What to do if you boyfriend who is your childs father doesn't calls you.while he is out of town?
348240
If you are concerned try calling him.
625247
If they don't have any kids together, then there is no reason for her to be calling him at all times of the night.  The next time she calls him, you need to let her know that it's unacceptable for her to call him at night and that she needs to call her man, not yours.  You need to let your man know how you feel about that, too.
895134
Right now there is so way to find him. If you misses his child support, you can get the police involved.\n\nOther than that there is no way other than to call around to his family and friends.
715320
Give him the time with his friends. Sometimes I need time away and just want to go out with my girls. But he should answer his phone when you call. Or at least check in with you.
85653
You need to decide if your in this relationship for the long haul.  If you are then his kid is a major part of his life and should be in yours.  While I know you can't be on call all the time you can help him make arrangements for getting around.  He is also going to have to adjust his life for a few months and realize that there may be times when he simply can't be some where.  However, he should always be there for his kid and if your committed to this relationship so should you.
466948
I don't think so because you don't know what, or who that person is doing while he's out of town. If you want him to be faithful, i think u should stick with someone close by.
726872
Just let the relationship between you and him unfold naturally.  In due time you will know if you want to call him Dad or not.  It wouldnt be disrespectful if you never call him Dad considering he wasnt there for you all this time.  Just play it by ear and listen to your heart......you will know when and if you want to do this, but i am glad the two of you are working on a relationship
334252
Try sitting down with him and calmly (and nicely) talking with him about it in explanation. I suppose that you have just recently moved out of his home and he misses you - is that right?\n\nWell, it's only natural, I suppose. I can imagine that if I were a father - especially the father of a lovely lady - that I would be ridiculously "clingy" and not want her out there running around all by herself. What would happen if she came across a bottle of ketchup that she couldn't pry open on her own? My God, how could she eat hamburgers then?!\n\nBut seriously, he is probably very worried about you being off on your own. Keep in mind that this is a new experience for him, too!\n\nSo, talk with him, and explain your situation and what you can and cannot do. I am sure that he will understand (though he is bound to be a bit sad, but that's only normal). To make him feel better, just visit him every now and then, but make your visits memorable and fun. Bring him a pie; I don't know of any fellow who would turn that down. :D\n\nBest of luck!
766647
just relax. dont call him tonitte. make him think you are busy yourself..even if u arent.
822559
yeah leave it - let him see them if he wants its up to him.  When they grow up the main thing is you never stopped them seeing their Dad and they'll know it was him thats wasn't bothered.  get some money out of him though he should be paying child maintenence.
1009863
Just let him talk to his dad on the phone about anything. There's not much you can do. Tell him daddy's at work for a little while. You're not lieing, he does have to work to get some money to come back. Oh, and did you ever think that your husband is lieing to you? Ya'll are having problems and he did leave before, have you thought that maybe he isn't comming back? You have to face reality, he might have found someone else. I know that's not something you're ready to think about, with a son and a child on the way, but some men are azzholes. It might be hard, but you have to do what is best for your children. A: You can sit at home all day and you and your child do nothing to move on with you life waiting on your man. or B: You can get up and do something. I know you're pregnat so maybe right now you're not able to get a job, but you can still take you son to the park, or swiming, or any activity. Something to keep his mind off his daddy gone for so long. And if your husband does come back, then everythings great, if he doesn't come back, then you've already started on taking his mind off of his dad, and you have built a good relationship with your child. And remember, what ever you're feeling with your emotions you're unborn baby can feel them too.
260996
just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
1075647
ask your mama what your daddy's name was, then try to contact him.
396411
I know how you feel.  My son chose to stay with his dad after my divorce.  I have our daughter.  The distance is near 1000 miles so, I am not able to see him much.  I do call him every weekend and see him at least 4 times a year.  It is still not enough and I am frustrated since I am unable to do anything about this.  (Work, money, ect...)  My son knows that I love and miss him so much.  It hurts.
21837
My boyfriend is out of town!
429786
start by not following him everywhere.if they ask you before goin out if you wanna tag along just say no thanks and don't call to check in on him
641569
talk with him and hang out with him. I mean if you have his phone number trying calling at 8pm and talk for an hour. if he is busy, you can hear what kind of reason he is giving. Mainily "oh i got another phone call, can i call you back or talk later" just do this for a few nights. If he keep stoping the talk at 9pm every night, then he has a girl that he is calling or the girl is calling him.