Do an average guy pay for a girl when out to eat or somewhere?
351200
Well it is nice if a guy pays when he takes you out the first time but this dosen't mean it has to cost alot.  You don't have to take her to a flashy restaurant to impress her, be cheap and cheerful, maybe organise a picnic for the park on a warm evening, or go for a walk on the beach and just buy hamburgers or hotdogs, any man can whisk you somewhere top class and pretend to be something they're not but a guy to puts some thought into organising something that makes you feel special will win out any day. Good Luck,
919506
Okay, so you're going out with a prick in order to get free drinks, so what does that make you? Get some self respect girl, and save for a guy that deserves you.
726800
NO IT IS NOT!  NEVER EVER EVER BUY SOMETHING JUST TO GET LAID!  you will hate yourself in the morning.  A woman that needs a gift to give you some is s whore!  Yep she is getting something in exchange for sex...which makes you...paying for sex! You really need to think about what she wants a little more...if she really loves you, flowers and a teddy bear or simply time together will be good enough to get you laid...if you gotta pay for it go to vegas where it's legal and the workers are tested regularly...I wouldn't risk my privates to a disease just to get laid and have to pay for it too!
306157
Yes, chicks dig burly rides, and it will make you appear to be a stud-muffin.  After you pay for the freaking gas in that thing, though, you'll be too damn poor to take anyone out on a date.  So you may want to rely on your personality to get dates instead.
1115692
I always thought guys had to pay. I guess I'm really old fashioned.
894817
I never allowed a girl to pay for ANY expense on ANY date I ever asked her on.  Not once from my first date to the dates I ask my wife on today after 26 years of marriage.  I cannot believe that there are guys who have been so poorly raised that they expect a girl to EVER pay for anything on a date.  In fact when I met my wife she said that was the first thing that impressed her about me.  The fact that I treated her like a lady.  I opened the car door for her (not when it was moving). I let her go through doors first, I pulled her chair out when we ate at a restaurant, I always paid for meals, movie tickets, ice cream etc...  She said that she had rarely been out with a guy that knew how to treat a girl right.  Most guys she had been asked out by were a$$holes that had no understanding at all about chivalry.    She had been raised to expect guys to treat her like a lady and I was raised to treat girls like ladies.  We were a match made in heaven.  Now after 26 years of blissful marriage I STILL open the car door for her EVERY TIME we go in the car.  I still stand up when she enters the room, I still pay for dates, open doors for her, pull out her chair in restaurants, and treat her like we are on our first date.  Maybe, that's why we.ve been married longer than about 90% of all people in the United States.
502369
When you go out on dates, she insists on paying for stuff on an equal basis. ( ie : you pay this time, she pays next time). However if she pays for her own stuff every time, that means she probably isn't interested in you sexually, doesn't want to lead you on, and doesn't want to feel indebted to you in any way.\n\nShe shows a strong interest in your life, asking a lot of questions about your hobbies, family, job, etc.\n\nShe changes something about her appearance just because she knows it will make you happy ( for instance, she gets a new haircut, starts wearing shorter skirts).\n\nShe offers you a sip of her drink, or takes a sip out of yours (Essentially she's telling you she's willing to swap saliva with you !).\n                           and if u wanna ask her\nThere are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.\n\nOptimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.\n\nAvoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.\n\nOne way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :\n\nIf she says "yes"\n\nHave a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.\n\nIf she says "no"\n\nDon't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.\n\nIf she says "some other time"\n\nHave a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.\n\nOf course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to be prepared for the worst. \n\nTips on how to ask a girl out\nThe real key to getting women to say "yes" when you ask for the date IS TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU.\n\nIf a woman is attracted to you then why wouldn't she want to go out on a date with you ? It makes sense but most guys don't think of it that way... they miss the point and focus on "how to ask" rather than focusing on raising her attraction.
102788
The short answer is yes. You are supplicating. A Woman NEEDS a man who leads her into unknown teritories. You must make her want you. Be the prize. Never take a girl out to dinner until after you've slept with her. I will tell you a little secret buddy... No matter what you do.. YOU MEAN NOTHING TO HER UNLESS SHE HAS HAD SEX WITH YOU. And taking a women out to dinner WILL NOT LEAD TO SEX 95% of the time.  Be an aventurer, her mystery, her hero and her juices will flow. If you lead she will follow
437152
Yes, it's probably true.  Stop making him feel like crap by asking him to take you out.  Find things you can enjoy that don't cost a lot or crack open your own wallet to pay for the 2 of you.  Men arent' just meal tickets.
753675
In one way or another yes they do - be it a drink beforehand, a meal for the girlfriend or keeping the wife - they all pay and women know how to play them :-)
917017
This one's easy: Since it's a first date, why don't you each pay your own way?
439315
Heh of course it is. When I met my boyfriend he didn't have much money. It's not the most important thing by far. If the girl likes you she will be happy with a walk in the park instead of a fancy dinner.Show her things that she has never seen before in your own special point of view. Try opening up and talking to a girl in a personal way, writing poetry, singing songs, making her gifts those things all mean a lot to the right girl. That is the trick though finding a female who isn't into money.
1024493
It depends on the length of the relationship, if its a first date then they might decide to go dutch, if its a longer relationship then they pay according to their agreement, they might pool their money. If they are living together then it's just like any couple .  Things like that come natural as you grow together. The rules aren't different in a gay/lesbian relationship.  Paying becomes part of you as a couple. No need to decide who will pay .  I have found that being comfortable with someone requires no monetary agreement on a date.
1012219
You ask a girl out which is like going to dinner or going to the movies for example.  The guy typically pays for everything.  Or a cheaper date could just be renting a movie, making dinner and just enjoying being with each other
470576
NO BECAUSE IF A GENTLEMEN IS A GENTLEMEN THEN HE WILL PAY I KNO I WOULD...EVEN IF A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ASKED ME...IM TOO FLY TO HAVE A WOMAN ASK ME AND THEN SHE PAYS......
747315
Are you asking for presents from a guy so that you will go out with him? That makes you a common whore. Don't do that. If you want to go on the date go and if not then don't go. But do not expect to paid to go. Disgusting.♠
845286
It should be whoever initiated the date. If I ask a guy out, I pay, and vice versa. If it's a relationship, I expect to trade off. I get the movie, he gets dinner. Unless he makes a gazillion dollars. Dating is expensive!! Don't forget, women have LOTS of unseen dating expenses - make up, hair, waxing, clothes. I always try to be fair though.