men only-- what types of characteristics do you look for while having sex? (any type)?
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The following are the characteristics:-\n1.Physical dimensions of all related organs of the body\n2.Whether required biological changes will be as required.\n3.Whether certain activities connected with sex will be considered dirty.\n4.Whether the other party is willing to co-operate honestly.
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I look for honesty and a person that has a good heart! I want to be able to laugh and have a good time anywhere we might be! I want a girl to be neat in appearence and clean looks isnt everything but I do want them to smell good and enjoy sex as much as I do when It comes to that point in our relationship!
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Honesty.  Trust.  Self assuredness and confidence.  Good looks of course.  Funny.  Smart.  Good sense of style.  Turnoffs would be jealousy, clinginess, poor personal hygiene.
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WOW!!! glad to see that you finally got your book published!  lol\n     to answer your question...i think i would put it in this order.  #1 being the most important:  \n(1)-manner  (2)-sex  (3)-money  (4)-looks  (5)-career  (6)-physique  (7)-penis\n\ni do find it difficult to draw a line between sex and penis, and looks and physique.  i understand your explanations, but they just seem to go together to me.  and, yes, i would like to stress personality.  i can't be with a man that i don't find funny.  he's got to be able to make me laugh!  confidence should be on your list, also.  if it was, that would be my number one!\n\nedit-you are very welcome!  good luck on getting everyone to follow directions.  half of the people on here can't even spell...lol.  well, i guess i'm sticking with that order then.  curious to know what your number one is???\n\nedit-take two-the more i think about it, the more i think that i should have switched money and looks.  i've dated some broke guys that were very attractive!  and i'm not that materialistic.  hmm...guess it's too late.  peace.
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Honesty, sincerity, ambition ... above average libido, intelligence and a great sense of humour ... good lookin' with a great "bod" ... fairly well grounded i.e. spiritually and family upbringing. Not in any special order!\n\nA fair question would be ... have I found her yet??? eh!?!?
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Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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These are some that I look for in a man, and he better have all of these or it will not work for me, he can have more, but up want these up front:\n\nFaithful, this is the number one thing!!!\nsense of humor\naffectionate\nwants to work and be a good provider to me and the family\nhonesty, he has got to be honest\nwill communicate with me about everything,\nwilling to listen to me when I want to talk or have a problem,\ntalk to me about his feelings\nrespect, he has to have respect for him self and me\npatient, I am a slow learner so he has to have patients with me\nromantic, I want him to be romantic toward me, giving me             flowers and taking me out to eat from time to time\n\nI know this is not 10 but don't want to try for the impossible. I don't think there is a man out there that fits this any way.
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What I look for is, ............ a man that is honest, loving, fun,respectful,faithful,has good morals and values, ambitious, caring,has a good sense of humor,is self confident and has respect for themselves. =-)
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a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
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Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
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Intelligent, but emotional\nOrganized but surface messy\nSensitive but assertive\nlife of the party when they need to be, otherwise they prefer to stay at home\nAll the appearance of being a prude, but really wild in bed.\nA leader, but quiet the rest of the time.
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Turn-ons:\nlong hair\nmanual laborer (construction, mechanic, etc)\nmusician (even if they just play guitar at home for fun)\nlikes animals\nsome tattoos (not covered in them though)\nhas own mind/not afraid to give opinion\n\nTurn-offs:\nbusiness clothes\nlaw enforcement types\nsmoking\ncries changing a flat tire because hands will get dirty\nanimal cruelty for any reason\ncan't have fun at all without drinking\nsnobs/thinks above others\nno sense of humor\nchameleon types that change depending on who they are talking to
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I like tattoos and peircings, bald guys are hot, short or tall is only an issue if hes shorter than me, i like guys who have some meat on thier bones. above all he has to be interested in alot of stuff I am. I like to be able to talk to someone about issues that i care about and I like someone to open up about things they like as well.:)
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Respect, trust and honesty are the MAIN qualities, but intelligent, funny,handsome,wise,loving,caring, sharing, good listener etc. are ALL good qualities. Yet, every person is different; and some characteristics may stand out more than others in most people. Therefore, YOU have to know what U want in UR mate; as well as what turns u on and arouses u. What makes ur heart go pitter patter when u see ur guy, when u think of him, or what makes u go crazy just to hear his voice or his name. U have to know what u want in order to find it. Overall though, make SURE u have communication; in fact that's the #1 key to anything successful.
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Appearance: well-groomed, clean-smelling/light cologne, and well dressed.  Whether bearded or shaved, long hair or short, being well-groomed (clean hair and skin, well-trimmed facial hair) is probably the most important.  Well-dressed doesn't necessarily mean expensive clothes, but clean, stain-free, and wrinkle-free is important.\n\nDemeanor: Confident, witty, humble are all good characteristics.\n\nHowever, there's this certain way that some men naturally hold themselves that conveys sexuality like some kind of pheremone.  It's this casual, hip-slung sort of stance, accompanied by a direct gaze and a half-smile.  Matthew Mcconnaughey has this posture.  It sort of says "I could take care of *all* your needs and have you begging for more..."\n\nI think most women get past the physical part of attraction fairly quickly. It's important, but more important is what their guy is like.  Not too sensitive (no tears on the first date, please!), but intuitive to their needs and the needs of those around them.\n\nOther than that, it depends on the woman and what she wants!
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The guy I'm marrying in September :)\n\nTo be more descriptive, a guy that is manly without being macho, sensitive without being a pushover, confident but not self-centered, stable and responsible.
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personality, intelligence, and what most women refer to as "the poo-ch" aka the belly. not rock hard abs, but not flab. just enough "fat" (if u will) to cover the abs. i know...its wierd, but i like it.