why doesn't any girl take interest in me?
345975
hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
889522
Seems like she isn't interested right now, just try to be more casual and try to build on a friendship, because she might be one of those girls who can't really date someone until they've been friends, I know I like to know a guy a little before even considering dating them. Just talk to her more, and don't seem so desperate to get a date with her, most girls don't find that attractive, she might start to think you're a stalker or a weirdo, just act yourself and wait, if it's meant to be it will happen eventually.
505513
Im sure you will find a girl who like you the way you are. Have tried dating sites? There are plenty of girls looking that might be interested. Good luck!!!
505828
1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
777725
I would try to get to know her first and offer to be her friend but let her know you are thinking of being a little more than that eventually.  If she still isn't interested in you, move on because you can't make someone want you the way you want them.  Also while you are wasting your time there could be someone already interested in you but your not picking up on their signals because you are only interested in a girl who is already going out with someone else.  Trust me I wasted too much time trying to chase the wrong guys for me when there were guys who were really nice who were interested in me but I couldn't see that then.  Good luck!
1837
It's a matter of having confidence in yourself.\n     Let me help you out. Your scecial,a really good person, who wouldn't be interested in you?\n     Just do it, and if by some crazy chance they aren't as interested as you would have hoped, well that's just their LOSS, RIGHT?\n\n                 NOW GO AHEAD,AND GOOD LUCK!
74261
How old is she? You sound kind of young, and if she's young it might be that her parents don't like guys calling her. So that could be why she didn't give you her number. Other than that, do you see her and are you able to talk to her on a regular basis? (at school, etc. ?) If so, you might ask her if she'd be interested in going out again sometime.  Sorry to say it, but it sounds like you are just another guy hitting on her, but that's not a bad thing. Don't let that discourage you. Just keep trying unless she straight up says she doesn't want to talk to you. In the meantime, you still have plenty of time to impress her and let her get to know you. Just be yourself and don't put on an act or a show for her. BTW, you do get points for not looking down while talking to her. Every girl notices taht (weather you do or not) so you're already ahead of the game. Best of luck ;)
341457
She's probably given you enough signals that she likes you and thinks that the ball is in your court and yet, you're not making a move!!! That gets frustrating for a girl.  Why don't you ask her out or anything that would give her a sure sign that you're interested in her and see how she responds.
110950
Typical guy!!! Seriously though maybe you just havent found the right girl yet. You need to find someone who can hold and keep your interest.
984783
Play hard to get, or maybe be seen with someone else........you never know she may take notice then because she has realised that you are not chasing her (which no doubt she has noticed). \n\nShe might be playing hard to get as well.  It can't hurt to try this and you never know you might end up with someone who likes you and vice versa.
1107082
HA! i know sooooo many ppl with that problem. just say to urself, what does it all matter? if they like u, then they like u and they are prolly cool. if they dont like you, then they are stupid. try going around the shy girls. they can be easier to talk to at times and they like ppl alot easier. i know cuz i used to be really shy, and still sorta am. i would say talk to girls who look sweet, not just cuz they are hot. if u talk to them just because they are hot, u will probably get shot down at some point or another. just be cool. if u see a cute girl at the beach or something who looks friendly, find some way to get in her path some how or mess with something and get her to watch (without looking stupid, lol) and find a way to just be like "oh yea, its all good" like if ur at the beach and u are playing football or something or throwing a frisby, offer for her and her friends (if she has any with her) to come play. or if u are walking ur dog, maybe let go of the leash and see if she helps you chase it (if ur dog is slow, lol). just remember to relax. thats the main thing. and after a while, if she seems interested, ask her for her number so u guys can hang out sometime. if she says no, oh well, if she says yes, good job, she may like you :)
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
427199
It sounds as though she is no longer interested in you.  Find yourself a nice girl and don't waste your time on this one.
207480
You are not hopeless, but if you believe you are, no woman will be interested. Meet a wide variety of women, and when you find one you fall for, then you've won 50% of the battle. Next is to make her feel the same. That part is up to you!
90946
Don't give up, I have had the same problem wit girls. MR RIGHT will appear when you least expect it, mayb even this sec? ;)
426118
You get a girl through personality. Really if a girl just liked you for looks, she wouldnt be worth anything anyways. Just be yourself and you'll get a girl. Just be patient. I did...and I got the best guy in the world.
203796
For God's sake! Talk to her! Simple thing- sometimes hard to do, but most girls don't have a clue if you suffer in silence. Find out what her interests are so you have a safe topic to discuss and then have a conversation. Don't be a show-off or try to impress her with what you've got or who you know. Make it all about her and you're sure to get her interested. Good luck!