ive never done a bj b4 what do i do?
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First ask yourself if its something you really want to do. If the answers yes then make sure the guy you're with is someone who will be sensitive and understanding about it.\n\nThen..........there are two golden rules to start with, until you get good at it (assuming you want to do it again that is!) \n1. Go slowly....he'll love it and its easier for you to manage. Like everything else to do with sex you should be relaxed and comfortable with it.\n\n2. NO TEETH! Obviously this is the rule that stays! Imagine you're eating an ice-cream cone. You dont want your teeth on it because its cold so you just use your lips and tongue.\nIts also nice if you stroke him slowly at the same time and maybe play with his balls gently. I would imagine each guys different based on what my partners have told me so tell him to tell you what he likes, especially when you're doing it.\n\nLastly - have fun, its what its all about. Oh and get him to return the favour :)
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I'm assuming you mean master-bate.  The best way is whatever way you like.  I'm a fan of my good ole right hand, my gf loves her vibe-rator, and another friend swears by hot tub jets.  Virginity has nothing to do with how you like to get off, however you need to practice and try new things until you find what is right for you.
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only do it if you really are ready for it.  Don't let peer pressure, your boyfriend or anyone persuade you into it.  You will only have one first time, make it with someone you love and who loves you.  \nIf you are going to do it.  A lot of foreplay and fondling and  lube will help.
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never had one but would love to try it i would like it to be me a guy and another girl
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Before you find your first top, try things to learn to relax your anal muscles and see if you enjoy the sensation -- some don't.  Start with fingering and lots of lube to loosen yourself.  Work more fingers in, concentrating on relaxing. \n\nWhen you've learned to do that, work up to sex toys so that you can discover the sensations and get more penetration.\n\nThen, find an experienced top.  Let him know that you're used to topping, but want to bottom for the first time.  It will feel completely different, but you will have gained the skills to use.\n\nAnd be safe.
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You don't!!\n\nAND for all those answers that have given you the advice that you SHOULD anyway, they are OBVIOUSLY in the wrong forum to give advice!!\n\nYou don't want sex....DON"T HAVE IT!\n\nLet the person you'd be involved with pleasure themselves...watch them do it even, that could be a turn on for both of you.  Maybe then you'd like to.  Voyeurism is really erotic.  Watch and see what turns them on, maybe turn yourself on...but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.  Don't have it unless YOU want to.  IT"S 2006 FOR God's SAKE!! \n\nRESPECT YOURSELF!!
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I am I never had sex I never even kissed a guy I run scraed at the mearest hint of intamacy an therfore have reached 35 an am alone an a virgin so just relax when time is right an guy is right dont let anything stop u
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i dont know...ive never tried that one b4 lol
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Do Sex  eh .. Ok i will go for it, hhhmmmm , Well if you have to ask , then you never was with a real man!, and by reading this question and the way its typed,,,,i would say.... YOU ARE TO YOUNG FOR   DO SEX!
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well go with ur gut 2 begin with and if u don't have cofindence in urself and don't ask any1 out how will u ever get experience.
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still a virgin at age 27
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First times are only as awkward as you make them. RELAX...communicate, ask and offer. \n\nIf having a couple of drinks helps, so be it. \n\nIt's only awkward until you get into it. Seriously. Once you're both naked, most of the awkwardness leaves.
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if you didnt have sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin. No doctor needed thats the answer :) xx
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practice on self first, find out what works for you, then teach to lover. You'll know it when you have 1
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If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
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If you're practicing just to try it out before you do the deed, try a dildo if you have it. Bananas do work, though make sure you peel them, then freeze them. Licking a banana with the peel on it is disgusting. \n\nCucumbers work too, and you can get creative and peel them so there's a head and shaft. Just use the skinny ones..I think they're called english cucumbers. Normal cucumbers are huge and if you cut them to size, you'll be sucking on seeds. \n\nReally anything that's a descent size is suitable for practicing. If you're brave and not dating anyone, ask a guy friend to let you practice on him. A good one will give you an honest opinion and even some pointers without the embarrassment of telling everyone he knows. If you happen to have a gay best male friend, he's even better. Not only has he been on the giving end, but the receiving end too. He can generally give you the best advice you could get. (Look at me stereotyping those young gay men..I should be ashamed.)\n\nJust a few pointers: When you are finally read to give your guy a blow job remember not to forget the testicles. Be gentle, don't pull them off. And I'd suggest that he wear a condom for safety reasons plus you can get flavored ones and they keep you from getting that unexpected shot to the mouth...That's never fun the first time it happens.
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BJ's. You can never go wrong with giving him a BJ.