advice on how to get over my crush?
347103
Get professional help. I don't know how old you are but if your in school a school conselor should be able to help. Please do not think that I think you are crazy b/c I don't, and you don't have to be crazy to see one. To see one means you know you have some unresolved issues to deal with, and trust me from what I'm understanding the issue with your ex is very unresolved. They will show you how to move on. Good luck sweetie.
383491
Take it easy.  Give it time.  Since you used the term "boy" I am assuming that you are not an adult.  Trust me, the feelings you have now will no longer exist when you become an adult.  When you get older, this boy won't matter to you at all.  Therefore, you have only two options here. Either way you have to first realize that this REALLY isn't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. \n\nhere are your options...\n1. Realize that your situation is nonsense and forget about it altogether.\n \n2.  Realize that none of this is going to matter at all one day so you have nothing to lose.  Just tell him how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same about you, oh well.  Doesn't matter.  Move on.  \n\nIn a few months or years you'll have a new crush and you can make this decision all over again at that point in time, with the same two options.  Also, if you go ahead and tell him how you feel, there's always the chance he feels the same and you two can do whatever it is you plan to do with each other.  (yay!)
587608
u get over a crush but not love
367520
I feel u, im in the same position but its only 3 yrs not 5 ;p well i told him abt 4 months ago that i have feelings (he's my best friend btw) and that i need 2 take a distance to get over him and we stayed like that 4 a month and it didnt work...try 2 get urself involved with other ppl, convince urself that u like some1 else...(i have no idea why am I giving advice) just try 2 get urself 2 think of some1 else
338201
I think the best course of action is to have no contact with her if possible.  It's hard when your heart still pulls you towards someone even though you know there is nothing but heartache there.  Do your best to stay occupied, filling your time with other friends, hobbies, work, etc so that eventually not thinking of her becomes more of a habit.  OR...as my 77 yr.old grandmother told me during a breakup..."the best way to get over one...is to get under one!" ;-)  Good luck!
850785
You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
475551
stay with love. a crush will always end the way it sounds CRUSHED!!!!!!! they could've called it something else but they called it crushed. love is forever and will never go away if you leave it.
898954
In my experience I have learned you should just get over him.  One of my best friends (that was a girl) liked me and it got really awkward for a long time.  But if you think you have a shot and it is worth the risk go for it.
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
242969
1.Get yourself involved in some other activities to help get your mind off the person.  \n2. There are other fish in the ocean, and maybe by getting involved in something, you can meet someone special that will heal that broken heart.\n\nThe main thing is you got to move on or nothing will happen.
534982
find another crush..!
1077564
You probaly won't get over the feelings ever. To get over him, date him. Then you'll see how much of a jerk he really is. And then you wont like him anymore.
772328
EVEN I HAD FACED THIS PROB EARLEIR AND I GOT THE CURE FOR THIS FROM YAHOO ANSWERS ONLY !\n\nI'LL TELL U.... GET YOUR EAR CLOSER.....\n\nSTEP1:FIRST I BECAME A GUD FREND(girls love boys with virtues thats for u fool... i am a girl)\n\nSTEP2:BECOME HER BEST FREND\n\nSTEP3:HELP HER WITH HER CRUSH OR BF\n               (dont worry she'll be yours only)\nSTEP4:START IGNORING HER A BIT \n           (this way she will realize your value)\n\nSTEP5: THEN START POURIN OUT ALL YOUR CONCERN FOR HER AND GIVE HER A FEW HINTS REGARDING YOUR CRUSH ON HER\n\nSTEP6: LAST WHEN SHE FALLS IN FOR THIS U MAY PROPOSE HER IN A ROMANTIC WAY!\n\nAFTER ALL THIS I BET SHE'LL BE YOURS\n\nPS-U MAY TRY THIS I AM SURE IT WILL WORK COZ THIS WORKED FOR ME AND NOW MY CRUSH WHO ONCE CALLED ME UNATTRACTIVE IS A LOYAL BF OF MINE SINCE 3 MONTHS!!!
962058
First off, take a deep breath.  Calm down.  Now, crushes are okay, as long as you can control them.  As you said, they are unstoppable.  But they are not supposed to be uncontrollable.  Just act as if you don't have the crush.  Act the way you normally do in front of him and do your work the way you're supposed to.  DON'T let him know that you like him, as it would only cause awkwardness and a lot of bad feelings.  Nothing good can come out of telling him.  Ride it out.  Eventually, you will find another guy that you are interested in.  This crush may seem like it will last forever, but it won't.  Soon enough, you will either fall for a hot guy you just met or you will see an old friend in a new light.  Until then, just play it cool.
12790
Get his s/n....and send him messages every once in a while. Also become his friend. Brush by his side accidentally but on purpose, it will definatly get him to start thinking about you. P.S.~ the bushing past your crush should take less than 10 sec. HOPE IT WORKS!!!!!!!
334000
Get him out of your life and take time to get over him. Don't talk to him at all! That's what worked for me!
925756
This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..