What do you guys think about a woman who asks the guy out or is forward about being interested?
347334
I like it, as I'm shy and this removes the need to put myself forward.
639704
I'm soo old fashion when it comes to relationships. I def. think the guy should make the first move....I dont' feel as though I should be making most of the phone calls or asking him out! If a man is interested in me he would show it. \n(And yall MEN know this:)
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
379811
Well I'm a female, and I'll be the first to admit that women can and do send mixed signals.  Sorry!  I personally find that  tYpe liKe ThIs to be extremely annoying, but then again, maybe  she thinks it's playful.  Sounds like you are on her mind right now, who knows why.  If you want it to be more (again) then respond.  If you are over her, then be polite but don't get engaged in it.
395941
I would stop asking her.... You asked her once which let her know that you were interested.  Now the ball is in her court, maybe she wants time to think about it.  I wouldn't act any different twords her, I would just not ask her out again.  At least for a while.
431193
Hell no! It takes the pressure off of US to decide if she's interested or not.\n\nBesides, how often do guys get to do the first rejection? Not very.... ROFL
644664
Perhaps the first initial thought of having a relationship with you didn't appeal to her because she had never given it much thought before.  But now that you've brought the idea to her attention, she's given it more thought and maybe she's decided that you're a great guy and she'd like to give it a chance.  Sounds to me like she's definately interested.
110173
Let's say I were interested in you: I'd probably stare at you a bit, and then when I finally work up the courage to talk to you, I'd sit down and have a little chat (note that my eyes are constantly staring into yours). I smile a little bit more, and I ask a lot of things about you. I laugh at your jokes, even if it's lame. If you apologize about the joke telling me IT IS lame, I'd disagree and convince you I really like the joke (this is for us guys to show that we are interested). Finally, I'd ask if you'd like to have lunch with me (this is to find out more about you) and I carry on from there...
841851
Yes, up to a point but just don't get to aggressive. It can get weird if a woman becomes too pushy. But yes it does fell nice when a woman does show that she is interested enough in you to make some moves of her own.
1055890
Well a lot depends on the type of personality he has in my opinion as far as how things will go next. From the way you explain things it definately sounds like he is interested. The question really becomes is he arrogant, confident, shy, intimidated... etc. These things will predict how he next acts. \n\nI for one am a more shy type of guy, and easily intimidated by women I don't know well. I guess I lack a certain confidence level. So, in my case, it might take me longer to use that number until I felt assured Iw ouldn't be making an idiot of myself.\n\nMy friend however if much more confident to the level of being slightly arrogent. He would have no problem calling you, but would need to fit you in his schedule. Seeing that you would be around each other at work often, there would be no need to call to maintain your intetest, just to make the date.\n\nWell I hope this helps... just my opinion...
389884
Honey that's great! In the world of tease with no please it's great for a guys self esteme to have a cutie ask him out and if he accepts then Oh so cool, but if he rejects then let it go and don't worry, this ol' hippie thinks that is sexy. So go get em'
912687
I'd guess she thinks you're a sweet guy and actually does like you.  If you're interested in her, there's no harm in asking her on a date.  Just be sure she realizes its a date and not friends hanging out.
1183562
Maybe she is a deep person who takes a lot of things into concideration befour she makes any kind of commitment so why not give her a little shove in the right direction try asking her face to face if she would like to go for a meal or the pics or on a nice long walk to a picnic site or what ever her interest maybe that way you have time alone and she may open up to you i think you have to make the first move as she may also like the chase either way you will get to know how she feels about you if she says no to any of the above then i think you have your answer good luck  ps  most women like a man to make the first move it makes her feel more like a woman and she will see that you are a real man
598500
Hey, I definitely think she likes you. In my opinion, a woman does not come on to a man just for a tip...I don't think she would want to lead on someone she didn't like...Why don't you ask her to dinner some night? What is the worst that can happen? I mean if she does say no, oh well...But you will never know the answer until you try. I doubt you want to go on wondering!!! I honestly think that she digs you, and she is waiting for you to ask her out.\nPlease treat her like a lady...I would ask her to dinner, and then get her number...That is what a true gentleman would do. Asking for her number straight out screams player.   She will wonder if you will be serious about calling her. If you try and set a date right away, she will know that you are probably serious. I say go for it sweetie. If she turns you down its her loss. Good luck!
58361
It's really easy for a girl to ask a guy out.  I'm a guy, I would know.  I've never turned a girl down.  Women are observative, and will go with their intuitions when it comes to men.  They can decide in ten seconds whether they'd like a guy or not.  Men always want to see where things could go.  The answer will be yes, believe me.  The way I would ask would just be something like, "Hey, do you want to get together and do something sometime?"  Make it really vague.  The answer WILL be yes.  Now, the ball's in your court.  Make him pick what and where.  Good luck.
711548
Heck no.  In this day and age women DO ask out men they are interested in. Also, if you don't let a man know that you are interested he may be too shy to ask you out.  Let him know how you feel - ask him out. But you have to understand that in asking a man out you may face disappointment if he says no.  If that happens just accept it and move on.
692733
No, not necessarily. It can be part of normal conversation, especially if the question is coming from a woman because women tend to talk like that. The clincher is, however, the manner in which she asks it. Has she been flirting with you already? When she asks it does she seem like she wants to know because she may be interested herself? does she lean in when she talks to you? all of the above could be signs she is interested in you and that is why she wants to know -- for herself. But if a woman just asks you it in an ordinary way between other regular conversation, I'm sorry but it means nothing and she is just trying to fill in conversation. Good luck.