is she normal? should i move on?
341836
Yes you are still broken up, but she also wants to get some on the regular.  This can happen when things are physical.  I would let her go, and not sleep with her again.  If you do have sex with her again it's going to get harder and harder to admit it's finished.
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
503032
If you have a past, it must mean that something about her is worth liking/being friends with. If situations like this arise, and the friendship is worth keeping, time will settle whatever weirdness there may be. I would act as though you are friends, and nothing is weird, and hopefully she follows suit.
680231
May I suggest if you're looking for a long term relationship I would move on.\n\nThis lady has everything.  A husband who isn't always around, a good friend like you who is kind to her when she needs someone, etc.\n\nLooking at things from the outside I believe she is just giving you enough to keep you hanging on "i.e. the skin on her stomach is soft, etc."  Mixed signals and the fact she is a married woman.\n\nYou deserve better.\n\nJan
408364
Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
1132529
Well, how does she feel about that? What makes this situation tough is how does she feel about him as a boyfriend? If she really doesn't love him then yes move on but if she loves him and stays with him then she is selling herself short of happiness and no one should do that to oneself. She is just a piece of meat to him.
996051
maybe she has some issues in her past relationships. if she's comfortable enough around you she will tell you, just be patient. Sometimes its not good to assume, it should come from her.
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
339683
you both sound young, so i would wait and see what develops. i not saying wait forever, she sounds like she isnt ready for a steady relationship and wants to have fun while she young and thats understandable. keep in contact with her and im sure over time you will know whether she is the right one for you.
441335
I can see where you're coming from...and I feel your thoughts.It's perfectly normal & quite fine to have those type of emotions for her.Although,to act on those feelings may "loose her trust" as you say.Also,she may begin to feel uncomfortable around you causing her to clam up.On the other hand,if she has any feelings or interest in you,that would be different...but still,there's always a possibility that a closer relationship may lead to the other baggage that turns relationships sour,and in return may cause you both to lose concentration and possibly unwanted publicity .Eight yrs. apart isn't bad,especially if she is in her mid to late twenties on up.However,if she is still young,give her some time to develop into a more mature lady(one that truly makes her own decisions).It's not a good idea to seek a girl that always asks her friends "hey what do you think?".My advice for this situation would be let her come to you...she may/may not.Be the professional you are and just hold back my man...good luck.
708879
you are doing the right thing... she's hurt, it ll take her time to trust anyone... even ppl like u who has good intentions.. well if u really feel u ve met the right person, its worth the wait... but be prepared for the worst too... its upto u, whether u think the wait is a waste of time... midly (not in ur face) prove to her u are worthy of her trust.. i hope u like this woman !!! anywyz, good luck with it :)
610372
That is a problem when it comes to age gaps. If I were you I would just leave her alone, dont ignore her if you see her be nice but kinda short.  It will let her know you are trying to move on, give it some time if she comes back to you it may just be to see if you are still into her.  I would just let her go, and soon she will realize she will never have it that good again. Try and find someone how is as good to you as you are to them.
86085
If she is your soul mate, nothing can stop it from happening.  However, from what you said, it appears as though she's moved on.  Learn from the mistakes you made in this relationship so that you can be a better man in your next relationship.  If nothing else, let her always hold a special place in your heart as the woman that taught you how NOT to be, because now you know what it is to lose what you once held dear.  Go forth, forgive yourself, and let her go.
748
It sounds like she's not interested in working things out.  Or you haven't been listening to her needs and haven't changed your behavior and she might feel you'd be better off finding someone who likes what you like and allowing her to move on and be happy too.\n\nIt can be too late or it might not.  Only you can know for sure.
104104
Sorry dude, if she's made up her mind to be gone for good, she's gone.  I would move on....who knows, down the road if you're still available, she might come back??!!  Good luck.
582578
It all depends what you did.  Maybe you should give her some time and a little space first.
846853
You'll know..her feelings will be more natural..she will be more laid back, able to tell you anything.  I say wait it out a little longer..if she does not reciprocate..move on!