Can a big girl truly be "sexy"?
338380
Sure, You still need to excersize and eat right...just tone up what you have..I know lots of girls that are "thick" but they are still sexy.
719564
I think it's great that your turned on by bigger people.  To much emphasis is put on being skinny. I grew up thinking that if I weighted 125 pounds that I was chubby.  It's not weird.  It's okay to be turned on by it except when the fetish starts controlling you and makes a significant impact on you and others.  But I don't think this happens very much.
358208
I'm not into girls, but I'll give my opinion anyways. I have a friend that is morbidly obese (500 lbs +) and I think she is beautiful. I worry about her health and I know she has a hard time finding a man that will look past that. Chubby girls are good as long as they are healthy and happy with themselves. I don't think skinny girls are attractive. When I say skinny, I'm talking about when you can see hip bones and and their chest looks almost caved in. I know some girls are just naturally toothpicks. I think girls look so much better with curves.   An ex boyfriend told me that bones are for dogs.
370845
Hey, don't try so hard to find a guy.  And no matter what weight you are, you are beautiful.  Believe that, no matter what!  You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful.  I mean, I think Queen Latifah is gorgeous and Nicole Richie is...well, never mind.  Just be your fun, sparkling self.  Hang out with friends and family.  People who make you feel good.  Eventually, a man will see that you don't need a man to make you feel good about yourself and will love both your outer and inner package.  And those are the ones worth having.  But those guys take time to find.  And all girls have a hard time finding that.  Even the skinny ones.
635169
Yes!!!  And to quote another song... "fat bottomed girls, you make the rockin' world go round"!!!  Women are meant to have curves, so if you have them, enjoy them!
398900
Before you find a woman find yourself first. Meaning find the comfortable you. If you're not comfy & confident w/yourself no one else will be. I'm 26 & dealing w/the same thing with the exception of looking for a man but what is working for me is exercising. I'm not at it hard core, droping weight fast but I know I will never be TRUELY confident until I loose at least one roll. LOL. In the mean time, I find it necessary to except me as much as possiable. They are probably few a far between but there are women who look for personality before anything else. My personal opinion, you can be fine w/a 6 pack & be an as$hole & that will make you ugly but be big & wear it well w/a great personality & that will make you sexy. Maybe you could try exercising, it may make you feel better then you can say what I said I will if I ever get where I want to be (don't know if your familiar with him) "back then you didn't want me, now I'm hot & you all on me". Confidence on the inside will shine through & you will be sexy on the outside, regardless of size & looks. I like a thick man & I know I'm not the only one out there!
606305
Big is not the question. Firm and shapely is. Big usually means ALL of her is big, and that is so bad. But a slender tone chic with an apple hynie, priceless.
731114
In order to be a sexy person, you are very much in tune to your 5 senses and long to kind of have a warm stimulating feeling surrounding you. This would be carried with you when you walk, sit, lay down, interract with the opposite sex. You have to really love your body, be confident, and love sex AND romance. The way you dress should bring this out too. But it comes down to how you feel in your head and how you carry yourself.
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i am too sexy for this question
217772
Up until the 50's, there was no such thing as a size 0. Marilyn Monroe was a modern size 10 and is still considered to be one of the most beautiful women of all times. During the French Revolution, the ideal standard of beauty was considered to be a size 20.I think that as the standard of beauty changes, so do women's self image.Meeting someone elses standards has never been a priority for me.Me personally, i feel it depends on the individuals body type. I'm of average height, but i have a large bone structure (Damn my German heritage!)and put on muscle very easily.At 170 pounds, I'm a size 10, believe it or not.I can also bench 150 and leg press over 300 lbs. I was once very sick and lost 20 pounds (chicken pox) and i looked unhealthly, even though by weight standards i was considered "normal".I think the "perfect size" is the weight at which one feels and looks their best and completely dependant on the individual.I'm at what i call my fighting weight, and my doctor assures me i'm in good shape.So as society is concerned, I know I'll never be the toothpick ideal, but that still doesn't stop 3 of my last ex-bf's from trying to get back together with me!
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Has she tried joining a BBW club?  Big, Beautiful Women is a nationwide network of local clubs which include both the larger ladies AND men who specifically are attracted to them.  Unless she has health concerns or personal desires to lose the weight, she might find a gentleman who really, really ascribes to the "bigger is better" theory, and that adoration could help her to feel better about herself all-around.
1157367
not necessarily, but it depends on your body size and weight and proportions.
1036089
I have a really close male friend who is really fit. He has a six pack, he's all muscle, and he's not fat at all (he has a BMI of...what, 17?). I on the other hand have a BMI of 20 or so and i'm considerably heavier and actually taller than he is. But, he doesn't mind at all. I don't think that a boyfriend should like his girlfriend for what she looks like (except if the looks were to the extreme of the scale) and nor should he judge by her weight. You seem fine. Plus, most guys want girls to ... look like a girl. With a chest and all. All of my guy friends think girls with abs is weird, lol. Just be happy with who you are! Be confident! Your boyfriend will still love you no matter what because you are who you are.
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I would love to design/create/manufacture bras and lingerie for CURVY women. Not BIG women. By curvy I mean average height/weight but with a large chest and hips. I know its politically correct to call big girls "curvy" but for those of us who actually are finding intimate apparel is a friggin nightmare. And no this is not some kind of veiled personal ad its just the business I would get into.
392114
I personaly think slim,petite and average size is sexy. But I have seen some above average ladies that have turned my head and grabbed my attention. It's really all about how you carry yourself and how confident you are with yourself. Sometimes thick can be sexy. But all in all i like petite,slim healthy ladies..NOT BONEY!
904144
Hell yes it does. Don't worry about others comments that say you are being a slut or something. It sounds like you have one fine sexy bod so if ya got it flaunt it.
716648
You are not fat and unattractive.\n\nTo some, you may be FATTER and LESS attractive than you were, but you will still be sexy if you feel sexy.  I am just a mere man, so I don't completely understand how women do this, but they can double their attractiveness just by changing their state of mind. Perhaps it has something to do with a woman's state of mind.\n\nYou can work on your jelly belly by doing sit ups but your hip size has enlarged because your pelvis has moved to allow a baby through, so I doubt you will go back to an 8.\n\nAnyway, Marilyn Monroe was a 16 and tell me SHE wasn't sexy.  It doesn't matter what size you are.