My wife is really sad right now. What nice things can I do to show her I love her and to cheer her up?
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That's a really nice post.  It's great that you are so caring.\n\nHow about cooking her a meal (or getting a nice meal delivered).  Candles, wine, a nice movie, perhaps a massage.  Get her some flowers or a card telling her why you love her (not just that you do but WHY, be specific and flattering).\n\nI hope she finds a nice job soon.  Good luck to both of you.
977713
gift card to her favorite shop, give her a few vanilla candles to burn while you two snuggle up to your vcr, a nice dinner out, If you are in a state near the ocean, take her there and buy saltwater taffy you can share, take you pic and put it in a nice frame for her. .. give her a small stuffed animal to sleep with when you aren't there. Give her your fave t-shirt to lounge in, Fill her car with gas, Get her a new dvd that she can watch just for fun,  a nice smelling massage oil or moisterizer for an awesome back or foot rub. GOOD LUCK!
186885
Hey thats terrible that she is upset on mothers day. Could you get her flowers and cook her a meal. Get out the family photos and sit down with box of chocotates. Go over all the funny things and have a great old laf and remember the good old days.  And most of all remind her that she is the best mother in the whole world
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There are lots of good things to do. Depends on the age.  From cleaning her room or making her bed, too making a small card  or her favorite meal.  \nSometimes just a call or a sisterly hand written note can do the trick.  \nYou can also dedicate a song to her on the radio if she likes music.  Or better yet, burn her a CD of all the songs that make you think of her.( For laughs, start with the song you two sang together as a child)\nIf all else fails, just tell her that you love her and have been thinking about her.
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
612807
Today is the day. Kind of late. So wash the car or clean some part of the house. Or just hug her neck, tell her you love her and thank her for all she has done for you.
258313
Make sure she knows how much she means to you.  If it's by a poem, card or letter.  That would melt me.  Take her out to a nice dinner and give her an anniversary ring.  Ive been married 6 years and would love one of those!
163181
Make her dinner... if you can't cook get take-out from her fave place and set out some candles.. (don't light the place on fire) play her rave song.. rent her fave movie.. and papmer her with a nice massage.. sounds good to me!
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Well thats gonna be hard without hurting her feelings but what i would do is buy some strong gum and eat some then when you guys are together offer her some. hopefully that will help :)
930836
more then anything she needs you to be there for her.  Maybe get her a journal so she can write down her feelings, it's better for people to get them out then to keep them bottled up.  My best friend loves Torrid too and I'm just getting her a gift card for there.  But again just be there for her, let her cry, vent whatever she needs to do.
489722
get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.
250425
YES!!! Be honest and tell her that you are only saying what you feel. Be supportive and help her -- maybe join a gym together, pick up a new pastime you can both do (biking, hiking, a new sport) or go for walks after dinner everynight.
61334
I have several ideas: \n\n- Redecorate her favorite room in the house\n- Take a very romantic trip, if you can't do it on or near Valentine's Day, then plan it with a concrete date and promise it to her. \n- If you are not extremely romantic normally, then go all out for V-Day. Rose petals, dinner, champagne, massage, bathe her.  Top the night off with feeding her grapes or strawberries (whatever her favorite fruit or snack is) and letting her control the rest of the evening.  You could also buy her some very sexy but not trashy lingerie and when you are done bathing her you can dress her. \n- Write a song or a poem (it does not have to be the next chart topper, it can be funny or whatever as long as it says what you are feeling) and have it delivered on V-Day! If you do this you should sent little hints throughout the whole day that say I love and appreciate you.  Send flowers to her job.  Make her lunch. (Don't buy it- make it yourself). \n- Capture your life as a couple with a video message with pictures and letters and other sentiments you have kept over the years. Include family and friends (people who can attest to how much you really love her!). \n\nThe idea is to show her that she is appreciated.  We know that you love us but sometimes we don't hear how much we are appreciated.  If you need her, tell her that, if you can't live without her, tell her that.  Just express yourself and say what is on your heart.  Take it from a woman who knows what she would like to see happen on V-Day on any other day of the year for that matter!  You can impress her in many different ways but it has to be something that a)she would not expect you to do and b) something that tells her you really care! \n\nI hope this helps! If you need more ideas you can e-mail me.  I wish you all the best.
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take her out to eat, open the doors for her, send her flowers for no reason at all. Put on the card, just because i love you. Fix her breakfast & bring it to her in the bed. When she comes in from work, have her a warm bubble bath with candles to light up the room and if she drinks, have her favorite drink waiting there for her. Go to the store and get a bag of rose petals and sprinkle them all over the sheets so when she pulls the covers back there they will be. Then give her a long rub down with some exotic oils & then snuggle up with her and if she's in the mood, make love to her. If that doesn't work, then your in deep trouble lol. Good luck
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No 'nice' ways anymore.  Brutal (but sensitive) honesty time.\n1.  Admit your fault in the situation.  You shouldn't have started things up if you knew you were going to get back together with your wife.\n2.  Tell her your side.  Marriage is a commitment and you aren't the kind of person who wants to get divorced and trivialize that commitment so you're doing everything you can... etc, etc.\n3.  Compliment her by reminding her she can find someone much better.\n4.  Let her say how she feels and respond without getting defensive.\n5.  Under no circumstances are you to use her as a 'in case it doesn't work out' friend.  That isn't fair and it's not right.\nGood luck.
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Something little to let her know that you love her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your wife/ girlfriend/ husband guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill his/ her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
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Plan a special evening, just the two of you. Perhaps dinner, movie a long drive or a walk in the park. Once you decide how the night has gone, and you know for sure how she feels and that she's really enjoyed the evening, then you can tell her. Start by saying something like, " there's been something I want to tell you I ...... \nOr something like that. I know, I watch to many mushy movies,\nOh well, I wish you much luck!