Does anybody here enjoys swinger Party?
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The swinging lifestyle doesn't even show up on the CDC list of risky lifestyles for HIV or STDs.\n\nPlease do some research before launching into a "disease" tirade.\n\nThe facts are that swingers get tested a lot more for STDs than the general population AND use condoms and dental dams much more than the general population.\n\nSwingers parties can be very enjoyable experiences as long as you are prepared.\n\nMake sure you take an "essentials kit" with you.\n\nHere is an article I wrote relating to the things you may wish to include:\n\nThe Perfect "Essentials Kit"\n\n\nOne of the items you will find useful when swinging is what we call an "essentials kit".\n\n\nThese are items that we've discovered ourselves wanting or needing during our adventures in the lifestyle.\n\n\nFor those new to the lifestyle, this article should be helpful in planning what to take with you to your first party, convention or club. For veterans, you may find some new ideas or suggestions here for your kit.\n\n\nTo start with, you'll need a "bag" to carry your kit. The one we use is actually a picnic basket. We took the plates, napkins, etc. out, but found that the compartments, and holders are very useful for keeping things organized.\n\n\nAs most clubs and parties are bring your own booze (BYOB), we left the wine glasses that came with the bag in our kit, this is useful because we always have a glass, and we always know that it is clean.\n\n\nWe also recommend a good quality combination padlock, this way you won't need to worry about keeping track of a key while you are trying to have a good time, changing into club wear, etc. We have found that the pocket on the picnic bag is very useful for keeping the padlock seperate from anything breakable - wine glasses for example - in the kit.\n\n\nThe picnic bag works great for carrying bottles of wine, lingerie, club wear and other assorted items.\n\nAssorted Items\nSome things we have found to be VERY handy in our kit include:\n\n\nTylenol - someone always seems to have a headache, sore back, or other ache pain or gripe, and typically at the worst moment, a small stash of pain relievers can really help to keep the party going.\n\nBreath Mints - Use them, 'Nuff said.\n\nCondoms - Not only is it wise to play safely, but in some clubs and parties it is required! Be prepared with some non-latex condoms as well.\n\nWe always carry some Dental Dams as well to protect ourselves and our partners during oral encounters.\n\nFemale Condoms are another great item to have handy in case of size issues for standard condoms.\n\nToys - Naturally everyone has their favorites, here are a couple that we keep in our kit. 1. silver bullet, 2. a vibrating cock-ring (I REALLY like to ride him me when he's wearing this). and 3. A standard vibrator of some sort.\n\nExtra batteries - all that toy goodness just goes to waste without the juice to run them!\n\nAnti-Gas Medicine - Feeling bloated and gassy can take the fun right out of an evening, so we always keep some of this in our kit.\n\nYour favorite lube - Even if you don't normally need it, sometimes situations or environmental factors can lead to dryness, not to mention that you may decide to try to make that "double penetration" fantasy come true!\n\nThe little blue pill - viagra may come in handy as well.\n\nThis is by no means a complete list, but by being prepared, you can increase the chances of an evening without unpleasant surprises!\n\nHave fun!
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how about a adventuer weekend , quad biking , camping , climbing , horse riding , could be alot of fun especially if theres a pub or pubs nearby to enjoy your evening meal and have a few beers . there are web sites that taylor make parties like this for you but cant think of any off the top of my head . hope you have great time anyway whatever you do .
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Swinging has been a very fulfilling addition to our lives.\n\nWe have been in the lifestyle for several years, and it has completely improved our marriage, and the way we communicate with each other.\n\nMy main advice for you is to make sure you set rules prior to actually swinging, then make sure you have lots of discussions before and after each experience so that you can make sure that you are still on the same page and that your rules are working.\n\nYou are exactly right about swinging sex being fun. If you are already able to separate sex from love, you are 3/4 of the way ready.\n\nPlease make sure you read the articles located at http://www.swinglesonline.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=1 about setting rules prior to swinging - without rules someone is likely to get their feelings hurt at some point.\n\nYou also need to develop code words and signals - for example, my wife and I have a code phrase of "I need a cigarette" - which means "Let's talk" and one of our rules is that whenever one of us uses that phrase, we stop what we are doing and talk - no matter what.\n\nWe also have phrases that let us talk about being interested in someone like this: "I want a drink" means I'm not interested, "I NEED a drink" means I'm interested.\n\nNonverbal signals are also important.\n\nRead through those articles and let me know if you have any questions.
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I'm hearing ya. Its all part of the fun. Just enjoy it!\n\n!
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party like its ur b-day
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my husband & i have try to have fun in everthing that we do. we watch movie together, we chat through YM even if we are together in the bedroom, eating, bathing, whatever! as long as we are both in the mood, then everything is fun!   = )
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I would like to because I could see those people that were popular and what they are now. Also like the jock you know how he turned out. Bring your husband or wife and have fun meet everyone and maybe their mate.\n\nHave Fun, Dance, Talk, and HAVE FUN!!!
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You are a lucky one. I wish i had ONE club near me.... you have a TON!!!!!!!!\nhave fun!
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i am the side of your wife my wife and i are swingers and love it we share photos on line we also play on cam it has made our sex life better we wanted some spice in our marrried life we love eachother vary munch it is not for eveyone but sit down and talk to her if your marriged is good then it will be fun if you have some problems then you should not try it good luck          dm
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Yeah ive hear d a lto about these parties.  From what I hear they are just getting really big on the east coast but starting to form on the west as well.  From what I know there is no sex allowed and no nake dbodies you must keep clothing on and some of them dont allow anything more than hugging/snuggling. Sounds like fun, if youre lonely and cant find anyone to do it with in private.  Not my cup of tea, but i wouldnt knock it!
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I had a Dance party...It was  great fun....
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you can join and enjoy this groups...\n\nRate this answer please..
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You are funny..ya i think it's fun to have a spouse to always have someone to have fun with..ya couldn't get away with that with just anybody that's why its so wonderful having a spouse to play around with..keeps ya young
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Yes, I do. I have played cards all my life and played w/several friends on Saturday nights for about 3 years and won as a rule.\nI can also be the straight man (women) role in a joke as well, my friends just crack up when I do this. Not everyone can pull this off.
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Sounds like fun to me!.  Count me in!
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No.  I would like one.  I love parties.  If you ticket has "& guest" can I come along too?\n\nEnjoy the party!
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Depends what you mean by extremely love party? Do you mean an extreme love-party (some sort of raucous sexual orgy) or an extremely lovely party (maybe with cakes and dancing, maybe some booze, cocktails perhaps and polite conversation).\n\nEither way, the answer is yes: you never know what can happen.\n\ncan I come to this extreme love-party/extremely lovely party??? sounds awesome