How do you point it out to your boyfriend that he needs to spend more time with you?
347608
i hear u!!.. cant wait 2 read the answers.. ihav the same probl'
691098
My advice is you tell your guy that. If he seems  distant then he's not the guy who deserves your attencion. If he says he had no idea. Then say "fine, I have a way for you to make it up to me..." and invite him somewhere. If he says no. Then if he can't make time in his "big" schedule  for you then whats the point in knowing him anyway?
357636
Always show him he matters a hug, a note,sex\nAlways have date night even if it is a movie or a talk\nAlways ask him how his day is at work\nAlways tell him you love him and you are blessed to have him in your life.
237543
Tell him straight-out, give him an example or two. If he doesn't act like he cares or makes no changes in how he is treating you, and IF you are not married, perhaps you are wasting time with Mr. Wrong, that you could be spending with a Mr. Right somewhere along the line. You must value yourself as a person enough to do this; if you continue to allow him to act like you don't matter, then you are basically agreeing with him. You do matter, you do have a choice, and there are plenty of other guys that would likely find you captivating and enjoy acknowledging you and including you in their world.
19009
Tell him that You "just want to hang out with him and snuggle and enjoy Christmas with him and exchange gifts in private" but it is up to him.  You can't force a boyfriend to do something.  you want him to DECIDE for himself that he wants to be with you all day.  Isn't it nicer when the guys WANT to be there ro be with you instead of knowing that really his mind is somewhere else.  Don't hold him back and give the him any ammo that he can throw in your face later.
456647
you spend enough time together @ work already; you should give your mate some space
482925
If you want it to work out you should say what you mean that is nice and ask him to call you sometime and tell him to not avoid you and tell his  friends the real stuff you didn't say that was nice and also ask your boyfriend to go to the movies with you."
791622
When they say they need more space usually means i am tired of you and that is that.  Don't sit at home waiting for him to make up his mind, you do your own thing as well. They the boyfriends are clever they know the females will be sitting next to the phone's or watch the cell-phones all the time , just waiting for them to phone, makes them feel powerful. No, you go out and enjoy yourself, i am sure that is what he is doing. Good luck :)
1105317
put your boyfriends name on your to-do list
77040
Tell him that you need to wait and both you and your boyfriend should consider finishing schools or any carrer goals so that you can provide for your child.  If he loves you he can wait until you are ready.
1116666
Sad but true... and I'm sorry to be the first to break this to you... but...\n\nPeople MAKE TIME to do the things they want.  If he wanted to spend time with you... talk to you... HE WOULD MAKE IT HAPPEN.   Job schedule, busy family life, anything else is just an excuse.\n\nDon't TELL someone you love them... SHOW THEM... \n\nOne of the ways you SHOW them is to SPEND THE TIME with them that you can.\n\nSorry... you seem sweet... but from the outside looking in:\n- If you don't know in 9 months how he feels... somethings wrong there and\n- If he isn't spending major time with you... You may be alone here... in your affections.\n\nMove on... you'll find your next choice much more ATTENTIVE.
1175702
Do activites that you enjoyed before being in a relationship with him.  Do things you like.  Then, add in another boyfriend after you have had some time to yourself.  Hope this helps.
441547
Tell him again, cook him a nice meal, light some candles, sit down and in a Quiet voice, tell him that the money he is making is not replacing quality time with you- that you Adore him and need to have some compromise on time together- Make a date night, once a week- Plan for your romantic interludes-\n\nOne thing you Cannot do, is Nag him about it, it will just cause a bigger rift than you feel already- and harsh words spoken in the heat of emotion, cannot be taken back.
283891
How you ever tried talking to your boyfriend about it, sit him down, talk to him and let him know that you feel less desired when he is not giving you the attention, that he shows to others.
56578
Listen very carefully...\n\nShow him what you just asked us...\n\nAnd then ask him what he would like...\n\nBut I have a pretty good feeling he already knows how much you love him and doesn't need a reminder...
17242
Be specific, be direct.  Instead of going to a dress shop and saying, it sure would be nice to have somewhere to wear this (indirect) be direct and use positive examples.\n\nFor example, say something like this, "H, remember when we were dating before we got married and we went to that dance.  I really felt loved by you when  we were on the dance floor and you held me tight and whispered in my ear.\n\nSo instead of putting him on the defensive such as saying, "You don't love me anymore" which he can dismiss because in his mind, he believe he does love you, put ideas into his head for things he can do and make them sound like praise.\n\nWe guys are pretty simple, we want things that work, we want you to say thanks when we do something well, and we want you to rock our worlds until we can't take anymore.\n\nWe don't respond well to criticism or the failure to appreciate our efforts.  That's why statement such as telling him he's not loving enough seldom work.\n\nThink aobut it this way.  If he believes he is being loving and you just shot him down by telling him he isn't, what will that do to his ego?\n\nLast suggestion is to look for ways he is demonstrating love.  While it may not be your love language as mentioned before, it sure will help your attitude if you can see the things he does that are his own personal way of expressing love.  It may not be your way, but please, give him credit if he is expressing love.  Even if it is just checking out your car on a Saturday morning to make sure it's safe for you to drive.\n\nBH
654919
spent time with him, let him know you enjoy being with him. Go for walks in special places., parks,trails,beach,or your neighborhood. let him know that time spent with him bonding YOU really LOVE, and that it will strengthen your relationship. Tell your partner that it does not take much to make you happy. \ncook at home let him know that you love doing this for him and that the satisfaction of him liking you food is all you need to know that you're doing something right for your relationship.\nclean the house while he's at work and go out and rent a movie you know he'd liked and tell him it's gonna be a block-buster nite. make some popcorn and sodas, ice cream. \nbecome domestic but let him know it's how you always wanted it to be ., ever thing else WILL fall in place. make youself look pretty for him.\n\nGOOD QUESTION> life is about caring, giving and sharing.