What to do if you are in love with two people and don't know which one is the best?
349208
Back away from the married man and no one gets hurt!LOL Seriously though, don't put yourself in a position to where you become involved with a married man. He will NEVER,NEVER,NEVER be able to be there for you when you need him, on holidays, for vacations... he'll never be there in the night when you just want someone to talk to or snuggle with...he'll never be totally with you because he already HAS someone he is obligated to spend his time and money on. You can get past those feelings for him that you are developing if you stay away from him as much as possible. As for the other guy, if you have developed feelings for someone else while you were with him, then maybe your feelings for him are not what they should be. Try staying away from both men for awhile and give yourself some time alone to sort out your feelings. Right now you can't be good for either one of these men OR yourself. Good luck to you!!
727120
you need to take a deep breath and think about the reasons you care about these two people, then figure out what qualities you are looking for in someone you want to date...sort out your priorities and choose who you care about more..in the end you will make the right decision for yourself good luck =]
796985
follow you heart . it is impossible to love 2 peoples at the same level. so listen to your heart
458302
It's an almost impossible choice. Does the one you love, love you back? If you don't love the one who loves you, then she is not the right one, if you truly know you will never love her, let her go, it isn't fair to keep her hanging on. Take a chance on the one you love and if it doesn't work out, at least you've done the right thing by the other girl.
238129
You gotta take a desition! Choose the one who you think loves you most and can make you the happiest!
562095
Absolutely not...you can only be lusting for two people at the same time.  Love is a true devotion to one individual.  If you have to wonder if you are in love with two people then you don't love either.
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
1119027
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
55545
when you look at the other person and at that exact moment you know that you would lay down in front of any pain that could come to them. and you couldn't imagin anyone else being there. you know that you are in love when you can accept all the bad that comes with the good with that person. but, i do want to tell you to be careful because sometimes you can love somebody else with no doubt in your mind about it and. . . . . there is a chance that they don't love you the same way. use your heart as your guide. i hope some of this works for you!
133819
First you always know when you are in love with someone. How you know that you should spend the rest of your wid them is a another story. Easy ways to tell how you act and feel around the person when you two are together. I guess my advice is to just follow your heart if it is there you will know. If it is not real love then, you just have to move on and take it a step at time from there. Their is no sure way to if all of this is right for you. Just have to take a chance and see what happens.
68404
Marry the one who loves you the most. If you don't, you'll be sorry later. Look at marriageintimacy.com
1106274
talk to them individually and find out how they feel about you... \nthat should eliminate at least one of them... then list pros and cons until you can figure out who is your best match...
1075254
If you're attracted to someone, even if that person is in love with you're friend, you just can't help it! What I think you need to do is see what happens between your friend and the person that you love. If they hit it off, then you should be glad for them, because him being happy should make you happy. However though, before your friend talks to that guy, make sure to tell her that you like him. If she doesn't like him, maybe she can talk to him about you and maybe get you two together!
264543
go with the one you love the most
540083
When you are in love all you can do is think about that person. They are on your mind first thing in the morning. They are on your mind when you go to sleep. You want to be with that person as much as possible. You want to do all you can to make that person happy.
294290
If you really are sure that you love that other person you should go for it and tell her how you feel. Because life is short and opportunities don't last forever.
276908
You will know when you're both in love. There will be a feeling like you can't get enough of that person.  Like you belong together. You will feel completed and happy with your life.