I have a huge crush on my boss at work! He's married.?
351843
He's committed to another woman.  It would be unkind and unprofessional to put the moves on him.  Don't poop where you eat.  Find a nice single guy, and life will be much, much easier for you.
737130
Let me put somethings in perspective. When you work with a person for a long period of time there may be times were you get confused and think you are in love. These feelings are what i like to call sexual tension. Usually the best way to get rid of it is to just get it out of your system but he is married. So i would avoid that all. Your best bet is to go to the club or go out with other friends. The way its sitting now you may help yourself if you do take him away but your also destroying a family. Besides if seen this time and time again . A wife can be very very vengful worse than a man bar none. your best bet is go to vegas get all that tension out of your system and there is no better place than there to do it. but be safe wht ever you decide take a cruise or just get a nice long vacation somewhere and think about your desicions.
339467
Chances are slim, plus why would you want to see him and even think of a future with a married man? Women amaze me that we would even think of doing other women this way. Show some pride in yourself and walk away...K
1063000
You know, it is funny that you mention this because a friend of mine was telling me the same thing the other day.  I think in her case that it was just a really strong attraction, which really isn't a big thing.  You just cannot act of those feelings being married as you are.  It is normal to find other people attractive and think that they are awesome to be around.  You are married, sweetie, not dead!
847170
Yes, i think it is perfectly normal for happily married people to get enamored with another person from time to time...! The flirting that you think came from him may just be friendly interaction...I wouldn't risk acting on my feelings if i were you! You may embarrass yourself, and alienate your hubby! Good luck...
1159970
Just be smart about it.\n\nMake a subtle joke like, 'too bad office romances never work'. and laugh.\n\nSee if he says something back.  If he's not interested, he'll just say, 'yeah, too bad', and leave it at that.\n\nJust don't flirt openly in front of colleagues.  And if he's married, leave him alone.
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
605340
Try to meet him outside of work! But I hope you know the risks of an office relationship!!
117299
Dont hide it...If your boss finds out screw him..if you get fired then find another job cuz that one wasn't worth having in the first place. Nobody can tell you who to and not to date.
1187381
I've dated a boss of mine.  Heck, even the girl who worked my job before me -- she quit because she married my new boss!  Go for it.  Just remember -- work is work, relationship is relationship.  And wait until he ends it current one before you move in on the prize.\n\nI actually work with my fiance -- he's not my boss, but we met here and have been together for 2.5 years.  Studies show that us overworked Americans are turning more and more to workplace relationships and employers are becoming okay with it.
595803
Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)
976646
u should keep Ur personal life away from Ur professional life. don't mix them up & as u said that he is 42 and married then u should not think that way.\nhe is secured in his life & if u have a relation with him in future with his consent even then ur relation as well as ur future will always be insecured.\nthe right way is to forget him & wait for the right person to approach u.
1056321
The fact that you have these feelings is 'normal'.  The abscence of them would not be.  Your working hard, on different shifts, tired, together but alone most of the time.  Just remember, communication is important.  Good luck and stop to have fun!!!  He'll thank you!
168683
Yeah, tell ur wife about it, then ur boss.Btw, why u wanna be sure?
540129
Yes, he's your supervisor in the four corners of your workplace, but saying what you feel in the right place at the right time (like After work hours and far from his office; a coffee shop a block away will do) would give you peace of mind. Just make sure that you can still maintain your Professionalism towards him no matter what his response, if not, it's better to keep it to yourself and hope it's just a CRUSH that fades away in a day or two. Well, it's just my opinion and I'm sure it's different from the others. Good luck!
116908
Hi ... He isn't married is he? If not married, do you know if he feels the same way about you? If you don't know if he feels the same way, maybe you can invite him out to dinner, a movie or the park with you. \n\nI say this because as someone else said he might be shy, he might feel the same way about you but is afraid to ask you out or let you know how he feels. \n\nIf there is something you know you both have in common, strike up a conversation about it and see where it goes. If you find he does feel the same way about you and he doesn't ask, then I would say, just blurt it out and just ask him if he would like to go out with you sometime. (sometimes guys need a little nudge .. lol)\n\nDoes the company where you work have rules about co-workers dating one another? If so this might be a problem. If not let your hair down and go for it !!!\n\nI wish you all the best life has to offer ... take care, buh bye.
391026
You Truly have a real problem.  I worked around a situation similar to yours.  The boss favored a young lady in every way.  She received nothing but praise, all awards and the easiest jobs.  When he finally got it through his head, that she loved her husband and didn't want him,he changed.  They say the deepest love can turn into the greatest hate.  that saying is very true.  It got so bad that they had to separate them.  You need to explain to him what you want out of life, and that you are committed to someone (create a person) try to be kind, but watch this situation carefully. If it continues then go to the next in charge and explain the situation.  \n\nGood Luck\n\nNote the situation that I mentioned all most came to blows.