my friend got dumped by his girlfriend 2 months ago and says he likes me but doesnt want a gf.wat should i say
338574
Maybe he's not ready, just see where things go.
884399
Be honest...but a lttle white lie here and there is ok. I recommend: "Because I care about you so much I don't want to lead you on. You are a great person...and you have been so good to me. Right now...I need a friend...more than anything else. The feelings that I once had for you will always be in my heart. Right now I do not want to be in a relationship...I still really care about you...and I hope you will remain my friend." Now of course you should use your own words and express the way you feel in your heart. Make sure you use your judgement, your heart, and your feelings. I wish you the best of luck
798221
It won't last. There's no way. But maybe you should tell him how you feel about his gf. Don't worry about it too much though, it won't last long at all. I wouldn't talk either if i were you. Good Luck
453703
Well he is taken already so yeah you can't go up to him and ask him how he feels for you. But still talk to him and keep an eye on him. Who knows him might break up with his gf to be with you if he really likes you.
973141
Do nothing.  Even if she dumps the bf, you'd be a rebound.  Just keep your distance, be a friend, but don't push anything.  And if she dumps him and suddenly wants you, don't give in.  You'd be rebound man.  Give it time.  If she actually likes you it will work itself out.  Otherwise, I suggest you keep your options open.
274467
if he's your friend then you should be able to talk to him\nask him whats wrong with him let him know how you feel and tell him you dont like the way he's been treating you  lately be honest with him, if he ask you if you like him let him know, and if he feels unconfortable about you guys dating then you should let it go it doesnt have to happen you could still  be friends. as for your friend you should stay away from her she is causing problem and you dont need a friend like that.
943395
Obviously he's not over her. Give him some space, it takes time to get over the end of a relationship. Let him pursue you. If he's still into her or not over her yet, he's not ready to have a serious relationship with you or anyone else. Best of luck
225547
girl say no. wat he's really sayin is "i dont want you as a girlfriend anymore but i want you as a sex buddy so when i get bored you will b there to cheer me up". he's jus usin ya. dont pay him NO attention
755156
i think you just came out of an abusive relationship and you need some affection which this guy might be giving..lets not forget that this guy is perfect yes but he has a gf ...whether you think you want to pursue this relationship or not its best to let it go...he seems like he likes you but then he has a gf...honey he is confused as you are...just figure stuff out and be his friend for now and you need time after a breakup to regain your independence...now if he breaks up with her and you found yourself feeling great and you feel good then you might want to see if you want to pursue this but for now just chill take a load find yourself and regain your composure ...take it one day at a time no need to rush into something that might be complicated for you at this point in your life....
844356
Let him go, obviously, he wanted your friend and he realized that you were still the girl for him.  What makes you think, that he wont do this again.  He finds another girl that he is attracted to and says   f-you...i want her now.\n\nGirl, go find a good  man becuz he doesnt even deserve you.
942812
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.
942070
well if hes already gotta gf then dont go for him \ncuz that just means ur his last resort\nif ur really into him.......it just might b ok\nbut bcuz i have this strong of feelings for him \nthen i think u should grab up the courage to tell him u like him\nif he dont like u back\njust think to urself\nfine, its his loss\nhe missed out on somethin really great\nlook for other guys then just him\n\nBTW: i hoped this advice helps
416334
Well, that guy definitely has a problem. Tell him to deflate his big head 'cause you never wanted to be his girlfriend anyway. You only wanted to be his friend (am I right about that? I hope I am) for crying out loud. You seem like you were just being friendly. He probably thought too much of himself and got an ego-boost when you started talking to him and everything. Ignore him and show him who's boss. He's a loser.
316477
Sorry to say, but it sounds like he's not going to warm up to you anytime soon if he's still hung up over his ex.\n\nLet him know that you're here for him - as a friend. Keep things down low, make him laugh, be a good friend. After he has had time to heal, maybe you can ease into flirting and he'll see you in a different light. \n\nAt that point, I really think you should tell him how you feel. Maybe write him a note before summer and slip it into his locker or binder, then ask to talk to him later. If he's not trying to pursue you, chances are he doesn't like you like that. But I could be wrong...that's why you have to find out directly. Don't listen to your friend. You have to listen to yourself, not what other people think. This is your life, not hers.\n\n***warning: There is a downfall...your friendship could become potentially awkward if he doesn't feel the same way about you or only sees you as a friend. So it's up to you to make the decision on that part, just know the consequences.\n\nIf you don't want akwardness, don't tell him. Yet it seems like you like him a lot and you've been waiting forever, so waiting longer might not change anything (it'll just make you more miserable)
158520
if shes your friend then tell her you dont want  a girlfriend.dont tell her that you dont like her because girls take things the wrong way. if not, ignore her. like any pest she will eventually give up.
215389
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.
627883
Well if the guy is your friend (real friend) ...either if he loves you that way or not ( bf/gf) ....he will still respect you and talk to you ... he might ned time or feel unconftable for the frist 2 weeks but he will get over it if hes not interested...\n\nThe best thing tell him alone ...so no one else can laugh or say stupid stuff ( your friends can be your friends but sometimes they lack brain cells in situations likes theses)\nTell the guy you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way as you its fine, that you dont want the fact that your feelings might hurt the friendship you all have ...that you will survive if hes not interested...that you will not try to make him unconftable...or stalk him ...but if the feeling and similar...it would make you happy...