I go on the blind date and but down my wall no matter what the out come or do I just stay inside where I know?
344161
i would go on the blind date just to have fun and see how it goes from there
658157
I think its sad that your using yahoo answers for finding a date... get outside and go places you will be better off!
56637
stay indoors if possible
739221
Getting set up on a blind date and it is my ex-Wife!
79465
The new place in town or local happening. Resturant, art show, wine tasting event.... I'm sure you can find one that you would both be open to trying, whatever it is. The important thing is that's neutral ground so there is no baggage for either of you. If its a bomb she wont blame you. If its great you get kudos for originality.\n\nNo dinner and "anything", keep it short. If its not working you both have an out. Bad dates are torture and should end quckly. If it is working the night/day is still young and you can show the spontaneous side. If your not the spur of the moment type have a few ideas for part 2 of the date ready and fake it. Neutral ground rule applies here too. She's not ready to meet your friends or check out your haunts if she's not sure she's into you yet.
60187
I'd say bookstores and blind dates are pretty good options, at least better than bars. Then again, if you like to booze it up and hang out at bars, and are looking for someone who enjoys the bar scene, maybe bars are a good place. The good thing about blind dates is that they are usually set up by people who know you and care about you and know the other person as well. If you are concerned about being attracted to the person, you could just do a little recon (get a photo or check them out) before setting up the actual date (of course keeping in mind that attraction is more than surface deep).\nThe type of person you're trying to attract (a "decent girl") is most likely to be hanging out where? If you have hobbies, join social groups that let you meet women with the same interests. Just get out a lot and spend time in places with the type of people you find the most interesting. \nJust keep in mind the type of person you are looking for, look in those places, and get out and socialize a lot. \n\nGood luck.
1000409
Sounds to me like you just have to stick with the movies, or get her over to your house.  Or just go on a group date, over at someones house to watch a movie or something.  Just hope that everyone else does the same.
550194
Stay indoors if you plan on being naked.
150735
not really an answer to your question, but I have a TEST for the women I take out. When going to the car... OPEN THIER DOOR FOR THEM, THEN WALK AROUND TO YOUR DOOR- IF THEY JUST SIT THERE LOOKING AT THEIR HANDS OR SOMETHING AND NOT LEANING OVER TO UNLOCK YOUR DOOR, THEY ARE TOO STUCK UP TO TAKE OUT!\n\nIF A WOMAN WON'T UNLOCK MY DOOR FROM THE INSIDE..I will never take them OUT again!! -------IT'S A RULE...
924815
I stay quiet until I get out.
341869
Umm, this is a no brainer! You are a free bird either way dear! You need to call a few people and go out. Until you make a solid commitment to go steady, or call each other b/f and g/f you can date date date!!
161137
umm you worded this one kinda funny but I will give it a go anyway....there are nice guys out there and u shouldnt do anything u dont want to do so dont feel compelled to put out tell them kind to take a hike...and if u mean they charge you to date them stop getting ur dates out of the phonebook....
473594
I think if he really wanted to go out with you, he would do it.  Even if guys leave the door open, they are still stringing you along.  Sometimes they like to have options.  Jump on that friendship train and then date someone else.  If he really wants ya, he will tell you when you are inevitably with someone else.
571982
Try doing it in new locations.  Maybe somewhere that is sort of public but not.  Sneak off somewhere for a quickie.
983526
Look around.  You shouldn't have to put your life on hold just because he needs to get his in order.  If you are meant to be you will reconnect.  You're a free woman...get out and date!
841793
Let's put it this way.  You have a blind date with someone.  You have invested money in a new outfit,; you turn down someone else's offer for that same time.  The blind date does not show up.\nThe blind date does not call to explain.  The blind date does nothing.  Would you accept an offer of a blind date from that person again?\n\nAn interview with a  company is basically the same thing as a blind date.  They know a little about you from your application.\nThe company has invested time (time is money) in preparing for your interview.  You do not show up, you do not call to ask for a new time.  You do nothing.  Should they give you another "date"?
194680
Quickie:\nAdd some romance to your day by taking yourself out on a date. Splurge a little!\n\nOverview:\nWhile current circumstances may not paint you in the most flattering light, you know that you'll be vindicated in the end. Let that foreknowledge influence your behavior now. Be compassionate and forgiving.