Any Tips on how to attract women?
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Smell really good, wear axe or tag!
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by being decent himself ; the way he approaches her, the way he talks to her, the way he offers his companionship, and his overall attitude with her and around her !!\nIn short, be a gentleman and you'll attract a lady !
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There could actually be a way you are attracting a certain type of person, it could be the way you dress, the way you hold yourself, the places you go, etc.\nVery difficult to say without knowing you.\n\nTake a look at yourself in the mirror when your going out, are your clothes quality?Do you look upmarket and classy?\n\nStop chewing that gum, put out those cigarettes (guys hate girls smoking) cover any arm tatoos and think about the way other people see you.\n\nIn the real world, attracting the right sort of guy means maybe buying 1 item of clothing instead of 5, you need quality and they will last.\nYou need a good hair cut in a good salon, not a little place next to the local shops.\n\nThink of your look as an investment to your future.\n\nDon't get drunk as a skunk or you'll end up with a last minute beast, tipsy is ok, hammered is not.\n\nGo to the right places, forget the usual ones or the tired old fashioned smoke filled working mens clubs.\n\nThink up market, think class.\n\nThis will not guarentee you a better man, you just putting yourself in the right place where more of them are.\nDo you want a guy who has his own business or one who has a business selling drugs?
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you can start off by giving her a compliment, flatter her. maybe then you can get her attention
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Well first of all it has to be the right setting. You can't just walk up to some woman and start talking. Usually it's helpful if something happens that momentarily brings you together, such as being the only two people left standing on the train or accidentally bumping into each other. You know, like the commercial where the girl runs into the waiter and knockes the glasses over and the bottle falls on the table and spins until it ends up pointing to the guy. But since things like that rarely happen, sometimes you have to create your own moment of coming together. For example, if you have a class with a girl, you time it so that you leave the room at the same time, then you make some comment about class being long or boring or interesting or whatever, anything to set up your "common moment" and get her attention without coming across as a weirdo.\n\nOnce you have her attention, keep it by building on what you already know you both have in common. If she sits next to some idiot that annoys you, too, talk about how obnoxious he is. If there's an upcoming test or paper that's due, talk about how little/how much progress you've made so far...talk about anything that will get her engaged in a conversation. Then take advantage of that moment by making an observation that she might find interesting. In other words, get her talking, and then when you do, try to find common ground. Once you have her attention and you've established common ground, you're on the right track.\n\nIf this is a situation where you're going to see her on a daily or weekly basis or whatever but only a few minutes at a time, then bide your time a little to give her a chance to get interested. Take advantage of that few minutes of shared time whenever possible to chat with her. After a few days/weeks of this, if she's responding positively, you can ask her if she'd like to get together to get some coffee,grab a bite to eat, whatever to talk about your common interests a little further. If you've only got once chance to make this happen, however, then you need to do some major talking. If you can keep a woman's attention for half an hour, then there's a good chance she's interested in you at least as a potential friend/regular acquaintance and possibly something else (check the body language as well). Go ahead and ask if you can call her, get her number, and give her yours as well, and then CALL HER. Not that day, but within a day or two. Be friendly but not pushy and see how she responds.\n\nIn any case, any time you talk to a woman, you're not doing yourself any favors by coming across as bland, generic, or timid. Women love a man with confidence (but not arrogance) coupled with a sense of humor. We don't expect perfection. So if you do say something stupid, make a joke out of it. Laugh at yourself about it and then move on to something else. The fact that a guy can laugh at yourself when you make errors is very attractive, much more so than a guy who speaks in a macho voice and is too much of a control freak to say anything funny or interesting or even just plain goofy. \n\nI'm not kidding. I'd much rather be with a guy who makes mistakes but acknowledges them in a playful way and then moves on than a guy who's too afraid to open his mouth. Get out there and give it your best shot and chock any mistakes or rejections up to lack of experience. Not every women will respond, but that's ok, because eventually one will. And one is all you need.\n\nGood luck!
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I can tell you from experience that you can find great women via Craigslist.\n\nI have met more attractive women via my ads there.\n\nI can't speak on Match.com\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Make eye contact...flip your hair...wink at her...smile at her...hold onto every word that she says like she is a goddess...that'll really impress her...Accentuate your positive features that you know she will be interested in pursuing further.
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Maybe you just need help with getting your foot in the door with women your attracted to, it sounds like your friend has a PHD on how to do this, get a few pointers from him, just you can beat him in the long run if you think you know how to keep a girl when you get a girl. Maybe you just need to brush up a little bit on how to start good conversations with girls and keep them wanting more, talk to your friend, just treat the girl right once you get her attention, it sounds like thats all he doesnt know how to do. And in the long run thats what women want the most.
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Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
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Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!
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1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
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First, see if she's attracted to you. If she's not, don't waste your time, look for someone else.\n\nIf she really  IS attracted to you, then try to interact with her regularly and things will flow from there.
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ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.
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Its hard to say why girls are not attracted to you. It could be anything. Don't try so hard. Stop looking for a girlfriend. Try finding someone that has the same interests as you. Looking for women in bars and clubs doesn't always work. Try the internet, chats, clubs...etc.  Let them get a chance to know you as a person. Then see if can develop into something else.
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lol....just be yourself...be confident!!! Like i said..it may take a while because I'm 23 years old, married and there are still things I shy away from. It happens but like i said..be confident. You don't need you friends to introduce you to there female friends if they don't want to. Introduce yourself...have a nice conversation and take it from there.  And it's good you don't use your car or money for the women. There are soo many women out there looking for a guy like you. Give it some time.
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the secret is to quit trying.\n\ninstead of looking for love, look for friendship.  you do this by talking to girls like they are human beings (just like your male friends).  most girls appreciate a guy that doesn't stalk them or talk to them like they're idiots and/or aliens.\n\nif you can't figure out what to say, here's some tips on how to get a conversation started with ANYBODY, ANYWHERE, and at ANYTIME:\n(1)  comment on something that just happened that you both witnessed.  ("did you freakin' see that?!")\n(2)  comment on something that you both were just involved in.  ("yawn!  were you as bored as i was?")\n\ntrust me- the physical stuff gets OLD if you don't genuinely like the person you're with.  so just talk to girls until you find one that has something interesting to say.  \n\nanother thing is wardrobe.  if you're going to class in a scruffy graphic tee (particularly the ones with stupid/crude jokes), hair sticking everywhichaway, have a 5 o'clock shadow at 8 a.m., haven't bathed in a few days, or you're wearing something that doesn't fit right, then you will get no booty.  No booty at all.\n\ninvest in a couple of solid color or striped polo tees,  get a haircut.  throw those banged up converses in the trash and get you some Timberlands (or a similar shoe).  if the jeans have big holes, are too loose or too tight, are too short or too long- then they need to go.  why?  because a cute butt does matter.  i don't care how many girls deny it, they have at some point in their life stared at some dude's behind.  medium to medium-dark stonewash jeans or light khakis work just fine.  if you have any piercings that are flattering, leave them in.  a good looking eyebrow or ear piercing can be an asset.       \n \ndon't worry about meeting someone.  you will.  and when you meet the right girl, you'll just know.