Im 19 years old, lonely and insecure. Why tha hell do I gotta be single?
350235
Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.
10225
Take time for your self, in every relationship we are in we seem to lose a piece of ourselves, we need to gain that back before we have anything to offer in a new relation, find out who you are, grow from the experience. Some times I think people are afraid to be alone with them selves for awhile, it's ok to be single. I think I got your question right if not good advice any way I think.
275390
why dont u find yourself first.  i mean, dont u just sit there and expect that a girl from heaven will fall in front of u.  give yourself a time to have fun.  most professionals are too busy to collect money.  that's not how it is.  yeah u are right...being alone is boring.  why dont u go out once in awhile.  but hey, 29 is not old.  dont rush buddy.  dont expect that love will find u if u are hiding.
1111444
Well, just wait soon enough someone will come along. I'm a good person, nice but never had a bf, its not gonna take over my life, eventually you'll find someone so dont worry about it so much.
678198
When you find the answer let me know. Im sick and tired of being single, and I cant figure out how to change it......so Good Luck, you are not alone!
430948
Maybe you are afraid of commitment or maybe you just don't know yourself.  I suggest you take a break from dating and do some soul searching---how do I know because I am doing it right now--I have been so dependent on having someone there for me.  You need to start making yourself happy first (I am on a quest to do so as we speak).
148316
The key is to accept the fact you are single, and not be bothered by it. \nLet other things make you busy, like work or family or friends.. love will come along without you'd even notice. \nBeing single is not something bad, it's not something you need to learn how to handle.. It's temp situation, don't let it bother you too much.
453392
you should be happy that you're single cos you'll get to do more things with your life.you should just start hanging out with your friends and just forget about getting a boyfriend now.give yourself more time and you'll have more space since you're single.
49876
Sorry sweetie, you are about 20 years too young for me. Dont worry, you will find someone and I am sure they will feel lucky to have you.
443296
give yourself some time. most of the guys i knew didn't have a bf until they were 20. yes its lonely, but enjoy being single, enjoy what time you have left with no worries about relationships and bills and all the bs you're about to encounter with college and adult life. you'll be fine.\n\nPS: it is normal to be gay. it is not normal to be a hater and call yourself a christian. (that's for the guy who posted above)
831824
Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
939037
I think you should just be single for a while, sounds like you are in over your head.
520804
While its nice to have someone else, its not the most important thing in the world. I know that girls are raised to expect to have some guy marry them and take care of all of their problems. The truth is that you are the only one who can make you happy. That being said, you may have to kiss some frogs before you find a prince. There are telephone chat lines that lonely singles can go to in order to meet other people. There are some decent people, like you, who just want to meet someone to love them on the phone chat line. There are some folks just looking for fun on it too. You should get on it and start figuring out who is who. Its generally free for women. Some newspapers have singles classified ads. You could try those too, but the same rules that apply to the phone chat applies to those as well.
309040
The reason you're single is you choose to be. Physique and looks are great for anybody to have (whether you're male or female) but confidence in what you have to work with is what ultimately tends to be the greatest turn on. Ask yourself this... would I want to date someone like me?
547062
ME IM SINGLE BUT I KNOW U'LL B HAVIN PREETY GF'S ALREADY SO ITS NO USE!!!
149200
its because you feel bad for yourself. if u think about it humanity is a bit selfish. now that your alone you wish you still had a partner.
1043290
stay single and get counciling. don't get into datin realtionships until you have control of the problem.