what are some ways a person can be generous, caring and outgoing,  without being taken for granted?
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Pard, if you unzip your fly enough (figuratively, of course), there's always the risk of getting something caught.\n\nIf you're too cautious, you become unapproachable.\n\nIt eventually becomes clear if the people your reaching out to accept sincerely.\n\nSeek ground.  Seek balance. If you can help somebody, great.  If you cannot, leave it alone.
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Be nice and sincere, don't gossip negative about others, be polite to those you might have a lot in common with, stand up for what you believe in, and don't be mean to others.  Look for the best in people.
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Do nice things for him and do things that he likes to do - without expecting anything in return.  He will come around!
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being caring and nice
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Give freely of yourself and love those around  you.
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I believe that I am a kind person.  A long time ago, my grandmother taught me that you should treat people the way you want to be treated...No matter what they do to you...kindness is a state of mind..not just single random acts.  IF you are always concerned with the feelings of others, you can't fail being kind.
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People possess many good characteristcs or traits, such as being trustworthy and attentive to your needs.\n\nIf the words can't be changed, let me know. I'll ajust my answer. You didn't specify.
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Being a nice, friendly person can make you "loved". Also, being there for people even when nobody else is will make them "love" you because you were supportive. Helping people that are total jerks to you sometimes, that can win people over.\n\nBeing loved well? It's not an easy thing to do, and not everybody will love you, after all, there are some real jerks out there.\nI know you can be a quality person that shares your love for others and recieves love in return if you try. Take care of yourself too.\nAloha,\nDavid
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You have to get out of the negative talk in you head that keeps you feeling self conscious.\n\nThe best way to do this is to do something selflessly for someone else. Go volunteer at a soup kitchen, or at a hospital, put change in someone’s expired meter without them knowing, go volunteer at head start , do at least  3 selfless acts a day, with no concern of how you will benefit and or gain from it and I promise you will begin to feel better about your self. \n\nAlso do something nice for yourself at least once a week, paint you r nails, get a facial, and take a relaxing bath, what ever you like. \n\nThe best way to feel good about your self is to give, give to other, give to yourself, and you will begin to receive all the confidence and self worth that you need and more!!
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Why does this questions imply that people are just "average"?  Everyone has a special quality that makes them - different.  However, to answer your question more directly - qualities that are special that enhance an individual's character are respectfulness, consideration, being able to understand others, and not taking anything for granted.  Particularly allowing others to take oneself for granted.
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personality, sense of humor, caring, and the ability to provide.
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Learn about yourself. We all have special gifts and talents that we can share with others. Celebrate yours. If you have flaws that you think you can change, take steps to change them. Choose to be ok with what you cannot change. \n\nEvery day, take little steps to appreciate being alive. Yesterday, I saw a pretty painted piece of wood, I had a lovely conversation with my neighbor and I had a tasty piece of bbq chicken. Look for your little joys.  Smile and say hello to everyone you see. Make it a point to go out and find people to be near. \n\nLove and be kind to yourself.
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Bring them up to be kind, considerate and not to judge others.
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First, be honest with yourself about what you can do, and communicate that honesty to others.  Speak only when you have something to contribute.  Listen, really listen to what others are saying.  Volunteer, but actually carry through with what you have volunteered to do.  Never get mad.  Make sure you have an attainable goal.
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I was told that acceptance of other people, things and yourself make you a happier person.  Do something that you genuinely love and helping other people in need are also helpful.
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Be yourself. Don't pretend that you don't care or anything else. Take it as it comes, and be sincere.
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go volunteer at a homeless shelter.\nor meals on wheels..or a salvation army or a nursing home..if you give yourself for things that you can do to help...even if it's just your ear...you may find a whole new perspective on things.  i really don't understand your question though, 'cause why wouldn't you already be humble already?  i guess i think this is a weird question to ask and not add details.