My Boyfriend and I keep breaking up and getting back together.  What  should I do???
343081
I know this is probably not the answer you are looking for, and I don't know your age... but you are probably still young.  Just take a break.  Normally if you keep getting together and breaking up over and over... well it's most likely not going to last anyways.  If you are young, remember you are going to have TONS of relationships.. and first thing is first... if you 2 have trust issues IT WILL NOT LAST.  You need to be with someone who you trust and who can trust you, the first sign of trust issues is when you need to back out.  You should have fun and not stay committed to just 1 person for a long time (if you are young)  Go have fun.. and you will know when that one guy comes along that he is for keeps!  I went through rough relationship after rough relationship.. and then one day I met my husband!  And I have been happy eversince.  But also remember, learn from these relationships you are currently in and going to encounter... they will help you in the future when it comes to finding your TRUE LOVE!
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
634516
you have to sort out all the pros and cons, Including, are you reading it wrong cause you want him back so much. \nAlso you need to ask yourself can you get over the things that caused you to break up last time\n\nBest of luck and i hope you enjoy yourself what ever happens
951406
You 2 broke up for a reason if u get back together do u really think it will work if so go for it if not then dont try anything on him.
338459
U broke up for a reason.... it wouldnt be fair on your current boyfriend to finish it with him just because he comes back on the scene. It isn't easy, but his lost you, urve gone onto better things. Do stay mates tho...you never know whats around the corner, so if something did happen between you and your current c/f, he will still be ther!
896127
get back with your boyfriend
653811
forget him, if he doesn't want you back find someone who is better than him - he'll want you back then, just like you want him back now\n\nyou break up for a reason, why get back together?  did things really change?  (they usually don't)
1163744
If he broke up with you to explore his options and regrets his decision now that it's not working out in his favor, TOO BAD! Do not take him back. He was selfish enough to end what you had to start something new, who's to say he won't repeat these actions. If you go back to him, he'll know you're weak and will prey on that as long as you give into whatever conveniences him. Just love yourself more than that. He doesn't even deserve someone as nice as you, you can do better. Good luck in love and life!
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
147276
things seem to happen for a reason. it is time for you to move on. maybe you will always love him, but your relationship will never work. the two of you hurt eachother enough, start the healing process and see what happens.
193021
Sounds like you are both in a better place to have an adult relationship now. When people ask about getting back together with an old flame I always ask them to try and think about what is going to be differant this time so you don't end up breaking things off again.\n\nYou are your ex need to have a serious discussion about what went wrong last time and how you can BOTH make sure that those types of things don't happen again.\n\nBest of luck
1027662
you need to file yourself and get this over with...do not wait on him...and let him go, you may still love him but why? why would you want someone back who has left you and treated you this way...get this over with, the sooner you do the sooner you can move on
364602
It is normal to want to get back w/ your ex. However, you should only get back w/ him only if you want to.  Don't let him pressure you into it. There are a lot things you have to take into consideration...i.e. like why did you all separate, can u trust him, and is the relationship worth trying again? Whatever you do, don't rush to make decisions, take things slowly, and remember ur happiness is most important. Good Luck.
762749
Just b/c your the one who broke things off doesn't make it any less painful for you.  You are still going to go through the "missing him" part...  Just make sure you don't go back and forth on your decision and get back together with him.  Stick to your guns.  You made your decision, now stick with it.
1074737
I agree that you make a list of reasons you broke up and go back to read it when you need to. Just make sure he doesn't find it.\nGood luck.
865546
yeah my guy and i just had a fight..and I am so devasted..I love him soo much..but then again he is an as*hole...if you feel like you need time..then take time..but if you feel like you can move on with someone else then go out with friends and make new friends..usually after a break up..I like to take time for myself and get back to me...good luck\nps..if you still love him then call him and try to work things out