how  do guys adjust themselfs and why?
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don't know. but funny story. blind date. we went to see starwars. after 5 minutes of squirming he tells me he doesn't wear underwear and is gonna have to reach in and adjust himself. i was so embarrassed. everyone around us heard. and to be honest it's not something you really want to know about someone you just met. well as he was a huge starwars fan i just talked during the whole movie. asking who that was? what did they do that for? where are they going now? why did they do that? who is he? what's that? needless to say that after the movie he couldn't take me home fast enough.
5789
It depends on who the person I'm hanging around with is. Everyone is different! In my experience though, it's girls, it makes me more comfortable, because, well, I'm one! But, ya know, guys are okay!
403943
Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
813053
You are basing your self-worth on the acceptance of others.  Once you learn accept who you are for who you are, the rest will fall into place.  Men can sense from a mile away that you are not happy with who you are, and they don't want the baggage/drama.  Relax, and it will happen in good time.
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you need some time to adjust..things will change..give it time.
605632
pretend they are guys with manners.  joke around with them, tease them, have fun with them.  They are people too that watch the same television shows and get a kick out of some of the same things guys do.  As for treating them like women...  flirt with them, challenge them, make sure they are always left wanting more and they will keep coming back.  Most of all...  Make them laugh.  Make them laugh WITH you, not AT you.  Good luck.
273154
Just be yourself!!! Dont change for nobody!!! Personally I find  the clean cut gentleman more attractive, but I like a bad boy attitude.
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Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect
509561
be yourself the ppl that like you for you are always worth it and just ask him practice infront of a mirror or ask one of your guy mates to help you out like practice on him and stuff and ask for ideas
79695
Both depends on the person, generally guys are better at the objective(actions), and women at the subjective(feelings) etc
668080
well,remember that everyguy is defferent, but we all like hot chicks no matter what a hot chick will turns us on just by being hot. there are some qualitys that me and my friends search in a girl:they have to have preety face, they have to be unique at dressing, be social and frendly, easy outgoing and sweet ...\nwell just being ur self, but it depends on the guy u like, try to adjust at the type of guy u like .
755774
The best thing you have working for you is personality. My fiance got my attention by being intellectual and funny. Making a girl laugh is the best piece of advice you'll ever get- the quickest way to win someone over is to make them smile. The second part to that is, if you're talking to a girl, make her feel like she's the only one in the room- if some girl walks past you with a miniskirt on, don't look. I can't tell you how impressed girls are when a guy does that. \nAs for anything looks related, almost every man I've seen looks 10x better in a button up shirt and jeans. I love that look. It has to be put together but, when done right, its the sexiest look.
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Guys look for a girl that can be down to earth but not snooty and prissy. A girl that is too "high maintnence" is not going to be a good girlfriend. A nice personallity and a nice look is always good.
534196
The most important thing take care of your self. Most women love a guy who is fit. It will also give you better self confidence and that is always attractive. Be yourself if you have a friend who is a girl ask her to help you. A true friend will give advise on what you need to improve on. Also the more you put pressure on your self the longer it will seem to take. So, work on your body, self esteem, stay true to yourself and you will find her sooner then you think.
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by being decent himself ; the way he approaches her, the way he talks to her, the way he offers his companionship, and his overall attitude with her and around her !!\nIn short, be a gentleman and you'll attract a lady !
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practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become.  Guys look for confidence in a girl, one who can express them self.  You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to him, dont worry though, shyness wears off, its like you are a Caterpillar becoming a butterfly
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look like at other guys, try to immitate how they walk. You'll be fine