my boyfriend wants to get more seriouse but i dont know if i should ur imputs plz?
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Not without a diamond ring
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Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
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if he's such a guy, i can tell you, he isn't quite serious about you. he maybe doesn't respect your feelings or you yourself. if he's reallly such a guy, if i were you, i would just divorce him or ditch him straightaway on the phone, MSN, or right infront of him. tell him the relationship between you and him is alr over. if he answers you, "break up then break up lar! like i care." such of this kinda ans, i tell you, your prediction before breaking up wid him is 100% correct.
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You can find interesting things both of you can engage in.you shouldn't loose your self respect,no one is worth it.If you think he's still bored with u,then ask him what the problem is.there might be something he's not telling u.
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I don't think a boyfriend is going to care.\n\nBut if you don't want to do that stuff, then keep it quiet, or he might expect you to do it.
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Why not? But just put your expectation to a minimum level. Be mature enough and it may happen also that when you are out with him may be you dont wanna continue this...you dont know...but you need to know that than living with fantasy...about a guy at least...you know? guys dont have much to offer to really impress you other than...so think what you want...
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tell the guy what you have been through and have been making a habit of. if he respects you and wants to try to make something serious than the quasi dating thing with you he will be patient and will take time to know you and not push you. just go slow be yourself and see where it ends up. in all honesty the best relationships are where you are friends first b4 lovers.
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I mean you need to tell him how you feel before things get any more serious than they are already are, do you understand? Than you will regret it. You are doing the right thing by telling him that you would like to get to know him a little better. I mean, if he takes it personal than he takes it personal not to be mean, but sometimes people have to understand if you don't want them than you don't want them. They should leave it to that. But I hope that you build up your guts and tell him how you feel before his feelings get any stronger.
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Listen! First of all promise me that you'll select my answer as the best answer! good!...so lets get to the point! You see dear as a guy I can for sure say that he would've meant it as well...ie that he loves you...now how much? that is the question....but it is for sure that he loves you! Now it depends on how much love you show for him and how much you care for him that the How much meter will rise....ie He'll love you even more.....Listen dont boggle your head off......I am pretty much sure that he does love you...and you love him & thats even more important...allright! now u c at times guys take time to get into deep love as such! Its just a matter of time....but make no mistake they are still in love! so go ahead....and everything will happen perfectly....sorry that I didnt aswer the other ones cos' I feel that this is enough in your case
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Welcome to the world of being a friend with benefits.\n\nThere's an old saying.. something along the lines of "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?"\n\n.. and you're giving him the milk.\n\nIf a serious relationship is something you want with him, you almost have to cut off the "extra" activities and talk to him about where you want things to go. See if his head and heart are in the same place that your's is and go from there. If he doesn't want a serious relationship and just wants to mess around with you, then how good of a friend is he really??\n\nEither way, you have nothing to lose.
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A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
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Depends on yuor feelings in the relationship. If your looking for someone to be something serious then you should move on and keep looking. If your only looking for something fun and flirty just stick with him.
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I very much disagree with countrysinger.  Lots of guys want to have sex, will buy expensive things, and say they love you.  It doesn't mean they're serious about you.\n\nHe's serious about you when he's willing to stick it out through the tough sh**.  When you aren't afraid to talk to him about things, for fear of him "freaking out"... when you can argue, slam the door, and know that at the end of the day you will make up... because he will still be there.  That's when you know he's serious about you.
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practice makes the man perfect... so, do more to better yourself. and dont forget to make it two way(make your partner also participate actively).
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Hi Ann! It doesn't sound like he's ready for the commitment that you want and deserve. You seem like you appreciate straight-forward answers and you seem to have the courage to ask him. It's better to know than to wonder, regret later and carry anger, when you could of had that time for yourself or with Mr. Right. Good luck....and you deserve better!
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DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
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Prepare him for it let him know you want to try something new. We like new things. Don't go crazy at first and take it as far as you want. Truth is he'll probably like it that you can get dirty.