How can I be that fun girl again?
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Great!  You decided to fix it.  Good for you!!  I worked on submarines for five years, and saw the same people.  I had a difficult time adjusting and being fun once I got out.  Here are some of the things that I did.  I joined a gym and made my self-work out daily (put my self in a public setting).  On weekends I would make it appoint to go out at least two places where I knew that people would be and sit and watch them (food courts at the mall are perfect).  I joined a church in the area.  What helped the most was that I turned off my computer and stopped communicating Internet until I had resolved this issue.  This forced me to meet people; I did not have that computer barrier between those that I was communicating with.  Good luck
231138
I saw this woman on a talk show who could not afford a vacation. So she kept working and every night, she did somehting different with her time. She lit candles, she meditated, she read book's she always wanted to read, she took a bath and ate whatever she wanted. \n\nYou can make new friends, you can resolve to quit fighting wtih old ones. You can get a hobby, you can change the route you take to work. You could eat something different at lunch, you could go on a day trip to something historic nearby. I like botanic gardens and parks. \n\nThink back to the things you liked to do when you were  young and do some of them. You could join an adult sports team or take a dance class. You could also take a martial art. \n\nBeauty is everywhere, start looking for it. Start expecting and asking for it. \n\nToday, I saw a painted piece of wood in a chinese restaurant. I tasted beauty in the bbq chicken my mate made for me. I had a lovely conversation with my neighbor. Get your senses working for you.
294038
Go to bed and get a good night's sleep, then go talk to someone about how you feel. Change your life: get a new job, move hosue, start doing different things on weekends (like go to bars instead of clubs etc etc). Just try to make your life interesting again.
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Oh, you sound adorable!  Yes, I think this is a confidence issue.  Number one:  do not start dating again right away.  Rebounds do not help self-esteem.  It just makes you dependent on a girl's attention for self-love.  What I do is focus on the love that's already in my life, from friends and family members.  I just try to go out and have fun.  Pretty soon, I realize I'm having fun without a romantic interest.  And then, I become braver in approaching people, because their rejection isn't such a big deal.  I can do fine without them.  And don't look at other women as potential dates.  Look at them as potential friends.  Eventually, you'll find one you want to date and who will help you out of your shell.  But good luck and don't worry about it too much.  This girl isn't worth your time or worry.
945167
Lie down, feet in the air and legs spread apart. Now, you're ready to have some fun!\n\n(Assuming you're female. If not, who gives a sh-t!)
717385
Start talking...no, really, for starters go to any window of your house,open it and yell like a warrior getting ready for battle! You will feel better after you do! You may even laugh. learn to laugh at yourself and be yourself. Have fun with life. You'll enjoy it more!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Be like TARZAN (or Jane)
334954
Just be yourself. Talk about things you did when you were younger.  Yaba daba doo I feel lucky today.
193249
Do what you need to do to like yourself first.  If you're unhappy about your physical appearance, change it.  You can exercise and diet.  Take care of yourself in other ways too - hygeine, keeping your hair nice, make-up.  Get involved in activities you enjoy with other people.  Join groups (in the real world - not online), volunteer, go to church, go back to school if you're not in school anymore.  Get out and meet people who have similar interests.  You can try dating websites as well.  There are some that are particularly geared toward large people.  Good luck.
720413
Hey sweetie, this happens alot and it hurts all of us at one point or another. You must try and surround yourself with people that like you, and enjoy with you. Not someone you want to force to be your friend again.Make friends with other girls, im so sure you're a wonderful person and that people want to be your friend. Just give them a chance. One day your friend will come back to you. Dont worry about it too much.
5195
just keep urself busy by doing anything.u can do cooking,sing ur fav song,dance in ur own way.if u can't sing then listen to ur fav music,movies.they are lots more thing u can do to keep urself away from boring.
320247
Normal is SOOOOO boring, I used to be, now I am a wild child. Be exciting, different, adventure-some, make your own fashion. People will love you more if you are who you are.
144541
Get your butt out there and find people that do like you, try tons of new things, join new clubs and take a look at yourself, start liking yourself and others will like you, make sure you don't complain too much, even if you're really ticked off, just pretend you are having a blast at everything you do, people will start to open up to you, good luck
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be honest about your level of experiance or comfort.. don't pull a stupid sitcom moment of, "oh no, I'm great at this" and then you end up looking lame with a broken wrist, or whatever.\nand don't put yourself down.  Pull the cutest guy to you, say, "I haven't done this for awhile, do you mind staying with me until I feel more comfortable." \nact confidant and things'll be fine..\nand have fun..
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Join a dance class, sports club or anywhere you can meet new people.\nTry doing something that you have always been too scared to do, you never know, it may give you the buzz you are looking for.\nIf all else fails, book a week off work, pack a bag, go to the airport and get a cheap last minute flight to anywhere young and fun.\nLastly, try having a more positive attitude. If you act like your life is boring, people aren't going to be queueing up to be your friend - act like yours is a life worth being part of, and they will be flocking to your door.
692257
Girl, you need to go somewhere and get something done to that dried out hairdo you're sporting! Oh, and by the way, a personality transplant wouldn't be a bad idea either!
1086654
Jus relax and have fun.  As long as you are able to do that, people will want to be around you.  BE YOURSELF!!!!
485233
get a new best friend,see what you can do to earn your parents trust again,lose the fake boyfriend,find the real you