I have been going out with an ex-catholic priest in training for almost 3 weeks?
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Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.\n\nSong of Solomon 1:2\n\n\nI can't speak for your own beliefs and values.  That is up to you, and you alone.  French kissing can be a wonderful thing, and is perfectly natural.  It won't be beautiful if you are forced into it, though.  So, you're right.  It's too early for you.  Take some time, think about it.  When you're ready, I don't think you'll find it gross.\n\nDon't let anyone tell you when you're ready!  Not him, or anyone on the internet!  But do keep in mind that is a perfectly natural, and beautiful experience.
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Man this is sad!  A pastor, what is the world coming to when you can't even trust a pastor?  Tell your boyfriend, tell him!  He needs to know.  DO NOT avoid the situation, and please don't answer the phone for this jerk!  How did he get your phone number in the first place?  Ok, his dirt needs to be exposed.  You should let him leave a message on your voice mail, and record the fact that he even calls you.  Let your boyfriend listen.  This guy needs to be stopped.  You are probably not the first girl he's tried to nail, but he has probably gotten away with it.  That is why you won't be the one to let him get away with it any more!  Praying for you!  Expose the offender!
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Hello!Mr.Smile!\nU need to leave as soon as possible if u do not have any special commmitments and secondly u have given ur resignation 3 weeks  ago.I think long time!\nAll the best!
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Talk to a priest.  Even if you aren't Catholic.  The Catholic religion has one of the most extensive premarital councelling programs.  If you don't want to go through that, a priest could still direct you where to go.
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I would say that she should be happy he is going to church, and shouldn 't worry about it too much unless he starts harassing her or talking about getting back together.  \n\nAlthough the church is out of his way, maybe he just feels more comfortable there.\n\nIs this girl SURE that she's the reason he's going there?  If not, it's not fair to read more into it.\n\nWhy is it stressing her out?  If the relationship ended mututally and on good terms, there shouldn't be a problem.\n\nLet the boy go to church in peace unless he starts causing problems.
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Yes!  \n\nTo my knowledge there is no Internet database for this information.\n\nWhat you do is write or call the diocese that the priest is from.  Go to their website and call their main office and tell them you are looking for Fr. XXXXX who used to be a part of NAME OF PARISH in the late 1980's.  They will transfer you to the correct office.\n\nYou might also want to try to contact the Parish that he was attached to and see if they know where he is.\n\nIf Fr. XXXXX was a part of a religious order, you will have to contact the headquarters of the order in that area.
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As hard as it seems right now you did the best thing. This man didn't respect you at all. Yes God does have a better plan for you but in his time not yours. Keep the faith and he will carry you through this...K
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you need to change your number straight away yes this guy is mentally ill and a lazy good for nothing bum you sound way to good for him dont let him put you down all this crap in 8 weeks i dont know how you put up with him stay clear of him sounds like jealousy is a big factor here......
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2 weeks isn't a long time to really say you were in a relationship so it wouldn't be that bad if you talked to the other guy. Especially if he broke up with you. Now if you broke up with him,then you would be considered a whore for breaking up with him for his friend. Not in my opinion but society's opinion. If it were me though girl, I would leave both of them alone because you might reck their friendship.\n\nGood luck
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Your relationship with God is personal just like his is. Your actions might win him over just give it time and keep the communication between you open and honest.
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I'm sorry that you had so much trouble and pain in your life.  I am Catholic also.  I was away from the church for a long time because I just kinda wanted to do my own thing.  It was about 4-5 years ago that I started feeling something missing in my life.  I couldn't figure it out.  Initially I started looking for a sense of meaning in my life.  Tried a couple churches, even a Methodist church.  Nothing felt quite right until I found the church I attend now.  It's a Catholic church.  It is truly amazing when I look back now on things that happened in my life and to people I love.  I looked at things very much like you.  My son went to jail, I was in financial hell, didn't have the greatest relationship with my wife which caused us to separate for a year.  Looks pretty gloomy huh?  Where was God during all this?  Well, my son was running with some pretty bad people.  He was put in jail where he had time to reflect on where his life was going and he now attends mass with me and my wife who are now together with a relationship stronger than ever because we needed time apart to see how much we needed each other.  As for the finances, we still live week to week, but when I look back, there is always enough there.  There is always a sum of money that comes from somewhere right before we really need it.  Sometimes God doesn't give us what we want.  Sometimes that's a good thing because we rarely know what we want and our mind is always changing.  Mostly God gives us what we need.  Because he knows us.  I doubt what I said will change your mind about God right now.  But please keep in mind what I said.  Please give Him time to work in your life.  I don't know what you have been through, but maybe some of the things were for the better.  For your better.  Maybe they weren't what you wanted.  Maybe they were what you needed.  God is always there waiting for you to turn around and talk to him.  Start small and tell Him how you feel.  Even if it's anger.  Tell Him that you hurt and need healing.  I know it's cliche' but even if you don't believe in him, he believes in you and he loves you very much even if you don't feel it.  Faith isn't a feeling.  Faith is what keeps us praying when we have no feeling to grasp.  If everyone had that feeling of God's love and presence, there would be no need for faith.  Hang in there my friend.  God Bless you.
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You should definitely dodge the Christian you have gotten close to. He's already laying a guilt trip on you, what's next?\n\nFollow your desires as you see them and date the non-Christian if he seems like a decent guy.\n\n((((( r u randy? )))))\n.
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Well if you haven't heard a thing from him for 6 weeks then i would say he has probably met someone else.   Your best bet is to forget all about him.
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Hold on you live with him still? First off I've never heard of that arangement before in my life. Also what do you mean by living with are you two still together but still sexually active? If so he's using you no wonder you feel lost. You need to get yourself outta there and if your parents won't take you in find a place foryourself. In times of need there are several places like main stay suites that offer cheep extending living. Once you've done that try and find a really decent guy i'm not talking about going bar hopping, i'm talking about a place like church (by the way if you don't have religion at this poin that's another reason you feel lost, there are many christains like myself that are here to help you if you need some with comming to Christ ;) ) I know you most likely love this guy but the sooner you come to relize its time to move on you'll feel bad at first but it will get better. Don't think its not because you won't love the ex because yes you will love doesn't go away, but you have to save whats left of your heart and mend it together for that guy who's still out there you haven't met yet.
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Is he married? Are you? If either is true change churches right now before anything happens. Both single? Ask a mutual friend to help.
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No, if you have only dated for 1 month, you havent begun to really know each other.Take your time to see if you have the same interest and to let your feelings for each other develope or not develope.The relationship is still new. wait awhile and see if you still feel the same.
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Have you talked to him about reconciliation through some type of therapy through your church. I have been divorced, and would have preferred reconciliation, but never even talked about it to my ex-wife. She pursued the divorce at first, and I never fought at all, what a mistake. He might have lost that loving feeling, but that is part of life. It will return, given time. and it will be better than before.