how to woo a women when a guy himself is too reserved?
350414
I used to have your same problem.  First get in shape so that you are confident about your appearance.  Then go out to bars and clubs and talk to as many girls as you can.  At first you might have to pump yourself full of drinks to get the courage to approach the ladies.  But believe me, like anything else, the more you practice the better you will get.  Once you start taling to a lot of girls, by trial and error you'll know what and what not to say, and how to act.  Eventually it will become second nature to you and you will have the courage to just ask girls out.
379323
Just try to be yourself, and have confidence. I don't know any girl who doesn't like a man with confidence, but don't be cocky about it. Slip it in casually and don't make to much of a big deal about it. Something like "hey hows it goin? If you're free tonight did you want to (insert whatever you're asking her to)?" Whatever she says stay calm and say ok that's cool. And don't linger around for to long after, that makes things weird.. Good luck. =)
883695
a guy thats prepared to put himself forward like that is rare, just check the  "do they fancy me" questions on this site and you'll see.\n\nnext time you see him.. give him a big smile grab him and plant one on him.  \n\nenjoy!
95045
well, u just have to make way on ur shynessor ur never gonna get to hook up w/no1.....just be nice, smile, make sweet jokes..just go for it dude! in the nicest way u can, have that in mind, cus we like to be approached nicely, dont be shy but dont u ever try to get our attention ridiculizing us in front of others, for a change, thats completly not correct if u want to get through ur shyness w/chicks...just be urself in the nicest way u can ok!
864421
this guy would love for you to come up to him and tell him.  trust me most guys are shy with women and wished the girls came to them.  try and see what happens, good luck
794651
Seduce them with confidence. Nothing is more attractive than being sure of yourself and having a life that you love. This does not mean being a self-interested jerk, which sometimes passes for confidence. \n\nWomen like to feel like the men they are with are secure and have their act together. It is difficult to be attracted to a man who seems needy or unhappy. \n\nThe same, I am sure, is true for the kind of women men like.
67867
but when she approaches like that most of the us guys will be too stupid/shocked/confused to give the proper answer.\nso i suggest you start a conversation and see how it goes.don't forget about the body language \nhehehhee
1031657
just be yourself, try to be seductive, but only slightly, just treat her well, but in the end, you can't make her fall for you, that happens all on its own.
139475
what she needs to do is love herself for herself and thats that. Plus not all guys like a huge a$$ some like it enough that they can hold in their hand not over flow their hand.
146423
Well you brought it up...so to you it is a "problem". Id bet you have no girlfriend because your shy. Being shy is ok...letting it define you actions is letting it go to far. Make a deal w/yourself (or your shyness). When you want to move forward with somthing (or someone), Like: This is to important to me to pass-up and think about it no further, say hi, ask about THEM and give yourself a pause to take in how that person responds to you. Youll learn and get accustom to haveing nerves...they can turn to stainless steel if you keep learning and refining. As far as the outcome goes...your guess is as good as mine. They only thing you do is conduct yourself. You can start small or you can start BIG...how do you know what those are? The one that sends you  spinning...ThaTs the big one! Take on those and live through the outcome...youll become King. It takes time so pace yourself.
11924
If you want a sort of casual approach, get tickets to something and tell him "I have an extra ticket to ______ and I was hoping you'd like to go with me, if you're fee that night."\nBut, trust me on this, sometimes the guy you think is out of your league, is actually afraid to approach YOU.... I missed 20 years of having someone quite amazing in my world because when we were young, I thought I had no shot at all to be anything but his "pal"....came to learn just this year, he never understood why I had the time of day for him, thought I couldn't possibly be interested.\nBelieve me, Darlin', there are things in life far more painful than being shot down.
490546
Personally, I like a guy to come up to me first, I guess maybe that's because I'm a little shy myself. They say good guys finish last and I guess as the saying is also for girls that is why I am still single myself, but in reality although women may seem attracted to bad boys so to speak I think that all they really want at the end of the day is a nice good guy. Perhaps consider being more forward, I know it feels hard but women will respect you for that. If you're good looking and are really a nice guy then you don't need to worry about a thing, she'll come along soon enough.\nHey, if I had met you myself already I probably would have taken the need for you to ask that question straight out of your mind ;o)\nGood luck, relax and try to have fun out there. x
68334
You should just let her be herself. Women like to feel sexy. Now if she's pursuing this men by touching him (like patting his hand) or being EXTREMELY flirty talk to her. Maybe her answer will surprise you. Mayeb its nothing. talk to her. \nHope this helps.\nJess~ jeniel17. Y! msn
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
545024
well miss wildcherry, you should maybe take the initiative if you know he is too shy to approach you. you don't have much to lose or gamble with cause you already know how he feels. there is nothing wrong with females making the first move and you don't want to wait for him to get the confidence to ask first.\n\ngo for it. the success rate will be high.
572293
Be polite.\nUse manners.\nStay sober.\nHave a little extra cash available.\nSmile a relaxed smile.\nDon't complain, talk politics/religion or act bored.\n\nThe best and easiest way to a woman's heart is.....\n\nACT INTERESTED in her.\n\nAsk simple but intelligent questions about what she likes and thinks.\n\nTry to find common areas of agreement and hopefully some common ground on activities/hobbies/foods, etc.\n\nBe polite. Show her a good time. Relax.\n\nHey...........they get nervous, too!
272663
When she is ready.  Wait too long and it becomes too tense. Make it casual and respectful dude!