I loved her once...should I try again?
339974
That's a very hard question and I read it all the way through. I'd appreciate it if you also went and read one that I just posted, which is also long. If you really in fact love her, than I would hold onto that and go back with her. If you're Christian, pray about it. Well, scratch that. Pray about it if you're a Christian but talk to her first. Get to know her and try to express your feelings towards her little at a time. Don't make a large sudden move. I hope things work out, but just take it slow. This is comin from a girl that was in this exact position and is know with the guy that I posted a question about. I love him to death and we're getting along wonderfully. Best of luck. Email me if ya want to w/ nething else: naertgirls@juno.com.
330803
im in the same situation.. because of my past.. im afraid to get too attatched just to get hurt AGAIN... but honestly.. .if you like this girl alot.. and you're willing to wait to see where it may go, go for it! BUT LIKE SHE SAID.. if what you truly want is to walk away.. do what you gotta do... everyone goes through hard times.. but in the end.. she is probably more concerned with you being happy than anything else!
271510
If this is true love, hang on to it. Dont let distince stop you. I am currently in a LDR and shes in another country completly. It could be a few months before i can see her again.... She is very impatiant, but i still get her to hang on. So you should try untill you can see him/her again.
1107537
You didn't mention why you broke up...If it was because he cheated or got uninterested after the miscarriage, chances are he might do it again....But what the heck, everybody deserves a second chance.....And  if you really feel in your heart that he meant every word he said and if you are still in love with him, I advice you to go for it..after all, love is lovelier the second time around...good luck
1089625
Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
1032386
don't wait around for the gurl...it might not work out in the end and u'll have all that wasted time thrown away, and u'd miss ur chance w/ the new chick..so don't ever wait around...move on....if she liked ya that much, u both would already be together again...and a relationship doesn't exactly work out the second time...so go for the new girl...and have fun!!! oh and since it didn't work out the first time, what makes u honestly think it's goin to work out the second time or the third???
359242
MAY BE SHE WANTS TO GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE IF SHE DEPENDS ON YOU SO MUCH - JUST TELL HER THAT YOU ARE SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED AND COULD WE PATCH UP - A RETURNED LOVE IS MOSTLY BIGGER THAN THE FIRST LOVE AS IT COMES WITH UNDERSTANDING AND A SENSE OF LOSS
157221
First off ... don't give up hope.  Is there something you can do?  No, not really.  Try to talk to her, but also realize that people are sometimes not meant to be.  Don't waste your precious time worrying about the past.  There are a lot of women out there .... maybe by losing her, you can now go out and find "the One" ... Good Luck .... it sucks to get hurt, but that is all a part of the game called "love".  More than anything .... LEARN from your mistakes ..... Enjoy life and don't get down about it.  Love comes from all sides .... and usually when you least expect it :)
465576
She must have been hurt beofore. Ask her and if yes take it easy with her. If you love her that much you will wait.
495411
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
250950
I was in love with this incredible girl, Morgan, and I have never loved anyone in my life this way. THe great thing was, she returned the same amount of love. I wanted to marry her (I still do), but we broke up a few months ago. She said the same thing. She felt pressured. I realized she had never been single in her life after she was 15, and she is now 22. That's a long time. I tried SOOOO hard to do things to please her and make her want to take me back. The thing I finally realized was that I was making it worse. I was making her feel more pressured than ever. I quit trying, and after some time, we started becoming close friends again. I wish we could be together again, but she needs to be free. Freedom is a very tough thing to find. What i didn't realize is that i was the one who wasn't free. I needed to find happiness in myself. Who knows what will happen? Maybe we'll get back together, maybe we won't. I will love her to the grave, but the only chance I'll ever have, is letting HER figure it out. I have, for the first time in my life, come to a point where I don't desire to have a girlfriend. That's an incredible accomplishment for me, since just 6 months ago, I was in a hurry to get married and have a family. That was part of my problem. I wanted to spend so much time with her, cause she made me feel like no one else could. But love, as I found out, is something you do, not feel. It is patient, kind and generous. I can still love her even though we are not together, and I don't have to think about her every minute of the day. I can focus on my band, my job, and more importantly, making myself a better person. I hope that helps!
279455
Give her and yourself some time.  You may get back together, or you may find someone else that you like.
201920
If she cheated once, chances are she will cheat again. Especially considering its a lond distance relationship. Move on.
274564
I think U should give him a second chance,Because some times there is good guys-like me,lol-Who get confused in the begin' of relations or in knowin' new friends.he may be was gettin' his life in a special way that He had to work it in another way after he knew U.from wt U said I think he is startin' to plan his life the way that suits U.\nI think that he is a good Guy & he really want to be with U now after gatherin' him self up\nSo,GOOD LUCK\n:)
781481
may i ask, why she couldn't love you back? is there another guy in the picture? but from your story there seems no one..or she doesn't feel like the way you do? i think love can be developed, that is if she is willing to open her heart and that you'd be willing to wait...there'll ba a good chance..\n\nunconditional love is a sacrifice you have to bear and no one can stop you from that...it is something that we do voluntarily...if you cannot live away with her since it makes you even unhappier then it's all up to you...but until when can you put up with this...until she breaks your heart by choosing someone over you despite the things you have done for her? it can happen..\n\nif not now, you will eventually tire out later...yes, you might not love someone as much as you love her but, we, as humans are destined to be with someone to fill that space inside our heart...we long for someone that will make us whole, it's a primal instinct...\n\nas hard as it may seem why don't you give her and yourself a space...not see her for some time maybe she will then realize what you really meant to her...most of the time, we only value things or people when they're already gone...if she doesn't come looking for you then there is no hope to answer your love for her...anyway, you know it's not the end of the world...you will survive it...\n\nwhat is more painful is the wasted time and emotions spent...
821438
Maybe she believes in you and that one day you'll make her happy, you only ever find one true love, they do say that you don't know what you have lost till it's gone and this is very true, by letting her down time and time again you'll lose her forever.  Be honest with yourself and her, there are two questions you should ask yourself.  Are you IN-Love with her??? and Do you want to be with her??? If you have let her down countless times maybe it's time to stop before it's too late and you lose her forever, sort yourself out once and for all before it's too late.  Good luck in doing so, I wish you well.