Help me if u ever had a nasty ex-boyfriend..?
347427
Names calling are common. But it depend on how other party take it to heart. That's  the complexity of human relationship. We could say something sometimes not what we really means. Some words are forbidden ,once say will have a lasting effect. I tried before, trust me.
283223
Boys are fickle- you need to drop your exboyfriend like a bad habit sister - hes obvisouly no good if hes treating both of you like this. eaiser said then done yes i know but with time comes healing and knowledge.
110773
Good luck!!  Been divorced 18 years and X still bad mouths me.  Bet you can't talk to him either.  Just try to ignore his insecure behavior.  I'm sure mutual friends know what kind of person you are.  Say something like, how is (so & so's name) doing with AA?
626372
Honey, I know what you're saying. My ex does the same to me. One day, he's the best thing you could ask for, the next he's unbearably mean. On a good day, I accept that we've had a good day. On the bad, I hope the next will be better. Don't call him for a few days and see the change in his attitude. He's gonna treat you like dirt as long as he knows you're waiting for him.
805834
That my ex girlfriend had s*x with her best friend's boyfriend- I never got round to it though :-/
172306
explain to him how disturbign and hurtful ti si to you.  its quite disrespectful.  teh only person you shoudl ever give up friendships woth ex's for is your spose.  I am only engaged and i wont speak to any of my ex;s out fo respect for my man.  Expalin to him how disrespectful it is and that you want him to stop...he wouldnt approve of you doing the same would he?
284303
Let him go and tell him don't come back. Let him know your time and you are to precious to be messed with and make your actions go with that. There are to many other things in life to trip on than some troubled ex-bf.You know what I mean?
299799
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
500679
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
1125264
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
561546
NO, don't be friends with the ex. ESPECIALLY if he's being an a*ss
305678
Well, you clearly are not a good friend are you? We can all see that because you hurt your boyFRIEND, so can you honestly blame him? \n\nAdditionally, why do you want to be friends with your ex? Just because you used to date doesn't mean that when you break up, you will be friends. It doesn't always work that way, and given that you have hurt him, you can hardly expect to continue to be on good terms.\n\nI strongly suggest that you stop any efforts to befriend him, move on and try to be kinder to your next significant other.
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.
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Girl I hear ya! I am in the same boat, my ex did me very wrong, but yet I still find myself drawn to him like he is some kinda evil magnet. But you know what I do to keep myself from not getting too attached again..remember how bad he made me hurt amnd then I listen to one of the many song I listened to when we broke up and then I realize he's not good enough for me, either is ur ex!
977139
Just invite him to come visit if you are done with your ex altogether. be kind and make a good impression. If necessary, send a letter to your ex telling him what's up and maybe even apologize. Ladies, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
592450
take it from personal experience dont go back. cause i was cheated on by my ex and took him back cause he told me he loved me and had changed three weeks later he was back to his old ways. i tried to make the relationship work cause i was pregnant with his kid he didnt want nothing to do with me or the unborn child, i put up with it for awhile trying to talk to him about it but he didnt listen so i left him. and he and his mother kept ringin me up telling me hed changed i didnt believe him, his mother even told me to come and live with him so she could teach him how to treat me, he was 21 if he didnt no then he will never no. cause as far as his father was concerned i was a slut and he treated his mother with no respect so why was he going to change. i no of someone who went back to her ex three times and he hadnt changed. the only reason i took him back the first time was i was pregnant with his kid.
706426
Get rid of your boyfriend, not your friends!  He's too controlling and that will create major problems for you later!