how do you get a girl to leave you alone without shaming her?
346364
Depends on your and her age, what type of "leaving you alone" do you mean.  Is she flirting with you at school?  Is she calling you at home, stopping by your home, always looking for you at school?  Is she a co-worker?   \n\nIf you are teenagers, I would just tell her that you do not feel that way toward her, and that there is nothing wrong with her, it's just you don't want that type of relationship with her.  Her feelings may get hurt but sometimes you just have to get blunt or they won't leave you alone.
652149
Just talk to her... not in an akward kind of way, but make conversation. And be funny. Funny is always good.\n\nBut if she doesn't seem to like you at all, the best thing to do would be to leave her alone for a while, unless she seeks you out. Then you know she wants to talk to you, not just the other way around. The most annoying thing is a guy who keeps talking to you all the time when you have made it very clear you want them to leave you alone.
936123
punish her if she is going 2 back talk u or something like that.you will not stand for that and u are in controol.
338082
ignore them or just simply tell them to leave you alone. if that doesnt work then maybe just giving the cold shoulder will give them the hint.
277173
Ignore her. She will self-destruct sooner or later.  The more that she sees that you are bothered or vexed, the more she will continue to do it.  She's trying to get your attention and if she finally realizes that it's not working, she will stop.
761509
Stand up to them and show them that you will not back down and let them bully you. When they call you names, call them names too. When they throw things at you, throw things right back at them. Whatever their doing to you, you make their life a living hell also. If they see fear in you then they will continue to bully you this way. It doesn't matter that it's more of them and just you. You make them see that yow will not let them ruin you. Stand up for yourself and these girls will know not to mess with you anymore.
837592
If you are mature, you take her aside and tell her as kindly as possible that you don't return her feelings.  If you are an immature heel, you use her, or just slink away without saying anything.  That is really cowardly if you ask me.
990429
ask a mutual friend to go to this girl and ask her what she thinks about you without her knowing that you sent her to ask.  Just let her know you do not want to hurt her feelings.  Just by having someone else ask for you it will not ruin your relationship with her if she is not interested in you.
655302
Oh God, it seems we all have friends like this. Don't you just wanna punch her? Anyway, you can't act like it bothers you, 'cause she'll get some major satisfaction. Even if you feel like you wanna roundhouse kick her like Chuck Norris, stay calm. Remember, you've got more class than she does. \n\nHopefully, it'll work out where he guy won't pay attention to her. Be sugary-nice - eventually her fakeness will come out. Mean girls never win. =]
874680
get her in a room alone with you and take off her clothes and fore her to do you.\n\n\nNO.\nI'm kidding!\nShes probably doing this because of religous reasons\nOr maybe its a little to fast for her.\neither way its really had to convince people like that\n\nThe last thing you should do is constantly bring up the\nfact that she hasn't kissed you.\n\njust let time do its magic.
540935
When the girl wants to be left alone she will be annoyed at your prescence and she will try to get away at every chance she can! Speaking from experience!! If she's playing hard to get she will give you little clues like at least talking to you or giving you little hints that she wants your company! There's a big difference just look for the different signs and signals that she gives off they will tell you whether you can determine how she is feeling!
461723
you should just be honest with them, give them hints that you don't want to be there friends start hanging out with other friends and leave her alone then she won't or she will get tired of being ignored then she might just leave you alone. or tell her in person or a note what ever you feel comfortable doing...goodluck
154716
TELL HIM TO LEAVE YOU ALONE
277997
Don't be afraid of confrontation. Just tell her that you don't appreciate how she b*tches about everything. In fact, tell those girls what she says about then and you can all confront her at the same time.
868705
Don't tell this girl anything, just keep your hands to yourself, she has made it clear, that she does not want to hug!!!
1079382
Well, just tell her that you don't want a relationship with her. Don't be mean with it. And tell her y'all can be friends. If she can't accept that then pay no attention to her or her friends.
479096
Do things together, make suggestions, not demands. Show her affection.  Don't treat her like any other girl.