what should i say to my girlfriend of about 6 months that will clear any doubt to prove i am loyal to her?
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Sometimes brother, its not what you say, its how you say it.\n\nYou might not have to say the words, I have been entirely faithful to you (bytch!), but you can show her the things you have been doing the whole time, to let her mind be at ease.\n\nGot friends that you've been with that whole time? Introduce them to her, they'll let her know  and it could help alot.\n\ndid you do something (semi)spectacualr for your 6th month anniversary? You know even though you guys were on and off that she remembers brother. . . . THEY ALWAYS REMEMBER\n\nHell man, its been 6 months, let her talk to yer parents, they wont rat on ya (lol).\n\nNo but serious, if all else fails, just hold her hand, lean in slowly and kiss her forehead, look her in her eyes, and tell her bro.
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I think the best thing that u can give her is your honesty.You can tell her really how much you love her and give a night or day to her to ask you everything she want and do it for her.
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Give your true love, trust her, give her a true impression that you do care about her and be ready to sacrifice for her. GIVE true love, get TRUE love
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I'm reliable but I don't put up with foolishness and drama. And if she cheats I won't hesitate to dump her, keep it real with me and I'll keep it real with you. I will not change.
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sounds to me like you're looking for an excuse to wander. if you have to ask why love and loyalty have to come together then i seriously question whether you have ever really felt true love. \nif you feel like you have to "force" yourself to be committed to anyone then you really aren't ready for that committment. that's not wrong. its ok to not be ready. just let her know that although you have strong feelings for her you are still not ready to settle down. just let the girl know that you don't plan on being physically faithful. that is a matter of health as well as heart. if she chooses to stick by you while you make a more firm decision, hurray for you. you found someone who really cares about being with you. \nyou can't be blamed for wanting to explore more of what the world has to offer. i encourage every male AND FEMALE to explore heavily before making a decision to be with that one person. just please let everyone involved that someone else is involved. \nand WEAR A CONDOM.
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Talk to her. Discuss what it is that makes you think she's fooling around. \n\nTry to be non-confrontational. Try to avoid "You always..." or "You never..." Say instead, "When you do (or don't do) this.... I feel this...." Or "When I see you do such-and-such, I wonder what it means."\n\nAsk her what it means. LISTEN to what she says. Repeat it back to her: "I think you're telling me....."\n\nIf you do not feel much better after this discussion, sorry, sweetie, time for a new girlfriend.\n\nI hope you're wrong, and I hope this helps.
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Talk to her alone, and tell her how much you girlfriend means to you.  If you aren't willing to take a bullet for her or marry her once it gets to that point, then you should just quit right now.  I'm sorry if that may have sounded a bit harsh, but relationships aren't things to be played with.  I am only 16, but I have been trying to find that one person who is willing to stay with me for the long run, and not just for the few months.\n\nAnyways, just tell her how much her daughter means to you, and you would never want to hurt her in any way.  Tell her who you truly are, and your girlfriend's mother will truly appreciate how much courage and self-confidence it took for you to say all that to her.  Your girlfriend will also appreciate your care for her and how much you tried to make her mother accept you.\n\nIt might take a bit to build up all that confidence, but it will be VERY worth it in the end.  You now know what must be done, so good luck!
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Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
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No one can tell you what your limits are but yourself & your own heart.  \n\nThese questions should be posed to your significant other as well.  You could ask something like "Just how many times are you expecting me to forgive you?!"\n\nIf she's a really convincing apologizer, it's going to be hard for you to say no because you love her & want to believe her.  But sometimes you need to chill your heart out a little & just try to listen to your mind.  I only say that because you may end up just getting hurt over & over again if you continue to take her back.\n\nI agree w/ you that we shouldn't run away from our problems, but it may turn out that you'll be glad she's just your g/f & not your wife.\n\nSorry I can't be more definitive than that.  Hang in there, ok?  :)
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If your fear of losing "her" exists, you need to ask yourself whether or not this fear has been generated by your thoughts and insecurities, or whether these thoughts have been generated in response to her behavior.  If she has given you reason to believe that you must be fearful of her one day leaving you, or worse, than you need to talk about this problem. There is no healthy relationship between two people where one person threatens the other by leaving.  \nIf you think that this fear is an innate thought, than you need to deal with this problem in a self help way.  Realize that "she" would have left you already if she felt that that was what she wanted.  Clearly she has not, therefore she wants to be with you. As long as you dont let this fear overtake your relationship, you should inevitably get over it. By overtaking I mean becoming over paranoid of cheating, whereabouts, lying, etc.  Ask yourself why you feel this way? Is there a reason? Do you not fully understand her feelings for you? Ask her, talk to her. If you trust her, she will trust you, and there will be no fear of anything ad happening.  And if something does happen, you will know at least tht it is not your fault, and that you will be satisfied in your fufilling your goals of being a good partner.
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Get solid proof to show her.
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If you're asking for a way to say that without hurting her, unfortunately there isn't one. Do it like pulling a band-aid. Anything you tell her will break her heart. Say it soon, so you aren't leading her on, and be ready for the question "Why not?", because it usually comes up. If you don't have a reason why not, are you sure it isn't worth a shot? Good luck with that, it's a hard situation for a nice guy to find himself in.\n\nIf you're not such a nice guy, just ask her if she can wait for six weeks because you're having a "flare-up". That'll do it!
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don't aggravate her by asking what's wrong a thousand times trust me on this my bf was going through the same thing with me, just hug her and tell her you love her often not just when you are about to leave her or get off the phone, tell her often and during your everyday conversation let her know out the blue that if theres ever anything she wants to talk about , you're there no matter what time it is or how petty or small she may think it is, you're always listening, there maybe times where she don't want you to say ANYTHING but just for you to be there to listen so let her know you're there tell her everyday so when the time come and she want to talk she already know that you're willing to listen
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Give her your credit card!!!!\nJust kidding\nTips:\n1. Be truthful, she's got to know that she can trust you\n2. Don't laugh when she's being serious\n3. Listen when she talks, she might mention where she likes to go or what she likes to eat, if you end up taking her to her favorite restruant and buying her favorite Dove chocolate she'll be impressed that you actually listened to what she said.\n4. Never show up sloppy on your dates\n5. If she does something totally embarrassing, don't laugh at her, she might think you were making fun of her\n6. Go shopping with her (no complaining!!!!) and carry her bags (yes, all of them)\n7. Be yourself, don't fake like you're someone else, she'll get mad at you, or if she doesn't find out, you'll have to be a faker until she dumps you\n\nBe happy to see her!!!!!!!
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My answer might sound weired but i think that no matter what she tell u, would not make u feel good if u dont trust her, even if she is telling the truth. \n\nBut if u trust her then no matter whatever she says or do u will be happy. \n\nwhat they say "Love is all about trust". \n\nSo what u must do is to look inside ur self. if u trust her then every thing is good if not, then u'll keep finding reasons to dump her. \n\nStart trusting, even if u fail u would not regret it. \n\nWish u a wonderfull and peacefull life :).
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tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..
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I learned long ago, you can never win an argument with the woman you love, period. Even if you end up proving you are right, you will pay dearly for it in the long run. Learn to say, "yes dear" or "you know what, I agree" and you will be a much happier man.