Why do you think people are so sad? Upset and stressed out?
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Because this world is not a happy one. Because life is not easy. because everyone fight with each other. because there is alot of tension at work, and how you get money to pay your rent, and how to maintain your relationships.\nBut I have hope that Heaven will be the substitute for this cruel world.\nsorry if i sounded pessimistic.
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I think lots of people are sad, frustrated or disappointed at Christmas. For many it;s the most stressful time of the year. Families often are at odds about everything from religious beliefs, what time to eat dinner and how many toys to get for the kids. Lots of people spend way too much money and spend the rest of the year paying off credit cards. COmmercials and social mythology tell  us that "everyone" is happy this time of year, but I don;t think this is true. At least you admit your feelings.
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that's what i'd like to know. \n\n\n They are basically not happy, thats why they want to vent it out on other people
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My guesses are that sometimes it is either what is, or what is not going on in their lives. Or it could be Clinical Depression, for which they should get help for. Also, there is an illness called "SADS", which is a deficiency in getting enough sun, too many gray days, affect them, and they cannot function. \nMaybe too much thinking and dwelling on less positive things, is causing sadness.  \nPerhaps finding some fun friends would help out people who feel sad...Laughter is always good for getting out of a sad mood. \nEveryone has a day now & then, that just feels sad....The important thing is that a person gets over it, ASAP. and moves on....\nOne solution I have to get out of one of those moods, is to go to the movies with friends, and see a funny movie! Amazing how that can shake me out of it!! Hope this answers your question...
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Generally people can’t get satisfied with what they got...\nSo they feel what has gone was better than the present
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Why do people complain?  It could be they need attention, that their life is lacking drama and they just need something to talk about.  Complaining makes people feel a little more important in a roundabout way.  You know, you complain, therefore you must be entitled to some form of resolution or retribution.  \n\nOr it could just be that people complain on valid grounds.  Service was awful.  The food was undercooked.  An airline passenger was unruly.  Lots of different reasons that cause a lot of stress and inconvenience.  People need to vent.\n\nBut it's a choice.  If you are hearing more people complain than compliment, it's probably because they choose to focus on what they don't have rather than what they have.  If someone is secure about himself/herself, then he or she will be more generous with compliments.  \n\nRemember that people who complain too much are probably very unhappy.  You can choose to acknowledge their issue, and then try to find a positive spin to it.  Focus on what is good, even if it's a small thing, rather than what is not.  Once people learn to count their blessings they'll find more things to compliment about.
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offcourse its good for people \nits money money why people be upset from money ?
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First, I try my best not to judge them. Emotions are just that, you can't make them right or wrong. It also depends on the type of emotion I happen to be feeling at the time. If I am angry, I will try and cool down before handling a situation that upsets me. I do this by taking a walk or doing some other physical activity, like housework and I do it vigourously. I find it is a good outlet to help me calm down. If I'm feeling sad, sometimes, I'll just go with the feeling and use it creatively, write a poem, listen to music. Sometimes, it's good to be reflective unless, of course, it's long-term and then you need help. I'll rent a funny movie or talk to a good friend over a cup  of tea. In both cases, it's a good time to learn and grow from your feelings and to help put things in perspective.
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Everyone has their ups and downs. What seems big to you may be the least of someone else's problems. Count your blessings! You may feel low now, but time has a way of distracting you with new things. Cheer up! Something great is bound to happen soon!
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so why so emotional\nif they don't get it \nit is their problem\nnot your's
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cool down - getting upset isn't good for you.  Plus, if you know it's crap, why let it upset you?  Show that you are superior and let them know "hey, what you are saying just isn't making any sense!"
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Yes, and for anyone to say that you can't they are crazy... Upset is an emotion and it does take time to get over. I would suggest before you try it again tell the other half why you are upset. If you work it out the emotion will return.
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When people feel bad and down, they don't like perky people who are happy.  They want to be with someone else who is also in their downer mood.  Problem is most folks don't want to be in a downer mood, which is why the company doesn't reciprocate.
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People get upset because we expect so much more from our own people.  We are the liberators, the good guys.  We should not be lowering ourselves to the standards of our enemies.\n\nOur boys and girls are doing one HELLUVA job in Afganistan and Iraq, but they are only human.  Mistakes can/will be/have been made.\n\nAlso, war brings out the worst and best in people.  Some folks make mistakes, other revel in the bloodshed.
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Do you also talk to a therapist????  If not, I think sometimes people get depressed and take meds and think it is supposed to make thier lives better but it doesn't medicine will not make every day upset and stress go away...  try getting a massage from a massage therapist... sometimes that gets the body systems going and makes people feel not only mentally better but physically as well.
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I think it is as simple as people not wanting to become embroiled in someone else's problem.  Most people feel that if they ignore the cries, perhaps someone else will help.  Some people feel they have enough of their own problems to deal with.  This is not right, but I am sure it is what goes through people's minds.
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People may say - others are worse off - that may be true - but you are living your life and they need to walk a 'mile in your shoes' before they can say that.   Everybody has different stress levels and different coping mechanisms.  If you feel stressed then it is real - try and read a book like 'shift happens' by Robert Holden.......or go to the www.happiness.co.uk website.  \nand try to take time to relax........................