my gf keep asking me about marrieage? what should i do?
354074
simply forget that gf
1150650
It's best for you to be a little honest and ask for what you want...you might be ok with it now...but if it keeps up you might get a bit resentful about it. And if you don't tell her, she might not even know! She might think that you are fine the way things are cause you're not saying anything...most important thing I've learned about relationships...gotta ask for what you want...your partner is not a mind reader!
230073
dude, you can't ask advice about how to propose!!  if you know the girl well enough to marry her, you need to figure it out on your own.  make it creative.  you don't want her to ask you how you thought up your proposal and have to say 'oh i asked on yahoo answers'  \nbest of luck man\nhope she says yes
872968
if you are quiet serious for marriage with her then plz go a head and take very good care of her self.\nregards
206374
Ok first it sounds like you are too young to be proposing.  How old are you?  It sounds like you need to date before trying to get married... which is what a proposal is.  Just take it easy and talk to her.  If she wont talk to you then find someone else... but dont propose right away!  get to know them really good first.  Just date and have fun.  You will know when you have found the right person.
551789
What you are getting married, I just looked at your questions, stuff about how do i get a girl? My girlfriend this, my girlfriend that, and spanking (you love spanking)\n\nDOn't you think if your wife saw this she would have a heart attack and not marry you.
991908
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
189658
Just because she asks for space doesn't mean its over, she just has to find peace with her insights about you. you should still call her and go see her and love her. maybe even going to see a marriage council may help. and yes they do offer help to engaged couples. to make her more at ease about you, invite her out with you and your friends and anything she needs to find peace. but still give her her space. If all else fails and problems seem to get worse, maybe it wasn't meant to be babe. all will work out in the end and good luck in your relationship, you deserve a good lady by your side!!! :P
828024
maybe you should sit down and talk with her and ask her how she feels if you assume to much it could come off as an insult if you dont assume enough you will always wonder for the simple fact that you are married could be the reason that she is not coming straight out with you COMMUNICATION!!!
87289
to her, you are still her baby, and she only wants what is best.trust me, i have been there.sometimes, though, they are right.they see things about us and the people we are with, that we dont see.take her advice to heart, but make your own decisions.kindly let her know that you appreciate her love for you, but that you have to make yourself happy, and make your own mistakes.
101827
Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
438375
If you are postponing proposing I'd say you aren't yet ready to take the step of getting married. It takes a lot of courage to admit that. It doesn't mean you don't love her. I imagine you do love her. You just aren't ready to take the step of getting engaged. If she's truly ready and you are not, then you need to talk about it. You may have to set her free if you don't think you'll be ready for a long, long time. You both need to be honest with each other about what you want out of this relationship and act accordingly.\n\nAlso, talk to God. Pour your heart out to Him. Ask Him if marriage with this woman is what He wants you to do with your life. Listen with all your heart and soul for His loving guidance. God Bless.
1177494
You can ask her a general question, like what does she think of the idea, without suggesting you want to do it.  You can also ask her first if she's ever thought about sex with a chick.  Her answers will tell you whether or not you should ask her.   \n\nI will say though, if you really love her, don't do it.  Introducing a third party into a relationship is asking for trouble.  Most open relationships don't last.  \n\nNow what are you going to do if she likes the idea but wants to do it with two guys instead of two girls?  You open the can of worms, you may get an answer you're not expecting!   And fair's fair...if you get your wish, she's entitled to hers!
247218
If you are wanting to ask her to marry you - do it romantically and in a unique way!  Find out what her dreams and fantasies are!  Try to play out one of her fantasies! \n\nHere are some ideas that are out there on the web:\nhttp://scripts.lovingyou.com/mdb/search.cgi?mdb=ideas&cat=proposal\nhttp://www.diamondhelpers.com/loveandlife/romanticideas/engagement-ideas.shtml\nhttp://www.love-sessions.com/more_proposals.htm\nhttp://marriage.about.com/cs/proposals/a/proposalideas.htm
670435
Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.
809129
From your other questions I think this relationship may be over and she does not want to give up walking all over you because you tolerate it. Stop tolerating her treating you like this.  If she truly wants a marriage then tell her that you both need to work on it.  Otherwise you need to get out and start living your life.  I think counseling would be a good choice for both of you.  Good luck
160264
First of all, how long have you been together?  If you have been together for a year or better there is no need to ask that since she has already stuck by you for that long.  If you have been dating for a few months then it is still early enough in the relationship to ask her where she thinks she wants to go with the relationship.  I say just be forward and ask her.