How do you keep yourself from cheating in a boring relationship?
345827
who is causing the boredom and be honest
195101
I think that relationships can get boring and predictable after a period of time... so I would suggest throwing in a few curve balls from time to time, catch them off guard and keep them guessing. Keep things interesting. But most importantly... stay faith full and never be afraid to show your feelings.
753623
Try to spice things up by being spontaneous, but if you honestly don't start to feel something then its time to move on. A relationship can't work if you're bored with the person, and if you are still bored after trying to be spontaneous then you should let her knoe because it wouldn't be fair to either one of you to stay in a boring relationship.
653593
Just have fun with you without trying to get attached to you; It could be in many ways; like talking to you when he's bored or going out and having a great time; enjoying your company and having a sexual affair with you. Just enjoying life without letting the word "Care" get involved.
529335
yeah, stay with him. nice guys are cheaters and liars. have a nice life.
355320
I think the change in (financial) status of your B/f is messing with your head. What you need to remember is that you really DON'T have a solid proof that he's cheating on you, so, if you intend to keep him, you may have to broach on the subject very carefully.\nTalk about it with him gently, show your fears as someone who loves him, and is afraid of what the changes in behavior (if there's any) may lead to. \nYou just have to find a way of understanding him, believing in him and loving him without all these suspicions... That is relationship killer number 1!
177453
No, and I dont ever plan on it, cheating is the stupidest thing anyone could ever do, its completely pointless....why cheat...it just shows you dont want to be with the person you are with and/or your not happy with them...completely stupid!
179010
You need to find better freinds. They are a bad influence. You know cheating is wrong, if you keep hanging around people with low morals you too might one day loose yours. Like the saying "don't hang around a bunch of turkeys if you want to fly."
312898
Study and learn.\n\nThen you won't have to cheat.\n\nOf course, with your spelling and grammar, who would notice if you cheat or not?  You'll still fail. \n\nSTUDY AND LEARN SOMETHING!!!
479953
You can find interesting things both of you can engage in.you shouldn't loose your self respect,no one is worth it.If you think he's still bored with u,then ask him what the problem is.there might be something he's not telling u.
71200
The first thing you do is ask yourself if your "best friend" is really they type you want to be romantically involved with. I bring that up because he was obviously cheating on his girlfriend by making out with you. This means that he has a disposition to cheating. Do you really want to pursue a relationship with someone you know cheats? You'll always wonder in the back of your mind if he's cheating on you knowing that he cheated on this other girl.\n\nStart getting involved with volunteer activities that allow you to have more interactions with other people. This will keep you busy and possibly help you find a real gem that takes being in a relationship serious.\n\nRemember... once a cheater, always a cheater.
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How does an ex cheat?
82772
Why you suspect? Enjoy each and every moment when you are with your b/f.Thank him for turning off( it means you are the most important person )  his cell phone.If he cheats you can easily understand by his face reading and behaviour.
720948
i know its hard to b accused as not being trustworthy...but dont give up...u need to do something that proves that ur not cheating or wanting to be w/ ne one else...do this when he isnt home so u can plan ahead of time...\n\nmaybe a romantic setting in a house w/ rosepetals everywhere...strawberries on the kitchen table w/ whipped cream in a bowl...a jazzy song playin in the background (or somethin romantic)...maybe candles lit up in a dark room or a fire lit in the fireplace...in the bedroom u can have some candles lit in there 2 w/ petals all over the bed and the scent of vanilla in the air....i think u can take it from here...good luck!!!
1107324
Lots of things are not easy but many times it is important to look beyond the temptation and simply do the right thing.  Anyone who is in a committed relationship can do several things to avoid having an affair.  Make your partner your priority.  Think how you would feel if you were to lose your partner and how badly you would hurt your partner if you were unfaithful. Imagine how badly you would feel if your partner were unfaithful to you.  Make a list of all the things you love about your partner.  Then make a list of the things about your partner that's not pleasing to you.  Check the lists against each other and see what a great person it is that you are with.  Focus on their good points.  Tell them how important they are to you.  Tell them some of the things you especially love about them.  Be specific!   Another important thing you can do is to purposely avoid being around the person who tempts you.  And if you must be in their presence, mention  little things about your partner that show how important they are to you and how much you love them.  And no matter how tempting it may be, DO NOT FLIRT!!  Something that may seem innocent can be the catalyst that puts you in danger of losing your partner.  Avoiding temptation is so much easier than trying to clean up after a train wreck!  And pray for strength to avoid situations that will lead you into trouble.
344939
Although you may not want to admit it to yourself, your partner may just want out of the relationship. They were not thinking of you when they cheated, and now they don't want to be forgiven. Maybe they hoped that you would find out and then break it off so they didn't have to do it. Besides, you should find someone who won't cheat on you. You deserve to be able to trust your lover.
921614
First off, don't try being someone you are not.  Always, be yourself.  If she thinks you are boring, then she is missing out, not you.  Revenge never solves anything.  Improving your qualities that you have now, will be better served.  Keep an open mind to learning new things and you will be surprised at the person looking back at you in the mirror.  Thank God for who you are, as He created you and He is always in control.  This person maybe shallow, do you want that quality of person in your life?