Why woman run away when the know I have the custody of my two girls?
342150
Some people arent ready to take on that responsibility of being a role model for someone who they might not see if they or the adults dont work out. How old are you and your children? Give me the 411 on you.
36118
Honestly, I know you are hurting but your main priority should be your child. Let the man go. I see they have restraining orders on you, did you confront them? Go seek sole custody of your daughter. That move is to protect yourself. He is not the only man on this earth. Sign the divorce papers.
568401
Run like crazy.  This chick sounds nutty.  She's obviously posessive and has no reason to be.  It can only get worse.  Get away while you can.  If she will not do as you ask her to at work, have her fired, it is not her job to censor your calls.
600769
Sounds like you are NOT a biological parent, but somehow raised the children as a custodial parent.  That is not good news for you.  Generally you have little chance to win any kind of visitation. \nI am sorry you will probably have to wait until the children reach the legal age.
1109596
Maybe this is just a mother trying to do something for her daughter, she knows that she's probably failed her in other things, the very fact that she separated must be traumatic for the kid?\nPut yourself in her place and think?\nst
793924
She will have to prove to the courts that she and the daughter would be better off moving. Most courts won't look kindly upon her picking up and moving without a guaranteed job wherever she is moving to. Tell her to get her ducks in a row, then issue a written 30 day's notice to the father outlining the wheres and whys of the move. If he fights it, she'll at the very least be equipped with a good arguement.
601036
She's playing games. And games aren't fun when they involve someones emotions.\nPerhaps she lives with her strict parents/strange relative, maybe its a work number? But probably not. If she wasn't willing to at least sort of tell you why you shouldn't call - forget her - she's not worth it. You deserve better.\nIf she's just trying to make you chase her - she should grow up and realise this type of behaviour only makes boys run - the other way!
875731
She sounds like she is a looney tune,I think you made the right choice to distance yourself from her. You probably have saved yourself a lot of grief.
912438
I  think  you  already know what you  have to do.     In  the  first place  how  do you know -besides  what she has told you -  that  her husband was abusive?      One  way or other, it is  absolutely clear to anybody with half a brain  the woman is using you ...   and  using  her  own  children as a   weapon  against you  if you  try to  stand up for yourself.    Well,   the ONLY  thing  possible  for you to do..  unless you want  to   stand there meekly  and let her destroy what should be the peace and  tranquility  of your and your husband's  lives -  is  take a  stand  and Tell  this selfish, self-centered, self-serving piece of  garbage  whom you so unfortunately  have as a daughter,  that  you have already done all -  and in fact  more -  than you have  the means to do..   She is;pulling one of the oldest  games in the book  with those who feel obliged to fall over backwards for her  because of blood relationship   .....emotional blackmail.... and you have  allowed yourselves to  fall for it hook, line, and sinker.    Enough  already.    You  can't   "save the world"  and   those are  HER children,  so you  cannot  be held  responsible for  them  either.      You  have  already allowed this outrageous situation  to go on  waaaaay  too long,  and the  very behaviour that you have  described,  defines her   exactly for what  she  really is....  a  mean,  selfish, ungrateful,  freeloading opportunist  who needs  to be made to  hit the road  before  she  succeeds in  ruining   your  and your husband's  lives,  and  your health.
170877
if she let her family get in the way then you don't need her. Just got out with friends and have a good time do what you can to keep your mind off of her. I am going through the same thing. I just keep my slef busy.
109219
WOW SOME OF THESE ANSWERS R SO SHOCKING..\nwhen kids r involved and a women by herself ..Call the police strait away keep your kids as close with you as you can .. or if you have family ring them to pick you up and get the hellll out of their ... Don't play with your life and your kids. I hope this is realy not happening to you. . GOD BLESS YOU TAKE CARE OK..I"d be sooo scared for my kids petrified.
656181
good on you for telling her off.\nThey are probably continuing more discreetly.\nFace it, they both lied to you until you found them out.
264804
You need to contact social services and a lawyer that practices family law and custody cases. If she's wanting to take that child away from you and you still intend to act like a father and be responsible for that child, you need to get some legally binding paperwork stating that you have partial custody and visitation, and child support. \n\nI'm not a lawyer but if she takes that child across state lines without you agreeing to it, and not having made any sort of legal arrangements, it's kidnapping. This is very serious and you should contact someone for help with this immediately.
603258
I wouldn't leave the state because, eventually, she will wise up and realize she needs and loves you.  That you are the only mother she has.  \n\nI would, however, not contact her (for 2 months).  I would want to know how long it would be before she missed me...but that is because I would be curious.  After 2 months, I would make contact again because I would never give up.  I am not recommending you do that...you need to decide for yourself what course of action you want to pursue.\n\nI'm sorry that your daughter is treating you like this.  You are obviously trying but she is just being obnoxious and rude.  Sounds like she is siding with her father over the separation and there is no way to know what he is telling her.  Just take it a day at a time and someday, she will wise up.
839896
She is more than likely madly in love with you and called you stupid because you cannot see the light.She wants more and figured that is she backed away a bit,that you would come running to her.She came back a second time because she felt that she could not live without you and saw that things had not changed so she hit the road again.This explains why she wanted to know if you have someone else.\n\nShe could also be pregnant and does not know how to tell you
670178
Your best bet is to go down to your sheriffs office or police department and have a restraining order placed against her.  This will not keep her from you, but if she does make another appearance, you can have her arrested.  Again this will not physically keep her from you, but it will provide you with some legal documentation.  The restraining order will also end her little "cry wolf" problem of filing false police reports. That is another thing!  She should be facing some kinda charges for filing false police reports.  Of course where I'm from, we do things a little different.  We don't play in Ga, you mess with us enough and they'll find you dead on one of these back roads.  There is one thing in life you don't mess with and that is someones family.  You go to messing with family and you liable to end up dead.
489450
Your wife caught you and her mother together, and that is why she took her life.  Don't you think you've provide enough uproar in your children's lives?  Do you really need to keep going down this road and make sure that your children are never able to have a happy home life and relationship of their own?  Do you really feel the need to make sure that your children spend the rest of their lives in therapy?  \nYou will never be a family again, their mother took her life as a result of your actions, she was their mother, and can not be replaced by their grandmother.  And subjecting them to the sick twisted relationship that you've gotten yourself involved in is not helping them.\nPersonally I hope someone in the family that you are now banished from, plucks up the idea of taking you to court and prove you an unfit parent and get those children away from you.  Your not mentally sound if you really truly believe that your wife has forgiven you.