I know some guys who like me but they are too scared to ask me out! ! What should I do? i will not ask him!?
336040
baby girl, some time you need to stop flying so high. there's nothing wrong about asking a guy out. or a least give him a hint.
373457
You pretty much rejected him in his eyes.\n\nNow you are wondering why he is shy and does not ask you out again? I mean cmon. It is your turn to make the move, otherwise he will be gone.\n\nGuys are not just commodities that you can use whenever you have nothing else to do. We do notice.
1117349
There could be many reasons why he hasnt asked you out yet.\n1. He doesnt feel the same way.\n2. He is shy.\n3. He feels the same as you and doesnt know how to come out there and just say it.\n\nNever wait for a guy to ask you out. If you like him and he hasnt said anything, go for it. You have nothing to lose. If he likes you back, you guys can finally go out. If he doesnt, he doesnt. If a guy doesnt like you for who you are, move on. Dont wait your time on this guy. There are so many other guys out there.
427194
All I can say is don't be afraid. If you are, overcome it by spending more time with him directly (like studying with him) or indirectly (like hanging out with him and his friends) etc... get to know him better, let him get to know you better and move on from there.\n\nIf you aren't afraid, then what are you waiting for? Just invite him to a party or something. If he likes you and wants to take it a level higher, he'll make it clear.\n\nGood luck!
977290
Maybe he thinks you're not approachable. Be nice, be non-threatening, and show him that he might have a chance. Or you could talk to him yourself, tell him you like him and ask him out. Sometimes, you just need to take the initiative. Good luck!
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
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It always freaks me out when guys do that, because I never know if they like me or not. I also don't know if I like HIM or not.\n\nCheck out his body language. Know if he's single/taken/whatever his situation. FLIRT BACK. That is key.\n\nSmile, be adorable and irresistible. If he doesn't make a move, maybe he's shy. And I love a shy guy. They're so cute. So in this case, take a shot. You never know, he most likely DOES like you back, and you could be missing out. Trust me, I know from experience. \n\nIf it doesn't work out, so what? take it easy. There will be others. and if it's awkward after that, just gradually start talking again.
631587
Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
794334
ok, what you need to do is just try and start a conversation with him. i have a friend that has a real fear of talking to guys she really likes. i tell her the same thing just start a random conversation. i am the type of person who can just start talking to any one without being scared.
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You really have to be an extrovert around shy guys and bring us out of our shells. We may have the major hots for you but unable to articulate that emotion into anything less than senseless jibbering when you are around. Ask the guy out- be bold, go do something together that puts you in close proximity without feeling like there is alot of pressue. Some guys will respond and there is room to grow and some guys might not. Believe me, if he likes you you should start to see him melt-but keep at it if the feeling is returned!\n\nGood luck!
281149
i was the same way you are. i liked this guy and i wanted to ask him out. i was afraid to because i was afraid of being rejected.the thing is girls arnt the only ones afriad of rejection. guys are also afraid of rejection.for all you know it he could like you back but is afriad that you dont like him, so he is afraid that you will reject him.just go for it. ask him out, you two could actually end up together at the end.rejection is going to happen to you eventually wether its rejection from a job,college, etc. so why not get over the fear and ask him. you only live once so make the best of it and take chances.
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You are setting your own limitations.  Ask him out.  No one is out of your league, you are setting your value too low if you think that.  Life is priceless for everyone.  If he rejects you, he wasn't worth your time and I would reflect on his hollowness to uplift me. \n\nWhat you do is you purchase tickets to a baseball game, concert and invite him as though you have no one else to go with or tell him you thought about asking him before inviting any of your friends.  When I was single that's how I went out with many hot guys; to my surprise, they'd be interested in me at the end but I would always end up disappointed in them because of a personality flaw.
114591
This guy probably really does like you but he most likely is afraid of being turned down. You can use the suttle approach and ask him out. Say something to him (privately) like: "If I say yes to a date, would you ask me out? If he says yes but doesn't follow through, respond by saying "well, go ahead! ask me out." It would of worked for me if I was given the chance.
232500
Lighten up. He's afraid of getting caught looking at you, cuz he likes you too! If you get rejected, just shrug it off! If you feel too shy, try hangin round some people who are open about their feelings.\n\nIt sounds like he likes you.
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You've asked him out a gilllion times this year?  I'm not sure how many a gilllion is, but it sounds like a lot.  And he hasn't gone out with you?  You don't know if he likes you back?  Hmmm, how many times being turned down does it take before you get the idea that he doesn't like you that way?  Face it, he just isn't into you.\n\nWhat you should do is stop asking boys out.  Find things to do that are useful and interesting and make yourself a more interesting and useful person.  The right boy will then ask you out.
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if you're afraid of rejection, you're not ready.  Be casual.  Offer coffe or lunch or something, or invite him along to this or that place under the pretense that you're bored and/or lonely (but not pathetic).  You buy.  Get to be friends.  Maybe he'll look at you a little differently once he gets to know you a bit  :-)
977623
they probably r afraid of being rejected. guys r more insecure than u think. loosen them up and give them something back. Flirt back or give them signs that u wanna take it further. some dont have enough confidence and think they dont have a chance