when should I tell him?
353043
you should tell her now if you don't there's a chance she will get very upset if you tell her when shes 13-14 or if you never tell her and she finds out on her own...\n\nalso,there's a chance she wont understand just yet \nand if she doesn't \nthen help her understand or wait until shes a little older
316283
YOU TELL HIM - DONT WAIT AS IT MIGHT BE TOO LATE
285005
y should i tell you!!!
481760
just come out and tell him
406762
It doesn't matter how u tell him....as long as u tell him. Whether he's down wit' it or not you'll feel better that u let him know. It's better to try & fail than not to try at all. If u never let him know, not only will it never have a chance to go anywhere...but u may regret missing the opportunity.  Give it a chance.
133264
tell him as soon as possible tell him you didn't want to dissapoint him at a bad time, get it out in the open nice and quick you know like a band-aid (correction adhesive medical strip)
709870
its always better to let him know in some way than to hold back your feelings and watch him/her get taken by someone else. same thing happened to me a few years back and i never looked back for it. if i liek a girl ill tell her as soon as i can when the mood of the conversation is right =P
788376
Did you tell him about your feelings for him?if not,then tell him.Who knows he might just ashame to tell you that he loves you too.
160145
You should just say it and be open with him in general. Most guys don't take hints well, and anyway it's always better to be direct. That way you don't waste your time with confusion.
850818
Why do you have to tell him? Why not just be his friend to see how he responds to you that way? Then if it goes well you can slowly work into being more. Why does it have to be a hurry up deal? This way is a lot less scarier and you wont be risking making a fool of yourself.
34962
Incredible simple - BY TELLING HIM!\n\nMy wife and i, we met on the internet and where friends for 6 month, that she asked when do we get married?? :)))\n\nSo, just be straight and tell him.
34789
u should just tell him like it iz but tell him wen he iz alone and dont use those same word give him lil clues and it will lead him the way to wat u want to tell him
967566
Wait until he asks and then tell him very gently.  Practice with people you respect so you can get their feedback.  Do not just do it.  This will be one of the most significant times in his life.  Don't look back and regret what you did or didn't say.
944399
FOR GODS sake if hes your boyfriend tell him everytime you get the chance. no right or wrong time. Carpe Diem Sieze the Day
305027
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
1165132
Well if you really like him then you just tell him.  Just say that I would like to take this friendship to the next level like a date and see where it goes.  Don't have sex right away just take it slow and let it blossom.  I have been married to my friend for 9 years and tat is how we started..
347075
lol, well, i'm a very straight foward person, so i would wait until he asked me what i want, then tell him.... or... get one of your best girlfriends to drop the hint for ya. Just go with your instincts