I love video games but sometimes I feel like i don't pay my girlfriend enough attention when I am playing.
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Thats Kool Every Guy Is Like This...She Should Be Able To Understand That Its Not All About Her...Nd Its Your Turm To Do Sumthin U Wanna Do..When She Goes Shopping With U Does She Not Pay More Attention To The Clothes Than U???..Exactly!\nBesides I Like Video Games Too Maybe U Should Find A Multi Player Game That The Both Of U Will Enjoy...Nd Its Okay Sometimes U Really Do Need To Concentrate On The Game A Lil More
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Sorry, but,... didn't you say you LOVE her?  hint hint\n\nSince you love her??, perhaps you could consider communicating with her (lovingly) your feelings of being fulfilled or the lack thereof.  By the way, you can leave out the "wanting a boyfriend" part.  Maybe YOU could initiate different things in your relationship to enhance "the setting", "the mood" of it all.  What concerns me the most is that if the relationship you have with your girlfriend is coming down to being based on whether or not she's "fulfilling" you, then ALL the reasons you're in this relationship need to be examined.  That would be the fair thing to do,...for BOTH of you.  When you see a RED FLAG waving, pay attention.  Getting a boyfriend "to fulfill you", probably wouldn't be the wisest thing to do.  Take care.
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If he doesn't care enough for you to value you more than his computer game, then why are you with him?  You should garner more respect than a game, right?  My brother used to play computer games all the time, and he was like a freeloader and a slacker.  Unless your bf is a game programmer or designer, he's basically wasting his whole day.  I know people like this and their entire lives are about the games.  They are often lazy and obsessed.  Talk to him about how you feel about his games and the way he spends all his time with the games and not with you.  You don't want him to become a vegetable.\n\nIf he doesn't respect you enough to care about how you feel, don't be with him.
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Start playing a video game that you enjoy. It will help improve your concentration.
67853
I sometimes feel that way, but I have a girlfriend, and she helps me stay sane.
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If he's a gamer than a gamer he will be for life.  You can't change that.  You can tell him that you would like to be with him more often, or go out more often or whatever.  You can't just say "all you do is play video games!" or "Stop playing that shi*".\n\nHave things planned, stuff to go out and do.  Don't just say stop playing that video game, then just sit there when he turns it off.  "Turn that off, we're going for a drink with bob and suzy!".
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no i'm female and have the same problem well occasionally i also know how to get my own way (the joys of being a girl) with my bf whether he's tired or not.
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There's nothing wrong with that at all.  My boyfriend is like that as well.  He doesn't care for sports, in fact, I watch more sports than he does.  And he's not into video games, violent or not.  Nor does he hunt.  It's perfectly normal that you're that way.  So, don't sweat it!  In fact, I find it a turn on that he's not turned on by sports.  hehe
574136
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
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My girlfriend, woodworking, reading, exercising, cooking, puzzles (word/mind and jigsaw), more stuff too, but I don't feel like typing that much.
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When she always has something better to do then to be with you.When she doesnt even care about what u want to do and there is alot of other things to but i am not that kind of gurl so i really dont know all of them.Just sit her down and have a long talk with her if she isnt playing around with u she will answer truly and she'll want to talk to u about it.
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I'm generally a quiet person, and I was very quiet around my now-girlfriend when I first met her. I think that likely drove her crazy... because she couldn't tell how I felt about her. After we hooked up and started seeing each other more often, my feelings just came through. I couldn't hold them to myself. There was a need to share them with her that I just couldn't imagine keeping inside.\n\nBut that's me - and not everyone is the same. Some people are emotionally sheltered and prefer to keep their feelings hidden away. Body language, gestures, and general mood and disposition toward you can give you clues as to how your significant other really feels. The question you need to ask, when you're finding yourself actively looking for attention like this, is whether or not you can be happy in the long term under these circumstances.\n\nPeople are tough to change, and if this is something you need, and your significant other is having a hard time dealing with that... you may need to re-evaluate your situation, or have a long and frank discussion with them regarding this.
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Find something to do that both interests you and her. Try to keep her occupied and try to make her feel comfortable and feel loved. Hope this helped, good luck!
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THAT'S the problem with guys they just don't get it! you rush into situations too soon! you never have good timing for anything!\n\nOK! I'LL try and help you out!\nhere's the plan!   the most importqant thing is you have a girlfriend right!\nnow if you want to get intimate with her, you can't really tell her that you want whetever it is you want with her!\nin other words you are making your girlfriend feel stupid ina way!\nYOU have to be everything to her, meaning good manners, sweet,loving, caring, sharing conversations and enjoying good times wih her!\nthere are certain things you can do for her to get your attention, eg, asking questions on how was your day, a walk on the beach in the moonlight when no one's there, dinner for the two, try cooking dinner for her, doing something extremely romantic for a, buy her roses so that she can be suprised and tell her that you love her but not all the hours she will get sick of it!\ncome on do something lovely, eg. buying her a gift or something that she really wants.\nthen you will get all the love you need!  you have to look for the signs! \njust be really romantic to her and in turn she would do the same!
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gurl;\nI know exactly how you feel\nmy last boyfriend..omg..now that was bad..\neveryday..even when we were on the fone..he would be playing video games..\nand everytime he got online..he would sign on AIM..and his away would say he was playnig video games..\nmen just love video games...just something they do I guess. hah.
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my girlfriend at times!!!!
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Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.