Is talent to "talk" a gift or what?
349991
its a gift! but u can improve urs!\n\nsimple method!\n\nface the mirror and try to look at ur eyes! then try to talk as long as possible without breaking the eye contact!\n\ntis surely helped me!
961307
I think that is a really nice idea - besides, that way you know that the person/people receiving it are needy. And you can witness their joy from afar when you know who recieved the gift. What a thoughtful gift.
429470
Thats bc he love the gift you gave he.Things like that make people's day. He may like you too and do not know how to tell you. Talk to him, tell him whats on your mind. Good Luck
70134
The bible specifically mentions wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miricles, prophecy, descernment, tongues,interpretation, but gifts of the spirit are not limited to these only. The Bible also says every good thing comes from God. So a spiritual gift is any good thing a person can have (All we have is given to us by God). So that can include talents, skills and other blessings. For example a person with musical talent has a gift of music, a being good with children would also be a gift. God gives us all kinds of gifts and they can all be used for His glory if we allow them to. \n\nvs. 12-31 goes on to talk about these gifts. Any gift can apply here.
637143
It totally depends on the friend. It is always nice to make something or really put a lot of thought into the gift. That always makes a person feel really special.
752126
I also find it perfect. If you really think it sounds random, just add a line about something you experienced with you friend in the past, that makes your friendship unique. But don't add too much, keep it simple or you might spoil it.
698895
A gift given to anyone from your heart is a gift given correctly. No second guessing about it, now. Just give it to her from your heart and that honesty in itself will explain every bit of you to her. If you need a barrage of words, thing twice before you give a second gift. But completely enjoy giving the first one.  - C.
1184732
If you want to I think it would be a nice gesture. Gifts are always nice. It shows you are a thoughtful person.
383899
coming from someone who is quiet and good at art, i would much rather someone make small talk out of the blue for a while before asking any questions on "so how'd you do that?" \n\nso i'd suggest talking about the meaningless things like weather, or what you think of a certain class, or types of food...i dunno...whatever you want to talk about. talk about that for a while, try and become aquaintances.\n\nif you're having trouble starting conversation, ask to borrow something like a pencil or a pen, so they know you acknowledge their existance. :)
637639
ye just respect her, be honest, treat her well and be a man.. THERE ARENT many around with these traits so if you achieve in all these then trust me you will impress her! you don't need to give her the most expensive gifts, the simpler you are the better..just stop listen to her..see what she likes and be innovative..good luck!! ;)
381753
It would depend on the type gift. If it is a book ,or music, or something like that it could be either one. If it is something more personal like flowers, jewelry, or lingerie it is definitely something more than friendship they are after. \n\nSome people give because they want something, some because they have done something wrong & they want to try to compensate, others [far & few between] because they are just genorous. \nIf they wanted you for more of than a friend there would probably be other signs as well.
757942
Practice! Practice LISTENING to people and really hearing what they say. Seem very interested. Most people really want to talk, so be a wonderful listener.
404680
You don't ask for gifts. I just don't get it. Why do people EXPECT gifts and tell people what they want. I think that's tacky as hell!
227912
yes i believe you can be atrracted to someone by their writing it gives you insight that most may not see or take the time to see. sometimes its hard for people to express themselves with verbal words but can write their thoughts or expressions better. it may be a good way to get to know them so yes its possible.
437844
I think talking first to people he/she can trust and who will make her/him feel comfortable, or talking about easy things first. \nMay be first through jokes. \nTwo glasses of wine...\nIt could have a relation with confidence (either towards others , either toward oneself), so to build confidence?\nReally difficult to answer.\nVery interesting question !
1048948
Just go with the flow and trust your instincts, you could have a very special gift and if so learn how to control it so that you may help other, who you find that may need your type of guidance.
476732
Something that comes from the heart.  Maybe something that she has mentioned to you before and you heard her but didn't act like you did, surprise her with it and let her know that you were listening. Trust me this works!