my gurl i willing to wait until summer or my b-day in december thats along time away idk wat to o i live her?
353852
Just wait and see what happends. your right!!!
880630
Spend more time with her, and if the chemsitry is right, then you'll both make the right moves!\n\n-Ryan
874484
If u want to experiment, go ahead as per her guidance.  If u like her ultimately and can not leave her without hurting urself, u can even marry her.
204637
Wait until your 1 month anniversary.  If you give it to her now it seems a bit desperate.  Also, if your giving her gold after 1 week what are you gonna give her after 6 months, a year?  You'll always have to try to top yourself.  A girl doesn't need presents all the time.  Wait for a special occasion.
177625
do  the right thing , its good for her better for you. if you cant agree on anything between yourselfs [ and you should discuss it and try] give 30 days thats fair enough."blue guru" has it
1125218
key word is MIGHT. you might move soon, so go for it sweetie.
839832
G'day.\n\nI will have my christmas present before then as I am moving in with my partner Laura in a place called Mandurah, south of Perth, WA and am also getting a Subaru wrx sedan, plus we are headed overseas at my convenience and she has bought me something else aswell but she wont tell me what it is, she said i'll get it on christmas...\n\nbut to be honest all I really want is to be with my partner and this I will have on December 15th.\n\nyou have a good christmas and great new year,\nMitch
131229
just spend time with her, this is what she really wants on this day. it's not about the fancy stuff it's about spending time together.
691736
What do you want to do?  If you care about her and want to be with her, give her some time - it sounds like she'll come around, since she obviously still wants you to be a part of her life.  If you want to move on, that's a whole different story, but you need to decide whether what you want is in sync with what she wants, or whether it's time for you to find someone else.  Personally, I don't think a month is a long time - if you wait it out until she's more comfortable with herself, in the long run you two will have a stronger relationship.
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Well, you have another month to go so I wouldn't shop too early!  But I think the gift should depend on how committed you are or if you see this as a long term relationship.  What does she like to do?  Does she read?  If so find out what type of books.  If you know what kind of perfume she wears that would be nice.  Maybe a certificate for a spa day.
735354
If you bhave already asked someone...and she is looking forward to it you should take your friend from home.  Explain the situation to your girlfriend, Im sure if you are open and honest about it she will understand.
380979
If you guys really love each other you can wait. Keep talking to her and when you get enough money, go see her. I know it's hard not being with the person. you love, but if it's meant to be it will happen eventually. In the mean time talk to her, write to her, and you can chat w/ cam
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Since you have made pros/cons evaluation - since the 21 year old has kids, I assume that has already been counted as her con, right?\n\nBest bet? Yes you are a good person but NO you don't need to make a choice very fast. Give it sometime, before you realize your choice will become clear by the one you spend more time with!\n\nWait for this years Thanksgiving and see whom do you want to spend the Christmas with, from your heart, and you'll get your answer.
339188
Take your time with both. You can prolong the fun if you take your time.
837898
WELL IF SHE SAID SHE NEEDSTIME AND SPACE GIVE IT TO HER IF U REALISESHE IS TAKING TO LONG LIKE THREE OR FOUR MONTHS THEN SHE IS HOPING U WILL FORGET OR SHE IS TRYING TO TELL U WITHOUT TELLING U SHE IS NOT INTERESTED ANYMORE.IF U CANT WAIT THEN MAYBE U DONT REALY WANT HER U JUS THINK U DO,MAYBE U R LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT BY WAITING COULD IT BE U DONT REALLY WANT HERE TO COME BACK
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You should definitely e-mail her more often... And if you are in love with her, as you say, then you should plan a vacation trip with her sometime in the summer, you know, to meet her and see what she's like in person...
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If she's already dating you, it shouldn't be something you should feel obligated to do (she already likes you enough to date you). You could still buy some as a special gift, maybe a "hey honey, tonight I'm your fantasy! grrrr!" lol. Ask her what else she likes, incorperate. But no, you should't just change yourself cause she likes it. Be yourself.