Should I be nervous about leaving high school?
347806
It is definitely normal to be nervous. Now, to fix it...\n\nEver hear the song, "Sunscreen" by Baz Lurman? It's not so much a song, as it is a commencement address. Here's an excerpt:\n\n"Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum."\n\nIn other words, you KNOW that tomorrow, you will wake up healthy and ready for another day. So, why should you worry about today, when you KNOW that you will make it turn out ok? \n\nIf you just believe that you can handle everything that today throws at you, even on graduation day, first day of work as an adult, first day of college, or whatever other milestones lay in the future, there is actually no reason to worry. \n\nOr, how about this: Stupid people have done ok in your shoes, you can definitely do better than them.\n\nGood Luck, and Congrats, if your friends aren't in college with you, you'll make new ones.
126526
I never really had senioritis, but from  what I can tell, the best thing is to realize that yes, you're about to graduate high school, but you have to be careful.  If you don't stay focused on your work, then you just might find yourself back at the high school next year.  Stay level-headed, and don't give in to the peer pressure that's telling you to slack off, because you only have a few months left.  That idea seemed to help a number of my friends when they and I were seniors, so I hope it'll help you.
926050
believe in yourself.  When you leave highschool most of these people you will probably never see again. There is a WHOLE huge world out there you know?  And it really doesn't matter what they think. LOVE YOURSELF .. you are the one that has to live with you
669737
i felt the same way last year before i went to high skool. i had no friends to start off with literary all my friends from middle skool went to different skools and i was left alone. i was scared alot. but time passed by i made a bunch of friends and class isnt as hard as i thought it would be. it is different then middle skool in away. just sum advice, the ppl who r too nice i mean way too nice dont trust them cuz there just a bunch of like upperclassmen who want to pic on the freshman but ya other than that have fun
1002275
hey! i just finished my sophmore year. so it's fresh in my mind. \n\nit's almost like freshman year, but you'll probably (depending on your school's curiculum) have more classes with upperclassmean, which is a great opportunity to make new friends. a great way to make high school in general better, get involved in a club, sport, activity that you like or are interested. if there isn't one you know of that you like, go to a club that one of your friends goes to. having someone there you know will make you more comfortable. don't be afraid to try new things!\n\nhaving something besides schoolwork to focus on while at school (for example i'm on drumline), like a club, will give you a more positive idea about being there. some of the best memories of high school i have so far are of me and my friends hanging out in the empty school during drumline practices. \n\ni hope that helps some! don't worry too much and have fun.
1141964
I am not a highschool graduate of '06 (still have 2 years to go) but i know that my friends, who are attending college this fall, have the fear of the new beginning, its a whole new chapter in your life and your basically on your own, in highschool you were more structured, you depended on your parents for most things, now your considered an adult you are gonna be making choices that you've never made before
865404
I feel u. I took 3 yrs in high school and thought it was over, but I had to take more in college. I suggest you make sure you don't need anymore span. classes. I had to take at least 3 in college. But of course it is very valuable
564385
good for you you made it through high school \nnow you will begin a new education \nits called life and you have a lot to learn because now your in the real world now . and on the road to becoming an adult .. the safety net of school is no longer there . welcome to the real world with all its responsibly and lesions \ntry to learn something new every day on your new journey in to the real world ..\n congrats and good luck
950610
I felt the same way when i graduated high school and started my first semester in college. It's a very scary thing. Unfortunately, I let my anxieties and depression take over and i dropped out. now that I'm older i realize how much of a mistake that was. Whatever you do keep moving/living, things will always get better and you'll look back and be glad you didn't let your feelings at the time hold you back. You should never be embarrassed about who you are. It's you! People can love it or hate it, but as long as your living your life right and not hurting anyone, than Walk, and Walk tall. Be proud of who you are and what you've accomplished and look forward to the many more accomplishments ahead of you. As you go through life you'll meet different people and things will happen naturally. But if you let these feelings keep you stagnant you'll stay in the same place physically/emotionally and these opportunities won't arise.
