when he flirts with my female friends in front of me is it to get me jelous or move on?
348985
it's time to move on.if your freinds let him flirt with them they aren't your real freinds anyway. i think you know the answer just by asking. good luck!!!
976517
why should i? i also flirts with other men heheheh
955064
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
479431
Get out of his way.  He sounds like a lot more fun than you.  Stop holding him back.  \n*You are so jelous*
696832
Hey Naomi,\n\nMe and my friend, after reading your email, sitting in our office downtown...totally think you should flirt back.  If you flirt back and he is cool with it, then at least you know he is interested enough to put forth the effort to show more attention.  If he is not cool with it, you'll know he just likes flirting with everyone and he may not have any special interest in you.  I'm sure he will, cuz you sound like a cutie .... have fun.\n\nJazz
791071
He is making you hold on while he moves on and has his fun with other women. Get a life-move on, don't sit around and wait on him.
1064318
if he did not like you, he would not make that comment. He is putting a filler out to see if you cool or are you going to shoot him down. You should reply, in a flirtatious manner to let him know you are game!
859934
if she's flirting to the point of making you uncomfortable then you have to say something.  if she's really your friend she'll respect that and keep it friendly.  another issue is do you trust your man?  if so then don't even trip because you know exactly who he's going home with at the end of the night.  it's all about trust but you shouldn't tolerate disrespect especially from your friends.
362426
Sounds like he just wants you to be a groupie of his. If you don't want to, then stick to your guns! Give him the cold shoulder, if you have to. You don't need him.
954461
Flirt with other men you work with, but don't overdue it. jelousy will make him reclaim his territory! No bs its how us guys think!
13918
Don't mess with things if he has a girlfriend. If he's starting to get feelings for you, then he'll break up with her and start persuing a relationship with you. If you find it hard not to flirt with him, then focus on your other friends and give yourself some space from him. If you like him, you shouldn't want to interfere with his happiness. Don't try to talk about it with him, just see how things unfold.
1055127
hell no you're not being stupid. he is obviously stringing you both along. find yourself someone who isn't going to play around with other girls. Good luck.
88808
Does the guy know that you like him? And if he does then you can express that you're interested in him, but don't get carried away. Some guys don't like when a girl flirts too much. Maybe he just might come around and notice that you are worth being with other than that other girl. If not, like the saying goes, There are other fish in the sea. So there will always be someone else out there that will treat you right and make you feel important. However like they all said before me, if he does seem like a player, then don't call him back cuz you will only get hurt.
750220
if you really feel like you need to lose weight for his FRIENDS, go ahead. dressing differently will make you cooler, but you will not be yourself anymore. but do whatever floats your boat. if you want my opinion, dont change anything. you sound like a really sweet girl and if he is stupid enough not to see you for you, then the best thing might be to move on and just forget about him. i know its cliche, and you didnt want to hear it, but you might have to. ask him what is wrong and if he is a true friend, he will tell you. and if he really does love you, then he will come back to you, unless he is a complete moron who only goes for the sluts. try ignoring him for a while, and see how he reacts to you. \n\n\ngood luck!!
657179
does he talk about how he likes other girls around you a lot? if he does, then he might just think of you as a really good friend, as someone he can always count on and trust. but...if he doesn't, then that just might be your sign to make your move. but don't go into it too fast, or you might end up driving him away. i had a guy friend like that, and we did almost everything together. a lot of people said that we would be cute and good for each other since we always did everything together. well, after a while we started dating and it took about 3 days to realize that it was way too weird and we stopped dating. luckily we stayed friends.  but I've also had friends in your situation that had started dating, and are so happy together. it depends on what you're willing to do and sometimes risk. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and wish you good luck!
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
469076
Well, the flirting is a good start on your part, and a good sign on his. Try and move the conversation around to his girlfriend to see is he has moved on. If not, put your arm around him or on him etc SYMPATHETICALLY. If he likes this, you can do it more often. Ask pertinant questions. Some males are wimps and like the women to be in control. If he has already done stuff like this though, its time to let him take the driving seat. Remember though, go with your heart, but you may have a better relationship if you are just friends.