helo me make the right decision?
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depends on how long you want to keep him around.  If less than 3 weeks sleep w/ him tonight.  If longer than that, set him up in the spare.
35607
You don't know.  It's a decision your going to have to make.  You know him.  Is it worth the wait?  You will make good choices and bad choices in life.  But make sure you make the choices and don't let someone else make it for you.  GL
271887
Sounds like you are on an HMO plan right now.  If he is on both plan then go ahead and choose PPO.
745504
How would I know what your choice is?
111348
Whatever your heart feels, go with it. Who knows?? You may just have your pot of Gold! Good luck!
693214
Nope. Get it when you can, where you can. Get it from whom you can and the easy ones twice. LOL. Keep it with one person.
870293
Look at the You Tube video and decide.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LgA6sIPPv4
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I think you've answered your own question.  If you're interested in exploring your options you are not in the relationship that you want to be in.  Therefore, I recommend ending the relationship prior to exploring your options.  I hope you find happiness.
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If that's what you believe is right, you should follow your convictions.  Remember that the only thing that you can give to a guy that no other girl can give is *you*.  If you think that's important enough to save for the man you'll spend the rest of your life with, then follow your beliefs.
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A decision by default is still a decision.  Trust me, your path will be smoother, regardless of which way you go, if you choose consciously rather than by default.  Your current situation is unsustainable.  Although painful, you will recover from the loss of either, easier than you will recover from the loss of all....  And then again, maybe your indecision reflects your true belief that neither is really right for you.  I recommend counseling.  You need to know what's really going on with you to make a good decision.
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Sounds like you pretty much already made up your mind and you know what position to accept... Think of the big picture. \n\nHow do you want to be living in the next few months?  Would you like a dependable job w/security, sick days, vacation days, holidays and weeeknds off, with room to grow...or hopping you make a sale this week, working weeekends, holidays and not having room to grow..
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i think you should spend some one on one with each of them. don't be in a very big hurry to choose or you could choose the wrong one. if they don't understand that you need to make the right decision they should understand and give you the space you need.  good luck and, god bless you!!!!
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Don't be mad at my simplistic answer but "Do the right thing!"\n\nYou obviously want to - I can tell from your information - but what I find is that 'the truth always reveals itself!' You may lose more in the end if you go the wrong way.\n\nI pray for your success.!
915199
that's a dificult decision, it's completely up to you\n\n:> peace\n.
88119
Is there a choice when you are the no.1 target?
1177319
I think you should give it more time. I can understand what you are talking about when you say you wonder if you should go for something. But me  I try to just wait awhile before I jump into something, but just give it more time. Then if you want to follow your heart, just think it though carefully with whatever decision you make.
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I hope you are truly comfortable with this decision. Sometimes traveling on the road of life you come across a fork in the path, step over it. \nAs far as my opinion goes, which is not far, it rarely strays from home. I do not think you require my validation about the decision you have made. So by that measure I think what you are doing is just fine.