what do i do if i still love my ex and he hates me?
340169
after an x there is always a Y and a Z
52963
Why is he an ex?  If it's a good reason, try to get over those residual feelings...know it's for the best that you aren't together.  I say, if you still have feelings, swallow your pride and let him know but also be prepared, just in case he says he doesn't feel the same.
846731
Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
460936
Well, I don't think you should really do anything. I think dislike is a natural emotion that can not be forced or really changed. I am a young girl myself, and I was in a relationship for a long time. I really didn't like the guy I was dating, but didn't break up with him for many reasons. But I really did despise him secretley. After that I realized I couldn't stand anything about him. I tried to make myself like him but I just couldn't. I broke up with him, and he tried to win be back. BUT I HATED HIM! So really nothing was going to work.\n\nSometime that just happens. You could try buying her flowers and all of that but I don't think any of it will work. My advice for you- move on.
602548
Help you?? You need to remember theres a reason why hes your ex in the first place.
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
568152
First of all you need to tell your ex to get over himself! Hes the one that messed up therefore he shouldnt be trying to get back at you! And even if lets say you were the one to cheat first then oh well lifes tough and he needs to move on! You and the "new" guy shouldnt even pay attention to your ex. I mean he is your EX hence the word EX as in he doesnt matter anymore! You guys should just ignore him and be happy!!
1016318
You have to go into this with an open mind. I had a similar situation arise and am still trying to correct it. I was in a relationship that lasted almost 6 years. I was verbally, physically and emotionally abused by my ex. I met a wonderful man who helped me get out of my situation and get my mind off my ex. But I still doted because I had grown a strong attatchment to him (my ex) even though I didn't love him anymore. By the time I realized I was in love with this new man, things were too late...I'm still praying for him to come back my way.  What I'm trying to get at is that you need to give yourself time to get over your abusive ex, because you won't be happy in your new relationship. Loving somebody else is a big sign that you're getting closer to that. Remember your ex is your ex for a reason and HE did all that bad stuff to you. Not your new guy. You will also realize quicker in a new relationship if he has abusive tendencies so you can move on.  I suggest calling him and trying to set something up such as    coffee, keep it casual and let him know face to face how you feel. I know your scared but you have to do it or you'll never know what could have been!
944336
Forget about your ex and his dangerous girlfriend! I read the other posts you put about how he told you you're too short and men only like tall women, etc... and he doesn't deserve you. How tall is he by the way? Go for the guy who you think likes you but don't do it to make you ex jealous!!! Do it for your own happiness and leave your ex alone! Tell him that you found someone else, and goodbye!
1092009
If he loved you and you broke up with him, you probably broke his heart and that's what killed the feelings. He probably still despises you for this, and probably wants to love you again but resents you for hurting him. If you stop the effort and lay off, he might start the effort. Lay off and relax, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be and it's just a waste of time, energy and emotion to try. If it doesn't work, move on, but in the meantime, just relax and try not to worry about it, if he wants to, he'll try.
636790
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,treat yourself well,stay away from your ex,and move on,my friend.Best wishes:)
634527
WELL get over it, and think and ask yourself, did he do his best to get you back, and does he really deserve you,OF COURSE NOT OTHERWISE YOU WOULD NOT BE DIVORCED\nHE DOESNOT LOVE YOU, YOU BETTER FIND TO YOURSELF SOMEBODY ELSE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU;
492909
Tricky one. all i'm gonna say is he's your ex for a reason and I really think you shouldn't go there as things could turn very ugly!\nJust hold yuor head up high and move on.
661319
talk to ur ex and tell him it was a misunderstanding. unless it's the truth, then u better break it off w/ him.