So my mother is totally ****** in the head!?
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She is a sicko! My ex husband was like that. He had this terrible obsession with money and he was always hoping that I would get into a car accident so that he could collect the insurance money, he even threatened to poison me. He married me for a second income. \n\nOkay, so this guy beats your brother and you are aware of it. You need to contact 1-800-4achild 1-800-424-4553. It is totally anonymous. Tell them everything that you have reported here. They will then take action. You can also find out the number to the police department in that area. You need to get your little brother out of that situation before something happens to him as well. With the way your mother is and the way your stepfather is, CPS will yank him away. I am not trying to scare you, but you have to do what is best for your little brother right now. It sounds to me like he is in some serious danger.  Maybe there are some relatives that he can be turned over to. You need to get him out of that situation. I know that you want to see him and everything and there may be a way, but you need to help him FIRST.\n\nPlease let me know if you need anything or if you just need someone to talk to.
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Me Me ME!!! like everyone in my family is except for my mom. How dare she!
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It's very clear that you feel your not doing anything wrong because your mom does this same thing to your grandmother all the time. Don't allow yourself to repeat these behaviors no matter what. It's not a good thing to talk back or yell at your mom no matter what. If she's acting crazy and yelling at you then remove yourself from the situation. Yelling and fighting does not solve the problem and doesn't make it easier for someone to listen to you. All that this does is create tension and a lot of confusion. Your mom has no respect for your grandmother if she's yelling at her all the time. Do you really want to be that way with your mom as well??? Don't look at the fact that your mother is doing it so you should do it as well. You need to be the one that stops this right here and right now because if you don't it's just going to be passed down to one of your children as well.
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Talk to her...first you need to be honest with yourself if you your usually a bad kid, acknowledge that and tell her how much it hurts you to see you dissapoint her and therefore want help to change. If your whine alot and complain about the world, and claim everything is everyone else fault (which if you are your probably like nope...not me =)) lol, but if she says you are talk to her about the future and how you're maturing and realized that you have to take control and except responsibilities. If your a pretty decent kid though but I guess she doesn't like your BF I honestly think you should listen to her reasons why whether you think she "knows him", if thier superficial reasons like he's not your race or too poor or some bull like that then your mom's an @-- (sry to say) but therefore has no more credibilty on her opinions of people. If it's because your BF is too old, a dog, something like that, your mom has wisdom and experience and trust me she IS right. I don't really know what you n your mom's problem is so I tried touching on random things, hopefully some of thoserandom thing's hit you and it helped, thanks and I hope you and your mom works things out, a girl no matter how old, can never live without her mother =)
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No she's a mother with a very correct frame of thinking! I'd worry the same thing if I was a black american!
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Perhaps she is ashamed of her mothers illness, and thought you may think differently of her if you knew. Try not to be to hard on her, I am sure it was not an easy thing to do keeping this a secret. She probably thought she was doing the right thing. She may even be in some state of denial of her mothers illness. Good luck and God bless. And do not keep beating up on yourself, you did not know. The two of you need to have a talk, and explain to her that you want her to be honest no matter what it is.*
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Its hard with a mother like that i would ask her why she says these things and confront her about it and tell her if she continues to make you feel miserable then you might be better off without her.  Its not always the best thing to do but sometimes you have too
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If this dude is even remotely entertaining opinions from his mother, run the f away.\n\n...don't know how old y'all are (apparently old enough to have bred at one time or another), but if you're at that point, let momma have 'im.
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Sweetie, it's not just that she loved you; she had issues--big ones.  This is not normal behavior.  It's possible that she projected her own conscience upon you, because she suffered from overwhelming guilt from her past actions; she may have been similarly affected by her own mom.  This is a psychological problem.  Now that you've moved out of the house, please consider counseling so that your experience will not negatively affect your own future relationships.   If or when it's possible, it might help your mother if you could talk her into counseling, for her own good... because she's probably going through a massive amount of emotions right now, especially rejection.  Pray for the woman, and try to love her as much as you can while still maintaining your own distance, regaining your perspective, and living your own life.  God bless you!
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Do you think she would bother if she didn't care??  Listen, writing and talking that way right now is a kick, but when you are out in the adult world, that nonsense just won't fly.  If you can't put together a viable and coherent sentence, you will get NOWHERE!  Bosses won't think much of your abilities OR your intelligence.. even though you might be extremely intelligent.. \nHave the self respect to be the very best you can be.. at all things INCLUDING the way you express yourself.  It will show you to be the intelligent person you truly are.  THAT is what your Mom hopes for you..  the very best.
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HI Grannywinkie!\n\nDid your mother tell you that? I hope not. If so, it's definitely emotional and verbal child abuse. Absolutely.\n\nTake care!
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wow. you're right. she is psycho. she's going to have lots of problems later in later if she can't handle and control herself.....hurt herself???If i were you, I'd worry about her hurting YOU FIRST!!!....keep your parents appraised of what's going on... try to avoid contact with her, if possible...hopefully, with time, she will move on.....hopefully, she'll move on to a THERAPIST REAL FAST!!
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She is already living the example that was given to her by her mother. You may not be able to disuade her from many bad decisions, they are after all, her choices. The very best you could do for this young lady is be a very caring and available adult. Trying to control her at this point will more than likely drive her away. Talk to her openly, but without judgement. Make your conversations thought provoking, encourage her to answer and solve her own issues with you.
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My mothers,she is pure evil and nasty.
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WOW, i know what you mean. I am sure you feel unloved, unwanted and scared to be like her. I am living proof that you don't have to be like her. I grew up with a horrible mother who abused me every single solid day, emotionally, mentally, physically I mean the works! I am now a loving, NEVER HIT MOM, and I do NOT scar my child in her ways. I am proof that you don't have to be like your mother. Ok? Email me if you want to talk sometime...i totally understand how you are feeling.....Missiowa2004@yahoo.com. Good luck and know you are not alone okay?
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My mother when she about to kick my axx!
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I understand what you are saying, sometimes the female is thinking the same way her mother did, it depends on how you deal with them and how you encourage them to be their own woman.\n\nLife is short and you maybe need to talk openly with the lady and explain how you feel and then maybe she will listen and understand what you are looking for.\n\nI wish you good luck