how do i stop being so clingie to by boyfriend?
348885
talk on the phone a lot to ur friends or get a after school job
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
381525
You need to get a grip on yourself. This kind of behavior is what drives people away. Trust is key in a relationship. If you do not trust him and he has given you no reason to doubt him, then you need to let it go.
83304
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Dont tell him he cant hang out with him but ask him to make an attempt to spend more ALONE time with you.
273601
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
46666
Pancharito is right! I know you want to be friends with him, but you are in love with him. You will always be tempted to just crumble and tell him you want more. But you have to respect his wishes before those of your own if you truly do love him. *sigh* That's the part of love that is so hard. You'll never really fall out of love with him. But distancing yourself will make things easier for you. Get involved in activities you love and it will take your mind off of your heart. Besides, you might make some great new friends through your outside involvement. I do wish you luck........I know it is hard!
883743
Saying I miss you is too clingy, especially if you see him several times a week. Guys hate clingy.
92787
Well u cant continue havin this cuz its obviously makin u uncomfortable so u gotta let them down try givin them hints that he doesnt make u feel comfortable followin u.If he doesnt catch on u gotta tell him straight up to not follow u. he might get hurt but he'll get over it. It might seem mean but its better than actin fake to sum1.
722652
The same thing you did as a teen, Egg cars and T.P houses!\nJust be yourself silly lady!\nIf you're boyfriend doesn't like you, then kick him to the curb! He doesn't know what he's missin'
658268
i understand you are very frustrated...\n\n... i can see that you want him to make a decision\nbecause you hate being taddled along and dragged about\n....\nand you want a definite 'relationship' or 'not' kind of\n... relationship...\n\n... and i bet you... he understand that as well...\nbut put yourself in his shoes..\n\nif you had a boyfriend and were getting along fine...\nand suddenly, a single guy enters your world...\n\nand completely blows you away...\n.. now what would you do?\nyou might say, 'i'll take him,' but it's not that easy...\n\nhe's struggling...\nand i might take a step further to say...\nmaybe his girlfriend is on him about this...\nmaybe she's getting the hint he's not 100% committed to her\n\nmy best advice to you is... give him time...\n\nif you constantly prod him, he might completely ignore you..\n.. if you give him room for thinking and reconsidering,\nhe will seriously weigh it out...\n\n... moreover, he will see your understanding side\nand your compassionate, openness and he will run to you..\n\n.. meanwhile, you go out and have some fun...\ni don't mean cheat on your soon-to-be-boyfriend\nbut go out and meet your friends... guys and gals...\n\nmeeting other gals will set you back to your\ngiggling-chatty-girly mode, which will ultimately put you\nin a euphoria of confidence..\n\nplus, guys will drool over you, and you can neglect them\nand gain higher self-esteem...\n\ngodspeed
517619
well I'm not a guy, but a can tell you when i begin to feel like I'm being clingy.\n\nwhen i try to stop you from leaving, but bringing up some serious topic, and then when you really need to go, start up with the if you loved me you'd stay and talk b-s.\n\nor when i call every five minutes knowing you are on your way wondering if you're here yet.... gotta love cell phones huh??\n\nor when i don't want to be okay with you going out w/your friends like your gonna get into something i don't think would benefit the relationship... \n\nthere are way too many signs of clinginess.... if you see them....RUNNNNN
896027
just tell her that she is too clingy and that she should show all that affection to her insecure boyfriend!
487407
Stop being a pu**y about it.  If you are feeling that you are attracted to one guy and want to be in an exclusive relationship with him, then you should cut loose the others.  It is not the most pleasant thing to do, but letting it drag on will only make it harder on both of you.  Just stop lying about what you are doing when AL calls and asks what you are up to.  Tell him you are going out on a date or whatever it is that you are doing.  He might not like it, but life sucks like that sometimes.  If he is an adult he will be able to handle it.  If he can't handle it, then he is still a little immature and needs to grow up.\n\nBy the way, this is exactly why guys end up turning into what women call jerks.  You ladies wonder why we will not commit to relationships and why we lose interest as soon as we get into your pants.  Mostly it is because they are afraid of getting hurt, so for many men it is easier to not let themselves get all that close in a relationship.  It sucks, but I think that everyone has to get their heart broken at least once before they are ready to love someone else.
188132
I do myself quite often when I can't be with my boyfriend.
613914
never be "clingy" and you'll both be happy. no matter how much you CLING- you are only nurturing your own insecurities. Real relationships need space to grow and mature. 7 months is not a terribly long time. It may seem long, but, it's just the beginning. Give him space to be the guy he was when he met you- He hung with friends, had his hobbies, sports, whatever. Be willing to be part of those things- but not CONSUME his every action, be every thing to him- Be his "better half" not his third arm.\n(www.thedorkymom.com) PS: loving HIM. Means loving him, not changing him, or chaining yourself tooooo him. Love him. All his strengths, all his faults, allllll of him. Even the stuff that bugs the heck out of you, haha. \n(www.thedorkymom.com)
84936
Most guys are clingy like that.. They still want that attention from you... He might or might not want you back... He's probably not fully over you because ifhe was, he wouldnt call u....
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.