Girls, why would you want to have sex with a guy that's already in a relationship?
348609
because they tend to be more romantice and passionate and also theres no strings attatched to one another lol
252907
do you want an honest answer . . . \n\nThey want to hook up with girls . . . to physically hook up with them.  Not because they like them or love them.\n\nThey may be interesting . . . but only interesting for one thing . . . if it is good . . . they may take a second look . . . to see if they like you as a person.
857417
i think what you are trying to get at or say is that guys wont move on from their girlfriend whom they can get regular sex from until they find someone else or some other means of getting regular sex. this guy sounds like a tool. end it now, save yourself from the heart arche and from being used.
326692
Let me give you a guys perspective, if you give us what we want, we will always take advantage of you. After that starts, you will always end up with guys that only want sex, and it will be that much ahrder to find a guy who loves you for you. Thats what you want eventually isnt it? On a different note, its about the stupidest thing you could ever do.
593855
simple guys are horny and r in such a rush to do it they don't even care if it's with the wrong person.fortunally there are good guys out there who are willing to wait for the right time. stick to those boys
255229
Believe me I think plenty of us have done this at one time or another.. It is nice to have somebody there to get intimate with.. And it is not awkward because you have been with him before.. Is it a good idea? No, it is time to move on and find somebody else to build a relationship with...
834177
i've had sex with several of my EX girlfriends much later after we had broken up.  i think once you've had sex with someone its easy to feel comfortable enough to go back and sex again. even if it's just a one nightstand with an ex. most of the time the ex is the one asking for it not me.
195479
well if she just met him and had sex with him, chances are hes not looking for a relationship, usually that makes a guy think youre easy what ever goes through their heads, also if he was willing to have sex (especially that much) after just meeting, he probably does that with other women, sorry to say. Men like a chase, so if she really wants him, she should not be 'available' all the time, and definately not have anymore sex with him (if she wants a relationship). if he decides not to try anymore, he was just in it for sex and hes no good anyway
298503
YES,for once..Because all i thought he would be mind and until i still ask my self why did i do that?Do i look bitch?!\nif were to choose one night stand or relationship witn a guy..I would absolutely choose the best. The relationship with a guy..because it s more intersting to have a relationship than without.
14148
If you just want to have sex go for it, but if you want something more! you have to get past him just looking good! and if he has a rep for cheating then why set yourself up for heartbreak! its not worth it..find a good looking guy with a good heart that you will never have to second guess, what it really boils down to is maturity.
296583
This idea sounds good, but never actually works out. Unless it's a one night stand with someone you know you're never going to see again. Other than that, there is always going to be some emotion involved. Even if the other person agrees to just being sex buddies, they're probably just doing it to keep you aroung because they'd rather have you that way then no way at all.
1100082
Depends on how long we've been together. But personally, I won't be in a relationship where we are not intimate. I'm not saying that she has to sleep with me right away, but if we do get into a relationship and consider ourselves monogamous and are boyfriend/girlfriend I want to be intimate with the one I'm with. But the difference here is that I am old enough to be in that kind of relationship. I don't know how old you are, but based on most of the posts here, the majority of people are under aged and should not be worrying about having sex with their partner. Wait til you are old enough to make wiser decisions before involving yourself in a intimate relationships.
949157
The fact of sex doesn't mean a thing one way or the other.  If I enjoyed being with her, and if I think I would enjoy being with her again, I'll call.   But if we were just taking care of a biologicial urge, and there was no real connection between us, I would not want to go out with her again.\n\nIn other words, if we really liked each other and ended up in bed together, then that's just great.  But if we didn't have anything in common except the sex, why bother?\n\nJust one man's opinion. Good luck!!
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
472588
Well you have an open relationship.  If you can flirt with other guys and have a monogomous sexual relationship then more power to you.  I would be proud of having that type of relationship, see what else is out there and have a guy that wants to go home with you everynight.
910783
He doesn't want to date you, he's hoping that your horny enough just to have sex with him, he wants to be your sexually rebound guy.
1093449
maybe he really loves her and respects her. Or is not ready to get into a serious relationship but it all depends on his age. I would really appreciate a guy that would not just want to have sex and still be with me. Maybe he is one of those that believes waiting until marriage is worth a lot...it really depends on a lot of factors.