how can i know that a guy is really in love with me . and he is not at all flirting????
353036
Talk to him and find out...
54898
just ask him directly and look into his eyes...actually if you really feel love for this person, you will right away see it thru his eyes if he's lying...
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..
402630
You know what, I'm really sure that guy is flirting with, its just a different approach... You know, when guys like us flirt, it doesn't always mean that we have to touch you or something to make you feel that we are interested with you, always remember that when a guy only talks, makes you laugh, wants to have constant communication with you, that's a solid proof that he flirts with you... And for me, be proud of yourself because that guy will not show respect to you even he flirts with you if you don't deserve it, it only means that for him, you are a descent woman that deserves to be respected... And that's a compliment... And its good that he knows his limitations to you...
464294
well if he really cares wht u do n if he really is possesive bout u den he definitely likes u. sumwhere in d corner of his heart he has luv n feelings 4 u.\nwell if u need more guidance u can add me on my id imradhs@yahoo.com
112523
You know when you're flirting.  Don't worry about it.  Just be real with him and hang out like normal friends.  He won't think anything of it as long as you truely aren't hitting on him.
96793
He might just start talking nonsense! That's what happened when my boyfriend first told me that he was in love with me. Just take your time to feel him out and see what his aim is, if you love him then go for it. But don't jump into anything, always think b4 you act!
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You can't. Unless a guy tells you what he's feeling (and even then there can be some doubt), you'd be guessing at best. However, if he expresses affection for you, tries to talk to you/contact you on a daily basis, and has made sexual advances to you, it's probably safe to assume that he's attracted to you at the very least.
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Pysical contact is always a sign of flirting and i figure you liked it (hopefully). the best way to tell if he's flirting with you or just being flirty is to see how he is around other females. If its normal behavior dont think much about it. If its out of the box for him...i'd take that as a sign that he might be feelin you.. If all else fails just ask.. "Whats up wit you?"
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Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
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If you find a guy always around you and looking at you always trying to help you,then no doubt he is in love with you....  but dont be in hurry you will find lots around you,\nbe patient make a good friendship with him and then choice is yours.....
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you can't you have to listen to your heart\n\nbut a good way to tell is by his reactions whether he seems truly interested with the things you do and if he has changed on the inside.\n\nit sounds like he's avoiding you but he really could just be fishing maybe he feels like you're not really interested guys can be sentimental
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
905852
Not knowing is the worst.  But have faith.   What are his reations to you?? any kind words, flirting?    Just tell him if it gets too hard.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
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there are many ways you can tell. like one way is if he consently flirting with you or hitting on you. or everytime you speaks he has to say something or like sometimes you cant stand each other and all you do is agrue at times and come to find out he really likes you. or he might stare at you all the time and smile at you. then last but not least he studdards if you speak to him or smiles sleephisly