y is it when some1 breaks up with u all of his friends wanna be with you?
336680
beats me.  My guess though, is some of the friends my relize how good you really are....either that or want to be your rebound.  I'm not sure.
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
338566
It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
512991
break up with them and go out with someone else
311548
They don't want to ruin the good relationship they already have. If you break up, then who's to say that you won't be friends anymore. It's all about trust and how well they know each other!
1007310
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
270277
he asked me if my best friend was dating anyone and when we broke up would I be mad if he went out with her. I told him that she was seeing someone (for 5 months) because she was and then i broke up with him because there are so many other guys out there i can be with that wont say that to me!!!!!
789379
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
828902
i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
916866
It depends if the guy can let go.  As soon as I break up (or rather they break up with me) I am READY to start a new one with an open heart.\n\nSo, it really depends if the person has TRULY let go!
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.
182130
If you are breaking up with them because you are absolutely, positively, 100% sure that there is no way to work things out then...you are exiting a bad situation and that is a good thing.  It's not a fun thing and it hurts like hell but if it's the right thing to do then unfortunately you just have to do it.  Then you just have to pick up the pieces and move forward.  They forgot to give some of us the manuals on Life is not going to be perfect.
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
141926
He was defenitly just wanting to break up with you. This almost always happens after a guy starts acting weird and distant.
30237
Well thats tough...his friend is your EX right?  Therefore, it may be akward but it shouldn't be that bad.  But that really depends on how you guys broke up.  If it was bad and you guys aren't friends try to catch your guy at a time when he isn't with your ex.  In the hallway, a free period, after school, walking home/to transportaion.  Try and become friends with him.  Strike up a convo with him.  Learn his interests and show intrest in them.  Make him laugh and smile.  He'll appreciate you for it.  Don't try to hard though.  Once you guys are friends move foward from there.
1141843
thats kinda sad for u and him. if hes supposed to be ur friend he probably cares about ur feelings
451310
u never break up with someone because of someone else. u break up because that was something u wanted to do or you'll find yourself in the position in now, wanting them back. if u're with another guy and u want to be with someone else, then u need to break it off with that person.  it's not fair to them and if u want the other guy back let him know.