How do I get a guy to notice me, without being slutty?
345949
I find girls attractive when they are not slutty because this only shows that they have nothing else to offer. Just be comfortable with who you are and you will shine and guys will notice.
530065
1. find a guy you like\n2. get his attention ( walk past him and give a little look back, sqeeze past him in corridors buses wherever)\n3. when you have his attention seem like you dont really want it, (he'll try harder)\n4.ask your friends and his friends to meet up for a night out\n5. dance your arse off, act like you can have any one , but no your gonna chose him (male pride and all that)\n\na lot of ahrd work i know but fun as you go along
771294
Ok be yourself. Become guys friends then if you get to know them and you like them flirt with them. It doesnt have to be any major flirting just a smile, a hello, and pay attention to what there saying. Dont try changing yourself for a guy... they are not worth it if you have to change. Oh and dont become a slut! People may tell you to wear low-cut shirts and stuff like that... dont listen... it doesnt help.... GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
802209
A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
218541
U cn make a guy notice you by ur personality.\nFirst of all. make sure u always have a good appearance(dressing mode) when around him.\nTry to grt him to be friends with u ..by asking a question or something.\nHave a good sense of humor  and listen attentively wheen he talks.\nThose should be easy 4 anyone to do..
843446
flirt and talk with him. If your sitting by him in class or something rub ure leg on his or something like that and see how he reacts if he moves it closer your succeeding if not then too bad. and Don't act like a skank, that is definitely a turnoff for me, but some guys may be different. good luck
594774
compliment his style and the way that he looks. Always try to look pretty and cute by being yourself. Be confident, guys find that attractive. After having him establish that you exist, try and find some interest between you and him, but dont compromise youself in doing things that he only likes just because... Once you have found the common ground, you can ask him to join you or to join him.. Ask him out maybe if your up to it.. \nDont sell yourself to quickly tho.. he might get wierded out ... Just make sure that your around him long enough so that he has no other choice but to like you back....
373946
dress nice, make yourself look good and dont make it seem like your desperate! go out to the club or to a party! just have some fun and then out of nowhere someone will have their eye on you and you wouldnt even have known it!
173359
Easy. Do not flirt around as if you are despo. Play it cool and easy. Indulge yourself and do things to grab his attention. When he is with others, quietly join the group and indulge in the conversation. Make some smart comments, try to show a bit of attitude. Believe me this works.
864212
you need to ignore him & get really involved with a couple of nice guys (doesnt hurt if they are good looking or quite popular)   make sure to have animated conversations and laughter.... THAT will get his attention.. but then  hopefully you wont want his attention anymore  ;)
376145
You can meet decent guys online, and remember you can always chat before you even meet them, or just chat and never meet. If he starts discussing sex or anything else that makes you uncomfy either tell him or change the subject or ignore him till he goes away. Be open and honest, I'm not here just to talk about sex, if you're really interested in ME, then ask me abt me, not what I'm wearing, the ones who are interested will stay and the others will go. Don't give out your home address or numbers, always tell a friend if you've been chatting a while, always tell a friend when you start dating, make sure you have his real name (both), numbers and home address to give to friend, just in case!! I've done quite a bit, mostly for fun, but was always careful. Good luck!
424572
1. Be at least somewhat attractive. Im not gunna lie, looks are important.\n\n2. Most guys arent so picky, but at least be able to carry some sort of conversation that doesnt make him bored.\n\nIf all else fails\n3. Give him about 5 or 6 shots worth of vodka and shove your boobs in his face.
233735
just give him clues but dont tell him directly that u like him.  And start a conversation with youre friends and talk about how hes not to shaby looking, dont tell them compliments about him just tell them how he is a good guy to have around theyll soon start to look at difrent aspects of him and then they might think difrently about him
257635
This may or may not work for you but when I was younger someone shared with me 10 things to get a guy to notice you. Here goes:\n\n1: Don't just begin with hello. Now the first way to get a guy to notice you is to say hello, now that's obvious but the trick is to say it like this, "Hello or Hey, (insert name here). Because when you personalize it, it's more sincere than just Hey! Hopefully it will lead to him saying,"Hey, (insert your name here).\n \n2: Touch him (No, I don't mean that way). Body language speaks more than words. For example when you're joking with him a light tap on the shoulder. But becareful of only doing this occasionally because you don't want him to think you're harassing him and avoid fixing his collar because it might just remind him of mom. The trick is to be subtle.\n\n3: Smile. I forgot to mention this, after saying hello adding a bright smile. Don't forget to look into his eyes when you smile, 100% charm baby!\n\n4: Accessorize. Yep, great conversation starters. I used to have a mood ring and conversations always began with questions about my ring. Or try a T-shirt with funny slogan or vintage cartoon character. Anything that shows your personality and something you have lots to say about.\n\n5: Bump into him. Now, you can't get him to talk to you if your paths never meet. Take time to figure out his schedule, where he likes to hang, when he heads toward the restroom or what time he rounds the corner. This way you can 'accidentally' bump into him. Warning don't become a stalker now you want him to notice you not be scared of you.  \n\n6: Another way to do this is put yourself out there. He can't notice you if you hide in a box. So if he's on the football team try the cheerleading team. If he's doing afterschool activities, try something also.\n\n7: Give him a nickname. This is a tricky one but you can add it to step one. The thing is to use a nickname that only you call him. For example if you two are having lunch and he spills his soda you can call him 'fizz'. Use something creative but not offensive.\n\n8: Ask him out. There's nothing wrong with you making the first move. Ask him to grab a bite to eat or a cup of coffee. Start out as friends that's how most of the best relationships start out as anyway. This way you get to know him and he'll definitly notice you. Now I can't say I had this much courage so what I did was get my friend who is not shy to ask him and his friends to go hang out at the local coffee shop. Worked for me.\n\n9: Laugh at his jokes. Make a comment on something he said in class. By letting him know that you think he's cool he'll start seeing all the cool things in you. It's like when you show him you notice him then he'll notice you.\n\n10: The oldest advice in the world is, Be yourself. Have confidence in who you are. With just that you can attract almost anyone in the world.\n\nHope this helps and good luck with everything:)
240524
Let him come to you. Flirt minimally and just let him notice you.
833683
If you ahve a boyfriend, then why are you trying to show off to get other guys' attention?? unless your boyfriends are on the track with you guys, then i wouldn't do it. it'll just appear slutty and make you look like someone who wants to get all the guys in the world. trust me, its happened to me before.....it's sad, unfair, but true.
1111919
Girl get your sexy on and don't take it off.\nNothing but sexy under ware. Keep yourself hot looking for your man. As hot as you can or as cute as you can. Don't let yourself go cause he asked you to marry him.\n\nKeep it hot! Pretend that he's not your fiance and he's still a man that you are still tying to get with.\nWhat ever your game is to attract  a man is the same game you use to keep him.\nIf the boobs are nice make him want to peek at them.\nIf the butt is nice bend over and pick stuff up in front of him with you hot pants/under ware what ever on.\nWhen your picking out your clothes to wear stand in front of the closet door nude with nothing but the closet light on.\nNothing like doing it in the closet.