What should I do next? (wow, highschool drama)?
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The key is to try not to have any expectations.\nExpectations lead to disappointment and sometimes embarrasment.\nJust walk straight towards him, whether he sees you or not, and if he does, keep looking at him no matter what.  Then say Hi <name>.  He'll say 'hi' and probably turn very red.  So you have to make it quick - just ask him for something, like class notes, to borrow a calculator, anything that he can do for you (unless it's his prized heirloom calculator, he'll do it).\nThen thank him, obviously, and tell him when you will return the item or whatever.\n\nThat's a pretty good ice-breaker, and it sets you up for another encounter to return his calculator! ;)
333730
Make sure that all parties are clear that the drama doesn't involve you and continue to be friends with everyone.  Your friends are going to do things that you don't agree with, but as long as you communicate and share that with them, it's all good.
684125
Screw the kids at your school. I've had this happen before, it sucks, but the best thing to do is keep your head and laugh along with them, show them it doesn't bug you any. Sooner or later they'll realize they're immature and that it doesn't bug ya.
840064
Whoa, boy...don't just go to school and blatantly tell everyone.  Find a friend or two first and be sure that you are and will be comfortable with this.  Once it's out it can't be taken back.  You might and probably will draw some criticism and be called a name or two here and there.  That, however is part of the experience.  High Schools are very cruel and I don't want to tell you to just do this without your giving this a LOT of thought.
1050587
You should find some adult who is unconnected to your family, School counselor, head teacher, ....\n\nTell them exactly what is going on and ask them to help refer you to the proper agency in your area who can deal with this.\n\nTake action now, or you face being traumatised to the point of lifelong discontentment.  Take action now and take pride in the fact that you had the courage to stand up for your rights.  Take action now and recognise the depth of emotional resilience and strength you have.\n\nDo you see where I'm going with this?\n\nTAKE ACTION NOW - TALK TO SOMEONE
438484
you need to change your perspectiveon the drama. focus on any positive no matter how small and make it bigger so that the stresses seem less. get lost in a good book film or music.
526532
There's actually a funny saying that all my teachers have hung up in their classrooms. It says "Everyday I give special attention to one person... today is not your day..... tomorrow doesn't look good either." You don't have to say that, but I thought that is pretty funny... but in all seriousness you should approach them and be like "Listen... you all are very close to me, but there isn't enough me to go around." Then if two of your friends get into a fight you simply say... "i'm sorry... but I am NOT taking sides." Sometimes... unfortunately... you have to take a stand with your friends like that. Good luck!!!
1070534
just stop worring so much about it. you are only entering the 8 th grade and let me tell you its going to be so busy in8th that you wont have time to worrie abot all this drama! so just shut up, go to the beach and worrie more about getting sunburnt!
93242
go to your high school and see your guidance counsellor.
1003963
Calm down.\nWait for the right girl.\nShe'll come.\nYou're still young.\nYou have the rest of highschool.\nAnd your life.
389015
Disconnect from her. She isn't healthy to be around. Some people are like a fungus and grow from the damp rank odors of drama and hurt feelings.\n\nPlease don't make yourself a victim of stupidity and high school drama. Tell her you have things to do and that you might consider being her friend again, but you need time to think.\n\nLet her know that you mean business. If she messes up again, there will BE NO TALKING. Forgiveness can go as far as you want it to - reconstruction of a relationship: Well, that is a whole 'nother story.
970335
a)  get a hot new gf, even if your not like that, itll make you feel better\nb) punch the guy out in front of the whole school.  you might get punished, but itll be worth it\n\nAbove all, dont hold on to hope that you might get back together with the girl.  Life is too short, and reunited couples rarely happen.
182139
I would suggest that you get involved in a school activity so that you can make new friends and get to feeling more confident in yourself. Find a positive group of people to be around so you won't be lonely and you'll be busy with the activities too.  I was shy and bashful at one time.  The drama club at school really helped me.  I see why that person is an ex-friend. Even if something happened and the friendship ended, that's no reason to make fun of you.   Hang in there and don't become like your ex-friend - making fun of people. You be the better person.
948557
WHOAH!!!!\n\nthis had red flags all over it. you are interested in another "boy" that has a girl and is friends with your current boyfriend.... if you are trying to create your own soap opera you are on the right track but in reality this is a huge recipe for disaster. friendships and relationships are at stake here and people will get hurt. if you want to date other people look outside the group so the drama does not dissrupt the group. you are puting alot of relationships at stake here! friends will choose sides, rumors will start. its not looking good. if you are in high school steer clear of this situation because it could ruin your high school experience. dont be drama. be the bigger person. be an adult. and as ironic as this sounds DONT BE HIGH SCHOOL!
468843
grow up. ditch them both. enjoy your high school days...im sure any guy would want to be with you if you are freaky...lol
497174
How did you treat your girlfriends last year.  Trust me, if there is one thing we girls like to do, it's talk...  If you were a jerk, word has probably gotten around.  Did you move up to the high school?  You may be dealing with more  competition...older guys with cars.  I know it's frustrating, but you may just have to be friends with the girls for a while to build up your reputation.  If that doesn't work, there's always next year's incoming freshmen.  Good luck.
96254
Please see a school counsellor as soon as possible.  Or call a help line right now.  Do you have a family member or other reliable adult you can talk too? Don't wait.  Get help now.