For the girls to answer - Does your man get a bit jealous/insecure of a sex toy?
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i think any guy would like it... if he's man enough he'll know he's better than the toy and he'll enjoy it with his woman
411823
Personally, I don't do it.  =&#92;  \n\nI mean... maybe if he asked or something, I might consider it.  \n\nAnd who needs toys if you have a real man?  ;]   Haha... I apparently need them now.  Lol.
555366
For both of them....if it turns him on more, don't you benefit. Put it on for your man and quit worrying!!
85237
I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
776643
absolutely.  I've had it happen to me on more than one occasion.  they are nervous for one reason or the other.  if he was really into you, then sometimes that's a scary thing for a man, because they want it to be good and therefore get performance anxiety and just can't.  don't worry about it, take it as a compliment.  just gives you something to look forward to the next time.
486274
It depends on the man. Believe it or not every man has a diferent "flavor" and sometimes it is not all that great.
41782
I know how ya feel, I've had girlfriends who were the same-I got in trouble if I "looked" at a woman! To be honest, he loves you & is afraid of loosing you, It's what ya call "insecurity".
510196
I would and I do! Vibrating toys can make a guy crazy, in a good way. I think all women should have one for their guy, plus it is a easy way to relieve some of their pressure. I had a BF that could sleep well, so if he was tossing a bit, I would rev up a toy and wear him out a bit, slept like a baby....lol
936112
well I only have a few toys..and most of them have batteries, some with a string attached and mostly bought for me by the men I have dated.\n\n\n-hope that helps
65678
I would strap her to the washing machine. Real men deserve real women and no real woman would ask her man do something that is so self-absorbed. Sex is about sharing a good time, not a challenge to make the man stress out that he is not satisfying his woman\n\n\nok, ya got me. I agree with what your saying. If your in the sack with your love and you are looking for some pizzaz. Then explain that to him. I imagine that he would like a wild time too but might consider it rude or that you would take great offense and call him a pervert or something. In general men tend to think that having sex is a great gift and they don't want to do anything that might jeopardize it. As for some ideas I might suggest sex in less that private places, role playing, toys, on furniture. One of my favorites would have to be trying to recreate something I saw in a movie. Don't forget the jelly:)
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Are you jealous or do you want it?
842167
I have a jealous partner! I love him to bits, (he had a tough time with his last girlfriend), anyhoo I have been with him for 5 years and just do my best to reassure him, If I meet new people I make sure he gets introduced to them as soon as possible so he doesn't jump to conclusions, I include him in plans and nights out because to be honest I prefer to have him out with me anyway, as I said I love him and enjoy his company! I think it would be strange to have a partner that doesn't get jealous....it would be like they didn't care! If you love the guy help him through it if you can't be arsed with the hassle dump him!
606656
It adds fun. BUT, it's entirely dependent upon 'how' the girl wears the lingerie-- i.e., we can breathe life into the items. It's kind of like acting- if your girl plays the part of the sex kitten or the smoldering vixen, depending on what type of item it is- you're in for an INCREDIBLE night! If it sparks yours and her imaginations, then it's certainly more 'fun' than self esteem boosting-- it just happens that one USUALLY leads to the other.
15740
Most likely, he thinks that you are using your toys because he's not satisfying you. Simply explain to him that it is not the case (unless it is the case...).
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For the most part no, but there are those extreme cases where it is just too small or too big even.  Most men seem so worried about this, I don't get it. \n\nWider definately. But then I am a short girl so length can become an issue.
434120
No judgment, but, during sex is probably not the best time to bring up something so sensitive. Perhaps she might discuss it with him before or afterwards (if she wants to give it another try) - maybe she can guide him as to how he can satisfy her - that's up to her (it really depends on how much she likes him OUTSIDE the bedroom). \n\nIt's a delicate issue, but I'm sure she can find a way to deal with it without completely demolishing his ego (there is a risk of that).
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I'm female so I don't have one, but I can tell you that I slept with a guy who had a Pricne Albert and the sex was inhanced but I could not give him head as teh jewelry kept choking me.