there this guy he likes me and i like him  we been friends for 8 years?
348008
It is up to you. If you want to go out with him then go for it but if you dont want to date him then just be his friend. The choice is yours and yours alone. Good Luck.
391448
I'm sure he likes you "in that way" but he's probably just as freaked out and confused about it as you.  Sooner or later one of you will hurt the other, either by asking the other to "cross the line" or by dating someone else.  I think you could avoid that by trying to be VERY mature and sit down alone and talk about how the 2 of you feel about each other which is probably in the middle between "just friends" and wanting to jump into bed with each other.  You freindship will not be the same after this talk but it might be a better alternative than waiting until this timebomb is set off by hormones rather than diffused by the 2 of you taking an honest look at how much you really care about each other, your special friendship, and I'm sure that niether of you wants to hurt the other emotionally.
1163853
He likes you or even loves u
1154424
Tell him!\n Five years is a long time. He either likes you back, or not. Either way you have to move on.\nremember that we all tend to exaggerate our personal appearances.
115977
If you guys have been friends for so long no wonder you are start to have feelings for him cause as you get to know him you become more attracted and want to be with him longer so go for it if you really like him I am sure that he will understand just tell him striaght up that you like him don't be ashammed of your feelings
1164073
you should tell him and ask him if he want's to still be your friend. You can say "Hey you know I like you but it's just that I don't want to have a relationship with you. Maybe we can still be friends"
1122933
sounds like he likes you, or you guys are just really good friends... dont be a wimp, just ask him!
629771
i think u u should tell ur friend u like him ok
709098
I'm sorry to say this, but I don't think he's the type ever to commit to a serious relationship, not after 8 years. And being 15 years older than you, it means he's old enough for settling down. The fact that he still doesn't want to, means he just not that into you. Also, the fact that he's just interested when someone else wants you, tells me he is a spoiled, selfish and immature man. \n\nI suggest you move on with your life. You're still young and have your whole life in front of you. Don't waste another eight years waiting and hoping for something that's not going to happen.
1042203
its meabs that yes he likes you alot but in the end you guys really dont CLICK so to speak!  You guys are prop more better as friends i think and in the end you will either be friends or ull work it out.  But if he is saying there is no chemistry now then most likely there will never be.  Sorry girl, so times things like this happen.  You should go away together or something first thro to see if you can find the missing link.  If so i wish you all the best, if not its ok you will have a great friend and there is plenty of fish in the sea!\n\nCheers  :)         -SENDING YOU WISHES OK-
1154766
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!
964022
you sure be confident and don't be afraid to ask him if he likes you and try to ask him out. If it doesn't work out, you guys could still be friends.
739442
yes, he likes u alot! date him! itll be freakn awesome 4 both of u!
568148
u should give him time, and if he doesn't like u that way thats fine to, just be glade you have him has a friend.
704317
Don't make this more complex than it has to be. HE likes you. YOU like him. Tell him you want to move your friendship to the next level and start dating. This is a GREAT thing !!! I am happy for you two.
762561
I would just ask him.  if you have been friends for 5 years, then it should be okay.
884070
if he likes you go with him. If your friends is really good friends they`d understand && be happy for you .