how do i get a guy to like me without changing?
352675
just be yourself. if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then he really doesn't like you. you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING different for ANYONE to like you. your you and if they cant except that then its there lost. don't change a thing!!!
74955
Easy, simply tell him that I think your are nice but it won't work out.  You are not the kind of man I am looking for.  Our chemistry is not compatible.  Don't just dodge him.. thats a teenage thing to do.  Be mature and tell him the truth.  He's still trying because you have not given him a CLEAR indication that you are not interested.  He still thinks he has a chance until you get to the point and be upfront withhim.  Men will keep trying until you tell them basically,  NO MEANS NO.\nBut please dont be rude to him.  If I were you, in the future, dont go on a date if you are not interested in the person.  Definately not 3 or 4 dates.  It lead him on.
10137
Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you, so-be-it.  There will be other guys out there who will like you for you.  Those are the ones that are going to mean something.\n\nThe ones that like you for you are the ones that will carry you through.\n\nNo matter how hard you try, if someone doesn't like you, they don't like you.\n\nWhen they like you, they like you.\n\nREMEMBER!  What's meant to be will always find a way!\n\nGood Luck!
59819
If he's not seeing anyone and he's not gay then I'm afraid to say the answer is show an interest in him.  If you show an interest then 90% of guys will be interested back I'm sorry to say.  We are just not that complex.  Of course thats not quite the same as getting him to like you but you could probably get a date and go from there.
498088
Just be your sweet self and you will find a guy who will like you for you. Don't ever try to be what he wants you to be... be who you are. If he cannot like you for you, then you don't need him. That's great that you have lost the weight, now you just need to find your self esteem. Join clubs, go out with your friends, volunteer - just get out there and meet new people and don't worry about finding The One. It always happens when you don't look.
1001473
Well u can't really get him to like u. All u can do is stalk him & hope he panics & gives in ( JUST KIDDING) the best thing to do is be honest. Ask him out..the worst that cud happen is that he'll say no. At least you'll know he's not interested instead of clinging to false hope and maybe even saying no to someone who might've made u happy. Sorry about the joke.. i know how it is to have feelings for a guy and u have no idea what to do.
46160
Don't change who you are just to impress a guy....cause it's not you then your pretending to be someone your not and that will stir up some problems. Just be you, and if you as atractive as you say you are they are prolly just intimidated =)
289457
The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
895305
you cant force him to like you
1108081
just tell him you like him...but dont ever change yourself just to impress someone...you are you and nobody can change that fact..be natural and if he cant see how great of a human being you are then he's better off alone..gud luck ya!
106640
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558999
How do you mean? Sounds like you've had some experience of this. Not all guys change dramatically. Take me for example, my best qualities have only improved gradually over time while my weaker ones have faded. Its a gradually change into become more confident in myself.
262809
Sit the guy down, explain to him that you're dating him because you like him.  So he doesn't have to be shy or try to make you like him... because... you already like him.\n\nGuys don't always realize this for some reason.
197969
Be yourself and if he likes you he will stick around. Be honest and respectful
912863
you can't FORCE him to like you.  If you keep at him about going past your friendship relationship you're going to end up losing that as well.\n\nIf you only want a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend...look elsewhere.  He's said no twice...that should be a pretty obvious answer as to how he feels about dating you!
274647
OK, the best answer is right here!! you don't get him to like you.the secret to this is to talk to him as just someone you have know en for a long time. think of that in your head. that way you are more comfortable. he will notice you if you talk about things that are common between you. talk about movies you saw and ask what he likes , talking is the most powerful way to build foundation for relationships. i like women that are int resting, and that take int rest in what I'm saying and still have there own opinion.everything that last, takes time to build.
779868
You don't!! You cant make a relationship by making him like you but you can see his interest and look interested if he likes you then he will some shy guys need an extra push..