my best friend wassuspended from school,and she thinks that i lied,so i wouldnt get susp.but i didnt.help!?
349083
If you are telling the truth, stick to it.  You're friend may not believe you, and it may even cost you your friendship with him/her, but hopefully your friend will eventually see that you are telling the truth.  The truth shall set you free.
613923
You probably should have asked your friend what her plans were before you hung out with you other friends, maybe she just assumed since you had already asked her to hang out that the plan was still on.She's probably feeling like you ditched her, send her an email explaining that you thought since she didn't let you know if she could hang out with you that she couldn't so you made other plans, and just tell her you're sorry.She'll get over it.
270688
Hmmm... Really sounds strange huh? Well, I'm a Man but I think I can answer your question... Maybe you're right about what you suspect for the reason she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but you really have to talk to her because there can be many reasons for this situation, maybe you can ask her if someone was backstabbing you and telling things about you against your friend... Right? Losing a friend like yours is very depressing because both of you have been to lot of ups and downs... For now, try to take time for her to think it over, same to you as well, think of the things that possibly you've done that hurted her feelings too... Because if she was your friend for 12 years already, jealousy is not a big factor and she should be proud of you as her bestfriend... Maybe jealousy to other friends of yours is a reason... Try to talk to her ok? But at the right time... Goodluck to your friendship and I'm sure you will get her back...
41663
My answer is actually a question for you:\n\nIS IT WORTH POSSIBLY LOSING FRIENDSHIP OVER A GIRL WHO IS LYING TO YOU BOTH?\n\nYou said this is your BEST FRIEND. Remember that.\n\nGood luck.
384959
if she doesn't wanna hurt you then she is your best friend but ask her to be more honest with you next time ask her to give you her real opinion next time .you she she didn't say because she didn't wanna hurt you because she wants what is best for you .cause if she did tell you might get upset with her
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
904886
My best friend is an excellent liar, he's lied to me so many times that I reallly don't think that I will ever know just how much he's lied to me.  The good thing is that I know the way he is now so I now know not to trust him immediately.  In the back of my mind there is always the thought that he could be lying to me.  So I simply don't trust him any more.   I don't know if this helped you or not.  If other people see your friend as a liar then it might be true.  Just go with your gut feeling.
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No of course she should not have asked! You are friends but that doesnt mean you should help each other tobe dishonest! If she really was your friend she would have understood why you said no and respect that. Dont ever change your morals just to help out and always stick with what you believe in. Tell her how you feel,and if she wants to feel that way the it is her problem you cant change that. Good luck to you!
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
888165
WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same
743927
Well you could tell your best friend that it was not nice of her or him to say that to you. cuz you are not stupid. and onone is stupid. And just say to yourself that   you know that you are not stupid. So sorry that your best friend said that.
1125963
well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
190378
Lies are always the worst course of action, ALWAYS.  So, what do you do?  You have to accept it.  You lied to her and there's no way to erase it.  Apologize to her.  Tell her you know that it was wrong to lie to her and that you're very sorry.  Try to explain to her why you lied.  Don't make it about how you were afraid of her reaction -- make it about how you were too cowardly to stand up and be honest.  She'll appreciate that more, but if she doesn't want to hear it don't force it on her.  Tell her that you understand why she needed to break off the relationship, but that you still love her and you will do everything you possibly can to rebuild the trust in your relationship, even if it is just to have the possibility of having a best friend in her because she is worth it.  Then DO it.  Let her vent to you about if she needs to... if she snaps and says something cruel and hard to take like, "It's too bad you're such a liar..."  Even though it makes you feel indignant and unfairly judged, don't react to it.  You broke her heart and to her heart, you are a liar...   Apologize if she does that, and tell her you never meant to hurt her, you were just afraid you weren't up to her standards... \n\nEtc, etc, etc...   Oh, and don't do any of this if you're not genuine (i.e. a liar).  She doesn't deserve any more heartbreak...
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there is no pssible way for her to believe you unless she wants to. But what kind of friend would not believe her friend? She doesn't sound like much of a friend to me! OR....she's putting you down all the time because she has bad self esteem and that somehow makes her feel better by laughing at you. Find some other friends who have weird dreams and have a blast comparing notes :)
851332
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
549025
Well, I think it was a good thing that you called her on the false story.  Her reaction is typical for someone who has been CAUGHT.  She may have seen it as her opportunity to end the friendship of many years.  People change and interests change.  This might be a blessing in disguise for you.  If she is a gossip queen and you could care less about that - this may be your opportunity to focus on people who share your values.  HUGS TO YOU.  It is hard to lose a friend for any reason.
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If you are absolutely positively sure that they have lied to you about everything then choose to end this friendship.If your not sure then ask them to tell you something that you already know the truth about to see if they lie.If they do then tell them how it makes you feel and why do they want to lie all time.Maybe they do not know they are lying and maybe they just don't care about telling the truth.Do you lie to anyone?If no then maybe you should find a new friend.