i reeeellllllllay want this guy to kiss me on my birthday tomorrow, and we're going out, but i need some tips.
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lol, well, i'm a very straight foward person, so i would wait until he asked me what i want, then tell him.... or... get one of your best girlfriends to drop the hint for ya. Just go with your instincts
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If you would prefer something else, tell him - is easier if you already have a phone.  If you don't want him to because you don't like him very much, don't want to feel beholden to him, then maybe tell him nicely it's too much, and suggest something else.  If you like him, but the phone is more than he can afford, tell him you'd really just like a romantic something or other (whatever it is you would like.)  Good luck, and Happy Birthday.
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Well as long as you have some expectaions like my personal ones:\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nand you find yourself doing some of the following: How you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nThen mabye you should give it a try.  I don't think it's in your head, it's in your heart.  LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND IT WON'T FAIL YOU. Good luck to you!~Alison~
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Do it in a charming way . Eg. he says would you kiss me You : kiss him then say no and smile . Thats very attractive in a chic .
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just be yourself!show to him whith your moves that you like him!but don't over do it! give him some litle gifts just to make him happy! And remember you're living only once! GO get him!\n\nGood luck
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Talk to him, not while fooling around, or intoxicated.  Express to him how you feel about him.  That you enjoy being close to him, and long for his kiss.  Be forward about this, take the risk.\n\nRisks are easy enough to evaluate, is the potential for a positive result, outweighing the potential for a negative result?  My assumption here, is that somewhere inside of him, he desires you, him cuddling with you is a good indication of that.  He likes being close to you.  So take the risk.
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hey kat. i so totally know you haha.\ni say just kiss him, if he keeps going, he likes you. but DONT dress like a slutttt
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If you want to do something special a particular day, any of the previous advices given to you are very well worth the try. I happen to believe though, that the experience of true love comes in more than a single moment or a desirable experience.  If you want to feed your boyfriend's true desires, listen to him, ask him candid questions that you are willing to listen to. Have ah "AH HA!" moment that will last forever: I suggest you take him to an inspirational place, and in pure silence tak, to him.  The language of love needs no words...try it! I must add that it is true that a good meal does work...for a while, but the lasting effect of a smile or a profound look, a passionate kiss, those are unforgettable. Bonita, romance, as your name implies, is within you, let that instinct drive you and... be careful...give him only so much, he'll be at your kness forever!
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Don't wait for him to do it -- ask him yourself.\n\nFor the first time, use a 'group' strategy: invite 2-3 other friends along, say to a movie. Make sure they are already attached or not interested in your target. \n\nCall the guy up and say -- 'me and some friends are going to see a movie, wanna come along?'. If he says yes, great. Wear something sexy but not slutty. Sit next to him. Smile a lot. When it's over, say something like 'that was great, we should do it again sometime'. His response will indicate what can/cannot happen next. \n\nGood luck.
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If you live with your parents, you should "wrap up the date" way before you both get in the car to drop you off. \nHere is a tip. After the movies/pizza/hanging out at the mall/walk in the park/etc just put your hand on his arm/shoulder (depending on how tall he is) and while you rub it (a little) you say: I really had fun tonight, the (describe what you guys did BRIEFLY) was fun. I hope we do it again and THEN QUICKLY kiss him on the check. Believe me, he will appreciate it. But for teh love of God! Only do this if you LIKE HIM.
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Pass him the gift,and give him a gentle kiss on the cheek, then whisper happy birthday...\n\nHe will get the butterflies then and you will be fine..\n\ngl
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Hon, why do you want to play a prank on him? How about sneaking up on him and giving him the most passionate kiss possible. Trust me, he'll appriciate you more for that.
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maam this would be the awsome idea \nkool \njust do it\nwell give him a surprise at 12.o1am with a huge cake and then go outside for a fun or either to a restaurant and call ur all relatives and ur friends and all others u knw \nthis day comes once in a year so y not to try some thing new so i think u r going in the ryt way maam \narrange an awsome party after the get toghter \nmay be go for a dance party or some singjng type of \nand the gud gift in my opnion wud be ur DEEP LOVE FOR HIM OR MAY BE A GUD THING THAT HE LOVES \nask this thing one or two day before abt his gift \nbut dun even whisper abt the surprise party \ni think this bday wud be the bst if u do so like this \nWELL MY BEST WISHES FOR HIM AND U \nMAY GOD BLESS U BOTH \nHAVE A WONDERFULL LIFE AHEAD
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It's all about atmosphere! make that interesting and the kissin' will be. Or- Kiss different parts of the body. (neck, shoulders, nibble his ear, tender skin on the arm, etc.) Exchange hard candy. =) Stick to your guns and wait 'till you're ready.
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Hey if you can find a social scene, like a party or something where you can just walk up and kiss him and not have it happen in front of 100 people, go for it. It's flattering. Otherwise, try and talk to him more often and build up a relationship that way!
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My dear, you just go for it!!!\n\nGive him some clues...lick your lips, look at his lips, twirl your hair.  When all else fails, you have to take matters in your own hands and just smack one right on his lips.  Do it softly - lick his lips; tease him, bite him GENTLY.  Kissing is FUN....Do your thing.  Enjoy.
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Ah what the he11! Go for it!! Just makes sure he brushes his teeth before he kisses ya!!!