my friend likes this girl online and she likes him but is that considered cheating on his girlfriend?
345697
If he doesn't tell his girlfriend, then it's being deceptive at least. Unless they are in an non-exclusive relationship, his girlfriend should know. And I think she'd probably want to. And I think she wouldn't like it if she knew. Which means he probably shouldn't flirt with people, online or off.
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
153949
If you are stiil messin around with that person and the other person has a girlfriend then that is called cheating.. \nand that is just wrong\n\nYes you may have feelings for him\nbut he has someone else
987619
well well well i think its okay if he likes her or she likes him well all i can say if she go out with him she must have except him as who he is and im pretty sure she knows about the cheating thing so u never no he might have change since his last gurl friend(ciara)because he now he knows that us gurls dont play when it comes to dating,loving some one and that you trust them with you heart and feelings and when u miss that up theres no more chances
238280
personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
346482
Omg, I have this guy too and he has this slutty girlfriend and I think he can really do better then that. I ask him to come over nad hangout and he saud my g/f would like that!  I was like Matt come on your my best friend your gonna diss me for you girl, but i'm still friends with him and i love him but if he wants her, theres other fish in the sea!
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
1169023
Come on, cheating is cheating! You know, that thing you do that goes against the rules. For example,  if your girl says, "You can't kiss other girls, D." Then you gotta respect that, otherwise, it's cheating. Why do people cheat? Sheer laziness(when it comes to tests),boredom(when it comes to relationships), and a God-complex(when it comes to games)
812203
I think if this question really is a true question.. you are not doing the correct thing by cheating like that... You will loose your girlfriend if you tell her whats going on. You need to stop this fling with your friend if you want to stay with your gf.. you should be honest with yourself and ask your own self... maybe you are not"gay" but bisexual.  Maybe you should not be in a serious relationship right now.
417863
No way.\n  If a guy has a girlfriend, why would you flirt with him. If you had a boy friend you wouldn't like it if someone flirted with him knowing that you were his girlfriend. It is called common courtesy. It makes you look like a jerk and someone that is not trustworthy or with no morals.\nThere are so many guys out there. Why are you wasting your time flirting with one that is taken. It makes you look cheap.Or insecure.\n\nIf you flirt with this guy and he and his lady break up, he could blame it on you, or, if he does give you a try, he already knows that you are a shyster so he won't trust you.\nSo, find someone else.
923661
This is a very touchy situation and should be handled delicately. Easily, both ends of this scenario can be seen. If you tell her, you'll probably lose him as a friend and she'll either be in denial and/or be mad at you. If you don't tell her, and she finds out anyway (which she will eventually) then finds out that you knew--you'll lose her as a friend. There are endless possabilities as to how it will play out--tell or don't tell--for either. If you truly think that he'll never do anything like cheating again, and they're happy, then that's great. But if he is the type that could cheat again, maybe her knowing now would save her more heart ache and pain down the road...\n\nYou mentioned that he said it was over with the girl, right? Now, did you beleive him when he told you this? You know him, was he being honest about it? Do you see this guy 'checking out' and flirting with women often?  Do you think that he would cheat on her again, period?  Ask yourself these questions, and it should help in your decision.  But, since none of 'us online people' truly know your friends, it would be extremely hard for us to answer the question for you. You are the one who knows them both personally, and it's up to you to sit down and evaluate the situation, taking the people themselves into account. We all have our opinions, and anyone answering this will give you theirs. (that's why we're here I guess--answer truthfully to the best of our abilities and all that) \n\nBest of luck to you, and remember that whatever decision you  make will be the right one!!
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
716899
Once a cheater always a cheater...forget about whether he likes or not but think about what kind of person he is that thinking about going out with you while having a girl friend. He has to finish the relationship and then move on to you.What! Is He holding the girl he's dating as a back up...or he's thinking you as a back up!
263023
That's like asking if making out in the coat room counts as infidelity.  It doesn't matter where you are.  If you are cheating one someone it's considered cheating.
901016
depends on how much the guy likes your friend. He might  just be leaveing more opitions for himself. If he likes that other girl more. then ditch him but if he does like your friend more. Get them together and make it official. If he is still cheating on your friend then get rid of him....
817726
For some people flirting is just in their personality. Now if it's flirting with the intent to cheat, or they are being very suggestive, then I don't think it's acceptable. Still, while it may be innapprorpriate, I wouldn't call it cheating.