I walked in on my girlfriend and my neighbor "doing it ", what should I do?
340752
first dye your hair and stop seeing that hooker, you deserve better someone like me. buy me a Mercedes ill be loyal daddy
272666
Hire a big guy and have him use A gun, A knife, A bat, A heavy object …etc or if you're not into “violence”  you can just move. lol j/k\n\nIn all seriousness if this neighbor of your doesn’t move out or isn’t kicked out you should seriously think about moving, especially since you have kids.If this guy beat his “girlfriend” up he obviously doesn’t go buy the rule men don’t hit woman. So, I don’t think it would be wise for you to “talk” to this “man.” I use quotes on the word man because a real man wouldn’t lay a hand on women. Period.
1140219
Well, I didn't exactly sneak out, but I did sneak into my girlfriend's (at the time) house.  We crawled in through her bedroom window.  We had some fun :)\n\nThen, the next morning, her mother knocked on the door to wake her up.  I didn't say anything or move, obviously, but then I sighed and my gf freaked out, saying, "Oh my God, she's gonna know, that's a guy's sigh!"
1014541
Do a coworker or neighbor.
353798
i moved in with my boyfriend when we were together for about 2 years as well...and were still living together...and we've been together for 5 years now...it brought us closer together...with out a doubt....you just learn a lil more about that person...theres always going to be something that you dont like that they do and they dont like that you do ...but you work around it and work together...i think its a beautiful thing...i enjoy being with him so much...if you love her and enjoy being with her and spending time with her then i say go for it...your not making the wrong decision...it will be an adjustment...but have fun with her...good luck
404790
I have the same kind of neighbor, I just started shutting my doors, windows, and totally ignoring her for about a week, I wasn't rude about it, just acted like I was always busy.  I think she finally got the hint, doesn't do it as much anymore.  Just always act like your getting ready to do something, or how about when your husband comes home, if he has a cell phone, call him and make it ring, so he can walk away and take his call, what else can she do if he's busy as well.
700352
go for it!!! if she says no then when u have a date over just show her off...make ur neighbor jealous!!!! have fun wit it!!!\n~sweetie pie~
709004
Whne I met my Girlfriend
685929
You should confront her ... in a neglige with some soft music in a place where you can have some privacy. And PLEASE don't forget to set up a video camera so the rest of us can see what happens.
394634
why not move in with you? Who is this guy? \n\nDon't let her, but also don't be possesive of her. Figure out why she wants to live with him, and also talk to this guy to figure out what he's like.
908334
You can share your feedback with your girlfriend. Her reaction will tell you if she is receptive to feedback & whether she would be willing to change. If she is offended by your remarks or gets angry take a cue & move out.
552812
appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!
360100
confront them!\nthey invaded your privacy, and abused your trust.\nif it is possible, i would suggest moving, because you dont know what else they get into when your not around, or how often they do it.
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
1177498
Get your key back or change the locks. It's quite easy to do.\n\nThey are taking advantage of you. Tell them that they need to use their own apartment to cook and clean in and a laundromat to clean their clothes.   \n\nThey also need to chip in for running up your electric bill. now is not the time to be meek
754825
it is quiet and all of my neighbors are old people...except for this one REALLY CUTE GUY!!!!!!!!!(and when I checked out the neighborhood, he said that he wished that I would be his neighbor...and wished me luck....so...who knows????) \n\nno, that is not why I moved in...just consider it a bonus, though\n\nI think I may need help one day and he will be the only person that will be able to ask for help... I wonder where that will lead????...
794799
You should have left her when she wouldn't let you see her house.  There were MANY clues here which you seemed to ignore!  She was using you.  Go find someone decent!