ok, when I was a little girl, I was raped, and my BF had a dream that he did something bad to me......?
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If your boyfriend cuts himself in waking life, his dream may be trying to tell him that by cutting you (in the dream) that he is hurting himself just as badly as he would hurt you if he did those things to you.\n\nWhat I'm trying to say is that though his dream may have brought back bad memories for you, the dream is for him. It's his dream and he needs counseling for whatever it is that causes him to cut himself. He may have been hurt as you once were. I don't know.\n\nAnd, yes, you need counseling too because it's very hard to deal with what you've been through.\n\nI don't know what your family is like, mine blamed me for the abuse that I got because they didn't know how to deal with it, but these days you can reach out and you can get help. Please do. Both of you.
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Not all dreams are about wish fufillment, so I really wouldn't worry about it.\nNow if your dream was about a slightly unstable troll, you can always tell him after we've run away together!
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Honestly, your bf is not telling you the whole story. There is more there than he is telling you. If he did something horrible to a child, then chances are he doesn't want you to know. After all, would you stand by him if he actually did something to a child? Hopefully not. \n\nIf he was charged with something he didn't do, he should have no problem telling you what the charge is. However, if he did do it, he's better off not telling you so you will stay by his side. Keeping all the details to yourself is a sign of guilt. Child abusers are pretty lonely people by right.
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How awful, I hope the victim is ok...an attempted rape can be nearly as traumatic as a completed assault. Your BF should ask to have the offending coworker transferred to a different crew until he goes to jail.
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Recurring dream is dream of unresolved issue.  In your case, subconsciously you may feel that you do not do enough to your boyfriend\n\nDreaming of being cheated or cheating could mean few things.\n\n1. Trust - you don't trust yourself or him\n2. Discontent - You are content with what he has done to you, or you feel not respected in a way that you didn't get enough attention.\n3. Actual event - you saw something in reality that caused you think of that.\n\nIt has to be one of them.
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I dreamed my boyfriend was getting dragged off by an alligator, by his ankle, to be eaten!
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Hi Alayna:  My heart goes out to you for what you suffered when you were younger.  Many women who have endured abuse find it hard to trust men again, and have a hard time putting what happened in the past where it belongs - in the past.  A man can sense when a woman does not trust him, and most decent men have an inborn desire to protect a woman, not abuse her. Be warm and open, but cautious - there are still alot of creepoids out there.  Here is a website that I think you will find helpful - trauma survivors@googlegroups.com.  You can communicate with  other women who have  suffered the same abuse and rape trauma as you.  May God bless you and heal  your hurt, and help you move on to a happy life with a good, loving man.   JoAnn
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He raped you. I'm very sorry that happened to you. You were not able to give consent, because you were drunk. Sex without consent is rape. Read this:\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape\n\nGo to the doctor or hospital, see if you can get the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy. If it's too late, then I hope you are not pregnant. Also get tested for STDs (aka STIs). You should go to the police and tell them what happened, that he raped you.\n\nThis is a VERY BAD MAN. Do not see him again!\n\nI'm not saying that it is your fault, but in the future, do not allow yourself to be in that situation. If you want to get drunk, get drunk with your girlfriends, or at home. Don't get drunk at a guy's house, it's not safe.\n\nI hope you are not pregnant, and I'm very sorry you were raped.
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hey sweety, I just wanted to drop by and tell you what I did rather than to tell you what to do. Three years and a half ago me and my boyfriend broke up. He had always been an ass to me. Well not always but it seems he didn't love me. I left him loving him, tring to tell myself I didn't. I was sad for a couple of months. I was really sad, and alone. There was this guy that seemed to always be there for me. He seemed different. He easily convinced me with lies. When I was in the sitiution and was about to go for it. I backed off, and don't him to stop. I was having second thought on it. He didn't listen. I pushed him off... I got raped that day. It was only a couple of seconds of seconds that he did it but I have lived with it for the ret of my life. After that I realized who I really loved. I went back with my ex, and everything was great. I kept having that scare in me. I eventiually told him what happened. He cried like I had never seen him cry. He told me it was a lie. Then he told me to do something about it if it wasn't a lie. I was scared. What would everyone say. Especially my family. They didn't even know I was with my boyfriend. Eventiually I thought that with time it would heal never did though. Eventiually my boyfreind went on and saw the guy who raped me in a local bar. I guess my boyfriend had a little to much to drink, or maybe had to much built inside that he slammed the beer on the table then slid that guys throat. I couldn't believe what he had done. Yet I now know he did it for what I didn't do. He told me not to worry about him. That he was happy. He did what I never had the guts to do. I still love him, and wish he was with me instead of in prison. It's been two years since this happens, and i'm still so sad. The love of my life might now be put on dead row and I feel so guilty. I'm sure that things like these never happened to you, and never will hopefully the rape you talk about wasn't like mine.
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Yes.  I wasn't raped, but I was abused sexually.  Luckily, my husband has helped me move on and my sex life is just fine!  Talking about the past and getting through it is what helped me.
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Dreams are of our subconscious mind, therefore they may seem distorted to some, but in actuality are very real parts of our being.  They can be strongly influenced we are facing strong emotions in our life - hence giving you the very real sense of your senses in your dream.  There have been many times that my husband has had to wake me as I was running and crying - left over results of an alcoholic, abusive marriage- he has learned to wake me slowly and gently and then remind me of my surroundings.  So some can be bad.  He also knows there is one where I somewhat purr and he talks to me and I tell him later, that I have to lie at the alter of the Lord and I'm to ashamed to offer any more than this.  He then goes back off to sleep and says within minutes I'll be up writing a story book or poetry or a letter to someone based upon my time in the dream.  Our subconscious can often be a safe outlet for what we cannot consciously do.  Those around us, like my husband have to learn this.  Several times he has woke cussing terrible and swinging his arm and pointing his finger and as I've listened he's been given his Dad what for - something he can't feel he can do in person. So dreams do not have "dream book" meanings - they have meanings to you as an individual.  God will reveal them to you if you ask him. and if he doesn't, then I've learned I don't need to know.
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Would it happen to be scratching yourself or moving around and banging into the bed post in your sleep?\n\n Maybe it was the violent dream you were having.....?yeap, I guess it was......
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Maybe the dream was about protection you felt the approach was unsafe you acted and took them to a safe place such as the garden.Maybe you were looking to return the child to safety and possibly the dream was about you wanting to feel safe?
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Yes I have been sexually abused as well as robbed of my virginity when I was at the ages of 8-14. I was scared and confused as to why it was happening to me. There were times I thought I liked it, but I really didn't. Of all people to do this to me was a very dear and close friend of my family and a father figure in a way. I feel as though you are a victim and are still in the abusive situation because you like it and it feels good to you, if so I urge you to get out and report him. Men will take advantage of a little girl whenever and wherever they can, that's Men! I found your question to be inappropriate as well as a cry for help.
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It's not impossible, but why would you want to try to recall those memories?  Would it change the person you have become?  All I can see it doing is causing you pain.  I would chalk it up as just a weird dream you had because you used to have a crush on him.  And, if you were six when he moved way, maybe your recollection of how and why he moved are a little blurry.  Would you even really know if he had moved away in a "panic?"
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i have no idea what this means....sounds like u need to make sure youre protected at all times...then again it could mean nothing...just a bad dream
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well it was probably just a dream & didnt mean anything.but i would be worried too if i was in ur situation. if he actually said "i love u ____" then maybe u should talk to him about it.