Why can't I find a good-looking&rich butch?I always end up with those who are either broke or not-so-good?
336790
exactly.. be yourself... and dont always be searching for a 'mr. right' figure, because 99% likely he doesnt exist.\n\ndont be too choosy and dont expect too much im afraid, whats meant for you will not go past you
850251
You're lucky to have the whole range of people to choose from. I wouldn't worry too much if you can't find any guys you're interested in. Girls make perfectly good partners too. But I suspect it's not easy to find the person who's just right for you, whatever gender they are. I'd just keep an open mind, and who knows, Mr. or Ms. Right just may pop up ;)
1177626
You sound overly pompous. Perhaps it makes them happy to find a chink in your armor. Don't  take yourself so seriously. There will always be someone smarter, better looking or wealthier than you. You're not all that.
980374
Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
306524
Either rich or famous.  But as it is I am stuck with being good looking
952369
Hey guy.  Don't beat yourself up so much.  Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places.  There are people out there for everyone.  You will see that the Abercrombie types tend to be attracted to the Abercrombie types.  The bears are usually with other bears.  If people told you that you are cute, you probably are.  I know you have a lot to offer and the right guy will come along.  Just remember the attraction has to be reciprocal.  That's what makes the dating scene hard some times.  But it goes beyond the physical.  Find a group where you have common interests and mingle with that group.  Someone probably has a 'friend' who is gay that you might like.  Don't give up.  You need to be more upbeat and not sound so depressing.  Life is what you make of it.  I am single right now and am actually kind of enjoying the break.  Good luck.
818898
Sounds like your standards are too low if you let the last few guys use you. You need some interesting, exciting hobbies to get rid of the stench of desperation.  Plus, you'll meet interesting, exciting men while you're at it.
1171580
D! How come the guys get to choose from decent women but us women get the bottom of the barrel to choose from? Just Kidding. I'm sure these are all really nice guys. I just thought that this would be the perfect time to come out of the closet and let the world know I would rather be GAY!\nLove & Light\nSharon
1131145
Finding a decent guy isn't that easy. I'm speaking from experience here. I'm 25 and in less than a year will finally be finished with my Ph.D., and have found that most guys are untrustworthy. But I do know that there are a very few decent ones out there. Maybe try looking in different places, like museums, church, the theater, etc. If you ever want to chat about this or anything else feel free to drop me a line
332062
I don't think that all men are bad, I just have a way of choosing the real A//holes! Maybe there r a few good ones and if you r one of them, real women like me r still looking for you. Stay the way u r and u will find one real female. You just have to be patient with us because the ones who feel that way have been hurt way too many times by men and we just need reassurance. It takes alot of time 4 us to trust again.
26582
Dont' worry girlfriend!I was in the same boat as you before.I did the bar scene, all my friends were in relationships, and that's what i wanted desperately.So, i would settle, and i got losers.Alot of guys would hit on me, but i just wanted to date, than i would call them back after, and they had a girl.Too late.So, in that time, I just felt out who i was, what i wanted, and focased on my career. That's when i thought, hay, i can just weed out these guys who just wanted a good time.Well, it worked.I wasn't looking for a guy.My true love had found me.When you are least expecting it, it will hit you in the ass.What i am saying is, relax, and it will come.Do not be desperate, and settle. He will find you! Get out there and do stuff that you like, and he will be there waiting for you.Good luck!
1011927
Not all butches want a femme for one thing. Some also shy away from femmes because they are often bi and they don't want to fall in love only to have the woman run off with a man later. Just be you and  some one will come along.
541007
WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??
1141842
I understand totally. I have the same problem. Only the other way. I can't find a good man who appreciates a great woman.
45258
It isn't hard you are probably looking in the wrong places. \n\nIncase you need some inspiration: http://www.newagey.com/dating-love/top-10-places-to-find-mr-right/
440029
Maybe because you're beauty, more guys are getting attracted to you. This will definately attact the Jack---es, where as before you had men interested in true love. No, I'm not telling you to get ugly, just that the guy will be harder to find, and will have to love you for you, and you'll have to love him for him. Maybe you're biting on looks too when you look for a guy, then find out his personality is not so good. Can't tell with the amount of info, but keep trying!!!
1115556
keep tryng but be careful. If you still can't find someone good, then be prepared to be single.