How can i help my friend??
355103
Both of you together should go get your hair done. Get like a totally new style or color, have fun!
791859
You don't help them at all. You support them and be there when they need a friend but if you try to do more than that it could be counter productive to their recovery process. It's not suppose to be easy.
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The only thing that you can do for your friend right now is to pray.  She needs all the prayers that she can get no matter what type of cancer she has.  By going "crazy", you would not be helping her nor would you be a very good friend to her.  Most cancer patients don't like to be treated differently so treat her the same way you always have.  No, she may not be able to do the things she once could so you change the way some things are done.  People survive cancer all the time; the doctors telling her she has cancer is not an automatic death certificate.  PRAY FOR HER TO BE HEALED, PRAY THAT GOD WILL HELP YOU TO BE A BETTER FRIEND AND GUIDE TO HER DURING THIS TIME, PRAY THAT THE TWO OF YOU WILL OVERCOME THIS TOGETHER!!!  Gather several friends to pray with you because God really answers prayer when more than one gather in his name.
984728
Just be there for them, hon, just be there for them. That is all you can do as a friend. Listen to them, if that is all you do, if that is all they need than do it.
498438
Let her know that you are there to listen if she needs it.  Don't pressure her to talk or she may pull away more.  Just be there for her and when she is comfortable, she'll open up.  Maybe if you start talking about your problems or problems of a "friend" she'll feel a little more at ease about discussing her own.
37981
befriend her..hang out with her..be there when she needs a friend..if you don't want to say your feelings out loud,just show it..
205905
get a friend to tell\n him
997241
If you've been friends with her, then just talk to her, and if she's unhappy or having a problem in her couple, she'll talk it out or give you signs to it by herself. Believe only what she tells you. Just tell her you'll be here if she needs you. she might want to solve her own problems, and knowing yuo'll be right here will help her morally if she really has probs in her couple.\nAll the best!
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
620018
Your not a bad friend your a great friend! He will never shape up and be the man he needs to be. besides that hes not even a man yet he is still a kid, and he is headed no where fast. But please don't give up on your friend because she needs you. She may not know it now but she'll see. Just be there when she needs you and no i told you so. Because believe me she already knows.
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You support your friend - don't play referee between the two of them. Just listen to her and be supportive - one way love is hard... tell her you want the best for her and that you're her friend regardless....and you'll walk with her through this trying time - take her to the mall or movie(pick out a funny comedy) - have a pizza party with friends  - something to help  out when this guy has her emotionally wrecked.
444139
Well you seem to be going through alot! I am sorry! I will be praying for you and your friend! I wish I had all the answers -but I don't! Off course you want to help her- she is your friend- but it sounds like she needs help you can't give her! You need to decide do you want live with her! Can you deal with all the drama? Really search yourself- because she is going to need support and a lot of help! I wish you the best! You sound like a really good friend- when she will let you be her friend! A word -- never cheat! No matter what a person says to you! Just not a good plan! You take care- if you like to talk- http://360.yahoo.com/cloeenloe
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All I can tell you is to continue to do what you are doing...being there for him. When my mother passed away suddenly, without the forewarning your friend has been given, it was someone like you who helped me through it, even though she didn't know how much she held my broken heart together.\n\nYou may never know your healing effect upon your friend, sweetheart, but just be there for him...a rock, a shoulder to cry on (when men aren't supposed to be allowed to show such weakness), the one he can call in the middle of the night when it gets really tough. Even if he never comes out and says it, you will have made all the difference in the world.\n\nAnd isn't that all that each of us wish to do at least once in our lives for someone else?
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Just keep being her friend.  Keep trying to encourage her.  Do the best you can.  You might not be able to change her, but in the future she will look back and realize how kind and helpful you were.  Stay with her.  And good job!  It's wonderful that you are concerned about her!
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Many people who self harm are misunderstood. Obviously your friend needs help and perhaps that is his/her only way of letting people know about it. If you can, convince your friend to take up counselling or let someone who can do something about it know.YOu also hang in there. It must be hard to be close to someone who is hurting.
630999
Just stay by her side,when she is ready she`ll let you know.Right now the best thing you can do for her is just be there when she needes you.You sound like a great friend.
992670
Talk to a friend....it helps a little!