How do I find an intelligent, masculine, outdoorsy, travelin kinda guy, thats also into guys?
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If you're in an area with a large gay population, try looking for a gay hiking club, or cycling club (or similar group).  That might be a good way to meet such a person.  Your local Gay and lesbian support organisation/national gay sporting body  should be able to put you in touch with one if it exists.  If there isn't one, consider starting one!\n\nIf you're in an area where we're thinner on the ground, you may need to look further afield using the internet (that's what I did).  I recommend staying away from Gaydar and other really commercial sites.\n\nOr, you could try joining a nature conservation group (if you're into that), or a group of people who do volunteer work outdoors, or a political group.\n\nBe yourself, and the right person will make their way to you.
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I think that you have to ask yourself another question ... what types of males do you want. Visualize the person who you want to use this ... and talk to him.
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hey.  Well im almost 21... I look for personality as a main thing in guys.  You need to be able to have something to chat about or something in common.  Looks / cutiness.  Next as you need some attraction to them  Looks are not everything but you need some attraction.  Then id say must be funny, daring and playful with a sence of fun and outgoing!
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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You sound absolutely divine to me.  If you were straight, I'd chase you down like the meat-free hottie you are.  You are not eccentric.  Listen, I know several gay men with values similar to yours.  My advice?  Move to a university town with a diverse, cosmopolitan community of people.  Take salsa classes.  Join a animal rights group.  Attend a Unitarian Universalist church.  You will find men like yourself, I promise.  Just be firm in your beliefs, never compromise yourself, and trust that the right man will enter your life.  Believe me: He is out there and he probably feels just as isolated as you do.  Good luck.
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I like guys who are:\npositive\nchristians\nfunny\nalways smiling\nfriendly\nfree spirited\ncaring && thoughtful\ncompasinate\nsporty\netc.\n\n\nI DO NOT like guys that are:\noverly controlive\nprideful\nrude\nannoying\npushy\nshallow
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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Well when I look for a man, I look for someone I can be "me" around. Someone who is attractive in his only way. Someone nice, a little cocky. Nice truck or car is a bonus, but he has to be able to make me laugh.
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I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place.  If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look.  You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in.  Be yourself and say what you feel.  Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.
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just go out and meet another guy
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this may be hard, i live in az as well. bookstores, movies, parks, there are many places that intelligent men hang out. it all matters where ur looking. \n\n19\nur still young really u are. dont expect to get it all so fast, love comes when u least expect it
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there are many descent guys out there, you just have to find them. Good Luck
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Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
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Hi Nikki,\n\nFirst, be yourself and work on developing yourself as an individual. Then, one day you will know what a good guy is to know what he is looking for.\n\nProbably most of the response you will get, here, are superficial and shallow responses by us, hormone-driven men. But a good guy will look beyond that.
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I would love to have an encounter with a guy that is very open minded . Got any Ideas ?
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Become a whole and complete person.\n\nGet a hobby or two, or six. Learn new things, travel to new places, spend time meeting and hanging out with new people. Do all of this for you, not to get a boyfriend.\n\nInevitably, one of the many new people you meet will be a boy whom you find attractive, and who finds you attractive. Since you'll have these hobbies, and you will have been travelling, you'll be a very interesting person as well. This will interest him, and he will ask you out.\n\nOr, you'll learn how to be bold enough to ask him out. Either way.\n\nOh, one more thing: for the love of all that is holy, stop using the word "like" in the middle of sentences. I guarantee that at least a couple of boys who would have asked you out decided not to do so because of that annoying habit, just like if they saw you biting your nails.\n\n"I want a boyfriend, because my friends are going away. What do I do?" is the proper way to say it, and that'll attract a far better class of boy.
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Look arizona guys aren't so hot but Alabama boys are HOOOOOOOOTTTTTTTTTTTYYYYYYSSSSSSSSSs You'll not really find a cute one, if u go to the grand canyon lots of toruits are there and are hot.oh and can u add me to your friend list?