I need help, I like my best friends bf?
345852
First of all a guy is not worth a friendship!!!\n\nYou should not be in their relationship either that is just going to cause problems, especially since you are friends with both of them.\n\nAlso if you date him she will be mad at you and then if you and him break up he will be mad at you to and then you will not have a best friend. And I honestly dont think you want to risk both of their friend ships just because of the crush you have on him!
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)
686998
Okay, you like him, and you don't just like him........you LOVE him, and deep down inside, you feel REALLY upset that he likes your best friend, even though they go together, you still want him, but I guess only patience is your only option, I'm going through the same thing- except I don't know if my crush likes my best friend, I don't think he does either. But yeah, only time will tell. Hope this helps.
364892
Figure out what you want for real. Do you have the habit of moving from one guy to the next? If so, stop and take a few breaths before you get involved next time.\n\nAs for the guys, stay away from his best friend. You never should date a boyfriend's best friend unless the old relationship is long dead. And even then, it can be a sensitive topic.
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
903645
Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
162073
I've heard about this type of case before, if you like him and he seems to like you too, you guys should give it a try. You wont loose anything, just make sure you guys talk about it and say to each other that if it doesn't work you'll still be as best friends as before :-)
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
614813
IN ORDER TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION, YOU MUST EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN FRIENDS? ARE THE TWO OF YOU INVOLVED IN A SUPPORTIVE HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP?  IF THE ANSWER IS YES TO ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS, THEN BOTH \nYOU AND YOUR FRIEND NEED TO MAKE THIS GUY OFF LIMITS. \nNO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR LIKE THIS GUY, IF YOU CONTINUE SEEING HIM KNOWING BOTH YOU AND YOUR FRIEND BOTH LIKE HIM, YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE YOUR FRIEND. GUYS COME AND GO, BUT A TRUE BLUE GIRLFRIEND IS HARD TO FIND.
965658
flirt a little, if nothing happens, ask him. But if your friend seriously likes him, you have to choose; keep a friend and lose this guy you might not keep forever anyway or lose a friend and have the guy but lose him later on((not saying you will lose him, but its a big possibility))
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
587199
Look, like some of them said, forgive him, and i don't know if you loved him or not, but any boy that will do something with your BESTFRIEND is not a good man. you have all of your life to find that right one, and if he wants to be with her let him be with her. hell she mite not be the only one that he has messed with anyway.
701636
Tell him the truth.  He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever.  But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road.  BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
468598
Oh shyt.. well.. Where I agree with the above people, I personally think that if you do that, then you might get more than yoru bargaining for. You tell your man, he might think that you are initiating it.. or he might not. If you tell him and he looses his best friend and you dont work out, he might blame you. You cant think of RIGHT NOW, you have to think of the long run.. i would persoanlly text him back and tell him "look i dont find it funny nor attractive that you are hitting on your best friends girlfriend. I am with *bf's name* back off ." now if he doesnt then free for all, tell your man ... but at least you tried to get him to back off first.
1110925
get away from him and tell your friend so she can see what kind of bf she has
81195
Your best friend must be jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend.  Tell how much she means to you and that no one could ever take her place in your heart.  Help her get a boyfriend and things may get a little better between ya'll.