I want to get married. What should I do???
337572
Marry the one in your picture!  Or, simply ask!
454371
Forget that...it takes too long.  Make somebody to get married!!
377622
you just need to have the certificate and someone to marry you. They sign the certificate and bam! your married. ring or no ring.
1052182
The thing about marriage is, that even if your married with that person for 30 years, your still gonna discover something new about that person. Marriage is a life time commitment, you guys grow old together and you guys learn from each other. Marriage isnt only being husband and wife but you guys have to be best friends first. That is very important. Nobody can tell you that you got engaged too soon after meeting your fiance. Nothing is too soon unless you feel that it is. (My best friend was engaged to a guy, they were together for 3yrs, she fell in love with a different guy, she was confused between those two guys for like four months, and two weeks ago she married the other guy, and they only knew each other for four months. They just got married and screwed everyone else. And so far they are happily married) So nobody can say its too soon or too late, you only know what you want. \nBeing in a relationship before getting married, is getting to know that person, before making that life time commitment. And in between those years, you learn from your partner, you grow with that person, you learn from that person, people change whether you like it or not, but its up to you, if you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. People these days dont understand what marriage is...they get married and two months later they get divorced. Marriage is a sacrad bond between two people and it should be taken seriously. It should be cherished and loved always!\nBut if he chooses his family over you, than that is wrong. Your gonna be his WIFE! If he doesnt understand that, than thats not good, and you should be with someone that does. You should be the one he chooses and not his family. Your the one that hes going to spend the rest of his life with, your the one hes going to wake up to every day, not his family. You should talk to him about that, you should tell him that your gonna be his wife, and that his family should come second after you, if he doesnt understand that, than you should not marry him. You need a man, that cherishes YOU first than his family second. He should understand that. \nSo the choice is  complelty up to you, you should do whatever you feel is right and watever you feel will make YOU happy. Marriage is a very important step. People should take it serously. So GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
629869
No..No...and No!!\n\nDo not marry anyone under any kind of pressure.\n\nMarriage is about loving someone and wanting to spend the rest of your lives together not being forced down the aisle.\n\nGood luck.
565587
i see that you want to have a more stable relationship and i don't blame u for that. \ni also wanted to marry when i was 17 and my bf 25. but we needed our parents' consent and they didn't agree. i have to tell you that now (when i'm 22) i realize that i'd have done a great mistake by marrying the guy then. i've met a lot of guys ever since and even though 'he' seemed to me the charming prince at that time, i realized that there were other guys much better than him.\nnow i don't even think about marriage, i want to enjoy life, cause all my life i'll be married. \nit's hard to be married i'm telling u. and you'll soon get bored of it and it's not like something you can give up like that. it concerns the rest of your life.
339169
getting married first
200036
Don;t get married until your done with the wild streak people get these days otherwise you will be unhappy. And make sure your marrying the right one and not a jacka$$
586384
I think that you are way too young to make a life decision like marriage. Despite what is shown on television and what celebrities do, marriage is supposed to be a life commitment. Do you feel that you can commit your life to someone at such a young age? Do you want to go to college, Does she want to go to college? How would this effect your relationship? Have you sat down and REALLY discussed the ramifications of getting married. Where would you live afterwords (with your parents?), how could you afford living together, etc.  It might suit both of you to speak to a third party, like a pastor or even a counselor before taking the plunge. You sound like a nice person, but remember the old saying (and Elvis song), Only fools Rush In
1084764
Why get married now u have the rest of you life together. if ur meant to be no paper will prove it, only time. I think that you shouldn't do it. Good Luck.
88410
No No No\n\nDo NOT do it.\n\nFind the courage to get away from those people.\n\nYou are only inviting a world of hurt, for yourself and your prospective bride, by getting married.\n\nGet honest, find some courage, and get out of it!!\n\nYou say that you love a man. Does he love you, too? Can he help you and support you through this? Do you have any sympathetic (gay or straight) friends who can help you?\n\nComing out seems impossibly hard before you do it, but what a relief once you have! Find/build a support group of true friends who will love you for YOURSELF, regardless of whether you are gay straight or type O positive! These people DO exist!\n\nPlease try to find an honest way through to happiness.\n\nYour parents may or may not accept your choices, but if they truly love you, they will come around.\n\nIf there is a specific woman that you are supposed to marry, can you talk to her? Perhaps she will support you in refusing the marriage?
1087995
Get married by the Justice of the Peace first, then come home for a church wedding. Your priest will talk to you about it.\n\nWe got married in Hawaii four years ago, and are just now getting all the paperwork straightened out for the church wedding.\n\nWhatever you do, don't let a cleric marry you, or the church may reject your application.
539071
You'll just know. Besides, no one is quite READY for marriage, it's like having a baby--you have to know you want it and then plan for it. When that's in place it's trial by error, so to speak.
67562
Anytime of the year! When you are ready, that's the right time. To get married sometimes you need to find the best time of the year due to weather consideration, honeymoon plan, etc. But a proposal? I would say anytime!
616088
I dont think there is a good age to get married, just make sure its the right time for you.  Never rush into marriage even if you are determened to be with the same person for the rest of your life, plan your wedding the way you want it and start saving for the things you would like.  I get pressured alot from my boyf family to marry now.  But even thou ive been with him for over 8 yrs we know we want he full works at our wedding and we know that doing it now is easy but thatwould be a budgetted wedding and its not what we want.
1002834
will u marry me? wanna do it..
734680
Go on the trip...figure out what u want.....DO NOT GET MARRIED IF you are in any kinda doubt......DIVORCE IS HORRIBLE......\nWhen there is no question in your mind or heart.....Then you are ready.....\nPeace....