Have you ever found  love or hate in your life?
338894
love /hate yes i deal with it every day... it suxs... but its a reflexing of the pass or how you are doing really.. No one can make you feel a certain way... you are your own person. kindness is the best thing to do.
985816
I'll be honest. The love is there for my dad, but he just was never there for me emotionally. Sure, money and house and food and all of that stuff, but he was never there when I made that A or when I was valedictorian in 6th grade... But then again, that makes me think of myself because I was the one who pushed him away.\nWell, anyway, I love my mom to pieces even though I've never told her that. She's a woman, so she understands a few of my views-- but not all. She's more empathetic, understanding, funnier, more accepting of love, and definitely nicer. \nShe sometimes wonders if I hate my dad, but I don't hate anybody so... But it is pretty damn  hard to love somebody who doesn't want to be loved.
964888
I went through a phase where I had to tell everyone how much they meant to me - it's second nature - I don't get wishy washy just truthful - and it doesn't happen to often. \n\nBasically one day i got an email from a colleague talking about how we must take the opportunity to show our love even if they get on our nerves all the time.   There are people out there who lose loved ones and will never get that chance again.  I felt weird but I knew I had to do it too and I did - I was surprised that my family didn't tell me to pull myself together - rather they showed love back.
342746
Your question is much more interesting and 'deep' than most people on this site will appreciate.\n\nAny time I feel 'hate' towards someone else, I must be feeling hate for myself.  This is based on the principle that I cannot 'see in someone else' a quality that I do not also have.  So, if I see a quality or characteristic in someone else that I hate, to be able to 'see it', I too must have that quality.  (In chemistry this principle is known as 'like dissolves like').\n\nFor example:  I might say: "I hate that guy, he is such a slob".  I too must be a slob in some aspect of my life to be able to 'see it' in others.\n\nThe opposite to all of this is 'love'.  If I say: "I love his courage", I too must have courage in some aspect of my life to be able to appreciate and 'love' it in someone else.  So, to 'love' another, I must first be able to love myself.\n\nBest wishes and thanks for an interesting question.
264631
No, but I have been in love with three people at the same time.\n\nMe, myself and I.\n\nha ha \n\nSorry, bad joke I know.  I will take care of it - hitting self repeatedly over the head with baseball bat.
151696
Very thin line between love and hate, and believe me they are close soul-mates. I've loved someone for years, and hate that same person the exact time frame.  Just make sure you inform this person how much you love him/her every day, every minute of each waking hour.
209318
See, both of which involve an emotional roller coaster.  Love and Hate both require you to get sucked into a vortex of sin and degredation.  Not true however, with animals...They are fine to love.  Have a good day!
17450
Kiara, no.  You are not alone in your feeling.  But may I make a suggestion?\n\nI grew up in a family where people routinely stabbed each other in the back.  It was a very unhappy place, and for most of our lives, certain people within the family came to resent others....this has lasted a lifetime in some instances.\n\nBut you have a choice to make, and let me tell you how I made mine; I came to know the love of Jesus Christ.  So no longer is my life about, who did what to me.  My life is about how to learn to love others unconditionally, as God loves me.\n\nYou have a choice to make too; which end of the pencil do you wish to use in your life?  The one that is continally writing down the offenses people give you...or the one that is continually erasing offenses, always forgiving, showing kindness with no expectation of return?  I can tell you one thing for sure; the second choice above will bring a life of peace and fulfillment; the first a life of bitterness and resentment.  The choice is yours to make.
95476
i have never .. \nand my ex husband wasnt anything like you just described !!\npoor fella . i hope you find a good one next time
887955
I think it's possible, though I've only experienced love once, and it wasn't that kind. I've always held onto hopes of finding a love like that, and I've seen some friends who appear to have that type, though in the end, everything seems to end.
828382
I don't agree with this statement, I can hate someone without ever having loved them.Actually I do it quite often.
952603
I cannot hate people, but I do hate some of things people do..especially to each other.  It is so much easier to love.  Hate burns a lot of energy.
345666
Beacuse you're so hateful?
989952
I don't think so.  Both are very intense emotions.  Love is very positve wishing only good to the one who is loved.  Hate is very negative wishing only bad to the one who is hated.  Hate is very destructive to the hater.  Love is very good for the lover.
772969
Yes, I did regret it.\n\nI think sometimes I wanted to be in love so badly that I was in love with love.\n\nAlso, I think, looking back on it, I did not really love him even though I wanted to. Then I felt I had to be honest and tell him that I did not love him. This made me feel bad because I felt like I was a liar (even though I wasn't). Also, I felt like a fool - retracting what I said - like as if I didn't know my own mind and as if I was so mixed up and confused, I don't know what love is.
124959
Yes i did and I think everyone has one, now i dont mean the sickening..sappy..lovey dovey crap...but the one that knows you. knows your soul, that 1 person that you let completely in...the one you can tell anything & everything too...regardless of how embarrassing or stupid it is...the one that knows your feelings & moods from a single look or word and can change it all by a single look or word...the one person that has the power to hurt you no matter what you may tell yourself...the one person that you love and hate as much as you love and hate yourself..the one that you would gladly give your life up for if it meant that the other would have one moment of true happiness & peace. \nThats what a soul mate is to me. It doesnt have to be a lover or the person your in love with. It can be your mother, a sibling, the person that lives down the street, the person that lives a million miles away or the person you've known for years and cant get rid of. If your lucky and your paying attention you'll find that person and recognize them for who they are. I did and yes it was online and no we are not "in" love.
513012
no , but i felt in love once whit a girl which was still a cherry . does that count?.\n:p