How do I let my friend know I have feelings for them, especially if they may not feel the same?
355058
if she is a really good friend and you two are very close friends, it shouldnt be a problem.\nTry to see if she is willing to talk to your about other personal issues, before you let her know about your feelings.\nIf you try to tell her something personal, and she shys away or feels uncomfortable talking intimately with you, then I dont think she is ready to know about your feelings.\n\non the other hand, if you do develop a close enough relationship with her and she feels open to your personal thoughts/problems/issues, you should have no problemm telling her how you feel. :)
741239
It's always hard when you start having feelings for a friend, you don't want to loose the friendship, but at the same time you want to have more.  Take it day by day.  Invite her to do things on a casual level, dinner, movies, shopping for Christmas gifts.  In time, if she does have more feelings for you, you will know it and it can go from there.  Be careful, if the only thing she wants is friendship, take it because if she is as special as you say, you don't want to loose her.
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!
280052
You have to stop worrying about how it will make them feel if you were straight forward and whether they bounce back or not they should be considering your feelings so bring it up again and lay the cards on the table.  If they are friends like u say they are they should listen to you
445652
Maybe you should try talking to them. Tell them how you feel, but make them promise that it won't afect your friendship if they don't feel the same way.
217597
You can't make someone feel something that isn't there.  The best thing you can do is let them know how you feel and give them a chance to see if they feel the same way about you.
506071
feeling come and go it all takes time there know saying when you will lose these feeling but you cant make someone have the same feelings as you and maybe one day you two may became more the only thing you can do is stay friends and see how things go tell your friend that you have these feeling for her and see what she has to say about maybe if you two talk about thing and see what she wants and then you can go from there if she just wants to be friends and she says that you and her will never be then you really have to move on just remember that you do have a friendship and that's better then nothing you wont be in pain forever
897631
have you really tried to sit down with him and talk about the way you feel maybe he just needs a little nudge in the right direction he may not be telling you how he feels because he does not want to be rejected and just remember if you do tell him it may or may not happen and that friendship line would be crossed so think about it really hard before you act upon anything good luck
802387
just go to him and tell him how u feel, and im positive he feels the same way, if your close friends then he must know u and he would like u for who u r
382768
From my opinion is is best to be honest. Just tell him how you are feeling, and also explain that you are scared of what he might say. He will only respect you for what you have told him. I'm pretty sure your friend wont exclude you. Remember just be honest and open about it. who knows. he might feel the same way =P
808533
if your a real friend thenjust tell her how you feel. honesty is the best answer.
641494
tell him your feelings
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
1062306
Then find a reason to get closer to them... Tell them all your feelings...
442927
Well, basically, in cases like this there really isn't much to tell because you just gotta go talk to him and speak out on whatever you have to say. I know that you might get that feeling that you don't want to ruin your friendship and everything, but you really want to tell him how you feel. Well, let me tell you something. I have this friend who just blurted his feelings for his friend. He didn't know if she will accept his feelings or not. He wasn't sure exactly what will happen; but deep inside of him he felt that he just had to tell her how he feels. So, he took his chance and stepped up to the girl and admitted his feelings for her. And now, they're happily together. No, they're not in a relationship or anything, but they both know that they're in love with each other. They just want to take time to get to know more about each other. They are willing to wait for the right moment to enter into a relationship. But the good thing about it is that their friendship never changed. They still remained good friends. So, if you two are really good friends, you don't have to be afraid of what will happen to your friendship because friends value their friendship more than anything. You two need to realize that your friendship is far more important than anything else. So, just tell him how you feel, but don't expect anything for that matter. There is that chance that he might have a different reaction, but at least you told him the truth and that will make you feel a lot better. Sometimes, you just gotta take that chance in life. I'm wishing you the best.
518599
Be her friend. That's the best advice I can give you. It's ok to let her know you are interested in more.. in a low key way, because sometimes to put it all on the line can affect the friendship.If she knows already that your feelings run deeper, then just keep on  being there for her and being her friend.. If it's meant to  be more, it will be. If it isn't, then at least you have your friendship, and that's worth ALOT.
413035
Be really sweet about it. Let him know that you really value them and their friendship, but you don't reciprocate their feelings. Expect them to be upset, but eventually he will get over it. Also, make sure not to send any mixed signals and be as honest and kind as possible.