how long should you wait to re-marry after a 10 year marriage?
345456
You should wait at least a year or more before getting married again, as you sure don't want to make the same mistake again............
1123437
FOR NEWLY MARRIED COUPLE TWO TIMES DAILY OR UPTO 4 TIMES \n\nAND THEN UPTO 10 YEARS EVERY ALTERNATIVE DAYS \n\nAFTER 20 YEARS OF MARRIED LIFE EVERY THREE DAYS A WEEK AND THE SLOWLY REDUCTED IT WILL BE GOOD FOR HEALTH
785858
I have been married for 8 months, after being toghether for 4 years. The relationship went worst and worst from the 4-th day of marriage, and now we are waiting for the year to pass, so we could divorce... 0.001% satisfaction... :(
352084
You would have needed to apply for annulment within three years of your wedding. Sadly, it is too late for you.\nHowever, it sounds like you have a straightforward case for divorce. You can apply for divorce on grounds of 5 Years Separation. You wont even need your wife's consent. You could probably take the DIY route to getting a divorce. It is quite easy and is a lot cheaper than doing it through solicitors.
760956
It hits you when you least expect it.  Then, after 1 1/2 to 2 years that "in love feeling" subsides and then the relationship takes work, communication and discipline to survive.  If you both put work into it, you'll become closer and love each other more and more.  If you think you'll just be in love forever no matter what, you're in for a rude awakening.  This is why some people marry someone different about every 5 years because they "just fell out of love with them."  Anyone who tells you differently has never been married for longer than 7 years.
437306
Only get married when your ready.  It could take 5 months or 5 years.  Don't rush it because you'll regret it if its not the right person.
184362
That is a question that only you will know the answer to...it is a matter or where the two of you are in your lives.  If you know you are going to marry her someday then it is only a matter of finding the right time that will be memorable.  \n\nIn terms of have you been together long enough I would say yes based on what you said.  I know 4 different couples that got married less than six months from the time that they met and they are all still married.  The least ammount of time being ten years and the longest being thirty two years.  My adivce would be to do what is right for both of you and make sure that it is something that you will both remember.  I hope this helped
858867
Maybe consider putting off the wedding then? I think that couples should be married at least a year before they start thinking about children because couples change once they are married and you want to make sure it is going to last. Most divorces/separations happen in the 1st year, so you need to sit him down and make him understand you want to wait a little while. If he doesn't then maybe he isnt the one you should be marrying!!
1021498
It's never "too soon" to marry after a divorce. However, there is always a point when it is "too soon" to get married in the first place. Ask the basic questions: How long have you known this person, is this person good to me, can we get along, do we really love each other, etc. If you develop your releationship to the point where you feel ready to get married, then you both will know it. But, if you have to ask if it is too soon, then it must be.
944676
After twenty-five, but definitely before forty.\n\nAlso wait at least two years after you get married to have the kids.That way you and your spouse have time to have some fun before hunkering down.
366283
I haven't, as yet, waiting until after marriage.\nI am 25 yrs.
1183873
I'd love to know the answer to this question.\nBeen with my boyfriend 11 years now an still waitin to walk down the aisle.\nHope it doesn't take you this long! lol
637179
Been there done that...whats up with the 23rd year...Its alot of years, you'll never forget the past, my marriage was great the first 20 years, but I could see the dis-interest building as the months after pasted by...and she too felt she was no longer in love with me, however I later found out her interests were directed toward another...suggestions..Seek marriage council advice, put forth a 100% effort to resolve such conflict, and if it doesn't turn out happily ever after, if there ever was an ideal time to be single , its with a good job, no mortgage and your child a grown adult...very simular to my situation...its was 2 yrs separated and 3 years since divorce and those conditions were blessings in disguise.
1091576
However long it takes to plan the wedding.  If a couple is engaged than they are in agreement to getting married.  Why wait 2-3 years?  I've never understood long engagements.  When I was engaged I was looking at having our wedding 1 year later.  My mother in law asked why and I didn't have a good answer.  Only thing I could say was I thought that's how it was suppose to be done.  I was able to book the church and reception hall we wanted and we got married 6 months later.  I am so glad I didn't set some far off date.
88680
You need to decide what your beliefs and boundaries are.  If you don't mind living with someone for the rest of your life without a legal marriage, then do it, if not, then give him an option, marriage or you are gone. Most states have the policy of common law marriage anyway, after 5 years (varies per state) of living together you are considered legally married anyway.
18140
I read the other answer and I don't think you were asking about common law marriages, lol.  Your question was how long before a proposal.  That truly depends on the couple and IF both are ready to make that comittment.  My first marriage, we dated almost 4 years before getting married.  Now, I just remarried in August 2005 and we lived together for 3 years prior.  My son just married his girlfriend after only knowing her 4 months.  So it really depends on the individuals involved.
353668
If it's been ten years and you've felt this way...go for it, dude. That's a long time to wait and I think it's for the best if you tell her. Otherwise, you'll spend the rest of your life wondering "What if?"