Ok ladies...riddle me this. Why would a girl go around telling everyone that she slept with you when it never?
345517
Wow maybe she was hoping in a twisted way that it did.
264055
She's BRAGGING. But I think she has some interest in you or else she would not tell everyone about it. So why not talk to her about it. Confront her and see what she says. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain, right?\nGood Luck.
970645
if she wants you to know,she will tell you.you know we all have skeltons in out closets.maybe she likes to forget about the bad times.well if she brings it up and ask you what you think,then you should tell her,but be nice about it.just dont go digging into her past and telling everyone you meet,thats between you and her,and not anyones elses business.
868540
she may not feel comfortable telling you, or may feel like you will tell someone else.  She may also feel a little silly discussing it with you because you're younger.  It doesn't mean that she's trying to hide anything, she may just think that her friends can relate better because they're older or have already had situations that you haven't experienced yet.
920219
I had a friend a long time ago who got jealous of me and said some really mean things behind my back...... and also to me, ON THE COMPUTER. She said things that only described herself.... a s l u t , etc. She was the one who flirted with guys and slept with everyone. I just thought it was amusing when she told me that. In person, she acted like she never said any of those things and acted like we were friends. I'd ignore her.\n\nJust because you know someone for several years doesn't mean they're your friend. I learned that the hard way. Oh well.\n\nShe was easily replaceable LOL.
1166010
in my opinion any woman who wanted sex on the first date with me, regardless the age or reason. I would never sleep with nor date again. For the simple fact if she would want that and know so little about me. Would tell me she would sleep with anyone and I rather be with a woman who respected herself more and would get to know me before giving herself to me.
1126069
If the real reason is just to let people know and not to gain anything yourself, most of the time I would say it was okay.  I trusted someone for years, with my deepest secrets only to find out they were telling everyone.  No one was nice enough to tell me what she was doing behind my back.  I would have appreciated the honesty.
624038
It sounds like your guilt wants you to tell, but telling will only hurt her and make you feel better.  If it was a one night stand, let it go, otherwise someone's got to break it to her, preferably you.
892889
Seriously, why not just tell her the truth?  Just say something like 'lucky for you I don't have a girlfriend.... yet.  Maybe you can help me out *wink*'  Im the type of girl that likes to flirt but if I know a guy has a girlfriend I won't even think about dating him.  If I know he's single maybe I'll get lucky...
276835
If you told him that then he was properly warned.  He knew the game ahead of time and broke the rules.  Just tell him you aren't interested and that you two won't be sleeping together again.
725295
There was a guy in my dorm freshman year that was sleeping with me and half of the other girls in the building.  None of us minded, even though most of us weren't the slutty type.  What set him apart from the rest was not only that he was hot, and confident, he was very mature about it.  He never tried to trick anyone into bed with fake feelings, he never lied about or tried to hide that he was seeing all of us, and he didn't tell all his friends.  He also didn't show up for 2 a.m. booty calls uninvited.  He kept us all satisfied and let us come to him, or he took us out on a date when he felt like seeing us.  He never made anyone feel disrespected, and he didn't freak out when we dated other guys.  Basically, he was very confident and straightforward.  The first time we got involved, we'd just been talking, and he looked at me and said, "I'd like to take you upstairs."  Honesty, no fear of rejection . . . and when someone did say no, he still talked to her and treated her as though she hadn't, and more often than not she ended up with him eventually.  We ended up recommending him to girls who hadn't had a turn yet!  (Plus, he was always safe and prepared.)
629169
One of two things could be in play at this time:The reason she might regret sleeping with you , could be you are the yardstick she uses to measure others by{this could be good or bad} Two : She is constantly thinking of you and has feelings for you and she said what she said, because she knew it would get back to you.Just a means of opening up a line of conversation with you.
75853
I cannot agree or disagree with him.  I was not present during all of those 4 to 5 months that the couple was dating.  He says he never promised her to get into a serious relationship, but did he ever tell her that?  Did he just lead her on for the sex?  Did she ever ask him what his intentions were?  Did she just assume that because they were having sex that the relationship was serious (or would lead to more commitments)?\nAnd what business is this of yours (unless the woman was your sister)?\n... and don't you just hate it when somone answers a question with a bunch of questions?
926562
Well most girls these days either want love, or they want sex. And the one's that want sex, are "everywhere". Everywhere meaning usually you aren't the only one they are "friends with benefits" with. So they could be screwing you, and 30 other people around you. And that's NASTY. Never in my life. You don't want to catch a disease, do you? I don't know what to tell you. You better be careful.
521841
She definately wanted 'company'.  sometimes when a girl breaks up with a guy it's b/c she knows it isn't going anywhere but that doesn't change the fact that she enjoys your company.
89013
Well obviously if she won't tell you she doesn't want you to know. Sounds a little fishy to me...think she's got something to hide???
129851
I'd say she's lying, because she wanted to let you down easy. My guess would be she's interested in another guy.