So I met a hot tranny... what do i do? many questions?
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If she identifies as a girl, and you identify as a guy, then wanting to do her doesn't make you gay!   Some of these responses are crazy.\nDo whatever makes you feel good and makes her feel good--they're just body parts; maybe she feels like it's a really big clit and not a penis.  \nRegarding keeping secrets--that's up to the two of you.  It's hard to keep lies hidden.  It takesa lot of energy and can hurt you both.  Then if somebody finds out, there's the hurt of being lied to plus all the energy you wasted.  If you think you'd be physically hurt/beat up or something from telling your family, that's different, but in general I believe in being open.  It's her body, though, so realyl she should make the decision about how open to be.
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DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
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fishy fishy\n\nsounds like he may be dipping on the other side (bi-sexual)\n\ni can see if you said thigh high boots long black wig fishnets and a whip/handcuffs\n\nINVESTIGATION TIME.....check his underwear to see if there are stains/blood in the back--pay attention to his smell (if he doesnt wear cologne but comes home smelling like it) somethings not right
976878
Hmm....sounds like it was too much all at once....perhaps he is having a freak out. Just treat him normal and tell him you care abotu him, you think he's hot and whatever he wants is fine....the more chill you are about it...the more he will realx and his true desires will come out.
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I f you have not already done so, introduce yourself to him. Ask him in a nice way why he thinks your ponytail is sinful.  Ask him about what he is reading, and what advice it would give you.  You don't have to take it, but taking an interest would probably lead to some interesting conversations, as long as you don't feel strongly about arguing belief vs belief. Remember, religion and politics are the source of most of the world's conflicts.
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Well first of all do you want to meet him?   I have had people Im me and be like lets meet right now.  And they know nothing about me other than seeing my pic on the directory.    To me thats just strange.   But I did meet a friend that way.   But trust your instinct if  they want you to meet them and you want to take it slow then take it slow.   If they get mad about it then I always think they have issues.       If you decide to meet up with him then make sure its a public place and tell your friends and/or family where you are and what you are doing.
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kind of scary. we all all so different and on our best behaviour on line. you are only knowing the part of this person he wants you to know. everyone is right, DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!!!!! make sure it is really him! when i was tending bar, a real nice, clean cut guy came in. for some reason, this guy made the hair on the back of my neck stand up. everyone said go for it. i did do a background check, and the guy did 13 years for rape! what i'm trying to say is that you can't trust people you meet in person, let alone on line. we all hide behind a veil of mystery! i hope you are over 18! please be careful!!!!
1060728
talk to him. he just has a strong sexual attraction to you.
478778
You need to meet this guy and see if he's really what you think he is!\nIf this is an internet friend, remember to be safe- meet him somewhere public, like a restaurant or coffee shop, and have a friend with you!
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Just be yourself.\n\nWhen you chat to him online are you just being yourself or have you created an alter-ego? If you have just chatted openly as the person that you are then you don't need to worry. The only time to worry is if you have exaggerated about things in your life whilst chatting. I'm sure that this isn't the case or you wouldn't have agreed to meeting up with him in the first place.\n\nJust be careful, stay with your friend no matter what he says or how nice he seems. Stay in public places until you know him. Be yourself don't put on any false airs and graces to impress him. Have fun!
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Report him or ignore him.  Does he ONLY repeatedly ask for more pics or does he try to want you to cybersex, phonesex, or meet with him?  If so, report his a** to Yahoo or whoever the server is, and or the police, if he's local....they can keep an eye on him.\nIf he's just annoying then, go ahead and mess with his head...tell him you're a guy,tell him you're a transgender.  OR just make yourself out to be a psychb*tch.  Tell him you like drinking blood, or you enjoy cutting yourself, or you just go crazy when you don't take your meds.  Tell him the pic you really sent him isn't really you...but a girl that you want to be someday(think of Single White Female).  It should creep him enough.
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Sheesh!  Can't you take a great big hint???\nShe wants to seduce you.  Either take the bait or drop the line in the water.  You said she was hot.....maybe too hot for you?
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next time go with no panties on.. stare at him and spread ur legs a little and make sure he can have a good view! on the way out walk in slow motion. .wet you upper lip with your tongue(while staring at him still) and sway your hips, move your haid so your hair flies in the air..spreading your perfume everywhere..\nthat should do!\ngood fluck
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Gah, that could never get answered here man.  But on a high note, i'm jealous, u got most mens dream lady.  Most likely, if u tell her what u just told us, she would get a kick out of teaching u, that would be the best advice.  Anything u get told on here could easily be coming from a 40 year old virgin with a wild fantasy life and be disastrous for u.
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To be honest with you, i wouldnt try to arrange a date on the internet-its too risky and you can never be 100% sure of who you are speaking to!! When i was arranging a modelling shoot one day, i drove 100 miles to what i thought was a professional "photographers studio", only to find out his real name, and that he was a pervert. He tried to sleep with me!! Luckily i was mature enought o handle the situation and talked my way out of it, but it could have been alot worse...!\n\nI took all of the precautions-such as, getting their name, website address, phone number, seeing photogarohs of them, and even live webcam!! I even got references, which this guy managed to fake.\n\nAt the end of the day, stick to what you know-go out and have fun, and meet peope face to face like everyone would have before the internet came about! This is the safest way!\n\nIf you do decided to meet someone on the net, see them on webcam first and get as much info about them as possible. Tell your family/friends EXACTLY where you are going etc etc and what phone number to contact you by.\n\nGood luck xx
716549
Maybe you should let her find out from someone else, she might feel the same way and come talk to you.  Otherwise, be a senior and talk to her sissy!
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I think you are being taken for a ride.   You will have to talk to him!