Vasectomy or Commitment... What word is more evil to men?
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I've got a better one.  "I'm pregnant, again"\nHaha...so go for the vasectomy!!
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Its about commitment. If you really love someone - are you willing to be commited to them (get married). if you are not willing to get married, its just that you are afraid of commitment. Kapish?
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No... I would make him want it :)))) or just have it without asking him... steal his sperm or tear the condom or don't let him take it out when he's about to come... LoL... this sounds nuts and I don't think I would do that, but if a guy doesn't want kids I think I would've found that out before becoming his girlfriend... If I want kids I would be with a guy who wants them too... usually most guys are scared of that kind of commitment or any kind of it for that matter, but after some time they realize on how much they are missing out...
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http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/vasectomy/HQ01049\n\nVasectomy: The right form of birth control for you?\nVasectomy provides a permanent form of birth control for men. Is it right for you? \nVasectomy is a surgical procedure that permanently makes a man unable to father a child (sterile). It involves severing and sealing the two tubes (vasa deferentia) that carry sperm from your testicles to your seminal fluid (semen). After the procedure, your semen will not contain sperm, so when you ejaculate during sexual intercourse, you'll be unable to get a woman pregnant.\nWorldwide, about 50 million men have had a vasectomy. Each year, approximately 500,000 American men undergo the procedure. More American married couples rely on it for family planning than on any other method except female sterilization (tubal ligation) and birth control pills (oral contraceptives). Because a vasectomy often can't be reversed, you need to carefully consider the pros and cons before choosing it.\nWho is it for?\nMost men who seek vasectomies have been married for at least 10 years. If you're considering a vasectomy, it's essential that you and your partner both want a permanent form of birth control. Vasectomy may be an option if:\n·You and your partner agree that you have all the children you want\n·You and your partner are unable or unwilling to use another birth control method\n·Your partner has a health condition that makes pregnancy unsafe\nYou may want to forgo vasectomy if you're:\n·Unsure about having children in the future\n·In an unstable relationship\n·Motivated primarily by a desire to please your partner\n·Young, with many life changes ahead\n·Single, divorced or separated\n·Counting on having children later by having the vasectomy reversed or freezing your sperm\nIt's not uncommon for men to consider vasectomy in response to a stressful situation such as an illness, financial setback, death in the family or birth of a child. Because the stress may be temporary, however, it's better to seek counseling or psychotherapy to help you cope than to undergo a surgical procedure you may later regret.\nBefore deciding on a vasectomy, you and your partner should consider its long-term implications. Ask yourself how you'd feel if you had a vasectomy and:\n·One of your children died\n·Your financial situation improved so that you could afford another child\n·You and your partner separated or divorced, or your partner died\nHow do you prepare?\nDoctors usually perform vasectomies in an office or family planning clinic. The cost ranges from $150 to $1,200, about one-quarter of the expense of the more complicated tubal ligation surgery used for female sterilization. Most insurance policies cover at least some of the cost.\nAfter choosing a doctor, meet with him or her to discuss the procedure, risks and potential complications. It's best to include your partner in this initial consultation.\nIf you're worried that a vasectomy might somehow make you less of a man, now is the time to bring up such concerns. Your doctor can reassure you that sterility won't affect your virility. Because the testicles continue to produce the same amount of the male sex hormone testosterone after a vasectomy, the procedure should have no effect on your sex drive or your ability to get an erection. A vasectomy will not affect your body composition and other male characteristics. You'll still have the same muscle mass, facial hair and voice. Nor should a vasectomy noticeably reduce the volume of your ejaculate, since semen consists almost entirely of fluids produced by the prostate and other glands.\nTwo weeks before and after your vasectomy, don't take aspirin, ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin, others) and ketoprofen (Orudis) because they can thin your blood and cause bleeding. Instead, use acetaminophen (Tylenol) if you need to relieve pain.\nArrange for a family member or friend to accompany you to the office or clini
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To me it is loyalty and devotion.  Commitment is not just a man/woman thing; I am committed to my friends, family, career, etc.
