My boyfriend split up and im going to be spending the weekend with him I need Ideas....?
341340
This may come as crude and rough to you - but its the lack of sex!\n\nMost divorces and breakups have 'lack of sex' as the real reason for them to occur rather then what most 'given' reasons!
784842
Try some homemade gift.  A "ticket" book you've made with coupons for back messages' future night's out, sex, homemade food (his favorites), a chore you'll do instead of him,etc.  \nI did that, he presented the coupon occasionally and I followed through...it was fun!
491148
First off, you need some time alone just to reflect on it. I don't mean let it consume you, but if it ended for a good reason then you need to be alone just to regroup and get yourself together. After that go out and have a drink with some friends. Get back into the social scene, but steer clear of the relationship deal for a minute
791004
I WOULD NOT  PLAY GAMES  WITH HIM.  WHEN HE COME\nHOME LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT\nTHIS. IF IT REALLY MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL. BUT DONT\nPLAY GAMES THAT NOT GOOD FOR ANY ONE. KEEP\nIT SIMPLE. BECAUSE HE THE ONE THAT BROKE UP  WITH\nYOU.
1056849
Going out with boyfriend....
742399
Try a nice warm tub with bubbles.  Relax for a short time and then go out for breakfast.  Treat yourself with this extra time.  Go out and get yourself some chocolate cake or muffins.  Do some Christmas shopping, or get prepared for the Thanksgiving dinner.  Write out Christmas cards..  Save this lust for your mate for next week when he will be home.  Don't mention it to him.  Explode with great passion next Sunday.  Save it up for the next time, today just try to not think about it and get some of those other mundane chores accomplished.  Best wishes and good luck.
1175702
Do activites that you enjoyed before being in a relationship with him.  Do things you like.  Then, add in another boyfriend after you have had some time to yourself.  Hope this helps.
72802
Most definitely bring him.  It will help your ex get over you.
502349
congratulations! make him a scrapbook of pics of u and him. include pics of just u if u want. write poems or just write a memory of doing something fun together that meant a lot to u. make it however u want to. leave blank pages so he can put more pics in if he wants.i did this for my bf on our 1 yr and he loved it! go spend time together that day-it doesn't have to be somewhere that's expensive either. go to ur fav park or just spend time at one of ur houses. just make sure he knos u love him-that's the greatest gift of all!
748928
Pack a picnic lunch and eat at the park, or beach, or lake, or whatever beautiful spot you have around your house.\nGo on a hike together.\nJoin a bowling team together, co-ed softball or some other sport that you both enjoy.\nRollerblading.\nBike riding.\nHorseback riding.\nBoard games.\nCooking a meal together.\nSit down and write a list of things you enjoy and ask him to do the same. See if there are interests that you have in common. Remember too, there should be things that you do seperate from each other so that when you are together again, you can talk about your seperate activities and have lives apart from as well as with each other.
931225
Cook together, wash our cars together, watch old movies, play monopoly, take a shower together...the list goes on.  Just try what both of you like to do, but do it together. Good luck!
513038
my boyfriend just broke up with me the best thing to do is think of something else
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
1034110
Tell him you want to meet the brother and his girlfriend first, maybe at a dinner. Or better make some plans that would have you and your boyfriend around them  most of the day on a Saturday.  That way you can get to know them better and hopefully tell if you would feel comfortable with them out of town.  But just going  away with people you don't know, sounds like trouble.
897890
yes its a good idea to call him but probably the best present you can give him...is probably to get back together with him, seeing that you are now single. also get him to be more outgoing i use to be like him...still am a little but alot more outgoing cuz my girlfirend and my friends
351022
go on a double date- with your x,him, and one of your friends. have fun.  after a while ask him if he wants to go out to eat or something. Good Luck!
1094137
Have a nice bubble bath ready....when he gets out, have a candlelight dinner waiting for him. After dinner, watch a movie together.....then whatever.