what should i do for my mom brithday?
342118
really plan the day well. firstly you can make her breakfast in bed, then you can maybe take her out to watch amovie, or do her favourite hobby together whatever it maybe walking in the park, reading together, cycling, then maybe you could do something the both of you can experience for the first time so it will really be memorable, maybe a rollercoaster ride, bunjee jumping, hiking a hill, skiing, and buy her a present that simple and touching. that i cant suggest for you bcoz it has to come from the heart. lasly have dinner together and sleep together or stay up the night and chat about anything that you feel comfortable sharing or just plain girl things. hope it turns out well and remember whatever you plan to do nothing is actually worth it if you dont do it with love. so to complete it all, the most crucial thing is to tell her how much you love her and appreciate her okay. hope i helped, good luck to you!!
570108
art you make yourself.  since you aren't spending money, spend time.  she'll love you either way - she's your mom.
196461
Tell her you're in love and that you think this is what's right for you. Be an adult about it and show her that you're serious about it. She's your mother, she'll understand in time, but it will probably be big shock at first.
1007718
Give her something that will remind her of how much you care. Make it personal. Make her a coupon book for when she gets out of the hospital. Figure out what she liked to do and also what she should be able to do when she gets out. If she's able to walk, make one thats good for a long walk in the park... and so on.
199535
Try to find out what makes her, happy, sad, angry, and relaxed. When you find out these things, then you'll know what to and not to do to press her buttons. People usually say try talking to herr, but if your mother isn't the talking type, write a letter, but try not to sound so dogmatic in the letter. Let her know how you feel, but in a respectful way.  Parents always try to say that we as young adults, we lack respect because we feel like we're practically grown, so make sure you give her the upmost respect, even you maynot think she deserves it at times, because as the bible says "Honor your Father and Mother, that way it may go well with you, and you may have length days upon the earth"
1037801
I'm sorry but their isn't much u can do.Just show your mom you love and support her and help keep track of whether or not she is taking her meds.If she does go in the hospital just stay in touch with her as much as you can.
509703
Try getting your mom out of the dumps..\nThink of something she likes to do and you wouldn't mind doing..Go somewhere together..hang out with friends and family..You make her happy, you'll be happy.\nGood luck!
781117
I already bought a present for my dad this christmas and Im planning to buy my mom's present soon! I suggest you buy a book for your dad, dads love to read! Get him a book that interests him. My dad is into science and tech so I got him a book on that. \n\nFor your mom, you can give her a spa treat or bath and body sets. You can also buy her favourite perfume for her. \n\nI hope I helped and good luck!
855528
The best gift you could give her is your time, a shoulder\nto lean on, a ear to listen and love her.  No object could \nbe as personal and those things she can take with her and\nyou can keep those memories in your heart forever.  Keep a journal and ask questions about her life that only she can answer and one day that journal will mean so much to you.  I am sorry to hear about your Mom, my Mom died August 2005.
357974
The best thing you can do is spend time with your mother to show that you care about her. Even though she might have done things to you that make you upset.\n\nDeep down we truly love our mothers so we should show it by giving spending quality time together. Whether or not we are rich or poor.\n\n\n(So that's what I plan on doing)
977310
im sorry =(    best wishes to your mom... i dont think theres much you can do besides provide her comfort and let her know your there for her.
389632
It is so sweet that you want to spend more time with your mom. I wish my kids would spend more time with me. Does she have any certain interests? Does she like garage sales? I spend alot of my time with one of my daughters going to them. Does she like going to the park? Take her out on a picnic? You would get to spend alot of time talking to her. Lots of times they have trails to walk on and I think your mother would enjoy that. Go out for ice cream and sit indoors and just talk. Take her to the mall. Does she like games? Play cards or dominoes or board games like monopoly and sorry etc.? When playing games you have a lot of time to talk to each other. Is your mother busy with work or have to much to do at home? If so, help her with the cooking,washing dishes,laundry. Then she would have more time to spend with you. Hope it happens!
404008
Let your mom know that you'd like to spend quality time with her.  She really might not know that you feel neglected.  Talk to her--and to the evil sister.
25343
Obviously, I don't know all the legits about your situation with your mother, however sending a card never hurt. I believe that you should send your mother a card. If she still doesn't like you, at least you know that you tried.
1002043
First of all, I'd emphasize the fact that you love her and that you're only discussing this with her because you don't want to lose her.  If you still live with her, be a good model and go for walks, drink diet sodas instead of regular, and perhaps offer to cook dinners.  Is your mom alone often?  She may be lonely or bored, so maybe the two of you could do some activities together like dance class, yoga class, aerobics, or swimming.  You don't have to stick with something that turns out boring, so find your niche.  As for the smoking, perhaps having her talk to her doctor would help.  There's actually a medication called Zyban that helps a lot with the depression and cravings people get when they try to quit but it's prescription only.  Also, if she's alone, cooking for one can be annoying.  Help her find some easy but healthy recipes so that she doesn't feel like she's wasting time.  Good luck!
1087499
Talk to her...first you need to be honest with yourself if you your usually a bad kid, acknowledge that and tell her how much it hurts you to see you dissapoint her and therefore want help to change. If your whine alot and complain about the world, and claim everything is everyone else fault (which if you are your probably like nope...not me =)) lol, but if she says you are talk to her about the future and how you're maturing and realized that you have to take control and except responsibilities. If your a pretty decent kid though but I guess she doesn't like your BF I honestly think you should listen to her reasons why whether you think she "knows him", if thier superficial reasons like he's not your race or too poor or some bull like that then your mom's an @-- (sry to say) but therefore has no more credibilty on her opinions of people. If it's because your BF is too old, a dog, something like that, your mom has wisdom and experience and trust me she IS right. I don't really know what you n your mom's problem is so I tried touching on random things, hopefully some of thoserandom thing's hit you and it helped, thanks and I hope you and your mom works things out, a girl no matter how old, can never live without her mother =)
834982
Don't beat yourself up over this. You mother understands how busy you are. Of course she loves you and wants you to visit, do your best, have them over for dinner once in a while. Invite them to the kids sporting events. If they can't attend. Take lots of pictures and stick them in a card and mail them off to them. It would be a nice surprise in their mailbox.  It's the little things that you do that will ensure your mom that you love her too.  Wish I could have been more help but this is what I do with my own mother and it seems to work well for us.