It is this girl I like but she keeps telling me that friends shouldn't go out with fiends. What can i do?
353562
Don't be a fiend. Seriously, date other girls, it'll get her all jealous.
889779
Honey, if she said just friends have the respect to give her what she wants.  If you like her so much you will do her the honor of respecting her wishes.  Otherwise you'll come off looking like a pathetic creep.\nReally, don't come on here and tell us how much you like her.  If you really cared for her you'll respect her wishes.  You are making this all about you and that is selfish.  You can't have a one sided relationship.  Move on.  If it is meant to happen, it will.  You cannot make someone like you!
28077
Do you like her as well and you don't want your friends to know?\nWell if that is the case, you should think about yourself and your friends.  Why do you have to keep her a secret?  Your friends should accept you.\n\nor do you mean that she likes you and you do not like her and you don't want your friends to know?\nIf you don't want your friends to know, then just pull her aside and tell her that you don't like her.  Be nice about it.  If she is rejected she won't spread her failure.
800109
if ur friend tells u not 2 go out with a girl then dat only means dat either ur friend's got a crush on her or he's just jelous dat u're d lucky 1 to be able 2 hang out with her. & if this discription doesn't match then there must be sumthing bad about dat girl that ur friend knows & so he might just be wanting to stop u from meeting her & stuff!!!
1020083
Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
413077
very reasonable, the flirting and inuendo that comes with a lot of girl "FRIENDS" is totally inappropriate now, you should have made your choice, you can only keep the ones who are JUST friends, you know the ones, they are the ones who the both of you can hang with and act the same way when she is there!!!
694489
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
497940
if thats the reason why the girl's going out w/ u u prolly shouldn't date that girl.
645892
dont you hate that\n\nDitch her, girls wont date guys with female friends, they just get jealous, your a guy, get some action
642007
she may not like ur friend. Dont blame the girls.She may love that guy.
836611
Why do you want to stay friends with someone that tries to confuse you and it sound like she doesn't respect your feelings. If your not lesbian let her be... Its actually very bad for her to do it over and over again, not very nice person. Just let her know that if she doesn't stop your going to go you own way, she her reaction i she stops you'll know she is a true friend,
942421
You guys need to grow up, if he is going out with her then don't bother them.  But you can still be friends with her.
706643
Tell her that you won't let her do that to you anymore.  If she values your friendship, then you need to let her know that you will not allow her to continued to do this.  People will always walk all over you until they know that they can't.  YOu have to stick up for yourself.  Don't talk to her for a week or so.  Then call her up and say.....next time, it will be over.  Don't treat me like that anymore.
320833
Find out her likes and dislike and go from there. But don't ge t to the point where you're stalking her or anything scary like that. Just try and hang out with her. If you don't get the sense that she likes you in that way at all, don't push, or else you'll lose her as a friend too.
204962
I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
716805
okay from wat i understand so far..this girl does not want to admit to your friends that u guys are going out?? are you two really goig out already?? whats ur question man???\nif she does not not want anyone to know than what does it take for you to go along with it? do you have a problem with it?? maybe you two should sit down and talk about it?? unless you have a specific reason..why not respest her wishes??thats what a relationship is all about...you understand her she understands you...