why others dont understand and accept that bisexual rily exist? being bisexual is a sin or a gift from God?
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look I'm not into by sexuality or anything like that. but I'm human . and religious. god makes no mistakes, its a cross that he has put on you . deal with it in the best way you can  remember , god will love you no matter what , is what you do that counts in his eyes
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I am.... and I would tell them that their over-zealous all comsuming belief in something that is improbable is assinine, and that if they do not believe that it is natural, then they should look in nature. there are many other creatures that are not heterosexual. dolphines for instance, the second most intelligent species on earth, are bisexual, and will pretty much screw anything that swims by, whether or not they are in the same species or not.  if "god" didnt condone GLBT, then why are so many in the wild that way? he supposedly "made" them too.
281552
Nothing is wrong with you, I am bisexual. Its very normal, even if your not bi. Many people are very curious. Many people have fantasies about the same sex. Could be that you want to experience that, try it.
643086
God looks at spirits not the bodies they are in.  The gender of your body says little to nothing about your eternal soul.  The fact that you have attraction for other spirits that happen to be in the same gender of body you have does not make you sinful.  Sin is defined as "missing the mark". The word is actually borrowed from archery whe a shot misses the bullseye.  If you love because your heart says to love it doesnt matter what genatalia the recipiant of your love has.  Secondly, the definition of Christian is one who works to be Christ like.  Christ did his best to show people unconditional love.  Given that we have only 5 phrases from Christ in the Bible that are in the language he used, it is difficult for anyone to be exact on what he was really like.  The best we can do is interpret what others said about him into a picture of what the man was like in our own view and then try to be like that example.  Being Christ like is a huge personal viewpoint issue.  Christ practiced love.  He sometimes got angry.  At times he was stressed.  He felt every emotion we can feel.  If you are doing all you can to be what you believe to be Christ like, than you are a Chritian by definition.  If you happen to be attracted to those of same gender then by definition you are also gay.  Can you be both?  Absolutely.  Christ never condemed being homosexual it was other men who did that.
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I think people forgot the whole "everyone is beautiful in their own way"\n\nI think a bi guy is just as sexy as a straight guy, or full gay guy, or girls for that matter, sexual preference should have nothing to do with how you feel about a person.\n\npeople are just ignorant and refuse to see the world is changing...oh well, they'll just have to get used to it :)
228473
I believe that we all go to Heaven sooner or later. i don't believe that being gay is a sin in and of itself. Being gay is NOT an abomination. It's who a person is. (example) I'm attracted to dark haired men. Blonds just don't do it for me. Gay people are attracted to what they're attracted to.. what's the difference? No one ever says anything about my sexual likes and dislikes. And God loves everyone. no matter where you are.
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The answer to your first question is pretty simple. There are plenty of people who have and act on romantic feelings for both genders, so, yes, people can be bisexual.\n\nYour second question is much more complicated, and you will no doubt get a lot of different answers, and the answers will probably biased in part by where they are coming from (gay, straight, bi) and their previous experience with bisexual people. \n\nI can only answer for me, for where I'm coming from. I'm a lesbian in my late 30s, who has been in a committed relationship for 8 years. (We would be legally married by now, if it was legal where we live.)\n\nBack in my 20's when I was single and part of the dating scene, there was a definite bias in the lesbian community against bisexual women. That takes some explanation.\n\nFirst, when I use the word bisexual, I mean it the way that I used the word in answering your first question: bisexuals are people who have and act on romantic feelings for both genders. \n\nThere are plenty of young women, even moreso now than 10 years ago, who believe bisexual means "I'll marry a man, but messing around with women when I'm drunk is sorta fun."\n\nTHOSE types of bisexual women are the ones that the lesbian community is really against. Most of my lesbian friends have, at one time or another, dated a bisexual woman, gotten emotionally involved, and then gotten dumped for a guy, because the girl wasn't in it "for real" ... just "for fun."\n\nThat being said, I do have bisexual friends, both men and women, and I don't care one way or the other that they are bisexual, just as I don't consider whether a person is straight or gay before deciding to befriend them. Cool people come in all flavors, you know?\n\nSo I will say this in conclusion to all the bisexual people out there, regardless of how you define the word: if you get into anything more than just a casual hookup with a gay person, PLEASE tell them that you are bisexual, and talk about what that word means to you. Open communication about this (like most things in a relationship) can really keep people from getting hurt.
