I am eight months pregnant and my vaginal entrance is tight. How do i make sex less painful?
344964
Use a lubricant and find a position that is comfy. Its normal, dont worry!
873844
Well I have the same prob, but not having sex anymore (lol). When I was having sex the vaginal sponge helped. It made sex way more comfortable. It still might be a good idea for her to get checked out. Good luck ~Rosanne~
1010467
First of all you should'nt be having "rough sex" in your condition. Secondly go to your Ob/Gyn immediately.
447873
Hmm i'd get another opinion but it sounds to me as though your baby may just be ready to enter the world. Labour pains feel much like period cramps just much weaker. Try some tradiotnal forms of dilating including intercourse. If youre worried seek more advice but im sure you and baby are just fine...good luck...
600373
If a woman is a virgin they are already tight but if you meant to say if they aren't virgins, yes then kegel exercises will make it tighter!! I have had 4 chidren and my husband says i am tighter now than i was years ago. I guess all those years of practicing the kegels while i was pregnant paid off and i do them all the time now without realizing i am doing them!
302784
first of all how far along are u and have you told your parents?If so the first thing you need to do is keep your cool if you stress you could lose the baby then u need to work on eating habits try to eat healthier and i wouldn't try to have sex unless it's approved by  your doctor okay
1064094
Talk to her about it.  Let her know you just want to try it.  Tell her you'll go slow, use lots of lubricant, and if she says stop - promise you'll stop.  Also, if pain is an issue - try using anal beads.  They slowly get larger to get her opening used to something larger going into it.  Maybe if you try anal beads she'll see that it can feel good and she'll want to try..
896360
It doesn't always hurt, but it did for me. You really just need to relax, and use a little bit of lubricant to make it easier to slide in there. Also, take some ibuprofen before to help with the pain you might have.
122278
try using a little ambesol or oragel to numb the area then yank that baby out. Do it fast like a band-aid
554528
CONDOM!! lots of lubricant, very very slowly...and bottle of hard liquer!\n\nas a follow up, I'm a girl and I love it...but it does take some getting used to (and alcohol eases the pain the first few times) Oh, and don't get carried away...remember that it DOES hurt-badly and if you mess up and get too into it it may be your first and last time.
116842
If you want to tighten up, do kegel exercises.  I have provided a link below that explains.
357238
Try some lubrication lotion or  baby oil
1036132
I would suggest using lube..and maybe you being on top so you can control how deep the penetration is...\n\nYou may bleed, but don't be scared..it is normal, but you might want to let him know that so it doesnt freak him out..but yeah I'd say use plenty of lube..and you on top for control..or him on top but let him know how far he can go..it might be a little painful the first few times...\n\nBut most of all...MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY!! make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it and NOT becuase you are being pressured..
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What you need to know:\nUnless your health care provider advises you otherwise, sex during pregnancy is safe for you and the baby. The baby is protected by the amniotic fluid in the womb and by your abdomen.\n\nSome women with high-risk pregnancies are advised to avoid intercourse during pregnancy. Your health care provider will tell you if you have a high-risk pregnancy.\n\nWhat you can do:\nIf you are concerned, ask your health care provider if it’s okay to have sex.\n\nTalk to your partner about each of your needs and concerns in an open and loving way. If you work together, you can probably figure out how to put a smile on each other’s face.\n\nPositions that work before pregnancy and early in pregnancy can be uncomfortable or even unsafe at later stages of the baby’s development. For example, a woman should avoid lying flat on her back after the fourth month of pregnancy, because the weight of the growing uterus puts pressure on major blood vessels. Fortunately, there are alternatives to the traditional missionary position, such as lying sideways or having the woman on top.\n\nWhen It's Not Safe\n\nIf you engage in oral sex, your partner should not blow air into your vagina. Blowing air can cause an air embolism (a blockage of a blood vessel by an air bubble), which can be potentially fatal for mother and child.
722001
This is called a Charlie horse. Pregnant women often experience it. What you need to do is reach out and grab your toes, pull them toward your stomach keeping your leg straight until it goes away. If you can't reach have someone else (ie husband) do it for you or use a towel that you will have to keep beside your bed. Hope it gets better soon!
763693
Before I read that you'd had two children I was going to say that no woman has a vagina so crooked that entry isn't possible - think how much it has to expand to accomodate a baby - and I was going to ask whether you're properly lubricated. A pillow under the hips can help; so can woman-on-top. \n\nHowever - two children? I wonder whether you had a badly-sewn episiotomy. Sometimes the perineum (that's the bit between the vagina and the anus) will tear during delivery; sometimes this happens naturally, but it can be done by obstetricians and there's a fair number of women doctors who are concerned that the procedure isn't done thoughtfully and - particularly - that the tear gets sewn up clumsily leaving a deformation. I'd take yourself off to a female gynaecologist (if you can ask around and find one who's got something of a reputation as a feminist, so much the better) and ask to be examined and whether the damage can be repaired; it often can. \n\nI hope that helps.
212415
I think if you poke it through like every one says, that will work. Also remember you can't get a vacuum pregnant, so next time there is no need to use a condom. Unless your vacuum has aids.