Why hasn't he proposed yet? How to answer this question from people. (long)?
350024
Flashback!  Ow I hated that!  I had the same question from the relatives.  I don't understand why they came to me all the time.  I don't think anyone went to him.  That is where they were wrong.  Did his relatives ask him?  \n\nYou could tell them that they are asking the wrong person.  You could say, "I am prepared with my answer.  I am waiting for the question, too."\n\nP.S.  Happily married over 2 years now!
201696
Don't be shy. Tell him what is in your mind. Don't wait for him to initiate the discussion. And be prepared to get any answer. You will not regret for this step in future. If you will not tell the person today, it can be too late for tomorrow. So, just go for it. And GOOD LUCK.
370009
Maybe he's scared of commitment. I say give him a little more time to get himself together and get the courage up to ask you but if you wait too long it could be far too late. In the end it's about what YOU  feel is right and at the same tine, when he feels he's ready for a relationship. Maybe, he isn't ready but you have to respect that and hope that soon he will be but do not put your life on hold waiting on someone who may never come around. It's all about what works for you, so keep that in mind.
1185931
You will never know the answer till you ask the question - TO THE PERSON YOU WANT THE ANSWER FROM.\nHaving not asked him how he feels, you are just assuming he loves you. \nWhat are your feelings in this matter? Towards him and otherwise? Do you love him? If so, have you told him that you do?\nYou say you've tried waiting for him; is this something he is just supposed to figure out on his own.\nIf you care about him and have remained silent yourself about the fact, why should he even be expected to come to you.\nThe best policy always is communication. Never to assume you know the thoughts and/or feelings of any person other than yourself.\nBy not approaching him with your questions, you have in a way, set him up to fail from the start.\nTalk to him. You may be surprised. What if he thinks the same way you are thinking and is waiting for you to say something? Well, then you will have both lost.
735381
Don't get too over excited, he may or may not propose so don't build all your hopes us, if he does then you will be very surprised.  It does sound like a hint though.
354589
It sounds as if he is not ready to marry just yet. If this is okay with you than stick with him, but if you want to marry and start a family you might have to come right out and say hey we have waited long enough and if he gives some excuse then it might be best to re think the situation...Cejay
327138
let him know .he might be cool with it. honesty is the best policy. but if he says no. then sneek.
612250
Give him time. Do you know his work schedule and what it is like. He may have checked the email and just not had time to respond to it. Maybe he is gathering his thoughts of what he may want to say to you. Sometimes it is harder for men to express their feelings because they don't want to seem like a pushover, or move to fast. I would wait and give him another day or so. I know that it can be hard when you are filled with anticipation. In the end, follow your heart for you are the only one who knows what makes you truly happy.......Best of luck to you
727506
Oh, poor guy... Just listen to what you're saying: you're basically TRYING TO MAKE HIM marry you. With that kind of attitude, I don't think that guy will marry you without doubting himself whether this relationship will work. If you try to push him here, what else does he have to expect, once you're married and live together? He won't have a second of freedom to breathe - that's what you're telling him.\nDon't get frustrated. If he doesn't propose just yet - he's got a reason to do that. Either he is trying to make a surprise for you, or maybe, he is still trying to figure out how will this whole marriage thing work. If you think he's not really planning to propose - then why in the world do you insist on him to do that? If he does plan to propose and waits for the right moment, you're pushing that moment farther and farther away, because you're thinking about it all the time, and he can't propose to you by surprise if that's all you think about. Maybe, he's been carrying a ring in his pocket for weeks now. But when you two meet.... "Hi, honey, when are you going to propose to me?" -" Oh, yea, I was just going to do that..." Sweet surprise, isn't it? Give him time and space, let him get ready. It's a big step in both of your lives. And it's not every day you get married.\nBtw... Me and my gf have known each other for almost 3 years. And yet I still haven't proposed to her (even though we too talked about marriage many times). We are still figuring out each other, trying to understand the relationship better and soften out sharp egdes, which have a potential of ruining our relationship. Once we both think we've got to know each other well enough, then we'll start making plans of a wedding. Until then, we enjoy each others' company and get to know ourselves really well. One thing neither of us wants to happen is to find some really bad surprise about another person when we're already married. Way too many relationships brake up because they started too quickly. If people in those relationships would get to know each other before dating - maybe they'd never want to date another person and save tons of nerves and time.
256475
Sounds like you waited too long already.  If he isn't married or involved with someone he is still someone with little time to give you--or he would be with you now.  He doesn't sound worth another second to me.
93357
First, be glad he's honest and not pulling a line.  Second, don't be hurt just because you don't like the answer to a question you posed.  Third, realize these things have to work on their own time; you can't mandate a schedule.  Fourth, at some point this indecision can just be a delaying tactic, but don't jump to that conclusion now.  If the relationship is badly stalled for months and you're not happy about it, then you have a real problem.  But you need to let some time pass before you declare it badly stalled.
923351
dun push it sis,\nsometimes wif all the askin, might juz brings him further from the question!\n\njuz be it! if u cnt wait for an answer go look ard!\n\ncheers!\n:-)
630664
The best idea is to openly talk to each other. Propose him directly instead of this dilemma.
1054623
He understands perfectly.  He is just trying to get you to change your mind.  Stand your ground, you are doing the right thing.  Tell him you are engaged, very much in love and respect your fiance.  Do you know his wife?  Tell him you will ask her opinion of his proposition.  If all people had your attitude, there wouldn't be anyone to cheat with. I applaud you.  Best wishes on your upcoming wedding.
239704
Why is he still single (unmarried) at 43? Why do you always have to start the discussion about moving in together? Why did he make that remark?\n\nI think you are right to wonder about his commitment to the relationship. But don't overreact - take it easy. I may be wrong!
975394
He knows, you know, you both know that is going to happen. You just have to be patient and wait. He knows that you are the one for him and if you have already discussed marriage and children, then it's a clear indication that it's going to happen soon.\n\nMen that don't commit won't even mention the "m" word and will back off at the minimum indication of getting too close or too serious. He is not scared about discussing marriage with you because you are the one for him. \n\nDon't set deadlines or ultimatums or conditions for it to happen, they are NOT necesary. Accorduing to what you wrote, he is planning on doing it so don't spoil his plans by becoming frustrated and impatient.\n\nMost couples get engaged by their second anniversary, besides, Christmas, New years and Valentine's day are around the corner too, you might be in for a surprise.\n\nMy advice to you is to wait until your second anniversary before becoming anxious. It's not necesary for you to feel this way, you have the perfect man, ther perfect relationship, so don;t ruin it by becoming irritated. \n\nHe will ask you and there is no question about it, wait a little bit more... proposals are way more romantic when they are a surprise and men really love plan something special and having the perfect ring ... let him give you what you deserve ...let him surprise you and enjoy the relationship. \n\nHe is THE ONE sweetie... be patient.\n\nCongratulations and good luck!
301533
At least he's nice enough to wait for you... Maybe he knows that you don't know what you want too.\nYou are not pushy when you let people know what you want.  It's a good way to communicate.  Plus it will save both of you a lot of time & confusion.