If i break up with my gf will all her friends be mad at me?
338566
It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
728493
congrads... \n\njust make sure that u act like ur self... we hate when guys act different around their friends and then us... don't worry about the kissing thing (who said you have to kiss if you have a girlfriend lol jk) just make sure that u are always ur self and try never ever to yell at her.. she will dump you w/out a doubt. :) remember if you want things to work you must build a relationship and that takes time. be ready to talk things out and BE HONEST! if you tell her a little lie you will be more likely to tell a bigger lie. don't rush into anything physical because that will hurts your changes of working things out by talking. so remember be yourself, talk, and be honest.
945356
Girls are just like that. Every girl would agree. If she's angry with you, give her some roses to cheer her up. Once she's happy again, explain that she's still the one and only and that it was simply a misunderstanding.
15270
What the hell?  LET her?  Unless you and her are looking for a one on one only relationship, it is okay for girls to talk to their ex-boyfriends.  In fact if you get right down to it, it's safer.  We break up with people for a reason, and we probably wouldn't date them again.  So no worries there.  If she is hanging with them alot, she might be trying to make you jealous.  She might want your attention.  Heck, give it to her!
772707
Your chances are low right now, I'm sorry.  You didn't give the circumstances surrounding the break up; but the fact is that when you feel lonely, even the people you trust most aren't going to be attracted to you.  That's human nature --- to shun the needy.  She isn't likely to view the potential of your relationship in the long run; more likely, she'll see you as a desperate man with no self respect.   \nYou use the word "ever", so if you get over her, find someone else (someone you are truly happier with), you probably will make her jealous.  Do NOT believe it if she says she would be happy if you found someone else!  That's, in fact, a bluff whether she knows it or not.
973456
They are probably telling you that because they love you and they can see you are hurting.   Hell yeah, you have every right to be angry.  Cheating is the ultimate betrayal.  It nips at the core of your self esteem, it tells you that you are not good enough.  It doesnt matter whether it was a mistake or not because things do happen in the heat of the moment and mistakes still get made, but it doesnt change how the person who is being cheated on feels about themselves.  I guess the big question is....do you still love her?  That is the hardest part to get over and it is going to take a bit more time than 2 weeks to get her out of your head and your heart.  Depending on how much you loved her will determine how long you will grieve for.  And you do grieve when you lose someone you love.  Just know that not all girls/women are the same...so dont carry her betrayal into another relationship....treat it as brand new....you have to trust because your next girlfriend is not the old girlfriend and you dont want to start any relationship off badly because of the things that happened to you with someone else.  Distrust and jealousy is the quickest way to lose someone....so you need to come to terms with what has happened and when you are done grieving, move on and leave what she did where it belongs....in the past.\n\nI hope it wont take you long until you start to trust again.  Try to not blame yourself....it was not your fault she cheated...it was just the relationship was not meant to be...she was not the girl for you.\n\nI hope you feel better soon....You wont always feel angry.  With time you will just put it down to experience.
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
860997
Jealously is a sign of weakness. When you have confidence in yourself and in your relationship you will not feel the need to do what u do.  What i think you are trying to tell us, is that you just want attention, maybe she doesn't show you the attention that you would like or you're accustomed to. What you could do is sit down and talk have a friend to friend heart to heart talk about what you're expecting out of the relationship and what you plan on putting into the relationship..\n\nI feel you about unnecessary arguments I used to be the same way. Seems like the arguments are the only time she paid me some attention. But that was a long long time ago.  Over the years i've learned that you can't force someone to pay you attention or love you it has to come naturally. And when it's true and natural you'll know and feel it to be as such.  The more you argue the more prone you are of driving your gf away to someone else. Just think, she might be on yahoo answers asking questions about you and what to do or how to get rid of. Time to take a stand now and rededicate yourself and your commitment to your relationship and make a solemn promise to yourself on becoming a better person not only for the benefit of the relationship but for yourself as well\n\nGoodluck
793967
Violence is a serious thing. If you're worried about your \npersonal safety keep away at all costs.\nJealous people are really a drag. Your friend will learn\nthat quite quickly. By the time she's alone without\nfriends and her girlfriend still keep making jealousy\nscenes about anything and everything, she'll realize.\nI'd advice to keep a good distance from them both and\nwait until their break-up. It'll not take long as her new\ngirlfriend is the need of serious psychological \ncounseling.
293479
Stay friends, until she breaks up. Then wait until you break up. If you must, break up with your girlfriend to have her. Then you to can go out. If that doesn't work, just stay friends until both of you are available at the same time.
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
526157
I can understand why your g/f is mad. Why wouldn't you want to blow off another chick if you already have a girl friend? Just politely tell the other girl that you're taken and that nothing can happen between you both. If she doesn't get the hint, then stop talking to her and tell her to leave you alone. Make sure your gf knows that you love her and no one else. Do something special for her that you would never do for anyone else. Ur gf feels threatened. Girls are almost always insecure and think that their man will be taken away buy someone else, so just let her know that you don't want or need any one other than her.
1010652
well, depends. do you like drama?\n\ndo you really want to piss off ex gf?\n\nYES?? OK, then go for it!
679462
if u have explained 2 her that this is the only reason maybe u should check up on that going out w/ 'friends' thing...shouldnt do any harm now...also explain that u still love her and if she loves u back she will at least listen 2 what u have got 2 say...or otherwise its over...i hope 4 the best
237581
If your not happy you should not stay with her. Its not fair for you or her. You will probably never be happy and it will only get harder to leave her.
52976
Brake things off with her on good terms.  don't do it in the middle of a heated argument or fight cuz then you'll be mad at each other.  I would just sit her down and tell her  need to talk to her, and explain that you don't feel like you two are meant to be, but you think she is an awesome person and you want to be friends still.  I had to do it to a guy I was dating for four years and we are still friends. But if she gets all mad and pissy after.  Then she will be missing out.
661618
Probably not.  Maybe they see the way you and your girlfriend get along (fighting all the time, verbal abuse, or maybe you have a one sided relationship).  Maybe they see how your girlfriend treats you, like you do everything for her and she has you wrapped around your finger, so they feel like she's using you.  If they were jealous then I would think that you spend a lot more time with your girlfriend and not with your friends and your relationship with your girlfriend is something they want because they see perfection.  Is this relationship something where the two of you feel inseparable and love spending time with one another?  Then maybe they could be just a little jealous, but for some reason, I feel that this may not be the case if you are asking.  They probably know more of what you don't see or notice. Others usually can observe and pick up on the wrong things when you yourself, cannot.  Usually that is the way it goes.  It's called being "Naive" to the relationship.