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I must agree with Jon.\nMy well informed fellow has seemed to have hit it on the head!\nWomen are so busy fighting for equal rights and equal pay\nand more power to the Honey and put the Man in his place and\nwe want everything a Man has with the added benefits that we must get a little special treatment because we are Ladies?!\n\nHang on for a moment if you will....\nIf that ship decides to hit an iceberg are you going to demand to go first with the kids?!...we are supposed to be equal rights yes?\nWe apparently not. Do you see the argument..you wanted more and you got it but in order to get it we had to give up part of ourselves..Men, my Dear have made the sacrifice for the Ladies and have not been acknowledged at all. \nIs it not odd that more and more of the Husband /Wife team both hold jobs..kids don't get to interact with Mom or Dad and the traditional family structure has fallen away. \nThere are more and more single parent "Families-If you can call it that" these days and more divorces than ever before.\nChivalry has gone out the door and that includes manners, respect and BEING A MAN\nThese days it's nothing off a young man's mind to ask for an abortion or run away/divorce. It is easier for them to do it because society has gone that way and it is now acceptable and apparently women can deal with it because they are  " More Independent"\nYou see where this is going?\nOne more problem...Women confuse men to such a point that what you are left with is a gibbering idiot that doesn't know right for wrong and has no backbone of his own to make decisions nor behave anything that remotely resembles a man.\nI have no respect for a woman/lady that uses profanity to "express" herself, gets tattoo's all over, and has an overbearing nature.\nAt this point you are thinking that I am totally chauvinistic and belong in the dark ages with a club..well Madam if that is your idea then you belong with the Ill mannered uncivilized boneless chicken you call your "man".\n\nThank You for allowing me to bend your ear and good luck in your continual quest in finding this man you seem to be having difficulty in finding. \n\nShould you have any further questions feel free to contact me so that i may advance your aquaintance to the Legendary "Gentleman" and his ways.
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Looking over the definitions, both would be acceptable.  Celibate would be the one that would stand out since you are unmarried.\n\nBy the way CONTINENCE is the synomym for ABSTINENCE in regards to sexual activity.  \n\ncel‧i‧bate   Pronunciation[sel-uh-bit, -beyt]  –noun \n1. a person who abstains from sexual relations.  \n2. a person who remains unmarried, esp. for religious reasons.  \n–adjective 3. observing or pertaining to sexual abstention or a religious vow not to marry.  \n4. not married. \nhttp://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=celibate\n\n\ncon‧ti‧nence  Pronunciation[kon-tn-uhns] \n–noun 1. self-restraint or abstinence, esp. in regard to sexual activity; temperance; moderation.  \n2. Physiology. the ability to voluntarily control urinary and fecal discharge.  \nhttp://dictionary.reference.com/browse/continence
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I had a vasectomy 20 years ago. The anaesthetic ensures that it does not hurt while the procedure is being performed, but it does ache afterwards. Nothing too bad, but you'll know that you've had a vasectomyfor a few days, after which it will be fine and you and your partner will have no more worries about unwanted pregnancies. Do remember that vasectomy is a procedure which will almost certainly render you infertile for good, so consider whether you are likely to want any more children before having it done!
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Here's some important considerations:\n\nVasectomy reversal is associated with a pregnancy rate of 70-80% over a two year period when performed within 3 years of the vasectomy.\n\nCumulative pregnancy rates decline to less than 30% after 10 years of the initial vasectomy procedure.\n\nAbout 1 in 6 men over 35 have had a vasectomy.\n\nThere is term called "vasectomy regret".  Some factors are: age under 30, childless marriage, unstable relationship, pressure by partner to perform vasectomy, partner is unaware about vasectomy\n\n\nIt is not recommended for men under 25, but not for medical reasons.
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Here's the REAL story:  It is derived from the word "testes".  In ancient Roman society, a man would swear by his balls that he's telling the truth.  In other words, "You can cut 'em off if I'm lying!"
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Vasectomy doesn't affect the testosterone, because it is released in the blood. Vasectomy won't cut the blood supply to the testis, so don't worry about that!
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"I just dont want to be around them or any kids for that matter on a regular basis. "= your man has 3 kids. you are with the wrong person if you do not like kids "85 percent of the time".
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It doesn't work. I too vote for condoms, spermacide, the pill, and vasectomy.
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no, commitment issues have to do with men and relationships\n\n(I really don't know the answer but I hope you've got a smile on your face from my stupid joke!)
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THE PENIS - it's evil.
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There is no commitment in self-mutilation. Commitment is the bond that is between emotions and desires not anything physical.  Commitment  comes from within the person and disfiguring yourself will not strengthen any bond. For a lasting commitment just be honest and open to eachother and grow together within yourselves.
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Commitment.  Some women are afraid of it.  A married man very seldom divorces his wife for another, so it is a SAFE relationship for the women who wants no strings.  Just like women who marry men in prison for life and on death row.