Why do people break heart when they always break their own? is love pretty is it from your soul?
343678
Life is not a fairy tale. Just because you love someone doesnt meant you should stay with them. If one is not happy in a relationship it needs to end before it gets worse. My heart broke to break up with my ex girlfriend but it just WASN'T going to work out. Love is NOT enough. \n\nLove from the soul? Yes.
565322
All your heart really does is pump blood through your body.  Your emotions are caused by electrical impulses and chemicals in your brain.  What I still don't understand though, is why when somebody you love really hurts you, it really does hurt in your heart/chest for no apparent reason.
230441
no only as for long as its meant to be, some love starts from just a look while others take time to grow. Both are  very vulnerable the slightest breeze could destroy  even the strongest love. Love's is to unpredictable to say any thing definitive about it . LOVE IS THE CAUSE OF HAPPINESS AND SADNESS. Love is ever thing it last as long as beauty exists
226052
Yes, they can.  It's one of those strange things that only adults seem to understand.  Even then only to a certain point.  Many of us hate someone but love them at the same time.  For example in my own way I will always love my ex, he was the first real love of my life and in my own way I will always love him.  But, on the other hand, I hate his guts for what he did to me, how he treated me, what he put me through, etc.  It's strange, like eating chocolate on broccoli, but it is a common things.
534873
Sorry. There is no easy answer for this one. Breaking up is hard. No matter what age you are,it hurts. There is very seldom a time that a break-up happens and both people want the relationship to end. Someone almost always gets hurt. This time that someone is you. \nIt will take time to heal your broken heart,but I'm sure that you will be a stronger person after you make it through this. Good luck to you. Dry your eyes and go have fun tonight and forget about him for a little while.
178863
Sometimes when people think they 'really love' someone whose actions hurt them (his breaking up with her, his distance and his silence) they are actually desperate to love and be loved, but the person they are focusing on is not "the one".  Instead, the one being hurt doesn't feel like they can survive alone, and they don't trust that they will find the true "one" in time to not die of a broken heart.  It's hard to make the decision to be alone when you feel this way, but it's the only way to open the door to true love, and it extends your misery until the day you decide to take the leap and risk being sad for a while.
961697
I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
776003
People are made to love.  once you fall in love you find that you were always incomplete.  Not in the way that you know you can't do wonderful things if your single but in the way that once you have someone your able to be more you then ever before because you know there is someone who loves you for who you are so it doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks.
617432
Hmm . . thats a good question \n\nThe answer is that the Love goes no way . . . Its just transformed . . . into hate most of the times. \n\nPeople or mates with broken hearts tend to keep that love in them for a certain period of time. Some take more time and some take less (YES i am talking about the Guys here) \n\nGals in most cases are devastated, thats if they didnt make a MAJOR SCREW (by that i mean like get drunk and sleep with a good frnd of his . . i mean cmmon . . who would belive that story if it has happened to u 2 or 3 times already) . . \n\nGuys, well not all of them forget so easily . . but most of them do. . others sit and analyze the situation . . (like myself) Tries to Make UP . . I mean if he or She Seriously Loves the Other . . \n\nAnyway . . you've got your Answer. . . \n\nAnd just so that u know . . (Im not female and im a Male) lol  . . (No Seriously I aint Kiddin. . I m a male)
390040
maybe she just fell out of love with you.it is still pretty terriable that she did that to you i don't understand how people can do that to each other its so sad and painfull for the person your breaking it off with why do people have to be so crule?!
956452
There is real love. I have been attached to or dependent on  people that I didn't necessarily love. I have called these experiences love out of desperation, but I have also felt true love for others. I just haven't often had it returned. I've had people swear that they did love me, but it was more need than anything--you can tell who does and does not love you by refusing to be a door mat. The ones who remain love you.
395586
I have forgiven myself for the worst hurt and pain I have ever given to myself. I did this and know how it worked for me. So I will share it with you because I believe that personal experience is the best teacher for others.\n\nI tried to kill myself when I was 19. The feeling within is the worst and knowing me, I did not want to carry this around in my body. It is like a toxin. I wanted it out as soon as possible, so one day not too long after that, I think maybe a month. I just had a quiet moment with myself and begun an very loving and wise inner dialogue with myself.\n\nI just told myself that she knows who she truly is and that just because I did this, it did not mean that is who I truly am. I just told myself that I am human, and that I am not perfect. That it is okay to make mistakes we did not know any better at the time. And to just learn from it, and that I am as worthy as I could ever be with my fullest potential. I just loved myself unconditionally with full acceptance and forgiveness. And bingo, I healed quickly from that. Now I can talk about it and feel nothing bad about it. I only look on it as just a trip over the wire type of thing.\n\nLearn that a behavior itself does not make who you are as a whole. You are human. You are not perfect, none of us here are! You already learnt your mistake, don't beat up yourself from that. It is not going to prevent you from being your fullest, true and most beautiful and loving self. The behavior does not prohibit you from being that!\n\nYou are the only person that can make you who you want to be. All the love is right there for you inside, give it to yourself.
87178
Because you love someone does not mean you are a fool. Love is the greatest thing in life. You may have rough times while in love or get a broken heart, but if you seriously think about it, it was worth it, because no matter what nothing can change the fact that the two of you, together, had a moment in time that was just yours.
895151
I agree with you. People tend to believe that the things that drive them crazy about the other will change or try and make them change once they're in a relationship.  Once they realize it doesn't get any better they move on feeling defeated. If they would have listened to their mind instead of their heart it would have told them the outcome and saved them a lot of pain.
426095
The point is most of us don't know we are in love or we  understand it too late! The reason for getting heart-broken is that we get used to some one so much and for such a long time that it's so hard to imagine life without that person. I always relate this to losing some one because of death.I believe that both sutuations are the same. We feel lost without that beloved person and it's hard to accept you won't hear the voice, you won't see the face or you won't see that person any more. The duration depends totally on you. You will eventually forget it but it's easier if you find some hobby or meet new people and totally be willing to forget.
1003892
It is two out of the three.  We all, well almost all, want to have someone to love.  And it is a feeling we have that we have no control over.  How many times have you looked back after a breakup and heartache and you are miserable and want the person back and say to yourself, "I wish I could just stop loving them".  Unfortunately, we can't choose what our hearts want, otherwise we would choose to not want them, and there would be no such thing as being heart broken.
227349
I think not coz being brokenhearted once is enough. If a person really loves me, he would never ever do something that could broke my heart. why reconnect when there tons of other people out there thats far more better