Why do guys only hit on dumb perrty girls instead of smart intelligent ones?
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It's easier to tell by looking if she's attractive.  In order to see if she's smart, it takes a bit more time and effort.\n\nBelieve me, I do not want someone who is dumb.  I have some smart friends who like their dumb girlfriends but for me, no way can it work.  Not a chance.  I'd confuse her and she'd bore me.\n\nOf course, guys who want a smart girl would like her to be easy on the eyes, too, but each guy has his own personal rules on this.  Meet enough of them and you'll find one who clicks pretty well.  Just don't get discouraged.
659770
Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
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The obvious answer is most men do not think the "attractive girl" in question will respond favorably to thier advances. I have to say in my experience, the quintessential "attractive girl" doesn't respond well to being hit on. They are stuck up an arrogant and troll the bars like Preying Mantis' waiting to humiliate and destroy the egos of as many men as possible before taking home NONE of them.\n\nJust what I've found....
90275
Yeah don't waste your precious time with dumb women who "think" their hot and try to front.  It's a numbers game...the more women you can get in front of and talk to chances are your numbers will play out an dyou find the girl "YOU" want-
319420
Dating half the guys that I thought were Mr. Right for me. Turned out alot of them were a bunch of losers. If I was smart, I would of found the right guy for me.
525791
think it comes from a perceived attitude...some people do act like know'it all's so naturally a dumb person would gravitate towards someone who at least can pretend to be smart:)
976364
Ok, I definately like to be challenged but compared to someone else???  HELL NO!  The only person I'm comparing myself with is who I was yesterday.  If a girl is playing hard to get because it makes her feel good to see guys doing backflips to get her attention, then she is an a$$whole in my opinion!  If a girl makes it known that she has mutual feelings for ONE guy who likes her yet only allows him to know that slightly so that his ego doesn't get to big, that is a smart girl.
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To tell you the truth, I only like intelligent men. But my sister swears up & down that I should find a dumb one. She says that they are grateful for any attention & so will do anything to please.
63747
It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
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"Girls" in general don't. For sure, some do. Turn it around, "why do guys go for girls who are brainless or mean, but stacked?"\n\n'Cause shallow people, or confused people, make their decisions based on shallow or mistaken assumptions. Do you want to be with a girl who is "cute" physically but not perceptive enough to pick up on the fact that a lot of great, smart, funny, kind guys aren't gorgeous?\n\nIf so, does that make you just as shallow?\n\nYou need to widen your horizons, chum -- get out and take classes, try activities that you think might interest you, get to know some girls, make some girl friends (real friends, not "let's be friends").  Practice talking to girls and really listening to what they say, making them feel interesting (everyone wants to be thought interesting), making them want to be around you because around you is a safe, enjoyable place to be where they'll be accepted and valued as they are.\n\nMake sure some of those girls are not the babes, but girls you might actually enjoy spending time with and talking to.\n\nMight take some time to get the hang of it, but once you do, you will be swamped.
800355
Right on girl! Smart decision! He's a jerk. Smart girls doesn't need jerks who can't move on from the past.
801686
They're definitely not as smart as girls. They take a little longer to realize some things.
453147
Some men are intimidated by a female who is very intelligent and/or beautiful.  They don't think they will add up.  Try not revealing everything about yourself all at once.  I know your proud of your degrees, but let these men know slowly about all of this.
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and women wonder why men consider them dumb.\n\nmake a decision, tell him and do it.  it's too late to worry about hurting someone's feelings.
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guys like girls who are smart, funny, and you enjoying talking to them. they never try to be some one that they're not and they always know the right thing to say. What guys don't like about girls is when they try to act like some one that they're not or if you know that they like you but they still try to hide it because most of the time it's common knowledge.
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I dont.. I look for a woman with intellect and some sort of success in life and a good head on thier shoulders.... Not a sex object!!! Sorry but not all guys are like that...\n\nA lot of men a shallow thats why I guess.
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She doesn't want to get the label, "Nerd", "dork", or "geek" so she acts stupid so people won't know she's smart.  I do that all the time.  I am a smart, nice girl and it's just like that saying with guys, "nice guys finish last."  The same is true with girls.  Only the stupid, flirty, gorgeous girls have lots of dates.  Us smart, nice, average looking girls have a hard time so we act dumb hoping to get the guys to notice us.