Ok My 22 yr old boyfriend just dumped me today and it hurts sooo bad should I move on or what he is my first b
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You really don't have much choice. He broke up with you, so now it is time to move on with your life. Don't see this as a negative thing, instead see it as the chance to develop new relationships. You sound young, so this probably wasn't the right one for you anyway. Love and respect yourself and know that you deserve better. Don't rush into a new relationship right away, because we usually make the wrong choice on the rebound. Enjoy being free and wait for that special guy to come along. He will be worth waiting for! Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
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It doesn't sound like he was your everything if you were depressed even when you were around him. The best way to get over a guy is to let him go. Have one day where you cry and are depressed and eat cookie dough and let yoursself feel all the pain. He must not be your soul mate if he's treating you badly because your soul mate should never treat you badly. If you were constanly fighting, you weren't happy, and realtionships should make you happy. If sounds like you were simply codependant on this guy and you don't know what you're going to without him. It sounds like you need him and you need to realize that you don't. Hang out with your girl friends, reconnect with your family. Move on and stop sitting in your pity just because it's comfortable, you deserve to treat yourself better, and to find a person that will truly care for you.
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hey this happened to me....i dumped him as fast as i could say listen i cant be played like that....then he hung up on me and we havent realli talked since....you juss have to realize there will be someone else....get over the fact that you love him it doesnt matter....he cheated on YOU....dont let him get away with it especially twice...and before you do anything make sure you are positive he cheated on you and dont go by what friends say go by what you see with your own eyes....be strong cuz it does take a lot and it hurts so0o much when you find out something like that you just have to do what you think is best for yourself dont let urslef get hurt......YOUR supposed to be happy not just him....
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I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
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What to do?  That is between you and he.  But it sounds like he has already made up his mind.\nYou will get over a broken heart.  They do mend.  Do not let his behavior cloud your mind or heart to other men.  Take this one day at a time.  Learn not to speak badly about what he did.  If you are confused, express this.  If you are angry, get it out and get over it as fast as possibly.\nBreathe deeply.  Cry if you need to.  Join others as soon as you can.  You do not have to be alone.
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It's hard to just "move on", and anyone who tells you that is being inconsiderate, and not putting themselves in your shoes. You need TIME to mend a broken heart. You need space. You need to think things over, and if you realize that he is not worth your time, and you deserve better, than stick to that belief. You have to believe that you are Strong, and you will move on. Just Keep that In your head, and know that someone out there is better for you, waiting for you.Also, a few dates wouldn't be bad either! Go out dancing, movies, with other guys! See what else Is out there!
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i know that it hurt and it way take time to get over him. it hurt because you put your feeling inside this relationship an you thought that yall was going to be together. you will be ok. so smile.
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NO!! i think that you should just move on...if he's done it once he'll do it again and again!! i know that's its gonna be hard to move on but any guy that makes you cry and worry more than laugh and be happy isn't worth your time no matter how much you love him..it'll hurt at first but once you let go you'll be relieved!!
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Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
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You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
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Sorry. There is no easy answer for this one. Breaking up is hard. No matter what age you are,it hurts. There is very seldom a time that a break-up happens and both people want the relationship to end. Someone almost always gets hurt. This time that someone is you. \nIt will take time to heal your broken heart,but I'm sure that you will be a stronger person after you make it through this. Good luck to you. Dry your eyes and go have fun tonight and forget about him for a little while.
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Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
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What hurts you most? he's not in love with you anymore or he's love, or he's hunting for someone else? whats the matter?\nIf it hurts that he's not with love with you! carry on and accept it. Life becomes better when you accept things even if they hurt, they are the whole truth. \nIf it toubles you that he is in love with someone, you should dump him, frankly even being a boy i tell you this. He is not worth your pain and tears. \nTry making friends on the net, dont disclose your identity but talk out things with someone who really is understanding and can talk about it to you. Different people's opinoin don't help to lead a life but they surely can give good ideas, accept them and make the best of it to forget your past.\nRemember, only one thing, this was a lesson life thought you and the things you lost was the price for the same\nThere is no gain without pain. So just chill and hang on you will come along be with positive attitude people.
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His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
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He wasn't ready for what ever reason to commit to you. Don't beat yourself up over this, there are people that will come and go in our lives, some for the good and some for the bad... it just makes us stronger people. Obviously you invested more in this relationship than he did, and it's going to hurt for a while trying to get over it. Grieve for a while, if you want to cry and feel sorry for yourself, do it.... it's all part of the process of loss. Just always remember your self worth, and that we are not the lessor of our selves, we are the sum of ALL of our parts, and that is something phenomenal. There may be more men like him in your future... and then again you may meet your soulmate tomorrow.... just don't let life get you down...it's too short to waste the energy on negative people. God bless you, good luck, Peace.
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Dear girl,\nI am suspecting that you are quite young if you're still not backing up since your Ex told you to. I would recommend, please give it a time. I know how you feel inside. I've been there, and it felt horrible at the time. But, trust me! After a while, maybe 3 weeks, maybe 3 months, but you'll feel much better. You will get over him! And you'll wonder why you were suffering as you are right now! The possible reason for your Ex acting this way is maybe that he have found his true love. And now he doesn't want to ruin it. Probably, his new girlfriend doesn't want you guys hanging out. So, please have some dignity and let him go. Don't be surprised though, if you get a call in few years from your Ex. So, I hope that you understand what I'm trying to say. Good luck!
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Weigh things over then talk to him personally. Don't let your feelings to rule over you. Did he say he loves you? If not, forget him. You'll get over with him. Look for someone else you deserve. Someone who will take care of you and will never hurt you..