what am i supose to do about my b/f being all weird around my frinends and then totaly different around me?
347197
Maybe he is just shy around new people after a while he should warm up to your friends and act him self around both you and your friends
949537
My guess that he finds you attractive. Nothing too wrong with that I guess, but that is where it should stop. don't give him any wrong ideas by flirting or anything. Hopefully things will not change and make you feel more uncomfortable, if they do then maybe it is time you stop seeing you b/f at his house and meet at yours instead.
487565
He needs to grow up! why do you bother with him when he treats you like that? he has no respect for you and by the sounds of it, for no other female either! it's rich calling you weird when he's the one with the problem! you can do better than that!
587441
its psychological. talk to him about it a bit...it could be just a phase. we guys are wierd...all sorts of stuff affects us in all different ways. I would say just talk to him about it.
416144
Well you got to  reassure him that well you have been with him this long and you only like them as far as friends and nothing else that youre happy to be with him and happy to be only their friends after that just keep him close by when he meets them! You just gotta hope it works out because a lot of boyfriends aren't always cool w/ their g/f having guy friends
583254
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF
347162
Just wait and see.  Maybe he is not ready to be your b/f.
306421
If you don't feel special around him anymore it may be time to go. First talk to your friend - you're right if she's your friend she should tell you what she's hiding. She's gone to far to not tell you as she brought it up to start with.\nRemember though a little bit of flirtings not the end of the world, as long as thats all.\nIn short get your friend to tell you, or tell her you can't trust her anymore, then confront your boyfriend about what really has happened. Then make your choice. ............
975207
Perhaps you haven't been out with him for long so he's not used to you quite yet.  If this is the case, arrange to do various activities together which you both enjoy whether it be watching movies, clubbing or sports.  Your bonds will strengthen over time and he will become less and less shy in front of you. \n\nIf you're concerned about your bf being shy in public, then talk to him about it.  Tell him how much it means to you to see him shake off that shyness.  That'll be an incentive for him to jump out of his shell, esp' if he cares about you.  However, don't try too hard to change him. One of the most fustrating thing men find with their partners is when they try too hard to change them.
1113680
Well ask yourself why you feel weird around him. When and if you figure it out, acutally sit down and tell him how you feel. It may just be a simple misunderstanding and things can be normal again.
850014
stay away from him and drop your current b/f. Try to find someone who you really enjoy being with besides your friends b/f.
713509
Tell him you are not comfortable with the physical contact when he dances with your friends.  I think that's fair.  See if it helps the situation at all.  Reassure him that you trust him, and you're not accusing him of "almost cheating" with your friends or anything like that... it's just this one aspect of his behavior that you would like him to change.  If he backs off a little, but the dancing still bothers you, then go from there.  Good luck!
964090
OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
757255
You guys might be headed down different paths is all. As we mature we sometimes out grow some friends. Try talking to him telling thats not really your thing and if continues to push back away for awhile and let him have the space he needs to dicover where hes headed
368184
He is insecure.  Do you have a lot of guy friends?  I would recommend cutting down the time you spend with them.  If he doesn't calm down, then I would recommend ending the relationship.  You will not be able to change him.  Women like to try to change men because it is a challenge for them.  He has to change onm his own.  Maybe if he loses you he will change his jealous ways...It worked for me when my girlfriend dumped me!  I got the message!
1013736
I assume you've started dating recently, because I only texted my bf back when we were starting out. It wasn't coz I didnt like him, but it's just the way I do things. Some people need more time to get used to others and are too shy to begin a convo with their partner. Maybe he's like that too. Just give him time. If you've been together for a long time and you feel he has changed you need to confront him.
139484
Take him somewhere privately and discuss about your relationship and ask him if he is. If he is let him freely go his way because obviously you are not his type but just in a friendly way, and if not let him know that he is doing things that are giving you the idea that he is and maybe he will change his ways.