How do I get rid of my blushing when I like a girl?
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Most girls understand that a guy likes them when they blush, and realize that being turned down by a girl is the very thing that most guys fear, but the guys that overcome that fear are the ones with girlfriends. Time will tell, the more experience that you accumulate regarding dating the more comfortable you'll be when with girls, thus the blushing will surely diminish.
934604
Well he has a girl friend so the only two things you can do is tell him you have a crush on him. If he blushes then he probably liked you to but maybe thought you didn't fell the same.\n\nOr you could just secreatly like him and wait for the future. Hope for the best. Maybe he'll ask you, out you never know. \n\nGood Luck
341048
Hi,U know I used 2 have the same problem... first of all... DO NOT FEEL LESS than other people,second: if someone comes by N U start blushing or gettin nervious, just imagine that person stading in an empty space with NOTHING but the opposite sex's underwear on,THIRD: let GO,hang loose,B confortabe,if U pretend everything's under control everything WIIL B under control,N lay back  relaxed,keep in mind YOU ARE WAAAAY better than the rest and if U DO say something stupid DON'T GIVE A FUCKIN' SHIT ABOU WUT THEY SAY OR MIGHT THINK ABOUT U,\n\nN fInally,whe U put all these on practice N B-come a more confident guy,find a girl who's a bit shy N THAT will B the perfect girl 2 start a conversation with,N hopefully date.... well this is wut I did N now I have a much better life,I realy hope it works 4 U .\n\nFeel free 2 E-mail me @ : debbie_free2nite@yahoo.com
938927
if your face is turning red from blushing or flushing then i don't believe there is much you can do. however if it is from the sun you may have a sun burn. or you may have a skin condition called rosacea which also gets worse in the sun and when blushing so it is hard to tell the difference. there are topical medicines to treat this as well as vascular lasers. I would see a dermatologist to make sure that it isn't roasacea so you can cure it (not that it's deadly or anything)
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What Is  Facial Blushing? \n\nBlushing results from an increase in superficial facial blood volume: blood vessels in the skin dilate, and red blood cells color the skin red. The area of skin that can blush is usually restricted to the face, ears, and neck, and in rare cases, the upper body. This dilation of the blood vessels is involuntary. Stress can increase the activity in the autonomic nervous system. Blushing appears to be an involuntary sympathetic nervous system response. \n\nBlushing starts at three years of age. At that age we become aware that others can observe us. Most people, however, do not remember blushing before the age of five. Normally, the intensity and frequency of blushing peaks in teenage years and decreases with age. However, even very old people can blush, and the amount of blushing varies greatly between individuals.
639776
Don't worry about impressing her. Be yourself, and she'll feel more comfortable too. But if you do stumble over a few of your words, or forget what you were going to say, be willing to laugh at yourself. It will make you look more confident than you feel. Good luck!
607283
next time you see her...get eye contact and smile,that is the biggest thing....and if you're feeling brave....walk up to her one day and start a little conversation and if u want to make you're liking her very obvious then just say to her casually..."God,(her name)u are so gorgeous....i like u alot"
1107082
HA! i know sooooo many ppl with that problem. just say to urself, what does it all matter? if they like u, then they like u and they are prolly cool. if they dont like you, then they are stupid. try going around the shy girls. they can be easier to talk to at times and they like ppl alot easier. i know cuz i used to be really shy, and still sorta am. i would say talk to girls who look sweet, not just cuz they are hot. if u talk to them just because they are hot, u will probably get shot down at some point or another. just be cool. if u see a cute girl at the beach or something who looks friendly, find some way to get in her path some how or mess with something and get her to watch (without looking stupid, lol) and find a way to just be like "oh yea, its all good" like if ur at the beach and u are playing football or something or throwing a frisby, offer for her and her friends (if she has any with her) to come play. or if u are walking ur dog, maybe let go of the leash and see if she helps you chase it (if ur dog is slow, lol). just remember to relax. thats the main thing. and after a while, if she seems interested, ask her for her number so u guys can hang out sometime. if she says no, oh well, if she says yes, good job, she may like you :)
549507
well you really CANT get a girl to like you BUT u can do things to improve your  chances. check your breath and if it isnt too great pop a mint or gum. make sure you smell good. studies show that smell is the sense that stays longest in the memory so that is really important. ok. and then like take care of how you look, dont look like you just rolled out of bed, but dont look like you spent all day in front of the mirror either. brush your teeth and if they r stained then you should prolly purchase some teeth bleach (i suggest crest white strips premium plus.....they work in 7 days and show results after the 1st use). make sure you use chapstick because no girls wants to kiss a guy w/ dry lips, or look at them for that matter. i'm not gonna say dress hot but definately dont dress grungey or wear pants two days in a row w/o washing cuz that isnt hot and if she pays ANY attention at all she'll notice that. play up your best features, if you like your eyes then wear colors that bring out your eyes. if u wear eyeliner...dont. lol. hope i helped!
