i'm in love with a guy who's 24 ,but i'm only 14.He's my neighbour and friend with my parents.what should i do
352554
You can't get him. I know it's not the answer you wanted to hear. But if his girlfriend is always with him they most likely have a wonderful relationship. You need to find someone more you age. No 24 year old guy is going to date a 14 year old. No matter how smart or beautiful they may seem. Unless they are really sick and shouldn't be allowed to be around little girls, like yourself, then you don't want them anyway. So unfortuanatly, you need to give up. Find someone at school that you can see yourself with. Your young and you don't have to find someone you want to be with right now. Wait a couple years to even start dating. You'll be glad later, if you do. I PROMISE.
321736
How do you know he is 25?  That is just a little old for you don't you think?  How can you be in love with someone when you have never met him?  You know he could be a 50 year old fat pervert.  Don't ever trust someones identity on the Internet!  I wish I had your phone number so I could call your parents.  Do you have any idea how many young girl's are raped and murdered by men they have met on the Internet and then meet in person?  I'm sorry, but I fear for your safety and I hope you never try to meet this person or tell him where you live.
1140762
Love has no bounds... age is not a concern if the girl will also love you... now the question is how to know that the girl loves you... simple... go and ask her..  the more you will delay, the more hard it will be for saying... it may also be too late... cos she is 24 i guess and many of the guys might already be approaching her.... \ndon't delay buddy... if she is the girl you always wanted in your life.... tell her... thats the only way out...no other go...... \nwhether it is love or not.... well.... you already explained that it is love and not infactuation..... you did so much of her background study... welll.. it has to be love only dude.....
569888
i was in that same situation he was the world to me but you have to be able to decide if you love him or if you with him just because hes older and can make you experiance  thing that you havent felt befor and the more people tell you you shouldnt be with him the more that you want to be with him for the thril its more exciting doing something you know your not supposed to be doing. take care of your self and respect youself and your parents and talk to them to see if you can come up with an agreement best of luck to you .
572356
you are only 19,just because he does'nt want you moving in does not mean that he is not in love.you have only been togeather for 8 months it's far to early,just carry on doing what you are doing and not tell your parents,and why do your parents not like him?.it can be done i was only with my partner for 8 months and 12 year on were still togeather,but im only one of the lucky few as not very often you hear relationships would survive that.
705614
I too have a preference for older men and have been there. First off don't be offended when your family starts in with the what does he want someone so young for. Most occasions when an older man is interested in someone so young it is because there is something wrong with him. That being said there are some relationships that do work out becuase both are really in love and only time will tell this. I suggest that you tell your parents that you know that there is high percentage of varying age difference relationship problems and the two of you love each other and discuss the topic often and want to do your best to work through that and feel it is worth it. More than likely you will get oposition concerning this but don't get angry. There is reasons for their concern and respect that. There does have to be a point though after your family has met him and he has proven time again that he does love you that you need to take a stand and say that's enough he has proven that he loves me regardless of my age and his only negative aspects are normal and I can live with them so I suggest everybody else to just accept my relationship and get over their expectations of me finding someone your own age because it's not going to happen.\n\nOn the other hand if their fears eventually get confirmed then don't be so hard on yourself. We never see it for ourselves until it is too late and going through what ever you may go through could have ended up being a wonderful relationship but you wouldn't have known unless you tried.
1099058
First of all, 20 is not the correct age to fall in love. Okay man, you feel it is love. But think from your parents side, what they think? They might be of the feeling that your's is not love but just attraction/infatuation/sexual attraction, likewise. My advice is that you try your best to avoid that girl for a week, and then you decide whether it is love or lust ! About your parents problem, you can have a cool talk with them without any strings. But I personally suggest you try the one week avoiding option and then decide and talk with your parents. Good Luck.
58319
There is truthfully a one in a million chance that he actually loves you. Just cause of your age. Don't let your lonliness blind you. Just be careful! I hope it does work out though. True love isn't something to can find everyday!
321371
It really depends on how old you are. If you are say, 22, and he is older than you are then, no, I don't think that the age difference is that big of a deal. If he is the younger one you should be at least 32 for the age differencet to be okay. One question, do his and your parents know the age difference? Are they okay with it? If not, find their reasons behind thinking that way. But, if the reasons are unreasonable based then don't worry about it. Overall, as long as you aren't illegal, I'd say that it is alright.
505235
well you didnt give your age, but either way, if your parents are against him, then they have their reasons, and they also know best ( i know i know, i never believed it either , but believe me its true ) find someone better, you can do it.. good luck
247176
Honey you are 14 and your whole life ahead of you. Tell him\nyou want to be friends ONLY! If his feelings are true and strong enough he will wait till your older. You need to find you before something happens you can't undo. Good Luck.
894745
IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT WRONG!!! 1 year is NOTHING. It is much more about how you 2 connect with eachother than how close you are in years.  I once had a thing with a guy 2.5 yrs younger than me, and we are still great friends, cuz he was an absolutely AMAZING person, and was super cute, and quite frankly was more mature than most guys my age. Guys the same age as me were always pressuring me to do things I didn't want to, but since I was older than him, this boy was SO respectful of me and my decisions and feelings. And what a sweetheart... as you can see, I could talk for hours.  Obviously dating a guy like 5 years younger than you is kinda weird, but just a few years is NO reason to hide feelings for a guy. If he treats you well, who cares how old he is? And if you're worried about being made fun of, then DON'T! YOU like him, and it's YOUR business. End of story. Best of luck with him! <3
996191
your 14. you are too young to be t.o.t.a.l.l.y. committed to any guy. there is no problem with being inseperable. just make sure that you both have enough time to do other things and that you arent hurt when the other makes plans without you. you are bf/gf, not related. make sure your friends and his friends have no problem with this as well.\n\ngood luck with him! he sounds special :)
842398
He is much to young for you, physically but mostly emotionally.  There is a vast difference of experiences and it is very unlikely that this relationship would work own.  Don't hurt yourself and your parents by making the wrong choice, as much as your heart is leading you astray right now. Good luck.
399644
Life is confusing at 14. It's confusing at a lot of other ages too. Just look at all of the different answers you have and you will see what I mean. Here's my best advice.\n\nWrite your friend who moved and tell him that when you told him that you loved him it was true, but your love for him is a friend's love, not a romantic love. Tell him that his friendship is important and that you love having him as a friend, but the romance is not there for you. \n\nFind some ways to be around the new shy guy. It's ok to be shy at 14 - for guys and girls. If you get into some of the same activities you will have some chances to find out if there is a spark between you. Be patient. If you are both shy it may take some time. At 14, it's ok to use friends to pass along the message that you might be interested in getting to know him better. That can work pretty well sometimes.\n\nI like that it matters to you how your friend feels and that you are honest about your fears and feelings. That makes you a lot more special than some of the people who have answered you. I hope it goes great for you and that this works out just perfect for you. Good luck.
941129
Sounds like the typical Romeo and Juliet story. You are 17, and if you are love this man and you and him talk about having a future together, make it known to your parents. They dont have to like him, but they really should accept him and your decision to be with him. Is he a bad boy or something? Does he get you to do bad things? You are almost 18, which means you will be considered independent and can always move out of their house. Just keep in mind that they are your parents and you should always respect them and love them no matter what happens with your boyfriend. DO NOT give up having a relationship w/your parents however for this boy if it comes to it. Trust me, you will realize that will be the biggest mistake of your life! Good luck!\n\n-EA
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )