wat can i do??????!!!?
340788
Begin to talk to him.  Hang out with him and if he likes you, he'll ask you out.  If he doesn't and asks the other girl out, you aren't meant to be and that's really SAD but it's the part of life.  You'll move on and you'll find another guy your boy crazy.  It took me a couple of months for my self not liking a guy...js
972527
GET OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER AND MOVE YOUR ASS!!!\n\n(there... is that what you wanted?)
628783
not much you can do, except tell him how you feel. you can't control what other people do, i would suggest you move on though.
903684
Kudos to you for realizing that that boy (note, he's not a man) was an idiot.  Anyone who would put you second to someone else, disrespect you, and hurt you is not worth anyone's time let alone your time.  Every woman deserves respect and every woman should demand respect.  I reccommend hanging out with any close female friends you might have.  Rent movies, eat your favorite foods, have  good time being with people who are worthy of being in your company.  Finally, take up something you've always wanted to do, be it a sport, yoga, knitting, scrapbooking, rapping, dancing, cooking, the list could go on and on.  Be adventurous, concentrate on yourself, and congratulate your reflection in the mirror every morning for dumping that immature sack of baggage that you now no longer have to be burdened with. (If he was able to make fun of the woman he was supposed to care for, what else was he doing?)
533505
Act like nothing happened. Most likely their grown up by now and maybe even feel remorse for there previous actions. Be the bigger person. Say hello, how are you, and be on your way.
669168
It's always hard to change your feelings. That part just takes time and strength. As for confronting him. Be civil and calm. If he still won't talk to you about it, make sure he knows how you feel. If he can't talk he can listen. It will make you feel better to get that out and off of your chest. If he won't listen, send him a letter and then leave it be. Don't talk to him, don't be around him, and don't let yourself think about him. If a thought comes in your head. Push it out and make yourself do something to distract you. Also, they say the best way to forget someone is to get somebody new. It works for me. You can try it. :^) I wish you the best and if you need anymore advice or support feel free to contact me. :^)
1176020
try getting a new man who might care about u more.
149024
Listen to him.  Show that you care how he feels and what he is doing with his life.  Smile!!!!
241217
Nothing you can do really.\n\nIt sucks, but it will get easier to deal with in time.
144541
Get your butt out there and find people that do like you, try tons of new things, join new clubs and take a look at yourself, start liking yourself and others will like you, make sure you don't complain too much, even if you're really ticked off, just pretend you are having a blast at everything you do, people will start to open up to you, good luck
978077
then go out and party!!!!! have fun with them and enjoy their lifestyle with them. you dont have to change yours but enjoy theirs with them and let them know you are supportive and love them no  matter what any one says.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
393441
Realise the power of your mind.  You can do anything.  You can let the boogyman bother you or you can explode him into non-existance with a blink of an eye if you choose.
48871
Pray to God for help and guidance. In this situation, because there is obviously nothing you can really do, put it in God's hands. I'll be praying for you!! I hope this helps. :)
334000
Get him out of your life and take time to get over him. Don't talk to him at all! That's what worked for me!
220576
think about when somebody makes you mad.  what do you want that person to do? apologize? give you space? comfort you? what? i suggest that you try what ever would work on you.  use your own judgment.
318746
You have to come out of your shell somewhat kid. Do it in small ways that are comfortable for you, maybe talk to him when there aren't a whole bunch of people around. I'm sure he'll think you're great!