Why My Best Friend no longer wants to talk to me?
337340
Well, I think there has to be a good reason for this, a good explanation, maybe U did something she didn't like it, maybe she got a wrong idea about a comment U made, sometimes that happens, sometimes people just feel bad for something we've done or said, maybe U didn't do it by purpose, but she took it that way.\nIf she doesn't want to talk with U on the phone, maybe U could send her a letter telling her that U don't know what U did wrong, but U really miss her a lot and U wouldn't like her to be away from U because a missunderstood, so, tell her U need to know what U did wrong to fix it.\nU could also try to send her a note telling her that no matter what happened U're willing to accept U made a mistake and U really think she's your best friend and U don't want to lose her friendship, besides, if she considers U as her best friend too, she will be able to talk to U and she will try to fix the problem and to find a way to get over it.
1120194
Your best friend doesn't have to care as long as she is a good listerner. That is the main thing. Alot of times you just need to talk. If she is atleast listening....then that is really what you needed aways. Does she help you when you really need it. Can you call her anytime to just talk? Can she call you anytime to just talk. Is it just one sided. Are you there for her every-time she needs something? Does she ever need you and you don't help? Good friends will help you kill someone...Best friends will help you bury them..LOL (only joking) Really ask yourself why you are asking this question,,. It may be because this friendship is one sided. Or  it may be because she has other friends that you are jealous of. I know that doesn't sound good. But, hey it happens..I had what I thought was a best friend. She would help me with anything. Then she moved on...I was hurt and jealous. .She is still a friend. but, I found out she could only have one real best friend at a time..She moves on about every 4 years. She has been through about 6 now. We hardly ever see each other now days.  (Almost Forgotten)
60727
If someone is not your best friend anymore that means that either you or he/she or both have changed (assuming there is not a discussion that has made your relationship to grow apart).So if now you have different interests, or have that sharing time with other friends is more amusing, then try to feed those friendships. If you really feel like you still want this friend to be a very close friend, talk it out and see why youa re becoming distant from one the other. Sometimes friends dont keep in touch for a while, but usually they come back when they realize they feel comfortable around.
1040737
girl, if she thinks u ditch her, then spend some more time with each other. Also, she has gotten so protective over this friendship! That means she loves you as a best friend! But if it is really bothering you, then sit and talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen or care, then she is not a good friend.
1031445
There really isn't an answer as to why they stop talking to you. You probably told them something about you that they don't agree with or is against their beliefs and they've stopped talking to all of a sudden. You have to be careful of whom you trust. When it comes to making friends, they have to earn your trust and it takes a while. Don't trust them right away. Just be careful, get to know them and see what they're all about. It takes time and that's what it's all about. The next time you make some new friends, DO NOT TRUST THEM RIGHT AWAY. Let them gain your trust first and decide if they're worthy of your friendship. It'll all work out in the long run.
1026101
It's time to recognize when a friendship has ended...\n\nIf she has some problem with you, but refuses to discuss it, or to even talk to you, you need to forget about her... \n\nAnd don't worry about it too much.. friends growing apart like that is part of life... it's always a bit puzzling when it happens for the first time, but trust me, it won't be the last either...\n\nChances are, a couple of years from now, you'll look back and wonder what made you friends in the first place...and by that time, you'll have plenty of other friends..\n\nLife is too short to go through it worrying about why one particular person doesn't want to be friends with you (anymore).
425522
IM NOT FIRNEDS ANYMORE WITH MY USED TO BE BEST FRIEND\nIT BECAME TOO MUCH WE GREW APART
1165904
If he wont be your friend anymore because of that then leave him alone. Dont put yourself in that uncomfortable situation again.
485400
If you truly value your friendship with her let her go. She is changing and she needs to grow. Unfortunately it may not be in the same direction you are going right now. This happens to a lot of friendships as we get older and mature. She needs to do this for herself right now. Eventually she may come back to being her old self and realize what a wonderful friend she has in you. I went through this myself and for about 5 years was out of touch with 2 of my best friends from school. We are now better friends than we were back in school. Don't take any of this personally, it isn't about you, it is about your friend needing to go in a different direction right now. This is also your time to find other friends too. Don't do or say anything that could jeopardize the friendship you had with her. You both need some space and hopefully in time you will be able to get back what you had before, and it will be even better.
820857
wow you have a problem.  You are going to lose somebody.  If  you talk to your best freind,  Your sister is in big trouble and I'm sure you will be held responsible.  After all, she's not responsible enough to control her own life, its very likely she'll blame you.  If you say nothing and your Best friend finds out you knew,  you lost the Best friend.  I'd say you have to talk to the Best friend and let her know whats up.  She deserves to know so she doesn't make a decision that she will have to live with.
224238
She is changing, it has nothing to do with you. I know it hurts for her to just move on without giving you any reason for leaving... now is the time to concentrate on your needs and finding things to enjoy on your own! You'll meet new people and make lots of friends!\nLet her make her back to you, if she contacts you, be polite but not TOO friendly! If she thinks she doesn't have to put any effort into the friendship- she won't. She needs to work for your time as much as you have worked for hers. Right now she's putting that energy into other people, and they probably are enjoying her efforts. \nLet this time be of good use to you, it may be lonely at times, but you have us here at Answers, and there's a big world out there to explore.\nBe brave dear, and let her go for the moment.\n\nBest wishes! - J
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
227086
maybe you just need some time out from your friend, if they have been a good friend you should try and maintain that friendship... be careful about your decision in whether you no longer want the friendship, you could regret it later... like I said time out, you need a break, see how you feel then
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
195583
Sounds to me like a mixture of jealousy and being scared of losing her friend. The fact is that despite being your best friend, you have your own life to lead. Maybe you should sit her down and try and gently find out why she gets so bothered and reassure her that your friendship will always be there. Does she have boyfriends or has she been hurt in the past? Your success in love may be highlighting her own insecurities. Talking to her is definitely the best option. Good Luck.
888165
WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same
397035
just simply tell him that u dont think it is right anymore and u just wanna be friends and still talk? but tell him the reason is b/c u dont wanna hurt ur best friend?