I lost my virginity to this guy and now we dont even talk...?
337499
this guy is playing games...i really don't know what to make of it
33560
just do it talk, before my x and i got together we didn't really know what to say then when we were alone one day i kissed him another couple of months later we were together, the the start best time of my life, i dunno what's happened now but my point is your crush probably doesn't know what to say to your face, i probably wouldn't tell you this over the phone.
901421
Words are cheap.  Obviously his actions are speaking much louder than his words...\n\nSounds like he said just what you wanted to hear so he could get into your pants..  Once conquered he has lost interest.  You are a notch on his belt.\n\nI'm sorry this happened to you.  Move on and learn from your mistake.
230806
Slow the process down.  I dunno, but it sounds to me like you're trying to rush the process.  Add talking to sex.  Have him describe in the dirtiest of details what he's doing to you as he has sex with you.  It's a known fact that guys have a dirty mind.  Use it.
380107
You have to decide for yourself, can you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life and are you sure that you arent jumping into the first thing that seems like a relationship without getting to know the person. sex shouldnt be an issue until you have become best friends with him. take it slowly that way you won't get hurt
1016522
ok you gotta talk to him!  If you're not communicating, then your relationship is dead, even if it's just friends.  Try and forget you like him, then you won't feel so nervous about talking to him. \n\nBelieve it or not, I like girls who talk to me and act friendly.  If they ignore me, i just assume they don't like me and I move on.  So break the silence!
240683
I'm really sorry but you probably should not have had sex with him - and if its going nowhere now it probably means he was just into the sex.  Take is as a lesson learned and move on!
884499
Unfortunately for us girls guys can be real sleazy and if he wasnt interested in you after the sex then dont bother. Any guy who is worth it doesnt need any chasing if he likes you then he should come to you. If  hes gone cold then he must have been just in it for the thrill of baggin you so dont worry about his opinion and enjoy whatever you had no matter how brief it was. If he really wants to get to know you you'd be hearing from him regularly
365988
Give it more time... he borke up with you, you guys dont talk much... he may be over you... and you should too.. MOVE ON.
759564
maybe u should talk to him like normal so he can see for himself that uve moved on. give a friendly wave when u see him. just have conversations with him and stuff
915107
Well, neither of you truly knew where the relationship was going to end up.  If you start throwing sex into the mix then the feelings involve get very confusing.  I would say you are going to have to talk to him about it.  Let him know how you feel and don't let it carry on any longer.  The longer you go on with these feelings the more it is going to hurt him later.  Stop sleeping with him for sure.  He will decide if you are still going to be friends, if you were truly good friends he will probably come around and be friends with you again.  It might take some time though.  You might not want to date anyone else for awhile, especially don't introduce them if you do. Friends and sex usually don't end up with positives, but you might be lucky.
661718
of course he didn't have a girlfriend because the thrill of flirting with you would be useless. cause if he told you probably would stop talking to him. ask him do he have agirlfriend and if he don't how he feel about you.
1114264
Does he think you’re a virgin? I think you should tell he just what you told all of us. If he really loves you this should not be the determining factor to whether or not the two of you’ll get married. He really should be understanding about this small “oversight”.
1033948
When you slept with him it genuinely looked like she was not interested anymore. You were not being a tart you thought this was going to develop into something more. I would just put it down to experience and forget about it now. Take care x
1187931
You have only talked to this guy once. More importantly, he has only talked to you once. There is no way you have feelings for this guy. There is also no way he has any for you. It sounds like an act of desparation to me. If you must continue to talk to this guy, take it VERRRRRRRRRY Slowly, and for god's sake, be careful!!
743562
You didn't lose it hon, you gave it away.  Should've really thought about it!\n\nYou need to get over it though, because hating yourself wont' maek you a virgin again...\n\n*laughs*
863527
Definetely tell him if you aren't ready. If he pressures you when you don't feel ready, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he's a real gentleman, he'll realize that you're worth the wait and not force you to do anything.\n\nAs for the fact that you lied, it would be a bigger deal if you had lied about being a virgin when you weren't. But, since that's not the case he shouldn't be too mad, and if he is, he is overreacting. \n\nGood job on sticking to your morals and not having sex whenever, wherever, you should be proud of yourself and don't let others eat away at your self-esteem. Doing something just because everyone else does it is rarely a good reason for anything. \n\nPeace and good luck!