how can we propose a person.what should we do if the person reject us.howproposals get to marriage?
342869
Go stright to her and tell her that you her... looking deeply and Straigtly into her hey.. no where else.... \nnot only this (expressing your love)... you have show that how many days you are loving her... how you know her.. where you saw her... which activity do you like in her.. which you dont (dont express too much...)... i think this will be a begining for your love... and when time passes (not too much months) she will defenetly accpet your love.... \n\nSome time they may try to reject you... but at that time (too) you have to show your love to them... this will lead to a happy married life..... advance wishes from this unknow friend....
393548
you must first know to yourself what are your motives of doing those things with her! If you love her, then propose to a relationship... just be honest and straighten things up with her so that you won't leave her confused and hanging in the air.
630664
The best idea is to openly talk to each other. Propose him directly instead of this dilemma.
501530
How can you love a person who is not suitable for you. And if you have a feeling of love for someone, what is the criteria for being suitable. But if you have a feeling of love, then give it a shot, may be its all in your head.\n\nI am not the best at advice but you may try it out once. Life's not gonna end after that.
553341
Hello DavieT, here is how I proposed to my wife. I had her Mother call her (she didn't know I was going to propose) and keep her busy on the  phone while I sat out a table, two chairs with wine and two glasses on the roof top  of our apartment along with a cd player with our song ready to go. When she was off the phone I led her out to our roof, put on our song and we danced on the roof top. Once the song was over, I went to my knee and propsed! We spent the next two hours sitting there starting to make plans over a glass of wine!\nGood luck in which ever way you decide to go!
300311
proposal of marriage should be something personal... take her to someplace special for the two of you... make it a memorable event that she will remember and look on with joy forever.  I have helped many of my male friends propose... this one happened about three years ago on easter... my best friend led her on a scavenger hunt for plastic easter eggs.... in each one was a clue to where another one would be.... things like where we first met, first kissed, first date... and at the last place he stepped out with an egg and opened it showing the ring... he asked her if she was ready to place all of her eggs in the same basket.  She said yes... crying with tears of joy.
932640
So how could you marry him? Move on.
327000
If you are talking about proposing marriage, I would say don't do it. You need to be with this girl and spend months together to make sure that it is the right thing to do.\nNow if it is only proposing to be a boyfriend to her, I would say you could easily tell her that you really enjoy the time that you two talk on the phone and would like to know if she would want to be her boyfriend. But I still reccommend that you come face to face with her. I don't know if you live close or not but unless you do, you probably shouldn't expect this relationship to go full bloom.
186184
If you are married to this person and you have objections to what he/she is requesting of you, perhaps you should have had this conversation before marriage!  Marriage is between the husband and the wife - if you want to invite others into the relationship, then you are exposing your marriage to chaos and the inevitability of divorce.\n\nIf you are merely lovers, then you need to assess what your relationship is about.  Are you two committed to each other?  Or are you willing to share your lover with others?  That is a personal decision.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
442962
Don't rush him into it.  Give him time.  I'm sure he'll propose soon since you said that you all have discussed marraige.
952745
Try to get that into the marriage proposal I'm sure it'll be great.\n\nYes I would still have gotten married. It's called love.
266557
If someone asks you to marry them, you had better be in love before you accept. And if you Do love this person, and that person loves you, you have no need to change each other. You accept each other for who, and what, you are.  Now, after you marry, either of you might change  in some ways that might cause  discomfort in a relationship. And that needs to be worked out. But don't try to force change on each other, It will not work.
778660
may be liking you..but getting afraid if he comes to u and propose, you may reject.  So 1st talk to him.  Get closed to him. Understand what he is looking in you.\nBest of luck.
57028
You cannot make a man ask you to marry him!! And besides that, why would you want to? Personally, I would want to know that I am being asked for my hand in marriage because the man loves me and wants it, not bacause I forced him into it. Often marriages where one person or the other felt pressured in to it, don't work out anyway. Best off to wait for him to do it from his heart!
1121218
I think that you should over think this! You shouldn't get married to someone that you are not in love with. Liking someone and loving someone is completely different. Once you marry them that should be it. You shouldn't go into marriage counting on the divorce card as a back door. You really have to stick together through good and bad, sickness and health, richer or poorer and it should be forever 'til death do you part. People that go into marriage half-hearted are the ones raising the divorce rate. If you feel this way, you should talk to him about it. If you know that he's going to propose and you go and date someone else...that's a sure way of knowing you are not ready to settle down with him. You should be truthful to him and yourself. At the same time, you should marry someone that you can be yourself with. Best wishes.
329102
when a close friend proposes, and you dont have any such feelings, its always better to make him/her sit and understand. talking is the only way thru such a situation. let him/her know that there might be better people out there to choose from to be a life partner, but what you have between yourselves is a special friendship. tell him/her that you care about the person and woudnt want to lose him/her as a friend. partners may come and go but friends remain!