ladies only please,i neen some advice?
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Always have open communication with her meaning, talk to her about any and everything! She should not only be your wife, and lover but your best friend! Just cause you say I do dont give either one of you the right to treat each other different! To keep the spark in the marriage always keep suprize in the relationship like with cards, flowers, sweet gifts like perfume (just because)! Then after ya'll start a family always make sure to keep a date once a week at least every two weeks just for you two to have some alone time that is much needed. When you introduce a family which is wonderful this, is when husband and wife tend to grow apart because they are just caught up in everyday life! I know that my husband and myself have just started date night two months ago because we never had anytime for us with three active children and it has worked like a charm. Lend a hand around the house too even, if she dont work keeping a house and tending to errands are a job among themselves! Also, remember when the good turns bad work through it together even the small stuff cause, like it or not there is no perfect marriage and things will happen just work through it together!! Always remember why you fell in love with you financee that made you want to spend the rest of your life with her and you two will be just fine! If you want to do something really special for her next week on your wedding day send her on a scavenger hunt the day before the wedding to different little stores where you have already went in and made a small purchase of you undying love for her also leave a nice card with the next clue to the next stop! Make the last card and the last stop be the day of the wedding where you leave her a card professing your undying love and a gift certificate in the card for the two of you to go and have a casual picture made for the new home! Its nice to know that these days guys are concerned when it comes to saying I DO!! Good Luck to you and your new bride and may yall have many good memories to come!Oh yeah LAST BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT always keep the good LORD in your relationship because he is the one that blessed us with life and forgives us of our sins!
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just take your time and relax...do what feels natural and don't put so much pressure on yourself, if she feels the same way about you it will be a great night for you both
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Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
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Advice on a guy . . help . . .
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Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
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man... guess that your gonna listen to an 18yr old... buy her some flowers and maybe a small gift to show that you really care about her. take her to a fancy restaurant, not Mcdonalds or any crap like that. whatever you do give the lady a subject talk a bit and let her talk as long as she needs to (ladies love when you actually listen to them). Keep eye contact at all times. Some doctors say to keep eye contact with her left eye. the movies thingy is just bad... you dont get to know her at this point.   i'm taking a girl on a date as well so wish me luck.    and good luck to you.
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You don't worry about it.  You just put yourself out there and give it your best and if she likes you back then you go with it.  It ain't no big mystery man.  Make sure you shower daily though.
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Don't force it, bro.  Don't even try to put yourself in a situation.  When the time comes, you'll just know.  \n\nSorry, this must seem like lame advice, but trust me, it's better that way.  I'm speaking from experience...
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I love how you use the word ladies that's a plus so i can see your already a gentleman. I think you should start splitting the bill when you've reach the level of an relation ship of friends that are also a couple then she knows you well enough to see your side of things. Treat her with care love her, be faithful, and be sensitive girls love it!!!!!!
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The best way to do this is to be upfront and straight forward. That's all I can say. Good luck, sweetie.
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iMMA GIRL SO MAYBE O CAN HELP !! JUST A FEW WORDS CAN HELP U \n\n: BE URSELF .. NEVER DEPEND ON LOOKS BUT FOR WAT THE PEROSN IS REALLY R. \n\n\nwell think first if u and "the girl" matches and have fun together or if shes nice .. think first b4 u make any move !!
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just relax and do what comes natural. no pun intended. dont worry about how you sound or what you look like. have you ever seen a guys face when he gets off.
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Be a man. You're gonna have to stop hiding one day. Start from now, so as to get a start on your peers....\nThink about it... how bad can it really be, how long will it last, HOW LONG TILL YOU FORGET ABOUT IT as usual...\nGrow sum b@lls bro
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Listen more speak a bit establish idea first, then flirt if feel be serious
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This is natural thing you will just know also this take 2 she will make sure you do it right. BE SMART USE A CONDUM. If you are not resonable enough to buy and use them you have no business putting her and yourself in this situation.\nDO THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!\n\nHave a nice day Don
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Dude, don't try getting a girl just on a pickup line. If you rely too much on them, you're not gonna know what to say next. However, just for the thought, I'd say the best thing to do is to catch her off guard. For instance, you walk up to a girl in a bar, sit right next to her, and totally ignore her for about 30 seconds. As the bartender for a drink or something and act as if she wasn't there and you were totally uninterested. Whether she asks you why you just put your rude little tooshie on that seat next to her or not, respond to either her silence or question with a smile and, "You look bored." As you can see, it's the "foreplay" beforehand that should really get her attention. My advice is to focus both on this aspect and getting that same wordplay with that first line on everything you say rather than just memorizing an endless list of pickup lines. Gonna be honest with you, from my experience, what girls want is a fun and exciting guy who's unpredictable. Using the same corny pickup lines from yester-year or just being plain boring with "how ya doin?" isn't gonna cut it.
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WARNING. THIS THREAD IS FULL OF AWFUL ADVICE.\n\nMan to man, let me give you a very important piece of advice. Do NOT ask women about how to deal with women. Women do not want what they say they want. They may think they hate anticipation, but they secretly thrive on it. Anticipation and unpredictability are good. (Although, I think the line about "I wanna ask you out, but right now am not in the mood" is awful - please don't use that.)\n\nThey're probably going to give me thumbs down for this, but I'm telling you from experience, it's the truth. Again, the two points to take from this:\n\n1. Anticipation and unpredictability are good\n2. Don't trust what women SAY, trust how they RESPOND\n\nSorry ladies, I love you, but the guys who actually follow your advice end up being the guys who are too wussy to get a girl.\n\n[See, there go the thumbs down already! Don't believe em, bro! I'm looking out for you.]