If you want your X-girl back what should you do.&if your the reson 4 the brake up?
344319
just tell her how you really feel and much you miss her, and that you didn't mean what you said, when you broke up with her.
421852
you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
830605
my ex is trying to win me back.....  i say give her space.\n A girl wants time to think about what she really wants. \ndon't bug her.. send some flowers and a letter and let her know exactly how you feel and let her decide .
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
1097677
Your not going to ''not hurt her boyfriend '' by trying to get her back! She's got to want you back, you can't just get her back without tention involved.
700464
I was in a similar boat and went back. \nHowever, before we got back together I grew and changed.\nI'm more independent and overall a stronger person.\nIf you can get back together and be equals that's fine, but the catch is that being equals also means that she has to make up for what she did.  I would ask her directly, "You hurt our relationship, so what are you going to do to fix it?"\n\nIf she talks, but doesn't answer the question then don't go back.  If she actually list out what she is willing to do and she starts doing it then I'd give it a try.
1093874
You should respect the other girl and move on. Why should you be the reason why they broke up.Do you want it to come back and haunt you later. How would you feel if you were dating a guy and someone made him brake up with you so they could go out with them.Remember love hurts it does not need help.
934238
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
871691
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
954328
i think you should tell her the truth that she did something that hurt your feelings and you just need a break from her or that you guys are growing apart and you need a break.
994820
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
406418
Just say no. She'll take you for granted in the sense that because you're still around, you're available should she ever want to get back together. In the meantime, while she has you as a backup, she'll go on with her life, getting you to do all the boyfriend "work" (e.g. listening to her whine about work, traffic, her new jeans) but not giving you the boyfriend "fun" (although maybe once or twice she'll cave and fool around with you). You'll think she's just on the cusp of getting back together with you. And then she'll tell you that she's met someone else. With work, be as civil as you'd be toward any girl in whom you had absolutely no interest. But flirt with all the other girls at work so the ex gets a reminder of what she's missing.
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
762630
if he is a good person, then she wants him back, but so what, dont worry about that stuff...worry about keeping him happy so he wont go back, do not get jealous, that is the worse thing u could do...
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
39094
The question, is not how to, but why.  Think about it.  She's in a relationship, and she meets a charming new guy.  A guy who sweeps her off of her feet,a "grass-is-greener" kinda deal(ahem, that's you, ahem)and she leaves her man for you.  What do you think she's gonna do the SECOND you BORE/ANNOY/TICK HER OFF??!??  That's right.  She's gonna lay down and luxuriate in some REALLY GREEN grass.  Dude, really.  Girls that you can TAKE, you don't want.  Believe me.  Chalk this up to a lesson learned, and keep on lookin.  Ex-girl to the next girl, that's what i says.