help...(guy problems)?
344436
wait until you are married. i know it sounds square but it saves u from a lot of pain. I wish i did. At least then u know that he is 100% commited to u and not using u. This might seem to hard but trust me life gets a lot harder if u dont. Do u want an std, a baby(i had one at 20 and when ur on ur own it doesnt matter how old u r its hard), a bad reputation or a broken heart? Hope u make the right choice sweetie. God Bless
168886
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
200762
Talk to him.  But if your friend likes him, then leave him alone.  Life is too short to chase after a guy who don't want you.  If he is not interested, then move on.
114590
Don’t rush it.  Take your time.  Sounds like you would be better off just talking to different guys until you get over your shyness.  You do not NEED to be dating anyone steadily.  Things will change drastically in college.  If you are more comfortable in talking with guys this will really help you.
852727
well in my opinion if your being yourself around him and he doesnt like you then their is OBVIOUSLY something wrong with him :) but you can always do little things to help him like you like wear a really pretty smelling perfume cuz guys can smell it even if they dont say so....also bring food, I swear food is the easiest way to get a guy to come over and talk to you. bring some and then ask them if they want any and theyll keep talking to you. Lastly one thing that i do that has worked for me is saying your hands are cold. say it and then touch their arm and theyll say someting like "geez your hands are cold!" and then sometimes depending on the guy he'll say " Feel mine they arent cold" and BAM their you go!my freinds starting doing this after i told them and they say it works so i hope it helps and i hope you get your guy!
1098880
speak to him find out about waht he likes. GOOD LUCK!
280412
Check out the cool guy for a bit, if you still don't like him dump him. If you don't really like the ugly guy, just end it. Sweetness is no reason to hold on. If the hot guy doesn't like you, just move on. It sounds like your a stud and can get as dates. Keep look for the total package.
470684
gurl, i have the same problem. but the guy is my best friend. to tell u the truth, i think he does like u. guys just dont go around making conversation. just keep an eye on him. maybe he really does like u.
1067254
grow up\n\njust talk to they guy
778696
try talking to him... let him know who you are... don't keep waiting    .........                                                                                                                                                                           by the way i'm a guy
343760
Just talk to him - Ask him out!
145581
just start a normal conversation like your talking to one of your guy friends. at first do worry about the fact that you like them or if they like you or whatever your nervous about. Just be yourself and remember its just another conversation.
1130210
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
643992
dont fight over a guy it doesnt worth it... wait and see which one of u got a chance. dont lose a friendship because of a guy!!!!
575000
just talk to him.. sometimes guys like it when girls make the first move... try asking him out to dinner 'n a movie one day or something...
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
311413
just stay friend with him. if he ain't interested, there ain't much u can do about it anyway. just enjoy his complany. if he likes u even the least bit, it'll come out sometime during ur friendship. trust me. guys never hold back about these things!