How do I stop being male dependent?
353362
You have got to buckle up and face the fact that you are not always going to have a man around! You know when you become so dependant on someone you lose your identity and that's what causes your depression when the relationship ends. Change your thought process by investing more time in improving yourself mentally and physically to gain more self esteem so this won't happen again. I know it's painful now but it will pass i guarantee you but the next guy willbring you back to life and when that ends you die emotionally again! So, you have to change that security with a man to independant as a woman. Good Luck!
1094301
You already have a good start just by being aware of things you need to change. The best way is to ask God to help you and make you into the man He wants you to be.
554116
Start doing things for yourself.  Follow a dream, get a new hobby, find an activity you always wanted to try.  The key is to do something that you can feel good about doing for yourself, regardless of whos in or out of your life.\n\nIt seems you're thinking too much the guy , a guy  or having no guy.   Your life's about making the most of an opportunity to find and do what makes you happy.  People will come and go and when the right guy comes along, he'll  see how you're enjoying life and want to be part of that... not see that you are waiting for him and give up his life to be the center of yours. Hope this helps put things in perspective.
38961
Keep being yourself. ^-^\n..I know that sounds stupid.
948885
well replace all drinking of liquids withonly water... eat normal portions balanced meals,... and exercise cardio running and swimming and such for at least an hr a day\n\ndont change for some guy... change for you!
678343
how can i change myself
120508
Take it from a guy.  Stay at home with your parents and maybe stay overnight with him once in a while.  You've got a lot of years ahead of you.  Get yourself situated  with what you want to do (college, work, or whatever) and be able to support yourself before moving out of your parents' house.
14156
First stop calling yourself Gay or Bi. Then stay away from gay people or at least from their organs. Do away with the gay mannerisms. Become who it is you want to be: A MAN! Your a man now and you want a woman to keep you warm. Go to the STRAIGHT bars. Buy a woman some drinks. Make sure she sees all that money in your wallet. If that doesn't work out, go to the next woman and so on. Think of it as training. You'll find the woman of your dreams and have fun finding her. Have fun. Be happy. Just don't be GAY! \n\nOh, and Tessa...Our sexuality is in our minds, not our genes. Because if it was in our genes, we'd find the gay gene and ERADICATE IT!
719255
I think you need to explore life and travel before settling down.  Go to college, get a career for yourself, get a job, an apartment.  See what it's like to live on your own.  Be independent before you become dependent on anyone.  Trust me, I was with someone but I cut him short, did all the above and now I am married with child and I can't tell you how happy I am.  I've done the things I wanted to before settling down.
217193
Problem is your making it a problem. Let it go try not to stress about it. Everybody get's tired sometimes, tell your significant other to step it up and take the lead for a while. Try not to worry about it. Forget the male stereotype that men "have" to dominate. Sit back, relax, concentrate on letting him/her get it up for you!
939538
Perhaps your body is producing too much testosterone.  It sounds as though you wish to change, so the best way to approach this is to see your Dr.  He/She may be able to prescribe a medicine, or recommend natural herbal remedies to combat these things you describe.  Hang in there - you are off to a good start by recognizing the need.
590825
1. Quit reading magazines. \n\n2. Get a hobby. \n\n3. Listen to your boyfriend.
793298
(1) Take a karate or ninjitsu class\n(2) When you get good, challenge your brother to a duel\n(3) In the meantime, try to beat him at HALO or some other sort of PC or Xbox game in which you can claim some sort of male dominance over him in a virtual sense\n(4) If you feel like you are gay you are, you may as well continue to be that way and don't bother trying to figure out ways to deny it\n(5) Contact the police if physical attacks continue\n(6) Seek counseling for yourself and your brother, you both need help (to better your relationship), seek a family counselor and get your parents to convince your brother to attend, come to think of it, your parents should go too or your brother will probably not attend the sessions.
78110
It can take some time to overcome, but the first step I can think of is that you have to let it go. I have learned that if we hold on to the bad things that people do, we will turn away from society and become introverted - sometimes at the expense of our own happiness. \n\nAs far as "trusting men" goes, remember that each one of us is different in our own right, and none should be judged via the actions of another. \n\nThese "rules" have helped to heal me and bring my life back to balance with society. I am 38.
769853
Sorry to hear that.  Maybe you should ask your family if you can please have the house for a little while so you can take care of your needs.  Im sure your father will understand.  Get you some boy!
1137822
Don't blame GOD for your undesireable nature. Get up off your can and improve yourself. Then go out like a man and get a woman.\n\nAdder_Astros\nPowerful Member of the House of Light.\n[]xxxxx[];;;;;;;;;;;;;;>.\nhttp://www.adderastros.com
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OH! COME ON,DON'T BE SILLY DON'T YOU KNOW THAT LADIES CAN FEEL THE PLUSE BEAT OF EVERY MATURED MALE, AND BELIEVE ME HOOKS THEM LIKE A FISH AND EAT THEM THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE VERY SLOWLY. AND IF IT SMELLS OR GETS ROTTEN KICKS THEM OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT ANY MERCY. NOW TELL ME, HAVE YOU FOUND ANY NEED FOR THEM TO TALK MARRIEGE. SO WAIT AND BECOME MATURED. FROM NOW PRACTICE HOW TO SAVE YOURSELF WHEN ONE FINE MORNING YOU BE SURELY KICKED OUT OF YOUR OWN HOUSE OK. NO, OK WAIT AND SEE.