am i wrong to mess with and fall in love with a married man i know he has daughter n is n middle of divorce?
341057
You are wasting your time with this man. Even if he does leave his wife and kid 4 you, how do you know that he won't leave you for someone else later? I think you deserve better. There is someone better for you out there waiting 4 you. GO OUT AND FIND HIM.
953932
I cannot offer advice as to whether or not to keep your baby.\n\nHowever, I strongly believe that you should leave this man.  He is a two-timing cheater who has no regard for his wife and children, and is too cowardly to face up to his adultery.  And he's taking advantage of a younger woman less experienced than himself, who also happens to be young enough to be his daughter.\n\nAll in all, he sounds like BAD NEWS.  In addition, show respect for his wife and children and don't get yourself involved in this negative relationship.\n\nBest of luck to you.
631541
You should give me a call. No, seriously...it's totally normal to have this type of attraction. Talk to your husband about it. He may actually be excited by it and you could integrate him into your fantasies. If he is not okay with it, I don't think you should act on your feelings unless you get a divorce.
293937
Your name fits you well.  Why would you want to ruin someone's life. Not only would you ruin his but his wife's as well, not to mention your's.  Why go after a married man?
60106
it is not possible to love them the same way. You will love them equally, but in different ways and there is NOTHING wrong with you and your hubby getting involved with the same woman. As long as she is ok with the fact that he married you why would it be wrong?
563234
Yes, you are right! If he loves you as much as he says he does then he must sort out his own problems with his wife. If they decide a divorce is the best way then that's on them. Question is do you really love him? If you both are just friends (nothing sexual) then that's okay. It may seem or feel questionable but as long as you both are friends it's okay. If you do really and truly love him my dear I would tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way about you then he must divorce her before he moves on with you. Sounds as if you are stuck in the middle here. That's no fun! Regardless, as friends, stand behind him in whatever he chooses to do. Good Luck!
570880
Don't worry. It is not wrong.\n\nYou can be in love with a person, and likes (and be liked by) several peoples too.\n\nIt can be not so good if you try to get more from this other people.\n\nDefinitely it is wrong if you cheat your loved one if a relationship exists.
243763
You have a right to be confused- and so does he. First off- how long has he been separated? If it hasn't been long, you may want to back off a bit, just in case things don't work according to plan. Think about it: they did get married for a reason- who's to say they won't reconcile?\nSecondly, since you can't really control who you fall in love with, if he represents this much of a threat to your security, you probably ought not stay involved with him.\nBut, I do hope it works out for you- everything for a reason!
679033
I GUARANTEE that you did the right thing.  I have been there, done that.  If he really loved you, he would not have treated you that way.  Who is more important to you, him or your baby girl?  Do you want your baby girl raised in that type of environment?  Your daughter is your life at this moment.  She comes before ANYBODY, even yourself.  If you love your daughter, think of what is best for her and you will know in your heart that you did do the right thing.  I strongly commend you for getting out of the hell you AND your daughter were in.  NO MAN IS WORTH THE VERBAL, PHYSICAL AND MENTAL ABUSE.
619350
Personally I wouldn't be thinking about getting involved with another man so soon after divorce. You will find your soul mate when the time is right. Have some "down time" for yourself. Divorce is not easy on the heart, so heal first before rushing into another relationship. Your knight in shiny armor is out there somewhere, weather your divorced or single.
40937
Wow, I have read all your questions and I feel for you.\nI think the most important thing are your 2 daughters that it seems like you both love. For their well being they need to have their father in their life.\n\nI think you really need to look inside and really think what is it that you want out of your life. I think you 2 are mature enough to not play games. If you do not have any reason to feel he is cheating, then I will not believe that he asked you that just to fish for information.\nI think that to have family dates on a weekly basis, should give you enough time to see if he is really changing, and to find out what are your true fillings for him. Also keep up the counselling together and each alone. I will stick to the dates and the counseling for now, until you are convinced that this time would be the last time.\nGood luck
1123706
Your daughter is the result of all that was good in your relationship, You may be right about depending on him...you need to stand on your own to feet and take care of your daughter in order establish a healthy relationship with another...do not, I repeat do not look for the same kind of man that will cause you to continue to be dependent on...good luck...all the love to get you thru such a crisis is in the eyes of your daughter.
291448
Its never okay to deal with a married man EVER. It doesn't matter if him and his wife are having troubles or not. How would you feel if you were married and then some other girl was messing with your man, you would be pissed. So you gotta think about how you are affecting other peoples lives by going with a married man. My best advice to you, quit seeing a married man, the chances are that he just tells you he is divorcing his wife to have you whenever he wants you.
904791
No, you should not.  He will leave you again, even if he does come back because he knows he can.  It will take time, but I'd get him off of your Christmas list, because he has no regard for you.  Take care of your daughter and see to it he meets his legal obligations to your daughter.  I hope you heal and find someone that treats you better.  God Bless.
315363
You need to stop this fantasy ASAP. All you are doing is creating drama - You are either bored in your marriage, or are having problems that you'd rather avoid. Maybe you're thinking he can get you out of a situation, or "rescue" you in a sense.....Maybe you're not happy with where you are at in life at 34, and are trying to relive certain aspects of your younger life, before you made the choice to become a married woman...? Whatever the case, please recognize this for what it is......An unrealistic diversion from your REAL life. You can't possibly fix whatever is going on with your marriage until you devote to it 100% - And the preoccupation with this young (kid) will interfere with that. My advice would be to come back to reality, before you take this attraction to some other level, and come back asking what you should do then........
998196
obviously you are an evil angel if your going to be so closed minded about something like that...your going to break up with a guy because of the kid or because of the ex wife?...if its the kid then thats f*cked up...but if cause of the ex....your only going on speculation...not fact...
425721
Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?