sould i break up with him even if itruly love him?
347613
I will never say that you dont love him. He might truly mean the world to you. But you have to look out for your best interest. You are 13 years old and have a lot of great experiences and 'firsts' ahead of you--homecomings, proms, driving, more dates, making captain of a school team-- i wouldn't limit yourself to one guy who is past all these life changing events. I also dont think that it is healthy that he is in jail already. He might bring you down with him one day.  My only suggestion is to be his friend.  That way you can still care about him as much as you want, but you also have the ability to go out and do what you want. There are going to be so many guys in your life throughout high school.  I am sure that you are ready to handle an adult relationship, but I would have as much fun until you absolutely have too. I was tied up with one long relationship after another. And now I am 23 looking back and wishing that I had given myself the chance to go off and have fun.  So, be his friend, and if later on in life, you are still in love with him, then make the commitment to each other.
316734
well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
418991
Everybody should have requirements in all relationships.  But, rather you should break up with him is your own decision.  Go with your heart.
1076526
If you truly love him, then you wouldn't want to break up with him.  I think you are the one who doesn't understand.
230678
If you don't like him, it is not fair to him to be with you. Break up with him and tell him how you feel.
215723
I think you don't love him. And he is going too fast, if there was a chance for you to love him he is messing it up. Go tell him that directly and I don't see why you shouldn't break up.
873242
In order to make a relationship work, there should always be compromise. I think you and your bf should sit down and talk about having such relationship and find solutions that would satisfy both of you..like visits once a month or...eventually you moving on with him or something. But if you think breaking up with him would be easier then by all means do it.
868131
Honey - you said it all already - you knew he wasnt right for you.  Sounds like you are just lonely now and your current relationship might not be the right one for you as a marriage.  Its too late now, and no matter how much you might want to - you cant go back in time and change things.  And truthfully, you probably really wouldnt want to.  Whatever made you break up with him, it would have gotten worse.  Chin up dear girl, plenty of fish in the sea :)
974640
You have separation issues..And l don't mean this in a bad way..You can't stand him but at the same time you feel comfortable in the relationship..Let him walk..Your young and soon enough you'll find someone else that you will love..and be able to stand...
287634
If you love him, yes. But why did you guys break up in the first place? Did he cheat on you or vise versa? Did he lie to you or vise versa? Do you guys trust each other? Really think about these things. Then decide from there.
224502
try getting away on the weekends or having alone times and talk it out. express your feelings to him. talk it out. did i forget to say talk it out ? find out why you dont like but love him and work on that. or try getting help.
25026
You should sit down with your boyfriend and make clear that you don't want to break up, if he really loves you he'll understand your position and will try to fight for that relationship.. But if he still wants out, beleive me girl, he doesn't love you the way you think.. Just think about it.. when someone is in love with another person, that someone will do anything to keep it together and will fight for his/her love...
905925
You should break up with him.  I mean if you are really sorry then give him his freedom from you.
672699
DEFANIYLEY NOT!!!!!! NEWS FLASH YOU HAVE A MAN AND IF YOU LOVE HIM STICK WITH HIM!!!
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
542473
You sound like you are trying to justify breaking up with him.  From the way you describe yourself, I would say that you did do the right thing.  If you are a flirt and he is the jealous type it would never work.  I wish you the best in the world.  May you find happiness.
841688
You don't have a rel'ship with this guy, no matter what he may think.  Tell him so.  If you try "breaking up" with him, you are saying you DO have one.