UPDATE INFO Falling head over heels in love!?
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Hmmm...I can not advocate that cheating on your husband no matter what the circustances are is right because if you are unhappy you at least owe it to him to voice your emotions and to move on. Just because you don't have a good relationship does not mean that his feelings should be neglected just to satisfy your own. Since you two have been together for quite some time don't you think that you owe him that much to be honest? You say that he treats you badly and that you are unhappy but I'm sorry that doesn't justify your cheating in anyway especially considering that you have no children involved that might cause you to be stuck in staying. As for the guy that you are seeing now, maybe you are in love and perhaps a future with him will be great but you are more or less in that fairytale stage of a relationship where they can do no wrong and this will fade. If this is something that you honestly feel is worth pursuing in order to make yourself happy then go for it by all means. Just remember that your happiness does not need to be based on a man and that you can find it yourself no matter what the outcome. I think that the betrayal and hurt is going to be worst for your husband who has no idea of what is about to surface and that for you it might be hard but that you'll make it since you have realized that this marriage is no longer what you want. I'm in no way trying to put you down or belittle you for your actions because it happens to the best of us since we are all only human but I would definitely consider your situation a little further and make sure that this guy just doesn't look like a better option because you dont really have the repsonsbilities and obligations that you share with your husband. There are no stings attached at this point with this new guy so it makes it all light-hearted and fun and if you do both embark on a relationship (especially a long distance one) there will be difficulties that will eventually come along. I would suggest taking some time out for yourself once you get a divorce and not rush into anything too quickly. I think that you need to hash out somethings with yourself instead of seeking comfort from a man that is merely supplying what is lacking in ur current relationship. Obviously if you decided to get married to your spouse, these feelings at one point or another were there with him and look at what has become of that. I think you need to just really spend some time with yourself and getting to reaquainted with your independent single self before finding an identity in someone else. I'm sure you are a good person and I hope that whatever choice you make that you will find the happiness that you seek. Just remember the feeling of everyone else involved and don't let your heart do all of the thinking for you during a time when you need to use your head. Best of luck to you:)
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my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)
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Anticipation of the big release!
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Awww that's so sweet. sounds like love to me!! good luck to you in your relationship.
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Yea!!I am glad to see your moving on a little bit.  For the record I am not frustrated with you, nor the all knowing one...I think you are cute! I can tell by your questions you are overly causious.  I just feel pulled to encorage you to move it up with this gentleman.  Time goes by too fast and I hope you give him that look or tell him that it is time to take you out...I would take you out sight unseen and I have no Idea who you are.  So just do it girl!
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well it's my bf birthday on the 3rd of june and that's the day we come back from holiday so we can't really do anything but the week after on the saturday i have booked the double double deluxe room for us for the weekend in the hilton hotel, he doesn't have a clue and it's killing me not telling him! i can't keep secrets! and he thinks i'm just taking him out for a nice meal in a restaurant! i can't wait to see his face!!\nBut it's worse not telling him because i have to try and keep it quiet until then which is 3 weeks time, ssooooo long away!!!!!! omg that feels good to tell someone\nthanks
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uu complicated i am going through almost the same thing. Be straightforward and ask if there are any problems or issues going on! or you can wait it out! Life is all about "Pick & Choose"
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Happy!!!! and excited!
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I think you are really sweet! Jeez, I wish my guy was that sensitive. I am betting she loves you the way you are, and I wouldn't really change anything. Just tell her what you told us about what is in your heart!!
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Well my lady and i are into our 10 month and we met when i saw her across the mall.I have never walked up and introduced myself like that before,but i had this urge that couldn't stop.\nWe are soul mates,and are happier with every day that passes.I am glad that you have found love,and as you can tell from your own experience that it is possible.
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it lasted two seconds (i realize this now because i can compare it to other kisses i've enjoyed) but i literally lost ALL sense of time and space. she was (and still is) my dream date; after we pulled away the first words i said were, "that did not just happen." because it was TRULY UNBELIEVABLE. It happened when, where, and with who I wanted. SPECTACTULAR! We're still dating, and that even was a while ago.\n\nYou'll never forget it, especially if the conditions are JUST RIGHT!\n\nwhee! now i'm feeling all romantic!\nhappy valentine's!
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2 weeks from today!!!!
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Get ready for an odd little story! I was the member of a Star Trek fan club - the president of it, in  fact. After being contacted via internet & phone by this "nice, young, man" (I'm older), he walked into my house about a week later for a meeting. My very first thought when I saw him was, "Doesn't he have the most adorable smile? Too bad I'm not younger." In the beginning, I wouldn't even consider thinking of him in a romantic way. This, of course, changed over time...\n\nLong story short, being older made not a difference in the world & we have now been married for over five years. We're deliriously happy & oiur families have finally come around to the realization that we were meant to be together :)
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im in love with him!!!!!!!! i like him with drew...wedding singer and 50 1st dates
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Hi there...let me tell you my story...we met with my hubby on internet 4 yrs ago. We fell in love with each other the first time we spoke to each other, without even seeing a picture! We knew each other only through Yahoo Messenger (thanks Yahoo!:)) and we made that big STEP.I decided to get documents (I am from Europe) and come over.Nobody in my family knew,but my mother.Imagine meeting at Philly airport, among all these strangers....that kiss was the best kiss in my life...but going home after a wonderful week...was heartbreaking. I thought I would die...we realized we could not be without each other....and we are still deeply in love....He is the best what happened to me, however, I am realizing, how fortunate I was, someone up there was really watching out for me....so....If I may, I am strongly suggesting, meet in the USA. If he really cares, he will get the visas, be careful...AIDS, money, credit cards etc...sometimes it is better to keep that relationship as is...friendship...your heart must know....but don't forget the brain...who knows, there might me a reall Mr. Wonderfull waiting for you around the corner and you don't even know about it....internet love seems to be so romantic and exciting, but yet, so dangerous and risky....please think twice...you might not be as lucky as I was....
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I love real people! Congradulations on your engagement!
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ok sweety, don't worry right now, if your b/f is being honist with you right now, he will be in the future aswell and that's great!! just keep in mind that if he is being honist with you now he loves you and well be happy you are loved\nbtw is your name david?