i am in love with like 3 different guys and i don't know what to do?!?! help me please!!!!?
355766
Love is a very broad feeling and I know what you mean even if most people don't. I believe it is okay to love all three of them at the same time. Life is complicated and what matters is that you are happy. Tell them all that you love them as well as loving others. If they can not accept it then it is not real love. Good Luck. :^)
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
587911
You need to be honest to the guy you are with and let him go don't lie to him, if you say you love the other guy then go with him, it is obvious you know what you want, don't waste you time and his time by staying with him knowing you do not love him, I hope you make a decision soon. Good Luck
993574
If you really love him, give him some time... he's probably confused, most guys are in relationships.  Don't date other guys cause it's going to contradict what you're trying to do, just kinda give him some space and wait to see what happens.  It's tough, I know, but if he doesn't respond... maybe you should accept it.
1052484
the best way to choose between them is to sit them both down at the same time and explain ur feelings. next, ask them if they would b OK with u going out on a few dates with each one b4 u make ur final decision.  most guys are cool about it and if one of them isnt cool with it, go out with the other one. another way that might help u is if u make a list of all the things u have interests in and then separate lists for each of the guys. seeing how many interests they have in common with u will help u decide which one u might have more fun with
507020
this is the same probs with me also.\ni dont love the guy who loves me soo much!!\ngirls are like that,.. tooo choosy and stuff. they always want something thats out of reach.\nso my advice is.... be with the guy who like u , than the one whom u love,\nhard to follow, but easy to advice
77174
There is no possible way you could be in love w/ this guy.  You hardly know him at all especially if youve only seen him for 4 days.  You may like him a lot but its not love.  Talk to that friend and have him give Travis your phone number.  If Travis is interested, he will call you.  If not, then he wont.  Dont say you love someone until you have dated them AT LEAST 3 months solid.  You are only asking for a world of hurt then if you say it earlier.
1031126
I had that problem but it turned out that inside i really had feelings for him. If you really love this guy then stay with him. If you dont then tell him the truth. I would think if you like him but know he is not for you then stay with him i would. Go with your heart and inside you to make your desition.\n\nGOOD LUCK
1045657
Number one: You are not in love.  You just like him a lot.  You definately have a serious crush.  Puppy Love.  Number two:  You won't get over the way you feel unless you do something.  What is the worst that could happen if you talk to him?  He'll talk back, right?  Become his friend since he has a girlfriend.  DO NOT try to take him from his girl.  That causes fights.  Become his confidant.  At least you'll know if he and his girlfriend are having problems or if their relationship is doing well.  You are young so you have plenty of time to find the love of your life.  Always listen to your first mind when it comes to relationships.  ALWAYS listen to your parents. They are always right.  (I know because I got pregnant, and my mom was right about him)  I thought I was in love with a guy who was totally wrong for me.  I became like his best friend.  That is how I knew he was wrong for me.  Now my husband is my best friend.  I knew he was going to be my husband because I listened to my heart of hearts.  It took a while, but I knew because he went out of his way to prove to me that he loved me. Even throughout high school.  He is not my first childs father, but he was there for me when I had her.  He stuck around even when I didn't want him.  He loved me and he loves me today with his whole heart.  Love does not manipulate, hit, or hurt, degrade in anyway.  So if you feel any negativity coming from him in any way beware.  Make sure that you love yourself more than anyone else can love you.  That's how you  can keep a clear head when it comes to love.  Take care.
122185
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
556048
i say drop him. either hes into to you, or hes not. but you shouldnt have to wait around for him. play hard to get girlll!. once he realizes other guys are a threat he'll make the move =]
667653
Well it sounds to me that u need to just stop and re-examine ur feelings for awhile. Look inside ur self and see what u really feel for each woman. I would normally say "follow ur heart" but uhh it sounds to me lyk u need to know what's in ur heart b4 u do that. Don't forget u can't love more than one woman at the same time. One of them's gta be based on personality or looks alone. U'll have to figure that out, ask urself out of the two who will make you the happiest? Out of the two who will really BE there for me? when u figure that out, go for it! whoever that may be. and Remember Love is a choice we make from moment to moment! Good Luck!
799023
Please don't do the typical guy thing and feed your ego with the other 3.  If you like the one you are with tell them you are unavailable and want to see we things go with the current person you are seeing.\n\nYou seem like a good guy for being concerned and asking.  Don't hurt her or you may lose a good thing.\n\nGood Luck
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
663446
if ur a tennager its not love ,its just a crush which would go away when u get goig thru other guy's.\nbut if its true love from ur side just ask that person to meet u personally. tell him ur feeling's,ur love for him it work's.99%
414570
Get over it and move on.  If your contemplating what your life would have been if you had gotten serious, how much do you love the one your with now?\n\nMove on and focus on the relationship you're in now.  Keeping that friendship alive with that friend will only complicate matters in any relationship you choose to open up.\n\nLeave the other guy alone hes probably still getting over how far he fell in love with you.  He may or may not come around again but leave that up to him.\n\nIf you knew it was a good thing and he would do anything for you, was it vanity, attractiveness or simply incompatability that prohibited you from seeing exactly what he was all about?
487407
Stop being a pu**y about it.  If you are feeling that you are attracted to one guy and want to be in an exclusive relationship with him, then you should cut loose the others.  It is not the most pleasant thing to do, but letting it drag on will only make it harder on both of you.  Just stop lying about what you are doing when AL calls and asks what you are up to.  Tell him you are going out on a date or whatever it is that you are doing.  He might not like it, but life sucks like that sometimes.  If he is an adult he will be able to handle it.  If he can't handle it, then he is still a little immature and needs to grow up.\n\nBy the way, this is exactly why guys end up turning into what women call jerks.  You ladies wonder why we will not commit to relationships and why we lose interest as soon as we get into your pants.  Mostly it is because they are afraid of getting hurt, so for many men it is easier to not let themselves get all that close in a relationship.  It sucks, but I think that everyone has to get their heart broken at least once before they are ready to love someone else.