Im in love with my daughters husband. Should I tell her?
336615
no, i dont think you should. it would do nothing good since you boviously can't get him. jsut try to forget baout him and get someone else.
204337
NO BECAUSE LOVING SOMEONE WHO DONT LOVE YOU BACK IS AN AWFUL FEELING TO GO THROUGH SO YOU SHOULD TELL HIM AND LET HIM FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE AND APPRECIATE HIM...... tHERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE.
191525
I WOULD BE OPEN WITH THE  GUY AND TELL HIM BUT BE PREPARED THAT THERE WILL BE SOME CONFLICT , BECAUSE YOU  HAVE A CHILD WITH THE GUYS COUSIN AND  IS IT WORTH YOU MESSING UP A GOOD FRIENDSHIP FOR WHAT MAY ONLY BE A ROLL IN THE SACK , HOW LONG  HAVE YOU AND THIS  GY  WELL THE COUSIN BEEN SEPERATED , DO U WANT YOUR BABY GROWING UP SAYING MY MOMS BOYFRIEND IS MY DADDYS COUSIN   BE HONEST BUT I DONT THINK I WOULD  PERSUE IT  JUST KEEP THE  GUY AS A FRIEND
932793
make sure you do first. as its not right to tell someone that you love them just for the sake of it.\nThen just tell them how you feel
682461
Yes!  if u really love this guy then tell him u love him.  U never know what will happen unless u tell him.  I hope you two will be happy together.  That is if u decide to get together.
605351
Bro go out. Your daughter will be fine. You seem like a great dad! dating doesnt hurt. Leave your daughter with someone you trust. Do it before you looks fade, and your old n gray sayin I wish I wouldve.
398041
You didnt do this while with this girl did you? If not I can say this much: Never hide anything. If you really love this girl then dont be afraid to tell her. I know from experience and I can say that we have the best relationship even when we were separated half the world apart
914975
Yes she did and she should tell her husband. You, on the other hand, need to stay out of it.
76837
Hey bro, I feel bad for you. It sounds like you have tried working with her about this. It sounds like you have been patient.You are going to need to make some tough chocies.You are going to need to find out what's really the problem ( her not feeling sexy?,is she having an affair?,not in love with you anymore?,have you done something since your daughter was born to make her act this way?,ect..)You sound like you love her and your daughter and don't want to leave. It sounds like she's not willing to kiss, be romantic,or try to see a doctor about this.To me if she just wants to be friends and isn't willing to change then maybe it's time for you to re-think things out about what you what you want in a wife and if this siutation is really good for you and your daughter. If you continue to be unhappy, this will start to effect you much more, which will at some point effect your daughter, which is something you don't want, she's done nothing. I think it's cool that you are trying to keep your family, but you also need to have your needs met. I would keep trying to work with her on this if you feel it's worth it. If there's no change and if she's not willing to see a counseler then mabye it might be time for a change. Love and passion is something that can be worked out if both parties are willing to work things out. Just don't go deep and and get emotional and do something that's dumb. Everyone has bad stories with quick fixes. This is your family. Think things out before you act on them. Good luck. I hope very thing works out for you.
563247
Oh just go for it - it's a cute idea, provided he isn't married.  Then if you end up with him, years from now you'll have a special shared memory to tell your grandkids.
52376
Tell her, but don't expect it to do much good at first. If she is in love then she will be oblivious to what you say. Why didn't someone warn her before she got married or when she started dating this guy?
303799
i think it is going to be really hard for you but you should just try to sit your daughter down explain to her the things of life what you are&#92;were going through.tell her its not the person but the heart.tell her ,her father was not a bad person but the things that were suppose to be between you and him were just not happening and you have now found it in this person. tell her to try to see your lady as a person you love and that loves you and not a female.
481623
Yes, you should tell him because yall are friends so yall should be able to communicate about this type of issues, yea if I were u i would tell him the truth and maybe yall can take yall relatisonship to the next level...!!
836277
Tell her. Explain to her that you did not know that they were together and that you wanted her to know before she walked down the aisle with this jerk. \n\nImagine how she is going to feel if you don't tell her and a couple years down the road they have kids together and he is still cheating on her with other girls.
292211
Tell her and him how you feel
1057385
This man is sick.  He has committed the ultimate infidelity to you and your daughter.  You MUST leave him or you will never have peace in your life.  It will hurt, but this must be done or you will die in your heart.  You are too good of a woman for that to happen.   Please leave him, for your own sake and the sake of your daughter.
606170
First of all, congratulations and second of all, yes you should tell them because you guys love each other and are going to be together forever. It's very important to you.