for my first date with this girl i would go to the ocean then dinner,,  is that a good date?
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
307283
Depends were your morals ly.  Do you really care about her then you will wait for the right moment.  But if she agrees on the first date then she is easy and just good enough for a snag and nothing else.  But if she says wait then she's the one.
1003327
bring her flowers. girls love it. be yourself, don't seem like you're trying too hard to impress her. i personally love when a guy feels comfortable in his own skin, that makes me relaxed too. be a gentleman, open the doors for her. i think you should pay if this is the first date. you can try holding her hand at the end of the date. good luck.
1095798
Yes! If it works out...you can spend the afternoon getting to know one another...if it doesn't...well, perhaps you have other plans. \n\nIt's a "safe" date. \n\nGrace to you and God bless!
688088
Well I think that you should just ask her and take her somewhere fun, save the romantic serious stuff for a later date. The first date should always be really relaxing and filled with fun (no matter what age you are) Mini golfing sounds great plus you should go somewhere to get pizza and stuff. \n\ngood luck
722657
Dinner cruise sounds great and romantic. Or gather up some of her friends and make a beer run (or what ever her favorite drink is) and go out to a lake and party! Or just gather at the house and drink, play games and have a great safe night. Just becarefull and safe no matter what ya do. I'm sure as long as she is with you she will love what ever you plan. If she loves the outdoors then a lake scene and a fire would be great!!
1017373
Absolutely. It's better to learn as much information as you can on a date, and I can imagine that any girl worth your time would find this charming.
702772
Is she your girlfriend or is this just a second date?\nIf she is your girlfriend, it doesn't matter where you go, as long as you enjoy being with eachother. She doesn't even need to your girlfriend. Again, as long as you are enjoying your time together, it doesn't really matter where you go. Just be with each other!
161599
you should ask her out in person and alone to on the beach or at a picnic is a good place
409061
go to the park/beach/mountains/someplace outdoors.  spend a few hours TALKING and enjoying nature, then finish the date with dinner at a nice restaurant.  the most imporatant thing is to spend quality time, getting to know them. being outdoors, awkward silence is okay, because you can just enjoy the weather/scenery.  I think it would be a totally romantic, but very casual first date. less pressure on both.
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
160499
Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
79465
The new place in town or local happening. Resturant, art show, wine tasting event.... I'm sure you can find one that you would both be open to trying, whatever it is. The important thing is that's neutral ground so there is no baggage for either of you. If its a bomb she wont blame you. If its great you get kudos for originality.\n\nNo dinner and "anything", keep it short. If its not working you both have an out. Bad dates are torture and should end quckly. If it is working the night/day is still young and you can show the spontaneous side. If your not the spur of the moment type have a few ideas for part 2 of the date ready and fake it. Neutral ground rule applies here too. She's not ready to meet your friends or check out your haunts if she's not sure she's into you yet.
593248
It's not improper to kiss on the first date, but you don't have to.  You sort of have to see how things go.  Sometimes a hug and a quick kiss on the cheek work just as well.  You'll sort of know what to do by how she acts when the date is over.  If she kind of hangs close to you and lingers when you start to say good-bye, that is a good sign she is hoping for a smooch!
164520
February 14, 2006... Dude wish me luck...\n\nIm bringing her to a very romantic place in the mountains... a dozen red rose will be waiting for her in the peak of the mountain... And we will be staying there for dinner... I bought her a jacket too... Its all setup in there... Then we are going to the beach in the morning... Breakfast in the middle of the sea... Scuba diving in the afternoon and we will have our body massage in our cabin at 5pm... \n\nWhatever happens on the night of feb 15... I hope it will be a night i will never forget...\n\nYES ITS OUR FIRST DATE...\n\nYaaaaaaaaaaHooooooooooooo \n\nyAAAAAAAAAAAhOOOOOOOOOOO  \n\nYaaaaaaaaaaHooooooooooooo
840541
Well you are on the right track you just need to think of it a little more. Dinner yes seems like a date, but how about lunch, lunch is a nice casual thing that friends do, and if you pick the right place it will just seem like you are just hanging out, dont go to a fancy place but dont go to a fast food place. ASnd it all depends on if you are driving, Dont pick her up, cause that is kinda datish, and if you dont drive find a place you might be able to walk to etc. And movies are the same thing go in the day time not in the night time, and it would look as much like a date
313508
Go for it, make another date, sounds fun