what should i do with the guy dat i love but treats me bad?
340661
Dump him and find someone better who will really love you.
859568
well if he is acting rude around you...then you need to get over this guy. it isnt worth it if he treats you this way. also start doing little things by urself then move on to bigger things and you could get out of ur wimpy stage!
788266
He is a jerk... and he was trying to play you. I suggest you move on and find another cutie that doesn't lie and treats you right :)
329739
Diana..this is what i think u should do..sit down and talk to him about the way he treats u..tell him first about the good things that u love about him..but then tell him that he needs to trust u when u go out with your friends or if u just go out by yourself..(shopping or grabbing a bite to eat)..tell him in a kind way that if he keeps this up..u won't put up with it cause u want him to be part of your life and not your whole life..if it gets messy where he does hit u....stand up for yourself and have him arrested then gey a restraining order on him..its that simple sweety....please please don't be one of those gals that end up in a abuses relationship...
654518
hes probably a sore loser because girls dump him so he takes it out on you. my advice is find some one who can treat you right and in the way you deserve to be treated.
803721
Get rid, I don't think anybody should be controlled. Find somebody who loves you and is genuine. Just because he is sweet it does not mean he can't be nasty. He's shown his true colours. No women deserves to be manipulated and grounded. Good Luck
593172
Have you talked to him about this?\nCommunication is important.  If he is unaware that he is being rude, then he will not know to stop.\n\n\n"If he truly loved you, he would give it up for you, or at least cut down on it alot."\nHow manipulative.  So if somebody loves you then they should give up things for you?"
874586
He is getting back at you for what you did.  I say go and dump that sore loser because you are better than that and you deserve to be treated better you should get more than a not as much you should get a definitly and positivly.  He does not know what he's missing and when you dump him he will come crawling back to you like a sore loser.  I bet he liked you before but still not for love.
1083648
FORGET him. He's just using you, love. Trust me, you need to cut him out of your life. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you MUCH better.
228233
Well, it's sad but true: IGNORE HIM!!! it really works 4 me, when my guy is ignoring me or wants to treat me like I don't even exist, I show him he cannot do it to me and just pretend that I got to accept it just because I love him, so, I ignore him until he's forced to react and ask what happens, and when he asks me I just tell him: U just got to learn to treat me as the magnificent woman I'm not as a ****!!
876705
Unless his BadBoy behavior is going to put you in danger or in some legal crap I say follow your heart. Just dont think you can tone him down once you get with him.  If hes a really really bad boy consider this. Are you up to staying up late being worried sick knowing what it is he does about if he'll make it back to you in one piece. If your the BadBoys  girl you a BadGirl in the sense that he might want somebody who gone be down 'fa wuteva'. Are you gon Ride or Die?\n\n"I put this on my life, aint nothing and noone gon ever come between us and I promise o give my life. My love and my trust if you was my boyfriend."-Beyonce to Jay-Z
599523
If you have to ask that you aren't in love.  As for the way he treats you........ GET OUT NOW!  Nobody deserves that.  Where is your self esteem?  It is only going to get worse. Go to a shelter if you need to but dump the jerk. Good Luck
646839
Forget about him. If he doesnt treat you right then why should you even bother with him? he's just using you find somebody better that nows how to treat you like a lady. It may be hard to forget about him but its better then getting hurt all the time.
158261
You should not be with someone who would treat you in this manner.Tell him it is over and stick to your guns on this for a while.See if he changes in time but chances are he will not change.If not move on to someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated.
926192
The bad stuff sounds pretty bad.  Learn and move along. He doesn't love you completely.  It sounds like he's shell shocked from your behavior and is trying to figure out a way to get away from you safely.  Whatever you did, make sure it doesn't happen again.  Leave this poor guy alone.  Get yourself straight, and try not to let anymore "bad stuff" happen.
769898
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
337335
He doesn't tell you he care because you treat him like shit. Try treating him like a human being and he will tell you he cares.Come to think about it;you are being a little abusive,don't you think.Treat him like you want to be treated.