Someone I work with surfs lots of pornographic web sites. Should I tell his wife and kids?
338623
Yea, really there's no point... best case scenario (for him) his wife knows about the porn and doesn't care... so nothing accomplished...\n\nWorst case scenario... his wife is uptight and they have a big fight and she leaves him to go be another single mom raising kids... and you'd have to live with the fact that the kids had to grow up without a dad because you had to interfere with someone else's life...\n\nHe's not hurting anyone with the porn... if you really don't like the guy... find some way to embarrass him at work with it, but let him keep his home life out of it...
1103718
depends on the type of person you are...me, personally, i would keep it to myself...but others may feel the need to express it in order to deal with it...if my wife did cheat on me, yahoo would be the last place you'ld see me discussing it
826439
Probably not.\n\nYou should at least tell your friends and family if you want some site publicity.  You can also submit it (free) to all the major search engines.
382737
My work is very lax about this, so I can surf around. I think most everyone will tolerate a little bit of non-work related browsing, but it is true, you should limit it. I would generally use my co-workers as a reference point to know exactly how much is ok.
162489
this may seem little to you but in reality it is a big issue. if i were you i would make a police report about it, this is an invasion of your privacy and if they are watching your every move then, they are crazy and you need to tell the police and relocate. Clearly his motives are not of good nature.
479055
Oh you are toooooo kind!\n\nI would not stop at just telling their spouse....*smile*. \n\nget a photograph of the fornicators together and mass produce it...slip it into the bulletin at church...not as much fun embarrassing a man as it would be for a woman i wouldn't think..but yeah..i would be irrational!\n\nyes..i would definitely tell the other spouse...she is at risk for a disease from a cheating spouse. and so are you...who says that this is the first affair either of them have had?\n\nget yourself checked for std's.
326270
Porn?  Oh, god.  Say you're kidding!  That makes him the worst kind of perv ever!  When I read your question, I was thinking pedophilia or bestiality or hookers or something like that, but never in my worst nightmares would I have imagined that a grown man might be watching porn.  I think you should report him the the sex offender office of the FBI.  The number is (202) 324-3000.  That is the headquarters in DC.  They will probably refer you to the local field office so they can arrest your dad.  Hope your stepdad turns out to be a nice Christian like the President.
278454
If your gnutella client has fooled you into sharing everything on your computer, and depending on the content of your computer, it is nothing to find out insane amounts of info on people.\n\nI am not saying that I agree in the invasion of people's pivacy, even if it is legal.
46236
Of course you are 18 years old or above, either way you should stay away from porn of all sorts. It only leads to corruption; however a good program is "Window Washer" to cover your tracks. Also you would want to put an "Hidden" attribute on your folder then go to tools, folder options, view then click on do not show hidden or system files and hope your family does not know anything about computers.\n\nFind Jesus my man.
977195
Perhaps she knows that about you and was trying to shock you....She should be embarrassed but if she is getting those pictures and then sharing them she obviously doesn't have the good sense to know how wrong she is...If I were you, I would just steer clear of her and not give her the opportunity to offend you again....I'm not sure that I would be offended....I would just think she is troubled and stay away from her....There is nothing wrong with being conservative and finding porn offensive...
1119493
NO.  You can sue for information like that.  It is medical history and it is deemed confidential.  I would hope he would have told your wife if he has the STD's.  If he willing gave STD' to anyone without disclosing it.  He could be brought in for assault with a deadly weapon.  No puns here.  Should talk to her about this.
1103882
Have any users who are viewing adult content delete the history each time they sign off.  Or don't look at porn on the same computer your kids use.
969124
i would do what he asks and then take pictures and post them on the internet.......or to his family. Sounds kinda creepy,only if your not into it. If you are into it......then take pictures and put them in your photo album
324746
Not really. All that you can do is ensure that there is nothing publicly available for your employer to discover. For example, be very aware that if you have a Blog, post on popular message boards, or have ever used the Usenet, that your employer can, and likely will read what you've posted there.\n\nAs someone who has hired others, you'd be surprised at what personal stuff people actually encourage you to look at. I had one person who sent in her "Gothic Fetish" website as an example for the position of writing for a children's magazine.\n\nNote that your private information is basically off limits to an employer, and that your employer can not choose not to hire you due to age, gender, race or religion.
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I have to tell you that it isn't "doing" anything.... it can only effect a person if they choose to watch it... I can promise you that I can get through and entire day and never once "have" to look at porn just because it's on the net. Take some responsibility for your own actions and avoid it if you find it offensive, that's what most people do. And for your information if we allow the government the right to censor what we are allowed to see and read, sites like this will be banned... you have to take the good with the bad... you can't have your cake and eat it too.
643132
sounds like you should spend some time with your wife instead of on the internet
525819
ya its absolutely fine wit not to disclose their names but i would rather suggest that if they dont hav kids then all six of u sould clarify the matter among yourself!but they hav children it would rather be better to get away to some other places so that they donot meet again in future!its necessary to do so for sake of their children!\nand as so concerned for their luv time will teach evrything!