finding a guy is easy, dating a guy is not too complicated either, how do you keep a guy?
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Bind him emotionally to you. Learn how his mind works and functions and use it. While it may be wrong to control and manipulate people, we all do it, every day. I think that there is a greater amount of complaints about guys being dumped then about women being dumped. The key is as always communication, the number one complaint by men is that women don't say what they want. If you want something, are bothered by something, or want him to understand something...just come out and tell him. Men tend to be simple creatures, they cannot perceive hints as you do because truly men and women live in different worlds. Men are straightforward most of the time "Hey Paul...That shirt makes you look like an Idiot". If you get mad at him later for not understanding your hints and messages its likely to just make him give up on trying to appease you.
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
237057
you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
59819
If he's not seeing anyone and he's not gay then I'm afraid to say the answer is show an interest in him.  If you show an interest then 90% of guys will be interested back I'm sorry to say.  We are just not that complex.  Of course thats not quite the same as getting him to like you but you could probably get a date and go from there.
1057484
You're taking the wrong approach.  You're trying to get a guy to love you by being something you're not.  You should be looking for a guy who loves you for who you are.
850251
You're lucky to have the whole range of people to choose from. I wouldn't worry too much if you can't find any guys you're interested in. Girls make perfectly good partners too. But I suspect it's not easy to find the person who's just right for you, whatever gender they are. I'd just keep an open mind, and who knows, Mr. or Ms. Right just may pop up ;)
205509
It depends on the type of guys your dating.  There are some decent guys out there.  Make sure he is family oriented.
188971
not all guys are like that. i know i'm not. i can think of only one thing in life that comes before a serious relationship, and that's my daughter. i know plenty of guys that would love to get into a serious relationship, but they need to find the right person first. it takes time, but you'll find him sooner or later as long as you don't give up on love
69757
Stick with it. \n\nBut more importantly, enjoy yourself. Guys come and go. Eventually one will stay longer than the others. But no one is around forever. \n\nYou only have yourself to rely on and you are the only one who will ever fully understand you, so don't put too much stock in your relationships.\n\nEnjoy them while they last.
81827
if you wamt to find a guy to date and love...\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\ntry any pop-up that appears on your screen.\n\nOr just call me anytime any day :)
496673
well if you wanna casually date, date em all what the hell why not?? but if ur looking for just one guy, figure out which one is the best choice for you, then go out with that one. most men are childish that's just something that cannot be helped lol. newayz, its ur choice, you've got 6 guys to pick from have fun!!!
127125
Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
796050
I am sure there are a lot of cute boys..  just dieing  to date you, probably as much as you are anxiously wanting to be with a boy.\nTry not to be in such a hurry. The whole dating thing can be such a pain... Guard your precious heart, it will be broken many times so don't give it away to easily.\nFor now... start by doing things with small groups of friends. Keep your relationships as friends, you will learn more about your self in what you really like or do not like in a boy. Some of these lessons are so hard and can hurt so bad...\nSo again I say "guard your precious heart"\n\nOh and good luck
49741
how hard is it to find the right guy?  it would be easier to find the person we wanted in our lives if we knew what we were looking for.  So make a list of what you want in a woman and go from there.
1105542
no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
1064568
Congrads!! You have matured faster than those around you.  (And you have found a good guy, I assume, which is what most of us single girls are trying to find.)  So would it be better to date a really cute guy that you don't like or he gets in an accident and he isn't so cute anymore?  As you get older I think its less about the outside and more about the inside.  So while your friends are chasing the fine ones you chill with your honey and hope that they might find one as good as you.
1040940
I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...