Would you try and find your parents if you have never known them?
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***I see by these other answers; schools out for the day :(***\n\nI went through this with my dad, it was VERY hard! He left when I was 1 or so.. He wrote when i was 18, I was to mad and hurt to accept him in my life at the moment.. I had just had my son and wasnt into family reunions if ya know what I mean.. I finally @ 25'ish found him on "class mates" and sent him a free msg.. He wrote back imediatly.. It has helped me in so many ways.. I always had issue because of him.. Afraid all men would leave me, that i wasnt good enough, etc.. Talking and making amends has helped me free myself from subconcious demons.. @ 26 now I can say its a good idea to at least make things good on the surface.. For your soul if nothing else! I also have an older sister whom i had never met.. She is his 1st daughter.. We have just found out that she is HIV positive.. It has sadly brought me and my father closer together.. She has not yet shared this with me despite my email attempts.. Its nice to have my father through all of this, odd as it is..
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Yes, they send a Mail home and email to your parents.\nThey track you down and the whole town knows about you.\nBe extremely careful before you click!
989769
ask your parents...why get information from strangers?
1174656
Ask your parent or guardian.
1062034
I definitely think you should try, no matter how well you feel around her.  She is still your family, even though you are not blood related.  I'm sure your father would be very happy if you could connect with her.  Respect to parents and family no matter how close you are is a very important thing in life, well it definitely is in my culture.
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I found my father initially through the internet about 7years ago and then by a lot of phone calls we hadnt had contact for over 20years\n\nLuckily our surname is quite unusual and he had stayed in the same industry with work so that did make it a lot easier than for some\n\nDepends on if his name is unusual - or if he had a career or vocation! Try calling people too- is he remarried? whats her name? so many questions but they will all help with the process of research\nMaybe better if you are still in touch with any of his relatives or your mum knows any of his friends from years ago that he may still be in touch with?\nthere are a few web sites that you can post a message and photo on? friends reunited? genes reunited etc\n\nIm really glad i did find mine - \nwe were in touch for 5years and then he passed away very suddenly at just 53 and im so glad i got to know him a bit over those years \nso i really hope you do too! \nGood luck - you only get one father so i really hope you find him! ;-)
885260
Never met them, sorry
479140
Who cares.so what if you were adopted.You love the parents you have now don't you? They are still your parents,it doesn't matter who had you.They raised you and loved you all this time.
676801
Why not ask your dad?
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I feel sorry to say this, but no one who isn't biologically related to you can even guess at your heritage.\n\nDo your adoptive parents have knowledge of who your biological parents (or any blood relative) are/were? \n\nI don't know if you are old enough to do this or not, but when/if you are, their are agencies, etc. who will try to find out the who, what, where, when, about your biological parents.  \n\nMany people of European descent have your qualities (not only Germans and Scandanavians).  I've known a couple of Jewish and Italian people with very light features.\n\nYour breast and butt size don't mean squat - as far as what country you're descended from.  That would be heredity.\n\nI do hope that you are able to find your heritage (at least some names of relatives).  It's possible that adult relatives are looking for you.  Good luck, and have faith.
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Hi.. I am 62 years old and I met my dad only when I was 19. I was a product of WW2, when my dad was ,at 17, sent over to the Philippines to fight the war. Anyway, re: your question, why don't you go to www.ancestry.com or www.my family.com or leave a message there. That was where I found dozens of first and second cousins and then in 2001, my half-sis(who is all-American) found me. I also found the only surviving sis of my dad,thru the white pages..Iam sharing my story with you because I believe if you're really serious about looking for your roots, you will find them. The internet has made the world a little smaller. See, I had to be 62 before I got to finally got to the USA and meet my half-brother, who now has leukemia. Don't give up. Just keep at it. Good luck and may God bless your search.
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to grandparents \nluckly my mum told me all she could bout my dad \nbut my nan see him when i was 15 and gave him my mums number so we all get on now \nif not family try places on the internet freinds reunited he may have signed up
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It really depends. I'm an adopted child and I have some issues with finding my biological parents. In the case of your baby, it really depends. Some adopted children feel abandoned and don't want anything to do with their birth parents. Others just want information and a sense of who they are. Only time will tell.
1014059
did your parents drop you?
48532
to you know his/her family ? ask them for contact infos
120602
People who know them all do not realize how lucky they are.  I work with someone who is pushing 40 and both grandparents on her mothers side are still kicking.  My father left when I was 4, so I met my grandmother only once.  When I was in the Navy though and stationed on the West Coast I was lucky enough to meet my grandfather.  On my mother's side I never met my grandfather, he and my grandmother divorced before I was born and I don't think my mother got along well with him.  I did know my grandmother though.  So in short, I knew only 1 from each side.
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Why wouldn't your parents tell you.  If you weren't I would think they would tell you of course not so you very well may be.  They will probably tell you when you are old enough to handle all that entails.  Don't think you could find it on the web especially if it was a closed adoption as most are.