how  many years do a relationship last?? does it last long??
340738
it all depends on how much and how hard both people want it and are willing to work at it
129984
Sorry to hear that. Let me tell you my friend's story. She started seeing her boyfriend when she was 17. And later his boyfriend went to UK to study. And now, after 6 years, they are still going strong.  They still talk to each other on the phone everyday. \n\nSo, just believe in it and things may work out somehow!\n\nWish you and your girfriend the very best!
156328
True Love Last Forever...\n\nFights can result in something deadly...\n\nThere is such a thing as love at first sight...\n\nTrust Yourself...
494750
As long as two adults find a common ground, relationships work. My BF is 20 years older (I'm 27) and I can't imagine my life without him.  We are on the same level in so many ways - maturity, goals, opinion, etc. Like any relationship, it comes down to a balance of give & take, acceptance, and respecting each other. I love him for so many reasons - he is genuine; he's not out to find the next party or club, stay out all night with friends or worry about how fast he can get his car to go. I believe people come into our lives for a reason, and we learn and grow from them. Being in love is the greatest feeling in the world and age shouldn't stop anyone from experienceing it.
824852
Good on ya mate!  I love to hear that there are some long term relationships out there.  I've got 26 years in mine and there have been some tough times....and it looks like more on the horizon.  But I am optimistic.  We've made it this far.......I'm sure we can handle this storm like we have all the others.
395612
Well I was in a relationship  for about 9 years, 5 of them married and I can tell you that being a long time with your couple doesn't mean that your are going to be forever with that person, because when you loose important things in your relationship such as the real meaning of love without conditions and the trust that is so important to have with your couple, you better go for professional help, that is if you really love that person and you want the relationship to keep going. But if the situation has reached the boiling point, well for your own good brake it.
622339
It doesnt always end in marriage, no. For example, my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years almost. We love each other deeply, and we have a child together. Although we believe thwat we will be together for the rest of our lives, he doesnt believe in marriage, so it wont go that way for us.... and no, I dont think that true love does break; it may evolve, alter or even fade with the years, but they will always be your true love.
674707
That is such a personal thing.  I don't know that there is any one right time frame for that.  I knew 6 months into my relationship that I was going to get married, but I know some relationships that last for years and years and the couple is't ready to commit.  This is really something to decide for yourself.
996168
I have been in a relationship with my partner since September of 1994.  We broke up a few times in the early years.  The longest period of time was for 6 months.  But we always get back together.  It isn't perfect.  He does not have an affectionate or romantic bone is his body, and I really need affection and romance sometimes.  But I'm not perfect either.  I get moody and depressed quite a bit.  So we just accept each other for who we are.  The big secret to a relationship is compromise.  \n\nNow to answer each of your questions:\n\nWhat are you as a gay man looking for in a life partner?  A best friend.\n\nWhat age range?  A maximum 8 year age difference.  If I was single, I would not date anyone younger than 22 or older than 38.\n\nAre looks more important than what is in the heart?  If so, why?  There has to be a physical attraction there, but looks are not what keeps a relationship going.\n\nIf his heart is more important they why?  There is nothing you can ever do to stop age, but love can stay eternally young.\n\nDo you really want a life long partner?  If so, why or why not?  I have been blessed with a wonderful life partner.  People are not meant to be alone.  Life needs to be shared with someone you love.
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I think you guys will last for a good little while. I mean everything seems to be going well between you two. All you have to do is find time to go out with him. Ya'll needs to go a have fun,enjoy ya'll time together while ya'll still have time.But besides that everything sounds good and yes I think ya'll should last for a while....
239134
it actually depends on both of you! Always put into thinking that you must understand each other... You both have your differences, and as time goes by... you will continue to discover a lot about him, his atitudes (maybe good or bad)... and at times you will also have tough times together.  but it's your love and trust to each other who will make your relationship work and last.  take myself as an example... i'm into this relationship for almost six years (goin six this april), it's both our first.... we started when we're only 18.... and i myself have been afraid at first... but as time goes by....i continue to learn what love really is.... truly, LOVE is a word that cannot be explained.\n\nGoodluck!
866473
it can last, my best friends grandparents have 12 years difference.  It can work, they've been together for 45 years! \nAs long as he's looking for the same thing you are, thats where the most compromise is going to have to go to with age difference.
599764
I would have arranged to meet my current wife(my 3rd) when I met my first wife. Then she would have had my children. First wife lasted 6 years, current wife has been with me for 27 and still going strong. It took me three tries to find true caring and love.(Oh yes, #2 lasted for three months!)
760956
It hits you when you least expect it.  Then, after 1 1/2 to 2 years that "in love feeling" subsides and then the relationship takes work, communication and discipline to survive.  If you both put work into it, you'll become closer and love each other more and more.  If you think you'll just be in love forever no matter what, you're in for a rude awakening.  This is why some people marry someone different about every 5 years because they "just fell out of love with them."  Anyone who tells you differently has never been married for longer than 7 years.
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Heterosexual relationships that last a lifetime often see the role of physical sex diminish over time anyway.  Lifelong relationships last more because the two people do a nice job of working to grow closer in all ways.\n\nIn the end, people want to be with someone who they like spending their time with and who helps them grow and feel more complete.\n\nSo to answer your question, it might be difficult for any relationship to last a lifetime in today's society - but homosexual relationships stand just as much of a chance as do heterosexual ones.
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Back at ya,, A woman and man reagrdless of age,, WILL last if the "bond" is made,, regardless of age,, I have seen 70 yr old women who are incredibly hot and sensual,, as well as sexxy. I also know from "exeperience, that relationships in the right context,, regardless of age,, will last...\n\noxoxo Tom
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I was married when I was 16 and he was 18.  That was 21 years ago.  We are even happier and more in love now than when we were married.  We are each others best friend and ALWAYS make time for the other no matter what.  Communication is definately a must. You can't expect the other to know what is on your mind.  Neither of you are mind readers. ALWAYS respect each other.  Our rule is whoever gets whatever whenever.  Sometimes you need to just spice things up.  It has worked well even with having five kids from 17 down to 4 year old twins!  To really make sure it will last forever...add God and it will!