i have a boy friend...........please help me!!!?
337477
It sounds like he likes you a lot more than you care for him. Go ahead and tell him how you feel, but in a gentle way. Tell him how you really feel now, before it goes any further and he feels he's been mislead.
153189
Stop having sex with your boy friend.  \n\nNo matter what others are telling you, you are too young.\n\nThe very fact that you are asking this question demonstrates that you are too young.   \n\nHave a very frank talk with your boy friend and explain why this cannot continue.  If your boy friend doesn’t like you saying no, then be assured he neither loves you nor even respects you and isn’t the right one.  \n\nMy wife and I have been together for 51 years, since we met at 14 and have been married for 46 years.  Believe me when I say don’t do it.
322225
Yeah... it could be love and it might not be. But my advice to you (trust me), since you're still a teenager, just be his friend. Don't talk about love with him. Forget he has a girlfriend and just talk to him like you are talking to one of your girlfriends. No teenage guy is ready for a big commitment so even if you are currently his girlfriend, it won't last... but if you are just friends, you have a much better chance of still keeping in touch 10 years from now and him winning your trust than his current girlfriend. And this might get him to finally realize you have always been there for him. I hope you get my point ( and I hope you take my advice)
256777
If you like him and he likes you then its ok to get to know each other and be boyfriend/girlfriend!  But remember to take things very very slowly and never let a boy pressure you into doing anything u r not ready for!!!  As long as he doesnt care that his friend use to be your boyfriend and u dont care then it should be just fine!!!  TAKE THINGS SLOW!!!
473825
Sounds like he's a little immature. My advice, don't worry about it and make friends with someone else. He isn't the last boy you'll ever like, and if he's that young, chances are you're young too, and you will meed plenty of other boys in your day, Lord willing. And don't give your friend any more of his messages ;)
1030560
You should have friends that are boys.  I wouldn't think that you are ready for a one on one relationship with a boy yet.  That will come later when you are about 16 or so.
702524
If You Really Like the Boy and He treats you like a Queen..Otherwise you are better off being a Self Supporting Strong Independent Lady Who can Take care of Things for Herself!(You Actualy Need to Be That Boyfriend Or Not!)
93505
just be honest sweety and tell your boy friend and let him be checked, you will feel better after telling him and god will be proud of you for doing the right thing, and you just trust in god to get you both thrue this good luck to you''
964090
OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
920844
woooooow your just about 4 or 5 years younger then me and you still seem a little young, girly you are a little too young, but anyway you need to ask yourself whats more important, your BESTFRIEND or some boy thats going to end up breaking your heart anyway...i dont want to make it seem horrible but who's to say the same thing he's doing to your friend he won't do to you?  how do you know if he's going to be promising your best friend a 'relationship' when you and him are together (3 years from now). just know that boyz come and go but friends last for ever. so ask yourself is he really worth it?
482912
I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
492638
From what you wrote, DON'T go out with him or even tell him you like him or anything unless you want to say goodbye to your friendship with his girlfriend forever. Find another guy. They're easy to come by.\n\n(Just follow the golden rule: would you like it if your friends hormones stole YOUR boyfriend? You would think she was seeing him even before you decided to break up. Put yourself in her position.)
472208
Why doesn't his friend like you?\nI think you should talk to boy's friend, he might be worried that you are going to "steal" his friend away. Reassure him that you won't.
657297
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
953243
It sounds like her boyfrined is over protective of her and he needs to chill out a bit. but next time you see your friend just tell her that it might be best if you stay away from her for a while. \nShe needs to speak to him about it.
893188
You should let him know how you feel about him.  Then you should let him know that you will give him some time to  grow up if he feels the same about you.  Then you should stay away from him and let time run it's course.  Don't stress yourself out over boys.  There are lot's of other things that you can do to occupy your time.
687762
hey girl all i can say is be up front and honest. it might get you further than you think. if he turns you down becouse of the way you look hes not worth having as a boy friend