i have a boyfriend and another male to talk to on the side and another male in jail and i want to be with the?
338846
Guys in jail always talking that be with you forever shit. Especially if you were his before he went in. He just wants to make sure he has some guaranteed pussy when he gets out.
1035470
Well, I went back & read your other questions. You got a lot of answers telling you to just move on. This is just my opinion but YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART.\n\nI don't think that you need to find someone else right now, that would just be a rebound relationship. I imagine your ex-bf is in jail in Toledo. I think you need to sit back & wait, if you stay in contact with him & then after court he is going to look to you to help pay his fine. Did he mention why he was arrested?? Because if he is still in jail how did he text you? He may be telling you everything that he knows you want to hear but on the other hand he might have had a rude awakening when he got arrested and realized what he has lost and now he wants you back. Just please don't go out & do the revenge thing & have a one night stand with someone>>& you don't have to have s3x for it to be a one night stand<<. You need to give yourself time, but if he asks you for money then he is trying to play you for a fool. Go to the library & check newspapers for the past few weeks to see who has been arrested. You may find out that your boyfriend is still close by, that could be a reason why he deleted his families numbers because he knew you would call & they would tell you that they haven't heard from him. Men can be very tricky when it comes to getting what they want. Take heed & you will be the one planting the seed.
769901
Ashley, you've asked this question twice now. This one looks like you did it. Doubt it, since I don't think you'd have a chance to play on the computer in jail. Your boyfriend, right? Better start calling him your "friend" and go play with another "boy", a good one this time!
696780
Get a life!!  Stop letting your feelings run your life.  \n\nIf he has been in prison, you couldn't possibly have a relationship.  What you have is a big crush on a guy that right now couldn't possibly be the man of your dreams.\n\nThink about it. Why do you have a bf?  Presumably to find that special person you will spend the rest of your life with.  \n\nWell honey, he ain't it.  He is telling you so!! Not verbally, but with his actions.  \n\nWhat characteristics do you want in the man you are going to spend the rest of your life with?  Now match them to the guy who just got out of prison............\n\nYou are obviously not ready do date yet. listen to the advice of your friends and those who you respect before you make an even bigger mistake.
751827
time to get another boyfriend
197167
Hello:\n\nI gather from your question that you have somebody close to you who is in jail.  Call the Captain.  Be polite.  If you don't get him, call again, and again.  You must be agressive about your friend, while at the same time not being over the top.\n\nJailers will treat an inmate differently if they know he has outside support.  Good for you.\n\nexcon
479372
if it was a one off i would say stick it out if u really love each other but it seems to b a on going thing him going to jail u need to get on with ur life in a steady relationship with someone thats always going to b around for u not in and out of jail
1034730
go back to jail n see if hes still there
800861
grow up, learn to speak correctly and you'll attract real men that don't spend time in jail. seek stability, not fun. fun fades i promise you. a man can't promise you a stable life if he's in jail.
907790
YOU SHOULD NOT RECEIVE ANY PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT !!!\nYOU SHOULD JUST BE THROWN IN WITH THE REST OF THE LOSERS !!!\nAND WHATEVER HAPPENS TO YOU IN JAIL JUST TAKE IT AS A HARD LESSON LEARNED !!!\nHOPE IT'LL TEACH YOU TO STRAIGHTEN UP YOUR ACT AND CLEAN UP YOUR LIFESTYLE !!! \nUNLESS YOU REALLY LOVED IT IN JAIL THE KEEP DOING THAT SAME CRAP !!!
884088
You can go on to this link:  http://www.prisontalk.com/ go to the oklahoma forum there might be a lot of people there who might be interested.
1028183
Call the jail and ask if they are in there.
508910
This is a really hard situation.  You need to talk to the other guy and tell him how you feel.  Lay it all out on the line, so that you will know once and for all if there is a possibility of something between you.  You need to resolve this before you agree to marry your current boyfriend. Talk to the other guy first and go from there.  If you want to talk to me, send me a message on yahoo messenger and I could help you better than on here. I wish you the best of luck with whatever happens.
969650
First of all, I think you're putting yourself in a dangerous situation. Second of all, I'd let the authorities know.  If he has been convicted before and is engaging in this type of behavior, he'll go right back to jail. If he hasn't been convicted then he needs to be. Either way you need to make the authorities aware of the situation.
788086
You have tons and tons of company!\nCheck out http://www,prisontalk.com\n\n(and be thankful it's only until March, I have 3 people I care about inside... two are lifers and I won't get my baby brother back until 2014)
922312
Huh....you sure you're in love?  It's going to be tough being alone while he serves time...and he seems aware of that fact.  That's a big sacrifice--waiting for him I mean.  If you chose that route--best of luck to you.  But even if you don't decide to wait it out--you could still be supportive by communicating with him while he's incarcerated.  Life with a convicted felon is not going to be easy after he serves time either--and your options will be limited because of it.  Just be aware of the sacrifices required to remain with this person.  It sounds like you'll have lots of time to make up your mind.  Find a support group that can assist you.  Good Luck
606834
spend time with my boyfriend.