why do white women want black men?
353287
i don't want a black man no offense to you guys...
1094150
Because a lot black men are intimidated by strong, educated sistahs. They equate light skin with a certain dumbness that makes them (the brothas) feel superior. \n\nThe ones who date solely white women do so because as a rule, white women are taught to fear black men, therefore, causing them to please these men in every way possible to keep them from becoming upset. \n\nOne brotha told me once that the reason he dates white women is that they have flat butts, which makes it easier for ..... <you-know what>.
101895
Yes, of course there are, just as there are white men who date black ladies.\n\nThere is no reason why they shouldn't.
539844
i grew up around black people i am white and used to be over weight. i used to see a lot of black dudes going with white chicks because they used to say the fatty whitties ain't getting nothing else and had lower self esteem then the black fatties and gave less trouble, here in america it is more exceptable to be a druggie then a fattie. plus when you look at it fat people tend to have lower self esteems hense the reason they keep eating. comming from a former fattie myself but what i did was get some excercise loose the weight and married me an arab! so not all fat white women would want to be with a white man or a black man or spanish etc.. to each his or her own!!!!
184520
Historical answer- White Women (at least in the US) were up-held as extremely desirable, pure, and unobtainable (punishable by death) through the civil rights movement 1950-60's.  Thus having a white women became a status and power symbol.\n\nSociological answer- Black Women in the US are not held up as symbols of beauty.  Though it is starting to change the ideal beauty is still someone who is fair with straight or slightly wavy hair (EG. Halle Berry)  Black women are allowed to be funny, care-givers, demanding, and militant.  Since all who live in the US are in-culturated this way it seems natural that Black men would also want to date White Women.\n\nThere are also all of the stereotypes attached: Black women are more demanding and difficult, white women are easier to get into bed, black women won't please a many orally, white women are more submissive.  Though I do think all sterotypes came from somewhere, I think most of these are untrue.\n\nThe truth of the matter is it's all individual.  Each Black man you see with a white woman has his own reason for being with her; be it a genuine intrest in the person she is, or trying to prove something to himself or society.
625079
White women are heavily sexually objectified, but images of black women compare them to wild animals.  Cultural messages in the US (and many other places) describe being white as attractive and anything else is a deviation from the beauty ideal.
157297
I don't think it's a matter of American white men being less into us. It's more a matter of "historical time" consideration. Europe has much more of that commodity than the U.S. I've spent time in Europe, and received a lot of attention from the men (granted, I am racially-mixed - Native American, African American and Caucasian - but my African heritage is apparent). Here in the U.S., I get that attention a little less frequently, even though I wish that weren't the case. \n\nI love men of all colors, cultures amd ethnicities - but especially white men. I just wish that white man/black woman love matches were as frequent as those of black man/white woman here in this country.\n\nSooo, back to the last part of your question...you can find them where ever you are. Just look harder and stop waiting for them to come to you. They might just need You to go to Them...
302874
just my experience but i once kissed a white guy...(shivers)\ncant imagine doing that often...\n most of the guys i know that date white gurls do so because they let them get away with so much more ..white women give them money..lots of money...white women =black mans trophy that hes "in"..slave mentality, but there are some couples that really may be in love so....depends on the person
1115715
girl please.....don,t flatter yourself. the only thing that black guys find attractive about white girls is that,they are:FREAKS,THEY GIVE THEM MONEY,THEY DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING THEY ASK THEM, AND THE WHITE GIRLS BUY THERE LOVE. oh! by the way i am also not racist!!!
621134
I don't think it a matter of Indian woman liking fair of white men. It's most likely that they (Indian woman) just looking for a relationship that will suit there family's wishes and also give a sense of independence. Due to arrange marriage's and so forth it seems like the fair or white guy is gonna be a bit more successful in his dealings and presents somewhat a comfort zone for Hopefully the Indian woman if not, then her family. Don't want to step on toes. This is just my thought which could uses some expansion upon this topic
349567
I see absolutely nothing wrong with it...i am a white woman and i am very open-minded. i have dated black, white, whatever. it all depends on the type of person u r looking for. i'd rather be with a black man that loves me than a white man that beats me, or vise versa.....
243290
I don't think that is the case. i think you just notice white females with black males more often the single race couples. Everyone has a prefrence, but you can't help who you fall in love with, or who you are sexually attracted to.
675643
to leave all the fine white men for MMEEEEE! White guys rock  hot sexy  nothing better
336035
white girls black men mostly but lately I have seen an increase in white men who are attracted mostly to black women\ni take it from all your questions about interracial romance you date black women\nI date white men 30 and up no younger so I feel you
385347
Some AMERICAN Jewish men are attracted to black women.  I think it's because so few Jews in America are black or dark skinned, and so it's a whole exotic thing and forbidden thing.  A white girl could potentially be Jewish, but a black girl probably isn't.\nWhen American guys get to Israel many of them like darker girls - different, more exotic, and all that.
670373
first of all most black guys treat women(white or not) better then most white guys. if white guys would grow up and stop acting all stupid then white guys might get more white chicks. also size is not always true cuz i have been with a couple of black guys and not all of them have been all that big so that's not everything. its mostly about how a guys treats a girl.
11002
I asked this of a guy the other day, and his response was something like this:  "as a white man, I find some black women attractive; others not so attractive.  This is the same as with white women.  But the complications of dating a black woman would be great.  For instance, I am not accoustomed to being in the minority, and family gatherings would be very odd for me.  I also wouldn't like the scrutiny of her male family members.\n\n"So it's not that I wouldn't date black women; I definitely would.  I just don't go looking for it.  If it happens, it happens."\n\n\n(One man's opinion.)