How can I get my overworked bf to notice me more? I love to make love to him but I always start the ball rolln
351538
try to ignore him but not too much. dont show him that you badly need him coz this makes guys take u for granted.
691838
try to get his attention toward u instead of his 'girlfriend'. Make it easier 4 u 2 talk w/ eachother. its good that u r friends already. That makes it easier. \n\nit obvious that u love him though...\n\nyeah- u need to let him know more about u, but play ur strengths. :)
663986
Ohh god u really need some help. Firstly dont be scared for whatever he says, he knows u r decent enough and tolerate whatever he says for the sake of good reputation. So just make him look like a fool to himself. Do this step by step. Firstly when he scold u just say how much u want to scold me just do it, and l am just keeping my phone on my desk and do my work when u finish just hang out. Like this will make him gradually feel stupid. Always be nice with words to him this will make him clam down coz from ur question l feel making him angry is no use at all. Finally having a bf like this for ur future will be a big problem, so slowly get out from him even u loves him. This will be a big problem to u in future as no  trust nor any support to u from the man.
967305
Show him that you care for him and that you are there for him to help whenever he has a prob. Then you would see how he reacts differently. He will probably even get in touch with you more frequently because he will understand that you care for him. When you will get the feeling that he knows that you care for him, then try to start a conversation with him and try to give him some hints that you like him and want him to be your bf. Hopefully he will respond positively to your needs. Good luck and hope that this helps you.
364047
Maybe now that he has you he doesn't feel like he has to keep trying as much. You should tell him it bugs you, that you like talking to him. You could call him at night to talk, but definatly tell him that you'd like for you two to talk more.
116949
Well, try to get him to notice you. Maybe you could find out what makes you his turn offs and resolve it. But don't confront him just yet. Then try to find out his turn ons. If one of his turn ons criteria matches you, thats your secret weapon. But don't get too desperate! Get things slowly done. Im a bit naughty myself :p
362094
ignores u??? hmmm...seems he jus wantd to b physically involved wid u...ask him whts the deal n tell him abt ur feelings ...\nif he improves, good; else u shd nt allow him to use u more n move on...
380582
just attract him more .......spend more time with him ..... agree with him in all cases ...... give him lots of love ...... give him the things tat he wants it .... and make him to love you more and to care about u more .......
24179
Don't look elsewhere, this is actually pretty normal.    Try talking to him and telling him that you'd like to be more intimate.  DOn't make things into a chore, like "eat, drive to movies, blah, sex"... Usually, I find that a good makeout session will be enough to rev up your latent sex drives!
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call him and tell him how much you love him. or send him get well ballons. if i were you i would send him ballons, or flowers(something big) to get his attention and when he gets them he'll keep thinking of you...making him want you to be there more. so when you do get there it will be a relief for both of you. do you understand? good luck, hope he gets to feeling better!
925555
Trust that he had something more important to do than email you at that current time.  If he treats you great like you said give him some slack and not fret over a missed email he diserves more credit than that.   Maybe if you try treating him like a prince he'll notice you pay attention to his kind efforts and will do more for you.  He sounds like a good guy, little things shouldn't erase the big ones hope i helped good luck :-)
585439
have a bath and completly relax... maybe you cant get horny cause of stress around you... make your man give you lots of foreplay or give him a sexy dance.. this will loosen you up and make you feel more attractive and sexy
138167
heyya! its me lebanese dude again :P by the way how did u find out am lebo! u checked out my site? anywayz as for ur question...\n\nseems u got a pretty fine relationship where ur guy is acting UNLIKE most guys .. in a way tht makes u feel lucky to have him i mean the whole surprises and all means hes either head over heals for u OR hes done something bad tht hes trying to make it up for u/cover it anywayz when ur with some1 tht does these sepcial lil things without u ASKING em to... means hes realy into u so dont think theres anything more to do to than wht u allready doin i guess hes just into you cos ur YOU every1 is special the way they are and seems ur lucky to have met some1 tht appuciate u for who u are inside out so my advice! ACT AS U ALWAYS DID and things would work out fine! never change who u are he obviously liked u the way u normaly are u dont have to OVer think these things :) but anyway heres a few tips :) u said hes working late when a guy is tired and he comes back home he would b expecting everything to go smoothly as possible and to do things tht would make him forget all the tension hes having through out hes work hours find wht he likes best and try providing it to him by this i dont mean b a slave for hes wishes but in a way try givin him wht he wants in a way tht he would appuciate it and NOT takin it for granted eventualy.. good luck babe hope everything works out for u 2 and like we lebo say "mabrouk salaf" :) \nps: ask ur lebo friends they will tell ya wht it means
578842
Your in lust for him, it sounds like you need sexed. Relax, you will find someone
723450
Have sex with him? (As the previous poster suggested...) NOT...that's a sure fire way to let him *use* you, and think less of you for letting him do this.\n\nBE HIS FRIEND...If it's meant to happen it will. Be a support, listen. I know it's not easy when someone you care of doesn't always see you in the same way. If in time, once he sees your heart, he may look at you different. However, if not...you'll always have him for a friend which..(listen to this old broad!)..beats a boyfriend anyday. Boyfriends will come and go...friends, true friends, are forever.\n\nGood luck in having him notice you differently...
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With time sex kind of dwindles from ohhhhhhhhhhhh my gosh to just that norm sex, try greeting him in your birthday suit when he comes over an see his reaction. As I've always believe, have faith in that man, communicate what you want with your sexual innuendos but never be naive to what is going on in your situation.  before accusing find out discreetly,
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Why can't you approach him? Has he lost his libido? if so you have to talk if you don't explain to him how you feel and that if he doesn't talk to you about it he may lose you to someone else.if he loves you he will talk. Masterbation works for some and not for others..invest in a vibrator (if you haven't already) and some naughty mags/ vids (honestly they help) and try that way, it won't go away and soon you will begin to feel resentful...best thing to do is talk and perhaps dress in something 'WOW' so he'll sit up and take notice if he doens't  something's going on...perhaps he feels he's not good enough etc....you gotta talk Good luck