my ex still flirts and it hurts cause i want him back what should i do?
338346
Tell him that if he doesn't want to be with you then to stop flirtting with you, there is a reason for everything rather it is a good reason or a bad one there is always one.
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
689185
show them you care. that you want them back. if they really did like you in the past it's hard to totally get over that so there's probably some feeling still there. \n\nGood Luck!
662826
don't get back with him, just remember when he broke up with u last year, how stupid he was, its his fault and he deserves to feel the pain now of u rejecting him if u do. there r plenty of other hot guys that would go out with u, that r smart enough not to break up with u and then come crawling back to u later on. Good Luck.
997839
it sounds like he is trying to be a player. I suggest you leave him in the past as an ex. The way he tells you he wants to be back with you, and then see's the other girls, is a strong indication that he is not going to be loyal to you, and will end up hurting you.
44991
Don't call him, don't answer his phone calls.  If you broke up with him, don't pay any attention to him going out with other ladies.  You will just get jealous and want him back for the wrong reasons.  If he broke up with you, that sux.  Don't let him play any mind games with you.  If he wants to get back together, tell him you have moved on and that he can't mess with you anymore.  Then move on and be done with it.  Don't watch any movies or listen to any songs that you shared.  That only makes it worse.  And don't hook up with him out of desparation or because ya'll don't have anything better to do.  Your life will be miserable for it, I promise.
517594
You may be reading too much into what is not? I have heard and seen break ups that do not lead into problems. Then again there are people who always want what they cannot have. You want to be careful with this situation make sure she wants you back so your pride don't get hurt. Another thing you could do is flirt with her the same way she is flirting with you.
856615
I would confront your EX and tell him that if he keeps stalking you then you will report him to the police.  It's just that simple.  What he's doing is creepy..not romantic.  Good luck to you.
1181256
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
883579
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
642836
tell him that u love him nomatter what and the rumors he hear are not truth that u wanna get back together and that u would never do anything to hurt me.
737714
Honetly, how I would get him back is by dumping him, if he doesn't trust you now, he never will and he will keep accusing you of the same thing.\n\nif he thinks you would do this after whatever length of time you have been together he doesn't know you at all and isn't worth the hassle.\n\nif you do want to stick with him, tell him that the next time he accuses you of doing something like that you will make sure that he actually has some proof to go on...in the mean time wax his balls :)
1115298
You don't. My ex has hurt me so bad so many times, and every time I talk to him it takes everything I have not to beg him to come back.
949702
there could be a lot of ways to show your ex that you want him back & that you still care about him..however, things happen for a reason & there should be a reason why he became your ex..sad to say, if things are not really meant to be, no matter what you do, no matter how you try, you can never win him back..so it would be better to just show you still care but if he doesn't care about you anymore, just move on & find someone who's more worth the efforts..Ü
404073
go right ahead.... make ur move and get ur man back
468443
Why would you want someone back who would believe rumors about you? He obviously doesn't "Love" you if he would believe his friends over you. You learned a very valuable lesson from this experience.  Even if you did manage to get back together, the same thing is going to happen the next time his friends or someone else spreads rumors about you. You need to realize that you deserve better than this and move on with your life. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who will trust you. A good relationship is based on honesty and trust. Without them the relationship will fail. He doesn't trust you, so there is no way this relationship will work. Move on and live your life well. He is the one that loses. The best revenge is to live well. He will soon see what he has lost. Good Luck!!\n\nA.H.