i cant trust people why is this ?
355567
trust maybe lost if someone you know quite well has let you down, or if something you werent happy about that happened to you, there are different levels of trust, depends which you lack, if perhaps your boyfriend two timed you, you would find it hard to trust again, if you were assaulted or similar, it would be hard to trust again after that.\n\nor perhaps someone has lied to you, that can also shatter trust, if you have some idea of which trust you lack perhaps someone can give you a more in depth answer.\n\nif something has happened to you, in which you dont trust many people, accept what has happened to you, and try and realise not everyone has or will act that way towards you again, if its boyfriend or friend issues or parent issues, they have to earn trust, best way is to tackle it, identify your specific need. perhaps you are just insecure and you feel everyone is lying to you.
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
197286
well if u have been screw over so many times it would be hard for u to trust anyone . but u will fine someone u can trust and who will be faithful to u it will take time k just hang in there it will get better soon
703384
some times you might have friends who told you man cannot be trusted but the reallt thing is you have try 1st before you jump to conclution.\n\naeeyo1314@yahoo.com
100620
I guess you have to ask yourself this. There are many degrees of trust you bestow on someone. How much trust or degree of trust are you willing to give that someone? Why do you have to trust someone so much that it hurts if they turn on you? I think it's just that you're a loyal person and in exchange expect the same from everyone else. Maybe it's time you look at trust as a courtesy you can give but not to  expect from your family or friends. Give trust to your soul mate. Your one and only TRUSTworthy person on earth!
106595
When you trust someone, it means you have a lot of faith in that person. As if you're friend was to pick up your boy/girlfriend and you get jealousy coming in, then you must not trust ONE of the two. \nOn the other hand you have physical trust. Like when you were little at the playground, Daddy says he's gonna catch you and you run scared. Being scared leads to not having trust in the first place. But if you jumped then you obviously knew that Daddy was gonna catch ya!
849290
well, it sounds like you may have committement issues. maybe you feel like you are unable to give someone your complete trust to. whatever the reason may be you may want to look into talking to a professional about this. You don't want to exit this earth and never truly knowing how to love someone unconditionally besides yourself that's not your blood kin. Good luck with this and I hope one day you open up and allow someone into your life.
61370
Trial & error. A lot of the time your intuition will steer you in the right direction. But you will never learn to trust 'til you give people a chance. You have to let your guard down some time or another.
596402
I am very trusting. I have a very open and undeceptive personality and I generally assume that those around me do too.  Obviously this is not the case.
138963
Well first you need to trust yourself. If you doubt something in you then that is just going to have you not trusting anyone ever again.
1010729
I'm going through a similar situation because of things I did years ago.  They never really trust you again. Not fully anyway.  It is always there, waiting for the opportunity to show up and force you to feel guilty about something.  I've been going through this for 13yrs.  It hasn't gotten any better.  Maybe you need to learn from your mistake and move on. I don't know why I stayed,but I wish I hadn't.
768436
I never trusted them to begin with.  \n\nThink how frustrating it is for me that so many others couldnt see what I could.
960205
hmmmmmmm....i dont i cant giv out trust to ppl no more cuz they just abuse the right of it
1041052
Because they are insecure. Do you give them a reason not to trust you? That's where questions usually originate in this fashion.
637856
Nothing is wrong persay....You are like me in a way....maybe your trust has been broken to the point where it is very difficult to feel like trusting....trust me (lol) I know where your coming from. Remember to take your time with a possible solistice mate.....Trust will be there.  You do have to take a risk and not run away once in a while...Risk is what the "Game of Looooooooovvvvvvvvveeeeeeee" is all about.
658507
well i think if you get hurt bad enough it just takes time you have to take risks and trust someone again and again until it becomes easier you may get burned here and there but you have to get past it. It just isn't fair for everyone around you to be judged by your fears of being hurt - sometimes you can push people to do what you are afraid they'll do by insinuating it or you will miss out on a lot of good times because you are afraid to get too close You are damaging your life by being unable to trust Just get over the past and trust little by little . . .good luck I AM STILL WORKING THROUGH THE SAME ISSUES but i have learned that you can hurt the people you love by not giving them your full trust you just have to learn to risk it . .
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You can't rely on other people to make you happy, because you can only rely on you.  You need to be happy within yourself before you can bring other people into your life.  The people who gravitate towards you are probably users because they can sense your desperation to know someone good, and most users are wonderful actors.  Take some time away from people to work on yourself, and then be choosy about your friends.\n\nPS:  Church people aren't any better than regular people.  Some of the most hateful people I know I first met in a church pew.