my gf is very cute but every guy hits on her  im finewith that when iam around but it gets old what should ido
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Stand up for yourself.  Don't let other guys hit on her, and make a fuss when they do.  Make sure you don't get yourself beaten up for it, though, but you have to stand up for it and show other guys that she's your girlfriend.  Don't be fine with it.  You need to show her that you value her a lot by actually showing an emotion and doing something when someone else hits on her, ESPECIALLY if they do it when you're around and it's obvious that you're her boyfriend.  Show some backbone.
1063997
keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
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thats awsome!  ofcourse its important, but if she really loves ya, she will stay with you.  explain to her that your not like the other guys who can't control themselves, and you have a brain that controls your body, not the other way around.  I have respect for you.
915303
BE YOURSELF. IF YOU CANT BE YOURSELF AROUND HER, THEN ITS HIGHLY UNLIKELY YOU WILL LAST LONG!
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Just say no. He'll respect you more, and poss. consider you more of a gfriend material later on, if thats your goal. girls who put out to easily aren't gfriend material, they're just somthin' on the side.
374851
try to charm her. if ure eyeing an oldr girl, u have to act mature for ur age. i think girls date younger guys if they were more mature than their age. spend time with her, b friends with her, talk to her friends, they can help u, figure out wut she likes dislikes n u can use that too. b funny n shell def look at u....
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Your girlfriend needs to practice more and build up her stamina.\n\nMost girls can outlast their boyfriends by a good margin - if she is not keeping up with you, you need to find a better lover.
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look I'm a female so I really don't agree with what your trying to do. If you are no longer sexually attracted to your gf then break it off. she has feelings and for you to cheat on her after 1 1/2 yrs you will be pathetic. she trust you and she knows that something has changed that's why she is trying to get the affection from you or put it back into your relationship. sex isn't everything if you don't have someone you love to share it with. I think you really need to think about what your saying and trying to do. If you think your relationship is done then break it off and leave it at that. But if you just want to have sex u and ur gf should do role playing. It will increase the excitement in your relationship and hopefully stray u away from other interest
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i understand what you mean i was there. hun you just have to hang in there and do the same thing to him act cutie around him. small talk like he dose to you then sooner or later he will get the hit. he likes seeing you like this dont let him. act happy with out him and see what happens
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It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
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I just answered your question about how to prove to your gf that you love her.  Sounds like you might be the one that could be insecure?  Don't worry man.. just chill.  Girls are more attracted to confidence than anything else including looks, smarts, ...
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She does it because you let her.  You need to dump her.  Just do it.  She'll continue to treat you like dirt (and every other guys she dates) until she's old and bitter.  There will never be a man good enough for her.  It sucks I know, but some people just don't know that they suck.  She's got to be told now.  Then get your butt somewhere there are lots of healthy positive girls and try, try again.
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So friend, it definately sounds like there is some flirting happening.  you should, in a calm manner address your Gf regarding the issue tell her the ruth that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would like to do something about it, but the best thing would be is that if she felt strong enough towards you she wouldn't want you to be unhappy and would reduce her time together with dude, especially since school is out.  As colleagues, I can understand that they may have gotten to know each other pretty well and may have a strong mental connection. but there are certain places you just don't go...if my fiancee (we're 29 and 32) knew that a boy at school liked me and flirted sometimes, he would be pretty hurt and I would minimize the chance of that happening by not putting myself in a position that would have me being responsive to the flirting gestures of another and dilating pupils (other signs of flirting that are difficult to prevent), I would just not be around that person to avoid that type of interaction.  \n\nHopefully if you talk with her, she will reassess the motions and actions that she is making and that are happening between them and understand that they are not appropriate.\n\nGood luck, you need to ultimately do what is best for yourself in the long run..whatever course that means you should take.\n\n\noh and the quote: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...is in no way from a "show"..it is Saint Augustine (November 13, 354–August 28, 430)...well before they had T.V.
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just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.
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because she cares about you... u guy should really felt pround and appreciate that... only the girls that LOVEs you alot will have that kind of reaction.
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You need to sit with your girlfriend and talk to her openly abt how you feel.Sometimes girls just want to be there and be nice to their friends. She might not know that all this is making you uncomfortable. If she tells you there is nothing to worry abt and everything is fine, you need to tell her to be more considerate of your feelings and try to behave in a manner that would not put a strain on your relationship. But if she admits to liking the guy, there is no point in you hanging around there. You just need to let go and tell yourself that somethings r just not meant to be. Sometimes you need to be strong and take decisions with your head and not your heart.
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as long as there is no sex involved its all good.  it may piss you off but tell her that it does if she continues to do it, break up with her. trust is # 1 in a relationship