How do you save a relationship when it's your fault??
352200
you have to realise that it is your fault and admit to your partner that it is your fault and you realise it, be honest with your partner and just try to make it up to him/her the best you can.\n\nDo whatever your partner wants to do, make him/her feel special and happy. Write a poem or letter if your partner does not want to hear or speak to you.
411907
sit down together and make a list of the things that you do not want to go wrong this time and give it to each other.  Have the communication lines open. You might consider counseling this time around.  Having a third party to hear both sides without taking sides is a start.  You might just go 1 x a month, then go out to dinner after or grab an ice cream to make sure that after things are said in counseling, you are still ok and still in love.  Be sure to say I love you every night before bed no matter what the day was like and tell her you are so glad that you are back together.  Good Luck!
848308
You have to give her time...Back off. Tell her you love her and that you are very sorry, Tell her you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. I am going to assume you cheated, we are all human. Don't make that mistake again. Time will tell you all you need to know. Tell her how you feel then give her space. Even if you don't talk for a couple weeks. Send her a text message or leave a voice mail every once in awhile telling her you love her. Best of luck
750835
DON"T Say you are sorry if you didn't do it...just ask the person why they think you did it? Why would you cause this problem ? Have them think about it....also ask them if you can talk about it....maybe you did do something that hurt that person and don't Even know it...people get hurt over things that would NEVER hurt us...that is why there is conflict....Different prospectives!!
857513
Wow, buddy, it sounds like you really did screw up.  That sucks for you.  If you truly want to try and make things work with this woman, slow down.  She's probably really hurt right now, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you.  Start with little things, like a sweet email.  Send her an ecard to apologize.  Show her by your actions how much you regret what happened, because we all know actions speak louder than words.  The biggest thing, though, is to back off if she asks you to.  It may hurt like Hell, but you could earn some of her respect back if you comply with her wishes.  Best of luck in finding your answer.  I hope this helped even a little bit.
163007
i know the feeling, it sucks! we've been together for 5 yrs now & im secretly apologizing to him at the back of my mind... take your time to listen to whatever it is that's bothering you right now, a little time off perhaps,so you can figure it out? \nlife is too short for slip ups in relationships. at least you won't be where im at cuz it really sucks!
651911
just say sorry in front of every one if u have really committed something wrong. and care for her/him every now and then so that he/she will develop a soft corner in their heart.
381068
Sometimes it's easier pointing out our partners flaws then our own.But we all have them. Tell him that the situation opened your eyes on seeing how he felt towards it and ask him to forgive you. In the end he'll do the same even if it takes a while. Just note that every time you have an argument remember whats important like when you first met and how you would get those butterflies in you stomach and just reminisce. It really helps ease the situation and it reminds you that arguing with someone that you care that much about is stupid.
159356
Show him how much you truly cares no matter what happened. But if it didn't worked, talk to him seriously and let him choose ..whether he would stop doing it or you would let him go. Try to figure out whats wrong in your relationship. Try to encourage him to attend a mass. Pray together. At least at the end, its not your fault, you did all your best. If its not enough.Maybe, he didnt love you. Though it really hurts, accept it! Sorry dear.
282802
stay humble and think back those things you've done a while ago...apologize if there was a mistake you have done or find an exact time to reconcile each other. express yourself if you'll get hurt but don't just demand. stay calm and humble. GOOD LUCK!
692602
this happens to a lot of people. what happpens is that subconciously, you think that you don't deserve a relationship this good.  You said its your best ever right? well if you keep tripping over whether you're gonna do something stupid or not, you're gonna end up doing something really stupid.  so concentrate on how lucky you are, and also concentrate on how you can make this already wonderful relationship even better, that way, when you do screw up, there will be so much more positive things you've contributed to this relationship and it'll survive those rocky times.
445576
I think when the trust is broken,\nyou'd really need to give it time.\n\nYou cannot expect it to be alright after doing something as an apology, meaning, it might really be difficult to wipe away the hurt caused.\n\nIf it's something you did that hurt him/her,\nmaybe you have to use your actions to show him/her that that was just a mistake and it would never happen again.\n\nIt's going to take time,\nI don't think it'll be an immediate effect.\n\nSo if he/she's really so important to you,\nand you didn't mean to hurt her.\nYou have to be patient.\n\nBecuase it's not so easy.\nAll the best.
405024
Mmmmm Everyone has a right to be happy, if your not happy fix it.   Either Love her and leave her.  Or Get counseling if you feel its worth saving.   I guess it depends on how much you love her and how much you would do, to get things back the way they were.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
1113393
Continue with this relationship and see if it gets better.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
36681
Unfortunately, this is how many, many relationships fail. The best thing to do, (if you want to save your relationship) is to be spontanious. Don't let things turn stagnant, because it gets boring, and one or the other of you will look elsewhere for something exciting.
484646
Drop him like a lost cause.\n\nPeople make mistakes and are forgiven.  You made a mistake and apologized.  He forgave you and that should have been the end of it.\n\nI bet that he just used what you did with his cousin as an excuse for his behavior.  It likely was not planned out but he needed to blame it on you and could not accept responsibility for his own actions.\n\nDo away with him.