Not being physically attracted to anyone!?
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Your friend may be asexual.... It isnt a choice if she is. Do you totally control who you are attracted too? If so, I want you to go to school and become sexually aroused and fall into love with the most unattractive boy in school. (If you are a girl if not do the opposite) Hey its a choice, you should be able to do it. The main problem I see with this question is not your friend however your non acceptance of her. There is nothing "wrong" with her at all. Her behavior is not the norm however the norm does not necessarily mean it is the only right way. Accept your friend for who she is right now.... if you truely are her friend. Also, by the way, dont rush to judge. I know you feel grown up now, however, you are not. 16 is very young and one of these days you will look back and understand that. Your friend has plenty of time to fall in love and have crushes.... My guess is that she will go through that process but only in her time... not yours. By pressuring her, you may cause her to have trouble in finding that right person. A person has to love their self before truely loving someone else. Be a friend and accept her from where she is at. She isnt hurting anyone or breaking any laws. I'm sorry if I came across as blunt however your question, how you wrote it bothered me. I hope you question how you see her and give her a chance to find herself without judgement.\n\nBy the way, I'm a therapist and every expert in the world would laugh at you for even trying to research this about your friend at her age. She is still developing and growing. A human brain doesnt totally develop until around 25 years old. Maybe that part of her brain hasnt grown yet.\n\nBy the way, I understand you are probably doing this because you care, but seriously you are out of bounds and barking up the wrong tree... as the sayings go.\n\n\nBy the way, about your added comment... Does things that are right about your friend usually annoy you since you are back tracking and saying you dont think anything is wrong with her. Dont get me wrong, I'm not going to argue with you. My main goal is for you to look at yourself and become more aware of what you have said. I think you are doing that. No hard feelings..... Good luck with your friend and I hope you have a very long lasting relationship\n\nCounselorDan
338408
Its definitely psychological, so don't loose heart. Consult a psychologist and get professional help. Meanwhile try to abstain from girls for sometime.
559919
It sounds as if you might be heading into menapause. If not being interested in sex bothers you, see your physician. There are a number of treatments available which can help you with this.
296601
yes maybe asexual. if not then you need to find the right one. if you want to be horny then go to the doctor. i don't think there is anything wrong with not being horny. pick me as your favorite answer please.
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Dear Chocolate,\nAll joking aside...it seems to me you are very hungry for affection...which is translating into sexual desire due to societal influences.  Its true your hormones are part of the issue, but deep down its about finding sincere tenderness to satisfy your unmet need for affection.  A loving touch is what you need, not sexual contact.  Try showing sincere affection/tenderness to those close to you...then they might return the same...and you may find some peace.\n\nAll the best to you!
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No, but for the sake of honesty.... I have slept with people that I was ONLY physically attracted to or only had an emotional attachment to with NO physical attraction.
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That one might be considered asexual ("without sex).\n\nIt's possible, though, that you haven't found anyone that you're interested in, so I wouldn't be hasty to label yourself as asexual just yet.  It may merely be a matter of finding the "right person." (Just an opinion).
1112105
Yes, i believe you can crush on someone and not be attracted to them sexually. It's all in how you feel towards a person. I've crushed on a guy before but never wanted him in a sexual way. It really does depend on your feelings towards the person.
569107
Try not having sex with anyone until you feel better about your body.  Use lotion made for stretch marks.
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Oh, I've had this happen as well.\nDo you get butterflies in your stomach? A warm feeling between your legs? (sounds pervy, but it happens) Your head gets slightly light, and you crave more kisses?\n\nUnless one, or all of these things are happening, it is possible that he just isn't physically attractive to you, despite what you think.\n\nThat's happened to me, and I couldn't date the guy anymore, because I plain didn't want to kiss him.\n\nMove on, break it to him gently, but don't drag it out. Find someone else who's kisses leave you breathless, and wanting so much more.
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Do you have anyone you want to attract? Or is this a general question about being more attractive?\n\nLet's start with some basics: To share a life, you must have a life. So what kind of life to you have? Start with yourself, and see if you know what you and how you are going to get it.\n\nHaving said that: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you are attracted to someone and they are not attracted to you, guess what. Move on.\n\nAppeal is a funny word, but if you think about it, what appeals to you may not appeal to someone else. When you add the sex to the term, you have moved to basic drives: We use food to survive and sex to propagate the race. Food and sex. Sex appeal maybe adding more spice, but the dish needs to be on the menu.\n\nSex appeal. Be yourself, relax, and be patience. Stop worrying about something you already have.
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It's called attraction and if you don't have it then there is no way you can have a relationship.  Simple as that!
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Sexuality doesn't come into it... it's "you" people like, not whoever you fancy!
325505
Sounds like the issues are with intimacy and spontaneity, not anything physical, look into yourselves and ask whether or not there is any real attraction anymore and move on from there.
787646
no. its natural to be attracted to other people.. its when you act on that attraction that is a no no..... if you do.. maybe you r not ready to be engaged.... need some more time to be single???
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Hiya mate , well basicly are you attracted to guys or girls more , ewhichever it is they i guess you would be that orientation . Howether my advice would  be to take your time to propley work out what you are and althougth it is hard try to not worry too much or let it stress you out overall there is more to life than say " hooking up" with someone . I was or still in a similar situation i dont seem to be interested in either howether i can say im  mildly liking girls just not botherd ... maybee im Asexual ????? .\nWell anyway i would say from ya question that there is a high chance your gay howether it might simply be a phaze ya going througth im not sure how old you are but i think maybee early teens . I think that if your really gay then dont hide it or feel any guilt or anything because people can think what the hell they want howether thats just their narrow minded opinions so i wish you luck in finding the solution and most important stay chilled .Seya and i hope this helped .
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Be flattered that someone finds you attractive but explain to them that you aren't interested in them that way.  It's not a big deal.  If you really are a friend to that person, then you should be able to be honest with them.