does having an abortion hurt the person thats gettting it??  an does it huirt the infit?
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it depends on how far in you are.  My wife had 2, the second one was a like a week further on, she said she was really sore from that one.  About the infant I can't tell you.  But it could really hurt you.  My wife holds serious regrets over what she did.  There's always adoption.  But besides that, she's got scarring on the inside preventing her from getting pregnant again.  It's something you really have to think about, if not now then 20 years down the road.
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your an abortion psycho!!!! how many questions about aboution do u have on here? i dont even want to waste my time counting them all! you are crazy and have some serious problems! u need to get some help. honestly abortion is none of your freakin buisness!\nPEOPLE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS GUY!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have not had an abortion, but had a friend who tried EVERYTHING to have a child, procedures, adoption anything she could and could not conceive! I killed her when a co-worker had an abortion with twins cuz she didn't want them! Why do you have to kill the baby because it is inconvenient for you? You could give it to someone else! If you don't want kids in your future, don't have sex! or at least protect yourself! If you used protection and you still get pregnant, it happened for a reason!! Do you feel guilty now?
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Two unrelated issues.\n\nOne, should people have abortions. That's entirely dependent on your personal religious/moral beliefs, and what you think is right/wrong or proper/improper based on way too many specific circumstances (married/unmarried, adult/teen, possible rape/incest, how late in the term, etc.) The bottom line is that many people have very passionate ideas about whether it is right/appropriate or not.\n\nThe second issue is who gets to make those choices. I think it's a great thing that people are allowed to have thoughts and beliefs on the subject. I think it's wrong for any group to enforce their moral/religious opinions/beliefs on someone else. Just because 51% percent of the population may happen to believe something is a sin is no reason to force that religious belief on the other 49% who disagree.\n\nPersonally, I'm opposed to abortion except in certain limited circumstances. But that's my own personal belief system, and I'll do everything in my power to ensure that someone who disagrees with me is still allowed to make their own choice, based on what they belief.
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Hi are you talking about abortion as in getting rid of a baby? well if you are coming from someone who has had 2 it has it's pro's and con's it is helpfull if you are too young and not at all ready for a child but it can also have some very bad emotional effects and cause depression that is what happened to me. There is also the factor that it can cause infertility if you get a very bad infection which is highly possible if the instruments are not clean. At the end of the day it is a personal decission but i wouldn't reccommend it to anyone. Hope this helps
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I think all of that is hogwash. I'm an advocate for abortion if it's for the right reasons. Do you remember anything about being concieved, or do you remember anything about being a fetus, because I sure don't. It's "preventing" life, not killing it. And i'll take that in a second, rather than another crackbaby born into a dysfunctional family with a miserable life ahead of it.
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Abortion should be a woman's choice. There should be a separation of church and state when it comes to this issue. Morality is something that each individual must realize for him/herself and not have it pushed on them by some other person. I don't think I could go thru with an abortion except under certain circumstances, but that would be my choice. Who am I or anyone else to judge a woman who has one? If people are going to be throwing around quotes for this here is one to add: Judge not lest ye be judged. I think the whole world would be better if people stopped worrying about what other people were doing and governed themselves in more civilized fashions. \n\nBy the way I like your question and following comments. It was funny and philosophical.
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I had an abortion when I was 28 and it was the worst decision I've ever made.  I didn't regret it until it was over and then I had severe depression and problems in my future relationships because I couldn't forgive myself.   I'd encourage your friend to talk to her parents.   Believe it or not, there are other options out there.   Tell her to have faith - and good luck.
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It should certainly be possible, but a lot certainly depends on scar tissue.  If you are having problems getting pregnant, don't discount that it may be your partner as well.  This is something you should probably consult your doctor about.\n\nI don't usually do this, but here it is:  as to those people condemning you for having an abortion, they were never in your shoes and none of them have even bothered to ask the circumstances.  In their world, they probably think they are doing good, but they somehow lost track of civility and tact.  Be well, please.
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Absolutly . I believe it is the chioce that truely reflects intuition and the reason for intuition. I truely believe that you could just use your mind and focus to abort a fetus. I have seen many women do it. But if you can't and you feel you want to reject the spirit go to a docter.\n\nHitler was an abomination. And should of been aborted
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yeah its bad to abort a foetus but its not bad to ciritsise others and make quick judgmenents based on sterotypes?? ive seen it all happen before because im gay, and find i am quickly judged. I love Jesus, and I know he loves me for who I am. Im not a bad person, I take care of my disabled brother and am working in the commmunity.\n\nIm not in support of abortion, id personaly rather adoption. but if its in the first trimester (or a RAPE victim!!!!) i can agree to some extent. each case is different cant be all catagorised in the one.
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If something goes wrong with the procedure your parents will have to know.  Are you sure that you want an abortion?   You will be left with a lot of emotional scars and may not be able to have other children.  Couldn't you carry your child to term and then put him/her up for adoption?  Maybe your parents would want to help you raise your baby.
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yeah, but answer this....if a woman was raped, should she be forced to give birth to the child of her rapist and have that constant reminder? that is the truly sick thing in this situation. and even if it was just a highschool girl who did an irresponsible thing.....why ruin her life AND the life of her unborn child?? i am totally and completely prochoice, and believe that abortion should absolutely be legalized.
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Abortion is choice.. When you have sex and do not use birth control you know at that moment that your taking a chance on becoming pregnant, not with a cow or a chicken but with a baby. so, you know baby, so it is not a surprise.. It is a question of right or wrong. Your choice. I can see if you are raped that is different story. yet there are many childless people willing to adopt..How about a baby that will have a defect. Like Down syndrome? Can the baby be properly cared for?  The issues go on and on.. So it comes back to having sex, unprotected.. Your choice
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it wrong becaus i agree with the others it's murder and people shouldnt just have one because the realize they dont want 2 have a baby anymore, but wat about people who have been raped and is have just found out that there having a rapists baby how horrible would u feel, the memories flooding back thats really a more apropiate reason 2 have an abortion i no it's cruel but could u handel that staring in2 the kid (and even havin 2 tell him y he has no father) and see how much a like the kid looks like the rapist....
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Baby girl this is a touchy subject really.  But it's true a lot of women use abortion as a form of birth control, they have all kinds of unprotected sex and when they turn up pregnant they just go and have the unborn killed and remove like if it was a tumor or something.  In some cases abortion might be acceptable but not for what these women wanna use it for.
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I hate abortion. Abortion it a terrible, awful thing. It snuffs out a potential human life. It goes against all our instincts, all our natural drives, all our hopes and dreams for the future. I know several women who have had abortions. ALL of them agonized over the decision. ALL of them still have regrets even to this day.\n\nThere is only one thing worse than an abortion: \nFORCING A WOMAN TO BRING AN UNWANTED CHILD INTO THE WORLD AGAINST HER WILL!! \n\nIn a world without abortion, pregnant women are slaves, forced to do what should **only** be done out of love.\n\nMake no mistake. Abortion is awful. Banning abortion is MUCH, MUCH worse.