my ex have a gurl but he says dat he still care for me and he don't want to loose me what should i do ?
337673
Oh hunny.  Kick his @$$ to the curb!  The dirtbag wants to have his cake and eat it too.  You deserve SO much better than some wishy washy loser!\n\nDo this:\n\nTake a shower.\n\nGet dressed.  \n\nGo to the hair dresser and get a new hair style.  \n\nGo over to the Estee Lauder counter for a makeover.  Budget $60.00 and buy one of the great Estee Lauder moisturizers for your face, you deserve it.\n\nGet a manicure and a pedicure (no polish though).\n\nCall 5-10 of your best friends and have a potluck sleep over and do each other's nails.\n\nGrab 4 Chick Flick comedies and make TONS of popcorn.\n\nNo booze though, it just makes things worse.\n\nHug each other often and laugh until your sides hurt.\n\nKeep this in mind, your girlfriends are your support team.  When you all get together like that you all remember why you are friends and that no matter how bad things get, you always have each other!\n\nBlessed Be "Little Sister",\n\nSunshine\n\n=====================\n\nP.S.  To the insensitive jerks regarding "speak english and use spell check"... Bite off!  She is hurting deeply and she did the best she could to communicate how she is feeling.  I am and English Major and I took the time to read what she had to say patiently.  If you can't be bothered to do that then maybe you should not have answered her question!
17364
The fact he his your ex tells you that it would be in your best intrest not to concern yourself with wheather or not he has moved on and move on yourself. Once you start careing about yourself you'll find someone who will also care about you! Let your ex move on I'm sure it would be for the best.
485764
I should hope you are very secure in your relationship, and if so then his hangin with them is not the issue.  If you have some concern for him hooking back up with her (which would be stupid) then you should let him go.  He was smart enough to leave her, can't imagine that he would find anything she does attractive.  You are the better woman and if he does not know how you feel (since you said you don't want to stop him?) then how can things change? The ball is in your court.  Good Luck!!
580842
If he is telling other women that your two are broke up, then he is trying to do something with them.  You have your own answer right there.  He is a cheater and he is willing to cheat with one of your friends.  Get someone who respects you and your feelings and leave the trash to the bitchesss.  good luck, you deserve better than that!!!
360904
just forget about your ex. she broke up with her man and now wants you!! dude, you are worth more than that. Maybe you should give yourself a break from the gf drama and just date this girl or just be friends for now. Time is good for yourself right now cause it is obvious you still have feelings about your ex and this is not fair to you or the new chick. It is called rebound. Give yourself a break dude, even you deserve the best so take time to heal.
728741
you no what mate, it happened to me to, but if you both still care for each other and h does like you say he does, then he would talk to you about this, or maybe he just wants to have the both of you, sometimes man cant really say what they wish to say as it's hard for them, but if he wont leave her, then maybe he dont love you the way he did when you were both together, i no it's hard but you will find another man, when you decide its time to move on, take care good luck mate
555568
let him go. he is with someone else now.\nif he wanted you, he would be with you, not her.\nthe truth hurts sometimes.
392693
Dear, west girl\n\nI really believe if he really wanted to be with you he would leave her and be with you. He might say he loves you but he don't cause if he did he would not be with her he would be with you all the time.Don't put yourself through all the hurt of taking him back all the time and then getting hurt again by him leaving you again. Its ok to still love him , but who have to go on and quit being hurt by someone who obviously hun does not love you and is going back and forth between two women. I hope you do the right thing hun
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
406642
He has lowered his standards because he has lost a woman of your caliber. He knows he can't hold on to a woman as good as you. Maybe he will see the error of his ways and come crawling back and it will be your turn to make him feel bad. He is still trying to hurt you and he needed a comparison between you and his new bimbo. You are better than that and you know it. So does he. Stay strong lady. There is someone out there who will treat you right and love you for who and what you are. You don't need him and the pain he causes.
657654
Obviously they are not over yet. If you love him, set him free. He needs to be reminded of why she is his ex. Give him some time.\n\nYou will not have trust now. You cannot have love without trust. Love is action. His actions do not show love.\n\nI know people make mistakes, but this sounds like the beginning of a bad relationship. Free him now before it gets out of hand.
863977
He sounds like a duetschbag to me. Just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that's going to see multiple women. Notice how he ducked out of things when you asked how he felt and obviously tried to move the relationship a little further. He's a snake. Find someone else. As for the girl, There's nothing you can really do about it. Just move on, find different people to be around.
406801
Sorry dear...but it seems you've already lost him...it sounds as if he has moved on with out you and he's waiting for you to just hit the road...\nDon't fall into the category of "girls that stick to *ssholes"...I'm sure you deserve alot better...if that is true then move on and get yourself another hottie!
190424
its just either he still likes you or he still cares for you a whole lot and you should feel good about that. at least you have someone whos there to watch your back.\n\ntalk to him and get things settled...\n\nGood Luck and Enjoy!!!
305338
I know it may feel like you reallly care about him, but let him go. if hes gonna have a girl the whole time then hes not worth your time! be strong and dont let him pull you down...play hard to get and completely blow him off...works everytime..he'll be calling you, WANTING YOU BACK!
932337
He's not trying to make you jealous.  You're already jealous.  It's not your place to tell him anything about his girlfriend.  First of all, you don't even know if those rumors are true.  I know that you want something to be wrong with their relationship because you still like him.  You asked this question earlier and you didn't get the answers that you were looking for.  So you asked it again hoping that someone will make it okay for you to sweat your ex. The fact to the matter is...Your ex is in a relationship and there is nothing you can do about it.  Stop allowing your ex to flirt with you because it is only making matters worst for you.  When he flirts with you remember he has a girlfriend.  You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too.\n\nMove on and find someone else.  This relationship is over.  Don't jump on his back  for rides it only makes you look easy.  He will think that he doesn't have to get back with you because you are acting easy.  Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? The only person that is getting hurt is you.  I bet he's on the phone right now with his girlfriend so move on.
942812
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.