I met a girl while in college, kind of hit it off together, then the semester ended?
346004
u should ask her 2 dinner dont try 2 make any moves on her though some girls like that but not all of them lol just ask her 2 a movie or dinner
341179
I suggest that you 'clear the air' straight away. First off say she looks great. Then tell her you enjoyed your fling but your not looking for a serious relationship right now. Then talk about some mutual interest to get normal conversation going. Good luck!
834944
As long as you're  begging (and that's what it is - begging!) her to take you back, she knows she can do whatever she wants, and she'll still have you to go back to......  IF nothing else works out for her.  From what you've written, it sounds as though you're a very worthwhile guy - someone that lots of young women would just LOVE to have a relationship with - well, the smart ones, anyway.  Keep in mind, your ex is in high school, and very young.  (t's probably hard on her to not have a date on Friday night when all her friends do.)  Also, she might have a few "wild oats to sow" before she's ready to settle down with one guy....  But, know what?  You're young, too.  Why not take this "break-up" time as an opportunity to meet some other girls - maybe,someone in one of  your classes. (At least, you'll have something in common to talk about.) Get involved in some of the extra-cirricular activities around your campus.  You know, something that you're really interested in.  You' ll probably  find plenty of women who are interested in the same things. (Right now, you're building  your whole world around ONE person, which isn't wise in the long run.)  You might just find out that  you CAN live without your ex - or, if nothing else, you will learn a lot about how to handle yourself around women. (Begging them to come back to you is not the way, sweetie. It just makes you seem desperate.)  I know this is very, very difficult advise to take.  You might be homesick, and wishing things could be the way they used to be.  For many, the first year of college is hard to adapt to, but adapting is one of the most important lessons you can learn in life.  There's a big world out there - lot's of things to see, places to go, and people to meet.  It's sad if you choose to cling to the past  at such a young age.  And, you never know, your ex might just notice how mature and interesting you're becoming, and decide that those high school "boys" aren't  so "all-that" after all. That's when she might start begging you to take her back - that is, IF you'll still have her!  Think about it - and, best of luck to you.\n\nPEACE
936543
We were friends all through highschool and went to seperate colleges. Right before graduating she broke up with her boyfriend. I finally got up the nerve and asked her, "Are you about done dating these jerks?"
315047
Honestly? Break up. A long distance relationship won't work, especially with you both in colleges in different states. You will both meet other people, and one thing will lead to another, and one or another of you, or both of you, will wind up cheating, or suspecting and accusing the other of cheating.\n\nIf, after college, you get back together, great.
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Might be fun or, at least interesting, to persue online. I have a friend online and I have pretty much the same relationship, as you do with Alice, so I know where you're coming from. \nIs she into girls, besides you? Is she coming to your state for college b/c you're there? You said, "possible that she's coming", which means you may not get to see her? Can you wait a whole 11+ months for her to "possibly" show up? No, I'd definately do the online thing till you can be together. Maybe you girls will find out eventually that you were just meant to be soul mates and best friends, and not lovers. Maybe you were meant to be together. Maybe you two will end up leaving a trail of broken guy's hearts everywhere you go. Being in college, and not being tied down (ie boyfriend) this could be your oppurtunity for a once in a lifetime, amazing experience. \nI'd definately speak to her (yea, like you dont already! lol) and find out her feelings on this matter. Dig deep, and see what she thinks...\nGood luck, and I wish you (and "Alice") all the best!!!\n;o)
1022444
Yes, we used to date back in high school then broke up. After 8 years we meet again and we're inseparable for 3 years now.
833303
i think that is flirting. i  had the same situatuion happen to me and it ended up that she was flirting with me and that she was trying to get me to like her and then ask her out. so from my past experiences i think that this situation is considered flirting
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
362229
Yes, You should tell her how you feel and do it in a romantic way! Take her out, tell her you just want to go out before she goes to college and make her think that she is just going on the date as a friend. Then you tell her your feelings!
203668
Date the dude you like still.  This will lead you into a new direction in your life.  You are young, experiencing all you can is what life is all about.  If the dude you love will be hanging out with you then leave it at that.  After all being just friends is achievable.  Maybe that is why you love the one away at college, you miss his friendship.
773928
i loved it. best time of my life (so far!). try getting involved in some clubs or activities. maybe play some IM sports. if you're living on a freshman floor, make an effort to meet people. its really the people you meet that make college worthwhile.
96675
Once you....er..."she" has degree in hand (A-HEMMM), I would keep such feelings guardedly secret; probably left unsaid ever. Professor/student romantic liasons rarely work out. And in most cases of  the bitter aftermath, the professor can make the student's college study and life.....difficulut.\n\nBottom line: I'd focus more on earning the degree and less on romancing the Professor.
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Well after so much of persuading and convincing if she still blows you off, I think there is just one answer-She doesnt know what she wants! My suggestion is move on, if she cared as much as everyone says she does, she would have done something about it by now.\nThe last thing that you need is an undecided woman, especially if you going off to college soon.\nSorry, you in this situation......
426507
i had a friend in college freshman year who stopped showing up for class second semester because he was in bed with his girlfriend pretty much all the time.  he flunked out of school because of this.  strangely, though, she didn't.
711670
I am nursing student. Yes, you can. How long do u know that person? Take it easy, you both need to know each other well before you start a relationship. I support you! You can do it!
556276
She could have been in a relationship or just getting over one without lying.  If she was even close to him any she might need a breather before making an attempt to another one.  However, from what you're saying, she's definitely interested in you.  I would hang in there and keep on trying if you're really interested in her.