how to keep white woman in relationship with black man?
341468
1st - Stop looking at "White" and "Black".  Drop the color.  According to the Human Genome project, \n\n      "Every human being on the planet is 99.9% identical."\nWe are all much more alike than we are different.\n\n2nd - Treat her with respect, dignity, love, compassion, etc...  King was right:  it really is less about the color of your skin and more about the content of your character.  If you're a kind man, it doesn't matter your color. If you're a jerk, it doesn't matter your color.  Be a good MAN.  Be the kind of MAN any woman, regardless of color, would WANT to be in relationship with.\n\nI wish you Peace.
91271
As a black woman myself, I have to ask why in the world are you dating a man who only works part time???  It will be hard enough with society with him being white...but a broke one at that???  Sheesh!  Now, to answer your question...possibly.  I have learned from experience to trust your instincts.  If you feel he is or might be cheating then you are probably right.  If you are really concerned, just ask him.
958122
I am a black man and my wife is white / Native American. We have been together 17 years and have to beautiful children
611903
How about setting some time aside just for discussion. Ask him about the things you don't understand, give him a chance to explain thoroughly his attitudes and thoughts on as many subjects as you would like. Do this a couple of times a week until you feel comfortable with your feelings and understand. Do the same for him because chances are he doesn't understand some things about us African American women either.
355600
trust me, you dont need to go to the ghettos to get an african american guy thre are plenty of them living in good suburbs and nice places than even whites. if he is your boyfriend and you are planning to get married then move on have his baby, infact mixed babies are so beautiful than none mixed whites. congratulations.
1005428
I don't see the big deal.  If white women are dating all the black men, why can't black women date white men, Mexicans, etc?  Plus I feel like a lot of the black women who are upset by seeing a white woman with a black man have issues with themselves.  Seriously, there are pleny of black men.  If you can't find one re-evaluate yourself.
1175011
Yes.  My son's father is white.  Is there a reason a black woman wouldn't make love to a white man....especially if he turned her on?  I'd make love to any man, no matter what color, if I loved him and he turned me on.  As for your third question.....I'm not answering that.
133049
I'll put it like this: People are gonna judge you no matter what. If he wasn't black and he was white SOMEBODY would find SOMETHING wrong with the relationship. All you can do is live your life and if you like black guys, go for what you know, ya feel me? I'm black and I love women of all races so you can ALWAYS holla at me :)
788645
first of all, I believe that most fathers would jump down the throat of a man who just wrecked his daughters car and caused her to have to go to hospital. That's not a race thing. Had he been a black man I'm sure the same would have followed. However, there is an adjustment when one of your own(so to speak) dates a person of another race. They should have been over it by now, dating for three years, so perhaps it's not his color that's bugging them at all. Maybe it is just his character.I'm a white woman, whose sister married a black man, and I remember how hard it was on my parents for a while. We all realize that people are people and wouldn't it be such an easier world to live in if we didn't see race or color, but unfortunately it is the way it is, and how do we change ones opinion? We don't. We just have to take a hold of our lives, and do what is absolutely best for us. If this is the man you want to spend your life with, well, your parents can't stop your heart. And as for his family"economic class", that's their class, not his. He will establish a class of his own. Whether they're poor or rich, he's neither yet, that has yet to be established until he is on his own, with his own life. If you were only doing this to spite your parents, I'd say you're making a huge mistake. But if you truly love this man, your parents won't abandon you, at least not forever, follow your heart, and best wishes with your future plans.
215363
your other question is about your wife?  How bout you end that first and then think about getting you a new white girl...
187130
I am in a similar place as you, except I'm a white female attracted to black males (also white males).  In most cases, when I come across a black male ( far and few between, here in Aledo, TX) they're usually wearing a wedding ring.  There are a number of interracial couples out there, so we know there's hope!  Whoever our mate turns out to be, regardless of race, finding "that one" with a same like mind as yours WILL BE yours one day.  Try to be patient.  Take care.
612594
OK, I'm not addressed (white guy here) but I'd date/marry any color woman if we clicked. It'll be interesting to see what sincere black males contribute here.
149023
Love him unconditionally and give him respect. For women, it's very difficult for them to remember that men are wired for respect. That's just the way it is. If you show him that you respect and love him... he'll be yours forever.
221973
Some black women have a hard time dealing with black men dating white women because they believe that there is a shortage of good black men and that the white women are stealing their men.  Being a white woman who has dated black men, I have experienced this.  But racism is certainly not limited to black women; I am Italian and my family is totally against interracial dating.  I believe that people should be free to date anyone they want; what matters is that they like each other and treat one another with respect.  Most people who oppose interracial dating do so because they fear that which they do not know.  The only way to improve the situation and stop the hatred is to just forge ahead and date whomever you want, no matter what people say.  Only love is real; the rest is superficial.
733173
They are not ready. It would be a scandal.\nI married a black woman and we still face angry looks and remarks.
1150277
Wow. That's horrible. She needs to get some respect for you. If you like a white guy, you like a white guy... Nothing she can do about it. Everyone of every nationality has different personalities. She is being ridiculous. Tell her that. If she's still really stubborn about it, try not talking to her until she changes her mind and realizes how wrong she is.
1176928
Your girlfriend is saying that ultimately she don't see herself settling (get married) with someone outside of her race. You must decide if you are willing to tolerate someone with such views, AND if you must judge her level of seriousness about the topic and whether she can be swayed to look beyond your skin tone. \n\nRegardless of how much we love someone it is important to realize that there is nothing that we can do if they are not willing to work at making the relationship last.