my bf wants to have sex with me, i dont mind but i m scared dat something will happen or goes wrong u kno..?
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Do not do it, better after marriage. . .Genuine love is only in heart and could combat lust. . .\n\nRemember that lust is very quick and it reaches always an end, while love is eternal and limitless. . .
206802
Well if you are scared then that means that you are not ready and you need to wait for the time when you are ready for it. Also try talking to him about it and see how he feels about it and maybe he feels the same way you do. Then again he might not just let him know who you feel. You never know how it might turn out!
739315
This could be a psycological thing.  That shouldn't scare you, but perhaps you could talk to your partner if there's something they're not doing for you, or maybe you're nervous or your mind is elsewhere.  Do you want to do things your partner doesn't?  Perhaps you could try changing positions or mixing things up a little.  Don't be afraid to try new things or change old ones.  If you talk it over with your partner then maybe you can work something out - I'm sure they'll be understanding.
207017
Relax, and try not to worry about it!!  It will happen, probably at the most unexpected moment :)
1075381
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
1010206
you should just ask him. dont be scared. take risks. anything can happen if you take risks.
261642
If you have to question having sex with him, then you shouldn't have sex with him.  If you want a meaningful relationship with him, it would be in your best interest to wait.
500905
If he respects you then there is no problem, if he wants to leave you because you wont have sex with him, he is probably not good enough for you
685230
he might be afraid that he might hurt the baby hun try and tell him that he wont hurt the baby make things romantic for the night and have some fuin try new things instead of going straight into sex try a lot of fore play first
180114
letting your nerves take over is your worst mistake. just be yourself, explain to him that it's your first time and let the mood take you from there. dont forget the protection!!!!!!
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I will tell you this much, make sure you know for sure you are ready.  If it's your first time, there is a LOT to think about in terms of consequences.  For example, are you ready to handle a kid?  Does your bf have STDs you don't know about?  Would you spend the rest of your life with this guy?  Have you talked about having sex with him?  Is he ready for the consequences?  What would happen if you DID get pregnant?  BC and condoms are somewhat trustworthy, however, I'd hate to be in that like 2% of cases where they don't work without knowing what would happen to my relationship.\n\nAnd yes, relationships CAN survive without sex.  My husband and I were virgins the day we were married, and it was so worth it.  To know that he was the only guy and I was his only girl makes it 10X more special.  There are other things you can do without actually having sex, and really, if you are close enough as a couple you don't have to have sex to have a "next level"
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no dont think differently ask ur bf that u want sex at least once a day
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ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.
100750
First of all, I can see by your dream that your babyfather is very protective of you, or a least you believe he is.  The answer to your question is you don't know if you are ready to have sex yet, you think you are ready, but you are not entirely sure.  The fear is in you, but don't worry, because he will be very understanding to wait untill you are absolutelly ready.\n\nWhat you should do is talk to him.  Let him know what you are feeling.  I can't be psychic over the enternet, but I would make a guess and say you will have a marvelous life together, have a few more kids, and live happily ever after.
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Not easy to know without knowing him, but probably he does want a non-threatening source of sex. And he probably doesn't want to be alone, and you are like a safety blanket for him. And he probably does have good feelings for you, but doesn't want to make a commitment.\n\nThe question for you is whether you want a relationship like this. Does it meet your needs? Do you want a committed relationship? I doubt you will get it from him.
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GURL IF U LOVE HIM THEN U SHOULDNT BE SCARED ABOUT ANYTHING. WHAT IS THERE TO BE SCARED OF? IF YA LOVE EACH OTHER THEN WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM WANTIN TO BE WITH U FOR EVA? IF U DONT THINK IT WILL LAST LIKE THAT THEN, TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP HOW U FEEL. U DONT WANT HIM TO GET EVEN MORE HURT IN THE LONG RUN.
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He's scared!!! marrage S a scary thing 4 guys, Nclud'n me! I wouldn't want 2 walk down an isel know'n that something might happen, something bad, something good something of something, lot's of things pop up 2 guy's heads, calm him down, tell him it'll B alright, tell him that U want 2 let the world know U care 4 him. show some calmness N2 his scared heart