do u believe in safe sex or no sex which is truly safer?
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I grew up believing in "no sex before marriage" granted, I know most people these days dont go for that. You should at least wait til you are in a committed relationship with ONE person. I have been in 2 serious relationships. One I was married to, and the other one (who I am with now), I am engaged to. Before I was with either of them physically, I made them go to the doctor and be tested for all STD's. And waited til the tests came back before we did anything. Make sure you see the test results, dont just take their word for it. Then, of course, you still want to be protected, to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
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Good sex is dependant on if the person involved thinks it's good.  What I find good the next person might not.\n\nDo what you enjoy & enjoy what you do, do it safe & consentual & it's all good.
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Sort of.\n\nCondoms are usually effective.  They're safer than using nothing at all.  Sometimes they split, in which case there's a chance of pregnancy.\n\nCondoms also reduce the risk of SOME sexually-transmitted diseases.
1068242
Check with your doctor on this matter. I think that as long as you don't exhibit outer symptoms, it is safe to have sex. This is only an opinion from a layman's viewpoint.
1049823
Love is a choice to commit to do what is best for another.  Sex without love is a choice to do what feels right for you. Love+Sex=:)
481984
it is even safer when you have sex with someone you know
435990
Its safe as long as you know how to protect yourself.\n\nLets face it, if someone can't find their Mr/Mrs Right in real life, what makes you think that someone can be your Mr/Mrs Right?\n\nI don't know but then again, love works in mysterious ways.\n\nLove is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
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reliable i would say yes but, safe I don't think anyone is real safe in a place alone with someone u don't know .It's going to be a risk you'll have to decide to do or not.
1139092
Sex is 90% mental and 10% physical...Keep your head up by having confidence.
918813
I believe indefinitely, for a woman.  I lived at the hospital with my husband for 3 months, 9 yrs. ago.  The thought of sex was not there.  He did die.  When you don't think about sex, there is no problem.  I could go on indefinitely without sex.  And I don't need to masturbate.  Keep busy at all times.  Life is more interesting and fun that way, anyway.
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No!  Sex is a natural and beautiful thing.  You should share it with natural and beautiful people.  People are very very rarely different in the present than in their past,  And most people contract STDs because of a lack of respect for themselves or others OR both. So unless you are perverse or desperate. it is much better to be patient and look for a better partner.\nIt is better to practice unprotected sex with good people, than the safest "safe-sex" with grovelling animals.
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When you and your partner are both mentally and physically ready. Sex is not a game and shouldn't be taken lightly.\nDid you know that you can actually die from having sex.\n(aids) So use protection and do it only for love.
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Of course it is.  It's a natural thing that you shouldn't feel guilty about.  Plus there are not strings attached or heart ache or drama in general. And it's safe and clean and you can't get pregnant or aids.
489248
not to have any is the safety, but if you are going to have sex condoms, birth control pills,
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SAFE SEX\n\nEDUCATION
668331
In my honest opinion it can be both. It depends on the persons involved, some only have sex for the sake of sex, while others prefer the emotional connection it brings. Sex in a commited relationship really is the best there is ddue to the connection that the two people have. When you can couple that with no fears or inhibitions you have an awesome potential for ecstasy.
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Neither one is 100% guaranteed, so if you are going to be having sex and don't want to get pregnant, it would be a good idea to use both!