I have a best friend and I like him. We made out the other day. what do i do?
346106
Now thats a difficult one.  It depends.. The biggest question is how important is the friendship to you?  If you value the friendship then you should just forget the kiss ever happened.  If you take it a step further and become boyfriend and girlfiend then thaths ok. Heres the problem if u break up you will loose your boyfriend and your best friend.
445586
Loving your "best friend" is not a bad start.  Does he love you back.\nAnd stop playing with the word "LOVE"!
350720
Tell him that you were confused and that you think you have feelings for him now. It's never too late to change your feelings and if you like him you should tell him. Ask if he wants to go to a movie with you and touch his arm or his hand and subtley let him know how you feel!
1053846
Ok, I think there are two possible answers to your question. He might be worried that a relationship with you, his best friend, may not work out and would destroy your friendship. Especially if he doesn't have any other friends. He probably loves you more than you could imagine.\nThe other option is that he's gay. I know, just hear me out. He may not have come to terms with it and has no idea how to tell you. Think about it. You guys are best friends, you're attracted to him and asked him to be your bf. He obviously llikes you a lot and is attracted to you but not sexually attracted to you. \nEither way, I think you should tell him that you really like him as a friend and wish there could be something more between the two of you. Remind him that there is nothing that could ever change the fact that the two of you are the best of friends.
490262
I had the same problem a few years ago. I would try to drop subtle hints, like touching his shoulder when you talk to him. Don't be overly flirty cause he may shut you down and you might feel silly, but see if he responds to the subtle hints and if so then take it to the next level. I would recommend not ruining the friendship if you truly cherish it. But you don't want to regret never telling him how you feel, so feel him out. Drop hints, compliment him a lot, tell him he looks really hot today in a particular outfit. Whatever you would say to a guy who you liked that wasn't necessarily your friend. Good Luck!
558767
Talk with your best friend. Perhaps, neither of you should date him. Never let a guy come between your friendship. Maybe one will give way, perhaps you both give him first dates and let him choose, but make sure the other one of you won't be jealous.
757546
first of all figure out if he is even worth your time and energy,, make sure you really like him... also you haven't even started off right... you lost a friend for this guy and you don't even know if he likes you... what would be the right thing to do is apologize with your friend and try to get back together and even if your friend says anything about yeah u better cause its all your fault or he's mine deal.. shruggle it off because its not worth another fight... also if your friend stopped being your friend because you guys like the same guy then maybe you should think about if your friend was really ever your friend... but if you really like this guy then i say go for it... but dont do anything you will regret
1124058
Well if your best friend is gay then that means you two dont really have much of a chance.  I guess i would tell him how you feel just to get it out in the open.  It may be easier for you to deal with it that way.  Even tho you may not ever get to be with him, he will still always be an important role in your life.  Boyfriends may come and go for both of you but you'll still always have eachother as friends.
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
497233
That's a tough call.\n\nIf you think he liked it and there could be something there, then you need to catch him, sit him down, and talk about what to do next.  He could just be scared because it was his first time with another guy and his best friend at that.\n\nIf you don't think he liked it and you think he might be looking at it as one of those drunken mistakes, then you need to call him and tell him you and him both made a mistake and explain how one night can't get between so many years of friendship.\n\nEither way, you need to contact him and talk it out.  Things will work out - it should take a lot more than that to end such a close friendship.\n\nGood luck and feel free to contact me if you need anymore help.\n\n:)
312502
ask him anyway! gather all your courage...and just ask! as you said, u both told that u liked each other! LIFE IS ABOUT TAKING CHANCES!!!!!
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)
240429
I know when Ive been kissed and felt NOTHING then I never went any further with this person.  I liked being his friend but there were NO sparks there at all.  Maybe its just the way he kissed you.  U did say you felt something when you hold his hand so take charge of the kiss.  KISS HIM dont wait for him to kiss you.  Give this kiss YOUR ALL!  Put your heart and soul into it and if there is still no spark- Id say move on until u find that special magic-that spark with another guy!!!!  Life is way too short to settle for a relationship without spark!  Good luck to u!
800954
Forget about it and move on.  Not everything that comes out of someones mouth is meant to come out.  You know, sometimes your mouth moves faster than your brain can censor.  He made a verbal slip-up.  If anyone brings it up again, say:  "OH, I'd forgotten all about that!  I'm sure he meant nothing by it." Then change the subject.\n\nYou don't want to be with him.\nHe doesn't really want to be with you. \nAnd your best friend wants to be with him.\n\nForgive, forget, and move on.  :-)
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
254500
It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!