me and my husband married recently.but we declared we are married when we had our child can this be a problem?
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YES IT SURE CAN BE A VERY BIG PROBLEM, NOT ONLY FOR YOU , BUT FOR YOUR CHILD IN LATER LIFE, IF YOU HAVE BOUGHT LIFE INS. AND YOU PUT THE WRONG DATE OF YOUR MARRIAGE, OR ANY OTHER INS. WITH THE INCORRECT INFORMATION, THEN COMPANIES THAT WROTE THE INS. DO NOT HAVE TO PAY A CLAIM. AND IN SOME STATES THERE IS NO STATUE OF LIMATIONS. WHICH MEANS YOU CAN BE PROSCUTED AT ANY TIME, MAINLY IF YOU TOOK PROCEEDS UNDER FALSE PRENTENSE.  GOD FORBID..  \n PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD CORRECT THIS INFORMATION. AND THAT WILL BE THE END OF IT...\n\nTHANK YOU \nHAVE A NICE DAY\nGOD BLESS YOU
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Yes, but not freaked out... okay, maybe a little. Obviously the first thing that flashes to mind is infidelity, and obviously on her part and not yours. Reguardless of what she says you SHOULD get a paternity test when the child is older, just to make sure. Also, ask your wife about it. You have to be open and honest. Otherwise you'll find yourself sneaking behind her back trying to figure out if anything other than kosher has happened. Talk to your wife FIRST. Mas importante ;) Also it's possible there is some genes on either side that may not be dominant and your child inherited it. After you talk to your wife and if she confirms once again your the father, check into the family tree of yourself, and your wife. If nothing pops up... you need the paternity test. Good luck :)
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when you are married.
455996
I think you are already worried or you wouldn't have asked the question on here. I do not think this is appropriate at all. Your husband should tell them, I'm married now and I don't think it is a good idea to "keep in touch". NO WAY are you being childish, your being smart.
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When my husband and I started dating, I had a 2 year old and a 5 month-old. It'll happen, just be patient.
405097
If it bothers you then correct them but technically speaking since you are living together he is your common law husband.People do that to me all the time too I just go with the flow.Congrats on the engagement.
110519
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
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Absolutely not.  As long as both your husband and your are happy and can face the responsiblities of being married to each other you'll be just fine.
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nope. it is perfectly OK to keep your maiden name if you wish. you can also hyphenate if you like. keeping your maiden name just means that you don't have to change all of your legal stuff(license, credit cards etc...) to your married name
109205
Maybe they are not upset that you got married maybe they are upset at possibly your age that you got married at or maybe they got upset at it his race. There are a lot of different facots or maybe they thing he is preventing you from doing something in your life that you should be doing. Some more detail might help us give you some more advice. Help shed the light. But your best bet is to really sit down with you parents alone and really ask them what the problem is and what it really bothers them and ask them to give your husband a chance. And also make sure you husband show them who he really is and why he realy deserves you as a wife.
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hun...if you believe in GOD, it shouldnt be such a problem.\n\nmarriage is not always about money...once you both married, GOD will lead you both to a better life! believe in that!\n\nlike my self with my husband now,, he didnt have any job yet and still looking...but a week after we married, a job called...and now we're living our life better.\n\nand your relationship has been going too long...its about time for you to step to the next level!\n\nfear is normal...but the only way we can get tid of it is by facing it and go on with it.\n\ndont mentioned this reason to your couple, he might get offended...but being supportive and always pray will give you both a way.
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NO I PLANED MY CHILDRENS NAMES WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER NOW IM MARRIED WITH 3 CHILDREN ALL OF THEM HAVE THE NAMES I CHOSE THEN
416494
It will probably make things easier for you and your son. I've found, especially if your son is school aged, that most people will assume that your last name is the same as his. Having it hyphenated will alert them, yet allow you have your husband's name, too.
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well ,.. i dont see anything wrong with keeping your last name,.. its yours! its a part of you and it has been for a long time,.. look,.. whether you change your name or not it does not mean tha tyou care and love your husband any less,.. amybe he needs to be reminded of that,.. and while you are at it remind him what year we are living in,.. !
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It can be or it can be just a normal thing.  It depends on if the two of you grew up in the same house since you were teens or before.  But if you are older, like probably 25 or over, and your parent just married his parent, then it would be no big deal.  But if you guys parents had been married since you were a kid, then something is wrong with that.
963759
Sounds like a no. You have been having sex with him, probably living with him - he has no need to get married; you are giving him all that he wants and he is totally comfortable. Talk to him again, and get married before the baby comes!
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when you get married, all things are considered shared by both people no matter who owned it origanally. You must file a prenuptualy agreement in order to keep anything that was yours before the marrige. Also I know that in TX at least this is a civil dispute and you must get a lawer if you would like to get it resolved