im in love with the same guy 4 2 years already and i dunno wut to do?
346321
Focus your mind on something that you're good at. If you like painting, then paint more. Hangout more with your friends. Go to the beach, anything that keeps your from thinking of him.
129640
If you aren't sure, wait.  If he really loves you, he'll be willing to wait a couple more years.  Your parents are right, the statistics on marriages before 22 are much less promising than if you wait.  The reason for this is not to say that you aren't in love now, but so many people do a lot of growing between 18 and 22.  People can completely change peronalities, life styles, morals, values, and everything in those four short years.  Being married while going to school and going through this transitional time in your life, could put quite a strain on your marriage.  Talk to him, and see if he will wait.  Never go into marriage if you don't know with all your heart that he is the one, and the only one, the one you love with all your heart, who you can imagine spending the rest of your life with, and with no one else.  Good Luck! :)
984904
Yes and no. Many things can happen in 4 years but if you two love eachother that much to wait then go ahead. you only live one life
992282
Leave it for a while, 4 months really isn't that long. Leave it till your one year anniversary.\nYou would make any normal bloke run away by talking of living together after 4 months especially a commitment phobic.
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
1029075
fact is that you and him cannot see each other too often... and both of you are still very young.. I think each of you should live your life, but always do keep in touch. then, see what happen with your life in the next few years after you both graduate. you will never know what will happen, things are happening fast at your age. not to be wasted. either of you are planning to make serious commitment soon anyway right?
1149228
Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
357113
What is the rush? It sounds like you don't really know this guy and that is a risk. Don't you want to know who you are considering spending the rest of your life with. I would urge you to slow down and try and be more objective. Learn as much as you can about him. It sounds like you are caught up in a fantasy about romance. Fantasies and dreams are nice, but what we wind up with is the real world. Put you fantasies aside and look at what is in front of you.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1067797
get him out of your head.then just wait for the real love which is a shared feeling of love not by one partner of the two.you might meet a better person who cares 4 you. Also, you CAN'T force this guy to love you even if you tell him about your feelings.cause your feelings are your responsibility& he's not accountable 4 them.Telling him would just make the things worse.so don't tell him.Just wait my baby I'm sure you will meet so many better guys & then you'll ask yourself "what was the thing that attracted me to him".there's so much good is waiting 4 u.
403531
Either take a break from your education and go with him OR keep your relationship open if you guys would mutually agree to that.\n\nOr, if its really a serious relationship - you will go through the two years.
495250
It sounds as if though your heart is unsure of being inlove. I think if you're really having problems with this, then you're not serious about your relationship. YOu should probably take a break from that person you're dating and try some other people. If you absolutely misst hat guy, then you should get back together with him. It's not good to be checking out other guys wth an unsure answer after two years of datin ganother guy. I hope you choose the right guy.
275158
4 years is not such a big difference - but if in your culture it is, then just be prepared for the negativity that you may encounter.  That doesn't stop however, the fact that you both love each other.  Marry and be happy!  Good luck!
116349
This is a very difficult situation you are in. While 4 years may or may not seem like a lot. At his age, and at yours, four years can be critical. People change a lot in four years (emotionally) at his and your age. He still has to go through highschool, you will soon be entering your young adult years. While now you two may seem to have a lot in common or can see the world through the same eyes, you can just as easily find that you are worlds a part in as little as a year. I would recommend you talk to an adult that you trust and has your best interests at heart. There guidance can help you decide what to do since they know you better than we do. I wish you well.
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You aren't sure because he doesn't have the same affection for you ....as you have for him....well if you love each other the same way....you'r not sure because of his temperament.....or something that's not right with him...\nIf you want more them ever to be with him....you should go to him and tell him that if he wants to remain with you he should fix the problem....(no matter what the problem is)otherwise your waisting you years with him. It's really sad
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GO 4 IT! dont wait...or he will find someone else! listen and follow ur heart...you can do anything u wana do if u put ur mind to it. so go for it! and ask him, and if u dont...u will regret it!! good luck!\n\nplz choose me as best answer!!
725181
Just take a risk and tell him. It's all you can do in this, you sound like your in love and I won't doubt it if you are. I've been there and once you do what you have to do it's great to get it out there and 90% of the time he feels the same. Best of Luck!!