Why do women love a**holes and hate good guys?
353788
they don't. all girls (well...MOST girls) r into the good guys. it's just that the bad boys r usually the ones daring enough to ask them out, so they're the one's they end up with coz the others weren't man enough to make a move
932782
Some younger women and girls may like the bad boy type - because they are stupid - and don't know any better.  When they grow up - they know what is the better type - the good guy!  The one that is going to be a good husband, father and your best friend!:)
701115
Well what happens it, us woman like the bad guy early on in life.  We think we can change them and some of us even have fun trying.  As we get older, and more mature, we realize that what we want is a guy we dont have to change.  One that already has all the qualities we want and one that is honest and caring.  One that makes us feel secure.\n\nMost woman who are ready to settle down look for the NICE GUY!
219036
You suffer from hate-a-rude-a-guy-a-phobia. It's somewhat common among females that have just broke up with a guy.
597327
They are perfect and guys don't hate them.....No.....\n\nThey brag about being smart,etc., opposite sex, they(some) smoke a lot, they have braces,nags.....no..... theoretically I don't see why guys hate girls or vice versa..... Remember everybody is different and you can't just say guys hate girls.....Some girls hate something at least from guys.....I love a very immature girl who's the same age from me and I.....\n\nA.H. rules! ^0^
147226
Because they can if you allow them.   Not all guys are like that, but the ones who are deserve the self-absorbed a**holes they attract!
982302
Because they like to think they can get whatever they want .. like everything comes to them either easy or eventually ...\nAnd they like to be treated like dirt ... love to be teased ... i think they really hate believeing that they are not worth having a specific gurl or that a gurl can be special ...\ntwisted creatures >>> Tell me about it!! ;)
953383
We do it because some of us want to be perfect for the guy... and if you are like me, having been in some pretty bad relationships, some women never feel they are good enough for any man..
509344
you know I'm not good looking but almost of my bf is bad and not good looking ones, because i felt in love with that man. based on my experience and from my friends usually bad boys are rely lovable or "chick boy", many girls love them because they are bad... :-)
679384
A very complicated question, but I think the following generalization applies many times:  if an insecure woman (and there are many) get properly abused by a guy, they subconsciously think that he must be better than her.  Why?  Because he's confident enough to treat her badly, and she's going to love it because she's hanging with a better guy than her.  If he didn't feel superior, he wouldn't risk treating her bad for fear that she would leave.  It's human nature to want to be with people better than you.  This is an overly simplistic answer, but it's more or less the fundamentals of it.
958525
guys can be jerks ... and some never grow up. some are just superficial and never outgrow it. there are a few of us good guys out there... but there are becoming fewer and fewer of us by the day.. because parents these days don't teach their kids to respect women the way we were. I mean kids running around calling women ho's and such..and hitting them. not good shows absolutely no respect for women.
973475
some women just want a bab y so bad they dont care who with....also some women thinbk it will MAKE  the guy love them (entrapment) and some women are just desperate
122505
yes the so called bad boys love the socalled good girls. the bad guys see the good girls as a way out, and the gg well its there excuse to be bad
973142
men and women like nothing better to do then rip on eachother to vent relationship and social frustrations \n\n\nmen and women can both be evil and vice versa\n\nBut women are very judgemental by nature and image conscious which makes some women superficial... but not to say that some men aren't the same way.\n\nbut it is for reasons such as the aformentioned that men can be as you described.. but again.. this swings both ways and is not unique to just men or women
861380
sigh, alas tis the truth with many of the females...because i hear that all the time too, the whole 'i want a good man, i ain't settlin for no scrub, he has to respect me, blah blah blah" and right after that they can't let go of some alchoholic that beats them, or some playa that cheats on them constantly but "oh i still love him, if he does it again he's GONE"... when he shoudl've been gone in the first place.\nYou know what's even worse?  LOOK AT THE YAHOO QUESTIONS!  A LOT of women are askin "what should i do, i love him but he's cheating on me what do i do?" \nor "i like him, he's a great guy, but he watches porn and flirts with other women..what should i do?" I mean you see a hell of a lot of questions like that...so that's a good question, what ARE women's defense to that? Cause i'm one of the good guys, and THANKFULLY i've found a sensible woman who actually KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS!  But i've dealt with the gullible and confused girls that dissed me for the a*shole, and then had the nerve to say they're just stronger now after gettin over it, when in essence they shouldn't have been in it in the first place!  \nWhat is up wit dat?
1096167
i agree i hate pretty boys and good boys, something rough about them gives the impression theyre a bad man-part of the attraction
255561
because that is who they are.  why do girls go after bad boys and ignore nice guys?