There is a guy with a gf one min. he wants to be friends the next he wants more! What should I do?
351897
He wants to be with his girlfriend,but likes playing with you.The question you should be asking is..."DO I WANT TO PLAY SECOND FIDDLE????????????????????????????????????????"
622900
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
83019
i know a guy that wants a gf
612419
If you tell him right now, when he just got a new girlfriend, it will sound like you want to ruin his relationship with her.  Give yourself (and him) some time, just be his friend, and see what happens.  He knows you like hanging out with him; that's enough for now.
449837
option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
483578
join the club honey. i'm with a guy that wants us to be friends one week and then friends with benefits the next wekk....well, it really does suck to only be wanted for sex, but at the same time....he aint going anywhere else for it is he. if you're comfiortable in that type of relationship...then go for it
786585
Well the first time, he called you and wanted to get to know you better, that's a big plus. If a guy takes the time to talk to you and get to know you is because something good is going through his mind. At the end you mentioned he has a GF though? Well, for now you should keep talking to him but avoid flirting, you don't want to get in a fight with his GF right? So just keep on talking to him, texting him, etc. and show him what a nice person you are! Hope everything goes well! =]
896376
You answered your own question, as humans we are programmed to want what we cant have. But remember this, you had him once, and your heart told you that you made better friends. Remain friends, and be the best at it
349801
Don't expect anything concrete from this guy first.  looks like he's way too confused about what he wants to settle down.  Just agree when he says he doesn't want a relationship.  If saying "let's just be friends" riles him up, forego it.
675833
he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
237246
You continue to be their friend. Take it from me; guys aren't normally friends with girls for nothing. I guarantee you there's something about you that he likes. You wouldn't be his friend if there wasn't. Just remain close to him and let the other relationship do its thing. If it doesn't work out between them, then and only then, do you tell him how you feel. Let him take it from there. The best thing you can do is to not interfere with or try and sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. If he ever finds out he will resent you. You will forever lose his trust and you two will never be together. Remain his friend, but don’t waste your life waiting around for his relationship to fail. You have fun, too!! Find your own guy to date. Maybe him seeing you with another guy will get his attention. But don’t date just to make him jealous; date because you want to. You never know, there may be a guy out there who has already fallen in love with you like you did with your friend! And you may miss out on a wonderful guy that’s been waiting to make you feel so special because you’re waiting on a guy who's already involved with someone else...
370492
guys can be friends with women. But just what kind of attention is he paying you? If he is overly affectionate that could be trouble. You don't want a man who would cheat on his gf, he would just cheat on you later.
681756
Just let him know that for now you just want to be friends.  take it slow...and by that i mean don't rush into a relationship. so many girls think they have to be going with someone all the time...in any relationship you should be friends first....give it a few months...it it's meant to be, it's meant to be...you'll know...just take it slow..
469076
Well, the flirting is a good start on your part, and a good sign on his. Try and move the conversation around to his girlfriend to see is he has moved on. If not, put your arm around him or on him etc SYMPATHETICALLY. If he likes this, you can do it more often. Ask pertinant questions. Some males are wimps and like the women to be in control. If he has already done stuff like this though, its time to let him take the driving seat. Remember though, go with your heart, but you may have a better relationship if you are just friends.
7053
They are right. Something is making him remain with his girlfriend. If you truly like this guy then be his friend. Do things for him; ask about his day....his life.....take interest in the things he does. Be a true sincere friend. If things start to go down hill with his girlfriend, he might just need someone to turn to to talk with. If you have been a sincere supportive friend this could be you. The most loving relationships begin as friends....friends that know each other inside and out. Be that for him and you'll be amazed at what could possible bloom and grow when the time is right.
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.