should i b made cause my boyfriend sometimes stare a girls?
350549
That all depends on what kind of stare.  I have always said that if its just an honest look(with no whistling, smiling, eyebrow lifting, obsessive staring, etc.) then its ok.  But if it gets to the point where he goes out of his way to sneak a peek, or trys to initiate sly eye contact or conversation, then its not ok.  So, my advice is to watch what type of stare he has.  Guys by nature like to look at a pretty female.  I think its more of an instinctual behaviour, you know...checking out a female to see if she is equipped to procreate with.  But if you are with a guy and his body language completely shifts to a flirty type while he's staring, then you got a problem.\n\n=)
109106
Believe me, it is just you who feels so, i am pretty sure ur bf knows about ur jealousy problem but he chooses to ignore it either or it is just that he might b enjoying seeing u jealous! But if u wanna give him nail to nail , just start going with him, eg,. if he admires a certain girl, u just start praising the girl more and i wud suggest that u even praise some good looking guy who passes u both, just see the effect then! u"ll definitely enjoy this and it will take care of him and u as well, i.e. u "ll get rid of jealousy problem and he"ll stop being a complete innocent child!
849062
my partner stares at other woman too. i always hit him when he does lol it depends whether your just checking them out, even i look at a womans breasts if they are showing. but there is a line and it is disgusting if i see a man fully staring at me up and down thats perverted. if its just a check out thing, you have nothing to worry about, if its more just get magazines or something and look at that. its all about self control too, im sure you can stop perving if you really wanted to.
683716
I assume by the question that he used to look at you, but now he doesn't, is that correct? Has something changed? Is there a reason for him not to want to look at you? My response to the question is that if he's not into it enough to look at you, and look into your eyes, then you need to find you a different boyfriend........one that WILL look at you, and really is "into you". Good luck!
723839
I would have to say dont worry about his past girls friends those were in the past even if he brags that they were pretty you are with him now so that makes you the better one.I have once thought in my life that i was not pretty when i really was but my self esteem was so low. But I said you know what i was made this way and iam going to be happy with it. so just be happy with who you are you are beautiful in your own way.
588708
I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.
909707
I'm straight...my boyfriend watches them sometimes...
400682
The guy I'm seeing told me that he wouldn't mind if guys took a glance at me while I'm with him but if they stared at me, there would be a problem. He also said that he'd be PISSED if a guy asked me for my number while I was physically with him.\n\nI guess as long as the guy isn't physically with his girlfriend, it won't be so bad. How is a guy supposed to know if a girl is single by just looking at her when she's by herself and/or not with her boyfriend?
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You're not gonna like this....but he's a guy.  Every guy likes to look at women, every guy likes to be looked at by women, the only differences are in how well we control/hide it.  If you've never had any reason to suspect him of infidelity, I would say it's no big deal.  It certainly doesn't indicate anything about him not liking/loving you.  However, you need to ask yourself what you want.  Do you need a guy that will only look at you, give you that constant self-esteem boost?  If your boyfriends not what you wnat, move on, but if he's really what you need, with one mildly bad habit, deal with it.
222941
No matter what you think or do it is a natural instinct for men to look.  Engage it and explore his innermost thoughts.  Don't get jealous because he does love you.  Looking is not cheating.  Explore it together.
367621
Honey...sorry to say this but this wonderfull boyfriend of yours does not respect u or the realationship that he has with u..just by reading what u wrote i can tell that this kind of behavior from him breaks your heart...u shouldn't put up with this at all...if he is staring at her in front of u..god only knows what he does behind your back..it doesn't matter what any of us post here to say to u...But if i was u i would move on...get your things when he is not around and get out of this relationship...think about it this way...if i was your sister and i told u what u are telling us...what would u say?...see what i mean?...there are some wonderful guys out there that u havn't even met yet that are dying to meet u
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she probably thinks your cute \nI'm guilty of staring and thinking guys are cute and have a boyfriend I love at the same time.\nthis girl might be thinking of dumping her boyfriend, i dnt know. but if you're interested in her, i would still talk to her anyways so you can see.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
65339
u wear what ever u want and if your man loves u then he has to respect u. tell him to keep his eyes of other woman and if he continues to look then u start looking the other way at men to see how he likes that play them at there own game.
993412
You'll never know until you go talk to her. Girls love guys with confidence..oh yeah, dont forget to be suave too. (lol)\nBut if it turns out, all this time, it was a "why-is-he-looking-at-me-stare". at least you know..\nSo, stop guessing!!
297727
It IS a guy thing. Even the most commited guys look at other girls. Maybe even sexually. If you (can) trust him, everything should be fine. Perfectly normal, all guys do it...sorry! *lol* Don't worry.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?