Guys what do you think to be in long distance relationship?????
349896
Its tough. Ive been in one for 5 years now.  It takes sacrifice, patience and dedication.  I am currently engaged and don't regret any of it.  You have to be strong and willing to talk on the phone just about every... day.
259139
well actually there is. the good side about long distance relationship is you'll both get to trust each other more and that it would test how much you love each other. and the best part of it is when you get through this, its a never ending bond between you. as long as there is no sidelines while each one of you are away.\n\nthe bad news about long distance relationship is that it doesnt work for everyone. maybe for some but dont be so sure that he/she didnt make out with someone else. loneliness is one of the most devastating feeling that can destroy a good or even a perfect relationship.\n\nbeen there a couple of times. tried it 3 times with the same girl but still it didnt work. and i assure you we were really both inlove that time since we were still in highschool. if you total it up, we were loving each other for 10 years but the distance and loneliness killed our relationship. and mostly its my fault coz and i admit that. sorry.
514745
long distance relationships almost ALWAYS work because they are much easier than REAL relationships where you gotta deal w the person each day. Long distance is easy cause you go visit for 3 days or so, and just when it starts getting tough...it is time to come home. How to keep it working? Just talk once in a while, maybe send a card once in a while...nothing should ever really come up that breaks you up...it can last forever without too much work.
939840
For a long distance relationship it is about trust first of all have to just be yourself and enjoy your other half I'm in a long distance relationship my self we talk for hrs during the week and see each other most weekends only 185 miles away so nice to see her but hard to leave for work just have fun that will made it all good for the both of you.
211580
An easy way to tell if a person in general is or isn't into long distance relationships is determining how responsive the other person is to your type of correspondance (that is, email or letters). I don't believe it is harder for guys, in fact, I would think that many guys in todays society would actually prefer the safety found in a distance based relationship.
991322
How long will you be "far away"...?\nCause that makes a difference in how realistic it is...\nI'm currently away from my guy too...\nBut only for a couple of months.\nIf your thing is permanent, then my honest suggestion\nWould be either move to him, or move on.\n\nAs far as ways to make him think of you,\nThat won't be a problem if y'all are really in love...
772063
I started a long distance relationship a long time ago when i was 14 and we lasted 9 years. We broke up when we lived together but i'd say that everyone is different and since you have already lived together its plausible to say that you will find it hard, very hard in fact but keep at it hun, if you love each other as much as you say then you can find a way to make it work.
415716
It all depends... are the schools in the same town, is it elementary school, or high school, or college... but the most important thing is that you trust each other enough to not see each other all the time. I know a lot of people who have had long-distance relationships, and most of them have worked pretty well so far. If you think it will be hard not to worry all the time about him being around other people, then it might not work out. Of course, I might be getting too complicated if you're only in elementary school or something.
1003178
Long distance relationship are a real challenge.\nTrust is a must. It sounds both are trying to test each other by means of jealousy?
892602
The hardest thing in a long distance relationship is trust. Keep it open and honest. Communicate often but not daily. Send cards and pictures alot. If he needs help financially and you can afford to help him save money set up a small college fund for him and save it for when he can go to school. Or if you think he would use it wisely send it to him now.
297938
Well, if you really trust this person, you can always convince yourself that it will work. However, the sad truth is that even the best of relationships have been ruined by long-distance problems. Don't break off too soon, play it by ear. But if you do so, just remember that you may be hurt. Good luck and be strong! =)
1060822
That depends on how you feel about this person and how much you are willing to put in the effort to make this work. A lot of times distance can make the heart grow fonder but too much distance can really get stressful for a couple and being together physically is an important part of any relationship. I think couples need to spend time together and be with each other. However, if you feel that you are dedicated enough and they are dedicated enough you could make it work.  Where there is a will theres a way.
431909
Ask yourself if you really love her. Long distance relationships are really hard. If you can't keep it together because she is so far away, then end it. Love requires sacrifice
617643
Yea, I feel for ya, long distance relationships are hard. He probably isnt playing a game, he probably is missing you. The problem seems to be the distance, so the solution would be to remove the distance. Move closer to him.
587727
Tell him! Most long distance relationships don't work out anyway.
370182
You should look for someone closer to where you live, the long distance thing is lame....
671680
My boyfriend and I were friends for less than a year when we started dating. The entire time we have known each other has been spent more apart than together.\nA long distance relationship can work if both people are committed to each other. It's hard work and requires a lot of openness but it's possible to make a long distance relationship work.