Husbands and significant others please answer honestly...?
336457
Use you womanly power of seduction Woman!
403035
Sex is very important in mine and my husbands relationship . I will be honest and say for two weeks we have not had sex or talked much about anything and we always had talked before . After my husband went to  work today I emailed him and asked him what was going on . He says he's been tired and under a lot of stress at work and has a lot of stress because his brother lost his kids . I have been so sad the past week just because I didn't feel loved or wanted . After he talked to me about what was going on I felt a lot better but sex helps people feel more loved and wanted . To me sex and talking is a big part of a relationship .\n\nAngel
334541
I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
333056
my husband asked me that. i just expected him to say something snide or that I was doing something silly. and answering is like sharing a little part of yourself. i did show him my answer and now he is answering questions. he saw i wasn't being sneaky after all. In fact i was telling someone what it was like for me to fall in love with my husband. It actually made him a happy man.
11555
Honesty is the best policy. Tell your spouse how you are feeling and what has been going through your mind. Then go in together and get some good marital counseling. Oh, and getting rid of the computer until the health of your marriage recovers is indeed a good idea.
1099402
I dont know if its "ideal" but sure is helpful. me and my boss talk about our problems or issues with our spouses and sometimes we find ways to make things work or fix this or that. I help him to understand more about his wife and he helps me to understand more about my husband's behavior. sometimes it's good to have this kind of conversations with someone that has a serious relationship just like you. I wouldnt take advice from someone who wasnt married or living with the bf/gf.
1138896
I would pick QUALITY over QUANTITY anyday!!! But since you asked about quantity, it varies from week to week depending on what life decides to throw at us. WE have been married for 5 years and have 7 kids. We average 3-4 times a week...some weeks its everyday..and some weeks its once.
224649
Well I would first say that you have to communicate without all the loud talking of each other and most of all you have to be understanding because you know everyone is different in their own way, so you have to understand them and except them for them just as they would love you for you. An you both have to sacrifice sometimes to keep each other happy. In the end you'll both be getting what you want. Being honest is very important as well. You don't want to here something from another person about your spouse, so tell them first so they wont never be surprised and get upset.
296459
Sometimes, I have to tell my husband about the things I am doing for him (or not doing to him).  Sometimes he has to do the same for me.  \n\nI know, in an ideal world that if you do the right thing, everything else will just fall into place, but that has not been my experience.  We are human, and as such, we are sometimes completely self-absorbed. When we are in such a state, we will never see the kind actions of our spouse, no matter how wonderful they are.\n\nGently point out to your husband the things that you do out of love.  My husband and I reached a turning point in our marriage when I finally stood up and said "I AM a good wife, and here is why..."  It made him look at me in a completely different way.  He began to see things he had overlooked before, and consequently, began to appreciate me more.
705432
Being a military wife, yes, it's hard when my husband is deployed for long periods but I have gotten used to it.  I have my own job, activities and friends to bide my time with while he is away.  I knew what I was getting into when we got married and I'm sticking with it.
794898
wow!  I have been married to my husband for 9 years this January.  We have overcome some horrible conditions.  I do not want to go into detail here online.  However, I love my husband despite the things we have been thru.  Infidelity was not one of the issues, but we were involuntarily separated for 3yrs 8 mos.  We have been thru things with our ex's...just about anything that could go wrong has...Now, we are best friends and know each other inside and out.  Trauma brought us closer...it is often not that way in marriages.  We're blessed that way..I had to spend Thanksgiving alone again this year...but we will get thru this.  So, the answer is yes.  Despite everything and everyone, if you want to overcome, you will.
501340
I actually said the same thing about my husband.  Around me he is totally different then when he is with his friends.  I finally just asked my husband what the deal was.  He looked at my puzzled, and replied that of course he acts differently around me.  I couldn't understand it.  He told me that the way he acts with me is how he wants me to see him.  The way he loves me.  The way he acts with his friends is just being one of the guys.   I told him that he cusses, drinks when he's with his friends but not around me.  He said he respected me to much to act that way with me.  Its a guy thing.  I've learned to live with it.
537547
I have had to go out of town for a few days leaving the kids with my husband.  He thought he could do it just fine.  When I came home he just hugged me and said "how in the hell do you do it??"  I just laughed at him.  he never took my job for granted again.  Now when he gets home he cooks and lets me sit and relax because he knows I am exhausted.\n\nSo to answer your question, I say go out of town for a few days and see what he says when you get home.  This is something that they cant understand till they are in your shoes.
282155
do you----take --- as your lawfully wedded wife/husband, now repeat after me .  I _____ do take ____ to love honor and cherish  for richer for poorer In sickness and in health, forsaking all others until death do us part.  Its been 10 years but I believe  I atleast got most of it right.
975211
I think people should have completely open relationships with their partners - I do, there is nothing I would not do around my fiance. I do know some women that will not do certain "personal" things around their husbands and they have been married 15 - 20 years. Personal being like go to the bathroom or something of that nature.
598142
OKAY GIRL, OVER SHARE!!!! I MEAN REALLY.  OKAY, NO.  BUT EVEN IF HE WOULD, SWEETIE THAT WOULD SERIOUSLY STAY BETWEEN US.  HOWEVER, IF YOU'RE LIKE FREAKED OUT ABOUT IT AND YOU WANT TO PLEASE HIM, BUT YOU'RE NOT SURE IF THAT'S JUST DISGUSTING, ALL I GOTTA SAY IS TO EACH THEIR OWN.\n\nYOU DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO AND WHAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE DOING.  IF YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE, THEN YOU LET YOUR HUSBAND KNOW THAT YOU AIN'T GONNA GET DOWN LIKE THAT YOU HEAR?  YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO SH*T YOU DON'T WANT TO, I DON'T CARE IF YOU'RE MARRIED!
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I want my husband to be open and honest with me especially when things like that happened. It is where trust could grow more and more. Marriage, if not guarded by both couples, could be in danger with innocent acts like that. You might say that there is no wrong with that but most of the times, worse things started in little things. Be honest and open with your wife. Open communication could help to maintain a healthy marriage.\nOne more thing I would like to add. Are you and your wife are best friends too? If not yet, better make each other best of friends to whom you could tell your secrets, open your ideas and feelings, and share your daily experiences...