Are we friends or did she develop feelings?
341128
Have this conversation with her. Ask, be honest and open and see where it all leads.
369250
"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.
295823
it might and it might not it could just mean she things your a good guy and she would like to fine a good guy but then again she could be hinting it feel it she how she reacts to a little casual closeness flirt if  you can tell she isnt feelin it then back off and stay friends remember not to over do it so then you can still keep your friendship
84737
if you asked her how she felt before and she hasnt made an effort to tell you differently, her feelings might be the same. She might also be shy and hoping you will ask again..its hard to say. Has she been acting differently around you lately? Do you ever hang out with her alone, and if so what kind of convos do you have? If they are personal and important than thats a good thing.\nPrepare yourself, she may not have feelings for you. If you decide to ask her again she might get creeped out, so just watch her behavior and see how she acts.
713507
it happened to me. I never talked to my former friend who told me his feelings. This happens most of the times. I think the problem is the girl starts to feel uncomfortable with you. Of course she knows that you treat her more than a friend. I think you should try to treat her like the way you treat your friends, if you want your friendship. If you want her love, then court her. Never let your fears block your way. Besides, also give her time ti think and a little more space.. Good luck!
570169
Well since you two already had lunches and a few emails, sounds like she's interested in being more than friends with you too. I don't think it would've mattered if you waited, you two both know you're not going to be with your previous mates, so it was a now or later type of situation and you went for now which isn't a problem. If she's not intrested, or just not ready yet, you should just respect her decision and don't blow off what you two have. When she sees your giving her space and a lot of respect for her position, shell grow to like you even more.
590535
Depends on her feelings for you. Find out if the feeling is Mutual first then make a decision.
775818
Yes you should hold the friendship you had with her really dear.One of dis days you'll be glad you did but dat doesnt mean you can't make other friends.I guess it was a wonderful feeling but am sure if she has any means to communicate with you,she definitely will.Cheer up.
116270
The good thing is that she likes you and that's why she didn't felt offended by your approach. My opinion is that she might be taking time out to think about it a little further or for her friendship is more important than love.\nFRIENDSHIP BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN IS A BRIDGE TO LOVE...\nSo just chill and don't rush things, who knows what destiny has in store for you.
1124401
Just tell her how you feel. It might sound simple but all you have yo do is just be your self and let her know whats on your mind. Tell her that you understand that you are friends now but you would like to take it to the next lvl. Ask her what her feelings are and where her mind is at. You might find that she has some feelings for you too or you might just find that she just wants to be friends. Whtever she says its always best to know something then to not know anything at all.\n\nThis might lead to something in the future if not nothing now. Just tell her what you think and see where it takes you. You never know what could happen......
136773
I think the best thing for you to do is just be honest with her.  Let her know how you feel in a nice quiet moment, you'll know the time.  Share your feelings.  At the very worst, the two of you will stay friends.  At least you won't have to worry about not knowing.
525245
Hi there.\n\nAsking questions isn't any sin. It shows plainly that you really would like to get to know her better. Since I'm already aware of your situation with this particular girl, I think, by now, you should have sincerely told her about your feelings towards her.\n\nYou don't have to worry about what she might think about you. I can guess that if she really likes you, she will most definitely enlighten you with the fact that she HAS feelings for you too. If, by chance, our speculation about her having feelings for you were a myth, then the worst thing that she would do is reject you politely.\n\nHere's the thing; don't go up to her and straight away ask, "Do you have feelings for me?" or any of that sort of query. This might tick her off as you would sound really pathetic. I felt the same way when a guy misjudged my friendly gestures as interest towards him when he demanded to know point blank whether or not I have the hots for him. I mannerly told him that I regarded him only as a friend and explained the fact that my gestures had only friendly intentions. He and I are friends till now.\n\nIn a way, I think you could dig up your courage deep within to tell her how you feel. And like I said before, she will tell you if she feels the same way or vice versa. Whatever the response she might give you, make sure everlasting friendship remains in your bond with her.\n\nBefore I leave you to ponder about the things I have shared, I'd like you to remember that friendship often ends with love, but love ending in friendship, with certainty, rarely happens.\n\nI hope this helps.
1002649
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
4014
Unfortunately, what this means is not that the girl is interested (right now) but that she is being a little bit selfish.  If you are young, this is natural.  She enjoys having someone to hang out with and go on vacations with but that doesn't necessarily reflect on her feelings for you.  If she was interested than she would not be WILLING to hold your hand, but rather would be looking forward to any type of contact with you.  Her memories are more of what she has done or where she has gone, rather than of you.  However, in the future she could develop feelings for you.  If you want to know how she feels about you, try spending time with her with limited entertainment.  Just invite her over to listen to music and talk.  If she is interested in you, this will appeal to her and if not, she will decline until you present a more tempting offer like going on an awesome vacation.  Good luck.
507451
did she go?...i like her but i think she didn't
993431
Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her! She may only think you want to be friends, so I would tell her soon. Ask her how she may feel about the idea of the two of you dating.  She may be happy that you have spoken up!  When you start dating a good friend sometimes it changes the friendship. You can only hope that the feelings for one another become more intense and more loving. If you happen to drift apart, then the original friendship may be forever changed.  I thought I would toss that in for your to consider. I mean if things do not work out well for you, you can only hope that you can still be friendly, and not resent any new fellows that may come along in her future if the two of you fail at your attempt at a relationship...do you see what I mean?\n\nGood luck, I hope she feels the same for you too, you sound so nice!
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!