Married 3 yrs need help on showing affection the same way as she shows it to me.?
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Get used to kissing her more and rubbing your hand up her leg when rubbing her feet. When playing with her hair, kiss her neck and fondle her a little.  It will all start to come naturally.  Sounds like you got the hands going now get the mouth going...and give her some hugging.
105995
from a mans stand point! you know your wife more than anybody! sit back and think of some of the thing she has talked about. love is something money cannot buy. give of youself, do something for her. make her feel like she is the only woman there is.
151922
This will require time patients and tact on your part.\n\nFirst start by reading books on marital relationships.\nA good place to start is either the 5 love languages, or His needs, Her needs. \nLearn how to work on marital communication FIRST. \nonce you know her 5 basic "NEEDS" are meet, and you have a way to talk with her about emotional issues important to you. then you can address experimenting a bit.\n\nAt first try things you can mutually agree look safe.\n\nLight bondage is a very good one. \nas are blindfolds, and a bit of voyerism ( in the home and just for you) you can even try giving her a sensual massage ( women love this) and it can help break the ice between you. \nTry to include romance for her benifit. \nlike make dinner, prepare her a bubble bath and finish with a massage. work on her pleasure with out expecting any fulfillment for your self for 1 night. make a game out of how many times you can satisfy her in one night. \nYou would be suprized ohw it can open up things in the bedroom. \n\nAgain work on meeting her 5 basic "NEEDS" the rest will come together once you can open up emotionally, and learn how to listen in an effective manor. \n\nGod Blessing be on your family.
836976
try hugging her like hugging a bolster ..  :) it works..
678754
My wife already makes feel special.She loves me,and to prove this,I will list the following things she does that makes me feel loved.\n1.She is always telling me-I love you!(I always tell her the same thing!!!)\n2.She works hard at her job of 18 years to provide me with a home.\n3. She supports my decision to start an in-home computer repair service\n3.She is always concerned about my health and well being\n4.She goes the extra mile to provide me with the attention and words to make me feel comfortable in every thing \n5.She will fight -to the death-anybody that tries to hurt me-(We both are experienced martial artists)\n6.She lets me know when she is sad-mad-upset with someone,or just needs some loving.\n7.She lets the past mistakes I made, remain in the past and forgave me of them-(I never repeated them)\n8. We are still together after 21 years!!!!!!!!!!
489722
get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.
75002
Think of all the ways you romanced your wife before you was married. Did you buy her flowers? Take her on night strolls? Did you shower with her or run her bath when she comes home from work? At times we tend to forget that the men/women that we marry still need to be romanced and catered to. Its a beautiful thing that happens for two people and they feel appreciated. This is what I think your wife is telling you.
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Make sure she knows how much she means to you.  If it's by a poem, card or letter.  That would melt me.  Take her out to a nice dinner and give her an anniversary ring.  Ive been married 6 years and would love one of those!
625991
Honey, what you don't realize is that you ARE paying her back every single day.  It's called "appreciation".  Sincere appreciation does not come in the form of a fancy dinner, a gift, flowers, a card- unlike what most women will say.  Most women say that BECAUSE they are not feeling appreciated.  They often do things with expectations.  Your wife does things with no expectations and as a result, she has someone who genuinely appreciates it.  Appreciation is a state of mind,  It is a feeling of gratitude towards something or someone and when it's towards someone, they know it.  If you or I were to do something great for the world, we would know that it was great from the beginning because of our intention and we wouldn't have to hear it from the world that it appreciates it, it just would appreciate it.  Make sense??  So the best thing for you is to continue doing exactly what you're doing cause your wife CLEARLY knows you appreciate it or she wouldn't do it.  She was drawn to you from the beginning because of your ability to appreciate in whatever ways you do it.  You respect, honor and love, you are faithful, loving, caring, empathetic, affectionate and THAT IS APPRECIATION.  xo  :)
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Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
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First of all, I's like to thank you for responding to my question of last week.  \n\nGeorge, (if I may), all of those kisses belong to you.  Consider her attention as you would, let's say, money. Your emotional bond is an asset. She is spending it on someone other than you. \n\nI admire and understand your benevolence, and your faith in your marriage, but she is definitely sharing what belongs solely to you as her husband with another.  It would be as similar if you went and blew money on sending flowers to the most georgous woman you would like to go to bed with.  Would she be happy that you spent your money and attention on another woman.  I donno, maybe you should give it a shot.  If you do make it a real nice bouquet of expensive flowers and say something real romantic on the card and remind her of her own words "it was wrong, but since ....(there was no), sex, its not cheating".  You could also consider purchasing very very sexy lingerie for someone you consider much more sexy than your wife.  It may make you feel better too.\n\nAsk her if this is what marriage means to her?  And she if these are the standards she intends for your marriage together?\n\nJust a feeling, maybe she is looking for a way out of the marriage.  Ask her.\n\nYou deserve to have a partner that respects the boundries of your togetherness, marriage.\n\nPlease clean this mess up now.  I understand it's a real confrontation, but before you become older and it gets worse clean it up. \n\nShe told you it was wrong.  My question to you is, why did she betray you in the first place?  She was not behaving as if she is married to you.  Is that OK with you?  Is this someting you can live with?  Do you think this would be the last time this will ever happen?  I wish you a live full of love and happiness, with or without her.  PS Happy Easter-Happy Pesah, and everything else under the Son.  May your union, this or another be Blessed and may you receive the love you deserve in turn.
26761
Do some of the fun things you 2 did before you got married.  By still doing the activities you enjoyed together, it maintains that closeness you felt before.  How about little love notes around the house?....maybe with his shaving kit?  I'm sure he'll reciprocate one way or another.  Compliments to each other just affirm your love and appreciation for each other.
466486
the best way to show her that you love her is to spend quality time with her and tell her y you love her. She buy her things but if she really loves you those things dont matter
377473
When she asks, just bend down and kiss it and say it looks fine to you, then hug and kiss her and hold her close to you.  Don't make an issue of it.  Tell her she is sexy and her body turns you on.  I know my wife's belly does.  It doesn't bother me at all.
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Book her an appointment for a pregnancy massage. She will feel like a new woman trust me. This is one of those anniversaries where the hubby is to pamper the wife...sorry. But maybe you can go out to dinner where you had your first date like my hubby did. Very romantic. Just let her know how much you appreciate her and be very sympathetic of carrying a baby (it is very hard in the last months). just a couple of suggestions!
694343
Well, you shouldn't have to please her with material things, such as gifts and dinners. Love can not be bought, just like freindship. All you should have to give is affection.
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Is she smiling and teasing you and tickling you and touching you softly as she does it? If yes, she's telling you through her actions that she loves you. Been there, done that, in-laws hate me. (NEVER allow other people's opinions to interfere with how you operate when you're conveying your feelings to your significant other.) If *they* know you love them, then that's all that matters. Do you feel her love?\n   On the other hand, if she's malicious or painful about it and constanty claims that she was "only teasing", watch out, the signs are there!