how did virgin marry had kids "IF SHES A VIRGIN"?
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She is a "virgin" because the historians lied to you. It is a sad day when people believe Dan Brown's "Angels and Demons" before they believe in the traditional biblic interpretations, but the former is more logical. Hope this helps!
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They were the British, and it is because of \nQueen Elizabet that it is colled so.Virgin like her.
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LOL as preppipunkboi said or they  adopted a child :P:P (or an affair occured :P:P... but preppipunkboi is right
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You're a fool. Back then girls were married off around 12 or 13 and then usually had kids arounds 14 or 15. Get used to it, that's just how it was.
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My fiance' and I are getting married in dec. and we are both still virgins and proud of it. We have saved ourselves until our wedding night. We did this to be honoring of each other and to be honoring of God.
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The way I see it is this...\n\nRemaining a virgin is like presenting your bride/groom with a box and saying... This is a part of me I have NEVER shared with anyone in my life.  I have kept it for that one true love of my life.  Many times I have had oppertunity to share it with someone I cared for but I have never trused someone so completely before or wanted to share this gift before as I do with you.  This is my gift to you and only you for the rest of my life.  A part of me that will only be for you.  My love, my husband/wife.\n\nTo me virginity is a treasure to be guarded carefully until just the right time with just the right person.  And I believe that gift should only be shared once a  vow has been made of true love for a lifetime with God's blessing.  Then and only then can God truely bless the union to the extent he intends.\n\nCall me corny and oldfashioned but it has been a glue that has kept this marriage together for 24 yrs.\n\nKathy
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A girl is a virgin if she hasn't had sex yet.  No sex = virginity.  It's as simple as that.\n\nBut if you are asking how a girl can ensure that her hymen remains intact as *proof* of her virginity, the basic answer is that she can't.  A lot of things totally unrelated to sex can stretch or break the hymen.  One that is often talked about is horseback riding, but there are tons of others--like gymnastics, or even riding a bike.  \n\nSince there is nothing you can do to prevent it, there is no reason to spend any time worrying about it.  If you want to be a virgin, don't have sex, and you are one.\n\nGood luck!!
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Gryphon's guide to seducing a virgin\n---------------\nSTEP 1:Get to know her \nSTEP 2:Date her for awhile (build love, trust, respect, etc)\nSTEP 3:Get to know her family (and vice-versa)\nSTEP 4:Propose \nSTEP 5:Marry her.\n\nStep 6 is 'you know what'... and it's a sure thing.\n\n:)
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I would say she is a virgin because her hymen is unbroken.\nMind you she's one dirty sl@t.
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The man who I gave my virginity to.  He loved me unconditionally and was my soul mate.  We were together for five years.  He was 16 years older than I was when I was 18.  When I grew up a little I wanted kids, but he his were already grown and he didn't want any more children, so I left.  What a fool I was.  I ended up marrying a total jerk shortly thereafter to whom I was married for 18 years and had three kids.  Oh, I always wished I had stayed with the first man.
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Mary & Joseph were "betrothed".  In the Jewish culture of that time a man & woman were promised to each other and then he set to make a home for them.  Once the man had a home & funds for his bride he would go and get her and there would be a wedding feast and they would be married and could consumate their marriage.  \n\nJoseph, after being visited by an angel, took Mary as his wife but did NOT consumate the marriage until after Mary's time of uncleaness after childbirth was complete.\n\nSo Mary was a virgin when she gave birth to the Messiah.  She also had at least 4 other children.  (Would anyone REALLY consider perpetual virginity a blessing?  Especially if you were Joseph?  "Yea Joseph, as a reward for you believing the angel, marrying a woman pregnant not with your child, and raising that child you can NEVER has sex with your wife or be blessed with children of your own"  Some blessing!)
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Hey hey, easy on this guy, his spelling doesn't look like a 14 yr old kid, but it looks like English is a 2nd language to him. In some countries (I'm in USA), a 29 yr old male virgin isn't a rare thing at all. In some societies, it's quite common.\n\nThere is no pain for the male. If a female is healthy, there is pain when breaking virginity, but it doesn't last long, only during the penetration, and the pain usually goes away soon after that. I mean in minutes, usually not hours, and definitely not for days. Don't worry, she will enjoy her honeymoon without having to walk around in pain. If she does, she needs a doctor, because prolonged pain from intercourse indicates she may have some kind of illness in her female parts.\n\nDeflowering on the wedding night is a normal, natural, beautiful thing. It's a holy thing, why the concern for it? If you both really don't want to do that on the 1st night, you don't have to. But a healthy, happy marriage includes a beautiful sex life. She will not be any less honorable once she breaks her virginity with you, because you will be her <husband>. It's what God has designed. He designed sex for pleasure too.\n\nAs for birth control, if you two want to have children, then don't use it. If you want to wait, then look into the various forms of birth control. If you both don't want to use a condom, then she can see a doctor to get birth control pills. If she doesn't smoke, then it's okay for her to start taking them before the wedding. I'm not saying for you to have sex before the wedding, but for her to start taking them before the wedding.\n\nI hope this helps.
