I am very attracted to this guy but I think he has a girl friend and hes 24 and I am 27 . What do I do?
353888
When we became older, we think back with "anger" to our youth's lost opportunities. It's better to solve the problem now, otherwise you'll be sorry forever. You shouldn't feel less because the age difference, if you feel uncomfortable you can't relax and a good relationship beyond chemistry it's exactly this. If it isn't work out how you want, you can move on with your life.
658026
It seems that you have a VERY genuine friendship with this guy. Honestly, I think you should keep the friendship, simply because it is a solid foundation that will take mother nature to rip it apart. \n\nBut it sounds like you have a very deep interest in him. The longer you keep it bottled, the more it will consume you. The worst thing that could happen is that he tells you to go to hell, but I doubt that will happen. Be honest with him. One of two things will happen: you will remain close friends, or he will become your significant other. But if you have such a strong relationship, there is a possibility that it could blossom into matrimony. That comes with time though. If he says yes, GET TO KNOW HIM EVEN MORE!!!! Because if you rush into a deeper relationship, and major problems that never before existed come to light, chances are that you will lose the friendship as well, which could be a "double whammy." \n\nRight now you have someone in which you can confide, and you will always need someone like that. Be careful, and continue to use good judgment.\n\nGood luck to you.  :)\n\nP.S. (I met my wife in 1998 (college) and I was just like your friend; I still am. I would do ANYTHING for her. I don't doubt that your friend has that same mentality. Just go for it and find out what's there.)
40418
Just be his friend.  If things don't work out with his current gf, then be his shoulder.  You might be next...
776991
Um....so you are asking us this...you are attracted to this guy, who either has a girlfriend and just flirts with you, or is not honest with you.  I'm thinking that he is either considering cheating on his mysterious girlfriend with you and just hasn't the courage yet, or  he just wants to fool around a little without commitments...And he knows that he has you hooked..So if you really want to pursue this...be patient..ignore him and don't be so available....see what happens.
852112
Depending on what state you live in, a romantic relationship with this man could result in jail time for him. If you truly care about him, then keep that in mind. No hanky panky -- and that could even include kissing in some states -- until you are legally old enough for it.\n\nAt your age, take it slow girl and get to know this guy. And keep in mind, there's lotsa fish in the sea, and you've got many many years ahead of you to find the right fish for you. This young man will understand if he truly cares for you, and he won't rush you into any kind of sexual relationship that you aren't ready for yet.\n\nAlso, really think about what you want in a long-term relationship and evaluate this guy against that. Don't look only at how he treats you, look at how he treats others, especially people who he might consider powerless such as waiters. That's a pretty good clue how he will someday treat you when the glamor and romance has worn off.\n\nAs for your friend, only you can tell whether the guy is worth the friendship, but if you want to remain friends with her, you have to be honest with your friend and tell no lies. Lies will make her feel like you aren't her friend and don't have her best interests at heart.
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
1162929
NO, don't do it! it seems you may have honest feelings for him, so do not do the friends w/ benefits. you will just get more deeply involved. what if he starts seeing another girl? honey  he's not the only man in the world, there's thousands outthere. all you need to do is keep your mind occupied and give yourself, your body value, love and respect. you know you deserve so much better than just being someone's sex object.
748450
I THINK THIS YOUNG LADY IS PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU\nI UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH 0F YOU HAVE THINGS GOING\nON IN YOUR LIFE.BUT TI SOUND LIKE SHE NOT REALLY\nTHE ONE FOR YOU. ALSO THE FACT THAT SHE 24 ,MAY\nHAVE SOMETHIING TO DO  WITH WHAT GOING ON WITH\nHER. ALSO SHE MAY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE IN THE PICTURE\nAS WELL.
1175327
See sweety, the difference between you and the Dr. is way too much to have a kind of relation. I agree that the age doesent matter in such cases but what matters here is ur personal life.It is not going to be easy to be with a person who is twice your age and also manage to be social with your friends and your associates. You also havent mentioned about his life and his family. You just know him for a few months and you should not judge the person based on your association with him of a few months. You should give some time for this kind of advances and control yourself of giving off to his flirts. If it is limited to flirts thats ok but for other advances u need to think it over and give some time..........\nAll the best to you
753283
If you trust him yes just be careful, don't be nosy but if they want to hang out make sure he invites you.  You and hopefully he wouldn't want to loose 8 years over a old fling.
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
181355
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
919499
because hes that much older than u, see if u really like him. also he is leaving soon too so think about that.
841616
Hey....how old are you?Dont worry there are a lot of fishes in the ocean...you might not know this guy will date another girls but in the end he'll bump at you and soon he will realize that you are most prettiest gal in the campus....\nWhat does your friend told you about that guy?who knows that guy wants to get close with that friend of your because he wants to know about you...not that really wants to be your friend's partner....do you get me?dont worry...
1127644
Sit him down away from everyone else and tell him you were wondering if he would like to be friends with you. Take it from there. The age difference is o k
360218
try to examine yourself.If you are really falling for this guy and yet you know that already he has a 6 years steady girlfriend, well, wake up to the real world girl!He can't be yours for he has another. Talk to him about your present situation and tell him that your confuse about your situation. Ask him what he really feels for you because you might be confused on love and friendship he is offering to you. Pray to God for guidance and understanding.There is still so many guys outthere, single and much appropriate for your love and sincerity. A guy you can call your OWN.
164085
wow, 28 and 63, what an age difference.  What country are you in, i don't think i can advise you on anything being that you are in an entirely different culture and i don't know anything about it.  If you were in America, I would say that he is too old for you, you seem to be in love with him though, i think the only thing you can do is wait and see.  Does he ever come see you?  If not, that is not dating, it is cyberdating, which is not the same thing, if you don't see each other often, unless he is taking care of you and is extremely rivch, iwould find a new man.