How do you forfill your deepest obsession and desire?
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nothing is worth dying for if it is just an obsession or even a desire as you say .in life we all desire many things some we know we cant have others we want but are not prepared to wait for ,but as you say obsession  i think you should look closely at what it is before you try to fulfill it as an obsession is usually singular in its form and one persons desire can easily turn into an obsession if they cant obtain what they want to easily .
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It is also impossible for "you" to stop desiring.  All of life is full of desire, and existance is impossible without it.  There are no living beings who are presently without desire, though they may have been for the brief moment of their enlightenment.\n\nBefore this, they were filled with desire, growing, changing, focussing more and more on being free, being one with God, contacting the Gods, whatever their focus. The desire builds until they have given up all other desires in their one pursuit, all others being slaved to this one goal.\n\nFinally, in the end, they realize they can never achieve their goal, have tried every way possible to get there, and have no way to retreat nor do they wish to.  They surrender to forever being between their final desire and God/nirvana/etc. with no way to finish the journey.  They do not feel sorrow for this lose, they have accepted their impossible situation without games, without excuses.\n\nAt that moment, enlightenment comes.  It cannot be reached through short cuts, and it is always full of desire until there is nothing left of "you".\n\nThe fight for peace is like the desire for enlightening.\n\nFighting will continue, any time there are limited resources, until such time as we have matter replication and easy space travel.  Until then, there will be war, followed by intervals of peace.\n\nWhen the fight is for peace, for stopping those who would war for war's sake, for conquest, then wars become harder and harder to wage, until all are standing, waiting for the other to make the first move, like gunfighters in the Old West of the U.S.A., each waiting for the other, but in this case, neither wanting to fight unless the other does.\n\nTwo white hats.  No black hats.  After a while, the absurdity of the situation becomes obvious, and they release their tension.  New allies have been formed in the fight for peace.  They look around.  When they can no longer see any black hats, any conquerors, they hang up their guns and hats, and live.\n\nWhen the fight for peace ends, and conquerors still exist, the conquerors win, and peace will not be reached.\n\nWhen the desire for enlightenment ends, but not all other desires for other things have been extinguished, then the desires will dominate, and enlightenment will not be reached.\n\nThe fruitless posturing attempted to achieve enlightenment, a state that is reached only through the burning away of all that is not real is the single greatest obsticle to the searcher.  While they sit, trying to end their desires by force of will, they find only obsticles and enemies to their desire for desirelessness.\n\nEven war must be loved to love everything.
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For moi that would be Eternity.\nFor the guy, I love Obsession.\nMy favorite scented candle is soft Vanilla.
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Be a celebrity yourself in your own environment and you will not bother about any other.\nI am not. I have no time to think of them. Leave alone be obsessed. My mind is busily occupied with learning new things, exercising, maintaining a routine for chores and all.
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All of the above.\nBut the full, wet, devouring possession, like the first time you get with someone youv'e been really been lusting after  THATS the best! you can feel it DEEP down! All consuming!
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There's gonna be an element of obsession in real love. You know it's the real thing when you find yourself putting the other first consistently. You pretty much lose interest in activities that don't include them. You'll be telling your buds "That sounds great. Let me give (  ) a call and I'll get back to you!"\n   Obsession is different. You won't have the same changes. You'll still be wondering all the time, where are they, who are they with, what are they doing? But you won't find your lifestyle changing (unconsciously) to become the one in that picture.\n    Trust is another matter altogether. There must be respect, integrity and empathy first. Knowledge grows from communication. With both having the history you describe this is going to take a lot of work and time. Relationships are a lot like gardens. They require constant attention and effort, need nourishment, light and water(communication).\n\nIn the end you will simply need faith. In yourself, in your other and in the Maker of all. You will find the two of you cleaving together in adversity and in joy. Neither of you will have any higher priority than the other's well being. Yes, even to the point of laying down your lives to protect each other. By the way, prayers are answered every day.\n\nThe greatest gift we can bestow is our time.
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try not to think about what you are obsessed with
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every time I think I do find it..it turns into just like all the rest, and then I am again looking and seeking for what I want and need.hey wait a minute ..what I want is one thing, and what I need is another thing..they thank you..you just made me realize..I need want to things instead of the normal ONE..\nthankx\n\ngood luck\nsmile
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Focus on what you are doing and realize when your mind starts wandering. You have to keep bringing your self back to your self. And stop the daydreaming!
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Firstly, venture into your mind's content and in real terms evaluate all that is you and find precisely where you are at mentally.  Call that mental-location 'ground zero' and hold on to it, sleep on it, re-assess your mental sum again when you awake.  Secondly, F the sickos of the world, you now at least will know where you are at as regards your own person-self and what it is that fills your mind.  Now within this step are some matters which necesarily must be considered in a non-distorting manner.  How F'd are you and how un-F'd do you choose to become?  Begin the brain-cleaning process by trashing all the garbage you find within, resolve those matters to the trash bin akin to trashing kitchen trash.  You are now more tidy within and stable too, go slowly, do some wee-tiny thing to somehow in some way make your mind more precious and valued and satisfied: learn another true thing such as it will improve the sum of what your mind already has.  Make a wee small adjustment, and I warn you, it gets awesome very quickly and I caution you to not get hoggish too quickly, and these awesome things do not happen by accident.  You are the owner of a unique mind that basically has an independent-will to let real data slip for sake sliding around within the slime of follies with the greater satisfactions never being there.  Heed me, I do not send you asunder.  I will for you the most which can willed.  I know from experience that your mind will become such a bright ditty inside your head that you will have ever increasing difficulty with losing and/or repressing your perpetual smile.  Enjoy forming em smiling-eye creases, they add to your character too.  Have a nice day.  Move on to new you.
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its a natural instinct to want to love/lust someone and since there are so many people that you have to use your hearts judgment ,and as you said, test the waters a bit seeking that one of your preference.
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A strong, especially sexual desire or craving.
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best and quickest way is to force yourself to think of someone else ....in other words, get busy with someone else...
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SEE  , FEEL FFREDOM, SECOND TO FEEL SENSUAL RUBNESS FROM OTHERS, MAKE THEM ECASTIC...\nWARMTH BY RUBBING
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If your heart is pure enough, hundreds of beautiful women will fall in love with you through the Internet. If your heart isn't pure enough, I suggest fasting and meditation.
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Get into either greed (materialism) or spirituality as soon as possible and give it everything you’ve got.  You should know from your dreams which is your path.
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You are basing your wants on human desires and not on spiritual desires. If it is just human desires that you want, joy, happiness, etc. think about the best times in your life, and multiply that hundreds and hundreds of times. The joy and love you will feel in heaven will be liken to this. Now think about the alternative...