how do i make my spouse remember our love?
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LOTS AND LOTS OF LETTERS AND PHONE CALLS\nEXPRESSING YOUR LOVE FOR HER
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Some very special things you can do for your loved one.\n\n\n1-touch her waist\n2-talk to her\n3-share secrets\n4-give her your jacket\n5-kiss her slowly\n\n\nare you remembering this?\n\n\n6-hug her\n7-hold her\n8-laugh with her\n9-invite her somewhere\n10-let her be with you when you're with your friends\n\n\nkeep reading\n\n\n11-smile with her\n12-take pics with her\n13-pull her onto your lap\n14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back\n15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved\n\n\nAre you thinking about someone?\n\n\n16-always hug her and say "i love you" when you see her\n17-kiss her unexpectedly\n18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST\n19-tell her shes beautiful... not sexy!\n20-tell her the way you feel about her!\n\n\noh, and on that last one... u need to show her you mean it too\n\n\n21-kiss her on the lips\n22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff\n23-tell her what feels good\n24-make her feel loved\n25-buy her stuff. small things can still help\n\n\nwe might deny it but we actually like and kinda want you to get us things\n\n\n26-don't lie to her\n27-dont cheat on her\n28-take her anywhere she wants\n29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her\n30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you\n\n\nare you still reading this? u better be, its important\n\n\n31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold you too.\n32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.\n33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).\n34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.\n35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her\n\n\nremember this next time you are with her\n\n\n36. When people diss her, stand up for her.\n37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.\n38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.\n39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.\n40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible\n\n\nMAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED\n\n\n41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.\n42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.\n43. Take her for long walks at night.\n44. Always Remind her how much you love her.\n\n\nyoull never know when she needs just a lil more love
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doing something little to let him/ her know that you love him/ her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ husband back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your husband/ wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill his/ her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
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You should give him something that he will see everyday, that will remind him of how helpful he has been to you. A nice watch with an engraving would be cool. Or if there is a hobby he is into, try something for that. Better yet, go for something that has meant a lot to both of you, like a reminder of a trip you took, or something you did together. And never forget the power of the written word. Write a letter to him telling him exactly how much his love has meant to you. You can say it out loud, but a letter is something that he can read over and over. Just go with your heart. You can't go wrong.
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Sometimes action speaks louder than words. So try leaving little love notes for him in his pockets or under his pillow. Cook a nice dinner for him. Tell him that you will always be there 4 him. But, Never forget to tell him you love him.
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Always remember that Love is an action word. You can say it all day long. If when it is time you do not do the little things to show it then there is no love. Remember that being told you are right is not as important as being a fair partner. If there is something that you can do to be helpful do it. If the one you are marrying is not the same way RUN.
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Let's back up one step.\n\nI suspect that there is a good reason you have recently begun "telling him how passionately and deeply you love him".  You feel insecure about his love, and are hoping he will affirm his devotion to you.\n\nYou should feel insecure!  After all you've given your heart and body to him for six years yet he hasn't shown you a committed kind of love - by asking you to marry him.   You just keep giving yourself and giving yourself hoping to keep him, hoping to coax him into loving you more, hoping that his devotion to you is equal to your (desperate) feelings for love-security.\n\nForget wanting his words of affirmation.  Words are cheap - used car salesmen and politicians use lots of nice words.\n\nGet a commitment or tell him to get lost.\n\nThen you will know.
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You have to constanly remind yourself why you fell in love with him in the first place.  Remember the fun you had while you dated and how much you couldn't wait to be with him.  It's so easy when you're familiar with someone to focus on all the negatives.  Find the positive things in your spouse and focus on those.  Also, think of what it would be like if you ever had to live without that peson.  If today where your last day, would your spouse truly know you loved them?  So many people think that to get romance back into a marriage you have to focus on the other person.  Really, it just takes one, and since you know you can't change your spouse, just focus on the person you can change.... you!!!
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hey, lemmie break it to you gently....people rarely or never get over their first loves....it always has a nice feeling to remember that time and why should you forget it, we should treasure good old memories....as long as those memories dont get in the way of your marriage dear keep them....... i still remember my first love like it was yesterday, its unfortunate though that many people dont get to marry their first loves probably due to age, finances or other reasons but i woudnt want to forget that coz my past made what i am.....
