We cant tell if my girlfriends hymen is broken or not yet.?
347242
its definately broken- but maybe she isnt "wet" enough at the time of pnetration.\n\ntry ky jelly, if that doesnt help she miht have thrush.\n\nits verry common, and treatable with over thecounter creams. It is a high possibility, particularly as you have only just begun to have sex, and could have disturbd the ph of her vagina
160168
Depends on your definition.  Can you break your hymen? yes. But many other things can as well (e.g. bike riding, tree climbing, falling) as the hymen is just a very thin layer of skin. so many girls already have broken their hymen before they have sex.  \n\nSo really, no...you are still a virgin (and honestly, no guy will be able to tell short of a doctor)
48478
It could if your hymen isn't broken.  You will want to make sure that you are adequately lubricated, too.
751889
Do what feels comfortable to you and him.  Take your time and work up to it.  He should spend time with foreplay so you will be wet and lubricated and/or use a lubricating jelly such as KY Jelly.  He should work in slowly the first time.  It may or may not seem a little uncomfortable, but if you relax your muscles in that area, it will be easier.\n\nIf your hymen has not broken, since you are a virgin, there is likely to be a little blood.  Do not worry about that.  It's normal for a virgin because of the hymen breaking.  Sometimes it is broken anyway because of sports, etc. and you won't bleed.\n\nAnother young gal once asked me what it would be like.  I told her that I had seen how her intended looked at her and he adored her. I knew that he would be gentle and loving and she would be just fine.  When she came back from the honeymoon, we had a little reception for them.  She took me aside and said, "You know that little conversation we had?"  I said, "Yes...."   And she gave me the hand gesture that meant everything was wonderful, with a big smile on her face and a wink.\n\nIf your intended loves you, it will be just fine.  Relax and enjoy becoming one.\n\nBest Wishes for your future as man and wife.  God Bless!\n\nSue
1043003
Absolutely not!  The only physical sign of losing virginity is a broken hymen, which is just some skin at the opening of the vagina.  That won't affect her walk.\n\nIt could tell you if she's 8 months pregnant, though, because very pregnant women get a certain "waddle" in their walk (happens earlier for subsequent pregnancies).  :-)
533818
if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
887641
dont worry even if it has broken you are a virgin until you have sex for the first time.\nsome girls are even born without hymens,but it can break by using tampons or many other ways without ever having sex.\nyou can check,gently put a finger in your vagina,no more then an inch,if you feel a thin film of skin,yours is intact.
342589
Just because you use a tampon dosen't mean you'll break your hymen. However, if you've already broken it you won't break it again when you have sex for the first time. Its important to remember that a lot of girls loose their hymen before their virginity. It can break very easily. I broke mine in a car accident and a friend of mine broke hers while riding a horse. Also, a lot of females have what is called a cribform hymen, which is just a lot of strings of skin stretching across the inside of your vagina. Its more then possible that IF you're tampon is reaching that far then its just going through one of the holes. If you're still concerned then maybe you should speak with your gynocologist and have them check for a hymen or have them explain things for you a little better.
823146
she should let it heal normally, like a 4-7 days. Its like a normal cut, if u keep irriating it, it won't heal. you rabbits need to calm it down, and figure out other sexual pleasures to do while she "heals." or she needs to see her gyno and ask why she has these cuts....since i've never heard of them?
482945
-when a girl lose her viriginity by med means when her Hymen is broken...Hymen is a thin skiny web in the intrance of Vagina....as it is very thin then some times girls after it broken wont have any bleeding some others have and the quality of bleeding is not a matter cuz we have more than 20 diff. hymen figure.....\n-as the other people think the Hymen can broken during some sports its very rare and of course not true.....\nthe hymen will just broken if any thing inter ur vaginal...like sexual activity...or self manipulation and....not y any kind of sport like bikin.riding...gymnastic....\n- if u need more information ask \nGood Luck
507402
your hymen probably already broke and your just getting paranoed about it so you cant enjoy sex as much just relax and enjoy\nremeber that it is a fine layer of skin that can break at anytime like when horse riding.\nit probably already broken.\n\ni may only be young but im 16 nad mine broken when i sat down really fast and banged my ass on the chair \nmy friend broke when she put in a tampon\n\ndont worry enjoy life \nwho cares about your cherry breaking or not it makes no difference \ntrust me my mum is research for these things.
540005
As most everyone has said, "You are no longer a virgin IF you have had sexual intercourse.\n\nHowever the hymen can be broken in several ways including horseback riding, small seats on bicycles, doing the splits, and sports to name a few.\n\nAlthough your Hymen may be broken you are still a virgin IF you have not had sexual intercourse. If this is a concern to you, if you hymen is broken, it can be repaired by surgery.
606211
I really don't think that you squirted out blood. What probably happened since it was the first time for both of you is that when you broke her hymen and she bled a little it was transferred to your penis giving the impression you had ejaculated blood. If you were wearing a condom and it was inside the condom then you should probably talk to your doctor.
1016285
the only way to really identify if she is a virgin is visualizing a hymen (small membrane over the vagina) but that is only a positive partially.  I the hymen  was torn by some accident she still could be a virgin.  if her hymen is not intact then the only one that knows for sure is the girl.
440591
the hymen is a very soft lining tissue that can be easily broken with any penetration into the vagina ..I'm a surgical tech and have assisted in surgery to reconstruct a Hyman before ...and if you did brake it you know because penetration is not impeded anymore....
224832
if its bent and tender to touch then there is a good chance it is broken, tell her to get it checked out.
880240
Get her checked up if she is infected by "me", if yes I would advise not to have sex with her!!