Can we ditch our friends??
353622
He should walk them thru it. Let them learn to do things so then maybe they would just ask his ADVICE or opinion on something. Or just to lend a hand and not do the whole job himself.
189277
Ditch BOTH of them as fast as you can : or, they will simply be using u as a convenient front for their  own 'relationship' !
640130
you can't really do too much except respect the fact that they won't talk to you, if they are your friend then they will talk to you.  just leave them alone and carry on with  your business, they will come around soon and if they dont' then you don't need them
727997
They are leaving for a reason so that wouldn't work now would it. Try being supportive instead and telling them that you will keep in touch and the friendship won't change just because they have to move away.  True friendships last a lifetime.
243897
yes I wished I could do that but unfortuntly you cann't do that.  We have to learn how to let those feelings go and move on with our lives!!!!  I had a friend that tore my heart out of my chest at that's not the 1st time lol...  But this friend just really did a # on me.  I mean just about a year ago we stopped talking and I didn't understand why?  Then the truth finally came out she just used me for things like drugs,MY car,a place to stay at were she could stay away from home and I also think that she used me as a bodygard so if someone was going to beat her up then you would have to go meet me(im not a small girl like she was) but anyways you get my point of the matter.  So I have got away from drugs my car don't have her a$$ in it lol lol lol....I have seen that things come back to them and they well have someone else to do it to them too so don't worry they will get whats coming to them sooner or later...also don't let them brack you as a person be strong for yourself...I hope this info helps you out some...also I have heard that you will only have 2 or 3 REAL friends in your life thats not alot so be very choosey with friends.
107803
no not at all. If you consider this person a true/close friend you shouldn't just end a friendship like that. Have you talked to your friend about why he didn't come? if he has done a lot, don't throw your friendship away its not worth it.
80862
I'd just stay out of it, and when the other one tells you the plans - let them know this is cruel.\nThat is what friends do.
484215
Not at all. It's called freedom of will, and you.. sorry, I mean your friend... are free to do what they want.
1154093
If the line was really crossed and your friend never  owns up to her part in things, do you really need her around?  \n\nFind some real friends who will be there for the good and the bad times.
158744
Ive been in that situation. In a perfect world, it would be great if you could all hang out together at the same time and be cool.  But since this is the REAL world and they actually HATE each others guts... for your sanity and out of respect for your friends, keep them apart ALWAYS.  Good Luck!
18030
We 're not bestfriends anymore when feel bored with seeing one another, or one of us become colder with us. I know that hurts. But let your friend go if he finds the new one better. And you, I must say that trying to be friends with the new kid is a good way, but what if that kid reject you? In my own opinion, I think you should learn the way of being independent from a person, dont be like "I am lonely without him", because you should be able to have more than 1 friends :) Well, it takes time to get thru, but the one who leaves you to go is not a BEST friend, just a normal friend, so just keep a normal relationship (dont break it though).
256934
well if the reasons were justifiable then what you need is to do is start in a totally different circle then the the one they are in.If you have any interests go and join a group that is in your area.From there you could find a new friend.
207339
make shore you have a friend with you and let them go first\nor just stay at home
432654
Ask 1 of ur pals to distract the friend!
512991
break up with them and go out with someone else
707427
well I'm not going to lie friends r supposed to be there 4 each other not make u feel bad. i wouldn't say leave them but tell them how u feel n if they don't change then move on to the pple who will accept u 4 who u r.
614944
technically, they would most likely be allowed to do this... but, if you dont want him to do this, you might have to take him off your friends, or prefered list....