i'm 15 and i am with a 43 year old guy?
353046
I read your other question..  I wonder have you had anything happen to you when you were younger?  You only think you love him, at 15 even though you think you are..  you are not emotionally equipped yet to deal with this.  He knows this and is preying and counting on your immaturity not to realize this.  You said he was married, with a family..?  That speaks for itself..  He is not a good man to hurt so many people and you will probably not be sadly the last.  The only thing when you grow up and realize that you have is your self respect and dignity.  You are special, do not throw it so easily away..  think about what you want.  Someone out there right now could be the one for you, don't waste your time on this loser..  find someone as a friend first closer to your age who can more easily understand you and truely love you..
163078
Not really, but understand that this will not be a permanent relationship.  An older guy should introduce you better things than a guy your age.  Nice restaurants, plays, concerts.  In exhange you are keeping him young.
521178
If you have a sensible head on your shoulders and know how to handle yourself then why not? It may be illegal for him to have sex with you where you come from though and he'll be the one that could get a criminal record if it is! But generally speaking, four years age difference is nothing! Just be very careful, is all I can suggest. Many older men have desires for young girls that are not altogether healthy.\nJust use some good judgment and keep safe!
431026
16 is the legal age of consent in most states.  However, by your posting of the question here, it sounds like you might have some questions of your own about it.  Is he pressuring you?  Are you worried about moral or religious issues?  If so, then wait.  There's a special feeling you get when your head knows that your heart is in the right place.  Don't settle for anything less than what you know is right within yourself.
238702
Oh, God, yes, I am 41 and totally gone over a 53 year old.  His experience is what I need most.  After the immature last one the older man is so hot!
164085
wow, 28 and 63, what an age difference.  What country are you in, i don't think i can advise you on anything being that you are in an entirely different culture and i don't know anything about it.  If you were in America, I would say that he is too old for you, you seem to be in love with him though, i think the only thing you can do is wait and see.  Does he ever come see you?  If not, that is not dating, it is cyberdating, which is not the same thing, if you don't see each other often, unless he is taking care of you and is extremely rivch, iwould find a new man.
821294
when i was 21 i dated a guy who was 43. it was nice and ironically we did have lots in common as far as interests and goals in life.\nwe had alot to talk about so it's not like it was all physical. he was there when i was sad to rub my back and tell me i'd be alright and vise versa. so like everyone else has been saying. as long as you are of legal age you should be fine. as long as you guys actually like eachother, enjoy eachothers company and have much in common then there is nothing wrong at all. that doesnt mean your a gold digger or a player it just means you've found a refined man instead of a childish boy. ;)
237620
I am telling you this from experience and from my heart. Go with an older man. I am 34 and dating a man who is 20 years my senior. I have never been happier in my life than I am right now. The maturity factor trumps everthing else. They know how to treat a woman like a woman and not a girl. There is respect present in their personalities that isn't there in younger men. And the sex is incredible. Trust me, I wouldn't tell you this if it were not true. If you have your eye on an older man, go for it.
74160
Wait til you get older and if you both STILL feel the same way then go for it! No illegal stuff missy!
1061037
age doesnt matter, but you should wait until you are an adult, you dont want him to get into trouble, remember, statutory rape is still rape even if the minor consents
631486
Okay, so basically, what you're saying is, as of right now, you're 15 and he's 24? While it may seem thrilling and exciting at such a young age to have an older man interested in you, or to have anyone romantically interested in you since at your age you've probably not had many relationships, there are a few things you might want to think about:\n\nThis man, and i stress the word MAN has lived a lot more than you, even though numerically it's "only" 9 years difference, he's reached a lot more milestones than you. Chances are he's graduated high school, had some secondary schooling such as college or university, could have been in the armed forces, and he's probably already had his first love and a few relationships since. Now you, as a 15 year old girl, still have the rest of high school ahead of you, college, etc. It seems a bit disturbing to be that a 24 year old man would pursue something with someone so young.\n\nI know boys your age may seem immature, unromantic, and this guy may seem older, and wiser, and mysterious, but the difference here is still something i think you should think about, seriously.  \n\nWhatever you decide, i hope it works out for the best.
872270
unless your a minor, why not? i had a bf 15 years my senior and even after we broke up, he became such a good friend, maybe because of his wisdom and emotional stability. but really, i don't think it has anything to do with age. a lot of old men can still be so stupid and immature and there are some younger men who are ahead of their years. bottomline, it would be how much you like him and how much he likes you back and how good you are together and how good you make each other feel.
659537
16- Never acts his age, unless it's serious, I think I'm about to break up w/ him....
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
200125
lol, I am a 34 year old woman deeply in love with a 46 year old man!  No kidding.  It is working for us so far!  And I have never been happier. Not sure what kind of advice you need.  Our ages never seem to cause a problem.  Good luck to you both.
1123741
I think that so long as it doesn't bother either of you - go for it. When I was 18 I dated a guy who was 40 - there's nothing wrong with it so long as you have things in common and you don't let the age different impact the relationship.
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.