is moving on from love hard to do?
351131
Yes but you come out of failed relationships knowing a little bit more of what you need to change to find a lasting one. And a little bit more to knowing what it takes (or doesn't take) to make you happy.
41992
Boy does this question bring back memories. The simplest answer is one day at a time. It's like when you first moved out of your parents house but with a lot more luggage (physical and psychological).\n\nIt wasn't easy for me either. You really have to start back at square one. The only advantage is you are older and wiser. Take small steps in all of your commitments, emotional, financial, and romantic/dating.\n\nFeel free to email / IM me if you have specific questions. This looks like an easy question, but for those of us that have been there... it's just the tip of the iceberg.
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
964105
no you should try to move on but always have a place for them in your heart\nsry, i hope it works out
1013435
Time will ease your pain, it isn't something you can't change over night, it took me 3 years to finally forget about a past love. We shared a lot of things and to get over home it is hard, I was married for two of the three years it took me to forget about him, it is part of the normal healing process. But remember, nothing is gonna change your situation. Life doesn't stop and wait for you to live it it keeps on going, so you are only missing out. The best remedy is to keep on living. It was better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.
515039
many things in life are hard. you simply need to let him go and move on with your life
77634
You don't let go of love... love will let go of you.  When the time is right you move on & you won't even realize it until you see a picture or are reminded of them.. It may take months or years, but it will go faster if you don't try to hold onto it (don't think about them all the time, put up things that remind you of them)  .....  that is he best advice I have.. hope it helps you some.
81629
If you have to ask, you're not there yet.  Love can creep up on ya and just kinda take your breath away.  You'll know.  It's an awesome feeling, but at the same time it can be very hard.
1063059
love takes more effort
921165
Well, you made the move so you will need to end it with the man you love. Why the move though? Why leave the man you love behind? I'm sure it was a real good reason to leave him. You can try to continue your love but there will be difficult times ahead. Prepare yourself. It's is time to move forward. Good luck.....SAM
1138172
Yes, they can work out.  You just have to be very patient, and you have to work at it, like any other relationship.  You have to be stubborn too, sometimes.  Well, one of you will have to be.  If you get know them, and you want them, go after them.  I regret much more the things I didn't do in my life than the things I have done.  I try to remember that, and not run from the things, or people, I care about.  I want my squishy, and I want to make her happy, so that's what I'm going to do.
457858
definetely move on with your life. this may seem hard to do but its best for you. there are plenty of fish in the sea, one especially for you.good luck.
50388
ummmmmm, actually it's really hard. i think we are in the same situation the only difference is mine is a girl. i think u should move on. it's really normal to think of him and love him because u just do. but u don't have to suffer because of him. think that there are still many guys out there willing to have a realtionship. and how can u know? maybe u'll find better guy to love and he'll do the same without leaving u. haha! life is just like that. sometimes loving others could be so painful and difficult but amazing to know that no matter how hard it is, loving someone is still the simplest reasonwhy u always find urself smiling though it hurts. so just try and try. Move on! there are lots of things to discover.
729134
maybe you won't. and that's not ideal but it is what it is. if you really want to move on than just give it time and keep yourself busy -- this might be a great time to learn a new trade or language :-).  Avoid sad songs and love movies.
405366
If you know it is over and you want to move on, it really is very easy.  Your forgivness is NOT for his sake, but for yours.  By forgiving, you will leave the burden behind and open your heart for true love.  Not forgiving will be harder and hurt only you!  Forgive and move on!
952855
Just try to move on, every love is tough to overcome but in the end there is only one true love to whom you'll be with. Good luck
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.