what can i do to have my parents trust me?
350428
I have had this problem myself, the way i solved it was by doing what they said for example when they asked me to take out the trash i did it, nothing to hard it was annoying but i still did it. part of getting them to trust you has do do with maturity as you mature you will realize how somethings are just insignificant like taking out the trash and how other things are more important in life like having a good relationship with your parents. good luck.
922558
Do what you want its your life!\nYou are still young dont limit yourself im sure you could be anything you wanted. Do somthing you enjoy doing.\nIm sure your parents just want you to be healthy and happy anyway.
144323
Don't care their advices..\nLive a life as u wish being naughty,and annoy the hell out of people..\nUr parents will certainly like you..\nAll the best
498766
well you need to understand your parents first.they are scared of you getting hurt outside of your parents sight.make them know and think you are an adult.come home early from parties.make your outings short from friends.work hard at school if your schooling.plus get a job while you in college.save money to get a car for your self.and stick with your parents for another 5years by keep on saving money so that way you can buy a nice small house of your own..that way your parents wont worry about you so much.cuz they seen how you respect your self and securing your self on money wise...transportation and fianancial needs is the key to survive..so no matter how far are you from your parents..they know that you can manage your survival needs...show them that your a mature woman not a teenager girlie girl anymore...good luck independent beauty queen
876563
will you trust your parents or...your guy friend more
683807
try to be happy yourself.  be confident and enjoy your life.\nwhat your parents most want is your happiness
119078
rebelling from what their parents told them they could not do...many parents lie to children saying if you do X you will get Y, but really you don't you get something completely different from what your parents told you...You then might lose trust in your parents and make sure what their parents told them is true. Smart students usually consult friends who did that action for advice before entering an action.
110348
It needs to be done to a certain degree, you need to be careful though to ensure you do not hinder their sense of independence and worth as they grow older. You don't want to go so far as making them seem untrustworthy or irresponsible.
38836
By showing them you are mature and responsible enough to be trusted. \nAlso, nothing beats a good nice coffee talk with your parents. Tell them how you feel and hear why they act that way. \n\nBest of luck!\n\n(Btw... Coffee for them, not you!)
159735
Do not loose yourself to tensions my sister. If already nothing has gone wrong, try to get a job first. Be positive. When you have a job you will have some authority. Then it would be easier for you to convinvence your parents. Parents too love you more than anything. Therefore you will succeed no doubt. Good luck.
66787
their your parents they are supposed to be in your business, they do it because they care nothing else. but if your really want them to stop make everything that you have accessable, they will eventually trust if they find nothing bad.
26618
Well, if you honestly evaluate everything from their point of view, have you given them reason to distrust you?  If so, you'll have to work at being as honest and open about what you think, feel, and are doing.  Trust usually needs to be earned.  \n\nIf you can truly not figure out why they distrust you, perhaps you are dealing with irrational people.  Family counseling may be the way to go.
821012
Stop going out with him.  Your parents love you and want to protect you from harm. It's obvious that you know what you are doing is wrong and it's tearing you up inside.  Do the right thing.  Respect your parents if you ever expect them to respect you.  If you want them to trust you in the future, then be trustworthy.
151545
Sounds a lot like my parents. I have shown in every way that I am a good girl, I get good grades, I fulfill my family responsibility, I stay out of trouble, and etc. And yet, they still are strict. Of course, this is unfair b/c I believe with my record, trust should be easily given. I talked to them about what I wanted (a boyfriend) and why I deserve it WHILE presenting the reasons why they should, how good of a person I am, and how happy it will make me if they let me, and how sad and upset I will be if they didn't. If they still say no to whatever they are strict with, ask them why. Ask for an explanation, why they do not trsut you, or why they shouldn't let you experience something that may be valuable to your life. \nWe're in America, we need a little more freedom.\n\nGood luck
759965
Respect your parents, they know best. YOu didnt mention how old you are...\nHe could bring dinner to your house and you 2 could watch a movie.
536602
they are your parents and parents don't always see things the way we want them to. But they almost always have our best interest at heart. Lot's of times they have been in similar situations and can draw from their own experiences when making decisions concerning their children. I would just be glad that they care enough to have a say in my life there are so many kids out in the world today that  have no one to care or direct them in  their life choices. They are to busy doin drugs or partying to care what their kids need or don't need. Show them that you are Trust worthy and dependable. You really have to work at these things. But when they know that they can depend on you to keep your word and do what needs to be done.......Then they will trust your decisions more. Good luck and God Bless.
69100
My parents wrote me a letter once where they told me how much they loved me had planned for me and how much they pray for me, I also went on a retreat. They told me they were proud of my achievements and that I deserved evrything the world has to offer. As far as being assertive its going to be very difficult b/c he is still a teenager and at that age you want to belong to something, but keep talking to him, tell him not to be afraid to stand his ground on what he believes is right.