Why my husband run away me?
354875
i don't think you guys are being very nice making fun of her english - she's obviously going through a tough time right now!  If he's run away from you I don't know that theres a lot you can do.  If you are in contact with his family maybe you could ask them for support - see if they know anything and if they can talk to him for you, he hasn't behaved very well and you deserve at least an explanation from him - good luck!
1078574
Why did he move out? I can see that you are sooo proud of making more money than him, because you said it when it doesn't have any relevance to the situation. Did you maybe throw it in his face, or did you start an arguement? You can either listen to the other answers from women who hate men, or you could take a step back and LOGICALLY determine whether you have caused this problem yourself or whether he isn't a great guy. No one, including the other women who've answered that hate men, can tell this from what you've put.  Either you have real issues and need to deal with them, or the guy has done something wrong and you're not telling us(I seriously doubt he moved out for no reason--and if he did, then leave him alone).
421916
the relationship was probably moving to fast for the both of you and it more than likely freaked him out.  So, instead of facing the problem...he's avoiding it.  In other words, being a coward.
242240
Na, move on and have fun, he'll soon comin running if he thinks hes going to lose you!
831110
i think you need to get out as fast as you can.you deserve so much better, and he is just a waste of your time.
485845
He ran away in the first place, in my opinion, makes one question his ability to be a good dad.  If he really wanted to see his kids, he'd have found a way. \nHe's a dead-beat dad in my opinion.
978282
Understand that he will never trust you.  I was home with two kids and pregnant and being accused of having an affair.  Pleeeeaaaassssseeeee!  He probably doesn't trust you because he is guilty or because someone before you ruined him.  Personally, If this was me, I would take the out he has given me.  I wonder if he trusted you to begin with.\n\nI would leave, get pro-active, pilates, buy a new dress and get a new man!  One who isnt' abusive and a cheater!
1075075
You think you have problems....My husband won't leave me!! LOL
855080
That is risky for us to guess since we do not know the two of you.  Does he outwardly mope around?  Or just get quiet?  You're husband is probably angry at his father as well as sad - misses him but hates him for what he did.  This is real dicey - be very careful or you might make it worse.  \nThis will fade over time.  He PROBABLY just wants to be happy himself and be well distracted by his beautiful wife and the rest of his (hopefully) nice family.  I would suggest that you try not to mention it, and if he does, mostly listen.  If this does not fade he might need some counselling himself.  Good luck.
246861
your husband sounds like a loser\ni think you need to leave him for someone who will come home to you
774409
This is terribly WRONG behaviour on the part of your husband.  It is a clear warning sign and you need to be vary careful.\n\nCheck out the link below, and the rest of the site, about domestic violence and the warning signs and the path of escalation.\n\nUnless he has specific reason to suspect you are cheating on him, which I assume is not the case, then you need to be very very careful.\n\nCounselling may help him and I suggest you propose that to him if you wish the marriage to continue.
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He is just trying to make you take the blame for his behavior.  That is how abusive men work and make you think it is all your fault.  He obviously does not care about you that much if he just up and leaves and puts all the blame on you.  You are better off leaving him and getting your kids away from a man like that.  They will either be abusers or take abuse from someone else.  He walks all over you and guess what, your kids will to as long as you keep them in that environment.  Your husband is a horrible role model and so are you for putting up with him.  You can't save your marriage because he does not respect you enough to stick around and work things out.  GET OUT NOW!!  I pray that you will take people's advice and put you and your children first.  I get mad at my husband all time but he does not treat me they way your man does.  Think about all the healthy relationships you know of and compare yours to them.
285239
Um...yeah...your not a very decent man. Hate to sound mean here, but I say go with the one you ran off with and let your wife find someone who will treat her better.
