what do gay guys see in another guy?
340415
Looks matter to a certain extent. I'll be honest and say I wouldn't date someone incredibly homely and 600 lbs, and most of you would agree. Personality is immensely important to me. He must be a good listener, and can't be arrogant.
826217
Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.
829631
of course u notice looks first ... then personality ..  if u think about it .... if the guy looks like frankenstien ..has 1 damaged eye.. but his personality is perfect ... come on ... u are not goin to date him ..or think twice about him
511895
Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
344529
I look at their face first, a guy's smile is the best thing for me. But as they are talking to me my eyes do tend to drift elsewhere. I look at their crotches or their hands. I like guys that work hard but can stay clean and well manicured, plus if they are carrying a loaded weapon in their boxers its totally worth looking at. There was a guy I went to high school that was rumored to have been hung like a horse, nobody could look at his face after that one.
600667
If that guy meets the requirements you're looking for, both of you have something in common, and you enjoy each other's company. That is when you'll know that you're with the right guy.
368730
Do you attracted to people of the same sex?  If so, you are probably gay.
330198
just like in a boy-girl situation..\n\nhe gives him extra attention\nhe compliments him a lot\nhe buys him coffee/drinks\nhe looks at him adoringly\n\nso many ways to tell...y? r u interested in another guy???\nnothing wrong with that..just be verrrry careful honey...the recipient of your liking might not like it!!!!\nthere are still many closed-minded people in this place we call WORLD!
681988
Unusual, yes, most straight guys I know are freaked out by gay men.  I wish I could find a straight man that is comfortable around gay people.  My best friend (whom I live with) is gay and I would love to find a man that would be comfortable with my best friend .
845666
u are looking at the wrong guys. you are attracted to the guys that have tendencies to act this way. change what you are looking for, and your results will change!
902183
gay guys /taken guys (most of them)- friend\n\nstraight guys - gf\n\n\n(and i am not being anti gay or anything but i mean a gay guy wouldnt look at a girl for a gf  duh)
587017
if you are gay then you should like other gay men
130464
I'm not much into gay stuff, but if you hang out with gay's you'll eventually feel out someone who will treat you right because you'll be treating that person the same way...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
911170
OK, one by one...\n1. He just likes thongs\n2. Is just an emotional person\n3. Gay guys can have guy friends\n4. He likes it smooth\n5. Eyeliner is a bit odd, but not necessarily gay\n6. He just cares about his appearance\n7. Some gay people have deep voices\n8. Since gay or straight depends on who you are sexually attracted to, this one has some merit...\n9. Porn with females, another one with merit...\n10. Both gay guys and straight guys use their penis for something\n11. Most guys like cars, gay or straight\n12. Could be that he is constantly asked about his sexuality by nosy people\n13. Comments on sex, this one has merit too.\nand lastly, bdsm...   maybe has merit.\n\nNow lets look at the questions with merit, has sex with girls (straight), has porn with girls in it (straight), makes gay jokes (could be considered gay in hiding, but if constantly asked about his sexuality could go either way), and lastly the bdsm with dongs. Both gay guys and straight guys have a prostate that feels good when massaged, could be he is not hung up on having a dong define his sexuality (could also go either way).\n\nMy guess is that he is probably straight with a smaller possibility of being bisexual, and would also probably like to not be questioned about his sexuality so much.\n\nbtw, how do you know so much about his penis pump, porn, and dongs?
381923
Absolutely EVERYONE (straight, gay or bi) is attracted to certain physical and personality characteristics about someone else (male, female or both).  For example, some people like long legs, blond hair, sense of humor, sense of style, etc.\n\nLesbians are no exception - each one is different and only each one can tell you what attracts her to another woman.  I'm sure there are certain things in another person that attracts you, but that doesn't mean the next person would be attracted by the same.\n\nI hope this answers your question.
1178462
James, I would be glad to fill you in. One thing I like about other men is their attitudes clearly state "boy". Secondly, many men have attractive bodies (and each person has their own ideal "type"), as for personalities I like the funny and cute guys... if they're shy, that'll work too. Body parts that I like are the face (especially the eyes), and the back (although other gay men like other things.). When I see a cute man, I feel rather anxious. I feel like I want to talk to him, I feel like I want to ask him out, and I also feel sad that I live in a world where I can't just do that freely. Also, if I see a cute man but I'm around my step-dad (the one person in the world I can't come out to for some personal reasons), I feel angry that I might have missed my chance because I couldn't be "out" around him. Hope this helps. Contact me if this isn't clear enough for you.\nAloha,\nDavid
1115292
I'm a guy but I am gay but what I tend to look for in a guy in 1. confidence 2. Smile 3. Generosity (not just with me but with everyone)