sme times i feel i should breakup wit my boyfriend yet i hve no reason to?
348824
You need to get your self in your own space and get away from him for awhile and just think about it.
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
1035500
Well..in my opinion, u should let him go coz if anything is to happen between them, be thankful that u are only at the beginning stage of your relationship..that shows that this chap is indecisive and if he can hurt you like this...what more?
401323
if your boyfriend dosn't make you feel loved and happy.. WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM!?!?!?\n\nyou are better than that. you don't deserve to be treated that way. Get rid of him and find someone worthy of you.
1041582
You need someone to love.  \n\nYou have a very giving nurturing spirit, but feel there is no one who needs it or deserves it.\n.\nYour boyfriend may also be acting indifferent or too independent for you and you feel somewhat lonely.
331847
if u haven't been able to get over the other person and feel like ur not ready to trust another man than maybe u should take time for urself first n see were ur feelings r at n wat u want out of this new guy in ur life its not really good to get into a new relationship right after ending one specially wen the last 1 was of 20 yrs .. like i said the best thing is u knowing exactly wat u want so u can get rid of the doubts u have and b able to open up 2 a new person .. u wouldnt want to mess up somethin dat can turn out 2 be good cause u not ready for it so give it time.... good luck
676823
well i understand the feeling that u have but my bf says just be urself if u do the exact same stuff like this guy that does everything if u were going out wit him life would be boring cuz u r doin the same stuff over and over again everyday.when life is boring than there will be a big heart break at the end!!!trust i kno wat im talking about!!!
933410
So you're hangin in there out of fear of being alone?\n\nHmmm, really bad basis for a relationship.  No one else can make you happy.  You're the only one who controls that.   He's obviously not producing positive feelings in you so time to walk away.\n\nYou do need to find something though that interests you (solo) so that you can learn to feel comfortable in your own skin...ie: being alone, loving yourself for who you are, etc.  \n\nThere's nothing wrong with you.  The sooner you love and respect yourself, the less you'll choose (unconsciously or otherwise)  to be bothered by him.  Sounds like your feelings aren't so mixed.
592759
When you feel the time is right to move then go ahead and do so. If you don't feel ready then take some time for your self. Remember you can always find someone better and you did not have him in your life when you met him so you don't need him now.
6018
You're either in or out.  I don't think it matters if you act like it.  If you both decided you're not a romantic couple any more, then you're free to see whomever you choose without guilt or worry.  \n\nOf course, you may be having doubts that splitting up was the right thing to do.  Maybe it wasn't even your idea.  Then, to you, seeing someone else could feel like cheating.  You have to decide for yourself whether it's really over.  As long as you're not sure it is, you'll probably continue to feel guilty about seeing other people.
1105982
Does it really matter?  If you like being around the person, and it makes you happy, then what's the problem?  It usually taks a few months for love to develop anyway.\n\nIf you've been going out for a long time, and you are not sure if you like the person, try spending some time apart.  If you are happier when you are apart than you are when you are together, then maybe you should break up.
399451
Do you love him?  If you love him, why worry about whether he loves you?  Why not just enjoy being together and don't fret over one another's motives. Your boyfriend is not there to reward you for breaking two other relationships. You can't work to earn love. Either it will come in time, or it won't. Meanwhile, go as far as you want with him (and no further) and enjoy it. \n\nLove, Beth
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
934733
I've been in a relationship too,we were two years now, we also have fight and petty quarrels, and we also got broke up recently because of little misunderstanding but we reconcile after that day.We promise to ourselves that the next time we go into another problem, and breaking up is one of the option, we should think deeply, because we might just trashed our two years together.We should not be easy to decide and both of us should check our self if there's really no hope for our relationship, because when one of us will say that word and he didnt think first, he should stand in his decision and earn the result, because for me if you said we should break up then you should do that (because in me i should said that if i really mean it and could really see that this man is not good enough to fight for). So we have a good flow of relationship, we change to a better person and not rushing to make a big decision that we might regret in the end. In your case, there is only one in your relationship who fully given the very best to save the relationship -and it is YOU. But its not gonna work if its only you..Most of the men are jealous person and its normal. but your man is very possesive and arrogant to the point that he never calls you to fix things..Is it because he believe that its your fault?If thats true still its not right to just overlook you and wait a lifetime for you to be the one who will reconcile to him...Thats not love...Thats self-righteousness..And its not right..So i advice you to think deeply, and think if this kind of man is what you want to be with for the rest of your life...If you can explain everything to him just to win him FOR JUST ONCE, then do that. But if he still don't listen and don't change for a better man, then leave him peacefully without any regrets in your heart. Because you've given all your best to make him a better person. Its not your fault anymore, but its his fault now.Hope i could somehow help you.And one thing, "a worthy man is a man who could refresh your soul and bring smile in your face, not problems and wrinkles in your forehead". Wish you the best.
548884
If you are not happy in the relationship then you should get out of it.Dont stay with a person and then cheat on them and justify it by saying"oh but i wasnt happy",have some respect.
665059
Maybe you should just be single for a little while!  From what you are saying, you just don't want to settle...there's nothing wrong with that!  Nobody should settle!\n\nTake time off of the relationship to just get your mind straight!  Have a little fun!\n\nYou don't have to be in a relationship to feel whole!  \n\nIt's crazy...you sound a lot like me, except I'm 22!  I'm older than that in my mind though!\n\nGood luck to you!  You can get ahold of me through messenger if you want to talk!