Is it possible that  I have herpers and that my girlfriend doesn't?
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as a person with herpes (unfortunately) i should know that it is possible to have it and yor g/f cannot. you could have had it for a period of time until something triggered it. Stress, anxiety, a cold anything. the best thing to do is when you have an outbreak DO NOT HAVE SEX. this will decrease the chance of her catching it. granted it is not easy to tell someone that you have that but if the person cares abotu you they will understand. go onto websites to give yourself better knowledge about it. hey if you have any questions feel free to ask them. dont be afraid to ask, that is the only way to find things out!! it isnt that much easier for a woman to see than a man. it all depends on how u handle certain situations. my stress may cause me to outbreak more than your or vice versa. \n\nloveless816@yahoo.com if you need to ask anything.\n\n\nP.S. it can lay dormant in ANYONE, not just women
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If you've had unprotected sex, it could be herpes (if the other person was infected). Otherwise, it could be a yeast infection. You should see your doctor for treatment.
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From my experience I can tell you that your girlfriend is still I virgin. Let me tell you why if you girlfriend never had sex with anyone else willing then yea, she is still a virgin in the prospective that she never gave herself up willing, medically she is not cause she have been penetrated so she no longer has her "cherry".  But if she been with anyone else before you and I mean like gave herself up willing then she would not be a virgin anymore, because she gave herself to someone but since she is telling you she wants to lose her virginity to you then I will go on the assume she never been with no one since she got raped and therefore I will come to the conclusion that she is still a virgin mentally, but not physically. Don't worry you two can still have that special moment of together. Think about it this way you are the first guy ever, since she got raped that  she gave herself up to without any pressure or force so you both can still have that special moment of her being with her first cause you will be considered her first from that moment one. And when anyone asks her how many partners she had she can reply and say one cause that will truly be the true.
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Genital herpes are easy to spot; they are open red sores. Do you recall ever seeing them on him? It is slightly more difficult for men to contract GH than women since the herpes virus thrives on warm damp areas (i.e. the vagina or mouth), so even if he did cheat on you with a woman with GH, it would be possible for him not to contract the virus. Although this is not as likely, but not impossible either, if he has an oral strain of the herpes virus and might have "gone down" on you while he had a cold sore, that strain could have mutated into the HSV-2 or HSV-1 type (genital herpes).
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It is very important that you see a doctor.\n70% of people who get herpes got it from a partner that didn't have any symptoms. 1 our of 4 people have herpes and don't know it.\n\nBetter check with your doctor. You might have some other problem. And no unprotected sex
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yep if a female has an sti such as herpies (coldsores or ulcers round her mouth) then u can catch it im not sure bout other sti/d's but its likely u can catch em thru oral. all teh best!
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Not that i've every heard of.  She might have had it before you both had intercourse.  Like yeast or a uti.   \n\nThe only other thing i can thing of is she's allergic to latex.  My sister is allergic to it and she gets infections when she uses them.
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This can happen either way round: a guy might have symptoms from a particular disease that doesn't produce any symptoms in a woman, or she might have symptoms and he doesn't.\n\nThe same disease can produce different symptoms in different people of the same sex.\n\nSTD symptoms do not necessarily appear in or near the genitals.\n\nWhat's more, any symptoms can be different in either partner, so you might have some that you wouldn't associate with an STD, like a slight temperature, or itching (nerve irritation) elsewhere in your body.\n\nMost STD organisms have an 'incubation period' when  they can be transmitted but they show no symptoms in either partner.\n\nIt's quite likely that you could have been infected. Best get yourself checked out.
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its definately broken- but maybe she isnt "wet" enough at the time of pnetration.\n\ntry ky jelly, if that doesnt help she miht have thrush.\n\nits verry common, and treatable with over thecounter creams. It is a high possibility, particularly as you have only just begun to have sex, and could have disturbd the ph of her vagina
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If she is infected with HIV and you don't use a condom, then yes, it is possible. The chances of transmission based on her having HIV and no protection used are such that you aren't statistically likely to get it every time, but is that really a risk you want to take?!\n\nYou can get more info on transmission here:\n\nhttp://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/index.html
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Herpes infects the sacral ganglia nerves, so you can get an outbreak anywhere from the waist down, though the boxer short area is the most common.\n\nYou didn't get this from a tanning bed.  You got this from sexual contact.\n\nIf you are on daily meds, and still getting frequent obs, you should check with your doc to make sure nothing else is going on, like another std or yeast or bacterial vaginosis.  You might also need to go to a higher dose.\n\nCheck out the websites I have listed.  They are so helpful.  On the racoon one, go to the support forums.  All are free.  :)
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I have her problem and its not a problem at all some days its really bad and I have to wear a pad is all to keep from having to change my clothes but its normal since she is a virgin she don't have anything so tell her to wear a pad ever so often and let that area breath a bit as well that will help her dry up a bit sometimes. I wish you luck in your life together.
