Need appropiate gift for future daughter in law. From China. Will meet first time at wedding. Thanks?
341801
In China, white is for funerals.  Red is the color for weddings because weddings are happy.  Jewelry is a good gift.  Don't give her a knife.  It implies that you want to cut the relationship off.  Also, don't give her a clock because to "give a clock" sound like to send somebody to their grave.  Do not give shoes, because the word for "shoes" and "evil" sounds the same in Chinese.\n\nYou would not be amiss to give a red envelope, with money in it (make sure the amount is an even number, but never anything with the number 4, because that means death).  There may be a ceremony during the banquet where she serves you tea and calls you Pa (or Ma).  You return with the red envelope.  (If your son's other parent is attending, they will also need a red envelope, for the same ceremony.)\n\nSometimes there are local customs, often to bring them luck to have children.  For example, foods that pun on the Chinese word "sheng" which means to give birth.  People in different regions do this in different ways.  You might want to ask your son.
1104422
usually they have a gift registry where the couple lists things they need.  The best thing to do is to call her up ans ask "are you registered anywhere?" If not just give them some money .
261251
Wow!  I can't believe you are paying for all that stuff for them.  Thats something no one does anymore.  Thats alot of money.  My opionion...NO!  Don't buy them any more presents.  A dress, thier hair, and makeup is a huge gift.  They will enjoy it.  If not they aren't truely a friend if they expect anything else.  I know how all that costs I would have been delighted if someone would have payed for my dress, shoes, makeup, hair in the three weddings I was in.  They are lucky girls to have such a good friend like you.  You think alot of your friends.  But remember budget budget for the life after the wedding.
658630
Honestly, he is already leaving the wedding with the best present he could ever ask for, you!  At least that is how I feel about my upcoming wedding (5 days from today :D:D:D ).  As far as gifts, get him something that will show him just exactly how you feel about him.  Although guys do nto often show it, we like the little romantic gestures every once in a while too.  For me though, all my fiance has to give me is those two words at the alter and I am happy.  After all, the gift I am gettign that way will last for a lifetime, anything els that you give will be temporary.  I would suggest though, if you are going to give him a gift, make it kind of a combination of things.\n\n1) Write him a little not telling him that you love him and teasing him for the night after the wedding (you knwo what I mean)\n\n2) give him a serious gift, maybe a nice watch or something like that that you know he will appreciate.  Just pick something you know that hw is into, or maybe something he can use for the wedding.\n\n3) give him a not so serious gift like something in there with a note telling him to look forward to you modeling it for him, or (even funnier) put a bag in there with nothing in it and a note on the outside saying that you are going to model in what is in that bag, he will get the idea.\n\nTo me, things like that that will both show how much you love him, care for him, and respect him along with things taht show how much you really do look forward to being with him for the rest of your life will be a wonderful gift to give on your wedding day.  Just be a little creative.  The joke things will lighten the mood and maybe ward off some of the pre-wedding jitters and the serious stuff will show him how you feel about him.  Hope this helps.
707346
gift basket w/ lotions, bath gel, chocolates, makings for hot chocolate or tea... throw in a dainty china cup and saucer.....\n\nWrite a handwritten note, encouraging friend to take the contents of this basket and sneak away from the cares of life to relax and reflect on love, life and happiness.\n\nBe Blessed!
340663
Judging by ur question ur really very sweet and caring to actually consider what to gift ur special girl..She is lucky to have u..\nnow for ur question..\n\nsumthing symbolic would be really amazing..u noe mebe a romantic dinner to the same place u guys went out first time..have a portrait taken together alongwith a bracelet but most importantly..be with her..im sure thats what she needs da most from u..Cheers!
943335
Well, you have another month to go so I wouldn't shop too early!  But I think the gift should depend on how committed you are or if you see this as a long term relationship.  What does she like to do?  Does she read?  If so find out what type of books.  If you know what kind of perfume she wears that would be nice.  Maybe a certificate for a spa day.
