What is the feeling of first sex?does it hurts either of the partners?
341587
it depends what kind of sex technique they are using..try to specify
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
337661
I wouldn't know, I was raped when I was a little girl & so my first time at 16 did not feel like it hurt. That's too bad to have had that taken away. Oh well, life goes on. I'm sure it hurts though, and the anxiety of the moment probably doesn't help either.
250666
that depends;not neccessarily.some hymens just break.maybe it will hurt the first time you make love,but I hope that your partner will be as gentle as possible so that you won`t feel a thing and that you willl enjoy.take care girl.
69922
YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
1125831
Like others have said, it's not going to be comfortable at all the first time.  TV and the media have made things out to be that your first time is going to be this magical time and you'll orgasm.  The truth is that most girls don't orgasm during sex for the first few times.  Don't be discouraged though, because as you get to know each others bodies and what feels good to both of you, you will get better at it.  I admire what you guys did.  Good luck!!!
638750
my first time was completely painless.  why?  cause the guy was tiny, i'm talking pinky finger.  so it wasn't a problem for me.  good luck!
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
637799
first time really hurts but after that u get used and the pain disappears
422536
For me its a turn on beacause she will experience the special moment with me.  You know,  it is special.   Sex will probably be the same, but feeling wise it will be different.  Word of advise, if youre a virgin, wait until you really find someone worth it, cause it might hurt u otherwise if its not special.
443801
however much you and your partner can handle. Just be considerate of how your partner is feeling also. stuff down there can get sensitive and it would start to hurt.  just don't overdue it
1084194
Virgins on a wedding night are rare, indeed!  I was one.  Many people had some good advice for you, but there's something I don't agree with.  Just because your fiancé has had sex, doesn't make him an experienced lover.  The bottom line is that he's not yet had sex with YOU...therefore, he is inexperienced.  Every woman is different.  \n\nYour fear is most likely rooted in 1) the unknown...the "big mystery;" and 2) ignorance (I don't mean this in a bad or critical way.  I'll explain what I mean.)\n\nThe "unknown" will remain that way until you've joined with your husband.  But even after that first time, it will *still* be mysterious because you'll both have SO MUCH to learn about each other and about yourselves.  What you like, what you dislike, what really gets you going, what makes you giggle, etc.  Have fun learning all that stuff!  You're in this together.  Communicate with each other.  :)   \n\nIgnorance - Maybe you're scared in part because you have no idea what to expect.  Maybe you don't know your own body yet. This isn't something to be ashamed of; it's just a matter of fact.  The remedy for this is education.  You and your fiance should read about and discuss together what to expect.  How a man's body works, how a woman's body works, etc.  Talk with each other about your fears, expectations, desires.  And honey, do yourself a favor.  Examine your body.  Use a mirror if you have to, but get comfortable with yourself.  The more comfortable you are with yourself, and the more you understand about you and your husband, the more confident you'll be that first time around and the more fun you'll have exploring!  ; )  \n\nNow everybody told me I'd feel pain the first time.  I didn't.  Not a bit.  That was partly because I had umm...can I say this on here?  Well, I had an accident as a child that did away with "the veil that causes pain."  You know what I mean.  But sex can still be painful if you are not properly prepared...i.e. turned on.  This is where reading a book on the subject can help you.  Understanding precisely how your body functions internally and externally goes a long way to dispelling some of the mystery and fear.  And if you're properly "prepared," it's not going to hurt. \n\nSo, read together, talk together, talk to close trusted friends, and then finally relax and give each other the freedom to explore and learn.  Wishing you joy and much love.  : )
11791
i have never done it, but i am guessing yea. everyone says it feels good. really, really good.\nscientifically, it should feel good. because your genitals are very sensative and should normally feel good if anything stimulates it. and just the thought that you are having sex, would probably make you feel good too.
141160
My understanding is that for most girls, sex hurts the first time. There are things you can do to help though. You can use your fingers to stretch some, letting yourself get used to something being inside and holding it open. Toys are a good option that allow you to control what is good for you and what you're ready for. \n\nRegarding the condom - Yes, sex feels good with a condom. I agree with another poster, that sex feels even better without one too. Just make sure that if you're going without that you're prepared for any of the side effects pregnancy or disease. I wouldn't recommend going without until you know you're going to be with the person for the long haul.
445976
I was really lucky. The first time I had sex it was with my best friend. We where both virgins and it was really bad for both of it. But it was fun to explore each other because we both knew each other really well and we are still really close friends today and can talk about anything. Many people don't have that in their life and so I can understand why you are asking this question. You will know, when you know. It can happen at anytime. You can plan a certain night for it to happen or it might just come as a surprise. You might want to wait a little longer. And after its all done. Even if it was planned you still might have regrets. But don't worry. Its a common thing among many teens and young adults. Don't be afraid to talk about with people.\n\nThis is a website full of first time sex stories:
936886
It's normal to be nervous! God knows that I was. But it's not as bad as all my friends tried to make it out to be! The first time he enters, it's going to hurt a little bit, but after a couple of minutes, it's fine... Or it was for me... Just try to relax, have fun, but make sure it's with someone special and not just a one night fling. That will make it much more memorable for you!  So relax, have fun, but also, be safe!! Cheers!!
993397
It is different for each girl.  My first time did not hurt and I did not bleed, but I know others that had pain and a lot of bleeding.  What you need to do is make sure you have a partner who loves you enough to be patient and go slow.  They may even need to stop before they finish.  It is important to be with someone you trust and love, take the time to make the right decision.  If you aren't sure, don't do it.