should I leave my husband for a much younger man? I love this man so much :(?
340059
3 words for you...\n\nfollow your heart...
1061416
follow your heart and remember to stand firm on your beliefs. What a precious gift to give someone you truely love. I would definately talk with him again. Sometimes young men that age think if you don't go farther in a relationship that you don't really love them or you have doubts. That simply isn't true...wouldn't he rather you wait until you can fully give yourself to the person you are gonna spend the rest of your life with. You are a very smart young lady to realize that you are to young to proceed further. You only get one chance to be young and innocent. Don't let him pressure you into doing ANYTHING you are not fully ready for mentally or physically. It's a gift you can truely only give once. Be safe sweetie.
628889
I married a man 7 years younger than I am.  We have now been married for 27 years and going strong.  Age is only a number.  It's how you perceive that number.  Love him??.  Then go for it.  One year difference is nothing.  OH, I already had 4 kids and my husband had never been married before.  My children love him like their own father.  He is the most wonderful man to me.  Take a chance if you love each other.  It's worth it.
627894
Hey Gal,\nFirst en foremost u need tyme to think this over en over again coz it's a tricky kinda situation u got.. u must get to knu what this guys want which one is for real and ready to settle down en make you happy.. at 26 i would advice you to try en get to knu this 34 year old because age difference here is an issue as u knu women tend to mature faster than men so i guess this 34 year old may be gud for you.. the 20 year old is still young and he needs to mature in a relationship en u might find you two don't have the common kind of interests. \nHope this will help ya...gal
648682
If you love someone a job does not stay in the way of your marriage.*\n\nStay and give him this option of now or never.\n\nThe older we get the less desirable we get so getting or soul-mates young are better than being older three years your 28 and if he puts it off again.\n\nYou could be in your 30's and than what.\n\nMay dad told me this when is was around your age.\n\n( Of course he was playing telling me if i waited till i was 50 than i would be looking for a wife around 50 years old also ). \nSomehow dad had a why of putting things that made sense but he went way around the bush to get there.\n\nThat's because he did not like making my choices but he let me know in away he was there to show me a direction of my choice.
505148
Find someone your own age!!! Or atleast wait until he is an adult before you corrupt him.
684150
I say that you should go.  Things arent going to change with your husband, he can promise all that he wants to but they never do.  If you have found someone who cares about you and treats you good, then you deserve that happiness!!!
615778
Well if you love her too, have her wait 2 years for you. If you don't love her... tell her to find someone else.\n\nBy the way my husband is 6 yrs older than me... so no it isn't to young. Just from a legal stand point I'd wait.
60528
Learn to be patient. If you are not married yet, I would suggest you to leave him. I know it is awful living with an inconsiderate man. But I honor marriage and think people should try their best to stay in their marriage in better or worse. So please learn to accept him the way he is. Anyway, it's your life and your decision. I won't respect you less if you decide to leave him. Wish you the best.
655616
Ummm...you need to come down off your high horse and realize that having a higher education does not put him beneath you, but that you are beneath him for even thinking this way.  I say leave him.  He deserves better then you.  My education is higher then my husbands but who cares.  He works hard and loves me so thats all that matters.
71234
I think the maturity level of the two persons involved makes a difference, I mean if you are both willing to accept each other for who you are and for how well you get along, similar interests, good communication, respect, and love. If things are good between the two of you, age should not make a difference. My boyfriend is 22 years younger than I am, we have been together for over two years and things are great! I know what you are talking about though. Finding the right person to share your life with is difficult enough. Age should not be an issue. Let him know this, and let him know how you feel about him, that's about all you can do, the rest is up to him.
366747
Yes, you're like me and I married a younger man too.  But the age thing we've learned to make a joke of now - we were 29 and 31 when we met, so perhaps age has something to do with the way we handled it.\n\nI still refer to him as my toy boy sometimes, and tell him ke's got to keep fit in order to push me round in my wheelchair.\n\nGirls mature faster than boys, and I just think he has a little catching up to do.  But don't tell him that, whatever you do! ;-)
200125
lol, I am a 34 year old woman deeply in love with a 46 year old man!  No kidding.  It is working for us so far!  And I have never been happier. Not sure what kind of advice you need.  Our ages never seem to cause a problem.  Good luck to you both.
496566
Currently, you should concentrate on taking care of your children and keeping yourself healthy and your thinking rational.  If your husband has capital for business, talk to him and find out what he is doing to make money because you will need to know what resources he is working with whether you stay married to him or not.  Right now, you do not need to become entangled with another man, especially one you do not love.  The needs or your children and yourself should come first. You must take charge of your own life and stop depending on men to carry you. You do not need confusion.
27973
my husband is 5 years younger than me. and we get along just fine. if you feel you have the capacity to be with an older woman go ahead that means you may be really mature
40333
you should get a divorce.then again does that other person feel the same way about you .you need to be true to yourself and your husband.it is not eair to him
842398
He is much to young for you, physically but mostly emotionally.  There is a vast difference of experiences and it is very unlikely that this relationship would work own.  Don't hurt yourself and your parents by making the wrong choice, as much as your heart is leading you astray right now. Good luck.