one of your friends don't like one of your other friends an tells u that u have to chose is she a good friends
349677
No. The person who asked me to chose would be history.
788219
Nope... Your friends are just messing with you... Or she's jerking you around... Either way, it's bad news...
847140
i think it is better if you donot say anything about her when you are with other friends who doesnot like her... donot try to convince others that she is good girl or anything to defend her in front of others.. everyone has a right to form their own opinion whatsoever may be the reason..\n\n you can hang out with both i think so far as you donot try to merge all of them together...\n\nWhy cannot you have more friends, u tell your frinends that yu want to be with them and spent time with them.. if they are your real friends i don't think they will try to impose or stop you ,so far you donot impose your opinion on them,,,
1097926
you should'nt forced yourself to be friend with someone you don't liked. Your bestfriend would understand if he care for u.
1007310
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
901690
i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
109695
I'm with these people, you dont have to be picking between friends. If they dont like the other people you like thats something they have to deal with Not you. Unless they work something out amongs themselves they need to grow up and stop the kiddy games.
524633
Regardless if she is your best but not favorite or your best favorite friend, if you did something to wrong her; then you should apologize.  Keep in mind, what goes around comes around.
687528
I dont think that is a very good friend. If you choose 2 stay friends with her make sure you dont tell her anything you would want everyone else 2 know as well.Also I am sure she wouldn't want you 2 do that 2 her. Tell her how you feel or show her how it would feel by doing it 2 her.
770746
anyone that makes you choose someone over them, isn't a friend.\n\nrun from this person before they use you, take you for what you have, etc.
771656
Just be yourself and keep all the friends you have.  If someone doesn't like a friend of yours, tell them to handle it themselves and leave you out of it.  You are not a messenger nor a mediator.
146131
It's really not your choice - it's hers, good decision or bad.  \nYou advised her with your opinion, she knows where you stand.  Now it's time to stay out of her business - if it bothers you that much, perhaps you need to find a new friend.
438622
Accept the fact that you have a liar for a friend or dump the friend. The choice is yours.
541051
you might consider her your friend but you need to look at if she considers you a close friend, after all, she is using you to get back at him.  Look closely, is this something friends do to each other.
932150
Tell her to stop then because it is hurting your feelings.  If she don't want to stop, then you should stop hanging out with her.  Friends should respect each other.  Stick to your decision, no matter what the consequence maybe.  Don't worry about her gossiping about you, the most important thing is you stick to who you are as a person.  Eventually your action will speak louder than her words, if she retaliate like that.
221950
If your best won't hang out with you then she isn't your best friend.  move on and find a new one.
1095287
My friend was jealous of my relationship with this guy I was hanging out with (she is married, I am not). She listened to someone else and their opinions and freaked out on me at the bar, in front of everyone and called me a sl*t and other names. We were supposed to go on a trip together in a week with a group of friends. I canceled my hotel reservations. Then the friend whose birthday it was heard about it and she asked me to still come, saying she would uninvite the other friend (they were closer than we were). Told her she did not have to do that, but the trip was pretty awkward. Our friendship was never the same after that, even though she apologized, and now we aren't friends anymore.