why would a guy change just like that?
347173
sounds like hes cheating on you
274223
whatever made him your "ex" is more than likely still true about him.  Women think they'll change men - they never do!  We may quit whatever you dislike for a while, but it always comes back.
126261
I think you need to get this guy out of your system and close the door on him once and for all. You cannot change him, don't waste your time trying.
967933
Well.. i guess in my opinion, firstly is try to think about what cause him to change or react different from previous behaviour..\n\ndid something you did that caused to act this way or change to current situation.. \nI'm a man, i would know why a man changed, basically in general, there are two reason or more: \n\none is; he's originally a liar (which he's trying to be nice all the while until he can't tolerate anymore, so he change back to he's original character), \n\ntwo is; bcoz he couldn't get any real satisfaction in sex, then suddenly some girl came tickling him and manage to click on for more sexual/satisfaction activities..\n\nBut i could be wrong thou.. as mentioned, there are more reason for a man to change. having said this; the woman i knew, have even much more reason to change as compared to man.. \n\nBut nevertheless, pls try talking to him nicely to catch anything that went wrong and try to patch it back.. avoid having arguement or anything suspicious thinking.. as it may result to a worse situation...\n\nI pray for all the best for you k, and hope that God will give you all the hapiness that you guys need...
920282
first, girls would rather have an honest man who is real than someone who just molds themselves to get a girl to like them, least that's how i am. its nice to find a guy who has his own interests..i mean it would be boring if you guys liked the same things about everything. you shouldnt have to constantly change who you are...its true, just be yourself no matter how "weird" you think it is. n there are some women who will try to change things about you..but only change if you want to or healthier for you and feel that its right for you. the right girl for you will love you just the way you are..craziness..weirdness..silliness and all. just be patient and she'll come along :)
93984
Just be yourself, if you want to change, then do so. But if i were you, i wouldn't change for some guy, i would just be me, and change for myself ir i want to change at all.
800033
Love, you cant make a man change one bit.  trust me, im a man, and I know.  There's nothing we hate more then someone trying to change us.  Infact, if you do try, he might just increase his reckless behavior just to spite you.  His actions seem to imply that he doesnt believe he has much to live for, to be blunt.  I suggest trying to get him in touch with his passions (besides you of course).  what does he LOVE to do?  Find that passion and spark it all the time!  Dont say anything about what he eats or how much he excercises (again, no one likes a nag..he's a big boy after all) but wait and see.  If he's in touch with his passions again I'd bet my last nickel that he'll start eating better and going to the gym.
489308
Honestly? Yes! All things change. People change. Relationships change. Change is constant in all our lives. The real questions are who’s actively doing the changing? \nTo whom and what? And why? And in which direction? And what do you want to change?\n\nA relationship is between people. To change a relationship you have to change the people. The best place to start is with your-self.\n\nYou cannot simply expect the other to change - and they are going to resist your pressure to force them to anyway. But if YOU change, your partner and your relationship automatically have to follow.\n\nYou were once a baby. You changed. You became a young child. You changed again to a teenager. And again, you changed into a grown-up. \n\nDidn't you? Every time you changed, everyone around you did too and so did your relationships with them. People have a head start on life - changes. They are largely built- in until about twenty years old. \n\nThings happen fairly automatically and are largely to do with our bodies and minds simply growing and developing. And after twenty? Well\n\nWhen we are adults people change when they are thoroughly fed up with banging their head against the same old wall. They change when they cannot stand the boredom of continuing the way they are. They change when they find out, again, what they once and always knew - that they have Choice. that they Can!\n\nChange happens for all three reasons every day but some changes are good, some are bad, and a few are well - just neutral. \nWe need to learn how to be consciously aware of our own change process instead of remaining unaware and letting them just "happen to us", for good, bad or worse.
376135
Sometimes it can be a mastake but if he says he has changed then that means that his family and friends have noticed. So go up and ask them if they feel that he really has changed. If they say he has then tell him that you are willing to give it another shot on one condtion. That he has to prove that he really has changed. If you see he has then move on from there one step at a time but if not then... well I am not going to tell you what to do, I know I have given my ex plenty of chances and he always blows them but that is why I love him so much... he is different and stands out and never really does the same thing twice. It is more exciting with thoes types of people.\n\nGood luck and I hope my answer helps you.
702315
Some guys act exactly like that, some don't. \n\nIt's impossible to generalise.
286136
I don't know why there r just like that i guess. thats how guy i guess grow up like that?!!!
311206
There's no sure indicator. Guys are all different. But if all of a sudden he acts different around you, then he's got a reason. Best way to find out would be to ask one of his friends.
543825
hi.\njust be urelf .never ever change ur self for a guy..in  99.9%  of cases he is not worth changing for :)......f u will change to a better person then ur doing it for URself and not for him.........just be urself f he doesnt notice U then he doesnt deserve u and hes BLIND and a loser just ignore him ...f u ignore him he might miss ur presence or something and then he will act diffrently.....\n\n\ngooooood luck
452508
If you already see a flaw in his humor, you might be in trouble with a relationship.  It sounds like you are trying to change him even before you're in a relationship.  Guys have their own senses of humor.  Find a gent with one more closely to you.  You can't teach an old dog new tricks
937445
It's always possible for people to change. We're humans...we live to change.  It truly depends on the person and whether or not they are willing to change. If they're a "player" and brag or have too much fun with it..it's likely they will not change for awhile. Follow your instincts....
403514
why do some men? Each is different, right?
424530
If he was really changing, his behavior would not be so sporadic.  He would make a genuine committment to be that same wonderful guy instead of turning back into an ogre.  Most people need something bad to happen to them before they realize the hurt that they've done to others, and change their own lives.  If you stay, you are only telling him that you easily fall for his mind games, and that it doesn't take much to placate you.  But if you go, and I mean seriously go (no threats or promises), you will show him that you are genuinely tired of your life with him that way that it is.  And if he misses you enough (and you should always make them miss you), he will realize his many errors and make a concerted effort to change his life and ways to get you back.  And if he doesn't decide to change to get you to come back, then he wasn't meant for you anyway and was just a bump on your road of finding true happiness.