im have a boyfrend but im scared to brake up with him?
345684
This happened to me. My bf was a suicidal psycho and he blackmailed me into staying with him. I finally went to college 3000 miles away and told him on the phone it's over and didn't hear from him for 6 years. We now email occassionally and he's sorry for what a jerk he was, it's something we laugh over now. But back then, it was the most depressing thing in my life. I hope you get out of the bad relationship. You'll be happy you did.
643038
You are so young.  If he treats you badly now, it will only get worse.  How can you think that you're afraid to be alone for the rest of your life? Get some self respect and you decide if he's good enough for you.  Good Luck with that, eh?
832116
I would talk to him. You are not just being selfish and while it all starts out innocent and may stay that way it is obviously affecting your relationship. Why does he put himself in potentially dangerous situations that could eventually ruin what you two have??? Ask him. Tell him how you feel.\nGood luck!!!
873336
I use to be sooo afraid to kiss a guy bc I had never done it before but that's normal at your age.  Soon you'll get over that, if he tries something sexual and that's not what you want as soon as things go to far tell him to stop and that you don't want to participate any longer.  If he's a good guy he will respect your decision, if he doesn't then get rid of him.
894244
you dont so if you dont trust him leave him save yourself the stress
486660
I think it is important to relieve yourself of all your stress when it gets bad.  In this case he isn't much of a boyfriend if he is really stressing you out instead of being there for you and reducing your stress.  Get rid of the boyfriend and the stress will be gone.
707478
I am guessing that emotional closeness scares you?  Either you are afraid that he might see something he won't like, or you are afraid that you may get stuck with someone when someone "better" might be out there.\n\nJust my 2 cents.
109758
Are you scared, because he might harm you? If that is the case, you should bring someone with you, like an older brother, or a friend..You don't want someone, who is going to make you scared all the time..Best thing to do, is call him on the phone, and explain to him, that you are going to break up with him..If he is going to hurt you, tell your mom or dad, they will know how to handle it..Good Luck, to you, I hope everything works out for you..
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
59766
Hi i hope ur fine. But there is no need to take tension about ur physical shortness bcoz that not ur mistake and remember one thing in life, if some loves u and u to but he/she not want to come to u let him go and wait for him/her if he/she back then he/she is urs otherwise the love is fack just timepass u will get damm pain by this just let him go if he want. try to understand what i am saying don't avoid this plz dear i am your one of the fri take care don't worry ok
532258
He may still like you deep inside, so he's afraid that he may fall for you again? Why broke up with who, and what was the reason for it? Were you friends before you started dating? It's always a good thing to make a promise with your significant other that when/if you two brake up, that you will be friends like you were beforehand. Talk to him and ask him; see what he says. I know, its EXTREMELY hard to get guys to open up, that being part of the reason. But it never hurts to try.
458621
You're fears are justified.\nWith such changes in ones life, many guards are down.\nexciting new environment, peer pressure, other stresses.\nIf opportunity arises what would stop a person?\nHe may have all the good intentions to stay faithful to you.\nOther pressures may get the better of him.\nSo you have choices to make about how you will react etc...\nso don't leave the power to him\nyou are a strong independant woman.\nMake choices for yourself\nyou GO GIRL!
583254
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF
306934
when he throws the its over card he is trying to control the situation and you.  you need to tell him to stop the threats or you are going to end it your self he wants leverage and that is what he gets when he threatens you, you get scared or worried that he may end it and its just a mind game if he was going to leave you than he would have already done it but its not a healthy relationship if that is what he does every time you argue its like a 2 yr old who doesn't get his way and threatens to hold his breath until he dies so he can get his way its childish and immature there are plenty of other guys out there so don't stress over one childish boy
831212
if you are truly fine with the way things are then dont open that can of worms. you will just get attached and then he will die and you will be hurt. then again, if you arent okay with it and are just telling yourself that then if you do nothing and he does die withought you making up it will hurt you. its a personal decision.
656478
If the lines are communication aren't open then you may have to consider leaving him or you will just endure more problems in the long run. Give him the benefit of the doubt and tell him what you are contemplating and see how he feels about it and if it doesn't seem good, bounce (leave him) MEN IS LIKE A BUS ONE COMES EVERY 5 MINUTES !!!!!!!!!!
392810
pick and choose your battles. life is too short to bicker over ridiculous sh*t. when he is being an a** kill him with kindness or act like you can't be bothered with his silly commentary. problem is you all are around each other 24/7 and you'll drive each other nuts no matter how compatible. if you can be be apart for several hours out of the day or go stay at your mom's over nite it'll make you all miss each other and realize the good things about each other. but seriously you need to get some wheels and get your independence back! that'll make a huge difference!good luck!