I met a guy, hes nice, but things are getting risky kinda quick?
347859
Take your time, if its true then all you have is time. I wouldn't put any pressure on the situation, just take everything in stride. If and when the time comes it will all smooth itself out. NmD
315584
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
931597
id say it prob is, or he's really shy.  if uve made urself REALLY obvious, then PFF.  i mean, u need a guy with guts!  if this guy is waiting too long to ask u out, pFF again.  yeah he's flirty, but he cant do serious things.  if hes a really busy person like you said, that might be a downside.  us girls need attention, and a great guy is someone who will put aside his work for a bit for his girl.
1119517
Be careful this could just be infatuation.  Get to know him a bit better, find out what you have in common and go from there.
732073
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
203028
First of all, self confidence.  Be brave, walk up to him, and say, Do you want to hang out this weekend?  The worst that can happen is he could say he already had plans.  If thats the case, if he's a nice guy he will offer a day or time when he's free and make plans with you.  If not, then he's probably not right for you.
627986
It is ok to be nervous..It actually is real refreshing to see that a guy is real nervous coming to me. This shows that the girl is not just another peice of A** to him and that he really likes her. It shows that he must like her because if he gets soooo nervous just to talk with her, then he doesn't do this often. If the guys acts real easy and like hes a pro at this.....stay away ladies. Hes only interested in one thing. So hes not acting nervous cause he is already predicting a real good time with you and isn't planning on dating you . So go ahead be nervous it is OK. But if you want to be less nervous. Just let your words come out naturally.. If your nervous....tell her. She'll understand. She's most likely just as nervous as you are. If she seems irritated or compelled by your actions when your just being honest....don't go for it. She is too shallow and not worth your time. She may SEEM perfect. But shes not...ok.
909695
He likes you, but is afraid to tell you. Keep in touch, and see what happens
1096426
all the ppl who answered are right. the guy COULD be a sexual predator or a rapist. make sure you meet in a crowded place, meet in the daytime (that's safer) and for better safety, take someone else with you.
340406
You are probably moving a bit too fast or in an awkward manner.\n\nSlow down, take your time and get your head out of the gutter.  Next thing you know, things will just happen.
322796
maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
513191
just wait. when the time is right you will both know it.  Dont rush you both could be heading into trouble.
729577
its not rare to meet a person at random places like that, but listen to your gut. I once met a guy at starbucks, and i went out with him a few times, but something just didnt feel right about the guy, my gut was telling me that something was just off. So i stopped seeing him. If you do decided to go out on a date with this guy make sure you go somewhere public where there will be alot of people. Also make sure your friends and parents know where you are. You should have someone call you to check up about mid way through the date, and casually mention that you told your parents where you were going, this way he knows someone knows where you are and is waiting for you to come home. Better safe then sorry, he might end up being a super nice guy, but you can never be too carefull.
520369
If he's still meeting up with you, he already does like you!\n\nYour real problem is that he probably won't take you seriously.  Tell him how you feel, but be prepared for him to not be ready to put his heart on the line right away.  You'll have to show him over time exactly how serious you are & see if he comes around.\n\nUnfortunately, having been 'trained' for so long to not expect more, he may have decided that the alternative was more fun for him, anyway...\n\nGood luck.
751826
Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.