oh man i like this boy but i am a tomboy i don't know what boys like from girls what should i do ??????????
352111
You dont need to change, guys will like u just the way you are. I think that girls who say that guys prefer more girly girls are stupid. Girls that are used to hanging out with guys are usually the ones that are better at flirting, communicating, and having a good time. Guys dont want a girl whos all prissy and stuckup.
109570
hey..i'm a boy..but anyways, i personally do that (act like i dont like them when i do) because of exactly what you say!!! if i SHOW her i like her, then she wont like me, but if i PRETEND i dont like her, then she'll like me...see the problem we GUYS have to deal with??
519410
Well,\nWhat you don't know is that most young boys will fall head over heels for you if you just give them a long look in the eyes.\nGirls are usually so much more mature then boys.\nMost boys like any and all girls that give them a smile.\nThey are not as selective as girls.\nAt your age it might be better to just be friends with a large group of people that you are comfortable.\nYou will know when a boy likes you, perhaps, even before he does!\nGo slow. Have fun. Respect yourself. Learn who you are and what you want. Never settle.\nLook for a boy that puts you and your needs first.
710680
maybe this boy likes you because youre, yourself! dont change a thing for anyone but yourself sweetie!\n\nP.S.  DONT EVER BE DESPERATE! ALL YOU EVER NEED IS YOURSELF< DONT FORGET THAT!!!!!!!!!!!
283096
Will and Grace much?  \n\n: )\n\nAnyway, there is not much you can do.  If your friend likes boys and you are not one.......the best thing to do is just be his friend and don't try to make it anything else.
1177815
just be yourself...honestly...you can dress differently and all that crap...but if you see a guy you like just hit on him..because guys feel the same way about girls...every feeling you have alot of guys feel the exact same way...girls are confusing..I cant tell if she likes me...except guys have to buckle down and get some confidence or else they wont ever get anything...just be yourself...because you can dress differently and all that..but all that does is attract certain kinds of attention that you probably dont even want..and the guys...I know you definitely dont want.
60129
Be cooll try make relation with a boy in order to be sure of yourself
608662
It sounds like this boy likes you as well but he may be very shy - so one of you is going to have to break the ice and say hello.  Try to see this boy when he isn't around his friends and start talking to him - find out his name if you don't know it, and what things he enjoys doing - and see if you have common interests.\n\nGood Luck!
572876
No, you'll be fine.  The trouble is, boys of that age are still fairly immature.  They need time to get to know your personality.  Relax and don't try to be what you aren't.  It will happen, although not as soon as you'd like, maybe.  It's worth the wait.
980276
i think guys are just like that. you can't get a guy to like you for who you are but guys will sure like a girl that has what they have. i don't think you should waste your time if you want a guy to like you for who you are and not for what you have. it seems like they're a  player so i don't think you should impress them or change your attitude at all.
702524
If You Really Like the Boy and He treats you like a Queen..Otherwise you are better off being a Self Supporting Strong Independent Lady Who can Take care of Things for Herself!(You Actualy Need to Be That Boyfriend Or Not!)
465307
I'm sort of gay ..i like gay men but I'm a girl
684783
Why do you really like him? If its because you just find him hot and he seems really cool, well its best you find out what he is really like before you take any steps forward. Hang out with hi, see how he talks to other people..this way you can see if he treats you more special or any different. Be confident and present yourself as you, now who he might like..that way you know he likes you for who you are, not who he imagines you to be..keep in mind boys are verry verrry simple, its us girls that complicate things :)\n\nhow do you tell him? hang around him more. listen intently when he talks, make physical contact but not too directly (touch his shoulder, lean on him) and always make eye contact. if you want to tell him directly don't do it in a situation where there are a lot of people. If he doesn't like you he may react and you don't want to be embarassed :) good luck girl!
467329
Gurl I'm in tha 7th grade 2! So take advice 4m sum-1 yo own age! Don't do thingz just cuz yo boy likez 2 do them ! If he likez u then he wouldn't care if u sk8ed w/ him! I don't do thingz my boy duz he duz thingz I like 2 do butt I tell him that he don't have 2 it! About yo boyz friendz u souldn't give a flip if they like u or not as long as yo man likez and yo real friendz like u then u r doin' ok!!!!
583075
Simple question...simple answer. Be yourself. One day the guy you like will like you back. If a boy judges you before even getting to know you...hes not worth your time. He is only looking for status and arm candy...and not a good relationship. \nbest of luck
169882
Either this boy is shy, or his "friend" made it up.\n\nIf you don't like this boy at all, then just smile and say, "Thanks." and walk away.\n\nIf you also find him cute and want to know for sure, then the best thing to do is smile and tell his friend to send him over. Then ask him nicely (be gentle, he's shy remember?) what did he sent his friend to tell you. If he ask you out then it's all good, else if he's still too shy to do anything then forget him and find somebody more fun. If his friend made it all up then you will also know for sure.\n\nGood luck :)
514491
flirt wit him more and just let him kno that you like him  so he can ask you out cuz its not right for a girl to ask a boy out. so wait until he ask u out