while i,m having a sex with my husband ,in one hour time i would'nt finished please guide me what is wrong?
343581
He needs to give you some face-time to make sure you get off first.
285610
he means c u m, and there's nothing wrong with you. just need to relax and let whatever happen happen. if you can't do it with sex, then go for as long as she wants and then go relieve yourself. if you can't do it then, watch more porn or something.
989767
Just because you don't have sex everyday doesn't mean that theres something wrong with your marriage. If you want the physical enjoyment to last longer, why not start with some forplay. And if he's too tired to do the work then ask him if you could ride him. Also there are books out there that you could look at. And theres plenty of toys and creams out there too. I even seen a swing built just for sex.
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
339627
i don't think there is a set time.. just whenever you both get done. usally about 45minutes to an hour for me. depnds on how long the guy can go.. and how long it takes you to get sore...
816475
hmmm try to take a couple a few hours before sex, snap one out and try to put it back in.
644431
First of all, it's not true that "you can't sleep the whole night" if you are sexually active.  ROFLMAO.  Somebody is playing with your head.\n\nSecondly, you should never feel OBLIGATED to do anything you don't want to do.  How do you know how you will feel on your wedding night?  You might be so excited and happy that it doesn't matter how tired you are.  But if you find that you ARE too tired, well then of all the people in the world, your husband should understand that, and it should be able to wait until the next day.\n\nHoney, honestly, you sound like you are a virginal bundle of nerves.  Relax.  Don't stress about it.  Let your body talk to you, and do it when you're ready, but if you are scared to be intimate with this man, then perhaps he is not the right one for you.
456717
my fiancee and I say about an hour that includes foreplay and everything but it can go longer or even shorter
832917
Try talking to your husband about helping out around the house\n\nalso, try visiting a doctor to find out why you are sick and why sex hurts - you could have a serious problem that needs to be addressed to keep you from getting ill.
533227
It's a good question Helen. My wife and I are doing more sexually than ever before! Alot of it would depend on how much BOTH of you enjoy this new act! If you both enjoy it, you may want to take it another step. If one person wasn't so happy about it, I would sit down together and talk about it. Maybe you could try it one more time or maybe that is as far as it should go and not try it again!\nWe have done quite a few things, if you want to e-mail me I may be able to give you some more help.\nEither way, good luck!
447512
you might need to have more foreplay before the actual intercourse.  get your husband to play with you and spend more time turning you on so that your vagina losens up and gets more lubricated.  or you can just use some KY or some other lubricant and tell him to go slowly.
1029363
learn to relax.  I was married for 15 years and had to last at least 40 minutes because my wife was frigid.  (I feel bad for her next husband)  Once I started dating again I was so nervous sometime I'd go for 2 hours because I didn't want to let the girl down.  No I try to relax and spend more time making her happy and trying to time the climaxes together.  Think about something really erotic when you think she about to cum.  And ask her to be vocal about it.
900734
can't blame you for getting frustrated...what you need is a break. meaning...go somewhere else with your husband, take a trip to a new place or a place where you've been to before and had a great time...\nsometimes it takes much more than "holding it" to ignite things... a change of environment once in a while is good for both of you.\ni think your husband feels stressed out, or something is really troubling him and doesnt want to tell you what...but that's another story...\n\nand about your question if its normal for him to not want to have sex, my answer would be yes. My husband is like that..sometimes...esp when he's tired, i realized my energy level is higher than his so i try my best to meet halfway...husbands are lazy when they are tired and sleepy even if as you put it...you are a hottie.\n\nGood luck to you and your hubby...
856625
Well I don't know about you, but when my husband and I have been fighting, I really don't feel like having sex with him, until we get it resolved.  I suggest that the two of you talk it out, get it settled, then have some fun.
196700
Honey as long as it takes.\nSometimes you can do it all night.\nThere are no time limits on \nhaveing sex. Enjoy
266901
just being straight up would be best.\n\ni have to read between the lines, not many details...\n\nit seems like there could be several causes... hang-ups, priorities, miscommunication, not being in the mood, fear of the unknown, performance anxiety, him not knowing your boundaries...\n\ntell your hubby how you feel, and let him know what you had in mind, and let him know you REALLY want it, there will be no pressure, no judgment, and let him know he can't screw it up... even if it doesn't work right the first time, you want to try something new for excitement.
525107
he is afarid he will finish too soon.  you can try telling you want to do this and if her finishes the you will make him hard again.\n\nif you think it is because he wants to be in charge let him stand and you kneel in front of him,  maybe tie your hands behind your back..