why do women make the new man in their lives pay for what the other men have done to them before .?
348331
They still feel the pain so they have to blame someone even though they didnt always do it. Sad but true even though you didnt do anything too her she might hurt you just to make herself happy.
399486
they treat the new wives better because they know that they screwed up the first time and don't want to have to pay for another divorce!
344707
For the same reason that men like you wind up with those kind of women. It's your fault that you wound up with someone like that not every other womans fault.
457101
Are you saying that if someone wanted to "rent" a chick for an hour, day, or week they would just have to give your company a call?\n\nWell who are going to protect the women after they leave your presence?  Who is gonna prevent them men/women who rent from taking advantage.\n\nThe idea is okay cause sometimes I want to rent a guy to take out the trash and clean up dog poo.\n\nBut if you send the women out you'll have to send someone else to protect them.\n\nI think that men would jump all over this, but most (not all) would assume that something sexual was going to happen, that's the downfall in this idea.\n\nI hope it works out for you.
1147945
because some women are immature enough to think that they can change a man. You obviously hooked up with someone who has some disillusions
431936
I think the problem is that there are so many easy girls that men do not appreciate true ladies.  Then, Men complain when the easy girls take advantage of them.  Duh, What did they think was going to happen? Additionally, with the easy girls they do not have to put any effort into it.  Men need to be reminded that to acquire anything of great value requires an effort on their part.
797619
Been going on for a long time.  It happens on the mens side too though.  You know, the tall, good looking guy gets to stud the bigger, beautifull girl blaa, blaa blaa.... \n\nMen know they are being manipulated.. they don't care as long as it doesn't effect their rice bowl (money) and threaten a divorce by their wife, which costs them (money).. so your observations are correct and true.\n\nCan you play the same game... no... you don't have it in you.  YOur too smart for that game.  When the sheit hits the fan in life or business your the type the management will draw on or your family will depend on... don't fall for that mainpulative style... it is short lived as once their beauty is gone.. it all goes away and they are left in the dust to be bitter old bitches as the men won't jump like they used too as another pretty face will move in..\n\nyour smart... honest... and observent... and probably good in many other ways, .. so that too me makes a perfect gal.  A manipulative gal, I can pick her out right away and I stay away... no time for games for me.
921197
I am a girl but I still wonder that often. I am guessing it is because they live in the fantacy that they can change the man for the better...just a thought though.
75969
First, it is a stupid rip off. If someone doesn't believe me try picking up a stripper after she leaves and she isn't looking for your money. With that said. \nI know of 3 reasons: \n1. I have only gone because of bachelor parties and it is the thing to do. I normally keep my money to myself.\n2. Some guys get lonely. Some contact is better than none. And it might as well be by a naked woman.\nand 3. Some guys are not happy with their wives. And some of the wives I have met of guys I know that go to them ... let's just say that these wives had either let themselves go or are not really adventerous enough to keep the guy interested. (Don't get me wrong, I think the guy should work at it too and it is not left totally on the woman.) \n\nBut hey those are the 3 best answers to bet on.
9898
Because after getting a man or woman to provide them with all these thing, especially when they get all this without helping out in building up a relationship , they believe they can find some other fool to give them better. And alot of the time they are right. But check back with these pathetic souls a little later in life and you will find them lonely and alone. But they still end of with a substantial amount of money and security from the previous marriages. Not a bad gamble on they're part. I really think they plan it before they ever go on a date and smarten up guys, they DO. Just like when you were a teenager thinking about one day settlling down with someone and giving them everything, these leeches were planning on their first divorce and how much they're gonna get. The secret is to never give a girl or guy every thing they want unless they are truly giving you every thing YOU want and please guys (and girls) want more than to spoil a full grown eventually blown partner into telling you those faithful words.... I'm not happy. Make them WORK for your love to. Watch out
178240
That is not so anymore. There are alot of women who pay alimony and child support.  I was one of those women.  I had a terrible pregnacy and my other children stayed with my mom for a while and the courts ordered me to pay child support and when I got behind because of just having a baby they threatned to lock me up.  I know several other women who have had to pay too....so only men paying is a thing of the past!!!
80845
Its happening since the ancient times.Guys love to rule and control their gals while they enjoy everything.Its not fair.
391006
because they are not real men.They want you to feel like you can have no one else but them.Insecurity.But you can do better.
517846
Most of the time it has to do with the fact that they had a poor male role model growing up. Often going after the same type of man they know well in their life.  It is sad, but breakable, woman just have to want it to be different and realize when it is happening. They need to recognize the triggers and check themselves so they don't repeat poor choices in men.
633692
Some men and women have been hurt by someone else so they figure they will do into you before you do them . As adults games or and should be left behind. They will never change.......
894817
I never allowed a girl to pay for ANY expense on ANY date I ever asked her on.  Not once from my first date to the dates I ask my wife on today after 26 years of marriage.  I cannot believe that there are guys who have been so poorly raised that they expect a girl to EVER pay for anything on a date.  In fact when I met my wife she said that was the first thing that impressed her about me.  The fact that I treated her like a lady.  I opened the car door for her (not when it was moving). I let her go through doors first, I pulled her chair out when we ate at a restaurant, I always paid for meals, movie tickets, ice cream etc...  She said that she had rarely been out with a guy that knew how to treat a girl right.  Most guys she had been asked out by were a$$holes that had no understanding at all about chivalry.    She had been raised to expect guys to treat her like a lady and I was raised to treat girls like ladies.  We were a match made in heaven.  Now after 26 years of blissful marriage I STILL open the car door for her EVERY TIME we go in the car.  I still stand up when she enters the room, I still pay for dates, open doors for her, pull out her chair in restaurants, and treat her like we are on our first date.  Maybe, that's why we.ve been married longer than about 90% of all people in the United States.
1017729
Good question - some do it because they feel most things in their life they cant control. some because they think it is part of being a real man. some because they hate themselves and feel weak. and I am guessing there are many more reasons. Many years ago most men where brought up this way. Times were different and women were more like slaves then mates but times have changed and women are more equal so this says that things are improving and with saying that and in time things will continue to change so people learn to respect other people regardless of their sex or anything else for that matter.