What would you say is the benefit and end result of asking someone on a date, who would you ask, and how?
337751
benifits could include pleasure and fun. end result could be a life partner. you should ask some1 your like. and just ask for dinner or a movie.
79115
ask them all for a date and see which is the best to spend time with
503845
ask her out, and see what happens
557392
A good first date... Depends really.\nI personally would go out for dinner. Afterwards, instead of the usual movie, I would go see a show or concert. When the show is over, we would head back to my place or her place. Then we would just wind down and watch movies until I had to go. I would most likely want a kiss, but if that doesn't happen I won't lose any sleep over it. That sounds pretty good to me.
666765
will this turn out bad ..  Perhaps\n\nor good ..   Perhaps\n\ni cant tell...  And I look like a fortune teller?\n\nwas this a good idea or no? ..  Probably not the best approach, but it's done, so there's not much you can do about it now (read: don't' worry about it any more that you've done it, focus on the future)\n\nshould i have just done it on my own .. In my personal opinion, you should have done it on you own.  What is the worst thing that can happen?  She can say "no".  Which is the same worst case scenario that could happen by having a friend intervene.  It would most likely not be the last time in your life that you would be asking someone out, and you most likely don't want to go through your entire life having friends ask people out for you.  It probably won't go over so well when you're older.  Yes, there's a chance that she could say no, but there will be plenty of "no"s in your life, as well as plenty of "yes"s.  Now is a good time to practice having confidence and getting used to asking someone out that you like.\n\nIn the meantime, there's not much you can do about this except wait.  So, don't get caught up worrying about what "might" happen; you could end up being very surprised!  Just relax, and know that you will be able to handle whatever the outcome is.\n\nAnd having someone else see if she likes you isn't the best plan, either.  How does she act around you?  Does she talk to you, or ignore you?  Pay attention to you, or not?  Find reasons to make conversations with her, and based upon how you feel, then decide if there is a chance that she might be interested in you.  Then you could ask her out.  If she says no, that doesn't mean that she doesn't like you; just that she isn't interested in going out on a date with you.  That will not mean anything negative about you; it is simply a fact that she isn't interested in going out with you.  But, you will never know unless you ask!
336245
The same way as a first and third and hundredth time. Or more likely, a better way that you didn't know the first time (because you've never successfully asked someone to go on a date with you?).\n\nSo the answer is in a straight-forward manner: "Do you want to go out on a date with me?"
329754
I think it is the perfect opportunity to get to know someone's character, personality, spirit and intellect, because you haven't met and you're being influenced by what you're learning about this person and not by the way they look.  (If you don't swap pics yet). I'd say, "Go for it" and "Good luck"!
885327
hands with flowers and ask me.. but I am seeing someone already and the besy way he asked me out, was when he had those post note and jot down"will u go out with me sometime"
43227
If the guy asks you out on a date, as in, not "friends" but a real live date, he is making the invitation to take you out and treat you. That is the understanding. If you ask him out, then it should be you who pays, since you would be the one planning the date. If the outing is more casual, like just coffee, and he doesn't offer to pay when he asks you to hang out, order your biscotti to go: because he just wants to be friends, or is totally clueless and not boyfriend material.
977158
Mostly, but not necessarily.  It depends on how it's said, in what situation, etc.\n\nFor example, if I'd just spent a fun day full of laughter and sweetness with a best guy friend at an amusement park or something similar, and then, unexpectedly, he turned and asked 'Would you ever date me?", I'd think it meant something.\n\nIf we're laughing and joking as we watch 'The Bachelor' or some other stupid show on TV and he asks "Would you ever date me?", I wouldn't expect it meant anything.\n\nDoes that make sense?  Most remarks probably fall somewhere in between those two scenarios, making it hard to understand, but it could just be that the person wants to know about their own desirability, and is using you as a mirror to tell them their strengths and flaws.
671183
WOW! WHAT A QUESTION. HOW CAN YOU PUT THE WORDS MEANINGFUL AND RELATIONSHIP IN A QUESTION ASKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND. THAT MAKES A LOT OF SENSE!
351673
good conversation to see if there is more then a sexual vibe going on. fun, laughter a little shyness in between. it's a first date it shouldn't be too much drama going on. plus it depends on who the couple is, like if they've known each other for the longest or just met you know?
252335
i'm actually going to say that the internet date is better simply because you have a chance to get to know them before you go on the date so that you'll already have some background knowledge and experience together. that way you'll always have something to fall back on if things get quite. plus you normally can get a look at them first and find out it your even vaguely interested.
583937
Just SAy these.\nWhen I first saw you I told myself that i want to know you more and want to date. But as soon I started to know you and started to date you, I started to love to you more and started to understand you more. I have understand and love you from deep down, now I want to start a new life as partners \nGOOd LUCK
109983
Not necessarily. It depends how you formulate your question. Sometimes is better to give some harmless suggestions and let him to take the initiative. Anyway, you can demonstrate no deep feelings about him the first date so you’ll drive him nuts. See what happens!
228600
ask the person who asked it
490187
if you're out to attract the person ur conversing with into a web of desire and love, you should ask non-sensitive things about him/her. it lets em know ur interested.\n\nif ur in the conversation that u dont want to develop, the weather is usually a good topic. asking whether he/she's used yahoo! answers would usually open a whole world of subtopics.