Are older women attracted to younger men like older men are attracted to younger women?
349532
It goes both ways... look at demi moore, cameron diaz,madonna and soooo many other actresses.they r all dating younger men.i think they do tht coz tht makes them feel younger. i dont think age matters in love.im specially attracted to really older guys they must be like 10, 11 yrs older than me. i  think they r really mature n sexy ;)
286233
Men go after women they are physically attracted to.  There's nothing wrong or shallow about that -- we can't control attraction (or lack thereof).  Most men are attracted to women who are of a healthy weight.  Some men prefer larger or skinnier women.
450215
when i was 16 i went for the older women as well. so yes its normal. could be that you are looking for a motherly figure, someone like your mother dude.
954037
Guys like women in their late twenties and thirties because they have experience and are more mature.  Those relationships (older woman, young man) last for a good while if they're stable people.
663432
Well, one reason might be that you're attractive to begin with, whether you look younger or not.\n\nBut there's something else going on too.  There's this whole power thing going on.  A lot of guys as they get older start feeling that in order to feel good about themselves, they have to be able to attract girls like they were young.  So they look for younger women (there's more, but I don't have space).  Also, there's a power thing going on.  Older men will be attracted to younger women because the younger ones are less experienced, more trusting, and easier to manipulate.  Since you have to ask the question, you're probably naive and trusting, so be on your guard for someone who might want to take advantage of you.
519719
Don't feel bad. some guys do. Some guys think older women are more machure and or/ know more about different things. Also, Many grow up faster then them around them and seem out of place. nothing wrong with liking an older women.
458030
I, personally, don't care about age.  I think it is all about compatibility and maturity levels of both people involved.  However, I think some older women may feel that their bodies are not what a younger guy might find attractive.  However, if it is true that a woman's sexual peak is in her 30's and a twentysomething was interested...it might be worth exploring.
499837
Women look for protection and maturity from men . They find these 2 qualities in older men .
1070409
Yeah, most of them do! \nMost of the old rich men find young girls and get them as girlfriends mostly to show off with them and to try to feel young and cool again!\nLike: "Look at me, I am rich and I have a sexy girl"!Jurks...
465237
Well i suppose it is natural to be attracted to these women especially when you say that you are still young and outgoing, regardless of your age. However do not expect too many invitations, unless it is for your money. I am 31, the only way i would be with a man that much older is if he was really rich and i was desperate, or maybe i fell completely inlove. I think your chances are slim. It is not abnormal but a hard call.
994819
I am 20.Never dated anyone younger. I like them older. Just until I get into my late 30's early 40's. Then I'll start to like them young.
577376
Personally I am more attracted to older women as I find them more understanding but mind you if you live outside the US the society isnt too open as to seeing younger guys to older women but it is acceptable to have a older man with a younger woman. You must have heard the term "sugar daddy". Ever heard of a "sugar momma"?
325832
Older guys have mid-life crisis and want to feel young again.  They remember how it felt when they were first dating and with young women.  So they think that if they have a young woman again, they will be young again.  \n\nYoung women like older men because they like that the guy is established, usually has money, is more mature, doesn't just rush things usually.
98269
This question appeals to me because I have always been interested in men a lot older than I am. I really don't think age matters if the people involved are mature and interested in one another. I always tend to think of the great romances where the men were much older than the women: most of the heroes of classical literature were 20 yrs older than the heroines! 14 yrs is not that bad. All I can say is, whenever I've been interested in a man who is older than me (at least 10 yrs) I have always worried he would think I was too young. I didn't even give a thought that he might be worried I would think him too old! So if the girl seems attracted and interested in you, just go for  it. If she really likes you, your age won't bother her a bit. Good luck! ;)
431761
I think they find the youth and energy and youthful look very appealing but i don't think that makes a difference because the more older you get the more appealing so i think it may be that they are confused and don't know how appealing older women really are.......
652364
Sexual attraction is all about reproduction, as much as we would like to forget that. In general, most women that are younger are more fertile. So men naturally are attracted to women who are younger. Older women are less attractive because they are less fertile and may have already gone through menopause. Of course I think that emotional age component has to do with it too.
409503
Not that I am a psychiatrist, but I'm sure there is some logical explanation having to do with your history and past why you seek the comfort of older men unconciously and so consciously you are attracted to them? Who knows? I find the same, as far as being attracted to older men goes. However, I'm not married, I'm engaged, far from divorce. I think its normal to be attracted to older men. Women traditionally want to be taken care of by a strong, wise man, which we somehow invision as an older man, and that's why I am attracted them. They offer stability and knowledge, or so my subconcious thinks so. lol...\nAnyway, I wouldn't worry too much about the being attracted to older men part.\nIf I were you I'd be more focused on my marriage, and what an affair could do to it and my kids...