my boyfriend doesn't like me hanging out with guys because he don't trust me but yet i don't trust him.
341209
GET RID OF HIM..how do you expect to be in a relationship if you can't even trust him...and he doesn't trust you..
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.
972141
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship
1099278
apparently he trusts them and you and probably doesn't think anything about it.   BUT, if you don't like it, go with him or tell him to stop leaving you alone with them.  I would not feel comfortable with that either.
1060604
maybe its because he doesn't trust you......... yet \nhe is keeping his x close because he thinks that there is a chance that things won't work out & can you blame him if you can't even trust him?
161727
Dump him.  Boyfriend not trusting means he is insecure.  It is a sign of abuse.
99749
Sounds like the two of you don't trust each other and don't trust yourselves. When I was young, I was terribly jealous because my self-esteen was low. I didn't seem to believe that I was worth loving, so I would cling too tightly to boyfriends and friends. Thankfully, I matured and realized how foolish it is to be jealous.\n\nIf you love and trust your boyfriend and if you're not just hanging onto him because you don't believe that you are worth loving, then let him go with his friends, even if the ex is there. \n\nIf he does do anything to destroy your trust, then he's not worth being with anyway. Find someone else who is. The reverse is true for you as well. You aren't looking to cheat on your boyfriend, right? Then he needs to trust you, too. If you do cheat on him, then that's not fair to him. He is deserving of someone trustworthy, too.\n\nJealousy can destroy relationships. I've seen it happen. Lighten up on each other. See where your trust can take you.
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
323501
i'm sorry if you can't trust him then find someone you can. because trust comes a long way in a relationship and without it your relationship will crash and burn. You can talk to him about the trust issue and if you still feel the same way then dump him.
958239
break up with your boyfriend cuz if he doesn't like you then you don't have the right to be told that
262292
You're friend may be jelouse so what I would do is believe your boyfriend. If he care about you then he wouldn't be lieing to you.
188994
my bf cheated on my more then once and i stayed with him because i love him  but I'll never trust him the way i did again and if he cheats again I'll leave his a** alone
70542
I have a girlfriend, and I've felt like "jumping" (lol) someone before because they're being a pain and flirting with my gf or whatever... Anyways, from personal experience I would say he DOES trust you... But that guy's intruding into your relationship so he has to "protect" that... It's kinda hard to explain but I think he does trust you, it's just natural to get jealous and want to do something about it... (not that I recommend he jumps this guy lol)
562605
I think he trusts you not to try anything with other guys, however, that don't mean that guys won't try something on you without him there. Thats' what it means, or at least that what it sounds like.\n\nIf that's the case, then hubby needs to keep his friends he can't trust around you away from you. Or get rid of them all together.....GL;)
157506
If he really wants to be your boyfriend then he should be the one making his friends back off.  By doing that he would show that he cares and respects you.  By letting his friends get away with presuring you he is putting them before you.  Stick to your guns and don't do anything you don't want to, and if he won't do something about it then he isn't worthy of you.
734806
Remember, you are the company you keep.  Who your boyfriend chooses as his friends says something very important about who he is and what he values. If his friends are rude and abusive to you, that does not bode well for the character of your boyfriend.  At the very least, you should talk to your boyfriend about what they have said to you and give him a chance to explain and make his friends change their behavior to you.  Good luck.
529123
the first thing you need in a relationship is honesty and the ability to trust, and it looks like your boyfriend has broken these, explain to him that you need to trust him and that he must be honest in future or your relationship cannot proceed any further. good luk hun