Why it is so hard to find a descent guy out there?
352304
there are many descent guys out there, you just have to find them. Good Luck
850251
You're lucky to have the whole range of people to choose from. I wouldn't worry too much if you can't find any guys you're interested in. Girls make perfectly good partners too. But I suspect it's not easy to find the person who's just right for you, whatever gender they are. I'd just keep an open mind, and who knows, Mr. or Ms. Right just may pop up ;)
437006
Yes there good men out there!! Just keep being yourself and Mr. Rigth will find u. Enjoy yourself but be safe finding him!!!
528596
Maybe you have met the wrong type of men on line.  Maybe it's your yahoo ID.  I am not an expert on this but there could be a few reasons behind it.  But I pick one of these two reasons.  I hope that things get better for you in the future and maybe everything will be OK.  Good luck in finding nice honest guys.  Take care.
864674
Guys he has to be married because the guy asking the question is married. You just need to go out there and keep lookign they are out there but you just have to take the time to find them. I am in NC and was looking for the same thing. Just keep posting personal adds you will find him soon.
143823
Maybe a lot of guys are like that but every single guy is.  It's always worth it in the end if you wait to find the one that's exactly the way you want\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
977208
Actually there are many guys who are looking for commitment.\n\nIf you keep on having this issue it is because you keep on going after the guys who aren't looking for anything more than a good time.\n\nWant commitment?  You'll find it.  first I think you need to change the types of guys you think you're attracted to as they aren't the ones it seems that are looking for committing.\n\nSee we "nice guys", the boring ones are looking but you women seem to keep on going for the ones that are exciting.  There are "Dads" and "Cads".  The "Dads" are the guys who'll be there.  We aren't flashy and we don't always know what to say.  In fact we most often have no clue.\n\nThe "Cads" are the fun guys.  The guys who can sweep you off your feet in a bar, use you and then you pine away waiting for them to call back.\n\nYour choice on what you're really looking for in a guy.
395216
men mature slower than women.  they want a good time when the women are looking for husbands.  so unfortunately it's up to us to wait for them to want it.  There are a few out there who are great guys... but unfortunately they get snatched up by a few great girls.  sigh. \n\never feel like "everybody's buddy, nobody's hunny?"  lol- that's me.
474924
There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
668239
speaking as a single male, i might ask the same thing about single or divorced women....i would like to take the time to get to know someone (bf/gf sort of thing), then see if it works into a relationship.....yeah, i think that it could be done....the decent guys are out there...they may not simply advertise the fact that they are decent guys...maybe they have been screwed over too many times....have patience....keep looking....they are out there....good luck to you
387519
There's not a sure way to find the right person.
394702
I think most people (not just gays, though we certainly do have less of a chance of actually finding someone) have this problem. It'll be okay though! Just keep up good spirits and you'll find someone sooner or later.\n\nAnd I'm always free to chat through YIM at SpookySickness or at bluesylvia@hotmail.com
813896
Theres always someone out there for everyone. Dont feel down. You'll find that person soon.
411032
EXPAND your hunting grounds!  If u keep looking in the same places- then u r only going to find the same old guys!  Go to different places.  Go to the higher class bars- not the dives.  get a part time job in a lumber store or auto parts store.  Make yoursle apparoachable my smiling alot and having a great time in public.  When u see a guy who interests u take the chance and ask him out!  Thank god its 2006 and we can do that now!  Men like to have girls ask them out!  That way they dont have to worry about rejection!  Good luck to u!
475863
It's a hard thing to do, I'm 25 years old and still trying to find out myself. Seems like guys nowadays just want one thing and that's it. I've not once found one that is out for who you are or what's on the inside. I suppose it takes time and such. When meeting a guy just be straight up with them and tell them that your not into guys who are out for one thing. If they seem caring and loving, don't be a fool and give in either, let them stay on the hook for some time before doing anything. If they wait and are understanding then do something.
251982
Because they are not ready to settle down; they still whant adventure so they look for the "bad guys" to have fun. When they get older and they are ready to settle down, they look for a good guy.Same thing happens with us men.
369534
maybe because you haven't yet found the right person...how about going somewhere else try to meet people in a descent way...i hope it could help you