How would U deal with friendship troubles?
354941
THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!!! all i did was just ignore her and not talk to her for days. but one day she herself said "hi" to me and i was shocked cuz she was talking to ME. so i said hi and now we r frends. not talkin made her feel really bad and she started talkin to me! peace and good luck!!!!!!
322031
Everyone has their flaws.. I have two friends like yours too, and they're my best buddies... Sometimes, both of them are there for me, sometimes it's just one of them, and sometimes neither.\n\nWhen neither are they for me, it's time i question their loyalty. But then i realised that maybe they just aren't comfortable dealing with the problem i have.. because they are clueless of what to say. sometimes they have other bigger priorities, like family... I dun think we can expect our friends to be there for us the 24/7\n\nMaybe you should spread out and find other friends.. to help you deal with different situations. we can't hold on just to several people.
522752
First, understand truly the view points of each one individually, and why they're angry with the other.  Then, get them together in a neutral place and YOU do the talking.. say.. this is how A feels, and this is how B feels.  And explain to them that you will not take sides, and that you will not talk to either of them until they've resolved their differences.  It's the best way to get them back to being friends, and it's also the best way to maintain your integrity.
482544
All you can do is continue to be a good friend by listening. None of this is your fault, and you are not responsible for resolving the situation. Just make sure you are always there for your friend, as a good listener.
145183
first you said your pals are bad right well you can not be friends to her.them you can get a new pal that is not bad.then you can have fun with your new pal.
1136488
Set the both of them up to meet you somewhere like the park or mall or somewhere and set them down and tell them that you cannot do this anymore. You are not going to be the go between for them anymore. You love them both but they are ruining what could be a good friendship. If they care anything about you they will either find a way to get along or atleast lay off of you. \n\nYou cannot make your friends like each other but you can make them respect that you consider both of them your friends and do not want to lose them but you will walk if something doesnt change.
941706
In life we make friends and we lose them, from death, they move (Or you Move), get married, Argument, fights,so forth and so...this is one of thing you will have to get use to,, the best way to deal with it is to take it one day at a time. one day you will find a true friend, don't worry about it.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
1098357
Make your enemy your friend. It is safer to keep an enemy close by your side. Plus if you had an argument try and resolve it. It feel better knowing you have lots of people who care about you, rather then hating you. Never know the other person may feel lonely as well. You be the bigger person and apologize, this will start some open and honest conversation. Good Luck.
939007
. Maybe it is time to consider finding a new friend Friends accept us for what we are the best of and the worst. If you feel strange there problem is something going on. Are sure they are friends and can you really be yourself around them. If so how can you be thinking you can mess things up? Life is to short to be up happy either ask them straight out or accept the way thing are.
32400
I would get a mutual friend to ask around a bit discreetly. Just get them to say something like, "hey have you ever thought about being more than just friends with so and so" and see what he says. Then based off of that you will know how to act around them. Friendships to relationships are always a very hard transition.
1152735
Yeah, You got a problem all right....You're not "more than friends"...You are not EVEN friends....Stop being so desperate.
599116
try n get along with them n be their friend
244618
Just be silent and find out what they are all about.  Just listen.  If you truly want to be their friend, you will not impose your ideas upon them if they don't want to accept them.  You will just have to leave it at that, let go and let God.
1163025
Whatever you do you should handle it calmly and spare his feelings. Because right now like you said he hasn't gone too far but yes if you fear it will go beyond what you want it to be then is best to resolve it quickly. handle this face to face and be strong about it. Tell him that you feel that your friendship with him seems a little too personal and it makes you feel bad and you do not want to feel bad at all. That you cherish the friendship but it will never be anything but a friendship. If he can not understand or accept it then I suggest you end it completely.
463995
first of all, i know people are going to answer MUCH differently than me, but I've been through this (more than once) with friends.\na BEST or REALLY GOOD friend, would keep the secret.  thats right.  dont blab.  if it bothers you, you need to talk to her.  ask her if you can help.  most people just do it for attention, others truly NEED the pain to stop thinking of what bothers them every day.  Some people think that theyre 'rebelling'\nAnd yes, she will hate you for telling.  Even if she does want attention, she'll still hate you.  kiss the friendship byebye. \nConfront her.  tell her it bugs you.  it scares you.  just tell her how you feel.  say that you knew that it would be better to talk to her about it than someone else.  they'll like to hear that.  it shows that they can trust you.  believe it or not, they smiled (inside) even if just for a split second.  \nDont get mad.  Don't say 'If you dont stop, i cant/wont be your friend!'  this, is also a good way to throw away a friendship.  \nDont push it.  If they say they dont want to talk about it.  Dont ask anymore.  drop it.  completely.  BUT...make sure to say that THEY can talk to YOU whenever they feel the need.  this shows trust.\n\nI hope i've helped.  But truly, don't tell.  Even if it doesnt ruin a friendship, it makes it very very awkward.  You wont be 'best' friends anymore.\n\nSORRY IF I WAS TOO BLUNT! :)
993089
I have a friends who i have known like my entire lives and i love them. Though problems can occur and if you ever have a problem if you have been friends that long you may not talk for a bit but you always make up and you can talk to them about it. When you hang out with someone all the time they can get to you but its ok things always work out if you really want to be friends. So just talk to them and and if you have a problem tell them how you feel...it will work out if you really are good friends.