Why do many men prefer older women - even as much as 25 years older?
343979
I believe that women dont become really sexy until they reach a certain age. Older women are easier to be with because they know what they want and are not afraid to ask for it. And they are not afraid to do things that some younger girls are!
1081460
i do like older guys and most of the girls i know\nlike them.\nim 21 and my man is 35.\nwomen want to be with someone more mature than them
134022
i think they feel more appreciated. older women are more appreciative of little things than younger women, and they understand a little bit better what it takes to be a good gf/wife than a younger woman might. This is just a guess, of course
294285
Young men like confident women, strong, independent women, that know what they want.\n\nMost young guys that date older women, say they can't find a confident female their age, that doesn't act immature at some point.\n\nGood Luck and prosper...;*!*;...
454528
because men mature slower then woman and woman just tend to figure it out.  Sex isn't everything, they want to settle down.  Men have to sow their wild oats before it dawns on them.  Why do you think woman usually go for older men?  Old men usually have been around the block but finally figure it out.  (of course even some older men haven't figure it out) You can usally tell by how they treat a woman. They are patient and not pushy.
289693
Because women mature faster than men.  Women in your age range aren't out club hopping looking for flings and falling in and out of relationships.  A lot of them are single parents, or they're working full time to develop a career and pay their bills, and they're not interested in playing around anymore.  They're looking for someone who's responsible, mature, devoted who's going to bring something positive to their life.  Most middle aged men are still in denial about getting older and wanting to do what they did when they were fresh out of highschool... hit the scene... hit the clubs... hit the parties... find party girls to score with and maybe hang around for a bit if they're chill.
1036495
i can only answer for myself..hope that is good enough...\n\nNot to be funny but we all know that women mature faster than men right? well when a girl is lets say 23 and her man is 24, he has the mentality (in most cases) of about a 17-18 yoa male...so older men tend to be on the same mentality level...\nnow why girls your age won't go out with you..i don't know...can't help you there\n\noh yeah i am 23 and my guy is 36  ;)
398717
Because, with age, women gain experience, as well as anyone, and it's the thrill of going out with someone older...Why are you asking this? lol
1029116
I am 28,  seeing a man who is 49.  I have always dated older, several years older.  I have always been more "settled" than others my age,  never being into the whole party/drinking scene, etc, etc.  I find that older men have "been there,  done that" and are in turn more settled as well.  They better understand that pleasantness and value in just being able to sit next to someone and be content.  I don't really know how to explain it other than being more comfortable and laid back.
412030
Age doesn't necessarily make someone better. You can be older and limited in experience, or younger and very experienced. It varies from person to person. I wouldn't jump to conclusions with that kind of assumption. I speak from personal experience! A case in point would be that some older women like to make love to younger men. It is not necessarily because they are better lovers than older men, but because they make the woman feel younger(he may also have more stamina than an older man, but will probably drop his "deposit" sooner as well). Also, younger women like older men, because he makes her feel mature, and she likes to brag to her girl friends that she is with a grown man. Even if it sounds lame, that is what I have heard some women say!
347552
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
701305
I've always heard there are physiological reasons, hormone levels and such, but I don't know a whole lot about that.  \n\nI think most women over 30 have lost that worry over what they guy is going to think and enjoy themselves.  I mean, lets face it, if a woman is enjoying themselves during sex, what man is going to not enjoy that???  \n\nAlong with that, comes a willingness to experiment.  Just how far that willingness goes depends on the women, but I think even the most conservative of us are more adventurous at 30 than we were at 20.
846420
Older men seem to know how to make a woman or lady feel more comfortable due to his experience with women.  It is just the same, when men say, they like older women.
663432
Well, one reason might be that you're attractive to begin with, whether you look younger or not.\n\nBut there's something else going on too.  There's this whole power thing going on.  A lot of guys as they get older start feeling that in order to feel good about themselves, they have to be able to attract girls like they were young.  So they look for younger women (there's more, but I don't have space).  Also, there's a power thing going on.  Older men will be attracted to younger women because the younger ones are less experienced, more trusting, and easier to manipulate.  Since you have to ask the question, you're probably naive and trusting, so be on your guard for someone who might want to take advantage of you.
519573
I'd like to think that there are men out there who think she's more hot than ever, if just to convince myself that a few men exist who appreciate the nuances age and maturity can add to a woman's allure. For the most part, men seem too shallow and immature to even notice it. They seem oblivious to how much sexier a woman can be as she matures, they just see that she "looks old". It's their loss though, but it isn't going to affect me, since I'm married to a man who finds me more attractive than he did when we first met, I just think it's a little sad.
465237
Well i suppose it is natural to be attracted to these women especially when you say that you are still young and outgoing, regardless of your age. However do not expect too many invitations, unless it is for your money. I am 31, the only way i would be with a man that much older is if he was really rich and i was desperate, or maybe i fell completely inlove. I think your chances are slim. It is not abnormal but a hard call.
542128
I'm 56 and women your age want to date us guys cause the women your age say younger men are too immature! But it is your choice of what you want out of life? Myself, a women has no age limit for me as long as we are compatible.\nGo for it girl, all you need is self esteem!