how to know if the partners are compatible for marriage?
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Well the first thin is is that you both need to be able to:\ncommunicate\ncompromise\ntrust\nbe honest \ngive as well as receive\nbe able to be patient and understanding\nbe able to allow them to have a life away from you as well.\nto want to do things special for one another once in a while. like:\nplan a walk at the beach and have a pic nic\ncall them up on the phone jsut to say "i love you", "i miss you" and/or "I'm thinking aobut you"\nplan a candle light dinner at home\nhave a nice warm bath waiting for their return possibly with( candles, music, oil or bubbles and/or rose petals in tub)\nOn your partners day off, play hooky to spend time with them on cuddling on the couch watching movies and talking.\nIf you two can do this, seek a marriage counselor, counselor will be able to bring up some other importatnt things to thik about, that most people don't seem to think about.
568651
no problem at all\n\nage is not at all a criteria for marriage. only criteria is mutual understanding.\n\nshe can be any years older to u, only thing u should look is she should be healthy. 2months or 2years is not at all a criteria.\n\nbe happy
1038796
I'm ready to get married. I have finished two degrees (BA and Masters), and have a clear plan for what I feel the rest of my life should be like - the pursuits, the activities, the financials, etc. I am tired of casual dating, and want to connect with someone on a deeper level. I am considering a child, but I am really undecided on children - STILL - so it's NOT the biological clock thing. It's not a factor at all.
31916
It's different, couple to couple. A matter of body chemistry. married or no doesn't matter.
139896
ASK, because each person have different needs and likes different things.  What works for one person doesn't necessarily work for another.  You have to know your mate, and open the lines of communication.
141810
I think it's a personal question that has to be addressed individually. It depends on what is important to you. If you have an absolute need to know what the other person is like every day, all the time, then perhaps you should. Or if you believe in love and what a commitment to marriage means, then take the faith that you love this person no matter what their personal habits. You can get to know a person's character without living with them, but again, it's up to you and them. As for strengthening a relationship, more studies show that it doesn't, but everybody's different. You also have to think about your potential kids and what kind of an example would you want to set for them? Years down the road what are you going to want to be able to say to them about moving in with their partners? That usually will reflect what is in your own heart and you should listen to that.
905162
any marriage, either love or arranged....should have committment,, understanding between wife and husband.  then any marriage or relation is successful.
307863
A successful marraige does not depend upon how it was fixed...rather than it depends upon how the partners get along after marraige....there are lots of adjustments to be done...basically a marraige can be successful only if both the partners are tolerant to each others mistakes
1171294
I'm in a 10 year realtionship with the girl of my dreams.  We try not to worry about the hate in this world.  We overcome obstacles together, like other couples.  You don't have to have kids or even a marriage certificate to truly be happy or to "bind" your relationship, you just have to love each other and all the pieces will fall into place.  Everyone has a soulmate out there somewhere, sometimes you just have to be a little more open minded to find them!  I absolutely believe that you will find happiness with the right person.
380653
the compatible of two persons is not depending on the horoscope or what so ever sign their is. the relationship is depending how the two of you handling your relationship better and stay stronger... \nhonesty and thrust is very important.
778624
Yes, it will work out.  It's a choice.  When we love a person, we make things that will make them happy not what we'll make us happy.  There will be some type of sacrifices - that though difficult we're at peace and therefore happy which we can't explain beyond reasons.  He's a Christian, devoted - because he's mustering all the efforts he could give to God while still single.  If you get married, his priority or lifestyle will change (but not his faith of course).  Be happy, your boyfriend is a Christian - a God fearing man who will opt to do what is right.  Christian men I know are committed to their wives no matter what.  They respect their commitments and marriage vows to God - to whom they are answerable if they fool around with another woman.\n\nBeing a Christian, is not just by title but of heart. How's your relationship and commitment to God.  Am not here to judge but to remind.  Just remember, try to befriend with God, your Christian boyfriend will see your beauty to another level.  Relax with God, you'll never regret it.
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I don't believe in soulmates, so I don't believe that you can know that. On the other hand, I believe that some people are meant to be together for this life. That's determined by God, so I don't think there are any predictable signs that you can look for.\n\nSince you are already married to him, the question should be moot to you. Both of you work to make it better every day, and no soulmate could make you happier.
469049
In terms of stability, one of the most important things in any partnership is an underlying friendship. That is especially true in marriage. There is nothing that creates more stability in a marriage than for the partners to be best friends and to fully respect one another as such. Being lovers in addition is simply a bonus. =p
4894
If you are both happy, why shouldn't it be?  Just be sure that you both are on the same page when it comes to things like marriage, kids, etc, and you should be fine.
266557
If someone asks you to marry them, you had better be in love before you accept. And if you Do love this person, and that person loves you, you have no need to change each other. You accept each other for who, and what, you are.  Now, after you marry, either of you might change  in some ways that might cause  discomfort in a relationship. And that needs to be worked out. But don't try to force change on each other, It will not work.
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the answer depends for every couple
269364
If both of you are happy in the relationship and both of you are achieving the goals of the relationship, I'd say it's working.  Of course, I'm talking about a relationship per se which assumes that you are both decided on where or how the relationship is going to be. If one of you wants marriage and the other doesnt, then it may not be working out at all.