I want to tell my friends im a lesbian but i dont know how got any tips?
342479
Well if they are true friends and still be your friends, then nothing to worry about. Otherwise, it may be hard to tell them. It is always hard to tell a secret but if you really want to tell, then do it. And be proud of it. \nReally, I wish I can help you out. Still, good luck with telling your friends!! I am cheering you on! :D I support ya. Hope they will stay friends with ya. Good luck.
312875
there is no easy way to tell them. If you know for sure that your parents will accept that you're bi, then it should be a problem telling them. They probably already know and just waiting on you to say something.
781349
the best way to come out is directly. i know that it may be scary, but your family and friends are more likely to take it bad if they don't think you trusted them enough to be honest.\n\nget some info off of the following websites. they can give you plenty of info to share with your family. also check out the public library in your area. they may have some books that will also be good resources.\n\nstart with the person you think will take it the best, be it family or a close friend. tell them first. you will need them to be your suppport system through this time. then, just keep going until you've told them all.
54819
you dont want to tell them about your life (personal) just talk about gerneral things and see if you have anything in common if so it will be fine from there. Oh yeah the more you think about NOT saying something stupid YOU WILL! so dont think too hard.
658289
dont let idiots make yuou afraid to say you care. they're just afraid of everything. sister love is much stronger. call ur friend, or send her a card. anything to send a positive message. (besides, theres nothing wrong with being a lesbian.)
597712
Simply go up and tell him. If you have a friend tell him, it will get twisted around. He'll appreciate it more if you are open and just tell him. :)
471979
Just be honest. You have explained it to her but she still acts weird, so maybe she doesn't understand it the first time you explained it to her. \nBut when you talk to her, instead of you doing the talking, let her talk. Let her speak up and see what her concerns are. Ask her open questions like "I feel you are avoiding me, and it seems to me that it is because of what happened...what do you think?(or am I right?)" and let her voice her problems. The main point is to for her to let things off her chest, not for you to keep repeating that it was an accident, because if she thinks otherwise, there is nothing you can say that will convince her, so get her talking.\nFrom what you say, she seems quite offended: "she acts like I did it on purpose." Point that out to her!\n"You seem to me like you are quite upset, if not angry, about what happened...is that right?"\nAsking questions by pointing out how you feel (to me, you seem to be...) will be less likely to offend her than stating what you think is going on (i think you are pissed at me), because when you say "I think", it is like a judgement, and if she feels like you are judging her, it will not help the situation. Say, "I feel" "it seems to me".\n\nAfter she gets talking, let her know you understand. Maybe she is afraid that you are bi or lesbian and therefore is afraid that you are trying to approach her with that kind of relationship. Ask her "Do you think because of what happened, that I have that kind of (lesbian) tendancy?" She might look at you weird, but to get it out in the open is better, and much quicker, than beating around the bush. Be open and honest and sincere, otherwise it just won't work. If you value this friendship, be prepared to put yourself up to the line and open up.\nTell her, you value this friendship, and wish it would stay the way it has been. You don't intend it to go any deeper, but you don't want it to melt away either. \n"I feel that things have been really awkward between us and we aren't the friends we used to be. I don't want that to happen bacause I value etc etc"\n\nOpen up, be honest.\nIf she still doesn't understand, it would be time to let go because it would be her hurdle to jump once you have opened yourself up and explained it to her.
925194
Tell her the truth bro...The whole "Gay" thing will backfire on ya because then she will tell everyone you know and then people will think your gay....Tell her the truth...I would rather people think that im an A-hole for telling the truth...then think that im a fag for lying.
804989
Don't rush yourself. Do it when you are mentally and emotionally ready. Then just sit your friend down and let them know you got something you want to tell them and say, "We're best friends. We're supposed to always be there for each other. Now if you're a real friend, you wouldn't judge me for this...." Then come out and say it.
835336
I think if it were me, I'd open a Word document and start writing. When I had it all down the way I wanted, I'd then hand-write a letter to my sisters.  \n\nYou say your oldest sister has always been nice to you, so she'll probably understand why you've been out of touch and how scary this is for you. Hopefully your other siblings will as well. \n\n\nI hope that you're getting some support from a group that is LGBT-friendly and a counselor who is familiar with the process of coming out.
290006
im a girl and i like to get to know knew people so if someone were to do that to me, i'd like for them to just come up and say something like hi my name is so and so. Then if shes interested in talking shell tell you her name and the converation will go from there before you even know it.  GOOD LUCK!!!\n\nMAKE SURE YOU SMILE AND LOOK CHEERFUL,AND HAPPY!!!!!
252050
I found my wife in a chatroom at gay.com but I certainly do not recommend that method for everybody.  \n\nI recommend going places you like to go and doing things you like to do, just as I would for anybody lesbian or not.  These places are where you'll meet people who have things in common with you, which is what anybody is looking for.  Making lots of friends, being socially active and making yourself available all help.  Be honest, be real, but most of all have fun and enjoy yourself.  \n\nFR
1126837
You tell them...just make sure they're at least somewhat attracted or interested in you.  If you get rejected, just dust yourself off...you could probably do better.   OR be friends with them first if you're not already...probably be easier if you are.  GOOD LUCK!!
1010663
Yeah, tell her.  Just say, Hey Leah, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and I like you very much.  I would like to start dating you and getting know you even better.  I want to take this to the next level.  I value you friendship, so i thought I would just come out and say it.  I like you.  Do you feel comfortable with us trying to become more then friends?  \n\nNext thing - LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY TO HER ANSWER...and don't say a word.  Just listen.  \n\nGirls love it when guys listen to them.  It makes us feel special.  WE also loves guys that are to the point.  We don't have to wonder what they are thinking when they tell us straight out.\n\nAlso, be prepared....she may not be ready to move forward YET.
1097356
There's a completely free, completely confidential hotline that you can call that can help you come out. You can speak with an adult or with a young person like yourself.\n\nhttp://www.glnh.org/index2.html\n\nTheir website also has links to organizations in your area.\n\nAll of the following links have really great resources for coming out. Don't just click the top one... click all of them and read all of the brochures, etc.\nhttp://www.pflag.org/Getting_Support-Coming_Out.coming_out.0.html\nhttp://www.outproud.org/brochure_coming_out.html\nhttp://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Coming_Out\n\nAnd if the friends you have are really your friends, they'll be your friends even if they know you're gay or bi. Real friends like you no matter what.\n\nGood luck!
96791
You think you are, but you could be curious about trying things and you believe your bestfriend is the closest person and female, to try this on. Take time to think about it, tell her that your having these feelings (about being a lesbian).
583904
"Don't!!" Iam bi and I would not ask soming like that of my straight friends or you'll lose them. If you do you pushing them into something their not into. You can't make a straight girl like girls or shower with you if they don't want to. You can only loose your friendS by doing that, cause you too pushy.