I'm hot,sexy,smart,and I have a good personality,but why can't I have the guy I want?
349662
well move on and look for another guy.
192304
You just cant You fall in love with people for different reasons, I know that looks are what people first see but you fall in love more with the personality if you really think about it. I have dated Some hot men but they are all jerks and have bad personalities as i got older for me just looks weren't enough i want to be treated with respect i tired to find both but there is NO SUCH THING so you find someone that looks OK but the personalty is the key
911629
There are plenty of good looking people in the world who have good personalities as well...these are the people I seek....
367848
It's hard to explain in my personal preference.  You could have a supermodel and an "average" woman, and I may choose the latter.  Looks aren't everything, but they are somewhat involved, I'm not going to lie.  Other than that, I look for a fun personality, capability to have a good conversation (serious or otherwise), attitude, and a sense of humility.  But some other guys are just in it for the looks...sad, as it may be less fulfilling.
164721
I don't understand women either....I can't deny that physical attraction is very important, but I just want a girl who can be honest with me in all situations and willing to communicate.
189874
Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.
98126
sounds like you just haven't found the one  your looking for yet cause when you do you won't want anyone else..if you get bored with one man and move on to another theres nothing wrong with you..its good to shop around and compare before you settle down...when you find that special someone that you care about you'll no it..till then just have fun and be happy
356545
It sounds like you are a really sweet, sensitive girl -- in other words beautiful.   And yes, beauty is everything.  Alright, so you are pleasant to look at.  I know from experience that is a plus when attracting the opposite sex.  There is nothing wrong with being shy, either.  There is a lot out there to be afraid of, it is good to listen to your instincts they will protect you.\n\nJust do me a favor, be a little picky with the guys you will date (you can afford to be).  Don't go for rich, as they will treat you like another possession.  Don't go for beautiful, as you will always be another conquest.  Don't go for arrogant, in a decade all of your peers who did that will either be single moms or bitter women.  Go for the guys who want to get to know you and for whom the physical is a nice bonus.
641697
You sound like a great guy to me! We can appreciate a good man but the problem is we may not have good men around us, so unless you live anywhere around any of us we will still go around saying that we can't find a good man.
32010
You need to be pickier than you have been and maybe there is something, that even though you're good looking, that isn't working.  Could you be conceited, arrogant, too accessible,  Think about your personality and what is important to you.
358143
I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
602649
Haha, that made me laugh. Well you have to go through a lot of wrong guys to find the right one. Trust me, you'll find him but it takes sometime. Just be yourself and you'll find one eventually.
186106
just be yourself, achieve what you want while you can. you will have someone soon enough, i mean you're already turning me on!
632611
No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.
314214
We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
1184735
be patient! keep waiting and the right one will come! giving your figures wont let others determine if you are a beautiful person. as long as you think you are, thats all that matters and that should give you the right amount of confidence to get the guy you want! just don't settle. be the best you can! good luck and keep staying fit (that is a +)!!!
440029
Maybe because you're beauty, more guys are getting attracted to you. This will definately attact the Jack---es, where as before you had men interested in true love. No, I'm not telling you to get ugly, just that the guy will be harder to find, and will have to love you for you, and you'll have to love him for him. Maybe you're biting on looks too when you look for a guy, then find out his personality is not so good. Can't tell with the amount of info, but keep trying!!!