Is it ok to have crush on someone who you never met but know her by face for long time?
341300
your not alone on this one if she`s in the same school ask her over to do some homework with u ask her if she likes u and take it from there if not and least u know and ur mind is at rest\ngood luck hope it workks out 4 u
919264
Don't make the same mistake twice.  There is a reason you have been friends for so long.  Do it and take the chance.  You have to think about it this way....You take chances with total strangers all the time without knowing them at all.  Why not give the same chance to someone you know you already LOVE!!!
751572
females like when guys can be straightforward with their feelings you should tell her that you had a crush on her for about a year now but you didn't know how to approach her on the subject and you know that she has a boyfriend and that  you don't plan on doing anything to jeopardize the relationship if it is okay for you to become friends
334278
Depending on your age, or if this is your frist lover it could be hard. But it happens to most people in different ways. Time will help, not seeing this person, seeing other people, and music/Art always helped me. The good think is, you should grow form this experience. And never say never, they may come around one day.
523810
in that case, i would think that u should move on since u had known her 4 to 6 years yet she only treats u as a friend.. i have a friend who has a crush on a girl for 8 years.. but in the end the girl didn't accept him and instead flew to russia to do medicine.. it is a bit hurt but u have to move on.. there is no point hurting yourself in the end..
884675
no because if they really liked you or loved you they would not of got in trouble in the first place, so you did do nothen wrong. so yes it is ok to date someone else, becuase you cant just wait your life away for 6 years because of what they did.
700981
When you meet the one you know it, period, you just know it. There is no way to describe how you'd know, you just do. If you seriously feel this strongly about her then yes, tell her. It'd be a shame to look back in 30 or 40 yrs and have regrets for letting the 'one' get away.....tell her.\n\nGood luck!
520993
You should find someone else that he's been friends with for a while, then build that person up so that he won't like the old person anymore. I have had so many crushes in my lifetime, and that's what I do, sure... it takes a while, but it's worth it in the end.
121745
I feel you should know the person very well, if you two have been living together for a while. But in the same token you should ask how well does your know you? It must be a reason why this question is asked, for there might be some unresolved issues that may be at hand.  Just something to think about.......Feel me!
115441
You don't need to tell the world, just tell the person!  It's really cool that you feel so strong about this person now, but someday soon you may meet someone you like even better.  Will you want that new person to know how much you liked the person before them?
784282
I think of women all the time. I have this crush on a dear friend with whom I have been friends since we were in school. We never had a relationship but have been there for eachother through many tough times. We had moved apart and after a span of 4 years reconnected at this time things fell into our close selves despite our new lives and situations. We feel a sexual charge when we are together wether it's with company or alone. We both sense it and it kinda shows. We still have never done anything towards or with eachother, although I think that it could and how I would love for it to, I treasure her true friendship more. I do think of her often. We 've had some very intimate situations but were able to keep ourselves in check.
971277
Growing up I had occasional crush's on certain girls but I thought that was normal. After being married for 17 years a lesbian couple moved in next door to us, my kids met them and told me I just had to meet this certain one. From the moment our eyes met I new we were meant to be together. We've been together now for 14 years and the love and chemistry and the feeling that she is my soul mate has never weakend....so now looking back, I had crush's and thoughts of women even when I was married....it just took my soul mate to bring me home...
283857
Yes, I have met someone that has so much in common with me.  It's as if we have known each other for years.  We have the same beliefs, values, and morals.  Our family life is similiar.  I think that you can meet a friend almost any where.  It's not some hard to fathom idea!  I believe everything is orchestrated by God, and if it's meant for your paths to cross; then you'll meet.  Even if it's miles away, and a unseen face!
601499
no i think u should better meet her face to face and tell thats the best if u can make it possible ..........\nelse do tell her anyway .............if u really love her and sure about it .
443517
There's nothing wrong with having a crush on someone who's younger than you. Something's wrong if you'll insist on your feelings when you know that she is committed to someone. \n\nI suggest you forget about your feelings for her and look for someone who is unattached and also willing to love you.
136307
Hi.  I might be wrong, but I think most of the love/hate stuff is only in your head, you know.  I mean, it's not like you two have had an actual relationship in all those years, right?  So, I'm not saying you haven't really felt love and hate, only the person you've felt them for no longer exists.  You both grew apart a long time ago - if you were to meet again, you probably wouldn't even know each other anymore, you'd have to get to know her all over again to sort out your feelings.  And you might realize then that she's probably been that way (that would only be new to you) for a while and you couldn't possibly feel love or hate or both for her.\nOkay, I'm rambling.\nWhat to do?  Now that's a good question.  Honestly, I don't know.  I don't know how you get over your history.  But is this something that bothers you all the time?  Or are you just wondering how she's felt since then?
1117881
you're doing the right thing. ask her if she wants people to know who the crush is, else you can keep saying you dont know. i'd count in a friend like you!