Why do women do something, and then blame you for doing that exact thing, even though you didn't do it?
351174
thats wat women do best \nits natural
762289
Women have already made up their mind from the start, but like to dwell on the problem.\nMen make up their mind and later dwell on it after it's too late to choose the other option.
498590
Because society has taught (slowly)and accepted over the years that everything else made someone do something because of either someone else or something else. Never taking responsiblity for their own actions. I drive a school bus and have come across MANY,MANY mother's who refuse to accept that their child misbehaved in any way shape or form. You can tell them that their son/daughter threw a book, hit the other kid, tripped them etc, etc and you tell the Mom at the bus stop and they look you in the eye and say, "Well, the other kid must have done something for my child to hit, trip, push the other kid" OR, she/he is tired, was not feeling well etc.I would say 90% of the hundreds of different kids I have come across over the past years fall into the catagory of "it's not my fault" Then the other 10%, the parents will say " I don't care what reason you did that, it was wrong". So, with a good majority of kids being raised with "it's not my fault", they grown into adults, have children and wa-la, we have the Not My Fault Generation.
1129949
Women have this thing of wanting to believe the man will change and they can work things out because they want it to work so badly whereas men have the right thing in mind...They know that they would never be able to trust the woman and that it would bother them forever and it's an ego thing for men so they are able to walk away.\nWomen won't let things be over until they say it's over.
786776
Yes they do. But if the gal lets them its her fault too.
141561
maybe it means that something is going on in your life right now that you want to help with/work on but you feel too pressured to do it or maybe you just dont know how to start. i think its somehow related to control issues: you couldnt help the women, but you tried and then the man came after you. just a thought...
526170
In human behavior, I would call it blame shifting. Even when we as humans do something wrong we sometimes feel the need to blame someone else... as to justify our actions. It's also a way of making ourselves feel better. The second it's not our fault is the second it's not our problem.
256114
I think it's beacause we're human and we've all made mistakes. So when we see a chance to stop someone else from doing things that we regret doing, it's instinctual to try to alter their path in life as a sort of pennance for not altering our own. It's like getting a second chance to see how things would have turned out for us if we'd made different choices in life. And I think the only time someoone is ready to hear our advice is when they say, "Can I have your advice?"
534687
Speaking from a woman's point of view: Making it in a man's world for female is not trying to be a man or trying to run things as a man, I feel it's finding your own way in this world, you already know that you will only go as far as you set limits on yourself, it's your own image of how you do for yourself, the world is cold but, fair, only the strong survive, not true, the smart also survive in this "Big bad world" So I think it's what you make it to be, if you blame others for your short comings, who should get the credit if you make it?
162472
Of course I do.It bugs me because there are some people that you could just be hanging out with and then they do something that is just horrid so they say sorry.  Then the same thing happens again.  Some time or another it just gets old and thats when i wonder why they just don't think before they act.    This doesn't mean that everyone doesnt think before they act it just means that sometimes people get a little carried away.
1062476
Bravo your attitude. Personal responsibility seems to have just about gone the way of chivalry and the Dodo. Excluding extenuating cirumstances, most people have or do not have what they do because of their own behavior and hard work (or lack thereof). It's easier to whine about what one doesn't have though, than to get off one's arse and do something about it.
663604
Yes,women do it all the time,what are you a sexist?
122513
Men do not always blame women. People with drinking or drug habits blame it upon anyone close to them so they have an excuse to consume. or a reason to be unhappy or stressed or angry n they need a drink or whatever.. But what they really need is help
570242
I hate to break it to you, but women do all of those things, too. Why? Because there are some rotten, dishonest people in the world.
473036
Your right in a way...lol  But, just like women have certain ingrained traits, you just learn to compensate for these "flaws" and get on with your life. Peace.
445395
its not your fault. sometimes theres no reasons why - they do it caus they can. dont wonder about why - just go on and do yo thing: you can beat them for ever and ever
234154
Yes, women do it all the time.  But don't do it very often.