My wife, a scorpio, 6 kids, caught flirting heavily w/emails. Does she want out or just flirting?
339563
Hmmmm... are u seriously going to judge this according to her horoscope? \nhahahahaha... I can't help but laugh!
319411
I understand how you are feeling. Not that it has happened to me but I can imagine how it would make you feel. I am married and if my wife were conversing with another man over the internet, I would be concerned. But if she went to all the trouble to wipe out the conversation logs. I would be doubly concerned. Yea, he may give you some reason as a matter of security, but he should have no problem in letting you see those logs before he deletes them. \n\nSome time ago, I was talking to another woman over the internet but as a rule, I would never say nothing negative about my wife. Of course you should not anyway. But we all get mad. And if we start talking to another woman or man about how we are unhappy about our spouses, we are opening the door for an internet affair. Another thing is I would try to get my wife to read the logs because I would let her know I talked to an online woman and I wanted her to be secure. \n\nTalk to your husband about it. Tell him you need to feel more secure about this. People are leaving spouses all the time and flying across the country for people they never seen. And tell him it would protect him too because you love him so much
129582
It's one thing to flirt harmlessly in person during a chance-encounter.  It makes both parties feel good about themselves (as long as boundaries are always recognized)....but to flirt via email- seems worse, actually..... that means the other party was sought out.
1103014
im a p.i. and ill say this, if you got a bad feeling about her, yes. never ignore your instincts. IT COULD SAVE YOUR ASS ONE DAY AND YOUR INVESTMENTS. I SUGGEST DOING AN INVESTIGATION ON HER TO SEE IF SHE REALLY IS SHADY QUIETLY.  never let her have any control over anything at all in the company. ever unless they are married. ID EXPOSE THE BLOW JOB REPORT AND KEEP FIRM ABOUT THE WHOLE THING.
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Hello, \nWell it seems to me that this person is making a pass at her. He is doing it and with hope that he score with her and maybe she will give up either the 7 digits or something even more. If you read into it and pay attention to it he is using this as a way to charm her. Most of us women like that kind of stuff and the attention as well so I think that is what it is he is flirting!
254655
Tricky situation...\n\nIf you decide you want to do her, then work late often.  However, she needs to make the first move.  Afterall, she's the boss, right?  Once she puts the two of you in a less than professional situation and it is understood that it is consentual and everything is cool, then take her in every way.  Have sex in the office on her bosses desk, etc.     \n\nNow for the problem...although you are the employee and therefore not quite as responsible for behavior that might be against policy or a conflict of interest.  In essence, she will realize that if things were to go sour, she could get into some real trouble to the point of being fired.  You've really got her over a barrel.  However, if it comes to your word against her's and if she is a valuable employee, she could simply deny everything and who's to know the difference.  Now you're the one that will be fired.  Eventually, one of you will say "It was great, but now it's over."  The other person may not take this well and go off the deep end.  Now there's a lot of explaining to do.  If you let this affair happen, you can safely predict that one of you will be gone within a year.  \n\nNow, if you still want to enjoy the gifts that life has to offer and be naughty with her, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, you need to be smart and protect your interests.  Collect and retain evidence, such as a card she might have given you, emails, voice messages, bra & panties.  With this, she will never dare take the risk.  In fact, when it comes time for your performance evaluation and raise, it should be very interesting and amusing to watch her try to remain separately objective.  My crystal ball says you should do quite well.\n\nHaving said all this, I know that I could manage it well.  When an opportunity for hot sex comes my way, I go for it.  However, I've also seen people totally mess up their lives because they just can't keep their emotions under control.  Only you can decide if you can make this work.  If you doubt yourself, it might be safer and easier to leave it alone and avoid further situations where either of you might be tempted.\n\nSo, what do you want out of life... daring excitement with calculated risk/reward or non-spontainious safety with no risk/no reward?  I say; our time is short, so make the most of it.  Let those puppies breathe, let those panties fly and give her a deep one for me!
