What could be my BF's intention of telling me that his maid BJ him 6 wks. ago (before we became bf-gf)?
353351
one of two things, he either wants to be honest with you, or he wants you to go down on him
142550
If he hasn't told you I love you by now I would be wondering if this relationship is really boyfreind and girlfriend. He may not be looking for love right now. Since this has become an issue for you I would say this is going to be a dealbreaker. He will surprise you I am sure with his answer.
568103
If your planning on making it se serious with this guy. yeah you should tell him just for he knows you haven't been lieing about your past boyfriend if he hears them from someone else.
172241
Seems to me that she wants you herself. I think that you should not tell her. It's any of her business, unless you want her to know. Why would you sit and discuss the way you please your girl in bed? Thats invading privacy. Maybe she wants to join. If i was your girlfriend, and she asked you that, your friend would have some problems with me. That is disrespectful. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING. Respect your girl.
236311
talk to your bf, see his side of the story.....
769438
I wouldn't chalk up the quick to throw insult "Cause he's a loser." Obviously you see something in someone who you've been with 6 years. All guys, myself included, hide demons that we don't want exposed. Don't be pushy about it. Don't push him away. Give him space and talk it out with him. Say, "Hey, you know. I want things to be better. I want us to communicate a little better than we do." Don't freak him out by it. Just play it smooth. Surely there are things you hide from HIM as well. Maybe not the same types of things, but things nonetheless. Maybe in a past relationship he's cheated on his girlfriend and feels that if information like that was leaked, you'd trust him less. Us men have our hang-ups, too. We just explain them differently. Good luck, and I sincerely hope your situation gets better.
496814
Generaly is man`s play to pass abusive remarks at women`s dressing and physical features. But in your case I think the trust bond between you and your current boyfriend whith whom u r planning to tye a note is of most important. In fact this is the test of his trust in u. Next I feel you should be open to ur current B/f and tell the facts no matter if he loves u he will just ignore it and you will be even more close to each other. Yh going ahead with the legal rute is fine but it communication and clearity amoung your current relationship would be the best. As at the end of the day that`s what counts.
930879
you can't change the past, so you have got to think about ways to make the future work. try to see him again in a casual setting, one that will highlight what a "good" girl you are. don't mention what happened. he probably doesn't want to talk about it anymore than you do.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
329082
well dear.i dont know wether am givign u the right guidance or not1 i feel there is no need to tell him! past is past1 if he is a real good guy....why do u wanan loose him by reveling your past....virginity ia ll bull shit.this is all what people created......just go ahed buddy! be cool!dont tell him.........he will never come to know about that in life! carry on the way ur.....just be loyal to him here after.........may god bless u with good fortune!
446490
Just be straight with him.I've been in a similar situation before and my b/f was just happy that I was honest with him.He didn't get mad about the lie at all.Honesty is the best policy,no matter the consequences!
1141751
How old is your relationship?  If it's a fairly new relationship...you're not going to get absolute total honesty right away.  He's still tryiing to impress you and woo you and will lie (even little lies) not to hurt you or he will do so to impress you.  If this is the case and its a new relationship... just have a little patience and wait until this bumps up a notch in relationship intensity.  If this is a fairly mature relationship... just confront him with your concerns... not in a hateful accusatory way... but in a frank, I'm confused about this way.  The way he chooses to respond to you will hold the answer you seek.  Good luck
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
713997
If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
376502
If it is really don't put it here.\nhowever it's meand if be true deream, you hidden some thing  for your new boyfriend, you must be clear with he.\nEnd
150037
Calm down....Just cause your bf change his plans and does something else dosent mean he cheating. How can you sound more untrusting. I doubt he goes outta town without tellin you,im sure youknow why he goes. alot of times its a persons own thoughts that trigger insecure thoughts that causes striff and tension in relationships.  I have this same problem with my girl, she always thinks im cheating or doing something specfically to harm our relationship,like i wanna argue about things like that. Its ridiculous, I dont know if she wanna wardenize me or not, Itry to please her by telling her stuff but she complains I told her too late. Its not a problem cause I really like her and its not a big deal(as much) Sometimes you gotta choose your battles and deal with the good and the bad if you really like him/her if you generally know he not cheating. TRUST HIM ladylocks!!
344748
if he doesn't already know and he says she's his girlfriend ten something is already wrong. now if is an internet thing and he can be hurt in some way, then tell him