what should you do if your happier with someone else than your boyfriend?
343221
if your happier then with someone else then go for but what happen if the other person is worse in love then you thought and want to go back to b/f but  wont take you back what then? think long and hard
548884
If you are not happy in the relationship then you should get out of it.Dont stay with a person and then cheat on them and justify it by saying"oh but i wasnt happy",have some respect.
532921
if you and your bf are that close then you should have no question about this other guy.  Obviously you think about this other guy if your worried about cheating on your current beau.  I say lose the bf before you do something to hurt him if you really like this other guy.  Your bf will respect you much more after you're up front with him rather than finding out that you're being a tramp behind his back and trying to conceal it.
92539
If youlove your boyfriend then you stay with him but make sure that the other dude kinda knows whats up in case anything goes wrong with you current dude.  thas what i would do if i was a chick.
273601
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
606834
spend time with my boyfriend.
277674
Are you happy with him? if you are then try o t make things a little more fun. spice things up.  But if your not happy then get out of the relationship b/c life is too short to be unhappy.
411782
as long as your mind is on him and nothing else. if you still have feelings for him or is it just that you were together for a long time and feel more comfortable with your old boyfriend. try to do the same things with the new guy so you will feel comfortable with him/
371006
be okay with who you are and where you are at in life.  If you love him then there shouldn't be a time where you aren't happy with his success because if you are going to be with him forever then his success is going to be your success.  Don't compare the two of you because it will eventually lead to being apart forever.
49206
One can feel attracted towards other persons while you are in a relationship. What matters is if you act about those feelings or not. Think about what you currently have with your boyfriend, do you really love him, do you see him as part of your future? If your answers are yes, then nevermind about the other person you are liking, just stick to your love. If the answers are no, well you should have a sincere conversation with your boyfriend to see where are you going with the relationship.
1011731
He's your boyfriend - if you honestly can't answer that yourself, then maybe you're better off without each other anyway. Sorry - harsh but true.
451911
definately tell your boyfriend how you feel. tell him that you would like to hang out with the friend and the kids and be included in the activities. Tell him your concerns. \n\nHe might just say that maybe he does have feelings for him, but it's not like anything would happen because the other guy is straight. of course this still hurts alot, if not worse.\n\nMaybe you could find a friend of your own. If your attention is all the sudden on someone else other than your boyfriend, it might get his attention, plus you will be happier because you won't be thinking about it the whole time. Your friend wouldn't have to be another guy, it could be a girlfriend. I definately suggest not to make it more than just friends though, because that would most likely be out of spite and just hurt you and your boyfriend way more. \n\ntell your boyfriend how you feel, see what he does. just play it cool. make some new friends. best of luck hun!!
1147344
Depends on if you have the same feelings. If you do, then explore if your relationship with your new significant other is healthy, and if you don't then just tell him the truth! :)
309960
If you are in a relationship, you have to do what it is that you think is best. If your boyfriend your with now is not where your heart is, why are you wasting his and your time, move on because it is not fair. It seems as if you want your cake and to eat it too.  You have to be fair to yourself and to your boyfriend and to your ex. Follow your heart.
298800
i was in the same situation!!go with your heart.who will make you happier??
170721
If loving him is more important to you than how harmonious your relationship is, if how he treats you the rest of the time makes you more happy than his cheating makes you unhappy, you're probably fine and only need to find something to do on those rare occasions when you find out he cheated on you.  Um, I don't know... work helps.\n\nBut if your boyfriend has cheated on you more than once and your question aims at finding a way for you to change him or convince him to do something, then the other answerers are right, I'm afraid.  I think it's time for you to stop and think if being alone for a while might possibly be better for your self-respect than being in a one-sided relationship.  Good luck!
1175702
Do activites that you enjoyed before being in a relationship with him.  Do things you like.  Then, add in another boyfriend after you have had some time to yourself.  Hope this helps.