is it cool to date someone older than me by 3 years?
351883
That's kind of iffy. There are a lot of differences between those ages that don't exist when you're, say, talking about a 25 year old and a 27 year old.\n\nThe big difference is experience, and if you were my younger sister, I'd tell you that the 17 year old boy just wants one thing.\n\nStick with other 14 year olds for now, guys who have other things in common with you than that "one thing".
209827
i dont think its good..i mean you dont know the person's true personality, and he/she could be a lot older than you or somethin bad..i wouldn't go for it..
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
284098
Any age is good as long as you both want to and dont need to,but yes it is a good age as you have started to accumulate possesions by then and understand that it is good to share your life with someone,other then for the thrill.
350660
Like Got Nothing To Do With How Old U Maybe... The Only Thing That U Have to Be Concerned Now is to Get to Know Him Better And In A Way He Will Know U Better Too..\n\nHey if it dun turn out well.. Its No Harm Right.. U Still Made A Fren..
163078
Not really, but understand that this will not be a permanent relationship.  An older guy should introduce you better things than a guy your age.  Nice restaurants, plays, concerts.  In exhange you are keeping him young.
1033437
Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
519671
If you are legal age (you didn't mention your age) then dating him is no big deal if you are both interested in one another.  If there is a huge age difference between you both you might keep in mind that your relationship with him might not be long term, as you might not have much in common.  However, as long as you are of legal age then go for it - who's to stop you.
169753
Yes, if you like him and are interested in him you should ask him out. Remember, age does'nt matter when you like someone. Anyways, it's not like he's 4 years younger than you.Also remember that there is no age in likeing someone or when you fall in love.
994819
I am 20.Never dated anyone younger. I like them older. Just until I get into my late 30's early 40's. Then I'll start to like them young.
293492
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
307516
Older, I like someone who is ahead of me, and is a little ahead of the curve. I like someone who has already done some of the "been there, done that" things such as college, etc. Maybe I just like that someone has a year or so on me, and has more life experience. But there's also still that cultural norm that the guy is older than the girl.
1175898
as long as you're both at the age of consent or older... you're cool... 27 is more than an appropriate age
522823
No, you should be with someone closer to your age.  I know the difference in years doesn't sound like that many but at this age when you are growing and changing so fast, it really is.
488321
no,you should still like him maybe dating a older boy will help you mature and have one with you that is.
659381
Hey if you guys have chemistry, then trust me it will work, i wont say age is just a number, but the age difference doesnt really matter!
694540
i'm 20 and with a 29 year old man. i think its ok to date who ever u want as long as its legal.