how does one increase the eecetion time since I tend to loose my erection fast. Wife not satisfied.?
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Try buying a c.ock ring from a local "specialist" shop - Ann Summers do them- you could mail order. It sits at the base of your e.rection and helps to hold the blood in to stop you becoming flacid. Hope that helps.
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Sorry, but size DOES matter.  Whoever said otherwise lied while trying to make himself feel better.\n\nFortunately, for you, though.  A woman is most sensitive on the clitoris, which is outside, so you don't really need a penis to satisfy a woman.  As a matter of fact, the best lover I ever had was impontent and could rarely get an erection.  No dildo was ever required.  He was beautifully talented with his hands and lips.  If you open up and explore your girl and ask her what she likes, she won't really care about the 4 inches.\n\nAs for tecniquest to make it better, try moving your hips in a slow, circular motion.  Slide up a little higher as you thrust in and out so that her clitoris is stimulated as you slide in and out. Suckling her breasts while you do this will produce an incredible sensation.  Also suggest that she practice her kegals excersises so that her vaginal muscles are strenghened for her increased enjoyment and yours... Go to any book store and pick up some sexual manuals.  The joy of sex is a classic.\n\nHappy loving.\n\nPS.  Your email is bouncing back, so I've resorted to editing... You missed my point.  Your penis won't make you a good lover, so stop obsessing on it.  If it works for you, concentrate on pleasuring her (which you'd need to do at any size), and then let her take care of you.  She won't be unsatisfied.  Plus, you must know that you're probably hurting her by rejecting her.  Be honest and creative.  Manhood is more than a penis.  Your greatest sexual tool is found between your ears, NOT between your legs.
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Your question is your answer...   You are 34 years old.  \n\nWELCOME TO MID LIFE MY FRIEND !!!\n\nTime to call on VIAGRA-MAN Hero,  of the meek and limp.\n\nWhen your willy is not full the sensation is less and therefore it is harder to achieve orgasm.\n\nBUT...   There is an alternative.  SPICE IT UP...  \nBelieve it or not\na huge part of Sex is mental.  So spice it up and it will get up.\n\nYou need proof that it is a mind thing???  OK\n\nEver have a wet dream?   Need any further explanation?\n\nThere was no super model in your bed that night only in your mind...
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Dont you listen to the commercials for Erectial Disfunction?  They state that if you have an erection lasting longer than 4 hours, seek medical attention.  I think the next pill you need to take is truth serum.
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Simple and easty is to massage ur penis with vitamin E oil daily for 3-4 minutes . and just have jerks not ejaculate ..\nbye ..\nu cud get excellent result ...
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I believe that Mild ED is caused due to "sexual rush". As I man I can tell you that the best way is for your partner (a woman in my case) to take it easy and do not rush me into having an erection as soon as she gets undressed. Conversation should be kept a a minimal, unless is related to the beauty of your partner's body and sexyness. A woman should help the man by being as sensual as posible and softly caressing him (the man should do the same to her!)... You'll see!!!... patience has its rewards and then .... a long lasting erection...!!!!!!!!
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It takes awhile for the blood to exit the penis and go soft again. Don't think you're wonderwoman it happens in every guy. Takes about 5 minutes sometimes longer if she cuddles with you and your tall tommy is rubbing her hips. I need to go jerk off
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Put on a porn film just while having sex with your wife!\nShe could be agree and consequentially you could lose interest in it.
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You could be losing an erection for a number of reasons.  Number one is psychological---if you don't really like the partner you're with, or if you're afraid and all you're thinking about is how well you're going to perform in his/her eyes, this can effect your sexual function.  The brain has a direct effect on the penis.  Number two, it could be your age--if you're over the age of 40, you're more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction, which is actually quite more common than most men would like to admit.  A drug like Cialis or Viagra may be appropriate for you.  There are many more reasons, but I'm willing to bet it's number one or two...and in either case, you should speak to your doctor, who is trained to deal with situations like yours.
