whats mean feeling weak to a guy for z first time?
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when a guy is tried and he is very weak in health may he sick or he is having an balance thinking of sex that can make him weak.a guy can be weak when he is not inlove with lady he is about to have sex.
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It sounds like in some way he feels that you rejected him.  Maybe it has something to do with you not knowing he got hit by the car. A lot of guys respond like this when they are rejected by girls they like especially if they'd been friends for a long time.\n\nThe other however less likely thing that could have happened is that he did something that he knows if you would ever find out about that you would not approve of it.  Maybe he feels that if he would be close to you, you would eventually find out about it and get really upset and reject him.  So instead he rejected you first.  It sounds kind of wierd but we guys do a lot of wierd things when it has to do with girls we like.\n\nThe bottom line is guys above anything else do not like to be rejected.  Many guys will do anything to not feel rejected by the people they care about even if it means to hurt the people they care about.  It doesn't make much sense but it is the truth.\n\nI hope some of this helps and I'm really sorry about the lost friendship.  Guys love hard but their hearts break hard.
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YES!!! its a long & lonely road but hang in there.\nit's ok to feel weak sometimes, we are only human.\nchange your lifestyle if you have to...\npositive thinking & self- worth is very important.\ni sincerely wish you luck & love!\ndon't worry about things you cannot control. change the things that's dragging you down.\nyou can't fly with broken wings.\nhope the link can help...
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You are not over-reacting you are just being ladylilke cos no girl would feel secure with that kind of guy.It means someone can walk to u and beat u up in his presence and he wouldnt act.\nGirl,tell him how bad u feel about that event and see his reaction if he doesnt see anything bad in it,then dump him...but if he realises his mistake forgive him.
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Nothing as natural as this is harmful in any way whatsoever. Us guys right after this, though, lose interest almost immediately and like to relax. That is not the same as feeling weak. We simply have worked out and then want to take it easy for a bit.
67897
you have so much nerves in you that makes you feel kind of a stage fright feeling,major butterflies.maybe someday you will be able to not have those feelings and actually talk to him or he will talk to you.if you dont talk to him,you might be loosing your chances with this guy.you never know.just try to say a simple hey,or hi or what ever you say.
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yOUR PROB. JUST NERVEOUS, JUST TELL THE PERSON YOUR NEVEROUS OR HOW YOUR FEELING AT THE TIME AND THEY MAY HELP YOU THREW IT. TRY PLAYING SOME MUSIC THAT WILL SET THE MOOD AND HAVE A COUPLE OF DRINKS OR YOUR DRUG OF CHOICE.
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it juz means u have a good feeling/like about some1... n u may think tat u've fallen 4 her... but the diff is, how deep is tat feeling... u'll lose tat feeling very fast if itz a crush... there is a diff in de feeling though... juz got 2 learn through experience n u'll know... got to b sensitive though... =)
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Why is that bad? It's natural that you would feel that way. If you want to hook up, go for it. Just make sure the guy understands you will be moving soon. Be honest about your feelings. Go and lean on someone, girl! We all need that from time to time.
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Girl i know you must be hurting our first time is something speacial but sometimes we dont give it up to someone specieal.  Look just remember only you know what you should do look deep inside your heart for the answer see all of us will tell you to get on with your life and leave that loser but honestly we could be wrong just think about the past and was there more pleasure or more pain more smiles or more tears....  I'd say if he caused more hurt feelings then good then he does not deserve you also if he is involved in drugs or a gang then really you probley dont want someone who lives his life being a follower.
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I have had this happen to me, so i speak from personal experience.  When a guy has his heart broken, it is the worst feeling imaginable.  He feels lost, scared, alone, worthless, and completely shattered in body, heart, mind, and soul.  He is sure of almost nothing (although he often puts on a public persona to let people think that he is okay), when in reality, he is very sad and very down.  Depending on what happened, he may never take you back.........The heartbreak could have been more than he could bear.  For breaking his heart, you have lost his trust, as well..  You must rebuild this trust little by little, and you must show him that you will not break his heart again.  He must be convinced that his heart and soul is safe within yours , that his name is safe within your lips.  This will be very hard for you to accomplish............You must help to rebuild his heart, his soul, his mind, his confidence, his love, and his trust, among so many other things.  Give him a new (and true this time) sense of security.
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I agree with Lovebug.  Sorry honey.  If he wanted to call you or write you or see you, wild horses wouldn't keep him away.\n\nIt sucks that it was your first time, but don't listen to those unkind Christians telling you your virginity was a "precious flower you can never get back."  What a load of crap.  The first time you experience sex with someone who respects and adores you will be a "first" to remember- and the fact that you broke a bit of biological tissue last weekend won't take away from the magic when that happens.  \nBe mad, cry, talk to your best friend or mom or priest or shrink or mentor or whoever it is you go to.  Just remember to forgive yourself.  You were younger last weekend than you are now.  If you had known then what you know now, you would have acted differently.  Forgive yourself- because there's nothing to forgive but youth.  Being disappointed, being taken advantage of- this is a part of growing up.  Remember, all experiences have the potential to make you stronger or weaker.  Choose to become stronger from what you've learned.  \n\nAlso- don't talk too much to others at college or in your social circle, because as you've seen just on this forum, people can be cruel, and you don't want this story to follow you around once you've grown beyond it.
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Some men just think if they express themselves they seem week. We think a woman admires us for our strength and back in the old days it was true that if a man showed fear or sadness or even that he was in love, then he wasn't a "man". It's in our nature to hide any softness. Only women were soft. But some of us have realized, though, that women are more independent now and don't need so much "protection". It's just in our nature to to be strong and silent, though in some cases it's for homophobic reasons. Some men just need to be assured that expressing feelings is not a weakness but that it shows they are comfortable themselves and their mate. Let him know that if he expresses himself to you privately that he doesn't have to be so open when company is around. Trust me, it's not just you he may be protecting himself from. If he's been hurt in the past it could take a long time to open up. Just don't over do it by forcing him. Some men just feel more comfortable keeping it inside, but you have your needs too so don't give up. Hope I could help.
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Because that is a part of life. Don't worry it will get better but after a break unless you aren't a feeling person at all you are going to feel bad!! I remember how it was it sucks! But there will be more guys and hopefully better guys that will treat you better!!  Sorry girl if you need to talk email me at jreneeh251981@yahoo.com
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But you have nothing to feel stupid about. How were you supposed to know he'd do that? It's not a bad reflection on you that you wondered about whether or not he liked you. Those kind of things are part of life.
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They may feel bad later on, but I doubt you will ever know it. Unless they end up in a 12 step program and decide to make ammends. I have been hurt a dozen times and never had an apology. What I have done is remember to keep my side of the street clean and learn from my mistakes. The right guy will come along, but you need to be in the right space to deal with him. That means taking care of yourself and not being to co-dependent, not to mention, guys will have more respect for you if you keep your independance and don't let them walk all over you. I had to learn this the hard way! Good luck.
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I don't think saying you are sorry will make her think you are weak. It will show that you care and are a good guy. I think if you show her you are friends first then she will probably be more comfortable in saying yes to you.