what are the signs of someone cheating on you, not the things u would expect?
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go with your gut, that doesnt lie to you.
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Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
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No one is perfect, if you see him being perfect or any closer to that then check real carefully if he is tricking you. Another observation, he will agree to do anything you'll ask him to do, no matter what you are asking he will agree that means he is cheating on you and he knows that he wouldn't have to do that for a long time, so he can just promise for a short while. Let me know what you've find out.
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Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
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If your wife was cheating you'd see a lot of changes in her like not showing affection staying out late and acting like you mean nothing to her.. Just my observations
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Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
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Here are some signs that your man is cheating:\n\n1. Wearing Cologne\n2. Buying new,or changing clothes more often\n3. Making excuses to go out\n4. Concealing his wallet, cell phone, ect..\n5. Looking at the clock a lot. \n6. Sometimes being even nicer to you, because he feels guilty\n7. Unexplained lapse in time when he is gone.\n\nThese are a few things to consider any major changes in routine can become questionable. Men aren't that smart and tend to get caught because they are preoccupied with there affair. Good Luck to ya.. If all else fails Call the reality show Cheaters and have him followed HAHA
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Smiling usually is a positive sign, unless it is coming from someone who wants to cheat you.
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he may be cheating or you dont turn him on anymore
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Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
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not necesarily. if they are still friends, it could mean nothing. you cant just assume. if you trust him, and he says hes not cheating, then there you go. If you dont trust him not to cheat maybe you shouldnt be with him... or you could just find some other way to find out
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The usual signs: avoiding you, acting suspicious, being secretive, lieing.  Ask your mte about it.  He will probably want to come claen with you.  My husband always does.  He is relieved after i find out.
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Ask yourself this: Have you ever met a guy who was honest and told you that there MIGHT be a shot at him cheating on you? Hell no. Make observations.
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If hes stopped having sex with you or if he demands it too often or if hes middle-aged and suddenly starts caring too much about his looks then hes cheating on you\nor may be your just paranoid
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The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
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if you have sex and then he leaves, if you call him and he never answers, if your always the one buying shit, if he never takes you out. If he's only around when he wants to be there. Girl if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. On the madea movie that woman said how do you know if your man is cheating? Do you think he's cheating YES then he's cheating
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the desire to find a guy that fills it up instead of beating around the bush. Cheating on you is no more sex, no time for you, total daily routine change for time with new man and none for you, dressing diferent, different perfume, attitude, and kum stains on underwear not arent yours.