What does a woman of 37 wants from a man in bed?
347291
I am near there, and I say, love, caring, tenderness, cuddling, passion.  No more "wham, bam, thank-you mam" (unless it's just one of those "HOT" moments where neither of you can help yourself and you have to drop the grocery's, and do it right there on the kitchen floor.) Wow...sorry about that. My man is far, far away right now.
466183
It all depends on the type of men you are dating.  There are a lot of gentlemen out there who would dine you, take you dancing, to a movie and just talk for the fun of it.  Also, it doesnt have to end up in bed if you dont want it.\nYou hold the reins girl!
151418
She's got to be over 35, she has to have that special "used to be hot look."  This means that she must look like she was very hot when she was younger, but she must be starting to show her age, like for example be a little more busty than usual or have a healthy size butt, or have some wrinkles around the eyes.  Even slight stretch marks are OK.  \n\nIt's important to note that the whole attraction is that she is imperfect, amateurish, but definatlely hot.  A 37 year old that looks 28 is not a milf, a MILF looks her age or only slightly younger.  The whole attraction of the MILF is that she is visibly a little older, just past her prime, so she is more attainable.  MILFs do not have to have children but it adds to the milfy ambience. If she has a kid in their teens that's a really nice touch because it suggests the whole "my friend's hot mom" fantasy.
786538
woman want a man who understands and notices things. the little things like how your hair swirls when your runnig or the exact color of your eyes. they want also not a goopy guy they want some buffness and toughness and a guy who wont treat her differently aroubnd his friends.
287922
She wants control and someone to adore her.  Most likely, she has a history of dating men that have not respected her or just used her for sex.  She may want to hold on to her youth...is likely not mature.  Oh, there is always the chance you are a really mature male!  In bed, either she wants to teach you things and feel good about it, or she jsut wants you to adore her and be hooked on her sexual nature.
690542
Aww come on dude, a woman needs to feel loved (love not sex)I am always there for my wife, I talk to her, I listen, sometimes she only wants to talk out a problem and does not want me to provide the answer. I take my share of cleaning the house (I work full time to provide the best for her as well).\nShe says she feels warm and contented when with me. I spend as much time as possible with her.\n\nI know what you are worried about, if you get everything else right, then sex will never be a problem, for me it is awesome.
1170131
In my experiences, most women enjoy a little agressiveness in the bed. Try it once and if you like it, keep it up. Try anything at least once.
562965
Make it as romantic as possible.  Every guy in their thirties or so need to know that they are still sexy to their mate.  Make him feel like he's the world to you.  Buy yourself a sexy outfit that makes him say "WOW I'm w/ her!".  Pamper him and make him #1 for the day/night!  Hope you have the time of your lives!
1097142
some wants cunnilingus.. or thattongue in her you know wat..\n\nsome wants finger stimulation.
1097256
In every other aspect I like to be in control in the bedroom I like a man to come and take charge and make me follow his lead. In the bedroom I need to be "man handled".
381930
most of us want cuddling and alot of foreplay. but, sometimes we want hard and fast too. it depends on the mood, how much time we have etc.
257638
Men are differnt.... Men want to bed anything they find 'attractive'.\n\nWomen want to bed anything they feel emotionally connect to.  \n\nWhen the men are smart enough to learn that one, they'd get a whole lot luckier than they are now LOL  Good luck and 'hard work' to get there enough for us to sleep with guys like you :P
1171503
I am female and married, (48 and by the way most of us gals above 30 do not usually care much for questions about our age!)  It's like this, if you screw up and give me a senior discount, then I am ahead, and if you are smart enough to card me if I am buying a bottle of wine, you may get a nice warm smile (I would know the cashier was flirting with me)!\n\nI like attention but not too much, when I put on a dress and my "face" then I expect you to wear neat ironed clothing, (I may or may not help you with the ironing)...a mother does her son a favor when she teaches him to do his own laundry.  If he is doing laundry, then he can do mine too (if I am busy with other chores or work).\n\nWe have been married for (nearly) 10 years, and he opens doors for me, holds my seat at the dinner table, stands when I am getting up from the table, and now that both of us are semi-retired he pitches in and helps with the housework.  We are polite to each other, I try not to take him or his good manners for granted, in exchange for him being a gentleman, I do my best to be a lady!  When I ask him to do something I always say please, or if he does something for me, I remember to say "Thank you," and I praise him.  I usually cook and do the dishes, but when I begin to do the heavy housework, he will give me a hand. He knows I have asthma so he will run the vacuum or clean the oven for me (the oven cleaning is an extra special treat for me!).\n\nOur place is big enough for each of us to have our own space, but we often choose to do things together even when we are just relaxing around the house. He's kind to me, and we seldom disagree.  I was fortunate enough to find a true love, who cares about my feelings, and although we are not wealthy people, I consider our lives to be richer for the love we have in our home.\n\nDoes this sound sappy? Well, sorry...it's just the way we have always been with each other...Gentle with each other's feelings, and with each other. If one of us gets sick, the other is there to make life more comfortable. I really believe I am in this marriage for life, and I always hope that he is as happy as I am now and have been for the last 10 years!  (Actually the 10th anniversary is not until November), I am hoping we can have a gathering of some of our friends and family.  Even if we just have a nice romantic dinner at home, it will be a very special day for both of us...It means that 10 years ago, the two of us joined our hands and our hearts and took a leap of faith to give our lives to each other!  What could be more of a gift than having that love and security in our lives?   \n\nIf you are looking for a good relationship, you will find someone who will return all of the love and consideration you try to give to them. Being a gentleman is great, but if you have a woman who doesn't appreciate it, it may be a wasted effort.  A lot of women think that it has to be all about what the man does, but it's at least 50/50 if you want respect, you have to give it, and deserve it!  It can't just be all dependent on the man and his actions and attitudes!  I think a lot of women have lost their perspective, on what their own responsibilities in a relationship should be.  So for most men, my best advice is if you are going to put forth the effort to do all of the things a gentleman should do, then don't take any crap off of the woman!  If she insists on acting like a "b" word, then you may be wasting your time, if you put in your best, and she gives you nothing back, you should probably move on.  I have seen a lot of nice men get involved with women who really dogged their men (not the other way around)!  So guard your heart, and be sure that the critter you have hold of is capable of being a lady and a life partner and a help to a real man who is gentle with her.\n\nGood luck!
507149
Perhaps something is bothering him, or he doesn't feel well. Try wearing something revealing or surprise him by posing provocatively on the bed when you suspect he will be going in the bedroom. Try having "encounters" at different hours than usual, or in diff places. Avoid ruts. Talk dirty to him.\n\nHe sounds like a lucky guy.\n\ngood luck ;-)
800537
If there's a connection, there's a connection! It doesn't matter the age difference, or who's older.\n\nPersonally, i have a preference for older men - i like the whole 'being protected' thing and somehow i can't really see a younger man offering as much comfort!\n\nBut to each her/his own - it all depends on what you want out of the relationship, and whether the other person is ready and able to give it to you. \n\nMaybe ask yourself what the younger man wants from you? If you can tell he's serious about the relationship and not just wanting a "trophy older woman", then by all means :)
474039
A little of all...give me a intellectual man who knows how to take control and is great in bed!!!
245156
Sexually, all women have diverse turn-ons; some women wish for men to be very attentive and soft, others wish for men to be aggressive, etc. In order to answer this, you must get to know the certain woman, as all answers will differ.