For mature men - What do you REALLY think about steatch marks on a woman who has had a kid?
344666
It brings out the woman in a woman.. Do not be embarrassed. There is NOTHING wrong with stretch marks... Women who go to surgery to get rid of them is ridiculous and a waste of money.
63696
It might affect how a guy feels about her, but not necessarily in a bad way, depending on the exact look of the scar.  Some guys find moles, birth markes, and certain other facial imperfections to be sexy.
298955
Well, it's not a personal experience, but a friend of mine, after trying to get pregnant unsuccessfully, found out that she had cysts. She had those removed (must have been 2 years ago) and now she has a beautiful baby boy :-)
444467
I definitely think it is nuture.  Because if it were nature, more women would want to be mothers, right?  I know of a lot of women who say they do NOT want kids and they don't really have a motherly personality.  I mean, they aren't that great with kids to begin with.
230019
They have this saying about an ounce of prevention is worth a Pound of cure.  Now, the women of this world have much to do with making babies and they also have the bulk of the investment in their offspring (physically and time-wise).  Therefore, it is very important that they be held in high regards and made to feel good whenever it is possible.  That is not being hen-pecked although that sometimes makes for a happy rooster, lol,  Anyhow, madness sucks and a hint of it is probably a sign of what's to come in the future; possibly spouse abuse and/or increasing disrespect.  If you simply overlook his anger and continue to develop that relationship then there is a fair chance that it could become a habit or could already be a habit.  That would be more than sad.  You would have to be on guard so as not to ever upset him because he could illogically knock your teeth out or worse.  Violence sucks and clear communication with mutual appreciation is blissful.  It's true, the women of this world are entitled to the utmost respect from every male for without you wonderful women we would not have been born.  I sense you females something akin to being GODS!  THE TRUE CREATORS!  Have a nice day, avoid conflicts as best you might.
263569
My Husband says that they are just another part of me and he loves me more than anything else in the world.  So my answer to your question is this: if you truly love the person it dosen't matter that you have c-section scars, strech marks or whatever else.  It would be like me saying I didn't like someone because of their eye color, short, walked with a limp or anything that makes them....them.
1158622
It is sad, but true. Men are concerned about dating women with children, and mostly due to insecurity. I am a 41 yr old man and give you a full perspective so read closely please. A man who can date a woman with children is rare, but there is also a little alarm. Why is he looking for women with children?? Is he sincere or is he trying to be a white knight that turns into a control freak. I have met many guys who do this. Is he really doing it out of pity, or is it out of respect and admiration? Is he looking for someone who might be desperate in his eyes? I married a young lady many yrs ago who had a child and I raised that child as if my own. Is the guy you are looking at going to do this?  To this day that child knows me as Dad and knows nobody else would have ever provided the way I did. Some of us guys are just looking for a non committal type relationship, and others are real Men and will do right by the single and divorced Moms and the children as well. I just hope that if you are in this situation, you understand that you need to protect the child (ren) at all costs, and slowly introduce the man to the children. Don't rush into anything, and if he is trying to rush, leave him because his intentions are not honorable.
825612
I really dont notice if someone has spots and if I do i dont really care we all get them no matter what age! As for looking young think of it as a blessing! People shouldn't jump to conclusions about apperance and age! The best parents are determined by the type of people they are not their age!
68031
oh lol  I thought you meant in general....  I must have missed those\nI have a theory that people are growing increasingly LAX about parenting, which basically means people need to get with the program & knock some sense into their damn kids these days.  True story.\n\np.s.    thickchix & suth'rn men go goooooooood  ;-)\np.s.s.  the TP/boobies/ex-wife thing was friggin hilarious
631084
I have children, so Its not out of the question to date a woman with kids. Usually when there are chidren involved the woman is more stable and knows what type of man she wants to be with. Which is a good thing, plus when/if the relationship works out a man wins the love of not only a good woman but a beautiful child that loves him unconditionally. How do woman feel about dating a man with children?
1035223
I ask myself that. and I'm sorry to waste your time but I do not know. I am 45 and very much in love with a wonderful woman in my life. I wouldnt stray from her for the world. I have 2 daughters. I do not go around and stare at women's breast but at times it is a conscious thing not to. I have to think about not being so rude. Perhaps we as men are just wired that way and the difference is those of us who take the time to look you in the eye.? Sorry to answer with a question.
62294
Any good (as long as they are true) qualities that she has.  Does she make time to be with her kid(s)?  Does she listen to them when they have problems?  Does she make sure that they have the necessities in life?  If she is dating, is she careful about the men she brings home to them?  Do her kids seem happy to be with her?  Do they seem to feel safe with her?\n\nJust ask yourself a bunch of questions, write down your answers, then put them into a letter.
384471
How old are you? How long have you been dating? Do you see her having you kids? Can you see loving her still 50 years from now when she won't look the same?
518150
NO you SHOULD NOT take them off.  \nWhy? \nIf you do get any "winks" you'll end up telling them anyways about your children...\nSo you may as well be upfront and honest at the beginning.  \nThis way you'll meet the men you want. You don't want to meet someone who doesn't want to have anything to do with children. Correct.\nGetting everything out in the open at the begining is the best thing for any relationship.\nGood luck in the hunt. \nRemember be true to yourself and your children.
397573
Myself 14 years.  Happy going.\nAjoke for your question.\nA couple is celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary.  All the 10 Children (all married and kids) are attending the celeberation.  Lot of rush and friends, drinks etc.  The oldman by the way is seeing all these 10 sons at a time now.  He finds one among them not resembling with all the other nine.  He was restless and still sipping a drink.  He thought of asking his wife and asked her, is (our) 10th child fathered by a diffrerent man, to which the wife replied Yes my dear.  The old man was very very upset and sipped more glass of drinks.  Some how he want to know who that person is maybe one of his friends he wants to know who, abnd once again went to his wife and asked, My dear darling wife can u tell me who is that man?  Again the wife replied "YOU MY DEAR".  \n\nMoral - Dont live for longer periods after marriage or else dont celeberate wedding anniversaries after 20 years.
741300
i have no kids but the fact that we do not see many of them around makes people a bit insecure about their bits.\nand also the enhanced pics in such mags as playboy do not help coz they give a unrealistic perception of what it should look like.\ni don't think mine ism pretty and none of my friends think that theirs is pretty, just ask your man. if he likes it, does anything else matter? really?
378803
by the age of 40 she should really know her own mind, she is a mature adult not an impressionable child.  it's likely all of her relationships have been like this, she must be submissive, maybe she has never had a relationship where she felt able to have an opinion or express how she feels.\nBut to regret having children just because this man has given her that idea is out of order, it must be hurtful for the children as well.  She needs to grow up and get rid of him.  Being alone is better than being with the wrong person.  he will not give her roots and wings, he will suffocate her, he will destroy any bond she has with the children and she will end up losing them, surely he can't be worth that?