What should I do if a guy that I went out with and was also my best friend quite talking to me?
341183
just ignore him he'll come back
109273
Just brake up with him because your friend probably said she didn't care if you to dated in the first place but she really did. Trust me my EX best friend dated my brother and now we now longer talk at all because she began choosing him over me and everybody else and remember bf come and go and true friends are forever. Do yourself and your friend a faver and stop it now before it ends up like we did and stopped being friends all together.
994542
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
766378
find out if you and him have anything in common from his best friend and talk about it.or if you hear him talking about some thing and you are interested in it also then you  could jump into the conversation.but rember not to be rude.say excuse me.
274609
That great my friend you have just started a wonderful relationship. What next:\nGo out with him
449837
option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
511423
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
476069
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
726771
Hey 'nanner'.\nIt's your best friend, you know, 'shayla'. Haha we're on the phone.\n\nWhat I think you should do....\nTalk to him and see what he says about the situation, and then try to decipher if hes lieing or not. Find out from someone you trust that's friends with him, and ask him what he's said. If you can't find anyone, maybe..... just maybe, you might have to move on. But for now, try to trust him to the best of your ability. We will get through this.
727948
Maybe you should talk to him and express how you feel about the way he treating you, other than that maybe he wants space and have a GUY time with his friend
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
806113
I think you should just continue to talk to him as usual, until he responds, cause, if he feels the same way, he will go for it. If he doesn't feel the same, at least you took the brave step of talking to him like normal, y'know? And your friends were rude and inconsiderate to tell him about your feelings. They shouldn't have done something like that out of thrill and excitement, just to see what happens next. I bet they're watching you both reacting right now like a hawk, with popcorns in hand. Set it straight with them, and I hope they will apologize to you. Good luck!
600681
If you guys still have a friendship then go for it. Just hang out with him and see what happens, that is what I plan on doing with mine too.
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
270277
he asked me if my best friend was dating anyone and when we broke up would I be mad if he went out with her. I told him that she was seeing someone (for 5 months) because she was and then i broke up with him because there are so many other guys out there i can be with that wont say that to me!!!!!