What is your opinion of waiting to have sex until married?
351361
It's a nice theory but can have bad effects later. Like if your new hubby has been with other women and you never have you could feel inadequate. Then later jealous , then after a while you will want to have an affair to see if your really missing out on anything or so you can compare it to how your hubby pleases you. \nIf you both have waited til marriage the odds are better but still not great. I think it will lead to cheating if you save yourselves. Just my opinion though.
334541
I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
439618
I hate to look at things this way, but I'm a factual person. The stats show that ppl who live together before getting married are more likely to get divorced. I waited until I was married to have sex. This brings a real sense of security to our relationship. I could go on about the other benefits, but I'm tired.
189346
I would not do it!!! Wait until you are married!! I did -- I just think it is best!! others will say it is ok, just like sex, drugs and all the other junk they want to do!! BE happy and much blessed in your marriage!! bye
599479
It's a good thing.  That is something special you can give your future husband.\n\nI waited way longer than you because it took me that long to find the right man to marry.  I don't regret waiting for him.\n\nDon't let anyone pressure you into going against your beliefs or try to make you feel less than you are because you're waiting.  Besides, it's no one's business but yours.
438517
If a couple want to wait untill they are married before having that sort of contact, it is their choice.\n\nReligion is about control (note I said religion and not faith), so religion's will attempt to interfere with society to gain power.\nSocieties tend to go through phases where they are more and then less permissive with regards to sex. Maybe we are becoming less permissive overall at the moment.\n\nUlimately I believe it should be the choice of the people what they do, not some kind of coercion or guilt trip from a religion.
930523
I don't think that 'marriage' should come before sex; I think a true, loving commitment should come before sex.  Marriage is just a piece of paper or a ceremony that represents that, but a lot of marriages are made without that commitment.\n\nPeople can have casual sex and do well, but generally, having sex first before a relationship and dedication can muck things up.  That's my two cents!
1104126
It's sex before marriage. Some people are for it, some against it. I believe you should try before you buy.
941723
FIRST PRE-MARITAL SEX IS IMMORAL !!!\n\nGET MARRIED FIRST !!!\n\nTHEN BE GENTLE WITH HER !!!
131419
you should wait until you're married to have sex.  you were meant to have an intimate, emotioanl, and spiritual realtionship with people of the opposite sex.\n\nsex outside of marriage, is not only dangerous, by regretful.\n\nfor example:\nyou could wind up as a one night stand\nyou can get numerous STD's\nyou can become pregnant \nor contractind AID's \n\nplease consider waiting until marriage to have sex. \n\nthink about:\n\nif you marry as a virgin to a person who is also a virgin....having sex would be a blissful act. anything you would do to eachother would feel wonderful!\n\nplus, anytime you have sex with someone, you connect with them. even if it's just subconsciously. \n\nwhy do you think that sex complicates things o much?!\n\nrespect yourself, and your future...please wait until marriage to have sex!!
47052
Fall in love, get married, then have sex. But once you're in love and waiting to get married, I can tell you it's HARD to not have sex, but since I'm a Christian I am waiting until I get married, but it's hard...
1099572
"Everybody waits until marriage to have sex" ? You're kidding around correct? When a woman or man say I Know that person of the opposite sex, and mean that in the biblical sense! That Is Utopia!
236692
wait until marriage True love waits and looks out for the best. sex before then looks out for me.
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
987425
lol . . . . I know I am not a lady . . . but you got to be kidding.\n\nIt is not strange that people wait until marriage to have sex . . . but it is extremely rare . . . and it is has past it time.\n\nSex is does not get better if you wait . . . usually it improves with experience.  Also people who has never experiement with their sex drive . . . usually have problem with fidelity with their partner because they have a low sex drive . . . and their partner has a higher sex drive.\n\nWhy do you have bring religion into . . . with religion protesting a fictional movie . . . killed the belief in god . . . fiction can only destroy fiction.  Since the movie was fictional . . . then god is fictional because they are afraid that it would hurt it.\n\nNow Pride . . . If you could maintain you virginity . . . you can either be proud of it . . . or disappointed.  It is an accomplishment, especially if you have people vying for your attention.  If no one desires you . . . then you would have no problem of maintaining and it is no accomplishment.\n\nAs for your Mr. Right . . . yeah right . . . .  Listen sweetheart. . . we are not perfect . . . we make mistakes . . . we have faults.  And let me tell you something Princess . . . you are not perfect either . . . and right now . . . you are basically annoying right now.\n\nLook . . . sex is a part life . . . whether it is actual sex or sexual attraction.  People decide who they want to get know by attractions . . . (not necessarily but looks, but attraction).  Without attraction, guys would not care about a girl and visa-versa.\n\nBut let me tell you something about men . . . we love sex.  And let me promise you . . . if you like him and you are not giving it to him . . . believe me . . . he will get it from somewhere else.
1054992
True love waits, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we intend to till we are married, so go for it girl!
139571
Yes, you should wait until you are married.