now i'm talking to this cute guy he takes me out & everything but........?
349660
u decide what he is like. don't get majorly attached and stay out of bed with him. if he is really so sweet to u, then maybe he really likes u. find a couple of his x's and find out what he was acting like to them and how long the relationships lasted. after the average amount of time is over, you will be able to tell.   playa or not
456759
He asked you on a date, obviously he digs you already. Give it some time and see how it develops. \n\nA southern accent, if you can do one, couldn't hurt ;-)
384159
Are you CRAZY???? This guy just said all the right things, just what you wanted to hear. You Made out with him so quick don't you think he is working you so he can go further? If you don't listen to me I guaranty that when he gets what he wants he is soooo out of there and you well be left alone...
905024
He would pro ably be flattered, and in fact he pro ably feels the same way about you, you just probably seem a little distanced from him because it sounds like you aren't making the effort to be with him alone, as a guy let me tell you we can be really stupid and blind...Let him know but not straight up tell him he looks cute blah blah make it seem like your interested than call his ass!
471811
i have been that guy before. It is because the guy really needed some lovin, and takes whatever he could get, and takes whoever he can to be his girlfriend ASAP so you probably didnt respond fast enough. it's gonna be hard to talk to him from now on
374029
i think u shud et him know tht u r interested but if u go n give him ur no maybe it wud seem u r too desperate.....let the desperateness grow in him (it will grow indeed once he gets the hint that u lik him)\nthn he will ask for ur cell no shoe no street no etcetc
1084847
sounds like he's decided that you have all the qualifications that he needs in a woman and that he's testing the waters, so to speak, to see if you are also interested;however, he dosen't seem to be the romantic type. he seems to be looking at your relationship with his head and not his heart. my gf sez you should concider a few more dates to see what he really wants
311308
sweetie,\n\nthis could be one of two things...a)hes a player (PUA) and is doing it to attract you...catstring theory, or B) hes a bit of an idiot and hes not appreciating you. i'd suggest you have a look at the this website for more info:\n\nwww.fastseduction.com
574718
Well.. Ask him out, but you seem overly eager, and that could make the guy lose interest in you.. Try not to come off on him so strong, and try to keep it slow until he sais hes ready for more..  Do not go out with him if its just because of his looks..  Try to realize that guys lose interest when girls want real commitment in the early stages of a relationship, so keep your distance, play hard to get, and good luck.. I hope he finds you interesting/attractive and treats you right
307373
People do change, but the fact that he talked to you about all the girls he has hit on hints that he is still probably a player.  Take it slow and make him get to really know you.
3395
Tell him what you are feeling looking at his eyes. Otherwise, he would think that you might just want to go out with anybody, and that's when you sound desperate and akward.
123314
i wouldn't say u dream about going out with him just be yourself and let mother nature take her course. E-mail me at maxxruby@yahoo.com
931597
id say it prob is, or he's really shy.  if uve made urself REALLY obvious, then PFF.  i mean, u need a guy with guts!  if this guy is waiting too long to ask u out, pFF again.  yeah he's flirty, but he cant do serious things.  if hes a really busy person like you said, that might be a downside.  us girls need attention, and a great guy is someone who will put aside his work for a bit for his girl.
63646
He will ask you out on a date???
869109
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
647669
You are a minnow in a big pond, an inconsequential thing that he might consider if it is convenient.  He perceives your offer is right on the edge of inconsequential.  Now if it looked like you could be very valuable to him, you would have a higher priority.  Right now, he's got piles and piles of things to juggle space and time for, almost all being more valuable than you.  Figure out an advantage (to him) or blow it off.  He's not lying, he's just busy and your value isn't perceived as high enough to merit nailing down the time and effort.  Sorry.  It's like dating a gorgeous woman who can have almost anyman she wants, why would she want you?  You've got to be worth it to her somehow.  This is different from desperate plain Jane's--right now you are behaving like the deseparate plain Jane who is mad that some guy who smiled at you hasn't called.
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It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.