what does this meen they are saying what they want to say, then saying what they think they need to say.  but?
352106
they're saying what they want to say as in saying what really comes form their heart, but saying what they need to say as in saying what they think you'd like to here...they don't want to make the wrong move so they usually say what they think they need to say, until they are comfortable around a girl long enough that they can just say want they want to say.
466268
what are you trying to say?
246531
You need to explain what you mean and them maybe you'd get an answer to your question.
278616
Cuz they can't help it?\nFor attention?\nBad bra?\nBreasts have a mind of their own?\n\nIt all depends!\nWhat are you trying to say, anyway???
168872
They aren't thinking straight, or they don't know what they're talking about.
691368
Sound as if you need to talk.*\n\nMaybe alot of confusion can be worked out.
802508
what I always try to teach my kids is before you speak think, \n1- how will it be taken, \n2- is it something that even needs to be said, \n3- is it something that can be taken wrong, \n4- is it something that if it were said to you how would you take it or feel.
262572
How does it feel to want?\n\n\nSo... do you have a question to ask, or do you just making statements about what you want?
487170
wish i knew what you're trying to say
382048
When you ask someone a question it is normally to validate what you already know. \nWhen someone says it thats what they want to hear
788766
its confusing \npls ask clearly
86074
what the heck are you trying to say?
881800
It literally means, "What do these people dedicate themselves to?" but it's really asking, "What do these people do for a living?"\n\nThe second line just says, "Write your answer to each question."
55073
What's the question? This sounds more like a statement.
50284
Listen to what they have to say,
210843
Knowing what to say and when to say it.  It's all about timing.
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Some people really do mean it, but I believe the majority of people say it just to be polite. At least their mind is in the right place in trying to be considerate to a person. I'd say 50% of our daily speech is occupied saying to others what we think they want to hear, but I'm just guessing on the percentage.