what do i do if my girl is seemingly pushing me away?
340920
tell her how much you love her... tell her that you wouldn't do anything to hurt her... try talking to her friend and try working things out... maybe you'll get along and you would be able to keep your girl! :)
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
1010281
well in a way it's a good thing that you're avoiding her..but dont like shut her out completely. once she realizes that you've moved on,she'll probably start to miss you. you know? hah,i sound a lil silly,but i guess what you're doing is okay. give her a call,see if she's in a talkative mood. you can tell if she doesn't wanna talk if theres awkward silences,or if she comes up with a lame excuse to get off the phone. : ]
1063167
just walk away when she acts that way \nbecause of her hormones she loves you too they all act that way sometimes so be patient with her and, give a little space.
863128
It could be that she just doesn't know how to react to you. She may be afraid that if she's nice to you, you might take it as an invitation. Let her know that you wont try to "convert" her. \n Or it's also possible she likes you and is afraid to show how she really feels. You should just say "Look, what's your trip?" If she trys to give you attitude just tell her "I just want to talk and find out why you seem so afraid to communicate with me. I'm not hitting on you. I just want to know what's up with you lately."\nIt could also be peer pressure. She may like you but doesn't want to be thought of as your "girlfriend" by the rest of the school. If that's the case she just needs to grow up. She's not worth the effort until she does.\nGood luck babe. Talk to her if she'll talk. If not leave her be and move on.
864204
She seems just as confused about you as you are about her. It seems as if she's almost trying to push you out of her life. Give her a taste of her own medicine; don't contact her as often as usual, and give the cold shoulder when she tries to joke around. If she really likes you, she'll keep trying to get to you. If she doesn't, nothing will change, and you'll find that your life without her is much easier.
762319
dont force it.....you gotta be smooth, try and grab her hand...but make it look like an accident, not too obvious of an accident, but say it was accident if she pulls away, if she doesnt, hold her hand and look her in the eyes, only try this once......you dont want her to think your desperate
933544
Give her some time.  The more pressure you put on her to date you the more likely she is to stop talking to you.  You obviously really like this girl, so you need to do what is best for her.  If she says she doesn't want to date you at the moment, you need to respect that.  The reason she got so angry with you is probably because she feels akward about the situation and is trying to back away from it.  She may want a boyfriend, but she doesn't want it to be you.  Lay off for a while, it may come later.  If she can't see herself with you, you can't change her mind by asking her why, why, why?.  You need to give her the freedom to do as she wishes and hopefully she'll realize that she has had a great guy right in front of her.  \n\nTreat her as a friend because that is what she is.  Stop trying to force something.  I'm sure you've heard the saying "you always want what you can't have"?  If she gets jelous about you and other girls she needs to know that you are not going to wait around for her forever.  Get out into the social scene.  Even if you're not looking for someone else, the fact that your not sitting at home crying about her will get her attention.  I know it sounds funny but playing hard to get really does work.  She may just need to see you as an independent person and not a love-sick puppy dog.  \n\nGood luck, you sound like a really great guy.  If you don't end up with her it just wasn't meant to be.
686596
She made her feelings clear.\nYou didn't want to hear it, but she is not leading you around.\nListen to her!\nBe content you still have her company on some basis and if it gets impossible, go away.
134653
It is hard to move on but if she does not want to be with you anymore then you can't make her stay. Maybe your accusations pushed her away or maybe she just was not ready and thinks that she may need some time. Whatever her reason, do not push the issue! If you worry her then that will only push her away! There is nothing worse that someone hounding you. Just let her know that you do love her and that you are sorry that things have turned out the way that they have and let her know that you will always be there for her if she needs you. Leave it at that! If you want her back then live your life, don't mope after her. I personally know how hard it is to lose the one that you love but once I started going on with my life he wanted to get back together so he then seen how it felt to be "on the other side of the fence".
725213
She now realizes you like her and she is not interested.  Instead of saying no or go away, she's just ignoring you to give you a hint; which your not getting. \n\nAgain, just be yourself and move on; maybe in the future she will come around but for now she's not interested in you.
718990
All you can do is stand by and watch for now.  If she still wants to get back with you then she will need to make the first move.  That way it will save you many problems with the other guy.
142755
Give her space.\n\nGood luck.
799380
Nope, don't give up. Maybe, she is just "scare" about being with you.\nTry harder.
1083573
You don't need assistance... you need patience. You're having amazing moments, she likes you, she shows affection for you in public, what's not to like? Give her some breathing space. Why are you in such a hurry? If you pressure her you'll lose her. If you lose her, then someone with patience and who knows how to show appreciation for what he has (someone like me) will get her. So if you don't want me to steal her heart away from you, learn to be patient.
458841
Just ignore it. She sounds like she's really not moved on. If she had she wouldn't be thinking about you and making silly calls.
540609
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.