If your boyfriend does not get you something for valentines day, does that mean he does not love you?
340040
not really. giving and sharing can b done on any day you want. doesn't have to b only on Valentine's day and who knows your bf might b thinking of some surprises or greater things for you tomorrow or the next day or the day after and so on.......
627330
i'm gld he is your ex, if youthink he was using you then you dont need him. you know a guy is using you when you have to pay all the time,when he only wants to go out with you when he wants to . he doesnt buy you things, he never recongnizes your anniversary.if he doesnt want to do anything or go anywhere but make out. that isnt a boyfriend that is loser with no job or money. you dont need him.
836787
Does he really want you? Will he continue to shower you with affection after he has got you?\n\nIs the guy you are with asking for the things you are spending your money on or are you just buying them assumng that he wants them?\n\nThe fighting is another issue. Does he prefer saving money for the future? New car or house? If so, you cannot fault him for that.\n\nThe important thing to remember is that being spoiled rotten with gifts is not love and in the end will not make you completely happy. It seems like you need to do a little soul searching.
957217
Some guys do and they are complete jerks. Mature women understand when a man cannot afford a lavish gift for the holidays. I graduate on 12/10, Christmas is 12/25, my birthday is 1/26 and Valentine's Day is 2/14.  Thats a lot of freaking gifts in a short period! I have already explained to my boyfriend that I do not expect gifts for all those days and that him just being there is enough.
167585
sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
677559
no...\nit doesn't mean anything...\nmaybe he isn't mature enough for you...
78623
Did you get him something on christmas? If so what did he do? Start giving him hints of things that you really want.I once told my man that all I wanted was a rose and he got me the dozen and a few presents more. So just give him hints if he doesn't give you anything for valentine don't give him nothing for other occasions to see how he feels. Good Luck!!!
674995
I would but my man is like he's not the romantic type. It doesn't interest him but I feel like if he really loved me it wouldn't be a problem for him. It's not like I'm asking to be spoiled or anything I just need more affection. I feel like asking him to be romantic is just asking for more affection shown in a more effortful way. But he thinks it's a weakness or something always trying to be hard.
1184133
To answer your question, if someone TRULY loved you, they would not try to do anything to hurt you. Physical threatening is a strong sign that they DON'T love you.
498249
It's still early on in the relationship. If you don't feel it's the appropriate amount to spend, I'd talk to him and let him know how you feel.  And maybe come to terms with a spending amount for both of you. I know you may want to get it for him to make him happy, but then you may resent it and this feeling will not be good towards the start of your relationship.  You have to do it from the heart.
254445
The old case of "having his cake and eating it, too." When it's "convenient" for him to have you around, when he needs something from you, he pulls you back. When he's not feeling as into you, he pushes you away. He needs to make up his mind. And you need to NOT be his yo-yo. Respect yourself! You are worth it, I am sure.
1104055
he probably already knows that you appreciate him, or he wouldn't have gotten all that nice stuff for you, just thank him, and show off what he gave you, (my boyfriend got me this, or my boyfriend did this for me) i think that just you enjoying what he did for you is enough
585962
If he doesn't love you then move on because you sure can't make him love you. Wasting time trying too//////////
114975
Hey may get you something little or big it depends on the typ of guy he is. But dont put your hopes high. Just be happy with he loves you and that you are together.
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
172984
Everyday is a good day to show Love, so a simple gesture like a heart shaped candy/chocolate, and a note/card...maybe dinner...in or out it depends on what would be more appreciated by your partner.  Happy Valentines Day Everyone!
1068196
Love is about respect.  If he truly loves you, regardless his feelings on the matter, he will RESPECT yours!  The truth is, an individual who has the audacity to say "if you don't have sex with me, you don't love me" is suspect; I'd have to say that in saying so, they are showing that, in all likelihood, they don't love you!  Tell him: If YOU LOVED ME, you would respect my desire to wait until marriage-and if you don't have that level of respect for me, WE DON'T BELONG TOGETHER!.