i have been talking with a friend from work  should i ask her out?
339325
If you ask her, she'll probably say no BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU!! Sounds like she's reeling you in slowly, showing interest in you, but then showing interest in thers to make you doubtful and keep you interested. Try being freinds for a while first, and let the relationship grow from there.
735354
If you bhave already asked someone...and she is looking forward to it you should take your friend from home.  Explain the situation to your girlfriend, Im sure if you are open and honest about it she will understand.
321983
Go ahead and ask her out. Anyways, she is your friend. You have nothing to lose!
767861
First, does it seem like something she would consider?  If so, then go for it man.... otherwise you'll just be wondering what could have happened, and maybe be hurt if she finds someone else.
1099485
I think you should talk to her about your feelings and if she is free and willing to try things again, then there you go there is a good opertunity to ask her out. But she may just be content as friends I would not tell her you are in love with her though. It could make things worse.
104536
You have your answer, but don't want to admit it.  Save your dignity & move on.  If she's interested, she'll seek you out.
609209
maybe you should start out by ASKING HER
59571
Rock and a hard spot there aren't you? So you have a crush and a friendship and a co-worker all wrapped up into one.  How much have you actually learned about her? Other than what movies and food she likes?\nWhen you are having dinner is it general conversation that you could talk to your buddy about? Or does it go into what simular interest and goals you have? How sure are you of the hints she gives, or is she just a very caring individual who think of you like a brother who gets where she is coming from, enjoys doting on as the maintaing friendships side and meanwhile enjoys the attention you are giving her.  \n\nThe last thing you want to be to her is someone she needs to "save" from your own situations to make you comfortable, it sounds like you are a "fun non judgmental release" for her to ease her "very busy life" as you say. \n\nYou need to test it without being a set up? Resolve that SHE IS YOUR FRIEND and she wants you to be happy, so begin seeking out other people and give yourself room to breathe before you end up in a panic attack. Ask her advice about dating, and see what kind of responses you get, at least then you will know what her rules are for being on a date date or just being out with a friend.
107252
Maybe a little strong, but it seems like you did not scare her away.  Do you see her other than when she is working?  That would probably be the best time to approach her again.\n\nIf you have to approach her at work, try to find a time when the restraunt is not busy.  Also I would recommend something low-key as a get-to-know you rather than a date.  Also try to give her an easy out.  Something like stopping by one afternoon and asking if she would like to get coffee or something like that after work.
527109
It's probably better that she's out of the office, as office relationships can be a sticky situation.  Consider this your opportunity - go for it!  Call her up.  What are you waiting for???
983295
dont ask her that will seem weird ask someone else who you work with
609258
i havent but my friend has i could ask her for you
973555
ya it really sound like she likes you. .ye seem to get on great and it seems she enjoys spending time with you. also friendship is the start to the best relationships.. so go for it and good luck
670081
she might, i would maybe ask her questions like that, and unless you don't want to go out with her if she does, don't string her along, or you could also ask a friend of hers. or just ask her directly, think of "what would you do if you are in her position?"
722624
I'd be upfront and ask her abou this other person. It also depends I guess on what your intentions are towards this woman.
351561
i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
415053
I'm afraid it will raise some questions in her mind about you being interested. Are you? Why would you want to know?\nIf she doesn't want to be more than friends she can always say yea she has a bf or just broke up with him or whatever. I guess that question is a good way to test the waters. If she says "nooo, whyyyy?" then you got her  sweetie.