ok im in love with this guy named art but my parents wont let us b together?
345682
i dont give bout my parents if dey dont like my gf **** dem.\nnd ye try makin his parent tak 2 ur parents
961080
yeah if he loved you he should go and let your parents knoe.....
1122585
Do you love him?  If you do, you shouldn't have a problem saying it back unless you're harbouring intimacy issues.  If you don't love him, you need to tell him that.  He deserves to be loved, or at the very least he deserves the truth!\n\nIf you do love him, perhaps you need to look within and discover why it is you have trouble expressing your feelings.  Has somebody hurt you?  What was your parents' relationship like?
644539
if he is not leaving for college what's the problem. you will have plenty of time for your parents to change there mind. if they like him ask him over for dinner with everyone. if that doesn't work out do not worry time is on your side. life will bring you many things to come. enjoy today if he likes you he will be there tomorrow. if not it maybe was never meant to be. what you want today is not always what you want tomorrow. there are plenty of fish in the sea.
1013896
OK lizzie as long as you love each other you're parents are going to have to  deal with it, and you guys need to tell them that (in a respectful way of course) that is so gooooood that youre waiting til you get out of school. but any ways let youre and his parents know that you guys are willing to take youre relationship to the very top and youre going to need their support , if they love you guys which im sure they do their going to to be happy about this because it makes you two happy.\ncongradulations , i wish you guys the best
162102
love is not only between u and ur boyfriend. It exists between u and ur parents, u and ur friends, u and God. This simply answers ur question.
1170654
love has no bounds... if your guy loves you so much so that he can go against this world.... go with your guy.... its very difficult to find a pure love.... if you think you have found one, do anything to save that love.... people are not always so lucky.....\nif you dont have any blood relation then i don't see why you both can't get married.....\nbut before telling your parents... talk to your guy... as to whether he will be there standing with you or not.....
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
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He may have been looking for a way out, and your parents gave him a good one.\n\nIf he's in love with you, he'd show some resistance to the parents' decision.\n\nParents do have good insight (much of the time), so there may be something to it, if they disapprove.  Without getting all emotional and defensive, you may want to sit down with them and get a better/fuller understanding of what they disapprove of, in your BF.  They're just looking out for their little girl.  And, although it may not make sense to you, at the time, their protectiveness may be very valid.
235762
Tough one.  its very hard to change someones mind when it comes to race issues. Your parents are not necessarily racist, they may worry about how other people who are racist will treat you. I would suggest you have a heart to heart with them...ask if they'll meet him, and maybe his parents too.  But remember this...if you try doing it behind their back...it'll just cause trouble....show them how mature your being by being open and willing to discuss the situation. Goodluck.
683425
dont forgive him.  If guys drop you like that then they are not interested in you.  Truthfully, if he did not say goodbye, then he is not the proper gentleman, therefore not someone you want to bring home to your parents
235778
being a brother and a muslim i know how you feel. you helped me with my situation and i will try to help you with yours parents are key and are most important (you think my parents know i like this girl, no probably not) but sooner or later they will find out whether i tell them or not so now you must weigh your options how much is this guy worth if alot then you must be able to tell your father that his rath is miniscule to the amount of love you have towards this person. walking a tight rope is not fun i know how you feel i have been doing it all my life. and the whole paki indian thing doesn't make your situation worse the girl i am trying to ask out is puerto rican my parents are going to rage but sooner or later they will understand as your parents will that keeping a child is more important than who they be with good luck.
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You go up to them and say Mom, Dad I'm in love.\n\nPlz give some details.\n\nAre you a minor?\nWhat exactly happened?\nWho are you in love with, an older/younger person?\n\nOK, now I understand, You are more worried about your Father's reaction to him being black than your Mother's. \n \nI can tell that you truly love him, and that you want to have a future with him. I know it's hard going against your parents wishes, but since He's who makes you happy, it shouldn't really matter whether or not your parents/any other family member/s accept him as a member. Regardless of the ramifications I still believe that you should invite him over to your house, tell your parents that you both have something very important to tell them. Then just come right out and say it, "Mom Dad, we're in love."\n\nOf course, you do understand that your parents love you and only want what's best for you, therefore you must make them understand that he's who's best for you.\n\n CONGRATULATIONS! on finding true love, and I hope that things go the way that you want it to go.\nBest of luck!
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Aww, just go out with the boy you like.  Either wait until he breaks up with blackhead girl, which he will I promise, or get together alone with him and put the moves on him.\n\nIt's not very fair of your parents to impose dating restrictions on you.  When you bring him home, just tell your parents that you are - bestest friends, forever and ever! -.  Hang out with him in groups of people who are also couples, like group dating.  Then you can split off from the group after a while and go make out or engage in some heavy petting, or whatever fun thing teenagers' libidos drive them to do.
1055898
Grieve over him (but no more than two months) and move on. If you're in India, your parents are going to arrange a marriage for you anyway...find a nice boy to settle down with and enjoy him thoroughly.
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Spend more time to really know about him before you make that kind of decision, time do mean a good testing for both side to see this relationship is real or not...plus you maybe still too young or have lot of other time to see more people or more things in a more mature view later time.\n\nMost important is how your parents think? try to seek their advice, try to understand what they say to you is reasonable or not. As it is surely TOO risky for you that so young and have to follow this man to another country...as what may happen if things not work out well? that will be a big price to pay not mention may effect your study and future as well.\n\nHope you find your answer very soon then :)
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No, absolutely not.\nIf the guy is not good enough to introduce to your parents, then he's not good enough for you.