What do you think about doing wrong things on the first date?
343558
Bad things???...Wrong things??\n\nBoth of those are subjective, depending on the person experiencing/doing those things...\n\nRule of thumb: if the THOUGHT of any action makes you uncomfortable, it is probably wrong for YOU...Don't do it...\nOn the other hand if the 'thing' excites or tittilates you, and it will be carried out with a CONSENTING adult, then go for it and enjoy...
135484
How would like to be treated just think of what you wuold want I don't think you can go wrong. Make sure on your first date get to know her likes and dislikes.  Most important HAVE FUN
952562
yes, my first date went loopy, nothing went right and it took me a year before i had the courage to go on another date.
1021189
A guy should be gentle, nice, and keep his hands to himself.\n\nHe should be respectful to the girl(this is a 24/7 deal but especially on the first date.)
160235
There is nothing wrong with it, what makes it bad are immature men who are really boys, that like to talk crap and degrade women so the sterotypical thing to do is wait but you can tell on the date if he is a genuine good guy and if the chenistry is there then go for it.
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
1086329
depends where he takes you lol. I know i probably wouldn't take my first date to the Cheesecake Factory but a local diner and movie or something would be nice.\n\nIt is also nice to try something active. It give you something to do if you and the other person are shy and don't talk alot. It could reduce awkward moments.
1058335
After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
506247
I can say that making the first move is never a bad descision I actually like it when the girl makes the first move despite tradition. Call him one more time or text him or whatever form of communication you chose. Then if he doesn't call you back don't cal lhim back if he waits a long time to call you back and then all of a sudden wants to go out again say you found someone else. Not alwase subtle but it gets the job done.
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
953249
Surely you can afford to take a young lady for dinner, shame on you if you are that cheap and don't want to.  It shows alot when you want to spoil someone a little, and selfishness surely says alot about someone. But later on a nice picnic a girl makes won't cost you anything, nor a walk so yes at first it doesn't hurt to spoil someone if you really like them and they are worth it. Then you can take turns.  I once went out on a first date with someone I really liked, I discovered they were overly stingey, while I am not, there was no second date.
80788
screw what men expect. i'm a guy, if you don't limit us, the possibilities are endless. i mean, at most a kiss? after all it is just a first date.
132843
On the last date I went on, we were eating at a restaurant and when we got up to leave, my date helped me put my coat on.  He was really good at it!  I made a comment about it and he said that his grandfather had taught him how.  It was a smooth little detail but it was very impressive.\n\nBy the way, in case you're wondering about the trick, he said it's to hold the coat lower than you would think.  This makes sense because it's hard to put your arm up when it's behind you.\n\nThat was a little thing, of course.  What really attracts me to a guy is a positive attitude and if he's willing to just have an open conversation with me.  If I feel like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going and on a positive note, that's a turn-off.
1010144
I don't know your culture - here this would happen at the first date without any meaning at all.\n\nGreetings from Switzerland
492892
I presume you mean sex??Well I've dated guys who don't expect that so perhaps you're dating the wrong guys!If you want to see a guy again I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date but take things slower and at a pace you're comfortable with.Have fun!
542562
Hi, here to help. First of all, I believe you are encouraging the behaviour a little. You are not completely to blame, but you are encouraging it. This is gonna sound old school, but really you should think about the old saying telling people that they should not kiss on the first date. And this is true.\n  When you kiss on the first date, or even have sex, etc. it makes you appear a little bit easy. Although guys will definitely not argue with the kiss or the sex, they still like to see a girl give them a little bit of a challenge. When you do these things on a first date, you are leaving little to the imagination. Waiting makes the heart grow fonder or something like that, is a very true statement. It is the excitement of the anticipation of waiting.\n  Personally, the first date is very awkward. It is meant for getting to know the person, and seeing if you would like to date this person for a second time. When you kiss, it leads to other things...You sound young, and if I am right, the guys that you are dating are young as well. Believe me, all guys of any age will try things when they kiss you. However, you are in control. You do not have to let the guy feel you up. You can gently place their hands back down on their sides. And if they ask why, you have the right to say you are not ready for that....And you can say this at any age too! I have done that.\n But really, I think you should not be kissing on the first date. Just try and wait, and when you have that first kiss with that special someone it will be more than worth the wait. I am sure a lot of people will not agree with me on kissing on the first date. But it does make you appear more of a lady to the man. I have gotten much more respect when I did not kiss someone on the first date. Usually after the kissing comes other things so in my mind you might as well just wait and enjoy the part of getting to know one another.\n  Love comes with getting to know someone. Unfortunately guys are not like women and are not overly emotional right away. It takes time for a guy to love. They do like the physical aspect first. Take your time girl because you have plenty of it.\n  I have kissed on the first date, and honestly, those are the guys that have not worked out...I don't know and I can't speak for everyone. But I also know that I have enjoyed the anticipation of waiting for the first kiss...\n Good luck!
1173603
There is no right or wrong answer to that question...it's up to you, her, and the moment in time.  Personally, I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with someone on a first date.  Then again, I'm really horny.