i have this guy who is always flirting with me and all my friends say to tell him but what to say????
355642
If you like him, TELL HIM.  Really.  It's that easy.  Ask him to do something-study together, go out somewhere together (even the park, the mall or a local hangout-it doesn't have to cost anything).  Just tell him that you like him and want to hang out.  \n\nI don't think because he's blonde he doesn't get it.  I've been told BY MEN that men "don't get hints, you have to hit them over the head" with what you want.  While that's not true for all men, of course, I think it may apply to quite a few----like this guy you're talking about.\n\nIt doesn't get any easier the older you get, to ask a guy out.  It's still a nerve-wracking thing, but you can do it.  Plus, wouldn't it better to say something and just get it over with, instead of this frustrating waiting thing you're doing??  Hmmmm??  Wouldn't you rather be out with him rather than writing about him??
1113817
does he act like he wants to fu.ck.? then he might be flirting
732506
Well, If he can be honest with you that is always good, but if he can't resist the temptation of flirting, that might not be good. Just tell him how you feel, and if he tells you he flirted with more test his trust worthiness, and if you can't trust him, loose him, if you can, KEEP HIM! I hope it works out!
428512
First and foremost, take things at face value. Believe none of what you hear and all that you see.\n\nApart from the flirting has he said or done anything to lead you to believe that he's still interested in you?\n\nWhat are the chances for friendship between you two? Could it be that, because you didn't have a 'knock-down, drag-out' break-up he still feels comfortable enough with you to pretend flirt -and isn't really making any moves? Have you ever asked yourself or thought that he might be playing games?\n\nRemember that in situations like this you are in the middle of an epic battle between your brain and your heart (and other parts, too, I'm sure). Question is, what part do you listen to? That's for you to find out. That's part of the adventure of life.
182645
since im a guy heres what u hav to do: u hav to hang out with him 4 a bit then when ur not flirting ask do u like me and this  time i mean it u dont hav to be nice and lie to me  now plz tell me the truth \n~bob
527523
Stop flirting with him and make him chase you, if he goes for the bait, he likes you, if not he doesn't
937174
He may be just playing around with your friends.  Why don't you pull a reverse on him, next time you are around some of his close friends say hi to them and bop them a couple good whacks on the shoulder and see what he has to say.
375455
Act like you always do around him.  But if it doesn't turn out good doing that, talk to him and say that you just want to be friends.
556646
Now, thats real trouble. How do u sit there and watch ur friend enjoy the night with ur man INFRONT of you ?? Wonna know what u should do? Have a long talk with him and tell him that u dont like the flirting bit with your friends. \nOr u wonna get nasty? Pretend to Flirt with his friends for a while, trust me, he will never LOOK at another girl..
521477
Do NOT tell all your friends to "stay away" from your boyfriend.  This is called possessiveness; it's both unattractive and disrespectful.\n\nTake it as a compliment that your guy is so attractive to your friends.  Now, if one of your friends takes her flirting too far, have a private talk with her.  If your boyfriend is truly loyal to you, his loyalty is what matters most.
866981
Ok so he flirts with you but he is dating someone else. I'm sorry but this guy may be sweet and all that but he sounds like a player. A guy who is with someone else shouldn't be flirting with someone else. That's just not approiacate. next time he flirts with you, you just need to tell him he needs to stop because he is dating your friend and it's not right.
416755
what they said. i've been told that i'm flirting and my immediate response to that was, "what part?" more than likely he wants to flirt, but doesn't quite know how to do it. his best guess is, "make her laugh."
651634
tell him, you are cute!! \nbelieve me there's nothing like honesty
835567
Say thanks and maybe compliment him back on what he's playing. He's probably flirting with you and might even like you. So if you have an interest in him flirt back and give him the same kind of compliments. Who knows where it might lead.....
403816
Try asking him out. If you flirt as often as you say, and you suspect he DOES like you, go for it. You don't want to be asking yourself "What if?" later on
821840
If you do not like him, just be frank and direct with him once and for all. Tell him waht a loser he is and how he makes you pity him. Or if you like him have "the talk" with him, but he needs to know no matter what u feel about him always flirting with you. Then he should stop.
284617
Don't expect more than flirtation from him... lots of people in relationships flirt, and thats all they do.  They have no intention of cheating or leaving - and thats what he's told you by letting you know he's already involved.