my friend hates me because i like her?
352039
Tell her you didnt mean to make things weird, and that you would rather be her friend than not be in her lfe at all. But dont be all sissy and romantic about it. Trust me.
91033
I would try, she might not hate you. If your feelings aren't known to her, she might seem angry at you because she wants you but can't have you, making her bitter. I'd try it out, because you never know. You may get rejected, but it's always worth a try.
641187
she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.
1140249
dont be friends with her. \nunless you really like her....if so, then tell her that shes acting all moody.
419038
maybe she likes you as just a friend and don't see you for a boyfriend. then again she may want you to come out and just tell her how you feel. try that!!!
268661
Why don't your friends like her?  Is there a good reason?\n\nIf not, just tell your friends that you respect their opinion but you like her, and they should respect that. \n\nEnough said!  I am glad you aren't a puppet.
1068514
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
574471
MAY IT HURTS YOU BUT ITS TRUE.......\nTHAT SHE DOESNT LUVS U AT ALL NOR SHE CARES ABOUT U.......\n\n\ntry 2 forget her bcoz if she is saying after rejecting ur proposal to maintain a relation as a friend then she is lying,(as it is impossible for a girl to say a person like u,that she doesnt needs u.)\n\n\nif u will not forget her now then in future ur pain will increase.just forget her and try 2 make some more friends who really needs u.\n\n\nSORRY AGAIN,\nG O O D L U C K 4 U R F U T U R E.
190513
talk to your friend.  If she knew that you liked him before she did it, she either is playing a game with you or really does not respect you.  Either way, you cannot trust her and therefore she is not really your friend.  If she did not know, let it go and in the future tell her when you like someone.
320833
Find out her likes and dislike and go from there. But don't ge t to the point where you're stalking her or anything scary like that. Just try and hang out with her. If you don't get the sense that she likes you in that way at all, don't push, or else you'll lose her as a friend too.
505101
WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
461927
well, now you know the truth. She does not love you. She may like you but she likes your friend more. Do not make it more painful for both of you by telling her how you feel. You got the message, so stop thinking about her.\n\nShe may find it hard to say to you that she does not like you that way and it would be hard for you to ask her if she likes you and hear her say no.\n\nI suggest you don't say a thing and look for other girls. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
846731
Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
158520
if shes your friend then tell her you dont want  a girlfriend.dont tell her that you dont like her because girls take things the wrong way. if not, ignore her. like any pest she will eventually give up.
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.