does annal sex hurt really bad?
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Well, yes and no.  If you are properly prepared, then the pain shoud be minimal or nonexistent, but its ALWAYS gonna hurt the very first time.  Those sphincters are being stretched to a whole new extent.  Just think of how your body feels when you try a new exercise and hyperextend a muscle... its the same concept. There are ways to make it easier, though.  Experiment with various sizes of marital aids first and "work up" to the size that's right for you.
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not more painful but close to it. very uncomfy. good luck. the pain killers were good though!
170776
Only if the sex is bad
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There will be come pain for the woman (sorry not sure if you are the guy or girl), the best thing you can do to minimize the pain is foreplay. the more the better. the more relaxed and turned on the girl is, the less it will hurt.  go slow...it will be okay. \n\nThe amount of blood varies on different people. when i lost my virginity there was maybe about a teaspoon of blood on the sheet. \n\nNeed more help email me allyalexmch@yahoo.com
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OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
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SO sad No one answered you question.......Well I do i have it and Althought it has it's side affect  it's not really that bad....... It will hurt at first but then it'll Go away...... after words But then It's like it's not even there and u never have to worry about using a condom (of course only if u have one partner) if not then becarefull with STD's.................
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Ha..ha..ha..ha..ha!\nWhat a question Kim? I'm sorry to laugh, it's just that you don't usually ask questions like this one. Anyway, wherever your (not you exactly) desires drive you to, surely you'll find joy there. Anything will be painfull until you get used to it, and then pain becomes joy. Normal sexual intercourse is painful at or shortly after loosing virginity, but once you get used to it, nothing else matters in the world except sex. The same principle applies to anal sex. Those who engage in it will surely experience extreme pain first, but once they get used to it, they will completely forget if the vagina has ever existed.
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YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
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Sex feels good AND it hurts! If its really good, the pain is almost unnoticable. It depends on alot of things too how much it will hurt and/or feel good including - - your personal lubrication, his size, position, if your are relaxed or tense, position (can't stress that too much)
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Ya. Too much of everything is bad and so is sex. So watch it out before your pleasure turns to be a havoc,
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It doesn't always hurt, but it did for me. You really just need to relax, and use a little bit of lubricant to make it easier to slide in there. Also, take some ibuprofen before to help with the pain you might have.
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yes it is when u dont have sex for a while u get tighter and when u do have it again and u go rough or realy fast it can rip u and casue bad pain
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Experienced with various sizes..You get a different kind of orgazism.   Intense organism..I like it but it can hurt...try extra lubrication...my husband, of course, likes it but I feel a little soar the next day...By the way thanks for anwsering one of my questions.  Peace Out!!!
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It will only hurt a little bit. Don't worry and just relax because you will have to get pelvic exams every year.\nMillions of women go for pelvic exams every year for the first time, and it is uncomfortable but it will be over very quickly. You can tell your Ob/Gyn your concerns and she/he will definitely be very gentle with you.
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There is not a lot of info out there regarding what can happen after surgery.  You might search out a doctor who is comfortable talking about these issues.  Here is some info I found:\n\nAnal sex shouldn't hurt. Having hemorrhoids can make anal sex painful. People who find anal sex painful often do not use enough water-based lube; others are not relaxed or aroused enough. Using lots of lube — which makes anal (and vaginal) sex more slippery and wet — can increase pleasure for both you and your partner. Relaxation will also minimize or prevent the possibility of tearing the thin lining of the rectum, and make insertion easier and more comfortable. Some people relax by taking a warm bath; others begin with a massage, starting with the butt and inner thighs, then gently playing in and around the anal sphincter with a finger. As the sensations become more comfortable and pleasurable, some people experiment by placing more fingers inside the anus. Others might progress to a small sex toy, or be ready to be penetrated by a larger toy, or even a penis. Communication with your partner about what feels good and how you want to be touched is essential for enjoyable anal play.\n\nAlthough you can have anal sex when you have hemorrhoids, it's better to wait until they've healed. Friction and pressure from penetration can cause further irritation, discomfort, and pain. In addition, hemorrhoids that bleed may place you at increased risk for HIV infection, since the HIV virus can be transmitted more easily through an open "cut" or "wound." Whenever you have anal sex — if you have hemorrhoids or not — it's safer to use condoms and lube if you don't know your partner's HIV status.  http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1925.html?CFID=277115&CFTOKEN=97076474\nI am a woman who recently experienced my first hemorrhoids. They were painful, revolting and extremely embarrassing. Sitting in the stirrups while my doctor treated them was humiliating enough -- I couldn't bear to ask her this question: how long should I wait before I have anal sex? PAIN IN THE... \n\nAgain with the ass and me calling doctors! The Hassle Free Clinic says you can proceed with anal sex "when you feel comfortable," but use plenty of lube and take it slow. \n\nSome invasive surgery in the genital/anal area takes about six weeks to heal completely, but a hemorrhoidectomy, according to Heidi at Dr. Stubbs' office, may take only a week, depending on the severity of your condition and whether the procedure is done at a hospital or clinic. Looks like you'll be riding that red-eye flight again in no time. \nPick up a copy of the book Anal Pleasure and Health, by Jack Morin. Morin offers a seven-step program on hemorrhoid self-healing -- in case you have to deal with this again. http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_05.17.01/columns/lovebites.html
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OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
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however much you and your partner can handle. Just be considerate of how your partner is feeling also. stuff down there can get sensitive and it would start to hurt.  just don't overdue it