Why am I attracted to men in their 30's?
338007
it's because of the way we treat you!  You want someone a bit more mature then here we are.  You are at the perfect age when a guy in his mid 30's still feels young when he is with someone at your age
374137
Im 27yrs old, and divroced for almost 7mos, the ex messed aorund on me, since I started dating one of the things I have relized is that girls are attracted more to older guys, most of the girls I have dated have been 19-25 not to make myself sound like a man whore or anything, but I think Im more attracted to the younger girls because they tend to want ot have more fun, and make me feel younger when Im with them. Its not about the sex.
864706
HEY COM ON I AM 43 YEARS OLD AND I LOOK AS GOOD AS YOU GIRLS THAT ARE IN YOUR TWENTIES SO MAYBE THAT WHAT THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE IN US 40 SOMETHINGS . AND MAYBE ANOTHER REASON IS BECAUSE US WOMAN IN OUR 40'S HAVE IT ALL TOGETHER WE KNOW WHO AND WHAT WE WANT .....LOL
942186
I was atrracted 2 a man 33 yrs. older than me. I luv older men.
1012237
dude, when I was 26 I dated a 36 and 37 year old within a 6 month timeframe, and it was the best time I ever had.  unlike 25 year old girls, they were so much more comfortable with themselves, their sexuality, and what they want.  they didn't play games at all and they were so much fun to hang out with!\n\nin terms of how to get them?  I didn't do anything special, I would say try not to be too eager.  you may want to approach them, but do it in an easy going style.  women in their mid to late thirties are entering their sexual prime like we were when we were 18 (im 34 now and married).\n\na women in her 30's is more interested in confidence, maturity, being layed back yet fun and having interests, and just being a nice guy . . . .. as opposed to a girl in her 20's who is more interested in looks, cockiness and whether the guy ismarriage material or not . . . good luck!
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
398094
HAHAHAHAHAH....that was funny,,,its because ur getting older and u know sooner or later these chiks will be out of ur legue.u always get attractive towards what u cant have that easily.its human nature.
320875
You know the wrong men.  OR you are very young, & you need to worry about making yourself right while the guys your age grow up.\n\nMy husband desires my companionship & my love first, my body last.  If you want to attract men who will love you for YOU, first of all, dress the part.  If you value yourself for who you are & not what you look like, and you'll attract men who do, too.  If you are one of those young girls who flaunts her body because she thinks she has nothing else to offer -- you will only meet men who want your body.\n\nIf you dislike your body & you are shy because of this, you won't be attractive to anyone.  Work on yourself, love yourself, work on your confidence -- and you'll find a guy who values YOU.  Men love confidence!\n\nPut down those fashion mags & make yourself the best you can be.
761581
When it comes to relationships we should not look at other people as being on the same level that we are - below us or above us. The way you talk about yourself -you seem to be an attractive person.  You talk about your breast size as being less  then an A size cup.. As far as the older guy that you mentioned goes he may just find you attractive and like you as well. He may notice your great personality.  If he is single flirt with him more. Maybe the younger guys turn you off because they lack maturity. They can sense that you are too grown up for their silly games. Get out and enjoy your life. There are men outside of the work place.
467607
Age is just a number when you become a mature adult... at that time it doesn't matter how old 30...40...50...60... A good looking man is just that....HOT!!
1137127
I think after 35 the question of age is irrelevant.\n\nWhat's attractive to me now, as a 44 year old man...has changed very little in 20 years: it's simply taken on a mature definition.\n - Where I used to find slim girls attractive...now...I enjoy a sense of physical fitness...\n - I used to find brilliant white teeth a turn on...now I'm happy with good oral hygiene AND NO fake CAPS.\n - I've always loved long straight hair...still do - I just find that now...it doesn't bother me if it has a little gray.\n - I used to love a "smarty pants" ... now I like a woman with education.\n\nWhat becomes important is companionship, communication, quality sex, and personal growth. At 56, if I find a 36 year old hottie that shares thes things with me...I'd marry her in a heart beat.\n\n\nbest of luck and love.
411598
The same things any woman of any age would look for. It depends on the woman. Some want love, desire and a friend in their mate, others are looking not for Mr. Right, but Mr. Right Now and a good time. I am not in my thirties, but I have seen that women of all ages have different drives and needs, so it depends on the person.
77872
The libido of both sexes differs. Men usually have their peak at the mating season at the age of adolescence and dwindles at middle age. Whereas women, have their peak later than men and continue until their 40s. This is a normal feeling for you and if you're lucky you can still find a sexually active man your age --- they never dissapear only change their preferences :-)
323410
I myself am not inclined to date a guy more then a year or two younger then me. The stereotype says that young men are immature and while it does have it's truth I think it's more about life experience and I couldn't handle a guy that not on my level. I am not saying relationships with large age gaps don't work, just that I would pass on that scene. On the flip side women are sometimes attracted to older men, again that whole stereotype that older men are more mature. For one that's not always true and in most cases older guys looking for younger women are just using them for sex and half of those guys are still married. I guess what I am trying to say is they have to much baggage. They have been screwed over by too many other women generally and so again not that those relationships don't work out but I have no intention on venturing there either.
657165
well to be honest, im a sucker for older guys.. 1st, because they know how to handle relationships well, 2nd because they look so hot and not that boyish boy-next-door who ould cry with just a dog bite. and 3rd, theres something with older men whom i love, well maybe because they can really protect me and give me anything that could make me happy like hotsex.. they are more open and experienced on where to hit the right spot which i love. and its a turn-on for me if a guy is older than me. anyway im 19 and i once have a relationship with a 33 year old guy. lol.. its really good. \n\ndid i answer your question well? good.. \n\nmwaaaahhh!!!\n\n\nrock my worl baby..
475892
I find older men very sexy  I am 25 and I would consider going out with someone thats up to 40.  It just seems they have a presence to them and they are more sexually appealling
940484
why do guys your age have a thing for older women