Would you marry an illegal immigrant who says he loves you?
346133
Marraige is pretty special... wouldnt you like to start a new life with someone that IS on all accounts on the up and up with you? Never any doubts about the reasons why he's proposed through  a marraige seems to me to be the best route to make it work. A little coincidental the timing on his license dont you think? .. Take it slow, Curious. Ask this man to come into your marraige clean and legally and it will mean that much more to u.
127726
I'm white and I married a Mexican. One of the best decisions of my life. (Not just because he's Mexican, but becasue I love him and he loves me. Race should never matter.)
298580
You can marry whoever you want to marry. That isn't an issue. The issue comes into play when one of you wants to move to the others country. That is NOT easy, and usually takes months for one to be able to move. During the time of the paper work being gone over by some faceless person in government, neither of you will be allow to enter the others country. The government doesn't trust that you won't stay illegally. Also there is NO guarantee that the one moving, will be allowed in the others country. My fiance and I are going through this right now. I'm moving to the States (or hope to) He's not allowed in my country. I sure wish he was Canadian or I was American.
689213
that totally up to you if you love that person you marry here or abroad dear follow your heart
591921
Would YOU marry her.... if you a man?
773628
As an Ex-illegal Allien, a now a USA citizen, working for law enforcemets for many years...now very retired...I can tell you one thing...fake marriages usually 90% back-fire to the immigrant that seeking a way to stay in USA...because usually the other side that gets involved in this kind of scim is greedy and very dishonest...so soon or later the immigration service gets aware of the situation...DUE TO THE PROBLEMS THAT CREATE BOTH PARTIES with the LOCAL POLICE AUTHORITIES AND COURTS.and then is no mercy on his or her efforts to stay in USA.
530674
He does not have to go back. You can get married and it will be legal only he will not. I advise you to get married and then see an immigration lawyer. I just got married to an illegal and thats what we're going to do. I've heard if he goes back without any paperwork started they can impose the 10-year ban where he cannot come back. But I don't think that stops a lot of people. www.visapro.com has a lot of good info on this subject. I've learned some so you can e-mail me at angelsamorcito@yahoo.com if you have any questions. Oh and don't listen to the people here or family that matter who say that they are only marrying you to become legal. Its normally not the truth. My family told me the same thing but my husband also said it was neither here nor there for him. So Congratulations and Good Luck!
838882
How old was he when he came over illegally, was it by his choice or the choice of his parents.. all things to consider really. \nBest answer so far was to speak/hire an immigration attorney. \nI am sorry sweetie, but I am for deporting all illegals.. HOWEVER!! He may be able to stay, considering the fact that you and he are married. Check into it. <warm hugs>
1086653
Well, if he isn't legally divorced, then she isn't legally married to him nor has she ever been.\n\n  \nShe needs to contact an immigration lawyer ASAP.
413222
If you love and respect your man yes.
257518
if you marry a u.s. citizen then you can stay legally.
660268
That's nice because your illegal husband is making more than most legals make.  You say $2800 like it's nothing.  That's a lot of money.  So if your husband becomes legal, then does that mean he will stop doing the work he is doing now?  If your arguing that illegals work hard and do jobs that U.S. citizens wont do and that this benefits the U.S., then with your logic if he got amnesty he would quit that job and then no one would do that work period, right?
648201
He would have to immigrate the way anyone else would and get his citizenship the way anyone else would or else marry you. I don't think he could still get his pension though.
775193
Nope - you're required to support him and must prove you have over a certain level of income to do that.  Sounds like you're not marrying for love, just a green card.  Be aware that the government will find out - the interview is very hard and those guys will spring questions on you you'd never expect.
224981
I you are illegal then you need to go back to your country and get legal to that country or have him marry you in your country.
570699
try to help him with his papers and dont worry im in the same situation im dating my fiance and he also doesnt have any papers but im still going to marry him because i love him adn i would do anything to get him back if he got deported wouldnt you??????????????????/////
727125
Curious, I have been following some of your questions for sometime now, even answered a few with my old account. This is just an honest advice, there is something very wrong with your relation. I don't mean to intrude, but if all of what you said is true, the least that can be said is that you are in a non trusting marriage and I can't see this ever working. On one hand, according to your accounts, he is in love with someone else (which apparently is not reciprocated). On the other hand, you seem to use the green card as a leverage on your relation. You keep putting off this decision (you said it yourself) and it would be frustrating for anyone trying to start a life with you. Even if he is fully committed to you and would decide to leave if your marriage fails, your attitude concerning this would destroy the relation. How can you marriage ever work?\n\nThe only way for you to ever know for sure, would be to let him get his permanent papers and see if he sticks around. Of course, it could (and probably will) backfire and he could dump you as soon as he gets them. Anyway, I think it is more than time that you decide, either one way or the other and stick with that decision. I hope you good luck either way.