why baby cry when they were born and not smile? Even it is easier to smile rather than cry?
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I believe it has to do with the change from what their used to. From the warm comfortable mother's womb and into a cold strange world. I think i'd cry too if someone grabbed me from Earth and stuck me on the moon for no apparent reason.
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Gradually increase the time that you allow him to cry before you pick him up.  Don't respond to his crying by taking him from other people.  He needs to learn that he can trust his father and others that you trust.\n\nYour baby feels insecure around other people because of how you're probably reacting to his crying. That insecurity is "justified" by how you react.  \n\nIt's similar to why children have separation anxiety. . .they've never learned that if mommy leaves she'll also come back.
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You have yourself to look after in life, you said yourself you're too young to have a baby, so you probably are. \nAnd instead of being miserable you can learn how to spell/type.\nThere IS a spell check you know.
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Absolute happiness! Every new thing that a newborn baby does is amazing. Watching a baby grow has to be the most incredible adventure one can take. From the first sight of the baby at birth, to the first smile, the first giggle, the first word, the first step, etc. every moment is precious.\n\nSure, it's not easy. There are sleepless nights, diaper changes, bodily fluids all over you, and crying. But it really is all worth it when you get to hold that baby in your arms.\n\nAnd although things change, there are always more wonderful new things to experience with a child. Our son is almost 2 years old and we are still in awe at some of the things he does and says.
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look, if you know you are not a cry baby then just don't listen to them. People attempt to piss you off any way they can, god, everyone knows that! People just say that just for the hell of trying to aggravate you. I am a 24 year old police officer and I cry occasionally, and i'm a man, there is nothing wrong with crying occasionally.
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Babies always have to suffer agony when they are cutting their first teeth.  It is to be expected that when a business first starts it is going to encounter problems, but these problems are then sorted out and soon forgotten, just like the pain suffered by the baby at that early stage of his life.
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Its hard to describe, I guess its just a part of life, we cry when we are happy and sad. Love is just complicated nobody really knows what to do. Maybe it hurts to be happy because you are with someone you love and hope nothing will tear you two apart and in your mind you are wondering if you two will stay together.
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Oh I cry for any reason at all! Even when I'm really angry I just cry. I think happy tears flow more easily because we LET them come. Tears for sorrow are reluctant tears.
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I think it's best not to have preconceptions of child birth because what happens will happen and at the time all you will care about is meeting your child for the first time.  Pain is usually a worry when you don't know what is causing it or how to fix it.  In childbirth, you know there will be pain but you know why you are getting it and you also know that it will go away.  Once you look into your newborn's eyes you won't care a bit about how you feel.
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Crying is better than keeping it in, keeping it in is what causes more emotional problems
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Two reasons: 1) Stress causing chemicals exit your body via tears so you cry to lower your stress level.  2) Its a visual clue to others that you need help.  Studies have shown women cry more around men who don't notice less conspicuous signs of sadness and stress in their mates.
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Because you are really angry. Once you develope your anger and mature it you will be happier with yourself and have a personality to recon with. That way you can be sad when your sad and happy when your happy without being unsure.
