why do women always go for jerks?
351341
Too much stereotyping here. Women don't ALWAYS go for the jerks. I sure as heck don't. if he is a jerk I will point him the other direction and make him leave. \n\nThere are men out there that are wolves in sheep's clothing(my ex for example) he treated me like a queen before we got married After we got married he became abusive. \n\nGuys are not going to be jerks when you first meet them. They are cunning. A lot of them start acting up once they know the girl is hooked to them. the girl is so involved with being "in love" with the guy that she cannot see that he is being a jerk and treating her badly. Of course the girl is going to blame herself sometimes because the guy has her convinced its her fault or it can also be low self esteem issues that cause this or the girl is so relieved she has a guy she just doesn't care and she is afraid that there is nobody out there better. \n\nThere are nice guys out there, they are very hard to come by and to say start dating nice guys is easier said than done. BELIEVE ME. You have to work very hard at it \n\nI know some ladies that are quite vicious as well and really it has been found that the women are worse than the men.
586881
THANK YOU!!Women are constanly saying they want the nice guy but the nice guy get's nowhere.What's up with that?
152700
r girls always b1tches or can they be sweet and not ask questions about guys always being jerks?\n\nYes, I took offense to the question.
698383
Because women are typical.\n\nThey know they will marry the good guy, the sweet guy, who will have a good IT job, always provide for them and never cheat or leave em.  Knowing that's their fate they fight against it.\n\nThey hook up no matter how briefly with a loser or a creep who rides motorcycles or leather or whatever they perceive as a bad boy.\n\nPlus women tend to be quite delusional when it comes to their men.  They will never accept what their friends and family are saying and why she needs to leave that creep.  Women are great at lying to themselves about seeing something in him that all of us have missed, that he really is changing or even just glossing over the bad parts and cherishing the good times (as scant as they are).\n\nIt takes more courage for a woman to fight and want and be patient for a guy who will treat her like the queen she truly is then to be typical and idiotic and waste time with any guy who will treat her badly just because she's lonely or feeling insecure or desperately wants to be in a relationship.\n\nOurs is a world in desperate need of strong beautiful women.
218659
You understanding that everytime another jerk asks this question, women are less likely to ever be horny again, or ever tell a guy when they are. Thanks alot.
196699
Sadly, there are a lot of jerks out there.  Guy's play at love to get sex.  Girls play at sex to get love.  That's the way of the world I'm afraid.
503596
Because they don't want to be the 'bad guy' and do the breaking up. They are cowards who would rather the girl did the dirty work for them. \n\nActually plenty of women do this too.\n\nWould people please just be honest with one another about your feelings!
605748
Because they think they are God's gift to women. They also want to see how gullible girls are. Most guys who are trying to get girls to do things they don't want to do have absolutely no respect. They are users. The thing of it is most girls/women are a lot smarter than they think.\n\nDid I hit the nail on the head girls?\nG.G.
219814
That's a good question.  Probably because they are what I call complete "time-wasters"\n\nThey waste time, emotion, and mislead others into liking them bc it gives them a rush to know some guy is interested in her.\n\nMay I suggest you aim at older women... say around 30+ because they WILL talk and do much more and you know what? Those are the women that were once 20 and didn't talk bc they thought they were hot tamales and now their getting old, ugly & desparate.
1173056
It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.
1174429
Maybe it's because girls like that find really caring guys and take advantage of them, or treat them like they're not worth anything, so then those guys clam up and are afraid to trust anyone anymore, then the rest of us really caring girls, if we want any companionship at all, are forced to associate ourselves with those "jerks."\nIt's a vicious cycle.
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
1004802
I am totally on the same page!  I'm so tired of jerks.  Met a guy the other day, hot, seemed real nice.  He got my number, seemed real attentive.  Then he disappeared.  A girl was dancing like a stripper and he was all up in that!  Jerk.  \nI think the nice ones are too shy or already taken.
1131023
HEY THE GUY ALWAYS CAME FIRST,THE NICE GUY USUALLY GOOD LOOKING HONEST AND RESPECTFULL GETS PASSED BY FOR THE JERK WHO GETS IN THE GIRLS PANTS THEN KICKS HER TO THE CURB. SOME NICE GUYS WILL TAKE HER BACK EVEN THOUGH SHE IS TAINTED! HAS SHE LEARNED LESSON? NO  SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN.
1068899
Because a great many of them are Cocky and arrogant and come on women ..we can't seem to resist that hehe!
275322
to be fair, some women do the same thing.\n\nthe answer you're wanting to hear is because theyre all jerks with no hearts. The real answer is testosterone makes them do it.
521224
Because they are jerks!  They know not to mess with us when we are bitches.  I guess you'll just have to always be a bitch - then he'll always be nice.