Sexual life before marriage ,is it a healthy way of being in a relation?
342452
according to me no,its nice to have a kiss or hug or one touch the other and make him/her excited but no more. i feel sexual life should wait until the get married ,,, in this case they will miss each other so much and the feel that the other partner realy loves him for not doing that withaout any relation.
993992
Most cultures have taboos regarding premarital sex.  Some have evolved from religious beliefs while others are merely a traditional more.  I think it is important for an individual to decide what role sex will play in their whole being.  If sex is just a rhythmic release of raging hormones and something to experience for pleasure then pre or post marital doesn't matter.  If however, a person views sex as the ultimate culmination of an evolving relationship between two people, then it takes on a more mysterious, almost religious aura...that special sex that binds a covenant between lovers should be reserved for marriage. Regardless of the level that sex plays in your life, it is imperative that you practice safe sex...not just to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, but rather to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases like HIV-AIDS, hepatitis, chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea , and herpes.
145791
When you're ready to have sex you are ready to have sex.  If it's before marriage, cool.  If you're not ready until marriage, that's cool too.\nI think sexy before marriage is a good thing.  People speak of how it's more special when you save it.  But honestly if you wait until you're married you're going to suck at it.  Not being able to please your spouse on your honeymooon (a very special occasion) would be a shame.  On the other hand, if both partners are inexperieced they'll at least have a chance to grow and learn about sex together.\nHowever, I think it would be foolish to marry a person you've never slept with.  Sex is a very big part of relationships and if you marry a person without knowing  whether or not they can please you sexually you may find yourself in a very dissatisfied marriage.\nJust think about this:  Would you buy a new car without ever giving it a test drive?
757871
I've been married for 34 years and overall, it's been great.  \n\nI think it's important to know someone before you marry them.  I dated my husband for over 4 years before we married so I knew what kind of person he was.\n\nIt's important to have a relationship built on love and respect.  Communication is a big part of any relationship and I think it helps if you have a good sense of "humor"!\n\nMaintaining a good marriage takes commitment, hard work and you need to be able to "negotiate".  The benefits to both partners (and your family) are priceless.  Having that "safe place" in the world is the best feeling you can have!\n\nJust my opinion, I'm sure everyone has their own.  Good luck.
989709
I see nothing wrong with knowing what you're getting into.  I know others would disagree, but sex is a part of marriage.  If it's not enjoyable because of who you're with, you won't want to be procreating with them (which is the whole biblical point of having sex in marriage).
761838
I personally think that it's better to live with someone before you marry.  Many will disagree with my belief, but it is my own personal preference.  The reason that I believe that is because you never really know someone until you live with them.  You may discover things that you will not be able to tolerate for the rest of your life.
994490
I agree. I think i had to feel comfortable and secure to truly enjoy sex and you get that in a good marriage. \nWith past boyfriends i was a 'hug breaker' but now i've found The One we cling to each other like limpets... its great!
260295
having sex is not really a sin.it depends upon the person u have with.if suppose the person is suffering from std infections then it is really a risk.sex is a feeling that god has given to us.it is the one that allows the perpetuation of the species.\n                      marriage of what this world has learnt is that exchanging the ring,celeberations,and taking oaths.but marriage is the bond that is created between man and women both physically and mentally.so if u love the person and he is really a fine good person then go ahead.
383089
It's healthy as long as the relationship is keeping you happy most times...\ntoo much a n a l  sex is not healthy...beware!
100653
While I'm not a guy... I had to respond on this one..\n\nWhile waiting to have sex until your married is a honorable decision, it doesn't make sense.  You have to be happy in all parts of your marriage.  Since you'll be with that person until 'death do you part', wouldn't you like to sample the wares before buying them?  I know that sounds crude, but waiting until you get married can cause a lot of problems in the marraige...\n\n-Doubts and daydreams over what it might have been like with another person.  Could it be better?  Could lead to cheating.\n\n-Sexual problems - this one can be open ended and limitless.\n\nSo while you shouldn't go sleep with any Tom, Dick, Harry, or Jane... you should probably consider having sex with your fiance/girlfriend/boyfriend before you get married...
1182904
Yes and No.  If you save yourself for marriage, you won't have anything to compare it to, so sex will be great.  You also won't have to worry about getting pregnant and being some baby's mama.  And you'll also be at less risk of contracting an STD.
220928
Sex in marriage is a must, before that, NO!\n\nOut of marriage, sex is just an instinct full get together used to fulfill your passions or desires. You just do the body thing, get filled up, and that's all. Sex should not take place before marriage.\n\nIn marriege, sex complements the relation, helps the couple to get deeper feelings, respect, and all those kind of stuff.
401713
sex before marriage means to know ur self and what u are going to affront before u take an important step in ur life. sex is not the only thing to do before u get married. and there are things much more important to "try" and taste before u take a final decision, it's just that the world is built on weightless things in a way that we are getting lost in the needs of society instead of caring for our real needs.
829657
Well I don't think what u're doing is a mistake. I myself am a virgin and I also intend to keep it that way until I am married. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody's views about that are different though cuz some people don't believe in the "sex before marriage" thing. Some say sex is simply sex. Well for me,when that time comes,I want it to be special and I want it to be with that person I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with,my husband to be. Hence the reason I'm waiting until I get married.. Anyway,it's your choice and if u choose to remain one, that's great so don't worry about it. I'm sure when u get married, u'll be glad that u did! Take care..
256914
Once you are married yes before that it shouldn't be a deal breaker
335433
Well-Its very healthy for you IF you practice safe sex. HOPEFULLY  with the same partner.
660651
I would say so..sex is such a huge roll in a relationship taht without it could cause trouble even separation..so yeah it can improve life