i dont understand myself.help!?
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Don't worry,you're normal...you just don't want other people to feel uncomfortable with you around..you want to make them feel happy..you always think about others instead of yourself.That's good but you HAVE to learn to love yourself too.Don't let people take you for granted.Hope this answer helps..
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I don't understand. Elaborate?
754641
at the moment , I am in a state of confusion !
380962
Congratulations. You have enter the "man search of meaning" realm: Love/hate relationship with yourself and outside of yourself. You are your own worst critic, so maybe it is time to refocus. Start loving yourself instead of hating yourself. Stop judging yourself against everyone else. You must have a life before sharing a life. So focus on your life, who you are, what you want, and how to get it. But you already knew that, so the answer to your question is already within you.
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First ...who's "everyone"?\n\nSecond ...If the most people that you know think like that ...you must to do an autocheck of yourself, probably they got some reason and you'll need to start to understand that in this life ...there are more people than you babe!\n\nGood luck!
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??I can't understand u
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this sounds confusing???
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It sounds like you are searching for some meaning in your life. I had similar experiences to yourself in my life. I sense you are having a really hard time right now and that it is exhausting your spirit. \n\nHave you heard of Maslow's theory? Try looking this up on the internet. I've included a link below which explains it. This may help you to organise your thoughts into some sort of order. Its a good starting point to then explore what you think your needs may be and what is important to you. What is the most important to you right now? Is it something spiritual, physical or emotional.... or perhaps none of these? \n\nTake your time on this. If you want to explore anything I have suggested, make sure you do it in a time and place that is comfortable to you. Try not to rush at it. Listen to your soul and be kind to yourself.\n\nI hope this helps. Take care...\n\nMarty
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hullo\nyou should seek a psychiatric help.\n\nDr.solo
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It took me 35 years to learn this one.  One's own perception of self is very powerful and it's hard to understand when others don't see you the same way.  The reality is that 99.99% of people don't know what's in your head whether you feel good or bad about yourself.  You need to learn to see what others see in you.  Yeah, they could be yankin' your chain hoping to pull you out of your funk, or they could be genuinely honest about what they see.  It won't matter until you get over yourself, until your own perception goes beyond "fat and ugly".
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I guess the real question is, "Who am I?" If you have confidence in yourself, it doesn't matter what other people think about you. If you are happy being you, then you've got it made. But if you feel like your life is worthless, find out what you think will make you feel useful and then go and do it. For example, I feel useful when I help others in their lives from my personal experiences. If you feel no one understands you, it's either because you don't understand where other people are coming from or sometimes that's a form of self-pity... and it doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means that you don't have confidence in yourself. Be proud and happy to be the person you are, because there is someone out there who will understand you. I promise. I have no idea if that helps... but hopefully it helps a little...
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Ummm u need to talk to her.  Tell her how u feel and get her to tell u how she feels.  Its all about communication!  Hell half the time we dont even know what we want so how can guys possibly know??????  We change our wants and needs on a daily basis so of course u r confused!  Thats the beauty- we dont understand u guys either!  So take the time to get to know each other better and u might learn alot more than u think!  Good luck!
597483
dont try to understand us.not possible.like we will neva understand u guyz.just live life on lifes terms.and youll be okay.
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Befuddled, bemused, desheveled, bewildered. Any of those help?
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what everyone else said....don't worry about those weird thoughts going through your head, and don't worry about wondering  who you are, because you don't recognize yourself anymore.  You are growing and your hormones are raging and might make you do things you wouldn't normally.  Try to be kind.
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explain urself please...
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im not so sure cause i think i have the same problem with myself. i still in the mist  of trying to convince myself that i am beutiful. i think that our, or your fist step would be to think of something that you dont like about yourself and say you do, maybe you can convince yourself!!!!!!! i hope i help and thx for the 2:)