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depends on the disease but its possible --- herpes springs to mind
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She might be protecting you....until the cold-sore\nor herpe outbreak ends.\n   No seriously,she may be feeling a bit guilty about\nyou two ,and this is her way of handling the situation.\nAs for the cheating...thats just plain silly, of course it is.\nAs for the future : don`t expect anything different if you were\nin the bf shoes.\n   But,she obviously likes you enough to engage in the\n"feel on her WHOLE body" part.You may be one step closer\nto being her new bf. How long has it been since she saw the\nbf ? Girls get horny too, ya know.- You might be just a "fillin"\n   Are you really sure she still has a bf ? It might be her\nway of S-L-O-W-L-Y engaging into a new relationship. Either that,\nor she really has a warped sense of morals. ummm.......\nDoes she have a sister ?  \n  Best advice : talk to her
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Genital herpes is usually diagnosed based on your medical history and a physical exam. Your health professional may ask you the following questions:\n\nDo you think you were exposed to genital herpes or another STD? How do you know? Did your partner tell you? \nWhat are your symptoms? \n1. Do you have sores in the genital area or anywhere else   on your body?\n2. Do you have any urinary symptoms, including frequent urination, burning or stinging with urination, or urinating in small amounts?\n3. If you have discharge from the vagina or penis, it is important to note any smell or color.\nWhat method of birth control do you use? Did you use condoms to protect against STDs? \nWhich high-risk sexual behaviors do you or your partner engage in? \nHave you had an STD in the past? How was it treated? \n\nThe primary outbreak of genital herpes tends to last longer and be more severe than subsequent (recurrent) outbreaks. Symptoms of a primary outbreak may include:\n\nFlulike symptoms, such as fever, headache, and muscle aches. These symptoms usually get better within a week. \nTingling, burning, itching, and redness at the site where an outbreak is about to occur (prodrome). \nPainful, itchy blisters on the penis, on the vulva, or inside the vagina. Blisters may also appear on the anus, buttocks, thighs, or scrotum, either alone or in clusters. They may be barely noticeable or as large as a coin. \nBlisters that break and become shallow, painful, oozing sores. \nSwollen and tender lymph nodes in the groin. \nPainful urination. \nAbnormal vaginal or urethral discharge.\n\nAny blisters, sores, or other symptoms that suggest genital herpes infection or another sexually transmitted disease (STD) should be evaluated by a health professional. Avoid sexual contact until you have been examined by your health professional to prevent transmitting an infection.\n\nIf your daughter feels she is at risk she should not have sex until both her and her boyfriend have been checked by a physician.
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It's funny how people on here love to jump to conclusions before they hear the person asking the question's full statement!I don't think it is possible to get a STD if you are not sexually active so that cancels that horrific scenario out, you could be allergic to a certain material used in your undergarments, or if you use like a feminine deodorant spray such as fds, it could be causing a reaction, the worst it could be is a possible yeast infection and instead of using over the counter methods or drugs it would probably be safe to consult with your doctor.
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Fist off she could have an yeast infection,bladder infection or if you use sexual toys and if they are not cleaned very good then it may irritate her down there. If she is itching, burning, or stinging while having intercourse, going to the bathroom or while playing with toys then she may very likely have a yeast infection. If you do use sexual toys clean them very well with soap and hot water. Also if you use a lubricant then she may be allergic to it also. The first thing I would do is not have intercourse for 7 days and have her to use a cream like monistat for yeast infections, then if that clears it up then more than likely that is what it was. If not then try not useing sexual toys for a while and see what happens after no usage of them. then if she is still having the burning sensation then she needs to go and see her gynocologist or her doctor. Good Luck and if you need more information on yeast infections here is a web site for you.