Why do girls say they love you, but only come around when they want it..or need something?
343800
cause girls are lying, caniving, brain washed man abusers...
685010
You can't win with these girls.. If you are shy most women don't esspecially like it.. If you show too much interest then they say your too needy, desperate or clingy.. They are just never satisfied.
200576
What do you mean for what they got? You probably have something they don't and want it or tease because they REALLY want it.
40655
Personally, I am very cautious and only say it when I mean it, because somehow it does scare most men.  In my opinion (just my opinion), some women are insecure and feel if they say that, it will show that they are giving affection to only YOU, that one special man.  Just like men, women aren't always honest and sometimes say what they think the man may want to hear or that it will benefit them in some way.
373889
Share your feelings with her. Then listen to what she has to say. If she says she loves you and wants to be serious, then it is time to evaluate her actions. If she does what it takes to make you feel loved, and she accepts your love in return, there may be a future for you and her.
503546
Well it sounds like she's falling in love with you!I don't think she'd say those things if there wasn't any meaning behind it!Maybe you should consider asking her this question because she's the only one who knows how she feels because you won't know any more than you do now by asking strangers on the internet!It does sound like she loves you though!
105472
Well girls find the love thing a chore and she probably does love you but it takes some time to be sure of the love she has for you.
838994
Hmm...this is a tough one!  Everyone shows their love in different ways and everyone needs different amounts of "me" time.  If I guy was going to use you, he would be using you for sex.  If you think the only time he wants you around is followed by sex, then YES...you are being used. If he really cares about you, trying COMMUNICATING with him!!
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
382084
A lot of times it's because they WANT you to be with whom you really like. So it excites them. People like to feel needed and helpful. That's why a lot of times they will run and tell the person. It's not to embarrass you even though it does! The next time someone does that to you just know it's because they genuinely do care for you and they just want you to be happy!
941531
Women are completely messed up in the head.  They only want things that they can't have.  By sending stuff to them and being nice they realize that they can have you and that makes them feel like their nothing special.  You must first show them that your'e special and get their attention by doing something funny, unique, or impressive all while acting disinterested.  Then pay them some attention and then only start being nice to them after they agree to go out with you.  Even then do not be overbearing just kinda act like theyre ok and then theyll be dying for attention and then in turn begin to develop an affection toward you.
609917
Depending for what reason you feel they dont love you, you can only be yourself and give it time.Maybe they are just scared.At the end of the day you want someone to love you for who you are and not what they want you to be,dont let these worrys ruin the happines you feel cus in the end, what will be will be.
617312
you will know it when it happens just when guys are like i love u somtimes they said it bc they think if they say it to a girl that makes them want to have sex so just be carful
371151
Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
672000
Fact is you have to move on it is obvious even to me you are being used why should they show commitment when you are putty in their hands whenever they feel like coming round. There is a saying over here that springs to mind "Treat em mean to keep them keen"
709428
that's because guys know girls hang on, many put up with a lot of stuff they don't have to out of love and guys think this means the girl is always gonna be there in the morning until its to late and she rolls out then their like "I'm sorry baby... I didn't mean it... I love you... Next time I..." and girls fall for it out of love or stupidity when most of the time the guy never learns and only ends up doing the same thing all over again