what can i do if my gf said: "you don't have money!"?
355346
she is just looking out for you and reminding you that right now you both need to be careful with funds because you are both students and money is tight. she means well.
652306
You should sit down with her and your boyfriend and decide what you are going to do. Paying her something is right, but you need to know what for, how much and how often. If you can't afford it you and your boyfriend need to decide if he will help. If he can't you need to look for a good job or move. Your boyfriend has to make a decision on whether or not you're worth the extra effort. If not you need to find a mate for your future.\nNext time don't move in until he pays out.\nThis answer is from a man.
501732
You know now you should have been honest upfront about all this. Now all you can do is try to get her trust you again. That said now you have to try to fix the things you need to with your debt........
783443
Tell her that you're concerned because you can't make any calls. See what she says.\n\nThen, take $100 and go get a prepaid cell phone, one that works in that area. Talk to your fiance and see what he thinks about the situation. He needs to stand by you. If he can't, then take a stand and do something about it. Don't let this lady start running your life!!!!
384953
tell her that you are the same person with or with out money and tell her how you feel about her treating you differently
637973
Give me her number and I'll try to talk some sense into her. Seriously if my husband is injured I will think of his welfare first before I go to a dentist a get a bill of $655. What kind of a wife is this, she should learn budgeting and handling money. Tell her to be patient and that you are still not well to earn all that money. Be patient (oh well, you already are).
522970
This is the thing with relationships.  It's like a bank account.  In order for you to withdraw money, you have to make a deposit.  If there is no deposit, you can't take money out.  Now, emotionally speaking, a relationship is like a bank account.  You have to have some positive words and encouraging words to be able to say or react in a negative way.  Every person has their own "love language" - something THEY need from THEIR partner to 'deposit' emotional words into their heart.  If she is telling you that she needs more from you, give more.  It sounds like you are not a good communicator.  It's not a bad thing, you just don't know how she wants to be treated.  Her love language is touchy feely, tell her how you feel kinda way.  I'm the same way.  She is trying to teach you HER love language - or deposits - she needs in order to be happy with her mate.  You have the same needs, but your love language is probably something else.  You have to teach her how to treat you to make yourself happy.  And that is what she is trying to do with you.  There is nothing to lose in trying to do what she asks in this catagory.  Try it and see what kind of 'withdraw' you can make out of it.  If she gets what she needs, she will probably be able to give you more.  If you try it, I'll bet it will make her feel like the most important woman in the world, and you will benefit from it as well.  You would be surprised how just a little goes a looooong way.
881919
Hmm only you and he can know the answer to that! You know him better than anyone else... what was he like with money when you were together? I would try get some of the cash back now at least or talk about what would happen if you break up!\n\nGood luck... hope you don't need it! x
959839
If you have some cash available, organize a spa night. Not in a spa, you'll spend your entire wallet. Find a good masseuse that will come to your home, prepare the room with candles and soothing music. (I used to have a masseuse that charged me about $40 for 70 minutes at my own place). If she doesn't like flowers, she will like petals spread here and there. Write a note and have a nice little dinner ready. If you can't cook, buy her favorite food at a restaurant where you two go often. Write her a card with a brief simple message stating that this is her day and your way to show her how much you care. While she gets the massage (choose a girl or guy depending on what SHE is more comfortable with) relax and enjoy knowing that YOU ARE AN AMAZING BOYFRIEND for wanting to show your feelings.
192042
talk to her, then hand her an invoice for everything you bought her over the course of your relationship.  she might give you some money.
1173692
call the cops! sorry you are going through this but notify the police! can you leave? do you have anywhere to go? any other friends to help you? you dont HAVE to do anything you dont have to go to her house, you need to find another way  to make money but if she is stealing from you, you are in a worse boat!
1031067
Maybe she needs the money?\nReally don't know\n\n\nLC
606818
Hi Raja!\n\nI'm not rich either, so I can't help you. But I think you will go a long way if you really mean what you said!\n\nDon't lose heart. I know money is what you need right now, but this is all the support I can give you!
911622
I can tell you how to find out okay?  tell her that you made a terrible investment and lost all your money.  if she really loves you she'll stay with you, but, if she takes off, you'll know she was only in it for the money.  \nI hope things work out for you.
436209
dude, if she is  bitching about $ then she doesn't love you! Did she love you to begin with is the question? Did she marry you thinking you were rich i wonder. Did she marry you for convenience...? I have to wonder about that too....sorry man but if she loved you she would not care if she was on a deed or not and wouldn't honder you to get the house remodelled when you two cannot afford it and lastly....she SHOULD be helping with the bills......she wants her cake and eat it too.....Divorce her butt! Tell her to find another life and tell her " I love you but not enough to put up with crap baby...bye". IF you say that you will see a turn around. You will be calling her bluff sorta speak....hahha she will fumble over herself so fast...trust me. Just do what you want of course...but know if you two bring a kid into this world....it will only get worse. Take care dude and good luck........You deserve better.
122647
You already answered your own question. Sorry, but if she wants you to spend all of your money on her, what does that say about her? It IS your money. I'm not saying don't spend any money on her, just don't spend ALL your money on her.
572922
ask her to share feelings as well as money