I have to go to a wedding on june . How can i loose some wait, but in a healthy way?
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MAJOR exercise of some kind at LEAST three times a week.\nDrink 8 glasses of water a day, or more.\nWhen you feel like snacking, have something completely fatless - like herbal tea, celery, REAL fruit juice (not a fruit "drink" or "beverage" full of sugar).\nStop putting butter/margarine on your bread.\nStop putting cream/milk in your coffee/tea.\nPut up a picture of the body you want on the fridge and think positively about it when you're about to eat something you shouldn't.\nNO JUNK FOOD. PERIOD.\nSmaller portions.\nDon't go to the grocery store when you're hungry so you won't buy instant (unhealthy) foods.\n\nGood luck.
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exercising, cold showers, hard work and study, try to get married as soon as ur parents allow u.
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1. Set a date\n2. Put together guest list\n3. Book wedding site & reception site\nThose are the 3 most important first steps...go to theknot.com and they have a checklist of what needs to be done every month.  It has tons of stuff on it, so remove the stuff that you won't be doing (it covers a lot, which doesn't always apply to every bride)
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Dress for the occasion, with taste. Wear something you are comfortable in, not something you have to fuss with or worry about.\nBrush up on your manners and etiquette before you go.\nBe relaxed and friendly, be yourself
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DO relax and enjoy yourself; unwind from all the excitement and stress of the wedding.\nDON'T put high expectations on yourself & your partner to have wild, passionate sex all the time.  You will have plenty of time for that.
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Even if you do lose weight, as soon as you stop the diet you will put the weight on, and then some more.\n\nFrom your name, it appears that you are getting married soon. Congratulations! You don't want to be on a diet while you're on your honeymoon and you definately don't want to balloon out straight after you get married, so this is my suggestion... Lose weight properly and it will stay off. Eat a healthy balanced diet that is low in calories and exercise frequently. You need to make sure that you are working off all the calories you are eating and then some more every day. This is weight loss that will last. You will only lose between 0.5 and 1kg per week but it will stay off and you will feel great because all the exercise will boost your endorphin level and give you more energy (which you'll need on your honeymoon!!)
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I helped a friend of mine last year with her wedding.  They rented a small but beautiful space near the lake at the city park and had everything right there, reception was chicken and fixins from a local restaurant, cake from the grocery deli and music was a cd player with their favorite smooth jazz tunes.   It was Labor Day weekend, so the guests were in casual attire and it was beautiful.  Remember, you have to eat the next day, and the day after that and the day after that, the most important thing is to make the marriage work.  So many people waste money to impress people who really don't care, so keep the main thing the main thing, making a beautiful life together!
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Why not head over to the Justice of the Peace and get married now...then plan a BBQ reception party in a couple months.\n\nYou will be less stressed, and the cost of a BBQ reception is way less than a formal wedding, and a LOT more fun!
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Fist thing you will want to do is set the date and figure out how many people you are looking at so you will know how big of a church, reception hall, invitations, etc. that you will need.  You will also need to figure out your budget so you will know what you can spend and where you will need to do things yourself to save money or whatever.  There are things that you will need to reserve as soon as possible like a DJ or band, reception hall etc.  Below is a good list with time frame.\nhttp://www.festive.com/wedchex.html\nHope that helps!  Good Luck!
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Wear anything that looks nice and you feel good in.  There is no set dress code.  It is your wedding so you need to feel good about it.
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Don't go into dresses and suits because you will probably never wear them again. Try for a nice top and shirt, fancy but not overdone, and also something you can wear to other occasions too. About the boquet, gather a bunch of friends and go pick some in a field where flowers grow and no one cares if they are picked just before the wedding, maybe a day before or something. You can arrange them the way you like. You could just have the wedding in your backyard or a friends backyard if yours is unnacceptable.\n\nSeriously, about the rings, you might just have to splurge. They will (hopefully) be for a life time, so I think it will add up in the end. Weddings just are expensive, not very many ways around it.\n\nGood luck in your marriage! (whenever and however it happens)
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Don't tend to 'til my wedding night! \n\n;)
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Don't focus on the weight. Focus on Cardio, eating right, and weights. More than likely you will lose inches first and then weight. Which is what you actually want. From now til wedding, you can go down a few inches and lose about 5-10 pds. But you must follow strict eating and cardio. Good luck, and remember your man loves you and is marrying you. You will look like a princess no matter what on your big day. Don't stress, go w/ it and have a great memory filled day!!!!
