How to catch a cheating husband again, he's smarter now?
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Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
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I saw a private investigator on Oprah one day and he said that most men are caught cheating by the wife when she hits redial on the phone. Also check credit card receipts for florists, jewelers, etc...check the mileage on the car, unexplained longer distance? Does he shower immediately upon returning home from somewhere he shouldn't have gotten dirty? SMELL HIM-perfume, cigarette smoke and he doesn't smoke? Be aware of everything.
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Take a moment to get the act of cheating to suck in and your emotions under control. Get all your thoughts together in a logically manner. Tell him exactly how you feel,in a lady-like manner because he will expect you to be bitter so don't give him that satisfaction,  don't hold anything back because you don't want to later regret not saying something. Move on with your life and don't look back, don't let him make a fool out of you again. Best of luck.
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Some signs of cheating:\n\n1. smelling of perfume...not yours\n2. seems freshly showered\n3. money missing from account that you can't account for\n4. charges on charge cards you don't recognize\n5. working late a lot\n6. always tied up over lunch\n7. not as interested in things going on at home as was before\n8. sex frequency may change (some want more, others less)\n9. wants you to try new sexual adventures\n10. concentrates more on his appearance\n11. check out his cell phone bill \n12. is he starting to find fault with you? nothing you do is right\n13. may accuse you of having an affair due to his own guilt
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Every time he's spent away from you (even if it's 22 seconds), accuse him of cheating.\n\nNag. Works every time.\n\nInsist on watching Chick Flicks\n\nCook him a disgusting 54 course dinner.\n\nSay in a seductive manner "oooo it's hot in here" then turn on a fan and say "that's better"
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like a fool i took mine back and we were married a week later, but i still find it hard to trust him. even tho hes the one who told me he was cheating. we have been married for 2 years now and together 6 and so far he hasnt done it again ( that im a ware of) if i had it to do over i would have left him.
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Read the writing on the wall. If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, it's a cheating husband. You are lucky that he is an ex now, though. If you feel like he cheated, then he DID. Plain and simple. Trust your intuition, a female's intuition is a very powerful thing. Getting over the hurt? Well, that is a hard one. . .You've been betrayed. Lean on the support of friends and family ALOT. Talk about it ALOT to people who will actually listen. Buy a little notebook and spill your guts out and cry as you write in it every night before bed. A therapist can help, but if you have good friends and family, then why waste the money???
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Nothing. You must say "I'm sorry" one hundred thousand times, and then be prepared to say "I'm sorry" two hundred thousand times more. There will be days that something will cause him to think of your infidelity...maybe he hears a country "cheatin" song, or he sees the person you cheated with, or he will question what else have you lied about?, the list is a long one! Run, don't walk to a marriage counselor! Be honest, you will do the most work on yourself, and that's not easy, however you must understand what made you do what you did. When he needs to tell you how he feels, let him, don't shut him out. Lack of communication will end even a good marriage! Good Luck & remember to forgive yourself as well!
123419
Call Cheaters and then if you find out he is Kick his Ass!
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Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
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Intuition is a strong thing....\n\nCheck for 'changes' or excuses in his schedule.  \n\nPop in for lunch if that is a possibility, unannounced.\n\nCheck for missing money - not depositing as much in the bank as his checks are - or he's spending more but he's taking cash, or unusual credit card charges?\n\nCheck Cell Phone Records. \n\nAt the end of the day, you just need to ask... and believe your intuition because GENERALLY our guts don't lie about this.  Try to get one of the above facts verified, and then ask.  Good Luck, and some marriages can be saved, but through a lot of pain an forgiveness and DEDICATION on the hubby's part..  I wish you all the best during this painful time.
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Well... I am queen of being scandalous... Try to somehow find out his password to his e-mails...  Open the emails and you can usualy find out all of your info there... I've found out web sites my ex was going to and was able to sign on every single site he had an account with and check and see what he was doing... THEN I busted him... It may or may not work...
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Well he has betrayed you and it will take alot of work on his part to build that trust back up again. Why do you think you are giving him permission to do it again? Make certain that he does leave her, go for some counseling, you WILL need it, this is a serious blow to a marriage, some can make some can't. As for knowing for a fact that he broke it off, outside of being with him when he tells her you would just have to take his word for it. I am really sorry that you are going through this. Many say once a cheater always a cheater and to tell you the truth that is true in many many cases.\n If you love him then TRY to work it out, make certain that he attends counseling WITH you. Love can see you through a lot of pain but HE will have to work extra hard to rebuild your trust in him.\n  I wish you the best and hope things work the way that you want them to. Good Luck
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be honest and dont cheat again
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i had the same problem when i just got married with my husband.  i'm a jealous type too and very insecure with everything.  and he cheated on me not only once but twice.  i know its crazy to forgive him after cheating twice but forgiving him wasnt a mistake.  i tried to snooped on his stuff to find something that he might be hiding from me.  i was so insecure with his friends because it seemed like he was having more fun with them than his own wife.  we almost filed a divorce but i didnt want to lose him eventhough he cheated on me and he was neglecting me. i believed that i married this guy and i am willing to live with him forever.  we went to counseling and it was good.  it opened his eyes.  but i thought it was all his fault.  the counselor did pretty good explaining that i did some mistakes too.  i was so focus on my jealousy and forgot about our marriage.  after that i seen his effort to change and he really did.  he regrets everything. and now we already 5 years marriage and proud to say we're getting strong.\n\ni am sharing u this because i think what i've been through is the same as what your situation right now.  dont let her leave u.  if there is still a way to stay together then do it.  honestly, even i see my husband changed a lot - his past still hauting me sometimes.  its not easy to forget.  u have to go counseling or get somebody to help u out.  u have to talk to her.  communication is the best key to a happy marriage.  i know she cheated on u but give her a chance.  there's nothing wrong if give it a try for the second time.  if u guys talk - listen to her and let her listen to u.  this is what i've learned from the counseling...when u guys talking, dont use YOU.  like u did that, u did this.  thats blaming.  use I.  be calm and if she says something will hurt u.  dont be mad - listen to her.  only both of u can resolve your problem.  i believe that marriage is not always about sex, being happy and successful.  having ups and downs are very normal. show her u love and u care for her.  maybe u are doing what i did - focusing on my jealousy and not your marriage.   \nbefore its too late, go seek some help..good luck!!!
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NO WAY!  He is a cheater.  If not now, some day.  Look out.
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Here are some signs that your man is cheating:\n\n1. Wearing Cologne\n2. Buying new,or changing clothes more often\n3. Making excuses to go out\n4. Concealing his wallet, cell phone, ect..\n5. Looking at the clock a lot. \n6. Sometimes being even nicer to you, because he feels guilty\n7. Unexplained lapse in time when he is gone.\n\nThese are a few things to consider any major changes in routine can become questionable. Men aren't that smart and tend to get caught because they are preoccupied with there affair. Good Luck to ya.. If all else fails Call the reality show Cheaters and have him followed HAHA