I need a gay friend to talk to someone who will understand me and I am kinda still in the cupard?
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o.k I'm confused! i thought you said you had a boyfriend! how can you be lonely?? whats the real story!!!
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doese anyone want to talk to me
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Hi there!\n\nWell I'm sure your friend did not "just discover he is gay" it's not like you look under this rock one day and Oh My God I just discovered this.\nIt just sounds cute the way you said it, but I'm sure he has known for quite a while because gay does not BING turn on all of a sudden.\nSo support him be his best friend more then ever right now, because it took him tremendous courage to even speak to you about it ...I would think.\nI don't know how old either one of you are but it is the same for heteros as homos we all need and all need at the different ages, so just be there for him and love him. It will all come in time, his courage will build and he will meet people just as everyone does, give it time. Maybe at school there are some support groups for gays, something like that could be helpful for him and help him feel more secure about himself plus he could meet people.
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There's a completely free, completely confidential hotline that you can call that can help you come out. You can speak with an adult or with a young person like yourself.\n\nhttp://www.glnh.org/index2.html\n\nTheir website also has links to organizations in your area.\n\nAll of the following links have really great resources for coming out. Don't just click the top one... click all of them and read all of the brochures, etc.\nhttp://www.pflag.org/Getting_Support-Coming_Out.coming_out.0.html\nhttp://www.outproud.org/brochure_coming_out.html\nhttp://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Coming_Out\n\nAnd if the friends you have are really your friends, they'll be your friends even if they know you're gay or bi. Real friends like you no matter what.\n\nGood luck!
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try gay.com it has a really  nice chat program where you can find others with your similar desires
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Pray, Pray, Pray, God will listen. Then you in return should listen to him. Some times I just sit and talk to him just like I would a dear friend sometimes he's the only one we have to talk to. Always remember that things will get better, you will meet someone special someday. God has someone picked out for you to brighten your life just be patient and in the mean time talk to God. I will pray for you too.
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Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
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I'm going thru this right now, the guy is straight; we always talked at work to pass time, but now that I quit my job, he's the only one that calls me to small talk and to make him a cd. He knows Im gay and I know he's straight, but my feelings for him is there, and I dont dare to do anything cuz I will lose him as a friend. He tells jokes at me that Im like his big brother/sister. I showed him a different side of gay people, that not every homosexual is a flamoyantly Fag and respects me, so I remind myself that he's a good friend that asks for my help if he needs it, its rare to turn a straight guy to a gay guy. Since I know he would never read this forum I would like to say, "I love you very much Robert, I'll be there for you." How can I ignore feelings?
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PLEASE! For the sake of embarrassment, DON'T ASK HIM!! If he's still in the closet, he'll only get angry, and you'll lose any chance of ever finding out. Instead of asking him, just put yourself out there if you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Do you have any close friends at work who may be friends with him also? They may be able to find out in some mysterious way. My best friend is a gay male, and he just recently came out over the summer of 2005. He's going through the same thing right now. It's tough, but hang in there. You just need to build your confidence, and the rest will come! Best of luck!
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ok but if u need someone 2 talk 2 hit me up mikeloccs@yahoo.com  if u dont mind. im 20
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Oh. Go to www.gayromeo.com or go to gay.com. Those are great gay chatrooms and they are free.
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I will be your friend if you want to talk!
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I DO NOT KNOW WHAT UR TALKIN ABOUT TO HELP U OUT, SEND ME A MESSAGE AND MAYBE I COULD HELP U MORE IF I KNEW WHAT U WERE TALKIN ABOUT
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i would say that you do the same thing people did before there was an internet.  go to clubs, join support groups, visit your local gay & lesbian center or use your gaydar in the grocery store, park, or other everyday kind of place.\n\ngood luck!
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Sure I'll be your freind, cause I think everyone should have a good friend.\nHorserunner92@yahoo.com
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if its not a bi thing, and u want a inteligent person to talk to, my email is shadow200572@yahoo.com
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well i'm sorry to hear that but if u need somebody to talk to u can e-mail me at lil_bre_bre_14@yahoo.com