What do you think about Gays and Bisexuals?
355073
I think they're people, just like the rest of us.\n\nI don't subscribe to the homosexual lifestyle but I don't think it's wrong for someone to have a relationship with someone of the same sex.  \n\nYou don't pick your sexual orientation and love is love.
964203
ill admit curious but not gay. right now im gonna stick by kkkjewhaters side. but when i turn gay (if i ever do) ill let you all know. im not the "hide in the damn closet forever" type.
1148111
almost everyone is bisexual in nature, whether it's 50%straight-50%gay, 90%straight-10%gay, 95%gay-5%straight, 99%straight-1%gay or 80%gay-20%straight.   it can be any combination of numbers.
873254
Think of it as a whole spectrum, not just 3 categories.  On one end of the spectrum, you have completely straight, on the other end, you have completely gay, but in between there are all sorts of levels of preference.  If you can be with a girl AND guy at all, you're bi, but you seem to prefer men; and that's fine.  I'm also bi but prefer men (and I married one).  By the way, once is "normal" for a guy, and anything more than that is impressive.  :)
193054
Gay people are human beings the same as the rest of us and we should not try to play God by judging what they do or who their with. A lot of great people have turned out to be gay, but that did not stop me from liking their acting or music. I have had some friends who turned out to be gay, but I did not stop being friends with them for that. If we were all the same in this world, then I think it would be a very boring place to be. If people would look beyond those types of things, then they would probably enjoy life a lot more. My motto is as long as they are not out trying to hurt someone else, then leave them alone and let them live their lives as they choose to!!!
1150103
Doubtless there are gays or gay friendly people who call themselves bisexual to suit the environment they find themselves in.   But that does not describe all of us.\n\nYes we do exist - and it's a shame that bi-phobic attitudes exist in the homosexual world, just as they do among the heteros.  \n\nSexual orientation ranges from the straightest straight to the gayest gay.  What else do you call those of us who fall in the middling range?
229551
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH MEN OR WOMEN BEING BISEXUAL. IT IS THEIR LIFE AND THEY ARE HAPPY. SO WHAT IS THE BIG DAMN DEAL. DO YOU. WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY.
896353
I'm not willing to say that most of them are, but I'm sure they make up a substantial chunk of the pie chart. Why else would anyone be so preoccupied by the subject?\n\nI've noticed that several people now have called this question homophobic. Why do you think that noting that some very narrow minded homophobic people might really be gay is derisive to gay people? Do you think that's a nasty word? Do you think it's mean to say the word homosexual? It's not. That's pathetic. Gay people have every reason to hold their heads high. \n\nWhat the asker is asking us to confirm is whether we've noticed that there are groups of people with very questionable opinions about homosexuality that may be reacting to their own sexuality like it's dirty, which is painfully funny, because only a sadist would pick a faith where the way they came from "God" is a cross that they must angrily pretend not to bear until they die -- and yes I have noticed.\n\nNow will all of you get off this "what's wrong with that?" business?
624715
I think it depends a lot on where you are and who you talk to. In a large city, the odds are that there will be a lot of people who have no problem with homosexuality or bisexuality. In a more rural area, however, all bets are off. Also, the coasts (in America, at least) tend to be much more open-minded towards gays and bis than the mountain and midwest states are.\n\nAs to whether people find bisexuality more acceptible than homosexuality, that depends a great deal on the individual. For most conservative Bible-thumpers, it's not going to matter much whether you also have an interest in women; as long as you like men you're a wicked Sodomite. For more moderate straight people, it might be viewed in a more positive light. If you at least still like the opposite gender, you still make 50% sense to them. And generally people who are supportive of gays will also be supportive of bisexuals.\n\nOne place you might actually get less support than you might hope is the gay community. A certain percentage of gays and lesbians (by no means a majority, but enough to be unpleasant) believe that bisexuals are just homosexuals who haven't fully come out of the closet. Another, similar, belief is that bisexuals are just straight people who are trying to be cool (which is pretty ridiculous; it makes about as much sense as the people that say homosexuality is a choice). The majority of gays and lesbians will likely be supportive, though.\n\nIn some ways, bisexuals can get the short end of the stick when it comes to attitudes, because they get attacked by both straights and gays who can't understand the concept of liking more than one gender. But it really is a very individual thing. Some straight people (myself, for example) will have no problem with it, others will hate you. And the same is true, unfortunately, of gays. Also, bi women tend to get more respect from straight people than bi men. Chalk it up to sexism.\n\nI don't want to make it sound bleak. The majority of people in most places aren't going to give a damn either way. And in a way, it doesn't really matter. You are who you are. If you experiment with guys and you decide that you are bisexual, then it doesn't matter what other people think of you, it won't change who you are. Pretending to be something or someone you are won't help anything in the long run. Life's too short to spend it lying to yourself or others.\n\n"This above all: to thine own self be true."
183623
When I was about 13, I started being attracted to girls. I thought I might be a lesbian for awhile. I had never even heard of bisexuality and I thought I was the only person who was attracted to boys AND girls.
201714
that is what is called bisexualtiy. you are sexually attracted to both men and women. A homosexual is attracted to people of the same gender, a heterosexual is attracted to people of the other gender, bisexuals are attracted in some degree or another to both genders.
1087597
I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
970024
I know a lot of people who are Gay and in the closet.  It truly is sad to think that society will not accept someone becuase of their sexual preference, or gender expression.\n\nBe supportive and understanding.
469904
Sounds like YOU think so...........personally I think it's gross to be bi.......be homo or hetero.  Being bi is like being a cat....they will rub up against anything for attention.
698974
I wouldn't say I'm proud to be gay(bi in my case), I'd say I'm proud of who I am.  Sexuality is only a part of that, not the whole.\n\nAlso, who told you it was a choice?  I was born bisexual, and I will always be bisexual.  It's the way I am.
1124656
Have you guys ever heard of the Kinsey scale I am a 3 on that scale so I am in the middle I am attracted to both sexes and it is both a blessing and a curse. I can find pleasure in the mainstream but at the same time I am discriminated against by both sides of the fence. I am constantly being told that bisexual is just a stop on the way to gayville, and that I am undecided. Well you know what I didn't decide to be this way it is not a choice. I am the way god made me. I desire my wife and yet I also desire men. Why would I chose to be this way. Or if I was just gay why would I be able to find such joy in sex with my wife. I love her and chose her yet still desire to be with a man. That part of me is unfulfilled because I made a vow to be true to my wife. I hope that just one of you people that read this understands how it feels to be denied and questioned by both gay and straights. I am sorry didn't mean to get on a soap box but as a gay person it makes you guys angry when straights ask why you chose to be gay or says that being gay is wrong. And that god didn't make you gay. It feels the same way when a gay person questions if we are truly bisexual.\n\nYenko I love your response I wish I could talk to you.
1159772
bi\n\n\n\ni have found a girl attractive & visualized myself having sex with her but it seems like u have REAL feelings for her especially since ur thinking about her day & night.\n\n\nand if u stop having feelings for men, then ur gay.