I really need some help because i am a very shy person and lots of problems when it comes to talking to girls?
352542
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
315699
build up your conferdence, and play it out . just practice how you want to start a conversation. she may be shy too.
941674
Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
834662
hi there...  For what you wrote i think you could make a woman very very happy... and i actually believe that besides being shy, you got everything to have lots of dates. Try "indirect meeting" some of your friends might know someone you like, ask them to introduce her to you.. once you are in front of her, remember my words... with your personality you have success almost totally assured...  Try talking about something you might have in common. Do NOT try to show her what you are, let her discover it. in a few minutes, the conversation will continue by itself....\n "Emotional, supportive guy" are very appreciated qualities. Find someone that deserves you. if you fail once or twice (or more times) dont give up, there's always somebody special.
581908
You get over your shyness by, if necessary, making yourself talk to someone. I know it's not easy. I'm shy too. But I MAKE myself talk to people and when conversation is started, then the next logical step is dating. Smile, and be friendly to men where you go....grocery store, gas station, post office, etc. There are a lot of good, decent guys out there, and one of them is waiting for a nice Lady like you. Good Luck!
1178197
I assume you are pretty young.\n\nFirst, don't worry about being shy with girls.  Stay friends with the one you mention but don't feel that has to be a romantic relationship.  That friendship should help you overcome your shyness, and--if her status changes later on--you might be in a good position to build a more romantic relationship.\n\nDon't worry about the one that blew you off.\n\nMany girls are shy with guys.  There isn't that much to either guys or girls to be shy about.  Friendship can always work.  Don't ask for more unless you're sure.
937481
Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
902852
Some of the greatest pleasures in life take time, your still young and have much to learn in that area and being shy doesn't help.   In time you will feel more confident with your self, right now just observe, very useful task.  You are right for some reason alot of girls like the bad boys, but remember they usually don't last, you want something lasting so just hang in there and I'm sure you will find a beautiful girl, the one you were waiting patiently for..you sound like a great catch.  Don't worry.  ;-)
73746
Hi there,\n\nHere are a couple of websites that give you some tips on how to overcome shyness: \n\nhttp://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/shyness/index.asp\nhttp://www.shakeyourshyness.com/
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
1086810
Learn to break out of your shell! It's hard, but start small.  Start by smiling at people that you walk by or encounter.  Then try by saying hi when you pass by others.  It takes practice! People tend to be attracted to people who are smiling and seem outgoing even if they are shy by nature.  You will look more approachable that way rather than if you just ducked your head and kept walking. \n\nWhen you get used to being friendly with people try it on a girl you like.  Smiling is always important because it shows you're happy and confident.  Also, if you feel like you're not talkative, try coming up with conversation topics before you approach someone.  That way if the girl happens to be shy you have something to say so it doesn't feel awkward or anything.  Good luck!
446703
STOP BEING SHY!\nThe fear of doing it is greater than actually doing it.\n\nThe next time you see her just ask her if you could take her out for lunch sometime.\n\nDon't listen to the girl above me.\nIf you're attracted to someone you can make the first move...doesn't matter if you're female or not. If you sit around waiting for someone to come to you it's probably not going to happen. \n\nWomen today aren't afraid to do what needs to be done to move forward, doesn't matter if it's their "duty" or not. \n\nAnyway, back to my orignial advice:\nJust ask her! That's the only way you'll know for sure.
476510
Keep trying man, but don't push things, just try to talk to here in the more relaxed way possible, like you didn't care about her, and pay attention to what she says, then you could discover what she likes and then start talking about what she likes. This should help you, it it doesn't, move on, there are always other girls.
303187
I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.
427905
If you aren't that comforatble around girls, get with a shy one so it can seem like you are more brave... =) But if you want to break out of your shell, get with a girl that isn't shy and will always have something to talk about, so you wont have to think about what to talk about.Don't try to get a GF rite now, you should talk to a lot of good girls and get comfortable first, then get a GF.
97553
The only thing wrong is that you are very shy and have not found a way to work around the problem. My advice would be to use your hobbies and interests to help you find someone that has things in common with you. Join groups or teams or go places that have to do with your hobbies and interests. The people that you will find in the groups or on the teams will have the same thing in common with you and it will give you something to talk about. Once you have broken the ice it will be easier to continue the conversation. I strongly believe that you don't "Find" love, that it will find you, but it never hurts to put yourself in a place where it will have a chance to find you. By joining groups or going to places that you have an interest in, you are automatically placing yourself with people that have the same interests as yourself and giving you something to open a conversation with that you will feel confident talking about, which will help with your shyness. Good Luck!! =-)