i am in love with a guy who is married its been 1 yr i dont know if he still wants me?
351579
Just get on wiv ur life and find a new guy and maybe you'll find that you will be happier.
832061
yes it seems as though you are rushing a bit! just because you fooled around doesn't mean you are prepared to get married. and is he saying he wants to marry you to get into your pants? i would wait awhile before you make the commitment, because it sounds like it would be a failed marriage! wait atleast a year!
226402
Its hard to know for sure but one thing you definitely need is time. Don't rush into anything.  After a while, if you can't see your life without them, and you want them and only them then he's the one.
1047371
A marriage is two people not just one yearning for things to be diffrent..Sounds to me like your husband is a creep ..I was married to one of those a long time ago.........But I found my love 10 years ago and married him 7 yrs ago.....We are  both older and all our kids are in their 20's early 30's and we love each other very much.....Yes marriage is supposed to be more than just two people under the roof it is a commitment to each other and if both aren't commited then you don't have anything...Staying together because of the child is not doing you any good ...Leave him see what happens.....Like the saying goes...You don't know what you had til its gone..When real love comes along you will know it
581299
The fact that you are even thinking of this guy doesn't speak very highly of your feelings for your husband.  If something is meant to be, then it will be.  Maybe that guy was supposed to be "the one", maybe not.  But since it didn't work out when you had the chance, I'm leaning more towards "NOT."  Please put him out of your mind and focus all your love and attention on the man you married.
608285
If you cant realize what he might be thinking/feeling...\nJust read what typed.  Give the guy a break.  Would you call someone 4 times a day, if you didnt like them??\nThink about it for just one minute.  He could be justa tad shy, + you're still married.
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
296419
Well, i wouldnt forget about him. I would stay close with him. Maybe just maybe if he is the right one for u and ur the right one for him he might divorse his wife and u both live happy for the rest of ur life. Ive seen this many of times and normally what u r felling is the sign that he is the one for u.
105188
Respect the thought tht he is married, never be involve with a married man they jst wanna try something different, like eating the same old thing everyday is boring, no matter what u will always never be hes no#1 priority he has a wife tht he will always love n of course his kids...why be in this situation when u hve to share someone.karma remember this u dun want it in return the nxt time..
361335
i guess you better let go that person, even though you love him/her because he/she is already married and from that fact, you can't do anything about it. i guess that person is already happy with his/her married life life and i think it's just right not to spoil such relationship. Love really hurts, especially in your case (or in your question) but the best thing to do is be happy for that person and wish him/her the best. Move on and after a while you also find the one that is really meant for you or the one that will give back your love. That would be nicer than being "the-would-be-third-party" right?
722890
I think part of you knows you are making a mistake.  If you didn't feel this way, you would want to share the good news with your family.  You wouldn't be worried about their reaction.  Slow down a little bit.  Get to know this guy better.  Finish school if you haven't already.  You have all the time in the world ahead of you.  One month is not enough time to get to know someone.  Marriage takes so much more than just the feeling of love.  Believe it or not, the infatuation you are feeling now will fade and when it does, you will find out if your love is deep enough to sustain  throughout life's challenges.  There's no way you can know that yet.
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
274796
You were married, there for it isn't odd that you would still have some fond feelings and good memories.  However I don't think you are in love with him.  I think you are probably just going through some bad stuff in your life and your latching on to some good memories and making more of them that what you should.  Remember, this same guy cheated and lied to you and nothing has changed.  You still deserve better in your life.
451772
go and meet him but you have to see carefully if he actually loves you or not.\nIf you actually feel that he loves you, marry again
564882
How much time has passed?  If he's not willing to commit, then he's probably not right for you if that's what you are ready for. You can hang on for years with him, or get on with your life and find someone who will really value you, and want to make that committment.
129685
This tells you what your life with him will be like IF you get married.  Now ask yourself, "Is this what I want?"  If not, then thank goodness that you two aren't married and move on.
529365
Here's a little trick. Picture yourself married to him, doing the things married couples do, meeting his friends and family, facing problems together, etc.. Do you like what you see? If not, give yourself some more time to know him better and do the mind excercise again. If you don't like it still, stop waisting your time and find another guy you can be comfortable with.