what do i do if some one i am going out with does not seem to like me as much as her last boyfriend?
343952
sounds like you are a temporary thing. don't get attached
638687
no u might just be more picky then her and waiting for the right guy. there is no reason to just accept who ever because u feel like u are lacking a boyfriend. wait for the right guy he will come along.
1180147
I would let her know how you feel about her, then leave it alone. She might choose you over the other guy, but you don't want her to feel pressured and you don't want to steal her away. (Well, ok, you probably do, but it could cause problems in the long run, and you don't want that.) If she feels the same way about you, but doesn't know how you feel, you could both lose out on a good relationship. However, if her current boyfriend is it, and she just didn't want to do the long-distance thing, then you need to respect their relationship.\n\nJust approach it by saying that you don't want to pressure her because you respect her relationship with her boyfriend, but want to let her know that you like her as more than a friend.  You don't want to date a woman that would cheat on her current boyfriend to be with you, because that's a sign she'll do it TO you, and you don't want a broken heart out of the deal.\n\nJust my 2¢.
1065588
Dont make it a suprise, you may be the one suprised if she has someone else there, make sure your expected!
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
57827
This happens a lot with friends, in that they have interest in the same person - it probably won't be the last time it happens either. It is sort of an unwritten code that the friend will step aside if the other friend has any kind of prior "claim". Still, if you really like the girl, you might want to ask your friend what his intentions are & if he is really that interested or just out for some action as he might be willing to move on if you are deeply interested. Even so, I'd use caution in getting involved with this girl since she has obviously been rather free with herself with your friend. Before stepping into the fray, consider if she is this easy with everyone or if the relationship with your friend just progressed more rapidly. If she's had a lot of boyfriends & gathered a reputation because of it, she just be interested in physical gratification rather than a real relationship. If you want something more, you might want to look elsewhere...\n\nGood luck!
799023
Please don't do the typical guy thing and feed your ego with the other 3.  If you like the one you are with tell them you are unavailable and want to see we things go with the current person you are seeing.\n\nYou seem like a good guy for being concerned and asking.  Don't hurt her or you may lose a good thing.\n\nGood Luck
266618
You don't do anything.  You missed your chance for now and you can't know for sure that you will get another chance so you need to move on with your life.  The reason you do nothing is that if you were in her place or this other guys place, you wouldn't want someone ruining what you had.
113498
as far as finding out if she likes you i would suggest that you talk to her and if all else fails ask her if she does like you. but personally i would let it go. if she's with her current bf simply because she doesn't want to be single then if you two actually did get together then she might be doing the same thing to you in the near future and that's just not fair to you.
674719
Ha...well, there's no such thing as "kinda going out" with someone, she either is or isn't going out with them (but you knew that). \n\nAnyways, since you're good friends, you don't want to ruin the relatioship by putting her in an uncomfortable situation and make her choose between you and her boyfriend, so don't. Either wait for her boyfriend and her to break up, or move on. \n\nAnd please remember, don't make your move too quickly after the breakup, or it'll look like you're taking advantage of her vulnerability, which is most definitely NOT good for your chances with her.
286950
I'd sit them down and tell them what you thought. ( Make sure you tell them that you mean no offense for whatever it is that you're going to say first.) Tell them that you don't like what this guy is doing to her. Try and figure out exactly why it is that she's acting like that, it could be that she's trying to change for him or she may feel that she's better then everyone else now that she's with him.If it's the first then tell her that she doesn't need to or should act like that for anyone. If it's the other then you should make it clear to her that being with this guy doesn't make her any better, she still is who she is and being with someone, no matter who it is, doesn't make a difference. If you have to you could also try talking to her boyfriend see what he thinks.
786525
Well for starters every girl loves attention so even if you ask her out and she says no, she wont mind knowing you care :)\n\nI think the whole 'I still like my other boyfriend' is just a front so she doesnt have to feel akward around you and can be herself.\n\nWhen your out with her next, go for the hand, if she likes you, you will see major sparks if not then she will just let go of yours and say something funny or nice to let go of your hand. \n\nBut I think the best and longer lasting relationships are the ones that started out as friends, So good luck mate :)
731777
she's not that in to you,,, anymore. move on to the next girl. and this time, don't take too long.
817413
Don't make it complicated and obsess about it. She hasn't mentioned the boyfriend (if he still exists) because she's interested in you. Ask her if she's available. Her yes or no ought to answer the question. If she says she's "sort of" seeing someone, you can figure out if you want to "sort of" see her along with another guy or not.  Have fun, take a chance. Life's too short.
411893
thats a tough one. see when someone is that needy they do not see that they actually are chasing away the people they want to befriend. any kind of nice will leave the opening for more ,well are you free next week? i would just say you think she's really nice but you don't really have much in common and your time is limited.
718278
Your friend was jelous that you had a boyfriend and she probably didn't have one at the same time you did. She was jelous that you'd hang out with your boyfriend more than her so she's hurt that you'd choose your boyfriend over her. You should tell her that you still want to be friends with her. If she does ignore you, you tried.
1055185
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!