I need opinion's please!!!?
347825
You do not mention how old the both or you are, or how intimate your relationship is.  ( living together, etc).  However, it sounds like he is most certainly not mature enough to have a serious relationship, for if he was, he would know he is not "the first", and so would you.  Accepting that people came before the two of you, and not being intimidated or insecure about it, is a healthy sign of maturity towards a relationship.  You both should be able to converse about each other's past romances and in many cases should be able to remain friendly with those same people.  \nFrankly, should I be in your position I would carefully and honestly review your current relationship to see if it allows both of you to grow as people and as a couple.  If it does not, then it would be time to move on.  This really applies to both of you.  For your current boyfriend to be so insecure, given no baggage in his history, then there is something that you both as a couple are lacking in the relationship.\nThis is not about whose wrong or right, but rather about whether or not the two of you are really ready to be in a one-on-one serious relationship.  \nOne area that needs your attention... Do not threaten to break up, or leave.  After awhile, these words become empty and only serve to increase insecurity.  If you want to leave, just do it.  You owe no explantion to anyone unless you feel it necessary.
828031
Come on guy!!!!...  Sounds to me like your mad and you have no idea what your talking about and you want to get some support for people you don't even know on this site.\n\nWhat has she told you...? If this is really true and not just in your head, why are you still there?  And don't tell me it's because you love her.  Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to put up with their crap and she just thinks of you as just a backup ****.  \n\nIf this is for real, leave.  Even if it isn't real, leave.  Your head is so screwed up you couldn't think straight abut her anyway.  Just leave.
347383
hey! Take it from me, I'm a lil younger than you but older than your gf. Anyway, I know it seems akward but have you thought: Would you rather give up your luv because you care of what people think? Hey, look at most parents, they have about your age difference!
712978
haha, i love that you typed the way you did when askin this question! it is a little hard to read at first, but you prooved a very important point... nO OnE cAn cOnTrOl yOUr ActIOns!!! no one has the power to tell you what to do or even make you feel anything that you dont consent to! sure, you could let them chose your life for you, if you want, but personaly, i dont think that would be ANY fun! its YOUR life, live it like YOU want too!
763703
It appears you have a lot of doubts and questions about this man. He is certainly sending up enough red flags. You need to love yourself enough to get out now and save yourself a lifetime of wondering.
114987
I think that you are entitled to have any bf of your choice. Have your friends even given him a chance?  Maybe you could ask them to spend a day with you both and then make a decision.  As far as them saying he's ugly just tell them that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If they are true friends they should chill out and realize that they are hurting you and they aren't being fair. Remind them that they don't always make choices that you like either. If everyone in the world liked the same things it would be a rather boring world now wouldn't it?
1031676
Wow thats a tough one,  best might just to be totaly upfront and not beat around the bush (bad choice of words there) .   Just ask him.  makes me wonder how you are going to do it though,  like big stringe or what.......lot of emotional issues too.  any decent guy is going to have feelings about his child and that could be sticky.  Beings you have already picked him I'm sure he's a decent guy.  Best of luck to you.
1001881
you should always be as honest as you can with your man/woman as true opinions will eventually come out sooner or later. there is a way to do everything. it need to be constructive criticisms not put downs
1048267
Tell him i think he deserves to know what you have done.May be when every thing is out in the open you guys can work it out. good luck
1166740
Your ex-bf's problem has nothing to do with age. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too". (I hate that cliche). I agree with phattphatt. This guy is unstable and needs to be kicked to the curb. If he keeps this crap up she will do the same and he will have lost you both. I'm not so sure what the age problem is, she is only a year younger. Your first statement made it sound like he a was dating a child and he was in his thirtys. Give him the boot and find yourself a real man.
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
303430
I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
861064
I think whatever floats your boat!!!\n   just make sure you use protection
286175
I truly believe we should all make our own decisions on what we believe.  Take all the information and come to your own conclusion.  Keep researching and learning.  No one has all the answers or there won't be questions.  If something feels right to you - it is right to you - and that is most important.  The bottomline, regardless of all the extra fluff people add, is love God, love one another.  If we all practiced this the world would be a better place.  Good luck finding you peace!  Take Care and always ask!
817606
give it a change. we only live once. why pass this up? were all afarid of being hurt, thats just life. give him a chance. let your hair down have fun!
633103
Question is\nWhat do you think!!!
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.