whats the best way to end a fight even when you know your right.?
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Just listen, don't say much unless you REALLY need to defend yourself. Wait till they cool down and THEN discuss your opinion. I've found this is the best way to handle this situation. Because after you let them cool down they are MUCH more likely to agree with you.
1148385
Be the bigger person and stop the silly war. Learn to "agree to disagree". Grow up
611747
Have someone slap you. Get a grip.
253724
You must first understand that like you, the other individual(s) also has a right to have an opinion and also defend it, however your might be the correct one.\n\nOnce you start believing this, you will never carry a baggage out of any argument as you will always end your argument saying, "Well its your opinion and I wont question that. But this is mine..". Trust me, in this way, you both will end in an win-win situation with least hurt to individual pride.\n\nAssuming you already carry a resentment, move away from your stand point and for the sake of argument, think you are wrong and what if he is right. Think what you would do. Probably the same as the other person would have. \n\nIf yes, well you have just released your resentment. If not, then talk to that individual NOT on the topic of argument. But the way the other person reacted to the disagreement. It will only increase a respect for you in that individual.\n\nAfter all this mumbo-jumbo, just follow the 4 steps as Mindful mentioned above.\n\nPeace\n\n.:Fishie:.\n\n.:Fishie:.
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The best defense is your mind.  Stay out of situations where the temper would escalate to violence.  If you use words and your brain, you can get out of almost any bad situation without coming to blows.  \n\nIf you absolutely *have* to defend yourself from imminent physical assault, remember that the law favors even-handed responses, meaning don't defend yourself with a deadly weapon unless you're threatened with one.
664464
Respect your friends\nRespect the teacher\nRaise your hand to talk\nTry your best\nFighting is never OK\n(I'm a teacher, if it matters...)
846205
yeah u have a right to be angry. at least u r not with him anymore and don't have to worry about any future outbursts from him.
870882
if you hear a fight call the cops so they come check it out. Keep calling so there is a written record.
1011889
just agree and say u were wrong. say u will never do it again. go with the flow. but other than that, you're completely fucked.
9154
Right in the middle of an "argument" jump in & point out to both of them that they fight & argue constantly. Point out the fact that it is very childish & how tired you are of it. Whatever the underlying problem is between them should/will surface....once that surfaces, it can be resolved & harmony restored.
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Do you want to be in a relationship where you always argue or just argue occasionally?\n\nIf you're not happy and fighting all the time just move on.\n\nIf you can do better you should.
766286
if you are any good at fight like a degree above black then you should start teaching your friends the word will get around trust me and local matches in martial arts if you are not taking now is a good time to start\nnow if it is you that wants to kick his buttt then you need to space youself from him
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Step up to the plate.  Approach your friend and admit to your own resposibility in the fight and then tell that person what you do/don't like about what happened.\n\nWhenever you have a fight with a true friend - always be sincere about your own participation and contribution to the fight.\n\nGood luck.
1000665
How about telling her that she was right?\nIt isn't specifically admitting defeat, but it would get the job done and open the conversation for you to actually say the thing that you want to say. Which is that you are sorry.
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Only you can know that for sure. id say get counseling, especially because of the arguing.
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Turn the other  cheek. Two wrongs dont make a right. \n\nA quote from President lincoln says "The best way to defeat an enemy is to make him your friend"\n\nif yr religious - Revenge is mine thus saith the Lord. or\nA soft answer turns away wrath\n\nhope it helps
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Hi try walking away when the fighting starts and cooling down, when you both have a minute 2 cool down try and talk about it this has worked for me and I think it can help you