How can I meet someone I just want to be intimate friends with no strings attached?
352574
This can happen only by finding someone who has similar needs.
37641
be a friend unless you have romantic interest in him
879044
Grow up and look for a "real relationship." The mature thing is to find a life partner who values you and who you, in turn, value. You should have compatible morals and life goals. That "friends with benefits" thing is just for hoes and people too shallow or immature to have REAL relationships.
883417
I don't care what anyone says, you can't go from being friends to lovers.  Well, it's not entirely impossible, but let me know the next time win the lottery... twice.
1185689
Relationship!!! Trust me i know from experience. Having a 'friend with benefits' might work for a while but eventually you start want more.
1048553
Well you could screen your phone calls, or you could just be honest and say that you like him as a friend but are not interested in him in the romantic sort of way.  And if he can accept just being friends why not talk to him on the phone.  And if you still don't want to talk to him on the phone after you've told him you just want to be friends, start talking to him like you would talk to one of your girl friends.  Most guys hate that they don't want to hear about some guy you think is cute or better yet talk about your menstral cycle.
119213
You are not looking for a friend...\n\nWhat you need is a contact person...
609259
u can find them in adult book stores hiding in a box...all u need is a pump...then the friendship will blossom from there...hehe
600763
just like he said..be upfront and open with whom ever you see ( date ) what your thoughts and feelings are about dating and getting serious or not..\na friendship thing..they will want friend with benefits most do..\nbut again that's up to you to work out..\nand I would like to say congrats..\nhave fun'\nsmile\nand GOOD LUCK
614333
Hi, I know this may not be the best way to meet someone, but ive tried it and I got lucky.  You might want to try the online dating sites.  Here are a few I can suggest:  mate1.com and true.com.  good luck...and hang in there !!
138433
Yes, please know what your intentions are before you do this though. If he is a friend, then you do not want to ruin the relationship. Are you only interested in a one time fling and still be friends? Do you want a meaningful relationship with commitment? Figure this out first and then go in with a open mind and hear out your suitor. Do be afraid to find that he wants to only be friends. Friends have more fun and are more intimate when there atracted to one another but know it will never go beyond that point...
1176691
Yahoo personals.That way you start to talk no strings attached.Go from there. Its a good start.
264479
Well, it's tough to find that one person. Even if you do, timing is everything. Perfection in one's eyes are not always the same as someone else's perspective. Also, bad timing can cause an end in a relationship with someone that is perfect for you; there's no greater dissapointment than knowing that someone who was perfect for you slipped your fingers because of that need to have sex.\n\nThe thing about relationships is that if you start off, do not in anyway have sex within the 1st month and/or 2nd month. It can ruin the chances of you both could develop anything substantial. It also takes the mystery away from a person and you'll probably find yourself at a loss of words. This is a really bad thing because when the joking and flirting dry up, you will find yourself inclined to talk about the relationship and where you two are going. This is really a big NO NO because it's just like talking to your friend about your friendship and defining it; you just don't do it, yet. Then, it will be a lot of wasted efforts which might have an extremely higher chance of failure.\n\nAlthough, having sex at the right time can have its yields. You will learn that a person who is sexually compatible is really satisfying both emotionally and physically. Things will progress with better respect and understanding for yourself and your partner. You will eventually realize that there will be days where you just want to think of sex and go at it for a good portion of it. There will not be a better man for than than someone who is really attuned to your needs and ready to go.\n\nGood luck.
684389
it depends how old are you? where do you stay at and are you sexy? lol no but really though. cuz i really want a guy friend just to chill with and be freinds with and hey you know just talk to each other about stuff.........\n                                                Missy
182653
Go to your search and type in  just what you asked it should bring it up or go to one of the dating things on here and put in your area (sign UP) what your looking for, that would be your best bet. there are all kinds of people looking for people on those things. like friendfinder.com or american singles.com , www.adult-seeker.com, there are lots out there.
1057129
try your nearest library or bookstore if you like to read too, and just plainly start up a conversation that makes sense to the one person that grabs your attention. or similarly, wherever you like to hang out. That's what a guyd would do, and if you think that is courageous, pls, you are already a single mom, what could be more courageous already! think about it, you are strong woman and can do this on your own too if you had to, just be selective and go sensible about it. rejection is no big deal, not interested is no big deal, chance to make "just friends" a real plus, chance to find that good man, well hey, that's BINGO
109697
Why not be totally honest and tell them you want friendship only?  No sex.