Are there anymore nice guys out there?
339123
ok, for a short time, I'll be your friend\nbut you have to be nice to me....!
343008
Yes, of course there are good men left in the world! If you are having problems finding good men, then you might want to reconsider where you are going to find them. Try to decide what characteristics would make a "good man" for you, and then try and decide where you would need to go to find him. Since I don't know what your definition of a "good man" is, I can't really give you any ideas as to where he could be found. Be patient, the right man is out there for you! Just don't waste your time trying to make a man be the kind of man you want. If he isn't right and you think you need to change him, just move on and keep looking. Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
1048219
Nice guys tend to be in nice places. You won't catch a brook trout in a storm sewer. Join a church or the Young Democrats or the Young Republicans or the Sierra Club. Volunteer for a work day at Friends of the River. Join a gym. Look for single dads at your kids' activities. Stay clear of bars.\n\nTake it very, very slow. Assuming you are past 35, from the list of problems, you will probably have to settle for someone 10 - 15 years older than you. It is an ugly fact of life that there are about 2 nice women for every nice guy out there, so the guys can pick and choose.\n\nMy wife works in a large medical building with a lot of nurses. We belong to a large church, and I work for a meduim sized-corporation. The lack of reasonable men is astounding. I know just 2 single men I would not hesitate to introduce to anyone. I know a dozen women I wish I could pair up with nice guys.
1046766
Yes, actually there are many of them out there.  Here is what I know from my own observation:  women, especially those who have come out of a bad marriage/relationship have this wall of ice around them...their body language gives off very clear signals of "approach me and die a slow and painful death"...not to mention the patented "all men are pigs" glare.  Now, there are some brave souls who will approach anyway only to find a sniper from a water tower shooting at them...for no reason!  Be aware of the signals you are throwing off...a nice guy wants to approach without barriers, and won't until the coast is clear.  Nice guys are the ones that never get a fair chance...for whatever the reason.
44635
We're a bit slow in understanding... No, in se everyone wants a guy that's nice. We're just frightened that 'nice' is all he'll ever be. A man is supposed to be an animal sometimes: It's superficial, but with a nice guy it's only guessing if he'll ever be a challenge in bed. With macho-dudes you're 'sure' of a challenge, and whenever he's sweet, it's even a bigger party, for you know that didn't com easy for him... The rough guy with the soft heart is a stayer on the market. And even when he doesn't have a soft heart, you can always pretend for your friends he has and then they think you're a winner. It's also very 'in' to complain about your guy. Some girls bond by wining. Don't ask me where that comes from. But in the end I think philosopher René Girard has an answer: 'You want what is wanted.' Tough guys get promoted a lot (e.g. by themselves or by 'cool' friends). Nice guys don't promote themselves and get promoted by parents (not really a reference, parents are those people we don't want to become like). And since you want what others you admire want,... you end up with a bully sometimes. Good to know: we do come to sence. When we get to know this nice guy and he surprises us with some unexpected male talents,... Ding Ding Jackpot!
297812
I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
1040899
i really want a nice guy
692434
That's a hard question to answer. It sounds to me that you've been involved with the wrong men. Don't accept 2nd best and you'll eventually find that there are decent, genuine warm hearted guys out there.\n\nAnd try not to generalise or Typecast, we're all different!
435549
You may be looking in all the wrong places.  There are great guys out there who have hearts of gold, compassion towards others and certainly know how to treat a lady.  Knowing the qualities of the person who would make you happy is a good thing and is not too much to ask.
106497
no...in the end the nice guys will find the best girls because the best girls know who the nice guys are and they realize that looks dont last but being nice and respectful will last forever!
79620
I like nice guyz because they give you RESPECT un like bad boyz who don't. To me it doesn't matter if they are alone or with their friends but it would be easier to talk to a guy that is not with his friends.
695596
I have met a couple of really nice guys on Singlesnet. Also, you can email a featured member for free, so if you find a featured member that you are interested in you don't need to join. I haven't paid to join, but have contact with the men I want to contact.
327399
I think you should be asking "Where can I find a good, quality woman who likes nice guys?"\n\nWhile I was dating, I tended to date guys who ended up being jerks.  But once I found out how they really were, I broke up with them.  And ended up marrying a nice guy :)\n\nSome girls are attracted to "bab boy" jerk types.  However, most aren't and you should focus on finding one of those girls :)
946016
Becuase nice guys are outcasts, ladies want the so called bad boys, besides ladies are too picky, and they have stereotypes that ALL men being cheaters. In this cold and cynical world it seems like  good people are in perpetual doom of always meeting the worst of the opposite sex. Its always darkest before dawn, at the end it will all work out,  life and true love always finds a way.
70488
I bet you've given in to some of those jerks too and let them in.  You know not all guys are like that, you see them everyday.  You just avoid talking to good guys b/c you love the attention you get from the rest.
1086821
Nice guys are normally gay.  What you need is a guy who is generaly not nice, but is nice to you.
852215
Most men are. But there are a few good men out there-somewhere.....