Is love a big deal? why?
347062
If you think love is nothing but kiss and hugs, you haven't felt it yet. I mean no offense to you at all, but that's (at least what I believe) to be true. Love is as much an emotional thing as it is physical. When you find your true love, it's like your life is complete: you don't care if your job sucks, you have no  money, and you look like crap. Just knowing that someone loves you can make all the difference. It can be the best or the worst thing in the world, depending on if it lasts.
71329
you learn what love is. love isnt something that drops out of the sky on everyone you meet. its a rare and hard to find thing, thats very special when it comes along.
1084232
It really isn't. As long as you're open to it, love is right in front of you. It's harder to find everything you want in a person. And I think that's more of the question you're asking.
312536
OF COURSE THERE IS!\n\nI know, the mllions of question asking "what is love", people acting all googley, ect.\n\nIt all means something.\n\nSure, it might not happen for a while, and sure, maybe not for a long time, but it's DEFINATELY there for EVERYONE! :)\n\nJust hang on for a while longer, it will happen to you, and you'll know! :)
1069550
the word love is used soo much, that for some it has lost its meaning. that's why i only use it when i really mean it. love is like putting ur arms out and spinning in circles really really fast. its fun but if ur not careful, you'll lose ur balance, fall down, and get hurt. in the end though, its better to have loved than to have not loved at all.
550842
Love is much more than S** and yet it needs much more than mere looking into each other's eyes and living by it...Heart aches when you are not with the one you love and it leaps with joy, you feel those butterflies fluttering inside when u see the one you love...\nSexual part of love is very important because the best way to show you love someone completely is by sharing the only thing you really possess i.e. yourself with him or her completely...
810551
No. Yet, there was an occasion when I came to realize that what I thought was love was not true love ... but I won't go into that here.\n\nI have very deep feelings about love, for love is the highest grace we mortals may ever know in this world and perhaps any other that may come. Thus, it is not permissible to be so cavalier as to bandy around those three words as if they were some mere convenient phrase, some shallow sentiment or-- perish the notion --- usurping that most wonderful expression for some self-serving gain.
646126
To me, it is a recognition of the value of the person. \nFeeling that this person betters your life and helps you grow as a person and knowing you help them grow as a person too. When you can put the other's persons needs before your own and are willing to put any effort it takes into making it work. \nThere is a big difference between being in-love, loving someone and being in love with love. To be in love I believe you have to care more about the other person than yourself but someone whom you admire and respect who will help you improve and improve life's joys.
8726
It's an awe. When you watch someone and love their mannerisms, their words, the way their mind clicks, their reactions, their little idiosyncracies.... you realize that you are just in awe. We fall in love because experiences have taught us how to appreciate those things we see in another. Usually we fall in love with someone that has the kind of traits that complement what you have in your life. Love isn't really complicated. It's honestly so simple. But it's rare.....very rare. So once we find it.....we tend to want to cling to that feeling and that person forever.  :)
239942
It is like any other emotion. But the fact that this emotion can be too strong that it makes you do things you never thought you can do in a very pleasant way to amke the one you love happy, made it a very important emotion and worth talking about although never describable.
208923
Chances are love will hurt.  But love is also a lot of other things.  Good Things.  Things that can't be brought into words because it wouldnt do the feeling justice.  You might hurt while in love but you will be suprised about how much you learned in the end.  It's worth it ;)
227517
LOVE!!! Everyone's definition of love will be different. I think though, the one thing we would agree on is,"how great and powerful and beautiful" it makes us feel. You will know your in love because of all the crazy things you will be feeling and doing, just all of a sudden makes sense. You haven't by some chance built a wall around your heart have you? Unfortunately, as wonderful as love is, its just as terrible and ugly when it ends. Have you lost someone close to you for any reason, such as, death, parents splitting up, a good friends betrayal, and etc., etc.,. We don't seem to cauterize those as that special kind of love, like we want to believe love is, but non the less, it is. Love is a game of chance, and a sense of gambling. Sounds like poker some what, huh? Anyway, if you have built this wall to protect your heart, that wall is also keeping out the one thing that everyone wants which is to love and to be loved. Open your heart, and trust, and see what you find. "Its better to love and lost, than to never of loved at all." Now, get out there and experience love for yourself and ee what happens!
1109357
Love is merely a higher level of familiarity.  It is the acknowledgement of affection.  It is vulnerability.  It is an advent of human society.
745821
You've already answered your own question. You know who you really want to be with and who makes you happy. What's the big deal?
475072
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.\nTrue love is big but it'll come.. just be patient coz the reward is ... magic.
44531
Love is a personal commitment not a thing. If you are a real person than you are capable of providing real love. Love is something given. It can't be taken or expected to be received. Those who think love is a gift are doomed to be robbed. Those who wait for love to come their way are living a life of lost journeys and dead ends. For those who live life giving love theirs is a life filled with joy and optimism.
438074
It seems, to me, that it would be true love if you don't have to ask and if people (including yourself) can't talk you out of it.  At least, that's a better indicator than asking the public....  Or, are you just gloating because you're in love??   ;)