Are you afraid of your virginity?
347713
How can I fear something that doesn't exist anymore?
1053815
Nope, I was a virgin until I was nineteen. I think I was the only virgin when I graduated high school! But I was proud of that, and the fact that I didn't cave in to peer pressure.
926372
Yes honey, virgin means you haven't had vaginal sex.
566444
Being a virgin makes no difference. if you are a virgin it seems to have more of a damper since you have to kinda prep the girl first. Not a virgin is a plus but too much experience might make him shy away. If she is a virgin and she doesnt tell me she will be in a bit of pain, since im a bit rough. A female should always tell her male if she is a virgin, always.
214460
Different people have different opinions on this, and some say there are different types of virginity. But most people agree that if you have had penetrative sex, then you are not a virgin.
1152756
never do until you really ready .... virginity is a big value in your live ... look to your future first ...there is few people out there i consider them winners . be one until you have the  one that care about you than care for sex first . god bless you .
985444
Because before you lose your virginity you have a lot of sexual tension built up. Also, because it's your first time doing a new thing, it's only natural that you might see things differently.
1152542
Yes I was.  I was a virgin until I was 22.  I don't regret waiting at all.  But I wait because I wasnt ready to have sex with anyone that I had met prior to that point.
1110403
You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
551835
your virginity, r u nuts???
251741
Yes it does... Depending on what your religious beliefs are and/or what nationality you are it can be essential.  But... the biggest to consider is you... Your age, your emotional status, and maturity.  Having sex is not just a physical act but it is also a emotional act...  Are you emotionally mature enough too be able to deal with all the emotions of the sexual act... That of love and passion, self esteem...Self esteem is a HUGE factor... \n If you have a low self esteem, having sex is not going to increase that self esteem. Rather having sex could make you feel so guilty that your self esteem would lower.    You should never, ever have sex just to please another idvidual or to hold to that individual because if your partner is pressuring you to do something that you do not feel that you are ready for then you are going to feel even worst about self and having sex them is not going to guarentee that they are going to stay.  A person that pressure you to do something that you are not ready for also does not respect you in the first place and still will not respect afterwards either..... no matter what they tell you.   Being a Virgin is a special person and once you have given that virginity away you can never ever be a virgin again... so make sure that person is someone that is very special too you and better yet you are as special to them as they are too you... because you are going to remember that first time the rest of your life
393929
If you're a virgin, you will experience some pain.  Hopefully, you will stay a virgin till your wedding night and let this intiment event take place during the special time it was meant for.  Never feel pressured to lose your virginity.  Be proud of it and be different.  Once you lose it, it's gone forever.
342393
Yes my dear, I know what you mean. If you're scared, don't go. \n\nDoes he know you're a virgin? You didn't say how long you two have been dating. If you've dated him a long time and he knows you are a virgin and has been respectful, never questioning you or pressuring you, then it MIGHT be okay. I still think if you are afraid or it makes you uncomfortable, then you should do what feels right to you and not go. If you feel you might be pressured to have sex and you are not ready to, then do not go. \n\nI am not a virgin any more, but know how this feels. Let me share a story with you:\nI am a single woman (previouly married many years ago). I was dating a guy for a few months and I really liked him, but had not had sex with him. We kissed on our dates, and it was very hot, but kept it at that level, just kissing, no "heavy petting". He invited me on a ski trip for a week. We had not travelled together before, or even spent a weekend together, so I was a bit hesitant. (I should have paid attention to that feeling; that was my intuition.)  I really did not think he would pressure me. He had been very well mannered. I would not have gone otherwise. I knew spending that much time together would let us really get to know each other. We got along well and it would be fun, especially because we both like to ski.\n\nOn that trip, he started by wanting me to sleep in the same bed with him. I actually didn't have much choice, the room only had one bed. I should have known right there that a real gentleman would have made sure there were 2 beds or asked me if I was okay with the sleeping arrangements. I felt a little uneasy about it, because I was not ready to be so physically close to him. But I figured it was okay, and kept my gown on. Well, it just got worse each night. By the 4th night he was pissed off that he had "paid to take [me] on this trip and [I] wasn't being accomodating". He got more and more demanding. He flat out told me he "deserved" to have sex with me! He was a real jerk about it! Rather than a really great time, it became a degrading experience for me.  Needless to say, we stopped seeing each other after that. \n\nThat was years ago but I learned a lesson. For me: I would never go on a trip with a man unless we were crazy about each other,already in a commited relationship, and had already made love before that trip. I turned down several trips, but I did not want to be in that position ever again! Yuck!I did not go on a trip with a man again until all of my criteria were met, and what a difference! It was worth the wait.\n\nI commend you for being a virgin. it's a rare thing these days. If you are not ready to lose your virginity, don't!\n\nJust because a man pays for a trip, no woman "owes" a man sex in exchange. I have asked several men (yes, all kinds, including wealthy, well educated, well-mannered upper class men, like the man I had gone on that ill-fated trip with) about this and unfortunately many men seem to think that accepting the invitation of going on a trip is some unspoken code for "there will be vacation sex." They assume "the woman knows [he] wants sex on a trip." So don't go unless you want that too.\n\nYou do what feels right for YOU, not your boyfriend. If he really loves you, he will not pressure you. He will understand. If he doesn't, then break it off. You are special and need to be with someone who truly understands and appreciates you. Good luck!
214121
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
1187712
My virgintiy was important to me.  Me and my fiance gave our virginity to each other and we considered it to be the most precious and beautiful thing that we could give each other.  It is very special to us that we lost our virginity to each other.  I hav found myself and (i know some of my friends feel the same), that when you lose your virginity to someone, it is as if a bond almost a blood bond has been formed between you both.  and no matter what else you do, it will always be with you.\n\nVirginity should be equally important to men, i believe it is to many men but they are loathed to admit it because of the way they have been socialised.\n\nIf I loved someone and they were not a virgin i would marry them if they loved me but I would much prefer the situation I currently have.  I am lucky to be marrying the man who i lost my virginity to and who lost his virginity to me.
647911
Yes, of course. I am willing to wait until I get married. A lot of my friends have lost their virginity two years ago or when we were 14/15/16 and they definitely regretted it. I told them not to but they didn't listen. But I guess it's just that most teenagers just do it to express themselves or release anger/frustration/sadness/whatever and they don't care what they are doing anymore.
544867
I'm a virgin and you're not? just a guess haha