would women date obese men?
353758
Uh, there's nothing wrong with obese, I could definitely see my-self falling in love with an obese woman. (f.v.i., I'm not obese, I'm almost underweight, and I'm a vegetarian, that info might help in trying to find an answer, most overweight people wouldn't mind having an overweight spouse, so I guess that info is needed?).  Hope this helps!
1095977
Yes definitely. A woman who is comfortable with her size and her body is very attractive.
133831
well i use to think so but i guess not cause my boyfriend loves me and loves my body just because its apart of me! so if he really loves you it doesn't matter whats big, small, thin, or fat he will love all of you!!!There is not one woman that is perfect cause even the women who seem perfect dont like something about themselves!!!
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
1067581
I couldn't date a fat guy or anything like that, but I've dated quite a few guys who others have considered unattractive and I thought they were just great because of their personality. So to me, after getting to know them, they became extremely attractive and cute to me.\nI do draw the line though.  I couldn't date a fat, nasty guy or anything like that. Sometimes I find myself not even wanting to date a guy that everyone thinks is attractive.
597480
I'm a BIG GUY!\n\nAnd I Bullsh*t you not, but I've never had a compliant from any woman I have gave the business tooo....\n\nAlso, I am upset that ppl think Fat guys go small d*cks!\n\n(My is thick and long)
356601
Personally I like a woman that is thicker. However some women are just to overweight. The problem is not men its the way that the magizines and TV have programmed everyone into thinking that an attractive woman has to have a figure like a pencil which I find revolting. There are men out there for everyone you just have to find him. Set your standards and never settle and you will have a great guy.
578697
Of course it is!  If it's okay for guys to like a woman with no brain and huge breasts, why wouldn't it be okay to like one with a big butt?
879585
I have seen a documentary a couple of years ago about men being attracted to fat women. One guy, I recall, was claiming that fat is addictive in the sense that the fatter his partner the fatter he was seeking the next time. I do not have the capacity to judge if this is a question of taste or a mental disorder but as far as I know there are clubs of such fans of fat partners
975492
You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
938131
Absolutely- Some women prefer their men taller than them, but its who YOU are that matters, and woman worth her weight is gonna know that and care about you for you.
48980
It might appear so, if you are quite obese the base of your penis may get obscured by all the fat.  Other than that...no.\n\nIf it were true you'd see a lot more skinny guys! :)
412076
hedzzzindahouse is right to an extent, I'm almost underweight and healthy but I think (most of the time) fat or overweight girls are more nice than skinny so most of the time I look for overweight people to date, most really skinny people think there "all-that", so I go for the other people, not necessarily "fat" girls, but not really skinny either (im not talking bad about skinny people , since, i am one, but alot of them ARE stuck-up, that Ive seen) but, just for the record, im not one of the ones who stuck-up.
681730
the answer is yes !!! and of course no.....if you look in the category of men aged 20-30 you will find a percentage that find women aged 20-30 and big very attractive. Equally there will be men in this category that only find smaller women attractive, but i can guarantee you, whatever your age, whatever your size, there are a mass of men out there who think you are drop dead gorgeous
637830
Truthfully speaking, I believe most men are attracted to women with curves, but they are afraid to admit it, as if it were illegal to do so. You see society predicates what is beautiful, and honey we aint it!, and that's a shame, because the average woman is a size 14.\n\nSociety needs to reconfigure its idea of beauty, and realize that "REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES" not every man wants a twiggy. Society views a woman with curves to be overweight, and she may not be, there is nothing wrong with being healthy and having some junk in your trunk too. Most men dont want a bone, most men want meat on their bones, you know what I mean!\n\nI wish that us thick girls could get some love too, just like our thinner counterparts. I guess guys are afraid of what others will think, as a matter of fact I have a male friend that is attracted to thick women, and all his friends tell him he's a chubby chaser, now that is just not fair, but he doesnt care, he tells them they dont know what their missing, but you can see where I'm going with this, his friends are the equivilent of how society views us thick girls, and that is just so sad, because we are the majority not the minority!\n\nHowever I am feeling confident that slowly but surely societies ideals of us is changing, thanks to people like Mo'Nique and Toccara, they are starting to break down some barriers.\n\nI hope my answer, as long as it is, was helpful to you. Keep your head up sistah, we gonna get in there....\n\nI hope I was able to help you out!!!
841006
My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.
920624
No, but its one thing to be pleasantly plump and be morbidly obese. "Here honey, eat another 2 pints of Ben and Jerry's, because of love"(??)