What should i do to get my friend to become my girlfriend?
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
636930
be straight tell her you hate playing games and u want her to be your girlfriend then ask her if she wants to be your gf
349475
If you value her friendship, then you need to put her needs ahead of your own desires. If she has a boyfriend, then you need to let her figure out what a jackass he is on her own. Interfering with her existing relationship to get her for yourself would be selfish, and something of a betrayal of her trust on your part. Besides, when she does figure it out... and she will... then she will be able to appreciate your friendship all the more for the support you are able to offer her when the times comes for that. The best relationships grow out of the best friendships.
368947
Just try to be her best friend EVER and try to make her happy by completing all of her wishes. BEST OF LUCK DUDE!!!!!!!
316408
Well first of all. Talk to her, make it so your friends first or something. Try not be so weird around her, save that for your friends. But don't change completely who you are for her. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not worth your time
669061
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
234083
first, start off by thinking of her as someone you'd like to get to know as a friend. friendship can lead to romance later. this may take away some of the pressure. try to think of her as just another potential friend and it should help it feel more natural. once you've gotten to know her better, then you may feel more comfortable asking her out. if you know what she likes to do, you could talk to her about that. for instance, any sports she is into, music, theater, ...
896678
Tell the truth - you want to be her friend, not her boyfriend.\nLay it out plain and simple, once you start talking you'll know exactly what to say.
235125
Unless you happen to be Dr. Frankenstein, you probably can't "MAKE" a girlfriend. Certainly you can't "MAKE" a girlfriend "be" or "do" what she chooses NOT TO.\n\n   Having a "GUD"???? "relation"??? with her,,,or anyone takes effort, caring, compassion and sharing,,, Yikes I'm a poet and I already knew/know it,,,smiles.\n\n    Perhaps your best efforts should be directed toward yourself first? No offense meant, we haven't met yet....oops there it was again.\n\n   Decency, honesty, attention to details you may not even understand, etc. etc. etc.\n\nRev. Steven
805398
Aww just ask her are we going out? Then you can ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. That happened to me too but we had kissed already he asked me so...are you my girlfriend 'n I said well we kissed but i don't know you tell me 'n he said well do you wanna be my girlfriend 'n i said yes we've been together for 2 years lol but that's cute just ask her poor girl is probably waiting for you to ask her soon.
37231
A female friend is the one you like to be with an' talk to, an' share ur thoughts an' dreams and can say anything to her. You always expect her to understand you.\nbut...\nYou make girlfriend a part of  ur dreams.With a girlfriend you want to live out your dreams an' accomplish 'em together. You are ready to take full responsibility of both of you and wud like to give each and everything that her heart desires.
1096512
dont try to have gf right away... try to be friend with them at first then it will go automatically.
405039
Well are you ready to have a girlfriend? Do you know the responsibilities if you have a girlfriend? If yes, start with being friendly to the girl you're interested then propose to her.
598188
just show your sincerity in wanting to have her as a friend.. that's the best start
812265
Yes there is a problem. You and your friend are a little immature. One thing a woman or girl does not want is a immature boyfriend. Its like playing with her little brother.  If you like her and your are like friends with her or even if you talk to her sometimes. Just tell her how you feel. And yes you are thinking well that's easy to type but not easy to do and you are right. Wait till she is alone or just pull her to the side and just say it but be sure to work your way to it : Like say: there is something i have been wanting to tell you for a long time. or something like that. She might just say yes or she might says no. Either way she will know you are mature enough to tell her face to face.
1059598
One way of doing it without being direct is to start talking about someone you like. Let it be known that you are interested in someone else. If his your true friend his going to continue been your friend. If he just wants you as a gf then he will end up backing away. I have the same realantionship with one of my friend. He is in love with me and i was honest and told him it could never be between us and that i'm in love with someone else. Till this day we continue to be close friends and he has accepted the fact that there isn't a chance between us.\n\nBest of luck.
40418
Just be his friend.  If things don't work out with his current gf, then be his shoulder.  You might be next...