To gay men: Do you, at some moments, get attracted to women, while you are still gay?
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sure u can find a woman attractive, but no sexually driven to her, there's a difference.\ni dont i became gay,cuz i have never been str8, ever since i started to have curiosity in sex and stuff i have always been drawn to guys\nboth emotionally & physically
981460
... you're kidding, right? I get turned on whenever I even THINK about hot gay guys... yes, yes, I'm a girl, but I'm a voyeur first and foremost. *smiles* \nSex weighs on the mind of EVERYONE, not just guys. Guys are purportedly turned on "more easily" because they don't hide it. We gals are just a little more discreet...
178327
No, but I suppose I could.  Unfortunately a lot of gay men are attracted to me.  I might as well use it to my advantage and play them for free drinks.  Then I will run and stay as far away from them as possible.
1057374
I used to be bi, but then I realized I liked women so much more and being with guys just wasn't for me. Sometimes I still feel like I'm only 80% lesbian, though, lol.
465307
I'm sort of gay ..i like gay men but I'm a girl
103968
If you are more attracted to women and want to act on these feelings, then yes, or maybe bi\n\nBut if you are just using them as erotic pictures in your mind, but still enjoy your men, then i dont think so.
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i think just as the first person, that we as homosexuals are attracted to the same sex as heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.\n\nhave heterosexuals chosen their lifestyle or are they born that way?  most will say that they are born that way.  as a straight man is inherently attracted to women. they probably can find another man good looking, but does not go further with any action of sex with him. Why? because he is not Sexually attracted to him.  \n\nSame as a gay man, we can find a women absolutely gorgeous but does not want to have sex with her. \n\nWe as humans can recognize beauty that can surround us (as with other people) but to be sexually turned on is something that is a biological feature within us. Any person can physically have sex with anyone we choose. for example,  a straight man can physically have sex with another man but is he gay? or a gay man can physically have sex with a women is he straight? I think that sexuality is a very deep subject that has a ton of variables that can not be simply categorized in to it is this because of that.\n\nhistory has shown that homosexuality has been around for as long as sex has been around.  knowing this i have come to the conclusion that homosexuality is a biologic thing.
471795
Maybe you have some underlying gay tendencies that your trying to suppress. It bothers you because it is turning you on...
999140
you are attracted by both sexes
1119073
Well, yes... Um... I am gay so...\n\nI don't believe I was born anything, hell, I don't believe any of us are born straight or gay. When you are first born you aren't attracted to men or women, something happens along the way that may cause attraction to either sex. It is not a person's choice to be gay or straight, something during your life may have caused you to go either way.\n\nI myself had sexual encounters with both men and women, from an early age. So, in that I discovered that being attracted to a guy wasn't all bad. I mean, there was nothing wrong with it because a man is a person. Just as much as a woman, a man could physically and emotionally effect me in such a way that attracted me to them. As time moved on, girls started to bore me... For some reason or other. I've never had a boyfriend or anything but I've had many girlfriends, in which I never felt that drive to have sex with them. So... my... relationships didn't last.\n\nSo... well... I believe it is neither.\n\nYou aren't born gay and it isn't a choice. Something just happens along the way, not something bad really... Some people are just more open to different ideas, these people who are open risk becoming gay or considered "odd" ... They can't help but move against the norm, for they are not normal. And there is nothing wrong with that in the least.
402733
If you like kissing women and playing with the hooters I would say that your are hetero...the rest is just a matter of time.
874913
Yes, if the guy is attractive and sexy enough. I probably see a guy about once a month or so that makes me feel this way (don't know how often guys feel this way about women - is it like every day or something???)
691190
I am not gay...but I have gay friends...\nWhat may lead a person to believeing they may be gay...hmmm...maybe when they catch theirself looking at others of the same sex, and thinking they are very attractive. Or just feeling attracted to one of the same sex...I guess if you were gay, sooner or later you would know it...and it would come to you naturally?
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well i know im bi-curious not sure if its the same, but i know cuz i want to be with a guy, but i get very attracted to women sometimes, i think its more of a casual thing, but i know its normal for a women to be attracted to the same sex or at least curious, women know what women like! and women are usually better looking they were built to be admired and looked at. when a beautiful woman walks by, everyone looks not just men, even straight women! for your friend, me and my best friend were both curious and got together a few times and it was great felt as if it made our bond closer, but if its only one sided you can tell and should drop it and maybe look else where for your feelings, you dont want to scare her especially when shes a close friend. im sure if you are close enough she might be able to sit and listen to your concerns and maybe even help!
636838
Gay and Straight are very limiting labels.  I tend to think of things on more of a continuum.  If you tend to be attracted ONLY to men romantically for lasting relationships.  Then I would consider you mostly Homosexual.  \n\nIf you are attracted ONLY to females romantically for lasting relationships I would consider you mainly Heterosexual.  \n\nAnything else,  liking to be physically sexual with men or women, being mildly attracted to men or women, somewhere in the middle.  I think most people are bisexual to a certain degree.  People just tend to lean more to the hetero or the homosexual side.
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If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
200189
Okay, you DO know I'm gay, right? As in not into men?