My bf is concerened about my male friends on 360?
346977
Ask yourself why is he insecure? Are you spending more time on 360 than with him? If he were spending his down time on360 instead of talking to you would you feel the same way? Is he spending a lot of time out of the home? He could be cheating and feeling guilty so he is trying to make you feel guilty. Think about those things and you may come up with the answer to your question.
1039438
9 times out of 10 they will be right.  For your sake I hope they are not.  If they arent there for you then they really arent friends.  You dont need them.  Unless you are dogging on them because of him.  They deserve your love and attention too.  They are just looking out for you.  They can typically see things you cant when you are in the relationship.
806463
You leave him. Anyone that wants you to give up your friends of the same sex as them is not a good person to have a relationship with. Also...if all he wants you to do is stay at home and do nothing is he trying to be controlling over you. Its all just asking for trouble right from the get go. I'm sure you'll hear alot more people agreeing with me here. Take care.
597721
hahahaaaa!  from the perspective of the video gaming boyfriend, rip ur clothes off and jump between him and the screen. or, have him choose betwixt the gaming and you, or go out places once in a while where their aint games, or, buy some games that BOTH of you can play and annoy him by being on his computer all the time so he wants to game less wen ur around : P
186664
Mine talks about PC games, anything having to do with computers, movies, music, and food up coming game system games and that's about it.  \n\nHe and his best friend have a male bonding thing about once every one or two months where his friend comes to spend the weekend with us at our house and they just do, man things...I try to stay out of the way..lol...but its funny to listen to them talk.  I think men are much more laid back then women are.  They don’t seem to worry or complain as much when they talk to each other.
348947
you did good to ask this ..getting other people's advice will help you, in my opinion l think your b/f think you can agree with him on this lssue b'se he is your b/f and b'se this is his life style, when some people have this kind of thing going on in their lives  they think its just okay for every one else and just fine for any other person to do. and they try to make others feel like .."you know what everyone else does it but you..  feel free and lets enjoy our lives" like they expect others to agree with them no matter what , they want to make you think that this is absolutely normal and that there's nothing to worry about, but this is not true ,and not normal for every one.   what they don't know is that people actually need to follow their hearts in making decision's like this .its not bad to try new things but only when you are willing, and  without anyone pushing into it. talk to him and let him know that you are not comfortable with his ldea especially when it come to people near you. and tell him how sick it makes you just to think about it. if he loves you he will understand you and stop.good luck.
457675
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
1069696
I think they can work for people wjho have been togetehr long ewnogh to develop a very deep love.  Not that new I lvoe you im still giddy over you kind.  Distance doesn't always make the heart grow fonder.\n\nif this really bothers you friends or not, and she doesn't respect it, than its time to move on.  i had TONS of male friends before getting serious with my now fiance, and I stopped hanging with them at his request cause I valued our realtionship more than those friendships.  \n\nI always tell girls you should only give up male friends for a man you're going to marry...temporary BF's won't last as long as your friendships have.\n\nim not saying these guys aren't truly friends, but if you ask my man, and you knwo as a man, men are only frineds with women that aren't attratcive, or they know they can't have sexually.  (Doesn't mean they don't want to be, they just know they don't have an opportuniy.)  It's rare that ment truly value a friendship more than the possibility of a physical relationship
1169809
Our avatars look the same, that's cool.\n\nAnyway, think about the future.  Do you see him trusting you anytime soon?  What he's giving you... Is it enough for you?  Are you happy?  If you can answer yes to all 3 of these questions, then fight for him, otherwise move on with your life!  Someone else will come along who will make you answer all of these questions with a big, loud "YES!"
967421
I dont know who it is. Did you try e-mailing him or checking if he has a 360? Those are good ways to find out.
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.
643516
that first answer about usin you was a bunch of BS\nif it is true, dump him... but I hope for the better that it is not. I'm a guy with a lot of gfs too (cept I kinda wanna be single over summer, so I'm  not makin any moves) and I'm sure they are all jealouse when I hang out with one or the other. Its natural, just like I'm jealous when the one I've liked forever hangs out with other guys. If you talk to you bf a lot, then it should be no problem talking to him about this. If you don't talk to him, then you should either start talking to him or rething about whether or not this is the guy you want to be with. There are plenty of guys out there, and one will eventually be the right one for you. just hang in there, and if you lose this one, it'll be alright\n-- God Bless
724998
You say in your profile that you are sexy....and intelligent.\nSo show some intelligence. He is not your soul mate - you are his sold -mate... bought and sold good and proper. \n\nWhat is this 'love'? A reaction to the way he is mis-treating you? Does it align with how you were treated in the past? \n\nIf this were true 'soul-love' there would be no question. He is clearly lacking in integrity... the girlfriend with kids are not being properly looked after, and neither are you. If he leaves them for you - how could you trust him. \n\nThere are plenty of other men around who would be so much better for you. Don't get so lost on the physical attraction, coz that's all this seems to be. Not love... love is reciprocated. This doesn't appear to be. \n\nOkay, so we're only getting a short bit of one side of this, but read all of the comments here, girl... we've all seen enough - on both sides of the gender divide - to know when you are being done over.\nAnd you are. \nLike a kipper.
1140217
No! What next blinders! So, you can't see anyone. He's going to get controling. Insecure. Tell him to Get over it. That is if you value your own friends and family.
151217
Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
183919
if you ask me its better that they do that.. that way you have your own time, being together to much can cause them to push themselves away, getting the feeling they are controled or smuthered.. him wanting to hang out with his friends sometimes just makes him have his time to think and be a guy, cause seriously what guy like sitting around watching chick flixs and going shopping and all the stuff that we do 24/7?? besides gay men, i cant really think of any. it doesnt mean that he dont like/love you any less just means he needs is space sometimes, so take advantage of it and get some girl time in with your friends!
1149704
That sounds like a pretty good answer to me. My suggestion to you is not to let him think that you don't know what head games he is playing with you, that will just make his head even bigger than what it already is. You are smart and let it be known!!