is sleeping with a friend you care about, but dont love, wrong?
341452
No not at all, I went through this same thing a couple of years ago a male frined and I both came outta long, serious relationships about the same time and were feeling quite down and bruised by the whole thing and ended up being together alot of the time talking about it and of course one thing led to another and we eventually slept together and it just became a habit (I know that sounds awful!!) but neither of us could face another relationship at that time and we aren't into one night stands so we'd just hook up have the best laugh and then enjoy great sex before saying goodbye in the morning with no pressure it was ideal, it went on for about two yeras until we both just met people we wanted to be with and then it fizzled out but we're still the best of friends now (purely platonic!!) so it worked out fine.  The only thing I'd watch out for is that you both understand the situation if one person has feelings that the other dosen't have then it will cause problems and you shouldn't do it but if you both know it's just sex cos you have needs then go for it.  Good Luck!!
434830
If your talking about just sleeping, as in, falling asleep, theres no harm there. but if your talking about sex its another issue.\nSex is a wonderful thing.  However, is it worth it?  Sure some risks may be over hyped, but look at emotional things.  Is this the person that you'll be with forever?  How would someone you meet maybe in 4 or 5 years feel about that.  Or how would you feel about it?  Sex is the most intimate part of love and it can be worth wating for.  Besides, why waste it on something that might not even have passion in it or any real love.  But most importantly be responsible and be sensible.  If you know that your relationship won't last, then what's the point?  Having sex, just for the sake of having sex is not a good reason.
974676
Its not really wrong, but it could be considered stalking if it consumes you.  I know that girls always do this type of thing when they like a boy.... so I see no harm in doing it for a friend,\nbut make sure that you dont become obsessed about it.
857946
With dreams, it's really important to not focus on the actual events, but the emotions that you feel (if you can remember them). It's our subconscious at work and it can be influenced by recent events and conversations, which sounds like is what happened. If you do have feelings for this friend that you haven't acted on, maybe you need to look at your current relationship and see what's missing and if it's worth a change.
159551
Friends and close friends are two different things. Ther's nothing wrong with beings friends with your girlfriends goyfriend, but you two have no reason for being really close. Men are not close friends with Women for no reason. We have ulterior motives for that. You'll find yourself on Jerry Springer on the "I Slept With My Girlfriends Man" episode. Be his friend, but keep it casual. Really close friends is asking for trouble....
310232
No it is not wrong to feel that way.  Sometimes it is better to do the whole friends with benefits type of thing.  One of my ex's and I did the friends with benefits bit and when we moved on to other relationships we were able to keep the friendship.  It is nice having a guy to talk to about anything, that you know will understand b/c he is your best friend.  I think it is more important to have a best friend than a boyfriend.  It sounds like this guy is your best friend and sometimes when you move from friends to lovers you lose the friend.  So doing the friend thing would be safer but if your feelings are really strong then go for it and if it does not work out hopefully you can still be friends.
951329
It's good.\n\nPeople have to stop caring about who sleeps with who. It does not matter.
1147318
get a new friend, she didnt value you as her friend and disrespected your friendship by sleeping with your ex, a true friend would have respected your feelings and not have done it....
306358
what?? if you love his friend, than you shouldnt be wanting to be more than friends with this other guy... ur question is a little strange
583280
liking someones company and wanting to be intimate are two totally different things. He's respecting you and the decision that you have made as far as your sexual orientation, why not do the same for him. That's the quickest way to ruin a friendship.So just suck it up and drive on. If it becomes too much of an issue for you you might have to rethink your friendship w/him.
537026
Although it is rather common having sex among friends in this era, do not ever assume that because this guy has a sexual relationship with you that he will end up having intimate feelings for you. It is interesting how you think that he is "a good friend," when in reality, this guy might not have concern about you as a person, other than just a friend, or how his behavior is going to affect you later.\n\nYou have to be able to involve yourself in a real relationship with someone who is actually to have true feelings for you, to see you as someone to spend the rest of his life with. This is not a good situation for you and it certainly will not turn out the way you would want if you had sex with your so-called good friend.\n\nThe only way to see in this situation is your friend gets in for the sake of having sex with you, and chances are never become emotionally involved. You can have fun for a while, but the novelty of having a "sexual buddy" starts to wear thin. You may begin to get upset after you and he get physical, because he may not be able to give you the emotional part of sex that you deserve. \n\nI would suggest to hold on to your urge of having sex with your friend, rather than heading for an unknown disaster in the future. You should cherish your friendship and not salvage it for sex.
1176427
You can have everything in "a" with a friend, but that doesn't make it love.\n\n"Love is giving someone the ability to destroy you, but trusting them not to"
189242
I wouldn't say it is wrong. You cannot control what you dream about. Those are not uncommon dreams. Every dream has it's meaning. It does not necessarily mean you are in love with whomever it is you are dreaming about. Our dreams are just our subconcious "playing" as we sleep. Every dream has a meaning. It could be something that we heard about that day, dreams can indicate something that is stressing us, or health problems, or fears, or desires...There are some awesome websites about dreams. Do a google search under dreams and their meanings. \n\nDon't worry about it;) it's not wrong, it is quite normal
299869
I don't think sleeping with him is going to, necessarily, change his mind. \nYou can tell him that you have feelings for him and you can ask him if he shares those feelings. I think you should find out how he feels about you before sleeping with him because for many guys sleeping with a woman doesn't always mean they are committing themselves. If you sleep with him and afterwards he tells you that he just wants to be friends, even tho' he doesn't mind sleeping with you from time to time, you might feel\nhurt and might even destroy your friendship. You have to be sure that you know what you want and find the right person who wants the same thing with you. You can't make someone commit if they don't want to for whatever reason. On the other hand, he might not know \nwhat you really want. In any case be ready to hear that he likes you, mor as a friend, or that he is not into a relationship. Don't sleep with him with the idea that he'll fall in love with you. In my experience that needs to come before sleeping together. Good luck.
226532
No, there is nothing wrong with you.  You are confused about your feelings for her.  She is your best friend and it natural to feel drawn to her, but that doesn't mean you are attracted to her sexually.  You enjoy her company, as you should.  Don't act on your feelings for her until you are sure about yourself and how you feel.  In the meantime enjoy life and keep her as a friend.  She may not have the same kind of feelings you are having.
676810
Being just friend's is just fine, so long as you don't have sex. If you mix a sexual relationship with a friendship then you only end up with hurt feelings and nursing wounds of abandonment by cuddling up to familar surroundings - each other. Friends are good and friendships are fine.... so long as you just remain friends.\n\nPS - General rule - never flirt in front of an Ex... it's bad taste and shows disrespect.
1145895
I have been in this situation also. I was having deep feelings for a man that I was in a friends with benefits relationship. The best thing to do is sit down and talk with the "friend", honestly and open, and Not in the bedroom. You might get hurt, if they don't feel the same; But not as hurt as you'll be if you continue to really care for that person when they just think it's sex with a friend. \n\nI wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out in your favor. Good luck.