I really like my friend. She really likes me, i know because she told me, but she has a bf she refuses to dump
348382
hey if she "says" she likes u dont beive it you might just be a booty call
730327
Well, if she is your friend you should tell her its not true. She should believe you because friends wouldn't do  that to eachother. Tell her that if she doesn't believe you , fine, but she isn't a real friend either because you know she wouldn't do that to you if u had a boyfriend.
1149131
She has a bf!!!so just wait!Dood luck!!!
794448
well, here is the thing it's her choice to make and if u push her to hard she wont tell you things. umm u said what if he asks her out or something but what if he rejects her u know? so don't lose ur value of trust. she trusted u know u have to respect her choice and i think ur a good friend that ur caring and thinking about her but in this position its her choice to make. \n\nGOOD LUCK HOPE U BOTH FIND WHAT UR LOOKING FOR
50105
Wow!  To me it sounds like she likes your man as much or more than you do.  IF she is your true friend she would respect you and not do that, so evidentally she isn't much of a friend is she?
60924
Now that she knows your feelings, it's up to her to choose between you and the other guy. If she chooses the other guy, you need to move on. You can be her friend, but should respect her relationship with the other guy.
838570
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
505101
WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
1159930
It's understandable that you are afraid to tell your friend because she can get mad at you for accusing her bf of cheating but you still need to tell her. Don't say it in a factual way like you for a fact that he is cheating on her but say it like you think but you aren't sure. That way, she will probably be a little more aware and pay attention to what he does.
457696
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
758499
just keep going and be a good supportive freind. if things dont work out later on btw her and your other freind that she is dating then there is your chance
694163
Sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is thinking to himself, why did I let her go ??  The only way to get rid of the feeling is to not see him all the time but now that your bf is friends with him that will be hard.
930120
You could try talking to her and let her know that you are concerned about your friendship.   If she is really into this guy then it might be hard to get her to see your point of view.  But I think you should definitely talk to her.  Good Luck!!
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
692867
She has to be as unselfish as you are, maybe she has to do the sacrifice!!! You were not right to make this lie because it will only make things harder now. If you both like him, then there's only one way to settle the whole issue, which is to wait for him to make the choice and then at least none of you would be the cause of pain to the other. You will not like her any longer if she continues like that and eventually wins his heart, you will not even bear to e around any of them.
946428
If your best friend is really your best friend, she wouldn't take him away. I had a friend like that once and it killed me to be around her with guys because I would say I liked someone and then she would instantly like them too. And she would win because I would just give in. There is no point in fighting her on it, especially if she already knows how you feel about him. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her right away. You friend has betrayed you in the most hurtful way if she knows how you feel. You need to sit her down and explain that you like this guy more than she'll ever know and that you have known and liked him longer than she ever will. If she is truly your friend, she will cease to try to steal him away. If she won't stop, you need to find a new friend, a person who won't betray you. And you need to tell the guy. He deserves to make the choice with his true feelings. Tell him that you don't want things to change between you too, so if he doesn't feel the same way, to just forget that you said it, but in time you fell in love with your best  friend and you wonder if he feels the same way about you. Then, you are letting him know how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way.