iam have one girl friend but iam not under standing her mentality?
354515
if u want to know about your girl friends mentality fristof all be a good(best) friend to her.share all her feelings.There may be no secretes between both of you.
202410
i can just say 1 thing.. she's not really ur frend bcoz if she really is, she wud never believe any false talks abt u. she wud have defended u 2 this other frend of her & tell her that she knows that u wudnt do such a thing..\n\nbelieving d other frend simply proves that ur frenship is not that strong
416215
So you like girl one.  you are wasting you're time with the other girl.  Be nice when you tell her you just want to be friends and make sure you make it clear it wasn't anything she did that made you break up with her.  That way even though she will be heart broken, niether of you will be in a relationship that is a lie and isn't going anywhere.
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
816670
well by avoiding her you are being a jackass.... Talk to her... what is wrong with having another friend???
929717
she might be the first girl in your life but she will surely not be the last one.\n\ngiven your baxkground, i think you might be someone who has few friends, perhaps one that has difficulties in reaching out to others. \n\ndo not let yourself be stranded in the life of a single girl. go and give yourself a fair chance with other girls. the way your story goes, i think she is fickle minded as well s selfish. why are you letting her do this to you? go get some other girls.. then she will be happy and so will her parents. you deserve better. go get another girl.
536244
I would say you need to stop calling her your girl and just consider her as a f@3$k buddy. Then what you need to do is take H.I.V. tests  and everybody double check.
665407
well if you keep thinking like that then you'll be single for the rest of your life! Just go for it! its pretty hard to mess stuff up like that unless you treat her like s.h.i.t then you might have a problem. ok, out of all the girls that like you, pick out the one that you want to go out with the most or the one you would feel comfortable dating. Then if you don't like it just tell her that it just wasn't working out and you still want to be friends but not boyfriend/girlfriend. She won't be mad at all.
549107
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.
194732
1st go nd tell dat gal whom u r talking about dat she is a bitch. i mean how can u send such a wonderfull moment wit many people. its only 1 person wit whom u sleep nd dat will only b da person ull remember da whole life. this wonderful feeling is jst shared wit a single person. dats it.........
241660
She can't be that nasty if you consider her a friend!!!! She was good enough for you at one time, so why not now???\nYou should think about what brought you 2 together in the first place and if she did something that you don't agree with, talk to her about it! You should talk out your problems and try to remain friends!\nGood luck!
574683
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
770000
its very normal ,she thinks you prefer to be with her more.I think you need to show her that she is your first priority after all.You should not expect your gf to get along with your other female friends.
658468
stop thinkin tht u r same as she, u r unique...so jst built up yur own qualities so tht world cant match with it n be confident......ok frnd.\nBEST OF LUCK.
448756
Live with it. It's not an uncommon thing anyway. Just show them respect. They may still not like you but atleast you've tried. That all there is. It makes all the difference from the girl's point of view.
62185
Do you like her? \nThan it shouldn't matter. If you are so worried about what other people think than maybe you shouldn't have a girlfriend. Try finding yourself first. When you can become comfortable with who you are you will realize it's not about what they think.