I always think of sex, please help me?
337712
if you think of sex all the time, it's normal.  However, looking at porn isn't going to help.  That'll just increase your thinking about sex, and you might do it to a girl.
1170638
my sex is always good
525675
First you have to imagine something or watch a porn, a porn will probably work best for you at first to get you going.  Second, you can be traditional and use your hand, but if you are the one for penetration, you might want to invest in a sex toy for that.  Third sit back and enjoy the ride, hehe.
626803
Sex is great, when you are ready, if you have to think about it, then you shouldn't have it, remember life is precious and don't think you have to things, just live life and you will know when you are ready!
222076
You've only hit the tip of the iceberg.  Try playing strip checkers and chess.  Write out a wonderful sexual fantasy on a slip of paper and have your lover do the same.  Fold the papers, and keep them under wraps for now.  Play the game, and whoever wins gets his or her fantasy played out first.  Whoever loses, gets his or her fantasy played out second.  It's a win-win love making experience.  \n\nAlso try putting whipped cream underwear on each other and licking it off.\n\nStart with A of the alphabet, and kiss a body part of your lover that begins with A.  Then have your lover kiss a body part of yours that begins with B, and continue down the alphabet.  See if you get all the way through.  If you can't think of anything starting with the letter, make something silly up!  It's a new kind of spelling bee to do with your honey!\n\nAlso, use blindfolds and make love without looking at each other--just touch.  Use roses and feathers, and other sensual items to enhance the experience.]\n\nWhen you make love, focus your orgasmic energy on a specific goal you both share, or a dream you would like to come true.  Then you are practicing sex magic!  It's a lot hotter than regular sex.\n\nJust keep the fun, silliness, love, and creativity in whatever you do!
88865
sex always works for me
455280
You're most likely just nervous.  A good way to "check yourself" in terms of sexuality is to track the very last thing you think about when you.... er... take matters into your own hands, and are alone.  Not 30 seconds before, not what kind of dirty little magazine is helping you along, not what movie is playing for encouragement, but that VERY last thing you think about.  Is it a man or a woman?  If it's a man, then you just need to deal with the fact that you might be gay and learn to accept that and realize it doesn't mean anything other than that fact.\n\nAnd it's OK to be nervous.  If this has been an ongoing issue, think about talking to someone about it.  Start with your doctor, and perhaps think of seeing a therapist.  You'll sort it all out.  It's happens to many men a lot.  Just not with me.\n\nIf it's a woman you think of in that last second of glory, then get in touch.  I'm sure I can help you out with that last minute "hurdle".  No man has left my bed without leaving a little something behind for Mama....
280335
Oh my goodness I had this same problem, This is what I did. I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I CLEAR MY MIND AND BE FOCUSED WHAT I'M DOING.HAVE TO BE TURNED ON! YOU HAVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO PLEASE YOU!!!  I was w/ my ex for 5 yrs. I though I had plenty of organisms until I met my fiance SO that goes back to ya man has to know what he's doing!
400803
you are thinking so much about sex that why you always end up with masturbating! to control your self you have to be strong and to fight thinking about sex.. not because it is a bad thing but because it is better to perform sex after getting marriges!\nby the way masturbating daily or many times ( more than 2 times monthly)causes rapid ejection of semen ( you might realized it) which will makes you unable to perform long pleasurable sex with your partener but if you stopped from now things can be treated alone!\ngood luck
612859
Phycalogy, saids if you are having thought about the same sex or dreams in a sexal way that it is complety fine everyone has them it human nature, And those that say they don't or never have are just lieing to there trueself about being human. Every-one has those thought at one piont in thier life or another. If you have been having these thoughts for as long as you can remember then it a posabilty that you are. Another way you can tell is if you have to force yourself to date the oppist. sex & in that relationship you can't force yourself to ever get seriuos with that person other than a kisses,hugs and hand holding even if they try everything under the sun. So the best answer I can give you is just be true to your real-self & listen to the little voice in your head and heart and you are the only-one that knows the real answer to this question.
638042
you need will power and a full time friend try find a hobby that takes your mind off your problem and remember guys like women with curves good luck and best wishes
160080
I think you are in a good place in your relation as of now. You enjoy having sex with him. Your relation is quite cool with him.. Give it time to sink in, I mean falling for a guy may not be all that great idea just because he is good in bed. But still, let that thought stay at the back of your mind and think over it in time. Bottom line being, DO NOT rush into anything without thinking about it seriously. Your one decision may be responsible for your rest of the life ahead. Take Care and Best O' Luck!!!
692553
whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.
178943
Have never faced this problem, but if I ever did ,I would weigh the pros ,and cons of it.I find sometimes ,you are your own best friend.But you need to interact with others,everyone needs companionship,not just for sex,but for conversation.You should have an open mind about everything,because if your mind is closed to some things,you will surely miss something!!
659257
try being bi a while. maybe meeting that special someone will change something. i don't know. if it's a matter of obsession with the same sex, there should be counseling for that. or addiction to sex. \ndon't go out with women already thinking about bedding them. try to build something first. friendship, casual dating, give it time to change into something more. maybe someone will give them that spark of interest. don't rush it. don't try cold turkey.
195180
Could be that your new boyfriend although better for you, is not as good in bed, so you are not 100% satisfied with him. So when you think about sex, you think of your x because he was better. Just a theory.
1170394
I think you’re experiencing a type of addiction. Usually this type of addiction to sex is a result of viewing pornographic materials. If that is the case, stop engaging in such activities now. \nPornography impairs people’s ability to enjoy a normal emotional, romantic, and spiritual relationship with a person of the opposite sex. \nA guy who had been addicted to pornography and to hard drugs once said: "In my eyes cocaine doesn't hold a candle to this. I have done both. . . . Quitting even the hardest drugs was nothing compared to trying to quit pornography....” So if you really want to stop thinking about sex and sexual images, avoid all forms of porn now and perhaps see a professional counselor to help you get rid of this detrimental habit.