is it unfair to judge solely on their appearance?
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haha, I would initially say yes.  BUT, no one is perfect and expecting someone to say yes is just dumb.  Everyone judges it is just how things are.  Even if you do not mean to.  Mostly what I find, in my case, is that someone can be unnatractive to me and I can have no interest, but the more I get to know the person (if they have a good personality) you learn that you can over-look it.  But, on first glance, you will still judge.  So, yes...and no.  d=
901800
Only if you judged their judgmentalism as good or bad.  Otherwise you may just be making an observation and stating a fact.  If I state the red car is red, am I judging its color or merely stating what I observe - the color red?
128069
no, its wrong to judge people if they dont think like you do though. put your foot down in a nice way. tell them that you respect their religion but its just not for you.
362662
If you must ask this question , and try to justify yourself, sadly YES.  Self-esteem comes from within and not needing an outside to validate you.\n\nIf this helps, my mum said remember , nobody cares, they are too busy worrying about their faults to notice yours.
316101
Sure it is,and it's a shame ! There was a study not long ago done on the exact reasons we deem one person attractive and the next not. It seems to have a lot to do with symetry...if both sides of your face are 'equal'. Examples of an 'equal' face would be Mel Gibson, the actor, or Cindy Crawford, the model. Their good looks are good looks to us because their faces are symetrical.  What a small thing to decide whether one is socially acceptable or not! What small people we are to judge folks by their looks, anyway! Look at Albert Einstein..no one would EVER accuse him of being physically attractive, yet look at what he accomplished for mankind! What was it Forrest Gump said all the time? Ugly is as ugly does??
101925
it would be difficult to judge solely from physical characteristics. \n\ntry researching your genealogy (your family tree).
274317
You should never *have* to separate yourself, whether you look similar to others or different. People just need to learn to get past their prejudices, but it'll be easier if differences aren't forced on them. Just go on with your daily routine as if nothing about your life is different, and deal with what comes. Be honest with yourself.
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You know what, sweetie?  This world is so focused on the outward appearance that it is a darn shame.  We are who we are and God made us this way.  Unfortunately people feed on Hollywood and glamor.  There are those out here that don't judge on looks...it's what's inside that really matters.  We are all children of God....if you are happy, then who cares!  AND.......\n\nThe response before mine....that life.....was made by someone who has no regard for feelings and has no business even responding.  RUDE.....you should be turned in and not allowed to be in this space with answers like that!\n\nYou, my 270lb. friend, take care and God bless.  The weather is so nice, take walks at lunch...that might help!
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I don't personally, but a lotta my mates like a guy who spends a lotta time on his appearance etc, so maybe it's just a matter of personal choice.  Anyway, don't worry - however you are, whoever you are - there's someone out there who'll think you're just PERFECT.
1113341
Why does it  need to be 'judged'?
1150722
OTHER PEOPLES OPINION SHOULD NEVER AFFECT YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS. IF THEY DO THEN YOU ARE JUST AS BAD AS THE PEOPLE WHO JUDGE YOU.\n\nHONESTLY MIXED CHILDREN AND ADULTS ARE SOME OF THE BEST LOOKING PEOPLE I KNOW, I WISH HAD THAT BEAUTIFUL COCOA COLORED SKIN AND AMAZING EYES LIKE I SEE ON A LOT OF MIXED PEOPLE. HOPEFULLY ONE DAY WE'LL ALL BE MIXED AND PREJUDICE WILL BE A THING OF THE PAST.
227476
Yes, it makes you sound shallow if you judge people by how they dress or how much money they have.
182835
I know I am not always that realistic about my self image. I do believe that when we are on our own though, we really do know whether were full of it or good or bad looking etc. If you know deep down that you are a good person (only you really knows) then continue on as usual. Otherwise if you want, try to change a little. I have some friends that we agree to disagree. In other words, we realize there is no compromise but we want to remain friends.
1185784
No. Do you like to be judged?
226648
what's your life style?\nIf you judge a person by appearance  you will miss out on a lot of great woman. I know I used to be a bomb shell now I old. I can see many b**ches that act the way I did when I was young. I missed out on some great guys because I judged a person by their looks. Good luck! Grow up. Find a fat chick they are the better woman.
579891
Ugly people aren't evil, they're just ugly. It doesn't matter who you are, the first time you see a person you're going to see their appearance first. So please, don't give me that "looks don't matter" nonsense. Are you going to talk to every person you see to find out what they're really about? No, you're not.
265855
People judge by appearance (only some). But to me there are no ugly are pretty people. I think we are all beautiful. God wouldn't make an ugly person. A person is only ugly by their actions, not appearance.