how can i get away from inferiority complex?
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sorry to hear that, just realize that EVERYBODY has these problems, they just hide it in different ways.  you may not believe this at first, and it sounds like one of those things sympathetic people say to give insecure people a boost, but once you get over this you will see. e.g. ask someone old and wise if donald trump possibly has insecurity problems...'dude probly has a 2 incher for all we know!\n\nnow, to solve the problem at hand: work on being good at something. pick something that will be useful for you in the future and become good at it. nothing wins like winning, capice? hang out with someone from another country, learn their language. try not to focus so much on "am i adequate?", just go and do something that will be INARGUABLY SUCCESSFUL - in other words, next time your insecure side tells you that you suck it will be forced to face the hard facts that you in fact kick a*s at something. eventually your condition will go away, but it won't if all you do is brood over how you suck. don't waste your time, there is too much cool sh*t out there in life to go see!
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You don't. You love yourself and work on becoming the best that you can be. Your confidence,character, and personality will attract others to you. We all have unique gifts that have been given us. Use your gift and let your light shine on all around you.
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I think by not worrying about what other people will think of you. Be secure in who you are, and don't try to become what others want you to become.
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You just described why.\n\nBe yourself.  Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations of you, whoever they are.  Create expectations (goals) for yourself!  Live up to them, re-assessing as needed along the way.\n\nStrive to be a caring, purposeful, dedicated individual.  Develop your own likes, talents, gifts and character.  Like-minded individuals will be drawn to you.  Don't waste your time on the other riff-raff just to be with someone.\n\nTrying to live up to other peoples expectations ... be it in life, career, sex, relationship, friendship ... stifles and frustrates.  Living up to your own expectations of yourself, in behaviour, goals, life ... sets you free!\n\nGo for it!!
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you don't. it's natural.\n\nor, on the other hand, you could try and be sensible, and just block it out from your mind. or you can just change your attitude from i'm-mister-super-caring-all about  what-people-think-of-me to i-dont-give-crap-and-i'm-gonna act- as-though nothing's-bothering-me.\n\ngot it?  now that's how you gotta stop carin about wat otha ppl tink of ya. alrightty?
618807
Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
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I know where you are coming from. Find something that you are good at, and do it. If you are crap at everything, find something you WANT to be good at, and work your ass off until you are good at it. Being talented has a remarkable way of boosting your self-esteem. My personal suggestions... cooking, music, conversation. You also sound young. I don't mean that in a derogatory way, so please do not be offended. Awkwardness is the natural state of affairs for adolescents. It will pass.
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first of all you need to stop comparing urself to other ppl....no two persons are alike,remember that, take some time out by yourself and seach ur heart...ask urself ,what has happened to you in the past which may influence you to feel this way,because sometimes things happens to us which affects our entire view of ourselves,and untill wefirst deal with those issues we will be forever trapped within ourself. take my advice....get out of your house...take a long walk..listen to some music...take it slow...u dont have to judge yourself by the characteristics of others..in doing so ,you are ignoring your very own unique characteristics.we are all beautiful sweetheart......never put yourself down ..,
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Firstly, venture into your mind's content and in real terms evaluate all that is you and find precisely where you are at mentally.  Call that mental-location 'ground zero' and hold on to it, sleep on it, re-assess your mental sum again when you awake.  Secondly, F the sickos of the world, you now at least will know where you are at as regards your own person-self and what it is that fills your mind.  Now within this step are some matters which necesarily must be considered in a non-distorting manner.  How F'd are you and how un-F'd do you choose to become?  Begin the brain-cleaning process by trashing all the garbage you find within, resolve those matters to the trash bin akin to trashing kitchen trash.  You are now more tidy within and stable too, go slowly, do some wee-tiny thing to somehow in some way make your mind more precious and valued and satisfied: learn another true thing such as it will improve the sum of what your mind already has.  Make a wee small adjustment, and I warn you, it gets awesome very quickly and I caution you to not get hoggish too quickly, and these awesome things do not happen by accident.  You are the owner of a unique mind that basically has an independent-will to let real data slip for sake sliding around within the slime of follies with the greater satisfactions never being there.  Heed me, I do not send you asunder.  I will for you the most which can willed.  I know from experience that your mind will become such a bright ditty inside your head that you will have ever increasing difficulty with losing and/or repressing your perpetual smile.  Enjoy forming em smiling-eye creases, they add to your character too.  Have a nice day.  Move on to new you.
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At first stop comparing with others.\nSecondly don't think everytime about JEE, it will demoralize you.\nYou have to understand-life is for gaining knowledge and not for just results.\nBelieve in yourself- not because of your past but because of your learning abilities.\nThen don't go for big-big books at a go. Go step by step. Start learning from the bottom.\nDon't worry what others do or say. Instead of your marks, watch for the mistakes you have committed, and try not to repeat them.\nLastly don't compare the marks. I have seen a lot of people who even remember numericals.
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Re-evaluate your self-esteem for starters. \n\nWhat do you mean by too big? If they are within normal limits, as in...not elephantitis or something...then you really need to focus on your ego.
792490
Get a diary. Make two columns. In one columns, write about things you love or like about yourself and in the other, write things you would like to change or improve. Sometimes, it is surprising that we find a quality that we think is endearing but we still want to change it like helping out others. Everytime someone I helped talks rudely to me or says or does something bad about me, I feel like giving it up but then I find, it is the quality that makes me a better human being than I otherwise would be. SO, I choose to keep it. Hold on to such qualities. Work on other qualities one by one. Do not try to do it all at once. Prioritize. Start with one thing and work on it until it changes for better such as reducing weight is my top priority now. Next thing will be to make my verbal skills in English better. You have to choose your own priorities. Once you think, you have done enough, move on to next thing. Don't try to be perfect for it will take a lifetime but do enough to satisfy yourself. Make a goal that if I reach this level, I will move to next thing. Highlight your accomplished goal with golden marker for that is an achievement. Hope it helps.
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Simply believe in yourself. You could do anything just as good or better than any other person, if you really wanted to.\n\nTake TV commercials for example, you've seen some pretty stupid ones before, right? And you probably thought, "I could do a better job than that!"\nAnd more than likely, you could!!\nAnd so it is, with most everything.
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You should keep in mind that there are a lot of people who are much much more worse off than you! Think about what you have, not what you don't!
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The best way to deal with such ppl is to hurt their ego....... a simple ignore will hurt their feeling of superiority....... make them feel as if their existence doesnt matter to u
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You obviously have some 'better' you in mind. What you need to do is close in on that person. And you do it the same way you do a great many things. You try. You fail. You think about it and next time do something different. Eventually you fail less and suceed more.\n\nThere is no one solution to all that you don't like about yourself. Some things you will get used to, some things you will change over time and some things you will never like, but will be unable to change. This is what makes people interesting, this variety, the many facets that make a human gem catch the light.
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Weakness is all in your head. Become more self confident, and you will be a stronger person.