How do you break up with some one you have accumulated debt with?
353371
get a written agreement,keep paying your portion,you may even have to pay all just to keep your credit good,then if she dont pay,sue her or chalk it up as a lesson learned
97119
until you settle the debt
196641
You walk out of the abusive person's life and the relationship, and never look back. Do not give second chances, or that person the satisfaction of trying to make you feel guilty or that you "owe" them, and your payment to them for 6 years is to stay with them.
163045
best way to settle them is to sit down and go over your monthly budget together, pay bills together.  do it the same time every month, have one household account that you both put in the amount you need to keep the account open and pay for all the household expenses.  Do it in equal amounts.  what's left at the end of the month from you individual paychecks is spending money and you can do with it what you want to.  ie save it, spend it, put it in your individual checking accounts or saving accounts.  (btw, household expenses includes food and clothing for the house ie yourselves and the kids.  gas for your cars needs to come out of your individual spending amounts.)  NOW KISS AND MAKE UP.
157140
I should say NO, do not end it. Distance yourself though, this is the reality of life and you have learnt it without loosing your life.\n\nStop pouring yourself to them anymore. Just be friends, remember if she ever turns around for help to you -if you can offer without an effort that is, make it a point that you do this as a favor. Make him/her obligated to what you have done for her. Mind you, do not loose yourself as you make her realise what he/she has done.\n\nRemember, we pay back our debts in this world -be patient, you will get your chance to collect, with interest.
9077
break it off.  If you don't "feel" right around him, then it would really be better to stop the relationship soon, especially if he is giving you money, as that may create some animosity later.
1061868
Time to set him straight.  If he has not realized the value of your relationship its time to get rid of him.  Give him the facts that the time has come to pick or pack.  That is pick up the action or pack up his stuff and move on.
986171
You can't but if it isn't working out you have to. It would be worse to stay in an unhappy relationship. Eventually he or she will get over their hurt feelings and realize it was for the best also.
432415
Well it sounds like he has already emotionally abandoned the relationship, so who is to blame you for phyiscally abandoning the relationship?  I think you should do it before he leaves, though.  His running away (literally!) is really just a passive-agrressive way of forcing you to make a decision and be the "bad guy" for leaving when he's gone.  What a wimp!  Demand closure now, before he goes so you can get on with your life and tie up any loose legal entanglements.  You don't want him running up huge debts on his world-wide jaunt that you will be paying off, either.  What a selfish bastard!
409384
Unfortunately you will probably have to just let the stuff go and just walk away from him since he is treating you badly. Material things can be replaced. The time wasted trying to retrieve those items can't.
50434
Contemplate and think about the reasons that led up to you feeling that you need to part from them.  Then think about what you want to say very carefully and then tell him.  After you tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and then why, cut off all communication.
407294
break up find someone else
717578
Bow out gracefully, stop paying for anything and leave them to each other.  Then go find some new friends.
503916
Just let him go.  It's one thing to take money for something important, but to not even say anything about it until you notice it's missing is a sure fire sign that he never intended to pay you back, or even tell you about it for that matter.  Get out while you got the chance.
925138
First, you have a great husband.  He cares enough to clean up the mess.  Sue the ex-f***head for the balance of the paid-off loan, and tell the lending agency to enter it into his credit file.  Secondly, try opening a "mad-money" savings account for your spending moo...Make sure your husband is aware of it, too.  Put 20% of your LEFT OVER money (after bills) in it each paycheck and then save for what you want.  When you have 20% over your purchase price, go ahead and get your goodies and owe nobody!  Sounds like your husband has been listening to Dave Ramsey.  You two should take the "Financial Peace University" course.  When you've been debt-free for 10 years you will see just exactly how much you have in the bank and it will amaze you.  Have a great life with that great guy!
268683
You can tell him that you dont feel the same way anymore. you can stop calling him and seeing him until he gets the message. you dont return his messages. you tell him that you think it is not working out the way you wanted it to be. you write him a letter/email telling him of all the things you want in the relationship that is not there. you tell him of the things that he did/did not do that hurt you. you tell him the reasons why you think splitting up is better for the both of you.
1057592
If you have a decent car, you could just drive your educated self over to your good lover's house and ask them for a loan?  \n\nJust kidding.\n\nSeriously,\nChip away at your debt a little at a time.  It adds up.  Don't take on any new bills and, before you know it, you'll be debt free.