I MET A GuY ON THE NeT, AND HES REALLY COOL , BUT HE HAS DOUBTS ABOUT ME,?
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he's a liar, many people pretend to be what they aren't on the net, \nhe's probably a 400lb, bald, with no teeth 60 year old pervert\nHow can he doubt you if he doesn't know him\nUnlike me, i'm blue eyes, blond hair, 6'5" tall..they say i look like a taller Tom Cruise, wanna date\nhahahahha\n\ni'm sure he's not gay u fool
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he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
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Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.
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I DONT C Y NOT I WONDER WHO THIS GUY IS?  DOES HE KNOW WHAT U LOOK LIKE HAVE U SENT HIM A PIC OF U YET?  TAKE YOUR TIME AND LET THINGS FALL WHERE THAY MAY.  U NEVER KNOW, U MIGHT HAVE YOUR NIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOUR.  AND IF NOT AT LEAST U HAVE MET A GOOD FRIEND.   SOMEONE U CAN TALK TO ANYWAY.
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If you have doubts about it, then that probably means that your not ready to find "the one", and if you don't think that this guy is the right one yet, then he probably won't be.  There are so many other men out there and you have your whole life to find "the one", don't rush into things, it's not worth it to get hurt in the end.  You have to know that you can trust someone, have awesome communication, and respect for each other.  If you feel that you have these and your still having doubts, then maybe he's not right for you and you need to keep looking.\n\nGood luck!
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He seems to like you, but you better not play hard to get or any mindgames - sounds like he has other options.  If you want him, you'd better jump.
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awwhh hell no girl..first of all nebody u meet online could be dangerous..u cant trust them he could be a sex offender..dont do it just have fun online..ask 4 his if u really really wanna talk but otha then that 4get it.
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this guy may really do like you meaning that he understands you and he is interested in you but from a female to another you cant believe everything he tells u because dudes do lie now days for no reason. horrey_06@yahoo.com
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There is no machine by which u can check. Just try to listen and understand him carefully. If he share his things with you, he may be sincere. but there is no hard and fast rules for this.
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I've been in your situation.  I met this guy over the net, we exchanged pics, #'s and the such.  I called him first and we started talking.  I was a little scared to meet him, but once I did, we dated for over two years.  Funny how that happened....\n\n-daydreaming of the old days-\n\nAnyway you can't really start to like that person until you get to know a lot more about them.  Call them, talk first, then decide how you feel...or maybe you'd want to meet them...but now-a-days...it's a shot in the dark...people will lie about who they are...my case was one of the good ones...\n\nBest of luck to ya' buddy!\n\n:)
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you wont ever know if its really real or not.. i met my recent ex boyfriend off the internet we ended up moving in together having a beautiful baby together and the whole time he was online hooking up with women the same way he hooked up with me... so first just think if he picking up you on the net and talking to you that way on the net... think about how many other girls he doing that to too... although there are very few nice guys out there.. just be cautious.
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Definitely. You already know that you are able to talk to him and that's a big hurdle to have crossed in itself. I know that you would like to meet him. Please don't be afraid that you'll disappoint him because I know you won't. Did you know that he has fears too. Please don't let your fears hold you back from meeting new people. It's normal to be self-conscious about meeting someone new, but think about him, instead, and try to make him feel comfortable about meeting you. That's really what it's all about anyway. Being comfortable around someone is what will bring you together. If you were just beautiful and not comfortable to be with, your beauty isn't going to hold his interest very long. Having good self-esteem is very attractive to other people, since so many of our problems revolve around low self-esteem. Think positive thoughts about yourself and you will radiate. Reach out and shake his hand when you do meet him and make him feel  as though you've known each other a long time, remember he is the one that you've been talking to via emails. Say to yourself over and over what a wonderful person you are and what a good friend you are. Tell yourself that people love to be with you because you're such a caring individual. How could he not like you? Good luck. Let us know how it turns out.
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if he is as great as you describe, then hes really worth your trust.  ask him straight out.  because theres no future if theres not trust.
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possibly.  Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online.  Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too.  He could just be busy (like what he told you).
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I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
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"when i do find that guy that has all those qualities it either scares me or i dont believe the guy"\n\nYou HAVE to go for it when you meet someone like you just described!  He may be the wrong one.....  BUT!  He might be the right guy!  You HAVE to give him a try or you'll never find the perfect guy. \n\n...and don't be scared.  Just be yourself.  Then you'll know if he IS the guy, and he will know if you're the right girl.
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Hi, \nNot responding to you when he's online could mean any number of things: he was in the bathroom, on the phone, at work, or he forgot to sign out. \n\nThe answer is that it doesn't mean he's bored with you and the best thing for you to do is to ask yourself "what else does could this mean?" and come up with positive answers instead. It doesn't even matter why he didn't answer, what matters is your response. If he brings it up and says, "oh sorry I missed your IM because of _blank_", then you can honestly say "it's no biggie, i figured you must have forgotten to sign out". Responding positively says that you are confident and have a positive outlook. That is much more attractive than someone who responds first with negativity or insecurity. Those are traits which generally push other people away. Hope that helps.