Is marriage really neccesary?
343423
Nothing wrong with that, except that people who live together without that "piece of paper" are not entitled to many things that those who do marry are.\n\nDon't rush into anything, though (as I see you are not), you deserve some happiness after all those years of unhappiness.
220928
Sex in marriage is a must, before that, NO!\n\nOut of marriage, sex is just an instinct full get together used to fulfill your passions or desires. You just do the body thing, get filled up, and that's all. Sex should not take place before marriage.\n\nIn marriege, sex complements the relation, helps the couple to get deeper feelings, respect, and all those kind of stuff.
113128
marriage is considered a committment yes but it gives you all the benifits to you always have someone to talk, sleep, eat, watch a movie, with there with you in sickness, injurys, heart ache, besides 2 is always better than 1 and depending on your outlook you got papers on that person lol\n~~~~then the why nots~~~~~~~~~~\nyou always got someone under you always answering to them when things go wrong its like being around your boss all the time then the kids come and you know noone knows how to be a better parent then the other parent all the money issues its costy to be 2 and love cant buy a loaf of bread but it is something i would never give back is my marriage to my sweet hearted wife leona of 11 years
361048
Marriage is a great experience. However, i would strongly suggest that you are prepared for it. It's a lot of work and compromise, but if you're truely dedicated it's so worth it.
401392
no...a marriage with a relationship is loving not just living together..
113158
What for? They are companions that understand what a relationship needs. Both have money and enterprises to take care of. Probably marriage for them is just a paper and for people as independent (in many ways) is not necessary a husband or wife to feel happy and/or complete.
1064439
no......never\nif there is no love then whts the way of marrying.........
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
809355
That all depends on the people involved and what their values are. My marriage has lasted a very happy ten years, and most of that time has been in the "low income" category. Having "lots of money" is often nice as it helps to alleviate a lot of life's stresses, but also usually brings stresses of it's own, and many marriages have fallen apart due to having "lots of money". Again, it all really boils down to the people in the marriage, and what they value.
971265
What's the point in getting married?
1026258
I think it is. I think we are supposed to get married and have a family. We then find what true love is. When you have kids its something unlike anything else and to me the marriage comes before the kids so without that....you don't get the honor. You don't get to know what it feels like. I believe that there is someone for everyone and God will put this person in front of you when you least expect it and you will know this is the one.
761004
I remember when living together was considered so wrong by society.  It became popular as the excuses of "well you try on shoes to see if they fit before you buy them don't you?" etc., abounded.  One would think that the divorce rate would go down since so many are getting that trial run before the real deal.  It didn't work out that way did it?  Personally, I would not live with a man without the benefit of marriage behind it.  To me, it shows a lack of commitment, and if I'm going to invest myself, my time, my finances, then so is he - as proven by the marriage certificate.  And yeah, I know, I'm old fashioned.  But hey, I've been married 27 years, so something's right.  <grin>  (Just my opinion, you understand).
1041030
Love is not the only consideration in marriage. You take a hard look at the big picture before you make a life long commitment.
51793
doesn't take that much actually. if two people established enough trust, respect, love, and open communication there are chances of a thriving relationship. Although misunderstanding and arguements are inevitable, patience and a little less pride are also ingredients of a good love life. If talking about reality, money is also a factor, let's face fact.
641195
Yes..... that's why my GF and I aren't rushing into marriage yet.  Once I get my degree and start making good money (hopefully), then we'll get married.  Right now, we are eligible for help and it helps with taxes, etc.  Sad but true.
905162
any marriage, either love or arranged....should have committment,, understanding between wife and husband.  then any marriage or relation is successful.
1126512
No. It doesn't make any difference. Marriage isn't about 'trial and error', it is about making a commitment to each other, regardless of what happens. If you can't make that commitment, then don't get married. People who aren't married don't act the same as people that sign the contract. Living together isn't marriage. (until the common law period of time kicks in, then you actually ARE married, and you don't have to worry about it anymore).