How do you deal with.....?
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Rather than fueling her paranoia, I'd probably just give her a list of the stuff you want from the cabinet.  Hopefully she'll take the hint.
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I'm currently teaching my man how to deal when I'm suffering from PMS. Men need know women really do suffer.. The mood swings are beyond a lady's control. \n\nJust dont have a smart mouth. This is the worse thing a man can do.\n\nDONT FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE\n\nAPOLOGIZE A LOT\n\nAPOLOGIZE FOR ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING\n\nAPOLOGIZE FOR NOT HAVING A PERIOD TOO\n\nAgree with her and tell her its OK and please please sympathize and empathize
564169
confront them and be honest about your feelings!
982280
you need professional help with someone who knows how to deal with this, not all of us on here.
362483
I can totally relate to what you are saying. I live with the same type of thing every day, unfortunately the person in question is my boss. Sometimes I think if I let loose one day the consequenses might just be worth it. Horrible, I know, but this kind of person can cause the most severe and aggressive frustration! My advice is to avoid him as much as possible, which is what I do with her, but should you happen to proceed with a physical confrontation I admit I would find it comforting to know that at least someone had some consequence for their constant crap behavior and maybe will think twice about it in the future.
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1. Talk to the person about the problem. Do they see what they area doing? Do they understand the consequences to others of their behavior?\n2. What is their response to this discussion? Do they acknowledge the problem and want to help solve it? OR is it a 'too bad, that's the way it is' answer? \n3. If they want to try and solve it, then you will need to come to a compromise about time, labor, money etc. \nIf they have a too bad so sad attitude, then the way to deal with it is to leave.
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Thinking about you. Just keep doing what they ask of you, stay honest and keep talking it out. You'll be fine.\n\n********** Edit...\n\nMr Mister, if you have a problem with me, then take it out on me and not someone else. Stop being a coward.
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do u know to whom they lie they lie at them selfs \nyes thats true, they are not lieing at us.\n\nand how to deal with them will u cant deal with them no matter what u do they will always lie lie cz all of there life is a big lie.\n\ndont care about them just leave them cz trust me u wont get anywhere with these people
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and your problem is....?
1080842
You deal with it by coping with your disabilty.  Learn new skills, stay as healthy as posible.  Build up your upper strength.  Do the pity party for awhile and get back in the groove of things.
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Get a grip... \nI mean read a book, go for a walk..... find another guy.. I know it may not be easy.. but that is the practical approach.
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how you cope i will never now
97040
If it really bothers you, find you someone that you can be happy with and let him move on to someone else and let them deal with him. Find someone who makes you happy and cares about you and yyour feelings.
48871
Pray to God for help and guidance. In this situation, because there is obviously nothing you can really do, put it in God's hands. I'll be praying for you!! I hope this helps. :)
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I would say ignore them but that only makes them want you more. You have to TOTALLY ignore them. You have to avoid all contact because the slightest thing you do will only make the attraction stronger.
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Be firm with them. Set clear boundaries and let them know that you do not wish those boundaries to be crossed.\n\nIf they cross those boundaries, then remove yourself from their presence. Terminate relationship with them if needed.\n\nCordially,\nJohn
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This works for me:\nI go to a quiet place and I analyze why they upset me. (For this you must be true to yourself or it won't work).\n\nWhen I know why, I decide if I wish to continue the relationship or not.\n\nIf I wish to continue - I determine if there is something I need to do.  It may be to talk calmly to them or to ignore the situation.\n\nHowever most times when people affect me physically as you feel, I cut them out of my life all together.  The situation never gets better and I just get sicker.  Cutting them out always works for me.\n\nGood luck and feel better.