I need some advice, please.?
337926
Get out while you can. Seriously. It's bad enough, what are you waiting for? You need to live a happy life. Get away soon.
424859
try to do it on your own first. if thats not possible, go to counseling.
338869
Let him know your looking around for a better opportunity.\nYou will probably be told to go ahead.\nBAIL!
630674
I dun wish to be in your position...but if I were you, I would speak to the first abt my feelings and tell her that while I really appreciate all she has done for me, it would be great if she can be a little tactful...tell her she hurts your feelings sometimes, and remember to tell her how much her advices and thinking have help you a lot! \n\nAs for the second...seek her advice when you think you need it. She might be waitin for you to ask...but too shy to tell you her opinion without you asking...=)
188326
Help with what?????????????
1116610
Don't force it, bro.  Don't even try to put yourself in a situation.  When the time comes, you'll just know.  \n\nSorry, this must seem like lame advice, but trust me, it's better that way.  I'm speaking from experience...
627278
Sistah, you just gotta be honest and tactful in this situation as someones heart is involved. Treat him in a way that you would appreciate if the situation were reversed.  Good luck to you!!!
640127
Try this.\n\nHope it helps.\n\nGood Luck.
619747
Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
1013484
as someone who has been there, trust me, honesty is the best way to go. if he can't deal with it, then he's not the one for you
1034164
Actually, i'd rather someone told me. So, what you are doing is simply trying to help me and you're also considering my goodness.. What's better than this? On the other side, yeah i may become a little bit angry with myself, saying like how can i forget or ignore this.. But, certainly i'd appreciate you then.. :) So, keep it up, be yourself and don't pay attention to their reactions at that time, i think...
1162124
Wow, this is so sweet. I think that you should tell her exactly that. Look her directly in the eyes and let her know how you really feel. Tell her that there is no use for her to push you away. Tell her that there is nothing for her to be afraid of, and that you accept her and embrace her for exactly what and who she is. Tell her she is the only one for you. If this doesn't work move on. You are too sweet not to be appreciated. Maybe if you give her some space she will realize what she gave up and come around.
326365
Write or email her, explaining things like you have done here.\n\nGive her some time, as well.  Usually, that puts some perspective on things. Don't make any more promises that you can't keep, though -- "I'll do my best but I can't promise" is more honest.\n\nIn the meantime, try and get on with your own life, ok... no point in panicking, really.
47150
Talk up a storm. Start sharing so much about you with them. They realize you trust them and perhaps they will realize perhaps they should trust you equally so. Don't be disturbed when it takes a while. Let your friend find his/her comfort zone. Rest assured if he/she does.......you might have the best friendship you've ever had. :)
509367
Don't run away that will make things worse.  To be honest it wont matter what anyone says to you because your going to hear what you want and go from there.  I realize things may be difficult and it sounds like you just need someone positive to talk to and someone who will just listen.
443213
You need to be real with him. Tell him you may be his only real friend. If he can't tell you why he's screwing up his life and let you help him then no one will. You need to tell him that you know something's wrong. But you have to know also that this is a big responsibility. If he decides to depend on you you're going to have to really be there for him everytime he needs you. You should also try to convince him after you have his trust to let some professionals get involved like the school counselor. I really hope things work out for you and your friend hun. Take care and good luck. :^)
105389
Be yourself! {Please dont lie} Good grief! Think of someting funny to talk about! I dont know _Maybe you need new friends dude! Relax , be that person down deep just wanting to get out ! You have your entire life ahead of you ! Slow Down! BE real! RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111