Friends with Benefits....Part 3?
344243
sounds like the first logical thing you've done so far. good job, it will be hard, but just keep thinking about his responses when you want to call him
89781
I would say the 3 date get to know the person
725495
Sounds like he wants a friend with benefits.  He's probably messing around on you.
1185689
Relationship!!! Trust me i know from experience. Having a 'friend with benefits' might work for a while but eventually you start want more.
341452
No not at all, I went through this same thing a couple of years ago a male frined and I both came outta long, serious relationships about the same time and were feeling quite down and bruised by the whole thing and ended up being together alot of the time talking about it and of course one thing led to another and we eventually slept together and it just became a habit (I know that sounds awful!!) but neither of us could face another relationship at that time and we aren't into one night stands so we'd just hook up have the best laugh and then enjoy great sex before saying goodbye in the morning with no pressure it was ideal, it went on for about two yeras until we both just met people we wanted to be with and then it fizzled out but we're still the best of friends now (purely platonic!!) so it worked out fine.  The only thing I'd watch out for is that you both understand the situation if one person has feelings that the other dosen't have then it will cause problems and you shouldn't do it but if you both know it's just sex cos you have needs then go for it.  Good Luck!!
777165
i think if you can handle it right. you have to start off by trying to find a girl and immediately telling her that you just want to be friends with benefits and not even friends really is the best choice in my opinion...try to stay away and impersonal with this person however--just meet up and do stuff but nothing else that could strenthen the bond...but in my opinion, if the girl does become attached to you and you blow her off since you don´t have time and she tells everyone...then you´re pretty much screwed with a lot of girls dating you once you do have time since fwbs aren´t looked that highly on...and also, what makes "love" best in my opinion is loving the person emotionally too which i believe is hard to do unless it is one sided or the two become girlfriend/boyfriend...\nbest of luck\n:)
148223
Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
966653
First you need to figure out why no female seems to be interested in going out with you? Are you only asking a certain type of female, are you being open minded? Friends with benefits can be good but you have to be careful occassionally, one of you starts to let the heart take over and the other still just wants to be friends with benefits.
269806
By being friends with benefits, you have severely hurt your chances of have a real relationship with this person.  All you can do is end what you have now and tell them straight up that you need more and want a relationship with them, and if they can't or don't want the same then you need to move on and find someone who will love you the way you need them to.
98029
Friends with Benefits... hmmm... no exclusivity, no commitment, no getting jealous if the FWB has a serious prospect at a romantic relationship, no demands on time and emotions (you see each other when it's convenient for the both of you) and no one wrecks this arrangement becaue it will jeopardize the friendship.
1038374
It's okay as long as you don't bring up feelings and emotions. This is when I freaked out when she started saying she loved me and asking me how did I feel. When you're friends with benefits you don't expect anything, you don't want to hear none of that moo-shy woo-shy stuff!
568494
yes, you can, i am actually in the process of doin that now. We're doin real good, but plz know things will not be the same. That mainly depends on who cut it off and why. I went back to my ex, my friend was a rebound but i grew to really care for him, so i didnt want to throw that away. But in time it will fade or yall will go back to having sex. You will eventually grow apart because most men dont want to be friends with a girl that they wanna do and she says no. Think hard about and i hope the make the decision thats right for you, for me it was to go and i havent looked back, buh bye
20887
Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
776316
She obviously didn't want to be just friends since she tried to sleep with you.  She only said that because your saying no sex until marriage.  She obviously cant go until marriage before she has sex again.  I would assume she's hoping you will change your mind.
836627
Thank you for your maturity on this subject.\nYour wants are describing the "FRIENDS" part of FTF.. There is nothing wrong with actually being friends.\n- a little communication never hurt anyone; be honest and just tell him.\nYou simply want to move from your concept of one night stand to friendship with benefits.. He's probably already in tune with that.\n- good luck
170408
It's possible...anything is but it doesn't happen often. It seems one is always cultivating the relationship in hopes of at least one episode of pity sex. Not that its always the case, just that it gives rise to other issues. It takes two very dumb or two very smart members of the oposite sex to really just be friends.
1116197
lets see\n  1.do you mind putting it in my butt\n  2.can we have a 3some with my friend\n  3.do you mind if i swallow\n    i love questions ask away