Why are guys so obsessed with sex? Can they not love and respect a woman for other qualities?
344214
I'm not a guy like that, I have a good christian girl I can share my views and beliefs with. Sex is a very sacred thing that should be saved for marriage. I believe some guys are obessed with sex because they feel that love and sex are interelated, when in all actuality sex isn't love.
371967
Being a woman, I can answer this one both through experience and by asking men down through my lifetime--A woman's GREATest sex appeal doesn't come from her body, or even necessarily her looks, it comes from within--from her confidence in everything she knows about herself, like knowing that you're intelligent, fun to be around, that you're good at something (or many things)...You can only keep a man's interest that way--otherwise, any interest they have will be very fleeting.
341223
I think that a lot of guys especially American and European men think about sex a lot but I mean in a society that embraces safe sex and sex in general I think that women are guilty of this as well.  You really have to look hard to find that guy that is interested in your personality and your life not just a vagina.  And I say "a vagina" because usually to men one is the same as the next which is why they have no respect for the female sex. Any way, Stay Blessed.
603446
they are self centered and have been brain washed into believing they are the only person on the planet who is right.\n Anwser one about why some women are picky ...get slammed by people who didn't even ask the question! I am selective & believe people should get to know someone before committing to sex..then when the "lust/burning urgre" is gone..there aren't 2 total strangers with possiblly a baby involoved..and another case of STDS in one more person.\n It's called values & class..but it's slammed by guys who can't handle rejection & honesty..\n Some dude has been sending me nasty emails because I answered honestly to that question and I am who I am..Never said anyone had to be like me !!Though I believe we'd all have happier & healthier relationships..it's just my opinion,that's all.\n They take it as a personal attack,when it's not even that !!\n I laugh when I read what he has to say..Hhhhhmmm wonder if he's that chick's brother? He can't spell either and says the weirdest things if I send him a reaponse.Well,at least he is my free entertainment & get a chuckle from him !!LOL
1049659
Why aren't girls more obsessed with it?
11969
I think in most guys it is just a want. i cant say why guys want it so much for sure cause ia mnot a guy but i would say it has to do with the point that men think sex is everything a realtionship is not always made stronger by sex so if you feel that having sex will not stronger your relationship or that you really don tlove the person then dont do it. this is a way to find out if they are in the realtionship for you or your goodies. if he tries to play the "if you love you will have sex with me" then they most likly dont love you so dont do it.\nhope this helps
971675
I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
684282
YEAH CUZ TO A GUY SEX IS SEX AND THEY LIKE IT NO MATTER WHAT BUT TO A GUY IN LOVE SEX IS WAY MORE PASSIONATE AND HE SHOULD VALUE THAT A LITTLE MORE AND YOU REALLY NEED NOT WORRY
1062089
Because they are desperate for any form of sexual interaction with any female who will oblige them.  The guys who seek this kind of interaction are most likely the ones with so little going for them that they can't find a real relationship.  Just ignore them.
886707
The same reason why guys like thin chicks instead of heavy ones. They think the sex will be better....little do they know, it doesn't  matter..sex can still be great.
227595
Can't keep up with you?\nMaybe u r being too obsessed with having sex ALL THE TIME??\nThere are many things BESIDES sex you can do to enjoy your life and fullfill your time if u have nothing else to do but sex...
369433
most men do seem to prefer sex to love, and dont hesitate to cheat (in my experience).  there are some good guys out there, who want to love, but they are VERY hard to find.
44813
Men are hardwired to crave sex almost constantly. It's encoded in their DNA and has been that way forever. It's not that they think you want sex all the time, it's just that they require it more than women do. It's a biological thing. You're going to have to learn to live with that and just be clear to your man when you aren't in the mood and he is. Just remember, it's really not something they can control.
217690
Hormones honestly some guys are just horny that doesn't necessarily make them pervs but they just can't get past the carnal desire to "do it, think about it or otherwise do things that involve it" give them time to mature or try and make a platonic relationship with a guy who already has a girlfriend but make sure it stays platonic or you a home wrecker girl
77929
Everyone says that men think about sex more, they like it more, they need it more, etc... but I've never had a lover who could keep up with me!  I think men are all talk, and the scientists doing the studies are all men and won't tell the truth, and in reality it's women who need the sex more.  Maybe men use up all of their sexual energy just thinking about it.
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Because they don't love women..They love themselves...I love women and appreciate all types,sizes, ages and personalities. There is  a secret excitement to be found underneath the surface of every woman just as every woman has different experiences to share and has her own rythm that leads her to multiple O's..Taking the time to find those things make life an exceptional adventure....
892530
I admire men who have good control over their impulses and demonstrate good charactert their strength is an attractive and admirable thing.  I think very little of women who have to resort to offering sexual favors to get what they want. Being smart, clever and respected is far more effective. (unless you are bribing your husband to take you to the ballet..that is an altogether different matter and great fun.)