Do you trust your girlfriend?
349049
Yeaaa woohooo! this is the ultimate showdown! ultimate destiny!
781351
There are two things I should say about your relationship:\n1. she still cares about him \n2. you shouldn't "spy" her text messages .. you need to trust her..but if you don't, there is a reason ..
258104
why dont you trust her?
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
673744
You can trust your girl friend, but I wouldn't trust that arrangement! Your feelings are understandable and natural. There are too many opportunities for an "accident" to happen! Why couldn't she find a straight female to share a house with? Tell her you trust her but you don't necessarily trust other men! In moments of weakness, or if she gets mad at you, the other guy is there for a "shoulder to lean on", and guys will take advantage of that. She may even do something just to get back at you, even if she regrets it later! There is nothing wrong with being jealous(but not out of control). We (Men) are territorial by nature, and if you allow someone to trespass on what is yours, then you don't deserve to have it!
1005109
Ask yourself if you can trust her. If you can't, regardless of if she is truly being honest or not, then how can you have a healthy relationship? It sounds like there have been issues with trust with her in the past, and games to make each other jealous. Is that the kind of relationship you want to have?
345242
if you cant trust her you gotta bounce dude. seriously, if you stay with her your paranoia will eat at you until you drive each other apart, even if she isnt doing anything. chill out about it and trust her, or walk away.
981595
sorry to hear that both of you started the relationship on deceptive terms.  she's being a hipocrit.  and I know you say you love her, but why would you want to be with someone that has cheated and lies.  trust is the foundation of any relationship, without that you have nothing.  you will be in the relationship always having questions about this that or the other.  to much stress and not being happy.  keep looking for something better.  good luck
298719
you trust him, and if you dont trust him maybe he shouldnt be your boyfriend....
253226
you boyfriend thinks you don't trust him.why? in this situation i think there is really nothing you can do but listen to him like when he has a problem just listen to what he has to say and tell him what you think about the situation maybe sense he is talking to you about his problems and your giving him a response he will soon trust you more
411130
most important thing in a relationship is trust.
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
102707
I Have good news Yes if you don't trust the person from the start then no. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years.  We talk a lot, and see each other at least once a week.  It is not easy but if you really love that person you will make it work.  Don't listen to people when they tell you it won't work. know it will if you want it to that is.
515572
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
444807
First of all Thank you for serving our country! If you want to save this relationship you will have to work on the trust issue. But I would be concerned about her cheating again. Follow your heart.
428903
Not a chance.  She'll never trust you again and your relationship will fall apart.  \n\nI know that's not totally honest, but it's the smart thing to do.
552447
Be sensible. She's your girlfriend, not your possession. Do you have a reason not to trust her? Can you talk to her about it? If not, and it bothers you, you shouldn't be with her. Does she have good reason you'll beat a male friend for looking at her? If so, maybe she isn't the one with the problem!\n\nPossessiveness makes an intelligent gal want to cheat. Girls like showing off their bodies- it's what we do. If you have a faithful loving relationship with this girl, then talk to her about your insecurity! There's a good chance it is founded in nothing. If you do not have a good relationship then what are you staying in it for?\n\nThe issue here sounds like a lot more than her going swimming with her friends! Ask yourself what it really is, and then deal with it.