is it possible to domesticate a 28 year old guy who is all about him?
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Dear, \nGo and get the divorce!!! Is he helping you in anything (love, life, house tasks)? What´s this relationship adds to you? As you told, you will have to work soon ..... what´s he providing to you? \nI was in almost the same situation as you 6 years ago, but had only 1 child ...... Now, we are living in other city, I´m working, taking care of my daughter, doing everything by myself. Of course, with a little help of my mother.\nBelieve, you can do it!!!\nYou are the only person who can change your life, turn it to better!!!\nGood luck!!!\n*sorry for the bad english ;)
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That depends on how old you are. If you are of legal age, then I don't think there is a limit on age. Just remember that if you do engage in a relationship then don't convert yourself just to "make" him like you more. Stay true to yourself and your family.
755027
The most important thing would be religion, personality, and character over what he looks like. Weight is not a factor with me. But age is somewhat, I would not want someone my dad’s age or my son’s age. ↕
531410
If he's right he'll understand.  I'm a 22 year old christian bloke and you may as well write a big V on my forehead.  Be yourself, don't let anyone change that, and be honest, if he's worth it he'll be fine with that.
1092564
holy crap...you're lucky girl...don't let that one get away. he does those things because he wants to. i doubt he expects anything in return. his parents obviously raised him to be a gentleman which is wonderful! i wish my husband was like that.
543955
I think you should consider if the man will live long enough to finish raising your children and be there for you in your later years.  I was told by my parents to find someone within three year of my age and that did not work.
210565
Yes, I know you can.  My girlfriend met a guy on yahoo chat several years ago.  She has a handicapped son and he had 5 kids.  I was very skeptical...thought it would never work.  They got married and he has been her knight in shining Armour!
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He displays more feminine qualities than masculine ones. I just think he hasn't been exposed to sex, hanging out, just being less uptight. He probably has been sheltered and just hasn't came out of it yet. He needs to though, it is not cool to be this old and not acting mature. As for the females, he might just be intimidated by them, but as for acting like a mature college student, he needs to grow up, he is a bad role model for the children he babysits.
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Pretending to be Grown  40-50
675197
I don't know what you want to tell about him. If you have any rare video or audio please tell about it and share it. If you think he is handsome, don't be afraid yes he was. If you want to marry him, no problem more people here had this idea. If you want to celeberate his 60th birthday, be patient there are some plans going around.
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The age thing alone can be a problem....because he would be in trouble since you are so young... But besides the age difference, there could be other problems. I understand how you feel about his and the masochism. I have a strong masochistic nature too. Regardless of the age, this type of relationship can be unhealthy. There is alot of psychological manipulation behind it.....some negative, and in your young age you may not be able to cope with some of that. I was 23 when i was in a relationship like this...i even married him, but it is very tough on your emotional and mental state.....be prepared. My hubby and i aren't together any longer, and i am struggling to maintain a life with some of the psychological "results" of my past relationships..... just be careful....please!
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Dude, he's 28, he's not a kid.
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Be thankful that he is honest. Most men at that age would not be, they would take advantage of you.  You need to let it go, if you force it, and he does come around, it probably will not end well because it was forced.
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You can't make him. He doesn't work for you. Change your attitude and maybe he would gladly do it for you.
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There is nothing wrong at all with that. Don't let yourself get wrapped up in the whole 'age thing'.  If he makes you happy and you enjoy his company, then that's all that matters.
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No, not really. Do whatever your heart tell you to do. Sometimes spontaneous marriages work the best! This way you do not have a certain expectation of a person and you learn to love him for who he is!
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you might be able to teach him that but it would mean more coming from another man. Preferably someone older that he respects the opinion of.