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just think about the times when you first started the relationship. reminisce and remember why you fell in love the first time. don't take each other for granted. there are TONS of things that you guys love about each other but just forgot. have a fun evening somewhere nice. don't talk about work. don't talk about problems. just laugh by remembering all the funny stupid things you guys used to do. Good luck. let me know how things work out.
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The only thing I can say is, make her feel special and pamper her, don't force over things, dont do it because you want to do it but do it coz you love her. Once you achive your peak point make her feel how special she is. and take my words she will forget all the pain she will go through, just express your true love and it will heal everything and will work like magic.
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always keep a ready supply of several different colored dry-erase markers in our bathrooms. I love to leave lovenotes for my man on our bathroom mirror, and afterwards they wipe right off! It has encouraged a rather quiet and stoic man to leave some romantic lines of his own! \nWhile your sweetheart is busy doing something such as reading, writing, or talking on the phone, walk by and stick an "I love you" note in their line of vision. It could be on the page of their book, on the desk beside them, on the computer screen... \n\nIf you are going on a trip, before you leave write small notes telling your love that you miss them, love them, are thinking of them, etc. Hide the notes in various places you know they will look. Leave some in easy to find places and some in hard to find places. Everything from the TV remote to stuck to the toothpaste tube! My fiancee did this whe he and I were aprt for the first time, it was so nice to find a new note all the time. The first one I found was with the flowers he left by the bedside. It is so nice to feel loved!
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How about instead of forgetting... remember the good times. Only time with help you with that sorry. However after awhile it wont hurt so much and you will be fine.
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What you really want is the REAL thing, not any cheap substitutes for the intimacy that you once had. If you've been together for a long time, you focus on your careers and other things that need to get done and in that time both of you have grown as individuals. You are not on the exact same level that you used to be on when you once met because you have both gained new wisdom, new dreams, new experiences, etc. I think what you need to do is meet each other on the level that you are on now. In other words REDISCOVER each other. There is something deeper in your husband and in you that wasn't there before and you need to get in touch with each other. Talking is the number one key for intimacy. Maybe you could change the scenery and talk in a totally different place to spark some enthusiasm. Make it special and really dig into each other's worlds. Talking about the past can bring back good memories, but don't wish that your husband is now what he was then because he is all that and even more. Love him now and get to know him all over again. Do something special for him and create an atmosphere where you can talk and fall in love all over again.
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I tell my husband as often as I can, you never no where death lies and at least they'll know how much we love them. Keep telling your husband how much you love & care for him, he should feel like the only man on earth with the only sweetest woman on earth. You will have a long and happy marriage.
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there are many ways..\n1. say " <hisname> i love you" , close ur eyes, and kiss him on his lips..\n2. show him that you can change urself for him...as in if he doesnt like s'thing in u or likes s'thing..then change that habit or incorporate(the thing he likes) in urself...\n3. put in constant effort to look better and better...and also, keep ur self fit...(good for u too)\n4. learn to cook sthing that he really enjoys eating...\n5. subtly bitch about other men in front of him.. and more importantnly, NEVER praise any other man in front of him...\n6. tell him that u will be with her even if he looses all his money.. and all his looks (just say this.. and he will know taht u love her..)\n7. dont be greedy...once in a while settle for less expensive gifts...\n8. and this is the MOST important thing...TRY and SEE his point of view... u need not agree.. but just try and see.. and then repeat it to him...\n9. and if he still wants more...ask me back... u have my email id :-)\n10. Best of luck,.. (ur asking this question is proof enough that u love him...show him this link..! :-)
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The tip here is not to write a love poem, but rather use someone elses to show your love for your partner.\nIf you can do something sweet like remember a romantic poem and then recite it word for word to your partner, then their heart will be yours forever.\nThere are many quite short love verses that you can memorise, some of the most famous of these of course are the words of Shakespeare.\nRemember a romantic few lines from one of his romantic plays or perhaps one of his love sonnets.\nIf you can recite lines such as 'Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds' then you will really show the effort that you went to and this will go down very well with your partner; you will be the king of romance!