What age do you think it is appropriate to lose your virginity?  If you feel like sharing, what age were you?
345796
I don't think there is realy an age that is appropriate, because all people have different maturity levels at different times in their lives. I lost mine at the age of 16 and I'm 22. My boyfriend got my drunk and basically took advantage of me. Don't get me wrong, I could have said no, but I didn't. Today I wish I would have waited. Thinking about when my son gets older and if he ever asked mom, when did yo first have sex. Most parents would never hear that so I probably won't, but what if they were to ask? Although, I would never take it back because it got me where I am today, I've been happily married for two years with a gorgeous ten month old son. People make mistakes, but hopefully they learn from them. Society isn't the problem I don't think. i think the parents and schools need to start at a young age teaching values, because they are lacking somewhere.
789304
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.
630535
There is no magic age (except 18) :) It is okay to wait. Despite the message of the "new virgin" crowd you really only do get one first time. Once you are in a relationship with someone that you care about (beyond just a physical attraction), then consider it. You will be in a very vulnerable emotional and physical position, and you have to absolutely trust your partner. Has he/she been honest about his/her past or disease status? Is he/she really committed to you or is he/she just trying to get in your pants? Once you can pose these (and other) questions, and know in your heart that you have gotten and honest answers, then it is too soon for you no matter what your age.
1053815
Nope, I was a virgin until I was nineteen. I think I was the only virgin when I graduated high school! But I was proud of that, and the fact that I didn't cave in to peer pressure.
693825
I was 16...and now days..if a 16 y/o lost her virginity that would be considered "waiting a while"..lol and I am only 23!\n\nIf I had it to do over again.I would have waited on my now husband (who I have been with since I was 17)He was a virgin and it would have been special to have waited.\n\nI guess that is depends on the girl,but most girls now won't wait...it makes me hope I never have children!!!But I dont think there is a certain "time" I think it is just either #1 when they get dam good and ready.. or #2.when peer pressure steps in!\n\nThank you sweety...\n\n\nvote 4 me
530836
Yes i'm sorry to say but that was too young to lose your virginity. Your lucky you didn't get pregnant. It was just luck i guess. But you can't just hope next time you don't get pregnant. Because you might not get lucky next time. But i think that you spended some time to think about it and i think that your a couple of years younger than usual but thats perfectly fine. Nowadays its natural.
1154575
i was 15 yrs old and i lost it willingly then but like someone else it was taken from me at 13 but still i have recoverd from most of the aspects of it just that i have a problem with giving head still to this day because they made me swallow and now i will give my man oral but it is under my terms and only then, and there is absolutely nothign wrong with still being a virgin in fact if my life hadnt went the way it did i wished i wouldve waited, because to many people in this day in age think that sex all a bunch of fun and games and it wasnt meant to be that way, it was meant for procreation not recreational purposes, be responsible when u are going to have sex because there are just to many disease out there these days because people dont look at sex the way that they should.
225550
I'm a 20 year old female and still have not lost my virginity.  Saving sex for marriage.  And honestly, I'm a little afraid of it.
939199
I am 18. I am a male. I have never had a girlfriend. And I have never been kissed. There is nothing wrong. There have been plenty of times when I could have kissed someone, but chose not to. To me, I feel that I should wait for the right moment, the right person, as you always remember your first time, such as the first time you rode a bike, first time you tied your shoe laces, first day at school. It is something special, something that should mean something. \nBut that is my opinion.\n:)\nEmail me.
722508
I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and had multiple partners throughout the years.  I am now married and I regret not sharing this special intimate moment with him first.  I admire couples who had waited til marriage.  But when you're young, you don't always think of those things.
24493
Nothing. You essentially answered your own question with your last sentence, a question in any case that can only be appropriately and accurately answered on a very individualized basis. It's not about an age differential, it's about the quality of person. It's not about possible risk or societal misgiving, but about personal expectation and scope of maturity. It's not about being too young (unless you're twelve, in which case you shouldn't even be asking this question), but about being emotionally and mentally equipped for more than your own age group tends to offer as a general whole. In the end, age factors in very little with the one primary exception of life-experience and what that means to the stability and wisdom of a person. You will find similarly aged people the world over experiencing the same relationship pitfalls as are potential to an age-imbalanced relationship. Difference in age, in most cases, will be a much smaller factor or culprit in the risks of danger than will be a person's inability to adequately judge character and establish their own self-awareness (whatever their age).\n\nI'm 33. I was just married in December to a beautiful, capable, very worthy 20 year-old. The age-thing crossed our minds (and everybody else's), of course. But it was a momentary waste of time once we (and everybody else) looked past it and into the realm of more meaningful things. People tend to hold age alone accountable for the way a person may or may not be. This, in my experience, tends to be an unfair generalization across the board. Truth is, regardless of age, there are many other facts about a person that go into their making. Look at the person, not the number of years they've been alive (which opens the door for people your same age or even younger than you at the same time).
546119
Im glad to hear that there r  some more smart girls in the  world than i thought!!! i live in europe and rare who loose virginity being 16 or earlier there. I know in US there is different.  Congradulations!!!  Dont be affraid...U know when i lost mine? Last  year, being 21. And im very glad about that. Cause  i found that guy who i want to be with all my life...  And  i am so proud i could had that  moment with him only.  im not sorry   i have been waiting till this moment so long. I remember the minute, wheh i told him i am still a virgin. He was. liek "wow...  im proud.."  trust me, he adores me now, cause  nowadays it is so  hard to find virgin girls..  We r going to get marriage in the future...  And i am so happy :))))))\n\nSo dont   be affraid..If u feel  this is a man u wanna be with,  of course tell him, he is going to be first. I odnt see anything u should be shame of... What going on with the world today...   Why we r trying to get adults so fast..  There r so many pure things, which we r forced to be shame of...\n\nI am with you!!!!\n\nSo wish u luck  on sharing that special moment with a guy u love and wnat to be with.   U will always rememebr that moemnt :))))))))\n\nps. sorry, if my english is not as perfect as i wish it to be :))))))))))
86318
I stopped counting a long time ago, I'd say at least 40.  Now I'm married and I wish I would have waited.  I wish I could have been a virgin when I got married, cause now it sometimes causes problems in my marriage.  Yes my wife uses it against me.
210459
If this is my child, the answer to your question is: You are still too young if you think there is a "right" age. There is only a wrong age that we can be certain about, and that is any age where you would be incapable of taking care of and supporting a child which could result from having sex. As long as you cannot take full responsibility for your actions, you should not take fully responsible actions.
197908
i think it's good your still a virgin. I'm 25 and still one. I'm one who still believes you need to be married to have sex.
260217
I lost my virginity when I was 16, that was 20 yrs ago.  \nHowever, I wish I would have waited for "someone special".  At the time, I thought I was in love, and that he loved me.  The truth was, he just wanted to get laid, and today, I can't even remember his name.  That is not so special.\n\nI would say it is not unusual to lose your virginity at 15, but I would also say it is worth waiting for.\n\nSave yourself and your heart alot of aching (literally).
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.