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Wow... so many people answering "just don't make it feel as good".\n\nWhat's the point of having sex last longer if it's BORING?\n\nOkay, in order to make it last longer and still feel just as good, without having to resort to doing things like use a topical anaesthetic on your penis, do this:\n\nFirst, when you're having intercourse, pay attention to the muscles you're using to thrust with.  Chances are they're the muscles in your butt and in your thighs.  Believe it or not, that makes you have an orgasm quicker.\n\nInstead, let those muscles relax and switch to thrusting with your lower back.  It will keep intercourse feeling just about as good as always, you don't have to lose any of the sensation, and it will last longer.\n\nSecond, if you prefer an approach where the female gets to be on top, lay down and instead of keeping your legs flat on the floor (or mattress, or whatever), pull them up so your thighs are at a forty-five degree angle away from you.  Then while she's on top, let her lean back against your legs.  This not only gives her a bit of support to relax on, but it points your penis down and away from your head, which again prolongs the period before you ejaculate without having to sacrifice the sensitivity.  \n\nThis also works if she likes to face away from you.  All she need do at that point is lean forward and brace herself on your knees with the palms of her hand.  It puts your penis at the same angle and provides the same effect.\n\nNo fancy toys, no de-sensitizing lubes needed.\n\nAlso, as always, I recommend learning to become multi-orgasmic (yep, it's possible for men, too).  Check out the books "Any Man Can" and "The Multi-Orgasmic Male".  Both are excellent instruction manuals to keying you into getting to not only last longer, but have a whole lot more fun than you thought possible while doing it.\n\nAny more questions, just let me know.  =)
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Dude.. \nFirstly build a confidence. Don't be nervous before act and don't prejudice that u will end up early..\nSecondly, work it out..yeh..she told it right.. Masturbation is grt exercise for that.. but u need to do it with an intention to stand long.. Just thrust 5 times and stop (count 1 to 5).. then repeat.. this will give u more fun and increase your stamina also..\n3rd.. do a good foreplay to satisfy ur partner but enter your instrument only once she reaches peak
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The more intercourse you have the better you get at things. If there comes a time where you are about to orgasm, pull it out and place your thumb over the head. It sometimes works. Have you tried foreplay first? Give that a go as well. Sometimes that makes you orgasm sooner than expected as well but if all fails there is always viagra.  It could come down to yourself being too eager as well. Take things slow and in time you will get better at it. All the best and hope you find the right solution to your problem.
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Try Keigal exercises.  Resources which might be helpful can also be found when researching impotence and stamina with regard to sex.
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If you get a boner and put a towel over the hard and flex until the towel lifts. If you do this in like some free time for maybe 100 times then it will delay your nutt. If you get strong enough try using a wet towel.
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Any exercise will give you more energy, thus increasing sex drive. A healthy balanced diet will do the same thing. Spicy food gets your blood pumping, try roleplay, foreplay etc. If it's endurance you're after, then ask your ladyfriend not to touch you intimately until just before penetration. Also try focusing on giving her pleasure, and not yourself. Good luck!
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I terms of length the average erection is just a hair or two under 6 inches.\n\nIn terms of how long you can keep it up, well, that can vary ever so much from one person to another. For instance, if you reach orgasm in 2 minutes or less then the erection is gone almost as quickly as it came up. But if you draw out th epleasure you might be able to sustain it for hours or until it gets too sore to continue whichever comes first. And some days it might last for an hour or more while other days it might fall off in a few minutes depending on yoru state of health and mind.\n\nI would say that as long as you can achieve orgasm and bring your partner to that point within your 25 minutes then all is well. If neither of you get there, maybe you need to practice better techniques to ensure you both achieve success before the falling of the erection precludes a good climax. Like the old saying says "Practice makes perfect".\n\nSo don;t worry; instead concentrate on being the best lover you can be in the time allotted.
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well....think it is suppose to help strengthen the erection for a longer period. check with your doctor (if you dont blush easily!!) for a proper answer. hope that helps.