how do you move on a person you really love?
338706
not to sure about the other stuff but it takes 1 week for every month that you were together to get over him. I heard this on Dr. Phil and a couple other times i read it not sure where though... I am so sorry to hear this, it makes me so sad because i may currently be going through the same thing... :'( sorry for you and i hope it gets easier soon.   Good Luck
385513
Tell yourself its something that has to be done and do it. It hurts especially if you loved them, but it can be done. Will power and discipline.
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
378433
Everyday. It's hard not to when you invest that kind of time with someone you truly loved, (still kind of do). I just hope that he is happy now and found whatever it was that he was looking for. It's hard not to wonder "what if", you know? But all you can do is move on and make your life what you want. It made me a much stronger person, and I have to thank him for that.
541325
Distance yourself. You won't want to, but staying close to someone you want but can't have just isn't healthy. Don't tell the person or anyone close to them what you are doing, as they might try to convince you otherwise. Just try to get away for a while. You don't have to cut the person off completely (although that is an option). Don't call him/her, don't go places where you know he/she frequents, and make yourself scarce. Take the time to reflect on your situation and learn more about yourself. \nDate. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to date people that you like. Don't settle for whoever asks you out, or you might end up making someone fall in love with you who you don't love back! Approach people, try new things. You might want to compare everyone to the object of your affection, and you won't think anyone measures up. Stop this right now. You know there's someone better out there. Go find him or her!
56532
Ask yourself, "is there anything I wouldn't do or give up for this person?"  \n\nImagine your life without him/her.  Then, imagine spending the rest of your life with him/her.  Listen to your gut!
817026
Actually, getting over someone you really love its really difficult in any way. I personally experienced it and untill now I still find myself thinking of him all the time and I dont know why it happens. We ended everything 3 yrs ago.\n. Im optimistic still, tough after that all my other "relationships" ended crap. \nYou just have to accept it and move on and believe that there will be a brighter future. Look at it as a beautiful memory because first loves are never forgotten. They will always be special and will always be a part of you.
613252
I know how it feels and its really hard, but you got to be straight up with the person. Tell him how you feel ( as nice as possible) that way you don't bruise his feelings. Try to be as calm as you can and tell him why you can't be with him, or why you need your space... or whatever the problem is... remember to be yourself and as open and REAL as possible, thats ALWAYS the best way.
108226
just try to be away from her.\nthe day u fell u cannot do that\nu r in love.\n\ncheers!!
424887
Keep on loving he or she. The love we give is the love we kept. Being deeply loved by someone gives her/him strength, deeply love somebody gives you courage.\nKeep rollin! Be patient. No pain no gain, you will appreciated more if you get somebody that is not easy to get, rather than just anybody.
815168
sometimes when your in love with someone it is hard to move on, but things get better within time. try doing things that you like to do to keep your mine off of the guy stay away from things that  reminds you of him one other thing  to do pray and ask God to give you strength to get over him and it will come when you least supect it to good luck
1127860
keep walking....\nlife doesn't end after a relationship
405366
If you know it is over and you want to move on, it really is very easy.  Your forgivness is NOT for his sake, but for yours.  By forgiving, you will leave the burden behind and open your heart for true love.  Not forgiving will be harder and hurt only you!  Forgive and move on!
409662
DANG THAT'S A TOUGH ONE ; i KN0 i ASKED MYSELF THE SAME THiNG EVRYDAi ; BUT iT TAKES TiME - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SOME MEMORi OF HiM - BUT iT GOES AWAi SLOW - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SUM FEELiNG FOR HiM BECAUSE iT WAS LOVE ND LOVE NEVER GOES AWAi EVEN A LITTLE - SO JUST TRi TO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE TO HELP U GET OVER HiM ; iT MiTE HELP ; OR DO THiNGS TO GET UR MiND OFF OF HiM -- iT HELPD WiT MEH .. SOO YEA
1121997
You should move on.\n\nYou cannot force someone to love you.
306444
Anyone who's had a deep love for such a person is bound to consider it.  That's not just something that can go away.  \nUltimately, you should do what you feel is right.  If you're willing to take the risk, by all means TAKE IT.  If you're afraid of what may happen, and that fear is strong enough to hold you back, then don't.\nIf you avoid the situation, you may be left wondering what would have happened.  If you pursue a second round, you may be in for disappointment or heartbreak. \nEither way, you have to factor in the risks, and do whatever you're brave enough to do.