should i still be with my x-boyfriend or should i just move on?
339629
Well I think that you shouldn't believe other people if that girl wants you all 2 not be together she is going to do whatever it takes so just give him a chance and ignore what people say if you really like him you wouldn't believe other people and you would believe him OK and all because you hear thing that doesn't mean their true.
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
588470
thaghost84 above is full of **it. There is no point in staying with someone you can not talk to. If you stay in this relationship, it is going to get worse, so you might as well make a decision now as to whether or not you want to deal with a boyfriend who doesn't care about the same things you do. He is jealous and controlling and does not deserve you. You may not like hearing this but it is the truth. Dump this guy and date someone you can talk to. This is a good foundation that you can then build on. You start with the foundation, not the roof, if you want to build a solid, beautiful home. The same is true with relationships.\n\nBuh-bye now!
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
507888
Well, if you really feel like you're not into him and the relationship isn't going anywhere, what's the point in staying with him? Go find someone that you acutally like and let him find someone that actually likes him. I wasn't very into my last boyfriend, so I let him go after a couple of months. Why drag things out for no reason?
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
827079
Nomad is very right!  But if your separation was just heat of the moment, I reckon the second time will be sweeter.  I believe in 2nd chances and if yous can work it out and start again, things will be stronger.  I would love to be in your ex bf's shoes, as for now, my situation with my spouse is near over and final.  But through this, you'll be a better person/lover, if not for your x bf, your next bf.  Good luck and best wishes!
606261
leave him alone is what you should do. if he becomes available then go for it but for now go find yourself another boyfriend.
183081
If your "boyfriend" is taking another girl ANYWHERE, apparently he no longer feels that he is your boyfriend. Move on sugar, you don't need that kind of drama. There are lots of guys out there to choose from to stay involved with one that does not want you. Be smart about this, and do what you already know you should do.
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
267419
Why is he your old boyfriend? There had to have been reasons for breaking up and if I were you, I would take that into account. Also, would you be moving in together or just near him? Is it economical for you to move, will you be able to work, find housing? I don't know, it just doesn't sound like something that you should do...find a new boyfriend, one that lives closer to you or one that would move to be near YOU!
675852
You should be applauded for your deep sensitivity in caring about the X. AT least write her a letter stating how you feel and letting her know of your current situation - or an E-mail. Just remember it is natural to feel as you do, but it does not have to change things with your current lover/fiance. Remember time cures all . This will fade naturally . Trust yourself and your good intentions with your fiance.It is only one of a billion memories you will have in your life- not a big deal. Go on and live your life happily and lovingly so. Best to you.
868119
I would just move on because it sounds like he's not ready to be anyone's boyfriend.  You can do better...I have been where you are.  All you need to do is believe that you are worth more than that and don't worry about him.  He's immature and that's about it.
309960
If you are in a relationship, you have to do what it is that you think is best. If your boyfriend your with now is not where your heart is, why are you wasting his and your time, move on because it is not fair. It seems as if you want your cake and to eat it too.  You have to be fair to yourself and to your boyfriend and to your ex. Follow your heart.
243538
uhmm.....depends...if you still love him and REALLY wanna be with him, and if he never hurt you, and if you enjoy the things that you guys do together, then you should TOTALLY get back with him! but then again, its depends on the reason why he left...its all up to you
505027
Ok, look....it seems to me like your ex is just playing around...I mean he knows you have a boyfriend, a good guy would respect that....and if he cared about you he wouldn't be doing this to you, I mean he's confusing you everytime he tries to kiss you and when he tells you he wants you to be friends with benefits? If he cared about you, he would just try to see you as a friend, and try to move on! If you don't love the guy you're with, then talk to him, I don't think it's fair to the other guy, if you think you're slowly falling in love with the other guy, and if he's a good guy, then stay with him....you and your ex broke up for a reason right? then why bother going back? if your relationship with him didn't last you think is gonna last the second time? You're just going to get hurt that way, and in the long run you'll realize that you lost an amazin guy, and trust me once you do something, you can't really go back, only if you're lucky! But if you think you'll never love your new boyfriend, then just be honest with him, and maybe tell him to give you some time or just tell him you want to be just friends! But trust me I think you should move on and forget about your ex! I hope that helped you, just follow your heart, if your heart tells you to go back with your ex then be honest to the other guy, but my advice would be not to cheat on him, I don't think anyone deserves that!