love sucks or dose being alone???
338492
a little of both, but 4 me, being alone sucks more
1049717
By the way you describe your relationship, you want out. I know that you are feeling stuck, confused, and completely stressed because you feel like you are in a relationship where you are being suffocated and you don't know where you will be if you get out of something that you are so used to. I don't need to tell you you need to get out, you basically said it in your question. If someone is holding you back from your goals and dreams for their own selfish motives, why stay? Also if the bad out weighs the good what do you think that does to your happiness? Life is not meant to live it unhappy, you make make what you want of it. Also each day that passes is a day that you will never get back, and to live them miserably is not worth it. You seem to be looking for excuses not to get out because you are afraid to be alone. Loneliness is not a fun thing, but it's almost if you have been alone with this guy who does not support you. You have your daughters and you have your ambition to progress in life. You can definitely love again! Then are BILLIONS of people in this world, I'm pretty confident that you will find love with someone who will treat you how you want to be treated and support your ideas. It could just be one of those co-workers or friends that have been complimenting you. Good Luck!
76301
Sweetie, you cry.  there are a lot of people out there that think that you should hide your pain, that people will think you are weak for crying or being depressed.  There are people that think that you should get out there and start dating again.  That you should move on.  That you should get over it.  Well, I say, all of that will come in time.\n\nYou have been hurt.  Feel the pain.  Cry about it if you need to.  Laugh about it, scream about it, do whatever you feel like doing.  And don't let anyone else take this time away from you.  You need this time.  If you really let yourself feel the pain, you will heal more completely.  People that hide it, or push it away, or try to distract themselves from it, tend to hurt longer because they never truly embrace it.  \n\nSpend time with family and good friends.  Find hobbies that you really enjoy doing.  Discover who you are and what you liked and didn't like about your last relationship.  Think about what you want out of a relationship, what is important to you?  How do you want to be treated?  And when the times comes that you are ready to get out there and start meeting new people, remember what you decided you wanted, and settle for nothing less.\n\nThis time is all about you.  Your healing, your growing, your learning.  Embrace it.  Enjoy the solitude, and then in time, brush yourself off and get back out there.  \n\nGood luck.  I'm sorry that you are hurting.
504586
You have you whole life for love.  If the one does not care about you, find someone else.  Do not settle.  Remember, life is too short to settle.  Don't be in a rush.  People have a habit of fearing being alone.  I would rather be alone, then be with someone who does not care for me.
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I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
1161594
Love just happens, you can`t make someone love you.....People are strange and I don't understand it myself.Try to be patient..I know it sucks being single.There is someone out there for everyone.
206871
You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.
604463
Maybe you guys need space. I went through the same problem. Me and boyfriend lived apart for about 4 months to get space. And now we lived back together. Your not really depressed just unsure. Take this time to see why this happen. And how could you make a change.
676795
People with this amount of difference between them just should not be together in my opinion if you truly feel resentful, lonley, and unloved isnt it time to call it a day and find someone more suited to you. sorry if this seems a little harsh. good luk honey
43457
If you are alone it wont get worse....work on spelling....people tend to notice when you dont spell stuff correctly ...this might help you find the love you seek.
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Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
64826
i guess u are pretty down now right? because of ur moms death... u sure feel very lost and need someone to be by ur side right... but finding a girlfriend wont solve ur problem ,it will only solve ur loneliness for a moment only , resposible will come over after that...try to find more friends and relatives, if u planned to get married, find someone that is resposible but not by the look , coz if its true love, it will lead to marriage and lead to responsible and also happiness! try to be ur self and find a partner that is understandable , have qualities , but dont base totally on the feelings cause as time pass , feelings will change but the qualities and characteristic will last. Therefore for in the long run relationship, find for someone that can communicate with u !and enjoy life!
624303
It depends why you moved ? If one of you needed space , then no .As that is an waking call . If it was because of money then yes because it's hard at first to get things in order .Enjoy dating each other .Too many people jump into Relationship just to feel not alone .Being with someone once in awhile is perfect for some people .It's nice to think about someone and look forward to seeing them ,instead of everyday unless you've decided to get married .Then hopefully you'll keep the smile each day when returning home .
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i know what you mean, i just hope that in my case it will take less time! But try to be positive and happy with urself and maybe if you get another guy (it kinda of worked for me) you can hopefully forget easier about ur love!!\nGood luck!!
286057
Love hurts and you will get over her. Time heals all wounds. Everyone who has loved has felt what you are feeling, you are not alone. It is just how it is. It sucks, but just remember:  It is better to have loved, than to have not loved at all!
1104486
Take some time to know yourself...and let time to it's thing. Go out with friends and just enjoy being single. Sometimes we need time for ourselves to start another relationship. It is tough but all you can do is learn from it and move on.
930832
Yes, sometimes one just needs to be alone. It is great to have a partner to share moments with, but sometimes, it is very satisfying to be by yourself, make your own decisions and just please yourself!