What is worse:  Making out with someone only to find out that they are 1) your cousin or 2) a dude?
347597
hmmm... I think I would much rather make out with someone and find out she's my cousin, because it would only serve to demonstrate what I've thought for years - that I have some very cute and sexy cousins.\n\nAnd surely, you've heard of the phrase "kissin' cousins." And no, I've never actually kissed one of my cousins, but I'm not sure that I would find it all that objectionable. \n\nSo compared to kissing one of my cousins, making out with someone and finding out that she was actually a he would be worse.
932245
i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
409961
tell her that you don't want to have sex with her because it's weird and ugly because you're cousins. if she still insists, leave and tell someone close to you about the situation. tell your sister or your friend. \nalso, try to video the scenario. just in case anyone wants evidence,, or something to laugh about later
554335
Nothing. I mean do you think you will be killed marrying your cousin?
21769
I think two boys or two girls of the same sex should be able to "mess around" on their own terms.\nAs long as it isnt more than messing around.\nEven if they're cousins they still have the right to experiment with their bodies at any age. Incest is weird but to each his own. In this type of messin around between cousins there will be no baby produced like between boy and girl and no incest baby being born for these kissin cousins I am curious about the ages though. Kids usually experiment "with messin around"  from the ages of 9 - 16 no matter what you try to do to stop them. Unlike some have expressed here, do not tell they're parents it is none of any of your business so back off and give positive guidance without confronting them in an awkward and detrimental way by poking into their lifes. Let their parents find out on their own and deal with it themselves. You shouldnt go around sneaking up on people or you find something you didnt want to find out  So back off. Really its natural and ultimately will not harm them. Believe it or not most boys experiment sexually with each others when they are younger and many don't.... But most that do won't admit it if they are "straight" when they grow up. And if they grow up gay so what... from what I know of, the biggest problem gays have is deciding on vacationing in Paris or the Hamptons. So ease off.  Gay people ROCK ! They'll be okay and now you know... don"t go "walking in" on them or anybody else. Nosy
681611
yes, it's probably the same person that you have a crush on, or your older brother, or something along those lines. why do you want to know so bad anyway? it's really none of your business.
369167
Hi, first of all, making out w/a guy doesn't marry you to him, and talking to another is just the same. PLease be careful not to allow guys to put a "claim" on you like (luggage at the airport) lol.. just because you made out. They probably did it anyway a week before you with someone else. You are your own person, try to stay that way, you will be much happpier.
716433
that one time you got caught making out with your cousin? ya nobody'll ever let you live it down. damn cousin, that'll be carved in stone for the rest of my life, er. not mine, but if someone were to do something like that, I mean. he he.
602160
how did you find out you were cousins? I'd say continue loving him, we are all related somehow or another down the line
314558
Dont do it! do you really want to lose your cousin over a guy? Does the guy even feel the same for you? She is your cousin you cant do it to her it would tear her apart. I know my sister has done that to me before. Just dont hurt your cousin like that he is just a guy there are so many guys out there for you dont ruin family over one guy. Good Luck!
969378
not at all, on a genetic level its only bad if you are with 2 generations of one another, and since you say the relation is thru marriage there are no blood ties between you and the one you like. \n\nKeep in mind if it fails the cousin in the middle may suffer as the two of you decide you don't like each other any more, but they have to be around you both
616106
hey i don't do this.. i just happen to know.:) do it with a candy. off, hey said play with the candy in your mouth then kiss.. (gross)
71853
coin flip. its a blind date. if i dont like em' then who cares? we dont go otu again! plus the guys r both horrible picks. dating soemone 15 years older is horrible and the 1st guy sounds really bad. so coin flip sounds best.
1158971
sloppy seconds!!!\n\nJust say no.  She's been around and\nall your friends and the guy around the block know how she kisses, etc.  Yuck.
323659
You can't tell..it just your opinion, but you have to have had a few kisses to know..\n\nIt how you like the kiss to be..i guess\n\nLearn off the other makeoutee! Do what the other person does and you'll be fine
709721
Someone is going to punch his face in. He is looking for trouble. Even though he is your cousin, you should stay away from him as much as possible. He is rude and ignorant.
173569
your a guy, so probably sex