should you go back with the guy that possibly cares about you?
336309
It is entirely about how u feel and what u want. Is caring enough for u? Or do u need more?  Do what u feel u can live with.
225773
Just think about this, He's an ex for a reason~!! If your love for him overpowers that reason then go back with him.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
1040579
well, think about it... if it didnt work out last time, how do you know it wont end up badly as the time before? if you go for it, you could risk getting hurt AND as well as wasting your time. you already gave your Ex a chance, dont you think this new guy should deserve a chance to to prove himself to you too? your ex had his chance and screwed it up. Besides, if you give this new guy a chance and it doesnt work out, you could always go back to your ex. I mean if he really did love you or like you, he would definately take you back. If he doesnt, then he doesnt like/love you ENOUGH and is obviously not the type of person you want to marry for "future reasons." \n\nI hope that helped you and good luck! =]
903607
Go with her when she meets him. If he just vanished off the face of the earth without a word, that's odd. But if they broke up and he just stopped returning her calls and moved on, that's different.\nI don't agree with her desire to revisit the past, but I suppose a compromise is you going with her. If she disagrees, I'd be ticked.
382207
it all depends on how you broke up in the first place, if it was a mutual agreement, and you still/miss him a lot, maybe you can give the relationship another try, but if you broke up on bad terms, i dont think its wise for you to get back together, its best just to move on.
376027
well i think that the one u are with has priority, not only that but if you leave him for someone else 4 what ever reason, it may not say much about ur layalty to people and its something that may bite you in the butt later on. if this person u talk about is back in ur life that means he is not sure of what he wants, what garanties u he wont leave u for someone else. be firm in ur descision and dont betray no one in order to aquire what u need, it doesnt say much about u. over all the things you save save ur heart its special dont brake ur promise to ur current boyfriend. if you waited i think he could wait too n if he waits, n ur relationship with ur current boyfriend doesnt work out n you brake it up justifiably than go for it. but dont brake up out of inpulse u might make the mistake of ur life. remember its never good to live off of memories they will always hurt you weather good or bad. k take care
925785
I think you should take him back. Just to see if he actually has changed, because from the sound of it, it seems to me that he has changed. Also because you have nothing to loose if you do start to date him again. I also think it would just be a good decision to make because it seems like that would make you happy, with you missing him and all.\n\nOne more thing... you shouldn't lie to your man... especially about things that involve your ex. It's wrong, and it also seems somewhat suspicious, ya know???\n\nGood Luck ;)
421388
I would go out. I had a serious boyfriend for 3 years from ages 16-19. I was really happy but I felt the same way. I took the leap to go out and I'm glad I did. Now, my ex and I are best friends. Even though we didn't get back together, dating other guys let me realize how much happier I am that my ex and I are just friends now. I didn't realize how much happier I could be until I had some more experience. Plus, I have overcome the fear of wondering how it is to date others. And you never know, you might date around and realize what a great guy you had. He seems like he would be willing to get back together after some time. This would let you know just how happy you are with him, and you will never wonder again.
191004
Probably not and you shouldn't want him back.  If he comes back it will only be because the other girl rejected him and he wants you take care of him and make him feel better, not because he actually loves you.
806054
He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
823387
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
495411
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
553941
Don't go back with him.Especially if your doing well.It will only make you sadder in the long run.Take care of yourself.Don't worry about him.I wish you the best.God bless.
758151
you must prove that you really care for him and that other guy dont matter to you.  if the lost one still cares for you he might give you another chance but he will not trust you the same for some period of time. but this might take some while.
772808
I think so. You might see if there are other times in the near future when he is affectionate towards you and you might try to give a little affection back.
1120831
no you need to move on and if something happens in the future like he comes back and both of you want to still be together then that is fine but both of you r going to go through a transition and u will both most likely change with him being in a different city with different friends, activities, and etc.