what is up with my girl?? or is it just me?
338304
be gone with her. u r a safety net for her cuz u will always be there and she knows it. she is not ready to committ yet, but doesn't want to be alone. think about it. Does she every leave u without havin another guy there to take ur spot. she doesn't want to be alone, but she wants to play the feild. either get out or make it an open relationship.
643879
why are you so worried about that ? do you love her ?\ndo you feel that this is getting to you to much ?\njust trust her man she is a woman and she chose you to be with ! don't beet yourself up about this ! She loves you and wants you that's all that matters ! are you a virgin !\npast is history does it matter what she is ?\n:) always smiling !
479780
Do you love her? If yes, go talk to her at least, maybe she was in a bad space. If no, dump her a**.
522383
Ever heard the words..."nice guys finish last"...well its true, treat her like shit, ignore her and see how long it takes for her to come back. Girls like a little competition and some challenge in a relationship...trust me I have been there. If all else fails, kick her to the curb and find another girl that is worth your adoration. Good luck.
848698
she probably heard something wierd about you and its wierding or freaking her out. invent some urgent thing and get her together with you and hash out this problem. b/c its obvious u like her
612369
It seems to me that this girl have an attitude problems or she don't know how to express herself. I'm a female myself and I get mad quick but as I gotten older I can control it more. But this gurl want you to kiss her butt, that's why she get mad when she hangs up in you and don't call her back Good FOR HER, because she needs to learn how to COMMUNICATE that's the key if something is bothering her. I think that it is good that y'all are friends. If you really like this gurl than tell her that whatever is bothering her just to talk to you about the situation. relationships are going to work overnight it takes time and trust.
156386
...its normal to be concerned... but you should talk to her about it. don't say anything negative, but don't talk about it too much. you should plan times that you can hang out. Maybe you just need more time with her. :)
623377
Your g/f is very immature. I know you said to answer yes or no. But you need to know something...If she is this immature and selfish (which is what it is) then that means she will "growup" in time. When she does its very likely she will also "out grow" you. I don't mean this as putting you down. I mean it as a warning to you. You have accepted this behavior in her. When she changes she may very well decide that she doesn't want a guy who would put up with this. DON'T put up with it. Its rude. And she needs to know you can't treat people this way.\nGood LUck To YOU!
67118
Look, this girl is probably really insecure, or shes just totally messed up. Don't go acting like all girls are like that: everyone has different personality. I think shes looking for a relationship she has total power over and she isnt going to get that. From the way I see it, there is no way for her to learn other than the hard way. Don't talk to her anymore and leave the issue alone: it isn't worth your reputation or anything for that matter...
24437
Perhaps your intuition is trying to clue you in on something. It would be a good idea to sit down and talk with her about it in a non-judgmental, non-threatening way. Just let her know how you're feeling and see how she responds. Even if you're being paranoid at least you will have gotten it out in the open. It's also possible it's something relatively insignificant and she may feel it's not important enough to "bother" you with. Give her plenty of opportunity to share her feelings with you about your relationship, where it's headed and any needs she might need met.
112911
u must be another girl cuz that really doesnt happen that often or if ur a guy maybe she got bored of u and its faking it becuz u just dont fullfill her if i was u i would make sure she really its getting whta she needs ur proudisness maybe blinding u.
1097213
What are you doing now that is different from all the other times to show you that you are serious this time?  \n\nIf you are doing nothing differently, then you have to ask yourself just how serious are you?  Plus, is she sees nothing different, she has no reason to believe you.\n\nAre you seeking counseling?  \n\nHere's another thing that guys don't do very well with: do you show her affection and attention?  Do you leave her little notes, touch her arm when you walk by her, take the time to listen to her with no outside distractions such as TV or radio?  Women are like plants: if they don't get watered (which means attention, comfort, security) they wither like a plant.  When they wither, they feel insecure and unloved.\n\nAnd I say this in all seriousness, and don't mean it to sound like women are needy.  They need certain things in a relationship just like men.  In fact, I think a lot of men would be surprised at how understanding a woman can be if she is watered (again using the analogy here).
345422
She's got issues dude.\nDrop her before it gets any worse.\nIt will man....believe me, it will.
630801
oooooo k...........talk to your bf see whats going on. thats weird though, has she told you why she disided to talk to this girl all suddenly? lets just hope shes not a hypocrit(however you spell that word)good luck! TALK to her!
421852
you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
1150327
she may have interest in another man, what did she say or do if anything, and if you know any of her friends, ask them if they noticed somthing different about her lately tell them you are concerned because she has been acting shady or something of the like and they might possibly be able to lead you to your answer. She might just be getting scared of committment, in that case let her know that you will slow it down if she would feel more comfortable with that. Or if the circumstances under which she told you she really liked you were induced by pleasurable activity(drinking, spending considerable amounts of time with you, sex ect...), she might have felt that way at the time and then after the activityt ended realized that mabey she didnt like you as much as she thought, mabey she was just being nice, or mabey she was being a bitch to get what she wanted. Mabey you possibly did something that turned her off. Hmmmm... we females are darn complicated, those are just some of the possiblities that come to mind, but the best way to find out is to ask her, and be polite about it and ask for the truth. Good Luck to you. Hope i helped.
562847
sorry pal but she may be suffering from intense stress or a mental illness. talk to her calmly and dont call her crazy. be very sensitive about her attitude. maybe she has a problem that she is holding inside. In my opinion, maybe she thinks you should figure it out yourself and she thinks she shouldn't have to tell you. I have done that in the past. us women haven't realized that men aren't mind readers. OUR BAD!!