hey can u help me to cope up with my girl friend?
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What seems to be the problem?  Need more info.
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Talk to her and tell her how you feel if it really bothers you. Communicate!!!
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honesty hurts, bad. but, it usually works out ofr the best. try withdrawing from her and the things you do together. its not going to be easy but it will be best for both of u
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Find a new relationship. Preferably someone prettier than her. Don't let her see it bothers you she broke up with you. Become very succesfull at what you do. She has to know that your life  not only goes on, but also is actually going a lot better now she's no longer part of it and holding you back. And throughout your now perfect life she has to be nothing to you. Be polite but nothing more. Don't ignor her, you are above childish behaviour like that, but she has to know that she now is just some girl you happen to know. Cold buisnesslike politeness
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omg i have this problem too, i hate it also, wer're getting beter right now, cuz, i haven't seen her for a little bit. So see if you can say at a friends house for a night, or weekend, and chill w/ friends after school. Try to limit your time with her for about a week, that's what i did, and we're ok now  good luck
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Hey John!\nShe should be no more your girl friend or something like that.\nHowever, she needs proper mental, physical and psychalogical treatment, it should be continued to recover her.
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A girls gotta do what a girls gotta do.  You can handle it girlfriend, chill!
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Be honest and kind with her. Tell her it's just not working out and that you two should take a break for a while.
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awww my heart goes out to you, you sound really upset : (  If she is going through such hard time at the moment, she may need time to her self. That doesn't mean pack up your bags and go, that just means she cant handle a full on relationship at the moment. So you can be there when she needs you. And that's really all you can do. Tell her that you will wait for her and say exactly the same thing you said in the ending of your question. I am sure she is hurting just as bad as you or even worse by knowing she is hurting you. Just be there for her, Take care i hope it all works out sweetie : )
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There really isn't anything that you can say,just let her know that you are there for her when ever she needs to talk about it,try to get her mind off it,go shopping,to the movies,or something. Just be there for her,because she needs you right now!!!
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Make fun of yourself and how you get into trouble.\n\nIf you can make her laugh, then act like a friend for a very long time without being pushy.\n\nIf you don't have this kind of patience, get a new girlfriend.
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Tell her to get over herself- theres no point being depressed- get out and lose weight get a hot Boyfriend and stop moaning-shes the only one who can do anythign about it!
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Don't care too much, leave her and do some other works/things those are more important for you. You are man, guy! World is not as little as you've known. You will find other girl as your girlfriend. Take a chance to get highest carrier that could you get. The girl will come later on.\n\nTake care.
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you need to sit your girlfriend down and talk to her and see where the relationship is going and go from there
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watch other people be funny and tell take notes (mental notes) and loosen up don't worry about what other people say about you cause we're all gonna die some day and be judged by the some god so don't worry.\nbuy her flowers and candy. \ntalk to her and let her know you want a relationship with her and hope for the best
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Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
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just be the freind you are be there for them to talk to cant always fix there problem but thats what freinds are for in that situtation to be there for them to talk too. hugs and jsut leting sit there and sob on your shoulder is all sounds like she needs right now is for you to be there to talk to