what should u do when you really cares about a special girl and you are afraid to let her know how you feel?
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WHEN U CARE ABOUT SOMEONE U SHOULD EXPRESS TO THEM HOW  FEEL ABOUT THEM BECAUSE U NEVER KNOW IF U WAIT TO LATE THEN THAT PERSON IS GONE BE WITH SOMEONE ELES AND U WILL PROBABLY LOOSE THE CHANCE OF A LIFETIME. \nIT KINDA SIMILAR TO ME I BEEN TALKING TO THIS GUY FOR A YEAR IN A HALF NOW AND IT TOOK ME A WHOLE YEAR TO SAY THAT I LOVED HIM LUCKILY I TOLD HIM WHEN I DID BECAUSE HE HAS BEEN TELLING ME THAT HE LOVE ME AND I NEVER TOLD HIM BACK AND HE FELT AS THOUGH I WAS TAKING HIM FOR GRANTED AND I WAS JUST PLAYING WITH HIS FEELINGS SO HE WAS ABOUT TO STOP TALKIN TO ME BUT I HAD TOLD HIM JUST IN TIME.
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Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
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don't be afraid of telling her your feelings. Don't worrie she will get surprised only!!!
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If you are going to tell a girl that you love her or that you really feel for her you should just tell her, make sure she's single and that she is close to you, not too close.  If she isn't dating that is the best way to do it...you don't want to confuse her...then she will get upset. Sit her down and tell her, ask her out, PLEASE don't get someone else to do it...that will embarrass you and her, it says you don't care enough to tell her and makes you look like a wuss.\nGood Luck i hope you get your girl
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be honest and tell her how you fell...if she likes you, great, if not, you'll be sad but at least you won't be wondering anymore
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I know how you feel,except mine was a guy.When I had finaly told him,he never talked to me again,but grls are different.Just spend more time ith her, ask he4r questions about life and love.See how she feels first.You dont want to rush things,but you don't want her hanging on the edge of her seat waiting for you to tell her.If I were her,I would want you to tell me,and if I didn't feel the same at that time I'ld let you know.If you do tell her,and she shunns you, don't let it get to you.It sounds like you're a very kind and sweet person.You could get any grrl....\n\n\n~~~~Panda Grrl
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Hi there.\n\nAsking questions isn't any sin. It shows plainly that you really would like to get to know her better. Since I'm already aware of your situation with this particular girl, I think, by now, you should have sincerely told her about your feelings towards her.\n\nYou don't have to worry about what she might think about you. I can guess that if she really likes you, she will most definitely enlighten you with the fact that she HAS feelings for you too. If, by chance, our speculation about her having feelings for you were a myth, then the worst thing that she would do is reject you politely.\n\nHere's the thing; don't go up to her and straight away ask, "Do you have feelings for me?" or any of that sort of query. This might tick her off as you would sound really pathetic. I felt the same way when a guy misjudged my friendly gestures as interest towards him when he demanded to know point blank whether or not I have the hots for him. I mannerly told him that I regarded him only as a friend and explained the fact that my gestures had only friendly intentions. He and I are friends till now.\n\nIn a way, I think you could dig up your courage deep within to tell her how you feel. And like I said before, she will tell you if she feels the same way or vice versa. Whatever the response she might give you, make sure everlasting friendship remains in your bond with her.\n\nBefore I leave you to ponder about the things I have shared, I'd like you to remember that friendship often ends with love, but love ending in friendship, with certainty, rarely happens.\n\nI hope this helps.
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u could start off by askin the gurl how do she feel about u dont be scared the worst she can say is no
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girl u go talk 2 him if u have something 2 say. i mean wat r u afraid of by asking him? is he scary? then tell him wat u feel and say that u know how he feels about u but u cant hide ur feelings anymore. believe me this will do nothing but good 2 u. try it out and let me know what happens with u i really wanna know ok? u can send me an IM. im waiting!
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Look her in the eye and tell her how u feel about her. Dont be anyone but yourself. A girl likes to feel special, and hear the truth, not a bunch of crap
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Just tell her how you feel and maybe you guys can work something out!
