what turns off a girl or a guy????
353858
Anything which gives a feeling of disgust, hatred or past bad experience. It can be anything. ANYTHING!
945344
Emotionally weak is hard to put up with, but so is the typical stoic, show-no-emotions type of guy. A nice balance is the best. Physical weakness, it matters to some girls, but not to others. It really just depends on the woman, you know?
446207
turn ons:\n-calling her just to say hi\n-smiling at her when you see her\n-being a gentleman\n-telling her how much you care...and meaning it!\n-cuddling\n-hugs\n-doing things she likes to do\n-etc. etc.\n\nTurn offs:\n-not controling your body functions around her\n-treating her like one of the guys"\n-ignoring her when you're with your friends\ndoing things you know she hates\n-etc. etc.\n\nGood Luck and hope that helped
951223
from experience it really doesnt matter what you do in order to flirt with girls just as long you are confident while doing it. The biggest turn off girls tell me is a guy without confidence so just fake it even if you do not initially feel like a stud. Also all the love movies and shows are bullsh*t. All these cute lines that make the girl smile and fall in love with you on these shows will not happen. I hate to say it but the nice sweety guys will always finish last. Just go with the "take what is yours" mentallity and women will be after you instead of you going after them. Do not be so soft but instead be a little rough around the edges. Trust me, girls will not want to admit it most of the time but being too nice can also be a turn off and boring.
1091277
I find women who play hard to get a turn off. Don't get me wrong they cannot be easy, but when I have to go really far out of my way for someone I barely know then I just am not going to waste my time.
695731
I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
323709
"remind" her of something embarrassing in front of your guy, or even start making out with him in front of her or mid-conversation. that'll shut her up!
1150623
I like it when girls are confident in who they are and what they want. I like girls who aren't afraid to make the first move or do something crazy. I also like girls though, who are just laid back and relaxed. Its not so much of a "turn on" thing but it definitely attracts my attention.
518116
What Turns me on is a nice body,cute face,good skin and a girl that can dress good/What turns me off is a girl that act like boys, girl that fart all the time, and girl wit bad manners.
402860
A major turn off would be someone who had bad hygiene.  Also someone who had a bad attitude.  Another turn off would be someone who is lazy.
100515
Desperation is a major turn-off.  Desperate people also get used.  So I recommend you turn your attention on yourself and build up your confidence.  Find yourself -- figure out what your values and priorities and interests are in life.  Get involoved in activities related to these things, and you will make friends with whom you have something in common.  Some of those friends will be females, and the friendship might develop into something more...\n\nYou have a better chance of a successful relationship if you really know yourself and have confidence enough to not "NEED" a girlfriend.  And it helps if the girl has similar values and interests, and if the relationship is based on a mutually respectful friendship.
14744
I like sensitive guys. Atheletic guys are too rough. Good thing: They listen to what you say. Bad thing: They are too quiet or shy, so they might not make the first move because you are too quiet and shy aswell. Plus, they may not contribute to your conversation, because they're afraid of saying the wrong thing and losing the girl. This is just my opinion.
600137
well, you found one!! lol, newayz, ya girls dont really make the first move, but i found that guys find it very sexy when a girl does. im a chick who seriously has like a male mind ive got sex on my brain all damn day long and i can hardly wait until my bf comes over lol. i think its just easier for guys to come onto a girl i guess, plus sometimes if a girl comes on too strong a guy might think shes a slut.
289429
press the off button!
158387
Give him a playful hip bump or a light punch to the gut or shoulder.   If that does not work he’s probably not interested.   Ignoring someone works too but only if the guy knows you even exist.  I find ignoring works only if you’re all ready on a talking and friendly basis but it also can be damaging to what ever relationship you have already built with this guy.  So if it’s an all or nothing situation for you then ignore him.
49931
look and be polite, if you are a girl please dont save them for us guys!!
111052
It is up to the girl what she feels comfortable with.  Some prefer it bare, some like a little trim, and some don't like to shave down there at all.  Regardless it should be up to the girl to determine what she prefers and not up to a guy.  If a guy is going to decide he doesn't want to be with you unless you are a certain way he isn't worth it.