I need a boyfriend...help me?
340616
Nah, you don't need one.  Have as much fun as you can without one.  Enjoy your free time and not stressing about it.  One will come along eventually.\n\nRemember, it's better to not have a boyfriend than to have a boyfriend who is a jerk or a loser.
371257
Find another boyfriend!
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
6118
You should be friends with yourself first.  Don't feel like you need a boyfriend to be a whole person.
42885
Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
137229
having a boyfriend has its ups and downs and it is nice to have one, but you're still an adolescent. patience is a virtue. someone will eventually find you.
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
560905
Take your time getting a boyfriend. Your young and don't settle for one and get messed around by someone who will not treat you good.............
1132331
Easy...ust pick a man who actually likes you.  If you just want naked time together, then carry on the way you are.  However, if you want a proper boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, then hold out on the s.e.x. for a couple of months.  If he won't wait, then he's definitely not worth it. If he waits then there's a better chance that he's an alright person who may actually like and RESPECT you.\n\nYou are coming across just a little bit desparate.\n\nRelax! Be more choosy and raise your standards!
537579
WHY DO YOU THINK YOU NEED A BOYFRIEND? BELIEVE IT OR NOT, YOU REALLY DON'T. YOUR STILL YOUNG, CONCENTRATE ON YOUR FRIENDS, AND HAVING FUN AND SCHOOL. ALL THAT STUFF WILL COME LATER IN LIFE. HAVING A MAN DOESN'T DEFINE A WOMAN. SOME WOMEN THINK THEY ARE WORTHLESS W/ OUT A MAN, AND THAT IS SO FAR FROM THE TRUTH. THEY JUST DON'T HAVE A VERY GOOD SELF ESTEEM.
1042075
NO!!! There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone experiences things at different times so don't rush the process. You never know when you get your first boyfriend he may turn out to be the right one. Just be patience and enjoy being you and being single.
941925
If you need more than he can offer, you should sit down and talk it over with him.  If you cannot come to a compromise and he cannot at least answer you once in a while.  Tell him your expectations of a relationship.  If your expectations are not being met and he isn't trying to a point, then you can tell him in person that you need more.  Nothing wrong with what you need.  If you don't constantly call or IM him, I do not see why he can't take a few seconds to IM you or call you.  If I had a boyfriend, I would make time, and call him.  After all, if he is busy, it can be just a 30 second call saying.... I am busy, just wanted to say hi and to have a good evening.  It sounds like he really isn't interested if he isn't even talking to you at school.  I think it is better to talk about it in person versus over the phone.
564519
get a boyfriend or ask one of ur guy friends to have sex with you??? but i highly suggest u finding a boyfriend.. if ur too desperate then just think of other things. instead of worrying so much about it.
525232
Alright. Here's the thing I never had a boyfriend until my sophomoreyear of COLLEGE! No, I was not a loser. Quite the opposite actually (I was named Ms. THS at my school) Yes, I did go out on dates, but my first date was homecoming at my highschool and that is still a year away for you! You shouldn't define yourself by wether or not you have a boyfriend. Yes, having a boyfriend is nice but give it some time. Right now I have the worlds most amazing boyfriend. He is literally a genius (by IQ), he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really cuddly. I'm not worlds most awesome looking girl (see my 360 page), but he thinks I'm beautiful. There is a guy out there for you! He'll think you are beautiful too. FIRST find what you love about yourself and when you accentuate that (physical or inner) others will see it too. Peace and Love and Good Luck!
719267
The best way to get a good boyfriend is to just be yourself.\nDo not put on airs. Do not try to attract guys. Always remember, some where there is My Right for you.\nMost boys do not like girls that fuss about them or giggle all the time.. JUST BE YOURSELF.
831824
Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
663676
you shouldnt ask him out because then your gonna look so desprit.you dont need him anyway cause you can get another boyfriend and you known that.e-mail me back when you get this e-mail.