ok now theres this guy he said he love me but he wont tell me if hes married?
336661
Ring his wife and ask her
561757
Now I got your problem- Sweetie... You have to move on your life.. for all you know he might have been married all the time you had chatted with him.. And you dont love him... this is not love... love is when you actually let go of the person whom you say you love and when that person comes back to you... you can say its love. Right now its nothing more of an attraction. Get out and meet new people.. try n get over him... if he doesnt want have a relationship with you stop pusuing him...!!!
279497
tell him! why not? you cant go on wondering about it
1114264
Does he think you’re a virgin? I think you should tell he just what you told all of us. If he really loves you this should not be the determining factor to whether or not the two of you’ll get married. He really should be understanding about this small “oversight”.
122088
He probably means it if he treats you right and looks into your eyes when he says he loves you. If you have to say it first thats not really a big deal, he might just have a hard time showing his emotions.
1058005
Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
1064137
why don't you just ask him if he has feelings for you still adn if he does then just ask him you and if not then move on.
1021561
ask him about his feelings UPFRONT...all he can say is yes or no and then you can stay or move on....good luck
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
136408
defiantly tell him!!! he has a right to know and if he's not willing to do anything about it then find someone who's better and who is actually worth your time, who will love you all the same
1007440
Sounds like he meant it, he just wants to prove it to you through his actions .... guys just don't know what to say .... wouldn't you want him to show you through his actions or would you rather he just said 'Of course I meant it' and not really mean it.
993374
He sounds confused, maybe he doesn't know what he wants..He would love you in the future? Does he have a specific date on his calendar or what? Maybe he likes someone else and just wants to keep you on the back burner..Sounds strange anyways
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
153481
Tell him what you just said here. Ask him why he doesn't tell you what you need to hear? Most guys have a hard time expressing their feelings for some reason.
1134165
He is telling you that he loves you... so he is probably frustrated that you keep asking him to reassure you of this fact.  Why, coz he did not say it lovy-dovy enough... please... if he didn't love you he'd leave you and your baby.\n\nThe fact that he is doing his obligations is the best way he knows how to say I love you... asking him to show it like a woman shows it would be like him asking you to show your love by giving him a bl@w j#b every day....\n\nAppreciate what you have, and if you need a little tenderness just ask him for it... but don't expect if all of the time... it's not fun or easy for most guys.
757209
He probably just came to terms that you two will never be.  You are married, he is married...why continue and put other people's feelings at risk?
667857
wow, do you talk to this guy you love? get him talking and see if he is seeing somebody. then if he isn't tell him about your interest though you may want to tone it down a bit at the start so you don't scare him off. some men don't want to hear "i love you" on the first conversation. good luck :)