????? will i give or i wont ????? help me out?
346029
Give it, young man, gifts like that are the ones that mean everything to a woman. Sounds like you really love this one so take the chance, parents are always going to be parents. Love is your choice.
523396
she has accepted my gift with no questions asked. Remember this. To accept is a form of love. Good luck and much wisdom.
23429
Honestly & candidly. It might be a bit uncomfortable but it will be better to know now rather than later. Just keep telling yourself that I you will be fine. And always remember that, no matter what happens, if you are as up front & honest as possible, at least you can go away with knowing this. In other words, at least you were honest about your wants/wishes rather than playing games...\n\nGood luck!
251903
If you  "dont have will" you will not do it! It is all up to you to do! So just do it!
684471
OK to start out relationships shouldn't be transactional. On any holiday/birthday presents are not a requirement, and a demand of a present is in very bad taste no matter who is making the demand.\n\nYour situation is complicated by the fact that your mother helps you out a great deal but from your question you are helping her out too.\n\nThat said in a sense she is right about the meal because you both footed the bill, however that still doesn't give her the right to complain about no gift on the day.\n\nShe sounds like she is manipulating you.\n\nTo circumvent this situation, sit her down in as dispassionate a manner as you can manage explain that you resent being blackmailed. Then list the many way You help HER throughout the year. Then explain your finances and that a present (especially a large one) is going to be a real strain. Finally as a means of getting past this ask her if there is a particular thing that she really wants or needs so badly then offer to help her acquire it.\n\nBy the end she will most likely feel a fair amount of guilt, since she is so good at dishing it out she probably deserves it.\n\nHappy Mothers Day LOL
586918
You deserve love and devotion and you also should give it this means you need to be patient. You will find that will help in many things in life.\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
302810
I promise, you'll feel better after a few pity parties with Ben & Jerry.  And you WILL find someone who really loves you... just be sure to use protection.  DON'T have a one-night stand... you'll only feel dirty for giving the gift that keeps on giving to someone else.  Just remember, you are a wonderful person and she was not worthy of you, and by being responsible you are proving how much more you are worth to the world than she is.  Good luck and best wishes!
879003
Have the decency to tell her the truth. If she gives you a hard time tell her to get in touch with her brother. It may be awkward for you...but it can be worse to let her take advantage of your generosity.
622775
There are givers and takers in this world, sounds like you are a giver.  I had a true Friend and she died two years ago.  She always had my back, we always exchanged birthday and Christmas presents, with our entire Family, Husbands, and children.  We went on Vacations as a Family, and sometimes just She and I.  If I needed money she was there for Me, and if she needed money I was there for Her.  When I was in the Hospital, She was there, and when She was in the Hospital I was there with Her.  We talked almost everyday, a lot of times several times a day.  We would even hold the phone and watch Movies, or shows together.\nAnd when She became sick, I was there taking Her to Appointments, lifting the wheelchair in and out of the car, and We went to as many places as She felt like going to that day.  I miss Her everyday, and always will.\nThere are people in this world that will take all You will give them, and then move on, I have known a lot of those.  Pick Someone because they are right for You, not just because they are there.  See if they are consistent, and as caring about Your life.  A True Friend Always Has Your Back, and Will Come Running In a Second If You Need Them.  That is How You Can Tell.  Good Luck, It Doesn't Happen Often In Ones Life.  I Have Other Friends, But No One Like Her.  Good Luck
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what will i get in RETURN...................\n\n  will u pls do this:\n  i mean i wld like u to know this................ HAVE U HAD A KINDNESS done............... PASS IT ON !
326783
always to be helpfull The more you give the better you will feel about yourself. don't ever give just to get because then you are doing for the wrong reason..God Bless You!!!!!11
239024
Just tell her but be prepared to accept what ever answer it is that she gives you. Don't place expectations on the outcome for you will only set yourself up for failure and that doesn't feel good. But honesty is the best policy.
467764
lol!! sure why not?? Depends on how much he would be willing to give me!! If he just came up and asked me though not mentioning any dollar amount I'd probably just do it for nothing!!
594406
i dont know who can help you but am also in the same situation as you. I have so much love to give but no1 worthwhile to give it to
270025
Just don't give her any money.  Unless, of course, she gives you something in exchange that you want. :)
46830
do NOT give gifts of thanks for your promotion. you EARNED what you got. i know you must feel thankful and all that but they do not expect a gift and its not even really appropriate .the best "gift" you can give them is to continue to do your best and show them you deserve it!
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Giving generously to your religious organization/charity. Pray for what you really want in life. It is OK to want a house, a car, loving husband, caring mother-in-law, as long not at the expenses of others. Kindness , forgiven and generosity.I believe you will really get waht you want.