what do i do about my brother's new girlfreind?
355523
I cetainly wouldn't tolerate anyone going thru my things, I'd call her on that one, but as far as playing the big Sister role...she just may think because you are surrounded by brothers, you may want the "sisterly" advice...once you set her straight on the privacy issue, and she continues to "snoop", THEN tell your Bro, he wouldn't want your friends going thru his stuff either....as far as the "big sister" role goes, that probably won't last too long... and she may not either, chances are if she's annoying you this much already, she's probably annoying your other brothers in some way or another as well.....
440340
she is still in love with her ex...she can lie as much as she wants but she still does. it is possible that she loves your brother too... but if she is still wearing the ring she still loves her ex...just because the guy cheated on her, doesn't mean all the feelings she had for him left. make sure your brother is totally 100% sure he wants to be with someone who is still in love with someone else. i don't think that chick is ready to move on even though she has. maybe you should sit her down and have a lil 'talk' with her...good luck..:)
954789
Well, I read the follow-up question (at least, I think that was you), and gave this some thought. Not that I know the answer, but here are things to consider:\n\nHow close are you to your step-sis and half-bro? Can you talk to your step-sis calmly, tell her you know she suspects you're having a relationship with her boyfriend, but you really don't find him attractive - you only tolerate him for her sake - and then, if she accepts this, ask your half-bro if she can come?\n\nIf not (or if she won't accept it, or your half-bro is determined she shall not attend), then when your step-sis asks, you tell her that you're going to your half-bro's. When your step-sis asks "what about me?" or words to that effect, you tell her "you'll have to ask our half-bro."\n\nThen you tell him, and his mom, that you know your step-sis is difficult, but you love her, and you love them all, and you aren't getting in the middle of this.\n\nThen you  back out.\n\nBecause it's up to him and his family who they invite into their grandma's house (it's technically up to his Grandma who's invited). It's also up to them to tell your step-sis why she's not invited, if they choose to do that.\n\nUnfortunately, family tensions do arise from time to time, but you can't control what other people think/do/say - so all you can do is be honest with kindness, try not to make things worse, and let people work things out for themselves. \n\nIf you get between people (for example, trying to explain to your step-sis why half-bro doesn't want her there), you'll end up building up the problem (the more people involved in a problem, the bigger it gets), and eating dirt from both sides for Thanksgiving. Good luck!
1085001
she is his sister. and you need to realize that. i have a brother who is not even a year older than me. and we are best friends. he dated one of our friends and it drove her crazy when we would hang out. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to sleep with his sister, leave you for his sister, run away with his sister. because she is . . . his sister. you never know she probably feels threatened by you for taking away her older brother. . . and only blood relative. you need to try and not be selfish, and just realize that it is pretty unfair to expect someone to put all of their love into one person. maybe let him know you are feeling a bit neglected. but don't make him give up his relationship with his only sister.
681850
If your brother likes her then let him do it let it just go with the flow. Don't rush things or your going to mess it up for him.
1089742
Why would you do that? Is she taking up all his time? Are you jealous? Maybe you know something about her and you dont want your brother hurt. Whatever it is back off, its his life let him live it.
276610
If I were you I'd talk to your girlfriend about it see what she thinks.  She could get her brother to back off.  If not u may get the hell out of there.
247732
What would you do if she were any other woman?  She's apparently willing to disregard your relationship, so you shouldn't be hindered by it in your response to this. \n   \nTell your husband, first of all, that you have noticed this.  The way that he's responding to her advances is much more important to you than the fact that she's making them, and probably the smoothest way to make her stop is to have your husband deal with it.  He needs to tell her something like, "I'm sure you didn't mean anything, but I'm uncomfortable with some of the things you've done and said lately.  It's important to me that my wife doesn't get the wrong idea, so I think we should not be quite so friendly."  If he won't do this, you have another problem altogether.  \n\nIf your husband talks to her and she stops, then consider the situation over.  You've made sure your marriage is taken care of; if you keep eyeing the woman suspiciously, or if you tell your brother anything, then you're just meddling in somebody else's marriage.  \n\nIf your husband talks to her and she doesn't stop, you need to confront her directly.  Odds are that will get back to your brother anyway, but if her behavior continues after you have spoken with her, then you need to talk to your brother, too.  \n\nIt sure would be nice if you could resolve this and all stay friends, but if that doesn't happen, just remember that it's truly her fault, not yours.  She's the one throwing away your friendship right now.
