Would  a 19 years old guy ever regret for breaking a girl's heart after she gave him her virginity?
348658
So sorry to hear that about how your ex-bf treated you. \n\nChances are that he will one day regret it, but by the time he'll realize it, it'll be too late for either of you.\n\nFrom what you explained, you were very very patient and understanding and he was simply selfish, selfish and more selfish.  \n\nI can tell you that at 19, he's NO WHERE NEAR even thinking about regretting what he did to you, because at that age, that's the last thing on a guy's mind.  At that age, all most guys want to do is 'score' and nothing else.  Yes, event the most sensitive ones...\n\nHim breaking up with you after knowing what you went thru is simply the action of a coward, and a selfish and conniving person.  \n\n* A COWARD because he wasn't man enough to go thru with the relationship, and as soon as he saw a way out he took it, no matter how you felt, or how deeply your feelings were hurt.\n\n* SELFISH because he cared for himself first and you LAST.  He needed to please himself first (getting you to give in to sex) and then he left you when it was no longer convenient and felt he didn't need you any longer.\n\n* CONNIVING because he went as far as telling you he loved you to trick you into having sex with him -- that's so low!\n\nMost likely, one day perhaps, when he's much, much older (and his memory is still together), then he'll think back on his actions of how he took for granted an amazing girl that gave herself to him unconditionally just to prove her love for him. \n\nHe may even be married and have a daughter by the time he realizes this, and it will be his most haunting memory and regret because he'll realize that one day, his own grown daughter may meet an idiot just like he was at that age! ; )  \n\nBut that won't be until a very, very long time.  By then, he'll be just a small memory in the back of your mind.  A memory that's there only to remind you that you've learned from that mistake.\n\nMy advice to you is simple: * MOVE ON *\n\nI know it's easier said than done, but believe me, if you don't move on, you might miss the chance to meet the REAL love of your life.  And he is out there looking for you too.  \n\nSo, think about it this way: the more time you waste hoping your ex-bf will come to his senses and get back with you, the more time you waste being out there to allow the right person to meet you and fall in love with you.  \n\nDon't let what your ex-bf did to you take you down.  But rather take it as a learning experience and know that you will never let a guy pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.\n\nListen to your inner voice because it's there for a reason.  Women have a 6th sense for this sort of thing, we just need to learn how to read it correctly when we're younger and inexperienced.  You'll get there as you grow older and you will learn from your mistakes.\n \nREMEMBER: The right guy is out there for you, so don't bother wasting any more time thinking about your ex!!!  \n\nGood luck! : )
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Yes I did.... I was 19, he was 42. It lasted 11 years. He didn't work regularly, was abusive, unfaithful, and couldn't tell the truth about what he ate for lunch, let alone something important. BUT, he gave me a gorgeous, intelligent, sweet child. So, I have what I have and I am who I am, in part, because of that relationship,...so no, not one single regret.
598719
Your first love you won't get over for years, you will have to fall in love like a couple of more times and go through some s***.  Then you will still wonder about that person from time to time.  It is all a process just take it one day at a time. it will be a long road, and don't take him back he will treat you worst, I am sorry that you had to give your virginity away to someone who couldn't appreciate it but that is what happens when we don't wait until marriage.  See our parents was right about something, my first was a disaster to.  I wouldn't take it back though I have learned a lot from it.  Just make sure the next guy is worth it or you are in control.  To get over him just think about how much he took you for granted and just treated you like a piece of crap.  You can never get your virginity back, no matter how long you go with out sex and never do it again.  So think about that, and get over it sweetie,  he is not worth the space in your head.
119275
I dated a guy who is 35 and i am 20 it was going great but he always told me that he was afraid that i would leave him for someone younger. He left me for someone older be careful. HE still is playing games wiht my heart telling me that he loves me and then hurts me again and goes to someone his age just becareful.\nI also lost my Virginity too him and has been the only one that may also be y it is so hard\nAge doesn't matter just becareful
501765
Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
1164608
i was 17 and no i have no regrets at all weve been dating for bout 1 year and a half b4 we had sex and we are still togeather to this day just as long as u feel ur with the right person then u should no it is time inside.
32112
REGRETTFUL\nI just did it to lose it,and i did it so i was prepared for when me and my boyfriend were going to do it(didn't want to be a virgin).Well he found out,dumped me,and i have always wanted him to this day.That was in grade 9,and i am now turning 30!!
513285
sadly, thats about the going time for sex now. If she pretended to be a virgin, the whole thing was based on a lie. My advice would be to leave her alone. He was a virgin, and sadly, he'll always remember her. Just tell him that there are plenty more people out there who are better and just to wait for the right one next time.
1080232
No.  There is nothing with you being a virgin at 22 keep up the good work and stay focused.  The vagina will cause you nothing but heartache and heartbreak if you aren't careful.  Make sure when that time comes, ask yourself is she worth it?  Will I care if I ever see her again? You are in control and you can't get it back so make sure you do your homework.  Once the flood gate is open it's over dude.  Good luck, much love.  Oh, masturbation helps the horny spells.
446461
I know people older than you that never got laid. Why rush. There can only be a first time once. What you have is priceless and you can never go back. Don't throw your treasure away, it's so much better to share it with someone special.
748088
Later in life:---  it is unlikely that you would regret the "good girl" image,  but you could very well regret the "wild, crazy, naughty" image.\n\nBE YOUR TRUE SELF - and don't push it to the extreme just to acquire another image (which you may not really want in the long term).
272925
It depends on the person and their maturity level. If you feel that you are mature enough to have sex and deal with the consequences that may come about, then go for it. But you really need to think about it and how it will change you and your relationship with the other person. I had sex for the first time when I was 14 and completely regretted not waiting. You may think the person you are with is the one or whatever, but you may regret your decision later. It shouldn't be taken lightly.
1103196
I would say it depends on if the man is a virgin himself, if so I think it is ok, because then the couple would be sharing the same morals. But if the man is not a virgin then I think it is wrong for him to want someting from the woman that he himself could not or would not do, hypocritical to me. Also, if you fall in love with someone who happens to have had sex already then I think it would be dumb not to marry her solely for this reason, it's not like it's something she can take back, and should not be denied love by you because of something that happened in her past.
1141933
age is no bar in case of love. but do consider the fact that there is a gap in maturity level. tomorrow the girl gets matured enough and consider everything a mistake you will regret too. take a decision keeping both of yours future
532250
Yeah, you'll most likely regret it.  You should lose your virginity to someone you love.  If you don't have a loved one, then wait untill the time is right.  Don't let your friends control your life.  If you do, you're screwed.
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
901162
Im not gunna say its too young. i mean if you brought her up right and taught everything she needs to know cause at that age thats where females usually start developing and begin gettin attention from boys anyway. she's gunna have one whether u say yes or no and thats a fact. and as far as the sex thingy goes if you have already explained the importance of her virginity and all that goes along with it its all good .i mean as long as long as she isnt sexually active or doing nething to my dislike its cool with me. so nope its not\n\n\ni think young is love is important and that if the lil things she experimenting with now fails she can at least learn from her mistakes and know how to better herself in the future and make her next one last