I will re-phrase, is it ok to speak your mind, for fear of never saying how you feel about something?
352619
If someone asks for your opinion then it's ok to speak your mind.  To give your opinions on something when your opinion wasn't solicited, not good.  To say that one is an opinionated person is just an excuse to be obtrusive and boorish.
668175
there is absolutey nothing wrong with that.  if you don't feel it, just don't say it.  i personally save those words for only people i truly mean it to.  those words should NEVER just be given to anyone.
542011
Do you have two girlfriends?\n\nOK none of my business. \n\nWhen at all possible, phrase your statements as "I feel" statements (NOT "I feel you don't call")--I feel better when we talk everyday, I love knowing you're thinking about me too--rather than "you do" statements (even Why "you do" statements/ and especially not "you always/you never" statements). Those kinds of statements are sure to get a better reaction.\n\nIf you're the one replying--assume the best of people. Assume they care, and they're asking because they do. When in doubt, try this phrase "I'm sure you didn't mean that the way it sounded." It assumes the best, it gives them a chance to rephrase and it gives you the chance to calm down. If you have the phrase stuck in your head, you'll start to use it automatically when people say something "wrong." Maybe you won't even have to say it, you'll just know it and reply accordingly.\n\nTwo other points: Sometimes when people feel guilty about something, they get very touchy when confronted on it. And, I'm assuming the conversations are taking place in a language you both speak better than your English. (I don't want to offend you, but yeah, your grammar's a bit off, so I am only pretty sure I know what you mean, if you know what I mean? If you're carrying on an actual relationship in a language you're not fluent in, that's a whole other question.)
351816
Not really. If you are blunt and honest with people that can be a great quality to possess. People will know that you do not sugar coat things and that you tell them exactly how you feel. Some people are overly sensitive and cant handle critism.  if they dont want to hear your honest opinion then they should nt ask. In that respect maybe people are conditioned to think that by asking someone their opinion they are going to lie to them to make them feel better. Good for you in breaking the stereotypical view of what should and how something should be said.
1044751
Some of my best friends are people who, like you, tell it like it is and don't 'pull any punches.'  \nYou should absolutely stay true to yourself, but that doesn't mean you can't hold back comments sometimes when you feel they wouldn't be well received or if they might be hurtful.  You don't have to lie, but if you can spare someone's feelings by holding your tongue, then maybe that would be a good idea.\n\nRemember, not everyone wants to know the truth, they are happier in their delusions.  So, by pointing out what may be obvious to you, you will make then angry or sullen.\n\nThink of your wisdom and life experiences as having value and don't be giving them away free every time you open your mouth. Instead, let others learn from their own mistakes and strive for their own life experiences.
616676
Doesn't sound like a good plan to me. I like my thoughts to stay to myself. I often think to myself (especially around my boss) I would really like to tell you off or something in that sense. But I pretend to be a good girl and don't say anything to offend others.
731624
never.its not in my makeup.im rarely wrong coz if i dnt know wot to say i wnt say anything.so when i do hav an opinon i make sure i know wot im talking about
103050
I think you are very brave to speak out the way you do.  You deserve the have the same rights as others to write what you think. We write our opinions only. We do not force anyone to agree with us..so you should have the same rights.
186526
POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE!\n\nTell yourself that yes, people are interested in you, they do want to hear what you have to say, and they want to hear it clearly and consisely. Practice at home. Rationalise the way you feel! Why are you scared, and what is the worst that could happen?\n\nIt is only by facing our fears that we eventually grow out of them.
727543
i like to speak my mind, dont get anywhere otherwise, and the little things start to bug me, so would rather speak out, and try to resolve the problem, before it got me down
1023434
say what you mean not what you think should be heard
767631
Does it sound ok to you?\n\nNot to me it doesn't. Tell your parents
697134
No I don't feel its to that extreme.If you feel its wrong well you have a right to feel that and maybe tell someone.
53235
You are evidently talking about something that's important to you, but that you are not able to explain to others.\nNo problem, since you already have an answer you're comfortable with.\nLive long and/or prosper!
497331
..I hope u not talkin bout me....Anyway if they do u that wrong maybe u should find some more friends. But as much as u love to speak your mind tell them off first so they'll know how u feel. Don't do anything u might regret.
251274
I am one of those people who speak my mind, i am painfully honest to people. I tell the truth, alot of people don't like me becase of that, I don't speak to be liked, I speak my mind. If they don't like me, keep away from me, easy as said.
754633
No. I respest promises and secrets. I would feel really bad if I don't keep a promise or a secret.