what if  you had a g/f that cheted on you before and you were absent  one day and she cheated on you?
355153
Sorry friend, but this gal does not appreciate the man that you are.\nDo your self a favor and kick this little lady to the curb.\nYou can do better!!!!
744003
she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't  do it again.
510623
Trust is one of the most important things. If some cheated on me then I'd want to know.  Whether to continue with the relationship would depend on how you found out you were being cheated on. If he or she came to you, then you know this person has a conscience and you may be able to continue with the relationship eventually letting go of the hurt from their indiscretion. But if they never said anything and you found out another way I think it would be best to let go of that relationship because there will be serious trust issues. I personally don't do the whole getting back at my significant other thing. If you have forgiven him/her then it wouldn't be fair to keep bringing it up or punishing them for what they've done. So if it's something you can't get past. Let go.
21244
If he was cheating then you need to dump him or her because they say once a cheater allways a chetter.
112931
I could forgive but I wouldn't stay with someone who had cheated on me. A good relationship has to be based on trust and love. Without the strong foundation of trust, the relationship will crumble. After someone has cheated you would always have to wonder and worry. Each time they were late, or didn't call, or acted differently you would wonder if they were cheating again. You can't have a good, loving, trusting relationship under those circumstances. I would also strongly doubt their love for me if they cheated. If someone truly loves you, then they wouldn't want to cheat on you. In their mind there would be noone better than you and they wouldn't risk the relationship with you for something as superficial as sex with someone they aren't in love with.
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
476136
put her Through a test by disappearing for like a week without letting her know your whereabouts when you come back look at the way she reacts about it. and find out the things she told your friends while u were away
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
746012
Depends what you mean.  If you mean in a relationship and you've been cheated on, then no.  That will always be in the back of your mind.
348686
It all depends on what you want, and are looking for. It's not like she did all these things while she was with you, t's not like she cheated. Do you think she has changed? It's really up to you... I think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
1080163
My girlfriend broke into my email once. She changed the password on me and read them all. It started a whole big fight that lasted a month. She found old emails from my ex and got upset. She accused me of cheating but she forgot to check the dates on them. Let's just say she's still making up for what she did.
342155
I would say it depends on how much you want to invest in this relationship.\n\nFirstly - Someone cheating on you is a form of betrayal unless its agreed that you are not in a serious relationship.\n\nSecondly - It also sows seeds of distrust as in future how would you know he/she isnt cheating on you again.\n\nIt takes time to heal from betrayal and if the relationship is serious enough then perhaps this will help make up your mind as to how to continue or end things.\n\nTake care\n\nE
316902
Sorry, you loose the game.\nYou got caught cheating.
515572
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
220110
Trust has to be earned back.  Believe me, it's not easy when someone you love loses trust in you.  She was hurt that you kept a secret, and I'm sure it hurt you to hurt her.  Just be careful in all you do, be good to her.  If it's the real deal, she'll learn to forgive and all will be well again.
599619
My girlfiend of 7 years cheated on me recently. I trusted her. She has a night class on Tuesday and Thursday nights.\nShe ended up seeing the teacher more than just in class.\nI am NOT going to give her another chance to do it again.\nOnce a cheater, always a cheater.
1169577
clear she was really hurt when her ex cheated on her. understand her feeling. now undoubtly she's feeling much better, she has revanged and she can forget her ex much easily. just don't cheat on her and everything will be fine