name 10 ways to approach a bully without fighting?
352817
1)buy him/her school lunch\n2)ignore them\n3)pray for them\n4)tell them you got rabies\n5)tell a grown-up\n6)bully them back\n7)get a group of friends and tell that bully is all against him/her\n8)run\n9)change schools\n10) just face it and kick ass!!
295735
I myself had these situation before.Here what I did \n1.I ask my child who is the Bully?ASK Your kid every detail\nand write it down.\n2. Contact the teacher and Principal and communicate with both at the same time.\n3.Talk to other parents and see how many time this boy or girl attack other children.\n4.I went to the Principal and file a paper with her or him.\n5.Give the Principal a chance to act.Then if not go to the school District and tell the superintendent and see if he or she wants to stop.If not Call the attorney and One PAPER FROM THE LAWYER WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE.\nMAKE SURE YOU TEACH YOU CHILD ABOUT BULLY.\n6.ADVOCATE EVERYONE IN YOUR CHILD CLASSROOM ABOUT BULLY KID.MAKE SURE YOU CAN VISIT YOUR CHILD OFTEN ESPECILLY BREAK TIME AND LUNCH HOUR.
815300
So, do you have the potentiality to be a bully? Then work on that
63002
you let them say what they want to say.. u show\nno emotion the entire time and u simply walk away. you will always be the bigger person if u walk away.\ndont ever lower yourself to their level. and if they attempt to hit you.. block, and then again walk away.
1066215
It depends on your personality if you are timid it may be difficult for you to stand up to her. 9 times out of 10 if you let her know you're not afraid of her by standing your ground she will get the picture that you are not to be bullied. It always seems to be the quiet ones that can only take so much and then they flip out and whoop azz so she better stop pushing your buttons. Otherwise, talk to her alone invite her to hang out then when you guys go out tell her you always got the vibe that she didn't like you. Sometimes all it takes is getting to know somebody and then they see you aren't so bad. Good luck if that doesn't work put some eye drops in her drink it causes extreme diarrehea and it's hilarious.
245244
The best way to approach a person with a bad attitude is with a smile.  \n\nBe very respectful to this person as they sound like they may have an over-inflated ego and need it to be stroked often, hence the abuse.  \n\nStay focused on the reason you are approaching this person, even if this person tries to distract you to another subject.  \n\nBe polite and calm and most of all professional.  \n\nMost important, do not be intimidated by this person.  This person, considering what you stated about them, will most likely look at this as a weakness and not take you seriously if you behave intimidated.\n\nGood Luck!
1030480
The best way if you are strong enough is to smile and say I thought you were my friend but a friend would never treat someone this way,,, and walk away with your shoulders straight.\nThese people who tease you are not your friends.  We should all treat other people as we wish to be treated, so make sure that no matter what you treat them kind,, kindness always overcomes bitterness and ugly.
27163
its just me, but you would be hard pressed to find any school period that does not have bullying.  bullying takes on many forms and is not as obvious as punching and name calling.  just find the school that fits the needs of your student and has an excellent academic and extracurricular structure.  everything else can be taken care of as it happens.
554143
By using their own teachings in response. Judge not lest you be judged.  And be self assured of your own beliefs and remind them, to set a good example if they want people to follow or listen. No one ever changes their beliefs by being bullied.
1091701
Firstly, I don't recommend that you get into a fight unless you are confident of your ability to defend yourself, but there is one common characteristic about bullies: They're usually cowards and travel in numbers and if you stand up to them (don't complain, act confidently), they often back off.\n\n- However, you should learn a few DEFENSIVE moves - either in a martial arts or self-defence class. Learn how to ward off a punch or kick.\n\n- Try to choose where you are going to be bullied and make it a public place where some teacher / principal is going to see it.\n\n- If you think they carry weapons, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT do anything that may escalate the bullying to severe violence. You're better off running away and avoiding the situation if that's going to happen. You could report them to the cops if you know they have weapons and get them evicted from school.\n\n- Bullies are usually very insecure about themselves and if you can get one of them alone, you may be able to talk him down and come to terms with him.\n\nGood luck and be careful.
288247
Very carefully.  I had a child that was bullied and picked on at school.  I discussed the situation with my child at length, and together we decided not to go to the authorities as it would make the situation worse.  However, when the bullying became physically damaging (he came home with visible injuries), I went to the school and had a conference with the administrators, and the teacher of the class in which the abuse took place.  Their reaction was that it was up to my son to handle it.  However, when I threatened to get a lawyer and file harrassment charges . . . they changed their attitude.  The situation was defused . . . and there were never any problems.  I suggest talking to your child if it is a minor abuse and teach them coping skills . . . and if it becomes major, go to the school or facility.
1081521
No Need for getting that coward inside you, just get some guys and get the hell banged out of those guys! Don't let anyone know you were behind it!\nIt'll make them feel like a dork and they won't tease you or anyone else anymore!
120495
I WOULD LIKE TO SUGGEST SOMETHING VERY POLITELY TO U.1ST LEARN TO WRITE & FRAME A QUESTION PROPERLY BEFORE GOING AFTER THIS GUY.\nHAVE U?THEN\nWELL ANYWAY IF HE IS UR SCHOOLMATEU SHOULDN'T HAVE THAT MUCH TROUBLE IN MEETING HIM.JUST GO & HIT HIM(INNOCENTLY)SPREAD OUT ALL UR APOLOGIES.NEXT TIME U COME ACROSS HIM(U SHOULD IF POSSIBLE IN THE SAME DAY)SMILE AT HIM & DROP A HELLO.THEN THE NEXT DAY U SEE HIM ASK HIM HIS NAME & INTRODUCE URSELF TO HIM.THEN SLOWLY SLOWLY BEFRIEND HIM.THE REST DONT U KNOW TO WORK OUT??????????
927528
be assertive not aggresive\nthat is my way of handling this situation
1142631
Believe me, the only effective to stop them is fighting back, if you can beat the crap out of them, it's best, if you can't, it's better to get beaten up by bullies than just sitting there doing nothing, resort to cop/parents/friends can only provide temporary relief, if you want to end it, you get to stand up for yourself, there is no other way around.
761509
Stand up to them and show them that you will not back down and let them bully you. When they call you names, call them names too. When they throw things at you, throw things right back at them. Whatever their doing to you, you make their life a living hell also. If they see fear in you then they will continue to bully you this way. It doesn't matter that it's more of them and just you. You make them see that yow will not let them ruin you. Stand up for yourself and these girls will know not to mess with you anymore.
671003
Smile, say that it was good of him to enlighten you with his/her/it's point of view, and that you'd get back once you'd figured the depth of the person's insights which that person was so good to share with you.\n\nThe next time the person tries to corner you, smile and rush off saying that you'd a broken garter or broken a heel or something like that.\n\nGuys will have to think of some reason or the other to fob off the person without bopping him, cause violence will feed to his frenzy and make him a martyr, at least in his own eyes.