hurt in the end. If you are hell bent on staying with him, then try to use him for something as well. Then you'll both be okay in the end, because you acknowledged early that it was meaningless.
1035500
Well..in my opinion, u should let him go coz if anything is to happen between them, be thankful that u are only at the beginning stage of your relationship..that shows that this chap is indecisive and if he can hurt you like this...what more?
1043991
Don't let it mess up the relationship. He is with you.  If you trust that he wont stray, let it go.  But if you don't trust him you should let the relationship go.
675161
you let him go. there is nothing you can do to force someone to be with you. and even if you could, would you really want to? realize that you two are just not made for each other and move on.
214498
I say go on and live your life but keep still being friends with him. Who knows you might just get back together again (but dont waist your time waiting, live your life.)
108838
Its a relationship but not the kind that it seems that u want from this person. Maybe u should try dating people but keep talking to him.. if and when he decides to come around thats great but if not, your life has gone on and you are not stuck on hold.
397524
Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.