how can i tell a friend that is can't come to a after prom party that i am going to?
341733
Ok thats easy enough\nBlame the parents.\nThey get used to it and no body can say a thing about it.\nMom or dad lay down the law and thats it. period.
201670
this would be a friend i have a prob with:\n\ni want to hang out with my friend but he goes with the wrong crowd, that i dont want to associated with... thus i cant hang out with him at those times
685879
Wow, this is kind of an odd situation to be in.  Why should you worry about inviting someone to YOUR birthday party, if you know they will just make things awkward, if not uncomfortable for you and everyone else in attendance?  There is such a thing as being cordial to someone, while not letting them play a passive-aggressive role in your life.  You don't have to be so nice that you're putting yourself and your own entertainment second to this person's feelings.  You shouldn't even have to offer an explanation, because it's YOUR birthday!  You wanted to share your special day with friends, and if that person is not really your friend, then why concern yourself with how they'll feel about not being invited?  \n\nBecause I have a sneaking suspicion that this person will be nervy enough to attempt a confrontation about not being invited to your birthday celebration, should there be any question about who all was invited, why don't you just say it was a family celebration, and that you were only allowed to invite your closest friends?  That isn't much to argue over, because you're bringing your family members into it, which would seem to indicate that there were already a number of people in attendance, aside from your chosen few [close] friends.\n\nBest wishes, and Happy Birthday.
548002
Ask him. one last time, if he will go with you. If he says no; tell him that you are going to go with one of your male friends, and do just that! Then ask yourself whether or not he is the one for you (If he can not see how important the Prom is to you and put his own feelings aside to make you happy you may want to consider kicking him to the curb!
36414
tell the person you want some one on time without your friend. ask that person out for a dinner, or movie without your friend coming along
295947
Just tell them you are going somewhere else instead of going 2 the place you wanted to go with them, so they can come later.
347178
leave it alone, good friends are hard to come by. ignore your temptations and move on.if she happens to make a move politely tell her that you that you would not destroy your friendship for a night of passion
440751
I believe you should relax and just enjoy your life. It is not everyday you get to go to prom.
665120
You might want to ask a friend to intervene and let the person you want to go with that she was not a backup but somebody you thought you could have fun with. Good luck.
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
569975
that's nice of you to do that. are you sure your friend won't mind a suprise ? some people don't care for them.\nfor a unique idea, have it someplace your friend will never ever think of. just have all her friends there and she'll be happy. like you could do it in bar and then when you bring her you could be all like, "just wait here for a second i have to pick up something" and leave her in the car and then come back and say "hey can you help me carry this?" and she comes in and everyones there ready to party !
411068
Because there are still 3 weeks to the party, you have decided to cancel at an excellent and polite time. I think you either have the option of sending out a notification via mail or personally calling each of the guests to let them know.
212288
Whatever you do, GET TO SCHOOL BEFORE IT CLOSES!!!  Tell your mom or your neighbor or a close friend.  You could try calling someone in your class who is not exactly your friend...maybe someone who you wouldn't normally talk to.
622096
Tell her she's going down a path as a friend you can't follow.  She needs to stop, you know the reasons why, and when she refuses, and she will.  Find another friends before she drags you into trouble too.
599449
You have to try and get them to trust you.  They will probably say it's not you they don't trust but your friends.  You have to explain to them in a calm manner (shouting won't help!) that you will have control of the situation.  Play the sympathy card, "My birthday is important to me, and since the two of you wont be here it would make me feel loads better if my friends could be."  Just be calm, and honest.  Good luck, and happy birthday.
85980
No, but many do..so please use a condom..watch the alcohol. (never ever leave your drink alone or accept one from a stranger).\n\nhere the big thing is bonfires at the beach that night. so youll probably go with friends somewhere after prom...depends on whats happening locally in your area\n\nbe safe!!
553691
Well, if the project isn't due tomorrow or the next day and friend B's part is something that she can do in a short time then if I were you I would wait maybe a day to see how friend B acts. If B refuses to do her part then you and A could do it and maybe notify the teacher about how B didn't participate. If you don't want to do that then you could try to talk to B and work things out and remind her about her promice.