i'm gay. how do i know if another guy is interested in me. We're classmates but i don't know what to do
352908
ok do not tell him ur gay just ask him like frien to freind lil things to hellp u know like ask him hows his girlfriend eventhoug he dose or dosent have one
839974
Crushes fade, perhaps you dont have a lover. Perhaps you are overwhelmed by your feelings for this guy, because he is being friendly. Maybe you are  lonely, i don't know. What i think is that if you tell him, he will tell his other mates and you may get hurt. Take care of yourself, whatever you decide. If you have to go to this college, and the fact that you are hesitant about telling him, may leave you very vulnerable if he is not accepting of the way you feel right now.
607306
You'll never know until you get up the nerve to talk to him. He's probably looking at your because you're attractive, so now you've gotten his attention, take the next step and show him what a great person you are! Don't ask your friends though, that's usually taken by the other person the wrong way. Just stand next to him at a good time and make a comment to him about the school or the football team or the cafeteria food. Talk to him!
458994
My advice play it safe, and just become friends with him at first. Then once hes comfortable with having you around start talking about a gay issue and watch his responce, try and do it when there is no one else around. That will be a dead give away to his orientation.  I dont have a lot of experiance with this, but its the advice i ALWAYS get.
569744
If the boy stares at you more than other girsl he is trying to get you to notice him.  Next time you catch his eye go sit down next to him and start up a conversation about school.\n\nIf this works you can move the conversation  to the fun things you like to do and whether you should go out together.
1138681
You can tell if your friend is gay by asking him.  \n\nIf you are not gay, you may want to mention how his behavior is unpleasant to you.\n\nIf you are gay, and he freaks out when you ask, you can point out that you're not the one who has been making sex comments and running around naked, and perhaps he should think about his actions.
66489
Get to know him. Mention a news story that you've seen on gay people or a friend you know is gay or tell him that you are gay/bi, and ask him what he thinks. If he reacts well to gay issues, just tell him you like him. Even if he doesn't feel the same way towards you, if he's comfortable with gay people you can still be friends.
30868
I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
289065
well if the other guy you thought is gay, is not...\nthen the best thing for the gay guy to do is too either see for himself cuz the 'straight" guy may be lying, or to find someone else
342418
start out by trying to build a friendship. try to get to know him and then it may become more obvious of whether or not he likes you too.
808996
Well, they may know you are alive, but chances are you become shy around them and that makes them think that you don't know they are alive. Or.......you have picked the wrong type of person to have a crush on.\n\nI would suggest trying to say hi.....nothing more......just walk past and say "hi" whatever his name is......... that way he will know that you notice him & if he doesnt  try and talk to you then move on.\n\nI know that doesnt really answer your question.  Sorry about that.
634576
if you want to find out wether hes staring at you or your friend, sit in a different seat in class. if he stares at you, then he probably likes you, if not the he likes your friend. trust me on this one, its a guy thing.....
803342
dont worry about the guys in your school.  Look for an older guy that will take care of you.
387068
yes i think somthin is going on...he think probably both of you guys are attractive..but you should ask both of them if you feel something is going on
349294
Does he know your gay?If not tell him and let him know how you feel.
52493
Get to know him.....and you will soon find out. Most guys wont tell you they like, they tell you like any guy would tell you. He told you, that you were hot, so that means you struck his interest.
471017
Kindly tell him that you're not gay and therefore not interested. He should understand. And it's up to the both of you to make sure it doesn't get weird and you remain friends.