What to do if i can not achieve happiness? Even if your a little suicidal.?
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Keep trying and don't ever give up.  Don't do drugs.  If you do, get clean.  This has worked for me  :-)  Hang in there!
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First of all, listen to the mystic man!  He is absolutely right.  Thoughts of suicide are frequent in times of desperation and anger.  It isn't a way out, it's a way into something that you know nothing about.  It feels like you are saying to the people who have failed you, "See!  Look what you finally did!!  Don't you feel terrible about the way you made my life so unhappy?"  It's a feeling like you will get the last word.  It won't be viewed that way by your friends and family.  They will say things like, "We did the best we could, we can't help it if he/she went crazy and did something like this.  He / she must have  been on drugs or in the wrong crowd."  Then you will never have your chance to prove them wrong!!    \n\nBe strong for now, we never know why we are put through the things that we are put through.  Later in life, maybe you can help some one in a position like yourself.  You can overcome what is going on now.  DO NOT let them win by breaking who you really are.  I am e-mailable, feel free to e-mail me if you wish, I just hate to see some one give up when you haven't really even started your life yet.   \n Please call one of the hotlines if you think you are in need to that one of the other people listed for you.  Just do not do anything rash that you will regret.  You may have a great future waiting for you!!   Most strong people who are very successful are that way for a reason.  You would be surprised at the people who over came the past and went on to have a life filled with success and happiness.
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Please, please, please don't kill yourself!  You may feel so hopeless and sad, but killing yourself is not the answer.  You are suffering from depression.  Depression is a disease, it is a chemical imbalance in your brain that can be fixed, sometimes with medication, sometimes just with counseling!  If you have health insurance, please go to your doctor right away and tell him or her how your feel.  He or she will send you to a psychiatrists who can help you.  \n\nYou put this question in religion and spirituality, so I assume you are religious.  If you can't get to a doctor please go to your place of worship and ask your rabbi/priest/etc to help you.  They may be a counselor, or they may know one who can help you for free or for very little cost.  Even if you do have health insurance, if you  are religious you should go to your place of worship because your rabbi/priest/etc might be able to help you by getting you more involved in church activities or other activities where you can make friends.\n\nIf you ever feel that you want to kill yourself, please call a suicide hot line instead.  The people on suicide hot lines can help you find hope, get help, and stay alive!\n\nGood luck, I hope you will keep posting so we know you are OK!
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1. Live life to the fullest. Love and care for the people near to you, there smile will make you happy and your life will become enjoyable.\n2. Try every possible thing in your life , but remaining in limits.\n3. Share your feelings with your better half only.
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What looks like a mountain of trouble and heartache today, may be just a little bump in the road tomorrow. You must see a Doctor. Do what the doctor tells you. Depression is real, it is dangerous...it is treatable. Believe me, I suffer from it myself. You have to want to survive, believe in the goodness of yourself. Your family loves you. They may not understand you...but then, no one is ever completely understood by their loved ones! Do you understand them?  We are all unique in our own special ways!\nSee, you have come to this site for help...that is a wonderful thing,,,you are reaching out for help...I am so proud of you! Now, go a step further, go to someone else, get a doctor. Tell someone who can get you to real help. You are in a survival mode...be your own best friend! Suicide is not the answer...get help right now...
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Praying doesn't work.\n\nGo seek a psychiatrist or counselor for help.\n\nCheck yourself into a hospital if you feel suicidal.\n\nBe with family and friends who will support you.\n\nJust don't be alone. \n\nGo out for a walk. \n\nPlay with your pets (great emotional support), watch TV. \n\nDo something to occupy your time. Now.
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Hello! Can understand what you mean. Have not got too much self-esteem neither... but I have come to accept that it is not okay for me to feel that way somehow. I want to change it. Think one really needs to decide deep within to change it. There are many beautiful suggestions here. A counsellour I saw some time ago told me that I should say out loud "I am a wrothwhile person and I deserve to be happy." ... and it worked. Just that I became kind of lazy :o) . What might help you as well is the link below. It might seem childish but it really does help. Enjoy it and good luck to feeling better toward yourself :-) !
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First and fore most stay true to your feelings. You don't have to be cheerful if that's not the way you feel. There's nothing wrong with feeling sad or depressed.\n\nThe more that you are willing to be at one with whatever you are feeling the sooner it passes.  I find that when I do this I feel a sense of relief and peace. Inother words, don't fight the feeling or it will persist.\n\nLook inside and ask yourself what is troubling you?  I find writing feelings out on paper is very helpful.\n\nDo you have a trusted friend you can talk to?\n\nIs there anything you can do about the things that are troubling you? \n\nTake this as an opportunity to get to know yourself better and raise yourself awareness.
