I'm 22 and never been kissed. Is that bad?
346546
no it is not bad. believe it or not, many people do not have their first kiss until college or after. it seems like you're waiting for the right guy. good for you! maybe lower your standards a bit, not much. but make sureself seem open. if you have confidence and have fun, guys will be attracted, trust me. well good luck, and hope you find mr.right! :)
986764
First of all you should'nt even be thinking about sex at such a young age. It will probably just ruin your future. Plus lying to people while on the internet is not a very smart thing to do. Your right most men are perverted, but if he really likes you then he wouldn't care if you kiss on the first date or not.\n\nYour still a little to young to actually comprehend relationships. kids these days think just because they have had a boyfriend or a girlfriend ten they understand it. But they don't. You've never even met the guy. So you never know he could be that type of man who is just interested in you for sex.\n\nIf he really likes you like he says then he would take it slow. Besides sex is not a game it is a form of affection between two people who love each other and are married.
1075357
I work with my youth group and I would say this to you. Making out is bad. U have to be careful with what you do and where you do it. Holding hands and quick pecks okay in the mall. In a dark room at home by yourselves, not okay. Things will only lead to bigger things if you allow them to, but the bible says to be wise in all things that you do and making out is not wise. \n\nAlso, you 14. Your too young. I would say wait! Do your parents know, are you allowed to date? If not, then making out is beyond the issue, your disobeying your parents. That's the bigger issue.\n\nYou can email me anytime...BTW....I'm mixed, black and white too!
1068243
I had a friend tell me after I had got engaged "you'll likely never see another woman naked again - and you'll definately never have the feeling of a first kiss again" and it relly didnt bother me. Think that through before commiting and if it scares you then you're not ready.
27138
18 is a great time to start.  You are lucky you didn't do it when you were younger and stupider, there could have been pregnancy or STDs and almost definitly there would have been bad feelings.  You are off to a good start, now you are mature and you can handle your sexuality, you will find a partner with mutual attraction and get it on.  Use protection!
783376
Absolutely normal if you ask me... You're just not ready yet. My advice: take your time, enjoy flirting and don't put any pressure on yourself. It's not obligatory to date... it's suppose to be fun, remember?
1080232
No.  There is nothing with you being a virgin at 22 keep up the good work and stay focused.  The vagina will cause you nothing but heartache and heartbreak if you aren't careful.  Make sure when that time comes, ask yourself is she worth it?  Will I care if I ever see her again? You are in control and you can't get it back so make sure you do your homework.  Once the flood gate is open it's over dude.  Good luck, much love.  Oh, masturbation helps the horny spells.
835213
My bf is 22 and he never had a gf till he was 19.  I think it's cute and shows he had other interests besides just getting laid in high school.  \n\nhe won't laugh at you, why would he?\n\nif anyone asks you again, say "no i haven't had a boyfriend, i've been busy with other things like ___" or "I've been open to the idea of seeing what's out there rather than getting tied down to one person."
464925
still a virgin at age 27
729474
i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
2137
I have never had a boyfriend, but don't feel sorry for me. I am a man.
757128
Girl, BELIEVE ME, u DO NOT want to rush this. As corny as this may sound, u want ur 1st time to be with someone special that u care about. You dont need to rush into this. Ur not weird or anything becuz u havent kissed a boy and trust me everybody IS NOT doing it. Although TV portrays the world that way its OK to not be sexually active or physically active WHATEVER! Just be URSELF and dont rush ur time will come my dear!
313376
i was 14 - it lasted for 3 weeks and i didn't have another boyfriend til i was 18. we didn't even kiss with tongues  because i was scared and didn't know what to do. well, he was 18...\nhow old were you...?
489322
16 to date, dear. I have 4 girls 7, 9, 11, 12. They (the oldest ones) are allowed to have a boyfriend, but in name only. No touching, no dating, the only thing they would be allowed to do is have the boy over here to visit, with me here to supervise. I am shocked that you already had your first kiss. Take it easy, you have the rest of your life, and the sooner you start, the younger you will be when you actually do IT. You don't want to be wearing maternity clothes in the 12th grade. Slow it down, be friends, no dating, and tell those boys to keep their paws to themselves.
685383
Well there is nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at 18.I'm 22 and don't have a gf and am still happy.Of course at the right time she will show up.Maybe u can add me to your messenger so we can chat.my IM is bcoxy06@yahoo.com
177131
I am 27 years old and I have never really dated, so I guess you could say I have literally been single my whole life.
699266
My first kiss was with a girl Patricia Robertson on the bed in my\nbedroom when I was 11.  She had on a bikini and let me touch\nher but we never did that again.\nWhen I was 13 I could get it up to 6 inches + and the lady next\ndoor saw me drying off outside the bathroom door and she waved at me so I waved at her with my stiff rod.  A few weeks\nlater my sister had a bad cold and I had to deliver her customers\npaper's and one was the lady next door.  So I got real cleaned up\nafter school and sat in my window that was above the front porch\nroof and watch for her to come home from work and see if she\nhad her 3 kids with her.  She was divorced.  She took me in the\nfront room and showed me 3 books better than my Dad's which\ndidn't show Pubic hair only boobs and one was a Nudist Colony\nMagazine with pictures of girls my age, teen-age and real old.  I\nliked it best and she showed me how to masturbate after she\ngave me some head but I was so scared that I was the one doing\nsomething wrong I never went back and she must have gotten\nParanoid about it and moved a month or two later.  I am 55 today\nso that was 42 years ago.