what if you are moving to vegas in like 5 days and you dont know if you should dump your boy friend or not?
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Do you love him? If so you are going to want to stay together and try to make the relatinship work. I suppose if you don't know if you could love him ask yourself this: Could you see yourself marrying this guy? No? Then maybe it is time to move on. Break the news to him as gently as possible and maybe you can retain the relationship by just being friends.
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What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
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None of it matters.  First things first.  You need to break up with your boyfriend because you are a cheat and that is unfair to him.  Once you are a single girl again, then go and find Mr. 3 Days and strike up a relationship.\n\nBut think about this;  what kind of person does not honor vows or fidelity with a husband or boyfriend.  what kind of person does that make you.  Is that what you want to be in your life?  Untrustworthy, unkind, unfair, a liar and a cheater.  NO!  You can fix this.  break up first, then explore.
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Okay you are in a BAD SITUATION and you need to set boundries.\n\nFirst of all, this guy does not believe you are friends with benefits, he believes you will eventually become more than that and is waiting for it to happen. If you go to vegas without him and hook up with some random guy he will be crushed because he wants more from the relationship.\n\nYou need to break up with him immediatly if you don't want to be involved with him. "Friends with benefits" is both retarded and volitie and one or both of the participants will wind up hurt in the long run because all it does is put off the inevitable break up. You need to break up with him and be firm in not getting back together. \n\nI can tell you, without a doubt he wants this relationship to be more and you need to break it off with him if you don't. Do not just go to vegas without him and hook up with another guy because it is totally wrong. You must tell him the truth even if it hurts him now because it will hurt much more later.\n\nBe an adult.
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Well it sounds like he has already emotionally abandoned the relationship, so who is to blame you for phyiscally abandoning the relationship?  I think you should do it before he leaves, though.  His running away (literally!) is really just a passive-agrressive way of forcing you to make a decision and be the "bad guy" for leaving when he's gone.  What a wimp!  Demand closure now, before he goes so you can get on with your life and tie up any loose legal entanglements.  You don't want him running up huge debts on his world-wide jaunt that you will be paying off, either.  What a selfish bastard!
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i dont think you should have moved in with him. im guessing the only reason you moved in with him was because you thought that if you moved in with him it just might work but really its making you feel bad because you still like him and he has obviously moved on. what i think you should do is do the same thing he is doing act as if what he is doing is not even bothering it might be hard but its what you have to do, sit with him and talk about other guys, let him see you goin on dates and just goin out having a good time. maybe he'll realize that he had something good. and just maybe he'll get back with you.
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He can be in some emotional turmoil. If that is not a case then leave him,he is not worth you
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Girlfriend, your like me caught up in the rapture of uncertainty. We want to leave but afraid deep down inside to make that move. Our insecurities allow us to not be more clear in our train of thoughts and we make sudden decisions without thinking them through. You are scared to let go but at some point you have to realize it is what it is, he is a cheater and he's possessive and somewhat controlling. You left and that was the first  step, now move on.\nMEN ARE LIKE A BUS ONE COMES EVERY 5 MINUTES YOU CAN RIDE THE BUS TO THE END OR DO AS YOU HAVE DONE GET OFF AND CATCH THE NEXT ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2 weeks isn't a long time to really say you were in a relationship so it wouldn't be that bad if you talked to the other guy. Especially if he broke up with you. Now if you broke up with him,then you would be considered a whore for breaking up with him for his friend. Not in my opinion but society's opinion. If it were me though girl, I would leave both of them alone because you might reck their friendship.\n\nGood luck
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THATS UP TO YOU. WHAT IS YOUR GUT FEELING??? IF YOUR HEART IS SAYING GO WITH HIM THEN GO. IF YOUR HEART IS SAYING NO THEN STAY HOME.
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Dump him, and see what his reaction is. If he crys and begs to stay then no, if he is cool and leaves then he was a cheating on you. Let me know how it goes.
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Yes break up with him. You may decide later not to go to college in CA or you may not get into any colleges in CA. You are only 16 so break up with him but you can stay friends and email him every now and again or chat with him occasionally on AIM etc. He will most likely see other girls after you move anyway so break up with him so you are free to date other guys and so it wont matter if he dates other girls.
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Sure, if you like being used, lied to, and then dumped as soon as the next opportunity comes along. Honestly, why would you want to go out with a "playa"? Show him you're better than him and turn him down. He'll be shocked!
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It depends...how long have you two known each other and who will be making the sacrifice to move away? Let me guess you'll be the one. What are you leaving behind and is moving really worth it? Have you two known each other long enough?
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Whats wrong with moving to Hawaii?  I live here!!!  \n\nFirst of all, how long have you 2 being dating?  Depending on that, would tell me whether or not you should even bother to tell him.  Obviously he is moving due to some serious reason, whether it be a job, or school or just a new place to start fresh.
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In a dating relationship, leaving when he most needs you is gonna make his hurt all the worse.\nPlus if you leave now he will know he can never trust you again. and there will be no later. \ngive him time he needs, if it was YOU in his position how would you feel if he dumped you? \nsmart choice is be strong, and patient. once he is emotionally stable again then if you decide to leave you can do so with a clear conscience. \nor if you don;t care how he feels. then by all means leave. but don;t expect him to welcome you back with open arms if you find him diserable again. he is more then likely to return the pain you gave him.
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When you feel the time is right to move then go ahead and do so. If you don't feel ready then take some time for your self. Remember you can always find someone better and you did not have him in your life when you met him so you don't need him now.