is it normal to be asking for sex to my girl every chance i get?
352840
Gosh NO!  How desperate are you?\n\nYes she can get bored & tired of it.  If she says no, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she's scared of losing you if she sets boundaries, or she's just really immature/insecure.\n\nDoes she never pursue you?  HOW BORING!  Do you not want your girl to show initiative/attraction to you?  Do you only ever want her for sex? Does it not bother you that she doesn't get a chance to show that she wants you because you keep hogging all the attraction communication?  If I were her, I would put you on ice for a month (refuse privileges) until you could see me as a person, not just a humping machine (unless of course I just dumped you right away), and so I could have a chance at the flirting fun too.  \n\nAre you 18?  If not, you should be able to control yourself for at least 48 hours, gee.  \n\n"Please please can I have sex?"  "Oh sure."\nThat's what it sounds like you do twice a day from your question.  D E S P E R A T E men don't keep their women long.\n\nNow, having said all that, you have not given sufficient information to answer your question without assuming the worst possible scenario.  So considering your "every chance" might be once a week if you don't see her much, you might then just want to make sure you communicate that you value her as a person, and if she knows how important sex is to you, she will indicate it through inviting you inside, or    initiating a kiss, or whatever, you should NOT have to beg or ask continually.  Just kiss her, treat her like you want her to feel like the amazing woman she is, and if she is open for more, you will feel it in her body language and you can move in.  Stop asking like a begging dog.
125591
if you tell her you have a "large member", it may come across as cocky and may give her the idea that you just want sex. Like the other answers have said - surprising her when the right time comes will be the best
754007
basically your just human, i cant say your just a guy because im a girl and my main goal when i spend time with my love is to get laid, okay not always but most the time. and i mean at least your mind set on pleasing her. thats how he is, i tell him hes the reason im so selfish. so as long as your doing good work, keep at it.\n\ni told my friend i needed to go to group therapy for my obsession with sex, maybe you can join me ;) haha.
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Desperate is when you are 'too needy' the guys can't handle the 'over emotionalness' the girl is creating.\n\nTrying doesn't equate to neediness but IF  you are always trying way more than 50% of the relationship, then you are being used.\n\nIt is up to you to spot your patterns, and STOP the sex if you are active.. once a girl gets a rep, that can cause you to be 'used/played' etc..\n\nHave some respect for yourself.. don't make too many demands.. let them chase the crap out of you.. be busy, go bowling, go shopping, hang out with the girls - MAKE them wonder where you are .. don't 'game play and lie about it'.. just be really and honestly busy!! Don't give into sex for at least 6 months of any relationship, to be sure they aren't in it for the 'good time to walk away'.. and remember.. \n\nInsanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result (said by someone wise and said differently but I can't quote the Author, it's just not me)!  Think about that.. and remember that in your day to day life, you'll be shocked at how much that helps you.  You already know that 'being too desperate' doesn't work.. and that you are being played.. change your approach and see how it works out!!  Best Wishes to you!! :)
836851
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980675
Ok.. from what Im getting is your meeteing girls then telling them how much u like and appreciate them.. ok dependin on how u show/say this ,and how this sounds to me.. you sound like u are wanting a commitment, and there is a theory that only men are afraid of commitment ...thats not true.. some women are too.. dont come out and say "hey i want to get married!" ( not that u say that but u might as well)  just be normal, get to know her. and if sex isnt in ur 1st date agenda, then theres no reason to "convince" her its not.  just be ur self without all the "persuading" of how u "appreciate" women. cause also when a man goes on about how much he "appreciates" women.. well thats just hey im a lying ass and just want in ur pants. somethings can be taken  differently
484693
Every girl is different, so don't be afraid to ask her how and what she wants. Some girls are just shy and wont ask or tell you because of the fear of being embarrassed. Some are not! But a universal way to get a lady ready for one is to have foreplay, its fun its sexy and its suuuuper hot!! Good luck!
407129
From what you have said it seems to be great just take what she is saying as a precaution for you . It will happen soon enough just give it time and she will open up to you even more. You have gain her trust so everything is basically like clock work she is going to be yours now the thing is when it does happen how far are you going to go. Miss might  just  want a one night stand she might want something more serious so when it all happen you better be what you pro tray to be a nice guy  or it will just be another GOOD THING GONE BAD SO BECAREFUL HOPE I HAVE HELP GOOD LUCK
136418
i guess ur bf is askin a lot from u now...tell him u dunt want it now, and wen its time u'll let him know!!!!
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
152788
WELL, IN MY OPINION YOU SHOULD GET HER TO KNOW YOU BETTER AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT ONLY TO HAVE SEX WITH HER BUT TO HAVE A NICE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. BE NICE AND DON'T BE SO DESPERATE ON GETTING HER TO SLEEP WITH  YOU THE FIRST DAY/MONTH, 2MONTHS, ETC. SHE'LL BE WITH YOU WHEN SHE TRUST YOU.
393006
If you are in a sexual relationship with her and she trusts you then it should be okay. Just make sure it is nothing raunchy and it is something you will actually do to her next time you see her. Good luck. :^)
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
768947
dude its normal!U are suppressing a wild beast :p .Just let it go man and try to have some more sex.Try not to think abt girls that much or ul become a "sex freak".Figure out whats the most thing abt a girl that excites u the most and go and ahead and seek it and try some intercourse once in a while and satisfy ur sexual desire.
875320
Giving her all your spare time is not what she really wants, what she really wants is you to spend some "QUALITY TIME " with her. Within that quality time she needs some intimacy...."NOT SEX " & she needs you to initiate things that you'all can do together...and most of all....when you're with her she needs your undivided attention.
381696
It depends on the level of relationship you have. From the way you state your question, I am assuming you like her a lot, but maybe that feeling is returned? What makes you think she needs your consent to celebrate her birthday?
304760
Well, there is nothing better than just pure simple honesty. Just ask her what she thinks of you. Second about the sex part, don't rush into it. If you really like this girl, you will go on her terms and wait until she is ready for it. Just have fun and enjoy her company. If its meant to be it will happen.