i think that my best friend andrew is bi and he likes me but how can i tell, what are some signs?
351319
get him drunk and unzip your pants. ball is in his court then.
613087
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
1055277
you've been friends for more than 8 yrs. If he's gay he would have sex with you already!! Sometimes there's a fine line being good friend and being in a relationship. Perhaps he doesn't even know how to express his friendship towards you. He wants to be grateful to you yet do not want to mislead you into thinking he wanted a relationship cause he is not gay. We are brought up with heterosexual mentality and define male as musculine and female as feminine. It confuse the heck out of straight guys how to handle their frienship with their gay men's friend. Especially those who have close frienship. I believe some of them do cross the line of sex. Which would make the situation worse. He is appreciative of your frienship and I bet he knows you are into him. In his mind he's probably thinking should he sleep with you to show his appreciation and betray his own sexuality? As for you I would not be so quick to invest that much emotion into that direction. Yes, I know it's very difficult and very tempting. Ultimately you have to protect yourself from heartbreak and more important to preserve your friendship with him. One of this days he's gonna fall hard for a girl and you gonna need to tear yourself off him emotionally.
1141092
I think only he knows for sure but i`d say he is probably bisexual since he was once married.  Here is a few lines from an interview with him that more or less indicates that he is bisexual.\n\nHave you ever felt yourself sexually attracted to a man? \nSure! (Laughs) Musically I don’t fit into a box, and my image is pretty ambiguous too I think. I’m definitely not trying to hide anything and I know it’s confusing for people who want to put a label on me. I believe in love and that’s it. \n\nSo could you fall in love with a man? \nErm sure. I am totally looking for the right person. \n\nRead the full interview at this address.\n\nhttp://www.darrenhayesnet.com/axm_interview_darren_hayes_2004.html\n\n\nHope this helps
476200
i understand where you're coming from because i am sort of going through the same thing. he gives signs that he may feel the same way i do but i want to know for sure. i'm afraid to ask him because if he does'nt feel the same way things may get ackward between us and i dont want that. i think that you should give little signs that you like him so that way if he likes you and realizes you feel the same way you can take things to the next level.
421455
well he might know that your bi, and he might just think your freaky or wierd, or he might be scared of you,that might be why he's looking at you.
1081165
he's bi, its that simple, no shame in that\n\nbi is fun, that many more choices in who you date,
699998
its kinda hard to say.. i would suggest you become good friends with him first and then ask him if he likes you. good luck!
671590
There has to be a mutual agreement among friends. I have lots of strait friends some do attract me, however there is that mutual agreement that I'm bi and there strait so i would never act on those feelings out of respect. If a mutual agreement has not been established you and your friends need to do that in a nice way without hurting each other. Set boundaries. True friends will respect each others feelings. The bi girls should understand this more that any one.
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
708857
Well, you should be able to tell whether you have feelings for ted just by being his friend.. if you really like Justin that's a way to do it without hurting either one of them. BUT, life is too short to be with someone while wanting to be with someone else.. and no offense, but you sound young and if that's the case, you shouldn't be serious about just one guy.. play the field...most importantly.. find out who you are and what you want before you make any major decisions...do you even know if ted likes you? just have fun, enjoy life while you can, and don't hurt anyone unless its unavoidable- hope this helped
311206
There's no sure indicator. Guys are all different. But if all of a sudden he acts different around you, then he's got a reason. Best way to find out would be to ask one of his friends.
969562
This is a very tough situation, so please handle it with care.  First thing is, does he have a girlfriend, or something that he is currently seeing?  If he does, please do not make a move because it could jeopardize your friendship completely.  Second, you say you haven't spent a lot of time together until a few months ago, why is that, if you have known him for years?  I think if you are seeing more of him recently, you should just try subtle hints and see how he reacts... ie touching his arms more, flirting a little.  If the subtle hints do not work, you can just try being honest with him.  If he is your best guy friend, he will appreciate your honesty, and will respect you for it.
260773
It's a feeling. but there are signs, and they're hard to recognize as such. How enthusiastic is he when he says hi?\nListen to everything he says, about you. Does he tell you his dreams? The things he wants to do? Does he tell you how \nyou could be involved in doing them? Maybe you know the answer,  but you don't realize it. Give in to your feelings. If you feel like doing something when with him, that you don't normally do, do it. Does he spend most of his time thinking about you? Does he treat you like a kid sister? It's possible he wants to be more than friends. He likely knows that freindship comes first and wants to accept the einevitable progress. Resistence is futile.
127172
There is always a risk in this situation and only you can decide if it is worth it.  One way to get a hint about your best friends feelings might be to joke with them about the idea or claim you heard someone talking who thought you two were together.  Maybe what they say from there will open up a dialog that will give you a chance to figure things out.
51615
PLEASE! For the sake of embarrassment, DON'T ASK HIM!! If he's still in the closet, he'll only get angry, and you'll lose any chance of ever finding out. Instead of asking him, just put yourself out there if you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Do you have any close friends at work who may be friends with him also? They may be able to find out in some mysterious way. My best friend is a gay male, and he just recently came out over the summer of 2005. He's going through the same thing right now. It's tough, but hang in there. You just need to build your confidence, and the rest will come! Best of luck!
299173
my best guy friend is gay