if you are crazy about a girl and she is too shy or something else.what to do ?
351561
i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
46828
do not try to break her out. it needs to happen naturally. the danger is that she will think her feeling are wrong and instead of being natural in public she will always feel anxious adn the need to put on an act to impress others. If she is overly shy respect her boundaries and do not humiliate her for it. Instead build her confidence by affirmation.
1178197
I assume you are pretty young.\n\nFirst, don't worry about being shy with girls.  Stay friends with the one you mention but don't feel that has to be a romantic relationship.  That friendship should help you overcome your shyness, and--if her status changes later on--you might be in a good position to build a more romantic relationship.\n\nDon't worry about the one that blew you off.\n\nMany girls are shy with guys.  There isn't that much to either guys or girls to be shy about.  Friendship can always work.  Don't ask for more unless you're sure.
725676
don't be shy come on you can do this! you know if you really like her don't be afraid to ask her out.
336549
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
42658
you need a good balance between the two. there are a few reasons for that:\n\nif she is shy: conversation is terribly hard to make and feels awkward\n\nif she is talkative: she doesnt listen enough which makes conversation too one sided.
305250
You need to make the moves, because he is too shy.
1042547
she's just a really friendly and polite girl, that's why she always says hi and bye. and i think its really cute that your too shy. well anyway, i know its hard to get rid of your nervousness whenever she talks to you, but you have to know, she's only human, she's not immacualte or anything, if you wanna be closer to her, you have to stop being so freaked out when she talks to you, that might freak her out and might not wanna talk to you anymore.
329573
I am a shy person too, and most shy people want u to take it slow with them and don't push thing to far. Talk to her\nas a friend first and see what she enjoy. You might have something in comment with her and you may hit it off. Don't rush nothing
122677
ask her questions about herself. Like example what are her hobbies what music she likes if she likes any music. Basically take an interest in her without being to blunt. She should get the picture that you like her. If you are to shy than it is time to over come this shyness so you do not miss out. The worst she could do is not show intrest but at lest you will know for sure. Good luck
1084093
YOU SHOULD SEND HE OR SHE SUMTHIN TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW DAT YOU ARE FEELIN THEM. BUT DNT ACT LIKE YOUR STOCKIN THEM OR JUST GOIN TO DIE IF YOU DNT HAVE THEM JUST PLAY IT COOL AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE EITHER SHE WANT  YOU OR SHE DONT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT . AND IF SHE TURN YOU DOWN DEN DATS A LESSON LEARN DAT MAYB YOU NEED TO DO SUMTHIN BETTER. GOOD LUCK ON FINDING DAT GURL
12230
to me if a guy is shy a note showing intrist would be a good way to start. also you could send her flowers and put your # in side the card,asking her to call you.if she is interested she will.if not there are other fish in the sea.
1186666
What do you have to lose?  Come out of your shell and talk to her!  Push aside the shyness and ask her what kind of music she likes...what kind of pets she has....what is her favorite movie....anything that will make her talk about herself.  People, generally, like to do that.
385370
In my opinion it depends on the girl and on u if u are very shy that's tuff then .and if she's very outgoing and u're shy u will embarase yourself for sure\n\nso if u are bit shy then don't ask her straight away cos if  you're shy and u could embarase yourself ask her in more privat situation and easyest way would be in conversation \n\nTHE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE IS THERES NOTHING TO BE SHY HERE MAN JUST DON"T THINK THAT YOU"LL EMBARASE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF AND IF SHE LIKES U THEN SHE"LL GO FOR IT
74947
well at least she can talk to then; buck that shyness and just wait for the right time to tell her that you Are attrackted to her and you were curious if she felt the same; tell her no hard feelings(get it into the open)if she says no then thats on you to ask her not to come talk to u about her deals with guys
212915
If you poor out your heart now you will find yourself going crazy trying to explain MORE feelings for her in the future.\nYour best bet is to let your feelings be known but tread softly you don't want to come of as a freak.
545024
well miss wildcherry, you should maybe take the initiative if you know he is too shy to approach you. you don't have much to lose or gamble with cause you already know how he feels. there is nothing wrong with females making the first move and you don't want to wait for him to get the confidence to ask first.\n\ngo for it. the success rate will be high.