how do you define the difference between being sexy but not slutty, flirty but not easy?
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being sexy is in your personal makeup, you either got it or you havent!! A woman can look and feel sexy even while covered head to toe in clothes! she will project her inner confidence outward and that is the defination of sexyiness.. whilst slutty is common acting in a sexual nature to pretend you are sexy, thats why alot of woman who wear revealing clothes look cheap because they dont feel it deep down its just on the surface. Flirty is when you tease in a caring and loving way joking but not out to hurt anyone. Easy is when you do things to manipulate people and situations for one reason or another but mainly to get what you want.
158828
To me flirting means to make gestures and comments of a romantic nature, not to make vulgar abusive sexual gestures or comments. For example "hi you look attractive today" would be acceptable as a flirtacious comment while saying something to a woman like "Hey you got really big boobs" would be an abusive remark for a guy to make.
648573
Physically exhausting and rigorous, quick and to the point.  Oh, you meant with ANOTHER person...\n\nPhysically exhausting and rigorous and sweaty and pleasureable and fun all at the same time, if you're doing it right.  So I would say the opposite of that in your case.  Quick and disappointing, sorry pal.  Also, unfortunately, a woman's vagina has sharp teeth and spines, so you have to wear a condom to protect yourself as well.
157889
Aside from a BJ... hmm... or do you mean even before that? :)\n\nI'd say the age-old way is simply being flirty and take it as far as you're both willing.
667899
If he is flirty he is not shy..\nAsk him.
265064
Sexy has nothing to do with weight... It has to do with attitude and style.. but of course you need to feel comfortable in your own skin to feel sexy.  If you want to lose weight, diet and exercise will do the trick.  plus exercise will lift your mood and make you feel sexy.  Other ways to feel sexy? buy some cute lingere, take a bubble bath, or do something adventrous in the bedroom with your sweetie.
144818
maybe you want to do something to be more sexy and attractive
675119
Don't be intimidated!  Believe me, you're in control. Enjoy yourself, don't be scared, have fun!Enjoy everything that comes before actual intercourse, tease and lead up to it, kisses everywhere, but really know that you are in control of your body and take ownership of that- I would think that kind of confidence (without appearing to be slutty, I know my femnist friends want to kill me) and then submit to what he wants every once in a while. It's not about how you can move your hips, it's about how you feel about yourself. Let go
858265
Looks have nothing to do with being sexy, it's something else completely! You could start by practicing your flirting and take it from there! Talk and flirt with as many girls as possible even if you're not that interested. Take it from there. And remember that we all have our own definitions of sexy, so there be no telling who'll be attracted to you. Good luck!!
1158189
Flirty has different meanings...  I flirt around a lot and I know. But idk I guess it really doesn't matter, i dont think bad of flirts...
744726
one that isnt afraid to be themselfs and be sexual
724037
If you worry about the way you look sexy to others, you never will. Walk with you're head in the air, smile a lot, be confident and do whatever you want that makes you happy. Then you're sexy and no one will ever say you're not. self-confidence is far sexier then short skirts and halter tops
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sexy is not a anything in particulair its a swagger an air of confidence. have you ever had a friend and hate the chick because with no make up just waking up she looks beautiful, or a group of girls walking together and all eyes is one one girl and she's not even the prettiest one. Its the way you walk , laugh ,carry yourself swing you hips, flip your hair smile, wink, rock clothes it could be anything another person is attracted too its your  signature .
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dress the sexiest you have ever been so sexy when u look in the mirror u say DAMN!! to your self. not to slutty or to reveiling i would say comfortable but sexy. clean hand to bottom of your feet. and confidence in yourself and in what you are tryin to persuit. relax dont make it seem rehersed natural is always good.trust i bagged a few shorties that way and im a girl it works for guys and PLEASE BRUSH TEETH the smell can also tally your vote on what they think. have gum but dont chew when u talk or a small ment u know what u like to smell on another persons breath and you should bave that aswell. GOOD LUCK!!!
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When she has qualities that you do not share.  For example...a woman who puts forth the extra time and energy to take care of herself physcially doesn't want a man that always wears sneakers and a T-shirt...she'll want him to know how to dress appropriately for different occasions, or have a body style similar to what she has to offer.
525033
The reputation  of being  very erotic and thorough  lovers, usually some what exotic  looking, way they  carry themselves and body language..and most know how to  flirt\nwithout a word being  said ! Delicious game !
361556
Don't dress provocatively and maybe people won't flirt.\nMaybe you are not close enough with your man and letting others slide in.\nMaybe you are hanging out in the wrong places or with the wrong people.