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Adam and Eve were never married; mainly because there were actually seven different Adam's and Eve's.  In the beginning, when "god " was still experimenting with the "design" he wanted to use, they were trying many different genetic combinations, so there were many birth mothers and donors.  A man just "took" a wife to be his.  When tribal chiefs got tired of having other men taking their wives, they came up with a way to declare a women "belonged" to only one man.  No one else could have her until the man she was married to no longer wanted her.  A man, of course, could have as many wives as he could support.
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i was virgin till i got married. and we used condom for contraception...now i m not using one because i am trying to concieve a baby..
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Which one?\n\nLet us look at the following Verses in the Bible: "If a man takes a wife and, after laying with her, dislikes her and slanders her and gives her a bad name, saying, 'I married this woman but when I approached her, I did not find proof of her virginity,' then the girl's father and mother shall bring proof [how do you think they would do that?] that she was a virgin to the town elders at the gate.   The girl's father will say to the elders, 'I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he dislikes her.  Now he has slandered her and said, 'I did not find your daughter to be a virgin.'  But here is the proof of my daughter's virginity.'  Then her parents shall display the cloth [the father would literally stick his two fingers covered with a piece of cloth into his daughter's vagina before she gets married and keep that bloody cloth for as long as his daughter is married] with  before the elders of the town, and the elders shall take the man and punish him.  (From the NIV Bible, Deuteronomy 22:13-18)"   \n\nHere is a more clear translation from Hebrew Resources:  "The girl's father and mother shall produce the evidence of the girl's virginity before the elders of the town at the gate.  And the girl's father shall say to the elders, "I gave this man my daughter to wife, but he had taken an aversion to her; so he has made up charges, saying, 'I did not find your daughter a virgin.' But here is the evidence of my daughter's virginity!"  And they shall spread out the cloth before the elders of the town.  (From the New JPS translation, Deuteronomy 22:15-17)"\n\nThe New JPS translation of Deuteronomy 22:15-17 makes it even more clear about having the parents of the girl displaying the bloody piece of cloth before the elders of the town.\n\nAccording to the Talmud, the cloth should be "A cloth of less than 3 square finger-breadths.  (From the Talmud, Eruvin 29b-30a and Succah 16a)", and before it is being used, it should be "soft, woolen and clean.   (From the Talmud, Niddah 17a)" \n\nBirth of any female is a loss:  Ecclesiasticus 22:3 "....and the birth of ANY daughter is a loss" (From the New Jerusalem Bible.  It's a Roman Catholics Bible).\n\nIf a woman tries to save her husband from a beating by grabbing the other man's private parts to lift him off her husband, then both her hands must get cut off: Deuteronomy 25:11-12 "And in case men struggle together (in a fight) with one another, and the wife of the one has come near to deliver her husband out of the striking one (to save her husband), and she has thrust out her hand and grabbed hold of his private (the other man's groin), she must then get both her hands cut off, and the eyes of the men must feel no sorrow."\n\nFathers can sell their daughters as slave girls:  Exodus 21:7-8 "And in case a man should sell his daughter as a slave girl, she will not go out in the way that the slave men go out.  If she is displeasing in the eyes of her master so that he doesn't designate her as a concubine but causes her to be redeemed, he will not be entitled to sell her to a foreign people in his treacherously dealing with her." \n\nDaughters inherit nothing when there are sons: "If a man dies and leaves no son, turn his inheritance over to his daughter. (Numbers 27:8)"  So the American law of splitting everything equally is not Biblical. \n\nJesus himself in Revelation 14:4 considered women as dirt that defiles men.  Even Jesus, the Christians' highest model, despised women in the Bible!!  It is crystal clear that women in the Bible are nothing but a defiling dirt and trash to men.  This is no insult to women by me.  This is just simply the way the Bible views women.  Ironically, Jesus confirmed this view.\n\n1 Samuel 15:2-4\n2 Thus saith the LORD of hosts, I remember that which Amalek did to Israel, how he
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It's a term for taking a girl's virginity.
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Sure, an old friend whom I've actually known since elementary school did just that. They've been together for the better part of 30 years! I think they waited until they were out of college though before actually tying the knot though. Anyway, now they're happily married with (at last count) three kids. I think a lot of what ties them together is that they are both very devout practitioners of their religion (Roman Catholic).