It started out as a fling but now i'm falling for this guy what should i do?
347838
Yeah... I know how this feels. If you think you truley love him then you should be care full and tell him in a time that you feel is right. And don't judge him by his past. I mean his kids could be great and just because he can't get over his ex dosen't mean that he still dosen't love you back. Good luck ^_^
46228
Listen if u really like this new guy u should'nt let the past get in the way of the furture. Move on and try something new u might like it.
108789
It doesn't sound like you invested too much time in this guy. The best thing to do is just move on. I'm sure there are many guys out there who would put more effort into getting to know you and having a meaningful relationship.
1001174
Carry on the way you are for now and don't be tempted to chase him.  Still go out as friends and have fun, you never know what the future may hold.  They may not stay together forever so hang in there for a while and see what happens. (Not advising you to steal him though!).   If they decide to get serious then you'll have to accept it. Unfortunately we all go through heartbreak at some time in our lives but love will come your way sooner or later.  Be patient and good luck!
661813
mean carleen is right.  There is nothing you can do.  Clearly if there was any interest on his part something would have happened.\n\nWhat you are describing is not really a love issue it is infatuation.  You are infatuated with this guy and in your mind are creating fantasy scenarios about how things would be if you were together.  You need to get over it and find a guy who likes you back.
876514
It is three years later, and you are both three years older and more mature.  Now is definitely time to find that chemistry again. If you still care about this guy, go and re-introduce yourself to him.  He may not be available right now, but it doesn't hurt to find out. :-)\n\nGood luck!!
627956
Let him know you are interested, but don't rush to him.  Even if you like him, you need to know how he feels about you.  That's the key to long-term relationship.
371149
I think you should just stay as friends and see what progresses from there.  If you and he were meant to be a couple, it will happen, but hopefully not for another few years!  In the meantime, have fun, talk about stuff, confide in each other and get a great friendship going.  You will always have that!
110096
Your question leave's me to believe your on a rocky road, very unstable. You have all the fact's, your the only one who can make the move's, stay or go, that is the question. From the way you phrased it, I would only think, maybe, you should move on. But, you only know how much love for this guy is in your heart. I truly wish you the best in your decission... Dr Checko... Nickname)
72087
tell him u like him.. why wait.. lifes short go for it.. if it does'nt work out you will get over it.. trust me..dont wait
671707
it's just dating...you're single now...no harm.  Don't make any commitments until you know what you want this time...make no mistakes again...be sure he knows that as well
1098211
He seems to like you, but you better not play hard to get or any mindgames - sounds like he has other options.  If you want him, you'd better jump.
207167
Bsically, this guy is completley abusing your feelings for him. He wants a no strings attached relationship because this means he can do whatever he wants, whenever he wants and he does not have to make any real effort with you or show you any commitment. He just wants a bit of fun. Now if you're ok with this, theres nothing worng with it but as you have taken time to come on here and ask this question, I'm guessing your feelings for this guy are pretty strong and that you wouldn't be ok with that kind of situation. If you really like him, this will end in tears. You must respect yourself and realise that you deserve much more than his.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
1137505
stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass
953293
Play it cool and he will probably come a calling. Sounds to me he likes you but does not want to admit it. Act like you dont care one way or another and see what happens.
1033654
If you like dating him.  Date him.  Perhaps he has morals and doesn't want to use you.  Or maybe you should just move on to the next guy.  \nIt sounds like you've been around and It sounds like you are going to hurt this fellow.  Better to end it now before he falls in love with you if he hasn't already.