is she a compulsive lier?
349878
yeah dude she is just trying to get ur attention! leave her well alone she has some deep seated issues. nice of you to try dude but sope people cant be helped. sounds like she lies all the time.stay well away!!
543054
You have no way of knowing whether what she is saying is the truth, you'll just have to trust her.Need to realize in life, no matter how close you are to someone, you'll never really know what they're thinking, that's just the way life is. I don't think any of her "excess skin" ,as you put it, is from too much physical recreation. It's probably something genetic, and if it doesn't bother her{like in a painful, medical way} it shouldn't bother you. A couple things women pick up on quick is  jealousy and insecurity, and it's generally not perceived by them as positive traits. It sounds to me like you should have ONE long talk about this with her, and then drop it,'cause if you keep bringing it up, she's going to drop you.
391504
There is a good chance it’s not just you she is lying to. She has probably done this most of her life and most of the time she isn't aware she is doing it until it’s done. She probably lies about things that are so small, the truth wouldn't hurt either. Most people that do this are doing so because they feel their life or the truth is so boring, they don't think anyone will care about them. It’s a cry for help and love. Show her she doesn't need to do this anymore.\n\nSet here down, sometime other when it is not an issue. Look her straight in the eye, while holding her hand; tell her how much you love her. Then talk to her how important trust is in a relationship. Explain to her that you are aware of her deception and it is because you love her so much that, most of the time you can see it in her face. Talk to her about how other people that do not love her and don't have the ability to look over this one issue to see the really great things about her, view her. Explain that you cannot live with dishonesty and mistrust, (and you cannot) but you want to help her, because that is what two people do when they love each other. They work through issues that have the potential to tear them apart.\n\nThen, every time she lies, and there is no one else in the room, give her that look. I know you have one. That look that says, Honey, do we need to talk about this. After a few times, she will respond, straighten up and tell the truth. You may even go through a phase when you might share a chuckle about it. It will take a while, but YOU can turn this around. If you don't, no one else cares enough about her to do it. It remains to be seen if you will stay together but if you help her through this, she will be in dept to you for the rest of your life and you will feel beter about any decesion you make.\n\nGood Luck.
288783
She is lying to you. Find someone else.
976341
Tell the truth. She shouldn't have lied in the first place
987489
trusting people takes time. especially when you once had it and then lost it. i think that you should be VERY patient with her. don't turn her insecurities into an argument. try to understand where she is coming from. i think that if you don't lie continuously, she'll eventually trust you. believe me...
1128264
move on if she lies she is not so much inlove with you as she says. a relationship is based on trust and honesty
290898
Trying to get a compulsive liar to stop lying is like trying to perform the heimlich maneuver on a mountain goat.  It's a big mess, potentially dangerous, and in the end...best left up to the professionals.
62574
She seems real fake to me :)
451504
Relationships are based upon honesty and trust. I could not lie to my husband about anything even when i know that it is going to get me in trouble, the reason is is because I love him and he deserves to know what is going on and to lie to him is to dishonor him. \n\nShe is probably embarrassed about her habit, but she needs to realize that it is not okay to lie to you about it. It is not very honorable to lie to someone and I can understand where you would not trust her.  You probably almost feel like she is hiding something. \n\nI would suggest having a long hearted but gentle and calm talk with her and maybe counseling may be necessary as well
234575
Her problem is....HERSELF. She's afraid of making a mistake or someone talking bad about her. If she gets caught in a lie most of the time she might deny it and say that wasn't what she said or it isn't how she meant it. She tries to make herself look good so that when she does get blamed for stuff she can pin it on someone else to keep her looking like an "angel". \n\nMy advice...With friends like that who needs enemies?
966214
I think she's being paranoid....up her meds...lol
742093
You were WRONG to start your relationship with a lie.  Now, you're having to face the consequences of your lies.\n\nIt might not matter to YOU, but it obviously DOES matter to HER.
491665
It sounds that she might have persecutory delusions, or paranoia. Which is usually a sign of serious mental illness. You need to take her to a Psychiatrist.
179334
Speaking to spirit guides - I believe that.\nWe come from the spirit world - you got me.\nHere to develop ourselves - not sure I believe that's the purpose of life, but I do believe it takes place.\nIs she lying?  I'm not familiar with her, so I don't know if she's lying - she may just be writing what she believes.\nCould she be mentally ill?  Not because she believes what she does.  She may just be whacked, which is not the same thing as mentally ill.  Or maybe she is, but I think her beliefs and her state of mind are not necessarily connected.\n\nWhat would a doctor make of her claims?  Well, he won't order her off to the nuthouse because of them.  It depends on the doctor.  However, I suspect most doctors are left brain, scientific types, so they'd probably just say "poo."
446478
Sounds to me that she will do herself in with a lack of credibility.  Your only recourse is to make sure YOU remain credible - and keep people like this out of your life as much as possible.  She's got it in for you since you have the ability to see her bad side - and she's probably afraid you will expose her to others.  Some day something will happen where it will be proven to the higher ups that she is a liar and manipulator.  Don't spend too much time worrying about it though.  It takes away from your own life and gives too much to hers.
156301
Listen to her and trust her, and quit doing whatever it is your doing wrong in the relationship thats making you jump to conclusions.  Be careful not to accuse her of something your actually doing...Guilt will get the best of you....