354790
I would suggest a simple dress, maybe a day suit in cream, ivory, or champagne colors. Maybe a cute hat with a small veil, make it more wedding like!!GL;) and Congrats!!
244128
I agree with the two people up there. Give them something that is useful. Most Irish/Catholic stores have great gift ideas! A horseshoe with an enscription on it would be kind of neat; or anything basically that the bride and groom could have to remember their wedding day. Practical is nice (anyone can buy a blender); but sentimental is better! But before you go to all the trouble to find a Irish/Catholic store, give yourself a bit of a break! I'm sure something that MEANS something and is from the heart, would be just as good! Goodluck! <3
828365
guys family shoud go first..you are the princess honey and kings never go to people and ask if they could marry her daughter.. boy's family should come first with presents..if you want to give the turkish family presents: vase, tea,clothing or make up for the young relatives..etc..it can be anything that you think as a present in your country..but i think the most important present is your attitude..turkish people give a big importance on respect..show your respect to the olders and always smile..if you serve something to eat or drink at first if they don't accept don't give up..insist on!! as a tradition turkish people usually reject the first offers.this is referred to politeness..but there are no strict rules!! they don't live with strict traditional laws..the idea is to have fun..good luck :)
462193
What about a gift certificate to have their wedding photos scrapbooked for them.  For that amount it would be a very beautiful book and something they would have forever.  Find a scrapbook store in your area and they would probably be able to refer you to one.
423623
Your first anniversary should be very special and it is paper....so I would recommend for you to write her a letter on how your first year of marriage has meant to you and maybe enclose that in a gift you have for her.
568146
I was in exactly the same position about a year and a half ago. I didnt know what his fiance was into but I knew my friend quite well. So I just went to the dept store and looked around for about 2 hrs, asked the assistants what people generally like to buy for wedding gifts, and finally i picked out a 4pc set of original design beer glasses and a 2 pc crystal ice cream bowls (dont know why but they were crystal and I wished someone gave me something like this). The set of glasses and the bowls cost me a total of about $150.
1075337
Congratulations!  First if you don't want to register for gifts, that is fine - maybe you can ask your guests to donate to you and your fiance's favorite charity enlude of buying gifts.  Since you are having a garden wedding, your costs on decor have been cut down dramatically - just use your beautiful surroundings!  Keep things simple - allow nature to provide the beauty.  Maybe use colorful linens, and use silver pails ( u can get them cheap at Wal mart) and fill those with flowers for your centerpieces.  Maybe tie a ribbon (the thick kind) with a plaid colorful design (colors to match ur wedding colors) around the pails especially if you can't afford colored linens and have to opt for only white.  You could also just do a simple floating candle( and or a floating flower) arrangement for  a centerpiece as well.  Since you will be dining outdoors keep the food simple and light .  \nA rehearsal dinner is also not required, but is basically just a nice get together for everyone in the wedding party ( everyone may not know eachother) and immediate family, to get to know one another and privatly celebrate with you and your fiance.  It also is a time for you to give them their gifts.  Typically the groom ( or grooms family) pays for the rehearsal dinner.  If money is an issue - just ask everyone to 'pitch in'.  \nHope all works out for the best:)
928041
I think that if you could try and meet her before the wedding. As if you just meet her for the first time at the wedding you won't get the chance to really talk to her. At least you could ice the ice with her by asking her how her wedding plans are going
915924
You can ask your fiance what she might like, or find a unique gift from your country that you would like to share with her. A nicely framed photo of yourself and her son, or a nicely framed photo of the three of you together, could be an excellent gift. Or if she's coming to see you, get a spa day out or something similar, that way the two of you will have a chance to go and do womanly things together and get to know each other better. Best of luck! It's very considerate to be thinking of things to do to make this a nice relationship, because so many people have problems getting along with their in-laws.
868182
if it's something they can use before the wedding then before. if you are giving a toaster or set of glasses or a 'general' gift then after would probably be best.