will iget get him back the way i want him?
341317
AS in you broke up and are getting back together? \n\nAbsolutley NOT. Things have changed and you have to accept it....you relationship will NOT be the same.
404073
go right ahead.... make ur move and get ur man back
1171107
Umm no. You can't just sit around waiting for him. You'll waste so much time, and when he comes back things won't be the same anyways. You both will have changed. Spare your heart the pain and move on.
895234
This is a very fragile thing your flirting with here. You can get a spell and make him come back to you, but do you really want him back on those terms? You love him-set him free. If he returns he's yours-if he doesn't he never was. Spell casting to strenghthen your love is OK, but to get him to love you back is dangerous and would not recommend this practice. Please rethink what you want, and take a different approach.
839019
I think you've done the best anyone can do to try and open him up and if he isn't then get rid of him. He will regret having lost someone as nice and good as you and there's nothing that will change, because you deserve better than him and if he isn't willing to try than move on. Find someone who will love you back, has feelings and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated (which is very good, just so you know). Good Luck
766343
I would'nt worry too much if i was you even though i know you're heartbroken i bet you any money he'll be back begging for forgiveness from you very soon.I agree with the rest that he's being controlled by his family it's pathetic just look at it as a blessing in disguise that thankfully you learned his true nature this early on: that he's a spineless toe-rag.Now you can look forward to meeting a real man with a bit of backbone who will appreciate and love you and treat you as you should be treated.Goodluck hun.
316693
You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
1140835
TELL HIM UER SORRY, THINGS WOULD NOT GO BACK AS THE SAME THOUGH!! IT MIGHT BUT IT WOULD TAKE A WHILE!!!
877352
Question is ---Why would you want him back?  Find someone that will not be ashamed of you and would be proud to have you around and meet his family and friends.  Good luck
1149772
He has absued you mentally, reduced your self esteem, made you believe that you love him so much that you  have to hurt yourself physically for him to believe that he has succeeded. My opnion is that you are too good for him because you are still hanging on. If you try hard enough, i believe that slowly you would get over him and recover back to your original self. All I could do is wish you the best of luck.
394519
Well,Believe it or Not ! They Say If You Love Somebody Set'em Free! If They Come Back They Are Yours If Not They Never Were !\n\nWell ! Maybe you will get him back if you stop going after him
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
232237
you can drop him hints and see how he take it. or if you are daring enff, let him know. but do noty expect anything more. afterall, he may not like you back. or discreetlty ask hiim if he has any ideal ger in mind. if he say u, binggo. if he say someone else, you know you are out
576963
well just hope he comes back\n\nmake some new friends and get on with your life
423107
say you love him and miss him and want him back
307420
You need to know some things before you try to get him back.\n\n1. why did he leave?  Did he leave because you don't put out and this tramp does?  If that is the case, I agree with the rest, don't bother.  If he left because of a fight/misunderstanding then i think you might want to try.  People have fights and then will do almost anything to win, so things might have been said, that neither of you meant.\n\n2. Why is he with her.  Is she like you, apart from the trampyness?  Is she the opposite of you?  Depending on your sex life with him, he may just be on a bootycall.  Doesn't make it right.  But if she is just like you, he might want you back.\n\n3. Why do you want him back?  how old are you? how long have you been dating?  What have you done together (meaning go to college, school, other?)  Maybe he was just serving his purpose for those times but wont work with these times.  We are all human and we have all done that.\n\nSo if you want him back, how bad?\nif you need him back you got to tell him and sex him up.  (If that is the only way, i say leave him)\n\nIf you love him, but still lead a life of your own, then tell him you need him and tell him you are sorry for what happened.\n\nfinally, if you are stil pissed at him and don't care if he comes back or not (but would like him back) then just say hey we need to talk and make sure he knows everything about how you feel and ask him why he did it.
372382
Patience is the key! Don't allow him to get to you, that's what he wants to do and bring you down to his level. Congrats on moving on with your life....atta girl!