is cheating wrong, especially if nobody finds out?
349814
no, if u think cheating in school is wrong- grow up and wisen up. everyone benefits.
45792
No way. Cheating is for losers.
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
411885
Oh, I absolutely agree with you, cheating is wrong. Your teenage daughter is right, everybody cheats on everything. I'm a junior in high school, and alot of people cheat. There have been plenty of times when I look around the classroom during a test, and see my friends holding little "cheat sheets" under their desks, with answers to the test on it. I have been given the opportunity to cheat on tests alot, but for some reason I just can't bring myself to do it, because I just know that its wrong. I realize that I should have studied, but I didn't and so now I'm going to pay for it. This doesn't happen alot though, because I'm a smart kid. Also, I've noticed that cheating is more common on English and History tests. Math is harder to cheat on, I guess. Good question, I enjoyed answering it.
1036405
Um, to the technicality dude above, if you are in a relationship, whether married or dating, then it IS cheating.
829481
As long as you are comfortable with the notion that you will most likely find something you won't like to see/know, even if it's harmless to your relationship, and then can't even share what you feel with them.  \nIf you are looking to 'catch' him and to use what you find (infidelity etc..) to end the relationship, then go for it... otherwise it will just make you feel guilty and helpless.  If you are in a happy & trusting relationship, don't do it!
493784
If the truth were known with acuracy, I would estimate that over 90% of men cheat.  I have asked this question of men in chat rooms, etc.  Most admit that they cheated and their wife never knew.
816569
No.  There is nothing in the rules against it; anyone else who wants to can do it too. How could that be considered cheating?
507110
People cheat because they have a lack of self control.  If you know that something is wrong, and you do it anyway, then you are showing an amazing lack of self control, and your immaturity is showing as well.  It takes strength realize the truth.  A person does not have to cheat.  You simply tell your significant other "I don't love you enough to respect your feelings, or care if I hurt you."  Then leave them.  Because that is the exact message you are telling them when you cheat.  You are just too chicken to tell them to their face.
946233
No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
70321
I believe that many ppl ask the same questions only cuz there in denile, No one wants to know that there Girlfriend/boyfriend is cheating on them, and no one wants to know that anything bad is happening to them. As far as other ppl, they just dont pay attention but i do feel that sometimes after we write things we feel better and we reconize our own faults which sometimes makes us able to solve it... and YES i think they do it also for chat. BUT personally i think that if u are in a LOVE Bind and u think someone is cheating OR you are cheating then THIS place is the last place i'd wanna go UNTIL i read all the other ppl's questions and answers and that cuz ppl who think there being cheated on alot of them go on the *rebound* and fall in love with the first person that gives a good answer or the 1st person to respond lol... So in the long run (which is very sad) the cheated on becomes the cheater as well!
1153935
I think cheating is when you sneak to do anything behind someones back that you wouldn't do to their face. I also think a deception about what you want or who you are when you're getting into a relationship is the biggest and worst cheat you can do to someone else. When they find the lie, that's the biggest hurt, being fooled that something is as it truly is not.
664700
Not at all wrong to have friends but cheating is wrong if that is what is happening.\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
749057
It's never OK to cheat. \nIf you aren't as serious about the relationship as your boyfriend, then dump him and find someone new. Or have a long talk with him about possibly having an open relationship where you both can see other people. He'll get the hint that you aren't satisfied with the way things are. He'll either work with you to fix them, or give you your freedom to enjoy others. \nBut no matter what, honesty is always better than deceit. You would be betraying him if you cheated, and it would hurt him worse in the long run than if you just dumped him. In addition, it would be hard on you to keep your lies straight, and keep him from finding out. It's actually a lot of work to have an affair behind someones back, so it's not worth it.
290456
if you have reason to believe he is youare probably right. i can't think of a time i thought someone was cheatin and i was proven wrong. a womens intuition is never wrong
11655
If you think that what you're doing may be wrong, then it is. If you feel that the relationship is completely harmless and serves no purpose other than a casual friendship then maybe not.\n\nThe test is if you told your significant other, would they be upset?
904340
yea!but this is a real hard thing to decide because how does your gf or bf no that this will never happen again but it also depends on how long you 2 have been in relationship So it has to do with how much trust was in the relationnshp if you are the person who cheated you should not let your bf or gf find out from another person that only makes things worse so if you like/love this person as much as you think you do then you will have enough respect for them to come to them and tell them that you know you were wrong and you promise it wont happen again and long as you are faithful from that day on you are guaranteed a good relationship.