how do i tell a girl im a lesbian and im interested in her?
337803
I totally can answer you. But not on the internet. Email me!
827412
Ouch : ( Are you sure she is straight? she could of been hurt from you rejecting her. You need to tell her that you did have feelings for her when she came out to you, but you weren't mentally ready to deal with these feelings/emotions yet. You need to emphasise that you understand it may have been a phase for her, and just showing her the decency of telling her how you actually feel. By you already telling her i am sure she has started to think back when she did like you and what attracted her to you. I don't think she has lost her forever, you never will you to are good friends. But you need to also understand she will be emotionally and mentally a mess, because she had strong feelings for you and you burned her so she properly has compressed those feelings until how you told her how you feel. And i am pretty sure she would be questioning her sexuality again. So please be patient with her and don't give up. \nBest of luck : )
359125
Here are some questions to help you think about this.  I know it's hard to see your friends objectively, especially when you're attracted to them.  Still, try and be honest and ask:\n\nIs she likely to tell someone else what you've said to her? (Does she tell you the secrets of her other friends?  If so, you can't really trust her with yours)\n\nIs she single?  (If she's not single, the answer is no, don't tell her.  She'll tell her boyfriend- and even if she doesn't tell him, there's no future in it)\n\nIs she serious about an anti-gay religion? \n\nHas she ever mentioned any curiosity about lesbianism?\n\nOkay- my honest opinion is that it's a bad idea.  It's a rare friend that will be able to handle that kind of confession without getting weird.  As with most friends, a sexual attraction isn't worth losing the friendship, especially if you can't really see yourself going into an all-out lesbian relationship. As it stands, you're going to confess you want to hook up with her- for what benefit?  Say she's interested in experimenting with you.  You hook up, and then what?  Are you still friends?  Will you be jealous when she still wants to have sex wiht other people?  Think about the long term consequences.  \n\nWhat if she isn't interested at all?  At best, she'll pity you, and mistake all your friendly overtures in the future as attempts at seduction or puppy love.   \n\nBest case scenarios: you tell her, you hook up, you both discover that this works for you and you start a long-term committed sexual relationship.  Or, you hook up, one night only, you both think it's fun but agree you both need a dick for full satisfaction, end of story.  \n\nChances are these fairy tale endings in which you're both on the same page won't happen, and you'll lose a good friend in the process.
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Yeah, tell her.  Just say, Hey Leah, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and I like you very much.  I would like to start dating you and getting know you even better.  I want to take this to the next level.  I value you friendship, so i thought I would just come out and say it.  I like you.  Do you feel comfortable with us trying to become more then friends?  \n\nNext thing - LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY TO HER ANSWER...and don't say a word.  Just listen.  \n\nGirls love it when guys listen to them.  It makes us feel special.  WE also loves guys that are to the point.  We don't have to wonder what they are thinking when they tell us straight out.\n\nAlso, be prepared....she may not be ready to move forward YET.
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Tell her you like her shoes or her earrings, something small that is not near her chest or butt so she doesn't think you're thinking of her just sexually. It sounds lame but women like people to notice the small things they do to look nice. Tell her she looked interesting and you just wanted to see if you could chat with her. I think often the best conversation starters are movies, books, and music. They are pretty universal and most people have an opinion about what they like and don't like. It's also a good way to get a feel for whether or not you are compatible. If she seems excited about a subject or her eyes light up when you are telling her something go with it and try to explore it further.
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How do you tell a girl that you like her so much?\n\nWELL the best advice I can give you is if you don't know her that great- DON'T tell her. Not yet at least.\n\nPlay it cool buddy, pretend at first that your interested in just being friends, then pretend like a crush is forming, then ask her out on a date, if she says yes then date her casually for a while, then ask her to be your girlfriend, be her boyfriend for a while and THEN you tell her. \n\nMost girls if they don't know you all that well will be quite turned off by a guy just flat out telling her that he really likes her. Take it slow.. I hope everything works out in your interest = )
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Well if you're not what u say you are then just be honest and tell her who you are.  But this is the Internet so there are two possible situations in which you might want to take greater care.  1.) if you're a lesbian, fine.  but if you're a lesbian and you have feelings for her- don't tell her about it.  I mean, she can know about your sexuality but if she's straight there's no reason to try anything with her.  that's like a four year old who has a crush on his teacher.  What's the point in saying so?  she wouldn't date him anyway.  \n2.) if you're really a man?  she'd probably not speak to you again.  if you want to continue being her friend, keep pretending.\n\nif it isn;t either of those, then spill the beans in a non confrontational way and don;t offer excuses for not telling her sooner- just apologize.
750603
be gental to her and tell her
945546
This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
1093953
tell ur sister to hang around a pretty girl and just talk in front of her all the time and like sort of flirt but pretend sumthin like that shell probablly get jelouse and mad and she wouldnt be around if she does then damn you got lesbian problems
44455
Perhaps showing them is best. Showing her that you want to spend time with her will hint around greatly to the fact that you are attracted. Kind words, gestures, acts will signal to her. But once you feel you have confidently shown her, hold her hand and look into her eyes.......and tell her face to face.
412778
Here is one of those times it is best to use a diversion tactic.  Since you are close friends with her tell her your interested in another girl.  Hopefully she will realize that telling you she wants to go out with you is a bad idea since your interested in someone else.
58672
ur girl will probably not say it but she'll drop hints watch for any type of flirt or eye cvontact.  kiss her and if she lets you kiss her your def in dont be overly klingy e-mail her yor feeling its easier that way and ive used that stratgey before and its working 4 me.
456119
take her in my arms and kiss her.\n\ntoo bad you are not a lesbian - fun too.  LOL
1065390
You may need to tell her at some point, unless you choose to only act on attractions to members of the opposite sex.  I think if you feel you need to tell her, go ahead.  Be prepared for any kind of response, though.  You need to count on having a long, calm talk with her when you do tell her.  Do not yell, even if she does, and just keep your voice calm and stay sitting down to have a decent conversation with her.  That is how you can get her to listen to her.
613687
Actions speak louder than words so make sure she doesnt think your gay. make a move man and get as far as you can.
588545
God I hope so! I love lesbians