If you had the chance to get someone you used to be with back,would you?  why or why not?
354093
your questions scare me...\n\nIt matters what they did for you to "not be together"... it isn't the smartest idea to take someone back that cheated on you, or flirted a lot with other guys. that's just giving her a free pass to do it again. but if you two were really good together, and then something happened that both of you regret horribly, then it should be okay as long as you love her. \n\nare you talking about hannah?
559556
IF YOU HAVE BROKEN WITH YOUR EX THEN USE\nCAN I HAVE MY THINGS BACK
461140
I'd let him go...if he's not into you, is it worth it to debase yourself or do something you don't necessarily want to do to get back together?
526761
As long as your ex didn't cheat on you while you were together. Then the decision on that one. Merely, depends on whether you want him back.  If you do take him back. You just have to realize that a little baby comes along for the ride.  Now with getting set up with a friend of a friend. Well, if he is not talking to you anymore. Just let it be. You deserve more than that.  Just make sure to tell your friend. (Just so he can realize what kind of friend he has)
1125264
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
639333
I guess you are beginnning to have feelings again for that person. Wouldn't you like to contact him somehow ? just to know how that person is doing ?
1040579
well, think about it... if it didnt work out last time, how do you know it wont end up badly as the time before? if you go for it, you could risk getting hurt AND as well as wasting your time. you already gave your Ex a chance, dont you think this new guy should deserve a chance to to prove himself to you too? your ex had his chance and screwed it up. Besides, if you give this new guy a chance and it doesnt work out, you could always go back to your ex. I mean if he really did love you or like you, he would definately take you back. If he doesnt, then he doesnt like/love you ENOUGH and is obviously not the type of person you want to marry for "future reasons." \n\nI hope that helped you and good luck! =]
23526
It is not a bad idea in fact you never know what might happen, old feelings may reappear.  At the same time if you do it be ready for dissapointment remembering that she might be attached.
26448
Sure.  The girl I am with now broke up with me two years ago.  We are back together and getting married in October.
262632
i definitely would not mind him at all. this is because of some reasons: it's possible that he would only use me because i have a feelings for him, it's also possible that he would hurt again my feelings because he has done it before. but it's up to you if you want to take a chance, of course there's a risk. goodluck.
967454
It depends on how long you were going out with the person.  If a long term, I would say no, even if there are no feelings any longer it's still just confusing.  You liked that person once and it could happen again.  That's what usually happens after u break up with someon you forget why u did it.  Then you want to get back together again.  For most cases I would say it's a bad idea to be friends with ur ex.  Too many feelings there!!
616801
who cares we are no longer together and he is my EX but as for my friend I would rethink our relationship because she may have wanted him long time ago--leave the past in the past and do what you have to do for you and take care of you let that go
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
432345
Yes. You can. Just that it depends on both sides.\nIf both of you broke up because of the third party, I don't think both of you can get back together. Some does, but it happens rarely because you'll never forget what he/she have done to you. It really hurts.\nOn the other hand, if it's because of some other factors, I think it's not a problem if both of you can overcome it.\nAnother point is if two person really get back after broken up, they're really meant to each other. If not, they wouldn't get back together. So, if you have second chance, you must treasure it because not everyone has second chance even though they wanted to.\nBut most important is do not ever chase back the reason why he/she broken up with you. This is very important, just forget about it, and start this relationship as if it's a new one.\nFrom my personal experience, my boyfriend now is actually my ex-boyfriend. We've got back together after 2 yrs, after he had got another girlfriend, after I've got another boyfriend. But finally, we found out that we are the most suitable for each other, no one else.
209639
I had a ex of my get it once. it was about 2 years ago.  I thought about it the other day, brought up the "what if" question, but i wasn't in the position at the time to devote everything to a kid, so I think of it that way.
778109
I have yet to hear of a situation where a man got his ex girlfriend back, and everyone ended up being happy with the outcome.  If she's gone, there's a reason she's gone, and your best bet is probably to get over it, and find someone else.
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!