Why do boys cheat when they say they love their girlfriend?
338265
becoz they are boys..not a men as yet\nthey can do anything to get what they want, and will just leave you once they get bored (for those flirters)\nthey are just enjoying thier time without realising that they are hurting other people
678896
HORSE HOCKEY The boyfriend in question is guilty of cheating and the reason he will not talk about it, is because he is wondering what gave him away. Be a friend help your girl to move on and get a new boyfriend.
1169023
Come on, cheating is cheating! You know, that thing you do that goes against the rules. For example,  if your girl says, "You can't kiss other girls, D." Then you gotta respect that, otherwise, it's cheating. Why do people cheat? Sheer laziness(when it comes to tests),boredom(when it comes to relationships), and a God-complex(when it comes to games)
261630
Because by other experiences girls generalize that men are liars... because someone cheated this way, we see a pattern here... just show your girl what you do, take her onece and she will know that you are the exeption to the rule, its not natural, but some women think of you as dogs hunting and she might trust you but not the people you are among of, so let her meet your buddies, and let her know theres nothing to hide she will trust you more because theres information saying how do you feel ok... Be truthfull and this will set you free of explainning yourself everytime you hang out with your friends ok... \nBest of luck!
36465
Cheating on your boyfriend because he cheated only you only takes you to his level. You probably should have left him no matter how much you feel you "loved" him.\n\nWhen a person cheats, they are disrespecting their significant other and disrespecting themselves. Cheating is dishonorable. So if someone cheats on you, why would you want to stoop to their level? Instead, take the high road and become a better and stronger person.
1059687
if you love someone set them free. and from experience, the cheating parties will end up worse than they where before because there relationship is already based on a lie, and the high they get from each other will end when the sneaking around does. if they would both spend as much time trying to love the one they fell in love with, then they would actually get more enjoyment in saving and creating than destroying. i have no degree but i have seen it happen to many of my friends. i have heard them cry, and watched them F things up even more, in the end there will be nothing worth saving. and the kids suffer the most.
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
1135439
Guys do that too you know, and not everyone does that. If you're a decent person and you REALLY love the other person you wouldnt do that.
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
817335
Sometimes guys like a girl who is taken. If they can get her to cheat, they get the goodies without haveing to buy her anything, take her anywhere or go to her family events.
399117
I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON A GIRLFRIEND. MOST OF THEM HAVE BEEN GOOD GIRLS. THE ONES WHO CHEAT ARE JUST LOWLIFE SCUMBAGS JUST LOOKING FOR A PEICE AF #SS. LOSERS THATS ALL THEY ARE.
613078
Reality hurts don't it. I think the main reason women cheat is because of insecurity.   You should ask yourself what lead to me to cheat?  and would I do it again.  That poor man is hurt and probably doesn't want to go through that again. I know i wouldn't. From a mans standpoint especially if he loved you...he probably still pictures u banging the guy in his mind. There is a big wound in the relationship..and like any physical cut it takes time to heal. But you really cant do anything because the ball is in his court.  He will comeback if he completely forgives you.
349439
It's an immature 'power' thing, they think it makes them more attractive if they can take him away from his girlfriend.  The truth is if one girl could get between them, then any girl could.  You learn that no-one can 'take away' a person you're with, because you can't own anyone, and that it needed the other person's 'cooperation' for the 'theft' to be successful
919547
Sometimes (rarely) its just about sex, but usually not (even with guys).  Cheating is symptomatic of something seriously wrong in the relationship or seriously flawed in the emotional makeup of the cheater.   It is important to find out what the real reason for the cheating behavior is - it's not always easy or fun.  Good Luck!
1024974
NO! WRONG!! Men don't cheat if they're already in love......they cheat because they're NOT in love!  A person in love will NEVER cheat!
841252
Anyone who cheats doesnt deserve a second chance period...If ur with that person youre with them for a reason.....Their isnt any sense in getting a boyfriend or girlfriend if ur gonna cheat on them...its just wasting your time and theirs
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah