how to be liked by others?how to maintain friends?how to be happy in difficult times?
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The way to get and keep a friend is to be a  true friend.\nBeing happy is basically a choice,we cannot always change things about the world ,but we can choose to be a good,happy person no matter what.\nSense of humor comes from allowing yourself to not take everything so serious,and when something happens to be able to vent and let it out/go and then find the sillyness in it.
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Treat others how you'd like to be treated. Everyone is human. Everyone has feelings (cliche) but it's true. If you're nicer to others you'll feel better within yourself. Obviously being nasty to others won't have a positive impact on you.  \n\nHaving more respect for others will allow you and others to have more respect for yourself. Everyone is on this earth for a reason (an unknown one at that). Life is hard enough as it is without people being twats to each other, that's commonly human nature though. At the end of the day, it's only you and your conscience that will enable you to be a nicer person to others. You just need to be more considerate to others, even if they aren't considerate back, you can rest knowing you've done the right thing. Directly that person may not appreciate it, but you'll notice others will (and they will)\n\nI hope this has helped.
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be strong in who you are and thank God for everything hes given you.\nlove yourself for who you are, and know God loves you even more.\nIf you live your life worrying about what other people think, you will never find happiness.\n\n be happy & love yourself!\nI think your great just the way you are, but when you love yourself first, people will see you differently.
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Drugs?\n\nSeriously, though: \n\n1. Love yourself.\n2. Don't rely on other people to make you happy.\n3. Don't do hurtful things to other people or yourself.\n4. Think about all the good things in your life.\n5. Start every day with a smile.\n6. Be yourself.\n7. Don't worry so much about being happy. Do these things, go with the flow, and let it come to you.\n\nThat's my advice. Good luck.
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If u want to know people,just speak to them.Be friendly with them.Most importantly trust them and also also make them beleive that u r a trustworthy fellow.
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Don't look for others to make you happy.....be happy with yourself.  Stay busy, stay involved, volunteer your time, take pleasure in the simple things that life has to offer.
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well being friendly is a wonderful characteristic, not everyone is like that! but making friends also depends in how their character is.
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Be nice.  You will never get in trouble if you are just nice to everyone no matter how they act.  Then nothing will ever come back to haunt you.
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Talk to people in and around where you live.\nSee what they think of you.\nTry and get friends that really like you for you, not online.
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Friends appreciate loyalty. Friends want you to be at least as concerned about their problems as you expect them to be about yours. Sometimes it's better to concentrate on the quality of your friendships rather than the quantity. Be to others the kind of friend you would like to have. Eventually you will find kindred souls. If you have "friends" who are always trying to change you or make you act a certain way, realize these are not people who appreciate you for yourself. Find people with whom you can be completely comfortable being yourself and extend to them the same courtesy. Those are real friends.
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Although it is important to be nice to everyone, you need not try to be friends to just any one. Rememember, it is better to have one or two close friends that share your values than to have many friends that might want to use or exploit you. \n\nDevelope your hobbies and interest that will bring you into contact with others that share your values.  If you are the new person in a school, church, neighborhood club,etc  and you feel left out of the group, seek out another new person or others that do not seem to have friends and start your own click. Always choose your friends rather than having people choose you.  Be happy doing things alone until you do develop friendships. You don't need friends to go out to eat, go to a movie and such.\n\nAs far as being courage to be friendly, "fake it 'till it comes."  Tell your self everyday, "I am a wonderful person. I can be friendly. I may not be perfect, but no one is. Others may reject my friendship, but it doesn't mean that anything is wrong with me."   Also, make a list of the things you are fearful of doing such as smileing, saying hi, inviting someone for lunch etc.  Start by doing the least fearful on your list. Do it while afraid until you are no longer fearful.  Than move on to the next item. Do that until you gain confidence. In other words, take baby steps.  \n\nIf you continue to have trouble making friend, you might want to seek treatment for social phobia.
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Open up to your closest friend and hang with him/her for a while with his/her group of friends. \n\nMeet new people in the process, and be a little more outgoing. With friends as the joy of your life, you won't feel lonely.\n\nAlso read motivational stories and tell yourself you don't have the worst of situations- people out there have it worse than you. Good things happen to people who make them happen. \n\nDon't waste your life away. \nPick yourself up, get yourself together. \n\nHave fun. (:
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Be more considerate of others. When people care about others it spreads and affects everything around them.
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To have good friends you must be a good friend. Here are some of the ways good friends treat each other:\n\n•  Good friends listen to each other.\n•  Good friends don't put each other down or hurt each other's feelings.\n•  Good friends try to understand each other's feelings and moods.\n•  Good friends help each other solve problems.\n•  Good friends give each other compliments.\n•  Good friends can disagree without hurting each other.\n•  Good friends are dependable.\n•  Good friends respect each other.\n•  Good friends are trustworthy.\n•  Good friends give each other room to change.\n•  Good friends care about each other.
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Find common ground first.   Work from there.   To be friendly - is to make oneself vulnerable and approachable.   You can do this, but just guard you back and never take your eyes from them.
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Always smile,make friends and show how hard you can work...don't be a gossiper!
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Day by day.\nHour by hour.\nMinute by minute.\nChill, and stop worrying about what other people think.  Just live your life the way that you want, and that makes you happy.