I am working with a total b%^ch. Is there something I can do to get her to back off!?
340326
Buy her a beer, nothing beets a good old fashioned co-opting.
828298
Add in your expenses.  Bid her good bye and good riddance!  Be glad she did not wait for it to become really successful!
266148
You should stop worrying too much about your EVIL boss and continue on with your work... She'll get what she deserves from ABOVE... hehehe
984674
tell her to f**k off and what you want to do with your body is your bussiness. there always going to be people who are going to be jelous and in most cases you should ignore them but telling her off might make you feel better and put her in her place at the same time just dont be so loud or let it escalate into a fight or you might get fired
283205
"Trying to pull a fast one"? Honey, don't look now, but shes already pulled it. What's worse, by not confronting her you appear complacent, even willing, to let it ride. If you want the money back, tell her so, After all, IT IS YOUR MONEY!
683391
Approach her about this.  Tell her, politely, to own up to her responsibilities there or you'll tell the boss.  Tell her that you understand that she has a life outside of work but so do you.  You cannot keep covering for her because it reflects poorly upon you.  She can seek help.\n\nIf this is a temporary problem, wait it out.  She'll owe you one and may keep this in mind during finals time.  Chances are, she's carried a load or two for you, without you knowing it.\n\nIf she shrugs you off or does not promise to improve, then go to her boss.  Tell him that you do not mind handling the extra responsibility if you are compensated for it.  However, you currently are not being compensated for your efforts and you've already got a great deal of responsibility within and outside of work.\n\nIf nothing happens, go above his head.
95381
I have the same problem.  She doesnt take time to do anything, just wants to rush me out and Im having some serious problems.  She just disregards everything I say, like Im overreacting or something.  Its really frustrating!  I havent reported her because she hasnt really done anything fraudulant that I could prove, I just decided not to see her anymore and tell everyone I know how horrible she is.  I figure eventually all of her patients will get sick of it and find someone else.  Then maybe she wont be able to practice anymore.
176273
Ignore it. She sounds like a trouble-maker and not a reliable source. You can also call her back and ask her to stop harrassing you.
262896
Laugh her off. Your future depends on your sanity, not hers. Liars always get what they deserve. Ignore her and do your job.
472417
STOP BEATING HER!\n\nyeesh really.
444179
Tell her she comes up with the money, or you contact the Base Commander. ExO's do NOT like this kind of behavior, and will make sure you get re-paid.\n\nWhen you are dealing with dead-beat military types, this prospect is one they truly don't want to face.
1076183
Play mind games with her. Stare her down when she insults you, say "is that all you've got?" and come back with something snippy/sarcastic. But don't be so bluntly mean that she has something to tell an adult about. Or you could just not talk to her, and pretend that she doesn't exist.
907098
It is a costly process going through the court system, but I would still go and see a lawyer.  He could send her an official letter saying she is defaming you and if it doesnt stop then you will take her to court.  She would probably get the shock of her life because she wouldnt think you would take it that far.  I think she would have to stop.  I would also go to Management and tell them that she is a trouble maker and is spreading vicious rumours and they need to stop her, especially while she is working because she is giving the store a bad reputation.  You could even tell them you are going to take it further because what she is doing is illegal, and what company wants bad publicity.
978127
Let up a little and don't always correct the kid.  She probably resents the fact that you think she is always in need of your brains and help.  Allow her to make some mistakes and when she wants your help she can approach you if she wants.
892410
I don't think you can ever get your money back. If it were me , I would just call it a "long , hard lesson learned", and chalk it up tp experience. I would not give her any more money, or trust her again either. If she is still in your life, you need to get rid of her immediately. She is not to be trusted, and is bad for you. Best of luck to you.
265769
Just CALMLY confront her straight out, asking one question at a time.  Do not let up on the questions until she breaks down and starts talking.  Do not raise your voice or act angry:\n\nI don't understand why you are treating me this way when I have done so much for you, and you have been so nice to me over the email.  Is there something I should know about?  Did I do something wrong?  Did something change?  Are you unhappy visiting me? Should I stop sending you money?  What is going on?
47041
Just ignore her.  Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you have to, but when he comes to your work be EXTRA friendly with him.  Look very happy and pretend like you arent doing it on purpose.