I am really agrvatived with my bf but I don't have the guts to break up with him... see info inside...?
350196
just tell him you dont really like him anymore. or start ignoring him no one likes that. blow him off for your friends and do it repetidly. he will get the picture
262488
Just be honest with him.  \nTell him that even though you think he's sweet and nice, you'd rather not be with him right now.\nYou don't even have to explain yourself if you don't want to.  But please don't lie.  That's not fair.\nIt's better to break it off now before he gets too attached.  Do NOT stay with someone because you feel sorry for them or pity them...it's not healthy.
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
1095041
breaking up is never easy..... however.... if you think that ur bf is a jerk then you can be mean about it and tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you and that you deserve better but if he's a nice guy just say that you don't feel the same way as you did in the beginning of your relationship tell him that you see you too better as frnds and you no longer see him as a boyfriend....
376258
He is selfish, and doesnt care about your feelings, because you have strong feelings for him, you cant realize this.\n\nSo unless you can get a hold of your emotions, and your feelings you will be destined to re-live this scenario in future relationships...
35734
listen sweetie...\n\ni don't want to upset you or anything, but i've had experience with this issue.  what you're talking about is not really fighting.  it's called jealous and controlling.\n\nyou and your boyfriend aren't really fighting.  he is getting very angry and accusing you of things that he has made up in his head.  you are trying to cool the situation down while trying to defend yourself, all while trying to make sure that he knows that you love him.\n\ni don't know how long you've been going out with him and i don't know how angry he gets.  but on the real, you should tell him straight out that he has to stop and you won't take it if he continues.  if he does continue, you should leave him.  i know it sounds harsh, but trust me, however bad it is now... it will get worse... and worse... and worse.
904195
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
465689
You must tell him how you feel. Stop holding it in. You are going to make yourself sick. If this is a long distant relationship then you really have a problem. The problem will be you. You need structure and discipline. If you don't then it won't last.
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
249899
Hey, the world didn't make you break up with him.  That was your choice based upon what you felt was best for you.  There is no right or wrong in that, it is just what it is.  Life is what you make of it and if you choose to go around being mad at the world then that is your choice but as long as you do that, you will never be able to find the love that is out there awaiting you.
985615
really , you don't need that pressure and drama, especially in a relationship that is supposed to make you feel GOOD,\ncall his bluff and eff-ing leave him.\nif he doesn't respect you for something like that, he's not going to respect you down the road.!
208568
Well before you do anything you need to get your life in order and become self sufficiant.  Because if you break it off now he might just leave you to fend for your self and you don't sound prepared for that.  Ultimately though, yes, you need to find a better relationship than this one.
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
414745
If you really love your bf and you are willing to make the effort to make this relationship work, I would suggest that you go on holiday with them.  Get to know him and his little girl and spend time with them, you would be able to see if he is truly the man for you.  I always thought that long distance relationships never work, until I found myself in the same position.  If you feel that you are going crazy and that your loosing your patience, go for a walk on your own and cool down.  You and only you can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy or not.