Is it a sin for me and my GF to make love?
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Romans 1:24-27, "Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.\nFor this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due."\n1 Corinthians 7:1-2, "It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."\n\nTo answer your question about Jesus' sexual orientation. He would not go against His own word and since the Word calls homosexuality a sin, He is not a homosexual. Jesus was also celebate throughout His time on earth so it wasn't an issue to begin with.
988423
go for it! make sure nobody will know about it tho, not even close friends. destroy all evidence and wear a rubber, wouldn't be too nice to catch some nasty std and then give it to your main girl. as long as your gf won't find out, i don't see anything wrong with it. men need sex and when we f*ck around, it doesn't mean sh*t and has no influence on our true feelings for our actual girlfriends. women will never understand that, coz when they do it, there's almost always some feelings attached. anyway, just make sure she will never find out about it. if she does, say goodbye to your relationship
82325
sex does not equate love.\n\nIf you truly love her you will wait for her to open up to you.
299284
No, absolutely not, sweetheart.\nOnce you love someone, it couldn't be a sin. I mean, don't be promiscuous.\n\nHate people is a sin. Kill somebody is a sin. Envy is a terrible sin. War is a big big sin. Gossip is a sin.\n\nThe gender doesn't matter, God want us to love each other. A love stronger than racism, larger than life. \n\nStay cool!!!
268857
Making love is completely different apart from just having sex, it means much more like when you are in love with her like you should be. If you do wanna make love, she should give you the signs and should know by her body language.
870399
That is a hard question. When you say love what kind of love do you mean? Some people say love and get it confused with lust. If you REALLY love him and if he is interested in you or loves you as well then I wouldn't think there is anything wrong with it. As long as you respect the fact that he should obey his vows he makes to god and stay within the boundries of a holy relationship and leave out the physical for marriage. If not I would have to say it is probably not love you feel but lust or else you love him for what he represents.
620696
It's totally relative. I don't think that there's anything wrong with having pre-marital sex if the context around it is right. There's no way for us to know what God thinks about it. Some religious people would think that it was alright if it was in the context of a loving and caring relationship and birth control were used. Others would say that it is a terrible sin and that we shouldn't even use birth control. What could possibly make one of these views more valid then the rest? I think that a lot of people would think that at 17 you are ready to make a responsible decision about sex and I am one of these people. If you think that you are going to feel guilty about it then don't do it. If you think that you love her and it will help you express your love, then consider it.
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I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
162498
I think you need to take time out to get a hobby. If you're worried about having sex with this girl when you know you really shouldn't, perhaps being involved in something else, like your church, will help you out greatly. They can be an incredible help with dealing with problems like these, and if you find a younger church with more teen members you could start a good discussion on the subject of sex and avoiding sin, form a support group. \n\nIf you don't want to do that, get into something physical like a baseball, soccer, football team, it will help you take out the agression usually associated with the need for sex. \n\nLike I said above, just get a hobby that is seperate from your girlfriend. If you truely do not want to 'sin' anymore, then you have to find activities away from your temptations, whatever they all are.
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If you are not so sure then you have to say No.  Tell her you are uncomfortable with it and that it will change the dynamic of your relationship, and not for the better.  Don't give in just to appease her,  you will not respect yourself or her.  If she loves you, she will respect your decision.
93088
Perhaps it would be better if your girlfriend put the condom on for you. Rather than interrupt your passions to put it on, make the act of putting on the condom part of the sexual interaction.
437138
For more conservative catholics, they perceive that sex is made for procreation and not for recreation.  So its a no-no for them to engage in pre-marital sex.  They believe that sex is a union of two people whom God have put together. Sex is considered sacred and must be initiate when you have undergone the sacrament of marriage.\n\nBut for my personal opinion, i wouldn't consider it a sin as long as you do it with someone you love and who loves you back. I think you won't violate any rules as long as both person's who engage in this wonderful act has really true connections spiritually and emotionally.
668421
as far as I know it is not considered a sin to live together according to the Bible, but it is a sin to have sex before marriage and I don't know many people who live together that don't have sex, so it is up to you to draw the line to be able to stay away from sex before marriage
1134229
No matter how much u do for someone, they don't owe it to u, to go against there morals. She does not owe u her body. A ring on her finger does not mean u have the right to make her do  things that she don't want to do. Think about what morals u have, and the person that u love wants u to go against them just because they want some a**(literally).  U are hurting your wife now while u are begging her and pressuring her to do something she doesn't want to do.  Do u care about ur wife's feelings, or are u too self-involved to notice that she has any? There are many other ways u can "do it," just like Adam & Eve, they could have had any fruit they wanted, but they just had to eat the apple because they couldn't have it. And look at the bad things that came out of that. Take advantage of all the other ways u can "do it," and forget about doing it "the other way." In the bible having anal sex is sodomy, and you're not suppose to do that any ways.  Stop being greedy, and be appreciative of what u have... A wife that loves u.\n\n\n******************So that means u like a**, Man or woman?*******************\nUr wife should be very concerned!!!!!!! Just playin, please vote me for best answer. I voted urs for best question.
82600
It is normal to be curious about how it would be with someone else.  But if you love him you know that it would never be as good.  Sex is more than technique...its truly a spiritual thing.
467481
What I think you should do is the same thing to her. Make sure that you get off first and then roll over and be done. I have to say that depending on how strong your relationship is will have to be the deciding factor as to if you really want to do this, I am a firm believer that if you don't have good sex a relationship probably won't work.
578113
There's no mention of it in the bible - but a heck of lot is (see Song of Songs) as God meant for us to enjoy sex (obviously within the marriage convenant).  \n\nIn these circumstances (where it is silent) if you have a clear conscience before God then it's fine.  if you don't, then it's not.\n\nIn our case, my wife is uncomfortable giving me oral, so she doesn't and I won't force her to.  I am happy to give her oral (and she's happy to receive) so we do.