i really like this guy and i got sooomad about something stupid. i think maybe i scared him away?
353574
May be your reaction went too far as to scare him away. Now that you've realised your mistake, why not give him a call and ask why you haven't seen him all along. Ask him to take you to see a new movie at the theatre. If he also loves you, he'd be so glad for the opportunity. Please don't scare him away next time. Be gentle.
248732
I'm assuming you are good friends since you've known each other for so long but I wouldn't want you to scare him off either.  I would just kinda drop hints and see how he takes it and when the time is right to tell him then you will know.
247066
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
67897
you have so much nerves in you that makes you feel kind of a stage fright feeling,major butterflies.maybe someday you will be able to not have those feelings and actually talk to him or he will talk to you.if you dont talk to him,you might be loosing your chances with this guy.you never know.just try to say a simple hey,or hi or what ever you say.
247644
I think that if you really like this guy you should. I went through the same thing.There was this boy that i really liked so i told him. If you are a little scared, talk it over with a friend you know won;t blab. My friend got me over my fears and i told him.
650005
i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
1174279
i think you should totally talk to him, just dont freak him out. but whatever, if the guy you liked dosnt like you back and his cozin might, then why not?
859682
don't rush him you might scare him aff and remember absense does make the heart fonder go with the flow for now
569617
he's either not interested, in which case, back off, or he just freaked coz he wasn't expecting you to make a move in which case wait for him to make the next move. find out from his friends if he's interested. if he is just wait a while.
117466
having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
909695
He likes you, but is afraid to tell you. Keep in touch, and see what happens
298068
The 1st mistake you did was to tell him you liked him. Now he will just take advantage of you. Don't put yourself up to be hurt you know better than that. Forget about this guy before he realizes that he has a hold on you
1011502
I think he does like you, but he's too scared to admit it. Wouldn't you be a bit scared in his shoes? Girl that you think is the most beautiful thing ever is also one of the most intimidating. Still though, he is comfortable around you, which means he does want to be close in some respect, its just a matter of how close. Try bringing it up when you two are alone sometime, and try to do it as gently as possible. Don't scare him and make sure that his answer stays between you two and you should be able to pry a true answer out of him.
278561
you may have lead him on while you were testing the waters.\ntelling someone you need to chill out and not want to see them is two totally different things you should say what you mean and mean what you say.\nwhat you should do is have a serious disscussion telling him exactly how you feel.
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
187852
well it sounds like to me you are stuck in a hard place and a rock, you should do nothing. If he likes you then he will tell you or on the flip side he is shy and does not know how to approach you. So just give him time to think and build the courage.