How to predict other person's feelings when speaking?
338947
You can see their expression on the face while the person meets you first and if you think the person is with a gloomy face,then the person is in a bad mood or the person is not happy to see you as he or she may not like talking to you.You can change your way of speaking or just don`t talk alot as people get very irritated if you talk too much.
148068
TRY NOT TO ALWAYS BE THE ONE DOING ALL THE TALKING. GIVE OTHER PEOPLE A CHANCE TO SAY SOMETHING. LISTEN TO WHAT THEY ARE SAYING. BEFORE YOU RESPOND TO SOMETHING, CAREFULLY THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU R GOING TO SAY BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING THAT COULD REALLY HURT SOMEONE'S FEELINGS, OR CAUSE AN HONEST MISUNDERSTANDING. BUT THE KEY TO GOOD COMMUNICATION IS GOOD UNDERSTANDING. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS NEW PIECE OF ADVICE.
45971
Practice. That's the main thing that will help. I have that problem, and it helped me to remind myself that the person I am talking to is just a human - exactly like me... absolutely no more special, and therefore should have no power to make me nervous. Another thing I do that has helped is observe people with really good social abilities. It doesn't exactly make you more calm, but it shows you more options of how to act in situations when talking to people - which over time will make you more confident in yourself as you become more comfortable with the "talents" you've learned.
678589
Dont be afraid to mean what you say. Seriously. I'm taking a speech class right now, and I fall to pieces if I let my emotions get out of hand.\n\nThat's when I have to realize that these are just people. We all make mistakes. It happens everyday. Don't be afraid to be who you are even if they think if it's the dumbest speech ever.\n\nThe pure success in giving a speech is saying it with pure CONFIDENCE. Your audience may get a different impression if you have boldness and sincereness in what you have to say.
153737
You can not control how others will react or feel by what you say. If someone is crossing your boundry line,it is up to you to say so, they can't read your mind. Choose your words carefully, say it kindly and all is done. If someone thinks that you are rude and you have been as kind as possible then that is their problem not yours.\n I need to do this quite often. So many people are touchers to even complete strangers and I suffer from chronic pain where sometimes even the lightest breeze can cause pain I would wish on no one. I just have to tell people straight out, or my husband does, to be gentle with me. I won't break, but I will suffer pain. And you know what there are people who are then offended and think I am rude for not wanting to be punched on arm or bear hugged, some people just have no thought for anyone but themselves
204473
It seems they both trust you. I think you should perform the following:\n\n1. Keep yourself in the same position being a good listener but try molding the direction of conversation from personal to general\n2. Either do not convey one's bad feelings towards the other or make it as mild as possible\n2. Occasionaly lie about one's good feeling about the other - if these lies could bring two distant hearts together, they'd be more beautiful than any truth.\n\nGood Luck.
37937
smile and say something kind, complimentary, or designed to get the other person to talk.
1091922
If you already feel it, it's a matter of putting a name to the feeling.\n\nStart with a piece of paper... write down one of the words you can name.  \n\nDraw a circle around it.  Write down another, put a circle around that.  \n\nwhat ideas or feeling does each of those suggest?  Write those down, circle them, and connect them to which word or feeling prompted them.\n\nThey will start to make phrases, then sentences.  Just keep going until you've exhausted it and expressed yourself.\n\nIf it helps, say it out loud, say each word out loud until you get there.  \n\nThink of songs that express what you feel -- what are the word they use?  Can you use some of those words and change them around to what you feel?\n\nWhat movie best expresses how you feel?  What are some of the qualities of it?  Try some of those words or dialogue -- change it to be what YOU mean, though.
607469
make a person smile a couple of times, laugh a couple of times and you throw thier receptivity switch in thier personallity to the on position. with this done just deliver the question as if it was something that you needed thier personal advice on and most people will divulge almost anything. they may shoot it straight from the hip or the more shy will give it as a "third" person or "hyperthetical" scenario but we can all read between those lines lol ;o)
791024
Communication is the key element in all relationships. Talk to him in a non-attacking manner and tone. Start all sentences with "I feel". That always helps. The second he feels attacked, he will tune you out. That way he can only respond to how you feel and not what he may or may not be doing in your eyes. Good luck.
320299
Talk. If you just smile and stare people will wonder about you. In your mind, make talking an art form. Eventually, you will speak beautifully.
1016730
Watch My Fair Lady. And don't feel self-conscious. Your enunciation/prononciation will improve!
538108
If there is someone in the crowd who is a friend have them listen to your speech before hand and sit as near the front as possible. Be VERY prepared and start out by looking at your friend who has already heard the speech. As it goes along you'll find yourself more at ease and able to look around.
969000
Be a good listener,  and let people talk about themselves.  They love to.  But the real important thing is to really pay attention to what they say and try to see their point of view.  Express yours only if you are really sure about it.
828419
being careful of what you say to her and just listening out for the things that she says to you. let her come to you now not the other way around. you have already expressed yourself and now knows how you feel. now she needs a little time to think about the moves that she is going to make. act par when you are around her and keep par conversations so that she feels comfortable all most as if nothing was ever said. \n\nbasically when she brings it up than you can bring it up if nothing is said than do not say anything at all.
33867
Make it a point to be more interested, genuinely interested in the people around you!  Focus on who they are, what they are saying, with no background noice or thoughts from your head.  Stop worrying about what they think, because as long as they're talking about themselves, they wont be thinking about you!  And once they've invested things about themselves into you, they'll naturally feel closer to you, and like you!  Then, hopefully you will feel comfortable enough to share something relevant as well, otherwise, they we'll feel foolish for opening up to you and withdrawl!  This is how intimacy is formed.  Since you are shy, take the receptive role first, and then the giving role.  Try it!  Remember, Ask and open ended question, such as, "Where are you from?"  ..." oh, how is it there, I've never been?"  keep them talking about themselves until you feel comfortable enough to enterject something about yourself!  Remember to listen to what they are saying, not your self concious voice in your head!! Focus!  Good luck! ;)
454211
WHEN YOU STAND OR START SPEAKING ABOUT A PATTICULAR SUBJECT DONOT FEEL THAT YOUR WORDS ARE NOT TO THE POINT AND ONLY THINK THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY MASTER AND THE LISNERS ARE TRYING TO GRASP SOMTHING OUT OF YOU.TRY YOU WILL GET COFIDENCE. II-THE TOPIC ON WHICH YOU WANT TO EXPLAIN MUST BE UNDER YOUR CAMMOND YOU WILL THEN FEEL THAT ALL IS IN YOUR CAMMOND INCLUDING THE AUDANCE.III- YOUR TOPIC MUST BE FULL OF EXAMPLES.TRY THOSE EXAMPLES WHICH ARE NOT EXPIRIENCED BY OTHERS AND YOU WILL GAIN CONFIDANCE.