Restraining order against me?
351839
I am a police officer and helping to get your stuff back is our job... You must have had one slacker as a police officer. If you don't care about your mom, threaten to call the cops on her. There are plenty of homeless shelters downtown.. You better check those out.
969073
Why would you want to do that? You are just asking for more trouble by getting back together with this guy. The restraining order is in place for you to enforce, you can do whatever you want to do, I do not believe they drop court orders, they are amended.
310135
I don't know where these folks are getting their information.  A restraining order is not a criminal conviction, so it should not appear on a criminal background check.
407160
You can fight a restraining order in court-when they serve you with a restraining order-you are given a court date. You are bitter. Deal with your stress better. You can not blame her for controlling your life. You are the maker of your destiny. Pull your head out of your rectum!!!!
271435
get a new number and only give it to people who ABSOLUTELY need it.  or screen your calls.  also, i'd consider get a restraining order, seriously.  i had a bf once who's ex called CONSTANTLY, it was bad, we contacted a lawyer and managed to get an order stating she had to leave us alone, because she was stalking us.
467032
if u have proof opt for an orer of protection because when restraining orders a violated they tend to not do much about it. but at least file a police resport and keep it with you for proof of the stalker. that way later when something goes down at least you have something to show all the steps you took in court.
370584
Is it to the point where you can call the police to get a restraining order? And if so, have you done that yet? Some people do think they are outside of the law, and ignore such "orders". The police, sometimes, will say "well, if he hasn't DONE ANYTHING, then we can't charge him..etc", which is totally ridiculous, what are they waiting for? Something horrible to happen before they realize that something needs to be done?\nIf you CAN'T obtain a restraining order because of such reason as stated above you need to do some things to keep yourself safe, and to SHOW to the police.\nFirst of all, put 911 on #1 of your speed-dial of your phone. Second, keep a journal on EVERYTHING he does - phone-calls, exactly what he says, if he shows up at your house, mark down the day, time, exactly what he says, or does etc. TELL HIM IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS THAT HE IS NO LONGER WELCOME AND CANNOT JUST SHOW UP AT YOUR HOME, OR PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT, OR CALL YOU OR BOTHER YOU AGAIN! If you are REALLY scared of physical harm, go to a Safe House (Home for Abused Women), and call the police from there, or call the police and ask them to TAKE YOU THERE! \nGood luck, and God Bless You. I hope soon you feel safe and secure in your home!
8864
If you have charges filed against you, you may contact the court to appropriate steps to take to answer the charges.\n\nIf an order or proctection/injunction against harassment has been filed against you, you can request for a hearing before the court that issued the order/injunction.
663041
do the words "restraining order" come to mind here.\n\nGO GET ONE on her.
642264
Be firm in your convictions. If he continues to threaten you get an order of protection or restraining order against him. \n\nThis guy obviously has issues and should seek counseling or attend anger management classes.
37575
Sounds like you could use a restraining order.
1027876
ok first off if you have a restrining order against him that he can not contact u at all..meaning comoing by you..sending you mail..iming you....sending you via e-mailing..calling you an so forth..if he voilates this at all he should go to jail..if the police arent doing there jobs an lockin him up by now..then you can sue the police department for not doing there job also you can contact the judge that granted you the redtraining order an tell him..plus you can contact the states attorneys office an tell them about your situation an they will make something happen sice the police wont like it if you go above thier heads....also carry some pepper sray with you to protect yourself...an you shouldn't have to change you screen names or number..hes the one in fault he should be punished an you should be able to go about living you life free of his wierdo assss
873315
You shouldn't do anything. The restraining order is to prevent Susan from being within 100 yards of your mom -- and so it's up to your mom to notify the police that she's violating the restraining order. Angel's allowing her into the house has nothing to do with it, from the law's perspective -- it's Susan's responsibility to comply with the restraining order, and your mom's responsibility to notify the police when Susan doesn't comply.\n\nSo, in short:\n\n1. Not your job to call the police;\n2. Very much your mother's job to call the police, esp. since if she doesn't do it right away, the judge is likely to assume your mother doesn't feel threatened and so will invalidate the restraining order -- if you're going to do anything, make your mom aware of this;\n3. No legal culpability for Angel.\n\nGood luck.
487992
from my experience, he is in contempt of court by not following the judges orders.  this is pretty devious but it was done to me and it worked wonders...have an order of protection put on him and request custody of your daughter.  order of protection are much more than a restraining order.  police action will be taken anytime you request.  of course all you have to do is tell your lawyer or just go to the special victims unit and that you feel your life is in danger or has been threatened.  he will be screwed.  it still haunts me.  police used to call my cell phone and ask we i was at the moment.  all because she said i drove by the house.  none of what she told the police was true, and it didn't matter.  that order of protection sucks.  anytime he violates it, automatic 10 days in jail.  its dirty but its one way to stick it to him.  good luck.  oh, and there was no investigation to see if she was even telling the truth.  they just issued it and enforced it.
238998
It sounds like a "No Contact Order." Which can be issued against a convicted abuser. The Prosecution would need to fear for your safety.\n\nIf this isn't the case. . .
858814
You need to tell him that if he shows up again, you will call the cops.  If you are serious about this, you need to tell him this, and if it does happen you need to do it...PERIOD!!! \n\nYou gotta make it very clear to him that you dont want him.  CALL THE COPS, becuz this is borderline, STALKER!!!  if you are definitely serious about this, then you need to let him know you are going to do this and if he shows up again, let him know to wait right there on the doorstep becuz you are now....CALLING THE COPS.  I bet you he wont come back again and if he does, get the restraining order.  Ever time he comes back, he will be put right in the jail cell and having dudes calling him honey bun and sugar stick *winking* if u know what i mean...
1089151
You could try calling the clerk of superior court's office in the county that the person was living in that had the restraining order taken out against him.  But they may or may not give that information out over the phone.  It's considered public record in most places, so you should be able to go there and look it up yourself, that is if you want to know badly enough to travel out of state to find out!