ok every 1 is always asking me why i am going out with my bf, and it's really annoying. my friends do that too
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Tell them to worry about them selves you live your life not to please others do they feed you are pay your bill's.\n\nThere's a saying when someone talks about you all they doing is giving someone else a break.
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hey u guyz r in a relstionship nd u have gotts face dis evryone does...i did too...dey may b pure jealous...or d mayb ur really good frend who wanna warn u ...so if it like ur best frend or somethin...just tok to him/her abt it nd ask dem why dey r actin dat way...butif not...man just be happy in ur relationship nd dont bodr abt oder plp...dey kome abt later so dont worrrry be happy....
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I assume you've started dating recently, because I only texted my bf back when we were starting out. It wasn't coz I didnt like him, but it's just the way I do things. Some people need more time to get used to others and are too shy to begin a convo with their partner. Maybe he's like that too. Just give him time. If you've been together for a long time and you feel he has changed you need to confront him.
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Some guy feel the need to act like that in front of other people. Ask him if he could try to include you more next time your around other people. If there's another date request a private one, were he won't have anyone else to act up for.
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let them think what they want - and you should do the same - be your own person and do what ever the hell you want to do. if the guy you do end up going out with is a good-guy he should stick up for you and defend your honour (excuse the clich'es). basicly you need to not care what others think, feel, or do. you are in it for yourself so you are the only person you should be worrying about.
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ur friend might be absolutely right.they all might be really jealous of u.so don't worry abt people esp those who don't even know u.\ninfact don't worry abt anyone.as long as u r right and as long as u know that u've done nothing wrong don't worry at all.just be urself and talk to those who talk to u properly.be nice to everyone and never put ur head down.if the peoblem persists then just go to ur bf and ask him on his face the reason why he's doing all this.and if he doesn't give any reason then just tell him what u think of him for doing such things and tell him that he's been doing cheap things and all these things don't bother u at all.\n\nmake him feel like a fool.tell him that by doing this he is ruining his own dignity and not urs and tell this to everyone.\nso when u say something like this they'll definitely know that u r quite strong and they'll stop doing such things slowly.\n\nand if u don't want to do all this stuff,then just keep saying this word to urself when anyone says anything to u or whenever u remember anything they say"AKUNAMATATA"=no worries.\nmake it a habit.\n\nTRUST ME IT WORKS.\n\nhope i was of some help to u .all the best.i'm there for u always.\ngood luck.\ncontact me if u have further trouble.
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2 me it seems like HE wants to be the bf of urs and nobody else. Thats why he always make u spend time with him when u r in a relationship, because he thinks it should be you and him or JSUT you. and thats also why he tlks about other girls, because he thinks that if he does you'll get so jelous of wanting to b the one he's tlking about that it'll FORCE you to go out with him. thats never happened to me so irdk but thats wut i think.\nHOpe things get better,\nAlex
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I know exactly how you feel. My bf thinks I'm looking, I'm not. I just find the people watching is relaxing, that's all! I told my bf that he should know that if I wanted another boy, I'd be gone, but I'm with him and I really enjoy his company. I don't know how to make your gf realize that this is a pastime you like to do, but all I can say is reassurance is always the key. So Watch On!
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I think its because they think they already have you. They dont feel that they have to work to get you excited.  But if it bothers you that much i think you should talk to your man and let him know that you dont just wanna jump in to F**k-ing.  Let him know you exactly what you would like him to do.
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I guess she's just worried that you stop being close if you find a boyfriend? Talk to her, find out what her problem is and make her understand that no one is ever going to come between you two.
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These types of questions make me angry, lol.  Just teasing.  What makes me angry, is when my bf gets way to possessive, and asks me to tell him in detail what I was doing.  Grr that makes me so mad because we are both 2 close 2 each other for that type of insecurity
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He's probibly just feeling very insecure and wants to make sure that you know that he values your opinion. \nIt may seem annoying, but it'd be even more annoying if he just went off and did something and you had no idea where he was, or you had something planned.\nAt least he's keeping you in mind when he's going to do something, instead of not.
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When you break up with a bf they take his side and want to be with him instead of you!!!
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you'd better say to your bf instead of his friend, if he wants to be alone with u as well he'll arrange a special time 4 u !
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The reason they do it is that they expect a strong reaction from you, even a denial, so they can have cheap fun. So, if you just say "So what?" to whoever brings it up, it would probably make them lose interest, and leave you alone. Be more careful in your choice of friends.
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You can't go out because:\n\n1) Because you let your boyfriend tell you you can't.\n2) Because your boyfriend is an ass.\n3) Because you haven't dumped him.\n\nThat pretty much sums it up.\n\nI'm not saying the ideal couple never spends time together or doesn't care where the other goes, but he's gone way overboard.
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We are all friends here on Yahoo answers. As long as you don't ask them stupid questions like some people do just because they are bored for example " Do you want to go out with me" so pointless lol.