Getting married but I'm love with someone else?
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
706352
I think that's a comon feeling.  You're in a rush to "start" your life and that usually includes a husband and kids. Try not to rush it because after you get married to the wrong person you'll realize how silly it was to think that way. 50% of us marry the "wrong" person. We have to be happy as ourselves before being happy w/ others. Suppose it never happens? You need to fulfill your dreams.
726414
Don't do it.  You are both adamant on the opposite ends of a very fundamental thing.  If you get married, one of you is going to have to give in and will be resentful and bitter because you did.\n\nSomehow, I don't think anyone could say anything to you at this point to keep you from marrying this "perfect" person, making this advice all the more regretful to give you, but if you'll think for a moment with your brain and not your heart, you know I'm right.
1164449
Everyone remembers the One. You got married to someone eals so im sure that you love him too. the heart is a crule thing it has no limmit on the amount of love it has. the heart always makes more. So yes it is verry easy to love two people. You have to decide if your marrige is worth keeping. If it is then dont worry about the strong feeling for the other man. It will be hard but it will get better.
162794
Are you really in love with him or the fact that you can talk to him?  Remember, what exists online is a unique enviroment where we all feel protected to some degree.  In the real world the level of comunication between you and this other person will probably not be the same.  Plus there is so much more to being in love with someone and having a relationship.  If your married still then do you really want to risk what you have for something that may not exists?  If your not married, then go slow and get to know this person gradually outside of just chatting because its not just your life but your kids life that you have to be concerned about.
621933
Hun, you like me,got married for the wrong reason,the love was not really there , but it was for the child you had together, to legitimate her, it happens a lot , but most of all as you and I have found out, it's harder to stay , you have to be happy for you and your little lady, and I would say to find a new love and move on, don't leave you two in a bad situation, there is, as they say, true happiness out there for all.  God bless  and good luck Follow your heart.
64783
i do..But now i'm married with someone else.Still i'm in love with the first.(checked married&divorced yesterday)
1079842
when u get married depends on how ready you are and if you ahve met the right one.. will you be in love with that person when u marry them? it better be the reason you marry them otherwise, what's the point??
868268
Of course your fiancee will be hurt, who wouldn't?  Don't stay with someone and marry them if you're not absolutely certain.  You're just putting your happiness on the backburner for someone else - and you don't need that either.  It's never too late to call anything off - even if you're walking down the aisle already.  You haven't said "I DO" yet.  Unless you want to end up another divorce statistic, I'd say call it off.  Marriage can be very rewarding and wonderful if you find the right person and I think that's what you should do (find Mr. Right, not settle for Mr. Right Now)
601587
Why would anyone ever propose to someone when they do not know if the other person loves them?\n\nThat is getting a bit ahead of the natural flow of things,and marriage is NOT dating so wait until you KNOW it is right.
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
663853
I think you need to listen to your heart and make a decision. Don't stay married if you aren't TRUELY happy, it isn't worth it. Take some time to just think without any outside distractions. :)
329428
Is it similar to a wedding ceremony? If so then just go by that. If it is different you could still use one of them. I think that is really nice.
1112747
the guy i've been dating for the past 3 months i think is my soulmate. We can talk about anything and everything w/o worrying what we are saying to each other. We are both very stubborn but when it comes to arguments neither of us leaves w/o resolving the conflict. I've never felt this way about any other person and he has once but that was b/c the other chick was good in bed. We haven't slept together, and yet he's already talked to his immediate family about a wedding in the next 5-7 years. I wouldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
475998
Please don't take this the wrong way, but why are you getting married?  Getting married should mean you've found the one person you don't want to wake up another day without.  It sounds like your heart isn't sure.  When you've found the right one to marry, he'll fulfill all your wants and needs. It sounds like you may not have found that 'one'.  I'm not saying your fiance isn't a great man, but if he doesn't have your whole heart, and mind, and all your passion, it seems hurtful to marry him.  I wish you the best, and pray that you'll put a lot of thought into your marriage since your action will affect a lot of people.
567195
I can't answer that. I'm getting married this sept because I know in my heart that I don't want to be without his guy.  think it over, imagine your life during the holidays, or down the road 10 years. Do you still want to be with this person? Imagine having kids...do you want to have children with this person? That's the only think I can tell you. Just feel it, you will know. Truthfully, I was crying when I realized how much I loved my guy, he was too. Its that compelling.
1165282
ya. mine's is a love marriage and we are going great. it's not always succes. lets hope for the best to happen in others life too. it is not always a bed of roses. u have to face lot obstacles. if ur completely in love with each other then nothing can stop u to become one and can lead a very happy life. dont take love for granted, it's really a god's gift which all cannot enjoy. there is a lot of difference between love and infatuation. so dont mistook between love and infatuation. i wish u all the best if ur in love with someone and wants to marry. go for it and enjoy  a happy life.