Is spanking a normal request from a girl in a realtionship?
346866
many people are into dom and sub play, even if just as mild as swatting her behind. if you care about her, try it! it could be fun, and you could discover you like it more than you ever would have dreamed of. she trusted you enough to tell you what turns her on. that's worth something, right? sexual behavior is so deeply personal and should really be about pleasing your partner, or so i would hope.\n\ntalk to her about it!
576876
I see nothing wrong with disipline. I personally use all options before I spank my child but my child does not act like that. My daughter will walk up to a kid in a store that is being rude to their parents and tell them that they better be glad they have the parents they do cause hers would spank her nomatter who was around. My hubby and I were in line at the bank and was watching a kid disrespect both his parents and hit his mom. My hubby commented just loud enough for the parents to hear that if that had been our child acting that way in public he would have knocked the living life out of them. The parents heard him and grabbed the child and left.
1140222
Normal.  He'd probably appreciate it if you guys explored the possiblities.  But very very normal. It's an opportunity to strenghten your relationship, and it doesn't have to be a bum bum fest.  But if you judge him and think it's sadistic, you are a very very bad woman.
1013611
dont force her, ask her and if she says yes, ask her if you 2 can simulate forcing, but never really force, you sadist
1163959
I think this reaction is a lot more common than you may think.  I won't spank and tell, but I've known several women who are confirmed spankophiles and one who could reach orgasm through spanking alone.  (I'm talking about 'pleasure' spankings, not disciplinary ones.)
92348
I would'nt worry about it. As long as you dont give her a reason to beat you up you have nothing to worry about. If you are worried about her beating you up it only could mean that you could possibly have intentions on hurting her. Just be good to her and dont hurt her and you wont ever have to worry about her 'wiping the floors' with you. Good luck
439055
well, i think it depends. if they are really getting hurt, there's something wrong with you & you need to find out what it is about women that's making you really enjoy seeing them in major pain. but, if they are role playing, then that's just being kinky! roll with it, as long as it doesn't get out of hand!\noh yeah, and if you mean by girls, like YOUNG girls, then yeah, i would say you have a problem. but if you meant, girls, in the context of females, than my answer above applies.
175094
My friend Stevie(female) would love a spanking!
382133
I don't know but it damn sure is! Maybe because when a girl is bent over a guys knee and he can see all of her "parts" and grabbing and spanking her asss just turns the guy on! As for the girls,I liked getting spanked before, during, and after sex, sometimes I just like a spanking period with or without sex( I prefer sex with it of coarse), there has been lots of times where my man and I will be in public and he would snatch me in the bathroom and give me a quick spanking especially when I am being bitchy and give me a "preview" of my later "punishment" and thats so hot. It turns me on so much, it a pleasurable pain that drives me wild and gets me so wet.The harder my man spanks the more I get turned on!!!!I can't explain it buts its a must on my foreplay list!
1008777
I dunno but do they know you like to be spanked ?\n\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkDefWBAMzg5UdRjGDwTE6nsy6IX?qid=20060608121327AAmBDnP
495164
I liked getting spanked before, during, and after sex, sometimes I just like a spanking period with or without sex( I prefer sex with it of coarse), there has been lots of times where my man and I will be in public and he would snatch me in the bathroom and give me a quick spanking especially when I am being bitchy and give me a "preview" of my later "punishment" and we role play along with the spanking thats so hot. It turns me on so much, it a pleasurable pain that drives me wild and gets me so wet.The harder my man spanks the more I get turned on!!!!I can't explain it buts its a must on my foreplay list! I love for my spankings to be nice and hard by the way!
644229
as long as it's not abusive, it's fine.  I was spanked as a child and I learned quickly the difference between right and wrong.  today's parents are too permissive.
508795
How about you do her doggy style while spanking her booty, reach around and play with her clit while hitting it from the back. That feels really good! It will be different from her being on top.
737458
She should tell you that she was offended.  She shouldn't pout, except momentarily, to be cute.  Also, she should only spank you if you would like it.  ;o)
610547
As a sub male you're probably going to find it a bit harder to link up with a suitable partner, as most girls who are into this kind of thing prefer to receive rather than give spankings - but it shouldn't be impossible.  And I doubt if your race will count against you.\n\nCheck out some of the better spanking sites - SIN (Spanking Internet) is a good one - and it might be worth becoming a member of Alt.com, which has a huge membership into pretty well every kind of kinky erotic fun.  Good luck.
856375
unless u mean spanking playfully on the bum during sex then no
621075
I'm not a gurl but I can tell you from my experience that the answer is yes. But some will do everything possible to get to know you well before they open up. However, after the first spanking, you can expect them to demand for more several times. The rider to your question on how: soft, hard or really hard lies in the creative capability of the guy doing it. But I think it should progress in that order of arrangement; ie from foreplay to soft to hard and finally to really hard.