Hold a girl guilty for her past ?
348686
It all depends on what you want, and are looking for. It's not like she did all these things while she was with you, t's not like she cheated. Do you think she has changed? It's really up to you... I think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
1142942
OH BOY. THIS IS NOT GOOD. BUT WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE? WOULD YOU CONSIDER TELLING HER THE TRUTH, OR SIT WITH IT? WOULD YOU BREAK IT OFF AND LEAVE THE SITUATION ALONE? IS THIS A LOVE THING? MY BEST ADVICE WOULD BE TO COME CLEAN ABOUT IT ALL. SORRY, I HATE GUILT.
559272
You did the right thing because if you hadn't been blunt with her she would still harbour hopes that you would change your mind and she would become obsessed.  At least this way she has to accept it and will eventually move on. She might be hurt initially but it's best for her in the long run. I don't think the softer aproach would have worked with this girl.x
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
624038
It sounds like your guilt wants you to tell, but telling will only hurt her and make you feel better.  If it was a one night stand, let it go, otherwise someone's got to break it to her, preferably you.
972334
If you didn't trust her you wouldn't be asking her ex and why does this bother you so much?  Sounds like you have doubts about her past.  Either accept her story or move on to someone you can trust.
770703
She deserves to know the truth. Keeping it from her will only hurt YOU in the long run. Think about that.
569296
Surly to "speak up" for one of the "guilty" would make you guilty anyway.\nLose on more sleep on this matter.
1067940
I know how you feel I was in the same situation, the best thing to do is to do it legally. Go to the police, find counseling for her and to be very honest with you if that doesn't work then do what ya gotta do.
310650
it depends on you if we are together and u are acting like a slut. then for get it, but if change and show that i can trust you then for get about your past. Remember trust is the only thing that keeps people close to you when you lose that is never the same.
1184214
Well no, you should have not done that but do let her know what you have done.  She may be more willing to forgive you if she sees that your confessing your mistake...Good luck!
1052178
RIDE YOUR MOTORCYCLE ON SUNDAY AND DON'T FOR A MOMENT LET THAT GIRL DENY YOU YOUR TASTE OF FREEDOM!!!  Shame on her....do not, I mean DO NOT let her take this from you, and DO NOT feel guilty.
114846
As with my boyfriend and I ...we like to keep the past in the past. There's no use in bringing up something that might make your partner mad/upset unless they ask about it or it is a serious issue that would concern them needing to know. For example: STD's, crimes...so forth.
791297
You can't move forward if you don't face your past.  Be brave enough to follow your dream, go to the university you want, and disregard your ex-girlfiend.  It's your life after all...don't let someone else control it, even if indirectly.
393387
well its up to you, if you can live with what you have learned about her and if you remain attracted to her. If you feel that it bothers you and the relationship then its better to let her  go. Bear in mind not to judge her for what she did, ask her why. there are two side's of a story, be sure to know both.
244263
yes, because i could understand if she had trust issues because of past things. alot of ppl do. and if he really loved her then he should be able to forgive her. they just need to sit down and have a real conversation on this matter. she needs to explain why she has trust issuses and tell him it is not him. but things in the past. he doesnt forgive her hes not worth it. (vote me best answer plz)
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Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"