is it wrong for a man to want to be with a man?
349203
uhhh they can do what ever they want as long as there happy
154914
Yes.  Every one has different needs.  The entire point of having a relationship is having these needs met.  Women want to talk and cuddle and be intimate, and men want a completely different set of things.  Some people are just simply incompatible.  Relationships are about give and take, 50/50 BOTH ways.  If your needs aren't being met, you cannot be happy in the long run.
224000
No.. It ain't wrong at all...!!! See, maybe U just passed through this experience because U were confussed, maybe when U started going out with other man U didn't know what U wanted, and U had the opportunity and then U didn't give yourself the chance to get to know a girl to see if it can work out.\nThe only inconvenient I see here, is that U could hurt this girl if she likes U so much or she loves U, maybe if U talk to her about your problem she will accept to see if things can work between U.\nBut try to establish first what U want, and then... try to find out if U can change your preferences and have a straight life.
1087185
No its not wrong... unless you have a wife who's telling ya its wrong.... lol
105985
Are you truly attracted to him or do you just feel the need to have a man? I find it kind of odd that you do not wish to even physically kiss him (a sign of physical attraction) yet you feel the need to make love to him when he is not around. Maybe you need to look deeper and find what you truly seek.
128896
This is a curious topic really. Men ponder the same thing and feel the same way. Most would rather be with “someone” then the right person. I believe that the big issue is that people seem to forget that dating is when you should be getting to know that potential person better. Too many people seem to take on dating like it is a commitment. The only time it should become a commitment is when each person makes that conscience (and verbal) decision with one another.\n\nOne big pitfall that I have found though… everyone changes with time. Some change for the better, some for the worse. It takes a lot of work to keep any relationship working and requires the willingness of both parties. If one is “out to lunch” there is little hope.\n\nHope this isn’t too opinionated but if so, remember it's just mine ;)\n~CLO
468285
It is wrong for you. If you are going to love him, you must love him like a brother. That means, you will be happy for him, when he falls in love with the man of his dreams. It means you will go with them to pick out their drapes, they will drop you off at your place and drive home, just the two of them.
363158
alright hun obviously there is something going on within your present relationship that has you wanting this other man. But even if there is a man's best friend is a subject YOU BETTER BE PREPARED TO TACKLE IF YOU PERSUE. Because like the saying goes, girlfriends and boyfriends come and go, but a best friend last forever. They've known each other longer than you and trust me from experience they will turn on you. I lost a good man at that time because i persued his best friend. Hun, unless you can deal with the consequences, back off and let him come to you if he feels the same way. If he doesn't then you have your answer and accept it. But if u feel u need to know go for it, but be prepared for what comes down the road
84625
I want my man to treat me with respect and courtesy.  I want my man to love and care about me the way the I would care and love him.  I want my man to do for me all the things that I would do for him and I would just want to have a 50/50 relationship for give and take.  No relationship is perfect and no man or woman is perfect but I would expect my man to take me with all my flaws and all my good things as I would do the same.
402137
I say no, because I refuse to see it any other way. I believe if a woman is being who she needs to be for her man and vice versa for husband that shouldn't come up or if they're are problems the relationship needs to be open and strong enough for your spouse to come to you w/ any issues. Am I right or wrong?
365007
Sleeper_grrl has the right attitude.  If you want a good relationship, then you should be able to talk with the guy.  If you can't talk to a man about what he feels, then he is not someone you want a long term relationship with.
684272
Okay... it's only wrong depending on how low you go...(In Age). but I look for older men, because they are more mature and self sufficient. So no, its not wrong.
1085031
est relationships are partnerships of two.  Heck, it's hard at times to make a relationship between two people work.  Adding another person (in whatever aspect) will complicate things.  It's your call I guess, but actions have consequences. I say no if you really value what you and your man has.  You might be ok with it and he might be ok with it, but what about that other woman.  Usually when people try threesomes, somebody usually ends out in the cold….  And things get unpleasant.
610922
the feeling is not always right. sometimes that feeling means you have an infatuation, and infatuations can be with many bad men. be careful!!
667571
Sounds to me like part of you wants male companionship but deep down inside you want a lesbian relationship.  Can you not find a balance and have male friends and female lovers?  I have had kind of the same experience when I was younger and had to find a healthy balance.  Sometimes we just want to be with males because it is what is "expected" of us.  Spend some time with your thoughts and feelings and be honest with yourself to find the answers!
314514
No, it's not right.  Not if hetero couples are not punished in the same way.\n\nIf you haven't already, consult a lawyer.
941493
Your hurt is very understandable.You can't allways know what the other person is doing in a relationship and this is where trust comes in.We all want to trust someone and not have to think about what may happen if they do go astray.Not all men are this way.Some of us would love to meet someone that feels the same way and would respect a bond between 2 people.Maybe you are attracting this type of person.Look at where you have met these men and see if there is any connection as to the locations.I'm not suggesting that you hang out in the wrong places but maybe the men you meet are there for the purpose of finding women.Just a thought.