How come it is hard for me to get a job meet new people, b-cuz of the kinda hair style i have.?
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What hairstyle do you wear anyway?  It's hard to tell without knowing but usually an employer will want to hire someone who will be representative of the company.  If the company is a conservative one, they will most likely hire those with conservative hairstyles.  If you want to keep your hairstyle the way it is, try to apply for a job which will accept your unconventionality.
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not at all. I've been a hairdresser for 21 years and get the opportunity to do just that. by asking them about there selves. I'll tell you what ,to walk in another's shoes for just a small amount of time,you can live vicariously through them or thank your lucky stars you are just where you need to be. God Bless hope that was helpful
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Are you really as cute and sexy as you say?  Just kidding.  But seriously it's hard to move around and try to make new friends.  Just try smiling and saying hi to people at first and if they seem receptive then start up a convo or ask them out for pizza or something.   Grab that bull by the balls and go for it! (figuratively speaking of course)
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Then i suggest you take up some customer service jobs. (may be hard to get with that thought in mind. But no harm in trying) It provides an oppurtunity for you to talk to so many people. Over a period of time you will find yourself transformed.
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just gain confidence in who you are. people notice people who knows how to be themself.just be you and the right people will see you for you.
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You know what?  You might be doing what I did a few years ago.  Unknowingly, habitually, putting off a judgmental aire.  Maybe it's a defense mechanism, maybe you really don't like many people.  I sure don't sometimes.  Whatever it is, I'll tell you this, if you make a concerted effort to put yourself out there, be willing to talk to anyone that talks to you, always use humor, find something interesting about everyone--because everyone has something, and loosen up, then people will flow your way.\n\nAbout 10 years ago, a little after college, I thought, man, what I'm doing ain't working.  So I thought, try pretending to be someone else, someone not shy, awkward or stand-offish.  In other words, if that's what gets you jump-started to opening up to new situations, people and things, then do it.  Go to different places than you usually do, take some fun class at a community college, or recreation center, volunteer somewhere.  Who cares--just take yourself out of your normal patterns, shake things up a bit!!  It'll be fun and you'll see it's worth it when people are drawn to you.  And the people you first meet might not be the great friends of your future, but everyone has an effect on everyone else and they may lead you to the place and people made for you!\n\nSince I tried it, I got 4 new, life-long friends and a husband and 2 cutie-pie little kids!  Worked for me!!\n\nMuch luck!!
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Do you have a hard time working and dealing with people? Or is it just lack of experience with working with people?? If it's lack of experience, it'll just take you time to get used to it. If you really have a hard time dealing with people, then maybe you have social anxiety? There are meds to help with that.\nI have a very hard time working/dealing with people. I've learned to just smile and make people think I'm good at socializing and dealing with them. \nIf you're strapped for cash, just take any job and keep looking for others that you'd like better. Who knows, maybe you'll take the job at that family discount store and like it!!\n\nGood luck!
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I had the same issues for the past 6 years...fortunately I dont have to work but the job market is not very good right now...I would try rewriting my resume and use connections to help with the search.  I dont think its you I think its the market...If those things work then great and if not no worries keep looking...trust me the job market ispoor right now.
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I would start off by saying, maybe its not your hair at all. maybe that person have a problem with you. this person maybe jealous of your hairstyle. so If I were you, I wouldn't listen to her, and if everyone has a problem with your hair tell them to all give you some money to get it done.
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Probably the same reason I do.  I have a hard time being out going.  But you can work on it.  Just asert yourself, people WANT to be around you trust me I know.
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My philosphy is that I didn't get my job to make friend.  I have friends.  I got my job to make money.  It can be touchy when others have friendships, esp. with bosses in your office.  Go with the flow.  Sit down, be quiet, and don't rock the boat or they will throw you overboard!!  Good luck...I know that it is no fun.
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maybe you seam like a bad employee, I have a job and always seam to be able to find a new one when ever I want.\nwhat are your skills? do you have a degree?
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Because most people don't know how to look for a job. You have to start with a resume that says what you really want to do not something vague. Example: To find a job as a sales trainee where I can use my strong interpersonal skills. Lots of people put down something like I want a position that will afford me personal growth. That goes into the wastebasket. \nAnother mistake people make is to just look at help wanted ads. Only 10% of all jobs are filled through ads. Get out the yellow pages and look up companies that have the job you want. Call up and ask if you can fax over the resume and to who's attention. Follow up in a week with a phone call.
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maybe because you haven't yet found the right person...how about going somewhere else try to meet people in a descent way...i hope it could help you
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Getting a job in the industry is quite difficult and is highly based on who you know.  It will take time to develop your circle until eventually you land with one of these careers.  Be patient and don't lose sight of your goal, but never give up.
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im sorry honey. well.. how about a lil bit of bit of hair wax that you buy at a local store, and just dab a little bit all around like in messy spikes and itll look very trendy. Now ...if there is no haior left at all.. then wear your new look with pride. it just takes some time to get used to something new. Look in the mirror, make cool super smooth faces while you listen to your favorite hype u up song. Hope everything works out !
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It is possible\nHave spirit and meet people who are already in this profession.\nbe confident and improve your personality