now i now we shouldnt be kissing at this age but friends say they kiss there boyfriends?
342424
till your age first my dear .but any way i think i agree with you
273075
How old are you???? If your old enough you dont need an excuse just say your going out with your boyfriend
537223
i am in 7th grade too. i get that all the time. i ignore that. they are just being stupid. i know exactly how u feel. unless u actually like the guy, u should confront him about his blowing kisses stuff and unless hes not kidding to cut the crap. thats wat i do. it works. most of the time. please give me best answer! i need 8 points! hehe ok what ever u dont have to. but just try to ignore it, unless u like him. and if u do like him, talk to him about it.\n     Jellybean
520249
I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...
724648
well at 18 now a days PPL are doing alot more than somethink they should, but its not you being immature not wanting to have a something til you know your ready its actually really mature to be able to make that decision at such a young age when the only reason ppl are doing stuff like that so young is cause they think there in love and think it wil make them kool so you go ahead and keep yourself til your ready if they dont like your decision to not explore those things in the point of your life your tell your friends to kiss ur butt
657458
Tell your friends to shut the hell up. They can't tell you when you have matured or not and a boyfriend does not make you mature.
877963
Honey, you are way too young to have a boyfriend.  And you are way too young to be discussing with another boy if you are going to have HIS kids.  I would break it off with him gently and say you are way too young to be in a relationship with someone.  That is the truth.  If he is scaring you and makes you feel uncomfortable then you should stay away from him.
638887
Nope, it's a year age difference is about as meaningful as a hermit's address book!\nThe kissing will come naturally, just give it time and practice!\nAll the best
907667
Because you kissed the guy that doesn't mean that you're not a virgin anymore,just decide what you want.İf you love this guy you shouldn't be hanging out with the others.İf you tell him you probably lose him.
623460
kiss romantically? Oh my, I'd  ask them why?  probably no good answer or excuse. Looks like a trust issue..no trust, no marriage. I'd find me a man I can trust ( or woman whatever)
363922
you are 16 and he is 13...you are still both babies but your sister and friends are jealous.  why can't they be happy for you?  you know your boyfriend's boys are high fiving him every time they see you with him...ignore what other people say and get used to it, it doesn't stop when you get older, believe me.
135091
i do not think you should because it is possible that when you DO except them,those boys may think you are boyfriendless. thats just my thoughts though.
776148
Ok, first of all 14 year olds are not supposed to be making out with nobody, second of all you should be worrying about school and friends and having fun.\n\ndon't worry about guys right now you are so young and there is so many things that you should enjoy first.  So i sugest that you keep your mind of boys (unless you want to became a single mom or end up with some disease), cause once you start dating guys are going to pressure you into so much and by the way you write i will say that you seem like the type of girl that would do it just to fit in.  Be smart.
923235
Guys are like that, SOOOO immature. It's not your fault, I'm sure you're wonderful and don't deserve the weirdness of men...unfortunately they are such good kissers!!!
1158745
There are a few questions you should ask yourself....\n1)why should you fret over your friends opinions?\n2) were you comfortable with the relationship before you told your friends?\n3)Is the fact that you are being teased about it the only reason you are now concerned?\n4)Do you genuinely have strong feelings for this person?\n5)How would you feel if you gave them up for your friends?\n6)Do you feel the aquaintance of this person is enriching your life?\n7)Are you already thinking on the long term?\n8) If it ended, would you be thankful just to have experienced this persons affection?\n\nNow, If it feels right to you, tell your friends that you understand their concerns, but that you want to give it a whirl and have some experiences. Understand also that  although your friends are an important part of your life, your romantic relationships are between you and your partner, and no one should be allowed to sabotage that. Even if you eventually end the relationship, a true friend will still be there for you. If you are thinking on the long term, consider this.....What does satisfying sex entail for you at the age of 19? Is it mostly just physical or is it a true soul-satisfying experience just to be with this person, whether the physical part is strong or whether it is lacking? How important is it to you to have the capability to have a physically satisfying sexual experience in the years to come? Is it enough to just be together emotionally, without the sex?\nLet me explain why I asked you to ask yourself this: I am now 37 yrs old, married 15 yrs. I have experience here, although all relationships cant be judged as if you had a crystal ball....\nWhen I was 16, I went MAD over a MUCH older man. He was  42. yes 26 yrs older. A few of my buddies ragged me some, but I let it slip without having an issue. I enjoyed being with him and it was my relationship, not my friends. Buddies can't supply you with what a romantic partner can emotionally.He was so wonderful, and just being in his presence was emotionally enough. However, he was much older, and parts of him just didn't work well anymore...I was ok with that ( although I wanted more), we did other things to try to compensate for what was lacking. He eventually bowed out of the relationship because he was continually disappointed in his inability to do what it is that men do.\nOf course, all men won't have this problem, but as they age, it is not going to comply to his every whim! On the other hand, when I was your age, I had several relationships I just knew would last forever.....and they were over in what felt like a heartbeat. \nSo, if it feels right, I say go for it, if it goes long term, I hope you care enough for him to overlook any issues he may end up with. and that you are easily emotionally satisfiable. I have a feeling that there will be many more relationships for you down the road, but I could be wrong! Love can amaze us all!\nI have been married now for 15 yrs to a man who is 10 yrs older than me, and believe me when I say, older is better...in a long term relationship that is. They have more experience and are not as easy to fly off and freak out like someone younger. Patience is a virtue, knowledge is wisdom, and that comes with age. But do understand this yet again...when they get older, parts don't work as well as they used to....it's not easy for me to deal with, but I love him, so I do. And the mid-life crisis' generally start at around age 44......and that is worse than one that doesn't work!
826910
It really depends on the type of kiss, and what he means by not kissing back.  Try not to overreact or go all paranoid.
717401
They don't want to let go of you so soon. Also, it's rather uncomfortable watching people kiss and/or hug in front of you, don't you think? They probably feel the same way. They also might feel that you are too young to kiss, french, etc. because they think it might lead to babies.