I am 30 and my son is 17 how can I prevent him from sleeping with whores?
353754
So...you were thirteen when you had him then...\n\nWinding up again!
541126
Talk to a parent !!!!!  There might be sick or very dangerous people reading this.\n\nDon't talk about sex with strangers - ever !
521467
You just talk about it openly. You don't need to disclose what you do behind closed doors. He probably all ready knows more about sex than you would like. No parent likes the idea that their kid could be having sex, but make it OK for him to have a condom with him. It's better to protect than to loose him to Aids or to be a parent before he is ready. If he asks a question be straight forward and if you aren't sure of the answer you should give make an effort to get it for him. This subject is not an easy one for discussion, but you'll do just fine.
272237
I hope this is not the same "friend" of 8 months that is yelling at your son!!! Stop that shyt!! Don't allow any man or woman to abuse you son. You are his first everything\n---his 1st teacher\n---his 1st ADVOCATE\n---his 1st experience with life\nStop putting these men in front of your happiness and your son's well-being. If that muthaf*$@#ka was yelli\nng at my 19 month old I'd catch a case. You better stand up for your son. I understand you want adult male companionship and you deserve "me" time. Taking care of a child is not easy, but he must be number one in your life. And stop having him around the dude you are f@#$kin'.  You wouldn't want your son to grow up to abuse women or worse get abused by women b/c he saw you being abused and your self-esteem get whittled away to nothing. I can only offer this advice b/c I've been there. My son is 13 and has only seen me with 3 men. Granted there have been more in my life, but I refuse to bring all of them around my man-child. Children WATCH more than they LISTEN> Even though your son is only 19 months he can still feel you, just like he did when he was in your stomach. The bond between you and your son is stronger than any bond you can make with a man. That baby is the closet thing to heaven you can get on earth. Cherish him and these years. He's exploring and should not be made to feel that his learning process is less important than some man.
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Sorry to say this -- but LET HIS REAR END SIT IN THE JAIL CELL and ROT ... \n\nThat is the ONLY way he is going to GROW UP ... and if YOU or others continue to cover up and enable his abuses (and he is NOT held responsible for his conduct), then he will NEVER grow Up!\n\nYOU need to be strong -- and say NO!  NO! I will NOT post your bond.  NO! I will NOT cover up for you anymore.  NO! I will NOT pay your bills.  NO! I will NOT pay for your attorney fees.  NO! I will NOT take the cost of the Phone Calls you make from Jail pleading and cursing at me for the Bond money/  \n\nNO!  YOU, my son, are on your OWN -- and YOU will be RESPONSIBLE from this time forth.  YOU totalled the car, YOU destroyed Privat Property, and you do Drugs.  \n\nDO THE TIME NOW ... and get yourself clean.  The pocketbook is dry, no more will I be the VICTIM here, and no more will I enable your irresponsible conduct.
967609
Speaking as a Dad with a daughter about your age I have to tell you that I would worry about it... Boys his age have very strong sexual urges... If your mom finds out that you have had sex with him after he turns age 18 then he will get arrested for statutory rape and will go to jail.  That will most likely ruin any chances of him ever having a normal life with a good paying job... \n\nAlso, there is a big difference in mental age between 14 and 17... He may already be driving and is starting to find his way in the world... If he goes to college you can be sure that he will find a college girl because there is so much freedom to do what you want on a college campus and more social situations will come up... Do you think that he will want to show off his 15 year old girlfriend to his college buddies?  Don't bet on it!\n\nHave patience.. Stick to someone your own age (or no boyfriend at all... just friends who happen to be boys).... when you are in college a 3 year difference in age won't seem that bad but at 14 there is a world of difference.\n\nYou may not like my answer but you did say that anyone with an opinion can answer...  Good Luck!
433067
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
1147868
My mom asked me the same question when my Dad introduced me to his "Women of the Month" at the age of 5. That's life now, unfortunatley.  Just keep reminding him that you and your ex-husband both love him dearly. Other than that you can't do anything about it.
