Bi sexual... And Can't get it done...?
354402
Go online!  Honestly for women that is one of the few places to meet other bi/lesbian women....you can't exactly go up to some chick @ a bar or restaurant and say "hey, you're cute...wanna come home w/ me?"  Lol...go on myspace or yahoo personals or some other dating website...good luck!
638625
first off you are not bio  you are BI curious  I think that alot of women are.  I had a 3 some with my ex husband  I got hot thinking about it as well but there were rules he could not penetrate her.  It wasnt as good as you would think it would be.  I would rather have wild sex and keep the fantasy alive than doing it.  It is not that big of a deal.  Plus are you ready to watch your husband touch anf kiss and lick another?  That id=s difficult.  We actually had a 4 some anotehr couple we only performed oral on the other ppl and the guys watched us then we had sex with our partners.  I was accused of cheating that next day cuz i gave head to the other guy  I would seriously think about it and make sure that you want to take it to that level
280335
Oh my goodness I had this same problem, This is what I did. I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I CLEAR MY MIND AND BE FOCUSED WHAT I'M DOING.HAVE TO BE TURNED ON! YOU HAVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO PLEASE YOU!!!  I was w/ my ex for 5 yrs. I though I had plenty of organisms until I met my fiance SO that goes back to ya man has to know what he's doing!
714824
Why don't you buy yourself some leather chaps a leather cap and a harness and come 'out' and admit that you are sexually attracted to men and not women!!!\nJust another idea for ya!\nGood luck with it whatever you do!\n*hugs*\nJAC<\nalso sexually attracted to men especially macho, masculine, manly men!!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! Yum Yum!!!
426693
well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?
1000969
sounds like he is in denial.  he is trying to make himself enjoy sex with a woman which incidentally doesn't reflect anything about you.  you need to quit having sex with him because you are just setting yourself up for a fall.  he is at the very least bisexual.  trust me most heterosexual men would cringe at the thought of a woman doing what he asked you to do.  tell him you love him (as a friend) will support him 100% if he wants to try to come to grips with the reality that he is at the very least bisexual.  You can't make that decision for him he has to do it on his own however you can protect your own feelings and the best way to do that is to end the sexual aspect of your relationship.
1077927
Ok, lets break this down.\n\nYou're bisexual, or at least bicurious, because you like men.\n\nYour girlfriend is an obviously intelligent person and is trying to get you to just admitt to it, so she's probably figured it out herself.\n\nAnd you're what?  Worried?  Confused?  Why don't you try being honest?  Say yeah, you've thought about it and see where it leads you.  I don't know what all the drama is for, most bi men would kill for such a cool and supportive girlfriend.
829572
Contemporary research proves that the vast majority of men and women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. For some of us, it is only a quick recognition of the beauty of our own gender, as you suggest, but for others it is something we could act on in an intimate way. So be at peace. You are in good company with about 80% of the human race,
384408
I can only hope so..If they both mutually want it and enjoy it. And don't try to put a label on it (gay, bi, whatever..) just enjoy what you do.
462039
Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
478403
SOUNDS TO ME YOUR BOTH PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER! SOME PEOPLE AREN'T THAT LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO EXPRESS THEIR SEXUAL FANTASIES/NEEDS WITH THEIR PARTNERS. CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED AND KEEP ON ENJOYING!!!
422671
Is it a problem with your sexuality or a problem up in your head. If it's just your sexuality just dare to explore new things such as Homosexuality or if it's a problem in your head then speak to a psycologist or some other person like on a help line. Whatever it is i hope it is just a phase you are going through because we all go through phases in life and yours is probally just one of thise things that might pass over... Good Luck
809617
What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
29936
I have the same issue sometimes and the more you do it the more frustrated you get and so you keep trying...its a never ending cycle. It could be that you are putting too much pressure on yourself, it could be that he is too fast, slow, small, etc. Positions seem to be something that you can vary to see what works best. The first thing you have to do is stop thinking so much about it, relax. If its not a normal issue for you then there isn't anything wrong with you physically. Try some different things and don't be too hard on yourself. http://www.allsexguide.com
276699
Sit him down and tell him seriously.  Don't listen to these clowns and make it sound like you're on the bi bandwagon and cheap and sleazy.  Chances are he'll be into it, but if you tell him gently there'll be less a chance of him being shocked and feeling slighted.  AFTER you've told him gently and the two of you have talked about it like mature adults then y'all can have fun.  Good luck!
851388
You could be gay and you could be bisexual.\n\nIt's up to you to figure it out.