this guy that im talking to tried to snap on me because he was mad am i right to not answer his phone call?
345360
Then you should give each other time to cool and at the same time think about this guy whether is he worth you liking him.He doesn't seemed to appreciate it.Just give yourself some time and him too.
869381
Don't react.  And certainly don't OVERreact!\n\nAnswers to your questions:\n1.  He hopes that what he's doing is going to get you to react.  Any reaction from you will be interpreted as "caring".\n\n2.  Any sort of reaction.  Again, if you react you're feeding his ego.\n\n3.  No.  Altho it was stupid of him to violate the RO, there's really no real damage/injury.  On a single instance like this, NO court is going to hammer him (further feeding his ego with your reaction and lack of court action).  Ignoring it will be your best course of action since it was by phone (in person is totally different).\n\n4.  Men AND WOMEN really can be that dumb.\n\nYour best action is to be as calm, indifferent and COLD as you can.  The lack of reaction will hurt his effort.\n\nBest wishes.
980713
Is it possible he got upset with you about something? Ask him, try to get him to talk to you about it....
923497
No you were not rude, you didn't KNOW him and it would be scary if you did agree to go with him- the world is not a safe place anymore.  Don't feel bad, you did the right thing, you basically let him know that you weren't really interested.  Good job.  Rude would have been if you stopped him as soon as he started talking to you, gave him a dirty look, and told him off- that would've been rude.
642264
Be firm in your convictions. If he continues to threaten you get an order of protection or restraining order against him. \n\nThis guy obviously has issues and should seek counseling or attend anger management classes.
75788
sounds like you shouldnt have asked him in the first place if you are that parinoid about it.  And the best thing to do is just tell him straight up cause leading him on any further would just be wrong.
1173913
Text him back saying "I thought u said that u needed space?" then he should give u an answer to either stay away or not.
772823
i don't understand how is it tat u can act like u have an attitude on the phone when u claimed u DON'T have an attitude.... it's a bit confusing for me.....  but u should learn to tone down on Ur aggression... everytime u feel like u r going overboard wit it, ask him to excuse you a while.. go to the windows and breath in the fresh air n calm down... i don't know wat is the conversation between the both if u tat u haf to be aggressive abt, but sometimes try putting urself in his position, u might be able to see the point from a different view... u know u r lucky tat ur bf still wanna talk to u on the phone despite u being like tat towards him, so treasure him while it lasts ok gal?
348624
Have a girls night and make him worry about you, if he just gets pissed, tell him you would have called and told him about it but his phone was off :)
953279
He sounds like a jerk. Give it up. You know he's playing games with you, you just wanted to hear it from someone else. Yes- give it up.
1009175
A little dispute shouldn't matter but it seems to me that you both are letting pride get the best of your relationship by neither one picking up the phone to apologize.So if you really care about this person it doesn't matter whose fault it was, you should be the bigger person and call him.This way you can figure out if this little dispute is going to affect the outcome of your relationship.Good luck!!!!
688717
You surely will not get together if you both keep hanging up on one another.  Why not stop the kiddie games and communicate honestly?  Trying to make him jealous by calling his friend is not going to help- unless you want to turn them both against you.  Just muster up your courage and talk to him.
971526
Iguess there's nothing you can do but to wait. Maybe he usn;t caaling you 'cause he knows you waiting and he wants you to feel sorry. don't call him anymore. if he cares he'll call
958810
You've already answered your question.  It's in your "question"/statement.  He made your life a living hell for four years... why should you even consider letting him do that to you again.  This guy obviously needs serious mental help and you're not qualified to help.  Change your phone number so he can't text you anymore and get on with your life.  You should feel no guilt.  You tried for way too long to help this loser and he used you.  Forget about this bum and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
323741
dont call him back. and if he calls u act like u dont care!
703067
Sounds like your friend scared him off for you.  Tell your friend to STOP texting this guy on your behalf, and then find a way to tell the guy your over-anxious friend is going to leave him alone.  That's pestering someone and very immature.