y do people get attracted to people of da same sex?
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It's not against the law to be attracted to someone of the same sex. In fact, it can be perfectly natural. Just because society says that it isn't right, doesn't mean that society is right. And women do find men attractive and men find women attractive. Yet at the same time, it is very possible for a woman to find a woman attractive and a man to find a man attractive.
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Let them know you are attracted to them.
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People can sense if someone they meet is seeking a partner, and this is usually unattractive. The key is to avoid trying to find a partner and just focus on things you are passionate about, whilst meeting as many people as you can. Don't expect anything, aim to just have a good time talking to people of both genders and making friends. Then it is much more likely that someone will be attracted to you and it will happen unexpectedly. It may take time so try not to have expectations. Most girls are attracted to guys who are independent, driven, and have passions in life. Focus on getting a girlfriend and you will come across as needy and you may attract negativity, if anything at all.
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They often do, but it depends on what element of the persons are opposite. If they have different values, they often don't attract. \n\nOne actually feels attracted to someone who has certain characteristics that you deep inside wish you had yourself.
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I think it's natural we are attracted by people who are different from ourselves. \nYou're not a hypocrite!!! Not at all. Many of us find other races attractive but only some of us are ready to talk about it directly. Those who hide the truth are hypocrites. The problem is that former generations rarely allowed the couples to mix. I think it was the matter of identity and fear of being judged by other people.  \nFortunately, world has changed now and people have changed as well. We are used to a view of 'mixed pairs' and I love the view! I dream I will also be in such relationship someday...
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i have often wondered that myself.  I have tlked to many gays & bi's and have not got an answer from them either.  it is like why does a gool looking girl like and ugly guy and vice versa
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coz you feel attraction...then you get interested...
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If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
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What does their sexual orintation have to do with them as people?
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It's just people observing people. Sometimes you start to notice certain cues over time that give you a sense of a person's sexual orientation. Some people are obvious. And some are ambiguous. But does it really matter? Unless you're trying to hit that person up and you're barking up the wrong tree.
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When one is attracted to ones own gender.
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Some people like both sexes and that is okay.  Eventually, you will know what makes  you happy.  You do not have to fall into one stereotype or other.
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I think people forgot the whole "everyone is beautiful in their own way"\n\nI think a bi guy is just as sexy as a straight guy, or full gay guy, or girls for that matter, sexual preference should have nothing to do with how you feel about a person.\n\npeople are just ignorant and refuse to see the world is changing...oh well, they'll just have to get used to it :)
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There is nothing "gay" about finding someone of the same sex good looking.  Admiring something or someone good looking is natural.\n\nIf you find yourself attracted to and aroused by females but not aroused by males then you are straight.
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No one "becomes" gay. Sexual identity is determined by genetics, not personal preference. Being gay does not mean only sleeping with someone of the same sex, but loving them. Think about the way a man loves a woman, and why he doesn't love his best friend the same way. Being gay is the same thing, only with different genders. A person who is gay goes through puberty and realizes they have an attraction for the same sex, yet many gays state that they sensed they were "different" since they were children as young as five. Sometimes, people change their preference, but it is due to brain chemistry and not outside forces (this is why praying and porn do not work to change sexual identity.)\nMany straight men and women are afraid watching a gay film or hanging around gays will make them gay, but it's not true. Otherwise, a gay could become straight by hanging around straight people!
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Homosexuals are attracted to the same sex, while drag queens dress in women's clothing.  Also, statistically most drag queens and crossdressers are heterosexuals.
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Haha, I know the answer to this one.  Too many poeple say they are when they aren't nowadays.  I thought I was until I realized tht you can like someone of the same sex without being lesbian/gay/bi.  If you feel like you want to have sex with a person of the same gender, then you may be bisexual and if you look at more than one person (of your gender) like that, then it's even more likely.  Picture yourself with as many guys and girls as you can and if you're comfortable with it, then maybe you are.  However, these things CAN change or you may think you are now and you could end up COMPLETELY straight or even gay/lesbian.