My fiance have been going out alot lately ( plz read details)?
340486
If the phone things bothers you, you need to ask him.  Don't make it a suspicious question.  Just tell him that your worried about him and you miss him.  Ask him to try and stay in touch better.  Don't take anything too seriously about him going out with friends unless you start to see obvious signs that something else is wrong.
785582
my boyfriend has done that to me alot recently maybe hes trying to make a point or something
922851
Maybe his family likes you and he doesnt want them to know what he's been doing to you. thinking that if he acts the part then the negative attention from you will die down and he can get on with business as usual. What you need is to prove to yourself that he has cheated on you. then you have a choice breaking up before or after each has it's own merrits. do it before and I think it might make you look heartless unless you can show good evidence. wait and do it after to look like you are kind and caring but as long before christmas as possible so that you give yourself some time to get back on your feet so to speak before the next holiday. good luck
228976
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
932901
I understand your love for your fiance as you gave him a second chance in hopes of savaging your relationship with him.  There are a few things to consider here:\n\nThe 1st is that he has not been entirely up front with you about his side relationship which most likely means that he doesn't really want you to find out because either he feels guilty about it or he feels that you would be upset by it or both.  \n\nSecondly, for most men, if they have cheated on your once, they will most likely do it again because it gives them pleasure to be with different women.  Clearly, if I may be blunt, he isn't entirely satisfied with you and you can be the most perfect woman in the world, but to him, the excitement is no longer there and he'll need to find other women to please himself.  \n\nThirdly, either you're easily fooled or he's really good about hiding his "other" relationship from you enough for you to not probe him for the longest time. If this is going to be your relationship with him down the road, you're going to be always on your feet worrying about when is the next time your fiance is going to have another woman that you don't know about.  Its a very tiring game...\n\nI know you love your fiance and he should be grateful to have such a forgiving woman by his side, but how many times are you prepared to forgive him?  How about let's turn the table around and say if you cheated on him?  Would he be as forgiving as you?   \n\nGive your relationship with him a few thoughts.  Maybe it might just work out, but its not going to be easy.
883969
Sounds like you're on the right track but the only thing you can do is to keep it up. Just keep being wonderful and eventually he will have to see that you are different than the rest. I am in a similar position, though I've only been with mine a matter of months and he is still not willing to let down his guard as much as I'd hope. But I know that it will take time and patience for me and it will for you too. Most importantly, don't betray him in any way. Just show him you are infinitely consistent, honest, and trustworthy.
916416
Stick with your fiance...in the end, he will prevail.  Long term relationships aren't easy and they require some work.  You can get the lust back into your relationship with your fiance, you just need to spice things up and talk to him.  You both need to talk to each other about trying new things, tell him what you want him to do and what you like...otherwise he'll never know he's not giving you what you need or want.  This guy may be a good bootycall but not worth losing love over.  You just want excitement and to feel your heart jumping again.  The best way I found to satisfy the thirst for those feelings, have your girls' night out and dance and flirt but don't let it get too far...score some free drinks and then go home and have hot wild monkey sex with your fiancee...lol.  But who I am to tell you how to live your life.  Do what you feel is best for you...follow your intuition.  Best of luck!
1013736
I assume you've started dating recently, because I only texted my bf back when we were starting out. It wasn't coz I didnt like him, but it's just the way I do things. Some people need more time to get used to others and are too shy to begin a convo with their partner. Maybe he's like that too. Just give him time. If you've been together for a long time and you feel he has changed you need to confront him.
756001
I think you really need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your "significant other" on this issue. This may be the time to sort things out before it is too late. She is used to visiting any time she likes and as you know, old habits die hard. You have to be patient and accommodating.
969396
Before you give up, maybe change up the routine in which you do things. Many people get so used to someone, and doing the same thing that they dont even notice the other person anymore. So try something new. If you have a specific night you go out, make it a different one. Go somewhere you have Never been before. Do you surprise eachother anymore? Try that. Have you gone anywhere on a trip recently? or just overnight to somewhere? Anything to change what you are used to. If after all that is said and done. Then you should have a talk about where the relationship is going, and see what you should do.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
139484
Take him somewhere privately and discuss about your relationship and ask him if he is. If he is let him freely go his way because obviously you are not his type but just in a friendly way, and if not let him know that he is doing things that are giving you the idea that he is and maybe he will change his ways.
481365
Take some time off from watching the show that this person is in. Believe it or not, this is really not uncommon. But it can get out of control. "Stocking"! Rethink your schedule, and add more out side activities with other people and get involved with a hobby or someone. Get this under controled as soon as possible. It's going to be alright, you have taken the first step which is being concerned that this might be a problem." Nip it in the bud"! NOW!!!
525915
Are u sure it's ur fiance.\nSounds like a 5 yr old baby to me\nTell him to grow up\nLotza Love\nNick
715320
Give him the time with his friends. Sometimes I need time away and just want to go out with my girls. But he should answer his phone when you call. Or at least check in with you.
1028622
well your on again- off again boyfriend seems to have personal issues to work out. my advice to you would to be GET OUT KNOW!!! this option is still good because you stated you have been seeing him for a few months. it seems he has a pattern and it will continue. who knows why these things keep coming up, maybe its another girl, maybe he likes to play games, or maybe bad luck. my main point is none of this is productive for you it just brings you stress, and probably causes you alot of sadness. explain to him how you feel, and remain friends with him. if sometime down the road he can get his life together maybe you can  rekindle what you use to have.
782246
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.