Why does love fade away?
351787
love does not fade away. the feeling of being in love is the one that fades away, coz like any other feelings, being in-love will not be a constant feeling. meaning it may be gone today, but may come back tomorrow. What makes a relationship last is the COMMITMENT to love each other even if at times the feeling of being in love is replaced with anger or sadness, etc. it will come back if you will try to remember all the things you've gone thru and all the good and bad times you've shared.
122420
Anger, resentment etc. all these negative emotions are only temporary. Love is forever. Love is shining through us no matter how bad we may feel about ourselves. Let go and be the love, revenge and retribution are totally unnecessary. Love can burn away all past transgressions!
93144
Falling in love happens so smoothly, its when youre just getting to know each other and you love all those lil things she/he does for you,  The once you ahve been in love fo r along time, all that wears off, adn its about maintaining that love and keeping things fresh, which is hard.  You fall into ruts adn do the same things and its gets old.  Its hard work, but well worth teh reward, to know you have someone in your life who would do anything for you and wants to sepnd teh rest of their life with you.  (If you couldnt tell, im still in love!)
210412
Love comes and goes. It's an emotion.\nThe trick is to fall in love with the same person over and over again. It's called commitment.
386636
It is often hard for use to not miss the ones we have invested time and emotion in.  However, time does  go on.  The main element in building a strong relationship, is often time, and that is compounded by shared memories.  these memories are what gives us the feeling of aquireing a special bond, the more memories and time that is spent, the greater the bond.  Usualy it takes a great deal longer to disolve emotion than to build it.  Take anger for instance, i bet you sometimes get angry, or upset, quickly and i also bet it takes a lot longer to stop being angry than it did to get you angry in the first place.
204576
Bacause you have created a bond with that person while with them, and you have shared a part of you lives together and it is hard when things don't go as well as thought that they would because so much time,effort and love has gone into a relationship that didn't survive the test of time, but you are left with memories and things left unsaid and undone and maybe a few wonder what ifs. Time will fade the thoughts and memories but, for now they are your way of trying to come to terms with losing a part of your life that used to mean so much.
569996
love is great even if it dont last ....its better to have love and lost then to have never loved at all
1096268
Because love = Insanity. Love is the one emotion that a person can have that can make you go crazy.  It can make you do some strange things. Its just as bad as Drugs. When Love is over you cant eat, you cant sleep, you cant think. And the sad part about it is there is nothing you can do to stop the hurt.  They say time heals all wounds. But one thing they dont tell you is it cant remove the scars.
998036
Love isnt tangible. Its a personal feeling. Its opposed only in places where love is not a common expression. If its love akin to affection then perhaps it is welcomed. Otherwise, love as in the case of growing togetheress between man and woman, love finds itself rejected. And the people who seem to be involved in love are treated more as out-castes. When governance of an individual is not by the individual but by the family, such kinds of oppositions grow
526153
You always hold a special place in yout heart for an ex, but usually the love fades away.
116136
This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.
347811
Three reasons:\n\nIt's called you had a crush before and now it's gone.\n\nIt's called the will to love has passed, since you found someone else.\n\nIt's called you don't want to love them because it wasn't unconditional; the condition to your love for them has been broken.
41706
Because it goes deep into your heart.  so when things are going well - it can feel SOOOO good - but when they fall apart for some reason - it is one of the deepest hurts a person can feel.  \n\nBeing in love is a difficult thing - because one must be willing to expose him/herself to potential pain in order to accept and revel in the wonderful pleasures of being in true love.
903552
After a few years of a relationship, the initial passion tends to fade and is replaced by a more secure and stable feeling.  You can try to do something different once in a while, like going out spontaneously, or doing something new in bed.
720281
It's always hard losing a love, whither they are still alive or dead. As long as you hold that someone in your heart you will love them till the end of your time. Does that mean you will never love someone else as much, you probably will, and they will be in your heart as well.
1117288
because it is easy to love... but hard to hold on... \n\nif u truly love.. u can hold on :)
522395
You have people who are emotionally healthy and will take some space inbetween dating and truly look at their past relationship and examine what part they had in the demise of the relationship.   \n\nOther can not stand being alone and must feel that void of a lost love with someone immediately.  This is not healthy because what they are really doing is carrying the same baggage and problems into the next relationship which will have the same outcome.   They call this getting over the ex but they are just replacing them with another player.\n\nWhether I am infatuated or believe I love someone I do not go into another relationship after the break-up.  I alway take time and space to get my head clear.