Ok , how do you earn you parents trust back after you do something really immature?
352577
honey you screwed up   the best way to earn the trust back is to show her you respect her punsihment
622132
Trust is hard to get and harder to get back..\n\nI can say this over and over ( time ) but in your cause your dad is trying to look out for you.\n\nFather's Intuition is pretty good.
1165029
Just go to him and tell him truth that you have broked his/her faith, You have done mistake and you not gonna do that again and also tell that u dun need their anwer as u just wanted him/her to excuse you. Be prompt. ur frnds gonna trust u again. I can't say the period but they will for sure gonna trust u again. But Just please dun break it again or try it.
707078
tell your parents you really tried and try your best to allow them to understand you did your best and will work even harder next term to get a better mark. NExt time acturally try hard to achieve higher mark
181100
Tough break. No child ever wants to disappoint his/her parents. However, the best thing to do is to confront the issue with them. Choose a time when you know that they aren't already stressed out and gradually explain how this may have happened. Since you seem to be smart in general, this was probably a fluke or an outlier. Most importantly, don't beat down on yourself. It's not the end of the world, even though it may feel like it.
635257
Listen to your parents and don't go.  They are providing a roof over your head, food in your mouth and clothes on your back. Until you are old enough to move out and get a job -- play by their rules.  It's called RESPECT.
593311
This is a tricky question because only you really know what kind of relationship you have with your parents.  If you have a good relationship with them and know they won't blow up and over react then talk to them and tell them what happened.  If not then you have some other things to think about.  I am assuming that you probably had unprotected sex so you need to consider a pregnancy test and an STD test.  You also need to talk to your boyfriend and make it clear that even though you like him what happened was a mistake and that you are not ready to have sex with him.  If gets mad and says stuff like what is the big deal since you already have done it then walk away and dump him because that means he was only with you for the sex, which is my suspicion since he knew about the drink being spiked and didn't say anything to you.  He took advantage of you and that is not what a real boyfriend does.  Remember, we all make mistakes.  The key is to take responsibility and do the right things after the mistake to keep from allowing that mistake to keep growing.
442270
Tell your parents straight up that you will not accept the blame for their arguments and that you will no be the scapegoat for their problems in their life. It may be so that they argue about something related to you but their inability to resolve the issue shows their is some problems brewing between them for some time before and instead of facing them they blame you. Tell them how you feel and let them know that is sad that they are not been adults and instead of helping you grow as a person they are limiting you and making you feel bad.
158123
parents usually get mad when their kids fail to follow rules or do what is expected of them .Parents don't tell their kids to do things just for the heck of it. They want their children to learn some responsibilty so that they can make right choices in life. Your parents are only concerned about you and your well being. they want what is best for you. Try not to lie, if you are caught doing something wrong, admit to it. It is a very mature move, believe me, and after you admit to what you did wrong, apologize. You can also talk to your parents about your goals and let them know that you need them to help you fulfill your goals.Parents like to be needed by their children, I think that is the scariest part for parents when kids grow up, the thought that their kid doesn't need them anymore.
904676
I think that you should respect your parents call on this one hun...sorry.  You are only 13, and your parents love you and are protecting you from experiances that you are not yet ready to handle.
16170
It takes a lot of cojones, I'll give you that.  It takes your parents having some form of trust in you (and your argument for the boy to them will call on that) and you having warranted that trust, or be able to show them that you should be trusted.  Present your case to them (preferably after they've been medicated JK) after you have written the whole thing down.  It sounds dumb but it gives you a chance to organise your thoughts and put them in an order that is condusive to a winning argument.  However, all this may be for naught.  Your parents may be unwilling to see anything other than their five year old daughter getting plowed by some big, hairy, sweaty, nasty, trogolodite.  It's not their fault that you haven't grown up in their minds.    I must say that I don't envy your position.  But keep your head and you'll be surprised at what can happen.\n\nHappy Trails
1053011
A good ole butt whoopin' straightened me out when I was growing up, but now they call it abuse.  I think being firm and following through with discipline is one thing that parents should do.
726723
listen to your parents....they actually know what they are doing. its for your own good. you'll thank him one day. trust me. i was your age only a few years ago...and sometimes i wish that i had obeyed my parents more...i would be a lot better off i think.
1029773
My advice to you is just act very mature and take things serious arong that person do things that are good and meaningful and that should convince somebody depending on who you are trying to babysit now if its your parents you might have a trouble!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck
996334
Well trust is something that is not just given, it is earned. When a child has listened to the guidelines set throughout their lives, and you as a child as we all do, will make mistakes, and you admit them, you learn and grow from them..............then yes trust is a gift that you have EARNED. It is not something that is just handed over when you reach those teen years. If you have done things repeatedly that have your parent's lose trust, you must work to gain it back. Also respect your parents, even though, yes as I am a Mom, we can drive you crazy because you are wanting to be independent, do your own thing, you THINK you know all, but trust your parents, that their life experience, will help you!! As we get older, we hopefully get wiser, mature and know the world differently and can then share it with you as teens!!! So one day you too will grow into a healthy, caring, respectful, trusting adult!!!! And the circle of life continues on...............
205976
yeah im working on this too but my parents are all about grades and shit not that stuff. uhhh what im doing, and it seems to be working, is to take more responsibility and like do crap around the house without them asking. come home when ur told, do stuff u wouldnt normally do, make sure u can do everything to help them out that u possibly can. suck up, be a tool, good luck.
103445
set goals and keep to them. try to think before making drastic decicsions ya dig. everythings gonna be cool. u is tha mother they gonna love u regaurdless. its cool that you know when your wrong. this parent thang aint easy. go wit tha flow be responsible they gots to come first. make them #1 priority. everything will be fine take your time changes dont come overnight dont think about tha past everydays a new one while yesterday was a throw away. we cant rewind back to fix tha shi* we did that was wrong and wack. you will get there i promise every thing will be alright. keep your head up. you know whats right instill tha same morles you got as a kid. tha only teachers we have on raising kids is our parents. you might want to consult them if ever you have a doubt you dig. be cool youll be straight.