do you think that the guy should pay for the girls PROM RIDE???? WHY ??
337987
I think it depends on who ask who. If you ask a guy, you should be willing to pay for the ride. Or maybe you should just drive mom or dads car to save money. The prom is not that big of a deal. It is life after high school that is the real deal. He might not have the funds for a limo. Don't put him on the spot.
771386
I guess it really depends on the nature of the relationship and the personalities of the individuals.  For the most part I would say that the guy should assume the role of paying for the dates.  However some more independent women or those in a more friend-like relationship might feel more comfortable going dutch.\n\nJust don't ever assume or expect the girl to pay unless it was already agreed upon.  Always at least offer or be willing to pay the bill.
318932
If it's a really nice person, I may feel a tinge of guilt.  But many times things are really overpriced.  Actually at a festival I went to last week, I asked for a ridiculous discount, and the guy ended up giving me the discount plus a free pair of earrings (since I mentioned my birthday).  So it paid to ask.  \n\nBy the way, me and that same guy are hooking up this weekend.  He was too nice to pass up!\n\nOn another note:  You mentioned in another thread that you can find records online.  How can I find public criminal records and other info online?  Thank uuu!  rock_gypsy5@yahoo.com
407227
I cant find a reason in my head why there should be a set amount of time & or a set time at all.  I think a guy can ask of course, and at the risk of sounding biased it usually happens that he does.  & the girl is usually the one that should pick a time.\n\nIt is based on the amount of trust the girl has in the guy.  If you have a little trust in him make it a severly public location (you get yourselves there, no shared ride).  If its been nearly a year or more, and the trust is there, semi-private is good for a little discreet and more romantic time.  Keep it semi-private though.
394982
I  am unclear about what you are trying to say, she wants to go with this guy to prom, and not you? She needs to understand you feelings, or you need to put your foot down. You are tottaly right for feeling this way. She tries to make you feel uncomfrotable, pay her back, AND see how she feels. Start inviting girls to hang with you, and act like its no big deal. See how she likes it.
1148253
You do not have to pay his fines because you were not in a rational state of mind when you offered. If your boyfriend is really your friend and cares about you he should not press you on it. He should take up his responsibilities and pay off the fines HE accrued on his own. HE is an adult. You could compromise and in a sober state of mind offer to pay a [small] part of the fines to help him out.
830178
I think it's a toss up... it's only been about five years since I left high school but there was a Gay-Straight Alliance.  But if you wanted to buy two tickets for prom (if you bought two they were cheaper) you could only get the discount if it was male/female which is when I decided screw prom lol.
891636
this was in the paper's recently, a british student, put an auction up of a date with her, she stated that there would be no sex involved and stated the reasong for her doing this was to pay of her debts for staying on in educaton. she got to over £4K, and it was removed, so you could try, it is a good idea, specially if you need the money, but i cant see many sites allowing it.
1023849
so long as she puts out you should be happy to share, that way you do not have to pay for everything. let the other guy take her to concerts etc.
839210
Whoever does the asking does the paying.  You did get laid so what are you complaining about?  And why mention her weight?  You did do her anyway so it must not have been that important to you.
441028
well guys normally like to impress their girl with a cool whip, but i know not all girls like that, a ferrari's hot when you goin to a party, but this is prom, we talkin bout all the mushy stuff, tell your guy what you really think, a horse carriage is more sweet and romantic and id say you'd be having more of each other rather than him behind the wheels.
141698
i think you should pay for her sometimes. i mean its nice to have you boyfriend pay for you when you go out. but i dont think you need to pay for her all the time. tell her straight up that you dont have the money to pay for her all the time and that sometime she needs to pay for her own crap.
275180
don't you girls understand this guy is just trying to get it off. go to yahoo chat you can find plenty of web cam girls and guys there. but you have gotta pay.
770422
yes, you should. \nand if she IS a feminist, and if she insists you split the bill in half or pay for it herself, be firm and say that you had invited her, so you would do your part and pay; that it had nothing to do with feminism and all that, and that you're just doing this because you'll feel bad if you dont.\n\nif she's a nice girl, even if she IS a feminist, she'll accept it.
682679
definatly no, in my mind, even if the girl asked the guy out, the guy should still pay,  and go for it, i dont see anything wrong with a girl asking the guy, if fact i wish it would be that easy for me.  also its hard for guys to tell if a girl likes them, thats the case with me, but anyways, thats my opinion.
327047
Okay may i just say I disagree with a couple of previous responses here for the following reasons:\n\ngalaxy500: A prom is NOT for two people who "have something going". I've never heard anything about Prom beign exclusively for couples, otherwise you'd might as well say "Fellas, single ladies, now's your last chance to get a gf/bf otherwise you might as well not turn up, yer loser!"\n\nmrs.iv: Why oh why would you emotionally blackmail a guy into going to the prom "cause its a tough time for the girl". Its a tough time for the guy also - he has to pay for the thing, getthe car/transport, pick HER up at a decent time, make sure they get in okay, see that she enjoys herself (if you've gone with her THEN you HAVE to be hospitable!), AND get her home safely! (As much as most guys wanna "get a room", lets be gentlemanly and remember most girls have dads who want them home by midnight!)\n\nHowever, in answer to the question: DON'T go with her. Other realistic options are:\n1) Go with someone else (another girl maybe?)\n2) Go with a a friend or few\n3) Don't go at all and give the tickets to someone else (selling them is an option).\n\nYou are in NO WAY obligated to go with her - thats emotional blackmail.  And NEVER for once think "oh its a couple thing" otherwise you'll just end up feeling sorry for myself then next banging your head thinking "Why don't I hve a gf".  I've been there - it ain't a nice place to be.
852940
WHy do you think some people should get a free ride? I earned what I have, no one gave it to me, why should I give it to some one else.\nThat's is one of the big problems in the world. Too many people looking for something for nothing.