if my man cheats on me, does it mean that there's something wrong in me??
346713
yes...your not worth his time, your boring in the sack, there is always someone hotter, and who doesn't like to trade up?
1139301
Your insecure about your marriage. You and he need to work to make it stronger for your sake. It doesn't mean he is cheating, just you have some doubts...
762902
HAHA, if you know 'for sure' he will never cheat then he's probably doing it right now, that's how it works (I'd explain but I think it would be irrelevant on this question). For me to be happy what I enjoy is not being told what to do everyday (I hate waking up & being told what Im doing that day), don't be a psycho, give me my space & trust me when I go out, & be a freak when the time is right.
74346
no i dont think so,cuz if i know or find out he cheats on me that means i cant give him what he need..so aint no need for me 2 b with him anymore..he wanna cheat on me he should make sure im not gonna find out,but men always get busted somehow..and as a female u know when he cheats,u can feel it.
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
122822
You're not gonna like this....but he's a guy.  Every guy likes to look at women, every guy likes to be looked at by women, the only differences are in how well we control/hide it.  If you've never had any reason to suspect him of infidelity, I would say it's no big deal.  It certainly doesn't indicate anything about him not liking/loving you.  However, you need to ask yourself what you want.  Do you need a guy that will only look at you, give you that constant self-esteem boost?  If your boyfriends not what you wnat, move on, but if he's really what you need, with one mildly bad habit, deal with it.
953654
All men aren't the same and don't react the same way. I always say that actions speak louder than words. Watch his actions...is he coming home late or having private phone calls, etc. These are signs that he is cheating. Only you know if you need to worry. Take a good look at the relationship and how he treats you and you should find the answer.
750606
Simple he is a liar and a cheat. I would not take it so personally, if it had not been you it would have been someone else. If he told you he was single, it was not your fault. This is his issue, you are not the bad guy in this situation. However, let me also say that not only men do this but many females also. A cheat is a cheat is a liar is a liar. The world is full of amoral people. God bless*
528629
Hi, without a doubt in my mind, if I ever found out my man was cheating I would dump him, no questions asked.\nSome of you may say "he/she made a mistake.Yes, it is a mistake, and sadly some people repeat them over and over again.\nI would never be able to trust my boyfriend again. Women are emotional and are imaginations are highly active. I would not trust my boyfriend again. I would always have a vision in my mind of my boyfriend bedazzling another woman.\n I also would have a low opinion of myself. I would feel like I am not pretty, or sexy enough for my boyfriend (even though his actions were not my fault). I would also feel like he didn't love me. Because sorry, but if you truly love someone, you don't cheat, bottom line. I don't care if you are drunk, or your having a bad day..Its something you don't do to someone you love.\n  I would be so devestated if I found that out about my boyfriend. Also, when partners do cheat, they put YOU at risk. At risk for a disease....And believe me, several cheaters out there have given their girls and wifes, husband and boyfriends diseases. So my opinion, you would not want to put your love at risk.\n  Cheating is a disease for some people. They have to do it to make themselves feel high. Guys and Gals alike, don't fool yourself into thinking you are different or that these people can change. And to those of you who are going out with married or attached people, you are just as bad. You are an enabler. Some people cannot seem to stop cheating.\n  To you who have written this question, Good one. And I hope to a higher power out there that you have not been cheated on.
997496
No. You are just setting yourself up to be cheated on again and again. It is like telling him he can walk all over you because you won't stand up for yourself. Besides, if he is sleeping around, he could bring home an STD. Take care of yourself first!
449084
this guy is being unfaithful and hes trying to cover his tracks but listen if he was not guilty then why does he get so defensive.ill tell you why because he has a guilty conscience and another reason is men hate to get caught! it makes them look like a bitch.so my advice to you is to check him and if he cant respect what you ask then hes hidin something so be careful and goodluck gurl!!!!!!-lisa
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.
612552
Please do yourself a huge favor and move on. I can tell you from personal experience, if he cheated and he doesn't want to talk to you, he doesn't love you and he NEVER will. I'm sure you are worthy of someone that truly loves you. Don't mix up obsession and love. Good luck!
754082
if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
951575
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.