Can I talk to other guys even if my boyfriend ain't at school?
920063
If you're not committed, what's the big deal? I certainly would, I'm too young to settle yet!
1143457
Although I have yet to have a true boyfriend I do read tons of magazines and many have had articles about these kind of situations.\nYou should talk to him about it.  This does not mean to just casually throw it in while you are together but to actually sit him down and tell him what you are feeling.\nHe probably says these things because he feels as if you are spending to much time with your friend and not a lot with him.\nSo I suggest setting aside a specific time just for you to spend with him.\nThis does not mean ignoring your friends.  You are allowed to have your own life outside of the relationship just as he is allowed to.
1082589
Yes break up with him. You may decide later not to go to college in CA or you may not get into any colleges in CA. You are only 16 so break up with him but you can stay friends and email him every now and again or chat with him occasionally on AIM etc. He will most likely see other girls after you move anyway so break up with him so you are free to date other guys and so it wont matter if he dates other girls.
959228
talk to him in person or if you two go to the same school than talk to him at school and tell him tha truth!
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
322533
Here are some options:\n\n1.  Just tell him how you feel.\n2.  Casually tell him you have a boyfriend\n3.  When you are in a group setting where he can overhear, tell someone else casually that you have a boyfriend, and hopefully he will overhear\n4.  If all else fails just toally ignore him.  Don't smile, talk to him, pretend if possible that you didnt hear him try to talk to you, or if he does try to talk to you just give him a curt answer and find some way to escape the conversation.  Men are dumb, but even the dumbest will get the point eventually.
1172624
I think that is a great thing for you to do, also you can plan it with coed or not, depending on his friends.  I think that is very thoughtful of you.  I bet he would love you just for thinking of the idea.
222474
You have just answered your own question!  He is with his guy friends!  It's like he is in a business meeting, or a high school reunion!  If you really want him to notice you, start flirting with some of the other guys, or just wear something to give them something to talk about!  Yea!
345064
Well chances are it won't be forever because you are still in school and you have a lot of life to experience.  Here is some quick advice, don't fight in front of other people with your boyfriend, then everyone is all up in your business.
641915
have you tried out to hang out with him after school? he might be intimidated by all your friends being around and he might make a move when you guys are alone. Or you jsut could try and ask him directly. Good luck!!!
602530
Id say youd be weird if you were worrying about havin a boyfriend instead of thinking about finishing school. Youll have plenty of time to worry about boys
432198
be front about it, if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet.
429761
This is strange. People are allowed to make their own choices about who they want to talk to or not. If he can't see that, you might want to show him that. Then again, perhaps when he talks to other girls, he is playing the field - meaning dangling the carrot in front of the donkey.\n\nYou're only his girlfriend, not his slave. So you have the right amount of freedom to talk to other guys too. Perhaps he could be insecure that he won't 'allow' you to speak to other guys. He needs to gain more confident in himself and learn to trust you. When you two do that, there is no need for resentment and all will be happy. Hope that helps, cheers.
1049222
no, its not ok!! you make it known you have a problem and ask him how he wud feel if u stayed up talking to guys on the phone!
143905
im not alowed 2 hav a bf and i've been w/him 4 almost 3 months. its really hard 2 avoid suspision. but we always usually sneek a kiss or something at scool. u guys dont hav 2 go out every weekend, u can just talk 2 each other on the phone or online. as long as ur communicating w/him
925275
I'm asking to ride with my boyfriend to and from school
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!