i've never had a boyfriend, girlfriend or relationship. Shunned by everyone. Whats wrong?
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Maybe you need the right blend of agressive and passive.  Plus, some girls and guys go for one or the other etc.  Also, I know it sounds lame, but just be yourself.  And be ultra-charming.  \nI think you should concentrate on improving yourself, for your own benefit.  And, if you improve, women or men will notice and go "hmmm"
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I actually never had a relationship.Although I did have a crush on a girl in my school when I was a kid I just could'nt workup enough guts to go tell her.I have changed a lot since then.\n\nLOVE FROM MAURICE
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I am 18. I am a male. I have never had a girlfriend. And I have never been kissed. There is nothing wrong. There have been plenty of times when I could have kissed someone, but chose not to. To me, I feel that I should wait for the right moment, the right person, as you always remember your first time, such as the first time you rode a bike, first time you tied your shoe laces, first day at school. It is something special, something that should mean something. \nBut that is my opinion.\n:)\nEmail me.
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Well there is nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at 18.I'm 22 and don't have a gf and am still happy.Of course at the right time she will show up.Maybe u can add me to your messenger so we can chat.my IM is bcoxy06@yahoo.com
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first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
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single,never been married and still looking.
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honestly i dont know what u were thinking when u posted this question,is that u think u are unattractive and cant find a boyfriend or u just decided that is hopeless to try?cos i see reasons why people just decided to turn  gay and lesbian.but one think i would like to tell is dont let anyone or anything make u feel like u dont deserve what u want want and is as for u question i dont know an answer to that
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All depends on you. Society will tell you however that there is something wrong with you if your not with a boyfriend by your mid-twenty's. But its all about you and everyone is different. Just do what your comfortable with..
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I am also single and don't like it.  What type of help do you want?  Some advice?  Socialize, meet new people at school, in town, etc.  Build a social network, including clubs or hobbies you have, with people your own age, and the exposure will help you meet lots of new people.  Be open and relaxed (not desperate or needy) as you introduce yourself and take things slowly.  If you are in college that is a great place to start meeting people like yourself.\nBest of luck in love to you!
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lol..in the same boat as you...however...the only time not having a boyfriend borthers me...is when I hang out with my friends...(who are all couples) and I am the fifth wheel...than I start to feel it...or when they talk about their boyfriends....than I am like....thanks just keep talking about your relationship...and let me listen to it...while I start crying because I am lonely.,...never said any of this to any one...it hurts...mind you I am not depressed or anything..I just want to experience the whole relationship thing..I want the holding of the hands...I want to go to the movies..with my boyfriend..I want someone to cuddle with...when watching t.v...I want someone to kiss....\nHowever...I have been told...that love will come when I am not looking for it...But who knows if that is really true....\nI hope that one day I will find someone...
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NO body? or just nobody you know? obviously you need to 1. get honest with yourself about who you are. is there an actual reason why "nobody" likes you? or is it just that you feel that way because you've got crap self-esteem and are depressed? 2. get out there and meet some new people. preferably people who don't already have preconcieved notions of who you are already. \n\n(i've had that experience, long ago when i was young--this sense that everyone already has put you in a box. that's when you either move or find a new circle of people to hang out with.)
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i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
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I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
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b/c u were once content/comfortable with ur situation and u don't like change.  but that's part of life, if u don't take that chance then u will never know the outcome.  plus ur heartbroken and it scares u b/c u don't want to go through it again, and u're thinking 2 urself is this going to happen again?! U said u've never been single, there's a first time for everything.  word of advice --- quit looking for someone (enjoy time to urself/w/friends), let that someone find u. cause sometimes if ur not looking 4 love its looking for u. and don't be so negative @ moving on. good luck
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NO!!! There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone experiences things at different times so don't rush the process. You never know when you get your first boyfriend he may turn out to be the right one. Just be patience and enjoy being you and being single.
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Well it seems to me that you are an insecure person and you suround yourself with people who are equally insecure as yourself.  Because to you it's easy that way.  It's easy to live unchallenged and it's easier for you to just take what is offered.  When you don't like a situation that you are in you have to figure out how your gonna change it.  The first step is too stop taking advantage of other ppl especially if they let you because they are just as lost as you are and you will surely never find your way.  The next step is to work on being comfortable with yourself.  You have to be by yourself to do that. I would suggest that you stop dating or having any type of romantic relationship because nobody will ever be able to appreciate you if you don't even appreciate yourself. And then , after all that is worked out, you find a good secure, honest, independent woman, that isn't gonna let you fall back into your usual routine.  After that i can't say it will all be wonderful, but at least you know its something that you want instead of something that's just there. Godd luck!
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Guess what! You don't need experience to have a boyfriend. \nIt's the same as having friends but just that it is a boy and you get a little closer. Thats all.And you have feeling inside you that you didn't with just friends. Does that make since? Just let it happen and you'll be fine.