Should I stay away from her?
346711
I've been there mate, sorry to say it, but she's taking you for a ride. She's using you when she find's it convenient. Sever this "relationship" before it breaks you in two. If she's willing to treat you like that, she's not worth it. She obviously doesn't have a high regard for your feelings, because if she did, she would have got with you totally, or not at all. Sorry to say it mate, but break this one up now, please. I know how painful it will eventually be if you don't.
173296
no there is nothing wrong with wanting her to stay away from the ex.\n\nwhat is wrong is that she is around the ex. tell her to stop or it's over.
378369
My advice would be to get away from this person as quickly as possible. There are enough things out there to agonize over, don't let another big one like this one tear you up anymore. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not destroyed. If there were kids, then that would be different. Run girl, like the wind. Good Luck
875731
She sounds like she is a looney tune,I think you made the right choice to distance yourself from her. You probably have saved yourself a lot of grief.
816670
well by avoiding her you are being a jackass.... Talk to her... what is wrong with having another friend???
739394
i think you should let it go,its not an issue or a big deal so don't waist your time with her...you got other impotent thing to do.
695931
Just stay away from her.  From what you said, I can't think of any reason why you need to be in her presence.  Tell your boyfriend if he wants to keep you as a girlfriend he has stay away from her too.  People like her are poison.  I'm sorry you had to go through that.
287890
You're asking for trouble - stay away from your ex.
1102460
she is very scared and keeping you at a safe distance for her......until you make her feel safe this is what you will get....do not smother her and let her pursue you for now.
684203
I surely wouldn't go hang out with her. You don't need that stress, besides it sounds like a set up. brush her off your shoulders and find a new friend
1154758
All I have to say is stay away from her cause she sounds CRAZY...
1010281
well in a way it's a good thing that you're avoiding her..but dont like shut her out completely. once she realizes that you've moved on,she'll probably start to miss you. you know? hah,i sound a lil silly,but i guess what you're doing is okay. give her a call,see if she's in a talkative mood. you can tell if she doesn't wanna talk if theres awkward silences,or if she comes up with a lame excuse to get off the phone. : ]
824685
Then don't talk to her.
177830
get away from her. don't waste time on crazy women, get a sane one.
443131
yes she will think you don't like her..its possible that she thinks you are the best..if you feel that you aren't why not just try to be the man you want her to have instead of sending her away?
511360
you could tell her well I know that I am ur friend so and I know that he was my ex. But I think that you should stay away there is somebody better out there for you.
367632
Okay, here it is: You and your girlfriend got to be close to each other while you were together, I'm sure you know a lot more about her now than most people and she knows much about you. You had fun with her and you enjoy her company. If so, then yes, by all means, stay friends with her. If you don't enjoy her company and actually dislike her, then no, avoid her but still be nice to her. Just figure out her as a friend, not just as an ex.