My pal,in prison,doing wife{fine tight,white}should I feel the need to cover for others who she's doing?
352783
Well, you're going to get stabbed.
1063463
From what I hear. People get raped in prison for being either too overly aggressive or too timid. THere is a fine line one draws when entering prison and that is to be yourself. Don't mind other peoples business and no one will mind yours. If you act out all tough like you're a gangster, people will put you in your place. If you are timid and easily bullied or frightened, they'll treat you like a bit*ch. I think the best way to act is simply mind yourself. stand up when you need to but for the most part, lay low.
99767
you should if she is really your friend , but take in consideration would she have your back if that hapened to you , if she is a good freind i would tell her who snitched cause  no real friends likes people hiding things from them.
991996
spousal privelege...although that may be a criminal court thing, i would certainly check in to it because in most cases a wife can't be made to testify against her husband.
246121
It appears you do not have a problem getting in her pants after another man has already been there . ooh now that should really make you feel like a man.Sloppy seconds.So what makes you any better than her you up tight jerk.Oh boo hoo someone else has touched her now I feel awful. That is until you really got to touch her yourself .You were not so dissatisfied with her while she was playing with Mr Happy down there were you??? Get over your self for You are now used goods your self and are worse than her because you have a problem with her doing exactly what you yourself did to her. Grow up loser.Harsh words for a preacher yet if you are going to judge her for what you are doing pay back is hard to swallow sometimes.
688190
That's a tough philosophical question.  It's akin to this situation:  Your neighbor regularly beats his wife, and you know about you. One day you bring it up to her, and she insists "Yes, he beats me, but I love him and I probably deserve it."  What is your moral duty?  To leave her to live her life as she chooses, or to decide that she is unable to make that choice, and call the cops.  If that situation doesn't ring your bell, how about a freind who is addicted to drugs?  Do you force him into rehab with the thought that your judgement is better than his, or leave him to live his life as he chooses?  It gets quickly into the idea that one person or group of people are better able to decide how another group should live, or how they should act. Now, saying it like that, it sounds horrible, and an automatic reaction is "Nobody can judge better than anyone else-nobody should tell another person how to live"...but if the exact opposite of that statement were not true, could we live together?  We make these sorts of judgements all the time, in the name of law- Drugs are illegal, prostitution is illegal, various religions decide what is right and wrong, we personally intercede in our family's and freind's lives, even when they don't ask for it...\nHow you answer those questions will in large part determine whether or not the US should impose freedom and democracy on people, even when they profess to not want it.
800859
Lewd acts in prison are normally exposing thierself to a staff member of the opposite sex,  obsene sexual jestures toward any staff member.,\nsex by yourself if caught by a staff member.\n\nNormally sex with another inmate would be a different more seroious charge.\n\nIf he was actually charged with it, not merely written up,  write ups can take away good time, but not give you more time,  actual new convictions of criminal action can give you more time.
373235
Hell NO!  I have a very close member of my family in prison for a crime that he did not commit, I would not want him fighting over there, it is hard enough to stay alive in prison!
475334
Are you sure you want to put yourself in that situation. It doesn't really sound like a start to a healthy relationship.  Why is he in jail? Does the reason he is in there bother you at all?
788655
Worry.\n\nWhat type of respect is she expecting for herself with a picture like that posted in the first place. She obviously thought about whether or not she wanted it posted and decided to do it. She is advertising herself to perfect strangers for whatever reason she came up with for doing it.\n\nI am sure she had a good explanation for it, did she not?\n\nShe is also showing no respect for you, her husband.\n\nThink about it.
1082727
nobody offered me anything when I was raped.  I feel bad that she had to learn the hard way about the dangers of the business she is is, and I don't think that you worded your question well, considering the victim charged way less for her body.  If they did it, they should be punished.  She has a right to a fair trial, and I'm glad she is exercising her rights.  It doesn't surprise me that they are trying to buy her off.  And most importantly, it doesn't matter what they call you, the racism isn't the worst part,  And they call us white girls nasty hateful names when they rape us, too.  Be careful about using this poor woman's story to make a point.  To her, and others, it's not just a story
628024
You did nothing wrong, and should never feel guilty about what happened. I know someone who had sexual contact with a child, and they received the treatment they needed in prison to allow them to lead a semi-normal healthy life once again. If you expose your victimizer, you will be doing them a favor. They are actually suffering inside as well. But, for you to have full "closure" in your life...you need to forgive, let go, and move on.
29670
I don't think so. Trust me, she's hiding something or a lot of  things. When you hide things from other people, volunteering free information becomes a liability. You shouldn't have to ask anyone for information about themselves; they should give it away freely or give you at least a general answer, or turn it around on you or start a dialog.
465428
I'd take the community service...at least your doing something to make up for what you did wrong.  Prison for 5 whole days?      That's not punishment...that's acting research isn't it?  She'll make all those teary-eyed TV appearances when she gets out, and admit she has problems, blah blah blah.  Been there done that...move it along lady.
910542
I am afraid that the legal system does not do well with excuses eve seamingly legitimate ones. An obligation is an obligation in the eyes of the law. All too often released inmates will put on a front to those who would be the most simpathetic and come to their defense when the long arm of the law reaches for them. If he truely cared for his family as you say then he would have made the time to do what he was supposed to do for their sake. I have no doubt that there are those who do reform their lives after prison/jail but htey are few and far between. Don't be taken in by a false front, there will be less disapointment when the truth is finally revealed. If your first reachtion to this is "Oh, he wouldn't do that," then it is already too late. \n\nDon't get me wrong, I'm not saying that he isn't a good person, but the patern is there in your own question. Sometime good people lose their way and can't seem to find it again. The best of luck.
197167
Hello:\n\nI gather from your question that you have somebody close to you who is in jail.  Call the Captain.  Be polite.  If you don't get him, call again, and again.  You must be agressive about your friend, while at the same time not being over the top.\n\nJailers will treat an inmate differently if they know he has outside support.  Good for you.\n\nexcon
962604
Good luck!It's not gonna happen,the prison won't tell you if the person is in there.They cannot give out that type of information.They will assume you are trying to help the person break out or are after the person for some type of vendetta.