how to keep a conversation with a girl?
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Music, love, life, television, hobbies, dreams, wishes, etc.
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Well first of all there is no such thing as a good pick up line. Girls don't fall for that kind of stuff. At least not any girl worth wasting any time over. The best thing to do is to start talking to a girl as friends first, get to know her a bit, but not too much, just so that you could call her a casual friend. The best way to do this is ask alot of questions about her, and don't talk too much about yourself. Naturally humans see good conversationalists as those who ask questions, because in a conversation we love to talk about ourselves. But make sure you mention yourself a little. Also a little tip for keeping a conversation going is to start your next line with whatever she just said. For example\n\nyou: So are you planning on going on holiday anywhere this year?\ngirl: oh yeah I'm going to Mexico\nyou: mexico? wow, sounds nice, it's a really beautiful place during the summer. what kind of music are you into?\ngirl: I like a lot of R n B music.\nyou: R n B, cool, I like a lot of R n B. So do you go to a lot of concerts?\ngirl: Not really, but I went to see Destiny's Child before.\nyou: Destiny's Child, I like them, a shame that they split... etc..\n\nThis is good because the repetition of what she says makes her feel like you're listening, plus it keeps the conversation going. Even if you don't know much about what she's talking about, just ask further questions about it. "oh I don't know too much about that, what's it like?" etc.\nEventually let it evolve into natural conversation. Don't force things too much though.\n\nCompliment her, but not heavily. Just little things once you've gotten to know her a bit such as "your eyes look pretty today", but nothing too much and not too often. Also compliment her on things that don't matter so much, like compliment a freckle, her voice, her hand writing. Little things are often the ones that are mostly appreciated.\n\nAnd I know you said you didn't want to have someone say "just be yourself" but you know, what's the point of being with someone who doesnt want to be with the real you? Hope it works out for you.
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i agree with pancharito because that is how it normally works.  normally girls with good personalities are better than the good-looking ones.\n\nof course, maybe she is good  looking and nice.  if she is, then that is great.  there are good-looking girls out there who have great personalities, but most of them i'd say don't.\n\nas far as keeping conversations going...just be yourself, find out what she likes, and if you have anything in common, start talking about that.  maybe you have a class together or both like a band or sport.  you can find something.  talk about something that's happened to you recently.  tell her a story about yourself.  ask her how she is doing, if she had a good day at school, what she did the past weekend, etc.\n\nbut you need to realise that you can't make people like you.  they have to like you for who you are and sometimes that requires them to realise something in you that they like.
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first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
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Hello is always a good start...Then just ask how her day went. But if she's not the talkative type(I know I'm not) Then just ask simple yes or no questions til she feels more comfortable to talk.
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be cool and relax..don't try too hard...find a girl that you are interested in and just start talking to her...show interest in her other than sexually and things will go from there...promise
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Just talk about whatever.  "hey, how was your day?" "what are you doing this weekend?"  Ask her about her interests, school, family, etc.  \n\nIf you click it won't be hard at all.
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First of all, check out the girl--what is the mood at her moment.  If you can handle her mood, go and talk to her in the way that suits her.  There is no definite method as to how to talk to one; it all depends upon the person, the place and the time.
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introduce yourself to her. make conversation.
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Remember, that every person has a style.  For some girls, talking is very important, however for others it may not be a priority.  You want someone who will appreciate you for your unique qualities.
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Anything that isn't normal.\n\nDon't talk about work, past relationships, school, whatever.\n\nIf you're into some interesting hobbies (not like collecting cards or playing Dungeons and Dragons) things that are actually interesting to a girl, then talk about them, but don't do it bragging.\n\nJust try and be as natural as you can...be yourself and don't really worry about what you're talking about.
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Try starting with something like "hello".  Try talking to her, try getting to know her.  Ask her how things are going, maybe find out what she likes, try and find some common ground so that you'll have something to talk about.  As you get to know her, you'll know if she's right for you or not.
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my suggestion, DONT PLAN AHEAD!!! if you plan ahead it just puts pressure. on you just go and do what you normally do and if you bump into her just say something that you would say to any other girl. like hey thats a neat shirt. or if she is into sports compliment something shes done well in sports. or whatever shes good at compliment her on it!!!!!!
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build up your conferdence, and play it out . just practice how you want to start a conversation. she may be shy too.
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The best way to end up talking with a shy girl is to go through her friends.  She is shy so she is probably a little insecure.  If she see's that her friends accept you, she will in turn accept you.  Get everyone into a good conversation and make sure you include her in it.  If you show that you want to know some stuff about her she will begin to open up.
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if you already talk to the girl, just flat out ask her.but remember to breath while you do it
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Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.