how to invite a girl who turned you down on a 2nd date?
336245
The same way as a first and third and hundredth time. Or more likely, a better way that you didn't know the first time (because you've never successfully asked someone to go on a date with you?).\n\nSo the answer is in a straight-forward manner: "Do you want to go out on a date with me?"
546464
Easy - do it in a way that wont make it look like you're in feet first. If you know her reasonably well and get talking why not suggest a coffee or a drink one night. Then if she says no, you could say something like "oh, no problem, just thought it'd be cool to catch up" - no harm done!
558013
try asking her out (don't say date but maybe a couple of your friends and a couple of her friends go bowling or something like that) if she tells you to back off, then give up, but don't take it as a no, but don't try to push it, just try to talk to her frequently, not just a hello, but an actuall conversation, that might help
129352
If she is giving you excuses not to go on a date . . . three strikes she is out.\n\nIn most cases she is not interested . . . in you . . . so move on.\n\nIf she tries to become chummy . . . ignore her . . . don't be a wimp . . . be a man and move on.
1056731
Go on the date, but treat her like she's not dumb, ask her deep insightful questions. One of two things will happen. \n\nA) She will realize you are too smart for her and never want to go out with you again.\n\n B) You will learn the dumb thing is just an act, a lot of girls still play dumb because they think that's what guys want.
70509
she might really like you this time.the first time you asked her out she proably just got dumped or she had a rough time with family or something she doesnt want to talk about.you gave her time,and is now proably very interested in you.
313508
Go for it, make another date, sounds fun
830289
Have you tried talking to her and ask her out?  If not, I suggest you do that and if she turns you down (which won't be the end of the world) then you know she wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. You seem like a confident person by the way you describe yourself so why do you take those good attributes that you have and respect her decision and move on to someone else- There's alot of fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!!!
870712
I would try to get a friend who has a girl to go with yall on a double date Ice Skating. Its cheap, better then dinner and a movie, and every girl I've ever went with loved it(whether they could skate or not).\n\nAs far as asking her out, next time you are talking mention that you and your pal are going ice skating and that you would like her to come along.
1175762
If a women gives it up on the first date, i would not see her again. If she says no I will respect her and want it even more and ask her if I can see her again.
288427
You say she likes you so you must have given her a reason to think you're a nice guy! Maybe you like her a little too, in spite of the missing parts? Give it a try if you think you can do it without hurting her. If you are really uncomfortable about the whole thing, do her a favor and leave her alone. If you decide to go for it, maybe make it a double date or invite a few other people to meet you somewhere for the first couple of times, just until you get to know each other a bit better.
1007382
Ask her if she would be interested in talking on the phone.  Be ready for a letdown in case she doesn't want to go to another level.
978099
Ask her to go out with you again, but this time go somewhere special. Nthing romantic, but something like a a miniture golf course or whatever. Then just ask her if she'll go out with you.
824945
Ask her out in a way that gives her the option of letting you down really, really nicely.  For example, send her an email suggesting that you go for drinks the next evening after work.  If she's so shy that she can't deal with rejecting you she can just not reply to the email.  You could also phone and leave a message on her machine at a time when you know she's not at home or at the office.  Then she can ignore your message if that's easier for her.  And then, be a gentleman and don't get pissed off if she doesn't get back to you.  As you said, she's really shy!
850497
If you don't ask her anytime soon, someone else is going to and she'll say yes. What's worse than being rejected? She waiting for you to ask her but thought you wouldn't and ended up with another date. Go up to her and ask her if anyone has asked her to the prom then ask her if she'll go with you. Worry too much about being rejected and you won't get the girl.
936261
Well, if you really like this girl, you should try asking her out again.  If the same thing happens, then I would definitely take a hint and not bother again.  I feel if they are interested in you, then they would make an effort to go on that date that you plan.  Sure things come up but if it happens repeatedly, I would take it as a sign.
687916
call her. don't worry about being turned down. \n\nif you snooze you looze.