how to change an introvert person to become extrovert?
344789
Very strange, I was discussing a girl with a friend earlier tonight. She is extremely shy and it's difficult for me to understand what she's thinking half of the time. I used to be introverted and then had a major incident and came out extroverted. I asked a psychologist if it was possible to change in that fashion. She replied "Yes, people may change with time. However it usually happens because of some life changing event". Good luck.
619376
outgoing. opposite of introverted which is me ;)
3932
Make her comfortable and let her know that she can be herself, that she doesn't have to change to be someone she is not, for you.  Turn conversations in her direction and ask her basic questions that she won't feel weird about answering.  Most likely she will ask you the same question and then you will have the opprotunity to show her who you are too. Good Luck!
377203
Do self pep talks at home. Use a mirror. Say hi to people.\nSmile. break the ice by asking questions like do you have the time?or comment on something that you like about them-clothing,hair,eyes,etc... Make it a goal to greet/meet someone different everyday. You can do it!!!
1072854
There are different types of personalities.  Some of us extroverts really don't "get" needing time alone because we just don't have that "programmed" into us for lack of better phrasing.\n\nYou may want to try some communication exercises within your relationship to help with expressing more clearly your needs.  Eventually after much trying and communicating either she will understand that you are different from her or she won't.\n\nGood luck to you.
19071
Some people just change and you can't help that.  try to talk to her if it's a problem that can or needs to be dealt with.  i'm sorry though, and good luck
731680
I've always been a type A personality which could often make for an interesting dilemma for an introverted trait.  Now, I'm still A but I like to slide into B and hang out a lot more.  Good question & thanks for asking!  :)
234670
I'm not sure I understand your question ... do you mean quiet person?  If so, try to remember that everyone experiences nervousness at some time or other.  Perhaps the person you are talking to is just as nervous as you.  Try to think peaceful thoughts and maybe learn meditation or yoga to relax you.  Excercise is also a good form of relaxation -- it releases nervous energies.\n\nGood Luck and Relax!  Take life as it comes . . . one day at a time!
170302
being shy and passive...I think things would be totally different for me if I wasn't so shy. I'm starting to grow out of the passive thing.
218916
Unless it's taken to extremes, being an introvert is just as normal as being outgoing and extroverted.\n\nIf you want to be less introverted, find activities that you are interested and feel comfortable with (caving, science fiction, opera, heavy metal, woodworking - whatever) and then look for local and online organizations of people with similar interests.\n\nGood luck!
1079186
First, make the decision that you are not going to be shy.  Believing that you are shy, or somehow not as worthy as others around you will make you continue to be shy.\n\nSecond, start slowly, by giving yourself an assignment.  Try making small talk to one new person.  Practice at home when you are alone, so you have some things ready to say.\n\nThird, try finding an activity that interests you, so you will meet people with the same interest.  Then you have a topic to start talking about.\n\nThat is how I overcame my shyness.  (It also helped when I turned forty and stopped caring what other people thought about me!)
7827
I agree with RocketJ. Don't try to change yourself-- some people are more sensitive than others and that's a part of what makes you a unique person. But since it sounds like this is actually bothering you, it's probably a good idea to seek counseling. The main benefit of counseling is that you'll get to talk to a completely impartial person, which your friends & family cannot offer.
410732
Do you mean they are shy and introverted?  The worst thing you can do to an introverted person is to drag them to a party.  Think small, like 2-3 at the beach or shopping.  Draw them out slowly and don't startle them with a large number of unknown people.
540885
Lots of people talk.  Learn to ask intelligent questions and listen and you will find friends pretty fast.  And after they are your friends your shyness about talking will start to fade as you get to know them.
752811
Practice social skills.  How?  Join clubs that interest you.  Be involved in your church or synagogue's youth group.  During lunch, sit with people who you know from your classes.  Ask them before you sit down, "Could I sit with you?"  Each time it will be easier.  Also, people LOVE to talk about themselves.  Ask people questions--"How long have you been playing the trumpet?"  "What did you do for Thanksgiving?"  If you ask questions, then the other person will be doing most of the talking, and he/she will think you are a great conversationalist!
628526
I can relate with you as even I am an introvert but I try my best to step out of the comfort zone. Make a conscious effort everyday to say Hi to everyone you know. That would improve your confidence with the people you know. Once you realise you are being accepted by them, you will slowly gain confidence and then you can try the same with meeting new people. A casual talk on the weather or the surrounding is the perfect ice-breaker. Its all in the mind, and once you conquer it no one can stop you from being an extrovert.
543825
hi.\njust be urelf .never ever change ur self for a guy..in  99.9%  of cases he is not worth changing for :)......f u will change to a better person then ur doing it for URself and not for him.........just be urself f he doesnt notice U then he doesnt deserve u and hes BLIND and a loser just ignore him ...f u ignore him he might miss ur presence or something and then he will act diffrently.....\n\n\ngooooood luck