my best friends crush now knows shes crushing him what should i d to help her?
352173
not a thing. let them work it out or else something bad might happen and you could end up responsible for it
398090
well, but it bluntly. if she treasures her CRUSH before her friend, then she is no friend that i would want to have. you either have to give it to her blunt, or give it to her REAL subtle. personally, i would do it blunt. don't let her get to you. \n\nGOOD LUCK!! :)
179247
ok hon, these guys are keeping things secret for a reason... even if they are making a poor job of it.\nThe one and only thing you can do is ignore what you know. any comfrontation will not go well at all, just be extra nice to her and act like nothing bad has happened, it sounds like she didnt know how to react to your friendship with the guy she was keeping quiet and his apparent attraction to you, so just make it easy on them and let them have their own space while you are friendly and open and there if she needs you.\n\nWhen she gets her head round her feelings, she will prob share this part of her life with you, but let her make the moves, ok?
186277
stay with this crazy friend of yours and dont let him do anything stupid, and tell him i said to get over it, move on and find someone better.  Think of it this way, if she was all he had, he has nowhere to go but up.
563720
Allow her to live and learn. As hard as it may be for you to see your best friend in a relationship with a guy of whom has happened to break a lot of girls hearts, you need to accept her decision of being in this relationship. We all want to protect our friends or anyone that we care about, from being in hurtful situations but we can’t always protect them. There are times as painful as it may be, that we have to allow them to make mistakes, to go into a situation head-first and simply be there for them to pick up the pieces, if and when it ends badly. As Octavia Butler once said, “Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny, and a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it’s all over”.
13074
WEll Im a girl so maybe i know your answer. Whenever I like a guy i just act natural and smile whenever he looks at me so he won't notice. So i think she has a crush on you. here is the plan. I think the best way is to make your trusted friend look at her when you are not looking at her. Make him a spy and maybe he'll catch your crush looking at you and maybe blushing or smiling.That's your cue to make your move
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
870617
If your best friend is going out with him, then she's not a very good friend is she? If she's not, she respects you a lot. Be there for her when the guy dumps her for someone else, and if that someone is you, remember what happened, and tell him to find someone else's heart to break.
669536
Maybe it is time to make a new friend. Friends don't treat real friends like that. She is probably so absorbedwith her new boy friend that the might not even realize that she is hurting you. You might want to tell her how you feel.Them if things don't change I would look around for a new friend. Sorry you have to go through this .good luck and God bless.
831389
don't butt in. if she's willing to mess up their friendship (b/c shes gonna) let her\n\nand if it leads to that, dont take sides, stay nuetral.\n\nmaybe you should just try to prove to him that she is just "using" him in some sort of way.
188058
Tell your friend that she deserves someone better than him. Tell her that you'll be there to support her no matter what, but that she can do way better than him. and mean it. She'll see that he's an ass eventually if you support her.
863068
Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
69156
were you actually with the guy? did your friend know you liked him? has your friend also known him for a while? these are important things to think about. if your best friend steals your boyfriend, neither are exactly worth your time, sorry, it hurts. If your friend knew you liked him, did she at least warn you she liked him? if she warned you, the punishment inflicted should be less severe, she still cares about you. If you were totally unaware, but she knew, then you probably want to yell scream and hit, once that is out of your system if you can trust her again, then try to keep the friend. If she didn't know then you really can't blame her for anything, but you would fit the first scenario if you tried to steal him from her...
95241
Don't stab your friend in the back. Knowing how she feels should give you an idea of how to handle this. Nothing is worth ruining your friendship. Not even a boy who will probably not be there long anyway.
813399
If she was truly your best friend, she wouldn't even think about your boyfriend.  And if he showed her the slightest hint of attention, he is not worth it.  Tell her this, and if she does not back off, dump her.  If he flirts or contacts her in anyway, dump him.  Either way, choose your friends better.
355127
explain that it's important to you that you have a bit of alone time with your crush. If she is your bestfriend she'll understand, if not...