How can I like sex better?  I love my boyfriend a lot and I'm really attracted to him, but I don't like sex.
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You obviously haven't had good sex. Just because your boyfriend likes it, doesn't mean he's any good at it.\n\nWithhold sex until he learns how to please you better and then you will enjoy it more.\nAnd make sure that you're into it before you proceed - if you're not turned on or aroused, it will not bring you pleasure. There is surely something ot be said for foreplay.
531616
Openly talk about this with him, what kind of relationship do you have if you can't talk about sex, if you both can't talk about it then one or both of you aren't ready for it.  If he wants to wait, learn to masturbate.  If you aren't happy after this, dump him, why waste your time in a relationship if you aren't happy with it.
211319
i totally agree with you. people think that you have to have sex if you are in a relationship, but it's not true. i was with a guy for almost three years and we never had sex. im proud of myself for that because i proved to myself and other people that you can be in a relationship and stay together without having sex. Good Luck!
414193
If your boyfriend is used to having sex with you, and you stop giving him sex, he will probably leave.  Maybe you should try asking him out on dates since he isn't doing it, or just breakup since you don't seem very happy.  Maybe the 3rd time will be the charm.  (It took me 5 tries to find the right one)
152137
Well my best suggestion to you is to cut back on the sex and definitly cuddle more and be more romantic. If you get the urge too bad go to the restroom and masterbat to relieve yourself. Being a woman myself, I know how it feels to think that all a man wants from me is sex but the longer you two are together then she will eventually realize you love her(if you do) and sex isn't ALL you want
459540
Are you overworked, kids, school or Stress? Maybe, your significant other can help you more with your responsibilities? In order to be intimate you have to be comfortable in the other aspects of your life. Talk to him and explain everything that going on in your life.  Tell him when your ready if he can be patient he'll know! Explain that sex will be more passionate etc when your not pressured, that way it wanted and you both can enjoy.
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Maybe it's not that he doesn't LIKE it, maybe he CAN'T have sex that often.  Some men can't, it could be a medical condition.  Just talk to him about it.  Let him know that you have needs.  If he can't have sex maybe he would be willing to stimulate and pleasure you some other way.  Communication is very important though.  Let him know how much you desire him and wanna be with him.  Sometimes guys gotta hear that stuff too!
1093276
Everyone has different likes and different moods.  Sometimes I like intimate and romantic other times I like wild and kinky.  Just have to learn what your partner enjoys and hopefully you like the same thing.
503295
Well if he wants to have sex with you, he might get kinda fed up eventually, dont you think? Why do you want to keep him but not have sex with him. Sex is part of love. Is he a potential lover or just your sugar daddy or something?
113292
man, that's not good. i think your relationship is not called LOVE. it is called SEXUAL DESIRE....
331622
Depends, if I'm single then I don't really care about sex except occassionally.\n\nIf there is a guy I really like (like my bf now) then I like to have sex often.  It's always better with someone you love or at least like.
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Hello;\n  The best advice I can give is to explain to him how much you care and tell him all the things you admire about him. Then explain that you would like more out of your relationship than just sex. Then see how he reacts. If he is agreeable, then you can relax and enjoy new avenues of your relationship. If he still insists on having sex as his main concern, then you need to look at yourself and decide if you want to be used in that way.
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when you two do have sex...do you orgasm...\nif the answere is NO...that explaines the LOW drive...why do something if there is NO pleasure in it for you...\n\njust a thought....\n\nmaybe toys can help..\nthe thought of sex with NO toy is a turn off for me...means i go without and he gets pleasured...sucks big time...
105896
Personally I could do it if I HAD to. Of course most of us prefer sex over not having it but i think that if we were already in a relationship and i loved this person then we could find other ways to be intimate with eachother! Its kind of cute in a way!
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There's nothing wrong with you.He says he's attracted to you and you do have sex,just not that often.If it bothers you I'd ask him whats going on.Tell him his behavior makes no sense to you, it makes you feel insecure and you need to know why he does this.I'm sure the two of you can work it out..good luck!
1057272
i have had a boyfriend for two years now and were both 18 and we decided to not have sex because we both feels its very pointless. we just have too much oral sex instead!! ^_^
501759
I think your man has issues...most of all, it sounds as if he is very insecure about his sexual performance.\n\nOften, when there are problems with sex, there are corresponding problems elsewhere in the relationship. \n\nI would want to ask you, are you happy with your relationship in other ways? If sex if the only area of your relationship that you are not satisfied with, then yes, it is worth giving him another chance. When you talk to him, it will help if you are very reassuring to him. Tell him the two of you are in this together and you would like to help him to work it out.\n\nIf there are other areas in the relationship that aren't working, I would say that you seriously need to consider leaving. Sex is not the most important part of a loving relationship. But if you feel that something is missing, you will be unhappy unless you resolve it one way or another. And that won't help you or your man.\n\nHope this helps and wishing you good luck.