Should I tell them to just stay out of my life ? because I have moved on?
355572
Unfortunately you are stigmatized by your past behavior. The best you can do is to surmount your transgressions to atone. This may take the form of education, productivity, healthy relationships, hard work. Regardless of your social standing with your family and friends, you have overcome  your addiction. No one can take that away from you--except you. Don't let the opinion of others taint your realization that you are greater than your past. Live in the moment.
1010729
I'm going through a similar situation because of things I did years ago.  They never really trust you again. Not fully anyway.  It is always there, waiting for the opportunity to show up and force you to feel guilty about something.  I've been going through this for 13yrs.  It hasn't gotten any better.  Maybe you need to learn from your mistake and move on. I don't know why I stayed,but I wish I hadn't.
674833
An honest answer is usually a good thing but not always appreciated it might just be easier and more tactful to tell them that at the time the plans were made it sounded like a good idea  but after some soul searching and consideration you feel that things are different now and it wouldnt work out like planned and you would rather not put any more strain on an already strained relationship. They may not like it very much my parents hated it when I moved out of the town that I grew up in and I kept telling them I would come back.  It took me six years to finally come back after having cut everyone in my family out of my life to have them finally figure out that I dont do things the same way they do and that I am entitled to my life and opinions. After a long time and a lot of relearning in our family we have a great relationship.  There is always hope for the future but you must consider what is best for you and not what is best for them if it is not in keeping with what you want and need. Much easier to tell them now that it wont work out then to move back and have it all fall apart in six months to a year and bring even more division to the family. Good Luck with your choice.
875687
personally i'd let it be...there is no good reason for keeping ties to them...say a prayer for them and then move on
998758
Nope, tell him you have moved on and have other guys who will not dump you over stupid things.
118878
You should reevalute where life has taken you and consider\n\nwhether or not you're making the right choices. Good luck.\n\nIf you're asking if you should stick by him, only you know that.
724989
Just forget. Shut your mind off to them and get on with life.
9224
Express your grief and then move on.  Stop living in the past, you can not change that.  Become more aware of what is going on around you right now.
315188
NO! you need to find out why you can't let go! you sound like a stalker. move on with your life. if this person give a damn about u they will contact u when they're ready.
567237
I have the same problem. Tell them that you don't want to and give them reasons. Be firm and don't let them control you..........after all, being single is awesome!
1046251
I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST MOVE ON
506546
I say just tell them what you have been feeling. I hope every thing goes the way you want it to. If it doesn't there is always some one out ther who loves and respect you for who you are good luck :)
193622
You dont.... You should stop and take a look at what they offer you.\nYou wouldn't be here if it weren't for them.\nThey feed you and put a roof over your head. SO, whatever little petty reason you want to "get rid of them" you'd better rethink it. \n\nI can tell you from experience that times can be tough. And I am sure that everyone can tell you that when they were younger they at least once hated their parents. However, now that we're older and can look back at that... We realize why things happened the way they  did. As a child we like to think that we know what's best for us. Feel as if your partents are holding you back, when in fact, they are saving you from the worlds nasty people and truth... It's not easy in the real world. Enjoy your parents for as long as you can. They wont be here forever and then you will have no one to turn to. Charish every day that your parents are still with us on earth. Dont let a day end without telling them how much you love 'em. If you do... Someday, you'll be sorry...
88810
At first, I might chalk it up to having a bad day.  If he/she kept ignoring me, I'd send them an email or voicemail.  If they kept ignoring me after that, then I'd be moving on with my life. \n\nBest of luck to you!
925211
If I was you I think I'd do whatever it takes to avoid these people, even if you have to move. \nMisery loves company and they are trying to make your family just like theirs. \nFind better people to socialize with before your hindsight tells you you should have.
285006
You both need to sit down and talk with them. Let them know what your boundaries for this are. They have to let you go at some point. And if you don't talk to them it'll make it harder. Tell them to look at it from your point of view. It's not like you'll never see them again right? You will still be close enough to visit and see still. If they can't accept that then they are not being fair to you. You will adjust to your surroundings if you truly want to be there. It's all a part of growing up. Moving on and getting used to new things.
695144
Dont hang around that person anymore.  They have no respect for you.