girl fren doesnt want 2 stop dating others what to do??
338438
Well either accept it or find someone who values what a relationship is supposed to be.She is not likely to change.
892490
Women, eh? She likes you. Enjoys your company. Is obviously jealous of your other girlfriends. Doesn't want to add the physical. No, I don't really understand either. \n\nDoes she have other boyfriends? Perhaps she's afraid of spoiling what you have.... Or perhaps she's immature; enjoys the power of knowing that you fancy her, keeping you dangling?\n\nIt's not fair to you for her to say 'No' to you-know-what, but go into a strop if you go out with someone else.\nThe 'other woman' thing was good, gave her something to think about - she was definately jealous, or hurt. \n\nMy advice is to back off. Maybe you're smothering her. Give her a bit of time & space; let her come to you. It might take a bit of time. But I believe that the best partnerships are based on friendship that develops into love. It sounds as though all the elements are there in your relationship, but she needs a bit of time. I hope so. All the best!\n\nI had a very good friend once. I didn't fancy him, didn't want to take it further. Then, one night, when it was time for him to go home, I realised that I didn't want him to go...  It was as much as a surprise to me as to him!\n\nP.S. Don't wait for her forever.
1079382
Well, just tell her that you don't want a relationship with her. Don't be mean with it. And tell her y'all can be friends. If she can't accept that then pay no attention to her or her friends.
911510
Dear :\nShe is not a psyco nor is she a c***k tease!Nor is she playing you!\nFrom my point of view it seems that this girl really loves you and wants you forever in her life!Because of the fact that she never had a relationship before she is scared that if She goes to the next level with you then she might lose you and your friendship!\nIt is so hard for girls to find a best friend in the guy they love and most often when a girl spends most of her time with a boy she considers her friend she grows to love him very strongly!\nShe doesnot advice and like hearing about other girls because she loves you and she doesnot want anyone to take you away from her!\nYou will want to know then why does she not get into a relationship with you, and why she apologises and says there can be no relationship!\nThis girl loves you soo much that she is afraid that you will turn her away or just get fedup of her!Maybe she knows your history with other girls and she is afraid to end up like them!\nSit down with her and confess your love and tell her that you will always be her best friend and lover if she wishes it!\nMake it clear that if ahe does not want you then if another girl comes along you will have no choice as you cannot remain single for ever-but do this gently!\nJust make her known that your outings and fun will not stop if the two of you become lovers!\nYou see, most times when a woman enters a relationship the fun she had before with the guy is gone!Thats what she is afraid of!Just reassure her that lovers doesnot mean the elimination of fun!\nGoodluck and dodnot hurt her for it seems that you will never find a girl that loves you as mush as her!\nLove SANAM
1077699
That is not fair 2 the girls. u need 2 dump 1, but stick with the other 1. u should keep the 1 that is ok with u havin 2 girls. she seems loyal & obviously ♥ u....a lot.\nDon't keep these relationships up, or ur gonna loose both the girls.\nHave a great Day!! :-)
513054
I am in the same situation as you... i feel the pain... try to move on and show her that you are not into her anymore... you are dating other girls and talk to her about it just like you are talking to your other friends. give her the impression that she is losing you. a little bit of competition can do wonders... make her chase you.
353562
Don't be a fiend. Seriously, date other girls, it'll get her all jealous.
412778
Here is one of those times it is best to use a diversion tactic.  Since you are close friends with her tell her your interested in another girl.  Hopefully she will realize that telling you she wants to go out with you is a bad idea since your interested in someone else.
634031
you have to let her have space...she's involved with someone else. If/when they break up, you are free to go after her!
161206
why would you want to be with someone you don't want to marry? Your wasting your time as well as hers. You should let her find someone who will want to marry her.
884896
nicely tell her that you don't want friends like her and walk away.she will understand(she already has understood that but she doesn't want to admit it and thinks that you guys will forgive her that)Listen to me!
143503
We always want what we do not have.  If this girl is really interested in someone else, you need to get on with your own life.  There are many people in this world that are right for us.  Let yourself be open and look for them and stop punishing yourself over this one.
985133
I know its very hard for you to forget that girl, because i m also passing through the same situation, maybe she likes someone else, just leave your girlfriend because after all its their life and let them do whatever they wanna do with their life, we cant stop or hold someone and love doesnt comes or stay that way so all i can advice you is "enjoy life, never trust any girl and never ever love any girl sincerely more than yourself"\n\njust try it and see it works...
1068053
hope both of them find some one better and leave you!!!!!!!\n\nits not fair of you to keep 2 girls hanging on till you find out which one likes you the most!
361790
Don't date either of them if you want to remain friends with them.  If you don't care, pick one and STICK WITH IT.  Don't play them against each other.  It's not a good idea!
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
1020083
Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why