Would you IF your in a relationship, want your bf/or gf to be open about porn?  Or Don't care?
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I believe porn desensitizes someone for the real thing.  Studies also indicate the same thing.  It also sets people up for unrealistic situations, and thinking about other people sexually.  Porn is also the number one addiction in the US, especially internet porn.  So, take all that into consideration, if you want more info or don't believe me check it out for yourself.  It also has been linked to violence, abhorrent sexual crimes in most cases, perpetrators admit to having viewed porn since their younger days.  Supporting the desensitizing facts, the criminals need more, and more exposure for arousal, and more and more violent actions to become aroused. I have seen it in people I am close to, firsthand.
763114
i love watching porn with my boyfriend, i make him watch it with me sometimes we laugh about it if it is a really cheese one but really hot steamy porn makes me randy and we usually end up having rampant sex on the floor in front of the tv so i would say watch it a have great sex with it!!!!
1023262
I think they are great.  My boyfriend and I actually watch them together... it's a turn on.  And there is pornography for every preference... watch the ones you like and don't watch the ones that gross you out (like pissing or throwing up... what the f**k?)
626980
With the pics it does depend how recent they are, old ones don't worry about, new ones could be an issue. Being open about sex is not a sign of lack of commitment, but of comfort with it. Being open about sex and sexual interests is very freeing, and is only taboo because of the religious fundamentalists that run the world are a bunch of frigid nutters who think anything beyond missionary with the lights off on your wedding night is wrong. Chill let her be herself, unless she really crosses the line give her the benefit of the doubt.
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For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.
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Yes, it is. \nI found porn on my hubby's laptop, and (after I deleted it all, of course), I REALLY let him know how much it bothers me. He hasn't watched porn since. \n\nYou are his wife, and he should respect you, and to not do what bothers you. Contrary to popular belief, men do NOT have to look at porn...it's not a necessity for them to continue living. \n\nMy suggestion to you is to talk to your hubby about it...seriously talk. Also, consider all the reasons why he would be looking at porn. For example, if you two are not as intimate as you once were because of busy lives (jobs, kids, ect...). If this is the case, then do whatever you can to make time for him. Men need to feel attractive, desirable and wanted just like women need to. \nI wish you best luck!\n-Pegasus
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Here is a girls honest opinion.There is nothing wrong w/ porn .However some porn has no condom or controseptive involved,my worry for a man finding out his girlfriend did porn would be this...How many people will you be sleeping with by staying with her?What diseases would you be sharing every time you show her your love?So I think you should stick to watching it not sleeping with it.
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I would not be happy at ALL I would consider this cheating, if not cheating then pretty darn close, if you are truly committed in a relationship you don't need to look else where and if pictures are being exchanged with nudity I would consider that looking elsewhere. \n\nGood luck--JammieGirl
809331
Woah this is a big one.  1st of all i'm female and don't agree with men treating women like meat. (I'm sure if a girl told her father she was a porn star he wouldn't be too proud.) Now, if this girl's bf cares about her the same way she cares about him, he would stop looking at porn out of respect for her reasons.  Maybe she needs to find someone a little more caring to her opinions.
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Porn isn't one of those things that everybody is ok with. It could be that he's embarrassed of his interest in them - that might be why he lied about them. I'd say that you did great. Let him know that you're open to watching one with him sometime...that let him know that you don't think less of him for watching them, right?
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some do some don't. it all depends on the guy. then there are those who say it is cool, but when their girl does watch it they get disgusted. personally, I think that girls have just as much right to watch porn as males. they get horney too!!!
858522
My view of it: lying is not OK. Looking at porno - it is up to a couple, whatever they agree upon - is the rule they set for themselves. Apparently, you guys agreed (or was it just you?) that he won't be looking at it. Now he is looking at it and lying about it. He apparently doesn't know how to TALK and re-negotiate the arrangement that doesn't work for him or the promise he cannot keep. \n\nI don't like when my husbant looks at porno. He knows it very well and he doesn't do it in my presence. I know that he didn't agree to stop looking at it, so I don't go after him. But I don't care about too much so I don't make a big fuss about it. I'm not saying this is the right thing to do. I'm just sharing what I do.
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Porn sites are great for using in moderation, at the right time. To boost a couples sex life, to help a young single man with his confidence. Just don't get caught up in the "I don't do that" then hiding your history on your computer when your wife comes in! To want to look at naked women/men is perfectly acceptable. If we were all a bit more honest, the seedy side of the porn industry wouldn't be there
840470
There are two kinds of males who use the internet.  Those who hide their porn well and those who do not.  Guys look at porn, it is nothing against you or any other woman.  It does not mean that he doesn't think you are attractive or that he would rather be with someone else.  I'm not saying it's a pleasant thing to discover, but you gotta admit, it's better than him cheating on you.\nYou can allow yourself to get all frustrated or you can try to fix it.  Often, things become routine and not as interesting.  Men like variety.  That is why some men cheat.  But it is totally unnecessary and unacceptable.  You can provide your man with all the variety he needs.  Perhaps a little new lingerie would be a good idea.  I would recommend a DVD on Kama Sutra Tao,  The Sensual Art of Making Love.  It is a very good dvd you can watch together.  It is done in good taste and not crude.  It will relight his and your fires and you won't leave the house for days.   ;-)
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Im personally not in favor of open relationships no matter how they're sliced. Gay, Straight, Bi or whatever. I would guess that the person who wants an open relationship just isnt in love with the person they're with.
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Yes, unless your girlfriend or your wife is the porn on the computer he's looking at.  How do you know what he's looking at on his computer? Keep out of his business.
967897
I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.