Do you move on after a 3 year relationship or wait?
341582
As time goes on you will heal, don't let the thought of a man bring you down, remember this to shall pass. You had a decision to make and you made it, good for you, you left before it got any worse. Give yourself enough time to realize what you really want out of life, when the time comes and the right person comes along you will just know that you did the right thing. Right now your just looking for a rebound b/c your not used to being alone anymore, try it you just might find out that you like it that way.Good Luck.
238802
It's up to you if you want to wait a year or not. If you and the friend have sparks, go for it! What difference is it going to make with your ex anyway? You didn't cheat, right? You need to do what makes you happy, and if your ex has a problem with it, too bad! Ex's are ex's for a reason!
1142820
wow 3 years ...sounds to me she just wants to be friends....i hope u have been dating others within this 3 years ....Good luck and just have fun!!!  :)
533077
This is a situation that takes lots of time and consideration. I know what you mean I'm in the same boat. I'm 23 with 2 kids and I love my husband dearly, but there is one old boyfriend who makes my heart skip a beat but I know that we weren't meant for each other or things would have happened differently. You love your husband, if you didn't you would've left him by now. The only thing that's different now is the new guy. My advice to you is not to tear up a family of 3 years just because the grass looks greener on the other side, because it never is! Women are hopeless romantics and we would do almost anything to be swept off our feet and ride off into the sunset with prince charming on his white horse. But if you were to leave this man of 3 years what would be different with the new one? Three years from now will be the same story. You have to learn how to make things in your current relationship stay fresh and vibrant. You have to keep the flame burning. When a fire starts to die you just add more wood. Not wait till it burns out and then start a new one. Trust me, if both of you work at it and you keep open and honest communication between you and your spouse you will have a relationship that is almost unheard of now a days!
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
17212
After 7 years if he wants to move on you better let him go.  Everyone goes through a lot of hurt, and the next guy you're with will have gone through a lot of hurt with someone else.  That's how you learn throughout your life.  Don't bang your head against the wall for someone who has said they need to move on.
406765
you just wait till a gurl that you really like and that would respect you for who you are not what you have thats what i did for my BF and we have been together for 3 years it worked out perfectly dont always follow what everyone else does...hope it all works out :)
1012872
I think you shouldn't wait for him and don't rush into a relationship when your not even over your ex. Don't cheat someone out of all of you. Don't go into a relationship half-ass in other words it's not fair to either of you. You can't take his hints as a sign that he might possibly want to get with you. You moved, things changed and they may never go back to what they used to be. Don't assume that you'll never love anyone as you did you EX because even if he was your first love you'll always have a place in your heart for him. But life moves on as did he and when you heart heals then you'll be able to fully commit yourself to someone else. Just give it time it will get better. Good luck gurly!
979066
4 yrs is a long time .thats a toughy. it took me 3 yrs to get over a 3yr relationship.just work and make money and work on urself. make a faster ,stronger and more polished u
407311
Well it's weird that he hasn't noticed that you've had a crush on him for 3 years. However, you should always speak your mind. If you don't tell him you will always be thinking "what if". You wouldn't like to have regrets later on that there's a possibility that you two could have been together.Also you want to be free of this feeling. Just tell him and let him decide if he want's to continue to be with his girlfriend or give you a chance. And if he doesn't feel the same towards you, don't worry, sooner or later you'll forget about him.
940816
welp-i left my man of 3 yrs. & dated other people-i was split up w/him for 2 yrs.-i had 2 other serious relationships n this period & i still missed my ex-& snuck & called him & even saw him once or twice-but n ur situation u may not have 2 worry about that if he's not talkin 2 her--but her---well hunny-if u want 2 b n a serious relationship-it really don't sound like she's the one!!
506481
Damn, that sounds like me.  Gonna be tough starting up any type of relationship w/ anyone after breaking up w/ someone that you were w/ for the past 3 yrs.  I dunno how I would let down my guard.  Just be truthful and true.  Don't be fake, be sincere. I really don't know...
446389
Memories are forever, you won't totally forget them. But I would try to keep busy, and be happy. After 3 yrs I don't think he's coming back anytime soon. Go out and mingle. Chances are you'll find someone else to think and talk about.
294092
No I don't think that you should wait at all.  If it is ment to be it will happen.  Just don't waste your life waiting on him to make up his mind.  If he sees that you are moving on it will make him relize what he is really losing.
587692
It depends on how your ex-relationship ended. If you broke up with her it depends on how you feel about the person you're with. If she broke up with you then don't, you have to keep your dignity. She broke up with you and you have moved on with somebody new.
818779
if you like him it really doesn't matter what your friends thinks...besides, being older can be an advantage in a relation.\nand if you waited for three years, come on! you shouldn't give up just because some fuss\nif you leave him just because of the age, and because of your friends, it would be really silly and insensitive with your own feelings.\nIndepending on the age, you can be good together, and when your heart is broken and you feel alone, there's nothing your friends could do for you (nothing like being with the one you want!)\ngo for it.....care about your feelings....
725841
Eight years?!  Yes, you better just get it over with because it's now or never.   To be safe, be prepared if you don't get the answer that you have been dreaming about.  It's better to know the truth either way, because you have to move on from your current stalemate situation.