why do men think that they are the best at giving oral sex to a woman?
349315
Just tell him straight up or even better tell him maybe how you want to have it done and uhh, help him practice.. yea! :P
482464
As a woman, I agree as I feel the average man has a lot more experience in this field compared with the average woman...and have generally had more partners so they know a variety of techniques to use to find the one that works for that specific woman..I think it's bull to say only women know what women like..also if you work on patience and having incredible endurance, you will increase the chance of the woman climaxing and the intensity..don't be to quick to stop oral and switch to intercourse as most women are much better able to climax from oral.\n\nBy the way, did the poster above (death_cab_dr) mean when he said his sister was a role model that he practiced on her?????
582684
I agree.  Women have a much harder time reaching climax than the men, so why not get us worked up first and then we will gladly assist our man.
623363
women probably prefer it more than men its just difficult to find men willing to satisfy a woman. usually men are just interested in satisfying their own instincts. this makes the woman look toward other things than sex...
453887
Some women actually get off on giving a guy head. All women like to Swallow. If they say they don't they're lying or haven't really tried it. Knowing you made him blow is just awesome....
1045319
No they don't, because women have more of a need to share their sexual experience with someone they love and care about.  It's not the same doing it alone.  For men it is the same...at least from what I've been told.
1017410
Is your question why do girls like to 'give' oral sex to guys? If so, it depends on the girl. Most girls (from the ones I know that have said so) don't like giving blow jobs, but they will do it for the guy because he does like it. \n\nIf you are asking why girls like to 'receive' oral sex, it is because the tongue is a strong, lubricated muscle that can do things other parts can't...
111341
Well I believe it is very important to please your partner...For me,   oral is one of the most satisfying ways...as long as the you communicate to the person what you like....
122234
Depends on the guy.  I love it, but I like to see her enjoy the experience FIRST.  I can feel that I have done my job well, if she has been pleasured first.  Oral stimulation is a great way to bring a womant to orgasm (but it takes training on both parties part to understand what she needs).  Guys usually are either selfish or scared.  I have done well because most guys don't do well!
1085817
Not many people believe that the act of satisfying a woman orally could be considered an art. It’s hard to believe how many people still have no idea how intense that cunnilingus can be for a woman, and even harder to believe is the amount of men who think they are good at it when they are really lost.\n\nMost men like to jump right in and get started but unless the woman is already extremely turned on this can be very uncomfortable for her. To give a woman good head so to say, is to start off very slowly working your way to it. Kiss her softly on her lips nibble at her ear and the nap of her neck. When you get to her breasts take your time and enjoy them, gently caressing them teasing her.\n\nMost women love to be teased it’s an easy form of foreplay that will ensure she will be turned on when you get down to her most private of areas. An interesting fact: women are able to have multiple orgasms, everyone knows that right? Well did you know they are capable of having close to 60 an hour that’s an orgasm every minute! ;)\n\nThe best way to give a woman 60 orgasms an hour is with oral sex. Cunnilingus shouldn’t be considered a form of foreplay, no, not at all. Cunnilingus is sex for women without penetration! If you want to completely satisfy your woman don’t expect sex when you go down on her, tell her that you don’t expect sex to come out of what you are going to do to her. That will relieve any inhibitions she may have for wanting to hold back for intercourse, and allow her to enjoy the soft warm caress of your mouth.\n\nSome important things to keep in mind when you are going down on her: keep the area moist especially if you are using any fingers to help her along. There are a ton of nerve endings in her private area and when you try to insert a dry digit it will pull on her skin and be extremely uncomfortable for her. Pay special attention to her breathing and body movements. Not all women are the same and you need to learn what yours will do when she is having an orgasm. She may hold her breath, or gasp for air. She may lay extremely still, or heave about like a bucking bronco.\n\nOne of the key things you are going to be on the look out for is the all mighty command not to stop. When you hear this, what ever it is you are doing, keep doing it. It is very important to listen to your woman, when she tells you anything during oral sex, her likes and dislikes after all she is the recipient.\n\nWhen it comes to pleasing a woman, knowledge is power.   Mmmmmmmm\n\nGood luck!
523836
Attitude.\n\nThe woman is not your personal jiz jar for your selfish needs.\n\nIf you treat women with dignity and respect and commit to a woman (and not play the field) you can find a rewarding sex life.\n\nAs far as technique goes, that would be something you discuss with your partner. Do not be afraid to learn something from her that helps with her pleasure and enjoyment.\n\nBut if you have a crappy attitude, they can see through that in a minute.
1131481
In a nutshell it's because they can. I know this tho. It's not about sex, it's about power. They do it to make themselves feel more powerful and superior.
1154117
Lots of women write in with questions like this, and as a guy, I don't think I can stress this enough:\nBLO.WJOBS!  BLO.WJOBS & MORE BLO.WJOBS!!!\nGive him gift-certificates for oral sex that he can use whenever he wants.  \nMy girlfriend has figured out years ago that bj's are the key to a man's heart.  At least, this man!\n(Keep in mind that men, unlike women, are simple creatures!)
478950
Men are easy. We want sex, sex and more sex. You females have to take the reins and control us. We like being fed, and pampered by our mothers, I mean girlfriends, and wives. \nWe like being told that we're big strong men, that we're superb lovers, knights in shining armor if you will. If you let us have our loud smelly friends over for beer and the football game you'll win our undieing support! If you feed and nurture us you'll win our hearts! If you love us you'll win our soul! Remember, men are just boys with size 40 clothing and beer bellies.
1013860
I'm not a female, and never have been, but I do understand them well. Guys have sex on the mind because they think it is neccessary to get off as often as the body demands biochemically. Females do not have the same biochemical demands from their body, so they don't feel desparate to copulate, therefore they appreciate the experience more when they do. The guy is so focused on getting off that he forgets to enjoy the act as much as he could have, and the girl is free from such needs so feels the moment is enjoyable.
109007
I would imagine that it's a personal choice.  It has alot to do with one's own self education on sex and sensuality.  As a man, I believe once a woman has had conalinques one or a couple of time, they find they want it more and more. There's really no real way to answer this question.  "Do Your Own Thing".  That's the only thing that will please you, and your partner...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
1143963
Most women get satisfaction from pleasing their man!\n\nEither you are selfish and dont like to please others, or you think that it is not a proper sexual encounter! Men like oral because they dont want to get women prego and the mouth grips better than the vagina!\n\nDo some Kegal exercises and make you body work well and a man can get pleasure in a natural way just as well!