how do i get the one i truly love back in my life?
351825
TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!! is never easily forgotten no matter what. maybe he still loves you he just won't admitted b/c it seems to me like you also hurted him and he simply does not want that anymore. And if at first you don't succed try try again he will fall again if he ever truly loved you. But please don't wait for him if he doesn't respond than he's out with strike 3. Don't you think???
604142
there is really nothing that you can do but be yourself. There is a famous quote that i have heard and love. "Let love go. If it is true, it will come back." Just be who you are and if he really loves you then he will come back to you
757413
ive been there done that, and i did end up gettin back together with my ex, for a lil while.\n\ni suggest u think abt the fact if she would still want you back? does she love you? do u love her? can u work things out??\n\nthink abt these questions and answer then, and once u have a solution go and decide what u want to do,\n\nyou see, maybe she still loves you and she is going through the same thing so all hope is not lost, uve just lost her for a lil while, but if u hang in there, and since she is ur ex girlfrind that means u know her already, so try figuring out what she wants and what she needs, try fixing what went wrong, go back into her life and try being the man that she needs you to be\n\n\njust remember to have hope and hang in there, and maybe if after reading this u wanna call her, go and do that, but just incase it does not work out with her, its a lesson learnt and soon u may  just meet the one for you\n\n\nall the best, \n\nremember its your life, its in your hands, try figuring it out and live it
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
898006
Make up your mind already will ya? You want him when your with him and when he leaves you want him back. I think you need to take a break from men in general and find out who and what you are all about and what you want. When you have established you then men can be in the picture. Write a list of all the good and bad qualities of this guy and give it to him, let him ask what this is for and if you truly want him back explain. Let him know you have been thinking of him and can't imagine what was going through your head before. I think you need to look into yourself for some love and then you can truly give the love he needs. Sorry if this hurts but honey, life is to short for anyone to be playing 'I want you, I don't, I want you again'
333526
if you fought so much, ask yourself, do you truly love him? is he right for you? if the answer is yes, you should probably follow your heart and try to win him back, but if the answer is no, the just forget him, and move on, since each experiences in life only make you a stronger person
173844
I know you want him back, its VERY hard to let go of the one you love, i still need to learn that leasson. But you cant force him to go out with you. Just be yourself, and just be his friend, the rest is up to him.
801040
First you gotta decide if you actually miss HIM or if you miss the aspect of having a serious relationship.  If you just miss the relationship, then you can always find someone else.  If you miss him specificly, call, email, text message, or do anything you can to talk to him.  Let him know how you feel.  Tell him that you know that your life was a little crazy when you knew him before and now you know you have changed.  (MAKE SURE, you don't want the same mistake to happen again).  Tell him you've grown up and you want to see how things will work now that your out of your wild side.  Just tell him the truth.  If he says no or rejects you or anything, you will know that he is probably not the right person for you and you should take your responsible self and find someone else.
952855
Just try to move on, every love is tough to overcome but in the end there is only one true love to whom you'll be with. Good luck
373773
Unfortunately I also lost the love of my life due to some faults of my own.  It took me a long time to realize that I had to let him go.  It was just not to be.  Only then was I able to work on my faults to be a better person all around.  That was a few years ago, I still love him, but haven't spoken to him since, but in a way I thank him for hurting me into getting help with some faults I really needed to fix.  Time is all that will heal.  I would let her go and take care of #1....YOU!  good luck!
505521
Love can return. It takes a lot, but I don't see why you would want this if he would never give his number to you, deny straight to you that it was him, lie to you he was in an institution & then abandon you by going offline. I think it's a good thing that he disappeared like this & didn't wait until it had gone too far. I think that you should just move on & try to find someone else. I know those long hours & hour phone calls can be very bonding, & it's hard to let go, but look what he has done to you & you've never met him in person yet! (lied, lied, abandon, & hide stuff).\nI think that he didn't really love you as much as you loved him if he can just jump offline & never think of you again.\nGood luck when you decide to move on
88515
You don't.  She has made a choice that you need to respect.  The best thing you can do is move on and concentrate on you.  By making your life the best it can possibly be without her there is a slim chance she might realize what she lost.  The key is that you deserve to be happy and you can't be if all you do is focus on getting her back.  She doesn't want some guy who begs to get her back, she wants a guy who has his act together.
112072
Ask yourself if why you want her back.  Ask yourself why you left.  Is it because you feel guilty?  Did you desire someone else and now that it is over you want her back?  Examine your love for this person.  If you truly love her then you will be concerned about hurting her again.  Maybe it is best that you don't go back.
689915
Honey you keep tryin until you get what you want became i have the same problem you have.it depends on how much you love her. if deep down you know she is the one you want to be with forever then baby I'm on your side don't give up until you get what you want cause believe me when i say if you fight hard enough then you will win her back. GOOD LUCK!
1001867
talk to him. if you really wanted to be with him you should not have told him you gave up that's not the key to get someone never give up where does giving up get you right back to the start and nothing is accomplished i understand that you may love him but the only thing really you can do is talk to him and don't ever give up\n\nGOOD LUCK
583107
Maybe turn back the clock and remember what brought you both together and go back there and re-kindle the flame.*\n\nAfter five years there love there that will never go away.