how to bring my boyfriend back-i know he loves me?
347127
I am going to empower you, girl, for this Life is far too short to attempt to spend it...as you appear to be trying to. Lesson One: STOP believing that YOU can read anyone else's mind, let alone a man's! STOP injecting YOUR feelings/voice into the space where someone else's feelings/voice should resound. And for the love of God, please STOP yourself whenever you find yourself even THINKING: "Yeah...I KNOW ______ (fill in space with a name) is behaving in this fashion BUT..." The reason why is this: Unless your last name is "Christ" you are most likely under-qualified to accurately 'read' other people's (true) feelings/emotions/thoughts, etc, etc. You can GUESS, but you will NOT always be correct. OK, if someone's real-world/real-time actions DO support a particular notion of yours, you CAN make an educated guess. But, for the sake of your not spending your life spinning your wheels and waiting for guys to act the way YOU 'know' they REALLY feel...please DO consider discerning/judging people (ESPECIALLY MEN!!!) by what they actually DO and NOT by what they say. Try to respect people enough to believe that they actually KNOW what they are saying/doing, even if it is not what YOU prefer them to say/do. Anything less makes YOU the 'bad guy', as in: controlling, manipulative...Bottom Line? If your man really loves you, he will find his own way back to you. And YOU should require nothin' less, because if HE left, he should EARN   you all over again. He will not respect you, otherwise, and you may have a lifetime filled with him goingcominggoingcoming...! A good woman IS worth her weight in diamonds. Has he presented you with something, somethought, someindication, which demonstrates to you HIS understanding of YOUR (positive) worth, yet? If not, why are you even wasting time TRYING to understand HIM?!? My dear, YOU are worth more than YOU (appear to) know. So...here's MY parting 'gift': If he IS an immature jerk, let 'im go. Alternately, (I promise) the minute you STOP! worrying about him and move on with your own life- and No, this doesn't necessarily mean YOU should go out and make an ass of yourself with other guys/men/boys, either- he WILL take notice (meaning: miss the dedicated attention his fabulosity assured him of receiving from you) and come running with his 'feelings' in full display for you to (mis)interpret...again. Oh! And if you are an attractive/sexy/cute/desirable/viable female...the latter will happen sooner than you can blink. Have faith. In you.
1149632
It depends! Do you love him....want him back  - or do you love him.......want to sleep with him till you find someone to replace him? Well if you want him back  - STOP letting him come back. He is not secure with himself and needs someone that is secure with themselves. If he is coming back he needs a strong partner.\n\nIf you just want to sleep with him till you find someone new. Play the game till you get tired -  that is what he is doing. You will eventually get sick of it and move on. He will keep coming back as long as you let him he likes the familiarity.\n\nMight help.
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
355934
just show him that you care... just remember to be yourself .See if there is a reaction from him, if he loves you back, little by litle he would stop playing. Without saying any words you should make him feel the way you feel!
149613
If he still loves you, he'll come back. And if that doesn't work then try to make him jealous. (guys hate it when they can't have something).
317086
try talking to him again, on how he feels about love. ask him when he think its a good time for a couple to say those words. \n\ni know how your feeling, I've been their. with the boyfriend i am with now. i wasn't for sure when to tell him i loved him too. we live in different countries so he wasn't sure if we would even work. \n\nits been a year now and where stronger then ever, even going to move in together. the moment i told him i loved it was about last fall or winter. he eventually saw how great and wonderful of a person i was and with him. he couldn't help but say those words back to me. \n\nyou pretty much just have to guess when to say it. you can't ignore your feelings, no matter if they get hurt or not. if you love him, tell him and then tell him why you love him. show him how you make him feel, by your words. \n\nif he can't appreciated that, then he's a loser lol. you've been together long enough to start talking about love. if you were to tell me you just been together for a week or two, then i would say no and wait more.
352210
Why do you have to tell him that? He already hinted that he doesn't want to be "pressed". The smartest thing to do is ACT like in love, but don't give the actual verbal message. \n\nMy guess is that YOU want him to love you back. It's not about revealing your feelings, it's about making him love you. Unfortunately, this doesn't just happen in a single day and it cannot be coerced by similar questions.\n\nLet him be, act like a loving person and your (and his) feelings will become evident.
784203
There is no harder way then to tell him your feelings...but at the same time, there is no better way then that to show him that you really do care and that he means a lot to you. It sounds like you really miss him and want him to be yours again but I only have one warning. If it didnt work b4 because of the distance then are you goin to try something different if he has to go back? Just dont give up and tell him how youu really feel. You might be scared but it could really work out in the end! I hope it works out for you and you two get back together! Good luck!
432044
if you still love him, and really really want him back in your life and into your future, then get up right now and start packing your bags! your going on a trip to get your ONE and ONLY back! even though he lives 8 hours away from you, it doesnt matter! you should fight for him and do anything to get him back, right?! and if it will cost you money, it still doesn't matter, what would you rather lose? your money or the ONE you truly want and need? of course you would rather lose money than the person you loved, right? and when you get to him... tell him how you really really love him so much... tell him that you would rather lose all the things you have than lose him! tell him that you will NEVER EVER do anything to hurt him again! tell him that you would change and go back to the real you just like in the old days... and tell him that you really need him and want him in your life! especially, tell him that you wouldnt change into the self that was dishonest and the self you didnt like before... then tell him you really love him! over and over and over and over again!!!! =)
575252
Hun, its a hard road to go down, But he and ONLY he can find the answers he is searching for, but if he is confused now  its best for you to leave and give him time to think things through, then if he finds himself then maybe you two can work on getting  back together, but you can be there for him Emotionally, but since he is fighting a hard battle with him self, he can only bring you down with him, tell him you have to go and tell him you love him but you cant live like this , when he is ready, and has found what he is looking for ,to call you if he is really in love with you and wants you in his life.
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
423107
say you love him and miss him and want him back
119865
OK...i will guess you have been dating about a year, give or take a couple of months.  This is the fork in the road of your relationship.  Almost all guys do this at the same time.  They get scared and feel trapped, so they want to break-up for a while.  Give him a few weeks and he will either come back loving you more than ever ready to go all the way, or he won't come back.
1171304
You cant force him to love you! but give him a phone and just be yourself! good luck.
363555
Have you talked to him about it?Well just try to get your mind off of him.Hind things or throw things away that might bring back memories of you and him.Talk to other people because if he loves you he'll come back....
653811
forget him, if he doesn't want you back find someone who is better than him - he'll want you back then, just like you want him back now\n\nyou break up for a reason, why get back together?  did things really change?  (they usually don't)
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...