What do guys think of high maintenance girls?
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Guys think high maintenance girls are a lot of work. Some guys actually enjoy the work, but most don't. Many guys will try the high maintenance(HM)girls out for a while, and find out they just can't maintain them long term. Some of the HM girls are really great (or at least not too bad) as people, but they are terrible when it comes to dating and treating their man well. \nHM girls are just getting away with what they can while they can....and some of them don't even think every guy knows it, when we all do.
809108
Thats a good question. i think the most important thing is that they have to treat me with respect. I dont wanna be in a relationship where im giving 90% and hes giving 10%. it has to be equal. Next i think is personallity. for me, he has to be funny, caring, responsible, and loving. After that is physical features. Since im kinda tall i want a really tall guy. I would like it if he had nice eyes. He doesnt have to be cute but thats always a bonus.Oh and he would have to have the same intrests as me so we have a lot of things to talk about.
525036
Generally not, as high maintenance usually means self-centered. She's probably a user and doesn't really care for you, just what you have or stand for.
456223
from a guy's perspective...just be happy with what you got.  girls who stress over what they don't have or have too much of make our heads hurt...
925508
You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
1101609
i think all guys are special in their own ways .......the only thing which every girl looks is the sweetness,and kindness in the man.......but guys think MONEYi totally disagree with that ......come on money cant buy everything!
764875
You sound like high maintenance. He won't last if youre that demanding. A guy needs some space once in a while.
31334
Girl, it always works like that.  Us women tend to set our standards so high that when we meet that guy who has good looks, good job, great body, nice car, nice house, etc...we immediately fall for the material things.  What might help in this situation is to try and find someone who is not to fine, but ok in looks, not how much he makes, but if he is a provider, and hard worker, not Vin desiel, but cares about his health, not how fancy his car is, but if he has transportation, etc.....\nThose men tend to treat us woman like queens even though they may not have as much as the others.  They love you for you,and guess what.....you'll love them in return.
35027
Personally, I like a girl who's not self-centered, takes care of herself, and has a great sense of humor.\n\nThe usual physical accoutrements are nice, too. :)
661071
in general, i think a pretty girl with have nice skin she is clean looks like she takes a bath. she would dress neat, clothes fit her body type, someone who has nice teeth smiles a lot and is very confident if not overly confident in herself.\n\nbut u have to remember everyone has different taste and although one man may think a woman is drop dead gorgeous another man may think she's just average. i think inner beauty should shine out
1104907
I don't know about other guys, but I like a girl that's attentive. If she is preoccupied with the rest of the world and is easily distracted then she probably will not make a good companion or mate. I think guys notice these things because it shows discipline for the future and when a woman treats me like there is no other guy on the planet it means a lot.\nA nice smile and good heart are a plus also
452437
physically, i dont really care, they need to be humerous and make me feel special every day. they have to be honest and trustworthy. i dont think i ask  a lot and my guy has it all.
939664
I think guys are overly nice (or 'smarmy') to girls they fancy.  But they can be just normally nice to girls they just see as other human beings, if they are a nice person, and in a good mood (!)
419541
great question and the trouble is you're trying to understand it from a guy's standpoint so you have no chance.  it's definitely down to what the girls here have been saying that they just feel uncomfortable with it and there is also a sense of predictability in treating a woman too nice. I'm single but cool with it as I know the key to all of this is being who you really are and not trying so hard to impress.  concentrate more on what makes you happy in life and the right girl will be attracted to that. don't try and make others happy as you'll lose sight of yourself
356342
No way ...give me some booty to hold on to. As long as girl takes care of herself, the guys will notice.
737216
One of my best friends believes that all pretty women are haughty, because whenever he asked a hot girl out, he was either turned down, or  dumped when he was out of money. Because  he was betrayed so many times, he often took offence, and even resorted to bad language. Ever since, he has had a bad attitude towards pretty women. He even refused to have a blind date with a sexy girl whom I recommended very highly. He thinks that all of the sexy girls are only interested in  money, and they only want to go out with a handsome guy or a rich man. For that reason, he has a negative attitude, and he doesn't want to go out with sexy girls any more. In addition, he regards all  pretty women with great suspicion. I have had a lot of arguments with him about that, but I think most of the sexy women are both pretty and smart. No one should  be judged purely by their appearance. I have seen many  women who are both kind and pretty. Not all pretty women are bad.
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juleette... \n\n\nfor me perosnally... \n\nPhysically... i need a gilr to have a good hygene...good smile.... and long hair...\n\nMental... well i prefer her to be down to earth... in my proffesison i meet women who are either tooo stuck up or too dumb... i prefert to have an intelligent conversation, but also for her to know when to shut up!! hahhaha\n\nEmotional.. i hate to be blackmailed emotionally... so if a girl cries.. i walk out of the room... i wnata  girl who is patient and shows kindness towards others... basicaly someon who will use my shoulders and cry in romanic moves... (just so that i can comfort her)\n\nSexual.. well diff people i diff... i am a dominant guy.. so love a gilr to be submissive.. but she knows what she wants and tells me ... and then trust me to satisfy all her desires.... \n\n\nhope this is of help... of and yes i am single lol...\n\nJames