what's your biggest regret in a relationship? ..present/past?
346777
staying in an abusive situation for 20 years "for the kid's sakes"
259149
I should have worked harder 1st semester.. heck I should be working harder right now.\n\nI wish I had gotten up the guts to kiss the guy I'm dating.\n\nI don't know... I don't have many regrets because usually they're only regrets for a little while then something good happens and if the bad thing never happened, then the good thing would have never happened! There have been VERY few things in my life that I truly regret
878224
There are so many things that I've done that I'm regretful of, that I'm embarrassed about, that I'm angry over... but I wouldn't change one of them.\n\nWhat I've done in the past has made me who I am today.  Those stupid things I did were a learning experience.  Those hurtful things I said taught me a few things as well.  Not that I'm proud of doing or saying them, but I know now, that I'm *not* proud of them.  That lets me know that I don't want to do them again in the future.\n\nIt doesn't mean that I won't ever do or say something stupid (like I have in the past) again in my life...  but it does give me some depth into who I am, what I'm comfortable with, and how I feel about various behaviors I exhibit.
700434
yes me! at times i wish i had waited a little more longer to discover my partner more. i feel am married to a total stanger now and i regret it.
911488
!. What are you willing to do ??? BE VERY  CAREFUL:   Who might be ashamed/regretful either now (our 1st thought) or maybe 15-20 or more years later when all the things wished for now come back to haunt you through the way you got them!
772969
Yes, I did regret it.\n\nI think sometimes I wanted to be in love so badly that I was in love with love.\n\nAlso, I think, looking back on it, I did not really love him even though I wanted to. Then I felt I had to be honest and tell him that I did not love him. This made me feel bad because I felt like I was a liar (even though I wasn't). Also, I felt like a fool - retracting what I said - like as if I didn't know my own mind and as if I was so mixed up and confused, I don't know what love is.
32112
REGRETTFUL\nI just did it to lose it,and i did it so i was prepared for when me and my boyfriend were going to do it(didn't want to be a virgin).Well he found out,dumped me,and i have always wanted him to this day.That was in grade 9,and i am now turning 30!!
374212
One and I married him. I think that I regret not sleeping with other people before I got married, he had slept with other people before we got together and I feel sometimes like I missed out on something, but I would never do anything now...
948353
Yes, my past comes and bites me in the ass all the time...some days I wish I could have a "do over"..so I could make better choices...I know youre not feeling sorry for yourself, it's just so frustrating sometimes...like you want to scream"I'm Sorry, I'm trying my best, I'm not the same person !" Hang in there and keep making good choices and doing the right thing now...
75807
Without a doubt the best thing to ever happen to me is giving birth to my 4 sons.\n\nMy biggest regret is that my marriage didn't last until they were grown so they could have had a stable environment and perhaps fewer troubles as adults.
1027409
I would pick something that you have done in your life mistake or not, that has some how changed you for the better. People relate well with situations they are familiar with. Try something along those lines
217479
I think you can its not a simple question though. I cheated on my ex fiance with our roommate. 2 yrs ago never told her til recently. We have not been together for about a year and a half. I cheated and would never do it again but I cheated because my gf would push me away and even said why don't you go to someone else. Well I did. I never should have and am now paying the price cause I love my ex and wanted to try to work things out but now she doesnt love me. Would I ever do it again? No. Would I change the past if I could? Yes. Its not worth it to cheat. Not for you or him. If things are that bad talk about it or break up life is to short. I wish I never did it.
811180
I never lost the "former" me. \n\nI have one big regret in my life but it's a constant regret about myself as a person. When i am in the heat of the moment, i forget about everything else except how i feel. I don't think. I don't question. I just take the leap.\n\nI did it then, i do it now.\n\nI've just learned not to put myself in situations where i'll have to take the leap.\n\nI've accepted that this is my greatest weakness. I'm trying to reform it into becoming my greatest strength.
328992
There can be many answers, n I hope lot of ppl would agee with me. BUt i would give just two of the most regrettable experiences I wish not to have happen in my life:\n1) My lack of attanetion to studies inlast year of school.\n2) mY sexual relation with an elderly lady during my teens.\n\nh
362818
His lying. When I realized I was willing to share my heart and soul and he was still lying. I remember the moment well. I knew of information he didn't know I had. As we talked, I prayed in my head "Please don't let him this time Please!" He lied again and I had proof of it. Falling out of love felt like it did when I fell in. The moment went just as fast as it came.  I don't regret having had loved him. I do regret the time invested in a relationship with someone who lie just for the hell of it.  The postitive side of it is, when meeting new people I am not apprenhensive about things I want to know about.  If they feel I am invading their space, I chalk it up to they are wasting my time.
706822
Think about this. In 10 years from now, will you regret not getting to know her and doing things with her?\n\nI know I can say yes I have regrets due to ignoring my feelings about certain people and letting them slip away.
114508
in the "Regret" file..