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First off, you are tired.\n\nMasterbation is easy , less active and gets the job done the right way.\n\nthat being said, you have 2 children under 3.\n\nEven if your a stay at home mom its exhausting. all the running around and lack of sleep.\n\nPlus you associate his penis with pregnancy, and that is off limits now.\n\nInitially it was exciting to think you could have his baby, and pregnancy was a fun idea, and now you know that pregnancy ends with a baby and that is no longer FUN its work.\n\nAnd if you had a ruff delivery, and alot of tearing down there, sometimes they just don't sew up the snatch correctly and it hurts, or if you tear at the top, \n\nbut personally for me its the hormones, mommy hormones\nfirst we breast feed, and it takes at least 6 months after breast feeding to enjoy sex. cause your homone levels are up.\n\nso its a dual problem physical and emotional.\n\nOk so here is what you do to fix it.\n\nGet yourself some help, if your hubby doesn't do it then get a friend, your mom, sister whoever.\n\nBut you gotta give the man his sex. you know that right?\n\nGo out to the dollar store and the sex store and pick up some goodies. Candles, and a vibrator. and anal play devices.\n\nmusic , chocolate coverd strawberries, champagne, and whipped cream.\n\nNow wait til friday night, kids are away, and he has no idea,\nget comfortable with the idea.\n\nWatch porn, and pull a julia roberts in pretty woman.\n\nYou need to stop masterbating so often, cause you aren't saving it for him, if you want to masterbate during sex then fine but not before.\n\ntrust me you will get it back but it takes time and if you stop masterbating you'll start enjoying his touch again.\n\nRoll playing can help, talk dirty and tell him what to say to turn you on.\n\nAnd make sure he is licky licky before he sticky sticky's\n\nand if not then tell him to enter from behind and masterbate while he does his thing,.\n\nif this doesn't work email me for more pointers.\n\nGood luck \n\nMeg\nkovasmomma@yahoo.com
203237
Yep, get a marriage counselor.  I mean, getting into the relationship you knew ahead of time he was 17 years older and that there would come a time when your sex drives differed from each other.  This should have been taken into consideration from the start.  Just be sure to look inside yourself and find the true reason you are having issues.  Don't lie to yourself and say that you "are getting distant and there is no more sex" when part of the reason very well could be the fact that you want a man your age.
926552
Ignore him first off, no 22 year old has any business chatting with a 14 year old online. There are a lot of perverts and molesters out there that just "itch" for a chance to get ahold of someone underage. America's Most Wanted did a whole show on a sting of these types. Tell your parents, and if nned be let them call the authorities. \n\nFirst off, and very important, IGNORE HIM. Don't feed him anymore with replies.
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No, don't involve the boys father that smacks of punishment.  Look, sex is going to happen, and is probably already happening, (would you admit to your mom that you're having sex at 15).  But try as hard as you might he is only I would say a year or so early going to the non-virgin party.  I would have a conversation with him about the risks of sex, and make sure he is using protection, because try as you might you cannot control what he does 24x7 and if he is having sex, or has a girl who is willling to have sex... there isn't anything you can do to stop it... All you can do is be a parent for him and help him to make a smart decision about how to have sex.  The time for teaching him somthing is past, all you can do now is be a guide for him, and show him the proper path, and hope he takes it.  Good luck my dear, and I hope this helps.
179553
Tell your mom.  If you don't he may start forcing you to have sex with you.  This is not a safe thing for you.  If you can't talk to your mom about this, talk to someone else that you can trust.
1075358
you need to be more specific on the sleep with him part because that sounds real sick. if you mean sexual encounters you need to call the police and tell your mom and if you mean sleep in the same bed then you still need to tell your mom your uncomfortable and tell her why and if she dont care tella school counselor or call child protective services and tell them. you have rights to be protected from stuff like that.
569023
Sounds like you need to examine your own lifestyle. All this bed hopping hasn't exactly worked, has it? Think it through. Your son has been through a lot, granted. But WHY has he been placed in that position? Take control of your life and learn from your mistakes.
121789
Tell him that his kids need him. Statistics show that children with father figures in their life are far less likely to become criminals then those without. If all else fails find a better man
709402
Just inform him that you and he are too juvenile to start dating or having amorous relationships. You ought to concentrate on your studies more and learn to spell along with getting your thoughts across so others can effortlessly comprehend what you are talking about as an alternative to spending time on here without parental supervision. Just look at your question, there are 22 spelling mistakes out of 121 words.▲