Please be honest here-about messing people's lives up.?
337806
I know exactly where your coming from, where I work some of the women (well one in particular) is a right bimbo, but because she wears short skirts, low cut tops and licks b*m she seems to get away with everything, but... when things go wrong she really does get it in the neck because its a shock to the system as shes used to having it easy.  I think the reason some people are like this is because they are unhappy in their home life this particular person gets beaten by her husband, people just lack attention and like to source it from other places.\n\nDon't feel sorry for yourself just rise above and at the end of the day you have a better home life then her and you are a much better person without exposing yourself and being nasty xx
953053
Was that a serious q?  If it was my father in law was on big time.\nLook for:  \n  Binges of staying up for days (depending on how much they are doing),\n Crashing and sleeping for days (or just all day, again depends on how much they are doing.\n  Becomming violent\n  Overly happy\n   Very hyper/"wired"\n  Watch for them making jumps in convos - that nobody can follow.  I.E.  You are talking about how much you made from a paycheck to somone shooting a dear illegally in another state (personal, family experience of theirs)\n  Erratic mood swings.  (being happy, and talking one min, and the next be yelling about $50 you think someone is ripping you off, then saying how they got the person they are talking to out of trouble when they shot that dear in wyoming, to flipping your 6 months pregnant daughter in law over a chair while she was trying to get her husband to leave, to holding a knife to your sons throat threatening to kill him) ****Yeah, it happens fast.  I know because I was the pregnant woman being flipped over a chair.  And the person my father in law was talking to was his son, my soon to be husband.\n  Having hundreds of dollars and then being broke in a few days.\n  Being anti-social\n  Swear a lot (you had that)\n  They can make funny faces ( depening on how they are doing )\n  Unable to shut up (jabber mouth)\n  Visit the restroom frequently\n  Sniff a lot ( if they sniffed it, not if they smoked it )\n  Look for mirrors, or other flat surfaces with the residue\n  Erratic behavior (saying brb and being gone hrs, wanting to work on everything, cheating, lying, stealing ect)\n Grinding teeth\n Sores\nLoosing weight \n Dirty hands is just gross, doesn't mean meth.
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Well, at the risk of you or someone else flaming me.....\n\nAlot of young people do not have the resources or the trust in other adults in thier lives to ask outright, so they come to places like chat rooms and yahoo answers to try to figure out what to do. I personally have answered some questions in here based upon my personal experiences. If I can help someone else thru a crisis, then that's all good IMHO. I personally do care about my fellow human beings and have much compassion... and that is where I come from.\nTake care-\nCat\n☼   ♥  ♫  ♀
1092523
That's what adults do little girl. Guess what the worlds not a perfect place. Wait till you get out in the real world, it gets much worse.
766525
I have been like this for a while now ,someone told me the worst thing you can do is worry about it so I don't.Keep writing things down and being organised and enjoy your life and have a laugh at yourself when you do something silly.There's worse things could be wrong with you.
1025471
You managed to write a coherent sentence so, obviously, you don't mess *everything* up. Start by finding better friends. There are more than enough toxic people in the world. You don't have to volunteer to be around them. \n\nAll the best
472994
you can't force people to think the way you wish them to. if you put up with this, continue and don't complain. if this bothers you, move
551812
Yes, people do things like this and worse all the time in Kentucky. If society has a problem with it, move to Kentucky.\n\nj/k
1022343
YOU can't change anyone.  If a person is going to change, they are going to change for themselves and if they attempt to change for you, you are going to be surprised later on.  It is not right to try to change a person.  You are saying you don't like the way they are about something.  If you can't handle the way someone is - we all have "flaws" -- then just step away.  What if someone wanted to "change" you????
646809
You want to make things WORSE???
816437
Yeah.  Fortunately for me, I never lose sleep over folks like that...they usually tell on themselves over a bit of time.  People discover how mean they are and then drop them like a bad habit.  It's their problem, not yours, so don't worry about it.  Time has a way of righting all the wrongs.
874756
good advice, my friend. i hope others read this and take heed.\nthanks.   BM
1155555
yep, you're gonna have to accept it one way or the other! What's the use in being miserable about it? It's not going to do either one of you any good. Might as well be happy about it. There are worse things in life to be upset about.
186244
You make some good points, and you may be right.  But none of us know the whole situation of anyone who posts here.  Since that is the case, then professional help is probably the best option for most people in truly difficult situations.
1047916
I know many people would be delighted to answer your question, but we need you to be more specific. What is your personal experience with whatever is troubling you, and what exactly are you talking about?
198083
It may not be the nicest thing for a person to do, however if you hadn't done whatever it is that you did they wouldn't have it to use against you. You can't stop a person from doing what they are determined to do unless you talk to them and they are willing to cease what they are doing. You can either ignore them and what they are doing or move on and own up to it. Your past is who helped make you who you are today and if your a better person now then at least you've learned from it. There is something called karma and wheather it be good or bad, eventually they will get what they deserve.
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HOW TO KILL THE EVIL COLD HEARTED ,LIFE SUCKING BIT** X WIFE OF MINE \n\n\nYES I DO HAVE ISSUES