To all the WOMEN out there, what is it that gets you going about a guy? Looks? Personality?
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Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
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hey.  Well im almost 21... I look for personality as a main thing in guys.  You need to be able to have something to chat about or something in common.  Looks / cutiness.  Next as you need some attraction to them  Looks are not everything but you need some attraction.  Then id say must be funny, daring and playful with a sence of fun and outgoing!
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Looking for confidence, self-assurance, self worth...those are all things I look for in a woman.\n\nShe does not have to be the prettiest woman in the room, having equal intelligence, looks, and self-confidence are important issues too.
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Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
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After the initial male reaction (meaning like all guys my eyes are drawn to the obvious things men like to look at) I'm usually captivated by a woman's eyes.\nMentally: compassion and a good, irreverent sense of humor.
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Externally I would say a man with nice eyes and a nice smile (dimples make me melt) does it to me everytime.  I love a man that is fit also.  I like a man with define arms to just hold me tight and make me feel protected.  A nice toned stomach and ass.  I don't need a body builder but a man that cares enough about himself to take good care of his body and essential mine!!!\n\nBut all of that isn't so attractive if a guy isn't intelligent.  You can only pretend you like sports for so long then it gets boring.  ALSO a gentleman is VERY SEXY.  A man that will take care of you.  Sometimes you just want someone to take the lead...
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Personality. God knows most guys (including me) could never have been happily married if it was all based on looks.
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Definitely a good personality.  Looks are always a plus but it's who the person is inside that makes them special and attractive to you.  Many girls can look hot, but only few can possess that certain personality a guy is searching for.  The beauty factor will naturally go up when it is followed by a glowing personality...something know as the halo effect.
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Eye contact, self confidence, a great smile, sense of humor and cleanliness do it for me.\n\nIf a guy is acting like a conceited moron...I want nothing to do with him.\n\nCheesy pick up lines are major turn offs too unless it's said jokingly as a conversation starter.
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great personality\ngood hygiene\nopen with me\ngood looks
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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If I like a woman, I look into her eyes. I smile. I laugh at her jokes. I spend more time with her than with anyone else. I want to spend MORE time with her. I ask about her likes and dislikes. I ask about her family. The more a guy seems to be around you, the more likely he's interested in you.
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The truth is that personality is the most important, but there has to be some level of attraction.  However, in my case, once I've gotten to know a guy he's become more and more attractive.
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i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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well i always say that its the looks that reel them in, and the personality that keeps 'em hooked. idk because the hansome guy would be concieted and the relashonship wouldnt last, and the ugly guy wouldnt have achance at first but once you got to know him, he would be wonderful. \n  i think that everyone is handsome to somebody... but i think that i would dat e the intelligent ugly guy.
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In my experience, women look for 1 of 4 things, in no particular order:\n\n1. Charm/Humour\n2. Money\n3. Meanness\n4. Looks\n\nJust because you're not mean and don't want to be mean to a woman, doesn't mean you can't bring one of the other 3 "talents" to the table.