I need to be in love.  How can I be in love with the person I'm with?
344584
You can't you complete moron. Pull your ugly head out of that incredibly fat asss of yours and just live life!!!
1126569
Short answer:  If you're asking that question, you're not in love.\n\nLonger answer:  True love is a choice you must make every day (perhaps many times a day.)  If you were just following your desires from the start, you probably never really loved them in the first place.  BUT, that doesn't mean you can't!  You have the power to love or not to love, but it's like a freight train:  It starts slowly, but once in motion, can NOT be just stopped.\n\nSo, you have a couple questions to ask of yourself:  1.  Are you going to actively love, or allow yourself to be dragged to and fro by your desires?  and  2.  It this person the one you are going to love?
209018
you can love someone and not be in love with them, but you can't be in love with them and not love them . You love a person for what they are , you fall in love with a person for who they are.
461249
you can't make someone love you..they either do or they don't. just remember that if you are willing to give true love that you deserve it in return. Don't settle for anything less.
985992
Just say everything. You love everything about them. And you know your meant to be with them. but there not really a line to say.  just tell him or her how you feel. and make it come from your heart.
623753
Tough question.  \nBut remember one thing, no matter how much this other person loves you if you truely love another you will always want to be with that person. \nSo it isn't fair to the person who loves you.\nIf you can't love a person who loves you then it it is time to allow that person the right to a good relationship.
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It's infatuation. HOWEVER, infatuation is just the first step towards love. In this stage you're in, you wanna be with them all the time. You can't stop thinking about them, etc, etc.\n\nAfter a few months of being in a relationship, this feeling wears down a bit. In 6 months to a year, if you still want to be with them, it's probably love.\n\nBut to keep the relationship moving in that direction, you have to create a strong base of MUTUAL honesty, trust, compromise, communication of thoughts/feelings, and respect.
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Don't try to force it.  If she is going to love you then you should not have to do anything out of the ordinary.  Will you love yourself if you change yourself just to please someone else?\n\nSometimes people are not always on the same page.  The hardest thing in the world is acceptance.  You have to accept the situation for what it is.  That doesn't mean you stop loving her.  Just be patient. You don't want he to fall in love with a made up you stay the way you are.  Money and gifts can't buy love.  \n\nKnow your heart....
46666
Pancharito is right! I know you want to be friends with him, but you are in love with him. You will always be tempted to just crumble and tell him you want more. But you have to respect his wishes before those of your own if you truly do love him. *sigh* That's the part of love that is so hard. You'll never really fall out of love with him. But distancing yourself will make things easier for you. Get involved in activities you love and it will take your mind off of your heart. Besides, you might make some great new friends through your outside involvement. I do wish you luck........I know it is hard!
270138
If you love someone, than usually love makes you ALWAYS want to be around the person you love. Maybe it's just obsession or lust.
19934
Honey, I'm going through the same thing myself. All I can tell you is that you can't make her love you. If things are meant to be, they will work out.  But in the mean time, realize that you don't need someone to love you to feel like a whole person.
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How can you love a person who is not suitable for you. And if you have a feeling of love for someone, what is the criteria for being suitable. But if you have a feeling of love, then give it a shot, may be its all in your head.\n\nI am not the best at advice but you may try it out once. Life's not gonna end after that.
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you have to revaluate your relationship with this person. If you are truly in love ….well it would be a horrible mistake to leave. However, are you sure it is not just because you want this to work which is making you feel as if you are in love?? Talk to your family about this problem and ask their advice (since they know you better then me). Work it through with this guy and see if there is a compromise. Make sure the sacrifice is not only one sided otherwise it might haunt the relationship in the future. Make sure you know this guy and understand who he truly is because people can seem different over the net or phone??. Think and ask for guidance from those closest to you. And most of all discuss it with all the people which will be affected.
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How can I BE LOVE in every situation that arrises for me?
940346
continue being in the relationship I am in now
64998
You can't. If your in love, than your in love, and there is nothing you can do about it.
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When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore\nthat person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around \nto find them.\nAt that moment, you are in love. \n\n\n\nAlthough there is someone else who always makes you laugh,\nyour eyes and attention might go only to that special someone. \nThen, you are in love. \n\n\nAlthough that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, \nto let you know of their safe arrival, \nyour phone is quiet.\nYou are desperately waiting for the call!\nAt that moment, you are in love. \n\n\n\n\nIf you are much more excited for one short e-mail from\nthat special someone than other many long e-mails,\nyou are in love. \n\n\n\nWhen you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the\nemails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message \nfrom that special someone, you are in love. \n\n\n\nWhen you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would\nnot hesitate to think of that special someone.\nThen, you are in love. \n\n\nYou keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend",but\nyou realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that\nmoment, you are in love.\n\n\nWhile you are reading this mail, if someone \nappears in your mind,\nthen u are in love with that person...;))