how to control my lustful desires?
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try activties u love...meditation...yoga\nwatch your favorite tv show..\nchat with friends\n\ni've made a pledge of celibacy\ni know how u feel\ndon't give up...when u feel lustful have a prayer warrior ( a friend)with you to help fight temptation
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exhibit some self control and will power
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You just need to build up your self control. When ever you get..."urges"... try to think about something else or buisy yourself by doing something like exercises or go for a walk. I know the temtation is hard to over come but with time it works. Praying for strength might help too ;)
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Sexual desire can no more be overcome as can hunger.  Sexual desire, like hunger, can be sated with a caring partner.  Find yourself such a partner and see to each others healthy, consensual sexual desires.\n\nRemember, just as suppressing hunger leads to starvation, suppressing sexual desire leads to pathology:  both are unhealthy.
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It sounds like you have a lot going on inside of your head.  Financial and emotional issues, work issues, family issues = stress, which can really impact your sexual desires.  Have you tried talking to a counselor/therapist?  \n\nDon't worry about your lack of desire; that will be fixed when you fix whatever's going on in your life that you don't like.
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Take estrogen to dampen your male urges.  That is guaranteed to work.  One point worth mentioning to you, we women have incredible self control which you men lack--hahaha.
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There are several ways to control it. And if you don't control / stop it now you will loss your vigour, and you will loss your memory power, your nerve system will become weak, Finlay you will not be able to satisfy your wife. \nfirst the general ways. stop sleeping alone, stop seeing prone sights, pictures, if you are an alcoholism and masturbating it is still worst. \nthe things you see, and imagine are also main cause. i am sure you look at girls with lusty eyes. avoid. \nthen learn little mind control methods. contact me if you are near Chennai.\nThe only best way is to surrender to JESUS, ask HIM help you,\nwash your mind, soul, have a inner healing by the Precious Blood of JESUS.\nJESUS LOVES YOU.
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To read questions here without spelling errors. I think you mean "desires."
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Try to find things other than sex to work on...put your mind off sex. While you're obviously still going to have a high sex drive, it will help if you don't constantly think about it.
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I have faced a similar problem. what I did is that i started thinking... is what I'm doing good? shouldnt I end this evil. then I decided that I must begin the fight against the temptation. So, I began the fight.. every time I'm on messenger, I try my best to control my self, by keeping the good thoughts in my mind. Each time, I get a bit stronger. Sometimes, I decide not to open the computer at all, but rather do any other safe activity. By time, I became strong enough to overcome the temptation, and have the victory. That was the Holy Spirit who gave me this strength. All thanks to God. I hope, my friend, you will benefit from my real experience and God be with you.
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just be yourself, achieve what you want while you can. you will have someone soon enough, i mean you're already turning me on!
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You don't!!\n\nAND for all those answers that have given you the advice that you SHOULD anyway, they are OBVIOUSLY in the wrong forum to give advice!!\n\nYou don't want sex....DON"T HAVE IT!\n\nLet the person you'd be involved with pleasure themselves...watch them do it even, that could be a turn on for both of you.  Maybe then you'd like to.  Voyeurism is really erotic.  Watch and see what turns them on, maybe turn yourself on...but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.  Don't have it unless YOU want to.  IT"S 2006 FOR God's SAKE!! \n\nRESPECT YOURSELF!!
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You need to masturbate.  No joke. It will get you in touch with what feels good to you.  Once you get that down, I suggest that you start riding him so that you can have more control over what gets you feeling something.
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Pray about it and ask the Lord to help you through and He will. He has helped me with that exact same problem. Try to ask other brothers in Christ to hold you accountable. Stay away from places that are stumbling blocks that would cause the sexual urges, avoid internet pornography.
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do us all a favour and just do it hun, just do it....\n\n\nsatisfy her lust..
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Try exercise and a healthy diet.  Just being in shape can do wonders for one's stamina and often provide the little boost in sexual urge that you need.
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I would highly suggest the book "Without A Hint" by Joshua Harris.  It talks about lust especially, but any kind of addiction/obsession in our lives.  The book has been renamed to "Sex Is Not The Problem (Lust Is)"  Below is a sight that will tell you some on it.  My friends and I read it, its a great book.