My boyfriend loves me but he lives out of town and I only see him about every two weeks. Is he cheating?
339963
Distance can put a severe strain on a relationship.  It's hard to say for certain.  I'd look to more clues in the relationship between you and your intimacy, emotional and physical relationship.  The time you do spend.  Part of the reason distance relationships aren't as successful is because of the lack of time spent.  Confront him, but knowing that he loves you, I'd take his word.
891210
Maybe the relationship is over. If he's always "busy" perhaps he's seeing someone else already. Perhaps you should just let it die.
863756
From what you have told us I'd say he most likely is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I won't say he is cheating, BUT, it leans that way. Without having actual proof I would not accuse him of it. But I would look into things. You know his work schedule, so for starters check things out. You might call him at work when he is suppose to be working and if he is there then you can always say you called to make plans for that night as you got the sudden urge to go out. There are many reasons you could use. If he isn't there this is more evidence that he may very well be cheating. At this point you could even follow him or have someone check up on him. Is there a money difference in the amount he brings home? Is he going out more often than usual? Does he shower or clean up as soon as he gets home? Does he at times smell of perfume? There are all so many things or ways to find out. BUT this can take time. So be cool and don't make accusations that you can't backup. (Prove) If he is cheating dump him. You don't need a loser. I wish you the best of luck that things work out for you.
461291
Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
580838
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
696113
Ok, it's only been one month and two weeks and he already doesn't trust you. There's the first red flag. He hasn't kissed you, you two don't see each other often and you love each other? Second red flag. I think you need to break it off. There is something really weird going on here and I don't think it's you. He may not be cheating on you but the relationship isn't that healthy for only a month into it. You need to find someone that can take the time to physically see you and show their love instead of accusing you of things that aren't true. Love and Trust go hand in hand.
945135
He may or may not be cheating.  But whatever he is doing, he is AT RISK for at least cheating EMOTIONALLY.  love2utam has it right.  If it's an affair of the heart (even without sex) it's still an affair.\n\nEven if he has lots of friends, and they are genuine friends with absolutely no romantic/emotional attachment, if he still spends a good deal of time with them, he has difficulty prioritizing his time.  He spreads himself too thin.\n\nYOU should be the FIRST person he comes to for fulfilling his needs.  ALL of his needs.
1040150
It seems to me that.. and not to be mean but if your worried about your boyfriend cheating on you. It doesnt matter how far apart you are....you have a problem bigger than 30 minutes apart.
590131
Pay attention to him when he's around.You say he's traveling because of work,so he's working to help support you right?Well when he's home,put friends on hold and some things you want to do,put on hold until he goes out of town again.That will give you plenty of ME time when he's gone. Make him feel like you want him around,ask about his plans for that day.Maybe he wants to spend time with you,maybe alone,you never know until you ask,but he most likely wants time with you since he's not around much. I'm sure he missed you. he might want to visit some of his friends or relatives while he's home too,just ask what his plans might be for the day. If he visits his friends then you can maybe visit yours or do something on your own. You can work things out with a traveling partner,it just takes some adjustment.You have spent alot of time alone and have got into suiting yourself alot.It does take time to readjust to someone else being around. Just try to communicate as much as possible.Even your eating habits might have changed since he's been gone so you have to figure,what time is lunch and will we be eating together?Just be available as much as you can so you both can decide on your days activities together.
818349
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
176449
i would have to say that he doesnt appriciate you enough if hes going to be gone for 3 weeks with out saying anything to you and i would think you need to move on. if he cant see that he has a good women at home then he doesnt deserve you. so dont get so down on your self.
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
466948
I don't think so because you don't know what, or who that person is doing while he's out of town. If you want him to be faithful, i think u should stick with someone close by.
442649
I have been in a relationship for 2.5 years, the same things happen you stop doing things, going places, that really doesn't have anything to do with love, we get into patterns and we get used to things and we don't spice things up any more. I believe that you know when you are going to spend the rest of your life with him, if you just cant get enough of him, you love everything about him, and no one else interest you for very long other than him. There are ways to tell if he is cheating just because I have had my suspicions and i have a great best friend who happens to male. 1) Doesn't spend a lot time with you, when he does he really doesn't want anything to do with you or to be around you. 2) Has a sudden interest in someone, with them all the time 3) Buys new clothes, has a sudden interest in their own appearance. 4) Always answers the phone, leaves room for conversations
877530
I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
440490
Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
481414
It sounds like your bf is somekinda trouble at home. Try to dig deeper. It does seem suspicious but you don't know all the details yet. Ask yourself if he really is worth the trouble. And if one day you do bump into him, he better have a good explanation for not trying to contact you.