why wont my boyfriend talk to me now that he has given me chlamydia? does he think that i gave it to him?
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If he gave you the clap he can't be taking your relationship very seriously because he is obviously cheating on you.  I would confront him about it...ask how he got it, why he didn't tell you before you had sex and why is he avoiding you.  It's not your fault that he gave you a STD and if he can't "man up" and be honest with you, then you're better off without him.
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If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
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hi dear\n\nmen's thinkings are distinguish from ladies', so men could not understand women's behaviours sometimes. see what the different behaviours bewteen male and female, which earily identisify that male would like to proposition with some hot females...that means the actraction is always sex. however for female, they usually think about love for ever. \n\non the other hand, you think that your boyfriend does not care of you and does not reply on time, maybe he is enjoying your messages, too happy to reply on time.\n\nin someone's opinions, men don't reply your message on time. perhaps he is busy sending message to other girls. that is my experiences from my friends. i do believe that male is a kind of animals like that,because male animals often have more than two female partners in order to show more powerful they are. however you don't feel bad if your boyfriend has not replied you on time... the foundation of love is that lovers believe each other. actually love is simple like that partner kiss each other.\n\nabove all, only one piont is that you should tell your boyfriend his reply is how valuable for you in order to mention him to respect your love for him. hopefully my suggetions can help you for this situation. good luck. \n\nbest wishes
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wow! about the same exact thing you did i did with my boy. we went out for like 8 months without having sex things were bad so i had sex with him thinking it would make it better. it did at first. he talks to other girls but i cant talk to other guys without him getting pissed.. everyone just tells me itll take time...and really thats all you can do. try to keep yourself busy and you wont think about it so much and put away pictures and things that remind you of him.
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He's flat out plain using you. And don't expect him to tell you when hes sleeping with other women. You need to be tested for HIV by the way.\n\n\nJeez women are dumb.
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Parkfield, I'm talking to you from the guy's perspectives. The first and the greatest sign is that he deliberately won't like to communicate with you anymore - in all ramifications of the word. Then, you need to act fast if you want to have him back to yourself. Cheers!!!
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It is admirable that you told your boyfriend and also apologised.\nWhat you should do is to give him time and see what happens\nSeriously i think that you are a very brave girl\nGood luck
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Yes, you did the best thing.  You were honest with him about what you wanted in your relationship with him, and I won't give you the unprotected sex speech, and he didn't want to commit to you because he was already seeing someone else (and still having unprotected sex with you), which is why all of your apology attempts didn't matter.  I'm unsure why you were apologizing since you didn't do anything wrong but ask for a monogomous relationship.  You're better off without him and the fact that you wished him well just shows that you're taking the high road.  I highly doubt that this current relationship will last very long, but if nothing else, please protect yourself in the future!
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Most people don't have symptoms of Chlamydia, especially men.  I would not worry--it is possible.  You know  your husband, so you will know the answer.
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hey baby gurl i know exactly what you are going through inch by inch! you need to look in your heart and see all the good and all the bad he has done for you. once you got that itz like a epsiod of jeperdoy and the facts take it from there if you want to talk email me at ugot_me69@yahoo.com talk to someone who knows where your comming from
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Maybe he has erectile dysfunction and doesn't feel like he can talk to you about it.  Maybe it is a similar issue, why do Women always jump the gun, unless you want it to be over and in that case why would you ask us (Yahoo people).  If you are ready to move then don't try and find every little 'bad' thing about your man, just do it.
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Sometimes the idea of loving a person is better than the reality of them.  I am not saying that this is anything against you, but perhaps he was more in love with the idea of you.  If he no longer has these feeings for you, and refuses to talk, then I'd say it's time to move on.  I hope he isn't a creep determined to pass STDs along to every girl he can.  If it's been four days, and he hasn't talked to you, then he lacks the respect to end things the right way.  It's being a coward.  As for why you are doing this to yourself?  Can't sleep?  Well, you were duped.  No shame in that, it's not your fault.  It can take a long time to get over a love.  Hang in there. Try your best to get some sleep.  When you are sleep deprived, you can not think correctly.
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You'd have to...It will eventually come out if you plan to stay with this person. It is always best to be honest. If he/she leaves you because of the STD, then so be it, but at least you were honest so that he/she doesn't go out infecting others because of your silence.
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get tested immediately- know that you could have had it way before him. Symptoms aren't obvious and they don't always show.  I have heard that 80% of women carry the virus nowadays, so there is no  way to track it to one partner.  Protect yourself!
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I'm really sorry but you probably should not have had sex with him - and if its going nowhere now it probably means he was just into the sex.  Take is as a lesson learned and move on!
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If you guys haven't been together that long then probably. Men also tend to say things because they  sound good. There is really no telling in this situtation. And another thing, sorry to say it, he could just want sex, and feels he will get it if he says he loves you.
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You are smart. Make sure he is tested for Hepatitis, not just HIV. I would request HSV and VDRL serologies also. These would rule out syphillis and herpes. Repeat these in 3 and 6 months after as well and use condoms.\n\nConsider his willingness to do the testing and allay your fears as a sign that he is committed to the relationship and respects you.