what do i do if i am crazy in love with my best friend?
343085
No!!! Do NOT be a boyfriend stealer!! No, no, no! Bad girl! Find your own guy. Be a true friend and just walk away from that right now!
770115
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
991170
Hi man. I had a story like this some months ago. I couldn't do nothing, because I didn't want to ruin their love for each other. I just waited, and after three  months they broke up. And she understood that I loved her, and really liked it. I think you should just wait.Maybe you should make activities with other friends, that can help you not to think about your friend.\n    I really think that you'll win her heart.
1183545
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
127172
There is always a risk in this situation and only you can decide if it is worth it.  One way to get a hint about your best friends feelings might be to joke with them about the idea or claim you heard someone talking who thought you two were together.  Maybe what they say from there will open up a dialog that will give you a chance to figure things out.
657280
wow that's a tough one, i personally think she should b off limits, that's a real low thing 2 do your friend, especially your best friend, i think i would flip if that were 2 happen 2 me, i would never talk 2 either of u, but i guess if u both feel 4 eachother than u have 2 follw your heart, love is very powerful, think very hard b4 u make your decision, is she worth losing your best friend, there's a reason y u guys r best friends, that's because he can trust u, that's y he see's u as a brother, follow your heart man, it will lead u in the right direction.
665503
If you really like him..than explain the situation to your bestfriend..she might be upset..but its better than lieing to her and than finding out..
186277
stay with this crazy friend of yours and dont let him do anything stupid, and tell him i said to get over it, move on and find someone better.  Think of it this way, if she was all he had, he has nowhere to go but up.
540348
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
205508
stop thinking this ............you will loos eyour best friend as well as the girl friend .........keep your emotion for time being withing and wenever they broke off ......propose her
477360
Make him understand that you do not love him. Try to avoid him all the time. He will not be around you to be insulted. You have to break up your relationship with your best friend if you are not ready to take him as your life partner. Because things will never be the same again. But I would like to suggest you to take him as he wants. he will be able to make you happy as he is your best friend.
59299
these things have a way of working out. trust me. Its possible to still be best friends with everyone and still be attracted to one of them. Your other friend is just going to have to accept that PEOPLE fall in love with each other especially if they r close. That means if she is your really your friend u r going to have to tell her what's happening she deserves it. maybe you're going to have to make some "rules" for all this to happen. just remember theres nothing wrong with love
1157610
It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
213658
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck
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put it this way, you amy be in love with him alas he not with you..\nThe fact that you do not bat for the same team should help your decision!\nHe is your best mate...\nIs it really worth it to have a go and ruin the friendship forever???\nI suggest you go and have alot of random sex and get him off your mind..\nfriendship are forever
63475
im in a position like that.\nits really hard\nspecially when you think (you can see) she (he) loves you too, but both of you cant talk about it at all!\n\ni think its on you, if you can eliminate the distance, then tell that person, what you feel,\nand tell her (him) what are you going to do!