Help! Crush/Friend problems!!!?
349704
I've been in that position...many times.You can't dwell on your situation too long because when a guy comes a long who really likes you ,you may miss him.You don't want to miss him do you??????Even if nobody likes you for a while its just a phase.please believe me.I have a wonderful bf who when I met him I was liking another guy.
638302
Go for it.Your friend didnt want him.She is just jealous.Go have fun and tell your friend that you like the guy if she cant accept it tell to back off its your life.
1086752
You should probably have a talk with her, your friend.  Tell her that you guys are friends and that she means the world to you.  Be as gentle as you can in telling her that you just don't feel that way towards her right now.  If it's meant to be, then it will.  If you like this girl Summer, then by all means ask her out.  Just don't parade her in front of your friend, that will pour salt on the wound.
641385
Sorry to burst your bubble, but if he has a (what I assume you are saying) crush on someone else, he probably doesn't like you. He might just be being nice because he sees you as a great friend and nothing more. Don't give up hope though - try to win him back. Flirt, smile a lot...hopefully things will improve from there. GL
927478
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
978675
Since it is no longer an issue, consider it a crush and move on.  Keep it to yourself.
822658
eeew i hate that!  tell her to back off (but b careful cuz she might tell your bff that your jealous or something) or go to like a school counselor. i know it sounds weird but they can kinda give u better advice then we can
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
465000
Your doing the right thing.  Your crush is in a relationship and ultimately is not going to be around any more.  For your sake and hers, you need to continue to just ignore her and your feelings for her.  Focus on your own life and relationships.  Ultimately time will make things easier.  Right now your just wasting your life away making it harder on yourself and your relationships by letting this be anything more than a crush.
1130210
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
297705
stay quiet. or take the chance of losing a friend over a guy. it is your choice!
718882
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)
342443
No boy is worth messing up a friendship especially if she is your best friend.  Trust me, BEEN THERE- DONE THAT!. I dove in on one of my friend's bf's once and she hated me for 2 years in high school.  Then she finally forgave me.  We hated each other during two proms and a Senior Trip.  It was not worth it.  Instead...why don't you wait and see what happens with them...chances are it won't last long.  School romances rarely do anyway.  Then after they go their separate ways, like probably in a week or two....then try your luck.  Trust me...don't move in on your friends crush.
686998
Okay, you like him, and you don't just like him........you LOVE him, and deep down inside, you feel REALLY upset that he likes your best friend, even though they go together, you still want him, but I guess only patience is your only option, I'm going through the same thing- except I don't know if my crush likes my best friend, I don't think he does either. But yeah, only time will tell. Hope this helps.
581798
You should just be honest with her and tell her how you really feel about her feelings for you.If she is really your friend,then she will back away.If she doesn't,then drop her for someone who really cares about your feelings,not just theirs.Also,No you are NOT prejudice. Be Blessed!  Monica
892765
okay, there is this guy who likes me, but he makes fun of me calls me bad things, and tells his friends he likes me. I think he doesn't know how to tell you but, HE  HAS A CRUSH!!!
130713
Well it depends, does your friend know you have a crush on that guy? If she does, that's fucked up what she's doing. Well if she doesn't know then tell her and tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with him. Also ask her if she likes him. If she does, don't ever let a guy come in between you and your friend,cuz friendship is more valuable than a guy, I can guarantee you that!!!\n\nGood Luck