me and my wife r separated she has some body else now i am seeing somebody now my wife wants me back and him?
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
952288
That guy is TOTALLY a rebound and after seeing what else is out there, she probably wants you back. Only small caution I'd say is that she could be using you as a "back up" because she wants to have you as an option just in case. \n\nMost likely, she just wants you back though and realizes that you are what she wants.
178994
depends on how i feel about my 1st wife after leaving her and remmarring another person and divorcing that other person.
215814
ahh sh*t thats hard man. I can't believe she has the nerve to ask you that. Its easy to say when its not happening to us. But if I was in your shoes I might be a little to pissed to even think about taking her back.
766848
She wanted to test the waters and now she's seen that what she had was better so she wants you back. You have to let her know that you aren't the "fall-back-on" guy. You have your own life and to be able to fully live that life, you need for her to leave you alone, you aren't interested.
406275
You should stay out of their marital problems until their divorce is final. She probably wants to distance herself from you because she has conflicting feelings. If your love were more selfless and less selfish, you might see this.
634376
first and foremost you need to sit and talk to your wife. you need to be very honest not only with yourself, but with her. you need to tell her how you feel and be sure to be very considerate and aware of her feelings about your new found life. its not fair for you to continue to put her off or lie to her. honesty is always the best policy. i'm sure that if the two of you cant work things out it will be easier to part ways because you were not only honest with her, but with yourself. good luck!
130066
well its really hard to get back the trust..be patient..just give her time to think..be sincere of all ur actions and all ur saying...... and assure not only to ur wife but also urself that u will not hurt her again
1150267
Why would you want to get back with your EX HUSBAND . there had to be a reason for the breakup in the first place . RIGHT? Sorry for being so blunt about that issue!
806251
Obviously there were some serious problems in your marriage.  Seeing as how she's now your ex-wife, you're asking this question a little late, and asking if of the wrong people.  You should've asked her.  If you have a good relationship with her, you might try to get it out of her one day, maybe she'll tell you what happened with her in your relationship.  If I were to bet on it, I'd bet you took her for granted, you stopped courting her.  She felt like you didn't care about her anymore, so she went out and found someone who does.  I'm not condoning her actions, because I firmly believe that marriage is a lifelong committment, and you fix the problems in the marriage, and divorce really isn't an option.  But obviously you weren't giving her what she needed in your relationship.  Sorry......You probably need to just move on with your life.
39203
think long and hard about why you two split up to begin with. if you feel like you have both changed and can make it work this time, give it a shot. \nare there children involved? if so be VERY careful not to get there hopes back up if things wont work out again.
783330
I personally think you have made a smart move and are taking responsibility for what is yours. I would NOT stay with or talk with the ex girlfriend. (why mess up what you are trying to recreate). I can understand why you were made at your wife, but she is your wife and more importantly the daughter is yours.
1148228
If your wife left you already, what are you waiting for? Don't miss out on what could be for what isn't. You don't have to tell your wife nothing about this lady you're interested in. You stated she left you. You can file divorce probably without grounds since you've been separated already. If you must tell your wife anything at this point in time, it could just simply be, we need to move on. Don't let life pass you by on this one.
413799
I really believe that you need to court each other again. I know it sounds silly but we're talking about the rest of your life here. In life sometimes we loose sight of how we got there. good luck!
306746
First figure out what feelings these are you have and how strong.Second imagine yourself without the person who at one time (and probably still do)you loved with all your heart,(loved enough to make her your wife). If imagining her gone and with another man doesn't bother you, then I'd say "its over",but if it does BOTHER you-Then stay away from whatevers tempting you,and focus on yourself and your wife.
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
281044
First you really should talk to your wife, tell her that you want out of the marriage. You shouldnt be with someone if you are married to another... After you and your wife seperate then you can think about the other woemn,.,