Would you do it if your 18-year-old girlfriend ask you to have 3-some?
341894
umm well ok.\n\nfirst off if she wants a 3-some, you'd better talk to her about it. if you feel uncomfy in the idea thata  friend or even your sister are in the same bed together then she should understand, and if you dont like the idea then id simply tell her how weird it makes you feel and such.\n\nif she really wants to, then i would try to find someone you'd feel comfy with. like your sister would probably make you feel pretty creeped out and such. so mabie a good friend of hers or yours? \n\nand its alright if you all do 'that' together. just be comfy with it, who its with, and use protection so you dont get teh second gal prednat or your girfriend. ^__- and make sure there 'of legal age' or they can press charges if they get pregnant.\n\nother than that i see no real problem with it. most men would probably be running with joy over the idea that there gal wants a 3-some ^___________-
84336
I would strongly challenge the 18-year-old (or older) who would even talk with you, other than standard polite social acknowledgement.  Someone who would provide mentorship is an obvious exception, but that is not how I understand the nature of the question.  Since this question is in the "Love and Romance" category, it is obvious that something more would ultimately be sought from such contacts from one or both of the peoplpe involved.  I would challenge the older person regarding his or her mental state, morals and ethics, primary relationships, and boundary issues, as well as remind him or her that any intimate action could verily easily be legally argued as statuatory rape.  With all due respect to Diva4167, I would also be concerned about the younger person's primary relationships, as well as the fact that people of that age can be very fickle.  Someone who can seem to be very special one day can seem horrible the next, because he or she is acting perfectly normally, but not within a set of ideals.  16 is the age to drive, 18 is the age of majority, and 21 is the legal drinking age.  Those are the boundaries that this society has set, and there are consequences for blurring them.  The difference between 24 and 28 is four years, but the difference between 14 and 18 is a lifetime.  Live *your* life.  Be well.\n\nAlso, I would challenge why you felt it necessary to ask essentially the same question five times within a two-hour period.  If you were an 18-year-old asking about a 22-year-old, I would be concerned about how he would react to your attention span.  If you are serious about this, please just pose the question once, review the answers, and be done with it.  Be well.
764668
well i don't like 3sums i think that its wrong cuz you should have 1 lover and that's all. but hey that's my opinion, uhmm so yeah but if i was in your situation i would do what you were going to do trust them first then talk to them about it. well yeah Peace Out
1137926
If you're 22 you're able to start living on your own, so if you want to live with your girlfriend do so.
575395
as long as she doesn't think you're too old, then no.  When my husband and I met, I was 18 and he was almost 27.  At the time I was impressed with how much more mature he was than the guys my own age.
865080
I wouldn't mind. I'd think it would be cute. As to trying touching her while she is sleeping, hell no! That is crude and mean, and taking advantage of someone; I would never do that to anyone, especially not my girlfriend. (She did fall asleep once on my shoulder, and I didnt do anything...)
20887
Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
1116518
love... im fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. we've been dating for almost four months now and never once has he asked me to or pressured me to have sex with him. actually i was the one who brought it up but he said he wanted to wait. i said that's fine with me. we love each other so much and i know he's the one for me and he feels the same way about me. i would do anything for him. there's nothing wrong with a 17 year old boy and a 14 year old girl together. the age difference isn't that much and it is said that women mature faster than men. i love having a mature boyfriend. unlike the other boys my age. mabey he feels like the other girls are way too mature for him and he wants to actually go out and have fun instead of always being bitched at lol. too much drama with 17 year old girls
412321
Your girlfriend needs treatment and it is probably too much for you to handle to be in a relationship like this (you didnt say your age).
700687
my gf likes porn\n\narent you kinda young to be living with a 22 yr old?
916973
ask them if they would ever threesome in general, if they like the idea then mention you and your girl want to try one but need a thrid person.
261101
No dear, you obviously should not : especially when there is such a LARGE age difference involved.\nBy the way, are you SURE about you gf's 'real' age ? Girls often lie about theirs - and she could actually be all of 9 years old. That would be REAL bad, no ?!\n:-))
428172
sure do,but only if you are at least 18
222422
Well, how do you think she would feel about it...If she wouldn't mind, then I don't see why not...It would be interesting and a unique experience for the both of you...Just worry about having fun,that's what it's really about.
433096
If they are not around the same age as you then no you shouldn't, if they are adults then they just want to use you.\n\nIf they are in your age group only go out with one at a time and only if you really like him.
293720
According to her stiffing you on the date, and her reaction to asking about it, I say it's a no-win situation.  It could definitely happen with someone half your age, but I don't see it happening any time soon.  Girls at 18 are still just girls, regardless of how grown they think they are.  Younger guys are more apt to deal with this sort of behavior, because it's a younger people-type problem.  \nI won't shame you for going after a young woman, as you seem to at least have your head on straight, which I have come to find is STILL somewhat rare in men, even up to age 60 (I could be wrong, but you made it sound good)!  But I think you'd be better off to deal with someone closer to your age, even mid-twenties.  Why?  I'm 24, and I'm gaining a preference for men in their mid-thirties, though I do find people who impress me at younger ages, and older men who still disgust me with their antics.  \nI think it's probably best that you let her deal with her peer pressure and peer group mingling, and move on to greener pastures, lest you drive yourself crazy and find out I was right several months later  ;-)\n\nGood luck to you  :-)
13650
I'm 30 and I guess I would. It seems harmless enough to get paid for. But, it depends on how the question came up. If I'd never talked to you before and you came up to me out of the blue and asked, I might ask something just as weird like "only if you'll touch yourself while sniffing my feet" But that would only happen if you are a hot 22 to 35 year old.