I think I like my bestfriend?
352595
Don't let it get to you. Don't worry so much about whats going to happen next.\n\nTake things one moment at a time and stop trying to control situations.\n\nLet it be and you'll be happy.
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
724376
honestly i think my bestfriend did it for that purpose
583552
well if u really think that u love her u can\nand go speak with ur best friend and tell her that u love eachother and try to make him understand it \nGood luck
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
1116854
It actually won't matter what you get for him if you guys love each other as best friends. As long as it comes from the bottom of your heart, he will like it no matter what it is. You should make it if you want it to be the best! ^ ___ ^
80105
Do what feels comfortable for you and then gauge his feelings also and go on from there... To answer the first question YES you can really like EVEN love a Good friend.. I married my best friend 19 years ago, and we are still married and best friends.. There are never any right or wrong feelings that you feel, it is only the way you or others may act upon them... Best to you and good luck
39145
i dont think going for him after your best friend had him is such a good idea unless shes cool with it.  but i do think he likes you though..try kissin him on the cheek once or twice over a week span and see how he reacts..my e-mail is foxybabe0483@yahoo.com if ya wanna ask some more!!
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
219121
well since she's ur best friend u can tell her anything right? tell her dat u like this guy then the both of u figure out a solution to this problem together. if she decides to 'bac off' then tell him u like him.
1054303
falling in love with my best friend, and knowing that he loves me back
377703
Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
686998
Okay, you like him, and you don't just like him........you LOVE him, and deep down inside, you feel REALLY upset that he likes your best friend, even though they go together, you still want him, but I guess only patience is your only option, I'm going through the same thing- except I don't know if my crush likes my best friend, I don't think he does either. But yeah, only time will tell. Hope this helps.
32027
Try to be a best friends of each other and at the right time tell her what are your feeling towards her.\nHope it'll work!!!
1069021
Yeah its ok to like him, and I think he likes you too.\nBest of luck
597284
Well then, it depends on your point of view about how precious the friendship between both of you. If you have your ups and downs and you're sure that he can be trusted and befriended for the rest of your days, then go ahead tell him. Whatever happened with your relationship, a best friend will never go away. If bad things happened, then you can always returned to the first stage. And make sure that you tell him that...\n\nDespite that, I would strongly advice you to at least give him hints first that you liked him. Don't go forward first, and let the man do the job (honestly a man will feel greater if he moved on first). At least gave him hints, one or two that you can and have liked him more than a friend.  \n\nSlipped in some sneaky talks about relationship when you're talking to each other. The word, "What if we're..." can be a good trick to use. I'm sure if you managed to pull this one of, he'll realized your feeling towards him and move ahead to do what his heart says. \n\nA best friend is someone worth having, worth caring and worth fighting. Who knows, he can actually be your 'best friend' for the rest of your life. Good luck!