i feel shivery when i approach a girl , i want to propose her , but how ? as it is the first time for me!?
352890
have u ever watch "love actually"? if haven't, then u shoul watch it.. there're many ways to say "i love u" and "would u marry me?"... GOOD LUCK!!
316745
I know how you feel, it would make me feel scared and uncomfortable too. I think men take a different approach to things, we are more sensitive and think about things before we say them. You must also think that maybe he was just saying that she was hott, maybe he just thinks that she is attractive. I know that doesnt make you feel much better but try not to assume if you really like him approach him and talk to him about it. Just say that i heard you thought so and so was cute? As long as you approach him in a non accusing way i think that he should understand. If you can't face him then just find someone new :)
224229
Just be careful that you don't scare her away by coming on to strong. If you tell her everything you feel all at once she may get a little spooked. Take it slow and ask her out on a date first, then slowly give her hints of your affection. Women love attention but large doses all at once can be overwhelming. Alot of women like a man with a little bit of mystery! Good luck
55799
In my humble opinion and based on 66 yrs of experience, I'd say that the feelings of anxiety when approaching a woman would be considered normal. Especially if you are courting the idea of wanting her to accept you. I think this holds true in most cases of the initial meeting between two people. Just my opinion.
637263
dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
724836
oh lord. I know what you mean. been there done that. and let me tell you girl.. unfortunately.. it's always going to be awkward at first. there's no escaping it really. I mean you can make a list of things to talk about.. and though it is quite helpful.. it's not going to make that anxious feeling in your stomach go away. but that's the beauty of conversation. it's like writing an essay or a story.. once you get started it's easy as pie. keep in mind that the guy is prolly nervous himself, but you're never going to get to know anyone by avoiding them. just be chill.. try not to show you're a lil scared (I know yeah right huh? lol) and keep that list near by. \n\nhope I've been helpful!
135419
if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
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Yeah dude, dont sweat it. take a deep breath. and listen to this. one, what were you acting like when she saw you and met you, because THAT is the guy she likes. DONT CHANGE!! Second, there are little things that girls like, physicall touch (HUG HER, but make sure its apropriate, dont be..umm...feeling.) Also your eyes, women LOVE eyes, and they ALLWAYS notice WHERE they go, so dude.....DONT GO THERE.....you know what im talkin about.....lastly, small gifts, and words of encoragment. chocolate as a small gift is awsome, i allways come up witht the exuse "i dont like chocolate, want myn." soo that about covers it, just be yourself, and try to understand what they LIKE at the same time.
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There's no one right way.  You obviously know her better than anyone here.  Girls seem to like a surprise though, so try to be casual/normal that day, so she doesn't suspect something is going on.  Take her somewhere that's meaningful to her, or to you both.  It doesn't have to be anywhere fancy, just somewhere special to You guys.  Just have fun together.  When you are ready, find a quiet moment, make direct eye contact, and tell her how you feel about her... whatever it is that you love about her that makes you want to propose in the first place.  There's no wrong things to say if it all comes from the heart.  Then ask her :)    \nBest wishes!
483688
I don't think theres anything wrong with wanting a girl to make the first move. As a matter of fact I prefer it that way myself! It makes me feel as if the girl really wants me. But you gotta realize that the girls are just as nervous about it as you are. You'll find that as you get older and the more girls you go out with it gets easier and easier to ask them out. And take my advice bud, now is as good a time as any to start asking them. It is true that you may get rejected a few times, but you gotta learn to pick yourself up and move on. Even rejection gets easier over time! Its all a part of our crazy,wonderful life. Now if you find yourself liking a girl, and you think she likes you just jump right in and ask her out. You may be pleasantly surprised when she says yes-and thats a great ego booster! But even if she says no, its not a biggie-theres lots and lots of girls out there.So get to it buddy!!!
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Yup you blew it....but not completely.  Just keep at it.  She is probably thinking the exact same thing as you.....why do I go blank...  It happens, you just have to push past it.\nStart today.....put it in your mind that the next time you see her....don't wait for the right time.....just walk up to her and say Hi, how did the game film turn out......cool.  Can I see it..  Girls like the guy to make the move.....so the ball is in your court.  Nothing you say....is dumb, so drop that thought.....  Ask, if she's tried some other energy drink....tell her what you like......hey, this is easy.......so just go after it.........you won't think its so hard when you two are having a great time.
