I think my boss is interesting, friendwise....so....?
349952
it sounds like if you want to be her friend you will have to find another job
312386
It is a funny thing, they say, about bosses.  What they say is seldom what they mean, even if they mean what they say.  \n\nAsking a person for an honest opinion is still in hope that the opinion will be good.  \n\nWhat I would encourage you to do is be honest, but be positive.  I would focus overwhelmingly on the positive attributes, but be honest about ways to help his business succeed (assuming he owns the business), or ways to become an "even better boss".  Feel free to add in a touch of humor, if that will lighten the mood, (such as, "I know you have it tough dealing with an employee with me, but").  \n\nIf there are some tough things you really want to say, let him know your intentions in answering the questions upfront (I have grown to appreciate and trust you and your wife, and will answer as honestly as I can in hopes of helping you get ahead).  That would mean a lot to me if I had handed you the questionnaire.
690530
I have found that it is usually best not to mix work life with personal life.  Sure, sometimes people get lucky and become friends through their jobs, and nothing bad happens.  But often the person you become "friends" with will try to take advantage of the situation, or worse, one day may get promoted and become your boss, creating an awkward situation.  Co-workers especially in an office) tend to be back-stabbers who will stop at nothing to get ahead.  They just might "accidentally" tell the boss about a mistake you made and corrected.  Or put you in a position you do not feel comfortable being in (lying to cover for them).  Or steal the promotion/raise that you were supposed to get.
795114
=sounds to me like she has a serious attitude problem or has a lot on her plate going on right now.  You could drive her crazy with your kindness while having a good laugh inside and perhaps the two of you will end up being friends at some point.  Invite her out for a couple of beers after work, just as friends and you may be surprised at what you learn. and find out she is really a nice person after all.  Bottom line here is that you need to adjust your attitude toward her as well if you are to continue working with her.  Good luck.
551571
Keep him as your friend. He's smart, you may pick up some pointers from him.
48309
I think he is just being friendly.  I would just leave it alone.  Be friendly in return, but nothing more.  Anything else will create a messy or awkward situation at work.
772995
she probably is interested in you but does not want to cross the boss/ employee boundry or she is debating whether she should or not. Dunno, sounds like she digs you though.
1119004
he's being straightforward to you and has been respectful to you. I think you should do the same, if he just wanted to be your friend, you should let it be.
776539
I LOVE MY BOSS. Well I'm am my own BOSS now but I still LOVE MY OLD BOSS!!\n\nYOU GO BOSS!!!
288312
it appears your close to your boss.  what i would do is have lunch with her, or just talk with her... and let her know your situation... tell her that you found another job.  then tell her what you like about that other job... then tell her why its hard leaving your current job... then tell her what you like about the job you currently have.  if you do this in order, it will put her in a positive mental frame of mind and you wont need to worry about upsetting or leaving people that you got to know.
964939
Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.\n\nbefriend this person, don't complain about them any more, and wham when ever they say  bad - you can casually mention to the boss which is negative about the job or your boss let your boss know :)  Yeah be a backstabber/brown noser
557464
mmh, maybe getting it on with your boss?
943503
A smile and a touch of humor can go a long way to improve communication and understanding, especially if you have a good rapport with your boss.  Start by just trying to establish more friendly and open communications in general.  Then after things feel comfortable, you might gently ask the question, "I was just wondering if you are happy with my work, or if there are ways I can improve how I prioritize my time here?"  It could be that the well-intentioned little things you do are things she does not consider necessary, so the path to gratitude might be to focus that time and energy on something that is important to HER.\n\nIt sounds like you are a well-meaning person with a good work ethic, so you have a good chance to reach a better level of understanding with your boss.  She just needs to know that you are on her side and sincerely want to spend your time helping her succeed, so she doesn't feel threatened or challenged.
720893
I've been there. It can get pretty complicated and feelings can get confused. let your friends know that as a manager your first obligation is to the company. Let them know that you value their friendship but dont want your friendship to hinder your performance at work. Usually most "good" friends can respect that if not then thats a whole other ball game.
830376
You're only spell can be changing your attitude. If your employer is egotistical, then buy into it. Tell him ow wonderful he is (not directly), but with statement like, "What a great idea!" or "You're so smart", or "I wish I'd thought of that". If he wants things done his way - even if it's wrong - do it his way, but show him what you think is the right way, too, as though it is his idea. Everyone loves an employee who makes him/her look good. Unfortunately there are a lot of bosses who let their positions go to their head and usually they will self destruct over time on their own. The only thing you can do is laugh internally at his idiocy and become the best you can be. I've learned a lot more from bosses I couldn't stand than the ones that I loved. Good luck!
248686
That's a interesting concept, I would totally give it a shot, I have nothing to lose other than my boss. LOL
865247
my boss is really thoughtfull and kind and is always there to help and nothng is any ever bother ! all my other bosses have been complete ass holes