my brother is so mean,and he said i cant date his friends but what do i do about it?
338029
he may have a reason you can't date his friend maybe he is a pervert trust me i can name some of my friends i would not let my sis near
394436
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
167846
tell him the truth and be CRUEL he'll understand it only when u're cruel and say the truth [that u wanna keep ur bro out of ur life] in his face..
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
485867
just start working on building back your friendships with those he wouldnt let you contact. concentrate on moving on. i know what its like to date someone who didnt treat you right and kind of left you humuliated that you ever let them get away with those things. as hard as it is, try not to dwell on it, keep doing the things that make you happy and most importantly when you feel ready to date again remember that not all guys are going to treat you like that. it would be so much easier if we could just go back and erase things like that  but since we cant all we can do is rebuild it all and get past it. hang in there :)
840937
That's going to be a tough one, but it's good for you to let him know how you feel about this leech he's dating.  When he's available, have a sit down with your bro, tell him to keep his calm, and that the following words you'll utter are not meant to raise his ire in any way.  Express your criticism of her (in a detailed, but not an overly emotional way) and see if he understands.  Tell him that he is a good guy who deserves better, and there are great single ladies out there who would not suck him dry of money, etc..\n\nHe may or may not listen.  But at least you gave it a shot.
89409
You need to ask YOURSELF if you like him! And ask yourself if he is a decent person and is nice. It would be good if you could get someone else like a brother or sister to go with you on a first date to the movies or some place like that so you aren't alone with him until you see how he acts on a date.
764748
Wow - you are pretty judgemental about these people --- are you that judgemental of your brother (who is the real whore for having all of these one-night-stands)!    \n\nNow - to get to your question - acknowledge them - wish them a pleasant day and that's really all that is required of any decent human being.
917461
OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.
1109996
Yeah, he's a brother, if you want him to back off basically you'd have to stop dating her... otherwise he's just doing what brothers are supposed to do; protect his sister from other guys ;-)  doesn't matter if you're a good or bad influence, it's his brotherly duty to make it difficult for you...
1004617
man up and say your sorry.  don't teach your little sister to accept less and don't let your little brother think it's okay to talk mean to people and not say I'm sorry.  YOu are their role model
142334
I find it hard to think much of a guy who says he loves you but would let your older brother get in the way just because he is scared of him.  Tell him to grow a spine and fight for the one he loves like a real person.
348352
He has low self-esteem.  Don't stand for it or it will get worse.  Simply tell him, "Don't talk to me like that.  When y7ou talk to me in demeaning terms it makes we want to be away from you not near you.  You may talk to your friends like that but don't talk to me like that ever again."\n\nIf he does, leave for a night or two and give him the message that you are not his doormat and you have too much self respect than to be treated like one of the guys.
273428
Number 1--the words Bf are not nice and anger will not alove your problems--leave them alone.   Let go, and let God.  Unless, you are willing to really forgive and stay together, from your tone I do not think that will happen, you can kill more flies with honey than you can with vinger, hold your head high, the best way to deal with that is to take care of yourself and do better.  Ignore them and keep moving on
51772
i cant give that good advice becuse im a guy but i say your brother will care at first but he can get over it... unless there really good friends.\nkeep trying  :)
791489
no offense but he may of just said that to eiather get in your pants or just make u stick around till he didnt need you anymore its like and ego thing with some guys they just dont want you to break up with them first i'm sorry this happened to you chica but the best thing to do is sulk for a few day forgive and forget cause telling by how much you say u care shows that your a sweet girl ice cream sweat pants and a good movie is your best friend right now dont let this keep you down go out there and hook another you and i both know you can and if u want revenge tell your brother what happened he may get mad at you but will kick the shit out of him but if your not a vengeful person just skratch that good luck
51706
hurt him back in football, or outside of football, egg his house/car, steal his girlfriend, hook up with his sister, or any other thing that you think will get justice.  otherwise you could wait it out and do the old "what comes around, goes around" gameplan.  if anything, let your bro take care of himself too, unless he wants the help.  g'luck.\n\n7