im going on 16 and i realy love my boyfriend but i told him?
355108
How old is your boyfriend. Aren't you a little bit young to be worried about a mans finances?
273279
He isnt ready to accept u in public or maybe that friend of his isnt trustworthy? But anyway i had a heartvreak recently.Dontlose ur virginity just to get him closer. It isnt worth it.True lovecomes back without such persuausion and actions. Just keep ur chin up, i knw how it feels.Ask him why he ddi this.I am a writer at 16 too. U can talk to me if u r worried.I know i amy sound too young , but i am mature for that mater and lifes taught me a lot the hard way
333524
Just be honest with him, let him know how you feel...and he might feel the same way about you...the worst he could say is no...but theres alot of other fish in the sea and your still young..you'll have plenty of boyfriends ahead of you! dont stress over it!
995967
I think that maybe you scared to say it. You don't want to let your guard down and get hurt. Whatever the case may be if you do love him you should tell him no matter how hard it is for you. Love is not something you want to let slip through your fingers because you couldn't tell him how you really feel. How badly would you be hurt if he left you? Not showing him the proper love he deserves may push him away or make him want more out of the relationship that you aren't will to give to him. I f you love him don't let him go, it will be way harder to let him go that to tell him how you really feel.
717614
try to tell him about u r feeling if the age differance between both of us is not more than 5 years I think he can understand u. go ahed coz love and feelings are limit less and unbounded best luck
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
868127
sounds like you are both quite young & placing too much importance on these words WAY TOO SOON\nalso you should be saying these things without expecting him to repeat the words back to  you\nif you ahve only just started dating then take your time & if things are meant to be then ""love "" will develop between you
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
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Your boyfriends loves you very much.\n\nIf he didn't he wouldn't put up with the way you behave, especially not at the age of 20. There are millions of young girls out there that he could have but he chose YOU. He loves YOU and he only wants to be with YOU.\n\nHe can't show you that every minute of every day because that simply isn't normal. You would probably get fed up with it if he did, you would feel smothered.\n\nYou need to sit and imagine what life would be like without him. How much you would miss him and how much you don't want that. You have to appreciate him and concentrate on the good points of your relationship.\n\nWhen you feel the rage start building, count to ten or walk away. He is much more likely to come after you than if you scream, cry and act crazy. When you do that you are actually making yourself unattractive to him and let's face it, if someone was screaming in your face and acting crazy, you would want to get away from them wouldn't you?\n\nYou are definitely NOT crazy, don't worry. You are very young and your feelings for this boy are obviously very strong. Love can make us do crazy things! Just calm down, take your time and let him have some space sometimes.\n\nYou should also have time away from him to spend with your own friends. If you never leave his side to go do something different how are you ever going to have anything to talk about? You could be telling him funny stories about things you did with your friends and making him laugh and love you even more. It will make you more interesting - it's very easy at your ages to get bored with a relationship. You have to keep it going but make it fun. \n\nHowever, hurting yourself is serious stuff and is usually the product of low self-esteem. Don't be afraid of the doctor - he/she can actually help you. They certainly wouldn't think you are crazy or lock you away. There are thousands of young people with similar issues. One day you will look back and think 'I can't believe that was me'. Unfortunately, it's all part of growing up.\n\nYou have taken the first very big and VERY important step. You are talking about it. Don't be afraid to talk about it. Your feelings are what makes you the person you are, never be afraid to express them (calmly). Please talk to your doctor - you will be surprised how kind and helpful they will be.\n\nTake care x
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No it is not bad to think twice! absolutely not! you are way too young to be serious about whatever it is between you and your guy.  there is much more in life that both of you can enjoy. lay low with the hot stuff of love. love will always be there if it's solid as the rock that you'll have when the right time comes. i say, wait for some time. enjoy life! anyway, life is a box of chocolate... you'll never know what you'll get!
8823
Tell him the truth. If your boyfriend really loves you he could understand it.
543879
wow, that is a huge age jump. Its hard to span that much age, hon, especially at that age. Just play it cool, remind him you love him, and thats about all you can do
768453
Well for me it does not matter how long you have been in a relationship when you say i love you, i think you should ONLY say it when you mean it. I think all the teens and dont Think i am some adult thinking bad of teenagers actually i am in the 8th grade so i am basically talking about my friends they toss around '' i love you'' to anyone and everyone and i dint think that is right you should only say '' i love you'' when you truly do. If you love him then just say it but go with you hart if you think it is too early or he might not ''love'' you then dont, other wise say it.
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Well if this message is for me then, I guess I already know.\n\nYou may not want to tell him because once he turns 18 he can't show any romantic relations for you do to the law.\n\nBut, say you will wait for him, if he promises to wait for you to turn 18. This is for him to stay single or true to you, hopefully. Its not an exact relationship to be in but hey; its love. If he feels that the two of you shouldn't date or what not he should be kind enough to tell you nicely that it may not work between the two of you.\n\nBut, feel free to tell him that you have a crush on him. It will make him feel happy to know that he is adored by younger girls.\n\nI sure do hope to God that you didn't mean the word CURSE!
735421
well im the same age and i do all that stuff with my bf.. and no one thinks that it is weird.. and ppl dont say that we're too young. and just tell him you love him randomly when he makes you laugh or something.. it will be hard at first but after you get used to hugging and holding hands, u wil be doing it alot! trust me!
1123282
dont feel like you have to do it just because hes ready... if your not ready then dont do it you dont want to end be 15 and pregnant like i was... when your ready youll know it and you can tell him if he loves you hell wait till your ready... trust me its so much better when your ready too. good luck
1085899
16 because i thought i was in love