he wants to meet whit me some day what do i do about it?
353703
dunno do you want to meet him \n\nwho is he\n\nif this a date check him out to make sure how old he is \n\ndont know how old you are so check with a friend if you are young and meet him with a friend in a public place\n\nthats if you want to meet him\n\nif you dont just tell him your mot interested
1047243
Awww that's not stupid, its sweet! Maybe you could get together a group of friends to go out and do something fun...like a carnival or amusement park or something. An outing where you would be likely to communicate. And just try to hang around him a little more than anyone else and see how you vibe with each other. If it seems like things are okay, then maybe you could offer to call and do something together, but nothing too major. Or at least find an excuse to get his number or give him yours. Or even his email address. With myspace and IM and everything, there is always an excuse to get at least that info because its so common! Start slow but have a goal in your head!!! Most women strategize when we aren't quite sure what the outcome will be.  That way we know we have tried, but we cover our butts in case it doesn't go as planned! I wish you the best!!!
666216
you better meet him there..and make sure you have at least four other people with you when your with him..\nbe careful\nvery careful
108838
Its a relationship but not the kind that it seems that u want from this person. Maybe u should try dating people but keep talking to him.. if and when he decides to come around thats great but if not, your life has gone on and you are not stuck on hold.
572732
you wait or you confront him in a calm manner tell him that i don't want to be confused and you don;t want to receive wrong messages from his gestures,.ask him do you or do you not be honest with your answer it's a one time shot if you lose you will lose a person you really desire. it's up to you, tell him that!
808184
I think you should just tell him that you are starting to dig him and see what he says.  Worst case scenario: he says he's sorry but he's not as into you.  At least he is just online and you won't be so embarrassed because you haven't actually met him and he can't turn you down to your face.  I'm sure if you have been chatting that much then he must have at least a little interest in you though.\n\nGood luck girl!!!!
564459
Well, maybe the two of you should exchange pictures and then he can decide if he still wants to meet? If he does, I recommend you meet in a public place, like a wine bar. When you are with him, do not leave drinks unattended. Do not accept opened drinks from him either - you never know, roofies might be his best friend. Do not get drunk or even slightly merry. Drink more water than booze. That way, you stay in control.\n\nOther than that, if you agree to meet, it doesn't mean you are overly eager. Just continue the conversations you have had so far and play it by ear.
983618
Take it one day at a time. You are not going to get over this overnight. If you worry all the time about being able to trust this guy that you just met for the first time, you might just miss out on the best thing that ever happened to you. You shouldn`t go through life afraid of what "might" happen.
262795
Just be assertive.  Next time you see him just say something like "Hi you know that every time i see you i think i would like to buy him a coffee; would it be too forward if i offered to buy you one now?"  Remember this could be the last time you may see him, hence if you dont do it soon you may forever regret it.  What have you got to lose? think about it!  Good Luck
1158305
Well first of all do you want to meet him?   I have had people Im me and be like lets meet right now.  And they know nothing about me other than seeing my pic on the directory.    To me thats just strange.   But I did meet a friend that way.   But trust your instinct if  they want you to meet them and you want to take it slow then take it slow.   If they get mad about it then I always think they have issues.       If you decide to meet up with him then make sure its a public place and tell your friends and/or family where you are and what you are doing.
830608
this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
363317
I would leave him alone; he's obviously not interested. Or if he is, he should meet me halfway. It's humiliating to keep putting yourself out there if someone doesn't respond. We have some pride, you know.
526463
You try to get to know him.  I am willing to bet that once you have had a few conversations with him you will realize that hes not all that you expected.  You are infatuated with him right now, and he doesn't get it?  chances are he never will sweetie.
69250
You should definately see how he feels about you. Maybe you could meet him in person if he's feeling you.
984836
Just try to chill out a bit-he obviously likes you as he wants to meet you so stop stressing about it.As for the coffee,order tea instead as no doubt wherever you go for coffee they will serve tea too.
97505
Find someone else. Accept his contacts but keep moving forward yourself. He needs to know you're not waiting forever.
96875
Get off your PC, get out the door and get into something you enjoy doing. Find something that men like doing as well. You'll meet him there.\n\nGood luck, now go get em'!!!\n:)