ryan is with another girl so what do i  do so i can stop them cause i really love them?
336346
I'd like to wish you luck, no matter what you do.  However, Ryan being with another girl isn't the end of the world!  Don't push him into doing anything, rather let him choose.  Just because this guy is with someone else doesn't mean that you don't have a chance.  Be patient.  Love has an odd way with people, and either Ryan could fall in love with you through friendship, or you could fall out of love with him once you realize he's not going to be with you.  There are too many other variables to help you beyond that.  Take your time, be patient, don't do anything rash, and don't 'stop' them.  You can either be there for him, or let him go, regardless of who he's with.  That's love.\n\nI hope this helps.  Feel free to message me if this isn't sufficient.
708672
maybe if you arent the shy type tell the girl that got made fun of that it wasnt you who made fun of her and that you told her that you told the other guy to shutup. trust me a girl likes the feeling that she is being protected like that. and for the other girl that you like like. i think you should tell her your real feelings for her.hope it helps
841896
I went through something similiar to this and I put my foot down and told my boyfriend to either stop talking with her or I was history.  He stopped immediately and things are great now.  Sometimes you just have to lay down the law or they will keep doing stupid things because you allow them to get away with it.  Good Luck.
389668
Been there, This girl after 4 years i almost call her by name to the other girl oh i going to hate that day. But until i guess she love me. Look getting over a loved one we don't we just learn to live with it. Try to pacth things up maybe you can save what ya'll had or still do.
704274
Stay out of their business.  They have a child together and this is what they should concentrate on.  You shouldn't even be concerned if they get along or not, because you are only the girlfriend.
553261
I dont think that you should try to split them up or anything. It sounds corny but if u are meant to be together then you wont need to do anything. Their relationship will end naturally and u and this girl will be free to date without worrying about bad karma. If she really likes u that much, she will end the present relationship herself anyway (but dont push her into doin so!)
99028
I'm in that same situation myself.  I have yet to find a way to let the other guy down easily.  I just keep putting it off in hopes that he will get the idea.  I care about both of them, but one  of them has my heart.  If you get a good answer to this question please let me know.  I need the advice myself.
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
607806
It sounds like they both need to grow up.  They are putting you in the middle of something that is between them.  Neither of them should be punishing you because you like the other.  That just isn't right.  You have the right to like whomever you please.  You all just need to sit down and talk about how you can all get along, or how each of them can have seperate time with you.  What they are doing is totally unfair to you.
164206
talk to them and tell them hey i really like him and he likes me so can you stop
434941
This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
98805
Ignore her friend and just focus on the one you love. You control your life. And whoever loves you can't do anything about it if you don't love them so just ignore them and focus on the one you really love. However, you can't also do anything about it if she also doesn't love you.
562059
Be firm with them. Set clear boundaries and let them know that you do not wish those boundaries to be crossed.\n\nIf they cross those boundaries, then remove yourself from their presence. Terminate relationship with them if needed.\n\nCordially,\nJohn
468843
grow up. ditch them both. enjoy your high school days...im sure any guy would want to be with you if you are freaky...lol
286950
I'd sit them down and tell them what you thought. ( Make sure you tell them that you mean no offense for whatever it is that you're going to say first.) Tell them that you don't like what this guy is doing to her. Try and figure out exactly why it is that she's acting like that, it could be that she's trying to change for him or she may feel that she's better then everyone else now that she's with him.If it's the first then tell her that she doesn't need to or should act like that for anyone. If it's the other then you should make it clear to her that being with this guy doesn't make her any better, she still is who she is and being with someone, no matter who it is, doesn't make a difference. If you have to you could also try talking to her boyfriend see what he thinks.
561668
There's not much you can honey...if they do split it's for reasons that your not old enough to help with...all you can is be there for both of them and don't be naughty...they will always love you if they're together or not...
586193
you cant.  You cant help who you fall in love with.  You can try to stop liking them but you can never stop loving them