If someone has a heart transplant do they still love their husband or wife like they did with their old heart?
348371
The love you feel for a person does not literally come from your physical heart. Your physical heart is an organ in your body needed to keep you alive. Love and feelings come from a person's spirit or soul
1088474
I have decided after two marriages that there are different kinds of love, you do what makes YOU feel the best.  You won't be able to change your husband, and I know from experience, they may try to change, but it rarely works out, and if so only temporarily.\nIt ends up not being fair to either one of you.  Don't take a chance on losing your new love...........
720281
It's always hard losing a love, whither they are still alive or dead. As long as you hold that someone in your heart you will love them till the end of your time. Does that mean you will never love someone else as much, you probably will, and they will be in your heart as well.
134693
I married my best guy friend and we were married for 8 years.  We had EVERYTHING in common.  Same taste in movies, t.v. shows, food, friends.  Only one problem, no sex.  We never had the chemistry that you can only have with true love.  We were always just best friends.  He never treated me poorly and we got along great and everyone thought we were the perfect couple.\nWe finally parted ways and are still very good friends.  I am re-married and he is engaged and both realize what we had was never really a marriage.  We got married for the wrong reasons.  I mean it's great to be with someone you get along with, but if there's no spark it's not going to work.  You will both be unhappy and always wanting more.  I am with a guy now who I enjoy being around and that challenges me.  We don't have the same interests, hobbies and friends but I am happier than I ever was in my first marriage because I am truly in love with him.  Sure I love my ex husband and always will but it's more like brotherly love than anything.  Hope this helps!!
648559
Not besides surgery, if you love your wife you should love her just the way she is and not want to change anything about her, expecially her breasts, that seems so uncaring and selfish!
542952
yes it is funny but....... you can love someone with all of your heart and still not like them for the things they do.the things they say.you stay hoping things will get better and you stay to the point that drives you crazy and when you feel that the husband or wife dont care any more.\nand are not doing anything to help the problems then you leave.
536865
Absolutely. After all the heart is capable of loving more than one person on the same level.
588248
I met a guy 4 years ago in Fla, and he went back to the army and I met my current husband. I still love my hubby but I long for those care free days with my ex. He was handsome and so fun to be around! i have three kids now and would never leave my hubby but sometimes I wish I could just go and have fun like I used to! My ex is dating someone else now and we still talk and the other day he sent me an email with one line and it said "I would give anything in this world for one more night with you" it sent chills up my spine! I would NEVER cheat but wow! things like that make me blush!
832193
i didnt have one but a cousin who i love so much had kidney transplant approximately 10 years ago today...she's pretty much healthy but she had to take those..anti rejection meds all the time  and she has to take steroids...she gets short of breath at minimal exertion and she has cardiomegally....but she is pretty much ...healthy...and able to talk to me on the phone.....and she laughs a lot like me
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No!\nMy wife and I have been together for 8 years and I think we can safely say that we are more in love than ever. Most people find, however, that over a period of roughly 4 to 7 years of marriage, the intensity or sense of romantic passion fades and is replaced by a sense of comfortable security that can sometimes seem somewhat uninspiring. Security in love can make people “lazy” in certain way. Relationship therapists can suggest various ways to liven things up and put the “spark” back into married life, but I’m not sure how successful these strategies are in the long run. A related issue is that a lot of people find that marriage ruins their sex life. Personally, I think this is pretty much natural for long-term monogamous relationships. I suppose you can always come up with some examples of a couple who has been married for 40 years and still have a hot monogamous sex life, but at the risk of sounding pessimistic, I think this is incredibly rare, and I think that a lot of people unnecessarily beat themselves up over their inability to stay sexually interested in their spouse. I think the high rates of cheating and divorce provide good statistical support for everything I’ve said so far.\n\nMy wife and I have a lifestyle that works well for us (tho I don’t claim it will work for everyone!) We have an open marriage. This has several amazing effects. For one thing, I think it keeps us both “younger” in some sense. We can openly explore erotic and/or loving relationships, and this means that life can be periodically charged with what is sometimes call “new relationship energy” (NRE). This is that energetic feeling of “walking on air” and everything seems bright and beautiful in the world. Most married people are afraid of this sort of thing, and of course for some people it can lead to jealousy, but in our case it is good for BOTH of us. I find that my freedom to love others increases my love, appreciation, and erotic attraction for my wife.\n\nOf course a lot of people put us down and claim that their love is better than ours because we are missing something or whatever, but they don’t know us, nor do they have any deeper clues than we do about the true nature of love, meaning of life, etc., so I don’t let this bother me – although I do sometimes (like now) get on a soapbox because I think more people need to realize that healthy, happy people can explore alternatives to the standard monogamous marriage script.\n\nIn any case, I don’t see marriage ever killing our love-life.
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Yes I was head over heels for my first husband things went south we divorced and I loved him still.  I got married to a really great guy who understood that I may always love my exhubby.  After a year of being married I don't even think about my ex anymore... I am tee-totally all for my Marine.  We are cut from the same cloth....
281324
yes you can you can love a person an then you also have a person on the side that treats you better an thats what get you then out of know were they have your heart
360384
Well, look at it this way, it shows that feelings for him run deep and that he understands love is eternal.  Just because one still loves someone doesn't mean that they feel they can have a relationship with them.  I love the man who I was engaged to before my husband, and I'll love him forever.  That doesn't mean I"m going to sleep with him or leave my husband for him.  It didn't work for us, we both knew that and moved on.  We've remained best friends for over 25 years and go to lunch every Tuesday.
570333
not trying to be offensive but if they were to be injured in a devistated accident would u stay with them. would u be faithful to them if they could not do the deed? would u stand by them if they had some devestating illness? does the thought of loosing them put u over the edge and the fear of loosing them just kills you inside? if yes then i would say that is love. if no i would say obviously it is not love. but it doesn't mean that it can not grow into a love. love can take time for some where others it omes love at first sight. well good luck
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Of course you can love them both.......But you will have to love one better than the other. You will have to make a choice sooner or later as to which you love better. I imagine you made wedding vows to your wife. Did you promise your coworker anything? Who did you make promises to first? Will you have to break your promises to one of them in order to continue loving the other? If you think you can love them both the same, you can't.
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Yes....20 years ago and I'm still together with him.  He is my soulmate.  He changed for me, and I changed for him and yet we still have our separate identies.  \n\nI knew because we started out as friends and when my boyfriend (at the time) dumped me for something cuter, he took me bowling, just to keep my mind off of that.  I knew he was the guy when he took me home, walked me to the door and hugged me.  20 years later - he's still hugging and the feeling just keeps better.\n\nLike turned into love and we've been through every stage of the marriage vows except death.  We are better now than we were 10 years ago and I feel like a young woman all over again, and maybe even more so now because I'm a little bit older, a lot wiser, and I know I'd do it all over again.\n\nMy dad always said you know you've found him when you can picture him in a wheelchair and you're right by his side.  Well, I did, and I am.  My dad was right.
1016658
Absolutely NOT. Unlike you, I actually love my spouse.