Hey who out there have been told by their parents that they can't date.EVER.?
339140
My parents never told me that instead my FOUR older brothers told me that for them. How great is that??? But I guess that if I actually listened to what anyone told me it would I would still be single!
841761
You don't say no. You tell them that you are flattered and that you like them to, but that you are not allowed to date anyone because you're parents still think you are too young. \n\nThe truth in this situation really is the best way to go because you don't want him to think that you don't like him.
862306
YES!!! I held off getting into relationships for 7 years until I could finally move out and transition. Now that I'm transitioning no one will date me. It sucks...
651515
I've been on both sides of this. I lost my mom when I was only 4 years old. My dad remarried almost right away. I was too young at the time to say anything. But later he divorced her and started dating again when I was like 12 years old. None of my siblings were happy about it. We wanted our dad to ourselves.  Well, they got married. We haven't always liked her or got along. But, my dad is happy and that's all that mattera. I've been on the other side too. I dated a man who had two teenage kids. Him and his wife had divorced recently. The kids did not want their dad to date. They made life very difficult and caused me a lot of heart ache. I really liked them and just wanted to get to know them. In the end I simply couldn't do it anymore and I left. He's dating again but I think he's talked to his kids since then and they are a lot more accepting. Moral of the story: If they make your dad happy try to be happy for him. I'm sorry for your loss.
717833
i despise on line dating. for one how can you become intimate with someone you never even see or touch let alone. second my mother abandoned me when i was 14 for a guy that she meet on line and talked to him for 3 months. he came to Arkansas one weekend while i was on the other side of the state playing in a high school football game and took her and my brothers and sisters and all she left was some of my clothes (my brothers took the rest) and a note that said "Brian I'm sorry, but we just didn't have room for you and didn't want to wait around for you." and NO I am not making this up.
75477
Your parents are either totally insane or they are messing with you.  Would you marry me?  I think not in your right mind because you don't have any idea who I am...Just use common sense...
856764
why haven't you dated? because you didn't want to, or because you couldn't?
109717
Sometimes it's a good idea to let your Boyfriend meet your parents before you actually go on a date with them (just to assure them that you'll be fine with him)\n\nNext, make sure you tell her about what you guys did, it'll help your parents trust you more if they know what you've done in the past and will be a little better at not holding you back.\n\nNext, don't date people your parent's wouldn't approve of.\n\nAnd if it all fails and your parents don't approve of your date, have your date come over to your house and hang out for a while under your parent's supervision. Most parent's would rather you be under their supervision rather than out there with another guy.
749726
I was working with a girl and really liked her and she liked me but her parents wouldn't let her date someone with a different religion. She respected her parents and her religion and wouldn't go out. I had to go on with life without knowing if she was the one for me. I'm almost 60 and I still wonder today. Its sad, but showing her respect and her parents respect is the most important thing. Sorry.
859619
This is a tough one because you need to find a way to say no without coming off as sounding gay or rude. If you are that convicted to your beliefs, then you should have no problem telling people why you don't date. Conviction is a rare thing these days and it's nice to see someone your age who actually has conviction to ANYTHING. I would simply tell them," I am flattered that you feel that way but my convictions won't allow me to date at this time. I would love to become friends and get to know you better though."
1071712
Why?  Because they can't get dates with humans.
436543
I don't know how old you are. You didn't say, but, you need to talk to your dad and if he doesn't want you to "date", then you need to do as he says, but, you talk about church. Talk to your dad about being able to do things as a church group(functions)with the boy you like. Or going for burgers with other friends included. See what he says
879935
tell him that your parents don't want you dating until you are (whatever age or amount of time until you are able to) and be sure to say that you like him as more than a friend. he will probably understand that and probably become a very close friend while he waits
942749
If you put what others had said before me, and consider that I is okay to not be sure, but to date and see what happens, and not pull back, then you have it half licked. \nIn my case, I had parents who did not fight and argue, and stayed together, and I think really loved each other, but pretty much did their own thing. \nWhat has put me off from relationships, and what I am just getting over, is all my friends who had parents who divorced. Worse, friends with horrible step parents, the kind the beat with belts and all kinds of crap. I am holding out for the love of a lifetime, and want to raise my own kids, if I have any.\nSo, I see your ideas as really rational and normal given your background. As one person has said, the best way to do it is to not judge the situation or a future mate before even meeting her. \nIt can be done, I am just learning myself. So can you. And, when you meet the right one, you can tell her these things, and she will not be offput, as long as you tell her you really want to get to know her before committment. \nI have been interested in the same person now for a couple years. This time it may work. She hangs in with me, and I with her. No we don't live together, but are slowly learing to trust. \nSo, hang in there, and let things happen slowly. Just because you kiss, or even shag doesn't mean that you are about to be in a trap, as long as you are careful. \nBe good to yourself, and realize that sometimes it is the unknown that makes life exciting!
668834
Personally, I have no problem with it.  Many other people do though.  What do you think about it?  If you have any reason to hesitate and not date the person, you probably shouldn't.  I would also try to find out what your parents think about it, as well as the person you are thinking of dating's parents.  That can cause lots of problems too.  Ultimately though, it is your decision and your life.  You need to do what you think is best!   Interracial children are often beautiful.  Good luck!
347344
No, you should not be going out with anyone at 11 years old. How do your parents feel about you "dating?"
439744
I sympathize with you on this one. I grew up with a strictly Catholic mother. Everything was a sin, and my sisters and I were going to Hell for everything we did. Well, you have to develop your own beliefs and morals. I am not very religious anymore, I still attend church every now and then, but I am more spiritual than religious. \n\nI waited until I was 18 before I started dating, not because of my mother, but because I was just not ready. I was like you, I didn't know how to flirt or how to be in a relationship. To tell you the truth, I still don't. I lost my virginity to a guy that just used and abused me. Just follow your heart. 9 out of 10 times, when you feel something is morally wrong, you probably shouldn't do it anyway because there will not be a good outcome. I would suggest trying to socialize with people online or going out with friends. Go on a blind date.\n\nI am 23 now and I have been with a few men, most have been real a**holes and have left me brokenhearted. Just don't settle for any guy, find someone that will understand and appreciate your family and beliefs. Sex is more fun when you have an emotional connection with someone. It involves so much more than the physical act.