how would i make my self a desirable man?
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just be urself... also i think a love of litriture helps... every girl likes to have a peom read to her
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If you are still looking, do this.\n\nMake a list of the most desirable traits that this person can have.  Do ten at least.  Order them so that the most important things are first, such that you wouldn't trade the last item on the list for the first.\n\nEvery night for a week, sit down, read your list, close your eyes and imagine what this person would be like in person.\n\nAfter the first week, just read your list periodically.\n\nYou do need to be out and meeting people for this to work; however, if you are already active, don't be surprised if your prince charming is someone you already know.\n\nThis worked for me and I had very strict requirements!
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To get a guy to like you that is right for you just be yourself.
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The exact same way a pretty girl would tell him.\nYou need to know that beauty is only skin deep & it will fade in time. However, kindness...compassion...humor...sensitivity...creativity...a good head; these are all traits that make a person appealing, as well. Don't see yourself short. Be confident in who you are & what you've got to offer.
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Have a good ass personality and make your self look beatiful.
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First, know what you really want.  Subtract your own true needs and desires from that which you have been told to want, or told you must settle for.  Then, use your best thinking to figure where the sort of person who would fit with you is likely to be.  For example, if intelligence is terribly important to you, then the academic world is more important than a sports arena or a TV game show audience.  Next, go where the people you most want to meet are most likely to be, and be a nice person, easy to talk to, and not pressuring anyone.  Get to know people in the context of your hobbies, interests and beliefs, instead of a "singles" type high-sexual energy setting.  Be open to adjustments from your ideal:  maybe it is reasonable for you to want your great love to be very attractive, but what you really want is a balance of factors.  If the person you meet is very compatible otherwise, but not as pretty or handsome as you had imagined, is that so important?  Or if a man is truly wonderful otherwise, but his income is lower than you had hoped.  Weigh factors realistically, and realize that you are being evaluated, too.  Is it reasonable for people to get hung up in that old joke:  I met Mr. Right, but it didn't work out; he was looking for Miss Right.
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Well, being able to say Fukitol is a good start.  :)\n\nBe a gentleman, open minded and a protector of beauty and what is righteous.
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You are not going to find mr right . . . there is no such thing . . . because we are not F***ing perfect . . . and neither are you . . . \n\nWe all have our own problems. . . and we don't want to carry you to fulfill your needs . . . would you take our needs into consideration . . . from you Question and Background comments . . . No . . . selfish.\n\nThe clubs are just a meat market . . . only for one thing . . . sex . . . join a club or group that shares the same interests as you . . . like an outdoors camping club . . . or something like that.\n\nWhat else can I say . . . you have to make yourself happy . . . be happy with yourself . . . you can't expect someone else to make you happy unless you can make yourself happy first.  \n\nMen are not here to please you (God . . . you know how many times I heard that from women . . . lol).  First get yourself in order . . . then when you are happy with everything about yourself . . . look . . . but don't look hard . . . because a positive person attracts people.\n\nPS: And I don't mean become celebate . . . because women need sex as much as men now-a-days. . . but use it as stress relief.\n\nRegards,\n\nA decent and not so decent man
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Just be yourself. While people may at first be attracted to outside appearances, it's what's insides that counts. I know it sounds like an old cliche, but it's true. Just let your own unique personality shine, and don't be pursueded by others easily. Share your opinions, your thoughts, and all those things that make you uniquely you.
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Just be yourself!!! Dont change for nobody!!! Personally I find  the clean cut gentleman more attractive, but I like a bad boy attitude.
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I'm just quoting a wise woman...\n\n"Just enjoy the life that you have. I think that the key to getting guys to really notice you is to be happy with your life the way it is. Make sure that you are complete and happy with who you are without needing a guy in your life and you will have them lining up for you."\n\n,-)
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Find 3 or more (up to five) qualities that other\npeople don't have. Add them up and realize that you were put on this earth for a Damn REASON, that you are as good or even better than other dudes and don't slump your shoulders. I hated myself for so long until I was about 23, when other people had to tell me that I was good and a good friend to have around, that a lot of people found me attractive. Email me your circumstances.muirmatt@yahoo.com
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to be attractive with the whole package and to have sexual appeal
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be yourself!don't try to win his attention and of course let him come to u...just be u and he'll fell in love with u ...let him think that he's the man and that he's has the control that way he'll want to protect u and u'll feel good.....
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show you have confidence in yourself, that is most attractive to guys
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Start by looking in the right places.  Determine the kind of person you want, and go where he is.  If you want a drunk, go to a bar  If you want a jock, go to a health club.  If you want a person of faith, go to a church or join a coven of pagans.  Get involved in a political campaign, even a republican one if you have to.  Go back to school. You have to give yourself the opportunity to meet new people first.  The second part is simple.  Relax and be yourself.  Stop looking and start having fun.  People are attracted to happy, fun people who enjoy life.
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Be a  perfect gentleman...\nBe 100% sweet...