what do u do when u like sum1 but u like ur boyfriend to should u dump him and date the other one or no?
342216
I am in that same situation....But i think i am going to c who i have more fun with and more in common with... U wanna be able to spend the rest of ur life with knowing u have something in common and is fun.
455318
don't dump him. if you really like him dont like break up with him cuz of that. okay yeah sometimes its wrong to leave your friends for a guy but when the friends are like "dump him" its just stupid, they are retarded and if you really like him theres no need for you to dump him.
1025922
Well its kind of messed up being with someone while you like someone else.......if your confused about it then you should take time to think about what you really want and then take action...dont just be with someone cause they like you .......follow your heart.....do whats right for you not carin what anyone else thinks!!!
613093
go for which ever one you feel most comfortable with and let the other one down gently. or you could tell them you dont want a steady bf and date them both alternitivly. but be careful. good luck
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
682613
Well... You can't really help who you like or not. If you really think that the guy you love is more important to you, stick with him and if not you shouldn't pressure yourself that's for sure...
922244
I am a junior in High school, There are three girls that I really like, but whichever one, becomes my girlfriend(if any), then I will still like the other ones, but I won't do anything about those feelings.  It is OK to like another guy, just stay faithful to the one your with.  Be content with the guy you have, and if things don't work out, then try the other one.  but, just try to devote yourself to the one your with, and he should do the same, give it your all, and enjoy it.  then no matter what you are happy.  Best of luck!\n\nSavage
399451
Do you love him?  If you love him, why worry about whether he loves you?  Why not just enjoy being together and don't fret over one another's motives. Your boyfriend is not there to reward you for breaking two other relationships. You can't work to earn love. Either it will come in time, or it won't. Meanwhile, go as far as you want with him (and no further) and enjoy it. \n\nLove, Beth
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
94119
I would have to tell him, no at the moment I am dating someone else. Thank you so much for asking me, but I feel that it would be wrong to date you under the circumstance. NOW, if you are truly interested in this guy, take the high road, and break it off with the guy you are seeing.  Then perhaps pursue this other guy.  Show the guy you're with the respect he deserves. You can't have them both, so make a choice. I hope the choice is a wise one.
64854
if you really love your boyfriend that much, it shouldn't be an issue...do you want to ruin your relationship with him for this other guy who may not even want a relationship with you? He may just want something else, so you gotta really think if it's worth it. My boyfriend has been gone for 9 months and I'm still very much in love with him, and very faithful. I can't imagine losing him for some "crush"...I alwayz say if you want to cheat, you obviously don't want to be with the person you're with...cuz if you do, you wouldn't even think about cheating. Just tell that guy you have a boyfriend and you're not interested. if he keeps bothering you, don't hang around him anymore.
611901
i think it would be better if u confess to the other guy that u are in a relationship. it is quite possible to fall for other people while u are in a relationship. its natural so dont worry ok? just take your time to know this guy.. it might just be a crush since u say that u love ur boyfriend. may be after sometime u will realize this new guy is just not ur kind. tell him the truth about u being into a relaionship. dont lie. it could harm ur relationship with ur boyfriend in future. and about telling your boyfriend..i think u should just tell him u have made a new friend nothing else.. tht is it.... dont worry. hope it was of some help.
626109
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
278848
If you are even considering other boys while you have a boyfriend, you're definitely not ready for a boyfriend.  If you need all the attention, break up with your boyfriend and date them all.
83503
live life to the best u can girl. im 15 and trust me you dont want to even tink about guys..THEY SUCK!\nbut if you like the other guy more....dump your b/f
565640
You should tell the other girl that he is dating and you should make up a plan or something and both of you break up with him.
606261
leave him alone is what you should do. if he becomes available then go for it but for now go find yourself another boyfriend.