okay my girlfreind cheated on me with an other guy and she is prego?
350985
So Im assuming the baby is this other guys? If so, I would look at the situation. Is this guy going to be a father to this child? And can you accept that she cheated on you in the first place? If you know that hes not going to be around as a father and you are love her and are going to be with her long term, why not stay with her and raise this baby. But if you cant get over her cheating on you and she is wanting to be with this other guy, you should get out while you can. Its only going to get ugly.
313687
Come on, darlin, open your eyes and find someone new.\nThis girl sas and does things that hurt you?  She cheated on you?  She wants you but doesn't want you now?\n\nPlease move on.  No ultimatums, no if's and;s or but's...move on.  She had her chance, she broke your heart and you can not allow this to happen again.\n\nIf you open your heart and your mind, you'll find a new love that might treat you like you need to be treated.  A new beginning with a new love.  Stop pining over this other gal and let loose of her.  She isn't worth it, believe me.\n  As I said, she had her chance, she blew it.  Once a cheater, always a cheater.  She is just too immature for you.  Move on...............
744003
she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't  do it again.
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
201920
If she cheated once, chances are she will cheat again. Especially considering its a lond distance relationship. Move on.
374638
Forget about her, she just said she would think about it b/c she didn't want to hurt your feelings. And if this other guy is a friend of your...get revenge!
322184
Keep up the good fight don't give in . The fact that you are asking is good, just think what if you give in catch something or get them preggers . Then you have to face the love of your life with the disgrace you hurt her.  Next time you get the urge imagine her screwing another man and how you would feel maybe that will give you a stronger incentive.
481949
Neither of you love each other since you both cheated, whether it was for plasure or revenge it doesnt matter. This is a mentally dangerous situation as that he has become a habit. Habits are hard to break especially the ones that last for years. You have been doing this for so long that you cant remember what life was like before him. You deserve better. Unfortunately you cant listen to your heart on this one. Leave. Does it feel good knowing he might have been inside another woman hours earlier without protection then inside you? Do you always want to have that feeling? Search your soul and find your courage to whats right for your emotional and mental future.
673501
I feel sorry for you.My advice is, identify the reason why she did it,also ask your self I am faithful and am I the person who she feels comfortable and secure?After you answer these questions, you can decide.If there is any weakness on your side,(I am not talking about the sexual thing) you better forgive her from the bottom of your heart and leave peacefully.
590089
hey sweetie, if she cheated it just wasnt meant to be. You deserve better and remember if you take her back, you'll never have have that trust you had. Hang in there, it'll get better. My husband cheated on me and for all I know he still is. Just be glad you and her dont have kids yet.
216493
she met another man.  Plain and simple.  There is nothing you can do but move on.  Sorry baby...
363244
Its really her business who she had sex with, and you dont care anyway, so dont discuss it with her if she is uncomfortable with it.  Go after both at the same time, and see which one acts better and makes you feel good-dont try to go after one and try to keep the other one on a leash.
995122
You need to be honest with yourself. \n\nIs she pregnant or not? She could be tricking you into leaving your girlfriend to come back to her!\n\nEnsure that she is pregnant before making a decision! If she is then stick by her in any means possible - be honest with your current girlfriend and see who you feel the most comfortable with.\n\nJust because a girl is pregnant with your baby does not mean that you have to get married! As she is only 16!\n\nGood Luck!
693518
Just forget her. Why did she leave you for another man? Is it your fault or her fault? Find another girl. If she leaved you for another man, it means she's not your soulmates. She's not meant to be for you
491716
She is totally using you and you should dump her.  She's already proven over and over again that she doesn't care about your feelings by cheating on you and it's just plain disrespectful of her to screw around with this guy then come running to you.  Find yourself someone who will respect and love you.
211345
I would leave her...once a cheater always a cheater....Apparently she doesnt love u like u want her too. Say goodbye and find better
1075792
You both need to decide what you want.  He should NOT under any circumstance marry this other girl if he is telling you he loves you more than her.  I understand she is pregnant, but in the end I'd rather be pregnant and alone than a divorcee who's ex husband cheated on me because he still wanted to boink his ex.  When you still love someone who has found someone else it is hard, but you will eventually get over it.  Keep your hands off the guy though, she may be pregnant, but I'm sure all 5 of her closes friends aren't, and messing with her man might entail an ass beating.