I am gay and yet i think about having sex with women, what should i do and how do i find a woman to have sex?
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Careful. Don't hurt anyone. Don't lie and don't just go for sex for the experience. Women don't think about it the same way that men do. It is a different experience both physically and emotionally.
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Have sex with another woman.\n\nIf you like it, you're a dyke.\n\nSimple, no?
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I found my wife in a chatroom at gay.com but I certainly do not recommend that method for everybody.  \n\nI recommend going places you like to go and doing things you like to do, just as I would for anybody lesbian or not.  These places are where you'll meet people who have things in common with you, which is what anybody is looking for.  Making lots of friends, being socially active and making yourself available all help.  Be honest, be real, but most of all have fun and enjoy yourself.  \n\nFR
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from what you had said it's look that you like to be gay and simple. \nI will tell you what I believed.....you are what you has been born on so if you born a man be a man and if you born a woman be a woman, second inside you is telling you that what you are doing is wrong and it's drive you to the right way. be simple and Jonie the air force. there is nothing nice to be a gay. & fiend a nice girl and do what ever you like to do.\nI know gay people will HAIR me....
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If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
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How long have you been lesbian?\nAre you a virgin and you've never had sex w/ a women?\nMaybe you should watch some porn, those girls know how to get down, that should teach you a few things.They're pros to, even better.
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Yes it is gay sex, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you are a homosexual for life. If you're worried, just masturbate (Except for the $100,000 thing. You can use a little of the money for therapy.)
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Are you asking about having sex with a girl? I did not understand your question at first. I am not sure about what girl on girl sex is like because I have never tried it. I know some gay ladies, and I am not given details about their love life, but they seem to be happy?  If it's just because you are young and are curious, then you should always be careful to protect yourself when you have sex with anyone. They make condoms for female on female sex. Just be safe, and if you are going to experiment with something like that, I think you should wait until you are old enough to deal with all of the emotions that come with love and sex. So I would hope that you would wait to have ANY sex with male or female until you are mature enough to be smart and not take a chance on catching any sexually transmitted diseases.\n\nMaybe you could discuss this with someone that you can be truthful with, if you have an older sister, or if you have a really good relationship with your mother, try to find someone that you can trust so they do not blab your business all over the place once you confide in them.\n\nGood luck, there is nothing wrong with being curious when you are young. You should wait until you are mature before you have sex or even consider sex with anyone. Please do not let yourself become another statistic, and do not give people a reason to trash your reputation when you are young and in school, other kids can be so cruel!
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You could start on Myspace, or something like that just by checking off gay and looking for a relationship rather than straight. My good friend has found a lot of good guys on that site, he tried gay.com for a while, but he thinks the men on myspace are less out only for sex. You just have to be a little bit forward and email some guys to get started if you can. But I know what you mean about bars, it's easier online sometimes. Try other places too, you'll find something/someone!
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If thats what turns you on, go for it. Its your life. Don't listen to the homophobic people in here. Who are they to judge. I bet they all have some kinky habits...
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Well I'm one of those fags (bundle of sticks)!!  The girl sounds awesome by the way, and I just want to ask you (since your obviously an expert when it comes to woman...so not!) do you know the real reason why straight girls associate with gay men?  They know that a real man is secure in his manhood to not get hung up on the whole "who she hangs out with" concept.  That may however be to hard for your pea size intelect to wrap around so looks like there is just no hope for you.  This girl is just way to much of a woman for you to handle so I would just leave her to the professionals, and step aside cause your a being a road block.
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Get command of the English language and then write back so that we  understand you. As to male/male sex...have fun. Be safe, enjoy...if you are gay...live your life. Be the person that you would be proud to be. Stop listening to everyone else. Listen to your heart.
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I am straight and I was born this way.\nYou are gay and I know you were born that way.  Cheers!\n(Here's a bit of scientific proof for the naysayers)\n\nThe sexual area of a gay man's brain works a lot like that of a woman when exposed to a particular stimulus, researchers say.\n\nIn an experiment, men and heterosexual women sniffed a chemical from the male hormone testosterone. The homosexual men's brains responded differently from those of heterosexual males, and in a similar way to the women's brains.
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First stop calling yourself Gay or Bi. Then stay away from gay people or at least from their organs. Do away with the gay mannerisms. Become who it is you want to be: A MAN! Your a man now and you want a woman to keep you warm. Go to the STRAIGHT bars. Buy a woman some drinks. Make sure she sees all that money in your wallet. If that doesn't work out, go to the next woman and so on. Think of it as training. You'll find the woman of your dreams and have fun finding her. Have fun. Be happy. Just don't be GAY! \n\nOh, and Tessa...Our sexuality is in our minds, not our genes. Because if it was in our genes, we'd find the gay gene and ERADICATE IT!
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Sounds like you want a transexual or a crossdresser!  You are attracted to men's penises but like the women's appeal of lingerie and undergarments.  I think that is what you desire.  Understand this though, being gay, bi, or straight is not what u do, but what u desire when u wanna do it.  When u r horny and in th ebed, ask yourself, if you can hav ethe ultimate fantasy right now and no one would ever know what would it be?  When u answer that, that is what u r .  No one ever really falls into th ecategory of completely straight or completely gay or completely bi, u just have phases in life sometimes.  A gay man can have sex with a million woemn and fantasize about men whil ebeing with those women.  Actions don't matter it's about what you desire when you want sex.  can you have a healthy sex life feeling thsi way?  yes but be real with yourself and what you want and it could be a lot healthier.  I'm straight, but understand I'm not judging you, but i study sexual psychology.  u might just lik etransexuals and crossdressers, try them and find out whta you think!
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Golly...you boys certainly do have wild imaginations!  For the record, if all of us women were as homosexual as you think we are/want us to be, we would never have sex with guys, so you should probably get over it.
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I don't believe that it makes you gay. But, it also depends on what your definition of Gay is.  I do believe that you have homosexual tendencies.  That means that you may not be actually having sex with or being sexually intimate with men right now.  But, if the right situation presents itself, you may become involved with a man sexually.  Now, whether you will just like guys then or not, I don't know.  However, anything is possible with anything.  Just take you time and find out what makes you feel good as a person and what makes you feel good intimately and that will be your answer.  Don't worry about the label too much.