I slept with this creepy guy on the first day and now I can't shake him...?
354466
If you slept with him, why are you trying to give him a hand job?
776267
If you don't feel comfortable with him, then move on.  Tell him nicely that he can't "stalk" you and that you can't accept his gifts.
1090591
wat up i went throught the same thing but now he's my boyfriend but n/e who go up to him dont be all shaky though well first you gotta find out if he likes you if he does thats your cue and just ask him be like will you go wit me that should help if it doesn't email me at mzjiceybooty@yahoo.com my name is Andria by the way
255919
The question wasnt too clear but what ive gathered is that you like a guy and were playing a sexual game which you wanted to stop and he kept going anyway. if not disregard my answer. Obviously this game is over so if he took it the whole way and you said no you were raped. rape is not cool no matter how much you like someone and you should report it. If he did stop but touched you in ways you didnt want then you need to use your judgement as far as how violated you feel. since you started the game together you could always tell him that you felt he went too far and that you do like him but that he should respect you enough to stop when you arent comfortable anymore. if it can be resolved like that great, if not then sexual harrassment charges can be filed.
855770
What u say , i feel scared of . Because in chat our identity is false, age , everything is false. How can u depent on that. But may be he likes u. Join the chat room today and ask him through instant message"does he loves u or not" , if yes then move forward with ur relationship. And if not then just forget it out . I think this will be the best way of nowing ur answer. Thanks for sharing ur question and seeing it with my veiw. In future i would like to see more of u . Take care.
434545
To change your I.D. you're only changing your contact name. If he knows any of your questions though I believe he could find your Q & A page from that. Are you sure you are really over this guy? Even when someone is as mean as he was to you, that does not necessarily mean that your feelings just end there. Please try to believe in yourself and know that you are a worthy person and do not deserve being **** on by him. There's too many nice guys out there that will treat you with the respect that you deserve. Just think, summer is coming and you can start a whole new adventure with someone new. I know right now you probably feel like you don't want to see anyone else, but please trust me, that will change. Good Luck and hope you feel better.  Di
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
717394
Well to Begin with you deserve a better answer than what you have gotten so far. I only seen the first two and I think I need to add a few things.\n First off, stop feeling guilty about the sleeping with the other guy. You had no idea what he was doing and he lead you to believe it was over and done with. His fault, not yours. He needs to stop playing with you and let you know where you stand. I hate being on the edge of a knife waiting for an answer. Its unfair to some one and the only reason people do that is because they know they can. As far as wanting to get back with the guy, I will tell you what anyone else would. Track him down and talk with him. Be honest  and expect the same from him. If he cant handle what you have to say to him, then that is his loss. Its easy for me to say that because I'm typing this and not dealing with it like you are but You must be strong and stand your ground. Don't fall into the trap of feeling guilty about what you did when you was still hanging unto uncertainty's and don't let him hold that over your head. \n Don't bother trying to call him again. He knows you are looking for him and he has to make that decision if you are worth pursuing. Let him do the wondering for a bit. That will only make he see you are stronger than you appear and make you all that much more worth having.\n\n I hope this helps and I hope all works out. Good luck and God bless.
706601
it all depends on how long it takes untill you feel like you can trust him. there have been so many times that i slept with a guy on the second date just because the attraction was there, and then he wanted nothing to do with me. personally, i wait for about a month untill i sleep with a guy..... just get to know him a little more, and when you feel like you know him and can trust him, then do it....might be 2 weeks, might be 4 months. just wait to see how long untill you feel secure with him.
724428
Can't you just block him?? so he can't send you messeges. Don't send him any messeges ok? the person like him , can turn into murder or abuser. Stay away from him, and make sure change ur cell phone number and stuff. You are not cheat girl, you were just dancing witha guy right? I don't know maybe he might contact you again, but don't send any messeges or respond to him, because it'll only make him happy. Try not to see him. Thats all I can tell you. If it get any worse, you should go to the police or something.
775073
He had his fun with you and then went back to his girlfriend.  He knows you like him.  He is just not interested.  Stop sleeping over and you will forget about him when you start dating someone else, preferably his best friend.
839248
The biggest punishment you can give him is to forget about him completely and let Karma do the rest - it will come and bite him on the butt without you having to waste any of your precious time even thinking about him.\n\nIf he's sleeping around like you say, then sooner or later that is going to catch up with him. It sounds like you had a lucky escape - count your blessings and move on!\n\nHe's obviously not worth a moment of your time or a shred of your brain space. You're worth more than that and to try and exact revenge would diminish you as the better person in all of this.\n\nWhat goes around comes around - you won't have to do a thing!\n\nEnjoy your new found freedom!
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
942800
The bottom line here is is that he is treating you like a 'Thing' not a person, I dont see how you cant get over this guy, he sounds like a player.\n\nGive him the flick girl!
575094
Yes, I've been there. It sucks! But you have to be true to yourself. I let the guy know that I wasn't all about being his P.O.A. I wanted a relationship. I am not the type of girl that you can call whenever you want a booty-call. I told him that. I gave him a few chances to change how he was towards me, and he didn't. I told him I was tired of how he treated me, and I left. You have to be true to you, and don't give in to be with someone. Don't give him the chance to use you for sex. Make him want you before he wants sex. You are young. You will find someone who wants to be with you for you and not for sex. Make the person wait. If he's into you, he'll wanna be with you for you before you sleep with him. As far as the following, and calling thing. Tell him he needs to get over it, and stop his crap. If he doesn't, and it gets to where you are scared (past the point of just plain tired of it) I would look into a restraining order, or talk with a police officer or counselor at school as far as what you should do, but be careful. Dont let something like that go, either. That could get ugly, and scary.
725295
There was a guy in my dorm freshman year that was sleeping with me and half of the other girls in the building.  None of us minded, even though most of us weren't the slutty type.  What set him apart from the rest was not only that he was hot, and confident, he was very mature about it.  He never tried to trick anyone into bed with fake feelings, he never lied about or tried to hide that he was seeing all of us, and he didn't tell all his friends.  He also didn't show up for 2 a.m. booty calls uninvited.  He kept us all satisfied and let us come to him, or he took us out on a date when he felt like seeing us.  He never made anyone feel disrespected, and he didn't freak out when we dated other guys.  Basically, he was very confident and straightforward.  The first time we got involved, we'd just been talking, and he looked at me and said, "I'd like to take you upstairs."  Honesty, no fear of rejection . . . and when someone did say no, he still talked to her and treated her as though she hadn't, and more often than not she ended up with him eventually.  We ended up recommending him to girls who hadn't had a turn yet!  (Plus, he was always safe and prepared.)
805751
If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay.  Even if it's just physical there is something there.  As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16?  If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave.  Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.