Need advice about kicking out younger brother.?
355595
Light a fire under his ass.
499653
Tell him it's your son and you don't approve of him doing that.\n\nIf he does it again either keep him away from your family or kick his a@@.
612461
Stay away from his brother's house.
854052
There needs to be rules when there are roommates.  The 4 of you need to sit down and establish rules and boundaries.  If he goes outside the established rules, then he is hereby evicted.
1161616
You need to stand up for yourself. You have a baby to protect now. Too bad if your husband has to sell the race car.\nYou say he has many debts. He should sell the car. That's what marriage and fatherhood is all about. sacrifice!\nTell your brother he has to begin paying RENT if he wants to keep living there. Send a letter IN WRITING so you have proof.\nGive him 2 months to find a job. If he doesn't pay on the 1st of the 3rd month, KICK HIM OUT. Use the money to help your parents
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Call the authorities, the police, adult protective services someone can come out to help you.1-888-436-3600, is the nationwide hot line for elder and dependent abuse. You need to talk to who ever owns the house about evicting him.\nCheck out the web sites I have listed in my sources!
386969
both. he is emotionally abusive, and you don't need to put up with it.  find a friend or someone to stay with while you save money to get your own place. then if he changes, then keep your own place, and allow yourself to Maybe hang out at his place with him.  that way if he acts bad in any way you can leave and show him it's not a permitable activity
488349
legally when your 18. At that time you can enter into contracts legally, and your responsible for your own actions and mom and dad can finally kick you out of the house.
581582
tough love, it will be hard but its time your baby boy grew up, kick him out... he will learn in a hurry
354822
Yes, he can get in trouble. Depending on the Age of Consent in your state, which I believe it is 18, and with him being 25, you are a minor. You would need to Emancipate yourself to move out. Not sure what you would need to do, but if it is something like abuse, you need to talk to a school councilor. \nIf it is because your Mother will not let you see this guy, then I am afraid there might not be much you can do...
263135
Hmm. I'm in a similar situation, however I'm not legally allowed to move out for a few more months, or at least not without going to court, which I'd prefer not to do. I simply (a) avoid them as much as possible. I go out and do fun things, and then both sides are happy--or at least not fighting--and (b) if something comes up, I take the easist route out. I'll defend myself for a little while, but right before it gets ugly, I let them think they're right. Now, never ADMIT that they're right, but just kinda pretend that you do. This will end the argument much sooner, because usually all people want is to know they're right. Even if you think this is cowardly, it shows you're actually much stronger and more mature than your parents. However, this can build up a lot of aggression, so remember to do something that will help take it out, like going to the gym or something. I clean and rearrange the furniture in my room. It helps, but I'm weird. *lol* But yea, best of luck!
852756
Take a sabbatical from uni before they kick you out themselves. Much better if you take a temporary leave of absence of your own volition. Then go get your head together and come back to uni when you're up to it.
219124
No way. Now if the family removes the sick step brother from the home, the child could safely go back. Make sure you report this to all authorities and keep you/or the child away from that step brother and press charges. He a rapist! I am so sorry.
181546
Well, this is sorta like a question I had but not really. All I could say is just tell them what is going on and try to take it from there. It is a whole different story if the one brother is a man who likes to control.\n    Just try to talk it out with them!\nGOOD LUCK!\n       Tina
798572
keep ur money for retirment cause he makes enough.if he for some reason cant make it thru later on in life than shure help him out youve got nothing to lose remeber he is ur brother and money is just a material object. brotherhood is a very strong bond and money is even stronger when its in between so dont let it get to you.
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You need to move out immediately, stop talking to him, get an attorney or go to your town's general assistance to find legal aid if you cannot afford one, if you don't take anything but your clothes, he is going to keep everything, let him. Get on with your life! Start fresh, I know this works and is the quickest way because my sister did this, then my brother, they're both very happy without the poison in their lives. GOOD LUCK!!
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There is so much good advice already , but ...   I would like to add a little to it anyway, namely ,  PLEASE  see to it immediately that you have a job, an income of your own of some sort . Take your name off that account of his and get one in your own name . You do not need anybody else's  approval when you feel you want to spend some money . Earn it yourself and enjoy it yourself. Pay your debts and don't be a moocher living in a person's apartment etc., and they have total control over your destiny . He can do an about turn and kick you out any time if your name is not on the renter contract . All you need is a good fight or argument and you are history . I hope for your sake you put some money aside . Sure is hell to be hungry and have no place to keep warm . Look out for yourself and good luck to you .