still shy to have sex?
346696
Are you , how shall I say this, a BEAST?  Maybe you need to shed a few.....quite a few.....pounds?
704406
If he agreed to marry you as a shy type gal, that's what he wants.  Don't change yourself in a good-intentioned attempt to give him what you think he wants -- he wants _you_, the person you are now.  That's who he fell in love with, and that's who he wants to marry.\n\nI sense an undercurrent to this question, and feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.  Is your real question about being sexually inhibited?  Are you wondering if you should learn to be wilder in bed?  If so, yes and no.  Your fiance's marrying a shy girl, so odds are he doesn't want to suddenly find himself in bed with a filthy whore.  But there is nothing sexier to men than a woman who is comfortable with her own sexuality and who genuinely enjoys sex.  All you need to do here is to let yourself enjoy your sexual relationship with your husband, and to let him know that you enjoy it.  Being vocal in bed helps, but simply telling him in words afterward (i.e., "That felt sooo good.") also works.  You don't need to learn to pole dance, just let yourself have fun in bed.  Chances are he'll be thrilled with just that.
169920
I understand if you say you get nervous. But if you think you are shy, you aren't ready to propose her. You should be more comfortable talking to her whatever you want.
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Probably not 'most people' but certainly quite a few . \nI would say the problem is not very often due to physical weakness, but mainly can be put down to upbringing, some may have been taught that sex is only for 'true lovers' or it's not a very nice thing to do or even shouldn't be discussed.\nSome people may have had a very 'off putting' sexual experience!\nSo mainly it's all in the mind and having a really good chat with someone you trust could sort it out!!
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
439005
If you are afraid of offering your mate bad sex, then you should really talk to them. Find out what they like and what their expectations of you are when it comes to pleasing them. Silence will only make it that much worse by making you self-conscious. Talk with your partner and everything will be good. Have fun.
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You're probably not shy...just nervous...and that's natural.  Different people react differently to uncomfortable situations.  Remember that he's probably nervous too.  Don't worry so much about what he MAY or MAY NOT be thinking... You'll get better at this with time...we all do!
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
1074644
Act like you don't know what's really going on, and be sure to "prep" yourself for several minutes prior.  If you're with an experienced woman, she won't expect you to perform for long.  Really though, its all about what you do and don't know in bed, so as long as you act clumsy and shy, you should be fine.
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There are some nice guys.  One of my friends has turned down sex from girls because he thought they were moving too fast, and he wanted a long term relationship with a nice girl.  The problem is that these guys are not normally the "popular" ones.  Even though they can be very cute they are probably also quite shy.  Also, never let anyone pressure you into sex.  If the guy really cares about you, then he will wait.
130514
i had a girlfriend years ago that seems to be so shy but during our first sex, she suggested oral sex or 69, so i obliged.  who am i to refuse?\n\nalso watch with your girl videos with lots of oral sex and she might become interested.
367771
I am not sure if the shyness comes from you thinking your dick is small or whatever, but it sounds like your g/f is wanting to maybe see it with lights on? sounds kinda kinky to me but maybe she IS kinky. I say pee away dude. It may just lead to a real good experience for you.
135133
shy guys are sexy...sometimes well if u had a gf it would be hard for u too talk to eachother or even go out so do not be shy
752945
hmm by next level what do u mean? like more touching or sex and dont do anything until your 100% your doing what you feel comfortable with not being shy about
593413
Sure why not I'm shy. I'd be flattered.You can't loose\nby trying.
458296
try a love note and flowers.  sorry; i don't know a cure for shyness.  I used to be, but it's been fading recently.  Just try diving in and doing it.  If you start hesitating, just do it without thinking (worked about 50% of the time for me)
1099677
Yep, you haven't matured in body or wisdom... There is no rush... Enjoy life before sex... Then when you are ready, enjoy life afterwards... Learn about it... Read up on different kinds... Find out what gets you both turned on and your best releases... ;)