Should I tell my wife I wear her panties and hose?
355410
Sure, better you tell her up front then she find them in your car or somewhere else and accuse you of cheating on her, should would never believe you if she caught you that way.  Worst thing that could happen is for her to tell you to stop - best thing is she might join in on your fantasy.\n\nYou are not alone in your love for womens lingerie.  Just check out ebay and type in sissy panties and see how many hits you get.
314817
Tell it to my mother-in-law
443003
Oh for cyring out loud, it's a pair of underwear.  Just put them on.. lol  Just don't let her take any photos.  Ya gotta try something new every now and then.  If you try it and it makes you feel positively foolish, let her know this and that you don't want to do it again.  If she doesn't respect that, then you've got bigger problems than a pair of Victoria's Secret's finest skivvies.
472349
Take is slowly. Define yourself first. What type of crossdresser are you? Casual, all the time? Do you dress as a fetish, or is it deeper for you? Have you talked with anyone else about your crossdressing? \nWhat are you hoping to accomplish by telling her? If you are looking for support, what are her views of other crossdressers? In today's say and age, you see crossdressing on all sorts of TV programs and other media, I am sure she has seen it as well. What is her general reaction towards it. Who's clothing do you wear? If it is your own stuff, how well hidden is it? You might be suprised, she might actually already know and be waiting for you to trust her to tell her.\nTake it slow, because if she is not ok with it, she might have a lot to process. I would make sure to inform her that you are not GAY, and by wearing clothing like that, it does not make you in any way GAY.\nIf you trust her, and she trusts you, and you want to tell her after you have found out who you are, then go ahead.\n\nI am not sure how well this would work, but you might make a game out of it, or a bet. Maybe do something that she comes up with you dressing up, like set a bet where the looser has to dress as a maid or something, and be all macho about it so when you loose, it looks painful that you have to dress as a maid. Heard that one somewhere, not sure the results. Would give you a deep insight into your wife's view on crossdressing from her reactions though...
750773
Why dont you discuss it with your wife.  You said that she is a sweetie, work it out with her.
325285
I would start with several sets of sexy undies.  At least one outfit should be in her taste, that she would feel comfortable wearing.  You should have 4 or 5 outfits that YOU like.  I don't know your personal taste, but the slave idea sounds interesting.  Costumes are always fun.  Maid, cheerleader, schoolgirl, slut.  You may even want to get a matching outfit that you can wear together.  Of course you're going to bring several of your cutest nighties for when you two cuddle up when you have your girlie sleepover. Go for it, sweetie.  I hope you both have a wonderful weekend.  Let us know how it went.
1123871
It really shouldn't be uncomfortable to do anything for the one you love. That's what love and relationship is all about. Being there for each other. Doing things other wouldn't normally do for you. Letting them know how much you care to do the simplest things. I remember going to Victoria's Secret to get the pair of free panties for my wife. In front of the Sales woman, I tested them. I pulled them, smelled them, held them up in the light to make sure they would work for my wife. The sales woman was very impressed.
512047
If she knows your real name then don't. We talk to each other and trust me unless she loves you a lot. If watersports is not her thing she may tell someone else about your fetish. Too bad shes not me I love watersports.  \n\nI guess you could talk about pee in a comical way or something to see how she acts?  Worse case she dumps you because you talk about gross things.
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
60993
Hmmm. I like to wear them for the same reason, but I'm a woman. I'm sure you're not the only guy though. It's nice your wife accepts that of you. You are lucky to have that understanding.
525868
LOL fun!\nheres another, Hubby comes home to find his wife laying on the couch wearing nothing but crotchless undies. Wife says "you want a piece of this" pointing to her crotch, Husband replies "f-ck no look what it did to your undies!"
228085
she should have noticed the wedding ring, if you are wearing it. hint at her how much you love your wife and that you feel its wrong to cheat on your mate.
641277
i say let her wear it. when you hear a comment from someone go ahead and look at them and proudly say, "yea, that's my wife." be happy shes still hot and gets comments. the best i ever got was, "uhh, you ugly!" it still haunts me. lol. let her look good. and remember, whos the one who gets to take the dress off after the party? YOU! enjoy!
405557
if you love her and trust her let her be, she is who she is and thats why you married her so dont change what you fell in love with (big mistake men make) she'll stop if she thinks it hurts you - we all check men out beneath the waist, don't mean were gonna screw em - men check out women too - just life- have fun\nBTW - your wife must think you are a super hubby too if she can be herself comfortably in front of you than that says a whole lot about her awesome husband
93540
if your wearing pantyhose now, you are in the second stage, is your mon buying you panties also,as i told you in other answer, you best find yourself now before it is to late.but to answer your question, you get used to them after awhile and enjoy the feeling.it sounds like mon has you dressing  in public already, make a choice soon. you will lose yourself to the female side of you and it will be to late. ACT NOW have to ask, wheres your dad?if gone i am sorry, its all up to you.you have make the call,
774934
If she is your wife you should have open communication.\n\nShe might have an infection if the oder is bad.\n\nYour not doing her or yourself any favors by being silent.
110276
I don't really see why you would want to avoid it. If you're worried about leaks, just wear a pantyliner.