570076
How old are you?  If you're under 30, you haven't totally messed up!  Because you've still got time to live a full life even if you dump this loser and take a year to find the next guy.  So, put the idea you've messed up totally out of your head!  lol.  Now, its also interesting that you worry MORE about your lying than about HIS TEMPER!  If he scares the shit out of you - that's a damned good reason to NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN!  The most important thing a man can give a woman is a secure feeling of being safe with him.  How can someone build a family, a home, a nest, whatever you want to call it, and not have the people who live with him feel safe?  YOU DON'T FEEL SAFE!  You feel scared, alone, and that its all your fault!  Why?  Because he said it was your fault!  Now, understand this, someone who scares you, does not love you.  Someone who blames you, does not love you.  Why doesn't he love you?  BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LOVE HIMSELF!  The question you have to ask yourself is, do you want a marriage and a safe and happy home?  or do you want a psychology project?  YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO FEEL SAFE!  If that means lying to the man who abuses your trust, then so be it.  If that means breaking off your engagement.  Fine.  If that means hurting him.  That's his fault not yours.  IT IS OKAY TO BE SELFISH ENOUGH TO DEMAND RESPECT!  He may never have hit you, YET, but he is very likely to once you are married.  Even if he doesn't SO WHAT?  HE BULLIES YOU WITH HIS ANGER!  WHY?  BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO RESPECT YOU AND YOUR DECISIONS!  And if you ever decide against him, after he angrily has made his wishes clear.  HE WILL HIT YOU!!!  Likely after you are married. \n\nHas his mother ever hit him?  Has his father ever hit his mother?  Yes to any of these questions mean HE WILL HIT YOU IF YOU GIVE HIM THE OPPORTUNITY BY MARRYING HIM!  Don't give him that opportunity.  \n\nHe doesn't trust you?  SO WHAT?  His trust MEANS NOTHING!  He's just deflecting the issue away from him because he's not man enough to stand up and face the fact that's he's a bully that scares and manipulates women with his anger. \n\nHe thinks you cheat on him?  THAT'S BECAUSE HE'S CHEATING ON YOU ALREADY!  Why?  Because he accuses you of the very thing HE'S doing!  That way he's off the hook in his warped little brain. \n\nLook he scares the shit out of you with his anger, and when you try to talk to him about YOUR feelings, he ATTACKS you by saying he doesn't trust you!  See?  He's just reflecting his own behavior back at you to keep from losing an argument.  Why?  BECAUSE HE DOESN'T CARE AT ALL ABOUT YOU!\n\nNow, the same logic applies when he brings up out of the clear blue sky, that you're cheating on him!  Its a pre-emptive move to avoid any question of HIS behavior.  Next time he says you're cheating on him tell him this; "You are only saying that because you are cheating on me."  THEN LISTEN TO HIM RANT AND RAVE!  He'll try every trick in the book to get you to admit you're cheating on him, rather than merely say something loving like, "No I'm not sweetie, how can I prove it to you?"  Why?  BECAUSE HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU.\n\nThe good news is that you can meet someone else that doesn't scare you and can create a wonderful safe, loving home with you.  And you need to dump this loser and go for it.  \n\nWhat did he do to deserve being lied to?  He scared the shit out of you, and you deserve better - he got what he deserved, why are you even talking to him?  \n\nWhy do you have to hurt him?  You didn't do a damned thing to hurt him, you have to get away from him to avoid being hurt yourself.  If he thinks you've hurt him, he's crazy and needs to stay away from you - and from all women, until he gets help.\n\nIt seems you have a few problems of your own dear.  You seem to be confu
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The scorn that 'The Pilot' has just poured out on you in unjustified.  Your husband made marriage vows, you have needs, if he were in your shoes he would probably have done something about the situation long ago.  I think you need to take a complete break from routine, say go to a hotel, order in dinner, and talk to each other.  Remind him of the times he chased you around, tell him how lonely you are, how hurt you feel, how you need more than the nothing you are being given.  With his health problems, I'd be bothering my wife as if every day were my last!\nYou deserve to be loved, more than the love for a piece of furniture, which is all he is showing you.  He loves having you around, wouldn't know what to do without you, etc.  It's very difficult to think of leaving someone you have so much history with, and who is in poor health, but DON'T let guilt keep you unfulfilled.\nTALK!
587877
well looks like you have found your husbands true colours...  you know what to do!!He's scared you will find out more i think.. he using the money thing as a blackmail to stop you from digging deeper!!
1042710
Maybe he freaked out because he's not emotionally attached to you.  And you are bringing the emotional equation into the "casual sex" relationship.  He clearly doesn't want to be emotionally attached to you, because you are simply the "sex" he's not getting at home.\n\nHe will never leave his wife.  \n\nWhat are you doing?  What would your husband say?\n\nRelationships are not kleenex, you don't toss them out when things get soggy.  There are real emotions and people involved here.  How can you lie to your husband every day that you keep this secret from him.\n\nLike it or not.  He's pulling away because of the "emotional" attachment you are bringing to the "sex only" relationship.\n\nHe has a relationship, and that's at home.  He only wants sex from you.  As long as you give it, he will take it.\n\nAnd that's a Man, in a nutshell.