hie!i recently had sex wid mu husband n it was very painful.as a result he didnt penetrate fully.is dis prob?
336492
Forget the spelling and go to see a Doctor it might just be a UTI-Urinary tract infection, or could be fibroid cysts or other things, maybe a sexually transmitted disease. However, before u jump to conclusions go find a Doctor quick.
85294
Your male partner is obviously doing it wrong.  Virgins have a layer of skin that protects the vagina called the heimin.  The pain and pressure you are feeling is from the penis pushing on it.  One of the resons it hurts so much is that you are not relaxed enough... and because you are not ready to give away your virginity.  Another reason is you may not be wet enough and the penis is just ripping you inside.  You should just wait to be married first, this way you know it is right for you and you will be able to concentrate on the act of making love.  Oh, and the heimin will be much thinner due to the fact your body will have produced the proper fluids to help disolve it.
1132510
has he tried any foreplay? i have learned that foreplay is important for my wife to have a pleasurable experience. \n\nalso, distractions could definately be an issue because i am in a similar situation as you are. my wife has mentioned that she was uncomfortable with the living situation so its hard for her to "be herself" at times...i have learned that the atmosphere has to be just right  for a woman.
432425
Well first of all, this case adds proof to the fact that bigger is not better! Yes, if his penis size is "endowed" it definitely does some damage to the vagina internally especially if he's been tapping it for years. No wonder you have pain; a large penis is not meant for your vagina. Stop having sex with him and allow time to heal!! OR\nIt'll definitely widen and stretch your vagina eventually forming a nice gap for you, not to mention a number of other problems.
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I can say that my first time was quite painful, but after a few attempts it got a lot better.  Every now and then I will feel this sharp pain, as my boy has penetrated a little too deep and it feels like he is hitting my cervix!  However, if you're experiencing pain from start to finish, it could be because you have thrush (which would be easy to diagnose as you would be very itchy) or it could be something else.  If it were me, I'd get it checked out.
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YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
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Depends on where it hurts.  It could be a lack of lubrication.  Or he could be hitting your cervix with his penis (since your organs are changing de to pregnancy your cervix may be easier for him to reach).  Mention it to your doctor at your next appointment.
1010467
First of all you should'nt be having "rough sex" in your condition. Secondly go to your Ob/Gyn immediately.
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it is obvious that you want to please your husband and you should feel confidant that her cares if you hurt or not during this time of expressing\nthere are many things to consider\n   *his weight vs. your body size\n   *the quality of the bed you may be using\n   *the position of your arms\n   *the intensity of his thrust\nNever the less Let Him help you Get comfortable\nHe will feel special that you are sharing this with him and going to Him for help...if no relief is found check with your doctor - it could be serious
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When you have sex baby, it doesn't supposed hurt okay.  You should go to the store and buy some lube.  Put some on him and around your opening so it won't hurt.  Talk to him, tell him it's uncomfortable, and he will understand about the lube.  Your hymen may be shedding a little, don't have sex for a couple of days until this shedding stops because if you skin gets broken down there, you might get an infection, and believe me, you don't want that to happen.
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That would definitely be your cervix.  This is where your uterus opens into the vaginal canal.  It can be quite painful if your partner bumps against it during sexual intercourse.  Your best bet would be to experiment with different positions that allow for different penetration angles.  I suffer from the same problem, and there are some sexual positions (woman on top for example) that I just *cannot* tolerate.  If you have any additional questions, talk to your gyno.  You'd be amazed at the kind of advice they can give you.
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i get the feeling that you guys are more or less just diving right in. you need to spend a bit of time stretching yourself to properly and comfortably take him. the first time is likely going to sting a little, as there is some tissue damage when he takes your cherry, but the pain fades quickly (or so i am told) tell your fiance that you need to get warmed up first, use fingers, toys, whatever is comfortable to gradually stretch out. also, make sure you're turned on, since the natural lubricants released by your body are the best. have him try some oral play if you can, since the saliva will also help keep you lubricated. if you stil feel you need more lubrication, ensure it is a water based lube. if none of my advice works, talk to a doctor, it may be that (s)he can give better advice.
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Talk to his doctor , his diabetic meds can be changed if you tall him the problem you have been having . As for as his erection do you help him ? You can give him oral or hand to get his penis hard enough to penetrate you . A man doesn't have to have a full erection to ejaculate . Can your husband get an erection through masturbation ? My advice is to please work with him , you sound like you care very much , talk to his doctor first . Good luck there is help , Patrick
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I have had painful sex all my life.  I finally was diagnosed with something called Vestibulitis.  There is a  topical treatment available, but you have to get a prescription from a doctor.  Your pain could be caused by that.
579932
Considering what you went through, I think your response is probably to be expected. Most people, however, find that sex in a loving relationship is one of the most fulfilling experiences. Have you ever had counselling? Have you ever tried masturbation? If you can find some sort of pleasure in stimulation, whether doing it yourself or with your husband involved, that would be a first step to healing. My heart breaks for you, I know it is very difficult to get past what happened, but it's something you can overcome. It just takes a lot of time, moving slowly (only with whatever you are comfortable with), and always in a situation where you feel safe and in control. My prayers are with you.
712243
I've never heard of anything like this before......before we started that aspect of our relationship my (now) husband got blue balls and felt really sick and chills and such.....maybe you hold out so long that that happens to you.  I am so sorry to hear that!
899451
So you only married him for the sex ... how very shallow of you .... and I see you're very modest as well.\nMaybe it's your attitude thats causing him to falter ... the more you pressure him the les frequent you're gonna get it .... so sure divorce him and go find youself another stud until you wear him out .... \nMight do hubby good to be able to relax and not be pressured