Are men attracted to women who are 40ish?
347552
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
952640
If old, obnoxious guys turn you on - go for it!  Opposites attract, right?
628814
They may be trying to recapture their youth.  We are taught by our media that skin is supposed to be bright and clear, that body parts should be firm and taut, lean and lithe.  30-40 yr old women just can't measure up - neither can men which is why you're not attracted to them and why they are attracted to you instead of the women their own age.  All people want the vibrant fresh fruit newly ripened!
407763
well im a 23 year old straight female lol and im attracted to older guys too.  its just your preference. younger guys/girls are immature i guess
1010274
fsuhen, all women are attractive to men ages 45-55. Weight, intelligence, sense of humor... all of these don't matter. What matters is what's in the woman's heart.
1061651
I believe women reach their sexual peak by 40 yrs old.\n\nI traded mine in for 2 twenty-year olds and let her have her fun!
323410
I myself am not inclined to date a guy more then a year or two younger then me. The stereotype says that young men are immature and while it does have it's truth I think it's more about life experience and I couldn't handle a guy that not on my level. I am not saying relationships with large age gaps don't work, just that I would pass on that scene. On the flip side women are sometimes attracted to older men, again that whole stereotype that older men are more mature. For one that's not always true and in most cases older guys looking for younger women are just using them for sex and half of those guys are still married. I guess what I am trying to say is they have to much baggage. They have been screwed over by too many other women generally and so again not that those relationships don't work out but I have no intention on venturing there either.
212725
Im pretty certain that there are women in their 40's looking for a male companion for love if you check out some of the dating sites on the internet, you will probably have a bigger field finding a lady on a dating site than what you may find here... good luck...\nthis isnt a love match site is it?
411598
The same things any woman of any age would look for. It depends on the woman. Some want love, desire and a friend in their mate, others are looking not for Mr. Right, but Mr. Right Now and a good time. I am not in my thirties, but I have seen that women of all ages have different drives and needs, so it depends on the person.
1174900
Have you been liking men for the last twenty eight years?
244915
Good luck, old man. Hate to say it, but "old man" usually makes women 20-30yrs old think "creepy old man".
1174349
Age is just a number. I know a couple who met and married in their 70's and they both act like they are 20 plus.  Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places.
311589
No! He is hot for an older guy. NOT CALLING HIM OLD.\nLoved him in Dogma.
431761
I think they find the youth and energy and youthful look very appealing but i don't think that makes a difference because the more older you get the more appealing so i think it may be that they are confused and don't know how appealing older women really are.......
1137127
I think after 35 the question of age is irrelevant.\n\nWhat's attractive to me now, as a 44 year old man...has changed very little in 20 years: it's simply taken on a mature definition.\n - Where I used to find slim girls attractive...now...I enjoy a sense of physical fitness...\n - I used to find brilliant white teeth a turn on...now I'm happy with good oral hygiene AND NO fake CAPS.\n - I've always loved long straight hair...still do - I just find that now...it doesn't bother me if it has a little gray.\n - I used to love a "smarty pants" ... now I like a woman with education.\n\nWhat becomes important is companionship, communication, quality sex, and personal growth. At 56, if I find a 36 year old hottie that shares thes things with me...I'd marry her in a heart beat.\n\n\nbest of luck and love.
630383
I am a woman just over 50 and would really like to look like I did 30 years ago, but reality is reality, and I know men just don't tend to look at things that way.  But my hubby assures me that he loves me however I look, so maybe it is mostly single men who think that way, I don't know.  I just know that when he was younger, he and his best friend had alot to say about heavier women and that is where my insecurities come from.  Also, I do see single, older men wanting the younger, thin, sexier appearing women.  Maybe it is an ego thing.  Who kknows why guys think the way they do.  But you do have a good point.  Sometimes I think they just don't think.  They want.
1083412
For a younger guy, they like older women.  For older guys, they like younger girls. *shrugs*