my girl spends alot of time with this guy she says she dont like him but how can i tell if she does or doesnt?
340909
If she is your girlfriend .. Why is she spending lot of times with a guy that she doesnt like? It sounds very FISHY to me. WHy cant she spend more time with you to prove u that shes not interested in this guy that she doesnt like. I think she may be hiding her feelings about him and she might felt stuck between you and him.  Plus she might know u are worried or demanded to know an answer from you . so its a cover up thing. My answer may be wrong for you to know why.. if she knows ur insecurity and so on. she would have spend more time with you to prove it. Why she needs to be with the guy that she doenst like? on what condition is that? keep ur eyes on her and see if shes really the one for you before u decide u want to marry her ..
922822
Well you could spend all your time being suspicious and continue to listen to gossip and hang out with the guys that say they are doing stuff to your girl? What the Fu-------? If you love her deal with it or leave her. She could be lying, they could be lying. Bottom line is if she is cheating on you your relationship is in trouble, if she isn't cheating she will be if you are accusing her of it all the time. Tuff problem. It is all in what you want to happen with her. I can't imagine 3 guys telling you that if it wasn't true though. Do you know the guys? Or are they strangers to you and each other. If they 3 of them know each other it is possible they are fuc-ing with you, more details is what you need. \n\nWrite out the problem, pros and cons, but whatever you do figure out one way or another what you want or it will tear your heart out eventually.
871441
First of all, confront her about it.  If it still doesn't work out, then she's not worth it.  It's not every day that you find a guy that's willing to work through the hard times.  I know I haven't found one yet.  You deserve so much better if she's willing to give up on a seven month relationship just because of her friends.  I wish you luck.
671653
it depends does she like him an wonts u 2 break up with him so she can get him or trust him...Always ask an if u still feel u cant trust him then leave..but if u do trust him then u need 2 tell ur friend 2 back the hell off....
817413
Don't make it complicated and obsess about it. She hasn't mentioned the boyfriend (if he still exists) because she's interested in you. Ask her if she's available. Her yes or no ought to answer the question. If she says she's "sort of" seeing someone, you can figure out if you want to "sort of" see her along with another guy or not.  Have fun, take a chance. Life's too short.
297701
you should tell her that her bf is not right for her if is treating her like sh@$. She needs to see that he is not right for her and that she need to get away from that relationship she is in now and move on to something that is better for her
1103180
Well tell her how you feel and maybe if you're lucky she might feel the same way. If she and this guy aren't close then maybe she likes someone else and doesn't want to get too involved. She may be waiting for the right guy to sweep her off her feet. You should be that guy.
820576
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
540145
i think you should talk heart-to-heart with your friend why she has started disliking your boyfriend when she earlier liked him. MAY BE she herself had feelings about him and this is the way she is expressing them after you have got together with him. this is perfectly normal and anyone would react that way. i think you should jus leave things like that. i am sure she'll get over these feelings on her own. just give it time.
783768
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
13457
If you only met her once, are you sure she is your girl friend?  Maybe she hasn't called you because she found a new guy.  Sorry.
1122598
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
383721
If she complains about her bf ask her then why are you going out with him if things about him make you unhappy .... ask one of her friends if they maybe know whether she still likes you if they say she does then after she breaks up with her bf go for it if she doesnt break up with her bf in like a couple days tell her how you feel about her :)
108526
Well, if you like someone it doesn't give you ownership of him. If you are involved in a relationship with him however, then she should back off.
991772
If you never went out with the guy then you shouldn't really care.  If this guy likes her and she likes him whats the big deal?  You did like him, but she can't help the fact that he likes her and not you.  It's not as if you went out with him or she stole him from you.  Wish her well in the relationship and continue being her friend and her sister.
454809
aww, lol im so this is your girlfriend right? well if shes your girlfriend im geussing she likes u enough its just that maybe shes shy? im not sure though but trust me unless shes one of those girls who will go out with anyone i think she likes u lot of she is dating you, since idk her tho idk.. i think right now shes shy and you just have to try to let her open up to her, ask h er more about who she is
286950
I'd sit them down and tell them what you thought. ( Make sure you tell them that you mean no offense for whatever it is that you're going to say first.) Tell them that you don't like what this guy is doing to her. Try and figure out exactly why it is that she's acting like that, it could be that she's trying to change for him or she may feel that she's better then everyone else now that she's with him.If it's the first then tell her that she doesn't need to or should act like that for anyone. If it's the other then you should make it clear to her that being with this guy doesn't make her any better, she still is who she is and being with someone, no matter who it is, doesn't make a difference. If you have to you could also try talking to her boyfriend see what he thinks.