how do you dump a girl without hurting them?
344531
first things first you will definately be hurting her no matter how you dump her....the qsn should be how do i dump her gently so as to reduce the amount of hurt.\n\nfirst of all, dont delay it tooo long, choose a suitable location like her house so that after breaking the news she does not have to walk out in the street crying but can lie on her bed and cry.  tell her the relationsip is not working and dont give too many details esp. if their is another girl involved dont tell her this trust me she does not want to know. tell her you would still like to be friends coz you like her as a person. \n\nall the best dude, breakups are never easy.
327581
by stop calling her a sex friend and start calling her a girlfriend or such. Otherwise it sounds low key and open so that there couldn't be cheating.
558683
dump her, no just kidding, confront her and ask her why she's doing it tell her how much it hurts you, and if she dont listen, dump her, its not worth holding on to someone who wants to run wild, and hurting yourself, you can do better
379799
Forget it.  You'll get over her.  You won't respect yourself, and she'll never respect you either if you let her walk on you like that.  You don't just casually leave someone.  How would you ever trust her again?   You'd spend your life worried that if you don't jump through her hoops, she'll bail again, and she probably will, too!   \n\nJust tell her, "I'm sorry.  I wish you all the best, but that ship has sailed."  You don't need to humiliate her or rub her nose in it.  Take the high road, which will make her realize all the more that you are a decent guy and she shouldn't have done that.  You can't fix this one, but maybe she'll grow up a little for the next guy.
293573
You don't.  You blew it.  Cry about it and move on.  Plenty of other girls out there even more "right" for you.  Just remember that just because your interest level in her is high, it doesn't mean jack shit to her unless she just wants to play with your emotions.
618542
dont hound her, give her space, let her think, jus tell her your feelings and bide your time
164724
I don't think you want to tell a girl you love her and want to have sex with her all at the same time.  One step at a time. Tell her how you feel, and invite her out to dinner, maybe buy her some flowers, or choclates and know that Rome wasn't built in a day. Just slow it down a little.
939331
I have just copied and pasted this from my friends website, thought it would help-\n\n1 . Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)\n*2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.\n*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n*5 . Always tell her you like her every second of the day.\n*6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.\n*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.\n*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.\n*10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)\n*11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n*12 . Play with her hair.\n*13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.\n*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.\n*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.\n*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.\n*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n*18. Carve your names into a tree.\n*19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n*20 . Give her piggyback rides.\n*21 . Bring her flowers just because.\n*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.\n*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.\n*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.\n*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.\n*26 . Kiss her in the rain.\n*27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.
804441
coming from a girl, just ask her nicely and apologise for not saying it in the best way. it sounds more genuine than trying to find a smooth way to say it.
389380
flirt, but dont kiss her but. At the same time flirt with other girls. Girls always dig a guy that other girls want. Then take it from there. Whatever you do, just dont tell her directly that you like her, otherwise she'll just tell you how good a friend you are, but somehow she doesnt see you "that way".\nin other words....\n1. flirt a lot with her.\n2. flirt a little with other girls, and let her know about it.\n3. dont directly tell her you like her.\n4. DO NOT compliment her. I repeat, DO NOT compliment her. \n5. dont slap her ass or touch her b00bs.\n6. stroke her hair, etc. and always keep watching her reaction.\n7. Be a gentleman and open doors for her, walk on the open end of the sidewalk, etc.\n8. on the first few dates, do not go anywhere expensive. \n9. Instead, just ask her out for a cup of coffee. Make it sound like its no big deal.\n10. Use deo, brush you teeth and bathe before going, use a mouth fresher, dont fart, and avoid scratching yourself on the date.\n11. You can laugh, but not too much, and let her do most of the talking.
494448
not much you can do if she has no feelings for you. let it go dude , let it go.
309089
There is no better way than to just be blunt. If she acts weird after that, don't go around her for a while. But there's no point in sitting there and worrying all the time when you can just spit it out, and tell her. Honesty. The foundation to any good relationship.
1066105
Try being yourself. Don't listen to your friends when they disrespect your girlfriends. If you like someone, tell them, but don't be suprised or sad when the answer is no.
741589
u need to prove it without begging..... u need to mean each and every word u say without turning your back on her.... appreciate her, that she is the one who changed yr life and tht u always want her around.... tht ull never leave her or hurt her... make her feel like a princes.... leave her sorry cards and flowers.... she'll get totally floored believe me.... girls love being taken care of.... act like a gentleman....\n\ngood luc \n\nmail me if u want
1009257
Just piss and crap everywhere. Be sure to push chicks' faces into the steaming piles of sh!t when you force them over for a good assfucking
684129
Let her go... u'll find out... i say let her go because if she likes u wants to be with you... she'll stick around... and if she doesn't and you try to force that relationship that will just make her well mad and hate you... atleast if you let her go she could still stick around like a friend or something you know... and its better to dump then be dumped so let her go i'll end with a famous quote "if you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it was urs, if it doesn't well u'll never know"
374681
get a girl you love and marry her and stop this nonsense if you dont love her dont use her.