Is this right or wrong if you falling in love again when you have already married and your hus. really love u?
347661
Rightly or wrongly, our current societal mores do not approve of our being involved with " other persons " when we are married. \nThe real question is not whether monogamy works; but rather can a couple MAKE it work.\n \nThere are ALWAYS 'other'  people that you will encounter that you are attracted to, it's called the human condition.\nPeople CAN love more than one person at a time.\n\nThe bottom line is, whether or not an individual can field the feelings of attraction,  curiosity, lust, love, passion and want---- married or not.\n\nSo he's attracted to you. That really is a compliment, the right thing to do is to acknowledge that as a kindness, but do not encourage him, and don't allow it to get out of hand, especially since you are already married.
522944
Its ok to fall in love with your best friend. I think it can possibly make the relationship stronger because it already has a foundation. I married my best friend....
691365
This is something that YOU should've dealt with before getting married.  While I don't think it's exactly wrong to still have feelings for someone, it's not right either.  Do you think it is fair to our husband? You should be focusing all your love on your husband, not saving some for some ex.  As I said, this is really something you should've dealt with before getting married.  (Just think about it:  How would you feel if your husband was harboring feelings for some other girl?!)\n\nMy advice to you:  Exes are exes for a reason.  Look back and think about why you broke up.  I'm sure there was a good reason that you are not with him and that you married someone else.  While it may occasionaly be okay to maybe wonder how they are doing, to "still care" for them isn't.  \n\nAs I said, think about why you broke up with your ex.  Then think about why you married your husband.  I'm sure you will see that you made a good decision, and maybe you can leaarn to let go of the past.
432434
No it's noy wrong and don't let  any one tell you that it is because you have the right to your own way of life and how you decide to live it and also who you date and when you date them and how old they are when you fall in love with them trust me on this one I know for a fact because I am also in love with a younger person who happens to know it but doesn't know that I know that he loves me back. \n\n            p.s.\n\n           Take this info to head and share it with some one else that you know with the same problem as you and me(to me it's not really a probllem so you shouldn't say that it is).
508540
I am married already and totally recommend it once you know you have found the right person. Trust me when it's right it will be just so known you couldn't stand not marrying them. USA
586386
no, I don't think you should. If they are unable to remarry at this time, they are not dating material. Just my opinion. You could be setting yourself up for a disaster.
78770
No, it is not wrong. There are people that fall in love with people of the same sex. It's just the way it is, and no other human has the right to impose their own personal definition of what is right or wrong onto other people.
85538
I think it's fine. Sure, there are risks, but it is possible. One of my friends fell in love w/ a guy she never met but fell in love with him anyways. Then, of course, they actually met and have plans to move in with each other very soon. It just depends
600780
He no wrong.  Is natural for man.  He love you still.  No problemo.
274796
You were married, there for it isn't odd that you would still have some fond feelings and good memories.  However I don't think you are in love with him.  I think you are probably just going through some bad stuff in your life and your latching on to some good memories and making more of them that what you should.  Remember, this same guy cheated and lied to you and nothing has changed.  You still deserve better in your life.
298093
I am in love with my husband and I have been for years.  Is it child love?  Much better than first love and we will always be each others only love!  We are the beginning and the end to each others lives.
1135901
No its not wrong! I was with my husband 10 yrs and had 2 lovely kids,we got married then within 18 mth of the marrage he slept with 2 others and moved out! He said he felt diffrent since we married and to tell you the truth so did I! we are working through stuff but we both agree that we wished we had left things the way we were! If you's are happy why take a chance and spoil things? Good luck to the both of you!!
286975
It doesn't sound like you want him so it would be WRONG to go back to him.\n\nAlso it didn't work out the first time, so it probably wont work this time.
282155
do you----take --- as your lawfully wedded wife/husband, now repeat after me .  I _____ do take ____ to love honor and cherish  for richer for poorer In sickness and in health, forsaking all others until death do us part.  Its been 10 years but I believe  I atleast got most of it right.
129011
Um, I will have to disagree that it is wrong and that marriages that start with living together do not work.  I lived with my husband for about a year before we got married.  We will have been married for 7 years in June and just had a baby boy.  We could not be happier.  This is a decision that you need to make for your specific situation.  No one will be able to tell you if your relationship will work in specific conditions.
537162
Hmmm...well, since you married him he probably (or atleast should) already know that you love him.  However, it's better late than never, so find a nice, quiet time where it's just the 2 of you, and all of his attention is focused on you, and then just say it!  Good luck! ;)
367004
my fiance' was married when i met him at work.his wife and him had been having issues with her cheating and she did not want kids and he did.he told me about 2 weeks after we met that he did not love his wife anymore.i never thought about getting involved with him until right before he seperated from his wife(a month and 1/2 after we met)he told me he loved me.i felt the same for him but i did not want to get in the middle of his marriage.he convinced me to be with him and i'm glad i did,he is the love of my life and says i am his