how do you find a woman thats not after to paycheck or you med benifits?
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You find a female that is employed.  One that is able to stand on her own two feet, that doesn't need you financially.  There aren't many of us out there, ones that strive to make the best of ourselves and want to be self-sufficient, but we are out there.
672980
Turn off your computer and  go volunteer at a homeless  shelter, or a food bank,  or the animal shelter.   You'll find  a caring gal out  there volunteering with you.
919132
You look through yellow pages for escort services.....or drove by some "nice" neighborhood and let her come to your car window...\n20 bucks will do...
46829
y would you want a woman to pay for dates?  Don't you know that their are woman out there that have had their share of paying for dates without putting out.  I've dated guys who I felt sorry for and would do that.  sorry, but I think it is 5050.  Not just the girls.  I don't believe a guy should have to pay all the time either.  Express to that person that you would want to go 5050 or duche.
440741
Then go place a personal ad to find women.  This isn't for that purpose, if you read Yahoo!'s Answers Terms of Service.  \n\nhttp://www.match.com
888569
I don't know what state you live in now, but there are probably scores of women of all kinds living there, including those with the specific assets you seek. Why not seek them out there, rather than move away?
362502
talk to your caseworker. Talk to womens assistance groups in your area like a battered womens shelter.
60052
Find other women in personals possibly or try pheromones that will attract women. Good luck! And have fun!
672375
Find a rich girlfriend.
957959
If all you're looking for is some "a**" then perhaps that is why you have a problem finding someone.Most people prefer not to think of themselves as just a lay.I would suggest trying for more then just sex.But if sex is all you care about then there is always the option of checking to see if you have enough money to pay for some.
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Try linking up with your local women's feminine health clinics. They are private and state funded to provide feminine health care to those on limited incomes or who need to keep their feminine health secret from spouses, insurance co, family etc. There are some income guidelines, but they have the ability to set up credit friendly payment plans.\n\nTheir main goal is to keep women healthy and pain free and should be sympathetic to your cause. Be advised that hysterectomies arent a total cure all for endo. They could discuss some of the other options with you as well. Good luck
56921
There are alot of good women left out there, you just have to take the time to find her she may be right under your noise but most men would pass her by good luck with your search
354421
buddy the last thing you want is for your woman to want you only for your money. look if she goes with the other chap well consider yourself saved. its hard but welcome to the real world. life goes on! cheers. there will be other women believe me.
599292
Stay out of the bars when looking for quality women OR lower your expectations. There are surely good women in your area you just aren't meeting the right ones because you're looking in the wrong places or you just expect too much out of them. Good luck hunting!!
1170568
Join the club. I am also looking for that one to spend the rest of my life with too. \nI am single woman 31, 5'9, 150.
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Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!
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It all depends on how mature they are, and if they are materialistic. Overall, women love attention and they are all different in what they like in a guy. If you find a real woman, one who isn't all about your bank account, car you drive, home you live in etc., then make sure you are attentive to them. Make them feel special, but you don't have to do this, and is a huge mistake by doing so, by flashing money or bragging about your job, or johnson. Be real, be yourself and show her how much you care about her. The little things you do for her and compliments will make her feel special to you. If she is only impressed by how much it cost for you to impress her, then move on. You'll be asking for trouble in the long run. Not all, but way too many women who think they're beautiful, hot and have a smoking body think that's all they need to bring to a relationship. They may as well go into prostitution, because in a sense, that's what they are doing. They want to get paid! Do yourself a huge favor and find and real woman and then you'll see what its like to be in love, plus you'll save yourself loads of cash. I have learned through the years, that if a woman cannot be happy enjoying your time together, getting to know each other and see where things go is very short-term. I've thrown money at women, given them gifts, taken them on vacations etc. They don't appreciate it and if they feel your money is running low, they'll just dump you and move on to the next. For me, they will not get these things from me, unless we've established a relationship and I feel that she is sincere, loving and cares about us as a couple. Don't get me wrong, I pay for the dates when we first get together, but if by the third date, she hasn't offered to take me out, then it shows me that she expects me to spoil her, but is not willing to reciprocate and I'm out of there. Just my point of view as well as my experience here in Los Angeles. They are hard to find, but worth the time and effort when you do find a woman this special.