i have been dating this guy for 2years now,but since then he has never asked me for sex. is this okey?
344685
I think I owuld be slightly worried by that to be honest, he's either very unconfident about his body and manlyhood or is a closet homosexual.... talk to him about it!
270568
depends how long u been together. if over a year and a half or more, he wants to get married probably. if u only been dating for days/weeks/months its probably just sex.
422430
Give him a chance. 2 years is not a big difference at all, and as time goes by you will decide if he is right for you or not. It sounds like you like him, as well. In a couple years you do not want to be wondering "what if I said yes to that guy." He seems to want to take it slow and that is definately a good thing and a sign that he really takes your wishes and wellbeing into heart. Guys like that are not common at all.
684201
he may just be saying that,cause he doesnt want to hurt your feelings, he might not like you, reality, most 18 year olds arent interested in 14 year olds, alot of guys that age are into older, more experienced woman. 2 years is a long time to wait for someone, do you really think that you or him will actually wait that long for one another?i wouldnt put myself on hold for 2 years on a guy that i wasnt 100% sure that i was gonna be with, have fun, go out with friends and get to know guys your age and you might just find someone you like more than this 18 year old
1171898
No.  It is actually refreshing that women are willing to initiate.\nEither he does not have the same level of sex drive as you, or he thinks your bad in bed and finds having sex with you a chore.\n\nGet creative.  Find out what the problem is.
668520
If he hasn't asked then he's prob just having respect for you and your past and doesn't want to invade. He prob feels it's up to you if you choose to one day tell him. If he tells you that he isn't interested then don't be offended, after all the past is in the past and why is there a need to tell him about it. He's interested in what's going on in the present and not what happened in the past. Don't think to much of it.
465864
If you aren't ready, DON'T DO IT!  You'll regret it, trust me.  And honestly, sex doesn't make a relationship, so if you're boyfriend is begging you, he only wants you for sex, not the relationship.  A real man (one you deserve) will wait forever if he has to.  Tell your man to shape up or ship out!  Don't give in just because your guy has no self-control.  That's his problem, not yours.
200138
Couldn't you just take it for what it is and just be?  Sometimes people have differences in when you two began dating.  You might think when it was the first date and got interested in him.  He might think from when he first kissed you or nailed you in the sack.  Hmm... 2 months for a first kiss is tough to say, unless you were not seeing him that often (like once a month).  I'm thinking maybe the latter...
276686
please be more clear . . . when you ask for sex (speaking of you) . . . he says that he has a headache.\n\nOr is it the reverse.
171693
My first thought is, thank goodness he is honest about this. Secondly there have surely been signs that he has not been as serious as you have been. After 2 years it should have got past liking you into something much deeper. Sounds like he has led you on. Take off your rose colored glasses and see what is really there. Why did you stay? Did you set yourself up for a no win situation because you don't think your worthy of anything else? You are, but you need to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else. A good relationship has good communication so there would be no surprises after 2 years. Let him go, work on yourself and then and only then will you be ready for more. You will also be more picky, more accurate in your choices.
8123
It is not a matter of hurting his feelings or not.  You should learn to express yours.  If you feel that he is using you just for sex and not trying to build a lasting relationship, tell him that.  It sounds like you might be ready for some kind of relationship, but you find that he is not.  Perhaps this will help you in the future.  Sex should be more than just a good feeling.  It is also something which strengthens the bond of a relationship.
585105
it sounds like he has excitement when in the bedroom but it's a good thing for you. Just tell him how you like it. but he is the only one who actually knows if he had sex before you or not. I would think that he's been waiting for you and now he has you so he can't help himselve and goes faster and longer. i wish you the best of luck. i think it would be best to get a guys point of view because they would now.
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
312938
Guys are really hard to understand.  Maybe he just want some one on one time with you or maybe he just want sex.  My parents were really strict and when I was in college I had my first boyfriend.  His name was Kenneth.  He was my age but he was a senior in high school and I was a college freshman.  We both lived with our  parents.  Throughout our entire year of dating, we never were alone.  I swear to God, we were never alone anywhere together.  There was always my parents, my cousins, my sister, his family, or his friends.  We lived within walking distance of each other.  Niether one of us had a car or could drive.  It was frustating to him because he wanted to have sex but I didn't care because we were both virgins and I wasn't going there.  After a year of dating he ended up breaking up with me for that very frustrating reason.  We are still friends 12 years later.  When I ask him why we broke up then, he always tells me he was a horny little teenager and I wasn't trying to hear it.  So I'm sure that might have something to do with it.  If so, leave him alone.  You're probably about 16 anyways and don't need to be around a guy alone.  I appreciate my parents strict rules.  Remember, your parents always want the best for you.
1178976
His problem is that he cannot be honest with you, he wants sex, if you don't give it to him he'll probably leave you.  After you give it to him, he'll probably leave you anyway, so unless YOU want to have sex with him, let him go.
401906
I was in teh same boat kinda of I started dating a girl who was almost 10 yrs younger. There were times that I just wanted to stay home and be by myself. It had nothing to do with her. She and I lived in different states and saw each other about every month. I moved down here for her things went awry we broke up. I distanced myself from everything and did not want to be bothered I waited a year before I ever dated again. regardless of skin color it should not matter if he loves you truly. I doubt he is using you just for sex. Talk to him or his friends was he hurt in a past rleationship? I hope this can help you out
116357
he could be a really nice guy and like you for who you are. I didn't have  sex with mt girlfriend or pressure her for 2 months. some guys think sex is a more serious thing and want to wait for the right moment.