I saw my boyfriend nude in the bed with another girl.What shall i do?
355737
Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.
915282
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
127139
talk to him and tell him about the situation..if he really is cheating (which guys normally says "im not cheating!")..caught him in the act..and just think that its not your loss but his!
357212
Why cheapen yourself by doing what he did to him.  He doesn't care what you do.  If he did, he wouldn't have cheated on you with one of your "friends."  Do yourself a favor and invest your time in getting a better boyfriend and a friend that would not sleep with him.
221074
Well if you ever see his penis inside another girl, that's usually a good sign. Sorry for being mean but I had to, I'm mean.  Look for lies about where he was, ask him what he did that night, then the next day tell him you forgot what he did, if his stoy differs, he may be lying and therefore hiding something
484440
well if ur in love with 2 people then lemme tell u something honey, ur not in love. your looking for an outlet to get revenge on ur boyfriend who is treating u badly.
246598
if that's what she wanted to do then that's her although I've never experienced that before, I dont even want my boyfriend to see me having sex or do sexual things with someone else, and most definately dont want him to do it, but like i said she shouldnt feel bad because you gave her permission, but once you two get into an argument dont bring that up because you told her that it was cool, and if she ever want to do it again, you already gave her permission, how could you let another guy touch her anyways, or let her touch another guy? I cant see it, if my boyfriend's gone be with someone else, he's going to sneak and do it
960371
dear partygirl,\nyour boned. there isnt much you can do, by involving both parties in sex you have created paranoia. there realyl is no remedy to this.think about it like this... Q: do you ever wonder if the two see each other without you knowing?  A: you should. i tried this thing that you did and it ended up killing the entire relationship, for both.\nso here is what you should do... in my humble oppinion... figure out what is more important, him or her? then my best advice to you is to cut the relationship off. with one of them only if you want to continue with one... i resolved my own situation with that anwser. now you got to think Q: do they have a right to be justified in jealousy? A: of course they do.  i would be very jealous if i knew that the person i was in a relationship went to someone else with theyre problems. a relationship is best left monogamous... or discreetly otherwise i.e a commited relationship whilst just bringing in outside parties.... like someone you met at a bar or a freind of a freind. nobody close to you. it causes conflict. so basicly figure out who is most important to you, and ditch the other or even better ditch both and find a new guy.
968096
!!!Well , you have a problem there!! I would in this particular situation most likely would somehow leave the (cheating) situation alone and let him now how it feels and that maybe he should think twice before making out with some girl he met that night. Also i would not go out with him because he sound like a slut , especially if he is making out with a girl he just met. I can give you advice but i can not  make the decision for you.\nTootles!!!
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
1011387
hop in bed with him naked
1180274
Glad you can admit you're no good to him or any other good guys out there.  Break up with him, coz you're obviously not in love with him and you don't truly appreciate him, and it'll be better for him in the long run.  As for you,  I 'm not sure if you could ever find true love only because you may cheat on the next guy you're with.  I can only assume that you need a lot of attention, and ONE guy can't fully satisfy you.  Do him a favor, leave him...he doesn't deserve you.  Give him a chance to find someone who will love him and appreciate him.  If you're having seconds thoughts about being a whore, then hopefully it will be the last time he will forgive you.  For him not to move on from all this suggests that he has some sort of low self-esteem, AND you sleeping around just adds more to that.  Stop making him miserable, he deserves more than you.  Stop making yourself miserable by "feeling guilt".  If you truly feel this, you wouldn't have cheated on him again and again and again.  Once a cheater, always a cheater.  Good luck on finding the right guy, coz the next guy may not be as a doormat like this current one.  OR the next one will cheat on you too.  So take your pick, karma's a b**ch.  And as you've heard it, what goes around, comes around.  Also, I hope you didn't transfer any STDs to your so-called boyfriend(don't tell me he's just a friend).  You only have yourself to blame.
1154438
I think first of all you should wait until she officially breaks up with her boyfriend.  Because you're always going to be second best whether you think so or not, and if she's doing this behind her boyfriend's back then, she could do the same thing to you.  You should also be honest with your girlfriend and tell her that you think you two should see other people, because you're just going to make matters worse if you continue this "non-sexual" relationship.  If you both like each other, you'll both do the right or moral thing
1040237
Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
297176
well if you 2 are sexually active with each other make it night he'll never forget. do the works. show him the secret side of yourself. let him know that you're all his and he's all yours.
102843
Try giving him a good dose of what he has been giving you all along and see how he does the vanishing act.Take him on..in his own territory.Even if you're scared to cheat with another guy then atleast create an illusion for him to believe that you're humping behind his back and to add insult to injury leave heavy hints that it's someone he is close too.See how you get instant results.Either he will will leave you...that's what you want anyway or else go down(not on you)but his knees and beg you to give him just one more chance to reform.