How do girls like to be touched during sex?
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well u right  every women is different and has there own way?\nI like when i guy reaches for my hand and i blush or kiss my neck, arms,boobs,and stomach just run your tongue over these places and whisper things you want or ask her what she wants?
1106978
Foreplay.  Touching.  Women almost never orgasm by penetration only.  Rubing and touching is necessary, or a nice position that stimulates the clitoris.\n\nMost of the time, honesty is what works best.  If you are making love, and dont know if shes enjoying it, ask.  Or better, act.  Touch her and watch her reaction.  Gentle touches work marvellous!  \n\nI hope this helped!  And good luck!
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Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to give her a lasting impression and get her to BEG you for more. Hearing that you find her hot and sexy and that she smells good and tastes good while you are petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, makes her feel incredibly vulnerable to you, and can make a huge difference to her entire dynamic with you.\n\nA smart man knows how to be sincere and to a woman, this is the difference between being fucked, and being made love to. An intimate man is much more arousing than one who doesn't know the art of being nurturing.\n\nMost women are shy and insecure about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her how soft she is, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.\n\nNow stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it?\n\nGently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.\n\nSpreading a woman's pussy apart is incredibly intimate. She knows you are seeing her most private parts and this turns her on. Being totally exposed, helps her to show you how much she trusts you.\n\nWhenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of its own and is extremely sensitive.Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit right away anyway. You have to work up to that.\n\nHer anticipation of you licking it can be a great way to build her up to arousal. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her pussy slowly. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit.\n\nWhen you gently pull the hood down to expose her budding clitoris, it's like a little baby penis, red and wanton. It is very sensitive to touch, sucking, and blowing on.\n\nExperiment with what makes her moan. She will let you know when you are hurting her. She would rather you explored her sensitivities by going too far, rather than being too gentle and ineffective.
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The very first thing, and the very biggest thing, is to be into it.  Enjoy what you are doing, and be excited about it.  Everyone wants to think that the things that turn them on turn other people on too.  If you give the guy the idea that you don’t like to do it, then he feels like it is bad, or dirty, and no one likes that kind of judgment.\n\nAs for specific tips... every guy is different, but there are some things almost all guys like. \n\nForget everything you have read in Cosmo about how going down is somehow empowering, or that you are in control of his pleasure – that is just feminist political garbage, and it is SO not about that – going down on a guy is about giving pleasure, not taking control.\n\nJust before you start, put on a fresh coat of lipstick, let your guy watch you do this.\n\nGet down on your knees in front of him, whether he is standing or sitting – unless you are in a car or something that would prevent that.  Guys LOVE seeing their girl on her knees for them.  \n\nGet him warmed up by rubbing him over and between your boobs, while you tell him how excited you are to be doing what you are doing and how much you are looking forward to what is coming next.  You can also use your hair brushed lightly over him.\n\nPay some attention to his balls.  Softly run your nails over them.  Lick them, and suck one and then the other into your mouth and flick your tongue over it... once when you are getting started, and then later when you need to take a bit of a break from the “main event;” be gentle...  Keep them cupped in your hand after you have moved on to other things, and softly kneed them, be gentle, and don’t tug.  \n\n\nIt should go without saying that you should do everything you can to keep your teeth out of the equation.  I doubt much else could be as unpleasant as teeth on a genital.  It should also go without saying that you want to use your tongue – a lot.  I am sure that a soft tongue feels wonderful on a genital.  Lick up and down, particularly the underside, and top of the tip... get everything nice and wet before it even goes inside your mouth.\n\nWhen you are ready to take it inside the first time, close your lips softly, and push them against him so that he pushes your lips open around him as he slides inside.\n\nAs you get started on the main event, ask him to hold your hair out of your face.  This serves two purposes – first it keeps your hair out of your face, and mouth (always a good thing) and it gives him permission to put his hands on your head and provide you with some guidance (which most guys are unfortunately too timid to provide without permission).  Be prepared that he will start to guide your head with his hands – and that is a good thing, he knows what he likes best – and that as he becomes more and more excited, he will provide more and more guidance... follow his lead unless it gets painful for you.  TRUST me – guys – all guys, even the ones who don’t want to, LOVE that.\n\nIf you can take him deep, do it, guys LOVE it.  It is actually quite easy once you learn how to do it, but it does take a bit of practice.  The trick is to open your throat, and relax all of the muscles at the same time.  But you HAVE to be careful about your gag reflex – you don’t want to puke.  I recommend practicing on a toy until you have it down.  \n\nTry to keep eye contact with your guy.  It won’t be possible all of the time, but look up at him as much as is convenient for you.\n\nAnd of course swallow... It is in your mouth already, it might as well slip down your throat.  Personally that is my favorite part, it feels so sexy, warm, and so yummy – and guys LOVE it.  Of course – they sometimes like to go other places as well – so be prepared for that, on your face, or boobs – but wherever it ends up smile, giggle and enjoy it.  Remember to at least act like it is as exciting to you as it is for him.  Nothing will ruin a good buzz like judgment, so don’t ruin i
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here is the deal...every girl is different and has different pleasures which can turn them on. I personally enjoy a calming back massage with aromatheropy oils and a bedroom filled with scented candles and a bouquet a fresh flowers. I know that this can not be done everytime you want her in the mood, but the sense of knowing just how much the guy loves you is overwhelming when he goes to such a high degree to see a smile on your face. Remember...the small gestures are the things that matter in life, so get her something small and from the heart. Something that reminds you of a date or moment the two of you had together
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Just use 2 fingers and feel around...believe me a woman will tell you by her body movement what she likes...
