i saw my exbf at the bowling alley not too long ago and it wasn't my best night-all gutterballs. but then, ...
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Just tell him that seeing him there was a little awckward for you and you're not really sure why.  Or tell him you were having a bad day and didn't really feel much like associating with other people.  Or, you can just tell him, "we broke up a year ago and never really talk anymore.  I wasn't ignoring you and i don't think you're weird. I just didn't have any reason to talk to you is all"
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I almost left my spouse and I am so thankful I didn't.  I deserved to lose everything/everybody in my life because of my stupidity but I believe God intervened for me.  I am not going to badmouth this person because I am just as much to blame for this mess as he but he definitely was not the person I thought he was.  It has been over for 2 years and I am still paying for this really bad decision.  I will say it before everyone else will, "what goes around comes around."  I deserve that one.
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I can handle pain better than before...\nWell before she left me I was not able to do that...
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i saw 1 a few weeks ago
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Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)
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I was saddened to see that an a$$hole showed up before I could answer you, but maybe it is a blessing in disguise. There will always be those out there who are willing and even anxious to see you stumble, and the sooner you develop coping skills for dealing with them, too the better off you'll be. But I want to congratulate you on your choice for recovery, and I wish for you every good thing life has to offer. One day at a time. Be well.
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The other day I was bowling and when I walked up to the line to throw my ball an old man next to me farted sooooo loud.  I could barely roll the ball and tried to keep from laughing.  It was a squealing one.
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My ex boyfriend was pretty violent, we got into a fight one day and he punched me hard in the stomach. The pain was head numbing and I threw up right afterwards. .. ...
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Dear girl,\nI am suspecting that you are quite young if you're still not backing up since your Ex told you to. I would recommend, please give it a time. I know how you feel inside. I've been there, and it felt horrible at the time. But, trust me! After a while, maybe 3 weeks, maybe 3 months, but you'll feel much better. You will get over him! And you'll wonder why you were suffering as you are right now! The possible reason for your Ex acting this way is maybe that he have found his true love. And now he doesn't want to ruin it. Probably, his new girlfriend doesn't want you guys hanging out. So, please have some dignity and let him go. Don't be surprised though, if you get a call in few years from your Ex. So, I hope that you understand what I'm trying to say. Good luck!
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He is an asshole and was probably just trying to get some at the dance.  you can do better.  Try to move on
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when I was in college I was, I can't access IM right now due to my location, but I will tell you this. I sped up her divorce, which was good for him and her. I was her Rock, because her family didn't like what she was doing and basically shut her out. After the Divorce her family started to accept her again and at the point I became "to annoying to be with" and now she is living in AZ somewhere with her dream man from HighSchool. So in a sense I ended a bad relationship, Got really really heart broken (which I learned alot about myself) and now 2 other people are happier because of what I did
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my ex is in this university and he says it is not bad at all, though not as good as his previous one, in terms of friends
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maybe when you told him he wasn't getting any , he stayed with you just in case you eventually let your guard down, he is an idiot to not call you after running around after you so much..leaving town is a BullSh*t excuse and now he is probably looking elsewhere....you were indeed played like a hand of poker..get over it and find someone who can treat you right
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you could maybe go bowling.
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It's possible he gained some experience. If you  believe he's worth another shot, then do so. Otherwise, let him grind at the thought of having messed up what could have been the best thing of his life.
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It's been years. Not too much ever p*sses me off.\n\nI had an exboyfriend a few yrs. back that was extremely jealous, and he would accuse me of crazy things that I couldn't even dream of doing. I had a couple hissy fits in that relationship because he would frustrate the hell out of me. But since then...none.
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My soon to be ex husband.  LOL