why do some men like to be with married women?
354286
They like it because there is no commitment.  They are doing something exciting and wrong so the get a thrill from it plus there is nothing to tie them down.  They get sex and what ever else from the relationship and that is all.
967220
In my opinion, it is the highest form of disrespect a man can show his wife! It also opens the door to him partaking in these kind of activities with other females. I don't see how any man can claim to love his spouse when he is willing to share her in bed with other men! Does that make any sense to you?!  He sounds like an unprincipled man to me.
310535
about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
1171708
Because short men have issues with being short... being with a taller woman makes them feel in control... or else he just really liked the women.
46073
Guys are attracted to women who take responsiblity for their own feelings and needs, they might need a parnter to help them to meet the needs, but they don't put all that on the other person.
849065
I believe men can't be friends with women.  Most situations, men just want more.  Women are the ones that stop or allow it.  It's just better that married men stay with their wives and ignore the single person.
271422
Sure, they just want to get laid. And most of them are married too.
92179
Yes, if not a physical affair, then an emotional one.  When a married man is sharing his time w/a single woman, he is sharing intimacies with her that should be reserved for his wife.
1026345
In my opinion, each person has a different view about relationships and all that goes with it. Some men and women have a conservative  lifestyle. They are true to their loved ones.  They honor their marriage and live by certain rules according to their faith and upbringing.  \n\nOther couples have a free relationship where their physical needs comes first and they have relationships with other partners. They are more open minded and rules are tossed out the door, or they believe in living together without marriage and there are no strings attached. \n\nMen and woman expect different things from one another. Some men are very controlling.  Others allow their wives to be more independent so she can be at home and raise the kids cook and clean etc...and go out with her girlfriends ..and he has his time with the boys and sports etc. \n\nThere are so many areas of life that could cause the man or woman to cheat. If a woman  constantly does not respond to her husband's desires and would rather watch " American Idol"...then what does she expect ?...he is going out to find someone who will give him what he needs and wants..the woman can also cheat it's not just the man.....most people want a happy and healthy life together.....some couples are party people...they are not happy to stay at home and do things together.....the man and woman in any relationship needs to find out what makes the  other one tick before committing to a relationship in order to have a decent marriage and peaceful home life.  What do they really want? You have to know the person you are involved with long enough to really know him or her before you say " I do"...or you might say " I won't"
397836
I think because the thrill is attracting to women. The thought of doing something "naughty" something they shouldnt be doing.\nBut in the end every women wants a good man that is going to treat them right and that wants the same things out of life as them
862277
Ofcourse you can have it,  provided flirt with those married woman, who enjoys it, but it would be harrasing who doesnt like it......stay away from them
492105
For the same reason married men like married women -- safer, no commitment, and it's forbidden.
1002269
there are many motives behind an affair,the old line it just happened is a crock of bull,it is given much thought and for men i think it's a challenge for women it is a emotional thing the sense of being needed, attractive to another man.men also need to see if they still have it some do, some don't,  some never did,regardless of the reason it is wrong.if your sex life stinks make it better try different things,being a women i can't completly answer why guys cheat but i feel it's an ego thing or maybe their spouse is truely a louse in which case she has no reason to complain we women know men like / need  sex and if we are completly against making love then let him go no man or women should be forced to live without it unless it is for a medical reason,in that case then you should find other ways to satisfy each other.
882200
Men are naturally inquisitive about each other, including others physiques.  They are not necessarilly sexually attracted to other guys when they do this --it is a comparison thing.\n\nAre some men bisexual, even to the point where they know their true orientation but don't really act on it, other than taking a quick look at other guys every once and a while?  Yes.  In fact, I suspect most men are bisexual to some extent.\n\nWhe do married women put up with their bisexual husbands?  Quite frankly, most women in this sort of situation don't even realize they are in that situation.  They, their husbands' families and their husbands' closest male friends may not even know, and probably don't know.  It's sort of a common assumption among people that if a man is married, he is straight -- and most people don't really have a concept of what bisexuality is -- they know what a straight person is and what a gay one is -- but they have a very difficult time trying to imagine what a bi guy or gal is like.\n\nYou must train a lot at a gym.  You have sculpted your upper body so it looks good.  That is primarily why men check you out, especially when you take your shirt off.  It may not be a sexual thing at all; it may be guys admiring your physique, an outer expression of your masculinity.\n\nHope this helps you to understand these guys better.
1178691
As a man, there are different times that I am looking for different things from a wife.  Women often complain that they have to wear so many hats (Lover, Friend, Mother, Housekeeper, etc.), and some ladies are better at one of those then the others...I think a man would be looking to marry one woman who enjoys caring for kids, another who is a "career driven" type, one who he can enjoy quiet walks and "grow old" with, etc.  And when one isn't "in the mood" he can usually find someone who is\n\nBTW - Most polygamist wives prefer NOT to sleep with their husbands, and I know two polygamist familes (well..officially married to one woman, but has several "live in" ladies) and the wives draw straws - the loser with the short straw *has to* sleep with him if he's in the mood.\n\nPersonally, I don't feel "called to that lifestyle" but I can't deny that I am interested in other women.  It human nature - otherwise Affairs would be pretty rare
696992
I don't have to read anything to tell you that married men almost never leave their wives. it's a comfort zone and no matter what they say, they will stay with the wife. they got married for a reason, remember?
443642
some of them do think like that...i guess married men got more experience on how to handle women emotion.they are more caring too...