I am a virgin and going to have sex with a virgin girl. What all things we should be careful about?
353552
Having sex just to have sex is not a good idea.  With that said, if you two truly love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together, than you need to have a discussion about sex with each other.  Talk about what you would do if she were to get pregnant, any expectations either of you have, and why you're both ready to lose your virginity.  After this talk if you both are on the same page with your feelings (like whether or not to keep a baby, have an abortion, or give it up for adoption; how it will change your relationship- because it will- and so on) than you need to go to Planned Parenthood and get information on birth control and how to properly use a condom.  Make sure that if she decides to take the pill or use another form of birth control that you use a condom for at least a couple of months.  Don't expect the first time to be mind blowing.  Most guys won't admit this, but they don't last very long the first few times they have sex because the sensations are so new.  I think our first time lasted about a minute.  Sex can sometimes be painful for a girl the first time, especially if her hyman hasn't broken yet.  She will probably feel uncomfertable and may even bleed.  It can help things if you use a lube like KY Jelly.  If she asks you to stop, than STOP!  There are better things in life than having sex.  Remember that this is something you can never give to another person, no matter how much you may want to.  Just make sure that you are really willing to give ALL of yourself to the other person before you decide to have sex.
553102
it is not necessary for a virgin girl to bleed in her first time having sex. Bleeding is due to the tearing of the hymen during penetration of the penis, but the hymen can be previously torn during active sports, like gymnastics, horseriding. But that said, even if her hymen is already torn, a virgin girl having sex may experience sharp pain and soreness 'down there', because the vagina is being stretched for the first time.
894204
well sex can be painful for a virgin girl. because your vagina is not broad enogh and during sexual intercourse , the hymen breaks which might lead to some blood loss. first time sex can be painful for a girl
1162841
Imagine asking a thousand boys about Doing It. We'd get three sets of answers on the subject of virgins... \n\n1. The "Thank God she's a virgin" answers:\n\n- She's never felt this way about anyone else. How special am I..?\n\n- If I'm rubbish in bed, she won't know the difference. There's no comparison.\n\n- I'll always be her Number One. Like her first day at school. She'll never forget.\n\n- I'm an explorer in unchartered territory - wa-hey!\n\n2. The "Thank God she's not a virgin" answers:\n\n- I can do without being The One - it's too much pressure.\n\n- Don't virgins bleed? Doesn't it hurt first time? I don't want to do that to anyone.\n\n- If she's not a virgin, she won't care that I'm not either. \n\n- She'll know what she's doing - wa-hey!\n\nBut I'd bet large sums of money on this: The biggest set of answers (by far) would be:\n\n3. The "Chuffed to bits whichever way" answers:\n\n- You? In bed? Bring it on! \n\nWhichever way, the past is ancient history. You stick to your guns. \n\nSo judging by the artical above either way a girl is either sexy or unsexy get me?
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Y u put this staff under pressure. Remember that you are treasured and loved. \n\nDon go down with those pervert.\n\nIf u did already lose it, who care!? Live for your real happiness, not for your virgin. When someone love u, they hardly ask about your virginity.\n\nLady is the most treasure in this world. Retain your value and quality of life. Good luck!
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Do what feels comfortable to you and him.  Take your time and work up to it.  He should spend time with foreplay so you will be wet and lubricated and/or use a lubricating jelly such as KY Jelly.  He should work in slowly the first time.  It may or may not seem a little uncomfortable, but if you relax your muscles in that area, it will be easier.\n\nIf your hymen has not broken, since you are a virgin, there is likely to be a little blood.  Do not worry about that.  It's normal for a virgin because of the hymen breaking.  Sometimes it is broken anyway because of sports, etc. and you won't bleed.\n\nAnother young gal once asked me what it would be like.  I told her that I had seen how her intended looked at her and he adored her. I knew that he would be gentle and loving and she would be just fine.  When she came back from the honeymoon, we had a little reception for them.  She took me aside and said, "You know that little conversation we had?"  I said, "Yes...."   And she gave me the hand gesture that meant everything was wonderful, with a big smile on her face and a wink.\n\nIf your intended loves you, it will be just fine.  Relax and enjoy becoming one.\n\nBest Wishes for your future as man and wife.  God Bless!\n\nSue
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I was a virgin when I got married, too. Take your time, don't force her if she's scared, use lubrication if necessary, and be very loving. Many couples don't complete the act on their first night if they're virgins, so let her know she can trust you to go at a pace that's comfortable for her. If you make the situation very loving, it will be much easier for her.
62963
It's very respectable when someone saves themself.  I don't see any problem with people who have had sex, but whenever I meet someone who is a virgin it makes me respect them.
1008848
To all you virgins out there?   \n\nTHANKS  for NOTHING!
344044
Ask yourself...do you love her as much as you think you do? cos if you do, you wouldn't bother to find out whether she's still a virgin. Does her virginity really matters that much to you?
556380
Listen to yourself on this one.  You know what will make you happy.  And you should not be doing those things until you can handle the full weight of responsibility they can bring.  Be yourself and hope that you can be OK with the out come.    If you asking the question you are not ready to loose your virginity, just a little hit.
894359
first drop her vagina some light from a light source then open her labia minora's with your fingers but strech them well not be so much softy...then wait a little time...there is two holes upper and smaller one is her urine hole under this there is bigger hole that called vagina...if its hole is so small only your little finger just fits she is virgin...
702246
first time getting laid
187548
Expect it to be a disappointment. Male or female virgins are not going to have some epiphany when they lose it. Our society puts so much emphasis on sex that the first sexual encounter has taken on almost a religious status. The physical reality is not so romantic or dramatic.\n\nFor the woman, it will be from mildly uncomfortable to painful the first time. She may or may not bleed, but unless there is something wrong, there won't be much blood and the pain is a memory after few few tries.\n\nFor the man, it is a good idea to learn a few things about your body, too. It will not hurt but you need to be responsible just like your partner and you need to make sure you're extreme sensitive and gentle if your partner is a virgin, too.\n\nNo one is going to look stupid unless one of the people involved is an insensitive lout. Don't pretend not to be a virgin if you are, then you're asking for trouble. This is a time for communication and openness. BE CAREFUL!
947375
Kudos for you still being a virgin, I hope that my daught will say that many, many, many years from now.  And the right guy will be comming along.  Just dont stress.  you will be noticed when you least expect it.
535333
yes you are a virgin only when your vagina is penetrated by a penis then your are not, and bodily fluids are exchanged
422536
For me its a turn on beacause she will experience the special moment with me.  You know,  it is special.   Sex will probably be the same, but feeling wise it will be different.  Word of advise, if youre a virgin, wait until you really find someone worth it, cause it might hurt u otherwise if its not special.