What do you do with a person who judges you alt?
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What she is saying is a mirror of her own behaviour projected onto you without any thought about the damage she is doing.  \n\nThis person needs to be treated with the same disregard that she shows you, if she does it again just remind your self that you do not have to defend or justify who you are to this girl.  This is typically girl bullying behaviour and as such you need to tackle it as you would with any other bully.  \nShe is defiantly jealous and scared that you might be better than her, so in a way its a compliment that she takes the time to nit pick your personality, almost bordering on an obsession perhaps that needs pointing out to her.  \nDon't let her take away your confidence you are the nicest person you know and you should not take her opinion on board after all she just passed judgement on a wonderful person who might one day be her boss....
257606
Honey i have been there, and sometimes they arnt worth the time, but if you think that they are then you dont need to be putting yourself down like that.  I have done that to myself almost all of my life, and what you think about yourself reflects on you and your actions.  So when you see  him and you say to yourself that you arnt good enough, then that is felt by the people around you including him. What you do is you think to yourself that you are good enough because everyone is.  Be yourself cause no one likes a fake person and let them know that you are there.  Dont back down.  Make yourself shine.  AND JUST GO FOR IT.  \n              Good luck ; D
147033
do something good so you can brag about yourself.you can try to irritate the person and constonly brag about yourself Maybe the person whos bragging too much will relize how annouying it is and they will eventully stop
553880
Number one, I believe, based on your reaction, that you too are a "Type A" personality.  You need a Type B to play referee.  The best advice I can give is to not go around any train tracks.  It is, perhaps, best that you do not hang around with this person anymore.  If they are making you this aggravated and stressed, then for your own sake (and sanity), you need to separate yourself from them.
1017900
ACT FRIENDLY.  Don't remind them of their visciousness.\n\nBut don't trust them about anything.
768623
What did Jesus do?  You can catch a lot more flies with honey then with vinegar.  Even if someone is abusive, does that mean you have to come down to their level?  Just showing how shallow you are if you do.  As even Jesus said, do to others what you would want them to do to you.  Ever heard of the Golden Rule?  Show respect and you will get respect.  If not from some, it may cause them to turn around and begin to show some to others because you showed them some when they were real jerks.  I have seen it happen many times.  Try it and see if it does not work for you too.
339665
you're well on your way to becoming one heck of a good person. on the one hand, you should care very much how other people perceive you. on the other hand, you have to draw the line somewhere and be your own person. there are lots of people out there that you shouldn't give a flip about what they think about you. choose your judges carefully. don't worry about the rest of them. the most important question is, what do YOU think about you?
1106274
talk to them individually and find out how they feel about you... \nthat should eliminate at least one of them... then list pros and cons until you can figure out who is your best match...
766681
I see what you mean.  The bible says not to judge people.  There is no problem with talking to people who are differant or have differant ideas.  Just make sure you are strong in your faith, and it could be an opportunity to witness to her.  Just realize Wicca is the wrong way, and far from where God wants us to be.  Maybe try and help her see where she has gone wrong.
898858
Only if you don't like the person.\n\nCoach
1013905
Be who you are.  Learn to let it slide off you.  When someone insults you, either don't answer at all, or shrug like so what.  You don't have to make excuses for who you are, or feel bad about it.
840984
Make a list of what you have to do tomorrow and rate them for priority. Then DO them even if you have to offend someone. If they have no respect for your private life then don't feel guilty.
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.
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knowing anyone's intension is not easy stuff. because we can't say what he or she is thiking by heart.. but surely we can get closer to it. observe the body language of the person you are talking to very closely.. your sixth sense wud definetly help u to resolve your problem. if he/she praising you a lot without any reason for sure he/she dangerous to you. don't believe on anyone so easily. make your own exam n rules to examine and judge the person correctly. think like a lawyer.. take out the points of his/her behaviour. think by heart as well as by mind. conversate with yourself or with your closest frn about him/her. by your wise n proper judgement quality no one can fool u with his or intensions..!!
1019130
plagaraize at first then put your words in where they seem suitable. you'll eventually get the hang of it or well...you'll yell and scream. if he's the one, he will get pissed, but stick around, if he ain't well, there are 3 billion people on this planet, gots to be someone else out there.
220576
think about when somebody makes you mad.  what do you want that person to do? apologize? give you space? comfort you? what? i suggest that you try what ever would work on you.  use your own judgment.
128069
no, its wrong to judge people if they dont think like you do though. put your foot down in a nice way. tell them that you respect their religion but its just not for you.