Does she want me back or is she just trying to be friends?
347422
She sounds like a good friend and the best ex..because she has feelings for you and her innocent nice heart told her to send this letter for sharing common sense with you.\n\nMaybe she felt sorry for breaking your heart and leaving you alone..and my suggestion to you is that give her another chance,reply her e-mail very gently and friendly, \nmaybe if you two follow your heart,then you will get back to one another..\n\ngood luck
826205
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she's playing mind games with you. I would try being her friend and take it from there.
263638
stop talking about love, and relationship, it sounds like she likes you, but she has been hurt, and does not wanna get hurt again, she asked for time, give her the time that she needs, and besides that just ask her out on a date, dont push her to something she is not ready to do.
852245
She can be bitter and hurt. You said that you went out with her right? well maybe she had true feelings for you and you broke her heart in a very harsh way. So, for her not to be the fool for everyone else she became this nasty Bi@tch. She is like that around you, because that is her cry for her and attention from you. I think that she wants you back.
1116536
if you really think that in her heart she really wants you back, maybe going on a few dates may send a different message to her - that you really don't care about her as much as you said. She seems as if she is taking her time to think about what happened with your relationship and if its a good idea to reconcile. The important thing is that you've been sincere and you let her know how much you love her and would like a second chance, give her as much time as you think to make her decesion, but waiting too long will prevent you from moving on with your life
612856
It seems like she doesnt appreciate you in that level.  You should move on if there are no sparks. You deserve someone who you take you for who you are really. It has been two years and nothing much has happened between you two.. You're better off being good friends, there is always someone out there for you.
959246
Give it one more try Ali...it sounds like she is stringing you along or setting you up as a back up plan.  If she responds the same, then just agree, "good idea, lets just be friends" smile and walk away.
505685
It sounds like she might have something for you. But until you ask, you'll never know. Start off slow, and ask her if she's ready for a relationship. If she says no, leave things alone. If she asks why, tell her you were just wondering. If she says yes, ask her out. If she says she wants a relationship with you, tell her glad you are, and how good it makes you feel. Noone can answer the question to wether or not your just used to having a companion around, and that's why you miss her, or whether or not you love her and she loves you. You'll just have to ask. But before you jump into things, stop and think about how it is you really feel, and make sure you really do want her back, and that she wants you back.
846672
Just stop her and  ask if she wants to try to be friends again.\nThere is no harm in asking. This way, if she tells you to F-off, you know not to bother again.  She may be missing your old friendship. Or not.  There's only one way to find out.
226826
If she says that she just wants to be friends, that ought to clue you in that she doesn't like you that way.
947588
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
837898
WELL IF SHE SAID SHE NEEDSTIME AND SPACE GIVE IT TO HER IF U REALISESHE IS TAKING TO LONG LIKE THREE OR FOUR MONTHS THEN SHE IS HOPING U WILL FORGET OR SHE IS TRYING TO TELL U WITHOUT TELLING U SHE IS NOT INTERESTED ANYMORE.IF U CANT WAIT THEN MAYBE U DONT REALY WANT HER U JUS THINK U DO,MAYBE U R LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT BY WAITING COULD IT BE U DONT REALLY WANT HERE TO COME BACK
966868
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
1163842
sounds like she is showing off in person...she wants everyone to know she has a boyfriend...Is it that she likes you for a friend, but doesn't want to be committed?   sound like she is not sure what she wants...maybe she is too young
224238
She is changing, it has nothing to do with you. I know it hurts for her to just move on without giving you any reason for leaving... now is the time to concentrate on your needs and finding things to enjoy on your own! You'll meet new people and make lots of friends!\nLet her make her back to you, if she contacts you, be polite but not TOO friendly! If she thinks she doesn't have to put any effort into the friendship- she won't. She needs to work for your time as much as you have worked for hers. Right now she's putting that energy into other people, and they probably are enjoying her efforts. \nLet this time be of good use to you, it may be lonely at times, but you have us here at Answers, and there's a big world out there to explore.\nBe brave dear, and let her go for the moment.\n\nBest wishes! - J
517220
why did she break up with you in the first place? maybe she realized that she made a mistake and is reconsidering going back out with you.  give it time and don't do anything, let her make the first move.  maybe she is just spying on you to see if you got a new girlfriend, driver her jelous by showing her that you are happy without her
407350
If you are her true friend then you will tell her exactly what you told us.  You are not going to go back with her but want to remain friends.  Just be open and honest.  It is the best policy.  And honestly she may get hurt if she has that deep of feelings for you but at least you will not have the guilt of "leading her on".