Mostly I want to make love twice but  my  wife dont like it in the same night,what should i do?
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Damn, there's a toughy....Try talking about it, let her know that u want to try other things when u both have the time to prolong sex for u both...try oral sex after cuming to keep her in the mood...very gently though....Heck, ask her if she would ever consider bondage and role play, she might surprise you and when she's tied up, it's hard to say no to seconds...LOL
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I was a virgin when I got married, too. Take your time, don't force her if she's scared, use lubrication if necessary, and be very loving. Many couples don't complete the act on their first night if they're virgins, so let her know she can trust you to go at a pace that's comfortable for her. If you make the situation very loving, it will be much easier for her.
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so you only want it once a night?\n\nseems  reasonable to me at your ages!\n\nmaybe have one night a week where you both try NOT to have it - thats a sure fired way to want it the other 6!!!
818179
Three is nothing wrong with a little kinky foreplay.  I do what my husband asks, and he likewise, to keep our marriage exciting.  I think you should tell your wife, ask her to play along with you - what have you got to lose?  If she loves you, she wants you to be happy in bed.  Thats the key to keeping yourself from asking the question  "SHould I cheat on my wife?"
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Men and women have completely different needs when it comes to sex, usually. No, you can't change her. But there may be a deep seated reason she is the way she is. Perhaps something she hasn't shared with you or some fear.\n\nIf it is that troublesome for you, see a sex therapist or start marriage counseling.
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It's perfectly okay, if both of you feel the same way. But, if one of you is feeling deprived, then you are going to have problems. My rule of making sweet sweet love is to not over think it. My wife thinks about everything else first. Our business, house, things that need to be done, cars, money, and many more things. You need to just let go. Sex, or making love, is like a little mini-vacation that you can go on for a few minutes every night if you like, for free! Just let go and enjoy each other. Don't think about how long it's been. Or how quick it was over last time. And most of all if it is over quick wait 15 minutes, and do it all over again it will better the 2nd time I guarantee.
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well you can try to mix it up alittle. try role playing or throwing some toys into the mix that usually makes it interesting. if you are seeing her lose intrest as well you could change your outlook on see how many times you could get her off or even tease her till she gets crazy. diffrent things you can do go to some websites and look up fun weekends or games to play will add alittle spark here and there to peak your intrest and im sure your wife will greatly appreciate it as well.
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I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)
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talk to your wife about spicing up your love life.\nyou never know, she might be just as lonely as you are, but before that maybe you should try to find out and understand why she's so against sex.\ngood luck!!
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Try romancing her first.  Nice dinner at a nice restaurant, some wine, go home put on some music and slow dance while you sweet talk with her.  For really wild sex - add tequila.\nIf that doesn't work, I dunno... I guess you have my sympathy.
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do not talk about it when you are in bed this puts to mucvh pressure on her. sit on the couch and say i would like to talk about our sex life. (jump in fast with the next bit) i love everything but i want to try something new. so for the next weekim gonna get as many mens magazines that have sex tips and if you do the same we can come back on friday and compare notes and stuff. \nit is very important to not all of a sudden say hey i want bu tt sex especially if she is traditional. \nso take your time and move slow but make sure to find a how to on what you want but only one so that she can see what you might be into and you can see what she might be into.\nand a few tips on if you get what you want go SLOW. start small and careful so that she knows you care about her having fun too because you DO. if she likes it thats great i hope she enjoys it but if you go to fast or hurt her and dont pay attention to her comfort level you will not get anything new.
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Try compromising. One night you do what you want, the next you do what he wants.
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If it's a one time thing..."Not tonight boo.  I'm not in the mood, but I will make it up to you."  If it's something you're not feeling anymore at all, the two of you would need to have a long talk together or you would have to try to take the sex out of that relationship.
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so you are looking for balance ....\n\nplay games that require both to participate. \n\nAlso, when you get her almost to the point of orgasm, stop and let it calm down, then do it again, stop and let it calm, finally the third time let it go all the way.\n\nI have also been told that spontanious is a HUGE turn on.\n\nTry anything that sounds good, but remember they won't have fun if you aren't having fun too.
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Honey as long as it takes.\nSometimes you can do it all night.\nThere are no time limits on \nhaveing sex. Enjoy
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Nothing wrong with it.  Enjoy it while it lasts cause you will have times like that and times you won't want it.  Me and my wife are that way.  Sometimes I am the horny one then her and sometimes both at same time then sex daily is awesome thing.  Maybe try spicing things up with sexy lingerie and stuff.  Nothign is wrong with you just your body tell you it is in heat and wants to have sex
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Unfortunately, you know what you are missing because you've had so many multiple partners. Talk it over with your wife. Hopefully, you both can communicate with each other. When you go down on her ask her what she likes. Get her comfortable to acknowledge that it is ok to ask what feels good. Hopefully then, she will ask you. If not, be gentle and let her know what you like better. But, under no circumstances are you to bring up the other woman. Put them out of your mind. One of your primary goals in your marriage is to learn how to turn your wife into the most beautiful flower by the way that you love her. \n\nAlso, try some personal hygene. Make sure you have taken a good shower and your poop shoot don't reek of a sewer. Trim your hair and make sure your pole is slick as a whistle. Let her enjoy you because she wants to and not just becasue you want to gratify yourself.\n\nAs the golden rule says, "Do unto others as you wan them to do to you." Well, pucker up there good buddy, stick out your tongue, and show your wife how its done!