how can i marry someone who luv me and her parents refuse?
351330
IF she's old enough then she doesn't need the consent of her parents.  HOwever, i think you should still try to get their approval so that you will have good relationship with your in-laws.  If they  refuse you, keep trying.  They will eventually realize that you really love their daughter, for doing all that..
792539
get married first and then tell ur parents , atleast I did that because I didnt want any caos in my marriage, if u love him marry him otherwise u will remember him often
1023716
If you love each other, then marry each other, of course if you are old enough.  \n\nIf have found in my own life that any man I brought home, my parents found something wrong.  They simply want the best for their children.  Go with your heart.
439689
Well after you get married what are they going ot do, refuse to like him still? Do what you wan't and marry who you love. This might be more of a case where you should look at your relationship with your folks and why would they not wan't you to marry the one you love.
691306
You do need to have a long talk with her first.  You can't keep putting youself out there only for her to reject you because of her parents.  She's an adult.  She can make her own decisions.  How does SHE feel?  You have obviously made an effort to better yourself so she'd be dumb to reject you again.\n\nAs far as the proposal goes...take her to do something your both like to do... hiking, travel to a destination...something...choose your moment and pop the question.
878399
Wise? No. Love is never wise. Love is madness.\n\nIf he can tolerate and respect your religion, and you can tollerate his, it's all good. The one thing you DONT want to do is convert to his. I know that would give your relationship more understanding, but that would KILL your parents. \n\nIf he asks you to convert to be w/ him, dump him. YOU certainly aren't asking something so drastic of him, why should he care?\n\nAs for parents, if they're very conservative, it won't be pretty, but if it's a very serious relationship, then don't worry about it. Parents usually come around for things like weddings! I would, however, make it clear to my parents that I had no intention of deserting my own customs and beliefs. And that the man I was dating understood that as well and was not making moves to convert me!
798403
Im also from india and im muslim. First you must be sure that the girl likes you back and you must tell her. If your families are very strict about their religion it will be very hard wed and live a happy life with one another. If not, then let her meet your parents. They will grow to like her. You must tell your mom because will find out one way or another if you marry her. It's almost like all the indian movies where the couple elopes or something and they are always thinking about their parents.
1017387
that happend to me..mine is an arabic construction worker so they accused him of wanting to marry me for his papers (which he had before he knew me) and he would beat me, make me cover my body, all this crazy stuff.... u guys have true love like me and him we stuck it out and got married and are so happy now my parents still dont approve..they like him cuz he treats me like a princess but they cant get past his ethnic background and what they believe all foreign ppl are like..it sucks but if u guys truly love each other i know u can make it..it sounds like u have what it takes..just stick to ur guns and dont let them change ur opinion of him.
277348
I would like to get married. It would be my second marriage, but the first was such a strange one, I can barely remember it. (I didn't know that guy very well.) Here's my humble advice about marriage: Wait until it gets really "hot". And, along with that, don't marry someone because your parents think you should or because he has the right qualifications. Marry him because you can't live without him otherwise, because you simply "can't" imagine life without him. Good luck. I think it's a noble aspiration and a worthy goal in life.
100456
You can't marry somone you don't love.Trust your heart.I think you already know the answer.good luck
973504
My prediction is,  She will marry who ever her parents tell her too.  And live a very happy life with her new husband,  You should find somebody else that is not already sold .
661231
marry the one you love. my wife is a sikh and i am a englishman and she had the same problem with her family.  the guy you dont know will treat you like trash so dont do it. stand your ground the world is changing be yourself and do what you want.
192440
If she's willing to marry you, forget what the parents say. Go elope and move far from them.
965496
you should ask them for thier blessing and if they refuse then that is something that u will have to deal with if u love your fiance and she loves you then thats all u need talk to your family and let them know that it bothers u and your fiance and that they need to fiqure out how to control that and if they dont have anything nice to say then not to say anything at all and whether they like it or not u love her and she loves u and u to are getting married and u will not come around if they are going to keep treating her that way and u really dont want that because they are your family and u love them too. i hope this helps u.
931812
If you love him then marry him if he asks. Your and his parents shouldn't have any influence on you love for each other. If his mother doesn't like you thats her loss. When you marry someone it's just between you that person and God nobody else has anything to do with it. \nMy husband's mother didn't like me before we got married, we dated for 3 years before we got married and that whole three years was miserable when we where around each other, it's gotten better now that she's realized that he is no longer her baby boy, but a grown man and has his own life. Stay with him if you love him and things will eventually get better, just let her know that you aren't a threat to her and kill her with kindness. Good luck, and prayers.
606493
First of all, religious differences are a major concern. If his religion forbids marrying out, you won't have a happy marriage as far as his parents go... Take that into SERIOUS consideration.\n\nNow the way he treats you, I mean, I know you love him but he really doesn't seem that interested in you. Why would he want to wait for five years? He thinks his parents will somehow approve of you in five years and now they just can't see the situation clearly?\n\nSend me a private message if you want to discuss this further. Just give this some really serious thought, marriage is forever and the last thing you need is a divorce a few months after getting married AFTER waiting years and years!
1104931
Okay it all depends, do you love her, are yall gonna get married, if she supports u more than ur parents then go for it. Besides, ur gona have to leave the house at some point in ur life to have ur own life and be a man. And yea u took a risk, cuz u never know wat the future holds and u guys could breakup, but point is u left the house as ur own man with a life, and ur parents should cut the cord and accept ur decisions. Its time to make ur own decisions and they should do no more than say okay. Its understandable why they said what they said. My fiance and i been living together for awhile, we have a son and every decision we make is for the best for him, and we are HAPPY. So if our family dont approve, then they are losing out, we never told them to divorce or leave anyone they were with or else. But u should try to contact them a couple of more times, try to talk to them if theyll listen, but it sounds like they just wont let go, but both parties should consider each other and why they feel the way they do. IF you and ur girl are happy then great. this has nothing to do with ur girlfriend, its between u and them, and this can make ur relationship with ur gf and parents stronger if yall make a final decision of the end result. i.e. mom and dad are gonna do this, my gf and i are gonna do that, the end. Just remember they all love you.