IS it wrong to love someone other then the one that you are with?
336465
You have to make a choice.\n\nBetween possibly having her in your life as a friend and NOT having her in your life at all.\n\nCan you really live without having her in your life at all? Is that necessarily better? As absence makes the heart grow fonder.\nOr perhaps its time for a fresh start. Tell her you cant be just friends and walk away from her.\n\nIn the end you're gonna have to make the choice one way or another.
420702
I think that if you love your partner and he or she does not love you at this moment you are suffering. While you are loved you do not suffer but probably feel good or even proud of himself or herself. So i think it is better to be loved than to not to be loved. Maybe my opinion does not sound good but it is the truth.
483798
If you really love someone you should feel happy that the person you love is happy, even if it's not with you! Sometimes if you really love someone you have to let them go, so they can be happy....Not always we can be with the person we love, but trust me the best proof of love someone can give is wishing the happiness of the person they love no matter who they're with! I hope I made sense! That's what love supposed to be!\n\nSome people say that love is fighting for the person you love....and doing anything to be with them....that is NOT true, because if the person you love is happy with someone else, why would you even try to separate them if you know that the person is happy? That isn't called love, that's called "being selfish"....
1005451
It's not love them sweetie.\n\nIts just lust/ or attraction\n\nIf you love someone, theres nobody else for you, and that one person is whom your for.
1000430
if you are just dating that is fine but when you bring someone else in the relationship you find your self regreting it you will see. \ndont do it
255239
no...........u must learn to love urself before u can love anyone or anything else. it u dont love urself how can u love another? u cant.
1122564
Since people are born either gay or heterosexual, how can it be wrong to be in love with the person that you feel innately attraction to?
1093579
It is not "wrong".\nThe only thing that is morally wrong is if you are lying to your girlfriend about your feeling for her.\nPeople fanticise about all sorts of things that given the opportunity they probably would not do.\nIf you need to pretend that your girlfriend is anyone other than herself, in order to get arroused though, then you are using her and need to stop\nGood luck
460823
I think it is GREAT! U should never allow yourself to be subjected to subpar treatment. and chances are, if u are all in love and the other person isn't, u will end up feeling alot of hurt and disappointment. if you have feelings for someone and the feelings are not mutual, u should move on and find someone who feels the same as u.
691365
This is something that YOU should've dealt with before getting married.  While I don't think it's exactly wrong to still have feelings for someone, it's not right either.  Do you think it is fair to our husband? You should be focusing all your love on your husband, not saving some for some ex.  As I said, this is really something you should've dealt with before getting married.  (Just think about it:  How would you feel if your husband was harboring feelings for some other girl?!)\n\nMy advice to you:  Exes are exes for a reason.  Look back and think about why you broke up.  I'm sure there was a good reason that you are not with him and that you married someone else.  While it may occasionaly be okay to maybe wonder how they are doing, to "still care" for them isn't.  \n\nAs I said, think about why you broke up with your ex.  Then think about why you married your husband.  I'm sure you will see that you made a good decision, and maybe you can leaarn to let go of the past.
642206
It's possible, but you're making yourself sound like a cheater. If you love someone else while you're already in a relationship then that's bad. It's better to be in love with two people when you're not with one of them already. If you love someone else while in a relatonship then it means that you want the other person who isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend. \n\nTry asking yourself what you can get from this person 'on the side' that you're not getting from your significant other. If the reasons outweigh the reson to stay with the person you're currently with, then maybe it's time to end the relationship, hm?
1022768
honey, its ok to love as many people as you want... but to love someone (as in a relationship) is to be true to only them. if you feel torn between the two, the truth is you probably dont LOVE either of them enough to be with one... does that make sence?\n If you truly love someone, inside and out, you'll only want to be with that one person... I hope this helps
796985
follow you heart . it is impossible to love 2 peoples at the same level. so listen to your heart
562095
Absolutely not...you can only be lusting for two people at the same time.  Love is a true devotion to one individual.  If you have to wonder if you are in love with two people then you don't love either.
283691
Yes, If that person feels as strongly about you as you do them. When you are in love it is hard to think about anything else.
77488
You certainly can , I have anyway . Love is hard to explain and understand for that matter . Love can  make us do things that we never thought possible . I will tell you this much though if you do love two people you are in for a rough ride . Your best bet is to be honest as possible with both of them or you could lose them both .
763424
Yes. You can love another person in a non-physical manner.