Help I'm confused about a relatsionship. Guys & girls opinions please!?
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You have taken it to another level.  Before there was no commitment, no emotions involved, no consequences.  Now you have shown him that you might be starting to want more from him at some other level, or that you might be getting attached, and he does not want that.  Friends with benefits is just that, a way for guys to get the benefits they want without the added effort of having a girlfriend.\n\nOh, and many guys will say pretty much anything, like that they love you, if they think it will enhance the physical experience, especially when they are drunk.  If he doesn't do anything to show it when he is sober, he doesn't mean it when he is drunk.
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You cannot make someone like you.  Sounds like the girl is just playing a "catty" game with you as well as him.  In my opinion, their relationship will not last.  I say be yourself, and give yourself time to really get to know the important things about him, and I am confident that you will learn from each other and nurture a relationship that will be much more fulfilling.
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IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
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im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient
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Hi, this is Cat...After 1 1/2 years did you not know how he felt about you? If he's clammed up, obviously he wasn't ready to hear how you felt about him. Usually a guy will be responsive how he feels way before a year has passed, he might not say so, however his actions will speak louder than words. I suggest you give him space real fast, leave him alone for a couple of weeks to a month to think and to chill out. He's probably afraid of commitment or he does not feel the same about you. Do not approach him again regarding this issue, he may bolt like a wild horse and never come back. Instead just be a friend to him for now, if it's not too late. Lesson well learnt, you know what to do next time.
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your confused b/c he's making you confused, i don't believe he's confused one bit he's just stringing you along, and you are right he is too scared, too scared to completely let go of you all he's doing is talking nonsence to you....what i think is happening here is he wants to keep you waiting for him while he 's out exploring his options, he's afraid you might find you someone else...and he won't have anybody, he doesnt want to get back with you or else he would have, i mean whats stopping him?? all he's saying is i'll just keep playing mind games with her until i find me somebody i really like....don't fall victim, i would surprise him and would tell him to just go on with his life....that you are not meant for each other...get rid of the stress and you will feel so much better.
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He really cares about you and does not wish to see you hurt. It really sounds like he likes your company and would like to rekindle your relationship.\n\nbest of luck to you both...
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maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
7485
Each situation is different, but I would recommend moving on and just keep in touch. It may not seem like it, but there is plenty of time to go on with your life and find him again, if it is meant to be. Find out more about who you are and experience life a bit before committing.
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Wow, this sounds familiar.  I have a guy friend like that who's a five hour plane ride away from me.  She's probably thinking the same thing you are.  She trusts you and likes you and wants more from the relationship, but she's afraid of ruining what she already has with you.  Which as she's told you, is very special to her.  If you really think it's a good idea and you guys can work it out to be together, talk to her about it.  She probably wants to be with you too but doesn't want to pressure you.  If not, always be a good friend to her and maybe there will come a time and place where everything will just click.  Good luck!  I hope it works out!
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I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
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ok so i think she is confused she is young and there is alot of preasure on both of u... of course u still have feelings 4 this person.... u know the saying\n\n\nif u love someone /something set it free.. if it comes back to u it was always urs if it don't it never was......\n\nso i say give her time... she may see that she cares 4 u and will come back to u.... if not it's her bad she will be the one missing out on a great guy.... hope everything works out 4 u... keep ur head up =)
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It sounds like he is indecisive. He really likes your company but maybe not sure about anything more. Or maybe he is making up his mind by visiting you often. Whatever the answer is just enjoy your time with him. Love and romance is always important but friendship is the key to any relationship!
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These types of feelings need to go both ways if anything is supposed to happen between the two of you.  If he doesn't like you, then don't waste your time hoping that he would.  You have to respect his feelings and just remember that "it's his loss"
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Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
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It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.
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dont be naive! he wanted to tease you or play with you. a guy will show interest if he is persistent, not when he feels like it. trust me. i did couple.i just telling the guy side of story. worst case scenario, you lose him. so what! theres a lot of guys out there that are sincere. think about it.