hey, my frien has changed a lot for the previous month.what can i do for this?she's having another friend now.
348919
did she change in a bad way? if she were really a good friend, she shouldnt change how she feels about your friendship just because someone else comes along. you should try to address her that she seems different than usual, and maybe she'll tell you why the sudden change occurred.
110084
I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
1020579
When that happened to me many years ago, it was devastating to loose a friend who I thought was "a friend."  Now, as time passed, I figured that she was an acquaintance, some one who comes & goes in your life time.  If she was that weak minded to just take his word for something as important as that without consulting you to straighten it out, then she's not your friend.  Get a new one who values your friendship.
753557
She's just feeling uncomfortable,same as you. It will take awhile for you two to get back to the friendship you had-so take it slow and just let her know that you value her friendship,and will always be there for her.
642500
You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
652659
If she was indeed your best friend, be straight forward and ask her why the sudden change in attitude?  If she says she is extending her network of friends, then let her be.  Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder so when there has been enough time that has passed, she will (hopefully) realize you're not there and actually MISS you enough to CALL YOU!  Hope you all patch things up... make sure there wasn't a lack of communication or miscommunication.
259491
You shouldn't worry a lot. Everything will be fine. Just give her some time. if she really is a good friend, then she will tell you what has been going on, and why she has been reacting that way.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
1069446
To be open and give her your advise is better way.\nYou can make her understand that she made other people upset with her attitude this long. and what has she done can put her in trouble someday and maybe will make her friends stay back from her soon or latter.\nTry to open her mind about this, choose a sweet way and polite words to avoid irritating her. \n\nIf you do this way, means that you have change your friendship...to a better and quality one!!! coz this whats friends are for....\nGood Luck.
468807
friends grow apart...it happens. spend less and less time with her. Don't be cruel but if she asks why you 2 aren't seeing as much of each other, say you've each got different interests now.
246946
This new friend seems like she's a lot more in tune with you than your old friend.  It's OK.  In my lifetime, I have gone through many best friends... only because as you grow up, your needs change and so does the company you keep.  If this new girl seems like someone you want  to spend more time with, do it!  Don't get rid of your old friend, and for goodness sakes, don't have a huge fight with her or anything, just try to ease out of the time you spend with her...  Make new friend, but keep the old... as is said.  You can have a great friendship with both, it just may be different as time goes by.  This new girl, probably won't be you best friend forever either... but for now, if she's what you need in a friend, then be her friend and don't feel bad.  Good Luck!
836893
I think you should talk with her about what she is doing is wrong... If she accept to change (and you see the improvement), then you can still keep her a a friend. Otherwise drop her!
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
649302
have you been replying back to your friend? sometimes a lack of communication can lead to this.  send an email to your friend to see what's up.\n\n(btw, i believe there is an other topic for friend issues. just for future reference)
971686
That is so terrible!! I would say just continue to do what you are already doing...be there for her! You are an awesome friend...good job...not too many of those left in the world.
1154309
Sometimes friends just need some space. Nothing is meant by it. You could try calling her or writing saying lets make plans for this Saturday to ......& think of something fun for you 2 to do. Have a positive attitude about things. Sometimes if you're down & depressed all the time that could affect friends coming around. It just gets them depressed & that's not fun so work on being positive not just for her but for you. Make yourself think positive, happy thoughts. God bless.
655469
tell her that you guys should do some shopping together and maybe that will hold her for a little while because she has just gotten some new clothes. if this doesn't work, think if you really want to stay her friend and if you don't, make new ones. you shouldn't be with people that annoy you or upset you...be with people who care about you and not their clothes. good luck!