is it worth to trust somebody even that he hurt you in the past?  (to boyfriend)?
338130
No. If you love yourself then don't trust him again.\nHe did it once. He could do it again.\nIf you're smart enough, Don't fall for the same trick twice.
779022
Well, if he already cheated on you once, there is a possible that he could be doing it once again. But you never know, sometimes that is not the case. Well, also, it's ok for you to have lost the trust that you had in him because of what he did. I think that you can either wait and see if more things are weird or you can talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication and honesty is the best thing in a relationship and maybe that will work. About being concerned, I think you should be if he is trying to go on with that plot. (Which I really doubt). I think that you need to keep calm unless you see more wrong things but still be cautious.
1067570
If he doesn't trust you,you shouldn't be with him.A relationship with out trust is doomed from the get go.
491967
Sorry angel,  You will never know if he will do it again, how did you find out the 1st time? I mean did he tell you or did you find out? was it 1 time or 100 times? If he cheated then he would lie about how many times he cheated. You are the only person that can determine if you can trust him again or not. You have to decide weather the relationship is worth the worrying or not worth it and find someone to be with that you can trust.  good luck  god bless
100620
I guess you have to ask yourself this. There are many degrees of trust you bestow on someone. How much trust or degree of trust are you willing to give that someone? Why do you have to trust someone so much that it hurts if they turn on you? I think it's just that you're a loyal person and in exchange expect the same from everyone else. Maybe it's time you look at trust as a courtesy you can give but not to  expect from your family or friends. Give trust to your soul mate. Your one and only TRUSTworthy person on earth!
835761
I was suspicious of my ex... and he was a cheater.. which is why he is my ex  :)   Go with your gut feelings.. and if you can't trust someone, you shouldn't be with them. It will never work if there isn't honesty in the relationship and you will drive yourself crazy worrying about what he is doing..good luck.
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
395080
Trust is what keeps relationship rolling!\nU may start wondering, DO U TRUST HIM? DO U TRUST YoURSELF? DO U STILL BELIVE THAT u 2 CAN WORKOUT TOGETHER???? And only than, if U belive, \nask him a qestion, look him strait in the eyes, and U'll see, TRUTH or LIE, but U'll just know...
1025360
well i could say that he is using you or i could say he is not.. but when it comes down to it you know him best i'm not sure how long you've been with him but you need to write down the pro's or cons of your relationship.. is he worth you getting hurt... i mean one way or another your gonna feel pain whether your with him or your not the question is do you like yourself better with or without him?
429387
its not about trust if he dont trust u then u would have left its just a feelings of his care , and yea in one way u can say its a distrust but there is someother possibility , its hard to make that guy the culprit without knowing him , but for me ,its his love for u and about him it may be like that he had something to discuss or like that , there is possibility also , but without being sure u should give ur judgement , ask him discuss with hi mand then know the cause and then decide what is it , and what u should do
770203
just explain to him that your trust for him is minimal, you can only help him out if he promises not to hurt you again, explain to him how you felt back then and maybe you will both be able to move on and have a great relationship. good luck xx
194816
Time is the only way to really know someone.  Each of us have a different persona we portray in the early days of a relationship.  That doesn't necessarily mean a person is fake; it may be their lives just aren't an open book.  There are some things better left out until a relationship blossoms.  As far as trusting someone who has cheated on you not once, but twice????  The trust has been broken there, babe, and I don't recommend you giving it back.  Move on and find someone who values loyalty the same way you do.  Good Luck!
99749
Sounds like the two of you don't trust each other and don't trust yourselves. When I was young, I was terribly jealous because my self-esteen was low. I didn't seem to believe that I was worth loving, so I would cling too tightly to boyfriends and friends. Thankfully, I matured and realized how foolish it is to be jealous.\n\nIf you love and trust your boyfriend and if you're not just hanging onto him because you don't believe that you are worth loving, then let him go with his friends, even if the ex is there. \n\nIf he does do anything to destroy your trust, then he's not worth being with anyway. Find someone else who is. The reverse is true for you as well. You aren't looking to cheat on your boyfriend, right? Then he needs to trust you, too. If you do cheat on him, then that's not fair to him. He is deserving of someone trustworthy, too.\n\nJealousy can destroy relationships. I've seen it happen. Lighten up on each other. See where your trust can take you.
354095
If you chose to go out with him that is your choice. However know that you might get hurt. Go into it knowing what your expectations are and let him know and do not expect more out of him then you think you can handle.\nI think it would be much easier to be with someone you can trust though that is just my opinion
1081130
Relax!  Just because he did something in the past that was a mistake doesn't mean he is going to do it to you.  He was honest with you and explained it to you - you don't have a reason to worry.
857797
If you have decided to stay and forgive him then you need to put it in the past and carry on. It sounds like he is trying to regain your trust by doing the right thing. You say you forgave him, so give him a chance to prove himself to you. If you can't get past it, then it will never work. You can't keep bringing up the past forever. You need to decide if you will ever really be able to move forward. If not, then let him go.
904340
yea!but this is a real hard thing to decide because how does your gf or bf no that this will never happen again but it also depends on how long you 2 have been in relationship So it has to do with how much trust was in the relationnshp if you are the person who cheated you should not let your bf or gf find out from another person that only makes things worse so if you like/love this person as much as you think you do then you will have enough respect for them to come to them and tell them that you know you were wrong and you promise it wont happen again and long as you are faithful from that day on you are guaranteed a good relationship.