Why does it still hurt?
338658
I don't think what you are going through is all that much different than what most of us go through when we lose someone we really care about.  A year may sound like a long time but it really isn't if you really loved someone.  The problem here is that while you know the relationship is over, you haven't really put it into its proper place in your life.  The memories are not going to go away and since a lot of them are good memories there is no reason to want them to go away.  So treasure those memories for what they are and that is some really happy times that are part of your past.  What you have been doing is letting those memories control your life.  Memories are very strong things and over time they actually gain strength because the details are blurred and all you focus on is the best parts of them.  This means that when you compare them to current situations they always seem so much better.  The reality is that they really weren't.  You have just chosen to not remember the bad times or the parts that made it more ordinary.  You need to stop living in the past because nothing is ever going to compare to memories that have all the bad stuff removed.  You need to realize that you deserve to be happy and the only way to do that is to let the past be the past and make new memories and stop constantly comparing your current life to those old memories.  Trust me, we all do it but we all find that in reality there is a lot more to life and always more wonderful memories to be made.
968565
It will probably take weeks if not a few months for it not to be sore any longer, an ex of mine did this once and was in pain for a while after getting it fixed.  Now he didn't have these but maybe there are some pt (physical therapy) exercises you can do to help it heal.  Good luck hope you feel better.
561976
It really depends on your pain threshold. I'm sure it hurts a little at first, but you get used to it over time and eventually it is no big deal.
743612
Go to the doctor and find out what's going on!  Why would you want to be in pain if you can get some help?
836810
No....let time heal it...I am still going through the same thing...and every friend told me to let it go and let time heal the wounds.
978994
I broke my ankle 3 years ago and it still hurts sometimes. Be careful don't do things that could reinger it. Do not, I repeat Do not\nwalk up hills!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get well soon!
931458
what kind of pain is it? \nif it's a nagging pain, most likely the bone is bruised.\nsince it hurts when you move, you most likely tore a ligament.\nbut since you were able to manage the pain, I'm sure it's nothing major.\n\ni think it will still be best if you see a doctor. two weeks is a long time for pain and it might need to be seen by a doctor so that it will heal correctly.
452410
Keep doin it and you will hurt in more places  than your side
931436
You have to pace yourself and practice. You have to regulate your breathing too, if you concentrate on your breathing rhythm, you won't focus on the pain.
200324
IT'S THE WORST PAIN I'VE EVER HAD...I PUT HEAT ON IT WITH A HEATING PAD...THAT RELAXED IT SOME...I ALSO TRIED BENGAY...BUT BE CAREFUL DON'T GET TO CLOSE THE SENSITIVE PARTS...I ALSO WOULD STRETCH IT, BUT THAT DIDN'T HELP...I THINK IT'S LIKE BEING DRUNK...THE ONLY CURE IS TIME...GOOD LUCK
406017
I've heard that it lessens the pain, but I don't know about making it stop hurting right away.
798120
virgin or not rape still hurts...physically and emotionally
440341
because it hurts? if so, see a doctor. you could have an infection.\n\neither that, or you're just weird :)
977918
yess it really hurts, i guess it burns or something like that:) careful next time, gurls are sensitive.
291392
Certain physical pains God gave us so we would know if something was wrong.  It wouldn't be very fun to catch on fire and not realize it.  The pain is there so we will stop the problem.  As far as emotional pain, it's just something else that lets us know we're alive.  Just because you're in pain, doesn't mean that God hates you, or thinks you need to be punished.  Sometimes God gives us pain, so we'll remember to turn to him for help.  Remember, he created us because he wanted something to love.  If you pray to Him, and let Him know you love Him, and that He's first in your life, a lot of times the pain, be it physical or emotional, will go away.  Sometimes pain takes time to heal, but if you keep your faith in God, He'll carry you until your ready to stand.\n\nAnd don't forget to go to a pastor, or someone else you feel comfortable talking with.  Talking with others helps you get through almost anything.
257510
If it's making your brain ache, why are you still on it?
1139194
Why should it hurt your head?