how do you tell your boyfriend that you want to break up with him in a nice way ?
347519
Tell your boyfriend that it feels like things have changed and you would like to see whats its like without a boyfriend you could also add things don't seem like they did  and it would be better if you just remained friends if that can happen!
50434
Contemplate and think about the reasons that led up to you feeling that you need to part from them.  Then think about what you want to say very carefully and then tell him.  After you tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and then why, cut off all communication.
571292
Only you can answer that question.  Seems to me, if you have to ask, you need to make that decision to break up with him.
273601
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
58880
Communicate with him but don't nag.  Tell him simply in a nice quiet way and then let it go.  If he doesn't get it and it's important to you, your relationship may not be what you really want.
658268
i understand you are very frustrated...\n\n... i can see that you want him to make a decision\nbecause you hate being taddled along and dragged about\n....\nand you want a definite 'relationship' or 'not' kind of\n... relationship...\n\n... and i bet you... he understand that as well...\nbut put yourself in his shoes..\n\nif you had a boyfriend and were getting along fine...\nand suddenly, a single guy enters your world...\n\nand completely blows you away...\n.. now what would you do?\nyou might say, 'i'll take him,' but it's not that easy...\n\nhe's struggling...\nand i might take a step further to say...\nmaybe his girlfriend is on him about this...\nmaybe she's getting the hint he's not 100% committed to her\n\nmy best advice to you is... give him time...\n\nif you constantly prod him, he might completely ignore you..\n.. if you give him room for thinking and reconsidering,\nhe will seriously weigh it out...\n\n... moreover, he will see your understanding side\nand your compassionate, openness and he will run to you..\n\n.. meanwhile, you go out and have some fun...\ni don't mean cheat on your soon-to-be-boyfriend\nbut go out and meet your friends... guys and gals...\n\nmeeting other gals will set you back to your\ngiggling-chatty-girly mode, which will ultimately put you\nin a euphoria of confidence..\n\nplus, guys will drool over you, and you can neglect them\nand gain higher self-esteem...\n\ngodspeed
497101
I don't think you hate him.  \n\nIf you did, you wouldn't give a rats bum about his feelings.\n\nBut - you do want to break up with him, and so you do it honestly.  Tell him, "I don't want to date you anymore.  You are a nice and loving friend however I want different things....."\n\nOr something like that.\n\nI hope it goes well, good luck.
262488
Just be honest with him.  \nTell him that even though you think he's sweet and nice, you'd rather not be with him right now.\nYou don't even have to explain yourself if you don't want to.  But please don't lie.  That's not fair.\nIt's better to break it off now before he gets too attached.  Do NOT stay with someone because you feel sorry for them or pity them...it's not healthy.
1095041
breaking up is never easy..... however.... if you think that ur bf is a jerk then you can be mean about it and tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you and that you deserve better but if he's a nice guy just say that you don't feel the same way as you did in the beginning of your relationship tell him that you see you too better as frnds and you no longer see him as a boyfriend....
756545
the fact that ur just thinking bout breaking up with your boyfriend should b a sign....
941715
just do what you normally do and be yourself\nif you break up, it wasn't meant to be\nany guy can tell you what to do and what not to do but in the end you have to really be yourself untill you find a guy that loves you for who you are.
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
486750
Just tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings or lie to him by staying with him when you just don't feel the same way for him so it is better to break up. Honesty is always the best answer. It may hurt still, but its better than a lie.
4813
I just brok up with my bf... and I just told him straight up. Just say something like " I have a few things on my mind that I need to tell you with out interuptions..." And tell her what your are unhappy with and then when you are done say something like " Our relationship is not tight like it used to be and I think we should break up. Iff we are meant to be together we will be. If you are supposed to be with me you will come back to me but if not you were never really mine."
19617
Theres ton's of ways to tell guys. Just say that you dnt want to leave him. if u lie u will just make it worst for it urself, lol. Just tell him in face (not like yelling or bein rude) and just say it.
831780
Be honest and tell him that you don't want to go with him.
514617
Well.....definately you have to do it in person, trust me....I'm not ashamed to say that I've been dumped through the phone, and trust me that hurts like a b**ch!\n\nWell, there isn't a way to break up with someone without hurting them, if they care about you of course they're going to get hurt, but they'll understand, if you give them good reasons for wanting to break up, and if you're dealing with an understanding person, I'm sure he or she will understand! Just try to talk to the person and be completely honest! Think of a way you would like someone to break up with you and try to follow it with the person you want to dump, you know what I mean? Well, anyway, just try to be sincere and try to be soft, you know? I hope that helped you! Good Luck!