if you had a friend that lied to you but needed you what would you do?
336704
ask them why they lied - and then.......do what you feel is right.
394216
I wouldn't take her back as a friend. Excuses or no excuse, if she was a real friend she wouldn't have ditched you last minute and would have suggested an alternative. If she had a problem with the dress why didn't she pull you aside and say, "Hey, think we can shop around more or have it made?" And even if you did offer her those suggestions, she could have said something. Friends should be able to communicate without holding back. It's not your fault she was insecure. About spreading those lies...Girl, Im sure your other friends knew she was lying. Back to her though...she has no right talking about you and saying such things. \n\nThere would be no other option in my opinion. I would clearly never talk to her again. Deep down she knows it was shitty(excuse my language) to do that to her "Best friend" and even then, you have to think maybe you werent her best friend at all. Like I said, friends dont do that to other friends especially best friends.
1125963
well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
140466
i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
191270
go to the teachers, principle, guide counsel any of them will help just tell them what is going on and they should help they helped me lot till i was lied on that way and they didnt believe me when i told them the truth and i got kick out but they will help u if the others stay in trouble cause the gurl who lied on me was like me never in trouble so please get help from them before your Friend gets in trouble\n\nplease keep me informed
724933
Maybe you can talk to him and try and get him to tell you what he did without telling him what you did.For example: tell him you did something and it's really bothering you...He'll most likely say what...Tell him I rather not say..Say I don't know have you ever done something wrong and wish you didn't.If he says no keep the questions going..Like you never done anything you regreted or you never done anything your ashamed of.If he tells you then tell him your feelings on the matter. And make him promise he'll never do it again...Tell him he can go to jail.He'll most likely want to hear what your problem is and make up something say you lied to a friend and you want to be an honest friend one who is trust worthy.Technically it's true because your not coming out and telling him the truth about what you found out
41663
My answer is actually a question for you:\n\nIS IT WORTH POSSIBLY LOSING FRIENDSHIP OVER A GIRL WHO IS LYING TO YOU BOTH?\n\nYou said this is your BEST FRIEND. Remember that.\n\nGood luck.
1066974
okay, I'm not the best person to ask but, i personally think you should do something that would let your friend(s) see what he is doing is bad. Or you could catch him doing something wrong, and if those are your real friends, tell them and they should believe you.
183880
tell her she has no right telling you what to do,\na true friend would respect that
336319
you'll have to fess up and be prepared for him to be mad and walk away.  you shouldn't have lied.
824007
probaley made up my friend
940992
Just tell her it was a rumor, and that she should not be mad at you. If she's a good friend, she will understand.  Rumors get started and can spiral out of control, unless you take care of them early on.
982572
Ask your friend to help you.
741538
-if she is truely youur friend I am quite sure she has noticed that you haven't been you in the recent.If you feel the need to tell her you are sorry for the way you have been treatiing heer than do so and if not don't.  Just cut it out and be yourself to your frieend and not the imposter you were.Your friend will be there for you and glad you havee solved your problem
1000347
It might be over simplifying, but I'd say your friend is looking for some attention.  Something may be seriously lacking in her life that she feels the need to lay something like this on her friends.  I wouldn't end the friendship for her lies, look to what need might make her pull something like this.  Know that once she actually started this lie in motion, she may not know how to go about getting out of it.\n\nIf you believe that she is truly your friend, the best course of action may be to just let it slide.  Don't bring it up, don't give it any more credence when she does, just nod and change the subject.  If it turns out to be true, you can say you didn't want to talk about it because it hurt, but if it really isn't true, then she will be grateful to let the whole thing drop.\n\nThe bottom line is do you care enough for her to let this go?  Or would you get some sort of satisfaction out of calling her on it and making her life hell?  Young people do stupid things sometimes, along these lines, and it shouldn't have to be something they pay severely for.\n\nYou might never do something this stupid, but I'm sure that you have other shortcomings - and you can't expect anyone in your life to forgive yours if you're not willing to forgive theirs.\n\nAre you really friends?  Weigh your options.  and good luck.
32931
Only time can heal that wound. =)\n\nBut you are a liar. And I'm a liar. And she's a liar. Everybody at one point in their life has lied.\n\nMake you have have said sorry. And don't ponder on it!
260362
she is going to be hurt but you know what she has to know the truth and if you are a true friend nothin should stop you from telling her the truth. Girl she needs to know big time if she doesn't believe you then you'll just have to let her find out on her own thats not the best way but just try to tell her.