Is it normal for my girlfriend to give a co-worker a ride from work to his house?
339247
You sound like you have some trust issues with her.  It is totally normal to give someone a ride to work.  Some people adjust seats and leave them that way.  I am sure he is not getting too comfortable.  I am sure it is no big deal.\n\nIf you trusted her then it would not be required for her to tell you that he has dropped him off or not.  How would you feel if she said that to you and you were totally innocent?\n\nYou really need to take a look at the trust issue you have with her.  Why are you concerned with this?  Do you think she would cheat?  Do you think she would lie?  What has she done in the past to make her think that she would?  Analyze that and maybe you will uncover a deeper problem then giving a guy a ride to work.\n\nGood Luck!
720574
There have been court cases on this. The ruling is that you have no expectation of privacy at work. That covers phone calls and emails.\n\nNow she may be violating a company policy. If she is doing on her own with out directions from a supervisor.
1103014
im a p.i. and ill say this, if you got a bad feeling about her, yes. never ignore your instincts. IT COULD SAVE YOUR ASS ONE DAY AND YOUR INVESTMENTS. I SUGGEST DOING AN INVESTIGATION ON HER TO SEE IF SHE REALLY IS SHADY QUIETLY.  never let her have any control over anything at all in the company. ever unless they are married. ID EXPOSE THE BLOW JOB REPORT AND KEEP FIRM ABOUT THE WHOLE THING.
48142
Excuses are only going to work a couple times. If it keeps happening, you will probably lose your job. Either finish your business with your partner in enough time to get to work on time, or wait until after work.
577026
it's her choice if she is uncomfortable with strangers in the house, I don't blame her. If they help while you are there with them then yeah it's fine but she shouldn't have to be there with strangers when you're not there. You may think you know these people but they may be thieves or rapist you can never be 100% sure, especially if they are desperate enough for money that they will do chores for you.
786116
It's not taboo but it is almost always a bad idea, especially if you work closely together or are in supervisor role over her.  Besides how uncomfortable things would get if things went badly there is the potential for law suits.  Proceed with extreme cation.
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
820755
I am really glad you said "potential" boyfriend!!!\n\nLook ahead a year or so with this guy...he is already controlling, insecure and jealous so I guess you better be prepared to have to explain why an accident made you late home from work someday!!!\n\nYou are a whole person and do not need ANYONE to complete you.  It sounds like your goals are sound and your motives are good so, if I were you, I would ditch the boat-anchor boyfriend and find a man who compliments your dreams - now and later!\n\nYou are not a possession and dont need to make excuses or feel bad about missing time with a boyfriend - not if you have the right boyfriend!!!\n\nSounds to me like he needs a dog instead of a human "pet" then when he says "come" the dog will with tail wagging!!!
840939
Dating your Boss could be a real bad career move. I know several women that have done it & regret it today. One of them can't stop dating bosses. She now goes from job to job & sleeps her way to financial gain. However, all she is really a Slave to these ego maniacs. If you do it, be in control 100% of the time. Now for the Boyfriend. Follow your heart. Money isn't everything. Take it from somebody who had it all. With one wrong move it's so easy to lose both love & money. I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is but money comes with time. Keep your dignity. It's worth more than all the money in the world. God Love You!
927939
no way!!!  \n\nMy boyfriend's a manager at a Radio Shack and he has to be there from 5:30 AM to 11 PM!!!!!\n\nThat's ridiculous!!!\n\nI'm going to bring him and all his employees coffee and cookies and then I'm going home to hide and wait the rest of the day out...
937716
Maybe you should go over there and be with her instead, slick.\nLegally or Illegally\n\nIs your work more important than your relationship?
425836
yes - you should talk to your boss and make sure she understands what you feel. also, don't simply decide on the priorities just with what other co-worker want u do to, unless you can accommodate that along with your own deliver ables. Boss w(sh)ould know the big picture and deal those 'extra' help requests from others thru your boss - two things: your boss will then know how much helpful you are to others and your boss will know how others are struggling to get their work done - this will help for you career and will help your manager for better planning.
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The fact that she is a manager where you work should not be an excuse for her to be able to almost blackmail you into fathering a child you are not ready for.  If it was the other way around and she was the male in this situation then it would be almost sexual harassment and there are avenues you can go down to get it stopped.\n17 is way too young to be thinking of having a child.  You will change so much in the next few years, and who you are now is not going to be who you are when you reach 24.  technically you are not even recognised as an adult, whereas she is 24 and has a child already.\n  I think you need to be honest, tell her this is freaking you out.  That you don't want to bring a child into the relationship when you have a lot of growing to do yourself, first.  Depending on how strong her urge to have another child is, she will either be reasonable and understand, or she will be out there finding another potential father.
835214
i agree with the guy above me. unless.., do you live in florida? because here we have an at will relationship with employees. you could fire her for coming into work without bringing you a smoothe if you want.\n\nso i think, because she is completly manipulative, and bad at it or else she wouldnt have gotten caught so easily, you should tranfer her to florida and fire her a**. \n\nif you cant transfer her then go with what the other guy said.
616248
Nice pun in your question.....\n\n\nIf you have reason to maybe let them know I would otherwise I don't see a need to. It is up to you and according to your comfort level with your co-workers.\nMy wife is claustrophobic in certain situations so I know it can be tough.
853478
Sounds like both of you are going through withdraw.  That's too bad b/c most of time in long distance relationships, the other person eventually leans on someonelse and you become history.  If there is a will for you two to be together then you are going to have to find a way.  If this means giving up your job for her, then do it.  Do whatever it takes b/c you already know this isn't working, do you think it will get better?
1067822
Just like your husband, I work in another city. My wife does that too. In the matter of fact, I would ask her occassionally if she did it. It brings no harm and it's healthy. Better that than having her with another man releasing her sexual urge on another.