I have never experienced an orgasm?
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There are a lot of incompetent counselors out there.  So you might want to switch.\n\nBut for the orgasm issue, I'm thinking sex toys might help you.  There are a lot of them out there.  But even fingers could do it.  The point is, you need to be by yourself, with no one around posing a subconscious threat, before you will let yourself have an orgasm.\n\nAnd btw, a surprisingly large number of people have been sexually violated.  You are not alone, not by a long shot.  Maybe a support group could help.
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actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
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I DONT KNOW WHY YOUR HAVING THIS SENSITIVITY U MIGHT NEED TO GO TO YOUR O.B. GYN AS FOR THE ORGASM... NOT ALL WOMEN EXPERIENCE AN ORGASM...HAVE U EVER REALLY HAD ONE? ALOT OF WOMEN THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT IT. YOU NEED TO REALLY RELAX AND KNOW HOW TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO HAVE ONE ITS NOT JUST UP TO YOUR PARTNER/BOYFRIEND HE'S THERE TO HELP,THAT'S FOR SURE BUT IT IS ALSO UP TO U
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well to be honest it could be one of two things, i am not to judge and dont know u 1: ur not well endowed,sorry  but thats my problem and i have had this happend to me b 4 ur not the only one and 2: not enogh foreplay or to much, just got to take ur time talk to them and tell them how good they are, and remember oral does a great job for orgasms for women, also toys which i have never used might help some,
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I don't know, never experienced death before.
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I just asked this same question.  The only thing that gets me off is clitoral stimulation, not vaginal.  I have to have something on my clit, and not just anything but a clit vibrator.  What I got on feedback is that you have to be in the mood, you need a supportive partner, you need to be able to explore yourself to learn what you like, try different positions, that through clitoral you might have desensitized all the other areas and can only orgasm on that alone.  That is what I got so I thought I would share that with you...
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No I haven't ever had the pleasure, thanks for the heads up. I'll keep an eye out oO. =)
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well sorry i have never been kissed by any one i m also going nuts coz i m 16 now and never been kissed may be i m in gals school. well i think oh leave it this wont help
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Most women will not be able to achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Generally a woman will require clitoral stimulation before they can orgasm. Try oral and have him focus on your clit, or go and buy yourself a vibrator.
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These days most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes - and a lot of them weren't bothered about it.\n\nSome doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist - and was simply a myth made up by the media.\n\nAll that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms - if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms - if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.\n\nWhat is a female orgasm?\n\nWe're writing this explanation in the assumption that you - the reader - are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female readers too.\n\nWhat happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.\n\nMen are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't happen in women.\n\nA few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.\n\nMultiple orgasm\n\nThe other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.\n\nThis ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.\n\nBringing women to a climax\n\nFor men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing - as it generally is with men.\n\nYou see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic - or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this! Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.\n\nAlthough females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:\n\n    * a romantic atmosphere\n\n    * pleasant, comfortable surroundings\n\n    * a partner who they really like\n\n    * a feeling of being wanted and appreciated\n\n    * a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore\n\n    * a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.\n\nUnless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.\n\nPlease bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.\n\nWhat to do\n\nIn summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:\n\n    * don't be in a rush.\n\n    * don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.\n\n    * talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.\n\n    * always create a romantic atmosphere.\n\n    * make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.\n\n
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It might just be the intimacy that satisfies you. You can have great sex without an orgasm. Who ever tells you different obviously doesn't know the meaning of intimate feelings. Of course its always great to orgasm, once in a while great sex without one is OK.
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Just like everyone has a different favorite color, everyone has their own technique that works for them.\n\nYou will have to keep experimenting until you find the thing that works best for you.\n\nSome basic pointers – a vibrator usually helps a LOT – and not thinking about having an orgasm is essential – you can’t force it – keep thinking about whatever your fantasy is and it will happen.
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The orgasmic feeling people have differs from each individual. It can feel like your whole body is ablaze or you may have a slight tingling sensation throughout your body. To truely find out how your body reacts to the feeling of an orgasm try a few different experiments. This can be done with either your partner or yourself. Which ever you feel more comfortable with.
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Absolutely! You can have fantastic orgasms without actual intercourse. There doesn't need to be any penetration at all for an orgasm. Check out the following links for yourself and read up on your body:\n\nhttp://www.vitalinfocenter.com/sexual/women_orgasm.html\n\nhttp://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/orgasm.htm
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Such a simple question:\nI never had sex though I made love unto with my girl friend and now we live together and make love to each other...
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I aswered this one already, but we do have orgasms just not like men. When you have one you will know it.
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Your question isn't very clear because you don't say some important factors.\nIs there excitement?\nIs there erection?\nIs the act lasting long until the end?\nIf you referred to the ejaculation only, it's called “aspermia” and is the absence of any ejaculate (semen) and is much rarer.\nIn fact, you know that The male orgasm is not just about ejaculation. It is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation. \n•  Pre adolescent boys can often experience an orgasm without ejaculation.\n•  Some men do not have an ejaculation until several seconds after orgasm.\n•  Other men who are incapable of ejaculation are still capable of orgasm.\n•  Adult males may experience several ejaculations and go on to have further orgasms without ejaculation.\nIt seems that the way men experience ejaculation and orgasm differs from person to person.\n\nAnyway, about possible causes (symptom) of "Lack of orgasm", I can write in general:\nImpotence - see erectile dysfunction \nFailure to maintain an erection \nSexual headache \nFailure to ejaculate.\nOKAY?