My girlfriend has been dieting and has gone from a size 22 to a size 12. She is no longer appealing to me?
339488
no.  she is on a track to becoming healthier.  If she ahs dieted in an unhealthy way that concerns you, then you should talk with her about that, but if you are no longer attracted to her, then you should let her go.
101751
There is not much you can do here. It's good that she has high self-esteem to wear something that a lot of women under 150 lbs. would not even date to wear. But, it's not good that she doesn't recognize that it is not becoming. I had a friend like that who insisted on wearing mini skirts that rode up in the back, showing her almost 300 lb. backside, but there was nothing I could do. To tell her, even tackfully, would hurt her feelings. So, I left it up to someone else, preferably a relative of her's to tell you. \nThe best thing is to just let her go on as she is. Maybe she will take it more seriously when someone other than a friend or relative tells her how she looks. Sometimes, a neutral comment is what it takes.
571373
i think she has gotten way way way to thin but i don't really listen to her anymore but she is really thin
58737
Yeah... what the last one says!!! if she doesnt like tall people than she is just stuck up and too damn picky. You deserve better. if she is too in to appearance then you dont need her.
1094961
better:send her a picture with your new, slim girlfriend:)
981477
No, she isn't overweight and neither of you need to diet. HTH : )
1041557
you should not worry so much what other people think, if you like her and she is beautiful to you, forget what other people say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.   and like you said, she is working on her weight, I myself used to carry around 20 pounds too much and lost them, with the help of my fiancee....but we worked together and had fun doing it together...but I did it because I want to be healthy and have a child.  don't make someone do something because you feel uncomfortable around them, good luck to you...God Bless.
1078714
first off she needs to want to! if she doesn't want to then you are wasting your time! \n\nSecond she needs to go see her doctor! The doctor will tell her how much weight she can lose and how fast. \n\nLosing too much weight too quick is not a good thing and can make you sick!\n\nKEEP HER AWAY FROM DIET PILLS!!!
1151899
yeah the bigger the better...as you matured you see your perspective change.For now your girlfriend thinks its quite a burden for he..well time will come she can adjust to it.just don't force yourself too deep maybe she's scared..just let her feel comfortable as much as you can
603586
hmmm, delicate situation! tell her you love her (just lie!), but you can no longer bear to be with her because she makes you nauseated. if she does not understand, then she is a screwed up bitch. \nscarface is good, but to ensure she really hits the curb, tell her she is getting fat.
800821
Tell fatty she need to loose weight.
363017
You can't, she has to want to gain weight and then ask for your help. However if she is getting too thin maybe you should speak to her about it, make sure she is okay as stress and anxiety can make you lose weight.
1069534
hey, I'm a a size 8UK. anyway, what does shoe size has anything to do with this question? the last time i checked, a lesbian's "size" wasn't checked via the shoe size anyway. or have i miss something again?!?!?\n\ngirl! you gotta keep your itchy fingers in your pants man! or else your GF would have your head for dinner!\nand to answer your question, my answer would be no cuz otherwise MY GF would have MY head for dinner! lol\n\ngood luck in your quest kiddo
1116118
Yes, it's possible. Stress can cause weight loss in some people and in others it causes them to gain. Does she look unhealthy? Keep an eye on her.
971897
hey.... ya know size shouldn't matter to anyone who likes you for you... if it does then they are not being true...i just married a 23stone guy he whom i have loved for the last 10 yrs... he makes me feel very safe . As he is a big guy ... so it has its up sides having a guy with some weight  to him... you should get out there and use your size to your advantage as the skinny guy will move over....and i truly believe that there is some one for everyone ... but babe you gotta go out to find her... good luck.. x
453306
Well if she is true, she wont care on your physical apperance and will care about what's inside, dont dress like oor be something/someone you're not for anybody.  If you really care about her though, don't change your fashions but mix them up once in a while ya know?
161996
Give her an extra unexpected compliment. I believe some of the best compliments come from a look, a touch, or even a naughty smile when she has on less clothes and may feel less pretty. Men lose weight faster then women anyway so the both of you should find something she can do that may help speed up her weight loss. Be supportive, but let her know how you feel and that you are in this together, it's not a race and in the end you both will be winners. At this point you are starting to look different and she may not be at that point yet. It's hard for the both you, talk and try to make things eaiser.