i love him so much. would it work out? i don't know what to do OR think anymore...?
346125
He probably IS toying with your heart. Try this. Say..."I know you think it's funny, but I don't. If you like me, let me know. I have a lot of feelings for you and I think there's something between us." If that's too cheesy for you, change it up a big. :D...\n\n6 years really isn't TOO big of a deal. If it's true love, it shouldn't be anything but an age. good luck!
246870
i think that you sould ask him bout what he think and if he can't anwer you then you sould know if he in love with you.take your time in your relationship
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
313401
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
1079788
do something special to you...think of something that you two have a connection by and go from there...most of the time, the smaller things are more important than the big things...do something from your heart that lets him know you think about him all the time and he is the one for you right now
624442
I'd hesitate for a little bit. Why? Because my true love as of right now, is not ready to settle, so I'd have to find out why he had a change of heart?
953178
I'm in 1 too...ask him if he still feels the same way...if he does he will create a time 4 u 2 to b together!!  Tell him how YOU feel
835035
I think you made the right decision. If you two love each other then things should work out. Its cool that you show the understanding that you do. That may be what she really needs from you
995689
If in doubt, don't.  That's a good rule for every aspect of life. Sounds like you may be having some doubt, just by the way you asked if there's a "test."  The true test is the test of time.  If he and you are able to make it this far, then love will wait. Love doesn't just ...go away.   Let things take their course.  If you truely love him, and he loves you, then things will fall into place on their own.  Best of luck to you!
468279
you definitely should. isn't it time that the both of you made another step toward the ultimate commitment to each other? you have been together this long and have already talked about getting married. i think you should do it. god bless both of you.
228059
Don't follow the signs follow your heart!!! only you can decide what is going to work and not work..Be honest and communicate and it will all work out fine
720659
Sadly, there really isn't alot that you can do. If he has made up his mind, all that you can do is tell him how you feel, and let him know what it is that YOU want. After that, it is really out of your hands, because you won't be able to force your wants onto him. That will only serve to push him even further away. Nobody said that love was easy, or that it would make everything work out the way you want it to. The best rule to go by is " What is meant to be, and what isn't can not be forced." If you two are meant to be together, then you can pretty well figure that so long as you make your own wants known, then you will be together. If you aren't, nothing you say or do is going to help. Let him know what your heart is telling you, and then it's up to him. Good luck!!
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Honey!  The ONLY question you need answered is "are you happy?"!!!   You don't sound like it to me.  For your own sake, stop worrying about what he thinks so much and make up your own mind.  He is lucky to have you and you need to show him that!!!!  But most importantly you need to know that in your own heart!!!  Give him a little insite into what he would be missing if you weren't around!!!!  Don't be sooooo available!
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Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?
682461
Yes!  if u really love this guy then tell him u love him.  U never know what will happen unless u tell him.  I hope you two will be happy together.  That is if u decide to get together.
697766
That is so awesome!! I know EXACTLY how u feel when somone u thought was not in your league chooses u...\nFirst ENJOY & rmbr u r worthy of all of your gifts/blessings!! \nIsn't God wonderful?\nJust treat this relationship w/ love & u will do just fine.\nMy man is incredibly handsome, generous, & loves to take me out everywhere! Every day I can't b-leeve he is w/me!! Truly, I am starting to hold my head up more, being proud of who I am..there must b something about me thats awesome too! \nSo I m sure u r awesome..don't worry about the Y's & c him again really soon! And if things don't work out..imagine u had him for a little while!Dreams really do come tru.
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oh please think about what you want to do.  Read you statement for yourself. everything that you are telling us about this man is all the reason to leave him.  I have been though it and i thought the same thing you did. (I love him). but it only gets worse. please belive me shy away why you still can. You don't need to stay with this boy, please put yourself in our shoes and read what you have wrote like you are reading a friends letters and see the sings. you might be in love with him now, but as time goes on and it might take years! you will see that this is not for you and that you can not take it anymore.