i had a b/f and we were good friends, but then we split i still like him alot! how can i get him to be mine?
355672
well, i would say talk 2 him, find out what went wrong in the relationship then get 2 kno him better again
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
717990
i say see which one likes you the most, and see which one you can control better, make him ur slave.. thats a good one. haha. or make them both like you and jus used them both. or jus findout which one you wanna be with.
1085512
Aw. Well, just sit him down and explain to him your feelings. Tell him you just want to go back to being friends. There really is no easy or "nice" way to do it because he probably will get hurt. But whatever you do, let him know you still think he's a great guy and that you value your friendship.. =). Hope that helped a little, haha. And thanks for answering mine.. our ages are 16.
1147609
If your really love him, you want what's best for him.  Try being his friend so that you don't "hold him back" but you still have the option of getting back with him.
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
316693
You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
497143
Just give it time. I had a situation like that happen to me. I dated a girl for 2 years and 3 days after we broke up, her best friend kinda threw herself at me. No one wants that right after a breakup. I would have dated her where she to give me some time, at least a few weeks before jumping into a relationship again. Just give him some space and be there for him, if there are feelings there it will happen. If his feelings are not the same you will have to settle for being friends. Hope this helps.
468486
omg!i have so been there!this is a perfect question!u see i liked this guy alot!and the same thing happened to me he got a gf so i was sad but then they broke up and now i flirt as mush as possible!so look my point is even though she has a bf still be sweet to her and flirt all the time and then if they break up try to become closer with her and then maybe ask her out!
459096
you can't make someone like you, especially if he already likes someone else.  get over him and find someone else.
971473
Never been in the exact situation myself, but I could go on for hours. The most obvious would be go for one of his mates. You could also get some inapropriate pics of him (edit tem on a PC if you don't have any or I could help) and post them on the net or around town. You could start spreading rumours that he is 2 timing his new partner to split them up. If none of this helps feel free to e-mail me at ste__x@hotmail.com for more ideas.\n\nP.S. can anyone that sees this please click my name and answer my question.
283105
wow i'm sort of in that situation now. not quite as far tho. well, didn't you two split for a reason? i think you should consider those reasons again and see how it might be different if you were to get back together again. another thing, he "bumped" into you. he didn't call you. could it be that he's trying to find an exit to his current unhappy relationship and he knows it's easy to get back with someone familiar? i would think hard before even allowing him back into your love life. to be on the safe side, it never hurts just to be friends. and don't ever seem too available. if he really wants you back, make him work for it! good luck.
1111397
I think all good relationships are first built on friendship! But if he doesn't feel the same way you do still be his friend but let him know that you can only be just that....FRIENDS!
965462
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye
305678
Well, you clearly are not a good friend are you? We can all see that because you hurt your boyFRIEND, so can you honestly blame him? \n\nAdditionally, why do you want to be friends with your ex? Just because you used to date doesn't mean that when you break up, you will be friends. It doesn't always work that way, and given that you have hurt him, you can hardly expect to continue to be on good terms.\n\nI strongly suggest that you stop any efforts to befriend him, move on and try to be kinder to your next significant other.
486918
just tell him that all you want to be is his friend and that you're sorry if you hurt his feelings. whatever you do, dont lie and say you have a b/f or something like that
652872
I have been in this situation before and the best way is to make him jealous.\n\nBe the girl you always wanted to be; go to the gym and get fit and tone, splurge on a new wardrobe that'll turn heads. Open up more, become the office flirt that's fun to be around. When you're turning everyone's head including your ex-BF's and he wants you but can't have you, damn that's a good feeling.