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The first thing you need to do is decide on the date you want to hold the affair and how much money you/your family want to spend. The next is to decide on the type of venue you want: a very small affair at home, in a garden setting, with 50 people; intimate, casual and small affair (80 people or less, let's say); medium sized with about 100-130 people, or large, with 150 people and up.\n\nYou could hire a wedding planner and they will do almost everything for you, but it is an added cost on top of renting the hall (they provide the food, but you pick out what you want), hiring a band or DJ, photographer, etc. There is nothing quite like planning the event yourself though- it is a lot of work, but it is yours.\n\nIf you decide to do it yourself and have decided upon a date, start by looking around at wedding halls to see what types of venues they offer and how much they cost. Sometimes they offer packages that include music and other services: photographer, table flowers, etc., in addition to the catering services but sometimes they don't. Write a list of questions you have so that you are prepared. As a separate note: Your groom will have to tip the people hired for the wedding, including waiters and waitresses, the bartender, DJ, etc. \n\nOnce you've decided what space you want, you need to reserve the space immediately because space books up quickly. I am an event planner (not weddings though, but I know the event business)and I urge you to make sure you reserve the place quickly.\n\nYou can always do a home wedding, especially if cost is a concern, and they can be quite nice. However, remember that if you do someting like this you are responsible for renting tables and chairs for your guests, hiring waiters and clean up staff, hiring a band or DJ, photographer, florist, a caterer, arranging to have someone remove the garbage, especially if you live on your own and are leaving the next day for the honeymoon, and making sure your sinks and toilets are working properly. When I got married the second time 6 years ago, my kitchen sink got clogged from the clean up crew! We couldn't unclog it and the water sat there for 3 weeks while we were away. So, this is something to consider.\n\nAs for the other stuff, like bouquets, etc. First, you need to decide what kind of dress you want to wear (along with headpiece, veil, etc), and how many bridesmaids you want (Match the number of bridesmaids to the number of groomsmen your groom wants). Think about the color theme of the wedding (this applies to your tablecloths and napkins, too, as well as the girls' dresses). The number of bouquets is based on the number of girls in the wedding, as are the number of lapel flowers the men will wear. Don't forget lapel flowers for your father and the groom's father, corsages for the mothers, etc. \n\nDo you want a ring bearer and a flower girl? Color choice and flowers apply to them, too.\n\nBefore I forget: Make sure you buy two pairs of shoes. One pair will be dressy, and perfect for the ceremony, while the other should be flats - perfect for dancing. If you only wear heels I can guarantee you that your feet will kill you after a while. You will be moving around a lot - for pictures, greeting guests, etc..so be prepared. Don't forget to pick out your earrings, and start thinking about your makeup, etc.\n\nYou will have to go for numerous dress fittings (as will the girls), so be prepared to devote a lot of time for this. The guys will have to be fitted for their tuxes that the groom needs to choose.\n\nIn between this, you will buy rings with your partner! That's always fun... and of course, you and your fiance need to decide where you want to go for the honeymoon.\n\nBest wishes!
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you CAN def. do this! it will take a bit more time- so you need help. friends and family. \n*draw up a budget ASAP. $7000 total (probably $3000 will be for food and drink) reception location $500. flowers $1000. $250 dress - $900 dj/music etc.  \n*keep the guest list to a min. If you have a guest total of 75- you can get decent food at $30 per person and the rest for drinks.\nAlso keep the bridal party small. \n*host a cocktail and light buffet reception instead of a full meal. this can come off really swanky- like a high-class uptown loft party.\n*skip the party favors. go for candy treats your guests can eat. most of the time the little frames and bells etc. just get thrown away by guests anyway.\n*ASK questions. When you call a vendor- let them know you are on a budget. Oftentimes if they can't help you- they know someone who can.\n*Make your own centerpieces out of a candlescape. Florist centerpieces run about $50 per table. You can do them yourself for around $25. \n\n*Oh- one thing I wouldn't skimp on is the photog. Your photos will be the only things left after the wedding is over. the flowers will wilt. your dress will be stored. the cake will be gone etc. but the photos will last a lifetime.\n\ngood luck! and remember to have fun w/ it. planning your wedding should be half the fun! :D
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Rather than just coming out and saying "that's not going to happen," my opinion would be to try and try and try again.  What better gift can a future spouse receive than you on your wedding night - with a commitment that you have chosen to become pure - again - for this night only.  It is perfectly OK to start making that commitment now.  Buy yourself a purity/commitment ring and wear it on your ring finger and really try each day to live out that commitment.  Believe me, it will change your life =)  My opinion:  Wait until marriage!!!  Best wishes =)
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just start it off i am getting married this day and would like the following days off if there is any inconvence iam sorry ect. but you go from there