if you had a significant other, and they didn't have a full time job in a year,would you dump them?
344850
love is important but it doesn't pay bills...if he's not honestly trying to find work i'm sorry to say let him go...every real man wants to be the bread winner in his home, if that's not how he feels he has become a user...let him go
95573
I think that it all depends on the couple and their expectations. If that is truly her desire then, that is what she should do. It is hard in this economy to sustain a family on a single income.
199941
NO way. I would include my boyfriend and tell him what is going on to stress me out. If the relationship is a strong one then you should be able to lean on each other in the rough times. If the person is saying they want to leave someone because they are stressed at work I think that there is more going on, and they really aren't committed to the relationship if something as trivial as work is going to stress you out enough to leave. Maybe your better off, I mean would you want this person around if there was a tragedy or a sickness to deal with. Doesn't sound like a very strong person, and doesn't sound like someone that truly cares about you.
986093
i would have left my spouse
215151
Sometimes its not a good idea to get into a work relationship because if it ends in a bad break up then you still have to face each other every day.  But if you two are both mature then I think it would be okay.
415789
No.\nAny man who has an ex girlfriend who is currently pregnant and has started dating again after only 3 short months is not exactly the most dependable person.\nI would leave NOW, before you become the next girl on his "My baby's mother" list
468975
If you're married, no. You knew what you were getting into. If you're not married ... ask yourself why you got into this relationship in the first place. Are you that fickle that you'll change partners on a whim. I'd say your partner would probably be better off without you.
1051009
Is she depending on your money? If not, you had no business telling her to get a job. If she was, then you should tell her you can't afford to support her anymore. Just stop giving her the cash. Do you mean you're living together and she wants to move out? Sounds like a good idea. You can still keep your relationship, and once things get smoother you can try again. Sounds like a good way to figure out if she loves you, or your money. Or do you mean she wants to move to another city? She could be bluffing so you beg her to stay. She just wants to feel wanted, instead of like a burden. Just have a business like conversation. Tell her if she get's a job, even a parttime one, you'll continue to help supporting her, but you will keep a tab, and she has to sign a letter of agreement that she will pay you back. That's fair. That way you can be there for her when she needs you, without being taken advantage of. Attitude very rarely changes. So if you can't live with her attitude, move on.
263823
ok well i am not a spouse yet but i have been with a military man for 3 years now in that time he has gotten out and then back in...we moved to his home state where his parents were and just couldnt make it so he got back in...once you are in its hard to get out and make a living for yourself...and when someone does i give them all the credit in the world because we couldnt
1171346
I have been married 23 years. In the last six my husband has spent a lot time being unemployed, ran off a few times, then wants to come back. But each time he ran off I did better without him. For example two years ago when he left, we were living in a small rural community. I decided since he was gone, to move to a larger city. After I did, I worked two jobs. He lived with us (my kids and I) for awhile, sitting around painting pictures and making promises to get a job. In February, we got a large tax refund. While I was at work, he took off with $1500 he never earned! I decided after that to stop trusting him and take care of myself. I enrolled in a vocational school, a decision I've never regretted. He still wants me back, but doesn't want to live in this city. My kids totally hate him. I think I can do much better without him, even though I may be alone for the rest of my life. (I'm done with relationships)
572091
It would be for me. Then me and my husband wouldn't have to work our jobs and we could find jobs we would actually enjoy. We could spend more time together too. The money wouldn't make me happy but what the effect of having money would make me happy.
28710
I would not throw stones at her but assuming I found out before a considerable amount of time had been invested in the relationship, I would have to say no way, outright and break it off quick, not my type of girl.  Not the type of girl to start a family with at all.  \n\nThat said if I found out after a year and she had moved accross the country to make a new start and truely seemed to be the right kind of girl now.  Well then Perhaps..., especially since you probably both need to be tested for a suite of diseases.
602560
honestly, if i were you, i would dump him...i wouldn't want to have to wonder if he was comparing me to her all of the time, ya know?
331530
I wouldnt! Its a life of being lonely and waiting! Get someone you can be with all the time :)
558655
Of course. To stay with someone who loves you out of a sense of obligation is not fair to the one who loves you. No matter how much they might hurt.
170530
Not really, until you break up. Then the fun starts...\n\n\n\nI wouldn't do it if I were you. It's like dating a coworker.
740771
i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.