i have been with my gf for 3 months?
342311
Maybe she needs you to help her kick her habit, make it clear to her that she can't use drugs if shes going to be with you. Depending on the drug you can check to see if shes doing it. Let her know that there is only one second chance and if she screws up again that its over.\n\nI think if you truly love her you should stay by her side through the good times and the bad, most problems like the one you are having can be fixed. That's what love is all about, protecting and helping each other through any adversity.\n\nHope this answers your question.
685791
I dont think that its over. I think you want it to be over by giving up so easily. You have to persever babes. Nobody is gonna give you what you want on a silver platter. Shower her with gifts and affection. Give it a month or 3 weeks for the least. If nothing has changed then you should call it quits. By the way the longer you persever this chick will see that you are really into her.
72260
I think you need to let her down easy.  Tell her you appreciate the time you've had together, but this is just not what you want right now.  You have things on your mind and need to be alone.  Once you break it off, stick to it and don't give her any false hope.  Once you break it off, YOU CANNOT SLEEP WITH HER...if she's crazy, you'll regret it big time.
439534
More than three months is probably too long.  In fact, for a reasonable time, you could sue her for the cost of storing it.  \n\nContact her, inform her you will only hold it for 30 days.  Then get rid of it.  If it is substantial, sell it, and send her the profits, less what you paid to store it.  If she thinks you cheated her, let her sue you (she won't, and you'd win).  Or give it to charity and inform her of it, so she can deduct it.
90259
First of all, it's not wrong !! Don't ever say that b/c thats just what others believe. If you two been together for 3 months and you honestly really care for one another than you are going to have to talk to her and let her know how you feel about the whole situation. It shouldn't really matter what religion she chooses to go to b/c if she really loves you and you really love her then why should either of you allow a book that someone else wrote run you guys relationship down. If you feel that she deserves you and that you deserve her and yall make each other happy then GIRL please live life the best way known how b/c to be real with you, you know like I know that we are only granted with one life to live!!!!!!You midestwell live it being happy, you aren't hurting anyone else by doing that!!\nGOOD LUCK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!
1002198
My advice too you man is too accept that you 2 are finished and move on! go out with friends and do stuff you know? dont listen to any love songs cuz it will remind you of her! dont sob over this too much! yeah 20 months is a hella long time too date and break up like that! but you have to move on and not look back!
979089
enjoy the time you have with her-but brace yourself that it may end.you dont want to regret the last few days you have with her because you were too busy protecting your heart.It will bounce back-I promise
393464
Ask her how she feels about you.  Ask her what she wants out of your relationship.  If you are constantly giving her things, are you sure that she is not using you for what she can get?  Don't give her anything else until she tells you how she feels.  Good luck!
592056
Find yourself another girl for that month and your current girlfriend she just wants some time to have sex with this guy that's if she haven't already.  Don't let her play with your emotions if she needs time let her go for good.  If she really loved you she wouldn't be asking for time because another guy.  Come on shes obviously a whore.  Don't buy her any gifts and for that whole month don't call her shes gonna realize she lost a great guy that B.I.C.T.H!!!!!!!!!!
15750
One year!  She's not your girlfriend anymore.  She's probably avoiding you.  Didn't you ask this question yesterday?  Give it up man.\n\nhttp://www.despair.com/persistence.html
517105
Few months is still too short to say that you guys are in as a serious relationship as to live together. And you got into sex too early before you improved your relationship in a level where you guy understand who is the other person, if you really need he/her to be in your life. So, it sounds more a sex-partner type than a romance. A sex-partner can fight or leave you at any time, for any reason, there's not that much carring, sharing, sacrification ... than a love relationship ...\nMy opinion is you have to look into your relationship, to determine what type it is, then decide what to do: improve it or let it go. Does she loves you, do you love her really, or you guys just want to have each other for sex, and kind of fill the void for the nights ... In the second case, just let it go ...
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
156313
Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
305027
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
399092
IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER...IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING FOR OVER 6 MONTHS AND STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE , THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG AND THE TWO OF YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT AND TRY TO OPEN UP TO EACH OTHER. IT MAY BE THAT YOU ARE SO IN LOVE WITH HER THAT YOU ARE SCARRED SAYING THE WRONG THING MIGHT END YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION IT MUST BE WEIGHING ON YOUR MIND. JUST TRY TO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND HOPEFULLY SHE FEELS THE SAME AND YOU BOTH CAN START TALKING ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL WITHOUT BEING SCARRED.
143057
becarful she might be trying to test you and see if your going to do it at all,and if u love her dont do it. it will hurt your relationship in the long run
688334
Well, shes not across the world (im in california shes in florida) its hard because theres alot of times where we would wanna b close and hold eachother kiss and all that good stuff, we havent seen eachother too (july im goin to visit u bet ur sweet ass im happy bout that lol) we've been together for about 5 months now and i love her more then anything else...communication and trust are big if your planning on having a long distant relationship, if you cant do that then it will just fall apart.. if you are happy with who your with and get over all the bump that WILL happen you'll find out it was all worth it....... but thats how i feel :-)