How can I get a serious lady to date in the US? I live in Nigeria, Africa?
342961
I am also from Nigeria, omo eeko/lagos. I am in the United states now so if yu know whats good for you, if you dont have a job or money to takr care of the girl, the best thing to do is wait. Thats what i'm doing, and it sucks because i know that i can get a girl but its just that I dont want, and yu wake up every day thinking if yur making the right decision. if yu want a serious date, yu better have serious money also.
117190
Try  tgpersonals.com or craigslist.org personals under misc romance\n\nGood Luck
806170
NOOO.... there is a lot of nigerian scams going on. Think about the cost to get someone here FROM NIGERIA!!!!...Also take how she is recomending you get her here under consideration. If she is asking you wire money....dont do it.... And how many WOMEN are actually willing to meet someone on the internet and come live with them...think about it and be careful... I wish you the best
991617
Sign up for free to this dating website: http://dating.iafrica.com \nload your profile, and then go to its search facility. It covers all African countries, including Kenya, with nationalities, race groups, etc.\nI am sure you will get an answer
1072025
Your best bet is to leave this journey untaken.  There are way to many scams on credit cards and email accounts coming from Nigeria.  Leave well enough alone and find an american email pal.
1162274
there are all kinds of personals and dating sites\ntry one if your so desperate to find a woman
233606
The only way to get that girl you saw was to have a Master card or Visa to purchase the memebrship online. However, may I point out to you that there are thousands of online chat rooms that have the girls of your dreams and they cost not a single cent! Why do you want to pay? Go online in a chat room that will ahve the singles/dating format too. you can talk all you want  to any girl and see if she is the right one for you. Google chat rooms. tons for your chosing.
627830
Are you educated, professional, or a  blue collar worker?  Maybe you are having a hard time because you are going after the wrong kind of woman.  Are you foreign?  I ask because your spelling is horrible and maybe the area that you live in does not want to date someone like you.  ???
733684
Let's not ascribe personality characteristics too closely to national traits. There are pleasant and unpleasant people the world over. Be aware that many African women, not just from Benin, are looking to marry Americans, Europeans and others as a way of finding a better standard of living abroad. I say this as someone who is an anti-racist campaigner, and sympathetic to their situation. However, I know of too many people (men and women) who have been fooled into a marriage that was genuine on their part, but really a sham on the part of their spouse. Sooner or later the horrible truth dawned. I talk from personal experience here too - lol. I also know of lots of successful mariages too, so it 's not all bad - just be careful, and trust your instincts. If it seems too good to be true, well that's because it is.
289178
To really get her attention ... date a cousin. Works every time it's tried - in Arkansas anyway.
532443
wow that's so kool usually it's the other way around and  you must live millions of miles away from me so that's totally outta the pic so I would suggest you just be yourself depending on where you live you should find some. But just note that black girls are more difficult to approach cause they r more fiesty but just be relaxed and go about it the same way you would with any other girl and eventually you should find one.
658758
Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
882903
You are a 'liberal', well how about the DemClub in your area of residence?\nSeriously,  you may want to further define 'your' terms of liberal and opinionated for starters.  As for educated are you limiting yourself to institutionally educated males, for that would create problems of it's own.  Having been well read and traveled may offset the formal education aspect, if you are open to that suggestion. \nHave you tried up-scale social event in or around the area in which you reside?  How about checking the 'Who's Who in America' listing?  I wouldn't suggest any of the 'dating services' nor the 'E-harmony' thing, unless you are truly that desperate.\nTo find 'men' that are educated AND sexy may be a tall order, as you know already, otherwise you'd not be looking here.\nJust how 'opinionated' are you, is it your way without healthy debate?  You may converse with me, if you choose, via IM.
1139762
Yep, you sound like you'd be a really nice guy to get to know. I'm probably too old for you, or live too far away, & I think I've given up on relationships anyhow. But you sound as if you have an awful lot to offer the right woman. I hope you find her & I wish you every happiness & every success!!!
134460
Just curious: Why do you want to date an American? Why pick a specific place? Why not find a girl you fall in love with, no matter where she's from?
552264
i would definately date you. send me an email at theinfamous_eric@yahoo.com . more than likely you live far away, but its worth a shot.
1066406
if u have girl friend in u.s.a , u have a big opportunity to go in u.s.a than UK\nu can get UK or u.s.a by scholarship,applying..\nu can get also by marriage,visiting....\nyea! search the job in u.s.a, u can get  in u.s.a  much opportunity than UK \ndon't worry  much about it.\ngood luck