I think that I am a sex addict, but I do want to cheat. What should I do?
353448
come round to my place at 6 and ill help
934625
I don't think there is anything wrong with loving sex. Everyone has a different sexual appetite, yours is just strong. You are only a slut if you sleep around. Find other ways to get your fill of sex if you're not with a partner. There is no reason to be ashamed of a high sex drive. Enjoy it. I'm sure your partner will love you for it!
445857
Well Zain boy, it seems you have married to hide your sexual reality. You probably done that to go with the flow of your society. \n\nIn my opinion, you have chosen to conceal your needs not to be outed. Therefore you should honor your commitment. \n\nThink about your wife and kids. What fault is it of theirs that you should cheat on them simply to satisfy your desire? How would you feel if your wife cheated on you?\n\nBe a man and honor your marriage and family.
920163
My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
692706
I guess your sex appetite is normal Maybe you should try something different to satisfy yourself.
828254
I don't know about you sweetie, but an addiction is an addiction, and he is addicted.  Marriage is Respect, Admiration Passion and Trust.  For sure the first two are not there, since this is grinding on you.  And Passion is a bit tuff, if he oogles 13 year old girls on the computer,,, eeewwwwww.   You may trust him not to betray you by cheating, but hey, I trust my dog too. You don't have a marriage, you just don't know it yet.  You have a rommate..... Porn addiction is about the toughest thing of all to cure. ..... next question is why did you marry this jerk???? and in my eyes, any guy addicted to porn is a jerk.  How do you not find this disgusting????  And why are you still there????  In your place, I'd dump him and get out of this marriage.....You'll only grow to resent this crap as the years go on.... If you have children, you want this guy to be their father?????Sorry, sweetie, you asked
976165
I don't know about that, but I'm addicted to masturbation...
472780
You are sort of unclear here...but if you refer to inability to have sex once you have committed to them...then I have a thought. \n\nYou aren't seeing them in the same light. You have taken your partner to a place where they can not be corrupted by what you think sex should be. \n\nThis may take therapy to fix. But if you are willing to try...see this person as your best friend...as a person that you want to be happy. See them as someone to give too. Give to them. If you do not see yourself as able to give to this person...or turned off....there may be something that you need to see a sex therapist about. Or if you are shy or without insurance...try reading about it at a Borders. This problem is not particularly rare. But you need to explore  if fully. \n\nThe problem will come on with other people too in the future. Better to address it now
717326
Let me guess--you still think you're a good Christian, too? You know the answer to this question. You quit having affairs, get your act together, apologize to them (and to God) and get your life straightened out. Don't tell me it can't be done--you know it can. Sex is meant for marriage alone and then with one woman (not a dozen or even two). You are hurting them, hurting yourself, and you may end up a daddy long b4 you intended to. Quit the CRAP!!\n\nPS: God doesn't listen to sinners in sin--only when they ask for and WANT forgiveness and a change of life.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
757402
If thought of sex INTERFERE with other important aspects of your life, then you know you have a problem. It's the same thing with any other addiction.
909815
Get you a big baby bottle , cause you will need it to suck it up. Love does not stop men from cheating.Most men do cheat. I love all those who do not. ( i know you do not like hearing this ) consider it ammunition
553364
You have a right to be worried because many people cheat because it is addictive.  However, everyone deserves to be judged by their current relationship and not their past.  Who this man is with you and the relationship you have with him is unique and shouldn't be compared to his previous relationship.  Be smart and keep your eyes open but give this relationship a chance and don't throw it away just because your scared your relationship will end up like his before.
631178
I think he was a sex addict.
331562
you don't sound like a sexaholic. you sound like you just really enjoy the opposite sex. there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are careful and honest with everyone. however, if you really think you need help, there are support groups for this sort of thing.
3245
Don't cheat, just keep playin the dammed game until ye either get sick of it, or become good at it, whichever comes first..\n\nR3dm0
1180975
If your sex drive is higher than that of your wife.. perhaps you should seek out marital counseling or sex counseling.  There may be reasons behind the differing drives.\n\nIf she is not "freaky" enough for you, that could also be addressed in counseling.\n\nHowever, I don't believe you have earned the right to get some on the side... that comes with work.  Paperwork.  *divorce*\n\nI'm very sorry that you have gotten to the point in your life that you would ruin someone else's just to get off.  That is one of the most selfish things I have heard in quite some time.\n\nIf you don't believe it would hurt her, start a thread on people's opinions on those who cheat.. you'll get even more angry responses than you did in this one.\n\nIf you honestly cannot get enough sex, masturbate.