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On the Origin of Crying and Tears\n\n \n\nHuman Ethology Newsletter, Vol. 5 Issue 10, june 1989, p. 5-6\n\n \nSummary\n\nCrying and tears may be favored by natural selection because they bring about helping behaviour by the spectator. This helping behaviour is explained by the assumption that crying and tears “imitate” some of the perceivable characteristics of a baby that has just been born (e.g., wet face, facial expressions, respiratory sounds). If human parents and people in general are “programmed” by evolution to feel the need to help and protect when they see (and hear) newborns, then when nonneonates are in need, the appearance and the behavior that together show resemblance to the neonate may have survival value at some essential points during phylogeny and, thus, may spread in the human species.\n\nIn ontogeny, the fact that the shedding of tears usually occurs for the first time not until weeks or months after birth is not an argument against this view but, rather, supports it.\n\n \n\nSome Theories Regarding the Function of Emotional Tears.\n\nIn The Expression of Emotions in Man and Animals, Charles Darwin listed three reasons for the secretion of tears: “The primary function of the secretion of tears, with some mucus, is to lubricate the surface of the eye, and a secondary one, as some believe, is to keep the nostrils damp, so that the inhaled air may be moist, and likewise to favour the power of smelling. But another, and at least equally important function of tears is to wash out particles of dust or other minute objects which may get into the eyes” (Darwin, 1872: 169). In Darwin’s view, the excretion of emotional tears was related to the first function.\n\nIn more recent years, A. Montagu (1959) offered another explanation of emotional tears: The intake and expulsion of air that occurs in sobbing would cause the sensitive mucous membranes of the nasopharynx to dry out quickly if tears did not keep them moist, and as a result, the risk of infection would increase. This explanation was criticized by W.H. Frey (1982:9) who wrote: “Humans do not excrete tears while running or performing other exercise where breathing is increased.” He hypothesized that, like urinating, defecating, and exhaling, emotional tearing may be involved in the removing of waste products or toxic substances from the body. Perhaps people feel better after crying because as they shed tears, they also shed, in those tears, chemicals that build up during emotional stress.\n\nThese explanations are essentially physiological, and Darwin made explicit that he assumed no other, more fundamental reason for weeping. He wrote: “…we must look at weeping as an incidental result, as purposeless as the secretion of tears from a blow outside the eye, or as a sneeze from the retina being affected by a bright light, …” (Darwin, 1872: 176-177). In his view, the sole effect of weeping or crying is to give relief to individuals who are experiencing the agony of pain.\n\nIn contrast to Darwin’s point of view, the explanation that follows directly links crying and the secretion of tears to evolutionary theory. Crying and the emotional secretion of tears are considered here to be messages that contain a request for help, and humans have the ability to cry and to shed tears because these messages have proven to be effective.\n\n \n\nAn Evolutionary Explanation of Crying and Tears.\n\nThis explanation is based on three assumptions.\n\nA.       In many species of animals, the stimuli emitted by newborns bring about parental care. In fact, the newborns of many species require parental care. Because a newborn has little else to offer than its own appearance and behaviour, it is logical that it is exactly these factors that elicit the parental care. Parents who do not react in the appropriate way to the appearance and behaviour of newborns reduce the fitness of their offspring and, therefore, the likelihood of the occurrence of behaviour rese
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Girls are NOT "more" emotional than boys. We simply express our emotions differently and we are free to cry or giggle as we please. Women and children have "permission" in most societies to fully and freely express ourselves. Men are expected to control their emotions more. And most men control their emotions by supressing them. \n\nNow before you say "that isn't FAIR!" think about this: When a girl gets upset she cries. A GUY who is upset is much more likely to become violent than to just cry. So it is not only fair, but important in a civilized society that the physically stronger gender be expected to use greater control of his emotions.\n\nAnother important difference: Girls use WORDS to express emotion. Guys tend to use use ACTIONS to express emotions. Girls want to share FEELINGS. Guys want to FIX whatever is bothering them. So guys express their emotions in what they DO, and we girls express them in words and/or tears, smiles, etc.
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CRYING IS A WAY OF LETTING OUT OUR  DEEP FEELINGS.BY CRYING IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU'RE WEAK,ITS IS JUST AN ACT OF POURING OUR FEELINGS WHEN WE ARE DEPRESSED OR SAD.AFTER CRYING DEFINITELY IT FEELS BETTER AND RELIEVED
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Most mammals will produce tears in response to extreme pain or other stimuli, but crying as an emotional reaction is considered by many to be a uniquely human phenomenon, possibly due to humans' advanced self-awareness. Some studies suggest that elephants and gorillas may cry as well.
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Why?  -  Because it a state of expression of feelings. You can cry of joy or sadness.\n\nHow?  -  Hiccup cry, laugh cry, just cry - there are many ways to cry.