what should i do?if my bestfriend doesn't lyk my boyfriend..?
340623
try to find something common between them. are they good to each other? if not then talk to the more flexible one about it and how u would like them to be friends or at least adjust. maybe doing that with ur boyfriend is easier cz if he really loves u he will do anything to make u happy (especially that it's a simple thing). if it doesn't work out and u used all the possibilities, just ignore the whole thing and treat each one alone. there's no need for all of u to exist in the same scenario
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
1063289
If you are in a trusting relationship with your boyfriend, then you need to tell him what his best friend is up to....if your bf doesn't believe you, then you need to end your relationship.
1181920
YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
850450
Your friend is being really stubborn. It seems to me that she has some deep-seated issues with criticism. (I should introduce her to my best friend — they sound like kindred spirits.) You need to get them both in the same place (don't tell them your plans until you get them together) so they can work out whatever beef she has with him. It's good that your boyfriend at least tried to make amends.
721370
UNLESS you are the best friends ideal woman true love soul mate ETC you are quite screw, male frindships especialy best friends are way too close and sharing a woman is not unheard of , you might make then fight for a while but in then end they will be friends again , and you will end up loosing bouth of them plus you will become the bad one of the story \nSO if you you really really like they guy , brake up on friendly terms with your boyfriend and wait out a until your boyfriend finds someone else , then make your move , most likely the best friend will ask his Buddy if is ok with him (keep in mind that for him to do so he must really liked you  way past any phisical attraction , otherwise he wont bother do so ) \nNOW  if is phisical attraction just plain sex what you want , is easer to go for the 3 some , deal and make it think it was his idea, that might work , if all you want is to scrach an ich \nNOW commun sense would be no to do anything , most likely whatever you do you will be the one that ends up hurt and alone , and you dont need that , the choices above are just choices but it dosent mean they are the correct ones ,\nI understand how can someone end up liking someone close to their parther it happends all the time  but when you are considering acting on it , maybe and just maybe instead you should be wandering what is missing in your relationship , and see if you can work at it or move on , but dont get yourself into a mess
1023868
Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo
1094956
Do you really need to ask this? If you respect yourself, you will realize that your boyfriend is not worthy of being in a relationship with you, and your best friend is not a real friend. Surround yourself with people that are worthy of your friendship and love.
281757
you can't necessarily make your best friend and boyfriend get along, but you can avoid being put in the middle.. if they truly care about your feelings they will try to get along or at the very least not bring you into it .. remain close with both of them and don't let either of them tear you apart from the other.. tell them how much it would mean to you if they could get along .. who knows, all three of you could become the best of friends
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
540348
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
483833
If u think she likes them more than u why are you best friends with her? also if u know your boyfriend is bad why don't u get rid of him? In fact get rid of them both and you'll probably feel a lot better!x
53252
Why not? hes your best friend. My best friend and me are closer than her boyfriend.  Its best if i know other issues involved but for the question alone, i dont sense any reason why not go out.
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
669527
go with you'r heart and fealings and talk to you'r friend because maybe he feals a little jealous and don't want you to get hurt and talk to you'r boyfriend about you'r friend. My advice would be go with you'r fealings and be true to you'r self. Hope that helps