307131
You know, I just love the way big brothers love their little sisters! Your sis must be upset, so give her a hug, make her a nice hot cup of tea (well, it needn't necessarily be tea- anything comforting will do!), tell her her boyfriend's a jerk, and try and cheer her up. I wouldn't suggest beating him up, because I don't think it's do anyone much good, to be honest! Just be there for your sister and give her a bit of advice. If she breaks up with him, then stick with her and help her meet some nice guys, when she's ready. If however, this guy who made her cry, harasses her in any way if she breaks up with him, then have a man-to-man talk with him and tell him to get lost. Don't worry; she'll be fine! All the best to you both!
444272
by not disrespecting another sister.  getting your own man and remembering what goes around comes around.  Why would you want to do that? We have such a serious problem with the whole cheating thing going on, that people are starting to think that it's ok, to the point of actually asking people on Yahoo.  I'm not trying to be disrespectful or condescending.  But shouldn't you give this young lady your utmost respect, (even if you don't know her), since you know this guy has a girlfriend. And "No", it doesn't matter to me if he likes you back.  You should be doing the sister a favor and pointing him right back in the direction of his girlfriend.
1088172
i am sure your brother knows she is a jealous controlling woman.  He just thinks he can't find another woman.  First get yourself plenty of girlfriends and have him come over to fix something at your place, then have them make a move on him. find him a job so he can rebuilt his confidence.  i can only tell you what people have done, i do not condome revenge. Post her picture on paper flyers printed from your computer and have her number on it. put it in bathroom walls of men restrooms. the post should read I am a xxx so please call me and tell me that i am....next get a calling card and use it on a payphone. have your girlfriends call her and tell her things. when you visit so they will not know it is you.... order pizza to her job or place and give her name. so they will ban her from recieving pizza from that place when she makes them deliver and loose money..... call mental institutions and ask them to send you literature to your home address for your personal problem, such as drug offender, prostition, depression and give her name and address instead of yours, call from a payphone so it wont come back to you...call the school where your child goes and cuss at the nurse or the secretary and give her childs name and her name and ask to hold meeting with the princilpe and ask for a confirmation letter send to her address and use her name, when she fails to attend , they will loose faith in her....
629221
Tell her how much you love her, a few good memories you both have together doing something as sisters, and how lucky her husband is to have her and if he screws up you'll kick his a$$!  You want to have a good one, but not long, something that drills the point home.  Make the husband feel welcome to the family though, because if not, it really affects your relationship with her...
547507
yeah dude thats totally wrong. u will get in trouble if either of them knows the truth than u r a goner man. so try to stop the attraction towards ur girlfriend's sister.
263501
Regardless of who does more, be mature about this and don't tell everyone or tease her about it.  I'm sure she is already humiliated and you don't need to permanently damage your relationship with your sister over it.
701798
don't let her bother you. if you were close to him he would be proud to recieve it. She should understand it's about him only.
390155
he may be sleeping with her brother.
922660
omg this was the exact same situation i was facing.. my last question was regarding this but the best frnd isnt such  a prob... if she is your best frnd then u shud knw how she will react and evn she should be encouraging if u let her know that this is wht makes u happy.. but dont wait others to tell her... but tell her once things are solidified.. just telling her that u like her bro might complicate things... as for him either u make a move or show interest in him or wait for him. i bet even he is scared of the whole sisters best frnd angle..