Is it normal for my girlfriend to give a co-worker a ride from work to his house?
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If she tells you about it, it's pretty innocent.  I think you should be glad she's good enough to do that for someone who needs help.  Maybe one day you'll need help and you know she'll be willing to do it for you.\n\nWe need to encourage good people to do good things, not discourage them.\n\nIf she's your girlfriend, you better learn to trust her - or move on.
392437
They don't always let you down, but your boyfriend surely is.  Why isn't he working?  I know you know this, but he won't change.  You don't have to move home, but you might want to move out of this relationship.  And take him off of your accounts!\n\nGood luck.
881485
Think of it this way - you save yourself money in not having to buy her a wedding gift.  I think it was rude on her part to invite some co-workers but not all, that's why it's best not to invite anyone from work - it saves this kind of thing from happening.  Don't get upset about it, look at it like it's one less thing you have to do.  It sounds like your work "friend" is really more of a friendly acquaintance.  I had the same thing happen to me - my boss and I get along really well but when she had her annual halloween party, she didn't invite me - and instead invited a woman nearly 30 years older then us.  I was shocked but I didn't let it get to me.  Just do your work and don't worry about her.
237666
My girlfriend is cold to me at work but alone she is totally opposite.  She says she's a private person (we\nare also practicing Christians) and does not like the \nattention she gets and says she does not like other people\nknowing her business.  She says that's just the way she\nis.
550342
WOW!  A cross country drive!  That is wild!  She is either going to be thrilled or think you are out of your mind.  If I were you I would feel her out a little on the idea of a transcontinetal flight. If it won't freak her out, then go for it!
508203
It really depends on your girlfriend and the work situation. If it is ok for her to receive your calls, without her getting into trouble, and she doesn't mind that you call everyday, then there really wouldn't be a problem.  However, if she is getting annoyed, or in trouble, she might just dump you for being creepy and obsessive.
939840
For a long distance relationship it is about trust first of all have to just be yourself and enjoy your other half I'm in a long distance relationship my self we talk for hrs during the week and see each other most weekends only 185 miles away so nice to see her but hard to leave for work just have fun that will made it all good for the both of you.
974845
It depends, whose name is the car in, and is "he" a friend, boyfriend. There are many factors in play here.  Call the local police and get some advise.
853478
Sounds like both of you are going through withdraw.  That's too bad b/c most of time in long distance relationships, the other person eventually leans on someonelse and you become history.  If there is a will for you two to be together then you are going to have to find a way.  If this means giving up your job for her, then do it.  Do whatever it takes b/c you already know this isn't working, do you think it will get better?
215151
Sometimes its not a good idea to get into a work relationship because if it ends in a bad break up then you still have to face each other every day.  But if you two are both mature then I think it would be okay.
561547
He's got one of those jobs that you can't leave unless releaved by someone, just part of being a officer, but he could have at least called or something.  Think I would wait and see what the reason was before I jumped the gun too much.  If you tell her what you want her to do, and he's got a really good reason, you will be the bad girl.  Wait and see, don't do anything while you all are under so much stress.  It's not like family, she's a gf, so he's at the mercy of his boss.
924024
This is of course all a matter of opinion.  I say as long as both parties are adult about it and keep work out of the bedroom and the bedroom out of the office I say no problem.  Communication is always key and so is being very mature about it all. But I say it's no real problem.  The only problem occurs if one of you screws over the other one and you still have to work together.
398332
NOpe. I don't think that could be an issue. Since you both also have separate personal lives. One thing I could advice though is to keep an open communication. Even if you don't see each other everyday, a call on the phone, a text message, a special delivery, an email could perk up the relationship. You could also think of other ways to keep it spicy. Sometimes being with each other every single day gets kinda boring and infact this will have a deeper negative impact in your relationship rather than giving each other enough personal space with the 3 days a week dates. :-) Hoep everything works well with you and your boyfriend. If you not having a car of your own repells him from you, then that means you don't deserve him. You are far more valuable than a car. If he loves you and you love him, you both will always find a way to see or even just communicate with each otehr everyday. Distance could also make you miss the person, and missing the person makes the times when your together sweeter coz you'll both cherish every moment. :_)
274853
Well with your friend.  I had the same situation.  She is your friend she just needed a ride.  Don't let it bother you to bad.  She might come around she might not.  I wouldn't give the guy anything just let him stick around and charm you but dont buy him anything!!!
542200
I'm going to say YES!!! I think his boss feels like she & work should be his first priority. She is jealous of you.If it continues or escalates to sexual harrasment your husband should report her or put in a transfer request.Be Blessed!! Monica
1176334
This is not about payment is it?  Wow, I thought that it was about so much more.\n\nI figure it like this, don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed if she doesn't and you'll be pleasantly surprised if she does.  Just because you take it upon yourself to do that deed doesn't mean that it's "automatic" for her to return the favor...  If you want it done, ask for it... \n\nPayment?  Naaaah!
422225
Well....u can get her home...I mean her own home..\nIf u drive her home...then it costs u only gas and probably toll. If u send her home by taxi...then it's taxi fare.\n\nReally....try that... and she'll probably thanks you more than if you beg her for sex..\n\nha...ha..ha...