Is it wrong to be in love with more than one man?
348662
i think that you have to think about the long run... \nfor the first guy:\nyou seem to be really into him, and you can see yall getting married.. thats no joke, it actually has potential\nfor the second guy:\nHe is married, and if you decide to get serious with him, what makes you think that he wont do the same to you as he did to his wife?\nFor the third guy:\njust because you are attracted to him doesn't mean he worth hurting the first guy whom you seem to be in to the most.\n\nI think mainly you have to think about which ones are LUST and which one is LOVE!
135849
sure its not . if u dont have alot its wrong dont be afraid u can have alot of gf and have sex with all of them
610922
the feeling is not always right. sometimes that feeling means you have an infatuation, and infatuations can be with many bad men. be careful!!
280138
Some people can be in love with more than one person.   Type in polyamory into search engines and read about that.   But also - think about what the new guy fulfills for you that the old one doesn't?  Perhaps you just need to open up some new lines of communication with current boyfriend to help your relationship completely fill your needs!
153227
wrong or right is up to your real feelings ,problems happen in the relationship but if you feel that you love him so much go quickly to him before another girl take him far from you
296734
You can love two people at the same time loving each for different reasons but you can not be inlove with two people.
49461
Attraction is not exclusive. You can be in love with more than one person at a time, however it isn't fair to cheat on either. Your feelings are your own, your actions will affect the people you love and may hurt them.\n\nUnless you live in very unconventional circumstances, one of your loves had better remain unfulfilled. That's a fairly common state of being, really - how many people still pine after their first great love even though cosily arranged?
1083045
It is ok to date 2 boyfriends at the same time.... If you are a Ho!\n\nIf you are asking this question, you are a Ho!\n\nTherefore, it is ok for you to date 2 boyfriends at the same time, as you are a Ho!\n\nGet down with your Ho! self !!!!
163780
I would be flattered. :)\n\nI am not sure if this is your case but....\n \n If I were in a situation where I was in love with those same two men and I felt like I had to choose between the two men, then I would choose neither. That would be an unfair situation for everyone.
764668
well i don't like 3sums i think that its wrong cuz you should have 1 lover and that's all. but hey that's my opinion, uhmm so yeah but if i was in your situation i would do what you were going to do trust them first then talk to them about it. well yeah Peace Out
570880
Don't worry. It is not wrong.\n\nYou can be in love with a person, and likes (and be liked by) several peoples too.\n\nIt can be not so good if you try to get more from this other people.\n\nDefinitely it is wrong if you cheat your loved one if a relationship exists.
1066282
I think it is just fine.  As long as you aren't in a committed relationship with either of them you can date as many as you like.  That is how you decide WHO if either of them you want to have as a boyfriend.
1126564
I think a person can be in love with two people at the same time. However, I think it's wrong for them to carry on two relationships simultaneously. They should choose one person, and let the other go.
570538
A person can be deeply in love with more than one other person.  If this were not so, first children would have it all and later-born siblings would be up that famous but stinky creek without a boat or paddle.\n\nI phrased it that way to try and help relieve some of your anxiety.  Yes, one can be deeply in love with two guys.  It will be a real challenge, but you will probably have to choose one over the other.  The worst thing you could do would be to allow either of them to think that he is your number one.  They should know of the importance of the other in your life and that you're still trying to choose.  They should each also know that your choice may not, in the end, be either of them!  You may find another with whom you are much more "in tune", and decide that he's the one you want to spend all your time with.  \n\nWhat to do?  Be honest with both gentlemen, and take your time.  Don't rush into a one-to-one relationship before you're really prepared for that.  Marry in haste, repent at liesure is still, after a thousand years, a very meaningful phrase.  Wait until one of 'em proves he's worthy of a special woman like you!
78770
No, it is not wrong. There are people that fall in love with people of the same sex. It's just the way it is, and no other human has the right to impose their own personal definition of what is right or wrong onto other people.
60106
it is not possible to love them the same way. You will love them equally, but in different ways and there is NOTHING wrong with you and your hubby getting involved with the same woman. As long as she is ok with the fact that he married you why would it be wrong?
1181543
I don't think that a person can be in love with two people at the same time.  Being in love and just loving someone are two completely different things.  I think that we talk ourselves into believing that we are in love with both people because we find qualities in both people that makes us want to be with them.  That is just love.  When you are in love with someone, there is no other person for you-no matter what qualities that other person has.