How do i get rid of a guy that keeps on stalking me i have moved to the other side of aus what else can i do??
354797
Don't confront him,he might be dangerous.You need to call the police,keep your doors locked all the time and don't go out after dark unless your w/ someone.
366239
Talk to him and if he doesn't stop... get rid of him. Believe me, I've seen what it can do, not pretty!
476152
Contact him again telling him you will allow him 2 more weeks -then you will report him to E-Bay - Also if I sent money already I would  report him to the police -chances are he's done this before and you are not he only victim- I was friends with a guy until he started stalking me because he wanted to date me and I only wanted to be friends so I went down to the police station and filed re-straining order- turns out he had a warrant for his arrest for fraud on E-bay - he would post a pic of a high price stereo or other item and when he got the money he would send the customer a box of books or a broken appliance- The officer gave me a copy of his report it was 5 pages long of all the scams he did- Just be careful - I heard the safest way to order from E-bay is to order from those who use Pay-pal cause I heard they will refund your money\nGood Luck
119620
Block him, ignore him. Get help. This guy is disgusting. Hitting on underage? Pervert alert. Geesh. He's stalking you online. For all you know, this guy could be a 52 bald man with no life and stalks a lot of other girls just like you. Ask for help from pros. Call for help. Don't meet this man and stop talkign to him. Get help. Maybe even from your parents, teachers, or friends. GET HELP!
22181
I'd say talk to him about it, see if he is willing to stop doing these things. If not, then you'd better get away from him, and seriously consider reporting him to the police!
634555
Get video/photo evidence of the person stalking you. Then take it to the police. Then you can get a restraining order out on the person so they can't come near you.
67536
First off change your phone numbers, get to the police station and reuqest a restraining order and also let them know that you are being stalked by an ex - boyfriend. If you fear for your safety then you need to get to the police station ASAP. No matter what state you live in stalking is against the law.
64231
Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
328281
Ignore him. If he knows he is getting to you he will only get worse.
769456
well you could say hes a stalker which i think he is and put a restraining order against him also for harassment. or you could also possible get him for defamation of character if he says damaging things about you, for that check out this website\nhttp://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-defamation-of-character.htm \nbut im almost positive you can take him to court for harassment and for being a stalker
831953
Im a guy but that is really wrong get as far away from him move to a different town or state
317684
Report them right away.\nKeep a detailed diary of their stalking.\nPhotograph or video tape them and add an image of that days newspapers front page.\nMake sure ALL of your neighbors are made aware of the stalker. Have them report seeing him as well.\nNever, and I mean NEVER allow this person to speak to you without another person around.\n\nI had a stalker. He ended up leaving me be when he knew I refused to be a victim. \n\nIt is important that you go to the local court house and get a restraining order issued against this person. You can only do this if you know who it is though. \n\nGood Luck~
404808
Report the f**king c*nt to anyone, just tell police and they'll sort it I reckon.\nDon't be put off by all the answers you'll probably receive from cheesey geeks, gotta get rid of em or you'll be paying for em to live for free
1731
File charges with your local police department for harassment and they should get the person to stop contacting you.
724428
Can't you just block him?? so he can't send you messeges. Don't send him any messeges ok? the person like him , can turn into murder or abuser. Stay away from him, and make sure change ur cell phone number and stuff. You are not cheat girl, you were just dancing witha guy right? I don't know maybe he might contact you again, but don't send any messeges or respond to him, because it'll only make him happy. Try not to see him. Thats all I can tell you. If it get any worse, you should go to the police or something.
244064
See if he chases you. Plain and simple.  Although you may not want the ones who chase you
549579
Been there, done that - not an iota of fun. The guy is basically stalking you. My suggestion is the following:\n\n1) File a report with the local police. Even though they may not do anything about it yet, at least it will be in their papers should your ex's abuse continue and/or escalate. \n\n2) Gather ALL evidence. Set up a new e-mail account, get a new phone-number - every measure necessary to restrain his options of being able to contact you. Nonetheless, keep the old phone-number - but let it go directly to the answering-machine. Save the messages - as they will prove your claim if you are forced to drag him to court and (or get a restraining order. Also save all e-mails he sends you for the same reason as above. If he sends you gifts, you shall keep them - whatever he gives you, keep it. This is all about gathering evidence.\n\n3) Tell people around you not to tlak with him due to his stalking. He will pursue alternative means of getting go you, and using your friends and family as a source of information is fully justified in his mind.\n\n4) NEVER EVER talk with/to him - regardless how tempting it may be. For a stalker, even a "F**k off" will be interpreted as a positive gesture. He will interpret "Leave me alone" as a "Oh, I want you to chase me" and so on. If you give in to the temptation once, he will know that it only takes more perservance on his side to get you to answer again and again and again.\nAlso, never tell him what you intend to do unless he leaves you alone. In the event that going to the police does not produce immediate results, your stalking ex will view your plans and intentions as nothing but empty threats.\n\n5) Tell your current boyfriend how much the ex is bothering you. Your ex is currently attempting to drive a wedge between you and your new BF as the ex cannot see you with another man. Any man for that matter except himself. He desires comlete control of your life in every and any aspect, and you do NOT want to subject yourself to that.\nAs for your current BF, if he is not willing to support and help you through this, then he is not worth keeping. Sorry for being so harsh sounding, but it is sadly true. If he loves and cares about you, then he will stay on your side - regardless.\n\n6) Find out if there are any support-groups for stalking-victims in your area - and you will find that you are not alone. The internet also provides different fora that are worth-while looking into - especially what the legal side is concerned.\n\nI broke up with the ex from hell 1 1/2 years ago, and he is still stalking me, thankfully not to the same extent as previously, but I receive e-mails (I changed phone-numbers and got a new e-mail address) from him once or twice a month, and it is still bloody annoying and scaring.\n\nGood luck, this will take time and toil - but know that you are not alone in this hellish situation. I feel for you.