how can i understand women?
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open up and listen. You have to understand yourself to understand others. Sometimes none of us make sense.
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On the otherhand, men should never attempt to understand women.  It is a hopeless task.  The best you can ever hope for is to be able to communicate well with one woman.
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grocery stores (ask them advice about food), long lines (dmv, etc.), night classes, volunteer groups (woman are statiscally shown to volunteer more), and generally any other place is potentially a good place to talk to woman. I find one of my favorites places is when they are working...cuz they have to be nice since you are the customer you have the upper advantage. They love a laidback sense of humor. good luck
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relax and be yourself, and you will gain confidence around women.  they won't bite or hurt you, they like you
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Attitude.\n\nThe woman is not your personal jiz jar for your selfish needs.\n\nIf you treat women with dignity and respect and commit to a woman (and not play the field) you can find a rewarding sex life.\n\nAs far as technique goes, that would be something you discuss with your partner. Do not be afraid to learn something from her that helps with her pleasure and enjoyment.\n\nBut if you have a crappy attitude, they can see through that in a minute.
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go and ask these women ur self
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as a woman, i think you need to respect her needs and/or ask her what she wants
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I dont really know you but, most men, i have noticed, stare at a woman's boobs.  If you want to get her to understand that you see more to her than that, don't even glance at them.  This could be hard for you but, it should help.  Tell her things like...you are so smart or you are the nicest person or things like that but avoid you are beautiful, other than occasionally.
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I doubt it. I also doubt that it is possible for women to understand men. Our brains work way too differently. Although we all can be understandING...
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I understand what you are saying, sometimes the female is thinking the same way her mother did, it depends on how you deal with them and how you encourage them to be their own woman.\n\nLife is short and you maybe need to talk openly with the lady and explain how you feel and then maybe she will listen and understand what you are looking for.\n\nI wish you good luck
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Same reason women can't understand men (although they often think they can).  The ways of the two gender's minds are seriously different.  There are any number of ways to prove that; it's just true.  So if you are in the habit of understanding someone by imagining what you would think or feel in a similar situation, it won't work across gender lines.  Too many differences, and the differences too hard to imagine.
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Being a women, I understand how difficult men can be, but honestly, i think us women are the harder ones to understand. We say one thing, but feel another way.... We are just soo totally confusing at times!!!!! LOL
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ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.
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Just use 2 fingers and feel around...believe me a woman will tell you by her body movement what she likes...
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http://dating-advice-coach.info/WhatWomenHATEMostAboutSingleGuys.htm\n\nWhat a women wants, and what they are attracted to is two different things.  Check this out, it's long but an excellent read, let me know what you think.
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Be yourself and relax.Good manners are a plus\nwith most women,as is a sense of humor.
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Try to relax.  The more you stress over it, the worse it may become.\n\nTreat them as potential friends, not potential girlfriends.  Women want to be treated as equals, individuals.  Not something to be conquered.\n\nDiscreetly, copy what you've seen your friends do to get themselves girlfiends, and modify that behaviour to suit you.\n\nDon't try to approach a group of women.  If you see one you like, make eye contact, smile then look away.  A few minutes later, look at her again, if she looks your way, holds your gaze, and smiles it means she's interested in you.  Approach, casually, if and when she's on her own and offer to buy her a drink.  \n\nShe might even approach you first!\n\nIntroduce yourself. Ask her a few casual questions: What does she think of the bar/pub/whatever you're both in? What is there to do in the local area? You fancy going to the cinema, can she recommend a good film? Has she ever been to Dubhai, cos you've heard it brilliant?  That kind of thing.  Just casual, non-threatening conversation.  Forget about using "chat up lines", they can come across as lame.\n\nDon't be too eager, maintain some mystery.  The biggest turn-on (for both men and women) is confidence.  The biggest turn-off is someone who won't take no (whether said verbally or by body language) for an answer.\n\nPlay it all by ear.  Listen to your intuition, it will guide you.\n\nYou have friends so you can't be that bad(!).  Your description of yourself sounds attractive, so nothing wrong there.\n\nAbove all, be yourself.  If your interest is not returned, hold your head high and move on.