Should I have to go to his moms?
340272
Sounds like there is more to the story than you not liking or getting along with his family.  You expect more for him and he hasn't delivered.  People don't change.
34337
i think it would be the right thing to do just in case anything was to happen. so she can know all of the family. it really depends on how he is. but you should still let her see him.
246422
I would be only of his mother, otherwise, just remember your all adults and it is your home.  Don't worry, if he loves you he will hender his parents from picking on you. \n\n\nGOOD LUCK
1121156
You need to just ask him honestly why he doesn't want you to get to know his mom.  Maybe he knows something that you don't - maybe she's really mean or something - who knows.  You'll never know the truth unless you just come out and ask him.
425968
because shes your mom, hello.. she cares about you and this is your whole life your talking about here. she raised you up and gave you everything of course she would be strict letting u go to a man right. understand a lil bit, look at it in her point of view ok.. goodluck to you!
382497
Be grateful that he isn't a deadbeat daddy for one thing! Talk to him about how you feel. I don't know the specifics about your relationship, but think about WHY you feel he is obligated to his baby's mother. Of course you should understand that he has a responsibility to his son.
1073177
Yep- you should let him. Hate to say this but I know. My mom didn't let us see our deadbeat dad ( for good reason I found out years later) but SHE was the one I ended up resenting. I left home at 15- on Mother's Day- 9 years ago to go live with my dad. In retrospect, now that I'm grown and I'm a mom- I see what she meant. Why SHOULD he get to see the kids whenever he wants when you're the one doing all the work? But- kids NEVER see it that way. Be the better person, let the kids see his dad. That way, the kid can see and learn for himself that the guy is no good and he wont even want to go over there.
968017
You didn't say how long you have been involved with him. His mom may think you two don't know each other very well, and doesn't want to see either of you get hurt. Be sure you tell mom that you are grateful to her for giving you a place to stay during the rough times, and you feel it is time for you to move out and get your life back on track. Tell her you are sorry that she doesn't agree with you guys moving in together, but that you guys care deeply for one another...maybe she just needs to hear it from you.
794564
just tell her to meet you at a park and then see if she comes and then bring her to yor house and seee if he knows her or not, sorry and good luck with your son.
262626
go out with him with out your mom knowing
544360
Looks like the guy is a mommys boy?!! If hes from a single parent family especially, drop everything cut ur losses and run like the wind dudette!  on a serious note, I understand you must now be feeling like you cant ever go on with  out him and that your world will end. trust me it wont, you are best to put an ultematum (is tht how u spell it? oh who cares!) to him and say either u marry me or stay with the mom.  Also dont be a martyr and live with them, live separately even if its a yard from his moms home.  If he wont leave his mom, u have to leave him and look onwards, it may not appear so right now, but you will meet someone else who deserves all your love and will reciprocate unconditionally without a mom for free!
548528
This is why it's best for single parents to keep the kids a safe distance from those you date until YOU know they aren't MOMMA'S BABY or have some other mental hang up concerns.\n\nIt's best you advise momma's boy that he made his choice by leaving you and running back home, that you choose to have a man in your life....and he ain't it.\n\nFrom there, move on with life. May you find a real man for you and daughter to love as family.
338948
Hey my friend,Check with him first and ask him why he needs to tag you along to his mom's wedding.Where is your\n girl?Is she busy that day?These are two questions that you need to press the answers from him.Prepare to act quick and behave in term of not crossing the  line.Do not sweat and let guy see your intention.Act normal and see his intention.If she is out from his life then you can take over.But,she is busy and he needs double take then say no.Hey You are   not the second hand for him eventhough you like him.Be clever and look for your ownself.You are lady and wait for your turn.If it meant to be yours then he can not run away from you.
390967
Give him the lecture, it sounds like he deserves to hear your opinion about things. Don't be too emotional, as that could lead to a big fight where you'd lose sight of the problem. \nDo you go to see his family with him? If you do, you should make it clear that this is important for you, and that by not wanting to go he's not only hurting your feelings, but acting in an immature way.
1096424
it shouldn't matter.\nbut you should talk to your parents first.\nyou may be forced to ignore his mother.\nit might be. but if you really like him, and he you, it shouldn't matter.\nthat's called love.\n\ng'day
558319
It depends on the boy....he should respect your mothers wishes!
521538
ok hunny been there done that.  with your sweetie i cant give a guarenteed answer but i had that problem with my son's father when we were together. he thought it was his responsibilty to look after his mom.  last straw for me was when she "borrowed" 200 bucks to take his sister back to the mainland for ferry and gas and i found out that she used it to go bowling. man i was pissed beyond recognition since the money came out of my account which i used to pay ALL the bills and he wouldnt ask her to pay it back. in your case hes the child and unless they are unable to work or seriously something wrong with them then his responisbility is to you and his children.........however many kids there are and his parents should know that their grandbabies come first and foremost. doesnt matter whose kids they are they are always first and shame on his ex for trying to stick him with two kids that arent his. personally i wouldnt put up with whats going on but maybe make a really big chart and stick it up somewhere really obvious (maybe in the bathroom right over the toilet where he presumably STANDS every morning to take a piss and cant miss it) and put up a couple column where you detail the money your bro gives you for gas and the money his parents drain out every month and ask him how if hes going to support his parents where is the money going to come from for paying child support plus all the monthly bills. family is only as important as you make them and he needs to get rid of his and be a big boy. if they want to know his every move maybe perhaps you should suggest to his parents that he get his old room ready so he can move back in it or offer to move your entire family his kids your kids an all into THEIR house so that they can be in control and you can stay rent free and they can babysit.  all else fails change your phone number refuse to open your door and have all the accounts put in your name with only you being able to access them. or as suggested by the others then by all means kick his ass to the curb............ but thats up to you and how much more of this you are willing to deal with.