If a guy likes kids, do women think that is less that masculine? (see below)?
346333
i think that its good for a guy 2 like kids...i mean it shows compassion
419094
Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
939327
it depends on the man.  but don't dwell over it men like women that are confident about who they are. be happy. :)
444467
I definitely think it is nuture.  Because if it were nature, more women would want to be mothers, right?  I know of a lot of women who say they do NOT want kids and they don't really have a motherly personality.  I mean, they aren't that great with kids to begin with.
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Dating a guy and seeking out a father-figure for your kid are 2 different things.  Don't deny yourself of dating someone if you want to.\n\nWhen I was single, I didn't date women with kids, because I figured they were looking for a Dad figure for their kids. \n\nNow that I'm a widower father of a kid, I'll date a gal who's single, but I'm not seeking a Mother figure for my kid.\n\nBut, don't forget to put aside some playtime for yourself.  You were who you are before you had kids.
459147
yes im with one but it shouldnt matter whether hes got kids or not as long as he loves you and loves kids and doesnt put his own needs before your kids. good luck
348166
Most men prefer a woman with curves. I know I do! My wife is very curvy and voluptuous and she is PERFECT!.\n\nTrust me, most men - notice I didn't say boys - definitely prefer a woman that looks and feels like a woman.
675713
Common? Male older. But who cares age is a # only. Many men like older women. Less issues. Think about it.
248744
guys who are not put off by intimacy usually find breastfeeding at least marginally sexy, if not interesting. however, men who are afraid of intimacy for whatever reason, or have trouble expressing their feelings will have a blunted reaction-no matter what their true feelings are. my opinion as a guy is that most men find it sexy.
259705
your asking for a generic answer of what does a man of 32 like? It doesnt work like that all guys are not the same. He's your brother and your asking us what he likes? come on
587472
Most men do not.\n\nSome men are driven to it, especially if a women show no interest in them once children arrive.
332804
Depends upon the guy, the gal and their relationship.\n\nSome guys like to feel in control.  They always want to make each move to a new level.  They are usually the ones who have problems making a commitment.  They seldom learn how to express themselves as far as emotions go.\n\nSome guys do not mind if the gal is "aggressive" or "forward."  They would just as soon not have the worry about what is to happen next, but do like to get things started occasionally.  This guys tend to be balanced and "tit for tat" kinds of people.  They can and do learn to express their emotions.\n\nSome guys seem to want "another mother."  They want the woman in total control.  They do not wish to ever have to decide anything.  These are usually very happy when the gals seldom asks their opinion.  There are not too many of these out there.  These also tend to be emotional wrecks.\n\nSome guys are mixtures, so you might have to pay attention to the guy to see how they fit.
1977
i don't think this depends on gender...it is a question of whether they (male or female) have common decency!
845166
I prefer to date any girl who is good @ heart, is helpful and sincere and generally has a good aura about her. I doesn’t matter to me if she’s a single mom or a single girl. Character is not defined by having kids. I however do think that single moms are more caring and compassionate as they have gone through tough times (possibly) and have kids to take care of as well. I’ve never dated one though, not that I won’t if I’m presented with the chance. The chance never came for me to do so.
916229
Yes it is. Looking around at even my own family I can see the pitfalls they are getting into with my grandson. "Boys don't cry" Oh gosh. It is society, upbringing etc that make men the way they are. I truly do feel that a man is every bit the same as a woman in this sense, but society rules that men are supposed to be hard and not emotional, if they are any different society treats them in a negative way.\nMy husband is a very gentle character and he was certainly picked on at school because of it. There is nothing wrong with a calm mannered man who is in touch with his feelings just as women are considered to be.\nIt has to start with the children not bringing them up to think that all men have to be strong, hard, not in touch with the feminine side of themselves. \nI fear that as life has always portrayed men in this way, it just will not change. \nI encourage my grandson as I did my  boys that it's ok to cry and be emotional if and when these feelings arise. \nIf more people did this maybe society would be so much better. \nThe macho image of men is not always right. It's all down to how we are conditioned throughout life.
1183250
You just tell them how you honestly feel. You can't concern yourself with if they are going to be hurt or not. Both men and women have a hard time finding a partner when they have young kinds, unfortunately its worse for the woman with young kids. Its a matter of choice, and if you prefer not to date someone with young kids, that is your perogative and you have the right to make that decision. What's important here is your happiness in life with another.
667613
Indeed. But then again, it depends on if his children are already having a lot of terrible behavioral issues and if their mother is woman enough to try and be civil with the new woman in Dad's life.\n\nI don't instantly disqualify men for having kids, but I do dig a little deeper to find out if there are any red flags. There's no sense in getting invovled with a man with children if you're not going to be in it for the long haul.\n\nI believe that like women who are single moms, single Father's are a sacred thing. Don't start trampling on the hearts of our youth...that's a whole different kind of bad karma.\n\nbest of luck!