Do u think b-n curious about the same sex makes u gay/lesbian?
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No. Psychologist say that it is common amongst some straight people to be curious about it. Many of them never actually act upon it. Some act upon it and don't like it afterwards and it ends the curiousity. Some act upon it and like it and it turns out they are bisexual. \n\nIt all depends a lot on you and where your sexuality fits on the scale. There are those who are exclusive heterosexual and exclusive homosexuals. I'm the latter. I've never even thought about the opposite gender in a romantic or sexual way. Since I was a little boy I always wanted to kiss the boys and hold their hands. That's what it means to be an exclusive homosexual. And there are heterosexuals that are like that, too. They have never even thought about being with someone of the same gender. Then there are all the areas in between and right in the middle are the degrees of bisexuality. Some are bisexual, but lean more towards heterosexuality (meaning they enjoy and are attracted to both genders, but enjoy being sexual and romantic more with the opposite gender) and those that are bisexual but lean more towards homosexuality (meaning they enjoy and are attracted to both genders, but enjoy being sexual and romantic with someone of the same gender more). It is said that those who are exclusively heterosexual, exclusively homosexual, and those who are 50/50 bisexuals are actually the minority sexually. It is all the middle grey areas that are more common. Atleast that is what I've read.\n\nI mean, consider the type of scale it is\n\nHeterosexuality/Homosexuality\n100/0\n90/10\n80/20\n70/30\n60/40\n50/50\n40/60\n30/70\n20/80\n10/90\n0/100\n\nEach end is the exclusive (top being exclusive Heterosexual 100% heterosexual 0% homosexual and the bottom being exclusive Homosexual 0% heterosexual 100% homosexual) and the middle area is the grey area of bisexuality. Obviously a person who is 90% heterosexual and only 10% homosexual is probably not going to act on the homosexual tendency, it is very weak. But that person might occasionally have a dream that is somewhat homosexual. The same would be true of a person who is 90% homosexual and 10% heterosexual. They may realize they are gay, but occasionally would have a heterosexual dream. That might cause the person to question, but probably never act. As you get closer towards the middle the more likely the person is to have actually acted upon their interests...gay or straight.
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I myself BI!!! and very proud of it. I think that as this world is more open to Homosexuality that people will not be afraid to explore the same sex. I think that being Bi Gay or Straight is a very beautiful thing. Love is Love and that's all that matters.
827879
What makes you gay is enjoying a relationship of a sexual nature with the same sex.  What you have is called fetishism.  Maybe it will steer towards a gay lifestyle but alone it doesn't make you gay.
553019
"becoming" gay does not sound correct. Either you know inside that there is something different when you look at either a male or a female which ever one you prefer. You can't just become gay,,,you actually feel the desire to be with that particular sex...now what you do afterwards to either keep it going or difuse it is totally up to you.
619137
Focusing on Gayness makes you gay? heheheee...that`s so ignorant...sorry..I don`t mean to be rude,but that`s just not true
1114533
No!!\nI think you're bisexual and that's why you're asking this stupid question.
1157158
i quite agree with what everyones saying. it's rlly quite natural to take interest in the same sex... u'ave perhaps just realised how wonderful u as a FEMALE are n hence the inclination towards the same sex...it cud also b tht all the relationships uave had with men during ur lifetime, hav in smeway or the other been incomplete or upsetting and so, u may now subconsciously want to try ur luck with the same sex... we often also feel that a person of the same sex is usually more understanding and sensitive to the issues we ourselves r going thro..and so again,ur prolly just looking to be in a relationship with sme1 who can understand u better and  complete u... i dono if this cud relate to u, but it does for me, n i do hope it helps u in sme way or the other!..
780500
You might be gay or bi, but it's hard to tell based on what you have said here. I don't think it means you're gay just because it's easier for you to get off when you're watching guys. It depends on more than just that. You need to grow up a little more before you can decide, I think.  Give yourself time to figure it all out, and don't worry about labeling yourself right now.
