could u plz tell me one of the difficult situation u have come across in ur life & how did u cope with it ???
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near death experience.\n\nhow to cope? its life.. move on inch by inch
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That's just how life is, unfortunately. Just gotta take it one day at a time though. Try to find the good that eventually comes out of a bad situation.
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im guessing you relate to it some how. might not be the exact situation they are going through, but somehow you can interpret it to your own life.
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Try to get in touch with yourself spiritually and take a time-out. Do something you enjoy and remove yourself from the tension. I know it's easier said than done but it's worth your sanity! **Sending you strength**
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Its hard, I know from experience, you need someone to talk about it with, someone you trust or who knows from experience, if you want to talk more heres my email mikealdana_163@yahoo.com,, I can help if you want because I'm going through the same thing and I know its tough. I'm 16
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Oh My God, that is a terrible and sad story. I really wish that I knew what to tell you or at least had some good advise. Being kicked out of my girlfriends house just a few months ago, I can relate to some of what you are going through. You will have hard times and sadness for a long time no doubt. But believe it or not, it does get easier as time goes by. That does not help you right now I know, and for that I am also sorry. There really isnt anything that I can tell you or that anybody can tell you really that will ease your pain and suffering. But for sure you need to keep your head about you and do whatever it takes to get you and your son through this horrible time in your life. I can be your e-mail pal/friend if you want, and again I wish I had some quick-fix remedy. Keep your chin up. (smile)
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hey i am the a s s here. I am trying my best to deal with it. I thought it would go away but it has not. I have noone to help me with this and I am at a loss. maybe the best idea is just death. I cannot live like this anymore. i cannot beleive I am this man. I realize this woman is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I appreciate her so much. I was just looking for some ideas on how to make it stop.
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I am in the same boat as you.  Trying to figure it out.  What cannot be cured must be endured.  Keep strong.  Looking at your life without that other person there feels so empty and cold.
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My relationship with my sister! \n\nFor the past 4 years my sister has been "self-destructing". My parents and I have exhausted all efforts financially and more importantly, mentally. You can only do so much for someone that you love, and if they don't want to help themselves and don't see your efforts and love in trying to help them, then what do you do?! So now we are trying the "tough love" tactic and I am sad and scared she don't realize all that we have done and are trying to do for her. She is pissed off at us! I just hope we are doing the right thing!\n\nWow! this was a personal question! But you know what? I feel somewhat at ease answering this question. Thanks! :)
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Dear One, Your pain must be almost unbearable at times.I am so sorry for your losses.God does not promise a life with out pain here on earth, he does promise his grace and his mercy, and peace.He does promise that someday all this will be made known to us, which for some as yourself is so hard to understand as you go through this. He has never stopped loving you, he has never left you, he has never stopped loving your wife...he was with her holding her hand as he took her home. Life is hard, painfull and confusing, please hold on to God he is Loving so so much,  he is waiting for you so he can take your pain. Call on him...... you are in my prayers...
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I know many people would be delighted to answer your question, but we need you to be more specific. What is your personal experience with whatever is troubling you, and what exactly are you talking about?
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you have to talk to someone... that's odd...\nI'm sorry about your loss... and I know it's a really hard thing to go through and deal with... but you have to hang in there and get some help...
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Life is no longer worth living over this issue...it was the most important issue in my life
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I would say,a lot of counseling and possibly some medication to get you threw all this.You will get through it,But you wont ever forget it. Prayer helps too! and I am so very sorry for what you have been through,I have had some of the same experience's as you have.Hang in there.You will survive.We are women hear us roar!!
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Its still really close...  Give it time, its a hard thing to deal with.  For now just take one day at a time as they come, and don't get overwhelmed.  Make sure you take care of yourself, and also be sure not to bottle up your emotions, 'cause that will only make things harder.  It probably sound cliche by now, but I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things work out for you.
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Everyone at some point and time will be faced with situations that will be considered the worst possible things that they'll have to go through. These are things that we have no control over and  make us all feel helpless and lost. Remembering that "time heals", slowly work your way to the point where the healing has begun helping to get your life back in order, which in turn will help take away the pains that have been put upon you. In most cases, the things that have caused those pains have not only hurt you but others as well, family, friends, etc. Helping others thru those times will help you as well and will give them the confidence they need to not only get through it, but will enable them to help as well. Some of us have a natural ability to reach others in those times of need. I'd like to share something with you that will hopefully help. We all think that our unfortunate situations are the worst, until that is, you've seen someone else that is hurting even worse because of theirs. I'm a father of 8 kids, 5 girls and 3 boys. Life was wonderful, we all had our health and were all thankful for everything we had. We lived on a busy 2 lane hiway and never thought for one second that something drastic was about to change our lives forever. The childrens mom went out to the street to check the mail. She was hit by a drunk driver and killed while myself and 3 of the kids watched from the front porch. Oddly enough, there was only one piece of mail in the box. It was from our local cemetary trying to sell burial plots. Our lives were changed forever. What we thought would last forever was gone in a second. I cant begin to tell you how hard it was for all of us. I pray that you can use this to help yourself in your own tragidy. With all of our family and friends helping us, we were able to make it through it all, not easily, but during a time like that, every bit helped. We had to cope. We had no choice but to go on, and we somehow managed to pull together and help each other. It's never easy and was by far the hardest thing that any of us had to do, but we did it. It still hurts every second of every day. As you can see, i'm here trying to help now and hope that somehow our loss will help you as well. Larry
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Things happen. You've just got to learn to live, despite anything that has happened to you. I wpnt say that I know what you're going through, but I will say that I've had a bad couple of weeks before too. Just gotta live around it.\n\nPS- I hope that you get to having a better week. Merry Christmas.