What do I do If I find out that my boyfriend and I might be related!?! Sumbudy help me pleez!!!?
354964
I would find out if I was related or not right away.
56598
Trust your instincts. No one here can truly tell you yes or no because we don't know anything about you or your girlfriend personally.
261217
what?? ur cousin?? is she saying bad things about u?? man... she should be on ur side.. she should be lying for u...\nmaybe this cousin likes ur bf and wants to steal him from u...\nwhat to do... talk to both ur cousin and boyfriend...find out why ur cuz's doing it and tell ur boyfriend she's lying...ur boyfriend should believe u more than ur cousin...if not, maybe he's brainwashed and has gotten a liking to ur cuz or that he simply doesn't trust u..either way, it shouldn't be...\n\ndon't worry... long as you hold the truth u'll never be in despair
677896
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
208138
I'm not sure you can trust them, or your fiance, but I'm not saying you can't either.  Without spending time together this whole situation is a big question mark.  There are certain things that you can only learn about people and a relationship when you are actually together.  I recommend that you slow your boyfriend down a little.  Have him come and spend a couple weeks with you and you go and spend a couple of weeks with him.  Even that short amount of time with each other and each others family can help answer a lot of questions.
1123558
I know that it exists, but you'd better hope he doesn't find out.  Blatently eavesdropping on someone else's activities is illegal, and if you confront him with it and things go bad, he could very well sue you.  \n\nMy advice would be to find another way of finding this out or find another boyfriend if you don't trust him.
1085001
she is his sister. and you need to realize that. i have a brother who is not even a year older than me. and we are best friends. he dated one of our friends and it drove her crazy when we would hang out. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to sleep with his sister, leave you for his sister, run away with his sister. because she is . . . his sister. you never know she probably feels threatened by you for taking away her older brother. . . and only blood relative. you need to try and not be selfish, and just realize that it is pretty unfair to expect someone to put all of their love into one person. maybe let him know you are feeling a bit neglected. but don't make him give up his relationship with his only sister.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
612480
Dude if you two are truly buddies, then contact his family.  They will know you, of course, because you are biddies.  They can give you the info.
937859
If this has been going on for 13 yrs, I would think your parents have some idea of your feelings for each other. I think you should start seeing each other to see if this is true love. You don't mention if you are dating any one and if so, how does he feel about it. Or are you not interested in dating anyone but your uncle. First cousins date and get married but I am not sure on the laws for this relationship. I say go ahead and explore this relationship, you may find that it's only a fascination of something\nthat is out of bounds.
866468
The question you need to ask yourself is, does he feel the same way about you? Answer it honestly, there is no reason to get hurt unnecessarily.\n\nIf he does feel the same way, there must be some other reason you don't want the rest of his family to know. In a nut shell, if he does like you as well, and you aren't first cousins, what's stopping you from exploring the possibility?\n\nBest wishes to you
719501
First suggestion is to read what you posted, it sounds like a incest post, U might want to reword it.
672766
Well if i were you i would be looking carefully at the relationship you have with your boyfriend and maybe make a  list about what is good/bad about him and the relationship. If there are more good things than bad things then perhaps you should stay with your boyfriend, on the other hand if you are having second thoughts about the relationship give it a go with the other guy you are attracted to. But really think about it carefully, you could end up losing both guys and have nothing.
796668
Choose the one you are closest to /or trust the most.\n\nThey either alredy KNOW, or they suspect.\n\nGood luck, sweetie....some families are really azzes about it---and I hope yours ISN'T!!!
603924
~Why do you have to do a search on your boyfriend?  You should trust him.  If you cant then break up with him for someone you can.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
1077524
Yes, ask him.  That's the only way to find out.  If you know you'll spend the rest of your life with him, why not risk knowing sooner?