would u discontinue your  relationship with your mom who had a pedophile as a live in boyfriend?
346973
I think your right not to talk to her. Her actions were stupid and selfish. I recently had a similar situation in my family, a relative of mine had a pedophile boyfriend, she claimed she ended the relationship with him, but had obviously lied, because the man was arrested for molesting her boys. Shockingly no actions have been taken against her, she still has custody of her children. I heard that DCFS has 'black listed' her, and will be monitoring her closely, but I think she should have lost all of her children. She knew the man was a convicted sex offender and brought him into her home. Needless to say, I have nothing to do with her.
492877
Well, if both of you don't want to be in other relationships then its ok.  It's good that you both are looking out in the best interest of the children, but it will be harder for both of you to move on if you live together.
353258
I would be mad and demand that she stop seeing him or I would file for divorce. That is one that would be a deal breaker for me. I would not put up with it............
1158818
Currently I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm pregnant with his baby.  I had to move back in with my parents after being on my own for 4 years.  Talk about uncomfortable!!
295252
I don't know if there is a way to really get over it. She is your mom.  I do know how you feel.  My relationship with my mom has always been strained I always just let her say whatever and took it.  I eventually backed away and we didn't talk for a while. Then we slowly started talking again.  We still talk but don't have a close relationship.  I would give it some time and let her cool down.  Hopefully she will come around.  Hang in there.  But remember that even if she is your mom she shouldn't put you down and she should support you.  So even if you do have a relationship again with her don't rely on her for emotional support.
203029
You can be emotionally free of that person, but you will never be freed of the responsibility of the child you both made. You owe the other person respect as the childs parent, but nothing more. Tell him your relationship is over, and other than conversation about the child and the childs needs, you have nothing to discuss. Do not argue, do not meet anywhere. Drop the child off at his mothers when it's time for visitation and pick the child up there. You have to separate your personal life from him.
697104
you poor thing. no parent should treat their kid that way. or act that way around their kid. tell your mom that you love her, but your relationship is being strained. you are acting as the enabler. if the roles were reversed, would she seriously let YOU "mooch" off of her?
467217
You have every right ot be upset with him.  You are under a lot of stress right now, with your Mom being ill and having to travel back and forth, that is a pretty good strain on anyone.  Then to have to deal with this on top of that.  He has betrayed your trust and if you can't see it in you to let it go, then I would suggest ending the relationship.  I don't think I personally could let it go.  If he can't keep it in his pants for the short time you are gone then he's the one with the problem.  He would have a bigger problem if he were mine.
762410
She should not be forced to go. The man was a predator and she could easily have been a victim. There might be others out there who weren't as lucky. I definitely would not go and if I was a mother, I would never even be involved in any way shape or form of this person's anniversary of his death. I am sorry, but there is no good molester in my eyes, and forcing her to go would be sending her the wrong message... I would contact a grandparent or aunt and stay with them while the mother has gone. Sounds like the mother needs to get her head straightened around.. this is her child... she owes nothing to this man.....least of all respect......
860040
Yes, I DID stay unhappily married , for the kids' sake. I did it for a long time, but I could not stand the thought of not being there for them.Their Mother was not the most stable person, so it was necessary for me to be there for them until they got older, and could take care of themselves. I don't regret doing it for my kids, but I sometimes hate my best days are behind me now. If I had it to do over however, I would do it again....for them!
969375
get in there or you will regret it if she did that to me i would have no problem and would come out and ask her if she say she does not fancy you .move on. i did that to my wife and pushed the local coppers son off the post office wall and said out loud 'leave her alone shes mine and after 36 years two kids and three grandchildren it was the best move i have ever made. mind you i was pissed at the time and now this Sunday was a mad day as normal of guitars, screaming kids and the floor covered in toys and me loving every minute and loving even more when they all went home and tomorrow  i will want them all back again. one life live it and take a chance.
1179566
hell no I cant stand children all they do is gett'n the way and have to always pee on them selves. Dont Do It Please Dont Do it. If you feel like that it is compromising you to do it than get the fuck out of the relationship. Move on Dont Do it Ms Cily It Aint Worth It
712341
I would go for satisfaction of telling the old s.o.b. off. Your mom knows how he is???? Why in the hell has she as the adult told that mean old man to lay off. My mom would have, i certainly would if anyone was to be mean or insulting to one of my kids. I would not care who it was. You should not have to put up with that cr*ap from no one, He must have realy self esteem issues to put you down. I would let him have it. There is no excuse for him.
1065166
No and No again.  Just because you were once in the family does not mean you have to stay in the family.  Move on.
779892
You both sound very much in love. How about asking him to move and buying/renting his mom a place close by, that way you'll be in your comfort zone and able to deal with her from a distance; and enable him to move? I think you're going to have to accept the fact that he'll never want his mom out of his life...as annoying as it is; the package comes with it.
396938
If you love him got back out with him. What you could do is avoid going to you boyfriend's mum house for the time being. Maybe in time she will notice and see how much you love her son. Then it will be an opportunity for her to change her ways. Some women can be protective over their 'little boys'.
322551
IF you have a relationship with someone that cheats, even if it's cheating to be with you, I promise you, u will always wonder if she's doing it to you, if she's going to the store or to meet another, such and so on.  It's great in the beginning, but trust is a major part of a relationship, and she will never truely have your's.  \n   Plus, how are you going to feel breaking up a family?  How you going to feel when that baby (who u will end up helping raise) is told by dad or someone the events of why mom and dad isn't together?  You sound like a nice guy who's going to let all this stuff bother him as time goes on, which is a good thing.