My bfs best friend asked me to have sex with him. Why would he do that?
337328
Guys ALWAYS want their friend's girlfriends. It's pathetic. You should do what you can to stay away from this guy. And it's not your place to tell your boyfriend that his friend made a play for you, unless you want to be the center of a lot of drama. Drama is stress. No need to add stress to a relationship.\n\nIf the guy keeps making a play for you, then THAT drama out weighs the drama of telling your boyfriend and you must inform him at that point. This guy making plays for you shouldn't stress you out any more than need to. If you've turned him down and it stays like that then fine. But if he persist, then he needs to be rooted out of the picture for the sake of your relationship.
543984
You don't have to do something you don't want to. \nFirst, can you trust this guy's friend? He might be lying to you. \nSecond, if that boy really wants to sleep with you and that you don't want to, he's a jerk, and you don't have to lose time with him. \nYou will have sex with someone when both of you will be ready. It is not right to have sex just to have/keep a relationship. You'll remember your first time your whole life, so you have to make it a nice memory.
760521
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
659502
Your probably looking for someone to tell you its ok. Well I'm not going to lie to you.  Guys have this rule bros before hoes.  Its totally wrong for you to go out with his best friend.  Even worse if you sleep with his best friend he will eventually tell your ex everything you guys do.
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
953380
his friends were probably just messing around.  i know my friends sometimes call my house and say weird stuff but if you are unsure its best to just go and ask him instead of letting it getr in the way of a relationship.
887689
If your like my ex my friends are more fun to be around ,they don't want to know when I'm coming home,where I've been, who I've been with etc..etc.. quit riding him like a mule , maybe you should give him sex more then once a month so he doesn't have to beg you for it, and then he might want to hang with you more ,unless he's gay and screwing his friends
1008566
sweetie I wouldn't do some thing like that. you have to be carefully because It will cause a lot of trouble between him and the so call best friend and u would be in the middle of the whole thing and you don't want that
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
668883
You obviously have more than a few issues…..Are you that desperate for attention?  You seem pretty young, so here is some advice for you:  No, you should not sleep with your best friend’s boyfriend.  She’s your BEST friend right?  I doubt the guy is your soul mate or anything; he’s just a guy who is paying you some attention.  That may make you feel good now, maybe even good enough to make you do it, but afterwards, you will (or should) feel dirty, and he will most likely treat you like you’re dirty too.  He will never respect you.  Do you really want to be involved with a guy who you have to share?  He won’t be your boyfriend. (You will be alone on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, your birthday, etc.)  You will only have him when your friend is too busy for him. Your friend may or may not find out, but you will know what you did, and that will always weigh on you.  The guy is obviously a cheater, and has probably been around the block a few times.  What if he gives you a disease, like Herpes?  You will have it for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.   If you think that you like sex now, wait a few years.  It gets a whole lot better.  You don’t want something dumb that you do right now ruining it for you for the rest of your life.  Have some respect for yourself.  Save sex for someone that you love and trust, someone who is concerned with your best interests. I promise you that you will never regret in the long run.  However, if you choose to sleep with him you will regret it, at some point.  Be a good person, stay away from the guy, and tell your friend that she is with a loser, before she gets hurt or catches something from him that ruins her life.  Since you don’t seen to have a whole lot of confidence, you should just concentrate on you for a while.  Stay in school; find out what makes you happy (not what you think makes other people like you), and just try to be a good person.  If you do, you will eventually be truly confident, comfortable, and happy with the person that you are.  You won’t want a loser like this guy anywhere near you, and you will most likely be pursued by some really great guys, because confidence is the most attractive quality that a person can have.
298413
I can tell that this issue is really bothering you and hunny, you are tooooooo young for this. You actually sound mad, it was like you were on the phone with me venting while I was reading.\nWell, I am a strong believer in the word and I have read that where the mind is the body follows. Meaning your boyfriend wants to sleep with other women if he hasn't already done so. When he is looking and admiring all thoose other women he is lusting for them.  He shouldn't disrespect you like that and you need to leave.
967448
i can understand your boyfriend's insecurity.  MOST guys are friends with girls and would get in their knickers if the opportunity presents itself (not saying that your best friend is like that, but a lot of guys are) \n\nand your boyfriend is probably thinking, '... yeah, y'all friends now, but romance/lust/love/whatever-you-wanna-call-it has a way of creeping up on people' .. you've heard the phrase 'we were friends, before we were lovers..'? \n\nwith all of that in mind and possibly more, youre boyfriend probably thinks the less time you spend with the guy, the less chance romance/lust/love/whatever gets to creep in.\n\nso, right now, while you're still just friends and have ABSOLUTELY NO sexual/romantic feelings for your best friend, you have to make a conscious effort to keep things that way, and then turn to your boyfriend and give him plenty of re-assurance.  i know it sucks, but unfortunately, that's the way us humans are wired. insecurity needs reassurance. and reassurance could be in the form of while being with your best friend, speaking to your boyfriend on the phone, for example, and tell him how much you love him (vomit) in such a way that the best friend hears it and the boyfriend knows that the best friend knows and heard it. that make sense? its a bore but if you really love your boyfriend and you really have no sexual feelings/hopes for your best friend, you might have to do all that :(
1063289
If you are in a trusting relationship with your boyfriend, then you need to tell him what his best friend is up to....if your bf doesn't believe you, then you need to end your relationship.
793132
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
357212
Why cheapen yourself by doing what he did to him.  He doesn't care what you do.  If he did, he wouldn't have cheated on you with one of your "friends."  Do yourself a favor and invest your time in getting a better boyfriend and a friend that would not sleep with him.
680546
he just wants to do something with you, and you know what it is!... so its up to you... dont trust your exbf's friends... ever...