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I think its nice that u really like this girl. Do u think she might like u? It might be best to ask a few people who know her to see what they think. The last thing u want to happen for the 1st time asking out a girl is the chance she may say no. That will hurt. A good way to ask her out is maybe to say "i wondered if your seeing anyone at the moment because if not id like to take you out for a drink". Make it casual, smile as you speak. If you dont try you will never know. Good luck!
952182
Ok. (taking a deep breath) Let me try to help. This is a bit challenging.\n\nThe first thing I recommend is your sitting down and figuring out just what is causing you so much inner discomfort. Are you afraid to open up? Are you too "hungry" for a woman? Write down your thoughts, your dreams and your fantasies about being with others. Seeing who you are - on paper - helps your mind to sort things out.\n\nNext - take a look at your "shyness." Being shy only means that you are uncomfortable being open with/around others. WHY? Do you fear rejection? Well, based on what you wrote, women seem attracted to you so, allow them to get to KNOW you. \n\nHint: (Some women like being around less aggressive guys - smile)\n\nWHO do you admire? WHO is your hero (or fantasy girl)? THAT may also be why you feel you are missing the mark. Don't gauge yourself based on THEIR characteristics; we ALL have perfect counterparts. The trick is in finding people with similar interests and goals and the only way THAT will happen is by being YOURSELF. \n\nDon't measure yourself against who you feel is the "perfect man" or the "right girl." Just relax, laugh, and enjoy your contacts.\n\nFinally, put YOURSELF in control. Hey - YOU are the master of your own life and destiny; so MAKE THINGS HAPPEN for YOU!\n\nSelect; never settle - regardless of that being a friend or a lover... Just know that there are people out there looking for YOU (the real you) just as YOU have needs for their company.\n\nBe real. Be YOU. The rest will flow through.\n\nThanks for writing, my friend & Good Luck to you!
856164
When you see her, you'll feel like butterflies in your stomach. You'll just want to hold her for hours, not even saying a word. You'll want her emotionally, not all just for sex and fun. You'll feel so comfortable around her, but when you want to say something intimate, you might get nervous about her reply. You'll do everything in your power to try and please her....make her happy....comfort her. All that jazz.\n\nGood luck and know that if you do love her, you'll be willing to wait a lifetime....and you'll never let her go. You'll be bloody persistant at it.\n\nBest of wishes breaking the ice
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My friend there is no problem.\nDon't take tension. It happens to all.\nGod has gifted you, mind. If you want your \npanis should stand for more time then you can \nonly think about a beautiful & sexy girl. \nAnd think that you are kissing her,(A French Kiss).\nThat can be your solution.
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Try to relax.  The more you stress over it, the worse it may become.\n\nTreat them as potential friends, not potential girlfriends.  Women want to be treated as equals, individuals.  Not something to be conquered.\n\nDiscreetly, copy what you've seen your friends do to get themselves girlfiends, and modify that behaviour to suit you.\n\nDon't try to approach a group of women.  If you see one you like, make eye contact, smile then look away.  A few minutes later, look at her again, if she looks your way, holds your gaze, and smiles it means she's interested in you.  Approach, casually, if and when she's on her own and offer to buy her a drink.  \n\nShe might even approach you first!\n\nIntroduce yourself. Ask her a few casual questions: What does she think of the bar/pub/whatever you're both in? What is there to do in the local area? You fancy going to the cinema, can she recommend a good film? Has she ever been to Dubhai, cos you've heard it brilliant?  That kind of thing.  Just casual, non-threatening conversation.  Forget about using "chat up lines", they can come across as lame.\n\nDon't be too eager, maintain some mystery.  The biggest turn-on (for both men and women) is confidence.  The biggest turn-off is someone who won't take no (whether said verbally or by body language) for an answer.\n\nPlay it all by ear.  Listen to your intuition, it will guide you.\n\nYou have friends so you can't be that bad(!).  Your description of yourself sounds attractive, so nothing wrong there.\n\nAbove all, be yourself.  If your interest is not returned, hold your head high and move on.
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Yes, do it. Get it over with. The longer you wait, the more nervous you will get, and the more of a chance they'll get snatched by someone else. Besides, what's the worst that could happen, you'll be rejected? Any end is better than an unresolved feeling.