do u think there is a problem in my couple?
350889
I think its cool that he is thinking about your future and trying to work hard to make better for both of you. You should understand him little bit more. Listen to what he says and take for what he's telling you, not for signs of cheating and don't think he is going to leave you because he obviosly cares. I completely understand that you might feel lonley sometimes. I've been there too, with my husband working long hours, but all you have to do is talk to him. Let him know that you miss him sometimes and that you need affection. Try to understand each other with out making an argument about it. Lots of Luck.
303846
it's ok to open up a conversation especially that you are feeling this way. if you don't get the right answers then it could be s start of misunderstanding that can lead to separation .at this point, maybe you're not sure yet about your relationship. communicate to each other in a nice way to resolve this problem.
344096
You aren't sure because he doesn't have the same affection for you ....as you have for him....well if you love each other the same way....you'r not sure because of his temperament.....or something that's not right with him...\nIf you want more them ever to be with him....you should go to him and tell him that if he wants to remain with you he should fix the problem....(no matter what the problem is)otherwise your waisting you years with him. It's really sad
661677
It may not be a problem with you, but more of a problem with the guys that you are dating. They probably aren't satisfying your needs for reassurance on these type of issues. In the future, look for guys that will provide these things and see if there is a difference.
262146
Hey, me n my wife r 8 years apart. It is no biggie. If you are younger than 18 , then yes its a problem. If you are, then i suggest you wait. If not, then go with your heart and enjoy someone who loves you.
921846
what are the problems maybe if u tell us we might help u with each problem
783464
sounds normal?  relationships that adapt to what's going on in your life are pretty healthy i would think.  is there something else that's bothering you making you feel like something's wrong? x
1122872
I would let her know where you are coming from. It also depends on what level you are with this person. Are you married? Girlfriend? Dating? In any case, you should let her know where you are coming from and that you want to come to some kind of understanding on how you are going to resolve the issue. \n\nP.S.\n\n2 wrongs do not make a right. Communication is key here. Talk it out.\n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 second ago\nOur relationship is very good because we communicate and everything its just sometimes she says the wrong things and I let her know . . . . eventually\n\n\nMy response: It appears as though she is not to sure how to communicate her feelings and in turn says things that hurt you. She also could be saying these things because she is unsure of how you feel so she is trying to get a REACTION out of you. SHE NEEDS REASSURANCE. Communication is still key.
491687
He may be going through problems and does not know how to deal with those problems.  He may be trying to work those problems out.\n\nHave you sat down with him to try to find out what is going on in his life?  Maybe he is having problems at home that you are not aware of and it would help him to talk about those problems.\n\nI would suggest that you don't go into a relationship with him again if he is still dealing with the same problems.\nInstead, be there for him, but if he keeps that wall between you, then there is really nothing you can do.  He is going to have to work it out on his own.\n\nGood Luck to you both
1072105
i think we have the same problem. i'm sorry it happened that way but im sure trying to work things out is easiest by talking things over and doing wat is best for BOTH of you.\nGOOD LUCK!
908431
Do you talk fine when you are together?  If so, then it's just a phone thing.  Not everyone is great at talking on the phone.  It doesn't mean there's anything wrong, it just feels a bit unnatural.\n\nIf this is an issue when you are together too, then there may be a problem.
1005258
You are very strong for asking this question. You are certainly not asking for too much. This is not a problem she has with you, but a problem she has with commitment. She, for some reason, is not prepared to be as selfless and giving in a relationship as you have been with her. Maybe something is going on with her that is , creating this distance between the two of you. All though you probably already have, I suggest that you confront her and ask if their is an outside issue. If there is an outside issue and you help her through it, then you're relationship will be sstronger than ever. Best of luck to you!
193063
well, if he marry u then its something wrong . Check out yourself what is happening .May be something fishy going on....
505349
Maybe you need couples counseling.
1084606
If you feel this will be an issue that can cause problems in a relationship, it would probably be a bad idea to stay together. I know you will have issues if you get married and have kids because you'll want to instill one set of beliefs in them, and he'll want another set of beliefs instead.
450218
I would probably give it a bit more time.  Your still in that honeymoon stage where you haven't gotten to know each others bad habits all that well yet.  When you move in together then you have to live with those bad habits plus you have the added pressure of dealing with all the finances and living expectations that go with it.
340658
YES HE LOVES U HE JUS HAS ISSUES WITHIN HIMSELF HE NEEDS TO DEAL WITH TAKE TIME AND LET HIM SEE AND FEEL WHAT HES MISSING......