i just met my boyfriend like maybe 4 weeks ago and now he wants me to meet his why do you think he want me to?
344361
Probably because he truly cares for you!  Just because you're meeting his parents doesn't mean you two are getting married.  \n\nThat being said, if you are uncomfortable with the idea, you should tell him, and if he cares about you at all he should respect your feelings.
671707
it's just dating...you're single now...no harm.  Don't make any commitments until you know what you want this time...make no mistakes again...be sure he knows that as well
121745
I feel you should know the person very well, if you two have been living together for a while. But in the same token you should ask how well does your know you? It must be a reason why this question is asked, for there might be some unresolved issues that may be at hand.  Just something to think about.......Feel me!
985711
Well it's only been 3 weeks and he has made it quite clear that he wants to go slow, and he's explained why.  If this is not good enough for you then forget the relationship.  Otherwise just relax and let things take their course.
789744
Just to meet him could serve to be a very nice experience that could land you a friend or the love of a lifetime. I think maybe you are afraid to be honest with your feelings. You have nothing to lose here. Love is blind. And you need to acknowledge the fears you have that you so do not want other people to see. You need to face them and either accept or dismiss them. All they serve to you now is a hindrance. Dont let nothing get in your way. No external circumstances should hinder your life. I know is difficult. But regret is not a nice feeling. I hope this helps.
548928
I think this could go either way, but if I were you, I ask him to meet you in a public place, like a coffee shop.  tell him calmly that you'd like to give your relationship another try but, you are not interested while he's within else. Take it very slow and keep a close eye on him because he fact is that he's cheating with you on his current girlfriend so there is nothing to say he will not do the same to you.  Be careful, you do not want to go through that pain again.
1158305
Well first of all do you want to meet him?   I have had people Im me and be like lets meet right now.  And they know nothing about me other than seeing my pic on the directory.    To me thats just strange.   But I did meet a friend that way.   But trust your instinct if  they want you to meet them and you want to take it slow then take it slow.   If they get mad about it then I always think they have issues.       If you decide to meet up with him then make sure its a public place and tell your friends and/or family where you are and what you are doing.
847385
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
631012
I think you should meet him, but not even entertain the thought of marriage yet.  All you really know is what he has chosen to tell you via his internet persona.  Who knows what really lurks underneath.
868127
sounds like you are both quite young & placing too much importance on these words WAY TOO SOON\nalso you should be saying these things without expecting him to repeat the words back to  you\nif you ahve only just started dating then take your time & if things are meant to be then ""love "" will develop between you
1180291
well from wot u say he seems to like u, a lot.he is probably shy coz of ur current relationship and basically dsnt wanna harm that. if u like him back then u have a problem of stayin with ur current boyfriend or bein with this new guy.need more tips, email me.
483082
i think you know the answer to this, he will say what he thinks you want to hear. no way can he really fall inlove with you in such a short time. he may have fallen for you looks or personality but that isnt enough to get more intimate so quickly. if he really cares about you then he will wait until your ready and not rush into anything so personal. go out with each other and get to know each other better first.
969544
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
74331
He might have liked chatting to you online because he imagined that he had some kind of a relationship with you, and there was a chance that he would meet you in the future and you could become his girlfriend. When he heard you were dating someone else it may have seemed like you were cheating on him, and you too were like the girls who hurt his feelings in the past. Dont tell this guy where you live, he has alot of growing up to do.
245371
No, if you have only dated for 1 month, you havent begun to really know each other.Take your time to see if you have the same interest and to let your feelings for each other develope or not develope.The relationship is still new. wait awhile and see if you still feel the same.
299364
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
434928
How long have you been talking to him??\n\nI think you need to meet before you can truely know what you feel.