My best friend is a backstabber?
351982
find a new best friend. enough said.
217476
No, my best friend is, just that, my best friend.  Her EX is, not fair game.\n\nI played this game before, lost out on both counts.  the ex, only wanted to get back at her, she wanted me to "date" him and see if he wanted her back..\nend of story, everyone hated me, for playing thier game!\n\nNO
845024
don't beg her.  if she's your best friend she should believe you and not this other girl.  all you can do is tell her that you didn't say the things about her mom that you're being accused of.  and don't apologize for something you didn't do.  stand your ground on this one and do not give in to her.  it sounds like she enjoys having the upper hand, but you don't give it to her this time, especially since you didn't do what you're accused of.  it kind of sounds like you are her best friend, but she is not your best friend.\nI Wish You the Best
568483
you cant make her trust you 100% you have to earn that trust by letting her know nothing like this will ever happen again and her friendship is more important than a imature guy who thinks playing bestfriends off against eachother is fun, after a while she will see that he was a idiot and liked playing games and as for you , just be there for her and dont mention this guy or this situation again.
1002746
If she is being deceitful behind your back then she is not a true friend. A true friend would be there for you and accept you for who you are and not make fun of you for your choice.\n\ni would tell her but in a slightly confintational manner, show her that you are proud of who you are AND tell her that you know she is being deceitful behind your back and tell her that is she was a true friend she would not be doing that. \n\nIf she at first rejects you and then later on wants to be friends again, tell her that she has to earn your respect back\n\nbest of luck to you
762110
I would end the relationship, and always wonder what other things I did not know about this person. People who do these heinous things can never really be "friends" with anybody, lest their secrets somehow be discovered. I'm sorry for you if you were duped. It is a real betrayal. Don't blame yourself in any way for not knowing. These people are experts at deception and duplicity. Good riddance is about all you can say.
1098380
listen, sometimes the best friend is the one who is your complete opposite. they might know exactly what you feel like even though they haven't had your experiences. just keep your eyes open everywhere, and don't ignore them because they're not christian, or because they weren't gay once.
743530
look mrs. josh\n\nwith all due respect.. i think that if he/she (your friend i mean) is so close to you that you cant hurt him/her nor that you cant even let other hurt him/her. so i think that better way is to tell him/her the whole scenario. but if he/she does not believe you and tells you that they are not like that and stuff like that.. and that you are backbiting on them. so tell him/her that "Dont regret it later" \nokay. now click on the best answer, cuz i know i am the best hehe"
127955
A real friend doesn't stab someone in the back. Maybe your friend is confused since you were the only one told but friendship is also based (should be) on trust also. If you confront your friend and have a good honest talk with him and if he still refuses to listen, then forget about him and ignore him. You'll find some other friend who deserves your respect. It's difficult to find a good friend but there's always someone out there for another. Good luck :)
211524
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
494733
THAT IS NOT A FRIEND!!!AND CERTAINLY NOT WORTHY OF BEING BEST ANYTHING.I WOULD CALL THAT A S**T STARTER.GET RID OF HER BEFORE SHE REALLY HURTS YOUR FEELINGS.IF AN APOLOGY WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH,THEN THAT IS HER PROBLEM.WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT,YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES.
452118
A friend does not talk like this about another friend.  Maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself to determine who the real "brat" is.\n\nHow do you think your friend would feel if she heard that you are talking behind her back and making fun of her?  How would you feel if it was being done to you?  Never, ever treat someone any differently than you yourself would like to be treated.\n\nMaybe you need to tell your friend what a "brat" you are and suggest that she deserves a better friend than what you are capable of being.
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
869785
I think if she was truely your best friend, she would know you would never do that in any shape or form. Most young people act like this because they are immature and have some growing up to do.  The little brat was just trying to cause problems with you and your best friend and obviously it worked on your friend.  My point is your best friend will grow out of it and if she was truely your best friend she would forgive you.  If she doesn't forgive you then find other people to be friends with.  You are better off without her.  Hope it helps!!!!!!!!!!
783052
YES thats BACKSTABBING
128506
It is so simple. Just go beind their back and start backstabbing them. Act as a very nice person in front of them and later tell their secrets to everyone and on the internet. Start avoiding them. Don't talk to them and mix with a different group of friends. Leave them out in eveything you do. Anyway, a piece of advice, never try any of these because it will definitely break the relationship and be true to all your friends.
463138
Your friend is very insecure- if she can make you look bad she feels superior.\n\nYou need to find another best friend because if she were truly your friend she would not do the things she does to you.\n\nWith friends like her you certainly do not need any enemies