My bf levs 1nite an sys hel b bac in a bit nvr sws bck up an dont call the nxt day an hes ben gne 4 a week wtf
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
1143127
Nothing you can do about this. It is all natural and just happens to a guy. Youn can't set the amount of times it will happen, it just happens by nature.
249161
He's still carrying a lot of baggage from the relationship with him. Some guys just need to vent it out. If it goes on for longer than, say, 2 weeks, then it is time to tell him to get over it and talk about something else.
267690
Well 28 is a little old to be partyin that hard. I hate guys who are lush's like that. I would not be able to handle my bf going out and getting trashed like that and not remembering..who knows what he's doing while he's drunk without you. I think you should talk to him about it and if that doesn't work you should move on. It's time for him to grow up and be a man.
585123
He sound like a over sesitive kind of guy,he carnt take a little dig but thinks hes gonna do wrestling getting bashed about?? He needs to get his head together,you should have called him THE ATTOMIC STENCH!!1
505423
tell him what you heard and ask him if it's true. dont accuse him though or he'll just get defensive.  tell him you don't agree with what he's doing and why.  if he's as nice as he sounds, i think he'll make the sacrifice for you.  my boyfriend (19) used to drink but now he doesn't cuz i talked to him about it. best of luck!
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
1133062
you are getting to know the real him.. sound like he works alot and might be stressing so that's normal .. you need mo make time for each other no work or friends just the 2 of you. you will see we will start to want up to you the way you want him to. but it take hrs to get your head out of your work obligations and some times weeks were it just one big long day..
138029
well....u really need to tell him hes gonna get his ass kicked.if that happened to me i would get my girls.....take notes) and my new bf and beat the shit out of him....then if that happens others will FOLLOW.....!!
582162
Take care of your drinking problem first. If he is non supportive, then you need to find someone else. At least you acknowledged that you had a problem and are doing something about it. If you stay in that problem, you will have more serious things to worry about than your boyfriend. If people you care about cannot be there for you when you are in a personal crisis, then that should open your eyes up about them, and how "shallow" they are. Some people view seeking help from an outside org. such as AA, as a sign of weakness. That is the dumb thinking of prideful people, who would rather go down with the ship than to reach for a life saver. If they are willing to go down like that, then believe that they would also take you down with them! Hopefully your b/f will come around, and stop being selfish. Nevertheless, whatever he does, don't let it stop you from helping yourself.
777004
No guys usually don't lilke to be disturbed while watching sports. Your best bet would be to probably find out the schedule in which he watches games.
139491
Be good to him.Don't go with friends over 2 nites a week.Listen to the guys probs and have a conversation.
913660
Just wait for him to call you, if he doesnt call you within the next three days then he doesnt remember any of it. Then when you go out, tell him you want to go to dinner, then make not of his behavior, is he drinking a lot? Excessive? Is he just a natural slurrer? He was probably nervous about meeting you and probably kept drinking.  \n     I say give him a shot if/when he calls, there is no harm in that. Enjoy, you might have found a great guy that will make you laugh. If he doesnt call then just write it off to the fact that he was drunk.
760147
well dont be an idiot about it. you obviously know what he's trying to do...so dont let him..tell him what the deal is, and that hes not going to use you to compete with your bf
673303
It sounds like he doesn't have much confidence in himself, he knows he is doing wrong with the alcohol, doesn't think he is good enough so expects that you will go out and find someone who is.  Plus it sounds like he is trying to push you away before you have a chance to do it to him, its human nature to protect yourself even at the cost of others.  Or on the other hand he very likely could be cheating on you.
1187352
Guys don't want to talk unless there's nothing else to do. Not always a sign of disintrest. But you were a one nighter. Keep calling. Don't over do it. After a few real dates let him know you like being with him then stop calling for a week or two. If he wants to proceed he'll call you. It might take 2 weekends before he calls. If he calls late at night on a weekend.... He'll be drunk and horny. Booty calls don't make girlfriends. You need to redefine yourself in his mind.
853685
you need to change your number straight away yes this guy is mentally ill and a lazy good for nothing bum you sound way to good for him dont let him put you down all this crap in 8 weeks i dont know how you put up with him stay clear of him sounds like jealousy is a big factor here......