Should you agree to a second date if there was no real chemistry on the first one?
355466
Chemistry doesn't need a second chance!\nIf there is no spark now there won't be one later either.\nBesides, there are just too many guys out there that you will have a connection with to waste your time on someone who just doesn't do it for you!
182811
Absolutely! If there's a spark, what's the harm in dating. I mean, it's nice to know the person isn't a psycho, but assuming they didn't appear to be when you met them, going out after that would be fine. Attraction is key in the long run so if it starts out that way, it at least has potential.
921028
I don't know that there's much you can DO except be disappointed and tell him that you are. What did he say he had to do instead(if anything?) Does he make a habit of this or was this your first date? Did he seem to like being with you during the 2 hours or did he seem to be in a hurry to be elsewhere? These are questions you have to ask yourself or him. Personally, if somebody makes a promise to me it's a BIG black mark against them if they don't keep it without  a good excuse!
1309
This is more of a case-by-case situation. With the understanding that both people are very passionate, the whole relationship could boil down to a competition of expression; one might try to outdue the other in showing how much they care. Depending on the people, this could come out very well, but at the same time, it could end in catastrophe. Another way it could end up going is that one of the two may feel too clouded in the other's show of passion, and feel like they need a break... thus possibly bringing the whole thing to an end. Not a common occurance, but it happens. The last thing i will mention is the more common of the 3, and by far, the best. The two people keep their display of passion limited to a certain amount. this assures that noone will feel drown out, and at the same time, neither of the two feels neglected by the other. I'm not talking about only saying "i love you" every 3rd wednesday or anything, those little things are ok to do whenever, but bigger things like dinner dates, trips to the movies, roses and yes, even sex, should be "rationed" to make sure you don't burn your candle down too fast and feel that there is nothing more really for you. \n\nIt is possible for any of these to happen, and with some variance, but once again, it all boils down to the types of people involved. Their other traits in their personality and their past will influence which path will occur.\n\n(i love your questions btw, give me more to answer, lol)
712783
A kiss on the check is a good idea if the date went well. If not you don't sense both of you had fun, better skip the kiss all together.
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
443717
You don't have enough of a relationship to have "chemistry" yet. Get together in person and then we'll talk.
1177667
I have found that sex on the first date means you will most likely NOT have a second date with that person. Sometimes it happens that a relationship continues after sex on that first date, but that is a very rare occurrence indeed. It's better to wait.
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
199961
Start off with, "hi" and let it go from there.  You can't force chemistry, you either got it or don't got it. If you don't have it, then you have to think to yourself, "he's not good enough for me cause he can't even talk to me." If he can't talk to you and he doesn't have anything in common with you, then he must be boring.
53697
You can start talking, yes. The first night might be problematic since you are both tired and it's hard to keep the performance. For that reason it might be better to do it the second night, when the pressure is less. But, that is just a general guideline. If you are both feeling it, go ahead. You will probably know what to do, to go ahead or to postpone. Just trust your instincts, and the most important thing, as strange as it may sound, simply try to relax. In a relaxed state you are more likely to reach a good decision, whichever it may be.\nHope that helps
1065276
A simple " I had a great time, we should do this again, I'll call you " is very acceptable for a first date. However don't wait a week to call her, by then she thinks you probably weren't interested and just being nice. If you say your going to call her a 2-3 day window is not pushy yet still showing you are interested.
703791
At 2 years clean and sober, you most likely have the support in your life to maturely enter the harsh and horrid dating scene. I know, I too am in your predicament. I just go slowly and safely. I no longer have sex on the first date. The second date is up for grabs. Sex and love are 2 different things. Sometimes one needs some sportf**k**g.
67264
If the date went real well, a kiss on the lips would be acceptable.  But no lingering kisses.  Just one good one.
992750
See if the next date goes as plans.\nIf the sitter is a no show and she cancels, then I would say she is not sure how to tell you she is not interested.\nDon't be offended by the hand shake she might just be a lil nervous, so if you should go out on the second date, you get close to her when you walk her to the door, lean into her body just a tad if she moves towards you a lil that is your signal go for the kiss.\nJust be happy she is not easy, some women like to play hard to get just to see if your really interested in her.  I know women can and are a bit confussing :)
35602
I think a great date is a common interest among two people that best allows them to get to know each other. ANything competitive aloows a little spice, but even something as simple as a walk in the park eating sundaes can be just as spicey, do what comes natural, what best expresses who you are and your likes, the rest will come naturally.
825852
It's a good idea on the first date - that way no one has any right to expectations of "tit for tat", so to speak.\n\nIf the first date goes well, I've always taken turns.  That sends a clear signal that you're on equal footing financially but want to continue seeing each other just because you like each other.  If you can't afford the same type of restaurant, pick something in your price range when it's your turn - or eat in.  Nothing beats a home-cooked meal for ambiance!