when od you know its really over with someone but you cant see it on the outside?
342826
Well if you can't see it then you are in denial,when you have been in a commited relationship with someone you really want to make it work out,its not easy to come to terms with the reality things are not working out but deep down you always know.The best thing to do is pray about it and take your time before making any lasting decisions.
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
500841
Are you sure you're not just suffering from 'the grass is greener on the other side' syndrome? In other words, do you kinda miss being single and the benefits that can bring? The old saying 'you don't know what you have until it's gone' is SOOOOO true! Take some time to think of how you would feel without her. What would your life be like (don't be shallow when thinking about this)? Empty? Happier? Really think. Whatever way you choose to go, you need to think of her feelings too. If you choose to end it, be kind. It's not a nice thing to do, but if it's not what you want, it's better for her to find out now than further down the line. At least you can both get over it and get on with your lives. Good luck!
459736
Now what do you think ? Why would you ever tell him if there is no way for him to know, Put it behind you ask GOD to forgive you and move on. If you tell him it is over.Believe me men never let it go,they may say they can but it is something about their ego it just eats them up. Do not tell him
772115
Have you told him. Chances are he will let you down easy and that will give you the closure you need to move on
387200
Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
103315
it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u
428565
thats the problem people always think the grass on the other side is greener...now you just have to take what you get...but hope you find him...if not move on
134464
it usually means something else has caught his eye,and hes ready to look elsewhere.sorry girlfriend.
767770
Because we are always afraid we might not see that person again. Plus we're softies! I have a very hard time saying bye to anyone too. From now on just say, "So long for now" and maybe it might not seem to final. See ya! (for now)
260905
You have a feeling you have never felt before, you always long to be with the person, it is if they are not enough time in the day for the two of you, no one else matters to you, you get butterflys in your stomach no matter how much you are around them....Your heart will tell you
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
1030773
Man, I just got out of a relationship with a girl I didn't think I felt much for, and you know that saying 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'? Well, I realized how much I truly loved her. Maybe it will hit your ex just like it hit me. Maybe with some time she'll miss you, especially if it was as good of a relationship as you say. And especially if you were her first. You don't forget something special like that. Even if she downplays it, it should be something that will be with her always. Just give it time I say.
63475
im in a position like that.\nits really hard\nspecially when you think (you can see) she (he) loves you too, but both of you cant talk about it at all!\n\ni think its on you, if you can eliminate the distance, then tell that person, what you feel,\nand tell her (him) what are you going to do!
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
100498
well honey i dont know what to tell you that sucks just wait and see if they split up and that is what you really want please dont try to break them up because it will all come back on you eventually i truly believe that if it is meant to be it will be just sit back and let them know that you are intrested just dont freak out and let it consume you you will probaly find someone else and wonder what you thought of that person to begin with
101548
At some point it's right and we can'y tell u when. Only u Know. At that point if he doesn't want it too, it's time to move on!