I'm a lonely man but I'm very picky about woman, what should i do.?
343779
maybe it's because you've been hurt in your past relationship. if that's the case, it happens to everyone. just know that there are lots of great girls out there and you should try to move on and be open to new experiences instead of worrying that it's gonna end up like your past relationship. i'm sure you won't be lonely for too long:)
880979
Unfortunately, it just is that way sometimes.  You have had some bad luck with women, but I don't think it's anything you do, per se.  Maybe it's the type of women you tend to fall for.  Are you attracted to women who are super-confident and assertive, almost to the point of bitchiness?  Do the women you date expect you to do whatever they tell you to?  I think it's nice that you are a sensitive, kind, poetry-writing kind of guy, but if asserting yourself in a relationship isn't your strong suit, you'll probably keep getting your heart broken over and over again.  Try dating outside our usual "type," and maybe you'll find a woman who will really love you for who you are and be faithful to you.  Good luck!
990259
Try loosenig up, if you don't take the risk of approching a woman u like then you'll never know if it would of worked. Even if someone does dis u life goes on, but try taking the risk any way. I'm sure you can find someone for you. U just need to go for it.
872904
First of all dont let anyone tell you you're too picky. No matter how picky you are, love can happen accidentally...it just takes a lot longer. It sounds like you didnt ask emira out because of what you thought she'd think of you, not because of what you thought of her. That's more insecurity than pickiness...and honestly, it's always worth a shot, if she doesnt want to date a guy that's the same age as her, that's her problem, not yours...but you didnt ask her, so you dont even know if it'd be a problem...probably not.\n\nBut...there are girls that arent slutty, that dont smoke and dont drink, and are straight and funny. Especially under 19. The fact taht you can deal with emotional issues is a great thing, and if u can be supportive of your dream girl, when you find her, you shouldnt have any problems keeping her. \n\nJust to prove my point, I'm under 19, I've tried smoking and dont like it, I dont much like the taste of alcohol. I will drink but only on occasion and only if someone else brings it up, because I can have fun w/o liquor. I'm straight, for sure. I try to be funny, that doesnt necessarily mean i succeed, but i do have a good sense of humor in that I like to laugh. I enjoy sex, but i'm not slutty at all..and dont dress it either. And i've been told I'm attractive but that's based on personal opinion, as is the "great personality" requirement. \n\nStill proving a point here:\nThat all might sound like a good thing to you, but if you got to know me you'd realize I'm pretty insecure and need to be reassured constantly, I've got a lot of family issues, even though I have a pretty normal family, if I want attention, I dont want to wait for it, and if i want to be left alone, i better be left alone. I'm tempermental, i'm brutally honest, i can be a major bitch or a major sweetheart, and you might not even be able to tell what i'm trying to be. I cant control the volume of my voice so I dont know if i'm screaming and I mumble a lot. I cant stand it when people are angry with me so i obsessively try to fix the problem which generally makes it worse.  i could go on and on and on. \n\nSo. While I do say, be picky, it's better for you anyway, be careful about your pickiness. Decide if the gir'ls age is really all that important because at 19, people are glad to be away from home & out on their own and they're gonna do w/e they wanna do. Or maybe you'd rather not date a schizo, even if she does have a great personality. \n\n---and everyone is picky, everyone has their little quirks and things that just piss them off for no reason whatsoever, so be as picky as you want to be, but dont try to morph someone into the girl of your dreams, it just wont happen...you'll just have to keep looking til you find her.
306618
Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!
