what are women expect from a man on the first date?
351673
good conversation to see if there is more then a sexual vibe going on. fun, laughter a little shyness in between. it's a first date it shouldn't be too much drama going on. plus it depends on who the couple is, like if they've known each other for the longest or just met you know?
271108
Come on people tell the truth. Girls also like to kiss on the first date. Because if that doesn't occur, they'll be sitting around all weekend wondering if you guys found them desirable.
412846
first impression lasts..don't ever forget that..\n\nso, be nice and be light with conversations..then, add a bit of humor and smartness when you talk...be sensible...when things went well...continue to be a friend...then go for the kill by being sweet, caring, open minded, exciting and a bit mysterious...be a guy who's willing to get into a relationship without losing the thrill of making us think what's going on in your mind..\n\nway to go...good luck!
47152
He, he, he.\n\nBecause guys want what they can't have. And as much as they say they want you, they also want to respect you (even if they don't think they do) which is why there is such a double-standard persisting in society, even in this supposedly advanced world we live in today. If a girl is intuitively ready to have sex on the first date, how many more mornings after actually happen? Generally, women are not permitted to enjoy sex as freely and openly as men, and so you're up against not just his desire for you on the first date, but also the whole of humanity as you ponder, tonight or the next?\n\nLet him put in an inch, and then he'll want to unleash a mile...you've got to hold out, because generally that means he'll stick around, growing more curious and enticed than ever before because there's a mystery about you, an air that you carry that he's forced to keep sniffing out until finally, you give in... Keep in mind this applies only if you're into this sort of thing. Women can be just as ruthless and incisive as men when it comes to getting laid. Which is great, since women, like men, should be taught to love (and respect!) sex too.\n\nI guess it all depends on what both your motives are. Do want to be chased? Or do you want to be chewed up? That is the question...
43594
There are a lot of really bad things that could happen on a first date.  The worst thing?  I don't know . . . if your date died, maybe?  That would just about top them all.  The worst experience I had on a first date was pretty mild.  It was a blind date and we went to a dance and when the song "Fantastic Voyage" came on, he started jumping like a pogo stick -- that was his idea of dancing. *eyeroll*
1010144
I don't know your culture - here this would happen at the first date without any meaning at all.\n\nGreetings from Switzerland
1004195
Don't try too hard, be yourself and your date will feel more relaxed and not as if you're trying out a stand-up comedy show on him. Be mannerly, use body language to your advantage. Subtle mirroring of your date can make them more attracted to you as "we like people that are like ourselves." Eye contact- but not so much that your date feels stared out. Have a positive attitude about the datm not like "this one better last as the others haven't been successful" but more of a cool attitude: "if it works it works, if not, there's somebody else out there for me...." Be interested in your date, but don'e annoy them with too many questions. Don't be over-enthusiastic about what your date enjoys as this could be intimidating. Don't move too fast, its okay not to kiss etc on the first date as you're only getting to know the person, go with your instincts, not the so-called "rules" of dating as they are made for ppl who are too afraid to be spontaneous. Be YOU more than anything, and best wishes with it! :)
431578
First dates for the young and innocent (assuming those still exist) usually work best at the movies. Depending on the movie (Comedy works best) you can laugh together, have something to talk about after the movie, and not be uncomfortable in silence (you are in a movie!)
250716
Well, it depends upon the situation whether you'd want to or not.  I can tell you that out of most dates and stuff, I would never kiss on the first date.  Heck, on 2 first dates, I gave the handshake; once because I was sick and the other because I just felt like it.  What did it get me?  It got them to like me and want me more.  It left them with something to be desired.  If you try to rush things for the sake of rushing, you're going to ruin things.  What makes someone desirable is good timing and knowing when not to give too much.  Too much of something or something that's too soon can ruin the whole effect and make something special bland.\n\nThe same could be said about seeing someone.  If you try to see them everyday too soon, you're going to get sick of them.  If you get someone clingy, you're going to get sick of them.  Having the right timing is right.  Since this looks like your first date or something, I suggest that you would pace yourself.  Don't fall head over heals too soon.  Relax and keep yourself busy with school and other stuff.  Chill with your friends.  Avoid talking and referring to her too much, because you'll over analyze stuff and end up thinking too hard and second guessing yourself.\n\nMost of all, have fun.  If there's anything to be gained from this experience is that you could learn how to kiss better and have more self-composure about dating women.
160499
Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
577885
What you're kidding right???....You have got to know that this is one of the most romantic things that a man can do for a woman, and to have a man do this on a first date is almost totally unbelievable....There will definitely be another date, and another, and another, and another...
542562
Hi, here to help. First of all, I believe you are encouraging the behaviour a little. You are not completely to blame, but you are encouraging it. This is gonna sound old school, but really you should think about the old saying telling people that they should not kiss on the first date. And this is true.\n  When you kiss on the first date, or even have sex, etc. it makes you appear a little bit easy. Although guys will definitely not argue with the kiss or the sex, they still like to see a girl give them a little bit of a challenge. When you do these things on a first date, you are leaving little to the imagination. Waiting makes the heart grow fonder or something like that, is a very true statement. It is the excitement of the anticipation of waiting.\n  Personally, the first date is very awkward. It is meant for getting to know the person, and seeing if you would like to date this person for a second time. When you kiss, it leads to other things...You sound young, and if I am right, the guys that you are dating are young as well. Believe me, all guys of any age will try things when they kiss you. However, you are in control. You do not have to let the guy feel you up. You can gently place their hands back down on their sides. And if they ask why, you have the right to say you are not ready for that....And you can say this at any age too! I have done that.\n But really, I think you should not be kissing on the first date. Just try and wait, and when you have that first kiss with that special someone it will be more than worth the wait. I am sure a lot of people will not agree with me on kissing on the first date. But it does make you appear more of a lady to the man. I have gotten much more respect when I did not kiss someone on the first date. Usually after the kissing comes other things so in my mind you might as well just wait and enjoy the part of getting to know one another.\n  Love comes with getting to know someone. Unfortunately guys are not like women and are not overly emotional right away. It takes time for a guy to love. They do like the physical aspect first. Take your time girl because you have plenty of it.\n  I have kissed on the first date, and honestly, those are the guys that have not worked out...I don't know and I can't speak for everyone. But I also know that I have enjoyed the anticipation of waiting for the first kiss...\n Good luck!
853175
"Hey.  I know you're about to move but I've had my eye on you and I wanted to know if you would like to get together after work for some drinks and maybe dinner?"  I would love for a woman to be that straight forward with me instead of beating around the bush with stupid signals like staring and laughing.  That stuff is garbage, ladies.  Men want you to say what's on your mind.
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
366781
I'll be honest.  For a first date, looks are very important.  I mean, the first thing you know about a person is whether or not they are physically appealing.  Whether the guy has a good personalilty determines if he gets a second date.
150375
Sweet.\n\nI understand that women are a little sassy initially because they get approached so much.  Once I get past that shield, there is often a very sweet woman underneath, and that sweetness is what really melts my heart.  Once you're out on a date, you should be way beyond that point of ball-busting; now it should be more about building trust and comfort.
699388
I would prefer an arm around me at the movies. Because if you are holding hands, the guys usually start sweating. It makes a girl feel comfortable to lean on him (in your case, you) and it makes us girls feel safe and protected with her man holding her. Do you get what I mean??? Well good luck. I am so far guessing this is your first date. I hope everything goes well.