if you was 4 years younger thanyoour boyfriend and he was afraid to have sex what would you do?
347388
hahahaha!! okay ppl the gurlz serious maybe he is tryna say his ummmm is big,u know?What he doesn't know is that that will male you more curious  like hmmmmmmmmm!That is also good becauz atlease he has respect for you,to wait ,and not just smash(have sex,in n.o that's what we say when it's just u know non caring/loving sex) you.So,that's  good that he cares enuf to wait.
685230
he might be afraid that he might hurt the baby hun try and tell him that he wont hurt the baby make things romantic for the night and have some fuin try new things instead of going straight into sex try a lot of fore play first
562854
Wait until you are ready.  Don't be pressured into it.  Tell him you're not ready, if he really cares about you he'll be happy to wait until you are ready. If he carries on pressuring you he doesn't really care and only wants sex, and you're worth so much more than that.
391839
Yes you should. Wait a few years and be very careful. Help him mature as well by doing non-sexual adult things.
249891
Just tell him that you love him. Why you are thinking that he will be scared?
470191
dont worry about it.... unless youve had unprotected sex (which you shouldnt since your ONLY 13)
710989
Tell him to grow up.  If he's not willing wait for you... that doesn't bode well for the long term.
1184893
After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex.  Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).\nP.S. Please, please respect yourself.  Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.
137948
NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
929202
Realistically, You should MAKE him use a condom, bu if that denies him having sex with you, you should at least take steps to protect youself by using a femidom of some sort. Many are free from clinics, just  like condoms can be easily obtained. Alternatively, find someone else.\n\nIt is most definetly NOT SAFE
313438
He gets defensive because it's a sore spot for him...  He KNOWS what he looks like, and if sex is non-existent I'm sure he's missing it as much as you- yet he's afraid he'll never be able to change things.\n\nHe'll hopefully be ready someday - on his own.
60536
If your not ready to have sex with him because hes not ready to commitment then you need to sit down and tell him that.  If he doesnt understand or just wont do it then too bad for him find some else that will respect your wishes.
35342
Honey, just because you are in love doesnt mean you should try anything he wants to try.  He needs to understand that its your body, not his.  If you are uneasy about it, then dont do it, cuz that type of sex needs complete relaxation, trust, and lubrication.  He needs to be gentle, and quite frankly, if you cannot relax, then I would suggest against it. Either way, it's your choice and if you say no, then tell  him to stop bothering you about it.
887741
you are obviously to young to have aboy friend especially four years older than you,you wont like most answers you get and thats because were older and understand the consequences of what your doing,you had sex? thats what a man four years older than you wanted from you it wont last much longer and if it does it will be just about the sex i could assure you he defiantely is seeing other females behind your back more to his age,i hope you have protection because getting pregnant is the last thing you need
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If he has additional signs of commitmentphobia, dump him yesterday.  If he arrives awfully late to meetings with all people and has no other signs of commitmentphobia, start arriving 2 hours late to your dates with him or come on time with an interesting book and enjoy your boyfriend!\nLogan\n(For a list of the usual signs of male commitmentphobia, check the web or buy "Men Who Can't Love".)
274463
What does your boyfriend do to make you so scared of seeing him?  I mean, if you love him and trust him, like you should do in a relationship, you wouldn't be scared.  If you are talking nervous scared, that's natural....just don't be afraid to go around him.  The more time you spend with him, the more comfortable you will get with him....if he loves you back, it won't matter if you say something crazy or do something that might embarrass you....just give him a chance and things will work out fine.
160882
say bye. if he not commit to you now, he will not be commit later.  He is in it for the sex.