How can you tell if your husband is cheating on you?
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So, whats the problem if he is? Your marriage is finished anyway.
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Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend \nSome men who suspect their girlfriends are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating girlfriend: \n\nAfter dating for several years she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer \nYou find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake. \nYou find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties. \nYou come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes. \nShe's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes. \nThe phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up. \nShe starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback. \nYour girlfriend tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time. \nShe says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these signs it may mean she is cheating on you.\n\nGl\nI hope she isn't it is the worst way for a relationship to die.
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If hes stopped having sex with you or if he demands it too often or if hes middle-aged and suddenly starts caring too much about his looks then hes cheating on you\nor may be your just paranoid
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No offence, but don't their advice. You'll know when he doesn't show as much interest in you and when he starts acting different with you. If you think he's cheating, but he's acting the same, get advice from a friend or family member who know them a little.
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if you have sex and then he leaves, if you call him and he never answers, if your always the one buying shit, if he never takes you out. If he's only around when he wants to be there. Girl if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. On the madea movie that woman said how do you know if your man is cheating? Do you think he's cheating YES then he's cheating
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Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
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Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
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Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
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he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
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Trust that your husband loves you, and he could just be looking around. Don't be so insecure, if you know he loves you. Don't make the mistake of accusing him of something he didn't do, it will effect your relationship in the long run.
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I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
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well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him
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Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
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if hes chanmged and dont tell you he loves you you guys done cummicate thats the main thing to look for you should like talk to him about it but dont let him know your think he is cheating
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You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
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if it's more than one person independently telling you then he is probably cheating.\n\nlook at the character of the people telling you and decide if they would want to hurt you; or keep you from hurt
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Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.