what do you think about sex in first date? Is it right or not?
349875
Depends on the individuals Morals and guidlines.  Diffrent for everyone.
595861
wow i've never really thought about saying the right thing. being intimate with someone just comes naturaly i think. if you have to think that hard about it, then it probably isn't right and will sound rehearsed and that's a turnoff.
1083695
It's not normal a date is a chance to get to know more about the person other than how they look.  Sex isn't something you should do just for pleasure you should do it with someone you really love and care about.
311268
Did you ever think she may be telling the truth? Give her the benefit of the doubt. The question I have is why is it ok for men to sleep with someone on the first date and get no rep for it, but for women it is different?????? Besides she might be a really great person and you will loose out on the relationship, remember you were there with her!
56826
Knowing when you're ready is not something you can describe, it is a feeling. When the time is right, you will know. Right now you're probably going back and forth with yourself on what decison to make, and that's normal. One thing is certain, do not let anyone pressure you into sex. You have to make the decision for yourself. Evaluate the status of your relationship. Is this person special to you, and futhermore, are you special to them? When the time is right everything will fall into place.. not literally...lol, but you will know. In that moment, you won't be thinking about if it's the right time or not, because you will know.
28664
No way. A date is between people who are hooking-up with the intentions of taking it to another level. Not saying sex--but the motive behind it is the fact that you both have some sort of feelings for one another & intend to explore them. A date is more official than going out.\n\n'Going out' is the opposite. In my opinion going out is just like chilling with a few friends. Your motive then is to enjoy yourself instead of trying to hook-up.
333252
Take her somewhere fun.  Minature golfing, a zoo, an amusement park...some thing you can both enjoy and be yourselves at.  On the first date you want to get to know the person, not sleep with them right off the bat.  Well, okay, maybe you want to sleep with them right off the bat...but getting to know the person in a relaxing atmosphere is sometimes easier than some stuffy restaurant.
224632
I dont know that its a lack of moral education, for moral education is dependent on what your morality is.  Bout the 20's our ideals and ideas of what is right and wrong for us.  and it has evolved into what it is today.  I personally dont see having sex on the first date a necessarily a bad thing.  (not stating its done often just stating that it depends on the person)  it also depends on where you meet the person.  Environment plays a part as to what is intended.  Bars and the like. I dont know that flirting and looking will come to saying hey i want sex, I think that will stay the same.  But dating has changed and you need to either try to avoid the first date sex or embrace it.  Its depends on what you and your partner (date) want.
454824
You didn't mention if this was your first sexual relationship with a guy. I would have to say let nature take it's course. If the two of you have spent a lot of time together; cuddle time, petting time, even sleeping together with out having sex and your comfortable together; I would say if you feel your ready just make sure you take the proper preventative measures to protect the two of you from any form of STD or unwanted pregnancies and well go for it. *smile*\n If this is your first time; I would suggest if this is something you both want, work your way up to full intercourse. Explore one another's bodies, take a shower together ( that's always fun!! ), foreplay, foreplay, foreplay *laugh* Above all else, once it's time and it is your first time, RELAX and let your body take your mind into ultimate enjoyment. Granted no matter what unless you have really done heavy foreplay and are totally relaxed your going to feel some pain but just as fast as you have it, it's gone.\n\nSo either way as others say, use the proper protection, set the mood, and if both of you are ready, have fun!!
35575
If this is a first date, what mood is desired if not sexual? Sensuality is just as important as sexuality.\nAsking general not personal questions of her on a first date is ok. Be a good listener and flirt. Watch your language as some women are offended by blunt none of your business questions on a first date\nNever talk about your ex's and braggarts are boring.\nHold hands, be a gentleman,compliment her sincerely and above all, pay attention to subtle little gestures she may make to show she's interested in more than just holding hands, but don't be pushy. Honesty is always the best policy, but you don't have to feel obligated to tell her your whole life story. Be a little mysterious. Women are attracted to men who have good manners too, so don't pick your nose when you think she's not looking (only kidding)
617305
holding out in the beginning, is ok.  Relationships that i have had that started out with sex right away has always ended sooner, blast at first but after that, it gets dull. The building blocks for a stable relationship starts out by becoming friends first.  Looking at eachother, respecting eachother and wondering what it will be like when you do have sex.  That anticipation makes it  more special ( and hot) and by doing that each can feel more comfortable and be more open.  This makes the relationship stronger in the long run. Good luck
419561
I'm only a few years older than you but I would never have sex on the first date.  You need time to know each other and see if the relationship has possibilities before jumping into bed.  Even at 50, you can get a reputation as a sl*t.  How do you know that this guy would keep his mouth shut?  You don't know something like that until you know the person.  Definitely not what I would do but to each their own.
1046556
If a girl thinks all you want from her is sex, you're going to get the "let's be friends" line from most you meet.  (Sluts don't count.)  The strongest relationships start as friendships.  My advice to you would be to slow down, don't try to get your nookie on the first date, and spend some time getting to know the wonderful world of the feminine mystique.
934035
Whoa, that's like prostitution of the future. I wouldn't date anyone who'd had sex with someone they'd met online. Losing your virginity should be special and with the right person. Not everyone is honest about what STDs they have either, and chances are someone you meet online for sex has had their body used a few times...
593248
It's not improper to kiss on the first date, but you don't have to.  You sort of have to see how things go.  Sometimes a hug and a quick kiss on the cheek work just as well.  You'll sort of know what to do by how she acts when the date is over.  If she kind of hangs close to you and lingers when you start to say good-bye, that is a good sign she is hoping for a smooch!
1135054
Take your time. Your first meeting is NOT an advicable time to want to have sex. Show her how much you respect her and her body by abstaining. You are young and have plenty of time to get to the point of "sex" with her.  Besides, why risk pregnancy, STD's, or hurt feelings after. Respect yourself enough also to say NO. No contraception is full proof!!!!
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...