I'm gay...what should i do?
349909
Assume you are male?   If you are and you say that you love her is this just as a friend or a physical way?  If just as a friend then tell her you are gay, she is your friend after all and if you feel that close to her that you can say you love her why would you not tell her?\n\nIf you are a lady, and you think that she loves you, then you should also tell her.
880743
Go on and ask him. He's very open to the idea of being gay. You guys should help each other discover your sexual orientations and preferences. But don't rush into things that fast because you guys are still young. People switch teams all the time. Just take things a step at a time. Focus on discovering who you really are. G'luck!
662767
You're gay. Being Gay, I know a thing or two about gay... and you are definately gay.
790617
Introduce him as your slave.  That should pull the wool over their eyes.\n\nSeriously, why hide who you are?  Are you ashamed of being gay?  [If you still live at home, you get a "bye" about telling your parents until you can support yourself.]\n\nGood luck!
563104
Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
454256
I don't know why I'm gay. I don't remember being given a choice. Perhaps you could tell me when you chose to be straight?
71103
Is it about friendship or relationship?  Knowing that you are gay is big enough already, don't add that you are in love with him to the mix.  It will be too much to handle.  Coming out is hard.  You do risk losing him as a friend also.  Not everyone's upbringing has prepared them for this.  If he is a true friend with a reasonable upbringing, he will still be your friend.
862545
First things first, STOP HATING YOURSELF! Nothing you do is going to change who you are - accept it and move on. You need to be more positive in your life. God made you who you are and so you need to be yourself. Go see a shrink to help raise your self-esteem and to help remove the self-hating aspect of your life. Get out into the community and meet people, great friends are the best thing in the world. You might surprise yourself and find out that you really do like being a gay man.
502703
Get command of the English language and then write back so that we  understand you. As to male/male sex...have fun. Be safe, enjoy...if you are gay...live your life. Be the person that you would be proud to be. Stop listening to everyone else. Listen to your heart.
448598
What?! I'm GAY?!?! NOOOOOOoooo!!!
1027778
If he is gay, the only way to stop him from being gay is to Kill him.  That is the only way.  You might be able to terrorize him into pretending to be straight, but he'll still be gay.\n\nTake this advice or not, but your best option is to simply support him and let him be himself.
1091432
I think everyone is a little bit gay... and everyone's curious, even if they don't admit it.  I say do what you want to do.  No regrets.  As long as you don't hurt anyone else in the process, go get yours.
221684
I'M NOT GOOD AT THIS BUT I WILL TRY TO HELP YOU OUT...WHEN YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP (if you are) WITH A GAY, HOW DO YOU FEEL?ARE YOU HAPPY?CONTENTED?SECURE?YOU NEED TO WEIGHT THINGS OUT, HOW HIGH IS YOU LEVEL OF HAPPINESS. \nand when you are in a realatonship with a opposite sex, how do you score yourself when it comes to commitment, happiness, security etc.\nIf you feel you are more comfortable with living with the opposite sex then by all means convince yourself to divert your attention to the opposite sex. \nall you need to do is to assess yourself what you really like, what makes you happy...the important thing here to consider is HAPPINESS- YOUR OWN HAPPINESS.If you think you're more happy to be with a gay (anyway, some gays do share deep feelings not just sex- just find the person) then go for it, If you think you're more happy to share your life with the opposite sex (other women too just want sex,sex and sex again) then open your eyes and your heart and start looking.\nGood luck...I hope I helped you in a little way.
37035
Stop behaving like a f.a.g.!\n\nDont act on your gay impulses. Im violent, but I dont act it out cause I dont want to suffer the conciquences of such actions. Sure easier said then done, but you apprently have a rocky path to travel, life is seldom fair so make the best of what you got or go through life unhappy!
843290
He would say, "thanks, that is very nice, but I am gay....what are we supposed to do about that? " It is very easy to develope feelings for Gay men, they are open, funny, and easy to approach. Keep your feelings in check, for you know from the start that nothing can come of it other than friendship..which is nice, but not a romantic relationship, if that is what you are looking for. Gay men cannot suddenly become straight, anymore than a straight man can become gay. Leave it at that. Good luck
545824
Do what you feel right for you. If you're sure this guy likes you back then you can fight it together. Does his parents know he's gay? If they do it'd be even better they can talk with you parents and let them understand.\n Just remember one thing: GOD DOESN'T HATE GAYS, no matter what anybody tells you just remember that sentence and you'll be just fine.\n\n I know exactly how you feel, I'm gay too and my parents doesn't know either and I'm really scared of telling them but I know I have to someday.\n\n If you're 100% you're gay then you have to tell them, you owe it to them, they need to know and then they'll decide. If you're still living with them then don't tell them until you move out so they won't kick you out.\n\n Hope everything works out good for you.\n  Keep in touch (Click on my name and then click "Contact Michael" if you would like to send me an email)\n         Chao                                  Peace
380412
from what you had said it's look that you like to be gay and simple. \nI will tell you what I believed.....you are what you has been born on so if you born a man be a man and if you born a woman be a woman, second inside you is telling you that what you are doing is wrong and it's drive you to the right way. be simple and Jonie the air force. there is nothing nice to be a gay. & fiend a nice girl and do what ever you like to do.\nI know gay people will HAIR me....