how can i discover that my boyfriend is cheating on me?
346795
Check the pockets of his shirts and jeans. Check his cell phone bill. Investigate any unfamiliar numbers. Come home early. Ask his friends, they might tell you more than you think.
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*
640218
? Save the text messaging for your moblie phone. Your boyfriend is probably cheating on you because you can't spell in proper words
340127
Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
680515
sounds like you have trust issues and if you do then this relationship is over. even if he isnt' cheating on  you if you are convinced that he is he might as well be. first thing in any relationship to survive is trust and communication. there are no for sure ways to see if he is cheating the only thing you can do is keep an eye open and make him feel wanted and loved. make him feel like a man, if he feels like one then he'll act like one.
425808
there is only one way, talk to HIM yourself and he'll answer your question, HE doesn't want to be a secret to anyone.  That's why HE has already sent ways to prove HE loves you.  I'm not goint to tell you which ways because the proof is when you ask and HE leads you to the truth, then you'll know for sure.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
354903
If you think you're boyfriend's cheating on you, EVEN IF YOU CAN'T PROVE IT, you have the wrong boyfriend. Understand? A faithful partner wouldn't give you these reasons to suspect.
153167
If any of his actions makes you feel insecure about your relationship, then end it. If what he's doing is making you unsure about his love for you, then why bother continuing. You can never truelly love a person if you're always wondering if he's gonna cheat. To be in a long lasting relationship, you must trust each other, and know your love for each other. \n\nIf he said all his other boyfriends lasted only two months, then you know there must be something wrong with the way he's treating his boyfriends. \n\nIf you don't understand the situation now, it will be alot worse when you find out he is cheating on you. However, don't rush into a conclusion. Chat with him and find out his true feelings for you. If he seems to be hiding something, then carefully decide to break-up or not. If you find out later that your rushed disicion was inncorrect, you'll hate yourself for losing a good boyfriend.
923075
Ask him upfront and openly. If he gets mad and leaves you for asking that question, he was cheating, so you saved yourself.
1010010
He is cheating.\nYou can't watch him all of the time.\nGet ready and find someone else.\nI think you know this already.\nSorry!!!!
355737
Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.
266588
you can ask. but just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to be told the truth. \n\nsigns of cheating:\nchange in dress habits\nchanges the way he looks\n(^^^although, he could want a new look, those 2 are tricky)\nhe's never around for you and when he is, he's looking at the clock for when he can leave\ntakes calls in another room so you don't hear them\nhe doesn't answer the phone for you when he normally would and when you do talk to him, he doesn't have a straight answer for why he didn't answer\nasks if your cheating on him\n\njust google 'signs of cheating' and a whole bunch of links show up. Read a few and compare it to your situation.\n\nGut feelings are nothing to ignore. If you truly believe he is cheating, maybe you should go with your heart and leave him.
2468
there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on
476832
you can tell if he is cheating on you, if he is acting strange when you ask him questions, if he isnt spending as much time with you as  he use too spend. only you can tell if she has changed since you started your relationship. if you are questioning his honesty now, then maybe he is cheating on you.
347173
sounds like hes cheating on you
1130040
have you ever seen the show cheaters?....go to cheaters.com and let them know your story if you really want to know the truth they can follow him around and take pictures and video him ,stuff like that ....if he is cheating they will find out for you