My bf tells me that he wants to get married to me. Does he really mean this?
339459
man, good question.\nsay yes.. and you´ll find out what will happen. \nif he´s gonna start makin´ plans.. telling ppl about it he should mean it right?!\n\nif he was playin´ you he would not tell everyone .. cos then ppl would say he´s an a*s*s*h*o*l*e.\n\nGood luck.. follow your heart. If you are sure you wanna be with him go for it! God leads us to all kind of ppl. \nNow it´s up to you to find out if he is the right one of if this is just one of many experience god wants you to make.\n\nGood luck dear. You will find out. I just found my man, who is heaven send. Darlin ´ you´d feel if he is the right one.\n\n\nTTYL
330356
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
853861
Marriage is pretty serious or at least it should be.  A proposal by text message is pretty lame and pathetic.  I think it is a sign that he does not take marriage or you seriously enough.  You should not have to wonder about it.  Sorry you've had a bad experience twice, but hang it there, someone will come along that will treat you right.
545739
I think it's more than a friendship relationship at this point. I would say he's defidently more than interested, but committed. I think since you have so much in commen, he probebly thinks along the same lines as you regarding dating and getting married. You should have a serious conversation about your futures with him. Hear what he's thinking, then be honest, and tell him your consernes, and hopes for the relationship becoming more. Good luck! It sounds like you've found a great guy!
73221
Don't persue it, he is getting married.  Go find another boyfriend. Besides, he will probably kick your a$$ for even thinking that you could do him.
307369
He wants to make sure that everyone knows that you are WAY off the market.  He has made a very small commitment, but if your not planning on marrying him I would cut and run.  He sounds somewhat controlling, but it could just be that ya'll are young and tenatious.
464789
If he loves you and you love him then you will get married when the time is right.  However, you have to be patient, if his marriage ended badly (emotionally that is) then he might not be ready to commit just yet.  You should not take that as a sign that he does not love you or doesn't want to be with you.  Just go slow and keep talking to eachother and it will work out the way it was intended to.
747019
it sound like he does. my bf says the same thing to me and so far he's ment it. but, if your having a hard time believeing him, lay off the kisses or follow your gut instinct.\n If he ever does try to go farther than you want and he starts saying things like:\n i love you\nyour my everything\nwe can handle it....\n  I'm pretty sure thats the sign to leave him.\nBut from what ur saying, he hasn't tried anything like that. so i think u can trust him and u never know, he might really really mean it, just don't take any drastict measures until something really goes srong.\n\ngood luck!
523894
it might mean something, but might be just a date... be happy as it means he is not ashamed of you and takes you with him... he wants you get involved into hes lives so he would expect be involved to yours too... but it doesn't mean that he is going get you a proposal the next day... just relax and enjoy your time...
291528
You should talk to him about it. Ask if he sees himself marrying you in the future. Time doesn't matter always. I've been with my boyfriend for almost six years and we're in school and life is happening so we're waiting. Besides, the longer you date the more you learn about each other before you get married!
1176141
Obviously he doesn't want to marry you.  Most likely it has nothing to do with you.  He is probably not man enough to tell you how he feels so he just keeps delaying.  Ask him if he wants to rethink marriage for a while and see what he says.  If he jumps all over the idea, there is your answer.  If he still insists you get married ask him to set a date and keep it.
1094375
have you talked to him about your desire to be married one day?  he may be afraid of committment.  if a man can have sex with you, live with you, be fed by you, etc., then he's getting all the goods for nothing.  why marry when you can get it all without the committment?  don't know if that's your situation, but likely he's not thinking about it because he's getting all the benefits of being married without actually having to go all the way.\n\nby the way, if he's not interested that probably will not change anytime soon.  it may be time to move on if you truly want to be with someone who wants to marry you.  never force it.  that will come back to bite you in the butt sooner or later.
1042040
Instead of him telling you that if that's what YOU want then go ahead and do it, which doesn't sound very convincing on his part to me, he needs to actually say directly that yes that is what I want to do too, not if that's what makes YOU happy because he isn't including himself in that equation and that kind of leaves him room to get himself out of it if he up and decides to take off before hand. So no I wouldn't make plans just yet not til you hear him say He is ready and wanting to and he buys you an engagement ring. Then if that happens you can probably be more sure of it being a true thing.
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
1140008
He is just saying that to keep you, he knows thats something YOU want. He most likly doesnt want to get married and if he does not right now. Either you keep letting him ignore you or tell what you want  and follow through dont except anything less than what you deserve, but pressuring him would be the wrong thing to do. I think you should just let him know how you feel and then determine if he is worht waiting for, dont let him slip away if you know he is a good guy.!!!!
588438
It depands on the couple's level of maturity.  If he pops the question, tell him that you would prefer a long engagement.  This will give you both a chance to grow with each other and find out it it is right.  I wouldn't get married just yet...  heck, you are only 18, you can wait a year or two...
411371
hi ,yes its fine to ask a guy to marry you ,but its not very nice what he said to you ,its not his turn ?? how many times does he want to get engaged ?? this could all to do with the MALE EGO thing !! he asked someone and probably got hurt ,and doesnt want to get hurt again ,marriage when it comes down to it is a bit of paper and a ring ,what you have this now is him and you and a future together,enjoy that and things will work out and anyway you never know he could be the one to ask you  good luck have a greeat life together XX