I want to end with my gf, but she is in a difficult situation right now. What should I do?
348569
The question is...will there ever be a GOOD time to leave her or will she always have some "problem" making you stay? You are feeling guilty and trying to make excuses so as not to have to break up with her. Natural. Break up with her, offer to help her out with whatever you can as a friend but do not sleep with her while you are doing this!!! Break away firmly but kindly. She will find some other shmuck to glom on to in no time(not that I am saying you are a shmuck)!! Good luck!
326365
Write or email her, explaining things like you have done here.\n\nGive her some time, as well.  Usually, that puts some perspective on things. Don't make any more promises that you can't keep, though -- "I'll do my best but I can't promise" is more honest.\n\nIn the meantime, try and get on with your own life, ok... no point in panicking, really.
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
967133
Tell her to contact Social Services. You should not have to take care of her. Give her a deadline for making other living arrangements. Break it to her as diplomatically as you can but have a heart-to-heart talk and let her know that you were willing to assist her in an emergency but now both she and you need to move on.
1084285
If you are both now struggling which mean you have developed some form of romantic feelings between each other. then it would be wise to just break up now, unless you are ready to commit adultery.\n\nIts painful, but just try stoping seeing each other for a while. You both need to maintain your dignity.
72260
I think you need to let her down easy.  Tell her you appreciate the time you've had together, but this is just not what you want right now.  You have things on your mind and need to be alone.  Once you break it off, stick to it and don't give her any false hope.  Once you break it off, YOU CANNOT SLEEP WITH HER...if she's crazy, you'll regret it big time.
309352
i don't know what's wrong with her, but if i were you i would get out now. how many more years of this crap are you going to take? if you have given her no reason to treat you the way she does and she still does it, she has some issues and you deserve better. in relationships where you have been together for a while and it seems like nothing will change, something drastic has to happen before anything will. take some time apart and reevaluated your feelings and the situation.
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
1100353
As hard as it might be since you LOVE her and want to be with her. Look you need to cut her off for a while, at least until she comes to a decission of what she wants. Fact is LOVE HURTS,but sounds like your gettin used. Why would you let her use you, I know in hopes she will stay, but have you ever thought she might come to a decission if you didn't let her use you. So next time and until she decides what she TRULY wants don't let her sleep over. Just tell her goodnight and send her on her way, let her think for a while. Besides do you deserve this think of your own feelings for a change. APPARENTLY YOU'VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT OR HEARD APPENTIENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER. GOD BLESS and good luck
109600
You could always get the jump on her by breaking up with her. Or you could talk with her and ask her why, there might be a way to fix things (99 percent chance there isnt).
1105904
stay with your girl, bcause you know she alreddy luvs you. if you break up, then go for it
652753
you need to end this relationship it is not good for the two of you to keep fighting it will just get worse. it will never get better. let her go now before she gets to attached. Good luck!!!
899428
Your in a tough situation, because your GF has got loyalties tied between two things at the moment. You and her religion ( and we both know those two subjects don't go well hand in hand). I am guessing your GF would be questioning allot at the moment, there is nothing that you can say to ease her mind really because its such a delicate situation which involves you. I would just tell her that you understand that she is going through a bit at the moment, and understands if she needs space, but tell her you do love her and you will stand by her what ever her decision. Just make sure that your there for her emotionally and physically because she will be having a hard time at the moment. Religion is very important to some People its only up to her if she can choose love over her religion. I hope she does : ) \nThe best of luck to the both of you
275382
Dont rush, give her time to think. If you keep houndin her then she'll feel trapped and may break it off. I love you are powerful words. And no, its not wrong at all.
1082373
Commit to her! If you’re not ready to make a commitment, break things off with her. Otherwise, you are just using her.
1159703
I can understand why she's feeling distant,I know I would feel overwhelmed...it's a tough call.I would say wait it out,try to get her talk about about what she's feeling,have some patience...it's gotta be a scary time for her and mabe she's afraid to show that?I would at least be there for her and not pressure untill all this is done and behind you both...if you really care about her and she truely wants  this relationship,why riun a good thing?Give her some space.Mabe that's all she needs,to know that you care and are willing to stick by her.
733871
Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!