Why don't army guys want to date army girls? Army girls will date army guys, so why the double standard?
343227
This is going to sound ugly but my fiance is in the army and the higher ups told them in a briefing not to date army women because they how should I put this....have been around.Being that there are fewer of them than the men.Sorry,but you wanted an honest answer,correct?
151825
well  i havent thought of that, because me thinking "im a girl, guys would have that problem.. not me.."  but also i dont understand a draft at all.  i had my ex explain it to me, but i dont get it.  does that mean that i might have to go even tho i havent done anything like sign up for anything for the army?   i am sorry i can not help you as much here as i have been able to with your other questions.\n\n16
257203
Why do guys always think this double standard is fair? Its the same thing that causes teenage guys to say "hey I went out and got laid last night" and his buddies pat him on the back .. but when he tells all his friends who he got a piece of she is labled as easy.\n\nIts disgusting!!
74128
Nope, you will date guys.  They look at you as one of the homies now, and that's cool, because some of the other girls probably wish they were in your shoes. Maybe one of your guy friends can set you up on a few dates, maybe even double date, and you can hook one of them up with a friend of yours.  If so, look your best, but make sure you feel comfortable! And have fun!!!
883900
There is a lot more homosexual activity happening in the military than they would like to admit.  Many soldiers do this.  A lot of them play group masturbation games.  You just have to think about the mentality of someone who would engage in violence against a country that they didn't even know existed a couple years before 9/11.\n\nWhy are you even interested in dating these guys?\n\nAnd what's wrong with noticing things "normal" guys won't?  Don't you want to be with someone who's more aware than less aware of things?\n\nOh, sorry.  I guess you're American.  Carry on.
237240
I think there may be some confusion there.  What people are missing is there is a huge difference between being supportive of the men and women fighting overseas and supporting the reason they are there.  By the way, exactly why are we there?  Fighting terrorism?  Oh, yea, I almost forgot.  Anyway, I do not know of many who do not support the troops, and I do not know of many who support the reason they are there.  There is a difference.  I hope everyone sees and understands that.  Just because someone thinks our presence in the middle ease is uncalled for does not mean that person does not support our military.
1187846
It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
652669
No, not at all...and if you do, then you are setting a double standard (if your a guy) and if you are a girl, don't worry about it...
747818
how come you are allowed to ask questions about this in general relationships but when i try to ask about girls (even in gay) my question gets pulled\n\nthats a bit whack, really
664204
im in the army and i dont know what there is to do but i do think that you should trust you bf. if he is deployed he may be around women alot depending on his job but either way the girls over there are getting it from so many single soldiers it disgusting. my point being that i wouldnt have sex with any of the girls over there cause you never know what your gonna get.
279082
My guess is probably the same reason girls want to be with a nice looking guy that has a nice body. Ever see a group of girls out at night in search of ugly, overweight men?
283177
As a girl I want to tell you that you are right. Most girls don't want to date a nice guy because they are not exciting. If they treat you like your not that important to them it makes them a challenge. Girls have a fixing complex. It makes us feel good when we have the power to change the way a guy feels or acts. You need to find a girl that has learned that lesson and has matured a little.
373762
Yes, it is a double standard. But an understandable one, IMO. When seeing two guys together, you think of the sexual implications, and they generally aren't very pleasant. With women it is different. Women are by far the fairer sex, and the view of what they'd do together is much less "intense" so to speak. Just to clarify, I have no problem at all with someone being gay, bi, or lesbian. I can't afford to. ;P
569448
Because most women secretly want to be conquered, dominated. They feel as if they are betraying the "sisterhood" to admit it openly. But they want a man who is a man. Not some effeminate man. That is why sensitive effeminate men are home watching Queer Eye for the Straight Guy on cable. \n\nThat is why women say with their lips they want a nice doctor or architect, the 2.5 kids, the pet, the SUV, and the home in the 'burbs, but go out and get these train wreck womanizers or bad boy rough necks. It is the choice they make that gets them thought of as they are. And when so many are so quick to hop in the sack, how can they be thought of as the "nice girl" who has some scruples?\n\nIf you fall for every get-rich-scheme no matter how hair brain, do you think anyone would trust you with money? If you are a girl waiting in line to be with Mr "bed 'm and boot 'em" McDreamy, when you know he has never, EVER, been loyal or faithful to any g/f. You figure she is just in it for the d*** or highly stupid so you have a hard time taking her seriously. \n\nI don't even think of Asian girls in such ways because they have more morals. If you get it from them, you worked 500 times as hard, or you put a ring on their finger.
489539
Since your in the military,it doesnt suprise me that your male counterparts dont respect you.In the military as well as paramilitary occupations(such as police work,firefighters)it's the same thing,if you dont have a p**** and t******** hanging from your legs,you wont get any respect,dont look for it ever! Dont mean to sound so negative,but i was in the military and in law enforcement,and as a female you will never get any respect from any male because of their wicked male ego!
633672
Every female I've come across is like any civilian you'd meet.  Some are girly girls.  They are usually the ones that no one respects in the military (and my personal bane) then there are the majority who took the job and were willing to fulfill their obligations.  I don't see myself as a tougher than normal kind of gal, but when I'm angry, I've had former drill instructors back away from me!  And I don't see myself as one of the toughest.  There are plenty of females I wouldn't mess with.  I can name more normal females than I can the weak girly-girls, but some how, the girly-girls are remembered and we are all though of that way until we have prooven ourselves otherwise.  But from what I've seen, there's plenty of girly-boys out there crying about how hard things are too.  I'd say we are even in that category.  The females are just remembered better, because there are fewer of us.
1034442
It is because it is predominantly a male occupation.  Also, we have read about women who are being harrassed in the army when they join.  I guess it is because men, in general, are egoistic that they dont see how female can be their counterparts in an area that mostly uses strength, endurance and wit.  That wont hinder us from joining the army, though...