What do you do to kill the pain in your heart?
354794
THAT IS REALLY A DIFFICULT QUESTION. THE PAIN CAN NEVER EVER BE ERASED COMPLETELY. BUT TIME WILL PROBABLY LESSEN THE PAIN BIT BY BIT. PROBABLY TO A TINY PRICK IN YOUR HEART NOW AND THEN. WITH TIME YOU WILL LEARN TO FORGET ,WELL ALMOST FORGET , AND PROBABLY RELIVE THE SWEET MEMORIES WHICH ARE ASSOCIATED WITH YOUR WIFE.TRY TO REMEMBER THE NICE THINGS AND TRAIN YOURSELF TO FACE REALITY. WHAT HAS HAPPENED CANNOT EVER BE REVERTED, BUT YOU HAVE TO CARRY ON, FOR THE SAKE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR OTHER BELOVED ONES.BE BRAVE MAN. THINGS WILL BE SOLVED BY TIME ITSELF. PRAY TO GOD TO EASE YOUR PAIN.BEST OF LUCK.
1075654
By going to your brain and blocking the pain impulse. It also thins your blood.;)
1101118
1.  Stop smoking.\n2.  Eat more veggies and fruit\n3.  Stop eating "fast food"\n4.  Destroy your TV and xbox and get some exercise\n5.  Drink responsibly\n6.  Follow traffic laws and speeds\n7.  Don't do irrisponsible things that put your life/health in jeapardy\n8.  Limit legal settlements to reasonable levels\n9.  Finally, stop looking for the government (at my expense) to pay for your health problems when you spend all day trying to kill yourself.
150830
You cant mend a broken heart. Go ahead and feel the pain, by not getting to angry and dont put to much blame in his direction.\nFeeling the hurt will make you much stronger...and make it go away much faster. \nYou feel like you want to die...but I promise, you wont. It is something we all go thru at some time in our life and it hurts real bad. but just hang in there....it will get better!!!
838720
drink water, take a tylenol, rest. eat light foods till you feel better.
754153
Drop what you are doing, go to a quiet, private spot, preferably scenic, and take a moment to reflect on people you loved and lost.   Remember some fond memories, have a good cry, think how lucky you were to have known these precious people. When your done, go up to the person you love the most and tell that person what they mean to you. You will not regret taking this action. By doing this periodically, you gain an even greater appriciation for those in your life that care. Deep down, people will feel blessed by you and not know why.
11489
heating pad and a wet towel has worked for me.  You can't get rid of all the pain but you can lessen it to a more liveable level.
294724
i am 52 and i have had 3 heart caths in the last 10 years and they DO NT hurt,you are awake but dont feel anything,GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY
201287
Apply pressure and keep it above your heart.\n\nWhen it has clotted (stopped bleeding) clean it with alcohol and wrap it with a clean bandage (or Band-Aid if small enough).
441561
You can't kill emotions because they are the energy of life. What you can do is reinvent you by making yourself the priority in your life. Trust me, you cannot help anyone if you cannot help yourself. Then, and only then will you want to help someone else. You didn't lose love. You just went through the elimination process of what love isn't. If it was real love it would still be there. Life is never over. You can choose not to participate in it but it is never over. So what your fat. Have you looked at the stats on obese americans. You have a chance to find a new you.  This time around do things for you first. Nobody in this life owes you nothing. But you have your health, your strength and a good heart. God gave you these gifts to draw upon when things don't go quite like you want them to in life. I know your not careless and ignorant because you would have to choose these based on your experiences. You better learn from them because life is precious and short. Starting today do something for yourself and tonight say "Well done". Godspeed and Good Luck because your worth it.
1101591
Spend the day in contemplation. Remembering all the enjoyable times in my life. Trying to forgive all the people who have done me down, and hoping that people I may have hurt will do the same for me, albiet postumusly. Contemplating the possibility of life after death. Make love with a beautiful woman, ( mentaly or physicaly beautiful that is). Drink a fantasticbottle of champagne  and some 100 yr old Jack Daniels.Listen to all my favourite music such as Pink Floyd. Hopefully aproach midnight at peace with myself and the world and finally drift off peacefully. \nHey what a beautiful dream, wouldn'tit be nice to spend every day like that?\nContact me if you feel thats a good way to go, maybe we can go togeather.!!!!!!!!
619050
be true to yourself.  come clean and make amends if you can.  When that is not possible, write down the things you've done that bother you on little pieces of paper and say goodbye to them as you bury them in your garden, or toss them in your lit BBQ. then forgive yourself and forget about it.
537343
Remove myself from the situation, take a walk, take a drive, if you can't go anywhere else, just go to the bathroom, shut the door, wave your arms and scream silently.  Take deep breaths.  Listen to your very favorite music.  Everyone has to find their own combination for what works.
223220
Boil a big pot of water and stick your head in the rising steam for a while.  Get somebody to get you some Mucinex and some VapoRub from a pharmacy.  Rub the Vaporub on your chest, microwave a dry handtowel for a few seconds and place in on the area where you put the rub.  Get some sleep and get yourself better.
366190
There isn't a way to "Cure" a broken heart.  Time is the only thing that mends it.  I've tried everything and I can tell you that ONLY time will work. \n\n However, there are things that you can do during this time that will make it mend stronger.  Get involved with your friends again.  I know that you left them behind to be with that girl.  So start going out with them.  Have some fun and go out to eat and then a movie.  Go on an adventure like rafting or go help a charity.  \n\nPutting other things higher on the list than that girl will help you mend stronger.  The more things that you have on your mind besides her, the better things will be.
1019411
See a doctor and have them check it out.  It's better to be safe than to have your heart just stop one day and collapse while you're "feeling just fine".
984974
Put an end to fear, pain and oppression.