Hey Girls, Why are you scared to go up to a guy and talk to him if you like him.?
354913
it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
723420
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!
375148
heyy, i like this guy and i was always shy about asking him. but one day i asked him and found out he liked me back. So if you really like her, go up and ask her to the movies, dinner or something nice like that, then you'll se if you're meant to be
293578
You're not an idiot, you probably just got shy/scared/nervous.  We all go through that.  But if you meet someone you like, just say hi and start chatting.  The worst that happens is you two don't mesh.  No big deal there.  But it could be that you both like each other and something fun comes of it.\n\nI know what you're thinking, no the worst that could happen is she laughs her a** off at you and tells everyone.  Well yeah, we all think that, too...but that just doesn't happen outside of high school, so no worries.  *smile*
1174279
i think you should totally talk to him, just dont freak him out. but whatever, if the guy you liked dosnt like you back and his cozin might, then why not?
276518
well..if ur both really shy..then one of u have to b the confident one in a case like this. and since ur the guy..maybe u should make the move. u want to talk to her. walk up to her. girlz arent scary to talk to..it just mite take some confidence in going up to her. best of luck!
1094355
OMG like, call him yourself already, you are both scared, thats one of the things that adds to the excitement... a young man has a hard enough time sacking up the courage to talk to the girl, you want him to deal with your whole crew! cut the guy some slack and make it a little easier for him...
379560
here`s the thing. you probably are a young person or fairly young. there is no reason not to talk to her. i was like you and felt nervous around girls i liked and not around other girls. i have found out as i get older that you should go talk to any girl that intersts you. the only thing they can say is that they are not interested and then you move on to the next one. its not the end of the world and knowing they are not interested is better than not knowing forever... good luck i hope this helped...
970755
Just ask her out. The worst that can happen is she'll say "no". As a girl, I personally am tired of guys being too scared to make a move... so make a move!!! ;)
31253
Confidence is sexy - you arent going to get his attention without approaching him, so take a deep breath, think about what you are going to say, and go for it. Guys love it when a girl has the guts to ask him out.
602918
Great for you. He likes you. Please dont hide your feelings so well. If guys knew what girls really tought they wouldnt be so scared to ask you out. show that you like him more. Touch him a lot and give him lots of hugs just try it. dont be scared. Hes the scared one. Good luck!!!!\n\nThe answer above me sounds crazy but its true just watch his eyes all the time if hes looks at you or around you a lot he likes you.
362838
can i talk to u..i really want to tell u something but im afraid of what ur reaction will be..i like u more than a friend and would like to try a relationship..if he doesn't he's not worth it if he does good for u and good luck
787672
If your too scared to talk to the boy then get a friend to talk to him for you and If y'all both like each other then y'all should go out.
553812
why r gurls afraid to tell guys that they like them? >=&#92;
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
374268
maybe they feel intimidated. go up and talk to them show them you are interested.believe me if you are so cool as you say you are, that shy pretty girl would melt in her shoes if you would only show interest
145581
just start a normal conversation like your talking to one of your guy friends. at first do worry about the fact that you like them or if they like you or whatever your nervous about. Just be yourself and remember its just another conversation.