How can you be so ROMANTIC with your wife?
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I try to bring her small gifts at least once a week. Something like flowers, a piece of jewelry, chocolate, this week was a gift certificate to the spa. I like to leave her cards or love notes in her purse, make up bag, pockets, or car. I call or text her throughout the day to let her know I'm thinking of her. I love giving her oil massages. I tell her daily that I love her and that's she gorgeous. I like to plan dates, but I don't tell her what we're doing. I'll give her a time to be ready by, and we leave from there. She has yet to be disappointed with my date nights. I like taking her hand and have her dance with me in our living room. I enjoy lighting the candles and playing soft music while I just hold her. I like cooking her her and sometimes bring her breakfast in bed. I try to show her everyday that I love her. I'd be nothing without my wife.\nShe tells me often that her favorite things are when I go into the room and cover her up, then I kiss her forehead and play with her hair while she sleeps. She loves that.
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How bout trying candle light?  She will think you are being romantic and you will get some reprieve.  And how about offering to work out w/ her?  Take some long walks or join the gym, maybe it will strengthen your relationship in more ways than you know!  You'll get a shapely wife, and maybe your relationship will get stronger for the time to spent together!
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Make sure she knows how much she means to you.  If it's by a poem, card or letter.  That would melt me.  Take her out to a nice dinner and give her an anniversary ring.  Ive been married 6 years and would love one of those!
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Those words are very powerful and deep, and can evoke alot of hidden feelings that neither of you knew existed.  They can be a very good step towards a deeper relationship, but at the same time, they can be a factor that can pull you apart.  You have to know the right time to say them, and know that, honestly, there is no rush to say them, and sometimes actions speek louder than words if those words are just not ready to be said. You have to ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT FOR SURE before you say it. Don't be afraid of a little romance though.  Buy her a rose, call her randomly during the day just to see how she is feeling, treat her to a nice dinner, invite her over and have a candlelit pick-nick in your back yard, courtesy of your cooking (Granted you have some culinary abilities.)  Those kind of things are almost always appreciated and can mean a lot when you put your heart into the planning.  \n\nHope this helps,\nRespectfully, \nAndrew V.
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Yes I do! Fell instantly in love with my husband 43 years ago and still love him. I know it sounds obvious, but just try to relax and be yourself. Or maybe put something in writing and give it to her with a bunch of flowers. Good luck. LYA
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To me being romantic is like climbing a steep rocky hill then throwing yourself off of it. It's hard work and you can almost be sure you're going to get hurt plenty of times....by you'll feel more alive than anyone else you know :)
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I am a romantic like you.  I never thought it was possible because I couldnt just fall out and leave.  Some times its better of not trying to figure it out
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Try to find a nice quite spot by the water, find some scented candles place them around in the shape of a heart, place a nice blanket in the center. Get a nice bottle of champagne (chilled) two glasses, some strawberries, whip cream and napkins (in a basket). Find you a love CD (Marvin Gaye, Aretha, Stevie wonder, usher (dot.com) those songs that make you want too......\n\nAfter you have feed her, rubbed her and sang too her....tell her from the core of your heart how you feel and ask her to be the person that you wake up too every morning and the person that you make love too every night. Ask her too be the person that you talk too about everything and the person that you fight with and make up with... the person that you can't live without, the person that you know will be in your corner.... Ask her to be your Equal!
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Hey!  I love my WIFE!
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i WOULD LIKE RESPECT, AND I LIKE FLOWERS, I LIKE PRIVATE COZY PLACES, I LOVE AFFECTION. JUST A QUICK KISS AND SAY I LOVE YOU FOR NO REASON, A LITTLE RUB, SPENDING TIME TOGETHER. SHOW HER SOME FUN. CONCERTS, FAIRS, WALK ON THE BEACH, NOT STARE AT OTHER WOMEN FOR SURE! BE YOURSELF. MAKE HER LAUGH! LOOK AT HER IN THE EYES WHEN SHE IS TALKING TO YOU. GIVE HER YOUR FULL ATTENTION WHEN YA'LL ARE TALKING. LEAVE HER A NOTE, FIX A NICE BUBBLE BATH WITH CANDLES, TAKE HER TO DINNER. CALL HER DURING THE DAY JUST TO SAY I LOVE YOU OR I AM THINKING OF YOU. SHE WILL LIKE ALL THOSE THINGS! GOOD LUCK!
