What if your best friend hurt your feel by sleeping with your boyfriend?
346277
Neither one is your friend.  Let them have each other.  They both deserve it.
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
656632
Well untill your boyfriend feels as excepted as your friend there will always be that jealousy, us guys are funny that way for example when you fight with your boyfriend you usually talk to your friend, Yes? So that right there your turning to your friend and not your boyfriend, thats one.\nYou don't fight with your friend like you do your boyfriend, that's two. So bottom line your boyfriend thinks you treat him better than you your boyfriend because there are hardly no arguments between you and your friend and there is between you and him. Now you and I both know one is just a friend and the other you love but to us guys even if this were explained to him he still won't see it that way. So for a while and your friend will understand if you explain to him (funny how that works) tell your friend to stay low key until your boyfriend feels secure in the relationship and to try and understand us guys can be real immature sometimes.
863279
One ruled....never date/sex with friends. \nShe right, if ' we do that it gone to change our relationship for the worst' because once you do it, you both are not best friend anymore but now couple. That mean that you will see each other differently and act differently, and most relationship don't last. I think she worry that if you guy do it you guy wont be the same toward each other again-no more best friend.\n\nAnd where the hell you get the idea of losing it will your best friend, I never have that idea and i have a best friend for 10years, and never thinking of doing it with her.
863551
Remind her of all the good  things u  did together,and also  tell her  that your feelings are being hurt. If shes  a true  friend she will stop doing those rotten things to you. If not sleep with her boyfriend, just kidding. Good  luck !
49140
YES! But if possible, come bearing proof! Your friend may be upset and even think you are lying; your friendship may be hurting for a while depending on the kind of person she is, but YOU are her BESTfriend, you should give her the respect and loyality that title deserves. You WILL NOT be responsible for their break up...her man will. Break it to her gently and tell her first that you would never do anything to hurt her unless it would hurt her more not to know. Reverse the rolls...if your lover where cheating on you and your bestfriend knew...would you want her to tell you? How would you feel if you found out and KNEW she didnt tell you about it months before??
435035
Friends are gold boyfriends are silver! If it was her flirting with him then be upset. On experience men are the unreliable ones! Speak to your friend make her understand how you feel she'll be aware in future that it upsets you and if you have a strong enough relationship with your boyfriend then speak to him and tell him how it made you feel because maybe just maybe it was a bit of fun and innocent, but if you don't discuss it you will never know and you will get more and more paranoid! Good luck!
1182861
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
575126
if your sleeping with another guy then your not really in love with your boyfriend, if you really wanted and loved your boyfriend then you wouldn't do anything to mess your relationship up, so I think you should break up with your boyfriend and find one that you couldn't stand to cheat on.
448590
This is a tough one......Ok you said you like your boyfriend but have fallen in love with his/your best friend. If it is love and I mean real love then you should not have to question what you should do. You just need to talk to your best friend one on one and see if it is really what you think it is.
14222
If youre really into your boyfriend and she's really your best friend...\n\n1. Let her know how much of a betrayal it would be.\n2. Seperate them, if you go out, go out in threes and dont leave them alone.\n3. Let him know whats going on and how important your friendship is with her.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
599036
Your best friend is'nt dating your boyfriend so why does it matter.  You would have a problem if your best friend fancied your boyfriend.
1090883
You sound very young dear.. A true friend doesnt stab you in the back ..And if a so called boyfriend betrays you like that then you are better off without him anyways
925853
Wow, ok first thing is the boyfriend probably has a right to be jealous...if you and your best friend are as close as it sounds, I'd be jealous too. You need to step back a little bit, they are in a relationship and you should keep the friendship boundaries in tack. Dont over step them. Also, if you feel your best friend looks at you a little differently then he should...talk to him about it, honestly, if he is your best friend you should be able to talk to him about anything. Keep in mind, he is taken and you have to watch it when your hanging around him....best friends last forever, but when someone else is involved things get messy and the best thing for you to do is stay his best friend....emphasize on Friend. If he wants to pursue more with you then he will do the right thing, if not...then let him and his boyfriend be in a relationship. Good Luck, I hope this helped a little
792566
YOU ARE RIGHT TO BE MAD. FIND A BOYFRIEND AND A BEST FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TRUST!
867882
this is called learning.\n\nyou waited three months to talk about it.  even if you had told them right away, you still broke the trust of three people.  yes, three people.\n\nyou lied to your friend by sleeping with her man and hiding it.\nyou lied to your man by sleeping with his friend and hiding it\nyou lied to your secret lover by saying you wouldn't talk, but you did.\n\nthere was no good way out of it to begin with, but now you should have learned a valuble lesson.  some things might hurt a little to keep inside, buy they hurt a lot more when let out.\n\nsomething about best friends though - a best friend will forgive you almost anything - she forgave the boyfriend, didnt' she?  let her do it on her own though.  maybe ring her up in a week or two, to go out and get pizza or something - but don't talk about it then either!  it's over, don't bring up a past that can't be cured.