What can I do to be able to ejaculate and have an orgasm more than once a day during sex with my wife?
355636
AS you get older, your ability to ejaculate frequently diminishes.  Men reach their sexual peak around the age of 17, so depending on how old you are now, you're sexual prowessis declining.  Women, on the other hand, reach their sexual peaks at around age 35.  Unfair, isn't it.  But anyway, if you guys are having sex at least once a day, count yourselves lucky.  Most married couples don't have sex more than once a month, and if they have kids...forget it.
515832
You really don't need medicine! Just learn to control your pace. You can practice with masturbation. You just go until you are close to cumming...but stop short and take a break until that feeling subsides...and then continue again. You can really learn to go as long as you want...and oh that ejaculation will feel good when it finally happens (which is whenever you and/or your partner want it to!). Of course when you are f---ing, you need your partner's co-operation in stopping the friction (her moving too!) when you tell her you are getting close. It takes some practice but it works! As a short term solution I would suggest jacking off a couple of hours before you have sex with your partner. The second ejaculation should definitely take longer.
498222
Make love once a day.
1112876
This is  called premature ejaculation. If you are young, masturbate half an hour before you engage in sex with a woman.\n\nDuring intercourse, when you are about to ejaculate, divert your thoughts. Think of your business for instance. \n\nSqueezing your scrotum when you are about to ejaculate can also help.\n\nMind control is the best remedy. \n\nNote many a marriage is ruined because of man's premature ejaculation. It is very important to give satisfaction to your partner.\n\nEngage is long foreplay to arouse your partner so that she climaxes soon after penetration.\n\nHope this helps.
308676
Almost always.\n\nHowever, if you do not, I would point out that there is an evolutionary reason for this.\n\nWhen a man ejaculates, his ejaculate forms a pool at the base of the vagina, a woman's orgasm forces the mouth of her cervix into that pool to improve chances of impregnation.\n\nTherefore nature designed it so that men orgasm first.\n\nIf you want to achieve a simultaneous orgasm with your mate, you can do so by practicing, pay close attention to the signs that orgasm is approaching for both of you, and practice making small changes until you are able to achieve it.\n\nIf your wife requires extra stimulation, you may want to introduce the use of a toy into your lovemaking so that she can receive extra clitoral stimulation during the act.
447813
WHAT THE HELL? YOU DO NT EVEN GIVE HER AN ORGASM!! BOY YOU NEED TO MAKE HER ORGASM SO MANY TIMES TILL SHE SAYS TO STOP (AND THEN!!!!) GO A LITTLE MORE. AT THAT POINT YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT. EVEN CHEAT BECAUSE IF YOUR GOOD IN BED SHE AIN'T EVER GONNA LEAVE. BECAUSE YOU WILL BE THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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If your sex drive is higher than that of your wife.. perhaps you should seek out marital counseling or sex counseling.  There may be reasons behind the differing drives.\n\nIf she is not "freaky" enough for you, that could also be addressed in counseling.\n\nHowever, I don't believe you have earned the right to get some on the side... that comes with work.  Paperwork.  *divorce*\n\nI'm very sorry that you have gotten to the point in your life that you would ruin someone else's just to get off.  That is one of the most selfish things I have heard in quite some time.\n\nIf you don't believe it would hurt her, start a thread on people's opinions on those who cheat.. you'll get even more angry responses than you did in this one.\n\nIf you honestly cannot get enough sex, masturbate.
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I masturbate from 7 to 10 times a week. But I always use my wife's hand to do it with. ;-]
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A lot of it is in the technique you use.  Try changing you how thrust, using your lower back instead of the muscles of your hips and buttocks.  That has been shown to prolong intercourse.  \n\nYou could also change the angle at which penetration occurs by lying on your back, and having the female on top of you, leaning away from you and resting her body on your knees.  Keeping the penis pointed in this downward angle has also been successful in prolonging intercourse and delaying ejaculation.\n\nOther than that, there are excercises you can do while masturbating which will help you gain stamina during intercourse and learn to delay ejaculation.  You can find just about anything you ever wanted to know about masturbation and probably quite a bit more, including answers to how to practice stamina building techniques, at www.jackinworld.com.\n\nIf you prefer something which lets you orgasm more frequently, I would recommend learning to orgasm without ejaculating, since the two are actually different physiological responses (though ejaculation does require an orgasmic response to take place, the reverse is not true, even in males), and males are just as capable of being multi-orgasmic as females.  \n\nThat has the happy advantage of allowing you to have more orgasms during sex, to prolong sex while you are enjoying them, and then finish off the evening with an ejaculation since ejaculatory response is generally what requires the extended refractory period for men.  For information on how to learn to be like this, I would recommend the book "Any Man Can" by William Hartman or "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia.\n\nNot only should those books teach you how to enjoy multiple orgasms, but they should also provide you with a variety of breathing and mental exercises and techniques to help you prolong intercourse as well.
