Am iI trying to hard? What should I do?
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I think that if she's not willing to give you 100% of herself in any form, then she's not worth your time.  That's a hard thing to admit to yourself sometimes, but you deserve someone who's willing to give you all of themselves and make sacrifices.
759599
It is very a difficult job.may be the lucky ones only get.Anyway do not loose heart try try hard and try to be fair and true to yourself.
325620
keep busy with other things ...yup!!! its hard...but try your hardest before you hurt yourself more or someone....\n\nan idle mind is the work of the devil...
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Be strong.  It's not always your fault.  Don't be so hard on yourself.  You are a loving, generous person, and you have alot to offer.  You are involved with people with whom you are intersted in and, care deeply about and love.  You have thoughts, feelings and desires.  Look deeply within yourself for your answers.  Nothing is easy, and someimes there are no reasons, except that you tried and gave your all, and that what counts.  Don't ever give up but don't ever give-in either.
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just browse over formulas which are tough for u... and review how to do steps to problems that have been tough. otherwise u should b ok. good luck
387805
KEEP IMPROVING; ASK TO BE SHOWN IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT HAS TO BE DONE; STRIVE FOR A BETTER GOAL; GET MOTIVATED ABOUT YOUR JOB; OR LIKE WAS SUGGESTED MAYBE ANOTHER FIELD OF INTEREST, WHERE YOU ARE MORE COMPETENT! I WOULD LIKE TO ADD REALLY PRAY ABOUT THIS , HE WILL HELP YOU IN THIS AREA. WE ALL NEED HIS HELP & GUIDANCE, I KNOW I DO. HOPE ALL GOES WELL WITH YOU.
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You're going about it the wrong way. Step back and reexamine it. Or perhaps you're not getting it, because you don't want it badly enough.\n\nTough problem. Good luck!
749267
I know where this girl is coming from. I think she is pushing you to see if you will take off at the first sight of trouble. Thats what I do. It's a way for her to protect herself from jerks. It's not fair to you but it sounds like she's been hurt before. Go to her and talk to her face to face, not on the phone. Tell her that she is pushing you away and that is why you are pushing back. Ask her flat out if she wants this relationship to continue. If she does then you have to make a personal decision, can you stick around through the ups and downs? If so then tell her you will wait it out. Let her get comfortable with you and trust you. If she pushes too much and you no longer feel wanted at all then tell her that, let her know that it can't continue, and that you need more than that.
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I think you should give it more time. I can understand what you are talking about when you say you wonder if you should go for something. But me  I try to just wait awhile before I jump into something, but just give it more time. Then if you want to follow your heart, just think it though carefully with whatever decision you make.
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Or better still - quit trying!\nSurely there are better things to do with your time !?
109910
No one can do everything wrong all the time. You are berating yourself.Try to be more optimistic.
662799
Try some different approaches. You may be doing something wrong to make you so vulnerable.
227405
set goals,things to work towards.....or aim lower?
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man i undestand totally where you are coming from...like you do your best to please them and its just not good enough. well i say if the best you ddi was good enough for you then you should be happy, b/c trying to please people that aren't going to be happy for you either way...is just a lost cause. it will cause more stress for you in the long run. All i can say is keep you head high, its hard, but be strong, you'll be a better person in the long run. and feel free to email me or yahoo messenger
757889
dont push her in any direction... that will only raise a question of what your priority is.  the best thing to do is be there.  you cant help her, hold her, or save her if your not there bro.....  good luck
884304
You need to be more responsible.\n\nStart now!
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Take risks. I know it's hard but its the only way. You get used to the flub ups.