I think I'm in love with my friend. What should I do?
354358
Are you that brain dead? what do you have to loose? for god sakes you are young and have a lot of time to do some soul searching. so what the hell? ask her before it's to late.if she gets away before you have the chance to say something then you will have to live with that regret for the rest of your life.do you need a kick to get you going? I've had some old and run down Harleys like that.grow the balls and ask her out.
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
135120
We have to go for love.  That's the way humans are made.  If this man doesn't love you now, it doesn't mean that he never will.  Obviously he feels something for you since he spends time being with you.....give it some time and you'll know.  \n\nThe friend that cares about you but you only like as a friend - why not just keep him as a friend until such time as you are committed to someone else, at least.
526389
If your friendship means a lot to you, and you think that its gonna be affected by your friend knowing that u feel for him/her, then dont.Or then wait for sometime, and be sure tht he/she feels the same for you.. And thn you can make ur first move.\nGood luck!
368695
Seems like your hasn,t the same feelings for you , or he would have asked you out.Don't lose your friend over a love that never is going to happen.as i bet she didn't even know.
473310
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
1175176
Tell him you and him aren't on the same level as to what you both want out of life. While you love him as a friend, you want more and since he isn't willing to commit, it's best to end this now. Wish him luck and the very best then get on with your life.
1117967
You're NOT an idiot at all: your actions have shown both courage and devotion...two components of both true love and friendship. How she eventually responds will depend on your shared "chemistry" and where her life experience falls on the learning curve of love.\n\nI can tell you, however, I've been in her place and understand her perspective. A close friend revealed his feelings for me some months ago, and at first it was hard for me to see him as more than a friend (also, I feared losing his friendship!), but he responded similarly to your actions...proving over time he'd not pressure me, and truly cared for me in whatever capacity we could share our lives. Now, he's MUCH more than a friend AND we've found the strength of our friendship helped us overcome typical romantic spats, etc. The time spent in friendship made the love lasting. \n\nPlease do not feel foolish. You've been honest and patient. (Foolish would be never having the guts to tell her how you feel, or rejecting her when she didn't return your desires immediately.) Continue being yourself, and dedicate yourself to the friendship...give her TIME...possibly she'll see your strength and affection, understand the man you can be in her life, and return your feelings. \n\nEither way, here's a quote I like: \n"You are what you love, not what loves you."
741239
It's always hard when you start having feelings for a friend, you don't want to loose the friendship, but at the same time you want to have more.  Take it day by day.  Invite her to do things on a casual level, dinner, movies, shopping for Christmas gifts.  In time, if she does have more feelings for you, you will know it and it can go from there.  Be careful, if the only thing she wants is friendship, take it because if she is as special as you say, you don't want to loose her.
938417
Ask her one day while the both of you are hanging out if she's ever considered you as boyfriend material .. it's gets the conversation started ... and you can still play it off if she freaks out and says " oh heavens no .. you're such a good friend - I would never want to ruin our friendship " ... it's a little embarrassing to confess your love to a friend and have them say - sorry I don't think of you in that way ... I've been on either end of that situation and it's a little uncomfortable ... good luck ... hope you get some great advise ... !\n\nJust remember the only way to find out is by talking ... make sure it's just the two of you ... that way there's no distractions ... if she doesn't feel the same way - continue being a great friend - that will really show her how much you truly care ... I've had a few guy friends that would just up & disappear after I told them I just wanted to be friends ... it sucks ... thinking back you wonder what their motives were the whole time ... !
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!
497470
Get the same kind of music at your place and dance with her AGAIN and go for it.\n\nYou are burning with desire for her -- I think you're in love with her, actually.
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
1132896
well if she dont believe you then  give her a rose.\n but also think of it this way would if you and her took it to the next level, and it didnt work out. how would your friendship be then? would it be ruined? thats scary but i think i would rather be a best friend and love her as a best  friend then, how do you know maybe she is the  the right one and if she is then it  will happen, thats how love begins frindship first then, then it grows into more so know matter what it sounds to me like its on the right track!!!!!
905069
Oh tough one. No wonder you are in a state of confusion.  If he is a close friend of yours anyway have you thought about suggesting outings and activities that are just for the 2 of you rather than with a group of friends. Spending more time alone with him should help you to gauge how he feels. He could be feeling exactly the same as you are and equally scared to say anything. Be patient. If you are meant to be together it will happen in the end but don't expect him to pick up on hints. In my experience men are remarkable dim in that department.\n\nGood luck.
676158
I think it is safe to say that you are not IN love with her. It sounds like you love her but more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. Be honest with her now because she needs to know how you feel. Things will be ok.
801003
There's a very fine line between love and friendship.  If you're going to tell him, you have to be sure that's what you want.  You've got to decide what you value more, your friendship or your feelings for him.  \nIf you really do like him, then I say go for it. Its better to try and fail than to never try and regret it.  Even if he doesn't feel the same about you, what do you have to lose?    Hope that helps and good luck.