I'm white and want to get preg with a Black male, opinions?
355600
trust me, you dont need to go to the ghettos to get an african american guy thre are plenty of them living in good suburbs and nice places than even whites. if he is your boyfriend and you are planning to get married then move on have his baby, infact mixed babies are so beautiful than none mixed whites. congratulations.
835191
Why does it matter that he was very sweet and respectful in regards to his race?  are you more suprised at the fact that you have a good man or a good black man?  Race shouldn't even be in the cards.  Personally, I could care less if he's black, white, green, or purple.....as long as he treats u right, get yours.
577705
the only way to be safe and not get pregant is condoms and birth controll!! you can easley get pregant from prenut! trust me i know!!!!been there done that
106685
Visit Online Personals that cater to those interested in interracial dating.  You can sign up with several different Personal Sites that aren't specifically for interracial dating.  You only need to state your preference and wait for the messages to come in.  Whatever you do dude, be yourself and don't do anything to embarrass yourself. :) My last girlfriend tried to be "black" and she looked a like a fool. Haha Be yourself!
612594
OK, I'm not addressed (white guy here) but I'd date/marry any color woman if we clicked. It'll be interesting to see what sincere black males contribute here.
870065
I personally think interracial dating is a beautiful thing. I don't think it matters as long as the the two people that is in that relationship are happy, that's all that matters. f$%K what other people think. it's the 21st century and if they can't deal with it, then don't look. And about the babies. Beautiful kids. that's all I have to say.
719946
i have had sex with black men.  i wont, however, get into the details.  you should try it sometime (assuming youre single)
787452
Your baby will be multi-racial. Like much of the world truly is. I hope it doesn't worry you! If it bothers people, they are not your friends anyway!
132685
Nevermind all the cruel responses you have received here.  I will be as informative as possible without judging you.\n\nIf the difference is between a black man and a white man, then the difference is shown at birth.  But this is probably not the case for you.\n\nThere are only two ways in court to prove paternity, one is when both people (mother and father) claim that the baby is theirs.  The other way is DNA.\n\nThe DNA test is expensive, and takes a while for the results.  \n\nIf the father is not available, then you will never know, and any allegation of paternity will not hold up in court.\n\nEven if you totally know who the father is, he can say "no it isn't", and you will be required to do DNA test to prove your allegation.\n\nSorry the answer you seek is not possible.  I hope good luck will come to you.
811988
I'm black and my husband is white.
557753
Well, a tough situation for you, but you should tell him that you are pregnant with his child only because it's fair for him to know. If he chooses to be there in support of the child that's great!!! If he is not, then you have to decide for the child what's going to be best for him/her and if that means getting money from this guy then that is what it will take. Good Luck!!!!!
157043
The best thing to do is go to a fertility doctor and have them conduct tests. If you are unable to concieve, then they have other options for you if you are wanting children. You might want to bring your mate with so they can test also. Sometimes it's the guy, not always the girl. They would have solutions for that too. Good luck!
739545
I hurt with you. A lot of things should not be an issue, but they are in family situations. All four of our children are from different races than my wife and I. It took one side some time to get used to the idea and relearn what racism smells like.\nOur two oldest sons are Asian married/relating to white women. A little brag - the women's parents think our sons are such great material, they are thrilled. Thus:\nLesson 1: Only bring quality material home to mother. The girl will know how to handle her by praising and showing interest in your heritage.\nLesson 2: Show your own interest in your heritage so your mother will know her "life" will not be forgotten.\nLesson 3: This is neither new nor unique to you. Latino's and blacks, previously Roman Catholics and anyone else, my good Irish stock w/ English, in dating it was my lower middle class vs. upper class. Hang in there. You are helping make a new world.\nAt last.
346562
You 2 are going to have some GORGEOUS babies!\n\nYou are still dating your own race.  Last I checked people of Hispanic descent were of the human race just like Caucasians, Asians, Black...etc.
490130
The probability is low...I know from experience because i'm a black woman that likes white men but it's so uncommon...Just gotta ask and find out.
788645
first of all, I believe that most fathers would jump down the throat of a man who just wrecked his daughters car and caused her to have to go to hospital. That's not a race thing. Had he been a black man I'm sure the same would have followed. However, there is an adjustment when one of your own(so to speak) dates a person of another race. They should have been over it by now, dating for three years, so perhaps it's not his color that's bugging them at all. Maybe it is just his character.I'm a white woman, whose sister married a black man, and I remember how hard it was on my parents for a while. We all realize that people are people and wouldn't it be such an easier world to live in if we didn't see race or color, but unfortunately it is the way it is, and how do we change ones opinion? We don't. We just have to take a hold of our lives, and do what is absolutely best for us. If this is the man you want to spend your life with, well, your parents can't stop your heart. And as for his family"economic class", that's their class, not his. He will establish a class of his own. Whether they're poor or rich, he's neither yet, that has yet to be established until he is on his own, with his own life. If you were only doing this to spite your parents, I'd say you're making a huge mistake. But if you truly love this man, your parents won't abandon you, at least not forever, follow your heart, and best wishes with your future plans.
390590
If he is white get a black man instead.  He will take care of you.