My fiance of 1 yr & 2 mnths doesnt seem very excited when we have sex. I dont kno how to make him want me.?
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He is probably uncomfortable with u being 9 months pregnant.  Things will change.  Some men fear that they might hurt the baby.  Some men just feel that it is wrong to have sex with u when u are pregnant.  Just talk to him and ask him what the problem is.  Communication is the key without it u won't last.  So don't go assuming to many things and upset yourself for nothing just ask him o.k.
726776
You are in a tough situation. Its hard to change peoples ways who are sat in them. But if he loves you he would be open for new ideas. Try to get him to do a little kinky stuff each time you all make love or show him what you would like to have done to you do it to him. Make it feel good to him and then he will know when he try it on you that it will feel good to you also. TURN HIM OUT GIRL MAKE HIM YOUR PERSONAL FREAK (only in the bed and behind close doors.) There is nothing wrong with a couple experimenting with each other it keeps the fire burning that way nothing will get old and you all will look forward to having sex because it will be something different each time.
883746
talk to him.  toys are great.  and remember the more you are turned on and into it the more he will enjoy it!!  express your self on how you feel verbally,  moans or telling him that you like what he is doing to you.  be aggressive.  don't always do it at the same time, be spontaneous, don't always do it in bed, be adventurous
462039
Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
1181317
Make him feel like a king.  Have his favorite dinner (cook or dine out)  have his favorite drink available.  Ask him questions about what he wants.  Be sexually attentive to him.  He'll have the best trip seeing you and want to come back for more.  Most imporantly, no drama!  He'll go running for the hills.  Don't be too serious unless he wants to.  Guys aren't as into recieving romance the same way women are.  Just be there for him.
1156540
If he isn't satisfying you sexually then find someone who can. Trust me it will only get less and less. Try being around him nude more. Or maybe try something a bit more fun, http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0962962813?v=glance\n\nIf you can't drum up his enthusiasim with seductions like the ones in 101 nights then maybe talk sex more often. Try keeping sex talk just talk, no pressure to preform. Talk about fantasies, ask him to tell you his fantasies that he thinks you might be offended by. Communication is the number one key to sexually satisfying relationship. If you can't discuss topics like preformance anxiety, jealousy, fantasy, or sexual expectations. then you will never have as healty a sex life as you can. Maybe suggest going to a strip club together
463992
Oooh thats a toughy.  You don't want to offend him.  Maybe try suggesting new things...Or you could just flat out tell him out of the blue (not during sex)
346855
Well obviously he'll turn it into an argument either way just because HE want's sex.He's not being very considerate is he, or mature. I think you really need to do some soul searching about this, and other demands he may make of you as well. If he demanding that YOU clean up the house, or You do that, or whatever, it may be time to tell him that he's being a selfish jerk and your not his sex slave. Or just go looking for a nicer guy who knows how to play by the rules.
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It seems like you want sex more when you can't get it.  It sounds like he is using that as an excuse.  I have never heard of a man getting bored with sex.  Talk to him and if you can live without the sex stay with him, if not kick him to the curb.
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Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
65313
this one is easy. tell him what to do. or take the position as the agressor in the sex act. small hints can help too. when you guys are making love don't be afraid to let him know what feels good. if he is going to fast whisper slower. or what ever else you feel.sex is a bueatiful thing so be sure to enjoy it.
862858
First of all you are not married to him, and even if you were, you are not his sex toy.  The two of you need to sit and talk in a non-sexual environment, like a park or zoo, and discuss what it is that you expect from each other - and I don't mean just the sex.  Just remember to tell him that you are not his booty call.
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As for you, you can ask him to give you some more foreplay since you already know that you love it.  As for him, he's going to have a better idea about what he wants than any of us.  There's no need to get ideas from complete strangers on Yahoo answers when all men aren't equal and we don't know what's going to excite him.  Please ask him about what turns him on.  Perhaps he has an unfulfilled sexual desire like a fetish or a fantasy.  As long as it's reasonable, you could try to fulfill that fetish or fantasy.  If he's perfectly fine, then maybe he could add more foreplay for you.
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hahahaha!! we got exactly the same problem... well, i guess he really loves you but just can't express it the right way. Talk it to him.. tell him what you feel. I guess i have no doubt for his love but maybe he just don't know how to take care of you. so talk it to him so that he will know what you feel. I did that and my fiance is making progress.. i can see that he is doing his best to show his love to me and to attend also to my needs.. just give him a time don't pressure him..
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You might want to really think about this when the situation isn't right in front of you, kind of like you're doing now.\n\nThere is a lot of room for variation in "I don't feel like having sex".  Are you feeling like you don't really feel like it much, or are you feeling like you REALLY don't want to have sex, that it would be a miserable experience for you?  \n\nIf it's a matter of not being in full mood, maybe he could be the more active partner and you can be more passive.  I don't think that anyone should have sex against their will, but sometimes I used to say no and it wouldn't have really been a big deal to say "yes" either.  Guys don't always need to have extended sexual contact and this kind of time would be a chance for him to sort of have an express lane sort of experience and then go to sleep.\nIt's possible you could become more interested in more extended lovemaking, or maybe you won't.  Who knows?\n\nIf you REALLY don't want to have sex, perhaps you could make a date with him to have sex the next day or in the morning or later that night or...\nwell, you get the idea.\n\nYou could even tell him why you don't feel like having sex--too tired, too worried, whatever.  My experience is that my guy doesn't really want to hear about it and he backs off.\n\nIt's too bad people's moods don't line up better sometimes!
1006769
I think you should go out and buy a sexy nighty and jump in front of the television so he won't want to watch it so much...That's just one thing, for starters. You need to be spontaneous and go out and do things. Find a hobby to do you both enjoy! Go out with other couples! As far as sex goes, do things with him you don't normally do, you know? But things you feel comfortable doing. Communication is the big thing. Find out from him what he wants, too. Good luck and have some fun!
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It sounds like you are being pressured into sex. No guy who really cares for you would make you feel this way. Save yourself for someone you have been with a long time and you know cares for you.