Is it wrong to fall in love when both of us has our own family but are not happy with our life?
340391
The grass is always greener!!  When you were dating your bf, you probably did the same thing...  emails, phone calls, etc.  Now that you live together, it's not as exciting.  You don't get butterflies in your stomach like you once did.  But that happens to everyone and it will definitely happen with you friend from your past.  Try emailing your boyfriend while you/he is at work... talk about things other than who's doing the dishes that night.  It'll take a little effort, but it's probably worth it.  BTW, your friend from 11 years ago is 25 lbs heavier and bald....
774035
H.  I don't know why you have to ask what you should do.  To marry because you don't want to hurt family, or to save yourself from embarrassment is ludicrous.  No one should enter into marriage unless they love their fiance and plan to stay with them til death do they part. It is really not fair to your fiance to begin this union feeling the way you do, and have you even considered what kind of life would any children have if you did not love their mother.  There really is nothing to contemplate.  You should break off the engagement, stop the wedding and go on with your life.  Marry only when you know you want to spend the rest of your life with the chosen one. Good Luck!
878149
I've always wondered about that. But no. I don't think its wrong. A bit wierd yes, seeing as their legally part of your family now, but not wrong.
73179
I am not catholic but I can understand absolutely no reason why you can't LIKE your second cousin,,,, if you are talking about taking it into a loving relationship that may be another thing and it is not necessarily wrong but it could prove to be bad for children born (inbreeding).. I am assuming you are young and have a crush which can be normal, but it is probably best to leave love relationships outside of your family line.
1072802
It is wrong for you. You deserve someone to love and be with you who has the posibility of having a loving family with. You deserve devotion from a husband who you can return love and devotion too.\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
1132667
Most of the time you have fallen in love with love as it relates to some individual and you think this person is perfect with out fl awes, even if that really is not the case. It may just seem like it to you...\nhope this helps some
1186250
i could not imagine what you are going through. i personally have never experience or been in that situation.i think you do not love yourself or feel worthy for someone to love you.that is very important no matter what family drama or life changes you have to go through you must always remember to love yourself.
737249
You're in a very difficult situation.  I know it is hard to ignore the pressure of society and family as much as we like to pretend that love conquers all.  However, what is most important to you and your well being is that you follow your truth.  If you truly love this person, then follow your bliss with him/her and let the chips fall where they may.  It is never healthy to pretend you're something you're not, or to let your dreams and desires be crushed by ignorant people who don't understand.  Be true to yourself and that is the greatest happiness you can hope to achieve.
1165434
From personal experience, I don't think its wrong. It shouldn't matter who you love or what race they are. All that matters is that you are in a loving, caring relationship.\nBe prepared though that not everyone will feel this way and not everyone will support you. There will always be people that will have something negative to say about your choice of partner. However the world is becoming more tolerant to such issues because there are way more interracial couples and babies out there nowadays.\nWhen my parents first got married, my grandfather asked them "what are you going to do with the children?"...my mom is black and my father white...and my mother replied very smartly ..."name them".\nMy grandfather didn't even want to be seen in public at a restaurant with my mother back then but now he's gotten used to the idea of my sister and I and now loves to take us girls shopping and spoil us rotten.\nI like being mixed. I think I have the best of both worlds. I don't consider myself black and I don't consider myself white. I am mixed race. I am equally black and equally white. I wouldn't choose one or the other if I had the chance.
706352
I think that's a comon feeling.  You're in a rush to "start" your life and that usually includes a husband and kids. Try not to rush it because after you get married to the wrong person you'll realize how silly it was to think that way. 50% of us marry the "wrong" person. We have to be happy as ourselves before being happy w/ others. Suppose it never happens? You need to fulfill your dreams.
390299
Unfortunately, even though it is wrong to reject family members for that reason, it happens alot. But tell them anyways. Don't ever hide who you are! Don't ever feel like who you are is wrong because they do not agree or approve! You never know, they could be cool with it. You can not change who you are and if anyone, family member or not, can not except you, then it is better off that that person is no longer in your life. Good luck!
301406
My family is not broken, but sometimes I wish that it was. \n\nAlthough my parents are cordial enough, the passion left their relationship years ago. I think it's sad to live a life without passion.
46922
i'm not really down for the keep it in the family thing but i'm not going to criticize you but i'm thinking that maybe you should them and see if they feel the same. but they don't react the same way don't be surprised because they probably not down with incest you know.sorry if they hurt you ok. you'll get over it eventually.
836090
that is sick you can love who you want but come to family you realy need to becareful\ni had a cusin that had a baby from her family member and the kid did not trun out ok.
831185
most women do feel guilt when they marry and leave the family. it's best now to be a little selfish and do what you know is right for YOU. it's not your responsibility to wait to begin your life until your sister has started hers. you are a grown woman, do what feels right in your heart. if anyone gets upset THEY WILL GET OVER IT! families have issues, you can choose to let them know that you are doing what you believe is right and don't let them make a huge dramatic issue about it. as for your age difference. it's 7 years, it may seem like alot now, but if things work out and you're together when you're 35 and he's 42 the gap will seem much smaller. he'll be able to teach you things, and help you with problems he's already been thru in life. i say follow your heart, you can fix any hurt feelings that your family has, with love. i'm sure you won't get married and never speak to them again or never visit. you're not leaving your family behind, youre adding a new family member, and if you approach it correctly, your family will accept him as such. good luck sweetie
1077348
I don't think we can expect unconditional love from anybody else besides our blood relatives.  Even with them, it is not always true.
372395
No it's not wrong. I do think that you should change to a different Doctor. It is not very ethical for him to be your doc as you are dating. I am not sure, but I do believe most doctors do not treat their close family. I think it is great that you have found someone you think you have a connection with go for it.