why do men at bars blatantly check you out but not approach you (men only PLEASE)?
343576
Maybe he didn't want to get shot down and while he obviously was into you, the people you were with I would think had something to do with it and by that I mean, I'm sure if you had been alone or right next to him, he might have interacted with you! If you thought he was worth checking out, you should have went over and talked to him! You look pretty cute and I'm sure he would have talked with you!
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
544012
bc these tramps get the attention they seek from men. so why not keep on doing that if it gets you what you want. of course there are normal classy women out there. im one of them. i just cant find ne men like that!
73541
Aren't guys always looking for attention?
493450
Because it is human nature. Do you close your eyes when other men are around? When he does it, ask him if he likes what he sees, then you find a guy you find attractive and point out what you like. He'll get the picture and maybe won't be so blunt in his wandering eye. But just remember where he goes home to everyday.
109515
they are not interested and feel uncomfortable. or perhaps they want to get away from you and make it more obvious that they are not interested.\nfind someone else. the right person is out there.
316468
I like looking at attractive women.\nThe question for women is this-Why do you wear revealing clothes, if not to have other men checking you out?\n\nIf men never looked at you, you would probably complain that you got all dressed up, and nobody was admiring your best assets.
478906
I do not know what you are talking about. If a man tries to talk to you and you tell them that you are involved or not interested, you become a snob. Sometimes womwn are just not interested!!
47888
Yes.  As a man when I look at another women I'm checking her up and down and if I see she is looking I quickly look away.  If the woman saw that and came up to me and started talking I'd lay on the moves and try and get her somewhere private.\nAll men with exceptions of course will try and think and do the same.
522941
Men have short attention spans.  They know they are with you and love you but then OH LOOK! SHINY! And then it's back to you.  Nothing to worry about - we're just checking out the latest fashion designs ;-)\n\nSeriously, it's nothing to worry about.  We just like looking at good looking women and it's nothing more or deeper than that.
972138
he's trying to get closer to you lol. no guy buys a drink for a girl just because.
736788
because men are pigs. \n\nhowever....clubs are a singles scene so you have to expect that. singles go to clubs to party and meet new people, whether to date or f*ck. something you have to deal with. \n\ni love the club scene, but if i don't feel like being bothered by numerous guys, i just bring a guy friend and stick by him. doesn't always work cause as soon as i walk away to take a piss, i get swarmed lol. eh as long as they're hot it's ok haha.
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i think it's somewhat a disrespect when a man checks out another woman -- right in front of his spouse. can't he at least do it when his spouse is not around?\nscientifically, men are driven by sight -- they will look at something they find interesting.\nmen are stupid (well not all of them) -- i once like this guy who didn't pay attention to me. so finally i moved on and found someone else -- then he was all over me. \nobviously when they're looking for women, they're not looking for the possibility of love, but rather who's stock is really high in the market -- the unattainable one. (no matter how trampy she is) and then regret it when they find someone better. they're stupid.\nit's so hard finding a guy who's genuine, humble, and true nowadays. that's sad.\ni know this is not answering your question... well the "stupid" part kinda answers it.
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Women love being looked at, admired, checked out, envied for their beauty, etc., but they don't like being STARED at.\n\nStaring is rude and gives people the creeps.  It makes them think you are a stalker or that you hate them and are judging them.  Checking a woman out, on the other hand, is a compliment.  Learn to tell the difference.
253289
Im telling you I hate it when this happens!  SOME guys are just soooooo persistent!  I use to bartend and I had one guy who came in every single day just to see if I had kicked my hubby out yet!  He would call the bar and he's send me presents, and tip very very well.  Im really bad at hurting peoples feelings.  I HATE being mean!  cannot help it!  Finally I just had to tell him- ok- here we go- tell him u r lesbian!  lol  Ok maybe not!  lol  I would just tell him- sorry- Im not interested.  Then just kinda avoid him at all costs!!!!  I really do feel for u!  Good luck friend!
866193
If they don't show interest when you approach its because they don't find you attractive. Maybe they just don't find asian men attractive or more likely, its just YOU. Perhaps if you weren't so ignorant they would find you more attractive.
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he gets flustered around you. or tries to be funny- maybe successfully, maybe not. guys stare if they like you. then they look away and pretend they didn't if you catch them.