If one spouse is trying to divorce the other spouse?
350294
yes it is possible.  You can choose to be in default of the hearing which means that since you did not show up then the decree is defaulted and if the papers have been signed by both parties that is the end of it.
764261
Well you are going to want a divorce after this anyway, so go ahead and call a lawyer.
837381
Should they divorce and remarry their extramarital lovers?  I don't know.  It's not for me to judge another person's life or marriage.  I feel that the problem doesn't begin with the affair; the problem begins with whether or not they should've married one another or not.  It's a step "not to be taken lightly", and those aren't just pretty words that the preacher says at the wedding.  He really, really means just that.  Are they really ready for a lifetime of putting another person ahead of themselves?  I doubt it.  \n\nThe man and woman are both at fault...the other woman and her marriage are beside the point.  We're concerned mainly with this marriage between the husband and wife you speak of, right?  The woman, being Christian, shold be striving to find focus and balance in her own life, knowing herself and where she stands, knowing her own shortcomings, and bravely turning around to face her demons.  Unless you have a good foundation (one's self) anything you build outwardly will just crumble.  So she needs to take a long hard look in the mirror and see that she is not filling out her potential.\n\nThe man, regardless of his religious beliefs, still knows right from wrong.  His wife, haranguing nag though she may be, is still his wife and deserves his honesty and a measure of respect.  If for no other reason than to appease his own conscience that he has done all he can do.  She needs to be given the opportunity to change.  He needed to tell her that her behaviour is making him so unhappy and lonely that he wants to find another woman to take her place.  We all want and need the close companionship of another special person as we go through life.  It is unfair of her to deny this to him.  If she truly cannot offer that to him, it is her responsibility to let him go.  Same goes for her, if the husband had been maltreating her.\n\nPeople are imperfect.  If we base our marriages on the expectation that the other person will always behave honourably and kindly and selflessly, we're in for a shock.  Our spouses will screw up.  WE will screw up.  If you don't make allowances for the frailty of human nature, and prepare yourselves for the eventuality of needing to forgive them for their mistakes, you're stacking the deck against yourselves.
41859
Mutual consent is the best option.  This is a non-contested divorce.  Contact your local courthouse for the paperwork to file for a non-contested dissolution of marriage.  Most courthouse will have the paperwork for you to fill out.  I would start by making a list of the stuff that you want and a list of stuff she wants, have it signed and notarized and indicate that you are both not contesting the divorce.  This will protect the both of you if one decides to start being a problem.
563751
EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT.  It took me FIVE count them 5 years to get my divorce. If you know for a fact that the marriage is over (by meeting the ex or a child if they have one) AND you know the one you are seeing is living apart from their spouse then it is fine.  INVESTIGATE the person and make sure that they are telling you the truth.
27591
Yes you can. It would have to be a joint divorce, with your spouse would probably have to do the filing of the paperwork.
918452
No! Explain your feelings to her, and leave it to her to decide! If she is angered, talk divorce. If she understands, why break a GREAT marriage?
442948
If she is married, get out of this relationship.  There is nowhere for the relationship to go.
414428
haha~... yes, its possible and its happening for quite sometime already... but its HIGHLY not recommended... as you might probably be doing "ONLINE" divorce soon you found out its not the right choice~... haha~...
809905
Sounds like you need space for yourself. Dump the husband since he isn't working with the reconciliation. Then give your self space. Don't let this other guy enter your life too quickly, sounds like he did just that when you were separated. When you are stable from the finalized divorce, then look at your prospects.
530323
Ask your spouse(or whoever you are related to him through)  who will know better than you probably if confrontation will do any good.
803616
I'd get up and leave the room. With that said.  My son says my hubby and I fight alot, and to us we are not fighting.  We are discussing different things and giving our points of view to each other.  Usually we don't raise our voices and maybe it would be considered bickering by some.  But really it is harmless.  So I wouldn't worry about the divorce issue.  If they say they wouldn't get divorced than believe them.  No sense worrying about it until it really happens.  \n\nOn the other end of it.  It is not fair for either of them to ask you to side with them.  But maybe they are trying to get you in on a discussion.  Make it a family thing?\n\nGood luck.
931079
call the number and ask. tell the person u want to divorce her and need them to confess. if she is really cheating, the guy would want you both  to divorce and tell u the truth.
573235
I suspect that the two of you were not telling the same story, although you think you are. But this is immaterial. Why listen to advice from other people? If you have both decided that divorce is the best way forward, then this is what you should do. Forget other people's opinions. These just muddy the water. Just be thankful that the two of you have made this decision and can still be friendly towards each other.
734848
You ask "how do I know WHEN to call it quits"  as if you assume it's inevitable.  Instead ask, "What do I need to do to work this out before it gets worse?"  The same way you would with a sibling or another family member.  You want it to work because they are your family, and you should view your husband the same way.  With a few rare exceptions, divorce shouldn't even be a consideration.  I don't hear anything in what you've said to indicate yours is one of those rare exceptions.
980445
If one party claims that the marriage is not irretrievably broken, then the court can suggest counseling.  I don't believe, however, that they can actually require it, but it can certainly delay the divorce.
366941
Basically a judge decides these things but it can be a contested divorce which means nothing goes until all parties agree. I'd suggest negotiating more...