i am sad and i feel like that god doesnt want to see me happy? i want to change my life and my way of thinking
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If god answers you frequently he is increasing your faith,if he answers you occasionally he is testing your patience and if he does not answer you it means that he knows you can handle it. Talk to your parents, it may help.\nRead books and thoughts that inspire you and if your depressed then take a hot bath and listen to soothing music.\nTry to think positive.Naming yourself dishearted is a step backward.\nWHEN WINTER COMES SPRING CANNOT BE FAR BEHIND.
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actualy god doesnt hate you,\nhe tursts your strength in life. i knw its depressing now to have no way out and think that the last emotional link in your life is going to back out on you just like every one else, but its the exact opposite. dont look for a all the sudden big change, change the little things. find a new job, go out on the town by yourself, play pogs if it makes you happy. dont stress so much and dont think that its your fault for what other people have done or ended up and vise versa. and just belive in your strength over anything else beacuse if there is a god he will help you once youve decided its time for you to be happy and turn your life around.
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Probably because you are not exactly happy where you are at in your life now. Things outside of you connot truly make you feel better, you should spend some time each day, even if it is just for a few minutes to allow yourself to think. Whenever I'm not feeling quite right ( whatever that is ) it is usually some unresolved issue that I've been avoiding!
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you are nothing without God. i feel sorry for you and i know i probably shouldn't but i wish you could witness God .it is awesome to have someone to turn to in a time of need. i will be praying for you.
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Well, honestly speaking I am definitely not happy the way I am using my life for his glory, I mean I miss so many chances to pray for others, to share the gospel with other, and waste time, and whatever I do even a little bit seems much little to me and well, if God appeared before me I would really be sorry with my life, but I personally think that God, though he would not be happy at what I have done, would nevertheless be like the father in the Prodigal son, I mean he would still love me and have mercy on me and love me instead of condemning me, he is foreever loving and ready to forgive our greatest mistakes if we repent truly.
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u might be depressed, the best way to relieve this is to pray think positive everyday and get a breath of fresh air go somewhere peaceful and quiet and meditate.
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Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again-rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.\nDon't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.\nFix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned from me and heard from me and saw me doing, and the God of peace will be with you.\nPhilipians 4:4-9
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I feel your pain I have gone thru alot of crap in my life that others my age hve never gone thru I wonder the same thing why does god do this? I even get mad at god for making me go thru so much. But in the end you have to be positive and think that there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Just think you are going thru this right now but later is going to make up for it there is always light and darkness. It is time for our light!
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Answer is simple..if you want to be happy you can be..if you want to feel sad you will be..pl let go your sadness.Its not so easy..but give it up.
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I have felt this way in the past.  Like I am going through motions.  \n\nI think sometimes we build up so many walls to protect ourselves from the pain in the world that we start to distance ourselves from even Him.  \n\nChange your perspective, your vision.  See those who you  into your life as a gift from God.  Try also to and show God's love through yourself.  \n\nYou may even see God through some sort of gesture from someone else.  I did this good deed for a stranger, and what she said to me, made me feel Him.  It was overwhelming.\n\nLike Socrates (the one above not the philosopher) says.  Read the Bible and pray.  God does talk back but we have to learn how to listen.  It's not easy and sometimes the messages aren't exactly clear, but that is not Him its us.  \n\nGod does love you and He is there.
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y are u so sad dear?\n\ni think u need gud friends who can change ur life\n\njus mail me at sumeet_09860170937@yahoo.co.in\n\ni will definitely help u change.\n\ntake care bye
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M_sal What you are doing is exactly what you should do.You should study the word and pray and meditate on God and all of this will strengthen your relationship with him.At first it may not sem to be working but do not be discouraged God is muh more thn  feeling and God will make chnges and God will make changes. The most important thing is to sty close to God in his word and prayer and meditate on him keep him inyour mind and he will do the work in you. May God bless you. You are in my prayers.
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I am a little depressed that I did not accomplish all my goals or stick to my resolves to change my life.  It requires a change, a shift in my perspective for me to see the new year as another chance to live my life the way I would like.
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Thank you for your honest question. It is not as easy as saying I have this feeling. Feelings as you may know can be mis-leading. How you know is your life is changed you do not want to do the things that is sin and people see a change in you. \n\nI hope this helps.
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First off, I think you should go and talk with someone. A leader in your church, someone from a group, your friends, someone who will just listen to you. If you don't want to actively seek out someone, you can pick up the phone and call many of the free lines out there, as they have very caring people on the other end of the phone that can help you out. \n\nYou sound like you are suffering from a severe depressive episode, and I think your best course of action would be to talk with someone who can help you through this. \n\nI hope you do the right thing and help yourself out. Don't hurt yourself; you still feel emotion and pain otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question right now.
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I am very sad that you are hurting so much. Some wounds are very deep and take a long time to heal. You deserve to be loved and cared for! I can't even imagine how much it must hurt to have someone you care about so much do that to you. I don't know if you believe in God, but I do and I believe that he can heal us. I believe that forgiveness is the key to overcoming your hurt. I know it is extremely difficult, but if you can try to push angry feelings away and forgive him for what he has done, you will feel better. I do not believe that finding someone else is the right solution. It is a way to cover or bury your pain, but not heal it. Pray for strength, don't be ashamed to cry, and turn to good friends for support. I will keep you in my prayers as well.
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By all means, please don't kill yourself. Life is what you make it. I know this world can be a cruel place, but you can find solace in God. It sounds like you are a good person with a good heart. Don't despair. Pray for your life to be filled with happiness and love. I will pray for you and keep reminding yourself that your life will only get better. I have been a victim of all those things that you have mentioned, but it only made me stronger as a person. Go out more, spend time with your favorite family members, learn a new hobby, go for the job you always wanted,and find a place of worship where you can confess your heartaches to. Also, keep telling yourself that you are lovable, loving, and you are loved. It helped me and I hope it helps you. Feel better.