Excuses to get out of your friends after prom party because its going to be lame?
347775
Compromise, go for a little while, then leave.....That way you made an appearance for her, but didn't end up staying all night.\n\nAlso, just tell her the truth, that you also have other commitments/appearances to make at other parties you were invited to, and you don't want to be mean to anyone....If she's your friend, she should understand....GL;)
344813
how about"\n"let go to the prom together as friends only. nothing more."
1002497
First thing,  I would drop the lingo.  Speak proper English.  Worry about the dancing later.  If its a great party, girls wont really care.
1135800
If you've told them how you feel and they still insist on having people there that you don't really want, then there isn't much you can do.  You can try talking to them again and reminding them that this is your graduation party and you would appreciate it if they would respect your wishes - but that doesn't mean they will listen.\nIf you have to deal with the unwanted people then just do it - it will only be for the evening and it might not be so bad.  Maybe have a couple of your close friends sleep over that night that way you get some time to hang out with them alone.
1047758
You've got time, don't worry about it.  You'll be the one knocking them dead at prom or class reunions!
653363
Invite whoever the hell you want to! Don't let one person decide who you can't hang out with because she doesn't like many people...You sound like a very nice person and I think you should party with whoever you want to....Hate to say it but the friend who doesn't like many people...really doesn't seem to be doing much but trying to bring u down with her!! Be yourself and invite everyone lol...The more the merrier..No matter where or when.
600419
It's not just about apologizing, because it sounds like the problem is ongoing.  The apologizing part is the easy part, just suck it up, and say you're sorry.\n\nProblem is, from the way you describe it, you'll be doing the same thing in a week.  You have to figure out a way to be more responsible.  If you say you're going to be somewhere, be there.  If you're not sure if you can show, don't promise you will.  The biggest thing is to talk to your girlfriend.  Whether it's her fault or not, she is the reason you're disappointing people.  Mention, before you start hanging out, that you said you'd be at Bob's party, and invite her along.\n\nYou've got to find some way to stop disappointing your friends, otherwise you'll be apologizing every week, and soon they won't invite you any more.
549088
I graduated a few years ago but I didn't go to my Prom. If you don't think you will have a good time, there is no point in going. Why waste the money on something you don't want to do...
500504
Tell her since it is your party you need to be there and want to be there, but you also want to be with her. Tell her you can be with her either before or after the party or at another time and make a date for then. This is reasonable and if she is hurt its more likely that she just wants the attention of steering you away from your party. Not that she really wants to be with you.
717578
Bow out gracefully, stop paying for anything and leave them to each other.  Then go find some new friends.
220700
well get all of your other friends together, talk about it, see how they feel, if they're all for not talking to her again then you ALL go and say something to her.  If your friends still wanna talk to her, just ask why in the hell they still wanna be friends with such an annoying person.  Or just tell your friends "hey, im not talking to her anymore, but she will try and turn you guys against me, so don't let that happen"
1020752
clean yourself up and try to forget about it.\n\nand associate with a better class of people next time!
533049
Dont change any thing about your self, Fake people are the worst. Are you in School? If so things get dif. when you get out of it. Just try and keep the friends you got, and get involved in activites (not in school ones).
707427
well I'm not going to lie friends r supposed to be there 4 each other not make u feel bad. i wouldn't say leave them but tell them how u feel n if they don't change then move on to the pple who will accept u 4 who u r.
479772
Better start getting to know her now. Going up to a girl a few days before the prom probably won't work. First, she has to get her dress and all that shyt ready. Second, you make her feel like a loser asking her only a few days before and she may not want to go. Third, somebody else could beat you to it. ask her out on a regular date first. Don't make "the most important night of high school" (it's not, but that's what they say) be you're very first date. Break the freakin' ice NOW, for crying out loud.
412830
do you mean you are trying to write a letter to apologize for not inviting some of your friends to a party or something? well, first, there is no rule that says you have to invite all of your friends to everything anyway, and if they are mature,they should understand that. but if they have been offended, what ever you should say should be brief and sincere... there is an old adage that says 'least said, soonest mended' and it can be very true. if you only think they may have been offended, you may be better off leaving it alone unless they say something...they may really have no idea they weren't invited to something, or have thought nothing of it, and if you suddenly start apologizing, now they Will be thinking about it, and thinking you must have a guilty conscience, if you are apologizing.
363836
Not attending your prom because you feel that the temptation to "misbehave" will be too great is giving in to the worst sort of fear, fear of yourself.\n\nThe truth is that if you can't handle behaving yourself at prom, how can you ever hope to act when you're old enough to go out and rent a car, get drunk, and drive over people? See? Once you start drawing lines like that it's hard to stop until you're living locked up in your house.\n\nTemptation is a part of life for everyone, not just Christians. However, most of us are able to control ourselves. Have faith in *yourself* and have a good time.