Why is it that females have a problem keeping it real? 24/Male?
352467
well from the top of my head, \ni believe woman can be evil, and compete with eachother\nthere r different breeds and diffirent kinds, some crave attention, some exploit the fact that they r women and can get anything they want from men, \nand some woman hate on woman who display confidence,this is what i find from my observation, or peeple watching as i like to sometimes do in public places.\n\n23f live in georgia.\npeace  =p
528631
I'm not totally following where you are going with this...  You sound like a nice enough guy.  Confident.  Sucessful.  Maybe you aren't meeting the right women?
429654
You're probably doing something or acting in a way that is off putting.\n\nGet a friend who is a girl to tell you what you're doing wrong, or ask a female family member what it is.
1122659
Time out time!!!  Guys shake this kind of thing off better than we women do - just remember that.  It's a genetic thing, not a personal thing.  Take a long, hot shower, curl up with some brain popcorn TV, eat some chocolate.....go see some violent (non-"chick") film but do NOT mope; do NOT dwell on the argument; do not deconstruct it - do whatever you need to do to turn your brain off for awhile.  \n\nAnd if it is resolved, then let it be resolved - don't revisit, don't re-discuss it, just learn from it.
322860
Ive known more guys that babble and dont care if its a secret thats connected in any way to reality then women. Most guys if they keep secrets do it out of cowardness anyway.
289118
Guys tend to take childhood female-friend as buddy rather than girlfriend material. At least until you give them a different impression. I'm not saying that you should not be yourself.. but maybe show them the other part of yourself.
594565
Get used to it...all women are somewhat crazed, especially when it comes to men. I wish I could tell you that it will get better when you get older but it wont, it's just one of those things you have to learn to deal with.
633255
Women often stay in those types of relationships because they think they can't do any better than that (i.e., low self-esteem).  They also may not think they can "make it" on their own, especially if they do not have a college education.
910665
I don't like doing long answers ... so i'll TRY keep this short .\n\nMOST WOMEN LIE TO THEMSELVES....\n\n...and not just to men ... they actually make excuses for what they do because they are conditioned to believe that cheating for pure physical reasons is something that only men do ... but those days are long gone...  all this nonsense about an emotional connection (b4 a woman cheats) does not fool real men like me ... \n\n...men just admit that they are weak where this is concerned and accept the guilt that comes with it...  ownership.  \nguys nowadays are too busy being bullied by women ... to pull their heads out of their A$$es, ...stand up and be MEN\n\nDr Bad\nNo one bashes BAd\n\nps. you have been asking some really good questions lately ... this is one of them... keep it up ... or i'll lose concentration.  ;-))
940001
Because women are attention-whores who like to manipulate and mess with your head.\n\nAct like an azzhole and you'll do OK.
369496
oh I'm so sorry.\nAsk your girlfriend why and expect her to be honest with you. If it's a valid reason - don't take it personally - work on the problem. Maybe you are just not 'his type' but please don't fret - you WILL find someone - this one just wasn't meant to be. :)
223883
First of all -- why don't you trust women?  Your own bad experiences or someone else's?  It's easy for a male to say he doesn't trust females because of a few bad experiences and vice versa for the females - but not all males/females are untrustworthy. You have to observe a person and trust your gut instinct on some things.  It takes a long time for me to trust someone simply because of my own life experiences, but I also try not to negatively judge everyone before giving them a chance to prove themselves.  I understand if they think the same of me. Always remember, there are some good people still out there!
261904
I'll tell you this, your job and your material posessions don't mean anything if you lack the personal qualities woman like to see in a man.\nAre you confident and natural?  Do you make women feel relaxed and safe?  Are you good at carrying on a conversation?  Can you pick up on the subtle cues of attraction?  If not, you're screwed.
479409
it's a subconscious reaction to being treated poorly. I'm guilty of it too, however men and women do this. I dated a guy that REFUSED to trust me because he'd had an ex cheat on him. Every time I was out later than expected or didn't answer the phone, he'd throw a fit. Women do the exact same thing. When past experiences were out of your control, you do a complete 180 and try to control everything. If you are dating someone who will not trust you no matter what, it can also be a sign that they're not trustworthy. You have to go with gut instinct about things like that. If it doesn't feel right, and you're more upset than not around the person, you may want to get out of the situation. Of course I would suggest having a real conversation about it a few times before throwing her to the curb.
295777
I would think that it is mostly a self-confidence issue. It is really hard on a person to feel that they must convince their lover that they are happy with them. This can be very detrimental to a relationship. If you doubt your lady's love for you, that hurts her...imagine a negative self image in the converse. If it's an issue to you, you'll probably make it an issue for them. Basically, have faith in yourself and faith in the lady. If they don't respect you, they weren't worth your time anyway.
1050346
I have the same problem with women... i cant seem to find one that doesnt go for stupid druggies.... i would to find a girl who is intelligent, confident, assertive, caring, and not shallow..... maybe we are sharing sumting in common? =) im guessing this is common but other ladies on answers have told me to hold out for the best and thas what im doing.... u shud do the same.... sont cheat ureslef, set the standards high!
195528
Just my guess...But probably because: A) You are way to immature for ladies your own age. B) You are wicked nasty. Maybe around 450lbs, zitty and stinky. C) You were hurt badly by a woman your age or older. Either way, no worries as long as the girls are of age and willing. WILLING and OF AGE being the key words.