what are some of the most important qualities a military wife must have?
355799
I am in IRAQ as i write this.I have seen my family and girlfriend 10 days since january 22 2005.I had the option of taking leave while being here but chose not to for the fact i didn't want to go through the goodbyes again.My girlfriend hates me being here but fully supports me by being there for me.I talk to her weekly on the phone and chat just about everyday on the computer.She has sent me numerous packages with "stuff" i cannot buy here.The problem i have with her is she refuses to go out at all during my absence. I told her this is not good and it only makes the waiting worse.There is nothing wrong with going out with her friends and family(she does go to her childrens house).Of course she does worry and tells me she sometimes cries herself to sleep.\n I believe the worst thing a wife or significant other can do is burden her man with menial or trivial problems that can be solved with a little time and thought.I assure you if the man had the choice he would rather be home watching his family and dealing with day to day issues.\n I have seen grown men "freak out" because of the minor problems being repeated to them from thier wives or girlfriend.During times like these maturing comes fast and hard for both people.The ones left home alone to do EVERYTHING around the house has to make all the decisions and then get used to the man coming home and trying to readjust to helping out again. The readjusting is the hardest part of coming home.now once again you must learn to accept that things will not always be done the way you have become acustomed.Just because your man is not away anymore doesn`t mean things get easier.Supporting him and he supporting you once back in the states is vital to every relationship.
824207
security,respect, lots of love and care.. honesty... the list would go on........... and thats only if its a long term relationship.
98207
Nothing in life is a guarantee. However their are certain qualities that true wives have in general. Honesty, patience, love, understanding and the knowledge to know when shes being used. That last may take time to learn . Also she must be abele to recognize a good man.  A good msan is not insecure but satisfied with himself and thus will accept and respect and love a wife. By the way. dont leave,out respect. Good luck
899911
It takes a lot of guts and independence to be the wife of a Seabee.  It has been said that the hardest job in the seabee's is the wife's.  I should know, because my wife was a seabee wife.  She raised 3 children practically by herself.  She took the role of Mother, Father, housekeeper, tutor, Dr. Mom, banker, handyman, etc...  At my retirement she was awarded a Certificate of Appreciation signed by Bill Clinton himself.  It takes guts to be a military wife.
650302
Honesty, sincerity, ambition ... above average libido, intelligence and a great sense of humour ... good lookin' with a great "bod" ... fairly well grounded i.e. spiritually and family upbringing. Not in any special order!\n\nA fair question would be ... have I found her yet??? eh!?!?
335917
1- Honest and frank. We should tell each other about everything, there are no secrets in marriage. If she hid something and I knew it from another source, she would look dishonest in my eyes.\n2- Religious\n3- Pretty (not to let me look at other women :D)\n4- Open minded\n5- Energetic, I want her to keep me moving\n6- Creative, NEW IDEAS
399675
For me, there has to be four elements:\n\n1. Personality: She needs to have an infectious personlity that meshes with me hand-in-glove.\n2. Attitude: Both a positive attitude about life, and a little bit of an edge to her.....takes risks every once in a while.\n3. Intelligence: She needs to be conversant on a wide range of topics...no Valley Girls need apply.\n4. Appearance: There just has to be a physical chemistry working. \n\nMany women have 1 or 2 - - a few have 3 - - but it it RARE to find a 4-tool woman....
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BEAUTIFUL\nCARING\nATTRACTIVE\nGOOD PERSONALITY\nGOOD COMMUNICATION SKILL\nGOOD FIGURE\nINTELLIGENT\nAGGRESSIVE ON BED\nKNOW THE MEANING OF LOVE\nWHO RESPECT MY FAMILY
778252
simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
835728
OK here's my list:\n1. loyal\n2. trustworthy\n3. caring\n4. humorous (at least he/she should not bore you)\n5. acceptable (should gel well with your family and friends)\n6. shares some common interests.\n\ndon't go for physical beauty, d person should be beautiful from inside. \nall the best for your love life !
1101415
Looking for confidence, self-assurance, self worth...those are all things I look for in a woman.\n\nShe does not have to be the prettiest woman in the room, having equal intelligence, looks, and self-confidence are important issues too.
1173428
treat her with respect and good communication is the key to a good relationship. trust and honesty should also be there.
283800
Reliability, trust worthiness, honesty, perkiness,\na slight sense of humor, willingness, some kind of innocence, respect, commitment,independence from family regardless of how much she loves her family- that is a girl should make her own decisions, not let family make them for her. And various other things.
997085
I don't think there's one trait that's more important than another.  If, for example, honesty is important and kindness or a good heart is important, how do you choose. It's never just one thing... it's the package you want when you choose a wife.
1120982
1.LOVE\n2.Self made man\n3.Heart of Gold\n4.Sense of Humor\n5.Lastly be a friend/confidante then husband
494231
I heard once that the toughest job in the military is military spouse.  I agree.  They aren't on the payroll, but the military spouses go through a great deal while their loved ones are in combat.
291400
Honesty,frienship,loyalty,mature,open minded and looks.