i think my ex is going to commit suicide?
914230
If you seriously think this might happen - you need to contact the local authorities.  They won't take this situation lightly.\n\nIf she's possibly going to harm herself or others, they will investigate.\n\nWhere's her family - you should also contact them but don't wait for them to call the police.\n\nYOU need to do this NOW.
637908
this needs professional understanding - i beleive your boyfreinds freind has a mental illness - if you are at all concerned with him maybe thinking of suicide - - please contact your local crisis care as soon as possible - if there is no local crisis care maybe suicide hotline - they will give you the information you need to deal with such a heavy situation - if you fear for yourself at all try talking to your boyfreind about him possibly visiting you instead - or talk to a trusted adult
629269
Dear Friend,\n\nIt's time to consider filing for bankruptcy.  Your ex is broke, and there's no way the state can be held liable.  Sorry, that's the bottom line.\n\nYour Friend,\nFrancesois
502974
Maybe you should seek the advice of a medical professional to help you deal with your depression. They can help control you depression so that you may not be so hard on yourself. You are 21 and your life is just beginning. Have faith in yourself and believe that you can truly be happy. As far as the relationship, well, you will have to decide if what she did was so terrible that you just can't forgive her or trust her anymore. There can be no relationship without trust. It is okay to remember the good times that you had with an ex. It makes you remember what it was that made you want to be with them to start with. Do not let it dominate your thoughts. Get out, meet new people, hang out with friends. All of these will help you to start moving on with your life and faster than you think, it will not be so painful anymore. Good luck to you and I wish you much success in your efforts to move on!
473848
first of all,you have to be really careful theese days who you talk to ok,second,it seems he has real issues,and is playing mind games with you,if he were to kill himself there is nothing you can do ok,third,most people who talk suicide never do it,its the ones who dont say anything who do,fourth i love you !!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) it will be ok,just please be very careful ok.
418958
Please don't think like this. I know life is scary and sometimes complicated but things in this life are temporary. Just because the ex-wife is trying to cut you out doesn't mean that you are out. If you love your child do anything and everything to be his/her dad. There are plenty of lawyers around that will work with you about fees if that's what it takes. Children need their dads just as much as they need their moms. Remember, suicide is never the answer. It will only hurt your child. Emotionally scarred forever. It takes courage to be a parent and have to make decisions that at the time you don't even know is right. It takes courage to withstand. Suicide is cowardly. Please don't be that kind of example to your child. Love is stronger than that. If you ever need to talk just email me: jacquelinebrns@yahoo.com. Good Luck; you're in my prayers.
193175
Make it very clear you are not together. Although I don't think that will work. I was in a similar situation, my ex was delusional. \nDo not answer his questions... ignore them.
560212
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
700273
You need to get professional help involved here.\n\nWhether calling the police to do a "well being" check or calling a crisis hotline yourself. \n\nGet her some help! NOW!!\n\n1-800-SUICIDE\n\nIt's the National Suicide hotline! Call now!
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
742274
I hate to be the one to break the news to you but, I have no choice. I have felt exactly what you're talking about. There will come a breaking point where you decide whether you want to live in the present or die in the past. I'm sure you've had your share of sleepless nights and anxiety attacks. But you have the power if you take it back to pick up the pieces and move on. You may never be the same, but why would you want to be anyway? Hasn't this guy wasted enough of your life and taken enough of it away? I promise if you just get up and put your feet on the floor and walk out into your life it won't be long before all this just feels like a dream you had long ago. Get out, be seen, find better, move on.
837222
are you crazy?\nyou wanna kill yourself to make him feel sorry?\nhey forget about him and start a new life with new friends and do take care of yourself ,even if he feels very sad to hear you committed suicide ,that will not change anything for you when you're already dead..
1126788
I think you're too smart to be that naive. It's a matter of you making up your mind to offer him the choice of life with you and without his ex's in any way at any time or not. Personally, I think you should skip this step and just move on. If he disrespects you that much and honestly thinks you're that naive then you're in for a lot more heartache in the future.
523822
Dump and Run...he'll get over it.. if he was serious enough to kill himself he would have done it, he's looking for sympathy.... trust me, they all say they can't live with out you when there the ones that are being dumped...
1124948
first thing to do: CELEBRATE. Do your HAPPY DANCE and be HAPPY that your ex is finally out of your life. We don't need selfish people in our lives and she sounds like one of them.
501437
I don't know your mom but I know others like her.  Its always someone else's fault and the guilt trip they lay on people who are just "tired of hearing it" I am very familar with.  My ex's mother is this way.\n\nBut the talk of suicide is often a cry for help and should always be taken seriously.  Your mother has issues obviously.  My suggestion would be for you to call one of the suicide hotlines in your state and talk to a trained worker about whats going on with your mom and see what they tell you to do to help her or to help yourself.\n\nHere's a link with a listing by state.\nhttp://suicidehotlines.com/
704105
u r a brave man, There are many ways to commit suicide, but u have to decide, how u want to die. Peacefully or painfully.\nIf u die peacefully then u will suffer even after death, but if u suffer painfully u will rest in peace.\n\nsince 5 yrs ur in love, but still she doesnt have guts to come with u. May be there is some problem with u, u could not give her so much love, that she wants. she should have felt that if i miss him, i would be missing everything in my life.\nok , now lets come to the point.\n\nNever try to get her with help of sympathy, always talk bold, give wise solutions, let her choose. Say only one thing, what u do i accept it, but never take any decision, which seperates u from me.....................