How can I keep a guy interested?
351238
Don't worry too much about it, maybe he went out with you and decided he didn't like you as much as he thought he did.  Men (and women) are like this all the time and instead of being honest and telling what it is...they do things like this.  He's trying to "let you down easy" and not confront the situation.  My advice is to get involved with other things (friends, family, etc) and keep it moving.  You can't get someone to be interested in you if they aren't.
641897
Get to know each other.  Spend time at lunch, breaks, etc. Talk and listen to each other.  That's the best way to tell if someone is interested.
451094
Flirt with him.  It'll jump start his engines.\n\nI suggest you talk about whatever you think is worth talking about.  If you have some chemistry, he'll be able to relate and also contribute to the dynamic (flow) of the conversation.
574718
Well.. Ask him out, but you seem overly eager, and that could make the guy lose interest in you.. Try not to come off on him so strong, and try to keep it slow until he sais hes ready for more..  Do not go out with him if its just because of his looks..  Try to realize that guys lose interest when girls want real commitment in the early stages of a relationship, so keep your distance, play hard to get, and good luck.. I hope he finds you interesting/attractive and treats you right
636907
In the same boat with ya miss lady. My guy is overseas though. It's difficult because they figure once they 'got you' they don't have to keep trying, but interest can be lost at any point and he has to do his part to keep you happy as well. An email, phone call, text message, hey...even a post card is just a simple and quick way to say 'hey, I may be busy, but your are on my mind and I want you to know that." It doesn't take much for someone to make you feel like a million bucks. But lack of communication leads to loss of interest which makes you distant from him mentally as well as physically. He needs to step his A-Game up. You should worry a little, but I've noticed with men, you have to constantly TELL them what you want, unlike women we think back to the last point of our conversation before things went downhill. Men move on and don't worry, just send him a signal that he should worry and that you are losing interest on his part. Be subtle and smooth with it, he'll get the picture, nothing major to make him overly jealous but a red flag to get his heart beating a little so he'll know you might be out of his grasp if he continues....Good luck miss lady!
388551
If you really like someone, give him the signals. If he's interested, he'll catch on. NEVER throw yourself at a man. It cheapens you. It degrades you.
1027210
I'm a guy on the other end of that type of question & I run in to this same problem from the other side. This is what would attract me.\n\nDress nice or classy, BUT NOT SLUTTY OR TRAMPY! \n\nREAD IT AGAIN! \n\nHonestly, avoid tattoos! Really. If you have some already, don't get anymore. It's a big turnoff. It's like grafitti on the Venus de Milo! Girls are pretty already. Anything else just detracts from them.\n\nAlso, you'll have to be responsive. \n\nIf you get it that a guy is giving a "vibe", he probably IS. The thing is, most good guys AREN'T PLAYERS - so they haven't practiced SCHMOOZING girls and throwing them into bed! \n\nThink about it. The good guys aren't necessarily too experienced at getting all the girls - you might have to look this over more closely.\n\nSo, the good guys TRY to interest girls, but sometimes get it WAY WRONG. \n\nSo, you've gotta pay attention and give him a little break - please. If it seems that he's interested & might want to say something, GIVE HIM A LOT OF TIME TO SPIT IT OUT. Try saying stuff like, "Yea....? And....? Go on...." to get him to keep talking.\n\nMake it seem like you're not in a hurry and are interested. Give him time to fumble and get the courage to ask you questions or figure out hou to ask you out.\n\nREMEMBER, MOST GOOD GUYS WON'T BE PLAYERS! You're not looking for a player anyhow, right?
1105459
Don't try to hard. Next time you see him, pay him a short compliment:\n\n"Hey, cool shirt."\n"Thanks for helping me out the other day."\n\nGuys are shy too. But compliments (short and sincere) will get his attention. If he is interested in you, he'll make the next move.
864212
you need to ignore him & get really involved with a couple of nice guys (doesnt hurt if they are good looking or quite popular)   make sure to have animated conversations and laughter.... THAT will get his attention.. but then  hopefully you wont want his attention anymore  ;)
110950
Typical guy!!! Seriously though maybe you just havent found the right girl yet. You need to find someone who can hold and keep your interest.
401066
if he seems not to want to take it further, why would you want to get to know him? Find someone else worth getting to know :)
853869
Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
829577
Do your research!  Find out all that you can about him.  Develop the same interests as him.  Find ways to share these same interests.  Also (without being obvious) impress upon him that you are in demand with the opposite sex.  Show no real interest in those demands, but if he offers "interest" be the" carrot in front of the horse", just out of reach-yet obtainable.  Once you know that you have him hooked, reel him in...he's yours.
580149
Guys are easy to tease.  Just smile a lot, touch his arm and giggle.\n\nIf that doesn't work, grab him by the ears and kiss him.  That always gets my attention.
196061
that's simple. your a girl so u shouldn't worry about getting him interested at you. girls have the charms! just go up to him, say hi and carry the conversation to going out some time.
151043
hang around him let him get the vibe that you like him