why does it feel like im lossing him???
350327
well since you didnt include much information i can only guess to why you feel you are losing him. you probably are. maybe your relationship is stuck in a rut. By this i mean maybe you have been through all the fights and spontanious moments and need to spicin things up again. Make things more interesting. If you and him have been together for a long time you might be alittle bored with eachother and like i said need to try some new things. Try being honest with him.
776772
Very possible.  Or he thought you were dragging your feet.  It is understandable that as more time went by, and he began feeling more insecure, that he distanced himself from you.  It was probably a way for him to protect himself in case you backed out.  Now that he feels more assured you will proceed he feels free to express his love for you again. I hope that helps.
285024
If he wants to find you he will. It must be very difficult to deal with this right now! I can only imagine how awful you must feel. I recently lost contact with someone myself, and I just stay focused on work and family and try to let time pass. Each day gets better. Talking really helps too, so maybe counseling would help (I have not done this yet, but want to.)
145962
Im in a situation like that right now and I need some help too. When Im with him the relationship is alright and cool, but when we're not together all I find myself thinking about is, "Do he feel the same way about me?" He's very shy when it comes to me. He came from Abilene, and he was in a relationship down there, but sometimes I have to ask him are we still together.
1170601
It is totally normal to be feeling like this. They say when you break up with someone that you love it congers up the same emotions as it does when someone dies. You are in mourning for your lost relationship but don't confuse this with love. It takes time for your mind and your heart to come to terms with these situations but it will pass. Talk to you friends about everything you are feeling, even the stupid things, you may feel silly at the time but once you have got all you feelings out you will feel a load has been lifted of your mind. Every time the thought of your ex comes into your mind, change it and put your boyfriend in his place. Don't keep thinking back on things you and your ex used to do, go out and try new things with your boyfriend, these new memories will move the other memories out of your mind and you will feel yourself letting go of the past and moving on to happier times. Trust me, this has happened to me before, i nearly let my new relationship break down because of it but i got past it and am happier than i have ever been. Don't be afraid to let go, you will always have the time with your ex to look back on in the future but don't let it destroy you chance of happiness.
284281
I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Like you, i would definetly drop a few hints here and there.. but it seems he isnt responding, so that leaves to no choice but to leave it alone. Early April, i would present it to him again,in the most straightforward of ways and we would HAVE to at the very least, talk about why he isnt talking about any of it.\nBest wishes for you.
221689
Aw sweetie you sound so sad! I know it probably feels like the end of the world at the moment, but it does get easier I promise. It's never easy to get over someone that you really cared about, but you will be happy again, with someone who feels the same way. It seems that this guy cared enough about you to tell you that it wasn't working, rather than lying about his feelings. \nIt happens the other way round too, and you may find yourself going out with someone in the future who likes you more than you like them!\nIt happens because you are learning about yourself and growing as a person all the time. It takes a while to figure out who we are and what we want from a partner and from life. \nAppreciate that we learn something from each person who passes through our life, good or bad. See that he just wasn't right for you and that means you are available for someone who is!
5412
wow, sorry to hear about your girl, thats sad. I dont know why you cannot tell the difference but maybe its because you are in a lot of pain right now and you feel like you are hurting all over.  Again I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things start looking up for you soon! :)
988670
Don't be concerned about how he feels.  It sounds like your conscience is trying to tell you something.  Listen to it.  Don't be a home wrecker.
1084445
Take a breath, darl'n. Sometimes guys just have a hard time telling you how they feel. He'll start missing you day 2. He might be a bit anxious about the job or have something on his mind, he prolly misses you already.
841209
He may be thinking just like you, worried about saying it and not hearing it back. Why not just end the doubt by saying what you feel? Odds are you'll find out you're both feeling the same way. If not, better to know now.
501726
not necessarily...he could just be going through something....maybe he's depressed or doesn't know what he wants. give him space and see what happens...
298326
it feels like quick heart beats, always thinking about th one u love, wanting to be always near him, want to please him by every way possible u can do. Feel hurt wn u miss him. wn love is perfect it is like heaven, wn it is not it is much heart & pain & hell.
1027666
I think a lot of people feel that way from time to time! I have felt that way when I was having anxiety or depression. It is kind of an detach feeling, or a feeling of unreality. If you are feeling this way often than you might want to talk to your doctor! \n\nI hope you feel better soon!!! Best wishes to you!
1014521
guess,you should stop reaching out to him,and see if he cares he would turn around or  pass him,i do understand its very tough when you care,but why should you put yourself under his  feet to be trampled with your feelings.... i am going thru the same just getting stronger
229414
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
865498
my best guess is that he doesnt know how to bring his feelings to the surface and present them to you. mabie for fear of rejection or even out of fear of accecptence.