I just started dating this girl and I want to move back to my hometown, what do I do?
345725
It sounds like you're saying you don't really care about this new girl anyway.
545937
Yes, move to a new Location.  I made that decision and it was the best thing I've ever done.  Sometimes if you live in the same state for a long time you won't experience how it feels like somewhere else.  You'll meet new people, a different work atmosphere and a sense of contentment that you made a difference in your life.  Be confident in yourself and go for it!
245095
It depends on a lot of things and you didn't give any details. If you want to move to another state then go ahead and move. If you are only moving for your boyfriend then you have somethings to consider: Are you moving because this is the guy you want to marry or is this just a guy your not looking for that from? Will you have a job, be able to support yourself and get your own place? Does he want you to move with him? Do you have strong family and friends ties that you will be leaving? Are there children involved? Good luck with your decision.
623213
You have to be real and that's gonna hurt her feelings!\n"I'm moving on and so should you" tell her that. \nDon't lead her on cause you could end up getting stab or shot. Depending on what part of the country she's from.\nFEMALES IN THE SOUTH SHOT YOU>\nFEMALES IN THE NORTH STAB YOU.\nwatch your back.
877610
If its that important to you that you should be able to be yourselves in public then it MAY not work... however, if your love for each other outweighs this need/want to go public, then you just have agree with her. Its tough for you AND for her as well. She took a RISK for you, by being your girlfriend, even if it harms attaining her dreams...try to look at it from her side, if you still think that being "together outside" is important to you then maybe its time to rethink the relationship.
222598
First, this is a situation only you and she can solve.  It's up to the two of you.  Second, I question your feelings for each other, given the fact that you have never met.  Third, if you seriously do want to be together why can't she travel to your country?  Lastly, sometimes relationships don't work out...and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If things haven't worked in three years, chances are they won't.  Maybe you both should be looking for love a little closer to home.  Just some insight.
409015
I assume you both are living in the US and that she came here from Norway to study?\n\nThe most obvious reason for why a Norwegian girl of 23 years old would leave her American boyfriend is that she is here temporarily and plan to go back to Norway after she graduates. In this situation she might have made the decision not to get too attached to one particular guy (even before she met you). It would take more than what you are probably used to from American girls to start a truly committed, longterm relationship.\n\nTo get her back you will have to convince her that you are "the one". If you think it's unlikely that you will stay together forever, let it go....\n\nGood luck!\n\nNorwegian girl still living in the US (arrived here when I was 23)
396225
Accept her decision if you sincerely care for her. If thet time is right things will happen for the two of you. I also think that you should really think this realtionship through! You say you have been together for three years yet you have only seen her for a total of six weeks thats not healthy in a realationship. Did you ever think that she might have someone in her country? Just think it over and if she is still the one ask her to marry you. Good Luck!
884126
Be friends first!! Dont just think you can dive into a relationship and expect it to work. Get to know eachother really well. I met my fiance in a online chat room. We were friends first for a few years, now we're planning on getting married soon. I live in Canada and hes in the USA. We get to see eachother in person every few months, and talk on the phone everynight and use our webcams as much as possible. So this new girl you've met could end up being someone you want to spend your life with. Just take it slow. Nothing just happens overnight. As far as wanting to see eachother. Dont just think either you or her have to move to be with eachother. Long distance relationships do and can work out. All depends on you and the other person. If it does turn out that you want to spend your life with this girl, theres options. You can have her move to the US to be with you, or you move there. Right now, I'm waiting on my fiance visa to move to the USA, so thats an option for you. I dont know how the government in the Phillipines works, but thats something you can look into. Remember, one step at a time. Best of luck to ya!
7010
well if in the five months that this has been going on it seems that you havent spent to much time with her and all of a sudden she wants to move in and has a boyfriend. RED FLAG, if you like chaos then go ahead.
1148996
her parents will allow you to rent the basement. you will have your own space, so it will not be the exact same as when you "move in " with a girlfriend.  Besides, you need to ask yourself the question...how do you feel about this girl? do you see potential there? if so, discuss with her the situation, that the living arrangement would really help you out financially, but you are worried that it might be moving too fast in your relationship.  most importantly, if you do move in ...respect her, respect her parents, and don't be late paying the bills....it will look good for you all around.  good luck...i say do it!
797371
It depends on how far gone you are.  If you didn't have the guts to even talk to her till this night, then she may not be the girl you think she is.  Don't give up a job for this girl.  It may not work out.  On the other hand, if the job is just a relocation, and not an advancement in your career, what's the real harm in staying?\nIf this girl is really for you, she will be there when you get back.\nHave faith.
1120831
no you need to move on and if something happens in the future like he comes back and both of you want to still be together then that is fine but both of you r going to go through a transition and u will both most likely change with him being in a different city with different friends, activities, and etc.
836299
Too busy moving for three months??? Not a single email...im...message on your phone...nothing???  I think maybe you need to give the girl you are currently dating a chance...dream girl sounds too good to be true.  If she tried im'ing you wouldn't you have received an offline message???  \n\nDon't you think it's unfair to the girl you've been dating to just all the sudden say oops sorry found the other girl I was talking with three months ago so see ya later?  I mean you must be attracted to the girl you are currently with or you wouldn't be dating her...if dream girl is the one for you and it's meant to be you will find each other when the time is right.  \n\nHow serious are things with your current girlfriend?  Have you moved past the just getting to know you stage where you are both still seeing other people or have you made some sort of commitment?  You now have a third party in the picture and need to consider her feelings as well.  I hope you think long and hard before making a final decision...you know the grass is not always greener on the other side.  Also have you thought maybe of just having a friendship with dream girl first...if there is one thing I have learned it is that friendship first makes a huge difference in how a relationship will progress.  Exploring a friendship while dating someone else may give all of you a chance to see what the future holds without hurting someone's feelings.  Who knows maybe you and the girl you are currently dating will decide that you are just better off as friends...there are lots of possibilities...try being honest with your current girlfriend and get her advice...you may be surprised.
201044
well my girlfriend moved in a few days after she met her guy. they just /knew/.\nnow there will be some 'faults'... days when you're stressed and put the toothpaste where it doesn't belong... as long as you talk it out like adults, it can be worked out.\nI love coming home to someone.\ngood luck to you both
930708
I am in a similar situation...dating 5 years, live 3 hours away and just moved back home after living with him for about a year. I know the feeling to miss the other person when you are at home far away but also miss home when you are with him. \nIts a hard decision to make, but I think it is most important to do what makes you happy and take care of yourself. Having your own life and career are great things, and if you are set on staying where you are, it will be up to him to decide where he wants to be. I hope things work out for you no matter what happens.
472333
that's true love.if you really love her then go out with her and get to know her better to see if she is your type.if everything goes well then continue dating and soon you'll be gf and bf.also be sweet and funny and creative about what you do