Do you hate yourself?
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Your question is much more interesting and 'deep' than most people on this site will appreciate.\n\nAny time I feel 'hate' towards someone else, I must be feeling hate for myself.  This is based on the principle that I cannot 'see in someone else' a quality that I do not also have.  So, if I see a quality or characteristic in someone else that I hate, to be able to 'see it', I too must have that quality.  (In chemistry this principle is known as 'like dissolves like').\n\nFor example:  I might say: "I hate that guy, he is such a slob".  I too must be a slob in some aspect of my life to be able to 'see it' in others.\n\nThe opposite to all of this is 'love'.  If I say: "I love his courage", I too must have courage in some aspect of my life to be able to appreciate and 'love' it in someone else.  So, to 'love' another, I must first be able to love myself.\n\nBest wishes and thanks for an interesting question.
1037533
Realize that the person doing this needs to belittle you to feel better about themselves!
317054
No. The reason why I'm here and answering this question is because I did things in my past that I regret or even hated. These things that we have been hating and want to get back at or rewind are the reasons we are who we are today. \n\nIf ever we regret the fact that we are who we are, it is the same thing as regreting what we chose before. Because if you ever wanted to undo the bad things that occured to you, there is no way to redo the good things, or even bring back the times after you changed your fate.
98984
I would have a better self-esteem. Then I wouldn’t feel bad when I examine myself in the mirror.  Now its "Ough, my butt is bigger than it should be, or my breast are not as big as they should be, and I cant get my hair looking the way I want it to look, and I don’t have super model legs, why cant I have perfect skin, I just don’t look "girly" enough to be taken seriously as a woman"...blah, blah, blah and blah.  Sometimes I cry.  \nI wish I could see myself the way others see me, they all say I’m this or that, and I just see, me.
12978
Only if you are willing to hate yourself.  Try feeling shame instead and see if that works.
693667
I am a boss and I hate myself. But my employees seem to like me for some reason, maybe you should work for me?
258282
yes sometimes\nbut when i think back that person really didn't deserve so much hate or attention from me. \ni guess often we feel like such when we personally feel insulted or hurt, but i guess its okay to think about it a little to vent it off and NOT do anything on it.
457543
Why do you want to compare yourself and feel bad.\n\nGet over it. You are Just absolutely fine. You would be definetely perfect for that one person, you find.
147048
You've got to look within yourself to find the root of your hatred. Is it learned behavior from a family member? Is it tied to some negative event you experienced growing up? The closer you examine (logically) the root of your feelings you will see how irrational they are in the bright light of day.
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People are self loving, that being said it is easier to dislike anything or anyone that is different than (self) and even hate them.  Hate starts with name calling which is used to separate you from me.  Once separated, I can abuse you or say bad things about you because your different.  Wish it were not so, 6 billion of us on the big ball and we differ in so many ways.
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easy, pple tend to hate u, just because u act differently when yourself, but its nothing really. also its because of the "role" figuare is probally the one they compare u to. If they hate u, ask yourself this- "Do I care about what they think?"
665039
That's a lot of self-hatred then.....
374703
do you believe yourself?
882671
You should be ashamed of yourself.
598816
do you regret asking this question? I think you should feel embarrassed.
558564
Do you really hate yourself, or do you hate what others perceive you as?  \n\nWhat have you done to hate yourself so much?  Answer that question and ask for forgiveness in your heart, and move past it.  \n\nI don't think you can love another until you can learn to forgive yourself and make amends for whatever causes you to hate yourself.  You can have strong emotional ties and feelings, but until you can forgive yourself, how can you expect to love someone and forgive their faults?  \n\nI wish you luck in finding your way.
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Why do you hate yourself? You really have to ask yourself that very question. Is it because you have low self esteem or is it because your body isnt the way you wanted it? I have never felt hate for myself so I cant really put myself in your shoes, but what I do know is that you really need to tell someone, weather it be a counsler or clergyman. Please, whatever you do, dont hurt yourself. Things WILL get better. Trust me!