Why do boys sneak around when you are going out with them?
336630
He is a dumbass i dont know what his problem was
473594
I think if he really wanted to go out with you, he would do it.  Even if guys leave the door open, they are still stringing you along.  Sometimes they like to have options.  Jump on that friendship train and then date someone else.  If he really wants ya, he will tell you when you are inevitably with someone else.
135091
i do not think you should because it is possible that when you DO except them,those boys may think you are boyfriendless. thats just my thoughts though.
248040
it's the comfort they get from knowin there's someone around. they don't like the idea of bein alone so they put up with anythin and everythin. that or they're scared of the guy and won't leave him because of it. it's stupid i know
968886
Maybe you are doing what you might think of as harmless flirting, but apparently your friends dont think so. They think its inconsiderate and disrespectful to them. All you can do is apologize and back off when thier boyfriends are around.
259813
friend are better than boys(or girls) but go out with the person u like i got the same problem
196330
It sounds like they LIKE YOU!  Boys have a way of irritating you when they like u.  They will tug your hair-walk near u-say things to get your attention- its just the way they r!  If you have no interest in them then just let it all slide.  Eventually they will get the hint.  Or do what my son did!  There was a girl always following him around and he finally turned around and looked at her and said "YOU LOVEME DONT YOU?  That made her definetely go away!  lol  It means they like you sweetheart!!!  They want your attention and unsure how to get it any other way!!!
297191
cos they r bored...they dont have any other stuff to do.they try to attract attention...so if u actually noticed that "boys act all kool and stuff"..then they allready got the attention they wanted.
1089049
lol boys do that\nthey dont want to tell you they like youcause someone my findout and they will get teased\nplay his game but try to get him alone as see how he reacts to you\nbut we all play games in love
1007649
its because you want them to accept you, dont care if someone doesnt like you or if they leave because it happens, dont try to make them comfortable around you either because they might see that your trying to do that and then not feel comfortable, just be yourself
309375
They are playing hard to get. I don't understand why they do it but they do. They want the girl to "sweat" it out. The guy thinks that they really got it going on. If he sees you with another guy, its competition and they will call you back.
226997
cuz if they acted slushy they would get beat down daily\n\nthey act that way to prevent other boys from pickin on them
1057325
Assuming you're quite young...\n\n1. It's more fun to want something you can't have than have something you don't want; often a boy who isn't actually interested in a relationship will not pursue one until they're sure one can't actually happen -- then they can flirt freely, having fun and not worrying about something actually happening;\n\n2. Shouldn't you be asking yourself "why do I stop liking boys as soon as they start liking me?" because it's likely the case, and suggests that you're not yet ready for a real relationship but want to have fun safe filrty fun -- just like I described the boys having in the previous paragraph. Nothing wrong with this, by the way; quite healthy at (what I presume is) your age.
648277
Just tell them that it grosses you out when they act like that.  They probably don't mean anything by it and they more than likely just see you as one of the boys but make sure they know that somethings need to be reserved for when just the guys are around.
695119
Sounds like he may be very unconfident in himself, making sure your not sneaking around behind his back, some men are just naturally like that, may not be obbsession could just be jealousy, and hes worried about losing you.
251926
thats really bad, in my case, if u go out with a boy, make sure they dont stare a lot
5789
It depends on who the person I'm hanging around with is. Everyone is different! In my experience though, it's girls, it makes me more comfortable, because, well, I'm one! But, ya know, guys are okay!