My EX Boyfriend is getting married in a couple of months but still flirting with me, calling me up, etc.?
338485
I think it sounds like you and him had a lot in common, and he views you as a good friend, after all you two were together for a while. He may still have feelings for you, but if he is getting married he should not be flirting with you. Now he may also have the other thing on his mind, and is not ready to let go of that or he misses your company and body. If that is the situation you know what to do. Just simply tell him no, but that you two can still remain friends if you both agree to that. Let him know that that is as far as it goes, unless you two think you may eventually get back together. Buy that does not appear to be an option at this point. Whatever you do , do not let him use you for sexual relations. Good Luck and I hope you two can remain friends.
1170094
if he is constantly accusing u and u know ur not doing anything to cause the accusations then maybe it's him cheating or he could be insecure from a past relationship or maybe controlling. it could be that he misses u too but the obvious is that he dosen't trust u. without trust your relationship is not whole it's always going to be a emptiness or the thought of "something going on when the other isn't looking". if he has to be breathing down your back and keeping a close eye on u at all times he is going to be the one pushing u away with all the constant pressure. u been together 6 moths the sepearation 3 weeks it sounds like to me that he is not so sure of wanting to marry u if he thinks ur cheating. ask him why would u want to marry someone u feel can't be faithful. everytime u separate to go anywhere the accusations will start, no good will come from it and it could lead to him putting his hands on u. your relationship needs trust or u will continue to have problems...hope this helps.
419321
l don't think you need this kind of man in your life .if he can do this when  both of you are even expecting to get married soon,  so what will it be after???ls he trying to break your heart now??? l think you deserve a better person.\nthis is supposed to be the most happiest time for you and him together.sweet heart does he even love you anymore?? talk to him seriously and ask him what is going on, b'se you need to know.you might be wasting your time with him, go some where far from him for sometime without telling him.or ignore him  for a week or more without calling him and at the same time avoid receiving his calls. test him and see if he  even care about you,if he realy loves you he will come back to you and he  will show it to you if he doesn't make things right you, then you will only neet some time to go thru a heart healing process but soon will be far better, soon after he is gone..be smart girl and know that he is not the only man you can love the way you did...good luck!
485234
It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.
347802
Pysical contact is always a sign of flirting and i figure you liked it (hopefully). the best way to tell if he's flirting with you or just being flirty is to see how he is around other females. If its normal behavior dont think much about it. If its out of the box for him...i'd take that as a sign that he might be feelin you.. If all else fails just ask.. "Whats up wit you?"
209890
that guy may be having a plan for your wedding day at the right place and the right time. but, the important thing is, you can trust him but don't just hope so you can easily adjust of what will be happened in the future. good luck
193651
You know if it's emotional cheating or not...are you looking forward to talking to your ex?  It could be an indication theres an issue with your current relationship....
91976
He married you. That is a pretty strong commitment. If he thought there was any hope of getting back with his ex he wouldn't have taken that step with you.
663242
Well, it's only been 2 months. Unfortunately you can't just wake up out of your nightmare and wish it to be over.  For starts he can quit coming over and telling you that he had sex w/ other people and basically rubbing that in your face. He can also quit telling you he loves you. You obviously broke up for some refined reason (unknown).  If he loved you then he wouldn't be sleeping w/ someone else now would he? I think that you two should stay apart for awhile. There's nothing wrong w/ remaining friends, however, if your trying to move and maintain a healtly lifestyle then he needs to quit.  Simply speak to him and tell him that it's best if he quits coming around for awhile b/c your having a tough time dealing w/ this situation. That you don't feel it's right him coming over and telling you he loves you then hearing that he slept w/ someone else. If you loved me then you wouldn't be sleeping w/ other people. I think it's fine if we remain friends, but I need time. I wouldn't recommend burning or doing anything to the pictures. (memories of good times) the wedding dress yea, you could probably sell it. The ring ahh, well, if you have a daughter or have one in the furture you could always give it to her to wear. (or just pawn it) I wish you the ever most luck. As for strength from God to overcome such a hurtful relationship and for the strength and wisdom to know that "slicing body parts off is wrong" (see made you smile) Good Luck! Here if you need a friend.
347173
sounds like hes cheating on you
869839
it is difficult because you are making it difficult. you are still obsessing over the idea if you should trust him or not and you should not! he can do the talk but can he walk the walk? i dont think so from what it seems! he seems as though he is playing both you and his ex and he is telling you that he wants to be with you just because that is what you want to hear! if he actually would love you he would act on other better terms and not like a jerk who wants his cake and to eat it too! i have broken up with my bf and so has he with me but none of us have talked with our ex's or tried to play the other person since we are both with our ex's-we are 22 and almost 24! i would not accept this guy's behavior no matter how much you love him since he obviously is not mature enough for you, your needs, his actions or his behavior! he thinks that playing with people's minds is fun, therefore he does not know and i think that this guy at some point will surprise you by cheating on you! do not accept him and all his drama into your life but rather focus on what you have and how young you are as well as that time will not  not come a second time around as well as how you should take care of yourself first and be in a healthy relationship! this relationship from what i can make out of it is not the best relationship so you might want to rethink it and make yourself happy with someone who can take care of you and knows what he wants out of life as well as treating you better than this! if you go back with this guy you are headed for splitsville another couple of times as well as more tension, lack of trust and frustration building! i have given you the info from personal experiences and i hope that at least you consider some of them!
755853
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
206759
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
195992
Well now, I don't know. I mean he is your Ex, surely he would be in a position to know. Maybe you should ask yourself why you've reacted so strongly to something you should probably just laugh off.\n\nIs it possible he's hitting a little close to the bone?
966250
i think he still does. he is sending u signal. if u r interested u might want to make a move. good luck
864146
Yeah get out of there! you have to do it slowly stop calling him and contacting him and he will soon take the hint. Don't fall for the I'll change routine...men like that never change.
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.