why lesbian sex is more acceptable socially than male gays ?
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Because it's hot...\n\nPlus its more sensual, its not all about the sex...:)
999926
No.  Homosexuality has been around for thousands of years.  If people would pay as much attention to their history classes as they do to their Bible Studies, they would know that.  It is a PROVEN MEDICAL FACT that the brains of homosexuals are different than heteros.  A homo males brain reacts more like a hetero females, and a lesbian's brain, more like a hetero males.  They PHYSICALLY respond differently to phermones.  It is not an abomination, it is a physical difference that they have NO control over, and the Bible thumpers need to accept it and move on.
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A homosexual man is a man who finds other men sexually attractive, and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nA bisexual man is a man who finds both men and women sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with either sex. \n\nA homosexual female (lesbian) is a lady who finds other ladies sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nWhat your boyfriend asked you to do, is to put your finger in his rear, you are a girl, so there was nothing remotely homosexual about this request. \n\nThe similar assumption to make would be that when (if) you ask him to perform cunnilingus (kissing and licking your vagina)  on you, because you find this sexually stimulation and pleasant, that you are a lesbian; as this is what a lesbian would do to you during love making.   Of course you are not a lesbian because of this, because you have asked your BF to do it because you find HIM sexually attractive. \n\nHe probably does not want to talk about it because he knows that you are thinking these things.  If you love him and care about him, you will reassure him that you have no questions about his sexuality because of this, and that you are willing to do it as you care about him and his needs.  Your relationship will become much closer as you are trusting each other and communicating your needs and wants which is always a good thing.
67216
Most men are homophobic, and you have to admin that women are the prettier sex. I believe that Peeps that are afraid of homos are shallow and are just a littls slow in general.
225458
Because society makes us as females feel like we are not suppose to express our sexuality, and when we do its considered inappropriate.  And its more acceptable for men to be "dogs," and they won't be judged. But me personally have never let that get in my way, i love sex and i tell whomever i'm dating that i love sex.  But that doesn't mean i'm going to give it up easy, no matter how hard it is.
230098
Have you ever tried something to find out if you like it or not? Having sex with a man, then having sex with a woman and confirming you are completely lesbian, does not make you any less of a lesbian.
85796
I think straight men are much more concerned about being mistaken for gay than straight women are about being mistaken.  Also, it is true that women do not think of it as a sexual thing at all.  Or, to be more accurate, did not until the modern emphasis on sexuality.  That makes me sad, because now we straight women may indeed become more inhibited.  I am already less comfortable with the "California hug," which is my term for the fact that many Californians tend to treat a hug as the standard greeting.  I prefer to limit this to my closest friends, but I do wonder if it's not because of being concerned about being labeled lesbian.
836429
Definitely.  As a straight male, I will cop to the stereotype that I find lesbians erotic and exciting while I find gay men rather gross. (sorry!)
490439
Seriously, it's for two distinct reasons. One is the instinctual urge that we are programmed with from our conception that makes males of the homonids the sexual aggressor. It is designed into us in order to propogate our species. Try to image how long we would have continued to exist if there were no sexual urges from either sex. The second reason is social conditioning and there isn't enough time to get into the subtext of this one. Basically it has to do with the upbringing of each individual along with his experience and values. Don't forget that in most modern societies there are images of a sexual nature to some degree or more. A sort of post-birth programming occurs to boys/guys/men if they are constantly exposed to images of a sexual nature. And another important factor is peer pressure. That can be a powerful determinate for a young teenager who is learning about his sexually maturing body at a time when he may be vulnerable to suggestion as well as suggestive action.
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In the US, homosexuals are, on average, more intelligent than heterosexuals.  This translates into higher median incomes.  Also, most homosexuals do not have families to support; they are generally single.
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Do they have to be lesbians?  Because most lesbians are, indeed, as you say, 'pretty well over the male body'.  Not to say that there aren't lesbians who sleep with men- I know there's a whole queer renaissance of kinky lesbians and gay men who love to get it on together and call it gay sex (because they're both gay)- but it's a small niche.\n\nIf it's not the fact that they're lesbians, but just that 'lesbian look' (boyish but pretty), so to speak, well, there are a lot of bisexual girls of that nature, and straight ones, too.  I bet you could find yourself one.  Good luck!
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I agree it may be easier in the sense of dominate and passive issues that men and women face. In as much; it can be equally challenging if not more worse because of cultural limitations. Gays generally don't show openly affection to each others as their counterparts. Gays, are not allowed to marry; which in itself can cause all sorts of family problems if the other becomes sick. Gays are not allowed as much as straights in regards to health benefits and insurance. Gays aren't afforded the same courtesy that heterosexual get on a daily bases. These facts commingled with the challenge people have in general relationships can make being in a gay relationship very hard.
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Based on what you've said I will take a guess and think you are heterosexual.  You can't use your heterosexual idea of sex and try to understand homosexual activity.  For example, gay couples do not think one plays the "guy" role and the other plays the "female" role because they are both of the same sex...therefore they both play the same role.  Sexual orientation has nothing to do with social behavior.
127237
coz girls got boobs ang guy got dicks. dicks are friendlier.
339694
Right now, it's "trendy" for women to be bisexual. It's accepted in a way that bisexuality in males isn't, so it's not unexpected that it's more public.\n\nGenerally, the sexual acts between women are done for the benefit of or to tantalize men. It seems that women are doing it for that reason, for the reason that they're following a trend, and because they enjoy it.
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I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
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i actually did research on this for a speech on gender differences, and one source said that in a study, women were more frequently sexually aroused by images of women than men were by images of men. this was not a "how hot was that?" survey, this measured their chemical reactions when viewing the images.\ni also think it has something to do with social acceptability. women are often encouraged by media and other influences (i.e. men) to perform bisexual acts, whereas it is much more taboo for men to do so. look at how gays, lesbians and bisexuals are portrayed in the media: with lesbians, it's often split between unattractive women and gorgeous ones, and bisexual women are usually very attractive. gay men are typically the comic relief, and i can't remember the last media reference i heard to a bisexual man. when these stereotypes are drilled into us daily, they often become a part of our subconscious, sometimes even altering our beliefs.