Wut should i do bout ma friend dilema?
340155
the most important thing i'll tell you right now is that by one year after graduating you'll be lucky if you talk to half of your friends still. by two, you'll maybe have a handful. and by three to four years after school of you've kept one friend from school, you'll be lucky. most of us change and grow apart and go in all sorts of directions. this gives you the opportunities to make friends with similar interests, and connect with people that grow with you. and then families take up lot's of time and spouses. you see people you know and say hi, catch up, talk some gossip, and move on. and that's the way it should be. don't let irresponsible or immature friends hold you down.
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
850097
who cares about hurting her feelings tell her. she needs to learn to back off especially if u r her friend!! what kind of friend is that? dump the loser friend adn dont hold anything back.
471522
have respect for your friend and look elsewhere.  a guy isn't worth losing a good friendship over.
303923
Yes, make the first approach.   If it's something that really is no big deal, then just apologize for it and get on with the friendship.
30252
Don't break a friendship, but don't let them do it again. And let them know it. The rest is up to them. You don't need to take the whole responsibility for the friendship, if they don't take it too.
1165904
If he wont be your friend anymore because of that then leave him alone. Dont put yourself in that uncomfortable situation again.
257914
Telll your friend to leave then ask her.
330896
Just be a good friend.  You must be that already, otherwise you wouldn't be concerned in knowing what to do for her.  Sometimes just being there is enough.
523506
If I had such a friend I would first acquaint myself better with her and would then explain to her the same case but totally involving another person and the suggestion u gave to that person.\n\n\n    "Letz go for a medical checkup"\n\n\n                             Then u ask her if its the right thing that u did.\n\n                          (or)\n\nExplain the same situation to her involving another person and ask her opinion about it.\n\n\nWhaterver she suugests u to do, do the same to her instantly.Though hse might feel a little embrassed at the moment she'll come over it because by then she will know that u r trying to sort out her problem.\n\n\nPLS:Be discreet about this question u asked in the internet to her,it might offend her.
619747
Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
660259
just go and speak to her... and wat i suggest u is the primarily u should talk and get all the misunderstandings clear...\n\nu cannnot lose a friend for some minor stuffs
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
95241
Don't stab your friend in the back. Knowing how she feels should give you an idea of how to handle this. Nothing is worth ruining your friendship. Not even a boy who will probably not be there long anyway.
467488
LET HER GET IT ALL OUT,CRY,THAT WILL MAKE IT EASIER FOR HER ANYWAY, TRY BE ATTENTIVE AND OFFER HER SUPPORT! SHE IS OBVIOUSLY HAVING A HARD TIME DEALING WITH THIS PROBLEM, AND YOU MUST FEEL QUIT PROUD THAT SHE'S TURNED TO YOU 4 ADVICE.SHE TRUSTS YOU, AND THAT'S WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR!!!!
317470
Let your friend follow the advice of the butthead. Sometimes the best advice you can give is to not give any advice at all.
244618
Just be silent and find out what they are all about.  Just listen.  If you truly want to be their friend, you will not impose your ideas upon them if they don't want to accept them.  You will just have to leave it at that, let go and let God.