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I think that you should take her out make her feel special then when you are dropping her off you should ask her what her feelling are towards you then you lovingly tell her that your feelings towards her are not the same she should understand tell her that she is a very beatiful girl and that she will soon find the guy that is just right for her she will appreciate that, coz if you keep avoiding her she will never know and then if another guy asks her out she will say no coz she will be too busy waiting for you to admit the feelings that you dont have for her well that is my advice i think it is the best way cool calm and collected
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I would tell her, and here's why.  It's a strain on you, and you should probably put a little distance between the two of you for your mental health.  Tell her you've developed feelings for her, it wasn't on purpose, and you don't want her to feel pressured, but because of this you need to put a little space between the two of you for a time while you refocus yourself.  Then be friendly, but cut your contact with her WAY down.  This does a couple of things.  It lets her know your thoughts, which is important in an honest friendship.  But it doesn't give her the instant upper hand she would get if you "confessed your love" then waited around for her to do something (and what would that be? dump the BF?  decide if she feels the same in return?), which almost always has a bad result for the confessor.  Treat your developing ardor as a personal weakness of your own, perhaps a slightly embarrassing one, and assure her you're going to get over it without bothering her, you just wanted to do her the courtesy of letting her know why you can't hang out with her so much.\n\nOnce you go into "recovery" phase (spending less time with her) it does two things.  It lets her know you aren't a lapdog, hanging around, waiting for whatever attention she'll give you.  It actually gives you the closest thing to the upper hand you can have.  She'll also see less of you, giving her the chance to figure out if she misses you a lot.  If she does, she should be the one to bring up that she wants to see more of you.  When she does this, you can say (be nice to her, always be very very nice) "that would be difficult for me without the chance to date you... I'm concerned my feelings are to strong."  Be kind of wistful.  Then give her more space.\n\nYou're trying to get her to come to you.  It's the only way you have a chance after a confession anyway, but it can be very successful if she likes and depends on you, but has been more or less taking you for granted.  It also gives you control over your life, which is always adviseable.  One more piece of advice?  Flirt with some other girls.  But don't overdo it, and never be mean to anyone.\n\nMake sense?  Good luck.
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YOU SHOULD SEND HE OR SHE SUMTHIN TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW DAT YOU ARE FEELIN THEM. BUT DNT ACT LIKE YOUR STOCKIN THEM OR JUST GOIN TO DIE IF YOU DNT HAVE THEM JUST PLAY IT COOL AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE EITHER SHE WANT  YOU OR SHE DONT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT . AND IF SHE TURN YOU DOWN DEN DATS A LESSON LEARN DAT MAYB YOU NEED TO DO SUMTHIN BETTER. GOOD LUCK ON FINDING DAT GURL
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My dear friend,girls know everything.never be scared to say coz girls love to listen it from guys even though they undrstand everything. so go ahead n tell her what u feel for her,she will be very happy.\n\ngood luck buddy
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Hey hun... well - I know just where you're coming from on this one as my best friend (guy) has just had this problem as he told his friend how he felt about her.\nFirstly, don't feel guilty about saying anything - it will have actually made things less awkward between the two of you. If you're close friends (as you say you are) then she shouls respect you for saying something to her face. Far too many guys don't say anything and the girl doesn't know where she stands at all.\nI don't think you "need" to rectify what you said - it's said now and that's final - you can't sincerely say anything that will take it back - and it will never be forgotten.\nYou say she feels something for you too, but still said you should stay friends - it sounds to me like she's scared of losing the friendship you have, which if it's as special and close as you say would be a shame. I don't understand though, why she said that she liked you and still turned you down - I mean, if she truly respected your feelings - would she have kept quiet and not kept you going through this torture, with the hope that something could still happen. I know that, obviously, you think the world of her - but are you sure she's worh it and she's not just playing with your affections and your emotions.\nI think you did right keeping quiet for a few days, you didn't say anything in the heat of the moment, and have let everything settle. If her reply to you didn't say anything about what you said, this could mean she'd rather move on - stay friends and not spoil your friendship in anyway. However, it could also be that she doesn't want to be the one to raise the topic, maybe she's embarrassed or maybe she thinks you're embarrassed and don't want her to raise the subject. It's up to you on that one - if you want to talk about it then bring it up in a quiet moment in private. However - if you do want to talk about it, make sure you don't sound like you're renewing your feelings to her, or are pleaing with her to take your relationship to a new level - as this is likely to spoil any chances of remaining friends.\nIf you are as close as you say, I don't think she will behave differently. But, even if she does, you MUST NOT behave differently around her - keep being as close as you ever were - this should put her at her ease a little more.\nI know it's difficult, as I said my friend's in the same sit, but you have to try and stop seeing "signs" that she likes you. Just try and see these that you and her are close friends and nothing more. Slowly try and get yourself to see someone else in this way - althought it's likely you will always like this friend as more than that.\nI hope this helps you, good look mate - I have a feeling you might need it with this one.
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Through her friendship.  Be her friend first.  Make sure you show her how important she is to you, listen to her and start to show your feelings.  She may just realize one day how much she cares for you.  That's how it happened to me.