How do I stop myself from alwayz being da quiet gurl to da fun gurl at school?
351480
discover new things!\ntry doing something new for a change!\nmake new frends, but do not leave your old ones!\nlastly, just be yourself and let them see the real fun side in you!
509758
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
589187
try and go in when its more quiet. then you wont feel so shy, she may get annoyed if she is very busy!
394173
I embarass easy too! I just make sure that whenever we are in a room together like at a party or even at school to be around them. Let yourself be seen, create attention to yourself by walking by with some friends and talking loudly and laughing and having a good time! Maybe you could write them a letter. I always write when I want to say something and I cant get the courage up to say it! That may be your best bet!
871225
Be up front and serious with him.  Tell him if he doesn't knock it off you will never be his friend again.  Do it in private, don't make it a shouting match.  If he doesn't take you seriously, start doing to him what he is doing to you.  Start acting like he likes the ugliest slut in the school and embarrass him really bad about it.  He will get the point.
1072458
i have almost exactly the same problem. what i'm trying to do is to be more talkative and loud around my friends so that i get comfortable with it, then i hope i'll be more talkative in general, even with people who arent my really good friends.
342095
Just be yourself.  Being popular is overrated, and at my school, the "popular" people aren't really that popular - they think they are, but the majority of people don't like them.  You're awesome the way you are.
962531
You need to understand that the more you defy authority, the closer eye the teacher will have on you.  If you stop drawing attention to yourself and behave yourself in your class, it could get better, but once you are on someone's bad side, it's tough to change.  You're making it out like he's just got a dislike for you, but you need to understand that teachers have 5-7 classes a day with 20-30 kids in them.  They cannot allow kids to just be smart a**** or it will just distract the entire class & they lose precious time with those who want to learn.  Try paying attention, answering questions, stop talking to your girlfriend... you can hang with her at lunch or afterwards.  This is soooo important, adults just can't explain how important it is to do your best now for your own future.  Good luck sweety :)
684125
Screw the kids at your school. I've had this happen before, it sucks, but the best thing to do is keep your head and laugh along with them, show them it doesn't bug you any. Sooner or later they'll realize they're immature and that it doesn't bug ya.
1142572
i think you need to find that one friend that you can act like a fool with, and slowly hang out with them in public places, then see if yuo can add another, and slowly go from there, and about the who aniety thing, i think you'll over come it, and i wish you the best of luck in everything that you do becuase you sound like a really cool person, and i hope you find your place, cuase you sound like you deserve it, teehee
230439
Honestly, there's not much you can do. You can try to talk to a guidance counselor or teacher, and that might help. The only thing that worked for me when I was in school was ignoring the crap that was said. There was this one girl who bullied me for years and we would consequently bad-mouth each other. Finally, I just quit saying anything about her and let her talk all the trash she wanted to. Our mutual friends realized after a while that she was the one causing all the drama and so even though she was still talking trash about me, our friends just tuned her out when she would do that. And it made me look like the better person. (which, of course, I am... ;) )
923599
try making more friends. if you hang with the right people, you'll have fun all day long. you gotta talk to people. talk to anybody. and try to get more involved in clubs, sports, hobbies etc. make it fun. and i bring a mp3 player to my classes sometimes cuz they can get boring too. Good Luck!
1028712
be youself..don't be like other people..you are your own woman...and don't need to be a follower..what are your interests..are u into sports....if so..join some of those school activites
685367
just turn in your assignments and stop trying to be perfect in everyones Else's eyes. bet your alot smarter then you know.
658378
find a quiet place for u 2 2 talk. when your there ... ake a move.\n\nKatie < : )
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
424218
cut down on the disctractions. cut off your cellphone and don't open your messenger.\nalso, rotate your homework so you do one boring subject followed by one fun subject. and have an accountability partner. say, you'll meet your friend at starbucks when you get your homework done, and when you get there, have her ask you if it's done.