how doe i lose a lot of wait if i want tolook real good in front of my crush at the end of the year pool party
350629
First, learn how to spell.  It's not "wait", it's "weight."  And it's not "doe", it's "do".  Here's the way to lose weight.  Weigh yourself now.  Then go to CaloriesCount.com and find out how many calories you would need to eat to MAINTAIN your current weight.  There are 3500 calories in a pound.  So if you want to lose a pound a week, you will have to eat 500 LESS calories a day to lose a pound a week. Of course, if you also exercise, you will lose weight faster.  Also, be very strict with yourself and don't eat anything unless you know what's in it and how many calories it contains. If you do this consistently, you will lose weight.  There are no magic tricks. It's hard work and it takes a long time. It took a long time to gain the weight; you can't lose it in less time than you gained it.
67711
don't be scared or nervous. take it from me a performing upcoming artist. everyone you see when you stand before a crowd is human just like you. maybe even worse than you. but think of how many people could do what you do when your before the crowd. pay attention to the crowd, and they'll pay attention to you. to pay attention costs nothing, but not paying attention costs everything. be yourself. the rest is up to you.
763505
I went on dates feeling like you do and to my surprise wound up falling hard?????????????????  What is the problem here?  You are getting out of the house!  Make the most of it.  If you go tomorrow thinking you won't have a good time, for sure you won't.  Why not go into this looking at it as having a night out and making the best of it.  How do YOU know you won't have a good time? You might just be surprised.  Also consider this.......when you are out there, you might just run into your real soulmate.  They can turn up in any place at any time, and when you least expect it.
734409
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
1153534
Good on you for slowing down your natural impulse to rush headlong into these things.  Keep that up!  Nothing is gained by hurrying - ever.  Consider this - you are going into the summer, when things kick back even further.  I'd say wait....don't send him another e-mail now (you never know, he may send YOU one.)  But no need to wait until you see him again either.  If you don't hear from him in a couple of weeks - invite him to go with you and some friends to wherever your town is doing their fireworks on the 4th of July.  (So you give a nice, even-balanced message: not an intimate one-on-one, with a group of friends, but you have made an invitation.)  THEN - wait for him.  Completely.  He may or may not take you up on the invite (and if he doesn't, it may only  mean he already has plans) - but you have done all you should do and the ball will be in his court.\n\nGood luck, kiddo!
459476
popularity is a main thing.. u need to be popular to win this and this starts when the class starts .. from the first day u work hard to gain popularity ... but since u cant do that .. i also suggest that u dress superbly and show some skin.. this will go down well with the guys ..
315277
If you aint doing anything then obviously nothing will happen so its either sink or swim. If I were you go try some chit chats or something with the guy and lead your conversation to somewhere you wanna tell him that u like him and stuff. Try smart conversation. hehe. Hope that helps
172795
Start enjoying yourself.  Nothing brings people to you more than seeing someone who is just having a good time and not worried about the people around her.  Have fun and be happy, and you may find more than one person coming around liking you.
691231
Frizzle has it - If you want to do well - your social life has to be put on hold.  Give yourself the occasional day off, but don't expect to keep your partying weekends and make sure your friends understand you will be out of circulation for a while!  Sad advice but true!
740008
You know what i actually think that you are worried too much ,and you don`t know may be you`re friend got mixed up !\nIt seems horrible now but you got to just think of the dance and just see what happens on the night !\nI think you should go to dance on friday,it`s up to you now what you want to do ,go with friends  and just don`nt go with any boy  go with a group of girls !\nThis guy is going to be there any way ,dress to thrill! I mean the full works ,go to hairdressers.dress ,everything !!!\nFeel a millon dollars ,have a big smile on you`re face ,dance all night say hello to everyone ,have so much fun !!!\nEvery guy in there will notice you ,and this guy you like, just pretend you didn`t hear any thing before,it could be that s its just gossip  been mixed up or may not be true!!Even if it is true try find a nicer boy,who says nice things to people!\nIf he seems interested on friday at the dance ,don`t seem to desperant !!!Just relax babe ,you are only 16 have fun and if this guy doe`nt seem interested ,you know !!!!his loss !!\nHave you ever heard the phrase "if you don`t love yourself ,how doyou expect others to love you "\nGood luck wee darling it will all work out!have a good time !
396474
Just be yourself.  If he doesn't see how great you are, find someone who does -- believe me, there will be tons more crushes and tons more guys.  If he doesn't see you for what you're worth, it's not the end of the world or your last chance.  Get out there and find someone who sees it.
276929
First face that fact that you might get burned again and when you have someone in mind (I'm guessing you all ready do), that you think is worth the risk of shedding some tears over if it doesn't work out, then you're ready to make your move.  Be where that person is when you can, not stalky, but if he's in some sport or club, go to the games or go to a club meeting, etc.  Give him an opportunity to notice you.  Ask for help with some topic if you share a class, that sort of thing.
225318
yeah sure people still want it.and dude,you have to stop looking.the perfect girl will hit you like a hammer.when you see her talk to her and then you'll know.you won't know right away thet's her.but you will when you hang out every time and you get this tingly feeling and a feeling you've never ever gotten before.don't ever be  rush.don't go out with just any girl.go out with the ones that you feel are your true (and i mean true) love.hope this helps
253371
If you have any guys that are good friends and don't have dates as of yet ask them.  I went to prom one year with a good friend of mine after we both had just gotten out of relationships and her and I had the best time of everyone there I think.  Good Luck!!!
535672
wait until the right guy comes along and then you will get all the attention you need
782376
no, this is a pretty good time, but try and get it into the high fives or even a 6 flat if u can, especially if your doing some kind of sport like cross country or track.  good luck.
890399
Wait til you are ready. But I hope you are going out with your friends. Sometimes a girls night out is what you need.