4 people said said that i should go out with this girl, Should i?
345588
who cares what others said?  do you want to?
184069
she probably likes u... but i wouldnt go with her... look how easily she falls in love. and besides, if she really liked u she would have said something
665407
well if you keep thinking like that then you'll be single for the rest of your life! Just go for it! its pretty hard to mess stuff up like that unless you treat her like s.h.i.t then you might have a problem. ok, out of all the girls that like you, pick out the one that you want to go out with the most or the one you would feel comfortable dating. Then if you don't like it just tell her that it just wasn't working out and you still want to be friends but not boyfriend/girlfriend. She won't be mad at all.
674719
Ha...well, there's no such thing as "kinda going out" with someone, she either is or isn't going out with them (but you knew that). \n\nAnyways, since you're good friends, you don't want to ruin the relatioship by putting her in an uncomfortable situation and make her choose between you and her boyfriend, so don't. Either wait for her boyfriend and her to break up, or move on. \n\nAnd please remember, don't make your move too quickly after the breakup, or it'll look like you're taking advantage of her vulnerability, which is most definitely NOT good for your chances with her.
588567
chances are, one of them is not "the one". they're just girls that you know and have a chance with. why don't you go out on dates with all of them, individually of course. no one says that you have to pick just one. especially now because you're not really dating any of them. why would you want to tie yourself down? as long as you are open and honest with everyone, I say date them all.
652834
She might have gone out with the guy once or twice or maybe they are just not really serious at this point.  There might be room for you if you are persistant.  Ask her what exactly she means.  Ask her if she is into this guy or if they are just hanging out until something else comes along or what.  Then you will know where to go from there.
706512
You should just move on there are a lot of other girls out there who would not turn down your offer. Also it depends on weather she is interested in you if not. Back off, find someone who cares.
776965
Heres how it sounds dumb but it works, If you already know her and you have somewhat of a neutral relationship just straight up ask her out say "Go out with me" she'll probaly say "what?' or "are you serious" or try to wriggle out of it, if that starts say "its the right thing to do" Dont be afraid, just do it! the worst she can say is no and if she does no biggie you guys can still be cool just dont put so much pressure on the situation.
398842
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
283248
ask her to hang out be yourself it could mean she likes someone else but then again it could mean that because you didnt ask her to hang again or ask her out she thinks you dont like her so start with asking her to dinner and a movie or coffee talk to her ask her to hang again if she says no well then sorry hun but if she say yes your good too go you know what to do from there!!
637405
Ask her to go with you and see what her response is
503963
Say "Will you go out with me???"...
839955
So go out with her and go out with other girls too. That's really the best situation for everyone until they are absolutely ready to settle down forever. Only then should you think about committing to one person.
333261
Ask her if she's dating first. It might be easier for you if you keep the conversation light and easy and on a "bantering" level. Don't ask her friends! They might be wrong! Trust me, this happens A LOT. If she's single, then you're good to go.
67554
Thats kind of odd that someone with a girlfriend asked you... and if you feel that it would not be appropriate to go with the other guy then don't.  If there is someone you would much rather go with, feel them out about if they would want to go with you!  Overall, just do what you believe is right.  And most importantly, forget the drama and have fun!
641049
Go for the girl you like... if you start dating her friend then you'll NEVER get to date her if it doesn't work out with her friend.  If you go out with the friend, you'll just regret it because you'll see the girl you like all the time but won't get to be with her.  Don't play her friend unless you think you can grow to really like her, because it'll end up being a waste of time for both of you.\n\nIf I told a guy I was "kinda dating," it'd be because I wanted the other guy to stay interested.  It's almost like a "wait for me until I get out of this."  She probably doesn't want to come off as rude and just dump the guy for you, so stay persistent.  You like *her*, not her (your other) friend so much.  She's the target... So aim and fire.
1085454
I had this girl come up to me and say that we should hang out sometime. I knew that she would go out if I asked her and she had not asked me out so she had nothing to lose. \nShe scored a date and we ended up going out for a little while. \nOpen the door doing something like that without putting yourself all the way out on the line.