I have never had an orgasm...Are some girls just more prone to have them or...?
350895
you need to relax your self , you are thinking about it too much an d you end up having no orgasm, You need to relax and stop thinking about your orgasm :) you will get one
1120812
actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
439508
welcome to the world of womanhood, darlin'...you are SO not alone...unless and until you teach him all your own little tricks and then some...and he's good and willing...it'll stay that way.  just be glad you are in tune with yourself enough to experience orgasm easily by any means...some women don't have it that good.  now just teach him to be as good at pleasuring you as you are!
808310
I heard that 35 is around the age of women's sexual peak, and they are more likely to be able to orgasm through regular intercourse, unlike girls younger than them. So I think you've got it right on the money! Enjoy!
500415
It might just be the intimacy that satisfies you. You can have great sex without an orgasm. Who ever tells you different obviously doesn't know the meaning of intimate feelings. Of course its always great to orgasm, once in a while great sex without one is OK.
815162
You are in the vast majority of women, dear, and there's nothing strange about you.  It's not a "problem".  Also, it's not even a problem if you don't have an orgasm with each sexual encounter.  Women are different from men!
379955
All women are different.  Some women orgasm in a few minutes and there are some who have never had an orgasm.  About the guy finishing first ... that depends on what you do.  some guys like to get the girl off before they finish off.  Others get the guy off first and then work on the girl.  But do whatever you and your partner feel comfortable with, relax, and have a good time!
651991
This could not be further from the truth. In fact its quite the opposite, when a girl gets comfortable enough with herself that she can masturbate to orgasm she often finds it easier to orgasm during the real thing. Also understand that there is more than one type of orgasm that women can have, a clitoral, and a g-spot. \n\nAs for your sex drive question, different people have different levels of sexual anticipation its normal and you should consider yourself lucky.
383030
It's very possible.  Orgasms are due to firing of synapses in the brain and are usually caused by stimulation, but don't have to be.  It's very possible to have spontaneous orgasms, though it's rare.
303703
My girlfriend had the same problem,,,she finally had an orgasm after buying herself a vib***** and she was 25!  Poor thing!  She was sexually abused as a child and taught that sex was "dirty" and "bad"....If this sounds like you, buy a vib***** and consider going to counseling if you think you need it....And remember that trying to have an orgasm will make it harder to have one....relax, open your mind, and you will get there!  Good luck
1024076
Yes, it's common. Hey, sometimes we are just not into it ... and it takes us longer ... and we just do it for our man. It's not that we don't enjoy it, we do. We women are more into what is leading up to it. The orgasm is just the topping on the cake. I take charge of that part of it on my own, and most men are not offended by it. You cannot fool an experienced lover, however. The truth is that we tighten- up when we have an orgasm, and a woman can scream and huff and puff all she wants, the experienced lover knows better ... that's all. And if a woman says that she's never faked it, she's not telling the truth.
811010
I'm definitely not an expert on the subject, but from the sounds of things, you may have experienced female ejaculation. It's totally normal and something that some women even strive for. :)
388519
You need to know yourself and what causes you to acheive orgasm, then you share with your guy or girl what turns you on. Some women do not acheive orgasm before having their first child.Some women never acheive orgasm.....If all else fails learn to fake.\n\nYou could also learn to control your pc muscles... this is done by exercising these muscles,act like you are trying to stop a urine flow and like you are trying to stop yourself from passing gas, these muscles are the the ones you need to exercise over and over if nothing else it will keep you tight and exciting.
477869
well in my experience I can become aroused and quickly finish , but if I hold back at the plateau point and steady myself I can maintain arousal indefinetly and now in fact I sometimes can't orgasm ..so that is frustrating..I have faked orgasms before soley because I was tired from pumping..anyway I would say average guy yes and the more inexperience the shorter the time he will last..good luck with that..you can learn techniques that you can use to help him..
1148545
It is very common for young women to have difficulty achieving orgasm, particularly during intercourse. In fact, a significant percentage of women never have an orgasm during intercourse itself. Most women are able to figure out some means whereby they can reach orgasm, whether it is through oral stimulation or manual stimulation. \nA woman may not be able to have an orgasm during intercourse, but ultimately will be able to achieve some means to climax. Obviously, an important variable in achieving this is your partner's emotional support and awareness of your needs. You won't have control over this, but you should learn to express those needs.
682559
i would say most women do, most men dont understand or care that it takes more to please a woman than it does them,as far as me i have never faked an orgasm, its a shame a woman has to.
858727
nope...I've never had PMS