hey what is the main attraction for a women in a male?
351970
I don't know about others, but I like sensitivity and someone that can listen and have a good time.  Also someone who respects me and my morals.  Looks are definatly part of it but not the majority for me.
1169256
Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
474900
After the initial male reaction (meaning like all guys my eyes are drawn to the obvious things men like to look at) I'm usually captivated by a woman's eyes.\nMentally: compassion and a good, irreverent sense of humor.
500964
most important....a great sense of humor..I can't handle a guy who doesn't have one..\n\nalso, I like guys who are witty...smart...I don't mean book smart, though that's ok too, I mean someone who can figure things out..that I don't have to explain everything to..someone who loves his family...is good to his friends, loves animals..someone who believes in being faithful...compassionate, loving...
650302
Honesty, sincerity, ambition ... above average libido, intelligence and a great sense of humour ... good lookin' with a great "bod" ... fairly well grounded i.e. spiritually and family upbringing. Not in any special order!\n\nA fair question would be ... have I found her yet??? eh!?!?
1128527
By looking at your picture, you have a good start.\n\nTo add to it:\n\nIntelligence, yes the ability to have a meaningful conversation will score many points in my opinion.\n\nConfidence:  You know you're attractive, you know you can handle a career and you can get your own oil changed.\n\nStability:  Stable job, education, mental health issues medicated =)\n\nNow the little things:\n\nPERFECT hygene, no exceptions there.  A woman must always be upon approach in that department.  This of course does not mean she can't get dirty, and smelly during a football game or etc.  \n\nPersonality:  Not a little thing, but forgot to list above.\nI'm attracted to a sense of humor, and it goes far with me.\n\nCompassion, I wan't a woman who not only cares about herself but is willing to care even more for somebody else.  In exchange I offer the same back.\n\nSexualilty:  All men like some kink.  Various positions, locations, etc...  Be willing to try everything at least once.\n\n\nStyle!  Sweatpants are for around the house.  Have some style, some flash, show the world you are confident with who you are.  In that way, you attract me even more.  \n\nJust a few thoughts that were twirling around......
422780
Making eye contact is a must if you want to be subtle. No intense psycho staring. Size matters to a certain extent, it will depend on the woman. Humor is good, but the type of humor, again depends on the woman. There are no perfect set rules for attracting a woman. Pick someone you admire and try and come close to what he does when hes around women.
321430
Her eyes and personality are the biggest thing that attract me to a woman.When I see her eyes from afar and then get to know her,the personality makes me stick around.
191187
it depends upon how the man can deal with it. but i think a man with a loving heart, caring, understanding, faithful, loyal, honest, tidy in terms of his outfits, fresh looking, one woman man, and relationship oriented. if you have this all, then you can easily atract a woman
4789
Intelligence\nWit\nHonesty\nLoyalty\npositive outlook.......happy!\n\nSomeone that needs me as much as I need him. Someone that genuinely enjoys being around me as much as I enjoy being around him. :)
230572
Depends on the guy. Everyone has different tastes. Generally?\n- Commitment\n- Affectionate, shared/mutual love\n- Most of the time, decent to good physical features\n- Intelligence\n- Genuine understanding\n- Open communication
1032483
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
1165814
a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
638646
I like a man to be tall, \nso I can wear sexy heels whenever I want and he's still taller.\nA pretty healthy body, no skinny guys!!\nReally no preference on skin color-\njust not pasty like he's been living in his mother's basement for his entire life..\nand hair is OK, \nas long as it's not a massive bush that scares me!
999140
you are attracted by both sexes
312380
Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
674431
well for me..... it starts with a physical attraction, but then he has to be sweet, and just gentle, but also mean and manly. he needs to be soft and hard. but it can also start as a friendship, trust me i have been with someone i wasn't attracted to at first but after we started talking i became attracted to him after i found all these qualities in him. so every woman's opinion will very which is why there is someone for everyone