Help!! What am I to this guy?  Why don't I feel we are friends?
350337
"I am crazy about this guy, but do not know why I don't feel a bond with him"  Only a woman could come up with something like this.  If you don't feel anything for him then your not crazy about him.
1095451
he might like you. But you should just be a friend, and sometime just casusally ask him if he is intrested in being more then just friends.
409608
you said he is a guy friend...so he is your friend.  \n\nit's like you are putting him in a situation which he does not want to be in.  it seems that you asked him that question because you want something more to come between you two.  do u? \n\ndon't embarass yourself to ask the same question over and over again.  once is enough....read between the lines.
337177
tell him how you feel or maybe you could be friends then after a while tell him how you feel once you get to know him. whats the wost that could happen besides him saying no maybe yu guys could just be friends. good luck
601329
It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
144416
Honesty is best.  Tell him that you are confused.  Ask what his intentions are for his keeping in touch.  Does he still have feelings for you?  Does he want to date you again?  Or is he keeping you close because he wants to be your friend?  Ask him straight up.  Then take it from there.
395124
he probably just needed somebody to talk to, don't neglect or ignore him now he's feeling so low...i suppose it wouldn't hurt to get to know the guy!  find out whats up with him, and tell him if he ever needs to talk that you're there for him!\n\nHe needs a friend, be strong and stick by him u neva know u might like him in the end!\n\nGL hun\nx
850818
Why do you have to tell him? Why not just be his friend to see how he responds to you that way? Then if it goes well you can slowly work into being more. Why does it have to be a hurry up deal? This way is a lot less scarier and you wont be risking making a fool of yourself.
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
370771
why would you like to not be obvious about it? If you want to go further past a friendship, you need to be straight up with him and talk about how you feel for him ... drawback is, that if he doesnt feel same way for you, he might take a step back.\n\n\n...but you could get him REALLY REALLY drunk and take advantage of him. :p
965462
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye
446954
Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
718465
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
636712
This sounds like a case of too slow too bad to me.  You never mentioned your feelings to your friend and he made his move before you.  Let it be until hes out of the picture.
428512
First and foremost, take things at face value. Believe none of what you hear and all that you see.\n\nApart from the flirting has he said or done anything to lead you to believe that he's still interested in you?\n\nWhat are the chances for friendship between you two? Could it be that, because you didn't have a 'knock-down, drag-out' break-up he still feels comfortable enough with you to pretend flirt -and isn't really making any moves? Have you ever asked yourself or thought that he might be playing games?\n\nRemember that in situations like this you are in the middle of an epic battle between your brain and your heart (and other parts, too, I'm sure). Question is, what part do you listen to? That's for you to find out. That's part of the adventure of life.
943783
dunno love. you obviously care a lot about him....\nleave him alone for a while, perhaps he'll decide that just being friends is good for him... there again maybe he'll decide you're a cow and he hates you. you cannot control what goes on inside his head or try to second guess/pre-empt it.\nthat's the trouble with men though aint it? they seem to think that just being friends means they've moved down in your estimations somehow, when in fact it just means you wanna know them forever, without all the messy stuff that gets in the way of that.\nmaybe he's low in confidence and looking for love.... thought he'd found it with you... perhaps if he gains some self esteem and meets someone else he'll appreciate how important and precious a good friendship can be.\nunfortunately, i don't think there's anything you can do to make him feel any better about it all though, he'll have to get there by himself.
528721
don't be rude, but try not to be overly friendly with him.. if he keeps insisiting on doing "friend things" then tell him how you really feel, because you don't want him to lead him on, or have him get the impression that you want to be friends with him..