when a boy and girl love each other and both are afraid to tell each other... who do u think should tell first
355457
The first one who absolutely, positively KNOWS for sure they are just going to BUST if they don't say it.
649033
do they love or afraid of?
323941
Think it's because boys have problems expressing themselves,to get a boy to tell you how their feeling or what they're thinking is quite hard really.If they just came out and said it straight away that would be better but they never do,they always seem to beat around the bush or brush it off...lads need to be more open and frank about how they truly feel...think that would help loads...
1037841
This is an advice from me , be honest and be brave and tell her in a polite way.\nFor example: tell her your feeling as a story then asked her how was her feeling about this story ? and what will she do if she become the boy who doesn't like the girl who loved him ,and do the answer.
296296
never let a boy get in the way of  a good friendship so i think that they both should just leave him alone and find someone else.......but if the other ghurl doesnt mind letting her go out wit him then let it be that way....
852344
if you feel that strongly about saying it, do it. just tell him how you feel. tell him that you don't want to scare him because of his previous relationship, but you've been feeling that way, and its killing you to tell him, even tell him you feel like a teenager again. and don't get all upset if he doesn't say it back. if he doesn't say it back, he might not be ready yet, doesn't mean he doesn't feel that way, but he'll say it when he's ready. "It never seems the right moment." - there is never a wrong moment to tell someone you love them.
377509
Tell only your true friend that you know wont get you in trouble by telling them. if you already dont trust them then you shouldnt tell those friends. if you plan on continueing the relationship with this boy then you are going to need there help in this situation but if you dont have a chance of breaking him up with his girlfriend then you need to keep it to yourself so no one finds out and you get a bad name.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
896881
In my opinion, the person(A), should listen to A's mum(B). Let B gain trust in A until B loosens.\n  Most likely B is afraid to lose A because she knows A is growing up. In her heart, she wish that A will continue to be her little girl/boy. But that won't happen because, like it or not we all are growing older every minute.\n  Besides that, B is worried for her child, A's safety. Nowadays, the newspapers tell the most gruesome news. B may think that controlling A is the solution.\n  Sometimes, parents act in the most hurtful ways to show they care.
302406
Don't be too open or you'll freak the other person out. Don't be too imtimate too soon, but important things should be discussed.
514431
It depends what is comfortable for her, him and the child. You don't want to make a situation uncomfortable especially when a child is involved. It is nothing wrong with drawing lines and boundaries if the parents both agree and follow them. \n\nThey have to rise this child together despite who they are with so it  is important for them to keep a healthy relationship. Somethings that work for others don't always work for everyone. \n\nI praise your friend for saying something and saying she was uncomfortable because it could have turned ugly or change the atmosphere for the child involved to an made it an uncomfortable one.
365381
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
948324
I'd tell. A lot of people are afraid to be the first to say it. I'm not and I did and I'm so glad I did.
738373
Don't stress about it. Unless you get into a girl/girl relationship, it's probably not imperative to tell your parents until you are sure. I thought I was going through a phase, too, but after a couple years a figured out I wasn't. You will eventually figure it out, as long as you don't obsess about it, and just listen to your heart (cheesy, I know, but true).
570379
tell the other boy its not working out be honest with him
606170
First of all, congratulations and second of all, yes you should tell them because you guys love each other and are going to be together forever. It's very important to you.
169360
You shouldn't HAVE to choose between them. Tell them that the fight is between THEM not you and that you're not going to pick sides. So either kiss and make up, or just accept that you will have them both as friends.