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The answer completely depends on the person.  I am very much a person who comes best when touching myself, when I'm with a male or female.  My girlfriend on the other hand comes the hardest from being fingered and hitting the g spot.  I've known women who swear by oral.  Every woman is different.\n\nSo the best way to find out what makes you come when you have sex with women is to have lots and lots of sex with women (one one woman, whatever you prefer) and see what you like!
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start by massaging the clit then when she starts getting wet, use two fingers to open her and insert your middle finger.  just reach inside and you would feel the g spot.   depends on her if she wants all clit, all g or variation, just fel and learn.
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hold her face with both hands while you're making out, then slowly move them down, first to her neck and then (if she allows you to) to her breasts. or try placing your hands around her waist, and as your making out move them to her thighs and caress them. Is it getting hot in here or is it just me?
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touching. massageing. feeling. licking.\nenough said
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well dont be afraid to get right down init if you know what i mean. and i love feeling the tip of a toung slowly just barely touching me moving from my clit between my lips and slowly lightly lick the out side of her hole not allowing the toung to go in this would be a good way to start cause it feels good but almost like im being teased then when you do this for a few then just do it what is fun and enjoyable for you she will enjoy because you are enjoying her.  and the clit make it your best freind when doing oral licking and slightly sucking and you can use a finger also while doing this but if using a finger just go slow she will probly tell you when she wants you to go faster or she will let you know with her body language starts rocking her hips and all. but my favorite way is have her get on hands and knees like they doggy style position dont know why but this gets me there really fast and lick her from behind using the same techniques tho and maybe even lick her other while your there
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When I hug a female (friend or lover), I place my right arm around her shoulder and my left arm around her to her middle back.  I pull her to me and place her head next to mine.  There is no hesitation and it usually is a perfect fit.  If she is my lover, when the hug is over, I will gently pull her head so her lips and mine meet.
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Pay attention to the "spots" on her body.  It's very psychological as well as physical.  clitoral stimulation while performing is a real good trick.  If that doesn't work then simply ask her.  If you are open enough to have sex then you should be open enough to talk about what the needs and likes and wants are.
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One of my female friends happens to enjoy this sort of thing (a lot!) and of course I (being the gallant sort of fellow that I am) have assisted her on several occasions. Typically this is something that women do for each other because in many cases a man’s hands are too big. It takes a LOT of lubricant, and the woman really needs to completely relax (which, according to my friend, is the toughest part cuz the tendency in this situation is to tighten up). I can’t say much more from the woman’s perspective, but as the one who “lends the hand” I can say that I personally find the sensation to be extremely interesting and enjoyable – though not really all that erotic, except for the basically erotic nature of being so intimate with a woman, etc. Er…ah…what I mean is that the act, per se, doesn’t really add much extra erotic element for me, but I still have a good time. One word of caution: My woman friend says that once your whole hand gets inside, DO NOT withdraw your hand too quickly, since the suction created by a quick withdrawal can cause pain and I suppose even damage. I’ve always been careful to follow her instructions. I insert as much as she says, when she says, and never make any sudden movements. I’ve only done it “at the Y” and have no interest in ever trying the “back door” version (too much “yuk” factor for me), although I guess it can be done.\n\nNow if, after all of this, you still don’t know exactly what fist[ing] is, then you are probably too young, so I will explain very carefully. First you find a warm, fuzzy mitten. You dump some vegetable oil on your hand and stick it in the mitten. It feels gooey and gross and that’s what’s cool about it. And that’s all there is to it.
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I like mine to be deep and passionate as if you are hungry for my soul, open but not sloppy, and i like my tounge and lips to be nibbled. If you realy mean it i like for the girls hands to be on my face or behind my neck stroking with a light fingernail.
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for doing sex with girl u have to make her her hot & for making her hot first u have to fingure on his eyes then nose then lips then fingure her hairs & ten try to kiss her when u kiss her u have to put ur one hand her boobs slowly u have to push ur hands inside her cloths then press her boobs. if she will respond u its a sign for go ahead she will not leave u till u press her boobs she will colse her eyes & let u do what u want if she dont do anything when u press her boobs u can do ahead for pussy u can remove her cloths slowely . then u have to fingure her pussy & see is her pussy is leaking or not if yes u can start sex with her & if not u have to fingure her more time & kiss her & suck her boobs. she will pull u over her for sex then u will push ur penies into her pussy u have to see what speed she want for fucking & do it what ever she like thats all ........
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Because she is a good girl and doesn't want to go there just yet.  It takes a long time for a girl to get comfortable with the idea of someone touching her like that.  Give her time.  When she is ready, she'll move your hand there.