My BOYFRIEND'S BIRTHDAY CONFLICTS WITH MY PREFORMANCE!!!?
346024
if he cares about your future, i'm sure he's willing to push back the dinner reservations, or even move them to a different day. maybe the night before, or the day after. the restaurant, as well as the beach will always be there. i know it's his birthday, but he should be gracious about it. if he throws a hissy-fit about it, that tells you how much he cares about your future.
708115
Happy Birthday!\n\nJust wanted to make sure I didn't get in the doghouse too :)\n\nIf you have to ask if you should be offended about something, then (ideally) you shouldn't be.  The fact is that you're hurt, and I think most people would be in your shoes.\n\nYes, you should say something to her.  This stuff festers if it's not addressed.  Be careful how you word it, though.  Tell her how you feel (she can't argue with your feeling) about the situation:\n\n"I felt sad when you didn't want to talk on my birthday, or even SAY happy birthday."\n\nHere's the deal, though.  When the discussion is over, let it go.  We don't get points for thoughtless stuff people do.
421228
We're both Capricorns and we just can't stand it when things are not right ! And this is NOT right.... I feel what you're saying and feeling, I'm sure you talked to him about it and he just comes up with "innocent" explanations ! Don't give up, keep at it and warn him that this will lead to a gap between you and eventually a break up... Even if he doesn't mean any harm, it will develop, and if not with this one then with another! Keep him away from the Internet as much as you can, keep him busy with you,give him a good time in his spare time, until this faze passes....Good Luck
415424
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE!!!!\n\nGO CRAZY!!!!  Do whatever you want or whatever the law doesn't want you to do... sike i don't want you to get introuble or anything.... but go ALL OUT!! invite everybody......\n\nOR you could just cry if you want to cause it'll be your party
596186
DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
1128178
You're passive to the point of being submissive. Stop letting him make you feel bad by his actions. If his heart isn't in the relationship by being there for you in ways that will bring you happiness then my suggestion is for you to make sure he understand exactly what you need from him in order for the relationship to work. If you can't find common ground that creates an equal and mutual happiness then what's the true point of the relationship? To not make the effort to make you special day something to remember is about as selfish and self centered as I can imagine. You deserve better and I think you know this so make changes for you own happiness. If he won't take you out for your birthday then go out with friends and celebrate without him. If you don't have anyone to go out and celebrate with then let me know and I'll go party with you and I don't even know you but it's your birthday and that's reason enough.
818462
OUCH, IM SORRY. I BET YOU ARE TOTALLY LOYAL TO CLOSE FRIENDS AND FAMILY BUT UNTRUSTING OF OTHERS AND SNEAKY,SLY AND INTELLIGENT AS WELL. MY EX IS SCORPIO HIS B DAY IS TOMORROW. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!
583591
Hon, you said something very important..when he is around you you want to be with him but when he is not around you then you question why you are together.........this means that some way or another he is munipulating the situation. The way you feel when he is not around is KEY! \n\nAnother thing, has it occured to you that he want you to be with him on your birthday cuz he don't want anyone else to be with you on your specail day? \n\nAnother thing if he does not want to sign any lease or whatever then that is a big RED flag saying stop and re-evaluate the situation. \n\nFinally i say dump him and move on.You will find someone better for you.
422441
you should always make time to celebrate your birthday, even if all you do is treat yourself to your favorite restaurant...take the time to give yourself a pat on the back...what would the world be like without you? not nearly as good as it is with you here! :) happy birthday!
446051
Get out some paper and colored pencils.  Make him little love coupons. Examples could be.  One Free Back Rub, One romantic home cooked meal, You Pick the Movie, Pamper him on his birthday.  He will remember that forever.  Sounds crazy but I was broke once for my boyfriends birthday.  I typed out a hundred reasons why I loved thim and cut them into strips and but them in a jar.  I did that three years ago, He is know my husband and still has the jar.  Good luck with your gift and Happy Birthday to your Boyfriend.
510823
as the concierge of the hotel they should be able to tell you some events going on in the area, just remember its his birthday so dont drag him to the opera or a play unless it is something he is really into, a nice dinner is always good but dont be surprised if he wants to drag you to some sports bar to watch the game (GO RED SOX!!!!) but im sure he will love the time you two share in the room much much better anyway \n\nhappy birthday to your man (my mans birthday is 05/15/06) im in same boat what to do hmmmmmmmmmm
403164
yeah you should talk to him. just start by saying"so you coming to my sons birthday paty?" and just go from there. it wont be so bad!!!Good luck!!!!:)
388113
Ok...in my experience...you are better off telling him what you want. Otherwise, you will get something you don't want. For example, last year for my birthday my husband got me a gift certificate for an OIL CHANGE!! So, think of something you want...spa package, jewelry, new pajamas, nice romantic dinner at home, whatever. Just tell the poor guy so he doesn't have to worry himself. he just wants to make you happy!
578452
well it's my bf birthday on the 3rd of june and that's the day we come back from holiday so we can't really do anything but the week after on the saturday i have booked the double double deluxe room for us for the weekend in the hilton hotel, he doesn't have a clue and it's killing me not telling him! i can't keep secrets! and he thinks i'm just taking him out for a nice meal in a restaurant! i can't wait to see his face!!\nBut it's worse not telling him because i have to try and keep it quiet until then which is 3 weeks time, ssooooo long away!!!!!! omg that feels good to tell someone\nthanks
801613
Happy Birthday!! Thats sweet that you think of your parents,,why not get them something  :O) I think we give the birthday person gifts to celebrate their life & the fact that they were brought into the world.Maybe you should get yourself a present~ a new bf,,lol.Pamper yourself today,,or go out & see what the wind blows your way,,see what the day shows you :O)
1028622
well your on again- off again boyfriend seems to have personal issues to work out. my advice to you would to be GET OUT KNOW!!! this option is still good because you stated you have been seeing him for a few months. it seems he has a pattern and it will continue. who knows why these things keep coming up, maybe its another girl, maybe he likes to play games, or maybe bad luck. my main point is none of this is productive for you it just brings you stress, and probably causes you alot of sadness. explain to him how you feel, and remain friends with him. if sometime down the road he can get his life together maybe you can  rekindle what you use to have.
38372
No.  It's in a guys genes to forget things like birthdays and anniversaries.  Instead of breaking up with him, get him a planner to use and in red marker circle the dates that need to be remembered and write down in it what that day is.  Worse case, if that doesn't work, write it on his forhead so that way he sees it in the mirror in the morning when he is getting dressed.