A friend is dating a girl who i slept with, she is claiming now that she is a virgin, should I tell him?
355560
You should most definately tell him. Nobody deserves to be lied to by someone they care about. As his friend, you have an obligation to tell him the truth. This girl is manipulating him and it seems to me that he doesn't deserve it.
397288
Looking at their hymen is NOT a way to tell if a girl is a virgin. The only way to know is to ask and trust that she's not lying.
344748
if he doesn't already know and he says she's his girlfriend ten something is already wrong. now if is an internet thing and he can be hurt in some way, then tell him
176350
She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.
645595
At some point you're going to have to face what you did, I mean were there other people who saw who could tell your man, or do you think this person you kissed will take it personally. I understand what happened, we all have done some stupid stuff drunk. I would talk to the guy you kissed, no matter how uncomfortable it maybe, the last thing you need is this guy thinking it meant something and harassing you, you need to draw the line and say it was a mistake (who knows maybe he thinks it was a mistake too). As for your man, it's up to you whether you tell him, although IF there is even the SLIGHTEST possibility he will find out from other means then YOU need to be the one to tell him if you hope to stay with him, he will think more of your honesty if you come out with it than he will your dishonesty if he finds out through someone else. ALTHOUGH IF there is NO possibility he will find out I would say keep it to yourself, there's no need to drag your guilt out and punish him, believe me I know my boyfriend told me about some girl he had sex with then afterward he said, I feel SO much better for getting that off my chest, yeah well then I felt horrible and I wasn't the one who had done anything wrong!
618785
There is no way by which u can know she is virgin or not expect what the lady says. If u love her then learn to respect her statements. \n\nLove is not about knowing ur patner is virgin or not. Its about accepting the way the other is and i don't think it makes any difference
463943
I'm sorry this is happening to you, but as you said you have not been a good girl. Lying is never a good thing, but if you can live with it more power to you. Now first you have to challenge you man's manhood. You have to seem upset that he will believe made up B.S. tips from a chick he doesn't even know. Then, show how much it hurts that rumors make him question you loyalty to him. Don't over do it. Be suddle, but convincing. Also, consider the fact that he may know who this person is and they may have formed an alliance against you. YES, some females are dirty like that, anything to get your man. If this is true, there is a chance the battle is already lost. Also, you can use that you your advantage. Try to make him understand or believe that the chick will do or say anything to take him away. If is someone you told this information to, use that to your advantage by saying, "She heard all the wonderful things I said about you. Now, she wants you for herself." This boost his ego, and lets him know how happy he makes you and how much you appreciates him.\n\nI hope all goes well. Also...\n\nMoral of the story:\nDon't tell sluts all your personal business.
379159
Don't feel bad, hey. It's not the most appealing thing as a girl wants to feel like she has someone who knows what they are doing. What you need to do then, is spend all your time making it good for her and be willing and you will be fine. I slept with a guy who was a virgin and he was 24. I got over the fact he was a virgin cos I thought he was the most hottest guy I had ever been with and I loved his personality. What killed it a bit though, is he was pretty nervous which is understandable, but he wanted me to do everything. Just act confident, and if the chick knows you are a virgin she will understand it will get better and better. If you have casual sex, lie and say you aren't a virgin. Be confident, and she'll be none the wiser. Be honest if you are actually going out with someone. Don't worry matey, it wouldn't turn me off you.
863527
Definetely tell him if you aren't ready. If he pressures you when you don't feel ready, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he's a real gentleman, he'll realize that you're worth the wait and not force you to do anything.\n\nAs for the fact that you lied, it would be a bigger deal if you had lied about being a virgin when you weren't. But, since that's not the case he shouldn't be too mad, and if he is, he is overreacting. \n\nGood job on sticking to your morals and not having sex whenever, wherever, you should be proud of yourself and don't let others eat away at your self-esteem. Doing something just because everyone else does it is rarely a good reason for anything. \n\nPeace and good luck!
758265
There is absolutely no way to tell if someone is lying about being a virgin.  Some people believe that the condition of a girl's hymen is a sign of virginity.  This is at best misleading and at worst a myth.\n\nFor both guys and girls, it is impossible to prove virginity.
624038
It sounds like your guilt wants you to tell, but telling will only hurt her and make you feel better.  If it was a one night stand, let it go, otherwise someone's got to break it to her, preferably you.
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
514971
No.  I would see her in a good light.  It says something respectable about her character that she is a virgin.  I would wait.
411772
so wat if she told u her period date n to her other guy frenzz too...dat does not, i repeat, NOT mean dat she's lost her virginity or sumthin....dats actually a very crazy notion......\n\nif ur uncomfortable wid her talkin such a thing, tell her not to tell u such things in da future....
105127
Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
269773
Did she tell you she was a virgin and did not smoke or did you assume those things?  If she lied, the likelihood is that she will continue and you will be never "really" be able to trust her."
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.