what takes longer time, mastu rbation or sex**?
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Take your time with both. You can prolong the fun if you take your time.
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Your technique may not be pleasing her.  Remember it takes a woman approximately 20 minutes to reach orgasm and only 5 to 10 minutes for a man.
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Well, I'm not sure that an average is helpful to you. Are you concerned about coming too soon or taking too long?\n\nStudies have shown that most men can only avoid ejaculation during active thrusting for five minutes or less. Some say that the figure is an average of 7.3 minutes.\n\nRemember that these are averages. Whether it is a problem or not depends not on the amount of time but on whether the amount of time is satisfactory for both partners. So, don't pay too much attention to the time frame, pay attention to the sexual satisfaction of the partners.\n\nHope this is helpful to you.
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Well, a very highly aroused, young, inexperienced male might last a minute at most.  And Sting (the famous singer) has bragged about being able to go on all night- literally- without a climax.  There's huge variance.\n\nOptimally, a good amount of time is about fifteen to twenty minutes of actual thrusting; with the overall lovemaking experience going from forty five minutes to an hour, if not longer.\n\nIf you can't, there's nothing wrong- you can get better with time.  Just practice controlling yourself (try thinking of non-sexy things when you get close- like grandma on the toilet, lol- and masturbate beforehand so you aren't so close and on the edge going into things.  And let your partner know what's going on- when you get close, stop, take a breather on yourself, and focus on her/him, then go back to spending some time on you or together, and so on, give and take, until you are both breathlessly ready for climax.  It's a thing that both of you can deal with.\n\nIf you still climax too soon, just remember that sex isn't over!  Your partner deserves to climax, too.  Keep a spare dildo in the drawer next to the bed, or even a strap-on (quite a few men wear strap-on dildos over their flaccid penises) to keep things going once you go soft, or just rely on your hands, mouth, and fingers to get help him/her out!\n\nRemember not to stress overmuch, and good luck!
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Masturbation is like playing tennis against a brick wall.  It's good fun practice, but it's better to have a partner.
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If with "doing sex" you meant sexual intercourse with a partner.... only mastu*bation could give you similar satisfying then. Somebody likes some sex toys too.
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No. Masturbation feels better. (n_n)\n\n.....I'm serious.
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i don't think there is a set time.. just whenever you both get done. usally about 45minutes to an hour for me. depnds on how long the guy can go.. and how long it takes you to get sore...
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It takes a good 20-30 minutes to get a girl fired up. If you cant stick her you better learn to lick her.
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Used to be about 5 minutes, but that was back in my younger days, lol. Now 20 minutes or so, depending on how much I've had to drink.\n\nTell your husband that sex is like a chinese dinner. It ain't over 'til you both get your cookies... ;)\n\n7 days? wtf? lol
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for guys and girls. yes.  reason being is that for guys, the more you ejaculate, the more semen your testicles have to produce to keep up, which usually means less semen in the testicles when having sex (because you ejeculated therest yesterday)  it takes more time to ejaculate the less semen you have.  that's why virgins always finish more quickly, or people that haven't had sex in a while.  for women the reasons are completely different.  it's all about sensation, as a female orgasm has nothing to do with ejaculation.  but the more you experience a sensation, the more aclimated you become to it.  women have orgasms when their pleasure reaches a crescendo and they 'climax'.  but the more you've experienced this pleasure the longer it takes (for most people) the reach that climax.  it's like if you eact chocolate cake every day, it's still good, but it takes a really good peice for you to say "damn, that was good!"  as opposed to if you went without it for years, your next peice would be amazing even if you bought it at the dollar store.  so yeah, that's it.
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None!\nOtherwise we all should have problem or be impotent even!\nOn the contrary, scientists says that a regular sexual life (mastu*bation too) helps the reproductive system to keep healthy and increase the performance (desire) too.\nSomebody even plays more time in a day according his exigency and need.\nSo, don’t worry for that, while you only ought to care to don’t become too much addicted.\nMastu*bation is a normal event, and with the age and stable relations, decreases till vanish.
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if you mean to be able to preform longer. spank it before you have sex the second erection last longer
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i dont know whats up with all the unnecessary words but i can tell you that masturbating doesnt harm your body. it makes your genitals stronger. youre building muscles in your pubic regions when you masturbate. when you finally do have sex, you'll probably last longer also.
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Well, I know that everyone says they do it for hours and all that, but I saw a survey earlier this year (who knows how reliable, but I figure it was a survey with more than 1000 participants so it had to count for something). The question was "how long does your typical sex session last." The average time, according to this survey, was 21 minutes. \n\nNow at first I thought that was fast, but in thinking of my g/f and I, our sessions last on average about a half hour, so this survey sounded about right.
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Its because the guy cums to fast.  Women need more time.
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WELL, SPEAKING AS A MALE. IF YOUR TALKING ABOUT DURING SEX THAN SOME MEN CAN GO AS LONG AS THEY WANT. I KNOW THAT THE OLDER YOU GET USUALLY THE LONGER YOU CAN GO AND IF I HAVE A FEW BEERS I CAN GO ALL NIGHT.  NOW IF YOUR TALKING ABOUT A MAN WHO NEVER HAS SEX AND DOES NOT MASTERBATE, WELL THAT SPERM IN THE BODY DOES HAVE TO COME OUT. AND USUALLY A MAN WILL HAVE A WET DREAM IN APPROX 30 DAYS TO EXPEL THE OLD SPERM WITH A NEW BATCH.  MOST MEN MAY NOT KNOW THIS BECAUSE MOST MASTURBATE AND NEVER REACH THE WET DREAM TIME FRAME. BUT EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT AND SOME MAY DO IT 10 DAYS SOONER OR LONGER. I HEARD THIS FROM A DOCTOR WHO STUDYS IN THAT FIELD.