Is it allright if we fantasize our own sibling while mas-turbating?
337861
Theres nothing WRONG with it as such but it would hint at a deeper emotional complexity.It originates from something.\n\nI was once reading adult stories on adultfan.net.amoung the features are stories about the 7th heaven kids(Simon&Lucy).I began to explore further and found many more incest stories about many fictional characters.Soon I found myself using the search engine esepecially for "incest".From there I began fanticizing about my own siblings.\n\nTell your friend not to worry.Try fanticising about other things.Even look up your favourite books/movies on adultfan.net.It may help to explore other physical relationships.Shes not hurting anyone so thats a positive.
716979
You have to do what you are feeling inside.  Otherwise you are going to have these feelings all of your life and regret it every day when you don't know for sure.  As far as incest, I think you must be referring to sexual thoughts about your father.  This seems to be common and I also used to dream about it.  My guess is because that is the first man you are close to and know everything about; I think it is something you grow out of.
890342
Are you crazy, I'm married and I think I'm having a fantasy about you right now! It's only natural to think about other things, or other people. That's the great thing about imagination.
797953
Perhaps I am missing something but it seems that the most important issue you should be concerned with is the advances of your brother. I do not think that him being gay is the issue, i think the fact that he is displaying incestuous behavior may be the big problem. If this is actually happening, you need to tell someone, if not your parents then someone in the legal field.
631541
You should give me a call. No, seriously...it's totally normal to have this type of attraction. Talk to your husband about it. He may actually be excited by it and you could integrate him into your fantasies. If he is not okay with it, I don't think you should act on your feelings unless you get a divorce.
934961
Not at all! Human beings pass through stages that are obviously not in our true sexual nature...It is only that:  fantasies and please do not act them out...that's when regrets and emotional problems start setting in...After all, if we acted out every fantasy that occurr during our lifetime, we would probably be in jail, right? We are curious by nature and it's natural to wonder what this fantasy would be like. However, keep yourself wondering. Do not pretend that you can resolve your fantasies through real- life situations. It will end up only hurting you. Good Luck.
1040328
Yes, please do!!!! Didnt you know that some things are better left as fantasy? You're nasty! Have some self respect!
1048415
umm, ok, first of all, marrying your sister is kind of wrong, secondly why are you so in love with your sister, and thirdly you might want to think back to when you were a young child and remember any innapropriate touching that went on between you and your sister. then I would remove contact from your sister and recieve extensive counceling in another state so you can get over these innappropriate feelings you have. seriously, its not right to feel that way about your sister and you should not be asking HOW to tell your sister you should be asking WHY you feel that way. No offense but were you molested?
389681
depends what you're doing while fantasizing
799494
I wouldn't do anything. He's not sleeping with his cousin, he's fantasizing about it. Everybody has fantasies, not everyone lives out those fantasies. He'll get over it eventually. If he has a good relationship with your sister, then leave it alone. What really matters is that he's treating her right. Who knows, she may be benefiting more than you think because of his imagination. I would just tell him in the future, to not share those kinds of thoughts with you, because it puts you in a weird place that you don't want to be in.
47892
No...enjoy it with your spouse...or at least be upfront. dont hide it like you are ashamed.  that is when it would feel like adultry
674424
Technically no. Unfortunately, we don't get to choose who we fall in love with. Although logically you know that it is wrong to desire you brother's wife, your heart doesn't understand that and it isn't going too. It's like the saying goes, "the heart wants what the heart wants." You can't force yourself to not love your brother's wife. Therefore, it isn't wrong that you love her. However, you can force yourself not to act on this love. Although you may want her that doesn't mean you have to pursue her. If you know your brother loves her also, and he is currently with her then let it go. You would be extremely wrong to steal your brother's wife from him. Not to mention that karma would make things very bad for you. Try to be happy for them, and pursue a relationship of your own. Eventually, you will find someone else you love, and who loves you. Then you will forget all about her.
971957
Not that I've ever heard of. That is very uncommon and very wrong. This woman needs some intense therapy and so does her brother. The problems do most likely stem from the abuse they observed and/or suffered as children. Think about it--when you see something going on as a kid, you don't know it's wrong; it just is what it is. You think that's the way it should be. Sounds like this woman and her brother are maybe stuck in that thought pattern, although one would think that by now they would see it thru adult eyes and realize it's not normal. But for whatever reason, they don't see it that way. They need some serious counseling to dig thru the mountain of misconceptions, guilt, and sexual and emotional dysfunctions. I hope they can get this soon.
531313
It is normal for siblings to hit that sort of a phase but it is never a good idea to act on those feelings, it will end up causing long term psychological issues.  Keep it to yourself, hopefully it will fade quickly, if not, seek therapy so you can talk to someone about it.
466713
no not at all, i have a good friend that i give hugs to, weve been best friends sence like preschool, shes seen every side of me and ive seen every side of her. Weve been threw hell and back together and i love her just as much as anyone else in my family, shes like a sister to me and ive never thought of having sex with her,,, that would be like screwing my own mom yyyyyyuuuuuckkkkkk!!!! lol
76918
A guy told you this... fantasies are usually unavoidable even violent ones, but I'd be very concerned if someone told me this, because the most rational people would be to ashamed to admit such an awful thought had entered their mind. Someone openly talking about it is either seeking help or about to do it...In My own opinion. I'd be speaking up right now you might just be saving his or someone else's life. nd would really want to live the rest of your life wishing you had.
183235
As you can tell there are people who not only fantasize about the same things you do they often practice these sexual behaviors. It's not my personal choice but i have seen and read a lot on the issue. If you do choose to try these things make sure you have an understanding with the person you are ingaging in this with. Have a code word  that lets the person know when to stop if your hurting to much or just choose to stop in general. There are people who have died from being choked during this because they did not take these percautions. Just be careful. This doesn't make you sadistic or sick. It's just your personal desires, everyone has thier own yours is just more extreme then most.