is it ok to talk about old boyfriends to a new date?
342210
I don't think soo, not because its bad.. you might want to save it for later.. You should focus more on making him curious about you (by not talking about your past!) because he would want to know you better, he will ask you out again later! good luck
3891
Well you did'nt really ask a question, but if you are meaning if thats ok or your asking people's view points on the topic then i'll share mine. I did the same thing. Its not nessciarly wrong (Sp?), but i guess it all depends on what specific reasons and if its against your morals or not. It does'nt really matter what other people think only you. Your the one thats dating him. If you liked your last ex alot and had fun then maybe your ex was your "type" of guy. And people tend to have a type. So just go with the flow and follow your heart.
668520
If he hasn't asked then he's prob just having respect for you and your past and doesn't want to invade. He prob feels it's up to you if you choose to one day tell him. If he tells you that he isn't interested then don't be offended, after all the past is in the past and why is there a need to tell him about it. He's interested in what's going on in the present and not what happened in the past. Don't think to much of it.
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
563061
In my opinion, No... he should not be talking w/another woman about her's, his, or anybody elses relationships. whether you know them or not.  Things like this lead to emotional cheating.  Stop him now....
271838
no it is not wrong and i think you have answered your own question you already have everything figured out you just need to get past the past and get on with your future remember age is just a state of mind if you have found your soul mate then go for it you should not have any surprises about each others past as you have already been honest with each other keep those lines of communication open and you will have the best relationship of your lives, good luck
568103
If your planning on making it se serious with this guy. yeah you should tell him just for he knows you haven't been lieing about your past boyfriend if he hears them from someone else.
723398
yes,why not?Date is Date,it's not marry with that old man.But first of all,starting from friend.it could be more than friend in the future...who know!\nI had a date with a man 45 years old.He is very funny,cheerful  and he has a lot of good/bad experiences to talk to me.I could learn many things from him.I mean we exchanged our experience life.Since I know him till now he is one of my best friend.and you know,when I met him,I said "You're an ASSHOLE....I don't care what your name...Art,Arthur or Asshole!!I don't care at all".It's impolite but I said that to him!!I cannot believe myself I said that to him!!!How come!!!
1121196
Understandable that you would want to keep something to "remind" you of your ex and the good times. But if you enjoy the company of your new guy; I would put the picture away for the sake of any argument. How would you feel if he held on to a picture of his beautiful ex?
408735
Yes. It is normal and should be a rule never to date any of your sisters ex boyfriends. For that reason. Once you were ever involved with someone..that should always be yours and sisters should never tress pass onto your territory. Even though you are not involved with him any more..it is your memories not to be shared with a sister in that way. If my sister was to get with any of my ex's..that would be to uncomfortable,with good reason.
73621
As long as you are honest about your intensions up front. I am recently divorced and dating several men. But they all know I'm not looking for a committed relationship I'm just looking to meet people and see where it goes.  I don't talk to them about the other guys, but I do keep it casual. It all depends on the people your dating and where they are at in life. If they are mature, they understand the difference of causal dating and "cheating".  But be aware... if you see someone is really starting to develope strong feelings for you... be fair to them!\n\nGood luck and have fun. There is nothing wrong with getting to know several people.
205504
Yes!!! I think it's really disrespectful...he shouldn't be talking about it anymore because he's not with her...it would be almost like he was recreating those thoughts...you shouldn't impliment things you did with past partners either...everyone is pleasured in different ways...how rude of boys to do this!!!
891086
absolutly not... you should be comfortable enought to say or do anything with that special someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with!
236817
Yes, you should tell your current guy.  Other wise, there will be secrets, and questions, and a chance he will think you didn't tell him because you wanted your ex.  Don't get caught up in all the games and hassle just be open about what is going on.
592546
well for one you never want to bring up anything about an ex cause then they will think that you are still in love with them and it will put a dapper on things and you never tell a date on the first date that you love them and you should just talk about the things you two like to do to learn more about one another
602580
If your husband loves you a lot, that is acceptable.  If he doesn't talk about his past relations with women, that is also acceptable.  Our past is a learning experience, not a current barometer of our thoughts and actions.\n\nBest advice, simply ask him about his old affairs (hopefully all before he met you of course!).  If he doesn't have much to say on the subject, that is ok.  You must judge him on the here and now, the promises he's made to you since he's met you.  \n\nDon't make any judgements from the time before you met him, that only leads to heartache and trouble, regardless of how good he may be.
817766
Yes. It is called dating. If the first date sucked, then yes it is appropriate. \n\nIt is appropriate to dump someone during the date too!\n\nWelcome to the dating world. At least the other person respected you enough not to lead you on.