Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy?  Any hope for me?
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It sounds like he is suffering from strong feelings of inadaquacy. This ex wife has beat the self confidence out of him. He is not sure that you really want him. That is why he consistantly gives up then starts back up after you call. He can't see beyond where he is. He doesn't complain because he is, first of all, not a whiner. Second of all, he feels as if he has little enough to entice you so complaining would only make you feel less interested in continuing the relationship.\n\nI believe very strongly in situations of this gravity, writing him a short letter is the best thing you can do. Something he can look at when he starts feeling alone in this great big world. \n\nI'm not talking about a "how are you today" letter. He needs a letter about you. He knows how he feels. He needs desperately to know how you feel. To know that you understand. To know that you tingle inside when the phone rings, thinking it might be him. That you want to wrap yourself around his voice when he speaks and ward off any thing that could challenge him until he is able to regain the strength to do it himself.\n\nWe men, in general, feel it is our responsibility to always be strong. To be the "protector of the weaker sex" Well, it is time to turn that around because tonight, the man is the weaker sex. And as for you, well, you will be providing the strength. It's only fair. After all, you do get butterflies thinking about him, don't you? And, I'm sure you have wanted to hold him in your arms until his pain, which he can almost hide from you, went away. \n\nIt will take a lot for you to be the hero here. If it didn't scare you, there would be no need for you to be brave. You are the only person in the world that can pull him out of this. In his mind, anyway. Don't let him down... don't let yourself down.
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He's probably just a desperate pervert who probably just wants any girl and it wouldn't matter who or what type of girl she is... He's just some bored creep who looking for some girl who has low self-esteem... Though if you've seen a picture of him and he's seen one of you, then that's just a different story
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Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
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Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
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DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
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The girl could have just been a friend.. Im a girl and have more guy friends then girl friends.  But who knows.   Have you talked to him since then?  Has he mentioned anything? Or have you brought it up?  Try atleast talking to him to find out what's going on.  After you find out wat's up, then decide!  o and if he keeps bringing her up in convos id be well aware... that's not realyl a good sign.
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Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
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seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
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uuuuuuugggggggggghhhhhhhhhh!!!! i'm going to start copying and pasting this answer....HE ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND! he is UNAVAILABLE! what is there to be confused about????? and wait for what? for him to either dump or cheat on his girlfriend? well if he's willing to do either of those for a strange piece then he's a jerk anyway and woo hoo thats what you will win, the big prize - a jerk. they are a dime a dozen. find someone who IS AVAILABLE!! what would you want a girl who is asking this question about YOUR man to do?
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ya hes a total jacka** and its completely up to u to decide if u wanna do that or not. you will find a guy way better than him :-D cheer up pretty lady
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its sounds alright but i think it be better if u just went up and talked to him... :) good luck \n\n(ohh hmm im not a dude im a chick..)
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this isn't the end of the world. \n\nrealize that talking to him isn't a big deal! you're a big girl! you can do it! take a deep breath, and talk to him. start out slowly with hi.\n\nyou'll never know what he wants until you talk to him!\n\ngood luck, and best wishes!
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
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You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!
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wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
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If he hasn't responded to a dish like you, he's gay, dead or just plain stupid.\nOne good thing, there are thousands of men, on here, and elsewhere, who would be over the moon, to correspond or chat with you.\nSo don't waste your time on  him, it seems he hasn't.\nJust move on, and open yourself up to all the other chances you have.\nAfter seeing your pic, I would suggest you buy a baseball bat, to beat off some of those suitors,. who will be sitting on your doorstep waiting for you.\nLife's  too short to worry about losers, just move on and have fun.\nI'd wish you good luck, but I don't think you need it. :)
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I think he's interested in asking you out, it just hasn't worked out with his schedule yet to be able to do it. Don't give up hope yet. I think he will ask you just as soon as his schedule permits!