how do u no if a married man really loves you?
344457
to tell you the truth, that man does not love you or his wife. if he loved his wife, he would not be cheating on her. if he loved you, he would not be putting u through all of this in the first place. and believe me, if he is cheating on his wife to be with you, when and if you two officially get "together", he will eventually cheat on you too with someone else......because he is a CHEATER!......good luck
162794
Are you really in love with him or the fact that you can talk to him?  Remember, what exists online is a unique enviroment where we all feel protected to some degree.  In the real world the level of comunication between you and this other person will probably not be the same.  Plus there is so much more to being in love with someone and having a relationship.  If your married still then do you really want to risk what you have for something that may not exists?  If your not married, then go slow and get to know this person gradually outside of just chatting because its not just your life but your kids life that you have to be concerned about.
254374
If he is your friend that mean he must understand you plus your benefit he loves you that mean he really really understand you.so if he loves you he cares for you and if he cares for you he wouldn't try to spoil your married life right.However what i see here it's not love it's a guy wants something from you (in the name of Love) and beleive me once he has a piece of it you will be left with nothing as your so called lover will tell you bye and ur husband |I don't know how u gonna face him. So tc do what u think is best it's your call.It's easy to fall in love it's hard to get married to a right person you see.
175250
Well if he really loves you all you need to do is show him you love him tell him you love him and be completely honest with him about everything. Even the smallest little white lie can be a big thing at this point if he thinks you are being the least bit secretive then he will lose more and more trust in you. I know because I am in a similar situation with my wife, and those are the things I wish I could have from her to help me rebuild our trust
36054
go propose... wat r u waiting 4... maybe he too likes u and doesnot kno whether u lik him or not... be honest with him... and brace urself for the worst cases lik "sorry, i am already married".
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
1119567
hi.that's what a lot of married men say.if you love him,you should let him go.tell him you don't want to cause there marriage to brake up.you should say to him you don't want to see him anymore. stand back and see if he leaves his wife anyway.if he doesn't leave his wife,then you'll know he wasn't genuine about the things hes been saying.
608285
If you cant realize what he might be thinking/feeling...\nJust read what typed.  Give the guy a break.  Would you call someone 4 times a day, if you didnt like them??\nThink about it for just one minute.  He could be justa tad shy, + you're still married.
252463
If me made this claim about marriage just prior to getting you in bed, then nope, he probably doesn't love you.  If he came up with the marriage idea on his own and without any benefits attached to it, then he probably does love you.  Tell him that you love him (I guess you have already done this) and see what kind of response you receive.  If you get something like "you too" or "uh huh" that's not a good sign.  If he responds by looking you in the eyes and sincerely says "I love you too" then he probably loves you.  Communication is the key here, if you can't tell if he loves you or not then you don't want to get married any time soon anyway.
451772
go and meet him but you have to see carefully if he actually loves you or not.\nIf you actually feel that he loves you, marry again
1155769
You will know when man loves you when he is totally faithful to you, doesn't hide things or lie (ie. is open and honest), when he treats you like you are the most important person in his life, when he respects your opinion (even if it is different from his), when he puts you first before himself and when he makes you feel like you are the most beautiful woman on earth to him and he sincerely means it. I know because my man of 18 years still does all of these things every day!
664316
If you beleve in God then i will tell you that you must get on your knees and pray like you never prayed before.  At this time you need the Lord to tell you what your next move is.  I know that it may be hard to believe that someone you do not see can give you the best answer however it s true.  Listen and you wil hear him tell you the best way to handle things.  You can forgive him however that does not mean that you should stay married .  That depends on if you think that he will never do it agin.  Pay attention to his patterns and observe before you are quick to ask.   From experience a man will lie and lie until he is caught up.  Sometimes we woman speak to quick.  Let time reveal what type of person he is.  Time will tell if he is doing this because he just does not care or if he really has a problem.
514630
when u do see him b a wife
312621
you just have to trust and look for the signs... if he is getting some from another source, he will not be able to look you in the eyes. STAY STRONG! if he really loves you he will not ask for sex until you are married.
680634
It is a little late in the game to be asking that question, it should have been asked and answered before you got married.  I think that you should look at his actions to see if he loves you.  Does he tell you that he loves you?  Does he make you feel special or worthless?  Does he do special things for you?  Does he build you up or tear you down?  Is he abusive...physically, sexually or emotionally?  You should talk to him and ask what he is feeling towards you...tell him how much you need the reassurance.   It sounds like it may be silly, but you need the reassurance and this is the only person in the world that you should be able to be completely open and vulnerable with.  Good luck!
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
665338
I love my husband so the married man i'm inlove with is married TO ME.