What do i do  if i let someone go  and realize it's was  a mistake?
350044
try to make that person feel how much he/she means to u...in ur own little ways..ive experienced that and im tellin u mine was harsh coz after realizin my mistake he told me he's got gf already, just after 2 weeks! that was my first time to cry! and it hurts! damn lol but if u really want someone,its worth a shot..u only live once,.why not risk..who knows, he might also realize how much u mean to him
547130
Decide how important of a friend this person is, if it is a very important friendship apologize to them even though you have done nothing wrong, if the friendship is not too important just let it go and maybe this person will get over it!
857513
Wow, buddy, it sounds like you really did screw up.  That sucks for you.  If you truly want to try and make things work with this woman, slow down.  She's probably really hurt right now, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you.  Start with little things, like a sweet email.  Send her an ecard to apologize.  Show her by your actions how much you regret what happened, because we all know actions speak louder than words.  The biggest thing, though, is to back off if she asks you to.  It may hurt like Hell, but you could earn some of her respect back if you comply with her wishes.  Best of luck in finding your answer.  I hope this helped even a little bit.
115125
We need more details to help you out here.  The best I can do with what I know about your situation is a general appology.  Be sincere, and don't try to explain your side of it.  If you do, this may come accross as an excuse.  If you are truely sorry for what you did then say so and never say, "I'm sorry but...".  This will make the person think you don't really mean it.  Take full responsibility for your actions and admit what you did was wrong.  Ask them to look down deep in their heart and please forgive you.  Remind them of what your relationship means to you and how important they are to you.  Finish the letter by saying over again, "I really am sorry for hurting you.  I will do what ever it takes to earn your trust and restore our relationship."\n\nGood Luck!
720488
Tell him sorry but he had his chance and you can't move on with your life with him hanging around.
431174
After realizing your mistakes and apologizing sincerely to him, then give him space, don't drool on it as it will not give him the chance to reflect on what you've said that has hurt him or your words of being sorry. Time doesn't really heal whatever pain we've experienced, but it gives us the chance to take it, to carry it and to understand why things have happened. Its more difficult for a man just to forget, forgive and pretend nothing has been said that has hurt his ego or his total self. Just continue being you, the person he used to be a friend with, smile when you see him, though stop nagging or pushing yourself into him to put back everything that was. That's done and gone, start from scratch, that's the cause and effect of what you've done. Accept and WAIT, wait when he's ready to be friends again. Remember, wait and have patience.
835429
Ask yourself if you can live with that person, can you ever trust them again? Can you forgive them? Otherwise you will live a life of always wondering, and checking in on that person. Make sure you are not just avoiding the obvious- to dodge the pain now. It may hurt to let go now, but later you will be grateful, when you meet the right person who wouldn't cheat on you.
752516
Apologize again- letting her know you are not trying to get back together, that you just feel sincerely sorry for what you said and that it was uncalled for etc. She may be worried that she'll have to do the rejecting bit again, and no one likes that!
951325
Let her know that it was probably something that just slipped out. Everyone makes mistakes, I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt you.  Men just put the foot in their mouth sometimes.
1062712
You haven't been doing anything wrong. He has made the mistake. I know this because I almost lost my girl because of the same mistake. He's taking you for granted. Hes so used to you being there and the things you do he's forgotten what he did to deserve those things from you. You just have to make him aware, because he's confident that you won't go anywhere else. You probably won't but that doesn't give him the excuse to not do the things that make and made you happy and want to be in this relationship in the first place. Hope things work out and don't settle for anything less then what you want.
900887
Let her go.....the decision was taken by her, not 2 worry\n\nforget her......find another
67391
Just think about how she did you wrong.Pray on it. And meet someone new.
484646
Drop him like a lost cause.\n\nPeople make mistakes and are forgiven.  You made a mistake and apologized.  He forgave you and that should have been the end of it.\n\nI bet that he just used what you did with his cousin as an excuse for his behavior.  It likely was not planned out but he needed to blame it on you and could not accept responsibility for his own actions.\n\nDo away with him.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
141751
If you said that your sorry, and you really are, then its not your fault anymore.  Give it a little time though.  Things are forgotten over time, and they will probably realize that whatever happened was stupid and come to their senses.
76315
First, you need to decide if she is right. If you feel like a back-stabber, then maybe you are. If she is right, then you should come clean and apologize. Tell her exactly what you did and said, tell her it won't happen again, and then don't do it again. If she is wrong, then you need to tell her how much she hurt you, and find out why she said what she did.
211660
have a talk wit her \ntry to find out d reasons for her actions & try to explain her about her mistakes.