will the person who i thought i don't like will still love me now? is it too late?
336623
you need to ask the guy in question if he will give you another chance.  don't be surprised if he's a bit wary, after all you dumped him without really telling him why.  before you do any that, it may be wise to think over the reasons why you actually like him.  are they real reasons that you can build a realtionship on?  ultimately though, if you don't ask you don't get so go for it! you'll only regret it if you don't! good luck x
173300
i have sort of had this experience.i fell in love with this guy.our relation was going on steadily when another woman came in his life and he ditched me.i did not ask for explaination and just walked out of his life.i was so heartbroken.i lost faith in everybody and am afraid to love once more.whenever i see that guy i get very angry but pretend as if nothing has happened and try to enjoy but actually inside i feel sick.i think u should move on.it is hard but tyr and slowly u will forget.
61195
i believe no, because he's probably not over her. Especially if he had an intimate and down to earth relationship with her.  I believe you should wait, pray about it and if u find out he doesn't like you like that, ask god to help you cope with that information. One trait that's good in this love game is being able to be rational, or being able to adapt and accept.  Not sayin that he doesn't like you tho.
213359
If a guy doesn't like/love you for who you are then he isn't worth it! Why would you think about changing yourself, likes or dislikes to have someone fall in love with you? For example...Let's say you pretend to be someone your are not.  You dress, act and look a certain way to attract a guy. Wouldn't he be falling for the girl you created? Therefore, he wouldn't be falling in love with you! Be true to yourself and try to be patient. I'm sure there is someone waiting around the corner!
474460
It's best to be honest, it may hurt them, and they may kick up a bit of a stink but it's better than you staying with them for all the wrong reasons, and they will pick up on the vibes you are sending eventually anyway!\n\nJust don't fall into the old cliches like "it's not you, it's me".  Explain the situation, why you like this other person, and that you would like to remain friends (presuming that you would of course)!
809606
if you sure he will never love you you, leave him as soon. Do not waste your time. It is extremely difficult and very painful but necessary and unavoidable... Soon or late you will see that. Good luck!
392869
That collides.\n\nIts like positive charges meets negative charges. Not a really good mix. It may go so really pointless at the end and you probably just wasting your time.\n\nBut if you still hate him/her, but at the same time, you still love him/her, then that could be a true love or you are made for each other. God Knows.
655535
Maybe you fell in love too soon. Don't give your heart to someone until you get to know them (Good side and bad).
24449
My advice to you is MOVE ON! Because if he didn't stop you before you closed the door he meant every word he said. You can't keep a man that don't want to be kept. It's always hard to love someone who can't love you back, but life goes on. Yes you will hurt, you're probably cry everyday but in due time you will heal and will be able to find your soul mate. Never settle for anything, always believe that TOMMOROW IS ANOTHER DAY! Let go and Let God!
1041263
Look it's your right not to like somebody and nobody can make you change your mind... I  know that it's really difficult to say to someone the reason why you don't like him, but this is how you feel... If he likes you as you said he should even respect your choice of having or not a relationship with him... Don't be afraid to tell him because it will be worse if you don't say nothing at all and have him asking you all the time...
306444
Anyone who's had a deep love for such a person is bound to consider it.  That's not just something that can go away.  \nUltimately, you should do what you feel is right.  If you're willing to take the risk, by all means TAKE IT.  If you're afraid of what may happen, and that fear is strong enough to hold you back, then don't.\nIf you avoid the situation, you may be left wondering what would have happened.  If you pursue a second round, you may be in for disappointment or heartbreak. \nEither way, you have to factor in the risks, and do whatever you're brave enough to do.
1160631
No one can accurately predict the future as you probably know, but I am going to resist the urge to give you a smart aleck reply b/c you went to all the trouble to put all that detail into your question.\n\nReading everything you wrote, though, I still don't feel encouraged, I am sorry to say. Your relationship then and even now sounds fairly toxic and unsatisfying. You and he are too much alike to really have the right kind of give and take, I think you need more opposites attracting for a successful relationship.\n\nIt is hard to hear that, I know. I am sorry. But I really do feel that you need to turn your back on this one now, close the book and start fresh with someone you don't know well yet.\n\nThat can be fun. Give it a try, and DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR EX with the new ones!!!
364434
YES, ABSOLUTLY IT JUST DEPENDS DO YOU LOVE THIS PERSON? IF SO JUST WAIT THEY MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO SHOW THERE FEELINGS FOR YOU JUST YET. WAIT A LITTLE WHILE YOU'LL FIGUURE OUT.
239340
LOL neparis2001.. that wasn't nice.. true.. but not nice.\n\nI would say that you have started to 'draw a line in the sand' of what you will and will not do for a person, and you are finding your balance.\n\nThat you are able to not run and find out why he hasn't actually met up with you shows that you are maturing with what you find acceptable in how you want to be treated.\n\nIf you have feelings for him, at least you're honest, but how do you feel now that he blew you off?  I think you're worthy of someone that can return your values in a relationship.. if he can't, look for a new place for your feelings so they don't end up hurt.\n\nKeep your chin up and always respect yourself first!!..so you don't have to worry about regaining respect.
961697
I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
435367
If that's how you feel then you have no choice but to put it all out there, just like that.  There's no time to beat around the bush, or hold back your words.  Worst case scenario, he rejects you- but then you'll at least know where you stand, and that you did EVERYTHING you could.  You don't want to have regrets later on, or wonder if there was anything else you could have said or done.  Good luck, and know that no matter how this turns out, you were true to yourself, loved him with all that you had, and fought for what you wanted.
11521
the saying can be try in your case but make sure you dont make a fool of yourself.  chat him up, invite him to coffe/tea - something very casual that will show you if you still like him they way you thought, and will give him a idea of what kind of person you are.  But make sure you give him space - you dont want to scare him off. (also dont get your hopes up- a lot can happen in 2yrs and you may not like him after all)