How do you deal with an x from hell she is an x that keeps on giving in a bad way?
337025
you don't add to the drama.
623191
let her know it...deal with her bitchness and try to pretend it doesn't phase you...just keep complimenting her and act as if she's the hottest girl to you...soon she'll be eating out of your hands!Then flip the tables on her and demand that she stop being a b!tch or you'll leave...soon she'll just be your b&tch!
423477
consider it a form of flattery, and just try to be nice.  If the person is mean and hateful, just try to keep your distance and always take the higher road.
441364
You dump her. =D\n\nSeriously? That actually might help. If she's "not so nice", then does she deserve you? Are you bothered by her actions?
867490
TOUGH LOVE.  make realize that she does have a problem, that needs to be handled.  If she really does care about your opinions she will listen to you. If she doesn't she'll tell you to butt out of her business.\n\nIf she does not want to change SHE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU.\n\ni wish the best, and hope everything works out for both of you.
473821
let her keep doin it!!\nsome day someone will kick her ass and she wont do it again\nexperience is the best way to learn things
1155610
I went through this type of situation myself a few years back. I had a friend that smoked pot, slept around, neglected her family, blew money, got drunk all the time, that sort of thing. I couldnt see that she was not good for me and when I finally did and cut things out with her things got so good with my husband and me. A few years back she came back into my life and once again I started hanging out with her again. My husband and I started having problems around the same time. The only advice I can give you is to do what my husband did. He would caution me about her influence but allow me to make my own decisions. Eventually I got the big picture and left well enough alone. I began seeing the destructive behavior that she exhibitted and the behavior that tolerated out of her. People like that always do the same thing. They eventually screw up really bad that the other person has no choice but see what they are really all about. Be there for your girl, caution her but trust her to make the right choices. If you try to force your views and beliefs on her she will only reject you and become bitter with you. By giving her room and allowing her to discover the triths on her own it will be a lesson learned for her in the end. If she stops hanging out with this person then she will always blame you for losing a friend. If the situation is too much for you to handle then you need to decide if this relationship is worth saving. If so allow time to take its course. If not then you need to explain to her that you cannot stand by and watch her destructive behavior any longer. That you only want the best for her and if she cannot see that this friendship will only end up hurting her you cannot stanf by and watch. That you love her to much to watch her do that to herself.  \n\nYou cannot force this on her she will only pull away from you and pull closer to the friend. Remember: The father you push the harder she holds on.
529902
OUCH! Dude! WTF?  Just say you're sorry and explain to her how she makes you feel about yourself and that you were just venting.  She does not sound very reasonable anyway so all you can do is try.
540609
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.
1118350
Sorry, unless she figures out her life and straighten up, there is no cure for her.  How will you build a loving relationship if you can't trust her?  Find someone you love and trust.
524927
What ever you do not beat her. She's going through a stage that most teenagers go through. Try to speak to her to see what is wrong with her?  But if it's just an attitude it cant be that bad.
295655
You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
14719
1.  Leave, run dont walk.  IF he is insensitve to her needs and feelings at this stage, and over such a small thing, then how will he act later?  HE cares not for her, but his own ego and self importance and worth.  Dump his buttocks.\n\n2.  HE is verbally abusing her.  She doesnt like it, finds if offensive, and he does it purposely cause he knows that it hurts her.  what a jerk.
19071
Some people just change and you can't help that.  try to talk to her if it's a problem that can or needs to be dealt with.  i'm sorry though, and good luck
49360
you cant...however if this person pushes you away constantly, tell them how you feel, if that doesnt help, leave them be, sooner or later, they will come to terms
186206
dont be treat her in the same way she does to u
305962
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!