when does a man think a womans fat?what is too fat to them?
346493
most men i talk to (depending on how big they are them selves) say that a woman is fat, truley fat when her belly hangs low or over her pants.. whe she has boobs that wrap all the way around her body, or she can't put her arms down to her sides... and by bellie hanging i mean kicking it when you walk hanging not the lil pudge u have over your belt line...
446984
Lots of men like women with some padding.  Compromise...don't gain and only lose enough to be in the healthy range...not to have an anorexic appearance.  Be happy that he isn't that type of man to leave you because you aren't the slender thing he married...men have been known to do that.  Count your blessings!
832197
The message is not a negative one!  The guy was actually complimenting her!  When a guy says you have a fat Pu$$y, it's a very good thing!  Guys tell me that all the time!  It means that her private part, her outter lips (labia) is a bigger size than usual.  that's why he said that!  He's not calling her fat or anything!  It's a very good thing!  I like it when guys think it's fat!  The average size of a Pu$$y is just average, but when you have a nice fat juicy one...you should feel special! :-)  She should take that as a compliment, not an insult!
176871
Some women do.  For me a fat man would have to make up for it in other ways- nice features, tall, athletic, strong, intelligent, well-spoken, confident, rich
174951
For me (and a lot of guys) it's all about proportions.\nThat said , there are a lot of men out there that say the fatter the better, these guys aside most (including myself) think like this:\n\nFor example, if a "fat gurl" as you put it, has no or small breasts then we probably not that interested.  In other words if her gut sticks out further than her breasts it's not good!\n\nIf however she has big breasts (ie curves in all the right places) then yeah we're probably interested.  I'm talking about real curvy women here, not huge women
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Did they ask for your opinion? If so, then be honest but tactful. The most important thing about paying a compliment is sincerity. \nBeing beautiful isn't just about the size of one's body. It's about how a person carries themself, the person as a whole, their aura, their personality. A confident and beautiful fat person, is far more attractive than a shallow, insecure, pin up girl.
975492
You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
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If a man thinks the way you described, he isn't worth the effort to turn your head to look at him.\n\nWomen need to feel free to accept their bodies without shame or being put into catagories.\n\nThrough out history, the female frame has been venerated in all its forms, from rounded hips and belly to boyish sticks. In my opinion, if man was created in the image of God then by golly, WOMAN was created in the image of Goddess. You are a perfect female, no matter what you look like.
491410
People have different kinds of views when its comes to love, dating and romance, having you heard that " ONE MAN'S MEAT IS ANOTHER MAN'S POISON" what you like your friends might not, there are many ladies out  there  who loves fat men, you not gonna be the first nor the last.
415812
Are you sure he doesn't like you cause you're fat? Maybe there's something else in his mind. Look, i'm also fat. I have  a lot of ugly stretch marks all over my body but i know i am happier than most of the beautiful women on earth. It actually what you have in mind. If he really doesn't like you cause you're fat, remember girl, he's not worth you!! You deserve to be loved by a decent man. Don't try on a diet or extra exercise because of a lousy man. Because even if it works out (your diet and sport) and then he loves you because you have model figure, would you really think that his love is sincere? Would you really think he loves you because of you and not because of your sexy body? You have two choices.\n \nIf he doesn't like you cause you're fat, LEAVE HIM!! it is the lousiest reason a man doesn't like a woman.\nIf else, try to find out the reason he doesn't like you then work it out.
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fatchic sounds like something you would hear in a conversation, Fatbabe sounds more like she is comfortable with herself and sexy inside and out. If I used the term fatbabe in front of my wife about another women, my wife would KNOW I was thinking(oh yea i want that just once)\n\n          I am a man therefore I am a pig, dont bust my chops about this girls I was just being honest.
696979
i hate men like you, just because your g/f has put on some weight does not mean you have to dump her, who cares what anyone else thinks and says, you dont deserve a gf but its obvious your not intrested in how a women feels or who she is as a person, all your worried about it if she is good looking or not.\nyou are the type of guy that makes men look bad and are only intrested in looks rather then who a person is.
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1. At least average looking (remember, there is no ugly woman in this world, there is only lazy one).\n\n2. One who love me (of course, if you don't love me)\n\n3. At least average fit body shape (again, you can change this, there is on overweight or underwweight, but lazy one)\n\n4. Seriously, I really don't like those girls go on diet while they are as thin as stick, and they still keep saying that they are fat. In fact, man like woman who are a little fat but fit. Get it, dudette.\n\n5. I hope that nowadays women are still able to cook some delicious dishes, devoted to their husbands, and like babies and willing to have your own.
58373
if youre really really fat lose weight, men dont mind women being a little overweight but very few except weirdo chubby chasers desire obese women sorry  but its true.
182127
Yes, but nothing major.  When I ask my husband if he thinks I'm pretty he damn well better say YES, even if he doesn't mean it!!!  (and of course he does:-)\n\nWhite lies of this nature (you're pretty, you're not fat, of course I want to go shoe shopping with you, etc..) are okay in my book.
263953
i think fat people are beautiful because God made us all and not all people get fat because they eat alot some people get in from there parents or genes so don't judge them because of how they look and the question us would you date a fat person we sre all people just all of us look differet NO man is alike and i would date a fat person once there caring honest, loving i wouldnt wnt to look on the outside and stop saying fat try using a word like chubby, big, chucky, words like that God made us all and he loves us all
692754
It could be both, I would suggest if proper hygiene is taken then to seek medical attention.  It has nothing to do with 'fat' women.