Do you think my boyfriend is going to leave me?
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
721765
he's probably trying not to loose you (for now) by telling you he's leaving.  if he tells you he's leaving he has to deal with hurting and leaving you.  by not telling you he avoids that. you're gonna be hurt when he leaves either way. he might be trying to hang on to you for now. he may just be protecting feelings.
432415
Well it sounds like he has already emotionally abandoned the relationship, so who is to blame you for phyiscally abandoning the relationship?  I think you should do it before he leaves, though.  His running away (literally!) is really just a passive-agrressive way of forcing you to make a decision and be the "bad guy" for leaving when he's gone.  What a wimp!  Demand closure now, before he goes so you can get on with your life and tie up any loose legal entanglements.  You don't want him running up huge debts on his world-wide jaunt that you will be paying off, either.  What a selfish bastard!
511841
i don't think he is serious about the relationship and like you said, you may just be there for convenience. if you have been together for 2 months and he is making you feel insecure and physically sick, then i can't think for the life of me why you would stay?\n\nmaking plans and doing things together are the normal thing couples do. you making plans to spend time and him not acknowledging or remembering is a sure indication that he isn't too keen on you. I'm sorry if that sounds cruel or hurtful, but it is an honest opinion from a guy.\n\nhim going off on the weekends and being you put off the phone is a sure indication that it's time to call it quits.  leave before your pain becomes unbearable. have faith in yourself and find someone who deserves your love!!\n\nany guy can talk sweet but if he doesn't follow words with action, then i thinking he is whispering sweet nothings into your ear. stop listening to him and move on, girl! life is too short to waste love on a person that doesn't give back.
509302
First off, he can't be your boyfriend if he is already with his girlfriend. Right now, you are the "other woman", so to speak.\n\nI would advise walking away from him and getting on with your life. IF his relationship is as bad as he says it is, and IF he LOVES you as much as he says he does, then knowing you are getting on with your life and showing no more interest in him, might very well help him to make a choice. I wouldn't give him any ultimatums either. Just tell him you that you are moving on. If he does end things to find you again, then he was speaking the truth to you. If he doesn't, then you know he was a player...was having his cake and eating it too.\n\nKeep your self-respect and dignity by walking away. By staying while he is still with his girlfriend, you are giving him everything he wants, and you are getting nothing for yourself, except a lot of pain. You are worth much more, you know...and if he doesn't come to you single and free, then believe me, there is some great guy out there that is going to give everything of himself to you alone and no one else, cos he WILL recognise your worth!
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
672927
If more than one person is telling you, and these people don't have alterior motivation for wanting to break you guys up (like they have no personal reason to want to break you up), than I would say you should probobly believe them.  Of course your bf is going to say he's not cheating on you when you ask him.  You have to analyze the people that are telling you this and find out how they know and take it from there, good luck!
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
1153077
well if you continue acting insecure then he will leave you. He chose to be with you, enjoy his company, enjoy him, there must be something really special about you that he sees you just have to learn to see it too!  Be confident!
396441
Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
296168
Yes you are making a big deal. Can't you take a hint? He doesn't want to be with you, I don't mean to sound like a b*tch but it's true. He's telling you "oh I'm leaving" yet he doesn't leave.\n\nJust get over him, he's too much of a damn coward to give you the real reason. Forget him.
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
231755
I think you are the one who is not in love with your boyfriend.  You should leave him.  And no man has any right to beat anyone, but you make it worst staying with him after he has beaten you
807966
Sounds like he's pretty much over you.  I'd move out and move on with my life.  Sorry.
489963
I Have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years, we argue all the time. if this happen to us i would be pissed like you. if you guys do not live together i would not call him, let him call you. he is the one who needs to say sorry for leaving you. but if you live together then you should go home and do not talk to him for a little bit and then sit down and talk about what happen. i would not forgive him, it was wrong for him to leave you. but if you want it to last you have to tell him how you feel.
517148
Girlfriend, your like me caught up in the rapture of uncertainty. We want to leave but afraid deep down inside to make that move. Our insecurities allow us to not be more clear in our train of thoughts and we make sudden decisions without thinking them through. You are scared to let go but at some point you have to realize it is what it is, he is a cheater and he's possessive and somewhat controlling. You left and that was the first  step, now move on.\nMEN ARE LIKE A BUS ONE COMES EVERY 5 MINUTES YOU CAN RIDE THE BUS TO THE END OR DO AS YOU HAVE DONE GET OFF AND CATCH THE NEXT ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
587272
Sounds like he just wanted an excuse to leave. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but its the vibe I get from your description. Try to move on and find someone who will love you and be honest with you. Best of Luck.