seeing this guy for 8 months, what should i do ?
344470
it depends if you really do still want him, but remember that maybe the other girls are just his friends, don't get jealous. dont right out ask him for something more, try giving him more so that maybe he'll understand and give you more back. i do think that you should stay with him though if you've gone 8 months without any other problems
887186
talk to him a month isn't that long. the worst thing to do is sweep it under a rug. enjoy the time you will spend with him until then and then you will really enjoy when he comes home. look on the bright side, at least he is not being deployed into war. that would be even worse. take what you can.
114235
Unfortunately, you can never know for sure if a relationship will last. You don't even seem to be sure that YOU want to be with him for the rest of your life. If you were, you wouldn't be asking this question. But in reality, it takes a lot longer than three months to get to know someone, so I say just try to get to know him a little better and ask yourself if he's someone you want to devote your life to. With your commitment, it can become reality.
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
111625
you might just have to give him time if he doesnt want to be in a relationship just yet. but if he is still dragging his feet a month from now you need to take some kind of action
814274
You need to ask yourself do you really like him? And what was the reason that he started seeing you? What do you do together and what do you want from him? There is no point seeing someone who isnt going to give you what you both want from a relationship....you should be spending quality time together on your own and with your friends and family and if he isnt prepared to do that is  he really worth it!? Think about what you want...x
235968
Nothing. He's already showing you your future with him and how he is while in a relationship with someone. Men/women are creatures of habit.
711749
hey, youre heart isnt in the right place man! you have a lifetime to wait but a lifetime to waste. your will must aligned to the will of God in your life. The woman you love 8 years ago will not be the same woman you love at this very moment. Put yourself in a mirror and tell yourself what a handsome guy like you wasting your life in waiting. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..Go back to the basic.
1160837
You need to be yourself, don't expect too much from your first time, sometimes it can be painful, sometimes it is not enjoyable, you need to be totally relaxed, Try some slow music, dim the lights, make your surroundings as comfortable as possible and take it slowly.\n\nI am sure that your man loves you very much to have been willing to wait for 8 months, so I know he will be careful with you, bu the main thing is not to worry, just go with the flow and savour every moment, as you will never get it back again.\n\nI hope that everything goes well and that it is all the experience you want it to be.
304309
In your case with that guy, you're still in the observation situation at this point because you're still looking forward of knowing him better, that's why you talk about life and stuffs like that more often... The best thing you could do right now is still observe his words and actions towards you because that will really help you to analyze what to do next... About going out in the zoo with him, I think your observation was right, it was a date, maybe he's just shy or hesitated to call it that way but it also means the same for him... Look forward in knowing him deeply and that's the best thing to do at this time and also talk about life and stuffs like both of you did before... Goodluck!
281381
Well it's best if you get to know someone before you decide to have a relatioship because he could be down right CRAZY! So get to know him and after say two months if he hasn't asked yet ask him for a relationship.
339773
do you have a new date set?  Talk to him to see if he still wants it or not.  Open lines of communication is important
428527
That is totally normal.  If you've been with someone for that long, it's time to start talking about the future. So of course you want to know if he's the "one".  Both of you should take a break, date other people and decide if you guys are right for each other.
1029075
fact is that you and him cannot see each other too often... and both of you are still very young.. I think each of you should live your life, but always do keep in touch. then, see what happen with your life in the next few years after you both graduate. you will never know what will happen, things are happening fast at your age. not to be wasted. either of you are planning to make serious commitment soon anyway right?
644870
Your talking about a life time. Give atleast 2 or 3 more months. Don't rush nto anything quit yet. Do you know his family, ex's? Did you do any research on this guy? Just find out more. I will hate to see you turn into one of those Lifetime movies. " Sweet girl falls in love with a serial killer". Just wait, take your time, pray about it.
305027
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
604266
i think you should wait til you have been with him for at least 2 months!! good luck babe!!