I know Im doing something wrong by flirting with another guy even if I love my man to death why do I do that?
354796
It is the fantasy of the unknown.  You know your current lover.  But someone you don't know???  Maybe they listen better, would make you laugh more, please you more...  Everyone does it even those in really healthy relationships.  The problem comes when you allow this fantasy to become more than that.  Don't let it cross in the realm of possibility.  \n\nThe truth of every relationship is the rule of 10.  Every relationship has 10 things in it (at least) that you will not like.  Going from one relationship to another just means you are just trading one set of problems for another.  Find the 10 that you can live with.  \n\nHowever, there are at least 10 things that you will enjoy in every true relationship.  Find ways to magnify these things.  The qualities of the "love of your life" that made you fall in love with them in the first place are there.  Sometimes you just have to rediscover them.\n\nThe exception, of course, is if you are in an unhealthy or abusive relationship.  It's ok to give up your independence but not your individuality.\n\nGood luck with your current relationship.
361326
If you are not in Love with this man, or if you care less for your self, then you should go your way, or stay taking a chance on ending your life.  Enjoy the single life.  A man who Cheats against you is like having your enemy next to you.  Cheating is bad and it threatens your life.  There are too many things that can happen when one partner cheats against the other.  Sorry is not the issue. Do he/she understand the nature of trust, honesty and caring.  Not just to say, yes, I can now be trusted.  No, they must understand that playing with your life is no joke.  Good luck.......
481949
Neither of you love each other since you both cheated, whether it was for plasure or revenge it doesnt matter. This is a mentally dangerous situation as that he has become a habit. Habits are hard to break especially the ones that last for years. You have been doing this for so long that you cant remember what life was like before him. You deserve better. Unfortunately you cant listen to your heart on this one. Leave. Does it feel good knowing he might have been inside another woman hours earlier without protection then inside you? Do you always want to have that feeling? Search your soul and find your courage to whats right for your emotional and mental future.
450772
Haha, I too myself have had similiar relationships. First of all, you guys enjoy making each other mad because both of you have a lot of feelings for each other. It's not that you guys mean to harm one another, it's just another method of "flirting". The both of you can try talking things out and see if you two can get serious. If you really want to get into a relationship & he cares how you feel, then you guys may "soften up". If he doesn't want to, then just continue the way you both are, as long as it does not bring harm.
699067
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing but I say that you are hurting someone ... it is yourself since you have to question you motives and you love this person.
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
44559
They simply say this statement because they want to keep you holding on to their balls but really they are afraid of commitment and don't want to let you know because they know they will lose you. I think if they flirt and talk to other women though, you should not distrust them. I think flirting is nature and I don't care what anyone says, everyone does it from time to time. So go out there and do it in front of him and see what he has to say about it.
116447
Sometimes somedays are just bad days.  Don't let it get to you.  \n\nFlirting means nothing.  Everyone does it.  Just because I flirt with someone's wife means squat.  She's not jumping my bones.  She's definitely not taking me serious.  I'm not thinking whether she likes me or not.
833316
man...this is a toughy....he sux man why in the world would he do that n e way..and in fornt of you..HE HAS THE NERVE!!!!!\n\n\nyeah but i think you SHOULD flirt with a certain someone...rite in front of HIM....if that doesnt work....then see what his problem is ,...
928056
I think most people would consider this to be cheating. No you aren't going out and actually doing it, there's still that feeling of betrayal. I would suggest that you stop doing it, so that your partner doesn't find out and end up getting angry. If you enjoy doing it, try doing it with your partner, you guys might find out a lot of new things about eachother. \n\nGood Luck!
570880
Don't worry. It is not wrong.\n\nYou can be in love with a person, and likes (and be liked by) several peoples too.\n\nIt can be not so good if you try to get more from this other people.\n\nDefinitely it is wrong if you cheat your loved one if a relationship exists.
247968
Because you need to spend time with them as you love them as friends and that is special,so don't worry that you are doing anything wrong as your not.We all have special friends to whom we share many things and to think that love will come between that or to expect your love to give this up is selfish and unjustifiable.You can enjoy both but remember that love is a two way street.
736959
I would imagine that part of why you guys are so close is that there is little chance of anything happening between you.  You are married, he is gay.  There is a line between you that keeps you honest.  \n\nI have always been more flirtatious with women who are attached because I didn't feel anything for them and I knew that they didn't feel anything for me.  I didn't have anything to worry about.  When I was with a woman who I had feelings for, I acted differently, didn't want to make too big a fool out of myself.\n\nYou may want to work on strengthening things with your husband.  Try flirting with him, like before you were married.  Surprise him with a romantic candlelit dinner one evening.  Maybe you can turn things around on the home front
691519
If you feel secure that you are not flirting with him, then don't let those comments bother you.  However, if you would just like to consider their opinion for a while, try to think back at some of the things you did that may have given them the impression you were flirting.  And then you can try to modify those actions.
361556
Don't dress provocatively and maybe people won't flirt.\nMaybe you are not close enough with your man and letting others slide in.\nMaybe you are hanging out in the wrong places or with the wrong people.
637419
you don't love him or you wouldn't have cheated on him. You are just feeling jealous cause he wants someone else and not you. Leave the guy alone.
480807
Flirting is fun - go ahead and enjoy it.  (Though if your b/f catches you at it you might just get a spanking.)