How can we know the virginity of a girl with out a medical test or checkup? Are there some symptoms about?
340956
I don't think so, only her word, and it's up to you to decide whether to trust her.
533818
if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
875442
some do and some dont\nit really ought to depend on whether their hymen has already been broken do to bike riding,wearing tampons,and other physical activities.\njust because a woman doesnt bleed during their first time having sex,doesnt mean that she is not a virgin\nthe best way to find out whether they are a virgin is to ask them and if u really love her then u would believe her and u 2 will have a happy relationship. but some women do bleed and their first time may be terribly painful. but some dont and can just enjoy themselves.~GOOD LUCK HOPE THIS HELPED!~
631457
First, NEVER EVER HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT WEARING A CONDOM ! There are std's that don't have as noticeable affects in women as what it will in men. Considering this girl is already on birth control pills is a sure indication she has been sexually active already.Since she allowed you to have sex with her not wearing a condom ,safe bet others have had the same priveledge. How do you know she for sure she has not got hiv? You didn't think at the time you had sex that you would be worried about a std right now either did you? People lie, especially when it comes to sex . Don't you think if everybody told the truth about std's and hiv/aids that this problem would be well under control,if not completely extent? Next time wear a condom!! Not for her benefit but for your own safety. As to do you have a STD. Only a doctor will be able TO ANSWER THAT 100% , you should have been there 3 weeks ago. Some std's can make you sterile. If you are to embarrassed to go to the Dr. then call your local health department and see if they can't see you. If you are really worried then call the er at your local hospital and tell them your symptoms without giving your name. Hopefully all you have is a kidney infection. Next time you start to have sex make sure you use a condom! No matter what she may tell you. If your gonna do it be responsible. Good luck!!
514530
well hon I don't live in Virginia Beach but all you have to do is look in your phone book. You can be checked at any doctor's office as well. Of course alot of times a "clinic'" or "health dept" will check you out for free. Good luck and practice safe sex next time hon.
368389
Probably not, but if you're having unprotected sex(no condom), then you need to get tested.  You can get this done free at a clinic or a GLAD chapter.
1127407
I can't believe some of the answers people are giving you.  (If her thighs are touching, she's got fat thighs- that's all that tells you!)\n\nYou're a virgin if the hymen is intact.  That is a membrane over the vaginal opening.  There's enough of a hole in it that you have your period, but it's not as big as a man's penis.  When you have sex for the first time, the hymen tears.  \n\nSince penis's vary in size and some sex is more active the others it's not always obvious.  But a doctor can definitely tell.
550846
I would say she is a virgin because her hymen is unbroken.\nMind you she's one dirty sl@t.
876395
Here's the honest scoop...I have a 15 year old daughter and I found a note of her promising a boy her virginity...so as her mom I freaked out. Well, I took her to get on birth control just in case and in the meantime I scared the heck out of her, hoping that if she did have sex she would just tell me so I would know and could offer her protection and help her deal with any problems that may come from it. Truth be told, when I took her to the gynocologist, the doctor asked me to leave the room when they examined her and also explained to me that anything she discussed with her or learned was strictly doctor patient confidentiality. I even tried to scare her after the exam by telling her the doctor told me something and she was in big trouble. I tried scaring her needlessly...I think. Bottom line, no the doctor keeps all of that confidential by a law known as HIPPA now and from the doctor patient confidentiality oaths they take. Even if your mom says the doctor told her something, she's only going on suspicion and trying  to scare the truth out of you. If you do decide to have sex, just make sure that you are protected, please. I had to add that....as a mom :o)
440058
well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
719852
Not necessarily. Among human females, the hymen is a membrane, part of the vulva, which partially occludes the entrance to the vagina and which is often physically torn when the woman first engages in sexual intercourse. Hymens vary in thickness, shape, and flexibility. So the amount of blood present will vary. Don't be embarrassed, let your guy know upfront that you are a virgin. That way neither of you are surprised if blood is present.
78389
There are no symptoms at first.  You need to get a blood check.  The government clinics usually do it for free.  If you test negative, make sure you practice safe sex in the future.
188685
First you have to see what kind of virgin she is.  Is she a virgin because of beliefs or just out of circumstance.  If she's a virgin by beliefs your friend needs to understand that and respect her limits.\n\nIf she's a virgin out of circumstance (not the right guy, not the right relationship, not the right time) it's a different story.  Then it's a question of whether she's a virginal virgin or not.  From the description she's pretty virginal.\n\nPart of being a virgin out of circumstance is trust.  Is your friend trustworthy?  Is he ready to be someone's first?  Is he worthy?  Does she think he's worthy?  \n\nNow if he doesn't actually want to have intercourse with her, but help her get intouch with her sexuality there are alot of things he can do.  Most of it is 1-reasuring her that she doesn't HAVE to have sex.  2-Spend time touching and caressing, finding out what she likes.  But this is going to require sometime and commitment.  Is your friend ready for it?
87174
Sorry your question can get no reply because male people just have no virginity, or to precise, they have no organ predisposed for that purpose.\nIn fact, women have the “Hymen” inside the vagina and any intrusion (as well as the penetration during the first sexual act) breaks it unalterably.  \nMen have the penis with no such system and generally, we say that a guy is virgin when he hasn’t have yet a sexual intercourse. Therefore, you can never verify if a guy has already had an intercourse and you have only to trust in what he will tell you!
284754
You probably can't. She may have stretch marks, her pelvis may have changed,  her cervix will have what is known as a parous os, and she may have some perineal scarring. I think the best way to find out is to ask her.\n\nps girls don't have babies...women do
307543
Yes. Yeast infections can cause it! So can tampons. Using a tampon does NOT mean you aren't a virgin....
579628
Don't get into technical stuff. A virgin means purity and its has got a lot to do with mental purity than just a physical one. A girl is a virgin if she offers he body to a guy whom she loves and she continues to be a virgin if love is involved in any such relationship. Virginity is lost only if she offers her body as a object for fulfilling a man's desire for any reason other than love.