My boyfriend thinks he's a PIMP!!!  (and he is so NOT)?
346042
I think he totally needs to get over u havin' a boyfriend when u met him!  He told u that he was goin' to see his friend in the hospital and instead he went out with his ex!!  That is BS!!!!\n\nP.S: I think u should totally date our teacher!!!!  LOL!  Just joking!!
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
1031023
I think that it says less about you and more about HIM that he's telling everyone your business and "using" you.  It says about him that he is a USER, and has poor character and that he shouldnt be trusted by anyone.  Thats what I would hear if he were telling me all of your business.  I think that your only issue if I can call it that is choosing a little more wiser.   Other than that, the rest is a statement (not a good one) about him.
587877
well looks like you have found your husbands true colours...  you know what to do!!He's scared you will find out more i think.. he using the money thing as a blackmail to stop you from digging deeper!!
384206
Yes, it is very easy for people with no morals to pose as something they are not.  Do be careful and use common sense and everything should be alright.  If your instincts are telling you this guy is a creep, then trust them.  We have them for a reason.
259559
Guys like to hear that you trust them. Tell him you trust him, but be very watchful of his behvavior. If anything suspicious occurs, then talk about it; if things get worse -DUMP HIM! BUT, often times, guys don't change over night, and no matter how pretty you are, they still won't change for you - so you could save yourself time, and get rid of him now - but, the choice is yours.
912422
Pretty much. lol. You've given him a huge ego boost. What you need to do now is back off completly and let him chase you for a bit, ignoring him for a while might be a good thing. Let him worry a little. It should reduce that ego a bit.
497370
Trust and respect are the cornerstones of a relationship! If he isn't giving you the respect you deserve, by honoring your request in regard to the strip clubs, and is breaking your trust by going to them behind your back, then I would have to say that your relationship is in serious trouble. I dare say that his behavior will not be improving any time soon, so you are going to have to decide whether or not you are willing to continue putting up with him doing as he pleases, whether you like it or not. Good luck!!
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
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You obviously seem to thing that it is a "form of bribery" or you wouldn't be asking this question.\n\nI wonder about his self-esteem, and I wonder if he will become very controling and jealous. \n\nI wonder if he plans to own you.\n\nIf you are curious about it ASK HIM.\n\n"I'm not sure that I've ever dated anyone as generous as you and I really appreciate it, and I also wonder if maybe you feel like you have to buy me things to keep me intereted? To be honest, all the gifts and money you've spent on me has actually sort of turned me off a little. Its too much too soon."
541435
What does your boyfriend think about this??
1110847
lol datz funny...b4 i dated my boyfriend i heard a lot of things about him jacking all the time..like non stop...and sortta being a maniac too...but i am the ccomplete opposite :P ...then we started dating but i knew what i was putting myself into so i couldnt really blame anyone(i mean i knew the guy was a bad boy lol)..i just let him know that i know he is really "into it" but i am not that kind of a person, and if he had a prob with that we could remain as good friendz..he understood and now he doesn't rush me into anything ;) sooo.. if your friend/boyfriend is a smart boy he will understand just let him know.\nGoodluck\nTake care
991498
Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
82558
Well if your man is that childish then I would walk away from me and find somebody that isn't so childish. I mean at least you told him you gave your x a flower. You could have lied. But you were woman enough to tell the truth. I would just sit back and look at the while picture. Is he planning on running your life in the long run?
237024
This is how i kind of see it. You try to do anything for him and he doesn't recognize it or mention what you have done. You are a lot better than that. You need somebody that is going to pay a lot of attention to you and make compliments on how you look or anything. If you love him and it is hard to let go, just let him know exactly how you feel and try to work on something. Maybe he is cheating on you if there are hints like he is always gone or accusing you for doing something or he acts like he doesn't care for anything, he is most likely doing the wrong so don't act suspicious just kind of snoop a little and if he is then. Like i said you deserve a lot better. GOOD LUCK and stay strong
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
1172869
Is he the BadSanta guy?  Sounds egotistical, lose him.