What's the best recipie to heal a broken heart? help!?
344046
You were hurt, and you pushed him away. That can happen to anyone in your situation, but I agree that you should tell him how you feel. Don't drag it out. You should know where you stand and let him know where he stand with you. If it doesn't work out, you will have closer and the ability to love someone else. That may not necessarily be what you want to hear, but YES sweetie you can love again.
28320
well...natural remedies r the best....number one is REST...and plenty of chicken noodle soup!!!
1162950
What made you so down and out? \nNever mind it\nLiterally do just that, put your thoughts to yourself, and what you want tonight. Go buy some chocolate ice cream, and do what is the best medicine in the world. \nPut on your most favorite comfortable clothes, get out your cosmetics and give yourself a facial, pluck your excess stuff that you pluck , give your hair a conditioning treatment, pumice your feet, clip your nails and toenails, wrap a towel around your hair, turn on the radio or TV pick up the phone and call someone who cares, or watch a favorite love story DVD. And eat your ice cream.\nThen fall asleep on the couch and when you get up tomorrow, take a shower, and enjoy the look of the well taken care of woman you see in the mirror! Everyone else will see it too!
1105962
You may never get the 'flame' back, but you can definitely stoke the embers and have a nice hot bed of coals!!  Plan surprises... meals in your bedroom spread out on the bed, with foods that lend themselves to play ; pineapple, grapes, honey, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, etc...  or try dating again. If you have kids, shuffle them off to a neighbor or relative for the weekend,  and just have fun together. Play tourists and see your own town like you don't live there. Go out to eat at a restaurant you've never been to before. See a show, or just take a nice, slow walk together. BE together like you used to be when you didn't have kids or a busy life. Try some new lingerie. Make him a basket with new stuff  for the two of you to try together, like warming gels for massages, and toys to try if you are into that. Make a game with your egg timer and some homemade cards; have six small piles of homemade cards that have things on them such as "massage your partners back for 3 minutes" and may go up to any position or act you like. Put the easier, lighter stuff into pile one, and go up to pile six, which will have your "hottest" stuff in it. Roll one dice, and whatever number it lands on, choose a card from that pile and do what it says. Then it's the other persons turn.  The only rule is you CAN'T make love! ( We always end up making love anyway, coz you just can't stand it, but it's fun trying!)    The point is to spend quality time together, and just have fun again!  The rest should all fall right into place!  Good luck!
298714
eating healthy and appropriate  exercize    Remember this. A merry  heart does good like a medicine. Good luck and much wisdom.
406428
Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
622724
GO TO CHURCH.... EASIEST WAY TO GET SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO REBUILD THEIR LIFE ON A POSITIVE NOTE JUST LIKE YOU.... SOMEONE WHO DOESN;T WANT DRAMA WHO WANTS SOMEONE TO JUST LOVE THEM.... GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
717472
the best way to deal with love is to lay it on the line.  your heart is broken without him, you cant lose much more by telling him how you really feel.  i say honesty is the best policy and if he loves you too, hell take you back especially since its not because you did somethign stupid.  you just told him no, but realize your mistakes now.  tell him you love him - im sure he will be incredibly happy!
952410
I have had this happen to me, so i speak from personal experience.  When a guy has his heart broken, it is the worst feeling imaginable.  He feels lost, scared, alone, worthless, and completely shattered in body, heart, mind, and soul.  He is sure of almost nothing (although he often puts on a public persona to let people think that he is okay), when in reality, he is very sad and very down.  Depending on what happened, he may never take you back.........The heartbreak could have been more than he could bear.  For breaking his heart, you have lost his trust, as well..  You must rebuild this trust little by little, and you must show him that you will not break his heart again.  He must be convinced that his heart and soul is safe within yours , that his name is safe within your lips.  This will be very hard for you to accomplish............You must help to rebuild his heart, his soul, his mind, his confidence, his love, and his trust, among so many other things.  Give him a new (and true this time) sense of security.
945450
It depends on what caused the break up... But flowers and candy can patch just about anthing up. If it doesn't do it for you, just remember their are plenty of fish in the sea.
723691
Don't believe crying yourself to sleep at nights will help you to overcome a heart break. The first steps are to relax and spend some time with friends and family, not to mention going out and having some fun. These are all to take your mind off "the heart breaker". If that doesn't work, try meeting new people. The aim for all this is to open up your eyes, and allow yourself to see the truth. Which is that you are still a valuable person. Besides, look at it this way, you are not the one losing, he is. They are losing a unique individual.\n\nMy personal philosophy in life is that out of everything bad comes something good. Therefore, the bad thing in this situation is losing the person you love, hence ending up with a broken heart. However the good thing that will come out of it is that, with that person out of your life, you will meet someone new. Someone who will accept you and appreciate you for who you are.\n\nSo again, I'll ask, can one mend one's broken wings and learn to fly again? Sure you can. Love comes with a lot of risks so before falling, first consider the cost and weigh your feelings.
200157
At least you`ll be more relieve to try solving your brokenheart. Altough your hart still aching, your mind will opened wider to find the answer. If not now, maybe time will heal you.
615687
Don't know your circumstances but I will tell you what worked (eventually) for me. \n1. Pretend your ex has died. Sounds severe but forces you to forget about "getting back together".\n2. Make yourself absolutely un-available to the ex. Take comfort in knowing they will miss you. Be a mystery.\n3. Rid yourself (or at least attempt to) of your worst personal defect. Are you overweight? Any addictions? Unemployed? In debt? Pick one and do what it takes to fix it.\n4. Don't take heartbreak or the break-up too personal. I personally think testosterone (and estrogen)cause insanity.\n5. Remember this: You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.The rest is up to them. Go to link below for more like this.\n6. Above all, do something positive, for you.
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Replace your comfort food with veggies, fruits or poultry  that you have ready in your fridge for times like that.\nThat helps me and my hubby a lot a lot:) sometimes we all want  to eat 'something' make that something available immediately be something that is good for you.:)
43267
stay single for at least six months, clear your head, learn to love yourself again and don't blame youself for this. she obviously wasnt worth her weight in beans. time heals all wounds. hard to believe right now, but it's true. write a song about it!
129554
Do exactly that cry and get it out, talk about for a while. Only time heals a broken heart.