how can i be a good girlfriend?
347850
i myself are in a relationship for more than a year and things tend to get a little aggrivated lately.  The best adivice i can give you is to just take things as they come and just talk everything over with your man that comes up.  If you argue about things, thats ok. don't think it is your fault at all. if your mad, its obviously him thats doing something to make you mad.  just tell him whats bothering you
424894
The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
510737
be more flirty, less open, less of a shoulder to cry on (but still a good guy) and be more mysterious, more touchy (but NOT disrespectful) and more spontanious. you sound like a great guy, and i'm sure even if you stay just how you are, that you will find a good girl. good things come to those who wait! good luck!
162683
just be a good person.always be yourself.treat her right,make her always smile.small gifts helps than exnpensives gifts.be a good listener......... all these will give you a big plus\ncheers!!!
873584
there are lots of ways to do it.\n1.) act flirtatiously but make sure you don't look cheap\n2.)be a good listener,this is one part of the relationship that most couples are taken for granted especially when they live together for a long period of time \n3.)be sensitive to your partners feelings,or needs\n4.)both partners has to learn to give and take \nand show each other some respect \n5.)both of you should learn how to be honest and\n    truthfull to each other\nfollow those steps and you'll be okay
295912
Do you mean to have a girlfriend who doesn't treat you like a piece of crap or, have a girlfriend because you feel like a crap without one. Anyways if you have a girlfriend that treats you like crap, find a new one. If you have no girlfriend be patient. You'll get one if you really want one. Your not a piece of crap. Lots of people have no girlfriend or boyfriend.
1987
The truth is this, there is no way to satisfy your girlfriend, or anyone, for that matter.  Men and women, it seems, have this belief that they can "please" each other or "make" each other happy.  It is a nice thought, but it doesn't really happen that way.  Think about this, you are upset and your friend tells you a joke that makes you feel better...right?  Wrong.  You chose to feel better by seeing the humor in the joke and allowed yourself to open up enough to be influenced by the humor, losing your grip on those negative thoughts and feelings you had previously.  It is the same with women, in this case, your girlfriend.  \n\nYou can't satisfy her, but there is something you can do to improve the situation.  First start with you, being the best person you can be...to yourself, to others, and to her.  Be confident, be yourself, be all the things you want to be when fear and self-consiousness set in, and be true to who you are.  Then be selfless, helpful, caring, compassionate, diligent, and patient with those around you.  As for your girlfriend, you should follow your heart, care for her, give her yourself, be WITH her when you are around her, share, be thoughtful and kind, and show her that you care.  Although you cannot "force" or "make" her do anything, you can still be the best person possible, making each day you live worth living, making yourself a person of value, and creating a certain magic in your life.  All of these things will not only draw better people to you in your life, but your girlfriend will be more "open" to your influenc and "willing" to share whatever you wish with you.  \n\nA last note.  Women "feel" rather than "think" their ways into better relationships.  Men are mostly the other way.  If you love her and care for her, you should take the risk and tell her what is in your heart as often as you can, show her what you feel without the "act", and do for her what you would want done for yourself.  The best advice in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself, is this: "If you don't want people to treat you like an @ssho!e, then don't act like one".....in your case it would sound more like this "If you want to satisfy her, then let her satisfy you".  Do all the things to her that you want her to do to you (or have done to you, if you are content in the relationship).  Relationships are a balance, and if yours needs some adjustment, then make those adjustments.  Don't worry if you think you are working too hard, when she realizes what you are doing, she will be more than willing to do her part as well (if she is right for you, that is....and doing this will give you a good indicator if she is or isn't "the one"....)\n\nI hope this helped.  Good luck!
1180407
what i look for:\nsmart, caring, and please making fun of people gets old- very fast. and you need to be confident in yourself. girls don't want to try to comfort you all the time. How are you going to please a girl if youre not please w/yourself.\n\njust have confidence and relax when talking to a girl. move slow and the quicker you try to get into her pants, the quicker that relationships is going to end.\n\nhope this helped!
68203
Why don't you ask a good girlfriend over for dinner? Someone who needs a bit of cheering up? Someone who just lost someone precious? Practice making a special dinner for your love and make it first for a friend...open a good bottle of wine...have some laughs and watch a great romantic movie or something for girls...like "The Mirror Has Two Faces" (Barbra Streisand) \n\nI just had lunch today with 2 friends - one is from England, the other from Denmark, and we did most of the above activities. It was fabulously fun.
235125
Unless you happen to be Dr. Frankenstein, you probably can't "MAKE" a girlfriend. Certainly you can't "MAKE" a girlfriend "be" or "do" what she chooses NOT TO.\n\n   Having a "GUD"???? "relation"??? with her,,,or anyone takes effort, caring, compassion and sharing,,, Yikes I'm a poet and I already knew/know it,,,smiles.\n\n    Perhaps your best efforts should be directed toward yourself first? No offense meant, we haven't met yet....oops there it was again.\n\n   Decency, honesty, attention to details you may not even understand, etc. etc. etc.\n\nRev. Steven
552650
Both of you have to do it, not just you...you may have to teach him by your example?\n\nBe firm but don't lose your temper.\n\nBe kind but don't get walked over.\n\nThink hard but never worry.\n\nCreate a "positive cycle" where everything you both do makes your relationship that little bit better...even if only a tiny little bit each time.\n\nRemember that a sense of humour is infinitely attractive and gets you wnat you want in the long run.\n\nDon't be afraid to be bold.\n\nDon't be afraid to be vulnerable.\n\nRemember that you have to love and like yourself FIRST before you can be the real you in your relationship.\n\nHave fun - you only live once!\n\nBe safe - you only *get* to live once!!
25154
be yourself and don't be a bug-a-boo\nif being yourself is not working out try these:\nbe sweet,be kind,be attentive,be considerate,be honest,be a good listener.....
118006
be yourself. a relationship will never be good if you're pretending to be some one else. in the words of the VanZant brothers...it's better to be hated for you are than be loved for who you're not.
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
180032
The most important part of a boyfriend is the FRIEND part. Hang around people you like.  Hang around guys who have qualities you like.  Learn to talk.  Learn how to open up a little.  How to joke, tease, and maybe even flirt a little.... just dont overdo it or you will seem desperate.
694002
please learn proper english... but you can never tell when a guy really loves you... but you can be a good girl friend by being yourself
37577
Go 2 a shopping centre/park/library/place where u could find the type of girl u want 2 be your girlfriend.speak 2 girls.smile.make them laugh.spend time with them.Ask them all out 2 the movies with a bunch of your friends.Decide which one u want 2 be your girlfriend.walk her home.ask 4 her phone number.go home.phone her.ask her out bowling or something  on her own.keep taking her out.When u feel comfortable with it ask her 2 be your girlfriend.