Should I take her back?
349431
Wait until you see her,.. the first moment you will know what you have to do.
536498
It's out of your hands, she is no longer with you.\n\nDon't dwell on the past as it only sets limitations for your future.
776709
dont jump the gun...  she obviously wants you back.. so play hard to get.. thats what SHE wants...   if she wanted to JUMP in to it then she wouldda said  oh baby i miss you you were the best..\n  as it stands,, it sounds like she does miss you and refrets whatever may have happened.. so be with her...  you need to make sure that whatever happened last time wont happen again...\n    it may just be a game... she knows that you love her and likes the attention...  so she will want  while its easy and convienient and as soon as ANYBODY comes along she will drop you.. \n   not saying that thats the case... but i am repeatedly going through that stupid shit with my ex wife... and because i love her and im stupid i keep letting her back in...  yup... dont be stupid like me man....  if  you think shes sincere then do it...    if you have the slightest hint shes playin ya... kick her ass to the curb before she hurts you again
582578
It all depends what you did.  Maybe you should give her some time and a little space first.
619722
tell her just that. if she still loves you she'll take you back.
572077
She wants you back. Go for it she'll put out now.
526761
As long as your ex didn't cheat on you while you were together. Then the decision on that one. Merely, depends on whether you want him back.  If you do take him back. You just have to realize that a little baby comes along for the ride.  Now with getting set up with a friend of a friend. Well, if he is not talking to you anymore. Just let it be. You deserve more than that.  Just make sure to tell your friend. (Just so he can realize what kind of friend he has)
788247
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!!  she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
87517
u should let her kno tht u would like to see other people before you jump back into that relationship again, there's probably a reason tht u broke up in the first place!don't disrespect her...treat her as though nothing happened between the two of you.\nhope i could help!! good luck!!
700464
I was in a similar boat and went back. \nHowever, before we got back together I grew and changed.\nI'm more independent and overall a stronger person.\nIf you can get back together and be equals that's fine, but the catch is that being equals also means that she has to make up for what she did.  I would ask her directly, "You hurt our relationship, so what are you going to do to fix it?"\n\nIf she talks, but doesn't answer the question then don't go back.  If she actually list out what she is willing to do and she starts doing it then I'd give it a try.
407111
well...just think of it this way...if you love her...just let her go...if she loves you back...she'll come back to you and you guys would be meant to be...give it time...if she doesnt take you back and just get with sum1 else...move on and hold your head up high because you deserve better...
789076
There are no rules.  Just be yourself!  If you worry that she will get back with her ex, then you will not really be having any fun.  Just try not to think about it, relax and enjoy the time that you spend with her.  Good Luck!
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
580734
Something like that just happened to me and I had to let it go. If it really is something that should be, then let her go and she will come back to you.
145929
Then let her go...she deserves to have her love shared with someone who loves her back! And you should keep searching for your 'love' instead of pretending to be a 'player' ! Peaceout !!!
903607
Go with her when she meets him. If he just vanished off the face of the earth without a word, that's odd. But if they broke up and he just stopped returning her calls and moved on, that's different.\nI don't agree with her desire to revisit the past, but I suppose a compromise is you going with her. If she disagrees, I'd be ticked.
738845
good luck. try to win her back.