how can i convince my girlfriend that she will not remain pregnant if he gave me a bj ?
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I need to convince my girlfriend that she will lose her pregnancy if some guy gave me a bj?  \n\nIs this the right question or do you just have poor english?  \nMaybe you meant to ask \n"How can I convince my girlfriend she won't get pregnant if SHE gives me a bj?"\n\nThe stomach is not attached to the ovaries.  Sperm that goes into the stomach is dissolved by acid.  There is no magical path from the stomach to the ovaries, so she is 100% safe from getting pregnant from giving a bj.  \n\nIf it really was the first question that I wrote up at the top, I have no idea what to say about that one.  A woman can't lose her pregnancy just because a gay friend of yours gives you a bj.  That doesn't even make sense.
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I'm not sure who is more gullible, you or your girlfriend.  Does she really believe having sex with her not-quite-ex-husband will help her gain custody?  Do YOU really believe that is all there is to it?  I know guys will say a lot of things to convince a woman to have sex, but I haven't heard that line before.
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WEAR A CONDOM.  DUH.\n\n\nAGHHH EMILY'S PREGNANT!
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do what ?  give him a bj
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Here's a piece of REALITY for you:\n\nWhat you should do is think about the VERY HIGH possibility that you could get a girl (if not many other girls) PREGNANT!  \n\nThen, THINK about the fact that you COULD become a FATHER at a really young age.  Yep, that's reality and it CAN happen to you.  Then what? \n\nIf you get someone pregnant, think about it: how will you handle fatherhood at your age? You can't even legally work to support your new-found family!\n\nYES, even with protection doctors will tell you it's not 100% guaranteed that you won't get someone pregnant or even possibly catch a disease such as AIDS down the line!\n\nIf you catch a disease, how will you deal with your own mortality?\n\nThese are the questions you need to weight and compare against your BIG desire to have sex for the simple reason that you like it like HELL!  \n\noh, and like "Mr. D-BLoCk" wrote to you, I am being honest with you too!  He's just showing you that he gets away with it, but he too can get in lots of trouble with getting a girl pregnant or catching a disease.  He's just as likely as anyone else...\n\nIf all else fails, and you're still considering having sex, here's a great way to un-motivate you to have sex: Think of your MOTHER! That'll do the trick!
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If that's what she's determined to do, you can't stop her. What you CAN do, is to act as her friend. Tell her, that in your mind, it's not a wise choice, but respect that the choice is hers. \nIf she doesn't know anything about contraceptives, try educating her; tell her about condoms, how to use them, and the importance of always using them. Perhaps you could buy a packet of condoms together and practice putting them on a cucumber. \nShe might be making a bad choice, but help her make sure, it's not a catastrophic one.\nBesides, when you are insisting on talking her out of it, you might just be making her more set on going through with it. By accepting her decision you'll also give her the opportunity to back out of the whole thing without losing face to you.\nBest wishes!
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If you don't want to wear a condom, only have sex in a long term committed relationship in which both of you have been tested and you are 100% positive that she isn't cheating and that she is also on the pill.\n\nOtherwise, abstinence is always 100% fool-proof.\n\nIf you don't like either of these options, there are extra sensitive condoms out there.  They are thin to give you that added feeling but protect too.  Check out the web or go browsing the aisles (an adult shop has a lot of varieties) for different options.
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use protection- ie. condoms. or if you've already have had sex without using protection, go to your nearest pharmacy and ask for emergency contraception, they will give you two pills that you have to take, which will stop you from becoming pregnant.
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Have a kid with some one else? Have you tried asking? Maybe you should sit her down and ask if she wants everyone in the world to know that she is basically sterile and if it is okay for you to tell everyone on the Internet that? Lets say by chance you get her pregnant. Its a Girl will you reject the child? Your question says you want a Son. So not only do you want your Girlfriend to do something she cant do but you want her to push out a boy. If all else fails. Tell her you love her and you want to share in the ultimate joy of having children together. Then go to the fertility clinic and work on this together.
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You need to be honest with yourself. \n\nIs she pregnant or not? She could be tricking you into leaving your girlfriend to come back to her!\n\nEnsure that she is pregnant before making a decision! If she is then stick by her in any means possible - be honest with your current girlfriend and see who you feel the most comfortable with.\n\nJust because a girl is pregnant with your baby does not mean that you have to get married! As she is only 16!\n\nGood Luck!
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You shouldn't be the one to break her hymen. That's the most painful thing ever (well not really but it's not comfortable that way.) Tell her to switch to tampons. LOL.
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i does not matter if he ejaculated there is always some residual semenal fluid that leaks out so you very well could be pregnant it would be safer and less stressful for you if you made him wear a condom
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He doesn't want you getting pregnant... He doesn't know if you are clean... He might enjoy the de-sensitivity of using a condom to help him last longer... Respect him his choice and give him head!!! And carry some condoms in future... :D
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BJ's. You can never go wrong with giving him a BJ.
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Keep up the good fight don't give in . The fact that you are asking is good, just think what if you give in catch something or get them preggers . Then you have to face the love of your life with the disgrace you hurt her.  Next time you get the urge imagine her screwing another man and how you would feel maybe that will give you a stronger incentive.
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To bad for you....you going to have some mayor problems if you are pregnant...but if you are don't go getting no abortion...you opened your legs now you gotta take the consequence. First you let go of guy #1...tell him its over....and guy #2 who you think you pregnant from..you don't gotta lie to him about anything...if you are pregnant..he needs to take care of you and your baby...He's not Innocent either..he had part of it... to bad for his girlfriend.. Not saying yah gotta get married and all that but at least let him be part of it...
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You really need to talk about this with her, because if she never wants to have sex, or if she believes it is only for creating children, you may have a bigger problem on your hand that just not getting any.\n\nThe spiritual love between you is wonderful to brag about, and if you would like to take the next step on bodily commitment, she may not be ready for that step, and making her feel awkward about it won't get you what you want any sooner.\n\nShe probably loves you, but I really don't know what your realtionship is all about, so I can't say.. what I do know is sex doesn't equal love, it's two different acts, that are nice when woven together.\n\nDepending on her age, she may be afraid of either losing her virginity or becoming pregnant. \nDepending on her religion, she may not want to for her own peace of mind.\nDepending on her past, she may have not enjoyed it, or had someone turn mean and ugly after she conceeded, or could rape be an issue which might make her fearful?\n\nYou know her better than I, you know the probabilities to these questions better than I, but you DO need some answers.\n\nThese are all things you need to find out if you want to continue in your relationship without sex. Then decide if what she needs and what you need are simular enough for the relationship to survive.