How can I find out if my fiance is a virgin on weding night?only proffesionals please!?
344044
Ask yourself...do you love her as much as you think you do? cos if you do, you wouldn't bother to find out whether she's still a virgin. Does her virginity really matters that much to you?
587255
We have no way of knowing. It sounds like this is an arranged marriage.  Why don't you talk to your parents?  If that doesn't work talk to your Fiance.
485253
First, if it is with in your beliefs, go to your Ob/gyne and discuss birth control.  If you are on a reliable source at least a month before your wedding night, this will make things a bit less stressful than fumbling with condoms for beginners. (either if he is a virgin or has been tested)\n\nSecond, take it slow and know that you are sharing this experience with someone you have waited your whole life for.  Don't rush it, take it slow.  Have a little bottle of KY lubricant on hand, in case nerves cause you to be a bit dry...it can happen.  I reccommned missionary, guy on top, for your first time.  There  is a special closeness there, and you can also relax a bit more.   It may not prove to be painful at all, but in some cases it can be a bit.  It is not, by any means terrible or people would not bother!  Oh, as for the big "O"...relax and know that for you, it might not happen until you get a little more practice in. ;)\nCongratulations on your wedding!!
2245
Here is a crazy idea.  Ask her.  If you do not believe she is being truthful then dump her.  Personally it should not matter.  I was not a virgin when I met my future wife and she was.  For being a very devout Christian that was a big leap for her, but in the end she got around it.  And you should as well, unless she is not truthful.
68088
This is a hard one...\nI guess going to a specialist would probably be the best idea. People come out with the craziest ideas of checking this out. And besides...everybody is different....so you never know if you are still are virgin or not..until you let a specialist see that.
350367
of course, i remember the exact date cause it's an event that i will never forget until the day i die. i have to prove that i am a virgin before he marry me. i know it was the past, but you will never forget the humiliation and the distrust knowing you never been involve with anyone at all. sad but its' true, i did get over it, but it leave a mark that i carry deep in my heart as of today.. anyway, this bring back bad memory...sorry.
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
13718
First of all, if you're that worried about this you're probably not mature enough to have sex yet.  Secondly, if he tells you he's a virgin and insists on it and whatever just believe him.  I don't understand how someone can "look like a virgin."  We were all virgins at some point.  Lastly, it's really easy to find out about sexual things from movies, books, the internet, magazines, friends and so on and so on.  Knowing about sex doesn't mean you have it all the time.  Just don't worry so much and enjoy being a friggin teenager.
738169
I married a 28-year-old virgin... and yes, she was still a virgin up until our wedding night.  Any woman who can hold onto her virtue that long in today's world deserves respect.
667336
Well I am virgin. I do not know if I will wait until I get married but in most of muslam countries almost all girls wait until they get married. But I haven't heard a guy doing this. I would not like to marry a virgin guy but maybe some girls will find this cute.
238280
personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
1141140
females - well medical tests, hymen(look it up i dont want to get gross and explain)\nmen - if your first time he's doin stuff like a pro he's not a virgin and if he is clumsy and nervous viola he is a virgin
318288
Well there are two ways around this. \n\nFirst, you can take the high road and simply explain that you now realize that what you've been doing is wrong and you have no plans to continue doing it. If you've been intimate enough with this person to have sex, you ought to have an intimate enough relationship to be able to talk about this. If not ... well, that should tell you something.\n\nOr, you can take the easy road. Back in the day (Jesus' day), couples went into a tent, had sex, and that WAS marriage. If you plan to marry this person, then consider your previous actions a formal (if ancient) engagement. Start wearing the rings. Call it done except for man's law, and do the paperwork as soon as you can. \n\nGood luck!
241779
i think if the boy is experienced enough he will know.  if he's explored with his fingers he will run into your maidenhead.  and if he's experienced with those things, then yes he would know.  but if he's inexperienced and blunders in he might never know.  if you are underage, say 18, you shouldn't be having sex anyway.  there is plenty of time for that!
1092797
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
265553
Hey I'm a virgin too and had to go through the same thing as you. Just be open with him, tell him you're not ready. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do. Although in todays society people act like their virginity is nothing special, it really is. If you wait until you're married or truly in love sex will be a whole lot more meanigful. If he still pressures you to have sex, stop dating him. He isn't worth losing your virginity over.
1086481
there is no way that someone can tell wether you're a virgin or not. some girls may have torn their hymen by playing sports or even riding a bike! so there is really no way to tell.