Should i tell my friend who his girlfriend is?
344748
if he doesn't already know and he says she's his girlfriend ten something is already wrong. now if is an internet thing and he can be hurt in some way, then tell him
56598
Trust your instincts. No one here can truly tell you yes or no because we don't know anything about you or your girlfriend personally.
1124786
she's your girlfriend right? just tell her. if you can't tell her this, then the relationship is doomed for destruction.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
635942
Rumors are extremely dubious and I would not take their word for it. It could have been someone who looked like him, a rumor by someone who has a crush on him, who is jealous,... I would just try to be aware of what your friend says about him, and if any warning signals of cheating go off, then you might want to have her talk to him about it.
491162
you should definately tell him . it happened to me too. its great if he's your friend because you already know a lot about eachother and your comfortable with eachother already so definately go for it! dont worry about it.
947462
He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
972790
Butt out....If you have told your friend, then you've done your part. You need to get you own business and leave their relationship alone. Don't get in the middle...Roses doesn't mean a person is cheating.
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
342479
Well if they are true friends and still be your friends, then nothing to worry about. Otherwise, it may be hard to tell them. It is always hard to tell a secret but if you really want to tell, then do it. And be proud of it. \nReally, I wish I can help you out. Still, good luck with telling your friends!! I am cheering you on! :D I support ya. Hope they will stay friends with ya. Good luck.
584506
I have always been the type of person who wants to know.  Most people on the other hand live with the rule that ignorance is bliss.  Do you know what kind of person your friend is ? But chances are if you tell you will loose both friends and they will work it out and continue their relationship.  What you can do perhaps is make it so that they will stumble upon it themselves somehow.  This way you did your part and you dont have to loose any friends.
657175
i think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell him how u feel about her. If you think they were really meant to be together than let it be, if u think u in her were meant to be together than GO GET YOUR GURL.
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
1157992
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
876617
its a good idea  to let him know, but you need to do it your self, dont let your friends do it for you. he will appreciate it more if you tell him yourself.
318046
Don't tell him, because you told the girlfriend you wouldn't.  Honor that commitment.  Once she has broken up with him, you can tell him you knew, but since he was never hanging around with you, you didn't have the chance to tell him.  Don't be jealous though when your friends hang out with women, this is just how life works.  You are going to have to get used of it.  You will do the same thing too.