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I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN, YOU WILL KNOW.\nI WENT THRU SOMEINTERESTING EXPERIENCES, THAT MADE ME QUESTION MY OWN SEXUALITY..  IT STARTED WITH A BOYFRIEND ALWAYS WHISPERIING IN MY EAR ABOUT ME AND ANOTHER FEMALE, AND THEN I WOULD GET TURNED ON THIINKING ABOUT IT WHEN HE WAS ARROUSING ME, HE PUSHED IT IT WAS FUNNY AT FIRST THEN HE SAID " i should try it sometime"  HE HAD THE FANTASY OF THAT, AND DID HIS BEST TO HELP ME GET INTO A SITUATION WITH ANOTHER FEMA,LE\n\nAND THE FEMALE I MET, HAD A BOYFRIEND AND OLDER MAN WHO ALSO WANTED THIS ,,BUT WE (the girl and i realized they wanted to be conducting it, a part of it, and controling it, (MEANING THE TWO OF US GETTING TOGETHER,,, BUT WE HANDLED THAT,  WE DID GET TOGETHER, AND THE GUYS WHO DID  NOT KNNOW EACH OTHER  WERE NOT AWARE, AND IT WAS A FANTASY, SPECIAL, IT TURNED ME ON,, WE GOT TOGETHER A FEW TIMES, BUT ALTHOUGH THE TURN ON A REAL PRETTY FEMM AND ME TOO,, HAD GIRL THINGS, BUBBLE BATHS, MUSIC MASSAGES, ETC, AND THEN IT WAS OVER, I HAD NO DESIRE TO BE INVOLVED, HAVE A GIRLFRIEND FOR A LOVER, OR PURSUE FEMALES.\nI NEVER REGRET ANY OF THAT ,,BUT IT WAS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE ME LOSE DESIRE FOR A MAN, IT WAS AN EXPERIENCE OF "IN ADDITION TO," not Instead of,,\n\nfor many y ears from time to time i have been with a female, and i   enjoyed it and it is a turn on that i can not get with a man,, it only reinforced to me i am not a lesbian, i do not want to be full time lovers, or grow old together as a couple i prefer men.. so does that make me bi?  I DONT KNOW, I DONT HAVE ONE MONTH ON  AND ONE MONTH OFF,, I KNOW THAT PART OF MY INNER FEELING WAS REACHING OUT FOR WHAT I WANTED FROM MY MOM?  women are feminine, soft, gentle, and the ones i had an experience with we would talk, be like sisters, kind, not pushy  and womens bodies are prettier than mens, but i never felt like i wanted to abandone men, it was more of an escape to expressing the female in me with another who felt the same,,  anyway anyway..i think i have all of that curiosity satisfied, i have not thought about being with a female nor when i see any sexy ladies do i think of sexual thoughts, so i am grateful that i haave the choice, and i need and want a man to fill my emotional and physical needs,,,\n\nI do believe that some women turn later in life to a life lesbian style, but i am not so sure it is because they discovred they are gay,, i think it is they just resolved themselves to the fact that men are the weaker sex, and they had enough abuse, and emptinesss, and a good female girlfriend (BUDDY)  not a lover, is easier, and less frustrating,  we are all different iin our needs, \nI do know some lesbians that just hate men, they hate them,, so therefore i think that is a choice, not a physical  reason..  so th ats how i know i am not a lesbian,,i dont really have to pledge to any gender, but i feel more confortable with a man for a mate,,i hope i gave you another prospective,  on this
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Yes, I have several gay friends, a few lesbian friends, and a couple of bisexual friends. Even though I'm straight, I get along great with them! \n\nSo, why do you ask?\nOhhh thanks for answering. I was thinking we were all going to get bashed for having gay friends. ;0)
880436
lmao. you're questions are very funny.. and i wouldnt know  b/c im not a lesbian! =)
638724
Sometimes otherwise " straight" guys look at other men. Its normal, and natural. Sometimes it is sexual, sometimes you're just checking out the biological compitition, sometimes you're just looking to be curious. Sometimes you get inspired to work out more if you see a buff body at the gym.\nRemember, "gay", "straight" and "Bi" are labels people use to judge you.\nSo you like women. So you're curious about men. No big deal. Do what feels right for you - and don't let others decide what works for you sexually. There is nothing wrong with experiementing. How will you know if you like or don't like something without ever trying it? LOTS of other men "try" things, whether they admit it or not.
877787
you are likely bisexual or at least bi curious
1071250
It's natural to be gay/bi, but that's not an answer I can give you.  A clue, though, is if you really desire making love with the same sex.  Sexual desires are one thing, but true homosexuality is a love thing.  If you love females in that way, you may be gay.  You may be predominantly gay with a slight turn toward the heterosexual (hence, your sexual but not loving attraction to boys).  In the end, however, it is your decision.  I can only offer advice.
357645
From looking at your history of questions, several in the GLBT section, it seems you are curious about your looks and how you look to others: women and gay men.  It's good to be curious!!  Anyway....to answer your question, I'm pretty good looking and have been approached by gay men a lot over the years.  Which is fine.
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You could just be curious about the act, then again you could be gay. \nAre you attracted to men?\nDo you fantasize about having sex with men?\nDo you fantasize about the intimacy with a male partner?\nCould you kiss and fondle another male?\n\nYou should truly answer these questions wit hen yourself, because none of us can tell you if you are gay or not. Just because you like gay porn does not make you totally gay. Only you know that answer.
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There is nothing "gay" about finding someone of the same sex good looking.  Admiring something or someone good looking is natural.\n\nIf you find yourself attracted to and aroused by females but not aroused by males then you are straight.