if you find someone that makes you happy but it is not your husband that makes you happy?
354541
You need to make a choice then if you are willing to give up everything you have in your life for a possible relationship with this other person with who there are no guarantees.  A lot of married people get crushes on other people, the key is not to act on them and throw away what you have.  Sit down and decide what you want in life and what price you are willing to pay.  If it is this other person then you need to get a divorce and pursue that relationship after the divorce.
361335
i guess you better let go that person, even though you love him/her because he/she is already married and from that fact, you can't do anything about it. i guess that person is already happy with his/her married life life and i think it's just right not to spoil such relationship. Love really hurts, especially in your case (or in your question) but the best thing to do is be happy for that person and wish him/her the best. Move on and after a while you also find the one that is really meant for you or the one that will give back your love. That would be nicer than being "the-would-be-third-party" right?
164309
...no problemo he's not your wife, aren't you? what does the guy means for you?
393011
I feel that it is all a matter of contentment.  If you are content with the relationship then you will not care about what else is out there... on the other hand, if you feel that you may be missing out on something then you probably are.
1152001
You deserve more. Find someone that makes you feel happy, not confused and sad. Is this only a one -time thing.....?
606520
yes coz u love that person, u prefer the best for her or him, more than ur own happyness
960885
Back in time when Solomon said this men were the heads of the house, men made all the decisions, had total control of all the money and made life good or bad for their wives.\nA husband who did not love his wife was more likely to make her unhappy & miserable but one who loved his wife treated her well and she was happy.\n\nA happy relationship affects all of your life specially your attitude so a happy person with a good, happy life can conduct his business and live better which in turn affects everyone he comes into contact with
40333
you should get a divorce.then again does that other person feel the same way about you .you need to be true to yourself and your husband.it is not eair to him
648765
If you feel unhappy in the relationship, talk to the other person to see why they are causing you to feel that way, and if you are still unsatisfied, then yes.
754585
Your husband is right there and he's real.  You can see all of his flaws.  The other guy is somewhere else.  You can build him up in your mind to be much better than he really is.  He's a man with flaws too.  We always want what we can't have.  If you had him, you probably wouldn't want him.  Try to see the negative side of this guy.
1053273
No you can marry anybody that make you feel so special to you.
508837
no.\n\nno.\n\nand ~ you're the one in control of making yourself happy.  either you are or you aren't.  maybe a spouse is the deal for you.  maybe it's having kids.  maybe not.  blaze your own trail...
5522
im sure if you look right in front of you you will find a good man that loves you for being you and that will treat you like the queen you are. he might not meet your standars but i promise you that you will meet someone who likes you for you not likes the others
403215
I love my boyfriend and I feel happy to have someone to share my love and my life with.  I look forward to our life together and though I know we may have adjustments, I feel that with the kind of person that he is, I know that we will be able to work out our forthcoming marriage and it will be one journey that will enhance our lives.  To put it simply - happy!  :)
779950
Other people are not going to bring you happiness.  Only you can do that through your choices.  Whatever it is about the town or city you're in that's keeping you from being happy isn't going to go away just because of some guy.  Not to mention, about the most abundant luxury in this world is the opposite sex.  Which is to say, there are plenty more guys out there and yes, the one you are with now is not the ONLY one you are compatible with.
1130274
if he dont love you find someone who will.
761325
u will know in your heart, if u dont know if that person is that special someone chances are they arent but if u think about that person and long to be with them but also exceot them for who they are and dont care what anyone else says but u get that funny fealing in your stomach and get happy when your nere them, but just love to be around them and want to be around them