What's better for the world ? Sex inside or outside marriages?
347516
With Aids, the only alternative is sex inside of marriage. \n\nIf people would make better decisions on their life partners and not just act on lust ( created by sex outside of marriage) and then determine within themselves to make it work, honor their vows, stay faithful (sex inside of marriage), then we might see a dedcline of divorce and dysfuctional families.\n\nSo sex inside marriage is the only answer for the chaos.
1063158
Sex in marriage is a perk.... and no matter what eventually it will wane between two who are together for a long time.... \n Sex when someone is ill can be very difficult for both partners and sometimes it is in the best interest of both to just stop doing it. Not that they are not intimate, there is so much more to marriage... we have been together for 20 years now and my illness has made this impossible for the last year. My husband loves me enough to have given that part of his life up. Sad to say because that fun is gone but  there is always other stuff....
1026646
I think if you marry without love you are cheating yourself and your spouse. It is not fair to either of you. Marriage is not about who your parents think is best for you. Marriage is about love, trust, honesty, lust...all that good stuff. Sure you can marry someone you don't love, but you would never know how beautiful life can be when you have someone you love.
125452
AFTER you get married.  Life gets way too complicated if you do it before marriage.  It saves you from a lot of heart ache too.  You and your spouse will be glad you waited, then you won't have to worry about diseases, pre marital pregnancy, past lovers, etc.
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
1157502
Sex was "more and better" after marriage. But then, there came the kids. We obviously couldn't have sex as often when the kids were young. They required too much attention and at all hours of the night. Now, the children are older, and we have a little more time to ourselves. Both of us work, but we often actually schedule time for our lovemaking because we enjoy it so much. After all these years of marriage, we are still finding new ways to please each other, and different methods of enhancing the acts that we already enjoy. The sex is definitely better. Not as frequent, but better. I'd love to have sex with her everyday like before we were married or before we had kids. However, the anticipation adds to the excitement.
38821
I've been married and single both...and while there are advantages to both, I'd choose married. (but next time to someone I know better!)\n\nIf you're not afraid of really hard work, marriage would be better. It takes work every single day, though.
529077
One phrase comes to my mind with your question:\n"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"\nSex is defiantly rarely valued these days. I wish I realized its value earlier than when I did.\n\nJust saw your add-ins. That's a tuff one. I think sex is alright before marriage, so long as it's done for the RIGHT reasons, and so long as your not a "hoe" or walking STD factory. If you ask me, way too many people are having WAY to many partners, and that goes back to my original message about the lack of value for sex.
244046
No its not!!! Because the bottom line that once you marry the sex life becomes less and less. It may not be right away that this happens but its true it does happen. When you are thinking of marriage you should make sure that this person is the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Marriage is about uniting as ONE!Its my opinion that communication would be the most important thing in a marriage up under have Jesus at the roots of the marriage! Sex does play a role in a marriage because  two people who are married feel the most connected when they are making love as the should but its not the most important thing. Marriage includes making decisions together, compassion, understanding, just letting the other one know that you are there for them no matter what, friendship.  So have fun with your SEX but remember marriage is more that just SEX if you marry for this reason then you are going to end up unhappy and wanting out! Truth of the matter, things change so will the sex life.Good Luck to you!
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
424708
God made sex a sacred thing meant to be only for married couples, plus I hear that it's better when you're married. No pressure or worries about babies or anything else you might not be ready for...
400390
Yes, because standards in today's society are not emphasizing the fact that you should be married to have sex. Everything is much more free-spirited, and do whatever you want kind of attitudes.
345028
Man, I thought you were going to say marijuana before I read the rest of marriage. Uh, no. Marriage is because of love. Not sex. People don't get married just to have sex.
610951
I've had "better than sex cake."  I have to say, it's wildly overrated.  \n\nNot all sex is that great, but when it's in its proper relationship (marriage) and it's mutually satisfying - such that your very souls have connected, there is nothing better.
884386
Sex is part of a healthy marriage. It is important that a wife makes her husband happy and a husband makes his wife happy. If you start to lose your sex life, you might look for sex other places and lose your marriage.
764993
It depends on how much later.\n\nThe couple should be married in the Church before enjoying conjugal bliss (having sex).\n\nWith love in Christ.
1071860
sex is sex...but i would wait till i was married