Should i get into a r'ship with a guy 7yrs younger & whose ex works with both od us?
350905
No cause if it doesn't work out you might want to start a i hate this guy club plus too much drama at work
796589
If you like him enough I think you would know the answer....be with him, even if it is for a short amount of time--- your with him---.....Now if you think your better admiring from afar do so. Now if its  because you are afraid of having more bad labels on your  rep. get over it...its rumors, not true, made up and in 7 months it WONT matter. It just depends on where y our heart is!
727844
Very tough situation, I have a few question before I can answer clearly your question. Has the company that you two are involved in currently in operation and generating revenue? Have you completely explain your feelings for her?  Most men do not speak clearly to women when explaining things like this? Ages of you and her? Education of both? I know this sounds very trivial, but this information will help give you good advise to move forward.\nFYI- Been there, done that.
274798
I would go for it if you dont have any ties to your ex.  If your completly over him, and your ex's bf understands what hes getting into, then go for it.\n\nYou shouldnt not be happy because your concerned about what your ex think.
602676
As long as both are underage, it's perfectly fine.\nI wouldn't personally advise it, though...
613497
the answer to your question is probably the toughest thing to do. confession and just asking him. if the two realli like each other, than age shouldn't be a reason to not see/date each ohter.
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
330143
i dont think it would hurt anything if you were to go see him, but be careful he may think that you are trying to rub your success in his face and get really upset with you.  But if it were me and if it werent for my kids, i would have nothing at all to do with my ex.  Do what you feel is right for you
112001
Neither, keep dating! You're only 24, you've got time!\nYou don't have to settle... If one doesn't call you, check! he's out. If the other doesn't inspire you, check! He's out. Find someone who has what you want.
176304
hav u communicated properly all the points with him? may be he hav some another idea of growth for both of u. u should talk to him keeping all if's n but's apart.
519671
If you are legal age (you didn't mention your age) then dating him is no big deal if you are both interested in one another.  If there is a huge age difference between you both you might keep in mind that your relationship with him might not be long term, as you might not have much in common.  However, as long as you are of legal age then go for it - who's to stop you.
1139188
Ask yourself who is more important to you at this point in your life. Your age is not real important, but I would say that you are a younger girl, and therefore you need to ask yourself what your gut instinct is telling you. If you ask the guy out of he asks you, you are certain to loose a friend. Will the guy still be with you 1, 2, 3 years down the road? Will your friend still be your friend the same amount of time down the road if you and he are not together? Your heart and you feelings will cloud this issue. Don't follow it, follow your gut instincts, as they will lead you to a better and safer place in life.
561546
NO, don't be friends with the ex. ESPECIALLY if he's being an a*ss
215151
Sometimes its not a good idea to get into a work relationship because if it ends in a bad break up then you still have to face each other every day.  But if you two are both mature then I think it would be okay.
759077
You and the ex need to set your issues aside and discuss how you are going to raise the son, putting his best interests first. He is playing you both, that's what kids do, even in homes with both parents. You have to decide on a course of action and stick with it, consistency is one of the most difficult things but shows the child you both mean business. Let your ex know that you're interested in his help, but he needs to stick to the plan. You need to support one another in this. I hope you are able to do this, or the son will continue to go back and forth until he's on his own. It won't create a stability within him - be responsible, not emotional and talk w/the ex. Hope it works out. You can do it!
835175
Been there!!! Whew!! Talk to the lawyer who set it all up! Usually your ex would be right. Are you two talking it all out nicely? My ex and I switch off every other year now. Works out better when You get used to it. Or we do 1/2 and 1/2 when he or I are working or something comes up. So many ways to have your kids share both lives with you 2 that is all that counts.
74160
Wait til you get older and if you both STILL feel the same way then go for it! No illegal stuff missy!