my sister is  being really meen to her used to be boyfreind what shuld i do?
346857
Mind your own business, it's between them.
331103
Your sister is immoral and on her way to becoming a sexual deviant being. She needs guidance. Maybe you are the one to help her out.
1160494
you used to mess around???! if i am understanding the use of this word correctly then its your fault that she is acting this way... you were leading her on. she is your step sister, and its just as disgusting as if she was your real sister...\n\nyou two need to talk it out for sure. tell her she is beautiful and if you two werent related, it would have been possible to take this somewhere, but since you are related she needs to get over this and forget about the whole thing.
307131
You know, I just love the way big brothers love their little sisters! Your sis must be upset, so give her a hug, make her a nice hot cup of tea (well, it needn't necessarily be tea- anything comforting will do!), tell her her boyfriend's a jerk, and try and cheer her up. I wouldn't suggest beating him up, because I don't think it's do anyone much good, to be honest! Just be there for your sister and give her a bit of advice. If she breaks up with him, then stick with her and help her meet some nice guys, when she's ready. If however, this guy who made her cry, harasses her in any way if she breaks up with him, then have a man-to-man talk with him and tell him to get lost. Don't worry; she'll be fine! All the best to you both!
807721
i think you should let your brother know i mean this is very wrong! who does she think she is!? she not only disrespected her brother but she did the same to you get her out of your place fast what if she is doing it or has done it to your boyfriend and hes to scared to tell you????
960656
Make it some important to you as it is important to her. My 13 year old was just recently in love and he was sooo happy. Also tell your sister to take things slooooooooooooooooow.
826106
This is a tough place for a young woman to be! You are going through an emotional time anyway as you enter puberty. Have you talked with your sisters and do they acknowledge the way she treats you? Maybe one of them will be kind enough to tell your mother how her actions are affecting you. My other suggestion would be to speak with a minister or your school guidance counselor, perhaps have a family session. Please know you are worthwhile despite all that is going on. love to you.
882947
I would let your brother deal with her since you don't want her to come between you two.  That could potentially happen if you confront her directly and your brother picks her side.  Talk to him about what he is going to do about his wretched wife.  In answer to your other question people do sometimes change for the worse but usually they were bad to begin with and just hid it until they were comfortably ensconced.
855347
Yes, you should tell her for 2 reasons \n1- if she ever finds out you knew and did not tell her, she will have one less person she can trust and maybe even will cut her contacts with you (I don't know your sis and how upset she might get) \n2- If your sis knows the truth she can have closure and maybe stop not trusting men (maybe far fetched) as he left because he likes guys and not because of something she did
95772
ok listin closely.  OK    do what you should have done a long time ago talk to that girl and nicely tell them to stop
15673
That is just what siblings do. It is a constant battle for sibling to compete for the favor of their parents. Be happy that you have siblings and ignore her behavior. If you do this she will get tired of it. Your parents will hopefully get tired of her telling on you and ignore her asw well. Be kind and do what is right and she won't have any ammunition against you. Eventually you will both grow up and learn to love eachother for who you are.
1004617
man up and say your sorry.  don't teach your little sister to accept less and don't let your little brother think it's okay to talk mean to people and not say I'm sorry.  YOu are their role model
382026
Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
620294
It sounds as if she's jealous, are she and her brother pretty close? She may be feeling like your stealing him away from her. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about that, but take a deep breath, don't feel guilty about being relieved that she's not coming to your shower {you'll have much more fun without her their snarling her nose at everything.} And just enjoy your day.
76252
Talk it over with her. You have to. She is family. You both need to solve this.
1120364
I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
276610
If I were you I'd talk to your girlfriend about it see what she thinks.  She could get her brother to back off.  If not u may get the hell out of there.