How do i get my boyfriend back?
355697
Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
895234
This is a very fragile thing your flirting with here. You can get a spell and make him come back to you, but do you really want him back on those terms? You love him-set him free. If he returns he's yours-if he doesn't he never was. Spell casting to strenghthen your love is OK, but to get him to love you back is dangerous and would not recommend this practice. Please rethink what you want, and take a different approach.
322973
Meet him at a public place, like the food-court at a mall. Bring one or two friends with you. And tell him face-to-face. Thats the mature way to do it. You owe it to him to give him this chance to ask you, directly, what went wrong and why you are breaking up with him. Doing it with notes or email doesnt let both you and he say what needs to be said.
426623
You might consider getting right back on the horse as they say.  Find another boyfriend, (hopefully one with some fidelity and honor).  I don't think revenge is the answer, and I don't think that you could get revenge anyway.  Just dump him and move on (which is hard i know) but honestly sweetie, there is sombody out there who will love you for you.  Just hang in there.
653716
I think that just proving to him that he's the best guy for you and that you truly love him and want to be with him is good enough. Explain to him why you broke it off, meaning the truth, then tell him that you are happy to have him back because you love him. And leave it at that. You don't want to sound too giddy.
1139451
I used to have the same problem. I told him exactly how I felt and broke up with him. 3months later he crawled back on his knees. From then on he has been the perfect boyfriend, even 3years later. \n\nIt really depends, but if he loves you he'll realize that he needs you and come back and treat you better. and if not f*k him, you don't need him if he doesn't need you.\n\nhere are some guidelines for the future:\n*Always put urself and ur happiness 1st\n*If a man wants you nothing can keep him away, if he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay\n*You can't change a mans behavior. Change comes from \nwithin\n*Dont ever make him feel he is more important than you are\n*Dont make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less\n*Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you \n*If you think he is cheating, he prob. is, and if you feel hes lying, let him go\n*Actions speak louder than words\n*NEVER let a man define who you are \n*Know you deserve to be the #1person in the life of the #1person in your life \n***LOVE is a verb.....
394519
Well,Believe it or Not ! They Say If You Love Somebody Set'em Free! If They Come Back They Are Yours If Not They Never Were !\n\nWell ! Maybe you will get him back if you stop going after him
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
429838
WHat i say you should do is get himback i mean if you really like him that much i should know i had the same problem wit my boyfriend but if yall do get back together its going to take time because thats what my boyfriend told me "i just needed time wit being wit you so i can see how you are" so just give it time if yall get back together.
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
307420
You need to know some things before you try to get him back.\n\n1. why did he leave?  Did he leave because you don't put out and this tramp does?  If that is the case, I agree with the rest, don't bother.  If he left because of a fight/misunderstanding then i think you might want to try.  People have fights and then will do almost anything to win, so things might have been said, that neither of you meant.\n\n2. Why is he with her.  Is she like you, apart from the trampyness?  Is she the opposite of you?  Depending on your sex life with him, he may just be on a bootycall.  Doesn't make it right.  But if she is just like you, he might want you back.\n\n3. Why do you want him back?  how old are you? how long have you been dating?  What have you done together (meaning go to college, school, other?)  Maybe he was just serving his purpose for those times but wont work with these times.  We are all human and we have all done that.\n\nSo if you want him back, how bad?\nif you need him back you got to tell him and sex him up.  (If that is the only way, i say leave him)\n\nIf you love him, but still lead a life of your own, then tell him you need him and tell him you are sorry for what happened.\n\nfinally, if you are stil pissed at him and don't care if he comes back or not (but would like him back) then just say hey we need to talk and make sure he knows everything about how you feel and ask him why he did it.
715584
If you really want him to take you back just walk up to him and appoligize. If that doesn't work try too prove to him that you'd do \nanything for him. You could do something you told him you'd never do. What would make you take a guy back? Think of it like that. \n\nthe answerer
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
1098915
Talk to him about how you feel and about your concerns.  Let him know you want him to be honest about his intentions regarding you both becoming a couple again.  Tell him that you would rather have him be honest - that he needs a place to stay when he gets out, or that he really does want you back.
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
419228
Forget him. He obviously forgot what it's like being your boyfriend. Do something your good at. Focus on things that you want to do.