I'm in love with a girl who's  my best friend but she's already dating someone else.What am I suppose to do ?
354002
Well i think you should tell her how you feel and see what she says... maybe she will tell you that she likes you and had been waiting for you to say something
313801
I agree with the others.  If she was your best friend she wouldn't have started dating him knowing how you felt.  That's always been the rule with all my friends.  Never go after someone they like.  I'm sorry she did that to you.
669291
She's got somebody else. You need to date another girl as see if she gets jealous.
436459
I've kind of had a similar problem (although vice versa cause I'm a girl) in the past..First you need to to figure out your feelings for each girl, and decide who you want to be with. If you choose your girlfriend, you need to be honest with your friend, and tell her that she had her chance, and now you have a girlfriend, and she needs to respect that. And she doesn't have to like her, but for the sake of friendship she needs to tolerate her.. And then tell your girlfriend, that YOU chose her, you chose to be w/ her.. and she needs to respect your friendship with someone else, and its not fair of her to tell you who your friends can and cannot be.. \nIF, however you choose the friend, you have to be honest with your girlfriend, and tell her that you need to explore whatever the connection to your friend is.. and that you're sorry..\nThe thing is, even though there is a connection with your friend, It sounds as though she likes the chase, because she could had you at one time and she chose not to.. and NOW that you're taken she wants you.. just because there's a connection, doesn't mean she isn't playing a game, even if she doesn't know shes playing a game.. she is..
1063941
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
873263
If you are telling your ex that you love her, then the best friend shouldn't mean anything to you. If you are having your doubts, forget even trying to mend things with your ex, and just go for the best friend. Just know that trying to go after an ex's best friend is a REALLY sensitive thing, but if both of you feel that way for each other, it could work.
863068
Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
160082
she's probably in love with someone else if she is sorry............get someone else before yu get your heart more broken
917903
If she's with someone else now, don't do it.\n\nIf you're both available, just ask her what she thinks about it. Say something like, "We've been friends forever and we get along so well. Do you think we could ever date? Or would that just wreck things?"
745200
if she likes someone else, you need to find someone intrested in yourself...otherwise you are wasting time..
99637
So she IS aware of this love or she isn't??  Have you tried just asking her on a date?  I mean, proposing would be rushing it a bit considering you haven't even tried romance yet.  If she's aware you love her and she's your best friend, the only reason she might say no is to keep from risking your friendship.  if the realtionship doesn;t work out, she looses a friend.  if you just stay friends, what does she loose?  just ask her if she might be interested in turning your friendship into something more.  if she says no,  just let her know that if she changes her mind, you're still game, but otherwise you want to remain the great friends you've always been.
1122598
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
129263
If he loves you then why would he date your Best Friend? And if she is your best friend, why is she dating the guy you love? Sounds like they have a sensitivity chip missing...get away from both of them
231028
Well you are already in love with this person are you not? if not then be friends , but beware, this person was deceitful to you , unless they were trying to live honestly a life of their opposite sex. But when your in love , some things can be overlooked.
882587
Decide what you value most... the friendship or wanting her. If she is into someone else, then you're best at remaining friends with her...or you could tell her you like her and see what happens. But if something happens, there's the possibility you'll never be friends the same way again.
786737
Girl are you serious? For one, if he really cared for you, he would not have started dating someone that you call your best friend. If she was your friend, she would not have started dating someone that you were with and still have feelings for. If I were you, I would take the advice he gave you (which is telling you that he does not want you for a relationship, just something to fall back on) and date other people and just leave him the hell alone and her too. Do not put yourself in the position to be hurt, take control of your feelings, have pride and some respect for yourself. What makes you think a real man would want someone who is going to be their dummy, and wait for them to finish messing around with some other girl? He is making a fool of you, and it is time you get a back bone and swallow that so called love you have for him.\n\nI really do not think what you have is love any ways, I think you are just infatuated with him and its gotten stronger because now he has become a challenge since you can not have him when you want him. Girl it is so many other fine ass men out here and who could be better that what he is, that will love every step you take. Do not wait around for someone to approve you loving them and them loving you. He is not sorry for hurting you, he is just plan sorry!
929276
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!\nI dont want to ruin my friendship though!