How long do women wait before sleeping with a guy?
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I haven't been on the dating scene in over 11 years and back then it was 3 months. Today it's an anything goes kind of world. People who aren't even dating are hooking up etc. It seems like trends(for lack of a better word) go in cycles. The 60's, 70's people were pretty promiscuous, then came the awareness of AIDS and people started to be more cautious in the 80's and 90's and now we are back to promiscuity. I am so hoping that when my daughter is a teen that we will be back to a waiting to have sex trend. And what is really scary is what people consider to be "sex". Most don't count o_ral sex as "sex" because there is no penetration.It's still sex! Now I am by no means a prude, but I do believe you should know the person you are sharing your body with. If you don't know them how can you trust them. \nWow, this is really long-winded. Sorry!
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DTB . . . 11 months no sex . . . odds are . . . if you really get seriously involved with her and get married . . . you will be lucky to have sex once every three months . . . \n\nI know a guy . . . who had a girl who held out for 2 years . . . and they got divorced within a year . . . because she only put out once . . . and it wasn't on their honeymoon . . . and she was shocked when she discovered who she had sex with . . . saying . . . "Your not _________ " (not her husband, my friends name)
425739
Im female and have never slept with someone the first night I met them but the question you should be asking is do you think your any less bf material since you slept with her the first night you met ?? U were pretty easy too.
100653
While I'm not a guy... I had to respond on this one..\n\nWhile waiting to have sex until your married is a honorable decision, it doesn't make sense.  You have to be happy in all parts of your marriage.  Since you'll be with that person until 'death do you part', wouldn't you like to sample the wares before buying them?  I know that sounds crude, but waiting until you get married can cause a lot of problems in the marraige...\n\n-Doubts and daydreams over what it might have been like with another person.  Could it be better?  Could lead to cheating.\n\n-Sexual problems - this one can be open ended and limitless.\n\nSo while you shouldn't go sleep with any Tom, Dick, Harry, or Jane... you should probably consider having sex with your fiance/girlfriend/boyfriend before you get married...
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Hey, please dont generalise it on all guys just because some guys do it.\nFor me, sex is the last thing in a relation. I really dont know how some guys can just have sex with a female that they just know for few hours or less than a year.\nI dont know if its just me, but i am really freaky about sex. I need to really know the female perfectly and have some positive connection with the person. And will be personally ready for sex ONLY after about 1 yr of serious relationship.\nSo, please dont generalise all guys in the same way. Not all the animals in the jungle are dangerous.\nAs for the guys who want sex as soon as they start talking, they are the crazy despos and their only objective about talking is just to get the female laid and dump them after use.
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Wait 2 hours. Making love ( not having sex ) it is not a competition. And if you were a good lover, once is more than  enough.
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About 4-7 days... that's pretty standard for most females.
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Some girls think some guys can be sweet etc, but depending on how a guy acts around a girl then this can give the impression that they are after sex or a one night stands, depends on how the guy approaches the situation, if he is genuinely interested in the girl then he may spend hours asking questions and getting to know her but if he just wants to get close and pash then he is more than likely out for a one nighter.
685397
Don't ever let any guy pressure you into having sex. You will know when the time is right. And if some guy really cares about you he will respect that.
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Um, it depends.  Experience isn't really my reason sleeping with someone.  An experienced guy can probably show you things you didn't know were possible... but a guy with less experience could be a natural, or you could experiment together and have a lot of fun.  Best thing to do is just communicate.  Be honest about your own experience and be willing to talk with the other person throughout the whole romp to make sure it's pleasing for both parties.
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Having sex before I was ready, and not waiting for the right guy.
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I agree with everyone.  A question like that is that you are always waiting for that moment.  Try not thinking about it and focus on something else and maybe, just maybe your time will come.  No girl is going to sleep with you if you think out loud like that.
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are u aware of wat ya asked, man?\nu used the words waiting and man in the same sentence! come on, we all know it's nothing but a dream. put aside the issue of men'S being not able to wait at all, and sex?!!it'S wat they-should i say we?- cannot resist.\nu should've asked how long can a man seem to  be waiting?
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I have known girls to feel rejected when a man doesn't insist on sleeping with them immediately.  I know it is stupid, but she probably thinks less of you because of it.  Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your effort anyway, if you are actually worried about how she would feel about it.  As to whether she had any feelings or not, she was probably too confused to know herself, so she couldn't tell you one way or the other.
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when a girl and a guy meet, that means sex soon or sex now,that is how important sex is,woman if he doesnt satisfy you, break it before you get emotional responsibility to stay with him
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Yes, Yes, Yes!\n\nI waited until 20 years, 11 months.\nI know my husband wouldve never married me if he had gotten sex before the ceremony. Men are just like that.\n\nhopefully a husband will be gentle, considerate and loving during that onetime event. Mine lasted all night and finally at 8AM i was deflowered gently, lovingly \n\nA lover will be thinking of himself, take 5 minutes and leave you unsatisfied, wondering how to get it without being married and how fast he can dump you, so that he can go on to another.
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there is no limit and the longer he is willing to wait the better you should not sleep with them cause they are cute you should sleep with him because your in love and married.