ihave new frind i like we are over40how to let him know how do i know he is free we do not talk too personal.?
348642
Life is short. Just ask him, even a friend would not abandon you after that question.\nBring it up in a discussion.\nPlease do not mention that you love him. \nNot at first anyway.
300364
Just say, "I make enough to be comfortable".  \n\nMy grandfather taught me it was rude to inquire about financial status, unless of course you were courting the man, then ask away.
574733
you know you should, but I won't tell you, friends usually change the story a little, you don't have to SAY it, just give him a sign, but you are just avoiding the real answer and you know it!
478826
find a nice way to tell het that s what friends are for
958789
Don't. Just be yourself. Explain if he brings it up. We are all the center of our own universes, but he'd be pretty un-observant if he doesn't notice the way you are with your friends.
836627
Thank you for your maturity on this subject.\nYour wants are describing the "FRIENDS" part of FTF.. There is nothing wrong with actually being friends.\n- a little communication never hurt anyone; be honest and just tell him.\nYou simply want to move from your concept of one night stand to friendship with benefits.. He's probably already in tune with that.\n- good luck
139484
Take him somewhere privately and discuss about your relationship and ask him if he is. If he is let him freely go his way because obviously you are not his type but just in a friendly way, and if not let him know that he is doing things that are giving you the idea that he is and maybe he will change his ways.
600842
Approach him and find out if he's doing anything after work. You dont' need to be classy about it just don't be the opposite.
107337
Ask him if he knows any nice guys that he can introduce you to? If he introduces himself you,your home free.
1067903
No, he is your friend! Next time just tell him to share.
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.
391166
You are young and have not been with him that long; if he is going home with you for break you should let them get to know him before you break the news to them. If he is not going home with you maybe spend as much time as possible talking about him (within reason) so they feel they are getting to know him through you. After you've done this you could say something like "I really love XXXXX a lot. We have many things in common, he treats me well and I could not be happier. WE would like your blessing to get engaged".\n\nTHis makes them feel that you respect them enough to get their opinion on the matter and makes you come off as mature and reliable.
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I think you should be his friend.  Which means saying hello when you see him and smiling and, if you want, asking him to sit next to you.\n\nand if he doesn't respond in a similar fashion, then try not to take it personally, yet continue to be friendly.\n\nDon't get bogged down by the details.
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if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
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take a look at your relationship: how long have you been friends, how has you understanding of eachother expanded, how is both of our love lives going, etc. you may want to start out with, "_____, how long have we been friends?" its a casual question, but then go deeper "do you ever wonder if this friendship will ever go anywhere than 'just friends'?" and you'll get a feel of how he reacts, and even though you may rehearse what you are going to say infront of the mirror, when you look at him , you'll know exactly the words to say...hopefully i've helped
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Simply go up and tell him. If you have a friend tell him, it will get twisted around. He'll appreciate it more if you are open and just tell him. :)
107645
I personally would be who you are...when you want to ask him to go to a place to hang out...just be casual-calm-cool-collective-confidence is the key. Guys get turned on like that...and than when your on the phone call for not chatting but casually seek him out...to what are his plans  towards the end of the weekend/like Thursday call. Guys really don't like many plans only because they are more comfortable knowing your willing to just hang out at any given time...\nPretend that you have things you can do if he says "No" that it's not counting on him for your fun! Believe me he will think your interesting this way...speak high of yourself, when he makes a comment say I already knew this about me but thanks for the compliment.Be supportive when he seems stressed, relate to a experiance you had in your time that would relieve him in to trusting you more as this person of love that you say-but seek out those times and listen then bring input-guys love this when you show some wealth to their ego when they are hurting or happy say what you love about him but not in a mushy way...sincere straight honest truth about who they are to you-people love to hear about themselves a lot...when your close the better it gets!\nMuch luck!-Tina