Wht do i do when im about to turn 14 and my bf just turned 16 and wants things i wont give him?
343467
find another boyfriend who doesnt put you under such pressure!
899578
Your explanation is very poorly explained & spelled.  Maybe he doesn't want you to have those things, & that is okay.  Digital cameras are very expensive.  Why do you think that he has to give you something?  I do hope that he at least acknowledged your day.  I suggest that you just get over it.  Tell him how you feel, & do it nicely.
939087
honey you are 9 you shouldn't be going out with a 14 year old!! you need to break up with him and tell your parents!! you don't want him to do this again or maybe worse next time. do something NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please let us know what happens and how you r doing.
801613
Happy Birthday!! Thats sweet that you think of your parents,,why not get them something  :O) I think we give the birthday person gifts to celebrate their life & the fact that they were brought into the world.Maybe you should get yourself a present~ a new bf,,lol.Pamper yourself today,,or go out & see what the wind blows your way,,see what the day shows you :O)
697262
I'll have barely been with my girlfriend 2 months when Christmas rolls around, so I can speak from experience here.  Even if he has a lot of money, $250 is too much to spend this early in a relationship.  Considering that your birthday is close to the same time, the $100 amount that others have suggested would be appropriate.  Personally, I don't think he's obligated to get your parents anything unless the two of you have spent a lot of time with them and he's gotten to know them pretty well.  I commend your integrity for asking this question.  It's obvious you care a great deal about him to try to look out for him like this.
170920
You tell him the truth about how you feel and should respect your choice.  If your under 18 though I encourage you to wait and not just jump into this.
606488
In a situation like this you personally need to talk to your father and tell him that you don't appreciate him taking advantage of you. Tell him that you forgive him for disowning you as a child and that you love him even though he missed out on the finer points in your life. Give him the money because you cant put a price on love. If you don't then you may regret it for the rest of your life. I cant guarantee that this would make you feel better because i don't know. This is coming from a 16 year old and the way I see is either you could take the advise and run with it or leave it to rot for eternity.
876560
u should get him something that says alot, like if he metioned liking something (and it didn't seem important at the time...) get that. or get him something of his fave group, music, animal, etc...\n\nthat is what i'm doing for my bf. he likes snakes, so i'm getting him a beanie baby of a snake, and spraying it with my vanilla body spritz, cuz he likes the smell of it.\n\nit is little things like that, that says alot!\ngood luck
887523
go to wal-mart and buy him some axe spray,and soap gift box, it,s around 7-8 bucks. then tell him you would like to spend more time around him away from school so you can enjoy your gift to him also. k....
296432
Of course you shouldnt do it...its disrespectful. think of it this way, if he was doing it would you be upset.  if he really doesnt mind, which i doubt, than rock on....your probably really young and you dont owe anybopdy more than your willing to give at your age.  as you get older and get into more serious relationships realize that this is not normally acceptable.
985725
First rule - never give men expensive gifts until he is very serious about you (engaged). Just get him something he likes, CD, and something yummy to eat and yourself with a big red bow. I seen it happen many times - a girl "hears" he is getting her something really nice so she goes out and breaks the bank on him and when the guy ends up getting her something small because he changed his mind or couldnt afford it, the girl feels like a real idiot, and the guy feels the same. Dont go there. Remember it IS the thought that counts. \nHave fun!
504303
I'm 26 and when I was 14 my dad didn´t let me have a boy friend either, I didn´t understand at that time and I use to think that all my friend will make fun of me and the guys will never ask me again, but you know what? is for the best, ejoy your youth being FREE, I'm married now and I will be very happy of having 14 and single again, your dad is just taking care of you, he doesn´t want you to get hurt, because out there you can get seriously hurt, a brocken hurt is not a nice feeling.  Your dad is just like a man that doesn´t know anything about jewelry and then some one give him a pearl (you) but he doesn´t know what to do with that precious jewel so he decide to keep it in the box so the pearl won´t get hurt and live longer!!, just wait and he will come along, proove him that you are responsible, don´t argue with him about this, try to be madure, even more madure than your friends that have boyfriends.
929123
If you are below 20 years old, forget it. If not, he will see that your the good person you are.
368507
i went there the same thing when my parents found out that i liked a 17 year old. all i can tell u is if u've gone on this long w/ your bf & they just found out dont change your mind bout him....try 2 get them 2 let u have him over 4 dinner or something so they can get 2 know him a little.  good luck
1156320
Stay home for two more years, get a job after school and start saving your money. When your 18 then move in with your boyfriend and have money as a plus. Remember at the age of 16 living with your boyfriend all it takes is one call to the Police and he can get in trouble for sagitory rape of a minor. So think about would you want to put your boyfriend in that situation? Good answer...Good Luck!!!!
660343
Give him a tacky tie.  Then scream at him for not remembering and getting you something.\nDon't ya just LOVE first month anniversaries?!!!
704605
Call his house and ask what he likes. Ask for it not to be revealed that you are calling about getting a gift. That way you can get him something you know he will like.