how do we come to know tht we are in love?
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When you are okay if that person leaves you for someone else. Meaning, you want to see them happy even if it's not with you.
133819
First you always know when you are in love with someone. How you know that you should spend the rest of your wid them is a another story. Easy ways to tell how you act and feel around the person when you two are together. I guess my advice is to just follow your heart if it is there you will know. If it is not real love then, you just have to move on and take it a step at time from there. Their is no sure way to if all of this is right for you. Just have to take a chance and see what happens.
777273
we "click"...\n\nWe laugh, we enjoy each others company, we have the same dreams, we WANT to be together... we both feel "tingles"...\n\n(you just KNOW when you are in love...)
551505
(m)\n\nMy definition of love used to be this overwhelming warm, fuzzy feeling. When you see her, the world seems beautiful, the birds are singing, and everything reminds you of her. Your heart races whenever she walks into the room.\n\nThat is "being in love." This emotional reaction is a lot of fun but we shouldn't confuse these feelings with love itself. Some people think that they can tell how long a relationship will last based upon how powerful the feelings of attraction are. They spend massive amounts of time trying to decide whether or not they're "in love."\n\nWhat they're overlooking is that love is a decision to do what is best for another person, even if the warm fuzzies are long gone. But it's not enough to want to do what is good for the other. We must form our minds according to the truth that God has revealed so that we know what is good for the other, and we are not just doing whatever feels good. Once we know what is good for the other, all that remains is to follow through and live out that love in our actions.\n\nI think the biggest difference between love and infatuation is that love does not "happen" to couples--it is something they do. It is a task. If the initial excitement of a relationship tapers off and we conclude from this that love is gone, we can be sure that love was never there to begin with. After all, if love is simply about having romantic feelings, how could a bride and groom promise each other that their marriage will last "until death do us part"? More likely, it would last until boredom do us part. Therefore, you can not determine the worth of a relationship by measuring the intensity of emotions.\n\nSuppose you're married and your pregnant wife has food cravings. It is four in the morning, and she wants you to go to the grocery store to get her fudge-brownie ice cream, pickle juice, and beef jerky. You roll over and look at your bride and she does not seem to be glowing like she did on your wedding day. At four in the morning, your world is not looking beautiful and the singing birds have gone mute. But after kissing her fevered forehead, you walk out the door and drive to the store. Has love gone away? Actually, it's more real than ever.\n\nSo, how do you know if you love a woman? Pope John Paul II has answered this question perfectly by saying that "the greater the feeling of responsibility for the [beloved] the more true love there is."(1) The greatest example of this love is Christ. He alone perfectly reveals how to love a woman. If we ever need to know how to properly love a woman, all we need to do is look at a crucifix.
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raffy_12001 - u dont kno what your talking about. When the couple is really in love, that couple could feel it. All theyed wanna do is thinking of each other, see each other, have fun with each other. You could tell by a lot of reason if the couple is really in love or not. Do they laugh? Do they seem dead? How do they hold hands? Tightly with a firm grip or really loose? You`ll definetly feel it, when your BOTH in love. Its a sensational feeling you cant describe.
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see when u r in love u know it, u wont ask urself is it love or jst crush,don go on askin people coz its n ans from ur soul not from people.it is not tht the person u love has to be good lookin n charmin,if tht is wat u r lookin for then u r not in love. u dont think day n night about the person but u care for tht person tht is love,no matter the distance u wil stil b in contact wid tht person tht is love, no matter wat happens u stil believe in tht person,wen tht person is around u u feel secured tht is love according to me.n the moment u feel u love tht person tht is perfectly the right moment u shud tel the person delays wil lead to complications.
840242
No one can possibly answer that question sweety. Everyone falls in love or at least thinks they are ion love; in some point of theit life. So its not a fair question, if i were you i wouldt try to fall in love, id wait for love to come to you.\n\nYou willl know.\n\n-James
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Most of the time you have fallen in love with love as it relates to some individual and you think this person is perfect with out fl awes, even if that really is not the case. It may just seem like it to you...\nhope this helps some
371127
there is really no right answer to your question, the only thing i can say is that when you are truly in love you will feel it in your heart. love isnt anything to take lightly, but when you are in love you will feel it everytime you see him/her, or hear their voice.
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You'll know, and anyone who's ever been in love knows this. It's a feeling that is undescribable by the human being, yet it's so unique. I think if we tried to describe how you will know when you are in love, we'd all come up with different answers.
522128
When you feel the wind of love that is of their essence flow through your heart then you know that you are in love.
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Why not sit down and talk with them.....express your feelings honestly, and ask how they feel about you.  But don't be in a hurry to end a relationship just because your love doesn't or is unable to say they love you back right at that moment.  Sometimes love buds and develops in time.  That is always a possibility.  Expressing your feeling honestly frequently sets the ball in motion also. What you actually feel and how you come across can be mis-interpeted.  You expression and conversation may be the 1st time your love realized that you "actually" love him/her.  Best of luck to you.   "Love is a many splendid thing"
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When you find true love.Hmm love is something really unexplainable.its a feeling that we feel when we want t love another person. its beyond all our control we cannot explain it. its what makes us human.When you meet ther person for youj then you will realise what love is really about.\n\n\nTrue love? or a lustful kind of love? There is a difference.\n\nTrue love? The world stops around you when you look into the eyes of the one you love. No one else, nothing else seems important, but the connection that is you share with this person. And you can feel it in thier eyes. As if when they stare back into yours, that they are saying without speaking, "I adore you, respect you, desire you, admire you". True love is when you connect on a level that makes you want to do everything you can to make that person happy, and that they do the same in return. It is a powerful feeling, when the world stops around the two of you. You will know it.\n\nLustful kind of love is much different. Its the feeling that omg I have to have that person, they are so very attractive, and that I think I am in love with them. Its a false true love.\n\nYou will feel love for him in time.\nThat love is connection.,YOu can tell him by passing him notes.or leaving him a message.! take it slowly my friend.do that if you are shy.talk to him ,call him,,,relate your feelings towards him.he will start to understand and like you.\n\nremember\n\nBeauty is in the eyes of the beholder
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No one can tell you when youre in love.  Think about it, how can they?  Only YOU know your heart.  It is true however that those around you might observe the signs that you are truly in love, but to be able to tell you the exact point at which you know for sure is not an answer that anyone can provide for you.  You have to search your own heart.\n\nThese questions may be helpful.  Do you have more concern for you partner than you have for yourself?  Can you see yourself with this person until you die, faithfully?  Can you see yourself with anyone else?  How would you feel if suddenly your relationship ended?  Can you live without him or her?  Consider this one:  if your partner became a vegetable, would you remain with him or her?  Would you want out of the situation?  Does this person give you a feeling truly unlike anything youve ever felt before?  Just  a few things to consider.\n\nGood luck!
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...to be in love is knowing that you've found the one that completes you in every way, it's feeling as if you're home(if that makes sense) you feel warm, safe & comfortable to be who you really are with that person without fear of judgement, because you know that no matter what that person loves you for you.  That's what love means to me.
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sometimes it is love at first sight,but i believe you need to make sure you two can communicate good before saying i love you,and make sure you become friends first.If you can`t communicate there is no sense of falling in love because that love will be gone from one end before you know it.
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You will know if you are truly in love.