why is it that demurity always represents women?
339020
I'm not familiar with "demurity".  If you refer to demur, it is a female trait that most men find irresistible.  Ever hear the song, "The girl that I marry will have to be, as soft as a kitten in nursery...will wear satins and laces...".  Soft, sweet, shy.  One man's opinion.
969764
it is demeaning for a woman.  Men lose respect for women that do that.
1078786
I like women that are smart, confident and secure with their sexuality. Its one thing to stand up for equal treatment and equal rights its completely another to go "Butch" over it. There is nothing more unattractive than a women with a big mouth blaming her failures on men. Its unfortunate that the women's movement is dominated by man haters and abortion fanatics describing themselves as feminist revolutionaries struggling for basic human rights for women.
1182637
because bad boys are excititing but more than that is has everytthing to do with how the women grew up and their famly dynamics, stable etc can be boring to a woman who has only know chaos growing up and they crave that stimulation as it is familiar.It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their innerworld.There are healthy women out there, just look for red flags and trust your intution.
523075
Because women have the tendency to intimidate guys and many of us are scared of rejection. Let the guy your writing to know that you want him to.
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
903242
I think some of it is insecurity. Insecure men have problems with independent women and it makes them feel bigger to think that we cannot take care of ourselves. But some of it is also biological and societal values. They are hard-wired to take care of us, to be the provider and protector.
584804
The world is has alot of haters and men will always love a skinny women before a thick one which sux for them,cause but doing that you can never find the good and beatiful qualities ever women has.
1002871
Don't feel bad, I have the same problem. I think it's because we as woman feel that being a friend is one of the most important steps that lead to a successful relationship. The thing is, men feel that once they establish a good meaningful relationship with a woman, it's something that they do not want to jeopardize losing, especially if they value friendship. So, to avoid getting shot down or possibly losing a good friend, they play it safe, i.e. keep you as a good friend especially when they need someone to talk to about their problems.
471607
Because their women are always covered up and only get to look at men
219382
Well you shouldnt generalize all men in one box,There are some men who have issues,with depression,low self esteem,stress,and etc.Some have bad attitudes for a variety of reasons,its no different then when women are miserable and have bad attiudes.
1123443
because women are made to be admired! DUH!
928452
Because of the media, every woman questions their weight, looks, etc.  Because men disrespect women by lusting after the perfect woman (i.e. strip joints, playboy, etc) and these leads women to have a low self-esteem because they will never be as perfect as the way magazines,  television commercials, etc.  portray women.  Women are to blame as well, woman should not shop at stores (Victoria Secrets for example) because of their tantalizing commercials that dictate what a man finds attractive and sexy.\n\nEvery seeks approval and acceptance.  Weight and dieting are ways a woman can  "control" their body image.  Anorexia at its finest!
696157
Women have the impression that guys are jerks and thats why they cannot trust any guy. Maybe it's because they have had bad experiences with guys. Not all guys are bad but you even know that guys think with the wrong head
711826
Supression of women happenes in any culture where the stuff that men do is prized more than the stuff that women do.  And since the cultures that tended to dominate were warlike, and men are better at killing other people than women, it's pretty obvious that the devaluing of women was inevitable.  And after that, it's easy to say that not only are women worthless, but they don't have a right to disobay men.
1173056
It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.
796079
Men have been the top banana for so long that their power feels threatened.  The stereotypes of ugly or lesbian woman is just another attempt by men to keep their control and power over woman.  Here you are an intelligent, thoughtful woman and yet you say "bit of a feminist"  you are nervous to be labeled a feminist because of the connotations it brings to other peoples minds... Looks like men did a good job there, huh??  Here's a hint, when the best defense against something you've thought out and researched and believe is, "you're ugly"  "you're stupid" .... you are on to something valid.