help me this is a complicated long distance relationship?
354934
Well my best-friend in the whole world is currently in a long distance relationship only her boyfriend lives in Mi and she lives in AZ. They've been together almost a year and never met and their still totally in love. All i can say to help is if you really love her and want to be with her then the wait is nothing, just think after you do finally get to see and be with her nothing else will matter. You have the rest of your life to spend with someone and if shes the one then the rest of your life doesn't seem like that long. I hope this helped in some way if not I'm sorry i was just rambling on. But i do have to say if you really cant wait any longer to see and be with her surprise her one day she'll love it. Just keep doing whatever it is your doing right now shes obviously happy and I'm sure she cant wait to see you either.I think that your relationship will work and Good Luck. Love is hard to find so don't give up..
814270
It all depends on whether or not your comfortable having a long-distance relationship. if you chose the guy who lives further away, you'd have to deal with seeing the other guy all the time.
544632
Call and talk to him about it first off.  \n\nThen you need to find someone close to you because long distance relationships never work because there is always that thought that they maybe with someone else in your mind.  Relationships aren't worth the headache in that aspect at least now when you can find a comforting one close by.
68728
Omg...there is so much to say about long distance relationships...I just got out of a long distance relationship about a month and a half ago, there are many many many things you should consider before pursuing a long distance relationship....we only lived about an hour and fifteen minutes away from eachother, but there will were soo many times when I Was having a bad day and just hearing his voice WAS NOT enough!!..you are going to want and need her by yourside at times when she can't be!...there will also be a lot of long, cold and lonely nights that you have no choice but to spend by yourself.I am not knocking long distance relationships, but you should really make sure you are ready for such a big step! you will have to be a strong willed person in order to make it work,because it is not easy! there will be times when you will see other couples together hand in hand, and wish it was you and her, or maybe a happy couple on T.V, but no matter what it is you will feel the pain of not being able to be with her as often as you would like especially when couples are all around you!.. but it isnt all bad though, sometimes it is very exciting! it also depends on how often you will be able to see eachother. we used to see eachother at LEAST every other weekend if not more, but it was still super hard and lonely when we werent together! my advice to you is that if deep down in your heart you really think that you guys can make it work, then go for it, and the wisest thing i can tell you is DO NOT LET OTHER PEOPLES OPINIONS INFLUENCE YOUR DECISION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so many people will have something to say about it, and will tell you it wont work and try to discourage you, DONT get discouraged...One of things that  kept me and him together for so long is that we didnt care what the hell other people thought about what we were doing, and in this type of situation you need to do the same thing, or else its not going to work, because people can be VERY convincing sometimes, and you just might end up missing out on one of the best things in your life!
365478
I don't think I'd do anything quite yet.  You should probably wait and see what happens. I understand you're worried but if your relationship is strong, you 2 can work this out.  Some people can make long distance relationships work out, some can't.  He says he's taking you with him, do you even want to move? That's something you'll have to decide and that could give you the rest of the answers you need.\nBest of luck to you!
737798
Long distance relationships require commitment from both parties. Maybe you should call her or send her an e-mail, snail mail just to let her know that she's on your mind and that you care.
548284
Let him know this will be the challenge of how strong your relationship is, and that you think it is no problem!  \n\nOn the other hand, I lived in Europe for 7 years, it is WAY too fun and will be hard not to have "too good of a time".\n\nStay away from Majorca Spain!!!
493777
well i think long distance relationship dun wrk but since u already in it den u cud jus go on n experience it urself. da reason y long distance doesnt wrk cuz sum how probl comes lyk da kinda probl u'r in now. wen u in love or lykin sum one soo much especialy long distance relationship, u goin to feel desperate to c dat person, spendin time wit dat person or sumtime jus to b able to tlk to dat person face to face. n wen dat point come to deep it bcome frustion n dat's not gud. cuz either one of u goin to want to b c-in each otha but dere'r no way y'all can. so whoeva thinkin of it feel lyk dey shud giv up bcuz it's no point. n dey feelin r gettin tired..n tired. rite now i think u shud giv him all ur love n support. dun pressurin him animore to c u. or mayb u shud b da one who came ova dere to c him if u'r old enough to do dat. OR mayb dis whole things of him actin weird was jus so he cud break'up wit u but he hope u undastand cuz he doesnt want to hurt u. fo u to find da rite answer, u jus gotta tlk to him n ask him urself. dun b afraid...things only wrk out if u tlk about to either person..mak dem feel comfortable enough dat dey cud tell u wateva dey feel..
457666
long distance relationships are really hard to hold together but if you try hard enough it'll be alright.  i had a boyfriend that lived in germany because he was in the army.  i really thought he could be faithful to me because the whole time while he was gone, i def was.  i mean, it might not be big but i read some stuff on this girl's profile that left a comment on his myspace and it was pretty discusting.  that just let me know that he really wasn't that into me and that it just wasn't meant to be.  good luck girl.  sometimes it does work out; just very seldomly.  ♥ a l y s e
479631
Long distance relationships can work as long as two people are dedicated to each other and want it to work. The two of you are the only ones that will be able to tell if its working. If both of you are completely happy with each other and the way things are going then things are going well I would presume. :) If you truly love each other go for it cause it's more than likely going to work. :) Good luck!
493248
No, it hard to make relationship work when you are together, so you know it's hard long distance.  The person is never the person they pretend to be at a distance.
822898
A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP CAN WORK IF BOTH PEOPLE REALLY WANT  IT TO WORK OUT.BUT YOU NEED\nTO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW SHE FEEL. BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET\nSO TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT GOING ON. THEN GO FROM\nTHERE. BUT IT CAN WORK IT SELF OUT.
39344
You got to choices, and it's all up to you.\n\n1. Dont listen anything she says cause living 1 hour away from each other is not DISTANCE, believe you have no idea what a distance-relationship is. If you care for her as you say, FIGHT FOR HER, dont' let her go, if she really loves you, she'll stay with you.\n\n2. Move on... there's a milion other girls. Yeah, i know it's really hard and at this moment you probably believe that you can't live without her, than you will never be able to love anyone again and stuff like that... but believe me, in 6 months, you won't even remember her last name.
187196
What do you want out of this relationship?\nIt's long distance so it's goiing to be hard to maintain it.\nDo you just want someone to talk to privately or what?
282287
Keep the communication lines open.  I know it's difficult maintaining a long distance relationship.  My first long distance relationship didn't work.  My second one did.  I married the second one and 3 years later, we're still very much in love and happy.  Don't forget to pray.  Put God first in your lives.  The rest will follow.  God Bless!  I hope your relationship will last forever.
1159611
If you really love her then what's holding you back. Who's to say that she won't want to move with you? If you don't think a long-distance relationship would be worth trying then just break up with her. But if you think there's any chance of you guys staying together and sticking through this then keep her.
222598
First, this is a situation only you and she can solve.  It's up to the two of you.  Second, I question your feelings for each other, given the fact that you have never met.  Third, if you seriously do want to be together why can't she travel to your country?  Lastly, sometimes relationships don't work out...and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If things haven't worked in three years, chances are they won't.  Maybe you both should be looking for love a little closer to home.  Just some insight.