I'm gay, and i hate my  friend (girl) 's boyfriend, and because of that we have gotten distant, wot to do?
352779
First, I think you need to look inside. Do you have a good reason for hating him or could you be jelous or something of the attention that your friend is giving to him or maybe of what it appears that they have? If you do have a good reason, talk to your friend about it. If she's really your friend, she will be open to listening to your concerns. Don't expect that she'll leave him, though, just because she's listening. Like it or not, you may just have to except him as part of the group. If you can't do that, you may have to find another friend. Good luck!
508093
It's hard to take that step back in a relationship.  If he/she is really your friend, I would tell them you just don't want to do that anymore and see how they react.  If they aren't into it, maybe you have to stop messing around all together.
656994
well for one you should not hate anyone that is the main problem in this world that is what we are killing each other over....but since you DISLIKE this girl be honest and if the reason you dislike her so is true then your friend should listen
597526
I'm in an identical situation only i am a guy. And the guys in your story are girls in mine. I'm not gay. Just wait it out and eventually they will break up. However you need to know what your best friend would do if you were to go out with her ex. If she was really your best friend, she would understand and she would let you go out with him-but come on thats never gonna happen. You need to find out who you like more, this guy, or your friend. It sound to me that he sorta like you, and if your friend knows he flirts with you, and shes not jealous shes\n- in it because the guy is popular\n- is a whore that just wants to sleep with her boyfriend until she is bored\n- is trying to tell herself shes being uptight\nYou need to know if he likes you before you do anything about your friend. Ask one of his friends or a brother or sister of his. It will be hard, but if you loose a friend, how good of a friend is she?\nP.S. Do not go out with this guy directly when he breaks up with your friend. She wont like that, and he wont think your much of a friend. Wait at least two weeks, by then your friend should be interested in some other guy.
380303
Tell her to explain things with him. However, do not interfere with the girl's problems, especially since she will think you are helping to draw her away from her current boyfriend. Or, more directly, you can talk to her boyfriend about the crime he is doing and ask him why he would actually harrass her friend. He's probably not the real boyfriend your crush should have.
51959
Well that's pretty tough...Well be her friend you know talk to and stuff. Soon you'll find out why she likes the guy you hate and who knows she might change her mind. Hope this helps!\n\nP.S. thanx for answerin' my question.
54101
what's worth more to you, your friend, or that boy? but, could you be able to be happy or at least neutral if you know your friend is going out with the guy you like? but, if you tell her that you like him, and then if she thinks your flirting with him, how mad will she get?\nif it was me, it'd just leave him for my friend because to me, my friends come before a possible boyfriend. if i can't be happy seeing them together, i'd just find some way to avoid them when they're together. but, the one thing i wouldn't do is to admit i like him, that'll probably make it harder on her and then i'd feel guilty.\nbut the choice is really up to you, whatever comes first in your heart and can you bear it to see them together? and telling your friend, decide if it's better to tell her or not to depending on how she'll react to it
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
213735
tell him its in the past and he should at least try to get over it. its ok to be gay, people are all different and theres nothing wrong with  a guy liking a guy. But did he want to be gay because of his x girl? maybe, since u say hes cute and nice, he should let that girl go and find someone better, someone who doesnt make fun of a pimple! obviously she wasn't the right on for him!
438680
You tell exactly how you feel. Let her know that you liked the boy first and she know that she was wrong for going with him. When you tell her this make sure you do not say it mean but in a way to let her know that you are trully hurt. Trust me this will work, I just told my best friend how I felt and she broke up with her boyfriend.
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
37586
That;s a hard blow!The only thing that you can do,is not tell your friend that  you like him.Or if she already knows, i am sure that she won't date him for  your sake.You got to remember, there are billions of guys out there.If they do date, just hang with other friends, and tell her that you just want time with her, the same as before, because you don't feel like being the 3rd wheel.It won't be long till another guy catches your attention, and than you can double date.Its not like you were intimate with this guy, so it will be fine,it will just take time to mend your heart after being rejected.Good luck!
617859
I want to say that your friend is wrong for going about it the WRONG way. She should have been honest and maybe it wouldn't feel so bad when it's happened. You have every right to feel betrayed because she was not completely honest with you. Nevertheless we all are humans and as the person before me stated, people act on their instincts. She had a crush on him, or maybe she thought she did or whatever it may be, the realization is that they're having that special thing while you're hurt from it. What I would do is move on. I'd give her my well-wishing and if I could handle being friends with her, I'd maintain contact with her. Don't fall for the "third-wheel" plots, I hate those, make sure to avoid them because you may find yourself becoming extremely angry at your friend and her not knowing it. That's all I can see myself doing in this situation is just moving on. Good luck with this.
617251
The only thing you can do is keep reassuring her that you are not interested in him.  Tell her that she shouldn't get mad at you for something you have no control over.  You can't make him not like you and like her...it's his choice.
805212
Your friend did you a favor and now you want to stab her in the back with her boyfriend?\n\nThat's dirty and low down. You need to find your own boyfriend and leave hers alone.
333984
long distant relationship's usly never work and as bad as your friend my feel try hooking her up with one of your other friends to take her mind of him