for men:do you prefer to marry a virgin lady?why?
341919
I would prefer to marry a woman who is a virgin because she has saved herself for me alone...to give me everything she possibly can, including the precious gift of her body.  It means she will probably be faithful to me.  She would not be able to compare me to other lovers or think about them when with me.  It shows a deep respect for herself as a person.  It shows that she is not one to succumb to peer pressure or male pressures.  She will not have any hidden STD's, will not have the emotional baggage that wome women have and will not have aborted any babies (whether you accept abortion or not).  Abortions can damage a woman's ability to reproduce and many women carry some emotional baggage cocerning past abortions.  It shows good character, good commitment, strong moral fiber, probably solid religious views, good self respect and strength of will.  Guys often want girls who will 'put out' for girlfriends.  They like used cars to take them for test drives, but want a new one for a wife.  Old cliche, but still mostly true today...unfortunately, it is getting harder and harder to find them.
1094292
Hallelujah, God does work in mysterious ways. I say that this guy is a God send and should keep his virginity until he is married. God will provide with the right woman in God's time.
872575
i am an 18 yr. old female who is still a virgin as well, and i totally charash it. it is the most preshes thing to me. being a  virgin(keeping your verginity tell your married) is very rare now days. and trust me i have had many chances to brake it several times, but i just cant do that because i would be just like all the other people. i might even end up with an unwanted pregancy, std's, aids, the shame of loosing your verginity to someone who you really dont love and care to spend time with every day of your life, for the rest of your life, ect..... i could go on all night and day listing things but i wont.\nI also agree with you. i would charish it tell your married and have that be your first time. hopefually that will be her first time too. and that way you both will have something special to look forward to, and you wont really have a clue if your bad or good the first time. stay strong and keep your virginity. i know that it's hard but its possible. dont let people bolly you into it. I personally would prefure someone who is still a virgin when i marry him. best of luck. remember if you have sex just one time their is no being a vergin again.
558003
i prefer a virgin (i'm a guy)
892315
Sex before marriage is a total no-no for me. Virginity is the most prized possesion for a women and the most deserving man can get the most prized possesion.
638613
I think it depends on the guy. If that is what his morals and values are... then yes... he would respect a virgin more than someone who is not. But, not everyone has those beliefs. Personally... I would rather try the milk before buying the cow, and I'm a woman. I haven't experienced any disrespect because I am not a virgin. I feel that as long as you are not screwing any and every one... and that you are actually being selective in who you give your body to. That is what gains respect.
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
142134
I only ever had sex with one virgin.  Married her 7 years later :)
870201
This is how I feel about it ...\n\nYou should stay a virgin till you're married.\nGod intended it to be that way.\nBut many, MANY people abuse that.\nAnd God looks down on those people.\n\nYou don't just give your virginity to just anybody.\nIt is the best present you can give your future husband.\nIt is you... it is all of you.\n\nIf you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.\nYou'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.\nIt won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.\n\nSex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.\nIt takes two very mature people.\nYou do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.\nMost people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.\n\nI am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
134497
Neither are worth too much the effort. While you can say the virgin will not stray, she may not enjoy it with you and leave, or she may enjoy it too much and want it more than you can provide.\n\nChances are whichever way you go, they are going to leave
514971
No.  I would see her in a good light.  It says something respectable about her character that she is a virgin.  I would wait.
112525
A vargin?\n\nIf you don't know how to spell/say the word "virgin" then I suggest you NEVER have sex ever.
1187712
My virgintiy was important to me.  Me and my fiance gave our virginity to each other and we considered it to be the most precious and beautiful thing that we could give each other.  It is very special to us that we lost our virginity to each other.  I hav found myself and (i know some of my friends feel the same), that when you lose your virginity to someone, it is as if a bond almost a blood bond has been formed between you both.  and no matter what else you do, it will always be with you.\n\nVirginity should be equally important to men, i believe it is to many men but they are loathed to admit it because of the way they have been socialised.\n\nIf I loved someone and they were not a virgin i would marry them if they loved me but I would much prefer the situation I currently have.  I am lucky to be marrying the man who i lost my virginity to and who lost his virginity to me.
828614
well virginity should not really be a big issue, but of course it would only be an additional blessings for you to found a girl whose virgin.
185126
i think both are equally important. in my own honest opinion a person should lose his / her virginity only to the most special person for him / her.
805488
I respect girls who are honest about their past relationships regardless of if they are virgins or not.\n\nBasically I consider it an irrelevant factor.
146027
Hi As a guy I was glad my gf { now my wife} was a virgin. Dont let a guy pressure you into losing your Virginity. You only have one first time and it should be saved for your future husband. If a guy can not handle that, I would find a new guy.