Why do most military men or woman have affairs?
344278
because it is so easy.  I just got back from a deployment and i cant tell you how many married men hit on me it was sick,  it sucks that it is something that is the norm and more is not done about it
621017
i think that many men that cheat, don't cheat for the love, it is sex,or being bored with their current, g/f o. wife..ect, They don't do it like women. Women cheat for feelings, unless they are just horney, and are not getting what they want from their man/partner. Women seem to want the relationship and the feelings to be deeper than a man wants. Not that men do not have deep feelings....many men love very much, but it seems that many women cheat much more than men these days? women seem to be cheating quite a bit..the big stereotype of only men cheating has totally turned!
372731
Because they do it better. They can miltitask and take more pride in what they do. if the world was ruled by women, there would be no more wars.
1140957
because alot of women are not open minded and not caring.  Alot of them only want sex and if thats all they want they will go else where.  Unlike myself, sex is icing on the cake in a relationship and if a man has ED there are many more ways to please him besides intercourse.  There are toys also that can be used between the couple that could add to the relationship.  You just need to find someone who cares for you other than just having your penis inside them.
1126256
Only strait men do..as long as there breathing they probably are lusting after somebody(whether its somebody real or in there imagination(fantasy))....it depends how obvious they are about it if its something u have to worry about...To me its normal for them to lust but in bad taste not to be a little discreet about doing that.....like not be panting like a dog or anything.Its also one thing to look and be like damn there doable to damn i want to take them home.When your married your aloud to look a little,but not so much that u think the person's gonna cheat on u.My mom's response to that type of deal is this..I might be married but i'm not dead,,so if she can do it why can't guys..its only if there messing around that there's going to be trouble.
1034442
It is because it is predominantly a male occupation.  Also, we have read about women who are being harrassed in the army when they join.  I guess it is because men, in general, are egoistic that they dont see how female can be their counterparts in an area that mostly uses strength, endurance and wit.  That wont hinder us from joining the army, though...
684890
Because the ex often is a huge source of problems for the new woman and vice versa.  Most women want to be number one and don't want their man involved with any other woman period, because they are a threat.
235156
Women are drawn to married men , the joke of it is they are drawn to them because they see them as a man who is stable and can make a commitment because he is married. They hope to get him for themselves, yet how committed is he if he is cheating, and if he does end up with the other woman , how long before he is cheating on them.
559815
No! A lot of soldiers use that excuse. A lot of them can have sex downrange, too. Not often, but often enough. That, and we get breaks every six months.
761640
It's biological.  Men and women tend to chose mates that have features they wish for their offspring to carry.  Women also have been known to seek security or personality traits in their mates so that they can have a provider for the children.  It's subconscious, but it's there.
1019456
Maybe you are attracted to the style and way that the military ppl are.
1178346
I cant give you the reason for the person you may be talking about but,most people(male or female) will have an affair with someone if given the chance.It may have something to do with being selfish,self-centered,and they might have a low self-esteem,and Im guessing they dont have morals and values or a lack of.Some may just have a lack of commitment.Anyway,I for one cant figure out why someone would waste someone elses time by pretending to be someone they arent by acting like they Love or care for someone.....Its sad....... Best Wishes
600835
When you find out where to find them let me know!  I work with a lot of police officers from different agencies so I'm around men all the time.  It seems they all want crazy women.  I'm strong and independent, almost to a fault... so I know what you are talking about.  Just know that it isn't anything that you do or don't do that make them wander.  Some men just cheat.  Some cheat because of reasons they think justify it.  I think there is no justification. period.  I have a lot of male friends and I could tell ya some stories!  (probably a lot of the reasons I'm single)  Don't get me wrong, MOST of the ones married don't cheat and are great guys.  But to some, it is a sport.  Feel free to email if you want to talk about it more.
759236
I was in the military for 8 plus years, I watch about 50% of the "men" and I use that word loosely cheat.  I never did, but it never failed, we would get overseas, and the first night on the beach, about 50% of the married guys were chasing women.
1173056
It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.
104317
I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
343394
Their static programming drives them towards sex all the time.  Any man who tells you otherwise either isn't being honest or doesn't know himself.\n\nHaving said that, some men are jerks, some are indifferent, and lots of men are good people who really do want to find emotional and spiritual intimacy with the person who is also the object of their sexual desire.\n\nThe good hearted should not take any shame for being thus.  \n\nTruly, women are this way also, though perhaps in a different proportion.