do any guys look for abstinence in a possible gf?
351371
I value that... and I'm single... are you?
621617
As long as you know you wouldnt cheat on her then I wouldnt worry about it too much.  You can most certainly look, but you definetly cant touch!
465512
It depends on what kind of person you are. If you don't mind, then who cares what anyone thinks? If you want something monogamous and committed, then I think its time to re-evaluate.
379467
Some guys only what one thing, SEX.  But, the good guys are looking for a girl who has the same interests as he does in some areas, able to tolerate his interests in hobbies they do not enjoy such as duck-hunting, and willing to let the reins loosen alittle.  They like a girl who is sure of herself, but not cocky and one that has good morals and isn't afraid to say no to sex.  They really want to just get to know the girl and her family, enviroment and interests without complications like sex and babies involved.
71382
I think you need to ask yourself if she is the type of person who would do that. Then determine if your sex life with her has changed. Is it less frequent? Is it not as satisfying? If she is the type that would cheat or has in the past, then chances are she has or will. If she isn't and there is significant change in your sex life, then you need to discuss your reason for asking this question with her. Like other have stated, her eyes will tell you the answer.
83019
i know a guy that wants a gf
55928
Depends on whether the guy / girl looks only at the body for their definition of a date. If that's the case, then no. If not, then it's possible, though your "personality" thing has got me in a bind. It just takes a lot of appreciation, respect, and oh yeah, maybe a different date helps. ^_^
477507
if you guys are dating, sure. the girl won't be surprise if you guys are dating, or bg and gf.
99422
This is actually something I'm struggling with right now.  I totally love my girlfriend with my whole heart, but it's just my rebellious nature to look for "excitement" outside of her.  I catch myself trying to impress other girls, and sometimes lusting after them.  Realistically, though, there's nothing more exciting than being in a totally committed, loving relationship, and we guys don't know what we're really blessed with when looking elsewhere.
603559
no..guys look at it all the time...\n I am picky also not wild about contracting any STDS...not that I look at porn..I just choice to think about other stuff.\n I fell for the pressure of having to be married when I was 21...and it lasted 15 years.For the last 6 I have been a single Mom & enjoying my son instead of settling for just any guy because I missed the sex.\n The right man did come along and we will be married as soon as he gets back from his extended tour in Afghanistan.\n At least you are being responsible with your health and have a healthy way of seeing relationships...
387184
Nope, if that's something that's important to you.  Keep in mind though that you will likely have to do something important to another girl who likes BJs.
602012
i have always found the women to be the cheater.  I have never cheated if my heart was there.  Guys simply want sex more than women, or maybe the girl we are with simply doesn't satisfy us, and we don't want to tell her that.
137600
Not necessarily. Some guys say that so a girl will think he doesn't cheat
537964
what kind of gf do you have!?! thats s h i t y
146044
As long as you truly love the girl, then I honestly don't think those other characteristics are a key priority in a relationship. She's out there somewhere for you :) but just remember, don't rush into marriage.
221918
It seems you have just landed from another planet, is it that difficult to " have a gf "??????? anyways, what are your particulars for a girl-friend for you, maybe hunt one for you.
396478
I have a bf, but I saw your question, and it was so sweet, I have a feeling you'll find the right woman soon.\n\nhang in there, most times when you aren't looking is when you find a real gem :D\n\nhave a great week :)\n\np.s, and yes, I would date you