sometime my boy friend is diferent ,how i know if he use drogs?
342295
see his eyes, if his eyes unusually red, then he is using drugs.
1021397
Talk to your man yourself. Don't be scared to tell him how you feel about anything. His boy's are probably right, they'll clown him. But he's in a relationship with you, not his friends.
894529
I have no clue. Bf likes mine the way they are..:)
526766
You could go and ask one of his guy friends that you can trust.
669911
Have you tried asking him? Or you can search. But its easier to ask. :)
764977
Youre in high school I assume. Keep in mind these are boys you are dating not men. They will say things without thinking and are still somewhat immature. You should let it go and give him the benefit of the doubt.
368759
OMG THAT'S WHAT PPL TELL ME BUT YOU WONT KNOW TILL YOU ASK HIM OR THREE WAY HIM WITH YOUR FRIEND!!!(I DO THAT)\n              GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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Male 34 writes;\n He'll smile at you. try and make you laugh. He'll ask if you're busy. You may notice that he seems to watch what he says, Maybe even not curse. He may frown if you talk about other guys or you may detect a change in his voice. Just watch him, and you'll know.
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
224497
Well first of all, install some spyware on his computer, and have it email you updates on what he writing in his emails, the updates come directly to YOUR email. Next, if all of a sudden he becomes "unavailable" on his cell phone, stops coming over, or becomes distant, it's a good sign. Look through his underware drawer and see if he has under garments he doesn't wear for you. Also, check his car "thoroughly", guy's tend to think their cars are a vault and nobody will find things there, especially where the spare tire is stored. And yes, the sniff test is ALWAYS a good way to tell!
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Couple things here:\n\n1st - are the red lips a new change in his appearance?  were they red before?   Typically red lips indicate only that more oxygenated blood is going through them.  Better than blue lips in this case.\n\n2nd - if you are concerned about drug use - consider behavior changes, is school performance changed, are there new unexplained periods of time from home,  and think about how he might be paying for drugs.  Are you missing cash.  Is his own income affected.  These are better signs of substance abuse.  Pupil size and coordination are another good sign.  Really large pupils often indicate substances like speed and coke.  Do his dirty clothes that are sent to be washed smell like smoke or pot?  Both are hard to hide scent wise.\n\n3rd - as uncomfortable as this is... if you don't know if he is doing drugs... how do you know he's straight?  \n\nI would recommend opening a dialog with him.  Open communication and trust between you two will help you not only know what is going on in his life, but also build a base where you can influence his choices in a manner that a teenager responds to more.  Teenagers hate boundaries - but a man to man talk about drugs, what they really are and what they do and why he might choose or not choose to do them may get you farther.\n\nHe may be having other issues, gf problems, bf problems, getting picked on at school, being harrassed by a professor, or have something else on his mind.  Again open communication between you two is going to help him to have someone to talk to about it and you to know what's going on.\n\nBest wishes.
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There's no sure indicator. Guys are all different. But if all of a sudden he acts different around you, then he's got a reason. Best way to find out would be to ask one of his friends.
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Research him on the Internet to find out...not too complicated!!
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
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when u find him see if he has a brother for me
118832
Your bf should ask then
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Talk to him and find out...