does sex hurt when u do it?
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Crazy Chick and thief are so correct.  Sex is best when left to aminimum of partners for soooo many reasons.  It is also best when two people love each other in a committed relationship.  It is not a toy, or an appliance that has a warrenty so that when it is broken it can be sent back for repair.  I wish I had known this at 17, I would have made better decisions and had better relationships throughout life.
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if you're nervous, no matter how much you love your partner, it will hurt. when you're nervous, your muscles are tightened and it'll be hard for you and your partner to engage in intercourse. take a deep breath, relax, and think only good things and i think you will be fine.
238164
Only if you are doing it wrong. Sex is supposed to feel good!\n\nUse plenty of lube, take your time and don't do anything that doesn't feel right.\n\nIf you are the guy, pay attention to her signals and ask her how she is doing.\n\nHaving said all that, some people do have painful intercourse, but this is a medical problem that should be seen by a doctor.
286928
does it hurt or does it make things harder? if not, who cares? if so, go to the doc
596461
IT DEPENDS ON THE SIZE OF THE GUY AND HOW RELAXED YOU ARE AT  THE TIME. USE PLENTY OF KY JELLY AND NEVER LET HIM DO IT WITHOUT A CONDOM OR DON'T LET HIM C U M INSIDE YOU. IT CAN BE ENJOYABLE ONCE YOU GET USED TO IT BUT IT DOES USUALLY HURT AT FIRST. DON'T BE FORCED INTO IT THOUGH ONLY DO IT IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE.
544969
Yes it hurts. It's basically pulling your teeth into alignment by force. It will get easier once your teeth start going in line.
495808
It might be wise to consult with your doctor first or even a little research on the net.  But, in my opinion, I don't think it would hurt a thing.  It's noninvasive.  I'd do it if I wanted.  But, remember, ask the doc to be sure. It would take a few minutes to ask and you wouldn't be worrying about it which could in turn effect you sexual satisfaction
735709
Anal sex does hurt a lot!  But it can also be very enjoyable for both of you.  Just make sure you use a lot of lubrication and be patient.  Start off slow, be gentle.  After a couple of times of enjoying it the gentle way, when it won't be as painful as it is in the beginning, you're bound to have anal sex fast, loud and rowdy.  Enjoy!
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for some it does for others not. If your having sex with a girl for the first time, the most important thing to do is take your time entering her. Also make sure her pu$$y is really wet. cuz if it's not it may hurt you too.
846347
Healthy women enjoy sex as much as men. It is more stimulating than making out. That should be obvious. After the first few times sex should not be painful. If you or your partner is experiencing pain during sex, they need to see a doctor. Pain during intercourse can be caused by a number of things including sexually transmitted infections.
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your hymen often 'breaks' anyway, before any penetration.  Girls who lead active sporty lives, and do activities such as horse riding often break their hymens this way.\n  it may hurt the first time you have sex, it is up to you to make sure you are ready, and not tensed or uncomfortable, and up to your partner to be aware this is your first time and hopefully treat you accordingly
963991
You will experience some bleeding but that will go away. (some just have a drop or two).  Your partner needs to be considerate to you about this.  Make sure you are lubricated.  Yes, usually after the initial pain (which is not so bad as people make you think), you will enjoy it if you have a thoughtful partner. \n\nBest of wishes to you.
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Many women are doing it...If  your partner  takes his  time  and  uses  the  right tools...Ambiance...lubrication...perfect Time  and Place...it's  great....\n\nIs not supposed to hurt if you do it right and  take time  for Foreplay...\n\nYou will have  to try  it  to  find  out  if  you like  it...
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Sex should never be painful (unless you're into S&M or something like that). So, 1) is it painfully in certain positions? 2)just in one particular one? If its painful all the time its either a physical/medical problem. Now, I have heard from friends that the moment they said something to thier partner and their partner changed his position,force or ... it was no longer painful.
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For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
413148
Yes it does hurt the first few times. If you are nervous or scared it might make it hurt worse, and make sure you are not dry down there. If you are you might need to use some extra lubrication.
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Yes, it certainly can be, especially the first few times and if you don't use good lubrication. The more anxious you are about it the more likely it is to hurt. Don't let your partner persuade you to do it if you are unsure. \n\nPlease, if you do go through with it, use a condom. Go slow. Use fingers to get you used to expanding your rectum. Use personal lubricant made for sex. \n\nIf it hurts stop. Make your partner agree to stop if you say so. If it hurts and he doesn't stop scream.