I am in love with a girl who has a boyfriend.What should i do?
342294
This is simple.... STOP!  If it was love she would be w/ you and no other!  Also, remember how you get the girl is usually how you lose 'em! Good luck!
1132529
Well, how does she feel about that? What makes this situation tough is how does she feel about him as a boyfriend? If she really doesn't love him then yes move on but if she loves him and stays with him then she is selling herself short of happiness and no one should do that to oneself. She is just a piece of meat to him.
1065805
ok well me as being a girl if the same thing happened to me i would be a bit freaked out to.. you should probably try to write her a note and tell her that you understood she has a boyfriend and ask her on a date... if shes single then go for it... if that was me i would totally talk to you again
663811
I'm sorry that happen and I can tell u really feel this young lady. And I guess the upside is your still friends. But the reason u feel this way is because ur feelings were true and when u have deep feelings for someone it's hard to let go, she may only love u as a friend because of it was more you'd still be her boyfriend. But if u look at it from another point like the fact that she has a boyfriend and she's still telling you that she loves u, waht does that say about her? I'm sure her boyfriend doesn't know his girlfriend is telling her ec she still loves him.\n\nI have been dump( and I know it's not about me) but I know that it hurts, but I also know that it's no good to hurt too long over someone who dumps or end the relationship and they can move on so easily while the other mate is still hurting. She moved on to the next guy( it may not last) so it's time u move on too. U can continute to be a her friend but don't expect her to come back( even  if she does) be strong and just stay friends with her, because she hurt u once she could repeat it then you'll really feel bad. Move on to a girl who will love and care enough for u not to leave you  or hurt you, once u get out there and find the next girl who's waiting to meet u she will keep u so happy  you'll forget about your ex.. So get out there and meet someone else and get rid of anything that reminds u of her so u won't  stay idle on her.\n\nGood Luck
597996
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
1148573
NO it is not wrong to make a move.  Even if she has a boyfriend.  You should be honest with her and let her know how you feel about her.  It really wouldn't be a move, but letting her know that you have feelings.  If she doesn't like you the same way, she will let you know and you won't have to wonder anymore if it will ever happen.
534860
Simple, just relax and don't worry about your bf's friend. There's really nothing you can do to a girl who loves someone else. He'll think you're manipulative if you do something to make his friend lay off. They're just being friends. Plus, you said he didn't love her. It's going to be okay. And if he does love her, well maybe he loves you more. Don't let it bother you. =]
925544
Life is risk. I am in the same situation as you, except the girl I'm after has a boyfriend, but I'm going to tell her how I feel anyway. Stupid? Probably. But I don't want to look back in a few years and wonder 'what if'. You may lose a friend, and you may gain a girlfriend / boyfriend. Remember, fortune favours the bold. :)
108037
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
462985
If u r afraid that means u dont need her........if she has a boyfriend he wont du nuttin to u .......tell her....the time is ticking......u dont know what can happen in the next second or minute,,,,,,,time wont wait 4 u aii.....dont b afraid......go 4 wat u need in ur life.
378537
Well, obviously you need to make a choice.\n\nHave you and your current boyfriend really grown together that much if you can have the same feelings for another person almost immediately?\n\nIf not, perhaps you should talk to him about where your relationship is going.
803988
You should just go for it. It sounds like this girl really does like you, but can't let go of her boyfriend. Show her that there are better guys out there, like you. Flirt away. and have fun.
7010
well if in the five months that this has been going on it seems that you havent spent to much time with her and all of a sudden she wants to move in and has a boyfriend. RED FLAG, if you like chaos then go ahead.
310744
explain to her that her boyfriends heart is already broken because of what you two do together. It's unavoidable and if she is too imature to understand that she's not in love with you it's simply high school lust and we've all been there. You'll get over that too. In short, give her an ultimatum make her make a choice if her bf doesn't have a problem with you two going to prom than it's possible her bf is cheating on her too, or he already knows.\n\nSay for instance she does leave this guy and you two hook up are you ever gonna trust her? She cheated on him with you whats to say she won't cheat on you with somebody else? Nothing, it will eat at you and eat at you until it turns out to be true or your relationship ends. As far as I'm concerned she doesn't deserve you and needs some serious life experience to set her straight. \n\nfirst loves are hard and most say you will never get over them. I know I haven't but I can honestly say I found something a hell of a lot better than the games and bull s'hit that he played. If it's meant to be it'll happen, but the chances are slim.
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
295794
You don't.  If she's still with her boyfriend, she's probably not really into you.  You're just fooling yourself.
245827
If you like (love) her and she is with someone else than respect her for who she is with now and when she is available if you still feel that way she will notice you.\n\nIf this guy is as bad as you say she will see this sooner or later and it won't seem like you were trying to interfere if you don't get involved other than being there for her.\n\nAs for caring, you should care what happens if you really do love her.  Some lessons have to be learned for us to make better choices in life.