me and a friend of mine have developed feelings for each other but he has a gf, do i make a move or should i?
338300
Well, if he is aware that he has developed feelings for you, then he should first break up with his girlfriend and then get together with you. Because so far what you described is more like a fling or a crush. You can do very little now, you have done what you were supposed to: show her your feelings, which by the way IS NOT WRONG. You should honestly talk about it with him.
1069139
I would wait and I definitely wouldn't attempt to steal him from her...what goes around comes around.Just wait it out and be his friend for now.Good things come to those who wait.
815506
Well, if he can't get over his ex, then he obviously still has feeling for her.  It's definitely not a good idea to get with someone in that situation.  You really can't do anything about that situation, because that's his problem, not yours.  You and your friend probably will have to wait for that situation to die down if either of you want to make a move on him.  \n\nBetween the two of you, you need to be honest with your friend about your feelings.  It's only fair that both of you know what's going on before mixed feelings comes up if either of you hook up with that guy.\n\nGood luck!
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
258456
Go for it, if he doesn't feel the same and you want to keep the freindship...act like you were just curious and that it wasn't that big of a deal anyway. He may be thinking the same thing as you and you're both afraid to go for it. If you ever get signals from him in that way, he has feelings for you.
678037
well he has a gf first of all. second does he like u back. if not then im sorry but then he doesnt. if he does and he is willing to break up with her to go with u...realise that u would be the reason he would be breaking up with her...do u always want that on your mind and wonder if he will do it to you? probably not. so think about it. \njust let time do its thing, if they dont work out then make your move...until then i would say just friends!!!
620703
you don't have to do anything! Just wait.  If he makes a move on you while he still has a girlfriend, then you tell him to separate cleanly with the other one first before pursuing you.
442927
Well, basically, in cases like this there really isn't much to tell because you just gotta go talk to him and speak out on whatever you have to say. I know that you might get that feeling that you don't want to ruin your friendship and everything, but you really want to tell him how you feel. Well, let me tell you something. I have this friend who just blurted his feelings for his friend. He didn't know if she will accept his feelings or not. He wasn't sure exactly what will happen; but deep inside of him he felt that he just had to tell her how he feels. So, he took his chance and stepped up to the girl and admitted his feelings for her. And now, they're happily together. No, they're not in a relationship or anything, but they both know that they're in love with each other. They just want to take time to get to know more about each other. They are willing to wait for the right moment to enter into a relationship. But the good thing about it is that their friendship never changed. They still remained good friends. So, if you two are really good friends, you don't have to be afraid of what will happen to your friendship because friends value their friendship more than anything. You two need to realize that your friendship is far more important than anything else. So, just tell him how you feel, but don't expect anything for that matter. There is that chance that he might have a different reaction, but at least you told him the truth and that will make you feel a lot better. Sometimes, you just gotta take that chance in life. I'm wishing you the best.
224871
If he is confused and has feelings for this other friend then you need to seek out someone who will make you happy.  Don't keep waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want because it will be you who will suffer in the end and you may also question how deep his feelings really were for her to begin with?  You could end up with more issues than you have now and regrets.
657175
i think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell him how u feel about her. If you think they were really meant to be together than let it be, if u think u in her were meant to be together than GO GET YOUR GURL.
322705
He's already taken! Yes, it may seem that you guys are meant for each other but you may not know him well enough, he may love his girlfriend in a way you may not understand and what you can do is to invite him and his girl and your friend to something and you can analze how strong his relationship is with his girl. Even if it is weak, if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come to you.
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
237246
You continue to be their friend. Take it from me; guys aren't normally friends with girls for nothing. I guarantee you there's something about you that he likes. You wouldn't be his friend if there wasn't. Just remain close to him and let the other relationship do its thing. If it doesn't work out between them, then and only then, do you tell him how you feel. Let him take it from there. The best thing you can do is to not interfere with or try and sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. If he ever finds out he will resent you. You will forever lose his trust and you two will never be together. Remain his friend, but don’t waste your life waiting around for his relationship to fail. You have fun, too!! Find your own guy to date. Maybe him seeing you with another guy will get his attention. But don’t date just to make him jealous; date because you want to. You never know, there may be a guy out there who has already fallen in love with you like you did with your friend! And you may miss out on a wonderful guy that’s been waiting to make you feel so special because you’re waiting on a guy who's already involved with someone else...
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
340739
hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
590535
Depends on her feelings for you. Find out if the feeling is Mutual first then make a decision.