my boyfriend had feelings for another girl and they still talk?
345310
Tell him how you feel about him talking to this chick.  If he still talks to her, then dump him.  You two were together before he knew her.  So after ya'll got back together he shouldn't be talking with her anymore.  That's lack of respect.
980773
You should have realized first off that this would hurt him. Don't EVER give into peer pressure, when you know doing what you're being pressured to do is the wrong thing.\nNow you've hurt his feelings, and you lied to him.\nForget the girl who told him, she did the right thing, he should know that you did that.\n\nNow. About what to do.\nYou need to give him a little while to calm down, and next time you call him, let him vent whatever he needs to at you, and don't interrupt. Calmly and quietly listen, and absorb what he's telling you.\nHow would you feel if he had kissed another girl, then lied about it? You would be hurt too.\n\nWhen he's done venting, explain your side, and ADMIT you were wrong, and that you made a mistake.\nPromise that it won't happen again, because you've learned how WRONG it was to listen to others and let them pressure you. Tell him how you feel about him, and that you won't lie to him again.\n\nWithout trust, there is no relationship. You broke the trust in yours, and it will take some time to build back up.\n\nBe true to him, and your own intuitions from now on.\nGood luck.
691717
I dont understand, is he still in the relationship with the other girl?\nAnyways, if he is..i dont think it would be fair to ruin things between them.\nIf he feels something, let him make the move- talking to u about it.\nDont write the letter, stop flirting wiv him n do move on.\nSometimes i guy flirting wiv u could just mean, a guy flirting wiv u.\nSorry, luv but i wish u all the best.
183081
If your "boyfriend" is taking another girl ANYWHERE, apparently he no longer feels that he is your boyfriend. Move on sugar, you don't need that kind of drama. There are lots of guys out there to choose from to stay involved with one that does not want you. Be smart about this, and do what you already know you should do.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
995553
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
212987
Talk to him about. You have to COMMUNICATE with the other person involved in your relationship. But I would give him the benefit of the the doubt with this one, it's kind of stupid to give another girl your number when you're physically with your girlfriend.\n\nIf this crap continues, confront him.
901016
depends on how much the guy likes your friend. He might  just be leaveing more opitions for himself. If he likes that other girl more. then ditch him but if he does like your friend more. Get them together and make it official. If he is still cheating on your friend then get rid of him....
116930
talking about what? sex? so you care about them, which means you may or may not be in a relationship. i assume you are not, you would have said my boyfriend was talkin with another chic. lets take it both ways:\n\nnot your boyfriend, but you have the hots for him and he knows it: then he has decided that he is a player and that he can have 2 or 3 chics on a string at all times. but its still his business, this is the time you can either decide to 'be' with him or the time to decide that you are worth more, deserve more and can get better. (thats what i would do)\n\nHe is your boyfriend: assuming he was talking with another chic about hookin up, then why play with him? he obviously doesnt care enough about you to not do it.\n\nI would just confront him, say: look fella, i like you, whats up with talking with suchandsuch chic? you trying to hook up with her? cause if you are, you need to go ahead and do it, just dont lie to me about it, let me know so i can start hunting me another man down
158856
You know what will happen if you continue or let him continue with this since his current gf will come to know then he will play you against her or her against you if not leave her for you which will cause heart break for her or you which will just drag this mess.Tell him hes in a relationship he should stick to it.You wouldnt want it happening if you had a boyfriend who was in love with his ex or doing what this guy is doing right?and remember that girl is innocent and shes only in with that guy since she loves him so dont hurt her.I hope everything works out.Best of luck.
480358
i think he still wants to be with you. he just seems to be a little over protective and gets jealous when u look at another guy. u should talk to him about that
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
997839
it sounds like he is trying to be a player. I suggest you leave him in the past as an ex. The way he tells you he wants to be back with you, and then see's the other girls, is a strong indication that he is not going to be loyal to you, and will end up hurting you.
95652
if he hasnt told youhe likes another girl maybe your just paranoid but if you can prove he likes this other chick then dump him before he trys to go for the  other chick
358774
Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
693989
It would depend on the circumstances.  If he kissed another girl when we first started dating, that's one thing.  If he was banging his secretary last week, that's a totally different ball park.
788601
I would be really careful with this..you don't want to appear to be the 'over anxious' girlfriend, but neither do you want to be taken for a fool.  Keep an eye out for what is happening..and make sure that there are no obvious signs that he is 'cheating'..as in a lot of time spent places that he cannot or won't explain to you.\n\nChances are that if he is willingly talking to this girl in front of you there is nothing going on...\n\nThe best way to find out is to ask him..and if you don't like his answer do something about it...