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start a conversation about guys shaving and then start talkin about girls WAXING (not shaving) her upper lip. then see if anyone else says anything to her or if she says anything about it! then if no one says anythin you should break the ice and tell her but not in front of everone (or anyone) cause girls get embarassed about stuff like that
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Well, if you're gonna tell them, there's no way not to be obvious.  Just tell 'em, no point in being embarrassed...so what, you like them.  If you tell them you'll most likely know how they feel too. If they don't like you, then you can focus on moving on.  But if they like you too, then bingo, things could work out.\nNo matter what you do, stop thinking about embarrassment...think about the person.  \nTry to get them in person in a comfortable place (like after school, at the mall, outside, coffee shop)  or give 'em a cute note asking to hang out sometime (give it to them, not their buddy who could read it first...that way you don't have to put ur name on it either which could save any possible embarrassment if he turns out to be a jerk.  Good luck!
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As you get older your hormones change and it sounds like this might be a hormonal problem.  It also will keep getting worse if you stress over people seeing you blush and sweat.  i suggest you let it play out until after your period is over and see if it changes.  IF this contiunes for another week or so I would consider seeing a doctor especially becasue of the sweating.
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flirt, but dont kiss her but. At the same time flirt with other girls. Girls always dig a guy that other girls want. Then take it from there. Whatever you do, just dont tell her directly that you like her, otherwise she'll just tell you how good a friend you are, but somehow she doesnt see you "that way".\nin other words....\n1. flirt a lot with her.\n2. flirt a little with other girls, and let her know about it.\n3. dont directly tell her you like her.\n4. DO NOT compliment her. I repeat, DO NOT compliment her. \n5. dont slap her ass or touch her b00bs.\n6. stroke her hair, etc. and always keep watching her reaction.\n7. Be a gentleman and open doors for her, walk on the open end of the sidewalk, etc.\n8. on the first few dates, do not go anywhere expensive. \n9. Instead, just ask her out for a cup of coffee. Make it sound like its no big deal.\n10. Use deo, brush you teeth and bathe before going, use a mouth fresher, dont fart, and avoid scratching yourself on the date.\n11. You can laugh, but not too much, and let her do most of the talking.
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Send her anonymous roses and letters. Let her know you know things about her but dont let her know who you are.\nTell you, you looked really beautiful in the red dress you were wearing yesterday.\nIt will have her wondering.\nWell, as long as you are not playing games its ok, otherwise abstain, it sometimes gets on my nerves when i have secret admirers
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you never COMPLETELY get rid of it but you OVERCOME it by FORCING yourself out of your thoughts and VERBALIZING with females.\n\nStart NOW, practice a LOT and gradually proceed with prettier and more "popular" girls.\n\nGoogle "conversational skills" and find a guide that makes sense to you. This is a SKILL that can be learned-so get to it.
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perhaps u have a fair complexion or your blood vessels are very close to the surface of your skin, more so than other people's.\nthere's not too much u can do about it though, unless u wanna cake on the powder, but i dont recomment that.\nit could also be hormonal depending on your age, so this may go away soon enough.\nalso try drinking more water and eating more fruit and veggies, u could just not be getting enough vitamins.\ni doubt u have any skin disorder but u can see a dermotologist anyway.\ngood luck and dont worry about it, i think its cute! i dont blush too easily and i wish i did, i know it sounds funny to wish that but i just think its really cute, like dimples. :)
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Be yourself. Try talking to the girl.\n\nAsk her what she likes, she dislikes and also her hobbies. Always strike up a conversation in which you and her can relate. Be more polite.\n\nNEVER tease a girl when she's in a bad mood.\n\nAlways smile and be more mature.\n\nBe careful about your looks but not so much that you spend hours in front of a mirror.\n\nLastly, make a girl laugh. That's all I can give you.