ive liked this guy for 4 years and he likes me but he started going out with another girl what should i do?
350772
If you really loves someone you've got to set him free and if he returned in kind you'll find out he's yours..
749541
Honestly....If it was me I wouldn't waste my time. If he's really interested in you then you getting with another guy might make him see what he's been missing. But in all seriousness though. If he shows no sighns of leaving the other girl then you HAVE to move on. Finding a new guy might make you think twice about your first choice. Lifes too short to stay stuck on one guy. Especially in your teen years...if your a teen.
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
138593
It sounds like you might be the reason that he and his girlfriend broke up.  You might as well go for it.  From your question I would say that you are young, and you only get to be young once so you might as well enjoy it.
999828
tell him no cuz he already has a girl and when you become his girl what happens when he finds someone else he likes? he will do the same thing to you.\nhe will respect you more if you turn him down.
777034
Looks like he's playing both you & the other girl!  No! You shouldn't wait for him to make the choice, you should leave him alone!  If he really likes you & wants to be with you like he said then you'll see what he's really about once you cut him off!
678037
well he has a gf first of all. second does he like u back. if not then im sorry but then he doesnt. if he does and he is willing to break up with her to go with u...realise that u would be the reason he would be breaking up with her...do u always want that on your mind and wonder if he will do it to you? probably not. so think about it. \njust let time do its thing, if they dont work out then make your move...until then i would say just friends!!!
205235
if he knows u like him and he likes u back then he'll choose between u or his gf. give him time it must be hard to pick between two woman. if he likes u as much as it sounds he'll leave his gf and be with u. just dont push him and give him some time to think it thru. \n*Good Luck!* =)
816675
how old is way too old? go out with the guy you have known for 4 years. It sounds like you may be able to trust him more
289773
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
623184
oh hell ya...."my boyfriend asked another girl out while we were together" that is all i had to read, i think you should dump him because no guy needs another girl in their life if they are in a relationship no matter what the sitution is.  NEVER EVER let a guy do that to you because if he did that and you still stay with him then i am sure he will do something else and think "she'll still stay with me".  if it was me i would of dumped him without even thinking about it.  u deserve better, every girl in that position deserves better than that.
93558
the truth is that  you might be getting fooled and he might also be for real. the truth is since u say he likes another i think you should let him stay as an ex. he might never have gotten over you and be somehow attached to u or might be possesive or he might just feel like he still has to finish up some things he could not whebn you are together. since u are the one who likes him u might get hurt if he does not reciprocate so i think , keep him as an ex.
317655
I think you should probably forget him. Chances are if he's with another girl all the time he's not interested in a relationship and if you do get into one with him he'll probably cheat on you. Try to find someone that's after you for who you are, not what you have to offer.
980931
He is not treating you as first and only. It would be OK if he went with other guys - just - but no way if he goes with another girl (unless you are QUITE sure about her - like she was a sister or cousin or gay).\n\nI think you need to rethink this relationship and probably look for someone who actually wants to be with YOU and not just anyone.\n\nSorry - language problem: for 'goes with' read 'goes out with!
634426
i've had the exact same problem + since i kept breaking up with my bf, he finally got tired of me doint it + now he wants to go out with this other girl cuz he got over me in the time i took deciding whether to go out with him. you should decide what you are going to do or else that may happen to you. the thing that's hard is if you keep breaking up with him, then a part of you must be over him but if you keep wanting to go out with him then you must still like him, even if it is just a little bit. what you have to do is decide which feeling you agree with more, liking him, or not as much and then after you decide you have to put it into action and stick to it or else it will never work. my best advice is listen to your heart, for it is never wrong. :)\n\ngood luck
245942
it kinda sounds like he's just using you as a rebound..like he'll still have his pride of "i still have another girl to go to" sort of thing\n\ni don't really know though, but if he liked you so much, why didn't he ask you out first instead of "i'll date you if the other date's bad"?\n\nwish you the best of luck =)
685905
If the other girl is not his girlfriend, just hang out with him and see what happens.  If you hit it off, the other girl won't matter to him.  Don't waste your time worrying about her, just hang with him and go with the flow.