are tampons ok for virgins?
344772
Yes.  I used them for over 10 years, with no damage to my hymen.  Eventually it broke, but not from a tampon!\n\n"All the tampons are fine-they don't go up high enough to break your hymen, they are too short"\n\nThis is incorrect; the hymen is way down at the opening of the vagina, and the tampon must sit inside the vagina.
256470
Yes u are.  Just like it is a myth that a tampon cause u to lose your virginity!  His finger unless its like reallyu big for a finger- is not long enough or large enough to tear away the skin that makes you a virgin so yes u r still a virgin.  Also virginity is based on your first penetration by his ...........  your doing just fine darlin!
959572
um.. try wearing a tampon and use a pad?
887641
dont worry even if it has broken you are a virgin until you have sex for the first time.\nsome girls are even born without hymens,but it can break by using tampons or many other ways without ever having sex.\nyou can check,gently put a finger in your vagina,no more then an inch,if you feel a thin film of skin,yours is intact.
1123725
There are tampons made especially for teens now. The very slender and easy to insert. Make sure to use them together with a maxi pad, though, because if you are flowing heavy they often aren't enough protection.\n\nGet the thin, overnight pads with wings (extra long too, if you can find them). Wear 2 if you need it. Bring lots of extras with you so you can change often and feel fresh thoughout the wedding and reception.\n\nIf you want to try something different there are menstrual cups available (in Canada we have "Instead"). They come in a package of 6, and each one looks just like a diaphragm (contraceptive device). The instructions on how to insert it is on there as well. Again, use it with a pad to be sure that no leaks occur.\n\nIn case a leak happens remember that the best way to get rid of blood is to soak it immediately in ice water. You could rub an ice cube on the spot if you needed to. You could also bring a darker colored shawl, just in case of an accident and that way you could cover your backside and still go on with the evening even if you got a small stain.\n\nIf I were you, I would try to use the teen size tampons with the thin, overnight size pads and bring a shawl just in case.\n\nGood luck!
399335
If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
871466
Sanitary pads are a lot more hygienic and safer than tampons, they also don't cause menstrual cramps as tampons do in their effect on vaginal health and interference with the cervix. Tampons prevent normal vaginal cleaning, give bacteria a place to multiply, leaves fibres within the body, absorb vaginal fluids, and allow for chemicals to be put into a major orifice of the body, thus why tampons are associated with so many health problems from bacterial vaginosis through to toxic shock syndrome and endometriosis. \n\nPads can also be more comfortable depending on what sort of pads you use, commercial pads like Always are not very comfortable because the synthetic materials stop air getting to your vulva making it sweaty and prone to rashes or infections like yeast infections, and those materials can also rub against your skin. Where as organic pads are more comfortable, and cloth pads, homemade pads and padded panties are exceptionally comfortable. \n\nPads are quicker to use because you don't have to mess about as much with wrapping up the used ones before throwing in the bin, they are also not as intimate which is something that a lot of less mature girls have issues with, but it means they don't require quite as much care.
860517
Besides the risk of toxic shock syndrome, I can't think of any real cons to the use of tampons.  Your mother may feel that if you comfortable inserting tampons into your vagina that you may become more comfortable inserting other things as well, including boy parts.  An old myth is that using tampons takes a girl's virginity.  This is not the case--only sexual intercourse makes a girl not a virgin anymore, but tampon use CAN break your hymen.  So can bike riding, horseback riding, doing splits and gymnastics, and various other activities.\n\nSome people say that the white tampons (most of them) contain bleaches that shouldn't be exposed to mucous membrane.  That is really up to you, though, and depends on your personal opinions as there is no substantial scientific research at this time.\n\nThe pros of using tampons?\n\n- No bulky pad showing in your pants.\n- You can go swimming without looking weird (I actually saw a girl in a swimsuit with a pad once... I never thought anyone would do that until then!)\n- Less danger of leaks (tampons can still leak, I recommend OB brand which leak less often but you still should change them every time you use the toilet).\n- Smaller product to carry around with you.\n- They're flushable, so you don't have to find a place to put them after you use them.\n- The smell is less noticable.\n- When used overnight they greatly reduce the risk of leaking all over the bedsheets.\n\nAfter originally posting, I noticed someone who mentioned being concerned about "plugging up" the flow.  Tampons do not plug anything up, they absorb the flow and you remove it every few hours when you use the bathroom.
