my girlfriend is great and lately shes been perfect but today she was a little werid...?
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#1, how was your tone?  did it sound like a programmed response, did you look at her before you said it?\n\ntell her you think she is *BEAUTIFUL*\n\nnot Hot, not Sexy, but Beautiful, and mean it.\n\nshe could just be having a girl day, we're allowed to have those every so often, it's probably not you.
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Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
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my girlfriend at times!!!!
854903
If she has started taking any type of new meds recently, that could be the cause of it.  Someone said an infection, which possibly could be true. She may have a pelvic infection otherwise known as PID which can be caused by douching. She also may have changed her douche. Sometimes, it can be the little things that we never even think about that can change body so dramatically. Best of luck to the both of you! And, by the way I think its great that you 2 meant that you dedicated yourselves to each other. Not many people do that these days! Once again, good luck!
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She seems insecure and to be avoiding the seriousness of your statement. Perhaps because she needs more time to discover her reply (whether she feels the same way about you).
100867
Ouch. Kudos to you on doing what you said you would, but for her it might be too little, too late. She needs to know that you will do what you say even when she isnt threatening you. Is there anything else about you that you know bugs her? Make an effort to change that too. She feels like you dont care enough about her to change, but you are doing the best you can now.\nLevel with her, tell her that you didnt change before but that now that you know how life is without her that you want to be just the man she needs.
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It doesn't sound like she is your girlfriend anymore. I would have said that she needs to make her choice, but it sounds like she did. What should you do? Bow out gracefully and make yourself scarce. Find a new girlfriend.
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I would be glad that you guys are still friends and just keep her close. Let her feel not just know that you are there no matter what....when guys do her wrong...or when she's scared...or sick or just needs someone to listen to her. That's more then anything you could give her at this time. She'll soon see if the love is true that you've been buy her side ever since...in due time. Both of you will grow and she'll see that so whatever rocky issues you guys had, you now can get over how-ever you all choose.
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It sounds like she is wanting to connect with someone, which leads me to believe that she doesn't feel that way with you. You should try to talk to her and let her know that if your communication isn't as it should be that you are more than willing to work to get it to what it needs to be. Most people who chat alot are people who feel isolated from other people. Make her feel loved and wanted by you and try to take her out and get her motivated.
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Stop stressing over it and go have a good time. \n\nBe yourself and when the time comes just smile and be polite. If she sees you relaxed and happy and approachable she may start to wonder about what she heard and realise it was wrong. She could be nice really.
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I would suggest taking a little break..tell her that if she loves you she wont mind taking a break\n\nIf you only take like a weekish break the felings shoudlnt change especially if she loves you as much as it seems..
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not to worry, she's trying to be cool. if it's always like this let her know how you feel and still nothing, move on.
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I think you are great don't change. Just learn. Do what is best for you b/c no one else will. She obviously has made her choice actions speak louder than words. You've shown her that you care and that's all you can do. You've done your best it was good enough you just didn't find that person who will appreciate it. Keep your head up potna cause you'll get that chance over all over again. But don't you overlook it for someone like this again.
478413
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
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be strong, just realize that she is experiencing amazing things right now, you will also experience them, and you will appreciate her understading at that point
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It sounds like she's not interested in working things out.  Or you haven't been listening to her needs and haven't changed your behavior and she might feel you'd be better off finding someone who likes what you like and allowing her to move on and be happy too.\n\nIt can be too late or it might not.  Only you can know for sure.
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...its normal to be concerned... but you should talk to her about it. don't say anything negative, but don't talk about it too much. you should plan times that you can hang out. Maybe you just need more time with her. :)