I am so shy to talk with a girl whom i love( further details posted below)?
336549
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
902852
Some of the greatest pleasures in life take time, your still young and have much to learn in that area and being shy doesn't help.   In time you will feel more confident with your self, right now just observe, very useful task.  You are right for some reason alot of girls like the bad boys, but remember they usually don't last, you want something lasting so just hang in there and I'm sure you will find a beautiful girl, the one you were waiting patiently for..you sound like a great catch.  Don't worry.  ;-)
727085
listen..\n\nlook carefully about her. don't feel shy. don't just look at her try to observe her. what she likes or not. what she wears, how she smile, how she walks, and what is her beauty?? if u find something then u can find something more in ur heart. then u can talk with her or something else...\n\ntake care
665240
The best way to end up talking with a shy girl is to go through her friends.  She is shy so she is probably a little insecure.  If she see's that her friends accept you, she will in turn accept you.  Get everyone into a good conversation and make sure you include her in it.  If you show that you want to know some stuff about her she will begin to open up.
923107
whoa! not trying to bash you but the age difference is probably the reason why you cant have a conversation. plus you need to be carefull talking to minors online and on the phone. Yea you may love her but dont go to jail for it! another thing is the fact that you may be too mature for her as far as the mindset.
685517
Just ask her.  She is probably jsut as shy as you are.
1057495
NO! I'm WAY too shy!!!!
144752
Ask yourself is the possibility of getting this girl worth the effort of overcoming your insecurities and shyness? Is holding her, seeing her smile, laugh, waking up to see her face in the morning worth putting for effort to change?  You're the only one that can actually do that, though here is a little advice that may help you in talking to her:\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Ask simple, friendly questions about the person. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nAs for the no being able to relate to others because you don't drink of dance... You're not the only one, a lot of people don't enjoy the bar and club scenes, you'll find others that feel the same way. If the people you want to hang out with do goto these places you can go with them everyonce in a while. You really don't need experience to be with friends at most of them.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful tod
919421
I'm not good with relationship stuff so I can't advice you on that.. It's always best to ask someone who's an expert because they can really point out how things should be done. I know you feel kind of shy to ask her (well, I've been there) because you're in love. But steel your heart and ask her to help you in your techniques. Furthermore, you're not doing anything wrong so don't feel afraid. And good techniques are born from practice, so practice alot.
230793
The more you talk to her, the easier it will get. Just try not to freak out, and you'll see it will get easier with time. You have nothing to worry about.
315699
build up your conferdence, and play it out . just practice how you want to start a conversation. she may be shy too.
185453
she isnt gonna say much cuz shes shy. u need to just ask her. she'll get nervous around u and try to get away if u talk to her like that. when the guy i like talks to me like that it makes me feel like an idiot and i always leave really quick cuz its embarrassing. just ask her. when ur talking. instead of saying dont be shy if u already are friends then ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
209163
Start with chit-chat.Then go out on a bunch of dates where you both are with a big group and when you feel you've made a strong emotional bond she is yours.\nTHIS IS FROM A SHY GIRL TO A SHY BOY.
1016042
Ok well I can definatly relate to you,  a shy, not the best looking person on the block, but interesting person in a not really talkative type way.  So I am NOT going to tell you to go for it right away.  I would say that you should probably start off real slow and not profess your love quite yet.  Well she's your friend right? So ask her if she would like to come over your house and watch a movie.  While you are watching, you could scoot a little closer to her but not say anything, or when you pass over popcorn or whatever you could let your hand brush across hers, and if she flinches when you touch her hand or moves farther away from you when you scoot nearer, then those are obvious signs that she is not into you.  Also, ask her other friends things about her like her favorite movie (for the occasion obviously) or her favorite foods and stuff like that.  If some of her other friends know that you like her, they could possibly help move your love along.  Also, like other people said in their answers before me, you should definatly become more confedent in youself. Girls like that in a guy, we don't like whiny guys who feel sorry for themselves. We want a guy that could beat some guy up if he molests us or somthing!!! hehe I'm not saying that you have to become Mr. Cool, just stop saying things like "i am rejected and disregarded by all". Because I am pretty sure thats not gonna work....Well thats all I have to say, I hope you take my advice. And if you don't....welll then...don't :) \n\ngood luck young grasshopper
594308
Like the name!! If you read the Kama Sutra I'd be all over you. \n\nWrite her a letter if you're afraid to tell her face-to-face. I've found that shy men are the most amazing lovers !!!
687679
well i was always she when talking to girls. i chated with a good friend alot on IM and got to know her and others. if you are really shy like i was. start off talking to someone you already know or chat with someone on the computer it is a lot easyer then in person.
608713
well it kinda depends on you because im like that sometimes, im very shy but the thing is when i IM him.. im myself cause ur not actually infront of him. but when u talk to him or call him, ders a difference cause u'd actually hear him and ull get really nervous. so yea its up to u. but if i were u, id start IMing him then once u get to know him more and more. i suggest ud talk to him later on since u know him more...