Is it possible to have a sexual relationship with a person and not let your feeling take over?
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Before I read the details, I was going to answer "only if you are a man".  But I see it's more complex.\n\nWe're all tired of being lonely, and who can resist a fireplace and ice cream?  There's nothing wrong with wanting the physical, but any woman who can stop there is rare indeed, it's natural to get attached emotionally.  \n\nAs long as you are at least in your 20s, you have Free Will and can do what you want, so I don't think it's really an issue of "wrong", just probably impractical.\n\nYour biggest mistake is giving up your belief that there is such thing as Love....  Do not give up on love just because most guys are jerks.  There are quite a few out there who are just right for you.  Keep your eyes open.  \n\nMake damn sure you don't get pregnant.
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It feels wonderful and it can bring you closer to someone if you are comfortable with them and you decide for yourself that you want to do it, however it can make you feel wretched if you are pressured to do it before you are ready or if you are with someone that you don't really care about.
135352
It's possible, just most people don't have the mental capacity for it. If you don't have the mental capacity for it, you're going to think it's not possible. A good friend of mine has two girlfriends he loves beyond physical/sexual attraction, and they know and hang out with each other.
648714
yah, just like a woman can love a man but not always be in the mood for sex.
267360
first of all you may be good to some people and not to others. everyone likes different things so dont let that be a huge factor. i would hope that you wouldnt base your relationship with someone on just sex. a relationship is about connecting with someone physically, but more importantly mentally and emotionally. you are still single because you have found someone you can connect with outside of the bedroom.
55826
Yes I think it can be a possibility. Especially since you value that person alot and yet have the sensibility to know that you cannot take things to another level :-)
150792
The term hypersexuality, i feel, is relative from person to person..as long as it is self-controlled and unharmful to others..it is no big problem
554817
Yes you can. It may be a little odd and somewhat hard at the beginnig, but it is possible. I don't know how comfortable you would be, but try going into a book store and in the relationships sections -usually by self help and psychology- look at the sexual books. They help especially when you're not too sure about things.
1029730
No.  Sex is meaningless and can be done between any two people regardless of emotion.  It's when you have a deeper connection with someone that sex becomes meaningful.  Otherwise, it's really just scratching a physical itch.
475205
im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
480080
totally agrees with you.  The world is full of ppl we can connect with without acutally "knowing" them.  Like if they eat with thier mouth closed, do they put the toilet seat down, turn off the shower thing on the tub when they get out, etc etc etc.  I think you can develop feelings if you talk to someone for a long time, yes, but I think it is far from love.  In order to love someone you have to see all the negative and positive at least to make a judgment based on fact and not just what they might type to you.
342571
I agree with you that in most relationships, it really bonds two people. There are a few exceptions but they are very rare.\nEach time I have sexy with my hubby, I feel closer than ever before!
434508
Yo9u are dealing with two different people, with different emotional feelings, thoughts, etc.  If there is absolutely no physical attraction for either, I would say yes, if there is then "no".  Tough question, because you have to know the people involved.
915147
Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
484482
You don't let your sexual feelings get involved sometimes you have to use your good judgements when you know that something isn't going to work even though you are sexually attracted to someone. Or you can just call me!
1005524
Yes. You can be attracted to a person's body, but not their mind. Or vice versa
170387
wrong maybe but you have to resolve how you really feel about this person sometimes this is easier if you know if the attraction if real or if it's left from back experiences with this person also how this person feels about their material partner if they cheat on their partner why wouldn't they lie to you about their feelings for you