why do american girls distance away from immigrant guys while american guys dont mind dating immigrants girls?
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You mean like recent immigrants?  Well, if you mean like straight-off-the-boat immigrants that can't yet speak english, then that's probably because the kind of guys who chase them are hoping to cut down on pillow talk, or some stupid "macho" reasoning like that.  But it you mean, like, immigrants that have been here for a while...i'm not sure, it might be because the media usually portrays foreign men as the ultra-suave "love 'em and leave 'em" type.  That kind of cultural saturation sticks with you on some level.
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My God...\nMaybe really EASTern girls do that, but I definitely wouldn't. Who cares about visas, etc - I just want to be with someone I love... And if t is a foreigner - well, that's the heart's choice;)
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I have a friends asian women among my other American women friends its not about defensive i feel its just about how girls are brought up i have friends who are similar to american women but i also have friends who are not like them.So its just a matter of woman to woman if you observe there is no fixed pattern to how each woman or man act just like that this also depends on each american woman not american women in general.Since i have met American women who are so warm friendly and nice to Asians and i have met American women who get defensive since ethnicity is different from them.Trust me it goes from women to women not about women in general.
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North American culture is not a quarter as romantic as European culture for either sex.  I suppose a lot of it has to do with priorities that these different cultures place on things.  Here in North America is seems that people are more interested in belongings and things, while in Europe (certainly there is greed for belongings there also) but people tend to be raised to value the beauty of each other and so their romance is more outgoing then here.  Plus the fact that America is only 250 years old or so and some of these European places have been around for 1000's of years so there traditions are more inbred.
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It is always tempting to believe all that you read in a nother person's letters. But to be honest with you, and I am a woman of experience, so I know, many girls enjoy the power of toying with a man's emotions.\nYou wrote:\nAnd adviced me that all american girls are like this \nThis is not true, through there are many. This girl may indeed be very shy but I sincerely doubt it. She asks you to come to America to meet with her because she knows you can't afford the money, or time away from your studies. It is a safe request she can make to "prove" she cares about you and makes you look as if you don't care for her as much as she cares for you.\nIf she really cares for you, she would be trying to help find enough money to help pay for your flight over and back. Has she offered? \nYou wrote:\nAnd also she says that she never had a boy friend in her life because she was afraid to confront a boy Face to Face  Could this really Happen ins a country like America?\n Yes, sadly we as a culture, grant status and love to the more attractive people. Those with less than perfect looks are often left to lonliness. She may be afraid of rejection. \n  Why not test her? Tell her you may have found a way to get the money. Ask her to set a date for your arrival. If she's overjoyed, she's sincere but if she makes a lot of excuses and refuses to set a firm date, then she's playing with you. You can explain later that you were unable to raise the money.\n\nIt is my advice that you find a girl closer to home. Long distance romances are painful and almost never work out.
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I don't think it's a matter of American white men being less into us. It's more a matter of "historical time" consideration. Europe has much more of that commodity than the U.S. I've spent time in Europe, and received a lot of attention from the men (granted, I am racially-mixed - Native American, African American and Caucasian - but my African heritage is apparent). Here in the U.S., I get that attention a little less frequently, even though I wish that weren't the case. \n\nI love men of all colors, cultures amd ethnicities - but especially white men. I just wish that white man/black woman love matches were as frequent as those of black man/white woman here in this country.\n\nSooo, back to the last part of your question...you can find them where ever you are. Just look harder and stop waiting for them to come to you. They might just need You to go to Them...
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Germanic cultures are pretty direct.  There is little of the shyness of asking a girl for a date that you may find in the UK.\n\nBetter still, why don't you invite him out?  If you feel uncomfortable with this, invite him along when a group of you are going out.
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You should ask that over the net like you do with the questions you ask obove so you could have an idea of the number of asian guys who likes american girls and vise versa. \nAs far as I know (I have not conduct a scientific research on it) most asian man like the way american girls look but they don't like their attitude as a general for that they only like them to be a partime sex partner.
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What wrong with all the girls in your Home town or City, State, Country. Why do you think going out side of your own country is better?\n\nMost people can't make a long distance relationship work, when they live 2hours away, much less a hole state away. Get someone who's close to you, as in 20 mins. or less that you can see everyday.\nIt's called dating.
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Not at all.  Society's just bombarded with images of American girls being and/or acting promiscuous.  Mass communication lies in the hands of perverted and wealthy Americans.  I'm sure other countries are just as promiscuous, maybe even more.  Perhaps if Girls Gone Wild took place in, let's say Mongolia, we'd think Mongolians were horny bastards as well (no offense to Mongolians; just making a point).  Anyway, enjoy.
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Maybe it's a culture thing her parents may not approve of her dating outside of her race. Find out first before you take it personally. Good luck.
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Girls nice . . . sorry there is no such thing . . . they are the thing of the past . . . especially after women's lib . . . \n\nGood luck . . . best bet . . . find a girl overseas . . . they are more dedicated than american girls.
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hun I don't think it matters your nationality for a guy to like you I'm sure they will come on their own connection with you no matter their nationality and yes I think its definitly possible...... :)
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Some AMERICAN Jewish men are attracted to black women.  I think it's because so few Jews in America are black or dark skinned, and so it's a whole exotic thing and forbidden thing.  A white girl could potentially be Jewish, but a black girl probably isn't.\nWhen American guys get to Israel many of them like darker girls - different, more exotic, and all that.
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over the centuries we have been taught that that is inappropriate behavior. we have been taught it will mark us as a "loose" woman. no wants to be called or looked at as a "ho". americans are sexually repressed and afraid of open sexuality. we have also been taught that men don't like "aggressive" women, that it is up to the man to make the first move and draw the woman out. stupid i know but that's america. not saying that women shoud just go out and exploit their sexuality, but there's nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting
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Because the society they are born in shapes them to be that way.  I'm an east coast girl, but i'm sure not all so. California girls are like that.  Try looking in the library, or a local art center to find some more substantial women.
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Speaking as a Black female I think there is a very strong double standard in our (African-American) culture.  Black men will date a white female in a New York minute, but cry foul the minute they see us with a white or any other man.  We tend to get hassled more by other Blacks for dating outside of our race.  Also, many (not all) white men are raised to appreciate a more Euro centric standard of beauty (blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, skinny body, small butt, etc); in spite of the "browning" of America this beauty standard still dominates.   Black females don't fit into that particular beauty standard so I think it's hard for some (again some not all!) white men to see our beauty.  I also think it's hard because of the painful past that Black women have with white men.  When white men do approach us, some of us tend to be suspicious of them.  This is just my opinion for why you don't see more  Black females with white males.  If you're really serious about interracial dating, there are websites that are dedicated to this.