how do i go on showing i am not interested but also not hurt her?
355855
Please listen to me carefully.... Talk to her about it because from experience it hurts when one thinks that you are interested and you blow them off with your disinterest. Just tell her how you feel.
860473
TELL HER THAT NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. AND THAT YOU CLEARLY DO NOT GOT ANY FEELINGS FOR HIM. AND HOPEFULLY SHE WILL UNDERSTAND .
34787
Because ignoring them is a very passive and not effective way to get rid of someone.  Tell them.  Be direct and let them know you're not interested, you're busy, you have other interests, whatever.  From their end, it's better to know than to wonder.  So not telling them is mean.
1133471
tell her no thank you ...your not my type
172578
First, don't act like a stalker, you will just scare her away.\n\nSecond, tell her how you feel.\n\nThird depends on whether she tells you she is not interested or accepts a date.
119918
Well its your choice what you say.  You can be honest without being rude.  As far as  hurting her?  There is probably nothing you can do about that.  Unfortunately we all get hurt sooner or later.
588406
tell her to get the hell off of ya...your not interested in her that way...you just want to be friends and if she doesnt want just that break the friendship off
936833
Why do you have to do it?\nHave you asked her why she isn't interested?
990429
ask a mutual friend to go to this girl and ask her what she thinks about you without her knowing that you sent her to ask.  Just let her know you do not want to hurt her feelings.  Just by having someone else ask for you it will not ruin your relationship with her if she is not interested in you.
1038952
Move on!  Been there and done that.  If she's flaky, she's either not attracted to you or she's just flaky.  You don't need that.... Trust Me!
322509
Tell her that you are not interested in her and you already have a GF.
919327
wow that is a really tough one to answer, i think shes interested in you, but if you really want her then i personally would lay low for awhile just to make sure, now that you've made your point of hanging out with her and stuff, I really think you should back off to see her true feelings\n\nHope everything works out!!
1131746
no, im not saying she has to be desparate. lol no need to cuss im just gonna say she doesnt seem to be so interested in u. that is if ure trying to make her like u.....if not then just go with wat u feel like u should say.
143008
From what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. I say tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't like you that way, she'll be flattered.
364428
pay attention to what she responds to and what she doesn't. for instance if you do something to her and the response is oh yes, yes, yes, keep doing it. but if you do something and her response is stop, eww,ouch, get the f*ck off me then you no not to do it. don't worry about it too much. you'll figure out.
347384
Re-Evaluate. You just said she "has not showed it". What make you think she is interested.
411675
One day if your talking to her just casually bring it up and tell her your not intrested about it.. just make sure your nice about it because if your not than youll hurt her feelings.. tell her you think you should just be friends and you dont want to take it to the next level. =) good luck!