Why are straight people so fascinated with gay people?
354293
As a straight man and a happy divorcee...if one wants to subject themselves to the "joys" of marriage I say, "Have at it!"\n\nBiggest scam going, marriage. Suckers lined up around the corner to drop serious coin on a superstitious cermony that is absolutely meaningless. So if gays want to join in the fleecing, go right ahead. \n\nOn a side note, being ex-military, I also believe that if gays or women or Martians want to pack around a rifle, get yelled at by the ignorant, and run the risk of being filled with holes, we should allow that. Forget that, "Don't ask, Don't tell" garbage. If you're man (or woman) enough to risk your literal (or proverbial) sack in combat you deserve to get your wish. I could care less about who you decide to sleep with when the day is done.
492935
Because it general we all want what we can't have. Oh and also, IN GENERAL gay people TEND to spend more time and effort on how they look and their personality where as the majority of straight guys don't. And no im not gay before anyone says this is why i have this opinion.
355439
They are gay all right, that is why so many gay people listen to them.
707593
Drs Master and Johnson in their study of human sexuality found that most people are a mix of gay and hetero.\n\nGo explore yourself, and love what you find, and you will be OK.
352199
No. Psychologist say that it is common amongst some straight people to be curious about it. Many of them never actually act upon it. Some act upon it and don't like it afterwards and it ends the curiousity. Some act upon it and like it and it turns out they are bisexual. \n\nIt all depends a lot on you and where your sexuality fits on the scale. There are those who are exclusive heterosexual and exclusive homosexuals. I'm the latter. I've never even thought about the opposite gender in a romantic or sexual way. Since I was a little boy I always wanted to kiss the boys and hold their hands. That's what it means to be an exclusive homosexual. And there are heterosexuals that are like that, too. They have never even thought about being with someone of the same gender. Then there are all the areas in between and right in the middle are the degrees of bisexuality. Some are bisexual, but lean more towards heterosexuality (meaning they enjoy and are attracted to both genders, but enjoy being sexual and romantic more with the opposite gender) and those that are bisexual but lean more towards homosexuality (meaning they enjoy and are attracted to both genders, but enjoy being sexual and romantic with someone of the same gender more). It is said that those who are exclusively heterosexual, exclusively homosexual, and those who are 50/50 bisexuals are actually the minority sexually. It is all the middle grey areas that are more common. Atleast that is what I've read.\n\nI mean, consider the type of scale it is\n\nHeterosexuality/Homosexuality\n100/0\n90/10\n80/20\n70/30\n60/40\n50/50\n40/60\n30/70\n20/80\n10/90\n0/100\n\nEach end is the exclusive (top being exclusive Heterosexual 100% heterosexual 0% homosexual and the bottom being exclusive Homosexual 0% heterosexual 100% homosexual) and the middle area is the grey area of bisexuality. Obviously a person who is 90% heterosexual and only 10% homosexual is probably not going to act on the homosexual tendency, it is very weak. But that person might occasionally have a dream that is somewhat homosexual. The same would be true of a person who is 90% homosexual and 10% heterosexual. They may realize they are gay, but occasionally would have a heterosexual dream. That might cause the person to question, but probably never act. As you get closer towards the middle the more likely the person is to have actually acted upon their interests...gay or straight.
567603
These lesbians say they are open-minded and liberated that's why they venture on those kinds of relationships. They wouldn't live up to these traits if they see that gay men are nasty. They should be the first people to understand and eradicate discrimination that third sex experiences.
261970
Just curious - Why do you care?  Is this a survey for something in particular?  Do YOU know anyone who is gay?  I've known people who are gay, but again ... who cares.  I really don't want to know anything about some one's sexual preference.
747474
Many straight people have resorted to homosexuality while in prison. It has always been observed. That is one reason why it didn't make sense to lock up homosexuals like we did in the old days; the homosexuality usually got reinforced. Therapy would have been a better route.
381923
Absolutely EVERYONE (straight, gay or bi) is attracted to certain physical and personality characteristics about someone else (male, female or both).  For example, some people like long legs, blond hair, sense of humor, sense of style, etc.\n\nLesbians are no exception - each one is different and only each one can tell you what attracts her to another woman.  I'm sure there are certain things in another person that attracts you, but that doesn't mean the next person would be attracted by the same.\n\nI hope this answers your question.
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Do you mean, why do gay people like to have sex together?\n\nFor the same reason straight people like to have sex together... because they're attracted to each other and, well, want to have sex.\n\nSometimes, I'm just horny.  Most of the time I want to be intimate with someone else, to actually be in a relationship where sex is part of something deeper, an expression of love for my partner.\n\nIn that regard, I'm pretty sure gay guys and straight guys are alike.  \n\nThe difference is in who we find attractive, and it was never a matter of choice with me.  I'm genuinely attracted to guys, and while I can accomplish having sex with a woman quite handily, the experience does NOTHING for me-- and no, it doesn't even get me a cheap orgasm because the whole thing seems like a chore to me to get her to have an orgasm and feel good, at which point I stop and go do something else more interesting, like watch an infomercial... women are, literally, boring to me in bed.  \n\nIt's very easy and natural for me to have sex when I'm with another guy, though.  It just... feels right.  Like how I was created to experience the joy, the intimacy, and love it can bring.
784069
There is nothing "gay" about finding someone of the same sex good looking.  Admiring something or someone good looking is natural.\n\nIf you find yourself attracted to and aroused by females but not aroused by males then you are straight.
50948
People do not just become gay. It is widely agreed among the scientific community that gay people are born gay. Many studies have linked it to genetics. Enjoying it is a whole different issue.... most people probably do not enjoy being persecuted and hated. However, if by enjoying it you refer to gay sexual acts, they enjoy them for the same reason heterosexuals enjoy their sex acts: pleasure. Sex feels good, whether or not the majority of american society is willing to acknowledge it doesn't matter.
387693
The reasons for it are unknown, but I do not believe they are born that way. I think tendencies in sexual attraction are developed early in life. What kind of guys/girls (I don't know your gender) are you attracted to? Do you really understand why you're attracted to certain traits and features? Gay guys prefer men for the same reason. Lesbians prefer women for the same reason. That's what they're attracted to.
1084063
because we all find different things attractive in a person and maybe you just arent his type....thats like saying your gay and you dont understand why a straight guy doesnt like you
493253
not all people are gay.\nmost of the guys like beautiful girls too
999909
The assumption is that you are straight, but have fantasized about having sexual relations with those of the same gender.... if you're curious about homosexual acts, but you are sure that you enjoy heterosexual acts, then you are Bi-curious.\n\nIf you engage in and enjoy both hetero- and homo-sexual acts, you are no longer bi-curious, you are confirmed Bi-Sexual :)
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I myself BI!!! and very proud of it. I think that as this world is more open to Homosexuality that people will not be afraid to explore the same sex. I think that being Bi Gay or Straight is a very beautiful thing. Love is Love and that's all that matters.