My momma wont let me do anything so what i plan to do is just make her mad. Should i do it?
351132
Only if you like her to open a can of whoopass on you
297862
first of all shes ur mom.. how long can she b angry with u. things wil cool down soon.. give her a good hug.. she wil surely calm down..say ur sorry.. even if ur not wrong.. it doesnt hurt to say sorry.. does it!!??
1176816
Your mom is trying to look out for your best interest.When you are older you might appreciate that more.Perhaps you could take your anger out in other ways such as drawing,singing,or taking up a sport in school.It may be a good idea to see some professional help b/c your anger remedies right now can do a lot of harm to you1Good luck and I hope things work out for you!
502922
You can do nothing from this point.  You have acted maturely enough if you honestly have asked her why she was acting this way.  \nSometimes it's best to address what is on you mind regardless of what reaction might be solicited.\nNow go about your business and no matter what she will not be able to deny you have both given her the opportunity to explain her hostility towards you.  \nShe will lash out a little more, but eventually, I believe, she will want to join your friendship and not stew over it.\nShe is still a mom and you are a woman that threaten the very fibers of her closeness with her young.  Every species has this process in it's life cycle, humans are no different.  She'll remind you of course that her bonds with her son are stronger as this is normal.  Hostility is not nor should it be tolerated by anyone much less than a close family member.  I'd like to add that if a man can defend you against his mother he will defend you against anyone.  Tough situation but I believe you'll make it through this.  Good luck.\n\nI hope this answer just changed your life.  Peace.
401624
make sure you do it person to person and kindly tell her that you have something to tell her and she's gonna be really upset with you.and tell her people make mistakes then apoligize see how it go from there.
497237
Listen they are worried about you, you shouldnt get upset cause they care for you - I know it sometimes gets frustrating, my mom was exactly the same way - your yelling at them is not going to change things - just assure them that they should wait and see
655557
I know exactly what you are going through right now.  I had a fight with my mom on Sunday (yes, Mother's Day), and we still are not speaking.  She was wrong, but I think I've taken it too far now, and this is what I'm going to do.  \n\nTalk to her, and tell her the things that bother you as they are, no matter how hurtful it may sound.  Just tell her that before starting, so she can understand why are you being hurful.  I've found through out the years, that telling her my exact feelings, no matter what, always seems to work.  \n\nThe catch is, if she takes it the wrong way, you could have a bigger problem later.  It just depends on the kind of relationship you have with your mother, and how much do you really know her in the end, to make up your mind about what to tell her.\n\nYou say she's sick.  Well, that changes things a little bit.  If she has MS, then she must be tired most of the time.  If this is the case, get off her back and start growing up.  She has obviously raised a good child, if you are so concerned to voice your questions here, so take a look deep within you and identify the problem YOU have with her, and fix it.\n\nI hope this was helpful!  Have a great day!
697982
Tell her what you just told us.\nThat she ignored your feelings and betrayed your trust.\nTell her that you're very hurt by what she did and that she needs to respect your feelings, regardless of your age or the fact that you're "just her daughter".  You're still a human being like the rest of us.\nTell her that if she continues to betray your trust, you may end up not telling her anything at all.  No mother wants to be left out of their child's life, right?  Tell her that you want to be able to share ANYthing with her, but you feel that you can't now because of what she did.\nThis will probably make for a loooooong discussion, so make sure you're sitting down. ;)
385652
you shouldnt do anything you dont want to and no one should force you or try to.\n\n\nGood luck and God Bless!!
25072
You should do nothing.  My mother and I can work out our own problems together.
179547
Say this to yourself over and over again "It's not your fault!".  Really.  Your mom could be frustrated about so many other things and she may just be taking it out on you.  I think it would be good to ask her this straight out and she might just explain to you why instead of you getting the brunt of her anger each and every time she's frustrated.
298748
You are gonna have to record any and everything that you possibly can. If she calls your phone your gonna have to ask the poliec to tap yor phon eso that can catch that crazy b*tch. Good Luck MaMa!! Oh and if worst comes to worst, make sure taht if you do beat her a** sensless that you do it on your property b/c she shouldn't be there in the first place. Tell them that you are looking at it as self-defense on your own property!!!!!
772945
I wouldn't think so, she is just being petty.  Most parents would be happy just to have the help.  I hope it works out for you.
296656
kill her with kindness... when you act upset and she causes turmoil in your family, she is getting what she wants.  As hard as it sounds. ignore her!!
243600
No I don't, but that hasn't stopped her from sticking her nose into my business. Always listen to mom out of respect. You are an adult simply say Yes you are right or no that is just not me. Say I love you Mom thanks for the advice. And change the subject. (have one ready at all times)
323167
He is in the wrong in this situation. It is not your fault that your mom got in the middle of something an could not control her words. If he is mad at you for something as small as this then he is not worth it. Even if you do love him, he does not have the right to make you feel bad like this. just make sure that his cuz understands that it was not you. You also have to remember that you are a strong, beautiful woman and the he should be honored to even be friends with you! :)
883487
Get sam or the carrot to do it for you. maybe your crazy mother will help.