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I need sex only on day's that end in "Y", unfortunately for me...my wife only needs it on days that end in "e" (non"e").  \n\nSo I'd take her to a doctor and ask about hormone treatments or something along that line.  Or find a good hobby.
7470
There are creams that slightly numb and prolong ejaculation. You can also try a couple of condoms instead of one to desensitize.
1028143
I am able to ejaculate 3-4 feet away from me each time.  The key is to strengthen your Kegel muscles by exercising them.   The Kegels are the same muscles you use when you pee.  You can do these exercises by either starting urinating and stopping midstream 5-10 times a day, or you can just do the same type of thing when you are not peeing.  It also helps to wait a couple of days between ejaculations to increase your semen volume.  A very strong sexual stimulus will help as well (whatever turns you on the most).
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These techniques can be utilized fully through continuous practice and patience on part of the affected and his partner.\n\nA. Stop/Start Technique:\n\nThis aids in developing control over ejaculation. It may involve either masturbation or engaging in sexual intercourse until you reach the point of climax. At this point, you stop and wait to regain control and then start again.\n\nB. Learn to Relax:\n\nA relaxed frame of mind is an extremely crucial parameter in exercising control over yourself and consequently the process.\n\nWork upon different relaxing and pleasurable ways to touch and caress each other and to reduce any shameful feelings you may develop during sex.\n\nC. Squeeze Technique:\n\nIn this exercise, your partner needs to squeeze your penis just below the tip for 10-20 seconds when are about to ejaculate. When the feeling passes, the play can be resumed. This can be repeated as often as required until you learn to control your ejaculation.\n\nD. Kegel Exercises:\n\nThe purpose of Kegel exercise is to strengthen your pelvic muscles so that you can contract or relax as you near orgasm, delaying ejaculation. Simply contract your buttocks for one second as though you were trying to delay a bowel movement. Do this 15 times in a row, working up to 60 to 75 contractions twice a day.
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Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
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I have already readed it, it's very usefull.\n"\nA Bigger Better Orgasm \n\nBoth men and woman can use the following techniques to make orgasms longer, stronger, more intense and, ultimately, more healthful. \n\n1. GAIN PELVIC MUSCLE CONTROL The pubococcygeal (PC) muscle group, which supports the pelvic floor, is the one that spasms when you have an orgasm. If it's in good shape, more blood will flow to the pelvic area during arousal and the PC will contract more strongly, making orgasms last longer and feel more intense. To paraphrase a statement about scientific discovery, "Orgasm favors the prepared body." Kegel exercises are a simple way to strengthen PC muscles. To do them, squeeze the muscle you use to voluntarily hold back your urine. Hold for two seconds and then release. Repeat 20 times, three times a day. \n\n2. CONTROL VOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS IN SEX You may already realize that some of the phenomena happening to your body during sex are under your control. While you cannot voluntarily increase and decrease your heart rate, you can take charge of various voluntary activities and thereby improve your sexual sensations. \n\nAs you approach orgasm, try speeding up your breathing and alternately tensing and relaxing your arm or leg muscles. During another session of lovemaking, practice squeezing or fluttering your PC muscle. The main behavioral principle is to choose one physical aspect of orgasm that you can control and overpractice it. Soon you will have trained your body so that all of these responses will work together effortlessly and occur spontaneously during future orgasms. \n\n3. MONITOR YOUR AROUSAL LEVELS As you make love, note your arousal levels on a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being orgasm. As you reach each level, briefly stop and allow your arousal to subside so that rather than shooting straight for the moon, your arousal rises in a wave-like pattern. This technique, known as peaking, results in intense orgasms, possibly because it optimizes endorphin release. \n\nIn a related exercise, plateauing, squeeze your PC muscle, change your breathing, change your focus or change your speed in order to stay at high arousal levels for a long time prior to orgasm. Learning peaking and plateauing with a partner helps you develop a shared language of arousal and orgasm. "
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I heard this from a doctor on a sex show a long time ago. You basically masturbate until right before you are going to ejaculate, and you immediately stop. Keep doing that. It will increase your endurance and you will be able to last longer in bed. Yes, it definitely works.
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Try a cock ring or masturbate about eight hours before sex.\n Failing that, go for it, ejaculate give it a couple of hours and go again you'll last way longer second time round. Make a virtue out of your problem.