I'm always nervous, whenever I'm talking to a lady, what can I do?
341552
just relax. pretend it's yur best friend/your sister and don't do anything stupid
267358
I get nervous, but I don't mind them.  I guess because I tend to do well with phone interviews as well as face to face.  I'm lucky that way.\n\nJust remember to smile, relax, be yourself.  Let them talk as much as they want to.  Yeah, you're there so they can get to know you.  But it's been shown that the more a person talks, the more they like the person they're talking with.  Just a tip I picked up somewhere.\n\nGood luck!
1042547
she's just a really friendly and polite girl, that's why she always says hi and bye. and i think its really cute that your too shy. well anyway, i know its hard to get rid of your nervousness whenever she talks to you, but you have to know, she's only human, she's not immacualte or anything, if you wanna be closer to her, you have to stop being so freaked out when she talks to you, that might freak her out and might not wanna talk to you anymore.
450171
she's either thinking you were nervous or you are a dork.  Only way to find out is to open your mouth and talk to her.
306689
You're probably just a bit nervous - that's normal.  Try getting to know her before you ask her out.  Avoid the pick up joint and go places you will meet people with common interests.
58360
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
234670
I'm not sure I understand your question ... do you mean quiet person?  If so, try to remember that everyone experiences nervousness at some time or other.  Perhaps the person you are talking to is just as nervous as you.  Try to think peaceful thoughts and maybe learn meditation or yoga to relax you.  Excercise is also a good form of relaxation -- it releases nervous energies.\n\nGood Luck and Relax!  Take life as it comes . . . one day at a time!
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
52552
I don't think so, not if you have to ask. Sounds like you're not confident at all. Get it together little woman, where's your self-confidence?
187134
Start your speech out with something that makes you feel more comfortable.  If you can tell a joke, or if it's appropriate to sing a song, or just tell everybody that you're nervous, that can help you relax some.  \n\nThe more you do it, the better you get at it.  But sometimes the nervous anticipation is just what you need to do an excellent job.
142667
By accepting that you're there and that there is nothing you can do about it. It looks bad when you try to get rid of the nervousness. It looks like you're trying to hide something. If you're nervous, be nervous. It's ok.\n\nGood luck.
937481
Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
95037
I think it's funny you asked girls to answer. In a way you have already started a convorsation with me and i'm a girl.\nWhen intruducing your self be like hey i'm _____. Be really calm when guys are nervous it puts a weird tention everywhere. Just ask whats going on and dont be freaked out that your talking to a girl. we like calm people that are comfortable with themselves. it makes us more comforatable. hope that helps. good luck
837330
Are you the  guy? If so, she talks to you because she needs that to fill a void! Actually meeting the person you chat or talk with is a huge step...she's probably scared!
263019
I do it because I always like to make a good first impression, but the other times its just really nerve wracking... I mean youre thinkin does she like me, is my hair okay, if i tell her how i really feel will she think im gay, and stuff like that. it always me so nervous i can barely stand.. that is unless their like my best friend or something like that.
636504
You would not be nervous talking to any of these people individually, right?  You know your material, right?  \n\nThink of this presenation as a way of killing 2 birds with one stone, so to speak.  Just have the same conversation with the group that you would have with the individual and you will come off looking very relaxed and in control of the situation - and you only have to say it once instead of over and over again.  \n\nThis type of thinking takes this task out of the "Big deal" category and puts it in the "regular Everyday" category.  Truly, the only real way to overcome this type of nervousness is to simply do it a lot, until it does become mundane.\n\nAnd remember - we very often get what we expect in this life, so expect this to be easy and great!
1113167
Lots of people get nervous speaking in front of people. It is very daunting to see all those people who are hanging over your every word.  When you get really nervous, take a deep breath and count to 3, then just try to continue speaking. Realize that people aren't judging you and are probably more focused on what you are reading rather than the way you are reading it. If worse comes to worse you can just look for a familiar face in the crowd, like maybe a friend, and focus your attention on them. Make it seem as if you are just there reading to your friend.