Can you be in love with someone and never be with them?  and when will I stop thinking about him?
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luv isnt the name to have someone, its the name of sacrifice urself for someone special. + u dont have to stop thinkin abt the guy, let him know wat u feel abt him. b confident, dont loose the chance bcoz u never gonna get that in ur life again. get up gal & tell him ;)\ncheers
1126569
Short answer:  If you're asking that question, you're not in love.\n\nLonger answer:  True love is a choice you must make every day (perhaps many times a day.)  If you were just following your desires from the start, you probably never really loved them in the first place.  BUT, that doesn't mean you can't!  You have the power to love or not to love, but it's like a freight train:  It starts slowly, but once in motion, can NOT be just stopped.\n\nSo, you have a couple questions to ask of yourself:  1.  Are you going to actively love, or allow yourself to be dragged to and fro by your desires?  and  2.  It this person the one you are going to love?
45854
Yes it is possible to love someone that you meet and see only once...this feeling is within your heart.. maybe your attracted to that person and you will never forget her..try to keep the feeling inside and someday maybe it will come true...
475205
im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
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Well, *I* can't. I gotta be around them and smell their smells and  see their body language. Love for me is a thing that happens after a few weeks of getting to know who they REALLY are.. live and in person. You can certainly like someone a lot and form an attachment. I just met too many strange people online and over the phone.. to "fall in love" based on a good conversation.
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I think that the feeling is that you can't stop thinking about him and whenever you hear his name, you get jittery.  I am in love with someone, and that is how I feel.  I think about him 24/7, and I dream about him at night.  He fills my thoughts, and everything I do includes him, at least in my mind.\n\nThe real test to see if you love someone is to imagine being married to them, living your entire life with them, having kids with them, loving them when they're "unlovable" so to speak--bad hair day, grumpy, bad mood, etc.\n\nThat's how I think love is supposed to be.  I am a Christian, so my thoughts are not of sleeping with the person or "making out" or whatever, but some people have different opinions of love, and as a Christian, I will be open to hear other people's opinions.  Being a strong Christian, I tend to sometimes be aggressive against things that I don't believe (like when I hear people on here talk about sex), but I'm trying to be less aggressive, and a little more open-minded to those who have different opinions than me.\n\nHope that helps!
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I dont think anyone knows they are really in love unless they are togther for years. When your in love almost nothing will make you leave that special someone. Those who brake up and hate each other can't really consider themselves use to be in love. If u think ure in love then u think that u could be with that person for the rest of your life
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it takes time because it always seem you can never forget but if you are in love you will look over it.good luck and remember you need time to get over the hurt!
281254
you can't fall in love and already be in love with someone.  You aren't in love if you are having feelings for someone else.
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If you are selfless in the relationship...if youre wanting and dreaming of a life with him...if youre going throughout your day with him before your eyes and ever present in your heart and mind...its real....even if he's not on the same page as you are.  Infatuation is temporary and that person doesnt occupy your thoughts nearly as much.  My humble opinion.\nPeace.
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This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..
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Love IS obsession, and infatuation and so many more synonyms based around addiction.\nDo you:\nMiss sig other all the time?\nEven when with them?\nNever want them to leave?\n\nCould you be with them forever and no-one else?\nAre you terrifed of something happening to them?\nIf they were terribly mutilated in an accident would you \nstill need to be with them?\nWould you marry them tomorrow?\nIs your happiness entirely dependant on theirs?\nAre you prepared to die for them?\n\nEvaluate your feelings with worst-case scenarios.  If you stand by them maybe you do love them.  It's possible to love someone you're not with, but that's not always a good thing...
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THERE IS NOTHING LIKE IST LOVE OR LAST LOVE.EITHER U R IN LOVE OR U R NOT.THE PERSON WHO U ARE IN LOVE WITH IS ALWAYS WID U.HE OR SHE MAY B WITH IN REALITY OR IN THOUGHTS OR FOR THAT MATTER IN SUB CONCIOUS MIND.IF U FORGET A PERSON U CLAIM TO B IN LOVE THEN BELIEVE ME U NEVER LOVED THAT PERSON.
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i'm in love.... to me it means he's the ONE person i can not live with out. i think of him more times in one day than i think of myself. when i think of him, i think of him with my heart and soul, not my mind. he's the one person i will always want to be with. i will always be there for him, and i'd gladly die for him. that's what it means... to me.
1032761
The infatuation is over. It was just a fling for you or else you would still have feelings for him. Just end it before things get worse. He might love you. you don't want to end up hurting him permanently do you?
665228
It's only natural to have feeling for someone you cared deeply about...sometimes you have feelings for them the rest of your life. That doesn't mean you want to be with them though. Move on...I'm sure he is.
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Dude if you don't know then you don't love him\nlove is a special and very strong emotion ..you will know when your in love trust me ... you will kill for this person