Is it normal for your husband to go out almost every night?
350092
no, men need 20 different women to take care of their one need, while women need one man to take care of their 20 needs...sigh..., i feel for you girl! have someone he doesn't know follow him and get proof before you confront him. if it turns out he is, remember, when one door closes, another one opens. chin up, good luck!!
487171
My hubby works 14 hours a day, 7 days a week.(9 a.m to 11 p.m) It affects our 2 year old a LOT because whenever he does takes a day off, she's all over him. Sometimes, she acts shy like he's a stranger and won't go near him. I'm a stay at home Mom, so I'm on the clock 24 hours 7 days a week.
1119690
My husband and I have two children. It's hard. What we do is several things....sit outside together, have dinner in a public place, walk around the block together, sit with each other on the couch, switch kids with a friend so we don't pay for a babysitter, and we just lay in bed together. We don't have to say anything alot has to do with body langauage and facial expressions. How does your husband treat you? Does he do little things like doing the dishes, make dinner, or open the door for you? The littlest things count not just communication.
546508
Your husband seems to be on a second shift work schedule. There is nothing wrong with him. But when he comes home from work he isn't ready to go straight to bed. He needs time to wind down. And by that time it could be 1 or 2 in the morning. This is very normal for someone who works any shift other than first. \nPeople who don't work, or work first shift can not understand someone who works second or third shift. It's not the same amount of sleep nor is it the same quality of sleep. \nDon't worry he is fine....
550156
My husband is home every week only Friday through Monday. It is hard for me as we have 3 children, so I am basically a single mom during the time he is away.
183469
He has some serious problems with control. I would think if this is the way I wanted to live. He has no right to tell you that you can't do something. He is your husband not anything else. K
718635
Girl, ur not alone on that boat! my man works 20 hours per day. I am serious, no weekends no dinner parties, except when we have to go visit his parents. He works even when he sleeps. He, like been dreaming about some new contracts and a trip to Zurich....one night he said: "please Mr. Gray, you can see our new presentation. It will be send to you frist thing tomorrow morning!" He was writing this thing for weeks......o gosh, I love to have some more time with my man but he works sooo much. You know what is the worst with us. He says he does this for US, so that in a few years I can stay at home taking care of our kids adn having a blue Martini by the pool. Good luck sista, you need to get in a language school, cooking class, yoga and a few more tings to keep yourself occupied. Or if he can afford it just get his visa card and go to shopping!!!!
724302
FIRST !  -Talk to hubby-if you value that relationship \nSecondly -  make arrangments for hubby to bowout during the course of the evening and check into a hotel. Don't make reservations , be spontaneous
530084
he's an excellent husband.  when i pull late nighters to study for tests he will get up and call to wake me up (he's a truck driver, that's why he has to call) or when he's home he will get up early to make me coffee and breakfast and warm up my car, he checks out my car whenever he gets home to make sure the fluids are as they should be, he just generally goes out of his way to help in any way he can.
881871
Your husband need to grow up. Staying out late after you are married and have kids only means only bad things.  Either he's avoiding coming home because he's unhappy or he's out looking for some action. (you know what I mean)
238859
This is different for everyone...me and my hubby go at it almost every night or at least every other night when he's home (he's in the military) but like i sd its sooo different for everyone...but at least once a week if you don't do it at least once a week you'll go crazy..
641761
Yes actually. I keep trying to get my husband to go and work out of town and just come home on the weekends or every other weekend. We fight too much and maybe if we didnt have to see each other everyday we might look forward to spending time together!
689364
He might just enjoy having sex with you, or you just turn him on that much, you must be hot then, would you rather him want sex a second time or have sex once and always go to sleep every now and again spice things up with sex for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. You know you women want a man that can go all night long so maybe he is doing his version of all night.
1047221
You have to deal with it. It's his job.  Get a night job if you can. That way you'll be home at the same time. You can't tell him to leave his job for you. Not fair!
791570
If you're man is that much into it that you lose one of your most basic human functions (i.e. walking) then that should be reason enough!\n\nSeriously, what is going on?  Maybe you should pop him some sleeping pills right after dinner.
613564
I don't understand why married men think they still need to go out 'with the guys' once they get married...\n\nAfterall, they ARE grown up, they should act like it... they are not some hormonal college kids out looking for girls or whatever.\n\nThey grew up and got married... they shouldn't be out acting like they did when they were single.  He made the choice to give up the 'single scene' when he got married.  He needs to grow up.\n\nWhy can he not be happy going out with just you?  You are his wife, afterall.   He can still have friends, but what's the problem with them hanging out at the house?  Maybe get together for cards or something like that?  There are lots of things guys can do if they feel the need to 'hang out' together.  Heck, the friend can even bring his wife (and kids, if there are any) along to your house!  That way, you can all hang out together.  Married couples do that all the time!\n\nNo way would I put up with that!  I had a man like that... he wanted to be a husband but still wanted the single life...  and you can't have it both ways.  You either want to be married or you don't.  Simple as that.\n\nHe is not only a husband, but a father as well!  He needs to get his priorities straight!\n\nP.S.~~  Your husband has no problem with the way the friend speaks to you??  Perhaps you should tell the immature friend that you know who wears the pants in HIS family... his Mommy and Daddy!  Tell him to be a man and get out of Mommy and Daddy's house and support his family and back off from yours.\n\nHe has no problem belittling you so I would have no problem doing the same to him.
1075075
You think you have problems....My husband won't leave me!! LOL