Why are men so needy?
336174
GOOD QUESTION..I WAS WONDERING THE SAME THING!! MEN..WHEN THEY GET SICK OR ARE IN PAIN IT'S LIKE THE END OF THE WORLD...US WOMEN WE HAVE NO CHOICE WITH WHAT WE GO THROUGH WITH OUR BODIES, ETC........!!YEAH, IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE BUT IT IS SOOOOOO TRUE....SO WHEN YOU FIGURE OUT THE ANSWER LET ME KNOW!!!
1158909
Guys don't loose interest necessarily.  Sometimes it because a "I've got you... now what do I do with you?"  or maybe a "I've got you... now here is the real me instead of the one I impressed you with to get you."\n\nSome guys just loose the desire to impress the woman.  This can come about because the woman stops or never gives the kind of attention the woman wants.  We have to face the fact that it is the mans job to woo the woman and do everything possible to impress the woman while she sits and takes it all in.  The woman isn't generally seen to need or have to return the affection or interest the man is showing.\n\nI suggest finding out from him if he is unsure of what to do next or just feeling slightly neglected.  He could just be pulling away because it is time for him to take care of his needs instead of focusing all his energy into the woman he cares about.  men do come back from this stage to care again.  We men just need to do know we can take care of ourselves as well as you.
170007
Men are clueless as to what they want, they themselves wishes that someone could tell them, and even if someone did, would they listen, NO, Why? Because they are self opiniated and listen to noone, Its an ego thing.\nWhen we find a good man, you just have to thank all the gods and angels in heaven and on earth.  In the meantime, keep the hope alive and when you come across a loser/liar show them the way to SanJose, better known as hell.
876471
It's not easy, usually us guys tend to think were bothering you, we usually won't call unless we have a reason for it. Just give him a reason to call, borrow something, need help, etc.
503445
Men have a natural driven desire to have sex , Most guys are not interested in a relationship they want to satisfy their carnal lust and move on to the next person . I am having a hard time finding someone that will get to know me and take the time it takes to build a relationship . Most guys are so superficial they just want to have a one night stand . Good luck
421035
I bet the most common reason is having been neglected. Boredom can be a factor, too. Some women are super insecure and need attention. If they aren't getting that from their husband, they will get it elsewhere. It's usually more emotional for women than it is physical (like it is for men.)
522028
because men are so frustrating
701957
because there is a lot more expected of a man in this world. and men dont really ask for a whole lot in return. all we really care about is getting our basic needs fullfiled. since there is a lot more expected of a man then i dont think it is a big deal that we at least get the big piece of chicken.
764875
You sound like high maintenance. He won't last if youre that demanding. A guy needs some space once in a while.
343394
Their static programming drives them towards sex all the time.  Any man who tells you otherwise either isn't being honest or doesn't know himself.\n\nHaving said that, some men are jerks, some are indifferent, and lots of men are good people who really do want to find emotional and spiritual intimacy with the person who is also the object of their sexual desire.\n\nThe good hearted should not take any shame for being thus.  \n\nTruly, women are this way also, though perhaps in a different proportion.
316257
Because men are supposed to be the emotionally strong and balanced ones. And crying is a sign of weakness...or so people think. I do not believe that.
459567
Well, some men are jerks. And thats not what us girls want now a days. We want someone smart, funny, someone that can listen to us. Not some tough guy, full of him self jackass that thinks hes all that, when really hes not...
1096333
Because when they are not being "taking care of"... and I don't mean SEXUALLY only... they will look for ways to get their needs met.\n\nIt's just that simple.\n\nA content woman seldom strays.\n\nThe same is true of men... except... woman are less likely to see THEIR PART in it.
620156
cuz he is an insecure man,like most men are!
1120592
I don't know, why are men so confusing?
818898
Sounds like your standards are too low if you let the last few guys use you. You need some interesting, exciting hobbies to get rid of the stench of desperation.  Plus, you'll meet interesting, exciting men while you're at it.
1059657
Men need lots of things (contrary to most people saying they JUST need sex). A man needs respect. He needs to know that you value him, desire him and are attracted to him (and him only), and that you'll be there for him, loyalty. Different people share and give love different ways, some through physical touch, some need quality time, some need words to build them up, some people like getting/giving gifts, and some need acts of service (doing special things for them), and combinations of all types of love. So the complete answer is, kind of depends on the man. All people need love and respect. Men need respect more, and trust, loyalty and physicality are really important.