Why do people get mad at me when I am just being honest?
336819
because most people cant/ don't want to handle the truth. but there is a difference from being honest and just rude. so your going to have to find out when you need to shut your mouth and when to spice up the truth a little
110786
Everyone gets upset and says things they don't mean. At least you're a big enough person to apologize. A lot of people never admit when they're wrong let alone apologize. I DO respect that in a person. It says you have a good heart. God bless.=)
840701
I usually do that with my best friends, and if I don't, they'd think I got mad with them. Also I'd think there's something wrong if they don't say that to me. we say that frankly, and we feel happy to hear that. however, it is not acceptable to be told to some one who doesn't have strong relationship with you.
178704
Well, we can't understand what you are talking about . . . it you keep deleting your question . . . because you don't like how the other people are answering.\n\nMe, at times, I can be rude . . . especially . . . when other people give people wrong advice and it is the only way I could get their attention.  Sometimes I can be rude . . . because I am an a*hole too . . . \n\nAnd I am serious too.
409450
Yes, you are.  You can be hurt and upset but you have no right to be mad.  She was honest with you and didn't cheat on you.  That is just life and you can't be mad at someone just because you don't like how things turned out.
947022
You're obviously doing something to upset someone somewhere - even if you aren't doing it on purpose. It happens here on Y!Answers too, but life's too short to actually worry about it!\n\nRawlyn.
943427
because some people can just be harrassing.  I have allowed people to contact me but sometimes I regret it.  Most of the time, people just want to discuss and answer or question and though they disagree- the discussions are reasonable and respectful, but I have had some that just want to send an insulting and hate filled message regarding something I said.  I generally don't answer them back but I really don't appreciate getting them- I don't treat people like that.  Some people don't want to deal with this at all and I don't blame them, it is their right to privacy and to not be harrassed.
487762
The only logic behind it is people will always happily tell you that you look great because they are making sure you dont look better than them. Its a fickle old world and will never change but at least you can get yourself wiser to the fact.\nMe? I always tell the truth no matter how much it offends people because i actually get more fun out of that. (instead of pissing up their backs) and because i'm evil :)
13911
I am really sarcastic and sometimes a bit mean to people. I am really going to try and stop that, and try to think before something smart comes out my mouth. I also want to learn how to be more comfortable with my body to please my guy( so I joined the gym last month).
755209
As honest as you can, or just avoid them. Rude people usually find out the hard way. People call me rude but I like to be honest. There is a difference. Never hurt someones feelings on purpose, but never lie to them either.
1007579
Because they want a response out of you, they want to believe that it hurts you by them not talking to you, sounds silly doesn't it lol
1102666
On the contrary you are a very nice sensitive person. Fearing confrontation is not a bad thing, but be sure not to clam up when people are being nice to you.
477760
You already helped yourself! If your asking for help then you must not be that hateful! A truly hateful person would never think about getting advice. Your already strong and I don't think you hate.When you hurt really bad you build up a lot of anger, that is normal. I think you are mixing up and confusing your emotions. You are probably very hurt and angry it's normal to feel hateful sometimes.
311632
i understand u.. i hate it when people dont tell me the truth or hide everything behind a lie.. but u know what? it's no me the one lying.. it's not me being dishonest.. i know i deserve something better.. i know i wont change ... it hurts.. like it always does in any type of situation.. but things only happen for the bettter... we have to learn to deal with that cause it's going to happen a lot of times... we have to keep on going with what we have.. with what we care for... i'm listening to some cool songs and laughing at my assistant here... he's listening to blues and sings like he's the best but he sucks ass!!... :P
1013905
Be who you are.  Learn to let it slide off you.  When someone insults you, either don't answer at all, or shrug like so what.  You don't have to make excuses for who you are, or feel bad about it.
144269
sounds as if they are jealous of something about you, so they try to make you angry to compromise yourself in some way, you know.. to make you look bad in front others.
251274
I am one of those people who speak my mind, i am painfully honest to people. I tell the truth, alot of people don't like me becase of that, I don't speak to be liked, I speak my mind. If they don't like me, keep away from me, easy as said.