Why do men do more for their first wife than their second?
354604
My guess is that he had a bad experience with his first wife that has something to dp with the hair salon. I would talk to him about it - - this issue absolutely needs to be resolved before you walk down the aisle...
569355
In high school and when I was single, I had more guy friends.  My best friends were women though.  I think I had more guy friends because I liked the attention and flattery without having to be committed in a relationship.  \n\nNow that I'm married, I have more girl friends...I get all the attention and flattery from my husband!  I can relate to women more...especially women who are married and/or with kids.\n\nMy husband doesn't have girl friends and I don't have guy friends...unless they're mutual friends of ours.  It relieves us both of making the other feel uncomfortable.
218804
many wives like better with other men
936914
Because polygamy has been fought against in favor of monogamy.\n\nAlso there are more women because men die earlier and get killed in conflict at a much higher rate than women
603299
Aparently this question deals with the pysche of majority of men. There may be exceptions as well, some of them at the other extreme.\n\nMen prefer dominance over women, and in many cases over other men also. This dominance gives them a sense of security and sometimes protectiveness over women. But we shall take of the first case only here. In general, men are physically stronger than their female counterparts. This gives them the source of their physical dominance. In order to make themselves mentally dominant as well, so as to complete their domination over their wives, they require at least two aspects.\n\nFirstly, men tend to be emotionally less open. This renders them less prone to disappointments due to minor details. This is one source of power. The other arena where the mental game is played is in the domain of finance. If men can earn more than their womenfolk, they can be the single source of power in their home. This leads them to desiring that their wives be financially dependent on them. In the past this meant a preference for housewives. The trend is gradually changing to a situation where men insist on potential wives earning less than them. This has been proved by recent studies, wherein less than 10% of men have considered getting married to women earning more than them.
180046
it's usually the men, women tend to be satisfied emotionally and physically by just one man if in love or married, it's their nature and that's how they are made, a woman just wants one man to love, take care of and be faithful to... men just never have enough and always looking for more with greed , like beasts...(it's also how they were created....)
125267
Some times because they weren't in 'love' when they married. \n  But 'most' of the time I think, they both let the closeness slip away, and though they still love the person they married, there's no excitement there. So they meet someone else that's exciting and fun, and ruin what they could've saved, if they'd BOTH tried.
443642
some of them do think like that...i guess married men got more experience on how to handle women emotion.they are more caring too...
680935
Is the same reason why women think that they should have more than one men. But not all men/women are like that. Most would settle with one who they think is the right person for them. The usual reason I hear about not settling with one is because they see a little something from each individual or they are treading the water coz they dont know who to choose.
1180746
yes, yes, yes!  I have been married with my huband for 11 years, with him for 15 and have never never cheated.  However, there have been many women who wanted him.  In today's women there is this idea that married men are better and will risk their own marraige to be with someone else.  Maybe they are bitter at their men and are getting them back.  All I know is that women today are catching up to the men with this dirtly litte secret.
181284
some of you men are such idiots and greedy too.  you want a woman with two heads so she can think for you and kiss your a** at the same time.  anyway we do have two heads.  we keep the other one hidden so you don't try to steal our inate intelligence, as if you'd know what to do with it.
355627
They were probably the first to do most. They probably had a live in lover/wife. People didn't frown on two women living together. They were probably more politically active than most. They probably did more for women's right in general. They have probably never really needed a man. I'm sure they had male friends but much more self reliant and not using feminine wiles to seduce.
362619
Anthropologically & Socialogically speaking Men want to impregnate many partners to spread their seed and perpetuate the species.  Men can produce many sprem quickly.  Women on the other hand produce eggs more slowly.  Women look for a high quality mate to insure the survival of their offspring.  It's overwhelmingly the same in the animal world.  That is not to say some men look for fewer partners, and some women may have multiple partners.  It doesn't mean anything is wrong with either of them.  It's just boils down to nature and our inate genetic programming.
134022
i think they feel more appreciated. older women are more appreciative of little things than younger women, and they understand a little bit better what it takes to be a good gf/wife than a younger woman might. This is just a guess, of course
15300
I agree.  Women not only get more bold with you but they check your wife out a lot I suppose to see the competition.  These kind of women also seem to be the ones most likely to get jealous when their own boyfriends or husbands look at other women.  Maybe it's true that the jealous types are that way because they know what's really going through other peoples minds because it's the same as their own.
1114510
you see, women will see you more as the kind of a man they would like to have, one that will cook and clean etc, it  takes a lot of work and stress off the womans shoulders, and gives her  more time be with him. On the other hand other men may think you are to femine, because most men have the idea that they need to be macho, and think of themselves as the king that rules. The king that rules will have the woman do everything for him, and have everything handed to him on a silver platter. \n\nAs for what I think, I think that sharing in the daily routine of household responsibilites with your partner makes you more of a man, and shows that you care and are considerate of your partner and your family time together.  \nKeep being a great man, husband and father!
314092
It has nothing to do with realizing how another man can please him over a woman.  It has everything to do with weither he WANTS another man to.  In theory you would think that only a man knows what a man wants but then you are missing the glory of showing a woman just what you want all the while enjoying her.