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Plan a romantic dinner for just you and your partner or go out on a picnic. Nothing says how much you miss her like preparing a homemade meal just for her. At least shell know how hard you worked in making the dinner.
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The tip here is not to write a love poem, but rather use someone elses to show your love for your partner.\nIf you can do something sweet like remember a romantic poem and then recite it word for word to your partner, then their heart will be yours forever.\nThere are many quite short love verses that you can memorise, some of the most famous of these of course are the words of Shakespeare.\nRemember a romantic few lines from one of his romantic plays or perhaps one of his love sonnets.\nIf you can recite lines such as 'Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds' then you will really show the effort that you went to and this will go down very well with your partner; you will be the king of romance!
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Do for her something meaningful. Do you know any movie that she would like, but she knows you wouldn't stand it?\nAny shop she would like to go, rock concert?\nYou can always think of something cool that she likes, and not even necessary expensive. Try to look through your memory, since you love her, you must have it somewhere in your head what it is she would like. If she is the romantic type, buy her flowers, write a song, something of that kind.\nIf you know her to be progmatic, do something more practical, but not too much. \nIt's not necessary buying, or even saying the right words. Sometimes it's as simple as finioding a cool object, picture, or making a small sacrifice for your beloved. \nAnd whatever it is, I believe you can find the answer. Your instincs ought to be good about the one you love.\nHope that helps.
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Love your spouse, be friends with your spouse, be yourself and remember that sex is not what keeps you together (it is nice) but there is more to mariage.
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Start light :)\n\nSmile at her. Tell her you are going for a nice evening walk and ask her if she wants to come with you. In that order. Repeat often~  \n\nAlso, if you have a small yard or a park nearby Bocci Ball is a fun way to get yourselves standing, bending and walking back and forth in the open air. It's a good low impact activity (like a quiet sexy elegant italian version of bowling) that could inspire more physical fun in your day to day life. If you have kids they can join in. It's so fun. If she won't play sober add a glass of wine to the invite. She'll like that. And one glass of wine a day has health benefits. And can spark romance. Ohh La La. ;) Go for it!\n\nIf you have a yard plant a vegetable garden with her. It's nice light physical work and spiritually healing. You'll be eating more veggies which means more energy, less sleeping.\n\nWalk to restaurants instead of ordering in. If you live in too rural an area to do that, drive to the restaurant but park a few blocks away and walk over.\n\nPose these things as small little daily romantic adventures that you have planned for you and her. These are things you are doing for her, and you as a couple so you can both continue to find joy in being alive and well together for a long time.\n\nMore motivation techniques:\nHold hands, kiss her in the kitchen, hug her in the den. Just small acts of physical affection will make you both feel more energized. Plus the chance that her husband may sweetly flirt with her will make a woman want to do more things to make herself more attractive.
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Do something for her that would truly surprise her (in a positive way). Cook her dinner. Make her a card. Buy her 2 dozen roses. Tell her on the big screen of a ballgame. Take her out for a nice dinner, get down on one knee, present her with some sort of jewelry, and tell her how marrying her was the best thing that ever happened to you, and so on. Just be creative. You can do it. You know you're wife the best. You know deep down what she would like. You've just got to sit down and really think. Good luck, Romeo!
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Sit quietly for a while.  Think about her.  Feel how it is to be with her.  Imagine her standing directly behind you.\nTell her what is in your heart.\nThen quickly write done what you said.  You might forget in the excitement.