why girls especially the middle aged hiding their sexual urge though they need acting as if they are not?
349857
Unlike us guys, women can actually function without having to think sex every 10 seconds. lol They act like they don't want it cause they are waiting for the right guy to give it all to.
744533
they want attention. lack of it when they were younger. a girl who shows it off alot wants to be center or everything. one who covers up is the best to be with. at least she wont flaunt wut she got to everyone else
444856
Some people are not satisfied with casual sexual encounters and relationships.\n\nI'm a single parent with three kids, and want and need emotional support and intellectual stimulation from a mature adult female, not what I can get from my mates over a pint at the local.\n\nDifferent strokes for different folks.
1046697
I haven't met many men who were disinterested in sex, no matter what age, however, performing is another subject.  Many women also experience a decrease in libido as they age,  there are other ways to satisfy ones sex drive that are perfectly normal and do not break the marriage vow.
197585
no, some girls just dont like the thought of touching them selves like that.
502535
The immaturity comes with the onset of puberty, sorry to say. The complicated aspect though, is more prone to be the way men and women think differently. \n   For example, males are in their sexual prime from the ages of 17-21, while females reach theirs in their early to mid thirties. So are brains and bodies are going in very different directions. While girls at that age are more into music and dancing, most males are looking at the bodies in motion, and the sexuality of those movements. When these same males hit their mid-thirties, they are usually more career commited and taking on the responsibility of providing a home, and security, without the sex drive of their earlier years. So, therein lies teh complication of thought. You simply can't use your own trend of thought to predict or prepare for how a male your own age is going to think.\n   On the average, a girl will be on a semi-level plain of maturity with a male of three years older than herself. If that helps any. Good luck!!
1186308
Well you are absolutely right on that one!  I am 57 but still appreciate everything that you mention above.  The 'pervy' attitude comes from younger people who simply don't have the imagination and foresight to sense how they will feel say in twenty to thirty years or so.  But age they will and suffer the same predujice that you talk about.  I look on it as akin to children being spiteful in the playground ...  their maturity to accept their actions can only come later when they are able to see 'the other side'.\nBut for now I guess we will just have to continue appreciating the female form in quiet .... keeping those 'pervy' remarks at bay!
137448
YES ,it's normal every woman peaks differntly,i heard in thier 40's.I'm a 36old man and i prefer older women because of better sex and mostly they know what they want.hell feel good about .I think you feel good about your self .Being overly active does,nt mean your a sluty nympho .heck i wish i had a women with that problem..Rock on and have fun..
39389
k well you have a lot going on here dont you. i think you need professional help before your impulse control gets the best of you. sure its kind of stupid for girls to let it all hang out, but who are you to tell them they cant. and you can repress this "natural" instinct. i do it everyday.
1077873
Our society worships youth and beauty; many people seem to have the attitude that if you are over a certain age you have no value.  It's really sad.  Some women buy into this attitude which is why you have older women acting like teenagers.  Hopefully you won't do this when you get to be this age.
43018
shame on her! IF... she is faking.\nwhy fake it when you can pertake it!!\nwhile in older females there's no denying it because they've mastered it.younger girls might try to fake it if their under pressure from their lover.But some big clues are...when you see/feel them quivering, (sometimes wanting you to stop), their muscles will comsrict some, and you'll feel the fluids flow or gush from their pretty little flower.And i have been known to go into a euphoria,trance like state from pure pleasure!!in which is not a good time to ask me any important Q's cause i cant talk!!  o.k.- did that answer your question??
564075
Because their libido is so low that its might as well state that it isnt there. By this age, most women would have already been through menopause. Remember menopause is when a the process that stops the woman from menstrating(or having her period) and can no longer produce eggs.\n\nThe body will register this process and hormones will change the woman. The whole reason for sex is to reproduce and have babies. Now if she no longer can have babies then, why would her body want to heve sex if doing so would be invain? Her libido will lower and her sex drive will weaken and not be as strong as a woman who is reproductive.\n\nThats why women after the ages of 60rs, dont tend to want to have sex. Its just not in them.
616864
Women are afraid that if they admit that they like sex they will be viewed as a tramp. If a man has a healthy sexual appetite, he is considered normal. This is just the way the world is, for better or worse. Probably another million years of evolution will remedy this.
1185720
Yes, it is a way for them to control the act.  Some people have normal sex lives, some never want to have sex, and others want to have sex a lot.  It is depends on the person.
196073
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!   Don't deny your sexuality.  There is NOTHING wrong with you.  There is something wrong with our society if we think it is wrong to have a sex drive when you aer old.  KEEP FEEDING THOSE DESIRES!!!
488189
it is normal trust me girls have urges to
742826
Peer pressure plays an important role especially when girls want to keep their boyfriend or keep him happy.  You should not be pressured by anyone into doing anything you don't want to do especially having sex.  Society (videos, tv, music, fashion) also promote sex, and I think it encourages people to have sex when most of the time they aren't ready.  Look and listen really carefully to what is being said in the media and what kind of clothes the role models of these teens are wearing such as Beyonce, Christina Aguliera, and Lindsey Lohan.    When you're that age, a lot of teens tend to let their hormones do the thinking for them.  It's sad, but it's true.  This is the world we live in, but we don't have to give into all of this.