Should i stay or should i go?
355545
It's not the job.  You are lonely and depressed, and that makes the job hard to take.  Try to take a look at your daily routine and general way of living and see what you can do to get the cobwebs out and spruce it up.  Easy to say, sure.  But make the effort.  Get some regular exercise, eat right, find an interest outside the job....\n\nA job's a job, and sometimes it is work just to endure it.  But what will quitting it do?  Make you poorer and add nothing to your life.
434877
Check out the cost of living for the city you are thinking of moving to first against where you are living now. That will help you decide. It could be just a break even proposition.
1142764
Do what you feel is right. Aside for the salary increase, I believe you'd need a new work environment as you already mentioned your dissatisfaction with your present work. Go for it and just be glad you have such choice. :)
198815
You need to do what is right for you. If leaving the state to pursue a career is what you feel is right for you then by all means go. The people that are trying to talk you out of it are just wanting to keep you here because they will miss you. Thats all. I would do what will make me happy. Hope this helps.
747318
well,\n\nwhen will the pay go up?...\n\nif it isnt soon, then i would leave...
1101627
Do what you feel is right. If you feel that you are ready to move to the next step then go for it. If you have any doubts about it then I say that you should wait. Just follow your heart.
232537
I'd stay in for 14 more years and get lifetime benefits. You can always pursue another job when you get out, or you can stay retired!!!
571709
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.  At least, that's what we think when we begin looking for a new job.  It sounds as if you're set in an ideal situation of having numerous options to choose from, including a new job or quite possibly a new role in your current company.  I strongly urge a one-on-one with your manager, particularly if you have a good working relationship.  Your manager will both appreciate and respect that you chose to discuss your options prior to making a final decision.  It will also give you a more complete picture on where you stand in the company.  If you are considered "too valuable to lose", accommodations will be made to keep you there and quite possibly offer you a more appealing (and lucrative) position.  If you get a cold shoulder or "you need to do what is best for you" reaction, then maybe things aren't as rosey as you assumed they were and it is time to move on.  Weigh all of your options carefully.  I would suggest that you make a table of pros and cons for all options as well to see how they really stack up against each other on paper.  Good luck!
112143
well you should go were you want to,\nif you really want to go and and your parents wont let you go tell them you really want to go and that you know what you are doing...  thats what i would if i was in your place.
1012817
A lot of people are going to say: "Do what your heart tells you." Sorry but that's bull honky! You have to do what's best for you and those you care about...even if that means going away to get a better education or job. So depending on the circumstance...think of your future.
1113915
Do you like your job, or just the people you work with? If you like your job because you are good at what you do there, then stay. If you only enjoyed your job because of the people that worked around you then maybe you should find another job as well.....Your the only one that can answer this question,you know if you like being there or not.
570253
Happiness should be the goal here...\nAnd if I am unhappy with someone...I would leave.\nThis is a simple one.  (smiles)\nGive me another!
904014
All that info and non of it really maters. The question is whether or not you love her. If you do stay if not don't. Life is to short to spend it putting it off.
386327
I went abroad to work so I can get a change of scenery.  Remember, living and visiting are two very different things.  A place could be great to visit but hell to live in.  The best thing to do is identify where you want to move to, and then match up what is available there with what you can do.  One suggestion, life is a whole lot easier if you know someone already living in the country you want to work in.
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
178441
Please stay! Don't let the "others" scare you. It's funny when you piss them off!
573894
Where are u staying atm?\n\nSomehow i doubt you will re-unite if u leave, however, do what u wanna do man!\n\nI suggest sticking with what u know and maybe taking a year out to visit/tour the US or even the world\n\nGL w/e u do :)