wut is some thing u say to a guy when u find it hard to come out of your shell?
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Just walk up and say "hi". I will then say "hi" to you, and before you know it, we'll be carrying on a conversation. No need to be afraid. We don't bite, you know.
366621
I have been in the situation before and it worked out for the best. I got the courage to sit down with the guy and talk to him about my feeling but i didnt sound despert to him i just told him that i think we are made for each other and that i still loved him a lot. I told him the truth and after i told him he got the courage to say what his feelings are and he said that he still loved me 2. I know its hard to step up and be the first to say what you feel like, but if you do it might just work out. Good luck
293576
Have a little more confidence.And take it slowly.I'm a guy so can only tell you what I like.
118790
Wait till you find one that brings you out of your shell, that you do like and act like it, and one where you can't find anything wrong. It may take years, months, or days, but he's out there.
522629
Hmm, no, that's a smidgen awkward. Make eye contact. Smile. Relax, it's no big thing. Be confident--no one can resist a little sexy confidence. Sit up straight. Stand with your arms to your side and your toes pointed inward just slightly. Make good conversation, keep it flowing. Giggle, but not too much. Compliment him genuinely once or twice. Softly touch his arm, hand, or knee. Best of luck!
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pretending.\n\ni dont like to get guys hopes up. it isnt fair on them and i told a guy that he was good looking and he thought i liked him and followed me around the nightclub for the reast of the night. it ruined my night and his when i turned round and told him the truth.\n\nits best to be honest from the start.
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Your'e amazing, the most amazing person I've ever met. Your'e beautiful on  the inside aswell as the outside and seeing you again is messing with my head.\n\nThe funniest line I've heard one guy say, was (looking at my chest) "have you got a license for those!"
361789
You need to find a way to come out of your shell a little bit more so she can see the real you and get to know you and then love you.
61933
say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.
93976
Just be yourself. I know its hard to do but find the strength too. I know you can.
178372
This is hard...how far are you willing to go.  I only ask, because there are numerous things that you can do. This depends on him and what kind of image he may have of you.  You always want to be yourself...don't try to be something you are not.  Disappointments are not good.  Try to have short conversations with him.  Statements that leave him hanging and wondering...What did she mean by that???  He's gonna come back to find out...if he is intersted.  I once left a post it note on a man's door with my #.  He called 20 mins later.  Subtle things work the best.....Okay, well it helps if you enjoy some of the same things.  Interraction is your best bet.  Some girls don't need to flirt...and honestly you prob don't need to.  If he is a fresh too, he might not get it.  But if he is a playboy...is that what you want?
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in love \nnothing gets in the way\njust say it slow so he can understand you..I bet all of us here could understand every thing you say to us
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Just be yourself.  Do your best to communicate openly and honestly.  The words will come out when they need to come out.  Do not be afraid.
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comment some guy when ur with him.\ntrust me, ull know
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Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
804129
Go slow. Unravel his personality slowly.  Except for the important things like, are you married, etc.
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Coming from a girl dont b so quick saying it. the worst things to say are:\n1. How long hav we known each other it is almost our friend anniversery. Girls hate it.\nU:Say this. It may b coming quick but, well, can i tell u somthin-Her:sure-U:Well i think i sorta like u. More than a friend. And...well i think i wanna go out with u-Her:(hopefully)sure, il giv it a try\n                           I HOPE I HELPED