782246
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
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How about you don't access it?  He may have a good reason for keeping it from you.  My wife and I both have personal email accounts that the other person does not have access.  I trust her to manage her own email and show me what she wants to and vice versa.  In fact, I use that email account to receive shipping confirmations for just about everything I've purchased for her online.  Wouldn't want her to see that, would I?\n\nEither way no one hear (in their right mind) would give you advice on how to illegally access anyone else's email.  If he doesn't want to show you or even admit that he has that email account, that's his business.  And his legal right to keep it private.
84684
By law the rings were gifts and are hers to do with as she pleases.  She should be having no contact with this man for any reason.  Have her block his emails and if that doesn't work she should get a new email address.
991718
I got caught in that scam too. My feeling is, if you truly do have the power to see/predict someone's future, you would not use it for financial gain. If she really had your best interests at heart, why does she keep sending these "imprtant" messages  you have to pay to get? Shady dealings if ya ask me.
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My wife was good at manipulating me when I believed what she said.  Now I don't put any value in anything she says and the funny thing is WE are happier.\n\nA while back we seperated (she was having an affair).  She said she wanted to be fair so I took the word "fair" to heart.  She moved out so I took over all the house hold bills because I was using everything, but her student loans, her car payments were hers.  We also consolidated our debt and she paid me half to which promptly paid.  She had access on the internet to see it was paid every month and never late.  So things seem fair right?\n\nI don't need much free spending cash to get by so all the sudden I had more money than I needed.  My wife however, had to pay a seperate rent and other bills so her cash flow was pretty low.  She then said we should go into mediation and discuss child support.  She already said that she didn't want allimony.  Now I don't go into negotiations blind so I read up on child support.  As we were waiting to meet the person who would mediate my wife & I she was telling my how money was so tight.    \n\nWhen we actually meet with the mediator I took charge saying that I just want to make sure what we were doing is "fair".  Then I Iaid out how we had already divided up the bills and that my wife did not want allimony.  The mediator agreed everything seemed fair.  Now my wife brought up child support and restating she didn't want allimony.  I then pulled out what I had learned that in the state I lived in child support was a simple mathematical calculation based on the percent of time each parent had the children.  The look on my wife's face was priceless when I told her from what I found she would have to pay ME childsupport.  My wife grabbed those papers so quick I almost laughed.  The mediator glanced at them and said if the numbers where right then I was correct.  The look on my wife's face was priceless and I think this was also the same time she started to realized that the fantasy life she was hoping to have was never going to happen.  \nI left the meeting feeling happy that my life could only get better.  I continued seeing a few new friends with benefits for a six months or so and my wife found out that her lover was not as stable financially as she thought.  We did get back together, but I always try to be fair.
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This is just something we do. It is the excitement we get trying to flirt with someone we know we can't have.  It is the adrliane rush we get.  Because maybe your wife will give a reaction.  Some women geed of of negative reactions in public.  Don't feel bad if you catch the bad end of it because it is easier to take her frustration out on you because the attention is at you.
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You'd know better than us...But this woman sounds like she has severe mental problems. Could that be right?\n\nThere are just plain cheaters and jerks who don't care. But then there are people who are disturbed and need help. \n\nShe must be in the latter category. Who else would involve her kids in this? And bring them to a hotel where she's meeting a random dude? God knows what could've happened to them. Not to mention the diseases your wife could get! That'll mess the kids up real good for a long while. \n\nGet them in therapy please. And your wife too. She needs help.
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You were not wrong - that's your personal space & if you didn't feel like letting her do that for you, then it's your business. If she was flirting that was a pretty blatant way to tell you what she was interested in. Also, if she was truly interested in you she would have attempted to continue a conversation with you. But no, you don't have to let someone do something that personal for you if you do not wish to.
64936
Maybe her emails that are sent to you are going into your spam mail...it does this sometimes, even if she is in your addy account!
121240
First of all...that was very thoughtful of you to approach her with a gift on her Birthday (how sweet!). I think that her e-mail's are flirtations back at you and you should proceed with perhaps a lunch invitation and see how things go from there! Good luck! you sound like a really nice and thoughtful guy!
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if he asks u 2 open his emails, it means he's not hiding anything.\njust ask him casually wat that pic is doing in his inbox \nim sure there's no big deal!\n\nits just that there r so many flirty bitches who like 2 mess up somebody else's relationships