myfriend never wants to talk to me when her biyfriend is around.should that bug me?
340844
Yes it should bug you,,is she afraid of the competition?  I think that is very selfish of her and if I were u I'd make a point of always going up and saying hi whenever you see them..And if u see him alone, ask him a question about her like "is she going to be here soon cause i really wanted to see her' or "would u ask her to call me later"  anything to let her know that you were alone with him and didn't try to steal the jerk
1012836
I would guess that she was jealous that you got the attention and not her. The are a lot of reasons she could be jealous. I would express to her that this hurts your feelings. You treat people how to treat you and if you put up with her behavior she will continue to do it. If she is truly your friend, she should understand and make attempts to stop the behavior.
707306
She defiantly has relationship issues. She gets jealous when you spend time with other people, this is an insecurity issue.  She needs to learn to make other friends, too, and let you have a life without her.  I'm not sure how close of friends that you are, but I would think that this would drive you crazy, and drive your relationship apart.  I would either have a talk with her, or find some distance.  This reminds me of the movie "Single White Female II" that I watched a few nights ago.  Scary!  Good luck
206249
She's probably jealous of you, if I were you I would confront her. If she's a backstabber you have no friendship to lose. She's already ruined it.
102701
I think,sometimes maybe she didn't mean not playing with you,she just want to have her own space to think her own things.As friend , you must give her that freedom. But some friends do just don't like to play with us, we don't know the reasons, maybe we are a little dull? Who knows?!
34619
maybe your trying too hard to be funny. I know some people like that and its kind of annoying. Tell her you werent talking to her or you dont care what she thinks if shes being mean
253215
I think your instinct is totally on. Let sleeping dogs lie. Now, how do we stop the propaganda that happened years ago? You have to prove to these people and show them the real you. Your peers must be part elephant, for them to remember and hang on to, 2 year old gossip! Are you sure that someone isn't keeping the gossip alive by some chance? That may be your problem. Any how, talk is cheap. Action speak louder than words. When you go to school Monday, you raise your head high, brush your pearly whites and smile. Make eye contact and start saying hi. If the chance presents itself, do favors or small tasks that could help them out. Waiting this long to try to correct a problem has put you in a bad position. But not a permanent position. Following this simple guide line, you will be alright. As far as your friend, the next time something like this happens, talk to her right away. It sounds like to me, she could be jealous of you, and want you to be her friend alone. But you can change that too. Just include her in with the things you and your new friends will be doing. Now its all left up to you, to take charge and end this once and for all. You go Girrrl.........!
354941
THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!!! all i did was just ignore her and not talk to her for days. but one day she herself said "hi" to me and i was shocked cuz she was talking to ME. so i said hi and now we r frends. not talkin made her feel really bad and she started talkin to me! peace and good luck!!!!!!
269108
If she is sensitive then just try not to push her buttons. Keep her as a friend still, just don't bug her about the little things. That's what I would do.
270688
Hmmm... Really sounds strange huh? Well, I'm a Man but I think I can answer your question... Maybe you're right about what you suspect for the reason she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but you really have to talk to her because there can be many reasons for this situation, maybe you can ask her if someone was backstabbing you and telling things about you against your friend... Right? Losing a friend like yours is very depressing because both of you have been to lot of ups and downs... For now, try to take time for her to think it over, same to you as well, think of the things that possibly you've done that hurted her feelings too... Because if she was your friend for 12 years already, jealousy is not a big factor and she should be proud of you as her bestfriend... Maybe jealousy to other friends of yours is a reason... Try to talk to her ok? But at the right time... Goodluck to your friendship and I'm sure you will get her back...
465536
Sounds to me like she's not a true friend, if she can't be honest and tell you why she is acting differently. \n\nEven if you have said or done something to upset her, how are you supposed to know if she wont talk about it? You're perfectly entitled to join a gym if you want to, if she doesnt share your interests it shouldnt affect a friendship.\n\nYou deserve better. Seems to me her own issues are losing her a good friend.
36324
I think that either she is jelous, worried that you will fail, or if she's a friend she may just not want to loose you. If she's not a friend she may  just not like you and wants to irritate you in any way...if this is the case ignore her. If you play her game she'll only get worse.
1143630
I think you should continue to talk to her, but know your limits when speaking to her. If you keep on talking to her, she will soon realize you are a true friend, and not a ***** like her. Show her that you aren't like her. I also think that if she is talking about you or your bestfriend, she is jealous of you two. Be ahead of the game, don't let her keep you stressing. Don't trip off her she's just another obstacle in life trying to bring others down.
1013684
I think you should talk to her and tell her that she keeps ignoring you and it's been hurting you. You shouldn't end it if you haven't talked to her about it yet. Sometimes it may be because you talk about something, that offends, or it just gets "annoying" or sometimes it can be because you call her too much. If she doesn't respond, then she isn't really a good friend, and maybe you should let her go for a while.
642500
You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
600693
Its funny because I've just gone through this.  Remember, you must make yourself happy and no one else.  Maybe she's jealous of all the attention you're getting, who knows.  If she's your friend, she wouldn't be jeolous and will eventually come around.  If she doesn't, she was never your friend to begin with.  Enjoy your life, have fun and don't ever worry about what the next person, friend or foe, has to say.  BE HAPPY!!!!!
657141
First of all...she is NOT your Best Friend.  Second...she is probably jealous.  Ignore her comment.