she's lost that loving feeling.......why?
338654
I got that way from lack of energy, turned out I had cancer and it was sapping my energy. He takes it personally, but I can't help it.  Good Luck!!
832676
you know her better than anyone. go get her, but your powerless if she has stopped loving you. :-(. what a sad situation for you, i hope it is all a mid life crisis and hope she comes to her senses and realises how much you miss her! good luck! if you know where she is write her a letter
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Hey sweety, I'm sure that what you think you're going through is very drastic for you, but keep in mind that your lady is going through it right with you.  She may feel like the fire is out because your isolating yourself and not sharing all your feelings with her.  I have forgive my husband many a bad decision for a couple honest words and a true desire to be in love with me.  I think you know how to fix this if your heart wants it.  Best Wishes
168654
Well I just recently got married two months ago and I think that it's absence that makes the heart grow fonder. Before I couldn't wait to see her and I would get all excited when I prepare to meet her. Now that I see her everyday I think I've grown more accustomed to her as she did to me. This is when people start treating each other less "special" I believe the trick is to try and maintain that feeling.
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May be that bad husband had some good things too, and now she misses those things, or may be although he was not a ood husband but she would not feel lonly with him and now she is very lonely.\nalso she might miss old time, and she get confused with missing her husband.
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You probably simply miss her. It also depends on your feelings for her.
76908
She used to be, but not anymore.
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She loses it because she chooses to, in most cases.\n\nit ebbs because she find sex a bore and wishes it would just stop
700990
i think you should stop calling her. I realize it will be difficult as sounds as though you really care for her but she is playing with your feelings. Sounds like she is out for her and not ready to be in a relationship. A friend of mine just went through something similar. Each time he got hurt more and more.  Guess I would tell her how you feel about what she is doing then if it continues its time to find someone new or accept the fact that is how she is.
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Usually she either finds someone better (better sense of humour, better hygeine, better job, better bank balance) \nOR\nShe has stopped loving you because you have been a sh*t and you have taken her for granted, put her down, or generally just been a real ar*e.  Sometimes its because she wants to change her life or have other experiences but in truth women are more loyal than men and will hang around unless you have done something to really hurt her sense of self or self esteem.
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I just don't see a feelgood way out of this.  Be honest with her.  It already sounds like you are compassionate.  Honestly explain your feelings, how long you've been feeling this way, how you struggled with it, didn't want to hurt her, etc but that you couldn't reconcile how you feelings evolved to living in a way that is in full honesty for both of you.  She's going to undergo grief and pain so there is no avoidance of that.  It really is hard to tell someone you care about as a person, knowing you're going to cause them pain, that you've tried, but don't feel the way you would like to feel anymore.  Many people deal with faded feelings in ways that cause even more problems down the line, cheating, avoidance, etc. It never makes the problem better so you know that it will take great courage on your part to get in the drivers seat and take the relationship to it's inevitable destination.  She was a whole person before she met you so hopefully she has the inner strength and faith to trust she will continue to be a whole person without you.
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i think she doesn't care for you anymore...because maybe she has a problem and she needs a guy to comfort herself maybe you can just wait so in the mean time she'll come back to you if someone hurts her...
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If your wife is acting like she doesn't care for you anymore then you need to sit down and have a talk.  Tell her that you are feeling like things are changing between you to and state your feelings towards her.  Ask her how she feels about you and if things have changed.  If she is losing interest in you then ask her if she would like to work out the problems she is having with you.  If she wants to move on then let her and you then do the same.  You nay have grown apart and their might be nothing you can do at this point but communication is a great start.
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IT DOESN'T MEAN SHE DOESN,T LOVE YOU. SOMETIME WOMEN JUST LOOSE INTEREST, IT COULD BE A  HORMONAL THING. WHICH HAPPENS WHEN WOMEN GO THROUGH MENOPAUSAL. I HAVE BEEN IN THOSE SHOES. SOMETIMES PEOPLE DON'T HAVE AN EXPIATION JUST A FAZE IN THERE LIFE. JUST HANG ON..  GOOD LUCK..
148119
Maybe she is losing interest or has other obligations she needs to fulfill and is concentrating on them!
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well, old feelings, however bruised, can still be revived. most of the time, some people can accept the fact that they have moved on and found another lover, but not until the love replaced was greater than the previous one. if you want to try reconsidering old feelings, then make sure your promises this time are real.\n\noh, and by the way... HI MISS TRINA!!! ~^_^~
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You need to use this time for reflection, love does not disappear that easy! Communication is the key, maybe she is afraid, the best thing you can do is show her that you support her and care. Take it slow and both of you need to rememer the things that brought you together in the first place. If after all this she still does not want to marry, LET GO...