she does not show interest towards sex in the bedroom?
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Only in the bedroom? Then have it in other rooms :))\n\nIf she does not have interest in sex at all, there is no way to compel her. May be find out the root cause.. It may be due to some psychological factor... Take her to a sex therapist - which might help but she should be at least open for that. no forceful tactics here. Goof luck.
114617
well if you could not tell if she liked you in bed she is either very shy and inhibited or nope she did not like you in bed.
158960
Dude you cann't make chicken soup out of just water. The point being you can't make her something she not. Seems your sex drive is no where close to hers. It could be you two just don't match up.\n\n It will not get better, maybe you jusy don't turn her on. With a lady its about all things the way you treat her and talk, how you make her feel. Its also maybe your just not  sexually incompatible. You need to think she is not enjoying the sex as much as you.\n\n There is alot more to this then can be talk about on this short note.\n\n Also you could try this, either cook her a nice dinner or take her out to dinner. when you get home just put on some good music just make the connection that you once had. \n\nIts not good to have her think all you want is sex. \n\nHave a nice day Don
626980
With the pics it does depend how recent they are, old ones don't worry about, new ones could be an issue. Being open about sex is not a sign of lack of commitment, but of comfort with it. Being open about sex and sexual interests is very freeing, and is only taboo because of the religious fundamentalists that run the world are a bunch of frigid nutters who think anything beyond missionary with the lights off on your wedding night is wrong. Chill let her be herself, unless she really crosses the line give her the benefit of the doubt.
781846
No sex for 8 months is BS.  Talk to her about it calmly and find out what her deal is.  Be ready to compromise.  If she still won't EVER have sex with you then something is seriously wrong and you need to escalate the situation (counseling, divorce, whatever).\n\nGood luck, bro.
541256
I think some people get to a point in a relationship that they aren't worried about sex, they're close enough without having so much of that type of bonding. That's one possibility.\nAnother could be, sorry if I hurt your feelings, that she isn't attracted to you anymore, or she could be tired of the "same ol' thing". Do you guys spice it up in bed, or is it the same old missionary position. \nMy boyfriend and I had this problem, we brought toys in the bedroom, and its never been as good as it is now.\nJust ask her, I can keep giving o you ideas about what could be wrong, but I don't know what going on in her head, and I'm only getting one side of the story. Just talk to her, if you know or have a feeling that it might be she tired of the same thing, ask her about trying some new things
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try not having sex with her for a month, then tie a bow around yourself and stand there naked, but don't initiate anything, just stand there and tell her "I'm here if you want me" and if she doesn't initiate it then i think you should sit down with her and discuss it.  Women often initiate less than men, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.  Maybe she could make suggestions to you that will help her enjoy it more.  Listen, don't preach or judge, just listen.
373957
Her confidence is probably already destroyed. This is the reason a lot of women sleep around. They need love and affection, as everyone does, but they've never gotten it and are still not getting it. They believe this is the only way they will get it. She may seem happy and proud of her sex life but that is not always the case. The only thing you can do for her is let her know that you care and you are worried. Tell her why you care about her and why you're worried about her. Then, continue to be her friend. If she can not or does not want to change, she is still the same person you've been friends with. Good luck. :^)
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THERE CAN BE TWO REASONS FOR THIS. 1 EITHER YOU SUCKED IN BED, AND SHE IS BITCHING CAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX W/ YOU ANYMORE, BUT DOESN'T WANT TO COME OUT AND TELL YOU, OR 2 SHE REALLY LIKES YOU, AND IS AFRAID THAT YOU MAY GIVE THE GOODS AWAY TO SOMEONE ELSE, WHICH MAY CAUSE HER TO GET JEALOUS, AND BEHAVE THAT WAY.  TO FIND OUT IF IT'S #1, THE NEXT TIME YOU GUYS ARE ALONE, AND GETTING ALONG SLOWLY APPROACH HER, CARESS HER, STOKE HER HAIR, GIVE HER A KISS ON THE FOREHEAD, THEN ON THE TIP OF HER NOSE, THEN HER MOUTH, THEN MAKE YOUR FINAL MOVE!!  IF SHE PULLS AWAY FROM ALL THAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOUR MOVES IN BED.  WHAT WOMAN WOULD TURN AWAY FROM THAT???  I KNOW THAT GETS ME IN THE MOOD FOR SURE.  GOOD LUCK
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Sex is important in a relationship and obviousley most people would not get married or stay married if there was no sex involved. I would not marry someone who did not give me sex either. I do not think it is offensive to think like that. I just think you should tell her and see if she will change, ultimately you might not get what you want and you might and up divorcing her but would it hurt to try and make it work first.
56421
there cud b some reasons for the inhibition towards sex...   may b past experiences...   i wud suggest that instead of medication u sud explore y she is nt interested in sex n try to remove that inhibition...   i m sure u ll enjoi much more than... :)
434120
No judgment, but, during sex is probably not the best time to bring up something so sensitive. Perhaps she might discuss it with him before or afterwards (if she wants to give it another try) - maybe she can guide him as to how he can satisfy her - that's up to her (it really depends on how much she likes him OUTSIDE the bedroom). \n\nIt's a delicate issue, but I'm sure she can find a way to deal with it without completely demolishing his ego (there is a risk of that).
630492
Well, it's hard to say, but I'd guess she's tring to have sex with you. If that doesn' bother you too much, my advice is to try. Who knows, it might end with a great love making multiorgasmic session?!
480413
she is!u say shez unmarried,so most probably dull sex life,that has generated a lesbian attitude in her.be careful,such psychos r really dangerous and vindictive.
874424
She could be...or it could just be a friendly way of showing support.\nMen and women can be touchy-feely without having sex.
470152
Men and women have completely different needs when it comes to sex, usually. No, you can't change her. But there may be a deep seated reason she is the way she is. Perhaps something she hasn't shared with you or some fear.\n\nIf it is that troublesome for you, see a sex therapist or start marriage counseling.
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Yes. I've heard from personal stories. Everybody's different. He may be one with low sex drive, or yours higher. Could even be psycological issues, though I don't think that is usually the case. Happy bed time!