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Kinsey's studies showed that there are very few people who are 100% straight or 100% gay. I've been out of the closet since I was 18 (I'm 37 now). I've never been with a man, but I do occassionally have fantasies about them...and I do find them attractive. However I still identify myself as a lesbian...though I occassionally will question it myself. It's hard when there are social pressures that you have to be one or the other, but (as Kinsey's studies showed) you really don't have to be and perhaps aren't by nature. It's possible that you may be bisexual. And, really, does it matter? There is no rule that says you should or shouldn't be with a man if you're curious.It's ok to be gay, straight, or bi...just  be yourself...and be truly honest with yourself. Don't pressure yourself either way.
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Contemporary research proves that the vast majority of men and women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. For some of us, it is only a quick recognition of the beauty of our own gender, as you suggest, but for others it is something we could act on in an intimate way. So be at peace. You are in good company with about 80% of the human race,
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Well I am Christian and also bisexual, I dont hate gays straights bis or whatever. I do believe the Bible shows homosexuality as a sin but I also realise there are 613 other sins and no one can live sinlessly. So, I just get on day by day, dont let either ruin my life or the lives of others.
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GOD WANTS MEN AND WOMEN TO BE TOGETHER... TO ME I THINK ITS SICK TO HAVE MEN BE WITH MEN AND WOMEN TO BE WITH WOMEN... ITS NOT WHAT GOD WANTS ... GOD WANTS US TO HAVE CHILDREN OF OUR OWN NOT TO ADOPT BECAUSE OF BEING GAY OR LESBIAN... I AM A CHRISTIAN BUT EVERYONE I KNOW BELIEVES THAT ITS A SIN TO BE WITH THE SAME SEX....
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It is totally possible to hold Christian beliefs and be gay. It's just not possible to believe that God accept's your lifestyle. The Bible makes it clear that same sexes coming together is an abomination. either give up the penis or Prepare to swim in the lake of fire dude.
2046
you are who you are...why would you want to change yourself? life is not about what others think of you..its what you think of yourself. if you're bi, you're bi. be true to yourself!
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I don't know,  abot two years ago, I came out to a friend of mine when I was really drunk.  I know that is not a excuse, but I really liked her and wanted to tell her.  When I told her she told me that she was also bi, and wanted to tell me for a long time but was afraid that I would not accept her.  Her reason that people think it is bad, because they have not tried it yet.
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An abomination is a SIN so bad God turns away from it.\n\nHomosexuals are not an abomination, their sin is.\n\nJesus taught us to love the sinner, hate the sin. I think homosexuality is a sin, but I am not God, it is not my place to judge, so I have gay friends, and support Gay marriage.\n\nIm familiar with your questions, and know what your going for here. I just wanted to step up, and say, as a christian myself, not all of those right winged Bible thumpers are right. They ignore two main points in the Bible.\n\nJudge not lest ye be judged, and Love the sinner, hate the sin. Just wanted to throw out my two cents.
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Why does so many people ask about if gays are loved about god, other people etc? I do not think god has a split about loving his/her people. And who can god be gay with? I seriously do not think he/she has a social or love life.
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There are certainly negative aspects of being bi, but you cannot change who you are.  You can be "straight" by dating a woman, just like you can be "gay by dating a man; sexuality is fluid and should be described on your own terms.  You should not feel bad that people call you a bisexual, because you must own who you are.  Live your own life how you want to and only surround yourself with people who respect that.