Should I report my friend's sister?
340488
As a EMT-i if i saw this kind of behavior at a patients house i would not hesitate to report this to Child services, and the police. If she is simple doing this now what is to stop  her from moving on to a more  aggressive behavior pattern? If i were you i would report it.
191404
I'm not sure about this, but I think that if you report her, your friend could face some consequences as well, if INS determines it was a sham marriage.  Sounds to me like the guy has been through enough.  Better that he should get this woman as far away from him as possible, and fight her for custody of the baby.  Sounds to me like you and your husband would be able to provide plenty of testimony against her in the custody hearing, so maybe that would be karmic justice in itself.  Unfortunately, the world is full of people like her, but we don't have to force their eventual karmic pay-back. It will take care of itself, every single time.
1167571
just tell her your sorry. its not worth the loss of a sister over some clothes.
742487
It depends on what the information is.\n\nIf you are simply sharing information about the person just to be negative about him or her, it's not okay.\n\nIf you are reporting something about the person for his/her or society's benefit, it might be okay.\n\nFor example, if you are saying to your coworker that you don't like so-and-so's outfit, it's not okay, because you are simply being negative for no apparent reason.  A friend of mine says a good rule of thumb for these is to never say anything about the person that you wouldn't say if he/she were there.\n\nIf you are reporting something about the person because you are trying to make life better for that person and/or society, it might be okay.  For example, if you know that your neighbor committed a crime, you might report it to the police without your neighbor knowing.  But you are doing it in the interest of a safer society.  Or if you find out that your friend has an eating disorder, you might tell her parents behind her back, but you do so because you hope that they will help her get the help she needs.\n\nGreat question.  I've recently come up against an issue having to do with this myself.
481256
Confront her about it. If she's going to hear it from anyone, better it be from you, her friend.
1134343
H E L L yea you should tell her.  I mean MY GOD it's bad enough that you slept with the guy, that shows how much you care for her, but to allow her to marry someone that obviously doesn't care for her.  What kind of sister are you?  I wish I knew you personally because I would personally kick your a s s  and tell your sister.
550810
I wouldn't do it.  When I was her age I had a lot of older friends who bought alcohol for me and it just allowed me a lot more opportunities to drink than I would have had otherwise.  Also, my husband had a brother who was about 6 years older than he was and same thing, he had access to lots of stuff he should not have been doing.  I would understand if it was JUST your sister and you gave her a simple girlie drink while you were watching a movie or something, just one, but definately not her friend.  You never know how it could effect her, what if she did something stupid or had a bad reaction or even told another friend who told her parents who told the girl's parents.. you could go to jail or be sued.. not worth it in this day and age.  You don't have to appear cool to 14 year olds.. with that age difference you are more of an adult role model.  Good luck, I'm sure it is tough.. but definately not the friend!
1184187
No.  Does your sister know that you have put her all over the Internet???
344196
block her and report her. best way is that way...good luck
715340
I highly suggest you and her other friend try VERY HARD to work it out so that there isnt any animosity. Good luck
894956
I agree with Rico, you need to think how much you value your friendship and what could be potentially just a shag. If you have real feelings for your pals sister and want something more, you need to find this out from her and talk straight with him.
20608
I agree, it's wrong. But if this person is really your best friend, then you should talk to them about it. If they have no good excuse, then obviously they aren't a very good friend, now are they?
619815
if you find one can you check to see if she has a sister ?
1066974
okay, I'm not the best person to ask but, i personally think you should do something that would let your friend(s) see what he is doing is bad. Or you could catch him doing something wrong, and if those are your real friends, tell them and they should believe you.
42518
Nah--you should just leave it alone. Now, if you SEE her doing something with another guy, then confront her. But, unless your brother asks you to keep watch, you should mind your own business. Does it really matter what her race is? If she were white, would you have written: p.s. she's white and sort of a party girl. Probably not. Sounds like you, yourself, have a motive other than your brother best interest?????????
855347
Yes, you should tell her for 2 reasons \n1- if she ever finds out you knew and did not tell her, she will have one less person she can trust and maybe even will cut her contacts with you (I don't know your sis and how upset she might get) \n2- If your sis knows the truth she can have closure and maybe stop not trusting men (maybe far fetched) as he left because he likes guys and not because of something she did
992098
witnessing a friend do a ciminal act is a tough decision....  obvioulsy only you can answer this one..... if your friend has been cited & has an attorney, then speak to his attorney....  if you think the crime needs to be reported & you are the only witness then report it....\nobviously if you report a crime, your friend may end up going to jail after an investigation whereas if you tell your friend you saw him do a crime, nothing happens to him...\nand by the way, if you have no direct knowledge- by that I mean saw the crime committed-- then you are not a witness and anything you tell the cops is hearsay but may still start an investigation