how do i attract an asian man if i am a latina? what do you asian guys like in their woman?
341621
"miss.china d" must have had a bad experience with them..\nMy buddy can say all asian women are whores since his mom cheated on his dad and all his sisters are hoes and his ex g/f(asian chic)wanted to cheat on him with me.She's probably pretending to be asian w/fake avatar anyways-(it's common in this site)...\n\nI can tell ya that all races have there A-h o l e s...\nI know that asian guys are the same as any...I know alot from school/work/parties,etc. and most of them are pretty cool and kick it like any other.There are way too many breeds(thai,vietnamese,cambodian,korean,and the list goes on for ever)...you'll get alot unfamiliararities due to many different upbringings...it gets confusing but I'm use to it cause the heavy population of them where I live.Hope ya get good contacts.
184077
Well, I live in Asia and all the white men I know do date Asian women, especially over here. I've been here a long, long time, and have observed many situations and have asked some of my friends about it. I don't know the reasons, but I will list what they have said: \n\n(DISCLAIMER: I am only reporting what was said to me!!!!)\n\n1. Their bodies (sexually) are smaller and tighter.\n2. Their hands are beautiful - long, thin fingers. (some men are really into this)\n3. Their breasts are smaller (to some men this is very attractive)\n4. They are experts in emotionally making a man feel, well...like a man. (look at the culture, read the history)\n5. Their bodies are "lighter" (apparently a real turn-on in some sexual scenarios)\n6. Here in China, they are given strong encouragement by their families to "get" a foreigner. Even to the point of receiving accolades from their friends for breaking up a marriage.\n7. They manage to accomplish all the above while looking and acting extremely shy and even aloof. (for a man who likes the "hunt", it's irresistable)\n\nOn the other hand, to be fair, my brother, who has lived here for several years and dated exclusively Asian women, says that:\n\n1. After a while, it gets pretty old. (being used for sex)\n2. While they may be particularly attractive, he says, it's the women raised in western countries who end up being far more daring and willing to try new things sexually\n3. The bottom line is: (according to him) They want money and a foreign passport. That gets old, as well.
1129589
Latin girls are sexy, wild and a little more uninhibited than American girls. When they dance and sweat its a big turn on for guys.  Also their Spanish accents are hot.
956888
Hi I am an asian female and I am sorry that you are being judged for your looks. As an asian female I get the worst brunt of society's hate and judgement as well. \n\nYou seem like a nice , well mannered intelligent person. What I would do, is stop going to those sleezy bars where men blow you off. Those men are not worth your time since they are just probably looking for sex and are superficial. Have you tried to use a personal website where you can specifically ask and look for someone else your age who wants to be in a long term relationship? \n\nThere is nothing wrong with being a gay asian man. All those people that act like that towards you want to have a sense of control and therefore feel like it's okay to be rude and snub you. It is an issue with them and not you.\n\nAs far as those asian men who don't want to date asian men, I think they have self racism and project their feelings of insecurity and sense of insignificance on you. That is why you get blown off by your own race. Don't worry, asian people blow me off too in general for the exact same reason.\n\nYou will find someone with persistance but remember to change your venue. Don't go to bars.. they basically suck and they are a meat market. Look on yahoo personals or post one yourself, you may be pleasantly surprised at a response. If that doesn't work, start looking for asian male gay organizations. I hope this helps, don't let those idiots get you down, you are too good and mature for them!
468142
Us Asians r jus sexier than the rest... simple as that :)
972221
It's the Filipino traits that look hispanic, despite the fact that they are completely unrelated. (There is a European-Spanish influence in Filipino culture, but it has nothing to do with the Latin American traits which are typically darker in features). My husband is half Filipino, half German and people always assume he speaks Spanish. (He doesn't).\n\nBy the way, that combination of Filipino/European in women is referred to as the "Pilipina Beauty" which is how they refer to our daughter.
193162
I think some guys think that Asian women are cute because they appear to be submissive (Great Myths No.1 - they only appear to be!). They have obviously not heard of the iron fist in the silk glove theory.
498485
You shouldn't generalize like that.  Just because your Latino man is like that doesn't mean they all are.  On the other hand, people of a Latin heritage tend to be more sensual by nature, so you may be reading more into it than it really is.
750812
I think Asian gals try and look all nice and innocent...but they are far from it....white women...they are more open...they are don't have any sly motives.\n\nIn England the only guys that marry Chinese gals are elderly....here in America it seems all American guys like Asian gals...and then later find out how manipulative and controlling they can be.
960707
yes i'm black and have went out w/ a couple of white guys and like a asian dude, and a hispanic guy. for some reason i'm attracted to white guys, my friends tease me about it but it's just something i'm attracted to. but i am also addicted to asian guys, like from thailand and places where they look like they're hispanic/asian, lol
1020070
I'm a middle-aged white guy and I've always preferred my women\n"thick". Preferably short & thick! (I'm 6'1") Race irrelevant but I do have a weakness for Latin, Asian & Meditteranean ladies. Only dated two "skinny" girls in my entire adult life but both were quite\nexceptional, in addition to being the exception to the rule!
647632
asians do tend to be a bit shyer but that can always actually be a good thing... that means he has less time to focus on being a cocky american white boy and more time to focus on the beautiful things: you!  so if he asked for a second dance I am pretty sure he likes you at least enough to be your friend... try to take it slow... maybe come off as just really friendly instead of really forwardly being obvious that you want to go out with him... (if you do that is)... that way you have no obligation and you can see if you really like what he has to offer... if you dont.. just stay friends... or find a nice way to stop hanging out with him. just make sure you go out of your way to know he can be comforatble around you.
753538
I'm a Malay and currently having a  chinese girlfriend as well. Interacial relationships are very common now.The thing is, there are gonna be more obstacles than any relationships you can have with someone of your own race. Go for it man!!
848098
Latinas speak their minds more and many are good at taking care of their men (in a very good way).  Caucasian women are more athletic / outdoorsy and usually more appreciative of men who speak their minds.  All women appreciate men who are confident and kind.
1090726
its just you lol, maybe white men like asian females
993654
Actually, if we are going to assume their is any merit in this argument at all, alot of people find latino&#92;as very attractive people. I actually like latino men because-no offense to anyone- I don't like blond men. It looks too feminine and reminds me of surfer boys. Culturally, latino guys are also encouraged to be more macho. There are alot of women who like that in a guy, including myself.\nIt doesn't matter if you look good, illegal is illegal. I make romantic decisions considering(in part) personal appearance, not political ones.
839278
well I am not quite sure if I'm white or latin... i am more like...mediterranian which is a bit of both... hardly look I am from where I am... i have dark hair and blue eyes but i'm not super white, i'm like italian...yeah you could say that..sorry back to topic...\nWell latinos have very good reputation when it comes to sex...there was a survey ( but it's only a survey) that the best lovers by countries were ... 1st - portuguese men... ( i was very impressed with that but that's what it said)\n2nd - spanish and 3rd - italians...\nBut this survey might be true after all portuguese ladies rarely complain about their lovers... i have no idea if this helped you in any way but yes I agree with you...they are probably willing to do more...