my gf is really churchy and i'm not but i like her wat should i do?
348254
If you love her and she loves you.. her being all "churchy" and you not being like that.. won't make a difference..  as long as you are not making fun of her for what she believes..  and shes  not pressuring you to go to church.
874680
get her in a room alone with you and take off her clothes and fore her to do you.\n\n\nNO.\nI'm kidding!\nShes probably doing this because of religous reasons\nOr maybe its a little to fast for her.\neither way its really had to convince people like that\n\nThe last thing you should do is constantly bring up the\nfact that she hasn't kissed you.\n\njust let time do its magic.
931635
u have put your self in a tight situation.you can not have any type of relation (sexual) with this female. remain a godfather and friend.u are talking about long time friendships and relationships.think about how badly this will affect u,girlf, gfbestf,and most important your god child!!!!!!! you need to stop putting so much taught into her. what if your girl where to find out about these foot rubs etc... Start going out  and doing some romantic things with your girl or most important communicate. Find out how she feels about the relationship but no matter what you guys may come to U CAN'T DATE THE FRIEND!!!!!    If you feel your girl is perfect my best bet would be to stay with her (the grass is never greener on the other side).
979179
Depending on your age, she should accept this as a normal part of your development.  There's no easy way to tell her - she's not going to like it and if she's like most people I know in the church she is going to do everything she can think of to talk you out of it, use guilt, cry, call others in the church to do some sort of intervention - I don't think there is much you can do to prevent this.  So just say it.  Tell her you want to search and study and find things out yourself, so that your faith will truly be your own.  God does not respect a faith that is forced or coerced.  Remind her that this is a normal part of growing up, and that it is possible you will find your way back to Christianity, but that the bottom line is, you will still be YOU.\nGood luck and happy hunting.  :)
1148333
First my friend as a christian I have to ask if you are truly accepting that God will wants you to do this? If you believe in your heart that it is what God wants and you want to be with her and you are that close to her then you do something SUPERSONIC! Blow her mind with the most romantic evening you can come up with. Take her to the place you first met, rose peddles all over the place...candles and you get on one knee and you tell her that she is the love of your life and you want to spend all eternity with her, that she is the meaning in your life, you produce a ring that she will cherish and you ask her..."will you make me the happiest man alive and spend eternity with me" but you have to mean it. A woman knows it you mean it. Good Luck my friend.
542180
Maybe you should carefully confront her about it . She wouldn't waste her time with you if she didn't love you . Maybe she's just uncomfortable with public affection or affection in general . I doubt it's anything you've done , but don't be pushy for her affection .
592641
I can say you were not genuine and what you gave was not love. I don't understand how religion can be strong than the love you two had for 2 years. I can tell you be yourself and stop being spoon-fed.It's your life and make good of it and not pleasing other people.It's not fair even in the God eyes.
1124324
This completely depends on how strongly you and your girlfriend feel about religion. You have several options:\n\n1. Marry her, but keep your current religions. If either of you come from religious families, marrying outside of your religion may cause a great deal of tension. When my Romanian Jewish father and my Filipino Catholic mother got married, they took this route. Many of my father's Jewish relatives didn't speak to them for several years. However, after I was born, his family members came around and reconciled with my parents. Sometimes, these situations take time. How would your families react, and what are you willing to deal with? How would you want your children to be raised? I celebrated both Christian and Jewish holidays my whole life, and I feel that this gave me a great respect and appreciation for religious customs. However, if raising your children as Muslims is important to you, now is the time to talk about these things.\n\n2. She converts to Islam. This could also work. My friend is half-Pakistani and half-Filipino, and her Filipino mother converted to Islam when she married her father. Her mother's side of the family was not very happy about it, but religious conversion is a very personal choice, so no one really held that against her. Talk to your wife about her feelings on this topic. Tell her that you would like to marry her, but that you are concerned about the fact that she is not the same religion as you. Ask her if she would be open to learning more about your religion and, if it feels right to her (no pressure, of course!), would she ever think about becoming a Muslim and raising a family together in Islam? \n\n3. You convert to her religion. This doesn't seem like something you are considering, but it's similar to #2 above, so I'll just cut to #4...\n\n4. None of the above. Yes, it's possible that neither of you are willing to change your religion or imagine a marriage/life with someone of a different religion. If this is the case, it's going to be a very tough decision. It sounds like you love her enough to want to marry her, but the religious difference is a stumbling block. Can you live without this woman in your life? Or, can you find an acceptable compromise that both of you will be happy with?  This situation is very common, and it can definitely work! My parents have been married now for over 30 years. :)  Good luck!
853770
If your girl-friend is a staunch Catholic, then she knows that they don't believe in pre-marital sex, period.  They also don't believe in birth control, abortion and divorce.  That is just the beginning.  Good luck.
275969
watch other people be funny and tell take notes (mental notes) and loosen up don't worry about what other people say about you cause we're all gonna die some day and be judged by the some god so don't worry.\nbuy her flowers and candy. \ntalk to her and let her know you want a relationship with her and hope for the best
347883
the best thing to do is to raise her up as a good kid, and when she grows up, have her decide for herself. do not put pressure on yourself and on her. that way, when she so chooses, it will be true and sincere. also, if she doesnt, well, maybe christianity is not for her.
931383
My little sister please hear me out.\n\nMatthew 6:33 says "But seek you first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things will be added unto you."\n\nThere is nothing like just spending time with Jesus, in His word, in prayer, and in worship, all at our masters feet. Yes there is a bit of pleasure in kissing or in the other drives that God has made us with, though all in His time, it is like a beautiful flower that blooms. Love is patient and it is kind. If you and your boyfriend are meant to be together then in God's perfect time, by His perfect will, then you both will be together. If it is not God's will then know this that God has someone so much better for you then you could have ever imagined. Please don't just read God's Word, the Bible as just another book, for it is 66 love letters from God to you, and for you to grow and mature by. The love of Jesus for you can't be compared to by anything else, no human relationship or even what we have, for all will seem dim when I am with Him. Seek to really know God first, and in His proper time, You will see that the love that waits will be rewarded. \nTrust God and obey your mom and dad. \nYour in my prayers. God Bless You<>< + ><>
539051
That would make you unequally yolked, and I don't believe God intends for you to marry someone who isn't a Christian.\n\n*EDIT*\n\nIf you two are deeply in love, then if she is the one, she will get saved.  If not, then she's not the one for you, and you should ask God for help with moving on.
1100154
Faith is a personal decision.  There's not much you can do.  Just be her friend and wish her well, she'll respect you for that.  If you try to push religion on her, she may get upset with you.  If it makes you feel better, you can pray for her.  It's nice that you care for her, but she has every right to make this choice on her own.
113915
if u both old enough to fight for the relationship then go ahead.  its up to both of u to talk about it.  are u willing to stay in the relationship no matter what?  and is she?  sometimes differences of religion in a relationship can cause break up.  i would really suggest to talk to her about this thing.  decide if it is ok to continue whether her parents against it or they will be ok about it.
393958
you don't need to tell her anything... It's nice to help people out but sometimes there are things we have no right to butt in.... do you get me? \n\ndo you have affections for this particular the girl or just worried for her? because you're quite affected by her...\n\nif she's truly a religious women then it wouldn't be hard for her to face reality...\n  \n\njust pray for her welfare... pls. don't make irrational moves...
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well do you want to be a mucsle man.or are you doing this just to impress her.in my opinion you might want to rethink your relationship if she doesn't love you the you are.but that just my opinion