Why do I get so turned on by my best freinds wife?
343571
because she is really sexy and a taboo for you
341187
I heard that women often get aroused by 2 men going at it. And the "reason" i heard for it was that its raw sex, usually its not cute, or cuddley- just sex! Sometimes that's all a person needs to get aroused! There is nothing wrong with it either! We all have our own perks and our own things that get us aroused, and you shouldn't have to explain it to anyone either! Good for you!
697580
Just because your marriage of 25 years is "ok" doesn't mean you can't have a strong attraction to someone you describe. People change throughout their lives and it sounds to me like you're gay.To reiterate, that you have spent a pleasant 25 years with your wife says no more than this time has been tolerable. If you're saying (sounds like you are) that you've been feeling earth shattering passion and obsession about your married friend, it's fairly obvious.
1020803
Sounds like you have a very vivid imagination.\n\nIf you are not actually with them how would you know that they are so horny?
355508
what ever turns you on the most.
580729
Anything...just seeing my husband turns me on...he could just accidentally brush up against me and I'm instantly horny...lol..guess that's just how it is when you are 23 and have raging hormones...plus it doesn't hurt that he is amazing in the sheets. I guess some people require stimulation to get in the mood...but luckily thats not me.
848107
Alright heres the deal. You need to realize that having urges for your SIL is normal. Just because you have a wife that you love doesnt mean that suddenly you will not be attracted to other women. You are human. It does NOT mean that you two should do anything about it. Simply say to yourself, "Yes I am sexually attracted to my SIL and, NO I will not act on it." Knowing these things will actually make it easier on you and trust me, a couple years down the road, after having not transgressed, you will feel like a million bucks for resisting.\nGood Luck Dude
890342
Are you crazy, I'm married and I think I'm having a fantasy about you right now! It's only natural to think about other things, or other people. That's the great thing about imagination.
256384
Sounds like you have some personal insecurity issues to deal with. Talk with your wife about your insecurities and ask her about what thoughts are going through her head while you two make love. This will surely alleviate your thoughts that she is imagining other people in your marriage bed. \n\nMore than likely she will tell you the same as most other answers on here; Dog style lends better to deeper penetration and you can hit more sensitive spots that way (g spot etc.). She likes the feeling it provides, and really you should count yourself lucky that she is open to try different things!\n\nTalk to your wife instead of worrying un-neededly.
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Laying next to her in bed watching her sleep. \nKnowing that this woman who shares my life is my true best friend and the only woman I would ever want to be with.\n\nWhen making love hearing her express the pleasure she has at my touch. The feeling of her soft skin against mine and the electricity that leeps from her to my hand. \n\nWatching her face as she looks at a child. The smile radiating love regardless of who the child belongs to.\n\nThe sound of her voice. The color of her eyes. The look of love she has in her face when she looks at me.\n\nThese are the best feelings I get from my lover....my wife.
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It is normal.  She probably feels like you're replacing her, or that it's kinky,etc.\nThe next time you're in the mood try to make her be in the mood.  I know that sometimes I claim to not be in the mood, but after some persuasion I can heartily change my mind.\n\nGirls don't get turned on by sight, but by touch.  The next tiem you want some, go after her, but be romantic and tender too.  Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and how much you long for her.  Kiss her neck, and eyes, and smooth her hair.  Compliment her like hell, and be as sugary as possible.\n\nMake her realize, that you wouldn't have to masturbate if she were more open to sex.\n\nAlso, encourage her to take a multivitamin with you.  Alot of women don't have enough zinc -- so they have hard time getting wet.\nThey don't have enough niacin, either, so they don't feel good.\n\nGet her to take evening primrose oil for "her hair", and flax seed oil  to help prevent cholesterol issues for both of you (buy smart balance too, so that this sounds more plausible).  Once she starts taking those magical four (zinc, niacin, evening primrose oil, and flax seed oil) she'll have a hard time keeping her hands off of you.
578762
It all falls back to the old saying... the grass is greener on the other side. It is human nature to always strive for what you cannot have, and once you have attained the one that you have lusted after, your eye starts to wander to others... As long as you realise that there will always be someone out there that will tempt you and that your wife will probably find someone that gets her temperature soaring as well! But it comes down to respect and love for your partner. You are together for a reason, and while you will continue to appreciate the scenery, the person you have chosen has the whole package! After all, that's what attracted you in the first place!
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They are saying you don`t matter enough to me to be kind and understanding!There is a possibility your husband is mad about something you don`t even know happened and needs to discuss it with you in a reasonable kind fashion.Also at certain ages some men louse sexual drive,he may be embarrassed and is hiding it with avoidance and anger.I would lean towards keeping a close eye on his activities and try to find out what he is so interested in other than his hot wife.There are some real weird people out there and it is amassing how well they can hide there deviant behavior.An acquaintance of mine, husband,liked little girls and left her alone one to many times and she found out.Here is a good rule for married people,if you can`t show your spouse what you are doing on your computer you most likely should`nt be doing it.Get some help ask a counselor in the mental health dept.of a clinic or hospital. Do it,DO IT NOW!
1184886
It's normal.  My hubby is 61, we've been married 32 years.  He is ALWAYS horny.
480312
I wouldn't worry at all it's just her juices (albeit a lot of  them) - you must be doing everything right! This only usually happens when a woman is having a *very* good time, so pat yourself on the back, she's a lucky woman!
518206
It just happens like that!  It's just our hormone level rises and falls at different times.  This happens to me a lot without my boyfriend touching me too.  I'll be minding my own business at work, then all of sudden, BOOM-I'm feeling horny as hell!  It's your hormones sweetie!  They rise and fall at different times!
226532
No, there is nothing wrong with you.  You are confused about your feelings for her.  She is your best friend and it natural to feel drawn to her, but that doesn't mean you are attracted to her sexually.  You enjoy her company, as you should.  Don't act on your feelings for her until you are sure about yourself and how you feel.  In the meantime enjoy life and keep her as a friend.  She may not have the same kind of feelings you are having.