i used to love him... but still hurts... can i forget him someday?
353376
Love hurts...but it does get better. And yes, one day you will find your Romeo and forget all about him. Good luck to you.
318380
I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.
237771
Its difficult and knowing that the feelings are not there for you by him is the first step to forgetting him. Move on and gradually your feeling will fade. Try not to let it control your life. Best of luck and remember you will find someone else.
368031
The best advice to give to you is just keep seeing him then you will eventually tire of him and you will stop having feelings for him coz if you stop seeing him now it will just torment you..the same thing happened to me and I got the courage to walk away once I couldnt take anymore.
566045
All I can say is that time heals wounds and you will think you are never going to get over him but time will do it. Try not to think of him if you start to think of him start thinking of something else. Stay busy all the time. Put away anything that has to do with him like stuff he gave you and don't listen to the same music that the two of you listened to. Put pictures of him away in the attic or somewhere its not easy to get to. Then one day you will be able to look back and it will be a lot better. All of a sudden you will not think of him as much and you will then be on your way. Good luck I know its hard. It is one of the hardest things but if you ever get hurt next time you will be stronger.
120948
Realistically, you can't completely forget someone you used to love. At least, I can't. Everyone I've ever loved will always be a part of who I am. They are part of the influences in my life who have made me a better person. Even if they were horrible people, I've become better by the lessons learned. Don't try to forget...just open your heart to yourself and your own strength...and allow your life to "absorb" the hurt. Then the moving on will happen naturally, without the effort...and you will be a finer person for your experiences. (if you choose to be)
777597
It's really hard to forget someone that you love. But you've got to move on. Try to make yourself busy. Hanging out with your friends, doing exercises, and meeting new people. Remember do not stay alone! It'll make you feel upset and think about her again!!!!!!! Good Luck!
548500
Hi, I hope this helps.  I think that you should not try to forget him, but to change your perspective on how you view how things were with you and him. Look back on the times of love and joy you did share and realise that those moments were good, but new happier moments will come with someone who you feel you can open up with and trust and love totally. Let go of any guilt or anger you feel about not opening up, if indeed you do carry any.  Moving on emotionally is the best thing that you can do and I wish you well.  But do not forget him, just say a silent "thank you" now and then for all the lessons learnt and wish him well.  You are a much more beautiful and stronger person for this experience.
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!
465387
its always painful to lose a close friend....i'm sorry that you did...but keep your head up and hold the memories that you guys had together close to you....and if its possible let things between you guys cool off and talk...you regret if it you dont
687788
I'm not sure if you really can. I had a bf 5 yrs ago and we loved each other very much but his parents made him move 6 states away from me. It hurt so bad and I still miss him to this day. He probably doesn't even remember who I am anymore but oh well. No I am like totally in love with one of my bestest friends in the world and he knows it but I guess he just doesn't feel the same way about me. He is leaving in July to join the army and I will probably cry my eyes out everynight until he returns in December because I'll miss him so much but he might not give me two thoughts when he is gone. I don't know but there is no real way to ever stop missing someone. I guess one day you'll just wake up and never think of them again.
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
168180
No one said that your heart had to forget him.  Love always keeps a place in our hearts.  The key is for you to accept it for what it was and to move forward.  You can't make someone love you who doesn't and you deserve to go on and be happy and find someone who will love you as much as you love them.
213925
get over him and move on
223538
you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
696650
It's hard for you to let go because you still love him. Give it time, you will get over it eventually.\nI just told someone else this... You can't Make anyone love you or MAKE anyone love you more.\n\nGood luck.