My boyfriend is a non-believer...im a true believer/Christian...need help!?
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(2 Corinthians 6:14) Do not become unevenly yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship do righteousness and lawlessness have? Or what sharing does light have with darkness?
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A Christian is only a name.\na believer is a follower of Christ.\n\nA follower will not doubt after life.\n\nIf this person does..is he a "follower".?
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Doesn't sound like a very Christian answer to me.\n\nYou need help.
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Your husband is absolutely correct hon and you should listen to him for his heart is in the right place. I am a person who doesnt have much of a faith but was brought up christian and am with a Jew.  Quite the mix according to our families.  You just have to hold your head a little higher and know that your heart is where it belongs.  If it gets hard just let it out from time to time.  The comments will come but remember they are only words and when you are home and night you can close the door and not let the world inside.  I wish you luck hon.
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someone who is not christian
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Remember that there will always be people or messages that will challenge your beliefs.  If you believe God and in his only Son Jesus Christ in your heart, then nothing or no one can change that.  Don't let them doubt yourself, or even make you angry.  Try to show them how what you believe has affected you, but don't get in a fight.  Most of all, don't let anyone make you doubt your faith.
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what do i do if my boyfriend don't believe? <--This sounds more sensible if we talk in the terms of "Controller of the Situation"...If u are the controller of d situation(happens only if ur boyfriend is pursuing U and u try to play hard to get) i bet u'll get over d situation smoothely..If U are attracted to ur boyfriend-> means ur in control of your boyfriend, and the process of making him beleive is goin to be much harder for U...Figure out ur position and ur standing level in the above relationship and act accordingly...\np.s:hey if both of u hav the right chemistry, no one ever beleives on other ppl's complaints on each other, unless caught red handed ;-)\ntake care...for more on tis mail me!!\nwith regards,\nSrinivas\nbuddysrivas@yahoo.com
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Pray, and ask Him to show Himself real to you and your heart.  That is ok to do, you know!  He loves you enough to show the truth, and will lead you to peace.  I have asked Him to prove Himself mighty for my family in many tough situations, and He has never left me one doubt that He is in control, and loves me and my family.  He is as real as me or you, and all you have to do is love Him, accept Jesus into your heart, and ask forgiveness.  Blessings!!
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If you believe in him, then there is not problem. You never have to go to church or even pray, as long as he knows you believe in him and love him, then your safe. Don't worry. I don't go to church either. So if i'm full of BS then we will be chillin together. lol
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do you go to church with him? \n\njust keep dating him, you'll eventually have deeper conversations and you'll learn as to where he stands with many issues and by living his life you'll see how important his values/convictions are. you'll know, trust me. you need a man that pushes you to grow. don't worry if he's not for you.\n\nand keep asking God, if he's not for you God will pull a string and you may break up, or God might even tell you himself who you should be with.
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hello!!! relationships are about love - not religious prefrences.if you feel for him enough then date him.
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First, GOOD FOR YOU that you have decided to become a Christian! THat's wonderful! I know it is difficult, but yes, your religion will have an effect on your relationship. The opposite also holds true-- your relationship will have an effect on your religion. It sounds as if you really love your boyfriend. If I were in your situation, I would pray and sit him down. Explain to him how you feel and how important this is to you to raise your children this way. Your faith may prove to be a turning point for him. Your faith will mean that there will be things you should no longer do (such as premarital sex, etc). IS he willing to stand by you? You have to communicate with him. If he really loves you, it will be difficult, but he will respect your faith, even if he does not "buy into it" at this time. You also have to be prepared that he may not understand and may try to talk you out of it. Be strong and stay prayerful. Pray for him as well, that he may also find the Lord. Even if you break up, continue to lift him up in prayer. Pray for the strength to be true to your faith. I wish you the best of luck. I know it is a difficult path you are about to embark on. Be strong. God will not forsake you and you may lead your boyfriend to the Kingdom as well!!!
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This happened to me.  I dated a guy for a long time, and inevitablely we had the God talk.  When I found out he didn't believe in God it through me back alot.  I sat down and did a lot of thinking.  I decided I couldn't have a future with a man who didn't believe in God.  I wanted to go to church as a family and celebrate holidays as a family.  \n\nI sat him down and told him I cared about him alot (I even loved him) but said I couldn't be with him because he didn't believe in God.  He offered to go to church with me, but I knew that deep down he still wouldn't believe in God.  I was honest and told him that I couldn't be with him since we didn't share core believes.  \n\nIt was hard, and I cried alot.  But in the end it turned out for the best.  I am now dating someone who believes in God.
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If your boyfriend knows your beliefs, and disregards them, then he is not the one for you and you should dump him. The best advice I have is to find a man with the same beliefs as you! DO NOT give in, the way you are living your life is admirable!
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Don't give up, and don't settle for less...are you in an environment where you can meet other christians? If so, and you have asked God to bring someone into your life that believes and lives a Christian life,  then just believe that God will do it and one day soon, probaly in a way that you wouln't have ever imagined, you'll meet him...I've seen it happen over and over again...so be encouraged and don't give up....
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You are spiritually lost. I wish I had a personal encounter to spend hours, days or weeks to explain. Get in a Bible Based Church. Read the Bible. Talk with God. Talk with fellow christians at your church. Seek spiritual guidance from spiritual counselors! The danger is, you are very mixed up and your comments may lead other astray, who do not have a sound faith. Please get help for yourself, so that you may someday help others too!\nYou need to get to know Christ as a personal Lord & Savior. You may know a little about him...but you do not know him. There is a great difference from knowing about someone, than it is about really knowing them. Jesus wants a personal relationship with you. Pray to him for understanding & direction. \nGod Bless you in love & direction!
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Seems like you have answered your own question, where is the relationship if there is no trust!!! I know what you mean tho. you can't change someone, they have to recognise their failings, and choose to do something about it. Try speaking with him about how you feel and see what he says..Then you will know whether he is willing to make steps to change his behaviour toward you, if he doesn't then you know what youve got to do