i need help!! i want to find a boyfriend but i can't!!?
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Get to know people around you more than you would usually. You'd be surprised to see how attracted you may be to someone who's been there the entire time. The more personality someone reveals usually the more attractive they become.
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Be patient...be good yourself, and a good boy will find you one day.  Don't settle for someone who is no good for you, just because he's there.  Wait for the good one!
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First, stop looking for potential husbands.  Nothing is scarier then desperation, especially that desperation to settle down.  Good relationships need to grow organically.  If it leads to marriage, great, but if you only want marriage, then you're going to have trouble finding anyone who is going to march to your drum and yours only.\n\nFirst, where do you hang out?  Do you go out?  If not, start.  Find a book club or knitting club or bowling club or something.  You can't meet anyone sitting on your couch. \n\nYou might want to try looking at your church (do they have a singles group?) but don't limit yourself.\n\nYou can always try online dating.  Its a mixed bag though, you never know if you're going to meet someone brilliant or someone legally insane.  \n\nAsk people you work with if they know any single guys that might gel with you.  The best way to meet anyone is through mutual friends.
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umm... i don't think that's a good reason for wanting a boyfriend.. so what if all your friends have boyfriends? and what good will it do if you find one in a rush and just end up in a bad relationship?\ni think you should just take it slow. you can't rush love. you'll find someone when the time comes ^_^\ngood luck.
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try not to actually look for a boyfriend and just be you, and someone will find you
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How old are you ?? But you will find someone soon , you just have to stop looking !!
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Well if you're looking for a boyfriend online thats a good thing, since you probably can't get one in real life.  So keep up the good work!  Oh, and don't have sex...ever!  We don't need people like you reproducing.
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You'll never find love if you keep looking for it.\n\nStop trying so hard.\nKnow that God has a plan for you and He will bring you the one in His own time.\nJust have faith in Him.
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It just does, my friend.\nYou can't explain it. I'm sorry.\nBut I'll attempt to...\nI think that if you keep trying to look for love, it will seem so much longer and more strenuous. Looking so hard will just result in false hope.... false love.... FORCED love.... in a way. It's like you're trying to push yourself to find that one person.\nYou should just relax and have faith in God to bring you that woman. He has a plan for you.\n\nIn my case, I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time. I've gone through many jerks... but he was always there. I never looked for love. It was just so disappointing. I enjoyed life being single. Besides, I was happy not having relationship drama. I had faith in God. Little did I know, my boyfriend was right under my nose the entire time. And we plan on getting married someday. : }
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Become a whole and complete person.\n\nGet a hobby or two, or six. Learn new things, travel to new places, spend time meeting and hanging out with new people. Do all of this for you, not to get a boyfriend.\n\nInevitably, one of the many new people you meet will be a boy whom you find attractive, and who finds you attractive. Since you'll have these hobbies, and you will have been travelling, you'll be a very interesting person as well. This will interest him, and he will ask you out.\n\nOr, you'll learn how to be bold enough to ask him out. Either way.\n\nOh, one more thing: for the love of all that is holy, stop using the word "like" in the middle of sentences. I guarantee that at least a couple of boys who would have asked you out decided not to do so because of that annoying habit, just like if they saw you biting your nails.\n\n"I want a boyfriend, because my friends are going away. What do I do?" is the proper way to say it, and that'll attract a far better class of boy.
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why is it so hard to find a bf... i feel the same way
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Well now, first you need to figure out what exactly you want out of this thing.  Do you want a friend, or do you want a boyfriend? You know what I mean? I think once you make up your mind, you'll know just how to handle it! \nGood Luck!
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after reading some of your answers, I just wanted to say that how your body or style is has nothing to do with if you have a boyfriend or not! it's HOW you carry yourself and WHAT you do with yourself. Are you proud of what you do have and are confident that you are the awesome person that you are? That'll attract the guys - and any that look first and foremost for outward appearances are looking for one thing - just s**!
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maybe because you haven't yet found the right person...how about going somewhere else try to meet people in a descent way...i hope it could help you
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why do you want a boyfriends so bad?  they're nothing but trouble.  i didn't have a boyfriend when i was 14.  now i'm nearly 24 and been married a year.  don't worry about it just yet.
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Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.
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Tell all your friends that you would like to find a good man to date. Every woman in the world knows at least a dozen good, single men that would "be perfect for you!" Of course, I'm exaggerating a bit, but the principle is "to let people know that you're available, should you get asked out." Tell your family(you know they want the best for you).Be observant when you go to the grocery store.....I'll bet you know at least one guy right now that really "trips your trigger"....find out if he's single. If so, then, start up a conversation,  about, preferably manly things, like, "my car sounds funny", or, "I have a cabinet door that sticks".......see where it goes from there! You MIGHT be surprised!! Good Luck...........there's a lot of decent, lonely men out there, just waiting on a nice lady like you.