is there a posibility for a gay person to become normal again?
341580
Yes.  To the people saying that being gay is normal, statistically it isn't, he never said anything about them being bad.
483452
As a Christian, i want to apologise for the answer of some other people calling themselves Christians. Certainly i believe what the bible says about homosexuality, but i am always amazed at how little Jesus actually has to say about it.\n\nHe is far more on about loving God and others than about judgement of people who are gay.\n\nSo buddy, i reckon that what you are working through (your sexuality) is perfectly normal. It is always nice to have other people around who know how you feel. \n\nYou would be surprized how many of the people at your school are gay as well. Starting a gay youth group may be one way to find out who they are.\n\nJust be careful not to get yourself into a place where adults can take advantage of you.\n\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH!!!\n\nif you are not sure. it's better to just say - 'no i don;t want to do this anymore'.  and then if you feel like trying it again later, with a different person - go for it. God is big enough and ungly enough to cope. and he will love you at the end of the day whatever you have done.\n\nSee ya.
585442
Homosexual orientation can be 'changed' yes, but not happily. it would be like choosing to live as a bum when you can live comfortable. its denying who you are.\nsome homosexuals force themselves to change orientation due to religious views (ie they're told they will go to hell if they dont leave their life of sin) and instead focus on the 'grace of god' to give them the strength to deal with the aformentioned living as a bum...\n\nReligion is a choice, but faith is not. you can change your religion if you discover another fits more securly with what you believe as a person, but you cant so easily change your actual beliefs.\n\ni think neither is easy to change.
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First you have to be sure about yourself, once you have accepted the fact that you are gay and there is no way of changing the fact then you have to be strong, because over the years to come you will hear all sorts of jokes and comments that are cruel, but are based on ignorance. You have to understand, that you have had time to become used to the idea of being gay, and probably have for some time, but when you come out to your family, this will be the first time they have had it confirmed and it will take them time to get use to it. First level with them, just sit them down and level with them, don't do what most gay people have done in the past including myself and that is to try and hide it, because you can never get away from it. The next thing to do is to be the man that you are, being gay doesn't mean you have to be a pansy, you can still be the man you know you are and the man they thought you where going to be. Move out as soon as you can and avoid contact with them for a few months, this does two things. 1. it gives them time to discuss, fight, backstab and blame each other, without yuo having to hear it or feel guilty about it, because you didn't choose to be gay, you where born that way, and anyone who says other wise is a bloody idiot.\n2. This gives you time to explore your sexuallity without the fear of being caught with your pants down by your parents.\n16 is young, but at 16 I knew I was a raging queer, but it wasn't until I was thirty that I levelled with my family, during this time I explored straight relationships, gay one night stands, sauna's etc... But in the end I faced my fears and relized if I didn't level with my family, I would never have a chance of being happy with my own life and to me my life is the more important that the embarassment I caused my parents. For ten years I have lived in a gay relationship and now my family accept my partner as a part of the family, they now accept that they are not going to get grandchildren but now they have had the time to relize that I hadn't change, I was still the son they had 42 years ago, good luck kid, but careful there are some crazy mother----- out there, but be happy and have fun
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You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
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hey well if you want to keep it going then you want to keep everything like an ladder and you dont always have things your way let it be his/her way at times ok well if you have anything else you need help with you email me at samson_anthony_zachry@yahoo.com you can talk to me I am gay too.
1151638
sounds like a normal person to me. things get better however it may take some time. and if you want your life to get better then you have to change your outlook and attitude towards life
318797
You can't turn gay or straight. You are who you are. No "group" is going to change who you are attracted to. What is normal? Everyone has different opinions on what "normal" is. A believer in "god" may tell you it is wrong to be homosexual, while a non-believer or maybe even an open-minded believer will tell you it isn't wrong.\n\nYou need to decide for yourself how you really feel. It is possible to fall in love with a person regardless of their gender. It is possible to not have a sexual orientation. I don't feel that I do. I believe I fall in love with whom I fall in love.\n\nIf your country is willing to punish you for who you are, there is always a possibility of leaving.
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Not without extensive help.  They have to only be willing to change for themselves not for anyone else.  It is a very hard ordeal to be around, but it will take a long while for complete recovery.  A long hard road no matter which path is chosen.
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Tim,  I am going to treat your question as if it was just a poorly worded one and not attack you for that.\n\nGay people begin to realize they're gay because they're  "turned on" by people of the same gender and seek their company.  At first it isn't recognized as sexual, but overtime we begin to realize its a physical attraction and become aroused.\n\nIts not something that happens overnight, nor can you just flip a switch and become gay.  Its something that you learn to accept over time.  Some of us realize at an early age (for me it was 14) others well into adulthood.  \n\nChances are that most gay people are afraid to come out for fear of upsetting their family and friends, or fear of rejection by their community.  This takes time too, to overcome.  The good news no one has to be "out" on anyone's schedule but their own.\n\nThere are plenty of sites on the internet that can address these issues of "coming out" if anyone is interested to do a search on a search engine like Ask.com or Google
483038
Wait...he's not getting a sex change so that he can be gay, is he?  If so...don't worry about it.  I imagine sex change operations to be quite expensive, and I highly doubt someone would go through with the experience just to be with a girl that isn't attracted to males.
457064
Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
272501
You can't "turn gay".  You can choose to accept it or deny it.
113834
being gay is not something that someone chooses for themselves they are or they are not.  You can change a behavior, such as not having relationships with a same sex partner, but no matter what if you are gay, you are gay
19643
That you support him and that if people are judging him they are not loving him. So long as he has such a caring friend he can confide in and trust then it sounds like he's going to be just fine. If he is religious and a Christian I recommend the book "What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality". He could also visit a gay church or gay-friendly church. If he is of another religion, there are lots of websites of gays and their religion. Hindus have GALVA108 and there are many, many more. www.temenos.net I believe has links to online groups and websites and the Human Rights Campaign Website has some as well.
1137491
once u stick it up.. dont bother abt aids and stuff... man u are gay and i hope there are no levels in gayness.... dam
144303
Figure out what made you question your sexuality first-- Then consult your wife about it. But... your sexuality shouldn't matter if you're already married to who you love. Some people never "come out of the closet" so the fact that you're wondering may be a beautiful thing. There's nothing wrong with being gay-- society just makes it seem like it's the devil's work or something else just as ludicrous. It's something you can't stop-- It's also pretty misunderstood. Hey, put it this way- there are lots of famous people who aren't straight too! =]