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
548855
Okay well, two things.  First is, yes, technically from the first period you can use them.  I used them from about age 14.  However.  There are certain things that make it easier.  I was into gymnastics and horseback riding which will naturally stretch the hymen (the opening to the vagina in a virgin) and so it wasn't difficult.  For virgins who do not perform any sort of exercise (and that can also be sexual petting which involves insertion of finger into vagina) that opens the hymen a little.  If not, you may find it difficult.  There are tampons for teens that are slimmer and smaller that you can buy.  The best thing to do is, WHEN YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH TRYING, buy a teen starter pack, read the instructions and attempt a few times.  Eventually you'll see how it works.  If you are worried about it or you belong to some religion that forbids such things, well, leave it till it is acceptable.  If you are on a swim team or other sports where a pad just won't work, it will be necessary.  It's not that bad, they are very comfortable when you know how to use them.  Please just don't leave them in for longer than 4 hours, you could get toxic shock syndrome.
113641
i agree with honesty...\nyou dont have to wear tampons if you dont want to. both virgins and non virgins can wear them.  and same goes for pads.  wear whats more comfortable for you
721709
No, you are still a virgin. Now some people think that you lose your virginity if your hymen is broken.. but if that was the case then I lost my virginity when I was twelve thanks to my first period(tampon)! So I personally do not see how using a toy would make it to where you are no longer a virgin. It's just a form of masturbation... Guys don't lose their virginity when they play with themselves, do they?! :)\n\nSorry I was a little personal... And in some peoples eyes graphic... But it's just my opinion and experience speaking! :)
701808
The youngest I have known is 16 years old, I was about 19 or 20 when I started using one and god did I wish I had known about them when I was 13 as they would have saved me a whole lot of hassle and embarrassment at school with my heavy periods!!\n\nThey are fine for young girls, because there is no risks associated they are a lot better than tampons because there is less risk of TSS that young girls bodies cannot deal as well with due to fewer antibodies and no risk of vaginal splitting, younger girls vaginal walls aren't as thick as women's so more prone to damage. They are a lot easier to put in because they are made form silicone or rubber so no friction and a lot easier for girls to deal with because they don't have to change them all the time. \n\nThe only problems really are that they can break the hymen that may be an issue for some girls and the whole 'ew periods!' sort of response might make them a little squeamish about using one, especially as they don't teach girls about them – normally they get told they have to use either tampons or pads, and they imply pads are for babies so girls feel they have to use tampons in order to be grown up and they are too immature to learn otherwise at that age. Other than that though, it's best for girls to start off with healthy body-positive options like menstrual cups rather than risking tampons or feeling uncomfortable with pads.
878634
yes tampons can break your hymen, but so can horseriding or sport so it's not really considered an issue, you are still considered a virgin until you have sex regardless of tampon usage
534564
Only one rule: Wear a tampon and change it when necessary.  Otherwise, you can do what you want and don't be embarrassed if you are a little bloated because you are menstral and its all only natural and out of our control
239317
Tampons don't hurt. As a matter of fact, they can be a lot more comfortable than pads. I recommend trying Tampax Pearls - the applicator is a really smooth plastic, so they are REALLY easy to use. Some of the cheaper cardboard ones (which are really just as good) can be very slightly less comfortable to use. \n\nThe first time is really pretty weird, I have to admit. There are directions in every box, though, that are very helpful. Just take the box in the bathroom, lock the door, and take your time. Trust me, after the first time, it's really easy - no sweat. \n\nLet's see...tips...I agree with the person above - change the tampon frequently. Every 4-6 hours will probably do if you're in the middle of a really heavy "flow." If you're having a lighter day, you can go longer. It's perfectly alright to sleep with one in, too. Never put more than one in at a time - it seems bizarre, but I've heard of people doing it and it's just not a good idea. I know there are scary side effects listed on the side, but seriously, I've never even heard a second-hand account of anybody having trouble with toxic shock or any of that sort of thing. It's gotta be an extrodinarily rare thing - they must just have to put that on the box for legal reasons or something...a 'cover-your-a$$' kind of thing.\n\nOther than that, it's pretty stupid-proof. Women have been dealing with stuff for many many years - you can do it, and you'll be glad you gave it a try. They really are a lot easier to deal with than pads. Anyway - Welcome to the tampon club!! :)
992481
I would have to guess that it would be just like a women who was not in menses. \n\nIf you are talking about products she probably would use a Tampon instead of a pad like when women go swimming during menses.\n\nAtleast that is what I would do.