How do I help to cure an alone feeling?
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The only real cure for that is to get someone new in your life. It's the human connection you're craving (the puppy thing doesn't fill the void) and there's really nothing else that will satisfy that need. I suggest finding a guy you can be friends with for a while and maybe down the road you could free up some time for something more. In the meantime, keep occupied and those feelings will pass :)
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I'm not a woman, but I am a man who has been happily married to a wonderful, supportive wife for 11 years now.  In spite of this, I do have feelings of lonliness.  Part of this, I feel, is due to the fact that I have always had a male best friend but am lacking one now.  Also, I have recently had some friends stop calling me, and that leads to insecurities and lonliness. \n\nThe best way for me to deal with those feelings is to do volunteer work.  I also look to see if I can help out older friends and family who might need help around the house or yard.  Diverting my energy toward helping others rather than self-pity is the best cure for the blues for me.  It might work for you too.
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hey just be confident and outgoing if u stay quiet n dont talk to ne body then ur just going to feel worse n idk wht ur situation is but take some advice from some one with the same feelings n stay positive n stop thinking of ur self as a loser
1014110
With TIME.  Allow yourself to feel whatever you want to feel right now.  And hang out with friends and do something nice for yourself.
1135058
go solo for a while. relax take a break. sometimes that helps. is that the answer you were looking for?
518702
I am in the same boat as you.  Trying to figure it out.  What cannot be cured must be endured.  Keep strong.  Looking at your life without that other person there feels so empty and cold.
494305
baby girl, if you start doing thing for yourself. you'll feel much better. you have a good surrounding but it's up to you to make yourself feel happy and belong. so start an activity. join some cause that you believe in.
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Truthfully, you are never truly alone, unless you believe you are truly alone.  The mind has a powerful trick over the heart.  Just don't give in to the sense that you are alone.  Look around, and find people to talk to.  I know you will overcome this sense of alone-ness. I went through the same thing.  Just trust yourself, and what you believe in.  You'll always come out on top of your problems if you just try.  Trust me.\n\nI wish you the best of luck.  Don't let the feeling of alone-ness get to you.  The worst of things can, and will happen if you do let the alone feeling in to your heart.
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That really depends. You could try something like caffeine which MIGHT offer a temporary surge of energy which might get you to feeling a bit better, but professional care is really the best way to go if you are feeling very depressed, especially if it lasts any length of time (over a week or so).
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I know I do not have all the answers that you need. But I hope that somehow my ideas would help.\n\nLoneliness is all in the mind. We can choose to be lonely or otherwise. Instead of sulking in a corner thinking of life's myseries and heartaches, why not boost your self esteem by thinking about the good things that happened to you  (and around you) and the good things that you expect to happen.\n\nGo out with friends and amuse yourself. Talk to people whom you trust and tell them about what's bothering you. Or get away for a while, alone - commune with nature, meditate, talk to God (or whoever you believe is the highest being). You'll realize that there are still beautiful things to be thankful for. Afterall, problems are there to be faced head on. \n\nDo not live with loneliness. Deal with it. Instead of living with it, come out a winner over your problems/frustrations or whatever causes this feeling of loneliness. You should not allow problems/negative ideas influence your life and take away the happiness that you deserve. You should take control.
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What you need is friends. Talk to them, hang out with them, etc. If you're upset, being alone is the worst thing. I guarantee you'll start feeling better if you build up close friendships.\n\nAnd by the way, if you're still upset, you can ask your friends for help! It's a win-win situation!
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Do something for someone else.  Not only will it be nice for the other person it will help you get your mind off of your own problems.  \n\nDrinking, shopping and eating are all quick fixes and may help for a while but I think that you need to look for something more long term that will make you happy.  \n\nWhat do you like doing?  What do you love doing?  Things like guitar, writing, chess, gardening, painting.  \n\nTry different things untill you find something you like.  \n\nAlso make yourself goals and try to stick to them.  \n\nTo get more self esteem you should do things that make you proud of yourself rather than external beauty.  \n\nOh and about finding god.  God is great if you truly have faith but dont try to use it as a band aid for your problems.\nGood luck.
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RELAX AND IMAGINE THAT EVERY ONE IS IN NOTHING BUT THIER UNDEWARE . THINK OF A HAPPY PLACE OR CALM BLUE WATER THIS SHOULD HELP YOU
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you may wish to start exercising, (like walking, aerobics, etc) it helps with the nervousness and empty feeling. \n\nalso eat things like carrots, celery, apples, i.e. things that are crunchy.  so when you shop with the parents ask them to buy those type of fruits and vegetables, they should last a long time in the fridge and dont cost much. look through the produce section of the market.  \n\nif that doesnt help, you can try sugarless gum, \nknitting or writing or some other hobby to do with your hands.  good luck
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Ya wanna hear something goofy? When I was a teenager, I felt just like you! I would wish to god I was a Siamese twin, just so I wouldn't feel so alone. It is hard to explain, I wasn't really lonely cause I had lots of friends and people who loved me, it's more a feeling that all of them and the whole human race belonged to this,(something) what ever it was except me! I could be in a room full of people yet feel all alone. Then one day I started asking myself: WHAT DO I WANT? As I lay in my dark bed   crying myself to sleep, I would ask: WHAT DO I WANT RIGHT NOW? WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL AND FILL THE VOID IN ME? Perhaps something that would make me a part of something! Well I don't really know what to tell you except I volunteered for a suicide hot line, I served underprivileged children dinners, I  worked at a mission, helping the homeless, I sat with the elderly etc. and as time passed, the awful feeling of being alone gradually went away! That was quite a few years ago and I haven't felt that way since. I don't know what happened, but what ever it was, it sure worked for me. Maybe it will work for you too! Good Luck!
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the feeling of emptiness
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Find something you do really well, and do it often. (For me, it was singing and martial arts.) \n\nSmile at strangers. It's rewarding when they smile back.\n\nThink only good thought about yourself. (I know, it's corny, but it works).\n\nOnly listen to positive, uplifting music.\n\nKnow that God loves you everyday, no matter what. He created you for a purpose. Find it.\n\nGet plenty of exercise.....it releases happy endorphines and makes you feel better.