I want to know if I really have a problem or I am just acting like it?
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hi im not a big expert, and i dont know u, but as far as i understand u feeling this way is quite normal. no offence but i ges its normal for women to go throu this. i know loads of them who sunddly get in to this phase... so dont worry about it too much ok, its not a big problem its just a part of growing up. u sound pretty smart so i ges u will do the correct thing. stick to your studies. u said that u have never met him ! i dont think its really possible to love someone without really knowing that person. but i wont get in to that cos its cool. All i will say is the way u feel is quit normal so dont worry about it. its all about growing up so just take your time and enjoy it ok, it will pass, and please continu your studies trust me u will never regret it. hpoe things work out take care god bless.
40760
im not so sure cause i think i have the same problem with myself. i still in the mist  of trying to convince myself that i am beutiful. i think that our, or your fist step would be to think of something that you dont like about yourself and say you do, maybe you can convince yourself!!!!!!! i hope i help and thx for the 2:)
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I am Bipolar and let me just tell you, the last thing a person who has this disorder wants to hear is criticism for having it. \n\nYou may not have the intention of criticizing your friend you may just be concerned. I know when people say things like that to me my first thought and first reaction is self- defense.\n" I hear you are imperfect for something you didn't ask for and are struggling to change but I won't be sensitive to this situation I will instead make you feel bad about it until you change."\n\nIf you feel the need to say something I suggest saying something like " friend are how are you moods, do you still feel this , I don't know much but I think you should talk to your doctor about still feeling this and that.... Bcus i want to help you and I am starting to worry.\n\nLength of time someone has been medicated is also a problem it's takes about a couple of months before the medications are doing what they are supposed to being doing. And even still there is the chance that they are having leaking symptoms. \n\nLol i wrote a lot but i guess my whole deal was if you feel the need to say something. Choose your words wisely
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Well, that simply depends on the kind of situation you are into.\n\nIf it`s concerned about you personally, or believe it will be in the future, then you can express yourself  and interfere when necessary.\n\nWhereas, if it`s something you`re not sure of yourself or has nothing to do personally or any reason of the sort, I suggest that you......back off!!!  \n\nCuz situational problems are sure to arise.....\n\nIt`s basically as simple as that!
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It doesn't mean that you are a complainer when you tell someone you are not well (unless you overdue it ). Now to the question..I only say something to someone when I know I need help. If you keep it to yourself how will anyone know? I mean that if you can tell someone and they have an answer look what you would be missing. Make sure you don't tell just anyone though and be careful how often you do. Then it might be taken as complaining.
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It is completely natural to think things like this. I am more concerned with why it bothers you so much. And if you are so afraid about acting out your thought, have you had any other thoughts that you have acted out and regretted? If so you need help from someone other than YAHOO.
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You should confront him about it. If he says there's nothing wrong, tell him to stop acting like it.
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It would be better if you take life as it is. This had happened to me : I would always feel that somebody is always watching me and I got to behave nicely always. But the truth is that, its my own self-thinking. I had wondered always what would others think about me... But have come to know now that world is like this and we got to go forward whatever we meet.\n\nI think you are worried about everything. Try thinking over what makes you worried. Try to stop gradually the activites which makes you worried. If necessary, you may go to a psychiatrist. There is really nothing wrong in going to such a doctor. I know by experience that its better to approach such doctors when needed. \n\n\nAfter everything, I will pray for you.
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For some reason I feel like I'm doing something wrong, when I'm really not. It's their fault, not mine, especially if I tell them that I'm taken and they keep flirting. Then I feel like I should tell my guy, but I'd rather not start a fight, so now I feel like I'm hiding something. And that's not a good feeling. So usually I end up telling him. It makes ME look bad when someone flirts with me and I'm already taken.
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I am trying hard to see where the problem is here.
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is good when you have problems
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If the problem is so bad, that it is interfering\nwith your ability to have a normal life and you are\nseriously worried,friends mention it, get help.\n\nYou are probably anxious(nervous).  That is the most \ncommon causes of it. The nuerons in the brain can\nfire so quickly, when your nervous, that the words\ncoming out of your mouth is the same thing that happens when we type too fast....TYPOs\n\nIt's basicly the same thing.  However, it's possible you may have add or ahdd.  If you think you might\nhave trouble concentrating or you can't remain still\nfor long periods of time, then consider this.\n\nMake an appointment with a psychiatrist.  Not a psychologist first.\nIf you go to a psychologist first, they will give you a name of a psychiatrist to see because legally\nthey cannot make that diagnosis.\nAfter the psychiatrist has made his diagnosis of what is causing your personal problem, he will tell you where you need to go for help.\n\nLike I said earlier, it's probably tension but if not and it is really upsetting your world, then get help.  My best wishes AND DON'T WORRY!!! You'll be\nfine.
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I dont think that you sould be worried about waht you are putting, on as much as the attitude you have toward other people.  More is expected of you as a sophmore and you should meet those expectations.
18429
Seems like you've got bigger issues than that. \nGood luck ;)
510637
hmmm....i think you shud join my group.... y! Answers anonymous, you have taken the first step which is to admit you have a problem...
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If this is the biggest problem you've got going, then you have it pretty good. \n\nJust be pleasant and polite to all your friends, and they will return your kindness.
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you are being too hard onyourself.  You need to work on you.  Take a walk and try to just enjoy the day without worrying about what others are thinking all the time.  Try volunteering your time to help other.  Nothing will give you a perception that your problems are so bad when you see what other people go through.