Is a lady boss more difficult to work for?
349624
No, gender has nothing to do with anything like that.
188543
Both men and women can be threatened by someone else in the workplace.  I think they are just insecure.  Do the best you can and it will work out for you in the end.
304086
They are not all like that, unfortunately some men are stuck in the past. It also works the other way round. Women only normally get to the top by being ruthless.\n\nNow finish ironing my shirt and get on with your work. (Joke)\n\nBy the way if he is going too far, there are laws against sexual discrimination. Or move on and find a better job/boss.
376262
yes, management must be as tight to make organization work
704556
there are women in my workplace who have ascended to managerial positions, starting out as secretaries/assistants, with only  a hs degree or an associates. men don't have that luck.\nAnd besides, any word or stare can be considered harassment, making women untouchable in an office.
174657
The one I work for now is the best.  We get along great.  The worst I've had was at my last job.  She was backstabbing bitch and she talked about everybody then acted like their best friend to their faces.  She even talked trash about her best friend, the assistant manager.
963173
No not now ive got a new job and all three of my bosses are lovely!! they actually treat you like a human being!I \n\nMy ex boss though she was evil! she even had a mini me! she wouldnt allow you to go to the toilet, call in sick (or be ill in general actually) you wernt allowed to talk look like you were having fun or take time off!\n\nI just hope my last employers rot in hell for what they put me through!\n\nI
1125791
A good boss should be approachable but it doesn't mean they have to be your freind.\nThey have to draw a fine line between being your boss and being your friend because as a boss, they have the value of the company in their hands. If they become too friendly others may take advantage of their nature which makes it harder for the boss to control them.\n\nIf you are finding them un-approachable you should bring this up with them. Ask to have a meeting and discuss your concerns. \nThey may not like what they hear but sometimes they are unaware how they portray themselves. They may even respect you for speaking up. \n\nDon't forget though......... bosses are still people. They still pooh in the morning and they look awful naked!!!
76758
What you are aware of is a product of women in the work place.  It is not fair and is not just and might not even be legal, but it does happen.  Not to promote any stereotype, but some women (and it is just a few, but no means most or even many) do sleep or blow their way to the top (or at least into a position to get their way).  Some only need to flirt.\nIt sounds like your boss is a bottom feeder.  If he is so easily manipulated then perhaps this is not the place for you to be.  His is not going to change and I doubt that your co-worker will either.  You must put up with it and just do your job or leave.  Those are your only choices right now.  If things become unbearable, before you leave (such as having to work seven day a week) look into the labor laws.  If the idiot in command is doing anything illegal, turn him in.  But first document what he did or is doing.\nThis job is only a tool for helping you get through school.  If it becomes more of a burden that it is worth, no matter how good it pays, then start looking around immediately.\nYou do not have to work at a place like that.  You do not have to work for an inconsiderate person (of any gender).  Your emotional well being is more important than accepting money from a person who does not appreciate you.  Even if you have to drop out of school for a semester to find a better job.\nThe best job is one that you can think “Wow, and these people are actually paying me to do this!”  The worse are those that make us say “Oh crap, I gotta go to work now.”  The choice is yours.  It is your life.  But take it from an old fart who was so happy that he learned when to say “Take this job and ….”
307618
You're right, you shouldn't be the boss and neither should she.  But a man should be the leader as long as he is respectful and mature about his intentions...by leader, I don't mean ruler.   A woman looks down on a man for being the weaker one and will not respect that, but on the other hand, admires a strong man who knows exactly what he wants and how to get it.  At the same time, being strong includes knowing when to be romantic and sensitive, and truly interested in her as a person.  You want to turn the tables in one fell swoop, so the next time a situation occurs where she is being bossy, put your foot down hard and show her a side of you she hasn't seen before.  From then on out, it won't be necessary to put your foot down so hard because she'll understand your boundaries. Good Luck!
594956
She can be a slave driver at times! That woman just pushes and pushes and expects me to do everything around the office! She gets a bad attitude at times too and she can really get on my nerves! She can be a royal "Witch"! She rarely lets me take my breaks and she always seems to be watching what I am doing and just waiting for me to mess up. Nothing I do is ever good enough for her. No matter how much I do each day, she expects more from me the next day. She expects me to work 7 days a week and I haven't had a day off or a vacation in 8 years! \n\nDang! I am really tough on me! I am my own boss! \n\nS.S.
840228
This is rather tricky...assess the strength of your team members individually and then consider different ways of keeping them motivated and focused. Females can be quite sensitive but given the right platform they are capable of alot of things. Have break in between working hours so that they continue to get time to know what their friends cooked for dinner last night and how the kids are doing...without affecting normal workflow. You can even organise group dynamics and teamwork camp so they are made aware of how much they need one another. \n\nThats just my 2cents of thought \n\nfrom a female working in an all male environment.
68698
There are ups and downs for both. \n\nIf you work for a man they tend to believe dumb stories when you want to get out of things. But they don't seem to have as much compassion for workers who are having problems at home.\n\nIf you work for a woman they think about what you are telling them and remember past events and put 2 and 2 together fast and see thru workers BS fast. But women seem to have more compassion for troubled home lives and try to help and understand.\n\nThat's just my opinion.
439968
I am a manager and also have a boss to answer to. I think one of the most important things to have is the ability to listen, and here what is wanted and needed and do your best to get it done. Make sure you boss knows what you are doing to accomplish the task along the way. Keep them involved in progress that is made.
1116673
Not bad at all where I work, but then again almost all our bosses are totally cool. But I've been places where people flat out tell their boss "F--k You", and nothing happens to them. Weird....
177076
depends on the woman most of us get guys to do the work for us.
239114
I would start looking for a new job. If there are bosses over her head I would start complaining to them about it also.