What if a married man falls in love with someone at his workplace?
355077
My opinion...feel shame, before cheating ur wife
697574
Can you afford to lose this job? Funny thing about some men in authority, they enjoy the effect they have on subordinates, especially pretty ones they know are attracted. If its real enough for him to risk inapropriate behaviour, he should make a move outside of work hours/envioronment, otherwise the only respect you'll earn is to keep your eyes on your work.
508509
Love happens without work.  You can fall in love and be incredibly happy with someone, but when you've been with them a certain amount of time, that persons flaws become more apparent to you and you accept that life must continue to function with TWO people instead of ONE.  This means that you have to work hard to help eachother, to remain obligated to eachother, each paying bills and working and taking care of kids.  It's hard work to find a middle ground or reach a compromise sometimes, but it's worth it.  All the hard work is worth love =)
465
You can always be straight forward to him or her. Or get a group of fellow workers to go to him or her at the same time to express the feelings. Strength is always better in numbers!
1147805
have intercourse with your boss or co-worker
665338
I love my husband so the married man i'm inlove with is married TO ME.
783901
Some ppl wait all their life waiting to find that one true love....\n\nSo if u think you found this person don't deny the fact that his work takes him away alot because at least hes willing to hold down a job and this is challenge that you have to fight for want u wat and believe it so give it a try and see where it takes you don't be looking back another 10yrs from now and regreting not letting this person how u feel.....
813563
YES... I was at work and this guy walked in to cancel his service with the company I worked for. He asked me out and Im married to him now! Never thought that would happen.
1056321
The fact that you have these feelings is 'normal'.  The abscence of them would not be.  Your working hard, on different shifts, tired, together but alone most of the time.  Just remember, communication is important.  Good luck and stop to have fun!!!  He'll thank you!
540129
Yes, he's your supervisor in the four corners of your workplace, but saying what you feel in the right place at the right time (like After work hours and far from his office; a coffee shop a block away will do) would give you peace of mind. Just make sure that you can still maintain your Professionalism towards him no matter what his response, if not, it's better to keep it to yourself and hope it's just a CRUSH that fades away in a day or two. Well, it's just my opinion and I'm sure it's different from the others. Good luck!
847170
Yes, i think it is perfectly normal for happily married people to get enamored with another person from time to time...! The flirting that you think came from him may just be friendly interaction...I wouldn't risk acting on my feelings if i were you! You may embarrass yourself, and alienate your hubby! Good luck...
220836
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
391026
You Truly have a real problem.  I worked around a situation similar to yours.  The boss favored a young lady in every way.  She received nothing but praise, all awards and the easiest jobs.  When he finally got it through his head, that she loved her husband and didn't want him,he changed.  They say the deepest love can turn into the greatest hate.  that saying is very true.  It got so bad that they had to separate them.  You need to explain to him what you want out of life, and that you are committed to someone (create a person) try to be kind, but watch this situation carefully. If it continues then go to the next in charge and explain the situation.  \n\nGood Luck\n\nNote the situation that I mentioned all most came to blows.
168007
It would be best that you express to him how you feel about hiim- not only to see if he feels the same way but to get the feeling off your chest. However since this is in the workplace, you should be cautious about how you approach this romance. If you two start dating, don't make it too public among your coworkers. I would leave the relationship alone period if you have a good position at your job and you see yourself getting promoted in the near future- just to be safe.
605522
A married man is not going to leave his wife for you. There\nis nothing you can do to make him leave her. That is his wife. they have been together before you came along. How\nwould you feel if you was married and some woman told your\nhusband to leave you? how would you feel once you found out?  You would be hurt. you would be crying and depressed.\nWell that's how his wife would be if he left her for you. \nHe will cheat on you too if he married you. Then divorce you and marry the mistress. Is that what you want to happen?\nBecause it will. It's reality.
785607
It depends on your university.  I know how it is to fall for your teachers; I think I've fallen for every one, male or female, and I've dated a couple of teacher assistants extremely seriously (flirting with marriage).  However, with an actual professor I doubt that something will come from it.  Doesn't he have a girlfriend/wife?  How do you know he feels an attraction towards you?  If you can, for now try to renegotiate your feelings along the lines of friend or father figure.  If something comes from it (again, I'm seriously skeptical, but it's certainly not impossible) it will probably be a while, as you are currently his student and there is still something sketchy about jumping into a romance right away.  He's young and probably wants to keep his awesome job and not tarnish his record.  Good luck!  I feel your pain.\n\nAnd while I'm sure the attraction for him is electric, you should try to get to know his person outside of the context of teaching before jumping his bones.  A lot of your assumptions about him may end up falling apart when you deal with the real man (this isn't necessarily a bad thing, but be prepared).  I say this from experience.  Before I could fall in love with the man behind my TA, I had to give up my idealized notion of him as a TA- and it was first uncomfortable for me, but ultimately a good thing.\n\nEDIT- Oh and I also dated a man 11 years older than me.  I don't have any regrets about it- we worked wonderfully together, but were at completely different points in our lives which ended up causing a lot of tension (and which ultimately led to our decision to split, if just for some time).  I am currently looking for someone closer to my age.  Unfortunately I can't tell how old my crush is.  \n\nPeople are correct when they label what you have as infatuation.  Again- the man behind the teacher probably does not live up to the ideal you have in your head.  And hopefully, he has some regard for his much younger students (not taking advantage of his power position, etc.)  This is why I say that if you really like him, there is going to be a LOT of waiting and a LOT of uncertainty.  It's a delicate situation and I wish you luck in getting through it however you do.
420618
No they work together but you he loves and comes home to.\n\nHe surely brags about his wife they our just making a friendly work place thats all you will be able to tell us men cannot hind things like that its shows in or eyes ,voice and the way we change.