Why do fools fall in love?
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Other way round. People who fall in love get to be called as fools!
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hmm.. falling in love.. what a great feeling.  However, ALLOWING yourself to fall in love when you know your heart will break, is not love at all.  But when you CHOOSE to love someone, there are no expectations.  You just do it because it makes you happy to do so.  And when that is given in return (not expected) well then that is the most wonderful thing on earth.  We are creatures of love.  We came into this world knowing only love.  We only learned from family, friends, and the world what is expected to "be in love".  And this is a lie.  When someone punishes you for loving them, then it isn't love at all.  So pay attention to your feelings and the ACTIONS of others as well as your own actions.  There is a book I want to find and read .. it will help you understand and it explains it better than I ever will.  Enjoy!!
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One would have to be mad to fall in love.
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It all depends are what you are, which you don't mention. People fall in live with and tend to stay in love with people who are like them, mutual beliefs, and mutual interests. Opposites may attract, but it they have no staying power. Date opposites for fun, but DON"T fall in love with them. You are doomed to a life of regret and disappointment if you do.
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Stupid people need love too.
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It depends on the reasons why you fall in love. A lot people mistake passion and infatuation with love and those are really bad reasons to fall in love with someone because you need a little more than that for that love to real. We all want our love to be requited, but when it's not love turns into pain, desilusion and so on. The worst part is, it happens and there is nothing we can do about (specially unrequited). We can only hope that the object of our affections has been hit by the same arrow and returns the feelings, and then it's great!
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because people are looking for love.. duh!
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perhaps its another example of a connection.  \n\nsome people are shallow, when their lover loses their beauty they in proportion lose the romance and seek others for that beauty once again.   Lowly shallow people they are.
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People tend to fall in love with people who are similar to themselves.  Guys who fall in love with a shallow, vacuous girl are likely (but not always) shallow and vacuous themselves.  However, if you don't like the guys that approach you, that points to a different issue.  You should think about what image you may be projecting.  The guys you are attracting are basing whether or not they'll approach you generally on first impressions, so you may be making a first impression that's not in tune with who you really are.  It's a mistake to dress like the girl who's with the guy that you like, because he may like that girl for a myriad of other reasons besides her appearance.  For instance, how do you know that's not his sister or ex-girlfriend?  Talking to him would answer questions like these.  This illustrates why conversation, interaction, and  getting to know people is the best advice for forming lasting relationships.
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...the love or fall in love
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Sometimes things don't turn out the way we want and the person we love doesn't love us back. Is funny how people don't seem to match up in love. Every human being has his own likes and dislikes, everybody has the picture of the perfect love (boy or girl) in his head but most of the times it seems this only makes us suffer. Unfortunately it isn't a system who would make us fall in love with the person who loves us, we must just try and take our chance. If it works, we are happy, if it doesn't we get disappointed. \n   That's life, untill the science will come up with a special formula against heart break we must just live with this soul error of falling in love with the wrong person.\n   Trust yourself and keep on searching for the girl who will love you as much as you love her. Life has a good taste only if your heart is always opened.
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Definitely. I have no doubt about this at all, and anyone who thinks that we're above animals in this regard is sadly deluded. Otherwise, why would "falling in love" be so completely, utterly irrational, while studies have demonstrated that women will wear more provocative outfits during ovulation, can unconsciously tell a man's genetic suitability from smell alone, and we flirt with people when we really, really should know better.
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if you are sticking with him because he begs you its not love its PITY\nif you love how he thinks about life,how he dress up or something about how he looks its not love its INFATUATION\nif you stay around because you THINK ITS FUN being with him its FRIENDSHIP\nif you cant take your eyes off him or you pay attention more on his body and heats up everytime he is near its NOT LOVE ITS LUST..\nif you love him and cant think of anything or any reason why..thats love because LOVE IS UNEXPLAINABLE,LOVE JUST COME AND GOES WITHOUT HASTE...and mind you..we never fall out of love...we always grow out of love...whewww!
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A girl falls in love when:\na) someone makes her feel safe, protected.\nb) she feels herself alone (the main, without father or father love) \nc) the guy speaks a lot!!\n\nbut the cause that impacts my reasons is her imagination.
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it takes time to know that you love someone. some people believe in love at first sight; i just think thats lust
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we are fall in love because we want to keep our relationship a little longer.\nor we just want to get along . i mean the matter is does it make you happy or not>?
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The reasons why people fall in love are varied. Some talked about chemical attraction (pheromones), and apparently it plays a great part in it. Of course, there's also the physical attraction, and that's more linked to what people called "lust". \n\nI take it that you can make the distinction between going out with someone, and loving someone.  Also, I'm only going to consider that the two persons involved are not commitment phobics.\n\nWhen people fall in love, they unconsciously tend to notice only the good things about their partner. Also, they tend to do more things for their partner. So that when the passion goes away and you get into a routine, you notice all the "shortcomings" of the other. Sometimes, it works out, but sometimes, you realise that you'll never be able to live with this person.\n\nEven if you don't mind the other's shortcomings, routine can be difficult to avoid. It can be difficult to keep love alive when you share everything with someone. Also, in a relationship, you are bound to compromise at some point - if you want to stay with that person, that is. \n\nThere's a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" (it's a best-seller) and, although he could have summed up his ideas in 15 pages, I think it's a good book to read to understand how men and women think. Sometimes, you really want your relationship to work, but you don't know how to do it because you don't understand the other. Communication is VERY important in a relationship, but even if you try to communicate, you might be doing it the wrong way. I'm not saying this book has THE answer (everybody's different), but I think it's a good way to understand why couples fight for apparently no reason. \n\nI think that before people get married, they should go out for a while, then live together for a while, and see if they can handle their problems. \n\nPS: of course, sometimes, love just fades away.