If a man is bisexual, gets married, but continues to have sex with other men.. is he cheating on his wife.?
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It really depends on the terms of the man's relationship with his wife.  I know a couple who are happily married but they have sex with other people (separately, not like a three-some).  Each knows that the other has multiple partners but that is the terms of their relationship and they're ok with that.  So, if this was previously discussed by the couple and the wife is ok with it, then no, it is not cheating.  However, if this is not agreeable within the terms of their relationship, then it would be cheating.  \n\nThe best thing for the couple to do would be to sit down and discuss this.  They may need a moderator, such as a couples counselor, or they may not.  But it needs to be resolved otherwise the guy will be miserable and the longer it goes on the more hurt the wife will be.  People need to be free to express themselves sexually and being bi-sexual is something that he sould have brought to her attention before they were married.  Now they've got to work it out.  \n\nIf this is a real situation that you know of, give my best to the couple and wish them luck for me.\n\nFR
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If she is bi-sexual . . . she perfers both.\n\nAs for cheating . . . depends on your point of view.  If they are into 3-somes (which you shouldn't have if you are in a committed relationship) . . . this could happen . . . \n\nSince they had 3-somes . . . they are familiar with the third wheel . . . and as most 3-somes start . . . if it 2 women and 1 man . . . the 2 girls start off and the man joins them.  In woman's mind . . . since she already done it . . he wouldn't mind if she continues without him.  This will cause jealously in the relationship because the man is left out.  Thing is this could happen the other way around.\n\nThere have been cases where the woman slept with the 3rd wheel without her mate and visa versa where the man slept with the 3rd wheel without his mate.  In most cases, with friends who done that . . . they end up breaking up or divorced.
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does he have to do them all in one night? \n\ndo they take turns or is it one big orgy?\n\nif a polygamist marries bi-sexual women does he run the risk of being shut out??
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just trust your husband - if he cheats, there's no reason for staying with him...there's probably hotter guys out there, u know?
859863
Sounds like tooo much drama for me.  If you know that he's bi - I am glad that he told you and didn't lie about it - why would you have unprotected sex with him in the 1st place??  And the 2 of you need to go get tested together and LOOK at each other's test results.  l
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I'm not the married man, but I am his wife who's bi....I know with total certainty that there's no woman who will take me from my hubby. I like girls, but not to the point of destroying my husband and marriage. If it came down to it, I'd walk away from women all together for him. In my case, it would just be sex, nothing more. And yes, I can say that with 100% certainty!!! Hope this helps, from a woman's perspective.....Good Luck!
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You all have some serious sexual issues in your marriage.  Don't be doing his dad, nor your male friend.  You 2 would be best off just keeping your marriage between the 2 of you, & not involving any others.  Your marriage will not last when it gets that messed up!  If you want to fantasize bi stuff within your marriage, go for it!  But just don't do it, as you will destroy your marriage.
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about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
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I am Bi amd married. I believe there should be no secrets in a marriage/relationship so I have told my hubby about it. We have a mutual girlfriend. One does not have to CHOOSE, you can be bi and be happy! I am!
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He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
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umm.. your  a les too? is what is in his mind, i think he might be scared to know.. i mean what if one day you were cheating on him with a girl? ohh not a good thing. are you sure you are a bi? your lying! please tell me your lying!!\n\nwell it hard to know what he is thinking when he could have different points of view.. depending if he has experienced this and how open-minded he is
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My Husband never cheated, but if a husband was going to cheat I'd rather know. If its over its over,he should be honest enough to tell you.Two things to be done after that , either forgive him and NEVER bring it up again. Anyone can make a mistake once, only a fool does it twice.And personally I would not stay married to a fool.
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Sounds like he is going through chages and it is possible he is cheating on you! How long have you been married? Because some guys are one way and then after they get married they show their true colors! (And yes women are the same way!) I have more or less went through the same ting resently!
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I've been married 15 years and have two kids. I did have one encounter with a guy friend years ago -I was 20 - im now 40. I do live a  str8 life - but I think about sex with guys lots more in my older age. Been bi curiose since i was ten years old. I am attracted to guys - but i will also keep my wedding vowes intact. I hope this helps you.
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Hai,\nY do u want to keep a relationship secret in the first place? Well if both of them are married to different people ofcourse thats a sin. At times its normal to feel attracted to others ( whn u are married ) but dont let that attraction take u to different directions.I believe its sin cheating ur wife or husband. Its being totally an untrustworthy person !!!! Thats like being a CHEAPO !!!! U would not like if ur wife does that to u right !\nIf u both are not married, then its ur choice to keep it a secret or not and if u both are gonna get married then thats perfectly fine.
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Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
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Sexuality is so interchangable now that it begs the question does bisexuality even exist any more? I think it's more a case of he's a guy very comfortable in himself and will try anything sexual he fancies :)