My friend wants to no if she should break up with her b/f. What should I say????????????????
344461
well does she love him? if she does then they should stay togetheR! but if he treats her like shit then no they shouldnt be together~ give her that advice but dont tell her to do ANYTHING! just let her know that then tell her its her choice and make sure she knows you support her in whatever choice she makes!~
1128024
put an end of this relationship if it hurts you this way...seriously...try to get your life back...simply tell him "I want to break up. I can not stand anymore of your "friend to talk with"...I do not like secrets, there should not be any secrets between us...try to learn something from this...bye  bye forever"...and really bye-bye...or else you would live like this forever...my friend lives like that...and I know how you feel...for your own good, let him forever, he will not change, trust me...I am a little hard on you, you do not know me, but I do want to help you and all women that live like this...YOU DESERVE a person that is devoted to you, that adores you, that tells you everything that happens to him, that lives for you (and you for him, of course)...you would like this, don't you?...I thought so...you just need some courage...
346597
She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
1132529
Well, how does she feel about that? What makes this situation tough is how does she feel about him as a boyfriend? If she really doesn't love him then yes move on but if she loves him and stays with him then she is selling herself short of happiness and no one should do that to oneself. She is just a piece of meat to him.
826023
well trying telling your sisteer whyyou think he is a asshole then let her think if this is what she wants in a boyfriend or tell your b/f to setthem up but thn if you don,t say anything she might get mad at ou if i was you i would just give it up and let her do it herself all the best
1163102
Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
131804
I would pull him aside with out his g/f and tell him that you would just like to tell him something but you do not want his g/f to know and let him know and let him know that you do not want this to change your relationship as friends with him unless he would like to!  How he responds will let you know how he feels about you!
132797
I think she should move on b/c he has not been having a good time with her (he wanted to break up) so she should find someone else that will actually appreciate her.
816660
explain to her that your boyfriend and you are making it like a honeymoon. if you explain to her that you two just wanted it to be a romantic holiday with no kids. if she has been your friend for that long she should understand and yes she will be hurt and dissapointed but she will get over. she prob thinks it will be a good chance for you and her to catch up as well. she will understand you just need to tell her dont let her go if you do you and her will only end fighting about it later or even at the holiday then it will be a long long holiday and even the ed ofthe friendship
385037
Tell her if she doesn't like her partner, than get rid of him.  Otherwise, live with it and quit complaining.
953243
It sounds like her boyfrined is over protective of her and he needs to chill out a bit. but next time you see your friend just tell her that it might be best if you stay away from her for a while. \nShe needs to speak to him about it.
515458
Aww, this reminds me of My friend Lauren and I. We got together, she loved me, I love her, but outside pressures made it very hard for me to cope with Us. I understand where  your girl is coming from and I also understand where you are coming from. You can't make someone stay if they don't want to. And you shouldn't try if you see that they aren't happy. Especially if it starts to make you unhappy. I would suggest letting her do what she wants. Let her know that you care for her and want her to be happy and that you are there for her but draw the line somewhere. Let her know that she does hurt your feelings by doing these things and let her know that she can't be so flippant and careless. Lauren and I are good friends now and sometimes I look at her and feel a pang, but I know that we would have both been miserable if we stayed together with all the problems we were having. Sometimes its better to let something go to keep a friendship than to draw out a love affair and have it end in hatred...Oh yeah, I think that she should take some time to figure herself out without any outside influences from you or other guys or girls. The hardest thing to do is to truly know and love yourself. You are always your own worst critic....Good Luck!
735926
Drama.  Tell her to back off and go for it or do nothing.  Flip a coin if you need to.
297701
you should tell her that her bf is not right for her if is treating her like sh@$. She needs to see that he is not right for her and that she need to get away from that relationship she is in now and move on to something that is better for her
317288
You can't accidentally break up with someone.\n\nIf she really feels like it was an accident, maybe she should try to explain herself to him.
474511
Why not be friends and see how things develop?  If you two agreed to break up, why are you asking the question now?  Sit down and talk.
718882
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)