What do you men really look for in a young woman or a potential partner?
350035
someone honest,true(not fake), no games, treat me like she really cares. not taking away all my freedom. and last but not least. great sex,, with unexpected oral, every now and then.
658758
Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
270014
What I look for is, ............ a man that is honest, loving, fun,respectful,faithful,has good morals and values, ambitious, caring,has a good sense of humor,is self confident and has respect for themselves. =-)
662266
I pick: Had a great heart and morals, a good job, would make a good father, etc..but had a really small d#$, sucked in bed, and not charismatic\n\nI would not seek out the other items in another person or thing. But, size really doesn't matter. If they weren't good in bed, it's probably mostly due to a lack of communication. If you let them know what pleases you then they can become a wonderful partner.
191187
it depends upon how the man can deal with it. but i think a man with a loving heart, caring, understanding, faithful, loyal, honest, tidy in terms of his outfits, fresh looking, one woman man, and relationship oriented. if you have this all, then you can easily atract a woman
29001
It depend on the age of man ,if he is young he will look for a relation ,when is younger ,sure he will look for the personality and future
767814
Every one has their own opinion in what they look for in the opposite sex, here's mine,\n\n     1: A job , no one wants to carry someone Else's weight.\n     2:Funny , smart , outgoing, can contain themselves when need be.\n     3.Some type of physical attraction.\n    \n     " would it be a bad thing if she didn't talk alot"\n if meeting someone face to face for the first time, i think it would be good to make conversation to help "break the ice" or at least make it comfortable for both people, i like being able to have a comfortable silence without the other person thinking, your dull or your vocabulary is on the low side.\n-Ross
1101415
Looking for confidence, self-assurance, self worth...those are all things I look for in a woman.\n\nShe does not have to be the prettiest woman in the room, having equal intelligence, looks, and self-confidence are important issues too.
869443
You probably are...wouldn't know though......  the things I look for in a guy have nothing to do with what he looks like.....  good sense of humor, caring, generous, fun, honest......  someone i can relate to.  Good looks are just a bonus to a beautiful soul.
666587
Being a guy what interests me in a woman is if she is honest, has great looking eyes, a nice smile and enjoys having fun. I think that the most important thing is what is on the inside of a person, not what they look like on the outside. Some men go for all the looks in a woman, is that really going to make them happy??? Honesty, a good sense of humor, someone that you can talk to that to me is what interest me in a woman
650302
Honesty, sincerity, ambition ... above average libido, intelligence and a great sense of humour ... good lookin' with a great "bod" ... fairly well grounded i.e. spiritually and family upbringing. Not in any special order!\n\nA fair question would be ... have I found her yet??? eh!?!?
630766
This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
740666
well I have asked this question to my husband when we first met and he said that it is a combination of looks and personality if the  man is looking for a serious relationship. If they are looking for somethhing else then its looks.
294285
Young men like confident women, strong, independent women, that know what they want.\n\nMost young guys that date older women, say they can't find a confident female their age, that doesn't act immature at some point.\n\nGood Luck and prosper...;*!*;...
451390
Honesty, humor, intelligence, compassion...\n\nTruthfully, I look for someone who, regardless of any romance, I'd want as one of my closest lifelong friends.  Someone who I feel completely safe being totally myself around but who, at the same time, I get an electric spark whenever I'm near them.
1011005
The girl I look for 1st of has to be loyal, honest, and even-tempered. If I have something to say that seem like a correction or a complaint, she will listen intently and discuss it civilly if need be, but not argue or get defensive. A woman who can think outside-the-box. Who looks at the logic and not just follow the same old thing. A woman who is confident in her appearance where she do not need to pack on the war paint or other things that are not natural. A woman who is loyal and will fight and defend me and our union as hard as I would fight and defend her. A woman who works as a team; like a lock with a key. One that understands that we both may have different roles in the relationship, but together it works like a key to a lock. That she does not try to be a second lock because two locks and no keys are useless. A woman who is active though not one who can never sit still. She likes to go cycling in the country side or hiking in the hills. One wherer the gym is a plae she loves to go, not flee from in eight directions. One who cares about her health and want a healthy appearance. One who is obedient and mindfull to what I say to her because she knows she would be treated better than the king's gold, and by that she would trust me until the ice caps melted. \n\nSecondary if she was between 4 ft 10 in to 5 ft 4in 98 to 121lb, 32B to 34D, long black straight hair just shy of her bum, with the body of an ice skater, gynmast, or beach vollyball player it would be perfect.
1168211
Make yourself as attractive as possible, then define the type of man that you're looking for (don't settle for less), then find that group of single men (personals, on-line etc) and sort through them until you find what you're looking for and hopefully the one you choose was also looking for you as his ideal woman.