My ex married someone that use, to go to the same church that we did?
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Just let it go.\n\nTry to be happy for her that she has found someone to share her life with and let it go.\n\nIf you don't it will just eat you up and you'll never move on.\n\nIf you don't let it go you will never be ready to discover your Miss Right.\n\nLeave her in peace and work on your own life.  Get out and discover some new hobbies and passions...hopefully while you are expanding your horizons a lovely lady will stroll over and explore with you.\n\n:)\n\nPeace
970332
Well you could tell him if he really wanted to spend time with you he could go with you to church. You can tell him he can be jealous of alot of things but you given your soul to Jesus shouldn't be one of them.
564811
Totally possible funny story I just asked a question if I should go to my exes wedding heres my story my ex fiancee is friends with my new and though his new fiancee well wife as of tommorow cannot stand me (the whole jealousy thing you know) My fiancee is secure with our relationship so his friends with my  ex but has a general rule of thumb exes are exes and should stay that way
600019
DO YOU WANT TO GO TO HELL? That is not the kind of karma you want to put into the air. Don't be jealous,just move on with your life the way your ex apparently moved on with his.\nLEAVE THE GIRL ALONE SHE DIDN'T GET HERSELF PREGNANT.
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If you are asking for historys sake, Ronin is right about the mostly Protestant, and Anglican thing. (In England.) If you are asking for now a days... don't worry so much about what church is right, and focus on getting your heart right. Your local pastor isn't going to be your judge, God is. Line up with His rules. Get a relationship with Him. Notice I said relationship, not religion?
266374
Woah.  Did he marry you first or the other woman first?  You might want to check with a lawyer on this one.
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It seems to me that you have already made God your first priority, but as far as being able to go to church or not..... you pray at home, you read the bible 3 times a week, he is constantly in your mind and heart (otherwise you wouldn't be so worried as to post this question) - You are in the middle of a very hard time in your life when you are trying to further yourself through schooling, and in order to be able to do that as well as pay bills you also have to work.  You cannot help that it includes Sundays.  To have yourself - OR ANYONE ELSE - beat you up over whether or not you pray at home or in some brick building that is down the street - just because we call it a church - doesn't mean a thing.  The main thing is that you are holding him in your heart.\nAs far as your boyfriend is concerned.  Consider things carefully.  Don't just drop him unless you are sure.  It is true, differences in beliefs can be a big issue in some relationships - it can also be a small one.  It is all of what you make it.  If this is an extremely important thing for you, and you two are serious - then sit down and have a discussion.  Would he want to go to church with you later on down the road?  Would he care if it was a church wedding?  If you had children, would he have difficulties with the kids being brought up in the church?  You could also ask him why he isn't very set on a certain belief - is it because he is confused about it?  Is it just that he has beliefs but is against organized religion?  Perhaps he does have beliefs and is spiritual, but he just chooses not to go to church to exercise his beliefs.  My father was the same.  He hated organized religion, but did believe in a higher power.  My brother and sister-in-law both thought he was athiest, and she even at one point stated he would go to hell because of that.  I got over my initial shock and then laughed in her face.  You can choose to believe that God is an avenging sort of being - all about rules and regulations, OR you can choose to believe that God loves everyone.  That we are here to learn certain lessons and it doesn't matter if you are perfect or not.  That is your choice to make.
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Yes i sure would and i would give him another chance.. I would date and hit on him big time lol.... This is not stupid at all. You also can go to http://www.marriagetoday.org that is a great site and also http://www.crown.org and they are a great help for finances and things like that.... Hope this helps you some and i hope and pray that someday you and your ex can reconcile your differences and rekindle your love and marry again! I love it!!! You go girl:) I am so happy for you and for him... Wish more people were like this. We all could learn from you!
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When you marry someone you are making a committment between you them and God if yu believe. That commitment is that you love ea. other and are willing to try until one of you dies for your marriage to work. Consult with God. He would not abandon any of us. Him being there to unite the two of you in matrimony was a promise of his too, that he would still be there when you couldn't handle it. You have to trust God. If you love your ex you need to accept he is not perfect depression or not, if you are the rebound or not, if he tried to get with his ex wife or not... No one is perfect. To be married is to not be perfect for each other, but to try your damndest to make it work. If you love him and he is wanting to be with you offer to meet half way with counseling. Free at church. Not too frequent. Just to see if marriage is really something you want. If he is willing I say go for it. People grow everyday. You might regret it either way. It just depends really on what you are willing to go through. Good luck hope I helped.
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Sure you can... but the legal date of your marriage will be that of your "first wedding". My husband and I were married by a justice of the peace, 4 years later we were married in the church. We even went through prekana(sp?) classes to do it. It was great to renew our vows and profess our love for one another again. Congrats & good luck:)
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I can understand whrer you are coming from.  My wife and I did it beore we got hitched but we made the decision not to do it again after we were married.\n\nIf you take your vows at church under the witness of God then you shouldnt do it.
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Just go. Let him be the one to do the legal thing. My husband's ex-wife did it (new husband in military) and they moved to Hawaii (we live in Louisiana). We have not seen my husband's daughter in almost 3 years because they transferred again and we've no idea where they are.
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Well, I think since she is inviting you and your wife to her wedding, there is no chance that your ex still wants you. I'd say something casual like, "I just got an email from xxxx, and she invited us to her wedding" and laugh. You have no reason to feel guilty about the situation it seems.
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If you are a Christian talk with your pastor or a counselor about this... If she is still married it is considered adultery however but once she is divorced she may be free to marry again but i am not exactly sure.... Pray about it and ask God to give you wisdom concering this as well.... Why is seh divorcing her husband if i may ask? I know she definitley needs to be divorced before pursuing a new relationship however! Hope this helps
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No way this is normal. You need to put a stop to this-pronto!   There is a reason she is the "ex" so you have every right to remind him of this. He should be over her by now and have made the commitment of being with you. He's married to you now so he hasn't any reason discussing anything with her or being under her control. With exception of talking about the kid anything else concerning the two of you is is none of her business. He's out of whack for communicating with her like this. Time for a reality adjustment. So get up close in his face and tell him in no uncertain terms to shut that big mouth of his. What a lot of nerve. If you're wondering about what I think I think it sucks big time and is callous and disrespectful toward you. That shrew of an ex needs to be put in her place also. Who cares if she went "nuts". She's nuts if she thinks she had any say about the two of you being married! Who the hell is she anyway? Tell her to butt out of your lives. Share a relationship with the ex? God no!! So put your foot down unless you're considering becoming another ex.
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Just try to respect your own religions and be happy for each other. Get back together and work things out, you obviously still love each other. Maybe that is your purpose in life that God has created for you. Don't stress on that issue that much because it can be worked out :-)I should Know so trust me
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Is he married? Are you? If either is true change churches right now before anything happens. Both single? Ask a mutual friend to help.