What do you do when the one you love has to be married off to someone else?
340129
Honey, i know it feels awful, & i know no words can ever compensate u, but plz let GOD do his job, marriage is fate & if it is fate to marry him , it will come 2 u even in 100 yrs. Try to 4get, give urself the time, do stuff , do ur best, call ur gf & go out , excercise, & beleive me by time u 'll 4get. Good luck baby
496727
Get married if you're single, and divorced if you're married.
497532
Love is a tough thing.  Be sure you are truly out of love before finalizing it with your husband.  And if you want to continue the relationship with the other man, please make sure to be divorced with the husband.  Since the relationship is long distance, you may need to spend more time together before deciding marriage with the new one.
1101468
Life is too short. You need to move on with the other guy. There is no use in leading your boyfriend on. If you stay with your boyfriend because of his feelings you will be hurting both of you in the long run. If you married your boyfriend you didn't have the right kind of love for him this will hurt him even more. You will be unhappy and end up resenting him. Explain this to your boyfriend.
458129
I have to say marry whom you love because if you don't love the person you marry what says you will end up loving them in the end
23945
One of you will have to move...there is no way to get over someone you still have to share a home with.
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
281044
First you really should talk to your wife, tell her that you want out of the marriage. You shouldnt be with someone if you are married to another... After you and your wife seperate then you can think about the other woemn,.,
105727
find someone else. don't be affraid to break it up.
843646
did you mean to say break up with some one ? If you two are not seeing eye to eye on things, then you should go ahead and break up with the person because you don't want to get married to this person and then regret it later than the line.
1072494
Let him go. He's married. What about the wedding vows he made?\nIf people can break these vows whenever they wish...then they meant nothing.  How would you like it if you were married to a guy and he left you like that?\nSomeone wonderful will come along for you. And you'll be glad \nyou waited...
117844
Probably not...He has no insentive to move on because he has you on the side and still gets to stay married to someone else.  If he is having problems with one of you then there is the other so why would he need to ever choose.  The longer this goes on though the more likely it is he will break it off with you and return to his wife.  In the end your the odd one out and the easiest to get rid of.
627622
Go out w both till you know who you like better. its not like they are asking you to marry them or something....
1182001
one word: pray. If you pray and believe then she will come back to you. Or you can ask her for a second chance. Remind her of your wedding vows. Til death do you part. For better or worse.
354541
You need to make a choice then if you are willing to give up everything you have in your life for a possible relationship with this other person with who there are no guarantees.  A lot of married people get crushes on other people, the key is not to act on them and throw away what you have.  Sit down and decide what you want in life and what price you are willing to pay.  If it is this other person then you need to get a divorce and pursue that relationship after the divorce.
868268
Of course your fiancee will be hurt, who wouldn't?  Don't stay with someone and marry them if you're not absolutely certain.  You're just putting your happiness on the backburner for someone else - and you don't need that either.  It's never too late to call anything off - even if you're walking down the aisle already.  You haven't said "I DO" yet.  Unless you want to end up another divorce statistic, I'd say call it off.  Marriage can be very rewarding and wonderful if you find the right person and I think that's what you should do (find Mr. Right, not settle for Mr. Right Now)
151130
this is tough. Your only get one soulmate in a lifetime. Both of you though have families. You said you live with your childrens father you didnt say husband or boyfriend so is it that you live together but you are not together? this is really something you and your soulmate need to dicuss if this is how both of you feel. It's a tough thing. You having to choose with taking care of responsibility to your children and he to his wife or do you stay true to your heart and be together  and get through everything together. It is really something both of you have to discuss. Sometimes a person makes a mistake and marries someone they may care for but who isnt their soulmate. So both of you do need to talk and decide what you will choose to do. It is a tough choice but that is also how you know if its meant to be because if this is something you can get through than you know you made it. I wish you the best and may you recieve your hearts desire.