how can a man look at another man and want him?
338140
Some men don't find women attractive and would prefer the hard buttocks and chest of a man. They love their own body and lust after it too.
979354
You can't, unless you confront the first guy directly.  Are you speaking to either of these guys in a manner other than the internet?  If not, that's probably all they're both interested in.  \n\nBefore you get involved with either one of these guys or anyone else for that matter, make sure you TALK to them first.  Don't fall for anyone until you've had a chance to meet them in person.  You can say anything you want in an email, but once you meet them in person, you'll find someone completely different.  Talking on the internet also gives the person a chance to re-read anything that they might say, so if it comes off creepy, they can take it back and make it sound romantic.  You can't do that face to face.  Be careful.
491403
just tell him when you look at these guys they have his face on them
701512
let him know ur interested.u better talk 1st b 4 some1 else gets ur man.holla.
467095
Well I am only speaking for myself, but if I see a man that I find attractive, I catch myself staring, no passing glances here.  I love looking at beautiful men...not glancing!!!
36286
Yes, there are men out there that want the same thing as you, the only bad thing is finding them.  Just from the description you gave of yourself I like you (not like that though) because it's what's on the inside that makes you beautiful or ugly.  I've seen some REALLY beautiful women as far as looks but thought they were ugly because of their 'I'm better than you' attitude.  So just give it time and eventually (even though it may be hard to wait) you'll find your special someone...
105984
Stop looking. The man you want will show interest in you first.
1055044
Well its quick,e-z, and they both want the same things. So there's not problem. You don't have to be in a relationship to get what you want. So can see him with someone else and you just wont care.
121132
flirt with another guy in front of him and then look at his attitude towards that.\nthen you will know.
1118520
The same can be asked of a woman, why can't they keep there eye on just one man?...Try putting the shoe on the other foot! If God didn't want us...(meaning both man and woman)...Didn't want us to see the beauty that he created...then he'd never gave us eye's to see with!   If I were a betting man...I'd bet he's caught you looking...a few more times...than he'd liked you to have looked...at other men...!
197569
this is tough. sometimes, when yuo see love around you, you seek to feel the way others do. to find that one special person and share your life with them. they say that there is a soulmate for every person in the world but sometimes they dont find each other in there lives. You can be patient and wait for your guy to come around for you, but he may be waiting for you.
147228
Don't do it. Unless you like being a puppet. Obviously you look so much better on this other guys arm.   Sometimes a man has to lose a good thing, before he realizes what he had.  I am afraid that if you return to him, he won't take that as a love gesture, but as a sign of weakness.
83186
just give your self things to do to let time go by so that you want half to think about this person. after you do that you should be able to look at other people and know that there is someone else out there for you..\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
476438
look really lusty straight into his eyes. make sure he knows you own him. then, move in closer and closer. proceeed to fucking haha.
483161
you cant.. but you can flirt look sexy bump up against him from time to time.. make eye contact.. let him see you in a different light..instead of one of the guys
249910
the only way is to look into each others eyes and ask him yourself.
1043789
if she looks in his direction.  doesn't even really have to make eye contact.  if a woman looks in the general vicinity of a man, she wants him.  there's no doubt.