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what you're doing is very kind and compassionate. the world needs more like us, huh? *Hug* if you want to talk to someone who may encourage and pray with YOU let me know. bekki117@yahoo.com or bekki117 on aim or YIM...and yes, i am a born-again christian. on fire for God.
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lol  sorry can't help ya there but hang in there sounds like you have a good sense of humor and you will find someone .  Good Luck
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I agree, go help her, shouldn't you be there anyway if it's her birthday. If you took everyone elses advice you are already there are if not and you are still sitting at the computer reading this, then your might just be a jerk.\n\nHope it all works out!!!
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If this person is giving you a hard time dont let it bother you. Go there for you. The woman sounds like she is the one with the problem. All your trying to do is make your confirmation, right?
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i am so like u. u don't need to stop helping.But Yes stop answering ppl right away when they need u. first let them realize who u are and how much helpful u have been. try that. some times u might have to stop helping those selfish ppl. but that doesn't mean ur not helpful. u need to help where someone really needs u. don't let them take advantage of u. when they come to know the reality they'll learn a lesson. and don't loose hope.
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It wouldn't be a good idea to do the same, because that would escalate the issue.\n\nAsk him why, talk to him. Tell him how it makes you feel. Maybe he's just doing it to get your attention. Who knows? He's the only one to give you the correct answer.
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i feel the same way. my life is a mess and i count on yahoo answers to get advice on my own life because no one else seems to have any. you can't look for mister right for all you know you've already met him in the grocery store or at your work... you NEVER know. just take some of your own advice, i know its way easier said then done, but hey if its so good try some. and i agree this mostly happens to people who have a good caring heart. its hard to make your own decisions because you don't wnat to hurt anyone in the process, you want to make sure everyone is happy before you are. im trying to break that habit myself. good luck and everything always works out eventually. just take your time and be happy. continue to care about people but set up boundaries so you don't get taken advantage off.
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You can't listen to your friend. She may be trying to help, but you have to tell her no. It is your decision...it is your CHOICE. Do what you want. \n\n   To me, your choice sounds very correct. It sounds like you are taking your responsibility. Good job. Go for what you want, not what other want or think.
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You are so busy trying to please everyone that you end up getting hurt in the process.  This is impossible, can't be done..you can't please everyone.  You need to establish boundaries with ALL your relationships and stop allowing people to bulldoze over you.  I know, I've been there.  If you let people use and abuse you, then you will have a lifetime of this.  If you let them know that this behavior is unacceptable, then they will stop.  The best weapon you have is the word "NO"...add it to your vocabulary and please start using this often!  Life is made up of a series of choices, and you are on this earth for a reason, and that is not to be used by everyone.  You are a unique one of a kind person...there's only one you...so be proud of that and don't let anyone tell you who you are...that's your job! Time to let the world know who you are and stand tall & strong!!!  \nIf you need more help with this, please e-mail me...I specialize in spiritual counselling.
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It'll work a hell of a lot better if you do it yourself.  For one thing, I don't know who you are or what you want done.  I also don't understand the circumstances surrounding your situation nor have your feelings about it.\n\nI won't do it for you but if you want, I can try to help you with it.
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go for it.  unless youve got something else going on or you have something against this person, i say you should go
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You should slow way down and figure out your feelings, none of the things you mentioned above will do you any good.\n\nI replied to your earlier post, to get help you have to do the same thing you are doing here...you have to ask.  But you have to ask a professional, and since I believe, I will say that God did not created all counselors equal, you may have to interview a few before you find a fit.\n\nThe biggest thing is a little trick I learned on my own, its going to sound silly until you try it and then believe it.\n\nStart out by looking in the mirror, stare at the wonderful person that is staring back at you.  Know that you are important, important if for no other reason you can make at least one person smile sometime each day.\n\nWhether is telling a joke, complimenting someone on their clothes or abilities, or helping someone in some way without expecting the help to be returned.  You can make another human smile, and in doing so, you will, with practice, feel much better about yourself. \n\nIts a first step, but it works.
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Yes, you need help.  You need a basic course in grammar and spelling, then learn to write in a clear, concise manner.  This will allow you to communicate your problems and get advice from the online community.\n\nAs far as your relationships go, I recommend counseling or joining a cult - you're in such a mess it will take extreme measures to clean you up.
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Me!!! what advice do you need contact me at ave8beer@yahoo.com ok.
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My honest opinion is i would let anyone help me out male or female because most won't admit it but us men NEED help a lot \nwhy be arrogant and pretend you know what your doing when everyone around you knows that you are wrong.It did take me a few years tho to accept the help as a typical bloke i thought i knew everything how wrong i was.\nPS thanks for your polite answer to my question..Wink ..
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Charge a fee and stand firm to your rates. Eventually people will not want to pay you for services since they more than likely liked it when you would just fix the computer for free...so give that a try...other than that, don't respond to them when they ask for help. Ignoring people is a good way to get them to go away...eventually they quit asking.
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No, never dear! Find a trusted adult or your parents to talk to. Do not think that professional counseling is embarrassing, it can save your life.