Would you give up everything to be with someone who you were in love with but aren't sure if it will last?
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You aren't sure because he doesn't have the same affection for you ....as you have for him....well if you love each other the same way....you'r not sure because of his temperament.....or something that's not right with him...\nIf you want more them ever to be with him....you should go to him and tell him that if he wants to remain with you he should fix the problem....(no matter what the problem is)otherwise your waisting you years with him. It's really sad
642988
well it depends on how much you love him or her because if thats all it takes for you 2 leave him or her it ain't  real beause in love your suppose to be able to go throgh everything together the good bad and wrost, or theree are people who just can't take there heart been broken a leave the person.
1022147
girl if you love or at least care about him there are plenty ways you can see him or her again, i was with this guy for a month and a half, and he unexpectanly moved back home because of this family and we made sure we saw each other at least once a month if not more. i just all depends on how each of u feel and if its meant to be it just is\nDONT GIVE  UP HOPE
1091755
Sweetheart, love is a sacrifice. It doesn't come for free. If you think it cost you nothing keeping one for 7 years, then kick it off and move on with the new pem. "You may never know the value of what u have until u lose it". By the way who told u ,once u fall in love you'll never get a heart-beat for another. U're ability to overcome all such crushes and stay for what u've spent time to build is what i consider a sacrifice for love. Take care. No one-night stands!!
792330
A lot of people will probably tell you to move on and that there are more fish in the sea. But I fell in love with the older friend of a cousin and for 3 years I loved him as much as I could in a "friend way" ( he knew the whole time how I felt about him and always told me that he only cared for me as a friend and that I should go look for someone who could love me the way I wanted and needed to be loved. I am very stubborn and wouldn't give up. About 3 years into our close friendship I decided to co on a date with another guy. When my friend realized that I might not always be there he did some serious thinking.. We've been together for 2  and a half years and married for 1. So my advice is that you really truly care about this guy then dint give up. But do play a little hard to get. Make him work for it a bit.
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You cant hold on to something thats not there...You can continue to do your end of the vows and pray that he will have a change of heart but ultimatley in marriage love comes and goes but its commitment to that person that will keep a marriage.  Apparently hes never had that commitment to hold on to you for "better or for worse".  He obviously moves according feeling not any thing else.  You keep your end if hes not willing than let it go--More advice? chrystaldr@yahoo.com
487168
yes i hav being. because i cant stop thinking about him in whatever i am doing. it lasted for 7 yrs then we broke up and i am still in love with him and dont know if i will love anyone the way that i love him
81643
I hope your question is this:\n\nIf you love someone that has hurt you before, but you still love that person and he says he loves you would you still stay with that person?\n\nId would say YES... If and only your answer to my next question is a YES...\n\nIs he/she worth all the pain?\n\n-Post Master
414935
Unfortunately we don't usually get the choice. If it's headed to a bad place you can try and salvage at least a descant departure. However, if it's from someone you really loved you can't help but be hurt regardless who ends it. Sometimes it's just not meant to be!
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i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
1059652
Move on with life...that sounds easy but can be hard especially if you loved this person.  From every experience in life we can learn some valuable lesson.  Learn the lesson from this relationship and keeping living.
260315
No. move on you may find someone you really love and that really loves you!! Someone may be waiting for you to move on.
920223
i would leave her if she can't keep to you for five years then what if you get married how do you know she wont do it in the future or right now. You never realize how much you like something till its gone but for her i think she is just gone
59223
i think its worth it !\nyou cant feel it at the moment. actually you will have to give it to the person you love the most and care u the most, itsnot worth it for somebody who wants to have fun with u or who wants to take advantages with u !\nhope thats help !
327479
you love him/her in return? if u do, why try to forget. if u don, why worry? there is no point to care for it. U never forget one thing, but u cang get used to it. If u love other, then decide which love to live with. then choose what in your heart...
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Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make.  Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that.  Give it some time & see where it goes.\n\nGood luck!
561612
Why would you break up withsomeone you love? If they honestly mean the world to you enough that you say you love them it should mean that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with them no matter what happens