Should a girl wait for a guy to make the first move?
341691
If a guy really likes you, he will do everything in his power to let you know that.  If he doesn't have the confidence to make a move on you then I guess he will miss out on a good thing and a real man will step in.  Men will make the move if they are interested no matter how shy they are.
587799
You can make the first move in a club or a social environment, but online is different (with all the weirdos). So, a guy would ask you first to make sure it is alright.
481758
If you want to let him know you're single, TELL HIM!  this doesn't have to be direct, but there's nothing wrong with approaching him, amd introducing yourself.  The status quo says that men are supposed to make the first move, but the status quo does not assure you that you are going to get a date.  Break tradition and YOU make the first move.  Just by introducing yourself and being cordial, most guys will pick up on the fact that you are available and ready to mingle.  Chances are, he may want to initiate a conversation or date with you, but he may fear that he will be rejected due to the fact that you could be in a relationship.  Trust me, be cordial, friendly, whatever you want to call it.  Chances are, it will pay off in your favor!!!!!!
597680
not really. 90% girls expect you to make the first move, so expecting them to tell you first is like winning a lottery. i say you tell her first (if you like her, that is). you'll get your answer there and then
545024
well miss wildcherry, you should maybe take the initiative if you know he is too shy to approach you. you don't have much to lose or gamble with cause you already know how he feels. there is nothing wrong with females making the first move and you don't want to wait for him to get the confidence to ask first.\n\ngo for it. the success rate will be high.
844663
Dont make him CALL you!  If you want to ask him out, then walk up to him and ask him out!  I dont think he appreciated you forcing him to make the first move.  Just take a deep breath and ask him straight out if he wants to date you.  If no, then no.  But dont wait for a phone call.
766530
Well thats kind of a difficult question to answer - it all depends on your situation! Did you call her first? Sometimes girls just wait for the guy to call them....
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
942611
I hate to say it but most guys are too pansy to take the risk of rejection, and will wait until they have recieved a clear indication that the girl likes them back. However, some guys would just wait till an appropriate time. for example, the first time he gets hold of the girl alone...
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
658624
Yes!!! I am a guy and I just love it when the girl makes the first move!!! Alot of guys love it because we are SOOOO afraid of asking someone becuase we are afraid of rejection. DO IT!!!
401354
i would'nt neva makec a first move all i would is flirt
212310
Don't worry if he doesn't make the first move.  He probably wants to but is just shy.  If you make the first move he'll really like it and it will reassure him.  Then he'll act more naturally.
651123
If your friend hasn't made a move you should.If your friend has made a move wait and see.There is more fish in the sea.And friendship is more inportant then a girl.
326829
Well, you can always wait around until some other chik comes and takes him, then you can wonder: "what if I did make the first move" for the rest of your life, or you can shoot! I would deff. say go for it. Good luck!\n\nGarrett
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
491470
You will have to see how the date goes. If she shows interest, then maybe. Date 3 is the earliest for me. It might tick her off if she gets the impression that you are waiting for her to make the first move. Just keep that in mind.