Can this be a reason for my partner to start thinking about other people?
339918
You better do something fast because the honestly, there are so many times where sexual desire and the need to fulfill that will overcome a person's feelings for their partner. It's sad, but it's happened a million times on this earth.
207649
definately not. it means you are one of the few people who others would be lucky to know. Just because you want your partner to be a good person, doesnt make you a bad one. good 4 u!!!
656963
Too much aspirin can cause this side effect. I myself am a very intuitive person, but I never have thoughts of others. i just know what they're thinking. This really sucks because I hate knowing what people think about things and my partner, she gets really upset with me because I do this with her, but I am always right. These thoughts are your thoughts. But, if your intuitive, then listen to the thoughts and find out if they coralate with where you are, or who you are talking with.
8157
hun its not guys.. im going through the same thing with the person i love... it all comes down to thoughts.. thinking is the worse thing in the world... becuz the devil is involved with your thoughts.. (your mind is the devils playground) so he probably missed her.. and wants to change and thinks theres something there.. just like my situation.. the guy came back.. after a year and she thought there was something there.. remember THOUGHT... when people dont follow there emotions.. thts when confusion comes in.. and confusion is everything bad... so i hope this helps you a little bit and if not im me... Epik_Liphe and i can talk to u a bit... but dont believe its 'guys', its just 'him in tht situation' it may not be he dont love you... its tht hes confused... it may not be plain to see.. and he may not say that.. but if its real love.. hes confused... take it easy hun.. try not to get upset..
613916
In some ways it depends on knowing your partner and what her needs are but I think there are some things which apply to everyone.  What I like to do is let my partner know I'm thinking about her so I would bring flowers home for no reason or send out a quick e-mail saying, thinking about you, can't wait to see you tonight.  Again, you need to know if this will work for your partner.
585747
nope. its ok to have crushes on other people as long as your partner doesn't feel uncomfortable
384659
well it depends on the situation. if they want space for an extended amount of time and they want to see other people, you absolutely shouldn't. if they just need some space to think about stuff but fool around with others, and you care about this person, and where it's going, then yeah. basically, keep it at the same level that they are. you know?
560924
If you feel that way then so does the person you are with, it is not that abnormal.  The problem is you care way to much about what other people think about you.  You don't want to make an A** of yourself but just say what comes to mind.  Don't worry about what others think so much and you will be much happier.  Read the book the Four Agreements its by Don Miguel Ruiz, it is not really a self help book but if you practice a few of the things he suggests you will be much happier. The books less than 10 bucks.  good luck
1140569
I think, for me anyway, that it's the feeling of being constantly judged and feeling like an alien not knowing who or what anybody is talking about. Then when you do decide to socialize it never fails that you put your foot in your mouth and confirm their wondering about "What does she see in him?" That is why, especially during the first meeting, the other person needs to break the ice and guide their significant other through the mine field that is FAMILY. Once they see what this person means to them they will relax as will your partner making future encounters less stressful and more enjoyable for all,
766467
It is normal for both sexes to do this. You can love someone, but still check others out or wonder what it would be like to date them. If it never gets past that, then thats fine. If you love the person you are with and never cheat on them, the thoughts that cross your mind are meaningless and only makes you human. \n\nSometimes by thinking of other girls, you realize that you are happier with the person you are with and it enforces you current relationship.
70049
This person has deep-rooted problems which doesnt show u directly,wen u see them treating other people wrong, thats giving u clues of what this person's really like, watch out this could be a red flag, theres a chance you will eventually see this person's side turn against u.
231319
Well, of course he does.  We all have someone that "might have been".  And if he's asking your friends about you, then yes, he's thinks about you...maybe not everyday but there may be things that pop-up in life that remind him of you and I'm sure there are things that come up that make you think about him.  But remember everything happens for a reason and you are where you are suppose to be in life and he is where he is suppose to be.
1006126
It sounds like thinking about all them other women are given you a headache, or this could be a sign of a hang-over.  Get some sleep, sweet dreams!!
496579
after 19 yrs of marriage i can say fron a man point of view that he has a lot on his mind and it may have also to do with something you've said or done to him. but he'll hold it in and not let you in in order not to be hurt anymore. it's like closeing off his heart so he wont be hurt any more. if it's not you then it's something someone else has done to him. but unless you get him to open up it will be a dead relationship. what my wife and i do when the other cant seem to talk to us , IS WRITE A LETTER! TELLING THE PERSON WHAT YOU FEEL ,AND MISS ABOUT THEM, AND WHY AND HOW IT MAKE YOU FEEL. HE CANT RUN FROM A LETTER OR ARGUE WITH IT GOOD LUCK!!! you dont just just let go you. figure what caused the reason to hurt and not repeat them. both spouses hurt each other. but when you look at the situation you look at it from your point of view. counseling allows you to hear his side if he talks. then you get a better understanding of som of the harm you might have done also!!!Good luck daddysr2003
269677
I used to have this same problem with guys I used to date but, I found the love of my life and I can't stop talking. I feel comfortable around him. I know that he will not judge or think less of me for what I have to say. Maybe she does not feel comfortable around you. Maybe she is afraid that you will judge her.
159092
I think he is afraid of the reaction other people would have if he told you that. Some people really do talk when they hear about relationships. Summing it all up; can it be fear?
842167
I have a jealous partner! I love him to bits, (he had a tough time with his last girlfriend), anyhoo I have been with him for 5 years and just do my best to reassure him, If I meet new people I make sure he gets introduced to them as soon as possible so he doesn't jump to conclusions, I include him in plans and nights out because to be honest I prefer to have him out with me anyway, as I said I love him and enjoy his company! I think it would be strange to have a partner that doesn't get jealous....it would be like they didn't care! If you love the guy help him through it if you can't be arsed with the hassle dump him!