Is there any way one can overcome gay feelings? am a christian  I need help?
337752
You are not a christian because you are gay.
1020989
don't fight it.  just be yourself and don't try to label it as "gay" or "straight".  you don't HAVE to be either, just be true to yourself - that's the only way you'll be truly happy with your relationships.\n\nkeep in mind that when being true to yourself and finding inner happiness, you will also come across ppl who don't understand and you'll have to deal with those ppl as they come, but remember; this is your life and you should do what brings you peace.
254044
Love, there are lots of clinics and programs that claim to "reform" homosexuals.  They don't really seem to work.  First don't go around dating the opposite sex and doing sexual things with them just to make yourself feel better.  Generally this makes you feel worse.  \n\nTake time out, think, reflect.  Don't force yourself to be heterosexual.  Don't force yourself to be anything.  Accept who and what you are reguardless.  Lables like "gay" and "Straight" do more harm than good.  If you can see beyond gender (the way alot of people can see beyond skin color, or ethnicity, or religion all the silly things that seperate us) Cheers to you.
933946
Glad to see you're a Christian....\n\nPlease try not to feel this way.  I remember feeling like that at one time, too.  I used to wonder about what God wanted me to do in my life, then I realized He has written it right there what He wants us to do...its all in His word!!\n\nAs for the recreation, pray about it.  Ask the Lord for His will to be done.  Keep letting your light shine, hon...and heads up!!  You've already made the wisest decision you could ever make...the decision to serve the Lord!!  Trust in Him, and He will guide you.\n\nGod Bless
845373
Feel the situation out.  Do you know how he feels about gay people?  In the right time and place you will be able to tell him you are and how you have felt.  If he is not gay then you can't change him, don't try it won't work and do'nt push it.  Many straight people have gay friends.
237853
Jesus loves you. Get a bible and read to know how. Read it even if you don't feel like. That will change your life. Believe me it has changed mine!
457064
Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
516939
If I knew what you felt so stupid about I could help you better, but pick up a bible ,and no matter what it is it will help. Psalm 23, read this and pray through GOD he can make any happen GOOD LUCK !!!!!
504718
I don't have an easy answer for you.  My understanding is that you can be gay and be a Christian, as long as you are celibate.  You would be in the same position as a heterosexual, unmarried Christian.  \n\nAs long as you aren't engaging in a sinful lifestyle, and you are trying to serve God and being transformed by your relationship with Him, your attraction - not acted on - makes no difference.\n\nI wish you all the best.  May God bless you as you endeavor to serve Him.
566007
THIS IS WHY RELIGION IS EVIL!!! THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOMOSEXUAL FEELINGS AND ATTRACTIONS, PEOPLE IN GENERAL ARE BEAUTIFUL, IT IS OK TO BE ATTRACTED TO ANOTHER MAN OR WOMEN, THE IMPORTANT THING IS THAT YOU ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE, YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY UNTIL YOU DO!\n\nbut anyway get a sex change, then you don't have to worry about "the sin of a man being attracted to another man" then you'll be a women with and Adam's apple, large hands, and a deep voice that's attracted to men...\n\nBut in all honest i doubt your god cares if you're gay, he made you that way didn't he?
879666
Thank you for your honest question. It is not as easy as saying I have this feeling. Feelings as you may know can be mis-leading. How you know is your life is changed you do not want to do the things that is sin and people see a change in you. \n\nI hope this helps.
862545
First things first, STOP HATING YOURSELF! Nothing you do is going to change who you are - accept it and move on. You need to be more positive in your life. God made you who you are and so you need to be yourself. Go see a shrink to help raise your self-esteem and to help remove the self-hating aspect of your life. Get out into the community and meet people, great friends are the best thing in the world. You might surprise yourself and find out that you really do like being a gay man.
113806
Thas not true.  I am neither one of those but I can tell you that God says no sin is greater than the other.  Wether you murder your parents or do a man when your a man thats still sin to him and every soul may seek forgiveness.  You may not be correct in your actions, you may not follow all the laws of god, but you can still believe.  God says that taking the same sex to bed together is a sin and he also says that gossip is a sin but nine out of ten times i bet you do that, so what makes you or anyone else better than the other.  If you are gay or a lesbain, to me, that is your sin, you will answer to god just like me for my sins.  Which is greater?  How can god put a scale on how bad you hurt him?  A sin is just that, a sin to god.  Worldly pleasures are just worldly pleasures.  Just try and live your life as correct as possible for god and it shouldn't matter if you're gay or a lesbain.  Just let him know you believe and ask him to live in your heart.  If you truely except him than the lord will help you discover who he has planned for you to love.
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Stop making an issue of him being gay. He is a person just like anyone else and Im sure it would please him to be treated as everyone else. Going out of your way to  "please him" in some special way will comeoff as fake and he will feel it.\n\nJust be yourself and work as usual.
813901
Oh, but I thought it was just so "impossible" to be gay and a Christian, too...\n\nI feel bad for people like that who live their entire lives ashamed of who they are.
399786
yeah God can give you hope, change your life correct yourself and go away the gay lifestyle start your new whole life, go to church, make friends spread the word of gGod and you will be loved by someone ESPECIALLY GOD. GOOD LUCK DUDE.
317332
Hey,\nThis must be really hard. But why did you tell your parents you wernt?\nWhat you need to do to feel better is tell them the truth. They will love you no matter what. Theres nothing wrong with being gay!