Why does my girlfriend constantly ask me?
348801
She is insecure and worries that you are comparing her with previous girlfriends. If you really love her and are planning a future with her, you can try to reassure her that the past is forgotten because your life began when you met her and you don't whatever either one of you did in the past to affect your future together. Just keep saying that and don't answer any more questions about the past. If she can't let go of your past, it's going to be hard to build any kind of future together.
864204
She seems just as confused about you as you are about her. It seems as if she's almost trying to push you out of her life. Give her a taste of her own medicine; don't contact her as often as usual, and give the cold shoulder when she tries to joke around. If she really likes you, she'll keep trying to get to you. If she doesn't, nothing will change, and you'll find that your life without her is much easier.
353095
It might mean that in a previous relationship she had to reach out all the time and it makes her uncomfortable. Also it could  mean that she was raised to believe that a guy is doing all the chasing. A third option could be that she is extremely busy. If her replies are very short and spaced out that might be it.
366651
She's freaked out that it's getting serious. She may be in the habit of keeping emotionally distant. Good at being intimate sexually, but when there's the possibility  to add a relationship into the mix, she may freak out and be distant. Her attempt to push you away to make sure doesn't get too serious.
839896
She is more than likely madly in love with you and called you stupid because you cannot see the light.She wants more and figured that is she backed away a bit,that you would come running to her.She came back a second time because she felt that she could not live without you and saw that things had not changed so she hit the road again.This explains why she wanted to know if you have someone else.\n\nShe could also be pregnant and does not know how to tell you
692733
No, not necessarily. It can be part of normal conversation, especially if the question is coming from a woman because women tend to talk like that. The clincher is, however, the manner in which she asks it. Has she been flirting with you already? When she asks it does she seem like she wants to know because she may be interested herself? does she lean in when she talks to you? all of the above could be signs she is interested in you and that is why she wants to know -- for herself. But if a woman just asks you it in an ordinary way between other regular conversation, I'm sorry but it means nothing and she is just trying to fill in conversation. Good luck.
670435
Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.
663673
OMG yesss she does so much, girls do that all the time, the whole just kidding thing. like someone who hates me will be like i hate you, just kidding and for us its okay but anyway shes definetly dropping a hint. date and get married dude shes totally into you!!
1000737
sorry to say, it seems that she's using you because she knows you're weak. she knows she's your weakness, so everytime she gets bored in her current relationship, she comes running back to you. it looks like you're her entertainment while her husband's probably busy with something else. and then, as soon as she gets what she wants (your attention, and maybe something more) and her husband's ok with her, her attitude towards you changes because her ego has been satisfied and her time alone spent.\n\nyou may want to deny this, but i think you know it makes sense... if it does, you very well know what you need to do.
663004
Depends on your age not much you can do..... have you try asking her why she does this to you when you do for her, maybe she is having problems that she don't tell  you communication is important Good Luck
518699
That sounds really weird.  It sounds like she's either asking you if you're gay (or bi) or maybe even suggesting it.  I personally would question why either of you take something like that seriously.  Why would you get embarrassed (getting annoyed I can understand, but why embarrassed).  As for her why would she take offense?  \n\nMy guess is she is trying to ask you if you're gay. Are you? Answer for yourself, then deal with her on it. Tell her the truth, whatever that is, and dont worry or be embarressed.  After all either you are or not. There's no point in making it more complicated than that.\n\nOn the other hand what about your girlfriend?  Is it possible she is having gay or bi thoughts herself? You should ask her what exactly is going on.
629007
talk about tis openly to ur gf cos must b that she cant understand u or u might be getting 2 much possessive abt her.  give her some space ok, cheer up
340909
If she is your girlfriend .. Why is she spending lot of times with a guy that she doesnt like? It sounds very FISHY to me. WHy cant she spend more time with you to prove u that shes not interested in this guy that she doesnt like. I think she may be hiding her feelings about him and she might felt stuck between you and him.  Plus she might know u are worried or demanded to know an answer from you . so its a cover up thing. My answer may be wrong for you to know why.. if she knows ur insecurity and so on. she would have spend more time with you to prove it. Why she needs to be with the guy that she doenst like? on what condition is that? keep ur eyes on her and see if shes really the one for you before u decide u want to marry her ..
193170
will maybe something is going on in her life u never no ask her y she is doing this and if she tells u somethings wrong then be there 4 her but it might be something else all u really need 2 do is ask her y she is acting that way and u dont feel heard
1066658
Ummm if she's still continually dissin you even after you tell her it bugs you then i'd say she's probably jealous of you as a person. You may not have a boyfriend but maybe your  much better at getting guys than her and shes worried that you may even steal her current bf. Or because hses so competitive she has to measure herself against you and your relationship didn't work out and hers did may be a sign of victory on her eyes that maybe it is possible to beat you. Maybe you should just hang out with other people in the group more than you hang out with her and the next time she disses you just out right give it to her sumthing like " Why you always gotta b  a B*tch? I dated the guy it didn't work out and everybody here knows you so you don't have to keep bringing it up unless you get some sick pleasure from it grow up.." \nwhatever you do though don't make a move on her bf or get involved with his situation with his friends its amazing how quickly peoples perceptions of you can change\ngoodluck
367647
I've had a few platonic female friends.  I've given some hugs and some backrubs.  I've never kissed them.  Your girlfriend crossed the line.  Why would she tell you that "his little thingy got hard"?!?  Definitely past the line.\n\nIt sounds like she is playing games and is at the least trying to make you feel jealous.  At the worst, she is shopping for another boyfriend and just wants to keep you on the line.\n\nIt's hard to convey all the intricacies of a relationship on these little questions.  But from the little you've revealed, I would dump her and cut off all contact.  Until she grows up, she is not worthy to date seriously.
513589
if she asks u anything jus ignore her & make her jealous by doing something. After few days she will rush to u\n\n\n                                                 i hope my \n                                                advice works!\n\n\nif not sorry  :-/