How do you get a guy you talk to regularly to take charge and ask you out?
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
621298
give him time if he likes you he will ask you out or tell you...
641357
:) I'm not sure I'm like most women, but personally I do love when a guy asks me out... as long as it's in a nice way. If you don't know her, a look at her eyes and a smile when she notices should make her smile back. If she does, then you can come closer and introduce yourself, then start chatting a bit and ask her to have a coffee (if she can't but is interested she will probably offer to exchange numbers). About numbers, here are my "rules": if I'm really interested I will take his number and give him mine -no risk to miss an opportunity-, if I'm not too interested I will just take his -I decide-, if I want to see if he really is interested (and if I am) I will give him mine -let's see if he wil call-.\nNow if you know her already (classmate, for example) you can try to chat with her from time to time and see if you have something in common that could be used: like if you talk about cinema, maybe she will mention a movie she wanted to see. If you want to be direct with a girl I would go for the "I was wondering if you would have time to have a coffee with me one day?". It's still casual, she can decline easily (important!), and again if she really can't but is interested she will offer another solution. Don't do too much, she has to feel she can refuse.\nOn a more general basis, if I see a guy I like I will do the smile-and-bat-my-eyes trick, this is usually enough to encourage the guy to move ahead. If he smiles backs and seems interested but won't move, I will probably offer a coffee myself if there is a possibility  won't see him again (subaway etc.) :)\nAnd about the bf... you're not supposed to know! If she say she has one, just don't say you're not jealous... please! ;) And don't worry, if you act nicely I don't think a girl will reject you roughly. She will probably be flattered: what girls have everyday it's guys making kiss sounds or saying comments about their body, not an actual sentence. That's not that common... ;)
228146
Try meeting for lunch or dinner every couple days or even just a drink,that will at least give you time to check on eachother and make sure there is still interest. Call him when u get a minute of free time just to say hi. I dont care what any guy says, they like that.
675607
Just be yourself, have fun being with the guy and don't act desperate. By being so, the guy would either give you a another change on a date or just want to be friends first before moving the relationship to a next level.
469167
Guys generally don't make an effort to do something unless they have an interest. Give him a few days, he'll call.
833793
why dont you try calling him? or when you do see him, take him aside and ask him whats up? he just may be too nervous to ask you out again and maybe thats whats holding him back..maybe you should be the one to ask him out...sometimes guys need a little pushing...or worse case, he likes you but not in a date kind of way..you need to be the forward one, take control of the situation,..good luck..
214311
Being a guy, I can tell you it doesn't require a manual to do so. Make sure the guy doesn't have a girlfriend already and ask him yourself. Most guys are too nervous to ask girls out, so take charge and ask them. Nothing fancy. All it takes is "Will you go out with me" and most guys are like melted butter in your hands.
199200
Just ask if he wants to out for drinks some time.  If he declines, then he is not interested, if he says maybe, then give him your phone number.  There's really no worst case scenario, so just ask.
1092071
THIS GUYS ARE THE GUYS YOU DONT RUSH...\nWONT YOU JUST LET HIM BE LIKE THAT AND STILL TALK TO HIM AND IN TIME HE'LL REALIZE YOU'RE THE CHICK HE WANTS TO BE SERIOUS WIH BECAUSE YOU'RE ALWAYS THERE NO MATTER WHAT...
376497
Easy! \n\nDoes he call you?\nDoes he want you around?\nDoes he make plans with you?\n\nYes, he wants to date.\n\nDoes he tell you to call him?\nDoes he want you around only when he can hang?\nDoes he tell you about his plans but does not include you in them?\n\nSorry, just friends.\n\nTake it from someone that has: been there, done that.  Move on! You need someone that is genuinely interested in your time and will make time for you no matter what.
196061
that's simple. your a girl so u shouldn't worry about getting him interested at you. girls have the charms! just go up to him, say hi and carry the conversation to going out some time.
187207
Just keep talking to him.  Bump up against him when your talking to him.  At some point you may even have to get bold once your comfortable with him and make the first serious move of asking him out or holding his hand, or just sending him a note.
531005
Make us work for it. Play hard to get.  make us let you know that we want to be with you.  don't be easy.  If a guy thinks you are easy for him, he will think you are easy for everyone.
972319
yes, ask him out.\n\neverything to gain, almost nothing to lose.
752139
It sounds like you just need to be more assertive in a productive way. Do not start playing mind games!!!\n\nSimply let him know that you'd like to hang out with him (just him). Invite him to the movies or to play a game of basketball (boys like it when you show interest in things they like). If he declines, do not get upset or show any anger/frustration. He may just want to ask you out on his own terms. So give him time if he doesn't accept your invitation.
237590
Ask him if he'd like to go out sometime.  If he says OK you're on your way.  If he says no you can quit wasting your time on him.