Is it really a good thing for young teens getting married after high school?
344627
If you're truly in love, then I don't think there is anything wrong with getting married after high school.
522336
Oh man, I remember those days, back in jr. high and high shcool. I'm not sure how old you are but don't ever ever ever get married because it becomes non-existant after a year. I've been married for 8 years now and forgot what it was like.\n\nEnjoy and make out as much as you can now! Don't comlicate your life by going all the way!
724644
Absolutely!! What girl doesn't dream of getting married and starting a family!! I think for the most part, most girls want that at one point or another! Sometimes, it happens early for some than it does earlier!! And going to a wedding and seeing the new couple together can make anyone excited for that type of committment! But it sounds like you have your head on your shoulders and know you don't want it yet, but yes, you are normal!! We all want the fairytale!! :-)
973066
I got in a marital sitiation at seventeen years old.I am now 25.I now have two children.I sometimes do regret starting out so young.Only because their were things in life that i didn't yet get to accomplish.I call them "self accomplishments"I am very greatful though that i have my son's.They are the world to me.I do believe that things happen for a reason.I still plan on working on my dreams and goals.Marriage is a lot of responsibility.No matter how old you are.You can get married at 30 and still regret it.Or you can wait and regret not getting married young.It all depends on the person.I believe that as long as a person accomplishes their goals and is truly happy with themselves they can live in a marrage happy.I realize that i don't regret being married,i only regret not preserving my youth.Being young is a preacious thing and once its past you can't go back.
1034954
It's doesn't matter if you're in school, what matteris how mature you both are.\nMy husband and I were both 19. We were on our own, had stable jobs (I was in the Navy and he was in the Marine Corps), were financially independent, and more mature than most our age. We didn't like going out and partying or drinking (we out grew that stage in high school) and we knew we loved each other. It worked for us but it is harder. Statistics are against us but we know we'll last. \nThere are advantages to waiting but if you really love one another, and you'll willing to deal with extra issues (it is very hard) then get married now.
1072329
Because alot of people out there don't think teenagers know about commitment and relationships, but they don't know how wrong they actaully are.  I know where your coming from because I got married at 19 years old and people though I was crazy and not ready for marriage, or that i was pregnant and getting married before the baby was born.  I'm 21 now and been married for over a year and people are shocked it even lasted that long.  What they don't know is age has nothing to do with it.  People in their 30 can have just as much trouble in a relationship as a young teen.  Its about maturity which you can have at a young age and its about willingness to commit.  i have a friend whos only 19 and been with the same guy for over 5 years now.  People are too quick and eager to judge on everything.
933365
yeah there are guys that are and they get married and they stay married. Take me for instance I have a fiancee as well and she 22 and I am 24, we are goin to get married in March of next year.\n\nAnywayz to get back to the subject, yeah there are many young couples that get married young and stay married. Do not worry about the other women, if he truly wants to be with you and loves you more than anything he would not pay attention to all the other women.\n\nOther than that I wish you all the luck and blessings in the world. Congrats on the engagement
483978
Is 18 to young to get engaged, i don't think so . have fun with that part.But is 20 to young to get married? well for some people it might be,there are some that get married at that age and are still together and thy were in love and they took that person for better or worse till death do them apart, but there are some out there that should never get MARRIED out there ,they don't no what it really means. And if your worry about missing out on life,you sure don't need to get married. i waited till i was 28 till i got married and that's when life began.
441752
No. People who are looking for true love and don't allow it to happen when it should, will marry but they are settling. Some will panic because at a certain age they will marry who ever, out of fear. Not everyone is destined to find their true love. Sad, but true.
765481
As an adult in my forties, I regret that I didn't go to any of my high school functions so, I would tell you to go to your high school bonfire so you have no regrets later.  High school is a fun filled time in your life and you should take advantage of your ability to share experiences with your classmates before you go your separate ways once you graduate.  I encourage my son to participate in school activities while he has the chance because soon he will be an adult with responsibilities and obligations.  Go and have fun!!
202091
Did you skip English in high school?  Are you even out of high school??  Sounds to me like you are to young to get married.  Just take your time.
586384
I think that you are way too young to make a life decision like marriage. Despite what is shown on television and what celebrities do, marriage is supposed to be a life commitment. Do you feel that you can commit your life to someone at such a young age? Do you want to go to college, Does she want to go to college? How would this effect your relationship? Have you sat down and REALLY discussed the ramifications of getting married. Where would you live afterwords (with your parents?), how could you afford living together, etc.  It might suit both of you to speak to a third party, like a pastor or even a counselor before taking the plunge. You sound like a nice person, but remember the old saying (and Elvis song), Only fools Rush In
956184
I felt that way about some girlfriends I had in high school, but in time the relationships that I thought could never end, did end.  It seems so impossible when a relationship is going well like that, that it could ever end, but it happens all the time, and takes you by surprise.  That said, I have known people who did make it through many years after high school, so it does happen successfully sometimes.  I would say that more often than not, high school relationships do not remain long term, but there are always exceptions, and you may be one of them.  Best of luck!\n\n~Kyle
703609
Well cup cake, the sad truth is most people never marry their high school sweetheart.  But there are those rare exceptions.  Good luck.()
1150649
Junior year was a great dating year for me...until it ended heh.\n\nBut if you are going to have sex in any relationship in H.S make sure its safe. Its a better bet to wait till marriage.
825995
A friend of mine married a girl who is 5 years younger than him. They are very happy together. If it makes you happy, do it.
348587
Are you sure you want to get married at your young age?  Do some research and look at the statistics.