847785
Did you by chance graduate from highschool?  That would explain it.  Standards change once you realize the world is a big place and you don't have to accept a guy that has an attitude you don't like anymore.\n\n***after your update***\nThat also explains it.  You are no longer the guy that can provide more than he is taking.  You are leaving school so no need to try to get anywhere with you, which means they can acknowledge that you are a creep to them.\nYou are gonna find out that entitled attitude of yours is going to serve you very poorly once you get out of highschool and college btw.  You might want to work on making yourself a better person....just some helpful hints if you feel like taking them.
1001616
High school is fine. The work maybe hard and long but it's fine. Nothing big compared to what will be coming ahead after high school.
1108618
I have no idea. I'm gonna be a freshman next school year too. And i don't know..i'm kinda scared 'cause my middle school was a very small school (only about 200 students) but the high school i'm going to has like 1500 students. And it's a freaking big school. Here's an article on Girlslife.com i read before about high school. Like a few high school seniors tell you what to do and what not to do in high school: http://www.girlslife.com/index.php?id=67 Good luck next year!!! Wish me luck.. ;)   =)
216744
It's a horrible feeling to think nobody cares but I garuntee you there is lots of people who do care and you don't realise it.  As for school, don't worry about them it might seem like a long way away now but believe me before you know it you will be out of school in the real world with real people who have more important things to do than bully somebody, and you will meet people who accept and like you for who you are.  Chin up!!!!
1137207
You are just leaving high school where you probably have long time friends.  When you get to college you will probably be missing that closeness, but know that it will develop much faster in college than it did in highschool.  College friends quickly become your family.  They are the ones that you eat meals with, live with, and spend the most time with.  \n\nPeople at college didnt know you in highschool and have no preconceived notions about you.  If you were labeled a dork, emo kid, geek or whatever other label in highschool, people at college will not know that.  It is a fresh start, take advantage of that.  \n\nEveryone is just as uncomfortable and afraid as you are.  \n\nOn your first night in the dorms have a batch of cookies ready and walk around and introduce yourself to everyone.  Its a great way to meet people and make friends. \n\nMake friends outside your major. Dont worry if you dont have a major right now, or if you find out you hate your major and want to change.  I know people who didnt decide on a major till the 3rd year.  \n\nDont be afraid of the older students.  Its okay for 4th years to be friends with 1st years.  College is not like highschool, there are not near as many cliques. \n\nMost importantly, enjoy life there.  Do what makes you happy.  \n\nGood luck to you, and dont worry to much.
25770
Short answer: Yes.\nWhoever said that high school is supposed to be the best years of your life must have been high for most of it.\nDon't let it get you down (I assume you're still in school?)  Trust me, it gets better.  WAY better.
974895
What you are feeling is perfectly normal for a person of your age. There would be something a little wrong if you didn't feel that way. The time will come soon enough. finish school, or you will have a lifetime of regrets over leaving now. You have no idea how lucky you are. I wish I had that kind of set up when I was your age. some of us run out of the house years too early for reasons of our own.\n\nI think you need a wild vacation, but a safe one. You will come back with a new perspective. Treat yourself to something different.
1098032
I recently graduated from college and think I can offer you some good advice. If you're new to college don't get overwhelmed. Its important to find that balance between school and personal time. Trust me you'll need it. You don't want to be all books and have no personality and people skills but at the same time don't forget you're in school to do your best and receive an education. Don't treat college like you did High School it is a different environment. Even if you didn't have to study much in High School, trust me you'll have to study at least some in college. Remember the uneasiness you probably will feel at 1st will pass quickly. To stay focused remember not to look too far ahead be aware of your goals but focus on your present priorities. Start a good communication line between yourself and your professors, they can help keep you on track. And remember have fun, once u finish college you will have the whole rest of your life to work, so enjoy your college experience!!