horse show or boyfriend?
343318
Horse show hun, you need to keep your things...if you give in this time, you'll end up only doing his things, and never yours.  Its a slippery slope...make a point right now.  If he cares...he'll totally understand...if not, then you are beeter off, find a man that wants you to enjoy your interests, even if he doesnt.
233958
If you two rally love each other,your relationship will survive the tours. If it does,then you'll be happy and get married eventually.If not,then you have saved yourself a whole lot of trouble.I know that you don't want to hear it,but think about your career,so that if if it doesn't work out,you'll have some thing to fall back on.And don't put sh-t under his name.I mean if he wants to be macho,let him do the manly thing and take on the whole responsibility,sounds to me he wants to take control of the milk without buying the cow.Don't be blinded by love...Now go out and buy yourself a new boat to pull with YOUR new car,and don't put his name on THAT either!!!!
907899
hmmm.. you sure he is your boyfriend then???
257430
i am not sure but it seems like someone wants a horse
277901
If he's your boyfriend you are going with him. If your happy in which you   must not be as your asking this. Keep in mind no couples are always happy but the good and happiness need to be more than the not so good times.And if you've dated long enough you know what is not there for you .
526579
I would try to balance the two. Just remember, boyfriends come and go, friends are forever. No one should ask you to choose though. I always try to be fair on both sides. Nothing worse then when a friend ignores their friends to be totally with their boyfriend.
807997
he makes time to see and talk to you. if he is aways talking about you in a positive way and pays more attention to you then to his friends when your around.\ni would talk to him and hang out with him to find out if he is really the person i think he is. and if so then i would go for it.(that is how i got my boyfriend)
820755
I am really glad you said "potential" boyfriend!!!\n\nLook ahead a year or so with this guy...he is already controlling, insecure and jealous so I guess you better be prepared to have to explain why an accident made you late home from work someday!!!\n\nYou are a whole person and do not need ANYONE to complete you.  It sounds like your goals are sound and your motives are good so, if I were you, I would ditch the boat-anchor boyfriend and find a man who compliments your dreams - now and later!\n\nYou are not a possession and dont need to make excuses or feel bad about missing time with a boyfriend - not if you have the right boyfriend!!!\n\nSounds to me like he needs a dog instead of a human "pet" then when he says "come" the dog will with tail wagging!!!
618779
Sounds like the passage of time has not taken away the distrust.  If you are uncomfortable just pack it in.  Why go over the same old ground and end up down the road with the same old ex. Go forward with your life, it is dumb to keep trying the same horse when the saddle is not right.
241682
The definitely can. In my case it's happening because my wife is too involved in her own interest. Her priorities are backwards and leaving me neglected at home. I'm realizing we have fewer interest than how it seemed in the beginning. Her biggest interest is her horse. She competes in the Quarter Horse show circuit. She did it as a teenager and fell in love with it. Now we are married (mistakenly moved back to her home town) and bought a horse with her parents. The wife is back in the show circuit and does nothing but train and ride at every free moment. I used to tag along to learn about what she does but realized quickly that she is in her own world at the show and I just get neglected/forgotten there too. I stopped going. she and her parents go to the shows. We've talked about it several times but it hasn't helped anything. It feels like she is holding onto her childhood. She is being her parent's daughter more than she is being my wife.
649178
I don't think there really are any rules, especially when it comes to relationships.  Cowboys are just like any guy, some treat you with respect and some are real jerks.  The ideal is that a cowboy would treat you, along with his mother, his horse, children, and animals with kindness and respect.  But not all cowboys go by this.  As far as his hat goes, if he gives it to you to wear, fine, but don't jerk it off his head.  That makes them mad, fast!
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
298611
Get a boyfriend with a longer thing. Try it Doggie* style.
871825
My Boyfriend's Back? Maybe. Was it a comedy?
1145615
Seems to me that he is your Monday to Friday boyfriend. On the weekend he has no time for you because he is probably hanging with is friends. Let this arshole run. Look for someone who knows how to treat a lady.
760521
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
1168284
You have to decide if you are worth more than the gifts that your boyfriend buy for you! If you deserve more than that, than don't allow the gifts be a deciding factor in if you are going to continue this relationship. \n\nIf you care about the guy, let him know I am sure he would rather you tell him and you guys discuss where your relationship is headed than you sitting around thinking about cheating on him.