I am in love with a gay man who has never had a relationship with a woman can he ever feel the same for me?
349294
Does he know your gay?If not tell him and let him know how you feel.
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
339234
Forget about it, be his/her best friend instead. Gay is gay, you will never be really loved in return and it only leads to unhappiness.\nGo out and find someone else - it sounds trivial, but in time it works.
584203
In love? Doubtful, although you may be very attracted to him. Ask yourself these questions to determine how strongly you feel about him. Does he occupy your mind more often than not? Do you feel miserable when you don't hear from him at least three times a day? Does your day feel empty, or mundane, but brightens up instantly when you see or hear from him? When you're with him, do you feel warm and relaxed?I'm sure that there are some other questions that the ladies may think of... so I'll leave that up to them. But my belief is that while you can be attracted to somebody, it takes more than a week to love them.
184666
do you love him? or are you angry?..Was he gay to begin with of just in the closet?.. None of that matters really of course. If you like the friendship, but can't handle "gay" part (I'm guessing he's bi) Then you have some options. One you need to dtermine what kind of sexual behavior he exibits. Destructive? Thats when he'll do anything with anyone anywhere. If this is the case I'd get out, get checked and walk away. If he has a regular long term lover then you may be able to keep the relationship if you can deal with that side of him.. Personaly (as a bisexual) I will NEVER understand why people who are bi (and they know it going in) are not honest about it. I don't keep secrets with lovers. It's amazing how many women are just fine with that.. You can even find a permanant relationships where every one knows everything. But where I live there are litterally tens of thousands of married men who are bisexual living secret lives, destructive lives at that. They put everything they suppossedly car about at risk and thats not right.\n  Now youhave to decide weatehr or not you want to keep on going with this person or not. My own situation is BiPoly. bisexual+polyamorus (I'll wait while you look that up)..Everything is like a marriage of sorts between like minded people. Maybe thats for you if he's mongamous with his male lover and monogamous with you. Guess that would be duomonogamy. But you get my drift. For gay and bisexual males its rare to have these types of relationships. Socienty has forced them into the alleys and closets so its been a catch as catch can situation. By forcing it into the blue area it has gaurenteed anonamous stranger sex is a given. . But this is changing and more things are out in the open. It would be nice if everyone could just be open and honest with out fear of retribution, but that is not how it has been. Being suppressed is like slavory. you do what you have to do to be free wen you can be.
194714
tell him how you feel.  don't ask for any answers, and don't expect any, but do let him know, and that way the invitation for him to address his feelings for you will be open to him.  i have to question if you are sure you are in love with him?  being in love is like nothing else in the world.  it isn't just the feeling of euphoria at being in a new relationship, it's the understanding that you would literally lay your life on the line for that person, that they are your best friend, lover, confidant, and partner in life.  it's the only feeling that will ever grow no matter how long you are together.  be sure of this before you say anything to "K".  I wish you luck and happiness.
128066
How curious are you? Enough to sleep with a woman to find out what it feels like? I guarantee you that once you taste what it's like to be in a womans arms you will never want to be with a man ever again. A womans essence is unforgettable! If you like sports or games try looking on the internet for gatherings for Gay and Lesbians. \nI wish you the best of luck!
766481
He's gay... you can love him, but I doubt you'll get much love in return... :-)
304948
I think it is possible.  When I first met my wife, I fell head over heels in love with her.  She is everything to me and I want nothing else and nobody else.  She is a treasure.  I'm sure that, at some point in your life, you will find someone you feel the same about and will feel that way about you.  Hang in there!
822888
Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.
843290
He would say, "thanks, that is very nice, but I am gay....what are we supposed to do about that? " It is very easy to develope feelings for Gay men, they are open, funny, and easy to approach. Keep your feelings in check, for you know from the start that nothing can come of it other than friendship..which is nice, but not a romantic relationship, if that is what you are looking for. Gay men cannot suddenly become straight, anymore than a straight man can become gay. Leave it at that. Good luck
181355
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
640009
no. He can live a straight life, but underneath still have the same feelings and desires. dont fight it , just enjoy it.
155013
Well, I'm bisexual; and it feels like... being me, I guess.  I know a lot of people are like, "yuk, how could you like a GUY" but then, women like guys, dont' they?  \n\nWe like to put people into categories but really, we're all individuals.  I'd guess you're having feelings for a person of the same sex.  What that means is, that you have feelings for that person.  But if all your sexual feelings are for people of your own gender then you are gay, and you'll be much happier in life if you accept who you are.\n\nBeing gay doesn't mean you have to be promiscuous.  If you beleive in love, find someone to love!  If you like women, though, you shouldnt hook up with a man, any more than it would make sense for a straight guy who's repulsed by fat women to marry a fat woman.
475205
im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
518907
That's a difficult situation to judge. I don't think he would be spending that much time with you asking you here and there if he wasn't interested in something more than friendship. However I could be wrong, maybe he's gay!\nI would wait and see what happens. If he's really interested then things will progress in their own time. Maybe he is unsure of how you feel about him too. Try talking to him?
513911
i don't know if u married him or not but i think u must find one suitable for u , i am single and i Love my life i am not die if i am not have a woman but i don't go love and  married woman older than me by 18 years i think i will be her son yes he can gave u many thing but after little time u will know the fact u need to be with one can understand u u say u not in love with him anymore then what u feel now just emotion because i think u r single and alone if u need anther help contact with me have a nice time and good luck