How do I give a really good hand relief to a young man (18+) ?
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Use some kind of lube - whatever you have to hand\n\nMoisturiser will do, oilier the better\n\nDon't expect to be good at this right away, your arm may not have the stamina!\n\nMost importantly, if you feel you're getting nowhere, ask him if he wants it to be gripped harder, pulled faster, etc\n\nMy gf is excellent at this now, but it took a few years
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well in my opinion if your being yourself around him and he doesnt like you then their is OBVIOUSLY something wrong with him :) but you can always do little things to help him like you like wear a really pretty smelling perfume cuz guys can smell it even if they dont say so....also bring food, I swear food is the easiest way to get a guy to come over and talk to you. bring some and then ask them if they want any and theyll keep talking to you. Lastly one thing that i do that has worked for me is saying your hands are cold. say it and then touch their arm and theyll say someting like "geez your hands are cold!" and then sometimes depending on the guy he'll say " Feel mine they arent cold" and BAM their you go!my freinds starting doing this after i told them and they say it works so i hope it helps and i hope you get your guy!
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Well, you could give him a nice night of intimacy.  I don't know a guy out there that wouldn't like that.\nStart off with maybe a nice bath then, a warm sesual massage followed by a nice session of lovemaking.  Show him that he's still the one for you and that you appreciate him.\nA beautiful gift and totally free.
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A lab dance ? \nno i'm just kidding .. well at this age i don't think gifts really matters as much as words of appreciation .. try a card with some sweet words in there .. how sweet he's and supportive .. and brave .. you know him better so try to choose words like that .. words make him feel something different .. if you need help with words .. search for peoms online .. and try finding the best that could discribe him ,.. with a flower or a rose .. just one .. hope that helps.
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Make a love basket.  Fill it with kinky things like sex dice, whip cream, lingerie, grapes, wine, chocolate, body butter, etc.  Then you get the benefit out of the deal too!  Or make a type of love coupon book.  A coupon may say massage for 30 mins.  Or pedicure and manicure that you will do.  Or that you will fix his favorite meal.  Be creative.  Think of the things he'd like best!
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Is this a question for males or females?\nWell, my friends and I got some vibes pretty much as a joke when we were 15...it turned out ot be pretty enjoyable. So I got another. They're fun sometimes, but I think my hand is just as good and less of a hassle, frankly.
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ask him for a hug or can you hold his hands...or maybe talk to him about it then maybe he'll straighten up i guess
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here is the deal...every girl is different and has different pleasures which can turn them on. I personally enjoy a calming back massage with aromatheropy oils and a bedroom filled with scented candles and a bouquet a fresh flowers. I know that this can not be done everytime you want her in the mood, but the sense of knowing just how much the guy loves you is overwhelming when he goes to such a high degree to see a smile on your face. Remember...the small gestures are the things that matter in life, so get her something small and from the heart. Something that reminds you of a date or moment the two of you had together
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Make it casual and he will feel more comfortable. Allow him to help set the table and especially do the dishes, will be indicative of how he will help in years to come........
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You can start by showing appreciation from all the things he/her does for you.Give your support & unconditional love in return...and tell that person how you feel-especially during intimate moments.
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be gentle, use alot of tongue, and try different moves, ask him what feels good, while your doing it.
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you know your body better than anyone.  Teach him how to please you and then you won't have to be upset afterwards..They can be taught how do you think they know as much as they do before they get to you.
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get him some coucilling, it should help
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A nice candlelit dinner and then give him a massage following dinner....he'll like that a lot : )
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Talk is cheap...grab his hand and hold on.  Touch is the quickest and easiest way to communicate.
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Ive read the other answers and feel that they r all true but a few pointers:\n\na) Consult the kamasutra\nb) While being at the bottom and the guy on the top, keep a pillow under ur butt..... it will enhance the pleasure by making him hit the right spots. \nc) make ur guy sit on the chair and then sit on his laps while taking his thing into you ............ In this position, you can ctrl his flow and hit the spots which usually are not hit............... ( U know what i mean )
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be kind but firm in telling him u are there to help him and thats as far as it can go