i'm really into this girl but i don't think she feels the same way. how can i find out for sure?
349475
If you value her friendship, then you need to put her needs ahead of your own desires. If she has a boyfriend, then you need to let her figure out what a jackass he is on her own. Interfering with her existing relationship to get her for yourself would be selfish, and something of a betrayal of her trust on your part. Besides, when she does figure it out... and she will... then she will be able to appreciate your friendship all the more for the support you are able to offer her when the times comes for that. The best relationships grow out of the best friendships.
520228
Brickjacks, listen to yourself. You sound as if you're hoping for the impossible; holding onto dear life just because you are not sure how does she feels about you, whether or not she wants to be with you and if she's just toying around with your feelings. Have you already asked her what she thinks of you? Have you told her how you feel about her?\n\nI really can't tell you what she's trying to do or how you should handle this situation and neither can anyone out there who answers your question because quite frankly, we don't know her. She might be a social butterfly or maybe she's a saint after all.\n\nMy opinion, you should have already confronted her by now. The more you stall your feelings for her the more confused you'll get from her reactions and advances.\n\nTake this opportunity to get to know her better. Since you're going out with her, you'll get to see what she's like. Don't stress yourself with impossible questions (i.e. Does she wants to see what kind of person I am before she decides to dump her boyfriend and be with me?)\n\nYou're not some "thing" that could be analyzed and be taken for granted. You're not some low grade ketchup/sauce that needs to be compared with another to determine which of the two taste good. You're a human, you have feelings and you know yourself better.\n\nShow her who you really are TODAY/NOW and if she shows the slightest indication of her being the malicious girl everyone (well, almost everyone) in Y! Answers been telling you, leave her. Just be her friend. She's not worth your aggravation.
84737
if you asked her how she felt before and she hasnt made an effort to tell you differently, her feelings might be the same. She might also be shy and hoping you will ask again..its hard to say. Has she been acting differently around you lately? Do you ever hang out with her alone, and if so what kind of convos do you have? If they are personal and important than thats a good thing.\nPrepare yourself, she may not have feelings for you. If you decide to ask her again she might get creeped out, so just watch her behavior and see how she acts.
257113
tell her how much you feel for her, if she doesn't feel the same, move on man! You have done and said what you are supposed to.
1171840
well ask her on a date... if she says yes (unless she has some totally reasonable excuse; family dinners don't count) then that is a sure fire way to tell she is into you. Then just tell her you are interested in dating her. Nothing scares a person away more than telling them how passionate you feel about them to early. Take it slow until you feel you can truely trust her. Trust meaning she won't take you for a wild "hot and cold" ride. You want her will tell you frankly how she feels. Good luck mate... and don't worry if it doesn't work out... soo many freakin' fish in the sea!
230208
The same way you always talk to her, but with a little more charm! example: Hey you look really good today..or just be honest with her and come out and tell her how you feel! You would have to be a complete moron to not know whether or not she might be into you even the slightest bit. Just act w/ her the same way you would with a girl yuo are interested in. The least you could end up with is just her continued friendship if you've been friends with her that long.
191110
well first of all u need to tell her youre self in person how u feel she will like that a lot better than a friend telling her or u telling her on the phone.you could possibly take her on a date and then tell her at the end of the date how u feel .so maybe she will feel the same way .that is how my boyfriend and me got hooked up because he just came out and told me what he thought and i felt the same way back so just try it \n                       well peace out and good luck 2 ya buddi
445764
only you can tell for certain if you really love her. but if you think you're capable of giving up everything you know and believe in just to be with this chick, i think she got you.  \n\nshould you ask her to stay? it's worth a try. better do it than waste a lot of time regretting it.
150024
Well does she like things you like...you need good chemistry. Also you must like her attitude and how she acts. If you like her for who he is inside then she may be the one. But then you have to see if she feels the same way.
937525
simply ask her how she feels about you.  from what you have said, it seems like she may have feelings for you.  but then again she might not. she might just like you as a really good person and that is her way of showing she thinks you are nice and cool and worth her time.  you could be looking into it more than what it is because you like her.  but then again, you guys are in high school and are very young and don't know what you quite want yet.  you still have some time to grow.  you still have time to find out what love is before you go mindlessly using the word.  so take your time and see how things span out but most importantly, ask her how she feels about you rather than guessing.
302651
Well my answer is simply this and that is if she thinks that you are just friends hanging out then that is all it is to her but if you let her know how you feel then that changes.Then she will either think about it and let you know if she feels the same or not but you have to let her know. True love might be passing you both by.
354002
Well i think you should tell her how you feel and see what she says... maybe she will tell you that she likes you and had been waiting for you to say something
1058356
Well if she feels the same way to towars you then she will let you know.  If it meant to be she'll let you know.  Just say calm and see what she is going to do.  If she doesn't  do anything to let you know she likes you then don't worry anymore.
303716
hey, Is this question supposed to be in this category???\nand about your question, I'll just wait till I'm sure, then I try to find out how she feels about me, if she's interested, I'll tell her a bit of I feel. & gradually if she says that she feels the same, I go on to the next level, a little more of romance & ... , till I get to the "I LOVE YOU" level :))\nI haven't reached that level yet;)
883034
TALK TO HER, TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE HONEST WITH HER, SHE PROBABLY FEELS THE SAME WAY IF SHE IS CALLING YOU.
525245
Hi there.\n\nAsking questions isn't any sin. It shows plainly that you really would like to get to know her better. Since I'm already aware of your situation with this particular girl, I think, by now, you should have sincerely told her about your feelings towards her.\n\nYou don't have to worry about what she might think about you. I can guess that if she really likes you, she will most definitely enlighten you with the fact that she HAS feelings for you too. If, by chance, our speculation about her having feelings for you were a myth, then the worst thing that she would do is reject you politely.\n\nHere's the thing; don't go up to her and straight away ask, "Do you have feelings for me?" or any of that sort of query. This might tick her off as you would sound really pathetic. I felt the same way when a guy misjudged my friendly gestures as interest towards him when he demanded to know point blank whether or not I have the hots for him. I mannerly told him that I regarded him only as a friend and explained the fact that my gestures had only friendly intentions. He and I are friends till now.\n\nIn a way, I think you could dig up your courage deep within to tell her how you feel. And like I said before, she will tell you if she feels the same way or vice versa. Whatever the response she might give you, make sure everlasting friendship remains in your bond with her.\n\nBefore I leave you to ponder about the things I have shared, I'd like you to remember that friendship often ends with love, but love ending in friendship, with certainty, rarely happens.\n\nI hope this helps.
34762
you should find out if she feels the same way before you confess your feelings otehr wise no matter what you do it will be awkward with each other if she doesnt like you back. so if you find out first it will be better, especially if she does!