im begging time of my bf, but he has a lot of reason not to ,,,, what do u think?
338287
Look dear, if you are planning marriage to this man, think again.  If you have to beg for his time now, it will get only worse.  After marriage, when you have children, bills, mortgages, a yard to keep, finances to manage.  \nYou shouldn't have to beg for your man's time, if he doesn't give it willingly he isn't the man for you.\nI wish you well and I pray you will find the man that you don't have to beg for anything!
1088829
Sometimes a significant other needs to understand that there are two important people in a relationship, not just one.  If he is a worthy boyfriend he will find a matue way of accepting your needs and desires, even if those needs slow him down a little.  It's certainly not an unreasonable request you have.  Reading between the lines of your letter (if that's possible) I sense that between the two of you, you tend to give more importance to the other person's ego, needs, etc, than your own.  Men can sense that and men will take advantage of some ladies if you continually put him first and you last.  I would rethink your positioning in the relationship and not feel guilty about imposing you own rules, desires, comfort level needs.
63313
U should be glad he isnt the partying type. Do you know how many ladies would love that. Is there more to this than you're saying? Or do you think maybe you're being a little insecure. You have to realize he needs his space such as you do. Its not good to be around each other all the time. Make him miss you.If the realationship is strong, him going to a party should in no way pose a threat to your relationship. Give him the benefit of the doubt. You should go out w/ some friends or do something when he goes out to take your mind off it.
771795
I make this short and sweet. If your bf can't and won't wait than maybe he's not the one for you. Find someone who can respect your morals and most of all someone who can respect your body.
1058388
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
1168288
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.
727385
Don't beg or plead, you are much better than that! Let him go if he wants to go, he's the one who's going to miss out not you. PLus you are a nice caring young girl who had her whole life ahead of her. You don't need that b.s. in your life!! Find someone better!! Someone that is going to appreciate you and treat you like a PRINCESS!! Good luck and I hope that you find someone MUCH better! =)
449160
I'm not like miss conservative, but I don't see the harm in waiting a little bit longer to see where you two are in another month.. but it really is a personal decision.. and since you are asking here, I am guessing yuo aren't ready and he is?  Be careful, only do what YOU are willing to do without pressure from anyone.  That's very important for your self-respect.  ok?  Best of luck to you!
1082902
ok what this sounds like to me is that this guy is a real selfish jerk! When you really like someone you are never too busy for them. Think about it this way, he cant be so busy that he cant take at least 10 minutes out of his day to give you a call and say hi or 1 minute to send you a textmsg. Busy is a lousy excuse.I mean when you really like someone im sure you're never "too busy" to think about them. If he thinks about you so much he wont wait a week to call you. Stop trying to figure him out you're only gonna be wasting your time. You deserve so much better than a jerk who is supposedly "too" busy!
1161814
Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
1133062
you are getting to know the real him.. sound like he works alot and might be stressing so that's normal .. you need mo make time for each other no work or friends just the 2 of you. you will see we will start to want up to you the way you want him to. but it take hrs to get your head out of your work obligations and some times weeks were it just one big long day..
840693
The fact that you said you "have" to buy him a present makes it sound more like an obligation than something out of the heart. How about just spending time together? That beats everything. But that's just me.
99902
COMMUNICATION... Let him know what you want out of the relationship. After all, you don't want to waist your time,or his. Then again, who cares about his?
329136
No he is not using you maybe he would like to work things out but that's up to you. If this gets on your nerves ask him to stop.
274333
THAT JUST DEPENDS ON YOU!! IF HE DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR YOU NOW THEN IF U WERE TO GET MARRIED WOULD HE HAVE TIME FOR YOU THEN!! DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF UR LIFE BEING 2ND OR 3RD OR EVEN 4TH IN HIS LIFE!!IF HE REALLY NEEDS YOU THEN HOW COME HE NEVER HAS TIME FOR YOU THAT IS WHAT I WOULD ASK HIM!!!
421430
Why not! but be aware he is not very quick on the uptake, do you want to be in control? because you will be.\nGive him one chance.
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.