what are the questions mostly ask by people concerning premarital sex?
352540
typically most of the questions i have heard are in a couple of different categories\n\n1) the moral issue - is it right or wrong, is it sinful, a lot of these questions are hard to reconcile for some people\n\n2) the curious questions - what does it feel like, what should i do, is this normal, these type of questions are all basically because someone doesnt really know and after they have sex these questions slowly fade.\n\n3) consequence questions - what happens if we have sex, what will people think about me, can i get a diease from so and so act, these questions often are tied into both the other two categories and test how socially acceptable sex is for the person.
1111178
30-40 % - done intercourse before marriage.\n\n70-80 % - just having relations but have not done intercourse
187636
Just like a new car, you never buy it before the test drive.  Right?  So why not test drive that aspect of your relationship before getting premanently hitched?  \n\nMy husband and dated for nine months, then we lived together for four months and got engaged.  Three months after that we went to Vegas and got married.  It was the best decision we ever made!  We certainly tested out premarital sex to be sure we had the same level of desire and need, to see if we were compatible, etc.  Our sex life was hands down the best thing that ever happened to either of us.  It brought us into deeper committment at a faster pace.  We just went back to Vegas two weeks ago to celebrate our first anniversary.  We are very happy together thanks to premarital sex.
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
677653
Questions that should never be asked of anyone other than your nearest and dearest (and even then you should probably abstain), no matter how tempting it seems at the time are numerous. Here's a couple of them: \n\nWhy don't you have children? \n\nWhy aren't you married? \n\nHow much money do you make?\n\nAnd of course a wholoe slew of very intimate sexual questions which are only appropriate to ask of your partner.
404349
It is very untrue. As in most religions, they are not supposed to have premarital sex, but they certainly aren't all over there packing fudge, either. Would you screw a man just cause you couldn't get some p***y?
689224
teenage marriage, teenage pregnancy, or premarital sex... if that's not good, how about the sociallly concerned topics, like the groupings between teenagers, like the popular, the geek, nerds, freaks... things like that... or if not... how about how teenagers could help in the environment or things like that?...
1104126
It's sex before marriage. Some people are for it, some against it. I believe you should try before you buy.
126300
Um. ok Linked some stuff below. although sex education would have helped before the honeymoon. \n\nhope this helps
479767
When it feels like it would be the logical next step.\nAsk yourself the following questions....\n\n1. Do we love, trust and respect each other?\n2. Do we share the same expectations of marriage? \n3. Do we share things in common that make us shout, cry and laugh? \n4. Do we agree on major life issues, such as children, family and friends, where we'll live and style of living? \n5. Do we have a way of managing conflict? \n6. Do we share the same views on infidelity and commitment to avoiding temptation? \n7. Do we love each other just the way we are today, without any hidden agenda to try to change the other?\nYou don't have to agree on everything. The important thing is that you and your partner have talked through these questions and both feel confident you can live and work together, knowing what the other believes
301876
They ask you questions about sex in general, money, finances, children, faith, housekeeping, past relationships, all kinds of things that you need to talk about with your future spouse.
840099
I have no idea. Personally I don't have a problem with sex before marriage as I would want to know what I was getting before I got married to a man for life. Not that sex is all a relationship is but I think it's an important part. I don't think you should sleep around indiscrimately regardless of being married or not though.
140609
Talk to a priest.  Even if you aren't Catholic.  The Catholic religion has one of the most extensive premarital councelling programs.  If you don't want to go through that, a priest could still direct you where to go.
650785
It's not that we are against pre-marital sex, it's that we don't want OUR kids doing it before they are emotionally and physically capable of dealing with all the repercusions, such as unwanted pregnancy, STDs etc.  Most Americans do have sex prior to marriage, and have been since the sexual revolution in the '60s.  However, the Bible teaches that sex outside of marriage is a sin.  Sounds to me that your "religious people" are picking and choosing which part of the Bible to follow and which part to ignore.
1073010
I'm a Christian, and the question sounds fine to me. Everyone hears about sex eventually, in various circumstances, and our thinking can undergo changes as we gain life experience. The way the question is phrased suggests that the person wants serious (i.e. non-pornographic) answers.
1111826
sex should be with someone that you love and respect. and they should love and respect you.\nshould wait for marriage.\nthere could health problems when a women reaches 35yr. there are more health risks for the baby and the mom.\nI wish I waited to be married before having sex. I thought I was "missing out" on sex too. started seeing all my classmates around town and they were married and on their second kids.\nthought I was missing out, so I wanted to know what "it" was like too. but then got pregnant and the baby on my own. not fun after the fact.\nhaving sex is a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU LEAVE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO THE OTHER PERSON.\nso PLEASE WAIT FOR MARRIAGE AND IT WILL BE WELL WORTH THE WAIT BELIEVE ME PLEASE WAIT.\n\ndont be in such a rush to "fit in" or "know what it is like" just to know. take your time and know what kind of person has the qualitites you want in the other person and that you take of yourself financially and emotionally on your own.\n\ngood luck and WAIT FOR MARRIAGE: YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DO.!!!!
877188
Hi. I am a Christian woman. I am married now, but did have sex before marriage. I was not a Christian at that time, but did struggle with temptations as a Christian before marriage. I give all glory and credit to Jesus for giving my husband and I the strength to resist temptation before marriage. Our first kiss as a couple was at the altar.\nI think that a vast majority of people who claim Christianity as their religion either do not understand their claim well enough for it to be true and sincere in them or they are too caught up in the temptations of life and not caught up in the focus and strength of Christianity - namely Jesus Christ and His accomplishments in life, death, and the resurrection.\n\nIt is disturbing the number of people who claim allegiance to Christ and then fail to follow Him in His commands. None of us is perfect. Biblically we are all sinners in need of our Savior, Christ, and this issue is yet further proof that becoming a Christian isn't an instant fix of flaws. Christianity is meant to be a process of growing in relationship with the Savior who saved us once from eternal damnation in hell and is saving us daily from our own weakness toward sin which brings death into our lives (although some sins bring death of emotional, relational, social, spiritual, etc. not just the regular physical death you think of.) Those people who are truly "saved" and living daily in a relationship with Jesus Christ through His presence in our lives will WANT to or be motivated to "do the right thing" because we want to please Him. Those who claim Christianity as only a Sunday service or social lifestyle simply will not find the strength or reason, when it comes down to temptation, to do the right thing, or they do it for the wrong reason only to give in later. The reason is that they have not really "meet" Jesus Christ and confronted their need for salvation in a sincere way or they have, but they choose the religious box over the relationship that changes a life.\n\nI hope that helps a little. I applaud you in your stand for No Sex Before Marriage. That is an honorable decision that is too foreign in today's society.