832167
you are coming from a bad place right now....I suggest you sit back, get rid of the negative energy you have filled your life with and .... clean up your head. You are blaming all women for one woman's actions...not very fair. You are bitter towards all women because of some past experiences with a few women...perhaps it is what you are doing that gets you what you get. My advice to you would be to STOP making bad choices in women and use some sense, start picking women that are compatable with your life and your head. Stop picking women based solely on what they look like, and start picking women who are kind, nice, ...and yes, these qualities do come in the same package as looks. I cannot imagine your finding any kind of happiness acting as "trade" to gay men.....it may get you off, but where does that lead to anything that is lasting as far as happiness goes? Trust me, all those women you are trying to punish will not give a rat's butt about what you are doing...you hurt no one but yourself when you seal yourself off as you are suggesting. AND, you will not be doing any gay guy a favor either. Your life is your own, your mistakes are your own...stop blaming all women for your mistakes and that is the first road back to sanity. Good luck
638687
no u might just be more picky then her and waiting for the right guy. there is no reason to just accept who ever because u feel like u are lacking a boyfriend. wait for the right guy he will come along.
56921
There are alot of good women left out there, you just have to take the time to find her she may be right under your noise but most men would pass her by good luck with your search
93770
First grow a brain. I don't know how old you are, but growing a brain in 85% of men takes about 40 years.\nSecond stop thinking about sex all the time. If your looking for a woman that will be with you for everthing then focus on how to make youself reliable. Get a good job, a decent car (black, that's sexy), and watch some chick flicks they will let you see what going on in a women's mind. I can't think of any to watch because I like Jackie Chan movies uuummm when you go to the movies see if there are any good looking single women seeing the movie you are and sit in the same row, after the movie strike up a conversation about it: Pros Cons etc.(liking the same movies is a sure sign of compatablity). Talk politely keep cursing light untill you hear how she talks, Then ask if she would like to get a cup of coffee or soda or something. If she says no try again next time. When women say no they are not judging you they might have someone already or you might have came on to strong, just try again.\nFor most women if you are nice and aren't pushy about sex it will happen, and believe me when a women choses to have sex with you (instead of you pushing her) it will be the best you ever had! Because if you wait she will get all excited thinking when will he ask etc. it will drive her crazy! She'll throw herself at you. In fact the first time she asks start out all reluctant like "We don't need to do that yet" and then after a minute give in, and enjoy.
1168420
Everyone has their preferences, your not alone. But at some point we've all turned away from them, I'm sure you will as well. I would suggest trying on-line services, andI hope you meet a fine woman.
631871
I would be, I'm open minded, caring and generous.  Not trying to be a creep though.  Maybe what they are saying is that you need to meet someone genuine, not the "typical" guy who thinks of himself superior to women, and that a women's place is in the kitchen, stuff like that.  But rather a man that would treat you with the respect and understanding that your friends think you desrve.  Good luck on finding that special someone.
1142405
Everybody has certain traits that they are attracted to. A girl that will stay with you a long time is being fickle because not only do you have to find her, but you will also have to figure out how to keep here once you do. No one person is perfect, there are certain things that you will like and certain ones that you will not. You have to find a medium ground on what traits that you will allow yourself time to get used to. This is being the part where you learn how to keep a decent woman. If you do not figure this out-- somebody definitely will and it is your loss!
686235
So how can you be lonely?? You said hot boy 92?? Seems u must be a great looking guy with green hair ..  maybe you will need to change your color to black, brown , blonde or bald to maintain your attraction for women to go for, then u wont be lonely anymore.  Its nothing wrong to be single.. Single can be fun in many ways when u know how to use it in the right way..  I wish u the best in ur search for a freind or a girl to love to remove your lonely.. Take care at your end.
60052
Find other women in personals possibly or try pheromones that will attract women. Good luck! And have fun!
333964
Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
405653
Stop looking and start enjoying your life as a single lady.  As soon as you start enjoying your own company, you'll become more enjoyable to someone else.
547918
There's tons of ways to meet women. Maybe try personal ads and party lines. If you meet anyone are are worried about whether or not you'll want to hook up with em, meet at a bar or somewhere else public and talk for a lil while first. Have a friend call you about 20 minutes after you meet so you can make an excuse to leave if you don't have the heart to tell her that you're not attracted to her. If all is going well, and you and her click, take it from there. You need to meet up with someone that has mutual interests. If you're only interested in sex, you need to hook up with someone whose only interest is that as well.