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I'll tell you the problem. It's your age. It is fairly well known that people all over the world get a little depressed at this age.\nTry a foreign holiday. Without anyone. Summertime is good, go now. Flying is exciting - and cheap. Try areas that you can speak the language fluently. Get as much beer as possible ( spirits may harm ). Travel light; take minimum - in most countries laundrettes are plentiful. Take change of footware. Write  home. Telephone only when happy. Talk to as many girls as makes you happy. Ignore all males - they are not natural nurses.\nJoin in what you are good at only when happy. Eat less, drink more. Do not worry about spending too much. Take all forms of obtaining money. Walk more. Think of evil things to do to your enemies. Put those off until they are legal. Do not insult the locals. Smile more. Be glad you are not working. A month works for me. Grit your teeth - it's everybody else that's the problem.
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You may have some depression.  Right now, just think about all of the things that are not making you want to commit suicide.  Look around the room, is your computer making you want to commit suicide, is the window making you want to commit suicide?  Doing this is a good way to refocus your attention to something more positive or at least neutral.\n\nAlso, think to yourself about positive statements that you can say to yourself in place of your suicidal thoughts.  Think about what you could say in your mind that would feel true to you.  Make a list and look at it when you're feeling suicidal.  If you feel like you need immediate help, call a suicide hotline.  Look up suicide hotline on google or in your phone book and you should find people who will give you immediate help.\n\nIn the longer term, I'd recommend that you seek treatment for your depression and/or suicidal thoughts.  A psychiatrist and a therapist can be very valuable.
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The fact that you asked the questions shows that you have doubts about committing suicide and that means that deep down you know that there is something to live for. I've seriously comtemplated suicide before and I don't think anything in particular convinced me not to do it, I just held on to what little hope I did have and kept telling myself that things would change and get better. If you need to talk to someone directly, you can look in your local yellow pages for a suicide hotline. Or if you'd rather email someone you can send anonymous email to the Befrienders http://www.befrienders.org/support/email.php You will get a personal response and they can help you sort through some of your feelings. Please don't commit suicide. As dark as things may be for you now, they can and will get better, even if you can't see that right now. Try to think of some things that you like in life or hobbies that you have. Pray, meditate, exercise, read, just keep yourself occupied with things you enjoy so you don't focus so much on what's making you suicidal.
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I'll always reward myself with little present, spend myself to watch moving "egg: funny movie, meaning full movie", get a close friend go traveling...etc. but what important is yourself must think positively, make yourself happy, do the thing that can make yourself happy. if you can switch your mood positively. go to find a good book to "clean" your sad & lonly heart. Be happy, coz there r still someone care about you.
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Is there someone in your family you can talk to about how you're feeling? A close friend? If not, there are hot lines you can call where they have experts available to help you, and help you find solutions to your problems. When people talk about killing themselves, it's usually a cry for help. You need to seek out that help (you've already taken the first step.) There are experts with a lot of experience that can honestly help you deal with whatever pressures, difficulties, or depression is causing you to feel this way. A lot of people have felt exactly the same way you are feeling, and have gotten through it. You're definitely not alone, and happiness is not something that is unattainable, even though it may seem that way now. I wish I could offer you better advice. I certainly know how you feel.
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It is probably a good idea to seek out some therapy. There may be some underlying issues as to why you feel so depressed and there are a lot of options available to aid with this situation. If you would like further assistance with help, please email me.
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your life is your own to make the best of.\ni would think you would want to be happy as best as you could in a world that has so many flaws. so now...answer your own question what is your goal in this life? do want to spend it making someone else happy? or are you committed to making yourself happy?remember the happier you are the better postion you are in to spread happiness around you and your enviornment
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Talk to someone....call a free help line. Talk to someone before doing something drastic. Suicide is a selfish choice - look at all those that you would leave behind. I strongly urge you to talk to someone...give it a shot. It takes no effort to make a call.
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I've so been there.  A treatment center would definately be a good idea.  It would take you out of your usual environs, maybe get you sorted out with some medication, and be constantly monitored.  Ultimately, though, its up to you.  You need to decide to love yourself, and know that you deserve to be happy!