My wife's best friend stayed with us for the weekend...............?
339218
its pretty natural. i dont think you should do anything. theres nothing to start a large commotion over... its a one time thing im sure.
492684
Ahhh, I`m the same way. You are blessed. Make her your friend. We have been married 35 years and we are best friends. I am so glad for you.. Good luck and God Bless,... {:-)\n\n<><\nHave fun. Life is short.. Be honest with each other and show each other the same respect for each other that you would anyone else..
65042
being married, i believe that he should realize that when he married you, he GAINED a new best friend.  HOWEVER, there are things that i do with my buddy john that i don't do with my wife...football games, baseball games and my wife hangs out with her "homies" doing what women do.  But, everyday is ridiculous.  Bored you ask, yes...bored it is.  Plan a "date night" for the two of you.  Like every saturday or friday, whatever is convienent.  go to dinner, to a movie, go dancing at the club, have drinks at a bar, go to a comedy club, go see a concert...WHATEVER, the point is return to your roots of spending time together.  he is content to believe that you will always be home waiting for him, when he returns from where ever he goes. This is not petty, it is unfair.
229257
Yes.  He and his wife are good friends of mine.  We just had dinner over the weekend.  Why do you want to know?
64055
I agree totally with ft402003, and I might add that I was just platonic friends with my husband for TEN LONG YEARS before we knew we loved each other.  TEN YEARS!!!!  That is a long time, buddy.  My sister told me once that friends make the best spouses, and I thought YUCK!  But, she was totally right.  When you talk to your "friend", you might tell her to not be afraid to go a step further, and to not be repulsed by it.  Let her know that you are just as afraid as her.  But, whatever you do, don't let her get away.  It is better to tell her how you feel than to keep suffering.  And if she doesn't go for it, then it is HER loss.  Not yours.  HERS.
742821
one weekend surprize her!!!!
1031179
Wow, you're screwed.  It's her best friend, right?  That's doghouse for a long, long, long time, pal.   You gotta miss the game.  Rarely would I ever suggest dumping a game over a wedding, but you got no choice in this one...unless you want to be in pain for a long time.
1171044
no my husband is definitely not my best friend.he is though very loving  but he considers everything  in utilization of time. he cant waste his single minute on silly talks  or talks which can not provide him any knowledge.he spends his every minute productively  and so i have made few chatter friends  n they have really proved helpful in my solitude
482524
I think that with anyone that you spend lots of time with, you are bound to get annoyed at times with your best friend. it just means that it's time to give each other a little space and maybe not hang out every day. Even if it's just a weekend off. But if it's more intense than that, maybe you should discuss it with them and see if they are feeling the same way.
57846
NO WAY!  My husband and I live 3 lives in our home.  My life, his life, and the life we share together.  We dont let those 3 collide.  He has his friends, I have mine and we have joint friends.
475427
I found my next door neighbor was my soul-mate.  We will be celebrating 9 years together in July, we've been married for 8 and have 2 beautiful kids together. We started out as "just friends".  We would just sit around, listen to music and talk.
613077
This was on Oprah today... Even tho they were married, but anyway...\n\nYes, your friend was not your friend.. A true, BEST friend would NEVER even consider it.  Give the "friend" and the "boyfriend" up and find new ones. You are better than that, and there are so many more people to meet! You are worth it!  Don't lower your standards for people who don't care about you and how you feel.  Never settle.  Good luck honey!
86271
This is probably not what you want to hear, but let it go. Don't sweat the small stuff and everything is small stuff. The freind doesnt sound like much of a friend. You might have to let your wife find that out by herself. Also Good for you for not breaking up with you wife/girlfreind when you where called to duty.  I saw it happen so many times, before a deployment. So many broken hearts :(
690847
naughty naughty, if it was all her and not you, then you need to say something to your girlfriend, b4 her girlfriend says something to her! you know, girls usually will stick together, if the best friend spills the info out and make it sound like it was all you and not her! most likely you will be out the door first! so when your women comes home, sit down with her, start a nice convo about how her 2 weeks were and stuff and then gradually tell her about her "best friend" tell her the truth, don't lie, im sure she will be upset with you, but more upset with her best friend, in the end hopefully she will forgive you and im sure she'll never be able to trust her best friend again around you or any guy she dates in the future!
975713
It is better that she knows now what he is really like.  If he really did love her he would have never cheated on her.  The only thing I know that you can do for sure is to offer moral support, and try to keep her mind off of what just went down.  But be sure you don't get in the middle of things.  I know that you don't want her to get her feelings hurt but I am telling you that if you get too involved in this situation you will live to regret it.  You might even get blamed for some of the things that happened even though you didn't have anything to do with it.  I know from personal experience from my best friend and then I said some bad things about someone who is now his wife.  A really has created a real burden and hardship on our friendship and we have been friends for a long long time.  So just give her all the support that you can and try just to listen to her but if she asked for some advice be really careful on what you might say because it might backfire.
105768
your in a hole different ball game now. your married they are not. this is when you find out who your real friends are. and you being married shouldn't have anything to do with them not hanging out with you any more. i will ask my good friend and get back to you
1000221
You need to be honest to both women, You just got back with your wife, don't let her hear this from anyone but you. This is the fastest way to ruin trust. Be nice to the Friend, tell her you like her but only want to be friends. You can also tell her that you may be working things out with your wife. Don't let both women think you have been leading them on. you can loose your wife for good and that doesn't sound like what you want. Tell HER Now. Marriage is a blessing and your wife's feelings should come first. if the friends gets mad then so what. At least your wife knows you're not trying to play games with her.