Is it possible for a guy to go too slow in a relationship?
354342
There is no too slow, only your own pace.  Your either loved for the pace that you keep, or you find that the they are way too impatient for you to keep up with in other areas of life :)
421222
Im a guy and a pretty shy one when it comes to that. I think it would be a lot easier on us if you ladies would speak your minds and let us know a little more. Besides, he would probably feel intimidated and you would probably keep the upper hand in the relationship if it goes that way. Personally I like it when a woman takes control and isnt afraid to be herself. good luck!
1092909
Weird!  I'd tell him to slow down quite a bit.  What's next he'll want you to take off your pants before he's even kissed you?  YIKES!
854885
tell him that u want to take it slow.
483082
i think you know the answer to this, he will say what he thinks you want to hear. no way can he really fall inlove with you in such a short time. he may have fallen for you looks or personality but that isnt enough to get more intimate so quickly. if he really cares about you then he will wait until your ready and not rush into anything so personal. go out with each other and get to know each other better first.
144812
There are some guys out there that just do not feel comfortable when it comes to the opposite sex.  It is not that they are gay, but they are not wanting to offend the person they really care for.  There is nothing wrong with taking a relationship slow.  A relationship is build on trust.  The more trust there is in a relationship, the longer the relationship will last.  Good things come to those that wait.
108789
It doesn't sound like you invested too much time in this guy. The best thing to do is just move on. I'm sure there are many guys out there who would put more effort into getting to know you and having a meaningful relationship.
572104
Making love, is a lot like good cooking....it takes a long time, if it's good. Too many people rush to get done, instead of enjoying the experience.  There is the "quickie", but lovemaking should be slow, relaxed, and enjoyable. Guys "get there" too quick if they go too fast, so that's probably why he takes it slow. Enjoy it!!
627421
you absolutely have to trust your partner!!! no if, and, or butts about it!!!  it can be a very pleasurable experience if you and your partner take it slow.....this is not something to rush.
782488
Do NOT sleep with him. Going slow is definitely the right idea. Ask him where he sees this relationship going, and what he expects.  If he says he sees the relationship going in the sheets, ditch him. It sounds like your intuition is telling u to take it slow with this one. Listen... Either it will make the relationship stronger later, or it sill save u the heartache of feeling used.
175917
If this guy TRULY loves you then he would understand if you were to tell him that you would like to take it slow.  Make sure that he IS the one before you walk down the isle with him.  True love is ALWAYS worth working for and waiting for.  Just be sure how you feel and the rest will fall into place!!  Good luck and I hope it works out for ya!
69349
Some people feel that they are getting too attached too quickly because they had just ended a relationship or they are afraid of a one way street commitment... in this case, I would just ask him what he thinks of the relationship.  Does he consider you guys friends or dating... sometimes you have to put the question on the table and cut out the bullcrap
867404
Me I tried to date a friend of mine but I went to fast.So I would say to slow down and talk things out before you jump.Life is like a box of candy you never know what your going to get.If you say he does like you I think you should go for it but remember to take things slow.
480958
We have all been there to some degree or another.  The most important thing to do is to set boundries.  If you give too much, too quickly, often men will expect only that and see you for only that and not want to commit based on physical relationship only.  Try to build solid friendships and relationships first - dont go down that path any longer.  You are worth it, he will wait.
698627
If he hasnt made a move yet it means he is waiting for the right time.....not all guys go at the speed of light...Give him time trust me when the time is right he'll make his move.....Dont give up and remember just SMILE.....hehehe
57347
it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
512916
Honestly, it doesn't seem like you started your relationship out in the best way.  you can try to salvage it if you're getting signals, but try to do so by becoming friendly without getting too physical for a bit.