do guys think about their partner when making love or watching porn?
345534
I don't know about all guys, but I'd say about 75% of the time that I'm with her I'm thinking about her and about 5% of the time when I'm with myself (if you know what I mean).
290163
some do some don't. it all depends on the guy. then there are those who say it is cool, but when their girl does watch it they get disgusted. personally, I think that girls have just as much right to watch porn as males. they get horney too!!!
890100
Wow...really tricky question, my friend.\nWell, considering it...generally my answer will be " I don't think so." If a man had slept with lots of woman or girl before, it would be definitely impossible for him to have the pleasure by imagining you. Surely in one moment of your sex pleasure, his mind will come across with other girls (whom he had experienced before). Besides that there are many other factors (in which I must not state here for I am like betraying my own kind or species. :>).\nWhatever it will be, my friend, it does not happen in all men. Only certain and some men may have the genuine and true heart to show their love to you including during the time of having sex with you.\nOverall, what I can say to you is the general rule is never ever trust a man easily. For if not...in most cases, you may end up being dumped or being used only. \nHope you get my point here.
1042447
yes I do....and to the person that said its lust, I have you know that my man and I have been together for 3 months now, plus we knew each other as friends and we have not had sex.  We are waiting until we both feel the time is right.  You know if its true love, when both of you finish each others sentences, you can carry on a conversation about anything, you wake up and you immediately think of that person, or you can be sitting at your desk and think of that person, then the phone rings and its them.....that's when you know you are in love.
498087
From a medical point of view men are driven visually and so they look. Women are more in tune with feelings and we go with our heart.  As long as he's only looking and giving you the benefit's be happy and tell him nicely that while your love making is great sometime you just want a nap.
942903
As far as the friend.  Guys who are not occupied with sex are preoccupied with it.  I don't get guys watching porn with other guys.... seems a little gay.  Porn is for one thing, so are they taking care of that in front of each other?  Also if they share watching porn together, you know the friend knows alot about you at this point, if you know what I mean.\n\nStrip clubs.  I don't get that at all.  It's like being hungry and going to McDonald's to only smell hamburgers.   If your guy goes, it's not something to be jealous of, but it sure reflects poorly on his character.\n\nPorn in general, every guy looks, it's just too available now days and guys are already thinking of sex six times a minute.
311892
I don't mind. My bf goes onto porn sites, but he doesn't ALL the time and he doesn't let it rule all his time when he's off work. He doesn't get too into it. I actually watch a little my self, sometimes. It just depends on the TYPE of porn he watches, as long as it doesn't get too wild and perverted, and he doesn't watch it all the time...I'm cool with it.
213314
i think most women think about sex as much as us men , if they were honest about it they would enjoy it as much also. tell your man what makes you moan , he will do it to keep you happy , and he can get what he want's , but be fair give if you recive!
551716
yes!! I use my imagination. That's what keeps a relationship together sometimes. Well mine atleast. I don't think about him when we are doing it.
578412
You answered this question yourself lady....he really likes porn...in all hetrosexual porn the man is 'serviced' by the woman, who is the 'receptacle' for his sex. You have been servicing him, once you have done that he is done with you, in fact he makes you initiate the contact to emphasise the fact that you are servicing him. What you have is a USER, not a LOVER. \n\nSorry.....
1048669
So....you  like to watch porn before sex and you have the idea that your boyfriend will think it's weird?  Umm...that's highly doubtful.  He is more likely to jump in the air and be all happy.  Though there is a Chance you might have that 1% of guys that don't like porn, chances are you have the other type of guy....who will say 'yes, my Gf likes porn'
733953
All men are visual creatures.  Most men like to look at the female body, we find it attractive.  We do not have sex with a woman based on the way we "feel" about her, it's about the way she looks.  Just because your husband is getting the visual stimulation from watching porn, it doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.  He propbaly lied to you about the porn because you admitted to watching it "to make him feel okay" and he believes that you dissaprove of it and he doesn't want to offend you.  So, if you are truly okay with it, let it ride.  If not, he'll keep hiding it.  Nevertheless, boys will be boys, don't let it get to you.
621597
I am a guy and I DONT think about sex all the damn time like you kids are making it out to be but guys certainly get more stimulated mentally(and physically-a boner lol) than women do. Overall, men get excited more easily by things of a sexual nature, even if its some girl bending over in front of her locker in HS and he glances at her butt for a split seconds, he thinks 'damn thats nice' or probably 'mmmmmm' or something to that extent. But just because guys are somewhat easy doesnt mean we let sex rule our thinking and that we think about sex all the time. You've been listening to too much stand up comedy if you still believe that.\nNot every guy is the same either!!! so dont judge us based on a few guys at your school or that you know in your life.\nas for your answer to what the difference is between how men and women generally think:\nEvery person is different and is an individual. No body really thinks alike so generally, you cant really differentiate between the two as far as being able to say this is how men generally think and this is how women generally think. it's not possible and its unfair to in my opinion.
556911
i wouldnt say all guys every one thinks or looks at some one wondering wat they look like w/o clothes on. just because im looking and thinking doesnt mean ima leave my partner to do it..its not worth it
232505
You should understand why he does it before you dicide what to do.\nIf he's up for it, then he's probably addited to sex (different with love-making), or lacking of excitment, or having a difficult sexual life situation. You must consider what is going on in your relationship' sexual habit, sexual life ...\nSome men just do the SEX, instead of making love with his partner, because their woman for them is more likely sex object than a lover. (I will dump this hubby to look for a new one)\nSome men look for other excitment because their women didn't respect them enough as their man and also their lover. (in this case you know what I mean)\nSome men have watching-porn habit, due to their work situation - they have to stay to much time apart from home and their woman, they simply need a way to "discharge' themself physically. But a good hubby will do this when he is away, not when he's at home with his woman beside him.
263792
All men watch porn and all men m.a.s.t.u.r.b.a.t.e and all men do both at the same time if they have the chance, and this has nothing to do with loyalty or fidelity to you. This will be true for every boyfriend you ever have.  So the question for you is, do you want to accept this fact or not.  If you are accepting of it, that's one more thing that will make you special to your boyfriend.  If you are not, and your bf feels he has to conceal this part of himself from you, then you are inviting the seeds of dishonesty into the relationship and inhibiting closeness between the two of you, if only in a small way.  That's what's at stake here.\n\nHow about watching some porn together with him?  That would certainly demonstrate acceptance on your part.  If that sounds too uncomfortable or scary, then watch some porn by yourself first.  At the very least, it will get you over the shock and embarassment stage of looking at porn.  \n\nWatching porn and maybe fantasizing about different things is not the same as doing them, and you shouldn't feel bad about having "shocking" thoughts cross your mind.
1124126
Some people are prude, that's why you are getting no answers. I am a female. Yes to people I can't have (Male or female), or ones I have had in the past\nyes to more than 1 other person, porn is fine with me. Fantasize about places to do it, way to do it. \nI have a healthy imagination and sex life, and my man loves it. I know he thinks of other women---what man or woman hasn't?? \nIf you want to keep the spark, you have to be open, honest and willing to try different things.