is it possible to wake up one day and not be inlove when you were so inlove before that it was hard to breath?
347811
Three reasons:\n\nIt's called you had a crush before and now it's gone.\n\nIt's called the will to love has passed, since you found someone else.\n\nIt's called you don't want to love them because it wasn't unconditional; the condition to your love for them has been broken.
934899
Unfortunately, yes. But I am also quick to fall out of love. In the past, when I decided it was over, I cut all ties with the stony coldness of a surgeon removing a tumor. Kinda scary, it's almost like I become another person and am looking at myself from outside screaming "How can you be so COLD??!!??"
369066
You recover by taking care of you! I think a part of you will always love him, but at a different level. You will learn to go on and find a new love that you will love differently than the last. The love may not be a relationship, it could be a passion for a sport or activity that you discovered you enjoy but never did because you were in a relationship. Find a Friend and vent to her keep it between the two of you the more people you talk to about it the better the chance he will find out. The best thing for you is to know that you are going to survive and everyday is a new day and one day you will not so much remember the pain and will be thankful that you loved him and even more thankful you are not with him because of the great relationship you have. Without the bad relationships that ended you wouldn't have the opportunity to be thankful for the great relationships yet to come. Good luck to you.
1063838
That would take a LONG time for me to get over.\nI would cry, think about them every waking moment of my life, and when I would finally come to peace with it I would cry one more time, just to remember how much I loved and cared for them.
1132119
Yes 100%........ YES!\n   just watch ur BREATH for abt 5mnts .......... & know for urself how much u're RELAXED Emotionally, & physically!
154164
I think as long as there is breath in your body life is worth living. There is always something new around the next corner. As one who was "morbidly" obese and had surgery to fix that I can say life is much better now however life wasn't so bad then just harder. Peoples attitudes were the hardest things to deal with when they would look at you with disgust in their eyes or just make rude comments... heck they didnt even know me or my medical conditions!!!!
445877
Yes but u wake up very quickly once u feel him, IT"S GREAT!\nThat's what the man I was seeing used to do all the time,(the white guy that moved to GA)!
937322
when u think about this person and u notice that your not breathing and that everything makes u think of that person and u are not breathing again...yes u r in love
262118
I say take a deep breath, If you are doing you best, you have loved, you have what you want,  are restless at night, lost something dear, all you can do is pray.  Remember that life it not a perfect picture. It take work and dedication to succeed, to get what you need, to love and feel it is not a waste, to finally get that well deserved rest and to know that when something is gone replacing it is never the thing to do, something better might be in stored for you.
456085
No, if you breath there is hope.  Tomorrow can always be better.  True joy is having hope for a better future while going through hard times.  Believe me I am going through some now and I still have hope.\n\nHere are a few things that may help u:  Go outside for a walk sunshine help increase serotonin levels, drink lots of water helps increase metabolism and energizes u, focus on the positive things in your life, OTC med like St John's Wart may help you, praying, and even reading a book.  Hey, Yahoo Answers might even help u.\n\n:D\n\nDon't sweat the small stuff! \n\nSerenity Prayer\n \nGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change\nThe courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
927577
Not awakening and let my fiance know that I loved her.  Got up and made her a coffee prior to her getting up but did not lean over and give her a kiss and let her know that she is loved.  I would regret that.
736579
In my opinion you don't mess around when you talk about when it hurts to breathe and not going away because it could be something serious. Go see your doctor tomorrow.
622696
Yes.  A very close friend had been admited to the hospital with pneumonia and complications from his bone marrow transplant.  I woke up on a Wednesday morning feeling really bad and the bracelet he gave me broke.  I tried telling myself i was imagining things, but the next day, his roommate cxalled to tell my that my friend had passed away 10 minutes before I woke up. Ive had other premonitions too, but that stands out the most.
263068
Whether it had been 1yr. or 10yrs. it's hard to let go of someone you have gotten used to being around and doing things with and now it seems like everything around you make you think of this person. I and millions of other people can relate but you are simply dealing with something called CHANGE and it is hard for you to move from one comfort zone to another because you are not allowing yourself to. Let go of the past, that is all it is now, and find new people to be around, do things with other people, family members, and friends, learn to be comfortable with being single for now, get a life. And when you get involved with another continue to still live a life of your own.
1072146
How lovely of you to do so. Well, mine isn't really one to use on someone else, but my Partner of 25 years worries about me (i have some health problems unfortunately) I was really hurting one day and had gasped. I got "The Look" and I told her not to worry. She responded by saying" That's like asking me to stop breathing." It was so sweet. Go and make someone's day, dear. They'll remember it.
60614
you brave, brave soul.  regular breathing and not being so focused on the outcome.  relax.
325538
wake up and wish I could be asleep again