She is quiting her studies just to know that wheter i will remain same for her not? wat i have to do.?
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Whoa... well i think you should really talk about it! I know college is a toooon of money, so if she wants to give it all up...counseling?
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Tell her it's a lot easier than going to college!\n\nSmileyCat : )
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Dear Sobby, Your question lacks some information. I would need more info to answer honestly and effectively, like why did you break up? How long were you together, and how long have you been apart? But vaguely i can tell you that if you are sure she is not interested in you anymore then you should move on, There are plenty of "fish in the sea" and hurting your self will not accomplish anything but getting yourself hurt. It will not make her feel any different.  As far as concentrating on your studies, it is imparitive that you keep your thoughts on them as much as possible. If you fail at this it could cause a chain reaction in your life that will cause you to fail at other things, and will also make you feel like hurting yourself even more. You seem like an intelligent person, so you should act as you are and move on.  If she doesnt' want you, find someone else, Its not easy, but it gets easier with time.
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She is changing, it has nothing to do with you. I know it hurts for her to just move on without giving you any reason for leaving... now is the time to concentrate on your needs and finding things to enjoy on your own! You'll meet new people and make lots of friends!\nLet her make her back to you, if she contacts you, be polite but not TOO friendly! If she thinks she doesn't have to put any effort into the friendship- she won't. She needs to work for your time as much as you have worked for hers. Right now she's putting that energy into other people, and they probably are enjoying her efforts. \nLet this time be of good use to you, it may be lonely at times, but you have us here at Answers, and there's a big world out there to explore.\nBe brave dear, and let her go for the moment.\n\nBest wishes! - J
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tell her its your life and you'll run it the way you want to.Your education is the most important thing in your life and when people drop out they tend to regret it later on in life.I'm a student myself and if mom ever said drop out I'd love to,but I'd still say no to it because I want a good,proper education.So tell her you don't want to and she should be supporting you and not turning against you.
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TFigure out why she is leaving you and if you know why try and fix it. But if she is hell bent on leaving you'll have to let her go because if she stays and is miserable it will only last for a short time. Talk to her and try to work it out but unfortunately this might be the end. If you really love her you wouldn't want her to stay with you if she is unhappy.
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Sorry dude, if she's made up her mind to be gone for good, she's gone.  I would move on....who knows, down the road if you're still available, she might come back??!!  Good luck.
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move on with your life and pray for her.
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Respect your friend's wishes to make these changes for a while.  \nMaybe she is moving on and maturing in a new relationship.  \nYou are still her friend unless you choose not to be. Be there and show your true friendship and support, and let HER know you are waiting for her on "The other side".  All you can do is be a friend.  You cannot live your friend's live.  Good luck and find some new 'cool' friends if you are bored.  Don't let yourself be too closed in in your thinking; and broaden your friendship base, so that when one moves on, you have others to enjoy.\n\nYou can still like this person for who they are, not what they do or don't do.
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You aren't.  You've done your job.  If she is 26 y/o, living with you and disrespects you, it's time you sit her down and let her know if she doesn't change her attitude, she's going to have to leave.  I can understand if she was a teen, but she's a grown woman and she needs to start acting like one.
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Tell her that you appreciate her concern for your well-being (assuming that this is her 'intent'), but that there are some things in life that you need to handle on your own.  Perhaps ask her if she'd be willing to listen if you need a sounding board.  That might make her feel that she's still useful.
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I don't know what the hell Sanet is talking about, but it is very considerate that you thought about her in this decision, but the only way for you to truly find out is to sit down and talk to her about it. Maybe you all can come up with some sort of agreement. And if she agrees it gives her time to find a job out where you were transfered.
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Well after so much of persuading and convincing if she still blows you off, I think there is just one answer-She doesnt know what she wants! My suggestion is move on, if she cared as much as everyone says she does, she would have done something about it by now.\nThe last thing that you need is an undecided woman, especially if you going off to college soon.\nSorry, you in this situation......
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Sorry, about your mom. You must help her, but not only that you must be with her all the time and she must know that she can rely on you. Tell her that you love her - that is the most important, she must know you still care about her, and can be a good stimul for her to quit!
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I guess when you realise that what you have now isn't the same as when it started and it isn't something you want anymore. Just break it to her honestly, but don't be brutal. And that public place thing? It really is a good rule of thumb if you just want to get out of there, but if you live with her or still want to be friends, sit down and talk it out (even though she might do most of the talking about mean stuff) good luck and I hope all goes well.
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Okay, as far as school goes, go to the admin office and fill out a withdrawl form and have instructors sign, this way you are "withdrawling" instead of dropping out and you will not be put on academic probation...hopefully it's not to late to do this.  As far as your girl, apparently she thinks your world should revolve around her.  Does she not realize the struggle that's going on at home?  Set down with her and show her why you're working so hard and long.  Don't apologize to her for trying to keep the wolves away, maybe she needs to be put in your situation and see how she would handle things.  Ask her if she's giong to school any more, and if not ask her if she's planning to take on more hours (if she's not working full-time) to help with the bills and to take some pressure off of you.
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Good luck with that, I was in the same situation, all you must do is to tell her how you feel, if that dosn't change her ideas about you, then ur screwed.