Would you tell your partner if you were infected with an STD?
346153
You'd have to...It will eventually come out if you plan to stay with this person. It is always best to be honest. If he/she leaves you because of the STD, then so be it, but at least you were honest so that he/she doesn't go out infecting others because of your silence.
368424
fisrt i have to ask u one thing ...are u both u and ur partner were virgin efore u become together??????in fcat herpes virus never left ur body if u once have it...it doesnt matter how....of course it is one of the STDs but u dont have to have any new relation to have it.....if one of u before had it it will always be in ur body...of course it will become fine without any lesion or sores but the virus will live in ur body and there is no way to damage it completly ....and the main reason of vagina's sores is herpes...my advise to u is if u and ur partner were not virgin at first then maybe one of u have it from past and if both were virgin then one maybe cheat the other one.....
730835
My defintion of Aids would be a Careless choice to have your partner tested to see what your dealing with in a relationship. Aids is sad but true and if you dont protect yourself it could be you.
1024233
Some people are bothered by their partner's sexual history, others are not - I guess it depends on the person.  If you are sexually active with them it's probably good to know their sexual history and medical history - there is certainly nothing wrong with asking about a partner's sexual history.
970372
why have unprotected sex with someone you don't trust? you would need to prove you didn't have an infection before relations with that person, or it could be you put them at risk too
1074809
For the most part people are usually pretty accepting about it. I told my boyfriend at the time (now fiance) that I have genital herpes and he was completely understanding about it. Of course he wanted to know if he could get it and how, and how it is treated, etc. So after some long talks he has come to accept it and the fact that someday  he might get it.\n\nI've never had a bad experience when telling someone I was dating that I have genital herpes. They usually just ask a lot of questions. It might be different though for a deadly STD like HIV/AIDS, since I don't have HIV/AIDS, I'm not sure how someone would react if their partner told them they have it.
113222
Yes it could be, you need to see a doctor.  The virus that cause std can lay dormant for years, and flare up at any time.
76826
Can sex give you an std?
1110835
You can get almost any STD from somebody who didn't have an outbreak at the time. Then again, it is much more likely that one will get an STD when an outbreak occurs. The virus, of course, is still running through the body when there is no outbreak, and there is a chance that he could have contracted it a long time ago, and especially if his immune system has been low lately, he can be more susceptible to an outbreak. There is no surefire way to tell if he has been cheating on you, unless he was a virgin before he met you. \nBut I'd play it safe & wear a condom anyways.
28642
So, you're cheating on your husband and lying to your boyfriend?? That's just wrong. Do your husband a favor and give him the respect to tell him. Wouldn't you want the same thing if your husband cheated on you?? He does not deserve to be exposed to the possibility of you giving him STD's, without at least being informed. Then again, he may divorce you and you'll be free to do as you will and he can move on. It's a matter of self-respect for yourself as well as respect for others. Even if you haven't actually done anything yet, it sounds like it's only a matter of time before you do.
689201
Yes, Definitely!! It's always you that matters. You should be worried, because these are uncertain times, some people don't even know they have until the obvious occurs. \nIt wold hurt me a lot emotionally if a partner was not careful enough and exposed him and me to an STD. And I really wouldn't like to die because of somebody else's carelessness\nThere's nothing to be ashamed of and if your partner really cares for you then he should not have a problem with taking a test. \nBut it's a touchy  theme, and remember that it's not the things you say it's how you say them, so approach  it with care and there should be no problem. Also, to be sure use condoms, or any contraceptive you choose, until you're really sure you're in a monogamous relationship.\n\nGood Luck
215045
There are a couple of possibilities. Yes, run-don't walk back to your doctor. The antibiotics may not have worked. Is this rash painful? If you were diagnosed with gonorrhea is it possible your partner could have had something else? Like genital herpes? I really hope you don't have that, and you really need to call your doctor ASAP. If it is herpes they will need to see it, and you don't want the symptoms to go away before they can evaluate them. Good luck, and remember to use a condom next time!!!
782882
Yikes! Are we talking sharing an STD?
1048384
wait untill yuor married to a clean person then you wouldn't have to worry about crap like that. AIDS HERPES, DEATH STB= Seavualy Transmited Babys
1082918
Yes you can get STD from oral sex. \nConsider this a high risk behavior. Its like surfing not every surfer who goes in the water is bitten by a shark. However we all know that happens. Conditions for an std to be passed are pretty specific but if you don't know much about your partner you are rolling the dice. \nSTD include but not limited to \nHerpes\nGonorrhea\nHIV
265691
yes!!any bodily fluids or skin contact can cause you to be infected especially if your partner is
912046
Tell him about  the risk like even though he wears condoms he can still contract stds like hiv/aids. maybe if he hears that he will think twice at least some people do.