guys hate me because they think that i think all of them like me and i dont? how do i fix it?
339543
Just be you and don't try to fix it.  If these guys are so ignorant that they assume things about you that aren't true rather than get to know you then they aren't worth your time.
243449
People do this, judge people ya know, but all you can do is be yourself and I know it's hard feeling like no one likes you but remember you are special just like everyone else and if they don't like you for who you are then there just missing out on a good friend..speak up and try talking with them about stuff if that doesn't work then just keep being yourself and be strong..pray about it
313408
I think that these boys were not your friend to begin with and just wanted to leer over your body(you must be gorgeous). You don't need them! Hold your head high and go and find some good friends who like you the way you are. You deserve better than people who judge with looks.Pretty soon you ll get your confidence back and will show those boys up. YOU GO GIRL!!!
363548
hun if people don't like you it cause they are jealous of you for one reason or another, lots of people don't like me n recently i found out it was cause i had the good life n they were to busy dwellin on the past to move on and make there own life good. don't let them get you down, what ever it is you are doin keep doin it its your life not theres let them be jealous after all people bein jealous of your life can sometimes be a good thing.\n\ntake care and keep smiling, if you smile the whole world will smile with you, a smile is like the flu people cant help but to catch it.
846731
Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
160716
You can't GET them to like you.  You have to be yourself.  If\nthey don't like you, it may be just because they think you are trying to take the place of mate's mate.  Just be yourself.
1024153
Quit being so self absorbed. Nobody is jealous of you. Its all in your mind. Not everybody is jealous of you. Maybe a few. Not everybody has that much time to devote to hating you. Just ignore the few people and move on. Perhaps don't flaunt your wealth in front of them as much or brag.
687082
omg, you have a big problem my dear.. just don't talk to anybody in school anymore so they won't hate you. don't open your mouth either.\n\nnope, seriously, don't even try to force yourself on people who doesn't seem to like you. it's just a waste of time trying to impress them, 'coz they're losers
168904
Maybe they are jealous of you. U R probably super cute, and to make themselves feel like they have control over you, they make you feel unworthy. Just move on, it's High School, and everyone fits in somewhere.
836577
You can't make anyone like you. Just be yourself and if they don't like you move on. You will find someone who loves you for you.
499248
I used to get that a lot. They'd always make fun of something. Sad thing was they were things I had no control over. Chest size, buck teeth, then braces, my speech inpediment, anything really. I just accepted that I wasn't that great looking and anyone who didn't accept me like that wasn't my friend. Just be yourself. Even if it's stuff you can change. Only change if you want to change... never ever change for any other reason. You have to be comfortable with who you are and love yourself. Hopefully soon, others will come to accept you are who you are.
589807
Ha ha. I know exactly how you feel. Just act like yourself. If you pretend to be someone else, chances are they won't like you later on when the real you comes out because they will know that you lied to them. And if they don't like you, it's not your fault. Your boy friend likes you and that's all that matters.
6910
If that happens to you Don't sit like a statue and try to laugh with them too. And tell them what kind of you are and tell him (whom you don't like) why you don't like him. and tell him that may be everybody thinks the way you thinks. \n====================================================\nThis works well, I have done this for so many, who teased me.
421031
i used to be like that.so i know exactly what ur talking about.i decided one day to just snap out of it.and i decided that if they dont like me for who i am then their not the one for me.just be urself and if they dont like that then thats their problem,cause there is no point in acting like someone else.if u can be urself around friends and family.why not them?good luck and hope it works out.
53309
Your biggest problem is your self image. You need to learn that you have plenty of great qualities and boost your self esteem instead of reducing yourself to your own negative perception of your appearance. The guys you really want to know could care less that you are a little overweight. It's what's inside that counts. Smile ;0)
352675
just be yourself. if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then he really doesn't like you. you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING different for ANYONE to like you. your you and if they cant except that then its there lost. don't change a thing!!!
220126
Ignore them.  Instead, concentrate on yourself.  Emphasize your strengths and strive to improve where you have room for it.  Don't base your opinion of yourself on idiots flaunting themselves.