why do guys cheat on girls?
352929
Sex 101 (again):\n\nMen need sex, women need romance.  Men give romance to get sex, and women give sex to get romance.\n\nGuys are driven by testosterone.  That is why men and women are so different.  To guys, sex is sex, like having a beer or watching a good movie.  To women, sex is an act of closeness and love.  You just can't get around this.
848778
In this era of fast food, one night stands and relationships sans commitments; the boys who could lie, deceive and act like hell are going to have more girlfriends. \n\nIt is all about the ethics, morals and values. And you know like begets like. So, the kind of guys would always get unfaithful gals.\n\nIf you are really for the quality of the relationships; please do not try to add numbers.\n\nAnd always remember that the guys having more than one girl friend are not LUCKY.
377566
They probably do get what they want sexually with girlfriend but they just want different women.  Men are pigs when it comes to sex, gotta have it with as many women as they can.  That is why men cheat.  Variety.
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
5391
because they think if they make the girl happy the girl will let them do more stuff and its an easier way to hook up with someo one...guys are dogs lol
817335
Sometimes guys like a girl who is taken. If they can get her to cheat, they get the goodies without haveing to buy her anything, take her anywhere or go to her family events.
613078
Reality hurts don't it. I think the main reason women cheat is because of insecurity.   You should ask yourself what lead to me to cheat?  and would I do it again.  That poor man is hurt and probably doesn't want to go through that again. I know i wouldn't. From a mans standpoint especially if he loved you...he probably still pictures u banging the guy in his mind. There is a big wound in the relationship..and like any physical cut it takes time to heal. But you really cant do anything because the ball is in his court.  He will comeback if he completely forgives you.
530340
yes it's still considered cheating if u get with this GIRL too...what is this world coming to!damn just stick with tha guy...
900084
Some guys do not appreciate what they have until they've lost it.  If he's cheating now, he'll cheat for the rest of his life.  Dump him!  You can do better with someone who does appreciate a good thing when he finds it.
969452
Some girls are really evil. They will tell the girlfriend anything to get her to break up with a guy just because they want a shot at the guy.  It happens more than you would think with younger girls but not as much with the older women because we are more willing to get at the truth and make things work.\n\nI did cheat once and got told on when I was 16(just kissing and heavy petting). I denied it but he broke up with me anyway. Haven't done it since.
1017976
because its a mans first insticnt to do whatever it takes to get out of trouble. Most guys lie about it because they don't like getting in fights with their girlfriends and they don't like to see them cry. Also a lot of men are shallow, and if for some reason you "aren't giving him what he 'needs' then they feel bad about window shopping for another girlfriend. I know, its happened to me a few times. Men are stupid sometimes.
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
642814
if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
420356
They do it because they are dumb. I just got out of a realtionship like that and he wants me back. He is a big loser all they want is sex and if you don't give it to them, they WILL cheat. I cryed so much over him...hes a loser
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.
783163
Most of the time men cheat for the same reasons that women do something is missing, they have picked the wrong mate, or maybe they just have a sex problem they can't control. However this never justifies breaking a persons heart or leading them on in hopes of a honest relation ship.
1112056
You kind of answered your own question.  It sucks to be cheated on so why would you want to put another person through that?  If the girl really wants you then she should dump her man and be with you.