my sis is always buging me and wont leave me a lone plz help?
355372
She is your sister! She only does it cause she wants your attention! She probably thinks that if she bugs you enough you'll hang out with her and give her attention! My younger brother is the type that he has to play around play fight and it's just my mom and I most of the time! My dad works 12 hour days so he results to me when he wants to fight! When I finally pay attention to him he leaves me alone! Sometimes that is all they want is to hang out or do something with you!
1040210
Your sister needs a shrink...\n\nShe may be your sister but she acts like your girlfriend
420226
You can accept her. Well she has done what she has done, but she is your sister. She has come back to you that means she requires you. Everyone commits mistake. And she hasn't killed anyone. Its time for everyone in society to get matured. Now here is a chance.
1101301
Tell her to get a life and grow up...also what she is doing has a name ,that name is Harrasment in other words it entitle you to make a report about this situation in order to stop this frustrating and unwnted calls.Ask you phone company how to  block out her phone number...report her phone number to your local police ,they can trace the call even if she is blocking it.Keep things real,and make her stop making  your life so miserable.Just to imagine what she making you go through makes me really mad.and I dont even know you.I sujjest you stand up for your self and ask her to stop harrassing you...dont make treath that will make things worst!good luck and best wishes!
954355
I understand what you're going through. And I hope that you will find something, someday that will make it all dissappear.\n\nAs harsh as I may sound, I don't think your sisters reaction is normal. She is being overly zealous. May be she should have herself checked out also. \n\nAlso, do you fight a lot. Is this just mere sibiling rivalry. Have you tried winning her affection?. If this is not the case, i suggest talking to your parents about your sister, and she might want to visit a behaviour consultant.
131084
if you wanted something new and she knew it confront her nicly, instead of being on the defense try saying  mom, i feel left out because you gave my sister what she wanted but i got her old _______. I just want to be treated equally.    that works for me and im 13 so it might work for you   good luck!
148908
Talk to your parents about it and see if they will tell your siblings that you are the responsible one in their absence and that they need to respect you.  They of course will need to back you up if your brother and/or sister do not listen to you.\n\nYou can also reward their good behavior and withhold your attention when they are being bad to you.
623414
Have same prob w/ my sis. Let them know you are here to talk and not lecture. When you try to give them advice, to them it is lecturing and you are not being supportive. We don't get it, but it is how they feel. Listen to them and make only one or two coments. Treat them like they don't have it. It is sooo hard.
557224
You need to really sit your sister down and have a long talk with her...  Why does she do that to you?  Jealousy?\n\nYou need to tell her that you love her, but that you don't appreciate and are very hurt by what she is doing...  Give her an ultimatum..  If she doesn't stop, you are going to cut her off of your life...  It's mean, but maybe she will learn her lesson, if she loves you, she will stop....
32057
When people don't want you around but you want to be there, you are in a conflict with them.\n\nSo, like other conflicts:\n\nFind out what's really going on.  Why doesn't she want you there?  Does he want you there?  Ask if you can sit down with her and talk about it.\n\nSee things from her side.  Pretend like you're an actor and you're playing her role.  Why might she act like that?  Does she feel hurt?  Is she insecure?  Does she miss your brother?  Is there something going on between them?\n\nPropose an alternative that takes your need to be with your brother and her need - whatever it is - into account.  Maybe you and your brother do something and then pick her up and all three of you do something together?  Maybe you limit how often you drop by?
966367
Talk to her and tell her that she is annoying, if she does not care than leave her alone!!!\n\nI have a sister-in-law that is annoying and we have tried telling her but she will not own up to anything!!!!!\n\nSome people are blind to their faults!!!
585597
Pray. And realize you can't force her to come home. All you can do is be there for her as a sister and let her make her own mistakes. If you push or manipulate, she won't feel safe in turning to you.\n\nAnd I'll be praying for you as well... :)
917497
well...I have the exact same problem! I know how u feel! I have a little sister. anyways.....I think well........you shouldn't hit her...sisters both get on eachothers' nerves...and get annoying. what I would first try to do is talk to her....see why she is acting like this...is it b/c she is bored? well take some time and play a little game with her and take a break from whatever your doing. Offer her something she can do instead of annoy you like....watching t.v, or doing arts and crafts....or something to basically occupy her....and don't forget to compromise. if that doesn't work try to ignore her....you getting all mad an annoyed gives her the sign the she is winning..and it eggs her on to annoy you more...so take a few deep breaths and ignore her and eventually she will loose intrest and go away....and if all else fails go tell your parents...ask them to do something about it......tell them in a calm way and not shouting or in a bad mood b/c it doesn't solve anything and it may get them mad. So just remeber she you sibbling and they get on ur nerves a lot....and all we can do is live through it..untill they grow out of there childish stages....well I hope I have helped!!!!!!!!! =]
1102592
she probably REALLY doesnt get everything she wants, but it probably does SEEM that way to you... if she drives you crazy, it might be because she is trying so hard  to be like you... you are her role model.....\n\nthe big thing to remember is that you are almost twice her age... she still needs alot of attention from you, mom and dad and family, whereas you probably seek most of the attention you need from friends and from family too....\nusually when you feel like a younger sibling is spoiled or bratty you really feel like they get all the attention and your left to your own devices...so to speak...\nthink about it...... and think about this too..... ask yourself, what can I do  to make things better? even though you might wanna knock her socks off sometimes, when you see her being bratty ask yourself why is she doing this...what does she need? who does she need it from.... chances are she is looking for attention, wanting to be noticed, admired, wanting feedback telling her that she is ok....  just like her big sister..  :)  \nthen ask yourself, what can i do to help her get what she needs?\nis she is just being bratty to spite you, then you need to ask yourself why does she want to do that.. what have you said, or done to make her feel like she has to do that....  \nif you cant see where you had anything to do with her behavior, then its time to go talk to mom.....\ntell mom your thoughts and observations, and see if mom sees what you see... then mom will probably handle the situation, or tell you what you arent seeing....\njust remember first and foremost.... bratty kids are usually just showing out because they need attention that they dont feel like they are getting.... and being only 9 she doesnt know how to say what she needs..... which only adds to her frustration.... \ntry it and see what happens..
616818
She has always disturbed me.
640817
Ask her to stop.  That's pretty much all you an do.  Either she respects you enough to listen or not.
1124955
I think you already gave yourself the answer.  Stop doing favors for someone who is ungrateful.  Don't be giving her money anymore.  Hang up on her if she is unpleasant on the phone.  Leave if you are together and she gets mean.\n\nIn other words, make it clear you aren't her doormat and you won't take it anymore.\n\nYes you can ignore her if you have to.  Families have a way of healing in time but first you have to break this bad pattern.\n\nDon't let your mom guilt you into putting up with it.  If your sister tries to use your parents to guilt you into doing what she wants, explain the situation to them and tell them you aren't going to be her dog anymore.\n\nYou are only suffering because you allow it to continue.